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Four Houstonians among Eight LGBTQ Texans Murdered in 2017 State records highest total in nation, which saw 86 percent increase in deadly hate violence.

By Lourdes Zavaleta

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randi Seals grew up misunderstood by her peers. When she transitioned at 14, her classmates physically and verbally attacked her. “She was bullied most of her life,” says her mother, Mazda Seals. “Brandi was beaten, raped, and robbed on several occasions. I constantly feared for her.” Seals says her biggest fear became a reality on December 13, 2017, when she received a call from the Houston Police Department informing her that Brandi, 26, had been found shot to death at the site of an under-construction Sunnyside home. Brandi, a black transgender woman, was at least the eighth LGBTQ person murdered in Texas in 2017, the highest total of any state in the U.S., according to a report from the National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs (NCAVP). “We’ve heard a lot of hate rhetoric from our elected officials, both locally and nationally,” said Lou Weaver, Houston-based transgender programs coordinator for Equality Texas. “With this in place, more people are likely to be anti-LGBTQ. Anti-LGBTQ legislation has led to groupthink and a mob mentality.” At least 52 LGBTQ people were killed nationwide last year as a result of hate-related violence, according to the NCAVP report. That is the highest number in the 20 years that the NCAVP has tracked LGBTQ murders, and represents an 86 percent increase from 2016. “Trump won the election by saying it was time to take back America for people feeling pushed out by LGBTQ people, immigrants, and people of color,” NCAVP executive director Beverly Tillery told the Huffington Post. “It was a tactical move to attack those communities. It worked, and there are more instances of violence because the climate in the country has changed. It has given an opening for people

Not Forgotten Houston police chief Art Acevedo, right, speaks at a vigil outside City Hall in December for transgender murder victim Brandi Seals, as mayor Sylvester Turner looks on. Seals was one of eight LGBTQ Texans murdered in 2017, the most in any state.

to feel like they can commit acts of hate-based violence without much repercussion.” Twenty-seven of the 52 LGBTQ murder victims were trans, and 22 of the trans victims were, like Seals, women of color. Of the eight Texans murdered, four were trans, three were trans women of color, and six were people of color. In 2016, the NCAVP reported the death of only one LGBTQ Texan, Eryka Tijerina, a Latina trans woman. The number of Texas LGBTQ murders jumped to seven in the coalition’s 2017 report, but it did not include Devon Wade, a 28-year-old gay black man who was fatally shot in his Atascocita home on Novem-

ber 26. Wade’s boyfriend, Mario Williams, turned himself in after the shooting and has been charged with murder. Seals’ death is also being investigated as a homicide. Seals was misgendered (or “deadnamed” as male) in media reports about her murder, including by a Houston police detective. Police chief Art Acevedo attended a vigil for Seals outside City Hall and apologized for the detective’s comments, vowing to conduct more training. Seals was correctly identified by Houston activist Atlantis Narcisse, a black trans woman and the founder of Save Our Sisters, a support group for trans women of color. ➝

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“Being misgendered speaks volumes about how trans folk are disrespected, even in death,” Narcisse said. “It is time for society to stop creating our narratives.” After growing up in South Houston, Seals transitioned while attending Westfield High School, where she later dropped out because of bullying, according to her mother. In her 20s, Brandi attended Houston Community College and studied cosmetology. Around that time, she also turned to sex work to pay for gender-confirmation surgery. Brandi’s family suspects that a male suitor was responsible for her death. The investigation into Seals’ murder is still in its early stages, according to HPD spokesman Kese Smith. Anyone with information should call Crime Stoppers at 713-222-TIPS (8477). The other Texas LGBTQ murder victims in 2017 were:

• Glenser Soliman, a 44-year-old gay Asian man who was found dead in Houston on February 25. Authorities believe Soliman was lured to his death while using a dating app. Brandon Lyons has charged with Soliman’s murder. Lyons and his cousin Jerrett Allen, who was also identified as a suspect, may be responsible for more deaths targeting gay men. • An Nguyen, a 26-year-old Asian man who identified as gay, was last seen in Houston on March 31 and is presumed dead. His disappearance has also been linked to Lyons and Allen. Allen has been charged with the unauthorized use of Nguyen’s credit cards. • Kenne McFadden, a 27-year-old black trans woman, was killed in San Antonio on April 8. She was originally misgendered in media reports, and her death was mistakenly classified as a drowning. Her death was reclassified as a homicide and Mark Daniel Lewis has been charged in her murder.

• Robert Lee Covington, a 54-year-old white gay man, was found suffocated to death in his home in Dallas on July 7. According to media reports, a man named Yevin Rushing met Covington on Craigslist and has since been charged in connection with his homicide. • Gwenevere River Song, a 26-year-old white trans person, was fatally shot in Waxahachie on August 12. Song, who used “they” pronouns, was allegedly killed by their father after an argument at home escalated to violence. • Elizabeth Stephanie Montez, a 47-year-old Latinx trans woman, was fatally shot near Robstown on October 21. Authorities and local media both misgendered Montez in initial reports. Police have since arrested and charged three suspects with her murder. Lourdes Zavaleta is a regular contributor to OUTSMART magazine.

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On Feb. 10, OutReach United hosted the Red Hot Party and Live Burlesque at Pearl Bar Houston. Pictured are Jack Berger, Sallie Wyatt-Woodell, Gary Wood, Julie Mabry, Micheal Reeves, Tim Stokes, Bob Briddick, Carol Wyatt-Woodell, and Bryant Johnson-Wood.

On Feb. 3, Rich’s Houston hosted The Fantasy of Las Vegas: A Mystery & Fantasy Mardi Gras Ball. Pictured are hosts and supporters. On Feb. 17, George’s Country Sports Bar hosted a Gumbo Cookoff benefitting the Montrose Center. Pictured are Steve Evans, Walter Pollpeter, and George Konar.

On Jan. 10, Bunnies on the Bayou hosted Honey Bunnies at Neon Boots. Pictured are representatives from Bunnies on the Bayou and beneficiary organizations.

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On Feb. 8, the Alley Theatre hosted ActOUT featuring The Great Society. Pictured are Kevin Pope, Matthew Janak, Davin Hutcheson, Lauren Pelletier, Damon Price, John Roberts, and Tina Berry.

From Feb. 15–18, the Houston Council of Clubs hosted Let Us Entertain You (LUEY) Weekend at various venues. Pictured are members of the Houston Council of Clubs.

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Miss Richfield 1981 hosts this year’s Diana Awards celebration.

t’s the LGBT black-tie event of the year and you don’t want to miss it! This year the Diana Awards will be held at the Hilton Post Oak Hotel on the 10th. It all starts with a reception and silent auction followed by the traditional group photo, dinner, awards, and entertainment. This year it will be Bubba McNeely,

Photographic Foundation, Out for Education, University of Houston LGBTQ Resource Center, and University of Houston Libraries. —Marene Gustin

65th Annual Diana Awards • March 10 • Tickets: $250 to $500 • thedianafoundation.org

Radio * Performing Arts A Art & Photography + Other Things V Save The Date

1 * thru 3 A screening of Oscar-nominated short live-action films. mfah.org

Oscar at the Museum

2 HSPVA Friends Encore Luncheon

Peacock in the Desert: The Royal Arts of Jodhpur, India thru August 19

The history of India’s extraordinarily vibrant culture, through some 250 objects. mfah.org

The 12th annual event honors alumna. hspvafriends.org

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Tish DeWilliams, Billie Jean, Mary Griffin, and other surprise guests. The fabulous Miss Richfield 1981 hosts the evening, and Harris County district attorney Kim Ogg is the Diana Award honoree. Proceeds benefit Bayou City Performing Arts, The Botts Collection, Dalton Dehart

3 + It’s the inaugural season for this new rugby team. houstonsabercats.com Leap and the Net Will Appear *& 4 A new play by Chana Porter. catastrophictheatre.com SaberCats

6 + Golf tournament for diabetes research. jdrf.org

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7 * thru 23 Solargraphs by Bill Wittliff. rice.edu Ann * thru April 8 The one-woman play about Texas governor Ann Richards, written by Holland Taylor. stagestheatre.org Sunrise Sunset

4 + The walk starts downtown, and there’s a free concert afterward. aidshelp.org

AIDS Walk Houston

8 Cirque du Soleil’s Corteo * thru 11 Corteo is a joyous procession, a festive parade imagined by a clown. The cast includes 51 acrobats, musicians, singers, and actors from all around the world. houstontoyotacenter.com

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9 Re:Construction A A new group exhibition. mcclaingallery.com

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Biorhythm: Music and the Body

by Chinese-born, Houston-based artist Gao Hang. artleaguehouston.org

+ thru 25 Join skaters at this outdoor roller rink in Discovery Green. discoverygreen.com

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14 Treachery of Material: The Surrealist Impulse in Craft thru April 15

Michael Crowder and Julia Maria Künnap, two artists who use surrealist strategies and references in their work. crafthouston.org

War Toys: Israel, West Bank & Gaza Strip last day Photographs of

children in war-torn lands. uhcl.edu

Houston Livestock Show & Rodeo

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thru 24 Music, more. recroomarts.org

20 Eye on Houston: High School Documentary Photography thru June

24 Exhibition of student photographs. mfah.org

22 Conversations at The Center + John Pluecker and Carrie Marie Schneider. galvestonartscenter.org Keels & Wheels Uncorked + Fundraiser with wine, food, and classic cars. keels-wheels.com

+ thru April 1 PGA golf tournament. houstonopen.org Houston Open

A thru 25 Outdoor festival in Memorial Park. artcolonyassociation.org

Bayou City Art Fest

Sherlock Holmes and the Spinsters of Blackmead and 24 The game is

afoot! theatresuburbia.org

Food trucks and cocktails at the museum. mfah.org

Carpocalypse + Free family event to raise funds for Houston Zombie Walk. houstonzombiewalk.org After Dinner Affair + Fundraiser for the A. D. Players. adplayers.org

27 Dissent and Desire A thru April 29 This exhibition is comprised of a series of 48 photographs and companion first-person texts depicting an unprecedented portrait of LGBTQ+ lives in India today. camh.org

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29 Happy Hour Thursdays at MFAH

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money for a reforestation program. houstontx.gov

thru June 10 Masterworks from the Museo e Real Bosco di Capodimonte, Naples. mfah.org

+ Fundraiser for the Center. montrosecenter.org

Bringin’ in the Green

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The Rob Landes Trio (See page 22.) Tour de Houston Bike ride to raise

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thru July 31 Make music with your body. thehealthmuseum.org Spring Break Crafts + thru 16 Kids of all ages can come for free craftmaking sessions. houstoncraft.org

Good Times, Bad Times, Give Me last day Exhibition Some of That

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How Will Tax Changes Affect You? Employees should already see updated figures on their paychecks.

he major tax reforms approved by Congress became law on December 22, so it is important to understand how the new rules will affect you—particularly in terms of income-tax withholding and housing-expense deductions. Over the last few years, married same-sex couples have had some extra “homework” to do in figuring out which tax deductions are available to them. Add to that a plethora of new tax rules, and you can almost feel the headaches coming on. There is some good news, though: the new tax law won’t apply to your 2017 return due next month. The rules will, however, have an impact on what you are responsible for during 2018 in terms of income tax and/or mortgage interest that you may (or may not) be able to deduct on real-estate loans. Overall, the new rules are meant to reduce the amount of income tax that is withheld from employees’ paychecks, after taking into account exemptions you claim on your W-4 form. According to supporters of the tax reforms, the lower tax rates will mean that roughly 90 percent of American workers will see their takehome pay increase. Employers were required to adopt the changes by February 15, so employees should already be seeing the updated figures reflected in their paychecks. However, you may not see an overall reduction in your tax bill until you file your 2018 return next year. In addition, based on updates to some longstanding tax credits, the final impact of the new law remains to be seen. Although some taxpayers can claim new credits, the personal exemption has gone away. In addition,

since the standard deduction has doubled to $24,000 for married couples, it may not make sense for couples to itemize or claim other deductions. For many years, the home-mortgage tax deduction has been a nice benefit to those who own their own piece of the American dream. But the new law means that some homeowners may not fare as well as they have in the past. Between now and 2025, interest payments on mortgages of up to $750,000 can be deducted (versus the previous cap of $1 million). It is also important to keep in mind that under the new legislation, you won’t be allowed to deduct more than $10,000 of property taxes or state and local sales tax. The new tax law could also have an impact on what is or is not deductible in terms of investment expenses and financial-services costs. For example, the bill repeals certain deductions for investment fees and expenses, as well as convenience fees (for using a debit or credit card to pay your taxes) and trustee fees for an IRA, if paid separately. In addition, the new tax law eliminates deductions for alimony payments that are required by post-2018 divorce agreements. For those who take the standard deduction,

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that has been nearly doubled to $12,000 for single tax filers and $24,000 for those who are married and filing jointly. Likewise, this deduction will rise to $18,000 for those who file as head of household. As of right now (early in 2018), individual taxpayers won’t need to make any changes to their W-4s. However, later this year the IRS intends to introduce a new version of the W-4 form that may require employees to make adjustments in order to ensure that all of the proper information is being included in your withholding calculation. Most tax laws are complicated, and these new rules are no exception. With that in mind, it is important that you discuss your situation with someone who is knowledgeable in both tax law and financial planning prior to making any changes to your investments this year. Grace S. Yung, CFP, is a certified financial planner practitioner with experience in helping domestic partners plan their finances since 1994. She is a principal at Midtown Financial LLC in Houston and was recognized as a “FiveStar Wealth Manager” in the 2014 September issue of Texas Monthly. Yung can be reached at grace.yung@lpl.com.

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FOR YOUR CALENDAR Check out these fabulous events co-sponsored by O UT S MART and our marketing partners. March 3: OUTSMART Pride Night at the Houston Sabercats rugby game. outsmartmagazine.com

March 23-25: Bayou City Art Festival in Memorial Park, benefitting Houston nonprofits. bayoucityartfestival.com

March 4: AIDS Walk Houston 2018, benefitting AIDS Foundation Houston as well as other local HIV/AIDS charities. aidswalkhouston.org

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March 8: Act Out at the Alley presenting Satchmo at the Waldorf. Enjoy complimentary pre-performance reception. alleytheatre.org/actout March 10: The Diana Foundation presents the 65th Annual Diana Awards, benefitting local charities. thedianafoundation.org March 10: The Houston Pride Band presents “Sail the Seven Seas” concert. houstonprideband.org March 16: Bringin’ In the Green presented by the Montrose Center, benefitting the Center. montrosecenter.org

April 1: Bunnies on the Bayou 39 benefitting several local LGBT charities. (new location for this year only) bunniesonthebayou.org April 7: Human Rights Campaign presents the 21st HRC Houston Gala. hrchhouston.org April 21: Bering United Methodist Church, “Oodles of Noodles” All You Can Eat Pasta” Benefitting the Bering Support Network. beringsupportnetwork.org April 26: The Council on Recovery 35th Annual Luncheon featuring Kristen Johnston, benefitting the council. councilonrecovery.org

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Taste the Rainbow YouTube star takes apart Trump, one show tune at a time. By Kim Hogstrom

uring the 2016 presidential campaign, a strange new face popped into our Facebook feeds. There was a 30-something man with crystal-blue eyes, a golden voice, and a flowered bonnet singing some new lyrics he had written to the “Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious” tune from the film Mary Poppins. This rendition about Donald Trump described the unlikely (and unlikable) candidate as “super-callous, fragile ego, extra-braggadocious” in an impeccable imitation of Julie Andrews’ beloved Disney character. Many viewers became instant fans, and the four-minute viral video received 28 million views in the two days after it was posted. Since then, 36-year-old Randy Rainbow (yes, that’s his real name) has become an online star, creating approximately one new video every two weeks with Donald Trump and his cast of clowns as the subject matter. To express their gratitude to the artist for helping them laugh through the tears and fears of the Trump presidency, Rainbow’s fans launched a line of T-shirts featuring an image of him in a nun’s habit. The tagline says, “Thank you Randy Rainbow for saving me!” Rainbow’s work has also been touted in the New York Times, the Huffington Post, Mother Jones, the Miami Herald, and Vanity Fair. The cast of Will and Grace even asked him to write a special number for a charitable event that the four stars hosted, and Rainbow was offered a major role in a musical commercial produced by Will and Grace costar Sean Hayes. But who is the New York City man behind those pink cat-eye reading glasses?

