October 2014 by Oregon Family Magazine

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Learning to PLAY and

PLAYING by Beverly Smith

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e were designed to move! Way back in the day, 1885 to be precise, the playground movement began as a way to counter the perception that urbanization was threatening American values of nation building and human development...the movement began with the sand gardens in Boston. And from there, sand gardens progressed from sand piles to equipment, gymnasiums, and sports areas. By 1900 the value of play areas was recognized. It was discovered that children in neighborhoods with play areas performed better in school, were less disruptive and were in better physical health. (Coakley J, Dunning E, Handbook of Sport Studies) Today, in 2014 we are facing another perception that has become a reality: the 21st century has the most sedentary lifestyle in our history and with the marginalization of physical education in schools, not only are American values being threatened, but the very health, welfare, and life span of our children. The importance of physical activity for children cannot be overstated in the 21st century. What we knew back in the 1900’s is what we know today: human beings were designed to move. The CDC (Center for Disease C ontrol) recommends that children get 60 minutes of vigorous exercise a day. Do you know how many minutes of physical exercise your child gets a day? 21st century research on the effects of physical activity on children has shown that an hour spent playing/

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exercising is not only important for your child to develop their physical & physiological systems to ensure a healthy, active, and productive body, but as importantly, physical exercise helps your child’s cognitive, intellectual, emotional, and social development. The research and evidence is incontrovertible: Time’s Health/Exercise/Fitness Magazine recently published (08/2014) an article that described the discovery, “for the first time ever, there is evidence that being fit can improve the speed and

connectivity of brain neurons in children....what the results show is that physical activity may be an important part of keeping children’s brains active and open to doing well in school as time spent in a classroom.” In John Ratey’s National bestseller, “Spark,” a chapter called “Learning,” highlights a class of students in Naperville who exercise 20 minutes prior to school and as a result, show heightened senses; their focus and mood are improved; they’re less fidgety and tense; and they feel more motivated and invigorated to learn.

Physical exercise and activity is essential for children and the earlier they start, the healthier and more capable they will be in all aspects of their education and life. So what can parents and children do given the landscape of our sedentary lifestyle and the marginalization of physical education in schools? Here are some active solutions to the movement revolution: First of all, as parents, strongly advocate for full time physical education in our elementary schools. Physical activity = Physical Literacy. • Physical Literacy means that a child can move their body confidently and competently. Like reading, writing, and arithmetic, the ABC’s of movement (Agility, Balance, Coordination, Speed) are learned optimally through ages 0 - 10. • Once learned, physical literacy becomes a competitive advantage, not just in terms of physical and perhaps athletic performance, but more importantly, it helps your child develop their full human potential and capital. Secondly, find time to play games with your kids outside. CONTINUED ON PAGE 3…

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kipper is a very handsome black/white male tuxedo kitty with a charming stubby tail. He is estimated to be about 5 years old, and loves to lounge in your lap and be petted and combed. Skip was found abandoned on a local farm, and when taken in to be neutered on a feral package (thus the ear tip) we discovered that he is a lover and not feral at all. He has tested positive for FIV (the feline immunodeficiency virus), but he is a healthy boy! Likely if kept as in inside-only cat, he will lead a normal life. The virus cannot be passed to dogs or people, and only to other cats through a deep bite wound. He is completely non-aggressive with other cats, but would be safest as an only cat. Won’t you give this special boy a safe and secure forever home? Skipper is now living at PETCO in Eugene. He is being sponsored by Main St Mini Storage. His adoption fee is $50 (which is strictly to help us cover our costs). He has been tested for feline leukemia – and is negative, neutered, and vaccinated. For more info, please call Beth at (541) 255-9296.

