Issue 49, SUMMER 2021
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INSIDE THIS ISSUE FEATURES
2 Editor’s Comment 3 SA’s First Gay Mayor - Chris Pappas 4 Welcoming LGBTI+ Travellers - The new Alphen Hotel & Spa 7 The First Ever - Cape Town Pride Pop Proms 8 FEATURE: Zimbabwe say No to Somizi 18 SAVE THE DATE - Cape Town Pride 2022 19 Guy Candy - Working up a Sweat 20 Nkoli House Project Merchandise - Support Nkoli House 21 WIN WITH HAVAIANAS 28 TRAVEL: Lonely Planet’s LGBTI+ Best 32 FEATURE: Mr Gay World! 36 Ageism - The Last Frontier 40 Thami Dish - Supporting the Community 41 Important Numbers 42 Diversity and Inclusion during the Pandemic 43 LGBTQIA Activist Rob Quintas’ New Appointment 44 “Healthier” Festive Season Cocktails 48 The Buzz: Snippets of news 54 WORDPERFECT: Him Between Certain Death & a Possible Future 55 MUSIC MOVES: Lil Nas X - Montero 56 OUT TAKES
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50 OUT ON FILM: Documentaries 52 FESTIVE FILMS: The Bitch Who Stole Christmas Single All The Way
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FROM THE EDITOR Welcome all I had a thought by now with the lowering of the Covid restrictions to level 1 that we were on the road to putting the pandemic behind us, only to be blind-sided by yet another variant which seems to shutting down the world with the whole of Southern Africa on worldwide red lists ... and why one asks! Let me tell you ... this pandemic will NEVER go away until everyone is vaccinated ... so all those selfish unvaccinated individuals stop putting not only yourselves, but the rest of the population at risk, GET YOUR JAB!!! The science shows vaccines are effective! This is a no brainer ... Duh! Plans are well underway for Pride in Cape Town in 2022. All the events on the Pride calender will be restricted to those people who’ve been vaccinated or tested - this will be rigorously enforced! A new event will be on the Pride calender - The Cape Town Pride Proms with the Cape Town Philharmonic and some of the countries top talent... go to page 7 to find out more. South African personality Somizi was recently refused entry to Zimbabwe because he is gay! Go to page 8 for the low down. For the first time in South Africa’s history an openly gay man has been elected as mayor... you can find out more on page 3, about Chris Pappas. Elderly LGBT+ people suffer discrimination from within our community ... go to page 36 ... with luck all the youngsters out there will get old so its time to deal with the issue of agediscrimination. On page 32 is Louw Breytenbach, the new Mr Gay World 2021 ... South Africa has now taken the title for the 3rd time - a huge feather in our cap... For those readers who follow Ru Paul’s Drag Race, there is a new Christmas movie, The Bitch Who Stole Christmas, starring the World’s No 1 drag diva ... find out when you can see it on page 52 MANAGING EDITOR: Tommy Patterson 082 562 3358
The Music page features Lil Nas X’s Montero album on page 55 Our regular features, Guy Candy, The Buzz, OUT on Film and more bring you interesting information and snippets on what’s happening in the LGBTQI+ world. Happy Christmas, Happy Hannukah and happy holidays to everyone. Stay safe, remember to social distance, mask up... and for F’s sake get vaccinated ...
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FIRST LGBTQI+ MAYOR CHRIS PAPPAS
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OUT Africa Magazine congratulates Chris Pappas on being inauguarated as the country’s first LGBTI mayor
oung, well-spoken and dynamis, Chris PAppas has led the team in the uMngeni Local Municipality in KwaZulu-Natal that saw the DA romp to a 47% win in the recent local municipal elections. Pappas who we believe is the first openly gay person to hold the office of Mayor anywhere in the country is dedicated to improving the lot off everyone in his constituency. In his campaign he promised to address corruption, improve service delivery and boost economic growth in the uMngeni municipality. “I was fed up with corruption, which went unpunished. We did not campaign on big promises and unrealistic issues. We told people that we would work to get the basics right,” he said. Politics is his passion and at the tender age of 30 has has been the party’s deputy provincial leader since 2021. Previously he served as a DA Member of the KZN Legislature since 2019 and has also served as a member of the eThekwini city council from 2016 until 2019. Born in KZN, he speaks isiZulu fluently enabling him to connect with the community he serves on a personal level and wining their support and respect. He is a popular figure within the black community and is often referred to as “Umzulu omhlophe”, (white Zulu) a reference to their respect for his eloquence in IsiZulu. He also holds a degree in town and regional planning.
“It is who I am. I can’t change that and would not want to”
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When asked about being open about his sexuality and whether this would have an impact on his abilities, he replied that “It is who I am. I can’t change that and would not want to,” he said. He added that he believes most of the public is chiefly concerned with improving their lives and that of their families and communities, rather than focusing on his sexuality.
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In an interview with Mamba Online, when asked about the importance of an openly-gay politician becoming mayor in South Africa, Pappas replied: “I think that the significance is not in being gay but knowing that a gay man has the right to run for office. That he can run without needing to justify or defend his existence but rather his plan and ability to get the job done compared to other candidates.” Adding that, “This said, there are still many challenges that face the LGBT+ community in South Africa and on the continent and we must work harder to realise the words written in the Constitution.” Chris is engaged to his partner JP Prinsloo.
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Our new boutique spa has been developed and curated with the ultimate self-care in mind. Spearheaded by highly trained therapists and lauded skincare products, this has become a getaway for wellness and recharge. The beautiful lawns and heated pool, a fully-equipped gym and varied menu options complete the wellness side of this Alphen sanctuary.
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Our heated, 15m pool is now open to both guests and visitors. While away a summer’s day on one of our daybeds, with a curated cocktail and snack menu from Incognito. The rolling lawns make for the perfect family area – there truly is something for everyone here.
Essentially, we’ve taken the best from before, immersed it in something brand new, and will be delivering it with the same, five-star hospitality. The Alphen Boutique Hotel & Spa is essentially our take on timeless.
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Constantia is South Africa’s oldest wine region and is located around 25 minutes from all major attractions of Cape Town. The Alphen location is the best of both worlds – with nature at your doorstep and the city buzz or coastal experience just a short drive away.
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Our much-loved la Belle remains Constantia’s favourite brunch spot, while the lovely Blanko has had its menu turned on its head. Moving away from formal, the Blanko menu is now more casual and comfortable, in line with the wonderful Constantia energy. Opening since the 15th October, Blanko looks forward to welcoming you. Finish the day at Incognito, overlooking the beautiful rolling lawns of the property with a cocktail in hand while DJs whisk you into the evening. You won’t want to leave, nor will you have to.
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n Thursday night the 17th February Cape Town Pride will host a glamorous, first time event on the African continent - The Cape Town Pride Proms 2022.
This glamorous night of music will be one of the highlight events of Cape Town Pride 2022 calender. The organisers assure me that the glittering night of music will become an annual event, showcasing local talent. Modelled on the world-renowned BBC Proms, the Pride event will feature the full Cape Town Philharmonic Orchestra accompanying both well-known singers and new talent and will feature the Cape Town Youth choir. Similar to the iconic Royal Albert Hall Proms, the Cape Town Pride concert line-up will be a mix of classical music; well-known arias such as the rousing Nessun Dorma, to songs from musicals and timeless pop songs including those made famous by the likes of Freddie Mercury and Lady Gaga.
Picture: The Christmas Concert at Cape Town City Hall All-in-all with a variety of musical styles and genres, creative lighting, a full orchestra and a choir an awesome evening is envisaged, with something for everyone ... The one night musical event will be taking place at the recently refurbished, 116-year old Cape Town City Hall, a well-known venue which, with its perfect acoustics, is home to the Cape Town Philharmonic. Notable honorary guests will include the Premier of the Western Cape, Mr Alan Winde and the Mayor of the City, Geordin Hill-Lewis, the ward councillor for the area Mr Ian McMahon as well as other well-known, high-profile LGBTI+ celebrities. I am informed that owing to Covid restrictions tickets will be limited so it is important to get your tickets for an unforgettable experience early. Tickets are available online at Quicket.com and will be restricted to those who have been vaccinated or have proof of a PCR test.
