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As 2024 draws to a close, we reflect on the challenges and victorieswe’veexperienced during the past year. OutSmart magazine remains committed to telling the stories that matter most to our community, from advocacy and justice to the arts and our vibrant social scene.

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Inside this November issue, you’ll find several stories that showcase Houston’s resilient LGBTQ community. Writer David Clarke explores how the ManKind Project’s New Warrior Training invites queer men to deepen their understanding of identity, purpose, and connection. Writer Ian L. Haddock highlights the advocacy work of Ritchie T. Martin Jr., a new addition to the Allies in Hope organization. Martin shares some of the insights he gained from working with marginalized communities in Milwaukee.

We begin 2025 with our annual Health & Wellness issue to give you some additional motivation to get in shape this year. We talked with five notable health experts to learn how they are promoting wellness:

Writer Zachary McKenzie introduces us to Miguel Mascorro Rosales, who discovered his passion for fitness after immigrating here from Mexico. His previous work at several local fitness centers prepared him for his current coaching work at [solidcore] Montrose, where he champions transformative workout sessions that strengthen both mind and body.

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This month’s Community section features writer Terrance Turner’s look at some of our local LGBTQ nonprofit charities, which should help get you in the holiday spirit by supporting their vital work in the community. It’s time to show up for a few of your favorite organizations, both this month and throughout the year! In other news, writer Sam Byrd showcases the ongoing work of Out For Education, another one of our great fundraising charities that empowers our future LGBTQ leaders by offering them college scholarships.

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size that specialized care, periodic testing, and community support are an important part of effective treatment. Dr. Mohit Khera, who is my specialist at Baylor, is also a leading prostate cancer researcher studying the link between low testosterone and cancer.

curator of the Gulf Coast Archive and Museum of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender History (GCAM). That local institution is in the midst of reorganizing and expanding their mission to preserve the archives and memorabilia of Houston’s leather community.

Personality and Best Local LGBTQ Social Media Presence, shares his journey to success on Mix 96.5. Donald Simon III, who won Best Men’s Clothing Store, describes how he built King Underwear into a successful brand that celebrates its diverse clientele.

On the lighter side, Ryan M. Leach’s annual Top 10 list offers a witty take on a few of 2024’s winners and losers. In the midst of so much political turmoil, it’s encouraging to celebrate winners such as Delaware’s incoming Congresswoman Sarah McBride. As the nation’s first transgender lawmaker to serve in Congress, McBride was greeted with a barrage of Republican hostility, and she has been handling the turmoil with grace and dignity.

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eycomb paper ornaments and an elegant red bow tree-topper add a festive touch that theater-goers attending the Alley’s holiday production of A Christmas Carol will appreciate.

The Montrose Center is observing the annual International Transgender Day of Remembrance on November 20 by hosting HOPERA’s production of As One, composer Laura Kaminsky’s poignant opera that explores a trans artist’s journey of self-discovery. Arts writer Rich Arenschieldt fills us in on the opera’s 10-year evolution following its 2014 New York premiere.

This October issue features the winners and finalists in our 27th annual Gayest & Greatest Readers’ Choice Awards. After tallying thousands of votes cast by our loyal readers, we are proud to profile 12 of these winning individuals and businesses from the LGBTQ community, starting on page 33. This year’s lineup includes not only a few of Houston’s well-known leaders in politics and business, but also an impressive sampling of young artists and activists who are making a difference. Thanks to OutSmart writers David Clarke and Connor Behrens for highlighting these Gayest & Greatest winners. We hope to see you at this year’s Gayest & Greatest Awards party at South Beach on October 23, from 6:30 to 8:30 p.m. You’ll be able to enjoy drink specials and entertainment with emcee Derrick Shore as you mingle with many of this year’s winners and finalists. Thanks to our event sponsors Bayou City Smiles, Legacy Community Health, Premier Wireless, Silver Eagle Houston, Senior Medicare Patrol, and South Beach Houston for making this year’s celebration a success.

Maggie Le is fostering a welcoming community for queer climbers throughout Houston. Writer Connor Behrens takes a look at her wellness group rooted in inclusivity that brings together beginning and advanced climbers—including disabled members. The group organizes rotating meetups and plans future activities that also promote supportive social connections.

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Writers Connor Behrens and David Clarke highlight two more winners from our 2024 Gayest & Greatest Readers’ Choice Awards. Jay Michaels, who won Favorite Male Radio

Then writer Brandon Wolf offers a compelling update on the ongoing immigration crisis and LGBTQ marriage issues for non-citizens. The incoming Trump administration’s policies will most likely threaten vulnerable immigrant families and our entire economy, which is heavily dependent on a hard-working immi-

Writer David Clarke interviews three leading men’s health experts who focus on treating low testosterone in both men and women, which can manifest as fatigue, diminished libido, and muscle loss. These experts empha-

October is also LGBTQ History Month, so we asked veteran writer and historian Brandon Wolf to catch up with Judy Reeves, longtime

Our October entertainment feature spotlights Cyndi Lauper ahead of her farewell tour that includes a stop in Houston next month. Writer Gregg Shapiro spoke with Lauper about her fond memories from four decades of recording and touring. She also revealed her passion for political activism that has inspired many of her LGBTQ fans to become informed voters.

In our Arts & Entertainment coverage, writer Michael Robinson interviews “The Pope of Trash,” John Waters—the iconic filmmaker who comes to town with a livecommentary screening of his movie Hairspray on November 14.

Our cover story looks at Houston’s rugby scene, where the sHARCs rugby club offers an inclusive, queer-friendly space for women athletes. Writer David Clarke learned that the group has a unique commitment to promoting accessibility, mental well-being, and community. New players are welcome to join in on their practice sessions at Bayland Park, and no experience is required.

newcomers to Houston Ballet’s Karina González Edwards, who performs a multimedia piece blending dance, music, and film. The eclectic festival lineup is a highlight for this unique Midtown venue. Lilly Roddy’s 2025 horoscope preview takes a look at the multiple retrogrades occurring this year, which raises the potential for conflict and forces us to revisit past concerns.

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in 17th-century England. Clarke also previews Filipino artist Royal Sumikat’s stunning mural The Queens of the Tarot, which is part of an interactive new art installation at Meow Wolf in the Fifth Ward. And finally, writer Olivia Flores Alvarez chats with Houston Center for Photography director Anne Leighton Massoni about her provocative new exhibition featuring images of hidden same-sex desire in repressive cultures.

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We hope to see you at our annual OutSmart Holiday Party on Friday, December 20 from 6 to 9 p.m. at Rich’s! Please join us for a festive evening of music, laughter, and toasting the year ahead with our family of readers and advertisers. You can RSVP and find updates on Facebook at tinyurl.com/3ktc62ye.

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“I call Hairspray a ‘Trojan horse of joy.’ People come for the laughs and the music, and leave with a little subversive message on the side,” Waters once said. This legendary director and infamous provocateur also graces our November cover.

Writer Zachary McKenzie takes us behind the scenes at Stages, where Rose Morrigan stars in a clever, gender-bending comedy sure to please fans of Sherlock Holmes.

Our December arts and culture coverage celebrates creativity in all its forms—everything from Johnny Salvesen’s starring role in Opera in the Heights’ The Little Prince and 4th Wall Theatre Company’s irreverently funny holiday production to drag artist Tammie Brown’s charming rag-doll exhibit at the Galveston Arts Center. And for you bookworms looking for something new to read, our year-end roundup of impactful LGBTQ titles will keep you satisfied throughout the new year.

I would like to thank the Montrose Center for honoring me this month with their 2024 LGBTQIA+ Community Vision Award. For 31 years now, my vision for empowering Houston’s LGBTQ community through a monthly magazine has guided OutSmart ’s entire editorial staff. As we now face a social-media environment that threatens the very existence of local journalism, we are asking for your support to help us thrive in the digital age.

In Community news, writer Terrance Turner spoke with Tiffany Scales, who has been leading Pride Houston 365 since last August. The longtime poetry lover brings her passion for advocacy to Pride Houston, where she aims to create safe, inviting spaces at their annual June Pride events so that everyone can celebrate without fear or judgment.

I want to thank everyone who donated to the OutSmart Foundation for LGTQ News and Media in 2024. We hope more of our dedicated readers will choose to support the Foundation this year as we look forward to funding an expanded newsroom and other investments in the future of local LGBTQ journalism.

Thank you for your continued support of OutSmart ’s local LGBTQ journalism. Together, we’ll head into 2025 by embracing its opportunities and challenges with hope and resilience.

We wish everyone a happy and safe New Year filled with new opportunities!

Don’t miss the glitz and glam of our annual awards party at South Beach, where you can mingle with winners and finalists while enjoying performances and drink specials.

Wishing you a joyous holiday season and a bright new year.

As the holiday season approaches, we encourage you to consider supporting the OutSmart Foundation for LGBTQ News and Media. Your tax-deductible year-end gift will strengthen OutSmart’s independent local journalism which is vital to Houston’s thriving LGBTQ community. We need your support!

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David Clarke also spoke with producer Michelle Britton ahead of her Texas premiere of PlayhouseCreatures, which pays tribute to the first women who were allowed onstage

And finally, we salute our cover star Raymond Valdez, a local interior designer who has been busy decorating one of the holiday trees in the Alley Theatre’s lobby. His delicate hon-

A tax-deductible gift to the OutSmart Foundation for LGBTQ News and Media is a great way to keep independent local LGBTQ

Our Arts & Entertainment feature spotlights the annual Mix-MATCH Festival, a showcase for the city’s diverse arts scene including dance, music, drag, and even a group that produces underwater films. Writer Olivia Flores Alvarez spoke with artists ranging from

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January 28

Lauren Sanderson’s Girl From The Internet Tour

Queer alt-pop singer/songwriter Lauren Sanderson returns to Houston for a concert at White Oak Music Hall.

