Ovation magazine issue 159 by t2eOvation

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SINCE 1996

ALL THE GLAMOUR OF THE STAR-STUDDED LAGOS SPEAKER,AND RT.COLOUR HON. ADEYEMI IKUFORIJIEVENT IS NEW AARE OF KETU KINGDOM

THE OTEDOLAS CELEBRATE THEIR

OWN, “DJ CUPPY”, WITH A CLASSY PARTY AT MANDARIN ORIENTAL, KNIGHTSBRIDGE, LONDON

THE COLOURFUL NUPTIALS BETWEEN OMOTUVIE IBRU AND MAXWELL PEILE IN LONDON, ENGLAND

DR. NINI UGOCHUKWU WEDS CHIEDU IYIZOBA IN LAGOS

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JASON’ S SELLS THE BEST WHY

FABRICS

-LORENZO FERRARI

Lorenzo Ferrari

After years of supplying retail stores throughout the world, I dreamt of one day having my own store where I could sell items that others were unable to stock due to cost and also offer exclusive fabrics. The opportunity arose in 2009 when “Jason’s” one of the oldest if not the oldest established fabric stores in London came on the market.

e has spent more than 20 years in the textile sector mainly representing the “Made in Italy” phenemenon, in deed, Lorenzo Ferrari has travelled the world. His sojourn has mostly been in search of new markets and exploring new cultures and customs, today he has nurtured that talent into a successful business. In this interview, we speak to Mr. Ferrari about his passion for fashion, his love for fabrics and why Jason Fabrics is on the rise. How did you start in the world of Haute Couture

In my early twenties I was touring Europe as a Representative of Couture fabrics for both men and women. I soon discovered that I felt at home in this world, maybe it’s beacause I was born and raised on Lake Como, Italy, the world capital for the couture Silk industry, the birthplace of some of the most recognised designer Labels, with the “Made in Italy” mark. Tell us how you began to expand

After working for numerous years in Europe I wanted to expand into new markets far and wide even if at first they were difficult to enter and understand from what I was used to in my home town. With time, I visited new countries such as China, Malaysia, Brunei, These countries had not seen European designer fabrics, they mainly sold fabrics not bought them. I therefore saw this as my opportunity to supply wealthy individuals who wanted Luxury fabrics

but more importantly cherished the " Made in Italy" mark. For years, my competitors considered me as mad for embarking on this adventure but today I have proved them wrong. How did the idea of a shop begin

After years of supplying retail stores throughout the world, I dreamt of one day having my own store where I could sell items that others

were unable to stock due to cost and also offer exclusive fabrics. The opportunity arose in 2009 when “Jason’s” one of the oldest if not the oldest established fabric stores in London came on the market, due to the owner retiring.

Why Jason’s

Jason’s was first established in 1931 by Sidney Jason and his wife, Gladys. The business was later

Jason’s was first established in 1931 by Sidney Jason and his wife, Gladys. The business was later passed onto their son, John Jason who, thanks to his business acumen made it an icon of elegance and style. We based our takeover on two fundamental aspects. Firstly, Jason had a first-rate Sales Director, Domenico Ciampa. He had been in the establishment for over 20 years and was someone who was not only reliable but had a remarkable wealth of knowledge in buying and selling within this sector as well as an International Clientele built up over the years. At some point, we became business associates. Secondly was a desire even today to continue the tradition but to bring in a more contempoary style. We wanted to put our own mark on the new store.

passed onto their son, John Jason who, thanks to his business acumen made it an icon of elegance and style. We based our takeover on two fundamental aspects to make it a success. Firstly, Jason had a firstrate Sales Director, Domenico Ciampa. He had been in the establishment for over 20 years and was someone who was not only reliable but had a remarkable wealth of knowledge in buying and selling within this sector as well as an International Clientele base built up over the years. At some point, we became business associates.

Secondly was a desire even today to continue the tradition but to bring in a more contempoary style. We wanted to put our own mark on the new store.

What do you consider as the Unique Selling Point of Jason’s today

Thanks to my knowledge of this industry especially in terms of sourcing and my wealth of contacts coupled with Dom's professionalism, Jason’s, like we tell people, is a one-stop-shop for those searching for unique and exclusive fabrics that the world has got to offer.

From December 2014, we would be joining forces with a Textile Mill in Como, Italy. We would then be able to offer our clients personalised designs of silk prints in small quantities. This means that individuals can now have unique outfits to themselves. In addition, great attention will be given to details, the quality of the fabric used will be top notch while we will also incorporate the latest fashion trends. Our overall goal is to dress our clients in fabrics that would make them feel proud, unique and have people say “WOW”

We travel the world in our search for new and special one off’s. “You know it when you see it!”. We select our fabrics only from the most reputable sources and of the highest standards. Over the years our clients have become close friends as we have grown up with them ,seeing their children buy for their new families. For that special wedding day, first business suit, engagement, outfit etc. Jason’s is the place to go. Our staff who have years of expertise in all fashion-related topics can advise and recommend designers or dressmakers who are known to us and are able to bring dreams to life. What new plans do you have for 2015

From December 2014, we would be joining forces with a Textile Mill in Como, Italy. We would then be able to offer our clients personalised designs

of silk prints in small quantities. This means that individuals can now have unique outfits to themselves. In addition, great attention will be given to details, the quality of the fabric used will be top notch while we will also incorporate the latest fashion trends. Our overall goal is to dress our clients in fabrics that would make them feel proud, unique and have people say “WOW”

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FLORENCE â&#x20AC;&#x153;DJ CUPPYâ&#x20AC;? OTEDOLA CELEBRATES 21ST

BIRTHDAY, GRADUATION AND COMPILATION MIXTAPE WITH A CLASSY PARTY AT MANDARIN ORIENTAL, KNIGHTSBRIDGE, LONDON Story: Michael Effiong & Interview: Babatunde Martins French: Chinyere Ndukwe Photo: Dragan Mikki

hen super star diva Beyonce sang the hit ".. who runs the world..Girls", she was in fact referring to Alpha females like Florence Ifeoluwa "DJ Cuppy" Otedola. The kind of females who are determined to dare the world by charting their own courses in life-and pursuing them with vigor to outstanding success. DJ Cuppy, the lady with an infectious smile who is a bundle of humility, beauty and brains is the daughter of billionaire businessman and Chairman of Forte Oil, Mr. Femi Otedola but her upscale and privilege parentage did not deter her from making

music business and entertainment her forte The graduate of Business Management from the prestigious King's College, University of London who is now at the New York University for her Masters was the cynosure of all eyes when her proud parents, Femi and Nana Otedola, hosted a superb event to celebrate her 21st birthday, graduation and the official launch of her compilation mixtape, House of Cuppy at the 5-star Oriental Mandarin in Knightsbridge, London. It was no surprise that her parents who also invited some of their friends, attended the Marie

Antoinette-themed ceremony at the iconic venue which exudes English elegance and sumptous style. According to DJ Cuppy, who insists she has got the entrepreneurial spirit of her dad, both her parents have always been so supportive. " What stops young people from following their passion is the lack of support, not necessarily financial support. My parents pushed me to be a better version of me, I am not trying to become someone else but just being myself . I am blessed to have parents that support me in what I do, they pushed and challenged me" 7

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THE CLASSY VENUE DECOR

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An artist impression of Florence “ DJ Cuppy” Otedola

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DJ Cuppy who personally welcomed many of her family members and friends who came to celebrate these milestones in her life was in her elements; chatting and joking with glee. The lady who recently floated the Red Velvet Music Group is happy to tell everyone that she is having the time of her life because she is doing a job that she loves, and she is optimistic that with her education and exposure, she will be able to add value to the African music scene as well as give international exposure to African artistes. DJ Cuppy, a Nigerian Tourism Ambassador who was the official disc Jockey for the MTV Africa Awards 2014 started Disc Jokeying at the age of 16. And she has played at major cities and top events in different parts of the world, rubbing shoulders with the world's best. The young lady who almost always wears a smile when performing is sure to make a very big impact, not because she is an Otedola but because she is DJ Cuppy, the passionate, music-loving lady who knows her craft, is always willing to learn and not afraid to experiment. In case you are wondering where she got the moniker "Cuppy" from, no, it is not a short form of any of her names, it was a name coined by her close friends because she was a lover of cup cakes! And so when she decided to turn her passion for music into business, she adopted it as her stage name. The classy evening was very upscale as guests enjoyed 5-star gourmet meals, first-rate drinks, exciting games and good quality music entertainment. 12

orsque la star de la chanson Beyonce a chanté ".. who runs the world..Girls", elle parlait en fait de femmes comme Florence Ifeoluwa "DJ Cuppy" Otedola. Ce genre de femmes qui sont déterminées à braver le monde en se frayant leur propre chemin et poursuivant leur rêve avec vigueur et succès. DJ Cuppy, la jeune femme belle, très humble et au sourire irrésistible n’est autre que la fille du milliardaire et Président de Forte Oil, Femi Otedola, mais cela ne l’a pas empêché de poursuivre une carrière musicale. La diplômée en Gestion des Affaires de la prestigieuse université londonienne, King's College, et qui est maintenant à l’Université de New York pour son Master était le centre de tous les regards lorsque ses parents Femi et Nana Otedola ont organisé une grande cérémonie pour fêter sa remise de diplôme et le lancement officiel de son album ‘’House of Cuppy’’, à l’Oriental Mandarin à Knightsbridge, Londres. Ce n’était pas surprenant que les parents aient invité leurs amis à la cérémonie surnommée Marie Antoinette dans ce prestigieux endroit qui montre tout le style chic anglais. Selon DJ Cuppy, qui ne cesse de dire qu’elle a reçu cet esprit d’entrepreneur de son père et que ses deux parents l’ont toujours soutenue : " Ce qui empêche certains jeunes de poursuivre leur rêve n’est pas nécessairement le manque de moyens financiers mais le manque de soutien. Mes parents m’ont aidé à découvrir qui je suis réellement et ont su ressortir le meilleur en moi. Je veux seulement être moi-même et non quelqu’un d’autre. Je suis bénie d’avoir des parents qui me soutiennent dans ce que je fais. Ils me poussent et me mettent au défi’’.

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The Majestic DJ Cuppy Otedola ready to conquer the world

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In this interview, DJ Cuppy spoke to Ovation's Tunde Martin on her life, latest project and more..

Recently you launched “House of Cuppy” in Lagos, how did you achieve the large turnout

To start with, when do your love for music begin

The launch of 'House of Cuppy' in Lagos was a successful one; we sent out invitations and did promo on several radio stations. I am still blown away by the number of people that attended. I appreciate all the support I have received from everyone in the industry and of course my fans!

My love for music began at a very young age, I remember learning how to play the piano in my room and now releasing my very first mixtape 'House of Cuppy' As a child who was born with silver spoon, why did you choose music as a career

I have always had a passion for music; I believe I was born with it! So it was only right that I took a musical path in life. How did you come about the name Cuppy

The name 'Cuppy' was derived from my favourite treat, Cupcake! It also reflects the musical growth I have gone through from being a 17-year-old 'DJ Cupcake' to a 21 year old 'DJ Cuppy'. Disc Jockeying is considered a male job, do you think a woman can also excel at it

It is true that DJing is considered a 'male' job, however with everything else in the world, a female can equally do as well as a male. Us girls just have to work twice as hard! What do you consider the qualities of a good DJ

I think for me the qualities of a good DJ are passion and dedication. As a DJ, your passion for music always plays a big part in how much impact you can have on your audience! Dedication on the other hand, keeps you going and gets you through the tough days! What were the early challenges

As a female DJ, one of the early challenges I faced was not being taken seriously. It's something that I still have to deal with once in a while but I surely don't allow it to deter me from doing the best that I can! What is the innovation you want to bring into the music industry

My innovation to the music industry is something I call 'Neo-Afrobeats'. A fusion of Afrobeats and House music. My debut single, ‘I love my country’ and my new mixtape, ‘House of Cuppy’ are both great examples. What style of song do you play

I play all genres of music ranging from House to Afrobeats to Hip Hop, depending on my audience. I'm like a sponge; I soak up the energy from my audience. 14

What gave birth to the idea of launching “House of Cuppy”

For me, launching 'House of Cuppy' was something that had to be done. It was a way of showcasing what I have worked hard to produce. The whole thing was a dream come true! How have you coped juggling school and music

Juggling school and music was difficult but not impossible. I had to be really organised and disciplined. Education is something that is of personal importance to me but I am also a strong believer in chasing your dreams no matter what! Congratulations on your graduation, how did that achievement make you feel

Thank you so much! It feels good to know that I have successfully completed a chapter of my life and to look forward to what the future has in store for me! As an entertainer, will you say you have chosen the right career

I am happy doing what I do and look forward to waking up to a life as a DJ, so I strongly believe that I have chosen the right career. How supportive have your parents been as far as Djing is concerned

My parents are very supportive of what I do! They’re my biggest fans and I feel like the luckiest girl in the world! Who are your role models

I have a few role models, my parents are of course my biggest role models and then other DJs and writers. I think it’s important to have various influences as we are constantly growing and therefore keep developing. What are the things you wish to change in the music industry?

I would say attitudes towards women in the music industry. My only hope is that

in the near future, people will acknowledge that we women are just as talented as men in the music industry! Where do you see Cuppy in d next three years

I'm still learning and growing as I go along but in 2-3 years I hope to have made a difference, inspired others and changed the rules. Also I run my own music company called 'Red Velvet Music Group' so in 3 years I hope to have developed into a recognised brand. Tell me more about yourself and educational background

Well I grew up in Lagos, Ilupeju then Ikeja… Most of my childhood memories were made on the Lagos Mainland. I attended Grange School Ikeja and the American International School V/I. I studied Business Management at King’s College London and I have now moved to New York to complete a Masters programme. What advise will you give those who wish to be like you

I would advise anyone trying to break into the industry to above all believe in themselves and be open to learning new things. I’m still learning a lot myself; I think it’s important to realize we are all here for a reason. We each have unique talents and gifts, things to offer to the Nigerian demographic. Don't be afraid to try new things and make new mistakes to learn from! Who do you want to use this medium to thank

I would like to thank my Cupcakes! They have been so supportive of me in everything I have done.

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Ola Otedola, Fewa Otedola, Mrs. Nana Otedola, Femi Otedola, DJ Cuppy &Temi Otedola

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The Otedolas

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Alex Proudluch& Frazi Gabriel

Jessica, Maliva, Julia & Olga

Temi Otedola & Friends

Mr. & Mrs. Aupelli

Ola Otedola, Mr. Segun Sebanjo & Temi Otedola

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Bashorun Dele Momodu, DJ Cuppy & Femi Otedola

DJ Cuppy qui a personnellement accueilli les membres de sa famille et ses amis qui sont venus célébrer avec elle, était dans son meilleur élément et causait avec gaieté. La jeune femme qui a finalement rejoint le Red Velvet Music Group et qui était contente de dire à tout le monde qu’elle était heureuse de faire ce qu’elle aimait, est très optimiste qu’avec son éducation et ses connaissances, elle pourra apporter un plus à la musique africaine et donner une ouverture internationale aux artistes africains. DJ Cuppy, une Ambassadrice du Tourisme du Nigeria et qui était le DJ officiel lors du MTV Africa Awards 2014, a commencé a faire du disc jockey à l’âge de 16 ans. Et elle s’est produite dans de grandes villes et dans de grands événements dans divers endroits dans le monde et a rencontré les meilleurs artistes du monde. La jeune femme qui a toujours un sourire aux lèvres lorsqu’elle est sur scène ira loin, pas parce qu’elle est une Otedola mais tout simplement parce qu’elle est DJ Cuppy, la mélomane qui connait son art et elle est toujours prête à apprendre et à expérimenter de nouvelles choses. Au cas où vous vous demandez comment elle a reçu le surnom "DJ Cuppy", ce n’est pas un diminutif de son prénom mais plutôt un nom qui lui a été donné par ses amis car elle aime les gâteaux. Donc lorsqu’elle a décidé de faire de sa passion pour la musique un business, elle a adopté ce surnom comme nom d’artiste.

DJ Cuppy & Dad, Femi Otedola

Nela, DJ Cuppy & Dimachi

DJ Cuppy & Sporah

Tito Ovia

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DJ Cuppy & the Velsoir Boys

Carman, DJ Cuppy & David

Mrs. Nana Otedola & friend

Jessica, DJ Cuppy, Dherill & Amil

DJ Cuppy & Sanchez Music

DJ Cuppy, Liz & friend

Alex Proudluch & Jach Meslers

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Fewa & Temi Otedola

The Dua family

Temi & Ola Otedola

Lolade Alakija & friend

DJ Cuppy & fan

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Temi Otedola & Faridah Folawiyo

Segun Sebanjo (right)

DJâ&#x20AC;&#x2C6;Cuppy, Pepa & Gurper

Adola Mba & friend

The Akepis & The Adeyemi

DJ Cuppy & Fewa Otedola

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Alexander Amosu & Bashorun Dele Momodu

Mrs. Nana Otedola & friends

Pepa (from Salt n Pepa) & Guppet

C. Orji & friend

Alex, Faridah Folawiyo & Fuad Ogunsanya

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Mrs. Nana Otedola & guests

Carman & David

Amil, Jesica, Olga, Nadeem & D

Mr. & Mrs. Omoshebi, Mela Duke, Antora Dimalni & Salewa Hassan

Nella Duke, Atora Dimalni & Salewa Hassan

Nadeem, Malira, Olga, D & Jessica

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Mr. Anil Dua, Bashorun Dele Momodu, Femi Otedola, DJ Cuppy, Ijeoma Nwogwugwu & Segun Sebanjo (far right)

Mrs. Adeyemi, Mr. Peki & Mrs. Peki

Femi Otedola & Feyi Bali

Bashorun Dele Momodu & DJ Cuppy

Jack Master & Mrs. Nana Otedola

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Femi Otedola, Bola Akinola & Laoye Abiola

Mrs. Nana Otedola & Mrs. Alakija

Lawrence, George & Mrs. Nana Otedola

DJ Cuppy & Ahmed Amarachi

DJ Cuppy & Guppet

Elizabeth Shobowale, Mrs. Nana Otedola & Mr. Laoye Abiola

Waiters

Tinuke Abiola & DJâ&#x20AC;&#x2C6;Cuppy

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DJ Cuppy, Lolade Alakija & Mrs. Danjuma

Gigi & Carmen

Faridah Folawiyo, Ola Otedola & Lolade Alakija

DJ Cuppy, Mr. & Mrs. Otedola with & Temi Otedola

Pepa & Guippet with Femi Otedola & DJ Cuppy

Mr. Anil Dua & Femi Otedola

Laoye Abiola, Guipieet, Pepa, Femi Otedola & Biola Akinola

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Zainab Amusan, Fuad Ogunsanya Erin Abraham

Wale, DJ Cuppy & Tatiaira

Guy Campbell & Zainab Amusan

Mr. Anil Dua, Femi Otedola & Bashorun Dele Momodu

(r) Mrs. Omosebi

George & Joseph

Franzie & Jack

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Farouq Abdulrasaq, Femi Otedola, Bashorun Dele Momodu & Mrs.Folake Abdulrasaq

Mrs. Folake Abdulrasaq & Mrs. Nana Otedola

Mr. Feyi Bali & Femi Otedola

Kola Lawal, Femi Otedola & Bashorun Dele Momodu

Ola Otedola & guests

Timehin Olumide, Fuad Ogunsanya, Erin Abraham & Cheta

Erin, Fuad & Cheta

Mrs. Clark & Bola

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Cross section of guests

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Orchestra entertaining guests

Muyiwa Bakare, Bashorun Dele Momodu & Femi Otedola

The Fuad family

Timehin Olumide & Tito Ovia

Angelica, Dennis & Elizabeth

Pepa, Guippet & Alexandra Amosun

DJ Cuppy, Amil & Timehin

Alex & Franzie

Mrs. Nana Otedola & friends

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DJ Cuppy & Amil

DJâ&#x20AC;&#x2C6;Cuppy & Amil

Farouq Abdulrasaq, DJ Cuppy & Kola Lawal

Gus, Sam & Tinuke

Fuad, Farouq & Kola

Temi Otedola & Guest

Mr. Dua & Mr. Dapo Abiodun

Mr. Bali & Cuppy

Atora, Salewa & Nela

Mrs. Nana Otedola & guests

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Olga

Ola, DJ Cuppy & Temi Otedola

Jason Otedola, Cuppy, Ola & Temi Otedola

Tilo Ovia

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Tilo Ovia & DJ Cuppy

DJ Cuppy appreciating the wonderful comments by friends

Kola Lawal, Fuad Ogunsanya & Jack Master

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Kola & Fuad

DJ Cuppy

Timehin & Faridah

Ola & Temi

Jason Otedola & DJ Cuppy

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Mrs. Nana Otedola Ola & Temi

Femi Otedola, Mrs. Nana Otedola, Ola & Temi

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DJ Cuppy, Femi Otedola & Mrs. Nana Otedola

Femi Otedola & DJ Cuppy

Mrs. Nana Otedola & DJ Cuppy

DJ Cuppy

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Cross section of guests

Alexander Amosun & DJ Cuppy

Itunu Johnson & Friend

Jason Otedola & Carlos

(m) Femi Otedola & Feyi Bali

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DR. NINI UGOCHUKWU WEDS

CHIEDU IYIZOBA IN LAGOS

Story & Interviews: Bamidele Salako Photo: Adekoya Adegbite, Abraham Falodun, Funmilayo Adeyemi and Segun Lawal

Dr. Nini & Chijioke: Love conquers all

he hallowed sanctuary of the Catholic Church of Divine Mercy, Lekki, Lagos, will be remembered as the grand setting for the English-themed wedding of incurable lovers, Dr. Nini Chinazaekpere Ugochukwu and Chiedu Chijioke Iyizoba as they gleefully said “I do” and exchanged rings before a delighted crowd of family and friends. The couple’s exciting nuptial climaxed a gripping love drama staged in five cities and an island across Africa, Europe and the Americas. Packed with all the creativity, class and coziness that usually delights our readers in OVATION, we therefore bring you juicy textual and pictorial highlights of the superlative nuptials between ‘Nini’ and ‘Ceejay’ us the couple are fondly called. THE MEETING How did it all start? That enquiry led us to discover that unlike a number of unions today, theirs was no chance meeting. Their families - the Ugochukwus and the Iyizobas had been close from time immemorial. Strangely, in spite of the intimacy of their families, Nini and Ceejay were what you could term “friendly strangers.” Their relationship was purely peripheral. They knew each other only from afar and conversations between them were few and far between. Even when they did talk, such chats were curt - barely exceeding the casual ‘hello’ or ‘hi’. Besides, Nini was based in New York in the United States, so meetings were always going to be rare and scarce. She left Nigeria for America in 2001 where she studied to be a Medical Doctor at St. John’s University, New York, going on to University of Antigua College of Medicine. She only came to Nigeria during Christmas holidays. It was during one such visits after she had graduated from Medical School in 2012 that she found love or perhaps, love found her. Her family as well as Ceejay’s and four other families had planned a vacation together for Calabar, the tourism-friendly capital of Cross River State in Nigeria. “I didn’t actually know his family was going to be there but fortunately for him, we ended up in the same hotel,” Nini revealed. “He was being too nice and I thought, ‘this guy must be up to something.’ That was how we started to talk more often. We exchanged numbers. I had actually thought it (the vacation) was 38

going to be boring for me and was wishing I had brought a friend along but he kept my company. Even after we got to Lagos, he wouldn’t let me be.” For Ceejay, the attraction was instantaneous-love at first sight if you would: “When I saw her, I was instantly attracted to her but we never talked although she was the full definition of what I admire in a woman. She’s beautiful-that was easily the first attraction. Then, she has a heart of gold. I got talking with her and I discovered that she had such a fascinating personality which was just wonderful.” Undoubtedly, the bird was snared! THE CHASE So began Ceejay’s relentless pursuit of a woman he suddenly was convinced would complete him even

though he had to dig in his heels in the face of Nini’s untiring resistance to his entreaties for a first date. Her perception that he was a ‘proper Lagos boy’ - a Casanova – offered impetus for her hesitations. She said, “He wanted us to hang out for dinner but I continued to decline because I was like, “No, I’ve heard this boy’s gist. It’s what they say about “these Lagos guys” and how you need to be very careful. I was just being careful. I’d tell him not to call me again and he’d be like ‘ok’ and the very next day, he’s calling again and I’d be like, ‘Didn’t you get it yesterday?’” It became the case of an irresistible force against an immovable object. Something had to give. Not cut from the cloth of quitters, Ceejay stubbornly kept going” because she was exactly what I

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wanted, particularly when I had discovered what she was made of.” Thankfully, his pluckiness and persistence would ultimately yield desired dividends. Besides, the tall, dark and handsome young man boasted alluring credentials that Nini could not help but defer to; but not before several unsuccessful appeals to Ceejay’s cousins to get him off her back. Nini’s defenses did give way though -to Ceejay’s resolute appeals, and she confessed to the magazine afterwards, “He’s a very charming and sweet guy. He likes to act all macho on the outside but inside, he’s very soft. He’s very friendly and caring. Every Sunday, he will go to church, no matter what. If he doesn’t attend morning mass, he will attend evening mass. I thought that was very sweet. He can go clubbing on Saturday but it won’t stop him from

attending church on Sunday. He’s very hardworking and ambitious. He’s a gogetter. He makes things happen. All these qualities made me ask what else I was looking for. And so we started dating.” Someone’s in love! THE FIRST DATE One of the metropolis’s leading oriental restaurants, Marco Polo Restaurant, on Victoria Island, with its fascinating oriental ornamentation and picturesque scenery, provided a memorable backdrop for the lovebirds’ first date and it was truly unforgettable. Nini recounted, “It was a nice outing. I didn’t really eat anything but we talked a lot. I got to know him more and it was like time went by really fast. We were there for hours and didn’t even realize it.”

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“Things got pretty serious pretty quick after then. Like I said earlier, our families are close. I got to realize that he wasn’t actually the player I feared he was. He was talking marriage very early on and I was shocked really. He knows what he wants and he goes for it and he doesn’t let anybody talk him out of it. By March, he was already telling my family that he was ready to come for the formal introduction.” THE INTRODUCTION A culture buff enthusiastic about the prescriptions of his Igbo culture and moreover, Ceejay had always told Nini that he was keen on formalizing their union by the traditional playbook. He would take wine to her people, make his intentions known to them and receive their blessing. With Nini’s dad late, the patriarchal responsibility of receiving her suitor fell to her eldest brother, Hon. Prince Chinedu Ugochukwu. Ceejay also approached Nini’s two other brothers. Everyone knows that meeting a fiancé’s family can be an unnerving episode for guys, particularly where there was no preceding relationship between both families. But then, even for someone who had been friends with Nini’s siblings for a long time, securing their approval was never going to be plain sailing. They had hurdles for him to cross. Being the baby of the house, it was only natural that Nini’s elder brothers would be super-protective of their little sister. 40

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Bride with little angels

Beautiful bride in her Swarovski bedazzled wedding gown

Bride with brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;smaids

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The bride with her brother, Hon. (Prince) Chinedu Ugochukwu

Mrs. Goziem Ugochukwu Onuoha & Justice Chinwe Iyizoba

The gorgeous bride, Dr. Nini

Mrs. Nonye Iheaku & Nkechi Agbo

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Groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s parents

Mrs. Ify Aleto Okeke & mother of the bride, Madam Agnes Ugochukwu

Lady Adaeze Chikeluba & mother of the bride, Madam Agnes Ugochukwu

Barrister Echezona Etiaba

Maid of honour & best man

Prince Emeka Ugochukwu & wife

Mrs. Nonye Chijioke Iheaku

Sen. Joy Emordi (right)

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Chief Chiedu Iyizoba, Mrs. Goziem Ugochukwu Onuoha & Justice Chinwe Iyizoba

Chairman of the occasion-Chief & Mrs. Maduka Emelife

Mr. Gabe Adimora

The beautiful couple: Nini & Ceejay

According to Ceejay, “It was a bit difficult because you know - we’ve been family friends forever. So, it didn’t sound real to them. Her brothers are people I was always with so we knew each other in and out coming with a proposal about their sister kind of felt awkward. Everybody actually thought I was unserious. They thought I was the normal Ceejay but they didn’t know I was actually very serious about my intentions.” We had to enquire who the ‘normal Ceejay’ was that prompted caution from Nini’s brothers: “Well, they saw me as someone who was too much into women, which wasn’t true – it was just their perception of me,” Ceejay riposted. No doubt, Nini’s big brothers seemed to find it awkward and incredulous that someone who was no stranger to their sister had suddenly grown feelings for her to the point of instantly wanting to make his interest a permanent affair. They needed convincing. He had actually approached them hoping to get their immediate approval as well as to receive an express date for the more elaborate introduction ceremony. But they advised that he give it time and that if his feelings didn’t prove fickle after a couple months, they would begin to talk marriage. It was their way of verifying the veracity of his intentions. All of this was in February of 2013. Ceejay needed his prized asset for a lifetime; waiting a paltry two months for her couldn’t deter him, and so he waited and luckily, “when they saw the course of events, they knew I was sincere and serious too.” By June 16, 2013, the formal traditional introduction rites were carried out in Nini’s homestead, Umunze Community, in Anambra State. THE PROPOSAL What lady isn’t excited about and susceptible to the allure of a beautiful and romantic proposal? Certainly not Nini! It was a precious craving she kept close to her heart-a dream that seemed to have faded with the conclusion of her traditional introduction ceremony. She had thought to herself that if there was going to be a proposal-it would have happened way before those formalities. There was a tinge of disappointment about the whole affair. “I really thought, ‘there we go, I’m not going to get a ring,’” she

told us. But the romantic Ceejay who Nini told us is king at spinning sweet surprises had other ideas. We’ll let her do the narrating: “In August last year, I went for summer with my mum – on my way back, I stopped in London for my friend’s wedding. I spoke with Ceejay every time, even while in New York. In London, he called and said, “Come back, you’ve been there for like two or three weeks now.” So I told him that once my friend’s wedding was over, I would come to Lagos the very next day. But then my friends told me that they were having a dinner for newlyweds the day after the wedding, so I decided to delay my trip back to Lagos by one more day. All the while, we were skyping and talking.” “A day after my friend’s wedding, he called via Skype, he was in Nigeria or so I thought. And I told him we were having a dinner for my friend that day and that I had booked my flight for the following day and he told me he was cool with it. The dinner was for 7pm that evening and so I got dressed and went to the restaurant. In the middle of dinner, guess who walks in? Ceejay! I was stunned and for like five minutes I couldn’t say anything because i could have sworn he was in Nigeria while we spoke earlier and all the days prior; so I just couldn’t understand how he pulled it off - to think that he had been in London the past four days.” “My whole family was in on it. My brothers would be like, “Oh Ceejay just left my place now.” It was a very pleasant surprise. I screamed. My friends were all in on it. He went on one knee and proposed and it was all just so sweet. He asked if I would do him the honour of being his wife and of course I said yes. I thought that was medicine after death because they had already done the introduction so what did he expect me to say?” Nini enthused. That paved way for their traditional wedding in December, 2013. The ceremony, we were told, was an exquisite display of the beauty of Igbo culture and heritage in all its alluring glory. THE PLANNING Every bride nurtures fantasies about what her wedding would look like. For Nini, getting the right wedding planner to translate that fantasy into a rousing

reality was the ultimate goal. Luckily, the annual Wedding Expo-a mecca for wedding planners, vendors and intending couples-was in town. By a stroke of fate, Nini decided to attend on what turned out to be the event’s finale. It appeared as though God Almighty was orchestrating the turn of events as the very first wedding planner she happened upon-the young and talented Bisola Borha of Trendy Bee Events-would go on to plan her storybook wedding. Nini revealed, “On the last day of the Expo, at about 5pm, I decided to attend and she (Bisola Borha) was the first person that I met. I got her card, went round and went home. I didn’t call her but then after a week, she called me and I thought to give her a chance. She proved a masterstroke in the end. I am glad I chose her as she was really great to work with. She understands what you want and she helps you achieve just that. I’ll recommend her any time, any day. She did great.” There was also that search for the perfect wedding gown. Wedding magazines, bridal shops and online wedding stores became Nini’s constant companions until eventually she struck gold in the form of a stunning piece created by award-winning Lebanese designer, Walid Atallah. The famous international couturier, who is highly rated on the international fashion circuit, has robed countless Hollywood stars, Middle-Eastern royals and a select class of VIPs from Nigeria’s high society. The instant seduction the dress conjured coupled with Walid’s sterling couture credentials, were simply too irresistible for Nini to ignore: “I love things that blink. People call me the “Sparkle Princess”. I was looking for a mermaid gown-something out of the ordinary; something that would sparkle and blink as I move. As soon as I saw the dress I was sure it was what I wanted. I was so captivated, I almost went to Lebanon but luckily for me, he had a showroom in Dubai as well and so I went to Dubai.” For accessories, “My sister gave me the Jewellery I wore that daye… She hasn’t asked for them since so I’m hoping it was a wedding gift. I had two pairs of shoes-Jimmy Choo and Badgley Mischka. My headpiece was from … in New York. I found them on Instagram but thankfully they were in New York, 45

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Signing of the marriage registry

Justice Chinwe Iyizoba

Signing of the marriage register

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Bride & groom observing church rites

Couple with Priest

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The couple & entourage

Bride with big sis, Goziem Ugochukwu Onuoha

Couple with brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s elder sister, Hon. Princess Nikky Ugochukwu

Bride with mum, Madam Agnes Ugochukwu

The couple & Princess Nikky Ugochukwu

The couple with Rev. Andrew Ibeh

Couple with brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s mother & brother

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Couple with groom’s parents

Couple with Chief & Mrs. Jonaj Ezeh (DEEJONES)

Hon. Princess Nikky Ugochukwu & Mrs. Nkechi Agbo

Anambra State Commissioner of Works, Mr. Ilozumba with his family, the bride's mother & sister

Dr. (Mrs.) Ify Nwakwesi & Hon. Princess Nikky Ugochukwu

which is my base, so I travelled to New York in April and visited the shop. The man told me it was going to take two months to make but I prevailed on him after pleading for three consecutive days to take the one he had in the store.” THE WEDDING The day of bells and rings arrived with a flourish. At the Catholic Church of Divine Mercy, family and friends assembled in a sea of colour and expectation, eager to witness the formalization of a joyful union. Nini was the first of the pair within the church premises. She was ferried down from the ritzy Oriental Hotel on Victoria Island in a white Range Rover limo. Her gorgeous cutely-clad bridesmaids were mostly friends from way back including Adaobi Ibah, Agozie Iyizoba, Mariano Lucciano-Gabriel, Crystal Dike, Arese Ugwu, Lilian Unachukwu, Mena Ogor, Odera Iyizoba, Cassandra Nwana, Chioma Ikokwu and Pamela Ijeh. A little later, Ceejay arrived from the upscale Four Points by Sherathon Hotel, chauffeured by his best man, Onuora Nkwonta in a black Porsche Carrera. Both men were decked from head to toe by Hugo Boss. Excelling in matching black tuxes, bowties and shoes, they stood at the altar where Ceejay awaited his Cinderella with palpable emotion. To the side, in the pews adjacent the altar was an “old boys” cast of groomsmen – mostly friends of the groom from his high school days. They included Chinedu Okeke-Ojiudu, Shola Wolly, Amaha Okorafor, Odera Adimorah, Eloka Nwakwesi, Olisa Obiekwe, Aifuwa Suleiman Dimas, Obinna Asiegbu, IK Ihekwoba, Okechukwu Igwe and Kite. As the Catholic Church of Divine Mercy Choir and Orchestra, aided by the congregation, chorused Ray Repp’s 1965 hymn, “Here we are, all together,” the

beautiful bride appeared neck and neck with her brother, Hon. Prince Chinedu Ugochukwu at the doorway of the church. With eyes running roughshod over her breathtaking frame as she made the journey to the altar, it became clear that it is one thing to have an excellent wedding ensemble and quite another to have a bride who carries it with grace and style. Just like her chemistry with Ceejay, Nini’s match with her wedding dress was one made in heaven! In that delicately-crafted Walid Atallah gown, she cut the figure of a model right out of an vogue wedding catalogue. Sashaying through the aisle on her brother’s arm and valeted by her maid of honour, Dr. Nkiru Chiapa, awe-induced gasps escaped from the pews. Once beside her beau, the lovers cast several glances of admiration at each other. The service progressed seamlessly, officiated by Parish Priest, Rev. Msgr. Paschal Nwaezeapu, who was assisted by Rev. Fr. Philip Sosu Mobee. In his homily, Rev. Msgr. Nwaezeapu lamented the decadence of the marriage institution saying it had lost its essence in the modern world while also noting that the role which God was supposed to play as the Creator of the institution had been usurped. The good Reverend queried why anyone would purchase an electronic device without first perusing the attached manual. “If you don’t read the manual, the product cannot be maximally utilized and enjoyed,” he declared. “So is marriage. God has laid out instructions for the institution of marriage through the Bible and the teachings of the church. Since marriage is an institution ordained by God, it is important for this couple to have chosen to begin it in the presence of God. Nini and Ceejay make a lucky couple for having chosen to start their matrimonial march in church.”

