“ I see that magic in my children’s eyes when they attend The Nutcracker and I’m so thankful that we are continuing the tradition of raising our family immersed in the performing arts.”
— Jennifer Martin presented by
This holiday season, Eugene Ballet brings the joy of The Nutcracker back to the Hult Center’s Silva Concert Hall for six dazzling performances. This heartwarming production, created by Eugene Ballet’s Artistic Director Toni Pimble, enchants audiences year after year with its vibrant storytelling, elegant choreography, and the music of Tchaikovsky, performed live by Orchestra Next.
Pimble’s beloved version of The Nutcracker has become a holiday treasure for the community, bringing the timeless story to life in a uniquely Eugene Ballet way. An audience member shared, “Go see this wonderful show! I haven’t been to The Nutcracker in years, and the performance, along with the live orchestra, actually made me tear up. I truly missed going to the ballet, especially this holiday treat! Thank you! Bravo!” The Nutcracker is a magical journey that fills the hall with warmth, nostalgia, and a sense of wonder for audiences of all ages to enjoy.
With more than 125 students from the Eugene Ballet Academy joining the professional company on stage, this production embodies Eugene Ballet’s commitment to creating, performing, educating, and inspiring through dance. Associate Artistic Director Jennifer Martin highlights how the academy dancers gain invaluable experience working alongside the professional company, learning the artistry and discipline required of a full-scale ballet. “The company dancers interact with the children, teaching them how to behave as part of a full, professional production,” Martin explains. “The students also get the rare opportunity to dance with a live orchestra.”
The familiar Dance of the Sugar Plum Fairy and Waltz of the Flowers set the scene for Clara’s adventure through the Land of Sweets, a dazzling kingdom filled with sparkling costumes, vibrant characters, and joyous celebrations. Before arriving in this magical realm, Clara witnesses the dramatic and heroic battle between the Nutcracker and the Mouse King—a thrilling confrontation that showcases courage, loyalty, and the ultimate triumph of good over evil.
“This is a family ballet that brings children, generation after generation, to spend a special time together,” Pimble says. With performances lasting about two hours, it’s the perfect length for children, and families with young kids can comfortably stay until intermission if needed. It’s a wonderful way to start or continue a family tradition. Tickets are in high demand, don’t miss your chance to experience the holiday magic for yourself!
Reserve tickets at eugeneballet.org or by visiting or calling the Hult Center Box Office at 541-682-5000. Youth and student tickets start at just $18, and adult tickets start at $25.
Our Contributors
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1. RICK EPSTEIN
A Dad’s Eye View contributor, also award-winning columnist, and journalist. Author of Rookie Dad (Hyperion) and The Right Number of Kids (McKenna Publishing Group). His wife and three daughters run a living laboratory in which he is constantly tested, analyzed, and experimented upon. It’s as if a guinea pig could write.
2. BONNIE HARRIS
Bonnie is Oregon Family Magazine’s resident Movie Review Master Extraordinaire. She enjoys watching movies of all kinds, and has been doing movie reviews for over 9 years and counting. She lives in Eugene with her family, enjoys gardening and cooking.
3. CHRISTA MELNYK HINES
Christa Melnyk Hines is an award-winning writer whose articles appear in publications across the U.S. and Canada. She is the mom of two techy teenage sons and a quirky shepherd mix. Connect with her at www.christamhines.com
4. KELLI MATTHEWS
Kelli Matthews is our gift guide reviewer extraordinaire. Sampling lotions, testing toys and sipping bubbly is hard work, but someone has to do it. When not compiling the best of the best to share with readers, she teaches public relations at the University of Oregon. Kelli lives and works in Eugene with her two boys and her high school sweetheart.
5. KERRIE MCLOUGHLIN
Homeschooling mom of five, serial volunteer, and freelance writer, Kerrie enjoys teaching,
traveling, and creating anything related to words. She loves to share her hacks and helps from being a mom for 23 years. You can find her online at The Published Parent. Current great-grandmother to nine Aussie puppies and basketball mom.
6. TAJ BARNHART MORGAN
Taj Barnhart Morgan is the Director of Content Strategy for Travel Lane County. A journalism graduate from the University of Oregon, Taj has two decades of special event management and hospitality marketing experience in San Diego, CA and Maui, HI. Passionate about mothering, and back to her Oregon roots, she is discovering the Eugene, Cascades & Coast region all over again through the eyes of her daughter.
7. BECKY RAINES
Becky Raines works as the Marketing and Business Assistant at the Museum of Natural and Cultural History. She loves being in the sunshine, pet-sitting, and talking to her houseplants. At the museum, you can find her watching the squirrels play in the Native Plant Courtyard.
8. RODDY SCHEER
Journalist and photographer specializing in environmental issues, the outdoors and travel. When he is not out in the field taking pictures, Roddy runs EarthTalk, the non-profit Publisher of the syndicated EarthTalk Q&A column and the EarthTalk.org and Emagazine
Oregon Family Magazine is distributed monthly in the greater Lane County area at over 150 high-traffic commercial locations.
What are some video games that educate young people about environmental issues?
— CONCERNED PARENT, SKOKIE, IL
S THE CLIMATE crisis gets more pressing, video games are emerging as powerful tools to educate young people about environmental issues. Games offer an interactive, engaging platform where players can explore complex challenges like climate change, conservation and sustainability. This trend harnesses the immersive nature of gaming to make learning more accessible and impactful, letting young players make decisions that mirror real-world environmental consequences of human actions.