The theme connecting all the music is that it was either written or performed by LGBTI+ people which being a part of the city’s LGBTI+ pride calender is appropriate. Three Tons of Fun, those iconic, larger-than-life ladies who perform at Pride Cape Town every year will be included in the line-up which at the time of going to press was still in negotiation. We are assured however, that singers and performers are knocking on the door. There will be tenors and sopranos to handle the operatic numbers. There will be those whose vocal range is capable of performing songs like Bohemian Rhapsody and the stirring Barcelona. A local gay man is on the cards to belt out I Am What I am from the acclaimed LGBTI musical La Cage Aux Folles. Mag 7
FEATURE
“Being homophobic is no different to anyone who is xenophobic, and racist.”
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Recently, the well-known, openly gay South African actor and media personality Somizi was the victim of homophobia when the Apostolic Christian Council in Zimbabwe (a coalition of more than 600 Christian groups) supported by the Zanu PF Youth wing sent a letter to the Zimbabwean President’s office demanding that the President ban Somizi from entering Zimbabwe simply because he is homosexual. Below is the full text of the letter.
Bowing to pressure, the Garwe Restaurant contacted Somizi and cancelled his gig but what amazes me most is that the South African Government did nothing to intervene in support of the rights of one of its citizens. It is saying and doing nothing that allows discrimination, homophobia, and hatred to flourish. The Apostolic church will see this as a victory, but It is a victory for intolerance!
When the Apartheid South African government used the bible to justify their policy of racial segregation, the well-known Afrikaans poet and Bible translator Prof J D du Toit (Totius) addressing the “Die Godsdienstige Grondslag van ons Rassebeleid” [The Religious Foundation of our Race Policy] at the National People’s Congress (“Volkskongres”) on Race Policy, in 1944, said, “‘Give me a Bible text,’ says the opponent of our Mag 9
colour policy, ‘a text that proves that segregation is in agreement with the utterances of Holy Scripture.’ ‘I have no text,’ is my answer. ‘Then I have won the case, says the advocate for equality’ … I answer: … ‘I don’t have a text, but I have the Bible, the whole Bible. My argumentation would proceed from Genesis to Revelation.” Further justification, often used by evangelical Christians in the USA was Noah and Ham (Genesis 9:20–27). After the flood recorded in Genesis 6-9 Noah’s three sons (Shem, Ham, and Japheth) repopulated the earth. Shem is the ancestor of the Hebrews, Japheth is the ancestor of Europeans, Ham is the ancestor of Africans. An incident occurs in which Ham sees the nakedness of his father causing Noah to pronounce a curse on Ham which turns his skin black and condemns his ancestors to perpetual slavery to the descendants of Shem and Japheth. History has shown that their misguided justification for racial segregation was nothing more than twisting the scriptures to suit their hateful ends. One wonders what the Apostolic Church of Zimbabwe’s stance is towards these passages of the bible. However, the Apostolic church in particular, but others as well, continue to justify discrimination against LGBTI+ people by taking the just parts of scripture that suit their evil ends. Of course, some Christians, churches and religious sects stand
solidly with the following texts cited to condemn homosexuality: Sodom and Gomorrah (Genesis 19:1–11), Levitical laws condemning same-sex relationships (Leviticus 18:22, 20:13), two words in two Second Testament vice lists (1 Corinthians 6:9–10; 1 Timothy 1:10), and Paul’s letter to the Romans (Romans 1:26–27). Many modern theologians believe that these do not refer to homosexual relationships between two free, adult, and loving individuals. They describe rape or attempted rape (Genesis 9:20–27, 19:1–11), cultic prostitution (Leviticus 18:22, 20:13), male prostitution and pederasty (1 Corinthians 6:9–10; 1 Timothy 1:10), and the Isis cult in Rome (Romans 1:26–27). Yet, their passion and fervent following of the bible doesn’t extend to other texts. Take the Ten Commandments for instance (Exodus 20:14). These are the basic principles relating to ethics and worship that play a fundamental role in Judaism and Christianity. Yet the 7th Commandment, “You shall not commit adultery, has been brushed aside with 2 out of every 3 straight marriages resulting in divorce, and adultery often cited as the reason. The bible is quite clear on the punishment: Leviticus 20:10 prescribes capital punishment for adultery, stating that, “both the adulterer and the adulteress are to be put to death.” One can’t help wondering why the Apostolic Church overlooks this this law. Dr Laura Schlesinger, an American radio and TV talk show host, whose out-spoken views and condemnation of the LGBTI community received the following, now famous, letter from a listener:
“Dear Dr. Laura: Thank you for doing so much to educate people regarding God’s Law. I have learned a great deal from your show and try to share that knowledge with as many people as I can. When someone tries to defend the homosexual lifestyle, for example, I simply remind them that Leviticus 18:22 clearly states it to be an abomination. ... End of debate. I do need some advice from you, however, regarding some other elements of God’s Law and how to follow them. 1. When I burn a bull on the altar as a sacrifice, I know it creates a pleasing odour for the Lord - Lev.1:9. The problem is my neighbours. They claim the odour is not pleasing to them. Should I smite them? 2. I would like to sell my daughter into slavery, as sanctioned in Exodus 21:7. In this day and age, what do you think would be a fair price for her? 3. I know that I am allowed no contact with a woman while she is in her period of menstrual uncleanness - Lev.15: 19-24. The problem is how do I tell? I have tried asking, but most women take offence. 4. Lev. 25:44 states that I may indeed possess slaves, both male and female, provided they are purchased from neighbouring nations. A friend of mine claims that this applies to Mexicans, but not Canadians. Can you clarify? Why can’t I own Canadians. 5. I have a neighbour who insists on working on the Sabbath. Exodus 35:2. The passage clearly states he should be put to death. Am I morally obligated to kill him myself? Mag 10
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Quite brilliant. But, whilst many would argue that if “The eating of shellfish is an abomination (Leviticus 11: 9-12), so Christians that seem to be okay with shrimp eating should be okay with homosexuality.” Is a valid argument, those who wish to win over the God Hates Fags crowd with the notion that God Hates Shrimp are horribly misguided, is never-the-less true that we should know that everything written in the bible cannot be taken literally. The bible was written 2000 years ago. Times have changed. What were considered mental health issue then are no longer. What was considered unclean then, may not be the case now, The world has advanced and so should our understanding and interpretation of the bible. It is after all a collection of instructions and teachings relevant at the time that perhaps may not have the same relevance today. Somizi’s correctly responded that “Being homophobic is no different to anyone who is xenophobic, and racist.”
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One can’t help wondering where the Apostolic Christian Council stands on xenophobia and racism. One also wonders why the South African government fails to support LGBTI+ issues or evenn raise them at the African Union when countires like Uganda and Ghana are eneacting laws that further discriminate against our community....
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1. COPENHAGEN, DENMARK
Denmark may be the home of Lego and at the forefront of New Nordic Cuisine, but importantly it made history in 1989 by becoming the first nation in the world to recognize registered same-sex partnerships. And at Denmark’s heart is the relaxed beauty of its compact cobblestoned capital, Copenhagen. Copenhagen is home to Europe’s oldest openly gay bar, Centralhjørnet, which celebrated its 100th birthday in 2017; as well as the hip and super-cool district of Vesterbro, which also happens to be the city’s red-light district. One of the most tolerant and open communities in Europe, Copenhagen’s functional yet edgy fashion scene, brilliant array of cocktail bars, excellent range of gay-friendly boutique accommodation and packed calendar of events make it one of the most accepting places on Earth. Don’t forget to pay a visit to City Hall Tower. One, it’s amongst the tallest buildings in Copenhagen and provides some of the best views around. But right next door is the ‘Rainbow Square,’ named in 2014 in recognition of the quest for equal rights.