He proceeded to highlight the four cardinal purposes of marriage. According to Rev. Msgr. Nwaezeapu, the purposes of marriage as laid out by the scriptures include: firstly, for the good of the spouse because God said that it was not good for man to be alone and therefore made him a partner. Secondly, for friendship because the couple are supposed to be each other’s best friends. Thirdly, for procreation, because couples are cocreators with God to populate the world and establish his kingdom on earth and fourthly, for the education of children which is the primary responsibility of parents. The Reverend also stated three properties of marriage which every couple must strive to preserve. He said, “One is unity. God made them to be one. One plus one equals two mathematically but in marriage, one plus one equals one. The second property is the indissolubility of marriage. The expiry date for marriage is death. The third is fertility. Children are gifts from God and couples must be open to the idea to procreation as well as responsible parenthood.” Following the rich spiritual charge, the man of God ran the couple through their nuptial rites and received their declarations of consent. He then proclaimed, “What God has joined, man must not divide!” The congregation responded with choruses of “Amen!” The blessing and exchange of rings followed, sealed with the pair’s first official kiss as man and wife which the delighted crowd approved with loud rounds of applause. The service soon progressed to the couple’s signing of the marriage register witnessed and attested by family members. The service over following a jubilant session of thanksgiving and prayers, elated friends and family took turns to pose for photographs with the newlyweds outside the church before proceeding to the 49

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Hon. Commissioner Ilozumba, Hon. Princess Nikky Ugochukwu & Chief Okey Nwandu

Hon. Princess Nikky Ugochukwu with Agunze Ikokwu & wife Dr. (Mrs.) Joy Ikokwu

Bride’s mum & sister with groom's sister, Balum Diribe

Couple with groom's siblings: Agozie, Kelo Iyizoba, Balum Diribe & Nnamdi Diribe

Madam Agnes Ugochukwu with Women in Aso Ebi

Bride with mum & sister

wedding reception. THE RECEPTION A superbly decked out Harbour Point events centre on Victoria Island made an amazing venue for the entertaining wedding reception where the fun literally never stopped; every moment, packed with untold excitement. The expansive room, decorated in pristine white and sparkly crystal ancillaries by Aquarian Touch Events, was a pictorial delight. The whole affair unfolded like a well-rehearsed wedding scene from a Hollywood movie, each cast member playing his or her role to joyous perfection. Chioma Omeruah also known as Chi-gurl emceed. A surfeit of fine wines and gourmet dishes provided by various vendors supplied guests’ tables endlessly and made the party all the more enjoyable. Malas Foods, Kemabom Foods and Madam Big Ben all served delicious meals meant to tempt even the most jaded palate. The pampered guests supported their meals with drinks served ice-cold by Bella and Baroni as well as delightsome cocktails by Eventi Coktails. Bimsul/The Roof Grill and Bar served small chops. The mothers of the day were Mrs. Uzoamaka Iyizoba and Madam Agnes Ugochukwu while Chief Chiedu Iyizoba and Hon. Prince Chinedu Ugochukwu were fathers of the day. The sponsors were Chief and Mrs. Ben Okoko. The bride’s elder sister, Hon. Princess Nikky Ugochukwu, who played a starring role in her niece’s spectacular wedding, was the Special Mummy of the Day. She was shimmering with joy throughout The couples’ parents, accompanied by an entourage of family members and friends, entered the hall with some fanfare. Heralded by thrilling music, they heeded 50

with boisterous singing and dancing, though the excitement-laden entrance of the bridal train will remain one of the most fun-filled highlights of the party. An idea mooted by Nini to the MC, the groomsmen and the bridesmaids danced into the venue in pairs while the crowd cheered them on as they displayed their dancing skills in the gangway. Then, they formed parallel lines through which the delighted Nini and Ceejay swayed in rhythmically like two teenagers who had just found love, sax maestro, Yemi Sax, serenading them with soothing tunes on his saxophone-supported by his band. Everyone settled and the event was opened with a prayer. Chairman of the occasion, Chief Maduka Emelife, after expressing his appreciation for the privilege of being asked to chair the occasion alongside his wife, said, “It’s a privilege to be part of Nini and Ceejay’s celebration of love. I’ll attempt to advise them because really, the priest has said all at the mass. Love is the foundation of all marriages. Both of you should continue to love and support each other. Ensure you don’t compete with each other. You should rather support each other.” “We are all proud of you guys. Avoid hearsay and trust each other deeply. Hearsay can lead to suspicion and that can make you both lose trust in each other. Continue to embrace your families and extended families. They have been good foundations for the values that have been handed to you. Both families have been close -sustain the bond.” “Make time to pray for and with each other. Our prayer for you is that your union will be blessed with as many children as you would love to have and that your

love for each other continues to deepen,” the chairman concluded. The traditional kola-nut breaking, which is an intricate part of Igbo weddings, followed. With the Kola-nuts, the elders showered blessings on the newlyweds. After that ritual, the couple took turns to dance with their parents and was then invited to cut their beautiful wedding cake, crafted and delivered by Cakes by Andy Clark. Yemi Sax followed up with a commanding display of what he knows how to do best delighting the guests’ musical palates with an array of fantastic tunes on his saxophone. Later, the newlyweds were invited onto the dance floor for their first dance as Cool FM’s famous Disc Jockey, DJ Xclusive, working his console, set loose a medley of romantic numbers that mirrored the moment. It was soon time for the best man and maid of honour to toast to the couple. The Maid of Honour, Dr. Nkiru Chiapa, a Medical Technologist and Nini’s friend from their days at St. John’s University, New York, recounted fond memories of how they cooked together and how Nini always woke up first and how her friend has always been classy and fabulous. “She gives 110% in all she does – friends, family and relationships,” Dr. Nkiru enthused. Then she turned to Ceejay and said, “You have made my girl so happy and you complement each other so well – you were made for each other. May your love remain as timeless as Nini.” Everyone applauded her sweet words. The best man, Onuora Nkwonta, who is a Personal Assistant to Anambra State Governor, Willie Obiano, said, “I have known Ceejay all my life. He is like a

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Couple with bride’smaids

brother to me. He has been my best pal and is in fact more than a friend. I grew up with him. We played together, fought together and schooled together. Now, he has married Nini – someone who always makes sure he is okay. Nini brings him on the right side. Ever since they met, Ceejay has become more reserved. I wish both of them a happy married life and pray that God blesses their union with kids, long life, good health and prosperity.” With glasses charged with bubbly and other fine wines, everyone clinked to the prosperity of the union. This was followed by a trip to music Candy Mountain, orchestrated by one of the raves of the moment on the African music scene, Davido – popularly called Omo Baba Olowo, OBO. The ‘Aye’ crooner has a good number of fantastic hits to his credit

Couple with groom’smen

which are favourites with music lovers across the continent. That reality came to the fore here as the couple’s friends and families swarmed around the international artiste, even posing for quick selfies, while he titillated them with his repertoire of exciting tracks. If you had cared to ask everyone there that day, they would have told you that Davido’s appearance and performance was the cherry on the cake of what was an exciting event. Later, an overwhelmed Ceejay, who had been soaking up all the day’s excitement, managed to muster the composure to say thank you to everyone who had made what was perhaps the most important day of his and his spouse’s life, a resounding success. After then, it was just dance, dance and dance all through the rest

of the night with DJ Xclusive making sure the party ended on a high. THE HONEYMOON The newlyweds followed up on their wedding festivities with two fun weeks gambling in Las Vegas and sunbathing with pina coladas on the beachfronts of Punta Cana. Nini told us a day after they returned from their tantalizing travels, “We spent a week each in Las Vegas in the US and Punta Cana in the Dominican Republic. It was two weeks of pure fun – we gambled in Vegas and lost a lot of money (laughs) and then we hung out on the beachfront in Punta Cana. We couldn’t agree on one destination so we reached a compromise – he chose Vegas and I chose Punta Cana.”

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RECEPTION

THE CLASSY DECOR

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Wedding programme

Entrance to wedding reception venue

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Yemi Sax thrilling guests

Brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s family dancing into reception

Groom's parents Chief &d Mrs. Chiedu Iyizoba dancing in

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Chima Okafor & Mr. Onuora Iyizoba

Chief Chidi Anyaegbu, Chief Agunze Ikokwu & Prince Noel Ezenwa

Hon. Princess Nikky Ugochukwu & Bashorun Dele Momodu

Dr. (Mrs.) Ebele Ugochukwu

Chief & Mrs. Ben Okoko

Mrs. Yejide Omotayo & Mrs. Bukky Owolabi

Lilian Paul & friend

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Mrs. Nonye Chijioke Iheaku, bride’s sister

Madam Agnes Ugochukwu, Lady Monica Okoye & Mrs. Vicky Iyizoba

THE INTERVIEWS ollowing their two weeks of reveling in the Americas, we sat down with the couple in their Lagos home for a chat.

NINI Congratulations on a successful wedding

Thank you very much. A couple of weeks married, how has the status change been

It’s been great so far. We just got back from our honeymoon. It’s been great. I am getting used to the role of being a wife. What’s changed about Nini

The Mrs. preceding her name (laughs). We had our traditional marriage like six months ago and truth is that I felt married already before we had the white wedding.

me I am not street smart and he complements me in that area. He’d say, “Don’t worry, I got you. I know you grew up in America, I will help you here.” Sometimes, he has plans or ideas and he just needs someone to help him organise them and I come in that aspect. So, we complement each other a lot and I appreciate that because I never wanted someone that’s just like me. I always liked someone who could complement me – in the parts where I am not great, he’s great and vice-versa. So, together, it’s a great union. What’s his favourite dish

Noodles! He can eat Indomie noodles all day, every day of the week. Since I’ve come in, I have stopped that by expanding his taste-buds but that really is what he likes. What’s his fave colour

He loves blue.

The wedding was filled with many magical moments, which memories have stuck with you since

Shoe size

I loved the part in church when we were saying the vows and when he put the ring on me, that moment felt special and I was like, “Yeah, I’m a married woman now.” There were so many parts of the wedding that I really loved; I really enjoyed my wedding.

His favourite car

It was unique to see the groomsmen and bridesmaids dance into the venue in pairs prior to you and Ceejay making an entrance – whose idea was that

I would love three – two boys, one girl, by God’s grace. I have everything worked out in my head (laughs).

It was my idea. I paired them up and the whole idea was for us to just have fun. That’s the whole essence of the wedding day – have fun and just be happy. I told them to bring their dancing shoes along because we were going to be entertaining the crowd and ourselves.

Tell us more about you – what do you do

What memory comes to mind as the most romantic of your relationship

We’ve had several romantic moments. Like I said, he likes to surprise me. He likes showing up in London and then there was when he called me up and asked me to pack my bags that we were going to Ghana for Valentine’s and that was a fun weekend. He does a lot of romantic things. I like when he writes me notes. You would think someone like that doesn’t write letters but he writes me on how he’s feeling. I could wake up in the morning and find a long detailed text expressing his heart and his feelings. And it’s really sweet that someone with such a manly exterior can be so soft person on the inside that you can connect with sometimes. What’s the best gift he’s gotten you

I would say my ring (laughs). I love my ring. He got it in London. Do you have shared interests

We both love the Africa Magic channel. Have you guys got any shared traits

We understand each other really well. We just get each other-we are a perfect blend. Sometimes he tells Chief (Mrs.) Ilodibe (Ekenedilichukwu)

Bride with maid of honour, Nkeiru Chiapa

US 13 He loves the G-Wagon. I have told him that until we have paid all our children’s school fees and taken care of other necessities then we can buy luxury GWagon. How many kids are you guys looking to have

I am a Medical Doctor. I had just graduated when I came back for Christmas. I am looking to start my internship somewhere here in Nigeria. I was supposed to go back but obviously, I can’t go anymore. Ceejay won’t allow me. I have actually adapted to the Nigerian system. What are your plans now you’re “stuck” in Nigeria

I see myself doing general medicine as a medical practitioner but I also have other interests. I plan to open my own medi-spa very soon. They have them all over the place in the States and I think Nigeria is a good place to have that kind of business. They do have some here – don’t get me wrong – but most of them are not operated by Medical Doctors but by people who just have a love for skin and aesthetics. I plan to do that in the near future. Of course, I hope to be a great wife and a wonderful mum. How was growing up like for you

I was born in Lagos and grew up here. I attended Corona for my primary education and then went to Benin and attended Igbinedion Secondary School after which I went to the States for university. I feel like I have been in school all my life really. This is the first time I am actually relaxing because I have been looking at books all my life. I’m taking these one or two years to relax. All the things I couldn’t really enjoy before, now that I’m married, I get to enjoy with my husband, so I’m appreciative of that. 57

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Princess Nikky Ugochukwu, Couple, brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s mum with Mrs. Nkechi Agbo

Bride with wedding planner & Trendy BEE Team

Mrs Ngozi Umeh

Hon. Princess Nikky Ugochukwu & Barrister Echezona Etiaba

Chief & Mrs. Oscar Okeke with Hon. Princess Nikky Ugochukwu

Mrs. Uche Obi, Nikky Ugochukwu & Mrs. Eucharia Okoro

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Madam Agnes Ugochukwu, Lady Monica Okoye & her children

Chief Tony Okeke, the Mbadiwes & Chief Okey Nwandu

Obiora Onyeaso & Mrs. Nkeiru

Mr. & Mrs. Oladipo Akanle

Couple's friends

Mrs. Nonye Ibezue & friend

Ogonna Okeke & friend

Your mum

My mum’s doing great. That’s the love of my life. Her name is Madam Agnes Ugochukwu. I am her baby – her last born – her last bus stop. She will do anything for me. She wanted me to go back to America and find work but then I found love. I had to choose the one which was more important for me and she understood my decision. You’ve been away for a while – how do you have fun around here now that you’re back in town fully

If you noticed, most of my friends and bridesmaids at the wedding were my friends from Igbinedion days – they’re here in Lagos. So it’s always good to catch up

with old friends. We hang out sometimes on Sundays – everybody’s all grown up now. Some are married. Usually I hang out with my husband. It’s always fun hanging out with him – whether it’s a Friday movie or visiting friends. Sometimes, we can just watch Africa Magic together all weekend and we’re fine. Any persons you want to thank specially for the success of your wedding

I want to thank my sister, Hon. Princess Nikky Ugochukwu. She has been my backbone and support. She calls me her daughter even though I am her sister. She really went all out for me. I thank my mum, my other sisters as well as well as my brothers for all their

love and support. I thank my husband for putting up with me through all the wedding stress that I was gave him. He actually helped me get through the planning stress. I thank my planner, Bisola Borha. She became my sister within few months of planning – my sister, my enemy, my friend – she put up with me through the planning. I thank all my friends who helped one way or another. Thank you all.

CEEJAY

What does it feel like to be married now, particularly to the one you chose and love

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Couple’s friends

Mrs. Rebecca Okeke, Hon. Princess Nikky Ugochukwu & Mrs. Edith Iyizoba

Buffy Okeke Ojiudu, Achuma ikokwu, Mrs. Rebecca Okeke & Chinedu Okeke

Groom's friends

Far right: Frank Okamigbo with groom’s friends

Mrs. Umeh , Chif Chidi Anyaegbu (Chisco Nig Ltd), Chief (Mrs.) Oscar Okeke

Mrs. Uche Obi, Mrs. Okeke

Chief (Mrs.) Ifemoma Ekwueme, Chief (Mrs.) Mabel Obi, Lady Adaze Chikeluba & Chief (Mrs.) Ilodibe

Bride’s mother & sister with guests

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The Mbadiwes & friends

The Nwandus

Arinze Okoye & Benny Obaze (Bevista)

Nikky Ogbuefi, Uche Acholonu & friend

Tino Ofezie TINO Electronics (far right)

Lanre Ogunlesi (Sofisticat) with Princess Nikky Ugochukwu

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Davido with the couple

Yemi Sax & Frank Okamigbo

Dj Exclusive doing his thing

Hon. Princess Nikky Ugochukwu with family friends

Mrs. Yejide Omotayo, Hon. Princess Nikky Ugochukwu & Prince Emeka Ugochukwu

Pepe Nkwoji, Oby (Bijelly couture), Hon. Princess Nikky Ugochukwu & Mr. Obinna Nwakwesi

Bride, mum & family members

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Bride with father in-law, Chief Chiedu Iyizoba

Bride with mother in-law, Mrs. Vicky Iyizoba

Hon. Prince Henry Ezenwa & wife, Local Govt. Chairman Idemili South

Chief & Mrs. Ben Okoko, Chief Chiedu Iyizoba with bride

Mrs. Uzoamaka Egbuson, bride & Nikky

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Bride with siblings Hon. Princess Nikky Ugochukwu & Prince Ude Ugochukwu

Her Excellency, wife of Deputy Governor of Anambra State Mrs. Okeke & bride

Nonye Ibezue, bride & Princess Nikky

Mr. William Ezenwa, bride, Mr. & Mrs. Henry Ezenwa

Tom, bride & General

Bride with friends: Buffy Okeke & Mrs. Rebecca Okeke

Bride with friends Ogonna Okeke & Adaobi Ubah

Princess Nikky, Madam Agnes Ugochukwu Chief ikokwu & Mrs. Nkechi Agbo

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Cutting of the cake

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Yemi Sax serenading the couple

Bride having fun

Entertainer of the day Davido

Groom rocking with his mom

Brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s mom & brother Prince Chinedu Ugochukwu dancing

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Bride’s friends

Chief Ben Okeke, Benny Obaze & Chief Dele Momodu

Mrs. Ify Ugochukwu, Mr. & Mrs. Ossy Iyizoba

Edith Iyizoba, groom’s mum, Vicky Iyizoba, Mrs. Rebecca Okeke

Uche Obi, Madam Agnes Ugochukwuu, Mrs Eucharia & Dr. (Mrs.) Ify Nwakwesi

Madam Agnes Ugochukwu, Princess Nikky & Chief Dele Momodu

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Chief & Mrs. Jonah Eze (DeeJones)

Mrs. Okeke, Dr. (Mrs.) Joy Ikokwu, the Nnwadus, Mrs. Uche Agbim, Mrs. Vicky Akwiwu

Mr. Agozie Iyizoba, Chief Chiedu Iyizoba

MC Chigurl (Chioma Omerua) She told us about the surprise proposal – how did you pull it off

She went to the States and then for a wedding in London. I was in Nigeria but she had no idea that I was coming to London. I got to London and was communicating with her as though I was still in Nigeria until I showed up at the dinner and proposed. Apart from the wedding, what has been your most memorable moment with Nini

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Champagne flowing everywhere

my whole life. We had a great time. Tell us about your family

We’re five in number. I have an elder sister. I am the first son and second child. We are humble people and extremely united. We get along with one another so much that there’s so much love – so much understanding. What do you do

I am a businessman. I trade in oil and gas-downstream. I am a Contractor with Chevron and West African Gas. I am also a contractor with the Anambra State Government.

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THE COLOURFUL NUPTIALS BETWEEN

OMOTUVIE IBRU AND MAXWELL PEILE IN LONDON, ENGLAND

Story: Michael Effiong French: Chinyere Ndukwe Photo: Dragan Mikki & Official Photographer with Solomon Ekaiyhemhe & Ken Ehimen

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Miss Aisha Patel, Miss Tara Hecksher, Miss Kenner Bolt, Bride, Miss Ose Ibru, Mrs Chloe Hodgson & Miss Leo Beamish

Bridesâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; mother, Lady Maiden Ibru

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hen Maxwell Herbert Peile and Omotuvie Alexia Ibru were introduced by a mutual friend at Bristol University, England, little did they know it would lead to something more permanent. The pair who interestingly resided in the same Hall of Residence, Wills Hall soon became friends, and was so inseparable that eleven years later, they decided to spend their lives together as husband and wife at ceremonies in Lagos, Nigeria and London, England. Uvie, a member of the respected Ibru Dynasty and daughter of former Minister and Publisher of Guardian Newspapers in Nigeria, Mr. Alex Ibru and the delectable, Lady Maiden Ibru told OVATION that the couple were very delighted to have the traditional ceremony in Lagos where the Ibru family live and in London, where Max’s family live. Indeed many of the couple’s English freinds were very keen to attend the Lagos event which they truly enjoyed. The exciting love story of the couple who both cherish traveling and adventurous holidays swung into full gear on Saturday, May 4th, 2013 when Max proposed. Recounting the exciting moment, the beautiful bride with a smile on her face said “We went to a pretty sea-side town in Dorset, England for the May bank holiday weekend. Max had been to this place before and there is a massive rock there called Pulpit Rock, very dramatically placed by the edge of the sea. It was a beautiful sunny spring day. We climbed to the top and we were looking out at the sea. It was perfect. Suddenly he got down on one knee and proposed. We spent the rest of the weekend celebrating before returning to London to celebrate with our family and friends. With that major step, their journey to matrimony began in earnest. To honour her late dad, Uvie and Max decided to hold one of the ceremonies on his birthday, March 1st. Since it was going to be too cold in London at that time of the year, the date was booked for their traditional ceremony in Lagos. The church solemnization was then fixed for Saturday May 3rd, which was exactly a year after the dramatic proposal. The Lagos ceremony was colourful and glamorous, and in true Lagos style, due to the

clout and connection of the bride’s family, it was attended by the cream of the Nigerian society. In London, the couple chose to tie the nuptial knots inside the scenic St. Batholomew The Great Church in the heart of the City of London. This was the same church that Max’s parents had their own wedding years back.The London ceremony was more intimate as it was attended by very close friends of both families-and everything was bright and beautiful. The ever graceful Lady Maiden Ibru had always preferred a hotel for Uvie’s reception, and so when the families discovered that the newly restored and breathtakingly stunning St Pancras Renaissance Hotel, a mere 7 minute journey from the church was available, the families were joyous. With its phenomenal architecture, tasteful furnishing and luxurious 5-star atmosphere, the hotel provided a perfect venue for this wonderful celebration of love. That was not all, the couple arranged the famous London Buses, The Route Master, to ferry guests between the two iconic landmark venues-it was fun unlimited. “Everything was fantastic and it was the happiest day of our lives, along with our traditional” Uvie told us. The couple are both products of UK Boarding School experience. Uvie spent most of her childhood in Chelsea, London. She left Lagos at the age of 7 and went to a prep school, Godstowe Preparatory School in High Wycombe, Buckinghamshire. From there, she was admitted at The Cheltenham Ladies' College. Her next port of call was Bristol University where she studied Philosophy. Max grew up in Richmond, West London and his parents still live there. He went to boarding school at the age of 8 - a prep school in Brighton called St Aubyn's. He then went to Radley College. It was from Radley that he was admitted to Bristol University where he studied Geology. After graduating in 2006, the couple moved back to London and have been working there since. Max works as a Petroleum Economist for an energy consultancy called Xodus Group. He spent a few months in Lagos doing an internship with Oando Plc in the summer of 2011.

Uvie & her sweet mother, Lady Maiden Ibru

orsque Maxwell Herbert Peile et Omotuvie Alexia Ibru ont été présentés par un ami commun à l'Université de Bristol, en Angleterre, ils ne se doutaient pas que cette rencontre allait conduire à quelque chose de plus permanent. Le duo qui résidait par coïncidence dans la même salle, Residence Hall, Wills Hall, étaient rapidement devenus des amis inséparables et ce n’est qu’après onze ans qu’ils ont décidé de passer leur vie ensemble comme mari et femme lors de cérémonies organisées à Lagos, au Nigeria et à Londres, en Angleterre. Uvie, un membre de la dynastie Ibru et fille de l'ancien ministre et éditeur du Guardian au Nigeria, M. Alex Ibru et de Lady Maiden Ibru a dit à OVATION que le couple était très heureux d'avoir la cérémonie traditionnelle à Lagos où réside la famille Ibru et à Londres, où vit la famille de Max. En effet, beaucoup des amis anglais du couple étaient très désireux d'assister à l'événement de Lagos, lequel ils ont vraiment apprécié. La passionnante histoire d’amour du couple qui adore les vacances est passée à une vitesse supérieure lorsque Max a fait sa demande en mariage le 1er mars 2013. Racontant ce moment passionnant, la belle mariée, avec un sourire sur son visage a déclaré: Nous sommes allés à une jolie ville de bord de mer dans le Dorset, en Angleterre un week-end férié de mai. Max avait déjà été à cet endroit ; il y a un rocher appelé Preikestolen, placé de façon très spectaculaire au bord de la mer. C'était une journée très ensoleillée du printemps. Nous sommes allés au sommet et avions cherché la mer. C'était parfait. Il s'est mis à genoux et a proposé. Nous avons passé le reste du week-end à nous amuser avant de retourner à Londres pour célébrer avec notre famille et nos amis’’. Avec cette étape majeure, leur voyage vers le mariage a sérieusement commencé. Pour rendre hommage à son défunt père, Uvie et Max ont décidé de tenir une des cérémonies le jour de son anniversaire le 1er Mars. Comme il faisait trop froid à Londres à cette époque de l'année, la date a été réservée pour la cérémonie traditionnelle à Lagos. La cérémonie à l'église a ensuite été fixée pour le

samedi 3 mai, un peu plus d'un an après la fameuse proposition. La cérémonie de Lagos était colorée et très glamour, et dans le plus pur style de Lagos, en raison de l'influence et de la connexion de la famille de la mariée ; elle a été assistée par la crème de la société nigériane. A Londres, le couple a choisi de sceller leur amour à l'intérieur de la Grande et pittoresque Eglise Saint Batholomew au cœur de la ville de Londres. Ce fut la même église où les parents de Max ont célébré leur propre mariage des années auparavant. La cérémonie de Londres était plus intime car elle a été assistée par des amis très proches des deux familles et tout était beau et glorieux. La toujours gracieuse Lady Maiden Ibru a toujours préféré un hôtel pour la réception d’Uvie, et donc quand les familles ont découvert que le St Pancras Renaissance Hôtel, récemment rénové et qui n’était qu’à 7 minutes de l’église, était disponible, les deux familles étaient contentes. Avec son architecture phénoménale, aménagée avec goût, et son luxueux atmosphère à 5 étoiles, l'hôtel offre un cadre idéal pour cette merveilleuse célébration de l'amour. Ce n'était pas tout, le couple a loué les célèbres bus de Londres, Les Route Master, pour mener les invités aux deux endroits. "Tout était fantastique et c'était le plus beau jour de notre vie, avec notre cérémonie traditionnelle", a déclaré Uvie. Ils sont tous les deux des produits de l’internat britannique. Uvie a passé la plupart de son enfance à Chelsea, Londres. Elle a quitté Lagos à l'âge de 7 ans et est allée à une école préparatoire, la Godstowe Preparatory School à High Wycombe, à Buckinghamshire. De là, elle a été admise au collège. La prochaine institution fut le Bristol University où elle étudia la philosophie. Max a grandi à Richmond, au nord de Londres et ses parents y vivent encore. Il est allé à l’internat à l'âge de 8 ans - une école préparatoire à Brighton appelé St Aubyn’s. Il s'est ensuite rendu au Radley College. C'est à partir de Radley qu'il a été admis à l'Université de Bristol où il a étudié la géologie et où Cupidon a frappé! Après avoir été diplômé en 2006, le couple vit désormais dans l'ouest de Londres et travaillent

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Mr. Toke Ibru, Mrs. Anita Kouassigan, Miss Ose Ibru, bride, Lady Maiden Ibru & Mr. Tive Ibru

Miss Kenner Bolt, Bride, Lady Maiden Ibru & Mrs. Chloe Hodgson

Mr. Toke Ibru, Mrs. Anita Kouassigan, Dr. Alex Thomopulos, Bride, Lady Maiden Ibru, Miss Ose Ibru & Mr. Tive Ibru

That was when he really got to bond with the Ibru family, particularly with his wife’s father, Mr. Alex Ibru. It must have been a very memorable moment for him because shortly after, Mr. Ibru passed away on November 20, 2011. Uvie on the other hand works in Investor Relations for Dangote Group, in the London office. The couple revealed how fond they are of each other's families. They all get on very well. “I couldn’t wish for a better family to be part of. I have known the Peile's for over 10 years now and they mean the world to me. I am very lucky indeed. I believe Max feels the same about my family. We all

get on very well” Uvie stated About the entire nuptials, she was thankful to God that it was a huge success. “We couldn't have dreamed or asked for more. Max loved the experience of having a Nigerian ceremony and has always embraced everything about Nigeria. He loves the people and the food! “Of course it was extremely hard not having my dad around. My big brothers and big cousins were a huge support to me though and I would like to thank them for that” The couple celebrated their union with a 2-week honeymoon in Mexico-and are savouring every moment of their marital bliss.

Miss Ose Ibru, Miss Aisha Patel, Miss Kenner Bolt, Miss Leo Beamish, Bride, Lady Maiden Ibru, Miss Tara Hecksher & Mrs. Chloe Hodgson

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Ms Kay Corriette, Lady Maiden Ibru & Mrs. Vivienne Ogden-Idun

Mr. & Mrs. William Wayne

Dr. Alex Thomopulos & Ose Ibru

Dr. Alex Thomopulos

Mr. William Scott Dalgleish & Miss Milly Hodgson

Miss Alexia Turner & Mrs. Isobel Elphinstone

Miss Olivia Dickison & Mr. Quincy Allan

Miss Ria Ibru

Mr. Benjamin Towill & Mr. Alexander Towill

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Mr. Harry Griffith, Mr Archie Hubble, Mr. Ludvik Thorsteinsson & Mr. Tom Craven

Mr. Tom Craven, Mrs. Lavinia Sidgwick & Mr. Christian Fleming

Miss Lexy Barton, Mr. Tom Clift, Mrs. Izzy Shortt & Mr. Richard Lubbock

Mr. Mark Cottenham, Mr. William Scott Dalgleish & Mr. Julian Strutt

Mr. Toke Ibru, Mr. Ebruba Ibru & Mr. Akinkunle Akinkugbe

depuis dans l'ancienne ville. Max travaille comme économiste dans le domaine du pétrole pour une agence de consultation en énergie appelée Xodus Groupe. Il a passé quelques mois à Lagos pour un stage avec Oando en l'été 2011. C'est comme ça qu'il a vraiment commencé à se rapprocher de la famille Ibru, en particulier du père de son épouse, M. Alex Ibru. Ce devait être un moment très mémorable pour lui, car peu de temps après, M. Ibru décéda le 20 Novembre 2011. Uvie d'autre part travaille dans le domaine de l’investissement pour Dangote Group, dans le bureau de Londres. Le couple a révélé qu'ils ont appris à aimer et à apprécier la famille de l'autre. «Je ne pouvais pas rêver d’une meilleure famille. ‘’Je connais les Peile depuis plus de 10 ans et ils signifient le monde

pour moi. Je suis très chanceux en effet. Je crois que Max ressent la même chose pour ma famille. Nous nous entendons tous très bien’’ a déclaré Uvie. À propos de l'ensemble des noces, Uvie était reconnaissante à Dieu que ce fut un énorme succès. "Nous n'aurions pas pu rêver ou demander plus. Max aimait l'expérience d'avoir une cérémonie nigériane et a toujours embrassé tout ce qui concerne le Nigeria. Il aime les gens et la nourriture! "Bien sûr, c'était extrêmement difficile sans la présence de mon père. Mes grands frères et grandes cousins étaient un énorme soutien pour moi et je tiens à les remercier pour cela’’. Le couple a célébré leur union avec une lune de miel de deux semaines au Mexique et savoure chaque instant de leur bonheur conjugal. Mrs. Susie Baynham & Miss Poppy Baynham

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Mr. Toke Ibru & bride

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Lady Maiden Ibru, groom with groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s parents- Mr. & Mrs. Robin Peile

Lady Maiden Ibru & Mr. Robin Peile

Groom: Maxwell Peile

Mr. Peter Sigdwick, Mrs. Lavinia Sidgwick, Mrs. Jessica Fleming & Mr. Christian Fleming

Major Tim Herbert, Mrs. Erica Herbert & Mr. Simon Baynham

Mrs. Susie Baynham, Mrs. Valerie Harris with Mr. & Mrs. Andrew Wilson

Mr. Akintunde Majekodnumi & Mr. Dhiren Joshi

Mr. & Mrs. William Roberts with Miss Scarlett Guess & Miss Charlotte Davies

Miss J Gibbons, Mr. Linden Dover with Mr. & Mrs. Michael Dover

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Bride with Mr. Toke Ibru

The bridal party

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Groom's parents, Mrs. Rosemary Parkes & Mrs. Emily Morgan

Mrs. Cecilia Ibru, Mrs. Anita Kouassigan, Dr. Alexander Thomopulos, Mr. Tive Ibru, Lady Maiden Ibru & Olorogun Oskar Ibru

Mr. Alexander Jevons with the couple, Mr. Toke Ibru & The Reverend Martin Dudley

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The wonderful couple

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Mr. Christopher Osborne

Miss Kome Ajegbo

Mrs. Cecilia Ibru, Mrs. Anita Kouassigan, D.r Alexander Thomopulos, Mr. Tive Ibru, Lady Maiden, Olorogun Oskar Ibru & Mr. Toke Ibru

Mr. Alexander Jevons, Mrs. Robin Peile, Mr. Robin Peile & Mrs. Rosemary Parkes

Mrs. Chlor Hodgson & Miss Kenner Bolt

Miss Tara Hecksher & Miss Ose Ibru

Miss Leo Beamish, Miss Aisha Patel & Mr. Akinkunle Akinkugbe

Reverend Martin Dudley

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Miss Kenner Bolt, Olorogun Oskar Ibru, Lady Maiden Ibru, Mr. Robin Peile, Mr. Alexander Jevons, Groom, Mrs. Sylvia Peile, Mr. Toke Ibru & Mrs. Chloe Hodgson

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Miss Ria Ibru & Michael Stankov

Oba Otudeko & Aremo Olusegun Osoba

Chief Sena Anthony

Mrs. Nneka Okeke & Mrs. Iyabo Abiola

Mrs. Sheri Williams

Miss Fiona Hecksher, Dr. Ameyo Adadevoh & Mrs. Violet Hecksher

Mrs. Rosemary Parkes & Mr. Tom Morgan

Mrs. Anita Kouassigan & Mrs. Carol Sodeinde

Prof. Sinclair Goodlad

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Miss Kome Ajegbo

Mrs. Kemi Davies & Mrs. Esher Benson

Mr. & Mrs. Peter Prag

The Hammonds

Mrs. Louisa Theo & Mrs. Tania Tate

Mr. Freddie Corlett & Miss Joanna Richards

Miss Shade Thomopulos, Miss Molly Sodeinde & Mrs. Marlies Allan

Mrs. Gillian Wayne & Baroness Hodgson

Mr. & Mrs. David Elliott

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THE GRAND RECEPTION

The couple off to the reception

Lady Maiden Ibru, couple & Mr. Toke Ibru

Mr. & Mrs. Robin Peile with Couple

Miss Leonora Beamish, Mr. Alexander Jevons, Miss Kenner Bolt, Mr. Ben Dancy, Mr. Rupert Cowper Coles, Miss Aisha Patel, Mr. Christopher Osborne, Miss Ose Ibru, Mr. Tom Morrell, Mr. Andrew Hodges, Mr. Edo Mapelli Mozzi & Miss Tara Hecksher

Miss Kenner Bolt, Miss Aisha Patel, Miss Tara Hecksher, Miss Leo Beamish & Miss Ose Ibru

Mr. & Mrs. Robin Peile, Couple, Mrs. Emily Morgan, Mr. Tom Morgan & Mr. Bertie Peile

Dr. Stephen Olofunwa, Lady Maiden Ibru, Couple, Mr. Toke Ibru, Mrs. Olofunwa & Prof. Wale Omole

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Miss Ose Ibru, Lady Maiden Ibru, Couple, Mr. Toke Ibru & Mr. Tive Ibru

Miss Leo Beamish, Miss Kenner Bolt, Miss Ose Ibru, Couple, Mrs. Chloe Hodgson, Miss Tara Hecksher & Miss Aisha Patel

The Brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s maids & ushers

Couple with ushers

Couple with page boys & flower girls

Couple with ushers

Couple with bridesmaids, flower girls & page boys

Oboden Ibru with younger Ibrus

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Ose Ibru, couple & Mrs. Anita Kouassigan

Couple with Olorogun Oskar Ibru

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COCKTAILS

Beere Derin Osoba, Aremo Olusegun Osoba & Prof. Wale Omole

L-r: Kola Kareem, Mrs. Anita Koussigan & friends

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Dr. Yemi Ogunbiyi, Lady Maiden Ibru, Bashorun Dele Momodu & Sen. Daisy Danjuma

