DECEMBER 2024 by OutSmart Magazine

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Local artist Tyler Ray Lewis stars in Theatre Under The Stars’ holiday show 36 TOP TEN WINNERS AND LOSERS OF 2024

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Drag star Tammie Brown’s creations are on display at the Galveston Arts Center

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Interior designer Raymond Valdez works his magic in the theater’s grand lobby 46

K’hem Trailz is forging her own path in Houston’s drag scene 44 RAG QUEENZ DOLLS COME TO GALVESTON

JOHNNY SALVESEN STARS IN ‘THE LITTLE PRINCE’ Opera in the Heights presents a new production of the beloved children’s tale.

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Year-end financial planning tips to get your finances on a solid footing for 2025

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Several local LGBTQ nonprofit groups need your support this month and throughout the year ( pg. 28 )

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EDITOR’S

As 2024 draws to a close, we reflect on the challenges and victories we’ve experienced during the past year. OutSmart magazine remains committed to telling the stories that matter most to our community, from advocacy and justice to the arts and our vibrant social scene.

Inside this November issue, you’ll find several stories that showcase Houston’s resilient LGBTQ community. Writer David Clarke explores how the ManKind Project’s New Warrior Training invites queer men to deepen their understanding of identity, purpose, and connection. Writer Ian L. Haddock highlights the advocacy work of Ritchie T. Martin Jr., a new addition to the Allies in Hope organization. Martin shares some of the insights he gained from working with marginalized communities in Milwaukee.

This month’s Community section features writer Terrance Turner’s look at some of our local LGBTQ nonprofit charities, which should help get you in the holiday spirit by supporting their vital work in the community. It’s time to show up for a few of your favorite organizations, both this month and throughout the year! In other news, writer Sam Byrd showcases the ongoing work of Out For Education, another one of our great fundraising charities that empowers our future LGBTQ leaders by offering them college scholarships.

The Montrose Center is observing the annual International Transgender Day of Remembrance on November 20 by hosting HOPERA’s production of As One, composer Laura Kaminsky’s poignant opera that explores a trans artist’s journey of self-discovery. Arts writer Rich Arenschieldt fills us in on the opera’s 10-year evolution following its 2014 New York premiere.

This October issue features the winners and finalists in our 27th annual Gayest & Greatest Readers’ Choice Awards. After tallying thousands of votes cast by our loyal readers, we are proud to profile 12 of these winning individuals and businesses from the LGBTQ community, starting on page 33. This year’s lineup includes not only a few of Houston’s well-known leaders in politics and business, but also an impressive sampling of young artists and activists who are making a difference. Thanks to OutSmart writers David Clarke and Connor Behrens for highlighting these Gayest & Greatest winners. We hope to see you at this year’s Gayest & Greatest Awards party at South Beach on October 23, from 6:30 to 8:30 p.m. You’ll be able to enjoy drink specials and entertainment with emcee Derrick Shore as you mingle with many of this year’s winners and finalists. Thanks to our event sponsors Bayou City Smiles, Legacy Community Health, Premier Wireless, Silver Eagle Houston, Senior Medicare Patrol, and South Beach Houston for making this year’s celebration a success.

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curator of the Gulf Coast Archive and Museum of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender History (GCAM). That local institution is in the midst of reorganizing and expanding their mission to preserve the archives and memorabilia of Houston’s leather community.

Personality and Best Local LGBTQ Social Media Presence, shares his journey to success on Mix 96.5. Donald Simon III, who won Best Men’s Clothing Store, describes how he built King Underwear into a successful brand that celebrates its diverse clientele.

On the lighter side, Ryan M. Leach’s annual Top 10 list offers a witty take on a few of 2024’s winners and losers. In the midst of so much political turmoil, it’s encouraging to celebrate winners such as Delaware’s incoming Congresswoman Sarah McBride. As the nation’s first transgender lawmaker to serve in Congress, McBride was greeted with a barrage of Republican hostility, and she has been handling the turmoil with grace and dignity.

In our Arts & Entertainment coverage, writer Michael Robinson interviews “The Pope of Trash,” John Waters—the iconic filmmaker who comes to town with a livecommentary screening of his movie Hairspray on November 14.

Our October entertainment feature spotlights Cyndi Lauper ahead of her farewell tour that includes a stop in Houston next month. Writer Gregg Shapiro spoke with Lauper about her fond memories from four decades of recording and touring. She also revealed her passion for political activism that has inspired many of her LGBTQ fans to become informed voters.

“I call Hairspray a ‘Trojan horse of joy.’ People come for the laughs and the music, and leave with a little subversive message on the side,” Waters once said. This legendary director and infamous provocateur also graces our November cover.

eycomb paper ornaments and an elegant red bow tree-topper add a festive touch that theater-goers attending the Alley’s holiday production of A Christmas Carol will appreciate.

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in 17th-century England. Clarke also previews Filipino artist Royal Sumikat’s stunning mural The Queens of the Tarot, which is part of an interactive new art installation at Meow Wolf in the Fifth Ward. And finally, writer Olivia Flores Alvarez chats with Houston Center for Photography director Anne Leighton Massoni about her provocative new exhibition featuring images of hidden same-sex desire in repressive cultures.

We hope to see you at our annual OutSmart Holiday Party on Friday, December 20 from 6 to 9 p.m. at Rich’s! Please join us for a festive evening of music, laughter, and toasting the year ahead with our family of readers and advertisers. You can RSVP and find updates on Facebook at tinyurl.com/3ktc62ye.

Then writer Brandon Wolf offers a compelling update on the ongoing immigration crisis and LGBTQ marriage issues for non-citizens. The incoming Trump administration’s policies will most likely threaten vulnerable immigrant families and our entire economy, which is heavily dependent on a hard-working immi-

Our December arts and culture coverage celebrates creativity in all its forms—everything from Johnny Salvesen’s starring role in Opera in the Heights’ The Little Prince and 4th Wall Theatre Company’s irreverently funny holiday production to drag artist Tammie Brown’s charming rag-doll exhibit at the Galveston Arts Center. And for you bookworms looking for something new to read, our year-end roundup of impactful LGBTQ titles will keep you satisfied throughout the new year.

Writers Connor Behrens and David Clarke highlight two more winners from our 2024 Gayest & Greatest Readers’ Choice Awards. Jay Michaels, who won Favorite Male Radio

October is also LGBTQ History Month, so we asked veteran writer and historian Brandon Wolf to catch up with Judy Reeves, longtime

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Writer Zachary McKenzie takes us behind the scenes at Stages, where Rose Morrigan stars in a clever, gender-bending comedy sure to please fans of Sherlock Holmes.

I would like to thank the Montrose Center for honoring me this month with their 2024 LGBTQIA+ Community Vision Award. For 31 years now, my vision for empowering Houston’s LGBTQ community through a monthly magazine has guided OutSmart ’s entire editorial staff. As we now face a social-media environment that threatens the very existence of local journalism, we are asking for your support to help us thrive in the digital age.

Thank you for your continued support of OutSmart ’s local LGBTQ journalism. Together, we’ll head into 2025 by embracing its opportunities and challenges with hope and resilience.

Don’t miss the glitz and glam of our annual awards party at South Beach, where you can mingle with winners and finalists while enjoying performances and drink specials.

Wishing you a joyous holiday season and a bright new year.

As the holiday season approaches, we encourage you to consider supporting the OutSmart Foundation for LGBTQ News and Media. Your tax-deductible year-end gift will strengthen OutSmart’s independent local journalism which is vital to Houston’s thriving LGBTQ community. We need your support!

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David Clarke also spoke with producer Michelle Britton ahead of her Texas premiere of PlayhouseCreatures, which pays tribute to the first women who were allowed onstage

And finally, we salute our cover star Raymond Valdez, a local interior designer who has been busy decorating one of the holiday trees in the Alley Theatre’s lobby. His delicate hon-

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Out at the Ballet for The Nutcracker Houston Ballet and OutSmart magazine host a special reception for LGBTQ ballet lovers and friends. Get 25% off select seats, a complimentary drink voucher, and access to the reception area before the show and during intermission. tinyurl.com/yeywzbw4

ActOUT for A Christmas Carol and TheNightShiftBeforeChristmas

Ticket holders for either Alley Theatre production can enjoy this pre-performance mixer with music, socializing, light bites, and drinks. tinyurl.com/mv2ht7z2

Out@TUTS for Disney’sFrozen Theatre Under the Stars presents its Out@TUTS reception for LGBTQ theatergoers and friends featuring light bites, drink specials, and live music. tinyurl.com/4z7d9btp FOR A

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Opera in the Heights

The Little Prince

This captivating tale of a young Prince traveling to different planets explores the themes of friendship, love, and loss.

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Paul Hope is the master of ceremonies for a wonderful evening of holiday songs with classic Yuletide themes. tinyurl.com/mre95umd

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December 13

Mahogany Project

Hot Chocolate and Karaoke Join the Mahogany Project in celebrating the holiday season. Expect a laid-back evening filled with karaoke, fun holiday vibes, and a chance to reflect on all the memories from this past year. tinyurl.com/favs8yyp

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December 7

2024 Haus of Gingerbread Haus of Gingerbread, benefitting the youth of Grace Place, is even bigger and better this year! Watch as teams serve holiday realness and compete to build the most extra gingerbread house. tinyurl.com/yc3j7xwp

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Houston Pride Band presents Kringle Kapers Santa Claus is coming to H-Town, so hop in your sleigh and invite your loved ones as Houston Pride Band celebrates Santa’s merry mischief through the magic of music!

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December 14

Pride Chorus Houston

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Pride Chorus Houston presents their “Make the Yuletide Gay!” holiday concert that promises joy, sparkle, and a whole lot of musical merriment. tinyurl.com/fyabftdh

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Until Jan 26, 2025

Fragments of Memory

Wardell Milan delivers an Artist Talk in conjunction with the Menil Drawing Institute’s display of his work in their Fragments of Memory exhibition. tinyurl.com/4t3ebntx

COMMUNITY

December 11

A Night with The Normal Anomaly

The Normal Anomaly Initiative presents its second annual Holiday Gala to celebrate Black LGBTQ leadership in the southern region of the United States. tinyurl.com/yc39pnz4

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December 20

OutSmart’s 2024 Holiday Party at Rich’s ’Tis the season to make the yuletide fabulously gay! OutSmart ’s 2024 holiday party promises a festive evening of laughter, mingling, and celebrating with our cherished readers and advertisers. Raise a toast to joy and community this holiday season! tinyurl.com/3ktc62ye

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December 14

Houston Bears Holiday Party

Get ready to celebrate the most wonderful time of year with the Houston Bears, friends, and admirers. Enjoy a night filled with laughter, good food, and great company. tinyurl.com/yzda6kjh

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December 21

Houston Gaymers

December Main Meetup

Join the Houston Gaymers and new friends while playing some of your favorite games. Every major gaming system is represented with new titles updated each month. tinyurl.com/4ps8tery

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January 17

Ani DiFranco at House of Blues Bisexual icon and celebrated singer-songwriter Ani DiFranco returns to Houston for the first time in six years as part of her Unprecedented Sh!t tour. Catch her live at the House of Blues, joined by special guest Joy Clark, for an unforgettable night of music inspired by her acclaimed 23rd album. tinyurl.com/ez3mjy8a

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Lauren Sanderson’s Girl From The Internet tour Queer alt-pop singer/songwriter Lauren Sanderson returns to Houston for a concert at White Oak Music Hall. tinyurl.com/3umh94ed

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ActOUT for December

Join Houston’s LGBTQ community for ActOUT’s 16th season with a lively pre-performance mixer featuring music, drinks, and light bites. This event, free with your ticket to December: A Love Years in the Making, begins one hour before select Thursday performances. The world-premiere play tells the touching story of a creative writing professor and her former student, whose friendship blossoms into romance over two decades. tinyurl.com/mv2ht7z2

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February 15

Project Love Gala

Join us for the inaugural Project Love Gala presented by Brazoria County Pride — an unforgettable evening that celebrates and supports local LGBTQ initiatives. Enjoy live entertainment featuring India Ferrah from RuPaul’s Drag Race, special guest Savannah James, and a keynote speaker panel with Timothy Wayne, Tammi Wallace, and Dr. Joy Kennedy-O’Neill. Connect with like-minded individuals, enjoy delicious bites, and make a difference in the community. tinyurl.com/5n6vbx4v

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“Kaleidoscope” and a Mr. Limburger double feature picture show” hosted by Wood Fancher Anthony, Angela Buentello, and Robin Baker was held at Hardy and Nance Studios on November 2, 2024.