2. NEW ZEALAND
The Land of the Long White Cloud has long been lauded for its inclusive and progressive behaviour toward the LGBTQ community. In 1998 New Zealand was the first nation to adopt the label of ‘Gay/Lesbian Friendly’ when referring to businesses and accommodation – an initiative now recognized globally. The country offers a brilliant network of gay- and lesbianfriendly homestays which run the length and breadth of the country from the top of the semi-tropical North Island to the depths of the glacial South. Since passing same-sex marriage laws in 2013, New Zealand has actively promoted same-sex marriage tourism to the likes of other Pacific nations where equality laws are less progressive. If you’re wondering when the best time to visit New Zealand might be, Winter Pride is a perennial favourite; it includes a gay ski festival and takes place in picturesque Queenstown in late August or early September. Mag 29
3. TORONTO, CANADA
Toronto continues to be a beacon for the LGBTQ traveller in North America, and Canada is hands down the most advanced and progressive nation in the Americas for the gay community. Toronto’s The Village, located in Church-Wellesley, is the cultural hub of the city, bursting with galleries, theatres and gayfriendly businesses. Home to a huge Pride event that includes a Dyke March, plus a well-established LGBTQ community centre, gay sub-culture has blossomed and thrived in The Village for decades and will no doubt continue to do so for many more. If you’re visiting in the fall, the Village’s fabulous Halloween on Church block party is one of the events of the year.
4. PALM SPRINGS, USA
Located approximately 100 miles east of Los Angeles, Palm Springs is a sun-seeker’s paradise where the sun shines almost all year round and where the city has embraced everything gay. Palm Springs provides the LGBTQ traveller with an amazing array of outdoor activities, excellent shopping and dining, and the world’s best pool side lounging. Palm Springs also offers the largest volume of male- and female-only accommodation anywhere in the world (many of these places are clothing-optional). Pack the SPF and make the most of the sun, boys and girls! One tip for the girls: check out The Dinah, the world’s largest lesbian event, held annually in Palm Springs.
5. SITGES, SPAIN
The coastal city of Sitges is approximately 35km southwest of Barcelona and is the shining light of Spain’s gay scene and indeed one of Europe’s biggest destinations for LGBTQ travellers. Its stretch of sandy, often clothing-optional beaches make it a favourite for the boys, but its eclectic calendar of events ensures that there’s something for the entire community. You can also make Sitges your jumping off point for a broader tour of Europe’s best LGBTQ destinations – which include Mykonos, Gran Canaria and Ibiza, all of which are key stops on many same-sexexclusive Mediterranean cruises.
6. BERLIN, GERMANY
Every fetish you could ever dream up can be catered for in Berlin. Germany’s wild side is on display here and Berlin proudly boasts a vibrant and inclusive gay history that dates back to the golden age of the 1920’s. The districts of Schöneberg (which hosts Pride), Kreuzberg and Prenzlauerberg provide a diverse range of clubs, bars and restaurants for sampling. With no ‘closing time’ in Berlin, the party never ends! For the more adventurous, get your fetish on at Easter Leather Fetish Week, or don some leather at Folsom Europe.
7. SKIATHOS & MYKONOS, GREECE
Ever since Jackie Onassis started visiting the Greek island of Mykonos in the 1970’s, gay men have been flocking to the island of whitewashed houses and flower-filled courtyards, seeking out glamour and the famous Mediterranean sun. Now thanks to campy hits like Mama Mia!, the link between the Greek islands and queer culture has been forged for a whole new generation. The Elysium Hotel, an exclusively gay boutique hotel, is the perfect playground for hedonists heading to Mykonos town. For a less wild holiday, the sandy beaches, crystal clear waters and pine forested hills of Skiathos offer a relaxed and authentic experience for the LGBTQIA+ traveller.
8. NEW YORK CITY, USA
When it comes to LGBTQIA+ history in the United States, you can’t get very far without mentioning the Stonewall Inn. The riots that occurred here in the late ’60’s in Greenwich Village are synonymous with the birth of the modern gay-rights movement. The incredibly inclusive communities of the West Village, Chelsea, Meat-packing District and Hell’s Kitchen provide a fabulous array of gay-friendly accommodation options. Littered with Mag 30
significant LGBTQIA+ landmarks such as Christopher St, the Harvey Milk School, the Lesbian Herstory Archives and, hello, Broadway and the Theatre District, New York is a gay traveller’s mecca. If you’re considering getting hitched while in the Big Apple, go to the Clerk of the City of New York.
9. REYKJAVIK, ICELAND
The world’s northernmost capital, Reykjavik has been described as one of the friendliest places and most inclusive on Earth. Its Pride march is one of Europe’s oldest LGBTQIA+ parades, and the Bears on Ice event is another calendar highlight. Iceland also has some of the world’s most progressive laws. In 2006, same-sex couples were granted equal rights with their heterosexual counterparts without limitation. Wander behind waterfalls, descend into dormant volcanoes, or while away a day in one of the many geothermal lagoons – this is an adventurer’s paradise. To attend the Bears on Ice event, you’ll need to register.
10. MONTEVIDEO, URUGUAY
Uruguay, the smallest of the South American nations, is also the most progressive. In 2013, Uruguay was the second Latin
American country to legalize same-sex marriage, and homosexuality has been decriminalised since 1934. The relaxed attitude present in the Uruguayan capital of Montevideo provides a brilliant juxtaposition to the hustle and bustle of the likes of Buenos Aires. Although progressive in protecting the rights of the LGBTQIA+ community, excessive PDA (public displays of affection) are not advised.
11. PORTLAND, OREGON
Portland already has a big come-as-you-are vibe for folks of all stripes, so it’s no surprise that it’s also a LGBTQIA+ haven. From legendary drag performers like Darcelle’s own bar to newcomers like the drag brunch at the Botanist in the Pearl District, there’s plenty of camp to go around. But there’s no shortage of gay bars to choose from, whether you’re looking for neon-spangled Portland dives like The Florida Room, a welcoming social scene at Crush, classic cruising at Scandals, bears and leather at Eagle, or straight up nudity and cannabis at Hawks – it’s an understatement to say there’s a little something for everyone. Portland Pride is epic every June, with days of revelry by the Willamette River that spill over into the rest of the city. But if that doesn’t line up with your travel schedule, no worries. There’s plenty of queer-friendly events year round, like the beloved dance nights thrown by Judy on Duty and the DJs at Holocene, plus hip hop and house parties like Werk and Cake at Killingsworth Dynasty. Even Portland institutions that aren’t overtly LGBTQIA+, like the Portland Timbers soccer club, are an integral part of the city’s lesbian scene. This is just the tip of the proverbial iceberg, too, with an endless array of activist groups and community support networks that cement Rose City’s rich reputation for gay culture.
12. BRIGHTON, UK
Statistics show that Brighton isn’t just one of the UK’s most gayfriendly cities, it’s got one of the most concentrated LGBTQIA+ populations in the country. Since the 19th century, Brighton has been a respite for gay couples, thanks to the city’s prominence as a garrison for troops during the Napoleonic Wars on through World War I. Gay bars and other queer-owned businesses began to flourish more openly during the 1930s, not unlike Weimarera Berlin and other cities with a long history of gay culture. After World War II, Brighton became a haven for LGBTQIA+ folks seeking community, much the same as San Francisco in the United States. Today you can partake in that rich, rainbowhued heritage at numerous destinations throughout the city, including Doctor Brighton’s bar, the Legends hotel, and Poison Ivy karaoke hall. Head to Bar Revenge for fun near the Brighton Pier, the Bulldog for old school vibes, and The Marlborough for the lesbian and thespian scenes.
from exhibits put on at the Museum of Contemporary Art Taipei to vast pride parades to the GOL Summit, a filmmaking conference focused on LGBTQIA+ narratives. While these shifts are still fairly recent, and not without controversy, gay and lesbian travellers can kick back and relax at Taiwanese destinations like dance club and karaoke bar G*Star, lesbian bar Taboo (both in Taipei) or Mediterranean restaurant Katsikafe in Kaohsiung, or Brit-pub fusion Kudos in Taichung. Don’t miss Gin Gin, an eclectic shop in Taipei’s Zhongzheng neighbourhood, or the coffee shop H*ours Cafe. For fashion, Love Boat is perfect if your style trends masculine. Bears tend to gather, natch, at Bear Junkies, while G’s Gay Hotel is a haven for gay men. Taiwan also hosts the largest Pride Festival in Asia.
15. SYDNEY, AUSTRALIA
Sydney has long been the capital of gay Australia, and there’s no shortage of festivals to plan a vacation around, from Mardi Gras in the Darlinghurst gayborhood to Australia’s longest-running pride festival, Chill Out. But any time you pay a visit to the Harbour City is sure to be a good time, with tons of gay-friendly businesses lining thoroughfares like Oxford Street and districts like Newtown and Marrickville. The Oxford Hotel and Slyfox are a hotel and bar that are very welcoming, particularly for lesbians. Meanwhile, everyone’s invited to the Colombian Hotel and clubs like Tokyo Sing Song, the Bearded Tit, and underground parties like Canned Fruit.