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continued from front cover… • Activities that focus on the FUNdamentals: running, jumping, hopping, skipping, tumbling, climbing, throwing and catching. Visit the pool for swimming lessons and water activities. • Old school playground games such as hopscotch, 4 square, tag, skipping rope, playing “catch,” and any small sided/modified games in the backyard can provide tremendous learning opportunities for physical literacy development. Thirdly, look to enroll your child in activities that help them develop their global physical, mental, emotional,and social development. Participation in many different age appropriate activities and sports helps children to develop to their full potential: academically, athletically, and socially. • Be cautious of specialization in one activity or sport too early: research shows that early specialization (before age 12) contributes to one sided, sport specific preparation; the

lack of ABC’s (see above); overuse injuries; and early burnout. • Children have optimal windows of opportunity for developing their agility, balance, coordination, speed, and flexibility - range of motion. The crucial periods of fundamental movement and motor skill development are prior to age 11 for girls and age 12 for boys. To find physical activities and sports that will create a positive learning environment for your

child, consider these core aspects of a program (from Designed To Move, 2012 Nike): • Age appropriateness: (fits your child’s physical, social, and emotional development) • Dosage and duration: maximum benefit for a group based activity is at least 60 minutes per day (this can include a variety of activities) • Fun - activity has to be fun; make sure to let your child have a say in what “fun” actually is • Incentives & Motivation: focus on “personal best,” verses winning or losing. Celebrate attendance, participation, and both individual group effort and progress Learning to play, and playing to learn helps children to develop a comprehensive and holistic foundation. Children who learn to love physical activity in all of its forms often grow up to be active adults and, active people in general, live longer, healthier, happier, and more productive lives. As Dr. Friedman, the director of the CDC reminds us, “Exercise and physical activity is the closest thing

we have to a wonder drug.” So let’s take back the playground and bring on physical education to keep our kids playing, developing, and having fun for an hour a day to keep the good doctor away! Further readings for background and ideas on activities for your family: www.activeforlife.ca www.canadiansportforlife.ca www.designedtomove.org Beverly holds a Bachelor of Science Degree in Human Performance from the University of Oregon (1988) and her level 4/5 National Coaching Certificate from the National Institute of Coaching in Victoria, British Columbia. She helped write the draft for Canada Basketball’s Long Term Athlete Development Plan (LTAD) and has done skill and coaching clinics in Canada, Italy, Jordan, and the US. Beverly also coached the Oregon Women’s Basketball Team from 2001 to 2009 and the Canadian National Basketball Team from 1997 through to the 2000 Sydney Olympic Games. She was elected to the Canadian Olympic Hall of Fame (2003), the Canadian Basketball Hall of Fame (2003), the Women’s Basketball Hall of Fame (2004), and the University of Oregon Hall of Fame (1992) Beverly is presently the Executive Director of Emerald KIDSPORTS.

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he new feature film from Marvel Comics, Guardians of the Galaxy, should have been called “The Shell Game” because it takes the entire first half of the movie to figure out where the plot is going and to identify all the villains. With only two exceptions, the main characters are all would-be murderers wielding enormous guns. When they’re not using automatic weapons to get what they want, the characters employ lasers, Tasers, knives, swords, electrified darts, and grenades to wreak havoc and increase the body count. Sprinkled through this militaristic mayhem is a bit of humor, but the wisecracks are quickly followed by brutally suggestive language

that teeters at the edge of PG-13. Although it’s a wildly popular summer blockbuster, this film isn’t for children. Its target demographic is teenage boys, and Marvel rewards them with two hours of non-stop violence, crude language, and re-

bellious behavior set to a rocking 70’s & 80’s soundtrack. The Guardians, a quarrelsome band of misfits, are thrown together after Peter Quill, the accidental leader, steals a mysterious silver orb. When they try to pawn the orb, they learn that it houses

a weapon which can destroy entire civilizations. After losing the valuable orb to Ronan the Accuser (remember this is based on a comic book), the Guardians are recruited by Nova Corps, the peacekeepers of the galaxy, to save the planet Xandar from annihilation. Of course, they accept the kamikaze mission and the ensuing