Pictured are Linda Bocanegra, Robin Baker, Wood Fancher Anthony, and Angela Buentello

On November 6, 2024, The Montrose Center hosted a Together in Community rally. Pictured are Ian Haddock, Tammi Wallace, Council Member Mario Castillo, Avery Belyeu, Council Member Abbie Kamin, and Brad Pritchett

Lionswoman Production Texas hosted a Pride Night for “Playhouse Creatures” by British playwright April de Angelis at MATCH on November 14, 2024. Pictured are the director Marshall May and a group of attendees.

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On November 2, 2024, Allies in Hope presented the “Hope for Houston Ball” at The Revaire. Pictured are LaRence Snowden, Lynn Selzer, Rashad Burgess, and Jeffrey Campbell.

Avenue 360 Health & Wellness presented “Voices of Hope” at the River Oaks Country Club on November 8, 2024. Pictured are Brigitte Kalai, Dr. Mark Nichols, Dr. Gus Krucke, Sandy Stacy, Ken Bohan, and Alicia Smith

On November 14, 2024, John Waters, the pope of trash, was in Houston for his first-ever live director’s commentary of his original “Hairspray,” followed by a Q&A at the Hobby Center for Performing Arts. Pictured are Taylor Smith, Maureen McNamara, John Waters, and Rhonda Cook.

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The Mahogany Project and Save Our Sisters United hosted the Black Trans Empowerment Week Opening Ceremony with the theme “We Are One” at Hogan Brown Gallery on November 15, 2024. Pictured are Valencia Munro Ross, Verniss McFarland, DJ Lady BG, Rasheeda Johnson, and Glam Star.

On Nov. 21, 2024, Hopera presented “As One” in partnership with The Montrose Center on Transgender Day of Remembrance. Pictured are Emily Treigle, Emily Robinson, Meghan Spear, Eliseo Rene Salazar, Megan Berti, Wes Landry, Jon Janacek, Alyssa Barnes, Brennan Blankenship, Rachel Shepard, William Woodard, Teddy Poll, Brian August, Emily Zelaya, Ashley Duplechien, Matthew Neumann, Hannah Roberts, Ofelia Adame Williams, Sarah Bannon, Jeremy Kreutz, and Dawson White

The Diana Foundation held its 61st annual Country Dinner at Lustre Pearl on November 3, 2024. Pictured are Dale Mitchell, Sharon Lord, Corbin Young, and John Heinzerling.

On November 14, 2024, The Lazarus House held its inaugural “Thanks for Giving” social. Pictured are Stacey Batiste, Michelle Zingaro, Omar Bell, Ralais Harper, Danielle Sampey, Kristel Jefferson, Douglas Springfield

16, 2024, EPAH enjoyed the 2024 Shopping Spree at Eclectic Home. Pictured are Jake Hyatt, William Hyatt, deborah Lawson, Dale Johnson, and Colby Weems

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Misters and Mimosas Drag King brunch hosted by Casper Cane with Hugh Dandy, Barry Mii Dandy, and Juecee was held at Frost Town Brewing on November 17, 2024. Pictured are Juecee, Barry Mii Dandy, Casper Cane, Hugh Dandy, and John Sorensen

Houston Cinema Arts Festival presented the movie Rats at the River Oaks Theatre on November 16, 2024. Pictured are Carl Fry, Rachael Valentine Acosta, Maxwell Nalevansky, and Katie Creeggan-Ríos

On November 17, 2024, Lambda Legal Houston hosted “Unstoppable Future: Lambda Legal in Houston” at Lott Hall, Hermann Park Conservancy. Pictured are Shelly Skeen, Alan York, Frank York, Fermeen Fazal, Neil Giles, Mandy Giles, Karen Loewy, and Hannah Garcia

On November 21, 2024, the Greater Houston LGBTQ+ Chamber held its Breakfast and Holiday Food and Supply Drive, bingo event benefiting Tony’s Place. Pictured are Stephen Miranda, Rep. Jon Rosenthal, Rep. Christina Morales, Senator Molly Cook, and Tammi Wallace

Legacy Community Health’s Mint Julep cast, crew, and volunteers hosted a Bingo and Bad Sweaters event at Ballroom at Tanglewood on November 17, 2024, with proceeds benefiting Legacy’s pediatric toy drive. Pictured are Renita Cooksey, Chree Boydstun, Bella Villarreal, and Timmy Martinez

A community legislative workshop with Senator Molly Cook, the SD-15 team, The Caucus, and other partners was held at Pearl Bar on November 23, 2024. Pictured are Judson Dunn, Maria Gonzalez, Senator Molly Cook, Austin Davis Ruiz, and Meghan Fairbanks

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Year-End Financial Planning

Wrap it up this month and start fresh in 2025.

As the year draws to a close, it’s the perfect time to assess your financial health, reflect on the past year, and set actionable goals for 2025. Thoughtful year-end financial planning not only helps you close the year on a strong note, but also sets the foundation for financial success in the coming year. Here are some key strategies to consider, including reassessing the past year, taxloss harvesting, re-evaluating your asset allocation, and refining savings and expense goals.

Reflect on Your 2024 Finances

The first step in effective financial planning is to review what worked and what didn’t over the past year. Analyze your income, spending, and savings habits. Did you stick to your budget? Were there any unexpected expenses, and how did you handle them?

Take time to evaluate your major financial milestones. Did you meet your savings goals for retirement, a home purchase, or an emergency fund? Identifying gaps between your goals and outcomes can help you adjust your strategies moving forward.

Look at Tax-Loss Harvesting

Tax-loss harvesting is a year-end strategy that allows you to offset capital gains by selling underperforming investments. If you’ve realized gains on certain assets this year, selling investments that have lost value can help reduce your overall tax bill.

Here’s how it works: If your losses exceed your gains, you can use up to $3,000 of those losses to offset other income. Any additional losses can be carried forward to future tax years.

However, be mindful of the wash-

sale rule, which prohibits you from repurchasing a substantially identical security within 30 days of selling it at a loss. Consult a tax advisor to ensure compliance and maximize this strategy’s benefits.

Re-evaluate Your Asset Allocation

December is an excellent time to review your investment portfolio to make sure it aligns with your financial goals, risk tolerance, and time horizon. Over the course of a year, market fluctuations can cause your portfolio to drift from its intended allocation. For example, if stocks have performed well, they may now represent a larger portion of your portfolio than you initially intended, potentially increasing your risk exposure.

Rebalancing involves selling some assets and buying others to bring your portfolio back in line with your target allocation. This assists you in maintaining a diversified portfolio that reflects your financial objectives.

Additionally, consider whether your goals or circumstances have changed. For instance, if you’re nearing retirement, you may want to

shift to more conservative investments to protect your savings from market volatility.

Set Savings Goals for Next Year

Saving should always be a top priority, and the new year is an opportunity to refine your savings goals. Start by evaluating your progress toward long-term goals such as retirement. If you haven’t maxed out contributions to taxadvantaged accounts like 401(k)s or IRAs, aim to do so. For 2025, the 401(k) contribution limit is $23,500, with an additional $7,500 catch-up contribution allowed if you are 50 or older. For those ages 61 to 63, a higher catch-up of $11,250 is available.

Beyond retirement, assess your progress on building an emergency fund. Experts recommend having three to six months’ worth of living expenses saved. If you’ve dipped into your emergency fund this year, prioritize replenishing it.

For shorter-term goals, such as saving for a vacation or a new car, determine realistic monthly savings targets and automate contributions to a dedicated savings account.

Set and Manage Expense Goals

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“YEAR-END FINANCIAL PLANNING ISN’T JUST ABOUT REFLECTING ON THE PAST— IT’S ABOUT SETTING YOURSELF UP FOR SUCCESS IN THE FUTURE.”

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Year-end financial planning isn’t just about reflecting on the past—it’s about setting yourself up for success in the future. By reassessing your financial situation, optimizing your tax strategy, rebalancing your portfolio, and refining your savings and expense goals, you can enter the new year with more confidence and clarity.

Grace S. Yung, CFP ®, is a Certified finanCial P lanner practitioner with experience in helping LGBTQ individuals, domestic partners, and families plan and manage their finances since 1994. She is the managing director at Midtown Financial Group, LLC, in Houston.Yung can be reached at grace.yung@lpl.com. Visit letsmake aplan.org or midtownfg. com/lgbtqplus.10.htm. The opinions voiced in this article are for general information only and are not intended to provide specific advice or recommendations for any individual.

An investment in knowledge pays the best dividends. No group understands that better than Out For Education (OFE), one of the most successful LGBTQ scholarship-granting foundations that empowers Houston-area LGBTQ students throughout their educational journey. The group is currently celebrating its 25th anniversary, and fittingly it has undergone a growth spurt that should allow it to make an even bigger impact in the community.

This year, the organization elected an entirely new board, with 13 members in total. This has allowed it to expand its capabilities and areas of influence.

“It is a shift in paradigm, because Out For Education is a business, in essence,” says Roy Rivera, board member and treasurer. “It is a nonprofit, but there are so many components to it that everybody has to bring a different superpower. We have people who specialize in technology, we have people who specialize in marketing, and so on.”

As well as multiple skill sets, the new OFE

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board is also very diverse. “It’s a good mix,” mentions Rivera. “It is made up of educators, professionals, small-business owners, and the like. That’s what I think has brought us more success.”

Not only is OFE governed by the largest board ever for the organization, but this year’s scholarship awards are bigger than ever. OFE granted $161,000 to 42 local students, with the largest being a $20,000 4-year award. These students will be attending 16 Texas schools

and four Ivy League colleges, with recipients ranging from undergraduates through doctoral candidates.

OFE has come a long way since its inception in 1998, when PFLAG-Houston and Hatch Youth united with a shared mission: to uplift LGBTQ youth in Houston. This powerful alliance led to the creation of the PFLAG/Hatch Youth Scholarship Foundation in 1999, marking the start of an incredible journey.

In 2013, it rebranded as Out for Education, a name that reflects “an unwavering dedication to education and the LGBTQ+ community,” says Rivera.

As the organization has grown, so has its pool of resources. While OFE has historically relied mostly on private individuals, the organization has been eyeing larger donor bases.

“We’re looking at corporation money, as opposed to private donor money, and that has been very successful in the months that we’ve been doing it,” he says. “Our hopes are to hit over $200,000 this year, and I think we’re on track to do that.”

It’s a win-win for the companies that support OFE and the scholarship recipients with their charitable dollars.

“What we’re hearing from these corporations is they’re trying to support these kids’ educations because they want them to get plugged back into their corporations,” Rivera says. “They are looking for future LGBTQ+ employees within their sectors. They want internships and participation that is just beyond giving a scholarship, so that has been new to us. But that is the economic impact that we are planting a seed for.

“WE’RE LOOKING AT CORPORATE FUNDING RATHER THAN PRIVATE DONATIONS, AND THAT’S BEEN VERY SUCCESSFUL. OUR GOAL IS TO EXCEED $200,000 THIS YEAR, AND I BELIEVE WE’RE ON TRACK TO ACHIEVE THAT.”

— Roy Rivera, OFE board member

That is a whole new territory for us, and I think that’s a big deal.”

To select their student recipients, OFE goes through a rigorous application process involving multiple criteria for consideration.

“It’s not just one thing that defines whether or not somebody gets a scholarship. The scoring matrix takes into consideration the application, GPA, financial need, and an interview,” he explains. “All of these items are a percentage of their overall score, and then we place them in rank.”

To keep the evaluations fair, the board

members do not participate in the interview process.

“We are completely objective. We don’t want to be biased. That is the reason we call for people from the community to conduct these interviews so that we have no hand in how we score students. A lot of our board members are educators, so they do know some of these students. This is a way to keep us impartial.”

