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THE COLOURFUL WEDDING OF

GBEMISOLA AYININUOLA AND DAVIDE BERTELOTTI IN NIGERIA AND ITALY

Story: Bamidele Salako & Funmilayo Adeyemi French: Chinyere Ndukwe Photo: Adekoya Adegbite & Family Album

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t was designed and packaged as a knowledge-sharing and networking platform exclusive to professionals who were looking to deepen and expand their professional networks. However, as most spontaneous love beginnings go, it quickly became the place where the stars aligned for two individuals who were previously unknown to each other.

And so began the beautiful love story between handsome, Davide Bertelloti, a London-based Italian IT expert and the sweet, sexy and smart, Gbemisola Ayininuola who works with Credit Suisse Bank, in the United Kingdom.

Davide studied Computer Engineering at The University of Pisa, Italy and works at the London Stock Exchange as an IT Expert. Gbemisola on the other hand is an alumnus of the popular Adesoye College, Offa, Kwara State, Malvern Girls College, UK, where she did her Alevels, the prestigious Imperial College London and Cass Business School, London where she bagged a Master’s Degree.

Their love story had all the trappings of excitement: a chance encounter, swapping of telephone numbers and a life changing relationship that has now evolved into a happy home.

OVATION learnt that Davide, who is quite the charmer, stepped into the networking event in London and sat in an entirely different part of the hall. Looking around, it wasn’t long before his eyes spotted the gorgeous, slim-built ebony beauty, Gbemisola.

What followed next wasn’t part of the plan when he was preparing for the event early that morning. Their eyes met 8

and their souls bonded and the rest as they say is history.

Their parents and loved ones were soon in the know and following some years of blissful courtship, the lovebirds decided it was time to seal the deal.

Gbemisola’s doting parents, Mr. Sam Ayininuola, Managing Director of Energy Bank, Ghana, and Mrs. Ikoliba Ayininuola who owns the top-of-the line Fundamental Lingeries at The Palms Shopping Mall, Lekki, Lagos, were super delighted that their first daughter had found her Mr. Right and were determined to give their baby girl the best wedding treat ever. Davide’s parents, Mr. and Mrs. Alessandro Bertelotti were no less excited.

Planning for what everyone hoped would be a colourful, classy and captivating traditional engagement ceremony therefore, got into full swing. The operative themes during planning were ‘great attention to detail’ and ‘uncompromising commitment to excellence.’ Who else was on top of the arrangements but the ever-cheerful bride’s mother, Mrs. Ikoliba Ayininuola. She was at her efficient best, little wonder the whole ceremony turned out superlative.

Nothing trumps a traditional wedding ceremony in Nigeria-renowned for their elaborateness and always certainly full of culture, colour and glamour.

It was naturally imperative for the bride’s family that the very best hands in the wedding planning business be recruited to make Gbemisola’s special day as magical as possible. It was no surprise then that the Ayininuolas went all out and spared no cost in hiring some of Nigeria’s best wedding vendors whom they charged with the task of making the

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ela a été conçu et concocté comme un endroit pour un échange de connaissances entre les professionnels qui cherchent à approfondir et élargir leurs réseaux profescomme Cependant, sionnels. commencent la plupart des histoires d'amour, c’est rapidement devenu l'endroit où les étoiles se sont alignées pour deux personnes qui étaient jusque-là inconnue l’une à l'autre.

C’est ainsi qu’a commencé la belle histoire d'amour entre le beau Davide Bertelloti, un Italien, expert en informatique basé à Londres, et la douce, sexy et intelligente, Gbemisola Ayininuola qui travaille avec le Credit Suisse Bank, au Royaume-Uni. Davide a étudié la maintenance informatique à l'Université de Pise, en Italie et travaille avec une entreprise de l’informatique au Royaume-Uni. Gbemisola d'autre part est une ancienne élève d’Adesoye College à Offa de l’Etat de Kwara, du Malvern Girls College, au Royaume Uni, où elle obtint sa licence. Elle étudia aussi au prestigieux Imperial College de Londres and au Cass Business School, à Londres où elle obtint sa Master.

Leur histoire d'amour avait tous les signes d'excitation: une rencontre fortuite, des numéros de téléphone échangés, une relation de changement de vie qui a

maintenant évolué en un foyer heureux.

OVATION a appris que le charmant Davide est arrivé à l'événement de réseautage à Londres et s’est assis à l’écart. En promenant son regard, il ne lui fallut pas longtemps pour que ses yeux repèrent la magnifique et mince beauté d’ébène, Gbemisola. Ce qui a suivi ne faisait pas partie de son programme lorsqu’il se préparait pour l'événement tôt ce matin-là. Leurs yeux se sont rencontrés et leurs âmes se sont liées et le reste, comme on le dit est une histoire.

Leurs parents et leurs proches ont été bientôt mis au courant et après quelques années d’amitié, les tourtereaux ont décidé qu'il était temps de sceller leur union.

Les parents de Gbemisola, M. Sam Ayininuola, Directeur Général d’Energy Bank au Ghana, et Mme Ikoliba Ayininuola qui possède les boutiques de lingerie de haute gamme, le Fundamental Lingeries au The Palms Shopping Mall, à Lekki, Lagos, étaient très heureux que leur première fille ait enfin trouvé son homme et ils étaient déterminés à donner à leur fille bien aimée le meilleur mariage. Les parents de Davide, M. et Mme Alessandro Bertelotti n’étaient pas excités. La planification de ce que tout le monde espérait qu’elle serait une grande cérémonie traditionnelle de fiançailles a commencé par battre son

event memorable.

Moji Gbadamosi’s Culinary Wok Catering were contracted to provide an array of sumptuous continental and local dishes for the esteemed guests while Sekinat Amala, experts at making the local Yoruba staple Amala, which is made from yam flour, were also recruited.

Olugbuyi Ogunnaike’s Ice Box would serve ice-cold exotic drinks while Olayinka Williams’ Sweet Harriet got the family’s nod to supply cocktails and dessert. Samuel Ohio was charged with ensuring there was more than enough grilled fish and barbecue for the esteemed guests, with Emmanuel Ojo’s Larry Spice providing all kinds of tantalizing finger foods. For music, the highon-demand Sharp Band was contacted, led by Anesi Ivharue. Yewande Rwang-Dung’s Sara O Events’ expertise was trusted for the overall planning, coordination and delivery of the picture-perfect ceremony.

A perfect venue was also chosen to host the ceremony-Landmark Events Centre in Oniru, Victoria Island, Lagos. And so when D-day eventually arrived, it was as though a royal banquet had been planned and laid out to celebrate the couple’s union.

The charming scenery illustrated the pleasurable moments that were in the offing. This colourful event was a fine display of cross-cultural love playing out like a well-rehearsed play which in line with Yoruba tradition, featured two coordinators who represented both families: the Alaga Ijoko (the sitting MC) for the bride’s family and the Alaga Iduro (the standing MC) for the groom’s family.

The ambience inside the Landmark Event Centre was convivial. The upscale chandeliers were at full blast, the tables set for guests were decorated with flowers and glittering white table cloths while the couple’s gazebo stood out. The traditional attires donned by the guests added glamour to the event.

The ceremony kicked off with an opening prayer by a joyous Deacon Samuel Olagbaye, who remarkably, also officiated during the bride, Gbemisola’s christening many years before. Immediately after the opening prayer, the bride’s family sat and awaited the arrival of the groom’s family. Gbemisola and Davide were absent at this point.

The proud parents of the bride who sparkled in their special outfits were filled with immense joy. While the pretty mother of the bride wore a beaded orange sequence blouse on a royal purple silk George wrapper complete with an exquisite matching head gear, her calm and collected husband wore royal purple. Agbada, made of Aso Oke. Not a few wondered who the bride actually was between mother and daughter. It was not hard to see where Gbemi got her delectable looks from.

When the Bertelottis eventually arrived at the venue, the Alaga Ijoko, in the company of women from the bride’s family, made for the entrance to welcome them warmly (Davide’s parents could not make the trip to Nigeria but they were well represented).

In deference to the dictates of the bride’s Yoruba customs, the Bertelottis came bearing numerous gifts comprising varied items including yam tubers, baskets of fruits and several other items that constituted part of the bride price. After they were introduced, the groom’s family knelt and prostrated before the family of the bride. The two families then sat on opposite sides, while the Alagas stood in-between to coordinate proceedings.

The Alaga Iduro presented a proposal letter brought

by Davide’s family which stated their intentions to take Gbemisola’s hand in marriage, to the Alaga Ijoko who received it on behalf of the bride’s family. An acceptance letter which spelt out the bride’s family’s joy and willingness to give their daughter’s hand in marriage to Davide was read, according to tradition, by the bride’s younger sister, Abimbola, a Masters student at a London University after which she handed over the document to the groom’s family amidst cheers and applause from all present.

Dashing Davide who looked splendid in his agbada attire was required to dance forward with some of his friends and to prostrate before his in-laws four separate times with both families stretching out their hands to pray for him on each occasion. It was all an unfamiliar territory for the Italian lover boy but it was one assignment he was very delighted to perform for the love of his life.

Once Davide and friends had taken their seats, the gorgeous bride who shone like a zillion stars in a matching combination of champagne gold buba, (Blouse) and

a rich royal purple aso-oke wrapper, danced in, accompanied by fair ladies -friends and family.

Her flawless makeup which was done by Banke Meshida-Lawal’s BM-Pro shone through. She knelt before her parents, who prayed for and blessed her. She then took off her veil and joined her Prince Charming, first kneeling before him as he prayed for her after which he in turn lifted his lovely queen up to the delight of the guests. Both families were overjoyed.

Guests were thrilled with sumptuous dishes and exotic drinks complemented with breath-taking music by the Sharp band. There was also an after party in a dedicated part of the venue where the newlyweds and their friends danced and had so much fun.

Esteemed personalities who witnessed the memorable event included OVATION Publisher, Bashorun Dele Momodu, GMD Energy Group, Barrister (Dr.) Jimoh Ibrahim, CFR and wife, Modupe, former GMD, Union Bank; Dr. G. A. T Oboh and wife, Mary, renowned Legal Practitioner. Chief F. O. Fagbohungbe, SAN and wife, former Vice Chancellor, University of Lagos; Professor

Oye Ibidapo-Obe, Managing Partner Sulaimon & Associates, Alhaji Idris Sulaimon and Alhaja Sulaimon, Directors of Energy Bank, Ghana – Mr. David Adom and wife, Prince Adedamola Aderemi, Mr. Wale Folonosela, Mr. Emmanuel Jepede, former Directors of Union Bank, Senator Kola Bajomo and wife ,Roselyn, Mr. Segun Olusanya and wife Dele, Mr. Mike Okonkwo and wife, Bridget, Mr Lai Alabi. Dr. John Akinleye, former Managing Director, Afribank, Mr. Patrick Akinkuotu, business mogul. Prince Adelowo Adedeji and wife, Managing Director, Equity Insurance, Mr. Dolapo Balogun and wife Lamide, and business magnate Rex Ijebor and wife, renowned Architect, Mr. Femi Majekodunmi and wife, Victoria.

Weeks later in Viareggio, located in Northern Tuscany, in the Coast of Italy, ‘Gbemi and Davide said “I do” and formally exchanged wedding rings at a very intimate ceremony in the presence of family and friends.

The open-air nuptial was really exciting-and a classy reception which unfolded afterwards, was a fitting way to end a most colourful celebration of love.

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plein. Ce qui caractérisait la planification étaient «une grande attention au détail» et «un engagement sans compromis à l'excellence.» Qui d'autre était au-dessus de la planification, sinon la mère de la mariée, Mme Ikoliba Ayininuola.

Elle était efficace, et la cérémonie s’est avérée grandiose. Ce ne fut pas étonnant que les Gbemisola n’aient rien épargné pour contacter les meilleurs planificateurs d’évènement du Nigeria fin d’avoir un mariage mémorable.

Moji Gbadamosi’s Culinary Wok Catering a été contracté pour fournir une gamme de plats somptueux continentaux et locaux pour les invités tandis que Sekinat Amala, réputée pour sa préparation du plat yoruba Amala, fabriqué à partir de la farine d'igname, a également été contactée. Ice Box d’Olugbuyi Ogunnaike a servi les boissons glacées exotiques tandis que Olayinka Williams Sweet Harriet a fourni les cocktails et les desserts. Samuel Ohio a été chargé de veiller à ce qu'il y ait assez de poissons grillés et de barbecue pour les invités, avec Emmanuel Ojo Larry Spice qui a fourni toutes sortes d'amuse-gueules alléchants. Pour la musique, Sharp Band a été contacté, dirigé par Anesi Ivharue. L'expertise de Yewande RwangDung’s Sara O Events’ a été approuvé pour la planification, la coordination et pour une cérémonie parfaite.

Un lieu idéal a également été choisi pour la cérémonie- le Landmark Events Centre à Oniru, a Victoria Island, Lagos. Et donc au jour-J, c’était comme si un banquet royal avait été prévu et conçu pour célébrer l'union du couple. Le charmant décor illustrait les moments agréables qui étaient à l'horizon. Cet événement riche en couleurs était une belle exposition de l'amour interculturelle, conçu conformément selon la tradition Yoruba, avec deux coordonnateurs qui représentaient les deux familles: l'Alaga Ijoko (le MC assis) pour la famille de la mariée et l’Alaga Iduro (le MC debout) pour la famille du marié.

L'ambiance à l'intérieur du Landmark Events Centre était conviviale. Les lustres de haute de gamme luisaient intensément, les tables dressées pour les invités ont été décorées avec des fleurs et des nappes blanches scintillantes tandis que le belvédère du couple était remarquable. Les vêtements traditionnels enfilés par les invités ont ajouté une touche exceptionnelle à l'événement.

La cérémonie a démarré avec une prière d'ouverture par le diacre Samuel Olagbaye, qui remarquablement, avait également officié le baptême de la mariée, Gbemisola plusieurs années auparavant. Après la prière d'ouverture, la famille de la mariée s’est assise et a attendu l'arrivée de la famille du marié. Gbemisola et Davide étaient absents à ce moment-là. Les fiers parents de la mariée qui étaient rayonnants dans leurs tenues étaient remplis d’une joie immense.

Alors que la jolie mère de la mariée portait un haut brodée de couleur orange, sur un pagne violet avec un foulard assorti, son mari portait une tenue Agbada en tissu Aso Oke. On avait du mal à différencier la mère de la fille. Ce n’était pas difficile de voir d’où Gbemisola tenait ses beaux regards.

Lorsque les Bertelottis sont finalement arrivés, l’Alaga Ijoko, en compagnie des femmes de la famille de la mariée est allé les accueillir chaleureusement (les parents de Davide ne pouvaient pas faire le voyage au Nigeria, mais ils ont été bien représentés). Par respect pour les diktats Yoruba, les Bertelottis portaient de nombreux cadeaux comprenant divers articles, y compris des tubercules d'igname, des paniers de fruits et plusieurs autres éléments qui constituent une partie de la dot. Après leur présentation, la famille du marié s’est agenouillée et s’est prosternée devant la famille de la mariée.

Les deux familles se sont alors assises de façon opposée, tandis que les Alagas ont continué à coordonner la cérémonie.

L’Alaga Iduro a présenté une lettre de proposition apportée par la famille de Davide, qui a déclaré son intention de prendre la main de Gbemisola en mariage, à

l'Alaga Ijoko qui l'a reçue au nom de la famille de la mariée. Une lettre d'acceptation qui montrait la joie et la volonté de la famille de la mariée à donner la main de leur fille en mariage à Davide a été lue, selon la tradition, par la jeune sœur de la mariée, Abimbola, étudiante à l'université de Londres, après quoi elle remit la lettre à la famille de l'époux au milieu des acclamations et des

applaudissements de toutes les personnes présentes.

Le charmant Davide qui avait l'air magnifique dans sa tenue Agbada est sorti pour danser avec certains de ses amis et pour se prosterner quatre fois devant ses beaux-parents tandis que les deux familles étendaient leurs mains pour prier pour lui à chaque prosternation.

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Mr. Sam Ayininuola, bride’s father

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Mrs. Ikoliba Ayininuola bride’s mother

Bride’s parents: Mr. & Mrs. Ayininuola

Representatives of groom’s parents

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Top make-up artiste, Banke Meshida-Lawal of BmPro

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THE ENGAGEMENT

Groom dancing into venue

Gifts for the Engagement

Groom being led in by traditional MC

Groom & friends being addressed by traditional MC

Groom postrating before bride’s parents

Bride’s parents praying for groom

Groom being blessed by his family members

Groom with representatives of his parents

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Groom with bride’s parents

Bride being escorted to the venue by family & friends

Bride being prayed for by her parents

Bride sharing a tender kiss with mum

Bride being blessed by groom’s parents

Bride kissing groom’s mum

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Bride & groom

The lovely couple

Exchange of rings

Bride’s Parents

Representatives of Groom’s parents

Sister, Abimbola, reading acceptance Letter

Bride kneeling before the groom

Groom carrying the bride

Groom’s family members

Bride’s father with his brother, Mr. Johnson Ayininuola

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Cutting of the Cake

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Bride & groom

Bride & groom

Prince Damola Aderemi, Bride’s father, Bashorun Dele Momodu & Prince Yemi Aderemi

Bride’s father with Mrs. Adesanya, Company Secretary, Tripple Gee

Bashorun Dele Momodu, Prince Damola Aderemi & Mr. David Adom

Chief & Mrs. Wale Taiwo with daughter

Bride’s father & groom with Mr. & Mrs. Dele Oyedokun

Bride’s parents with Lady Isioma Chukwuma & Mrs. Esther Ajayi

Bride’s mum with groom & Stefano

Bride’s parents with Prince Damola Aderemi, Bashorun Dele Momodu & Mrs. Bridget Henry-Iyasere (2nd right)

Bride’s mum with Mr. & Mrs. David Adom

Bride’s father & groom with Mr. & Mrs. Ogunde

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Bride

Bride & groom with Mr. & Mrs. Nick Shaiyen

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Bride

Bride & groom with Roberto Millazoo & Miss Tolu Phillips

Barrister & Mrs. Segun Ajayi

Bride’s father with Senator Kola Bajomo & Chief G. G. Giwa

Alhaji & Alhaja Idris Sulaimon

Chief (Mrs.) Oby Ihyembe & Mr. John Njokanma

Barrister (Dr.) Jimoh Ibrahim, CFR & wife, Mrs. Modupe Ibrahim

Chief Felix Fagbohungbe, SAN & Mr. Partrick Akinkuotu

Chief (Mrs.) Genny Adeosun & friend

Mr. Mathias Samwine & Mrs. Bimpe Iyayi

Mrs. Adedeji & Mrs. B. O. Fagbohungbe

Mrs. Yemisi Ibrahim & Mrs. Modupe Ibrahim

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Prince Adelowo Adedeji with Mr. & Mrs. Gbenga Obisesan

Prince & Mrs. Rex Ijebor with Sir Kunle Ball

Mr. & Mrs. Isaac Shedowo

Mrs. Seun Rasaki, friend & Mr. Ope Fagbohungbe.

Pat, Sister & Mrs. Yewande Sadiq

Senator Kola Bajomo, Mrs. Mary Oboh, Mrs. Roselyn Bajomo & Dr. G. A. T. Oboh

Miss Dupe Fagbohungbe (right) & friend)

Bride’s friends

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Guest, Mrs. Yvonne Ogunrinde & Mrs. Doyin Arueyingho

Mr. & Mrs. Chidi

Prince & Princess Bayo Agbede

Dolapo & Lamide Balogun

Mr. & Mrs. Dibia

Dr. G. A. T. Oboh, Mrs. Mary Oboh & Lady Bolaji Ball

Bashorun Dele Momodu & Chief Felix Fagbohungbe, SAN

Abimbola, Nadine & Kikelomo

Bride’s mother with friends

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Bride’s father, groom & Mr. Sesan Ayeni

Mrs. Eileen Shaiyen, bride’s mum & Pat

Mrs. Sola Ijogun, Mrs. Doyin Alu, Chief (Mrs.) Tiwalola Akinsanya & Mrs. Dupe Leo Olagbaiye

Mrs. Tayo Ayininuola & friend

Luigi Fumarola

Bashorun Dele Momodu & Isaac Shedowo

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Chief (Mrs.) Tiwalola Akinsanya, bride’s father & Mrs. Sola Ijogun

Bride & groom

PREPARATION BEFORE THE WEDDING IN VIAREGGIO, ITALY

Bride & mum

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Groom with mum

Bride with Parents

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Arrival of bride with father at the wedding venue

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Exchange of rings

Arrival of bride & groom

Exchange of rings

mais, il était très heureux d’y prendre part pour l'amour de sa vie. Une fois que Davide et ses amis ont repris leur place, la magnifique mariée qui brillait comme plusieurs étoiles dans une tenue bouba dorée et pourpre, a dansé accompagnée de belles dames, des amies. Les deux familles étaient folles de joie.

Les invités ont été gâtés avec des plats somptueux et des boissons exotiques avec de la musique par le groupe Sharp. Il y avait aussi un after party dans une partie de la salle où les jeunes mariés et leurs amis ont dansé et se sont bien amusés.

Les hautes personnalités qui ont assisté à l'événement mémorable comprenaient le directeur d’OVATION, Bashorun Dele Momodu, Maitre et Mme Jimoh

Ibrahim, le directeur général d’Equity Insurance, Dr John Akinleye; l’ancien vicechancelier d’UNILAG, le professeur Oye Ibidapo-Obe; et l’ancien directeur général d’Union Bank, Dr Godwin et Oboh, le chef et Mme Felix Fagbohungbe, le chef et Mme Tiwalola Akinsanya, Alhaji & Alhaja Suliaman Idris ainsi que M. et Mme Rex Ijebor.

Quelques semaines plus tard en Italie, Gbemi et Davide se sont dit ‘’oui je le veux’’ et ils ont officiellement échangé les anneaux de mariage lors d'une cérémonie en présence de la famille et des amis. Les excitantes noces en plein air et une réception chic étaient une bonne façon de mettre fin à une célébration riche en couleurs de l'amour.

Mayor of Viareggio (right) & Registrar

Acceptance of Wedding Certificate by bride & groom

Sealed with a kiss

Groom signing the wedding certificate

Groom’s sister, Sarah, signing the wedding certificate

Groom’s cousin, Luigi Fumarola

Parents of the groom: Alessandro & Ornella Bertelotti

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Bride’s father with groom’s father

Bride’s father with bride’s uncles, Mr. Charles Ayeni & Mr. Johnson Ayininuola with Prince Damola Aderemi

Couple with bride’s parents & sisters: Abimbola & Kikelomo

Couple with bride’s mum & Maid of Honour, Miss Nadine Tchao

Couple with both parents

Couple with bride’s uncles & Aunt, Mrs. Kehinde Ayeni

Couple with groom’s sister, Sarah & her husband, Leonardo

Groom with guest

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Bride & groom with friends

Bride & groom with friends

Couple with bride’s parents

Couple with groom’s parents

Couple with bride’s uncles

Guests at the wedding

Couple with groom’s uncle & aunt

Couple with guests

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Cutting of the Cake at the reception venue-Costa Balbari Viareggio, Italy

Sealed with a kiss

Toast to good health

Toast by friends of the couple

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Stunning view of guests, friends & families at the Viareggio Municipal Council in Italy, venue of the wedding

40 HEARTY CHEERS FOR STYLISH MRS.

BLESSING

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ife is good and in spite of the numerous challenges that it throws up, life gives almost in equal measure, if not more, causes to be grateful at every turn. It was one of such joyous moments of gratitude that presented itself when Abuja-based businesswoman, Mrs. Blessing Mutu, was celebrated by her husband, family and friends as she clocked 40.

The beautiful and brilliant wife of Hon. Nicholas Ebomo Mutu, OFR, a honourable member of the National Assembly representing Bomadi/Patani Federal Constituency of Delta State at the Federal House of Representatives, was all smiles on that special day as esteemed guests stormed their Apo Zone A Legislative Quarters residence in the Federal Capital Territory (FCT), Abuja to celebrate her life and rejoice with her.

Hon. Nicholas Mutu, who is the Chairman, House Committee on the Niger Delta Development Commission (NDDC) and who happens to be one of the few federal legislators to have been House members since Nigeria's return to democracy in 1999, was filled with so much joy and excitement and the love between husband and wife shone through majestically for all to see. The bond they share was a beauty to behold.

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I feel very happy and blessed about turning 40 because when I look back at all that my God has done for me and my family, all I can do is thank God

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Decorated splendidly by I AM Events, the venue wore a superb look. It was charming and convivial for the illustrious guests that turned up including Mr. Peter Nwaoboshi (PDP Chairman, Delta State) and former Niger Delta Affairs Minister, Elder Godsday Orubebe amongst others.

Pastor David Adesina opened the event with a prayer as Master of Ceremonies, MC Eneche steered proceedings expertly. Captain Sinebe who was Chairman of the occasion extolled the many virtues of the celebrant who was obviously delighted by the honour.

The Chairman described Mrs. Mutu as a resourceful woman of vision, a strong pillar of support for her husband, a brilliant example for her children and the perfect model for women all over to pattern their lives after.

The Man of God who delivered the birthday charge identified the celebrant as a living example of the Proverbs 31 woman, asking rhetorically, "A virtuous woman, who can find?" The Pastor then proceeded to state that Hon. Mutu had succeeded in answering that question because he had found and married a vir-

tuous woman. The Minister charged the celebrant to keep loving God and to keep making Christ the cornerstone and bedrock of her life, family and business.

He thanked God that in this age of rising divorce rates, the celebrant’s marriage was growing stronger and attributed their marital success thus far to the ,grace and glory of God charging them to continue in the Vineyard of their creator. The man of God prayed that the celebrant would grow in knowledge and wisdom and that God would bless her family with divine health and continued prosperity.

Musical entertainment was provided by artistes such as Dotun Sax, Asu Ekiye and Nsikan. Soon, Mrs Mutu, joined by her family and friends, cut her beautiful birthday cake created by Syndys Cakes, Abuja.

As the event progressed, a smiling celebrant told the magazine, "I feel very happy and blessed turning 40, because when I look back and look at all that my God has done for me and my family, all I can do is say Thank You. This is why I decided to have a praise day just to appreciate God for all He has done for me.

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a vie est belle et en dépit des nombreux défis, la vie donne presque tout avec la même mesure, sinon plus, raison pour laquelle il faut être toujours reconnaissant. C’était un de ces moments joyeux de gratitude qui s’est récemment présenté lorsque Blessing Mutu, une femme d’affaires basée à Abuja a été célébrée par son mari, sa famille et ses amis, pour ses 40 ans.

La belle et brillante femme de l'honorable Nicholas Ebomo Mutu, une députée de l'Assemblée nationale représentant la circonscription fédérale de Bomadi/Patani de l’Etat de Delta, était tout sourire en cette journée spéciale, avec d’honorables invités qui ont envahi leur résidence d’Apo zone A, quartier législatif à Abuja pour lui apporter leur amour et leur soutien.

L’honorable Nicholas Mutu, qui est le président du Comité de la Chambre de la Commission pour le Développement du Niger Delta (NDDC) et qui se trouve être l'un des quelques législateurs fédéraux à être membres de la Chambre depuis le retour du Nigeria à la démocratie en 1999, était rempli de joie et d'ex-

citation ; et l'amour entre mari et femme brillait aux yeux de tous. Le lien qu'ils partagent était une beauté à voir. Magnifiquement décoré par I AM Events, la salle était d’une ambiance conviviale pour les hôtes illustres qui étaient présentes y compris M. Peter Nwabuchi (le Président de PDP de l'Etat de Delta) et l’ancien ministre des Affaires du Delta du Niger, Elder Godswill Orubebe, entre autres.

Le pasteur David Adesina a ouvert la manifestation avec une prière tandis que le maître de cérémonie, MC Eneche a animé la cérémonie avec expertise. Le capitaine Sinebe qui était le chairman de l'occasion a vanté les "nombreuses vertus’’ de l’hôtesse qui était évidemment ravie des compliments. Le chairman a décrit Mme Mutu comme une femme débrouillarde et visionnaire, un solide pilier de soutien pour son mari, un brillant exemple pour ses enfants, le modèle parfait pour les femmes.

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I wish to love God more and to do His will at all times and also to touch more lives. I just pray to be a blessing to as many people as possible that will come in contact with me.

I am so grateful to God Almighty."

Asked what her birthday wish was, Mrs. Mutu replied, "I wish to love God more and to do His will at all times and also to touch more lives. I just pray to be a blessing to as many people as possible that will come in contact with me." A truly selfless woman, indeed.

A proud and delighted Hon. Mutu told OVATION, "l am glad because she is my heart, my truest love and I am not ready to trade her love for any ephemeral thing. She is simply my true jewel and I wish her a happy birthday."

Following up on her doting husband's remarks, the celebrant told us, "I am married to the best man on earth. He is my friend, my brother, my father and husband-a wonderful man all round."

The loving couple is blessed with four wonderful children - two girls and two boys namely, Faith, Raphael, Glory and Solomon Mutu.

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special woman who holds a very special place in her heart: "Mummy is a selfless woman who always wants the best for everyone around her. She has set us on the right path always demanding that we do the right thing which is why she doesn't treat us with kid gloves. But I tell you, she's a very wonderful woman. She is the best mum and I wish her many fruitful years."

Raphael told the magazine, "My mum will always say hard work pays. I love her so much. We in fact share the same birth month and almost same day. I wish her a fulfilling life," while Glory said, "I will always love my mum, forever and ever."

Solomon also described his mum as the best mummy ever.

The celebrant's sister, Magdalene, also weighed in with some heartwarming remarks of her own: "Her soft-hearted nature has made me to understand the true meaning of love. She is not just my sister, she is also my role model."

dant de façon rhétorique, "Une femme vertueuse, qui peut la trouver?" Le pasteur a ensuite déclaré que l'hon. Mutu avait réussi à répondre à cette question parce qu'il a trouvé et a épousé une femme vertueuse. Le ministre de Dieu a exhorté l’hôtesse à continuer à aimer Dieu et à continuer à faire du Christ la pierre angulaire et le fondement de sa vie, de sa famille et de ses affaires.

Il a remercié Dieu car dans une période où les cas de divorce augmentent, le mariage des hôtes devient de plus en plus fort et cela a contribué à leur réussite conjugale jusqu'à présent, à la grâce et à la gloire de Dieu tout en leur conseillant de continuer dans la puissance de leur créateur. L'homme de Dieu a prié pour que l’hôtesse grandisse dans la connaissance et la sagesse et que Dieu bénisse sa famille dans la santé et dans la prospérité divine.

L’animation musicale a été fournie par les artistes comme Dotun Sax, Asu Ekiye et Nsikan. Bientôt, l’hôtesse, rejointe par sa famille et ses amis, a coupé le beau gâteau d'anniversaire conçu par Syndys Cakes, Abuja.

Comme l'événement progressait, l’hôtesse souriante a déclaré à OVATION, Je me sens très heureuse et bénie d'avoir 40 ans, parce que quand je regarde en arrière et que je vois tout ce que mon Dieu a fait pour moi et ma famille, je me sens tellement bénie. C‘est pourquoi j’ai décidé de mettre à part quelques jours de louange juste pour apprécier Dieu pour tout ce qu'il a fait pour moi, je suis tellement reconnaissante au Dieu Tout-Puissant ".

Interrogée sur ce son souhait pour son anniversaire, Mme Mutu a répondu: «mon souhait c’est d’aimer Dieu davantage et de faire Sa volonté en tout temps et aussi de toucher plus de vies. Je prie juste pour être une bénédiction pour les gens qui viendront en contact avec moi.

Une femme vraiment désintéressée, si

vous voulez’’.

Un heureux et fier hon. Mutu a dit à OVATION, "je suis heureux parce qu'elle est mon cœur, mon vrai amour et je ne suis pas prêt à échanger son amour pour une chose éphémère. Elle est tout simplement mon vrai bijou et je lui souhaite un joyeux anniversaire." Pour faire suite aux remarques de son mari radoteur, l‘hôtesse nous a dit, "Je suis mariée au meilleur homme sur la terre. Il est mon ami, mon frère, mon père et mon mari, un homme merveilleux sur tous les plans". Le merveilleux couple est béni avec quatre enfants - deux filles et deux garçons à savoir, Faith, Raphaël, Glory et Salomon Mutu.

Faith a décrit sa mère comme une femme exceptionnelle qui occupe une place très spéciale dans son cœur: «Maman est une femme altruiste qui veut toujours le meilleur pour tout le monde autour d'elle. Elle nous a mis sur la bonne voie en s’assurant toujours que nous suivions le droit chemin. C’est pourquoi elle ne nous traite pas avec des gants de bébé à certains moments. Mais je vous le dis, c’est une femme merveilleuse. Elle est la meilleure maman et je lui souhaite de nombreuses années fructueuses ".

Raphaël a déclaré au magazine, "Ma mère dit toujours que le travail acharné paie. Je l'aime beaucoup. En fait, nous partageons le même mois de naissance et presque le même jour. Je lui souhaite une vie épanouie», tandis que Glory a déclaré: «J’aimerai toujours ma maman". Solomon a également décrit sa mère comme la meilleure maman.

La sœur de l’hôtesse, Magdalene, a également fait quelques déclarations réconfortantes en disant: "Sa nature douce et son bon cœur m’ont permis de comprendre le vrai sens de l'amour. Elle n’est pas seulement ma sœur, elle est aussi mon modèle.

"I am married to the best man on earth. He is my friend, my brother, my father and husband-a wonderful man all round."

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Mummy is a selfless woman who always wants the best for everyone around her.

She has set us on the right path always demanding that we do the right thing which is why she doesn’t treat us with kid gloves.

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THE GLITZY RECEPTION AT HER HOME

Celebrant & husband, Hon. Nicholas Mutu with their children

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Celebrant with children

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Mrs. Nike Meseko & Mrs. Tari Ogoriba

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Asu Ekiye

H.E. Mrs. Hauwa Suntai, Celebrant & Mrs. Aisha Achimugu

Faith, Glory & Solomon Mutu

Folake Fadumiyo

Hon. Ibrahim Nuhu & Hon. Mahmud Lawan

Hon. & Mrs. Mutu

Olalekan Busari (Regional Head, Heritage Bank)

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Mrs. Mary Idoko, Mrs. Nike Meseko, Dame Tumini Akogun, Mrs. Tari Ogoriba, guest & Mrs. Patience Fakai

Oyinkuro, Mrs. Pat Assoh, Celebrant, Wunmi, Ebike Mutu & Mrs. Felicia Dikibo

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Hon. & Mrs. Duro Meseko

Cross section of PDP members & Religious Leaders with Celebrant & her family

Praise & Worship Session

Celebrant with husband Hon. Mutu & Governor Emmanuel Uduaghan of Delta State

Hon. Nicholas Mutu, Governor Emmanuel Uduaghan & Chief Peter Nwaoboshi

Hon. Nicholas Mutu & Wife with Hajiya Fatima Bamanga Tukur

Her lovely birthday cake

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Chief Peter Nwaoboshi, H.E Hauwa Suntai, Hon. Nicholas Mutu, Celebrant & Dr. Emmanuel Uduaghan

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Celebrant & her in-laws

Celebrant with wives of Hon. Members & Senators

Friend, Mrs. Tari Ogoriba, Mrs. Patience Fakai, Celebrant, Solomon Mutu, Hon. & Mrs. Duro Meseko

Tope, Faith, Sumbo, Celebrant, Timi & Ochuko

Mrs Dikibo, Meg, Mrs Assoh, Oyinkuro, Celebrant, Omowunmi & Boma

Mrs. Felicia Dikibo, Mrs. Pat Assoh, Celebrant & Oyinkuro Nelson

Cmdr. Braide Ebiye & Chief Peter Nwaoboshi

Tarebi, Mrs Ebi-West, Boma & Celebrant

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Hon. Nkem Abonta, Hon. Onyeagucha, Elder Godsday Orubebe

Celebrant with Hajiya Fatima Bamanga Tukur

Idache Ada, Mrs Susan Lokpobiri, Celebrant, Sumbo & Mrs. Timi Dumbu

Mrs. Rose Nanakumo, Mrs. Evelyn Zubairu, Celebrant & Chief (Mrs.) Agoneimi Mutu

Mr. & Mrs. Bekes Etifa

Ms. Omowunmi, Celebrant & Mrs. Felicia Dikibo

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Guest, Mrs Ajayi, Fere-ere Gbe, Kano-ere, Celebrant, Vera, Mrs Boma Emmanuel & Taware

Hon. Mutu, Celebrant & Idache Ada

Celebrant & husband

Pst. Adesina, Mr. & Mrs. Robson

Faith, Celebrant, Ochuko & Tope

Dr. Pius Sinebe, Hon. Nicholas Mutu, Celebrant, Hon. Basil Ganagana & Hon. Daniel Reyenieju

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Mrs. Boma Ayerite

Mrs. Susan Lokpobiri, Celebrant & Mrs. Aguarivwodo

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Hajia Fatima Bamanga-Tukur, Hon. Nicholas Mutu, Gov. Emmanuel Uduaghan & Chief Peter Nwaboashi

Hajia Fatima Bamanga Tukur, Mrs. Susan Lokpobiri, Mrs. Emeka Ihedioha, Mrs. Aguariavwodo & Dame Tumini Akogun

Asu Ekiye & Gov. Emmanuel Uduaghan

Celebrant & MC Enenche

Mrs Aisha Achimugu, Celebrant, Hon. Nicholas Mutu & Gov. Emmanuel Uduaghan

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Celebrant & husband

l am glad because she is my heart, my truest love and I am not ready to trade her love for any ephemeral thing. She is simply my true jewel and I wish her a happy birthday.

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SHIPPING TYCOON,

OLAJIDE BABALOLA CELEBRATES

50TH BIRTHDAY IN SPLENDOUR

Story: Funmilayo Adeyemi & Interview: Bamidele Salako Photo: Adekoya Adegbite

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age 50 is Golden. It is no sheer surprise therefore that those who reach this milestone are seen as special. Among these special people is IlupejuEkiti born Entrepreneur and Founder of Grenville Schools, Mr. Moses Olajide Babalola who rolled out the drums of celebration, hosting numerous guests and dignitaries to a classy party.

The celebration began with a thanksgiving service at the Redeemed Christian Church of God, Salvation Centre Parish, Oba Akinjobi Road G.R.A Ikeja in Lagos.

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sion, with friends, Church members and well-wishers dancing to a series of melodious Gospel music by the Church choir.

The birthday boy danced with so much joy, looking resplendent in his Royal Blue traditional outfit along side his wife, Mrs. Bolatito Babalola and children, praising God for His mercies. Afterwards, Pastor Olarinmoye, who was one of the Officiating Ministers showered the celebrant with encomiums due to his immense contribution to the Church and role as an Usher.

According to the man of God, his work in the vine-

yard of the Lord shows that the celebrant is filled with humility. The Pastor also advised the celebrant to increase his passion for God’s work. Butressing his point with a quotation from the Bible, he added, that serving God was a very worthy enterprise. Then, prayer was rendered for Mr. Babalola by the entire congregation.

During the Church service, some of his friends and associates testified to his humility, reliability, trustworthiness, loyalty in friendship and business and they also expressed their love for him.

They wished him a happy birthday and prayed that he would live long to enjoy the fruits of his labour on earth. Thereafter, a vote of thanks was delivered by the celebrant's amiable wife, Mrs. Bolatito Babalola.

The Church service was rounded off with the rendition of the popular hymn 'Great is Thy Faithfulness'.

The next port of call was a grand reception held at Grandeur Events Centre, Oregun Ikeja where guests were awe-struck by the beautiful decor by Infiniti Events who created a convivial ambience in the venue. There was also a screen which displayed the pictures of the celebrant and his family members.

The colours chosen for the day were Yellow, Blue and White and guests looked elegant in their different outfits. Grenville students mounted a guard of honour at the entrance of the venue as they awaited the arrival of their Chairman. Thereafter, J.B. as he is popularly known, made a spectacular entry amisdt pomp accompanied by his pretty wife and their children.

Guests rose in honour of the celebrant as he danced joyously in the midst of his students. He was obvioulsy enveloped in joy. As the event rolled by, the celebrant's wife was invited to say a few words about her husband.

Mrs. Babalola talked about their journey from grass to grace. She went further to narrate how her husband could not afford an engagement box on their wedding day.

This was quite touching as guests reeled in astonishment. The celebrant's wife looked deep into her husband eyes and gushed, 'If I say I love you, it is an understatement'. Then, she prayed for the celebrant and lovingly planted a kiss on his lips.

Immediately, selected dignitaries were invited to launch a magazine which contains the details of the celebrant's life which was followed by the cutting of three special cakes.

The first cake was crafted in the shape of a ship in honour of his profession. The second cake was courtesy of Guaranty Trust Bank while the third cake was provided by members of his staff. Guests were pampered with mouth-watering dishes and assorted drinks while everyone rollicked to the music of the popular Faith Band.

Guests also went home with exciting memorabalias courtesy of the celebrant. Shortly after the celebration, we were guests of the Babalola's and we spent quality time discussing the birthday, his life and more.

THE CELEBRANT, MR. OLAJIDE BABALOLA

Congratulations on your 50th birthday

Thank you very much.

Mr. & Mrs. Olajide Babalola How has the journey been these 50 years

A lot of water has passed under the bridge but we thank God. What was your birthday wish or special prayer

Well, the prayer was for God to continually keep me in perfect health.

How does it feel being 50

Well, age is a question of the mind. The years you spend on earth does not matter, it is life that is in the years that matter.

The turnout at your birthday was very impressive, how did you feel

In fact, I was highly elated and in Eldorado of life.

My joy knew no bounds.

What special gifts did you get from friends and family members

I got numerous gifts, surprises and prayers from friends - physical, emotional and any other gift you can think of. I think of nothing more to add.

What has been the role of faith in all of this, I spoke to your wife earlier and she said you are a very spiritual man and a prayer warrior

Yes, I am. Even the Bible says, “Seek ye first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and every other thing shall be added unto you.� The problem with our people is that they misplace their priorities. You need to put God first in every other thing, then, prosperity, long life, peace or comfort will follow.

Your wife was a bit emotional when she talked to us about the early days. She spoke of times when you could not afford three square meals

Yes, that is life for you.

What was it like back then

Well, when you have a vision, you can actually buy a television. I had the belief that tomorrow would be better than that present. I thank God today, that our story has changed.

What are the values that have kept you going

Well, first of all, you have to believe in God and have faith. I see faith as a heavenly currency for earthly purchases. That is the way I see faith. I have faith in God

and I know that God became poor so we can be rich. I see it as a crime to be poor. That is what God told us.

Tell us your journey to success

Well, it has been from one stage to another. I have toiled day and night, working for people in various organisations. I started my career in Nigeria National Shipping Line and worked there for some years, then the company liquidated. After that, I joined a Finance House during the era of Babangida when Finance Houses were enjoying their honeymoon. The honeymoon was shortlived and the company closed down. I then joined the Federal Government Withholding Tax Monitoring project, but after Abacha's death, the project we were working on was cancelled and I made up my mind not to work for anyone again. That was when I started something and that is where we are today.

Tell us about Lamip Investments

Lamip Investments is a wholly-owned Nigerian company that specializes in Petroleum, Shipping and Trading. We own some fleet of vessels - Coastal vessels that trade on the coast to lift Petroleum products which we supply to vessels. As you know, there are no filling stations on the high seas, so we have created our own filling stations on the sea by using small vessels to supply them bunkers. Vessels coming from other parts of the world like Germany, China and South Korea need to refuel to go back to their destinations when they come to Nigeria. That is where we come in.

How has the business been for you

Well, initially it was very interesting, but nowadays, we are facing lots of challenges.

What are these challenges

The government has not created a conducive environment for the shipping business to thrive. Then, there are the challenges of piracy and adulterated products.

Those are the challenges that are confronting the business.

If you were in a position to change things in the industry, what would you do

I have to make sure that I proffer solutions to all these problems by making sure that our law enforcement agents are more on their toes while at the same time pro-

viding them with the equipment they can work with to successfully monitor the coastal areas. I would at the same time strive to provide jobs for people that are jobless so that the level of crime can reduce.

Where did the passion for founding a school come from

By virtue of where I come from, I am an Ekiti man, and the only industry that we have in Ekiti is education.

Maybe, the only thriving industry we have at the moment is the Warm and Spring Resort cum Water Bottling Company at Ikogosi. I feel that when you are developing the youths, you get a lot of joy from it. Education is very good and the best legacy a man can give his children is education When did you establish Grenville Schools

Grenville was founded four years ago in 2011. We are running our fourth year now. We have graduated three sets because we started from pre-school to A-Level.

We have people from other institutions who joined us.

The youngest pilot in Nigeria, Daniel Adeyileka who works with Arik Air graduated from Grenville Schools.

We have lots of Grenville products in other parts of the world like Canada and the United Kingdom, schooling in higher institutions there. Even my daughter finished from the school. She is in the University of Toronto in Canada as I speak.

How would you love to be remembered

Well, I do not want to be remembered by my fleet of cars or houses but lives that I have touched positively.

Even, Mother Theresa is being remembered all over the world today. Some countries are still fighting for her graveyard because of the legacy she left behind. I want to be remembered for touching lives and adding value to lives. That is my primary objective.

CELEBRANT'S WIFE, MRS. BOLATITO BABALOLA

Congratulations on your husband's 50th Birthday

Thank you very much.

How long have you been married now

We have been married for over 18 years.Honestly, at the initial stage, it was so rough. I mean it, when I tell you that it was rough, because then, we could not afford 61

The Babalolas

Cutting of the cake

The Babalola’s in a prayerful mood

three square meals. It was so difficult but to the glory of God, all that is history now.

How would you describe your husband

My husband is a God-fearing person - an epitome of humility; a caring and loving husband and father. He is a man of integrity and a man of his words - a prayer warrior and a Christian to the core.

What role has he played in your life

God has made him to be the light that clears the darkness of my life, because I lost my parents at a very tender age.

Since I met my husband, my life has changed. Things have never remained the same, because I said yes to him that day.

How did you meet him

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Mr. & Mrs. Yomi Badejo-Okusanya with Mr. & Mrs. Babalola & son

village in Ilupeju-Ekiti. His younger ones are my friends. I used to visit their house and they would come to mine. I never thought of getting married to him - never thought of it in my life, but God ordained our coming together.

How did he propose to you

He proposed the normal way.

What made you say yes

Well, you know I had been praying to God to give me the bone of my bone and the flesh of my flesh. So, when he proposed to me, I said yes immediately. I thought about it and I prayed and God led me and that is what you are seeing today.

What do you do

I deal in fabrics and I am also a Director in Grenville Schools and Lamip Investments Company.

Mrs. Coker ( U.S.A ), Hon. Adeniyi Oyemade with Mr. & Mrs. Babalola

Architect Dipo Ajayi, celebrant & Lanre Adesanya

Celebrant with Officiating Ministers

Some Students of Grenvile Schools with their Founder

Mrs. Bolatito Babalola, Mrs. Ema Anseru & a friend

(right) Mrs. Bunmi Omakor, Mrs. Bello, Mrs. Adewunmi Kemi (standing), Mrs. Adebiyi & Mrs. Adetayo

The Babalolas with friends

Mrs. Tope Ayeleso, celebrant, Seyi Ayeleso, Oyekan & other guests

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Hospitality Industry Can helP Drive The Economy If Supported -AYO OLOWOPOROKU DIRECTOR, HSSL GLOBAL Interview: Bamidele Salako Photo: Ken Ehimen and Abraham Falodun

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r. Ayokunnu Olowoporoku is a walking melting pot of ideas, competencies and cultures with close to three decades of experience in business administration, finance, hospitality management and consultancy. Currently the founding Director of Finance and Administration at HSSL Global - Nigeria's pioneer indigenous hotel management and support services company, it was at the prestigious Sheraton Hotel in Lagos, Nigeria, that he cut his teeth in the hospitality business.

Undoubtedly one of the authoritative voices in the nation's rising hospitality industry, his Sheraton days offered a mixed bag of ugly and pleasant experiences and memories, not in the least the coming to maturity of a hereditary pluckiness and audaciousness that saw him push through the glass ceiling of discrimination to become a reference point for foreign and local staff members of the illustrious establishment in less than five years. The good, no doubt, outweighed the bad, as he left Sheraton not just with invaluable and unimpeachable experience and expertise that would stand him in good stead for future success but also with enduring partnerships that would feature prominently in that success story. It was at Sheraton that the foundation for

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HSSL Global was laid when he met and inadvertently, befriended Mr. Oladele Coker (HSSL Global's Director of Food and Beverage Operations) and Mr. Oladipo Efunkoya (HSSL Global's Director of Rooms and Engineering Services). The proverbial birds of a plumage gravitated towards one another on the wings of shared ideologies and principles and bonded for business.

Every new chapter of accomplishment in the HSSL Global success story is a glowing testimony to that unwavering partnership.

An all-rounder and a cosmopolitan with an eclectic knowledge and skills reserve, Dr. Olowoporoku also worked as Spokesperson for "Professionals for Ribadu" - an arm of the Nuhu Ribadu Campaign Organisation in the buildup to the 2011 Presidential Election in Nigeria. The profile on his twitter account, @DoctorOlowo, reads: Management and Hospitality Consultant, Business Philosopher and Peak Performance Motivator passions that readily spring to the fore as he discusses the hospitality business, family, faith and friendships that have endured the test of time with OVATION. You’ve been doing this for over two decades now. What have been the gains of the hospitality business for you personally

Well, the hospitality business is something that mirrors life – our day to day living. It’s about raising the standard of living beyond the existential level that demonstrates to us that man can live in a glamorous, tasteful and wonderful world because our faculties function better within beautiful surroundings that helps you appreciate life and to want to live it to its fullest. My father used to say that when a man sees good things, his eyes will not shut. What he meant was that people want to live longer when they are surrounded by good things.

Even very good hospitals around the world try to make the hospital environment look like a hotel environment because they want you to see good things. With your eyes set on those good things, your immune system begins to respond to the treatment because you don’t want to leave the beauty of the world behind. If there is anything I have learnt in the hospitality business, it is that it is about making people happy and making them see that yes, they work very hard but that they also need to enjoy those things that they’ve worked very hard for. In fact, the best way to do business is to show hospitality

to people and there is no one that you’ll show hospitality who will not want to do business with you. Once you’ve touched their spirit, you’ve touched their whole being.

When someone is willing to socialize with you – that person is not afraid to do business with you - and many cultures around the world regard socialization as the cornerstone of business. So, if I cannot for instance, take tea with you or have a drink with you, then I’m not likely to trust you and once trust is taken away from business, there’s no business and if people do business with you at all, yet they cannot trust you, they do very limited business with you because trust is essential in business. By and large, the promoter of a hotel must be your friend. He must be someone who can have dinner with you. He must be someone who can relate with you.

The hospitality business is all encompassing. It regulates our lives. It determines who we are.

About hospitality and socialising being the cornerstone of business, there’s a saying that people may forget what you told them or what you did for them but they never forget how you made them feel

It’s not possible! None of us would say he misses his best friend who taught him algebra but we’ll all say that we miss a friend who when he’s around, everything is lively-because he makes us happy.

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So it’s not about skill, it’s about the pleasantness, the personality, the radiance that someone brings to the environment, the helpfulness that someone is bringing to the environment, to the other person. It’s the selflessness that makes us talented. It’s an enduring business.

I would like to understand if at any point when you were younger you envisaged that you’d be doing this today

I never envisaged that I would be doing this. I don’t think that it is quite possible that someone would envisage what he will do when he grows up. Yes, we’ve heard people say, “I want to be a doctor, I want to be a lawyer.” Yes, that is so. I also wanted to be a business person and the reason is not far-fetched. I could tell just from watching my father and mother. My father was a civil servant of those days - not like the civil servants of today that are looting the treasury and making all the ill-gotten money. In those days, civil servants relied mostly on their salaries. My mother, on the other hand was a business woman. My mother had been in business from a very young age. She was very creative and she

made all of us participate in her business.

My father obviously could not do that.

We’d help my mum in her small factory where she made jewelries. She was creative in the sense that she was not just buying jewelries and selling; she was buying raw materials and then she had people who worked on those materials to create designs for her. She would then take these designs to the marketplace and so she was able to beat competition because her designs were unique to herself and she was supplementing that with ready-made jewelries. I noticed back then that my dad had his wardrobe and my mother had hers.

Anytime we ran short of money and we go to my mother’s wardrobe, on top of her wardrobe, you’d always find currency there. You’d find coins. If we went to our father’s wardrobe, you wouldn’t find anything there. It was always dry (laughs). In my mother’s wardrobe, you’d always find something that we could use to buy football or ice-cream.