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etting dirty. Getting lost. Feeling cold. Falling down. Getting wet. Drowning. Yes, it’s true. All of these things can happen when you go outside. However, just like they say on Sesame Street, some of these things are not like the others. Some of these things are RISKS and some are DANGERS. So what’s the difference? A risk in nature is something obvious that a child can anticipate, evaluate in terms of his or her abilities, and decide whether or not to take. The consequences of taking a risk and “failing” to succeed are minimal. Attempting to cross a small stream on stepping stones, for example, and then slipping and getting wet, is not a big deal. A true danger, on the other hand, is something unseen or unfamiliar that can result in serious injury or worse. A steep drop-off on a mountainside hike, for example, is a huge deal if a child rushes toward it to take a look and falls over the edge. Kids may not recognize or see dangers in the wild outside and at a young age cannot clearly distinguish them from risks. We all have our own personal riskdanger meters with respect to the great outdoors. Some from the very beginning are risk takers who revel in edging ever closer to danger. Others start out, and remain, conservative in their tolerance of risk and acutely danger aware. Life experiences, as well, color our perspectives on these two things. How many limbs did YOU break as a child? Did you hike and camp, or did your family spend more time on other activities? Were your parents over-protective? Or did they lean toward the other extreme, and you had few or no boundaries? Clearly we all want our kids to stay safe and avoid real danger when they adventure outside, but what about taking risks? Are they worth it? Risks mean kids will probably get wet and cold, clothes may

get dirty, and knees will get scraped. An occasional wrist might even get broken. But here’s the thing: kids need to take risks. They don’t need to endanger themselves, but they do need to be challenged. When kids take reasonable risks, the benefits they experience are significant. In the words of Ken Finch, president the Green Hearts Institute for Nature in Childhood, “Children need risk. It is a powerful catalyst for growth that helps them develop good judgment, persistence, courage, resiliency, and self-confidence.” Kids who take reasonable risks actually learn better how to stay safe. They learn how to solve problems and make good decisions. And if they learn to recognize the difference between risk and danger when they’re young, they will be better able to make this distinction when they get older and it matters even more. So how can parents help facilitate beneficial, reasonable risks when they take their kids outside? Certainly, modeling them is a good start. Challenge yourself, have fun, and be adventurous without being irresponsible when you explore outdoors. Then encourage your kids to have age-appropriate nature adventures of their own that stretch them in healthy ways. Start by letting your kids play in the rain, go barefoot in the mud, and dig in the dirt. Dress them appropriately for the weather so you don’t worry so much, and invest in some sturdy play clothes (2nd hand is great!) that you don’t care about getting messy. Next, let your kids move on to balancing on fallen logs, making forts, and climbing trees. Be there to “spot” them as needed and provide guidelines if necessary, but let them do as much as they can on their own, thus developing their problem-solving and physical skills. (Check out Nearby Nature’s Learnscape outdoor classrooms for examples of fun natural challenges that

you can create in your own home space by sinking big “tree cookies” into soil, making balance beams out of logs, and providing natural building materials.) As they get even older, allow kids time on their own outside, let them climb higher, allow them to paddle further. Teens who get to take reasonable risks while adventuring on their own — bike riding, canoeing, hiking with friends, and the like —are less likely to feel the need to engage in truly dangerous activities that don’t include adults (think cars, alcohol, driving). In the end, taking risks actually promotes staying safe. Want to read more on the topic of risk vs. danger in nature? Then check out the books Last Child in the Woods: Saving Our Children from Nature-Deficit Disorder by Richard Louv and Let Them Be Eaten by Bears: A Fearless Guide to Taking Our Kids into the Great Outdoors, by Eugene author and high school teacher Peter Brown Hoffmeister. Both authors provide thoughtful advice as well as interesting data on this issue. The organization Children and Nature Network (www.childrenandnature. org/) can also provide recommendations for lots of good information and articles