Rainbow lives in Queens in a one-bedroom apartment with his cat, Moshi. Remarkably, he writes, shoots, edits, and scores the videos himself—often during one of his all-night marathons. Thanks to the magic of a green screen, we see him interviewing “Sarah Huckabee Sandbag” (his name for Trump’s press secretary) in the White House Press Room, or Trump himself in the Oval Office. Somehow, Rainbow is able to churn out his beautiful, funny commentaries on American politics in a matter of hours, alone, with only Moshi to assist. He always creates them as quickly as possible after a memorable White House pronouncement, such as when Kellyanne “Con-artist” (his name for Trump’s longtime adviser) said our microwave ovens may be watching us, or whenever Trump taunts North Korea with a tweet. “The videos have to be timely, so I have to move fast,” Rainbow explains. Rainbow’s takeoff on “How Do You Solve a Problem Like Maria?” from The Sound of Music, sung while wearing a nun’s habit, is titled “How Do You Solve a Problem Like Korea?” and was posted the day after Trump coined his “Little Rocket Man” nickname for North Korean leader Kim Jong-un. Following a week of particularly scathing presidential tweets, Rainbow took Carrie Underwood’s hit song “Before He Cheats” and turned it into “(Maybe He’ll Think) Before He Tweets.” The 2017 Country Music Awards did the same thing—after Rainbow. An original from every angle, this multitalented performer grew up in South Florida

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as an only child of “very funny” Jewish parents, he says. “I have been in musical theater my entire life. I was in the theater throughout high school, and just went on from there. Fortunately, I had a supportive family who encouraged me every step of the way.” As an out gay man, he is grateful to his parents in that arena, too. “When I told them I was gay, it was no big deal. I think they knew. After all, I started in ballet at the age of six. After I saw Dirty Dancing as a kid, I announced that I wanted to be Jennifer Grey so I could dance with Patrick Swayze. I asked my dad to help me practice ‘the lift’ in our living room. I think that was also the full extent of my participation in sports as a child.” In fact, Rainbow’s first musical parody was created years ago. Called “Born This Gay,” it is still available on iTunes. How does he come up with his material? “There is plenty of it out there,” he says. “I am most comfortable when my subjects are older, misogynistic, homophobic, racist white men. They are my specialty, and they are abundant these days. “In this administration, it’s sort of an embarrassment of riches,” he adds. With the presidential election now in the rear-view mirror, how does he reflect on the outcome? After all, that, coupled with his enormous talent, launched him into cyberstardom. “That night, the night Trump won, I felt nauseous. I got drunk, and I’ve been nauseous and drunk ever since,” he says flatly, with only a hint of humor. ➝

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here is an element of innocence in Rainbow’s videos that warrants mention. The brilliant, funny, and often caustic jabs at the Trump administration are somehow lacking a mean spirit. It’s an intriguing combination. “That’s how I’ve always been,” Rainbow explains. “It is a coping mechanism. I deliver a shovel of truth with a spoonful of sugar at the same time. It’s that ‘catch more flies with honey’ thing. The best part is that there are people who do not think like I do about politics—and many other things, too—but they still enjoy the videos. I hear from them all the time. That part is very rewarding for me.” In response to his adoring fans, Rainbow is taking his show on the road. On March 23, he will appear at Houston’s House of Blues. Lucky attendees will see him perform all of their favorite numbers, accompanied by a live band. At the end, he will take questions and answers from the audience. The tour also includes a show in Dallas the following night. “I’ve never been to Texas before. Do I need to be frightened?” he asks. Sadly, he is only half joking. (Thanks a pants-load for that, Dan Patrick.) OUTSMART tried to answer his concerns by touting Houston’s great food, multiracial makeup, and true-blue politics. However, it was our mention of Houston’s Neon Boots— the largest gay country-western dance hall in the world— that caught his attention. You see, this handsome, funny, talented man is single, but would very much like to change that last part. What if he comes to Houston and falls in love? “It’s certainly possible,” he says. “That’s why I signed on for this tour. I’m really just shopping the country for a boyfriend, and I have always been partial to men in Levis.” What does the future hold for Randy Rainbow? There is a TV show in embryonic development that will draw heavily on his various talents. In the meantime, you can “Like” Randy Rainbow on Facebook—and thank us later. What: Randy Rainbow When: March 23 Where: House of Blues Houston, 1204 Caroline Street Tickets: tinyurl.com/RandyRainbowHouston Kim Hogstrom is a regular contributor to OUTSMART magazine. 32 | MARCH 2018 | OutSmartMagazine.com

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f they both win their municipal races in May, Michael and Steven Byrum-Bratsen will become the first married same-sex couple in Texas in which both spouses hold elected office. But making LGBTQ history is not what motivates the Brazoria County residents. Their main focus is improving the quality of life in the area where they are getting ready to raise a family. “Municipal elections affect our daily lives,” Michael Byrum-Bratsen says. “Local officials authorize fire and police funding. They decide the inspection levels that must be passed to obtain various permits. They adopt ordinances that control behavior within a community, from public smoking to speed limits.” Michael Byrum-Bratsen, 31, is already the first openly LGBTQ elected official in the history of Brazoria County. He was appointed to fill a vacancy on the Iowa Colony City Council in 2015, before being elected to a full two-year term in 2016. Steven Byrum-Bratsen, 36, is running for a seat on the Brazoria County Drainage District Board. They will both be on the ballot in the nonpartisan May 5 municipal elections. Together, they are among 49 openly LGBTQ candidates in Texas in 2018—a record number by far. Steven Byrum-Bratsen is a former

president of the Houston PFLAG chapter. His parents, Michael and Linda Bratsen, who were “ally” grand marshals of the 2009 Houston Pride parade, have been involved with PFLAG for nearly two decades. The Byrum-Bratsens were married in March 2013 in Washington DC, just two weeks before the oral arguments for Windsor v. United States, the U.S. Supreme Court case that later struck down the antigay Defense of Marriage Act. In addition to being candidates for public office, the Byrum-Bratsens both serve on the volunteer fire department in Iowa Colony, a fast-growing community southwest of Pearland. During Tropical Storm Harvey they handled some of the most difficult rescues, including people who were bedridden and relied on electrically powered medical equipment to survive. In fact, it was the Harvey crisis that inspired Steven Byrum-Bratsen to run for the Drainage Board. He felt the incumbent had done little to prepare for such a storm. “There are trees growing in the drainage ditches,” he says. “Things loosened by the flood floated down the ditches and snagged in the trees, seriously blocking the flow. [But board members] continue to maintain the status quo.” If elected, Steven Byrum-Bratsen says he

will push to spend $1 million to update drainage plans in the district, which has not been done for 28 years. Michael Byrum-Bratsen, meanwhile, is working to bring essential retail stores and restaurants to the area. Currently, the nearest grocery store is 13 miles away, which makes Iowa Colony a “food desert.” He is also guiding traffic-management plans in the five local subdivisions to handle an expected population growth from 5,000 to 150,000. The couple has lived in Iowa Colony since 2011. Steven Byrum-Bratsen grew up in nearby Santa Fe, Texas. Michael ByrumBratsen was raised in Atlanta, where the couple met after Steven transferred there for work in 2010. When Steven Byrum-Bratsen was laid off a year later, the couple headed to Southeast Texas to buy a four-acre plot and build a threebedroom house. “At first, we wondered about our safety, living in a traditionally conservative area, and thought about buying a gun,” Steven says. But their neighbors have been friendly, even after it became obvious the two men aren’t brothers. Before joining the volunteer fire department, it is customary for new recruits to meet with current squad members, who then hold a private meeting. After their applications were approved, the Byrum-Bratsens learned that ➝

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their sexual orientation had come up during the meeting, with some questioning how two openly gay members would affect the department. After the fire chief reportedly responded to those concerns by saying that the ByrumBratsens just wanted to help protect Iowa Colony, they were welcomed into the department. Michael Byrum-Bratsen works as the director of purchasing for a local firm, while Steven sells irrigation pumps. In preparation for adopting two sibling children, they moved to Iowa Colony’s Meridiana subdivision two weeks before Tropical Storm Harvey. After the Pulse nightclub massacre in 2016, Michael Byrum-Bratsen introduced a nondiscrimination ordinance for Iowa Colony—before he learned that Texas law prohibits jurisdictions with populations of less than 5,000 from enacting such measures. As they reflect on the political climate nationally and in Texas, the couple admits that this is a time of major social setbacks. But still, they have hope. “Progress never advances in a straight line,” they say. Brandon Wolf is a regular contributor to OUTSMART magazine.

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Schooling His Critics HISD superintendent Richard Carranza talks bathrooms, queer-inclusive curriculum, and more. By John Wright

t was August 22, 2016, and Richard Carranza was touring campuses during his first day as superintendent of the Houston Independent School District. One day before, a federal judge in Texas had issued an injunction barring the Obama administration from implementing guidance saying public schools should allow transgender students to use restrooms based on their gender identity. As Carranza walked the hallways, a reporter representing Fusion.net approached him and asked about the injunction. Carranza says his response was unrehearsed and came from the heart. “I think kids are human beings, and I think a human being should be treated like a human being, so I have to look at what they said in particular about the transgender bathroom law,” Carranza said, in a video that went viral on social media. “I can tell you in my former experience— I spent seven years, almost eight years, in San Francisco—we had transgender bathrooms the entire time I was there, [and we] never had one issue,” he added. “[There were] zero reported issues with a transgender restroom, so I think we need to kind of peel the onion. Is it really about the restroom, or is it about something else?” Not surprisingly, Carranza’s comments did not go over well with anti-LGBTQ groups, including the Houston Area Pastor Council. But the new leader of the state’s largest school district was unfazed by any backlash. In fact, months later, Carranza doubled down on his vocal and unprecedented support for equality when he publicly suggested that LGBTQ studies be added to the district’s U.S. history curriculum. Midway through his second year in the job, Carranza sat down with OUTSMART to discuss these and other issues.

‹ Weathering the Storm HISD superintendent Richard Carranza, shown hugging board president Wanda Adams as they survey damage to a school caused by Tropical Storm Harvey, says he is unfazed by attacks from anti-LGBTQ groups.

John Wright: After all your time in San Francisco, how difficult was the transition to Texas? Richard Carranza: A lot of the issues are kind of the same, as it pertains to education. You just change the faces, change the neighborhoods, and change the names. I think the difference here is obviously the politics in Texas are a little different from California, and the politics in Houston are a little different from San Francisco. But I’ve been really impressed with how liberal some of the social thought is here in Houston, and I’ve found that we have a lot of allies who are like-minded. People think San Francisco is this far-left liberal bastion. It’s not. So even in San Francisco, when we were working for LGBTQ student rights and we were talking about bathrooms there, there were people who just didn’t agree with it. I haven’t done the per-capita analysis, but I would assume there are probably more people in Texas who are contrary to that point of view. But everywhere I’ve been, when we have talked about the rights of students, especially as it pertains to LGBTQ, there are people who speak up. So I’m not bothered by the fact

that people have a different point of view. Again, my eye is always toward making sure that our students are being served. And obviously, the values of the community are important, but I also think LGBTQ students and their families are part of the community, so their voices need to be heard as well. After you suggested adding LGBTQ studies to the history curriculum, the Houston Area Pastor Council said you needed to understand that you are in Texas now, not California. What is your response to that? Well, I absolutely recognize I’m in America, and in America we have civil rights. We have the right to not only know our history, but to study our history, and I think that the First Amendment and the Bill of Rights apply to everybody, regardless of religion, creed, sexual orientation. So, last time I checked, Houston is in America, and Texas is in America, and I’m in America. I’m proud of the fact that we have all those protections. At the time, you said discussions about adding LGBTQ studies to the curriculum ➝

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were “just beginning.” What did you mean by that? I think it’s pretty clear that if you look at what is taught in the schools, it should be reflective of who the community is. When you think about American history, there are a lot of components. There’s a definite history of the African-American experience in America. That should be part of what we study in schools. For the Hispanics and Latinos, there’s a whole history—in Texas especially. And likewise, there are many across the country who would say the LGBTQ civil-rights movement is part of the civil-rights movement, in terms of making sure that all segments of society are covered by the Bill of Rights. So, as we are looking at what is being taught in our schools, we’re starting to engage our teachers and our community members around what those other topics should look like. And that’s all that I was referring to when I made that comment. We’re not going to say, “That’s taboo and we can’t talk about that.” Actually, you’re probably sitting in class with four, five, or six students who are in the very struggle of that civil-rights movement. So, we’re not going to shy away from identifying what should be part of our collective history. That’s all I was saying. It’s not like we’re going to replace American history tomorrow and have an LGBTQ class, or have a pure Mexican history class. Could that eventually develop? We’ll see, but we’re not going to stifle that. But wouldn’t such a class run afoul of the state’s “no homo promo” law, which prohibits teachers from discussing LGBTQ issues in a positive light? Well, I think we should have a conversation. And that’s what’s so ironic and actually funny about the people who got very unglued about the comment. It’s not like there’s a brand-new class that we’re rolling out tomorrow. This is the start of a conversation, and we’re not going to shy away from topics. There’s a whole lot of bureaucracy that has to happen to make it happen. The only voices that are heard out there can’t be the voices that say you can’t do this. And it’s really not just me as a superintendent—there are LGBTQ youth and families in our community, living and breathing in our community, who have been here for years. My being able to burst that little bubble is just an indication to folks that we’re going to have conversations about that, and there’s nothing wrong with having conversations, and being thoughtful, and being deliberate, and making sure that we’re not letting that conversation get framed as, “There’s an LGBTQ takeover of the curriculum.” With regard to trans restroom access, you said we need to “peel the onion.” What

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As a second-generation Mexican-American, how difficult has it been for you to watch recent anti-immigrant attacks at the state and federal level, including President Trump’s repeal of the Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals policy? It’s profoundly troubling. And I would be profoundly troubled if [Trump] was talking about banning Chinese students. Again, you have to know your history. There has to be this recognition that a good swath of the Southwestern United States at one time was part of Mexico. There are rich cultural histories and traditions that go back thousands of years. So there has to be this recognition that while we are a sovereign nation—and that’s fine and good—when you start demonizing groups of people, and then you start acting upon that and memorializing that in law, then you have to ask yourself the question: is that the kind of democracy we are? I would say it’s not. What can the LGBTQ community do to support you and HISD? Obviously, the first thing would be getting involved at the school-site level. That’s always really important, and we can always use that kind of support. But I also think it’s important that all constituents are politically savvy, and that you don’t take any elections for granted. It’s also really important that when there is a conversation (whether it’s in the op-ed pages or on Twitter) where people take offense at the stance that the district is taking in support of our LGBTQ students and families, there should be an equal response from those who are actually being talked about. I think that many times we don’t have time for that, but I think we have to make time for that. John Wright is the editor of OUTSMART magazine.