It was hardly dry. Later on I began to wonder - my mother was always liquid - My father was always not (laughs). I’m sure that held an attraction and instruction for me that business was the way to go but I didn’t want to do it like my mother who didn’t have any formal education. In those days, even though there was no facebook, we had pen pals in Europe and America with whom we communicated and they told me about life over there. When I left secondary school, I was admitted to the University of Pennsylvania, one of the best schools for business in the USA. While at the Federal School of Arts and Science, my mother and my sister noticed that my mentality was already American. I had in fact changed my name to George Berry (laughs). In fact people still know me by that name today.

I changed my name because I was going to the US and I was not going to go there with Olowoporoku (laughs). My mother and my sister were like, “This guy must not leave this country.” My sister told the uncle who was helping with my passport that he mustn’t release it to me. I didn’t know. He got it quite alright but for years he kept telling me it was not ready. It was later on I discovered the conspiracy because they felt I wouldn’t return with the mindset I had as far back as then that things weren’t right and that I needed to get out. I went to Yaba College of Technology and studied Business Administration and then went to the University of Nigeria, Nsukka, for my Masters.

Then I got my PhD from the University of Birmingham. I had always read Business Administration.

You also had a stint in banking

When I was at Yabatech, I was also studying banking professionally. Banking, Agriculture, Manufacturing, Hotel Management and so forth are all businesses after all. I wanted to work in a bank after my first degree and I felt having a professional qualification in banking would stand me in good stead. I served in a bank during my National Youth Service but I guess I wasn’t destined to remain in a bank because I just couldn’t get employed. I was that insistent on working in a bank that a year after service I wasn’t working at all in spite of many job offers because I was determined that it had to be a banking job. I had some policies that I wasn’t going to work for a one man business no matter how big. I didn’t like laziness too either, so I while I was waiting for my ideal job, I was teaching English and Math from home to home and I was earning good money. And so, though I was not employed anywhere, I was never broke. I was making good use of my time until I was able to get the job that I wanted which was at Sheraton. When the offer from Sheraton came, I knew immediately that that was the kind of job that I wanted.

I wasn’t looking at it as a hotel job. I saw it as a job with a multinational – a global company. That was the kind of environment I wanted to work in.

What job were you hired for at Sheraton

There’s some story to that. In those days at Sheraton, you were hired more for your experience than for your certifi-

cates even though those were also important. By and large, they were looking for people who could deliver the goods but they didn’t see Nigerians as people with the kind of expertise that they required. So, all graduates were treated as starters. I was employed as a Front Office Cashier which was the starting position, and still is, for graduates in those days. There was a drama during my interview. The guy who interviewed me was a Briton. He was the Financial Controller at the time. I did not quite agree with some of the terms of the employment letter and that surprised him because prior to that, no one had objected. They just signed away. I told him I wasn’t okay with the terms and he said, “But I’m not putting a gun to your head.” I told him that he didn’t have to put a gun to my head before I could get the impression that I was being constrained. He asked if I really needed the job and I told him that I did but that I needed more clarification. He told me he wasn’t going to clarify anything but that he could do something for me that he had never done before and would most likely never do again, which was to hand me the employment letter and give me three days to think about it and to return afterwards with a signed letter if I had changed my mind. Sheraton had never done that with anybody. I could have easily lost the job because there were thousands queuing just to get that kind of job. When I got home, I told my mother about the job and she asked if I liked it and the environment and I told her that I did but that I wasn’t satisfied with the terms. Besides, what they were offering me, I was already earning from teaching. My mother told me that if I liked it, I should go for it nonetheless. I consulted other people and they seemed to be in agreement with my mum. I returned to the man with my signed letter.

What that drama did was turn the attention of management on me. They wanted to know who I was.

They felt there was something about me that they needed to know. They were watching me and getting feedbacks about me during training. The training lasted a month. That job for which I was employed, I didn’t do for one minute. I was promoted immediately after training. They knew during training that I was well above the level they had employed me for. Many of my colleagues wondered what was happening. I put the best of myself into the training.

I wanted to know everything. So I started as a Night Auditor. When I resumed, I stopped going to parties.

In fact I had no social life. I was determined to know what the white guys knew, so I focused one hundred percent on the work. I was very inquisitive-always asking questions. Before you knew what was happening, they were drawing me close. They were showing me things that weren’t shown to others. I was always around them wanting to know more.

Things were of course written in books but not all manuals were at your disposal. It wasn’t an accident then that within six months of starting work at Sheraton, I was promoted three times. That was a record at Sheraton. Within those first six months, I was already dining with the expatriates. Prior to Sheraton coming to Nigeria, the image of the hospitality business in the country was bad. It was when they came that the entire landscape changed. They modernized and internationalized the experience. Those of us who were part of that transition counted ourselves lucky. I wanted to do what the expatriates were doing. I began to walk like them, think like them, and work like them. I was just focused on them and their skill. They brought distinction to hotel administration and management.

The downside though was that I did not like the discrimination that existed between the expatriates and the locals. I was quite outspoken against it to the extent that the entire staff members at Sheraton made me their Chairman uncontested. I was never a trade unionist. All I wanted was to negotiate with the employer to ensure that there was no discrimination at my workplace.

First you challenged the terms of your employment letter, then you spoke up against discrimination in the workplace – that boldness, that feistiness, where did it come from

It came from my father. He was a Civil Servant and had mostly friends who weren’t even in the Civil Service and who had more money than he did but still they deferred to him. He was highly esteemed amongst his peers. He was bold and blunt to the point of wickedness. In fact, I learnt that I needed to be a more refined version of his bluntness.

If you told my dad that someone said something, my dad will call that person and say this is what Dele said about you. Neighbours were having doubts about the sudden change in financial status of a ten65

ant and they told my father who was the Chairman of the residents association.

My father called the person and said, “The neighbours are worried about your sudden change in status and questioning the source of your wealth. Did you do money rituals?” the guy came to me bitterly afterwards and reported my dad to me. I had to calm him down and told my dad that he should have been more diplomatic with his inquiry. I decided many years ago that since I had the same trait in me, I had to refine mine. I don’t have any fear or feeling of inferiority around any human being. I remember when Sheraton Management Corporation invited me over to England because of my feats in Lagos Sheraton’s Food and Beverage Control System. I was asked to come and train the staff at the Sheraton Park Tower-the biggest Sheraton in England-for one month. I had been to England before then. I even got married in England. When I got to Heathrow, the Immigration Officer asked what I had come for and I said I was there to train. Of course, the thinking was that I had come to receive training and not as a trainer. I had to point that out to him. The guy was like, “From Nigeria to train people in England? Can you please have a seat?” He left me on that seat for a very long time. My family was waiting for me all the while. The immigration officers called Sheraton and were inquiring. I got up and challenged them and they started to babble.

Eventually they stamped me in. When I got to the hotel, they tried to make up for the hassle at the airport and made me feel at home. In the course of the training, I met with the second leg of my racial troubles. The head of the department I was there to train became uncomfortable with the idea of bringing someone from Africa to train him and he wasn’t going to cooperate with me and the others were queuing behind him. I knew I couldn’t afford to fail. I introduced myself to the class as Ayo but this guy, Gary, said my name was too long and that he couldn’t pronounce it. Even his name was longer than mine – if length was to be a consideration at all. I challenged him on that point and he said he preferred to call me Felix. I told him through God’s wisdom, that “Come, Gary’s not a word in my mother tongue.

I had to learn to pronounce your name – you also have to learn to pronounce mine.” When he got insistent on calling me Felix, I told him he could call me Felix on the condition that I would call him Bingo. He said, “You can’t call me Bingo; my name is Gary.” I told him, “Well, my name is Ayo.” I told him we call stray dogs Bingo in Nigeria and he said instantly, “No, I’ll call you Ayo.” Now, that period was in April around the breaking of spring. The winter had just gone and people wanted to be in the sun.

So, around break, when they heard that the sun was out, everybody would rush out to the closest park to us then – St. James’ Park I think, to sunbathe. During the first week of the training, Gary left and everybody else followed him without me declaring the break. I found it disrespectful. It was troubling. I asked for God’s help. Overnight I kept telling myself that I was in charge, not this guy.

I thought I had been friendly with them enough. Of course I had faced the same problem in Sheraton Lagos when I was made the Head of Food and Beverage Control and someone felt he was next in line, not me. I knew how I dealt with that. I didn’t repay the fellow with bitterness. Rather, I became his friend. I 66

knew what his problem was and I broke him down. Within three months, we were best of friends. Of course he knew that I was better than him. So I had to find a way to deal with the Gary issue. I simply told him the next day at the training, “Gary, the next time you leave my training without my express permission, you are fired! Consider your job gone.”

He was shocked. I repeated the exact words again and he just sat there speechless. I didn’t have the right to say those words. In fact I may have been fired if the management heard that I used those words but I took the risk. The others got the message. Their leader had been humiliated and subdued. After that encounter, the training went on for the next three weeks smoothly and without incident. Gary and I became very good friends. When I was leaving, he organised a party for me at the bar. If I had not displayed boldness, I would have failed in that experience.

You’ve described the good, the bad and the ugly of your Sheraton experience. It’s amazing how you and your co-Directors share that same feistiness and passion for right. When we spoke to Mr. Oladele Coker, he told us that you three were the stand-up guys at work – always voicing your disapproval of an unfavourable work policy even when others backed down.

How did you forge this enduring relationship

People gravitate towards one another when they share common principles. When I became a senior member of staff, I was made to lead the workersagain I became the Chairman without contesting. They still regard me as the Chairman of Chairmen up to this day at Sheraton. I always tried to clarify that I’m not a unionist but a corporate individual. We had common objectives. We weren’t trying to kill the organisation, we were trying to build it and make it better by finding a compromise through negotiation. I negotiated many managerial concessions in Sheraton. People used to say I loved Sheraton as though it were my father’s business and that was the way it was with my co-Directors as well. We were friends. We moved around together, we talked the same way, we were friends. There was an incident which we considered as racial discrimination against the Nigerian managers in favour of the expatriate managers. There was a facility extended to expatriate staff automatically regardless of their grade. They felt too many Nigerians were enjoying that facility and decided to take them off. I had felt both expatriate and Nigerian managers were abusing the facility but only Nigerian managers were taken off. I had been exposed to it from the first six months of my employment and had been enjoying it. So it was as though my employment had been terminated. Mr. Efunkoya, Mr. Coker and I made representations to management to rescind that decision because it wasn’t in the best interest of managers and the hotel, but they refused.

We gave them six months to rescind. We were 24 Nigerian managers affected and so they decided to provide alternatives.

I told the General Manager at that time, “If I am using a Mercedes Benz with no wheel cover, it’s still a Mercedes Benz but if you take that away and give me a Volkswagen with golden rims, it’s still a Volkswagen. What you’ve done is to give me a Volkswagen with golden rims.

I have pride in myself, I will not ride in your Volkswagen.” The three of us held that line. All the other managers agreed with us. Out of 24 of us, 20 chickened out when we were all threatened with sack. I wept for them. One seemed to want to belong to us but he was a green snake under the green grass. On the final day to meet management, I led the team.

He claimed to be part of us. We had been discussing this matter for six months but they held firm that they would not change the policy. During those six months, if we were excellent before, we were super excellent at our work. After we left the GM’s office, he came later to tell me that that other guy came back to tell him that we had forced him to come and that he wants to dissociate himself from all we had said. The guy tried to do business with us recently but I opposed it. My colleagues said he had reformed but I told them that people like this don’t change. At the end of the day he proved me right. The three of us were the boldest in Sheraton and we were the best in our decisions. If any one of us goes back to Sheraton today, the staff members come from left, right and centre to come and greet us. I am talking of a place we left over twenty years ago. They passed our stories from generation to generation. That was how we bonded to the extent that when it was time to do business, there were no hesitations because of the trust that existed between us. I can do business with Mr. Efunkoya and Mr. Coker with eyes closedbecause I can trust them. Yes, we confront ourselves, bitterly sometimes, but that’s the joy of this relationship.

How have you three managed to keep the friendship and business relationship strong and going for well over two decades

There are some fundamentals which you don’t learn in school but from home like contentment, honesty, integrity, commitment – we learnt from our parents growing up. We are lucky to have come from such good homes where we imbibed these values which have strengthened our relationship.

We know and trust one another well. For instance, I won’t leave an instruction to the staff and Mr. Efunkoya will tell them to contravene it. We always have the same objectives. Secondly, if we are to buy cars for example and we can only afford to buy for two directors, we agreed not buy at all until we can afford to buy for all three. Such decisions are critical. If we decide to buy for two and leave one out for example, next thing you know, friends, family are sowing seeds of discord in the heart of the one who was left out. So we made that decision that nothing will be done differently among the three of us. In terms of privileges, exposure and all, we decided that things will be done in a uniform manner. Another factor is respect for each other’s expertise. When it comes to areas of finance, my colleagues concede to me that I am an expert there.

That’s not to say that they don’t debate issues with me when there are gray areas.

When it comes to Mr. Coker’s area, we concede that he’s the expert in that area. We offer inputs but we don’t try to usurp one another’s authority in respective departments.

We also ensure that when it comes to business, no family interference is allowed. We agreed that if there’s a conflict between business and family, the conflict must be resolved in favour of business. We have policies regulating family issues like weddings, birthdays of our family members so that there’s uniformity. Those external issues destroy business fast and they have to be managed through policies and principles so that there’s balance and fairness. Also, Mr. Coker’s friends are our friends, my friends are there friends and Mr. Efunkoya’s friends are our friends. Our circle of friendship is big and when a friend is celebrating, we are all there together. We however, don’t try to be better related to one another’s friends. We don’t do that. We don’t go past one another to deal directly with our friends. Also, our Pastor, Dr. Tunde Bakare, told us some ten years ago, “Gentlemen, it’s not Christianity that is keeping you together. It is God himself.” Those were his exact words. He told us he had done business with many Christian brothers that didn’t end well at all. He said some Christian brothers in church had even bonded for business but ended up in the police station to settle disputes. He told us that the fact that we had been doing business together for all these years and had not once brought a dispute to him for settlement meant God himself was the one keeping us

together. So there’s the God factor in all of this.

What was your shared vision at the start and how have you three to preserved the integrity of that vision in the past 20 years

It was a challenging industry when we started. The industry was poorly managed.

The never-do-wells were the people working in the industry. The educational aspect of the industry was a zero. Hospitality illiterates were virtually the ones running the industry. Government was the major employer. It was servant-master kind of relationship. The perception then in fact was that working in a hotel meant you had failed at something else. That was the situation we met on ground. We were challenged and considering that we carried a spirit of excellence, we were determined to change the status quo even if we weren’t going to benefit from it. Our vision was to revolutionize the hospitality business in Nigeria and to the glory of God we were able to achieve that.

Our vision was not to have hundreds of hotels-it was to revolutionize the industry. The goal was to impact every aspect of the industry-hotel owners, banks that finance the industry, the people who study hospitality and catering in school, the people who teach it-all these aspects and more. Our mission is not to manage hotels. Hotel management is just one aspect of the greater vision of revolutionizing in the industry. Today, you can read Law or an Architecture and work in a hotel in Nigeria. A modern hotel now requires people from different professions working there-marketers, business administrators, accountants, doctors, lawyers and so forth because the hotel is a business-it’s profit-oriented. You need all these people to help the business grow and to make money.

We have achieved our goal to a large extent.

We are pioneers in this industry – we have set standards for others. We are probably not the greatest beneficiaries of what we have done even though we did indeed benefit but those coming after us are reaping those benefits more today. I totally enjoy what I do.

There has not been a day that I wake up and didn’t feel like going to work or that I shouldn’t be in this business. That day has never existed. I don’t see this work as a means of livelihood. It’s a hobby for me. I am doing something I love. It gives me joy.

Our office environment too is quite lively – open offices where everyone can easily access everyone. We have impacted the lives of many staff members and given them the confidence that they can be all they want to be. Working here really is more about the experience. It isn’t as though this is where it all ends for you. We let out staff know that the fact that someone started as a Cashier does not mean he must end as a cashier. People here think big.

You have said that you are pioneers in terms of thriving indigenous hospitality businesses.

Now, what has been the place of research, reinvention and innovation at HSSL Global and how have those helped to keep your organisation vibrant and relevant

I must confess that we haven’t done much of that because the business environment isn’t very conducive. I’ll explain. If you look at the way and manner hospitality and tourism is structured in Nigeria, it’s difficult. In the developed economies, government is responsible for driving, and not necessarily doing, a lot of things. They provide the regulatory framework as well as the enabling environment for private businesses to thrive, not just locally, but globally as well. If a President of an advanced country is travelling abroad, two-thirds of those on his plane would be private businesses. Here two-thirds of the people in the plane will be Abraham Falodun, Mrs. Aremu, Mr. Olowoporoku & Dele Salako

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civil servants and politicians. We have agencies of government that are supposed to carry out research and provide reports for the benefit of the hospitality industry.

When I was studying for my PhD in Business Administration in England, majority of the statistics we were using were provided by Eurostat - a central statistics organisation created by all the governments of Europe.

You can't find any meaningful data about Nigeria's hospitality and tourism sector at the World Tourism Organisation (WTO). You will find for Niger, Chad, Burkina Faso, but you won't find for Africa's largest economy.

If you go to their site, under information for Nigeria, you will see nil, nil, nil. The Federal Government has an agency into which billions are poured yearly and they levy us heavily. Almost all state governments are coming up with all kinds of taxes but nothing from them to help grow the industry. The hospitality industry can help boost the economy if given the neccesary support. Also, that is why my co-Directors and I have decided to establish a hotel and tourism training school. That is the solution because you can't be working and be doing the research at the same time. You have to be disinterested to avoid any conflict of interest- you shouldn't have an interest in the outcome of the research. It's better conducted by a competent third party. That's the role our Hotel and Tourism Business School (HTBS) will play.

It's going to be a research-led institution. A lot of data and statistics will come from our publications that will help the industry grow. Currently, if someone wants to set up a five star hotel in Lagos, they have to conduct market survey and research and that doesn't even mean they will get accurate data. Currently we prepare business plans and conduct feasibility studies for people looking to open up hotels. In fact, banks consult us and refer people to us for business plans before they issue loans. The unfortunate thing is some of these people are so fraudulent that once they are able to secure an MoU from us and get the bank loan, they at once breach the contract and do away with Hotel Support. We noticed in the last ten years that we've had to change staff too frequently because hotels are springing up everywhere.

Therefore, someone's ready to take an industrial attache from you and make them a permanent staff member elsewhere. We have people who are currently Hotel Managers who were but supervisors here. They're constantly being lured away because we equip our staff with knowledge and values beyond their primary competencies. With HTBS, we'll be able to train hotel workers well for the industry. There are people now who have degrees in hotel and tourism and do not know the basics of hotel management. Some have not even seen balloon glasses or dessert forks - they don't know the variations.

I asked an attendant in a hotel if I could have coffee and the person asked me what kind of tea I needed. I shook my head. HTBS will address these anomalies.

What vision do you envision for HSSL Global

We are building an organisation than is bigger than us the founders. We envision an organisation that will be taken to greater heights by younger, fresher people.

Sometimes when you're too protective of your business, you become blinded by passion and you may not see beyond your nose. It's a conscious decision to allow younger and vibrant people aboard because of course, it was at that age you also conceived the vision when you had the vigour and audacity of youth. Now, one would think of one's family before taking certain descisions and risks. Without those considerations, the young ones have the energy, drive and urgency to pursue new frontiers. So we are committed to always bringing in fresh people with fresh ideas that can drive us towards new heights. And it doesn't have to be our children because children also have their own ideas.

To other aspects of your life. You worked for the Nuhu Ribadu Campaign Organisation during the buildup to the 2011 presidential election

Yes, I did. How did you know? (Laughs). People got in touch with me via Fola Adeola that they needed likeminded people who would support Ribadu - a group of professionals. Of course Ribadu had been a public servant but Fola had always worked in the corporate world.

The goal was to use the corporate to achieve the political. So we were to mobilize the corporate world, which is usually passive in political and election matters, to play an active role. That's why you find the political scene in Nigeria dominated mostly by area boys, market women and the likes which is wrong. So you get to government offices and find that riff raffs are running you.

We felt the need to support Ribadu using the corporate platform that Fola has, to give him a lift. Nigeria is not yet a place where honest people are reverred. We only pay lip service to integrity and honesty. Ribadu had the credentials. He had demonstrated that he was a man of integrity at the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC). Fola had the corporate muscle. That 68

was a great team that would have put Nigeria on the right path. But then, in the corporate world, we overanalyse things - what we call analysis paralysis. What semi-illiterates have going for them is that once their spirit agrees with a conceived course of action, they act promptly. There's something about the human spirit that is better than analysis. One of the things that affected that platform was too much analysis by the corporate bigwigs there. I don't join something when I can't give my best. I gave my best and my opinions were always respected.

Do you see a future where Nigerian professionals can come together to form a formidable party that can wrest power and bring about the much desired change in the country

I believe genuine professionals can change this country because they have a lot to offer the country.

There are thousands - millions even - of competent professionals - men of integrity who can transform this country but they just will not get the opportunity.

Do you see yourself in politics

Yes, I do, definitely!

In what capacity

My brother is a member of the All Progressives Congress (APC). I studied their organisational structure and I am not impressed by it or should I say by the way things are done in the party. Democratic processes

should always be followed. I don't like the idea where candidates get imposed as opposed to them slugging it out in a primary election. I can't go into politics, buy the form of the party, pay the price, start my campaign, then somebody will tell me that I have to step down for his favoured candidate. Things like that have discouraged me from going into politics becaus truth is, there is no party that is well run in Nigeria. At a point, I will have to make my choice but it's not going to be easy.

Is it all gloom or do you foresee a good future for Nigeria

If for my sake alone, I must foresee a good future for Nigeria (laughs). Nigeria as constituted is an innocent entity. It's the players who are the guilty party.

Nigeria is a great country with great ethnic and religious diversity. It is diversity par excellence. That diversity is a factor for and can be harnessed for greatness. It is just unfortunate that those at the helm are greedy and corrupt. Nigeria itself was not a country until 1914, so one can authoritatively say that it will remain as one country beyond 2015. I however hope for one egalitarian Nigeria where there is regard for the rule of law and leaders serve the people. This my sincere hope for this country; but if we continue on this path of evil, injustice, bloodletting and religious games, we can't expect good to result.

You've told us about your life in business. You've even touched on the political but how do you unwind - what are

your hobbies

I love my job. My job is my hobby and that helps me a lot in the sense that I don't build up poison through stress. I enjoy my job and that is in itself a therapy for me. I also exercise regularly at the gym to stay physically fit and mentally alert.

You see people dropping dead in their chairs because they look fit outside but are not fit inside.

When I want to sleep at night, I don't need sleep inducing drugs or mechanisms to sleep. I just sleep. When I go on holidays, I go on holidays. I equip myself with a camera and go sight-seeing.

My kids love it when I show them those photos and videos of my adventures. My children cherish those moments we share more than anything else in the world. I remember taking them to what was then the tallest building in the world in America and we looked all the way to Michigan from the top. My mother knelt down right there and was praying in Yoruba. She can pray in English but when she's really into it, she switches to Yoruba.

She said, "This is where God is!" People were watching her and admiring her.I took her to Travalgar Square and she started singing. My children were ashamed - I told my daughter, "Keep recording." My mother was mindless of everybody around. When my kids see that video today, they are happy that they recorded. You can never see me going shopping when I'm on vacation because that's a stress builder on its own. Most people end up buying what they don't need.

I believe in God and I believe He has a lot to do with our lives...

Even when you make mistakes, God can turn your mistakes into miracles. My faith is rooted in the fact that God is involved in each of our lives from the day we were born

Tell us about your family

I have three daughters-Seun, Bunmi and Tobi.

They're all in school. My wife, Toyin, has been my friend since when I was in school. We've married now for 25years. Among my friends from those days, I am the only one that married my girlfriend, so they're always envious of me (laughs).

Would you have loved to have a son

Don't let my wife hear that (Laughs). I would have loved to have both sexes but truth is what made people want male children back then was because of what men could do that women couldn't. In today's world, there are no such barriers. In fact women seem to have more opportunities than men these days. Today, many companies will hire women first before considering the men. If you go to many companies here in Nigeria and all over the world, you will find women in very top positions in those organisations. Yes, I wish I had a boy but no, I don't regret that I don't. There's nothing I would have wanted in a boy that my daughters will not achieve.

What role has faith played in all of this

I read in a book many years ago where someone referred to as Alfonso the Wise said, "If God didn't exist, it would have been necessary to invent him." There's a lot of wisdom in that. I believe that Muslims and Christians are all children of God. I do not believe that one religion is the only right religion. I however believe that christianity is what is best for me. It's just like where I live. I choose where I live. I choose which religion I follow even though I'm exposed to both but then I realised that Christianity comes with a lot of richness in the form of education, medicine and so forth. It equips you to be a master of your own self. I attended a Christian schools at primary and secondary level.

In fact I was born in a church maternity home. I think that shaped my choice but in the end I still chose this path because I could easily have been a free thinker. I believe in God and I believe He has a lot to do with our lives. We know a fraction of what God knows so I believe, why not just trust someone who knows all. Even when you make mistakes, God can turn your mistakes into miracles. My faith is rooted in the fact that God is involved in each of our lives from the day we were born. I have seen several evidences of what God has done in my life - things I couldn't have achieved on my own. I could have been searching for a document for several weeks. The day I decide to pray about it - as trivial as that seems - that day I will find the document. In business, risk is the equivalent of faith. When we were going to venture out of Sheraton, people asked how we were going to survive. One guy even told me to my face that we were acting like mad men. He couldn't believe that we were letting go of jobs people were dying to have. I told him then that I can get something a thousand times better than the job I was leaving. It's God who shapes our lives.

How do I know this? When I got to Sheraton, I was announcing that I was spending just five years there. Every year, I kept reminding them. People kept wondering. God rubberstamped it. Exactly five years after I joined Sheraton, I left and here we are today - still standing and standing strong.

God is involved.

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MO ABUDU

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t would be impossible to chronicle Nigeria’s media industry without due mention of Mosunmola Abudu, fondly called Mo Abudu, Founder/CEO of Africa’s first global black entertainment and lifestyle network, EbonyLife TV. The superb TV personality who is often referred to as 'Africa's Oprah Winfrey' created a buzz when she celebrated her 50th birthday at the Grand Ballroom of the prestigious Oriental Hotel, Lekki, Lagos.

The glamorous black tie event which was tagged "Mo at 50...Celebrating Sisterhood" also doubled as a recognition event for women of distinction in different aspects of life and business who had remained unsung and unrecognized for their tremendous contribution to society.

Testament of Mo’s tremendous clout and influence was the calibre of guests that the classy shindig attracted. Leading personalities from the corporate, political and entertainment worlds honoured her invitation.

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Celebrant, Mo’Abudu & Mom, Mrs. Victoria Akintunde

Mo Abudu with her children: Temidayo & Koyejo

Corporate titans and business moguls in attendance included GMD/CEO of Access Bank, Mr. Herbert Wigwe; GMD/CEO of United Bank for Africa (UBA) Plc, Mr. Phillip Oduoza; his Deputy, Mr. Kennedy Uzoka; President and Founder of ANAP Foundation, Mr. Atedo Peterside; Former Skye Bank and Chairman of Heritage Bank, Mr. Sola Akinfenwa, Chairman of Honeywell Group, Dr. Oba Otudeko, CFR; immediate past Managing Director of Guinness Nigeria Plc, Mr. Owoseni Adetu and wife, Janet; Managing Director of Nigeria Breweries Plc, Mr. Nico Vervelde and wife, Clementine; Managing Director of Stan-

Bashorun Dele Momodu & Banji Oyewunmi

dard Chartered Bank, Mrs. Bola Adesola; Executive Chairman of Phillips Consulting Group, Mr. Folusho Phillips; Former Managing Director of Union Bank, Mrs. Olufunke Osibodu, Founder and CEO of Bestman Games, Mrs. Nimi Akinkugbe; Group Executive Director of Sahara Group, Mr. Tonye Cole among others.

From the political class, Cross River State Governor, Senator Liyel Imoke and his lovely wife, Barrister Obioma Imoke; former Governor Donald Duke and wife, Onari; Ondo State Governor, His Excellency, Dr. Olusegun Mimiko; Minister of Tourism, Culture Tonye Cole

Tade Olafisoye & Temidayo Abudu

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Bashorun Dele Momodu & Derenle Edun

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Mai Atafo

Mr. Odein Ajumogobia

Uti Nwachukwu

Mariam Omatsone, Dede Mabiaku & friend

2nd left: Shade Kassim, Joke Shogunro with friends

Saheed Kekere-Ekun ( Saheeto)

Sunny Okonkwo & Ade Bakare

Governor Liyel Imoke& wife, Obioma with celebrant

Basketmouth, the compere

Pastor Wale Oke

Gov. Olusegun Mimiko, Bashorun Dele Momodu, Hon. Kayode Akinmade, Tokunbo Modupe & Macaulay Iyayi

Bashorun Dele Momodu, Nzan Ogbe, Lanre Olusola & Hakeem Muri-Okunlola

Ayo Subair, Bashorun Dele Momodu & Kojo Williams

Lulu Enobaifo, Bashorun Dele Momodu & Chief Demola Seriki

Dr. Okey Anueyiaju, Kojo Williams & Pastor Ituah Ighodalo

and National Orientation, Chief Edem Duke; Minister of Communication Technology, Mrs. Omobola Johnson; Member of the Federal House of Representatives, Honorable Abike Dabiri-Erewa; former Minister of State for Interior and Defence, Mr. Demola Seriki; National Chairman of the Peoples Democratic Party, Alhaji Adamu Muazu; Former Minister of Foreign Affairs, Mr. Henry Odein Ajumogobia; Lagos State PDP gubernatorial candidate, Mr. Jimi Agbaje, former Deputy Governor of Lagos State, Mr. Femi Pedro, among others.

Esteemed media personalities present were Publisher of OVATION International Magazine, Bashorun Dele Momodu, Genevieve Magazine supremo, Betty Irabor; Publisher of TW Magazine, Adesuwa Onyenokwe; notable

fashionista, Nkiru Anumudu; celebrity writer and ThisDay Style Editor, Ruth Osime and Life Coach/motivational speaker par excellence, Lanre Olusola.

Entertainment darlings at the event included Ali Baba, Genevieve Nnaji, Tiwa Savage, Funke Akindele, Basket Mouth, Julius Agwu, Iyanya, Joseph Benjamin, Uti Nwachukwu, Uche Pedro, Niyola, Ebuka Obi Uchendu, Mai Atafo, Olisa Adibua, amongst others.

It was so good to see that the celebrant’s younger sister, Yemisi, as well as her mum, Mrs. Victoria Akintunde, flew in for the party from London. Mrs. Akintunde was evidently overjoyed and filled with a mother’s pride at the woman her little baby from all of five decades ago had grown to become.It was also heart-warming too to see the celebrant dote on her two lovely children, Temi-

dayo and Koyejo. She never ceased to tell everyone that both of them are her greatest accomplishments in life.

The red carpet session that preluded the upscale soiree which was planned and managed by Funmi Victor-Okigbo’s No Surprises – the Events Architect, became a runway for the distinguished guests to strut their glamorous garbs as fashion photographers had more than enough haute couture to drool over. The star of the show in the wardrobe department was however none other than the celebrant herself. All the glammed-up ladies, and there was quite an elegant lot, were nothing close to Mo as she sizzled in an embroidered geranium pink Oscar de la Renta strapless ruffle high-low ensemble from the designer’s Fall 2014 Ready To Wear collection.

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Bashorun Dele Momodu & Mo Abudu

Celebrant with Pastor Paul Adefarasin

Chief Demola Seriki, Mrs. Mary Akpobome & Alhaji Adamu Muazu

Bashorun Dele Momodu & Mr. Phillips Oduoza

R-l: Atedo Peterside, celebrant & guests

Mo’Abudu with Arc & Dr. (Mrs.) Tayo Babalakun

Aremo Segun Oniru, Chief Demola Seriki & Dele Ayileka

Debbie Oghene, celebrant & Victor Osibodu

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Seyi Law, Dede Mabiaku & Ali Baba

Kemi Akinyemi

Rita Dominic

Genevieve Nnaji

Abiola Saladu, Ebuka Obi-Uchendu & Gideon Okeke

Mrs. Gori Oyefolu, Mrs. Jumoke Adegbenro, Mrs. Ebun Adeniyi, Mo Abudu & Yemi

Dayo & Funmi Johnson, Ade Bakare & Sunny Okonkwo

Eno Udoh

Seni & Janet Adetu with Mo Abudu

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Dayo & Funmi Johnson

Mr. Kennedy Uzoka & Mr. Phillips Oduoza

Kehinde Majekodunmi, Aremo Segun Oniru & Taiwo Mayuku

Lola Adefusika, Mrs. Mary Akpobome (far right) with friends

Hon. Femi Gbajabiamila (left)

Reginald Laryea, Mo Abudu, Cyril Laryea & Jeff Mills

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Tayo Ayeni & wife, Adetutu with Mo Abudu

Mo Abudu, Ayodele Bashorun & Anne Ogbe

Sunny & Betty Irabor with Mo Abudu

Oba Otudeko, Mrs. Morenike Alder & Leke Alder

R-l: Ify Kagho, Adesua Onyenokwe, celebrant & guest

Hon. Jumoke Okoya-Thomas, Mo Abudu, Oba Otudeko & Ruth Osime

Mary Akpobome, Mo Abudu with guests

From 2nd left: Dapo Adelegan & Charles Aigbe

Segun Erewa, Dr. Oba Otudeko & Abike Dabiri-Erewa

Mrs. Ibukun Awosika

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Bashorun Dele Momodu greeting Mr. Danny Kioupouroglou of Eko Hotels

Bashorun Dele Momodu, Hon. Jumoke Okya-Thomas & Eniola Bello

Mrs. Ify Majekodunmi, Bashorun Dele Momodu & Susan Eyo-Honesty

Peace Anyiam-Osigwe, Bashorun Dele Momodu & guests

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Queen Ahneva, Bashorun Dele Momodu & Olisa Adibua

Queen Ahneva, Bashorun Dele Momodu & Terry Waya

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Tiwa Savage entertaining the guests

Tiwa Savage thrilling the celebrant & daughter

Ara, the talking Drummer

Chidinma entertaining the guests

Yinka Davies

Iyanya thrilling guests

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Wearing make-up done to perfection by Banke Meshida-Lawal of BMPro, her diamond earrings, ornate gold clutch, were elegant and a perfect gold pair of shoes completed a sumptuous birthday look.

The ball room, jazzed up with some of the most exquisite décor you’ll find thanks to the adroitness of events exponents, Newton and David, was a statement in class and panache. This, coupled with delightful music, exotic drinks, gourmet intercontinental dishes and of course, extravagant entertainment by pop divas Tiwa Savage, Chidinma, Seyi Shay, Yinka Davies, Ara, Efya from Ghana, and Waje, made it a heavenly night to remember.

As someone who holds God dear in her affairs, the celebartion began with prayers.

Anchored by comedy impresario,Basket Mouth, this account of the Hollywood-styled shindig would be incomplete without a mention of the Sisterhood Awards segment on the night. The award categories included Fashion Designer of the Year and Philanthropist of the Year.

Other awards were: Made-in-Nigeria Product of the Year, Film & TV Director of the Year, Photographer of the Year, Comedian of the Year, Entrepreneur of the Year, Artiste of the Year, Man of the Year and a Lifetime Achievement Award.

Later, “Kukere” master, Iyanya, rapper, Olamide, and Juju legend, King Sunny Ade, thrilled guests beyond measure for hours on end. The celebrant, who could not contain her joy, hit the dance floor and gave it a go with friends and loved ones joining in on the fun.

HAPPY FATHER

CHIDI MOKEME AND WIFE, JEAN CELEBRATE THE ARRIVAL OF THEIR BABY

NOAH

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op Nigeria Actor and TV Personality, Chidi Mokeme is one of the happiest people on earth. Reason? his lovely wife, Jean, whom he met during President Barack Obama's Inauguration in 2008 has been delivered of a baby boy!

Fondly called GQ because of his penchant for turning out in stylish outfits, Mokeme, who called Ovation with so much excitement to break the news, granted us this exclusive interview and also released never-before-seen pictures of this rare moment of indescribable joy when the bundle of love arrived and his mother's baby bump shoot.

Tell us about the experience of carrying your baby in your arms.What came through your mind when you saw him

It was an awesome experience. The whole nine months of expectations and watching my wife go through all the physical and hormonal changes all came down to this one moment. He came out screaming, announcing his arrival and presence, loud and clear. When I saw him and held him in my hands, the only thing running through my mind at that moment was that this indeed is the greatest miracle of nature. This is the moment that God gives mankind a taste of creation. It was just awesome. Awesome!

wasn't going to miss it for anything. I was right there in the delivery room watching the whole process. I even joke that I cheated her because she did the whole work for nine months but I got to see him first before she did. On a more serious note though, witnessing the final moments brings with it a renewed respect for my wife and indeed for all women and mothers.

Where was the baby born, give us the juicy details

The baby was born at The Johns Hopkins Bayview Medical Center in Baltimore, Maryland, USA. He arrived at 9:03pm on the 11th of March 2015. Delivery date was originally forecast to be on the 7th of March but I guess he wanted to arrive on my birthday which was on the 17th of March or at least as close to that as possible (laughs heartily) How will you describe fatherhood so far

It's been great. The feeling of watching the transition as the days go past is one that is better experienced. It's not really something that can be explained.

It's an ongoing experience. A journey of continuous discovery but nevertheless one that I am very glad to have the privilege of going through.

Where you there with your wife every step of the way including the delivery

The baby bump shoot, whose idea was it?

And I must confess the pictures are so lovely

Oh yeah I was there all the way.

Even though through the pregnancy, I was in and out of the country taking care of work commitments, but I put everything else on hold two months before delivery so I can be available 24hours everyday till that awesome moment. I

(laughs gleefully) Thanks. The shoot was really my wife's idea and I had absolutely no objections. In fact if she hadn't mentioned it, I would have, because moments like these need to be documented forever. And if we have the opportunity to freeze these moments in Paternal & maternal grandmothers of baby Noah

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dles his bundle of joy The happy father cud

time, I don't see any reasons why not.

Who designed the outfits, especially that red ball gown, she looked so gorgeous?

My wife's outfits came from her wardrobe. She got the black and white flowery dress from the Bebe store and the 'red ball gown' was a long flowing fabric supplied by the photographer and wrapped in various combinations for the different shots.

How has marriage been for you both

Marriage, like I always say, is the only institution ordained by God. And so it is a continuous learning experience. A never ending process of self discovery. A lesson in altruism. And so like all things divine, the mystery of it runs very deep. And I thank God daily for the gift of the woman that I am privileged to have by my side as we unravel the mysteries. With her by my side, it couldn't have been better. If I had to do it all over again, here or in a different time and place, I'll be doing it with my wife.

I remember you told us you will be shuttling because of her profession, what is the situation now

I would say that my family is more or less based here in the United States. By the nature of my profession, I am and will always be a nomad. As an entertainer, irrespective of where the home is, the whole world is my stage and playing field. Entertainers always have to move with the tides and seasons. But through it all, I'm glad to have a loving family to always return to.

What kind of father do you hope to be?

I hope that God gives me the Grace to be the best that I can be. The Grace to recognize and be present through the most important moments of my kids's lives. I want to be able to consciously lay the right foundations for my kids and family and to lead them in the way that they should go. And I'll do everything humanly possible to make that happen.

And so help me God. You named him Noah Akachukwu tell us the significance of those names

I named him Noah because he is our comforter. For me, Noah in the Bible was God's second chance to mankind. After mankind had gone totally astray and God had seen how unworthy we were, Noah was the only soft spot that God had, and because of 82

I wasn't going to miss it for anything. I was right there in the delivery room watching the whole process. Witnessing the final moments brings with it a renewed respect for my wife and indeed for all women and mothers.

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him mankind was given another chance.

And so after all we went through, we took a step of faith, and he is a demonstration of the Grace and Favour of God upon my wife and I. He is our rainbow in the sky and will forever be a constant reminder of God's covenant with my household. His arrival has made us fruitful and we shall multiply in abundance.

Akachukwu means the 'Hand of God' and it is also a testament to my previous explanation. But beyond that, I decided on that name after we went for his first ultra sound scan. On that occasion, the first and most visible thing was his cute tiny hand, waving at us. And somehow, on subsequent ultrasound visits, the most recognizable thing was always that one hand waving at us like he was saying "Hello! I'm here!" And I decided that must be the hand of God saying "Fear 84

Not, For I Am Here" because even when I couldn't make out any semblance of a baby's shape, the hand was always distinctively visible. And guess what? Now that he's here, when he falls asleep, he still has that one hand stretched out like one giving praise to God. Both grandmother's were there, was it deliberate

Yeah I'll say it was deliberate. Parents and mothers in particular love nothing more than to behold their grandchildren. And since my wife and I had the privilege of still having our mothers alive, healthy and strong and we had the opportunity to have both of them here, we decided to make their joys' full.

Describe your bouncing baby boy in one word

Miracle!

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ONE ON ONE

WITH MARKETING COMMUNICATIONS

EHI BRAIMAH EXPERT,

Interview: Michael Effiong, Babatunde Martins & Bamidele Salako Photo: Abraham Falodun

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Marketing Communications expert par excellence, Ehi Braimah, the Chief Executive Officer of Neo Media and Marketing Ltd., has carved a niche of distinction for himself within Nigeria’s blooming marketing communications industry.

He added another year recently and sat to an exclusive interview with OVATION, recounting the highs and lows of his journey to prominence.

Far from being a jolly stroll in the park, you will find in this interview that his path to success was not always paved with the milk and honey of fulfilled dreams and the glitz of the limelight, but also with the thorns and thistles of betrayal and disappointments. His is an inspiring story of dreams, discovery, tenacity, determination, hard work and above all, the grace of God. How significant was your background and foundation

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Let me be honest with you, it was a solid foundation. I went to a good school. It is best compared to similar schools abroad at the time like Eton College in the United Kingdom.

Government College, Ughelli provided what we could call a sound, moral, knowledge-based and quality education and things were working in

If I did not have enough money to start Neo Media, that would have been a more complicated issue; even though the money I had was not enough. I still have to thank God, because by His grace we weathered the storm. When you stand right with God and you are very clear in your mind with what you are doing, there is no way God will forsake you.

Secondly, be faithful in anything you are doing.

Nigeria at the time too. I must say, I am one of the privileged Nigerians who went to what we call a proper Secondary School in Nigeria when things were working. As at the time I joined Government College, Ughelli at the age of 10, the Principal, Mr. G.A. George was a white man. I was quite young, probably the smallest in my class but everything was clockwork.

When you were admitted, you would get your uniforms and uniforms were sent to laundry. There was a sickbay, classes were not over-crowded and the teachers came in and left. There was light, water and the hostels were not over-crowded. So, everything was working well. It was a great experience because even universities of these days do not have anything similar to what we had at that time.

Can you still remember some of your classmates

A couple of them like Clement Agegeh, Prof. Label Onunu(Prof. Medicine, Uniben.), Sam Omatseye (Editorial Board Chairman of The Nation) and a couple of other people that you may not know.

What was your nick name

At the time, I am not too sure I had nick names then, but much later my friends started calling me some funny names.

Tell us about your first trip to Lagos

Let me not lie to you, when I finished Government College at the age of 15, I moved on to do the Higher School Certificate (HSC). I finished my HSC at 17 and I went to Benin.My parents were in Benin at the time so I moved to Benin. I wanted to make some money before going to the University. At that time, we had Prof. Ambrose Alli (of blessed memory) as the Governor of Bendel State, under the Unity Party of Nigeria. The party introduced free education and free textbooks. There were so many new Secondary Schools and also a crave for Mathematics teachers too.

That was when I was employed to teach Mathematics at Iyekogba Grammar School, Ebo. I taught there for two years and I felt that I had enough and I was then admitted into the University of Benin.I should add that teaching was a great experience. I got an appointment letter with my total annual salary as 1500 naira from the Ministry of Education. It was a lot of money then.

I also took active interest in Football. During that period, I also made some money for myself on the side.

I was a private Tutor. I was paid good money at the time by many parents and then took it a step further when I and three other guys set up a Summer School business. Every long vacation, we used to organize the summer lessons. We were making good money, I was teaching Mathematics and Physics. After the long vacation classes, we would then move to evening classes, preparing students for GCE. I always had a full class because Mathematics was compulsory. Each student then paid 10naira per subject.I was not taking money from my parents because I was making my own money.I was having fun. We were the first set of people to buy Stretch Jeans from Forestry Road in Benin City N45 which was such a big deal because it was a lot of money. If you imagine that my salary in a month was around 110naira every month, I was making triple the amount from summer classes and preparing students for GCE. Mathematics was my favorite subject right

from time. I remember then in our first term in Secondary School, as I said earlier, I was the smallest in class, so,when the results were announced, M.D. Asoro; my Class Master came to the class looking for that Ehi Braimah who came first in the examinations. I was using my full name Ehimare. He asked me to step out. I remember he called me ‘small man, big brain’. I

used to be top in Mathematics and they would give me gifts like oranges and other items. In Government College, I was in the Sciences and after then, I moved over to the University of Benin to study Industrial Mathematics.

You said something about your love for football, did you play the game or was it just a pastime

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In Government College, everybody was able to express themselves as they got the chance to show their abilities in different ways; in sports and academics. In school then, there were about three to four pitches; for Athletics, Volleyball, Tennis and the Assembly hall itself was the main auditorium. It was a huge compound and then, you just had choose one sport so as not to be labeled a waste pipe. At Government College, we played Cricket competitions. I also played a bit of Basketball but Table Tennis and Football were my favourites. I did not play for the School because I was too small at that time. At 15, I had done my School Certificate. My friends then would see me now and say God is great (laughs heartily) How did you evolve from reading Industrial Mathematics to becoming a Journalist

While I was in Uniben, I took interest in writing. I used to read Dele Giwa and a lot of others in Concord, The Guardian, Newswatch etc. In fact, I saved money to buy Sunday Concord every time. That was the time I developed an interest in Journalism but they inspired it. I started writing and used to go to Ogbe Stadium to watch Mighty Jets of Jos and others. It used to be very interesting. I remember one Champion’s League match then; it used to be called African Cup Winners Cup or Champions Cup. It was Bendel Insurance and a team from Cameroon and we were in the Stadium as early as 8am. By 10am, the Stadium was packed full for a match that would begin at 4pm. I used to go to the Stadium regularly and I was writing commentaries and impressions of the game for The Observer.

Were you being paid

To be honest with you, any article then in the Observer was N10.50, which was big money then.

What I did, the very first 10 articles, I did not collect the money. I allowed the money to pile up and it became N105. One day, they gave me approval to go to their Finance Department and so I collected the money.

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accommodation for the whole year. You can imagine how huge that N105 was, I went to New Benin market and bought a brand new Table Fan for N30 and some other things. I took them home and started living like a king in the University.

I remember my first published article was in The Concord as a student in 1984 and Prof. Chike Obi then wrote me responding to what I wrote. Even as a student, I was involved in different activities, I was socially active which is still evident till today. We also organized social events in Uniben because I belonged to different bodies. I was also President at one time in the Mathematics Students Association, Uniben. Then, we had a convention, National Union of Mathematics Students in Jos. The Department gave me a car and a driver and I went with one of my very bosom friends, Ernest who is in America now, all the way to Jos and there was no problem at that time. Everywhere was peaceful from Benin to Jos. We spent three days in Jos and we had fun.

There was another Statistics convention in Kaduna. There was a day we hosted Prof. Chike Obi and I coordinated everything. Because of that, the Head of Department (HOD) late Prof. Tayo Fatunla who specialized in Numerical Analysis and myself became very close and he eventually became my project supervisor in my final year. I left Uniben for National Youth Service Corps Programme (NYSC) in Awka, Anambra State. I met this gentleman, Aminu Usman and we had fun. We were staying in a big house then and there were two other guys, one of which is late. We all served in the same School and boys were boys at the time. There were nasty experiences we had as Corpers then. Usually, the Expressway divided the campus but we used to go across that express everyday to teach, because we were living at the other side of the road.

The NYSC teachers had a club they called, “Men of Goodwill” It was fun, we used to buy liver sauce for 25kobo and there was a drink we used to take then. I made a lot of friends and I almost stayed back to teach

Mathematics in Awka, but the zeal to come to Lagos was my driving force.

The very first time I came to Lagos was when I was in Uniben. I had a friend named, Lawani and he was staying with his brother then though he is late now. His brother was earning well then and was living in a big house in Apapa, everywhere was so busy. That was my first time in Lagos and the second time was while I was doing my Youth Service. I decided to come to Lagos on my own to see whether I could work with The Guardian after my service and went to see a friend of mine (we were in Government College together). He read Chemical Engineering and was working with Associated Battery Manufacturers in 1987. I came to Lagos and dropped at Ojota. I took a taxi (a drop then was 10naira) and the driver took me to my friend’s office. There was no phone then so I could not get through to my friend. We got there and they said he was not in town. I was supposed to stay at his place for two to three days and then go back to Awka. This was in the afternoon. I decided to find my way to The Guardian where I had another bosom friend, Edet Tom Uyo and we knew ourselves back in Government College.

Edet’s father was an English teacher while my father was the store keeper and they were friends. I did not know how to find my way from Oba Akran Avenue to the Guardian but someone offered to drop me at Ikeja.

At the end of the day, I found my way to The Guardian.

When I got there, I asked of Edet and they said he went out and had not got back. He eventually arrived in the evening, by then I was very hungry. He was happy I was staying and took me to a canteen. Afterwards, he did his stories. He took me to see Mitchel Obi and we talked for a while and later went to his house at Ketu.

He was staying in a place where other group of Journalists stayed and it was like a community of Journalists. We chatted into the night and then went to bed. There was a shortcut to the Express where you could take vehicles going to Benin and so I left the following day back to Benin and then to Awka. That

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was how I came into Lagos for the first time to find work and I fell in love with the energy of the city.

The other question about Mathematics and Journalism, I have always loved writing, that was the background. I used to garner Sports stories during the Challenge Cup in Benin. Benin was a centre then and I used to go to Motel Benin Plaza to see the players and the Journalists that accompanied them and we would gist. I was networking then and got to know some renowned Journalists and then the interest in Sports began.

At that time, Sunny Ojeagbase just started Sport Express. I used a friend’s phone to call him and he picked and spoke nicely to me, someone I never knew from Adam. I told him that I liked the good work he was doing with his paper and wanted to write like him.

He told me to see him whenever I was in Lagos. I also wrote a letter to one of the Directors of Complete Communications, Solomon Fujah, who was also a referee. He replied me and said that I could come to Lagos anytime. I kept all the letters. I came to Lagos and I said I wanted to write Sports and because I had written one or two stories that had been published in Benin then, I was not treated like a stranger from Benin. There was a shift in business focus and I worked briefly at Complete Sports and later moved on to Sports Souvenir. Sometime in 1988, they wanted to start Climax Magazine, and again, I was moved there.

I was not doing too badly in Lagos. I made a good friend, Damian Ohajuwa in Complete Communications. I was earning 200naira a month which was same as what I earned as a Corps member but I could still save from the salary because I used to take a bus from Ogba, very close to Encomium office to work. I was squatting then because I did not have a place of my own. I did the bus thing for some time until Climax magazine gathered momentum and got us a bus.

I have always wanted to be an Entrepreneur. While we were doing Climax magazine, there was a lot of 90

socialization and that was where I did a lot of networking. I was just living it up as at then and I made so many friends then. We were single and so, we enjoyed life. That did not last. They started International Soccer Review which I edited then but this happened before Climax was rested. Not long after that I left.

How did you decide to leave your career as a Journalist to crossover to a terrain that is quite different

Then, we used to write about ourselves in the industry and we had these nicknames that were popular.

So many people were calling me and were saying that they liked my stories and gists.

Every paper had its own gossip page then and most of the time we were at Niteshift and so, we were gradually being exposed. At that time, I had already started writing to some international agencies and so I was a step ahead. I subscribed to some magazines like Media International since there was no internet at that time. I was using the magazines to monitor what was happening around the world. I was living in a room apartment and then, I upgraded to a two bedroom apartment in Ikeja. As a happening guy then, I got lots of favors from different people. As at that time, N5000 was the rent for a two bedroom apartment per annum and I furnished my apartment very well, this was in 1991.