Oboden Ibru & Bashorun Dele Momodu

Niyi Adenuga, Tive Ibru, Oboden & Toke Ibru

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Aremo Olusegun Osoba, Bashorun Dele Momodu, Mr. Oba Otudeko with guest

Bashorun Dele Momodu, Dr. Yemi Ogunbiyi & guest

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THE TRADITIONAL WEDDING IN LAGOS

Maxwell & Uvie in Uruobo traditional attire

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Couple with parents & family members

Husband presenting a bottle of Schnapps to brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s family

Prof. Duncan with Mady Maiden Ibru

Prof. Duncan blessing the bride

Baroness Hodgson & Andrew Wilson

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Tive Ibru, Olorogun Oskar Ibru & Toke Ibru

Dr. & Mrs. Thomopoulos

Otunba Michael Subomi Balogun, Mr. Akintola Williams & Gov. Ibikunle Amosun

Mrs. Titilayo Laoye-Tomori, Gov. Ibikunle Amosun & Gov. Emmanuel Uduaghan

Otunba(Mrs.) Grace Titilayo Laoye-Tomori (Deputy Governor of Osun State) with Chief (Mrs.) Bola Obasanjo

Mr. George Thorpe, Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu, General Alani Akinrinade (Rtd.) & Gov. Ibikunle Amosun

Femi Otedola, Alhaji Aliko Dangote with Mr. Jim Ovia

Olorogun Emerhor Oâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;tega & his wife with Bashorun Dele Momodu

Pastor & Mrs. Paul Adefarasin with Ifechukwu Onyera Patrick

Group MD, UBA, Phillip Oduoza & wife, Jumai

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Dr. Tunde Soleye & Chief Mike Inegbese

Gov. Ibikunle Amosun, Lady Maiden Ibru, Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu, Senator Oluremi Tinubu with Toke Ibru

Chief & Mrs. Temisan Grant

Chief (Mrs.) Josephine Fingesi with Mrs. Rita Amiuwu Oguntoyinbo

Tive, Toke, Mrs. Lucy Lawrence, Mrs. Audrey Abayomi with Mr. Muyiwa Oyeteju

Bernard Ibro Jnr., Hellen Ibro with Anna Ibro

Mrs. Amina Ahmadu, Mrs. Titi Annan with Chief (Mrs.) P. Oluwole

Chief (Mrs.) Grace Osime with Princess Ngozi Onu

Chief (Mrs.) Julie Desi with Mr. Edgar Sido

Mr. Y. O. Awosanya with Mr. S. Dafinone

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Dr. Alex Thomopoulos, Tive David Ibru, Dr. Charles Hammond with Toke Alex Ibru

The bridal gifts

The bridal train

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Bride with Eku, Kessiana, Adora, Kome & Ose Ibru

(front row Anna Holder, Leo Beamish & Emma Rogers (back row) Charlie Davies, Mirail Wushishi, Sophie Shahrokh & Joanna Richards

Nataile Allan with Wole Aboderin

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Mrs. Ola Adeola, Mrs. Derin Disu with Mrs. Folake St. Mathew-Daniel

Mrs. Mina Shasanya with Ms. Molara Otuyelu

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Gov. Ibikunle Amosun, Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu & wife, Sen. Oluremi Tinubu

Dame Abimbola Emmanuela Fashola, Chief (Mrs.) Bola Obasanjo with Osun State Deputy Goevernor, Otunba Titi Tomori

Otunba & Mrs. Oduntan

Pastor & Mrs. Paul Adefarasin

Gen. & Mrs. Chris Alli

Chisty Afadama & Rita Osibodu

H.R.M Oba Kole Ojutalayo with Olori Ladun Sijuade & Olori Abiodun Ojutalayo

Oba Kola Ibiyemi & Oba Abimbola Akinyele

Adam Habin with David Shom House

Mr. & Mrs. Kim Hammond

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Alhaji Aliko Dangote, Prince Nduka Obaigbena, The Otunba Adekunle Ojora & wife, Erelu Ojuolape, Otunba Subomi Balogun & Chief Sonny Odogwu

Jide Eyitayo, Kunle Olunloyo & the Sodeindes

Dr. Tunji Braitwaite

Prince Nduka Obaigbena, Hon. Abike Dabiri-Erewa, Femi Otedola & Funmi Ajila

Olorogun Oskar Ibru, Alhaji Aliko Dangote & Toke Ibru

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Bashorun Dele Momodu & Mr. Magnus De Souza

Bashorun Dele Momodu with Senator & Mrs. Agboti

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Hon. Stephen Kola-Balogun & wife, Mrs. Taiwo Kola-Balogun

From 2nd left: Bashorun Dele Momodu, Senator Musiliu Obanikoro & Patrick Doyle

Yomi Bodejo Okunsanya with Kemi Adewunmi

Bashorun Dele Momodu greeting The Otunba Adekunle Ojora & wife, the Erelu Ojuolape Ojora

Bashorun Dele Momodu, Alhaji Aliko Dangote, Femi Otedola & Senator Musiliu Obanikoro

Bashorun Dele Momodu & Mr. Ben Murray-Bruce

Robi with Tina, Andrew & Penny Wilson

Oba Otudeko & Mr. Sam Amuka

Bashorun Dele Momodu & Senator Musiliu Obanikoro

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Mr. Sam Amuka-Pemu (Publisher Vanguard Newspapers), Aremu Segun Osoba, Dr. Emmanuel Uduaghan (Governor of Delta State), Dr. Charles Hammond & Prince Nduka Obaigbena (Publisher of Thisday Newspapers)

Mr. Donald Duke with Prince Segun Adesegun & his wife, Mrs. Funmi Adesegun

Mr. Wisdom & Rose Rewane Dafinone

Mr. & Mrs. Toyin Petgrave

Toke Ibru,Tive Ibru & Tola Olarinre

Marcel Kouassigan, Rafiu Abina, & Michael Kouassigan

Hon. Adeyemi, Mr. Segun Adesegun, Mrs. Funmi Adesegun & husband, Prince Segun Adesegun (Deputy Governor of Ogun State)

Prince Julius Adeluyi-Adelusi, Oba Otudeko & Ogun State Deputy Governor, Prince Segun Olusegun

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Mrs. Betty Irabor & Chief (Mrs.) Sade Okoya

Baroness Hodgson, Lord Hodgson, Penny & Andrew Wilson

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Toke Ibru with bride’s maids

Couple cutting their cake

Groom’s men

Andrew Wilson, Prof. (Mrs.) Ebun Clark, Emily Morgan & Pastor Tinu Oyenuga

The groom’s friends

Cecil Hammond & uncle, Michael Murray-Bruce

Mrs. Ola Adeola, Mrs. Derin Disu, Mrs. Folake St. Matthew Daniel & Mrs. Joko George-Taylor

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Chief Rasaq Okoya & Chief (Mrs.) Sade Okoya

Senator Daisy Danjuma & Hon. Abike Dabiri-Erewa

Dr. Yemi Ogunbiyi & Chief Olu Okeowo

Her Excellency, Chief (Mrs.) Ndubusi Kanu with Hajia Abba Folawiyo

Olorogun Oskar Ibru, Chief Ajibola Ogunsola & Prince Nduka Obaigbena

Otunba (Mrs.) Grace Titilayo Laoye-Tomori(Deputy Governor of Osun State),Aremo Segun Osoba ,Lady Maiden Ibru , Dr. Emmanuel Uduaghan (Governor of Delta State), the couple, Sen. Bola Ahmed Tinubu, Gov. Ibikunle Amosun (Executive Governor of Ogun State) & Senator Oluremi Tinubu

John Momoh, Alhaji Aliko Dangote, Femi Otedola & Ben Murray Bruce

Mrs. Koforola Layode with Mrs. Bewaji Kuku

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Ete Omatseye (left)

Shuga Band performing

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OVATION REVISITS THE COLOURFUL WEDDING OF

HON. KELECHI NWOGU AND ONYEKA OZUZU IN PORT HARCOURT, RIVERS STATE Story: Tersoo Achinuku French: Chinyere Ndukwe Photo: Tope Brown

xactly, one year ago, the Garden City of Port Harcourt, Rivers State virtually stood still when the indefatigable politician, Honourable Emeka Nwogu wedded his sweetheart, Onyeka Ozuzu. From the traditional ceremonies to the wedding solemnization it was a colourful and top-notch

affair, attended by respected politicians and businessmen from in and around the state. Recounting their wonderful love story, the groom stated “I met Onyeka through a friend Sonia in 2009. One day, I was scrolling through her phone and saw Onyeka’s picture and I said, “I like to see that your friend”. So Sonia called her, we spoke

briefly and then exchanged numbers. “After that first call, we spoke on the phone for over a year and never saw each other until she came to Port Harcourt for her compulsory National Youth Service Corps Scheme (NYSC)” From that first meeting, the attraction was mutual and the friendship soon developed into a 107

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serious affair. The almighty proposal was filled with drama in all ramifications. It was a case of sadness turning to joy for the lovebirds. We gathered that the couple had a major quarrel in the parlour of the lover boy on that fateful day in April 2012. The altercation was so severe that all through the night, he could not sleep. It was then that it struck him that he truly loved this lady and that she was his better half. In his words “In a relationship, knowing that you are not perfect is a good thing. She is someone that tolerates and that is why marriage is for better, for worse. It was her attitude and forgiving spirit that struck me and my mind was made up” He walked up to her the very next morning without much preamble and handed her a ring. Of course, in view of what happened the night before, Onyeka was dumbfounded. For three minutes, she was completely speechless. The Romeo then broke the silence. He asked his Juliet if she was not going to say anything. At that time he never knew that she had been holding back tears. “So I pulled her close to me, and held her and she just whispered “Yes, Yes over and over again” The tears just began to flow. It was great moment for both of us The joyous occasion was sealed with a very cultural traditional wedding and a year later with a church ceremony that was fitting for such a vibrant duo. Later, their guests were hosted to a lavish reception that was a great finale to a fun-filled occasion. 108

l y a un an le Garden City de Port Harcourt, dans l’Etat de Rivers était en effervescence lorsque l’infatigable politicien, Honourable Emeka Nwogu a épousé sa dulcinée, Onyeka Ozuzu. Tout était grandiose, de la cérémonie traditionnelle au mariage et plusieurs hommes politiques et hommes d’affaires venus de l’Etat et hors de l’ Etat ont honoré ces manifestations de leur présence Se rappelant leur histoire d’amour, le marié a dit: “ j’ai rencontré Onyeka à travers une amie du nom de Sonia en 2009. Un jour, je parcourais son téléphone, j’ai vu la photo d’Onyeka et j’ai dit: “j’aimerais rencontrer ton amie. Donc Sonia l’a appelée, nous avions parlé brièvement et avions échangé nos numéros de téléphone’’. “Après ce premier appel, nous sommes restés en contact par téléphone pendant une année et on ne s’était jamais rencontré jusqu’a ce qu’elle ne rentre à Port Harcourt pour son service militaire. L’attirance était réciproque à cette première rencontre et notre amitié a grandi jusqu’à devenir quelque chose de plus sérieux. La demande en mariage n’était pas sans drame. Ce fut un moment de tristesse qui s’est finalement transformé en joie pour les tourtereaux. Nous avons appris que le jour-là le couple avait eu une querelle violente dans le salon du Don Juan en Avril 2012. La querelle était si violente qu’il ne put pas dormir durant toute la nuit. C’est en ce moment qu’il a compris qu’il aimait vraiment cette fille et qu’elle était son âme-

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The beautiful bride

The dashing groom

L-r: Mrs. Victoria Chikeka (groom’s sister), Mrs. Benedict Nwogu, (groom’s mum) & Miss Caroline Chinwendu (groom’s sister)

sœur. En ses mots : “dans une relation, c’est bien que l’on reconnaisse qu’on n’est pas parfait. Elle une fille très tolérante et c’est pour cela que le mariage est pour le meilleur pour le pire. C’étaient son comportement et son esprit de pardon qui m’ont touché et j’ai pris une décision finale”. Il l’a approchée le jour suivant et sans trop de protocole il lui a tendu la bague de fiançaille. Bien- sûr, Onyeka était très surprise après la querelle de la veille et était restée sans voix pendant trois minutes.

L-r: Mr. Chidi Ozuzu, bride’s father, Mr. Chike Kamalu, Mr. Emmanuel Ozuzu & Mr. Humphrey Ozuzu

Le Romeo rompit le silence en lui demandant si elle n’allait rien dire. Il savait qu’elle était en train de retenir ses larmes. “Donc je l’ai rapprochée de moi et l’ai prise dans mes bras et elle a murmuré en disant “Oui, oui, encore et encore”. Cette tournure joyeuse a été scellée avec une cérémonie traditionnelle et un mariage à l’église qui étaient à la hauteur de ce duo magnifique. Après cela, les invités furent conviés à une grande réception comme apothéose d’un événement grandiose. Bride & her dad

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Flavour singing for the couple

L-r: Felix Obuah, Chief Henry Njoku & bride

Chief Barr. Nyesom Wike, Minister for State, Education, Hon. Kongsley Chinda & others

Bride with Nollywood actress, Patience Ozorkwor aka Muma Gee

First from left: Hon. Martins Amaewuhule

Mrs. Jane Evboifo, bride & Mrs. Sonia Oguamanam

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Chief Barr. Nyesom Wike (Minister for State Education, Hon. Kingsley Chinda

Hon. David Briggs & Hon. Timothy Nsirim

Hon. Victor Ihunwo & Hon. Boma Iyaye

Hon. Evans Bipi & Hon. Martins Amaswhule

Hon. Felix Obuah & Hon. Henry Ogiri

Patience Ozokwor with other guests

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Mrs. Stella Nwuzi (2nd from left) with friends

Chief Kingsley Egbunine, Mr. Theophilus Iheanetu, Chief Iheanyi Okprpojiaku & Mr. Emmanuel Tasie

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Brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s father presenting Kolanuts & garden eggs

Chief Onyekachi Amaonwu giving royal blessing

Chief Henry Njoku

Brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s father blessing his daughter

John Okafor (Mr. Ibu) entertaining guests

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Groom, Flavour & his friends

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Couple cutting their cake Couple with groom’s mother, Mrs. Benedict Nwogu

Couple with Bright Nwogu

Leaders & Members of both GDI & PDP

Mrs. Benedict Nwogu, groom’s mother & Chief Omezurike Onuoha

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The couple with Chief Barr. Nyesom Wike & Hon. Felix Obuah

Couple with Hon. Felix Obuah & Chief Onyekachi Amaonwu

Chief & Lolo Ephraim Nwuzi with couple

Couple with Chief James Nweke & Chief Blessing Nwafor

Chief & Lolo Henry Njoku with couple

Nonso Ozuzu & Ifanyi Ozuzu with couple

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Couple with Mr. Chidi Ozuzu (brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s father, 3rd from right) with Executive Members of GDI

Nollywoody actor, Mr. Ibu with guests

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Mr. Jerry, Mr. Daniel Ogolo, Victor Omodu, Chief Elect Suala Fingasi, Chief Nnamdi Onyejiaka, Washington Ejims & Gibson Ogolo

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Victor, groom, Chief Nnamdi, Williams E. Nwuzi (Ring Bearer), Baron & Stanley Akwarandu

Obinna Anyanwo, Chief Ephriam Nwuzi, Groom & Chief Emma Anyanwu

Groom with Chief Ephriam Nwuzi & Chief Emma Anyanwu

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The groom & Williams E. Nwuzi (Ring Bearer)

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Groom & Senator Lee Maeba

Chief Emma Anyanwu & Senator Lee Maeba

Groom with Senator A.M. Pepple

Hon. Martins Amaewhule & wife

Nnamdi Nwogu (right)

Chief Henry Njoku, (Haritex)

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The sponsors, Mr. & Mrs. Henry Njoku, couple & Officiating Priest with marriage certificate

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Couple, Sponsor with officiating Priests

Couple with Caroline Chinwendu Nwogu (1st left), Mrs. Benedict Nwogu (groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s mother) 3rd left, Hon. Kenneth Kobani, Chief Onyekachi Amaonwu, Chief Emma Anyanwu, Sen. A. M. Pepple with others

From L-r: Senator Lee Maeba, Sir Celestine Omehia, Emem Akpabio, Chief Onyekachi Amaonwu, couple, Don Etim (Commissioner for Works, Akwa Ibom State) with other guests

Couple with Chief Onyekachi Amaonwu

Chief Ephriam Nwuzi, Couple & Chief (Mrs.) Ephriam Nwuzi

Couple with Mr. & Mrs. Obinna Anyanwu

3rd from left: Chief (Mrs.) Ephriam Nwuzi, Couple, Chief James & Mrs. Elizabeth Nweke

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Don Etim, Commissioner for Works Akwa Ibom State

Chief Onyekachi Amaonwu with Chief & Mrs. Henry Njoku

Hon. Victor Ihunwo & wife

Chief Ephriam Nwuzi, Chief Emma Anyanwu & Mr. Obinna Anyanwu

Mr. Obinna Anyanwu & Hon. Kenneth Kobani

Mrs. Chioma Iyagba & Ugonma

Nnamdi Nwogu (2nd from left) & Japhet Ogbueri (far right)

Hon. Emeka Nwoke (4th from left)

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Groom & brother, Nnamdi Nwogu

Mrs. Nerepamo D. Ogolo, Mr. Daniel S. Ogolo with IB Ogolo

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Mr. & Mrs. Victor

Mr. & Mrs. Chika

Hon. Kenneth Kobani & Sen. A.M. Pepple

Mr. Shoo G.M.T. Tom Jaja

Mr. Chizi (middle)

Barr. Amadi, Dr. Ndubuisi & Peter Lawson

Mrs. Akwarandu (left)

Caroline Chinwendu Nwogu (right)

Toru Ofili & Chief (Mrs.) Nwuzi

Nnamdi Nwogu

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DOUBLE CELEBRATION FOR TOYIN BAKARE IN ABUJA, NIGERIA Story: Adeyemi Funmilayo Photo: Segun Lawal

Mr. Abiodun Sola-Bakare, Mrs. Toyin Ajoke Sola-Bakare, Mr. Amos Ayinla Bakare, Enoch Sola Bakare & Deborah Motunrayo Sola-Bakare

Rev. Nathaniel Awumebelem & Rev. Max Egbinije praying for Deborah Motunrayo Sola-Bakare

Deborah Motunrayo Sola-Bakare

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hildren are arguably God's greatest gifts to couples. God also delights greatly in children-the Holy Book tells us. It is therefore always exciting whenever a new child enters into a family. This was why there was so much joy in the Sola Bakare family when they joyfully dedicated newly born Deborah Motunrayo before God, family and friends at the Redeemed Evangelical Mission, Utako branch in Abuja. That was not all, it was indeed a double celebration for the Bakare family, because apart from the baby dedication, the family was also celebrating the 45th birthday of the baby's mum, Mrs. Toyin Ajoke Bakare. The two-in-one event kicked off

with an opening prayer by the officiating minister, Pastor Max Egbinijie, followed by the opening hymn steered by the church choir. During the service, Pastor Egbinijie, presented Motunrayo to the congregation and vows were made by her parents to raise her in the Vineyard of the Lord. During the sermon, the man of God advised the parents to nurture and teach their daughter the word of God, so that she will desire to love God and love others, quoting scriptures to buttress his point. After the couple had affirmed their promises, the man of God prayed for the family and then a moment of thanksgiving followed.

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Mrs. Toyin Bakare expressing thanks to God

Sola-Bakare family & Laide James Majekodunmi

Enoch Sola-Bakare in thanksgiving mood

Dr. Shebu with Sola-Bakare family

Mr. Ayo Ogunlana, the Bakares & Mrs. Oluwakemi James

James Biodun Majekodunmi, Mrs. Toyin Sola-Bakare & Laide James Majekodunmi

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Okanlawon family, Ayo Ogunlana with celebrantâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s family

The Sola-Bakares Extended hand (We Care Group) with Sola Bakare family

THE RECEPTION

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Mr. & Mrs. Sola Bakare

Enoch Sola-Bakare

Mrs. Alabi Adetoun, Biodun Ogunlana, Bukky Adegboye & Mrs. Modupe Otugoson

Pastor Max Egbinije

Mrs. Sola Okanlawon

Mr. Bola Jaiyeola

Sen. Sola Adeyeye with Mr. & Mrs. Sola Bakare

Mr. & Mrs. Sola Bakare

Deaconess Ann Ben, Deaconess Asugha, Dr. Anne Okorafor & Dr. Omare Bisong

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Mrs. Toyin Ajoke Sola-Bakare & Miss Motunrayo Sola-Bakare

Motunrayo, Mrs. Toyin Sola-Bakare with invited children

Big brother, Enoch pampering baby sister, Motunrayo

Mrs. Bola Eniola, Hafsat Lawal & Hay Kike Kamal

Mrs. Abdulrasheed Ijaiiya, Mrs. Bimbola Fadahunsi & Miss. Tope Oyewo

Funmilayo Oyewo & Dupe Aligasimi

Mrs. Chika Balogun & Mrs. Binta Max Egbinije

Mrs. Sanyaolu & Mrs. Esho

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Biodun Ogunlana, Sola Okanlawon & Jibola Jackson

Olubusola Ojomo, Toyin Jinadu, Nike Oshinowo & Sophie Hughes

Sesan Odubajo, Miss. Emmanuel Otigba & Chief (Mrs.) Funke Kila

Chaperone Protocol

Ibiyemi Akindeinde, Olufunmi Adejoke & Adefunmike Olatunji

Ihuoma Kanu, Dunni, Shade Fakayode & Ganiyat Olabibi

Mr. Ayo Ogunlana & niece, Mrs. Kemi James

Mr. Ayo Ogunlana & sister, Mrs. Toyin Sola-Bakare

Mr. & Mrs. Sola Bakare with friends

Mr. Ayo Ogunlana, Mrs. Toyin Sola-Bakare with Chief Adesoji Ajayi-Bembe, The Obanikoro of Lagos

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Cutting of the cake by Mr. & Mrs. Sola Bakare

Sen. Sola Adeyeye & family members during cutting of the cake

The Bakares with family members

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Mr. & Mrs. Sola Bakare with cousins & nieces

Mr. & Mrs. Sola Bakare with the Shoyemiâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s

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Mrs. Funmi Odusanya, Bunmi Ayuba & Mrs. Mary Mosoba

Mrs. Dupe Adebayo, Mrs. Toyin Sola-Bakare & Dr. Kolis

Dotun, James & Gilbert

Mr. & Mrs. Sola Bakare

After the church service, a grand reception was held at Rivers Place Event Center, where Mrs. Bakare launched her foundation, Akdeb. The birthday girl stepped out in purple iro and buba with a sliver head gear alongside her humble husband who was sparkling his own ensemble The arena was brightened up by the purple and

lilac outfits adorned by the guests. The high point of the event was the cutting of the three layer cake which was crafted to form a podium surrounded by multi- colour butterflies with the figure, 45, stationed on the edge. This segment was officiated by Senator Sola Adeyeye. After the cutting of the cake, guests showered the celebrants with enormous gifts.

The compere for the day was stand-up comedienne, Helen Paul-Bamisile, popularly known as Tatafo. With her quirky and spontaneous style and her voice range which makes her sound like children, she entertained the guests. Guests were also treated to mouthwatering delicacies and sumptuous drinks while the Faith Band thrilled them with melodious tunes. 139

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YINKA BOLARINWA BECAME DISTRICT GOVERNOR Story: Adebayo Rukayat Photo: Solomon Ekhaiyemhe

The new District Governor (3rd left) Lion Yinka dueing his installation

t was an evening of fun when Lions Club 404B, Ikeja installed Lion Yinka Bolarinwa as its new District Governor at the exquisite Shaba Centre, Mobolaji Bank Anthony way, Ikeja Lagos. The event had several members of other Lion Clubs in attendance including the Governor of Oyo State, Abiola Ajimobi who was the special guest of honour. Governor Ajimobi, while delivering his lecture said, “Social clubs could better achieve their objectives when they have their members in government.” He f u r t h e r admonished, “Organizations like the Lions Club should encourage their members to contribute their quota to the development and change the wrong perception of some people about politics.”

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From 2nd left: District Governor, Yinka Bolarinwa, Oyo State Governor, H.E Abiola Ajimobi, Mr. Felix Ohiwerei & other dignitaries during the inauguration of the club’s new complex

While speaking on the topic, ‘The Impact of Service and Ethics to the Survival of a Nation’, a former Minister of Health, Prince Julius AdelusiAdeluyi, urged the club to initiate the process for the resuscitation of value systems in the Nigerian society.

The highpoint of the event were the presentation of Lion Yinka Bolarinwa as the new District Governor of Lions Club 404B and the inauguration of the club’s new three-storey multi-purpose complex by Gov. Ajimobi.

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ESV. (Lion) James O. Alabi & Mrs. Folasade Alabi

Lion Blessing Umebali (2nd Vice President, Ikeja Metro Lions Club) with Lion Raphael Akinsulire (Immediate Past President, Ikeja Metro Lions Club)

Prince Julius Adeluyi-Adelusi & wife

Alhaji Hakeem Amoo & Hon. Seye Oladejo

Mrs. Anthonia Oduye& Maboye & Oduye (Isolo Lions Club)

Lion (Prince) Olori Sola Aregbesola (District Cabinet Secretary, 404 B Nigeria)

Leo Babatope Emmanuel, Leo Idowu Adelanwa, Leo Adetunji Tobi, Akaeze Chike & Leo Sunday Asiyanbi

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Alhaji Fatai Ibikunle, Lion Atilade Olukokun & Alhaji Waheed Gbadamosi

Lion Oba Abimbola Aina-David (NLCF), Lion Ogunwomoju Bosede( NLCF) & Lion Fatoki

Leo Bolanle Apete & Lion (Engr.) Oyewole Oyewunmi

Lion Oluwafunke Awogunju & Lion Nike Odunuga

Dr. Hakeem Oseni with His Excellency, Senator Abiola Ajumobi (Executive Governor of Oyo State)

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Lion Dr. (Mrs.) R.O.Oseni, Lion MMO Ajaja, Lion Nofisat Arogundade & Lion Maryam Thomas (Ilupeju Diamond Lions Club)

Lion Mabel Bassey ( 3rd left) with other Lions

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PRINCESS TOYIN

KOLADE MARKS ANOTHER BIRTHDAY Story: Babatunde Martins Photo: Adekoya Adegbite

hen top Lagos businesswoman and socialite, Princess Toyin Kolade added a new year, she did not want to host any party, but her husband, Prince Kayode Kolade, had other plans. It was not until she was led to Rodizzio Restaurant, GRA, Ikeja, Lagos where a select group of friends and notable personalities were already waiting to honour her that she realised that a surprise bash was in the offing. The gesture overwhelmed the

beautiful lady as she savoured the outpouring of love from friends, family members and well-wishers. Kayode Olusemire, Mayor Akinpelu, actress, Iyabo Ojo, Dele Taiwo, actress Funke Adesiyan, Saheed Balogun and others were at the event. Her husband, Prince Kolade, spared no cost to make the day a memorable one. Guests were treated to a gourmet feast while champagne, cognacs and other vintage drinks flowed freely.

The celebrant, Mrs. Toyin Kolade cutting her cake

Toyin Awe, celebrant & Mayor Akinpelu

Prince Kayode & Princess Toyin Kolade

Saheed Balogun & his wife, celebrant & Kayode

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Oyekanmi Oyedokun,celebrant & Olarenwaju K.

Celebrant with movie stars

Aduragbemi Kolade, celebrant & Sammy Ojaja

Emmanuel Ogundele, celebrant, Olajide Owolabi & Prince Adewale Adeshina

Megacine,Ibukun Olumekun, celebrant & Bunmi Olumekun

Kayode Olusemire & friends

(R) Olanrewaju Kolade & Lola

Victoria Adedeji, Princess Toyin Kolade & Ayobami Adedeji

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Dotun Shodunke, Demola Ogunaike & Prince Adewale Adeshina

Celebrant with Ovationâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Babatunde Martins

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Olajide Owolawi & Emmanuel Ogundele

Saheed Balogun (MC)

Kayode Titilayo,Mayor Akinpelu, Mrs. Titilayo & Prince Kayode Kolade

Yemisi Fakayode, Adewole Olusanya Johnson, celebrant, Princess Toyin Kolade, Prince Kayode Kolade & Rotimi Aderonmu

LKT, Princess Toyin Kolade, Adex & Prince Kayode Kolade

LKT & Kenny

Kayode, celebrant & Saheed Balogun

The Kolades with The Kazzims

Funke Adesiyan & Dele Taiwo

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THE ASANTEHENE, NANA OTUMFUO OSEI TUTU II CELEBRATES 15TH ENSTOOLMENT ANNIVERSARY IN KUMASI, GHANA AND LONDON, ENGLAND Story: Michael Effiong Photo: Ben Dzakah (Ghana) & Bukola Samuel (England)

The great King arriving the event in all his spendor

Ghana President, H. E. John Dramani Mahama

Former President Jerry John Rawlings & wife, Nana Konadu Agyemang-Rawlings with Lovelance Prempeh

nimaginable kaleidoscope of colours, glorious glamour and regal elegance were on show when the whole of Ghana rose to celebrate the fifteenth anniversary of the enstoolment of Otumfuo Osei Tutu II as Asantehene, the 16th Occupant of the Golden Stool of the Kingdom of Asante. The activities spanned for over a month, but the 146

Chief Gabriel Igbinedion & Ashim Morton

climax was the Akwasidaekeseε, the Grand Durbar of the chiefs and people of Asanteman held at the Baba Yara Sports Stadium in Kumasi, Ghana. With its theme as “Rekindling The Spirit of Creativity, Innovation and Enterprise through traditional Leadership”, the celebration was attended by the cream of African society including President of

Ghana, H.E. John Dramani Mahama, former President Jerry John Rawlings, former President, Chief Olusegun Obasanjo and First Ladies, Nana Konadu AgyemangRawlings and Mrs. Theresa Kufuor. That was not all, His Majesty’s close friend, Nigerian businessman, Chief Gabriel Igbinedion was also in attendance and the Esama of Benin came with a

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Daasebre Osei Bonsu ( Mampong Manhene) & Nana Agyakoma Difie II (Mampong Hema )

Former President Olusegun Obasanjo

Buoyemhene & Queenmother

Akroniehene

Nana Owamena Kenten, Nana Awuah Asibuo & Nana Adutwumwaa

Nana Aduse Atwerewa Ampen-Tepa Manhene

Dikomanhene

Stool wives

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The wife of The Asantehene, Lady Julia

Former First Lady Theresa Kufour

Nana Akosua Takyiwaa

Nana Gyewa Pamu

Nana Gyasi Amoakwatah

Nana Abrifi

Adwoa Apreboi

Linda Agyeman Duah

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Hon. Edith Ammamoo

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The Muslim Community in Kumasi Dr. & Mrs. Addo Kuffour

Nana Aggrey Nana Boakye Mensa

Mr. & Mrs. Francis Kyeremateng Nana Osei Kofi

Nana Akwasi Barfo Bosomprah

(R) Dr. Herbert Lartey of DPP

retinue of friends too. The celebration of the 15th anniversary milestone was a symbol of the relationship of love and deep admiration of the people to their King arising from their recognition and appreciation of his unqualified commitment to the upliftment of their heritage and culture. The huge turnout at the stadium was an indication that the Asantehene in the

last fifteen years has provided inspirational leadership and brought tremendous transformation to Asanteman. Everyone truly enjoyed the outstanding parade of the chiefs, the scintillating drummers and pipers including the majestic arrival of the Asantehene in his full regalia atop a Golden Stool, it was a wonderful sight to behold. 149

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Francis Van Rompaer

Nana Agyekum Kusi (Oyoko Hene)

Dr. Richard Anani

Kristen Vlstein

Amb. Margit Thomsen Of Denmark

Mr. Fabio

Akos Fremah & Rita Frimpong

Adjowa Adrankomah

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Chife Of Ewe In Asante

Mr. Isaac Osei

Ms. Vera Cobbina

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Nana Boakye Ababio, Nana Boakye Ansa, Nana Bediako Appim & Nana Kwasi Abankwa

H.E. Amb. & Mrs. Jeamin Kyun of S. Korea

Barma Okogyeasuo Offie Akwasi II

Nana Akwa Afriyie & Nana Fameyeh

Nana Baffour Asare II & his entourage

Sharon Bar-W, Gene Cretz & Annette Cretz

Mercy Ampofo, Akosua Prempeh & Elsie Ohenwaa

(R) Mrs. Kojo Bonsu

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Fati Iddrisu Mahama & friend

Chief Gabriel Igbinedion, Ashim Morton, Ms Kemi Adewunmi & Bini chief

HRM Dr. Amb. Ezeigbo Chuks Iheneto I, Chief Gabriel Igbinidion & Rev. Helena Sarpong

(R) Edward Boateng

Barima Okogyeasuo Offie Akuasi II & Nana Agyekum Kusi

Nana Ama Sikapa, Awuradwoa & Prismia

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THE ESAMA OF BENIN KINGDOM HOSTS THE ASANTEHENE AT CLARIDGES, LONDON

From 3rd: Ms Paulette Redwood, Lady Cherry Igbinedion, Lady Julia, Atta, His Majesty The Asantehene, Chief Gabriel Igbinedion, Lord Boateng, H.E Victor Smith

Sir Gabriel, Lady Cherry & Lord Boateng

laridgeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s, reputed as the most iconic 5-star hotel in Mayfair, London, a place where you can experience world class design and flawless service was the venue chosen by Esama of Benin, Chief Gabriel Igbinedion, to host the 15th Anniversary on the Stool of his friend, Nana Osei Tutu II, The Asantehene. The cosy celebration of close family and friends from both Nigeria Esama of Benin, Chief Gabriel Igbinedion & wife, Lady Cherry Igbinedion

and Ghana had in attendance such personages as Rt. Hon. Lord Boateng of Akyem and Wembley and H.E. Amb. Victor Smith, Ghanaian High Commissioner to England. The evening of full course dinner and speeches was anchored by the popular Master of Ceremonies, KKDand it saw speaker after speaker showering the revered monarch with encomiums. 153

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Former President J.A. Kufuor, Chief Gabriel Igbinedion, Esama of Benin Kingdom, Otumfuo & guest

Former President John Agyekum Kufuor with The Asantehene

KKD, Lady Julia & Otumfuo

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Chief Gabriel Igbinedion, Mrs. Selina Jutla, The Otumfuo & guests

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KKD, Chief Igbinedion & Prince Lovelace Prempeh

The Esamaof Benin, Chief Gabriel Igbinedion & friend, Mr. Joseph Idehen with guests

Sir Gabriel, Lady Cherry & Nana Osei Tutu II

H.E. President John Kufior, Chief Gabriel Igbinedion & Lady Cherry Igbinedion

The Asantehene & wife, Lady Julia with Amb. Victor Smith, Ghanaian High Commissioner to UK

From 2nd left: H.E Mrs. Eki Igbinedion & Lord Boateng

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Esama of Benin paying tribute to The Asantehene

The compere, KKD

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AT THE LAUNCH OF

LIVING NAKED A BOOK ON

FINANCIAL GURU

KOFI AMOABENG By Ben Dzakah

Bashorun Dele Momodu launching the book

Bashorun Dele Momodu, Prof. Ayensu & Prince Kofi Amoabeng

Prince Kofi Amoabeng giving a speech

oung entrepreneurs, business management students and anyone who cares about growing a business now has a good book to guide them to success with the launch of a biography on Prince. Kofi Amoabeng, Group Chairman of the UT Group of Companies. Written by an Accountant, Daniel Amuzu, the book, titled Living Naked: The Wit and Wisdom of Prince Kofi Amoabeng is made up of 17 easy-to-read chapters which capture the professional life of Mr Amoabeng and his rise to success. At the official launch of the book held at Alisa Hotel, Ridge, Accra, OVATION Publisher, Bashorun Dele Momodu, said society needed role models like

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Amoabeng to guide and inspire young people to achieve their set goals. He praised Mr Amoabeng for his unique leadership qualities and humility which, according to him, had inspired many people to establish their own companies. Chief Momodu commended the author for chronicling the achievements of Mr Amoabeng which he noted would be an important source of knowledge to society. In his remarks, the author, Mr Amuzu, said he wrote the book to give others the opportunity to learn about the ideas and leadership style of Mr Amoabeng. He said another reason for working on the book

was to honour Mr Amoabeng for his achievements and enable more people emulate his character. â&#x20AC;&#x153;I, however, believe that by documenting the life of our leaders from time to time, we will produce the next generation of leaders who will aspire to do what they did, learn from them and do more. This way we can continue to grow as individuals, as a nation and as a continent,â&#x20AC;? he stated. Mr Amuzu made a request to Mr Amoabeng to write an autobiography and form a foundation to groom future entrepreneurs. The book was reviewed by Chief Executive Officer of Roverman Productions, Mr Ebo Whyte, who described it as reader-friendly, noting that the tense and language were plain and simple.

