Old Town Crier - May 2024

PUBLISHER’S NOTES

Well, here we are, living in uncertain times. There is war going on in, of all places, the Holy Land. An entire population is being wiped out in Gaza as humanitarian efforts are attacked. Closer to home, efforts continue to open more passages into the Port of Baltimore as the remains of the Francis Scott Key bridge wreckage are being removed. In New York City, former president Trump is standing criminal trial for election interference and falsifying records. And tomorrow, only a couple of miles from where I sit, the Supreme Court will decide if that same former president has absolute immunity for willful criminal and civil behavior. Senator Mitch McConnell blasts Tucker Carlson for stoking anti-Ukraine among Republicans. while David Pecker, former owner of the Enquirer magazine admits the "catch and kill" method of suppressing information and lying about others. Maybe tomorrow the sky will fall.

Meanwhile you hold in your hand via hard copy of communication device that dependable friend that you can turn to every month for information and articles that will lighten the load.

In this month’s issue we stayed home for our Road Trip as we took a tour with See D.C. Today Tours. Visit our beautiful Washington, D.C. where history is still being made every day. In First Blush, we get the skinny on self-tanning. With the recent death of our hero Jimmy Buffet, skin cancer from the sun is on everyone’s mind. Self-tanning may be for you. Speaking of the sun, the Caribbean Connection tells how you can get an extra night at the legendary Buccaneer Resort in St. Croix. In From the Bay, learn about the maritime history of the Chesapeake Bay at the Solomon’s Maritime Festival and happenings at the Calvert Marine Museum. I keep my sailboat at Solomons... maybe I will see you there this summer.

In Gallery Beat, Lenny Campello tells us about “ARTOMATIC... One More Time With Feeling”.

Learn about “10 Family Friendly” wineries in Grapevine and Doug Fabbioli tells us about bottling wine and the emergence of new buds and the challenges of spring in Exploring Virginia Wines. In Let's Get Crafty we learn the meaning of Happy Hour, the good and the bad. I was invited to my very fi rst “Afternoon Tea” at Lady Camillia on the Waterfront last month. You can read all about it in Dining Out

Pinky up at Lady Camillia!

Sarah Becker interviewed U.S. Representative Don Byer in a Bit of History. We get Representative Byers take on AI...Can machines think?

We have two special features this month. In honor of Memorial Day (another reason to visit Washington D.C.), we published the entirety of In Flanders Fields and the importance of the poppy and how the custom of distributing the Buddy Poppy by our VFW Ladies Auxiliary came about. Are You a Good Mother? is the subject matter of our tribute to the moms out there. Be sure you don’t miss Lori Welch Brown’s Open Space for her tribute to Moms and Grads.

Congratulations Are In Order!

We would like to congratulate three new restaurants in Old Town that are replacing recently closed or remodeled restaurants. The fi rst is the Royal Restaurant on North St. Asaph. The Royal has been in the same location for many years but was purchased by Alexandria Restaurant Partners and embarked on a very nice makeover. The remodel is very tasteful and the menu is a little more upscale. The beautiful thing is that ARP retained the wait staff that we have come to treat as family over the years. The next is our friend Tara Hopkins (formerly at Southside 815) taking over the Faccia Luna space on South Washington. Knocking out the middle wall and totally revamping the space and naming it Frankie's Kitchen and Cocktail Bar, it will soon become a popular neighborhood spot. The last is long time friend and Old Town restaurant legend, Ralph Davis, returns to North Lee Street with his son Matt and opening Mystic BBQ and Grill. This is the former location of Myron Mixon’s. Look for the Mystic ad in this issue.

Last but certainly not least, we extend a very Happy 30th Anniversary message to Michele Marceau and her Principle Gallery at 208 King Street. I have seen galleries come and go over the last 37 years and Michele has stood the strength of time.

As we continue to press on, I am in hopes things have looked up on news front when I pen next months Pub Notes! In the meantime, don’t forget to honor Mom on the 12th and celebrate Memorial Day with a special observance on the 27th!

ON THE ROAD WITH OTC

The Old Town Crier recently made it all the way down to Key West- and then some! Our Old Town pal Erin Koons brought us along on her trek to Dry Tortugas National Park, one of the least visited national parks due to it's remote location- a three and a half hour boat ride southwest of Key West, Florida. The park is home to an old military fort and is the perfect place to disconnect for some relaxing beach time and camping under the stars.

There's no cell phone reception or internet access on the island, so we were glad to provide some quality material to entertain her on her three day Floridian camping adventure. Erin is on a mission to visit all of the national parks and has made it to a whopping 38 so far. We're excited to see which park she may let us tag along to next!

If you would like to see your photo in this space, take the OTC with you on your next adventure and take a high resolution photo or photos of you and yours checking us out and send it with information for the caption to office@oldtowncrier.com and put “On the Road” in the subject line.

Looks like we have stumped you with the latest Mural even though we printed the entire work. There were some good guesses and we appreciate the effort. It is located on the entire front of the building located at 3801 Mount Vernon Avenue. I bet many of you have driven by it numerous times.

Let’s see if this snippet of a new mural in Old Town is familiar to any of you. Remember, if you are the fi rst person to respond with the correct location, you will receive a $50 gift certificate to one of our amazing restaurant advertiser’s eateries.

In order to participate, you will have to Like and Follow us: Facebook @oldtowncrier and Instagram @otcregionalmag

Send a PM with your guess and we will contact the winner each month via PM to arrange for prize delivery.

Mural Photo by Lee Moody.

More than 265,000 military and civilian women served around the world during the Vietnam Era in professional, technical, leadership, and humanitarian roles. Nearly 10,000 of these women shared the crucible of war while serving in Vietnam during the conflict. They made a difference. They gave their lives.

The Vietnam Women’s Memorial was established not only to honor those women who served, but also to educate the American public about their service. The culmination of more than a decade of grassroots organizing and activism, the Vietnam Women’s Memorial was dedicated on November 11, 1993 as part of the Vietnam Veterans Memorial.

The Memorial includes this bronze sculpture by Texas artist Glenna Goodacre depicting three women caring for a fallen soldier. The memorial features three uniformed female nurses caring for a wounded male soldier. Each nurse is named for a virtue: Charity tends to the soldier, Faith prays for him, and Hope looks upwards for inspiration. The memorial reminds visitors that women have always served in times of war. Photo by Bob Tagert

It has become customary for women to leave a hair tie or scrunchy at the base of the statue. One of the theories is that it relates to nurses and woman in the military having to keep their hair tied back at all times.

ELWOOD

Spring Events Have Sprung in Alexandria

As milder weather boosts moods and blossoms brighten spirits, springtime events abound in Alexandria, Virginia, located minutes from Washington, D.C., on the Potomac River and recognized by Travel + Leisure among the Best Cities in the U.S. 2023 and a Condé Nast Traveler Best Small City in the U.S. 2023. Spring brings fresh happenings including a time-honored favorite, George Washington’s Mount Vernon Spring Wine Festival & Sunset Tour.

For more spring events and activities in Alexandria, see the listings below and learn more at VisitAlexandria.com/Spring.

May 18th

8th Annual Well Ray Festival

10 am – 2 pm

Admission: Free Mount Vernon & Bellefonte Avenues

The 8th annual Well Ray Festival showcases the wide variety of health and wellness opportunities in Alexandria’s Del R ay neighborhood. The outdoor event — featuring free tness and dance classes for all ages, health demonstrations, 40+ vendors, and more — is free and open to all. For more information, including a full schedule of events and class registration information, visit www.wellraydelray.com

17th – 19th

George Washington’s Mount Vernon Spring Wine Festival & Sunset Tour

6 to 9 p.m.

Admission: $$

George Washington’s Mount Vernon 3200 Mount Vernon Memorial Highway mountvernon.org

Head to Mount Vernon for their most popular event of the year. Taste unlimited samples of wines from Virginia’s nest wineries. Bring a blanket and relax on the east lawn overlooking the Potomac River. Enjoy the live music of Bruce Ewan and the Solid Senders.

Let’s Keep Our Fair City in the Top Five!

Due to the work of Visit Alexandria’s PR team, Alexandria has been nominated on Condé Nast Traveler’s 2024 Readers’ Choice Awards survey in the “Cities” category for the seventh year in a row. Alexandria has been among the top 5 “Best Small Cities in the U.S.” for six consecutive years, since the category was created in 2018, and reclaimed its top 3 standing in 2023. We need your help to sustain our top 3 ranking this year!

VOTE NOW at cntraveler.com/vote by rating Alexandria as “excellent” across a few categories and answering additional questions about the motivations behind your trips before the deadline of June 30, 2024.

Please also show your support for hotels The Alexandrian, Hilton Alexandria Old Town, Hilton Alexandria Mark Center, Morrison House and Lorien Hotel & Spa.

By taking part in the survey, you’ll be given a chance to win a 13-day journey through Antarctica or a 15-day tour of the Great Lakes with Viking Cruises. You may rate each candidate only once per email address.

Your vote has a big impact and can help Alexandria move to the top of Condé Nast Traveler’s “Best Small Cities” list, just as our community’s votes have helped us secure a top ve spot on the list for the past six years. Consistent high-pro le rankings in top national travel publications like Condé Nast Traveler, Travel + Leisure and Southern Living have helped boost the city’s visibility to an entirely new level.

Thank you for your support!

19th

Old Town Festival of Speed & Style

10 a.m. to 3 p.m.

Admission: Free

200-400 blocks of King Street festivalspeedstylealex.com

The Old Town Festival of Speed & Style highlights the unique offerings of the Old Town community – history, architecture, great food, fabulous people, art, style and energy. View dozens of rare and exotic cars up close, made famous by their speed, performance and elegance. This will be enhanced by a presentation of style, fashion and live music provided by over 40 local merchants. All proceeds bene t ALIVE! and Community Lodgings.

ABOUT ALEXANDRIA, VA

Recognized by Travel + Leisure among the Best Cities in the U.S. 2023 and voted a Condé Nast Traveler Top 3 Best Small City in the U.S. 2023, Alexandria is a welcoming weekend escape on the Potomac River, minutes from Washington, D.C. Founded in 1749 and boasting the nation’s third oldest historic district, Alexandria hums with a cosmopolitan feel. Stroll Old Town Alexandria’s King Street mile to nd more than 200 independent restaurants and boutiques plus intimate historic museums and new happenings at the waterfront. Explore vibrant neighborhoods beyond Old Town, trace George Washington and the Founding Fathers’ footsteps and follow the stories of Black Americans who shaped the history of Alexandria and the United States.  Connect with us!

Web: VisitAlexandriaVA.com

Blog: Blog.VisitAlexandriaVA.com

Facebook: Facebook.com/VisitAlexandriaVA

Twitter: Twitter.com/AlexandriaVA

Instagram: Instagram.com/VisitAlexVA

LOCAL FARMERS MARKETS

OLD TOWN FARMERS MARKET

Market Square

301 King Street

Saturdays, 7 am – 12 Noon Year Round

The Old Town Market is thought to be the one of nation’s oldest continuing markets operating since 1753. It is said that George Washington sent his products from Mount Vernon to be sold here. Today the plaza is a mecca for farmers and artists to sell their wares. The Market is a primary source for meats, dairy, sh, fruits, vegetables and owers for all those who visit.

DEL RAY FARMERS MARKET

Corner of Mt. Vernon and Oxford Avenues

Saturdays, 8 am to Noon Year Round

This market is strictly a producer grown market.  Lots of fresh vegetables, fruits, sh and salmon, fresh mushrooms, baked goods, hard cider.  Farmers are within a 150 mile radius of Alexandria.  A non-pro t is featured each weekend.

OLD TOWN NORTH FARMERS & ARTISANS MARKET

Montgomery Park

901 North Royal Street

Thursdays, 3 pm – 7 pm Year Round

Alexandria’s favorite dog friendly market! The Old Town North Thursday Market is a growers only market with a focus on produce from small family farms and local artisans. Products sold at the market include fresh fruits and veggies from Virginia’s Northern Neck, Micro Greens from an urban farm, Empanadas, Fresh baked pastries with a European air and much more.

FOUR MILE RUN FARMERS & ARTISANS MARKET

4109 Mount Vernon Avenue

Sundays, 9 am – 1 pm Year Round

This market offers fresh, nutritious food to people of all income levels and strives to re ect the diversity of Alexandria’s community. Local artisans display their arts and crafts as well.

Is Auto Loan Refinancing Right For You?

We’re all looking for ways to put money back into the family budget. Sure, you can eliminate streaming services, cut back on snacks, or eat out less often. But, one of the often-overlooked ways of reducing monthly expenses is to refi nance your auto loan. Here’s how to know if a refi nance could work for you.

You Recently Bought Your Vehicle at a Dealership

Did you buy your current vehicle using dealership fi nancing to get special incentives or cash-back offers? Chances are your rate was higher to offset those special deals. As long as today’s rates are lower, you could save money every month. Additionally, by extending the terms of the loan (the total number of monthly payments), you could lower the amount you spend every month. You Have Less than 12 Payments

Remaining

Paying off your vehicle feels great and can be a boost to your overall fi nancial life with one less car payment. But, if you’re looking for ways to add money back into the budget, refi nancing to a longer term might help, even if rates haven’t changed much. That’s because you’ll spread out the remainder of what you owe over several more years. In some cases, your monthly payments could be cut in half.

Your Credit Has Improved

Anytime your credit score improves, it increases your chances of securing a better rate—especially with an auto loan. If your credit score has risen dramatically since you fi rst fi nanced your vehicle, check with your credit union about a better rate and extending the term of the loan. You could see a reduction in your payments. Additionally, you might not spend much more on interest.

When to Avoid a Refinance

As long as the savings on the monthly payments are worth the cost, refi nancing can help with the monthly budget. However, if your vehicle is not worth what you owe, a refi nance might not be possible. If your current loan has a pre-payment penalty, the cost of paying off the loan early might make refi nancing too costly. Additionally, before refi nancing your loan, do the math. When you refi nance and extend the term, you are making interest payments over a longer period of time, which will cost you more. Yes, you might save money every month, but the total cost of your loan will go up in most cases.

This column courtesy of Transportation Federal Credit Union. Looking for more financial advice as well as help refinancing your vehicle? Visit Transportation Federal Credit Union at TransFCU.org.

TRANSPORTATION FEDERAL CREDIT UNION CELEBRATES GRAND OPENING OF ALEXANDRIA BRANCH & REMODELED HEADQUARTERS

Transportation Federal Credit Union (TFCU), celebrating 85 years of service this year, recently marked another significant milestone with the grand opening of its newest branch and the revitalization of its headquarters on April 17th.

After three decades, the credit union's headquarters underwent a complete renovation, breathing new life into its operations. The credit union now boasts a total of four branches: two situated within the Department of Transportation and the Federal Aviation Administration buildings in

Washington, D.C.; one in the Department of Transportation Volpe Center in Cambridge, Massachusetts and now the latest full-service branch in Alexandria, Virginia.

Members, Board of Directors, credit union leaders, staff as well as Alexandria City and Chamber of Commerce representatives were all in attendance for the event.