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Laramie’s Lessons Out director stages play about Matthew Shepard’s murder in conservative Lake Jackson. By Don Maines

ay Adcock doesn’t have to look far to find inspiration for the production of The Laramie Project he is directing at Brazosport College in Lake Jackson next month. Last fall, in nearby Clute, school officials looked the other way when Joel Mireles, the gay homecoming king at Brazoswood High School, was taunted on social media with the hashtag #NotMyKing. Mireles responded with a royal raspberry by wearing a #NotMyKing T-shirt to school—along with his crown. “The kid is my hero,” Adcock says. “I do worry about bullying in the school system. That is why I think The Laramie Project is so important.” In The Laramie Project, eight actors portray more than 60 characters, including out playwright Moisés Kaufman and fellow members of the Tectonic Theater Project. They traveled three times from New York to Wyoming to interview people about the savage 1998 hate-crime murder of Matthew Shepard. A newsperson they interviewed told them, “People would like to think that what happened to Matthew was an exception to the rule, but it was an extreme version of what happens in our schools on a daily basis.” Adcock, who is 47, lives openly but carefully as a gay man in Brazoria County. While just 50 miles south of Houston, it’s an area that Adcock describes as less than welcoming to people in the LGBTQ community. In other words, it’s a place whose residents need to see The Laramie Project and take it to heart. Adcock grew up in Brazoria County, graduating in 1988 from a private Christian school in Pearland. “It took me a long time to just figure out who I am. I had gone to counseling to try to ‘fix it.’ I tried ‘praying it away.’ It just didn’t work. Once I came out, it’s been

unbelievable. It’s been like an explosion.” However, Adcock admits that “it’s not easy to live truthfully here. I have some friends who are gay, but I have to go to Houston for a social life. I go to the ‘gayborhood’ on weekends and my days off. JR’s is the place I frequent—also The Eagle and Ripcord.” The murder of Shepard, a gay University of Wyoming student, at the hands of two heterosexual strangers he met at a bar, is the extreme worst-case scenario for a gay man living in a small town, says Adcock. “But LGBTQ people live with this every day. We have to be aware of our surroundings. People will yell slurs at you.” In Brazoria County, he says, “If I see someone I would like to talk to, if I’m not careful I could get myself killed.” The play, which premiered in February 2000 at the Denver Center for the Performing Arts, was adapted as an HBO movie that aired in March 2002. The film was named Outstanding Television Movie at the 2003 GLAAD Media Awards. “I already knew about Matthew Shepard and I saw the movie, which is very good, but there is nothing like a live theater experience,” says Adcock. “The emotion and energy are something to experience. When it came my time to direct at Brazosport College, I thought, ‘This is the time to do it.’” Adcock has found his place in the local theater scene—which in Brazoria County means acting at the Brazosport Center Stages in Clute and at Brazosport College in Lake Jackson. His proudest moment was portraying Uncle Charley in Arthur Miller’s Death of a Salesman, while his most taxing role, “both emotionally and physically,” was the Earl of Gloucester in William Shakespeare’s King Lear. Adcock’s theatrical

‹ Unfriendly Territory Director Jay Adcock (above) says there are similarities between Brazoria County and Laramie, Wyoming. He points to the case of Joel Mireles (below), the homecoming king at Brazoswood High School who was bullied for being gay.

bio also boasts the role of Sir Bedevere in the musical Monty Python’s Spamalot, which Adcock says, “had some LGBT content in it.” Likewise, a Brazoria County production of John Cariano’s “very heartwarming” collection of nine short plays, Almost, Maine, included the story of two “country boys” who discover they love each other—although Adcock played the roles of two straight men in that show. In Adcock’s three years out of the closet, he’s had one romantic fling with a fellow thespian in town. “We were quite interested in each other, and luckily we were both theater ➝

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people, so we had that in common. Our personalities didn’t exactly click,” he says, “but we are still friends to this day.” Meanwhile, Adcock has been busy promoting his upcoming production of The Laramie Project, including working with an LGBTQ group on the campus of Brazosport College and recruiting art students to create props for the show. “It is all I talk about,” he says. “I run around telling everybody about it. It’s really timely, and I think it will teach and touch and move people. That is what I really want to happen. It is such an important show, and after each Friday performance we will host a question-and-answer program where we can tell people what it was like for Matthew Shepard.”

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Queer Quandary Couple debates whether to abort gay fetus in Theatre Suburbia show.

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couple debates whether to abort their son after a prenatal test concludes he will likely be gay, in Jonathan Tolins’ The Twilight of the Golds. The controversial 1993 dramedy comes to Theatre Suburbia in northwest Houston April 13–May 12, for what director Amanda Garcia Faul believes to be its local premiere. In the play, David Gold is the pink sheep of an upper-middle-class New York family that confronts the question, “If your parents knew everything about you before you were born, would you be here?” Faul explains. Naturally, David is appalled that his sister, Suzanne Gold-Stein, would entertain the notion of aborting the fetus because the baby might grow up to be “like him.” “It’s a blatant Nazi philosophy,” David tells his brother-in-law, Rob Stein, who is a Jewish doctor and genetic researcher. Also thrown into the debate are David and Suzanne’s helicopter parents, Walter and Phyllis Gold. “You can’t fart without telling your parents,” Rob tells Suzanne. “If only the fetus were deformed, it wouldn’t be so complicated,” she says. “This is so complicated.” Opera buffs may recognize the play’s title as a takeoff on Richard Wagner’s opera Götterdämmerung (Twilight of the Gods). And Faul says Theatre Suburbia’s production will include opera scenes that humorously underscore the Wagner reference. “I definitely have a plan for those opera scenes,” Faul says. “They are so integral to the show and to David’s telling of The Ring Cycle as it relates to the Gold family. So I had to come up with a way to get the same grandness of Broadway theater lighting, but on a much smaller scale. “Theatre Suburbia is a more intimate set-

ting, so I don’t want to bombard audiences with sound and light that could distract from the story, and I didn’t want to just flood the whole stage in colorful light that has no purpose,” she adds. “I don’t want to give away too much, but I have designed the set in such a way that the lighting and sound will be contained but will still be dramatic, purposeful, and impactful.” The Twilight of the Golds premiered at the famed Pasadena Playhouse in Pasadena, California, on January 17, 1993, at the height of the AIDS crisis. The play included references to David attending a friend’s funeral and his mother, Phyllis, worrying that he’d lost weight. Phyllis even warned Suzanne not to eat anything that David might have touched. Twilight of the Golds opened on Broadway in October 1993, with Jennifer Grey (Dirty Dancing) and the late David Groh (Rhoda) among its cast. That production survived only 29 performances. In 1997, Showtime gave the story “a decidedly more optimistic spin” in a TV movie that earned kudos for star Brendan Fraser as David, cameo players Rosie O’Donnell and Jack Klugman, and Faye Dunaway as Phyllis. It was nominated for Outstanding Performance by a Female Actor in a TV Movie or Miniseries at the 1998 Screen Actors Guild Awards. The 32-year-old Faul, who is married but hasn’t started a family yet, discovered The

Twilight of the Golds while “reading a bunch of scripts” as she prepared to direct her first play at Theatre Suburbia (billed as “North-west Houston’s longest-running all-volunteer playhouse” and currently celebrating its 57th season. Faul, who grew up in Katy, graduated in 2009 from the University of Houston-Down-town with a bachelor’s degree in philosophy. She minored in theater, studying under professor Tom Lyttle. At UH-D, Faul appeared in 10 shows, including Macbeth, and she caught “the directing bug” when she got to helm a one-act play, Nicky Silver’s Raised in Captivity, about a bulimic woman and her depressed twin brother, who is gay. Faul notes that she is “100 percent pro,” and an unborn child’s sexual orientation “wouldn’t be a reason for me” to abort him. “I hope the play has a really big impact on people who see it,” she says. “I go to a show like this because I want to be engaged. It gives you something to think about it; it moves you. It might not be sunshine and rainbows, but you will leave feeling something.” What: Twilight of the Golds When: April 13–May 12 Where: Theatre Suburbia, 4106 Way Out West Drive Tickets and more information: 713.682.3525 or visit theatresuburbia.org. Don Maines is regular contributor to OUTSMART magazine.

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Bunnies Hop Thirty-ninth annual Easter extravaganza moves up the bayou. By Marene Gustin Photo by Dalton DeHart

unnies on the Bayou (BOTB) has a long and storied history, but sadly, there’s no one left who attended the group’s first party in 1979. The last living attendee was Bill Bridges Jr., a community activist and early member of the Diana Foundation who died in January. But BOTB’s history lives on. This year’s 39th annual event, set for April 1, will be party time as usual—with a few changes. “Everything was still covered in dirt and debris after [Tropical Storm] Harvey,” BOTB treasurer Josh Beasley says of Fish Plaza, where the Easter Sunday bash has been held for the last quarter-century. “Plus, the City was going to be using it as a staging center for equipment in the continuing cleanup downtown. There was no way we could use that outdoor space.” After a frantic search, BOTB’s board of directors opted to hop a short distance up the bayou to The Water Works at Buffalo Bayou Park. But it won’t be an easy task to move an event that draws 3,000 revelers, complete with sound systems, food and drink stations, and more. Last year, BOTB raised $156,500 for local LGBTQ nonprofits. Bunnies hosts several events throughout the year, but their Easter extravaganza is the largest. And it all started with a small backyard gathering in 1979. “It became an annual blowout, and as more people wanted to come, it was moved to the pool at an apartment complex at Polk and Stanford,” says former BOTB president Jim Taylor. “It was still invitation-only, and as the AIDS crisis arose, they started asking everyone to bring a canned good to donate.” Back then, Taylor was working for an oil and gas company based in Denver. During one of his frequent trips to Houston, he met Rick

‹ New Nest Bunnies on the Bayou, held at Fish Plaza from 1991 until last year, will move to The Water Works at Buffalo Bayou Park in 2018. Former Bunnies president Jim Taylor, below, has not missed an event since 1987.

Galenec, also an attendee at the first Bunnies, who invited him to come back for the 1987 party, then known as BFP. Taylor hasn’t missed one since. “But how many cans of corn and green beans did the community need?” Taylor says. “That’s when we decided to ask for cash donations we could donate to AIDS nonprofits.” Despite the noble cause, BOTB has always been a wild event. Taylor recalls the pool party being so crowded that people would fall into the pool. “And once there was even a bitch fight where someone got thrown into the pool,” he recalls with a laugh. By 1991, Bunnies had grown so popular that organizers moved it downtown to the Wortham Center’s Fish Plaza, where it would remain until this year. That is also when it was renamed Bunnies on the Bayou. And despite the high-profile public space, the party has not gotten much tamer. “Every year, we did big banners and hung them from

the bridge, and we had a camper parked onsite called ‘The Bunny Hole’ where the hosts could take a break—but the toilet often overflowed,” Taylor says. “And for many years, we had an Easter bonnet contest. One year, a man had this elaborate bonnet surrounded with chicken wire and live baby chicks inside.” On the following Monday mornings, the organizers would meet at the bank and count the money they had raised, often in soggy dollar bills. Taylor recalls that one year they netted $30,000 for HIV/AIDS groups, which he thought was a lot at the time. In 1991, Taylor was laid off from his energy job and spent time caring for his friend Galenec, who was terminally ill. By 1993, Taylor found a new career with the American Red Cross, which then had an HIV section that he ran. In 1995, Bunnies incorporated as a nonprofit, and Taylor became the first president of the board, a seat he held for two years. He spent many more years as a BOTB director before stepping down to leave it to the next generation. “The younger ones have more energy than I do, and they know all the hot DJs today,” he ➝

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decorative pieces, serving ware, beauty products, and even pet toys. And while the holidays are months away, the fair’s unique selection of goods makes it a terrific place to buy presents for friends and family. Once you’ve had your fill of shopping, take a seat and watch one of the many musical acts (Celtic minstrels are a highlight) as well as sword-fighting, comedy, and stunt performances. To entertain your little ones (who should avoid the violent full-contact jousting and ribald humor), visit the “Once Upon a Time” area, a two-acre section of Sherwood Forest with puppet shows, sing-a-longs, buskers, jugglers, and woodland creatures frolicing around the play castle. Food stations sell both kid-friendly grub and adult beverages. Gargantuan, juicy turkey legs are also on offer, but do split one with a friend (or three) in order to save room for the selection of internationallyinspired dishes such as Scotch eggs, gyros, stuffed grape leaves, bratwurst, shepherd’s pie, funnel cakes, crepes, and jambalaya. And those seeking to eat their way into a fried-food coma can look forward to battered mushrooms, artichokes, onions, eggplant, squid, mozzarella, cookies, and pickles. Hard and soft libations range from the pedestrian (tea, soda, milkshakes) to the more distinctive (Turkish coffee, craft beers, and “Thorin’s Viking Mead”). Those seeking stimulation beyond shopping, eating, and watching the various shows should definitely sign up for the “Forest Quest,” a multi-chapter game (eight in total, one for each week of the fair’s operation) in which players solve puzzles and riddles to ad-

vance to the final installment. Those intrepid players who complete all eight puzzles will be entered to win a 45-minute “Rapture Experience,” a family-friendly opportunity to handle a selection of birds from the falconer’s collection. Youth, adults, and (for the first time this year) families can also register for an opportunity to learn common medieval trade skills such as blacksmithing, leatherworking, herbalism, and courtly dance. And while campers can pitch their own tents on site, I suggest keeping in the spirit of things by taking advantage of the air-conditioned accommodations in the castle. Tickets for Sherwood Faire can be purchased online; look for special “buy one, get one” offers, as well as discounts for military veterans. For Houston visitors not keen on trekking there and back in a single day, there are a handful of modest hotels nearby, as well as ample space in the adjoining campgrounds that provide a particularly festive environment to party long after the fairgrounds close. Finally, if you find yourself particularly smitten with Sherwood Forest’s whimsical environment, the grounds and some buildings can be rented for weddings and other special life celebrations. What: Sherwood Forest Faire When: Weekends, March 3—April 22, 10 a.m. to dusk Where: 1883 Old Hwy. 20, McDade TX Info: sherwoodforestfaire.com Joanna O’Leary is a regular contributor to OUTSMART magazine.

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eads, flowers, and joy make the actors’ clothes fall off in Hair, the “American tribal love-rock musical” that comes to the Island Etc. theater in Galveston March 9–April 7. “I absolutely love this musical,” says director Kim Mytelka, who is staging the show for the third time in the 15 seasons of Island Etc., also known as the East End Theatre Company. “It is a very historical play, set in 1968 during the Vietnam War and the civil-rights movement,” she explains. “We hadn’t even dealt with gay rights; we didn’t even have women’s lib. The birth-control pill had just been introduced, along with free love. The universal theme was accepting one another and loving one another.” The naked hippies of Hair first scandalized Broadway audiences in April 1968. “The original did the nude scene at the end of Act One, supposedly celebrating the body and freedom,” Mytelka says. “There was a big parachute-like piece of fabric with holes in it that the cast disrobed under, then stood up fullfrontal. It became more of a financial sell and fairly exploitive. I want the scene to flow more naturally, as people ‘couple up’ at that point. No one has to remove clothing, but those who are comfortable will. However, our stage is really close to the audience, so I don’t encourage full-frontal.” Among those still debating last month about whether to “take it all off” was Justin Gonzalez, an openly gay actor who plays Woof and leads the “tribe” in performing the song “Sodomy.” “I am not opposed to getting naked onstage; I am very open to it, but not just for the sake of being naked,” Gonzalez explains. “The way we’ve approached it in rehearsal is very organic, so when we

‹ Letting Their ‘Hair’ Down First performed on Broadway in 1968, Hair comes to Galveston’s Island Etc. theater for the third time in 15 seasons this month. Shown below are (l–r) director Kim Mytelka, actor Justin Gonzalez, and stage manager Cameron Dunbar.