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Mrs. Florence Siaw & Bashorun Dele Momodu

The author, Daniels Amuzu & Bashorun Dele Momodu

Doris Darko,K.S.M & friend

Bashorun Dele Momodu & Haj. Suard Sesay

Kwaku Sintim Missah, Uncle Ebo Whyte & Kafui Dei

Ama Anarfi-Yaro & Edem Yankson

Akosua Adou, Diana Amarquaye, Dina Owusu & Dillys Williams

Gwendy Bannerman, Mary Kessie & Haj. Suard Sesay

Uncle Ebo Whyte, Alhassan Andani & Kofi Siaw

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ALL HAIL

MISS TOGO 2014 Story: Chinyere Ndukwe

Tatiana Mariana Camara, Miss Togo 2014

Miss Togo 2013, Edwige E. Segbe, crowning the new Miss Togo

Gaspard Baka, President Miss Togo Committee, Miss Togo & her runner-ups

Some of the contestants

Contestants in their evening wear

atiana Mariana Camara, is the new Misss Togo 2014. They were 21 contestants in total and she emerged winner among these girls who were all determined to become ‘the most beautiful girl’ in Togo. Being the 2nd runner-up of Miss Togo 2013, Tatiana Mariana Camara never gave up in her quest for the most coveted beauty crown which has beern in existence since 1994. This year marks the 20th anniversary of Miss Togo and one could perceive from the high class of the organization that this year’s edition will be grand. The event that started with a short speech from the President of Miss Togo Committee, Mr Gaspard Baka, was witnessed by many dignitaries such as the Minister of Culture and Communication, Mrs Germaine Kouméalo Anaté, Mr. Selom Komi Klassou, Vice-President of the National Assembly, Mr. Djibril Ouattara, General Manager Moov Togo, official sponsor of 160

Miss Togo for many years now, and representatives of other sponsors. Surrounded by the Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria 2014, and other counterparts from Ghana, Benin Republic, Gabon and Côte d’Ivoire, Tatiana Mariana Camara could not hold back her tears as Edwige Elefa Segbe, Miss Togo 2013 was placing the crown on her head. Being elected Miss Togo is not the end of the road as the winner will be given a project of development in a field and she will become the ambassador of the country in many beauty contests around the world. Against all odds, the theme for this year is Information and Communication Technology (ICT) for education in rural area. Tatiana Mariana Camara, aged 20, a third year student in Management, is more than determined to make her year a success.

atiana Mariana Camara, a été élue Miss Togo 2014 le samedi soir. Elles étaient 21 candidates au début et Tatiana Mariana Camara a su émerger gagnante parmi ces filles toutes déterminées à devenir la ‘plus belle’ femme du Togo. Etant la deuxième dauphine de la Miss Togo 2013, Tatiana Mariana Camara, n’a pas baissé les bras dans la poursuite de la couronne tant convoitée par beaucoup de jeunes filles au Togo depuis 1994. En effet, cette année marque le 20ème anniversaire de Miss Togo et l’on pouvait voir de par l’organisation de classe, que l’édition de cette année serait plus grandiose que les précédentes. La cérémonie qui a débuté avec un court discours du président du Comité Miss Togo, M. Gaspard Baka, a été marquée par la présence de beaucoup de grandes personnalités à savoir la Ministre de la Culture et de la Communication, Mme Germaine Kouméalo Anaté, M. Selom Komi Klassou, Vice-Président de l’Assemblée Nationale, M. Djibril Ouattara, Directeur Général de Moov

Togo, principal sponsor de Miss Togo depuis des années, des représentants des autres sponsors, pour ne citer que ceux-là. Entourée de ses homologues du Nigeria, du Benin, du Ghana, de la Côte d’Ivoire et du Gabon, Tatiana Mariana Camara ne pouvait contenir ses larmes lorsque la Miss Togo 2013, Edwige Emefa Ségbé, lui posait la fameuse couronne sur la tête. Etre élue Miss Togo n’est pas le bout du tunnel car après son élection, outre de devenir l’ambassadrice du Togo dans des concours internationaux, la Miss Togo doit également mener un projet de développement. Pour cette année, contre toute attente, le projet a pour thème « les Technologies de l’Information et de la Communication (TIC) au service de l’éducation en milieu rural ». Tatiana Mariana Camara, âgée de 20 ans, et étudiante en 3ème année de gestion, est plus que déterminée à mener à bien son projet avant qu’elle ne remette la couronne à la prochaine Miss Togo.

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THE FUNERAL CEREMONY OF MADAM JOY YOUNG-ARNEY IN PORT HARCOURT, RIVERS STATE Story: Emmanuel Tochukwu Edward Photo: Adekoya Adegbite

Family of Late Madam Young-Arney

hat wonderful woman, Madam Kilali Joy Ababia Young-Arney, who was a blessing to all and spread joy everywhere she went answered the call of her Creator. At the good old age of 77 and OVATION is glad to celebrate her. We were told that she was a woman of remarkable humility, one whose lifestyle was undoubtedly a source of inspiration to so many. We learnt that her strength came from a deep faith in God. Her dedication and sacrifice made a profound impression on all and sundry that graced her path. A queenly 2-day burial ceremony was arranged to send her home in deserving glory, starting with the Service of songs and Wake keep at Our Saviour's African Church Cathedral Buguma City, Asalga, Rivers State. Family members and well-wishers made their presence felt at the church. Oh they came in their numbers that you would have thought a First Lady was being celebrated. It was a service of songs that the angels themselves graced and offered their heavenly voices-in human form. Words of encouragement from the Officiating Ministers strengthened the hearts of the family of the deceased and charged all to live a more godly life. The service of songs ended with thanksgiving and warm greetings as family and friends seized the rare opportunity to exchange warm pleasantries. Day-two was expectedly more glorious. Yet again, Our Saviour's African Church Cathedral provided the grand stage for the final farewell for this woman of God. Oh yes, there were tears as sweet memories of years gone by burst open the springs of welling emotions; but there was joy as well, for she had fought a good fight and finished her race ever so gloriously. In his words, the Officiating Minister encouraged everyone to live an exemplary life and wait earnestly on the second coming of the Lord Jesus Christ. He added, "Life is to be appreciated and lived in total

Governor Rotimi Amaechi with the family members

nobility, we all should learn to emulate the life and times of Late Mummy, who gave hope to the hopeless in her own little way, who also held forth her faith in God till her dying glorious exit.â&#x20AC;? There was perfect silence in the hall as the cleric continued to admonish the guests on moral values. Soon everyone was under the cloud of depression when the pallbearers carried the remains of the deceased in a brown gold plated casket. Ceaseless flow of tears slowly ran from their eyes as the moving crowd marched along with the pallbearers to the graveside where her remains were committed to mother earth. The burial ceremony wore a new look with a recherche reception held at the residence of the

deceased. Loads of guests elegantly dressed in distinctive attires made their way into the compound and the ceremony was declared open with a prayer. Cool and smooth musicals wafting from the speakers refreshed their mourning hearts and enlivened the guests in no small measure. Guests were treated to lip-smacking continental dishes and African delicacies, as well as smooth blend of rich and tasteful wines. The celebration enjoyed the prestigious presence of family and friends in large numbers as well as prominent personalities such as; Rivers State Governor, Rotimi Chibuike Amaechi; Sen. Tokunbo Afikuyomi, Asari Dokubo, Bashorun Dele Momodu, Prince Damola Aderemi, Chief. Opaki Harry, Chief. Okriye Harry and Barr. Eze Njemanize 161

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THE WAKE KEEP

Soki Dakoru , Hon. Ibiso Dakoru & Iseye Dakoru

Pastor Godson Nwaogo, Prof. & Mrs. Augustus

Dabo Jenewari, Ineayi Akindipe & Kaine Briggs

Deacon (Engr.) Lawrence Young-Arney, Deacon Gina Young-Arney & Pastor (Mrs.) Ngoba Abel

Dame Silverline Nwachukwu (left)

Biography Kilali Joy Ababia Young-Arney was an icon of exemplary leadership, a feisty and fervent servant of God, who was fondly called 'Mummy.' She was a very beautiful thing that words cannot describe; mother to the motherless, caring and compassionate even to strangers. Her benevolence was a rare and natural gift. She knew just how and when to calm the brokenhearted with soothing words of encouraging. One could boldly aver that Mummy was Queen Elizabeth of our time. She was born on the 7th of April, 162

1936 to the family of late Mr. Lawrence Ababia Young-Arney and Madam Gulu Jerry Young Arney. History has it that Mummy was a progenitor of Chief Wananaku War House of the Royal King Abbi Group of Houses, who led the King Amachree War Canoe at King Amachree's old age. Mummy was the eldest child amongst the six children her parents bore. She lived up to her responsibility as the first child playing exemplary leadership role and settling family issues. She always lent a hand to the impecunious and with this, one could Rev. Bones Asamaowe & Deacon (Barr.) Obi .A. Nwanbanike

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Philip Mebradu, T.J. Isokariari, Edwin Nwankwo & Abel-Tariah Tiya Dakoru family

Rowland Ogundu, Richard Idiake & Engr. Ibrahim Kayode

Soki Dakoru

Dr. & Dr. (Mrs) Awoyesuku, Uchey Adigwu & Victor Awowade

Abigail

Hon. Ibiso Dakoru

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FUNERAL

Jewel Amachree, Mrs. Florence Amachree, Evelyn Goba Young Arney & Mrs. Biara Adieke

say that a trait of generosity runs through Mummy's filiation which she displayed through out her blissful existence on earth. She started her primary education in 1945 at St. Saviour's School, Buguma. Then, she moved to Ahai in Ogbakiri (Emohua LGA) with her grand mother to further her Elementary education. Then she, later returned to Buguma where she enrolled at St. Michael School before dropping her pen to take on the journey of motherhood. As a young, beautiful and charming maiden, Mummy was practically the cynosure of every man's eyes. Like a dream, she soon became a wife and a mother having been married to late Ransome Ezekiel Jenewari. Their union produced two beautiful childrenone male and the other female. 164

Her charming beauty was never lost, as she later found comfort and love in the tender arms of Hon. O. E. Dakoru, a one-time member of the old Rivers State House of Assembly. In 1962 she had tied the nuptial knots with this man who adored her beyond words. Their spousal relationship gave birth to four lovely children, two males and two females. Mummy was a die-hard lover of sports. Her favourites were; Sprinting and Net Ball. Similarly, learning was part of her everyday activity as she enrolled in a Tailoring School and furthered her quest for impactful life in demostic business and trading. She had a stint with Messrs A.G. Leventis Ltd, Port Harcourt as a PABX operator. She further shifted base to the Centre of Excellence, Lagos. Where she ran a

provision store in Modupe Johnson Crescent, Surulere, Lagos. As a proud indegene of Rivers State, Mummy foresaw the need to make an impact in her home town as she engaged in some minor contracts with Domino Stores Ltd and the Federal Ministry of works. Her poise for impactful life geared these business-oriented steps. Mummy, ended her trading career in the sales of wrappers with a stop shop in the New Town Market, Port Harcourt. Having been born into a christian home, Mummy gladly participated in church activities and left indelible marks in a prayer group that she was devoted to.Mummy is survived by children, grand children, great grand children and a long list of relatives.

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Gov. Rotimi Amaechi

Senator Tokunbo Afikuyomi (m) with family

Gov. Rotimi Amaechi & Senator Tokunbo Afikuyomi

Young Arney family members

Bashorun Dele Momodu, Prince Damola Aderemi, Israel Jaiye Opayemi & Eniola Bello

Awengo Dakoru , Abiye Briggs & Emmanuella Briggs

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Barr. Eze Njemanize & Chinyere Ndukuba Eteh

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Evans Krukrubo

Dappa -Pepple

Basorge Tariah (Jnr.)

Judith Aboluma & Lola Orelu

Barr. & Mrs. Kennedy Pueba

Ngozi Ajayi & Dr. Vinolia

Dr. Eddy Adiele & Dr. Kenneth Nweke

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Mr. Rotimi Odebiyi & Mr. Debo Odufeko

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GLORIOUS FAREWELL FOR

CHIEF OYELADUN OYEMADE

Story: Babatunde Martins Photo: Ken Ehimen

The Oyemade family & their relatives

hen a man lives an exemplary life and has through his many deeds, touched humanity in countless ways, his death would naturally attract sympathizers and loved ones far and wide, and for this realization, family, friends and associates will all come to pay their last respect. This played out at the befitting burial for the former Speaker of the Oyo State House of Assembly, Rt. Hon. Adesola Oyeladun Oyemade. The grand burial which spanned three days, attracted innumerable guests, especially those who had benefitted from Rt. Hon. Oyemadeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s immense kindness. Proceedings kicked off with a service of songs at his residence, Plot 36, Block 7, Bolajoko Estate, Akobo, Ibadan, Oyo State where a number of dignitaries, family members and well-wishers came to register their love and support. While delivering his homily, the Priest described the deceased as a straight-forward man who demanded little from those around him and who expected only the best from his children. He said tears were flowing uncontrollably because Chief Oyemade had not only touched lives, but also contributed immensely to community development efforts and would always be remembered for all he had done. On the second day, the deceased was conveyed to the Oyo State House of Assembly Complex, Ibadan for the lying-in-state ceremony and special session in his honour. The event gave colleagues, friends and well-wishers an opportunity to pay their last respects. The event ended with hymns and the remains of the deceased was taken to his hometown in Modakeke, Osun State where there was a wake cum lying in-state at Oyemade Street, Alagbagun, Modakeke. On the third day, all roads led to The Apostolic Church, Alagbagun, Ondo Road, Modakeke, Osun State. The church service that held here opened the dayâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s events and was wellattended. As early as 9am, the auditorium was full to the brim as many came to pay homage to a great son of the soil. The officiating minister and National President, LAWNA Territorial Chairman, The Apostolic Church, Nigeria, Pastor (Dr.) G. O. Olutola , who led other men of God, described the deceased as a rare friend, confidant, distinguished mentor and role model. He concluded that the deeds and legacies of the deceased could not be erased or forgotten, urging the children, to not only emulate, but give The late Rt. Hon. Adesola Oyemade

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SERVICE OF SONGS IN IBADAN, OYO STATE

The Oyemade family

Femi, Mrs. C.M. Oyemade with Stella

Mr. Bisi Oyemade with children: Seun & Semilore

Mr. & Mrs. Titus Adeoye

Dr. Ebi Awosika with Mr. & Mrs. Alagbe

Prince Adeoye Ajibade, Dolly Oyedipe with Femi Oyedipe

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Dr. Ayo Banji

Bukky Omololu, Made Alagbe,with Abigail Akerele

Pastor G.A. Adeniyi

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LYING IN STATE AT OYO STATE HOUSE OF ASSEMBLY

Mr. Akin Oyemade, Chief Bisi Olarewaju with Made Alagbe

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ARRIVING HIS HOMETOWN IN MODAKEKE, OSUN STATE

CHRISTIAN WAKE IN MODAKEKE

Mrs. C.M. Oyemade with Mrs. Feyisara Adeniyi

Officiating Ministers

Mrs. Toyin Laosebikan, Mrs. Tosin Oyekanmi, Mrs. Ebi Awosika with Mrs. Funke Olateju

Mrs. Alagbe, Prof. Dele Ajayi with Mrs. Feyisara Adeniyi

good account of themselves while they still could, because the clock was ticking and no one knew when it would be his or her turn to die. The Church service ended with a recessional hymn and the deceased was interred at The Apostolic Church, burial ground in Modakeke, Osun State. Lots of encomiums were showered on the former Speaker of the Oyo State House of Assembly, including the Publisher of OVATION International Magazine, Bashorun Dele Momodu. In his tribute, Bashorun Momodu said, ‘The Oyemade family was extremely prominent in the Modakeke and Ile-Ife environs. Agriculture was more serious business in those good old days and the 172

Oyemades were among the prosperous farmers around. Their fame extended to the realm of politics and Uncle Oyeladun was a shining star in the political firmament. He had distinguished himself as an erudite lawyer who won landmark cases. But it was in politics that he found his ultimate renown. Later, guests were hosted to a lively reception. ‘From being a Local Government Chairman in the early 70’s, Uncle Oyeladun rose to become Speaker of the Oyo State House of Assembly in the second Republic. He was an astute and dignified politician who shunned the politics of bitterness that characterized those bitter times. He had friends across the political, religious and ethnic divide.

‘He was one of those who opened my eyes to public service so early in life. I used to visit him at Ife Palace which housed the Local Government Secretariat where he was once Chairman. We bonded so well and he gave me unfettered access. I enjoyed his company to no end. He picked brains to know what was going on beyond the glimpse and grasp of men of power. I learnt so much through him and derived immense inspiration from his life.’ There was a superlative reception at Modakeke High School, Ondo Road, Modakeke where the Oyemades entertained guests and Ibadan based Gospel singer, Gbenga Adenuga entertained guests who danced till late into the night.

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FUNERAL SERVICE/BURIAL

The Oyemade family

Former Oyo State Governor, Chief Omololu Oluloyo with Hon. Wale Amusem

Thoko Obisanya, Bolu Okenla, Dele Adebola , Mrs. Ideoengbe with Tina Eboka

Barr. Goke Akinrotimi, Barr. Ademola Adeyemo (Chairman N.B.A,Ife Branch)

Mrs. Toyin Oluwole, Mrs. Ronke Omotosho with Mrs. Fadeke Fereira

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RECEPTION

Bashorun Dele Momodu with Mrs. C.M. Oyemade & her children

Mrs. Dupe Banji, Mrs. Akin, Mrs. Shade Adejuwon with friends

Feyi Maunice-Phido with Bashorun Dele Momodu

Mr. & Mrs. Alagbe with Bashorun Dele Momodu

Dele Oloke, Bola Oloke with Fafa Benena (Biodun Ojo)

Omotayo Hamed, Bisi Oyemade, Bukola & Collins

Genevieve Madubuko, Stella Oyemade, Chineze with Ify

Dr. Ebi Awosika, Tina Eboka, Boluwatife, Dele Adebola with Thoke Obisanya

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Ify Chineze, Ameka, Stella with Ify

Williams Oyeleye with Mrs. Feyisara Adeniyi

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OMOLARA OLAJUMOKE AND IRETEMIDE BALOGUN UNITE IN MARRAIGE Story: Deji Aroloye Photo: Abraham Falodun

The lively couple in traditional attire

Parents of the bride: Senetor & Mrs. Bode Olajumoke

Parents of the groom: Otunba & Mrs. Kunle Balogun

The groom arriving with friends

The bride choosing The Bible as a best gift

mong Christian and Muslim devotees, it is widely believed that marriage attracts joy and blessings to the life of the newly wed. The duo of Omolara Olamide Olajumoke and Iretemide Olayiwola Balogun elegantly entered this marital phase when they tied the nuptial knots in the presence of relatives, friends, and well-wishers. Both the bride and bridegroom’s families spared no effort in ensuring that the ceremony turned out to be colourful and historic. It was a wedding ceremony with many unique acts and attractions. For the young couple, they made fabulous statement with their appearance, style, and body language. Starting from the bride, she was a cynosure of all eyes, not just because her fashion sense was a perfect match, but her face was glowing with

smiles and joy. The groom did not fail to complement her bride with his stunning looks. One could say that a charming Princess, Omolara, is now a wife to a delectable man, Iretemide. The event began with an engagement held at the Tafawa Balewa Square, Onikan, Lagos. Many relatives and friends of the couple turned out en-masse for the ceremony. Iretemide’s father led his family to pay homage to the bride’s family. The reputable statesman and politician, Senator Bode Olajumoke, is Omolara’s father. And the engagement rites were performed according to Yoruba traditions and culture. Most of the guests were elated that they witnessed such a joyous event in the life of the two love birds. Dressed in cream traditional attire, the groom was

ushered to the venue accompanied by friends and relatives as they danced to solemn customary songs. Afterwards, it was the bride’s turn to dance to the venue. She was accompanied by her female friends as they all glittered in their traditional attires. There is no way many of the singles present would not be desirous of such a good thing in their own lives too. The renowned Sir Kay who has an unparallel mastery of cocoordinating engagement ceremonies was on ground. Sir Kay played his role well to the admiration of the guests. Days later, there was also a church service at the Church of Nativity, Parkview Estate, Ikoyi, Lagos where the wedding was solemnized by the priests of the church in the presence of the congregation. During the 175

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The groom & his friends

Dr. & Mrs. Bode Olajumoke with The Otunba Adekunle Ojora & wife, The Erelu Ojuolape Ojora

HRM Oba Rilwan Akiolu & Chief Braithwaite

Gov. Ibikunle Amosun & Dapo Abiodun

H.E Barr. James Bala-Nggilari, Dr. Bode Olajumoke, Mr. & Mrs. Segun Fagboyegun & Hon. Segun Adesanya

Bashorun Dele Momodu with Senator Bode Olajumoke

Bashorun Dele Momodu with Prince Samuel Adedoyin & Otunba Oyin Jolayemi

Bashorun Dele Momodu with Oba & Olori Michael Ajayi

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Sir Steve Omojafor, Mr.Supo Shonibare & Mr Biodun Shobanjo

Bashorun Dele Momodu & Mr. Taye Ariyo

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RECEPTION

Couple with Parents of bride

Couple with Parents of the groom

Dr. Bode Olajumoke with Dr & Mrs Harold Demuren

Chief Pius Akinyelure & Oba of Lagos, HRM Oba Rilwan Akiolu

Alhaji Kashim Ibrahim Imam, Chief Great Ogboru, Sen. Bode Olajumoke & friend

Sen. Bode Olajumoke with traditional rulers

L-r: Globacomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Director, Bode Opeseitan & guests

Prayers were also offered for the newly wed to help them navigate the marital journey. At the reception held at the Dorchester Event Centre, Victoria Island, Lagos, it was a frenzied atmosphere with a large turn out of prominent Nigerians in attendance. The couple, looking gorgeous and ebullient, was chauffeured to the venue in grand style. Just before they danced into the hall, they were sighted taking photographs and relishing every moment. Adrenalin was pumping rapidly Mr Oba Otudeko & Chief Wole Olanipekun

when the couple made their regal entry into the hall. The venue was electrified with music as the couple dished out dance steps, their friends cheered them, and the audience honoured them with a standing ovation. After a while, the whiff of excitement temporarily went down. Some dignitaries were introduced and the Chairman of the event, Alhaji Ibahim Kashim, was invited to the stage. Alhaji Kashim Imam charged the couple to love and be loyal to each other. Inside the luxury marquee, the 177

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From 2nd left: Alh. Kashim Imam, Engr. Funsho Kupoluku, Dr. Bode Olajumoke, Prince Adetokunbo Kayode & Chiefs

Gbenga Adeyinka Dâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;1st entertaining guests

Aremo Olusegun Osoba & Otunba Niyi Adebayo

Sen. Olorunimbe Mamora, Hon. Dr. Alaba Ojomo & Barr. Jimoh Ibrahim

Erelu Abiola Dosunmu (left)

Prince (Dr) Lanre Tejuosho, Segun Adesanyo with Hon. Segun Odubela

Chief Ebenezer Babatope, Barr. Jimoh Ibrahim & Hon. Alex Akinadeju

Olori Modupe Oladunni, Sen. Remi Tinubu (m)

ambience was colourful and classy. The event manager, Think and Succeed Production, lived up to its brand name with the excellent organisation that was displayed. The guests were thronging in at intervals, and they were served without delay. There was proper co-ordination from both families to give their son and daughter a befitting wedding ceremony. The important personalities that came to join the Olajumokes and Baloguns to celebrate the red-letter day included the Ogun State Executive Governor, Senator Ibikunle Amosun; Nigeriaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s former Interim Government 178

Mrs. Suzan Gumel (right) with friends

Chairman, Chief Ernest Shonekan; Minister of State for Defence, Senator Musliu Obanikoro; Oba of Lagos, His Royal Highness Rilwan Akiolu; and the former Governors of Ogun and Ekiti States, Aremu Segun Osoba ,and Otunba Niyi Adebayo. Other dignitaries were the former Group Managing Director of NNPC, Engineer Funsho Kupolokun; Senator Oluremi Tinubu; former Minister of Labour and Producitivity, Prince Adetokunbo Kayode ;Chief Adekunle Ojora and his wife, Erelu Ojuolape; Pastor Itua Ighodalo ; Chief Don Etiebet; Chief Ebenezer Babatope, among others.

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Chief Demola Seriki, Mayor Akinpelu, Amb. Musiliu Obanikoro, Bashorun Dele Momodu, Chief Annie Okonkwo & Chief Dr. Don Etiebet

Bashorun Dele Momodu & Bashorun J.K Randle

Alhaji Kashim Ibrahim Imaam with couple

Pastor Ituah Ighodalo & Mr. Oba Otudeko

Bride dancing with her father

Mrs Ibidun Ighodalo with Bashorun Dele Momodu

Wande Coal performing

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SARA DAOUDA LAWAL WEDS ARMIYAOU MAMA IN COTONOU, BENIN REPUBLIC By Zeb Okoli & Jeanne Frances-Maduakor

The lovely couple: Armiyaou Mama & Sara Daouda Lawal

ara, daughter of one of Benin’s finest gentlemen and top business mogul, Alhadji Daouda Lawal recently tied the knots with Armiyaou Mama in Cotonou. The lavish ceremony which spanned three memorable days in Cotonou and Calavi began with the customary lali ceremony at the bride’s mother’s home at the Zongo quarters in the hub of Cotonou. Culture held sway at the very colorful event thanks to the ladies in both families who performed the age-long ritual of pampering her with exotic tatoo and spoiling the bride with boxes full of goodies sent by the groom as was required by tradition. The shy but very handsome groom did not let his princess down in any way. The next day witnessed an even greater gathering of friends, associates, colleagues, well-wishers and family. The day began with the Civil wedding at the Golf Course of Marina Hotel which was officiated by the Mayor of Cotonou himself, Mr. Lehady Soglo. The outdoor ceremony over, the party moved to Mivvo Hall in the hotel for the reception where the guests were treated to all manner of African and continental dishes. The next day, the marriage was finally sealed with a wedding fathia at the Central Mosque in Zongo, Cotonou. Another grandiose reception followed, this time organized by the family of the groom at the Palais du Congress in Cotonou. When OVATION asked the beautiful bride how she felt; “I’m lost for words,” she beamed. “I’ve known this guy for about four years. This is a dream come true!” 180

The couple sharing a passionate kiss

The Couple

ara Daouda fille d’une des meilleures personnes du Bénin et richissime Al hadji Daouda Lawal, a récemment lié les nœuds avec Armiyaou Mama à Cotonou. La gigantesque cérémonie qui a duré trois mémorables jours à Cotonou et Calavi, a commencé par l’habituelle cérémonie countchi ou Lali » le vendredi 27 Décembre 2013 à la maison de la mère de la jeune mariée dans les quartiers de Zongo dans le centre de Cotonou. La culture a eu de l’emprise sur l’événement très coloré grâce aux dames des deux familles qui ont exécuté l’éternel rituel de remettre à la jeune mariée les différents présents envoyés par le marié et sa famille comme exigé par la tradition. Le marié timide mais très beau n’a abandonné sa princesse en aucune façon. Le jour suivant a été témoin d’un rassemblement plus grand d’amis, d’associés, de collègues et de la famille. La journée a commencé par le mariage civil au terrain de golf de l’Hôtel Marina, qui a été officié par le maire de Cotonou en personne, M. Lehady SOGLO. Après la cérémonie à l’extérieur, la réception s’est tenue dans la salle Mivvo de l’hôtel où les invités ont eu droit aux saveurs des plats africains et continentaux. Le jour suivant, le mariage a été finalement scellé par une cérémonie religieuse (le Fata) à la mosquée centrale de Zongo à Cotonou. Une autre réception grandiose a suivi, cette fois organisée par la famille du marié au Palais des Congrès de Cotonou. Quand "OVATION " a demandé à la belle jeune mariée comment elle s'est sentie; "je ne sais comment l’exprimer" a-t-elle répondu. "J'ai connu ce type pendant environ quatre ans. Il est un ami a mon grand frère, Sidiq. Ceci est vraiment un rêve qui se réalise!"

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Here comes the bride

Alhaji Lawal & daughter

Husband & wife

The Proud father, bride, Safia Yarou & Fati Daouda

With this ring I wed thee

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Alhaji Lawal blessing his daughter

Groom & mother of the day

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P. Adj. Mayor of Cotonou with Alh. Lawal

Alh. Mounirou (Hausa Comunity leader) & Sara

Couple exchanging vows as the Mayor of Cotonou looks on

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Bride signing register

Groom signing register

Ever caring Sara

Mesdame Masour & guests

Mr. & Mrs. Igue welcoming the Mayor

Musa, Alh. Lawal & Garbu

Zina, La Madonne & guest

Mr. Sidick Daouda, Akin, Alhj. Lawal & Bola Igue

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Lt Diallo, Alh Lawal & family

Mohammed, Fad, Islam, Alh Lawal, Abdallah & Samir

Saliou, Daouda,Taofik, Sidikou

Greetings from Abomey Princesses

Mme Affouse & Mme Azzizzath

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Bride's Family: R-l: Tamralt, Sofia, Faoziath, Rafia, Ramzia, Hamdallah Collombe et Faoziath-Bawa

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Mr. & Mrs. Salison

Minister

Gen. Benhanzin

Sidikou et Sofiano

The guru

Saoudath, Rabi et Zoulerath

Fati Daouda

Hajia Safia Yarou

Mme S. Igue

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Mr. & Mrs. Sidick Daouda

Couple with groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s relatives

Mr. & Mrs. Abdul-Rasack

Alh. Rasha

Pepita D & La Madone

Prince Aledji

Alhadji with his guests

Abdou-Malick & Moustapha

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Mousedick Malehossou

Alh. Lawal & Mr. & Mrs. Igue

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Bride & Groom Stepping out

Couple enjoying their first dance

Dancing with the Sages from Abomey

Mme Igue

King Moufa sings for the Alhajis

Safia Yarou, Alhaja Halima, Halimath Sadia, Zacharie, Alhaji Daouda Lawal & bride

Ronke Igue et Cynthia

Guests

Alh. Daouda Lawal

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Rissi, Azzizzath, Daouda Lawal, Safia, Affousse & Sofiano

Couple, Mayors & family

Couple with bridal train

Couple with thier guests from the States

Couple with aunts

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Safia, Fati, Daouda lawal, Sofiano, Sidik

Groom's Sisters

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Les Sages d'Abomey

Chiefs & Abomey Sages

Couple flanked by the Igues

Couple with Dan Baba, Alhj. Monirou, Malfous, Amab Taheb, Frederick

Daouda lawal, Bio Tchane, couple, Safia

Emmanuel Koyi & Alh. Lawal

Eric Anianbossou

Hon. Hassan

Bride & family with Mr. & Mrs. Kpomagni

Couple with MBC & groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s family

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Mr. & Mrs. Mansur

Islam

Presidente Mehinto

Safia Yarou, Mohamed Daouda

Mme Maroupha.

Mme Melvina

Alhaja Katounmi Daouda

Halimath Sadia

Hajia Sallah

Bibi Daouda

Amadim Abdou

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Hajia Fati

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Cobexim Staff

Nina, Amira, Zinatt, Chantal, Gizelle

Couple expressing their appreciation to guests

Mr. & Mme Toukourou

Lebanese partners

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THE WEDDING FATHIA

Groom & Family at the Mosque

Sara at the Mosque

Alhajis Saliou & Daouda

Fatia rite

Groom with his elder brother

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Alhaji with the couple

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Armiyaou & sara

Bride & Safia Yarou

The lovely couple

Fouleratou Daouda & bride

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Couple cutting the cake

Happy bride

Armiyaou greets his father in-law

Mme Safia Yarou, Couple, Alh Lawal & Alh Umorou, Minister

Daouda Lawal with Saliou Igue

Alhaji Bio Tchane greeting the sages

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Couple with Mariam, Sadiath, Zoulehath & Mme Toukourou

Hamzath Abdou, Rafiou, Amadam, Salisu Ahmed

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THE RECEPTION

Armiyaou & wife

Beautiful Sara

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Couple at the reception

Hajata & Mariam

Gizelle, Odile, Amirath, Zina, Chantal, Nina, Mauricelle

Faoziath Bawa, Faoziath Traore, Amdallah, Colombe

Faoziath Traora, Safia

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Hamdallah

Alhaji Lawal with Amina Toukourou

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Alhaji & friends (sports)

Halimath sadia, GM Hadiza

Mme Rissi Igue & Ovation's Jeanne-Frances

Mme Rissi Igue with sons: Bola & Akin

Prince Amir, Alhaji & grand frere

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Mr. & Mrs. Mama

Zinath, Amira et Giselle

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Malihosou, Umorou, the Couple, Prince Alh. Lawal, PrincenAhim & Umuorou Fulani

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GLAMOUR GALORE AS TOP COUTURIER ADEBAYO JONES CELEBRATES

Interview: Michael Effiong Photo: Dragan Mikki & Personal Album

Adebayo Jones

galaxy of family, friends and industry professionals turned up at The Regent Banqueting Suite London in celebration of the 50th Birthday and 30 years in fashion golden gala for multiple award-winning couturier, Adebayo Jones. It was an evening of pulsating colour, style, glitz, glamour and gold as guests were treated to an intimate celebration of gospel praise and worship, fashion, entertainment, sumptuous dinner and dancing. The theme of the event was gold, a true reflection of the designer's love for all things golden and glitzy which has earned him the title "All that glitters is Adebayo Jones" in the fashion press. "The king of couture" as he is fondly and affectionately referred to by the fashion media had preferred an intimate celebration however the occasion was indicative of his delightful love for

gold. Male guests were requested to turn up in black tie and female guests were to come glamorously and fabulously adorned in golden outfits or black with golden accessories. From the invitation cards and the venue decor it was evident that this was going to be a truly golden celebration -and that was how it turned out in the end.. The table decor by Blossom Occasions was first-rate. GUESTS The guests present at the event included Chief Dele Momodu, Mrs Isha Johansen President of Sierra Leone Football Association and owner of FC Johansen Football Club, Mrs Edwina Banda, singer Isaiah Houghton from the USA, pop star, Yassir, Pastor Oluwole Adekunle, Bishop Paul and Pastor Joyce Fadeyi, Pastor Tade And Mrs Bose Agbesanwa, British star actress, Ms Ellen Thomas,

Editor and Journalist, Ms sherry Ann Dixon, Director at Jason's fabrics Dom Ciampa, Dr Mrs Bola Olabisi of GWIIN Int, Top London Lawyer and activist, Ms Jenny Chika Okafor, Ms Ekanem Roberston of the Woman TV Show, TV host Mary Shittu, Pastor and Pastor Mrs Afolabi, Pastor Richard & Pastor Mrs Bimbo Odufisan, Pastor Hope and Pastor Arin Olugbola, Mr and Mrs Stanley Thomas. ARRIVALS The birthday gala and fashion celebration was organised and meticulously put together by Mrs Yinka James of Yannish Events London. Her attention to detail, her calm disposition in managing every aspect and fine detail of the occasion cannot be over emphasised. She was a celebrant's dream come true. The evening kicked off at 5pm with a cocktail 199

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and canapés reception spiced with light music. Parcels of butterfly prawns in filo pastry and other mouthwatering canapés were served, while Ravissant Cocktails provided a most excellent service as waiters moved around serving guests multiple choice cocktails as they arrived, mingled and were treated in true celebrity style by posing for personal portraits by none other than the celebrated OVATION photographer, Dragan Mikki. Adebayo Jones's brother, Dr. Yinka Oduwole played hosts to guests during the cocktail segment. Shortly after guests were seated, the celebrant arrived in true designer glam style in a three piece gold and black damask brocade suit and sparked off the evening with a dance to one of his favourite gospel songs "Jehovah you are the most high" as everyone stood up in praise and thanks to God for the life of the celebrant. PRAISE AND WORSHIP The segment was steered by two Masters of Ceremonies Mr Bidemi Alaran and Mr David Balogun 200

and the evening began with a session of praise and worship. Pastor Joyce Fadeyi dressed in a beautiful long sparkling number performed outstandingly, singing "Jesus you are centre of it all" and also "I will Arise" from her newly launched album. The live band was on hand to accompany the performing artistes. Next on stage was Shade Aboderin "Shady Blue", dressed in a gold gown she performed "Awa yin O" (we praise you) a special request by Adebayo Jones. Gospel artiste Sam also performed a request by celebrant, "He's Able". The amazing musician, Feyisara also performed a gospel piece which went beautifully with the mood of the ceremony. Praise and Worship leader/ Singer Song Writer Phemooh (Femi Olokodana) then performed two gospel numbers "Alpha and Omega" and "Lord you are good" delivered with uttermost precision and true worship. Next the man of the moment was invited on stage for his praise session. He performed three duets singing "How Great thou Art" with Akin Akinyemi, Great is

