Out mag issue 21

AFRICA

M A G A Z I N E Issue 20, SUMMER 2014

MCQP THE BIGGEST GAY PARTY CHALLENGING THE RIGHTS OF SEXUAL MINORITIES IN AFRICA

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INSIDE THIS ISSUE

FROM THE EDITOR

FEATURES

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i - Season is finally upon us and it sure has started with a bang!

GAY DAY launched the summer in Cape Town with 2 stages full of top acts and Djs and a great party crowd. Without doubt, PJ Powers stole the show and rocked the crowd. The Kiffness and Zoe Zana also gave stellar performances and even passers by and people over the road were bopping.

Congratulations to Liberty Banks who won the Miss Gay Western Cape Title in a sold out pageant at the Baxter Theatre in Cape Town.

Cape Town Pride 2015 was launched at Gay Day and the organisers report that they are already busy planning the street parade, and gay Mardi Gras festival.

This year sees MCQP (The biggest Party on the Gay calender), celebrating their 20th anniversary party. The event will be at the Cape Town City Hall on December 20th.

Another feather in the Mother City’s cap is that Mr Gay World will be held in the City Hall on 3rd May 2015.

The openly gay pop icons, Pet Shop Boys, will be appearing in Joburg, Cape Town and Durban in December.

The Bearfest is getting a lot of attention with bears converging on Pretoria from all over the country at the beginning of December.

Our feature interview this issue id with world traveller and raconteur, author Brent Meersman who enthralled us with his new book “80 Gays Around The World”.

1. EDITORS COMMENT: 3. CAPE TOWN SHELTER - Reports back 4. THE MEN BEHIND ALEXANDER UPSTAIRS with Daniel Dercksen 6. HOTHOUSE - Gets a facelift 7. TRIARC - Get into bed with your insurance 8. THE BUSINESS OF BEING GAY 11. EDUCATION IS KEY 12. THE FIRE & ICE CHILLS CAPE TOWN 14. THE BUZZ - News, snippets & gossip 18. CAPE TOWN PRIDE 2015 18. A HIV SHOT OF HOPE - Looking for Positive Heros 20. CHALLENGES TO THE RIGHTS OF SEXUAL MINORITIES IN AFRICA - Fr Musaala 24. BRENT MEERSMAN - Author, roving raconteur 26. MCQP CELEBRATES 21 YEARS 32. THE 3rd ANNUAL EVH PINK AWARDS 34. A RIPPED WASHBOARD 36. A MOMENT IN TIME ...- Liberty Banks looks at the Miss Gay Western Cape Pageant 37. TWO ICONIC MOVIES - 20 years on 38. WORLDS AIDS DAY: Mens health issues 40. REUNION ISLAND - by Tim Owen

Enjoy the read, and happy holidays from all at OUT. Tommy Patterson MANAGING EDITOR: Tommy Patterson 082 562 3358 ISSN 2304-859X Published by: Patterson Publications P.O. Box 397, Sea Point 8060 Tel/Fax: 021 418 3039 E-mail: Keith Coventry at outmagafrica@telkomsa.net outmagazine@mweb.co.za Advertising Sales: Robert Simpson 072 266 7051 Tommy Patterson 082 562 3358

Contributors: Daniel Dercksen, Liberty Banks, Tim Owen, Evan Tsouroulis, Rob Simpson Additional Photography: Evan Tsouroulis, Simon Deviant Printed by ABC Press, Cape Town

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The Gay & Lesbian Network in KZN has launched a schoolsbased project aimed at combatting hate-crime, homophobia and bully - we wish them success in this venture.

Our icons feature concentrates on two of the world’s most powerful men one of whom is gay and the other a straight man who actively supports and promotes gay causes - Tom Cook and Richard Branson.

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FASHION 16 - 17 GET INTO TRADITIONAL REDS THIS HOLIDAY SEASON

SCENE OUT 28 - 31 Who’s been spotted out and about on the party scene...

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REVIEWS 42 OUT TO LUNCH: Madeira Bar 43 OUT TO LUNCH: Frères Bistro 44 OUT ON DVD: With Daniel Dercksen 45 MUSIC MOVES: With Daniel Dercksen 46 OUT ON FILM: With Daniel Dercksen 47 WORD PERFECT: 80 GAYS AROUND THE WORLD - Brent Meersman travels the world 48 ON STAGE: With Daniel Dercksen

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13. WIN A WEEKEND AT THE PROTEA FIRE & ICE HOTEL, CAPE TOWN 45. WIN A “GUARDIANS OF THE GALAXY” DVD Cover: MCQP celebrates with Royal Navy theme Mag 1

It’s been three years since Africa’s 1st autonomous gay, lesbian and transgender crisis shelter opened ... and it’s going strong.

BUT WE STILL NEED

YOU!

SUPPORT THE PRIDE SHELTER TRUST You can help us continue providing this valuable service by making a donation or signing a small monthly debit order Download the forms at www.pridesheltertrust.co.za or make an EFT to: The Pride Shelter Trust Company Standard Bank of South Africa Thibault Square Cheque account number: 072 808 055 Ref: Donation/Your Name

THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT Contact: matron@pridesheltertrust.co.za or call 021 423 2871 / 083 216 6081

CAPE TOWN’S PRIDE SHELTER REPORTS BACK Where Your Donations Go

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our Continued Support has allowed us to make great strides in assisting those in our community through crisis periods. In the past year we have served over 3000 cooked dinners and provided more than 2300 beds for LGBTI individuals.

RECAP! Annual General Meeting

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ctober 30th, Pride Shelter Trust held our AGM and Chair Ian McMahon gave his report. “This year, we managed to run, maintain and operate the organisation in the black... This has been the first year we have been able to do so.” Special thanks was given to our wonderful donors who helped us to our goal and of course to matron Jan Richter for her “pulling of the purse strings.”

Our Chair, Ian McMahon, and Secretary, Andrew Massyn, gave a really positive report on what the Pride Shelter Trust has been up to, particularly in terms of fundraising. They also highlighted some exciting plans for the future, including the addition of three new people officially joining the Board - Ndumie Funda Moroeng, Charles Whiley and Andrew Howard.

Cheese & Wine Fundraiser

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e are delighted to invite you to our annual Cheese & Wine here at the house (1 Molteno Road, Oranjezicht) on the afternoon of Saturday 6th December at 15:00.

The entrance fee will be R20 per person and a can of tinned food! Check out the Facebook event to RSVP.

Pride Shelter Trust Becomes an NPO

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antastic news! The Pride Shelter Trust was granted the status of a Non-Profit Organisation (NPO) by the Department of Social Development!!

This process has taken two years, but we have finally got there!

NPO registration status is a funding requirement for most donors and funding agencies, we can now provide Section 18 tax deductible certificates on all your cash donations.

“Why is it that, as a culture, we are more comfortable seeing two men holding guns than holding hands?” ~ Ernest Gaines “Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one’s definition of your life; define yourself.” ~ Harvey Fierstein “If you are ashamed to stand by your colors, you had better seek another flag.” ~ Anonymous

If you’d like to setup a debit order right now our bank details are: Acc name: Pride Shelter Trust Company Bank: Standard Bank Acc no: 072 808 055 Branch: Thibault Square - 020 909 Please continue supporting the shelter and the work that we do.

We are looking forward to a new year full of possibilities.

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THE MEN BEHIND THE ALEXANDER UPSTAIRS

When you visit the Alexander Bar & Café in Strand Street to see a show or to meet friends for a drink, it’s guaranteed that you won’t leave soon.

Daniel Dercksen chatted to owners playwright Nicholas Spagnoletti and software engineer Edward van Kuik, who have created this elegant establishment to provide Cape Town with a unique new space for conversation and creativity Mag 4

How did the creation of Alexander Bar & Café happen?

when you are ‘away from it all’?

Edward: I was listening to someone moan about their situation, and Cape Town, and South Africa. I was thinking how unattractive and boring their complaints were. Then later I realised I was moaning to someone else and how boring that was too. A new approach needed to be taken. I listened carefully to my own complaints, one of which was: “Cape Town is so crap, there isn’t even a divine bar with telephones on every table instead of televisions on every wall.”

Edward: I often long to get away from it all. As soon as I’m there, I long to return. I do get stressed. I find a way of dealing with it is to activate your senses. Smell things. See things.

Maybe the voices will go away.

Nicholas: Edward went shopping one day, something we rarely do, and bought a bordello-red lamp. It didn’t go in our flat, so we built a bar to accommodate it.

Edward: In a word: Honesty. Tolerance. Loyalty. Ok that’s three words. Basically I don’t want him to stay with me out of duty or commitment. I want him to stay with me because he wants to, everyday.

How does it feel to be the men behind ‘Alexander’?

Edward: Aside from the morning head-aches; I’m very proud of it. We’re not exactly getting rich from it, but it employs a troop of people (including artists) and the feedback from regular patrons makes it worthwhile.

Nicholas: The bar is essentially our living room. We’re both sociable creatures who mix business with pleasure so it’s great having a place where people know they can find us and where we can cook up new projects and schemes.

Tell me about how you met? Was it love at first sight?

Edward: Nope. In fact, after our first date Nicholas decided never to see me again. I wasn’t mad about him either. He was nice; but not really my type. I was feeling rather wounded from a previous relationship and I treated him quite poorly. He had decided I was debt-riddled and my dosages were too high. Then, on a whim, I invited him to a weekend away in the countryside.

And that was it, we kinda returned as a couple.

Nicholas: Exactly. He seemed completely off the rails and I decided to sleep with him just the once and never call him back.

That was 14 years ago.

The Engineer and the Playwright, it sounds like the perfect combination. Your thoughts on this?

Edward: Actually we’re both software developers. These days people aren’t just one thing. But it’s easier for people to think of one as a particular thing. So I run with Engineer. Ok fine.

Software, or any mathematical or engineering discipline I suppose, is actually extremely creative. Often people think it’s purely clerical. Numbers and data are my oils and canvas.

Nicholas is a playwright because he is lazy and doesn’t like writing a lot of words.

Nicholas: We are both lazy which is why we’re good programmers. We’d rather spend a whole day automating something than take 20 minutes to do it manually.

How do you feel about how the social climate has changed in South Africa, particularly freedom of expression and sexual preferences.

Edward: I live in a bubble. It’s nice here. Come visit.

Nicholas: I feel extremely lucky on the one hand to be able to live freely but also sad and ashamed that 20 years later so little has changed for most black people. We mustn’t fool ourselves life really sucks for the majority of people in this country.

What do you do when you are not in the limelight,

Nicholas: We both love travelling to other cities.

What do you think makes your relationship work?

Nicholas: It sounds terrible but our contract is that we’re together until someone better comes along. So far no one has.

The Alexander Bar has really created a platform for creative expression…. Your thoughts on this?

Edward: Ok, don’t go overboard here. It’s really just a bar with a theatre. But yes.

Nicholas: Jon Keevy does a sterling job as theatre manager, balancing the risk of new work and ensuring we get enough traffic.

It feels good to be able to live in a world where you can be who you are? Your thoughts on this?

Edward: I do live in that world. I want others to think like me, but preaching doesn’t seem to help. Being a good example does seem to help, though. I should try more of that.

Nicholas: It feels good. But also kak because most people don’t get that privilege.

What do you think contributes to the success of a solid relationship?

Edward: It’s not a coincidence that we have the same tastes and opinions. We highly influence each other. Sometimes it takes a long time to reach a consensus through logical reasoning and debate. Things can take hours or days and often requires a lot of Chardonnay.

Nicholas: It should be fun to be together. When I hear people saying that relationships are hard work I think to myself, that’s bullshit, then you’re doing it wrong. Maybe that’s just us.

It’s the Festive Season? What’s your ideal Xmas gift?

Edward: The gift of nothing. It’s people that make me tick, not things.

Nicholas: We both hate gifts and shopping. Yay! Any resolutions for 2015?

Nicholas: To go to Barcelona, which I think I’ll achieve, because we’re booked to arrive there on New Year’s Day. Edward: I think I might apologise a little less. I’m sorry, but I think that’s what’s needed.

Make sure to meet up with Nicholas and Edward the next time you visit the Alexander Bar & Café. It is the place to be. http:// alexanderbar.co.za/ Mag 5

HOTHOUSE GETS A FACELIFT After 16 years, the Hothouse has shed its old frock and is donning a brand new coat. It was time for a fresh look to take us through the next couple of years. And wow, does it looks great!

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e’ve stripped the flooring, threw out all the old furniture and went on a shopping spree! Out with the old walls, sprucing it up in fresh green and blue colours. The lighting throughout was changed to reflect a more modern feel, with loads of LED’s and strip lighting. The private cabins have all been fitted with new mattresses and the locker room completely overhauled with new fire engine red lockers. With the new lockers and improved cameras in, we trust that security will be vastly improved in the locker room.

We are now boasting 3 adult video channels, with dedicated themes, like hardcore, vanilla and twink. We’re sure there will be something to satisfy every taste. Out adults store is getting ever more popular, as we keep on importing exciting toys, lubes and other stock from all over the world.

The outside balcony area has a new bench area and the upstairs bar will also be open during the season, staffed by a hunky barman.

The overall results are spectacular, with the feedback from patrons being very positive.

Thanks for all your support through the years and here’s to a great season for all!

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GET INTO BED WITH YOUR INSURANCE Triarc and why you should care about LGBTI Insurance!

Never in our wildest dreams did we expect the community to be so supportive, so since March this year Triarc, South Africa’s very first LGBTI insurance provider, has been on a mad roller coaster supporting fabulous events and building brand awareness like crazy!

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e have been involved with more than 125 LGBTI initiatives in some form or another, employed a whole team of LGBTI staff and actively searched for and used LGBTI service providers wherever possible.

We are also very proud of the roll we played in supporting the team that brought Mr Gay World 2015 to South Africa, and especially proud of one of our founders talking via video at the big event in Rome just before the announcement. We secretly believe that he ultimately tipped the scales in South Africa’s favour... (Wink wink) We have grown our Facebook fans from zero to over 10,000, posted over 3500 photos on social media platforms and had to establish a dedicated team just to manage all the comments, questions and suggestions.

And we still have at over a dozen more planned events before the end of the year!

AND THE REASON FOR ALL THIS ACTIVITY?

reputation for excellence with our products and services.

There is absolutely nothing like this in the insurance market, and we see this as an awesome opportunity to show South Africa what the LGBTI community is capable of!

BUT WHY SHOULD YOU CARE? Our first priority is to make sure that you get the best value for money while life is good, that you are looked after when you need our help and having complete peace of mind in between.

We have a full suite of Life Insurance products to choose from or to combine depending on your needs.