Segun Joseph and one of my brothers moved in with me and other people also came to stay with me too but we had fun. I met my wife in Lagos and then, there was this spark; then we hit it and we got married.

How did you come about the nickname Foxxy

The DJ at Nightshift was the one that knew every one of us by our nicknames and so I do not know how the name Foxxy came and stuck.

From what you have explained now, you have always been hardworking and looking out for new opportunities, tell us about TQA

The matter is still in court and so I try not to talk

too much about it. Basically, it was a partnership of friends that was founded after we left Whitewood. The three of us came together and founded TQA Communications Limited. I resigned from Whitewood and shortly after, the Senior Partner, the late, Mr. Osunde registered the company, Total Quality Approach (TQA).

We were squatting at an office at Toyin Street and then we later moved to another office where we also squatted. Eventually in no time, we moved to our own office because we had potentials and we were making good money. After two years, we decided to have an office in Ghana. That is the much I will want to talk about for now. There was a succession crisis after the senior partner died and issue of continuity became a problem. I did not prepare for the TQA crisis that we even had to go to court and all because everything was rosy and we were doing very well. The company was worth over one billion at a time before the crisis came but it was clear I had to move on because petitions were written to EFCC against me but thank God, there were no proof I was corrupt. So, I started Neo Media from the scratch but I was not prepared for it. They froze up all the accounts and the buildings. All the assets were confiscated and I knew I had to start all over again from groung zero but then it became a game of survival.

Has your notion about partnership changed based on that experience

No way, it has not changed. Entertainment Express is still a partnership and it is one of the investments I have made in the past four years. It is owned by Neo Media and Marketing, Complete Sports owner and Mike Awoyinfa. I still do projects and I collaborate with other agencies. Once you stand for the truth, people will come out for you. If you are going into a partnership, you have to put God first; because bad spirit comes with making money. You must have an agreement and spell it out clearly that if there is money, this is how we would share it and the partnership will

not observe crisis or breakdown. Partnership is still good because it helps in building alliances and bridging gaps. Neo Media started in January 2009 and last December, we were 5 years old. I registered it in the last quarter of 2008 and then we started some few jobs in November but we kicked off fully in January 2009 and then the rest of the team joined.

as God blessed my faithfulness. It was just a process of transiting and doing what I used to do. But I was now on my own. It was very tough because I was so worried and I even had health issues that time as a result of the frequent visits to court, EFCC and police stations. Strictly speaking, you have to have people who believe in you.

How has business been

You must be a very good boss as a lot of your staff decided to move with you

Business has been good and I thank God because we have been able to sustain the tempo and serve the clients very well. As a professional, when you serve your clients well, you are guaranteed the next meal ticket. We started during global recession period in 2008 and we were able to wade through but then it was not easy. The money that I saved up, I had to use to get an office space and bought the needed equipment for the office to run. A lawyer friend of mine also gave me the sum of 2.2million naira to add to my savings and then we kicked off the business. Whatever we could not buy then, as we were making money, we were buying and we were able to stick our heads out of the water. We were also able to set up other investments.

Even when we were at TQA, we had a vision called TQA Global which was like growing the business into a group and having businesses outside the shores of Nigeria. Once you have the talent and skill, you can excel and that was how we now have Entertainment Express. I have a few other things that are not loud but it is part of the global vision. I still write once in a while, I develop properties and I also give lectures too.

How are the bones doing after turning 50

Being 50 is like a magical age that people call golden age. Life expectancy is so short in Nigeria now that if you now live up to 50, you have to thank God. Look at how the Naira has been devalued. It is this same Lagos that I rented an apartment for 5000naira and now those houses go for nothing less than a million naira. The other day we learnt that 1.17million people wrote Jamb and then there were only 520,000 placements and the remaining people would be floating. That is why there is an increased crime rate because nature abhors vacuum. If you are not in school reading, then you should be doing something because the idle hands are occupied by the devil. Even when you are working, inflation is eating deep into your income and then you have little or less and then; the expenses keep cropping up.

There is so much pressure and the Blood Pressure goes up and that is why young people die almost every day. Most people have heart conditions yet they do not know. All these are caused by worries and pressures from the home and work place. I advise people to check their blood sugar and their blood pressure because some people are walking corpses. If you live up to 50, then you need to thank God. For me, this is the stage of my life where I have to reflect and look back on my life and be thankful to God, friends and family members and look ahead. I pray every day for good health and long life. Each time I look back, I thank God because I have a life, a family, a wife and three kids and a business of my own that is doing well.

My wife and I have businesses that we run.

What were the things that you did as someone that has gone through a lot

I must say that it was not easy to start afresh and I went through a lot of challenges. We were spending money and were not making money and that was a big challenge. The children had to go to school and then I had just moved into my house two years before the crisis. Building our houses was part of the TQA vision.

I started building in 2005 and I moved in 2006 and then the crisis came in 2008. I decided to remain focused as all my friends and family members stood by me in my moment of challenge. If I did not have enough money to start Neo Media, that would have been a more complicated issue; even though the money I had was not enough. I still have to thank God, because by His grace we weathered the storm. When you stand right with God and you are very clear in your mind with what you are doing, there is no way God will forsake you. Secondly, be faithful in anything you are doing. I think those two things worked for me

As I said, it was a game of survival and when crisis like that happens, different people went their different ways and I wished everybody well. Some of the staff members then who were saying things that they could not substantiate later came back to meet me and I said, ‘’No hard feelings.’’ I still support those I can, but then; I remain focused whichever way.

Going forward, now that you have this place, Adna Hotel, do you still eat madam’s food at home

Of course, I still do. What we try to do is that we still live our normal lives. She works here as the Managing Director and then, we all eat at home, the children inclusive. On Sundays, we come here after church and do lunch together. Aside Sunday, we do the normal routine.

What do you consider your favorite meal

You know I am from Edo State and an Ishan, I do not joke with my pounded yam and Egusi or Ogbono. soup with bush meat.

What is your usual daily routine

I do so many things and I belong to different groups like the Board of Nigerian American Chambers of Commerce, Public Relations Consultants, Association of Nigeria and many more of these organizations. I have a level of responsibility for them.

I wake up in the morning and I read a lot because I have so many books in my library. I also write when I can. I try to map out good strategies for my businesses and that requires lots of brain work and I dedicate time to that. I wake up very early, have a cup of coffee and then, we try to leave home early. My wife goes with my kids to school but sometimes they go on their own.

I go to the office and then we treat the previous week and look ahead to the next week. If we are not meeting with clients, then we are marketing our own events to sponsors. After work, we check our engagements and after all of that; I go home for the day. If I am in town for the weekend, there would be too many social engagements and then, on Sunday we go to Church, Archbishop Vinning Memorial Church, Ikeja where I am a member of the Christian Association. I am also a member of Rotary International. All these things put pressure on your time. Sometimes, we go on family vacations when we can afford it too.But for me I believe, life is about balance.

How can you compare the times when you paid 5000naira for house rent to this time in terms of standard of living

That time, taxis were 10naira in 1987 and then, I was the President of Glamour Boys of Nigeria, a club we formed at Niteshift. We used to take a cab for the whole day for 25naira as the big boys in town. My first car then was a Mercedes Benz 200 which was in 1996 and that was the year I got married and then I had to move to College Road.

What advice would you give any of your children that wants to go into the partnership following your experience

They should be prayerful about it. They should have a proper relationship that has been tested and is sincere. They should have a proper agreement and all the expectations should be spelt out. They should have an exit plan for any member of the partnership and then, they should remain focused and believe that if everything does not go well, there should be a Plan B. They should also learn to save because it is very important in the time of crisis because you will not have anything to fall back on and you might just crash out. I advise everybody to keep a percentage of their income as no one knows tomorrow. If you are earning 10naira and you maintain a percentage, you will still save something. Most of the time, we spend money on things that we do not need and that is why I also do a 91

I advise everybody to keep a percentage of their income as no one knows tomorrow. If you are earning 10naira and you maintain a percentage, you will still save something.

Most of the time, we spend money on things that we do not need and that is why I also do a bit of financial intelligence training. bit of financial intelligence training. When people do not understand how money works, they always run into crisis because they will never be contented with whatever they earn. There must be denial and discipline to certain things. Our parents used to do Ajoh and the thrift collector always comes to collect it.

Savings is the only way to guarantee your survival.

Who would you consider your mentors

The very first one is Dr. Sunny Ojeagbase. I like the way he brought me into Complete Sports without knowing me from Adam and till today, our families are still very close. That is why we are into partnership.

The Niteshift Guv’nor is another mentor. I did not know him until I came to Lagos and he took me under his shield. The Guv’nor, Ken Calebs Olumese used to support Journalists then and appreciated us. I have learnt a lot from these mentors because one cannot buy experience with money and I thank them so much. I got my first visa to United Kingdom through the Guv’nor’s efforts at the British Embassy and that is what role models do. On three different occasions, Mr. Calebs Olumese has made interventions in my life that 92

has changed the course of my life for good. There was a particular house I paid for then, it became problematic and he went there to collect the money by himself. I was also going to run away to United Kingdom before I got married, he seized my passport and advised me against taking such a rash decision.

Another mentor is Dr. Akpor Omokhodion. He worships in my church and took me in, like his own brother. These are people who mean well for me and are sincere in their dealings with me and then the great man, director of TQA the late Chief Akeju too would also fall into my list of mentors. I learnt being smart in business and a step ahead like a chess player from him.

Business is a game and you need to win, just like chess where you have to be strategic. Above all, the fear of God is very important and one must worship God. There are some blessings that can only come through marriage.

Your company was listed among 50 fastest growing companies in Nigeria, how did you feel about that

I felt honored and I felt like the company is going places. It actually happened on my birthday; almost at the same time. It was a great experience and for me, it was an opportunity for us to be recognized at that stage of our life. For me, it is like extending the network.

To whom did you attribute your success to

There is a thin line between success and failure and it all depends on the way one takes life. It varies from person to person but I think if you are really determined to succeed in life, you will play by the rules and succeed. You can also look for people that can help you succeed because you cannot do it alone.

When we started Neo Media, we had to get the Bank to support our dream because we could not do it alone.

For me, if you are successful, you would be happy with yourself. There is so much you can do as an individual. If you are faithful, God will bless your faithfulness because God actually blesses one’s faithfulness. I never contemplated that I was going to

be able to raise the capital for this project and at some point, it was draining me financially and mentally. I was worried about the scope and the risk. There should always be a back-up plan. So, success has many facets and because I always keep my eye on the look-out, I knew I was going to excel in it and God has been faithful. It was very tacky, let me be frank.

What will you regard as your milestones in life

That I am even sitting down here to discuss with you is a milestone because some people are either not alive to say thank you or some are in the hospital begging God for good health.

People take some things for granted. I have a family, which is a milestone. I have my business, which is also a milestone. Coming to Lagos and surviving the TQA crisis are also milestones, although we are still in court. We just pray that God should spare our lives because the way young men are dying these days is alarming. Let us discipline ourselves regarding the way, type and time of food. This body is built like a computer and the way God created this body, we ought to live in it for at least 90 years but people abuse it. We abuse the body by not eating the right food in the proper way, by leaving the body dormant and the body needs to be active all the time. When you over eat, you add weight and if no exercise to burn it out, then the liver stores it as fat for you. When you start to do exercises, then your body size reduces. What causes ulcer is the enzymes in your body, because there is time for everything. The first cock crow in the morning is exactly 5.30am, if you check your time. It is not good to eat and go to sleep immediately, because you just build extra fat and that is what causes High Blood Pressure because there is too much fat around the heart and it takes extra effort to pump blood. If the Blood Pressure is too high, then there could be heart failure.

Life is about balance.

DOUBLE CELEBRATION FOR

HON. NIYI AND FOLAKE OYEMADE Story: Michael Effiong & Funmi Adeyemi Photo: Koya Adegbite, Abraham Falodun & Bamiyo Iselema Emina (Family Photographer)

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he pictures said it all. The joy, love and laughter that exist in the household of Honourable (Prince) Adeniyi and Mrs. Folake Oyemade knew no bounds. It was etched on their faces when they invited a select group of family and friends to celebrate two momentous occasions in their lives.

Held inside the family's new home in the posh Banana Island, Ikoyi, Lagos, the double-header event was to mark the wonderful couple's renewal of marital vows as well as the birthday of the matriarch of the house, Mrs. Folake Oyemade.

The invitation had counseled that it was a black tie event-and so many of the guests which included a sprinkle of politicians and business associates but mostly intimate family members arrived the venue decked in sharp suits and ties, the ladies were more

glamorous as expected, they adorned assorted evening wear that was good feast for the paparazzi.

Knowing full well how extra-special this ceremony was, The Oyemade's did not leave anything to chance: the invitation card, the music, the cocktail menu, the wine list and the gourmet meals were upscale.

As guests stepped into the venue, they were arrested by soul-stirring music provided by top saxophonist, Yemi Sax. His medley of tunes certainly gave an inkling of the excitement that was in store for guests that evening.

They were then personally welcomed by the Patriarch of the house, Prince Adeniyi Oyemade, who led them to the special cocktail area. There, smart waiters served everyone assorted cocktails from mo-

jito and fresh fruit smoothies to chapman and fine wines. Guests were relaxed as they networked and interacted gleefully. The Oyemade’s lovely water fountain provided a scenic scenery for this segment of the celebration.

Since the main venue was an open-air arena, as soon as the sun began to set, guests were ushered into the well-decorated area for the festivities to begin.

It was the Oyemade's well-manicured garden that had been transformed into this heavenly party venue.

Apart from the decor and fresh flowers, the picturesque waterfront view of the venue presented a superlative backdrop for the celebration-indeed the sea breeze that wafted into the arena every now and then was soothing, very few people felt the mid January heat.

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Hon. (Prince) Niyi Oyemade & Folake Oyemade

Hon. (Prince) Adeniyi Oyemade

My wife is just a wonderful woman , a perfectionist. Folake, in thick and thin, you have always been there for me.

You are just a loving wife, mother and partner. Thank you for taking care of the children. You have been a blessing to us all.

May God continue to protect you and shower you with good health and long life.

Formal proceedings were kicked off with prayers by Pastor J.T. Kalejaiye, the popular Pastor of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG). The anointed man of God prayed for continued love in the family, immense blessings from God and their continued dedication to the things of God. As a family that takes God seriously in their affairs, there was a session of spirit-lifting praise and worship. From the couple to their children and the guests, everyone was soaked in the spirit and sang with one voice. Mrs. Oyemade who chose a single shoulder black number for her first dress of the evening was as attentive as her husband throughout.

With top comedian Basketmouth as

compere, it was soon time for a short sermon by Pastor J.T. Kalajaiye-and he touched many hearts with his words of exhortation.

THE SERMON Speaking on the topic "Life is a loan and not a gift", Pastor Kalejaiye noted that " contrary to popular belief, Our life is a loan from God. If life is a loan, it means that all of us are debtors. Life can be categorized into three. We have physical life, we have the spiritual life (God formed, Satan came and deformed, but Christ have come to transform). Then we have eternal or everlasting life.

“What is life? Some people say life is good, especially people who live in Banana Island. And honestly, they are correct. Some people say life is beautiful; life is short when one compares it with eternal life, life is fragile, therefore, it must be treated with prayers. That is why our life must be prayer-conditioned.

Some say life is hope, because when there is life, there is hope. Brethren, I will like to tell you that life is a loan and not a gift. With a loan, ownership is retained but with a gift, ownership is transferred. " One day all of us will pay. God is a lender of this life. Genesis 2 vs 7 says'' And the Lord God formed man from the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul" Job 33 vs 4 says" The spirit of God hath made me and the breath of the Almighty God hath given me life" “Some people have the privilege to have it as a long time loan, while some have it as a short time loan. Whether life is long or short, what is most important is for us to end it well. I pray that we shall all live long and end well in Jesus

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es images ont tout dit. La joie, l'amour et le rire qui existent dans le ménage de l'honorable Niyi et de Mme Folake Oyemade ne connaissent aucune limite. Cela se voyait sur leurs visages lorsque qu’ils ont invité un groupe restreint de la famille et des amis pour célébrer deux évènements mémorables de leur vie.

Tenue à l'intérieur de la nouvelle maison de la famille dans le chic quartier de Banana Island, à Ikoyi, Lagos l'événement a deux volets comprenait le renouvellement des vœux du merveilleux couple ainsi que l'anniversaire de la matriarche de la famille, Mme Folake Oyemade. . Le code vestimentaire était à l’occidental donc beaucoup des invites qui comprenaient des politiciens et des partenaires d’affaires sont venus vêtus de leur costume et cravate ; les femmes étaient très élégantes. Elles portaient de robes de soirée, ce qui était une bonne chose pour les paparazzis. Tout en sachant que la cérémonie serait exceptionnelle, les Oyemade n’ont rien laissé au hasard : la musique, le cocktail, le vin et la nourriture étaient de haute de gamme.

Les invités étaient accueillis par la musique d’un saxophoniste, ce qui donnait un avant-gout à ce qui les attendait à cette soirée. Ils avaient était accueillis par le patriarche de la famille lui-même, l’honourable Niyi Oyemade qui les a conduits à l’endroit où se tenait le cocktail.

Les invités étaient très détendus et ils ont causé joyeusement entre eux. Puisque la soirée se tenait à l’air nu, dès que le soleil a commencé par se retirer, les invités ont été conduits à l’intérieur pour la célébration proprement dite. Ce fut le beau jardin des Oyemade qui a été transformé en

cette magnifique salle des fêtes.

La cérémonie a officiellement débuté par des prières par le pasteur JT Kalejaiye, le pasteur populaire de l'Église Chrétienne Rachetée de Dieu (RCCG).

L'homme oint de Dieu a prié pour la continuation de l'amour dans la famille, pour les immenses bénédictions de Dieu et la continuation de leur dévotion pour les choses de Dieu. Comme une famille qui prend Dieu au sérieux dans ses affaires, il y avait une session de louange et d'adoration. Il y a eu une séance de louange et d’adoration ; du couple, aux enfants et aux invités, tout le monde a chanté et loué Dieu a fond. Mme folake qui a choisi une robe de soirée noire, était très attentive ainsi que son mari, durant toute la soirée.

Avec Basketmouth comme animateur, le pasteur J.T. Kalajaiye a donné un sermon; il a touché beaucoup avec son message d’exhortation.

SERMON Avec le titre de son sermon, ‘’La vie est un prêt et non un cadeau’’, le Pasteur Kalejaiye a fait remarquer que ‘’contrairement à la croyance populaire, notre vie est une prêt de la part de Dieu, ce qui veut dire que nous sommes tous des débiteurs. La vie peut être catégorisée en trois parties. Nous avons la vie physique, nous avons la vie spirituelle (Dieu a créé, Satan est venu et a déformé ce que Dieu a créé, mais Christ est venu pour transformer), puis nous avons la vie éternelle.

Que signifie la vie? Certains disent que la vie est belle, surtout ceux qui vivent à Banan Islands. Ils ont raison.

Certains disent que la vie est merveilleuse; la vie est courte lorsqu’on la compare à la vie éternelle. La vie est fragile donc elle doit être soutenue par la 95

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My mum taught us about values such as hardwork, seriousness and honesty.

She instilled in us the knowledge that nothing good comes easy and that one has to work hard to achieve success.

-Son, Sammy Oyemade

name. " Because one day the lender of life will come for it. And it doesn't matter what you are doing. Once he come for it, you can't ask him to give you extra seconds. Eccl 12 vs 7 say "Then shall the dust return to the earth as it was: and the spirit shall return unto God who gave it" Unfortunately, life has no duplicate. One day, there will be no tomorrow. There is a time of arrival and there is a time of departure, Eccl 3 vs 6 is my witness. And it Says" there is a time to be born and there is a time to die. You will not die in Jesus name. The tribulations of life are not based on alphabetical order. God doesn't take away those whose name starts with A before people whose name start with E. If that has been God's method, many of us would have changed our names to Zebra. " Unfortunately, many people use their lives carelessly as if they owned it.

Every story no matter how long has an ending. Life can be enjoyed or endured.

Are you enjoying life or you are enduring life? Some people enjoy this life and they will forget God. Unfortunately, at the end of the day, life will begin to enjoy them. Life can be wasted and anybody who wastes time, wastes life because time is life.

Life can be prolonged. Nobody prays to die even those who pray to make heaven.

And if you don't want to die, how will you make heaven? The secret of long life includes the following: Keeping on obeying God's commandment. That will guarantee long life.

I Kings 3 vs14 is my witness. God told Solomon '' if thou will walk in my ways, to keep my statues and my commandments, as thy father David did walk, then I will lengthen thy days" 98

When you obey Gods commandments, you will live long.

Proverb 3 vs. I to 2 say" my son, forget not my law; but let thine heart keep my commandments. For length days, and long life, and peace, shall they add to thee" Proverb 4 vs. 10"Hear o my son, and receive my sayings; and the years of thy life shall be many" Fear God. Prov 10 vs 27 says" the fear of the lord prolonged days: but the years of the wicked shall be shortened" People fear man but they don't fear God. Many eyes look but few eyes see.

Honor thy father and mother. Eph 6 vs 1to 3 say" Children, obey your parent in the lord: for this is right. Honor thy father and mother; which is the first commandment with promise; that it may be well with thee, and thou may live long on the earth" If you honour your father, mother and those who are superior to you, the Bible says you will live long.

Leave covetousness. Covetousness here means an envious eagerness to possess something. It is an extreme greed.

Proverbs 28 vs 16 says “the prince that wanteth understanding is also a great oppressor; but he that hateth covetousness shall prolong his days" In conclusion, death will come one day. Are we prepared. Although it is good to celebrate, but we are not going to live forever. One day, the loaner or the lender of life will come for it. And if that is soon, where are you going to spend eternity. An occasion like this is relevant.

We need to remind ourselves where we are going to spend eternity. Eternity in heaven or eternity in hell. And Jesus is so touched about this. He doesn't want to lose any of us. That is why he said come unto me, all you that labored and of heavy laden and I will give you rest.

prière. C’est pourquoi notre vie doit être conditionnée par la prière. Certains disent que la vie c’est l’espoir car lorsqu’il y a la vie, il y a de l’espoir. J’aimerais vous dire que la vie est un prêt et non un cadeau. Avec un prêt, la possession est maintenue mais avec un cadeau, la possession est transférée. Un jour nous tous nous allons payer. Dieu est Celui qui a prêté la vie. Genèse 2 vs 7 dit ‘’et Dieu a créé l’homme à partir de la poussière et Il a soufflé dans ses narines le souffle de vie et l’homme est devenu une âme vivante’’.

Job 33 vs 4 dit " l’esprit de Dieu m’a formé et le souffle du Tout Puissant m’a donné la vie’’. Certaines personnes ont le privilège de l’avoir comme un prêt à long terme, alors que certains l’ont à court terme. Que la vie soit longue ou courte, ce qui importe c’est que vous finissiez bien votre vie. Ma prière est que nous vivions longuement et que nous finissions bien au Nom de Jésus, Amen.

Car un jour, Celui qui a prêté la vie va venir la chercher et qu’importe ce que vous êtes en train de faire. Dès qu’Il viendra la reprendre vous ne pouvez pas Lui demander de vous donner encore du temps.

Eccl 12 vs 7 dit "la poussière retournera à la terre et l’esprit retournera à Dieu Qui l’a donnée. Malheureusement la vie n’a pas de duplicata. Un jour, il n’y aura plus de lendemain. Il y a un temps pour l’arrivée et un temps pour le départ et Ecclésiaste 3 vs 6 est mon témoin en disant ‘’Il y un temps pour naitre et il y a un temps pour mourir. Vous n’allez pas mourir au Nom de Jésus. Les tribulations de la vie ne sont pas basées sur un ordre alphabétique. Dieu ne reprend pas d’abord ceux dont le nom commence par A avant ceux dont le nom commence par E. Si cela était la méthode de Dieu, nos

noms commenceraient par Z. Malheureusement, beaucoup vivent leur vie comme bon leur semble comme leur vie leur appartenait. Toute histoire, quelle que soit la durée, a une fin. On peut jouir de la vie et on peut également souffrir dans la vie. Jouissez-vous de la vie ou en soufrez-vous ?

Certaines personnes jouissent de la vie et elles oublient Dieu. Malheureusement, à la fin c’est la vie qui jouit d’eux.

La vie peut être gaspillée et toute personne qui gaspille son temps a gaspillé sa vie car le temps c’est la vie. La vie peut être prolongée. Personne ne prie pour mourir, même ceux qui prient pour aller au ciel. Et si vous ne voulez pas mourir, comment allez-vous aller au ciel? Le secret pour une longue vie comprend les éléments suivants: Garder et obéir aux commandements de Dieu vous garantiront une longue vie.

1 Rois 3 vs 14 est mon témoin. Dieu a dit à Salomon '' si tu marches selon Mes voies, en observant mes statues et mes commandements, comme ton père David la fait, Je prolongerai tes jours " Lorsque vous obéissez aux commandements de Dieu, vous vivrez longtemps.

Proverbes 3 vs I,2 dit «mon fils, n’oublie pas mes enseignements, et que ton cœur garde mes préceptes ; car ils prolongeront les jours et les années de ta vie, et ils augmenteront ta paix» Proverbes 4 vs 10 dit «Ecoute, mon fils, et reçois mes paroles ; et les années de ta vie se multiplieront».

Craignez Dieu. Proverbes 10 vs 27 dit «la crainte de l'Éternel augmente les jours, mais les années des méchants sont abrégées». Les gens craignent l'homme mais ils ne craignent pas Dieu. Beaucoup regardent, mais c’est seulement peu qui voient.

THE EXQUISITE INVITATION CARD

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ost people would have gone for the usual but not Mrs. Oyemade, a stickler for perfection in every sense of the word. The lady who has carved a niche for her company, Sam & Sara in the

garment industry, used the celebration as one opportunity to make a statement of style and panache, qualities that define her persona. Guests confirmed to us that the invitation was very unique and has indeed become a worthy memorabilia.

Expressing her incurable predilection for the artistic and creative, the invites were made to specification in America for this elegant African Princess .

It came as stately offwhite and gold-coloured box case, inside was where the invitation was neatly placed. A distinctive emblem was engraved on it and the left side was beautiful with a gold ribbon. Of course stars and a crown with the celebrant's initials, "F.A.O @ 50" were all part of the emblem. Inside the lovely box was couched a lovely crystal and red coral-decked ovalshaped picture frame with a back-stand. On it, the details of the ceremony were caligraphed expertly using gold letterings. The beauty was in its sheer elegance.

It wasn't one of those invites that became useless after an event. It was a memento with which a guest could eternally preserve the memory of a loved one by framing a picture of them in it and certainly one by which one would always remember the celebrant, her penchant for the classy and excellent sense of style.

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Hon. Prince Adeniyi Oyemade, Pastor J.T. Kalejaiye & celebrant

Celebrant chatting with Mrs. Dolapo Osinbajo & Hajiya Atiku

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Sammy & Sally Oyemade with Pastor J.T. Kalejaiye

Pastor Joel Eledan & Pastor Sunday Adejonrin with Pastor J.T. Kalejaiye

Hon. Prince Adeniyi Oyemade

Celebrant with some family members

Victor Okezie Jnr., Funmi Otsemobor, Sammy & Sally Oyemade with Andrew Hutton

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Mr. Wayne Miller & Collin Miller

Mr. & Mrs. Akin Ajanaku

Pastor & Mrs. Shoremekun

(L) Dr. Bassey, Mrs. Gloria & friend

Mr. & Mrs. Oladokun Olajide

Mrs. Nora Akinyemi & Miss. Clara

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Darey Art Alade & Basketmouth

Mrs. Odunlami Dolapo & friend (right)

Celebrant welcoming guests

H.E (Mrs.) Sherifat Aregbesola, First Lady Osun State arriving ceremony

Pastor & Mrs. J.T. Kalejaiye

Mr. Akinsanya, Chief Tunde Aluko, Mr. Kolawole & Bishop

(2nd from left) Hon. Oyemade & Richard Russell with friends

Mrs. Regina Krawzick, Mrs. Mary Paul, Mrs. Yemisi Ogunde, Mrs. Funmilola Adebowale & Chief (Mrs.) Balogun

Ebehi, Hon. Prince Oyemade & Mrs. Adeyi

(R-l): Dr. & Dr. (Mrs.) Kingsley Akhigbe, Mrs. Moni Ogunowo, Hon. Prince Adeniyi Oyemade & Mr. Ogunowo

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So, everything is not about miracle, signs and wonders. All these will end here. I heard a story of someone who loves his mother so much. And he bought her a new Hummer jeep. When his mother died, he put his mother inside the Hummer jeep and buried both mother and hummer jeep.

To God be the glory, you can use anything to bury anybody, but that doesn't change the destination of that individual. So I want to encourage brethrens to consider their ways.

Where are we going to spend our eternity? Every day that passes brings us nearer to the grave". Pastor Kalejaiye rounded off with prayers-and got a standing ovation from his awe-struck audience.

RENEWAL OF VOWS While guests were being served their first course, the Oyemade's had sneaked out of the venue. The next thing

Mr. Victor Okezie, Mrs. Cecelia Kudehinbu & Mr. Chike Obianwu

Mr. & Mrs. George Onafowokan

Mrs. Regina Krawzick, Mrs. Mary Paul & Chief (Mrs.) Balogun

Mr. Lucas (left)

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Mr. & Mrs. Suala Iyala

Mr. Kenneth Ogah & Mr. Fraiser

Mr. & Mrs. Gbenga Badejo

everyone knew, they were seen on the giant screens cruising into to the arena in a boat!

The boat ride, we were told, was a re-enactment of the couple's wedding day, years ago.

Guests' eyes trailed the couple until they arrived the family Jetty-and then Nigeria's Numero uno Disc Jockey, DJ Jimmy Jatt who was on the wheels of steel, hit their special number. When they emerged, Honourable Oyemade was dapper in a cut-to-fit black suit, velvety black tie and white cotton shirt, and his wife was like a Greek goddess, she adorned an angelic white outfit with gold embroidery complete with a gold headbound from the movie Great Gatsby, designed by Alexandre De Paris! It was such a spectacular moment as they danced cheerfully into the arena and were roared on

Mr. Seyi Adebayo, Mrs. Folake Adebayo & Hon. Prince Adeniyi Oyemade

Chief (Mrs.) Balogun, Mrs. Yemisi Ogunde, Mrs. Funmilola Adebowale, Mrs. Mary Paul & Mrs. Regina Krawzick

Lucas & Richie

Zhu, Hon. Oyemade with guests

by guests who had pulled out their phones and tablets and were Lucas capturing the& Richie moment for posterity.When they eventually got to the centre of the arena, where a dais had been provided, the joyous couple was met by Pastor Kalejaiye, who showered them with prayers and eventually officiated their renewal of vows and exchange of rings.

Minutes later, with the man of God coordinating, the newly reinvigorated couple cut their lovely cake, danced for a few minutes-and the first segment of the celebration was soon over.

THE BIRTHDAY

The main course of grilled lamb or fish was being served when Mrs. Oyemade returned to the arena in a stunning coral blue evening dress!

This was her birthday attire. She was the cynosure of all eyes as she sashayed into to the venue.

This was the time for testimonials and encomiums and it came in torrents: From her dearest: Children, sibling, brother in-law, nephew and husband to her childhood friends and business associates, everyone attested to her penchant for hardwork, her love for God and her dedication to her family.

She was described as a stickler for perfection, a mother like no other, a friend in deed, who gives without expecting anything in return, a loving wife and a committed Christian.

Those who spoke at the occasion included: Richard Russell (a Business Associate from North Carolina), Wayne and Collin Miller (Business

Honore ton père et ta mère. Éphésiens 6 vs 3 dit "Enfants, obéissez à vos parents, selon Le Seigneur ; car cela est juste. Honore ton père et ta mère (c’est le premier commandement avec une promesse), afin que tu sois heureux et que tu vives longtemps sur la terre ‘’.

Si vous honorez votre père, votre mère et ceux qui sont plus âgés que vous, la Bible dit que vous vivrez longtemps.

Laissez la convoitise. La convoitise est ici une ardente envie de posséder quelque chose. C’est une avidité extrême. Proverbes 28 vs 16 dit «un prince sans intelligence multiplie les actes d'oppression; mais est ennemi de la cupidité prolonge ses jours».

En conclusion, la mort viendra un jour. Sommes-nous prêts ? Même s’il est bon de fêter, vous n’allez pas vivre éternellement sur cette terre. Un jour, Celui

Qui a prêté la vie viendra la chercher. Et s’Il venait maintenant, où allez-vous passer l'éternité ? Une occasion comme cela est pertinente. Vous devez penser à l’endroit où vous allez passer l'éternité.

L'éternité au ciel ou l'éternité en enfer. Et Jésus est très sérieux à ce sujet. Il ne veut perdre aucun de nous. C’est pourquoi Il a dit ‘’ venez à moi vous tous qui êtes chargés et fatigués et Je vous donnerai du repos’’.

Donc, tout ne concerne pas uniquement les miracles, les signes et les prodiges. Tout cela finira ici-bas. J’ai entendu l’histoire de quelqu'un qui aimait tellement sa mère qu’il lui a acheté une nouvelle jeep Hummer. Lorsque sa mère est décédée, il a mis sa mère à l’intérieur de la jeep Hummer et il a enterré sa mère avec la jeep Hummer. A Dieu soit la gloire, vous pouvez utiliser tout ce que

Mr. & Mrs. S. Yemi-Akeju, Mr. & Mrs. Tunji Bello with Dr. Lanre Dickson

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Hon. & Mrs. Agunsoye

Architect & Mrs. Aina

Associate from Australia), Frazer Dyer (Business Associate from England), Betty Jude (From China) and Professor Odwer. This is what some of them had to say.

HUSBAND, HON. ADENIYI OYEMADE If you ask me to talk about my wife, from morning till evening you will always find something good to say about her. She is ninety-nine percent good and only one percent bad.

That in my opinion makes her a very excellent person. One unique thing about her is her devotion to God. She is also someone who does not joke with her exercises from 7am to 10am you will hear her music all over the house. She listens to a lot of music that I am not used to especially pop music: George Michael, Michael Jackson, James Brown and the like. I 106

Ronke Tanko Ayuba & friend

(L) Mr. Tunde Adekoya

used to ask her, why don't you play Obey (Evangelist Ebenezer Obey) or Sunny (King Sunny Ade) And she would reply that she is new school while I am old school and we would have a good laugh.

She is just a wonderful woman , a perfectionist. Folake, I thank you very much, in thick and thin, you have always been there for me. You are just a wonderful wife, mother and partner. Thank you for taking care of the children because I don't really have much time to be at home with them. You have been a blessing to us all. Thank you for being on my side, for being my better half. Thank you very much and may God bless you.

CELEBRANT'S ELDER SISTER There was something about Fo-

Nonso Okezie & Victor Okezie

vous voulez pour enterrer quelqu’un mais ce qui ne change pas c’est la destination de cette personne. Donc, j’aimerais vous encourager à considérer leurs voies. Où allons-nous passer notre éternité? Chaque jour qui passe nous rapproche de la tombe’’. Pastor Kalejaiye a terminé avec des prières et a reçu une ovation de la part de son auditoire émerveillée.

LE RENOUVELLEMENT DES VŒUX

Tandis que les invités se servaient de leurs premiers menus, les Oyemade se sont faufilés hors de la salle et puis tout le monde s’est retrouvé dans un bateau pour une croisière. Le trajet en bateau, comme on l’a appris, était une reconstitution du jour du mariage du couple, quelques années auparavant. Le discjockey numéro un du Nigeria, DJ Jimmy Jatt, a ébloui tout le monde. Lorsque le couple est apparu, Niyi portait un cos-

tume noir avec une cravate noire et une chemise en coton blanc. Sa femme était comme une déesse grecque; elle portait une tenue blanche angélique avec des broderies et un diadème en or ! Lorsqu’ils dansaient joyeusement, ce fut un moment spectaculaire et ils furent applaudis et acclamées par les invités présents dans la salle.

Lorsqu’ils se sont tenus au milieu de la salle, où une estrade avait été prévue, ils ont été accueillis par le pasteur Kalejaiye, qui les couvrait de prières et a officié le renouvellement de leurs vœux et l’échange des anneaux. Quelques minutes plus tard, avec l'homme de Dieu qui coordonnait, le couple a coupé le beau gâteau, et a dansé pendant quelques minutes et la première partie de la célébration prit fin.

L'ANNIVERSAIRE

Le plat principal fait d’agneau ou de

Hon. Jide Sanwo-olu, Her Excellency, Mrs. Sherifat Aregbesola, Mrs. Dolapo Osinbajo, Hajia Atiku, Chief (Mrs.) Titilayo Tomori (Deputy Governor of Osun State), Hon. Prince Adeniyi Oyemade & Hon. Ajilore

Pastor Kalejaiye

Celebrant with Her Excellency, Mrs. Sherifat Aregbesola

Pastor Ben Akabueze, Lagos State Commissioner of Budget & Planning (left)

Mr. Lucas, Sen. & Mrs. Jide Omoworare & Andre

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Mrs. Yemisi Ogunde & Amb. Folake Marcus-Bello

Mrs. Funmi Banire & H.E Sherifat Aregbesola

Michael Effiong, Editor,Ovation International, Sen. Jide Omoworare & Hon. Muyiwa Ige

Mr. & Mrs. Kamson

Mr. & Mrs. Idris Gbolahan with Mr. Sofoluade

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Hon. Babatunde Ogala & Otunba Lai Oriowo

Mrs. Grant & Mrs. Osho

Celebrant

lake from the very beginning. She has always had a mind of her own.

You couldn’t really influence her, if she did not believe in something.

When Folake was young, if you did something she did not like, she will dig her right toe in the ground, she will begin to grind her teeth and, pull her left ear. She has always been straight forward.

She is strong willed because she comes from a lineage of people who are indomitable in spirit. She comes from the Balogun lineage. And for those of you who are Yoruba, you know that the Baloguns are warriors.

So, the Baloguns are unrelenting. If they want something, they go after it and they get it. And that is how Folake has been all her life.

Legends have it that our mother

was very fashionable even in her younger days and that when the people in the Tubo family learnt that she was going to marry their brother, everybody was very happy. So her beauty and sense of style she inherited from our mother.

Infact, our mother was a fashionista of her time. From time to time she dressed us up and sent us to the photographer to take some pictures.

Therefore, long before others started talking of photo shoot, our mother had been practicing it.

In fact, she stood out from the crowd. Our love for jewelry was second to none. Our grandfather called Philip was a goldsmith, so he used to dress us, his grand daughters, in gold.

I pray that anything that Folake lays

poisson grillé était servi lorsque Mme Oyemade est revenue dans une robe de soirée bleue de corail magnifique! C’était son robe d'anniversaire. Elle était le point de mire de tous les regards lorsqu’elle s’avançait dans la salle. C’était le temps des témoignages et des éloges et il y en a eu beaucoup de la part de ses enfants, frère, sa sœur, son beaufrère, son neveu, son mari, ses amis d'enfance et ses associés d'affaires. Tout le monde a attesté de son penchant pour le travail assidu, pour son amour pour Dieu et pour son dévouement à sa famille. Elle a été décrite pour sa perfection, comme une mère pas comme les autres, une amie sincère, qui donne sans rien attendre en retour, une épouse aimante et une chrétienne dévouée. C’est ce que ceux qui ont pris la parole ont dit.

Le mari, l’honorable Niyi Oyemade Si vous me demandez de parler de ma femme, du matin jusqu’au soir, vous trouverez toujours quelque chose de bon à son sujet. Elle est à quatre-vingt-dixneuf pour cent bonne et seulement un pour cent mauvaise. Et cela selon moi, cela fait d’elle une femme formidable.

Une chose unique à son sujet est sa dévotion pour Dieu. Elle est aussi quelqu'un qui ne plaisante pas avec ses exercices physiques de 7 heures à 10 heures du matin, et vous pouvez entendre sa musique partout dans la maison. Elle écoute beaucoup George Michael, Michael Jackson, James Brown et autres.

J’avais l'habitude de lui demander pourquoi elle ne joue pas Evangéliste Ebenezer Obey ou King Sunny Ade et elle répond qu'elle est de la nouvelle génération alors que je suis de l’ancienne génération et cela nous fait rire.

Elle est juste une femme merveilleuse, une perfectionniste. Folake je

te remercie beaucoup ; épaisse et mince, tu as toujours été là pour moi. Tu es juste une merveilleuse épouse, une mère et une partenaire. Merci de prendre soin des enfants parce que je n’ai pas vraiment beaucoup de temps pour être à la maison avec eux. Tu es une bénédiction pour nous tous. Merci d'être à mes côtés, d'être ma meilleure moitié. Merci beaucoup et que Dieu te bénisse.

LA SŒUR AÎNÉE DE FOLAKE Il y a toujours eu quelque chose en Folake dès le début. Elle a toujours eu un esprit vif. Vous ne pouvez pas l’influencer, si elle ne vous croit pas. Lorsque Folake était jeune, si vous faites quelque chose qu'elle n’aime pas, elle va grincer les dents et tirer l'oreille gauche. Elle a toujours été simple. Elle a une forte volonté parce qu'elle vient d'une lignée de gens qui ont un esprit indomptable.

Elle vient de la lignée des Balogun. Et pour ceux d'entre vous qui êtes Yoruba, vous savez que les Baloguns sont des guerriers. Ainsi, les Baloguns sont implacables. S’ils veulent quelque chose, ils la poursuivent et l'obtiennent. Et c’est ainsi que Folake a été toute sa vie. La légende dit que notre grand-mère était très élégante même dans son enfance et que, lorsque les gens de la famille Tubor ont appris qu'elle allait se marier avec leur frère, tout le monde était très heureux.

Donc, elle a hérité sa beauté et son sens du style de notre grand-mère.

En fait, notre mère était une fashionista dans son temps. De temps en temps elle nous habillait et nous envoyait chez le photographe pour prendre quelques photos. Notre mère se démarquait de la foule. Notre amour pour les bijoux était de premier ordre. Notre grand-père, Philip était un orfèvre, de sorte qu'il nous habillait, ses petites-filles en or. Je prie pour que tout ce que les mains de Folake touchent prospère. Elle a rencontré beaucoup de défis dans la vie, mais tous ces 109

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Celebrant & husband, Hon. Prince Adeniyi Oyemade

Celebrant & husband, Hon. Prince Adeniyi Oyemade on their way to the reception

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Celebrant & husband, Hon. Prince Adeniyi Oyemade Celebrant & husband, Hon. Prince Adeniyi Oyemade

Celebrant & staff

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Guests taking pictures of the beautiful celebrant & her husband, Hon. Prince Adeniyi Oyemade

DJ Jimmy Jatt

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Cutting of the renewal cake

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Celebrant & husband, Hon. Prince Adeniyi Oyemade on the dance floor

Celebrant welcoming Mrs. Osinbajo & Mrs. Atiku

Celebrant’s daughter, Sally Oyemade

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Hon. Niyi Oyemade showering encomiums of his wife

Sally & Sammy Oyemade

Victor Jnr. with dad, Hon. Victor Okezie

Richie Russell

Dr. (Mrs.) Otsemobor

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Basketmouth

Yemi Sax

Mrs. Bola Akeju

Mr. Tunde Fowler & Hon. Jide Sanwo-olu

Mr. Tunde Fowler (left)

Mr. Wemimo Ogunde, SAN (right)

DJ Jimmy Jatt & Yemi Sax

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Chief Tayo Oyemade & Mrs. Susan Oyemade

Mr. & Mrs. Gbolahan Ojora

Shola Temowo & Ebun

Mrs. Gloria, Mrs. Chichi Obiagu & Mrs. Ezekiel

Mr. & Mrs. Zack Lawal

(Left) Dr. (Mrs.) Lanre Dickson

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Mr. & Mrs. Yinka Oropo

Chief (Mrs.) Fadahunsi & Chuka

H.E (Mrs) Sherifat Aregbesola with the Oyemades

Mr. Paul with Hon. Prince Adeniyi Oyemade

(far left) Dr. (Mrs. Esemobor & friends

Mrs. Ayoola, Mrs. Grant & Mrs. Oyemade

DJ Jimmy Jatt & Basketmouth

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Hon. Oyemade with guests

Hon. Oyemade with Hon. & Mrs. Odulana

Mrs. Nora Akinyemi & Clara

Mr. Victor Okezie (left)

Olumide Adefola, Mrs. Nelly Adefola & friend

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Mrs. Bola Akeju, Mrs. Ogunaike & Mrs. Osinusi

Otunba Lai Oriowo, Mr. Bayo Fatusin & Capt. Wale Otubanjo

Chief (Mrs.) Kemi Nelson & husband, Yemi

her hands on will prosper. She has seen so many challenges in life, but all these challenges will keep on making her greater in Jesus name.

Folake, we love her so much.

BROTHER IN-LAW MR. VICTOR OKEZIE Folake is my sister, and I love her very much. I know that God's hand is in her life. I want her to know that wherever that leads her, whether good or bad, I am going to be by her side all the way.

After all the encomiums, the celebrant, a businesswoman par excellence who owns the famous Sam & Sara Limited was filled with so much gratitude. She thanked everyone for their love, support and good wishes.

She praised God for sparing her life and for keeping her marriage intact. With a sweet smile spreading across her face, she paid homage to her husband for his love and her children for making her proud. It was obvious from the sound of her voice that she was overwhelmed by the heartfelt love expressed by all.

THE ENTERTAINMENT

Apart a short comedy session by Basketmouth, DJ Jimmy Jatt took guests on a musical excursion. He began with slow old school jams, moved into 90s grooves and later he unleashed the latest Nigerian hits on everyone, there was certainly no dull moment.

That was not all, velvety-voiced Dare Art Alade caressed everyone with his songs, he worked the crowd up, getting them involved in singalong sessions that were truly enjoy-

Arch. & Arch. (Mrs.) Tola Akinkugbe

able. The opinion of all, was that Dare had upped his game big time with the way he commandeered the audience and titillated them into a frenzy.

THE HOSPITALITY

Apart from the 3-course dinner, guests also had the choice of helping themselves at a buffet table where Nigerian and continental dishes had been laid out. Later, canapes aka small chops were offered, then guests were treated to special Brazilian grills of steak, king prawns and chicken courtesy Chirascos. And of course, exotic wines and top-of-therange Champagnes were available for guests to enjoy.

The celebration cruised till well after midnight-and there was no doubt that the Oyemades hosted a truly first class party!

INTERVIEW WITH CELEBRANT'S SON, SAMMY OYEMADE Sammy Oyemade is the son of the celebrant, his other sibling is his twin sister, Sally.

Can you tell me a bit about your parents and how was your growing up like

Growing up for us was really wonderful thanks to my mum. She was the one who taught us to be disciplined and ensured we followed the right path. She taught us about values such as hardwork, seriousness and honesty. She instilled in us the knowledge that nothing good comes easy and that one has to work hard to achieve success. So that should tell you that it was a very tough upbringing that we had because we had to

défis vont la rendre plus forte au Nom de Jésus. Folake, nous t’aimons beaucoup.

BEAU-FRÈRE M. VICTOR

Folake est ma sœur, et je l'aime beaucoup. Je sais que la main de Dieu est sur sa vie. Je veux qu'elle sache que, que le temps soit beau ou mauvais, je serai toujours à ses côtés.

Après tous ses éloges, Folake, une femme d'affaires par excellence qui possède la célèbre Sam & Sara Limited était émue avec tant de reconnaissance. Elle a remercié tout le monde pour leur amour, leur soutien et leurs vœux. Elle a loué Dieu pour avoir épargné sa vie et pour avoir gardé son mariage intact. Avec un sourire sur son visage, elle a rendu hommage à son mari pour son amour et ses enfants. Il était évident par le son de sa voix qu'elle a été très émue par l'amour sincère exprimé par tous.

LE DIVERTISSEMENT Outre une courte séance de comédie par Basketmouth, DJ Jimmy Jatt a continué avec une séance musicale. Il a commencé avec d’anciennes chansons des années 90 et plus tard il a joué les dernières chansons nigérianes. Il n'y avait

pas de temps pour s’ennuyer. Ce n’était pas tout. Dare Art Alade a ébloui tout le monde avec ses chansons, il a fait chanter la foule et ce fut très agréable. L'avis de tous, c’est que Dare a créé l’ambiance avec la manière dont il a réquisitionné le public et les a entrainé dans sa prestation avec frénésie.

L'HOSPITALITE Outre le dîner fait de 3 plats, les invités ont également eu le choix de se servir à un buffet ou des plats nigérians et continentaux avaient été aménagés.

Plus tard, des canapés (petites côtelettes) ont été offerts, puis les invités ont été emmenés au fameux restaurant, Le Canivore (au Kenya et en Afrique du Sud) où des steaks, des gambas grillées, du poulet, etc., ont été servis jusqu'à très tard dans la nuit. La célébration a duré au-delà de minuit et il n'y avait aucun doute que les Oyemades ont organisé une véritable fete de classe!

ENTRETIEN AVEC LE FILS, SAMMY OYEMADE

Sammy Oyemade est le fils de Folake, il y a aussi sa sœur jumelle, Sara.

Parlez-nous un peu de vos parents et de

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Celebrant catching some fun on the dance floor

Chief (Mrs.) Titilayo Tomori (Deputy Governor of Osun State) with celebrant

Pastor Thomas, Mr. Idris, Celebrant, Mr. Fasinro, Hon. Prince Adeniyi Oyemade & Mrs. Thomas

Chief (Mrs.) Titilayo Tomori & daughters with celebrant

(L) Mrs. Modupe Olafinmihan, Mr. & Mrs. Sule Bates

Babatunde Odukoya, celebrant, Mrs. Odukoya & Mrs. Akeju

Sen. Anthony Adefuye, celebrant & Pharm Paul

Andrew Hutton & Dare Art-Alade

Dare Art-Alade with the guests

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Mrs. Dolapo Osinbajo, Hon. Prince Adeniyi Oyemade, celebrant & Hajia Atiku

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Cutting of the birthday cake

Celebrant with family members

Mrs. Bola Ayeni, celebrant & Mr. Tunde Tubo

Mrs. Kamson, celebrant, Mrs. Lana Ayoola

Mrs. Ikoli Ayininuola, celebrant & Mrs. Sola Gbenike

Mrs. Loretta Jibowu, celebrant & Mrs. Lara

Celebrant & Dare Art-Alade

follow her many rules (smiles) Who are you closer to, your dad or your mum

It depends. There are some things I can only call my mum for and there are others that have to do with my dad. But I must admit that I am closer to my mum on a personal level. In terms of empathy, she is always there for us unlike my father who always believes that I can handle things myself.

What do you wish them as they are celebrating their renewal of marriage vows as well as your mum's birthday

I wish them success in their union and I wish my mum long life and prosEngr. & Mrs. Tunde Ashafa with celebrant

perity in all her endeavours.I want to tell them that I love them so much Are u still in school or you have finished schooling

I am in my first year in the university What are you studying

I am studying Chemical Engineering Did any of your parents influence you regarding your choice of study

My mum had always wanted me to study an Engineering course, so I decided to choose Chemical Engineering.

How close are you to your sister

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votre enfance

Nous enfance était merveilleuse grâce à notre mère.

Elle était celle qui nous a appris la discipline et elle s’est assurée que nous suivions le droit chemin. Elle nous a aussi appris les valeurs telles que le travail acharné, la sincérité et l’honnêteté. Elle nous a appris que rien de bon ne vient facilement et que l'on doit travailler dur pour réussir. Ce fut une enfance un peu dure car mous avions eu à suivre ses nombreuses règles (rires) De qui êtes-vous le plus proche, de votre père ou de votre mère

Ça dépend. Il y a certaines choses pour lesquelles j’aurai uniquement besoin de ma mère et des choses pour lesquelles j’aurai uniquement besoin de mon père.

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Mais je dois admettre que je suis plus proche de ma mère sur le plan personnel. Elle est toujours là pour nous contrairement à mon père qui croit toujours que je peux gérer les choses moi-même.

Qu'est-ce que vous étudiez

Que leur souhaitez-vous comme ils renouvellent leurs vœux de mariage et que ta mère fête son anniversaire

Ma mère avait toujours voulu que je fasse des études dans l’ingénierie, alors j’ai décidé de choisir le génie chimique.

Je leur souhaite beaucoup de succès dans leur union et je souhaite que ma maman ait une longue durée de vie et quelle prospère dans toutes ses entreprises. Je veux leur dire que je les aime beaucoup.