13. SOUTH AFRICA
South Africa legalised same-sex marriage in 2006, sixteen years after the first Johannesburg pride parade and thirteen years after Cape Town got in on the fun. Today, the country is more LGBTQIA+ friendly than ever, whether you’re wandering the streets of Cape Town’s De Waterkant gayborhood or hitting up discos like Ratz in Johannesburg’s Melville district. Sauna culture is alive and well at The Rec Room in J’burg, while the drag shows at Capetown’s Beefcakes club are impeccable – right down to the birdcages atop the bar. Jamala Madikwe is a popular gay-owned safari lodge in Madikwe Game Reserve, or you can stay at Holden Manz, a vineyard and guesthouse in Franschoek Valley that is also owned by members of the LGBT community.
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MR GAY WORLD 2021
n an Instagram post after clinching the Mr Gay World title, Louw Breytenbach said, “Wow, I am so blessed and thankful to every person who made this possible!!” Breytenbach, who is a presenter on VIA’s Drama Mammas, an entrepreneur, TV host and actor won the coveted tile in an online event on 30 October, which was screened worldwide via You Tube. He is the third South African to win the title, adding in his post, “The crown is in Africa for the first time in a decade.” Joel Rey Carcasona from the Philippines was the first runner-up and Joshuan Aponte from Puerto Rico was the second runner-up. Louw is from Boksburg, near Johannesburg, where he established the LALT House of Growth, a drama school that specialises in talent development in 2012. He is also the director of the National Arts Association of South Africa. During the crowning ceremony he highlighted issues close to his heart in respect of the LGBTI+ community especially the spike in LGBTQI+ hate murders saying “let’s make sure this pageant is about more than just a hashtag.” “And if you tonight don’t even know what the letters in LGBTIQA+ stand for, then you are part of the problem,” he passionately announced. ” Having suffered with mental health issue himself he posted, “One of the most special moments of my life... The announcement of becoming Mr Gay World SA 2021 @mrgwsa is not only an honour but a commitment and promise to the entire LGBTIQ+ Community that we will not have another cover boy who doesn’t address the issues in the community. We are here to drive change and open dialogue on Mental Health, Equality
“Let’s make sure this pageant is about more than hust a hashtag” and injustices facing our community.” He encouraged people to pursue their dreams, “12 years ago I tried to commit suicide a third time.. Two., 5 years ago I was in a life altering car accident which was highly publicised and landed me in a mental health facility. Then I made the papers for my weight struggles and closing businesses in lockdown and so many were shocked that a year ago I cleaned houses to make ends meet and keep my staff employed. A cancer scare, and plenty breakdowns later..... We got here NEVER STOP TRYING. NEVER STOP FIGHTING. NEVER STOP BELIEVING. Your future self depends on you getting through today’s struggle. You are so worthy”, he said. For first time, Mr Gay World 2021 will reign consecutively with Mr Gay World 2020, Kodie Macavan from the Philippines as due to the Covid pandemic, no pageant was held last year. Breytenbach also walked away with the Mr Photogenic, Personal Interview and Viewers Choice 2021 awards at the pageant. Mag3329 Mag
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“”Every LGBTIQ+ person who has been lucky enough to survive the turmoil of growing up is a survivor. Survivors always have an obligation to those who will face the same challenges.”-- Bob Paris We have a responsibility to take up the torch and light the way for the community that comes after us. We need visibility, diversity, and inclusion. Break the silence om Mental Health, Transrights, stigmatization of HIV and bullying.” ~ Louw Breytenbach “69 countries in the world still criminalise homosexuality and 29 of them are in Africa -- I want to be a driving force to change this and challenge this along with my existing charities ~ Louw Breytenbach A very special thank you to The Lord above, my family, friends, fans, supporters, my amazinc sponsors, management and the silent observers who have cheered me on - THANK YOU. You will never know how you have impacted my life, and I hope to be a strong enough leader to impact others. ~ Louw Breytenbach Mag 35
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AGEISM FIGHTING THE LAST FRONTIER
Article written by Maya Vukovska
In our modern society where ageism is a global challenge, the gay male community is considered by many to be the most youth-orientated community. Gay men’s magazines are awash with images of guys with sculpted bodies with pages devoid of anyone over 40! Do older gay men even exist?
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scar Wilde once said, “With age, comes wisdom, but sometimes age comes alone.” And I would add, it also feels alone.
In gay culture, which tends to blend self-worth and appearance, sexual attractiveness in combination with youth is a valuable currency. That is why it is especially hard for many 50+ men to accept the fact they are getting older. The smothering feeling of being invisible among other gay men who are younger and sexier can lead to social anxieties and depressive moods. Although discriminative attitudes aimed at older gay people are rarely openly displayed, ageism is there, and we can’t expect that it will disappear only by slapping someone on the wrist for bad behaviour. What we can do though is try to understand the driving forces behind it first, and then look for the proper tools to combat it.
THE DORIAN GRAY SYNDROME
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growing old is something everybody fears and would never reasonably choose if there was an option. Out of that existential fear have grown all types of ageism, including gay ageism, and the LGBTQ community is often to be blamed for perpetuating it.
TAKING IT PERSONALLY
When a person starts taking too seriously the off-handed remarks and jokes about seniors, and starts to dread their birthdays, that is a clear sign they are internalising stereotypical social attitudes towards the elderly. As a result, some of them shun their natural social environment, and others turn to anti-aging products, medications, cosmetic and surgical procedures in an attempt to look younger. Internalised ageism’s ugly face is often manifested through depressive episodes triggered by feelings of insecurity, unattractiveness, and self-depreciation.
FEELING INVISIBLE
This is probably the greatest danger associated with ageism, no matter if it takes women, people of colour, gays, or whoever as a target. In this train of thought, ageism often goes hand in hand with able-ism. The way society sets low standards and expectations for people with disabilities, it similarly treats older gay men as “incapable” or “inferior.” This prevailing attitude pushes many single 50+ gay men into leading a life of involuntary seclusion and withdrawal. What they are thinking is, “The less of me they see, the less of an Aunt Sally I’m gonna be.”
BE (GRAY) GAY AND PROUD
Many of the gay millenials and zoomers who treat the previous two generations with indifference, destain, and/or arrogance have conveniently forgotten that it is due to their courageous fight for the rights of the LGBTQ community that gay men today have the privilege to live with less fear of being their true selves. Younger LGBTI’s need to acknowledge that the rights we enjoy today were fought for. The very existence of Pride celebrations around the world is to acknowledgment of that fight and the rights the LGBTIQ+ community has achieved and the fight for those rights still denied us. The once young and fresh baby boomers faced many hardships since the Stonewall riots. They were the first to come out despite the social hostility and the personal trauma of being shunned by family and friends. What’s more, in the 80’s and early 90’s, they went through a health crisis of unimaginable proportions. But during the AIDS epidemic gay men of that generation sharpened their skills to fight for their dignity and rights. These are the skills that will help the community once again, only this time to fight ageism. However, we need to educate younger LGBTIQ people that the older members of our community are still relevant, that they still have a role to play and that they too will get old one day. Ageism is the final frontier in the fight for rights for all. Remember that youth is fleeting. As George Bernard Shaw once commented when someone asked what, in his opinion, is the most beautiful thing in this world? “Youth,” he replied, “is the most beautiful thing in this world— and what a pity that it has to be wasted on children!” Many philosophers maintain too much store is placed on youth, most certainly they can not, nor do not, appreciate it. But then did we when we were young?
WHAT CAN YOU DO FOR YOUR OLD BUTT?