Whether you need Death cover to look after loved ones when you are no longer around, Disability and Functional impairment cover if you are unable to work or function normally, Critical illness cover for when you get a dread disease, or Income protection to cover monthly bills if you are unable to generate an income, we have something fabulous specially for you!

The products we are launching are the culmination of about five years of hard work!

But, if you are one of the lucky ones that never have to claim due to an injury or disease then guess what, you still benefit because of events that we sponsor, charities that we support, competitions or lucky draws you may have entered and won, or the part we played in changing the perceptions of the world in not just tolerating the LGBTI community but respecting it too.

And why do this? Because we are proudly gay and proudly South African, our dream is to establish a business that caters specifically for the LGBTI community in SA and to establish a

Visit our website at triarc.co.za for more info or call us on 087 231 0222 to discuss with an agent, and we can’t wait to meet you in person at an event near you!

We want every LGBTI person to know that they will not get a better product at a better price with better after sales service anywhere in the country!

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THE BUSINESS OF BEING GAY Over the past 20 issues we have featured gay icons from the fields of movies, theatre, sport, literature, politics and so on but never have we dealt with men and women who have achieved the highest positions in the business world stand as positive role models for younger gay people in particular.

In this issue we will look at some of those men and women who are role models for the gay community worldwide. ..

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irstly, the most iconic business man, who whilst he is not gay, he is a great supporter of the gay community and has campaigned and promoted gay rights and equality for many years, particularly when it was not so fashionable to do so.

Richard Branson, a selfmade billionaire who’s businesses include or have included such iconic companies as Virgin Airlines, Virgin Media, Virgin Records, Virgin Cola, Virgin Gyms to name a few of the more high profile businesses. His Virgin Group holds more than 200 companies in more than 30 countries, including the United Kingdom, the United States, Australia, Canada, Asia, Europe and here in South Africa, and includes his most recent - Virgin Galactic, a space-tourism company.

Whilst still at university he started his first business selling records by mail-order, his first Virgin company. He opened a record shop and in 1972 had made enough money to build a recording studio whose first artist was Mike Oldfield and the first album was the chart topping Tubular Bells. Using the momentum of Oldfield’s success, Branson then signed other aspiring musical groups to label, including the Sex Pistols.

Artists such as the Culture Club, the Rolling Stones, and Genesis would follow, helping to make Virgin Music one of the top six record companies in the world.

He expanded in 1980, and started Virgin Atlantic airlines in 1984, and a series of Virgin Megastores. Virgin Music was sold later that year to THORN EMI for $1 billion.

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high profile performers from the music world – Cher released her smash hit “Believe”, Boy George and Culture Club and the likes of Madonna were regulars.

Richard Branson has urged companies to boycott Uganda over its draconian anti-homosexuality bill saying “the dreadful witch hunt against the gay community and lifetime sentences means it would be against my conscience to support this country. I would urge other companies worldwide to follow suit. Uganda must reconsider or find it being ostracised by companies and tourists worldwide.”

On the question of gay marriage, Branson said “When I was 16 we set up the Student Advisory Centre and soon found a lot of gay people coming to the centre wanting help. Initially, very naively, I thought that they wanted help to cure themselves of being gay. I quickly realised they were coming because they were lonely, or they didn’t know other gay people, or they were slightly insecure, or they hadn’t been able to tell their parents - all sorts of reasons. Very soon it became apparent to me that 100% of all the gay people I met were simply what they were.

The important thing was that they came to accept and embrace

the richest. His compensation in 2010, before being named CEO, was $58 million. If he stays with Apple another ten years, he will receive an estimated $389 million bonus in the form of restricted stock.

Cook joined Apple in 1998 overseeing computer manufacturing and was later promoted to chief of worldwide sales and head of the Macintosh division. Cook made his mark early on by fixing Apple’s manufacturing inefficiencies. He also kept the company on track as Apple’s interim leader during Steve Jobs’ medical leave. His steady hand kept iPhone 4 and iPad development on track, grew Macintosh sales and strongly rallied the stock value. As Apple’s CEO, Cook ran the day to day operations during Jobs’s illness and Apple’s growth and stellar financial performance have continued unabated under his watch.

it and that other people came to accept and embrace them.

Gay people should be treated like everybody else; all people should be treated equally. Everybody should be able to get married to the person they love. If they want a long-term relationship, good on them. My wife Joan and I have been lucky enough to enjoy a long and happy marriage and hope everyone else has the same opportunity if they so wish.”

Game for a laugh Sir Richard dressed up in female flight attendant’s uniform complete with bright red skirt suit, fishnet stockings and patent leather flats. He was making good on a bet he lost to AirAsia’s group chief Tony Fernandes.

Branson also wore bright red lipstick, eye shadow and false lashes.

His hair was also fluffed into a small pompadour at the top.

During the almost six-hour flight, he cheerfully chatted with passengers, made intercom announcements and served drinks.

Only once making the beginner’s mistake of spilling a tray of drinks directly on Fernandes -by accident, we’re sure. We know though that whilst he may not be the most attractive woman but he is a man of his word.

When Apple CEO Tim Cook announced that he was gay, Richard Branson was one of the first to tweet “Inspirational words from Apple CEO Tim Cook on being gay, and standing up for equality.”

His open and vocal support of gay issues has earned him iconic status in the gay community. I for one salute him.

He is known to be a “fitness nut,” in the gym by 5 am, often on the hiking trail and even more often on his bike. After Cook was profiled as a “lifelong bachelor” and “intensely private,” many wondered if he might be gay. That is indeed the case, and Cook’s sexual orientation was the topic of at least some discussion within the company.

Apple has been rated among the top gay-friendly tech companies among brands, and is widely considered to offer a workplace and culture that is open to people regardless of their background and preferences. Randy Ubillos, one of Apple’s most well known engineers as the creator of Final Cut, the man who redesigned iMovie for Mac, and who was introduced by Jobs to demonstrate his new iMovie app for iPhone, is also openly gay.

Apple has also recognised the achievements of its third party developers who happened to be gay, including Steve Demeter, who left his job at Wells Fargo to work for himself, becoming independently wealthy after creating the early iPhone game Trism. “I’m totally out in my private life, but I’m not sure about wanting to be out professionally,” he said. “I’m not worried about a backlash or anything like that, I’m just not sure that my being gay has anything to do with my business and the kinds of games we’re creating. It’s not like we’re making ‘gay’ games. I’m proud of the fact that I’m gay and that some of the guys who work with me are gay, but at the end of the day all that matters is that we put stuff out there that’s high-quality and that makes people happy.”

Other high profile openly gay business people include: John Browne, former CEO of BP

Tim Cook, (pictured above) the head of the multi-billion dollar Apple company, is a gay man. He recently came out making news headlines around the world when he said “While I have never denied my sexuality, I haven’t publicly acknowledged it either, until now,” he continued. “So let me be clear: I’m proud to be gay, and I consider being gay among the greatest gifts God has given me.” ... Making him an icon for gay advancement.

Browne led energy giant BP for nearly 12 years until he resigned as chief executive in 2007 after being outed by the U.K. tabloid the Daily Mail. At the time, Browne held the standard line for gay executives, saying, “I have always regarded my sexuality as a personal matter.”

Cook has gone from being the most powerful gay man in Silicon Valley to the most powerful gay man in the world, if not one of

Hanson took the helm of American Eagle AEO in 2012, while he was openly gay. While he is no longer with the company (he

Robert Hanson, former CEO of American Eagle

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is now CEO of privately-held jewelry company John Hardy), he said his sexual orientation didn’t cause reprisal from employees or shareholders.

Hardy has always been openly gay in his time in the business world and believes it hasn’t hindered his success, though he acknowledges his unique position. “Remaining closeted is not, in most cases, due to a lack of courage, authenticity or integrity,” Jason Grenfell-Gardner, CEO of IGI Laboratories Grenfell-Gardner has always been open about his sexual orientation, even before he got his current post as CEO of IGI Laboratories, a maker of topical pharmaceuticals.

During the interview process, the board asked Grenfell-Gardner how his wife would feel about his highly-demanding job, reported the New York Times. He responded: “I don’t have a wife. I have a husband. And he wouldn’t mind.”

He got the job.

Mike Jeffries, CEO of Abercrombie & Fitch Jeffries has helmed the 122-year-old retailer since 1992 and is credited with transforming Abercrombie & Fitch from a stuffy hunting company to a relevant teenage brand.

Jeffries was once married, but is now openly gay and has been with his current partner for nearly a decade.

Senk served as chief executive of the hip retailer, which includes brands Anthropologie and Free People, for almost five years.

He was never closeted and held the top role there while publicly acknowledging his sexual orientation. However he did say in an interview, “I wish I ‘d had a role model when I was in college telling me it was OK to be who you are, and you can do anything you want.” He now heads jewelry retailer David Yurman (Fortune Magazine) The number of companies promoting gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender equality in the workplace have grown tremendously in recent years. Yet, despite this increased commitment to LGBT equality, many employees remain uncomfortable with being open about their sexuality at work.

South Africa has its own high profile gay people heading successful companies. Few are open about their sexuality.

After much media hype and speculation our Minister of Public Enterprises Lynne Brown said when asked how she felt about reports of her being the first openly gay cabinet minister in Africa, “I thought my portfolio is bigger than my person”. She however, made it clear that she wasn’t fazed by the reports, but rather was more surprised that it mattered. However, it does inspire other gay people who feel that their sexuality may hold them back when they are aspiring to be leaders in society.

So OUT Africa Magazine urges gay people who are leaders in their field to come out and be an example to younger people that the highest positions can be attained by gay people and that being gay need not be a negative that holds you back from realising your potential.

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EDUCATION IS KEY The Gay & Lesbian Network (GLN) has launched its School Project on the 22 August 2014 at three high schools in Pietermaritzburg.

Photo of actors and director of the Rainbow Theatre Group. From left to right: Back row: Sonwabile Ngcongo, Clinton Small, Londeka Xulu, Doctor Dladla, Cindy Ngcobo, Minenhle Nhleko and Marc Kay. Front row: Thomie Holtzhausen, Sphelele Ntshiba and Sabelo Thobelo.

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his proposed schools-based project in the area of ‘Homophobia, Hate Crime and Bullying’ constitute a follow-up project to the 2010 and 2011 research studies commissioned by the GLN which explored the incidence of hate crime and homophobia in Pietermaritzburg and Pietermaritzburg schools respectively. It is also a response to the training needs identified by the Life Orientation (LO) educators.

The project targets Life Orientation educators, learners and management at schools. The aims of the Project in respect of educators is to provide LO educators with an opportunity to examine own thoughts and feelings relating to prejudice, discrimination, stereotypes and behaviours; to provide information to LO educators about hate crimes, homophobia, sexuality, bullying and peer pressure at schools and develop resources and support structures in schools.

Further the aims of the Project in respect of Learners is to support and develop work in schools, to combat Hate Crime, Homophobia and Bullying; to work closely with Life Orientation Educators in support of their role in dealing with approaches to issues of bullying, diversity, sexuality and prejudice in schools and to use Drama and Forum Theatre strategies to explore these issues and develop, in partnership with schools, Anti- Bullying Action Plans.

Forum Theatre is a participatory form of theatre that enables an audience watching a performance, to actually get involved.

The spectators or participants offer verbal, or even act out solutions to the problems they see acted out on the stage. .Forum Theatre creates a dialogue between the audience and the actor; it also disseminates messages and challenges prejudices. It enables the audience to think critically about issue/issues but also empowers and challenges them to try and solve the problems that they face.

The Forum Theatre is performed by the GLN’s theatre company the Rainbow Theatre Group which comprises 10 actors from 18-30 years old. The theatre company was an initiative of volunteers who set up the theatre company in November 2010 and was adopted by the Network as a creative strategy of using theatre to creating awareness of LGBTI issues in communities.

Anthony Waldhausen, director of the Gay & Lesbian Network said “The performance by the drama group was excellent and they were able to convey the message of bullying in a creative and safe way that allowed learners to participate in the performance. The responses from the learners to questions about bullying was encouraging. I found the performance entertaining but also educational all at the sometime and we are looking forward to working with Life Orientation educators and learners to addressing bullying in the schools. After the pilot we are looking forward to taking the schools project to other schools in KwaZulu-Natal. I am also encouraged by the support we received from the respective schools and KZN Department of Education”.

The theatre group members received extensive theatre training

by Thomie Holtzhausen a well-known Durban actor and director. The group are also supported by actors from the Actors Unemployed Company based in Durban in order to develop the group. The theatre training was funded by the Department of Foreign Affairs, Trade and Development Canada through the Capacity Building Technical Assistance Fund (CBTAF).

The Schools Project is funded by the Embassy of Finland.

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PROTEA HOTEL FIRE & ICE! PUTS THE CHILL BACK INTO THE MOTHER CITY

The Stage 2 Evolution is complete and Cape Town’s hottest place to chill has swept open the stage doors to present a cool new Protea Hotel Fire & Ice! to the Mother City.

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sea of light, natural space combined with an organic feel that is rooted as deeply in Cape Town as Table Mountain makes the hotel’s new social spaces fresh, relaxed and comfortable.

There are comfortable conversation areas, as well as what is arguably the country’s longest crackled glass illuminated table that can be used to chill with your tablet, plug in and listen to beats, have a meeting, or simply kick back with a drink.

The new restaurant is also an oasis of natural calm, featuring a vertical herb garden that is put to good use by the King of the Kitchen, aka Executive Chef Jason Scott.

But as with most things in the apparently laid back Mother of South African cities, there’s still a fire in the belly and the new, crisp glass bar is where all the pretty people will be found.

The bar area boasts a coffee station where the best java jockeys in the business, the Fire & Ice! Brewristas, ply their trade, as well as a milkshake bar filled with enough decadent ingredients to provide a sugar buzz for a year or six!

And although Protea Hotel Fire & Ice! is already famous for its naughty and nice shakes in more than 30 flavours, in celebration of the launch it’s getting creative with at least six more flavours for summer – the first of which is a salted caramel and popcorn milkshake which was created by one of our fans.

And watch this space, says GM Janneman Britz, for special launch additions to the world-famous burger range.

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“We’ll be launching a breakfast burger as well, which will perfectly compliment the breakfast ‘regmaker’ station where you’ll be likely to find triple espresso milkshake shots and a Red Bull Bloody Mary dispenser if you need a particularly hard kick-start to the day!”

Protea Hotel Director of Sales, Marketing and Revenue, Danny Bryer, says Protea Hotel Fire & Ice! is evolving. “We started off eight years ago with a concept hotel in Cape Town that got famous very quickly because it was the quirkiest hotel the country had ever seen. Even just the themed unisex toilets got more column inches than many celebrities, and at the time it worked.