Transportation Federal Credit Union is excited to serve the Alexandria community and welcomes individuals who live, work, and worship here to open an account.

Transportation Federal Credit Union President/CEO, MJ Neusaenger, addressing crowd during Grand Opening

Colorful Caladiums Brighten Shade Gardens All Season

Tuck them into the garden, pop some in a container or dress up a window box. Then water as needed, add a bit of fertilizer and wait for the color explosion.

The showy heart-shaped leaves of caladiums come in combinations of pink, red, white and green. These heat-loving plants provide beautiful color all season long. Best of all, no deadheading is needed. Caladiums can be used to create a stunning garden almost anywhere around your home. These tropical beauties grow well in full to partial shade, and some varieties grow equally well in full sun. Choose varieties that will provide the color, size and look you want to achieve, and that match the light conditions in your yard.

Compact caladiums, such as lime and dark pink Miss Muffet, grow about 12” tall and are perfect for lining a pathway, edging a flowerbed or dressing up a container. Florida Sweetheart’s bright, rose-pink leaves have ruffled green edges, and Gingerland has creamy white leaves that are decorated with splashes of green and red. All of these miniature varieties combine nicely with larger caladiums and elephant ears.

Step up the color impact with caladium Red Flash. This full-size caladium grows about 20” tall and has brilliant red centers, decorated with pink dots that pop against the large, deep green leaves. Use

these anywhere you want a big splash of color in a garden bed or container.

Combine caladiums with shade-loving annuals like begonias, coleus, and mildew-resistant impatiens or other summer bulbs like cannas and elephant ears. Visit Longfield Gardens (longfield-gardens.com) for a bit of inspiration and container design ideas. You’ll fi nd simple combinations that provide big impact on a deck, patio or entryway.

When planting caladiums directly into the garden, wait until at least two weeks after all danger of frost has passed. Nights should be warm, and the soil temperature should be at least 65 degrees F. Prepare the soil before planting. Add compost or other organic matter to improve drainage in clay soil and the moisture-holding ability in fast draining soils. Plant tubers about six inches apart and two inches below the soil surface. Water thoroughly and often enough to keep the soil moist, but not soggy.

Those gardening in cooler climates may want to start the tubers indoors for an earlier show outdoors. Plant indoors four to six weeks before moving them into the garden. Set the tubers near the surface of a shallow container filled with a welldrained potting mix. Grow them in a warm sunny spot indoors, keeping the soil barely moist. Move outdoors once the danger of frost has passed and the soil has warmed.

As the summer temperature rises, watch your caladiums shine while many other flowers fade in the summer heat and humidity. Continue to water as needed and fertilize throughout the summer to encourage new growth.

Those gardening in zones nine through eleven can leave their caladiums in place year-round. Others can either treat these colorful beauties as annuals or dig up the tubers and overwinter them indoors. Dig tubers in early fall when soil temperatures drop to 55 degrees. Spread them out in a warm, dry location for at least a week. Label each variety, remove the foliage and place tubers in a mesh bag or pack loosely in dry peat moss. Store in a cool, dark location at around 60 degrees.

Make this the year you add caladiums for beautiful splashes of color throughout your landscape all season long.

Melinda Myers has written more than 20 gardening books, including Small Space Gardening She hosts The Great Courses “How to Grow Anything: Food Gardening For Everyone”

DVD set and the nationally syndicated Melinda’s Garden Moment TV & radio segments. Myers is a columnist and contributing editor for Birds & Blooms magazine and was commissioned by Longfield Gardens for her expertise to write this article. Myers’s website is www.melindamyers.com.

Between the Crosses Row on Row

EIn Flanders Fields

By: Lieutenant Colonel John McCrae, MD (1872-1918)

Canadian Army

In Flanders Fields the poppies blow Between the crosses row on row, That mark our place; and in the sky

The larks, still bravely singing, fly Scarce heard amid the guns below. We are the Dead. Short days ago We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow, Loved and were loved, and now we lie In Flanders fields.

Take up our quarrel with the foe: To you from failing hands we throw The torch; be yours to hold it high. If ye break faith with us who die We shall not sleep, though poppies grow In Flanders fields.

ach year around Memorial Day, Veterans of Foreign Wars members and American Legion Auxiliary volunteers distribute millions of bright red poppies in exchange for contributions to assist disabled and hospitalized veterans. The program provides multiple benefits to the veterans and to the community. The hospitalized veterans who make the flowers are able to earn a small wage, which helps to supplement their incomes and makes them feel more self-sufficient. The physical and mental activity provides many therapeutic benefits as well. Donations are used exclusively to assist and support veterans and their families. The poppy also reminds the community of the past sacrifices and continuing needs of our veterans. The poppy has become a nationally known and recognized symbol of sacrifice and is worn to honor the men and women who served and died for their country in all wars. The poppy movement was inspired by the poem "In Flanders Fields" written by Lieutenant Colonel John McCrae of the Canadian forces in 1915 before the United States entered World War I. By 1918 the poem was well known throughout the allied world. Moina Michael, an American woman, wrote these lines in reply:

We cherish too, the Poppy red

That grows on fields where valor led, It seems to signal to the skies

That blood of heroes never dies

Selling replicas of the original Flanders' poppy originated in some of the allied countries immediately after the Armistice.

A Brief History of the Artificial Poppy

In the World War I battlefields of Belgium, poppies grew wild amid the ravaged landscape. How could such a pretty little flower grow wild while surrounded by death and destruction? The overturned soils of battle enabled the poppy seeds to be covered, thus allowing them to grow and to forever serve as a reminder of the bloodshed during that and future wars.

Madam Guerin, who was recognized as "the poppy lady from France", sought and received the cooperation of the Veterans of Foreign Wars of the U.S. early in 1922, after the Franco-American Children's League was dissolved. The VFW conducted a poppy sale prior to Memorial Day, 1922, using only poppies that were made in France. In the 1923 poppy sale, due to the difficulty and

delay in getting poppies from France, the VFW made use of a surplus of French poppies that were on hand and the balance was provided by a fi rm in New York City manufacturing artificial flowers.

The Veterans of Foreign Wars of the United States was the fi rst veteran organization to promote a nationally organized campaign for the annual distribution of poppies assembled by American disabled and needy veterans. In 1924, the VFW patented the name "Buddy Poppy" for their version of the artificial flower. Buddy Poppy proceeds represents no profit to any VFW unit. All the money contributed by the public for Buddy Poppies is used in the cause of veteran’s welfare, or for the well being of their needy dependents and the orphans of veterans.

Following the 1924 sale, the VFW believed it would stimulate local sales if the poppies they used were assembled by disabled veterans in hospitals within their own jurisdiction. The 1924 encampment of the VFW at Atlantic City granted this privilege, under the provision that all poppies would be produced according to specifications set forth by the National Buddy Poppy Committee, and that all poppies would be assembled by disabled veterans in government hospitals and by needy veterans in workshops supervised by the VFW.

Around the same year, the American Legion Auxiliary adopted the poppy as the organization's memorial flower and pledged its use to benefit our servicemen and their families. Today, the poppy continues to provide a fi nancial and therapeutic benefit to those hospitalized and disabled veterans who construct them, as well as benefiting thousands of other veterans and their families.

Each nine-piece poppy is made by veterans for veterans in Auxiliary sponsored Poppy Shops that supplement physical and psychological therapy needed by hospitalized and disabled veterans. The Auxiliary provides the materials and the volunteers. The veteran makes the poppy and is paid a small amount for each painstakingly made flower. For some it is their only income.

No matter what the cost of maintaining and supplying the “Poppy Shops”, the memorial poppy is never sold, but given in exchange for a contribution.

Publishers Notes: Information for this piece was taken from several different sources and is not meant to be a direct quote from the author.

Not long ago a Wall Street Journal headline caught my eye: “The U.S. Needs a Moonshot Mentality for AI— Led by the Public Sector.” According to the WSJ, “2023 will be remembered as the year Artificial Intelligence went main-stream.”

“We believe 2023 is also the year Congress failed to act on what we see as the big picture,” the WSJ continued. “AI is broad [and] its impact will be far bigger than the products that companies are now releasing.”

U.S. Representative Don Beyer [D-VA8], Vice Chair of the Congressional AI Caucus seems to agree. On January 10, 2024, he and others introduced the Federal Artificial Intelligence Risk Management Act, “a bipartisan and bicameral bill to require U.S. federal agencies and vendors to follow the AI risk management guidelines put forth by the National Institute of Standards.” Beyer, fi rst elected to the House in 2015 now seeks a Master’s degree in Applied Information Technology.

His focus: machine learning, how computer systems are able to learn and adapt without following explicit instructions; to use algorithms [calculations] and statistical models to analyze and draw inferences from patterns [symmetrical, skewed, etc.] in data. Beyer joins me for a Q&A.

Q1. Historians agree that British polymath Alan Turing [1912-1954] was the fi rst to ask “can machines think?” [Computing Machinery and Intelligence, 1950] In 1956 mathematician John McCarthy [1927-2011] coined the phrase Artificial Intelligence: Newell, Shaw and Simon created the fi rstever AI software program. How are the AI offerings of today the same as or different from those of the 1950s?

A1. “The offerings today

ARTIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE Can machines think?

An

are just vastly expanded applications of the ideas fi rst offered by Turing, Shannon, and others. Mathematicians and computer scientists have long understood neural networks, gradient ascents, and the ability to search large databases for otherwise unseen connections. It is the power of the new computer chips [and the investment of hundreds of millions of dollars per machine] that makes today’s AI possible. While you mention Alan Turing, his famous ‘Turing Test,’ which uses the bright line [Can you tell if you are interacting with a person or a machine?] to determine progress towards sentience [sense perception] may be irrelevant today. At least as I understand it, MANY of our computers pass this test, and yet give no indication of being able to reason independently. This movement toward Artificial General Intelligence [AGI] is exciting, perhaps scary.”

Q2. According to OpenAI CEO Sam Altman [1985], technology’s business model has changed: “It’s not just a bunch of 24 yearold programmers.” To what extent did the introduction of neural networks [1967]— computer systems modeled on the human brain—change machine learning? How today’s AI computer systems are promoted and sold?

A2. “The idea of mimicking neural networks has been overwhelmingly powerful! I fi rst read Donald Hebb’s The Organization of Behavior in college, and it still resonates in my imagination. He was among the fi rst to suggest that these millions or billions of electrical pathways in our brains created networks, and the more often a given path was followed the more likely it was to be traced again. Every visit to a given node within the brain, a locus where various axons and

interview with U.S. Representative Don Beyer

dendrons [signal carriers] met, strengthened the relevance of the neural node for the future. Our brave computer scientists figured out how to imitate these neural nets, making possible connections we mere humans might never be able to make. We have discovered much more, including how electrical waves move across the brain, where different aspects of our consciousness and abilities reside in the brain, even especially interesting, how we believe our brains evolved!”

Q3. Schooldigger.com ranks Alexandria city’s public schools 104th out of 131 Virginia districts. In 2015, the same year Beijing’s Baidu Inc.’s Minwa super computer set a new record for recognizing images, the Program for I nternational Student Assessment ranked America’s 15 year-olds 38th in math and 24th in science. Later scores, including reading have hardly improved. How are laborers, digital workers, humans expected to compete for AI-related jobs when their education is lacking?

A3. “I confess to much humility around educational achievement. So much depends on family structure [changing rapidly everywhere], family income, and the priority of education within a family. The life of the mind must be nurtured from birth. It is horribly disappointing to learn that more than 50% of Americans read one book or fewer last year. Or that the average American watches four hours of TV every day. Our parents will always be our best teachers, yet most parents also work outside the home. It is a national disgrace that we pay our teachers HALF what they could make in the American economy—I am surrounded by the best and brightest young people, virtually none of whom can

figure out how they can grow a family, buy a home, and make a living as a teacher in America.”

Q4. AI computer systems are categorized, as weak [trained to form specific tasks] or strong [a theoretical form]. As goals change and AI algorithms become more expert, applications will multiply. To what extent have AI-related standards [measures] and ethics [principles] devolved?

Technology ethics are essential why? Human values are encoded how?

A4. “We are just now learning what AI ethics and standards mean. President Biden has proclaimed an AI Bill of Rights [whitehouse. gov/ostp/ai-bill- of-rights].

The National Institute for Standards and Technology [NIST] is managing the AI Framework for responsible usage. Everywhere, ethicists are thinking through how we manage machines capable of doing equations and running algorithms exponentially faster than we humans can— and manage them with our human values.

Some scientists have suggested we build our ethics [and our morality??] into the machines as we program them. The Golden Rule, common to most formal religions, is in the guts of the machine. Isaac Asimov famously proposed his Three Laws of Robotics in 1942, and they seem as relevant today as ever.”

Q5. Popular AI applications include: language; Google search; digital voice; banking; facial recognition, and health care. To what extent can suicide prevention advocates rely on AI to further their cause? The future of the 2023 Kids Online Safety Act [S. 1409] is?

A5. “Suicide prevention is the reason I became interested in AI in the fi rst place. We lost almost 50,000 fellow

Americans last year to suicide, and far too many deaths came without any warning. On the other hand, our new 988 helpline number has generated an astounding number of calls—more than 500,000 alone this past January. And the simple act of placing that call [average wait time: 13 seconds] means that the life-ending crisis will very likely be resolved.

Right now, experts in the field, and especially at the Veterans Administration, are gathering as much data as possible about those who have died, to fi nd any and all patterns which might lead us to more effective identification and interventional efforts.

I am a huge AI optimist. Yes, there are surely unintended consequences we must prepare for—but the upsides for our personal health, for education, for the environment, maybe even for world peace, make our efforts all the more worthwhile.”

Finally I ask readers: IBM’s AI Watson beat Jeopardy champion, now host Ken Jennings in 2011. The AI risk is? Managed how, if disturbing why?

Sarah Becker started writing for The Economist while a graduate student in England. Similar publications followed. She joined the Crier in 1996 while serving on the Alexandria Convention and Visitors Association Board. Her interest in antiquities began as a World Bank hire, with Indonesia’s need to generate hard currency. Balinese history, i.e. tourism provided the means. The New York Times describes Becker’s book, Off Your Duffs & Up the Assets, as “a blueprint for thousands of nonprofit managers.” A former museum director, SLAM’s saving grace Sarah received Alexandria’s Salute to Women Award in 2007. Email: abitofhistory53@ gmail.com

Photo credit: the U.S. House of Representatives

ONSTAGE, OLD TOWN: MAY

Summer is on its way. Before it gets too hot in the DMV, buy your tickets (and air-conditioned comfort) to these plays and musicals around town.