For qualified candidates, the 2024–25 scholarship application window is open through February 28, 2025. To be eligible for a scholarship, the candidate must identify as a member of the LGBTQ community or have parents who are members of the community; attend or have previously attended a Greater Houston-area high school, college, or trade school; and have a GPA of at least 2.75 out of 4.0 from the current or last school attended.

To qualify for the initial selection process, the candidate must submit a completed application, a current official transcript emailed directly to OFE or sent in a sealed envelope, an essay, and one letter of reference emailed directly to OFE.

Visit outforeducation.org for more details about the application process and specific requirements.

Holiday Heartfelt

Local nonprofits rely on support to make a difference this month and throughout the year.

By TERRANCE TURNER

With the holiday season in full swing, there’s a plethora of ways to support local LGBTQ nonprofits. If you’re in the giving mood and looking for ways to support worthy causes this season, we’ve got you covered. Here’s a list of organizations to start with:

The Montrose Center montrosecenter.org

The Montrose Center seeks to help LGBTQ+ individuals live healthier, more fulfilling lives. It offers a range of affirming services ranging from counseling and therapy to wellness programs and peer support groups. It also features HATCH, a social group dedicated to empowering LGBTQ youth between the ages of 17 and 24, providing safe, affirming spaces where they can socialize and receive mentorship and guidance. The Center also supports senior citizens through the Law Harrington Senior Living Center and the Seniors Preparing for Rainbow Years (SPRY) program.

Montrose Grace Place montrosegraceplace.org/

Montrose Grace Place has a mission: to provide a safe, welcoming environment for vulnerable youth – of all sexual orientations and gender identities – facing homelessness. It provides nourishment, hope, and healthy relationships for these youth. Grace Place accomplishes these goals by offering familystyle dinners, case management, assistance with identification documents, transportation access and more. (Youth who visit Grace Place can also access clothing and hygiene products from Tracy’s Closet.) Its Haus of Gingerbread fundraiser (a gingerbread house decorating competition!) is Saturday, December 7, 5 - 9 PM at Frost Town Brewing, (100 N Jackson St).

PWA Holiday Charities pwaholidaycharities.org/home

PWA Holiday Charities is a caring community organization rooted in and dedicated to the Houston and surrounding area. Founded in 1997, PWA Holiday Charities is a 501(c)(3) non-profit tax-exempt organization consisting of a small group of dedicated volunteers who strongly believe in the need for compassion for everyone living with HIV/AIDS. Its Mission

Statement is to raise funds (through donations and charitable events) for the betterment of those affected by the disease. In that vein, its 36th annual Christmas show “ Toyland Town” will be Dec. 8, at Neon Boots (11410 Hempstead Highway); the social begins at 5 pm, with showtime starting at 6:30 pm.

The Normal Anomaly, Inc normalanomaly.org

The Normal Anomaly is a regional organization serving thousands of Black queer people across the U.S. It strives to center them, overcoming barriers, ending stigma & problematic narratives, and actualizing a new normal for the community. It does this through advocacy, education, events, and more – even offering transportation to job interviews and doctor’s appointments, along with free HIV testing. (Also featured: the Transgender Allyship Collective, a flagship program that educates elected officials, business owners and community members on allyship for trans people). On Dec. 11, the Normal Anomaly holds its annual Holiday Gala to celebrate Black queer leadership in the U.S. The gala starts at 7 pm at Bell Tower (901 W 34th St).

Open Gate Homeless Ministries beringopengate.org

Open Gate Homeless Ministries works to provide a safe space for Houston’s homeless young adults. The organization accomplishes this by providing weekly family-style dinners, hygiene packs, life skills, empowerment services, and

more. A hallmark of Open Gate (1440 Harold St; all programs take place inside Bering Memorial UMC) is their backpack program. Open Gate Homeless Ministries provides a new, high-quality backpack filled with essentials like socks, blankets, underwear, and items that help ensure participants can survive.

StandUp for Kids–Houston standupforkids.org/how-to-help

StandUp for Kids–Houston runs different programs to support youth who are experiencing homelessness. The organization conducts street outreach in Montrose by reaching out to homeless youth and giving them non-perishable food, clothing, and hygiene products. Their drop-in program offers a safe place to socialize, enjoy a hot meal, and to pick up basic necessities such as shoes, clothing, food, and hygiene supplies. The charity has been operating since 2005; it’s part of the recent Holiday Support Drive, and its Book Club is a free, drop-in program for all LGBTQ+ youth aged 14 through 25, hosted every fourth Wednesday of the month.

Tony’s Place tonysplace.org

Tony’s Place is a resource center and community space focusing on LGBTQ youth who are in need of help with safe housing, queer health services, educa-

tional support, and more. They offer a safe space that serves as an environment for self expression and respite for youth experiencing homelessness. Their values also include empowerment, dignity, support, and social justice. Tony’s Place provides basic needs, case management, support services, community engagement, and advocacy.

Allies in Hope aihhouston.org

Previously AIDS Foundation Houston, Allies in Hope has been a community leader for over 40 years, with the mission to end the HIV epidemic in the Greater Houston area. The organization encourages everyone to get tested and know their status. Allies in Hope offers free HIV and STI testing that is fast, simple, and completely confidential. To better serve the community, other programs are also available, including community housing, case management, a food pantry, and an onsite clinic.

Out of the Closet Thrift Store (OTC) outofthecloset.org

Out of the Closet Thrift was founded in 1990 to help raise funds and awareness for the AIDS Healthcare Foundation. Sales of clothes go almost entirely to the cause. To this day, when you shop or donate at Out of the Closet, 96 cents of every dollar made goes to AIDS Healthcare Foundation’s HIV prevention and treatment services. The store also offers free HIV testing at all of its locations.

OutSmart Foundation for LGBTQ News and Media outsmartmagazine.com/outsmartfoundation/

The OutSmart Foundation, a 501(c)(3) public charity, supports the newsroom and media platforms of OutSmart magazine. It helps ensure that the magazine’s print and digital content remains strong and continues to share the stories and experiences of the LGBTQ community. By funding meaningful journalism, the nonprofit Foundation preserves the magazine’s legacy of informing, celebrating, and connecting its readers. Every donation directly supports these efforts, keeping OutSmart ’s voice a vital resource for the community.

Terrance Turner is a native Houstonian and freelance journalist. He is an avid football and rugby fan. Hobbies include reading, writing, and managing endless existential dread.

Trump Threatens LGBTQ Immigrants

Advocates warn of dire impacts on families and the economy.

By BRANDON WOLF

Donald Trump’s victory spells certain setbacks for LGBTQ rights, and it’s a double whammy for LGBTQ immigrants.

“Make no mistake,” advises Juan Proaño, CEO of the League of United Latin American Citizens (LULAC), the oldest Hispanic civil-rights organization in the United States. “Mass deportations will harm the millions targeted by a Donald Trump, the families and communities they are part of, and every person in our country. They will rip parents from their children, destroy businesses and livelihoods, and devastate the fabric of our nation and our economy.”

Proaño reveals that his organization is in the process of securing funding and legal staff to fight what they anticipate will be “vicious, malevolent, cruel, and ruthless” immigration policies.

Colorado governor Jared Polis, a gay married man with children, has become a Trump target because of Polis’ determination to enforce Colorado laws that forbid state and local law enforcement from collaborating with ICE agents who are in Colorado to investigate and apprehend illegal immigrants. While Polis has stated that he supports efforts to address the problems of an overburdened immigration system, he warns that the current work visa system falls drastically short of meeting the demand for hospitality and agricultural workers. That system is partly responsible for the large number of people who cross our southern border to fill jobs that are waiting for them. Without these essential workers, says Polis, Colorado’s economic health is in danger.

Houston immigration attorney Raed Gonzalez Olivieri explains that word spreads quickly among immigrant workers in the US and their relatives south of the border. In Mexico, he says, they had been making $3 a week; now they are working in the US with a weekly paycheck of $500. That leaves little motivation for undergoing the long process—sometimes as long as two years—to negotiate the visa proce -

dure, with no guarantee of approval.

John Nechman, who also practices immigration law in Houston, agrees that illegal immigration is primarily a function of labor supply and demand. “There are no visas available for people to do this legally,” he asserts.

“There are jobs in the US that people in this country don’t want to do. So they come up and take them because we need these jobs filled. But now the new administration will blame them for every ill of society and try to deport them and make them evil.

“I’m sure if people had a legal way to go to their consulates in El Salvador, Honduras, or Mexico and apply for these jobs, they would do it in a heartbeat. But we have a broken immigration system. I don’t know any immigration attorney who says that we shouldn’t have control over who comes into the country. But

we need to be able to recognize what our labor needs are and have a way to fulfill those needs in a legal way. But it doesn’t happen, because the two political parties can’t agree on what to do.”

Nechman thinks back to the amnesty that President Reagan initiated in the early 1980s. “He talked about the beauty of immigration to this country and the beauty of those coming up to do work here and the fact that we need to have laws that are fair. President George W. Bush was very much that way, too.

“We’re getting nonstop calls from clients,” Nechman adds. “Even clients who I’d say are relatively safe are worried about their circumstances. Every immigrant potentially has reasons to be concerned, but if you have any kind of a

legal issue with regard to your immigration status, this is the time to talk to an attorney. There is only a short time left before Trump takes office. We still have an immigration agency that’s run under the Biden administration—one that runs with more of a slant toward trying to do the right thing. Once Trump takes office, we’re going to see every single executive order regarding immigration that Biden put into place reversed.

“One of the first things that I want to

know from a prospective client,” says Nechman, “is if they came into the country legally or if they came in without permission. If they came in legally, they have options open to them. If they didn’t come in legally, so many doors are closed, but they may still have options. It’s just that we’ve got to determine if they have any kind of a route. The basic rule is that if you didn’t come in legally, then you can’t get a change in your status in the US, because you never had a status to begin with. And that is probably 75% of the people who are not

legally here now.”

It appears that the only choice is to leave the US and apply for a visa, which would trigger a ban of up to ten years before becoming eligible to apply. That is what makes “doing it right” not at all appealing. Even leaving the US as an illegal and then applying for a visa is not likely to succeed. There are lots of ways to prove a person has been living in the US. “Anybody who’s here who is not legally present in the US,” emphasizes Nechman, “needs to be really watching their back.

“If we went to any restaurant right now,” says Nechman, “the ones bussing the tables and the ones cleaning the dishes in the kitchen and some who are cooking are almost always Guatemalan, Honduran, or El Salvadoran, and even if they have papers, they’re fake.”

As for the coming immigration policies enacted by Trump, Nechman predicts they will have an adverse effect on the Houston economy, just as Colorado’s Governor Polis has asserted will happen in his state. “Mass deportation,” he declares, “will decimate the restaurant, hospitality, and construction industries.”

The Green Card Gamble

Love confronts the law on the complex road to US citizenship.

By BRANDON WOLF

Legal entry into the US always means acquiring a Green Card. One of the least painful methods for many is marriage, which wasn’t even an option for LGBTQ couples until 2004 when Massachusetts began offering marriage licenses. In 2015, a Supreme Court decision made marriage equality the law in all 50 states.

The time-honored “apply and wait” system guarantees the longest wait from application to acceptance, and requires proof of income, proof of family status (single or married with children), and other markers of reliability that show you will not become a welfare case the moment you step onto American soil. The most contentious method to get a Green Card in our current system is to seek asylum from a lifethreatening situation. There are other ways that immigrants are accepted, such as when

Ana Maria Schwartz John Nechman Raed Gonzalez Olivieri

the US happily welcomed Jewish scientists fleeing Nazi Germany. Special skills and international fame can easily bend the rules.

In the case of marriage between an American citizen and an immigrant, the American spouse petitions the United States Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) for their spouse. In addition to the written application, the couple are subject to a rigorous personal interview to determine if their relationship is not simply a subterfuge to help the prospective immigrant enter the country. Immigration lawyers carefully prepare these clients for their interview, and YouTube is replete with how-to interview videos.

“MARRIAGE OFFERS AN OPTION TO GAIN LEGAL STATUS THROUGH A U.S. CITIZEN, BUT WE DON’T KNOW IF THAT WILL ALWAYS BE AN OPTION.”