“But as a brand we’ve had to grow with the needs and desires of our GUESTS, who want more sophisticated spaces that cater to their specific needs. Spaces that are aspirational, that are technology-friendly, that are uncluttered and seamlessly work with their lifestyles.

“That’s what we’ve created with Protea Hotel Fire & Ice! in Cape Town, and that sophistication is also what we’ll be offering GUESTS when we open the third hotel in Menlyn in Pretoria early next year.”

Bryer says he has no doubt the new look and feel of Cape Town’s coolest hotel will be loved by the legions of loyal brand followers, as well as garner a generation of new fans – especially millennial travellers.

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THE BUZZ OPENING UP THE CONVERSATION IN JO’BURG

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n exciting, new monthly networking and social event targeted at gay professionals is bringing a breath of fresh air to the social scene of the City of Gold.

the company of their peers. And thanks to my new colleagues and friends, Di Neo Matebese and Alex Woodburne, Conversations is now doing the same in Johannesburg!”

The event, called Conversations, is a gathering for gay professionals – men and women – living and working in and around Johannesburg. Launched in early November, it provides them with a space at upmarket, gay friendly venues where they can have face-to-face conversations with like-minded people, be it for business or social networking purposes.

Conversations is also socially responsible by raising money for local charities. The first charity Conversations JHB is supporting is Transgender and Intersex Africa (TIA), a non-profit organisation based in Pretoria. TIA was founded in 2010 by transgender individuals with the aim of championing transgender and intersex issues in disadvantaged communities, such as townships and rural areas.

More information can be found at www.transgenderintersexafrica.org.za.

Originally launched in October 2013 in Cape Town, where there have been fourteen successful events to date, Conversations kicked off in Johannesburg on 5th November at the stunning Southern Sun Hyde Park Sandton. A diverse crowd, great food and wine and interesting conversations made for a fantastic evening.

Andrew Howard, founder and director of Conversations, said: “There was no regular event for gay professionals in Cape Town looking to meet like-minded people away from the gay bar and club scene. Conversations has therefore filled this gap by providing these people with the opportunity to relax after work, have a few informal drinks, network and enjoy

Di Neo Matebese said: “We chose Transgender and Intersex Africa as the first non-profit that Conversations JHB will support because they provide invaluable support to transgender and intersex people and we think that professionals across the gay community in Johannesburg will appreciate the chance to help this great cause”.

The second Conversations JHB event will be at Ten Bompas in Dunkeld West on Wednesday 3rd December. ‘Like’ the Conversations JHB Facebook page at www.facebook.com/conversationsjhb to get updates and event invitations.

MISS GAY WESTERN CAPE

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iberty Banks, won Miss Gay Western Cape on Saturday night, and it was a well-deserved win. She was absolutely stunning! The first runner up Camille von Zuush is also a lawyer, and a first time contestant. She was so chic, and in her evening gown looked like Wallis Simpson. The 2nd runner up was Laylah Novacek who lost out yet again. Always the bridesmaid, never the bride.

Manila von Teez gave another breath-taking performance which started with a vid from the Addams Family. And just when everyone thought she’d come out as Morticia, she emerged from beneath a floor length Cousin It wig. Hilarious! Semper nova ex Africa as the Romans used to say. All in all, it was a fantastic event. (see page 36) Mag 14

PANTHEON OF LEATHER AWARD

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aco Lourens who was our first Mr SA Leatherman to compete at the International Mr Leather Competotion in Chicago has for the second time been given the Pantheon of Leather Man of the Year award which will be presented to him at a gala evening in Atlanta, Georgia, USA next year.

A Nominations Committee selects from the thousands of nominations in 30 categories and makes awards to those individuals who have contributed most to the leather community.

Congratulations Jaco ....

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GLOBAL MUSIC ICONS PET SHOP BOYS TO HEADLINE

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et Shop Boys have sold over 50-million records worldwide, have achieved an overwhelming twelve top 10 studio albums, forty top 20 singles, four number one records, received three Brit Awards and seven Grammy nominations. Last year Pet Shop Boys headlined two nights at Sónar Festival in Barcelona and now, for the first time in music history, the pioneers of synth-pop will perform to audiences in South Africa.

Pet Shop Boys will headline the Sónar Cape Town Opening Night on 15 December 2014 at the city’s Good Hope Centre, as well as A Taste of Sónar at Johannesburg’s Nasrec Expo Centre on 12 December. Their latest, spectacular live show forms part of their sold-out ‘Electric’ 2014 world tour and showcases some of the most cutting-edge production design and creative direction in the world.

The iconic pair, made up of Neil Tennant and Chris Lowe, has always been ahead of their contemporaries and pioneered the electronic music landscape on a global scale with their ability to redefine the pop and dance music genres.

Considered to be the most successful duo in UK music history, Pet Shop Boys have a massive local fan base

and have sold over 300,000 albums in South Africa alone. In Cape Town and Johannesburg fans can expect to hear songs from across their entire career including global chart-toppers like ‘West End Girls’, ‘It’s a Sin’ and ‘Always on My Mind’, songs from their recent acclaimed Stuart Priceproduced album ‘Electric’, and classics like “Suburbia” and “Go West”.

In addition to announcing the headline act, Sónar Cape Town can also confirm that Spanish DJ and producer Uner will deliver a powerful set to fans of house, techno and vocal harmonies at The Good Hope Centre on Tuesday 16 December alongside already announced international artists The Bloody Beetroots (Live), Jon Hopkins, Ten Walls, UZ and a host of South Africa’s finest local talent.

Belgian brothers 2manydjs will perform their highly anticipated DJ set after Pet Shop Boys’ performance on the Sónar Cape Town Opening Night and at A Taste of Sónar Johannesburg.

Pet Shop Boys will also be performing a standalone show in Durban on 19 December.

For more information visit www. facebook.com/seedexperiences.

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t’s almost time for the South African leather community to choose a new Mr SA Leather 2015 and for the first time a Ms SA Leather.

For this year’s event there are a number of international judges, notably the current International Ms. Leather - Patty from Toronto, Canada as well as the current International Mr. Leather - Ramien who hails from Washington DC. Also judging will be Chuck Renslow who founded the International Mr. Leather in Chicago way back in 1979..

The winner of the Mr SA Leatherman will go to Chicago to the IML (International Mr Leather) and Ms SA Leather will be the first South African to represent the country in San Jose, California in April 2015 at IMsL (International Ms. Leather).

Unpack those chaps, harnesses, leather pants and boots - head along to the Scouts Hall at 104B Bay Road, and for a mere R50 entrance you are guaranteed a great evening with hot, sexy leather men and women.

The event is happening of SATURDAY, DECEMBER 6th and starts at 7:00pm so don’t be late you could miss it!

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CAPE TOWN PRIDE 2015

A HIV SHOT OF HOPE THE SEARCH FOR THE NEXT POSITIVE HERO SA BEGINS

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n 1 December the HIV epidemic gets a massive shot of hope with the launch of The Search for the Next Positive Hero SA, an initiative of the Change the Stigma Project, spearheaded by Charles Jacobs and supported

by Trevor Kleinhans.

In 2011 Charles Jacobs was nominated as a finalist in the Mr Gay South Africa competition, and made history by taking a courageous step. Already having lived with the HIV virus for nine years, he made the bold move to disclose his status publicly, the first time any finalist had done so, and challenge the stigma surrounding HIV and AIDS head on.

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t is time to CELEBRATE the freedoms we have! It is time to PARTY with a conscious! It is time to UNITE under our rainbow Flag! What is this all about… well…Cape Town Pride of course and it is literally going to knock your heels off in 2015!

With a fresh and dynamic team working on making it the best Pride ever...this is one not to miss.

Our volunteers have been digging deep into their creativity to put on a Festival that will rival the best in the world! From Pageants to Parties and Soirees to Speakers we will have it all!

The events for 2015 are planned to excite the mind, rally the sense and just be utterly fabulous!

Some of the events that you can expect to see are: Pink Party Ms Cape Town Town Pride Hunger Game Sports Day Miss Butch and Miss Fem Pride’s Pink Movie Night Dames, Diva’s and Drags Pride Parade and lots more!!!

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“People living with HIV often say the stigma they encounter is worse than the disease itself,” he said. “That stigma is exactly what prolongs the journey from denial to acceptance for anyone who is HIV positive, and is what we aim to change with the search.”

In 2012 Jacobs was selected by the NGO, Positive Heroes, as their first Positive Hero.

This inspired him to create Change the Stigma Project with the mission of searching for more positive role models.

“This is not a beauty pageant,” said Jacobs, “it is the exact opposite. It’s about sharing your journey that will help others accept who they are. It is about moving away from feeding HIV with fear, and filling it with hope instead.”

Trevor Kleinhans, the internationally recognised author of Secrets Make You Sick, joins the search in a patron role. Using his wide public speaking and press experience on the subjects of HIV, gay rights, sexual abuse and drug abuse, he will help spread the message of hope.

“Disclosing one’s HIV-positive status is an immensely powerful act,” he said. “In one moment it takes everything negative that society assumes about the disease, and turns it on it’s head. To see a person full of vitality openly sharing their story, for someone afraid of the judgment of friends, family and the public, is quite simply life changing.”

Beginning on World AIDS Day (1 December 2014), contestants will be able to enter the search by visiting www.changethestigmaproject.com. Once finalists have been selected (March 2015), the public will be able to vote for their favourite Positive Hero. It is there that the journey begins.

Positive Hero finalists will share their personal HIV journey via a self-made video.

They will then select their own South African HIV charity or NPO and create an awareness and fundraising project for them, in this way dynamically addressing misconceptions about people living with HIV. Various prizes are on offer for top placing participants. The new Positive Hero will receive a full life coaching course from New Insights Africa valued at R18 000, empowering him or her to continue to change lives, and spread the message of hope.

“Stigma and discrimination has helped the spread of HIV,” said Jacobs. “It’s made people afraid to test and prevented often the most vulnerable from getting care. It’s time that the human progress in how we handle HIV/AIDS in our community begins to match the advances being made in the research lab.

Our message is simple. Do you have the courage to be South Africa’s Next Positive Hero?”

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CHALLENGES TO THE RIGHTS OF SEXUAL MINORITIES IN AFRICA – an exploratory essay.

Father Anthony Musaala

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mong the many challenges facing Africa is the integration of diverse racial and ethnic groups (3000) into functioning nation-states: the challenge of identity and nationalism.

Sexual minorities within Africa (lesbians, gays, bisexuals, transgenders, intersexuals–LGBTI’s) who have a stake in this project of nationhood, increasingly self-identify as a distinct group, struggling for the right to live, love and be as free as anyone else within African states.

Thwarted by civil or religious laws which are formally discriminatory, or the informal discrimination of family, clan and tribe, sexual minorities all over the continent are becoming more visible and eager to declare their position with regard to their own basic rights to be who they are as African nationals.

In this model, ‘heterosexual absolutism’ is espoused as the ‘sine qua non’ of African identity. Heterosexuality, or opposite-sex attraction is enjoined as critical to Africanness, although there is no historical or cultural frame of reference for such a notion.

Capricious attacks on homosexuals or transgendered are emerging because even without articulating anything, these variant sexual orientations,which are also identities, threaten developing ideations and ideologies of culture, which neatly side-step the critical matter of inequitable socio-economic development.

Enacting stricter laws to suppress homosexuality is a kind of ‘last stand’ against the supposed total encroachment of western values, which values are perceived as inimical to national development and progress.

WORLD-WIDE CHANGE IN ATTITUDES

SOME UNDERLYING CAUSES

Within the last fifty years many progressive countries in different parts of the world have abolished laws which criminalise homosexual acts.

Some of the present underlying causes for this position may be the following: •

There has been a shift in attitudes from moral idealism, which seeks the ‘perfection’ of human nature by acts of free or divine choice, to a realism which discovers numerous forces and contingencies behind every ‘free choice’ .

persistence in ‘taboo’ mentalities (considered ‘African’) with regard to sexual matters, often to the point of absurdity.

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A scientific view sees ‘moral choices’ taking place not in some rationalistic vacuum of moral idealities, but being conditioned by many ‘non-moral’ factors, including physiology, society and the environment.

the ignorance of both the educated and the uneducated in matters of sexuality from a scientific point of view, with resultant deep insecurity and ambivalence about sexuality and sexual identity.

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incredibly misguided pharisaical religious argumentations plus intolerance of non-religious views.

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nostalgia for an Africa that never was or cannot be remembered, plus idealistic notions of African culture;

Moral arguments which ignore this are in denial of these facts.

Acceptance of them lead to the reconsideration of past legal and moral prohibitions of homosexual behaviour and to the enunciation of the rights of sexual minorities, especially that of equal treatment before the law.

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opportunist politicians and religious leaders ‘‘bullying’’ a particularly disliked group which has no political visibility or protection, in order to divert from their own lapses as well as from rampant social and political inequalities.

AFRICAN ‘EXCEPTIONALISM’

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External influence via financial and other inputs of extreme anti-gay ‘evangelicals’ mainly from the USA with whom alliances have been forged.

The phenomenon of homosexuality is an empirical reality, an immutable datum. Homosexuality is properly understood as a variant type of sexuality or orientation not a ‘deviant’ one.

Some states in Africa are espousing a counter-trend to this, in which notions of rights for sexual minorities are rejected, as well as some of the scientific premises on which they are based.

An emerging trend towards criminalising homosexual acts even more, is becoming a new source of national pride and cultural ‘uniqueness.’

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All these short-circuit reason or reasonableness with regard to the homosexual debate in Africa and are to be well noted.

Punitive laws are even now being enacted in several African states, on the basis of this ignorance and prejudice, but masking as ‘African culture’ and are heralding a new era of persecution

and human rights abuse of African LGBTI’s, not seen before.

NEW ‘OLD’ LEGISLATION AND ITS IMPOSSIBLE GOALS The legislation being crafted to target sexual minorities in Africa is ironically, hewn from pre-existing colonial laws which severely limited African freedoms but which have now been rebranded as ‘African.’

Presumably the British colonial government which legislated against ‘carnal knowledge against the order of nature’, did so because it was there.

Existing variant sexual behaviours in Africa branded as ‘unnatural’ such as that of Kabaka Mwanga of Buganda, at the latter part of the 19th century became another excuse to ‘save’ Africans, which called for ‘moral’ interventions via the law, but which would also completely usurp the power of indigenous leaders and subvert the existing political set ups.

Such legislation therefore has never been ‘African’. Rather it was part of the ideology of domination ,which required the control of both private and public spheres of life.

It is therefore unsurprising that African ‘Anglophone’ countries with this colonial legislation still on their statute books, are leading the way in anti-gay persecution.