Through May 12th

AMM(I)GONE

Woolly Mammoth Theatre

Creator and performer Adil Mansoor invites his Pakistani mother to translate Antigone into Urdu as a means of exploring the tensions between family and faith in this eighty-minute piece. Should he hide his true self from his devout Muslim mother? Through Greek tragedy, teachings from the Quran, and audio conversations with his mother, Mansoor creates a compelling personal story about locating love across faith and sexuality. Tickets at www. woollymammoth.net

Through May 18th

LITTLE SHOP OF HORRORS

Ford’s Theatre

Roger Corman’s trashy B movie about a man-eating plant and the boy who loved it becomes a Broadway musical favorite thanks to a Tony® Award winning score by Alan Menken and Howard Ashman. Tickets at www.fords.org

Through May 26th

SING DOWN THE MOON

Adventure Theatre MTC

Four traditional “Appalachian Wonder Tales” weave their magic and original mountain music into a keepsake quilt of hill country lore and downhome wisdom for the whole family. For young audiences and their families. Tickets at www.adventuretheatre-mtc.org

3rd – June 2nd

REEFER MADNESS

Next Stop Theatre

Decadence and mayhem descend on this Herndon, VA venue-- a stonedthrow from Dulles-- when a wholesome set of American teens fall victim to the dangers of the evil weed. Based on the 1936 black and white movie, it’s a cautionary tale and a musical to boot! Tickets at www.nextstoptheatre.org

7th – June 2nd

DIXIE’S TUPPERWARE PARTY

Kennedy Center

Everybody’s favorite fast-talking, gum-chewing, ginger-haired Alabama gal bring’s Granny’s Tupperware party into the 21st century. Filled with outrageously funny tales, heartfelt accounts, audience participation, and a little bit of empowerment and homespun wisdom, Dixie’s Tupperware Party leaves your heart a little bigger and your food a little fresher. Tickets at www.kennedycenter.org

7th – June 16th

METAMORPHOSES

Folger Theater

MacArthur “genius” grant winner Mary Zimmerman transforms Ovid’s tales of joy and heartbreak among the gods into a thrilling theatrical event. We’re reminded, in the process, that these mythological stories of Aphrodite, Midas, and Cupid, among others, were devised to point out our own follies and foibles. Tickets at www.folger.edu

8th – June 16th

PROBLEMS BETWEEN SISTERS

Studio Theatre

Julia May Jones’ distaff take on Sam Shepard’s True West tracks two pregnant sisters—one a visual artist, the other an artist of the con variety—who converge on a remote family cabin in Vermont. The eponymous problems flare into a collision of family baggage, personal morality, and artistic taste in this funny and savage take on the elusive demands of the Primal Female. Tickets at www.studiotheatre.org

9th – June 9th

THE RETURN OF EVA PERON

Gala Hispanic Theater

Subtitled “Momia en el closet” and performed in Spanish with English subtitles. This dark musical chronicles the intense love affair between the First Lady of Argentina and the working class - the descamisadoes - mesmerized by this iconic figure. Tickets at www.galatheatre.org

16th through June 15th

MEXODUS

Mosaic Theatre

History meets hip-hop in this groundbreaking theatrical experience that explores the untold stories of Southern slaves who sought freedom in Mexico. Brian Quijada and Nygel D. Robinson use live-looping to create a musical in real time, mapping a different route on the Underground Railroad that highlights the power of Black and Brown unity. Tickets at www.mosaictheater. org

17th – 19th

LITTLE WOMEN

Capital One Hall

Louisa May Alcott's classic becomes a touring Broadway musical as we follow the bittersweet adventures of sisters Jo, Meg, Beth and Amy March, each determined to live life on her own terms. Tickets at www.capitalonehall.com

National Theater

Tim

and Andrew Lloyd

celebrated rock opera makes a DMV stop for five performances only. Tickets at www.broadwayatthenational.com

18th – June 8th IS HE DEAD?

Alexandria Little Theatre

In this comedy by Mark Twain, adapted by Tony® Award-winning playwright David Ives, a young painter in debt to a villainous art dealer can only pay his way out and marry the love of his life by faking his death, since only dead artists achieve fame and fortune.

IS HE DEAD

This hit musical is loosely based on the story of Memphis disc jockey Dewey Phillips, one of the first white DJs to play black music in the 1950s. A mixture of soul, blues, jazz, and rock ‘n roll, surrounded by racial tension and rivalries.

Set in 19th Century London, this delightful farce depicts the chaos that ensues when a woman tries to gain entry to a fictional club of explorers. Lots of silly gags, tricks, and physical comedy.

Millet, a young painter of genius, is in love with Marie, but he’s in debt to a villainous art-dealer. The artist realizes the only way he can pay his debt and keep Marie to himself is to die, as only dead artists achieve fame and fortune. He fakes his death, while passing himself off as his own sister! Now rich, Millet must find a way to get out of a dress, return to life, and marry Marie! Mon Dieu!

Mischief ensues when the artist tries to pass himself off as his own sister. Tickets at www. thelittletheatre.com

21st – June 16th

THE MATCHBOX MAGIC FLUTE

Shakespeare Theatre

Talk about a gift from the gods—the DMV gets another Mary Zimmerman opus, this one a brand new theatrical adaptation of Mozart’s beloved opera. Playful and imaginative, this “matchbox” presentation follows the fantastic adventures of Prince Tamino and Princess Pamina as they consort with dragons, a man who is a bird, trials by fi re and water and a battle between Day and Night. Tickets at www.shakespearetheatre.org

Through June 16th

BEAUTY & THE BEAST

Toby’s Dinner Theatre

Menken and Ashman knock it out of the park again with Disney’s fi rst Broadway hit, a tale as old as time for the whole family to enjoy. Tickets at www.tobysdinnertheatre.com

Through July 7th

HAIR

Signature Theatre

The dawning of the Age of Aquarius and then some as America’s tribal love-rock musical returns in all its psychedelic glory. Tickets at www.sigtheatre.org

About the Author: Mark Edelman is a playwright who loves writing about theater. He is a lifetime member of the Broadway League and a Tony voter.

The Broadway musical based on the Gothic novella by Robert Louis Stevenson, follows a London-based legal practitioner who investigates a series of strange events involving his friend, Dr. Henry Jekyll and a murderous criminal named Edward Hyde.

DEC. 7 – 21,

The delightful musical tale of an extraordinary girl who, armed with a sharp mind and a vivid imagination, dares to take a stand to change her story with miraculous results.

Shakespeare’s

Much Ado AboUT NOTHING

A comedy by William Shakespeare, this play revolves around two romantic pairings that emerge when a group of soldiers arrives in town. The play relies on tensions created by a paradoxical use of deception by its characters.

During the performance of a play-within-a-play, a plethora of disasters befall the cast and crew, including doors sticking, props falling, and floors collapsing. Cast members misplace props, forget lines, break character, and experience hilarious situations.

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ARTOMATIC…

One More Time With Feeling

By now you must be sick and tired of hearing me discussing what a great and unique art event ARTOMATIC is, but it deserves that and more! Last month I reviewed the 5th and 8th floors and selected my faves from those floors – in this column I will review the 7th and 6th floors.

The 7th floor proved again singular ability of ARTOMATIC to deliver a visual orgy on a scale that it is impossible to deliver in any other model but this one! The mindoverwhelming variety of subjects, skill levels, ideas, room-changing work, and presentation forms is simply impossible to replicate unless the hive workforce and leadership of this kind of show is there – Geoge Koch and the hundreds of ARTOMATIC leaders and volunteers over the years deserve a special recognition from the city leaders!

First impression from the 7th floor? There is a lot of artists in love with black light on this floor and also many whose presentations include a wall assembly of a multitude of small, well-crafted and presented work! And there is a LOT of affordable art on this floor!

Almost immediately I fell in love and lust with the work of Jenny Kanzler in room 7031. I am always seduced by artists who are able through their work marry the subject with the unusual and unexpected, and this very talented artist delivers all of that and more with gusto and skill. She has really expanded her horizon of subjects and technical skill to produce work that is both attractive and quiz the mind at the same time.

In room 7006, Greg Skrtic offers the viewer an impressive array of large and technicallygifted paintings which can best be described as brilliant rediscovery and modernizing of the traditional.

In these works, the artist subjugates the focus of the work to be recreated in a canvas of multi surfaces and images that force the eye to examine each minute details of the surface individually and them re-assemble them to deliver forms that seems to step out of medieval times and onto the 21st century.

Skrtic notes on his website that:

I take inspiration from many sources, both natural and man-made. I use patterns from patchwork quilting, carpet or wallpaper designs just as readily as from a seashell, leaf, or seed pod. Incorporating these patterns into the overall composition in a way that they can co-exist in harmony is a recurring theme in my work.

In room 7041, both my wife and I admired the somewhat "retro" aspect of the work of Jeremy Arn. I note "retro" more in the sense of the muted palette, rather than just the subject, which is composed of interesting mechanical forms.

Also leaving an impression were the powerful drawings of Ricardo Mavin in room 7128, full of energy and zest which only a talented artist with a mission can accomplish. I chatted with the artist for a bit: clearly a hard-working individual who believes in his work!

Also noteworthy are Christian Tribastone's explorations of the humblest of materials (cardboard) to deliver impressive works (room 7072) as he jumps the tracks in a very cool way.

Work above by Greg Skrtic, work (top right) by Jenny Kanzler, work (bottom right) by Lee T. Wheeler.

In room 7063, Andrea Cybyk's elegant abstracts dominate the room – no surprise here, as Cybyk’s work has always been amongst the top at various previous incarnations of ARTOMATIC over the decades.

In room 7144, the flower paintings of Michal Hunter once again demonstrate the breath-taking painting gifts of this artist - the subject is new to me, as previously I've spent decades drooling over Hunter's figurative work. In that same room, the hardworking gift to the Greater Washington art scene that is Jack Rasmussen surprises with an elegant, almost obsessive display of collaged monochromatic works that are both interesting and immensely intelligent! Over is space 746, kudos to the printmaking of Cecily Abram – monoprints that are not only pleasing to the eye, but also showcases a clearly talented printmaker. These gorgeous prints tease the viewer by assembling both recognizable forms, but married to deliver a somewhat abstracted delivery – and priced at a point that they’re one of the best art deals of ARTOMATIC.

The sixth floor: there's a LOT of really good photographers on this floor! I liked Jose Valcarcel's "City Aperture" small photos with triangular compositions, also Khalil D'Jmaal's great out of control and entertaining room 6106, Redeat Wondemu in room 6001, and Kathleen Weis in 6000.

A special shout-out to the SPECTACULAR photo installations dealing with slavery in room 6016 by Damien T. Taylor! They are not only clearly a work of love, but also an important statement - this photographer can teach lessons in presentation and design! WOW!

In room 6052, artist e.l. briscoe transforms Star Wars imagery into really good paintings and excellent and really deep thoughts - also loved the recycled material sculptures in room 6044 by Phil Charlwood.

My fave sculpture on the 6th floor? How about the precise and elegant and super cool assemblage of organic things (the wings are tree leaves) titled "Reluctant Predator" by Lee T. Wheeler in room 6002.

Also liked Mike Price’s marriage of color and wire, the erotic work of DMV überartist Pat Goslee, Michael Pacheco’s transformation of a room into a Central American jungle, and Brian H. Zambrano’s sardine paintings.

Here’s a last-minute wish for an ARTOMATIC 2025!

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We Love Dots

Cash Cabin Sessions, Vol. 3

by Todd Snider

On Cash Cabin Sessions, Vol. 3 Todd Snider employs the great forms of Folk, Blues, and Country to frame his views on life, love, and politics. Using bare-bone arrangements, Snider continues in the centuries-old tradition of American Roots music and brings us a collection of pictureperfect songs.

The fi rst thing that struck me about Cash Cabin was its parallels to Bob Dylan’s second studio album The Freewheelin' Bob Dylan. At times, Snider’s vocal is strikingly similar to Dylan’s. Snider also has a wit and charm which bears a resemblance. These similarities feel much less like mimicry though. It’s more a case of being cut from the same cloth.

Cash Cabin begins with a tune called “Working on a Song”. Here, Snider poetically expresses the often heartbreaking experience of chasing a dream. This song's emotional impact is largely expressed through the way Snider sings it. There’s a touching vulnerability to his delivery. You almost hear tears welling up as he sings the lines.

Next, we hear a more playful song called “Talking Reality Television Blues”. This is one of my favorites off the LP. Here, Snider takes us on an abbreviated journey through the history of Television and makes a thought-provoking connection between it and the current state of American politics. It’s songs like these that put Todd Snider in the rare class of musicians who actually have something to say.

Cash Cabin isn’t just a quaint collection of well written tunes. At times it’s as if nature herself is possessing Snider, breathing a message to the world. This is most evident on songs like “A Timeless Response to Current Events”. Here we get a glimpse into the historic knowledge, and social/political insight Snider has. Whether you

agree with him or not, you have to hand it to him for having an opinion. Snider continues with this socially conscious theme with “The Blues on Banjo”. On this song, Snider delivers scathing indictments against who he understands to be the corrupt corporations running the planet. Snider is no people pleaser. He makes it crystal clear what he thinks about certain power structures. Yet he always maintains a lightness and humility which distinguishes him from just another angry protester railing against the greedy fat cats. Snider uses the blues to do what the blues does best. Namely taking a bad situation and making something true and beautiful out of it. He also understands how to employ the power of story through song. This is most evident on the endearing introduction tracks to “Cowboy Jack Clement’s Waltz” and “Watering Flowers in the Rain”. Here, we listen to Snider deliver brief narratives introducing each song. This sparks new interest in the album and creates anticipation for the songs that follow. There’s a playful honesty to Cash Cabin and an intimacy which draws a listener in. You feel like you’re just hanging out

with the songwriter while he shows you these new tunes he’s drummed up. Snider’s influences include some of the greatest musicians of our time. Cash Cabin Sessions, Vol. 3 is convincing evidence that some of that greatness has rubbed off. If you would like to listen to Cash Cabin Sessions, Vol 3 you can fi nd it on Apple Music, Google Music, Spotify etc. Snider has appeared locally at the Birchmere in

Alexandria so watch their schedule for an upcoming gig. To learn more about the artist, visit his website at ToddSnider.net.

About the Author: Ron Powers is an independent A&R specialist and music industry consultant and is constantly searching for, discovering and writing about new talent. This column previously appeared in the May 2019 issue.

AFTER HOURS

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The Fish Market

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CAPOTE AND HIS SWANS

FROM THE VAULT: In April 2016 I reviewed the book about writer Truman Capote and his highsociety female friends, The Swans of Fifth Avenue. Last year Laurence Leamer released his book Capote's Women: A True Story of Love, Betrayal, and a Swan Song for an Era, a comprehensive view of Truman Capote’s relationship with this elite coterie of international socialites he called his swans. Subsequently FX released its dishy second season of the TV series Feud. Titled Capote vs. The Swans , this glitzy drama was based on Leamer’s book. It brought writer Truman Capote to life for a new audience, further camping up the story of an unusually fl amboyant gay man in high society and his elegant friends while detailing the bitchy, heated betrayals and backbiting that caused their relationships to fall apart. His close circle included Babe Paley, Slim Keith, Gloria Guinness, Marella Agnelli, Lee Radziwill, and C.Z. Guest, among others. In Leamer’s book I perused specific chapters on his swans’ lives, which I found fascinating but often depressing. In the mid-twentieth century they grew up to marry well and present a glamorous image. Trying to escape the gilded cages they were raised to inhabit, many moved from one wealthy, distinguished man to another, succumbing to the superficial values and shifting allegiances that surrounded them.