Est-ce vous fréquentez toujours ou avez-vous terminé vos études

Je suis dans ma première année à l'université

Je suis étudiant en génie chimique Est-ce que vos parents vous ont influencé au sujet du choix de vos études

Comment est votre relation avec votre sœur

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MARY CHARLES, STILL SWEET AND SIZZING AT 50 Story: Emmanuel T. Edward Photo: Abraham Falodun

Aramide Shogunro, Yinka Osobu, Olawunmi Bibilari, Folake Kassim, Mary Charles, Shade Kassim, Lola Akinola, Nike Idowu & Joke Shogunro

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he celebration was simple but splendid, stately and exclusive to a select number of family members and friends. We’re talking about the 50th birthday party of the stylish and graceful Beauty Expert, Mary Charles. For those who attended, it was an invitation to love, excitement and merry-making.

As a committed Christian, it was at The Revival Assembly Church, Ogba, Lagos, that the celebration began. Her guests were there to join her to offer praises to God. The service started with light worship songs which soon transformed into a praise fiesta. The Senior Pastor of the Church, Apostle Anselm Madubuko fed guests’ spiritual appetites with an interesting and inspiring sermon.

His preaching had the perfect dose of unpredictable wittiness and satirical eloquence - laced with thought-provoking words on human life and purposeful living. Anyone who has heard the Apostle speak knows he has got a powerful oratory prowess - one that commands attention with ease. Shortly after, prayers were offered in adoration to God for His favour in the life of the celebrant as well as for many more years of good health and prosperity.

The service drew to a close with exchange of pleasantries and a photography session where friends and family jostled to take photographs with the ‘golden girl.’

The happy audience found its way

to Jade Chinese Restaurant Ikeja, GRA, Lagos, where the celebration continued. The ambience of beauty, harmony and elegance that could easily be seen in the hall captivated everyone.

From the attractive decor to the garlanded seats and tables, then the beauteous cake; everything was neatly done. As the music played, guests enjoyed a good assortment of Chinese delicacies accompanied by good wines.

Thereafter, Mary Charles, who is a member of the Rotary Club of Ikeja South was called upon to do justice to the beautiful golden cake that had a touch of white and a star carving on top.With rich smiles spread across her face, as everyone spelt the name 'Jesus,', she cut her beautiful cake.Thereafter, a few of her friends were invited to speak about the celebrant. All those who did agreed that Mary Charles was a remarkable mother and a friend who is very loving and caring.The lady who runs a top-rate beauty facility called Twinkle on Allen Avenue, Ikeja, Lagos was also described as a hardworking businesswoman.Thereafter, the dance session was declared open. Some wriggled to the sweet sounds breezing from the speakers, while others slowly rocked from right to left. Everyone had fun, but of course, no one could beat Mary to it!

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THE GLORIOUS THANKSGIVING SERVICE

Mr. Shina Oshinoiki with the children

Celebrant, Mary Charles durin the thanksgiving service in church

Pastor Anselm Madubuko praying for the celebrant, Mary Charles

Celebrant, Mary Charles with family members & Pastor Anselm Madubuko during the thanksgiving service

Mr. Shina Oshinoiki, Mary Charles with children

Nike Atobatele, Evelyn Chukwujoma & Yetunde Olaitan

Celebrant, Mary Charles with friends

Joke Shogunro, Lucy Oredugba & Pst. Dayo Ekon

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Mary Charles & Shina Oshinoiki

Mrs. Bisi Kuye & Princess Oyinda Andrew

THE RECEPTION

Arrival of the celebrant to the reception hall

Celebrant & family full of praise

Tunde Ogungbo, Mr. & Mrs. Dele Akinola

Nike Onwurah, Funmi Idowu & Edosa Ajari

Arc. Niyi Adesanya & Nike Idowu

Akeem Dickson, Shina Bolaji Oshinoiki & Ademola Odunsi

Pastor (Mrs.) Dayo Ekon, Chief (Mrs.) Bisi Kuye, Mrs. Tai Elemosho-Okesanjo (Montai), Chief (Mrs.) Joko Oni & Mr. & Mrs. Akinbo Johnson

Yinka Oropo, Micheal, Mayor Akeem Dickson, Demola Odunsin, Tayo Alakiu & Charles

Mary Charles & Wole Aboderin

Mide Oredugba, Mary Charles & Adei Usman

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Chief (Mrs.) Joko Oni, Mrs. Martha Najomo & Mrs. Tai Elemosho-Okesanjo

Tola Ola, Lucy Oredugba, Mary Charles, Nike Onwurah & Martha Najomo

Mrs. Mary Eyo-Ita, Mary Charles & Mrs. Justina Edeh

Elvin Chugamah, Yetunde Olaitan, Mary Charles & Mrs. Nike Atobatele

Susan Eyo-Honesty & Sylvia Nnamdi

Mr. & Mrs. Mike Ehikoyamen

Nike Onwurah, Funmi Idowu & Edosa Ajari

Mr. Kunle Ogedengbe & Mr. Taiwo Johnson

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Folake Kassim, Mary Charles, Shade Kassim & Lawunmi Bibilari

Mr. & Mrs. Salami Ohiomose with Oyin Ayodele

FAMILY AND FRIENDS GATHER FOR THE 10TH YEAR REMEMBRANCE OF CAPTAIN ROTIMI Story: Tersoo Achineku Photo: Segun Lawal

SERIKI

Abisola Seriki, Sen. Olabiyi Durojaiye, Mrs. Toyin Seriki & Simisola Seriki

Engr. Gboyega Durojaiye, Bashorun Dele Momodu, Sen. Olabiyi Durojaiye & Prof.

Femi Adelowo

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man’s true value and worth are not measured by how long he lived but how lasting a memory he leaves after has has departed from this earth, by virtue of the manner of life he led, the impact he made on other men and the legacies by which he is forever immortalised in the memories of all who encountered him.

Such a man who left lasting memories and legacies is Late Captain Rotimi Seriki who was a Pilot with the defunct Nigeria Airways.

Very few people leave a strong and lasting impression on people like he did which is why a full decade after his untimely passing, memories of his principled but genial and bubbly personality are still fresh in the minds of his family and friends as though it was just yesterday. He was a man of uncommon kind-

ness and was accordingly, loved by all and his death left a gaping hole in the hearts of his loved ones who have cherished and preserved his memories dearly.

It was testament to that legendary generosity of the deceased that his friends, colleagues and associates as well as other friends of the larger Seriki family assembled to celebrate the life of a man who was well loved and respected.

The memorial which was organised by his wife, Mrs. Toyin Seriki and her two daughters, Dr. Abisola and Simisola, (His other Children, Afolabi, based in the United States and Toluwalase, based in the United Kindom could not attend because of School commitments) took place at the Redeemed Christian Church of God, House of His Glory Chapel, Alade, Ikeja. Dignitaries like OVATION publisher, Bashorun Dele Momodu; Ogun State Mrs. Toyin Seriki, widow of the well-loved gentleman, Capt Rotimi Seriki

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Mrs. Toyin Seriki, Dr. Abisola Seriki & Simisola Seriki

Dr. Bose Durojaiye, Mrs. Bolaji Momodu & Mrs. Bamidele Abiodun

Chief Tunde Odanye

Alhaji Tajudeen Seriki & Engr. Alana Odutola

Mrs. Peju Seriki & Mrs. Oluranti Odutola

Mrs. Adeshakin & Mrs. Tola Olatokun

Mrs. Tola Olatokun & Omolara Lawal

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Bisi Olasoji & Mr. Niyi

Mrs. Toyin Seriki

Pastor James Owolabi

Dr. Abisola Seriki

Simisola Seriki

Pastor (Mrs.) Green

Mrs. Tutu Ayeni & Mrs. Toyin Seriki

Tunde Coker

Kola & Kofo Seriki with Arc. Ola Seriki

Mrs. Idowu Iremiren & Mrs. kemi Adeoye

Tola Seriki & Alhaji Abeeb Aileru

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Pastor blessing the Seriki family

Mrs. Toyin Seriki & Mrs. Lara Joseph Okikiolu

Alhaja Ajike Sule & Simisola Seriki

Pastor (Mrs) Nike Owolabi & Mrs. Toyin Seriki

Mrs. Toyin Macaulay & Simisola Seriki

Pastor (Mrs) Nike Owolabi, Bashorun Dele Momodu & Pastor James Owolabi

Bamidele Abiodun, Yinka Bonajo & Tutu Ayeni

Commissioner for Commerce and Industries, Otunba Bimbo Ashiru and Nigerian statesman, Senator Biyi Durojaiye turned up to honour the memory of their dear friend and brother in-law.At the church, Pastor James Owolabi who conducted the memorial service, explained that death was an inevitable occurrence which served as a channel to propel us to the presence of the Lord. He urged the congregation to take a cue from the life of the deceased, noting that he led a life worthy of emulation. He concluded with a prayer for the family and charged them to keep the memory of their late father alive through good deeds and acts of kindness reminiscent of his good-na134

turedness.

Afterwards, Dr. Abisola Seriki, his eldest child delivered a heart rendering tribute to her father on behalf of the family. She explained that her father was and remains an eternal symbol of kindness and honesty and that despite having died a decade ago, he was still greatly missed.

She recalled various moments in which her father had risen to the occasion during troubling times and finished by acknowledging that the late Captain was indeed an inspirational figure and promised to honour his name forever.

A low-keyed reception was later held at the residence of the family.

Mrs. Funmi Bisiriyu, Mrs. Mobolaji Momodu, Yinka Taiwo & Yinka Bonajo

Bashorun Dele Momodu & Alhaji Tajudeen Seriki

Mrs. Toyin Seriki with family members

Alhaji Tajudeen Seriki, Mrs. Toyin Seriki & Peju Seriki

Pastor & Pastor (Mrs) Obaleye with Mrs. Toyin Seriki

Ms. Folake Adeniji, Mrs. Bose Durojaiye & Mrs. Bukola Agiri

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MRS. VICTORIA OLAJUMOKE SERIKI GOES HOME IN STYLE Story: Tersoo Achineku Photo: Segun Lawal

Dr. Abisola Seriki, Mrs. Bolaji Momodu, Mrs. Toyin Seriki & Simisola Seriki

WAKE KEEP

Pastor Adekunle Adesina, Mrs. Abioye Adesina, Pastor Bayo Olusoga, Mrs. Omowunmi Olusoga, Mrs. Toyin Seriki & Elder Akin Seriki

Mrs. Toyin Seriki, Otunba Bimbo Ashiru & Mrs. Bolaji Momodu

Cross section of the officiating Pastors

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he huge procession moved through the street in ecstasy. Drummers led the way, churning out beats that the crowd was only too pleased to move in deference to. Men, women all clad in uniform apparels showed off their various dance steps as they embarked on a procession in honour of a the deceased.

On this occasion, the celebration was for Mrs. Victoria Olajumoke Seriki whose remains were being ferried in a posh Cadillac hearse.

From afar, one might be forced to inquire why the horde was rejoicing since the hearse clearly meant someone has passed, but the simple truth can be gotten from a wise man who once said that a life well lived is a life well spent and a life well spent deserves celebration even after death.

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Captain Rotimi Seriki, lived life to its fullest and touched the existence of so many others. As such, it was certainly a thing of honour to send forth a true gem such as her, not in tears and mourning, but with a carnivalstyle celebration.

Prior to her internment, a wake keep service was held to kick-start the burial ceremonies. The event of hymns, testimonials and prayers was held at the Redeemed Christian Church of God, House of His Glory Chapel, Allen, Ikeja, which played host to a throng of family, friends and well-wishers who turned up to pay tribute to a wonderful woman of countless virtues who many described as loving and exceptionally considerate.

The families of the deceased represented by Arch.

Ola Seriki, Mrs. Toyin Seriki and her two daughters, Abisola and Simisola, dazzled in their well-tailored

golden traditional apparels.

Speaking at the occasion, Pastor James Owolabi recalled the wonderful nature of Mrs. Seriki, explaining that it took both a kind heart and the fear of God to have touched the lives of so many like she did. Pastor Owolabi enthused that God was always on the lookout for people such as the deceased who held on to life loosely and put the needs of others ahead of theirs. He then stated that if a majority of humans were to display the affection that she did, the world would most definitely be a better place. He finalized his preaching with a prayer session for the Seriki family, begging the Almighty to bestow the excellence of Late Mrs. Victoria Olajumoke Seriki on them all.

On the day of the funeral, the crowd’s destination was the church’s beautiful structure which was reflective

Pastor Oshitan

Abioye Adesina

Pastor Owolabi

Engr. Lana Odutola

Mr. Dimeji Sunmonu & Mr. Theo Nunu

Elders fellowship

of the beautiful nature of the deceased. The pall bearers from Ebony Caskets were at their professional best.

Entering the church, the crowd led by two female pall bearers in possession of two beautifully crafted bouquets, took their positions in the congregation. Once again, the Redeemed Christian Church of God, House of His Glory Chapel acted as the venue of worship.

During the service, Architect Ola Seriki took to the altar to pay tribute to the deceased. He praised everyone in the congregation for taking out their time to join the family in celebrating the wonderful life of their mother and prayed that they would all live past that age.

In his tribute, he saluted the Late Mrs. Seriki whom he described as a wonderful wife and mother who even in time of trouble was always unwavering in her faith and quick to render assistance. He prayed that her good-

will would live on in the hearts of the family members.

Pastor Shola Agunbiade gave the message of the day and once again, like Pastor Owolabi did at the Wake Keep, beckoned on the Serikis to make sure the exemplary traits exhibited by their loving mother become hallmarks of their own lives too. He remarked that many had died and gone, but that only a few of those are remembered for their goodwill. He explained that the turnout in church meant that Mrs. Seriki was indeed a rare gem.

With the church service done, the procession switched venues to the Ebony Cemetery, Atan, Yaba for the interment and with more dancing and singing, the crowd moved into the burial grounds. Pastor Segun Soyinka took the reins of this part of the ceremony and the deceased was soon lowered into mother earth with tears trickling down some cheeks.

An exciting reception ceremony was held at Summit Hall, Agidingbi and that was when the real festivities unfolded. The beautiful hall decked in lovely white and yellow bounties enhanced the scenery and created a wonderful atmosphere for the enjoyment of the guests.

The Onifaaji Band took to the stage and rendered beautiful music to soothe the guests who were treated to delicious delicacies provided by Ariya Caterers and Anthony Small Chops. The crew of Wine and Gold presented an assortment of drinks.

Festivities went on till the evening with family and friends toasting to the wonderful life that Mrs. Victoria Olajumoke lived and silently hoping in their hearts that they too might also be able pull such an ecstatic crowd on the day that they leave this world.

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Cross section of the family

Pastor Adekunle Adesina, Mrs. Abioye Adesina, Pastor Bayo Olusoga, Mrs. Omowunmi Olusoga, Mrs. Toyin Seriki & Elder Akin Seriki

First Bible reading, Akin Seriki

Olusegun Soyinka

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Mrs. Abioye Adesina, Mrs. Toyin Seriki & Elder Akin Seriki

Biography of Mama Victoria read by Abioye Adeshina

Mr. & Mrs. Kola Seriki

Arc. Ola Seriki

Bashorun Dele Momodu & Mrs. Bolaji Momodu

Pastor Sola Agunbiade

Mrs. Adejare

Pastor & Pastor (Mrs) Owolabi

Otunba Bimbo Ashiru, Pastor James Owolabi & Bashorun Dele Momodu

Omowunmi Agunbiade & Mrs. Bolaji Momodu

Mr. & Mrs. Kola Seriki with Elder Akin Seriki

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Mr. Dayo Adedayo

Mayo Kuyimu, Okikiolu Joseph, Aunty Moyo & Toyin Fabiyi

Mrs. Nina Iweze & Ms. Lare Lawal

Pastor & Mrs. Jerry Elewondon

Mrs. Nike Jaiyeola, Mrs. Tola Seriki & Mrs. Remi Egunjobi

Funke Akinmade, Bimpe Ojikutu, Engr. & Mrs. Mustapha Agiri & Folake Adeniji

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Famiyesin Ajibike Benson, Abidemi Awojebe & Oladipo

Mrs. Simbo Gbajumo, Alhaji Shola Asukuna & Alhaji Shola

TOP LONDON DISC JOCKEY,

KUNLE COKER CELEBRATES 30 GLORIOUS YEARS IN SHOWBIZ Story: Dayo Olomu Photo: Bayo Oyekan DJ KC & Dayo Olomu

Bayo Oyekan, DJ KC & Dayo Olomu

David Adande & Lanre Olowe

DJ Abass with guests

Deen & Alison Olugunna

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ne of the biggest names in Nigeria/UK music scene and one of the most respected Disc Jockeys in town, Kunle Coker popularly called DJ KC recently celebrated his 30th Anniversary in Showbiz.

It was a double celebration for the amiable gentleman as he combined his momentous achievement in the music industry with his birthday-and as expected, he hosted a mega party in London that was attended by top socialites and a good mix of guests.

The event which was filled with a lot of pomp and fun attracted over 1000 people, with 10 first-rate DJs providing non-stop entertainment in two adjoining rooms at Crystal Club, Wembley, London.

High profile guests from all walks of life within and outside the United Kingdom including DK KC’s childhood friends from Nigeria, clients, business partners, entertainers and top celebrities gathered to rejoice and celebrate this milestone with the man who popularized African music in the London music scene with his deft touch on the wheels of steel.

Some of the those in attendance included Princess Deun Solarin, Dayo Olomu, Ayo Shonaiya, Anita Portwin, Toyin Oshine Oshinibosi, Dipo Onasanya, Dapo Oloja Opanuga, Bunmi West, Entertainer Feyisara, Kashif Da Flash, Moji Bishi, Retie Suzie, Tunde Tabi, Segun Shyllon Gbenga Odusami, Jackie Wabara, Princess Toyin Aboderin, Deen & Alison Olugunna ,Toun Okewale Sonaiya, Yetunde Bustline, DJ Babylynn Jacks, Ayo Akinfe, Daizi Fini, David Adande, Lekan Olowe and Bayo Oyekan Others were Dolapo Olusoga, Toyin Sogunro, , Sade Oladapo, Wendy Bolarinwa, Sade Sonuga, Gbenga Osifeso, Eze Ihenacho, Abe Idris, Gbenga Ola, Femi Fashoro, Ayo Ola aka Vicola, Kunle Adefisayo, Laja Omotayo, Keem Oduwole, Dapo Otun, Abe Idris, Yemi Ilori, Gbenga Ogun, Laja Omotayo (Project Manager with Ericsson ), Gboyega Steven Fadairo, Jimmy Adeleye and Bosun Owolana.

Also, Tokunboh Williams, Jide Ogidan (who works for an investment bank in the City), Tunji Oyenuga, an Architect, Bims Akingbade , the CEO of

LinkUp Real Estates , Biodun Jagun, Shade Adetunji, Remi Ogbe, and Yinka Dairo were all there Shinene, Shina Balogun was there with his trademark hat and bow tie. Old boy, Olu Adeyemi represented, with his Rastafarian hair-do, Segun Adewusi, the 6 foot star enjoyed himself throughout as he grooved to the lovely old school jams.

Guests were treated to a choice of Old School music in one room and Afro Beats in the other-both sections were filled to capacity with many people left outside due to health and safety rules.

For the very first time, 10 Top DJs gathered in one venue, a remarkable feat indeed. They included DJ Abass, DJ Jossy Ladd, DJ Omo Whyte, DJ Whateva, DJ Ade, DJ Yemi and DJ Neptune. They all took turns on the deck to dish out scintillating music in honour of DJ KC, a true Maestro. The party which started at 10pm continued non-stop till 5am.

DJ KC who started his career in 1985 came to national prominence in Nigeria with popular and crowd-pulling entertainment events such as The Jeans Carnival and the Black and White Carnival that 141

Anita Portwin & Sade Olapade

Enitan Martin & Dolapo Olusoga

Dayo Olomu, DJ KC & David Adande

Toun Okewale Sonaiya & Lushandfab Fab

Gbenga Osifeso & Dayo Olomu

Retie Susie & Princess Deun Solarin

Dayo Olomu, Toyin Oshinibosi and Biola Johnson

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Olu Gbedu, Feyisara Akinwunmi, Baroness J, Dayo Olomu, DJ Kashif & Daizi Fini

Wendy Bolarinwa & friends

Anita & Sogunro

Ola, KC, Wendy & Sade

David & wife

famously took place at the Pool side of the Ogun State Hotel, Abeokuta.

Afterwards he relocated to the UK where he took the industry by storm by hosting the London Version of the popular Jeans Carnival and then built up a solid reputation as one of the doyens of Disc Jockey business in London In the course of the evening, Encomiums were poured on him: DJ Abbas said: “Congrats again DJ KC Firstchoice - a true legend in the game”.

Dipo Onabajo, a Management Consultant said: “Overall, it was a great night of friends who have known each other for at least 25 to 35 years coming together to have a good time, dance, listen to old school and Afro beat and be happy. “I met KC in Abeokuta in 1985, he was the DJ at a pool side party and NEPA took away electricity, KC started singing and scratching with his voice I knew I have met a man who is dedicated to his chosen profession of playing music and mixing different types of music. In those days when you hear a very well mixed tape or CD the days, the first person you will think of was DJ KC. “We have been friends ever since and he has played at some of my parties in the past. Kunle trained and coached a few DJs who have done well in their Olu Adeyemi

own right over the years, there were at least eight present at the party and entertained the guests. I remember we had a group that used to follow KC everywhere (Cynthia’s, Villa Stephano, Stage 3 and many more) in the 90s, he had a great following, and long may it continue.”

In a congratulatory message released in Croydon, Sade Dayo-Olomu who grew up with DJ commended DJ KC for his hard work, determination and perseverance.

On the event, Kunle Coker said: “Where do I begin? How does one capture all the love, joy, adulations, the good times and even more wonderful times, of over 30 years in the Showbiz industry, all in one night?

I am still overwhelmed with the love shown both by the tumultuous attendance and the outpouring of love shown by all the people on the night and for the lovely birthday greetings on all social media platform.

On behalf of my family, I say a big thank you to all and sundry and may the love between you, myself and my scratchy turn-tables continue to blossom. I promise to continue doing what I do best; bringing you joy and sweet times from the soul of good music. For me it is showbiz for life”.

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UGANDAN STAR

LESLIE KASUMBA SPEAKS ABOUT FAMILY, FAME AND FUTURE

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eslie Nabunya Theresa Kasumba is a Ugandan-born media personality, entertainment mogul, magazine editor, philanthropist, awards judge and music executive. Lee as she is fondly called started her career as a teenager with her first job as a Radio Presenter before going on to host and produce some of Africa’s biggest entertainment shows. Today, she stands out as one of the leading lights in contemporary African entertainment and headed respected pan-African Music channel, Channel O. OVATION caught up with Lee in her home in Johannesburg, South Africa.

Reading up on your family, I would consider the Nsibirwa family as the Kennedys of Uganda. Your maternal great grandfather was Martin Luther Nsibirwa who was Prime Minister of Uganda while his son, Paul Munyagwa Nsibirwa brought TV to Uganda. We imagine your childhood wasn't like the average, what was it like growing up under the responsibility of your heritage

The Kennedys’ of Uganda I like that, funny I never see it like that. It’s really strange, because that is primarily my maternal family and I grew up fairly close to my dad’s side of the family.

Because we spent so much time outside Uganda, my sisters and I were never aware of the influence of the family. Also when we were with my mom’s family it was all normal so to speak.

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The continent is still developing and everyone needs to contribute. I am in no way saying become a politician. What I mean is that we should be aware of where we come from and as we rise, everyone else around us does.

That’s what I was taught, when I was growing up. Be socially aware and have something you give back given a deeper view into our heritage.

My relatives used to refer to my great grandfather Martin Luther Nsibirwa- I still remember picturing Martin Luther King. It was quite funny; my aunt Esther explained it to me finally. He actually was Prime Minister twice and was assassinated outside Namirembe Cathedral. He is buried there too. Oddly enough that’s where he got married too. I literally had to go to the cathedral to believe the story.

After learning all this, I started to do more studies about the family, I was shown the genealogy tree and everything and now it’s pretty much normal to me. Generally the Nsibirwa clan do not have any airs or pretentiousness about them. There are so many of us and everyone works really hard. Lately, we now have an online family tree and there is also a family email, to make announcements of who is getting married and everything else. (Laughs) With that sort of bloodline you can imagine there are quite a lot of wives involved and so many cousins too. But we are still very close, and each year my Aunt Maria Kiwanuka who is currently the Minister of Finance in Uganda has a mini family reunion at her place.

But it’s also funny because most people don’t know that I am from the Nsibirwa bloodline because my dad is a Kasumba so we have a fairly normal life. Hardworking- but I guess there is a lot of access. Most of which I personally haven’t tapped into, as I am someone who likes to make a name on my own.

As though that wasn’t enough I also had my Aunt Maria (the current Minister of Finance, she wasn’t a minister then) but she owns Radio One which was the largest revenue making radio station in Uganda. It was exciting to hear. More because it made my path in life make sense, I guess things really do run in the blood.

My mom’s family all I know has just always been gracious that’s what I know, like no one carries any airs, I am often surprised when I meet with Uncles and cousins etc, it’s just normal you know. Because as much as we have a strong bloodline historically we are also academics and hardworking too, and Jajja Martin Luther Nsibirwa was also a loved Prime Minister for his character and nature, and this is awesome because that doesn’t happen in Africa often, so to have someone that was loved is humbling.

There are people that think you’re a native South African because that’s where you first achieved fame. In fact, in music circles, you’re called the queen of Jo’burg. But, you’re a full blooded Ugandan girl who has taken African entertainment by storm? How are you perceived back home in Uganda?

Yes most people do, and in all fairness I spent a larger part of my life in South Africa so I guess from that perspective yes. However, my parents were so strict about our culture, we used to go back to Uganda every year for holidays – we also grew up in a Ugandan community in South Africa (my parents left with a lot of their friends during the time of Idi Amin) The title of Queen of Joburg was given to me by American Hip-hop bible XXL. I still think it’s funny though. Growing up as a foreign national in South Africa was hard, as you know there were issues of Xenophobia and such, there still is to a degree, so I was never quite South African enough.

At the same time, Ugandans used to comment that I had a funny accent. But I did adapt. South Africa has been so kind to me; 99% of all I have done was because the South African public embraced me and gave me opportunities.

When I started to go into the spotlight; First on YFM which was my big break, then onto hosting TV and radio shows and the features I did with the BBC, and now my current job at Channel O, I always let everyone know I was a Ugandan girl. I feel an incredible sense of responsibility because suddenly everyone in Uganda encourages me to do more, particularly in terms of my role

as a Music Executive. When I used to go home to Uganda, it used to be pretty low-key. I have my friends and cliques there and we have all sort of fun in our own paradise.

It just became weird when I started doing press in Uganda, so yes, it’s strange. Hopefully they see me as a young lady doing her best in her field and cheer me on.

Above everything else, I represent Uganda. I hope my story is an ode to Uganda and Africa as a whole, I hope my victories in the entertainment business will help other Ugandan girls dream big and inspire them to achieve their dreams.

On your father's side you have an eclectic lineage of academics and business people. Your grandfather we hear was quite the entrepreneur, setting up the first ever store in Kampala Road and putting his 9 children through the University.

What was their reaction when you decided to choose this career path

Well I used to be a bit of an academic; I have a photographic memory. I thought I would be a doctor- because my dad is a Medical Doctor. Suddenly, I went left; I started to excel in history subjects and languages and such. I did it all; from debating to netball, school plays, writing, I just was always involved in creative arts. When I left high school I got the “Spirit of the School Award” that was for the person who best represented the school spirit. I was invited back to do the commencement speech as a valedictorian-where I presented the first ever ‘Leslie Kasumba Award’ for people who excel against all odds. When my father realised that I was focused on a life in the arts, his priority was that I had better be in school. This was also because he was a single father raising three girls in a foreign country and was determined to do the best he could and education was a big part of that. When I was in my first year in University , I was doing radio, magazine editing and so much more while studying for a full time degree. I studied for my BA in Dramatic Arts at Wits University and graduated with Honours.

The reaction to me going into a music-related path was that of shock because I switched all of a sudden.

However, it was then that I found out that my dad used to be in music. In high school his band was called ‘The Crowns.’ Then in university he played lead guitar, rhythm guitar later and also did vocals as part of a band named University Set. That was the name of the band! I used to tease him that I would have helped him pick a better name. They did so well, that at Makerere University his band shared a stage with Miriam Makeba’s band during Makerere Africa Week. My father’s family was amused because while he was unable to pursue his creative path professionally, his tomboy daughter pulled a fast one and completed what he started.

Even though I was enjoying mild success, I was still wondering if I was on the right track. Then one day I heard something that changed my thought pattern and cemented my career path in my heart and mind. That’s such a crazy story; one day my sister Phyllis and I were visiting my uncle and it was one of those days I was not feeling too great. I was a little unsure of my chosen career path and I was at that point feeling ‘adopted’ [Laughs] though I look like every family member.

Anyhow my Uncle asked me what was on my mind, and I complained like “Uncle I don’t understand why I am not interested in academics; everyone is doing some-

thing serious-my brother is a Chemical Engineer, my sister was studying International Relations in Japan doing her PHD, my other sister was studying to be a Pharmacist, my father is a Medical Doctor my one aunt works at the World Bank-so on and so forth.”

He laughed and explained to me that I was right on track! That was the first time I learnt that Jajja Paul brought TV to Uganda. He proceeded to tell me that my grandfather brought in Uganda TV which is now Uganda Broadcasting Corporation. During the Idi Amin era, the government took over Uganda TV so its not in the family anymore. The campus where it was first located is now the current Intercontinental Hotel in Uganda. This was in the early 1960’s.

To shorten a long story, my family both the Kasumba’s and Nsibirwa’s are proud of me, and it means a lot because family is everything. I am always reminded to keep working hard, praying hard and carrying the torch. I am proud of the families that I represent. If God gave me a second chance and said-Leslie who do you want to be born from; I would say The Kasumba’s and the Nsibirwa’s.

You are a self-starter, popular for your work ethic. Where does this come from? What motivates you

I think that my ability to do so much and be hardworking stems from my late paternal grandfather Jajja Taata , who passed on five years ago. His mother used to sell eggs and instilled the ability to work hard in him very early. He then had nine children with my Jajja Mama (Grandmother)-no other wife! He put them all through University in The United States, UK, Zimbabwe and South Africa. He left such a strong heritage of family in all of them. My grandparents remind me that true love and family and hard work are achievable.

It’s also from him I got the knowledge that anything is possible; he taught me to imagine, to do, to be a reader. In the pre-Idi Amin era, he was one of the only four Africans in Uganda to have a shop on Kampala Road in Kampala. Any Ugandan will tell you that was the spot to be, it was like Oxford Street. Most of the shops were owned by Asians or Caucasians then. He was a builder, a worker and a dreamer and he was really looked up to in the village of Busega where my father’s family is from. He left a legacy and whenever we are in Busega people always are like Kasumba, he built a mini mall, it’s not 5 star but nothing existed there before him, 145

he had an Inn, and also a Farmland. This may seem small to people but after he lost everything then during the political issues in my home country he literally had to start all over again. He was like ‘’take away the space on Kampala road - no problem I will make something out of nothing in the village, ‘’and he did that. I honour his spirit People know little about your musical background as a performer. You for instance have sang back up at an Alicia Keys concert and some song-writing as well

I also play jazz piano incidentally and I used to take song writing very seriously, I even came 3rd in a national song-writing competition. There was also a time I thought I would be a singer, it was funny. I sang at church and even did back-up vocals for Grammy award winning gospel artiste Israel Houghton, as well as cowriting and featuring on various SA songs with various artistes, Unathi Msengana on her debut project , multi ple award-winning SA hiphop group, Skwatta Kamp (they actually won an award for the album I was featured on) and Zubz. Doing back-up vocals at the Alicia Keys banquet was just so funny, Andile was at that time a popular artiste in South Africa.

She used to do Kwaito music and was rebranding into more of a soul sound, so she asked me to do back up vocals at this banquet, I had no idea what was happening till I got there but it was a lovely experience.

I was so nervous that night to do the solo part when they introduce the band, I just backed away. So they skipped me. I guess to be a musician takes so much confidence and while I do sing really well, I don’t have the confidence for it at all. I am happy to just be in the background. Guess I got that from my dad. Who knows maybe one day if I have children, my daughter will become an artiste.

You have done a lot of work with international media organisations like the BBC on projects like the ‘World Have Your Say’ with Ross Atkins which was broadcast to over 20 million people. Can you tell us more about these projects and what impact do you think that these projects had on the perception and the progress of African music within Africa itself and to the global audience

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of different opportunities; in fact, being a foreign African national gave the radio station a good dynamic mix because I represented a huge emerging market. It was also the time when South Africa was enjoying a lot of international interest with the World Cup. The BBC was broadcasting from Soweto, and needed someone in SA to co-anchor and do live interviews with people in a restaurant. The radio station nominated me and it was a great experience because, it tied in my political interests, social interests and all I learned in high school through debating club and so forth. After that I would get regular calls often 3 hours before broadcast, I would head to the BBC office in Johannesburg get briefed by the Producer and host the show with Ross Atkins. It was an honour to know that I had these skills because for the most part on YFM I was the hip-hop girl doing crazy things like hosting rap battles.

I also got to be one of the hosts for Live 8 Stand Up Against Poverty. This was because I used to speak French pretty well, and there were a host of artistes coming in from French speaking Africa. So I had a profile and it worked, I did all the behind the scenes interviews going to the world.

It was as host that I came to meet Nelson Mandela who was the guest of honour. I was also part of Think Norway event which was affiliated with the Nelson Mandela’s Children’s Fund, there was a fantastic lady that was behind it, she was a young Norwegian South African called Nomsa-who passed away two years later.

At Think Norway, I got to share my experiences as a young African broadcaster to a group of Young Norweigians in Oslo, they all didn’t understand my English, I had to speak really slow. (Laughs) I have collaborated with the United Nations in different ways, first the UN Habitat Messengers of Truth project in Barcelona which is where I met K’naan, the Somalian artiste behind ‘Wave your flag’. I did a speech on how Hip-hop could help with the Millenium Development goals in South Africa during the UN Habitat conference. I facilitated a UNICEF panel discussion where Quincy Jones was the guest of honour and other prominent young South Africans were on the panel discussing the Price of Fame. I also was honoured enough to be part of the Base meets Tony Blair panel where I was chosen to interview the then Prime Minister of the UK, Tony Blair. I compere the United Nations Party With a Purpose in Vancouver and was part of the

Baobab Youth Conference in Cape Town that was merging hip-hop politics and so forth.I would say that I am virtually living my dream.

You have been Head Channel O for 3 years now, How was it at the beginning and how much would you say has changed since then

When I first joined it was more like there is this new power and purpose about Africa music, it was about how do we harness this? Today it has evolved into such a powerful force to be reckoned with on a global scale. It has gone beyond just a growing part of our lifestyle to being the epicentre of popular culture in Africa.

We have these entertainers standing their ground as brand icons and idols to so many. Their music is highly anticipated and fans will do anything to get them, these days the single is not enough, you need a video to push the song even more.

The way Beyonce pulled an all video album, everyone is going towards that direction now. Someone like Davido has videos for practically every song he releases and his audience reciprocates. This means that we have a lot of video content to work with. The audience is watching, enjoying and consuming.

In terms of accomplishment, I would say my experience on the practical side of entertainment has been indispensable to me in coming to certain decisions as Head of the channel. I would say that our goal has been to evolve with the audience, to stay ahead and set the trends that they follow. In the kind of content we have on offer, our priority is to reach and engage the how they like to. This means that we incorporate all that into our programming.

Take us through your portfolio as Head Channel O for the past 3 years

As Head of the Channel, you need to understand that it goes beyond the music. My portfolio extended to other projects that I am very honoured to have birthed, developed or executed.

At Channel O, our new catchphrase is the acronym SWAG: Something We African’s Got! This helped us in building our programmes and structuring around our lifestyles and pop culture in Africa.

We introduced new shows like Top 10 Most which is basically a countdown show. This season we had Ice Prince act as co- host on the show. We also have shows like Speakerboxx that basically incorporates artistes and their social media following into the actual show.

The Channel O Awards is also dear to me, the love

My grandfather reminded me that true love, family and hard work are achievable. It’s also from him I got the knowledge that anything is possible; he taught me to imagine, to do, to be a reader. In the preIdi Amin era, he was one of the only 4 Africans in Uganda to have a shop on Kampala road in Kampala, Uganda and support that we get from African artistes surprises me. I can say that I have made so many friends as well from this experience. I have been around the continent several times, now I consider Lagos my second home at times!

Being one of the drivers of our popular shows like Big Brother Africa for these three years has beens exciting. It’s still Africa’s biggest reality show and the innovative concepts that we have put within are obvious, each year, the show raises the bar so high.

The AMVCAs has also been an amazing project for me, at every step of the way, we introduced what has become the crown for the incredible efforts of these entertainers across Africa. The AMVCA’s are aired live and the fusions of live music performances, fashion and other side attractions have taken the show to another level entirely. The feedback is humbling The Africa Rising project is also a beautiful dream that came into reality.

What we did was bring a couple of Africa’s most influential acts together to celebrate the beauty, resilience and victory of today’s Africa in music. We had African music superstars like Sarkodie, Davido, Tiwa Savage, Diamond, Mi casa, Lola Rae and others basically come together to celebrate Africa and how much we have progressed as a continent.

What role do you think young Africans have in forging a future for themselves especially those that are influential in sectors like entertainment and the Arts

The continent is still developing and everyone needs to contribute. I am in no way saying become a politician. What I mean is that we should be aware of where we come from and as we rise everyone else around us does. That’s what I was taught, when I was growing up. Be socially aware and have something you give back – it doesn’t have to be public, but you have to leave a legacy.

It’s a responsibility. You do this when you build other people’s dreams. I feel that it’s important to have young Africans take part in project discussions and panels because it makes us seem like we are a serious people. Besides, in my case, I feel clever is the new gangsta. You can be cool and sexy and all and be popular, but how much cooler when you open your mouth and you have something to say or you do something You’re very active in using music in creating awareness and change perception around some of Africa’s unfortunate reali-

ties. Case in point is how you rallied superstar acts to sing about the Xenophobic crises that swept through South Africa recently. Would you say that music is an effective tool in reaching out to African youths

Yes I feel that music is the most important popular culture movement in Africa. I feel that that’s the quickest way to understand each other. It’s like a VISA to another country without traveling.

Music can do for Africa internally and globally what would take Presidents decades to do. You see musicians, artistes, actors, TV and Radio personalities all come from the communities. A lot of the art they express are influenced by where they come from.

Music is what actually made me become accepted in South Africa. That’s where most of my friends came from. It also is how I have managed to get so many “homes” in Africa, I go everywhere and if I meet a musician it’s like I can call it home. Music is a window to a different world and point of view for the artist and every artist represents a different area. The fact is that Africa speaks in song, that’s the bottom line, if you can dance and sing together you can hang out together. Music is also what is bringing a lot of attention from the world to Africa, everyone is learning African slang and such. Music is the voice that Africa speaks from and I believe the best tool to use to communicate. When we did Not In Our Lifetime, I remember being so worried because firstly like I mentioned, I was on radio and fairly prominent, and the Xenophobic attacks had happened in the Alexandra Township, which is a stone’s throw from Sandton and the radio station was not so far from there.

When that happened, I was getting called by SA press-obviously people were being sensational and there was a lot of genuine concern; the Programmes Director and a few of the On Air personalities told me not to come to work. I was shocked, I still shudder because I didn’t sleep for 3 nights, I was just scared.

Anyway what gave me peace was that the music industry in SA was so supportive I called my friend Slikour and said I wanted to do something. We met up; called artistes met UNICEF everything happened, fast. I mean the roll call of artistes and that entire moment made me realise, this Xenophobia thing is more mental than heart. I felt the heart of South Africans through this project we even had a concert. So there music taught me something I didn’t realise. What was being said in papers and what the “heart” was saying was very different.

Take us into the world of Lee Kasumba Writer and Editor

I don’t even know why they believed in me, but I am grateful to Kim Thipe and Greg Moloka for believing in me. I was at YMag for 8 years serving as the youngest ever and the longest serving editor. The magazine won several awards and we used to get attention from international organisations. During this period, I was asked to do an editorial for Dazed & Confused in Japan, I agreed, they wanted a 16 page on HIV/Aids. I got the stories of different people across Africa; young creative people who had HIV Aids, the piece was coupled with Images from award-winning documentary photographer Liam Lynch. Eventually, they translated it all to Japanese. I hope that what I wrote made sense.

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The Africa Rising project is also a beautiful dream that came into reality. What we did was bring a couple of Africa’s biggest and most influential acts together to celebrate the beauty, resilience and victory of today’s Africa in music

Nike where they used Liam’s images and my notes for a campaign where rapper Ludacris took part in. They finally showcased the images of people who had been affected or effected by HIV/ Aids and I wrote the footnotes. It was an awesome experience.

African music and entertainment has gone nuclear in terms of acceptance and economic viability in recent years. What would you say are the major contributors to this trend

I think it’s because music captures the heart of young Africans, this represents a cool young vibrant population of 70%. Obviously, commercial brands, governments and such see this and so the investment in music and entertainment has increased. Take social media as an example; we have young music stars with a million followers plus- that means they can actively influence directly or indirectly 10 times that figure! Social media portals such as YouTube, Facebook and Twitter to their own extent have shown the power of music. While in Africa we can’t accurately say this person has sold x copies of work, if someone has x amount of followers and YouTube views that means that they have a following that is measurable.

The combination of music being played everywhere, and the penetration of the internet and the fact that people are loving home grown music and movies has put entertainers in a more prominent position. This can only grow and evolve as time goes on. Its exciting times for music-We are in the Golden era of African music, this generation is the one that has done it-moved African music into the epicentre of popular culture-NOT world music, home grown African music!

What trends are we to expect from African Music and entertainment in the next 5 years. Are we to expect significant investment in entertainment from the big players globally or will African entertainment remain an African thing?

Well I think we will see tables turn, African Musicians will evolve into the centre of popular culture, globally. Any festival, awards ceremony, radio station or TV station will not be considered relevant if it doesn’t have an African artiste on the bill.

Africa is the biggest market – unsaturated, hungry and growing. It won’t take long too long; The whole idea of ‘I need Nicki Minaj on a track’ will change to change to Nicki Minaj asking for a collaboration with an African artist.

In terms of TV and entertainment I perceive that there will be a lot more collaborative projects, where we will see more of an exchange of skills and talent as well. Music will be faster than Film, simply because of the fact that music is “cheaper” to make and film is a lot to do with skills and technicalities and requires a significant investment.

Africa tells great stories – this is evident with the popularity of Nollywood. The next step would be to tackle the technicalities of production that will take this industry global; it’s simply a matter of time.

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MY UZERE KINGDOM

HAS BEEN NEGLECTED FOR YEARS ... MONARCH CRIES OUT

By Ben Anthony Edejor

Oil discovery has not in any way transformed the community or the lives of my subjects.

Rather we have now been subjected to begging for what is rightly ours. The Express road you drove from Oleh to Uzere is a Federal road, constructed years ago by the then Military Head of State, Gen. Ibrahim Babangida.

One-of our sons who was the Controller of Federal Highways initiated that project. The internal roads are in bad shape not to mention other dilapidated structures in the community.

The reversal of this ugly trend can only be achieved if the State and Federal Governments enact laws compelling these oil firms to re-invest in our communities.

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is Royal Majesty, King Henry Etuwedo III is the Ovie of Uzere Kingdom in Delta State, Nigeria. In this interview, the monarch cries out about the neglect of his oil-producing community by multi-national, Shell as well as the State and Federal governments Your Majesty, can you give us a historical background of your Kingdom

The Founder of Uzere clan is one of the sons of The Oba of Benin, called Uze who left Benin between the periods of (1440-1473). However Uzere had her first King named Okugbo about 1593.

History suggests that Uze had an earlier migration in the direction of Onitsha and decided to follow that route. He and his followers first settled briefly near the present site of Issele-uku near Asaba.

Uze had protective spirit known as Eni and this spirit apparently accompanied him on all his journeys. Eni is a water spirit hence it is imperative for Uze to always find a waterside habitat. From Issele-uku, Uze moved to Eruke near Erohwa where he stayed for a fairly long period. Eruke is part of the present day land of Erohwa. Erohwa is the oldest clan in Isokoland.

After the death the of Uze, Okugbo went to Benin to meet his grandfather to bless him and to allow him to be Ovie in his new found land called Uzere. Uze had three brothers; Omore, Omode and Odi. Omore is the Founder of Irri and Odi is founder of Odi Kingdom in Bayelsa state.

It is on record that Uzere is the first Kingdom in Isokoland. The Ovie of Uzere was allowed to use ML 1 as His vehicle plate number after the creation of Isoko Division from Eastern Urhobo in the early 1960s. It is also important to note that Eni, the Uze water spirit inhabited a lake named after it, which is called Eni Lake. This deity was used for the trial of suspected witches and wizards in the olden days. This brought Uzere limelight and was a source of income for the Ovie of Uzere.

With the coming of the British in the early 19th Century, Indirect Rule was introduced to IsokoIand like other places in Nigeria.

However, the British Administrative Officer, Mr. Copland Crawford who was a District Commissioner in 1902 was not comfortable with the influence of the Ovie of Uzere, thus, he called for the abolition of the use of Eni for trials and

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It has not been easy for the past 56 years to achieve any meaningful development in my community. Our series of request to Shell for the provision of portable drinking water, roads and many other things have fallen on deaf ears. resolution of conflicts.

On the 9th of December, 1903, the Eni was abolished and the Ovie of Uzere was placed on an annual salary of ₤50 (fifty pounds) and the Native Court was established. This was the first-of-its kind in Niger Delta Protectorate and he was also given the post of Vice Chairman of the court.

In 1909, the annual salary of fifty pounds (₤50) paid to the Ovie of Uzere was frozen because it was rumoured that Chief Adhazor of Oleh, who was working against Indirect Rule was harbored by the Ovie, to prevent him from arrest. This brought a lot of setback to Uzere.

In 1958 oil was discovered in Uzere it is the second after Oloibri in Bayelsa State. Uzere again came to public focus. It is important to note that Shell, Federal Government and State Government have not contributed much to the lives of Uzere people.

How do you feel as the King of Uzere Kingdom

I feel very fulfilled as the King of Uzere Kingdom. But I am not happy the way things are. We deserve better.

What milestone have you recorded starting from the very beginning as King of Uzere Kingdom

The achievements are too numerous to mention. I am bold to say that the developmental projects going on at various sites in the community will enhance productivity, empower the teeming youths and also encourage investments in the community. Some of these projects are road construction (Uzere- Patani Rd), Hospitals and Schools.

Do you have any reason to regret any action taken or not taken in the past

None.

Will you describe yourself as a fulfilled King

Yes. What would you say has kept you going as a King

God the creator, my amiable chiefs and the entire people of Uzere Community.

Have you achieved your vision

By His special Grace we are gradually getting there.

In what ways has your leadership affected the lives of your subjects and community

Going by the developmental projects we have initiated in the community, I must say that my subjects are impressed and have also encouraged me to do more for the community.

What is really important to you

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Establishment of a farm settlement Establishment of Tertiary institution Establishment of inland seaport at Asaba Ase/Ekregbesi Palm oil /kernel Industry

What lessons have life taught you

It has taught me humility, wisdom, patience, tolerance and respect for others. As a King it has also taught me to be meticulous in the affairs of the community.

How will you describe the relevance of your community as it relates to oil discovery, oil wells and exploration

My community is second to Oloibri in Bayelsa State with the largest oil wells in Nigeria. Has this oil discovery and exploration activities translated to an improved Uzere Community where the interest of my subjects are considered? The answer is no. It has not been easy for the past 56 years to achieve any meaningful development in my community. Our series of request to Shell for the provision of portable drinking water, roads and many other things have fallen on deaf ears. A peaceful protest against SPDC was held at their flow station on 29th Nov. 2011. That protest resulted in the killing of two youths led by a military captain. The situation in my community is very bad.

Are you saying that your community has not benefitted from the oil

Yes. Oil discovery has not in any way transformed the community or the lives of my subjects. Rather we have now been subjected to begging for what is rightly ours. The Express road you drove from Oleh to Uzere is a Federal road, constructed years ago by the then Military Head of State, Gen. Ibrahim Babangida. One-of our sons who was the Controller of Federal Highways initiated that project. The internal roads are in bad shape not to mention other dilapidated structures in the community. The reversal of these ugly trends can only be achieved if the State and Federal Government enact laws compelling these oil firms to reinvest in our communities.

Considering your present position as the King of Uzere Kingdom, will you say the major key players in the oil and gas industry have played according to the rules with regards to the Socio-Economic development of the community

No they have not.

What are your short, medium & long term plans for the community vis-a-vis the youths, elders & women

The welfare of my subjects is most paramount.

As the King of Uzere Kingdom, my plan is to ensure they have a bright future.

What will you say your people need right now

How do you want to be remembered.

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Employment for 2,686 graduate within the community Provision of skill acquisition for our youths Establishment of small scale enterprises i.e Groundnut factory, cassava factory and fish farming.

To be remembered as a God Fearing King who has the interest of his subject.

Final words.

As a father of this Kingdom I am calling on all sons and daughters of Uzere Kingdom both here in Nigeria and the diaspora to be part of the building process. We have to unite to turn this community around and give hope to our future generation.

Elders of Uzere Community

His Majesty enjoying Ovation

His Majesty, King Henry Etuwedo III

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SUCCESSFUL LAWYER

YUSUF ALI, SAN GIVES OUT DAUGHTER NIMAH IN MARRIAGE TO NURUDEEN YAHAYA

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IN ILORIN, NIGERIA

Story: Segun Adebowale Photo: Adekoya Adegbite & Abraham Falodun

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ondly referred to as the 'State of Harmony', Kwara State; which is located in the NorthCentral geo-political zone of Nigeria has in abundance distinguished and reputable families.

These families have distinguished themselves both in the state and the nation, in different fields of endeavour including, Religion, Sports, Law, Education and Business. One of such eminent families in the state is the Ali family and a proud son of the family and unarguably a shining star in the state and the nation is Yusuf Olaolu Ali, SAN.

Though born in Ifetedo, Osun State about six decades ago to Alhaji Bisiriyu Olayiwola Ali and Alhaja Taibat Fomosara Ali, Ali's great paternal grandmother, a Fulani hailed from Ilorin, Kwara State and he has not only practiced the Legal profession in Kwara State for over three decades, but also sired all his children in Ilorin, Kwara State. No wonder, the Emir of Ilorin conferred indigene status on all his children.

Better known as Yusuf Ali, the successful Lawyer was called to the Nigerian bar in 1983 and the highest status in the Nigeria's Legal profession, Senior Advocate of Nigeria (SAN) was conferred on him in 1997.

Unarguably, he will cart away any prize instituted for election litigation in the country and perhaps beyond, because he has handled over 100 election petition cases 152

and over 150 appeal cases at both the Court of Appeal and Supreme Court.

It was therefore no sheer surprise when the serene city of Ilorin stood still for the Legal luminary whom many observers call the 'Daniel and Joseph' of our time. Apart from having the rare privilege of hosting the Ooni of Ife, Alayeluwa Oba Okunade Sijuade, who led a retinue of traditional rulers as well as the former Governor of the State, Senator Bukola Saraki, the father of the bride also hosted the who-is-who in the Legal profession, led by the current Chief Justice of Nigeria, Hon. Justice Mahmud Mohammed G.C.O.N as well as the former one, Hon. Justice Aloma Mariam Mukhtar.

They all shared in the splendour and glitz of the wedding of Ali's

ago and it was pretty obvious that, I was searching for a wife. Mrs. Adetunji is a very close friend of my mother and she did the match making. We started talking in February and we saw each other during the months of March, July and August. We dated for six months. ‘'What really attracted me was that she met the three criteria I had set for myself. She is a good Muslim, from a good family and hails from Kwara State.''

While describing her groom as a 'Gentle soul', the bride said, ''It is quite funny and interesting. I was in London for a few years and throughout those years, for some reasons, luck never brought us together. We met a few months after I left England. We were introduced to each other, we got talking

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ffectueusement appelé «l’État de l'Harmonie», l'Etat de Kwara, qui est situé dans la zone géopolitique au Centre-Nord du pays, possède des familles distinguées de bonne réputation.