Uganda and Nigeria, both Anglophone have already enacted stricter laws than the colonial ones, with life-sentences for offenders in Uganda. Other ‘Anglophone’ states, such as Kenya, Tanzania, Zambia and Zimbabwe are toying with the idea of such laws.

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There is however no foundation in customary law or oral tradition for this kind of legislation.

The other aim of these laws is, allegedly to ‘prevent homosexuality taking root in Africa’ – but which is already there! Implicit in them therefore is the denial of social reality, and the misguided aspiration for a ‘pure morality’ based only on religious and political exigencies.

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This begs the question as to why this is specifically limited to the issue of homosexuality.

Finally the new laws also hope by their severity, to deter homosexual acts in a way that the older ones didn’t. The older ones did not because they could not, given the shortfalls in the rule of law in many African countries. The new laws therefore testify to intended impunities of legal abuse, a daily ongoing reality which has so far not deterred homosexuals and is unlikely to in the future.

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The reason of choice for opposing homosexuality in Africa is its supposed incompatibility with ‘African cultural norms’.

This widespread view, somewhat gullibly held by educated and uneducated alike lacks anthropological or other evidence.

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and Will Roscoe. Africans like others, have always had sexual variants in their midst.

and other stock) who absorb aspects of indigenous heritages but may also be spiritually linked elsewhere.

In any case the notion of ‘Africa cultural norms’ is misleading.

First of all no ‘African cultural authority’ exists which can speak on behalf of every African.

TRADITIONAL RELIGION AND HOMOSEXUALITY

Secondly all cultural ideas are perspectival and relativistic. They are true as long as they are believed. They are believed as long as they are useful for a particular way of life at a particular time in a particular place.

It seems that the notion of ‘African cultural norms’ itself is an articulation of ‘neo-Africanist’ philosophers and politicians, (viz. Leopold Senghor’s ‘negritude’, Julius Nyerere’s ‘African socialism’) also in pursuit of lost African identity and in search of African revival and often their own careers.

When these same ideologues also lack solidarity with the poor of Africa and with minorities (another kind of poor) they flout ‘cardinal principles’ of their would-be Africanness, namely solidarity, kinship, acceptance.

So a monolithic canon of African cultural laws about homosexuality (or anything else) is non existent. There is no frame of reference for it from which ready conclusions can be drawn about the sexual mores of the whole African continent.

The reality is that Africa is culturally heterogenous. Diversity of cultures is the hallmark of Africa. A ‘monolithic’ system of African values which attempts to homogenize African identity into ‘one’ is probably not African at all.

If it includes repressive measures against particular groups such as sexual minorities that would suffice to discredit it.

One only has to consider the barbarism of a ‘monolithic’ American, European or even Chinese system of values which wants to be contra to the rest of the world, and what that would mean.

So this tentative concept of ‘African cultural norms’ is suspicious and vagrant. When it asserts ‘the un-Africanness’ of homosexuality it becomes self-contradictory.

THE RELIGIOUS ‘SPIKE’ Many Africans oppose homosexuality on religious grounds. This is a complex matter due to the diversified nature of religious beliefs in Africa today.

First, one must note that the word ‘culture’ in Africa always has spiritual significations. Culture and religion are intertwined.

A particular African culture contains its own spiritual belief system. Conversely the spiritual beliefs of a community find concrete expression in particular cultural norms.

A purely aesthetic and non-theistic notion of culture, such as is common in the west, is not typical even among the most westernised of black Africans, some of whom in reaction to westernisation become quite ‘fundamentalist’ about their cultural heritage - all in the spirit of ‘back to my roots’. However they are often unaware of all the spiritual references pertaining to this heritage.

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Africa’s original religions called ‘African traditional religions’(ATR’s), by J.S Mbiti, are belief systems which generally invoke God as creator, with other ‘gods’ or spirits who have varying degrees of natural and supernatural powers.

ATR’s, even when not formally adhered to are still very influential, being tightly woven into cultural life.

The total intersection and compenetration of the human and spirit and worlds is the hallmark of ATR’s.

Adherents of traditional religions who negatively evaluate homosexuality ascribe family misfortune to the ‘‘unnatural acts’’ of homosexuals, which are perceived to upset not just community relations but also human relations with the underworld and overworld.

An example of this is child-bearing. It is believed that because homosexuals ‘‘refuse’’ to have children they violate the ‘‘rights’’ of the unborn to be born. Homosexuals are therefore viewed as enemies of future African society.

This injury to the unborn allegedly upsets the continuum of life.

This continuum of life includes the unborn, the living (born) and the ‘living-dead’ (born in the hereafter,or ancestors). It is understood that if this continuum or cycle of life is disrupted it results in catastrophes and misfortunes for everyone.

It is for this reason that homosexuals are accused of ‘bringing curses’ and have been ostracised from their families and communities. They disrupt the natural order, by not having children. They are the cause of misfortune and are best cut off from everyone else.

African traditional religious beliefs are of course far more complex than the sketch given here, but this is an instance of how homophobia can be ‘spiritualised’ as much by indigenous beliefs as by ‘world religions’.

IMPORTED RELIGIONS - ABRAHAMIC FAITHS The second consideration is the role of imported world religions especially the Abrahamic faiths – Judaism, Christianity and Islam – which with the exception of Judaism, arrived with or around the time of colonialism. These have been well-embraced

by Africans, but are also twisted into a proto-fascist ideology by the new anti-gay movement.

Scriptural texts and doctrines decrying homosexuality are used non-contextually and dogmatically as a ‘truthful basis’ to justify persecution of homosexuals.

Select, emotively charged words such as ‘abomination’, ‘sinful’, ‘ungodly’, ‘haram’, etc. are used to arouse deep ‘spiritual’ hatred of homosexuals who are profiled as being in rebellion to God. This ‘fear of God’ methodology always seems to work. It effectively short-circuits logic, scientific arguments, or any other positions which are considered purely human, while theirs have ‘divine approval’.

PARALLEL BELIEFS AND SYNCRETISM

A third consideration in Africa is the phenomenon of parallel or dual beliefs, and of syncretism.

With parallel beliefs there is a duality of faith. Two belief systems are held separately but in parallel by the same person.

Adherents hop from one to the other, as it were, and back again as is necessary.

Unlike parallel belief ,syncretism is a mixture of various beliefs and rituals - all mixed up together in a kind of spiritual potpourri which is neither one thing nor the other.

Adherents of these religious styles are capable of yielding a multi-pronged religious attack on homosexuals by all religious forces at once. By appealing to several religious beliefs together, or in series, even when those beliefs have little or nothing in common, the religiously inspired anti-homosexuality movement is able to achieve the total demonisation of homosexuals.

Africans, who may tend to over-spiritualise things anyway, will in equal measure ‘un-spiritualise’ them, when required. For this reason homosexuals are vengefully ‘un-spiritualised’ and frequently portrayed as ‘godless’ and ‘evil devil-worshippers’, by otherwise very spiritual persons.

CONCLUSION The emergence of new ‘anti-homosexual’ laws in African countries have a complex background and context. They can generally be understood as emerging against the backdrop of developing nationalism, cultural irresolution and social transition.

The social and political upheavals of the last fifty years in Africa as well as globalisation, are constantly calling forth questions about African identity and African nationhood.

The notion of the rights of individual members of sexual minorities or even LGBTI groups (now a common feature of globalisation) seem to ‘up the ante’ in the quest for authentic African identity and nationality.

Rights of sexual minorities appear to run counter to the need for ‘African values’ which are unfortunately not yet fully clarified, but which in the end must determine the longed for, ‘African identity’.

Any ‘clarifying discourse’ about African values threads into considerations about nation-statehood as well as the more basic socio-economic questions.

These in turn are framed by the reality of existing ethnic and religious identifications, which are limited.

globalised ethic of human rights which is ever rolling out. It is worth remembering that African states are signatories to all International Declarations on Human Rights, which cannot be ‘excepted’ from without grave political damage.

The resolution or ‘synthesis’ of this problem which might emerge, will be due not only to internal contradictions arising from law, but also due to the presence of many homosexuals of different ethnicities within African society, who will be increasingly visible, vocal and politicised and who may yet find new political allies within Africa’s polities.

We already see an example of this in post-apartheid South Africa, which offers a leading role in African queer emancipation – which is not to say that it is utopian, but that it is possible.

This will continue to play out on the African political stage in perhaps surprising ways. The gay factor may still become the X-factor in African politics, especially when sexual minorities decide to take up political careers and bring their queer gifts to the often two-dimensional political sphere.

Sexual minorities in Africa will continue to be challenged, but as in other countries, those rights will have to be reconsidered not because of some massive change of heart, but as a matter of realpolitik - African states needing to position themselves globally and maximally for their own growth, development and advantage.

About the author Anthony Musaala is a catholic priest, gospel artiste and essayist from the Archdiocese of Kampala in Uganda. He was born in Dublin in 1956 to Ugandan parents and studied theology at Allen Hall Seminary in Chelsea ,London before being ordained priest in 1994.

Fr. Anthony pioneered outreach work to the LGBTI community in Uganda where he lived since 1996 often swimming against the tide of church and state.

In March 2013 he wrote an essay discussing married clergy, the abuse of female minors by African clergy, and the general failure of celibacy among African clergy and the large number of children fathered by them.

The essay was not well received by church authorities and earned him an indefinite suspension from priestly duties.

Father Anthony Musaala now lives in the UK. Phone + 44 7808079258 email: fathermusaala@ymail.com

The developing hermeneutic of multiculturalism, polyculturalism, globalisation and science which cannot abide the unscientific prejudices of an anti-homosexuality discourse is what may still give hope to sexual minorities in Africa.

If that hermeneutic takes root it will also drive sustainable development by freeing Africans from purely parochial, or ethnic concerns which cripple the vision of nationhood and is always the fall-back position of imploding states.

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Right of return? Meersman in Israel in 2014

BRENT MEERSMAN Brent – for those readers who do not know you, give us a little background info, like where you’re from, where you grew up etc.

Born and bred in Cape Town from the “wrong” side of the tracks. But despite our poor circumstances, I feel I had a privileged upbringing in that my mother was exceptional – an artist – and my father, a fitter and turner, was Belgian and grew up during the Nazi occupation. To some extent, he recognised the apartheid government for what it was.

What set you on the path to a career in journalism – has writing always been a passion?

Journalism is the easiest way to make money out of writing and you don’t even have to be good at writing.

I always wanted to be a writer of books; I’d type whole books of stories on my mother’s old Olivetti when I was just 4 years old.

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Author, journalist, world-traveller, raconteur - some of the words to describe Brent Meersman, a local Capetonian who has published several books, his most recent being 80 Gays Around The World - (see Word Perfect on page 47). OUT met up with Brent to find out a little more about what drives him. all over the world. More than 60 I believe. Travel is clearly a passion. What is the most awe-inspiring destination and what made it so?

Yes, over 60 countries and every continent. I think Antarctica was the most inspiring because it was so pristine, so untouched by humankind, such beauty of a magnitude that left me wordless for a change. It is an experience that never leaves you.

What is your ultimate gay destination?

Being in love – that is the destination and it doesn’t matter in what geographical part of the world or whether you brought the love with you or found it there. Even the crappiest backwater is transformed by sharing.

But I understand your question. I think typically the ultimate gay destination most people are looking for is a safe, permissive environment

filled with attractive people – Sydney Mardi Gras for instance or the gay games. But those places – the gay Greek islands or Ibiza – hold very little attraction for me.

Your first foray in to becoming an author was in 1993 when you published your first short story The Invisible Ghetto – was that your biggest challenge?

The challenge hasn’t changed. It is still very difficult to get publishers to take an interest in literature with gay themes.

You then published Primary Coloured (Human & Rousseau) in 2007, Reports Before Daybreak (Random House) in 2011 and Five Lives at Noon in 2013. And you had a gay story on What Love Is (Arcadia books) in 2010. Has it become easier?

Yes, undoubtedly, once you’re a published author it is easier.

But there is never a guarantee in this country that your next book will be published. Publishers no longer chaperone careers, and the truth is writers need to be able to fail several times, otherwise they never do write their best work.

Do your novels reflect your own experiences and feature personalities that you know or have been a part of your life?

Yes. For other budding writers out there – what’s your best advice to getting published?

Just keep on writing for as long as you believe in it. The act of writing is important. Of course, we want to be read, but getting published and becoming famous really shouldn’t be why you write. If getting published is the be-all and end-all of why you are writing then you may have probably missed the point.

Writing is an end in itself.

I read somewhere that JK Rowling first Harry Potter manuscript was turned down by a number of publishers before being accepted. What are your thoughts on self-publishing?

Rowling is a popular example because her books were such incredible successes when they were published, but her experience is not an exception at all. Most writers, me included,

can wallpaper their studies with rejection notices.

I’m dead against writers self-publishing. Only if a writer has the capacity to become a publisher themselves should they consider “self-publishing” and even then it has to go through the same process as conventional publishing.

Your latest work is non-fiction – 80 Gays Around the World.

What inspired you to write such a personal journey?

It is the job of a writer to articulate human experience in all its diversity, its darkness and beauty, especially those experiences most people do not articulate for themselves or those experiences most people would not like to own up to publicly.

That is our job.

Where can our readers wanting to get their hands on a copy?

You can get it at good bookshops in South Africa, on Amazon Kindle, from the publisher’s website www.missingink.co.za or from Xavier Nagel distributors in Cape Town.

Much of your writing is political. Is social injustice particularly when it comes to Africa, one of your passions and are you an activist for social change?

I’m not a professional activist at all. If you write about this world we live in, you don’t have to go looking for injustice, it slaps you in the face at every turn. Our mainstream politicians and their politics are unspeakable. What I’m more interested in is the intersection of the intimate and personal with the greater social fabric.

You currently write for the Mail & Guardian covering the performing arts. You are clearly a theatre boffin – how do our local productions compare with live theatre in other parts of the world?

Yes, I’ve been with the M&G for 11 years. I write mostly about food these days for them. That seems to be our new culture. I am sorry to say I have seen a steady decline in the quality of South African theatre. The visual arts now our country’s strongest creative suit. It pains me deeply to see the theatre deteriorate so badly, to such an extent that these days I seldom write about our performing arts. That said, we still produce work on occasion that is some of the best work to be seen anywhere in the world.

Are South African audiences more or less critical of what is dished up?

Utterly uncritical. Everything gets a standing ovation and a rave review. I don’t object to this. It’s supportive and warm and embracing, like giving every child in the class a prize. But I’d rather be elsewhere.

Have you treaded the boards yourself?

I never considered being an actor … the idea of repeating somebody else’s lines night after night … I performed a lot as a schoolboy. I played King Lear in Grade 11. I like to jest that most actors end not start their careers with Lear, so it ended there.