Both Leamer’s book and the TV series portray Capote’s capacity to be vicious, sozzled, and showy without revealing his depth, education, childhood, and early life. Gerald Clarke presents the writer fully in Capote: A Biography. I highly recommend the latter if you want to see a well-rounded, engaging, and often compassionate picture. Capote’s acute eye, captivating persona, beautiful writing, and unusual sensitivity helped make him one of the most prominent American men of letters from the 1940s to 1980s.

The Swans of Fifth Avenue

The author Truman Capote cut a dashing figure in the world of American letters from the time he was discovered in 1948 for the novel Other Voices, Other Rooms, which pictured him posing seductively on the back cover. His high voice, short stature, and unveiled homosexuality set him apart from the start. Unusually for the time, he took pride in all his predilections. He also had a flair for publicity and making friends at all levels of society. From his collection he strung together pearls on a necklace of his making: beautiful, elegant New York socialites he called his swans. Author Melanie Benjamin’s compelling new page-turner called The Swans of

Fifth Avenue imagines his relationships with these Upper East Side society women, and the way they progressed over time.

Among Capote’s short stories and essays, he wrote Breakfast at Tiffany’s, the highly acclaimed novella about a glittering party girl named Holly Golightly, which became a classic film starring Audrey Hepburn and George Peppard. He also researched and wrote a true crime novel called In Cold Blood that captivated the country: many considered it one of the fi rst nonfiction books written in a fictional style. It too has become a classic film.

friend for their wives and succumbed to his charm themselves, inviting him to vacation retreats and socializing with him.

As someone who has read all of Capote’s writing and several biographies about him, I was looking forward to reading this book with anticipation. Luckily, my wait was rewarded. Benjamin creates a poignant picture of Truman, on the outside looking in, no matter how close he became with these women. His closest relationship was with the welldressed, elegant Babe Paley, who had married Bill Paley, the head of CBS. Each of them recognized themselves in the other: outsiders who had to keep up appearances and play roles to please the world they inhabited.

Yet despite researching and writing brilliantly about this Kansas family and their murderers, he never forgot the rarefied set of companions who entranced him. He spent time on their yachts in the Mediterranean, on Long Island in their summer houses, and grew to know their lives intimately. Capote had the gift of making each feel like she was his most special confidante. As a good listener, he learned their secrets, desires, and heartaches. Their husbands considered him a safe

Benjamin portrays Babe Paley as a woman groomed from birth to make a society marriage with the assets of her beauty and sophistication. In the process, she was forced to ignore her own needs for individuality, gracefully catering to her husband in all ways and making sure she was always perfectly made-up and dressed to see him at all times. In the novel, Capote divines her sadness and recognizes it in himself. Such mutual recognition created a remarkably close friendship between the two of them, one of the most meaningful in his life. He loved gossiping with other socialite friends like Slim Keith, Gloria Guinness, C.Z. Guest, and Marella Agnelli, but Babe held a special place in his life.

Melanie Benjamin’s portrait of these women and Capote is utterly convincing. She writes sympathetically about Capote’s fatal, selfdestructive flaws and how they affected his relationships after he had known his swans for years. As a fatherless and mostly motherless boy left with relatives in a tiny town in Alabama, effeminate and unaccepted, Capote’s insouciance and social connections masked his deep sense of loneliness, the loneliness that he also saw in the programmed Babe Paley. One could see that loneliness also in Holly Golightly, the complicated rootless call girl who enchants the friend she calls “Fred,” the unnamed writer and protagonist of Breakfast at Tiffany’s. A charming nomad, both she and “Fred,” an author like Capote, may actually have been incarnations of himself.

This engrossing novel depicts Capote well. Benjamin writes about him with grace, sympathy, and a deep understanding of his need for and underlying resentment of his friends. If you love books about literary figures, midcentury American high society, and the complications of friendships, please enjoy this novel.

Calvert Marine Museum May Happenings

Experience the rich maritime history of the Chesapeake Bay at the Solomons Maritime Festival! Be sure to check out Wm. B. Tennison cruises, educational programs, special events, and the fi rst month of openings for Cove Point Lighthouse and Lore Oyster House this season!

Explore how the prehistoric past, natural environments, and maritime heritage come to life and tell a unique story of the Chesapeake Bay. The Calvert Marine Museum is open daily from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Admission is $11.00 for adults; $9.00 for seniors, military, and veterans with valid I.D, AAA and AARP members; $6.00 for children ages 5 - 12; children under 5 and museum members are admitted free. Proud participant in Museums for ALL. For more information about the museum, upcoming events, or membership and to purchase tickets for all events, visit the website at www.calvertmarinemuseum.com or call 410-326-2042. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, and X.

Wednesday, May 1 – Lore Oyster House 2 – 4 p.m. Join us for the fi rst official open day of the season at the newly refurbished Lore Oyster House. Located six-tenths of a mile south of the main museum campus on Solomons Island Road, this 1934 seafood packing house offers exhibits that explore all aspects of oyster processing. No admission required. Visit our website for all summer dates.

Wednesday through Sunday, the month of May – Wm. B. Tennison Public Cruise 2 p.m.

Relax and enjoy a leisurely one-hour sightseeing cruise on the river aboard the Wm. B. Tennison, a log-built bugeye. Capacity allows for 40 guests. Cost is $9 for adults and $5 for children, infant through 12 years. *Please note: May 4 will follow the event schedule for the Solomons Maritime Festival and a May 19 cruise will not be available due to the Blessing of the Fleet event.

Wednesdays, Saturdays, and Sundays, in the month of May – Cove Point Lighthouse grounds and Visitors Center 1 – 4 p.m.

The Cove Point Lighthouse grounds are open to the public during the summer months to enjoy a view of the Calvert Cliffs, explore the base of the lighthouse tower, and learn about the history of the oldest continuously operating lighthouse on the Chesapeake Bay. No admission required. NOTE: The beach is not open to the public.

Thursdays, May 2, 9 & 16 – Sea Squirts: Marsh Detective 10:15 & 11:15 a.m.

Children 18 months to 3 years, with an adult, are invited to discover the museum together through music, stories, and special activities. Join us for story time and a craft, available while supplies last. Sessions are 25-40 minutes. Cost is free with museum admission. Sign up at the Admissions Desk when you arrive. For more information visit: Sea Squirts | Calvert Marine Museum, MD - Official Website

Friday, May 3 – First Fossil Friday! 1 – 4:30 p.m.

Fossil hunters, bring your fossil fi nds from the Calvert Cliffs or other local areas to be identified! This service is provided for free; however, admission fees apply for access to CMM exhibits.

Friday - Sunday, May 3 - 5 – Solomons Small Craft Gathering All day

The Patuxent Small Craft Guild (PSCG) Chapter of the Traditional Small Craft Association (TSCA), in association with the Calvert Marine Museum (CMM), invites you to join us for a weekend of messing about in small boats. All small craft are welcome, whether propelled by wind, paddle, oar, pedal, or motor. The gathering will be informal with no fees, signups (unless you

choose to camp at the museum) or planned events. The event will coincide with CMM’s Solomons Maritime Festival on Saturday, May 4. This allows interested attendees to enjoy free admission to the museum on Saturday and the opportunity to enjoy festival activities.

Saturday, May 4 – Solomons Maritime Festival 10 a.m. – 4 p.m.

Celebrate Southern Maryland traditions at this FREE festival! Visitors of all ages are invited to join us for exciting activities including cooking demonstrations, traditional LIVE music, toy boat building, Quilts of Valor display, Chesapeake Bay Retriever demonstrations, antique boats and motors, plus 30-minute cruises on the Wm. B. Tennison! Food vendors will be on-site. Admission to the festival and the museum is FREE!

Sundays, May 5, 12, 19 & 26 – Sunday Afternoons with Poppie 1:30 – 2:30 p.m.

Make your Sunday afternoon memorable by coming to visit with our very own Pop Star “Poppie,” our Virginia Opossum. You can join the Poppie paparazzi in the museum lobby with one of our educational interpreters, learn all kinds of fun possum facts, and visit our Museum Store for possum fan gear. Since the welfare of our animals is our primary concern, Poppie’s ability to visit with her adoring public may occasionally be subject to change on short notice.

Sunday, May 12 – Mother’s Day Evening Cruise 4:30 – 6 p.m.

Celebrate mom or your “special” someone aboard the Wm. B. Tennison! Relax together and enjoy the sights and sounds of the Solomons Harbor and Patuxent River. Heavy hors d’oeuvre and a special dessert will be served. Guests are welcome to bring their own beverages; water, tea and lemonade will be provided. Cost is $40 for adults, $20 for children ages 5-12, and $10 for children 4 and under.

Friday, May 17 – Night at the Museum for Friends with Disabilities 5 – 7 p.m.

The museum and grounds will be open exclusively for guests with disabilities and their families, friends, or caregivers. This FREE evening of fun is offered through a collaboration with CCPR Therapeutic Recreation Services (TRS). Enjoy the skates and rays, fish, fossils, and maritime history in a relaxed and supportive environment. Learn about river otters and meet Bubbles, our otter mascot. Poppie the opossum will also make an appearance. Explore the Discovery Room, boat basin, and Drum Point Lighthouse.

The Museum Store will be open and full of items for all ages and interests. Take a 30-minute cruise on the Wm. B. Tennison at 5 p.m., 5:45 p.m., or 6:30 p.m. A calming room is available. PREREGISTRATION IS REQUIRED for each person to ride the Wm. B. Tennison - Call 410-535-1600, ext. 8204 or 8205 to register for a cruise. Preregistration is encouraged but not required for museum access – Register online at Preregister to access the museum and search for Activity #470773. Monday, May 27 – Wm. B . Tennison Holiday Public Cruise 2 p.m.

Celebrate Memorial Day with a leisurely one-hour sightseeing cruise on the river aboard the Wm. B. Tennison, a log-built bugeye. Capacity allows for 40 guests. Cost is $9 for adults and $5 for children, infant through 12 years.

Springtime Slither and Slime

Just when you thought you'd be reading another story about spring flowers and the beauty in the hunt country this time of year, we're here to tell you about other springtime arrivals: the slithering and slimy creatures that make their appearance when the weather warms up. Virginia has a wide variety of amphibious animals, salamanders and frogs, that start to get active as the weather and water they live in or near warms. Perhaps no sound is more welcome than the chorus of the spring peepers, little gray frogs that start to sing on the first warm nights of spring or even late winter. These singing frogs are of the treefrog family and rarely get larger than an inch, making their singing even more impressive as to carry on, it takes a chorus of thousands, even hundreds of thousands. Even if you live in a suburban area, if you're near wetlands, a stream or pond, you've no doubt heard them sing. But you rarely see them: they're only about an inch long and are mostly tree dwellers except when first born. Salamanders, too, call Virginia home and are occasionally seen in spring and summer. They differ from lizards (reptiles) in that they have thin, moist skin instead of scales. They have blunt rounded heads, long slender bodies with short legs and long tails. Their feet have four toes instead of five, like a lizard. Generally voiceless and with some living on land under logs and leaf debris and some aquatic, many species are endangered. The ones you're most likely to see are red-spotted newts, black spotted salamanders and occasionally hellbenders, that are mostly aquatic and one of the larger amphibians growing up to 15 inches or more.

Frogs and toads are plentiful everywhere with many making their homes in suburban back yards as well as rural areas. The aforementioned spring peepers are rarely seen but often heard, whereas other frogs and toads we do see regularly can be quite vocal as well. Frogs and toads have large heads and eyes and wide, usually toothless mouths. Some can extend their long tongues for capturing insects. Frogs in this area spend the winter in a state of torpor, burying themselves in mud near water or in the bark of trees. When they awaken the males vocalize to attract the larger females, that they then cling to fertilizing her eggs. She lays her eggs in water where they hatch into round-bodied long tailed aquatic larvae called tadpoles or pollywogs. They're born with gills that later get covered with skin while it transforms into a ground, tree or marsh dwelling adult with lungs.

Toads have shorter legs and warty skin that secretes an irritating serum that is poisonous to some small animals but just an irritation to humans. You may have seen the family dog try to catch a toad and then let it go after foaming and frothing at the mouth. Toads also attract mates by calling and lay their eggs to hatch into tadpoles in water.

Turtles are usually everyone's favorite reptile, with the exception of the snapping turtle. They are the oldest living group of reptiles, dating back to the dinosaur age. They have a characteristic rigid covering: the upper part is the carapace and the bottom part is the plastron. Both are made up of bony plates called scutes. Most species have dry, scaly skin and can withdraw the head and legs into the shell and close up. Some species are vegetarian, some omnivorous and some carnivorous. They have no teeth but sometimes a sharp beak that can snap shut with considerable force. The box turtle is commonly seen in our area, it has a high domed carapace in patterned shades of dark and yellow or orange and is 5 to 6” long. Also common near ponds are painted and spotted turtles; they like to bask in warm weather. And of course, the granddaddy of them all: the snapping turtle. This fellow can reach up to a foot and a half or more carapace length and cannot retreat in its shell completely like his smaller cousins. His beak can cause considerable damage; they are best left alone if encountered.

Several lizard species call Virginia home. They can be distinguished from salamanders by their dry scaly skin and most species are not aquatic. The most common ones seen here are the Eastern fence lizard and the five-lined skink. The five-lined skink is a fascinating little creature and often basks quietly near humans on patios and decks. The juveniles have bright blue tails. If a dog or cat catches one, it's usually by the long tail, that then detaches and the skink escapes. The skink will grow a new tail, however, much to our dogs' disappointment, the tail will not grow a new lizard. The detached tail, however, will wiggle and twitch for a good 10-15 minutes.

Finally, we come to the snakes. The most common snakes found in Virginia are racers, rat snakes, garter snakes and brown water snakes. Less commonly seen are hognose, corn and king snakes. There are only two venomous snakes found here, the copperhead and the timber rattlesnake. The brown water snake is commonly confused with the

water moccasin, or cottonmouth, but it's just a nonvenomous look-alike. Moccasins have never been seen north of the Dismal Swamp in SE Virginia and are not common there. Racers and rat snakes are actually useful neighbors as they eat other snakes and if you have them, you aren't likely to have copperheads or timber rattlers. If you somehow find one in your house, it's most likely a rat snake, also known as a black rat snake; they seem far less shy about making their homes near human activities. While of course you don't want them in your house, I release outside unharmed because in addition to other snakes, they eat mice and rats so provide excellent rodent control. As the official snake wrangler of our farm, I've herded a few black rat snakes into plastic containers with a broom to put them outside where they're useful.

One cautionary note: I've heard a few snake experts say we are likely to see more copperheads this year as they lie in wait around and under trees for cicada carcasses. I've never seen one on our farm, and don't think we'll have the predicted cicada apocalypse this year because we had one in 2013 so our next shouldn't be until 2030 but you might want to keep an eye out.