One standout game in this genre is “Fate of the World” (available on PC and Mac), which places players in charge of managing the Earth’s resources and climate while addressing the needs of a growing global population. It highlights the difficulty of balancing development with conservation and emphasizes how every decision—whether political, social or environmental—has consequences. It fosters critical thinking by allowing players to test strategies, from
implementing renewable energy to enforcing strict regulations.
“Ice Flows,” available on iOS, Android and the web, focuses on the effects of climate change
on iOS and Android, in this game players control animals like rhinos and elephants, bringing attention to the ongoing threat of poaching.
dystopia caused by neglect, driving home the importance of individual and collective responsibility in addressing the crises.
“Fate
in Antarctica. Players simulate the behavior of Antarctic ice sheets and observe how climate change affects global Fate of the World sea levels. This game introduces young players to polar environments, offering a tangible way to understand the consequences of global warming in one of the world’s most vulnerable regions.
“Save the Rhino” tackles wildlife conservation. Available
This direct engagement with the animals themselves fosters empathy and a deeper understanding of the poaching crisis, showing players how conservation efforts can positively affect wildlife.
“Plasticity” (for PC) tackles a world overwhelmed by plastic waste. It encourages players to reflect on the long-term impact of plastic consumption and pollution by navigating a future
By using interactive gameplay, simulations and storytelling, these games encourage critical thinking and problem-solving, making abstract concepts like climate change and resource management more tangible. The use of technology, such as AI and simulations, brings the consequences of human behavior to life in an immersive and engaging way. As this trend continues, the development of augmented reality (AR) and virtual reality (VR) technologies promises even more immersive environmental education experiences. ✦
CONTACTS: 20 Incredible Environmental Games from the Last Decade, chaostheorygames.com/blog/20-environmental-sustainability-video-games-from-the-last-decade-2021
EarthTalk® is produced by Roddy Scheer & Doug Moss for the 501(c)3 nonprofit EarthTalk. See more at https://emagazine. com. To donate, visit https://earthtalk.org Send questions to: question@earthtalk.org
of the World” is one of several video games that help teach players about climate and environmental issues.
Santa to Santa? not to OR
WBY KERRIE MCLOUGHLIN
ho knew Santa was such a loaded topic? Most parents can talk rationally about it, but some people get downright hostile about whether or not they play Santa and why, and they will defend their decision to the death! Of course, the Santa decision has much to do with how you grew up, but you also need to consider how your spouse grew up, then take into account your religion, your beliefs, how you want to raise your kids and more. Let’s explore both sides of the debate…
THE CASE FOR SANTA
I grew up with Santa visiting my house and held onto the idea of him like a dog with a piece of bacon until I was about 13 years old. When I finally conceded that it was my parents bringing me the presents, I did not feel betrayed or lied to; I was just disappointed that the magic was over.
These days you can find my husband and I plotting and planning as Mr. and Mrs. Claus to our own 5 children. We’ve built family traditions around Santa. For instance, it’s fun to go to the mall to see him, and snuggling up to read ’Twas The Night Before Christmas is always a hit. Don’t forget all the terrific movies and shows that have Santa in them, like Polar Express and Miracle on 34th Street.
We feel like we’re bringing them something special when we sneak wrapped gifts under the Christmas tree and fill their stockings on Christmas Eve. We enjoy watching their faces light up when they see the tree in the morning. They even get a letter from Santa, and they love that the cookies they put out have been eaten.
The kids keep me on my toes with questions about Santa, like:
• What if you don’t have a chimney? (he comes in another way)
• Why didn’t Santa bring me the things I really wanted, like a cell phone and a Barbie Jeep I can ride around the neighborhood in? (be grateful; Santa uses his judgment on what you can have)
• Why is the Santa I visit at the mall different from the Santa that comes to Daddy’s work Christmas party? (Santa has helpers who take your list to him)
• How do reindeer fly? (magic)
THE CASE AGAINST SANTA
You only need to read all of the above to see that being Santa is exhausting! Hiding presents, using different wrapping paper for Santa gifts, writing like Santa on gift tags, trying to shop without kids around
(may I suggest online?!) and more makes it a lot of work. By the 26th I am wiped out, and I understand why many parents don’t want to even get that started!
Of course, those on the no-Santa team have better reasons for being there than just not wanting to do a bunch of work. Not wanting to lie to their children is a big reason I heard when I did my informal Facebook poll. I mean, if a kid finds out Santa is a lie, then what else are his parents lying about? Jessica E., mom of 2 boys, said, “I don’t lie to my kids. I tell them they can believe in Santa if they want as Santa is the magic that lives within us.”
There’s also the disappointment of finding out there is no Santa when kids at school or family members tell how they do it in their home; so the No-Santas want to understandably avoid that for their child. It’s also difficult to explain to a child, if a financial situation is not great, that Santa could not come this year or could only bring one small gift.
Another reason to go No-Santa, is that Christians might want to represent the true meaning of Christmas instead of focusing on a make-believe person. They might instead talk about Saint Nicholas and his giving spirit and what that means to their family and concentrate less on the material aspect of Christmas.
I’m going to end this debate by telling you something you already know: When you’re a parent, you win some, and you lose some. Just do what you think is best as far as Santa is concerned, and you probably won’t be dragged into therapy with your kids … over THIS topic, anyway. ✦
It’s the most wonderful
WASTEFUL
time of the year.
it doesn’t have to be.