On the lighter side – apart from passport and credit cards, what is the one essential item that you always pack when travelling overseas?

Brent take a breather whilst exploring Petra, Jordan

These days it is the mobile phone of course. I still land up in places where it doesn’t work, but these days if you have your smartphone and it works, you don’t really need anything else!

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Who is your favourite diva?

Umm Kulthum without a doubt. Not so much her voice, but as a phenomenon. I love opera but I’ve never been an opera queen so to speak. Freddy Mercury and Montserrat Caballe too. And I enjoy singers such as Maria Farantouri, Mercedes Sosa, Evoria and so on.

In your travels, what gay event was the most fun, amazing or absolutely to be a part of at least once?

I think one should go to one of the big pride events like the Sydney Mardi Gras or the gay games. But for me once was more than enough. I imagine a pride march in Kampala, Uganda, would be pretty amazing. I’d also like to go to the Indian festival of Kumbh mela one day. It is not a gay event and it is no place for “impure” thoughts, but 30 million nude men bathing together in the largest peaceful gathering held anywhere on earth might be interesting.

You seem to be a person who has lived life to the fullest, you’ve travelled, followed your dreams in getting published … What’s left on your bucket list?

Oh, the world is vast and there is still plenty to see. So many of my plans have had to be cancelled over the years because of war and destruction and the stupidity of governments. I also cancelled plans to go to Galapagos a few years ago because of the environmental mess tourism is causing, but I’d like to find an acceptable way to go that is also affordable. Also I haven’t seen the Northern lights …

We at out magazine thoroughly enjoyed your book, I hope all our readers get to buy a copy - we wish you great success with this venture. (see page 47 for a review on “80 Gays...”

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A younger Brent, exploring the rainforests of Thailand

MCQP CELEBRATES 21 YEARS

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nce again it is time to party the night away at one of the biggest party events on the gay calendar in South Africa. MCQP promises to be bigger and better as they celebrate their 21st anniversary. The mega-party event will take place on the 20th December at the Cape Town City Hall. This years theme is Royal Navy so get creative with your outfit, make it, hire it, buy, beg or steal it but dress up for the season’s party event.

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SCENE OUT GAY PRIDE PRETORIA

JOBURG PRIDE

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Photo’s - courtesy of Joffree Hyman.

BEAULAH CELEBRATED ON HALLOWEEN

Photo’s - Pink Papparazzi

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GAY DAY CAPE TOWN

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AMSTERDAM BAR & BACKROOM BAR CT

HOTHOUSE LAUNCH PARTY

MCQP LAUNCH PARTY

Photo’s - Pink Papparazzi

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3rd ANNUAL EvH PINK AWARDS

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t has been just over three years since the inception of the EvH Pink Awards and this year we will be celebrate the 3rd Annual EvH Pink Awards. Enigma von Hamburg, former Miss Gay Western Cape is the driving force behind this initiative.

“As the LGBTI community, we face an unprecedented attack on our constitutional rights. The continuous slaying of members of the LGBTI community is a threat to our country’s founding democratic principles that guarantees dignity and freedom for all. It is thus incumbent on all of us as members of the LGBTI community to continuously fight homophobia where it occurs and dedicate ourselves to the greater human rights agenda.” Says Enigma.

EvH Pink Awards, is all about appreciating, celebrating and giving recognition to our fellow bother and sisters that have dedicated their time, expertise and resources in the advancement of LGBTI rights and the wider LGBTI community. A nominee may have achieved outstanding success in her/his/their chosen field; broken new ground, overcome barriers or been an agent for change; participated actively as a volunteer; made significant contributions to the community; performed as a leader; served as a positive role model; provided significant mentorship to anyone.

“I can truly say that EvH Pink Awards, has grown from strength to strength.

The support from all sectors has been phenomenal. These are not my awards, but it’s for each and every one out there, so I would really like everyone to participate without any qualms and to be really proud being part of this great initiative. This is the only way we can overcome a lot of missing and other barriers around the LGBTI society. So let’s work together and make this a fabulous pink event on our calendar, says Enigma”.

There are 24 categories for the EVH Pink Awards 2014: 1. Community Builder of the year 2. Role model of the Year 3. Best Styled Fashionista of the Year 4. Hunk of the Year 5. LGBTI Organization of the Year 6. LGBTI Human Right Activist of the year 7. Drag Queen Extraordinaire of the Year 8. Sports Personality of the Year 9. Couple of the Year 10. Fag hag of the Year 11. Live Entertainer of the Year 12. Socialite of the Year 13. Drama Queen 14. Community Builder of the year 15. Cabaret Artist / Group of the Year 16. Photographer of the Year 17. Most influential event of the year 18. Pageant of the Year 19. LGBTI Lounge, Club, Restaurant or Hotel of the Year 20. LGBTI Student Society of the Year 21. New comer of the Year 22. LGBTI Parent (mom/dad) of the Year 23. Make Up Artist of the Year 24. LBGTI Corporate supporter of the Year The awards will be presented at a Gala Event on Sunday, 14th December 2014 at Club West End. Tickets are R50 if you purchase via CompuTicket and R60 at the door. Entertainment includes performance by some of the Crème de la Crème of Cape Town’s Cabaret artists. All funds raised will be contributed towards the Miss Gay Western Cape NPO. For more information contact Enigma at evhpinkawards@gmail.com , WhatsApp 073 707 1851 or join the Facebook Group: EVH Pink Awards Mag 32

NEW YEAR’S PARTY!

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A RIPPED WASHBOARD In the last issue we talked about getting in shape for the summer. So you are now feeling super fit but those washboard abs are not showing!

MCQP, New Year’s Eve, sandy beaches and braais around the pool loom as the holiday season gets closer and you need to show off a flat stomach Here are a few hints that will get you approving looks wherever you are … so if it’s a ripped torso you’re after read on …

DIET 1. Go for the good carbs.

It’s said that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach ...

I never did believe that, but it is the way to his abs.

If you’re not eating right (and this is true for the ladies as well), your abs will show it.

• Not all carbs are evil. It’s the simple, white carbs that you want to avoid. Whole grains (aka “slow carbs”) are rich in fibre and go through your system much more slowly than simple, refined carbs (the white ones). So don’t shy away from the browns -- brown rice, quinoa, whole wheat and oats.

2. Pack on protein early in the morning.

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you need to build muscle tissue). In trials, people who got 35 grams of protein at breakfast were less hungry throughout the day and saw favourable changes in the hormones and brain signals that control appetite.

• Getting six pack abs isn’t necessarily about counting calories. But you do need to get rid of the fat on top of your abs to expose the muscles underneath them -- and eating a bit less will get you on track.

• Eating any breakfast was associated with increased feelings of fullness, a reduced desire to eat, and lower levels of ghrelin (a hunger-stimulating hormone) throughout the morning. But a protein-packed breakfast was associated with these benefits over the course of the entire day.

• This doesn’t mean go for the bacon and eggs. To keep

your calorie and fat levels in check, opt for the likes of Greek yogurt and egg whites. (Get down to Food Fitness Factory in Cape Town for the best!)

• What’s more, your body burns more calories breaking down protein than it does carbs and fats. Every little bit counts, right?

3. Cut out processed foods.

Consuming most of your calories from processed and fast foods is going to produce an unhealthy body lacking in nutrients.

Foods that have been through some sort of preservation have had their nutrients taken out and are really just empty, unhealthy calories. Definitely a no-go for a trim waistline.

• To make matters worse, processing then adds in unhealthy fats, a ton of sugar or sugar substitutes and synthetic vitamins and minerals. Most of these ingredients, including artificial sweeteners, artificial colouring, hydrogenated oils and high fructose corn syrup, are not even recognised as edible by your body. Think about that! These non-food ingredients are considered toxins and most will end up languishing in your system, often stored with fat.

• Anything that’s packaged is a processed food. That includes your “health” foods, too. Look for the top super foods (nutrient-dense, low-calorie fruits and vegetables, like broccoli). These give the most vitamins and minerals to energise your body and heal and prevent strain to the muscles.

4. Drink loads of water.

Research shows that people who drink and drink and drink water lose more weight and keep it off long term. What’s more, it’ll up your metabolism to boot.

• In a recent study, a 30% increase (albeit temporary) was seen within 10 minutes of participants drinking 500ml of water. And it’s best to drink it cold -- your body takes energy to warm it up.

• And you’ll naturally cut out those sugary, high calorie drinks like sodas and processed juices. That’s killing two birds with one stone!

5. Consume healthy fats.

Dietary fat that comes from primarily mono-unsaturated and polyunsaturated fats such as olive oils, fish oils, a mix of nuts, natural peanut butter and avocado is actually good for you.

While it’s true that eating fat ups your caloric intake like none other, as long as you keep it between 20-30%, it can help you get results fast. That’s because it helps stabilise your insulin levels which, if they get too high, can cause fat retention.

• In addition, consuming fat will keep you sated for a longer period of time; eating just protein or carbs leaves you traveling back to the fridge. So as long as they’re the good fats, you’re good to go.

6. Eat often.

Your body should never go hungry. When it does go hungry, it likes to cling onto fat and tells you to chow down on that pizza.

If you’re never hungry, your metabolism is always up and you’re never left wanting.

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Eat three standard meals and three snacks, that equals six times a day. Concerned about overeating? Don’t be. Because the foods you’ll be piling on are high in fiber, protein, and nutrition, you’ll be satisfied with smaller amounts.

EXERCISE 1. Exercise your core muscles.

Once the fat on top of your abs is gone, you’ll need washboard abs to be underneath. In the comfort of your home, you can exercise your core muscles -- it helps posture, too!

• The plank: You can’t just focus on what’s on top -- it’s what’s behind your abs too -- your back! And doing the plank works both. With your forearms on the floor and your toes into the ground, lift up your core and thighs off the floor. Make sure your elbows are in line with your shoulders. To do it right, keep your butt and abs flexed.

• The reverse crunch: Upper abs are easy; it’s the lower ones

that are hard. This exercise is much like a crunch, but with your feet in the air. To start, put your arms at your side, keeping your palms down. Place your knees over your hips, using your abs to place your body. Instead of moving your head toward your knees, move your knees toward your head. Hold your knees briefly as close to head as possible and then lower them back towards the mat.

• The Bicycle: This exercise targets your back and sides, in addition to your upper and lower abs. Lie on a soft surface like a yoga mat and make a pedaling motion in the air.

Alternate raising shoulders toward the opposite knee. Make sure to work both sides evenly. 2 sets of 12 reps is a good place to start.

2. Start weight training.

If you’re going for a six pack, you’ll need strong pecs, shoulders, and back too. Your entire body needs to be on track, not just your abs.

• Wood Chop: Using a free weight or medicine ball, kneel down on one knee. Lift the weight up, with both hands, over the shoulder of your leading foot. Lower the weight to the other hip, hold, and bring back up. Always make sure your entire body is facing forward. Aim to use a weight that fatigues the muscle in 12 reps.

• Trunk Rotations: Working with a dumbbell or medicine ball, get into a sitting position, knees bent and feet flat on the floor. Lean back slightly to engage your abs. Bending at the elbows, hold the weight close to your core and twist from side to side. Pause at the end of each rotation.

• Dumbbell fly: Grab some free weights and sit on a stability ball. Walk it forward until it’s your head and upper back that are balancing on the ball. Push the dumbbells up and out, directly above your elbows. Swing out and back in, slowly. Keep your abs flexed at all times and your arms loose, not locked.

3. Blast fat with cardio.

The absolute quickest way to get rid of fat is cardio. While it’s important to do cardio and it’s important to work with weights, it’s most important to do both in tandem. You need to burn and blast away the fat to see the results you want.

• This doesn’t necessarily mean running. Swimming, boxing, cycling, and tennis are also great alternatives (amongst many) if you don’t feel like hitting the concrete.

• Consider high intensity interval training. Most studies have shown that the benefits of cardio are amplified when done in intervals. Work out as hard as you can for 30 seconds, relax for a minute, and repeat 9 more times. And you’ll get your workout in super quick.

4. Keep it varied.

You don’t want your body to get used to your workouts.

Once something becomes easy, step it up a notch. Constantly challenging yourself is the only way you’ll see results you’ve never seen before.

• Each time you exercise, make sure to target different muscle groups. Do somewhere between four and eight moves and don’t repeat the same moves the next day. Keep your muscles guessing by constantly changing up your routine. But, as always, check with your doctor if you’re 45 or older.

• Leg lifts, straight crunches, side planks, and a number of other exercises can also help you achieve your goal. Keep your body surprised.

• Limit your weight training workouts to every other day.

Your muscles need time to heal.

• Be realistic. You are not going to get it in a week or two, it takes time.

• Stay active and that will help out a lot.

• Pull ups are also one of the best ways to shape your abs and to tone your whole body.

5. Enjoy your 6 pack!

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Miss Gay Western Cape. A title worth the wait!

A MOMENT IN TIME. A MOMENT TO LAST A LIFETIME.

By Liberty Banks (Glenton Matthyse)

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iss Gay Western Cape, the title that many drag queens and/or female impersonators aspire to embody but few can attain. Amazingly for me, I have been one of the fortunate ‘girls’ who have attained this prestigious title. Once it seemed like an impossible goal.

Now it has become all too real through hard work and dedication.

Although the brand Miss Gay Western Cape has a long history it has been rebranded over the last six years under the guidance of Mark Donough, Barry Reid, Dorian Basson and Gregory Edwards. The glitz! The glamour! The quality! The show has been pushed to a whole new level of providing to the audience member a ‘ball of a time’ (please do mind the pun) while boasting professionalism. And the proof is in the pudding! They have received rave reviews from audience members who attended a show fully-booked out weeks in advance.

As Miss Gay Western Cape (MGWC) 2014, I feel honoured to follow in the footsteps of Enigma von Hamburg (MGWC 2009), Kat Gilardi (MGWC 2010), Logan McGregor (MGWC 2011), Zilin Ayoki Zhang (MGWC 2012) and Tisharn von Armburg (MGWC 2013). I know expectations are high and I know that I need to deliver for my community.

For the duration of my reign I aim to serve our community and where possible society at large in being vocal about our concerns.

Being vocal and speaking up from an informed perspective has often landed me in hot water but it has also assisted me in questioning things people often take for granted. It has assisted me in claiming my own voice and to critically challenge people who want to take it away from me. Don’t get me wrong I state that I shall be vocal. I do not claim to be the voice of the LGBTI community. I claim that I am a voice amongst many. It is a reality that many people in our community are continuously challenged and oppressed into silence.

In as much as those who are privileged enough to speak up should speak up on behalf of those who can’t as yet we must be conscious of our responsibility to assist fellow LGBTI members in our community to find their individual voices and speak up for themselves.