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Take A Military Tour

This month’s Road Trip is different from the normal overnight drive. We decided to stay at home and tour our own Washington D.C. concentrating on the military memorials in celebration of Memorial Day this month.

I have been living in the Oxon Hill and Alexandria area since I was five years old. I have spent 72 years watching our Nation’s Capital change and grow. In fact, there were still a few electric street cars running in the city when I was young. They were removed to make way for buses in the early 1960's. A few years later construction on the city's Metro Rail system began and the Metro opened in 1972. I have seen civil rights demonstrations and watched F Street burn during some of those protests. I have attended presidential inaugurations as well as listened to the Beach Boys play on the Ellipse on July 4th. I rode my motorcycle in D.C. in the late 60's because the countryside was too cold. It was this period of time that I discovered Georgetown.

Washington, D.C. has always been the capital of the free world. Unfortunately, that appears to be being challenged today through our own government as well as a few leaders of authoritarian countries around the world. I was in need of some patriotic bolstering, so we thought it was time to walk again over hallowed ground and chart the growth of our beautiful country through the many memorials, museums, and monuments throughout Washington D.C. and the vicinity.

Something else has changed dramatically over the last 72 years...there are way more people and traffic. I remembered the old Greyhound Bus Line motto - "Leave the Driving to us" and decided to see about taking a tour with a local company. Rather than book a tour with the masses, we decided to call See DC Today and schedule a customized tour. This is a surefi re way to see only the sights you want to visit and minimize a bit of the walking.

Our driver, Edrick Lewis, arrived

at our door in Old Town sharply at 11am and we were on our way to D.C. We were very happy to have the owner, Dean Goldsmith, join us along with our guide Steve Ryan and we were very flattered that See DC’s new team member, Jessi Gower, tagged along. A little on the job training. Full disclosure, we have known Dean for close to 20 years in other business capacities and we discovered that Steve had waited on us in the mid-90’s while bartending at Billy Martin’s Tavern in Georgetown. We had a Georgetown Crier for a couple of years and Billy was a good advertiser. Lots of “small world” conversations went on during the tour.

Our fi rst stop was the Korean War Memorial near the Lincoln Memorial. Here they had a platoon of statue soldiers marching in order from a cover of trees into the field. Although this was a crowded Saturday in D.C. there was really no noise as respect was shown by all. This is impressive during the day but at night it is very moving.

From here we walked the short distance to the Lincoln Memorial that is undergoing some major construction. It is still easily accessible so don’t let that detour you from checking it out. We didn’t go in since we were on our Military themed tour but are looking forward to going back when it is back in its full glory.

From here we walked to the other side of the Reflecting Pool toward the Vietnam War Memorial. As I walked along the pool, I could not help but recall Martin Luther King Jr's speech..."I Have A Dream". On the lighter side in Forrest Gump when Jenny comes walking through the pool.

The Vietnam Wall is truly a solemn place. Folks walk slower and talk in hushed tones. It is heartbreaking to realize how many names are etched into that granite. Unfortunately, one of my high school friends was one of the fi rst names on that wall. When the wall was built something was left open...there was no closure. Also, near the Vietnam Memorial

United States Air Force Memorial

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is the “Three Servicemen Statue”. This statue is comprised of three American soldiers and the things they carried. There is a Black soldier, a Caucasian soldier and a Hispanic soldier shoulder to shoulder that is meant to make you sense the unity that the bonds of love and sacrifice that is the nature of men at war.

Not too far off the beaten path is the Vietnam Women’s Memorial. This memorial features three uniformed female nurses caring for a wounded male soldier. Each nurse is named for a virtue: Charity tends to the soldier, Faith prays for him and Hope looks upward for inspiration. Something that we learned from Jessi at this stop is that it has become customary for women to leave a hair tie or scrunchy at the base. One of the theories is that it relates to nurses and woman in the military having to keep their hair tied back at all times. There weren’t any at the base while we were there so Jessi left hers but Lani didn’t have one to leave. There weren’t many pieces of memorabilia at the

Wall when we were there so I am thinking that the Park Service had picked up previously placed items in preparation for upcoming week leading into Memorial Day month. We made the short drive down Constitution Avenue to 17th Street and the World War II Memorial. This is the newest of the War Memorials and was placed in line between the Washington Monument and the Lincoln Memorial. Through stone architecture and bronze sculptures, the World War II Memorial recognizes the ways Americans served, honors those who fell, and recognizes the victory they achieved to restore freedom and end tyranny around the globe. This was the fi rst time I visited this memorial. It is truly a fantastic tribute to those who served in WWII – including my father. Something endearing about this memorial is that the Rainbow Pool was integrated into it. The Rainbow Pool is named for the perfect rainbows that the fountains form when turned on. The significance of the pool is that at the end of

WWII, troops celebrated in the fountains of Europe and in honor of that time, you can sit with your feet in the Rainbow Pool – no wading, swimming or sitting.

From the World War II Memorial, we hopped back into the van and navigated the traffic into Arlington, Virginia and the U.S. Marine Corps War Memorial and the sculpture of Iwo Jima. This is probably the most famous statue and the one that most visitors recognize. It is truly impressive and needs to be viewed from all angles. As are all of the other memorials and statues, they can be viewed at night where they take on a whole new aura.

Our fi nal stop was the Air Force Memorial. I am guessing that many of you have seen it but don't know what it is. Reaching for the stars along I-395 near the Arlington Cemetery, you will see three spires reaching for the sky. These spires represent the Air Forces commitment to keep reaching for the stars. Each spire is 402 feet above sea level and is representative

of the trail that jets leave as they ascend. Because of the taper of the memorial as you lean back and look up, you will see the tip disappear into the wild blue yonder.

Even though I have lived here all of my adult life and have frequented these and many of the other amazing jewels along the Mall, I learned a lot from Steve as the tour went along. That is the beauty of having a local historian on board rather than listening to a canned recording. Our tour took about 4 hours and it was well worth the time spent.

If a customized tour isn’t for you, See DC has regularly scheduled inclusive tours for groups both during the day and the evening. See their ad in this issue.

In the spirit of Memorial Day and maybe the most important part of the tour, it was very touching to be at these memorials in the presence of several Honor Flight participants. I wish I’d had more time to visit with them. In any case, my patriotism has been bolstered

From left to right, Jessi Gower, Steven Ryan, Dean Goldsmith and Edrick Lewis - See DC Today

How You Can Save at St Croix’s Top Beach Resort Right Now

It’s the most legendary place to stay in St Croix: The Buccaneer, the storied beach resort near Christiansted that’s home to one of the most beautiful golf courses in the Caribbean.

If you’re planning a springtime vacation, the resort has unveiled a new program with significant savings for those who book four nights.

It’s called “Spring Fling,” and the promotion gives guests a free fifth night if you book four.

The offer is valid for bookings made now through May 31st, with travel dates through Dec. 20, 2024.

So…what about getting to St Croix?

Most major airlines fly nonstop between the US mainland and the largest US Virgin Island, with flights on carriers including Delta, American, Spirit and Frontier.

You can also fly from Puerto Rico on smaller carriers like Fly the Whale and Cape Air. Fly the Whale also flies between St Thomas and St Croix.

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The Buccaneer Beach & Golf Resort celebrates more than 75 years of Caribbean hospitality as it blends timeless charm and elegance with modern luxury. Owned and operated by the Armstrong family for three generations, The Buccaneer has received high honors from the travel industry and earned a multitude of “World’s Best” accolades. Most recently, the resort has secured the #4 spot among the Top 10 for Best Caribbean Resort in the highly coveted 2024 USA TODAY 10Best Readers' Choice travel awards.

This achievement reflects The Buccaneer team’s dedication to providing an exceptional experience for guests seeking luxury, adventure and relaxation in a tropical paradise. The Buccaneer congratulates its peers, The Sands at Grace Bay in Turks and Caicos, Bucuti & Tara Beach Resort in Aruba, and Manchebo Beach Resort and Spa in Aruba, for receiving top accolades respectively in the Best Caribbean Resorts category. "We are incredibly honored and grateful to be recognized as one of the top Caribbean resorts by USA TODAY's 10Best Readers' Choice Awards," said Elizabeth Armstrong, Owner of The Buccaneer. "We extend our heartfelt

thanks to everyone who voted for us and who continues to make The Buccaneer a soughtafter destination in the Caribbean."

Guests receive an enduring promise to meet and exceed the highest standards of taste, elegance, and discerning preferences. The resort’s mission is for every guest to return and become part of The Buccaneer family. Team members provide world-class service and work towards ensuring that every visitor becomes an ambassador for St. Croix. All 131 rooms and suites are designed and furnished to be an intimate retreat surrounded by the beachfront beauty of St. Croix. Each room features a patio or balcony to experience spectacular views and cooling breezes.

The Buccaneer is currently open for leisure and corporate travelers. Overlooking the Caribbean and Christiansted harbor, fronting three distinctive and spectacular beaches, the Buccaneer remains as one of the most iconic luxury resorts in St. Croix. It’s tranquil here with stunning views in every direction and 340 acres of an oceanfront playground encompassing an 18-hole golf course, eight tennis courts, three beaches, two pools, a water sports center, a full-service spa and a salon, a 24-hour fitness center, three restaurants and a shopping arcade with fi ne boutiques.

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It’s Always Tea Time at Lady Camillia

What better way to celebrate Mom on her day than having a grownup tea party?

Lady Camillia at the Waterfront is the place to do just that. Previously located in Georgetown, Lady Camillia moved to their waterfront location in Old Town on Strand Street in January of last year.

I have to admit that I am sort of embarrassed that it took me over a year to patronize this lovely eatery. I love tea and the idea of getting a little dressed up to go someplace for a “tea party” is very appealing. Full disclosure, I made this decision sort of last minute and all of my lady friends were otherwise engaged so I talked Mr. Gastronome into accompanying me. Truth be told, I think he really liked being the only “guy” in the room. He even held his “pinky” out while drinking his green tea.

Lady Camillia is a very pretty and very proper setting. The colors are muted pinks and mauves with touches of light blues. The seating is also very comfortable and I can’t say enough about the elegance of the place settings.

When we arrived, we were seated at a table for two by the window next to a group of three sisters celebrating an early Mother’s Day with their mom. They were half way through their “Afternoon Tea” party and were having a fabulous time. We followed their lead with some of our choices for pastries.

Since we were there on a rainy Friday, we opted for the “Weekday Afternoon Tea” Full Tea for two. This includes three tea sandwiches (we had the smoked salmon, egg salad and chicken salad), choice of three scones/croissants (we opted for a white chocolate cranberry scone and plain and pain au chocolate croissants) and four pastries. This was a tough decision since there are so many to choose from but we went with a red velvet tea cake, a lemon blueberry tartlet, a vanilla crème brulee and a lemon macaron. All of this accompanied by your choice of tea, of which there are many. The presentation was as impressive as the food itself.

Also on the weekday menu are a various sundry of choices ranging from the Cream Tea

(three scones/croissants and tea), Light Tea (five pastries and tea), Savory Tea (3 tea sandwiches and tea), Souffle Tea (one souffle and tea), English Pie Tea (one pie and tea) and High Tea (souffle or pie, two scones/croissants, four pastries and tea).

Prices range from $30 to $65 per person. If you are looking for something with a bit more kick than tea, mimosas, wine and champagne are available. I added a Poinsettia (champagne and cranberry juice) to my experience.

We were actually pleasantly surprised at how full we were after working our way through our food choices. Everything was exceptional for us and it appeared that everyone else in the tea room was having a similar reaction.

Our server was very pleasant and accommodating and made sure we had plenty of hot water for our individual tea pots. Speaking of which, the ceramic pots keep the tea very hot and are accompanied by individual strainers and sugar cubes are on the table. If you enjoy cream with your spot of tea, it is available.

The tea sandwiches, English pie, scones, croissants and the pastries are available to go and you can order online. If you are having the girls over or are in need of some impressive desserts, you may want to consider ordering from Lady Camillia. Along with being delicious, they are packaged in beautiful boxes. That being said, a box of some of your favorites would make a nice hostess/host gift or just a gift in general. It was a fun afternoon and Mr.

Gastronome was a really good sport. He did get quite a bit of attention so it wasn’t too painful for him to sit through tea with me, however, I am going to get some gal pals together soon and return.

Meal Prep Magic: Transforming Stress into Success and Savings

In the chaotic world of never-ending to-do lists and constant meetings and deadlines, fi nding a way to streamline daily tasks can make a world of difference. One such game changer that I have taken on and gaining popularity is the art of meal prep.

Meal prep can significantly reduce stress and bring a sense of calm to your weekly life. Imagine after a long day knowing that a delicious, healthy meal is just a microwave away. No more last minute grocery store runs or staring blankly into the fridge, wondering what to make for dinner.

By dedicating a few hours over the weekend to plan, shop, chop, and cook, you set yourself up for a week of one less thing to do. Not only does meal prep save time and money, but it also allows you to make healthier choices. Say goodbye to greasy takeout or unknown what's in the box meals. Your carefully crafted or attempted recipe meals are waiting for you, ready to fuel your body and mind.

The benefits extend beyond just physical health. The mental relief that comes with knowing your meals are sorted can't be overstated. Instead of worrying about what to eat, you can focus your energy on more important tasks or simply unwind and relax after a busy day.

Meal prep also fosters creativity in the kitchen which I constantly promote.

Experiment and even fail with new recipes, flavors, and ingredients, knowing that you have everything you need at your fi ngertips. It's a chance to indulge your inner chef without the time constraints of a typical weeknight.

So, whether you're a busy professional, a parent juggling multiple responsibilities, or simply someone looking to simplify their life, meal prep is a game-changer. Embrace the power of planning, take back control of your week, and savor the stress free benefits of a well prepped meal. Your future self will thank you for it.

Additionally, Farmer's market season is just around the corner which makes for a great weekend outing while providing for you and local farmers. Make the effort and your body and mind will thank you.

About the Author: Glenn Morel is a producer turned chef. His website is www.ifihadachef. com. With experience in restaurants from Florida to Manhattan, he specializes in bringing his clients their very own personal chef for any special event. In addition to private parties of 12 (or more-or-less), he also offers catering for small and large groups. Chef Glenn works with you to create a customized menu and first-class event. He brings culinary professionals with him that dress appropriately and are experienced in handling food. They are also often trained mixologists and fine dining servers.

What's happening in the NOVA wine industry this month?

One of our mobile bottling lines that Chris Pearmund and a few other folks have run over the decades will retire this year. A key reason our industry has blossomed as well as it has over the last 3 decades has been because of this bottling line and a couple others like it. The trailer housing the bottling line is large and heavy, the equipment is sensitive, and winemakers are fi nicky about how our wine is treated in this critical stage of its life. Hats off to all the folks that own, manage and work these lines in order to get our wines into the bottle and our labels on straight. These operators are a rare breed, and we can’t do our job and get the product to our customers without them. Hail, really? The other day, in the middle of our bottling run, we had a heathy hail storm roll through. The vines were just budding out so the damage was not devastating, but it did knock off some of the buds. In the process of pruning and training our grapevines, we eliminate a portion of the buds that the plant grew last year. So losing some buds is ok, but we want buds in certain positions to maintain the structure of the vine and keep the fruit in the fruiting zone for training and protection. The photos below are of a hail damaged bud and an untouched healthy bud. We were fortunate to be only grazed by this damaging storm. One more thing for farmers to worry about.