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Movie Night
Foreign Traveler
BY BONNIE L. HARRIS
THE UPSIDE OF SO many streaming options is the chance to see wonderful independent films that don’t linger in theatres, but are still accessible online. My Penguin Friend, starring Jean Reno, was shot on the tropical beaches of Brazil and the seascapes of Patagonia and features the cutest, two-footed,
MY PENGUIN FRIEND
Roadside Attractions
Rated: PG
Streaming on Amazon
black & white movie star to ever steal the show. It’s a marvelous introduction to foreign film that’s light-hearted, sincere, and absolutely charming without being too preachy about global affairs or environmental politics. And I always love a story inspired by true events. In the aftermath of tragedy, an aging fisherman named Joao befriends an oil-soaked penguin rescued from the waters off the coast of Rio de Janeiro. Eventually named Din Dim, the little penguin recuperates and makes himself at home with Joao and his wife, Maria. When Din Dim migrates
back to his home waters in Patagonia, he catches the interest of marine biologists who are studying the local penguin population. Din Dim continues his annual migrations to Brazil where Joao welcomes him and he becomes a village celebrity. Of course, a video of Joao and Din Dim goes viral, which alerts the marine biologists who confirm that Din Dim has traveled over 5000 miles, and somewhat off course, to return to Joao. Not only does Din Dim shine a light on the relationships that man
FOR the PARENTS
Best Idea Ever
JIM HENSON-IDEA MAN
Imagine Documentaries, Rated: PG Streaming on Disney Plus
IF YOU’D LIKE to take a short break from the holiday mayhem and endless eggnog, there’s nothing better than a stroll down memory lane with Jim Henson and the Muppets. Directed by Ron Howard, Jim Henson-Idea Man, is a nostalgic documentary film that explores the creativity and genius of Jim Henson’s life, his devoted family, and his army of skilled collaborators. Howard looks at this marvelous life from the viewpoint of his wife and creative partner, through the launch of Sesame Street, into national fame, and down to the frustrating rejections by every television network in America over The Muppet Show. Henson gives up and ships his family and staff to London in 1976 where he’s given free rein to perform, make music, and originate one of the world’s most popular franchises. But every life has its ups and downs and Jim Henson’s was no exception. Fame and constant work took him away from his wife and family,
can have with wild animals, but Din Dim also helps Joao heal from deep personal loss. Later, a reporter interviews Joao and Din Dim, which makes him even more popular, but the story sets off alarms in the academic community. They want to capture Din Dim and study his unusual connection to humans. It’s touch and go for Din Dim, but all ends well when he’s able to return to Joao. Be sure to watch the credits for an epilogue and some great pics of the real Joao and Din Dim. ✦
tested his integrity, and put him on a collision course with exhaustion. Always looking for what’s next, Jim created movies, animation, and music that set the stage for the next generation of artists. Now, his children carry on his legacy and share their fondest memories of their famous father.
Touring the village.
With the original crew.
Holiday Gifts Teachers Really Want
BY KERRIE MCLOUGHLIN
OU WANT TO SHOW
appreciation for your child’s teacher, but are most likely short on time, and maybe even on money. I polled teachers across the country to find out what gifts they are loving this year and which ones they would happily take a pass on. The answers might surprise you!
MUST-HAVE GIFTS
• Gift cards for local and chain restaurants.
• Gift cards for office supply and teacher supply stores to buy classroom items such as tacks, books, markers, pens, calendars and fun items that might not be provided by the school.
• Gift cards for places like Target, Wal-Mart, Costco, or Amazon.
• Homemade gifts from the kids such as cards and pictures because those are extra special.
• Notes of appreciation that come from the heart. “I have kept every drawing or art project a kid has ever gifted me from teaching preschool back in the day,” says teacher Courtney L.
• Chocolate and coffee products. Consider putting together a basket of special chocolate bars, hot chocolates, fancy coffees and creamers and other treats.
• Pampering sets to do at-home — facials and manicures.
GET TO KNOW THEM FIRST
• “Our school’s room parent coordinator has teachers fill out a questionnaire telling us their favorite food, restaurants, stores, colors, drinks, scents, classroom needs, etc. every year,” says Melinda C., mother of four.
• According to Nicole H., “My mom is a teacher in a remote area, so the gift cards she can use online are a good thing too. She loves Gilmore Girls and someone got her a Luke’s Diner coffee mug!”
• Stephen S., a longtime middle school teacher, says, “Gift cards get used. I have over 1,000 ties and almost as many coffee cups. Coffee, whiteboard markers, sharpies, Grateful Dead memorabilia are all on my short list.”
• Sarah R., an 8th grade Language Arts teacher, says, “I love getting handwritten notes/cards from students! I put them in a special place and re-read them days, months, and years later. You cannot do that with a gift card! I truly appreciate any gifts from my students (they warm my heart!), but I have to say I do not want food or candy.”
GIFTS TO SKIP
• Any homemade food. It may be easy for you to whip up a batch of cookies or gift your famous banana bread, but the teacher may be watching his or her sugar, gluten, calories or worse … they might be allergic!
• Lotions. Everyone is different and it’s very hard to pick out a scent that every teacher will love. Some hate fruit or food scents while others love them. Some are bothered by the smells entirely.
• Candles and mugs. A teacher can only burn and store so many candles every year. And where to store so many mugs, and how to rotate and use them all so every kid gift-giver feels special?
• Ties. This may seem like a slam dunk for a male teacher, but they likely already have quite a few. Delve deeper into his personality to find out what else he might like: fishing lures, golf or tennis balls, a special book, something fun for camping, maybe a Spotify gift card.