Ces familles se sont distinguées tant dans l'Etat que dans le pays, dans différents domaines d'activité, y compris, la religion, le sport, le droit, l’éducation et les affaires. Une de ces familles éminentes de l'État est la famille Ali, et un fils de cette famille qui est incontestablement une étoile brillante dans l'Etat et dans le pays est Yusuf Ali Olaolu, SAN. Bien que né à Ifetedo, dans l'Etat d'Osun il y a six décennies à Alhaji Bisiriyu Olayiwola Ali et Alhaja Taibat Fomosara Ali, la grand-mère paternelle d’Ali, une peule originaire de l'Etat d’Ilorin a Kwara et il a non seulement pratiqué la profession juridique dans l'E-

haya, dont le père, Alhaji Aremu Babs Yahaya est un ancien ministre des transports et de l'aviation sous le régime du défunt général Sanni Abacha et aussi un ancien membre de la Chambre fédérale des représentants dans la 2ème République. Alhaji Aremu et son épouse, Alhaja Toyeebat Yahaya étaient très visibles lors du mariage de leur fils. Tout en parlant à OVATION un jour avant la cérémonie Nikkah sur leur histoire d'amour, le couple a révélé qu’à part le fait qu’ils ont fréquenté au Royaume-Uni (UK), leurs chemins ne s’étaient jamais croisés.

En fait, le marié a vécu toute sa vie au Royaume-Uni. Cependant, ils ont été présentés par une amie commune de leurs familles, Mme Adesanya. Selon le marié, qui est membre de l'Association musulmane du Nigeria au Royaume-Uni, il était déjà à la recherche d'une épouse à l'époque et il avait trois critères à l'esprit.

tat de Kwara pour plus de trois décennies, mais est aussi le père ses enfants à Ilorin, l'Etat de Kwara. Pas étonnant que l'émir d'Ilorin ait conféré le statut d’indigène a tous ses enfants.

Mieux connu comme Yusuf Ali, l'avocat prospère a été appelé à la barre du Nigeria en 1983 et le plus haut statut dans la profession juridique du Nigeria lui a été conféré en 1997. Ce n’était donc pas surprenant lorsque la ville sereine d’Ilorin s’est arrêtée pour le luminaire juridique que de nombreux observateurs appellent le «Daniel et Joseph» de notre temps. En plus d'avoir le rare privilège d'accueillir l’Ooni d'Ife, Alayeluwa Oba Okunade Sijuade, qui a mené un cortège de chefs traditionnels ainsi que l'ancien gouverneur de l'État, le sénateur Bukola Saraki, le père de la mariée, qui a également accueilli les grandes personnalités dans la profession juridique, menée par l’actuel procureur général du Nigeria, l'hon. Maitre Mahmoud Mohammed GCON ainsi que l'ancien, Maitre Aloma Mariam Mukhtar.

Ils ont partagé la splendeur et les paillettes du mariage de la fille d'Ali, Nimah Ibilola et Nurudeen Kolawole Ya-

Il a dit, '' J’étais à Lagos une fois et c’était évident que j’étais à la recherche d'une épouse. Mme Adetunji est une amie très proche de ma mère et elle a planifié nore rencontre. Nous avons commencé à parler en Février et nous nous sommes vus pendant les mois de Mars, Juillet et Août. Nous nous sommes fréquentés pendant six mois. Ce qui m’a vraiment m’attiré était qu’elle réunissait les trois critères que je recherchais. Elle est une bonne musulmane, d'une bonne famille et originaire de l'Etat de Kwara. '' Tout en décrivant son fiancé comme, une 'âme douce', la mariée a dit, '' C’est assez drôle et intéressant. J’étais à Londres pour quelques années et tout au long de ces années, pour certaines raisons, la chance ne nous a pas réunis. Nous nous sommes rencontrés quelques mois après que j’aie quitté l'Angleterre. Nous avons été présentés l’un à l'autre, nous avons parlé de choses et notre histoire a débuté à partir de là. C’était tout à fait inhabituel et beaucoup de gens penseraient que ce n’est pas juste. Mais la vérité est que, les gens se rencontrent soit par hasard ou à travers une présentation. Il a vu mes pho-

Though it sounds like a cliché ; I would love to have a happy family.

Challenges would come, but I believe we would scale through them.''

The beautiful couple

daughter,Nimah Ibilola and Nurudeen Kolawole Yahaya, whose father, Alhaji Aremu Babs Yahaya is a former Minister for Transportation and Aviation during the Late Gen. Sani Abacha’s regime and also a former member of the Federal House of Representatives in the Second Republic. Alhaji Aremu and his wife, Alhaja Toyeebat Yahaya were very visible at the wedding of their son. While talking to OVATION a day before the Nikkah ceremony about their love story, the couple revealed that, though they had schooled in the United Kingdom (UK), their paths never met. In fact, the groom has lived all his life in the UK. However, they were introduced by a mutual friend of their families, Mrs. Adetunji. According to the groom, who is a member of the Muslim Association of Nigeria in the United Kingdom, he was already looking for a wife at that time and he had three criteria in mind.

He said, '' I was in Lagos sometime

and things kicked off from there. ''It is quite unusual and a lot of people would think that is not right. But the truth is that, people either meet by accident or through introduction. I never shy away from being introduced to someone.

He saw my pictures; then he travelled down to Nigeria to see me. I saw his pictures first too, but when he came to Nigeria primarily to see me, the first thing that struck me was that, he is a very good Muslim. What a lot of women should look out for is God -fearing men. ‘'Prior to that time, it was a bit weird talking to someone and I did not have a clue of what he looked like, because pictures might not present the real look.

When I eventually saw him, I knew I had met my husband, because he is a good Muslim. By the way, a mutual family friend, Mrs. Adetunji introduced us.''

As soon as the couple met, they followed up on each other through the social networks and after repeated visits,

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We met through a family friend, Mrs. Adetunji. We exchanged our social media accounts and we have since been in contact.

After meeting each other, she later met my family members and we have been inseparable since then.

they concluded that they were meant for each other and marriage was on the cards. However, they needed to meet their respective parents. While Nurudeen visited his bride's father durin gone of his many visits to Nigeria to see the love of his life, his wife's meeting with her father-in-law was quite dramatic!

According to her,'' The first time I met his dad, he was very hospitable. I had a chat with him. My husband was not present. I called his dad and told him who I was. It was an audacious move (laughs). I drove down to where he was and we talked for almost an hour. I was in Ilorin for a wedding at that time, so I seized the opportunity to meet him. ‘'He talked about a lot of things. He talked about relationships, Nurudeen, his family, his business and the experiences he has gathered over the years. It was an informal meeting.''

Soon after, they realised that they were meant for each other, they started shopping for the wedding. The bride said she travelled to Dubai and Saudi Arabia with her father and sister and shopped for both herself and her groom.

Like it was the practice in 2013 when the successful Lawyer gave out the hand of his second daughter in marriage, he set up a committee headed by his close friend, Alhaji Y.K.O. Abdulkareem and also contracted the services of an events planner, Total Events, which is headed by hardworking, Mrs. Kemi Oluwole.

According to the bride, who is fondly called Mama by her father, because of her motherly role to her siblings after the death of their mother Fawziyya Lola Kehinde Ali, 10 years ago. She added, ''Yes, we have an events planner, 154

Total Events, headed by Mrs. Kemi Oluwole. She handled my sister's wedding last year, so we decided it is better to use familiar hands. It is a bit tricky when you have lost your mum and it is just your father that is trying to handle everything.

She said, “What he did during my sister's wedding and what he is doing now is that, he enlisted his friends and they set up a Committee. They learnt from my sister's wedding and they tried to improve on mine. We had several committees. I really do not know who they are. The beauty of everything was that, they consulted me and went ahead to carry them out. They went through my dad or the Committee Chairman, so that, I did not have to interact with everyone.''

Till the day before the Nikkah Ceremony and Reception, the groom had not proposed formally to the bride.

However, as we were having the interview and I asked the bride how the groom proposed to her, she did the unusual and told the groom to propose to her. She knelt down and there and then, he proposed to her!

According to the bride, ''I am quite an unusual person. Throughout the years, a lot of people think I am a snob because I do not smile often, but it is the other way round. People try to put me in a box because they think I am full of pride.

“They think I never listen and interestingly, it is quite the opposite. I am not domineering. If I have to get things done, I have to do so. But when it comes to relationships, I do not think there is a need not to let the guy take the lead.''

tos; puis il est venu au Nigeria pour me voir. J’ai vu ses photos, mais quand il est venu au Nigeria pour me voir pour la première fois,, la première chose qui m'a frappé est qu’il est un très bon musulman.

Dès que les amoureux se sont rencontrés, ils ont continué à communiquer à travers les réseaux sociaux et après des visites répétées, ils ont conclu qu’ils étaient faits l’un pour l'autre et le projet de mariage a commencé. Toutefois, ils devaient rencontrer leurs parents individuels. Alors que Nurudeen avait rendu visite au père de sa fiancée dans une de ses nombreuses visites au Nigeria pour voir l'amour de sa vie, la rencontre de sa femme avec son beau-père était assez dramatique!

Elle a dit, '' La première fois que j’ai rencontré son père, il était très accueillant. J’ai eu une conversation avec lui.

Mon mari n’était pas présent. J’ai appelé son père et lui ai dit qui j’étais. C’était un geste audacieux (rires). On s’est rencontré et nous avons parlé pendant presque une heure. J’étais à Ilorin pour un mariage à l'époque, donc j’ai saisi l'occasion pour le rencontrer. '' Il a parlé de beaucoup de choses.

Il a parlé des relations, de Nurudeen, de sa famille, de son entreprise et des expériences qu'il a eues au fil des ans. C’était une rencontre informelle. '' Peu de temps après, ils ont réalisé qu'ils étaient faits l’un pour l'autre, ils ont commencé par faire du shopping pour le mariage. La mariée a dit qu'elle s’est rendue à Dubaï et en Arabie Saoudite avec son père et sa sœur et ont fait du shopping pour elle et pour son époux.

Comme en 2013 lors du mariage de la jeune sœur de la mariée, l'avocat a mis en place un comité dirigé par son ami

proche, Alhaji YKO Abdulkareem et également retenu les services d'un planificateur d'événements, Total Events, dirigé Mme Kemi Oluwole.

Selon la mariée, qui est affectueusement appelée Mama par son père, à cause de son rôle maternel envers ses frères et sœurs après la mort de leur mère Fawziyya Lola Kehinde Ali, il y a 10 ans, elle a ajouté, '' Oui, nous avons un planificateur d'événements, Total Events, dirigé par Mme Kemi Oluwole.

Elle a planifié le mariage de ma sœur l'année dernière, nous avons donc décidé qu'il est préférable d'utiliser les mains familières. C’est un peu difficile quand vous avez perdu votre maman et que ce soit le père seul qui tente de tout gérer.

Jusqu'à la veille de la cérémonie et à la réception Nikkah, le marié n’avait pas proposé formellement à la mariée.

Cependant, comme nous étions en train de préparer l'entrevue, j’ai demandé à la mariée comment le marié a fait la proposition en mariage ; elle fit quelque chose d'insolite et a demandé au marié de faire la proposition. Il s’agenouilla et lui fit la proposition.

Selon la mariée, '' Je suis tout à fait une personne inhabituelle. Au fil des ans, beaucoup de gens pensent que je suis snobe parce que je ne souris pas souvent, mais c’est l’inverse. Les gens essaient de me mettre dans une boîte parce qu'ils pensent que je suis pleine d’orgueil. Ils pensent que je n’écoute jamais et, fait intéressant, c’est tout le contraire. Je ne suis pas dominatrice. Si je dois faire les choses, je dois lex faire.

Mais quand il s’agit de relations, je ne vois pas pourquoi je ne dois pas laisser l’homme prendre les devants ''.

I saw his pictures first too but when he came to Nigeria, primarily to see me, the first thing that struck me was that, he is a very good Muslim. What a lot of women should look out for is God-fearing men.

The bride

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THE HAPPY COUPLE: NIMAH AND NURUDEEN

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The couple posing for our paparazi’s

TRADITIONALLY, THE STYLISH WEDDING KICKS OFF WITH THE WAKA NIGHT...

Waka singers thrilling guests

Yusuf Ali, SAN(R) with a friend

Mrs. Arin Ogunnusi, Hajiya Aisha Gobir & Ahaja Taiwo Ibrahim

Abdurahman K. Adeyi & Justice L.K. Akanbi

Dr. Olanrewaju, Alhaji Babs Aremu Yahaya & guest

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The groom & his siblings

Aisha Oke, bride’s niece

Alhaja Muslmat Iyiola, Hajiya Aisha Gobir, Alhaja Sherifat Salaudeen & Alhaja Taiwo Ibrahim

Alh. Y.K.O. Abdulkareem & Prof. Wahab Egbewole

Barr. Ahmed Gobir & Alh.Yinka Yahaya

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Alh. Sherifat Salaudeen (r) & friend

Alh.Yinka Yahaya & Chairman, SUBEB, Kwara State Barr.

Lanre Daibu

THE CLOCK TICKS OFF FOR THE

WALIMATUL QURAN...

Bride’s shoes & Aso oke

Make up being applied on the bride

Bride’s head gear being tied

Bride’s dress

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Bride’s dazzling feet & shoes

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The georgeous bride

Bride’s well designed hands with Laali

Bride’s sisters & friends

Bride & guest

Bride & sister with daddy, Yusuf Ali, SAN

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AND THE WALIMATUL QUARAN BEGINS...

The bride during the Walimatul Quran in the midst of clerics

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he groom did include take the lead and they set a date for the wedding.

The wedding, a four-day event, which could best be described as regal, royal and stylish, started traditionally with the Waka Night at the Atiku Abubakar Drive, Adewole Housing Estate Ilorin, residence of father of the bride in Ilorin. The Waka Night is also traditionally referred to as the Aisun Iyawo. Waka Night, which is a traditional performance that is peculiar to Ilorin, signifies the commencement of a wedding ceremony. Usually didactic in nature, the performances are full of admonitions for the couple and everybody in attendance. The night usually features poetic compositions that are heavily laced with teachings from the Quran as well as teachings of Prophet Muhammed. This was amplified by the performers on that night.

The Aisun Iyawo which started about 6pm dovetailed into the wee hours of the night and among the dignitaries that graced the night were Justice Durosinlohun Kawu , Justice Titilayo Daibu, Justice Lambo Akanbi, Vice Chancellor of the Kwara State University, Prof. Abdularasheed Nahala, Managing Director, Niger River Basin, Engr. Afolayan Jumaah and Justice Mudasiru Oniyangi of the Court of Appeal.

The day after was set aside for the Walimatul Quran, which in Islamic parlance, is the celebration of the completion of recitation of the Holy Quran by the bride. The significance of the Walimatul Quran is to show the world that, the bride has received basic Islamic training and that with that, she is well prepared for all that it requires to live a responsible life in marriage according to the tenets of Islam.

The Walimatul Quran started by 10a.m. and the Chief Imam of Ilorin, Sheik Muhammed Bashir (OON) started the proceedings of the event with the Opening Du'a (prayer). As soon the Chief Imam was done, one of the Islamic clerics, Sheik Sulaiman Dan- Borno took to the podium to deliver the sermon for the event. Sheik Dan-Borno talked about the importance of the Quran and its uses for human life. He also prayed to Allah to 162

grant the couple the ability to do the same for their children.

Thereafter, it was the turn of the Walimatul which was handled by the Chief Imam. His recitation over, it was the turn of the bride, Nimah, to perform her own recitation and show that she has the knowledge of the Quran. This she did to the appreciation and admiration of the guests which included, the Emir of Ilorin, Dr. Ibrahim Sulu Gambari, who was represented by Sarkin Salama, Dr. Aliyu Alarape Salman; Grand Khadi of the Kwara State Sharia Court of Appeal, Justice S.O. Mohammad; pioneering Chairman of the Independent Corrupt Practices Commission, (ICPC), Justice Mustapha Akanbi; Vice Chancellor of the University of Ilorin, Prof. Abdul Ganiyu Ambali and the Nigerian Ambassador to Netherlands, Amb. Nimota Niyilola Akanbi.Others were the Chairman of the Nigeria Bar Association, Kwara State, Barr. Bolaji Ojibara, Rector, Kwara State Polytechnic, Alh. Moshood Elelu; former Inspector General of Police, Chief Sunday Adewusi; Senator Iyiola Omisore,Chief Iyiola Oyedokun, prominent Islamic scholar in Ilorin, Sheik Usman Farouk Onikijipa; Justice Titi Daibu as well as the former Chief Justice of Kwara State, Justice Raliatu Elelu-Habeeb.

Later in the evening of the same day, two Islamic scholars, Alhaja Khadijah Abdulsalam Olayiwola and Prof. Abdulrasheed Ajani Raji former Chief Imam of the University of Ilorin were the speakers at the lecture designed by the father of the bride, Ali, to drum tenets of the marriage institution to his daughter, Nimah and her groom, Nurudeen. This was similar to what the father of the bride did last year when he gave out the hand of his second daughter in marriage.

After thanking Allah for granting the request of the father of the bride to give his daughter's hand in marriage, Alhaja Olayiwola, a veteran in the marriage institution told the bride to live up to her name, Nimah, which in Islam connotes divinity, goodness, truth, unconditional love and gift. While praying to Allah to bless the marriage, she urged her to be obedient and take a cue from her father, who in spite of his success was still a

simple man. In the same vein, Prof. Raji extolled the virtues of the marriage institution and urged the couple to alway see themselves as one.

The next day, which was a Saturday was set aside for the Nikkah Ceremony and Reception at Roemichs Events Palace, Ajase Ipo Road,Offa Garage Area, in Ilorin, which was every inch the right venue. The six Imams that officiated the wedding were Dr.Yusuf Kolawole Jumah, Prof. A.G.A.S. Oladosu, Prof. Muftau Abdulrahman Oloyede, Prof. Badmus Lanre Yusuf, Dr. Abdul-Lateef Wole Abbas and Sheik Abdul Rahman Adangba. The guests, some of whom were already seated, were being entertained by Kwara's No. 1 Disc Jockey, Ololade Moses Ibitoye better known as D.J. Lollypop. Decorated richly in Orange and Gold colors, the venue lit up the minute the groom, Nurudeen, who wore a flowing Cream and Gold cotton outfit sewn in the traditional Agbada, made a royal entry into the venue, alongside his best man, Hon. Sola Yahaya.

Minutes later, it was the turn of the bride, Nimah, who looked stunning in her Turquoise Blue mixed with Cream bridal gown which was a Hudaya creation, with her bouquet of flowers and special brooches, which she made herself. Hand-in-hand, the proud father, stepped into the venue with his daughter, accompanied by friends of the bride, who looked very attractive in their Aso ebi, courtesy the bride's fashion outfit, Nimah Collections Limited, an online hub for stress free fabric shopping.

Her younger sister, Sururah Ali, who is studying Medicine at the American School in the Carribeans stood out among the bridal train, looking ravishing in her outfit.

The twin sister of the late mother of the bride, Alhaja Taiwo Ibrahim was also around as well as the parents of the father and late mother of the bride, Alhaji Bisiriyu Olayiwola Ali and Alhaja Taibat Fomosara Ali as well as Alhaji Salaudeen Akintoye Akinleye and Alhaja Munirat Akinleye. Also, the siblings of the groom including, Yakut Lai Yahaya,Dr. Lateef Folarin Yahaya and Mrs. Arin Ogunnusi came to support their brother.

As soon as the bride sat beside her groom, Dr. Wole Abbas from the University of Ibadan rendered the open-

ing prayer. The prayer over, Ustaz Abdulsalam Umar recited the Holy Quran. The Chief Imam of the University of Ilorin, Prof. Oladosu, delivered the Sermon which was anchored on five issues, including, significance of marriage, responsibilities of bride and groom in marriage, categories of women that should not be married in Islam as well as features of deviations from Islamic norms in many modern marriages. Prof. Oladosu was emphatic in some of these deviations, pointing out to Nurudeen that, "It is a shameless Muslim that will take his wife to the public and hug, embrace or kiss her. If you do that, you have devalued yourself. You are no

The bride reciting portions of the Quran

longer Nurudeen."

While this was going on, the former Gov. of the State , Senator Bukola Saraki, Speaker of the House of Kwara State House of Assembly, Rt. Hon. Razak Atunwa alongside the Ooni of Ife, Oba Okunade Sijuwade stepped into the venue with a retinue of traditional rulers.

Thereafter, Dr. Jumah performed the solemnization of marriage between the bride and groom. He invited the couple and their fathers, and after the groom's father requested the hand of Nimah in marriage, her father handed her over to the groom's father. The groom's father in turn handed Nimah to the groom and with that symbolic act, the bride became Hajiyah Nimah Ibilola Yahaya.

The next item was torrents of prayers and they were rendered by different Islamic scholars, including , Prof.

Sanusi, Prof. Abdulrasheed Raji, Prof. Sanusi Abdulrazak, Prof. Ishaq Oloyede and Sheik Abdullah Mukadam, who blessed and prayed for the couple.

Prof. Oloyede also coordinated the signing of the marriage certificate by the couple, their fathers , Alh. Aremu Yahaya Yusuf and Ali, SAN and other family members such as, Alh. Yinka Yahaya and Dr. Abdulganiyu Kashimu signed. Thereafter, the marriage certificate was presented to the couple, by the Chief Justice of Nigeria, Hon. Justice Mahmud Mohammed after which, Sheik Adangba led the closing prayers. Few

on behalf of his bride and the floor was officially opened for dance.

After the wedding reception, the wedding train moved over to the residence of the Ali's where guests were later entertained. Among notable guests that came was the Governor of the State, Abdulfatah Ahmed.

Later in the evening, the bride was taken to the residence of the Yahaya's in GRA Ilorin where Engr. Ali (Jnr.), a PhD student of the University of Cambridge studying Engineering led the retinue of family members that formally handed the bride to the Yahaya's. The next day, as demanded by tradition in Ilorin, male members of the family of the groom came to the Ali's to thank them for

hours later and in the same hall, the reception started with the opening prayer by Dr. Abdulateef Oladimeji after which, the Chairman of the event and former Inspector-General of Police, Alhaji Musiliu Smith, who was represented by Dr. Wale Babalakin, SAN took center-stage. The Chairman extolled the virtues of the marriage institution and advised the couple to put God first in all they do. The next item was the exchange of the wedding rings which was coordinated by Dr. (Mrs.) Rahman Oloyede while Hajiyah Bilqis Oladimeji moderated the cutting of the cake, which was the first assignment of the couple. As soon as that was done, the younger brother of the bride, Engr. Yusuf Ali (Jnr.) proposed a toast and the couple had their First Dance to the rhythm of Alh. Bukola Lawam Abdulganiyu, better known as Ere Asalatu. Thereafter, the groom responded

giving out their daughter out in marriage to Nurudeen.

They prayed for the couple to have a happy marriage with that will be blessed with children.

With that thank you visit, the event which would undoubtedly be one to remember for the couple, family members, friends and associates who came from far and near to celebrate and rejoice with the Ali's and Yahayas’ ended. We at OVATION wish the couple a blissful matrimony.

FAMILY MEMBERS AND FRIENDS SPEAK TO OVATION ABOUT THE COUPLE We spoke to family members and friends of the couple both on the evening of the Walimatul Quran and Nikkah Ceremony and Reception. They were full of kind words for the couple and their comments were both 163

L-R, C.J., Kwara State , Hon. Justice Ayinla Bamigbola, Alh. Adebayo Adelodun SAN & Yusuf Ali, SAN

Yusuf Ali, SAN & former V.C. Unilorin, Prof. Ishaq Oloyede

(L-r): Prof. Abubakar Sanusi, Alh. Jimoh Afolayan, Prof. Yisa Yusuf, Yusuf Ali, S.A.N, Engr. Yusuf Ali (Jnr.), Prof. Umar Abdulrahman, Alh. Yekeen Sulaiman & guest

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Prince Adetokunbo Kayode, SAN, Yusuf Ali, SAN & Prof.

Ishaq Oloyede in a prayerful mood

Yusuf Ali, SAN & Ms. Boma Ozobia

The groom, Nurudeen Yahaya in a warm handshake with his father-in-law , Yusuf Ali, SAN & Alh. Adebayo Adelodun

V.C. Al-Hikmah University, Prof. Age Sulaiman & V.C. Unilorin, Prof. Abdul Ganiyu Ambali

Fmr. Kwara State S.S.G, Alh. Saka Isau SAN (r) & Tayo Jegede SAN

Prof. Abdul Ganiyu Ambali & Fmr. C.J., Kwara State, Hon. Justice Saka Yusuf

Chief Imam of Ilorin, Sheik Muhammed Bashir greeting Alh. Saka Isau, SAN

Balogun Ajikobi, Yusuf Ali, SAN & Balogun Gambari of Ilorin

Alh. Bello Afolayan, V.C. KWASU, Prof. Abdul Rasheed Na’Allah & Yusuf Ali, SAN

Bisi Adesigbin & Yusuf Ali, S.A.N

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Bride’s father, Yusuf Ali, S.A.N & Chief Imam of Ilorin, Sheik Muhammed Bashir

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Yusuf Ali, S.A.N with his parents & his late wife's parents

Bride showing off her Quranic tablet to the admiration of all

Bride’s friend, Dr. (Mrs.) Mutmainah Adewole

revealing and inspiring!

MARRIAGE IS ALL ABOUT GIVE AND TAKE Nurudeen is nice, gentle, well-behaved and a good Muslim and he will make a good husband. I wish them success. My advice for them is that, they need to understand that; marriage is about give and take. They also need to be understanding in their marriage. There is no easy solution to everything and they also need to understand that, they are in the union, until death do them part.

-Alhaji Aremu Babs Yahaya (Groom's father) PATIENCE IS THE KEY WORD My brother, Nurudeen is a very reserved person. He is also a very religious person and a very good person. I advise them to be patient with each other, take their time to learn about each other and also to invest in each other.

-Lai Yahaya (Groom's brother) I WISH THEM LOTS OF CHILDREN AND HAPPINESS He is a very loving and peaceful person. He is very kindhearted, loving and I think he would make a very good husband. I wish them a happy married and success-

Bride’s friend, Rasheedah Ajibola Oladapo

ful life. I also wish them lots of children and happiness.

-Mrs. Arin Ogunnusi (Groom's sister) I HOPE AND PRAY NIMAH REMEMBERS ALL OUR MOTHER TAUGHT US I am her younger sister and I really love her. She is a good listener. I love attention a lot, I throw tantrums too (laughs). She is really patient with me and I hope she would exercise the same with her husband and I know she would be a fantastic mother.

We are sisters and also good friends. I wish her all the best. I hope she remembers all the lessons that we learnt from our mother. One of which is patience, because she needs that to be a married woman and sustain her marriage.

-Sururah Ali ( Bride's sister) NIMAH IS A VERY CARING PERSON She is first and foremost, a very caring person. I am the last born of the family. And while, I was growing up, she was like my mother. My elder sisters say she is caring to me, because I am the last child but I have not seen her do bad things to others. While I was young, she did

all the domestic chores on my behalf, making sure that I was properly fed. She is also brutally honest. You can be sure that, when you have a problem, you get a fair analysis from her, which is obviously very good. A lot of people like the sugar-coated truth, but she tells you the real thing. You tell her your problem, she dissects it and tells you the truth, even though she tries to be nice sometimes.

I wish them a very happy married life. Marriage is a marathon and it comes in different phases. Some parts you enjoy and some others, you endure. They should also keep on involving God in all their affairs.

-Engr. Yusuf Ali (Jnr.) (Bride's brother) THEY SHOULD PUT ALLAH FIRST IN ALL THEY DO She is a very nice person, a comforter and she is more like a mentor to me. She listens to me and she is like our second mother. Everybody goes to her with their problems and she is always ready to solve them.

They should put Allah first in all they do and they should also follow the teachings of the Holy Quran and the Hadith. She should also exercise patience.

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The bride & family members

The beautiful bride, Nimah Ibilola Ali

Dr. (Mrs.) Bilqis Amoloye & bride

Bride & Engr. (Mrs.) Muslimat Yusuf

Bride with her late mum’s sisters

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Bride with father’s siblings

Dr. (Mrs.) Raheemat Oloyede & bride

Amb. Nimotalai Niniola Akanbi, bride & Sen. Iyiola Omisore

Engr. Yusuf Ali (Jnr.)

Yusuf Ali, SAN

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Bride’s father with his wife’s stepmothers

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Bride with Fmr. Chairman, ICPC., Hon. Justice Mustapha Akanbi

- Lateefah Abdulkareem (Bride's sister) NIMAH SHOULD ALWAYS STAND BY HER HUSBAND She is a very nice, patient and friendly person.

I would advise her to always stand by her husband, exercise patience, understand him and also be submissive to him. Above all, she should put God first in her marriage.

I also wish her all the best.

-Marufah Afolayan (Bride's sister)

NIMAH IS LIKE A MOTHER TO AL OF US She is a very nice person. She is also a bit shy. She is like a mother to all of us

Events planner, Mrs. Kemi Oluwole

and takes care of everybody in the family. She is also friendly too. My advice for them is to try and understand each other, live together in peace, respect and trust each other. I also wish them a very wonderful married life.

- Aisha Oke (Bride's cousin) THEY SHOULD MAKE GOD THE PILLAR OF THEIR HOME The bride is a very accommodating person. She is an attentive listener and a very good friend. I would advise them to put God first in everything they do and make Him the pillar of their home.

-Rasheedah Ajibola (Bride's sister)

Oladapo

Ovation’s Managing Editor, Segun Adebowale with father of the bride Yusuf Ali SAN

Alh. Y.K.O Abdulkareem, Alhaja Akinleye, Yusuf Ali, SAN, Prof. Wahab Egbewole, Alhaja Taibat Ali & Alh. Aliu Badmus

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Alh. Adebayo Adelodun, Chairman, AMCON., Alh. Kola Belgore, Yusuf Ali, S.A.N & Engr. Lanre Shagaya

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Bride’s father receiving a copy of the Quran from Chairman, IEPDU, Alh. Hammed Adi (r ) with other officials of the association

TIME FOR WEDDING LECTURE...

Prof. Abdulrasheed Ajani Raji, Alh. Saadu Maimasa & an Islamic cleric

Alhaja Khadijah Abdulsalam

The smiling bride

Hajiya Safiya Yaro, Yusuf Ali, SAN & E.C. Ekomaru, SAN

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Hon. Justice Kudirat Kekere-Ekun, Chief Justice of Nigeria, Hon.Justice Mahmud Mahammed, Yusuf Ali, SAN, C.J.N., Hon. Justice Mariam Mukhtar Aloma & Kwara State Chief Justice, Hon. Justice Ayinla Bamigbola

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Bride’s father with Hon. Titi Daibu & Alhaja Durosilorun Kawu with well wishers

The bride greeting Prince Adetokunbo Kayode, her father & Prof. Oloyede

Sheik Abdulrazaq Aduagba (MC)

Dr. (Mrs.) Lateefah Dairo, Engr. Muslmat Yusuf & Dr. (Mrs.) Bilqis Amoloye

Dr.(Mrs.)Raheemah Oloyede & Alhaja Silfat Afolayan

Rtd Prof. Umar Rahaman & the bride

Alhaji Saidu Maimara with bride

Prof. Ishaq Oloyede & bride

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MINUTES BEFORE THE NIKKAH...

ALL I WANT IS A HAPPY FAMILY -THE BRIDE, NIMAH ALI

How would you describe your husband

Nurudeen is a very gentle soul. He is very attentive. He cares for not just himself, but also for his family and people around him. There are so many words to describe him, but I would rather keep them to myself (laughs).

Does he have a pet name

None for now but I would reserve that for later.

We are both working on it (laughs) How long have you been dating

We started this year, a couple of months, interestingly. It is over six months.

How and when did you meet

It is quite funny and interesting. I was in London for a few years and throughout those years, for some reasons, luck never brought us together. We met a few months after I left England. We were introduced to each other, we got talking and things kicked off from there. It is quite unusual and a lot of people would think that is not right. But the truth is that, people either meet by accident or through introduction. I never shy away from being introduced to someone. He saw my pictures; then he travelled down to Nigeria to see me.

What was it that attracted you to him on your first meeting

I saw his pictures first too but when he came to Nigeria, primarily to see me, the first thing that struck me was that he is a very good Muslim. What a lot of women should look out for is God -fearing men.

Prior to that time, it was a bit weird talking to someone and I did not have a clue of what he looked like because pictures might not present the perfect look. When I eventually saw him, I knew I had met my husband, because he is a good Muslim. By the way, a mutual family friend, Mrs. Adetunji introduced us.

How did he propose to you

Do not mind him, he is a duck. He never did. (As we were talking, the groom stepped in and she asked him to propose to her and he did, there and then!).I had to get him to propose to me and he just did!(laughs).

You are a very unusual person

I am quite an unusual person. Throughout the years, a lot of people think I am a snob because I do not smile often, but it is the other way round. People try to put me in a box because they think I am full of pride. They think I never listen and interestingly, it is quite the opposite. I am not domineering. If I have to get things done, I have to do so. But when it comes to relationships, I do not think there is a need not to let the guy take the lead.

Has he been taking the lead

Of course, he has. In cases where he has not done enough, I come up with suggestions and see how to push him to do them.

How was the reception the first time you met his parents

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The bride

Bride & sister with their father

Bride with her father

Bride

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was an audacious move (laughs). I drove down to where he was and we talked for almost an hour. I was in Ilorin for a wedding at that time, so I seized the opportunity to meet him. Then, I went back to Abuja because it was quite a short meeting.

What were the things he talked about

There is no way you would like someone and they would not lack in some areas. I would prefer to keep this to myself. There are a lot of things he is working on. He understands the Yoruba language a bit and tries to speak it. It is always hilarious when he speaks Yoruba Language. My father told him to work on his Yoruba Lan-

It is a bit tricky when you had lost you mum and it is just your father that is trying to handle everything. What he did during my sister's wedding and what he did now was that, he enlisted his friends and they set up a Committee.

They learnt from my sister's wedding and they improved on mine. We had several committees. I really do not

Bride’s brother, Engr. Yusuf Ali (Jnr.)

He talked about a lot of things. He talked about relationships, Nurudeen, his family, his business and the experiences he has gathered over the years. It was an informal meeting.

What is your husband's favorite dish

He likes Jollof rice and I cook it well.

What is it you do not like about him

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guage, because he has to interact with my family members.

Let us talk about your wedding, did you contract an events planner

Yes, we have an events planner, Total Events, headed

by Mrs. Kemi Oluwole. She handled my sister's wedding last year, so we decided it is better to use familiar hands.

know who they were. The beauty of everything was that, they consult me and went ahead to carry them out. They went through my dad or the Committee Chairman, so that, I did not have to interact with everyone.

What are you going to be wearing, starting from tonight

There is this Ilorin tradition called Waka and I really

AND THE NIKKAH CEREMONY BEGINS...

Arrival of the bride

do not want to stay for up to ten minutes (laughs). I was not really present during my sister's, so I do not know the activities that would be carried out. I think they sing and dance. I will be wearing a traditional outfit which is the Aso Oke and Lace material tomorrow. It was made by a lady in Lagos called Beams.

She made the outfits I would be wearing on Friday and Saturday. Most of the fabrics I would be wearing for the ceremony are from my clothing line, so people should check that out to see what I have in stock. I do sew as well but I decided to take everything off my shoulders for the wedding and allow people do that for me so I would have less things to do. It is a very beautiful lady in Abuja that did the sewing and I told her the design I wanted. If you like the designs, get in touch with me for her contact. Lade is making the blouses while Beams is making the Aso Oke. My Nikkah dress was made by Hudayah Couture in Abuja.

From Dubai, I travelled with my dad and sisters to Saudi Arabia and I got my jewelries over there. We got them from Gate 16 in Medina. My sister got all the shoes I wanted from her trip to the United States of America. I would be wearing Guiseppe Zanoti shoes for my Nikkai, Jimmy Choo for the Friday programme and a nice shoe for the reception as well.

How many kids are you expecting

I would love to have three. I would love to have twins as well. They have twins and triplets in Nurudeen's family.

My mum is a twin as well. Most men want to have a zillion kids and when the financial responsibility sets in, it is a reality check.

What do you wish for yourself and your husband Though it sounds like a cliche ; I would love to have a happy family. Challenges

would come, but I believe we would scale through them.

Will you be kind enough to introduce yourself

My name is Nimah Ali. My father hails from Osun state. I am a Chartered Accountant. I was born in Kwara State, so I can claim to be an indigene by birth.

I am at the verge of becoming a fullfledged, designer but I have an online company where you can get fabrics for both sexes.

What is the name of the company and when was it established

It is called Nimah Collections and it is only a few months old. The web address is www.nimahcollections.com.

Where did you school and what did you study

I have been waiting to talk about this, so that it can be an inspiration for others. I spent 9 years in the Secondary school. I was in Secondary School Class 1 for three years not because I failed, but my parents thought I could do better. I changed schools thrice and I had to sit tight the third time. I was the Deputy Head girl for my school then. I went to the University of Ilorin and spent three years because I was doing my IJMB and at the same time, UME. I was already in the University studying Sociology and as soon as the results were out, I crossed over to Accounting. I finished in 2007 and observed my service year, because my dad always insists you serve your country before travelling anywhere. I did my Masters in International Business at the Grenoble Garden School of Business. I was in the London campus because I do not understand French. I had the opportunity to have my ACCA done and in three years, I completed everything. I enrolled for an MBA as well.

It has been a pleasure talking to you Same here The groom

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Symbolic handing over of bride to groom’s father

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...And the groom’s father hands bride to the groom

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WIFE

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THE THREE CRITERIA I SET FOR MYSELF -THE GROOM, NURUDEEN YAHAYA How and where did you meet your wife

We met through a family friend, Mrs. Adetunji. We exchanged our social media accounts and we have since been in contact. After meeting each other, she later met my family members and we have been together since then.

What was it about her that attracted you to her during your first meeting

What really attracted me was that she met the three criteria I had set for myself.

She is a good Muslim, from a good family and hails from Kwara State.

Why were you both introduced to each other.

Did you make it known that you were searching for a wife

I am a member of the Muslim Association of Nigeria in the United Kingdom where I work as a System Engineer. I was in Lagos sometimes ago and it was pretty obvious that I was searching for a wife.

Mrs. Adetunji is a very close friend of my mother and she did the match making. We started talking in February and we saw each other during the months of March, July and August. We dated for six months.

So, what happened there after

During our first meeting, we went to visit her father in Abuja. It was a formal visit and the proposal was more like the westernized type. We wrote a letter to my father-in-law to request for his daughter's hand in marriage after which was the Thanksgiving ceremony. We were both not present. I was in the United Kingdom while she was in Abuja but preparations for the Nikkah kicked off immediately.

Where did you shop for your wedding outfits

Most of them were done by my wife.

Do you both have pet names you call each other

We have not agreed over that (laughs).

How many kids are you expecting

I do not know about that yet. We have twins and triplets in my family. Maybe a football team (laughs).

What did your father-in-law tell you when you first met him

He said I needed to work on my Yoruba and I am currently working on that.

Where are your parents based

Here in Kwara State.

Tell us about your family

My father is a business man and a former minister. My mother was a secretary but now a nurse. I have three older brothers and a sister.

What is your favorite dish

I like the colored rice (Jollof) and my wife prepares it very well. I like oranges of the African soil.

Will you be kind enough to tell me about yourself

My name is Nurudeen Kolawole Yahaya. I hail from Kwara State. I was born in London and I have lived most of my life there.

It has been a pleasure talking to you

Thank you very much.

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Bride signing the marriage certificate

Groom feeling relaxed after signing his own

Bride’s father signing the certificate

Groom’s father, Alh. Babs Aremu Yahaya takes his turn

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Chief Justice of Nigeria, Hon. Justice Mahmud Mohammed (GCON) presenting the marriage certificate to the couple

What really attracted me was that she met the three criteria I had set for myself.

She is a good Muslim, from a good family and hails from Kwara State.

Bride’s friends & sisters

Bride’s sisters: Sulia, Marufah & Azeezah

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PREPARATIONS FOR T HE NIKKAH R ECEPT ION...

Lining of the bride's eyebrow

Eye lining

Bride displaying her neck piece

The glittering wedding ring

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Tying of the head gear

Behold, the stylish bride

Groom getting ready

Groom takes a last look at himself

Groom & siblings

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Bride & groom

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Groom with father-in-law, Yusuf Ali, SAN

Bride steps into her silver SUV

FINALLY,

THE NIKKAH

RECEPTION BEGINS...

Arrival of the bride & groom

Ooni of Ife, Oba Okunade Sijuade

Sen. Bukola Saraki

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Bride shows off groom’s ring

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Couple displays wedding rings & band

Groom sets to slip ring on bride’s finger

Cutting of the cake

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Bride’s brother, Engr. Yusuf Ali (Jnr.) proposes a toast to the couple

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The couple sharing drinks

Mr. & Mrs. Nurudeen Yahaya

Father of the bride, Yusuf Ali, S.A.N with the Ooni of Ife, Oba Okunade & Olori Morisola Sijuwade

(L-r) Father of the bride, Yusuf Ali, SAN & Sen. Bukola Saraki with the couple

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The couple with Ooni of Ife & his Olori, Morisola

Bride’s father with groom’s parents

Bride’s father, Yusuf Ali, SAN, Prof. Ishaq Oloyede with bride’s grand parents

Bride’s father with HRM Oba Isaac Adebare, Olowosoke, Ogboru Olodo I, The Olubosin of Ifetedo & Olori Olowosoke

Bride’s uncle, Alh. Fatai Ali & wife, Alhaja Ikeola Ali with friends

Bride’s father, Yusuf Ali, SAN, groom, Lai Yahaya & bride’s brother, Engr. Yusuf Ali (Jnr.)

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Bride’s sister, Sururah Ali with friends

Bride’s late mum’s twin sister, Alhaja Taiwo Ibrahim& friends of the bride’s mother

Onifon of Ifon-Osun, Oba Aderemi Adedapo & Yusuf Ali, SAN

Yusuf Ali, SAN with friends

Yusuf Ali, SAN with old friends

Tunde Mohammed, Yusuf Ali, SAN & Rt. (Col.) Theophilus Bamgboye

Lekan Yusuf, SAN; Yusuf Ali, SAN; Alh. Yusuf, Prince Adetokunbo Kayode, S.A.N & wife, Mrs. Kayode

Alh. Bello Afolayan, Prof. Muiz Durosinmi, Yusuf Ali, S.A.N & Dr. (Mrs.) Lateefah Durosinmi

Chief Adegboyega Awomolo, SAN & Yusuf Ali, SAN

Bride’s uncle, Alhaji Fatai Ali & Bisi Oriade

Elder Babatunde Awodele, Alh. Rafiu Ali, Bisi Oriade& Bashiru Oladeji

Alh. Fatai Ali, Steve Adebiyi, Bade Ojuade & friend

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Alh. Adebayo Adelodun S.A.N, Sururah Ali & Alh. Yinka Yahaya

Engr. Yusuf Ali (Jnr.) (left) & Dr. Teqwah Abass

Arrival of Dr. Wale Babalakin, S.A.N

Bride’s siblings

Couple with Ataoja of Oshogbo,HRM Oba Iyiola Oyewale Matanmi III & Olori Matanmi

The couple with HRH Oba Awuni, the Elese of Igbaja

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The Orangun of Oke-Ila, HRM Oba Adedokun Omoniyi Abolarin with Olori Abolarin

Founder, Al- Hikmah University, Ilorin, Alh. (Dr.) Abdulraheem Oladimeji & Yusuf Ali, S.A.N

Sururah Ali with her sister’s (Baraka Nagode) in-laws

Morufah Afolayan, Sururah Ali & Dr. Ramot Abdulmojeed

Sururah Ali & Engr. Abdul Rahman Nagode

Dr. Abdul Lateef Oladimeji, Yusuf Ali, S.A.N & Amb.Nimotalai Niniola Akanbi

Sadiq Wanke, Engr. Yusuf Ali (Jnr.) & groom’s friend

Yusuf Ali, S.A.N; Mrs. Nimah Salman Mann & Prof. Wahab Egbewole

E.C. Ekomaru, SAN & Fmr. President, Commonwealth Lawyers Association, Boma Ozobia

Chairman, Irepodun LG., Hon. Lukman Owolewa, Yusuf Ali, S.A.N & Alh. Bello Afolayan

Alhaja Ayo Olajide, Sururah Ali & Alhaja Taiwo Ibrahim

Hon. Justice Sulaiman Kawu, Yusuf Ali, S.A.N; guest & Attorney General, Kwara State, Kamaldeen Ajibade

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Mariam Dauda

Amb. Nimotalai Niniola Akanbi

Yusuf Ali, S.A.N with groom’s parents and bride’s grandparents

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Justice Titi Daibu

Ife Adedipe, S.A.N

Rasheedah Ajibola Oladipo, couple & best man, Hon. Sola Yahaya

Couple with groom’s father & sister

Alhaja Yusuf, Alhaja Idayat Gbadamosi & husband, Alhaji Rilwan Gbadamosi

Sururah Ali with her uncles, Alh. Fatai Ali & Kazeem Adeoye

Father of the bride, Yusuf Ali, S.A.N, bride, Kwara State Governor, Abdulfatah Ahmed & bride sister, Sururah Ali

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Yakubu Maikyu, SAN; Attorney General, Yobe State, Ahmed Gonri & Yakubu Maikasuwa

Barr. Alaba Yahaya & friend

Rowland Otaru, SAN; Kemi Pinhero, SAN; Lawal Pedro, SAN, Solicitor Lagos State & Rep. of Gov. Babatunde Fashola & Amaechi Nwaiwu, SAN

A.O. Mohammed, SAN, John Bayshea, SAN & Lai Babatunde, SAN

Ridhwan Gbadamosi & Rtd (C.P.) Yinka Balogun

Salisu Ahmed , Alh. Adebayo Adelodun S.A.N & Chief Faisal Harb

R.A. Lawal-Rabana, SAN; Mike Ousman, SAN & Prince Lateef Fagbemi, S.A.N

Sen. Bukola Saraki, Fmr. I.G.P., Alhaji Musiliu Smith & Speaker, Kwara State House of Assembly, Rt. Hon. Razak Atunwa

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(L-r) Guest, Alhaja Ikeola Ali, her husband, Alh. Fatai Ali; Nike Deens & Ahmad Magaji

Kola Raji, Biodun Adesanye & Alh. Fatai Ali

...AND MEN FROM THE GROOM’S FAMILY CAME CALLING, DRAWING A CURTAIN ON THE STYLISH WEDDING

Father of the bride with some men from the groom’s family

Afolabi Fashanu, SAN & Yusuf Ali,SAN

Yusuf Ali, SAN with Alh. Yinka Yahaya

Ovation’s crew: Abraham Falodun, Adekoya Adegbite, Segun Adebowale with Yusuf Ali, SAN

Yusuf Ali, S.A.N with his nieces & cousins

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WE WILL MISS MAMA -BRIDE’S FATHER, YUSUF ALI, SAN

How do you feel giving your daughter's hand out in marriage

She is my first daughter. I thank Almighty Allah for making this possible, also with the help of our loved ones, for making this occasion a success. It is important in many respects, as a father to give out your daughter's hand in marriage or marry a lady for your son. It is not only a social obligation but also a religious obligation.

I lost their mother, Fawziyya Lola Kehinde Ali ten years ago. In spite of that grave loss, Allah has been with the family since then. He has assisted us in training these children. The bride holds a Masters in Business Administration (MBA) and she is also a Chartered Accountant.

I give all thanks to Allah, for seeing her through the years. It is not an easy task to be a single parent of four lucky children, who were just in the process of growing up, when they lost their mother. I also thank Almighty Allah for using so many people to assist us.

How did you raise them up, because I am sure it must have been hectic for you

Anything that Allah wants to do, He makes it very easy to accomplish. He assisted us in making it possible.

How would you describe the bride

I call her Mama, because she has been a mother to her younger ones and she played the role perfectly.

Before their mother died, we used to keep an open house for everybody and the house was and still filled with people. Their cousins, nephews and nieces used to come and stay with us in our house in Abuja. It continued, even after their mother's death, because Mama imbibed the spirit of togetherness in everybody.

We would miss her, because she would not be within our control anymore. Now, we have to seek her husband's permission, before we ask her to do anything or to see us. She is a special gift from God, just like her other siblings. They are all fantastic children. God has been kind to us.

What advice do you have for the couple

I advise them to imbibe all the qualities the Islamic clerics told them. They should try and live their lives in accordance with the prescription of Islam. Even if they face challenges, they would surmount them. Once they have the fear of Allah and they are faithful, truthful and open to themselves, they would have little or no problem. There are pulls and strains in every marriage.

Once they have total faith in Allah, those ups and downs would be minimal.

To the glory of God, I was married to their mother for 20 years before she passed on. Throughout the years, there was no third party in our marriage. Though, our parents are still alive, but nobody intervened in our marital issues.

What do you miss about her

She was a special gift from God. When we lost her in 2004, this house was under construction. I was on my way to Abuja when I was told that 200

I call her Mama, because she has been a mother to her younger ones and she played the role perfectly.

Before their mother died, we used to keep an open house for everybody and the house was and still filled with people. Their cousins, nephews and nieces used to come and stay with us in our house in Abuja. It continued, even after their mother's death, because Mama imbibed the spirit of togetherness in everybody.

she had lost her life in an accident. I turned back immediately, told my friends and also observed the necessary burial rites. I prayed to God to help me complete this house, so she could be buried here. A year after the anniversary of her death, we moved to this house.

What did you tell the groom the first time you met him

I advised him as a son, like I always do to every prospective husband; even if he is not married to any of my daughters. I told him all the essentials of marriage. I told him that, they must trust each other. He must be a responsible husband and must be the provider of all the essentials for the family, including food, shelter, clothing

and other necessary needs. The family's general welfare must be a priority to him.

There are so many irresponsible men out there, who live off their wives. A man should maintain decorum, even if the wife is better than he is financially. He should maintain his integrity as the head of the family. The Holy Quran says, 'The man is the backbone of his family'. He should be responsible for the upkeep of the family. He should be the pillar of the family in all situations, whether good or bad. That is the advice I gave him. I also spoke to my daughter about the essentials of a good wife which include, taking proper care of the husband,

guarding her chastity and obeying her husband. The most important thing is sticking to each other during challenges. Those are the essential things a good wife should do.

What do you wish them

I wish them a happy married life.

Finally Sir, where are you from

I am partly from Osun and Kwara. My great paternal grandmother hails from Kwara State. She was a Fulani and all my children possess those features. Nigerians claim their fathers' hometowns and all my children were born and bred here in Kwara.

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Ms Ida Fynn-Thompson

Prof & Dr. (Mrs.) Adu-Gyamfi with celebrant

The sisters

Tony, Tei & Kakra

Rt. Rev. Torto & celebrant

The top table

Mrs. Sophia Duker & Mrs. Comfort Asante-Antwi

Sisters Sarah, Mokowa, Afo, Mary & Ann

Mr. K.G Osei Bonsu, Paul Koranteng & Mrs. Ursula Owusu Ekuful

Linda, Dinah, Mavis, Doris& Barbara

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ALL HAIL

OBA IDOWU ONIRU AS HE MARKS 20TH ANNIVERSARY ON THE THRONE Story by: Emmanuel T. Edward Photo: Abraham Falodun

HRM Alaiyeluwa Oba Riliwan Akiolu & HRM Oba Idowu Abiodun Oniru

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His Majesty Oba Idowu Abiodun Oniru stepping into the arena

uccess they say is a charming attraction; an attraction that commands attention. Although many crave to be icons, only few are willing to pay the price for greatness. Amongst these few are men who have risen to the pinnacle of their careers and professions through different obstacles. His Royal Majesty, Oba (Dr.) Idowu Abiodun Oniru, (Akiogun II), The Oniru of IruLand who has championed remarkable transformations in Iru-Land in Lagos and its environs in the course of two decades as a highly esteemed monarch, is one such man.

In describing the personality of His Royal Majesty one needs to carefully select words that best suit a man with his persona. He conveys an aura of elegance and confidence. He is naturally imbued with integrity, level-headedness and noble-mindedness. His eminent leadership qualities stand out.

This peerless innovator was born to the Royal family of Oba Yesufu Abiodun Oniru, the 13th Oniru of Iru-Land on the 16th of September, 1937. His Royal Majesty being the 12th child of 15 children began his primary education at St David's Primary School and rounded off at Araromi Baptist School, Lagos. While growing up, he had passionate preference for sports and this enhanced his participation in sporting activities such as; football, swimming and wrestling. His showmanship in sports was always

HRM Oba Idowu Abiodun Oniru with the Onigbedu of Oba

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HRM Oba Idowu Abiodun Oniru & Asiwaju Bola Ahmed

Olori Arike Oniru reciting an eulogy

looked at with eagerness as an approval of enjoyment by all and as such; he was readily made to represent his school in high jump and pole vault.