Thy faithfulness" with his brother, Dr Yinka, "Kilomutanmi wa" a praise Yoruba medley with Shady Blue. The session was rounded up with Adebayo Jones singing “Igwe” with Shady Blue and Mrs Grace Duru which had everyone dancing in true joyous celebration. DINNER Dinner was served immediately after the praise and worship. A seated silver service was beautifully orchestrated by Mrs Jackie Konu of the Broadway Restaurant in London. SPEECHES After dinner came the speeches which started off with Adebayo Jones's brother, Dr Yinka giving a most heart-warming speech about his brother. He talked about the designer's passion as a child and his immense love of fashion from then till the present day. Adebayo Jones's cousin, Pastor Tade Agbesanwa then gave a touching and also hilarious speech about the designer’s childhood days and his years in the University. Next came his nephews and niece Funto, Funke,

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It feels absolutely fabulous to be 50. I am my own person, evolved confidently into my own. I love what I do, and feel abundantly blessed living in my purpose and calling. I may not have all the things I ever dreamed yet, but for all things I have been fortunate to be blessed with, I am grateful to God Almighty. If I have to moan about items on my list I have not gotten yet, what about all the blessings? and Funso who read poems for their uncle about the beauty of gold. It was touching. School pal, Ian Sokunbi Walton was next. He shared childhood memories with anecdotes that had everyone in fits of laughter. Ms Jenny Okafor spoke amazingly on why women love Adebayo Jones for his creativity and dedication to making women look fabulously beautiful regardless of age, race or body shape. Dr Bola Olabisi of GWIIN also share of her experience about being a friend and client of the designer and also about him being a supporter to the women's organisation, GWIIN. Isha Johansen (President Sierra Leone Football Association) talked about Adebayo Jones and their journey of working together, fundraising for charity events, Women of Excellence Awards and producing fashion events in Sierra Leone. She referred to the celebrant as a family friend. Chief Dele Momodu gave a truly glorious speech about the celebrant in celebration of his life as a much admired and loved artisan. ENTERTAINMENT AND FASHION SHOW After Speeches came the entertainment. Pop Star Yassir performed live and was also joined by Isaiah Houghton who came in from the USA. They were electrifying and had the guests in good form and in a much celebratory mood. The first stage of the fashion show was with all the ladies at the event dressed in Adebayo Jones outfit. These female guests glamorously sashayed the runway and gave the models a run for their skills. Age and dress sizes were irrelevant. The ladies were absolutely fantastic on the runway as they cat walked, posed, and turned with elegant precision almost as if they lived the runway experience daily. The celebrity ladies model line up included Mrs Edwina Banda, Ms Jenny Okafor, Ms Ekanem Robertson, Dr Bola Olabisi, Bolaji Martins, Latoya, Parlydia also joined them. Music was by DJ Abass who lived up to his reputation as a force to be reckoned in the music and entertainment industry. The second runway show was a walk down memory lane. It featured outfits from the Adebayo Jones collections 1995 collections to date. The nostalgia of seeing the original pieces on the runway was memorable. Pop star Yassir returned to the stage and performed live with the models. He sang at request Adebayo Jones's favourite song of his "Oh Casanova" It was electrifying and captivating to behold. Top British supermodel, Rachel Ritfield was in top form as she graced the runway in style and elegance that has earned her the much-deserved reputation. She was joined by other superb and fabulous line up of distinguished models who have worked with Adebayo Jones in the past which included Tanya Beresford, Rosemary Chilese-Ellis, Vicky Kafifi, Nelo, Estelle Digridi and Lucy young. There was a surprise element to the model line up as the celebrant looked up on stage during the show and saw his niece, Funke Oduwole, and god daughter, Tolu Martins and also Tomi Von Bredow all on the runway. Make up was provided by Grace Ibukunoluwa of Facequizite Make Up and stylists for the show were Bimbo of Zabeth Issac, Lape Kannike Martins and Ayo Agbesanwa. CAKES The first cake was designed by Elizabeth Solaru of Elizabeth Cake Emporium. She hand crafted a befitting tiered master piece in pure edible gold to the

celebrant's request. It had the top section a hat for the King of Couture, a corseted mid section with golden lace floral motif taken from one of the celebrant's lace creations and the base. The cake had pure sugar-crafted flowers all in gold. It was a dreamers delight. On seeing the cake, Jones reportedly exclaimed "I dreamed of gold and got gold" The second cake was designed by Ann Menzo of Lady 'Menzo Cakes. Based on concept from Mrs Edwina Banda, Ann Menzo delivered a truly memorable composite of purely luxury and skillful opulence. It had beads, bling and red sugar craft buttons were used to embellish the cake. It was a blue and gold combination and had a mannequin form at the top adorned in bling. Mrs Edwina Banda officiated the cutting of the first cake with smiling as well as grace; style and elegance as she is known. Adebayo Jones was in his second outfit of the occasion, a green velvet tuxedo number designed by Adekeye of Individual Fashion for the next cake-cutting ceremony. The cutting of the Gold cake was presided over by the one and only Chief Dele Momodu, publisher of OVATION Magazine who had flown in specially for the day and arrived that evening. It was an awesomely memorable experience and the sparkles on the cake light up the room. Pictures were to follow and this time the celebrant was in a bronzed gold tuxedo dinner suit designed for him by Uba of Anuba Couture. TOAST For the toast, two of the celebrants long standing friends Ms Funke Oyebanjo and Mr Ade Omoloja came on stage and gave to toast to the celebrant. The toast was done with specially created Adebayo Jones Luxury Champagne designed for the occasion in Adebayo Jones gold and black bottles. After the toast came the dancing with everyone coming on stage to join Adebayo Jones in the continuation of his celebration of praise, thanking God for the mercies that has kept him alive and taken him to the heights of his profession.

ONE ON ONE WITH

ADEBAYO JONES His 50th birthday was typical of the man himself, classy, innovative and it was an evening where guests found out the true meaning of joue de vive. Days after, we had this engaging conversation with the master designer and craftsman, Adebayo Jones. What was it like Growing up

I have wonderful memories of growing up. A house filled with siblings and I always loved Church and God and would constantly be at Choir practice twice a week. I was the kinda show biz kid (laughs out loud) ..I knew everyone in the neighbourhood and

had a lot of friends. I think I probably had the most birthday parties in the house every year even if nobody else had a big birthday, Adebayo would always find a reason to celebrate (laughs heartily). My siblings were great. We were all very close and artistically inclined. I loved Christmas and Easter as it was always a great opportunity for a new wardrobe. If I had to live my life all over again I would still choose my siblings. I recall saving up my pocket money, buying fabrics and attempting designing my own stuff then. I always wanted to be different and just be my own person. I was also like a little chef at home. I just loved to invent dishes and feed people. When I still do get the chance now I would like to believe I still got my skills. I feel really and truly blessed for the start, it gave me the platform to be independent, strong, focused, hardworking and to believe that dreams are possible. Tell us a bit about your parents

My mother late Otunba Christiana was an amazing woman. She supported us in whatever we wanted to do. Education was key but then passion was also not to be neglected. I have wonderful memories of my mother; the sad bit is she went home to rest too early. She was the one who inspired the passion for fashion. When I drew designs and did not know how to go about it she would cut the paper patterns for me and once she did, I understood it right away and would confidently explain what I was trying to achieve to the tailors. My mother was a Mother Theresa of her kind. She would just give everything away, she just gave and gave to everyone who came to her needy, I couldn't really understand it then, but as I got older and somehow now I do the same thing, I realised later in life she knew what she was doing. She was fun and wild, and always made us laugh so much. We shared many wonderful times together. She was like a magnet, everyone gravitated towards her. It was a blessing to have had a Mother like her. 201

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My late father Otunba Dr Adebayo was a Chartered Account and businessman. His ethics with work has helped myself and my siblings immensely. You always had to be focused and serious. He was always amazed how come I was not amazingly brilliant at Maths then (laughs). He was incredibly brilliant at business and had a winning hand at all ventures he invested in. I guess being an Accountant helped a great deal. The older I get, people say the more I look like him. So guess I have an idea what I would be looking like in my eighties. He was a very jovial man, he could make you laugh endlessly by telling jokes and funny stories. I suppose maybe I also got the same gift from him. Hang around me long enough and you'll get what I mean. My biggest joy was seeing them both at the front row at a fashion show I featured in Lagos before they both passed on. They were really pleased and somehow that day I felt proud that I had not let them down after all. Really would have wished them to have seen more shows, but then I am still forever grateful, they got to see and appreciate part of my journey.

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Fashion has been a life long passion. From an early age I would draw constantly. Everyone in the family could draw excellently. I see the same gift in the children now too, with the nieces and nephews all being excellent artists. It's somewhere in the DNA I suppose. I would watch my mother make garments and I always found it intriguing. I would make shirts and tops from newspapers and make my younger siblings wear them in a mock fashion show organised by me. Through secondary school passion for fashion was alive and at University of Ife I attended an event in 1981 and saw the fashion show and from then I knew this is what I was called to do. I had discovered purpose early on and the path to possibilities was birthed from then. Did your parents have a strong influence on the person you have become today

Absolutely. My mother studied fashion and I saw her work as a child. I think the interest kicked in from there and she did help me a great deal when I started out briefly in Nigeria before going to fashion College

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in England. My father surely for the discipline and work ethics. He was an Accountant and also was a successful businessman whom I would describe as having a Midas touch. Everything he touched worked. We did spend valuable times together. Growing up one learnt that to achieve what you want from life, you have to step out make life give you what you deserve. It's not going to fall in your hands just because you think you deserve it. Most importantly, I learnt that nothing is impossible if it's in line with your purpose. You just have to persevere enough for it to fall rightly in place. At what point did the Adebayo Jones brand start

My first show in England was on a boat in 1988. It's been that long really. It was indeed a humble start. We kept at it from then, taking part in various shows and events trying to get the name out. Then in 1996 we had our first major show at the German Embassy in London to an audience of diplomats, show biz celebrities, and people from the business world. It was awesomely outstanding. The magazine coverage increased from then on and through introductions got

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to meet more of the people who were able to support us. I also was a member of the Mayfair Restaurant Club and through the Founder we were introduced to Wempe Jewellers of Bond Street and they supplied all the diamonds worn by the models during the show at the German Embassy. I supported various charities hosting fund raising events and fashion shows. In 2001 we had the Imperial Breast Cancer Fund Ball at the Hilton in Park-Lane amongst many other events. We donated garments, put on shows we never charged for, invited all our celebrity contacts to come out in full support which they did. Overtime, the brand became known not only for making beautiful garments, but also for giving back to society relentlessly which we still do till today. I would confidently say that most of our big shows have been in positions of supporting charity fundraising event. Soon we will be taking part in the splendours of the commonwealth event, a global fashion and entertainment charity event with the aim of raising funds for the education of young girls in the Commonwealth nations. The awards and recognitions poured in and have been constant through the years. We are on our fifth award this year alone, and two more lined up afterwards. Who knows what the rest of the year will

bring. Over the years, Adebayo Jones has grown to become a top brand both here in Nigeria and abroad. How did you manage to achieve such success

Being resilient and consistently focused on one's goals have been key. It has taken a few good years to get here. During the birthday celebrations we had a showcase of some of the original pieces from 1995 to the present. I have kept them all safe through the years. As I knew that in time when occasions like this will arise, it was always a good idea to show how far one has come. I remember thinking during the show.. Well that's my life's "work on show" Being original, through to oneâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s self, defining a distinctive brand identity in that people are able to at once recognise an Adebayo Jones creation when they see one has helped immensely. We love opulence, sumptuous fabrics, fine detailing and spare no expense to realise our vision on a particular garment. If it requires 40 metres of fabric to make the dress, so be it. If it requires seven weeks to make an item then that's what it will take. Overtime we became recognised for producing beautiful pieces that could be described as works of art, without losing the essence of fashion. The pieces are wearable, practical, functional, versatile and classy. Detailing in our pieces has been a key defining factor

in setting us aside and making the brand the well-known name that it is now. What makes the Adebayo Jones label unique

I have always believed that to stand out you must be unique. There must be something extra ordinarily special about the person and product. I believe in excellence and quality. Rich quality sumptuous and luxurious fabrics make a statement. Fine tailoring, beautifully and skilfully classically designed garments convey the dazzling brilliance of a trained artisan. Our pieces are timeless, designed to withstand the physical wear and seasonal changes in fashion. We love what we do, and believe we can make every woman beautiful regardless of age and size. Our goal is to instil confidence in the client. As we all know, confidence radiates when you feel good and know that you look good. You now have a Luxury line tell us about it. What is the idea behind this

This was a natural progression. Once I was a fashion designer mainly but now there has been a diversion into the lifestyle sector. Hence the new title "lifestyle entrepreneur" We have fashion accessories, and even our own line of wines and drinks now. It was expedient that one gives to the public other products other than items of couture which we were known initially. It allows those who want to share in our vision 215

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Lady Edwina Banda

Jenny Chika Okafor

LaToya

Dr. Bola Olabisi

Bolaji Martins

Parlydia

an opportunity to own something of a luxurious item from us. One evolves through time and the ability to create an avenue to diversify still under the umbrella of what one is known for is quite an asset. The only natural course to follow was a diffusion of sorts of various lifestyle statement pieces reflecting the luxurious opulence of what the brand has always been known for. I have known you to be a singer too, tell us about that side of you

I have always loved music like I said earlier. I spent my teen years, secondary school in the Choir. In university I was in a musical group for three years. At the Baptist Church in London I requested from Pastor Tim to start the choir and he said go ahead. It's always been a space where I find fulfilment and joy. Over the years I have performed solo on many occasions at weddings, special events, awards etc. At the first-ever Women 4 Africa event which I co-hosted, I performed an impromtu duet with Stella Damasus who is an incredibly gifted singer. She was awesome and it was truly a memorable time together. Just last weekend I performed at my Friend ,Paula's 50th Birthday bash after staging a private fashion show in her honour. During my Birthday celebrations I sang some of my favourite gospel songs and invited some of my 218

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favourite artists to sing with me. One of the songs was with my younger brother, Dr Yinka who is also a pastor. I write songs too and now have a good selection to start working on a single first and an album shortly. It's all gospel within the genre of music I feel most comfortable, a mixture of Gospel, jazz and some soul. Just my own edge and comfort zone. Why was it necessary to have such a classy ceremonya= at 50

I really and truly wanted to celebrate life. It's a special place to be. The big idea was a thanksgiving to God for the grace that has sustained me through the years. It had to be a special service of songs singing praises which was my way of saying thank you my Great and loving Father. It was to be a reflection of my love for gold, tastefully and sumptuously interpreted in every detail of the event. It had to be private and intimate with family and friends and also industry professionals. Every aspect of the event had to be a reflection of me, my love for things opulent and dazzling. It would not be complete without showcasing some of my pieces. So we had some of my original pieces from 1995 to the present on the runway. It was indeed humbling, as I sat down and watched the show produced by my team and thought, wow.. "This is what I have spent my life doing and it's absolutely worth it" What does it feel like to be 50

life. I have over the years learnt to keep the faith, to understand it's somehow okay if I don't have everything in my bucket list just yet, to be assured that everything happens in due season, and seasons can't not be rushed. I have learnt to be even more trusting in God's faithfulness and unending love, to be more confident, patient and assured of who God is, and have unshakable faith that every blessing with my name on it is on the way and as long as I have life..... "It's never too late" Will you say, you have achieved some of your boyhood dreams

Absolutely. As a young man I had all these ideas flooding within me. When I was 10 years old I pestered my mum till she bought me a Tee shirt I had seen in a store. On the front of it were the words "Am really famousâ&#x20AC;? Little did I know I was somehow predicting my path to life. The course of fame came with finding purpose overtime. Fashion is my calling and making people look beautiful is really satisfying for the soul. My love for music is taking shape. I write and I sing. I was in the choir since I was about ten and right through University I was in a musical group. It has been an ongoing love affair with the musical side of me ever since. Mentoring the younger designers has been key. I train and inspire those starting out. If all you have known, learnt, achieved dies with you when you go. Then you have been a generational failure. Kevin Spacey said if you have been fortunate enough to be blessed, send the elevator back down. I look at the shelf and there are all the awards from everywhere displayed. This year I picked up my fifth award on September 27th. That's just an awesome place to be for a young boy who dreamed of being a designer. What did you ask from God on the day you turned 50

God's peace firstly. It embodies all things about life. When you experience peace it gives your life a balance coupled with an angle of tranquillity. You can have all things worth having and without peace it's somehow meaningless. I asked God for long life, good health, and prayed that I can live in the true purpose of why I was created. Abundant blessings are not excluded from the list and that by the good grace of God I would in turn be a full house when next I celebrate. What is that one experience you will never forget since you started your business

Losing my collection after showcasing at the then Fashion Cafe in London in 1996. It was an unbelievable experience as I could not believe all that hard work on the collection was gone. It just vanished from the rails at pick up. I had another show the next day, so I went back to the studio, sorted

out some older samples and went for the show. That experience thought me about strength and resilience, and that no matter how bad it looks there is always out of a bad situation. So far what will you consider your greatest achievement

There have been so many wonderful moments and memories to cherish. Where would I start really? Every moment or event that has elevated and celebrated my life's work is indeed a great Achievement. I have travelled extensively, showcased my collections in places I never thought, received numerous awards and still counting, and have an opportunity to mentor those who dreamed just like me some years ago. Amongst many other wonderful moments I have received the BEFFTA Male lifetime achievement Award, the N4LIFE Award and recently was one of the One hundred Nigerians in the UK honoured during the Nigerian Centenary Awards 2014 which celebrated the achievements of 100 outstanding Nigerians from 1914 to 2014. What has been your most expensive fashion indulgence

My diamond cuff links. (laughs) If you can change anything about yourself what will it be

It would be to accept that it's okay to be hardworking but also perfectly fine to take time out to rest. I have to tendency to keep going and mostly feel a sense of guilt when I do take a rest which one should do normally. Tell us about your family

My siblings and I live all over the globe but are still incredibly all very close. My Mother always said look after one another and that's exactly what we do. God is always at the centre of it all and this has help us immensely through trying times. Almost all my siblings work within the education sector, lecturing, teaching and also owing private schools. My nieces and nephews are pretty awesomely fabulous and I would like to believe I am the coolest uncle ever (laughs) What is the next direction for you and the brand

The much overdue presence in Nigeria in now on. We will be available for consultations and fashion and styling related requirements from now. Our accessories and diffusion pieces will also be readily available locally shortly. Other products within our lifestyle sector will also promoted shortly and we Will in due course update our public on more exciting projects that we have Lined up which unfortunately I am unable to dis further at the stage. On the international front we press on in creating more global awareness of our brand and find extensive marketing opportunities for our products.

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QUEEN ESTHER EREDIAUWA IN BENIN Story: Deji Aroloye Photo: Ken Ehimien

hen the news of the death of the Eson N’Erie of Benin Kingdom, Her Majesty Queen Esther Omoyemwense Erediauwa, broke it reverberated across many lands, even beyond the shores of Nigeria. It was just shocking for many of her admirers to reconcile the fact that Queen Erediauwa had answered the clarion call. Many dignitaries found time to pay condolence visits to her husband and Oba of Benin, His Royal Majesty, Omo N’Oba N’Edo Uku Akpolokpolo, Oba Erediauwa and the children at the Oba’s palace in Benin City. Hundreds of condolence letters filled the palace mail bag as people commiserated with the royal household. Her demise was a huge loss to the Benin

Kingdom and the entire country. It was the end of an era. Indeed, Queen Erediuwa’s stay in the Oba’s palace was worthy of note as she gave total commitment to her roles and immensely contributed to the progress of the Benin Kingdom. Certainly, when the historians' books on Oba Erediauwa's reign are written, there will be numerous pages that capture the dynamism, wit and support that sprung from her heart as the first wife of the Oba. She was the people’s queen and her impact was felt by the rich and the poor. Therefore, it was not inexplicable that all and sundry showered encomiums on her and how her death has left a big vacuum. The President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, His Excellency

Goodluck Jonathan said, “She will be sorely missed for the positive leadership and inspirational role she played in the lives of all those who were fortunate to have had their paths cross hers in the course of her remarkable life. The worthy essence of her richly fulfilled life should be an enduring source of solace to all whom our beloved Eson N’Erie has left behind.’’ His wife and Nigeria’s First Lady, Dame (Dr.) Patience Jonathan corroborated the President’s statement, stressing that, "Her star shone brightly and brilliantly as she performed her royal duties to the people of the kingdom with grace and compassion. She was indeed a mother in Israel and a great gift to us all. Her memory will therefore remain cherished and evergreen." 223

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Son of the deceased, Mr. Henry Iyasere, his wife, Mrs. Bridget Iyasere, sister, Alhaja Bintu Tinubu with daughter, Princess Ewere Erediauwa

Edo State Governor, Comrade Adams Oshiomole with Deputy Governor of Edo State, Dr. Pius Odudu

The Iyase of Benin, Chief Egbe with Prince Omoregbe Erediauwa

Hon. Minister of Works, Mr. Mike Onolememen & Hon. Minister of Culture, Mr. Edem Duke with Mr. Segun Awolowo

Speaker of Edo State House of Assembly, Hon. Uyi Igbe & Deputy Governor of Edo State, Dr. Pius Odudu with Chief Idah Osaro

Prince Henry Iyasere with Tony Anenih Jnr.

KSA on the band stand

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Nephew of the deceased, Mr. Wale Tinubu with Capt. Hosa Okunbo

Anehita Erediauwa, Prince Omoregbe Erediauwa with Olu Akpata

Mr. & Mrs. Henry Iyasere with their children, Princess Osamudiame & Prince Osayande

Princess Esosa Erediauwa, Enogie with Princess Iguede Erediauwa

Lady Cherry Igbinedion, Omosede Igbinedion with Mike Igbinedion

Mofe Boyo with Fred Okunma

Hon. Fatimat Raji Rasaki, Dame (Dr.) Tumi Akogun with Mrs. Rita Aimiuwu Oguntoyinbo

Mrs. Ganiat Audu, Princess Lamiah Momoh, Princess Otse Omorogbe with Silifat Adekoya

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Mrs. Precious Adeoye, Princess Ewere Erediauwa, Mrs. Bridget Henry Iyasere with Mrs. Egbe Otubo

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Chief Sunny Asemota

Chief (Mrs.) Joko Oni

Olu Akpata, Felix Idonijie, Princess Ewere Erediauwa with Enotie Ogbebor

Henry, Eniye with son, Odigie

The Governor of Edo State, His Excellency Adams Oshiomole also remarked, “I have fond memories of the Oloi as a great illustrious Queen mother to the royal family and the entire Benin Kingdom, but also to Edo State and the nation at large. There is no doubt that the vacuum she left behind will be difficult to fill now or in the nearest future, considering her towering attributes." The letter written to Oba Erediauwa by the Governor of Lagos State, His Excellency Babatunde Raji Fashola, said, “She was not only an admirable symbol of royalty and Ambassador of the rich heritage of the Bini Kingdom, she was also widely regarded for her devotion, loyalty and sense of duty as your longest standing companion." In addition, the Mother of Comrade Governor, Hajia Aishetu Oshiomole, described Queen Esther as, “Someone who was not materialistic, but was much content with spirituality laced with a positive interest of the advancement of our race. She was a friend to so

Chris, Henry with Roland

many people and touched many lives in so many different ways. She was always on the same political page with forces of development and economic upliftment of the downtrodden." Traditionally, a reception was organized after the burial of the late Queen and it was well attended by dignitaries from far and wide. The A-list attendance had the Executive Governor of Edo State, Comrade Adams Oshiomole, Minister of Works, Mike Onolomenmen, his Culture and Tourism counterpart, Chief Edem Duke, former Inspector General of Police , Alhaji Musiliu Smith and Lady Cherry Igbinedion. Others were Senator Daisy Danjuma, Lady Cherry Igbinedion, former Chief Judge of Edo State, Justice Constance Momoh, Alhaja Bintu Tinubu, Segun Awolowo, Eyimofe Boye and many more. These dignitaries were joined by a legion of Benin indigenes who came to honour their mother and queen, whom most said they would forever cherish.

The late Queen was born in 1938 to the family of Late Chief Donald Oyemwinmina Osunbor and late Madam Mary Osunbor. She entered Primary school in 1944 at Obazogbe Nugu in Orhionwon Local Government Council and later proceeded to UNA School, Benin in 1949 to continue her standard school education. This she later completed at Convent School, Benin City. For her higher education, she attended CMS School, Benin before she gained admission to the Teachers’ Training College in Abudu , where she was an excellent student. She graduated at a relatively young age and had some training before she was offered an employment at Benin Divisional Council 1, Benin City, as a Teacher in 1961.Before she left the teaching profession in 1967, her stints in many primary schools were charaterised with robust sense of devotion, resourcefulness and focus as she was moved from one school to another at 227

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Hon. Rasaq Belo-Osagie

Osa, Omua, Kofo, Olu with Banky

Bridget, Nkechi with Anehita

Nnena, Bridget, Ehi, Omua with Stephanie

Mr. & Mrs. Henry Iyasere with Hon. Minister of Works, Mike Onolememen

Mr. Henry Iyasere, Alhaja Bintu Tinubu, Wale Tinubu with Mrs. Akagbosu

Fmr. Inspector Gen. of Police, Alh. Musiliu Smith with Justice (Mrs.) Constance Momoh

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Mr. & Mrs. Henry Iyasere with Pastor Osagie Ize-Iyamu

Mrs. Omosede Edjere, Mrs. Bridget Henry Iyasere with Mrs. Helen Okocha

Mrs. Helen Ogbebor with Mr. & Mrs. Osase Ogbomo

Mr. & Mrs. O. Omoruyi

Esosa Erediauwa, Mrs. Bridget Henry Iyasere, Ewere Erediauwa with Iguede Erediauwa

Anire, Bridget, Abeni, Vivien, Helen with Biodun

different times. In 1968, the deceased relocated to Lagos to stay with her paternal uncle, Late Mr. M.A Tokunbo-a good friend to the heir apparent to the Benin Kingdom, Prince Solomon Igbinoghodua Akenzua .Then the duo were at the peak of their careers in the civil service as Federal permanent secretaries. It was a fait accompli when she got married to Prince Akenzua. She had to move from her uncle's apartment to join her husband at No. 2, Okotie Eboh Street, Ikoyi, Lagos. She worked with the Department of Statistics, Lagos and later moved to Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN), Lagos.

Nosa Ebowonyi, Olu Akpata, Henry Iyasere with Kunle Tinubu

Just as the ascension to the Benin throne is through primogeniture, where the first son takes over from his late father. Prince Akenzua had to return home with his family in I973 when his father joined his ancestors. .He was christened the Omo N'Oba N'Edo Uku Akpolopolo, Oba Erediuawa. Her entrepreneurial gift came to the fore when she found out she could engage in beverages distribution in the area. She registered a company, “E.O Akenzua and Sons now named, “Omoye and Sons Limited." As the business expanded, she got distributorship from the Okpella Cement , Okomu Oil and Eleganza Plastic,

Lagos. All these she combined with being the Oba’s wife and a mother. With a strong inclination to serve humanity, she established the Oloi Esther Erediauwa Foundation (OEEF) .The foundation has the mandate to uplift the spirit and essence of the Girl Child through advocacy, training and direct grants. OEEF has involved itself in various charitable activities which include free medical care and full scholarship to indigent students. Some of the students that were awarded scholarships had graduated with degrees. 229

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FAMILY AND FRIENDS HONOUR FLORENCE ADEDIRAN IN IBADAN, OYO STATE Story: Tersoo Achineku Photo: Segun Lawal

The Adediran family

The grandchildren- Atinuke Ajiboye-Richard, Omolabake Ajiboye-Richard & Abimbola Ajiboye-Richard

he sunâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s silhouette, hidden behind the morning sky, coupled with the gloomy look of the clouds, told the story of the activities evolving on land. The birds of the air, whose chirps are a regular in the mornings, were missing, evidently paying a silent tribute. In totality, Mother Nature was not exactly pleased, as the day in question was the last time a true gem would be seen on planet earth. We are talking about Chief (Mrs.) Florence Modupe Adediran, who after 70 years of selfless existence, was laid to rest by her family members, associates and well-wishers. In a bid to send off this true gem in an unforgettable manner, the families of the deceased planned a great interment ceremony. The event which held at the Samuel Fadeji Memorial Baptist

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The grandchildren- Sade Adediran, Pamilerin Adediran & Lawrence Adediran

Church in Ibadan-the capital of Oyo State, in Nigeria, drew a host of family members, friends and beneficiaries of the late Wonder-woman- who came to pay homage. The hearse, a Cadillac whose posh chassis was only suited for people of great value such as the deceased, entered the premises with class and announced the beginning of activities for the day. Accompanying the vehicle were pallbearers in matching traditional apparels. As it was a tradition in the Church that the congregation must receive the remains of the deceased outside the Church, the entire procession converged at the Church entrance. Receiving the body was Pastor Nathaniel Adelakun, who took the centre stage as he said a quick prayer. The casket, crafted by Ultimate

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Bayo Babalola & Feyi Babalola

Anjorin Ayodeji & Tayo Onasanmi

Ayo & Damola

Erica, Bimbo & Titi

Chief Emmanuel Olaniyi & Chief Adeyemi Fajoye

Consolidations, was moved into the Church with singing and dancing, as the mourners engaged in a thanksgiving. With the thanksgiving over and everyone settled, the burial ceremony progressed with an opening prayer by Pastor Wole Oluwole of the Full House Believers' Assembly, Ibadan. A hymn, â&#x20AC;&#x153;It is Well with My Soulâ&#x20AC;?, was taken to cheer up the bereaved and with heavy hearts did they sing. A praise and worship session followed quickly, and soon everyone was suddenly dancing, their sorrow temporarily eclipsed as they swayed in thanksgiving for a life well spent. Mrs. Bimpe Babatunde, daughter of the deceased, took to the pulpit to read her mother's biography. It was really inspiring. According to her, Chief (Mrs.)

Florence Modupe Adediran, born into the Royal family of Oba Atayero in the year 1943, had her early schooling at Offa Girls School and Ogudu Primary Schools. She furthered her education in Babalola Memorial Girls School, Ilesa and completed her secondary education in 1965. As an artisan, the deceased embarked on her own commercial business venture under the name of Dobat Enterprises Ltd where she produced dyed textile materials, Kampala, in 1968 and later diversified into the sale of textiles and lace materials. She joined the Inner Wheel Club of Agodi in 1960 and became their President in 1993. She later joined the Ibadan branch of the club and also became the 18th Chairman of District 913 in 2004. During her tenure, she donated

wheelchairs to physically challenged persons and arranged the administration of over 150 pregnant women in Ibadan North East and Ona-Ara Local Government Areas, with anti-tetanus injections. Also, she sponsored several people through higher institutions. Chief (Mrs) Adediran was also a devoted Christian, born and bred in the Christ Apostolic Church before her marriage. She became a member of the Agodi Baptist, Ibadan in 1967. In search of further spiritual knowledge, she registered and completed a three year Certificate Bible Course the at the Redeemed Christian Church of God and was ordained by the General Overseer, Pastor Enoch Adeboye in 2011. As a social figure, the deceased was involved with 231

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Erica, Emuobo & Joy

Gbenga Balogun, Stephen Ekpo & Adeoluwa Akanji

Ashekun Adewunmi, Fadeke Mogekwu & Debola Aderibigbe

Mrs. Bola Ijalaye, Mr. Niyi Ijalaye, Hon. Justice Adebusayo & Barr. Akin Oladeji

Mrs. Bola Ijalaye & Princess Joke Adebusoye

the Ogbomosho Wives' Association, where she served as the Vice President at the group's inception. She was conferred with the Asipa Iyalode Chieftaincy title in 1985 and was married to Chief Adegoke Adediran till her death.’ With the biography read, tributes poured in from various persons, including her husband, Chief Adegoke Adediran, her other children, Olutayo and Babatunde Adediran as well as Funmi Ajiboye. The Ogbomosho Wives' Association also converged as one to give a final salute to the late woman who was a staunch member of the association. A sermon was delivered by Reverend Nathaniel Adelakun. In his message, Rev. Adelakun sympathized with the families of the deceased and charged them to be of good cheer, as

Chief (Mrs.) Adediran was now at peace. He further explained that the event was a celebration of life, since it was what one achieved in life that really mattered. We should be grateful that the deceased lived a fulfilled life and touched so many in her lifetime. After all, of what benefit is it to come to this world only to exist, rather than live? The life of such an individual would have been a let-down. So, let us cheer up and celebrate the deceased for her glorious times on Earth.’’ He also prayed that the Lord would fill the hole left by the deceased. With the closing prayers, everyone filed out of the Church to The All Saints Cemetery, their main destination. A prayer was taken by Mr. Gbenga Olatoye and with the burial rites observed; the coffin was lowered into 233

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Omotosho Kayode, Olukayode Olawale & Sulaiman Ibrahim

Princess Dolapo & Barr. Fola

Peju, Folawe, Erica & Mrs. Akindele

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Tope Olowokere, Seyi Ayoade, Tunji Awonusi & Adenola

Dipo Olasope & Tunji Awonusi

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Mrs. Mobola Olotu & Mrs. Folake Adeoye

Remi Olatilade, Bimbo Ajiboye & Lekan Adelekan

Mrs. Ola Akinmoladun

Prince Damola Aderemi discussing with Bimbo Ajiboye & other family members

Sir Shina Peters performing

its grave, amid tears. A final prayer was said and the procession dispersed. The reception followed immediately. Meddings Events Decor was laden with the job of switching the moods of the guests and they did so excellently. The hall was beautified with colourful decorations and the guests were soon revelling in the wonderful atmosphere. Delicacies of all sorts were dished out by Bispot Food. Honouring the event were dignitaries such

as Prince Damola Aderemi, Pastor Amos Omoboriowo and Chairman, First Bank of Nigeria Plc., Prince Ajibola Afonja. At burial receptions, it is of utmost importance that the guests are switched from their mourning mood to a celebrative one and this is sometimes hard to pull off. The appearance of Afro Juju creator, Sir. Shina Peters solved this problem effectively. He turned the mourners into ‘groovers’ within minutes on stage and soon, everybody was caught up with his wonderful music.

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Rivers State Governor, Rotimi Amaechi, Mrs. Doris Akpovwa, Mr. Dan Akpovwa & Mr. Alex Otti (far right)

Mr. & Mrs. Dan Akpovwa

he flaunted her beauty lavishly. You could not fault her for doing so, after all, it was her special day! Approaching her half-century and looking like a thirty-something sure deserves a little joy. Not surprisingly, delectable Mrs. Doris Tamunotonye Akpovwa, wife of the Publisher of The Abuja Inquirer, Mr. Dan Akpovwa, did rejoire more than a little, when she celebrated her 45th birthday with friends and family members at Teeky Arena, Kusenla Street, Ikate, Lekki, Lagos. The evening was pregnant with sensational thrills and the cozy venue paved way for an enjoyable experience. The celebration officially commenced with a short prayer session, led by Pastor Del, after which, Thorpeedoh Band, took the celebration to a soulful realm of praise and worship. This time, friends and associates of the celebrant and her husband sang joyfully to God who has undoubtedly been gracious to the Akpovwa’s.