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COMMUNITY

January 11

Houston 2025 LGBTQ+ Community Summit

Leading LGBTQ organizations come together for this day-long gathering featuring expert panels and workshops on civil rights, access to medical care, mental health and wellness, immigration, and legal planning, with special emphasis on supporting transgender community members. tinyurl.com/5n7r4tn9

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January 11

Krewe of Olympus Twelfth Night Celebration Join the Krewe of Olympus in kicking off Mardi Gras season and preparing for Ball XIII. tinyurl.com/388xvcxc

COMMUNITY

January 19

Chevron Houston Marathon

Houston’s largest single-day sporting event attracts thousands of runners from around the world. The races are sold out, but plenty of volunteer opportunities are available. tinyurl.com/38n4cc9u

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Until Jan 26, 2025

Fragments of Memory

Wardell Milan delivers an Artist Talk in conjunction with the Menil Drawing Institute’s display of his work in their Fragments of Memory exhibition. tinyurl.com/4t3ebntx

COMMUNITY

January 11

Bayou City Pups –Yappy New Year Unleashed Ring in the New Year doggy-style at this Pup Night charity fundraiser. tinyurl.com/3vxk3kn5

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January 30

ActOUT for December

Ticket holders for the Alley Theatre’s world-premiere production of December can enjoy a pre-performance mixer with music, socializing, light bites, and drinks. tinyurl.com/mv2ht7z2

COMMUNITY

January 25

The Drop – DJ Battle

This high-energy fundraiser isn’t just a hot club moment, it’s a chance to hear the city’s most talented DJs battle it out to take on Pride Houston 365’s Main Stage. tinyurl.com/muewp32a

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January 17

Ani DiFranco at House of Blues

Bisexual icon Ani DiFranco brings her Unprecedented Sh!t tour to House of Blues, with special guest Joy Clark. tinyurl.com/ez3mjy8a

COMMUNITY

January 31

Charity Bingo at Frost Town Brewing

Charity Bingo nights return to Frost Town Brewing. This month’s beneficiary is Trans Legal Aid Clinic Texas. tinyurl.com/y3dakyem

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February 5

2025 Pride 365 Unveiling: Logo & Grand-Marshal Finalists

Join Pride Houston 365 as they reveal the 2025 logo and this year’s grand-marshal finalists. tinyurl.com/2r9t6xuh

STAGE

February 6

Out@TUTS for Mean Girls

Theatre Under The Stars presents its Out@TUTS reception for LGBTQ theatergoers and friends featuring light bites, drink specials, and live music. tinyurl.com/4z7d9btp

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February 9

Pride Day at Houston Grand Opera

Celebrate Pride Day at Houston Grand Opera’s La bohème, February 9. Enjoy romance, Pride Chorus, a special brunch, plus BOGO 50% tickets with code OUTSMART50. tinyurl.com/yr6dxuwf

COMMUNITY

February 15

Project Love Gala

Join us for the inaugural Project Love Gala presented by Brazoria County Pride—an unforgettable evening that celebrates and supports local LGBTQ initiatives. Enjoy live entertainment featuring India Ferrah from RuPaul’s Drag Race, special guest Savannah James, and a keynote speaker panel with Timothy Wayne, Tammi Wallace, and Dr. Joy Kennedy-O’Neill. Connect with like-minded individuals, enjoy delicious bites, and make a difference in the community. tinyurl.com/5n6vbx4v

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The Annual Transgender Thanksgiving Celebration was held at The Montrose Center on November 26, 2024. Pictured are Meleah Jones, Anya Tsang, Avery Belyeu, Taylor Mabrie, and Dan Cato

World AIDS Day 2024 was hosted at South Beach on December 1, 2025. Pictured are Jessica Ferdinand, Marlene McNeese, Ivan Bocanegra, Nathan Maxey, Robert Palussek, and Timmy Martinez

On December 7, 2024, Grace Place held its Annual Haus of Gingerbread Competition at Frost Town Brewing. Pictured are some of the participants and entertainers.

BJ Gill and Robby Guthart hosted The Montrose Center Rising Leaders Holiday Party on December 7, 2024. Pictured are BJ Gill, Kevin Nguyen, Taylor Mabrie, Avery Belyeu, Meleah Jones, Kelly Nicholls, and Robby Guthart

On December 7, 2024, The Houston Pride Band presented “Kringle Kapers” at MATCH. Pictured are members of the band.

Legacy Community Center and Richard Holt hosted the 2024 Holiday Schmooze at the home of Richard Holt on December 11, 2024. Pictured are Robert Palussek, Chree Boydstun, and Richard Holt.

On November 30, 2024, Disco Turkey 2024 was held at Rich’s. Pictured are Chad Guidry and Bryan Hlavinka.

On December 9, 2024, The CAUSUS hosted a meeting to discuss “Know Your Rights DPS Policy Changes” at Leonel Castillo Community Center. Pictured are Austin Davis Ruiz, Porscha Brown, Landon Richie, Joëlle Espeut, Pete MakopoulosSenftleber, and Lou Weaver.

OUT at the Ballet for “Nutcracker” was held at The Wortham Center on December 13, 2024. Pictured are some of the attendees.

On December 11, 2024, Randy Young hosted the 2024 Red Ribbon Toy Drive at Riva’s Italian Restaurant. Pictured are Joseph Siboyeh, Michael Sibouyeh, Sallye Stapleton, and Dena Page.

The Greater Houston LGBTQ+ Chamber held the Chamber Holiday Party at Stampede on December 11, 2024. Pictured are Tasha Kendrick-Palmer, Christina Wells, and Rica Kendrick-Palmer.

The Share Your Blessings 2024 fundraiser was held at The Palm on December 8, 2025. Pictured are underwriters of Jim Sikorski’s Share Your Blessings.

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Take Control of Your Finances

You can overcome your money fears with a solid plan for success.

Becoming financially literate and overcoming fears about money are essential steps toward building a stable and secure financial future. For many, money is a source of stress and anxiety, often rooted in a lack of understanding or negative past experiences. However, by educating yourself and adopting healthier habits, you can make informed decisions and take control of your financial life. Here are some steps to help you work toward financial literacy and conquer your fears.

Financial literacy refers to the ability to understand and effectively use various financial skills including budgeting, saving, investing, and managing debt. It’s not about becoming a financial expert overnight, but about gaining the confidence and knowledge to make informed decisions. Start by learning the basics of personal finance through online resources, articles, and tutorials. Then, understanding your current financial situation is a critical first step. Take an honest look at your income, expenses, debts, and savings. Tools like budgeting apps or spreadsheets can help you track your financial activity and provide a clear picture of where you stand.

Familiarizing yourself with essential topics such as compound interest, credit scores, and investment strategies is also important. Many websites and educational platforms break down these concepts into digestible information. For example, compound interest allows your savings to grow exponentially over time, emphasizing the importance of starting early. Credit scores, on the other hand, impact your ability to secure loans or favorable interest rates, so learning how to maintain a good score can save you significant amounts of money in the long run.

Creating a monthly budget to help you allocate your income effectively is a practical way to begin managing your finances. A simple approach like the 50/30/20 rule—50% for necessities, 30% for discretionary spending, and 20% for savings or debt repayment—can provide structure and clarity. Budgeting not only helps you control your spending, but also ensures you’re prioritizing your financial

goals. Setting clear goals, whether it’s saving for a house, paying off debt, or building an emergency fund, will give you direction and motivation. Breaking these goals into smaller, achievable milestones can make them feel less overwhelming.

Fear of money often stems from uncertainty, lack of control, or past mistakes. Overcoming these fears requires a mindset shift and actionable steps. Reflect on your relationship with money to identify the root cause of your anxiety. Are you afraid of not having enough? Do you fear making mistakes? Understanding these feelings is the first step toward addressing them. Sharing your concerns with trusted friends, family, or certified financial professionals can also provide valuable perspective and reassurance.

Starting small can help reduce financial anxiety. Begin with manageable steps, such as setting aside a small amount for savings or paying off the smallest debt first. For instance, the “snowball method” of debt repayment focuses on clearing smaller debts first to build confidence and momentum. Building an emergency fund is another key step. Knowing you have a financial safety net of three to six months’ worth of living expenses can significantly reduce stress. This fund acts as a buffer,

protecting you from unexpected events like medical emergencies or a job loss.

Educating yourself about the risks involved with investment options can help you make informed choices without undue worry. While investments may seem intimidating, starting with mutual funds can help you grow your wealth steadily over time. Understanding diversification—spreading investments across different asset classes—can also reduce risk and provide more stability.

Making better financial decisions often involves recognizing patterns and implementing healthier habits. Avoid impulse spending by giving yourself time before making non-essential purchases. A 24-hour rule can help you distinguish between needs and wants. Emotional spending—whether due to stress, boredom, or celebration—can also lead to trouble. Finding alternative ways to cope, such as exercise or hobbies, can help curb this behavior. For example, replacing a shopping spree with a walk in the park can save money and boost your mood.

Automating good habits, like setting up automatic transfers to your savings account or scheduling bill payments, can help you stay consistent and avoid penalties. Automation removes the need for constant decision-making,

allowing you to focus on other aspects of your life. Additionally, tracking your progress regularly can help you stay motivated. Celebrate milestones, such as reaching a savings target or paying off a credit card, to reinforce positive behaviors.

Learning from past mistakes is crucial for improvement. Instead of dwelling on financial errors, view them as opportunities to grow. Analyze what went wrong and take steps to prevent similar mistakes in the future. For example, if overspending during the holidays caused financial strain, you can plan ahead next year by setting a holiday budget and sticking to it. Seeking professional advice is also a powerful way to gain clarity and direction. Working with financial-planning professionals can provide you with personalized guidance and help you create a comprehensive plan to address your financial goals. These professionals can help you navigate complex decisions such as retirement planning, tax optimization, and investment strategies.

Finally, changing how you think about money can have a profound impact on your financial behavior. View money as a tool that enables you to achieve your goals, rather than a source of stress. Cultivating a growth mindset can help you see financial challenges as opportunities to learn and improve. Celebrate small victories, like sticking to your budget for a month or reaching a savings milestone. These positive reinforcements will keep you motivated and remind you of the progress you’ve made.