I first entered Miss Gay Western Cape in 2013 and reached the top 5. I was awarded the title ‘Miss Gay Humanitarian’ which I was passionate about. I believe that many people underestimate the power that titles hold. They allow the recipients to engage in community work as a means to foster stronger ties with a kaleidoscope of groups within society in order to get people to think differently about our community. Fostering ties with other groups in society was one of the responsibilities I tasked myself Mag 36

with during my reign as Miss Gay Humanitarian 2013. It was and still is my aim with the Miss Gay Western Cape title to keep on focusing on how we could speak about solidarity between differently oppressed and marginalised groups both within and outside the LGBTI movement. I would like to believe that this could be a way to solve the problem that our community and society at large is currently faced with, and this problem is the fragmentation of our social movement/s for social justice.

As Miss Gay Western Cape 2014 I am deeply aware and committed to holding this title in high regard. The roles and responsibilities that come with it are great. However, I know that in as much as it is challenging that it will contribute to me becoming a greater activist in and for my community. When I exit my reign I would like to see and experience my growth as an individual. I would also like to strive towards adding to the esteem of Miss Gay Western Cape as a brand by elevating it to the next level like all the queens have done before me. The proudest moment for me after my reign would probably be the knowledge that I added value to the Miss Gay Western Cape brand.

Coming into Miss Gay Western Cape, it has always been stressed that one should be yourself. At no other time has it ever been as real as it is now. I ‘become’ Liberty Banks (the extension of my ‘true’ identity as a person) and I can do Liberty Banks great. Being me in all facets of my life is the most important aspect of what I want to achieve because if I cannot be myself all the hard work is pointless. If I could give advice to some of the younger ‘dragqueens’ and/or ‘female impersonators’ it would be to always be yourself and do not feel the need to be anyone else. Explore who you are. As human beings we are made up of so many aspects. Allow yourself the liberty (no pun intended) to explore your identities and expressions. Do not be shackled down by stereotypical views about what and who you should be or become. I believe that one cannot claim to be free, happy and content if caged by half-truths about who we are or should be. Always be in search of ‘you’ for only if we are in search of ourselves can we eventually find freedom, happiness and a sense of being content.

With a whole year ahead of me as Miss Gay Western Cape I choose to be true to who I am. Admittedly I do not wish to travel this road alone. I choose to share it with my community who forms the backbone of what I do. Indeed we are one community with a multitude of voices to be respected. In standing united with you during my year as Miss Gay Western Cape we will ensure that we move forward together.

Let us liberate our hearts. Let us liberate our minds. Let us move forward together!

This year is not only the 20th anniversary of one of the ultimate gay movies Priscilla Queen of the Desert, but we also celebrate 20 years since the release of two movies which brought homosexual issues to the mainstream - Philadelphia and Four Weddings And A Funeral ...

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hiladelphia was one of the first mainstream movies which not only dealt with the forbidden topic of gay love but also the taboo subject of AIDS and discrimination in the workplace. The film which starred Tom Hanks, Denzel Washington, a very young and gorgeous Antonio Banderas and Jason Robarts was directed by Jonathan Demme. The song from the film “Streets of Philadelphia ” won the Best Music, Original Song for Bruce Springsteen. The film was the first bigbudget Hollywood film to tackle the medical, political, and social issues of AIDS. Initially on a limited release the film proved so popular that the studio soon decided to put the film out for general release. So successful was it that it garnered a number of awards including the Best Actor Oscar and the Golden Globe Best Actor for Tom Hanks In his iconic Oscar acceptance speech he said, “Here’s what I know. I could not be standing here without that undying love that was just sung about by, Neil Young. And I have that in a lover that is so close to fine, we should all be able to experience such heaven right here on earth. … a cast that includes Antonio Banderas, who, second to my lover, is the only person I would trade for. And a cast that includes many other people, but the actor who really put his film image at risk, and shone because of his integrity, Mr. Denzel Washington, who I really must share this with. I would not be standing here if it weren’t for two very important men in my life, ... Mr. Rawley Farnsworth, who was my high school drama teacher, who taught me to act well the part, there all the glory lies. And one of my classmates under Mr. Farnsworth, Mr. John Gilkerson. I mention their names because they are two of the finest gay Americans, two wonderful men that I had the good fortune to be associated with, to fall under their inspiration at such a young age. I wish my babies could have the same sort of teacher, the same sort of friends. And there lies my dilemma here tonight. I know that my work in this case is magnified by the fact that the streets of heaven are too crowded with angels. We know their names. They number a thousand for each one of the red ribbons that we wear here tonight. They finally rest in the warm embrace of the gracious creator of us all. A healing embrace that cools their fevers, that clears their skin, and allows their eyes to see the simple, self-evident, common sense truth that is made manifest by the benevolent creator of us all and was written down on paper by wise men, tolerant men, in the city of Philadelphia two hundred years ago...” (This famous acceptance speech is rumoured to be reason for another iconic gay movie In & Out which is based around a teacher being outed at the Oscars by his pupil.)

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nother mainstream movie that dared embrace gays as normal people capable of loving in the same way as straights was the block-busting Four Weddings & a Funeral. This movie which catapulted Hugh Grant’s rom-com career presented Simon Callow and John Hannah as a gay couple in the only stable and loving relationship in the movie, amongst a host of fuckedup heterosexual relationships. Their gay marriage is “appropriately” masked to protect the sensibilities of heterosexuals, but alluded to openly enough to satisfy the hearts of a liberal-minded movie-going audience, yet it is openly the only genuine love affair in the film. Simon Callow said of his role, “This was a new kind of gay character in films, not sensitive, not intuitive, kind and somehow deeply sad, nor hilarious, bitchy and outrageous, but masculine, exuberant, occasionally offensive, generous and passionate. He was also deeply involved with his partner, the handsome, shy, witty, understated Matthew” (John Hannah). When Gareth, (Simon Callow) dies (which is the funeral referred to in the title), that’s when we learn that love isn’t at weddings anyway true love is fully expressed at funerals. He added that, “Perhaps the most important moment in the film from a gay perspective was the remark of Hugh Grant’s character after the eponymous funeral that, while the group of friends whose amatory fortunes the film follows talked incessantly about marriage, they had never noticed that all along they had in their midst an ideal marriage, that of Gareth and Matthew”. The gay couple are presented as an everyday day, and quite normal not screeming GAY and without all the stereotypes that the straight world in particular perceives. Released in 1994, the film which was directed by Richard Curtis received wide acclaim and a number of awards including the Best Film BAFTA in 1995, a Golden Globe Best Actor award for Hugh Grant as well as a host of others.

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WORLD AIDS DAY

By Joe Lean

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ome 1 December 2014 millions of people will be flaunting a red ribbon of some sorts. Every year they become more innovative and creative. It’s amazing how the simple red ribbon on a safety pin has evolved since the first World Aids Day in 1998. There are mosaics, quilts, tattoos, even ribbons written in the clouds. Gotta love Pinterest, until they suspend your account for pinning an “inappropriate” pic. In my defense it was the hottest naked man I’d seen in a long time; a sleeping beau with bulging biceps and virility that covered one third of the screen that made me swallow involuntarily. Pure art has that effect on me.

To date the function of World Aids Day and what it signifies has been an opportunity for people worldwide to unite in the fight against HIV, show their support for people living with HIV and to commemorate people who have died. This year World Aids Day is turning sweet sixteen and to me it should be a circumspect celebration of man and life.

We have come a long way from the long shadow cast by the 80’s ‘Grim Reaper’ prevention messaging, to the major scientific advancements in treatment and more comprehensive prevention options. Though antiretroviral therapy requires daily medication and frequent doctor visits and blood draws, it’s highly effective. People who start and continue treatment are 96% less likely to transmit it to others, and they’re less likely to get sick themselves because of improved immune function.

Despite this, there are still people who do not know the facts about how to protect themselves and others from HIV, and stigma and discrimination remain a reality for many people.

According to estimates by WHO and UNAIDS, 35 million people were living with HIV globally at the end of 2013. That same year, some 2.1 million people became newly infected, and 1.5 million died of Aids-related causes.

about-you) and let them find out how HIV aware they are. They soon realise that it’s not just a gay thing. I get so frustrated when I hear people referring to an HIV+ person as someone with Aids.

Really?! A lot of people still don’t know the difference. This is the kind of thing we can teach people on World Aids Day. Also facts like HIV+ pregnant women who receive HIV meds don’t give birth to HIV+ babies. How awesome is that?

We all do what we can to spread the word. I recently saw an interview on TV with Gert-Johan Coetzee, a very talented and innovative South African fashion designer, who helped create HIV awareness through his designs at SA Fashion Week. The patterns on his designs mirrored that of the HIV virus when magnified through a telescope. I was so inspired and beyond impressed.

There will always be something new to learn about HIV and Aids.

For instance, I only found out about PrEP last week as opposed to PEP (Post Exposure Prophylaxis). PEP is taken within 72 hours after high risk exposure to HIV. PrEP (Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis) is taken beforehand as a preventative measure. Quite progressive wouldn’t you say?

And what about HIV home testing kits? Is it irresponsible of me to think that by making these readily available more guys will get tested regularly? Sure, there is risk involved: institutions that usually do the testing provide counselling too. But it could also be part of the shame thing; guys don’t want to share their fears with a stranger; they want to find out for themselves. For instance, girls who fall pregnant buy home testing kits and they don’t get counselling. I don’t mean to sound reckless but the aim is to get tested regularly. A topic worth exploring, I think.

I sometimes wish there were more World Aids Days in a year to help promote HIV awareness and education. But we don’t have to wait for 1 December to get our red on, it should be a daily reminder.

World Aids Day is clearly still very important as there is a vital need to raise money, increase awareness, fight prejudice and improve education.

Joe Lean is a contributing writer for Health4Men, a project of the Anova Health Institute NPC, funded by USAID through PEPFAR. This article represents the writer’s personal views.

Having said that, World Aids Day is not a gay day. I once chuckled when I saw an old tannie wearing the ribbon with matching red earrings and lipstick. I couldn’t help wondering if she knew that it represented support and awareness for those living with HIV. She caught me out and wanted to know what was so funny. It turned out her son is HIV+ and she ended up teaching me a thing or two. I felt like a total dick. However, there are the ignorant ones among us who shy away from reality; the ones who simply refuse to have a discussion about the topic. I just email them a link to the online quiz (http://www.hivawarequiz.org.uk/quiz-3/

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RÉUNION ISLAND GO THERE!

By Tim Owen

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he best way to explore Réunion is to rent a car as taxis are non-existent and buses few and far between. Our car was a Renault Twingo which adverts herald as a super-mini, but I suspect they ran out of billboard space at the end of the sentence. A mini what? A mini Go-cart? Quad bike? I tried to Google the exact date that the Twingo was launched expecting to find it had been on April fool’s day but the internet isn’t saying.

That night, we walked into town for supper. The beach road is a 20 minute walk away, down two switchbacks and a concrete flight of steps. The stairs drop through a deserted tunnel which was still well lit by the time we got there shortly before sunset.

I can hear the designers brainstorming the features.

-It has to have air-con, says the one.

-But it also has to have 5 gears, worries another.

-I know! exclaims a third. We’ll just give priority to the air-con, nobody minds driving in second gear as long as they’re comfortable.

-Brilliant! exclaim the other two.

-But what if they want to use the electric windows at the same time?

-Well that’s just ridiculous, says the first. Who opens the windows when the air-con is on?

-Now, what about boot space?

-No problem, we can make a little space at the back for boots.

Voices came from inside and every now and then the ember of a cigarette would light up some eerily disjointed fingers. It looked like a research opportunity for a Stephen King novel.

So, after jumping on one of our suitcases to make it boot-size and cramming the other onto the back seat, we set off on our island adventure, taking our first wrong turn five minutes out of the airport when we failed to make sense of the signs which were all in French. Give me a break, will you, these people drive on the wrong side of the road and my muscle-memory kept having suicidal tendencies.

Monday Breakfast was at the pool, the croissants wrestled from the beaks of the LBJ’s who sat on the rim of the breadbasket. It was already 30 something degrees by the time we left for the turtle aquarium which was one of the few places that catered to non-French speakers with the multi-lingual audio guides. (Did you know that a male turtle’s tail is also his penis?)

In St. Leu we bought a baguette to snack on while we walked around the town. At midday it rained, which made it hot and wet instead of hot and moist. An hour later the sun was out and we stopped for a swim. The water was warm and wet instead of hot and moist, a pleasant change.

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By the time we headed back, the tunnel was dark and every warning my mother ever instilled in me puckered my skin.

The alternative route was just a little further on and would probably have added 10 minutes to our walk, but did I mention I am exerciseaverse? And that I had a couple of beers in my system? 1% alcohol lemon beer, but still, 10 minutes?

Not stopping long enough for our better judgement to interject, we stood tall and strode into the tunnel. As our eyes adjusted to the gloom, there were no trolls or creepy men with blood in their beards, the murmuring voices belonging to typical teenagers smoking pot and making out. They smiled and offered us a hit of their joint which all seemed very respectable, considering. We smiled back but didn’t break stride.

Tuesday We got an early start for the mountain town of Cilaos, hoping to get there before the uncomfortable morning heat turned to midday incendiary madness. With the road rising and falling in switchbacks roped around the mountains like tinsel around a Christmas tree, the poor little Twingo was put through its paces.

Our early start proved naive when we hit a straight stretch of road and came up behind a queue of cars that had been stationary for quite some time, judging by the social huddles of newly-made friends sharing Gauloises. Rockslide.

We settled down in a shady spot to conserve energy and temperament. Back home a band of 10 men would have been dispatched, 1 of them with a shovel, 9 with red flags. We waited for them to arrive.

If you are bored of sandy beaches and buffet food, the memories of which amalgamate under the general heading Beach Holiday, head for Reunion and create memories that will always stand out , and holiday pics that your friends will actually want to see It rained right up until we reached the lava fields.

When Piton de la Fournaise is in a particularly effusive mood, its lava flow extends east all the way into the ocean. 20km south of Sainte-Rose, a bend in the road transforms the scenery from lush banana and sugar cane fields to the bleak, dark grey folds of recent lava flows. Along the road, markers indicate the year of the latest eruption, some of them far too recent for my liking.

The first hint of activity was what sounded like a lawn mower echoing around the valley walls, and proved a minute later to be The Little Engine That Can. The Bobcat grader didn’t even pause for thought, it drove straight into the rubble, sweeping it aside like a snow plough in an inch of snow. No band of men. No shovels. No red flags.