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With a warm and rich smile spread across her face, the gorgeous Doris was called upon to give her speech. Doris, who has a strong passion for all things kids and also publishes a kiddies’ magazine, titled Teekyrazzi , used the opportunity of her birthday to discuss a theme very dear to her heart-The Teeky Foundation. Proceeding with matchless clarity and admirable confidence, she offered insight into why she had decided to conjure the intimate, yet fashionable, gathering of family and friends: "I decided to mark my birthday today, so I could discuss with you, my passion and to solicit financial support and advice from my friends and family members. Teeky Foundation is my passion." The celebrant whose periodical children’s magazine captures and celebrates significant moments in the lives of children across different Primary and Secondary schools within the country, concluded her speech in a very poignant way. "We all need to stretch

our hands to so many people in the society, especially children, because there are so many children out there whose lives will be great if we do so. Let us think more about others than ourselves.’’ Her words aptly expressed her charming penchant for nurturing kids in the right path and so, it was not surprising that a woman of her persona would pioneer such an altruistic gesture aimed at instilling moral values in the younger generation. Expectedly, rounds of accolades tumbled in at the end of her speech. Soon, it was time for tributes, as guests took turns to extol the virtues of the celebrant. Taking the first shot, her doting husband, Mr. Akpovwa described her as an industrious, honest and hardworking woman. "I wish her good health, long life, prosperity and everything good she wishes herself, because she brings order into my life." Following suit, the Group Managing Director and Chief Executive Officer of Diamond Bank, Mr. Alex

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Opening Prayer by Pastor Dele Balogun

Mrs. Ifeoma Okoli, Mrs. Doris Akpovwa & Mr. Oliver Ben Okoli

Solomon Olotu & Olorogun Ese Okobiabi

Irie Olotu, Mrs. Derin Olotu & Mrs. Doris Akpovwa

Olawunmi Omeke & Ifeanyi Omeke with Mr.& Mrs. Dan Akpovwa

Mr. & Mrs. Emman Akpovwa

Mr. Akin Fayose & Mr. Wale Adegboyega

Chief John Nwafor & Mrs. Omoyemi Nwafor

Edith & Odachi Adebayo

Mr. Cluma Okorowafor & Mrs. Chima Okorowafor

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Mr. Albert Okumagba, Mrs. Doris Akpovwa, Mr. Dan Akpovwa & Mr. Francis Okumagba

Tunde Adeboye, Scott Tommy, Julius Rone, Emeka Ugwu-Oju & Mr. Albert Okumagba

Mandy Adegboyega, Tega Oritsejafor & Stephanie

Capt. & Mrs. Dayo Awobokun with Doris Akpovwa

Josephine Fingesi & Joy Olumurewa

Voke Toye, Ejiro Lawrence & Alicia Obasare

Mrs. Jumobi Mofe-Damijo, Doris Akpovwa & Stephanie Henshaw

Mr. & Mrs. Bawo Benjamin

Otti said, "Doris is an exemplary woman who is trying to support lives and humanity at large." Mr. Otti ended his warm remarks with a tale that perfectly illustrated the sterling character of the celebrant as he also assured her of his financial support to her foundation. In the same vein, a friend of the celebrant, Mr. Francis Okumagba, described her in glowing terms. Okumagba noted that the celebrate was one woman that other women should emulate in all spheres of life. The eulogy session was rounded off with a benign remark from the Executive Governor of Rivers State, Gov. Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi, who described the celebrant as the brain power and propeller of 238

excellence at her place of work, in the life of her husband and in the lives of all who know her. Gov. Amaechi then wished the celebrant more successful years and pledged his financial support towards the Teeky Foundation. That settled, the celebration hit a high tempo with a magical moment where the celebrant graced the dance floor, accompanied by a couple of teenagers. They swerved from left to right, rocking the sweet melodies of Old School Jams. There was life in the air and everyone cheered the razzmatazz that was unfolding on the dance floor. The minute the dance was over, the ‘birthday chic’

was invited to cut her birthday cake, and at the count of 45, Doris alongside her husband, Mr. Akpovwa and Governor Amaechi cut the beautiful cake. The guests who kept applauding the celebrant, were treated to sumptuous and mouth-watering delicacies amply supplied by Timik Catering Services. Later on, the celebrant, her family members and some of the guests took to the dancing floor and they kept dancing till late in the evening to the mixes of DJ Dino Dee. The celebration was a superlative one and nothing short of a royal feast-fit for a woman of class who, God’s willing, will be joining the Golden club in the next five years.

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Barr. John Iwelumo with Mr. & Mrs. Dan Akpovwa

Mr. & Mrs. Obilor with Mr. & Mrs. Dan Akpovwa

Mrs. Elsie Oluku, Mrs. Doris Akpovwa & Mrs. Ronke Onadeko

Mrs. Tochi Opara, Mrs. Doris Akpovwa & Mrs. Eloho Onwah

Mr. & Mrs. Fadanusi with Mr. & Mrs. Dan Akpovwa

Mr. & Mrs. Okoye with Mrs. Doris Akpovwa

Mr. & Mrs. Alex Otti with Emeka Ugwu-Oju

Mr. & Mrs. Akigbe with Mr. & Mrs. Dan Akpovwa

Wemimo & Akinlabi Olawunmi with Mr. Dan Akpovwa

Mrs. Joseph, Sophia, Mrs. Doris Akpovwa & Capt. Otti

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Mrs. Joseph & Mr. Caroline Abu

Rivers State Governor, Rotimi Amaechi with Mr.& Mrs. Dan Akpovwa

Dan Akpovwa showering praise on his wife

Mrs Doris Akpovwa & Mrs. Angela Okoma

Joseph & Francis Esenwa with Mrs. Doris Akpovwa

Mr. & Mrs. Niyi Ogunremi with Mrs. Doris Akpovwa

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The celebrant speaking about her Foundation

Mr. Alex Otti

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ALHAJA TAIBAT ERIKITOLA CLOCKS 89! Story: Deji Aroloye Photo: Segun Lawal

Celebrant, Alhaja Taibat Erikitola cutting cake with family members

Alfa Hafeez Akanji & Alhaja Taibat Ejide Erikitola

Wale Oritola, Alhaja Taibat Ejide Erikitola & Princess Debo Odutola

lhaja Taibat Erikitola is not just a senior citizen of Nigeria; she has contributed immensely to the lives of people and the Nigerian society in general. Alhaja Erikitola also progressed further in the Octogenarian journey when she clocked 89. Her children thought it fit to celebrate their mother, a woman of substance who has been a tremendous source of inspiration to them through the years. The venue of the shindig was G14, Shell Crescent, Millennium Homes, Victoria Island, Lagos State. Family members, friends and well-wishers were on ground to honour the stately woman, who is fondly called, Gbemdu by her grandchildren. Gbemdu in the celebrantâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s local

dialect is a term used to describe someone that is cute and beautiful. And by all ramifications and even in her old age, Alhaja Erikitola is cute and beautiful. A true beauty in character and appearance, Gbemdu is a rare gem that glitters with many excellent qualities such as diligence, love, discipline and compassion. Alhaja Erikitola worked as a Civil Servant for many years before she voluntarily retired in the 70â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s. She had a stint with the Ministry of Youth, Sports and Culture, both at the State and Federal levels. In 1961, she was awarded with the title of 'Universal Mother' by J.W. Farnsworth of the Yorkshire Insurance 241

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Engr. Alhaji Bilaji Danmola & Wale Oritola

Alhaja Taibat Ejide Erikitola & Tokunbo Ekundayo

Tunji Sanusi & Alhaja Taibat Ejide Erikitola

Fatimah Akinsanya & Prince Jide Akinsanya

Alhaja Taibat Ejide Erikitola & Bashorun Adetoun

Mina Igbinedion, Kenny Okosun & Tina Seriki

Alhaja Taibat Ejide Erikitola & Bunmi Adeoye

Company of Nigeria and today, she has some successful personalities she calls her adopted children, having extended her golden heart beyond her biological children. One of them is Bashorun Dele Momodu, the Publisher of Africa’s leading celebrity journal, OVATION Magazine. At the party, prayers, led by an Islamic cleric were offered for the celebrant. The celebrant too was in an 242

elated mood to witness such a special joy-filled day, as she thanked God for protection, provision, mercy and direction throughout the years. The guests had a good time and they were given an excellent treat. Food and drinks were available in quality and quantity. While Goldilux was in charge of food, I Love My Deserts Ltd., was in charge of canapes foods. It was a memorable party as people dined and wined until they were thoroughly satisfied.

Mama's biological children comprising Kayode, Bisi, Lape, Yinka, Bayo, Funke and Debo were also glad that their friends turned up to honour their mother, whom they affectionately described as , ‘a mother in a million.’ Some of the notable people that attended the bash were Alhaja Yinka Agoro, Bisi Shobanjo, Tina Seriki, Mina Igbinedion, Prince Jide Akinsanya, Yomi Dada, Mrs. Adebisi Jare-Alade, Bimbo Amodu and Lovette Ozolua. It was indeed a day to savour!

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The Oseni family members with Alhaja Taibat Ejide Erikitola

The Agoro family members with celebrant

Mrs. Lape Adeoye, Mrs. Omoniyi Adebo, Alhaja Taibat Ejide Erikitola & Adetola Kotun

Kunbi Femi-Olatunji, Bisi Shobanjo & Alhaja Yinka Agoro

Alhaja Taibat Erikitola & Mrs. Ngozi Ohiagu

Kehinde Okosun, Princess Debo Odutola & Kunbi Femi-Olatunji

Peju, Edwin (Jnr) & Mr. Timi Akinwunmi

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Princess Debo Odutola & Mrs. Adebisi Jare-Alade

Mrs. Adetutu Badiru & Princess Debo Odutola

Princess Debo Odutola & Mrs. Mary Alakume

Sade Gam-Ikon & Bimbo Amodu

Mrs. Yemi Odutola & Princess Debo Odutola

Alhaja Taibat Ejide Erikitola & Dr. Agbe Davies

Edwin (Jnr), Alhaja Taibat Ejide Erikitola, David & Princess Debo Odutola

Mr. & Mrs. Yomi Dada with Alhaja Taibat Ejide Erikitola

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Toyin Odutayo, Kehinde Okosun, Princess Debo Odutola & Kunbi Femi-Olatunji

Ayo Gam-Ikon, Alhaja Taibat Ejide Erikitola & Sade Gam-Ikon

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ALISA HOTEL, ACCRA PAMPERS CLIENTS WITH NEW FACILITIES By Ben Dzakah

lisa Hotel, one of the top-rate hotel facilities in Accra, Ghana has decided to go the extra mile to pamper and satisfy its customers with newly refurblished facilities. As part of its expansion project which will be completed in December this year, some of the hotel’s existing facilities got major face lifts. The facilities were the Anabel’s Restaurant, the Table Bay Bar, the Oasis Lounge Bar and the Sahara Pool Bar. The evening saw the Hotel’s corporate clients gather under one roof to

have a tour of the hotel, exchange pleasantries, enjoy good food and drinks and listen to good music. The guest artiste for the night was Okyeame Kwame who entertained the audience with some of his hit songs. Alisa Hotel which prides itself as the biggest and best conference hotel in Ghana is definitely living up to the expectations of its clientele and according to General manager, Marco Cecchi this is just the beginning of many great innovations of the facilities. Frontview of the Upscale Alisa Hotel, Accra

General Manager, Marco Cecchi & Ahmeed

Guests relaxing at the bar

Florence, Hanna, Alfred, Rita, Grace & Harriet

Vero, Chef Michael, Melissa, Kofi, Sylvia & Cal Bank representatives

Vero, Freda, George, Nik, Sylvia & Dorinda

Adina & Okyeame Kwame

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Isvel, (Quality Control Manager), Marco Cecchi, (General Manager) & Sylvia Osie Mensah (Sales & Marketing Manager)

Yvonne Izzo (Rooms Division Manager) & Sylvia Osei-Mensah (Sales & Marketing Manager)

Besiwa & kids with Sylvia Osei-Mensah

Agyeiwaa & Henwig of Charter House

Joseph, Rita & Michael Oteng Adjei

Judith Newlove, Sylvia & Elorm

Canadian High Commission guests & Grace Adams

Sales & Marketing Manager presenting to a winner during the Raffle draw

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Ephraim rapping alongside Okyeame Kwame

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THE FORMIDABLE DJIMON HOUNSOU By Samantha Ofole-Prince/Photos courtesy of Royalty Image/Disney

Djimon Hounsou

jimon Hounsou has become a near-ubiquitous presence on screens in Hollywood blockbusters and indie movies. Known for portraying intense and often formidable roles, the two-time Academy Award-nominated actor has starred in “Blood Diamond,” “In America,” “Amistad,” “Gladiator” and several other worthwhile films. Statuesquely tall at six feet two inches, the softspoken actor who played Paula Patton’s lover in the romantic comedy “Baggage Claim” has had an extremely busy year. From voicing an evil dragon slayer in “How to Train Your Dragon 2,” a role in the action film “Fast and Furious 7,” scheduled for a 2016 release, the fantasy adventure film “Seventh Son” with Jeff Bridges, Mark Neveldine’s thriller “The Vatican Tapes,” the upcoming version of “Tarzan,” and playing a killing machine called Korath the Pursuer in Disney’s “Guardians of the Galaxy,” Hounsou hasn’t stopped to take a breath. “I have literally been hopping from set to set trying to keep up with all of that,” he shares. “It’s been a lot, but it’s a great variety of work. I’ve got so much to accomplish and I feel like there’s so little time so I am packing them in,” adds the actor who for the movie “Dragon” is grateful to have had the opportunity to take Kenzo, his five year old son he had with entrepreneur Kimora Lee Simmons with him on set. “Having a son, being part of animated features is quite important, adding he saw the first one and knew the story and it was nice to tell him that I was going to be in a film he was familiar with,” continues the actor who is also producing and developing a slate of feature films and documentaries via his company Fanaticus Entertainment. In the action-packed, star-studded epic space adventure that also stars Chris Pratt, Zoe Saldana, Vin Diesel, Bradley Cooper, Glenn Close and Benicio Del Toro, Hounsou plays another menacing character only this time, he’s a killing machine. “Korath is a pursuer, a machine dedicated to kill, a humanoid with only one thing in mind, to go after his target. I was excited that the story didn’t have any place in our terrestrial world. While I knew that would be very challenging, it gave me a great amount of freedom to navigate and use my imagination to take my character to the extreme. I also wanted to be part of the Marvel comics world,” says the actor on his attraction to the role. “I had a great amount of freedom to navigate and use my imagination and go to the extreme levels of what a machine that is built to kill looks like since there is not much written about the character. Even though my makeup doesn’t seem like much, it took a couple of hours to put together and it looks pretty amazing.” A former model from Benin Reoublic, he moved to Paris at the age of 13 to pursue a Western education. Discovered by fashion designer Thierry Mugler, Hounsou’s career took off and he was soon appearing in several iconic music videos for legendary Photographer Herb Ritts and Director David Fincher. Small film roles followed before his breakthrough performance as Cinque, the West African who lead an uprising to regain his freedom in Steven Spielberg’s 1997 film “Amistad.” It’s a role that earned him a Golden Globe nomination and a NAACP Image Award. Following that In 2006, Hounsou continued a winning streak receiving an NAACP Image Award, a

National Board of Review citation and a Screen Actors Guild Award and an Academy Award nomination for his role as a forced laborer who discovers a rare gem in the film “Blood Diamond,” alongside Leonardo DiCaprio. “People remember ‘Blood Diamond’ in the sense that it’s more contemporary and it hits the heart for many people and then ‘Amistad,” shares the actor on his most recognizable roles. “A lot of people studied that for film school or some form of education, but it’s mostly Blood Diamond’ people remember me for because it is a subject that we all prize so much.” Ridley Scott’s “Gladiator” earned him a shared Screen Actors Guild Award nomination as a member of the cast and for his performance as an artist afflicted with AIDS in the film “In America,” Hounsou garnered an Independent Spirit Award, a second Academy Award nomination and was also named 2004’s ShoWest

Hounsou stars in Guardians Of The Galaxy

Djimon Hounsou and Paula Patton in Baggage Claim

Supporting Actor of the Year. “You have to be in the driver’s seat of your own career and trying to find the balance is a bit like being a gymnast,” say Hounsou who has also crossed over to television and voiced the Black Panther in the BET animated series based on the Marvel Comic. He also starred as a refugee seeking asylum in a memorable six-episode arc on “ER” and played a recurring role in the series “Alias,” which stars Jennifer Garner. A celebrity ambassador for Oxfam, Hounsou is also a powerful voice against poverty and injustice and has advocated for poor farmers who have been affected by unfair international trade rules. It’s a role he is passionate about and he has supported a variety of fundraising activities for Oxfam and firmly believes in using his fame to promote worthy causes. In 2009, he opened the UN General Assembly in New York with a compelling speech about the impact of climate change on developing nations. He also appeared before the U.S. Senate on behalf of the Runaway and Homeless Youth Act and participated in a hearing and summit for the International Arms Ban Treaty. “We should be ashamed to die unless we have made some major contribution to human society, for there is no way you can enrich yourself without enriching people around you. We are social beings and we are supposed to be interacting with another and supposed to be helping one another to survive.” 247

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MEET THE

HOTWIVES OF

ORLANDO By Samantha Ofole-Prince

The Hotwives of Orlando poster

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Meet the Hotwives of Orlando - Hulu's new parady series

ne is a needy, wanna-be ‘hotwife,’ who is always stirring up gossip. Another is a sexy British heiress with ‘cougarish’ tendencies, while the rest are an eclectic mix of dramatic, rage infused, self-obsessed, ditzy women. These are the women of Hulu’s latest show “The Hotwives of Orlando.” A parody of one of the most popular franchises in reality television, the show floats mostly on light-hearted mockery of the housewives series broadcast on the cable channel, Bravo that documents the lives of several affluent housewives. “We thought the idea would be hilarious and fun to do and watch and so we wrote it,” shares co-creator Danielle Schneider who penned the series along with her writing partner Dannah Phirman. Both also star on the show. “I am a huge fan of the Housewives franchise and so we took pieces from existing housewives to create each character. They are all based on aspects of different housewives.” Starring Casey Wilson, Angela Kinsey, Kristen Schaal, Tymberlee

Hill, Andrea Savage, Phirman and Schneider, it’s an engaging comedy that mixes parody and giddy consumer voyeurism that even has the seal of approval from Bravo executives. “We heard through twitter that Andy [Cohen] had blessed the show,” continues Schneider. “He has seen the preview and loved it. That is like having the pope’s blessing and for us it’s very exciting.” Seven laugh-out loud episodes, which has the ladies throwing Pimp’s and Ho’s parties and designing high heels for dogs have been taped and if you’re hoping to see a NeNe Leakes character then you’re in luck with Phe Phe Reed who is played by Tymberlee Hill. “As soon as people hear Housewives, they automatically say I am NeNe as she is the most famous from the franchise,” says Hill whose character PhePhe is a successful lawyer, foot model and aspiring taxidermist and also the most vocal. “She does say more than anything else that she is not about the drama, but she speaks her mind and you’re not always gonna like what her mind has to say. But hey, “She’s just bein’ Phe Phe.” With plenty of chemistry and camaraderie among the women, “The Hotwives of Orlando” is, in the end, ballsy, brilliant and comical. “We are game for everything and whatever we can think of we just say it,” adds Andrea Savage who plays Veronica Von Vandervon, the British cougar. “There is ad-lib, but we scripted everything and the ideas come from watching the housewives franchise and taking it a step further. We just hope that people like it and laugh at it as much as we do,” says Phirman. With a supporting and recurring cast that includes Matt Besser, Joey McIntyre, Stephen Toblowsky, Jerry Minor and Seth Morris the series an airs on Hulu, the website and subscription service that offers ondemand streaming video of TV shows and movies.

Tymberlee Hill, Kristen Schaal, Angela Kinsey - courtesy of Hulu

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Damien Wayans, Marlon Wayans & Craig Wayans

MARLON WAYANS TAKES HUMOUR TO TBS By Samantha Ofole-Prince/Photos courtesy of 135th Street Agency

Damien Wayans, Marlon Wayans & Craig Wayans

Michael Yo & Marlon Wayans

est described as a comedy boot camp, it’s a show where comedians compete against one another for a big cash prize that airs on the cable channel TBS. Each week, several comedians who have been handpicked by Marlon Wayans learn a different comedy style and get a chance to test what they've been shown in front of an audience, with one person being eliminated until only one remains. The winner will receive a cash prize of a $100,000 and an online series for Wayans’ site WhatTheFunny.com. “It’s a gritty, edgy show and every week there will be brand new material so it’s not just about stand-up comedy for there are digital shorts, musical parodies and we do animation, vines, viral videos and character challenges. It’s a variety show but a reality show also,” adds Marlon who serves as the host of the show and Executive Producer along with Rick Alvarez (“A Haunted House” movies). “We picked from a large group of people and I tweeted it out as I am really active on social media and there are a lot of people on social media that wanted this opportunity. We looked at the best and that was it,” he adds on the

selection process. For Marlon who comes from a long lineage of humorous guys and was nurtured well in the business of comedy, the show offers an opportunity to help aspiring comedians. “All comedians are so different and with the show people get to see some of the behind the scenes of what it takes to make that magic happen.” With different guest judges each week, he’s called on some of his comedy friends that include Affion Crockett, Billy West and David Alan Grier to come and help out so expect to see these three in an upcoming episode. The youngest of 10 siblings, Marlon is a successful Actor, Producer, comedian, writer and film director who is well known for his unapologetic humor and the ability to poke fun at literally anything. “I hope freedom progresses in comedy. You shouldn't be afraid to try and find the light in any dark corner. You should say whatever you feel. I want to be known for just being real. Love me, hate me, I don’t care, as long as I am real that is all I care about.”

Marlon with Funniest Wins contestants & Matt McManus,

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ONE ON ONE WITH

GENERAL ROBERT GBAIN Photo: Adekoya Adegbite

eneral Robert Gbain, a tried and tested Gentleman and General of the Beninese Army was in Nigeria recently as a recipient of the Leadership Award for African Achievers (LAAFA). A day before this great occasion, General Gbain was surprised at his suite inside the Sheraton Hotel, Lagos, when OVATION Publisher, Bashorun Dele Momodu paid him a courtesy call. After the usual greetings, Bashorun Momodu declared that he came to see the General on the invitation of his friend, Alberto. "I was informed about your visit by Albert Koumagnon who is a brother with whom I have had an excellent long-standing relationship. When he told me that you were in town, I did not hesitate to come and give you a truly Nigerian welcome. As a General, I know you are a man who reached theb the height of his professional but I know that God will inspire you to even greater heights. "Since I have been told that the advancement of Africa is at the heart of all your commitments, as a Pan Africanist myself, I am ready to partner with you in all areas to help you realise your dream”. Bashorun Momodu stated. In response, General Gbian said that he was honored and pleased to receive “such a great Man” as the OVATION Publisher. While congratulating the OVATION team, The General stated that he has been an admirer of the great work that OVATION Magazine has done around the continent. Later, we had this interview with him.

General it is indeed a pleasure to meet you. You are a man with a pretty exceptional career. You assumed high responsibilities in the Beninese Army and was at the top level for many years. How do you feel after all these years spent in serving your country

I am happy to meet you too. I would like to seize this opportunity to congratulate you for the overwhelming work you have been doing. I’ve been actually lucky enough to serve my country, not only as a military officer at the top level of the government, but also as a citizen involved in actions for local development. Throughout the years, I’ve come to realize that the African continent in general and my country Benin in particular, has a lot of potentials. I’ve tried as much as I can to make my modest contribution at all levels where it has been necessary, though much remains to be done. I therefore, have a burning desire to serve more. We are told you are planning to offer

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yourself as a candidate for the 2016 presidential elections. Is it true

I just would like to thank those who wish to see my humble person as the leader of Benin in 2016. I consider this solicitation as a mark of trust and I promise to give it a serious thought. It is a very serious question that needs to be addressed in due course. In the meantime, I want to continue exchanging ideas with my people. Do you think you will have the support of the large political coalitions

The political parties, affiliations and other political associations are the backbone of all elections. They are after all, groups of citizens seeking the development of their country. I do not overlook the support of the political parties, but I do wish to have the total amalgamation of forces towards a predefined programme that meets the needs of the populace. Majority of the political parties in Benin seem so similar. Do you have anything new to offer

As I told you earlier, I’ve not taken the decision to run for the coming elections. However, I believe that every political agenda should meet the needs of the people. There is a strong feeling in the country that candidates from financial institutions like the World Bank have done more harm than good to the country, what is your take

I believe that every individual needs to be judged on their deed. I disagree with the fact that we should push an individuals misdeed on a whole corporation. There are always black sheep and honest men in every human organization. We need to distinguish good examples from the bad ones as far as individuals are concerned. Insecurity is now on the front burner in the sub region especially the menace of the Boko Haram in Nigeria, how can we fight against sub regional insecurity

As far as I’m concerned, I think the problem of insecurity in the sub region needs to be addressed through a jointforce of all the countries involved. Or course, possibilities to go into negotiations should not be neglected. If you are elected President of the Republic of Benin in 2016, what will be your top priorities

I’m sorry to have to say it again. I’m not a candidate yet. There will definitely be another time for that. Do you have anything to add

My dream is that the African continent and especially my beloved country find ways and means to face the numerous challenges ahead of us. Everybody must be involved to ensure we turn around our economy and take

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Je souhaite que l'Afrique en général et mon pays en particulier puissent trouver les moyens nécessaires pour faire face aux défis auxquels ils sont confrontés. Ils sont divers et multiformes et nous devons y apporter des réponses. Chaque citoyen devrait apporter sa pierre à l'édifice. Bonjour mon Général. C'est un plaisir de vous rencontrer. Vous êtes un homme au parcours assez exceptionnel. Vous avez assumé pendant de longues années de hautes responsabilités dans l'armée béninoise et au cœur de l'Etat.

Comment vous sentez vous après toutes ces années passées au service de votre pays? Je suis heureux de vous rencontrer également et je voudrais saisir cette occasion pour vous féliciter pour le travail que vous abattez depuis de longues années. J'ai effectivement eu la chance de servir mon pays, non seulement en tant qu'officier militaire au sommet de l'Etat, mais aussi entant que citoyen et acteur de développement à la base. Cette vie que j'ai menée pendant de longues années, m'a permis de comprendre à quel point, le continent Africain en général et mon pays le pays en particulier, regorgent d'énormes potentialités. Je me suis efforcé dans la limite de mes moyens d'apporter ma modeste contribution à tous les niveaux où cela était nécessaire, mais il reste beaucoup à faire. J'ai donc le sentiment d'avoir accompli mon devoir mais au regard des défis qui restent à relever, je garde en moi un forte envie de servir davantage. On évoque de plus en plus votre probable candidature aux élections présidentielles en 2016. Que répondez vous

Je voudrais simplement remercier tous ceux qui souhaitent voir ma modeste personne à tête du Bénin en 2016. Je reçois cette sollicitation comme une marque de confiance et je veux prendre tout le temps nécessaire pour y réfléchir. C'est une question assez sérieuse à laquelle je répondrai au moment opportun. Pour l'instant, je veux continuer à échanger avec mes compatriotes des villes et campagnes. Pensez vous que vous aurez le soutien des grandes coalitions politiques

Les partis, mouvements et autres associations politiques sont la cheville ouvrière de toutes élection. Cela étant, ils sont avant tout, des regroupements de citoyens soucieux du développement de leur pays. Je ne néglige pas le soutien des partis politiques et mouvements mais je souhaite celle de l'adhésion de toutes les forces à un programme prédéfini et validé ensemble. La plupart des partis politiques proposent le même programme aux populations béninoises. Que proposez vous de nouveau

Je ne suis pas encore candidat. Cependant, je pense que tout projet de société

devrait avoir à répondre aux populations et proposer des actions concrètes et réalisables.

Selon vous quelles réponses peut on apporter à l'insécurité sous régionale, en particulier à Boko Haram

Selon plusieurs observateurs de ce pays, les candidats venant de la banque mondiale et autres - nous voulons parler d'économistes et des banquiers - ont fait beaucoup du mal à l'économie du Bénin.

Je pense pour ma part que le problème de l'insécurité sous régionale ne peut être résolu qu'à travers des actions concertées au niveau sous régional et qui ne devraient pas exclure d'éventuelles possibilités de négociations.

Qu'en dites vous

Je pense que nous devons juger chacun sur la base des actes qu'il pose. Je n'approuve pas le fait qu'on rende une corporation responsable des erreurs d'un ou plusieurs de ses membres. Il y a dans toutes les corporations comme dans toutes les organisations humaines, des bons et des mauvais exemples. Apprenons a faire la part des choses.

Si vous êtes élu Président de la République en 2016, sur quels grands axes travaillerez vous en priorité

Je vous rappelle que je n'ai pas encore dit que je suis candidat. Chaque chose en son temps. Votre mot de fin

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AT THE

LAAFA 2014

IN LAGOS

French: Chinyere Ndukwe Photo: Solomon Ekhaiyemhe

General Gbain receiving his award

or his contribution to national development and his sterling track record of integrity and exemplary leadership, General Robert Gbain, who served in the Beninese Army was honoured by the organisers of Leadership Award for African Achievers (LAAFA). The 2014 edition of the ceremony held at the Balmoral Events Centre, Oregun, Lagos, Nigeria saw the General receiving his award with a retinue of family members and aides. The colourful event was attended by many top Nigerian celebrities and government officials. Before he was presented with the award, the organizers showered

encomiums on the General for his years of service to the continent in terms of peace and conflict resolution. The elated General Gbain thanked the organizers and stated that as a thorough professional who is very private, he was surprised at the decision to honour him. He was however, grateful to them for recognizing his contribution to society. According to him, some people though they are not leaders, do outstanding work and it was good that this award brought such people to light. He wished peace and sustainable development to his country, Benin and to the whole of Africa. He left the stage amidst a standing ovation by all present.

our sa contribution au développement national et pour son témoignage d’intégrité et de leadership exemplaire, le GénéralMajor Robert Gbian, qui a servi dans l’armée béninoise, a été honoré par les organisateurs du Leadership Award for African Achievers (LAAFA). L’édition de 2014 s’est tenue au Balmoral Events Centre, à Oregun à Lagos, au Nigeria; le Général a reçu son prix en présence de membres de sa famille et de ses aides. De grandes personnalités gouvernementales et des célébrités ont honoré cette cérémonie très riche en couleurs de leur présence. Avant de recevoir le prix, les

organisateurs ont fait l’éloge du Général pour ses années de service pour le continent dans le domaine de la paix et de résolution de conflits. Le très excité Général a remercié les organisateurs et a déclaré qu’en tant que quelqu’un de très réservé, qu’il était très surpris de l’honneur qu’on lui faisait. Il a dit que certaines personnes, quand bien même elles ne sont pas des leaders, réalisent de grandes choses et que ce genre de prix amène les gens à les reconnaitre. Il souhaita la paix et un développement durable à son pays le Bénin et à l’Afrique toute entière. Il quitta la scène avec une grande ovation de la part de toutes les personnes présentes. 253

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RUTH

OSIME FABULOUSLY FASHIONABLE AT FIFTY

Interview: Kemi Akinyemi Photo: TY Bello & Personal album

all her a connoisseur of style and you would not be wrong. Ruth Osime is the Editor, Thisday Style and a leading voice in the fashion industry in Nigeria. In this interview she spoke about turning 50 and more...

Congratulations on your 50th birthday celebration. How did you feel on the day you turned 50

Funny enough, all through my 49th year, whenever I was asked my age, I would just say, ‘I’m 50 next year!’ I think, mentally, it is an age I had been looking forward to. So, when I turned 50, I already felt 50. A high degree of class and panache characterized your 50th birthday party, in terms of preparation and planning. What informed it all

I am a happy-go-lucky person by nature and I have friends from all walks of life. My party was an extension of my personality. So, it came as no surprise 254

that it was a huge success. I knew I wanted close friends and people I have worked with in the past, and I wanted to create an exciting evening for them. The hall, which was unconventionally decorated to look like a lounge, bar and dinner affair, was done by Theo Mbakwe. I had my concept, colour schemes and a dress code my guests adhered to. To the glory of God, everything fell into place. I can only thank God for blessing me in such a way. He made it a night to remember for every guest. I got a lot of rave reviews much to my delight. Basically, my 50th reflected my popularity and God’s mercy. Most people have this notion that Ruth Osime is a very blunt and what-you-see-is-what-you-get kind of person.

You have said it all. I don’t believe in hypocrisy. I take a stand in anything I believe in. What I have learnt, now as I get older, is to listen more and to speak less. In other words, I have learnt to assimilate other

people’s points of view, and not let my own view be the one that should be correct all the time. At best, we agree to disagree without rancor. I have learnt the hard way that sometimes, silence can be golden. More importantly, I am much closer to God now, and this has given me a much deeper perspective of life, and as such, you study more, learn more, and utter less. Aside from that, I am still the same optimistic person I have always been. I believe in the power of positive thinking, more so now, than ever. If you have certain characteristic traits in you, I don’t think much really changes. These traits are inherent; some are just better managed than others. Hopefully the bad ones diminish, and good ones heighten. It is also a known fact that your life revolves around your family, especially, your mother and your sisters.

Well, as you know, I have lost my father and I have also lost my only brother. Ours is a close-knit family.

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When people see success, rather than give it the credit it deserves, they condemn it. Behind every success, there are the three big T’s… Tears, Trials and Tribulations. There were times we will be in the office doing 36 hour shifts. I have to give my boss credit, he never settled for mediocrity, no matter how many hours we had slaved for. He always demanded the ultimate best and nothing less. Oh, there were many times I cried from sheer frustration. There were many times I slept in the office. The loss of my brother was, and is still, the most painful experience I have ever had till date. Even up till now, I remember him now and again. We used to laugh a lot. It is a void that can never be filled. But my sisters and I have such a strong bond. We don’t have sibling rivalry that some sisters have. Yes, we go through our ups and downs, but we thank God for His grace for the bond we share. We tell each other our secrets. My brother had two daughters, and they are about the same age as my sister’s daughter. So, we have tried to maintain the closeness with them too. The death of your brother, Victor marked a very poignant period in your life. Can you relieve the experience

What happened was that he got involved in a car accident in South Africa. He was in the car with his girlfriend and his two daughters. One was three years old and the other was one and a half at that time. Fortunately, they survived but unfortunately, he didn’t. If the hospital he had been taken to, was in a much better condition, he might have survived. But now that I look at it from a spiritual angle, when God says it is your time, it is your time. I was living in America at the time and the day my sister called me to tell me about it, I was just totally devastated. I had to leave for England with the next available flight. I remember I couldn’t even look at his pictures as I packed, I just could not bring myself to do it! I was in total denial, believing if I did not look at the pictures; it meant he was still alive. Even talking about it now, it still hurts. But as they say, time heals. All through the burial ceremony, we felt as if we were in a trance. Anytime I remember Victor, I keep trying to imagine what he would have looked like now. He was so fashion forward. I still have a shirt of his that I can still wear today. He was very trendy. He liked his medallions. He was the typical ruggedly sexy hunk-6.4” tall and a six-pack too! And he was also a very loving brother. He was very protective of us girls. He always had our backs and always made sure we were well taken care of. He was the only man amongst three women plus girlfriend and two daughters. At the time he died, I never thought we could survive the loss. But as God would have it, He compensated all of us, by making our lives more meaningful; and He has been blessing us in His own way. For some reasons, God replaced Victor's absence with blessings. And I know that Victor is up there, still looking out for us. When did he die

He died on 13th of August, 1999 How did your mother take it

Well, naturally, like any mother, she took it very badly. She still mourns him till date. She goes to his burial site every year and she washes his graveside. The pain of a mother losing a child is worse than the pain of a child losing a sibling. I can only say that it is the most insurmountable thing she has ever been through. But by the grace of God, although she will never totally overcome it, she is learning to cope with the loss. You lost your father two years ago. How were you able to go through the mourning process

Like I said before, by the time you have lost your only brother, who was 34 at the time of his death, the loss of a father is not as painful. My father died in his 70’s, and he had been ill for a while. So, with him, we

were sort of mentally prepared. All we did was to ensure he had good medical attention and was well taken care of. We tried our best to make his life comfortable. But I felt sorry for him and my mother because I think my brother’s death must have taken its toll on them as parents. But I thank God he died peacefully. We celebrated his life because he died at 77. We should really give God the glory. Let’s talk about your childhood years. What was it like

Basically, I had a normal childhood. I grew up in Surulere. I had both my primary and secondary education in Surulere. Then, at the age of 16, I went to England. In those days, you didn’t need so many gadgets to have a good time. We could walk down the road to our friends’ houses. There was freedom of movement. We had our usual skate boards, roller skates and what have you, and we had our scrabbles and ludos. We were an average income family, we did not have excess but we certainly did not lack either. It is quite unlike this present generation, where you have to have the latest gadgets or visit expensive parks to have fun. It cost next to nothing to have a good time then. At what point did you decide to come back to Nigeria

I left Nigeria when I was 16 and I came back when I was 25. When you came back, what do you get engaged in

I studied Fashion Designing in England. So, naturally, when I came back, the first thing I did was to open a fashion shop called ‘Just Ruth’. Not many people know that you trained and worked as a fashion designer

Yes, I did train as a fashion designer. I studied Clothing & Textiles in Waltham Forest College in England. When I came back, I opened my fashion store and ran it for ten years. Why did you decide to drop fashion designing

I was approached by my Chairman, Prince Nduka Obaigbena to work for him because he knew I was a prolific writer. In my younger days, my friends would come to me to help them write love letters to their boyfriends, and I would compose it for them. I have always loved to write and was good in Literature. So I accepted the offer. At the time, he wanted me to work as his Project Manager. Of course, after handling one or two projects, I began writing my own column, ‘Truth by Ruth’ which became extremely popular and thrusted me into the limelight, so to speak. Later, I became the Fashion Editor of the Saturday paper. Years later, Obaigbena came up with the concept of a weekend colour pull-out, called THISDAY Style Magazine. The rest, as they say, is history. As you know, THISDAY Style is the fashion bible of today nicknamed ‘His & Hers’ Sunday paper. For me, it was a smooth transition, because I studied Fashion. We thank God we have been able to remain on top of our game so far. You came into THISDAY as a Project Manager and you ended up being the Editor of a magazine that is regarded as the fashion and style encyclopedia in the country. The trajectory is quite phenomenal

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times we will be in the office doing 36 hour shifts. I have to give my boss credit, he never settled for mediocrity, no matter how many hours we had slaved for. He always demanded the ultimate best and nothing less. Oh, there were many times I cried from sheer frustration. There were many times I slept in the office. There were many times I put so much pressure on my staff. Like with every successful product, we went through the several mistakes, teething problems until we mastered the art. We came up with new ideas and new concepts, and every time, we rejuvenated ourselves. Anytime we see that we are being copied too much or ideas are being taken from us, we have to go back to the drawing board. You must make sure that you remain one step ahead of the game. What is the secret of the success that THISDAY Style has been able to achieve thus far

It is simple-dedication, hard work and a dogged determination to continue to excel. THISDAY Style paved the way for other newspapers to have their weekend pullouts. What methods do you employ to be able to forge ahead of the others

Like I said, you have to continue to create new ideas and come up with new concepts. The greatest step to failure is boredom. But if this is the reason you wake up every day, you will make sure the product remains relevant. Your brain is constantly ticking. And then, you surround yourself with the younger generation, so your hand remains on the pulse button. Also, one factor that has been able to help us is because of my personality. You have to be a crowd puller and be relevant in the required circles. I get invited to a lot of functions and cover a lot of events. This network base has also extended to my team because if you don't cover enough events, you don’t have the required materials to bring alive the ideas that you come up with in your magazine. Before I became a Style Editor; I was already hugely popular because of my personality, and the job helped elevate the popularity even more and I have built a larger network base with God’s grace and mercy which has strengthened the brand. And if He has blessed you with that, you maximize the opportunity it provides. This enables you have access to people, who other people might not normally get for their Cover. With THISDAY Style, you see soft Covers and you see hard Covers. You see Governors, Ministers, First Ladies and professionals that have excelled in their work. At the same time, you also see the young and upcoming entrepreneurs. You have to spread your network base, so nobody is unapproachable because there is a reference point with an impressive portfolio of personalities to fall by. Our Covers are not just about the aesthetically beautiful, but also about people outside the fashion industry, personalities that people can be inspired by. This is why I always love to do the profiles of elderly people, those who are in their 70's and 80's, who have made a name for themselves and are now legends of their time. This way, you cut across board with your readership.