Building financial literacy and overcoming fears is a journey that requires patience and persistence. By taking the time to educate yourself, address anxieties, and make intentional decisions, you can create a healthier relationship with money. The steps you take today—whether it’s setting up a budget, building an emergency fund, or consulting with qualified financial professionals—will lay the foundation for a more confident financial future. Remember, every small step helps you work toward your goals, and the knowledge you gain along the way will empower you for a lifetime.

Grace S. Yung, CFP ®, is a Certified finanCial P lanner practitioner with experience in helping LGBTQ individuals, domestic partners, and families plan and manage their finances since 1994. She is the managing director at Midtown Financial Group, LLC, in Houston. Yung can be reached at grace.yung@lpl.com. Visit letsmake aplan.org or midtownfg.com/ lgbtqplus.10.htm. The opinions voiced in this article are for general information only and are not intended to provide specific advice or recommendations for any individual.

A New Era of Pride

Tiffany Scales continues her community advocacy work as the head of Pride Houston 365.

by TERRANCE TURNER

As the new year begins, OutSmart recognizes some of the change agents who have made headlines (and progress) for our community during 2024. One bright point in an otherwise frustrating year was the ascension of minister and poet Tiffany Scales to the helm of Pride Houston 365. In a wide-ranging two-hour conversation with OutSmart, Scales spoke about her advocacy work and her new position.

Poetry was Scales’ first love. Nurtured by her mother, she went from reading Dorothy Parker poems at age four to writing her own poems. “I wrote a book at the age of five that got published by the Young Authors’ Conference,” she says. “I’ve always spoken and written in prose.”

Raised in a military family, Scales traveled frequently as a child. She attended Texas Southern University, and being out on campus wasn’t easy. One night in 2002 nearly turned tragic: “I was held at gunpoint my freshman year at the Wendy’s on Scott Street,” she says. Scales and friends had piled into her car to get food from Wendy’s, “and there was a car of male students or grown men screaming obscenities at us. So I rolled the window down and I fired back, because I always have spoken up. My mom taught me that.”

When Scales got to the drive-thru window to order chicken nuggets, one of the men had a gun in her face. “The man looked at my windshield and noticed I had a basketball sticker that was in rainbow colors that I had gotten from one of the little novelty shops in Montrose. It was like, ‘Oh, she’s a …’ and just started spewing out these obscenities and derogatory terms that I don’t feel comfortable saying.”

Soon after, she met the president of the LGBTQ campus group who invited her to a

meeting. After that person’s departure, Scales went on to become the group’s president. Now, as head of Pride Houston 365, Scales can serve her community in new ways. When the board convened in August, she was nominated and then unanimously confirmed as president. Although she had submitted a letter of intent, Scales says she was surprised and very appreciative. “It’s an honor and a privilege; I’m so excited!”

She’s been serving as president since August 3 of last year. “It’s a full-time job, even though it doesn’t pay.” Still, Scales is inspired by the tireless work of folks like the late Congresswoman Sheila Jackson Lee. “People who serve the people until they die—I honor that; that’s why I have to say her name. But I do appreciate so many of you in this community who show up and show out, whether they be members of the community or allies.” Allies are important, she says, during a time when LGBTQ rights and freedoms have an uncertain future.

“I love that OutSmart is utilizing the local talents that this community has,” Scales continues, highlighting OutSmart photographer Dalton DeHart’s labor of love and the ways he has captured so many important moments.

“I’M JUST LOOKING FORWARD TO FEELING THE IMPACT OF THE SUCCESS THAT WE’RE WORKING SO DILIGENTLY TO PROVIDE.”

—Tiffany Scales

“The history that’s been completely cultivated by our beloved Mr. DeHart has been such a treat to the community, as well as his advocacy to empower the mentees that he’s brought in to extend their talents and explore. And one thing that I can say: this community is more apt to take our gifts and share them. We take our talents and we expose people to how they embrace their own, and it’s just an honor.”

As Pride Houston 365’s president, Scales

wants to create virtual access for those who can’t attend events in person. “Inclusivity, for me, includes accessibility, and accessibility includes people who are over-stimulated by crowds but who still want to celebrate.” She also aims to raise money for an air-conditioned “legacy lounge” at the June Pride events where advocates and activists who have fought for our rights in the past can enjoy being celebrated.

“I’m looking forward to a ‘Family Fun Zone,’” she adds, “a space where inclusivity exists, without fingers being pointed and heads being shook. Literally, just letting kids be kids. I’m looking forward to people returning to Pride to celebrate—and trusting the process, knowing that it is something they can enjoy and appreciate. I’m just looking forward to feeling the impact of the success that we’re working so diligently to provide. Overall, in my presidency, I aspire to ensure that our community embraces self-care in such a way that it becomes the innate response.”

Hopefully, with Scales in the lead, our community can prioritize self-care and find joy in the challenging days ahead.

For more info, visit pridehouston365.org

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Meet the sHARCs , Houston’s queer-friendly women’s rugby squad.

by DAVID CLARKE

Deep in the heart of Houston’s vibrant sports community, the sHARCs (“she” Houston Athletic Rugby Club) stand out as one of the city’s most inclusive and queer-friendly women’s rugby teams. With approximately 80% of its members identifying as LGBTQ, the sHARCs offer a safe and empowering space for women athletes of all backgrounds.

The women’s team emerged from the older Houston Athletic Rugby Club (HARC), founded in 1998. According to sHARCs assistant coach Kiana “KC” Curl, they adopted their name in 2014, solidifying their identity on the local rugby scene. “Our coach at the time came up with it randomly, but it stuck and we’ve leaned into the name,” KC explains.

Originally a Division 2 team, the sHARCs rose to Division 1 in 2018, reflecting their growth both in numbers and competitiveness. However, as co-coach and longtime player Barbie Curl notes, their

mission transcends winning games. “We’re about growing women’s rugby locally and across Texas. It’s about being inclusive, teaching the game to newcomers, and showing that rugby is for everyone.”

Inclusivity isn’t just a buzzword for the sHARCs, it’s part of the group’s mission. With players of all shapes, sizes, and experience levels, the team actively recruits from diverse communities, including Houston’s LGBTQ and BIPOC populations. Amanda Martinez, the team’s social-media manager, highlights the importance of visibility. “We’ve been hosting Rugby 101 events, and the turnout has been incredible. Women are excited to try the sport, even if they’ve never seen a rugby match before,” she says.

This welcoming environment extends to players of all gender identities. Although World Rugby’s policies on transgender athletes have been restrictive, USA Rugby—and by extension, the sHARCs—remain committed to inclusivity. KC elaborates: “Trans

men can play without restriction, and trans women are eligible under certain conditions. We ensure everyone feels included and supported.”

Beyond the field, the sHARCs prioritize mental and physical well-being, creating a tight-knit community that feels like family. “Rugby is a sport for all body types,” says KC. “Whether you’re tall, short, muscular, or lean, there’s a place for you. The diversity of our team is one of our greatest strengths.”

The sHARCs invite newcomers to join their practices on Tuesdays and Thursdays from 8 to 10:00 p.m. at Bayland Park. “You don’t need any prior experience,” says Barbie. “Just show up, and we’ll teach you everything you need to know.”

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Join the sHARCs practices Tuesdays and Thursdays, 8–10 p.m. at Bayland Park. No experience necessary; for more information, visit houston.rugby or follow them on Instagram @houstonrugby_women.

The Houston sHARCs rugby team on the field at Bayland Park in Sharpstown

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(l to r) Kyra Del Olmo (Wing), KC Curl (Fly-Half), Barbie Curl (Scrum-Half), Amanda Martinez (Flanker), and Alli Waterwall (Outside Center & Wing)

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A Passion Shared with a Partner

KIANA “KC” CURL Assistant Coach & Fly Half

With 14 years of rugby experience, KC is both a player and coach for the sHARCs. For her, the sport is deeply personal. “My favorite aspect of rugby is sharing it with my wife,” she says.

“We’re both passionate about the game and our team. It’s amazing to do something I love with someone I love.”

KC’s leadership extends beyond the field. She sees rugby as a metaphor for life’s challenges.

“Life is like a rugby game—you face obstacles, but you keep moving forward,” she says. Under her guidance, the sHARCs continue to thrive as a beacon of inclusivity and athleticism in Houston.

“MY FAVORITE ASPECT OF RUGBY IS SHARING IT WITH MY WIFE. WE’RE BOTH PASSIONATE ABOUT THE GAME AND OUR TEAM.”

—Kiana “KC” Curl, sHARCs Player and Coach

Finding Community through Rugby

KYRA DEL OLMO Wing

New to the sHARCs, Kyra joined the team in mid-2024 after seeing a post from Pearl Bar, the popular Houston lesbian bar. “I work from home, so I was looking for a way to be more active and social,” she says. Despite initial nerves, Kyra quickly found her footing, scoring her first try within months of joining.

“The community is incredibly welcoming,” she says. “It’s one of the largest LGBTQ+ groups I’ve seen in Houston, and I’ve lived here my whole life.” For Kyra, rugby has been transformative. “I’ve learned that consistency and showing up can lead to incredible growth.”

From Rookie to Role Model

ALLI WATERWELL

Outside Center & Wing

After a 15-year hiatus from rugby, Alli Waterwall returned to the sport in 2024, joining the sHARCs as an outside center and wing. “I’ve always loved sports and being part of a team,” she shares. “It’s who I am.” A military veteran and mother of two, Alli’s journey back to the field was inspired by her desire to set an example for her children—particularly her young daughter. “I want her to see that girls can do hard and tough things,” she says.

For Alli, rugby is more than a game; it’s a testament to resilience. “Your mind gives up before your body does,” she explains. “Rugby has taught me to push past fear and doubt, uncovering strength I didn’t know I had.”

The Truth about Testosterone Replacement Therapy

Seeking out a qualified specialist can help you make informed decisions about treatment options.

by DAVID CLARKE

The calendar has flipped to 2025 and everyone is focusing on their health and wellness resolutions. For some, this may mean exploring options for checking and addressing their testosterone levels. Testosterone Replacement Therapy (TRT) is often shrouded in mystery and misinformation, but its benefits—when properly managed—can be life-changing.