—John Nechman, Houston immigration attorney

Marriage requirements differ from state to state, but there is no federal law that bans undocumented immigrants from marrying a US citizen. The couple are subject to all the same documentary evidence as any other couple marrying in that state. Proof of immigrant status is not a requirement. But a marriage license does not mean a Green Card will be granted. The prospects are complicated, and it would be wise to seek the advice of an experienced immigration attorney.

Houston immigration attorney John Nechman advises, “If an undocumented immigrant has been dating a US citizen and it’s a serious relationship, now is the time to start thinking about whether that’s the person you want to be married to. You have an option to get your legal status through that individual, but we don’t know if that will be always be an option. Right now, the Biden administration has been very pro-immigration. They have been approving marriage-based cases for Green Cards in the fastest time period I’ve ever seen as an attorney in my 30 years of practice.”

Primarily, for immigrants claiming asylum, the case just needs to make sense. Suppose an LGBTQ student from Uganda is in

the US on a student visa. During the time they have been in the US, the government and laws in Uganda have changed. That country is now known for its ruthless “Kill the Gays” laws. Clearly, this person’s life would be endangered by returning home.

These days, the political upheaval south of the border—especially the problems with gangs that force young men into membership—means that asylum seekers are arriving in large numbers. Nechman has seen cases filed with the Asylum Office take years before an interview is granted because the office is so backlogged.

When a person is given a “credible fear” interview, where they explain why they fear being sent back to their country, they are given a chance to present their case to a jury. That interview is usually about 25 transcribed pages. A bond is set, and if the bond can’t be paid, the immigrant is sent to a detention center.

“When I visit clients,” Nechman says, “the centers seem just like jails. The bonds are seldom reasonable. One judge might set a $25,000 bond and another judge might give a $5,000 bond. Some people have no ability to pay.

“Unfortunately,” Nechman continues, “many people coming across the southern border from Honduras or El Salvador or Guatemala have a lot of reasons to say ‘I’m scared.’ But immigrants have to prove that the government of their country is actively searching or looking for them, and would cause them harm if they returned. The Trump administration made it so those cases were just going to be automatic denials, as a way to give less incentive to people to come up to the US. And so when Trump comes back into office in January, we expect they’re going to make getting asylum grants much harder.”

Undocumented immigrants can rely on some US constitutional rights such as due process (a fair hearing), equal protection, free speech, freedom from unreasonable search and seizure, and the right to counsel (although not a government-appointed attorney).

People seeking to enter the country illegally don’t all arrive on foot at the border. “Someone flying into Houston on an international flight and is held by immigration for questions before they’re allowed into the US are not considered in the US yet,” Nechman explains. “They can be detained and they can be placed on a flight and sent back to their home country. Generally, they are not allowed the right to counsel at that point.”

Immigration Glossary

Anchor Baby

A child born in the United States with immigrant parents. Though the child is a US citizen by being born in the US, the parents must meet the same qualifications as any immigrant. Though deported parents may leave their citizen child in the US with friends or relatives, they most frequently choose to take the child with them. If they simply abandon their child, the child is put up for adoption.

Asylum

In the US, asylum is based on the United Nations Convention Against Torture and Other Cruel, Inhuman or Degrading Treatment or Punishment, as well as the United States Refugee Act of 1980. To apply, an immigrant must prove that they have a well-founded fear of persecution based on race, religion, nationality, membership in a particular social group, or political opinion. An immigrant must apply for asylum within one year of entering the US, with or without documentation.

Citizenship

Citizenship is open to Green Card holders, people born in American Samoa or Swains Island, children born abroad to US citizen parents, refugees and asylees, and some long-term residents in the US who have close ties to the country. The naturalization process involves completing an application, attending an interview, and passing tests on English language proficiency and US civics. The applicant must also have lived in the US for at least five years.

Credible Fear Interview

Not everyone agrees that our border laws should be rigidly enforced. A famous actor who has routinely hired illegal immigrants on his Texas ranch—and pays them a living wage— has famously said, “Borders are arbitrary boundaries set by wars.” ➝ ➝

Asylum officers conduct interviews when immigrants are subject to expedited removal and they tell Customs and Border Protection (CBP) or ICE that they intend to apply for asylum; they fear persecution or torture; or they fear returning to your country. If they say they intend to apply for asylum, fear persecution or torture, or fear return, the Department of Homeland Security (DHS) will provide them with information about the “credible fear” process. DHS may detain them during this credible fear process.

Immigration Glossary

Dreamers

Dreamers are non-citizens who were brought into the US as children, at an age when they did not have the ability or right to make their own decisions. They are currently protected if they applied for Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals (DACA). This legislation has been frequently challenged, and its future remains uncertain. In some cases, these immigrants may be eligible for Green Cards through the normal process of obtaining Green Cards.

Green Card

Officially known as a Permanent Resident Card, the Green Card is a document issued by the United States Citizenship and Immigration Services. It serves as proof that a person has been

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granted permanent resident status in the US. It allows a person to live and work permanently in the US, as well as to travel outside the country and re-enter as a resident. In order to keep the Green Card active, the holder has restrictions about how long they may remain outside the US each time they exit. The Green Card can be attained through family sponsorship, employment sponsorship, and refugee or asylum status. Holding a Green Card is not the same as citizenship, so holders can apply for citizenship after living in the US for five years and passing a citizenship test.

Passport

A document obtained from the country that a person lives in, generally provided by the passport agency of that country’s state department. One must provide proof of citizenship, a form of identification, a recent color photo, a completed application form, and payment of fees. A passport allows for international travel and includes the holder’s personal information, photograph, and other identifying information. Passports can usually be obtained within a matter of weeks.

Houston immigration attorney John Nechman is getting calls from people who voted for Trump, but they know a “good” immigrant and want to pay attorney fees to keep them here. “They think I can wave a magic wand and make people legal. But any roadblocks that people can put in the way of the Trump administration might provide some protection against removal.”

Immigrants who have managed to

“IMMIGRANTS HAVE TO PROVE THAT THE GOVERNMENT OF THEIR COUNTRY IS ACTIVELY SEARCHING FOR THEM AND WOULD CAUSE HARM IF THEY WERE RETURNED.”

— John Nechman, Houston immigration attorney

evade deportation and continue to live in the US live a life of anxiety and mistreatment. They are not allowed to obtain a Social Security number, driver’s license, or receive government welfare. Americans often hire people who are undocumented because they can do so for much less than going through all the steps of hiring a US citizen. Such cases often involve workers such as the “live-in maid” who has long hours, low pay, and few days off. Other undocumented workers accept

Visa

A document issued by the government of the country that a person wants to visit for a specific purpose, such as tourism, business, study, work, or transit. The visa typically specifies the length of time the person is allowed to stay in the country and any restrictions on their activities while there. Depending on the type of visa sought, an applicant will have to provide specific information, pay fees, or possibly sit for an interview. Visas are obtained through an embassy or consulate. Obtaining a visa does not, however, guarantee entry into another country. When a visa holder arrives at a port of entry such as a harbor, train station, airport, or border crossing, immigration officials make the final decision whether or not the visa holder will be allowed to enter. If a visa holder’s situation changes, they can ask for an extension of time or a change to a different visa status. If a person overstays their visa by 180 days and then leaves the country, they are banned from re-entering for three years. If they overstay by one year and then leave the country, they are banned for ten years.

far worse conditions. Houston immigration attorney Ana Maria Schwartz knows young men who mow lawns and may sleep 20 to a room. Often, she says, they are not even paid minimum wage and are targeted on Friday afternoons when thieves know they will be carrying the cash from their weekly pay. Most often, these immigrants never report being robbed to the police.

Houston immigration attorney Ana Maria Schwartz advises, “Check online reviews, find out their qualifications and how long they have been in practice. See what their specializations are. It’s generally better to not go to a ‘billboard’ or ‘Tik Tok’ attorney.”

Low-income immigrants can find help from the Houston Immigration Legal Service Collaborative, which has an Immigrant Legal Services Hotline at 833-4684664. Their vast website also has information about a variety of immigration services offered by charities. houstonimmigration.org

The City of Houston’s Office of New American and Immigrant Communities has online resources. houstontx.gov/na

The Trans Legal Aid Clinic Texas can help transgender and nonbinary immigrants who wish to change their names and/or gender markers . translegalaidtx.com

Things To Keep in 2025 and Things to Leave in 2024

By RYAN M. LEACH

Welcome to the 10th annual OutSmart magazine

Top Ten. For a decade now, I have reflected on the past year to make my list of things we want to leave behind and things we want to bring forward into the new year. As I look back now at my previous Top Ten lists, I see Kim Davis,

Delaware’s Congresswoman-elect

Sarah McBride

Y’all, history was made in 2024. Good history. Sarah McBride was elected by Delawareans to be the first transgender person to serve in the House or Representatives. Every election gives

the overalls-wearing clerk from Kentucky who refused to issue same-sex marriage licenses. Ah, those were the days. Who would have thought that ten years later, the nation would elect a convicted felon to the presidency who has nominated an allegedly notorious womanizer to run the Pentagon? It’s a mad, mad

world we live in, but as you’ll see in this year’s “Things to Keep” section, there are a few bright spots. So sit back, take a break from screaming into your pillow to dull the pain, and ponder OutSmart’s 2024 list of winners and losers.

Things to KEEP for 2025

us a snapshot of America, and this one proved to us that there was progress for LGBTQ people. In fact, LGBTQ candidates had many, many successes in the 2024 election, but the most notable and historic was hers. In the days after her victory she appeared on The View with a unifying message that everyone could benefit from, about how there is room for healing what has been hurt and room for common ground on both sides. She’s also not a novice to public service. Before her election she was a state senator in Delaware, the national spokesperson for the Human Rights Campaign and also author of her 2018 memoir Tomorrow Will Be Different. Some have worried about her safety in Congress, and those concerns were validated when House Republicans banned her from using the appropriate restroom while at work. But McBride’s presence provides an

opportunity to perhaps build bridges with those representatives who are there to work and not be total and complete assholes to their colleagues. There has to be at least one person like that in DC. No pressure, Congresswoman.

Lone Star’s Michelin Stars

The prestigious culinary Michelin Guide expanded its universe to include Texas. In total, 15 stars were awarded in the state. Austin took the lion’s share with seven total, but Houston took a very respectable five stars, not including one in Spring. This isn’t news to Houstonians who have, for a long time, known that Houston is the best place to eat. The

stars include these restaurants: BCN Taste & Tradition, Le Jardinier, March, Musaafer, and Tatemo. Corkscrew BBQ took the lone star in Spring. However, in an unsurprising turn of events, Dallas received an underwhelming one star in the entire metroplex. There’s always next year, Dallas.

LGBTQ Rights

It wasn’t long ago that marriage equality was not the law of the land. Prior to the 2015 Supreme Court Ruling in Obergefell, same-sex couples could not wed in many states. Similarly, queer sex was outlawed in many places prior to another landmark SCOTUS ruling in 2005, Lawrence v. Texas. These cases are important to remember, not only because they were

milestones in the fight for LGBTQ equality, but because they are also in danger as the current Supreme Court has indicated an appetite for overturning those decisions. Nothing in politics is forever for those communities that are political footballs. We must make sure that we fight to keep our hard-won victories and support the right to bodily autonomy, whether that means access to abortion, gender-affirming care, or life-saving preventive medications like PrEP and Doxy PEP. All of these things are connected, which means we are all connected. And with Trump’s return to the White House, we must be vigilant.

Beyonce'

I know I tend to include Beyoncé a lot on this list, but this year is exceptionally notable with the release of her album Cowboy Carter. This country-inspired album allowed Mrs. Carter to return to her Texas roots and sing music that has always infused her sound. The album has been nominated for the Grammy for Album of the Year, This top honor has proven to be an elusive one for a singer who has received the most Grammys of any artist in history. The competition is stiff with the rise of Chappell Roan and the five-time Album of the Year winner, Taylor Swift, who was also nominated.

Beyoncé recently surprised her Houston fans by announcing that she will be playing the halftime show at the Texans v Ravens game on December 25. A holiday surprise we could all use, indeed.