• Anything with an apple on it or random knick-knacks! It seems everyone is trying
to downsize and declutter, so why add to your teacher’s overflow of stuff?
The bottom line seems to be, it’s entirely worth it to take some time to get to know
your child’s teacher’s likes and dislikes. Then pick a gift with your child accordingly, and you’re sure to give the teacher a happy holiday break and a wonderful school year! ✦
HOW TO HOST A
HolidayExchangeCookie
BY CHRISTA MELNYK HINES
“Friends are the most important ingredient in this recipe called life.”
~ Unknown
COOKIE EXCHANGES ARE INHERENTLY
rewarding. Not only do you have a chance to share one of your family favorites, a cookie swap is a festive way to feed your guests’ spirits with sweet cheer. Nothing beats the lovely afterglow of time spent with friends and a plate brimming with homemade goodies to gift to each other’s families.
At first glance a cookie exchange may seem complicated--I certainly thought so--but with this handy how-to, you’ll pull it off without a hitch, just like I did.
Cookie swaps can range from a strict set of rules (no storebought chocolate chip cookies) to anything goes (simple is super
if that’s your style). Go with whatever you think will appeal to your friends without causing them stress.
Set the date. Holiday calendars fill up fast. At least four to six weeks before the event, send out your invitations. Choose an evite or a print invitation, whichever makes the most sense for your budget, audience and time.
Timing. During the hectic holiday season, a non-traditional time of the day might work better with your friends’ schedules. For example, instead of an evening gathering, schedule an afternoon tea party.
Decide on the number of guests. Better by the dozen? The more guests, the more cookies each guest will need to bring. Typically around two-thirds of invitees will accept an event invitation. If you invite 20, plan for between 12 and 15 guests.
Check Yes or No. Request that guests respond a week ahead of time in order to give participants time to plan how many cookies to bake. Send a gentle follow-up to any unconfirmed guests the day of your RSVP deadline.
23 WAYS TO PACKAGE COOKIES FOR GIFTING
• Mason jar
• Decorative glass jar
• Cleaned and wrapped Pringles containers
• Homemade paper envelopes
• Lunch sized paper bags
• Decorative take-out boxes
• Cellophane wrapped bowls
• Miniature loaf pans
• Cookie tins
• Rectangular cake pan
• Repurposed wine bag
• Ribbon-tied cellophane bag
• Holiday paper plate wrapped with cellophane
• Baskets
• Tissue paper
• Gift boxes
• Mail tubes
• Cardboard jewelry boxes
• Aluminum baking trays
• Cookie jars
• Scrapbook paper rolled into cones, wrapped in cellophane
• Repurposed cans
• Decorative plates
Crunch the numbers. Let’s say you have 12 guests. Ask each participant to prepare four dozen cookies. This ensures every person gets to take at least four cookies from each batch, and each guest returns home with a total of 48 different types of cookies. If this sounds like too many cookies for each person, either decrease the number to three dozen or have guests donate extras. (More on that later.)
Gather the recipes. Ask each of your friends to bring copies of her recipe to share or if you aguests email their recipe ahead of time, preferably when they RSVP. Gather the recipes into a clipped cookbook for each guest to take home as a party favor.
Prep your guests. Participants should arrive with a tray of cookies for sampling and instructions about how they’ll take their treats home. For example, they can bring their own container or as the host, you can provide them with decorated boxes or tins to put treats in. If your friends rally around creativity, challenge them to pre-package their treats as individual giveaways to each guest.
Serve simple appetizers and beverages. To complement the sweet, serve savory appetizers that you can prepare ahead of time, like cheese and crackers, mixed nuts, dips, chips and fresh veggies. Beverages might include apple cider, soda, wine, iced tea, sparkling wines, beer, coffee or hot chocolate.
Share stories. Go around in a circle and ask each of your guests to share a story about the treat that they brought. Listening to my friends recount their family traditions, baking disasters, and childhood memories spent rolling out dough in their grandmother’s kitchens made us laugh, empathize and wax nostalgic. We grew closer hearing these stories and the treats took on a life of their own.
IDEAS FOR COMPILING RECIPES
• Print recipes on 4x6 holiday paper and clip with a looseleaf metal ring.
• Retype recipes in different fonts and print off on half sheets of paper. Make a
decorative cover out of card stock and staple or clip together.
• Decorate a cardboard recipe box and place recipes inside.
• Paste recipes into a small spiral notebook and decorate the cover.
• Slide recipes into a miniature soft-cover photo album.
• Ask each guest to bring extra copies of her recipe to put next to their cookie platter for friends to take.
• Have each guest include a copy of her recipe in each of her giveaway containers.
Give prizes. While this step is optional, it can add extra cheer to the festivities. Ask your guests to vote: Which cookie was the most unusual? Who shared an unforgettable story associated with their treat? Who had the most creative packaging? Whose cookie was almost too beautiful to eat? Hand out simple prizes like plastic tiaras, tin holiday cookie cutters, a box of tea, a holiday mug, or ornaments.
Spread the joy. Offer your friends the option of preparing extra cookies that you can box up and deliver to a local nursing home, police or fire station or women’s shelter. ✦
ADDITIONAL RESOURCES
• Cookies and Cocktails: Inspire Your Own Holiday Cookie Party by Sherrie Wilkolaski
• Cookie Exchange: Hosting the Perfect Party by Melissa Harvey
• Cookie Swap: Creative Treats to Share Throughout the Year by Julia
• The Great Christmas Cookie Swap Cookbook by Good Housekeeping
• The Cookie Party Cookbook: The Ultimate Guide to Hosting a Cookie Exchange by Robin L. Olson
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The Biggest Salmon Ever from the Pacific Northwest
And it had spike teeth like a warthog!