Are you not amazed at the success you have been able to make out of your career

I can only give glory to God. There is nothing spectacular that I have done. I just happen to have met a boss who believed in me and gave me the platform to excel. It is not by my might or by my power. It has been through the sheer grace and blessing of God. Most young ladies are inspired by your work and success. How have you been able to impact on them

As you climb higher up the ladder of success, you have to develop a thick skin, because then, negativity and unwarranted attention will come your way. Whether true or false, accusations and negative comments are made. But you have to just rise above it, and keep your focus on God and your goal. I say that to anybody willing to listen. And of course, my team might tell you I am tough to work with. But I am what I am because I know what I want. There is no way you can get what you want without taking a hard stand on the team that works with you.

I believe the success of the magazine does that. Every time I make my Editor’s Comment, I make reference to that over and again. And I purposely, sometimes, put inspirational people on my cover. I ask them about how they got to where they are because I feel that their stories will inspire those who look up to them. All of us have had or have role models we look up to. If people look up to me as their role model, I am completely honoured. But at the end of the day, sheer hard work is just the simple answer. There are no short-cuts to success. And then, as you climb higher up the ladder of success, you have to develop a thick skin, because then, negativity and unwarranted attention will come your way. Whether true or false, accusations and negative comments are made. But you have to just rise above it, and keep your focus on God and your goal. I say that to anybody willing to listen. And of course, my team might tell you I am tough to work with. But I am what I am because I know what I want. There is no way you can get what you want without taking a hard stand on the team that works with you. In return, they know your expectations and will not give you anything less than that. And that, I believe, is how success is built.

remain very close. Grace is a successful businesswoman too and she has had her head screwed with her business. Omome is more corporate and administrative kind of person. She is an executive in her place of work. All of us have been able to sustain

You and your sisters-Grace and Omome have always been close. You must have a lot in common. What are the character traits that distinguish you

You have described your sister, Grace as very stylish. Has she always been like this

There is this notion that only certain types of people can make the cover of THISDAY Style. How true is it that it is an exclusive preserve of the elites

I have no apologies for that. It is the same thing that applies to Vogue and other high-end magazines. If you are appealing to an elitist class, of course, you have to be very selective with who you put on your Cover. You are there because you are worthy and deserving of it. And we have worked hard to ensure that the product is of a high-class level, so that if you are on Style, it is a complimentary thing for anybody, but not everybody. How true is it that some people pay to get on the cover of THISDAY Style

Like in every product, you are bound to get snide remarks and you are bound to get negativity. For instance, in my latest edition, I have four young up and coming Make-up artists. What can they afford to give me that will make any difference in my life or that of my team? Is it enough for them to lose their livelihood by collecting money? No! And besides, if it that was the case, you will not have asked the earlier question about us being elitist. That is a contradiction in itself. Our spectrum might seem wide, but we remain very selective on our Cover subjects. If your product is good, people will bend over backwards to be on it. I inaccessibility and sometimes, refusals of demands to be featured, might sometimes leave room for such speculations. 256

First of all, all three of us are very outspoken. We are very open. We have strong family values. We are loyal people by nature, enjoy a good laugh, share a close relationship with God, love to hang out together and we all love fashion. And if I am permitted to say this, I think Grace is one of the best-dressed females in Nigeria. She certainly has an eye. I think out of all the three of us, I am the most vocal and the quickest to react to things. Over the years, I have tried to curb this trait to avoid being too predictable. Aside from that, we have our usual quarrels and fights, but we

a living one way or the other from what we do.

Grace has a natural flair for fashion. Some have it, others don’t. They know how to take a piece of rag and make it look like a million dollars. Some people just wear clothes because they are brands. But other people wear the brands; the brands do not wear them. Grace has always been eclectic. In fact, most times, when she travels, I give her money to do my shopping because I know I will like 90% of whatever she buys for me. She is a natural stylist but she has never done it professionally, although she styled some of our fashion shows in the earlier years. It is just a knack

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she has. All three of us have our own style, but I think Omome and I are a bit less eclectic than Grace is, especially me. I am more subtle. Your mother is one of the most prominent matriarchs in the society, even though she tends to shy away from public glare. How has her personality influenced you and your sisters

My sisters and I have very strong characters. Needless to say, that we got that from my mother. For a long time, I could not understand why a woman could not be as opinionated as she wants. Subservience to men was not something that came naturally to me. She is a very strong woman and I think we got our strength from her, and also our sense of humour. Over the years, I have learnt to be a bit more tolerant of any excesses that come my way. I have also learnt to be a bit more subservient in certain situations, just to allow peace to reign and get my views across without rancor. I don’t have any point to

friendship. Most times, when I am with Nkiru, we are like children. We laugh all the time, we gist and we can talk for hours on the phone. We talk about everything especially spirituality which I enjoy about her. She never judges me and I know she has my back like I have hers. She is somebody, whose friendship I enjoy tremendously, and I pray it lasts forever. The two of you have been friends for over ten years. How did you become friends

I can’t remember how we met or how we became close. All I can remember is that the friendship is something that evolved over time and we have remained close ever since. One finds it strange, considering the level of closeness you share with Nkiru Anumudu, you have not been able to manipulate that opportunity to get her on the Cover of THISDAY Style.

She has never courted press interviews. I have to respect that. She is not just a friend of ‘Ruth, the THISDAY Style Editor, she is a personal friend of Ruth the woman. So, our friendship transcends my job. What does friendship mean to you

You know the funny thing is, over the years, I have begun to question that word. As you mature spiritually, you become more aware of the fact that just because everything is cloaked under the word ‘friendship’,

politically incorrect. Have you ever been betrayed by a friend

Oh my God! That is the understatement of the year. Of course! Who hasn’t experienced betrayal? Some betrayals have been so painful they make you go numb with shock. But like I said, over time, God gives you the strength to overcome. He doesn’t make you totally paranoid. He just makes you more careful. And He opens your eyes to see many things. What do you do? You certainly can’t curl up and die can you? They would love that but you are more than that. Let’s talk about heartbreaks. Have you had your heart broken before

Oh, every human being has gone through that. Have you broken anyone’s heart

I am sure I have. But at the end of the day, I hope nobody bears any grudge because it is all part of growing up. Let’s talk about marriage. Is it on the card

No it is not. The blogs and rumour mill went haywire strictly based on perception from my recent 50th birthday party, but never judge a book by its cover. The story in town has it that there is a man who has come to stay in your life

That is false. Facts and fiction are two parallels. They do not meet. Marriage is a totally different ball game and a good marriage requires deep understanding, patience, tolerance and most importantly, very strong spiritual compatibility. Psalm 127:1 says “Unless the Lord builds the house,

prove at this stage in my life. Your personality also revolves around friendship. You have five best friends-Pat Faniran, Yetunde Allen, Bola Ayeni, Julie Bazuaye and Ayona Aguele-Trimnell. What is the story behind this friendships

I have known all five friends for over thirty years. We have been friends through thick and thin. I don’t see some of them like I used too. But we are still in touch. On my birthday, they were there for everyone to see. It is a friendship that will last forever. We have been able to overcome a lot of challenges. Even up till now, if I am pressed for something, and I know that I have to call one particular person in my dire need, I am sure one of those five will be who I will call. Nkiru Anumudu is also one of your best friends. Beyond what people see, what kind of a person is she

Beyond what people see, Nkiru Anumudu is a very spiritual person. A lot of people do not know that side of her. She also has strong traditional values and has a sensitive side that the public do not get to see often. One of her most endearing traits is how she holds her husband in very high esteem. Nkiru is the kind of person that, no matter what she is doing, her husband’s needs are paramount to her. After almost 30 years of marriage, to continue to make that your focal point is very endearing. She is also very down to earth and is by no means carried away by her husband’s wealth or largesse. I must say that I admire her for that. She also works and runs one of their workshops so she is not a stay-at-home wife as might be wrongly perceived by some people. She earns a living like every other woman of substance. She is one friend I have that there is no jealousy or envy. The friendship is not about what I have or what she has. It is just an open

doesn’t mean that is what it really is. To me, friendship is, trusting somebody, implicitly. It means believing that they will always have your back. But at a point, you begin to realize that certain ‘friendships’ are not what they seem on the surface. It is not always a beautiful, rosy picture. Sometimes, you need to take away the rose-tinted glasses and see this ‘friendship’ for what it really is. But God gives you the strength to look beyond and rise above such short-comings or sometimes, even betrayals knowing that no matter what they try, He will always cover you with His blood. You must never cease from taking cover under God's protection daily, because enemies do not give up. You learn to ‘eat with a very long spoon’ so to speak. You keep certain things close to your chest and still maintain a semblance of ‘friendship’, otherwise how many people will you fight? You don’t have to put a plaster on your forehead to announce that you have changed or learnt your lesson. Inside of you, you just know that you have changed with God as your focal point. And He will give you the wisdom to rise above any spiritual attack and any negativity. You have lots of friends. Can you mention some of them

The list is endless. I can’t even start to think of whom to mention and who not to, as I don’t want to offend anybody because any name I omit will be

its builders labor in vain.” If it ever happens, God, in His infinite wisdom, is the only one that can allow it. So let’s remove the ‘rose-tinted’ glasses of perception for a second and face the reality on ground. Also please note, and this should apply to all women, with or without a man, I ensure I remain in a good place spiritually and mentally. Always have, always will. I consider myself blessed that way. One can see that you have become more spiritual. What is the depth of your spiritualism

I have a fellowship that I go to every Wednesday and it has helped me tremendously in strengthening my relationship with God. Something happened to me not too long ago, and it gave me no other choice but to get closer to Him. So, in a way, I am glad God ‘arrested’ me! And after I embraced Him, I realized the gifts He bestowed upon me. They are gifts that I rely on so much now to forge forward in my life and it has given a much deeper insight of this life we live. He has really opened my eyes to see many things I was blind to in the past and for that, I am eternally grateful. We learn every day. God is not just a name that you call 257

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Facts and fiction are two parallels. They do not meet. Marriage is a totally different ball game and a good marriage requires deep understanding, patience, tolerance and most importantly, very strong spiritual compatibility. Psalm 127:1 says “Unless the Lord builds the house, its builders labor in vain.” If it ever happens, God, in His infinite wisdom, is the only one that can allow it. So let’s remove the ‘rose-tinted’ glasses of perception for a second and face the reality on ground. Also please note, and this should apply to all women, with or without a man, I ensure I remain in a good place spiritually and mentally. Always have, always will. I consider myself blessed that way. just because you want to appear holy. He has to touch you in His own unique way. In the past, I used to wonder how people could ‘hear’ from God. But now I know for a fact that He really is the God of signs and wonders. Sometimes, I find it so exciting when He throws a puzzle at me. And when I join the dots and it begins to make sense, the light pops up in your head as the penny drops. It is the most exhilarating feeling. But not everybody can understand this. They find it confusing but they forget God is not an author of confusion. He has taught me how to deal with life’s challenges and issues in a more spiritual manner. And He has also taught me how to handle people and situations better. He gives me answers. I talk to Him and He communicates with me. It is the most blissful feeling that you can ever comprehend. Until you have worn those shoes and walked those paths, you can never comprehend it. Sometimes when you tell certain people what God reveals to you, they get apprehensive because they feel you are either not worthy of such gift or they refuse to accept the truth because they cannot comprehend it. Either way, they condemn your statement out of ignorance. I have learnt to live with that and instead of doing something about it, I just pray about it and ask God to expose it to them independent of me so that His name will be glorified. Whether you are mocked, criticized or praised, it really doesn’t matter because it is not about you but Him. It is about how He has touched your life. We live in a very wicked, evil world. The more spiritually armed you are, the better to face these challenges because they never cease. We all have the Holy Spirit by our side at all times, when we tap into Him, we just know. Some call the feeling an instinct, but it is not. It is the Holy Spirit telling us the mind of God concerning that situation. There must be women who have impacted on your life. Who are the women that inspire you

People have always asked me who my role models are. I have never had any role models per se. I have women whom I admire. Some of them are even my friends and age mates. I admire Mo Abudu, a very good friend of mine, for her phenomenal success in what she does. I admire people like Mother Theresa who gave their lives in service to other people. I admire Princess Diana, who, even though, was not very educated, made her own impact in the lives of people as best as she could, and she died the Queen of Hearts. When I see somebody who is very successful in what they do, I have to doff my heart and give them kudos. Most people will find it hard to learn that you are a very giving person. What inspires that giving grace

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applies in every area of my life. And as you get older in life, you realize that there is more pleasure in giving than receiving. That smile of gratitude, happiness and appreciation is second to none. It melts my heart because it reminds you of how much impact and difference you have made in people’s lives no matter how small or big. I also like to do charitable things, give people a voice through our platform so they can be recognized for what they are doing to change society. Can you relieve some of the pranks you got up to while you were growing up

We didn’t really get up to many pranks per se. But I know that we used to love climbing trees at the back of my house. When I was young, I used to love bread and ewa agoyin (mashed beans), which I still love up till now. But my mother hated it, as we were not allowed to buy food outside. I remember there was a time she was sick and was in the hospital. Of course, because she wasn’t home, I bought the ‘banned’ bread and ewa agoyin and ate it in secret…or so I thought! By the time we got to the hospital later that day to visit her, she asked us what we ate for breakfast, upon which one of my sisters squealed that I bought bread and ewa agoyin. I remember she came down from her sick bed and smacked me. I was so upset with my sister. With childhood, it is what you are asked not to do that you always want to do. Unfortunately some people haven’t outgrown that attitude even in adulthood. Thankfully I did. I was obviously a rebel without a cause and was always at loggerheads with my mum getting into one trouble or the other. I would go out and return way past my curfew. The excuses I cooked were mind-boggling. I have always had a wild imagination I must say and I could never understand why it didn’t fly. (Laughter). But thankfully all that has been relegated to the files of history. You wore three dresses during your birthday celebration. What designs are the others

I have always said I would never talk about the make of my dresses. I have kept that a close secret and I still want to do that. Let’s just say one was from Harrods, one was from Dubai and the third one was Stella McCartney. Who styled you for your birthday

Nobody styled me. I knew what I was going to wear from the first to the last look. But my friend, Chalya Shagaya assisted me with the changes. Elaine Shobanjo did my makeup.

A couple of years back, you used to wear weaves and braids. Why did you decide to go for low-cut

Before I turned 50, I had promised myself that I would cut my hair. I just got tired of the weaves, wigs and braids. I wanted a new look. But I did it a few months before the set date. And I must say that it is the most liberating thing I have ever done. I have absolutely no regrets. I love it. The amazing is that men actually love it too. I must admit it has raised my list of admirers by a few notches! (Laughter). They say it has taken years off me and they just find it so sexy that a woman can be confident enough to carry it well. How do you maintain the low-cut

It costs me nothing. I just wash it when I shower, put hair cream on it and I am good to go. The Nigerian fashion industry has really evolved over the years. Being one of the major stakeholders in that sector, what is your assessment of its growth and development

I am so proud of what the industry has become today. If I take it back, ten years ago, when the industry was still going through its teething problems, things were not well done and the finishing was usually sub-standard but I will say that the fashion industry has come a very long way since then. Ever since ARISE took designers to New York Fashion Week, South Africa Fashion Week, designers have pushed the envelope. Even before ARISE; THISDAY Style had also organized several high octane fashion shows. This is why I have little tolerance for mediocrity because there is no room for that at this stage. Apart from us, other platforms have been created to enable our designers spread their wings far and wide. And this is only possible because the products are of globally accepted standards. And I am so proud of them. I don’t want to call names but there are at least ten designers, who have made their marks in the industry globally. They have superseded such expectations, that even us, as Nigerians, would have thought impossible a few years ago. Their clothes have been showcased in Vogue and other international magazines. Some of them have clothed international super stars, including the First Lady of America. That encompasses their success. Of course, the downside is, we need to build better infrastructures that can train and educate younger designers and make them better equipped to produce products of high quality. The

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My projection for the future is to continue doing what I do for as long as I can do it. But I will like to make more impact in the society one way or the other. At some point, I will like to establish an NGO and do more for the less-privileged, but it will not be something I use as a platform. I am already doing so and hope to continue. I will continue my job because it is ageless. At some point though, I might take a back seat and face more philanthropicallyinspired ventures. only questionable part is their price range. These products are a bit too expensive for the average person to afford. This also boils down to working environment and infrastructure but more designers are springing up to make the prices more competitive. But I must say the high-end ones have earned their merit and have their clients. They also have ready-to-wear lines that are more price-friendly. Also gone are those days of the over-flogged Ankara beading frenzy. Designers are now thinking out of the box. Can you mention some of the designers you think have made their marks, internationally

Lanre Da Silva, Lisa Folawiyo, Deola Sagoe, Tiffany Amber, Ituen Bassey, Odion Mimonet, Momo, Ere Dappa, Iconic Vanity and other newer ones like Okunoren Twins, Mai Atafo, Meena, Bridget Awosika and many more who are up and coming and who are making names for themselves. You have a vast experience relating with fashion designers. It takes a whole lot of strength and grace to be able to meander one’s way around them, especially during fashion shows. How are you able cope

You know for every successful fashion show, there are people who play their roles. For all of our ARISE Fashion Shows, we have about 300 crew members on ground from start to finish. Every person has a role that they play. And because I have been like a mother figure to most of these younger designers, I find that all what I do is give advice, suggest adjustments, get involved in various aspects and areas for the show but I am not under any pressure I can’t manage. A few sleepless nights maybe with plenty of preparations done at a frenetic but very exciting pace. The Ankara fabric has been making tremendous impact on the international scene. What can be done to take it a notch higher than the level it is now

The Ankara fabric is making global impact. What is even making it more interesting now is that we have them in variations. There is lace Ankara, silk Ankara, embroidered Ankara giving the designers a wider scope to work with. Ankara is also being made in shoes, bags and other accessories. That is another area people haven’t tapped enough into yet, but which is also going to excel. The Nigerian make-up industry is showing good prospects. What do you make of it

The make-up industry is another successful area. Some of our makeup artists have even worked with international magazines and shows abroad. Even when we bring foreign make-up artists to work with our local ones, you can’t tell the difference in finish. The fashion industry is not makeshift anymore. There are professionals everywhere. You really have to know your game and be good at what you do. Sometimes, some of them go for courses, to improve on their products and quality standards. Most Nigerian women are now taking to Cosmetic Surgery. What is your view on this

I have always said that Cosmetic Surgery is a question of choice. But like everything else, it shouldn’t be done excessively. I haven’t done any yet. I have never been brave enough to do that. I don’t know if I would. And maybe, if and when the need

arises, I might. But for now, there is no urge for me to do so and I would not condemn those that do it. Your organization is embroiled in a court case with London-based designer, Emmy Collins, and this has been generating a lot of hoopla, especially on the Internet. Can you address the saga

We invited, verbally and by mail, Emmy Collins, Lisa Folawiyo, Odion Mimonet, Lanre Da Silva Ajayi, Tiffany Amber, Deola Sagoe and Ozwald Boetang to a music and fashion show we were having in Abuja some years back. Due to unforeseen logistical issues, the fashion leg of the show could not hold and was cancelled much to our disappointment. But, please note there was no signed Letter of Agreement, just an invitation. We sponsored and bore the expenses of their trip and accommodation in Abuja. We were saddened by this turn of event. But thankfully, every other designer, except Emmy Collins, took this unfortunate incident in their stride because they wisely believed in looking at the bigger picture and they bet right because since then, we have worked together with them, several times over, playing pivotal roles in the ascension of their careers in terms of exposure, immense growth and astonishing success. I must say we give gratitude to God Almighty for making it happen. With life, you must always learn and think steps ahead especially when it comes to the strengthening of your brand. What steps has your organization taken to address the issues he is raising

We are in court. What are the things you enjoy doing for leisure

I enjoy reading novels and watching series. I enjoy my own company. I enjoy being with my family and my loved ones. I enjoy hanging out with friends. But I can have as much fun, watching a series on television, as I would with my friends in my house, visiting or with my loved ones. Right now, I find that I enjoy the simpler things of life much more because every added day is a blessing from God. Can you tell us some of the things people do not know about your fashion regimen

My style has evolved over the years. I am now more understated. I love the fluidity of sultry

elegance. I sometimes also like some element of surprise where the front is an exact opposite of the back. I love flared pants too that hug your bum snugly. I don’t go for eclectic styles as much. I never used to like pearls but I love them now. If I wear big accessories, the outfit will be simple. If the outfit is busy, the accessories are simple. What about jewelry

Diamonds! Diamonds!! Diamonds!!! A girl’s best friend. That is all I have to say! (Laughter) Do you still indulge in any vice

I have a sweet tooth. It is a very terrible vice I am trying to curb. I don’t eat as healthy as I should. I don’t exercise at all and I know that I should. I am very lazy. That is my one big major vice-lack of exercise. What is your favourite food

I love my pounded yam and egusi soup. I don’t have a very huge palate for food. I like my potato curry and I love prawns. In fact, let’s forget food. I am not a very exciting person when it comes to food. Do you have any favourite colour or you just feel comfortable with every colour

I love black, purple and of course, red. What are your projections for the future

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-“I HAVE LIVED A FULFILLED LIFE” Story: Segun Adebowale Photo shoot: Koya Adegbite

n the history of man, some are born great, some labour and toil for greatness and some have greatness thrust upon them. Rarely do we have human species like Prince Bolasodun Abdul Jabbar Adesunmbo Ajibola combining the three together. By virtue of being a Prince who was born into the family of Oba Abdul-Salam Gbadela Ajibola, the ruler of Owu Kingdom between 1949-1972, Prince Bola Ajibola as he is fondly called, was born a great man. Unlike most men, he never allowed parental affluence to get to him. As a student of the University in the United Kingdom, he laboured and toiled for greatness while studying at the Holborn College of Law, University of London between 1959 and 1962. He went to the University in the morning and also worked at night to pay his way through school According to him, ‘’ I worked all around, even

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with the Post Office. It was one time in my life that I combined sustaining myself and schooling at the same time. I was attending the University and at the same time, I was a member of the Lincoln Inn and also studying there for my Barrister course which was very expensive.’’ Long before he became a man, Prince Ajibola had applied the saying of Henry Wadsworth Longfellow, ‘ The heights that great men reached and kept, were not attained by sudden flight , but they, when their companions were sleeping, kept toiling on through the night.’ This proverbial saying was like a national anthem to the little Ajibola who was forced to memorise it in Elementary 5 and it became his guiding principle from childhood to the University

and as far as The Hague where posterity has it that the eminent Jurist used to write not less than 80 pages of Judgement every night as a World Court Judge. He was however toeing the path left by late another great, Justice Teslim Elias, who tutored him. Reading a boxful of books left for him by Justice Elias, was not a daunting task for Prince Ajibola who shone like a star at the International Court of Justice. His emergence as the President of the World Association of Judges, President, Nigeria Bar Association and subsequently the Attorney General of the country during the Gen. Ibrahim Babaginda are testimonies of achieving greatness on a platter of gold. For a man called to the Bar at Lincoln’s Inn in 1962 as Barrister –at-Law and a Legal practitioner in

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At 80, Prince Ajibola, who is Nigeria’s longest serving Attorney General and Minister of Justice said, ‘’There is no difference. I just feel the same and I am grateful to God for letting me reach this age. I must acknowledge that it is quite a blessing from God, since I did not think I would reach 70 years of age after having over used my body, mentally and physically. I used to work overnight in Britain in order to go to school in those days.

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Lagos and other parts of Nigeria for 23 years with special bias for Commercial Law and International Arbitration, the icing on the cake globally for him was replacing the ‘institution’ that former President, Justice Teslim Elias had become in over a decade. With that, Prince Ajibola became the first Judge on the Bench from a royal family. 262

This should not be very surprising at all, after all, Prince Ajibola, who rose from the rustic ambience of the Alebiosu Compound to the imposing heights of national and international Jurisprudence, right from his emergence as the NBA President to The Hague was born at an unusual period and is reputed to have done uncommon things. One of them is his fervent

and irrevocable love for nature. In fact, he so much loved nature that, while growing up, he skipped his classes to tender his farm. Definitely attached to the plants and animals in his neighbourhood, he told us to accompany him to snap pictures with his neighbours. Guess who the neighbours were? None, other than plants. No wonder, he uses different endearments to describe plants and animals. According to him, ‘’I became suspicious as to why I was born in the Spring, which was the 22nd of March, 1934; because I suddenly got very intimate with nature. And all my life, I have been that way. For example, once I am finished with my prayers in the morning, I go to my garden which is about 34 hectares, where I have all my plants and animals too. Nature has always been very close to my heart. Later, I discovered that, we are the residents of everything on earth and according to our religion, it is our responsibility to care for these natural forms. I have kept that idea since and it is still with me.’’ He added, ‘’ I was born in a time when flowers bloom. I have always wondered why I am so interested in plants and I realise that it has to be part of my upbringing and development in life. Once my father returned from an assignment, he would want to listen to reports about his children. ‘’There was a time my uncles told him I used to run away from school. He asked them why I did it and they said that they did not know, except that I was not actually seen in school. So, my father sent for me and I explained that I came back home to look after my plants, and it was my excitement and still my excitement to see the plant grow steadily. It is like creating life. I explained that I loved them more than what the teacher was explaining to me. He told me not to do it on Mondays but Saturdays. He said that he would get me a piece of land for my farming. He punished me though.’’ The international Legal luminary however said his wife has no reason to be jealous of his affection for the plants. In fact, he added that he has infected his wife with the same virus. ‘’I have people who are employed to take care of them. When I was in the practice, I used to reserve my weekends to take care of my animals. My wife also became interested, as soon as I began to talk about them excessively and she knows I love them. I see them as my children and I have to take care of them.’’ Prince Ajibola sharpened his writing skills at the Baptist Boys High School, Abeokuta which was one of the schools established by the British to train early crop of post- independence leaders. According to Oba (Dr.) Olusanya Adegboyega Dosunmu, the Olowu of Owu Kingdom, the little Bola Ajibola, ‘whose arms were long and ears large’, sharpened his writing at the institution. The 16th Century philosopher, Francis Bacon probably had Prince Ajibola in mind, when he wrote that, ‘’Reading maketh a man, writing a complete man.’’ While paying his own tribute to Justice Ajibola, Oba (Dr.) Dosunmu, who is a cousin to the eminent Jurist with their friendship dating over 66 years,

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‘’Take yam for an example, if you plant yam and are expecting it to grow into a tuber, you have to know that the yam seed you planted would turn into ashes before it grows into a yam. I believe God is saying that He can allow anything to die in order to live. You must have also eaten ewedu. For the seed to grow, you must first of all boil it at over a hundred degrees after which you dry it very well, which means it is absolutely dead. You spread it on the floor and it starts growing immediately. If you do not boil it, it will not grow. It shows that God can take life and release it too. Lizards can re -grow their tails too. This shows that there is God.’’ remarked, ‘’ I was in the boarding house, but we sat together in the same classrooms for six years. Bola was brilliant with his height increasing to a commanding length every year! He was also very lively and funny. You could not but notice him. He could make his enemy including our teacher, Mr. Ford, laugh. He also excelled as an all-round brilliant boy. I think he was extraordinary, because he was very good in subjects that I dreaded, including Geography and Latin! I hated those subjects.’’ Though BBHS was and still a Christian school, Prince Ajibola and another classmate of his , Amiru Taiwo Adegbenro were the only Muslims who never converted to Christianity out of a large number of Muslims pupils. Prince Ajibola, who had earlier while growing up attended the popular Alfa Bisi Quaranic school, is indeed a chip of the old block. No wonder, His Royal Highness, Oba Olufemi Adewunmi Ogunleye, in his own account of his friendship with Justice Ajibola, titled, ‘Judge Bola Ajibola: Glory all the way,’ concluded that is what you can call the true son of his father. Recounting their experience while growing up, Oba Ogunleye said, ‘’ One of my early lessons as a child from the revered Olowu Gbadela Ajibola was that he was an epitome of love and kindness to all and sundry. Although a devout Muslim, Kabiyesi never shunned people who kept faith in other religions, particularly the traditional ones who often thronged the palace. ‘’He might not believe in their faith but as the custodian of culture and tradition of his people, he was open and available all the time for the pleasure of his subjects. Not only would he grant them royal presence, he would also give them bountiful gifts before they departed the palace. He was a listening royal father who was adored by his people from Abeokuta and all the hinterland villages and hamlets. ‘’In later life when I came across Prince Bola Ajibola, the truism in the Yoruba proverb, ‘Omo t’erin ba bi, erin ni yio jo’ (the calf of an elephant is bound to replicate the elephant) is self-pronounced in his character. ‘’ There is no doubt that his father HRM Oba Adesumbo Ajibola had a huge impact and influence on the young Ajibola and whatever he has become today, is as a result of years of tutelage inside the Oba’s sprawling palace in Owu kingdom. One can rightly conclude that, the dizzying height that the eminent Jurist has achieved in Law, Arbitration and Justice were founded on the informal training given

to him by his late father and the fact that, Oba Adesumbo Ajibola knew the importance of education and veered the young Ajibola from farming and acting. Apart from being a staunch Muslim like his father, Prince Ajibola learnt proverbs and idioms from his late father whose repertoire of the language was matchless. While serving as a Judge at the World Court, he was the cynosure of all eyes, even amongst his contemporaries. They were often awed at his knowledge, mastery and use of rich Yoruba proverbs. The eminent Jurist must have found home in one of Chinua Achebe’s favourite quotes in Things Fall Apart , which says, ‘Proverbs are the palm oil with which words are eaten.’ No wonder, Prince Ajibola makes an eloquent speaker at different fora because he never lacks humour and jokes in the delivery of his papers or impromptu ones. He is definitely an audience’s delight and there is no dull time with Prince Ajibola as the speaker. In fact, people would go home with one or two proverbs and jokes! It is no happenstance that all of Justice Ajibola’s children are Lawyers. In fact, his first son, Prince Mahruf Adesegun Ajibola, is a Senior Advocate of Nigeria (SAN). According to him, ‘’Yes, you are correct to say that the legal profession has been so profound in my family.’’ But when asked if the children were compelled to study Law, he said, ‘’They were not forced to choose Law at all. They picked Law because I exposed them to it. When I was in the practice, I usually took them with me to the court and they got used to knowing about Law and its rudiments and they all promised to study Law.’’ Though he said he was glad that they all toed his line, but added that , ‘’I would not have felt anything if none had chosen to read Law, after all, they have the right to pick whatever they want to study.’’ Despite his accomplishment in Law, he cherishes farming and arts. According to him, ‘‘When I was younger, I used to be a good artist and I did a lot of drawing then. I was also good in acting. I would have also loved to be a farmer, too. In hand with all of these, I was also walking hand in hand with God, because in some cases, I had noticed the handwriting of our creator. ‘’Take yam for an example, if you plant yam and are expecting it to grow into a tuber, you have to know that the yam seed you planted would turn into ashes before it grows into a yam. I believe God is saying that He can allow anything to die in order to live. You must have also eaten ewedu. For the seed to grow, you must first of all boil it at over a hundred degrees after which you dry it very well, which means it is absolutely dead. You spread it on the floor and it starts growing immediately. If you do not boil it, it will not grow. It shows that God can take life and release it too. Lizards can re -grow their tails too. This shows that there is God.’’ At 80, Prince Ajibola , who is Nigeria’s longest serving Attorney General and Minister of Justice said, ‘’There is no difference. I just feel the same and I am grateful to God for letting me reach this age. I must acknowledge that it is quite a blessing from God, since I did not think I would reach 70 years of age after having over used my body, mentally and physically. I used to work overnight in Britain in order to go to school in those days. ‘’ All my strenuous efforts were because of money, since my father had given me the little he could. But I had to sustain myself at Holborn College. There was little that my parents could give me out of almost 25 children and all they could do was to make sure we had Secondary education, which I thank them for. But to get a Degree, I had to work so much, to the point that, I thought I would not make it.’’ Till date, Prince Bolasodun Abdul Jabbar Adesunmbo Ajibola remains a colossus and reference point in the Legal profession. We at Ovation International Magazine celebrate one of the best products to have ever come out of the Nigerian Legal profession. 263

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CELEBRATIONS BEGIN WITH 80TH BIRTHDAY LECTURE AT CRESCENT UNIVERSITY

Prof. Hamzat Ahmadu, celebrant, Prince Bola Ajibola (SAN) with Ogun State Governor, Senator Ibikunle Amosun

The celebrant, Prince Bola Ajibola (SAN), Ogun State Governor, Ibikunle Amosun with Hon. (Dr.) Usman Bugaje (Guest Lecturer)

Hon. Comm. For Inormation and Strategy, Alhaji Yusuph Olaniyonu with Senator Tokunbo Afikuyomi

Hon. (Dr.) Usman Bugaje, Guest Lecturer

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Oba Adegboyega Dosunmu (Olowu of Vice Chancellor, Prof. K. A. Okeleye Owu Kingdom)

The Registrar, Barr. Zakariya Ajibola

Barr. Akinmade Ajibola

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80TH BIRTHDAY PARTY Story: Emmanuel T. Edward Photo: Ken Ehimen & Abraham Falodun

Cutting of the cake: Prof. Hamzat Ahmadu, Gov. Kayode Fayemi, Gov. Ibikunle Amosun, celebrant, Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu, Mrs. Ajibola & Prince Segun Ajibola (SAN)

reatness, they say, is never stumbled upon. It is neither accidental nor gifted to an individual on mere luck. In other words, it is the premium for tireless hard work steadily patterned with dexterity, determination and keen focus toward a goal-oriented mission. Similarly, great men of valor are few who have distinguished themselves in their respective professions. They are men who have risen to the pinnacle of their professions and careers even in the face of daunting obstacles.