get to that part, it should be very fluid.” Whatever Gonzalez decides, his fiancé, Cameron Dunbar, will be watching from just a few feet away, as the production’s stage manager. “Cameron is a brilliant actor and director as well,” Mytelka says. The couple met in 2014 when Dunbar played Brad in The Rocky Horror Show at Etc. “I was just a phantom,” says Gonzalez, who next played Jesus in Godspell, with Dunbar portraying the character who sings “We Be-

seech Thee.” Gonzalez, who will turn 27 during the run of Hair, is a Galveston native who graduated from Ball High School in 2009. “I was definitely an actor all four years,” he says. “My junior year, I was Joseph in Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat. My senior year, I was voted ‘Hollywood-bound.’ Hollywood isn’t necessarily my idea of becoming an actor, but everyone thought of me as ‘that guy.’” Mytelka, now 60, also graduated from Ball High. “If you’re my age, you know the music from Hair,” she says. “Several numbers became very popular radio songs: ‘Hair,’ ‘Good Morning Starshine,’ ‘Aquarius,’ and ‘Let the Sunshine In.’” A favorite ballad from the show is “Easy to Be Hard.” The original Broadway production of Hair, with book and lyrics by Gerome Ragni and James Rado, and music by Galt MacDermot, was nominated for two Tony Awards (Best Musical and Best Direction of a Musical), and its best-selling album won the 1969 Grammy Award for Best Score from an Original Cast Show Album. A 2009 Broadway revival was nominated for eight Tonys, including Best Performance by a Leading Actor in a Musical for openly gay Gavin Creel as the tragic, conflicted Claude, who is drafted to serve in the Vietnam War. (The show’s militant black tribe member, ➝

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ach time Maxwell Batista runs off to join the circus, he gets to take his husband with him. Batista is the openly gay Cirque du Soleil publicist who will sweep into town March 8–11 for six performances of Corteo at the Toyota Center. The spectacle is about a clown who watches his own funeral unfold in a carnival-like atmosphere with 50 acrobats, singers, musicians, and actors. About 50 support staff also travel with the show, which will kick off its national tour early this month in New Orleans before thrilling Houston audiences. “We become a family, somehow,” says Batista. “Cirque de Soleil doesn’t care if you are LGBT or if you have tattoos or what language you speak or what country you come from. They are super-respectful. What they care about is the soul you have and your talent. We are like a small planet, with 20 different nationalities. We embrace each other, and the company embraces us.” Batista, who is 27, grew up in Brasília, the capital of Brazil, and speaks Portuguese, Spanish, English, and some French. “I am from a simple family in a city that is very conservative, so being gay was not an easy topic to be talking about, for me,” he says. “Then, one summer, I was an exchange student in the United States, where I worked at Disney World in Florida. At the park, I was a greeter. I would

‹ Life Under the Big Top Cirque de Soleil publicist Maxwell Batista (below right), travels with his husband, graphic artist Martin Tomatis. They will be in Houston March 8–11 for Corteo (above) at the Toyota Center.

say, ‘Welcome to the Magical Kingdom. Have a magical day.’ I saw guys holding hands, and I got shocked at first, but it gave me more confidence. No one really cared that I was gay; it was not a secret. So when I came back to Brazil, I decided that it should not be a secret there, either.” Batista says he came out “to the world” at age 20, then to his mother at age 24. “It was New Year’s Eve in Rio de Janeiro, and we were on the beach before the fireworks started,” he says. “I told my mother I had something to say to her. She listened, and while I won’t say she was happy about it,

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However, the show’s original intimate setting was expanded for arena audiences on the new national tour. “It is a very familyfriendly show, and what I think sets it apart from many Cirque de Soleil shows is that it isn’t about magical and imaginary creatures, but human beings,” Batista says. “It is about a clown whose friends come from all over the world to celebrate his life, and the greatest and most playful moments of his journey. “It has one of the biggest sets in Cirque de Soleil history,” he adds. “It has a huge stage that is split in half, which makes it funny because you see things from the point of view of the artist, and the reactions of the audience across the way. The costumes are amazing, inspired by fashions from the end of the 18th century and the beginning of the 19th century. It is romantic and theatrical and poetic, and very touching as it celebrates the happiness and nostalgia of life.” What: Cirque du Soleil’s Corteo When: March 8–11 Where: Toyota Center, 1510 Polk Street More info and tickets: HoustonToyota Center.com/events/detail/Corteo Don Maines is a regular contributor to OUTSMART magazine.

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wenty-four years ago, Gary Grier joined the Lone Star Volleyball Association (LSVA) to connect with the community and become more comfortable with his sexual orientation. “I have never missed a single season,” says Grier, a team captain and former regional director of the North American Gay Volleyball Association. “I wanted to develop positive relationships and confidence [while playing] a sport I love.” As Houston’s only LGBTQ volleyball league enters its 30th season, Grier is as involved as ever. In 2017, he received LSVA’s Casey Richardson Service Award, and he is already registered to participate in the 2018 Gay Games in Paris. “Fortunately for me, I have played on some wonderful teams that had success on the court,” says the 53-year-old Grier. “My goal is to hang on until 2020 and attempt to win a medal in four consecutive decades.” On February 25, more than 150 athletes descended on The Zone sportsplex to kick off LSVA’s pearl-anniversary campaign. Open play continues at 6 p.m. each Sunday, and people of all experience levels are encouraged to join. “You don’t have to be an expert to play,” says 30-year-old Shawn Kuehn, LSVA president. “All you need is a desire to experience sportsmanship and camaraderie in a safe space for the LGBTQ community and allies.” The season culminates during Easter weekend with the Lone Star Volleyball Classic Tournament, which brings in over 500 athletes from across North America. “Within the volleyball community, Houston is certainly on the gay volleyball map, despite not having men’s

‹ Lone Star Legend Gary Grier (below) has been a member of the Lone Star Volleyball Association for 24 of the league’s 30 years. LSVA’s 30th-anniversary season culminates with the Lone Star Volleyball Classic Tournament on Easter weekend.

volleyball in our school systems,” Kuehn says. “Obviously, there are some havens in New York, the Midwest, or California that produce some great players, but we fare pretty well.” LSVA was founded in 1988 and participated in its first national tournament in 1989. In addition to providing a safe place for the LGBTQ community to gather and socialize outside of bars, the organization is well-known for its philanthropic efforts, including the annual Miss LSVA Pageant. “In the early ’90s, [LSVA’s awards-banquet theme was] ‘The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas,’ and we’d dress up as ‘whores’ to raise money to donate to charity,” Kuehn says. “In 2002, [the league] officially created Miss LSVA, a charity drag fundraiser extravaganza. They’ve since crowned 15 queens and helped the organization raise approximately $150,000 to donate to the community.” LSVA places a strong emphasis on being open to everyone, regardless of age, race, gender identity, religion, sexual orientation, or political affiliation. Grier recalls the story of a young player coming to the league several years ago. “A couple brought their teenage son,” Grier says. “He was not quite 18, so we asked the parents to come each week as chaperones. They said he had come out to them and wanted to have an uplifting experience and to meet and make gay friendships. He played that season and really loved it.

Later, he won a scholarship from the Montrose Center’s HATCH Youth program and noted that the LSVA experience helped shape his identity and created positive self-esteem.” Thain Allen, 38, has played with LSVA for seven years. “Both watching and playing sports has been a big part of my life since I was a kid, but they aren’t big for most of my close friends,” Allen says. “It’s been great to find an inclusive place to play sports. While it’s mostly gay, all players are welcome—I’ve also met and become close friends with several straight players through LSVA.” Tongue-in-cheek team names are another important component of any LGBTQ sports league, and the LSVA is no exception. “My team name is Gay for Play because our original team had a couple of straight players,” Allen says. “We formed the team name well before the RuPaul show, so I’m pretty proud of that.” Kuehn says LGBTQ sports leagues are essential to a healthy community. “They provide a safe space for all people to be social and active outside of the bar scene,” he says. “It also brings together different sects of the LGBTQ community, as well as allies, to work together in a fun, healthy way. “I’ve made many friends from all walks of life that I would have never met if it were not for volleyball,” he adds. “Once you’re on the court, gender, sexuality, and political views are irrelevant. All that matters is how you play, and that you enjoy it.” For more info, visit LoneStarVolleyball.org. Ryan Leach is a regular contributor to OUTSMART magazine.

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JOEY GARZA JOEY JOEY GARZA GARZA frontstreetproperties.com frontstreetproperties.com frontstreetproperties.com “I would say it’s “I say “I would would say it’s it’shalfbeen half-good, been half-good, halfbeen half-good, halfbad,” says Joey Garbad,” says Joey Garbad,” says Joey Garza of Front Street za za of of Front Front Street Street Properties. “The Properties. “The Properties. “The immediate impact immediate impact immediate impact of Harvey was the of was of Harvey Harvey was the the huge onslaught of huge onslaught of huge onslaught of flooded residents flooded residents flooded residents who needed rental who rental who needed needed properties. As many homeowners haverental decidproperties. As many homeowners have decidproperties. As many homeowners have decided not to repair or rebuild, there has been an ed not to repair or rebuild, there has been an ed not to repair or rebuild, therewhich has been increase of unexpected buyers, hasan kept increase of unexpected buyers, which has kept increase of unexpected buyers, which has kept our inventory low. Many local and out-of-state our inventory low. Many local and out-of-state our inventory low. Many local and out-of-state investors have bought and are continuing to investors have and continuing to investors have bought bought and are are continuing to buy storm-damaged homes. Despite the tragic buy storm-damaged homes. Despite the tragic buy storm-damaged Despite the tragic circumstances for sohomes. many, the Houston marcircumstances for so circumstances foryear.” so many, many, the the Houston Houston marmarket increased last ket increased last year.” ket increased last year.” Garza has lived in the Houston Heights since Garza has lived in the Houston Heights since Garza“It has thefavorite Houston Heights since 1997. is lived by farinmy area for LGBTQ 1997. “It is by far my favorite area for LGBTQ 1997. “It is bybecause far my favorite area for LGBTQ inclusivness of its walkability, art, inclusivness because of art, inclusivness of its its walkability, walkability, diversity, andbecause local events,” Garza says. art, “Other diversity, and local events,” Garza says. diversity, and local events,”are Garza says. “Other “Other great inner-loop locations Timbergrove great inner-loop locations are Timbergrove greatOak inner-loop locations aremid-century Timbergrove and Forest, [which have] and Forest, [which have] and Oak Oak Forest, [which have] mid-century mid-century homes and popular restaurant destinations. homes and popular restaurant destinations. homes and popular restaurant destinations. For people seeking to invest in up-and-coming For people seeking to invest in up-and-coming For people seeking to invest in up-and-coming areas, EaDo and the Near Northside are great. areas, and the Northside are great. areas, EaDo EaDo the Near Neararound Northside great. These areas and are turning withare rebuilds, These areas are turning around with rebuilds, These areas are turning around with rebuilds, remodels, and new custom homes. The proxremodels, and homes. The remodels, and new new custom custom homes.make The proxproximity to downtown and Midtown these imity to downtown and Midtown make these imity to downtown and Midtown make areas perfect for those wanting to get inthese on the areas perfect for those wanting to get in areas perfect for those wanting to get in on on the the real-estate market.” real-estate market.” real-estate market.” DANIEL HERRINGTON DANIEL HERRINGTON DANIEL HERRINGTON JLArealestate.com JLArealestate.com JLArealestate.com Daniel Herrington Daniel Herrington Daniel Herrington is retired from Haris retired from Haris retired ris Countyfrom and Haronly ris County and only ris County only became an and agent became an agent became last July.an agent last July. last July.didn’t have “I really “I really didn’t have “I really didn’t have that many listings,” that many listings,” that many listings,” Herrington says. Herrington says. Herrington says. “So when Harvey “So when Harvey “So when Harvey came along, it didn’t came along, it didn’t along, didn’t really affect me that much.came We still haditpeople really affect me that much. We still had people really affect me that much. We still had people buying and selling, so it wasn’t too bad.” Herbuying selling, so it wasn’t too Herbuying and and selling, wasn’t too bad.” bad.” rington used to liveso in it the Galleria area, Herand rington used to live in the Galleria area, and rington used toin live in the Galleria area, and he now resides Channelview. “It’s for family he now resides in Channelview. “It’s for family he now resides in Channelview. “It’s for family reasons,” he says. “I grew up here, and I didn’t reasons,” he “I grew here, and I didn’t reasons,” he says. says. “IThere’s grew up upnot here, and didn’t want to come back. a lot of Igay want to come back. There’s not a lot of want to come lot of gay gay culture, and I back. reallyThere’s miss mynot gaya neighborculture, and I really neighborculture,As and really miss miss my my gay gay neighborhood.” forI up-and-coming LGBTQ-friendly hood.” As for up-and-coming LGBTQ-friendly hood.” As for up-and-coming LGBTQ-friendly enclaves, he sees more people heading to the enclaves, he sees more people heading to enclaves, he part sees due more to the the suburbs—in topeople rising heading prices, and in suburbs—in part due to rising prices, and in suburbs—in due rising prices, andand in part becausepart more of to them have children part because more of them have children and partlooking because more of them have children and are for quality schools. are are looking looking for for quality quality schools. schools.

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This is a buyer’s market.” Some of most This aa buyer’s Some of most areas. areas. This is isneighborhoods buyer’s market.” market.” Some Ballard’s favorite include theof Ballard’s favorite neighborhoods include the Ballard’sRiver favorite neighborhoods includeand the Heights, Oaks, Midtown, Galleria, Heights, Heights, River River Oaks, Oaks, Midtown, Midtown, Galleria, Galleria, and and downtown. downtown. downtown. JEREMY FAIN JEREMY FAIN FAIN JEREMY greenwoodking.com greenwoodking.com greenwoodking.com “The hurricane has “The has “The hurricane hurricane has certainly increased certainly increased certainly increased awareness in buyers,” awareness in buyers,” awareness buyers,” says JeremyinFain. says Jeremy says Jeremy Fain. Fain. “Automatically, the “Automatically, the “Automatically, theask first question they first question they first question they ask ask is, ‘Did the property is, ‘Did the property property flood? If not, how close is, did‘Did the the water come to flood? If close the come to flood? If not, not,Ithow how close did did the water water the house?’ certainly affected areascome suchto the house?’ It certainly affected areas such the house?’ It certainly affected areas such as Meyerland and Bellaire, as well as masteras Meyerland and Bellaire, as well as masteras Meyerland and Bellaire, well as masterplanned communities in theassuburbs. Builders planned communities in Builders planned communities in the the suburbs. suburbs. Builders and investors are buying lots, tearing the and investors are buying the lots, tearing the and investors are buying the lots, tearing the houses down, and rebuilding at higher elevahouses down, and rebuilding at higher elevahouses down, and rebuilding at higher elevations to avoid flooding in the future. About tions avoid in the About tions to to avoid flooding flooding the future. future. seven percent of homesin were flooded,About and a seven percent of homes were flooded, and sevenamount percentwere of homes were flooded, and aa large flooded from the reservoir large amount were flooded from the reservoir large amount were from theitself. reservoir releases rather thanflooded the hurricane It releases rather than the hurricane itself. It releases than It has beenrather amazing to the me hurricane to see how itself. the comhas amazing to to see how the has been beencame amazing to me me seeeach how other the comcommunity together toto help out, munity came together help each out, munity together to to help each other other withoutcame even knowing one another.” Fainout, without even knowing one another.” Fain without oneinanother.” Fain loves theeven Oaksknowing of Inwood northwest Housloves the Oaks of in Housloves thearea Oakswas of Inwood Inwood in northwest northwest Houston. The developed in the 1980s, and ton. The area was developed in the 1980s, ton. The area was developed the$350,000. 1980s, and and homes sell between $275,000inand homes sell $275,000 $350,000. homes sell between between $275,000 and and $350,000. The houses are all single-family with 2,500 The houses are single-family with The houses are all all withof2,500 2,500 to 3,500 square feetsingle-family of space, on lots around to 3,500 square feet of space, on lots of around to 3,500 square feet of space, on lots 7,000 square feet. “It’s a real treat to of getaround in the 7,000 “It’s aa real treat get 7,000 square square feet. feet. “It’sthe real treat to to get in in the the neighborhood around holidays because neighborhood around the holidays because neighborhood around the holidays because the everyone just hops back and forth between everyone just hops back and forth the everyone hops andparties,” forth between between the houses forjust all of theback holiday he says. houses houses for for all all of of the the holiday holiday parties,” parties,” he he says. says. 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“It was definitely a life-altering event for a lot of people, and unfortunately caused some people to have to move when they weren’t planning it,” Wingfield says. “We have done a lot more storage since the storm, and tried to help in as many ways as possible to help people get their lives back. Right after Harvey we did a lot of relocations that helped people salvage whatever they could. Recently we have been helping many families get back into their homes after repairs have been completed, and it seems the industry is starting to go back to normal.” But with the completion of the Grand Parkway, Wing“I THINK IN THE FUTURE WE ARE field says business will exGOING TO BE DOING A LOT MORE pand even more. “I think in MOVES IN AREAS THAT USED TO BE MORE RURAL AND LESS POPULATED.” the future we are going to be doing a lot more moves in areas that used to be more rural and less populated,” he explains. “Those areas are definitely growing at a rapid pace. Inside the loop is growing too, and I think in the next five years it will be even more populated than it is now with all the townhouses and apartment buildings that are coming up on every corner. With that said, in 2014 we expanded from our Houston office and opened an office in The Woodlands area. In March of 2018 we will expand again into the League City area.” And here’s a tip for Realtors: Wingfield says that by keeping an eye on the moving business, you can identify up-and-coming neighborhoods. — Marene Gustin All My Sons - allmysons.com