BY BECKY RAINES
ILLUSTRATIONS BY RAY TROLL
OOK CAREFULLY AT THESE TWO PICTURES.
Can you spot the difference?
They were drawn by the same artist, Ray Troll, but he drew them two years apart. Did you see that the salmon’s front teeth changed? Why do you think they are in different places?
In those two years, our knowledge of the past changed! These are drawings of the same fish — the giant spike-toothed salmon, which lived in Oregon more than 5 million years ago. Ray drew them for a wall in our museum, where we have a life-size sculpture and panels talking about the giant fish.
When Ray drew the first picture, in 2014, humans had only seen a few skulls of these huge creatures. These fossil skulls were found by paleontologists in Central Oregon in the 1950s and 60s. Sometime before the bones were preserved in rock, the skull bones were crushed from being 3-dimensional to being flat like a pancake, and the teeth were knocked away from the jaw!
This happened to both of the skulls the paleontologists found. So,
when Ray was drawing the first picture, scientists thought we knew where the teeth went! It seemed likely that the fish’s front teeth pointed down, like a saber-tooth tiger’s fangs!
Then, just a few months after the museum exhibit with Ray’s drawing opened… the museum found more spike-toothed salmon skulls! In 2014, paleontologists found what they thought were more giant salmon skulls in the same area as the first ones were found. They carefully dug them out from the walls of the quarry and sent them back to the museum for study.
Pat, a volunteer in the museum’s fossil collection, began preparing a skull. In paleontology, “preparing” means taking off all of the rock around the fossil to show the bones. Then, he realized something very exciting! This skull was not smushed! It even had the salmon’s front teeth still attached…
…Huh. The front teeth weren’t pointing down, like fangs, like in Ray’s drawing…
…They were pointing out from the upper jawbone! Like tusks!
Science is all about learning how the world around us works. As we learn more, sometimes we learn that we were wrong.
As for Ray’s drawing? We decided to keep the original mural at the museum, as a reminder to be open to new information. You can see it today, behind a sculpture of the spike-toothed salmon with its correct teeth position. You can even see the skull paleontologists found in 2014, spike-tooth intact! ✦
The Museum of Natural and Cultural History is open Wednesday through Sunday, 10:00 a.m. through 5:00 p.m. and until 8:00 p.m. on Thursdays. We’ll be closed December 25 and 26, but back open on Friday, December 27.
A Dad’s Eye View Dear Santa, About That Pony
BY RICK EPSTEIN
WHEN OUR
daughter Sally was 4, she spent an afternoon playing at a new friend’s house, and when my wife Betsy went to pick her up, the mom asked, “Do you live on a farm?”
“No,” Betsy said, “Why do you ask?”
“Sally told me you did. And that you have three ponies – named Betsy, Rick and Buttercup.”
“Sounds like a great life,” said Betsy, “But I’M Betsy and my husband is Rick, and we just live in a regular house on Twelfth Street. And I don’t know who Buttercup is.”
I had to admire the magnitude of Sally’s whopper. Sure, she would like to have ponies, but for her this was a casual gag, not
I loved animals, and I wanted to be a cowboy, so obviously I had to have a pony. Penny, the girl next door, was also crazy about horses, but we lived in spilt-level houses on quarteracre lots. “Horses need a lot of room,” my mom would explain. “They need a big field, where they can graze and run around.”
“Mom,” I’d say, “You’re thinking of pastures; I’m thinking of corrals. If we put a fence around our back yard, you could fit 10 horses or 15 ponies. Sure, cowboys’ horses are used to having lots of running space, but horses that belong to gamblers and gunfighters stay in livery stables and only go out when their owner has to leave town in a hurry. They eat hay and oats and maybe some canned food, and they do fine. Our garage
Mom was unconvinced, and Dad felt like he was already bending over backwards letting us have Cindy – a cat, which is a species that doesn’t even exist as far as cowboys are concerned. (I used to pretend Cindy was a coyote.)
Penny and I collected porcelain horses, drew pictures of horses, and pretended to BE horses. We stepped on soda-pop cans so they’d crimp onto our shoes, and we’d scrape and clank along the sidewalk trying to approximate a clipclop. We named our bikes “Red” and “Cyclone” and spoke encouraging words to them when we rode uphill. In the back yard we practiced roping them. One Halloween, Penny’s dad, who was an art teacher, made us a beautiful two-kid horse
who wanted a pony so much that he told his folks, “If I can’t have a pony for Christmas, give me nothing.” On Christmas morning, he receives NO PRESENTS. He weeps quietly while his mom shoots accusatory looks at his dad. But then along comes a man to deliver the pony.
The first few times I heard it, I thought it was a great story. The author seemed to address my condition and offer hope to any child who wants a pony that badly. But I did want one that badly, and by the time I was 10 my vicarious joy was turning sour, and I realized the story didn’t make sense the way stories are supposed to. The years passed and, not having a pony, I failed to become a cowboy.
A while ago I found that old story in a Christmas anthology and discovered why the story had been so pointless – it was not properly a story at all, but an excerpt from Lincoln Steffens’ autobiography. It had been presented by Steffens merely as one of the doggonedest incidents of his childhood.
Nevertheless, nostalgia caused me to read it to Marie and Sally, ages 7 and 4. Afterward I told them that I’d been like that boy.