Asides being a sports enthusiast, His Royal Majesty was also a very popular figure in his youthful days-best known for his skillful dance moves. He had every head turn in his direction while he danced, but he never took for granted the place of quality education in today’s world; a well-known fact he holds very dear even till this present day.

So, he went on to Eko Boys High School, Surulere, Lagoswhere he completed his secondary education. Later, he soon became a popular figure in school with his leadership qualities blossomed into maturity as he excelled academically. His Royal Majesty's name thereafter became a sweet melody on everyones lips and without contest, he was made the Financial Secretary of Oke Popo Boys Club and afterwards the Chairman of the same club.

Progressively, growth, time and age took its due course and Oba Idowu Abiodun Oniru soon became involved with the public life of his father and he began to accompany him to functions, especially to the tribunal, when there was a major dispute. This new found love made him become amply involved with the family battles and judiciary. Being born to a Royal family was never a license to excessive freedom enjoyed by other kids,

HRM Alaiyeluwa Oba Salaudeen Afolabi Oyefusi, HRM Alaiyeluwa Oba Riliwan Akiolu arriving the ceremony

Hon. Abike Dabiri, HRM Oba Saheed Elegushi & guest

Alhaja Amdalat Aliyu, Alhaja Erinosho Taiwo & Alhaja I.O Bajulaiye

Olori Ariyike, Olori Risikat & Olori Arike Oniru

A drama sketch in praise of celebrant

Olori Olanike Akiolu, Olori Titilola Akiolu & Lady Olabisi Ayoku

Chief (Mrs.) Alaba Oniru, Chief Mrs. Olufunmilayo Daramola, Olori Aramide Oniru & Olori Arike Oniru

Chief Mrs. Olufunmilayo Daramola, Alhaji Musuliu Dairo & Alhaja Monsurat Oyenekan

on the contrary, it meant hard work for His Royal Majesty and his 14 siblings. They had strict upbringing from their father who was a staunch disciplinarian. His Royal Majesty however, recounts few of his experiences while growing. "There was no domestic help, the children did all the work. Every child had duties they had to fulfill and my father taught us to be thoughtful and be of relevant service to others," he added. He also recalls his days of farming expeditions with his siblings- harvesting and peeling coconut husks with the intention to making sales and paying their school fees from the proceeds.

Subsequently, Oba Idowu Abiodun Oniru worked as a Rate Collector at the Lagos City Council, formerly known as Lagos Town Council between 1963-1964, before leaving for the United Kingdom in 1965 where he studied Civil Engineering at the British Institute of Engineering Technology in Slough. His studying Civil En-

gineering was informed by the innovative ideas stock up in his head as he believed it will help to support the family. On completing his studies, Oba Oniru returned to Nigeria in July, 1968, but his joy was short-lived with the demise of his mother on the 6th of August- just a month after his arrival. Her death felt like a hammer blow. It hurt really bad. He soon got over the tragedy and devoted more time assisting his father in the development of the family land in Victoria Island and Lekki areas respectively.

His Royal Majesty's managerial proficiency has earned him quite a number of impressive honours. He was appointed; Justice of Peace (JP) by Lagos State Government and was also conferred with a Honorary doctorate by The Federal College of Complementary and Alternative Medicine, Abuja. "I continue to marvel at the giant strides that have taken place under your Royal

Majesty's exemplary leadership in the growth of IruLand today. The entire Oniru Estate is second to none and has continued to grow. Your Majesty has carried on with calm disposition, determination and fearless independence of spirit." These mind-gripping words by Yeyemofin of Iru-Land, Chief (Mrs) Mary Bassey further lends credence to the towering exploits achieved by an inspiring administrator, manager of men, finance and materials, HRM, Oba Idowu Abiodun Oniru.

His Royal Majesty, succeeded his father following his demise in 1984. History has it that Late Oba Idowu Abiodun's exploits were stately epic and visible in the entire Iru Kingdom. He gallantly fought for the family's right and his reign projected the positive image of the family and improved their living conditions. He further built a huge palace-one that symbolizes the prestigious nature of the family heritage. Sadly, he never lived to behold the beautiful finishing of the palace-not even for a 203

Princess Serah Sosan, Dame Abimbola Fashola, HRM Oba Idowu Abiodun Oniru & Aremo Segun Oniru

Aremo Segun Oniru & Dame Abimbola Fashola

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Mrs. Jare Alade & Kuburat Hassan

Temi Shiyanbole, Doyin Tejuosho & Oluremi Williams

Sherifat Arolu, Alhaja Ige Fatima & Mrs. Lanre Hassan (Iya Awero)

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As it has been the case, the next Oniru after Oba Idowu Abiodun should have emerged from the Ogunyemi Ruling House. Nobody could deny them their right to appoint the Oniru from their clan. But the larger family interests and a unique display of magnanimity and statesmanship prevailed. The elders and members of the Ogunyemi Ruling House led by Madam Christiana Abeke Alder reached an agreement to grant the seat of power to a direct descendant of Oba Yesufu Abiodun Oniru as a symbol of appreciation for his unforgettable and illustrious service. And so, a consensus was reached by the overall Head of the Oniru family, Pa Wahab Ogunbambi of the Abisogun Ruling House, Pa J.O. Joshua, Head ead of Akiogun Ruling House and Pa Amusa Otun to put forward a qualified candidate to occupy the position.

Without hesitation, the mantle fell on the eldest surviving son of Late Oba Yesufu Abiodun in the person of Idowu Abiodun. Having met necessary requirements, on the 11th of April, 1994, Idowu Abiodun was crowned the 14th Oniru of Iru-Land with the legal backing of the court. Since then, Oba Idowu Abiodun Oniru has consistently maintained the family heritage with gigantic visible works of development, while ensuring that the culture and tradition of the people are meticulously preserved. Peace, tranquility and sanctity are evident traits of his reign.

All of these attributes, including the deft and democratic management of men and materials have formed the pivot of leadership style adopted by His Royal Majesty. His intellect and clout has led to the flourishing The Oniru Royal Family Private Estate that proudly stands in Lagos with its sophisticated modern structures consisting; banks, international public and private establishments, one-stop shopping complex, five-star hotels, police, fire station and more.

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in grand style. The atmosphere was bright, calm and basking with pleasurable splendours as the regal Gbedu drums were rolled out, accompanied with fine appurtenances of sweet rhythms. Family, friends and well wishers dressed in tasteful attires thronged The Oniru Palace with rich smiles spread across their faces to celebrate this momentous event for an achiever par excellence.

Setting out with the business of the day, the 20th coronation anniversary began with prayers from both Muslim and Christian clerics; Chief Imam of Lagos and Pastor Morris Oniru took charge. They offered thanks and praises to God for his guidiance, wisdom and protection of the Oniru family.

Chief Simeon Adekunle Akinlonu (Bobajiro of IruLand) remarked that His Royal Majesty is a simple yet, confident and loving man. In his words, "He is an exeptional family man who cares for his wives, children and the larger members of the family as well as those who are lucky to come his way," he added. Similarly, Iya Aafin of Iru-Land, Olori Aramide Oniru remarked "Happy 20th coronation anniversary to my caring husband, a compassionate community builder and dedicated royal father,".

In the same light, the Oba of Lagos, Oba Rilwan Babatunde Osuolale Aremu Akiolu I, weighed in with great words about the celebrant. "Oba Idowu Abiodun Oniru is no doubt a straight forward, honest, caring and yet disciplined man. A core traditionalist filled with wisdom, profound insight and unbaised sense of judgement. I pray his reign continues to bring forth blessings to the people of Iru-Land,". Also, (Arobadade of Iru-Land) Pharm. (Hon.) Abayomi Daramola said "As you celebrate your 20th years anniversary, the entire staff of IruVictoria Island Local Government Council Development Area join your other numerous associates and well-wishers to wish you long life, increasing prosperity and good health."

The ceremony moved on with a welcome address by Hon. Justice Ayisat Oniru-Opesanwo. She spoke in a soft

and incomparable manner and her words, indeed, sounded welcoming as guests appreciated her delivery with rounds of applause. Afterwards, a little twist was added to the ceremony with soul-stirring oriki (panegyrics) vibrating through the big white auditorium.

Though its delivery was done in Yoruba dialect, but the rich and mellow voice of Olori Aramide Oniru made for good listening and the expressions on her face aptly told it all. She did an excellent job with such charming grace and youthful elegance. The ceremony further climaxed with lips-smacking moments as guests were regalled with fine wines and mouth-watering delicacies.

Cheers reigned and happiness grew with the electrifying performances of Juju Music star, King Sunny Ade, D'banj and Mavin Records' First Lady, Tiwa Savage. All of whom thoroughly thrilled the guests with hit tracks from their albums. Their songs gave way for feet tapping and claps as His Royal Majesty along with other Obas in Lagos danced with great joy to the sweet melodies wafting from the speakers.There was an immense outpouring of excitement that permeated throughout the auditorium.

This momentous event was witnessed by political heavyweights and royal fathers including former Governor of Lagos State, Asiwaju Ahmed Tinubu and wife, Oluremi Tinubu; First Lady of Lagos State, Dame Abimbola Fashola; former Deputy Governor of Lagos State, Princess Sarah Sosan; Hon. Abike Dabiri while Oba Rilwan Babatunde Osuolale Aremu Akiolu I led a rich delegation of obas in Lagos State.

The celebration was brought to a close with warm gratitude from His Royal Majesty. He expressed his appreciation to all and sundry that made this watershed occasion remarkable and memorable. And with boldness and pride, one could conclude that the 20th coronation anniversary of Oba Idowu Abiodun Oniru could be tagged an eventful day of undiluted excitement.

Aremo Segun Oniru, Hon. Abike Dabiri & Hakeem Muri-Okunola

Dame Abimbola Fashola, Princess Sarah Adebisi Sosan & Mrs. Derin Disu

Hon. Gbolahan Lawal, Aremo Segun Oniru, Chief Adebola Dosunmu & friend

Rasheed Muri-Okunola, Barr. Dele Ayileka, Chief Adebola Dosunmu, Dola Bamgboye (far right) & friend

Dola Bamgboye, Chief Adebola Dosumu & Olori Sekinat Aramide Elegushi

Dola Bamgboye (Dolly), Hon. Jide Sanwo-olu & Tosin Lana

Lanre Jimoh (LAREDO), Chief Lookman & guest

Habib & Fatima Oniru

Ibukun Akin Lawanson, Peter Black, Bola Aridegbe, Barr. Dele Ayileka & Tosin Lana

Sen. Gbenga Ashafa, Aremo Segun Oniru & Hon. Muiz Banire

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Lucia Oniru, Chief (Mrs.) Alaba Oniru & Kim Oniru

Taiwo Mayuku, Aremo Segun Oniru & Kehinde Majekodunmi

Lucia & Kim Oniru with grandpa HRM Oba Alayeluwa Idowu Oniru

Alh. Chief (Mrs.) Rashidat Okoya & Mrs. Toyin Joseph

Chief (Mrs.) Fadahunsi & Mrs. Deolu Durosimi

T-blitz, Aremo Segun Oniru & Tiwa Savage

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King Sunny Ade thrilling guests

Dapo Oyebanjo (D’banj) thrilling guests

KANYISOLA ONALAJA MARKS DEBUT AS ISTITUTO MARANGONI HOSTS GRADUATE FASHION WEEK IN LONDON, ENGLAND Story: Michael Effiong Photo: Dragan Mikki

Kanyisola Onalaja (4th left) with family members

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hen Kanyisola Onalaja was growing up in Nigeria, she began to show an interest in fashion. Like all parents who always want the best for their children, hers were not sure if this was some childhood fantasy, but when she continued to tow the same line as she grew older, showing clearly that her passion for fashion was innate, all they could do was give her all the encouragement- little wonder that she was enrolled at the Istituto Marangoni, one of the most prestigious fashion schools in London.

Now based in the United Kindom, Kanyisola who has already began to win accolades for her work was the cynosure of all eyes when she invited OVATION to witness her runway show during the graduation ceremony of students from the school.

The audience comprising of parents, teachers and fashion industry executives were wowed by the eclectic and creative designs of the students-and at the end of it all, the designers on show, got a resounding applause.

Kanyisola who has always been fascinated in her young years with traditional art and the different media used to express it has a penchant for extravagant colours. Experimenting with textiles and bold colours, she creates work of art with her different outfits.

At the show, she presented a collection based on the

concept called Defragmented Imperfection which is greatly influenced by digital aesthetics and age-long ideas and crafts. It was so refreshing to see her concepts, fragments and designs unify into a collection that was pleasing to the eyes and a hit on the runway!

Founded 77 years ago, with campuses in three of the world's style capitals – Milan, Paris and London, Istituto

Marangoni is recognised as one of the leading fashion schools on the planet.

The instution offers undergraduate and postgraduate programmes specialising in all areas of fashion, and students are taught by professionals with up-to-date industry knowledge, many of the tutors, have themselves passed through the school's excellent fashion factory.

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GONI GRUPPER

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MARIKA GRASSO

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AT THE ROYAL ENGAGEMENT OF

PRINCESS HAWA SULEMANA AND ABBOUD MUSAH GANNY Photo: Ben Dzakah & Family Album

The lovely couple

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hen a Princess from the Royal Kingdom of Asante Amoamang of the Ashanti Region of Ghana is getting engaged and 'plugged into' the tight-knit family of the Yoruba race of South Western Nigeria, specifically, Ogbomosho in Oyo State, one can expect nothing short of a great spectacle of rich traditional pomp and pageantry of both cultures – except on this very blessed occasion, it was the nuptials between Princess Hawa Benedicta Sulemana Halm and Mr. Musah Ganny and thus, the celebration was not merely a royal traditional ceremony but also a unique one, filled with pure finesse, showcasing the true grace and glory that God promised His children!

The event, which will linger in the memory of guests for a long time was held in the heart of Accra, Ghana at the regal home of the bride's mother, popularly known as Beth El. It was an afternoon of culture, colour and glamour and was an opportunity for members of both families to get up, close and personal, indeed, it was a very convivial occasion.

One noticeable feature of this wedding was the highcalibre of guests in attendance. For those who are close to the bride’s family, it was not a huge surprise because the family, we were told, is highly regarded in Ghana.

The father of the bride, Alhaji M.B. Sulemana, a royal, originating partly from Bole Bomboi in Northern Ghana and Kano in Northern Nigeria, was a former Ashanti Regional Propaganda Secretary and Member of Parliament for Subin Ashanti Region in Dr. Kwame Nkrumah's regime.

Popularly referred to as Nkrumah's Right-Hand Man, Alhaji Sulamana who is now resting in peace was spiritually present throughout. His immense clout and connection was felt, as many of those whose lives he touched while he was alive came to show their love to the family.

Meanwhile, the mother of the bride, Prophetess Mrs. Ernestina Veronica Halm, also a Princess of both the Adansi Formena and the Asante Amoamang Royal Kingdoms, made it a point to leave no stone unturned be it the outfits of the bride and groom which were custom-made by a top designer in Pakistan.

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The jewellery of the bride: a 24 carat gold trinket set with encrusted diamonds was superb. In addition, the uniquely expensive gift items including 1000 threadcount bed sheets, hand-cut Swiss lace tablecloths and customized cutlery set from Harrods of London was a statement of the regal style and class associated with the family.

The diagonally arranged seating of guests, presentation of the bridal items in pure sterling silver trays and the beautiful, well-decked maidens who presented the array of items were simply a sight to behold!

Mrs. Halm's unrivalled attention to detail, was utter class and was fitting for the dignitaries and Kings present which included former First Lady of Ghana and cousin of the bride, H.E. Mrs Nana Konadu Agyeman Rawlings and her mother, Mrs Felicia Agyeman, Mrs. Christina Boateng, the wife of the late UN Ambassador, Mr. Frank Edmund Boateng and world-renowned Literary giant, Professor Atukwei Okai who came with his family.

Others were the Chairperson of International Women's Aglow and aunt of the bride, Dr. Mrs. Dorothy Danso, Opanin Kwaku Duah, a Royal from Adansi Formena and uncle of the bride, the current King of Amoamang and cousin of the bride, Nana Agyenim Boateng I, Mr. Kwaku Mensa-Bonsu, a Royal of Amoamang and cousin of the bride and Nana Kofi Adu-Nti, a Royal from the Kokofu Clan and uncle of the bride.

That was not all: Alhaji Sitou Musah, (Father of the groom), Mrs. Hajia Sherry Fatou Musah (businesswoman and Mother of the groom), The Sariki Zongo of

Accra, Alhaji Kabiru English and delegation from the Chief Imam of Ghana, Sheikh Nuhu Shaributu and Mrs. Eugia Zakkour, wife of the NDC Vice Chairman Mr. Harry Zakkour all came to rejoice with the two families.

As it is the tradition, the two families met and interacted amidst a lot of singing, drumming and dancing, and also there was a prayer session before the lovebirds were officially joined as one body and one flesh.

This was in every sense an occasion and a half where all guests were pampered endlessly. The families did not settle for anything but the very best as the couple served the finest of custom-made champagnes when the toast was proposed.

As expected in an African traditional wedding, fun was a great part of the agenda and guests rollicked till well into the wee hours of the next day. Indeed it was a

The joyous bride, Princess Hawa Benedicta Halm Sulemana of the Ashanti Amaomeng Kingdom

Princesses Boadicea & Hawa as they prepare for the main event at home (aka) Beth- EL

custom haute couture garment from paskistan

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Usherettes from Univesity of Ghana, Legon

Nana Ama welcoming the King of Amoameng, Nana Agyenim Boateng I

Mother of the groom dances to Adowa drums

No true Royal can resist the rythm of the Adowa drums & here, Princess Hawa proves just that

Arrival of bride’s uncle, the Sariki Zongo of Accra & his entouage

The bride arrives covered in a veil

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The Sariki Zongo verifies bride’s acceptance of marriage

Breaking of Kolanuts

Bride’s brothers receive the customary “Akonta” dues from groom

The customary bridal items being ushered in with finesse & style

... and the bride is soon to be unveiled

Mother of the bride welcomes her sister, Mrs. Felicia Agyeman

Key Royal elders of the bride’s family, l-r, Zaraki Zongo, Nana A Boateng I, Opanim Kwaku Duah & Mr. Kwaku Mensah Bonsu

Mother of the groom with couple

Nana Afia Pokuaa II, (Queen Mother of Ashanti Amaomeng)

The late father of the bride, Alhaji M.B. Sulemana, a Member of Parliament for Subin,and UN Propaganda Secretary to Dr. Kwame Nkrumah

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Former First Lady arrives, Nana Konadu Agyemang Rawlings with a friend

Princess Boadicea, Couple & Mrs Naana Nelson

Dr. Mrs. Dorothy Danso

Aminu Sulemana & Alhaji Sulemana, bride’s brother & nephew

Groom’s sister, Miss Ganiat with H.E Nana Konadu Agyemang Rawlings

Groom’s mother, Hajia Sherry Fatou Musah

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Bride’s sisters: Baby Sulemana & Princess Boadicea

Bride with neices: Nana Afua & Brenda Osei-Bonsu

Prophetess Veronica Halm, H.E (Mrs) Nana Konadu Agyemeng Rawlings with Princess Boadicea

Bride’s nephew, Alhaji Sulemana & his mother, Mrs. Saadia Sulemana with couple

Bride’s brother, Haruna Sulemana(renowed businessman) TV host & Kofi Kapito

l-r, Mr Komla jnr, Mr Komla snr & Mrs W. Graves

god-sister of the bride, Lady Joan Nana Adaawa & Princess Boadicea

Awurama & hubby with couple

Joe Abeku Nelson, Kwaku Acka-Yensu & Michael Ocquay Jnr.

Madam Nana Ama Agyekum & Former First Lady Nana Konadu Agyemang Rawlings

Mrs. Benedicta Apiat, Mrs. Naana Nelson & Ms Yordanso Goushe

H.E. Nana Konadu Agyemang Rawlings in a handshake with Agnes Osei, & Madam Yaa Ataa Kyeremateng

R-l, Mrs Christina Boateng (wife of Amb. Boateng), Mrs Felicia Agymang (Mother of Mrs. Rawlings), Dr. Mrs Dorothy Danso (Head of Women Aglow) with H.E (Mrs) Rawlings

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Angela Kyeremanteng & Theresa

KKD, Master of Ceremonies

Princess Boadicea with cousin, Lady

Madam Anita Mensah-Bonsu with Oriel Duah & Princess Boadicea Boakye

Thomas Poku

Siblings of the bride

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Mrs. Naana Nelson with Princess Boadicea Sowee & Mr Edward Dey

Mrs. Eugia Harry Zakkour

Princess Hawa with Mrs Rawlings in a tete- a tete

Mrs. Baby Razak

Nana Agynim Boateng I & HRH Nana Kofi Adu Nti (Kokofu Royal) with couple

Princess Boadicea exchanging pleasantries with her mother & cousin, Mrs.Rawlings

Groom’s friend, Prince Ade with couple

Shuaibu (renowed businessman),Zidane, couple & Abubakar Sulemana (CIO of General Electric for Africa & Middle East)

Mother of the bride with her two daughters & groom

Zidane Abubakar & bride with Mr. & Mrs. Sam

Bride’s brother, Shauibu with the maidens

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Mr. & Mrs. Aidoo with Boadicea

Mrs. Sophia B, bride’s cousin with bride

The delectable mother of the bride Prophetess (Mrs.) Veronica Ernestina Halm

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Presentaion of bride’s Waist Gear in Emerald & Rubbies

Prof. Atuakwei Okai’s family with Boadicea & Abubakar

Lady Joan Crabbe & Mrs. Razak, wife of Football Coach, Abdul Razak

The Ashanti Royals with friends & family celebrate the couple

Yoruba dignitaries from Ogbomosho, Nigeria cutting the cake with couple

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DAYO OLOMU MAKING WAVES AS TOASTMASTER AND COMPERE IN LONDON

Top-rate Compere & Toastmaster, Dayo Olomu

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re you looking for an award-winning Toastmaster/Emcee/Corporate Compere for corporate events, birthdays or wedding receptions in London, United Kingdom, United Arab Emirates, United States of America or across Africa? Don’t look any further, Dayo Olomu, the No. 1 Master of Ceremonies (MC) in the United Kingdom, is the man to contact.

As an accomplished Advance Toastmaster, Dayo offers his experience and expertise in the handling of a wide range of functions, such as, wedding receptions, civic dinners, award ceremonies, VIP receptions, civic receptions, corporate events, product launches, promotions, musical concerts, formal dinners, sporting dinners and many more.

Underpinning Dayo’s style is a unique fusion of Nigerian and British culture, which gives his presentations a distinctive edge. His explicit professionalism combined with sincere and friendly dispositions have long been appreciated by clients.

Professionally trained by The Toastmasters International (he rose to become an Advance Toastmaster and a Founding President of a Toastmasters Club), Dayo has a wide experience spanning an assortment of events like those held at the Barbican Centre that seats 2000 people, iconic Dorchester Hotel Ball Room to a Country House wedding for 250 guests, Dayo has managed and handled them all in the past 15 years.

He has criss-crossed the world handling events and getting accolades for his professionalism. His ability to arrest the attention of a wide-range of audience has also been a strong point that has kept the Dayo Olomu brand sizzling.

Dayo incorporates the concept of equality, diversity and inclusion in any social gathering or corporate event to make it humorous and memorable. He always keeps his audience amused and entertained throughout with his lively wit and banter.

By using the services of Dayo as a Toastmaster at your event, you can be assured and confident that everything will run smoothly. Add elegance and style to that

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very special occasion with discreet guidance and advice from an advance toastmaster. It will be worth your while and certainly worthy of the funds spent.

At any event, you need to be assured that everything will be conducted with style, panache and pageantry, you need an expert that would ensure that every guest will thoroughly enjoy the proceedings without stress or hitches.In today’s world there is no room for excuses and that is why a professional like Dayo Olomu is essential.

A wedding day or any special event involves many different components, the wedding party, guests, venue, photographer, video, restaurant, bar, kitchen staff, band

or entertainers all these need to be co-ordinated to ensure that everything works well. It is vital that a toastmaster is present to link everything and ensure that nothing is forgotten and all works to time.

Dayo does more than emceeing at parties; apart from being a certified Fire Marshal, he can also coordinate the cutting of the cake and propose the toast.

See Dayo doing this at: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kCJnKQE_4tI So, whatever the occasion, Dayo knows that it is extra special to you and will do all within his power to give you that “added value” to make your event the one that everyone remembers and talks about. He can trans-

form your special event into a truly memorable occasion that will linger on in the minds of your guests for a long time.

You can contact Dayo directly on +44 7956 065 608 or via email at: info@dayoolomu.com

Awards and accomplishments: Master of Ceremonies, Toastmaster & Compere since 1996, Founding President – Croydon Communicators Toastmaster Club in 2005, Advance Toastmaster Bronze Award- Toastmasters International 2006, Competent Leader Award - Toastmasters International 2006, Competent Toastmaster Award 2004 - Toastmasters International, Winner UK Master of Ceremonies of the Year 2009 – NYA Awards, Nominee – UK Event Presenter of the Year 2010 – BEFTTA Awards

Testimonials: Dayo: "I am very impressed with the professional way you anchored the 50th birthday of Captain Ibraheem Olugbade, the Nigeria Alternate Permanent Representative to the International Maritime Organisation. Well done." - His Excellency, Ambassador Oluwatoyin Kayode Lawal, Deputy Nigerian High Commissioner to United Kingdom _________ You are an excellent MC. Funny and motivational at Life Changers Awards - Prem Goyal OBE JP _________ Dayo, you are one of the best African masters of ceremonies that I have seen in London in recent times. You are fantastic. Linda Baker, West London ________________ Thanks for helping to make our wedding so special! You were so helpful and kind to meet with us before the wedding and to meet all the additional requests from our family members! We would definitely recommend your services to anyone planning a wedding or any other event. Your patience and professionalism shined throughout from the planning stage to the last dance. Busola & Busola Akinyemi _________________ I was highly impressed by your disposition and wonderful outing as a master of ceremonies during the Investment Summit of November 24&25 at the Custom House Hotel. You did a very good job. You are a very sartorial, humble and very unassuming person and I thank God for your life. - Dr. Akin Akintunji, Lagos.

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CHILDREN’S HEART FOUNDATION HOSTS A COLOURFUL FUNDRAISER IN ACCRA

By Ben Dzakah

Mrs. Surama King, Ms.Folake Ojo, Mrs.Karen Hendrickson, Mrs.Jacqui AhomkaLindsey & Mrs.Grace Krobo-Edusei

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he Children's Heart Foundation Ghana has done it again! As usual, the charity held its annual fundraiser to raise money for underprivileged Ghanaian children requiring open heart surgery for their congenital heart conditions- and it was fun galore.

The theme of this momentous event was The Oscars, Hollywood through the years. There was great anticipation and excitement in Accra for those who were lucky enough to get a ticket to this exclusive event because of the massive pre-event publicity.

The night lived up to its billing of Old Hollywood glamour from the moment guests arrived at the spectacular Omayne Hall of the Labadi Beach Hotel. They were greeted by a dazzling red carpet flanked with two large Oscar statues amid the flashing light bulbs of the paparazzi as they jostled to get pictures of the glamorous

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Arthur Hubert receiving award from top artiste, Gyedu Blay Ambolley

guests who had come to partake in the evening’s gala activities.

Upon entering the cocktail area, guests were greeted by smiling usherettes offering them an array of cool welcoming beverages. The Cocktail area was beautifully decorated with the Hollywood theme in mind. The music score of many movies wafted through the state of the art surround system. Guests also dressed the part, they came adorned in an array of exquisite bespoke evening gowns and tuxedos. As expected, Each guest happily posed for a formal official photograph in front of the large CHF Ghana Hollywood backdrop. The smiles, the happy chatter, and the air of anticipation filled the atmosphere like the sweet nectar of a delicate flower.

The guests used the 45 minutes before the official beginning of the event to catch up with old friends and to

make new ones.

At 8.p.m.on the dot, the doors to the magnificent Omayne Hall were opened to a breath-taking Hollywood-themed room; complete with gold and black Hollywood signs and magical twinkling stars suspended from the ceiling across the room. As the candles twinkled on each table, the gold and black decor of the tables glowed ethereally. The guests gasped in admiration as they took in the exquisite decor and ambience of the room while the musical scores of major motion pictures provided soothing comfort as it enveloped all those present.The Children's Heart Foundation Ghana Trustees and their volunteers then proceeded to raise the curtain on a fun-filled, well organized series of activities that included some of Ghana's major actors and actresses headlined by none other than Funny Face himself.

Award to Ghana Homes Loan by Gyedu Blay Ambolley

Madam Rita, Richard Nwaobi & Ademola

Mr. Chester Ani

Daina Aba Anku

Nathasia Nylander, Ruth & Edwiner

Titi, Dele & Tina

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Mrs. Ewurama King (left)

Bernard Akoi Jackson

Patrika Davis, Richard Nwaobi & wife

Sigrid & Johann

Sharon

Ms. Sally & Adelaide

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Maame Adu-Gyamfi

Mrs.Grace Krobo Edusei & guest

Mr. Venan Sondo

Gifty Quarm & Mrs. Theresa Ayoade

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In true Funny Face style he had the audience roaring with laughter. In addition to the comedy segment, there was an accessory fashion show highlighting phenomenal Ghana made jewelry that the audience was invited to buy right off the models as they shashayed around the venue.

Amidst the verbal and visual delights, a silent auction was being held with the major items up for bidding included two business class tickets in British airways to the UK! In between all the activities the guests were enticed onto the dance floor to dance the night away to the oldie Goldie's, Hiplife and R&B. Many times throughout the night the tables emptied as if by The best dressed couple award winner

Mandy Johnson & Sefakor Acquaye

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Mr.& Mrs. Robert Ahomka Lindsey

magic and the dance floor overflowed with Hollywood styled ladies and gentlemen dancing to the familiar melodic tunes they had loved over the years.

The serious part of the night was when the President of the CHF Ghana Mrs. Jacqui Ahomka-Lindsay, addressed the audience reminding them of their responsibility to the underprivileged children whose parents could not afford the cost of open heart surgery. She appealed to donors, sponsors, corporate and individual for more support.

Mrs. AhomkaLindsay's brief but heartfelt address was immediately followed by a documentary which showcased some of the

(l) Anne Muna

Gyedu Blay Ambulley & Richard Nwaobi

Reinette Snowden with Mr.& Mrs. Bradbury

Roselyn Ampah & Mrs. Jackie Akuffo Addo

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actual children and families that had benefited from the work of the Children's Heart Foundation Ghana. From the looks on the faces of the guests the documentary had a profound effect as it drove home the point how they could 'Have a heart...Save a life'.

Then it was soon time to present "the Oscar" awards to the top six financial donors, individual donor and the top 5 supporters in kind (Services or products) over the last 4 years! Each winner had their award presented to them by a celebrity.

Making the award segment that much more stellar.

And just when the audience was thinking the schedule of events had been concluded and they could just dance the night away, they were told that 5 members of the audience had also won awards for being best dressed.

The round of applause was thunderous as unsuspecting but glamorous ladies and gents were called to the stage to receive their trophy.

With programme formalities finalized the DJ went into full gear playing great music until the wee hours of the morning. As the guests left they were heard to remark that this was the best CHF Ghana event yet and they had been so moved by the impact of what CHF Ghana was doing that they wanted to contribute in whatever way they can. Some were even heard to say "They have a heart and want to save a life" Ama K Abebrese

Funny Face

Labadi Beach Hotel receiving an award from Funny Face

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Best dressed female award winner

LA-PALM ROYAL BEACH HOTEL, ACCRA OPENS

NEW CLASSY

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By Ben Dzakah

Exterior view of the classy, lobby

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a Palm Royal Beach Hotel, the flagship of the Golden Beach Hotels group has re-launched its brand at a colourful cocktail reception well attended by giants in the tourism industry. The hotel has over the past year dedicated resources at ensuring consistent opulent luxury to its esteemed guests.

The tape cutting ceremony of the newly renovated lobby and continental restaurant was coordinated by the Honourable Minister of Tourism and Creative Arts, Elizabeth Ofosu-Adjare, representatives of the Social Security and National Insurance Trust (SSNIT), Golden Beach Hotels board, the Director General of SNNIT, some members of the diplomatic corps, corporate clients and friends of the hotel.

In her speech, the Honourable Minister commended

the hotel for its dedication to quality service and track record of excellence. She praised the hotel’s commitment to the development of the tourism industry through its prompt payment of the 1% Tourism levy noting that this attitude of the hotel was worthy of emulation.

The Acting General Manager of La Palm Royal Beach Hotel, Mrs. Marigold Mingle elaborated that the renovation was painstakingly done to guarantee and offer the best for all guests. She admits that the wait has been a while but judging from the results, it has been worth the wait. She encouraged all La Palm’s corporate clients and friends of the hotel to visit and enjoy all the new additions: a renovated lobby, classy restaurant, a complete refurbishment of all bedrooms and a dedicated team of well -trained and equipped staff who were there

to ensure that guests’ stay at the La Palm Royal Beach Hotel was memorable.The hotel has consistently undergone a meticulous renovation on piecemeal basis and has succeeded at holistically transforming the facility.

The frontview of the hotel has been rejuvenated and propels guests to step into the lobby which defines a world of luxury and contemporary style. While the 162 chaletstyled rooms have also been given a total uplift.

A tour of the property was conducted by the La Palm team. Invited guests gave a resounding nod to the “new La Palm” and are hopeful of happy moments in the hotel with endless possibilities. The event climaxed with a beautiful cocktail reception in the elaborately decorated swimming pool area amidst live band music.

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The ceremony grounds

Mr. Percy Commey (CEO of Golden Beach Hotels)

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Nii Tettey Kpobi Tsuri III (La Mantse)

Mr. Andy Okrah & Hon. Elizabeth Ofosu Adjare (Minister for Tourism and Creative Arts)

Bishop Emmanuel Ackun (Victory Bible Church)

Hon. Minister for Tourism & Creative Arts, Hon. Elizabeth Ofosu-Adjare

Mr. Frank Adu Jnr., Mr. Kweku Botwe, Rev. Dr. Adjei-Mensah & Massimillano Taricone

Bishop E. Ackun, Mr. Ernest Thompson, Hon. Elizabeth Ofosu-Adjare & Mr. Frank Adu

Mrs. Marigold Mingle (Acting General Manager of La-Palm) leading a tour of the facilities

Kobina Sarpong, Mutsui Odjidja & Richard Damoah

(From 2nd left) Stacy Amoateng, Majid Michel & Virna Michel

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Linda Boakye (GBH) & Joana Lartey

Mrs. Marigold Mingle (Acting General Manager of La Palm) with kitchen staff

Ann Marie (right)

Mr. Cheetan Mingle & Bishop Emmanuel Ackun

Mr. Klutse, Mr. Kweku Botwe, Mr. Commey & Frank Adu

Access Bank team

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Mrs. Marigold Mingle (Acting General Manager of La-Palm) & Kafui Klutse (Head of Finance GBH)

Otunba & Olori Segun Adekoya enjoying excellent canapes prepared by the Chef

Stacy Amoateng, Victoria Michaels & Mrs. Virna Michel

Mr. Frimpong, Kafui Narh & Mitsui Odidja

Mrs. Sophia Anthonio & Emmanuel Klu

Nana Konadu Boateng (Sales & Marketing Manager of La-Palm)

Polidoki Monia & Teodora Mvtafchiyska

Elizabeth Adabie & Michael Arthur

Hon. Minister Elizabeth Ofosu Adjare & Mr. Frank Adu

Mrs. Linda Boakye (GBH)

Mr. Sam Poku

Mr. Kwabens Agyekum (Executive Director of CIMG)

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Front office & reservation executives

MBA Central Reservations team and La-Palm Sales and Marketing Manager

Ms. Grace Quinoo & La-Palm managers

La Palm General Manager with her team of Managers

Madam Joyce Dickens (FAO)

Sales & Marketing team

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Sous Chef Rudulf & his team

A WONDERFUL CELEBRATION OF LOVE FOR

‘SEGUN AINA AND MOTUNRAYO AJADI IN LAGOS

Story: Efemena Collins Photo: Abraham Falodun

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appy is the man who finds a true friend and far happier is he who finds that true friend in his wife. When Segun Raymond Aina first set his eyes on gorgeous Motunrayo Rufina Ajadi whose hand he recently took in marriage, he was instantly love struck. He knew there was something special about her and made it his primary objective to be close to her.

When they did become close, he found that she was made up of more than he had imagined – she was sexy, smart and certainly, the sweetest human being he had ever met. His heart melted and before long, he knew that he had found his missing rib.

Thankfully, the feeling was mutual. Segun has a warm, genial and irresistible personality that very few can ignore. This was why it wasn’t difficult at all for Motunrayo to be swept off her feet. Over time, their friendship blossomed beautifully into an unbreakable love bond and they just knew within themselves that they were meant to spend the rest of their lives together.

It was that strong mutual affection that was evident to all when the two lovebirds said “I do” before family and friends at the Catholic Church of Divine Mercy, Lekki, Phase 1, in Lagos. Their journey to matrimony however began with a colourful, culture-rich engagement at the Red Carpet Event Centre, Oniru, in Lagos where hordes of happy friends and family members assembled to celebrate the joyous occasion. For them, it was time for faaji as the Yorubas call a celebration or having a good time.

No one throws a lavish traditional party like the Yorubas; ‘Segun and Motunrayo’s party was no exception. The event venue was laid out spectacularly to reflect the essence of the occasion with various traditional ornaments and accessories as well as palm plants were deployed beautifully and strategically around the venue by the event planners to create that lively and convivial ambience that was full of culture and colour.

The centre pieces on each table captured the creativity on display perfectly with the use of bamboo sticks, gourds and beads.

In keeping with tradition, the bride’s family was the first into the venue. Mr. Adewale Ajadi and Princess Adedolapo Oni stood in as the bride’s parents. Both were dressed elegantly in matching Aso Oke traditional

outfits and accompanied by a bevy of beautiful ladies who shone resplendently in matching golden yellow ensembles matched with purple headgears.

After they had settled down, then the groom’s family also danced into the venue led by the groom’s parents, Professor and Mrs. Oluremi Aina who were all smiles and took their seats in an adjacent position to the bride’s family.

According to Yoruba custom, the groom’s family is required to present a collection of items as special gifts to the bride’s family. Segun’s family presented different food items including fat tubers of yam, honey, salt, alligator pepper, sugar, as well as a boxes of clothes, crates of beverages, wrapped baskets of different fruits and other wrapped items. It is believed in Yoruba culture that the quality and quantity of the gifts usually reflect the value placed on the bride by her suitor and his family.

The Ainas proved themselves quite up to the task in this department. The two families then exchange letters: A

letter of intent from the groom’s family and a letter of acceptance from the bride’s family.

With the traditional comperes coordinating proceedings, Segun was welcome into the venue. He was basking with delight in a majestic white buba and sokoto which he topped off with a blue agbada and a matching cap, accessorizing these with neck and wrist beads.

He danced into the venue accompanied by his band of cutely garbed friends and proceeded to prostrate before his bride’s family as a mark of respect, who then showered blessings on him. He afterwards proceeded with his friends to bow before his own parents who also prayed for him.

After Segun had taken his seat in the couple’s special seating area, his anticipation became palpable but he didn’t have to wait too long. His gorgeous bride was soon to make an appearance. Motunrayo looked the part of an African queen in her white iro and buba, blue aso oke and head gear which matched that of beau, She also accessorized her outfit with beads 239

The new couple

The Groom, Segun Aina stepping in with friends

Groom & mother

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Groom with his parents

Groom’s Parents, Prof. & Mrs. Oluremi Aina

Bride with friends arriving in style

Mr. Adewale Ajadi, bride & Mrs. Ajibola Alade

Couple exchanging rings

Couple praying for each other

Prof. Oluremi Aina & wife with Prof. Dibu Ojerinde

Mrs. Titi Malik, bride & Mrs. Joy Ajadi

Mr. Adewale Ajadi, Bayo Ajadi & Prof. Oluremi Aina

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Both parents with the couple

Prince Tunde Ponnle with Prince & Princess Samuel Adedoyin

Couple with sisters: Bolanle, Folake, Sope & Teju

Mrs. Oluremi Aina, Funmi Agene & guest

Kemi Familusi, Princess Adedolapo Oni & Adefunke Ogunyale

Alhaji & Alhaja Osuade Ajadi

Groom with friends

Lara, Adedolapo & Shade

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Busola Ogunyemi, Princess Adedolapo Oni, Tutu Denton, Omasan Buwa & guest

Shola John, Omowunmi Magnus-Davies & Folake Joseph

Prof. & Mrs. Babalola Borisade

Mrs. Ajibola Alade, Princess Adedolapo Oni & groom’s mother

Otunba Adebayo Alao-Akala & I. A. Boladuno (Rtd A.I.G)

Prof. Babalola Borisade, Mr. Folu Olamiti & Chief Ayo Akinyemi

Abdullahi Ado Bayero, Mr. Folu Olamiti & Isa Ozi Salami

Juliet Esiri, Joy Ajadi, Couple Mr. & Mrs. Segun Aina & Titi Olufosoye

Cecilia Aina, Jasmine Dolex-Bouggs, Funmibi Ogunlesi & Kanmaji Osode

Dr. & Mrs. Segun Aina with couple, Mr. & Mrs. Segun Raymond Aina

Adedolapo Oni, Chief Olu Okeowo, Stanley Adeyemi & other dignitaries

Isreal Ekundayo & his Manna juju band

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THE SOLEMANIZATION

Couple’s Rolls Royce & Limousine infront of the Catholic Church of Divine Mercy

Couple with Bestman & Maid of Honour during church service

Oladapo Odukoya taking the first Bible reading

Prof. & Mrs. Oluremi Aina with H.E Titilayo Tomori, Deputy Governor of Osun State during church service

Mr. & Mrs. Adewale Ajadi

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Segun Raymond Aina greeting Prince Olagunsoye Oyinlola

Motunrayo Rufina Ajadi greeting Prince Olagunsoye Oyinlola

The couple observing wedding rite

Ministers presenting wedding certificate to couple

Princess Adedolapo Oni & Mrs. Ajibola Alade

Mrs. Olu Aina & Otunba Mrs. Titilayo Tomori

Couple with sponsors during special thanksgiving

Couple with officiating ministers, sponsors & parents

while clasping a blue clutch. Her face was covered in a transparent veil designed with blue flower embroideries.

She was accompanied by her friends who were looking scintillating in their own matching maroon outfits and headgears. She knelt before both their families for prayers, then proceeded to take her place by her husband. She was required by one of the MCs to place Segun’s cap properly on his head to demonstrate that she had been properly trained on the intricacies of caring for her husband. She passed the test excellently, earning herself a rousing applause from the elated audience.

With the love in their hearts gleaming in their eyes, the heartthrobs exchanged engagement rings and kissed passionately. Then they cut their creatively crafted engagement cake that was designed to look like a palm wine gourd covered with beads and Kola nuts.

Couple stepping out of the church after service

And of course, throughout the event the couple was absorbed in each other’s world, sharing smiles and constant glances, unwittingly revealing to everyone present that theirs was a match made in heaven. Also, musical entertainment was at its peak as Israel Ekundayo and his Manny Juju Band serenaded the esteemed guests with enjoyable music. The couple later changed into a new set of native outfits with which the duo, enveloped by loved ones, hit the dance floor. Everyone who came attested to the success and excitement of the engagement ceremony.

At the Catholic Church of Divine Mercy where their English-themed wedding unfolded, love was in the air and the joy that bubbled in the hearts of the couple was infectious. It rubbed off on their parents, families, peers and associates. The couple arrived at the church in eye-

catching fashion. Segun was the first on ground arriving in a sleek Rolls Royce Phantom, looking dapper in his navy blue suit matched with an orange bow-tie and pocket square. Later, Motunrayo was ferried down to the church in a white hummer stretch limo. She was quite the fairytale bride in her mermaid wedding piece which accentuated her hour glass figure perfectly.

The service progressed smoothly and swiftly with the Officiating Minister praying for the couple and advising them to build their home on the sure foundation of God’s principles. Anticipation built up when it was time for the groom to kiss his bride but that was not before the priest had pronounced them husband and wife to the excitement of everyone present. Thanksgiving followed while the couple and family representatives signed the marriage register.

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Couple with Sir Gabriel Igbinedion (Esama of Benin Kingdom)

Couple with groom’s parents

Couple with bride’s parents

Couple with bride’s family

Dr. Seun Ojerinde & Princess Adedolapo Oni

Nike Adejokun, Princess Adedolapo Oni, Theresa Ajao & Ayoola Olusanya

Best man, Muyiwa Aina & Chief bride’smaid

Couple with friends

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Couple with bridal train & men in suit

Couple with the Oni’s

RECEPTION

Prof. Dibu Ojerinde & Sir Gabriel Igbinedion

Chairman of the event, Chief Olu Okeowo delivering his speech

Bashorun Dele Momodu, Mr. Adewale Ajadi & Chief Femi Akinrinade

Dr. & Mrs. Paye Adeleke

The Anyiam-Osigwe family with Mr. Adewale Ajadi

Prof. Olu Aina, Bashorun Dele Momodu & Prof. Dibu Ojerinde

A posh and entertaining reception followed soon after as the wedding train moved to Ruby Gardens in Lekki where they met a beautifully decked out venue that oozed royal splendor.

All the glamorous guests who added class to the event knew as they entered the reception marquee that they were in for a swell time as the couple’s families made sure to thrill their guests with sumptuous cuisines and exotic drinks.

The impressive turnout also revealed that the couple and their families are a wonderful lot who enjoy the love and goodwill of a great number of people. Also, while the hosts and their guests savoured the goodies on offer, well-equipped security patrols were on guard to ensure the safety of guests.

Popular comedian, Omo Baba compered the grand celebration expertly making sure there was no dull mo-

Princess Dolapo Oni with friends

ment from start to finish and ensuring that the guests did not lack rib-tickling humour. Chairman of the ceremony, Chief Olu Okeowo advised Segun and Motunrayo not to accommodate the intrusion or interference of third parties in their home and affairs.

He urged the newlyweds to learn to stick with each other through thick and thin and to keep their marriage brimming by being quick to apologise and make up whenever one hurts or offends the other. “With love in the home, whenever one of you hurts the other, be quick to admit your fault, laugh over it and forget about it,” Chief Okeowo counseled. Later, Doctor Seun Ojerinde proposed a toast to the couple. quipping that they would have dozens of children.

Notable dignitaries that were part of the love-fest included OVATION Magazine publisher, Bashorun Dele Momodu; Deputy Governor of Osun State, H.E (Mrs.)

Titilayo Tomori, Prince Tokunbo Sijuwade, Esama Of Benin Kingdom, Sir Gabriel Igbinedion, former Oyo State Governor, Otunba Adebayo Alao-Akala; UTME Registrar, Professor Dibu Ojerinde; Former Minister of Education, Prof. Babalola Borisade, Prof. and Mrs Wale Omole, Prince Abdullahi Bayero and a host of others.

The excitement continued to bubble over as the popular Shuga Band delivered a medley of contemporary and classical music that had everyone, young and old, boogying and rollicking without airs. That was not all, Disc Jockey Banky also delighted guests with hit song after song, leaving everyone filled with non-stop fun.

It was a long day but a fun-filled and thoroughly gratifying one for the newlyweds, particularly for their parents who expressed their gratitude to Almighty God and thanked friends who came in from all over the world to celebrate the special and memorable day with them.

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Sir Gabriel Igbinedion officiating the cutting of the cake

Groom feeding his wife

Hon. Dr. M. Oladimeji, Bashorun Dele Momodu & Former Senate President, Chief Adolphus Wabara

Chief Femi Akinrinade, Bashorun Dele Momodu, Mr. Bankola Akinrinade, Princess Dolapo Oni & Prince Tokunbo Sijuade

Bashorun Dele Momodu with Chief & Mrs. Timmy Kolawole

Bashorun Dele Momodu, Prince Tokunbo Sijuade, Mr. Banjo Omisore, Prince Oyewunmi Sijuade & Prince Aderemi Sijuade

Mrs. Malik, couple & Bashorun Dele Momodu

Prof. & Mrs. Wale Omole with Prof. & Mrs. Olu Aina

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Funmibi Ogunlesi, Dolex Bouggs & Kanmaji

Princess Dolapo Oni with friends

CELEBRATING

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VERY REV. AMA ATO BLAY AT 70

oy. Yes Joy unlimited was how one can describe the way the ever bubbly Very Reverend Ama Afo Blay felt when family and friends gathered to celebrate her 70th birthday.

The woman of God and Minister of the Methodist Church began the day as expected in the presence of the Lord with a Thanksgiving Service at the Calvary Methodist Church, Accra, Ghana and had such Clergies as The Most Reverend Prof. Emmanuel K Asante (President Bishop) and Rt. Rev Dr. Kwaku Asamoah-Okyere (Administrative Bishop) officiating.

Service proper took shape with the call to worship by Very Rev. Archer followed by the Lord's Prayer and then choruses that were soul-lifting and truly enjoyed by the congregation.

While Kojo Adu-Gyamfi took the first Bible Reading from Isaiah 46:3, 5-9, the second Bible Reading was by Davina AduBoamah from Psalm 91, thereafter, the service progressed smoothly reaching a crescendo with the rendition of the famous Halleluiah Chorus which marked the end of the spirit-filled occasion.

Later, guests of Very Reverend Blay headed to Cleaver House in the heart of

Accra where a lively reception was organized. Guests were well pampered by the celebrant and her children.

Born on October 7th, 1944 to the Blay Family of Nzema, her father fondly called Lawyer Blay was the first Lawyer in Nzema and was a staunch Methodist.

She attended Sekondi Primary School A from January 1949-December 1954, Mmofraturo Girls Boarding School, Kumasi from 1955-1956, Wesley Girls High School, Cape Coast from Janaury 1957-June 1961, Aburi Girls' Secondary School 'A Levels' from September 1961 -June 1963, University College of Cape Coast, October 1964-June 1967 (B.Sc Diploma, Education), October 1989-1991, Emporia State University, Kansas, USA (MBA in Guidance & Counselling) and 2000 Trinity Theological Seminary, Certificate in Ministry.

She worked with the Ghana Education Service where she rose to the position of Director-General of the Service in 2002, entering the records book as the first female to occupy such an enviable position. She retired from the service on July 29, 2004.

After retirement, she served as Coordinator for Religious activities at UNICEF for a year before going into full time Ministry.

Very Rev. Ama Afo Blay

The birthday cake

Celebrant & grandchildren

Rt. Rev. Prof. Emmanuel Asante

Master Kojo Adu-Gyamfi

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Dinah & Davinah

Mrs. Arthur Mensah & Bishop Jonfia

Hon. & Mrs. Sekyi Hughes

.Hon. & Mrs Agyapong with Mr. Dompreh & Paapa Bawuah

Mr. & Mrs. Tei Kitcher with Mrs. Georgine Quasie

Mr. Yaw Adu-Gyamfi Jnr. & celebrant

Mrs. Faustina Mills & Mrs. Comfort Edusei

Mrs. Mary Chinery-Hesse with Hon. Dr. & Mrs. Addo-Kufuor

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Prof. & Mrs Dr. Yaw Adu-Gyamfi

Mr Abe Edusei & Mr. Akufo-Addo

50 HEARTY

CHEERS FOR

FOLUSO ADEAGBO Story & Photo: Segun Lawal

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hey say Forty is the old age of youth and Fifty is the youth of old age. None could have made that statement truer than successful businessman, Foluso Adeagbo who was superdelighted as he marked his golden anniversary in the company of family and friends.

Of course, many would have expected him to make a loud bang and throw a lavish city-shaking shindig to commemorate the landmark but he opted for a tempered, low-key soiree, inviting only his nearest and dearest to his posh Banana Island, Ikoyi Lagos home for a session of praise, worship and thanksgiving followed later by some bites and drinks.

What the party lacked in size, it more than made up for in substance with the celebrant's array of respectable guests and of course first-rate hospitality delivered by the celebrant and his adorable wife, Omolara made the day extra special.

Guests of the celebrant such as the Osile of Oke-Ona Egba, Oba Adedapo Tejuoso, his wives and sons, Prof. Ishola Akinwunmi, OVATION Publisher, Bashorun Dele Momodu; Senator Tokunbo Afikuyomi and respected man of God, Pastor Ituah Ighodalo were all at the intimate pool-side ceremony.