Community

Cynical politicians seek to divide communities against themselves in order to create chaos. We have to reinvest in each other as an LGBTQ community, but also in the community at-large. Voters sent a clear message in 2024 about what they wanted. We are going to have to accept that decision, but it doesn’t mean that we won’t resist, and we should. We should also try to make connections and common ground where we can with neighbors, friends and family that may have voted in a way that we find different, or even offensive. It’s understandable to be hurt or even take personally someone’s decision about what they prioritize. That cannot be the end of the conversation, however. If generations of LGBTQ people had simply turned away from those who opposed our right to exist, we would not be where we are today—which, by the way, is a better place than where we were just a few years ago. So try. Start small. Find conversations where you can connect, and then try to learn. I promise you this: in most cases, the person you’re talking to will do the same. And if they don’t, then connect elsewhere. I know it’s not a popular concept in today’s cancel culture, but it’s a tried-and-true method. Memes don’t change minds. Relationships can.

Things to LEAVE in 2024

CenterPoint Energy

In a year filled with tone-deaf moments, it was difficult to pick the one that really made everyone groan in disbelief. But CenterPoint Energy’s CEO, Jeff Wells, managed to snatch the crown. After Hurricane Beryl swept through Houston and knocked out power to millions, the response from CenterPoint was unbearably slow as residents sweltered in the

heat. The response was so bad that Wells went on an apology tour that quickly made things worse when he was photographed on July 11 sitting comfortably, and not sweaty, in front of a thermostat set at a frosty 70 degrees. The CenterPoint logo was positioned clearly behind him. Perhaps the communications director was busy that day? The Texas power grid once again became the center of the media

universe, with little action coming from Texas legislators to remedy the situation. It may be time for us to invest in developing our own personal power grids and buy a generator.

Project 2025

President-elect Trump tried to distance himself from Project 2025, a 900+ page document listing how his administration is planning to dramatically change the government over the next four years. And let’s hope he was telling the truth (for once), because it’s bad news for the LGBTQ community, especially transgender people. The plan seeks to dismantle anti-discrimination protections by removing terms such as “sexual orientation” and “gender identity.” It also seeks to limit the 2020 Supreme Court decision in Bostock that extended workplace protections to LGBTQ employees. Blocking access to gender-affirming care through Medicare and Medicaid is there, too. These are just a few of the “highlights” and, if accomplished, would set the stage for rolling back even more protections and rights. We are used to fighting this vitriol in Texas, and we must also get used to fighting it everywhere.

Assassinations and Attempts

Here is the deal: there is no excuse for political violence. Politics (and politicians), although vile at times, are about ideas that we should

debate. Yes, they are ideas with serious consequences, but this cannot be how we move forward. Period. Also, these attempts typically have the counter-effect of serving the side that they were intended to thwart. When (now) President-elect Trump was grazed by a bullet in July, it turned the race on its ear (no pun intended). Then when it was reported that a second attempt was thwarted while he was golfing, it brought the issue back to the forefront of the race at a critical time. Gun violence is not okay, whether it is in our schools, our clubs, our concert venues, our churches, our grocery stores, our Wal-Marts, our political rallies, or our golf courses.

“GUN VIOLENCE IS NOT OKAY, WHETHER IT IS IN OUR SCHOOLS, OUR CLUBS, OUR CONCERT VENUES, OUR CHURCHES, OUR GROCERY STORES, OUR POLITICAL RALLIES, OR OUR GOLF COURSES.”

Trans Panic

For those of us who were around when the Houston Equal Rights Ordinance (HERO) was overturned by voters, we are well aware of how fear-mongering about the transgender community can motivate voters. In fact, fear of LGBTQ people in general still motivates voters. Election years amplify hatred towards the most vulnerable in society, and 2024 was no different. Incessant ads ran warning people that transgender folks, who make up less than one percent of the population, pose an existential threat to everyone, especially young girls and women. This is as untrue

as it is disgusting. It’s no wonder that violence against LGBTQ people is on the rise. Even post election, vitriol aimed at transgender people made its way to the US Capitol, when Rep. Nancy Mace (R- South Carolina) filed a bill banning Sarah McBride, the first transgender congresswoman elected to Congress, from using the appropriate restroom. Speaker Mike Johnson made it official in late November when he implemented the ban unilaterally under his privilege as Speaker. At this point, the Republican party is just resorting to cruelty against their colleagues for a headline. But I can’t say that I am surprised.

“Normal Gays”

While being interviewed by Joe Rogan, Vice President-elect J.D. Vance stated that he would not be surprised if he and Trump got the “normal gay guys” vote. Barf. What this statement made clear is how Republicans are taking a new approach to strategically divide the LGBTQ community by creating a caste system within it. “Normal gay guys” are now those who are “accepted” (sort of) into places where they had previously been shunned, leaving the rest of the community to fend for themselves. And to those who identify as “normal gay guys,” this feels like progress because less than ten years ago, “normal gays guys” were told that they were not worthy of being treated equally. Those of us who are older know that this concept is a mirage— a means to an end. Marginalized communities are the currency of the powerful. They seek to turn us against each other in order to get our votes. Which is why we have to become powerful by running for office and getting elected. And we are.

Ryan Leach is a frequent contributor to OutSmart magazine. Follow him on Medium at medium.com/@ryan_leach.

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The Heart behind the Design

Interior designer Raymond Valdez has designed a festive tree for

the Alley Theatre.

By CONNOR BEHRENS

Raymond Valdez’s journey into interior design and decorating giant Christmas trees wasn’t a traditional one, but that’s what makes his work so unique.

“I worked for Gallery Furniture for 10 years, and I found myself helping stage the showroom with the designers,” Valdez says. “I fell in love with it all—the different ways of constructing furniture, the imported fabrics, the accessories. I knew I wanted to be in design.”

While his early career in furniture laid the groundwork for his love of decorating, it wasn’t until 2020 that Valdez truly went “all in” on a career in interior design. After his contract at the design firm where he worked ended unexpectedly, Valdez found himself deciding to lean into the opportunity—making a full move into interior design and starting his own company.

“After I left the firm, I realized that the work I had done was truly valued,” he says. “I worked there for three years and built up a client base and brought in two hotels through one of those clients. When the clients I worked with found out that I was no longer with the company, I got calls immediately asking where I was going next and that they wanted me to continue decorating their homes. The pandemic was happening, with no promise of job offers. So I started my business not knowing that it would grow rapidly.”

With a base of dedicated clients, Valdez’s company that he had named Cosmic Ray Designs gained attention across the Houston area.

“It’s funny,” he says, “I never planned for it to be this big. But that’s how things happen sometimes—you take a leap of faith, and everything aligns.”

Valdez’s design philosophy is based on thinking outside the box, rejecting passing trends in favor of a more timeless approach. While he respects the role trends play in the world of interior design, he has always been

drawn to things with more history and character.

“I used to try and follow trends in my first year,” he says. “But then I realized I could do that and still think outside the box. I love antiques, unique local art, fashion, and vintage décor. That inspires me. My work process is different for every project, though. Sometimes I need to build on site. I can’t construct everything off site because my vision needs to coexist with the environment it’s in.”

There’s a deep sense of joy in his work, which Valdez says extends beyond the physical space he creates.

“What people may find interesting about my work is that I put love into it,” he says. “I do it to bring smiles and joy to the homeowners and businesses that have given me the opportunity to create something special.”

Beyond his interior design work, Valdez has become known for his seasonal decorating, particularly his work with holiday decor.

In February 2020, Valdez expanded his business to include holiday decor, specializing in creating magical, festive environments for homes and businesses. What began as a small side project quickly transformed into a major feature of his brand.

One of his most notable holiday projects is his involvement with Alley Theatre’s “Deck the Trees,” a public event where designers decorate the large trees in the Alley’s lobby to raise funds for charity. This year, Valdez was asked to design one of the giant trees on the upper level, a project that left him both excited and overwhelmed.

“I originally planned to decorate a smaller tree, but then I was asked if I wanted to decorate one of the main lobby trees,” he says. “It caught me off guard. I decorate large trees all the time, but this one just seemed bigger!”

The challenge, as it often occurs with Valdez’s work, was not just in the execution but in pushing his creativity to the limits. He wanted

the tree to stand out and make a statement. The theme for his project, which he had already named “Paper Dream,” evolved as he crafted the final vision.

“I decided to incorporate large honeycomb trees—I’ve seen them everywhere, and I thought, ‘Why not put a tree in a tree?’” he says. “It turned out beautifully. The tree needed to be bold because it is seen from all angles and enjoyed by everyone who walks by.”

But it isn’t just the scale of the design that will capture people’s attention; it was the smaller, personal touches that Valdez has added. He also crafted a massive velvet bow as a tree topper that was his own creation.

“I made the big bow myself,” he says. “I wanted it to be something special, something classic. I’d seen people making them on social media, so I gave it a try. And I’m so happy with how it turned out.”

For Valdez, the holiday season is a time of immense pride. When asked how it feels to contribute to the joy of others, especially with something as grand as an Alley Theater Christmas tree, he feels incredibly humbled by the significance of his work.

“It feels amazing,” he says. “I can be my own worst critic, and it took me a long time to really own my talents. But being a part of Deck the Trees and seeing people’s reactions, I realize that I’m creating something truly special. I’m honored to do it. I’ve always loved Christmas. My mother would bring out the decorations after Thanksgiving dinner, and we’d watch holiday movies while decorating. It brought so much joy then, and now I can bring that same joy to others.”

Keep up with Raymond Valdez on Instagram @cosmic_ray_designs.

Local interior designer Raymond Valdez with his holiday tree in the Alley Theatre’s lobby.

Cool Kid

Tyler Ray Lewis stars in Theatre Under The Stars’ production of Disney’s Frozen .

By ZACHARY M c KENZIE

Love is an open door at Theatre Under The Stars (TUTS) this holiday season! The beloved regional musical-theater company based in downtown Houston is bringing Disney’s Frozen to the Hobby Center’s main stage. Local artist Tyler Ray Lewis portrays Pabbie, an indigenous mystical being, in the Broadway adaptation of the animated film. Lewis is thrilled to return to the TUTS stage, noting that audiences will undoubtedly feel the holiday spirit—“possibly for the first time in forever.”

Frozen has enraptured audiences of all ages since its 2013 film release, and the stage version brings that trademark Disney magic to life. The story centers on the relationship between princess sisters Anna and Elsa, the latter of whom possesses magical powers to freeze objects and people. Unable to control her powers, Elsa flees the kingdom of Arendelle, leaving behind eternal winter (to her sister’s detriment and near death). The fate of the kingdom she abandoned is literally in Elsa’s hands as she harnesses true love to save the day.

Lewis, whose credits include the 2024 TUTS production of Little Shop of Horrors and The Wizard of Oz at Queensbury Theatre, recalls their dream of being onstage from an early age. “A lot of my training is self taught,” they explain. “I attended Sam Houston State University for a year and a half as a theater education major. I earned my bachelor’s degree in journalism from Texas A&M and my master’s in journalism from the University of Texas.” For those who have seen the artist perform, it’s no surprise that Lewis ultimately pumped the

brakes on their journalism aspirations and returned to their first love. “A lot of what I bring to the stage is just what I’ve naturally always done my whole life.”

As Disney films so often do, Frozen resonates with Lewis on a personal level. “I watched the movie when it came out, of course. I’m very family oriented, so the relationship between the sisters and the family was something that rang true to me in the way that I grew up. I have a fairly large immediate family and we’re very close-knit. We’re always together during every holiday.”

When Lewis heard that TUTS would be bringing the fictional world of Arendelle to life, auditioning was a no-brainer. “I knew Frozen was something that I had to be a part of. I did everything in my power to make sure that I did my research, and I showed up in a way that would catch the casting directors’ attention,” Lewis recalls. “And now we’re here, and I’m playing opposite one of my really good friends, Sarah Sachi, who plays Bulda.”

Lewis and Sachi will portray Pabbie and Bulda, respectively, and Lewis looks forward to bringing the characters (who they describe as “good cop, bad cop”) to life. “In the movie, they are the troll king and queen, but in the stage adaptation, they’re indigenous people— so we’re not playing trolls, thank God,” Lewis says with a laugh.

“TUTS Artistic Director Dan Knechtges and I talked a lot about how Pabbie doesn’t subscribe to gender. I was relieved, because I identify as nonbinary. Pabbie is a Mother Earth type for the indigenous people and the people of Arendelle, and the character that keeps order amongst all,” Lewis explains, “whereas Bulda is more of the playful one.”