Marie sympathized, “That’s too bad, Daddy. But I don’t want a pony. I want a dog.”
Sally said, “I don’t want a dog; I want a live chicken that lays golden eggs. Do you still want Santa to bring you a pony, Daddy?”
“Yep, and jingly spurs,” I said.✦
Rick can be reached at rickepstein@yahoo.com.
LANE COUNTY
Performing YEAR ROUND ENRICHMENT WITH
BY TAJ BARNHART MORGAN
URING THE WINTER HOLIDAYS WE often take delight in festive caroling (Christmas at The Shedd and Eugene Concert Choir), the beloved Nutcracker story (Eugene Ballet and Oregon Ballet Academy) and other holiday-themed experiences – filling up December with familyfriendly plays, skits, song and dance.
Luckily for us, the Eugene, Cascades & Coast region is abundant with children’s programming year round, so we can extend the magic! Here is a peek at family-friendly opportunities from now through 2025.
The Eugene Symphony champions children’s engagement with music – each summer they hold free family-friendly concerts in Eugene and Cottage Grove. At these community events, the Instrument Petting Zoo facilitates hands-on learning. This December, children explore percussion at the Eugene Symphony’s free Holiday Rhythms in the Winter Wonderland event in the Hult Center lobby. Follow up sessions include Woodwinds in the Wilderness (February) and The Brass Kingdom (April). Treat your family to a live orchestra experience with tickets to Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire™ in Concert (January).
Made for the preschool and elementary crowd, 123 Andrés (February) at the Hult Center and “ The Magical Moombah!” series (February, April & May) at The Shedd are high energy introductions to singing and dancing. Celebrating 50 years of rousing choral music
Arts
in Eugene, the Eugene Concert Choir is also catering to children with their special Singing Celebration for Kids (March).
Older children will find joy in the magical A Midsummer Night’s Dream (May) presented by Eugene Ballet. Or take them to the Aladdin ballet (May) set to the rock music of Queen by Ballet Fantastique, a dance company known for their creative twists on the traditional.
University of Oregon students are putting together The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee (May & June). Actors Cabaret of Eugene has Cats (December) on stage now, complete with the full “dinner and a show” experience.
Along with Shakespeare and Broadway, Cottage Theatre welcomes to the stage two family favorites: “Mary Poppins” (April) and “Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland” (December 2025).
Children’s theater is a great way to interest kids in performing. Pegasus Playhouse is producing both Pinocchio and Beauty and the Beast in December, and Upstart Crow is showing Mary Poppins Jr.. Identity Dance Company is putting on A Very Merry Movie Night (December) at the Wildish Theater and everyone is encouraged to wear pajamas! Applegate Regional Theatre, Inc. in Veneta offers reader’s theater, including a youth reader’s theater troupe. For aspiring performers, Rose Children’s Theatre has audition skills workshops on deck (February) and the Children’s Repertory of Oregon Workshops (C.R.O.W.) in Florence is showing “Holly Jolly Follies” now.
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PHOTO: PETER PATRICELLI / EUGENE CONCERT CHOIR
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13TH ANNUAL OREGON FAMILY GIFT GUIDEHoliday
by Kelli Matthews
Playtime Magic
CREATIVE AND FUN GIFTS FOR KIDS OF ALL AGES
Welcome to my 13th annual holiday gift guide for kids! Every year, I search for the most exciting, creative, and memorable gifts that will spark joy, imagination, and curiosity in little ones. This year’s selection is packed with a mix of playful, educational, and practical options that will make holiday shopping a breeze.
From toys that inspire active play and creativity to games and gear that bring families together, there’s something here for every kid—and every budget. Whether you’re shopping for a young artist, a budding athlete, or a future adventurer, I’m thrilled to share these thoughtful picks with you. Let’s make this holiday season extra special!
WHIRLYBOARD
EUGENE BALLET NUTCRACKER TICKETS
Experience the magic of the holidays with Eugene Ballet’s The Nutcracker!
The WhirlyBoard has been a game-changer in our home! This balance board is not only fun but also an amazing tool for improving coordination, strength, and stability. It’s great for everything from practicing tricks to adding variety to workouts. I may have absconded with it to use in my office at my standing desk (don’t tell the kids). Suitable for all ages, it’s versatile, sturdy, and a hit with the whole family. www.whirlyboard.com
WARM PALS
Cuddle time just got cozier! Warm Pals are adorable, microwaveable weighted plush animals that provide soothing warmth and a relaxing lavender scent. Ideal for bedtime snuggles, chilly days, or calming moments, these huggable companions are as comforting as they are cute. Available at Amazon.
This beloved production brings Clara’s enchanting journey to life with stunning choreography, colorful costumes, and Tchaikovsky’s timeless score. Perfect for families and fans of all ages, it’s a festive tradition that will leave you inspired and filled with holiday cheer. Don’t miss it! www.eugeneballet.org
CLIXO TROPICAL BIRDS PACK
The Clixo system allows kids to be infinitely creative. The exotic bird set is part of the new “expedition” series, inspiring imaginative play with flexible, magnetic pieces kids can twist, click, and build into colorful bird creations. Lightweight and portable, this STEM-friendly set encourages creativity and problem-solving, whether at home or on the go. It’s perfect for sparking joy and learning in kids. www.clixo.com
ROLLING JOKERS GAME FROM BOARD GAME FUN
Add some strategy and luck to family game night with Rolling Jokers! Easy to learn and endlessly fun, this board game is perfect for players of all ages. It’s a great choice for bringing everyone together over friendly competition. Available at Amazon.