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but also LGBTQ-friendly. The Towne Lake area is probably my favorite neighborhood. It’s beautiful. Home values are steady, there are beautiful trails around various reservoirs, activity centers for gatherings, and quite frankly, the people are so friendly. My partner was born and raised in Cypress, and I’m from a small military town in Oklahoma. It feels like home. Cypress really does offer it all.” TOM SCHWENK tomsgalvestonrealestate.com Tom Schwenk is a top Galveston Realtor who saw little damage on the island from Harvey. “Thankfully, Galveston Island’s residential neighborhoods were spared completely,” he says. “Downtown, there was some flooding—particularly on The Strand and Postoffice Street. However, most were up and running again in a day or two. “To put it in perspective, my office on The Strand sustained about four inches of water in Harvey, while in Ike it had about 12 feet of water.” He says the vast majority of Galveston Island is LGBTQ-friendly, and is a very tolerant place. “We live throughout the island, and every neighborhood has LGBTQ residents—admittedly, more on the East End,” he says. TIM SURRATT greenwoodking.com

For Tim Surratt, of Greenwood King Properties, it begins with a passion for the work involved and a deep respect for his customers and clients. “It was quite a year with Harvey,” Surratt says. “Over 200,000 Houston families were affected by the historic flooding. Our hearts broke for our fellow Houstonians, but we quickly noticed how our city pulls together in time of need. It is indeed what makes Houston great. The rental market went from 80 percent occupancy in some areas to 97 percent as excess apartments were absorbed—as well as homes that did not flood flying off the market. Billions of construction dollars poured into the city to help rebuild, which helped lift Houston’s economy. To top it off, the Astros won the World Series! Let’s hope for a calmer 2018.” 74 | MARCH 2018 | OutSmartMagazine.com

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Debbie Levine is also a top producer with Greenwood King Properties. “The market has remained relatively unchanged since Harvey, at least in the more established neighborhoods,” she says. “The low inventory in the close-in areas is one of the main contributing factors to the strong real-estate market in Houston.” Levine is a big fan of the Heights. “I love the eclectic feel of the Heights, and I have found that much of the LGBTQ community feels very at home in this diverse and charming community.” ANDY WEBER johndaugherty.com

Andy Weber, a sales associate at John Daugherty Realtors, is a longtime resident of the Museum District/Montrose area, and specializes in inner-loop sales. “I have not felt a big impact in the areas I work in,” he says, referring to Harvey. “People are definitely aware of areas that are at a higher risk for flooding.” Despite living in Montrose, he says that the Heights has really blossomed nicely as a welcoming neighborhood for the community. CANDACE DOLAN facebook.com/weinsuretexas Candace Dolan has a lot of talents: she’s an insurance agent and financial advisor with her own company, and does a little real estate on the side. One thing that she’s noticed post-Harvey is that a lot of flooded properties are on the market. “And they are at record-low prices,” she says. So, what’s a good neighborhood for the LGBTQ community? She likes the East Downtown area. “I live, work, and play in EaDo,” Dolan says. “My partner and I are very welcomed in our neighborhood, anywhere we go. We chose EaDo because it is rapidly developing and embraces art and independent thinkers.” Marene Gustin is a regular contributor to OUTSMART magazine.

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nyone who is lucky enough to live by the sea . . .is lucky enough.” That’s Tom Schwenk’s motto, and he lives by it. In addition to being one of Galveston’s top Realtors, Schwenk is a one-man advertising campaign for the island. “It’s just a really cool little city,” he says. “There’s so much to do, such a diverse population, and so much history.” Retired from the corporate world, Schwenk obtained his real-estate license in 2003 and his broker’s license in 2013. He worked for his friend VJ Tramonte as an agent before joining The House Company. In January, Schwenk hung out his own shingle at Tom’s Galveston Real Estate. “I never really thought that, at 61, I would open my own company, but here I am,” Schwenk laughs. “I’ve got an office on The Strand in the historic district, and four employees.” He specializes in buying and selling houses and leasing residential and commercial properties. A New Jersey native, Schwenk moved to Houston in 1984. Although he enjoyed his time in Space City, it was Galveston that he loved. “I had friends who had a home here, and they invited me down one weekend,” Schwenk says, adding that he bought his own island home in 1987. In 2001, Schwenk and his husband, Jack Bell, moved to Galveston permanently and officially became IBCs, or “Islanders By Choice.” “The day we moved was 9/11, so I definitely remember it,” he says. Schwenk and Bell married on their 30th anniversary, following the U.S. Supreme Court’s Obergefell marriage-equality decision. They live in an 1882 Victorian in the San Jacinto area bounded by Broadway, Seawall Blvd., and 23rd Street. It’s one of the oldest neighborhoods on the island, and one of the hardest-hit by the Great Storm of 1900. “Our house actually burned down, but was rebuilt with the exact same plans in 1903,”

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Schwenk says. “We renovated it when we bought it 34 years ago.” The couple lives there with a four-pound poodle that they named Spike (because, as Schwenk says, little dogs need a tough name). Besides all of their community work, they enjoy the island’s burgeoning restaurant scene that features everything from longtime momand-pop eateries to elegant Tilman Fertitta restaurants. “One of our favorites is Rudy & Paco on Postoffice Street,” he says. “And Miller’s Landing, and so many more. Plus, you can always get fresh fish at Katy’s Seafood Market and cook at home.” Schwenk regales buyers with all that the island has to offer in terms of housing options. There are historic Victorians, quaint beach bungalows, and high-rise condos with stunning views of the Gulf of Mexico. As for activities, Schwenk claims there’s no better place than the island for bird watching, water sports, fishing, historical tours, and art walks. And of course there are the annual events like Dickens on the Strand and Mardi Gras that entertain locals and draw scores of mainlanders. But simply walking along the seawall is his personal favorite. “I start each day with a walk by the water,”

Schwenk says. “Then, it’s really just work and hanging out in our neighborhood. It is a very diverse neighborhood, and someone is always throwing a porch party. And then Jack and I usually have a community event to go to every night.” A member of the Houston Association of Realtors and the Galveston Association of Realtors , Schwenk serves as the Texas Association of Realtors’ Political Interest Committee representative for Region 13. He is a past president of both the Galveston Association of Realtors and the Galveston Historical Foundation, and currently chairs the Landmarks Commission. He also serves on the Galveston Island Nature Tourism Board, the Galveston Sustainable Communities Alliance, and as finance director for his neighborhood association. “I love Galveston,” he says. “It’s just a great island, and it’s so easy to get involved in the community here. I also donate to a lot of charities—mostly quality-of-life issues, but also the arts and children’s causes. I pretty much give money to anyone who asks. That’s really why I started my own company at my age, so I have more money to give back to the community.” Marene Gustin is a regular contributor to OUTSMART magazine.

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he high-performance RS5 boasts an all-new look, both inside and out, in 2018. The new exterior is more aggressive, with more defined lines and a wider flaring of the fenders and rear quarters. Inside the RS5, technology has been updated, with new materials introduced and a serious increase in torque. Powering the 2018 RS5 is a new 2.9-liter, twin-turbo V6 with 450 horsepower and 443 pound-feet of torque. It is paired to an eight-speed tiptronic transmission. The RS5 is offered with RS-specific steering calibration, sport rear differential, carbon-ceramic brakes, and the Audi Drive Select System that allows the driver to select between a number of driving modes. The luxurious cabin offers RS-specific sport seats, Nappa leather upholstery, a heads-up display, and Android Auto or Apple CarPlay compatibility. ➝

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he 2018 Lexus LC500 is one of the most interesting luxury coupes in the automobile world. The full-size, two-plus-two, full-luxury coupe comes in two models known as the LC500 and LC500h. The only distinguishable difference is the hybrid badge behind the rear fender scoops. Lexus and Marvel Studios have collaborated to pair the first-ever 2018 Lexus LC with Marvel’s dynamic Black Panther character in the highly acclaimed Black Panther film. As your eye begins to move over the giant wire-mesh grille flowing back to the low hoodline and muscular stance, you begin to see your favorite superhero emerging from this supercar. Power is generated by the 5.0-liter V8 engine producing 471 horsepower and 398 pound-feet

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they wanted to be together forever. “When we first got together 11 years ago, marriage wasn’t even a thought,” Montgomery says. “It wasn’t legal at the time, and we didn’t think it would ever become the law of the land, let alone even be an option. “After it became legal, Larry kept asking when we would get married,” Montgomery adds. “I planned to propose at our annual Halloween party, but that was months away. Between June and October, Larry became frustrated with me and decided that I was never going to ask.” Finally, during a show at their Halloween party, Montgomery had cast members hold up signs saying, “Larry, will you marry me?” “Lee had no idea,” Montgomery says. “When he turned around and saw the signs, he fell to his knees and started crying like a baby. I dropped to my knees as well, and presented him with a ring.” Montgomery, 59, and Ellis, 49, were married in Hermann Park’s Centennial Gardens on June 25, 2017. Their neighbor and dear friend, Houston associate municipal judge Phyllis Frye,

officiated. Another good friend, Richard Purcell, sang before and after the ceremony. “We injected a little humor into the ceremony as well,” Ellis says. “It was short and sweet, with tears and joy.” Among the 40 wedding guests were Montgomery’s father (his mother is deceased), siblings, nieces and grand-nephew, and Ellis’ parents, siblings, and nieces and nephews. The wedding reception was at a friend’s home in west Houston. The next morning, the newlyweds took off for Honolulu. They chose Hawaii because it seemed like a perfect honeymoon destination that neither of them had ever visited.. “We had a very traditional wedding, so it made sense to honeymoon in a traditional honeymoon location,” Ellis says. “Hawaii was fantastic, and it was quite surprising to see the love from strangers regarding our recent marriage.” Unfortunately, the couple’s home was flooded during Tropical Storm Harvey, so reality has set in once again. They report that their home is now back to normal—“whatever that is.” “And we’re better than ever,” the couple says. Henry V. Thiel is a frequent contributor to OUTSMART magazine. He loves weddings.

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Then and Now Micki Grimland and Mary Margaret Bodenhamer first met 40 years ago as sorority sisters at Baylor University (r). After crossing paths again two years ago at a reunion for Pi Beta Phi, they were married in September.

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heir love story reads like the script for a blockbuster romance: Girl meets girl at sorority house. Fireworks and confusion ensue. “What is this I feel?” the girls wonder, both identifying as straight at the time. Years pass. Girl re-meets girl at sorority reunion—only now, both women are out lesbians. They fall in love and live happily ever after. That’s the love trajectory of psychotherapist Micki Grimland, 60, and business manager Mary Margaret Bodenhamer, 59. The two met 40 years ago at Baylor University. “We first laid eyes on each other inside of our Pi Beta Phi sorority,” Grimland says. “I was a sophomore and Mary Margaret was a freshman. “It was probably love at first sight,” Grimland adds. “But we didn’t know that we were

lesbians and didn’t know what the energy was between us.” Fast-forward 38 years. “When we saw each other at the reunion, it was immediately clear to both of us that we wanted to date,” Grimland says. “However, we started off as friends, and admitted that to each other a little while into the relationship.” Grimland, born on the Air Force base in Chaumont, France, where her father was stationed, is the owner of Southwest Psychotherapy Associates. Bodenhamer, who is from Arlington, Texas, is the Southwest-area business manager for Pfizer’s oncology-prostate division. “After weeks of traveling back and forth from Houston to Arlington, I felt Micki and I were completely compatible with our love of

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family, curiosity about life, and the enjoyment and contentment of spending time together,” Bodenhamer says. “I knew I wanted to conclude my life with this amazing woman.” It wasn’t long before the couple knew marriage would be the natural next step. Grimland had an elaborate engagement plan in mind. But what happened instead turned out to be even sweeter. “I had had wedding rings made,” Grimland says. “We were getting ready to go on our tropical vacation, and I planned a big fancy proposal [for the trip]. “However, a few days before we left,” she adds, “we were casually sitting on the couch in the afternoon and I thought, ‘This is the moment. The everyday comfort and ease of our attachment and love. This is the reason I want to grow old with her. This simple moment is the

most profound. The moment is right now.’ “I went and got the rings, [and] I got on my knee beside her and asked her to spend the rest of her life with me,” Grimland says. “She looked deep into my eyes with her steady and fierce gaze and said, ‘Absolutely yes!’” The two were legally married by a justice of the peace in front of three of their best friends on August 4, 2017. But they claim September 16, 2017, as their true wedding date because that’s when they held a special ceremony in Mary Margaret’s best friend’s backyard, with family and other loved ones attending. “This is the date we will celebrate as our official marriage day,” Grimland says. One of Grimland’s best friends, Rev. Richard Metheny, officiated along with a second pastor who is also a dear friend. Gidget White, a local performer, sang the couple’s song—“The Way You Move Me” by Gretchen Peters. Grimland says the moment from their wedding that will forever stay in her mind is when Mary Margaret “stepped deep into the strength of her voice and soul and looked at me very intentionally—with a strong conviction and commitment in her eyes that I had not seen so fiercely displayed—and said, ‘I do!’” Bodenhamer says “the love and support of all attendees are the special moments I recall.” The couple used what they called “pretty traditional” vows—“although we did add some vows for those in our audience to make with

us, to support us in our union,” Grimland says. “This was really important to us, as we had some family members who started out conflicted (from a ‘Christian’ point of view) about being able to support our marriage. Everyone stood in affirmation with us. It was deeply, deeply moving.” Because they had just returned from a yoga and meditation trip to Costa Rica with friends for Grimland’s 60th birthday, they wanted a remote and quiet honeymoon. “We stayed in a beautiful home in Tennessee, deep in the middle of the forest,” Grimland says. “It had a porch around the whole house with rocking chairs. We hiked, rested, rocked on the front porch, and had great conversations.” Grimland says Bodenhamer is “without a doubt, the best human being I’ve ever known. Deep to the bone, she is kind, loving, steadfast, grounded, intelligent, passionate, and very trustworthy. Did I also mention she is breathtakingly beautiful?” And Bodenhamer has equally beautiful things to say about Grimland. “She is the most generous, loving soul I have ever met, in addition to being a fierce mother and grandmother. She is deeply compassionate, has a multitude of long-standing friendships, and is my best friend and life partner.” Jenny Block is a regular contributor to OUTSMART magazine.

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Re: two of many facts or insights gleaned from an afternoon visit to McNearney’s workplace—Jimmy Kimmel Live!, where she is co-head writer. She also happens to be Kimmel’s wife. 1. She had her daughter, Jane, baptized in the [Catholic] Church. However, the very day of the baptism, she handwrote Jane a letter, to be read at a later date, in which McNearney explains “why I baptized her and what I know sucks about the Church,” e.g., that it “doesn’t allow women to be priests, or homosexuals to get married.” 2. She is pained that her father voted for Donald Trump, but pleased that he has come to regret his vote.