Crediting the creative team and the

“stacked” cast of theater performers, Lewis explains that the entire team has been enjoying the lead-up to opening night. “The rehearsal process has been my favorite. Dan is very open and has allowed us to explore our characters. He encourages us to bring a lot of ourselves to the roles and to the show. Dan is a visionary and wants his vision to come to life, but he allowed space for us as artists to create and to flourish. Everybody is bringing so much nuance and fresh perspective to the show.”

For queer audiences pondering how this musical may possibly resonate with them, Lewis explains that the stage adaptation is packed with relatable themes for everyone. “It’s about acceptance and love, ultimately. You have these two sisters who are completely different, but one is fighting for the love and acceptance of everybody, including her sister, and I think as LGBTQIA+ people, that’s all we really ask for—love, acceptance, and respect.”

Lewis invites Houstonians and visitors alike to join them and the rest of the team behind Disney’s Frozen for holiday fun, songs that are irresistible to sing along to, and joy. “TUTS does a really good job of producing family-friendly shows, and it’s just the most welcoming place for all. They really put an emphasis on community. I think spending the holidays with TUTS is ultimately the best thing that anybody could do.”

WHAT: Disney’s Frozen WHEN: December 10–29

WHERE: Theatre Under The Stars (TUTS) INFO: tuts.com/shows/disneys-frozen

“FROZEN IS ABOUT ACCEPTANCE AND LOVE, ULTIMATELY. AS LGBTQIA+ PEOPLE, THAT’S ALL WE REALLY ASK FOR—LOVE, ACCEPTANCE, AND RESPECT.”

—Tyler Ray Lewis

SNAKES, DOLLS, AND DRAG

Tammie Brown ’s Rag Queenz debuts at the Galveston Arts Center.

By CONNOR BEHRENS

Photo by JOSE GUZMAN COLON

Tammie Brown is no stranger to the spotlight.

A drag icon, singer, and performer, Brown is a fixture in the international drag scene, known for her eccentric persona and unique artistic vision. But what many people may not know is that behind the performances and signature RuPaul’s Drag Race moments, Brown is also a gifted visual artist with a deep passion for creation.

“I’ve always felt like an artist,” she says, “but creating these dolls, these faces, and putting them out into the world—it’s another form of expression. It’s a different kind of connection than performing on stage, but just as meaningful.”

Brown’s Rag Queenz exhibit will be showcased at the Galveston Arts Center through February 16, 2025, highlighting her evolving artistry and the powerful intersection of drag and visual art.

The exhibit features Brown’s handmade dolls, known as “Rag Queenz,” that have sparked interest from audiences worldwide. These dolls, crafted from repurposed designer nylons and adorned with intricate embroidery, represent Brown’s personal journey, her childhood influences in Mexico, and her creative evolution as a drag performer.

“Since I was a child in Mexico, I was surrounded by beautiful crafts, textiles, and handmade things,” she says. “That influenced my own art. Everything in Mexico is real and organic. It’s not commercial, it’s not fake. It’s pure.”

Brown recalls learning to embroider at a young age, a skill she continues to use in her Rag Queenz dolls today.

“I remember sitting in the car with my sister, on the west side of Mexico,

doing embroidery,” she says. “Now, I’m creating embroidery faces through Tammie Brown Facial Impressions. It’s funny how things come full circle.”

The Rag Queenz dolls were borne out of Brown’s love for fashion and her drag performances. Inspired by the Southern California drag scene, Brown was drawn to artists like Delta Work, Fadra Fae, and the infamous Tranimal exhibits by Austin Young. She also credits a visit to boutiques in Los Angeles on Melrose Blvd. for sparking the idea. There, she saw independent dolls that sparked her imagination. The connection between her love of drag and the world of handmade dolls seemed like a natural fit.

“I’ve always worn designer nylons, but they’d get runs,” she says. “So I started collecting them, thinking, ‘One day, I’ll make a doll out of these.’ It took about eight years for the idea to solidify, but it finally did. The dolls started off as little queens, but then they evolved into little monsters.”

One of the most striking elements of the Rag Queenz dolls is the use of snakes that wrap around their bodies. Brown says that the snake symbolizes flexibility, fluidity, and transformation—key themes in both her life and her art.

“I grew up in Texas, and we have a lot of snakes here,” she says. “Snakes are so flexible, and they shed their skin. They’re always

changing, and that speaks to me as an artist. As a drag performer, you’re always reinventing yourself. You have to keep evolving and adapting, just like a snake sheds its skin.”

Though her dolls are now collected by art lovers around the world, Brown finds it just as rewarding to see people connect with her work in different ways.

“I’ve had people tattoo my dolls on their arms because they couldn’t afford to buy one,” she says. “They send me pictures on Instagram, and it’s so surreal to see. When I first sold a doll internationally, it went to Australia. Now, they’re sold all around the world. It’s incredible.”

As Brown looks ahead, she’s eager to continue developing her artistic vision.

“One of my goals is to turn my art into more of a boutique line,” she shares. “I have hopes to open a small boutique here in Fulton, Texas, and I’m working on creating garments and other pieces that feature my art. I want to have pop-up stores and continue to incorporate other artists’ interpretations of my work, and just keep growing.”

At the core of it all is Brown’s desire to keep creating and connecting with her audience in new and exciting ways, hoping others in the creative field do the same.

“I want artists, drag performers, and all creatives—especially those in difficult times— to keep going,” she says. “Visibility is key. Keep creating. Keep performing. We’ve always been here, and we’re not going anywhere.”

Brown’s exhibition opened to the public in conjunction with ArtWalk last month, and included an artist talk. It will remain on view through February 16, 2025.

WHAT: Tammie Brown’s “Rag Queenz” WHEN: Through February 16, 2025 WHERE: Galveston Arts Center, 2127 The Strand INFO: galvestonartscenter.org

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A Prince’s Journey

Local talent Johnny Salvesen brings The Little Prince to life at Opera in the Heights.

By SAM BYRD

The world of children’s literature is making the leap from the page to the stage with Opera in the Heights’ new production of Academy Award-winning film composer Rachel Portman and Nicholas Wright’s The Little Prince Based on the iconic novella by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, originally published in 1943, this production runs through December 15 at Lambert Hall.

In The Little Prince, a young boy travels from planet to planet, meeting numerous eccentric characters who teach him life lessons about human nature. When he travels to Earth, he forms a deep bond with a stranded pilot and shares stories of his adventures and his wish to be reunited with his beloved rose.

With a whimsical libretto and an enchanting score, The Little Prince is an engaging and transporting opera experience for audiences of all ages.

Local actor Johnny Salvesen took a break from the rehearsal schedule to discuss the timeless appeal of the story.

“The Little Prince is an incredibly remarkable story,” he says. “The author was not afraid to delve into more profound issues such as loss of love and being left out.”

While the premise sounds somewhat stark, Salvesen promises that the story is ultimately uplifting, and one that is relatable to all ages.

“The author wrote the book in a way that children can understand it,” he said. “It is very brilliantly written in that it is simultaneously entertaining but also not afraid to address

thoughtful issues that will resonate with adults, too.”

Salvesen notes that the story brings attention to the changes that take place as children develop into adults. The audience witnesses the characters learning resilience despite hardships, and the changes over time that are a natural result of maturing into adulthood.

“In the story,” says Salvesen, “the prince is really attached to his rose, but he realizes that people change and move on as they navigate their way through life. As such, the prince also matures very quickly in the opera, and therefore he must move on to different parts of his life. I think adults will really appreciate the journey that the prince goes through, and

“THE LITTLE PRINCE IS AN INCREDIBLY REMARKABLE STORY. THE AUTHOR WAS NOT AFRAID TO DELVE INTO MORE PROFOUND ISSUES SUCH AS LOSS OF LOVE AND BEING LEFT OUT.”

—Johnny Salvesen

also the pilot who wants to care for somebody, but realizes that children sometimes have to discover things on their own.”

To keep the plot lighthearted, the production also introduces a handful of other characters who represent adulthood’s many facets. Salvesen says the supporting characters are relevant to the main characters’ development in addition to providing comic relief. The end result is that people of all ages can find characters in the story that they can relate to.

Salvesen’s appearance in The Little Prince is the culmination of his lifelong passion for music and the arts. To fine-

tune his skills, Salvesen studied at Texas Christian University and the University of Houston prior to becoming a staple of Houston’s theater scene.

Lambert Hall is the place to find him this holiday season, but his talents can be found in several other venues throughout the year. He is a member of the Houston Grand Opera Chorus and will perform the role of Sergeant in the upcoming production of La Bohème. He made his HGO mainstage debut in 2024 as Admiral von Schreiber in The Sound of Music. With the Gilbert and Sullivan Society of Houston, he performed as the Sergeant of Police in Pirates of Penzance in July 2023 and appeared in Ruddigore earlier this year.

To round out his star-studded résumé, Salvesen is the director of music at Messiah Lutheran Church, where he plays piano and organ and also maintains a private piano studio.

WHAT: Opera in the Heights presents Portman and Wright’s production of The Little Prince WHEN: December 6 at 7:30 p.m.; Dec. 8, 14, and 15 at 2 p.m. WHERE: Lambert Hall, 1703 Heights Blvd. INFO: operaintheheights.org

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A Holiday Comedy with Heart

4th Wall Theatre Company ’s

new comedy explores family dysfunction with a twist.

By DAVID CLARKE | Photos by GABRIELLA NISSEN

Houston’s 4th Wall Theatre Company invites audiences to experience a refreshing, offbeat take on the holidays with Christopher Durang’s Vanya, Sonia, Masha, and Spike. Onstage through December 16, the play balances the humor and poignancy of family dynamics in a way that’s relatable, hilarious, and a

little bit unexpected.

And as 4th Wall co-founders Kim TobinLehl and Philip Lehl take a step back from their leadership roles, the production also marks a new chapter with Jennifer Dean as the company’s recently appointed artistic director. This change in artistic leadership from the Lehls to Dean was thoughtfully planned. “We wanted this transition to feel natural, to keep the artistic vision alive for our patrons

and the Houston community,” Tobin-Lehl explains. “The theater has always belonged to the community, and we wanted to ensure that our mission could continue beyond our direct involvement.” The Lehl’s succession strategy aims to safeguard 4th Wall’s unique vision while allowing new creative voices to flourish. Dean, a longtime collaborator and friend of the company, became a natural choice.

“We’ve known Jennifer for years; she shares our aesthetic and our commitment to artistic integrity,” Tobin-Lehl notes.

Dean brings a deep understanding of the 4th Wall community to her new role. Having worked with the company for over a decade, first as a director and then as managing director, she has become a trusted figure in the company’s evolution. “There’s something really special about leading an organization where the artistic vision has been consistent,” Dean shares. “It’s a way of honoring what Kim and Philip have built, and also finding my own voice within that.” As the torch is passed, the Lehls will remain active as artists in residence who continue to shape the company’s artistic ➝

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Kim Tobin-Lehl (Sonia), Philip Lehl (Vanya), and David Gow (Spike) bring humor and heart to chaotic family dynamics in Vanya, Sonia, Masha, and Spike

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landscape while Dean steers it into the future.

4th Wall’s choice of Vanya, Sonia, Masha, and Spike might raise eyebrows among holiday audiences expecting something more traditional. But this unorthodox choice aligns with 4th Wall’s reputation for offering audiences fresh perspectives. “It’s a time of year when everyone’s doing Christmas and holiday shows. We wanted to offer an option that still speaks to the spirit of the season,” Dean says. The show centers on three siblings—Vanya, Sonia, and Masha— who reunite in their childhood home along with Masha’s handsome young boyfriend, Spike. The family gathers reluctantly, bringing their unresolved tensions, clashing personalities, and comedic conflicts to the surface.

For cast member David Gow, the play captures the essence of holiday gatherings. “It’s like Home for the Holidays. You have family members with different perspectives, and they’re thrown together in one house, which is both funny and a little bit chaotic.” Audiences will recognize their own family dynamics in the characters’ hilarious clashes and quirky personalities, which makes the play an oddly perfect fit for the holidays. “It’s about celebrating family in all its messy, beautiful chaos. It’s the kind of holiday show that lets you laugh at yourself and your relatives, while finding something heartfelt beneath it all,” Tobin-Lehl emphasizes.