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Photo: Old Gays Facebook believe it or not, has succeeded in staying young forever. Until scientists come up with some revolutionary method to stop time or reverse the biological processes, we have to take care of our ageing bodies ourselves. One thing we can do is accommodate the physical changes with healthy changes that we turn into habits. Most importantly, stay active, watch what you put in your mouth (and I don’t mean other men’s body parts!), pay your dentist and doctor regular visits, have enough sleep, get a vitamin boost every day ... that sort of thing. After all, age is just a number on your driver’s license…
COMMUNITY OUTREACH
OUTREACH AFRICA, in conjunction with Cape Town Pride, are currently in negotiations with the City of Cape Town and the Premier of the Western Cape, with a view to acquiring a suitable property for the establishment of a place where elderly LGBTI+ members of our community can retire. A place where they will not need to retreat back in to the closet, as too many have to when moving to a “straight” retirement facility. It will also be a community where elderly gay people can socialise with likeminded people. It will also accommodate a crisis centre for all members of the community. A number of corporate’s have also been approached and some have been reported as showing keen interest. Anyone interested in getting involved in this project (The Nkoli House Project), is encouraged to drop and email to: outreachafrica@telkomsa,net
WE NEED YOUR HELP NKOLI HOUSE* CAPE TOWN PRIDE COMMUNITY CARE CENTRE
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ABOUT US
Cape Town Pride in conjunction with OUTREACH AFRICA is a registered NPO (157-896 NPO) serving the needs of the LGBTI+ community in Cape Town, South Africa
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We are currently in negotiations with the City of Cape Town, and Provincial and National Government and other stake-holders, to secure the premises which have been ear-marked and exist, However, it is in dire need of renovation in order for it to be fit for purpose. To achieve this goal in getting the Nkoli House* Project up and running we NEED to raise R1 million To this end we appeal to the international LGBTI+ funders for their help.
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The Nkoli House* Project, so named in honour of the late Simon Nkoli, a gay activist and anti-apartheid campaigner, who fought tirelessly for freedom, equality and social justice.
It does not matter how small your donation is – every amount matters. We hare hoping to have this funding in place by 1 June 2021
TO MAKE YOUR DONATION ...
Please pay using your credit or debit card to We have identified the need for a community our paypal account at: centre aimed at providing a home and safe paypalpayments@capetownpride.org space for our diverse LGBTI+ community to gather, meet and mix with like-minded people – with special emphasis on the or pay on line by EFT to: often-over-looked needs of the silver First National Bank (FNB) South Africa seniors in the community. Branch Code: 201809, Account Number: 62578991278 Account Name: Outreach Africa, Swift Code: FIRNZAJJ Our Ref: Nkoli House Fund (+ your Name) Your gift is tax Cape Town Pride & OUTREACH AFRICA, P O Box 397, Sea Point, South Africa 8060. deductible!! 86 Pienaar Road, Milnerton, Cape Town, South Africa 7441
Thami Dish pictured on the red carpet at the 13th annual Feather Awards 2021 The Feather Awards is the biggest award ceremony LGBTI+ awards event in South Africa and with unique categories specific to our community like: Hunk of the Year; Diva Extraordinaire Of The Year; ‘Fag Hag’ Of The Year; Socialite Of The Year; Drama Queen Of The Year; and Cutest Couple it is a premier media and social event. Mag 40
SUPPORTING THE LGBTI COMMUNITY
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hami ‘Dish’ Kotlolo is a gay South African known for the creation of the annual Feathers Awards. Done in partnership with the Thami Dish Foundation, the Feather Awards programmes include LGBTIQ+ dialogues, workshops and training, across South Africa, that focus on promoting inclusion for all. This years awards took place at the MArket Theatre in Johannesburg on the 11th November with the theme Queer Lives Matter. Their website describes the Thami Dish Foundation as seeking “to support young, LGBTI individuals from disadvantaged communities in South Africa. One of our core objectives is to encourage and motivate young LGBTI members to dream beyond their current circumstances and moreover, to equip them with the necessary tools to propel themselves forward.
The Thami Dish Foundation offers positive, affirming, support to LGBTI youngsters with a view to contributing to a future where sexual diversity is fully understood and embraced within the South African society. We envision a tolerant and compassionate society where diversity is valued and appreciated.” This year’s glittering event saw nominees from various industries, including entertainment, politics, lifestyle, sport and business. Each nominated individual or organisation, has in one way or the other, represented, inspired, or celebrated the LGBTIQ community with excellence and distinction over the past twelve months. Winners included: LeloWhatsGood - Socialite of the Year. Lady Du - Musician of the Year Johanna Mukoki - Diva of the Year Coachella Randy - Social Media Personality of the Year The Media Award went to Becoming EY - Won Best LGBTIQ+ Initiative: Private Sector
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DIVERSITY AND INCLUSION BECOME MORE IMPORTANT THAN EVER DURING A PANDEMIC
By Mervin Munsamy, Head of Human Resources at ABB South Africa
Covid-19 has shone a sharp spotlight on diversity and inclusion (D&I) in our organisations. The pandemic has had a harder impact on many diverse groups, including women, working parents and LGBTQ+ employees, with magnified challenges around caring for family and working. As we ponder what our future world of work will look like, there’s never been a better time for us to make our D&I initiatives even more inclusive, by encouraging dialogue across all hierarchical levels and enabling creativity and innovation.
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hat does diversity and inclusion really mean? This question has taken on added significance as we navigate the pandemic. As our people have had to adapt to a world where remote and hybrid working becomes the norm, company values and culture have never been more important. For me, a strongly inclusive culture starts when a business creates an environment in which everyone can flourish, thrive and be themselves. Diversity and Inclusion (D&I) are not just ‘the right thing to do’: it lays the foundation for innovation and better decision-making across the business by allowing all voices to be heard, ensuring everyone feels valued, and linking that value to the success of the organisation. It’s vital that any D&I approach looks to embed priorities like the health, wellbeing, and resilience of a workforce into an enterprise’s people strategy, as these variables will have a significant influence on future performance and success. Supplier diversity is another important topic, especially in a country like South Africa, as it talks directly to how we are influencing positive change in our communities. None of this happens by itself, though. A business can’t expect to simply make policies and establish Codes of Conduct and expect change to take place. Leadership, not just at a strategic level, but at all hierarchical levels is required for sustainable change to take place. Moreover, systems and structures must be put in place to ensure D&I is embedded in all processes and becomes a standard part of the business agenda. It must be supported by ongoing training and development programs, mentoring programs and appropriate learning interventions. It has to be modelled by the leadership and lived through the company’s values. Measurement becomes a critical success factor, as the adage goes, ‘what gets measured, gets done’. As a business, it’s vital to hold yourself accountable, and establish a dashboard to monitor your KPIs regularly. What’s absolutely critical to the success of D&I is that it aligns
to broader business issues like sustainability, which are top of mind for many business leaders. The UN’s Sustainable Development Goals are broadly seen as the blueprint to achieve a better and more sustainable future – and it’s no surprise that goal number five is gender equality. It’s a natural link. A big part of diversity will always focus on gender. My company’s Global D&I Strategy 2030 aims to double the percentage of women managers across our offices in the next ten years, from 12.5% to 25%. That’s just one target, though. True inclusion and equality span across all areas of diversity, which include, for example, gender, abilities, generational, hierarchical level, ethnicity, LGBTQ+, and so on. As part of our efforts to foster a more diverse and inclusive culture, ABB launched a gender-neutral global parental leave programme that grants 12 weeks of paid leave for primary caregivers and 4 weeks for secondary caregivers. The new programme aims to give every parent an opportunity to spend more time with their adopted children or new-borns, and balance career and family responsibilities. Aligned with local regulation, the global parental leave programme was implemented on 1 October 2021. So how are we adapting to the new world of work brought on by the pandemic? For a start, company values and culture have become more important than ever. They’re the glue that bind our people together, especially during volatile times. We’re seeing more empathy, transparency and communication than ever before in our workforce, and this is positive for everyone. Ultimately, truly diverse and inclusive organisations will be businesses where diversity, inclusion and equal opportunity in the workplace, marketplace and community are a natural way of doing business, with no overt regulation or policy needed to enforce it. We’re still some way off that, but it’s work in progress. Diversity and inclusion are a continuous journey, and we learn something new every day. But it’s a journey we cannot afford to stop, not even for a moment. Our futures as people, and businesses, depend on it.
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LGBTQIA+ ACTIVIST AND PUBLIC REPRESENTATIVE APPOINTED TO CITY’s EXECUTIVE City of Cape Town Councillor, out and proud gay activist and Cape Town Pride Hometown Hero 2020, Rob Quintas has been appointed to the Mayoral Committee of new Mayor, Geordin Hill-Lewis.