‹ Baptize, Then Clarify Nancy McNearney (seen here with husband Jimmy Kimmel at the 2017 Emmys): what did she write to her daughter about the Catholic Church? 94 | MARCH 2018 | OutSmartMagazine.com

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scar-winner Sally Field is playing matchmaker at the Olympics. So while watching the winter games, the actress and her 30-year-old son [Sam Greisman] were texting about his crush on U.S. figure skater Adam Rippon, when Sally responded, “Sam . . . he’s insanely pretty. Find a way . . .” But a good mom doesn’t stop there, does she? Instead, she not only shared the message with her 64,000 Twitter followers; she then tagged the skater’s Twitter handle to make sure that [Rippon] would see the message. Her son just responded, “Yikes.”

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Freestyle skier Gus Kenworthy on Twitter, 2.15.18: Broke my thumb yesterday in practice. It won’t stop me from competing (obvi) but it does prevent me from shaking Pence’s hand, so . . . Silver linings! Then on 2.17.18 he tweeted about his historic kiss with boyfriend Matt Wilkas: Didn’t realize this moment was being fi lmed yesterday, but I’m so happy that it was. My childhood self would never have dreamed of seeing a gay kiss on TV at the Olympics, but for the first time ever a kid watching at home CAN!

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( Out, 2/18, Kurt Osenlund) I wrote [Angels in America] in part because I felt that Reaganism was doing staggering damage and posing a really terrible threat to American democracy and to the world. And, unfortunately, I think I was right about that. But, as I’ve said many times, I think Roy Cohn was a much better person than Trump is. I still think [Cohn] was a terrible person who did terrible things, but he did seem to have enough internal coherence for there to be a possibility of real, abiding loyalty to the people he loved. And I think he actually did love some people. He stuck by and defended Joe McCarthy even when it became unfashionable. Trump dumped Roy as soon as he found out he had AIDS. He’s yelling now about how he wishes he had another lawyer like Roy, but when he found out Roy was sick, he pulled all of his business and they had almost no contact after that. On a daily basis, we’re seeing that there is no place in Trump’s shriveled, damaged soul for anything like object constancy or loyalty to take root. Except to himself. Everyone else is just food or a target.

Cohn or Trump? Tony Kushner (seen here in 2004 accepting his Emmy for Angels in America): is Cohn better than Trump? OutSmartMagazine.com

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By Gregg Shapiro

‘Born in Flames’ A 1980s political drama is more relevant than ever.

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efore you watch filmmaker Lizzie Borden’s groundbreaking queer 1983 indie classic Born in Flames—re-released on VOD in a newly restored high-definition 35th-anniversary version—it’s important to have some historical perspective. Borden, who at the time the film was made was calling herself bisexual, was an outspoken critic of Republican culture and President Reagan. So despite the film’s sloppy editing and sound issues, as well as its alternately scripted and improvised dialogue, Borden deserves praise for her frighteningly prophetic voice that speaks directly to our current social and political climate. In other words, 35 years after it was released, Born in Flames is hotter and more relevant than ever. This fictional drama is set in a not-too-distantfuture New York, during a week of celebration commemorating the 10th anniversary of “The War of Liberation,” which was the most peaceful revolution the world has ever known. It’s an opportunity to take a look back at the liberation events and the progress made during the 10 years that passed, with an eye to the future. Women and minorities are now playing more prominent roles in society than ever before. A pair of pirate-radio DJs, Isabel (out singer/actress Adele Bertei) and Honey, keep listeners informed— as do the three female editors at the socialist newspaper. Unfortunately, there is division amongst the women about how to cover the radical, femaleempowering actions of the lesbian Women’s Army, led by Adelaide (Jean Satterfield).

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Jean Satterfield (as Adelaide, far left) and out singer/actress Adele Bertie (as Isabel) star in Lizzie Borden’s Born in Flames.

Adelaide is a protégé of the outspoken lawyer and activist Zella (feminist, activist, and actress Flo Kennedy playing a character named after her mother). Predictably, many men are none too thrilled with the changed attitudes about women. The male opposition, including government agents and officers of the law, keeps close tabs on the Women’s Army and other female activists. When Adelaide (who works construction during the day and goes to school at nights) is detained and dies mysteriously in her cell, the various women’s factions team up to avenge her death. One group of women takes over the local CBS affiliate, interrupting a presidential speech so that their taped demands and warnings can be broadcast. Another group makes a bomb and plants it in (of all places) the original World

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Trade Center. Part of what makes watching Born in Flames so fascinating is picking out cast members, early in their careers, who went on to much bigger things. That’s Oscar-winning filmmaker Kathryn Bigelow as one of the newspaper editors. A young Eric Bogosian can be seen as one of the CBS technicians. The late gay actor/performance artist Ron Vawter plays an FBI agent. Given the era in which this film was made, as well as its shoestring budget, Born in Flames can be forgiven for its many technical shortcomings. What makes it essential viewing with a timeless quality is the way visionary director Borden foresaw so many world-changing events of the last three decades. First Run Features (firstrunfeatures.com).

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By Gregg Shapiro

Goodbye, Yellow Brick Road Elton John, Jason Gould, Sam Smith, and much more.

n January 2018, Elton John announced that he would be retiring from touring. His threeyear farewell concert tour is sure to be one of the biggest musical events in contemporary pop-music history. The release of his doubledisc hits-compilation Diamonds (Rocket/ Island/UMe) preceded the announcement by a couple of months. At 34 tracks, Diamonds does a good job of representing the first 10 years of John’s career on the first disc. However, things go awry on the second disc, especially since this represents a much longer period—1980 to the present day, a time when the hits were somewhat less plentiful. Because it covers more than 36 years and over 15 studio albums, as well as significant movie soundtracks and original cast recordings, there are obvious exclusions. Nevertheless, as updated collections go, Diamonds sparkles. [EDITOR’S NOTE : Elton John performs in Houston on December 8 and 9 at the Toyota Center.] Arriving six years after his debut EP, Jason Gould’s first full-length album, Dangerous Man (Qwest), is a safe but solid disc. Gould, the gay son of Barbra Streisand and Elliott Gould, holds his own throughout the record, performing originals and cover tunes. A couple of the songs from the EP, “Morning Prayer” and “This Masquerade,” have made their way onto the full-length. His covers of “Bridge over Troubled Water,” “For All We Know,” and “The Way You Look Tonight” are all pleasing to the ear. “The Stranger,” co-written with Marilyn and Alan Bergman, the couple responsible for some of Streisand’s biggest hits, could be the sole nod to Gould’s mother. Also notable are collaborations with legendary lesbian songwriter Marsha Malamet, including “One Day” and “All’s Forgiven.” Let’s face it: Sam Smith is the gay-male Adele. If anything, his new album The Thrill of It All (Capitol) only seals the deal. It’s an unavoidable comparison, especially when Smith opens the disc with a heart-tugging ballad such as “Too Good at Goodbyes.” The gospel-style

choir is also a nice touch. The biggest difference between the new disc and Smith’s award-winning debut album, In the Lonely Hour, is the way that ballads dominate. There’s nothing here like “Money on My Mind,” “Like I Can,” “Restart,” or even “La La La.” That’s not necessarily a bad thing, as “Say It First,” “Him,” “Burning,” “Palace,” and the religious experience of “Pray” (cue gospel choir) demonstrate that Smith knows his strengths. Awe-inspiring gay singer/songwriter Jim Andralis released his solo debut in 2016. Luckily for us, we didn’t have to wait long for the follow-up album. Available on CD and 180-gram gorgeous pink vinyl (with a download code included), Shut Up Shut Up (jimandralismusic.com) by Jim Andralis & The Syntonics exceeds all expectations. With stunning girl-group harmonies provided by The Syntonics (Julie Delano, Leslie Graves, Susan Hwang, and Jessie Kilguss), Andralis has a way of saying in song the things that many of us are thinking. This is best exemplified by “My Therapist Says,” “Don’t Blame New York,” “I’m a Monster,” “Don’t Trust Me,” the food-server anthem “Cover My Section,” and the title cut. Half-Light (Nonesuch), Rostam Batmanglij’s second album since his departure from Vampire Weekend (following I Had a Dream That You Were Mine, his 2016 collaboration with Hamilton Leithauser of The Walkmen) is a radiant musical experience that is both varied and thrilling. Recording as Rostam, the gay musician has created an awe-inspiring quilt of musical styles and genres that fit together as if they were always meant to be in the same song or on the same album. “Bike Dream” is a sexy queer number that should be on everyone’s playlist. “Don’t Let It Get to You” marries African rhythms with glitzy tech to create an irresistible excuse for dancing. “Gwan” and the title cut are simply exquisite.

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Patrick Boothe, a gay Austin-based singer/ songwriter, returns with You Have to Believe We Are Tragic (patrickboothe.com). The title may sound like a parody of the Olivia Newton-John song “Magic,” but the material is serious. Boothe wanted the album “to reflect what it may be like for one to fall in love while working through depression and anxiety.” This definitely comes across on the songs “Matter,” “Untouchable,” “Living Man,” “Good People,” and “Do Better.” In recent years, musical genres you might not think of as being particularly welcoming to out gay men—say country, metal, or jazz, for example—have begun to change in beneficial ways. Even the blues, perhaps the last vestige of the straight-male musician, has an openly gay artist in its ranks with harmonica player Jason Ricci. Over the course of 11 songs clocking in at 77 minutes, Approved by Snakes (Eller Soul) by Jason Ricci & The Bad Kind confirms that Ricci and his band are a blues force to be reckoned with. Unlike the blues, dance music has long been the province of gay men, as both performers and fans. On Celebrate (Burning Tyger), Win Marcinak blends covers (Three Dog Night’s “Celebrate,” Sylvester’s “Disco Heat/Mighty Real,” Kajagoogoo’s “Too Shy,” and Aretha’s “Rock Steady”) with originals. Ulla Hedwig, one of Bette Midler’s original Harlettes, sings with Marcinak on “We Are What We Are.” Finally, musical theater has played and continues to play an important role in the lives of gay men. Three recent cast recordings feature significant gay-male contributions. The late Howard Ashman was not only behind the Broadway musical Little Shop of Horrors, but he also helped to revive Disney’s animated musical with blockbusters such as The Little Mermaid and Aladdin. The first collaboration by Ashman and Alan Menken, Kurt Vonnegut’s God Bless You, Mr. Rosewater (Ghostlight), has

finally made its way to CD on the premiere cast recording featuring James Earl Jones, Skylar Astin, and Santino Fontana. Creative and personal partners Dan Martin and Michael Biello collaborated with Jennifer Robbins on Marry Harry: Original OffBroadway Cast Recording (MarryHarry.com) about the intersection of love and food. Zombie Bathhouse features a book by Brian Kirst, with music and lyrics by Scott Free (whose fans may recognize some of the music from Free’s solo albums).

Gregg Shapiro is a regular contributor to OUTSMART magazine.

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By Terri Schlichenmeyer

‘Transgender History’ The roots of today’s revolution.

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Black on Both Sides: A Racial History of Trans Identity C. Riley Snorton When the Cornell University Library recently assembled a display of “queer and trans performance” items, there was a singular piece of paper that caught Snorton’s eye: it was a French postcard depicting two black “transvestite” performers, possibly in a minstrel show. The Library called it a “rare” piece, but Snorton shows that African-American history is rife with examples of transgenderism. • During the Civil War, for example, slave women dressed in men’s clothing in order to be seen as male and to avoid bondage. Even Harriet Tubman disguised herself as a man to deter arrest. • Black sex-trade workers sometimes dressed as women, often to great mocking and even greater scandal. Nearly a century later, Lucy Hicks Anderson, a madam, became “the first transgendered black to be legally tried and convicted for impersonating a woman,” and was sent to prison for it. • Snorton also cites stories of Ava Betty Brown and Annie Lee Grant, both featured in Ebony and Jet magazines, the latter photographed in clothing for men and for women. • Readers might quibble with issues of definition, particularly “transgender” versus “cross-dressing.” Snorton refers to both in this book, but doesn’t seem to make very strong distinctions between the two. • There’s a wide variety of case studies and interesting stories in this book—much more than the average person might think there’d be—but whether the author has made the material accessible is quite another matter. • University of Minnesota Press (upress.umn.edu). —Terri Schlichenmeyer

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t had to start somewhere. Someone had to make the first step, to pave the way, to drive a stake in the ground and say, “Here, now.” Someone had to be the first so that others could follow, and in the newly updated book Transgender History by Susan Stryker, you’ll see where we go next. Opening a history book with a chapter on word definitions might seem odd, but author Susan Stryker notes that the “remarkable changes” over the last decade demand it. Thus begins this book, with new language for what is an old lifestyle. Indeed, America’s first recorded “intersex” individual was Thomas(ine) Hall, who lived in the 1620s, “sometimes as a man and sometimes as a woman.” Seventy years later, however, the colony of Massachusetts made “cross-dressing” illegal, and those laws spread: by the 1850s, many U.S. cities had ordinances against dressing in clothing normally worn by the opposite sex. And yet, it was hard to stop people who wanted to dress as (or fully transition to) another

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gender. Throughout the 1800s, records show that women dressed as men for battle, cross-dressers braved the frontier, men ran away from their families to be true to their feminine selves, and Native American cultures embraced transgender people. Stryker notes that after anesthesia was invented and surgeries were safer, “individuals began approaching doctors to request surgical alteration of parts of their bodies.” The movement was relatively quiet around the time that the Nazis torched Dr. Magnus Hirschfeld’s Institute for Sexual Science in Berlin. But then American Christine Jorgensen “burst onto the scene” in late 1952 when she traveled to Copenhagen for trans surgery. Her ensuing fame didn’t signal full acceptance for trans people, but it was a start: riots in 1959 led to activism in the 1960s, and post-Stonewall groups consolidated to lend support and work through “difficult decades” of the ‘70s,

‘80s, and the AIDS crisis. Today, says Stryker, though we live in interesting times of Trump and turmoil, the news is heartening. Millennials and “post-Baby Boomers” have expressed more acceptance of “trans-gender as part of the ‘anti-heteronormative’ mix.” Though Transgender History is a revised edition of a book first published a decade ago, it has a fresh feel, thanks to the author’s recent additions. The first chapter, somewhat of a dictionary, schools readers on new ways of talking about LGBTQ issues and individuals, while the last chapter of trans history brings readers up to the present, including topics of politics, public potties, and celebrity. What makes Stryker’s book unusual is that, though it’s not always chronological, it is breezy and casually readable. There’s no stuffiness here, and no scholarly overtones: Stryker makes this history accessible for people who want a story and not a textbook. So this book is a pleasant surprise—easy to read, not overly wordy, and with enough illustrations to make for enjoyable reading. For anyone who wants a basic, yet lively, overview of trans life in America, Transgender History is a great start. Terri Schlichenmeyer has been reading since she was three years old, and she lives on a hill in Wisconsin with two dogs and 11,000 books.