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5 SUNDAY Girl Circus Presents “Witches”. See the 4th Kids: Charreria Rope Tricks. This week, celebrate Latino Heritage Month! Antonio Huerta will perform charreria rope tricks and share their history. Plus, get creative with Jessica Zapata of Eugene Arte Latino. Eugene Library, 2:30pm-3:30pm, FREE! Ph 541-682-8316 GO DUCKS! Weekend. One campus/Two museums. The Museum of Natural History (MNCH) and the Jordan Schnitzer Museum of Art (JSMA) offer free admission during U of O Ducks home games weekends. 11am-5pm, Ph 541-346-3024 Quilting in a Material Whirl. 10am-4pm, See the 4th

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12 SUNDAY Lane County Home Improvement Show. 10am-5pm, see the 10th Kids: Sol de los Andes. Make celebrate Latino Heritage Month with traditional Ecuadorian music and dance. Downtown Library, 2:30-3:30pm, FREE! Ph 682-8316

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The Magical Moombah! presents “Gloria’s Job Hunt!” Gloria finds people working at every kind of job you can imagine. Saturday, October 18th at The Shedd.

Oregon Soccer vs. Utah. Enjoy “Socc-toberfest” and Jr. Duck Night as the Ducks take on Utah. Papé Field, 4pm

Oregon Soccer vs.Colorado. Support your Ducks while helping to find a cure! “Kick for a Cure” night offers $1 admission for everyone wearing Pink. Papé Field, noon1:30pm Eugene’s Annual Clay Fest. 11am-5pm, See the 10th Emerald City Jazz Kings: “Come Fly with Me”. Jesse Cloninger and the Emerald City Jazz Kings in big band formation take on Sinatra and Basie. Definitely a show not to miss! The Shedd, 1:30-3:30pm, $18-36, Ph 541-434-7000

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National Fossil Day celebration. FREE! admission to celebrate this special day. Visit the “Explore Oregon” exhibit and check out the state’s most interesting fossils and more. Museum of Natural and Cultural History, 11am-5pm, Ph 541-346-3024

Harvest Tea at the Shelton McMurphy Johnson House. Celebrate the arrival of fall with a beautiful Harvest Tea featuring handmade seasonal savories, scones, and sweets paired with locally blended teas. 1pm, $30/pp, Ph 541-484-0808

Eugene Ballet Company Presents Cinderella, with live music with OrchestraNEXT at this stirring and beautiful production. Saturday, October 25th at the Hult Center.

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Loudon Wainwright III. Perhaps best known for his stint on M*A*S*H and that great ode to the open highway and Dead Skunk in the Middle of the Road. The Shedd, 7:30pm9:30pm, $24-32, Ph 541-434-7000

An Evening with Bob Welch & Friends: Stories, Songs & S’mores. Welch culls stories from his 40 years as a journalist that will tickle your funny bone and put a lump in your throat. Joined by a musical trio led by the Eugene Symphony’s Dale Bradley and other special guests to celebrate community, champion difference-makers, and honor the only culinary offering he’s adept at making: S’mores. Soreng Theater, 7:30pm, $27-35, Ph 541-682-5000

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19 SUNDAY GO DUCKS! Weekend. See the 18th Fall Bird Walk. Join Nature Guides Chris Roth and Julia Siporin for another monthly bird walk intended for people with all levels of birding experience, beginner to advanced. We’ll use vocalizations, habitat, and behavior clues for identification of fall residents and migrants. Mt. Pisgah Arboretum, 8am-10:30am, $0-5, Ph 541-747-1504

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Alasdair Fraser & Natalie Haas. Alasdair Fraser, long regarded as Scotland’s premier fiddle ambassador and the sizzlingly-talented young California cellist Natalie Haas continue to delight audiences with live performances. The Shedd, 7:30-9:30pm, $24-32, Ph 541-434-7000 Oregon Soccer vs. USC. Players will honor their “Most Valuable Professors” during MVPO night. Celebrate World Cup Night with international clubs and students. Papé Field, 7pm Lego Club. Come and have fun with Legos and Dupelos. Springfield Library, 2-4pm, ages 2-18, Ph 726-3766