We arrived at 11:30, parked, and started exploring. At noon, the humid air turned to wet air and we dived for cover at the nearest restaurant. After lunch we visited the lake (sat on a bench and ate the Kitkats we had been given on the flight), the market (one stall under a tin roof) and the winery (closed, because everything in Réunion closes between 12 and 2).

By 1pm the sun was out and we were once again cowering in the car, grateful that the downward trend of our journey allowed us to keep the air-con on.

Wednesday I caused a bit of a ruckus at the aquarium when I informed them that their shark was dead. Everybody knows that sharks have to keep moving to stay alive, and this shark was lying motionless with its nose wedged in a corner like a scolded child. Wrong. Nurse sharks missed Darwin’s memo and can often be found getting a bit of metime away from the daily humdrum of aquatic life, pondering their existence and the existence of the bipedal snacks that stop and stare and yell things like “your shark is dead!”

Being a nudist, I’d been itching to find the nude beach to get some new pics for my truenudists profile so after paragliding, we went in search of Souris Chaude beach. The cruisers were obvious, with their furtive milling but mostly it’s just guys, most of them locals, lazing in the sun and swimming in the albeit not exactly Olympic sized pools of water. The good beach, the one with the long sandy stretches just next door, is not for naked people. I mean, heaven forbid, what would people say to their children as they drove past; look kids, cock!

Thursday We checked out and headed for our next B&B in Sainte-Rose on the opposite side of the island, stopping for lunch in the tiny town of Saint-Phillipe. La Marmite Du Pecheur serves the most authentic Creole food we had found so far.

I had a creole curry, and while the poullet was dark enough for me to Google poullet to make sure that it really is chicken, it was homemade curry like mama made it, if mama was creole.

In Sainte-Rose we scanned for signs to our guest lodge, Cana Suc, situated on a disused sugar cane plantation, hence the name. What we encountered was a drenched little French woman waving madly, beckoning us to turn onto an un-signposted track. It was Martine, the proprietor of Cana Suc, but I’m not sure how she knew who were. Maybe she just waved at all the cars traveling on the wrong side of the road.

Friday We got a late start for Piton De La Fournaise, which only tourists refer to as Piton De La Fournaise and the locals just call le volcan.

When you get to the top you are presented with 3 choices of paths to take, the longest being a 3 hour hike that gets you to the best vantage point from which to see into the crater.

The shortest route is down a winding series of steps built against the inner rim of the enclos which brings you out on the expansive lava field.

This is where we were when it started raining. No, that’s not right, the word rain implies some sort of vertical trajectory to the drops, which isn’t what was happening. It’s more like all the little O molecules in the air suddenly decided to have a ménage à trois with the H molecules and what was air, became water.

Saturday Our last night was in Saint Denis near the Roland Garros airport, and en route we stopped at the famous little Church renamed Notre Dame des Laves after the catastrophic eruption of 1977. Despite causing wide-spread damage throughout the town, the church was left unscathed as the lava flow parted around it, closing rank again on the other side. The surrounding lava has been left intact as a reminder of what is heralded as the miracle of St. Rose.

Sunday The drive to the airport was quick and returning the car simple; we parked and handed in the key. It had been so full of dings and scratches when we took it who would notice a few more? Besides, it was a Twingo, they were probably sorry to get it back.

And then it was back home and back to work, the fruits of which you have almost finished reading. If you are bored of sandy beaches and buffet food, the memories of which amalgamate under the general heading Beach Holiday, head for Reunion and create memories that will always stand out, and holiday pics that your friends will actually want to see – especially the ones taken at the nude beach.

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OUT TO LUNCH THE TASTE OF PORTUGAL MADEIRA BAR “BOM PROVEITO!” - GOOD APPETITE And this is certainly what you’ll need when visiting the Madeira Bar in the South of Johannesburg.

It is believed in the Portuguese community that when God had finished his work in creating the world, he was so happy that he kissed his creation and where the kiss landed the Island of Madeira formed.

The island has an abundance of wine, cherries, chestnuts, vegetables and flowers and the Portuguese island people are friendly and warm hearted.

The Madeira Bar is a place where men gathered to drink and savour the taste of authentic Portuguese cooking - the fish, meat and deserts of their homeland. The clientele is a mix of workmen, builders and artisans as well as professionals, the likes of doctors and lawyers.

Adjacent to the bar there are tables where men gather, together with wives, mothers-in-law and children creating a very European atmosphere in the heart of Johannesburg.

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We started with the Spicey Chicken Livers and the Garlic Mushrooms. There was fresh Portuguese rolls, dusted with flour to soak up the mouth-watering juices.

I had as my main course Chicken Peri Peri with chips and my guest tucked in to a Trinchado which he announced was spiced to perfection and once again we soaked up the delicious gravy juices with more fresh rolls and a bottle of local white wine.

Around us other diners were enjoying items from the special’s menu ... The Plate of the Day which changes daily. For example Ensopado de Peixe (Fish Stew), Bacalhau Recheado (Stuffed Cod Fish) and Coelho Frito à Ribatejana (Braised Rabbit).

Meals are served either at the tables or at the bar should you wish.

We finished off, with a Pingo - a small black coffee accompanied with sweet homemade Portuguese cakes and were both satiated - what a wonderful way to spend a lazy Sunday afternoon.

Due to Madeira Bar’s popularity it is advisable to book in advance from Wednesday to ensure that you get a table.

MADEIRA BAR NORTH ROAD, REGENTS PARK JOHANNESBURG SOUTH Tel: 011 435 2477

OUT TO LUNCH A TOUCH OF PARIS IN THE MOTHER CITY FRÈRES BISTRO An intimate restaurant bringing Paris to the mother city, Freres Bistro is situated at 42 Hans Strijdom Ave, Cape Town City Centre, Cape Town.

T: 021 418 1609 A group of 6 of us decided to sample the delights of Frères Bistro on a friends recommendation.

Once seated we were offered drinks and presented with the menu and the specials for the day.

From a choice of seven starters I went for Pan seared Duck Breast, Corn, Tomato & Vanilla Quinoa Salad - and what a treat it was. Other mouth-watering temptations sampled by other diners in our group included the Foie Gras & Pumpkin Fritters and the Rabbit Rillette with pickled cucumber, mustard, crème fraiche and almonds. Both received high approval.

One of our group decided on a soup starter and went for the Asparagus Soup with poached egg, parmesan crisp and truffle.

The Frères French Onion Soup came highly recommended but I was saving myself for the main.

The menu of eight dishes included Chicken & Artichoke “Pie”, Pan Fried Kabeljou, Rabbit, Lamb, Beef and two vegetarian options. I chose the Lamb Ribeye with braised peas & leeks, goats cheese puree, thyme & tomato sauce. I am still dreaming about it. My partner was a little more adventurous and ordered the Beer Braised Rabbit & Spring vegetable pot.

Frères, in keeping with the current trend in Cape Town, has Banting options, which were sampled by one of the more fit conscious guys in our group. He started with a Pea & Mint Cheesecake with herb salad followed by White Asparagus, Artichoke & Mushroom Cream au Gratin.

Desserts included a mouthwatering Turkish Delight Crème Brulee, Mixed Berry Soup, Condensed Milk Ice Cream and Shortbread.

Chef and owner Jason Whitehead believes that “coming to Frères Bistro should be an intimate dining experience, similar to that being a guest in my own home for a hearty meal with good company – friendly, inviting and satisfying.”

Highly recommended, booking is essential The casual atmosphere and excellent fare will keep you coming back for more.

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OUT ON DVD LET’S WATCH DVD’S WITH DANIEL DERCKSEN DIE WINDPOMP ***** Die Windpomp gets my vote as one of the best films ever made in South Africa! Well done to writerdirector Etienne Fourie on an exceptional film, well scripted, directed, first rate performances, brilliant cinematography and an excellent music score. It’s inspiring to see a film of this calibre. I realise that it seems like an ostentatious statement to make, but trust me; films like Die Windpomp are rare.

If there’s one thing the art of film demands, it’s to ignite the imagination, and once the action on the screen and the action in your mind are united as one, film happens in all its splendour.

South African films have been loaded with political agendas or guilt trips into our past; yes there are exceptional local films and South African co-productions that deal with heavy issues, but Die Windpomp exceeds in telling an exceptional story about love and humanity. It deals with issues of getting old and grappling with loneliness, and the wonder and magic of youth, as well as searching for and finding love in unexpected places.

DIE BALLADE VAN ROBBIE DE WEE ***** A thrilling Afrikaans music movie that takes viewers behind the scenes of the industry and delivers a twist that will have them on the edge of their seats. Len van Jaarsveld (Neil Sandilands) used to be on the top of his game. As one of the country’s leading music managers he was a major mover and shaker who had it all: the stars, the hits, the connections and the lavish lifestyle of booze, sex, drugs and rock and roll. But then it all came crashing down, his wife left him, his bands abandoned him, the creditors moved in and he found himself on the street with nothing. As he’s about to hit rock bottom Len is introduced to a rising new star - alternative rocker Robbie de Wee (Marno van der Merwe). An amazing natural talent whose music comes from his soul, this youngster has success written all over him and he’s getting more and more fans and critical and commercial attention. But when a young girl is found dead in the singer’s hotel room whilst on tour Len has to pull out all the stops. Was it an accident? Is the kid responsible? Could it ruin his career?

HEALING **** An extraordinary Australian film about a man who has almost given up on life, and is sentenced to a lowsecurity farm where he is introduced to a majestic wedge tailed eagle in a unique program to rehabilitate broken men through giving them the responsibility for the rehabilitation of injured raptors. The film shows that “If these to can tame each other, anything is possible.”

UNDER THE SKIN ***** Scarlett Johansson sizzles as a voluptuous woman of unknown origin combs the highway in search of isolated or forsaken men, luring a succession of lost souls into an otherworldly lair.

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TAMMY **** Melissa McCarthy (Bridesmaids) and Susan Sarandon (Dead Man Walking) star in this laugh riot comedy marking Ben Falcone’s directorial debut.

After losing her job, husband and car in one day, Tammy Banks (McCarthy) wants out of her small town existence. With no money or transportation, her only way out is with her hard-partying grandmother, Pearl (Susan Sarandon). Their misadventures and brushes with the law lead them on a funny and heartfelt road trip to remember. Kathy Bates and Sandra Oh are divine as the wholesome lesbian couple who tries to unravel Tammy’s chaotic life.

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REVENGE (Third Season) ***** The mystery, the fire and intrigue of a devilish journey into the heart of vengeance has never been sweeter! Emily Thorne’s brilliant plan for retribution takes a wicked turn as she plots a new strategy to take down the Hampton’s super-wealthy Grayson’s once and for all. It all began in Season One. 17 years after her father was framed for a horrific crime by neighbours he trusted, Thorne (Emily Van Camp) returned under an assumed identity to the Hamptons high society, with one endgame, where every social overture a carefully planned chip at the foundation of her sworn enemies, until their lives come crashing down around them. Following the dramatic conclusion to season one, she returned with loaded vengeance. Her enemies might have been the same, but her mission took on a new, suspenseful twist and the web of deceit grew larger when her mother (Jennifer Jason Leigh) surfaced.

Season Three’s shocking opening triggers Emily and Daniel’s (Josh Bowman) wedding day, as turned allies, new enemies, and ghosts from her tainted past threaten to expose her. With an ultimatum from Jack (Nick Wechsler) and her complicated history with Aiden (Barry Sloane) resurfacing, Emily must take extreme measures to ensure her plan goes off without a hitch.

But Victoria (Madeleine Stowe) has new reasons to destroy the thorn in her side and everyone may become collateral damage in Emily and Victoria’s war. The bonus features of Season 3 includes a delightful discussion between the lead male actors, deleted scenes and bloopers. The excellent bonus features of Season Two include audio commentaries on the pilot, and some great doccies on ‘Nolan Ross Exposed’, Roadmap to Revenge’, a behind the scenes look at the sets , and the Femme Fatale Fashion. Season One’s bonus features include selected audio commentaries, and features into ’The School of Revenge’, ’The Sound of Revenge’ and deleted scenes.

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MUSIC MOVES

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arbra Streisand’s Partners album debuted at No. 1 on the Billboard 200 chart (USA), making the icon the first to achieve No. 1 albums in each of the last six decades, and also marks Streisand’s 10th No. 1 album With a 10th No. 1, she ties for the fourthmost No. 1’s in history with Elvis Presley.

(Ahead of them are the Beatles, with 19, Jay Z, with 13, and Bruce Springsteen, with 11.) Streisand continues to have the most No. 1 albums among women.

To promote this album the diva started an Instagram account and was regularly uploading behind the scenes recording moments. Her email newsletter and Twitter account exploded with teasers about the up-coming release. Streisand visited NBC’s The Tonight Show where she was the only guest for the evening, performing a medley of songs from the album with host Jimmy Fallon. It was her first proper appearance on a late-night talk show since 1963.

She also was interviewed on ABC’s Good Morning America and The View - you might think surprisingly since none of her previous albums have been given or needed such advance publicity.

I secretly think that Babs knew in her heart of hearts that the new album was nothing to write home about and would need lots of promoting.

Of course her voice soars, she is every second the consummate professional and as always uses her voice not only to sing but also as one of the musical instruments. However, some of her collaborators are very, very disappointing. Stevie Wonder is shocking! He sounds like the diva is strangling him in their joint rendition of “People one of Barbra’s all-time great tunes. If this is Stevie in a studio God forbid he ever tries a live performance.

“It had to be You” with Michael Bublé is great. A easy listening jazzy number which gets your feet tapping.

I think possibly the best collaboration is “I’d want to be with You”, with Blake Shelton. Finally her partner is not trying the impossible and out-sing Streisand.

The best collaborations come towards the end of the album – “I Still Can See Your Face” with Andrea Bocelli, “How Deep Is The Ocean” with Jason Gould, surprisingly the normally off-key John Legend manages to hold it together in “What Kind Of Fool” and Josh Groban sings “Somewhere”. None of these fight with la-Streisand saving the album from being a mishmash of bad voices. The final song is an indulgence and with a little modern technical manoeuvrings Babs brings the King of Rock, the everlasting (it seems), Elvis Presley back to life with a touching rendition of “Love Me Tender”.

Lionel Ritchie teams up with Streisand to murder “The Way We Were” Another Streisand torch-song and one which was successfully performed with Neil Diamond when it was first released. She should’ve included that collaboration on the album rather.

As an unwavering fan of the diva since “Funny Girl” I am loathe to trash the album. Streisand is superb it’s her fellow songsters that let her down. Fortunately all the songs appear elsewhere on other albums so this one needs never to be taken out of its sleeve …

“Come Rain or Shine”, with John Mayer is OK but would have been so much better without him. Babyface croons “Evergreen” and the collaboration is surprisingly one of the better ones on the album.