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ob has been re-appointed as Cape Town’s MMC for Urban Mobility, and this recognition of not only a committed public representative, but one who has been vocal on human rights and an advocate for queer issues and causes, is a promising commitment by Mayor HillLewis to having wider diversity and inclusion in his Mayoral Committee. Politics is not an easy space for LGBTQIA+ public representatives, who often mute themselves or play down who they are in an effort to appeal to wider constituencies. Rob has never done this, and has a been part and parcel of the queer space, before coming into politics, and has been a willing partner and watchbody over queer inclusion, organizations, events and representation since taking office in 2016. He has a passion and drive for public service and we are proud of his achievements and recognition and look forward to working with him in a new term, and in a new role. Rob is joined by eleven other out and proud Democratic Alliance LGBTQIA+ public representatives in this term of Council in Cape Town, and it is encouraging to know that queer representation in local politics is becoming more and more of a reality, thanks to pioneers such as Rob who have proudly been their authentic selves, and who have taken the risk to shine in public service whilst being a queer ambassador.
HEALTH & FITNESS FESTIVE DRINKS CAN PACK ON THENCALORIES - HERE WE SAMPLE A FEW LOWCAL COCKTAILS TO MAKE YOUR HOLIDAY EXTRA SPECIAL
Cosmopolitan Cocktail Recipe The Cosmo is a classy, always popular Christmas classic Calories per serving: 116 Ingredients 1 Shot/25ml Vodka, 37.5% Volume 18.5ml Cointreau Liqueur 1 Lime, juiced 25ml Cranberry Juice 1 Tbsp Orange Peel Making a Cosmopolitan Place the vodka, orange liqueur and cranberry juice into a cocktail shaker and fill it with ice. Shake it hard to mix the ingredients then strain into Martini glass. A bonus ingredient (that makes this cocktail extra classy) is to use a potato peeler to peel an orange. Now twist the orange peel over the edge of the glass.
Pimm’s No.1 & Lemonade Light on calories, this refreshing cocktail is awsome on a hot South African Summer’s day... Garnish with fresh strawberries and a touch of greenery - delightful! Calories per serving: 113 Ingredients 1 Serving/50ml Pimms, 25% Volume 30g Oranges 100ml Lemonade 1 Slice Cucumber 1 Strawberry 2 Mint Leaves How to prepare a Pimm’s Fill a tall glass with ice cubes. Pour Pimm’s No.1 and lemonade into the glass. Garnish with orange, cucumber, strawberry and mint.
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Tom Collins A refreshing gin sour, the Tom Collins is an excellent choice any time of day, day of the year, and any occasion. It is one of the best and easiest everyday cocktails. Calories per serving: 138 Ingredients 2 Shots/50ml Gin, 37.5% Volume ½ Lemon, juice 10g Sugar Syrup 1 Slice Lemon 30ml Soda Water Mixing a Tom Collins Fill a tall glass with ice cubes. Pour Gin, lemon juice and sugar syrup into the glass. Stir until well combined. Top up with soda water. Garnish with a wedge of lemon
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TAILS The Perfect Screwdriver Cocktail Recipe A screwdriver is orange juice and vodka, but mixed well it becomes a refreshing (albeit) cocktail. The key to making good Screwdriver is quality ingredients. Use a premium vodka and pure orange juice, it makes a real difference. Screwdrivers are incredibly popular. Its a great backup for those guests who don’t drink your other cocktails. Calories per serving of Screwdriver: 122 Ingredients 1 Pub Shot/35ml Vodka 150ml Orange Juice, Freshly Squeezed Making the perfect a Screwdriver Take a glass and add ice cubes Add the measure of vodka Top up with the orange juice Mix and enjoy .
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Caipirinha Cocktail The drink of Rio de Janeiro ... get in toa Brazilian mood, salsa & rumba, put a carnival atmosphere into your festivities Calories per serving of Caipirinha Cocktail: 141 Ingredients 2 Servings/50ml White Rum 1 Tsp Caster Sugar 1 Lime Making a Caipirinha Cut lime wedges. Add the lime wedges and sugar to a glass. Press down on the lime wedges and sugar in a highball glass using a muddler to extract juices and flavour. Fill the glass with ice. Pour the rum into the glass. Stir thoroughly.
The Mojito Cocktail Mojito is a great cocktail to start. It’s easy to mix. Currently, a very popular choice. The skill, for an excellent Mojito is in mixing of the ingredients. Very refreshing on hot summers day by the pool or at the beach. Calories per serving of Mojito Cocktail: 155 Ingredients 2 Mint Leaves 2 Slices Lime2 Slices Lemon 1 Tsp Caster Sugar 1 Pub Shot/35ml Bacardi, 37.5% Volume 130ml Sprite Mixing up the best Mojito Place the mint leaves, lime slices, lemon slices and sugar in the bottom of a glass and crush with a muddler. Fill a lowball glass tumbler with ice cubes and put a shot in the glass. Now fill the glass with diet Sprite, diet lemonade, or lime juice and soda and stir. Mag 44 Mag 46
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THE BUZZ “I CANNOT KEEP QUIET” - DESMOND TUTU SPEAKS OUT
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rchbishop Desmond Tutu and equated the anti-LGBT+ laws and violence against members of our community to apartheid.
members literally put their lives on the line, and where anti-LGBT+ rights are currently being enacted by their parliament. Gay sex is already illegal in that country and a new bill in parThe archbishop who is now 90 years old liament targets LGBT+ identity. The and has spent his lifetime fighting for new bill will specifically criminalise citizens rights has been a vocal supported “lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, of the LGBTI+ community for many years. transsexual, queer, pansexual, an ally, Not only has he fought for LGBTI+ equal- non-binary, or any other sexual or ity but was a prominent anti-apartheid gender identity that is contrary to the activist, campaigned for rights for women, binary categories of male and female”. especially within the Anglican church and has worked tirelessly for universal Therefore criminalising being LGBT+. suffrage. It will also impact on every aspect of In a recent video for the United Nations queer life, from affirming medical care Free and Equal campaign, the Nobel lau- to even public displays of affection like reate said, in its global campaign against holding hands. homophobia and transphobia, he said, “I have to tell you, I cannot keep quiet when The anti-LGBTI+ lobby is very strong people are penalised for something about and despite objections from western which they can do nothing.” governments and high profile leaders and activists it looks certain to pass. He went on to add, “But more perniciously, more ghastly, is the fact that people In light of this it is important that are penalised, killed, all sorts of ghastly our community motivate our governthings happen to them, simply, solely on ment to object to this discrimination the basis of their sexual orientation. I op- through diplomatic channels and the pose such injustice with the same passion African Union as these draconian laws that I opposed apartheid.” fly in the face of the constitution and what the South African government LGBT+ Rights Ghana shared the video stands for - Equal rights under the law as part of their campaign advocating for for all people regardless of their sexual human rights for queer Ghanaians, whose orientation, religion, race etc. Mag 48
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nterpride, of which Cape Town Pride is a member, announced on Twitter that “#interpride would like to congratulate #Kaohsiung #Pride, who has won the bid to host WorldPride 2025 in @KaohsiungCity, Taiwan.” Adding that, “InterPride stands for the #humanrights of all our members, including the right to #selfdetermination.” A clear reference to China’s refusal to accept Taiwan as a sovereign nation. It is also not recognised as such at the United Nations. InterPride, however, pointed out that, “Over the past two years, InterPride has been going through an application process to gain consultative status with the #UnitedNations to better serve the global #LGBTQIA+ community.” Adding, “During this time, InterPride worked on aligning with United Nations’ requirements. Not doing so would prevent InterPride from gaining United Nations consultative status. At the same time, we have considered very carefully the overwhelming feedback we recently received.” Their Facebook page does not list Taiwan as a country. InterPride responded to critics, saying “ We are addressing this and need a few more days to design a new artwork and add Taiwan.” In contrast, LGBT Rights Advocacy China announced it was ceasing all activities and shutting down its social media accounts. On hearing the news, Mayor Chen ChiMai of Kaohsiung City, Taiwan, tweeted, “As the mayor of Kaohsiung, I am proud and honored that WorldPride will be held here for the very first time in East Asia.”