Low testosterone can manifest through various symptoms that are easy to blame on simple daily stress. Fatigue, reduced libido, erectile dysfunction, decreased muscle mass, and even feelings of disconnection or low mood can all be indicators of low testosterone. Bryan Lavery, the clinical operations Director at Men’s Tailored Testosterone Replacement, emphasizes that “primary symptoms often include declining sex drive, erection changes, and diminishing muscle mass.” He adds that these signs are “sometimes misattributed to stress, poor sleep, or aging” when the underlying issue may be hormonal.

Dr. Mohit Khera, a leading expert in men’s health, underscores the broader health implications of low testosterone. “Low testosterone has been linked to increased risks of heart attack, diabetes, osteoporosis, and depression. It’s the best predictor of a man’s overall health,” he notes, urging men over 40 to include testosterone screening in their routine health checks. Moreover, Khera explains, “There’s no single blood test better than testosterone levels to predict a man’s future health.”

Testing for low testosterone is simpler than many realize. Hormone levels can be measured through blood tests, often initiated by primary care providers. Alternatively, as advocate Nelson Vergel highlights, direct-to-consumer services like his company Discounted Labs (discountedlabs.com) offer a convenient way to

get tested without a doctor’s referral. “Bringing test results to your doctor can save time and streamline the diagnostic process,” Vergel advises. He also recommends checking thyroid levels, as thyroid dysfunction can mimic low testosterone symptoms. “Sometimes it’s not just testosterone,” Vergel adds. “Thyroid imbalances can lead to the same issues, so it’s best to test both.”

If an at-home test reveals low testosterone, the next step is consulting a healthcare professional. Lavery emphasizes the importance of working with specialists who focus on testosterone replacement rather than general practitioners who may lack specific expertise. And this is especially true for the advice offered by the random guy in your gym’s locker room who

“PRIMARY SYMPTOMS OFTEN INCLUDE DECLINING SEX DRIVE, ERECTION CHANGES, AND DIMINISHING MUSCLE MASS. THESE SIGNS ARE SOMETIMES MISATTRIBUTED TO STRESS, POOR SLEEP, OR AGING.”

Bryan Lavery, NP, Clinical Operations Director at Men’s Tailored Testosterone Replacement

you see injecting himself before a workout. “Neglected or poorly managed treatment can lead to side effects like acne, high blood pressure, or worse. A specialist can customize a safe and effective plan,” he explains.

Dr. Khera highlights another critical aspect of TRT. “If administered at physiologic levels—not excessive doses—the treatment is safe and effective for most people,” he notes. However, he cautions young men considering TRT to consult with fertility specialists first, as high doses of testosterone can suppress sperm production. For men looking to preserve fertility, “there are alternative medications that stimulate the body’s own testosterone production without compromising fertility,” he says.

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“KNOWING YOUR HORMONE LEVELS IS FOUNDATIONAL. THE MORE YOU KNOW ABOUT YOUR OPTIONS, THE BETTER EQUIPPED YOU ARE TO ADVOCATE FOR YOUR HEALTH.”

Testosterone impacts far more than sexual health. According to Dr. Khera, “it influences energy, muscle mass, bone density, and even mental health.”

Vergel adds that TRT can be transformative. “For many, it restores a sense of completeness that’s hard to put into words.” Lavery echoes this sentiment, sharing that his patients frequently report improved quality of life. “We’ve heard stories about better marriages, renewed energy, and overcoming anxieties they didn’t even realize were tied to their hormone levels,” he says.

One of the lesser-known but significant aspects of TRT is its deep connection to HIV/ AIDS research. In the 1990s, during the height of the HIV/AIDS crisis, many gay men who were positive for HIV experienced wasting syndrome, a condition characterized by extreme muscle loss. Testosterone and other anabolic therapies were explored as potential treatments. “HIV doctors became pioneers in testosterone therapy because wasting was killing us,” recalls Vergel. “The research conducted then has directly benefited the broader population today.” This silver lining underscores the resilience and contributions of the LGBTQ+ community in advancing healthcare for all.

For those considering TRT, education and community support are crucial, and Vergel’s resources are invaluable starting points. His YouTube channel, Program for Wellness, features expert interviews, while his two Facebook groups—Testosterone Replacement Therapy Discussion, and Women’s Health and HRT—provide spaces for sharing experiences and advice. “Community is vital,” he emphasizes. “These platforms empower individuals to make informed decisions.” In

these groups, members share personal stories, discuss side effects, and recommend local providers, creating a supportive environment for anyone navigating TRT. The discussions often highlight practical tips, like scheduling tests or choosing between treatment options such as injections or creams. With over 30,000 members in the women’s group and 32,000 in the men’s group, the collective knowledge is both vast and reassuring.

Women should also be aware of the role testosterone plays in their health. While commonly overlooked, low testosterone in women can lead to symptoms like decreased libido, reduced lean muscle mass, and fatigue. “Tes-

tosterone deficiency in women has the same symptoms as it does in men,” Vergel notes. Postmenopausal women, in particular, should consider hormone level testing as part of their healthcare routine. Dr. Khera points out that “while women naturally produce less testosterone than men, it remains a vital hormone for maintaining muscle strength, bone density, and sexual health.” He stresses that low testosterone can also exacerbate age-related health issues, making it crucial to address.

Vergel’s Women’s Health and HRT group on Facebook is a vital resource for cisgender women seeking guidance on TRT. It offers a treasure trove of user-generated insights and frequently updated information on hormone treatments. Women share experiences with different therapy methods, from patches to low-dose injections, and provide honest feedback about their journeys. “Education is key,” Vergel asserts. “The more you know about your options, the better equipped you are to advocate for your health.”

Whether you’re addressing symptoms of low testosterone or simply exploring ways to optimize your health, TRT can offer a path to renewed vitality. As Vergel notes, “Knowing your hormone levels is foundational to understanding your overall health.” With accessible testing options and expert resources available, your journey toward better health should start today.

“LOW TESTOSTERONE HAS BEEN LINKED TO INCREASED RISKS OF HEART ATTACK, DIABETES, OSTEOPOROSIS, AND DEPRESSION.”

Dr. Mohit Khera, a urologist at Houston’s Baylor College of Medicine

Nelson Vergel, men’s health advocate and founder of Discounted Labs

Core Values

Miguel Mascorro Rosales inspires his clients to reach their full potential.

by ZACHARY M c KENZIE | Photo by DANIEL TUCCI

Pursuing ambitious opportunities in hopes of positively impacting your life—and the lives of your loved ones—is an experience that many know all too well. Local fitness coach Miguel Mascorro Rosales came to America with a goal to do just that. In the process, he discovered his true calling in life: inspiring others to achieve personal fitness and overall health goals that have otherwise gone untapped, unachieved, or unimagined. As a full-time coach at [solidcore] Montrose, Mascorro Rosales is one of the city’s top wellness professionals and invites Houstonians of all fitness backgrounds to embrace the workout that has changed his life.

The 41 year-old native of Tampico, Tamaulipas, Mexico, learned about hard work from an early age. “I’m an only child of a single mom. She had three jobs to provide for us,” he explains. “We didn’t come from wealth of any kind.”

In his late teens, Mascorro Rosales’ mother worked full-time as his grandmother’s caretaker, leading him to ascend as the family’s breadwinner. “I’m very fortunate for everything that my mom did for me in my upbringing. Her sacrifices allowed me to learn English and become bilingual,” he recalls. “That helped me open the doors to a part-time job as an English as a Second Language (ESL) teacher and I was eventually offered a full-time job.”

After a stint as a Starbucks store manager, Mascorro Rosales reached a breaking point in his career. At the age of 31, he decided to take a risk and move to Houston to seek additional opportunities. “It was time to do something better for myself and provide for my mom in a better way.”

In Houston, he found himself among new surroundings sans family, friends, or community. He turned to running as a cost-effective way to clear his mind and boost endorphins. “That was the first big realization of how fitness can impact my life in a positive way,” he explains. “Running cleared my mind in many

ways, and I became very passionate about how I was feeling in my body and my mental health. I quickly realized that I wanted to pursue something related to fitness as a career.”

“I immediately found a job at 24 Hour Fitness in the Galleria as a sales manager.” It was there that Mascorro Rosales learned the operational aspects of a gym while simultaneously observing the personal training on the gym floor. “I wanted a career like that,” he says. After moving on to work at Life Time Fitness, he realized the people were what made his job enjoyable. “I saw my passion for fitness come across and convince people to commit to a

certain level of engagement.”

Soon, a life-changing invitation presented itself. “A former colleague of mine became the first head coach for [solidcore] at the Heights location. She invited me to check out the workout, and I fell in love,” he says. “I felt my body changing really quickly. I’ve never felt my muscles work the way they did with this workout. I knew I wanted to pursue [solidcore] and I wanted to learn more about this workout. I wanted other people to experience it, so I started working part-time, and it eventually became a full-time position at the Montrose location.”

Miguel Mascorro Rosales, a wellness professional and coach at [solidcore].

“I’M 100% AUTHENTICALLY MYSELF AT ALL TIMES, AND THAT’S WHAT ALLOWS ME TO TRULY IMPACT PEOPLE.”

—Miguel Mascorro Rosales

Mascorro Rosales, who also has a background in spin instruction, says the gym is oneof-a-kind. “[solidcore] is a very unique workout,” he stresses. “One of the main focuses that we have at [solidcore] is strengthening the core, specifically the obliques. A lot of people hear ‘core’ and they just think ‘six pack,’ but your core is every single muscle that supports your spine, and that is the foundation of how your body moves. Oblique strength is going to be a primary focus, because of the need that we see within your overall, full body experience that you have with us. We believe [solidcore] is a full body and mind experience, because you’re being challenged, not only physically but mentally throughout the entire class.”