Vanya, Sonia, Masha, and Spike also offers audiences a thought-provoking alternative to standard holiday fare. Philip Lehl, who stars as Vanya, finds his character’s blend of optimism and disappointment especially relevant. “Vanya is disappointed in life, but he tries to look

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“THERE’S SOMETHING REALLY SPECIAL ABOUT LEADING AN ORGANIZATION WHERE THE ARTISTIC VISION HAS BEEN CONSISTENT.”

—Jennifer Dean

at things as glass-half-full. It’s about trying to make things work with what you’ve got and learning to appreciate family—even when they drive you crazy.” The play’s comedic yet bittersweet moments allow audiences to connect with the characters’ struggles and triumphs, particularly as they navigate the complexities of family

While Vanya, Sonia, Masha, and Spike isn’t an overtly “gay” play, its gay sensibility and Durang’s sharp, witty style will resonate deeply with LGBTQ audiences. For TobinLehl, the play highlights Durang’s voice as a celebrated gay playwright. “We’re thrilled to bring this play to the stage, especially since

it represents a voice that’s important to the LGBTQ+ community.” Durang’s ability to blend comedy with deeper themes, including environmental and existential anxieties, adds layers of meaning that resonate with the challenges and humor of life

Representation remains a priority for 4th Wall, and this production exemplifies the company’s inclusive casting philosophy. Gow, a queer actor who plays Spike, appreciates how the company transcends casting stereotypes. “I love that 4th Wall doesn’t just call queer actors for queer roles,” he shares. “All acting is make-believe, and I think it’s meaningful to see queer actors like me cast in roles that aren’t defined by our sexuality. It’s about telling universal stories authentically and allowing queer and non-queer actors alike to explore these roles.”

In a bittersweet coincidence, Vanya, Sonia, Masha, and Spike includes a humorous homage to Dame Maggie Smith, a beloved icon who recently passed away. Smith is a role model for the play’s character Sonia, and Tobin-Lehl believes this tribute embodies what Smith represents: strength, humor, and unbreakable spirit. “Maggie Smith was the embodiment of freedom and fearlessness,” Tobin-Lehl says. “She was witty, bold, and unapologetically herself—qualities that Sonia admires and tries to embody.” Sonia’s decision to adopt Smith’s persona in the play’s pivotal scene allows her to explore her own bravery and charisma, a reminder of the power that icons like Smith have to inspire us to be our best and truest selves Jennifer Dean adds that Sonia’s transformation into Maggie Smith is both a comedic highlight and a touching reminder of the actress’s legacy. “When Sonia channels Maggie Smith, it’s more than just a funny impression— it’s about stepping outside of herself, breaking free from her anxieties, and trying something new,” Dean explains. The moment brings laughter, but it also underlines the impact that inspirational figures can have on our lives, encouraging audiences to embrace their own potential

The humor and heart of Vanya, Sonia, Masha, and Spike make it a perfect (albeit unusual) holiday show for Houston audiences. “You’ll laugh from start to finish, and you’ll see yourself and your family in these characters,” says Tobin-Lehl. “And by the end, maybe you’ll feel a little more connected, a little more grateful, and ready to embrace the season with a smile.”

WHAT: Vanya, Sonia, Masha, and Spike WHEN: Through December 16

WHERE: Spring Street Studios, Studio 101, 1824 Spring Street

INFO: 4thwalltheatreco.com/ vanya-and-sonia-and-masha-and-spike

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12 Essential LGBTQ Reads of 2024

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Queer literature thrives in 2024, offering evocative memoirs, magical realism, and heartfelt romances. These top queer books explore love, identity, and resilience, capturing critical acclaim and reader praise. From introspective reflections to uplifting tales of adversity, these ten titles are must-reads for anyone seeking compelling LGBTQ narratives.

1. Small Rain by Garth Greenwell

Garth Greenwell, known for his critically acclaimed What Belongs to You , offers a new exploration of identity and desire in Small Rain. This deeply emotional novel promises to continue his tradition of capturing the beauty and complexity of queer love and longing.

2. Queerceañera by Alex Crespo

A charming queer rom-com that brings fresh energy to coming-out stories, Queerceañera centers on a boy navigating his identity and a fake relationship at a vibrant queer quinceañera. It’s a celebration of family, love, and the complexities of coming of age in a queer world.

3. Flyboy by Kasey LeBlanc

In this YA novel, magical realism intertwines with the exploration of trans identity. Flyboy follows a young person discovering themselves in the midst of a mystical circus, where magic mirrors the journey of self-discovery and acceptance.

4. True Love and Other ImpossibleOdds by Christina Li

This queer coming-of-age story delves into the intersection of love, algorithms, and identity as a young person navigates their way through college life. True

Love and Other Impossible Odds is a tender exploration of love in the digital age.

5. Bromantic Puckboy by Eden Finley & Saxon James

NHL veteran Cody Bilson and rookie goalie Miles Olsen agree to an unconventional deal to help each other avoid

emotional pitfalls. As their partnership deepens, they must confront their feelings and decide what they truly want in life and love.

6. Sunhead by Alex Assan

A coming-of-age graphic novel, Sunhead captures the beauty of friendships, identity, and the power of stories. Through vibrant illustrations and poignant storytelling, it explores how shared experiences shape who we become.

7. Blackouts by Justin Torres

Though originally released in 2023, Blackouts highlights Torres’ powerful exploration of queer identity and loss, blending personal history with the broader LGBTQ experience. Torres, known for his raw and evocative storytelling, spent part of his career in Houston.

8. Day by Michael Cunningham

This 2023 standout novel remains widely praised in 2024 for its deep meditation on love and loss over time. Day examines queer themes of connection and the passage of time, with Cunningham’s trademark emotional depth.

9. Thirst by Marina Yuszczuk

A captivating reimagining of the vampire mythos, Thirst explores queer existence across centuries. This novel is a dark and sensual exploration of desire, loss, and what it means to live and love as a queer person in an ever-changing world.

10. These Letters End in Tears by Musih Tedji Xaviere Set against the backdrop of societal challenges in Cameroon, These Letters End in Tears tells the story of forbidden love between two queer individuals. It’s a powerful narrative of resilience and hope amidst oppressive environments.

11. Mona of the Manor by Armistead Maupin

A continuation of the beloved Tales of the City series, Mona of the Manor brings readers back to the heart of queer life in San Francisco. Maupin’s trademark wit and heart shine through as he delves into relationships, love, and the power of chosen family.

12. Housemates by Emma Copley Eisenberg Set in rural America, Housemates is a queer-centered story of art, self-discovery, and chosen family. Eisenberg’s exploration of queer life in rural spaces offers a refreshing perspective on identity and community beyond urban centers.

2ND ANNUAL HOPE FOR HOUSTON BALL

NOVEMBER 2, 2024

The second annual Hope for Houston Ball by Allies in Hope lit up The Revaire with a dazzling disco theme. Hosted by 93.7 FM’s Carmen Contreras, the evening featured a performance by Kim Cruse and an afterparty fueled by DJ Michelle McKnight. The event celebrated remarkable honorees including Gilead Sciences (Shelby Hodge Visionary Award), Dr. Joe Samuel Ratliff

(the inaugural Ada Edwards Humanitarian Award), Congresswoman Sheila Jackson Lee (posthumous Warrior for Hope Award), and Kyle T. Pierce (the inaugural Distinguished Board Member Award). This night of celebration highlighted our community leaders making a lasting impact on Houston.

VOICES FOR HOPE BENEFIT FOR OMEGA HOUSE NOVEMBER 8, 2024

Avenue 360 Health and Wellness hosted Voices of Hope, a benefit for Omega House, at River Oaks Country Club. The evening was emceed by Deborah Duncan, host of KHOU-11’s Great Day Houston. Dr. Charlene Flash, president and CEO of Avenue 360, welcomed guests, followed by an opening performance from Luke Whitney. The Harmony of the Heart Award was presented to

Kenneth J. Bohan, CPC, CTS, for his years of dedication to the community. The Symphony of Service Award was given to Gus Krucke, MD, Mark Nichols, DDS, and Sandy Stacy, RN, in recognition of their exceptional service. The evening concluded with a performance by Christina Wells and dancing to DJ Freddy B.

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DISCO TURKEY 2024 – “WE ARE FAMILY” NOVEMBER 30, 2024

New York City glam came to Rich’s for an event presented by hosts Bryan Hlavinka and Chad Guidry. Hundreds of partygoers were dressed to impress, and DJ Guidry brought his brand of disco fever to the dance floor as it became a kaleidoscope of 1970s-inspired fashions as the crowd gyrated to the disco-era classics.

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DANCING ON A CLOUD

A chance meeting in Galveston led Johnny Steverson-Aman and Jarrod Aman to a magical wedding day.

By DAVID CLARKE

by CREATE A MOMENT

Johnny Steverson-Aman, 39, and Jarrod Aman, 28, tied the knot on September 28 at the stunning Bryan Museum on Galveston Island—a fitting locale for a romance that began serendipitously at Lafitte’s, a gay bar on the island, on Christmas Day 2021. Jarrod, a Galveston transplant via Katy, was celebrating the holiday with friends. Johnny, originally from Alvin, had reluctantly ventured out at the urging of a friend. “My friend Ben shoved me right in front of Jarrod,” Johnny recalls with a grin. “I awkwardly introduced myself, and the rest is history.”

For Johnny, the first spark came from Jarrod’s flowing locks. “I noticed his awesome hair,” he shares. For Jarrod, it was Johnny’s height that first caught his eye. “I thought, ‘Wow, he’s tall—and handsome,’” he remembers.

By the time they enjoyed their first date together—an intimate night in watching The Time Machine (1960) and sharing pizza—they both knew they had found something special. “I had a feeling that Jarrod was different right away because he has this forward mindset,” explains Johnny. “But, it was when I met his family that I knew that I was just madly in love with him.”

“It’s the same for me, too,” reveals Jarrod. “Seeing him interact with my family and perfectly meld in, that’s when I thought, ‘Okay, this is someone special to me for sure now.’”

Johnny proposed to Jarrod during a family gathering at a lake house near Austin, overlooking the water. Although Jarrod had joked earlier about the timing, the moment struck the perfect balance of privacy and celebration. “I was going to do it later,” Johnny admits, “but his mom said, ‘You might as well do it while we’re all together.’” Jarrod recalls being “definitely surprised—not that he proposed,

but because he had promised not to do it at the lake house!”

“We joined the family right after,” Johnny adds. “It was such a beautiful way to share the moment.”

The Bryan Museum, with its lush gardens, historic charm, and magnificent glass conservatory, was the perfect wedding venue to capture their love and the spirit of the island they call home.

“The gazebo ceremony area and the glass conservatory made it feel like a fairy tale,” says Johnny. The couple embraced the island’s coastal essence with water and sand elements incorporated into their ceremony.

As self-proclaimed “nerdy gamers,” they added a personal touch to their ceremony’s entrance and walked down the aisle together to a romantic rendition of “Zelda’s Lullaby” from The Legend of Zelda: Ocarina of Time. “It was a nod to

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our shared nerdy side,” Jarrod explains. Their day was elevated by a roster of exceptional vendors. From the intricate floral arrangements by Rene Johnson at Lush Flowers to two different flavors of delectable wedding cake—mocha fudge and lemon raspberry—by Jula Tragni of Cakes by Jula, each detail reflected the couple’s vision. “We wanted our wedding to feel elegant and full of personality,” Jarrod shares.

The highlight of the evening was undoubtedly the dancing. Jarrod’s family, known for their lively celebrations, kept the dance floor full all night. DJ Joseph Mire of The JAM Session DJ provided the perfect mix of music, ensuring every moment was a party. “Our first dance felt magical,” Johnny says. “We danced on a cloud, thanks to a fog machine—it was like being in a dream.”

The couple’s tent and furniture, provided by Jamie and Kathy Benham of All In One Events and Tents, transformed the space into a scene of timeless elegance, while photographer Jose Rodriguez of Create a Moment Photography & Video captured every joyful moment.

“Jose and our drone videographer, Michael Grimes of 409 Dronegraphy, made our memories truly cinematic,” Johnny says.