LGBTI+ GROUP REACHES NEW HEIGHTS
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group of queer mountaineers recently took photos of themselves waving a rainbow flag at the top of Mont Blanc. The mountain is the highest peak in the Alps and Western Europe. The display of LGBTQ pride, which took place on 21 September, is part of a visibility campaign called Pink Summits. The campaign’s aim is for mountaineers to carry a rainbow flag to the highest mountains of each continent, including Everest (the so-called Seven Summits). They have already scaled Kilimanjaro, Africa’s highest mountain. Besides carrying the flag, the mountaineers document their journey, share their experiences, fund raise for local LGBTQ+ organizations and queer victims of violence, and offer youth mentorship across the globe. Conquering Everest, the world’s highest peak is the next challenge.
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exico’s national soccer team will play its next two World Cup qualifying home matches in an empty stadium because of fans who notoriously chant antigay slurs at opposing players. Fédération Internationale de Football Association (FIFA) revealed the punishment in its most recent disciplinary review, which was released on Monday. It found the Mexican team guilty of “discriminatory behavior by supporters” during games against Canada and Honduras in October. The Mexican Football Federation (FMF) was also fined 100,000 Swiss francs (around R1,696,960) for the continued behaviour of its fans. This is not the first time homophobic chants from Mexico’s fans have caused conflict in the international sporting community. In June, the FMF was fined and ordered to play its next two home matches before empty stadiums, although that punishment was halved to just a single game. (Mexico played in front of an empty stadium at a home game against Jamaica in September.) Azteca Stadium in Mexico City has a listed seating capacity of over 87,000, making it similar to the FNB Stadium in Johannesburg. Loss of fans in attendance has been estimated to cost the FMF millions of dollars in lost revenue. The slur hurled by Mexican fans at opposing players refers to “gay men in a derogatory way,” FMF president Yon De Luisa told Yahoo Sports in May. Despite promises by De Luisa and the FMF to bring homophobic fans under control, the problem persists.
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n an episode of The Simpsons that aired mid-November, Waylan Smithers – Mr. Burns’ assistant – found love, and just in time for for the festive season.
Rob LaZebnik wrote Smithers’ coming out story back in 2016, and with the help of his gay son Johnny, who was the co-writer behind this episode. In the episode, Smithers falls for a famous fashion designer – voiced by out actor Victor Garber – and as part of a whirlwind romance, the pair travel the world together. “To be able to work with Johnny on this was, like, such a dream and to be able to see how truly funny and talented he is was just, you know, super fun and rewarding,” LaZebnik said. He also added that his son was the inspiration for the coming out episode.
“I know my dad is a comedy writer. I grew up with him — obviously, I know he’s a funny guy,” Johnny added. “But actually getting to sit down and write jokes with him was so much fun. And there were some moments where I was like, ‘Dad, that’s disgusting — we can’t put that on television,’ which I didn’t expect to be saying because I’m usually the disgusting one.”\ We now have this piece of content that we put into the world together that is a combined brainpower of the two of us.” We love to see it! Mag 49
OUT ON FILM CHECK OUT SOME BRILLIANT DOCUMENTARIES There are a plethora of documentaries relating to LGBTI people, issues confronting the community, our collective history and coming out. With a little perseverance and research many can be streamed online ... here are a handful that you will find interesting and informative, some can be found on You Tube... for others you will need to have access to Netflix or an online streaming site ... PARIS IS BURNING is a 1990 American documen-
tary film directed by Jennie Livingston. Filmed in the mid-tolate 1980s, it chronicles the ball culture of New York City and the African-American, Latino, gay, and transgender communities involved in it. The film is considered to be an invaluable documentary of the end of the “Golden Age” of New York City drag balls, and critics have praised it as a thoughtful exploration of race, class, gender, and sexuality in America.”
the extraordinary life of Billy Haines, the only matinee idol who ever decided that Hollywood’s price was too high and walked away from film stardom. An excellent You Tube documentary. Paris Is Burning
The quality on You Tube is not great so if you have access to a high speed internet connection this brilliant documentary can be streamed, free, from other sites. It’s the original Pose.
THE CELLULOID CLOSET tracks the history of
LGBTI+ people in the movies from the very first ever 17 second Dickson Experimental Sound Film in 1895 featuring two men waltzing to the late 1990’s. The documentary is based on Vito Russo’s 1981 book The Celluloid Closet: Homosexuality in the Movies and interviews various men and women connected to the Hollywood movie industry commenting on various film clips and their own personal experiences with the treatment of LGBT characters in films. From the sissy characters to the censorship of the Hollywood Production Code, the coded gay characters and cruel stereotypes to the changes made in the early 1990’s. It is a fascinating 107 minutes that will keep you engrossed, and the You Tube quality is ok.
MURDER IN CAPE TOWN: WHO KILLED BRUNO BRONN. Bruno Bronn was a
popular figure in the Cape Town gay community, running one of the most popular bars. Following the death of his long term partner, he suffered from depression, but a few years later began a new relationship. After expressing anxiety about his partner’s mental state, Bronn was found strangled in his home, and speculation about a hidden treasure trove in the home was raised. We unravel the truth of this dramatic crime. Interesting as most readers will remember that famous bar/club in de Waterkant in Cape Town. You’ll find it on You Tube.
OUT OF THE CLOSET, OFF THE SCREEN: THE LIFE OF WILLLIAM HAINES. What price Hollywood? was the title of an early
George Cukor film, but is a question every closeted movie star has probably asked himself. In 1930, the top box office star was a gay man. Billy Haines lived with his lover, Jimmie Shields, and never posed on the red carpet with a beard on his arm. By 1933, he was washed up in show business; and by 1936, he had become hugely successful in an entirely new line of work-interior decorator. Out of the Closet, Off the Screen: the Life of William Haines details Mag 50
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DISCLOSURE is a documentary that chronicles over 100 years of trans representation on screen, from silent film to Dog Day Afternoon, The 40-Year-Old Virgin to Pose. The Netflix documentary features leading trans creatives and thinkers sharing heartfelt perspectives and analysis about Hollywood’s impact on the trans community. Directed by Sam Feder and with the fabulous Laverne Cox as executive producer this documentary is essential viewing for all LGBTI people, especially in the lead-up to Pride. Sit back, break out the popcorn and enjoy...
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THE DEATH AND LIFE OF MARSHA P JOHNSON is Another brilliant documentary available on
Netflix. Trans activist, Victoria Crus probes the suspicious 1992 death of her friend Marsha P Johnson, an icon of the gay rights movement in the 1960s and self-described “street queen” of NYC’s gay ghetto. When Johnson’s body was found in the Hudson River in 1992, police called it a suicide and didn’t investigate. In David France’s documentary, Cruz attempts to uncover the truth of her death, while celebrating her legacy.
THE ASSASSINATION OF GIANNI VERSACE. Whilst not strictly a documentary, the 9-part
mini-series on the defining moments of Andrew Cunanan’s life leading to the murder of the iconic fashion designer is another engrossing and not to be missed docu-drama on Netflix. The first episode starts with the assassination and subsequent episodes look back at the killers life and his murderous journey. A warning ... this docu-series is engrossing, you might want to binge-watch it, so diarise it for a free weekend!
NUREYEV, also streaming on Netflix, is a fascinating look
at the world famous ballet dancer. The documentary traces the life of the dancer from his humble beginnings in Soviet Russia, to his defection to the West, the loves of his life and his internationally acclaimed partnership with prima-ballerina, Margot Fonteyn. The documentary includes footage that has never been shown before. Nureyev
Martha P Johnson Others to look out for are HATING PETER TATCHELL, the excellent documentary charting the life of the well-known LGBT+ activist.
HOW TO SURVIVE A PLAGUE - an Oscar-
nominated film documenting the activism of the AIDS crisis as it ravaged the gay community in the late 1980’s.
TONGUES UNTIED is a provocative, unflinching look at what it meant to be gay and Black in America in the 1980’s. Filmmaker Marlon T. Riggs sought to, “...shatter the nation’s brutalizing silence on matters of sexual and racial difference.” In exposing matters both brutal — a college student who is gaybashed; the loneliness and isolation of the drag queen — and beautiful — protests and marches; vogue culture — Tongues Untied is seminal viewing on the foundations of queer people of colour.
A SECRET LOVE is a charming documentary about a
lesbian couple who came out after being together for 60 years .