With his [solidcore] studio situated in the heart of Houston’s gayborhood, Mascorro Rosales considers how being a proud gay trainer is reflected in his studio. “I am confident in my knowledge, experience, personality, what I bring to the table, and how I’m able to impact people, because I’m confident in who I am. I’m 100% authentically who I am at all times,” he says. “And I am able to be my most authentic self at [solidcore].”

Mascorro Rosales invites anyone and everyone, no matter their fitness background, to check out a [solidcore] class for a positively transformative experience. “I believe in the workout, because I’ve seen the impact on my own body. I’ve seen people experience it and literally change their lives in many ways. [solidcore] is such a diverse, welcoming environment for everyone, and every single body is welcome.”

Keep up with Miguel Mascorro Rosales on Instagram @solidcore

Maggie Le is working to build a welcoming and inclusive community for queer climbers in Houston. In a sport often dominated by exclusivity and traditional norms, she has created a safe space that now brings together over 30 members.

“Seeing how much we’ve grown in such a short time has been incredible,” she says. “I couldn’t be happier knowing we’re building a space where people feel welcome and excited to try something new.”

While Le didn’t start the group, she has played a pivotal role in its growth.

“I can’t take credit for starting the group, since I only began organizing at the end of January 2024,” Le explains, “but from what

Taking Queer Joy to New Heights

Houston Queer Climbers fosters an inclusive and active wellness community.

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the creator has shared with me, they started it with the simple but powerful goal of creating a safe space for the community they love and introducing them to the sport they’re so passionate about.”

For Le, it’s not just about climbing—it’s about cultivating a community where everyone feels supported, encouraged, and ready to try something new. Often seen as male-dominated and daunting to beginners, the sport might not

appear to be a place where everyone feels comfortable. But Le sees climbing as something much more than just a physical challenge.

“Climbing can be really intimidating for beginners,” she says. “I’ve felt that myself, which is why our group is so important. It’s a place where queer people can feel safe, supported, and part of a community. We give them the chance to experience the sport in a way that feels authentic and empowering.”

For member Evaline Nguyen, Le’s group has become a sanctuary—a place to feel empowered and free while working out and staying active.

“I’m disabled and have a tracheostomy that helps me breathe,” Nguyen says. “After having it placed, I shifted to a mostly sedentary lifestyle, which was a huge change from the active life I had before. Maggie gave me the courage to try something new, and to my surprise, I turned out to be a natural. At first, I struggled to socialize at the gym, but then Maggie invited me to one of the queer climber meets. That’s when everything changed. The group felt so welcoming, and it became more than just about climbing—it was about connecting with a community that understood me. I’ve been a part of it ever since, and it’s been one of the most rewarding experiences of my life.”

The group’s meetups are designed to be accessible and fun for climbers of all experience levels. Whether you’re a seasoned pro or just trying to grip onto the wall for the first time, Lee says the group is about community first and climbing second.

“Climbing is an ideal way to connect with

“SEEING HOW MUCH WE’VE GROWN IN SUCH A SHORT TIME HAS BEEN INCREDIBLE. I COULDN’T BE HAPPIER KNOWING WE’RE BUILDING A SPACE WHERE PEOPLE FEEL WELCOME AND EXCITED TO TRY SOMETHING NEW.”

—Maggie

joined in on the fun afterward. For Le, it was a moment that encapsulated everything the group stands for.

“It felt like we had completely taken over the gym, and the energy was absolutely electric,” she says. “What made it even more special was seeing connections form right before my eyes, and being surrounded by so much queer joy.”

The experience was a powerful reminder for Le of the importance of queer spaces. As the group continues to grow, the friendships formed through climbing extend beyond the gym, creating a deeper sense of support and solidarity.

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others while staying active,” she says. “But beyond the physical challenge, there’s something uniquely fulfilling about climbing; it’s about personal growth, fun, and finding joy in pushing yourself, all while being part of a supportive, inclusive group.”

While the group initially began at Momentum Indoor Climbing on Silver Street, they’ve since gathered at other locations including Momentum Katy and Climb Capuchin. Le and her team have worked hard to build a rotating schedule that keeps things fresh and makes it easier for more members to attend.

One of the group’s standout moments came during Pride Month last year. The group’s largest turnout to date saw over 40 climbers come together for a group photo, and even more

“Some of the people I met through this group have become my closest friends, and I can’t imagine my life without them,” she says.

As the group evolves, Le has big dreams for the future. While climbing will always be at the heart of what they do, they hope to expand into other activities as well.

“We’re hoping to organize outdoor climbing trips in the future,” she says. “I’ve been considering branching out into other activities such as ice skating, pickleball, and volleyball for anyone who might be interested. The ultimate goal is to create a safe space to build meaningful connections. When I joined the group back in 2022, it was the first time in my life that I truly felt seen. That’s what I want for everyone else—a safe space to feel welcomed, supported, and seen.”

Keep up with Houston Queer Climbers on Instagram @htx_houstonqueerclimbers .

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Where Art Forms Collide

Houston’s 2nd Annual Mix-MATCH Festival brings a diverse lineup of performances.

by OLIVIA FLORES ALVAREZ

Photo by VICTOR CONTRERAS / CLOSEYOUREYESPHOTO.COM

On any given day, the Midtown Arts & Theater Center Houston, better known as MATCH, regularly offers local audiences a wildly varied lineup of performances. Few days, however, offer the expansive diversity seen during the second annual Mix-MATCH Festival.

“This is such a unique space,” says Dennis Draper, MATCH’s director of patron services. “On any weekend, you can find dance, music, film, and the occasional cat band at MATCH. I kid you not—a woman has trained stray cats to perform in a band,” he laughs. “We’re called the most diverse city in America. When we think about that, we think about all the different ethnic cultures, but we don’t think about each culture’s various artforms.”

The Mix-MATCH Festival attempts to address that oversight.

“The cool thing about MATCH is that you get to see it all. We are the most diverse city in the country, and you can see that in one weekend at MATCH,” boasts Draper.

Some twenty individual performers and groups will appear on five stages over six hours during the festival. No, the cat band isn’t on the schedule, but the Houston Underwater Film Festival is.

“Houston has lots of film festivals, several of which are held at MATCH. One of the groups that most surprised me was the Houston Underwater Film Festival,” Draper says. “It’s fascinating. It’s everything from short pieces about underwater experiences to full-blown stories filmed underwater. It’s unique. And once you see it, you think, How have I missed this ?”

For the Mix-MATCH Festival, filmmakers, photographers, and visual artists from the Underwater group will screen their work and discuss their often-offbeat journeys to working underwater.

Also on the schedule is Queerbaret featuring Sage Cantu, a trans woman of color who will appear as Artemis Hunter

Trans artist Sage Cantu will perform in Queerbaret, a high-energy celebration of queer art and drag at the Mix-MATCH Festival. ➝

This is the first time that Queerbaret has been performed professionally. Cantu describes the show as a celebration of queer art and drag in a cabaret style.

“I wanted to focus on queer art with a theater twist. It’s a fun, high-energy cabaret show with drag elements,” Cantu says. “The main thing is storytelling through music and dance.”

Queerbaret features several local drag performers. Cantu, in her Artemis Hunter persona, performs a seven-minute selection of songs from Hamilton

The eccentric five-piece band A.S.S., a group that features three accordions, is set to perform an eclectic set list (think Beyoncé and Lou Reed).

Working with violinist Tonya Burton and filmmaker David Rivera , Houston Ballet principal dancer Karina González Edwards performs Precious Gift. The multi-media piece blending dance, music, and film is based on González’s life experience and explores a woman’s journey through pregnancy.

“MATCH IS A GOLDMINE OF ART. YOU’RE GOING TO SEE SOMETHING DIFFERENT, I PROMISE YOU.”

— Dennis Draper, MATCH’s director of patron services

Pronoia Theater mounts Io, A New Myth The comedy, written by Aaron Garrett, follows a woman who strives to rebuild her life after the town she lives in is destroyed. The original music for the show is by Sandra Peck Ramsey.

The Pilot Dance Project , led by Adam Castañada , presents El Baile de Lotería Choreographer Cynthia Garcia brings the characters of the Mexican card game lotería to the stage in a series of vignettes.

In a show aimed at pre-teens and their families, Brave Little Company offers Lost Luggage, an interactive theater piece about suitcases left at baggage claim and the stories they tell.

Dennis Draper is excited about the variety of performers in the Mix-MATCH Festival. Not only are the diverse genres and art forms represented, but renowned world-class performers like Karina González Edwards, usually seen on massive stages before hundreds if not thousands of people, will be seen here in an intimate setting.

“We have performers at every stage of their career,” Draper notes. “Some people are just starting, and others have been performing for decades. Being able to see them side-by-side is unique to MATCH.”

“You can see all this exciting stuff in one

day at the Mix-MATCH Festival,” Draper continues. “If music has been your thing and you’ve been to a concert at MATCH, come see a dance performance or a theater group in one of our Matchbox theaters. Experience something completely different!

“I’m looking for another organization in the United States that does what MATCH does. We haven’t found any other organization that subsidizes artists and offers such a diverse group of performers. MATCH is a goldmine of

A few of last year’s Mix-MATCH performers

art. You’re going to see something different, I promise you.”

The festival ends with the MATCH Mixer, an opportunity to meet and mingle with the participating performers and artists.

WHAT: Mix-MATCH, A Mixed Arts Festival WHEN: January 18, 3 to 9 p.m.

WHERE: MATCH, 3400 Main St.

INFO: For info, call 713-521-4533 or visit matchouston.org/mix-match-festival

OVERVIEW 2025 ASTROCAST

by LILLY RODDY

We start the year with lots of retrogrades. Instead of moving forward like we normally do, we will be taking care of people, things, and events from our past. We will be in retrograde from November 2024 until near the end of April 2025. We may not be able to start our New Year’s Resolutions until April!

With Mars retrograde active in Cancer from January 6 through April 17, this can indicate some anger boiling over, potential violence, more national conflicts, and the country becoming a larger target for our enemies. We should all stay extra-alert during these times.

Eclipses this year are March 14 (Lunar) and March 29 (Solar), September 7 (Lunar), and September 21 (Solar). The eclipses are impacting Aries/Libra and Virgo/Pisces. Eclipses are always openings for new adventures and changes in your life.