Our pear trees have set their fruit. The pear blossoms come out just about the same time the cherry blossoms bloom in DC. Yes, it does seem to happen a bit earlier each year. This is an important time for our trees because soon we will train those little pears to grow in our special wine bottles. Timing is important because we want to choose the strongest fruit in the right location to give us the best chance of success. Currently, we are sold out of our pear wine with the pear inside but this season we have lots of fruit on the trees so I anticipate a solid crop of these special bottles come September. I will keep you posted.

Our customer flow is starting to pick up! It is great to see an uptick of visitors and wine sales. Thank you and let’s keep it going. We feel it when sales are down, but we really feel it when sales are moving up. With our grapes in the ground, we are committed to farming and producing wines from our grapes. We commit to our customers to have our wines available based on what we plant. We all work hard to make the best wines. We work harder when sales are down so we don’t overspend and get into cash flow challenges. Is there a balance point for this industry? It is probably there on the tip of a grapevine.

So keep visiting your favorite wineries, enjoy the views and walks through the vines. Bring our wines home and share them with your friends and family. We are proud of our industry and how we add balance, perspective, outdoor activity and culture to our ever evolving region. All are welcome to taste, learn, enjoy and support.

Finally, but most importantly HAPPY Mother’s Day to all the wonderful Moms! Enjoy your day… we salute you!

About the Author: Farmer, winemaker, entrepreneur, educator, and leader, Doug Fabbioli has been accelerating the growth and quality of Virginia’s wine industry since 1997. With his wife Colleen, Doug is the owner/operator of Fabbioli Cellars in Leesburg, VA. He is the founder and director of The New Ag School, which focuses on teaching the next generation of farmers and agriculture-related leaders. No wonder they call Doug Fabbioli the Godfather of DC's Wine Country.

Our Top 10 Family Friendly Virginia Wineries

If there’s one lesson Virginia wine lovers should know, is there’s a winery for every occasion. Some specialize in scenic views, others amp up the rustic charm. Visitors may fi nd one location that caters to an adults-only crowd, while down the road another winery provides a dog-friendly environment. With Mother’s Day coming up, it’s only proper to showcase wineries that are family friendly. So here are 10 of NOVA’s most family-friendly wineries that you might consider treating Mom to on her day.

8 Chains North Winery & Brewery (38593 Daymont Ln, Waterford)

Why is it family friendly? Not only are children welcome, 8 Chains also has an off-leash area for dogs. Guests can get comfy in one of their Adirondack chairs with a private fi re pit, or play a game of corn hole. On top of it all, 8 Chains serves beer as well as wine.

Don’t Miss: Their 2023 Albariño, which won gold at the 2024 Virginia’s Governor’s Cup wine competition.

Barrel Oak Winery & Brewery (3623 Grove Ln, Delaplane)

Why is it family friendly? Imagine wine, beer, great views, a weekend pizza vendor, and plentiful outdoor space. If that’s not enough, Barrel Oak is possibly the most dog-friendly winery in the state, as pups are welcome indoors as well as outdoors.

Don’t miss: The 2021 Seyval Blanc, Best in Class at the 2023 Atlantic Seaboard Wine Competition. Breaux Vineyards (36888 Breaux Vineyards Ln, Purcellville)

Why is it family friendly? This Cajun-themed winery has one of the largest vineyards in Virginia. While guests can bring a picnic to enjoy outside, a better option is to enjoy a dish from their on-site kitchen.

Don’t Miss: Their 2019 Nebbiolo Reserve, which earned a spot as one of Virginia’s top-12 wines at the 2024 Virginia’s Governor’s Cup competition. Fabbioli Cellars  (15669 Limestone School Rd, Leesburg)

Why is it family friendly? Fabbioli has a dedicated outside area for groups with children. Those 16 years old or older are permitted in the upstairs lounge.

Don’t Miss: Their wine and food pairings, which are limited only by the staff ’s creativity. Expect samples such as their Rosa Nera port-style with limoncello gelato, the Raspberry Merlot with a truffle, or the pear wine with an apricot/goat cheese/ cranberry marmalade mix on a cracker.

Good Spirit Farm Winery (35113 Snickersville Turnpike, Round Hill)

Why is it family friendly? This new winery has a kid-friendly tasting room and allows dogs on the lawn. Guests can also bring their own picnic.

Don’t Miss: Their on-site guesthouse, which provides a base from which to explore the nearby Appalachian Trail, restaurants in Purcellville or Harpers Ferry, and the local beer and wine scene.

Hillsborough Vineyard & Brewery (36716 Charles Town Pike, Hillsboro)

Why is it family friendly? Both kids and dogs are welcome in the tasting room and on the patio. Order a sharable dish from their kitchen and enjoy the view; it’s one of the prettiest in NOVA.

Don’t Miss: While wine lovers would enjoy their gold medal winning 2021 Petit Verdot, beer drinkers would probably prefer the “50 Shades of Gold” Belgian Golden Strong Ale (made by Belly Love Brewing).

Pearmund Farm Store (6188 Georgetown Rd, Broad Run)

Why is it family friendly? The “Farm Store” is Pearmund’s kid-friendly setting, which offers flights from not only Pearmund Cellars but also Effingham Manor and Vint Hill Winery. Guests can also get a pint of beer at the Farmhouse or the nearby adultsonly wine tasting room.

Don’t Miss: Their “Black Ops” red blend. A tribute to the Special Operations community, a portion of the proceeds for Black Ops is donated to the Code of Support Foundation, which provides essential assistance to struggling service members, veterans, and their families.

Stone Tower Winery (19925 Hogback Mountain Rd, Leesburg)

Why is it family friendly? Stone Tower has a tasting room specifically for families, which offers an expansive view of their nearly 100-acre vineyard.

Don’t Miss: Their sparkling wine, which includes a Blanc de Noir, Blanc de Blanc, and Brut Rosé, all from Burgundy. Stone Tower is also building a separate facility specifically for producing sparkling wine, so expect to see Virginia-made sparkling options in the future.

Walsh Family Wine (16031 Hillsboro Rd, Purcellville)

Why is it family friendly? Owners Sarah and Nate Walsh created this space with families in mind, which is why Walsh Family Wine has a large covered patio, ample indoor seating, and offers sharable dishes including flatbreads. Walsh also hosts periodic ‘Made for Mothers’ business workshops sponsored by a marketing coach.

Don’t Miss: Their ‘Bar Takeover” events, which features winemakers from around the state. If you’re lucky they may pour a sample of their members-only “What Will the Women Drink?” red blend.

Willowcroft Farm Vineyards (38906 Mt Gilead Rd, Leesburg)

Why is it family friendly? Housed in a historic barn, Loudoun County’s oldest winery allows children and pets inside the tasting room.

Don’t Miss: Their Rose of Sharon 2022, awarded best r osé at the 2023 Loudoun County Wine Awards. Visitors should also join one of their “taste while you tour” events, which includes a vineyard tour and visit to their barrel room.

About the Author: Matthew Fitzsimmons is a blogger who has visited nearly every winery in Virginia – most of them twice. Track his progress at https://winetrailsandwanderlust.com/

A Brewer’s Hidden Spring Delight The West Coast IPA

Happy Hour is a term used by bars and night clubs to induce patrons to come in and enjoy reduced drink prices. Happy Hour can be at any time the establishment chooses. I’ve seen bars have Happy Hour at midnight. Although I can’t for the life of me figure out why anyone would. Reduced prices at that hour would attract people who have already been drinking for a good part of the evening. You’re just asking for a fist fight or a broken restroom stall door.

Cocktail hour is a tad different. Here is how an article on glasswithatwist.com defi ned it.

The Cocktail Hour is a more refi ned pleasure. It is that breather after working hours but before dinner to relax and to whet one's appetite for the meal to come. The Cocktail Hour can be as intimate as a solitary dinner, or as big as the beginning of a corporate banquet. It can be meeting for drinks before dining out or the

gathering time before a dinner party. It is a time to unwind, to refresh the mind and ready oneself for the evening to come after dinner.

When I pour myself a bourbon at home, usually around four or five in the afternoon, I like to refer to it as Cocktail Hour. My Cocktail Hour is often accompanied by a cigar. It’s a great way to kick off the evening.

However, today’s story begins at a traditional Happy Hour. I’m sitting at a bar with a buddy of mine. He orders a beer. When it arrives, he picks it up and looks at it questioningly. He’s obviously perplexed. He tastes it. His face communicates that something is wrong.

“I ordered a lager,” he says.

I look at the beer. It’s straw colored and a bit hazy.

“That’s not a lager,” I tell him.

“Then what the hell is it?”

I take it from him. “It looks like a West Coast IPA.” I taste it. It’s citrusy with a small bite of hops. It’s a West Coast IPA. And it’s delicious.

“I asked for a lager.”

“Well, you didn’t get a lager. You got a West Coast IPA.”

“That’s not what I asked for.”

I hand it back to him. “Try it again.”

He tastes it and then looks back at the tap handles.

“The tap handle says lager.”

At this point I’m looking for something to hit him with.

“I don’t give a flying rat’s butt what the tap handle says. It’s a West Coast IPA. Do you like it?”

He tastes it again. “Sure. It’s a pretty good beer.” And thus ends the great happy hour beer dilemma.

All is right in the world again.

Tim’s Whiskey and Cigar Recommendations

Uncle Nearest 1884 Small Batch Whiskey

This IPA was, by far, the most popular beer at the beginning of the craft beer trend. In those days, the brewer’s true test of a good IPA was its bitterness. And their little darling was the West Coast IPA. West coast hops like Cascade, Chinook, and Centennial gave the original versions of this brew a dank resin flavor with notes of pine. And the more the hoppy bitterness made you pucker, the better for them. Imagine a chef putting so much salt in a soup that it was unbearable. And then he dared anyone to eat it. Many brewers were doing exactly that with beer and hops. The West Coast IPA was also the dream of the man-bun-wearing millennial snob who would taste and harshly critique a brewery’s beer flight. If the beer made his mouth pucker to a point that it induced pain, he would loudly declare its greatness. I haven’t run into one of those guys in a long time. And that makes me happy.

Today, the trend is toward lighter tasting beers like lagers and ales. Many newer versions of the West Coast IPA are about flavor, not bitterness. And the newer versions tend to be lighter than the original ones. That’s “lighter,” not “light”. This is not a light beer. These beers can be tropical and citrusy nowadays. They are hoppy but tend to lack that bitter bite the original craft beer drinkers craved. The days of overly bitter beers are gone, and they can stay gone.

There are some really fun versions of the West Coast IPA out there now. And it’s a great Springtime beer. These beers have become a nice medium. A good meeting point between light and heavy. And you won’t pucker up at the taste. The weather is warming up, but we are still having cool days and nights. The West Coast IPA is a great beer to transition us into summer. I suggest you explore this fun and delightful beer this spring. You will not be disappointed. Enjoy.

About the Author: Timothy Long is an educator, writer, consultant, and experienced restaurant operator. Email: tlong@belmarinnovations.com . Instagram and Twitter: @wvutimmy. Blog: What is that fl y doing in my soup? http://whatfl yinmysoup.com

This is a Tennessee whiskey. Like bourbon, this must be distilled from 51% corn mash, and aged in charred oak barrels. The difference is that the Tennessee version then goes through what is known as the “Lincoln County Process” and is filtered through maple charcoal chips before barreling. The history of Uncle Nearest is interesting. He was an enslaved man who taught a young Jack Daniels how to make whiskey. He gained his freedom after the Civil War and is often referred to as the Father of Tennessee Whiskey, This 1884 Small Batch is a delightful whiskey. You get honey, maple, and orange on the nose. The fi rst taste is surprisingly smooth. On the palate, caramel, and chocolate come along with notes of cinnamon and orange. The fi nish is long and smooth with cinnamon, chocolate, and maple syrup. At 93 proof and around $50 a bottle, it’s well worth it. It’ll make a great part of your whiskey collection.

Oliva Serie G Robusto

Don’t be fooled by the rough Cameroon wrapper. This cigar is smooth. The smoke begins with vanilla and nutmeg notes. Leather, coffee bean, and chocolate with hints of brown sugar and black tea come through about halfway through the smoke. This is a delightful cigar that will pair well with that West Coast IPA you’re drinking. I do love Oliva cigars. You really can’t go wrong when you’re selecting one. And at around $9 a stick, this one’s a great bargain. Enjoy.

This cigar, and many other fine cigars, are available at John Crouch Tobacconist at 215 King St. in Old Town Alexandria. Mention this article and get 10% off the purchase of this month’s recommended cigar.

POINTS ON PETS CHERYL BURNS

(WithMovingDay Cats!)

I’ve often compared having a cat to having a young child—there’s so much love, unbelievable amounts, but also a LOT of work. You feed them, get rid of the waste that results, try to keep them out of trouble, and hear them protest if you dare to close the bathroom door. Most frustratingly, you can’t explain things to them; I’ve tried to tell mine that vet visits and nail trims are for their own good, but they never do seem to understand. Oh, and they often like the boxes better than any gift inside!

Moving is among the most stressful events a person faces (says one who has moved at least nine times as an adult and considers herself something of an expert). Even accounting for their love for boxes, can you imagine how stressful it must be for a cat? Often, home

is their entire world. This article will provide some tips to help your cats (and all the humans who serve them) cope with a move.

Preparing for the Move

A few weeks beforehand, get your cat a collar that lists your cell phone number. Update the address when you move. Even if you keep them indoors, a little caution can save a world of tears. If your cat has a microchip, update the information.

Talk to your vet. Whenever we travel with our cats, including for a move, we give them gabapentin to help them relax. Several vets have agreed that it’s perfectly safe, though you might want to do a trial run to see how your cat responds to the medication.

Identify a vet and an emergency care clinic near your new home so you’re

prepared if you need them.

If you’ve got a long drive and your cat isn’t used to travel, consider a few test trips. It was only because she’d been in the car before (beyond the annual vet visit) that we knew the late, great Smoky Tiggs Burns got carsick. It wasn’t pleasant for any of us, but the right medication did wonders—for all of us.

Stock up on supplies and make sure they’ll be accessible before, during, and after the move. A pro tip: Set aside a laundry basket for last-to-pack, fi rst-to-open things including litter and food (and toilet paper, sheets, and towels for the humans!).

Moving Day

Identify a room in your old home where your cat can stay while your old home is being cleared out. Prepare the room with food, water, a litter box, and a few comfort

items. Make sure all doors and windows are closed. You may hear some loud protests, but this keeps your pet safe during a chaotic time.

Use a cat carrier during the drive. It’s tempting to let them wander or put them on a lap, but the carrier is the safest option for all. You might want to put a small litter box in the carrier— ours do use it during car trips! A pheromone spray can help too.