Wonderful viewing for lovers of ballet and the arts, but interesting for those millennials who may never have heard of the iconic, hugely accomplished and talented dancer.
CIRCUS OF BOOKS. For over 35 years, the gay porn
Finally, OUT IN THE NIGHT. Blair Dorosh-Walther’s award-winning doc focuses on four lesbian women – Renata, Patreese, Venice and Terrain – who, a decade ago in New York City, fought back when a man threatened them and three other lesbians in the streets. The film chronicles their experience, particularly as they battle injustices and biases within the U.S. criminal justice system.
shop Circus of Books gave Los Angeles’s LGBT+ community a space to socialise and celebrate themselves without judgment. Circus of Books is the debut documentary from artist Rachel Mason, who finally asks the least radical people she knows- her parents- how they became American’s biggest distributors of gay porn. One critic wrote, “A fabulous documentary of historic importance to both LGBTQ and straights alike, but also one about an iconic Jewish couple who made great changes to human rights in America. A must see!” Best get that Netflix subscription! Out In The Night Mag 51
FESTIVE FILMS TO WATCH THIS HOLIDAY SEASON The Bitch Who Stole Christmas’ For those of you who follow every episode of Ru Paul’s Drag Race, you’re in for a treat this festive season... The grande-dame of drag RuPaul unites the largest Drag Race cast in history in her new Christmas movie. The film stars the fabulous Ms Paul at the centre of the upcoming film supported by Drag Race superstars Ginger Minj, Brooke Lynn Hytes, Peppermint, Jan, Latrice Royale, Jaymes Mansfield, Gottmik, Morgan McMichaels, Porkchop, Chad Michaels, Heidi N Closet, Kelly Mantle, Kimora Blac, Laganja Estranja, Manila Luzon, Mayhem Miller, Pandora Boxx, Raven, Rock M. Sakura, and Kylie Sonique Love. Also appearing in the Christmas Drag Romp are longtime series judges Michelle Visage, Carson Kressley, and Ross Mathews as well as Andy Ridings, singer Kim Petras, Charo, and Anna Maria Horsford. The film follows a workaholic fashion journalist (Halston’s Krysta Rodriguez) who travels to a Christmas-obsessed town on an assignment from her editor (RuPaul) to dig up a juicy story. While there, she finds herself entwined in a Winter Ball competition populated by cutthroat housewives and mischievous folks seeking to destroy the holiday forever. The movie will premiere on VH1 on Thursday, Dec. 2; so get ready to stream it and/or download for some fabulous Christmas Day viewing!
Credit: Jordin Althaus For Vh1 And for the romantics out there ...
Single All the Way
Directed by Tony winner Michael Mayer and starring a stacked cast that includes Michael Urie, Philemon Chambers, hunky Luke MacFarlane (pictured right), Barry Bostwick, Jennifer Robertson, and comedy screen legends Jennifer Coolidge and Kathy Najimy, The film is Netflix’s highly-anticipated, first gay holiday film and tells the story of a gay man named Peter who is “desperate to avoid his family’s judgment about his perpetual single status,” Peter (Michael Urie) convinces his best friend Nick (Philemon Chambers) to join him for the holidays and pretend that they’re now in a relationship. But when Peter’s mother (Kathy Najimy) sets him up on a blind date with her handsome trainer James (Luke Macfarlane)— the plan goes awry. Single All the Way starts streaming on Netflix on Thursday, Dec 2!
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hey don’t play for the same team. Or do they?
Jamie Canning has never been able to figure out how he lost his closest friend. Four years ago, his tattooed, wise-cracking, rule-breaking roommate cut him off without an explanation. So what if things got a little weird on the last night of hockey camp the summer they were eighteen? It was just a little drunken foolishness. Nobody died. Ryan Wesley’s biggest regret is coaxing his very straight friend into a bet that pushed the boundaries of their relationship. Now, with their college teams set to face off at the national championship, he’ll finally get a chance to apologize. But all it takes is one look at his long-time crush, and the ache is stronger than ever. Jamie has waited a long time for answers, but walks away with only more questions—can one night of sex ruin a friendship? If not, how about six more weeks of it? When Wesley turns up to coach alongside Jamie for one more hot summer at camp, Jamie has a few things to discover about his old friend... and a big one to learn about himself. If you like a good best friends to lovers romance; sweet, sensitive and adorable (not the aggressive alpha male) athlete MCs; low on angst and high on emotion plot; fabulously entertaining banter and shenanigans; lots of hot and sexy times – then this is the book for you. Highly recommended story of gay awakening. This is not high-brow by any means – it’s simply a gay love story, an enjoyable light read.
BETWEEN CERTAIN DEATH AND A POSSIBLE FUTURE: QUEER WRITING ON GROWING UP WITH THE AIDS CRISIS Mattilda Bernstein Sycamore
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n enthralling and incisive anthology of personal essays on the persistent impact of the AIDS crisis on queer lives.
Every queer person lives with the trauma of AIDS, and this plays out intergenerationally. Usually we hear about two generations - the first, coming of age in the era of gay liberation, and then watching entire circles of friends die of a mysterious illness as the government did nothing to intervene. And now we hear about younger people growing up with effective treatment and prevention available, unable to comprehend the magnitude of the loss. But there is another generation between these two, one that came of age in the midst of the epidemic with the belief that desire intrinsically led to death, and internalized this trauma as part of becoming queer. Between Certain Death and a Possible Future: Queer Writing on Growing up with the AIDS Crisis offers crucial stories from this missing generation in AIDS literature and cultural politics. This wide-ranging collection includes 36 personal essays on the ongoing and persistent impact of the HIV/AIDS crisis in queer lives. Here you will find an expansive range of perspectives on a specific generational story - essays that explore and explode conventional wisdom, while also providing a necessary bridge between experiences. These essays respond, with eloquence and incisiveness, to the question: How do we reckon with the trauma that continues to this day, and imagine a way out? Mag 54
MUSIC MOVES Lil Nas X - Montero
“Old Town Road” was a meteor, a smash hit just vague and anthemic enough to touch millions. Following it up was an unenviable task, and it took Lil Nas X a little time to work out the kinks in his sound. 2019’s 7 EP served a few bangers but also a few big misses. With this year’s “Montero (Call Me by Your Name),” the 22-year-old pop star seemed to find his sea legs. The message is uplifting; the delivery, provocative. It baits a certain type of crank into misunderstanding it while nourishing listeners who related to the queer pride it radiates. Montero, Lil Nas’s debut album, is, by turns, deeply personal and carefree and funny. It swings wildly from songs that almost seem sourced by depression journals to chilled-out, carefree radio fare, but there’s a logic to its jarring pivots. In order to acquire the world-beating arrogance of “Industry Baby,” you must pass through the self-doubt of “Sun Goes Down” and the self-actualisation of “Scoop.” The 17-track album features guest appearances from Jack Harlow on “Industry Baby”. Doja Cat on “Scoop,” Elton John on “One Of Me,” Megan Thee Stallion on “Dolla Sign Slime” and Miley Cyrus on “Am I Dreaming,” while the likes of Take a Daytrip, Kanye West, Roy Lenzo and Omer Fedi contributed to the production side. Speaking to Zane Lowe on Apple Music, the “Old Town Road” artist shared, “I feel like I’m still on a constant journey of [evolution]. And I really going to need people to bear with me. Because even a lot of things I like to say and feel now, I may not feel the same way in two years. Yeah. I still don’t want that.” He continued, “And that’s another reason I want people to look at me more of as someone who’s saying, do what you want to do, be yourself, but try to respect other people. But don’t look at me as this perfect hero who’s not going to make mistakes and should be the voice for everybody or something like. You’re the voice for you.” Stream Lil Nas X’s MONTERO on Spotify and Apple Music Mag 55
OUT TAKES “When I was in the military, they gave me a medal for killing two men and a discharge for loving one.” Leonard Matlovich The beauty of standing up for your rights is others see you standing and stand up as well.” Advice columnist Cassandra Duffy
“Somebody, your father or mine, should have told us that not many people have ever died of love. But multitudes have perished, and are perishing every hour–and in the oddest places!–for the lack of it.” Author James Baldwin When all [people] are treated as equal, no matter who they are or whom they love, we are all more free.” Barack Obama Mag 56