25 SATURDAY Eugene Ballet Company Presents Cinderella. Eugene Ballet Company begins its 35th performance season with ballet’s epic story of transformation, Cinderella. Live music with OrchestraNEXT at this stirring and beautiful production. Hult Center, 7:30pm, $28-53, Ph 541-682-5000 Masquerade Ball. Come dressed in your masquerade attire and dance away the night with live music by The Deb Cleveland Band! (adults only) Sweet Cheeks Winery, 7pm, $25, Ph 541-349-9463 Nearby Nature’s Annual Haunted Hike! Wonder who’s tiptoeing through the treetops? Who’s crunching in the compost? If your kids like to pretend and they think night creatures are cool, then they’ll love Nearby Nature’s annual Haunted Hike. Pre-Reg suggested. Alton Baker Park, 5:30-9:00pm, Free-$5, Ph 541-687-9699

26 SUNDAY Eugene Ballet Company Presents Cinderella. 2pm, see the 25th Mount Pisgah Arboretum Mushroom Festival. A fun festival featuring several hundred species of local fungi, collected throughout Western Oregon; the largest display on the West Coast. Includes a plant sale, scarecrow contest, children’s activities, hayrides, craft vendors, food, cider, music, live music, wine and more. Mount Pisgah Arboretum, 10am-5pm, $8 (< 12 free), Ph 541-747-3817 Oregon Soccer vs. UCLA. This is Kidsports and Youth Soccer Day! $10 admission for all youth soccer teams participating in the post-game clinic with the UO players and coaches. Papé Field, 1pm

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28 TUESDAY Special Storytime at Springfield Library. Come in costume and join “Little Monster Bash”. Ages 0-6, Springfield Library, 7pm, Ph 541-726-3766 Flashdance the Musical. The uplifting and memorable tale of Alex Owens, a Pittsburgh steel mill welder by day and a bar dancer by night, who daydreams of one day becoming a professional performer. Hult Center, 7:30pm, $33-73, Ph 541-683-5000

Trick-or-Treat City Hall, Springfield City Hall and Library, 3-5pm, all ages, FREE! Haunted House for All Ages. A Haunted “Carnival” Theme House will be sponsored and held by Living Grace Christian Fellowship. All ages are welcome and the event is free. Living Grace Christian Fellowship, 6-9pm, FREE! (donations accepted), Ph 541-683-2662 Pinots and Pumpkins. (Adults) This Halloween join Noble Estate Winery and J Scott Cellars for an evening of fall magic. Award winning wines, live Blues, chocolate tasting, beer on tap, and a vintage Halloween atmosphere. Noble Estate Urban Tasting Room, 4 -9pm, FREE! Ph 541-3383007 Be sure to check out our listings for Camps, Classes, and Workshops at www.oregonfamily.com

29 WEDNESDAY Flashdance the Musical. See the 28th Chromeo, with Wave Racer Opening. The electro-funk duo Chromeo will perform in the Historic McDonald Theatre with Wave Racer opening at this allages show. McDonald Theatre, 8pm, $33, Ph 541-345-4442

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According to BCC Research, in 2012 alone consumers around the world purchased 238.5 million televisions, 444.4 million computers and tablets and a whopping 1.75 billion mobile phones. Most of us discard such items within three years of purchase.

laws, and several other states are considering similar legislation. Meanwhile, environmentalists continue to pressure Congress to consider similar legislation at the national level, given especially that Americans’ are the world leaders in generating e-waste. Additionally, many manufacturers are adopting voluntary e-waste recycling certification standards. One is the e-Stewards program, which helps those looking to dispose of obsolete electronics identify recycling options that adhere to high standards of environmental responsibility and worker protection. Another program, R2 Certification, run by the non-profit SERI, is supported by several large

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