If you’re staying in a hotel near your destination, consider planning to leave your cat there while your things are unloaded (that was our solution last time, but our cats had some familiarity with travel and hotels). If there’s a nearby home they know, such as a friend’s place they visit when you’re away, consider leaving them there. If staying away during the

move in process isn’t an option, once again pick a room where the cat can stay during the chaos. In addition to the litter, food, and water, leave the open carrier in that room—cats hate it when they’re in it, but many cats fi nd access to their carrier comforting amid change. Consider using the pheromone spray here too. Visit them to reassure them you’re there and all will be OK.

Before letting the cat explore the whole home, make sure to give it a good look. Kittyproofi ng is a real thing! Close up or block any small spots that might prove tempting but become a trap. Watch out for blind cords and other things that might look like a toy from the cat’s perspective.

Spread some toys around or even use a clean towel to rub down your cat and then

spread their scent around the home. You know it’s home, and you want to help them identify it as their new territory.

Settling In

Keep up old habits. Cats love routine. If there were times for food and times for play in the old home, keep them the same. Remember: Cats, like small children, don’t understand time zones! Adjust slowly if needed. Be understanding. Miss Sweet Potato Bailey Burns spent some time hiding out in a bathroom cabinet. Eventually, that cabinet would be closed and off-limits, but she picked it so we let it be hers for a couple of days. Small spaces can ease feline stress.

If you allow your cat to go outdoors, consider keeping them inside for a couple of weeks while they get familiar with the new place and begin to understand that it is home. Supervise early outings. If possible, give your contact details to the new occupants of your old home in case your cat tries to return.

About the Author: Cheryl Burns is a Legal Editor and Subject Matter Expert with BARBRI, a legal education company. After stops ranging from Atlanta to Boston, including several years in Northern Virginia, she now resides in quiet Central Pennsylvania, but she’s still a proud King Street Cats supporter (and not just because Sweet Potato Bailey Burns (f/k/a just Bailey)) is an alum!

Animal Welfare League of Alexandria alexandriaanimals.org/

Animal Welfare League of Arlington www.awla.org

PETS OF THE MONTH

As always, give your cat some extra love! It’ll reduce their stress and yours!

Sources:

“Cats and Moving to a New Home: Making the Transition,” WebMD (July 23, 2023)

“Moving & Relocation with Your Cat: Tips & Suggestions,” Hill’s Pet Nutrition, Inc. (Oct. 1, 2015)

Selected Metro DC Animal Shelters/Rescues

Fairfax County Animal Shelter www.fairfaxcounty.gov/animalshelter Friends of Rabbits www.friendsofrabbits.org/

King Street Cats www.kingstreetcats.org/ Operation Paws for Homes, Inc. ophrescue.org/

Rikki’s Refuge Animal Sanctuary www.rikkisrefuge.org

Aurora

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This easy going, friendly gal loves to play with toys and dazzle you with her repertoire of tricks for treats. At 4-years-old (and 58 lbs), she's past those puppy shenanigans and is a great combo of active and affectionate. Beatrice has become one of our staff and volunteer favorites because she's so easy to handle. We do think Beatrice would thrive as an only animal in the home and would make an easygoing, yet adventurous companion, for a variety of people. Her adoption fees have been generously sponsored!

Beau is an 11-year-old male pup who weighs just under 20 pounds. He is pintsized and portable -- ready to y away with his aerodynamic ears! Even though he could technically be called a senior, this guy is active and inquisitive. He enjoys walks and working on puzzle toys, but knows when it's time to settle in for the night. Beau would prefer a home where he can be the only pup. He wants to be treated like the prince he is! If you're in the market for a new best bud, Beau may just be your guy.

Aurora is a 2-year-old female dog who is looking for a wonderful, active home. She likes to go on walks and has been working on her "check-in" behavior versus trying to chase all those pesky squirrels. She also likes to take her favorite stuf es for walks too, which is quite adorable. Aurora enjoys playing with toys independently, but hasn't mastered fetch just yet. She is a fun, playful, social gal who has been waiting too long to nd a perfect match. If you think Aurora sounds like the bee's knees, come meet her!

Beatrice

Beau

Secrets to a Fool Proof Self Tan

It is that time of year… Memorial Day weekend is fast approaching and the outdoor activities will be getting into full swing. This means donning shorts, tank tops and a swimsuit so…you don’t want the glare off of those white limbs outshining your outfit. Learning to apply self-tanner is as much about patience and perseverance as it is an art form. It does not have to be an uphill battle, like learning how to paint the Mona Lisa. It is achievable and a few tricks of the trade will have you looking as stunningly bronzed as ever. Even if you seek out a professional for help, it is important to know what and what not to do. Remember, regardless of your selftanning fate, it is still better to get that fake bake than to bake in the sun or in a wretched tanning bed.

Step 1 – Exfoliate. You must get off all that dead skin before even attempting to point that bronzing bottle at your body. If you do not slough, the tanner will blotch. Pay particular attention to rough spots like knees, elbows, heels, and hands.

When choosing an exfoliant, be sure to choose one that is oil-free. Oil prevents tanner from properly penetrating.

Step 2 – Prep Yourself. To avoid turning green, orange or any other color of the rainbow, it is extremely important that you prep your skin. Remove deodorant – it can react to the self-tanner and turn your underarms green. Put moisturizer on your eye brows – the tanner can turn them orange. Finally, rub a thin layer of body lotion onto chronically dry areas such as elbows, hands, heels and hands to keep them from turning darker shades of brown. All this will ensure that the tanner absorbs nicely without splotching or streaking.

Steps 3 – Dress Accordingly. Opt for less is more. Choose clothing that is not your Sunday best. Keep in mind these clothing items may or most likely will be slathered in self-tanner. If at home, naked is best. If at a professional tanning salon, consider wearing a thong that could get ruined or use the paper ones provided. It’s better to be safe than sorry.

Step 4 – Get to Work.

To avoid weird lines from bending over, it is best to work your way up starting with your lower half. Be sure to hold the spray tan can at least eight inches away from you and spray in an up and down motion. Spray from your thighs to calves to feet in slow, steady, even layers. Go easy on typical problem areas - feet, knees and ankles - so they don’t end up darker than the rest of your body. Next, move to the middle. Spray the front and back of your torso. Then do your arms, armpits, and wrists. Be careful not to overdo the area around your armpits. These should look a little lighter as they naturally would. Go lightly on your wrists and hands so you don’t end up looking like you are wearing dark brown gloves. Finally, face the music. Mist your face lightly. Instead of one fell swoop, mist your face in sections.

Step 5 – Fix Mistakes.

You have about 20 minutes before the tanner fully absorbs. So, check your work quickly so you can attend to mistakes. If you fi nd areas

that are too dark or splotchy, fi x your mistakes by blotting the dark areas with a make-up sponge. Be sure not to wipe, as you can create streaks.

Step 6 – Let it Set.

It takes about 8 hours for selftanner to fully set. Thus, for this period of time, be sure to wear loose, dark clothing, as it is possible for tanner to rub off on your clothes. Avoid any clingy clothing such as a bra. Avoid showering during this time period either because it will impact the fate

of your tan. If you fi nd that an area looks too dark, rub a slice of lemon over the area. The acid will tone down the color.

Step 7 – Make it Last. Most self-tanning applications last about one to two weeks. To get the maximum out of your self-tanning effort, avoid exfoliating and shave your legs infrequently, if possible. Finally, moisturize your body from head to toe after every shower

you can’t buy a better body

with summer just a calendar page away, many of us are thinking about a better body. We may be asking, “Do my shorts still fit? How will I look in a bathing suit? Will I be able to keep up with my children and grandchildren?” And, maybe, some of us are even wondering if we can buy a better body.

Even with the wisdom of midlife, many of us still believe material things will make us happier. I can be just as guilty as anyone. From cars, to clothes, to vacations, it can be so easy to fall prey to the belief these items or experiences will bring us happiness. However, I’ve learned that the best way to fi nd happiness is through true wellness, and I espouse a growth or abundance mindset to achieve it. This can be the difference between progress and, well... the same old roller coaster ride of calorie counting and chronic cardio. Let’s face it, our bodies are different at 45+, why wouldn’t our approach to our wellness be different?

It used to be – in our 20’s and 30s – we could throw money at the problem, and we could “fi x” our bodies – and frankly how we felt about ourselves. Maybe it was a new diet program, or we’d shrink calories to the bare minimum, try a fancy starstudded cleanse or a new personal trainer. We then squeezed into our jeans, felt less embarrassed in our bathing suits, and walked with more confidence. Of course, back then our heroic efforts led to a different read-out on the scale. It was two, three, or maybe even four pounds (!!), and you were ready to throw a party. Yet think about it: two to four pounds can be the difference between getting your sleep or not. Two to four pounds can be simply due to your level of hydration. Nevertheless, so many of us convinced ourselves that two to four pounds was like winning the jackpot!

While money allows us to buy foods that serve our bodies or gives us access to professional help, there

are many wellness strategies we can implement in our daily lives that cost nothing: sleep, daily movement, meditation, and self-care activities like calling a family member or friend, taking a bath, or journaling.

While you do need to invest in your wellness, like you would any high priority, like tutoring for your child or the best medical care for your parents, there are a myriad of ways you can achieve holistic wellness without spending a fortune. Here are my top 4 reasons money cannot buy us the body we desire.

wealthy and successful people struggle just like the rest of us. If money could buy the body we want, then every successful/wealthy person would have the perfect body, right? One of the wealthiest and most successful women in the world was asked to provide a specific thing in her life that still feels vulnerable. She answered, “Weight. Not having conquered the whole weight struggle, figuring out what to eat next.” I’ll give you the answer of WHO it is, yet it may shock you that someone with that kind of wealth and celebrity still struggles with weight and food issues. Wealth doesn’t fi x your weight issues.

Oprah has chefs, a personal trainer, and access to the best minds in the business to advise how to maintain a healthy weight. Yet SHE STILL STRUGGLES.

“Wealth is a tool that gives you choices, but it can’t compensate for a life not fully lived.” -

Oprah we are prioritizing the wrong things. Spending money to try to change our body can be the result of a scarcity mindset. Shifting our mindset and approaching wellness holistically will result in greater long

term success (health!) than aimlessly throwing money at diet programs and sweaty cardio sessions for possibly short term results.

daily habits, not money, will help you get the body you desire. Most of the strategies that are timetested, like consuming adequate protein, taking daily walks, getting your sleep and practicing deliberate breathing, can all be completed without excess money. In fact, I fi rmly believe the majority of our self-care should be FREE.

we are too focused on how we look. Now that we are in midlife, instead of focusing on appearance, consider what really matters: our health, our wellness and treating our body with the respect and care it deserves. Our body is worth more than money. It is everything. It is the vessel through which we can live our incredible lives, celebrate family and friends, give back to the world what we have and so much more. Throwing money to get what you want – so it can look better – can be a futile effort.

About the Author: Adrien believes the greatest gift you can give yourself is the gift of wellness. She excels in shifting mindset and helping her clients leverage small habits that yield lasting results. As a transformational wellness coach, Adrien leverages her holistic proprietary approach to helping people feel healthy, strong, and confi dent in their bodies and their lives. Learn how you can uplevel your wellness with Adrien, in-person or virtually, at adriencotton.com

The magic of Small Group Concierge Wellness is waiting for you.

Let me start by saying thank you to all of those loyal readers out there that have been following this column since its fi rst appearance in the September 2009 issue of the Old Town Crier. Writing for this popular publication would not even be possible if it weren’t for the vision of its founder, Bob Tagert, and Lani Gering. Many thanks to you guys as well. My purpose is to educate as many people as I can about the importance of fitness and how to incorporate it into everyday life. I hope that my advice is as informative as it is fun to write!

This article is the second of a twopart series about Plyometrics. In last month’s issue, I explained what plyometrics are and some important things to consider before trying this type of exercise such as age, strength, body weight, previous injuries, and training experience. Exercise safety is a top priority of mine because if you get hurt, that means you can not exercise! Where is the benefit in that?

Before jumping right into the plyometric exercises, I would like to explain how it works. The body is an extremely complex machine, especially during exercise. There are thousands of chemical reactions going on that allow our bodies to even move. These reactions work in harmony with our nervous system, which essentially dictates how the body responds to stimuli. The nervous system is integrated within our

muscles to help detect body position changes. This phenomenon is called proprioception. These proprioceptors are sensitive to tension and stretch of the muscles. Plyometrics work because of the body’s stretch reflex. The stretch reflex is an involuntary response (contraction) to any stretching of the muscle. When the muscle is stretched out quickly, this reflex will kick in to tell the muscle to shorten in order to protect it from ultimately tearing. This leads me to mention the stretch-shortening cycle. The basis of this cycle is that a stretched muscle will store potential energy which contributes to a more powerful muscle contraction when combined with voluntary contraction (in this case, jumping).

Now that you know the physiology behind plyometrics, let’s talk about the actual exercises and program design basics. The most common plyometric exercise is jumping rope. You probably have at least tried this activity without even knowing that you were doing plyometrics! Jumping rope takes some skill and concentration as do all jumping exercises, so practice makes perfect. If you are just starting a plyometric program, you should have a soft surface to jump and land onto (such as a wood or carpeted floor, or grass; not concrete) and a comfortable pair of sneakers. The number of jumps or foot contacts depends mostly on

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training experience. The beginner should aim for about 50 jumps total during a workout. This number should be slowly increased by about 10-15 jumps per week. The total number can reach as high as 200 in one workout! The intensity of each jump should be max effort and the goal is not to jump until fatigue because this will lead to injury. Rest is another important thing to remember. Never perform plyometrics two days in a row. You should aim for two workouts per week with at least 48 hours of rest in between.

The most basic plyometric exercise is called the counter-movement jump.

half squat position (45 degree knee angle) while extending your arms behind you, then immediately jump up quickly by extending your hips, knees, and ankles forcefully while also swinging your arms forward and up. Arm action will help your muscles take advantage of the stretchshortening cycle that I explained earlier. You want to achieve as much “air time” as possible before landing softly by re-bending your hips, knees, and ankles. To start, you should rest a few seconds between jumps then progress to multiple jumps without rest.

Another plyometric exercise is called the box jump. This is done in the same manner as the countermovement jump, except you will land on top of a plyometric “box” or an elevated surface such as a park bench or steps if you are outside. You should start out at a comfortable height (maybe 6-8 inches, about the same height as a step) and progress to higher surfaces such as a park bench. It’s a good idea to step down after landing a jump initially before jumping back down to start the next jump.

The fi nal plyometric exercise I will mention is the lateral cone (or line) hop. Again, this is performed in the same way as the counter-movement jump with powerful arm action, except that you will jump laterally over a cone or line. Land softly before jumping back toward the same spot in which you started. This exercise requires a little more balance than the fi rst two, so start out slowly before trying faster, multiple jumps. I strongly urge you to consider all the safety precautions that I wrote about in the last issue and also check with your doctor before giving plyometrics a try.