PORTABLE KICKING NET FROM TAG SPORTS
With a house full of athletes, the TAG Sports Portable Kicking Net is a great gift. Whether perfecting soccer, football or baseball/softball skills, this durable, foldable net is ideal for training on the go. Easy to set up and transport, it’s great for young athletes looking to hone their technique and enjoy active play. www.tagsportsgear.com
AVENLUR MONTESSORI MAJESTY WOODEN BALANCE BEAM AND STEPPING STONES
Enhance motor skills and coordination with this eco-friendly Montessori balance beam and stepping stones set. Designed to encourage active play and exploration, it helps kids build confidence and strength while having fun. Its wooden design is safe, durable, and perfect for indoor or outdoor use. www.avenlur.com
AVIGA HEADSET FROM AVID
Online gaming requires a great headset and this one has quickly become a fan favorite. The AVIGA headset is designed for gaming, virtual learning, or chatting with friends, it features clear sound quality, a comfortable fit, and durable construction. Lightweight and adjustable, it’s perfect for kids who want to dive into their favorite games or online activities. www.avidproducts.com
AMALGAM GAME BY SIMPLY FUN
Amalgam is a quick-to-learn wordmatching card game that challenges players to think fast. Compact and easy to play, it’s perfect for family game nights, playdates, or road trip entertainment. www.simplyfun.com
LIGHT-UP PICKLEBALL NET FROM UNCOMMON GOODS
Did I mention we love pickleball? This light-up net allows us to keep the pickleball games going after sunset! It’s easy to set up and adds glowing excitement to backyard or park play. We even set it up in our cul-de-sac. It’s perfect for players of all ages who want to play anytime. www.uncommongoods.com
LUXE PICKLEBALL PADDLES
We are pickleball fanatics, and Luxe paddles are our favorites. They’re stylish, yes, but also make a difference in play, even at beginner levels. The paddles are lightweight, durable, and perfect for players of all skills. Play your best while looking great on the court! www. luxepickleball.com
NEX PLAYGROUND GAME SYSTEM
Get moving with a gaming console that gets your kids (and you) off the couch. Our very competitive family had a blast with NEX Playground. The groundbreaking mix of fitness, fun, and learning has five included games like Fruit Ninja and access to 20+ games through a Play Pass. Powered by an AI camera, it’s perfect for movement, focus, and coordination. No sensors needed—just jump in! www.nexplayground.com
EAT2EXPLORE BAKING KIT
The Eat2explore Baking Kit is a fantastic gift for young chefs! My budding culinary artist enjoyed the process – from supply shopping to missing and, of course, taste testing! With pre-measured ingredients, tools, and cultural recipes, it makes baking easy and exciting. Kids will love creating delicious treats while learning about different cultures. We made the Holiday Baking Kit. It’s the perfect mix of fun, education, and creativity—all wrapped up in one kit! www.eat2explore.com
NFL BINGO FROM UNCOMMON GOODS
NFL Bingo has quickly become a family favorite on game day! It’s such a fun and interactive way to keep everyone engaged—kids and adults alike. Marking squares based on the action on the field makes every play even more exciting, and it’s a great mix of strategy, football knowledge, and classic bingo fun. Highly recommend for your next big game gathering! www.uncommongoods.com
SANTOKI LEGO MARKERS
Santoki LEGO markers and gel pens are colorful and stackable, doubling as LEGO building blocks. Kids can draw, color, and construct all at once. The perfect blend of art and play, these markers inspire imaginative designs and hands-on fun, making them a unique gift for creative minds. www.santoki.com
MYSTERY TACKLEBOX
Mystery Tacklebox is a hit with young anglers! Each month, it delivers fun surprises like lures, gear, and helpful tips. It’s the perfect way to keep fishing exciting, turning every trip into a new adventure. Great for outdoor-loving kids who can’t wait for the next box! www.mysterytacklebox.com
Mom’s Gift Guide
FCelebrate Mom with These Fabulous Finds for the Holiday
inding the perfect gift for moms can feel like a holiday miracle—but don’t worry, I’ve got you covered! This guide is packed with thoughtful, fun, and fabulous ideas for every kind of mom, from cozy queens to adventure seekers. Because let’s face it, moms deserve the best (and then some) this season!