This year we have several outer planets—Pluto, Saturn, Neptune, Uranus, and Jupiter—changing signs. Whenever outer planets change signs, there is always a shift in human consciousness. With so many changing in 2024, this can be a demanding time for all of us. It will be important to have plans A, B, C, and some flexibility! This will, of course, impact all the signs.

The latter part of the year calms down some, though we will see some divisiveness reemerge in the winter.

New tech for communications, enhanced privacy, and getting off the grid will all be part of 2025.

ARIES

(Mar. 21–Apr. 19)

This is a very introspective year for you Rams. Two different waves of energy will be impacting you. The first is a deeper dive into your spirituality: why you are here and your larger purpose in life. You may want to pull back, and you will need more quiet time to yourself for reflecting. You may discover that what you thought about people around you isn’t accurate, and you may have to change some of your relationships. The other energy is more about your career and long-term choices. You will be setting better boundaries and won’t be as ready to jump in and help everyone. You will consider the cost of your relationships and how well they support you. This will impact your career direction. You may do something on your own, take on a leadership role, or consider cutting back.

You are being more open and direct in your communications. You may feel you are speeding up, as you have less patience with mundane activity. You may also want to reconnect with friends from your youth and have greater interaction with your family. This can also stimulate you to upgrade your phone and social-media connections.

Home and family become bigger topics after midyear. You may be moving, building a new home, looking for a vacation place, or even increasing the size of your family. This is also a better time to improve situations that have kept you away from your family. This will

be an important time to pay attention to your boundaries, as you will be asked to do a lot! There are changes in your friendships and social groups this year. Some are moving away, and others have distanced themselves from you. Your tolerance for aberrant behavior is very low. If you are in an organization, you will be reviewing whether you want to continue your membership.

TAURUS

(Apr. 20–May 20)

This year begins with a shift in your views about your career. Although you have been reinventing yourself and looking for a new approach that really fits more into your passion, this energy will feel different, as you may no longer feel the need to pursue a particular path. Your industry is going through a shift, and you are rethinking your long-term plans. This could mean relocating, starting something on your own, cutting back, and potentially having to deal with some family shifts. Your focus may change, and that will generate a whole new set of options. This energy impacts those of you born in the early days of Taurus. This will impact the rest of you over the course of the next couple of years. You are taking a whole new look at resources, income, investments, and debt. One clear message is that you do not want to be held hostage by debt. This can stimulate your interest in alternative investments, retooling your own skills, or investing in high-tech firms. You want people to be real and direct with you, as you have little patience for people wasting your time.

This year you are also taking more time to look into the bigger questions of life: Why are we here? Isn’t there a larger purpose for us, or are we just cogs in a machine? This is part of the energy that is at the core of why you are reexamining your career and retirement choices. You want and need more time for yourself. You are looking for something that really works for you and isn’t just words on a page!

GEMINI

(May 21–June 21)

This is a year of adventure and change, particularly for those of you born in the earliest days of the sign. You are looking for more space

to be yourself. Restrictions and limitations can push you away from people or job opportunities. This can have an impact on all your relationships, even as you have access to new partnerships. This energy is compatible with investigating business partnerships.

Career continues to be important this year. You are looking for ways to improve your position and status. You could take on a leadership role, start something on your own, or if you are older, you may be cutting back. In the fall, you will be applying this boundary to your friendships and business associations. If you aren’t happy, you will look elsewhere!

Relationships can be quite tricky this year. You have several energies impacting you, all of them pulling in different directions. One part of you is not interested in relationships, wanting more space and options; another wants a relationship that is fun and uplifting. Yet another wants some clear agreement about future goals with your partner. You may be clearing the way for a partnership in which you have more in common. Or maybe your current partnership just needs an update! After June, you are in a better position for investments and salary negotiations, with some potential for purchasing big-ticket items. You may also want to improve your work skills through classes, or you may go back to school to pursue interests that you abandoned years ago when you first got started. You are seeing the world in a larger perspective, and that helps you find your place!

CANCER

(June 22–July 22)

Career directions are at the top of the menu this year. Several different energies are impacting you. For many of you, a sense of spiritual purpose becomes important. You may question what you are doing or shift your direction within your current career. You may feel called to devote your time and skills to an endeavor that strives to make the world a better place, and if your current position doesn’t accommodate that yearning, you will be looking elsewhere. You are also ready to undertake a leadership position to help others who have similar ideals. This can feel like a rebirth in your career sector.

In June, your mood and enthusiasm improves. There are more opportunities for you in all areas of your life. If you are single, this is a much better time to meet someone new. If you are involved, this energy adds more fun to

your relationship. If you are having some problems, this energy helps to find a more amicable resolution. You may want to travel, take or teach classes, expand your social-media presence, and generally promote your services. If you are a stay-at-home parent, you are taking on more responsibility with the children and your neighborhood!

You are looking for better and safer ways to improve your health and your overall living conditions. You may be interested in generating your own power, learning to live off the land, or disconnecting from the surveillance.

And last but not least is your long-term project to get rid of debt. This can be a better time for refinancing and making your life more manageable.

LEO

(July 23–Aug. 22)

This year represents a time of review, cleaning up and out, facing realities about yourself, and challenging your traditional views about relationships. You will want to rid yourself of your negative relationship patterns that draw in the same energy, no matter the partner. This can show up as your partner taking a new path or exploring a new career. Older relationships may need some major repairs, or they might not make it.

You are looking to expand your social environment this year. You are particularly interested in forming friendships with those who share your core values. You will be drawn to more unique people who reflect your growing interest in activities outside your normal choices. You may also reject some older friends, and you expand your consciousness about society and the role groups play through social networking and shared dreams. You will also be taking a better approach to eating and staying healthy.

Some of you will want to complement your education by upgrading your skills or even going back to school for another degree. This can also be a very good time to work for an international company or a company that has a global customer base. You may travel some this year, but most of it will have a purpose. This could be a great time to enroll in a university in Europe.

You take a deeper dive into your spirituality this year, as well. You will be drawn to ideals different from your own upbringing, particularly Eastern ideals. ➝

This is the year you are clearing out the toxins in your life!

VIRGO

(Aug. 23-Sept.22)

You are looking for new interests and direction with your career this year. You may be feeling bored or trapped or just done, no matter your level of success. Some of you will want to start your own business, while others will want freedom from the routines and demands of daily existence. You may also want to relocate and find a place that has less noise and people. Some of you will want to take a more active role in government or politics in order to promote the ideals of freedom and diversity in our country.

This can also impact your partnerships, both business and personal. If they are too demanding or not flexible enough, you may be operating solo. Overall, in your relationship sector you have been going through a time of review and potential renewal. This represents a time when you have reached the goals set in your relationship, and you need something new to enhance your connections with your partner. Improving your financial environment will also be a big goal this year. You are looking to have more freedom from the financial demands of living. This can be a better time to consolidate your debt and set the goal of paying it off. You may be looking for better places to invest, and better people to handle your money. You are in a more conservative time and will want less risk and a higher chance for success before you are convinced to change. Virgos tend to be more health-conscious than the other signs, and this year you will up your expectations about improving that part of your life. This is the time to get healthy!

LIBRA

(Sept. 23–Oct. 23)

Libra is known for relationships, harmony, and balance. And often, Libras adapt to everyone else’s needs and forget about themselves. This year you will be reviewing how you function in relationships. You will be decidedly more selforiented. This may feel odd initially, but you will eventually enjoy setting better boundaries for yourself. You will be saying “No!” more often.

In your relationships, you will be reviewing and setting new goals for the continuation

of your partnerships. You will also want your partner to participate more in social activities and take the lead in improving the relationship. Difficult partnerships may not make the cut, especially if you both aren’t pulling in the same direction. You are also looking for a deeper spiritual connection with your partner. On the flip side of this energy, some of you may think it’s too costly to be in a relationship and you’d rather enjoy your solitude and not have to change for anyone! This will impact all of your people connections, and they may find that you are not as easy to get along with as before. And they are right!

Career opportunities open up after June. This would be a great time to explore a new path, do something on your own, connect with an international company, or retire and move to the mountains. This same energy may also have you thinking about relocating closer to your work. This is a time of awakening for your inner child. You will want to do things that are more creative and fun! You may also turn your hobbies into something that makes money. You are open to new ideas in this area of your life.

SCORPIO

(Oct. 24–Nov. 21)

This year will see impacts on your family, where you live, and letting go of old ghosts. On the surface, this can show up as remodeling, downsizing your current home, or even moving. You may be doing this for security, better opportunities, and/or leaving a dead industry.

With family, this represents a change in the family hierarchy. This will tend to impact the older people in your family. Some may move on, some may retire, others may step back for some time to comprehend what is going on and what options are out there. You will have some choices to make about where you want to position yourself in the family. All the roles are open. This same energy can impact your career, as you will have a much lower tolerance for people and things you used to be able to ignore. You may be doing therapy and facing fears that have held you back. Your industry is changing, and you are looking at alternatives. This can also push you to do something more on your own.

Financial freedom becomes much more important this year. You are going to take an active role in reducing debt, making better investments, and/or not participating in the “buying consciousness” of most consumers.

Work and health become more important as we move into spring. You will be rearranging

your workspace this year. If you have a home office, it will need to be updated. And you will want a calmer and saner place to work. You are also exploring natural alternatives to better health. This can be an improved diet and eliminating the things that aren’t good for you.

SAGIT TARIUS

(Nov.22–Dec.21)

You are looking for more freedom and more fun this year! Old routines and expectations that have been holding you back will be letting go in the spring. With your work, you are looking for something that is interesting and satisfies your curiosity. You could be updating your office and social-media connections.

Partnerships need some new energy this year. This can be a great year to renew those bonds. If you are single, you are more open to a partnership that gives you options for personal expression. Relationships that don’t adapt may not survive. This is a time of mental stimulation. You may go back to school or take classes for things that interest you.