The event kicked off with praise and worship coordinated by the Trinity Voices as the celebrant, his wife and children, Nike and Modupe, danced and sang heartily, giving thanks and Glory to God. Of course no one could outdo the celebrant in the thanksgiving department as he expressed joy over the many blessings of God in his life and family. Pastor Ituah Ighodalo of the Trinity House Church & the Prelate of the Methodist Church of Nigeria, Dr. Sunday Ola Makinde, took turns to give some words of exhortation and pray for the celebrant and his family.

Soon after the thanksgiving session The celebrant, Foluso Adeagbo

Celebrant & wife, Omolara

Nike, Modupe & Omolara Adeagbo

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The celebrant, Foluso Adeagbo welcoming Oba Adedapo Tejuoso

Femi Adeagbo with mum, Mama Adeagbo

Pastor Ituah Ighodalo of Trinity House Church & Prelate of the Methodist Church of Nigeria Dr. Sunday Ola Makinde

A cross section of Men of God at the ceremomy

Modupe Adeagbo taking a reading from the Bible

Oba Adedapo Tejuoso & his wives

Prof. & Mrs. Akinwunmi Ishola

Deji Okoya-Thomas (left)

Celebrant recieving spiritual blessing from the Prelate of Methodist Church of Nigeria

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Mrs. Ishola, Mrs. Omolara Adeagbo, celebrant,Prof. Akinwunmi Ishola, Prelate of the Methodist Church of Nigeria, Dr. Sunday Ola Makinde & Mama Adeagbo

Bashorun Dele Momodu & Rotimi Obey

Mrs. Omolara Adeagbo, Princess Adetutu Adeshida, Regent of Akure, celebrant & mum with Pastor Ituah Ighodalo

Elder John Adebanjo & wife

Akin George-Taylor (R)

Dada Turner, Toyin Lawson & Catherine Obajuwana

Segun Adeyemi, Bolaji Adewemimo & Prince Femi Tejuoso

ended, the wining, dining and dancing began in earnest. Juju legend, King Sunny Ade regaled everyone with his evergreen classics-and there was no dull moment throughout.

Foluso Adeagbo is the Managing Director/ Chief Executive Officer of Cumnavig Securex Limited, a security solutions outfit. He also owns GABFOL Lounge at Murtala Muhammed International Airport in Lagos. The state-of-theart relaxation centre is a full-fledged premium lounge designed for the utmost relaxation and enjoyment of travellers.

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Jumoke Omojola, Eniola Karunmi & Mr. Karunmi

Limited.

Adeagbo graduated from the University of Ife (now Obafemi Awolowo University), Ile-Ife, Osun State, where he obtained a first degree in Philosophy. He later travelled to the United Kingdom where he worked with the Department of Health, and served under two ministers, William Waldgrave & Virginia Bottomley.

He later moved to another agency with the Department of Health - the Medicines Control Agency, which was his last post before returning home in 1999 to invest heavily in communications and security solutions.

The Adeagbos

Dare Owolabi, Gbenga Olunloyo, Femi Adeagbo,Bashorun Dele Momodu, Foluso Adeagbo with Senator Tokunbo Afikuyomi

Mrs. Bola Obasanjo, Princess Adetutu Adesida, Foluso Adeagbo & Olatunji Adesida

Mr. & Mrs. Ajetunmobi

Gbenga Olunloyo, Prince Femi Tejuoso, Bahorun Dele Momodu with Senator Tokunbo Afikuyomi

Rasaq Adewole (right)

Foluso Adeagbo with Prince Kayode Tejuoso

Dr. Dedun Adegbenro & Tomi Adegbenro

Chike Ogeah with Bashorun Dele Momodu

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Hakeem Muri-Okunola (left)

Hon. Titi Oseni, Tunde Oshinowo & Hon. Jumoke Okoya-Thomas

Kehinde Obebe, Banke Ola, Bimbo Obebe, Mrs. Yemisi Raji & Folashade

Mrs. Olubunmi Gbadamosi & Mrs. Olukemi Ibironke

Mrs. Omolara Adeagbo with friends

Mrs. Omolara Adeagbo with friends

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King Sunny Ade

OVATION CELEBRATES THE WEDDING OF

NIKE OLADUNNI AND EMMANUEL OMORODION Interview: Segun Adebowale & Debby Iyaki Photo: Solomon Ekyaiyemhe

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ndeed it was such a spectacular moment for Deputy Comptroller of the Nigeria Customs Service, Morenike Oladunni when she walked down the aisle with Emmanuel Omorodion in Lagos. The wedding ceremony which was filled with prayers, praises as well as the full pageantry of the Customs service, was a day of joy. After the fun-filled occasion, the bride, a committed Christian and Philanthropist, spoke with OVATION.

Congratulations on the success of your wedding, it must feel like a new beginning for you

Thank you very much. I agree with you that it has been a new beginning. It is a new relationship, we are looking forward to having a great time and a beautiful married life. I am fulfilled, prayers have been answered and I am getting what I have always wanted. I have always been confronted with this question, ‘Mrs. who are you?’ whenever I go for ministration and I told God to give me a child of His, to support me. People expect Ministers of God to be married and I get such inquiries most of the time. I love talking about God, I enjoy the word of God and I love God so much. I have learnt so much about offering from Pastors Matthew Ashimolowo, Femi Fasheru and Mike Murdock. I partner with Mike Murdock and Murdock talks about the blessings of Isaiah 58.We should cultivate the habit of giving and not just any type of giving, but giving appropriately. We should contribute to projects in Churches so that God can use you as a project. Our ministers do not preach the art of giving the way it ought to be preached. African Ministers as a whole are integrity conscious. The Bible is rich and inter-woven. I love one scripture which was an eyeopener for me, Nehemiah 13 Vs 14,31. I want you to study that scripture.

But most of our Preachers are prosperity Preachers

It is a lie. If you want to know prosperity Preachers, listen to Mike Murdock or Rod Parsley.

Back to your wedding, between then and now, what has been the experience

Blissful, beautiful and stress free. I feel 29 years younger. Now we do some things we did between 18 and

23. We relax, listen to music together and go down memory lane. I also have somebody to wake me up with and say 'Let us praise and pray to God'. Sometimes, I find myself held up in traffic and I get home to find my husband waiting for me so we could eat together, no matter how hungry he is! Sometimes, he calls me when I am in the office to ask what I would love to eat and he would ask me to meet him somewhere so that we can eat. When you talk of a new beginning, I have found somebody who cares for me like it never before. I have found somebody who is interested in everything I do. I have found a friend, confidant and brother. This is amazing for someone who lost her father about 12 years ago.

Is this your first marriage

No. I got married in 1991, but due to several issues, it finally broke down in 2004. I got a divorce in 2005.

Are there things you are likely to do better now compared to the first one

Yes. Patience, tolerance and understanding. Moreover, there is no perfect marriage anywhere but you have to contribute and support. Like Dr. Olukoya will tell you, ‘’somebody has to be deaf and the other one has to be dumb.’’ My husband and I tell each other on a daily basis that, ‘’This marriage has come to stay.’’

How was the wedding

It was more than I wanted. Everything that I had always wanted as a young girl, I got as an old girl.

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Emmanuel Omorodion, Chief Olusegun Obansanjo & Nike Oladunni

Bride with Former President, Chief Olusegun Obasanjo

Prof. Olufoweji Tunde, Chief (Mrs.) Oladunni & Olori Shade Momoh

Otunba Funso Ajayi with Olori Yinka Ajayi

Bishop Matthew James, Banji & Mrs. Oladunni

Haija Halima Merra with ACG Merra

Chief Olusegun Obasanjo, Chief Mrs. Oladunni & Chief (Mrs.) Bola Obasanjo

What are those things

How did he do it

A perfect marriage. The arrangement was good.

These are the things I have always wanted as a teenager.

I did not want a strait-jacket thing, and that was exactly what I got. If you saw the way I danced that day, you would have known that I was extremely happy.

He did an underground research on me when we met and got to know I was unmarried. Few days later, he confided in someone that he had been praying about his would-be wife but needed to confirm from God. That one told me and he later confirmed it. We got talking but never even talked about marriage. I never knew he was not married because we did not know ourselves that much. We got closer by the day, started exchanging random text messages. We both worship at the Mountain of Fire Miracles and Ministries and we are both particularly close to the General Overseer of the Church. So, we have a lot of things in common when it comes to the things of God.

You had your honeymoon in Dubai

Yes we did, we spent a few days there.

What was the experience like

It was an absolute indoor thing. We were together, talking and talking. And it was a time to really bond. No shopping or anything. We did nothing, but stayed together bonding.

How long have you known each other

I will say, a little over a year.

Did he propose or you both jointly agreed to marry

He proposed.

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Why did the wedding take place at KICC instead of MFM

My best friends are Pastors and I am also a partner with the KICC Winning Ways Express, the evangelism

arm of the Church that supports Pastor Femi’s preaching on television. The MFM is a very busy place on Sundays and I insisted on a Sunday wedding because of the date.

It is a seven -seven date, which is perfection before God and ensuring that the foundation stone has been laid on perfection. My husband is a die- hard MFM person who will not compromise on any other thing. But this time, he had no choice and we had to do it, after all we all worship and serve the same God. I function in both places and they have contributed a lot to my life.

You still have not told us how he proposed to you

He popped the question, ‘Would you marry me?' and I said, ‘Marry you?’ I asked if he was not married because I know a 47 year old man that calls him 'bros'. He said he was 51 but had never been married. I told him that we would have to pray about him if he had never been married at 51! Later, I told him, ‘Let me go and dis-

cuss with my daddy, Dr.Daniel Kola Olukoya to give me the prayer points to pray.’ I asked him how he knew I was not married and he said, I should forget that one. One thing that made it possible is because the person I got married to at first eventually passed on in 2010. Death releases a Christian absolutely because Christianity does not absolutely believe in divorce. So, that made it possible for me and that was the only way Dr. Olukoya would have even listened to me in the first place.

Talking about the fathers you have, another one is former President Olusegun Obasanjo who had to call off a meeting in Saudi Arabia to be at your wedding. How would you describe your relationship with him

I lost my father 12 years ago, so he is my father. And there is nothing I cannot discuss with him. He is a man you need to know. He is a man whose values in life transcend vanity. He has taught me so many things. He is a man of integrity, he is a man you are proud of anytime. He does not pretend, he is factual, he tells you as it is and he does not mince words.

He is a father, because a father will always tell his children whenever they are wrong and correct them.

When did you meet him and how did the father-daughter relationship come into being

You would appreciate the fact that my father was a politician. And you know, Baba is fathering millions of children all over the world. Baba is a man who takes to you. It does not matter how, where or when he meets you. It is about him seeing you for who you are and who he can relate and associate with.

You displayed some rich cultural traditional outfits during your traditional wedding

My husband is from Benin City and he is so proud of his tribe. You would also appreciate the fact that for somebody that had looked forward to getting married all these years, there was no hold back. They wanted everything done the way it ought to be done. I have always loved the Benin traditional attire and the way they dress. That was a plus for me because I have always loved seeing people like that. I told my husband, eventually when I agreed to marry him, that one thing I would not compromise was those Benin beads. I was made to understand that families have the beads and they pass them along the line, from one person to another person. I told him that I wanted him to buy me my own set and we can also start our own family tradition from me. Tisbee Aso-Oke however made my aso oke.

Let us talk about the wedding gown which combines simplicity and elegance, who designed it for you

It was designed by my designer,

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Mrs. Chioma Ngonadi, Big Chi (right)

Ishola Oladesu(Assistant Comptroller), Prince Wale Olowoyeye, Gboyega Peters (Assistant Comptroller)

Funmi Ajasa, Yemi Adekoya, (Barr.) Ebun Ayo & Lillian Bakare

Haija Mairo with Mrs. Aluede Yetunde

Dr. Mrs. Ify Onwuyali (Deputy Comptroller) with Mrs. Oba

Joseph Ologundudu, Kayode Odugbesan ,Lanre Adegbite & Nicholas

Jemy Riana but her name is Anita Yusufu. She is a very personalised designer. If you want simplicity, she knows how to add elegance to simplicity. She shopped for the fabrics and made them. I am a shoe person, so I already had my shoes. I just told her to work round my shoes.

There is no recruitment in the Customs at any time that you do not have quite a number of women. But the thing about the Paramilitary is that we do not have many women at the top. It is a 'he' thing, because everybody there is a 'sir'.

For someone who loves shoes, we are likely to describe you as a very fashionable person. Can you describe your fashion style to us

How is the job itself

One thing I have always known about myself from childhood is that I have always been very particular about the way I look but I am not a fashion trendy person. I wear what suits me and what I love to wear. I do not like bogus styles. I would rather wear straight dresses or skirts. Jemy Riana knows what I want and what I like.

So, I go to sleep when she is doing anything for me. She has been my designer for over five years and she knows me inside out when it comes to clothes. And for this wedding, she was there all the way.

You work with the Customs as a Deputy Comptroller, how did you find yourself in that male-dominated environment

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I got into the Customs in May 1989. I love my job so much and also love the challenges. With each passing time, there is always something new and we keep moving from one level to the other and then with each level, we have new challenges. I enjoy it.

What attracted you to joining the Customs

The funny thing is, I almost knew next to nothing about the Customs than the fact that they wear uniform and I love that aspect of the job! It is an opportunity to serve my country and also an avenue to be respected.

You have an edge whenever you wear a uniform, even if it is the Boys Scout uniform. And you are responsible and also do things, the right way. It has been beautiful all the way and I thank God. Since I joined the Customs, I have always been a revenue oriented officer and I learnt

from distinguished men of the Customs including Desiji Fadahunsi and former Comptroller General, Hammed Kojoli. They never settled for the less and taught us the nitty- gritty of Customs. And we also wanted to learn.

Who is Morenike Oladunni- Omorodion

I am a simple straight forward human being. By my upbringing and having been raised by teachers ,I have a lifestyle that is still the same. I grew up with particular people and they remain my friends, till tomorrow. My Chief Bridesmaid, Mrs. Bolade Adejagun who lives in Dallas with her family attended same Primary, Secondary, A-Levels and University with me. Most of my friends from our teenage days were around for my wedding.

Tell us about your childhood

I am not a Lagos girl, I am an Ondo girl who lived all her life basically in Ondo State. I was born in Akure and attended Omolere Nursery and Primary School. My father was always excited about me and he never hid that, even as a very little girl. At age four, he wanted me to do what a ten year old was doing. He was in a hurry

ACG Adewuyi with Prince Adewuyi

Barr. Ada Akpunouu, Mrs. Helen Emoka & Mrs. Victoria Uboh

Prince & Mrs. Uzo Chukwwah

Muyiwa Adepitan (MD Billy James Ltd) with Mayor Akinpelu

Hon. Abubakar, Kunle Agbede, Peter Obafemi & Tunde Oshinowo

Hon. Chukwumalu Emeka, Sir Frank Obiejesi, Emma Okoli, Haija Bola Muse, Hon.

Mr. & Mrs. Bala Yesufu (Head, Corporate & Government Affairs, Cadbury, West Africa Cadbury Nigeria Plc.)

Odafe Abaide, Femi Shalamoro & Teslm Bello-Osagie

Otunba Funso Ajayi with Olori Yinka Ajayi

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Mr. Adekunle Adedayo (Chairman, Tastee Fried Chicken) with Comptroller Kola Adesanya

Kayode & Toyin Kolade

Mr. & Mrs. Segun Fabagu & Prince Tunde Fanimokun

Funmi Brown, Ronke Thorpe, Jibike Ifidon & Bosede Adebiyi

Adeyinka Faloye, Oyinde Faloye, Adahunse Rasheed (Chief Superintendent of Customs) & Adedoyin Badejo

Ope Jolaoso, Busola Thomson (Barr.) Bimpe Ajegbomogun, Mrs. Sherifat Odufuye & (Chief Mrs.) Dupe Coker

Mrs. Olubunmi Thomas with Ms. Olubunmi George

Demola Mumuney, Tunde Fanimokun & Segun Fagbojegun

to see his first child grow. By the time I got to Primary School, we had to relocate from Akure to Ikare. My father started teaching in Ikare as well as my mum. I enrolled at All Saints Primary School. My mother was later transferred from the School when I was in Primary 2. I attended Fiwasaye Secondary School and later, Victory College. I studied English at the Obafemi Awolowo University, (OAU) and started a Post Graduate Degree in New York but later abandoned it. I ended up in LASU for my Master’s Degree in Social Works which is an added value for Non -Governmental Organisation.

Do you have a foundation

Yes, the Michael Durojaiye Oladunni foundation which was named after my late father. I told God, about two to three years ago that I would want to be more of a blessing to people than I am blessed.

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What do you do at your leisure time

I love to dance, cook and read.

What is your husband's favourite dish

Since he married me, his favourite is my local native soup Ikire soup and it is not readily available. I usually order for it from my village. The best thing to eat it with is pounded yam. My husband is a fantastic cook and he is learning my native soup already.

What kind of music do you dance to

I dance to danceable music. There are some things I cannot do. I am not a City girl and cannot be found in a Chinese Restaurant. I do not eat Steak, Shawarma and others. I am a grass root village girl.

When did you become a born again

I became a full born again in 1994.

Are you planning to have kids now

Yes, by his grace, in the next one year. You will be invited over for the naming ceremony.

What would you want to be remembered for

I want to be remembered for the lives I have touched. My regular slogan is Eniyan laso mi. I am not a sentimental person and we do not have to be siblings before I get close to you. It does not take me time to read people and I have hardly make a mistake. I thank God for my daddy, Dr. Daniel Kola Olukoya because he is a man who will just tell you the truth without mincing words. One of our prayers points into 2013 was 'O Lord, let me miss the people I need to miss and meet the ones I need to meet’.

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he Nigerian fashion industry has certainly come of age. The emergence of a growing number of talented Nigerian designers on the continent’s burgeoning fashion landscape makes a compelling case for this reality. With countless innovative and iconic designs made by creative Nigerians appearing on the runways of leading continental and international fashion weeks and shows, Nigeria’s fashion hub, Lagos, is gradually installing itself on the world’s map as an undoubted fashion capital fit to compete with the likes of Milan, Madrid, Paris, New York and London.

The Nigeria Fashion Week (NFW) is one of the success stories that a blooming domestic fashion industry has spawned. One of Africa’s leading and most credible fashion platforms, the week features a raft of local and international designers doing great things in the fashion industry. With the 2013 edition still fresh in the minds of

participants, the 2014 edition which unfolded at Oriental Hotel, Lekki, Lagos, was the bomb!

The success of the haute couture extravaganza which is organised and packaged by one of Africa’s leading fashion promotion companies, Legendary Gold Limited, was proof that the NFW has certainly grown in leaps and bounds since inception. Perhaps the greatest attraction and endorsement for the organisers was certainly the participation of iconic international super designer, Agatha Ruiz De La Prada, whose clout attracted global attention.

The 3-day event kicked off with a networking cocktail at the residence of the Austrian Embassy’s Commercial Counsellor, Nella Hengstler. Event partners, designers, buyers, media representatives and various associates of the week turned up in their numbers to connect in a fun and relaxing atmosphere. The essence of the event was of course to connect stakeholders in the fash-

ion industry so they can initiate business relationships amongst themselves. It also provided the opportunity for creativity and capital to connect as financial stakeholders were invited to mingle with the creative designers who needed financing to take their budding brands to the next level.

With over 103 local and international brands participating in both the runway shows and exhibition, NFW 2014 was an epochal event. The grand opening had 16 designers (divided into groups of eight for morning and evening sessions) taking turns to showcase their unique and trendy collections to enthralled audiences. The routine continued the next day with varying numbers of enthusiastic designers. Each of the well-attended runway show was preceded by a red carpet cocktail where fashion enthusiasts were treated to their fill of red and white wines amply supplied by wine connoisseurs, Carlo

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LAUSEY HOUSE OF DESIGN Rossi.Also for the Red Carpet segment, guests were served French No. 1 Champagne brand, Nicolas Feuillatte.

Established and upcoming designers who lit up the runway included Zizi Cardow, Our Heritage Clothing, Klassy Ladies, C ben Touch Fashion, Modella B, Zapel, Chip Odina, Niki Kay, Luasey House of Designs, Vince Antoni, Lumiere Couture, Grazee, Keto Couture, Tangerine, Tolumi, Simply Glamorous, Osuare, Aweyan, Joadre, Design by Fortress, Add-on Accessories, Theodora amongst numerous others.

Noteworthy was the showcasing of Da Viva collections through four young designers, who used Da Viva fabrics to create sensational designs that won over many hearts.

The highlight of the event though, was Agatha Ruiz De La Prada’s unveiling as the VIP Special Guest designer.

The Spanish couturier could not showcase her highly-sought after collections as scheduled due to some unforseen circumstances. Impressed and encouraged by her experience at the week, she promised to return to Nigeria for the 2015 edition to showcase her collections and work out possible collaborations with some Nigerian designers.

Testament to the rising profile of the NFW was the array of mega sponsors and partners that threw their weight behind the event. They included Oriental Hotel who provided the stunning setting for the show, Da Viva, Escade Ventures Limited, Karrington Limited, Carlo Rossi, Kia Motors, SAKR, Carthago, Nicolas Feuillatte Champagne, The Millennium Residence Hotel, Zasari Di Lusso, Design Essentials, Studio 24, Lacasera and Tudor House.

Media partners that ensured massive pre and post event publicity for the fashion showpiece were OVATION, AIT, Raypower FM, City People, Primetime Africa, Encomium Magazine, Spice TV, WAP TV, Iroking, BEN TV, Hip TV, Yes! International Magazine, CKN, Zen Magazine, Connect Nigeria, amongst others.

One of the attractions at the event was the showcasing of two of Kia Motors’ latest models one of which was the Quoris 3.8L V6 engine automobile put on display at the exhibition arena of the event.

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DAUGHTERS PAY TRIBUTE TO THEIR FATHER IN NEW DOCUMENTARY

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hen they are done right, they can make you feel you know a famous person intimately.

Such is the case with “I am Ali.” A revealing and intimate feature documentary on one of the most recognized sports figures in history, it’s a well edited and engaging piece that features previously unseen family photographs and private tape recordings.

“He always thought the children would love to hear themselves when they are older and knew this was going to be history one day, so Muhammad Ali made these tapes of his children at home on these little cassettes,” shares Director Clare Lewins who collaborated with Ali’s daughters to produce the piece. “People would ring him

and he would tape record it.

He was just like a little operator recording them on the answer phone.”

A personal account of Ali not just as a fighter but as a father, husband, brother, friend and a man who stood up for what he believed in, it’s a collection of tapes that brings back memories for Maryum and Hana (he has nine children) who fondly recall several of the conversations featured in the film.

“I just remember those conversations very clearly,” shares his eldest daughter Maryum whose playful and candid conversation with her father opens the film. “He was a well-rounded dad and that comes across in the film. He would come to my games and my best moments are places of worship with him and those

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moments will always stay with me.”

Stunningly candid, emotional engaging, “I am Ali” is also mixed with clips and photos from his career. We see the self-titled “the greatest” who initially retired from boxing in 1979 at the age of 37 (he came out of retirement in 1980 to fight Larry Holmes) at his highs, pulling punches, sharing jokes and spending quality time with his children.

“Daddy was like a big kid.

He woke me up to kisses every morning and his door was never closed. It didn’t matter if he was talking to the President of the United States, he gave himself and his time and always made me feel like I was the best little girl in the world,” shares Hana who is penning a book on her legendary father which she plans to release in 2015.

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Porche and brother Rahaman who was always at the side of the heavyweight boxer (Ali is now 72, and suffering from Parkinson’s syndrome). Entertainer and friend, Sir Tom Jones, boxing legends Mike Tyson, George Foreman and Business Manager, Gene Kilroy are also featured amidst a soundtrack that includes music

by Stevie Wonder and Aretha Franklin.

There are several documentaries of the boxer, from the the Oscar-winning “When We Were Kings,” to “Muhammad Ali: Through the Eyes of the World,” but “I am Ali” stands apart with its unique approach and it’s this genuinely incisive portrait that makes the film truly revelatory.

“Listening to these recordings I am learning the memories that I don’t remember having,” continues Hana. “He’s always defied impossible odds, doing the seemingly impossible and I want people to take away the incredible human being that he was, the love that he had for his children and people and his incredible spirit.”

“I am Ali” is currently in theaters

Brothers: Ali & Rahman

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AT THE LAGOS

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Mr. Babatunde Fashola, Governor of Lagos State

agos, Nigeria’s self-designated centre of excellence is gradually but surely living up to its billing as one of the world’s emerging and fastest growing mega cities of the twenty first century. A spectacular third installment of the annual month-long Lagos Countdown to the new year which started in 2012 reached dizzying heights in December 2014 as Africa’s undisputed economic and entertainment capital staged a rousing coup de theatre, toeing the line of the world’s leading cities like Toronto, New York, Tokyo, Paris and London.

An initiative of Lagos State Governor, Babatunde Raji Fashola and managed and organised by the Lagos State Signage and Advertisement Agency (LASAA), under the impeccable leadership of George Noah, the 2014 edition of festivities which kicked off on December 5, 2014, came with a promise to be bigger, better, more energy-filled and electric. Indeed the mega soiree was all of those and more in all ramifications and did not fail to deliver the goods to revelers who assembled from all over on the Eko Atlantic-Bar Beach stretch venue of the events which is located in Victoria Island.

Now billed as arguably Africa’s biggest crossover event particularly as it climaxes on New Year’s Eve through January 1 every year, the mega-fest is packaged and positioned to promote not just the miscellany of indigenous cultures and languages spread across the Lagos metropolis but also to promote tourism by attracting global attention, interest and patronage. This gives rise to thriving local businesses as well as opening up new vistas of opportunities for new SMEs to emerge and flourish.

Featuring the country’s biggest stars, the Lagos Countdown event is also staking claim to, if it has not now already etched itself as a fixture in the country’s ever bubbling entertainment landscape and calendar, attracting thousands of fun-seekers yearly to witness perhaps the biggest musical festival by a state government on the continent.

In keeping with the tradition of the

festivities, the 2014 party kicked off officially with the Festival of Lights where Governor Fashola turned on the lights of the charmingly and dexterously decorated Ahmadu Bello Way stretch in readiness for upcoming events. He then took a tour of the surroundings, engaging residents and business owners in cheery banter. He followed this up with a brief meeting with the event’s sponsors who provided him with the big picture of the entire package.

A mega event requires mega sponsors and the 2014 shindig was not lacking. Nigerian Breweries, Pepsi, Zenith Bank, Airtel, Dangote, Multichoice, Tecno, Mikano, ICSL, and Cash and Carry all provided varying degrees of support to the Lagos State Government and LASAA in giving locals and tourists the time of their lives.

The month of fun was dotted with various fun activities for young and old and also provided a platform for talented youths in the fields of entertainment and photography to showcase their abilities.

There was something for everyone from the first till the last day – a Battle of DJs, Disco Night, Children’s Christmas Party, a Movie Night, a Children’s Dance Competition, a Karaoke Night, Santa’s Grotto and Christmas Eve Fireworks, a Children’s Christmas Party, a Club Night, a Photography Competition, a Raffle Draw and the daddy of all events – the Crossover Night Concert on New Year’s Eve where various music megastars performed. The attractions were simply irresistible. Africa’s foremost Disc Jockey, DJ Jimmy Jatt was the official DJ for the event; self-styled Grand Comedian of the Federal Republic, Gbenga Adeyinka emceed alongside Beat FM’s Jimmy Akinsola and Fade Ogunro.

One of the exciting features of the Lagos Countdown event is the annual countdown theme song which rules the airwaves before the duration of the event. Everyone looked forward to it.

The 2014 edition, titled Arise Lagos was unique for its star quality and melodious charm. Nigerian musical geniuses, Tu-

Oba of Lagos. HRM Rilwan Akiolu, Gov. Babatunde Fashola & a monarch

AIG Tunji Alapini (Rtd), Oba Saheed Elegusi & guests

Alhaji Aliko Dangote & Femi Otedola

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face Idibia, Banky W, Omawumi and Olamide, led by talented producer, Mr. Pheelz all collaborated to produce an enduring tune that will continue to echo in the minds of music lovers for a while to come.

At the crossover concert itself, excitement bubbled over as thousands of participants were treated to a music extravaganza that had never seen for a longtime. As contemporary pop and rap artistes like Tuface Idibia, Olamide, Wizkid, Iyanya, MI, Ice Prince, Kcee, Seyi Shay thrilled the roaring crowd with captivating modern beats and melodies, veterans like Sir Victor Uwaifo, Sir Shina Peters and Daddy Showkey rolled back the years and spread nostalgia throughout the crowd with some of their evergreen classics.

It has become an annual tradition in many cities around the globe for New Year’s Day to be heralded by dazzling fireworks that light up waterfronts and city landmarks. The most fascinating and breath-taking aspect of the entire ceremony was left till the stroke of 12am on New Year’s Day, the organisers presented an amazing matchless and breathless pyrotechnics cum musical display that lit up the Lagos skyline thereby giving Lagos a pride of place in the record books as the venue of Africa’s biggest ever single display of fireworks.

The spectacular display was magical and mesmerizing in every respect and was coordinated expertly by two teams of expatriates from Sirotechnics Fireworks and Merlin Fireworks, who had arrived four days earlier. OVATION gathered that the preparation for this elaborate display began in the United Kingdom. It included the design work as well as other intricacies required for a stellar showing which took a combined 276

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Even after the teams had arrived in Lagos, they utilised the first two days laying out sophisticated equipment that would be used to orchestrate the neverbefore-seen-in-Africa fireworks display.

The following two days were then used for setting the fireworks within the equipment as well as setting out the electronics to be used for the digital manipulation of the display.

In total, a stunning 1,742 individual fireworks were fired. Some of the fireworks were embedded with multiple shots, some upwards of 300 shots each, which brought the total number of explosions to an amazing 50, 000, all weighing over a metric tonne and lasting 15 minutes! The fireworks exploded in perfect synchronization with music that was transmitted via a wireless radio link.

What this means is that the fireworks literally danced to the tune and beat of the music and had everyone speechless and spellbound by this wonder of modern technology.

The magical event was witnessed by high net-worth individuals like Africa’s richest man, Alhaji Aliko Dangote; Forte Oil Plc boss, Femi Otedola; All Progressives Congress (APC) gubernatorial candidate in Lagos, Akinwunmi Ambode, LASAA supremo, George Noah, amongst other.

According to Mr. George Noah, the Lagos State Government hopes that the Lagos Countdown will institute an enduring crossover tradition that will be eagerly anticipated by all, a tradition that will set an enjoyable and fun-filled tempo to the beginning of every new year.

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Kufre Ekanem, Tuface, Prince Segun Oniru, Mr. George Noah, Banky W & Omawumi scream...Happy New Year!

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lassy, stylish and trendy were ready affirmations on the lips of guests at the posh viewing party of Nigeria's leading online portal for shoes, www. myworkshoes.com. It was with those and other glowing words of commendation that they described the exotic range of shoes comprising new and trendy designs at the Zinna Hall of the prestigious Eko Hotel and Suites, Lagos.

As opposed to the routine experience of online bookings and offline deliveries which buyers had become familiar with, www.myworkshoes.com boss, Mrs. Elvi Kioupouroglou dragged loyal patrons and prospective customers from the comfort of their living rooms and office desks to experience first-hand, the shoe mecca's stunning range of designer shoes, to try them on and if sold, to swipe cards in exchange for the rugged work and play kicks.

Not surprisingly, the party enjoyed an impressive turnout and massive support from the portal's customers who expressed their satisfaction by immediately ordering pieces that caught their fancy.

Some of the portal's long-time customers who had become brand evangelists dragged along colleagues, friends and family so they too could have a personal taste of the quality on display.

While the esteemed guests feed their eyes on the wonderful crafts laid out on the display shelves, their taste buds were titillated with some of the finest wines and tastiest canapes on offer. Indeed, there was something for everyone as customers' varying brand preferences were sufficiently catered to.

They actually had an alluring array of designer brands to choose from Charles by Charles David, Fergie, Ivanka Trump, Tsubo, Donald J Pliner, Steve Madden, Pour la Victoire, Dolce Vita, Cole Haan, and Stuart Wietzman.

The men were particularly fascinated by the top-of-the-range Calvin Klein, Cesare Paciotti, Bostonian and Bruno Magli shoes on display while the women splurged on the Aerin Lauder, Brian Atwood and Badgley Mischka creations.

Packaged within all of that excitement was a raffle draw through which some of the guests won coupons to enjoy

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Mr. Larry Izamoje (Chairman of Brila fm) & Elvi

Audu Maikori (Boss at Chocolate City group), Elvi, MI (Nigeria’s leading artiste from Chocolate City Group), Mrs. Bernice Olashoju & Danny Kioupouroglou

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Mr. Paul Okoye & friends

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Kris Asimonye (Ace comedian Bovi’s wife), Elsie Okpocha (Ace comedian Basketmouth’s wife) & friends

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tantalising body treats at event partners, Tirta Ayu Spa, who are body wellness experts. The first gift of a candle massage at the Nigerian-owned exponents of ancient and modern full Indonesian body massage arts, went to Yiannis. Second gift of a traditional facial was snapped up

by Mr. Wilfred Oluku while beautiful Helena went away with a coupon for an orange body polish. www.myworkshoes.com Founder, Elvi Kioupouroglou, who was a bag of excitement, expressed immense satisfaction at the outcome of the event: "It has certainly been more awesome than we

planned and the turnout from our clients was quite encouraging. I am delighted at the continuous support we enjoy from them. This has only reinforced our passion and commitment to serve our customers better by continuously bringing them the quality they deserve which really is what they have always enjoyed and of course, to always add that extra style and sophistication to their wardrobes."

Celebrity clients who turned up included Chocolate City Record Label boss, Audu Maikori; label star, MI Abaga; comedian, Basket Mouth; and ex-football star, Austin JJ Okocha.

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JANUARY 9 COLLECTIVE HOSTS 2015

ANNIVERSARY LECTURE IN LAGOS Story: Bamidele Salako Photo: Abraham Falodun

J9C members cutting their anniversary cake

The OVATION publisher observed that the principal reason for the failure to hold credible elections in Nigeria is the country's penchant for changing what works.

While advocating the declaration of results at each polling unit immediately after votes are counted, he urged Nigerians to be vigilant and protect their votes.

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he third annual lecture of socio-political group, January 9 Collective (J9C) themed: 2015 General Polls: Beyond the Rhetoric of Credible Elections, unfold at the Shell Hall of the MUSON Centre in Onikan, Lagos and attracted a host of prominent Nigerians who came to share ideas on how Africa’s most populous nation can banish the demons of the past and hold credible polls.

The gubernatorial candidate of the All Progressives Congress (APC) in Lagos, Mr. Akinwunmi Ambode; the Publisher of OVATION Magazine, Bashorun Dele Momodu and human rights activist and lawyer, Ayo Obe, who were in attendance and participated in a panel discussion all agreed that credible elections are attainable in Nigeria if certain factors are put into place.

While speaking at the event which also marked the group’s third anniversary, Mr. Ambode identified two factors critical to holding free and fair polls in the country namely-institutions and citizens' participation in the electoral process.

He said, "Institutions are created to allow government work effectively. In our different social clubs and professional associations, we hold elections successfully without incidents because the institutional framework around those establishments give them sanctity. So if the institution created to ensure credible elections is not working then we need to do something about it."

Prof. Anthony Kila, Sina Odugbemi, Bashorun Dele Momodu, Kadaria Ahmed, Ms Ayo Obe & DSP Ken Nwosu

The APC gubernatorial candidate also charged Nigerians not to be onlookers in the forthcoming elections urging them to stand up for change by going out to vote while declaring, "You have to believe that you are the change agents that Nigeria needs."

In his keynote address, Professor Anthony Kila, a Professor of Political Anthropology and International Director of Studies at the European Centre of Advanced and Professional Studies (ECAPS), London commenced by describing three different scenarios that could be thrown up by the outcome of the 2015 presidential polls: "Since there seems to be so much emphasis on who rules the centre, there are three different scenarios and simulations that could play out after the voting. One is a situation in which Buhari wins and the South-South explodes. The second is Jonathan winning and the North exploding. The third is a scenario in which two presidents get sworn in and we have a Northern president who will probably have his base in Lagos and another president in Abuja. These are serious possibilities that no one is talking about."

While exploring the theme of the lecture, Prof. Kila stated that the event provided an opportunity for sober reflection and a moment of truth in which certain core realities had to be addressed. According to the professor, the first reality that needed to be addressed was the fact that there is a lot wrong with Nigeria's political system.

He said, "The fact that we are talking about credible elections shows our political system is flawed because it is not normal to talk about credible elections among civil people; it should be a given. It is a vulgar state of affairs, a rot and decadence to have to be discussing credible elections in 2015" The second reality, said the professor, was that Nigeria's political class is responsible for the rot in which the nation finds itself. He flayed the Nigerian Governors' Forum (NGF) for its inability to conduct a credible election within its own body: "35 governors, who practically are responsible for governing 170million Nigerians, not mentioning the resources under their control, gathered to hold an election and could not come up with a credible vote."

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J9C Captain, Seun Soyinka

Mr. Akinwunmi Ambode

J9C Gen. Secretary, Kingsley James

Prof. Anthony Kila

Wole Olagundoye, Chairman, Organising Committe, Prof. Anthony Kila & Seun Soyinka

Mr. Akin Olawore

He defined democracy as a system wherein accountable administrators are selected through an open and credible process stating that the consequences of his definition are that if an election is not credible, there would in fact be no democracy and secondly, that it is the credibility of elections that give legitimacy to governance.

Noting that citizens want peace, justice and development from their elected leaders, he also pointed that what all politicians want is power.

According to him, "All political groups want power.

The difference between them is what they plan to do with the power." The academician lampooned Nigeria's politicians declaring that they are still at the base of Abraham Maslow's hierarchy of needs because "they are hungry" hence their "grab" mentality.

He admonished Nigerians to remind themselves of what their roles are in the electoral process by asking questions that border on the reputation, ideas, party and association of political candidates. He declared, "We need people who can live for politics not off politics."

In what appeared to be a veiled jab at President Goodluck Jonathan, Prof. Kila opined that since power was inextricably linked to the struggle for power, leaders who did not have to fight for power but who had power bestowed on them have often turned out to be the worst 292

kind of leaders. The academician therefore asserted that power not "be given to the shy but rather to those who want it and can explain why they want it."

He also called out the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) for doing more of absolving itself of responsibility rather than taking responsibility.

"Someone needs to ask INEC what it is they do," the professor declared. "Who knows the name of the electoral body chair in the UK, US, Denmark or Italy?" he asked.

"No one does because they are effective. The reason why we do here is because the electoral body isn't functioning as effectively as it should."

In concluding, the professor proferred two solutions to electoral malpractice saying, "There should be a law that any candidate caught rigging in an election be disqualified from contesting subsequent elections for a period of 20years." He also called on INEC to promote independent candidacy which promotes accountability to the electorate, averring that only Nigerians can solve the problem of Nigeria. He also applauded the introduction of technology noting that it is a step in the right direction.

In the succeeding intervention by elder statesman, Asiwaju Femi Shomolu, who praised the keynote speaker for his insightful lecture but questioned the rel-

evance of some of his positions to a peculiar political space as Nigeria's, Asiwaju Somolu quipped that what Nigeria has isn't a democracy but a "demonstration of craze" quoting a line from the legendary Afrobeat musician, Fela Anikulapo Kuti. He described Nigeria as a government of civilians backed by security forces that are not democratic while affirming that INEC cannot be truly independent since the chair of the body is chosen by the government in power.

In another intervention, real estate mogul, Mr. Akin Olawore, balked at the lack of conviction of political ideology in Nigerian politicians which has made it easy for them to switch parties at the slightest opportunity.

During an interactive session moderated by Channels TV anchor, Kadaria Ahmed, that featured Bashorun Dele Momodu, Ayo Obe, Comrade Shina Odugbemi, Prof. Anthony Kila and Lagos State Police Command PRO, DSP Ken Nwosu as panelists, Obe declared that Nigeria was in fact on the path to credible elections stating it was a gradual process that should be likened to a journey. She however expressed reservations about the way INEC handled voter registration saying it had cast a shadow over the entire electoral process.

In his submission, Bashorun Dele Momodu, while expressing optimism at the possibility of having credible

Bashorun Dele Momodu, Mr. Akinwunmi Ambode, Seun Soyinka & Pastor Dotun Ojelabi

Seun Soyinka with guests

Hon. Hakeem Munir, Bashorun DeleMomodu & Mr. Akinwunmi Ambode

Loye Amzat, Mike Dada, Bashorun Dele Momodu & Biodun Kupoluyi

Femi Adeyinka (right) & Aramide singing National Anthem

Pastor Dotun Ojelabi

elections in Nigeria, however stated that the nation's ability to hold credible polls transcends the role of the INEC, stating that it also had a lot to do with the credibility of the people themselves. Momodu bemoaned the lack of internal democracy within political parties in the country stating, "The party themselves are not democratic in nature."

The OVATION publisher observed that the principal reason for the failure to hold credible elections in Nigeria is the country's penchant for changing what works.

He said, "We have had a credible election in Nigeria before and can still do but the problem with us is that we always change what works. Why can't we go back to study the June 12, 1993 elections and ask ourselves what worked then and what didn't and incorporate that into subsequent elections?" While advocating the declaration of results at each polling unit immediately after votes are counted, he urged Nigerians to be vigilant and protect their votes.

Bashorun Momodu lamented the inequity in the provision of constitutionally approved state facilities to party candidates and declared that given the prevailing mood in the country, it would be hard for any party to rig the forthcoming elections. While positing that independent candidacy would fail miserably in Nigeria owing to the heavy financial and other logistical burdens it would impose on such a candidate, Bashorun Momodu also averred that abstention from the polls is not an option for Nigerians charging them to go out and vote for change.

Comrade Odugbemi on his part harped on the need for equity in the access to media facilities by the candidates of political parties other than the ruling party while Nwosu assured the safety of voters during the elections

stating that though the manpower for the exercise may be inadequate, the Nigerian Police Force was ready to make the best use of available resources.

In an observation by a Nigerian in the audience who is resident in Ireland, the question was raised as to what structures INEC was putting in place to make it possible for Nigerians in Diaspora to vote from their bases abroad during the coming elections. The INEC representative expected to be part of the panel was not in attendance to address her concerns which undoubtedly echoed the concerns of other Diasporans in the audience and abroad.

Another issue of contention was the dark cloud over the voter registration process and the distribution and collection of Permanent Voter's Cards (PVC). A question was raised in the audience as to whether Nigerians who couldn't register or couldn't procure their PVCs could cast their votes in the coming election using their Temporary Voter's Card (TVC) issued previously and if not, whether INEC could be taken to court for technically disenfranchising eligible voters.

This caused Hon. Hakeem Abiodun Munir who represents Oshodi/Isolo Federal Constituency of Lagos State to raise an alarm over the inability of over four million voters out of more than six million registered voters in Lagos State to retrieve their PVCs. He promised that the House of Representatives would address the misnomer when the lower chamber reconvenes. In the same vein, Obe wondered how INEC could be taken to court before the election date when judicial workers are on strike while Odugbemi asserted that whether a citizen possesses a PVC or a TVC, they should be allowed to vote because both are voter's cards.

In his welcome address earlier, J9C captain, Mr.

Seun Soyinka reiterated that the group is "a non-partisan socio-political group of like-minded Nigerian professionals whose unifying strong bond is not only in the unwavering belief in Project Nigeria, but also in the strong possibility of good governance not as an aberration but as a given in our dear country."

Bemoaning the failure of Nigeria to turn potential into productivity by becoming a self-sufficient world super power given its abundant natural resources and brilliant minds, the J9C captain identified bad leadership and bad followership as the nation's albatross, saying both ills have been "given free passage to bare facedgreed and corruption with their attendant ancillaries keeping our country perpetually bleeding and ailing."

Stating that it is the responsibility of the nation's educated and those in positions of service to transform the fortunes of the nation, he averred, "It is indeed our duty to contribute our own quota and make this nation a much better place than we met it. We have another opportunity at the forthcoming general polls, to fix our ailing country by electing our leaders and holding then continuously holding them accountable to their commitments."

Earlier also, the body's General Secretary, Mr. Kingsley James, had noted that the J9C, with its fusion of budding professionals, was on a quest for a better Nigeria where the "foundational basics work."

According to Mr. James, "In achieving this goal, J9C aims to build a body of Nigerian professionals into a focus group with clear cut direction via the following: constructive engagement on burning national issues, pursuing transparency, probity and accountability at all levels; promoting good governance at all strata of government and creating awareness in the populace about the benefits of being a responsible stakeholder.

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Henry Alade, Kunle Afolayan, Steve Ayorinde, Abraham Falodun & Seun Soyinka

Kingsley James, Kemi Akinyemi & Steve Ayorinde

Tunji Iromini, Abisoye Fagade & Yinka Oyedeji

Mr. Dele Okelowo with Joseph Okonma

Cornelius Udofia & guests

Michael Effiong, Niyi Adelaja & Bashorun Dele Momodu

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Abisoye Fagade, Niyi Adelaja, Otunba Somolu, Seun Soyinka, Kunle Afolayan, Sola Fajobi, Michael Effiong & Debo Alexander

Mr. & Mrs. Henry Alade

Gbenga Adeyinka, J9C member & event Compere

Pastor Ojelabi, Niyi Adelaja & Seun Soyinka

Pastor Soji Adeniran & Mrs. Kemi James Mrs. Deola James

Mike Dada, Aare Olanrewaju Yakubu & Kunle Afolayan

Debo Alexander, Aare Olanrewaju Yakubu, Mike Akpe, Olumide Adeyemi & Mayowa Adebayo

Cross section of Secondary School students

Usherrettes

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PA JOHNSON

SHODIPO GOES HOME

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he earthly sojourn of Pa Johnson Adetoki Shodipo, an accomplished academician and community leader, could be summarised thus: He came, he saw and he conquered; he fought a good fight, finished the race, left a legacy of good deeds, touched humanity and gloriously bade the earth farewell. He saw it all and did it all.

He was different things to different people. To his wives, he was a doting husband, to his children, an exemplary father, to his friends, a reliable shoulder to lean on and to the world, a perfect gentleman who departed this earth, as it would seem, all too soon. For all who knew him. His blessed memory now remains engraved in their hearts.

A committed Christian, Pa Shodipo began his journey to the great beyond on Saturday, April 25 with a funeral service at the Methodist Church, Nigeria, Dicocese of Lagos West, Cathedral of Blessing, Palm Avenue, Mushin, Lagos.

The family members

Adewale & Abimbola Adeniya

Mrs. Aderonke Gbadebo & Kola Adepitan

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Chief Olu & Joke Okeowo

Tolulope & Pamela Shodipo

Taiwo, Kofoworola, Mrs. Leye Lafinhan & Aunty Araba

Simi & Ore Shodipo

Dr. Babafemi & Bukola Adenuga with Adedapo George

Dipo & Dupe Ogunmakin

Prince Sola Aregbesola & Mr. Adenekan

Barbara Obot, Toyin Ayodele & Aniema Uanseru

Tunji & Biodun Olaniyi

Mrs. Ibidun Oshodi & Mowunmi Oketunji

Akintunde Shodipo, Folashade Shodipo, Adewale Adeniya, Abimbola Adeniya, Yemisi Adepitan & Abiodun Fadipe

Adebowale Adepitan & Adetutu Aofolaju

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Dipo, Lilian, Tolulope, Kenneth, Ohimai & Olurotimi

Shina Akinyemi & Tolulope Shodipo

Tolulope Shodipo, Bishop Sunday Ogunlere & M B Awe

Mrs. Okeowo & Tolulope Shodipo

Tolulope Shodipo, Bishop Sunday Ogunlere & Akintunde Shodipo

Peaceman Njoku, Tolulope Shodipo, Rt. Rev. Sunday Ogunlere, Akintunde Shodipo & Shina Akinyemi

Ken Oboh & Tolulope Shodipo

Femi Babajide, Koleade Adegunle, Tolulope Shodipo, Jeff Nnamani & friend

The well-attended church service saw the children of the deceased, his extended family and friends, all gather to pay their last respects. According to the Methodist custom, the church service began with the meeting of the remains at the church entrance, where the men of God prayed on the casket and ushered in the remains into the church with a hymn.

The gentle man of God who led other ministers, handled the proceedings smoothly. He described Pa Shodipo as a committed Christian, a good disciplinarian, a gentle man to the core, an easy-going man of absolute integrity, a quintessential prodigy among men and a philanthropist par excellence.

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urged the church at large to move closer to God and accept Jesus as their personal Lord and savior.

The well-attended church service ended with the hymns “Through the love of God.� Later on, Pa Johnson Odetoki Shodipo was interred at Atan cemetery, Yaba, Lagos.

A posh reception followed at Harbour Point, Victoria Island, Lagos where the Shodipos pampered guests endlessly with tasty food and expensive wines. Music was supplied by the King of Juju music, King Sunny Ade, who entertained guests thoroughly and had them dancing till late evening.

Guests that graced the event included Dr. Femi Adenuga, Tayo Ayeni, Lekan Owodunni, Femi Tejuosho, Chris Ubosi, Biola Alabi, Segun Fatoye, Laomi Bibilari and Peggy Onwu, among others.

Papa Johnson Odetoki Shodipo was born in the year 1912 in Oke-Aro Village near Alagbado Railway station

in Ogun State. He was the son of Odofin of Ago-oko and Baale of Oke-Aro, Late Chief Showemimo Shodipo, being one of the earliest settlers in Oke-Aro village. His mother Late Madam Fatima, Bayewun Shodipo, a Kolanut trader from Bida was of Northern descent. They both met in Abeokuta; she later built and settled at Clifford Street, Ebute-metta Lagos now Murtala Mohammed Way. He started his elementary education in Oke-Aro and finished at Lagos Government School behind Abari Cemetery in Epetedo, Lagos. Following a successful elementary education, he was granted a Government scholarship into Kings College, Lagos but was disqualified because of his age and height. He later got admitted into Methodist Boys High School Lagos for his Secondary School Education. He passed with distinction in Government Certificate Middle four.

Oluwabukunmi & Pamela Shodipo

Tolulope Shodipo & Adewale Adeniya

Dust to dust rite

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RECEPTION

Kayode, Segun, Kayode, Seyi, Olumide & Rotimi

The Adeniya’s

Dele Ayileka & Aremo Segun Oniru

Leka & Adun Owodunni

Esosa Bamishile & Dr. (Mrs.) Ayesha Akinkugbe

Tolulope Shodipo, Olusegun Fatoye (far right) with the Aregbesola’s

Grandson’s: Adeshina, Martins, Femi & Adekunle

Tope George-Taylor, Pamela Shodipo & Princess Aurora George-Taylor

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Gbenga Gbadeshire & Tolulope Shodipo

Akintunde Giwa & Tolulope Shodipo

Aniema Uanseru, Pamela Shodipo & Chris Ubosi

Funsho Daramola & Durosola Omogbenigun

Bukola Adenuga, Adedapo George & Adebimpe Adeshina

Gbenga Olufosoye, Tolulope Shodipo, Ade Erinle & Bidemi Akintunde

Ronke Gbadebo & Tolulope Shodipo

Dr. Babafemi Adenuga & Tolulope Shodipo

Tokunbo Doregos, Yejide Doregos & friend

Femi Adeniregun & Sola Aredegbe

Jide Agbabiaka, Bukola Agbabiaka & Ayo Shobande

Tayo, Babafemi, Debo, Tunji & Demola

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Matlou Tsotetsi & Tolulope Shodipo

Babatola Akinkugbe & Tunji Olaniyi

Yewande Badejo-Okusanya & Seyi Macaulay

Yemi Braithwaite, Tolulope Shodipo & Bode Oladeji

Mr. & Mrs. Makanjuola Alabi

Ronke Gbadebo & Tolulope Shodipo

Prof. Nurudeen Olasupo & daughter

Sammy Omai & Tolulope Shodipo

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Greg Uanseru & Francis Ogboru

Taiwo, Tunji, Baba, Kehinde & Banjo

Biodun, Akin, Muyiwa & Hakeem

Ralph Lewu & Tolulope Shodipo

Captain Abiola Oshodi, Tolulope Shodipo & Tosin Oshodi

Saheed Afolabi, Ola Tijani, Tolulope Shodipo & Evelyn Tijani

Gbenga Olufosoye, Tolulope Shodipo, Ade Erinle & Bidemi Akintunde

Mr. & Mrs. Tony Onwu with Tolulope Shodipo

Prince Femi Tejuoso & Muyiwa Akingbolagbe

Bukola Adenuga, Dr. Babafemi Adenuga, Adebimpe Adeshina & Mrs. Lawale

Papa was recruited into Nigeria Marine, Dockyard, Apapa in 1940 through a thorough entrance examination. He was posted to the Headquarters as the Time Keeper for scoring the highest marks in English and Mathematics. His daily income then was two Shillings and six Pence; compared to the eight Pence per day that some other job offered.