About the Author: Unverzagt holds a Bachelor of Science degree in Wellness Management from Black Hills State University. He is a certified Strength & Conditioning Specialist through the National Strength & Conditioning Association and a Registered Diagnostic Cardiac Sonographer through the American Registry for Diagnostic Medical Sonography.

This is done by standing with your feet about shoulder-width apart. Start by bending your hips and knees to a

LOX it up!

As bass fishing electronics costs increase, attempts to steal them are going up. Stolen in as little as 20 seconds, anglers are fi nding ways to secure them.

Ten years ago, most anglers had only two electronics units. A dash and bow unit were flush mounted and difficult to remove quickly. They were a lot cheaper, only $500, and up. Today, boats can have 6 units mounted on accessible brackets, costing up to $30,000!

Triton Mercury pro and BASSMASTER Classic Champion Randy Howell protects his Lowrance Electronics. He says losing electronics is detrimental as many anglers depend on data stored to locate and catch fish. It’s almost as bad as losing motors. “Electronics game is how we fish, and we are bound by them. Losing units would make us feel blind, in a lot of trouble.” Service trailers can hustle to figure something out but losing waypoint locations found in practice would be impossible to replace.

Howell avoids places where thieves might be prevalent, the fi rst step in avoiding theft. He’s been a touring pro for 32 years and is very careful, only staying in houses, cabins, and Airbnb. He checks locations near lakes in good communities. Above all, no hotels.

Vinyl wrapped tournament boats and trucks are rolling billboards for sponsors and targets for thieves. Organized theft rings use tournament schedules and target popular motels. Howell says nothing is safe. Even outboard motors have been stolen. Insurance bears the brunt of the loss with $500 deductibles, red tape, and replacing units. “Once it’s gone, it’s gone unless cops catch them right away.”

Boat covers discourage or delay would-be thieves. Howell is proactive in preventing electronics theft. Removing them and putting in hotel rooms or locking in boat compartments worked until thieves started breaking into those safe places. Howell headed them off with the TH Marine Loc-R-Bar rod locker security system, but this still required removal of electronics, adding more tournament day set-up time. However, his boats went untouched while those next to him were targeted.

To keep his increasing electronics investment safe, while not having to remove them, Howell noticed

fellow pros using aluminum locking devices that were visible to potential thieves, thus discouraging them. A little over 4 years ago, BoatEFX began manufacturing boating accessories and eventually GraphLOX.

Owner Austin Fries traded his landscaping equipment for a CNC machine and welding equipment to eventually manufacture boat and trailer accessories that improved functionality and appearance. Their fi rst step into the bass boat market was trailer steps, followed by graph mounts, and eventually graph locks. With 13 full time employees, BoatEFX mills and assembles everything in house except anodizing. Complete control assures a consistent made in the USA product without reliance on other companies. Existing locks on the market were moderately effective but made of plastic and easy to break. BoatEFX machined GraphLOX out of heavy duty aluminum to be solid, secure, and compatible with every make and model graph. Spinning locks on the market are easier to break, so BoatEFX includes a spring pin to prevent locks from spinning, making GraphLOX much harder to open. In keeping with their mission to make better products better looking, GraphLOX come in black, red, and blue creating a visible theft deterrent. The strong, sleek, and durable GraphLOX took 5 months of redesigns to come up with a male and female locking device. Every package includes directions and hardware: bolt matching up with existing gimble knobs, washers, and spring pin. Once the bolt is screwed

Potomac River Bassing in APRIL

Great time to bass fish!

into place, the lock cover slides into position. Depressing the lock button secures electronics. BoatEFX can key all units with the same key for simplicity, with additional keys available. Secure electronic locks eliminate the inconvenience of removing electronics at gas stations, stopping for a bite, or staying at a hotel. This also prevents wear and tear on electronics connections. With over 10,000 sold, BoatEFX backs their products with service after the sale, a recognized weak point in the boating industry. Fries applauds industry customer service leader, Power Pole Shallow Water Anchors. “I wanted to produce a level of service that stands up to Power Pole. If a customer wants a modification or change, we try to provide the best experience before they buy and after the sale with any issue no matter how long they’ve had it. We believe we provide great customer service with a great product.” It’s working as they’ve received over 5000 five star customer service and products reviews. BoatEFX has marine industry projects on the drawing board, electronics mounts for 360 sonar for all major trolling motor brands and a unique forward facing sonar mount.

Touring pros like Howell think ahead, whether making fishing decisions or securing their electronics. He believes thieves move on to easier targets when they see his GraphLOX.

About the Author: Capt. Steve Chaconas is a Potomac bass fi shing guide & freelance writer. Potomac River reports: nationalbass.com. YouTube video channel: NationalBassGuide

Fish are shallow in massive river grass beds to spawn. It’s time to open tackle boxes as bass are feeding.

Fish in prespawn are taking lipless crankbaits and shallow diving crankbaits. When water is a bit stained, try small spinnerbaits. Jigs and soft plastics are a great choice. Texas rigged Mizmo River Craw tubes with a 3/0 hook and 3/16 ounce weight can be cast to

grassy areas or pitched directly to bass beds. This is where 12-14 pound test Gamma Edge fluorocarbon line is best as it is sensitive for slight bites and low stretch makes for better hooksets. And this line is very strong. Carolina rigs also are effective in covering water and locating scattered grass. Use 16 pound test Gamma Edge fluorocarbon line with a 12 pound test Copoly leader. One ounce egg sinker is enough weight to allow slow drags along the bottom. Use 3/0 hooks for 6” lizards. Green pumpkin colors with tails dyed chartreuse. Buzzbaits work on lower tides, over grass.

For the Love of Moms & Grads

I love May, and I love my mom, but I don’t love getting bombarded by the ‘what to get Mom on Mother’s Day’ messaging. Gifts are my love language, and my mom passed in 2006 so no flowers to buy, cards to mail, or brunches to plan here. Many of us are now in the mom-less club, and it isn’t fun, especially this time of year.

Even though my mom has been gone 18 years (hard to fathom), she is still at the forefront of my thoughts. While many of my memories of her have faded, I’m left with indelible lessons and recollections. I can see a piece of Amish Butterprint Pyrex and time travel back to our little kitchen in Woodbridge. When I catch a scent of lavender, I’m instantly transported to our yard, and there she is sitting on the porch, talking, and smoking cigs with Mrs. S from next door.

And, in case you’re wondering—it’s true. You do turn into your mother. I see it in my hands especially. And, like her, I’m a worrier; to my credit, I did give up the smokes in ’08.

I’m one of the lucky ones. Even though my mom and I were vastly different, I knew I was loved. I always knew that she was proud of me. And now, more than ever, I’m aware of the sacrifices she made for me and my three older brothers. Everything she did was for us.

I’m also one of the lucky ones because I was 39 when my mom died. I was the recipient of her unconditional love on this planet until I was a fullyformed adult. Well—that part is questionable, but losing a parent certainly thrusts you into adulthood whether you’re ready or not.

Speaking of adulthood— another rite of passage in May that many will celebrate— GRADUATION. A much brighter milestone than saying goodbye to a parent is saying goodbye to books and homework! Talk about being transported—even though I’ll be headed to my 40th high school reunion this July, walking up to receive my diploma in 1984 seems like yesterday. Grads—I know this sounds like an old person talking, but enjoy every moment because in the blink of an eye, you’ll be headed to your 40th. Trust me on this one. Also—take a moment to look up in the stands and take note of the people there supporting you. Notice how proud they are—look at them clapping, smiling, and waving. See how they showed up for you and continue showing up for you—in the rain and/ or heat. The second the ceremony is over, run up and hug those people and tell them you love them. If they paid your tuition and bought your books, hug them extra hard.

And as you go venture into adulthood, show up for those people. All your people. Attend their parties, weddings, and baby showers. When their father passes, make every effort to go to the funeral—even if you hate funerals. We all do. Show up anyway.

And all those people who sent you graduation cards and gifts? Send them a handwritten note thanking them and be sure to send them notes and cards on their important milestones. Buy a calendar and keep track of birthdays and special occasions.

Celebrate the big milestones and the little ones too because as you’ll soon learn, life isn’t

always filled with IG’able moments. You’ll have challenging days and go through hard times—we all do. But those people who clapped the loudest at your graduation will be there for you, and they’ll remember when you showed up for them. Lean on them when you need to and be their pillar when the time comes.

Maybe you’ll be able to send them expensive bouquets or maybe you’ll have to scratch money together for a postage stamp. Doesn’t matter. They’ll love you either way as long as whatever you sent was sent from the heart.

When you get to wherever you’re going—fi rst job, fi rst apartment, or summer abroad—remember to make those people proud. Make your bed. Pay your bills on time. Be kind and courteous to the shopkeeper. Raise your hand to volunteer. Show up early without being asked. Clear the table and offer to do the dishes. Stay late. Pick the wrapper off the floor even if it isn’t yours. Take the trash out to the curb.

And, send your mom a card. Then pick up the phone and give her a call. While you may not always love what she has to say, one day you’ll give anything to hear her say it again.

Happy Mother’s Day! And Happy Graduation to all the grads—congrats on a job well done! Now go make us all proud.

About the Author: Lori is a local writer, painter and pet lover who loves to share her experiences and expertise with our readers. She has been penning a column for the OTC for over 20 years. Please follow Lori online on Medium for more missives like this.

moth·er /ˈməT Hər/

What makes good mothers?

The female parent of a human being; a woman in relation to a child or children to whom she has given birth; (also, in extended use) a woman who undertakes the responsibilities of a parent towards a child, esp. a stepmother. – Oxford English Dictionary

It is a pertinent question whose answer cannot be contained within a few words.

Mothers are comprised of a bundle of emotions that sometimes defy reason. So this goes out to all the mothers who have kept awake all night with their sick toddlers in their arms, constantly uttering those compassionate words, "It's OK honey, Mommy’s here."

• For all the mothers who run carpools and make cookies and sew Halloween costumes. And all the mothers who don't.

• For those who show up at work with milk stains on their dress and diapers in their handbags.

• For those mothers who cannot restrain tears from trickling down their cheeks when they hold their babies for the fi rst time in their arms; and for the mothers who give birth to babies they'll never see.

• For the mothers who gave homes to babies and gifted them a family.

• For the mothers who yell at their kids who clamor for ice cream before dinner.

• For the mothers who defy all odds just to watch her kid perform and repeat to themselves, "That's my child!!"

• For all the mothers who read "Goodnight, Moon" twice a night for a year, and then read it again. "Just one more time."

• For the mothers who taught their children to tie their shoelaces even before they started going to school.

• For the mothers who turn their heads when they hear the word "Mom" even though they know that their kids are nowhere around.

• For the mothers who silently shed tears for their children who have gone astray.

• For all mothers whose heart aches to watch her son or daughter disappear down the street, walking to school alone for the very fi rst time.

• For all the mothers of the victims of school shootings, and the mothers of those who were involved in the shooting.

• For the mothers of the survivors, and the mothers who sat in front of their televisions in horror, clinging to their child who just arrived from school safely.

So, this is meant for all the young and aged mothers, working mothers and housewives, married mothers and the single mothers, those with money and without and for those without whom life would have been insufferable. We wish you a Happy Mother’s Day! – Author Unknown

Publishers Note: We have done our best to find out who sent this to us a few years ago but we were so happy when we found it while searching our archives for something totally unrelated.

Happy 10th Anniversary to the Wheel!!

You all know how much I love the Wheel and the Flight Deck Lounge below it. I can’t believe it has been making the rounds for 10 years! It has marked an impressive number of celebrations with amazing light shows as well as providing the best view of the Potomac and all that lines it all year round. In fact, in celebration of their 10th, Derek Lovato – ICAE Vice President – told me that a brand new, amazing light program is coming our way. I can’t wait to see what new bells and whistles it has. Now that I live across the river, I can’t just look out of my old condo’s party room balcony and watch it. However,

I still get joy from looking at it from the waterfront in Old Town. It is a major part of the Harbor’s skyline.

Rising 180-feet above the Potomac River, The Capital Wheel features 42 climate-controlled gondolas promising a comfy, private ride, floor to ceiling windows and views of the Potomac River, Woodrow Wilson Bridge, National Monument, Old Town Alexandria and planes taking off and landing from Regan National Airport. Just under The Wheel, merry makers will fi nd Flight Deck, the outdoor waterfront lounge perfect for enjoying

Since I don’t live in the Harbor anymore, I don’t get the inside scoop like I used to so when I saw that The Awakening sculpture was cordoned off with caution tape, I got a little worried. Did something bad happen to it? Was it being moved again?

Just when I was getting ready to make a phone call, we received an official press release from the National Harbor PR people that explained it all. Looks like the big guy needs some shin work. I was wondering how long it would be before the gazillion kids that have been climbing on him over the last several years wore it down. For all of the info regarding his “shin replacement” and some history behind him being in the harbor, see below: When National Harbor opened 16 years ago, developer Milt Peterson was committed to making art accessible. He wanted the destination to have a collection that was engaging to visitors of all ages. Therefore, when the late founder and chairman of

a post-ride beverage or watching the sun set with friends.

They are introducing a limited time 10-year anniversary logo that has been added to the 42 gondolas for all to see to celebrate their decade long residence at National Harbor. From now until December they look forward to announcing more exciting news as part of their festivities.

To celebrate the decade, guests are invited to enjoy 10 months of special offers, events, packages and, of course, the views. Be sure to take advantage of their hospitality and take a spin or four!

Guess Who's Getting a Shin Replacement?

Peterson Companies, developer of National Harbor was alerted that J. Seward John’s “The Awakening” was placed up for sale, he seized the opportunity to purchase. The 5-piece, 72-foot cast aluminum sculpture depicts a distressed giant emerging from the earth and currently sits in the sand on the waterfront at National Harbor (153 National Plaza).

After being in Metro Washington D.C., Peterson wanted to keep the beloved piece local and purchased it for $740,000. In February 2008, months before National Harbor’s opening, “The Awakening” was moved from Hains Point to National Harbor. A specially built beach was created along the Potomac River to allow visitors to interact with the art. He wanted the piece to be in the heart of National Harbor, where it would have the highest engagement. After years of being climbed on, photographed, and the summer sun, it is need of a shin replacement.

As the stewards of the beloved sculpture, National Harbor has committed $70,000 to repair the shin.

After 43 years, it’s understandable that “The Awakening” needs some love. National Harbor has committed to hiring The Seward Johnson Atelier, the late sculptor’s foundation, to commence the repairs. The section of the leg to be replaced is currently being cast and the restoration is expected to take place in June. The replacement process should take about a week to complete, during that time the statue will be closed to the public.

The National Harbor art collection consists of a number of sculptures commissioned from nationally and internationally known artists Albert Paley, John Lopez and local artist Cheryl Foster, Steven Weitzman and others. An interactive guide to the art collection is accessible by texting ACNH to 56512.

For more information visit nationalharbor.com.

Celebrate all year with The Capital Wheel’s 10 year anniversary!

Enjoy spectacular light shows and breathtaking views year-round in a fully enclosed, private gondola. To commemorate a decade at National Harbor check out the special offers and events happening all year.