This year you are working on getting your message out and being clear about how you feel. You are not mincing words and are not as willing to adapt to make others happy. This can be a great time for writing, expanding your socialmedia presence, and updating your equipment and devices. You may also be looking at a new car or finding alternative transportation.

You will want to make your creative endeavors and hobbies into something more substantial this year. This activity will get a lot stronger at the end of spring. You will be drawn to art and activities that have a spiritual purpose attached to them.

Finances should be better this year. You will be able to refinance and/or get rid of debt this year. This can be a very good time to invest in alternative energy sources, foreign currencies, and home building. This is going to be a busy year, so pace yourself!

CAPRICORN

(Dec. 22–Jan. 19)

Your home, family, and base of security is being activated this year. There could be shifts with the older folk, as they may be retiring or stepping back some from participation in family activities.

This can be a time when family issues come to a head and real compromises may have to be made. You may want to remodel or even move to someplace more reasonable. And your home will be more of a retreat than it has ever been. For some, you may want to move away from urban areas and find some peace and quiet. You will be more interested in traditional methods of healing through good food and avoiding products that shorten your life.

This will also impact your career, as it may change or complete a lot of your original goals. There are some things that you may have done before and you won’t do them again. You may want to find a better home/work balance so that you can enjoy more of your life.

You take a more innovative approach to your health and your work area. You may be upgrading your devices and streamlining how you work and live. You are open to new ideas, but they have to be practical and easy to use. Relationships improve overall in June. If you are involved, this is a great year to renew those bonds. If you are single, this year is better for finding people who are interested in partnerships. This applies to business as well. You are expanding your outreach this year. This can show up as working with international business, podcasting, going back to school, or even doing some traveling. You are more than ready to get your year started.

AQUARIUS

(Jan. 20–Feb. 18)

Pluto, the cosmic enema, planet of change and transformation, has entered your sign and will be here for the next 20 years. Initially, Pluto will have the strongest impact on those with early birthdays in the fixed signs of Taurus, Leo, Aquarius, and Scorpio. This year, those of you born in the first five days of your sign are being impacted initially. This is a huge time of rethinking your choices about your life. Some things you have done for years will no longer interest you. Your motives and drives will change, and those will impact your career, your friends, your relationships, and how you feel about yourself on the planet. The rest of you will still feel some of this, even before Pluto officially enters its sphere of influence.

You are paying more attention to your boundaries this year and looking for more peace and quiet in your immediate environment. You may begin to include some rituals such as yoga, meditation, spiritual pursuits,

or connecting to sound waves. This can also be a time when you are connecting with siblings or old friends from your past. You will be clearing up any problems that weren’t resolved.

You are also moving into a more creative time when you may focus on hobbies that could provide financial support. You embrace and take better care of your inner child. If you can, embracing these upcoming changes and taking the lead on these shifts can restore your sense of personal power and reignite your passions. Pluto is ready to clear out the old, the unusable, the past negative emotions, and bring in supportive and positive people into your life.

PISCES

(Feb. 19–Mar. 20)

For you, the first half of this year is a time of decision-making, setting goals, reinforcing boundaries, and being able to tell people “No!” Pisces folk have been going through a long period of personal searching. This could have been a spiritual search, or just a search for the meaning of life. You are now in a time when you are going to be making decisions based on what you have been through for the last several years.

Career is a big topic this year. You are making decisions about what you want to do. If you are older, you may be cutting back. If you are younger, you may want to start something on your own or take more of a leadership role where you are. During the first half of the year, you have the need to validate who you are. Choose your judges carefully.

Finances are also a big topic this year, especially in the latter half of the year. You may be more concerned about your finances and resources. You may be cutting back, getting rid of unwanted services, and paying more attention to your investments. This may also be the time when you seek a raise or increase your fees. You are much more selective about where you spend your funds!

Home and family energies are shifting this year. You will want more space, windows, light colors, and less demands on your personal time. If you have older relatives, they could be retiring or even passing on. You may also feel like moving or making the time you spend at home less challenging. Things may happen quickly here, but you don’t have to make snap decisions. Take your time.

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By DAVID CLARKE

When Kyle Young and Michael Gierl exchanged vows on October 26, 2024, they weren’t just celebrating their love story—they were making history. Their wedding at St. Luke’s United Methodist Church marked the first same-sex marriage at the historic Houston institution, a milestone that reflected both personal and societal progress.

Kyle Young, 57, grew up in Houston’s Briar Meadow neighborhood, spent years in New York, and later returned to the Bayou City. Michael Gierl, 38, hails from Coon Rapids, Minnesota, and now shares a home with Kyle in the Galleria area. Though their paths seemed worlds apart, a fateful encounter on the dating platform OkCupid brought them together in December 2014.

“Michael sent me this multi-paragraph message, and I thought, ‘Who is this kid?’” Kyle recalls, laughing. “It was thoughtful and mature—and he’s handsome, of course.”

Michael, who describes himself as the ‘move maker,’ had been drawn to Kyle’s smile and intellectual depth.

Their first date in January 2015 was a twopart adventure that captured the romantic magic of winter in New York City. After meeting for coffee and strolling through Central Park, they shared a cozy Mediterranean dinner on the Upper West Side. “We ended up talking for hours,” Kyle says. “It was so easy from the start.”

By late spring of that year, Michael had moved into Kyle’s Manhattan apartment, a decision that felt natural despite their short courtship. “It all happened organically,” Michael says. “Through honest conversations and shared values, it just worked.”

Over the years, their relationship deepened, fueled by mutual respect and emotional intelligence. Yet, marriage wasn’t an immediate priority. “We’d talked about it on and off,” Kyle explains. “For a long time, we didn’t feel like we needed it. But with the political climate shifting, it became important to publicly claim

this right.”

Initially, the couple planned a simple courthouse ceremony. However, the United Methodist Church’s landmark decision on May 1, 2024, to allow same-sex marriages opened new possibilities. For Kyle, who had grown up attending St. Luke’s, the opportunity to marry in his childhood church was deeply meaningful. “This place has always been special to me,” he says. “Having our wedding here felt like coming full circle.”

Kyle’s connection to St. Luke’s goes back decades. Dr. Tom Pace, the church’s senior pastor and Kyle’s former youth minister, had been a vocal advocate for LGBTQ inclusion within the Methodist Church. When St. Luke’s board of trustees voted on September 23 to allow same-sex weddings, Kyle and Michael booked the chapel immediately.

“We weren’t sure what the outcome would be,” Kyle admits. “We sent out invitations that said, ‘Location to be determined.’ We knew Tom would officiate, but it was a relief when the board’s decision came through.”

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Kyle Yaoung (l) and Michael Gierl

For Michael, the religious aspect of the wedding was initially challenging. “As someone raised Catholic, I had a lot of healing to do,” he admits. “But meeting with Tom, who approached everything with openness and curiosity, changed my perspective. The ceremony ended up being profoundly healing for me and my family.”

Michael’s father, a Catholic deacon, faced his own internal conflict about attending the wedding. He ultimately wrote to his bishop, explaining his desire to support his son despite church doctrine. While his request for official permission to attend the ceremony was denied, he chose to travel to Houston to participate in events surrounding the wedding. “That moment of connection was deeply meaningful,” Michael says. “It was a beautiful bridge between my family and our life together.”

Tom Pace, who officiated the ceremony, created space for Michael’s father to pray privately in the church’s sanctuary during the ceremony. Afterward, the newlyweds met him there for an intimate moment of connection. “It was so moving,” Kyle shares. “Seeing the effort he made to be there meant so much to us both.”

The wedding day itself was a reflection of the couple’s personalities: intimate, joyful, and elegant. Jacqueline Andrade of J. Andrade Visual Arts captured the day with stunning photography, including a special session with the couple’s dog, Fig. Mory Azadi of Tanglewood Flowers and Garden provided lush floral arrangements that added a touch of romance to the chapel’s timeless beauty.

The ceremony included heartfelt vows, a blessing from Dr. Pace, and a palpable sense of history. “Being the first same-sex couple to marry at St. Luke’s felt monumental,” Michael says. “We hope it’s the first of many.”

The celebration continued at Hugo’s, where guests enjoyed a lively reception featuring the Mariachi Amor all-female mariachi band. “They were incredible,” Kyle says. “We thought they’d be cool background music, but they became the life of the party. Even Michael’s family from Wisconsin and Minnesota couldn’t resist dancing.”

Opting for a relaxed afternoon gathering, the couple served hors d’oeuvres, margaritas, and desserts like churros and tres leches cake. “It was simple and light,” Kyle says. “Exactly what we wanted.”

“The team at Hugo’s went above and beyond,” Michael adds. “Their remodeled space was stunning, and every detail was perfect.”

The mariachi band brought an unexpected

energy to the room. “We found them on Instagram,” Kyle shares. “Their acoustic setup and all-female lineup were unique, and they turned the reception into a celebration we’ll never forget.”

For their honeymoon, the newlyweds traveled to Thailand, one of the first Asian countries to recognize same-sex marriage. “We wanted to support a country that supports us,” Michael explains. The trip, filled with cultural exploration and tropical relaxation, was the perfect start to their married life.

“Thailand was incredible,” Kyle says. “We chose it because neither of us had been to Asia, and their recent progress on LGBTQ+ rights felt significant to us. It was the adventure of a lifetime.”

As Kyle and Michael reflect on their decade together, they’re filled with gratitude— not just for their love, but for the community that supported them. “Our wedding was about more than us,” Kyle says. “It was a celebration of progress, of love in all its forms, and of the people who made it possible.”

“We hope our story inspires others,” Michael adds. “Whether it’s finding love, healing relationships, or making history, it’s all worth celebrating.”

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Capricorn ’s steady influence, and other retrograde reflections

We are off to a slow start in the New Year. Mars is currently retrograde, and both Venus and Mercury will join in on the retrograde fun in February, March, and April! These retrogrades provide a time to take care of things we have put off or avoided. With Mars retrograde, we are dealing with our anger and our need to be ourselves. People may be more self-focused and not as tolerant or polite as usual. Work on your new plans, but don’t start them till mid-April.