Nigeria Railway Corporation was then the ideal and best organisation to work. He heard of the recruitment and he sent his application in; took the entrance examination and was offered immediate employment in the Nigeria Railway Traffic Training School in 1942. His Marine Engineer at Marine Dockyard refused his resignation, as he was a valuable staff. He was later allowed to leave following a long persuasion and begging.After six months of intensive training with the Nigeria Railway in Ebute-Metta, Lagos; he was posted to the Northern Nigeria Region as a Traffic Officer. Papa worked in Zaria, Kano, Kafancha, Jos, Mokwa and Sokoto to mention few.

In 1946, Papa married his wife, Mama Sabinah Oba-

funke Green in Lagos. Mama was of Sierra Leone descendants but was born in Lagos. This union influenced Papa’s transfer to Lagos in 1952 and the union was blessed with children. In 1957, while serving as a Station Manager in Lagos; Papa met and married Mama Roseanne Adedigba Shodipo at Kajola Station and the union was blessed with children.

In 1976, Papa retired from the Nigerian railway Corporation after 34 years of meritorious service. He had a few advisory job offers; some he accepted and administered voluntarily, others he declined. He took up and ran the Postal Agency for Nigeria Postal Services. He is a founding member of Methodist Church Cathedral, Palm-Avenue, Mushin, Lagos.

He served and worshiped the Lord all through his entire life; having started as a youth member of Hoares Memorial Methodist Church in Yaba; he later settled down with his family in Papa-Ajao, Matori and joined the Local circuit of Methodist Church, Palm-Avenue in Mushin at inception. He served as Secretary to Elder’s

Union for 10 years; while at the same time, he was keeping the Tithe Register for the church.

Papa devoted his retirement life to the service of God and humanity, his truthfulness and commitment to service made the leaders of the church appoint him as the Treasurer of the church. From 1958-1993, Papa was responsible for the safe-keeping of the Lord’s Purse.

This was a great challenge for most people at over 70 years of age, but Papa was blessed as he personally counted, recorded and banked all church money for the period. He was giving a commendation and an award of recognition as the Trust Treasurer of the Church from 1985-1993.

Papa’s exemplary life with family and friends contributed to his joy and well-being; his happiest moments were those spent with them. He loved the hymns and Psalmist. As he always said when giving thanks to God almighty - his trials and difficulties in employment paid back in many folds at retirement as seen in his prosperous longevity.

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PA ADEBISI

KEHINDE Story: Tersoo Achineku Photo: Segun Lawal

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ome glad morning when this life is o’er, I'll fly away. To a home on God's celestial shore, I'll fly away.’ Legendary singer, Jim Reeves was said to have been under the influence of the Holy Spirit when he wrote the above lyrics, contained in the hit song Fly Away. His message was simple, when your mission on earth is complete, the Lord Himself will request your presence on high. Therefore, when Pa Samuel Adebisi Kehinde passed on and went to be in the bosom of the Lord, with the lyrics of the great Reeves still in our hearts; it is safe to say that the 81 year journey of the magnificent octogenarian had indeed come to a celestial end.

Pa Kehinde was indeed a great man who touched the lives of so many people. The Late legend who served in the Police Force for 35 years was indeed an embodiment of honour as he had an unblemished The family members

Hon. Femi Kehinde & elder sister, Mrs. Elizabeth Oyenike Amusan

Hon. Femi Kehinde & Ven. Isaac Olu. Adeleke

Officiating Minister, Bishop of Ibadan Diocese, Rt. Rev. Adeyemi

Hon. Femi Kehinde, Mrs. Olufunmilayo Kehinde & Mrs. Elizabeth Oyenike Amusan

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Prophet Kola Ayanfe & Hon. Femi Kehinde

Mr. & Mrs. Ayinde

Jumoke Ali & Bolaji Kehinde

Mr. & Mrs. Kolade

Deaconess Bukola Martins, Mrs. Bunmi Fadipe & Tayo Fadipe

Gabriel Ayinde, Lanre Aderibigbe & Ademola Kehinde

Hajiya Bisi Aremu, Mrs. Omolara Onigbinde, Chief (Mrs.) Mary Oye & Mrs. Taiwo Taiwo

Mrs. Bamidele Oye, Mrs. Yakubu Oluwaafunmilayo & Mrs. Buky Agabi

Akin Ogunbiyi

Olusola Salaudeen, Fatimat Keshiro, Oyindamola Kehinde & Lara Dokunmu

Hon. Femi Kehinde & Chief Abiola Morakinyo

Engr. & Mrs. Taiwo Diji

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Elizabeth Oni & Adeola Ekine

Zainab Sanni, Mrs. Tope Braimoh &Mrs. Folake Odumosu-Aluko

Adeniyi Abdulaziz & Ogunaike Johnson

Mrs. Damilade Ajayi, Adekunbi Okesade & Omotola Odubiyi

Aruna Bamgboshe, Olatidoye Folashade, Gbemisola Oyedeji & Col. Olalere Segun Ayodeji

Mrs. Bukola Akanni, Julie Folami, Funmilayo Yakubu, Aboluwade Olapeju, Patricia Irabor & guest

Princess Adaeze, Hon. Femi Kehinde & Chief Remi Alabi

Mojisoola Oluwa, Olabisi Ibrahim & Alhaja Morufatu Gomes

record throughout his sterling career. His family members eulogised him as a man filled with the fruit of the Spirit. With an exemplary lifestyle as this, it was only right for the family to have organized an eventful and grand burial ceremony for their revered father.

First on the reel of events was the church service which held at Saint Mary’s African Church, Ile-Ogbo, Ayedire, in Osun State. Friends, family and well-wishers of the Kehinde Family turned up to give their final salute to the great man.

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Bishop of Ibadan Diocese took to the altar, his white cassock flailing behind his gracious gait. He thanked everybody for their presence at the event and prayed that the Lord would watch over them. Charging the congregation, he explained that only few are lucky to reach the age of 80 particularly with the dwindling life expectancy of Nigerians and urged the congregation to right their wrongs and be of good cheer as no one knows when the Lord would called them home.

Furthermore, he praised the life of the deceased, declaring that Pa Kehinde loved everyone and his works would definitely live after him. The family took to the

altar to receive prayers and thanks from well wishers who trooped out en-masse to bless them.

A reception followed at the Saint Mary’s African Church Primary School. The reception ceremony, organized by the Kehinde Family saw the abundance of food and drinks as well as music provided by a traditional band. The family members took centre-stage as they rollicked throughout the occasion. Celebrations lasted through the evening as people toasted to the wonderful life of a man who came to the world as a mere mortal but left as a moral phenomenon.

Mrs. Bukky Onibokun, Adekemi Popoola & Mrs. Ebun Olowe

Mrs. Yinka Tella

Mrs. Bamidele Oye, Jibola Suara & Kemi Suara

Jumoke Bamidele Oye & Bukky Martins

Barr. Kayode Olabiran & Captain O.J. Olanrewaju

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ALL THE GLITZ AND GLAMOUR OF

OVATION CAROL AND AWARDS IN ACCRA Story: Babatunde Matins Photo: Adekoya Adegbite, Dragan Mikki, Tope Brown, Ben Dzakah, Segun Lawal & Ken Ehimen

H.E (Mrs.) Nana Konadu Agyemang Rawlings receiving an award inducting her husband, Former President John Jerry Rawlings into the Ovation Hall of Fame

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usic aficionados in Ghana joined by the legion of die-hard readers and fans of Africa’s numero uno celebrity journal, OVATION International Magazine across the world had a super blast last December as the most-prestigious, most-talked about, most glamorous yuletide event in recent years - the OVATION Carol & Awards, organised by our premium brand, held for a second successive year in the Ghanaian capital of Accra.

For the first time ever, the annual Pan-African concert shifted base from Africa’s entertainment capital, Lagos, to the former Gold Coast in 2013 and was a mega success and so by popular demand, it was back!.

That inaugural Ghanaian adventure went right into the entertainment annals of that West African country as not just the biggest musical show in Ghana in 2013 but as the country’s biggest entertainment cum awards event ever with an impressive assemblage of music, movie and TV stars and a number of globally respected political figures like ex-president H.E John Jerry Rawlings, in the mix.

Naturally, the delight of Ghanaians cannot be captured adequately in words when news filtered through that Accra would be playing host a second time for the 2014 party. Expectations soared across the capital and across Africa for an even more stellar showing due to OVATION’s legendary penchant for hosting spectacular events-and true to character, we did not disappoint!

We delivered on our spoken and unspoken promises and staged a memorable and magical showpiece musical extravaganza.

Once again, our enduring and formidable partners, the Ghanaian division of African telecoms giant, Globacom Limited-Glo Mobile Ghana Ltd and United Bank of Africa (UBA)-Africa’s Global Bank were on board to ensure the success of the mega show. Also featuring prominently in the support, logistics and sponsorship department were La-Palm Royal Beach Hotel, Africa World Airlines, Meet Orbit Live, GhOne Entertainment Television, De Potters Limited and Ghana’s top Production Company, Charterhouse who all had great exposure for their brands. Their brand names and logos featured prominently in all publicity materials and messages and 308

H.E President John Kufuor presents a Post-humous Lifetime Achievement Award to top designer, Kofi Ansah

their banners were delicately and strategically positioned around the State House Banquet Hall, venue of the event.

It was a night of glitz, glamour, music and merrymaking as the crème de la crème of Ghanaian society came out to party in what turned out to be an epic yuletide revelry. The red carpet cocktail area itself became a fashion walk of some sorts with different stylish and fashionable celebrities and other guests showcasing a stunning array of exquisite designs made and ordered specially for that night.

And of course, in staying true to our tradition of celebrating class, creativity, colour and camaraderie, every part of the venue within the guests’ range of view was a

tribute to those wondrous qualities. No one escaped being captivated by the intricately decorated, stylish and classy venue. The heavenly decor was conceptualised

by Gabrielle Medie and her team from Red Carpet Events. Red Carpet events had put-up a spectacular show last year, and so they got the brief again in 2014and they were on point!

And those classy seats on which our esteemed guests were couched like royals? Those were courtesy of Let’s Be Seated-a full-service event design, planning and rental company located in the Ghanaian capital.

They specialize in stylish contemporary furniture pieces, deluxe linens and décor accents, serving their A-list clients with rentals for everything from small intimate

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affairs to elegant weddings and corporate events. Their aim of providing clients with spectacular events through creativity and uniqueness based on the clients’ individual tastes and preferences came to the fore with the excellent and peerless professional service they provided for OVATION, it became clear that theirs is an events company that always strives to create stylish and truly unforgettable occasions for clients. And certainly, their outstanding customer service, high-quality inventory and avante-garde event designs are top notch.

The stage was was a wonder to behold. It was beautifully decorated with a digital backdrop and a touch of green.

OVATION Carol 2014 was compered by celebrity radio presenter and on-air personality, Kofi Okyere Darko (KOD) and adorable Studio53 host, Sika Osei.

The duo officially opened the evening and then guests were enthralled with a special Christmas choral presentation by The Winneba Youth Choir. The host later invited the Publisher of OVATION International Magazine, Bashorun Dele Momodu on stage for the opening speech. As usual, Bashorun Momodu delivered a message of hope, informing the gailydressed audience that the magazine which last year initiated the Professor Kofi Awoonor Poetry Competition at the University of Ghana, Legon, was this year going to recognize some social entreprenuers for their contribution to society as well as other outstanding Ghanaians.

His speech over, in the blink of an eye, the welldecorated hall was electrified , and the stunning venue came alive with the velvety voices of a Christian Band.

The action then accelerated as performer after performer took turns to blow away the minds of the audience with their amazing talents. Classical vocalist, Abiodun Koya, was on point with her operatic delivery. The soft spoken

opera star, clad in delectable white gown, stole hearts with her delivery the year before once again dazzled and mesmerized her audience with her angelic voice. The guests who were won over by every inch of what was a Grammy-worthy performance rewarded her superlative showing with a standing ovation.

After a superlative performance from the Nigeriaborn American opera singer, there was a presentation of awards. The hosts of the night invited Publisher of OVATION Magazine again on stage for this, then, the Pub-

lisher invited respectfully invited Ghana’s ex-number one man, the highly revered H.E John Kufuor to do the honours. The former President was accompanied by his first daughter as a posthumous Lifetime Achievement Award was presented to African fashion icon, Kofi Ansah. The award was received on his behalf by family members. Chief Momodu then invited on stage Ghana’s former First Lady, H.E Nana Konadu Agyemang-Rawlings for what was certainly the most prestigious award of the evening, A Leadership Award and Induction into the OVATION Hall of Fame for former Ghanaian Presi313

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Abiodun Koya & Bashorun Dele Momodu

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Ovation’s Publisher, Bashorun Dele Momodu delivering the welcome address

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Victoria Michaels receiving her award

Sara Nana Yeboah receiving her award from Mrs. Abiola Bawuah MD/CEO, UBA Ghana & Bashorun Dele Momodu

dent, John Jerry Rawlings. Mrs. Rawlings, with a smile on her face gladly received the honour and later told the enthusiastic audience that she was glad that the contribution of her husband to good governance, probity and integrity in Africa had not been forgotten. She said the man fondly called JJ will really cherish this award. There were also humanitarian awards for super model, Victoria Michaels and Nurse cum social entrepreneur, Sara Nana Yeboah. Before these presentations, Afetsi Awoonor, one of the sons of Prof.

Kofi Awoonor had mounted the stage to thank the organisers of the event and to inform the audience that the funds donated by OVATION last year had been augmented by some members of the family and other donors and that plans have reached an advance state to begin the Kofi Awoonor Poetry Competition.

Later on, fast-rising Ghanaian hip hop act, Becca stormed the stage with her choreographers and entertained guests. Clad in a red gown, she dished out songs from her old and new album and the guests really enjoyed her performance. Thereafter, there was a fashion show by Nigerian designer, House of Mudi.

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her performance. Of course, the audience also enjoyed the evergreen tunes of Gyedu Blay Ambolley and the gospel duo No Tribe who brought many to the centre stage including Mrs. Rawlings. Then there was cabaret-like performance by Stephanie Benson and Trigmatic too gave a good account of himself. Another stand out performer that night was Nigerian artiste, Sean Tizzle. Despite the fact that he was performing in Ghana for the first time, it seemed the young man’s music is beginning to cut across as a large section of the audience sang along as he hit the notes of his popular tracks such as Shole, Perfect Gentleman and Komole.

The high point of the evening was supplied by Nigerian musical superstar and Chocolate City main man, Ice Prince.

He stormed the stage and changed the atmosphere as the crowd sprang to its feet, cheering and dancing gleefully. The tempo of fun went up an extra notch when Ice Prince invited Ghanaian darling and top-rate rapper, Sakordie on stage. The duo delivered the hottest performance of the night. Their duet was so compelling that when they were making their exit, screams of more! more! echoed from every corner of the massive hall.

It was a fitting way to draw the curtains on a sensational show that left many in awe on account of its classy entertainment content. This was an indication that the OVATION Carol & Awards 2014 was a huge success.

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THE COLOURFUL WEDDING OF

MAHMUD SANI ABACHA AND HAMAMA MOHAMMED IN ABUJA, NIGERIA Story & Interviews: Bamidele Salako Photo: Tope Brown

n late 2012, the OVATION train berthed at the Abuja home of the family of late Military Head of State, General Sani Abacha (GCON). We had been invited to be the official magazine for the stunning four-day nuptial of the late Military leader’s dashing son, Sadiq Sani Abacha and his long-time beauty of a sweetheart, Huda Khaloud. It was a first rate ceremony that shook the Federal Capital Territory (FCT) to its foundations.

So, when we were invited again by the Abachas in late 2013 for yet another wedding, we knew what to expect and unsurprisingly, the former first family did not leave us disappointed. They again proved that they were masters when it comes to celebrating such special occasions in a trendsetting and city-shaking style.

The venue was same – Abuja; the purpose was same – a grand celebration of love. But that was where the similarities ended. This time around,

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there were new principal actors in the love epic and the celebration went some notches higher- a testimony to the vibrant nature of the Abacha dynasty.

It was the turn of another son of the family, the ever smiling Mahmud Sani Abacha, to pledge his eternal love and commitment to his gorgeous honeyberry, Hamama Mohammed.

It would not be hyperbolic to assert that Mahmud was the happiest man on earth in those four days of spiraling celebrations because his wedding to Hamama was a dream come true.

Nothing quite captures his overwhelming love for her as vividly as these words from Liza Minnelli’s classic, I will wait for you: If it takes forever, I will wait for you For a thousand summers, I will wait for you Till you are here beside me, till I am touching you Till I hear you sigh, I will wait for you

Anywhere you wander, anywhere you go Everyday just remember, how I love you so In your heart believe what in my heart I know That forever more, I will wait for you The clock will tick away, the hours one by one Then the time will come when all the waiting is done The time when you return and find me here and run Straight to my waiting arms Mahmud may not have had to wait a thousand summers to get his dream girl but he still had to wait a while. He in fact, waited five summers and in the end, it was a wait that paid off big time because he won a prized trophy in the breathtaking, Hamama.

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The genesis of their whirlwind romance dated back to 2008 when Mahmud had spotted Hamama at a wedding, in Kano, when she was 17 years old.

Hamama’s pristinely beautiful and angelic demeanour struck a major chord deep down in Mahmud’s soul and left a lasting impression. It was a classic coup de foudre - love at first sight.

As with all such touch-and-go emotional situations, Mahmud understood perfectly that Hamama was barely legal. Yet, for some inexplicable reasons, he was assured that she was meant for him. And this was why from that moment forward, Hamama became a coveted treasure; he decided to wait until she was of age and ready for a relationship that could climax in marriage before making his move.

Hamama who is in her final year at the Bayero University Kano (BUK) where she is pursuing a first degree in Economics, revealed to us, “I was 17 when we met. It was at my uncle’s wedding – my father’s friend actually; but he is like an uncle to me. I do not know how he is related to Mahmud but Mahmud was there that day. He was a friend of my sisters and we were just close. I used to call him ‘Uncle Ma’ because of the respect I had for him and he was always nice to me from that day.”

Mahmud, who had been keeping tabs, eventually made his intention known to Hamama when she was almost 19. “Once in a while, he would call and say hello to the family. Then one day, he came to another uncle’s wedding, and we met. And he said, “Oh, you are all grown up now.”

He was like, ‘’You know I have always told you that I would come back for you – that, when you get older, I am going to come and we are going to start dating.’

And I was like, ‘I thought you were just joking.’ That was when he told me that he was for real and that he wanted to get to know me more and possibly, have a serious relationship. And so, I thought we could give it a try by being friends and then see what happens. From then on, we started to have frequent conversations over the phone. Once in a while, we would go out and eat. And that was how our relationship started.”

By the time the lovers were being inducted into the ranks of the married, five years had passed and Mahmud could not argue with the fact that the wait had been worth his while. It was little wonder that he was all smiles at the dinner held by his family in honour of their wedding at the International Conference Centre (ICC) in Abuja.

The recherché dinner was the crown jewel of four festivityfilled days and it unfolded at a very fluid pace. Mahmud, who is a passionate biker and a member of the Abuja Bikers’ Club, would no doubt have loved the kind of welcome he and his stunning bride received. It was one that

revolved around his biking passion. His biker buddies lined up on parallel sides and formed a guard of honour for the couple as they made their way into the hall.

The guys raised their helmets and made an arch through which the couple strode arm-in-arm, beaming with glee.

Mahmud was rocking a bespoke black tuxedo with a matching bowtie and a cute smile while Hamama dazzled in an elegant white wedding gown with a 10ft train, embellished with crystals and stones – she was an angelic vision. Shortly after the duo was settled, the event opened properly with prayers by Sheikh Babagana Shehu.

A large contingent of family members, friends and wellwishers packed the venue of the glamorous reception to celebrate with the newlyweds. This is typical of the Abachas who are crowd-pullers any day, any time.

Their legendary generosity and hospitality have endeared them to many, not just in the North, but across the nation.

This was why Governor Seriake Dickson of Bayelsa State, whose State was created under the regime of the late patriarch of the family, General Sani Abacha in 1996, was not hesitant in accepting to chair the grand occasion at short notice. Gov. Dickson attended the reception as a representative of Nigeria’s President, Dr. Goodluck Jonathan, but Hajiya Maryam Abacha and her son, Mohammed, told him that it would be their profound honour if he accepted to chair the event and he wasted no time in obliging them.

Governor Dickson, in delivering his remarks, thanked the groom’s family for the honour and proceeded to point out that the Abachas have been friends of Bayelsa from inception and are viewed as a family in the oil-rich State. He reminded the guests that Alh. Mohammed Abacha, the eldest scion of the Abacha dynasty, holds the highest title in Ijawland as the Izon-Ebidouwei of Ijawland (One who seeks the good of Ijawland) – an honour which was bestowed on him in 2012 by the Governor’s administration.

Reverting to the day’s theme, the Governor congratulated the couple on discovering each other.

He said, “I congratulate you Mahmud and Hamama for discovering each other, because many go through life without ever finding their better halves.”

“The marriage institution is not just the oldest institution in the history of the world but also the most respected and honoured.

All societies and religions respect it. It is an important building block of society, because a stable society is hinged on stable homes.

“I congratulate the families who have groomed Mahmud and Hamama. I will like the couple to understand that marriage is an education in itself because every day in marriage is a classroom.

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He is a very nice person extremely nice person. He is always smiling, even when he has problems. He is very caring and I like that part about him. He is also very humble. couple and prayed for peace, harmony, love and wisdom in their marriage.

The rest of the night was filled with dancing and merrymaking as Rhythm 94.7 FM’s DJ Kenny regaled the happy pair, their friends and families with an endless stream of exciting music.

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Governor declared.

He stressed, “For your marriage to be a success, communication is key as well as trust and confidence in the Almighty God.” And in what was perhaps the greatest counsel on the night, directed at the couple’s loved ones, Governor Dickson concluded, “I implore family and friends to let go. Let them make their own mistakes, make discoveries and learn on their own. I wish you both a happy married life.”

The lavish party was steered by ace compere, Dayo Benjamin, and was interspersed with thrilling entertainment by rapper, Idris Abdulkareem, who serenaded the couple with a special wedding number.

The Koroso dancers from Kano, Shettima Mansur from Maiduguri as well as Chadian vocalist, Abdulazeez whose silky voice was a beauty to savour, all made the event more entertaining.

The couple then had the pleasure of some additional wise counsel from the Executive Director/Chief Executive Officer of the National Primary Healthcare Development Agency (NPHCDA), Dr. Ado Mohammed. Describing the couple as a perfect match, Dr. Mohammed told them, “No human being is perfect and no marriage is perfect. This is why you both need to be patient and tolerant of each other.” Like Gov. Dickson, he also advised the lovers not to let third parties in on their private affairs.

A number of international guests graced the reception, the most prominent being Mrs. Khadijah Farrakhan, wife of the leader of the Nation of Islam (NOI), Mr. Louis Farrakhan Muhammad Snr., who was a close friend of the groom’s late father. Mr. Farrakhan sent in a goodwill letter through his wife to the Abachas in which he expressed his immense pleasure at the 338

opportunity to write them. He prayed that Allah would grant the couple a good life and children that will love Nigeria and work for the good of the country.

Some of the dignitaries that felicitated with the Abachas on their day of joy were included four former First Ladies, namely, Hajiya Zara Maryam Abubakar, Mrs. Ajoke Murtala Muhammed, Hajia Jumai TafawaBalewa and Mrs. Victoria Aguiyi-Ironsi. Others were Major Hamza Al-Mustapha (who played an immensely supportive role throughout the ceremonies); former Minister of Works, Dr. Hassan Lawal who represented Rtd .(Gen.) Muhammadu Buhari; Imo State Commissioner for Agriculture and Natural Resources, Mrs. Adaora Ijezie; Chief Emmanuel Nwanyanwu; Nassarawa State First Lady, Hajiya Mairo Al-Makura; Barrister Joseph Ekpe Edet who represented the Cross River State Governor, Liyel Imoke; Hajiya Aminat Ola Sa’ad and a host of government functionaries.

After a series of musical interludes and dancing, the couple rose to cut their beautiful multi-coloured wedding cake which was in every way the confectioner’s delight. The beautiful cake was crafted by leading Kano-based baker, Linda Villanueva. The newlyweds were joined in the cake-cutting ceremony by the groom’s mother, Her Excellency, Hajiya Maryam Abacha and other former first ladies and dignitaries in the audience. Together, they cheered and took a raft of photographs.

Hajiya Maryam Abacha is a woman with deep cultural connections and so, even though the wedding reception was very modern in its composition, she introduced a cultural dimension when she presented the couple with a traditionally made cake. Together with her friends from the Retired Officers’ Wives Association (ROWA), she made the presentation to the

Mahmud and Hamama’s storybook wedding had opened four days earlier at the Hamama’s family residence on Lome Crescent in Wuse Zone 7, Abuja.

The Kamu is an age-long cultural component of Hausa weddings, which in contemporary times, is observed with a more modern twist. By tradition, a bride, having been made ready for her groom through various traditional beautification techniques, goes into hiding and the groom is expected to search her out from a bevy of damsels – mostly friends of the bride.

This Kamu unfolded a little differently. Many of the bride’s friends and aunts had arrived at the house as early as 3pm that afternoon. As they arrived, they flocked the room where the beautiful Hamama was being made up for the first phase of her marital rites.

Then, they chatted with her and cheered her up to ease some of the tension that no doubt accompanies such grand occasions. She after all had four big days ahead of her – it was natural to be a little nervy.

While everyone awaited the arrival of the groom’s sisters and aunts, the super talented Bori International Band, entertained us with dulcet indigenous tunes. A little later, a contingent of the Abacha family arrived and they were led by Mahmud’s sister, Hajiya Fatima Gumsu Sani Abacha as well as his elder brothers, Mohammed and Sadiq’s wives - Hajiya Fati Mohammed Abacha and Huda Sadiq Abacha. They came bearing gifts for the bride’s family members.

Some few minutes later,a glimmering Hamama stepped out from ‘hiding’ before proceeding with her in-laws into an already turbo-charged compound where friends and family members were having a wonderful time.

The bridal party instantly joined the jollity, relishing at intervals, a blend of Afro-pop and native music by Abuja based Disc Jockey, DJ Johnny, the Bori International Band and Asharalle International Band.

When news filtered in that Mahmud would soon be arriving, Hamama was accompanied by her friends back into the house where according to custom, her groom would come to ‘find’ her and lead her into the open to present her to the world for the very first time.

Shortly afterwards, her Prince Charming arrived with friends and quickly got down to the business of ‘finding’ his bride. When he had found her in the house, together, they proceeded to meet the bride’s parents, where blessings were pronounced upon them.

Thereafter, they danced a little and called it a night.

THE WEDDING FATIHA

The second chapter of the lovebirds’ nuptials-the wedding Fatiha - opened at the National Mosque, Abuja, after Friday Jumat prayers. Here, Mahmud and Hamama’s union was formalised according to Islamic rites. It was strictly an all men’s affair that had in attendance the groom, his brothers - Alhaji Mohammed Abacha, Abba Abacha, Sadiq Abacha and Mustapha Abacha. Also in attendance were the Minister of the Federal Capital Territory, (FCT), Senator Bala Mohammed and Major Hamza Al-Mustapha.

Thereafter, River Plate Gardens hosted a wedding reception that spiraled into a political campaign as hordes of buses conveying Alhaji Mohammed Abacha’s political supporters thronged the venue to chant the praises of the Ijawland chieftain who has gubernatorial aspirations for the 2015 governorship

elections in his home State of Kano.

THE BRIDE’S FAMILY DINNER

Later that evening, Hamama’s parents, Alhaji Mohammed Ahmed and Hajiya Amina Mohammed Ahmed, hosted guests to a colourful and lively reception at the Ivy Event Marque, Ahmadu Bello Way, Wuse II, Abuja.

Driven by a desire to create truly exceptional events and a passion to deliver unforgettable experiences, Hajiya Sadiya Datti’s Niger based Eventspirations-an Events Décor, Design and Management Company, got the nod of Hamama’s family to create a truly magical evening for everyone.

Hajiya Datti and her team of professional decorators were on point, transforming the venue into a sea of gold with appurtenant crystal decked table centerpieces and lampstands, signature roof drapes, beautiful lighting signature complementary of overhanging glistening golden chandeliers. The gilded ambience was the perfect backdrop for a wonderful celebration of love.

The most fascinating attraction on the evening was however, the wedding couple. Together, they gleamed like the stars in the night sky and were an item.

Hamama’s elder sister, Saula, told OVATION as much: “They are very compatible, I can tell you. The way we see them, they both glitter like jewels and are a perfect match. So, we pray they treasure each other just the way we see them.”

It was a wonderful evening of excellent musical complements accompanied by luscious cuisines and exotic drinks. Different musical groups from different Northern Nigerian States and countries took turns to serenade guests. Shettima Mansur from Borno State and the exquisite Bori International Band were the peak of the pack.

Also at the prestigious occasion were, Hajia Bola Shagaya, Hajiya Fatima Binta Bello, Major Hamza AlMustapha amongst others.

THE KAULU AND WOLIMAT

On the third day of festivities, highbrow Blue Velvet Marque in Wuse Zone 4, Abuja, was a meeting point for tradition and religion as the couple and their families gathered for the very traditional Kaulu and the religious Wolimat.

The Kaulu afforded elders from both families to conduct a spiritual cleansing of the couple while also pronouncing blessings on them as they entered a new phase in their lives. The Wolimat on the other hand, was a forum for Islamic clerics to provide the couple with Quranic instructions on marriage.

Both events unfolded concurrently in a typical Arabian setting constructed to glossy perfection.

Events planner, Hyeladzira Laushi, working with Blessing Onyejiaka’s Manble Classic, played with various elements of Arabian and Hausa-Fulani cultures to deliver a picture-perfect scenery for the dual event.

Items such as beautifully designed calabashes, Dardumas (Arabian carpets), Arabian lanterns, throw pillows, multi-coloured candles, puffs, signature draping, sweetly crafted baskets and crystal-decked silver centerpieces and candleholders were all on display. Then, there was the signature fragrance of incense which permeated the atmosphere.

All was set and guests, mostly women, who were clad in uniform Ankara fabrics, began to arrive in their numbers for the special occasion. Hajiya Maryam Abacha led the train of women to the event. Her son, Mohammed led the men. Their arrivals were met with drumming and the blaring of local horns. The couple too arrived almost immediately and was accompanied by cutely garbed friends to the sitting area. Mahmud shined in a lemon Babariga with a black cap to match while Hamama spotted an awesome embroidered floor length gown with a veil over her face.

Veteran Northern Broadcaster, Mairo Adamu, announced the official opening of the event after the couple had arrived and invited Sheikh Kabiru Gombe to take the opening prayer. Then, the Sheikh shared sound Quranic injunctions with the couple before Alaramma Ahmad Sulaiman took readings from the Quran while Sheikh Ibrahim Disina prayed for their peace and prosperity.

The next item on the program combined the Arabian and Kanuri cultures. Group by group of family elders came into the tent where the couple was seated, rubbed henna on the couple’s hands and washed it away into calabashes. This cleansing rite pre-supposed the washing away of evil and sin from the lives of the lovers. This rite came with a pronouncement of blessings on the newly formed union.

After the rites had been performed, the floor was thrown open for Mahmud and Hamama’s family members, friends and loved ones to come shower them with gifts as well as more marital blessings and prayers.

Alhaji Mohammed Abacha blessed the union with 3.5 million naira; his younger brother, Abba, showered the

couple with a million naira; Mahmud’s friends combined to surprise him and his bride with a gift of 2 million naira. Several other guests presented the delighted couple with more cash and gift items.

The event then took a fun twist and got spiced up with fantastic musical entertainment and cultural performances by various entertainers: Chadian vocalist, Abdulazeez; Shettima Mansur from Borno State; Mai Asharalle, the Koroso Dancers and the Nupe Cultural Troupe – Sibombom.

After all the festivities, we sat down to an exclusive interview with delighted Hamama and she shared her excitement with us. We also spoke to her parents, her aunts and friends to hear their part of this wonderful love story.

BRIDE

Congratulations on a successful wedding, could you describe for us the emotions you are feeling now

I am excited, of course but a little bit confused, because I am going into a new thing – something I have never experienced before. I have got mixed feelings – I am happy, then I am sad because I am leaving home. I guess it is all good – everyone in my family is really happy for me.

Have you cried in the last few days

I have been crying for a week now.

Your mum actually sobbed when we spoke earlier – it shows the strong emotional bond that exists between you two

Yes, she is my best friend. I do not hide things from her. I can talk to her about anything. I am lucky to have her.

What has she been telling you in the last few days about marriage

She has been telling me that, there needs to be love in my marriage and that I need to be patient at all times.

She has told me to always reciprocate my husband’s love, because she knows he loves me so much and is so caring. She told me to take good care of my in-laws and show them love, whether they show me love or not. I am obviously fortunate to have in-laws who love me so much and I love them so much as well.

Who are you closer to-your dad or mum

I am close to both of them. My dad-we eat together and go out together. I share things with my mum; she understands me a lot. My dad – we have fun together.

Everyone I have spoken to so far, your dad, mum, aunts, they all speak about how religious you are

I guess that is an outcome of my upbringing. That is what I have been seeing and what I have been taught to do. I feel comfortable and happy whenever I pray. I feel at ease and I just enjoy doing it.

What are your convictions about life

To be a good person, a good Moslem, a good daughter, a good sister, a good wife, a good friend, a good human being: to bring honour to my husband and family members.

What are you going to miss most about home

I am going to miss everybody. I am definitely going to miss my bed. Gosh, I love that bed! (laughs). It is small and comfortable and I love it.

When and how did you meet Mahmud

I was 17 when we met. It was at my uncle’s wedding – my father’s friend actually; but he is like an uncle to me. I do not know how he is related to Mahmud but Mahmud was there that day. As at then, he was a friend of my sisters and we were just close. I called him Uncle Ma because of the respect I had for 339

Lady, how am I going to greet?” and all that. When I got there, they were so nice. It was unbelievable. Though I was scared, they were so nice that I felt comfortable.

What did his mum say to you that first time

I think she said something like, “Oh, she is really tiny,” or something like that (laughs). I greeted her and she asked me about school and all those things. Then she was like, “You need to eat and get a little bit chubby” (laughs). She was so nice.

When did you tell your mum about the relationship

She was in on it from the start.

I am guessing your mum told your dad

I guess she did but then, I asked him about Mahmud and what he felt. He told me they were a really nice family and that if I had made up my mind, then he did not think it would be a decision I would regret because he had found that Mahmud loves me so much. He told me that I was in good hands and that he was going to always pray for me. He asked me to put my trust in God and pray for God to guide me and that if it is meant to be, it will.

Your parents have been married now for almost 30 years, what lessons have you learnt from living with them and watching them over the years

Patience! My mum is a very patient woman. My mum is one of the most patient people I know on earth.

My dad is very caring and I have realized that, when you are really caring and nice to people, even when they do not like you, because you are nice to them, one day, they just might be forced to like you.

Your dad described you as his heartbeat and even told us that, he has cried and lost some weight because you are leaving the house. How would you describe your relationship with him

My dad and I have been buddies from when I was a little girl. We would often go out together and he would spoil me with all sorts of goodies. We would usually go out in the company of my brother and sister, but then it got to a point where it would be only me that he took out. And then, my siblings would be jealous. Then later, my sister travelled to my aunt’s place in Eritrea. It was just my brother and I left at home with our parents. My brother – you know boys – was cool being by himself.

So, it was basically me and my dad, after then. So, we did a lot together, took pictures, went out – just had fun.

We are really close. Sometimes, when I do not return from school early, he would not eat until I come back and then we would eat together. He taught me how to fry eggs-that was my first lesson in the kitchen. My dad is a really good cook.

Perhaps, you have always longed to have a husband just like your dad

I guess: if not for anything, for the cooking part. My dad can cook for my mum and she will just sit back and relax. He would do the cooking and then serve the food.

What was growing up like for you and your siblings

It was a lot of fun. My siblings are like my best friends. When I was younger, I did not have any friend other than my brother and sister. And then, when my elder sister travelled, it was just my brother and I. My dad got us bicycles and we would ride together. My brother has always watched out for me. When my sister returned, we would fight but then, we would hug afterwards and cry together and tell each other sorry.

She has been like a mother to me. She would always advise me.

You are currently in school

Yes, I am a final year student of Economics at Bayero University Kano (BUK).

What are your plans for the future career-wise

him and he was always nice to me from that day.

So, at what point did he make his intentions known

He did so when I was almost 19. Once in a while, he would call and say hello to the family members.

Then one day, he came to another uncle’s wedding and we met. And he was like, “Oh, you are all grown up now.” From then on, we started to have frequent conversations over the phone. Once in a while, we would go out and eat. And that was how our relationship started.

What did he say in particular to you

He is always romantic but there was this time I took ill and I could not eat. And so, he stayed there all day long with me, fed me, did virtually everything for me, even wore me my shoes. He made feel very special that day. He was there all day long.

That must have melted your heart

Of course, it did. The amazing thing is that, at that point, it did not quite dawn on me, the importance of what he was doing. But then, later I sat back and thought about it and just thought to myself, how sweet he was that day.

I would love to get my Masters. I would love to work, only if my husband permits. If he does not, then I will have to think of something personal. I do not want to just waste my time. I want to use my time to make other people happy – let them know that someone is there for them – like orphans. I would love to bring them good food, clothes, shelter and all that. I am sure that will take my mind off so many things.

Everyone I have spoken to about you has described you as a nice person, how would you describe yourself

I can say that I am friendly. I am nice yes, but I do get angry, maybe not for too long, but I do get angry.

I will be talking to your friends in a bit; what should I expect to hear from them about you

He was like, “You know I have always told you that I would come back for you – that when you get older, I am going to come and we are going to start dating.”

And I was like, “I thought you were just joking.” That was when he told me that he was for real and that he wanted to get to know me more and possibly, have a serious relationship. And so, I thought we could give it a try by being friends and then see what happens.

Do you both have anything in common

I love the shrimp sauce, chicken and French fries. I love some Molten chocolates too (laughs). He loves steak and veggies. He cooks and he is a very good cook, too. He loves spicy meals – he does not get tired of them at all.

Who is your best friend

What qualities does he possess that eventually won you over

When did you first meet his family members

What kind of home are you looking to build

He is a very nice person - extremely nice person. He is always smiling, even when he has problems. He is very caring and I like that part about him. He is also very humble.

So, what is the most romantic thing he has done for you

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We love food so much.

What are your favourite dishes

I think it was shortly after we started dating and things had gotten serious. I was 19 at the time.

What was it like when you met them

I had always liked the family members but I had never met them before. I had always wanted to meet them but then, I was so scared. You know, “Former First

Let me see. Quite honestly, I am not sure what they will say (laughs).

I cannot say I have one best friend, but I have close friends. My close friends are Su’ad, Ummukulthum, Aisha - we are together, almost all the time.

You are all in school together

Yes, we attend the same school.

I want a simple home filled with love, peace and understanding. Already, I have a good and loving husband in Mahmud. Even if something changes, I just hope, not everything. I just pray my marriage is different. So many people see certain people’s marriages as models; I would like mine to be such. I

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THE FATIHA

Mahmud Abacha with friends and family members

The groom greeting elder brothers, Alhaji Abba Abacha & Mohammed Ababcha

Sen. Sanusi Daggash with a guest

Mohammed Abacha welcoming guests

FCT Minister, Alhaji Bala Mohammed

know once in a while you would have a fight and things like that, but I want my marriage to be really different.

going into a good family and we thank God for that and I wish them a happy married life.

How many children do you want to have

What kind of upbringing did Hamama receive from you

I am thinking about 11 – a football team (laughs). I do not know – maybe six to nine. I love kids.

I wish you every good thing you wish yourself in your marriage – I wish you all the best

Thank you very much.

BRIDE’S DAD -ALH. MOHAMMED AHMED

It is the pride of every father, giving his daughter out in marriage; how do you feel sir

I feel on top of the world. She is

I gave all my kids the best upbringing. They are well-disciplined and learned – both in Islam and modern education. I have spent every last dime, energy and resources to give all my children a very good upbringing.

How would you describe Hamama

She is one of a kind-one out of a million. She is a very intelligent girl – very religious. She is very smart and I am most grateful to have her as a daughter.

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Senator Ibrahim Mantu

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FATIHA RECEPTION

(Middle) Major Hamza Mustapha (Rtd.) with other guests

Abba Abacha (M) with other guests

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BRIDE’S MUM HOSTS SPECIAL DINNER

When did you get to know about her relationship with Mahmud

That was about five years ago; I knew from the start. I am very free with my kids. I encouraged her too, because I knew Mahmud is from a very good, disciplined family. I actually prayed back then that they would get married one day and thank God, today is the day.

30 years and I have seen her mother shower so much love on her kids-even on other people’s kids. If anything, her mum has taught her a lot. Her mum is well-disciplined, even more of a disciplinarian than I am. In fact, I could say that Hamama’s upbringing has rested more with her mum. Her mother gave her the best home training any child and any woman can receive, anywhere in the whole world.

What were your expectations regarding the kind of man you wanted your daughter to settle with and would you say she has found that man in Mahmud

How close are you to Hamama

Oh yes! She has found that man. I had always prayed for a man from a good family, respectful, with a good background and someone who will shower love on my daughter. I see that Mahmud possesses all these qualities. She loves him a lot as well. I am so pleased that she gets Mahmud as her husband.

I am sure you are already missing her

How long have you been married

I have been married for almost 30 years.

So, what lessons do you think Hamama has learnt from your own marriage

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We are very close. She is my heartbeat! In fact, I do not know how much it is going to cost me losing her.

Oh, I have already lost three kilogrammes and almost two litres of tears.

What are your prayers for her in this new phase she has stepped into

I wish her a very happy married life. May God bless them with good children and happiness, peace, joy and prosperity.

my best friends.

BRIDE’S MUM- HAJIYA AMINA MOHAMMED

Congratulations on the success of your daughter’s wedding

Thank you very much.

You must be excited by all of this-she is the second daughter you are giving out in marriage

Yes, I have been very glad and very emotional too.

She is the baby of the house and my second and last daughter.

How have the past few days been for you

They have been tasking. You know how weddings are. I plead with all my invited guests to pardon me for any inconveniences I may have caused them. I am quite pleased and happy to wish them all safe journey back home and very happy lives, hereafter.

Tell us more about yourself sir

What kind of upbringing did you give Hamama-her dad, your husband, says you played a principal role in her upbringing, even more than he did

I am an ordinary Nigerian from Gombe State. I consider myself a very good dad and a good husband who cares about his family. My wife and children are

I would not be the one to praise myself in that regard, but I give all the praise and thanks to Almighty Allah. It is the wish of Allah that every child be given a

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Hajiya Fatima Mohammed Abacha & Hajiya Zainab Abacha

Hajiya Gumsu Abacha-Fadil (right)

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good upbringing. I thank God that I was able to raise her well.

You have been married for almost three decades now, what ingredients have sustained your marriage

Obedience! I pray that Hamama follows my guidelines and my steps, because I respect my husband.

I advise him in the right way; I listen to him all the time – in good times and bad times. Patience is another major factor. I will always pray for them to understand each other and live a happy life. I know that life is not always a bed of roses but with patience, their marriage will be a successful one.

What have you told Hamama about marriage

Patience! She has to be prayerful too. With faith in Allah, I am sure she will find it easy. Once you are married, it is supposed to be a lifetime contract and so, I pray that God preserves their union for as long as they live.

Have you had to cry in the course of the past week

I am also crying now, because I am attached to her (sobs). She is a good girl and she is loved by all. I am happy for her; now she is in good hands.

When did you get to know that she was in a relationship-

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did she confide in you at some point

clearer heads and minds.

One could say we knew when it all started. He saw her when she was 17-years old and he started to visit us like a family friend. When she came of age, he introduced himself to us officially as a suitor and told us that he needed our permission to talk to her about his feelings and we gave him our consent. Mahmud is a very respectful man. He is always cheerful and very straightforward. I like the way he behaves. He never lies; he will tell you the truth all the time. He always held her as a sister; now she is his wife.

No third parties

What has the relationship been like, between both families

HAMAMA AND MAHMUD THROUGH THE EYES OF FAMILY MEMBERS AND FRIENDS HAMAMA IS MY FAVOURITE SISTER; I AM GOING TO MISS HER A LOT

Oh, very cordial! His mother is a very loving woman and quite caring. I am sure I will not be the first person to have said this. Many people must have met her and found out as much; she is a very pleasant person. She offers guidance to Hamama, as if she was her own daughter. I thank Allah for such an in-law.

You alluded to the fact that marriage is not a bed of roses earlier-in times of misunderstanding or disagreements, what would you advise that Hamama and Mahmud do

I will advise them to be calm in such situations, let the heat go down and then, talk about it later with

No, no, no. I am sure they will both understand each other. They are both well brought up and I will keep praying for them.

What are your wedding wishes and prayers for them in this new journey they have embarked upon

May the Almighty Allah grant them a peaceful and blessed life, children who will respect them – twins and triplets (laughs). I wish them a blessed home.

Growing up, we were just three kids in the house.

Hamama is my favourite sister and I am her favourite sibling. I am going to miss her a lot because now, I am going to be lonely at home. My elder sister has not been with us for like five years because she is married as well, and so I am quite used to Hamama. I know

everybody has said she is nice and all, but from a brother’s perspective, I can tell you that she can be hottempered and quite stubborn (laughs). But when she sees me in the house, she calms down (laughs). She knows who the boss is (laughs). She is a generous soul, though. We both stand up for each other. When I am in need, she is there for me and when she is in need too, I am there for her. I could just call her up suddenly, that I would be having friends over at the house and she would prepare lunch for us without complaints. She is a loyal friend and I love her so much and I truly appreciate all that she has done for me. I am very protective of her and as a matter of fact, not a few guys have been beaten because of her (laughs). I do not joke with my baby sister. I have known Mahmud long before she got to know him. We used to hang out once

in a while and he is kind and gentle and I can say that, she is in good hands. His family is a great one as well and I am sure she will be fine.

-Amin Mohammed (Bride’s Elder Brother)

MAHMUD AND HAMAMA GLITTER LIKE JEWELS AND THEY ARE A PERFECT MATCH

Hamama is such a sweet soul. She is gentle, kind and very considerate. She is very respectful as well because we were brought up to respect everybody, no matter how old or young they are. We really treasure respect and discipline in our family and our parents take education seriously. We do not look down on people. We moved around a lot, growing up. We were in Gombe, Lagos, Kano, Kaduna and so forth. We experienced a great deal of cultural diversity growing

up. I am a bit emotional because this reminds me of when I was getting married too. Hamama and I are like best friends. We did everything together growing up; we played, we cried together, we laughed, we fought like most siblings do and made up-a lot of fond memories. There was one time I fell and hurt myself and bled a little. When she saw the blood, she was crying all over the place and funnily, I, the hurt one, was not even feeling the pain or crying. That is the kind of lady she is and I am really grateful to have someone like her in my life. She is very religious and she naturally has this drive that makes her want to do the right thing. I have cried a great deal in the past few days. You know, it is all like a love story, the way everything happened. It is like a fairytale in a way. I wish her a successful marriage, a happy life and good 353

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children as respectful as she is. Mahmud also, is a very gentle guy and very considerate, too. They are very compatible, I can tell you. I wish them everlasting love and Allah’s blessings in all they do. The way we see them, they both glitter like jewels and are a perfect match. So, we pray they treasure each other, just the way we see them.

-Saula Mohammed (Bride’s Elder Sister)

KNOWS HAMAMA AS A NICE PERSON

I met Hamama at Bayero University, Kano, in my second year. We were, are still, course-mates and I saw her around a lot. She is very friendly. She would usually smile at you, even if you are meeting her for the first time. The first time we got talking, we were preparing to go write a paper during exam period, and she asked if I was also writing that particular paper and I said yes.

Then she picked me up in her car and we went to the

exam hall together. That was how our friendship began.

She is a very nice person and everybody knows that. I wish her a very happy married life. Mahmud should please take care of her, because she deserves it. I wish them a lot of children (laughs).

-Aisha Sadiq (Friend and Schoolmate)

each other, everything will be fine. I got to know Mahmud recently, and he is a very gentle guy. I was actually amazed at the manners he has. He was well brought-up. And we are really glad that we have an inlaw in him.

-Hajiya Fatima A.G. Abubakar (Bride’s Aunt)

I am the youngest sister of Hamama’s mum – the last born of the family. I have known Hamama all her life and I can tell you she is a sweet girl. She is very kind and loving. I am sure you would think we are selfpraising, but the truth is, Mahmud has got the best wife anyone can get. She is very respectful and kindhearted and I am sure she will take very good care of him. I wish them all the luck they can get. Marriage is not always a rosy experience but with prayers and love for

I am Hamama’s mum’s eldest sister. Hamama is a calm and religious girl – very religious. Sometimes, she wakes up at night to pray, while we, the parents, are sleeping. She must have picked that from her mother, because her mum too, wakes up to pray at night. And anywhere her mum is in the world, she makes sure that she wakes up her kids by five in the morning for prayers. I believe that, that upbringing influenced her tremendously. Hamama is going to make a very diligent wife. She has watched her mother

MAHMUD HAS GOT THE BEST WIFE ANYONE CAN GET

HAMAMA IS A VERY RELIGIOUS GIRL

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over the years and I am certain that she has learnt a lot.

Her mum is a very open person – quite accommodating. There is not a single soul who travels to their home in Kano who does not speak of how well they were treated. Even the less privileged ones, she would invite them to her house, make them do some work, pay them and feed them. Mahmud too is a calm and respectful person. Given the kind of family he has come from, you would have thought that he would be arrogant and all, but to the contrary, he is disciplined and humble. I pray for them, long life, prosperity and a happy married life.

-Hajiya Jumai Abubakar (Bride’s Aunt)

HAMAMA IS A WONDERFUL GIRL -VERY RESPECTFUL

I am Hamama’s mum’s younger sister. Hamama is a wonderful girl – very respectful. She is just like my own daughter, because she spends almost all her holidays here in Abuja with me and she is very close to my children – her cousins. She is entering into a new phase in life and we have told her to be very prayerful and to be respectful to her husband. She should strive 358

to please him in every way. Mahmud too is a wonderful man and also quite respectful. I pray that the Almighty Allah blesses their home. I wish them a successful married life.

-Hajiya Aisha Haruna Wando (Bride’s Aunt)

guy and a very down-to-earth type of person and he is fun to be around. I congratulate them and wish both of them the best and may Allah bless their union.

-Su’ad Shehu Galadanci (Friend)

I met Hamama through my cousin, Su’ad. She is a very nice girl and really friendly. I wish her all the best in her marriage and lots of children too.

-Hadiza Tsoho Abdullahi (Friend)

Hamama is easily a loveable person. She is very friendly and extremely nice. She is really beautiful and she has a pretty smile. I wish her all the best and may Allah bless their union.

-Tahira Tahir (Friend)

HAMAMA IS A VERY NICE GIRL

HAMAMA HAS SUCH A SWEET SMILESHE IS BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUT

I actually met Hamama on Facebook and then we got into the same school in 2008 – Bayero University, Kano – and that was when we became friends. When you first meet Hamama, the first thing you notice is her smile. She has such a sweet smile and I believe that her smile is a reflection of the type of person she is. She is very beautiful – inside and out. I met Mahmud in 2008 also, which was when they first met. He is also a nice

HAMAMA IS A LOVEABLE PERSON

HAMAMA HAS A WARM AND WELCOMING PERSONALITY

I met Hamama through a mutual friend, Aisha Sadiq, and we became friends afterwards. Hamama is very friendly. She is an understanding friend. She has got this warm and welcoming personality. I wish her a successful marriage and very peaceful home and all the best that life can offer. She is actually also quite adventurous.

-Ummukulthum Bappai (Friend)

GROOM’S MUM

H.E DR. (MRS.)

MARYAM ABACHA ROUNDS OFF CELEBRATION WITH CLASS DINNER

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Mohammed Abacha, Gov. Seriake Dickson. H.E Mrs. Maryam Abacha & Mrs. Ajoke Mohammed

Coach Fanny Amun & Dayo Benjamin-Laniyi

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Celestine & Emmanuel Babayaro

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...AND THE COUPLE CELEBRATE THE ARRIVAL OF THEIR BABY BOY

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