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ACCOUNTANTS/BOOKKEEPERS/ CPAS Gary Gritz, CPA

230 Westcott, Ste 210 ..................713/784-3030

St Paul’s United Methodist Church

5501 Main .......................................713/528-0527

CLEANING SERVICES

Perfection Plus

3406 Audubon ...............................713/520-7237

AIR CONDITIONING/HEATING

Newport Air

newportair.net .............................281/808-8630

2800 Kirby, Ste A-2 ........................713/400-2987

offeringhope.org............................713/778-1300

Diana Foundation

Greater Houston LGBT Chamber of Commerce KPFT Radio

kpft.org........................................... 713-526-4000

Lesbian Health Initiative (LHI)

401 Branard .................................. lhihouston.org Lesbians Over Fifty (L.O.A.F.)

............................................ www.loafhouston.org Midtown Houston

............................................midtownhouston.com MyGayHouston.com

ASTROLOGER

rwpcHouston.org .......................... 713-572-3724

ATTORNEYS/LEGAL SERVICES

My All Pro Handyman

Azur Salon

NU-Cuts Hair Salon

515 Westheimer .............................713/524-7858 Revolt Hair

2034 A West Gray, Ste 118 .......... 713/540-7383

2600 SW Fwy, Ste 409 ................. 713/589-9804 Jeffrey Myles/JM Professional Services

........................................................... 713/447-2164 Denise O’Doherty, LPC, LMFT, LCDC, RN

3131 Eastside St., Ste. 435 ..........713/524-9525 Dr. Barry F. Gritz, MD

Pet Patrol

230 Westcott, Ste 210 .................. 713/869-7400

Ryan White Planning Council

3131 Eastside St, Ste 4...............15281/610-8190

U of H Graduate College of Social Work

..................................................uh.edu/socialwork

COLLEGES/EDUCATION

Robert Snellgrove, LMSW-ACP

4617 Montrose, Ste C206 ............. 713/522-7014 Christine Wysong

1834 Southmore. ...........................713/808-1001

1201-F Westheimer ........................ 713/528-1201

Clyde Williams, Attorney

ENTERTAINMENT/NIGHT LIFE

Tech Auto Maintenance

530 Waugh Dr................................ 713/942-8598

Houston Media Source

1722 W. Alabama .......................... 713/592-9300

Houston Sabercats

1006 Missouri ................................ 713/529-4364

611 Hyde Park........................HoustonEagle.com 410 Roberts Street .........................713/524-7700

AUTOMOTIVE SALES

...........................................houstonsabercats.com

2520 Main St ...................................832/981-7590 Clear Lake Subaru

15121 Gulf Fwy ..............................346/229-3234 Planet Lincoln

20403 I-45 North Spring, TX...... 888/242-5059 Sterling McCall Lexus/Denny Holiday

Island ETC

2317 Mechanic St, Galveston...... 409/762-3556 JR’s/Santa Fe

808 Pacific ...................................... 713/521-2519 Lake Charles

Visitlakecharles.org/greattimes ... .800/456-7952 Miller Outdoor Theatre

MillerOutdoorTheatre.com..........281/373-3386 Pearl Bar

10235 Southwest Fwy ...................713/995-2447

4216 Washington .................. PearlHouston.com

BAKERIES/CUSTOM CAKES

2401 San Jacinto ................ RichsNIghtClub.com

Acadian Bakers

604 W. Alabama.............................713/520-1484 David Alcorta Catering

davidalcorta.net ............................ 832/439-0224 Dessert Gallery

DessertGallery.com.......................713-522-9999

CATERING SERVICES

David Alcorta Catering

davidalcorta.net ............................ 832/439-0224 Jim Benton of Houston Catering

2811 Eastman ................................ 713/802-2860

CHURCHES/SPIRITUAL CENTERS

Bering United Methodist

1440 Harold .................................. beringumc.org Living Mosaic Church

401 Branard St............................... 832/971-0364 Palmer Memorial Episcopal Church

6221 Main Street............................713/529-6196 Resurrection MCC

2025 W 11th .................................... 713/861-9149

Bayou City Smiles/Marcus de Guzman, DDS

Houston Eagle

37 Waugh Dr. ................................. 713/863-8244 Audi Central Houston 2120 Southwest Fwy ............... 866/673-7093 Central Houston Cadillac

1006 Missouri ...............................713/529-4364

2313 Edwards St., Ste 150 ........... 713/518-1411

617 Fairview ...................................713/528-8102

1759 Westheimer ...........................713/529-5855

Samuel A. Carrell, DDS/Bruce W. Smith, DDS

George Country Sports Bar

2305 Yale St ................................... 713/862-6630 RMS Auto Care

Allstardental.com ......................... 936/689-2252

2313 Edwards St., Ste. 150 ............ 713/518-1411

2409 Grant St......................... BayouCityBar.com

Master Car Care & Collision

HEALTH CARE–DENTISTS

Bayou City Bar & Grill

AUTOMOTIVE REPAIRS

Rich’s Houston

Sherwood Forest Faire

SherwoodForestFaire.com ......... .512/222-6680 Stages Theatre

StagesTheatre.com ........................ 713-527-0123 Tony’s Corner Pocket

Bayou City Smiles/ Cynthia Corral, DDS

Cory Logan, DDS

LifeSmiles by Randy Mitchmore, DDS

Bruce W. Smith, DDS/Bruce Smith, DDS

HEALTH CARE-EMERGENCY CENTERS

River Oaks Emergency

2320 S. Shepherd Dr ...................713/526-2320 SignatureCare Emergency Centers

1007 Westheimer ...........................281/709-2897 1925 TC Jester................................832/850-4338 1014 Wirt Rd....................................832/924-0312 Additional locations ......................ercare24.com

HEALTH CARE–OPHTHALMOLOGISTS

Houston Eye Associates/Stewart Zuckerbrod, MD

5420 Dashwood, Ste 101 .............. 713/668-9118

HEALTH CARE–OPTOMETRISTS

Boutique Eye Care

2502 Woodhead ............................713/528-2010

4317 Montrose, Ste. 2 ...................713/529-3937

GaleneFinancial.com ................... 713/489-4322 Grace Yung/Midtown Financial

3355 Alabama, Ste 180 .................713/355-9833

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517 West Gray ................................713/942-7546

HOME FURNISHINGS/ACCESSORIES

Alabama Furniture

4900 N. Shepherd ..........................713/862-3035 Cantoni

9889 Westheimer ...........................cantoni.com

coda

355 W 19th ......................................713/864-4411 Fountains and Statuary

11804 Hempstead Rd ....................713/957-3672

HOME REMODELING/RENOVATIONS

Luria Construction

LuriaConstruction.com............... 713/828-2155

HOME REMODELING/PAINTING

Luria Construction

LuriaConstruction.com................. 713/828-2155

INSURANCE AGENCIES/AGENTS

Jeffrey Bules/Insurance Associates Group

Insuranceassociatesgroup.com…713/523-9400 Dolan & Palacios

7322 S.W. Fwy, Ste. 1-1888 ..................832/680-0332 Lane Lewis/Farmers Insurance

2200 North Loop W, Ste 136 ...... 713/688-8669 Patrick Torma/State Farm

3329 Telephone Road, Ste B ........832/649-4311

Select Jewelers

JEWELERS

2221 S. Voss Rd ............................... .713/789-221 Silverlust

1338-C Westheimer ...................... 713/520-5440

LANDSCAPING/GARDENING

Joshua’s Native Plants & Antiques

InkTify .......................................281-557-6200

Houston Fertility Specialists

FINANCIAL PLANNING/BANKS

HEALTH CARE-WEIGHT LOSS CLINICS

Spectacles on Montrose

Aspire Fertility

Bryan Cotton/Mass Mutual Three Greenway Plaza ..............281/960-0447 Richard Dickson/Galene Financial

HEALTH CARE-RESEARCH STUDIES

UT Health Substance Abuse Study

Windsweptlandscape.com ...........713/263-7771

1806B Westheimer ........................713/523-1279 1700 Post Oak Blvd, Ste 110 ......... 713/622-7470

...............................MenHavingBabies.org/Austin

Skin Renaissance Laser/Octavio Barrios, MD

507 West Gray ................................713/942-7546

Eye Gallery

FERTILITY/GYNECOLOGY

Men Having Babies

2120 Ashland ................................. 713/864-2650

502 W. 18th St ................................713/862-7444

2055 Westheimer ......................... 713/520-6600

www.fertilityspecialists.net .........713/512-7900

HEALTH CARE–SKIN CARE

Heights Dermatology/Alpesh Desai, MD

Eye Contact

817 W. Dallas ..................................832/722-7658

AspireFertility.com ........................713/425-3003

Vitality IV Studio

2034-A West Gray., Ste. 125 ....... 713/861-4868

Dr. B-Fit/ Octavio Barrios, MD

All Star Dental

.......................................................... 713/236-0064

Vitality IV Studio

535 W. 20th, Ste 100 .................... 713/861-4848

The Montrose Center

401 Branard ................................... 713/529-0037

COMPUTERS/INTERNET/IT SERVICES Copy.com

St. Hope Foundation

...........................................................713/486-2635

RDOip.com.....................................281/372-6114 Katine & Nechman LLP

Ryan White Planning Council

Dr. Daniel Garza, MD

230 Westcott, Ste 210 .................713/869-7400

Erik J. Osterrieder/Rao deBoer Osterrieder

Legacy Community Health Services

HEALTH CARE–COUNSELING/THERAPY

D. “Woodja” Flanigan, MS, LPA

Houston Community College ............................................................. hccs.edu

gonzalezolivierillc.com .................713/481-3040

HEALTH CARE–SERVICES

Harris County Public Health

RWPCHouston.org.........................713/572-3784

..................................................... ThePetPatrol.org

Gonzalez Olivieri LLC

2205 Montrose Blvd ..................... 832/426-4573

HAIR/NAIL/MAKE-UP SALONS

Bering Support Network

MorningsideArchitects.com ........713/529-2630

...........................................................713/529-5842

Stretch Montrose

M. Sandra Scurria, MD

...............................................713-526-1017, ext.20

.............................. MyGayHouston.com/discover

Lilly Roddy Astrology

6565 West Loop South, Ste 300 .. 281/661-5901

1415 California Street ................... 832/548 5000

ARCHITECTS

Morningside Architects

2205 Fannin .................................. 713/659-4998

aphandyman.net........................... 936/689-2252

HoustonLGBTChamber.com ........832-510-3002

ADVERTISING

3701 Kirby, Ste 1230 .................... 713/526-0005

COMMUNITY/NONPROFIT

Paramount Bookkeeping Services

OutSmart Magazine

FITNESS CLUBS/PERSONAL TRAINERS

Club Houston

Publichealth.harriscountytx.gov.713/439-6293

.......................................TheDianaFoundation.org

ParamountBookkeeping.net ..... 713/623-1210

Gordon Crofoot, MD Maggie White, FNP-BC

HANDYMAN SERVICES

...........................................................713/664-9911

Merlin CPA

MerlinCPA.com ............................ 713/833-3302

7106 Spencer Highway ................ 281/542-9400

HEALTH CARE/PHARMACIES

Avita Pharmacy

AvitaPharmacy.com ..................... 713/489-4362

HEALTH-PHYSICAL THERAPY

Crom Rehabilitation/Dr. Roy Rivera

Cromrehab.com .............................713/868-2766

HEALTH CARE–PHYSICIANS

Octavio Barrios, MD

507 West Gray ................................713/942-7546

Windswept Landscaping

MARKETING/PROMOTIONAL ITEMS MASSAGE THERAPISTS

Ryan Fugate, RMT

RyanMassageWorks.com .............713/269-7926 Joel Leal, RMT

.......................................................... 713/397-8808

MED SPA

Vida & Health Day Spa

2116 Bissonnet, Ste A ................... 832/804-6182

713-344-4057

MOVERS

All My Sons Moving & Storage

AllMySons.com/Houston..…..…281/612-7973

PEST CONTROL SERVIC

Andy’s All Star Pest Control

........................................................... 713/732-7742

PET SERVICES& SUPPLIES

Last Wishes

www.lastwishes.com ....................713/452-0474 Midtown Veterinary Hospital

MidtownVetHospital.com............ 713-528-4900 Molly’s Mutthouse

3407 Montrose ...............................832/581-2453 3410 N. Shepherd ........................ 713/426-6888 2755 Vossdale.................................281/501-9062 Spay-Neuter Assistance Program

Snapus.org. .....................................713/862-3863 West Alabama Animal Clinic

2030 W. Alabama...........................713/528-0818

PHOTOGRAPHERS

Dalton DeHart Photography

DaltonDehart.com.........................713/622-2202

Yvonne Feece Photography

yvonnefeece.com ..........................832/876-1053

PHOTOGRAPHY

Houston Camera Exchange

5900 Richmond Ave ......................713/789-6901

PLUMBING

Nick’s Plumbing & Sewer Services

Nicksplumbing.com ......................713/597-8624 U-Plumb-It Plumbing Supply

1424 Montrose ............................... 713-942-2277 Village Plumbing & Appliance

5403 Kirby ..........................713/224-DRIP(3747)

POLITICOS

Fran Watson Campaign for State Senate

..................................... FranWatsonForTexas.com

POOLS & POOL SERVICES

Tranquility Pools

........................................................... 713/447-9201

PRINTING/COPY CENTERS

Copy.com

1201-F Westheimer ........................ 713/528-1201

PSYCHIC READERS

Readings by LA

readingbyLA.com ..........................832/856-2188

REAL ESTATE–MORTGAGE/TITLE

Wade Knight / Martha Turner

Wadeknight.com........................... 713/582-0264

........................................................Darquetan.com

Lynette Lew/Better Homes and Gardens LynetteLew.com. ......................713/582-2202 Vinod Ramani/Urban Living Realtors

Aquafest

Aquafestcruises.com ....................800/592-9058

Tom Schwenk/Tom’s Galveston Real Estate

Bkcruiseplanners.com ................. 832/963-8523

Tim Surratt/Greenwood King

4920 Mimosa ...................................713/661-2117

VJ Tramonte/Joe Tramonte Realty

LafayetteTravel.com ..................... 800/346-1958

5023 Washington.......................... 713/868-7226 Tomsgalvestonrealestate.com .....713-857-2309 ...........................................................713/320-5881

Chicago Title –Inner Loop

Interlinc Mortgage/Cody Grizzoffi

520 Post Oak.................................. 713/724-4306

Michael Caballero / Stewart Title Post Oak

HeritageTexas.com ...................... 713/855-4419

3815 Garrott St, Ste 202 B ............ 832/541-1103 1980 Post Oak Blvd. Suite 120 .... 713/625-8626

REAL ESTATE–REALTORS

Jared Anthony/NextHome Realty Center

ichoosejared.com ......................... 832/570-5726

Brooks Ballard/Engel & Volkers

309 Gray .......................................... 713/522-7474 David Bowers/The House Company/Galveston

David@DavidBowers.com .........409/763-2800 Rene Ibarra Camiba/Karen Derr Realty

Karenderr.com ...............................713/446-8331 Karen Derr/Karen Derr Realty

karenderr.com ...............................713/875-7050

Joey Garza /Front Street Properties

Frontstreetproperties.com ......... 713/516-0060 Dolan & Palacios

7322 Southwest Fwy, Ste. 1-1888 .......832/680-0332 Martha Turner Properties

Marthaturner.com ......................... 713/520-1981 Ashton Martini/Martha Turner Properties .................................................... 832/878-7686 Jeremy Fain/Greenwood King Properties

...........................................................713/677-4337

TANNING SALONS

Debbie Levine/Greenwood King Properties

...........................................................713/942-6857

1802 Broadway/Galveston .......... 409/765-9837

3700 Buffalo Speedway................713/418-7000

Darque Tan

TRAVEL/TRAVEL AGENCIES

BK Cruise Planners Your Land & Cruise Experts

Concierge Travel, Inc Lafayette Travel

Andy Weber/John Daugherty Realtors

VACATION RENTALS

Casa Azur

Christopher Williams/Heritage Properties

CasaAzurCosta Rica.com .............832/541-3704

RESTAURANTS/COFFEE/WINE BARS

Acadian Bakers

604 W.Alabama .............................713/520-1484

Auntie Chang’s Dumpling House

2621 S. Shepherd, #290 ...............713/524-8410 Dessert Gallery

DessertGallery.com.......................713-522-9999 Free Grillin’/Chef Michele

...........................................................832/419-0165 Giacomo’s Cibo e Vino

3215 Westheimer ........................... 713/522-1934

WEDDING SERVICES - BAKERS 604 W. Alabama.............................713/520-1484 David Alcorta Catering

davidalcorta.net ............................ 832/439-0224 Dessert Gallery

DessertGallery.com.......................713-522-9999

WEDDING SERVICES - CATERERS David Alcorta Catering

davidalcorta.net ............................ 832/439-0224

Gloria’s

Jim Benton of Houston Catering

2616 Louisiana .............GloriasRestaurants.com

2811 Eastman ................................ 713/802-2860

Hamburger Mary’s

WEDDING SERVICES-PHOTOGRAPHERS

Riva’s Italian Restaurant

Dalton DeHart Photography

Urban Eats

Yvonne Feece-Tran Photography

2409 Grant ......................................713/677-0674 1117 Missouri St............................. 713/529-3450 3414 Washington Ave ........feasturbaneats.com

TELEPHONES/CELL/WIRELESS

Premier Wireless

12220 Murphy ............................... 281/575-8500

DaltonDehart.com.........................713/622-2202

yvonnefeece.com ..........................832/876-1053

WEDDING SERVICES - SERVICES Harmony Strings String Quartet

....................................www.harmonystrings.com

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BAR & CLUB GUIDE HOUSTON

definitive home to the man’s man - leather, bear, jock or muscle, you’ll find them here! DJs every night, multiple patios and a leather/accessories shop inside the bar. Noon-2am every day, 611 Hyde Park, 713.523.BIRD

BLUR Multi-level dance club featuring an upstairs lounge and balconies. Ladies enjoy Wet and Wild Wed., 18-year-olds welcome Thurs., Latin night on Sun. Happy hour 8–10pm; free cover before 11pm. 710 Pacific St. • blurbar.com. CLUB 2020 Located downtown, this urban club features Clubbers Friday with male and female dancers. Its 6,400 square feet also offers theater-sized viewing screens and VIP rooms. 2020 Leeland • 713.227. 9667 club2020houston.com. CLUB CRYSTAL Find many of Inergy’s former staff and décor at this two-room Latin/hip-hop club. Sunday evening drag shows rule the roost. 6680 Southwest Frwy, next to Colorado 713.278.2582 • crystaltheclub.com. CROCKER BAR This comfortably remodeled Montrose nightspot also offers karaoke on Tuesdays and Thursdays and extended happy-hour prices throughout the week. 2312 Crocker • 713.529.3355.