PENDLETON PUZZLE, ROLL-UP CHECKERS SET, NOTECARDS
Pendleton’s timeless style shines in this set! I love the beautiful puzzle and the portable checkers set is. The notecards are elegant and perfect for heartfelt messages. It’s a wonderful gift for moms who appreciate quiet moments and classic designs. From Chronicle Books: www.chroniclebooks.com
BADESOFA BATH PILLOW
The BADESOFA Bath Pillow has elevated bath time! Its soft, supportive design cradles my back and neck perfectly, turning an ordinary soak into a luxurious spa-like experience. The non-slip suction cups keep it secure, and the quick-drying material is a bonus. Highly recommend for ultimate relaxation in the tub! www.badesofa.com
MAX & OLLIE BASEBALL MOM GIFTS: SLIPPERS & 40 OZ TUMBLER
This combo is a home run for baseball moms (like me)! The slippers are cozy and perfect for lounging, and the sparkling tumbler keeps drinks at the perfect temperature all day. It’s practical, fun, and full of personality—a winning gift for game days or relaxing at home. www.maxandollie.com
QUIET MIND WEIGHTED PILLOW
This weighted pillow feels like a warm hug every time I use it, helping me relax and recharge. Whether for a quick nap or a quiet moment, it’s a dreamy addition to any mom’s self-care routine. www.onequietmind.com
SEVEN SISTERS SCONES
These scones are an absolute delight! They’re light, fluffy, and full of flavor—I especially loved pairing them with coffee in the morning. They feel like a little luxury, perfect for tea time or a late-night treat. The variety of flavors, from sweet to savory, was remarkable and each one delicious. www.sevensistersscones.com
DEMETER FRAGRANCE
Demeter Fragrance is so much fun! I loved exploring their unique scent options and blending my own from fresh florals to nostalgic favorites. The fragrances are light and wearable, and they make great conversation starters. A perfect way to give mom a scent as special as she is. www.demeterfragrance.com
UNCOMMON GOODS BIRTH FLOWER HUMMINGBIRD FEEDER
This hummingbird feeder is a charming addition to any garden. The birth flower design is such a thoughtful touch, and it’s both beautiful and functional. I’ve loved watching the birds visit—it’s a simple way to bring a little joy outdoors. www.uncommongoods.com
BEESSENTIAL SOAP AND LOTION
I’m in love with the Beessential lotions and soaps. The lotions are thick and ease the tightness of my dry winter skin soft. Made with natural ingredients like honey and beeswax, coconut oil, olive oil and hemp seed oil, they nourish and soften skin. www.beessential.com
HAZY FUDGE
If you’ve got a sweet tooth, Hazy Fudge is a dream! It’s rich, creamy, and melts in your mouth. I couldn’t resist sneaking a spoonful—or two! I enjoyed the bourbon-infused flavor on vanilla ice cream. Yum! It’s the perfect indulgence for chocolate lovers and makes a great stocking stuffer or holiday treat. www.fixfudge.com
CHINESE DUMPLINGS COOKING GIFT SET
I had so much fun with this dumpling-making kit! The tools were easy to use, and the recipes made it simple to whip up delicious, homemade dumplings. It’s a great way to spend an evening, and the whole family loved the results. A must-try for foodies or moms who love to cook! www.cookinggiftset.com
SAFFRON MARIGOLD SHIBORI SILK SCARF
This silk scarf is absolutely stunning! The vibrant colors and luxurious feel instantly elevate any outfit. It’s lightweight yet makes a bold statement, whether worn casually or for a special occasion. A stylish and thoughtful gift that any mom would love. www.saffronmarigold.com
NOURISH STACK VITAMINS
I’ve been so impressed with Nourish Stack Vitamins. They’re a thoughtful and practical gift for busy moms who could use a boost. I noticed a difference in my energy levels, and it’s reassuring to know I’m getting all the essentials in one easy step. www.us.get-nourished.com
DAYBIRD 4-IN-1 SERUM SKIN TINT
This serum-skin tint combo hydrates, brightens, and provides just the right amount of coverage for an effortless “no-makeup” look. I’ve been using it regularly, and my skin looks fresh and radiant. It’s perfect for busy moms who want to simplify their beauty routine. www.daybird.co
MOUNTAIN HOUSE FREEZE-DRIED FOOD
We tried Mountain House meals in the kitchen, rather than in the woods but it’s clear, these meals will be a staple of our adventures. The fettucine alfredo was the favorite! Lightweight, easy to prepare, and surprisingly tasty, they’re perfect for adventures or even emergency snacks at home. A practical and thoughtful gift for outdoorsy moms. www.mountainhouse.com
Meet DODIE , a sweet, senior pup looking for a calm home to relax in! She is a beautiful 9-year-old Alaskan Husky mix with a fluffy white coat. She is a very mild mannered lady who is extremely nice, gentle, and sweet. She walks wonderfully on leash and enjoys the simple things. She would make an excellent companion to a mature household that is looking to spend their days together on the couch. Dodie loves going for long walkies followed by chomping down on yummy treats, and a nap on a cozy bed.
Dodie should meet any dog friends at the shelter prior to adoption and should have a slow, supervised introduction to any cats. She would do well with kids so long as they can respect her space. Dodie is 53 lbs., is spayed, microchipped, and up to date on vaccines. Dodie would love to meet you and fall in love!
Greenhill Humane Society is open seven days a week, 11 am – 6 pm at 88530 Green Hill Rd in Eugene. For more information call (541) 689.1503 or visit www.green-hill.org.
The Cat Rescue & Adoption Network presents MAMACITA and BEAU, a marvelous mother and son bonded pair of kitties looking for a loving home. Mamacita is a beautiful 3-yr-old calico, while 1-yr-old Beau is white with orange tabby spots. They enjoy playing with toys, and watching Cat TV (aka, a window to look out of). They are both a little shy and will need a quiet home; however, given time to adjust to their surroundings, they will reward you in spades with their companionship and sweet dispositions! They have been altered, vaccinated, microchipped, and are negative for FIV & FeLV. To meet them in foster care, please call 541-225-4955 option 1, or visit our website at CatRescues.org for more info.
Holiday Nights at the Museum
Thursday, December 5, and Thursday, December 12 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. Celebrate Holiday Nights at the museum, featuring refreshments, conversation, and seasonal discounts in the Museum Store. Visitors get 20% off all non-consignment goods, and museum members get 30% off.
12/5—Season’s Signings: Book signing with local authors 12/12—The Art of Science and Culture: Museum artist holiday market
Kristena McAlister, RN
NICU Nurse and Lane County resident
PeaceHealth Sacred Heart Medical Center at RiverBend