ARIES (Mar. 21–Apr. 19)

You start the month focused on career, friends, social and business organizations, and looking for ways to have more time to yourself. You are looking to get back on track as you start the New Year by clarifying longterm career and security goals. Friends are especially important this month. You need to know you have support from like-minded people. You are excluding some people from your life because of major differences. Home and family are a big deal this year, as retrograde Mars, your ruler, is stirring things up there. You could be doing home repairs, relocating, or downsizing. You are not as patient as you normally are, but you are communicating better and people are finally listening to you. As the month ends, you are ready to retreat from all of the expectations and demands.

TAURUS (Apr. 20–May 20)

There is major focus on your career this month. Your career is changing, and you are going to have to make some decisions about your current direction. Some of you will take on a leadership role, some of you will start something on your own, and others will definitely do some downsizing. Family problems may also require you to rethink decisions. Some changes are beyond your control, and you will just have to respond to them as best you can. In the latter part of the month, you are more social and wanting to connect with friends. With business groups, you are more likely to take a leadership role or find a group that is more appropriate to your needs. Friendships may be more difficult, as they may need more from you than you can give at the moment.

GEMINI (May 21–June 21)

You continue to aware of your need to have more options in your partnerships and in your career. You had been rethinking this area in 2024, so you are now clearer about your overall plan. The retrograde pattern for the start of the year may keep you from moving

This month, the sun starts in Capricorn and enters Aquarius on the 19th. Mercury moves through Sagittarius, Capricorn, and eventually Aquarius. Venus starts the month in Aquarius but soon enters Pisces for the rest of the month.

Mars starts a month-long retrograde in Leo, but soon reenters Cancer on the 6th.

Good days this month are the 12th, 13th, 17th, 19th, 23rd, 25th, 26th, and the 30th. Days to stay in bed are the 2nd, 3rd, 6th, 7th, 16th, 18th, 21st, and the 29th.

forward until mid-April. This is a better time for you to reach out to others, consider upgrading your skills, and make travel plans for the future. Your established views are being challenged, and you are seeing the world with a much wider perspective. Your connection to business support groups, teamwork, and friends is changing. You are not as open to hearing about their issues or offering support unless they are willing to take the lead on solving their problems. You are more direct and real with people through the end of April.

CANCER (June 22–July 22)

You have a lot on your mind this month. Mars, planet of action, self-defense, instinctual action, and anger, continues to retrograde through your sign. Mars retrograde is a very good time to take care of things you have been avoiding, restart exercise and diet programs, and confront the people you need to. Mars will be direct in March, and that will give you the power and confidence to move forward with your plans. Initially, relationships are the primary topic as the month begins. This is a good time to renew bonds and resolve problems. In the latter part of the month, you are looking for greater trust in relationships, as you are more open to your deeper thoughts and ideas. You will also be wanting to resolve debt problems so you can feel more free and have more options. Rethinking your career direction is in your future!

LEO (July 23–Aug. 22)

As the month opens, you are trying to feel more grounded and connected to your routines. You may be restarting your health programs for the New Year. Relationships are a big theme for you this month and for several years to come. You are breaking negative patterns in partnerships. This is primarily about you, and not really about your partners. You are expecting more from all your partnerships, and will be setting new rules. In a positive relationship, this is a time of setting new goals. In a difficult partnership, this is about find -

ing some sort of resolution. If you are single, you are more clear about what you want. In contrast to this energy, you are also more sensitized to your environment and may need more time to yourself. This will be an area of balance this month.

VIRGO (Aug. 23–Sept.22)

Your creative energies are strong this month, as well as a sense of bringing your ideas to fruition. This can be a very good time to consider a hobby as potential income. Your personal work habits and routines are the focus this month. You may be restarting a health program, cleaning up your workspace, and upgrading your devices. You are also working to bring more peace and cooperation in your workspace. Relationship issues continue to share center stage. This is the perfect time to set new goals, resolve problems, or be okay with not needing to have a partner. Career activity will continue to be busy, and even busier after the end of January. You should be hearing from friends and clients from your past through the end of March. This is a very good month to reach out to old friends and reconnect.

LIBRA (Sept. 23–Oct. 23)

You hold on to the traditions of the holidays even throughout January. This is a very good month for being more creative and playful, enjoying your children more, and connecting with your friends just to have more fun! You are not ready to go back to your old routines. You may be upgrading your office or improving your home office. Career energies can be intense this month and through April. Mars retrograde, planet of action and no patience, is active in your career sector. This can mean that problems at work have to be resolved before you can move forward. Your anger will be visible, and others will take notice. Normally, you are the one who looks for compromise, but you are much more self-oriented

with Mars so active. Exercise is always a good idea when Mars is active, but don’t overdo it.

SCORPIO (Oct. 24–Nov. 21)

You are reworking your base or foundation so that you can feel more stable in this time of change. Initially, you are rethinking your career path, where you are not as patient and may be looking for something that stirs your passion. At home, the energy for change continues to increase. There are huge shifts in your family, and there could be a whole new order of the family hierarchy. For some, this can be a time to start over and begin a whole new direction. Others may be cutting back, retiring, or attempting to live off the grid. There could also be home repairs and possible relocating. Your relationships are also changing as you set new goals for your partnership. Any time after mid-April is a better time for making your decisions and having them stick.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov.22–Dec.21)

As the month opens, you are more direct with people, and you are feeling more concerned about your finances, savings, and debt. You will be taking action to cut back on areas or services that no longer help you. As you ease yourself back into your routines, you pay more attention to your daily activities. You may be eliminating some of your usual routines and setting new goals for others. This is a better month for writing, podcasting, or even taking a class. You are more open to new ideas and points of view.

Family stability continues to be a strong concern. You may be taking a lead role in family matters. This can also be a time when older family members are passing on. Be clear about what help you can give, and what you cannot do! Others view you as strong and don’t see how sensitive you really are.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22–Jan. 19)

This is your birthday month, a time when you look back at the past experiences that may shape your future. Finances take the lead as the month begins. You are looking to improve your resource base, possibly raise your fees, or ask for a raise. You are also more interested in reducing debt so that you don’t feel so trapped by your income. This can be a time when you decide to do something on your own, and rely on your own skills and abilities. With Mars retrograde in your relationship sector, your partnerships need some attention, and right way! This can be a great time to renew those bonds. If you are having problems, they have to be addressed. You are still in a push-pull process with your decisions. You will feel more confident by mid-April.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20–Feb. 18)

As the month opens, you are in your normal restand-retreat mode that you customarily enjoy right after the holidays come to an end. You are more sensitive to your environment and may avoid excessive interactions until midmonth. You are ready to make

some real changes in your life. You may be exploring changes to your career, your relationship, and where you live. You are getting rid of any unnecessary items or people that might hold you back. You are detoxing your system of negative energies. This can be an excellent month for therapy, a total change in your diet, and a great time to clean out those storerooms. Your need for personal freedom and more options extends to family as well. Your tolerance there is low, and you are tired of waiting for them to “get it.”

PISCES

(Feb. 19–Mar. 20)

You are a little more laid back as the month begins. Normally, this is a more social time when you enjoy connecting with your friends, but your psychic sensitivity is stronger than ever. This is causing you to choose your surroundings and company more carefully. You are continuing to be more conscious of your future, particularly future plans related to your career and to your partnerships. You are also continuing to set better boundaries and telling people No more often. In your partnerships, this is a time to set new goals and to make sure that both of you are moving in the same direction. You are also looking at possibly moving or making some repairs to your current abode. Finances and debt become more important as we move into the New Year. All decisions about moving forward should wait until mid-April to ensure maximum success.

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The Queen of the Green

Mari Jane keeps it blunt.

By SAM BYRD

Mari Jane is in touch with her green side, and we’re not just talking about her uncanny ability to belt Elphaba’s riff from “Defying Gravity.”

When not flying high like the Witch of the West, Mari Jane keeps busy by creating her own buzz on the drag scene—and collecting the grass while she’s at it. Although new to the scene, she has smoked out the competition to emerge as the winner of the inaugural Persephone’s Game of Drag. Don’t puff, puff and pass up the opportunity to learn more about her all-natural talent.

Pronouns? She/Her

Inner avatar?

I see myself as a divine feminine, being unlike any other.

Hometown? Magnolia, Texas

Is there a story behind your stage name? I’m very in tune with the earth.

What did you wear for this photo? It’s the big pink princess dress I’ve always wanted.

What got you interested in drag?

I’ve always loved RuPaul’s Drag Race, and then I found local drag and really fell in love.

How would you describe your performing persona?

When performing, I am a sexy, feminine, unstoppable force.

What’s on your bucket list? Performing on Broadway.

Your most memorable moment as a performer?

Finishing a 14-minute-long talent number.

What’s your ultimate goal as a performer?

To be able to perform full time and do what I love as my forever job.

Any thoughts about the legislation restricting drag performances? They just can’t handle the fierceness.

What are your favorite hangout spots? Nothing beats the Ripcord patio after a show.

How would you describe your aesthetic? I’d describe myself as a modernized Marilyn. I love old-school showgirls and burlesque with a modern twist.

What’s your must-have clothing accessory or prop? I love a tear-away skirt.

What do you do in your down time? I love to relax in a bubble bath.

Who is your celebrity crush? Jonathan Bailey, as Fiero.

Any advice for the up-and-coming drag performers?

Stick to you, and don’t worry about what other people are doing.

Who is your favorite drag character from media, and why?

I’ve always loved Adore Delano since her original season. She’s beautiful, talented, and doesn’t care what anyone else says.

What was your dream job as a child? I used to want to be a painter. Now I just paint my face.

Where and when do you perform?

Montrose, Midtown, downtown—and soon I’ll be taking over the world.

How would you describe the Houston area’s drag scene for a visitor?

It’s fierce and cutthroat behind the scenes, but it’s some of the most entertaining drag you’ll ever see.

If you could pick one celebrity (living or dead) to perform with you, who would it be, and why?

Marilyn Monroe. I just know we would be sickening.

Follow Mari Jane on Instagram @themarijanee.

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