All Your Country Sports Bar

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7am–2am HOURS: Mon-Sat Sunday 12pm–2am

$ 50

617 Fairview • Houston, Texas • 713.528.8102

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GUAVA LAMP This trendy and friendly video and cruise bar gets busy during happy hour and stays busy ‘til closing. Karaoke on Wed. and Sun. 570 Waugh Dr. • 713.524.3359 guavalamphouston.com. HAMBURGER MARY’S Tuesday & Wednesday 4p-10p, Thursday & Friday 4p-2a, Saturday & Sunday 11a-2a EAGLE Part of the Eagle worldwide family, it’s the

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JR’s Bar & Grill A Taste of New Orleans in Montrose

GEORGE Regulars rule at this comfortable neighborhood sports bar. Sports Saturdays and Sundays start at 3pm with dart and pool tournaments. 617 Fairview • 713.528.8102.

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NEON BOOTS DANCEHALL & SALOON Houston’s only LGBTQ country dancehall opens Wednesday–Sunday. Wednesday features Steak Night and Bingo. Free dance classes on Thursdays and Karaoke. 11410 Hempstead Hwy 713.677.0828 • neonbootsclub.com. PEARL BAR This LGBT-friendly lounge in the Washington corridor features daily highlights like open mic night, steak night, and drink specials. 4216 Washington • pearlhouston.com. RICH’S HOUSTON Houston’s most iconic and largest LGBT dance club, with multiple levels featuring a video/show bar and a private VIP lounge. No cover before 10:30 p.m. 2401 San Jacinto • 281.846.6685 richsnightclub.com. THE RIPCORD This multi-roomed leather bar boasts a busy patio, especially on the weekends. The Forge shop located inside the club. Saturday nights with DJ Tad Dvorak 715 Fairview Ave • 713.521.2792.

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Where Everyone is Welcome!

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JR’S BAR & GRILL This Montrose standard offers drag and strip shows throughout the week, karaoke Thurs. and Sun., plus pool tables and male dancers. 808 Pacific St. • 713.521.2519 jrsbarandgrill.com.

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What is your favorite shot to make? To drink? To make: “Sex with an Alligator” (Midori/Jagermeister/Chambord) To drink: Rumple Minze What are you best known for? It’s a secret recipe simply known as the “Robbie Special” Grindr, Scruff or other app you see most often? I’d say Grindr, but that should end too. People should go out and meet people in person. If you weren’t a bartender… what career would you choose? Education. I was in it for many years.

RUDYARD’S The eclectic British pub is known for its craft beers as well as for the burgers. Most weekends you’ll find up-and-coming local bands rocking the house. 2010 Waugh Dr. • 713.521.0521 • rudyardspub.com. SOUTH BEACH Closed for remodeling. BARCODE With the longest daily happy hours in Montrose (8am–10pm), this neighborhood watering hole is very popular. Drag shows Wednesday–Sunday. Karaoke Monday & Wednesday. 817 Fairview • 713.526.2625 • tcsshowbar.com. TONY’S CORNER POCKET This comfortable club has one of the friendliest bar staffs in town. Amateur dance contest each Thurs., Fri., & Sat. at 11pm. Opens daily at noon. 817 W. Dallas • 713.571.7870 tonyscornerpocketbar.com. VIVIANA’S Happening weekend-only gay dance club with Latin DJs, singers, talent shows & Sunday strippers. 4624 Dacoma • 713.681.4104. BEAUMONT ORLEANS STREET PUB AND PATIO The place to hang for food, fun, and booze in a newly renovated pub, in good weather or bad. Open every night from 7pm–2am. 650 Orleans • 409.835.4243.

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BRYAN/COLLEGE STATION HALO VIDEO BAR The only LGBT dance club in Bryan/College station, this sleek spot is open Thurs.– Sat. smack in the middle of Aggieland. 121 North Main • 979.823.6174 • halobcs.com. GALVESTON

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23RD ST. STATION The bar features daily drink specials and the weekend is filled with pulsing music, hot dancers, drag shows, and a Sunday Tea Dance. 1706 23rd St. • 409.621.1808. ROBERT’S LAFITTE The Island institution features a private patio with swimming pool. On Sat. and Sun. nights, the Ladies of Lafitte show takes the stage. 2501 Avenue Q (at 25th) • 409.765.9092. RUMORS BEACH BAR Drink Specials every night and daily day drinking specials starting at Noon. Great drag shows Friday – Sunday and karaoke Sunday – Thursday at 8p. Sunday Drag Bingo. 3102 Seawall Blvd. • 409.497.4617 • rumorsbeachbar.com

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SPRING RANCH HILL SALOON With its two pool tables, 52-inch plasma televisions, and large dance floor, this popular northside spot also offers DJs Thursday–Saturday. 247041 I-45N Suite 103 • 281.298.9035 • ranchhill.com. THE ROOM BAR AND LOUNGE This bar and video lounge has a laid-back atmosphere including daily drink specials, karaoke, free pool, drag shows, and live DJs several nights a week. 4915 FM 2920 • 281.907.6866 • roombarspring.com. OutSmartMagazine.com |

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By Lilly Roddy

Get Your Projects Started Now Then, later, reconnect with existing clients and friends.

ercury goes retrograde for the first time this year from March 18 through April 20. Mercury will be retrograde in Aries and will have the strongest impact on the cardinal signs—Aries, Cancer, Libra, and Capricorn. Get your projects started before midmonth, and then use the Mercury retrograde period to take care of ongoing projects, reconnecting with existing clients and friends, and reworking your relationship and partnership a ee ents. • T e e a e also t o Full oons t s month. The light of the Full Moon allows us to see the strength of our emotional ego. The Full Moon on the 1st in Virgo helps us to focus on improving our environmental and physical health, while the next Full Moon in Libra will help us focus on refining our relationships and sense of fairness. ARIES (March 21–April 19). As the month begins, you are in a period of rest and retreat, being very selective about the activities you participate in and the people you see. You have some good ideas, but are having a hard time putting them into motion. That all begins to change after the 6th. With Mercury retrograde in your sign after the 18th, you will want to focus on what’s currently on your plate. Give yourself extra time to get to wherever you are going! Career becomes very important after the 17th, and you may feel that you need to make some changes. This is a great month for planning, but delay taking any action until after April 20. TAURUS (April 20–May 20). Connecting with people of like minds and compassionate hearts is the motivation as the month begins. The first half of March is an excellent time to work with business and community organizations, letting you promote your career while giving back to the community at the same time. The latter half of March is about connecting with old friends and business associates, which can be fruitful on several levels. By midmonth, you are ready for some R&R in a familiar place that can provide you with time to focus on yourself and rid your mind of excess clutter. Relationships, career options, and investment opportunities all continue to improve, but it is best to wait until after April 20 to act. GEMINI (May 21–June 21). Career, long-term security, and personal satisfaction are all important this month. With your career, you are looking for internal satisfaction as well as financial assurance. You have been in an especially sensitive time since last month as you have avoided crowds and people who are too demanding. Relationships have been needing more care and tending as well, and your partner may have seemed more needy than usual. By midmonth, you are ready for more social encounters with friends. Your ruler, Mercury, goes retrograde

in your area of friends. You should be hearing from people from your past! CANCER (June 22–July 22). As your month begins, you are in a time of reflection about your spiritual beliefs. You are more open-minded than usual, and can understand ideas that have eluded you in the past. This is a very good month for writing, teaching, or being the student. Toward midmonth, you are focused on your career—especially with the Mercury retrograde cycle occurring there. This can be an excellent time to reconnect with previous or existing clients and customers. For some, this can be a time when you are just fed up with your work conditions, and are ready to “leave the building!” Your feelings may be correct, but you will want to wait until after April 20 to leave. Your relationship will need some attention after midmonth—otherwise, tempers could flare. Pace yourself! LEO (July 23–August 22). March is a very reflective time for you. You are examining your relationships and how much real intimacy is there. This is a great month for you and your partner to renew those deeper emotional bonds. In business, you want to make sure that you are dealing with people who have values and beliefs similar to yours. With all of the influence from Neptune, you may be discovering things that had been hidden from you in the past. By midmonth, you are feeling a little lighter and looking for some mental diversions. You are looking for new projects and themes for your career that address your need for passion, and a chance to rework those themes comes your way near the end of the month! VIRGO (August 23–September 22). Relationships are the main menu item for you as the month begins. If you are involved, this is a time of renewal—not only for physical and emotional bonding, but for strengthening spiritual connections as well. You can see your partner more clearly because you can see your own shadow more clearly. Family responsibilities may draw you away from personal activity and create some tension in the process. You are giving a lot of time to creative activity that may involve your children—or your own inner child. Your ruling planet, Mercury, goes retrograde on the 18th. This can be a good time for you to work on finances, get legal documents in order, and create a greater pathway for communication between you and your partner. Keep your decisions on hold until after April 20 when Mercury is direct, so those decisions will have a better chance of working out. LIBRA (September 23–October 23). As the month begins, you are focused on both your personal health and your work environment. Coworkers can be needier and more demanding than usual, since

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they think you are the company therapist anyway! This month you will not have as much patience for them, as you are paying more attention to your boundaries and how well you are treated. You can more easily change some of those bad habits by paying attention to diet and exercise this month. Mercury will be retrograde in your relationship sector. For those who are involved, this is a time to renew those bonds. If you are having problems, they will come to the surface to be discussed and resolved. If you are single (or perhaps even involved), people from your past may show up to renew previous romantic connections. SCORPIO (October 24–November 21). Life continues to be busy with Jupiter (planet of travel, education, and expanded perspectives) moving through your sign until next November. You are ready to act on these opportunities, especially when it comes to getting your message and views out there. You are in an especially creative time when ideas are just coming out of thin air. This is a better month to get your ideas organized. You will be reviewing your work environment with this Mercury retrograde. You may want to relocate your work space, or even look for another place to work. The retrograde will bring up old problems that can be addressed in some fashion. It’s also a super time to get back onto an exercise or health regimen, especially with this retrograde. Relationships take the spotlight at the end of the month! SAGITTARIUS (November 22–December 21). You have had a busy February, and that continues through the first half of this month. With Mercury going retrograde by midmonth, you will be ready for a break. With Mars so active, this is a great time to improve your overall health. You are more direct, and may not sleep as well as you’d like. Mars tends to keep us on guard. Home will be a sanctuary where you can escape from the demands placed on you. Your creative juices do kick in, but you are taking it at a much more leisurely pace after midmonth. You are in a very conservative frame of mind, and may consider a budget when it comes to finances this month. You are also looking at investing for the future to improve your outcomes. CAPRICORN (December 22–January 19). You are looking at long-term plans for improvement in your career, your relationships, and your long-term security. You have been able to communicate the subtleties of your needs more easily, as you have been more open to your inner child—thereby getting closer to what fulfills you and gives life meaning. You are ready to reinvent parts of your life to revive that missing passion that makes you want to get up every day and make a difference. Home and family continued on page 109

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On January 28, the Greater Houston LGBT Chamber of Commerce and the Executive & Professional Association of Houston hosted a 2018 mixer, “The New Year, New You,” at Guava Lamp. Pictured are Michele Laprade, Viviana Carranza, Jack Berger, Michelle Brockway, Ryan Wilson, Tammi Wallace, Gary Wood, and Roy Alvarez Jr.

On January 28, Bayou City Performing Arts hosted a Crescendo Society reception at the Montrose Center. Pictured are Michael Stewart, Tyler Ruberg, Veronica Yawn, Jerry Aucoin, and Debora Yahn.

On January 31, the Diana Foundation hosted a reception celebrating the Foundation’s history archive at the University of Houston Libraries Special Collections, at M.D. Anderson Library. Pictured are (front row) Lisa German, Marilyn Meyrs, and Vince Lee, and (back row) Michael Liebbert, John Heinzerling, Tanner Williams, Christian Kelleher, and Dan Maxwell.

On February 2, the Harris County Democratic Lawyers Association hosted its February 2018 luncheon with Barbara Radnofsky. Pictured are Dinesh Singhal, Dalton DeHart, Mike Doyle, Ben Rybeck (of Brazos Bookstore), and Radnofsky.

On January 10, Rich’s Houston hosted The Fantasy of Las Vegas: A Mystery & Fantasy Mardi Gras Ball. Pictured are Scott Miller (president), Robert Harwood (host), Pierre Alexandre (contest winner), Clifford Dotson (host), and Ed Bradshaw (member representative).

On February 4, John Ross Palmer Art hosted the 2018 Escapist Initiation Ceremony. Pictured are congressman Al Green, Paula Hawkins, Ryan Lindsay, John Ross Palmer, Elena Sandovici, A.V.M. Hawkins, and district attorney Kim Ogg.

On January 12, Brian and Laurell Tagtmeier hosted a meet-and-greet for judicial candidates at George’s Country Sports Bar. Pictured are candidates with the Tagtmeiers.

On January 14, the Human Rights Campaign Houston hosted a Gala Table Captains Event at the home of Frank Billingsley and Kevin Gilliard. Pictured are Stephen Goldberg, Gary Wilson, Krystal Gilliam, Rey Ocanas, Josh Beasley, Gilliard, and Billingsley.

On January 20, the Greater Houston LGBT Chamber of Commerce hosted a Building Business program at 3 Greenway Plaza. Pictured are Kelly Hejtmancik, Bryan Cotton, Tammi Wallace, Gary Wood, Bob Harvey, and Patrick Jankowski.

On February 11, the T.R.U.T.H. Project hosted an AIDS Walk Houston Kickoff Mixer at Guava Lamp. Pictured are supporters of the T.R.U.T.H. Project.

On February 11, the Executive & Professional Association of Houston hosted a February 2018 dinner meeting at the 1940 Air Terminal Museum. Pictured are (back row) Ken Mingus, Robert Hammond, and Tom Baker, and (front row) Dr. Fran Smith, and Susan Smith-Snider.

On January 21, the Houston Hurricanes, the Lone Star Veterans, and the Lone Star Volleyball Association hosted charity sand volleyball and glow volleyball tournaments. Pictured are Brian Crumby, Bart Boushley, Matt Arnold, and Mark Reyna.

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