“Not only were all our vendors local to Galveston and Houston, but they were LGBTQ+ friendly and brought our vision to life with professionalism and heart,” he adds.

For Johnny and Jarrod, their wedding

was as much about their community as it was about their love. Officiant and planner Jane Park, of The Total Wedding Experience, helped craft a ceremony that celebrated their journey and future. “She made everything seamless and sentimental,” Johnny says. “It was like she had known us forever.”

The couple also honored their family and friends for their unwavering support. “Our loved ones made this day possible,” Jarrod emphasizes. “From emotional support to financial help, they gave us the foundation to create something unforgettable.”

Reflecting on their big day, Johnny and Jarrod offer advice for other couples planning their weddings. “Take time to soak it all in,” Johnny says. “The day goes by so fast.” They also recommend hiring a drone photographer. “The aerial shots are incredible,” Johnny adds. “I’ve watched ours at least 500 times!”

Jarrod chimes in with his own piece of wisdom: “Make it your own. Include elements that reflect your relationship, whether it’s a song, a color scheme, or even a themed cake.”

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ARIES (Mar. 21–Apr. 19)

As the month begins, you are in an upbeat mood about the holidays. You are very open to new ideas and alternative points of view. This will be a good month to connect with friends and family that you haven’t seen for a while. You will be extra busy and can easily overload your agenda in the first half of the month. In the latter half, you are paying more attention to the ideas of stability and keeping your family safe. Your career/job will be more active and more demanding. They may expect you to take on more of a leadership role. If you work with a team, this will even be a more important time to bond with your co-workers. If you have children, you will want to spend more time with them, even if they are more demanding than usual. You are more than ready for a break for the New Year!

TAURUS (Apr. 20–May 20)

Home and family activity is very strong this month. You may be looking at relocating, remodeling, and having to step in and take a leadership role with your family over the holidays. With Mercury retrograde, you are reviewing your finances and current debt. This would be a good time to refinance some of your loans or to find lower interest rates on what you own. And you are more open to outside advice on this topic. By the latter part of the month, you are a bit more chilled and ready for the holidays. Overall, there are big changes taking place in your career sector. Your company could be going through mergers or downsizing. This may be an opportune time for you to do something on your own or take on a management role. If you are older, you may be looking at cutting back. Keep your exit strategy handy for those family dinners!

GEMINI (May 21–June 21)

This whole year has been a time of possible growth and expansion, though you question your decisions and choices and feel stuck. Most of this activity has taken place in your career sector. The question of how

Navigate December’s Cosmic Chaos

Sagittarius season starts strong but ends in Capricorn’s winter chill.

As the month begins, Mercury, our planner, is retrograde, and Mars, our initiator, will be joining him by the 6th. Mercury will be actively retrograde through the 21st. Mars will be retrograde until mid-March, spending most of his time in Cancer, the sign of the US. This can increase the expression of anger and disgust by some people, especially the cardinal signs of Aries, Libra, Cancer, and Capricorn. If you have new proj-

much responsibility and freedom you need keeps you calculating. With the upcoming retrogrades, you may need more time to decide. Relationships are also very important this month. This would be a great time to renew your current bonds and remind each other why you got together. Difficult partnerships will have to find some sort of resolution, no matter the outcome. With your ruler, Mercury, retrograde until the end of the month, make sure your holiday plans include some personal time, so you don’t feel overwhelmed.

CANCER (June 22–July 22)

You crab folk are more crabby than usual this month. You prefer to stick with your established routines and not make many changes for these few days. As the month begins, you are paying more attention to finances and how to generate more income. This is not a good time to buy anything new unless you have to. This can be a good time for refinancing or looking for cards with lower interest rates. You continue to be open to expanding your education and making better use of what you have and what you know. In the latter half of the month, relationships are the main topic. This can be a good time to renew bonds, deal with problems in partnerships, and make sure everyone is aware of their roles and responsibilities. Personal freedom is important this month. You will not respond well to people blocking your path.

LEO (July 23–Aug. 22)

This month, Mars, planet of action, anger, vitality, and self-defense, goes retrograde in your sign. Mars will be active in your sign through January 5. This will be a time to address issues, problems, and people that you have avoided or put off until now. This is also a great time to restart any exercise or eating programs. During the first half of the month, you are in a more playful mood. If you have children, you may want to engage more with them. In the latter half of the month, you are paying more attention to your work, responsibility,

ects you want to start, you may have to wait until mid-April of 2025 for the planets to be in more favorable positions. Good days this month are the 2nd, 12th, 13th, 19th, and the 26th. Days of tension are the 4th, 6th, 7th, 15th, 18th, 24th, 27th, and the 28th. The Sun moves from Sagittarius into Capricorn on the 21st, marking the Winter Solstice, the first day of winter. The holidays will be tense. Travel plans may change; stay flexible. Choose your company carefully.

and commitments you have made for the holidays. Relationships are going to be a big topic this next year. Your attitudes about relationships are changing, and you and your partners will have to explore new plans for your future.

VIRGO (Aug. 23–Sept.22)

With your ruler, Mercury, retrograde in your home and family area, you may feel more nostalgic about the holidays than usual. Holiday plans may need to be more flexible and changes will occur. This is a good time to do some repair and follow through on some chores that you have been avoiding. There continues to be career activity, but you have been reluctant to make a decision to move forward. With the current retrograde environment, this is the perfect time to review what you want to do. As the holidays approach, you lighten up a little and seem to have some of the holiday spirit. You are continuing to review your partnerships and setting new goals for all of them. There is also a new energy that is making you more conscious of your health habits and the need to improve them!

LIBRA (Sept. 23–Oct. 23)

You are keeping yourself busy right through the holidays into 2025. This month you are paying attention to your daily chores and activities. With Mercury retrograde in your daily communication area, be sure you double check ahead of any appointments or scheduled meetings you may have. There could be a big crowd for your holiday gathering. Be sure you have help so you don’t feel all alone providing for everyone as the perfect Libra hostess! Traditionally, you take on the responsibility and enjoy the planning. You are continuing to pay attention to your health and diet regimens, even through the holidays, because maintaining your routines helps you keep order in your life. You will be reconnecting with friends from your past.

Your social groups are shifting and changing, and you aren’t sure where you are going to land. You are avoiding people who don’t have a sense of balance. Get out and enjoy the fall weather!

SCORPIO (Oct. 24–Nov. 21)

You are busy this month! You may be starting a whole new family tradition this year. Parts of the past are passing away. There have been some fundamental shifts in your family, redefining family roles and responsibilities. This is impacting your career as well. You will be rethinking your current path, looking at alternatives even if you don’t choose any of them. If you are older, this can be a time of cutting back; if you are younger, this could be your time to take your fate into your own hands! This can also impact where you live, through remodeling or relocating. As the month begins, you are paying close attention to your finances. This can be a very good time to get that area of your life more organized. This can be a good time for refinancing but be sure to read the fine print. In the latter part of the month, you seek some personal privacy to have more order and control in your life.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov.22–Dec.21)

Happy Birthday to the Centaurs. This yearly cycle is one where you review the past and look forward to the new year. This time, Mercury is retrograde in your sign. Looking back will be important and essential to your growth. You have been exploring your career options and aren’t sure what

direction to take. If you are younger, you are looking to embark on your career path. If you are older, you are more focused on personal boundaries and not being exploited. Relationships continue to be positive, as you both explore future plans. If you are single, you are interested in new people, but they need to be serious about relationships. In the latter part of the month, you are paying more attention to your finances, expanding your resource base and cutting back.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22–Jan. 19)

As the holiday month begins, you are in a rest-andretreat mode, not ready to join in on the fun. You are more sensitive to your environment, and that will make you more choosey about who you want to associate with. You are feeling a great spiritual connection with this energy. This is a great time for a reading, a pastlife regression, or a trip to the lake to enjoy looking at the water. Finances, debt, exploring new resources and ways to be more independent are important topics this month. Personal freedom and choices are more important to you than ever. Toward the end of the month, you are more open to holiday activities, but with limits. You just want to be sure that if you say “yes,” you mean it! Paying attention to your boundaries are more important than ever.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20–Feb. 18)

This month your sign is extra active. Mars, planet of action, anger, me first, and self-defense, goes retrograde in your relationship arena. For positive relationships, either business or personal, you are ready to make sure

you are both pushing in the same direction. This can be a time to look at past successes and ways to bring new energy into the alliance. In difficult unions, this can be a make-or-break time. It will be hard to move forward with obstacles in the way. Money and finances are still on your mind as you look for ways to break away and find more personal freedom. Pluto, planet of ultimate change and transformation, has entered Aquarius. She will be there for the next 20 years. This is the beginning of a time for all Aquarians to release negative energy from the past and move forward with less fear and more confidence. The people born in the earliest part of the sign are impacted first.

PISCES (Feb. 19–Mar. 20)

With Mercury retrograde in your career sector, you are rethinking your position, your plans, and exploring alternatives. If there have been problems there, Mercury retrograde is ready to look at different options. This is a great time to do the research, but not the time to put those plans into action. The time for action may not actually occur until mid-April 2025. You may have felt stuck between possible plans and the reasons not to do them. This is impacting all the important areas of work, home, and relationships. This will affect your holiday plans as well. You will want some limited interactions, but you are watching your boundaries. This is a great month to restart any exercise or diet programs. With any travel plans, make sure you keep an eye on the weather!

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The Trailblazer

K’hem Trailz is forging her own path in Houston’s drag scene.

By SAM BYRD

The vibe that K’hem Trailz gives off during her performances may vary with each passing day. Fans will see her rocking a more earthgirl alternative-drag aesthetic with pop- and nerd-culture references at one show, and then delivering high camp at the very next show. One thing is constant, though: she always shines bright and brings her inner fashionista forward. Houston’s girl on the move is always bringing a fun concept, funky style and a silhouette that would make even Kim Kardashian blush. Find out more about this vivacious performer below.

Pronouns?

My pronouns are he/ her, they/ them in drag; he/ him, they/ them out of drag.

Inner Avatar?

My inner Avatar is a golden sphinx with wings.

Hometown? Houston

Drag birthday? June 5, 2014

This is the season of giving. How do you give back to the community?

I provide a safe space for the community to express itself artistically and authentically through song. Sometimes we can provide an example to one another just by living authentically.

What sparked your interest in drag?

My roommate in college introduced me to drag and drag culture. When I moved back to Houston, I was excited to put what I learned into practice.

Describe your performing persona. My performing persona is an electrifying dance musicality, normally with a twist of ridiculous camp timing for some added little “wink-nudge.”

Any titles or pageants under your belt?

I’m a former Ms. Houston Newcomer USofA and a forever Ms. Mistress of the Night for Houston.

What’s on your bucket list?

I have too much on my bucket list, but climbing Mt. Kilimanjaro with my siblings is one recent add.

Most embarrassing moment on stage? My most embarrassing moment on stage was me competing in talent at Ms. Texas Newcomer. The floor fans came on too early and stayed on, eventually causing dust from the ceiling to fill the entire room and making the audience erupt in laughter, turning what was supposed to be an earnest moment into an episode of I Love Lucy

Thoughts about legislation restricting drag performances?

It is a distraction to cover greed and corruption. The only people getting hurt at drag shows are the queens jumping off of stages.

What’s your must-have clothing accessory/prop?

Two layers of Spanks are my must have item. Being wrapped up in several layers of thick dance tights, the final layer holding it all in place are the Spanks, or else there would only be chaos.

What would people be surprised to know about you?

I play piano and have a degree in vocal performance.

What was your dream job as a child?

My dream job as a child was to be a cartoonist, and K’hem Trailz is definitely a cartoon character.

Favorite bad word?

The best bad word is definitely “motha f#ck” spoken in a deep chest vocal, as in “I don’t give a motha f#ck.”

Who is your favorite drag character from media?

Detox Icunt from Rupaul’s Drag Race is my favorite because she’s an old friend and one of my first drag inspirations from back in the day, along with Akashia from Season 1.

Where and when do you normally perform?

I currently host karaoke every Monday night at Eagle Houston, but I can also be found at Grand Prize Bar, Tony’s Corner Pocket, Michael’s Outpost, and Barcode.

Follow K’hem Trailz @khemtrailz on Instagram, @thekhemtrailz on Tik Tok.