“New York State of Mind” with Billy Joel is very disappointing, as he tries desperately to out sing the diva at every opportunity. Ghastly!

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OUT ON FILM LET’S GO TO THE MOVIES WITH DANIEL DERCKSEN In the not-to-be-missed Skeleton Twins a melancholic gay actor (Bill Hader), a frustrated actor with no prospects, decides to accept his sister’s offer to return to their hometown in upstate New York. However, he’s unaware that Maggie (Kristen Wiig) is barely holding it together, secretly unhappy despite her loving husband Lance (Luke Wilson), and surprised to bump into his first love, (Ty Burrell), his high-school English teacher – a scandal that drove brother and sister apart. With painful wounds that only the other can understand, the siblings grow closer as they try to guide each other through this newest set of secrets. But as the hurt from the past catches up in the confusion of the present, their special bond is put to the test once again. They bring out not only the best in each other, but also the worst.

Eventually they grow to understand that living truthfully and sharing their lives with each other, pain and all, is the only way they can move forward and reclaim the happiness they once enjoyed together.

From Academy Award-winning filmmaker Peter Jackson comes The Hobbit: The Battle of the Five Armies (Dec 12), the third in a trilogy of films adapting the enduringly popular masterpiece The Hobbit, by J.R.R. Tolkien. It brings to an epic conclusion the adventures of Bilbo Baggins, Thorin Oakenshield and the Company of Dwarves. Having reclaimed their homeland from the Dragon Smaug, the Company has unwittingly unleashed a deadly force into the world...

From acclaimed director Ridley Scott (Gladiator, Prometheus) comes the epic adventure Exodus: Gods and Kings (Dec 24), the story of one man’s daring courage to take on the might of an empire. Using state of the art visual effects and 3D immersion, Scott brings new life to the story of the defiant leader Moses (Christian Bale) as he rises up against the Egyptian Pharaoh Ramses (Joel Edgerton), setting 600,000 slaves on a monumental journey of escape from Egypt and its terrifying cycle of deadly plagues.

Into the Woods (Jan 1) is Stephen Sondheim’s masterful modern twist on the beloved Brothers Grimm fairy tales, intertwining the plots of a few choice stories and exploring the consequences of the characters’ wishes and quests.

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follows the classic tales of Cinderella (Anna Kendrick), Little Red Riding Hood (Lilla Crawford), Jack and the Beanstalk (Daniel Huttlestone), and Rapunzel (MacKenzie Mauzy)—all tied together by an original story involving a baker and his wife (James Corden & Emily Blunt), their wish to begin a family and their interaction with the witch (Meryl Streep) who has put a curse on them. Rob Marshall, the talented filmmaker behind the Academy Award-winning musical Chicago and Disney’s Pirates of the Caribbean: On Stranger Tides, helms the film, which is based on the Tony-winning original musical by James Lapine, who also penned the screenplay, and legendary composer Stephen Sondheim, who provides the music and lyrics.

Birdman (Jan 9) or The Unexpected Virtue of Ignorance is a black comedy that tells the story of an actor (Michael Keaton) – famous for portraying an iconic superhero – as he struggles to mount a Broadway play. In the days leading up to opening night, he battles his ego and attempts to recover his family, his career, and himself.

Proudly share love and compassion in Pride (January 16), an exceptional gem from BBC Films about what happens when communities stand in unity against a common enemy. Based on these true events, Pride is a not-to-be-missed film about two worlds colliding and then entwining, a rousing celebration of the alliance between two disparate groups of people who came together over their shared history of oppression,

shattering prejudices and forging unlikely friendships along the way. In 1984 the UK’s National Union of Mineworkers began a nationwide strike in protest at planned coalmine closures around the country. The Thatcher government responded with measures that were not only tough, but frequently brutal.

Among the many groups who supported the striking miners was a group of gay and lesbian activists in London who, following the Gay Pride march in the same year, decided to raise money for the strike fund on the grounds that they had the same adversaries: the Thatcher government, the police and the tabloids.

Calling themselves Lesbians and Gays Support the Miners (LGSM) and, unable to get their early donations accepted by the miners’ union, they set off in an old minibus to a remote village in Wales to hand over the money in person. So began an extraordinary tale of friendship and solidarity, following the events of a fraught 12 months during which LGSM became one of the biggest fundraisers in the whole of the UK. We definitely need films like Pride to show how easily we can change the world and how people see us by simply extending a hand of friendship and opening our hearts to what really matters.

U.S. Navy SEAL sniper Chris Kyle (Bradley Cooper) is sent to Iraq with only one mission: to protect his brothers-inarms in American Sniper (Jan 23).

His pinpoint accuracy saves countless lives on the battlefield and, as stories of his courageous exploits spread; he earns the nickname “Legend.” Chris serves four harrowing tours of duty in Iraq, becoming emblematic of the SEAL creed to “leave no man behind.” But upon returning home, Chris finds that it is the war he can’t leave behind.

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WORD PERFECT 80 GAYS AROUND THE WORLD - BRENT MEERSMAN

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It is and independent bookstore and one of the few left in the city with a decent gay literature section

Published by: Missing Ink

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he title of Brent Meersman’s fourth book is a play of words on the title of Jules Verne’s classic adventure novel Around the World in 80 Days published in 1873. Apart from the protagonists travelling to a few of the same destinations, there is nothing much else that these two tomes written a hundred and forty years apart have in common, unsurprisingly. Except that Meersman is also on an adventure; his is a sexual voyage of discovery which brings him into contact in all parts of the world with a myriad of men who love other men. As a way of introduction he writes: “In coming to terms with my own sexuality, I developed an almost anthropological obsession with what it means to find yourself inexplicably and irreversibly attracted to the same sex. How, I wondered, do men sexually attracted to other men live in different parts of the world? How do they see themselves? How have they survived over the centuries, mostly in places hostile to them?”

The search of answers to these questions took him on a journey through 60 countries that fundamentally changed his conception of himself and his view of the so-called ‘Gay identity”. Writing about his foreign sexual escapades was a response to sex, and especially homosex, being written out of most travelogues. One wonders why this is so as the possibility of sex, or meeting Mr Right Now, is one of the reasons for travel. Why else would Mykonos, Sitges, Provincetown or even Cape Town be popular gay tourist destinations? Meersman writes that “the unexpected romance with a beautiful stranger that transforms a dingy destination into a brief paradise; a mysterious man who turns exotic fantasy into reality; a dishonest rent boy who poisons a whole city for one”, is what makes travel exciting and mind expanding.

Anyone who has travelled will empathise with much of these self-evident truths: wherever in the world you go you can be sure that there will exist men who will have sex with you, for free or for money, and that they have a well- developed gaydar that will allow them to spot you a mile away. You just have to be open to suggestion, or in some cases, some mild coercion. And meeting new people of all cultures does expand your mind, broaden your horizons and stretch your sexual

opera. James Levine returns to one of his signature Wagner works conducting the epic comedy Die Meistersinger von Nürnberg (January 10). The great Renée Fleming stars as the beguiling femme fatale who captivates all Paris in Lehár’s enchanting operetta The Merry Widow (Feb 21).

Live Theatre on the Big Screen The Internationally renowned DV8 Physical Theatre’s powerful new production of John will be screened at Cinema Nouveau from January 3 as part of the NT Live Season.

boundaries should you chose to be a tad adventurous.

I smiled knowingly to myself on reading about similar situations that the writer found himself in, particularly about being a white African abroad. And it made me remember that everything is relative. One year on Mykonos, I met a beautiful Swiss boy who was getting more and more depressed as his holiday approached its end. He was dreading returning to his small Alpine town where he essentially had to live in the closet. On this sparkling isle he could be free, which is exactly the same thing many Athenian men told me. I didn’t feel so bad returning to Hip-Hip Harare and its relatively vibrant gay life at the time.

Meersman relates some interesting close encounters of queer kind: a neo-Nazi sadomasochist in a Berlin backroom, romance in a Syrian hamam, a vile rent boy in Shanghai, the pushy tour guides in Luxor. But this book isn’t all about sex. In fact there is little description of it. But there is a lot of beautiful writing about interesting places, with a few laugh out loud moments too. I found it to be very entertaining and I can recommend it for anyone who is keen to know how the other half lives.

Exhibition on Screen brings blockbuster art exhibitions from galleries around the world to Cinema Nouveau. Filmed exclusively for cinema at the exhibitions and on location, this ground breaking series allows art lovers worldwide to enjoy, marvel and delight at the works of some of history’s greatest ever painters on the big screen, in stunning high definition.

Make sure to see Girl With A Pearl Earring and other treasures (Jan 13) . Coming up on April 14 is Vincent Van Gogh – A New Way Of Seeing, with exclusive access from the Van Gogh Museum.

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ON STAGE AT THE JO’BURG THEATRE

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anice Honeyman’s Peter Pan is on at the Joburg Theatre until December 28. You can stop growing up and start believing in fairies as they journey with Peter Pan, Tinker Bell, Wendy and her brothers to Neverland where this swashbuckling adventure really begins! Craig Urbani plays the menacing Captain Hook, with Bongi Mthombeni as Hook’s bumbling sidekick. Michael Riff Themba plays the courageous and gutsy Peter Pan and Tinker Bell will be played by Thembsie Matu. To book contact the Theatre’s ticketing office on (011) 877 6815 / 6853.

The Greatest Love Of All – The Whitney Houston Show features South Africa’s own Belinda Davids and is on at the Joburg Theatre From January 22 until February 15. Accompanied by a live band and dancers. The show includes over 20 of Houston’s most popular tracks taken from the full span of her career, including ‘I Will Always Love You’, ‘I Wanna Dance With Somebody’, ‘Didn’t We Almost Have It All’, ‘I’m Every Woman’, ‘Exhale (Shoop Shoop)’, ‘Million Dollar Bill’ and more. To book contact the Theatre’s ticketing office on (011) 877 6815 / 6853.

The hit off-Broadway musical revue Forever Plaid is on at The Auto & General Theatre on the Square in Sandton until December 20. The show is a revue of the close-harmony guy groups that reached the height of their popularity during the 50’s and 60’s. Personifying this clean-cut genre, are The Plaids.

This quartet of high-school chums tell the comical story of their dreams to record an album, which were thwarted when they collided with a bus filled with Catholic school girls on their way to see the Beatles’ American debut on The Ed Sullivan Show. The play begins with The Plaids returning from the afterlife for one final chance at musical glory, which they succeed in in magnificent fashion.

The songs they sing during the course of the musical include some of the most popular and well know numbers from that era: “Crazy ‘Bout Ya, Baby”, “Catch a Falling Star”, “Perfidia” and “Sh-Boom.”

Bookings: 082 553 5901 or on-line: www. strictlytickets.com

AT THE CAPE TOWN THEATRE

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festive feast of shows starring Pieter-Dirk Uys and Evita Bezuidenhout: Adapt or Fly / And then there was Madiba / An Evening with Evita / Tannie Evita Praat Kaktus / An Audience with Pieter-Dirk EISH / Evita’s Xmas Tree. See www.evita.co.za for daily times and show.

Stand up fever hits this Mother City this Festive Season Top South African comedian Nik Rabinowitz causes a laugh riot at the Fugard Theatre with What the EFF? from 16 to 30 December. From the leafy green ganglands of Constantia, to the imaginary book storage lockers of Limpopo, Rabinowitz casts his eye far and wide, and muses: “What the EFF?” And if politics isn’t your cup of tea, there’s plenty of other ridiculousness that’ll have you shaking your head, and clutching your sides. Book at Computicket.

Marc Lottering’s hit show This is Captain Lottering Speaking is on at the Baxter Concert Hall in Rondebosch between December 2014 and January 2015. Aside from Lottering’s side splitting stand-up comedy, the show will also feature the hugely popular characters that have made this comedian a household name in South Africa. Aunty Merle finds herself at the Airport Departures Hall armed with a freshly baked tart for her friend Rose Kannemeyer. Pop idol wannabe Galatia Geduldt is on a plane, Pastor Brandon is taking a short break from the Church, and leaving for the States after a tabloid newspaper publishes a story about him and his ‘laying on of hands” approach as witnessed in a parked car at Sunrise Circle in Muizenberg. Book at Computicket.

Popular comedian and talented actor Rob van Vuuren’s WhatWhat is on at the Baxter Golden Arrow Studio from 1 December until 17 January. It’s a high energy, hilarious and epic celebration of a

For more information, visit Let’s go to the Theatre on Facebook or visit www.writingstudio.co.za

WITH DANIEL DERCKSEN hidden gem in the South African lexicon.

Book at Computicket.

A new musical from David Kramer.David Kramer directs his new musical Orpheus in Africa at the Fugard Theatre from January 28, 2015. It tells the little known story of the American impresario Orpheus McAdoo and his African-American Virginia Jubilee Singers, who visited South Africa in the 1890’s. Their tour began in Scotland where Orpheus met Lady Loch - the wife of the British Governor of the Cape - who invited them to Cape Town. It was here some 125 years ago that the Jubilee Singers became an unlikely overnight sensation.

The deliciously dark psycho-drama The Pervert Laura is on at the Little Theatre in Cape Town from December 4 – 20. It is a character study of a woman disassembling her life soon becomes a horrific odyssey through the landscape of the past and the demons that await her there. Written and directed by award winning playwright Louis Viljoen (Champ, The Frontiersmen, The Kingmakers), and with a cast that includes. Emily Child, Terry Norton, Nicholas Pauling, Sarah Potter and Guy DeLancey, it is not to be missed! Book at www.webtickets.co.za

AT THE DURBAN THEATRE

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inder-Fella is on at the SunCoast until December 30. It is an accepted fact that Cinderella is the world’s most favourite pantomime. There have been several incarnations of the adult version, Sinderella. But don’t panic …..there is a new version, filled with clever quips to keep you on the edge of your seat …as well as just a few below-the-belt jokes. Harking back to the original format of clever, rather than in your face, your favourite festive season entertainers have come up with a new plot. Gone is Cinderella – and Sinderella – as well as Prince Charming and the Fairy Godmother. Enter SinderFella, Princess Charming and the Fairy Godfather. The team is back with some new additions: Anthony Stonier (whose legs are a World Heritage site) and Clinton Small (last year’s surfer dude) play the Ugly Sisters; Thomie Holtzhausen (seen in a great variety of roles in past pantos) is the Fairy Godfather; and the gorgeous Katy Moore (last year’s Juliet) as Pandora Hugetit, the sugar baroness of Ballito.

Joining them for the first time are Rowin Munsamy as the Princess’ loyal supporter, Button, and Mpilo “Straw” Nzimanade as Sinder-Fella. Book at Computicket.

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