These rare virtues and more have singled out a man of noble character on a pedestal of prominence, a man worthy of emulation. We are referring to the revered Jurist and Founder of Abeokuta's citadel of academic excellence, Crescent University. Prince Abdul Jabar Bolasodun Adesunmbo Ajibola (SAN). Prince Ajibola is a profound social changer, power house of knowledge, philanthropist, self-starter, robust thinker and giant of the legal profession. This blue-blood was born to the Royal family of

Oba Abdul-Salam Ajibola Gbadela II, on the 22nd of March 1934 in the ancient Kingdom of Owu. In 1942, Judge Ajibola began his Primary and Secondary education in Baptist Day School and Baptist Boysâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; High School, both in Abeokuta, between 1942 and 1955. As a young Prince, he showed keen interest in traditional Arts, Law, Justice and Arbitration. Little wonder, the beautiful city of Abeokuta, Ogun State quaked with drums of joy, chants of praise backed up with fine appurtenances of sweet melodies-

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Prince & Mrs. Bola Ajibola with council of chiefs

Senator & Mrs. Tokunbo Afikuyomi with Mr. & Mrs. Dele Awosika

AIG Tunji Alapini (rtd) with Bashorun & Mrs. Dele Momodu

Hon. Segun Odubela, Hon. Oyetunde Ojo, Mrs. Modupe & Sen. Tokunbo Afikuyomi, Hon. Deji Jakande, Mr. Dupe Ashama with Segun Adesanya

all in jubilation of Prince Ajibola's golden entry into the privileged circle of Octogenarians. It was also an occasion to mark the 8th Founderâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Day of Crescent University, Abeokuta. Quite a handful of well wishers showered encomium on the celebrant. Taking the lead, Ogun State Governor, Sen. Ibikunle Amosun, described the celebrant as a juggernaut. "On behalf of the Government and the good people of Ogun State, I write to felicitate and rejoice with you as you mark your 80th birthday. As the Governor of our dear State, you remain a source of pride and inspiration to us and the nation at large." Also, the Coordinator of Ogun State Elders' Consultative Forum, Aremo Taiwo Allimi commended Judge Ajibola's contribution to development of Ogun 266

State. In his words, "At 80, we salute Prince Ajibola, the Founding Chairman of the Ogun State Elders' Consultative Forum for unequalled commitment to continued peace in Ogun State and the exhibition of leadership by example." He further noted that Prince Ajibola's vast contributions to policy formation and implementation to the betterment of the peopleâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s life is second to none. In the same vein, (Dr.) Oba Olusanya Adegboyega Dosunmu, CON Akobi Oodua, Amororo ll, Olowu of Owu Kingdom, expressed his joy as he wished the celebrant more fruitful years on earth. Oba Dosunmu referred to Justice Ajibola as an embodiment of peace and kindness, "One whose philanthropic gestures knows no limit, a tireless giver and an upright leader,"

he maintained. The ceremony tagged "So Far, So Glorious" led on with an educative and intriguing lecture session at Bola Ajibola Auditorium 2, Crescent University, Abeokuta, Ogun State. Speaking on the topic "Leadership and Governance in Nigeria: Opportunities and Challenges," Hon. (Dr.) Usman Bugaje captured the challenges of a failed democracy and the dearth of dependable leadership, empty promises as well as politics without content. While examining the specific challenges of Nigerian politics and glowing opportunities, Hon. Bugaje advanced his lecture with critical analyses on issues affecting the nation and relative solutions that

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Mrs. Omolara Otuyelu, Hajia Abba Folawiyo, Mrs. Yetunde Onile-ere with Lady Emmanuella Abiodun Aisien

Asiwaju Ahmed Bola Tinubu, His Excellency, Ibikunle Amosun, Yusuf Ali (SAN), Prince Bola Ajibola with Prof. Ishaq Oloyede

Mrs. Yetunde Onile-ere, Hajia Abba Folawiyi with Prince Bola Ajibola & his, wife Mrs. Ajibola

Bayo with Kemi Ogundemi

Mr. & Mrs. O. A. Ogunbayo

Omoâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ba & Mrs. Akin Olugbade

Olori Bosun Dosunmu with Princess Adekemi Amoye

Alhaja Adijat Otun

Alhaji Hamzat Adenekan

Mrs. Dupe Afikuyomi & Mrs. Toyin Awosika

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Ekiti State Governor, Kayode Fayemi, Senator Tokunbo Afikuyomi with Ogun State Governor Ibikunle Amosun

Taiwo, Dupe Ashama, Mrs. Dupe Afikuyomi, Debo, Jimi & Olufemi

Busola Ojo with Ajoke Akinrinsola

Dr. Onalopo Soleye, Prof. T. O. Bamkole with Elder Oladipo Yemitan

Emeritus Professor Anthony Asiwaju with Dr. (Chief) Kehinde Jibodu

Chief Akinbode, Prince Kadiri Adebisi & Chief Edun

Mrs. Ebun Adeyemi with Mrs. Omolola Badru

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Febisola Akintayo, Fadekemi Akinsola & Adedoyin Sanni

Dipo Ajayi & Kenny Adeniyi

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Dayo Elegbe with Dele Awosika

Otunba & Mrs. Thompson Daramola

Tinu Akin-Taylor with Toro Fashanu

Barr. Molara Alakija with Otunba (Mrs.) Lola Adefope

Mrs. Toyin Awosika with Mr. & Mrs. Oladipo Sarumi

Mrs. Oluwatoyin Awosika with her children, Obasomidele, Obatunmike & Obademilade

could help salvage the remains of our decaying democracy. Later, the ceremony wore a new look and this time, it shifted base to the cozy and serene arena of DLK Events Centre, M.K.O Abiola Way, Abeokuta-an ideal spot to host a royal feast with friends and family members. The big hall was already decorated in a dazzling display of colours, a rich blend of Blue and White chiffon materials. Beyond the beauty of the reception room, sweet rhythms wafted from the P.A. systems as guests began to arrive. In honour to God, prayers were offered and the party was officially declared opened. Taking centre stage, Chairman of the occasion, His Majesty, Oba Adegboyega Dosunmu, the Olowu of Owu Kingdom, welcomed the guests as he took time to extol the successful strides of the celebrant. In his words, "Judge Ajibola deserves to be celebrated for his ingenuity by all and sundry. A man who has risen to the apex of his career through doggedness and unflattering persistency. Indeed, he is a true son of Yoruba land.â&#x20AC;? He spoke in matchless clarity and was showered with rounds of applause. Unusual excitement soared as guests were delighted to a feature film showing the life and times of the celebrant in service to Nigeria. It was an exclusive footage that demonstrated the journey of Prince Ajibola through the narrow corridors of hard worksustained with burning determination. Who can blame

him? After all, it was his day and he needed no apology in flaunting his well- earned accomplishments. The feature film was promptly followed by the speech of Chief Executive Officer, Islam Channel (United Kingdom), Sheikh Mohammad Alli. Sheikh Alli lauded Prince Ajibola for his mentorship of African youths who are regarded as tomorrow's leaders. He further described him, as a noble intellect and nation builder. In a lighter mood, the celebration pitched high with a refreshing moment of scintillating cultural display. Everyone was caught up in a sea of hearty cheers and laughter. The cultural performance had a rich dialogue and captivating suspense thrill- a play that kept the excited audience in anticipation of an approaching climax. Their anxiety was soon over, as the cultural troupe brought to fore the creative plot of the play in an almost magical and dramatic fashion. This lively occasion like none other, enjoyed the presence of esteemed dignitaries and prominent personalities from all walks of life, including Ogun State Gov. Sen. Ibikunle Amosun FCA, HRM Oba Adegboyega Dosunmu Olowu of Owu Kingdom, Bashorun Dele Momodu, Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu, Hon. Oyetunji Ojo, Toyin Awosika,Sen. Gbenga Obadara, Otunba Yomi, Hon. Tokunbo Afikuyomi, Justice Ayodele Phillips, Kola Abiola, Otunba Subomi Balogun, Princess Bisi Gbadebo, Justice Ademola Bakare, Hon. Segun Adesanya and Dapo Sarumi, amongst others. At the height of the event, the celebrant was invited

for the cutting of the cake ceremony. He was filled with gratitude and the cheerful lines on his face told it all. His tender smiles reflected satisfaction and fulfillment as he cut the beautiful cakes. The white three stepped cake was adorned with some ornamental decorations, in which the golden crown, resting on the cake dignified Prince Ajibola as the stellar of law in the country. Thereafter, the celebrant with great delight, slowly rocked from left to right to the soothing melodies from none other than Evangelist Ebenezer Obey. Cutting of the cake ushered in the refreshment session, where guests were thoroughly regaled with mouth-watering delicacies from continental dishes to African meals and refined choice wines. Drawing the curtains on this especial event, the celebrant emphasized his gratitude to the guests. He remarked, "I do hereby express my profound and heartfelt gratitude and appreciation to everyone who took part one way or another in making my 80th Birthday Anniversary a resounding success. May God Almighty reward and bless you all." Later on, one of his sons and Vice Chancellor of Crescent University, Prince Mahruf Adesegun Ajibola (SAN) delivered the vote of thanks. He thanked his warm appreciation to everyone who made their father's birthday a success. As they say, all good things must come to an end. And so it was here. Everyone parted ways at the close of the evening having pleasured in the delightful train of educative, intriguing and breathless moments of fun-that the day offered. 269

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Hon. Oye Ojo, Dele Alake, Mrs. Dupe & Sen. Toks Afikuyomi wioth Hon. Deji Jakande

Hon. & Mrs Gbolahan Eleshin

Funmilola Osunode & Bisi Ajenifuja

Hon. Dele Alake with Chief (Mrs.) Kemi Nelson

Muka Amusan with Barr. Demola Ajibola

Mr. & Mrs. Bayo Amusan

Shade, Adeola, Folake, Olaide & Remilekun

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Segun & Toyin Oderinde

Mary Alakhume, Muyiwa Kola James & Mr. Akanni

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Mr. & Mrs. Ayo-Kasumu

Mrs. Yinka Paul with Mrs. Solape Adio

Mr. & Mrs. Seni Adio

Segun Ogunsanya with Mrs. Bolaji Momodu

Hon. Deji Jakande, Mrs. Bolaji Momodu with Mr. Dupe Ashama

Senator & Mrs. Afikuyomi, Funmi Osunsade & Bisi Ajenifuja

Mrs. Toyin Awosika, Senator Afikuyomi, Mrs. Bolaji Momodu with Mrs. Dupe Afikuyomi

Evangelist Ebenezer Obey performing on stage

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I AM PASSIONATE ABOUT

ROAD SAFETY -MR. CHIDI NKWONTA FRSC, LAGOS SECTOR COMMANDER

Interview: Michael Effiong Photo: Adekoya Adegbite

I will say our major challenge has been resistance to law and the lack of support from the Lagos State government. Lagos sees FRSC as a federal institution and as such, we have not received any form of support from the government. It is even now that they are soft-pedalling. They used to physically confront our Corps members and insist that we should be restricted to Interstate roads, as if Lagos is not a part of Nigeria. r. Chidi Nkwonta is a thorougbred officer and gentleman. He is one man who does not joke with safety on the road. As the Lagos Sector Commander, Federal Road Safety Corps (FRSC) in Nigeria, his brief is to ensure that residents of Lagos, the nation’s busiest city use the roads safely and steer clear of accidents. In this interview, he discusses the challenges of his assignment and more.

How has Lagos been for you

It has been very interesting and challenging. Lagos is the only place that feels like Lagos, with the hustling and commercial activities as well as its overpopulation, both vehicular and human. So, it has been very challenging, as we find all kinds of characters on the road every day. Before Lagos, which Sector Command were you

I was the Head of Project Implementation at the office of the Corp Marshal in the Headquarters and held that position for five years. So, in truth, I was in the bureaucracy. So, how does it feel to be on the field

From drafting Project Implementation plans to being the one implementing it, are two extremes. Firstly, I was like a fish out of water, because I had to execute the policies I had made before and I see execution is quite different from staying in the office and reviewing other’s performances. But then, I come from a background, where at the conceptual level, I understand what should be done and most of the initiatives practised here were drafted by me. I am currently in the process of transformation, because I have gone past the theory stage and my team are now seeing the author of the theories himself. It is making more sense to them, because they see that I am passionate about the job. They tend to step up and in a way, I am changing their orientation for the better. What have been the major challenges you have faced as a Commander in Lagos

members and insist that we should be restricted to Interstate roads, as if Lagos is not a part of Nigeria. But the FRSC says, we have the right to work on all public roads. Apart from that, Lagos citizens are very challenging. Has there been any effort to communicate with the authorities in Lagos

Yes and the relationship is improving. We have been in touch with a few authorities and slowly, we are beginning to close this gap. Sometime ago, I visited the Executive Secretary of the Lagos Security Trust Fund and I discussed with him what we were doing at FRSC; which is majorly security because we monitor motorists and pedestrians. If they go unchecked, they can ignite the State in an hour. Imagine when the Unions go on rampage. I made it known that, it was time for our isolation to stop. Yes, it is a Federal Commission, but Lagos too is a part of the country. We often hear that Federal institutes are to be funded by the government, but the truth is, the funding should come from public funds, whether State or Federal. Road safety is a community service and it is everybody’s business, because everybody uses roads. If you leave it to just the FRSC or LASTMA, the job will not get done, there has to be a synergy of support, otherwise, who knows who the next victim will be? Do you normally arrange special patrols for days like festival periods

Yes, we do. FRSC is 26 years and over the years, we have studied accident patterns. We know where they happen and even have demographic reports of the accidents. Because of our experience, we know that there is a tendency of increased crashes during festive periods; Valentine’s especially. So, we want to be preemptive, to caution people and we will even have alcohol tests in various parts of Lagos, especially on the Island. More so, what we want to achieve is deterrence. If they see we are there, they will behave. Veering a bit, how is the driver’s license issue

progressing, since we still hear of complaints over procuring or renewing of licenses

Lagos is a peculiar case, since it is only here that you hear about such occurrences. I am sure back home in your State, no one is complaining about driver’s licenses because the process is smooth over there. From experience, Lagos hosts at least 4-5 million drivers which is, statistically almost 50 per cent of the driving population in Nigeria. Because of that, there is always pressure. When this new license regime started, there were seven centres up and running until the deadline was placed and the mad rush began and overran the facilities. So, we are both combining opening new centres with revamping the existing ones. Recall that two years ago, the Federal Government stopped the driver’s license programme for about nine months and that seriously delayed the plan we had. That also impacted on the delays people experience now. After we got our mandate to start afresh, there was the need to do the left-over and we needed Biometric data, since it was useless to just have driver’s license without having a database. So, everybody had to cross over to the new database, so that, their license would be meaningful. So, we gave a deadline of 30th September last year, hence the rush, but because FRSC is responsible for the service, we had to plead for another 9months; thus shifting the deadline to June 30th. With the extension and expansion currently going on, I believe it is just a matter of time before everything is sorted out. Realistically, how long will it take to get a driver’s license in Lagos

Ideally, when this scheme was birthed, it was supposed to be a one week process and every activity was held in one place. You pay to the bank, print your form and get it verified by a motor agency that in turn authorises the VIO to test you. If you pass, you are sent to the capture unit, all in the same premises in

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FRSC started a Managing Performance System much like the ones we see in oil companies and private sectors, but it was domesticated and was the first in Nigeria. I was the steward of that project and I developed it with the help of a Consultant. After everything was in place, we had to ask ourselves if the project would be a success and with the hard work of the Corp Marshal, we pushed it forward. FRSC is the first and only public service unit that uses Managing Performance System but two years ago, the Presidency adopted it and decided through the National Planning Ministry to see if they can introduce it to the sub -national levels. They are still at that level of planning, whereas we have been using that system for almost five years now. FRSC. After all these, you are given a temporary license, which is as good as the original. The essence of the temporary licence is to inhibit multiple licences, since each of these licences is fed into our database after which an original licence is prepared for you. But like I said before, the entire process was truncated, pushing us to manage an already bad situation. To answer your question directly, last year, it would take you about 3 months to get a license but right now, with the expansion of facilities, that gap has closed by a month and hopefully by the end of 2014, we will go back to our one week target. I have a friend who was supposed to have had her capture in March but had to wait till October for it, is that the normal procedure

Like I said, there was a backlog and a surge in persons. But with this current expansion, all that would soon stop. So, for someone like me who does not want to waste too much time, I should probably wait till December 2014

No, you cannot wait till then to do a renewal, since the deadline was by June 30th. If you fail to meet the deadline, you will be recognised as a new applicant and that means driving school all over again. We also had issues with vehicle licensing

The scheme we are running is not directly involved with licensing. Although, when you change a plate number, you are changing the vehicle license. But the case of plate numbers only takes about three hours in Lagos here and you get your registration too. So, we have no problems with licensing. Tell us a bit about yourself, why you decided to join the FRSC

You already know my name, Chidi Nkwonta Benjamin and I come from a paramilitary home because my father was a policeman. As such, my upbringing was based on the law. My first degree was in Philosophy which I got from the Cross Rivers State University, now known as University of Uyo. I graduated in 1989, served the next year and I

wanted to further my studies in Law. But the FRSC was initiated then and I signed up so that I could fund my education, because as at that time, I was doing a Post Graduate Diploma in Public Administration. I planned to just hold the post for two years, join a Bank, gather enough money and then come back and do Law. So, when I got into FRSC, I started enjoying the respect, acceptance and reverence that FRSC used to have when it was first initiated. When I joined, my salary was N780 in 1990 and by 1992, it was increased to N2870. Then if we went out for functions and you invited us for lunch, we declined, seeing it as bribery. That way, we were celebrated. Also, the environment also allowed for progress in my education and it was there I finished my MBA in Public Administration. I was also encouraged to go back to school. I was partly sponsored to read Law and by the time my Masters was in the offing, I was able to fully sponsor myself through it. My career here has been very interesting because I have had just four postings since I joined. I was in Enugu when I joined in 1990 to 1996 after which I moved to the Headquarters where I spent at least 17 years. I had a stint in 1992 in Port Harcourt, for just two months, adding those to my posting to Lagos last September. I was more interested in bureaucracy, that was why they found me relevant in the Head quarters and it was difficult for them to let me go. It almost got to the point where I was loaned to the National Planning Ministrey where I participated in various Federals, ad-hoc activities. Being a Lawyer and having studied Philosophy, I must admit that I can write very well and that was my greatest selling point, since documentation was of utmost importance to the bureaucracy. FRSC started a Managing Performance System much like the ones we see in oil companies and private sectors, but it was domesticated and was the first in Nigeria. I was the steward of that project and I developed it with the help of a Consultant. After 273

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FRSC are an ISO certified organisation, the only certified uniform organisation in Africa today. And the World Bank has even acknowledged our progress. When the Federal Government looks for an examplary organisation, they point to the FRSC. You would recall that, the National Committee recommended that we should be scraped, but the government cannot afford to scrap its most organised unit. For three years now, we have won various awards, locally and internationally. Our staff members stand out and we have a manual for everything. We have Quality Management Department which encapsulates the entire existence of the FRSC and the truth is that, we are the organisation to beat. everything was in place, we had to ask ourselves if the project would be a success and with the hard work of the Corp Marshal, we pushed it forward. FRSC is the first and only public service unit that uses Managing Performance System but two years ago, the Presidency adopted it and decided through the National Planning Ministry to see if they can introduce it to the sub -national levels. They are still at that level of planning, whereas we have been using that system for almost five years now. How has that helped the FRSC Mr. Nkwonta on one of his inspection tours

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The Sector Commander, Mr. Nkwonta addressing drivers

It has helped us overtake our peers. FRSC are an ISO certified organisation, the only certified uniform organisation in Africa today. And the World Bank has even acknowledged our progress. When the Federal Government looks for an examplary organisation, they point to the FRSC. You would recall that, the National Committee recommended that we should be scraped, but the government cannot afford to scrap its most organised unit. For three years now, we have won various awards, locally and internationally. Our staff members stand out and we have a manual for everything. We have Quality Management Department which encapsulates the entire existence of the FRSC and the truth is that, we are the organisation to beat. Sometimes, you will see some of our Corps members on the road and you would be led to believe the organisation is unorganised but the truth is that, they are just reacting to the environment they find themselves in. Besides, out of every 12, there is always a Judas. I am trying as much as possible to make the FRSC as professional as possible. We are also fighting corruption, because the society is so corrupt out there, that some of the Corps buckle under pressure. To tackle this, we have set up a truly effective intelligence unit. Even after 26 years of existence, you can say we have a few bad eggs, but you cannot say that, the whole organisation is corrupt. I can beat my chest to say that, we are still

one of the best in the whole country. What other things should we expect from the Corps

The issue of Nigeria generally, is not the creation of innovations, but its implementation. We have enough projects on ground, but it is how to make them a reality that is the problem. So, we will improve our enforcement, since we are clearly not an entertainment medium. We apply the principles of the Three E’s, Education, Enlightenment and Enforcement and we are at the stage of Enforcement. So, Lagosians should expect more enforcement from me because I realised that a critical problem requires a critical solution. Traffic management is serious business and obedience is important. So, I will improve my Enlightenment scheme, so that, there will be no grudge held when enforcement kicks in. How have you been able to juggle family and work

It has not been easy. Presently, my family is in Abuja. The nature of our work is impromptu and transfers can happen at any time. I have stayed five months here and I do not know how long I will stay here. So, the wise thing to do is settle my family. Having been married for seven years, learning again to be a Bachelor is not easy because I have to do most domestic work myself. Given a chance, I would love to go back to my family members because separation is not good. I also have some health challenges that my wife spots at once, even when I am oblivious to them. The separation too has put a lot of pressure on my finances because I have to maintain two families, travel to see my family members, after all, I have to be a father figure, otherwise my children would call you ‘Uncle’ and they will not be balanced when they grow. I also have an extended family in Enugu, adding that to the family in Abuja and me in Lagos, you have to admit that it is not really easy. But I am coping very well . Life is about balance.

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HOW I WROTE

WEEPING CHERRY -KEMI SANTOS-OMANUKWUE

he Weeping Cherry is a work of fiction that revolves around Meredith Hart. Meredith Hart, a teenager is the protagonist. She discovers that she has been lied to, her entire life by her mother. Once the truth is revealed, the intrigues that emanate from the revelations wreak havoc on life as she knows it. The story revolves around Meredith's quest for the truth and the difficulty she faces as a result of the revelation. She tries to understand the complexity of her feelings for a boy that isn't 'quite' human and also tries to save her family from a deadly end in the hands of her suddenly many antagonists. The Author Kemi Santos-Omanukwue exhibits an exceptional knowledge of adventure, the complexities of teenage romance and the undisputable battle between fear and faith. The Weeping Cherry emphasizes the importance of loyalty and the pains from that come from making the infamous choice. She brings together characters from Nigeria, Canada, Ireland, Russia and many more. Most intriguing is the fictional sea-world that keeps reaching for reality in its detail. Later, we had this engaging interview with the author where she spoke about her self and the book.

Tell us about yourself

I’m a lawyer, a Member of the Nigerian Bar Association and a Certified Paralegal, Member of the Law Society of Upper Canada. I’m an author and I live in Canada with my husband and sons. When did you start writing

Two early memories stand out as the genesis of my writing. One was in primary four at Pampers Private School where I kept drawing flowers, tiny heads and bigger heads – that was my own way of telling a story. The other was at Vivian Fowler Memorial College, I was nine years old. I wanted to remember the definition of an office by heart, so my mum suggested that I keep writing the definition over and over again, to aid my memory. Sometime later, my mum came to where I sat and asked what I was still doing. She realised that I had gone passed that definition and I was now telling of how the office was trying to eat the secretary who would not close from work. So I guess that was when it started for me. Is Weeping Cherry your first book

No, it isn’t. It’s just the first book I decided to publish. When did you start writing Weeping Cherry

November 2011. What happened in that time

Well, prior to that time I was trying to get through the loss of my father, being nervous about almost losing my mother, getting married, graduating from law school, becoming a lawyer, being a mother, achieving other dreams. By November, I just had to accept that I would have to publish it, if I started. I published it in 2013. What inspired the Weeping Cherry saga

I was always intrigued by fantasy fiction which relates to creatures especially in my teens but what inspired my book, Weeping Cherry, was a trending insult I saw on the internet in 2011 to the African capabilities with regards our imagination and creativity when it came to storytelling and movie making. I always thought we created the most amazing stories not movies. Thor was out and it was being compared to Sango (the African god of thunder). I never thought the movie under scrutiny – Sango, was bad. As a matter of fact, the story line created a pretty frightening, fierce and unapproachable god unlike

Thor who was just eye candy with a hammer (laughs). What is the sory about

Meredith Hart, a teenager, is the protagonist. She discovers that she has been lied to her entire life by her mother. The story revolves around her quest for the truth and the difficulty she faces as a result of the revelation. She tries to understand the complexity of her feelings for a boy that isn't 'quite' human and also tries to save her family from a disastrous end in the hands of her many antagonists. What do you do other than write

I am a lawyer and I run my company O.G.R Ltd that recruits Nigerian students for placements in colleges in Canada. I swim regularly but I would love to participate in a car race, jump off a cliff into water and deep-sea dive. Favorite book

My favorite book is the Bible. It has everything I need in a book and it has changed my life. Other books, not in order of preference are Merchant of Venice (Shakespeare), Things Fall Apart (Chinua Achebe), The Concubine (Elechi Amadi), Count of Monte Cristo (Alexander Dumas), The gods Are Not to Blame (Ola Rotimi) but I found the original Greek story Oedipus and liked it more. I love books, I love stories. Tell us about your competition

The competition is very simple. I want my readers to interpret a Weeping Cherry character by sending me a picture, photograph, of any Nigerian character in the book. Follow the Author on twitter. Follow Weeping Cherry on facebook. Visit the website www.weepingcherrysaga.com for more information. Participate in the Competition and get a chance to win N20,000, N30,000 and N50,000 and loads of other fantastic prizes. Books are sold on Amazon, Barnes and Noble and www.buylikemagic.com 275

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FAMILY AND FRIENDS, MOURN THE

PA DAVID AKOGBETO

LATE

IN OUEME, BENIN REPUBLIC By Dominic Zed & Jeanne-Frances Maduakor

Mme Alaba Noelie

Late Mr. David Akogbeto

Benin Police officers paying thier last hommage

Gabonese Pastors blessing late Papa David

Evelyn, the berieved Mme Yvette, Mammy Pasteur, Jean-Rene & Laetitia

hen the death of Mr. David Akogbeto was announced last August, the Akogbeto family was thrown into great distress and sorrow because the pillar on which most of their lives was propped had gone. But because during his lifetime, their father had entrusted everything in the hands of the Almighty God whom he served, honored, worshipped, and who took center-stage at everyof his dealings; they too took it that way. Akogbeto who was husband, father,

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grand-father, great grandfather, uncle, brother and friends to countless people was born on January 04, 1921, in the valley town of Hozin in Oueme, Benin Republic. He lived more than half of his life in Gabon, where he worked very hard in order to pursue poverty far from his family. And he did succesfully! An astute businessman, Mr. Akogbeto was able to expand his business empire and running his large family perfectly at the same time! He achieved this feat because of the enormous wisdom God had invested in

orsque le décès de Mr David Aït Oussa Akogbéto a été annoncé en Août dernier, la famille Akogbéto a été jetée dans une grande détresseparce que le pilier, sur la plupart de leurs vies qui a été visée avait disparu. Mais parce que pendant la durée de sa vie, leur père a confié tout dans les mains de Dieu Tout-puissant qu’il a servi, ils ont accepté son décès comme ça. Monsieur David Aït Oussa Akogbéto qui était père, grand-père, oncle, frère et ami á d’innombrables

personnes est né le 4 janvier1921 à Hozin dans la vallée de l’Ouémé en République du Benin mais il a vécu plus de la moitié de sa vie au Gabon, où il a travaillé trèsdur afin de poursuivre la pauvreté loin de sa famille et il réussit. Un homme d’affaires avisé, Mr Akogbéto a pu étendre son empirecommercial et passer sa grande famille parfaitement dans le même temps, il réalise cet exploit en raison de l’énorme Dieu de la sagesse qui avait investi en lui, qui lui a fait solliciter comme un sage dans sa

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Evelyn, Noelie & Stella with Kady

Jean-Rene, Evelyn & Clemencia Akogbeto

Jean-Rene consoling his mother

Laetitia & her hubby

Laetitia Chablis

Landry, Jean-Claude & Charles

Mme Souamy

Mme Yvette Akogbeto flanked by her children & relatives

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The Alabas, the Ngaris with Eric & Serge Akogbeto

Mme Yvette, Evelyn, Mammy Pasteur & Virginie

Mr. & Mrs. Elias Akobeto

Mr. & Mrs. Alaba Fall Bosco

Mr. & Mrs. Menzene

Mme Yvette Joanna-Akogbeto

Mr. Eric Mankey-Akogbeto

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Stella Didet

Mr. & Mrs. Alaba with Nandy with Tina

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The Akogbeto family

The jolly Akogbeto sisters

Noelie, Pierrette, Laetitia & Olivia Akogbeto

Mr. & Mrs. Alaba with their inlaws

Mr. & Mr.s Meiye John Philip with Mme Epouta

Teddy, Veronique, Patrick & Robert

The Alabas & relatives

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Noelie Alaba & her brother in-laws

Noelie et son epoux

Mme Virginie, Dr Ategbo & Noelie Alaba

Chantal, Mme Akogbeto, Olivia & Jean-Claude

Alaba Mbou Mathurin, Ontala Robert & Angue Villard

Alice & Emily

Anais, Noelie, Aurelia & Olivia

Didier & Stephanie Ping with Serge

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Eric, Jeannot, Elias, Serge, Noelie & Emmanuel Akogbeto

Didier Ping & Veronique Bongo Mbou

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Beau Frere, Huguette Belle Soeur & Huguette Tante Benett

Belle soeur Marie, Therese, Ntonga. Epouta. Solange, Amie & Mettou Loko

Epouta Grace & Anais Anguilet Soglo

Esther, Owono Murielle, Pasteur Claude & Francois

Francois, Soeur, Anais & niece

Freres et Soeurs de Stella & Mr. Francois.

Grace, Charline Epouta, husband's family from Gabon

Grace Epouta

Granddaughters holding the gerbes

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Cross section of family & relatives

Family from Gabon

Mr & Mme Guedon Desire, (Gabonese Minister)

Marcel Mboulet, Beau frere

Massala Liliane, Delphine

Mensah Gisele, Mme Mbilie, Mme Massala Liliane (Amies)

Mignone, Kondja Aline, Sickout Delphine

Mme Leontine Matas, Mr. Mboulet Marcel

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Mr. & Mrs. Epouta, Francois & Stella

Mr & Mme Guedon with Mme Moubelet

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Mr & Mme Noubelet Boubeya Pacome. Minister of Enseignement superieur

Mr Epouta Francois et son Epouse Stella

Mr KONDJA;beau frere

Nadia, laudry,Honore,Jean Patrick

Noelie ALABA,Stella Epouta,Oncle Andre Akogbeto,Dorothee Dossou

Yabi Herve,Okogho Valkin & Elle Yabi

Enfants Akogbeto, leurs Epouses et leurs Epoux

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Anais, Olivia Ngari, Arielle & Melle Menest

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Chantal Ranozinault, Akogbeto Yvette, Olivia & Charles Ranozinault

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Farita, Olivia & Fatima

Laetitia

Mme Ngari Olivia

Mme Ngari et Mme Durand Helene

Mme et Mme Idriss Ngari et Anais

Mr & Mme Idriss

Mr & Mme Ngari

Noelie et Olivia

him which made him to be solicited as a sage in his community; counseling members of his family and other people with Christian values and the wealth of experiences he had accrued from his work and travels. He was much loved by his entire family, on whom he left a little of himself-his wisdom, his faith in God and especially his exceptional great sense of

humor! He taught all those around him perseverance, courage, patience thanks to his strength of character. No wonder all His children, grandchildren, great grandchildren, dignitaries from all walks of life, friends and wellwishers gathered to show respect to this great pillar of a man that meant everything to them.

communauté; pour prodiguer conseils aux membres de sa famille et d’autres personnes les valeurs chrétiennes et la richesse des expériences qu’il avait à payer de son travail et de ses voyages. Il était très aimé par toute sa famille, à qui il a laissé un peu de luimême, sa sagesse, sa foi en Dieu et surtout son exceptionnel sens de l’humour. Il a enseigné tout son

entourage la persévérance, le courage, la patience, grâce à sa force de caractère. Pas étonnant que tous ses enfants, petits-enfants, arrière-petits-enfants, des dignitaires de tous les horizons de lavie, amis et sympathisants se sont réunis pour montrer du respect à ce grand pilier d’un homme qui était tout pour eux. 285

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Olivia et Eric

Mr. Elias Akobeto

Mr. Ngari Idriss

Olivia, Anais & Laetitia

Mr. Patrick Balou

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THE LOVELY WEDDING OF

JENNIFER OLUMESE AND OMORUYI AGBONLAHOR IN LAGOS

Story: Adebayo Rukayat Photo: Solomon Ekhaiyemhe

ate plays an essential role in the lives of human beings, although in different ways. Sometimes, the slightest things change the directions of our lives forever. It could be the simplest breath of a circumstance but what is meant to be will definitely find a way to being. This explains how beautiful, Jennifer Olumese met her heartthrob, Omoruyi Agbonlahor. On a Sunday morning, six years ago, Jennifer paid her friend, Eseosa, a visit at their family house in GRA, Ikeja, Lagos. On getting there, she met the absence of her friend but was lucky enough to find Eseosa’s kind-hearted brother, Omoruyi at home. He kept her company while she awaited her friend’s arrival. Both of them had never met before then even though their mothers had been friends since their Nursing School days. There and then, they struck a close friendship that flourished into a beautiful relationship.

Talking to OVATION, Jennifer revealed that Omoruyi popped the ‘big question’ after a romantic dinner at the Oriental Hotel, Lekki. She said, “We had just finished dinner at the Oriental. That was a norm. Afterwards, we proceeded to chill on the terrace for a bit before heading back home. All of a sudden he became quite shifty and uncomfortable and started asking odd questions and before long he popped the question ‘Will you marry me?’ and my response was ‘Yes’.” When their families became aware of their decision to tie the nuptial knots, plans began to fall in place for the big day. The traditional wedding took place at the bride’s father’s exquisite hangout, Niteshift Coliseum in Ikeja, Lagos. In a private ceremony witnessed by only the family, friends and relations of the couple, father of the bride, Guvnor Ken-Calebs Olumese

revealed that the relationship between the two families has been going on for over forty years. He also said, ‘Jennifer has a big problem and the problem is ensuring that the relationship between the families continues as she has to stick to her husband no matter the situation.’ The ceremony was rounded off with the Akaolebhegbe which is the formal way of handing over the bride to the groom in the Esan culture. It was performed by the representative of the bride’s family’s Village Head, Osaigbovo Edogun after which everyone proceeded to the reception for refreshments and classic entertainment. Musician and emcee, Rotimi Martins a.k.a Alariwo was compere of the event. The guests were treated to different delicacies and exotic drinks while they were entertained by the Edo Cultural troupe with their classic songs and dance steps. The ceremony was rounded off with a toast by the bride’s 287

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Guv’nor Ken Olumese with Mrs. Caroline Olumese (bride’s parents)

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Air Commodore & Mrs. Agbonlahor (groom’s parents)

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Mrs. Caroline Olumese congratulating couple

Couple with Officiating Ministers

The couple with the officiating Ministers

Air Commodore & Mrs. Agbonlahor (groom’s parents) with Guv’nor Ken Olumese with Mrs. Caroline Olumese (bride’s parents)

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Groom’s mother & sisters

The groom with his mother, Mrs. Aigbokhan Agbonlahor

Rev. Tana Olumese, Honeybell Olumese, Ofas Olumese & Mr. Ehi Braimah

Prince Kelly Okoro with Francis K. Adonoo

Groom’s parents with family members

Prince Okoro, Mr. & Mrs. Eric Yao with Air Commodore & Mrs. Agbonlahor (groom’s parents)

The couple with Guv’nor & Mrs. Caroline Olumese (bride’s parents)

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The couple with Mr. & Mrs. George Anyiam-Osigwe

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RECEPTION

The lovely couple

Senator Bode Olajumoke & Prof. Bolaji Akinyemi

Lady Maiden Alex Ibru & Olorogun Sunny Kuku

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Lady Maiden Alex Ibru with the groom’s parents

Guv’nor Ken Olumese with Prof. Bolaji Akinyemi

Mr. Ebun Sofunde (SAN) with wife

Mr. Young Arabamen with Ken Olumese & Mrs. Caroline Olumese (bride’s parents)

Prof. & Mrs. Durosinmi-Etti

Major Gen. & Mrs. Hafiz Momoh

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Jennifer Eliogu (Compere of the event)

Prof. & Mrs.Kofi Duncan

sister, Mrs. Cynthia Yinkere. Two days after, family, friends and well-wishers of the couple gathered again at the Archbishop Vining Memorial Church Cathedral to witness the solemnization of the union. The couple and their train arrived in grand style. Beautiful Jennifer was led into the church by her father, Ken-Calebs Olumese. The Lord Bishop of the Diocese of Lagos West, Rt. Revd. J. O. Odedeji was the Officiating Minister of the wedding and with no time wasted, the couple was pronounced man and wife. Everyone in the congregation was euphoric. After taking photographs in the right order, all the guests proceeded to the Niteshift Coliseum for the grand reception. The reception venue which was beautifully decorated by the exquisite Stagecraft Interior Decors was filled to the brim and of course dignitaries which included the CEO of Guardian Gbenga Adeyinka

Sunny Neji

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The couple with Lady Maiden Alex Ibru

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Prof. Bolaji Akinyemi shares toast with groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s parents

Major Gen. & Mrs. Hafiz Momoh

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Chief (Mrs.) Gladys Nwaukoni with Mrs. C. Uzoechina

The Azuh brothers: Amatus & Arinze

Sly Kuna with Emeka Ossai

Edi Lawani, Ehi Braimah & Guv’nor Ken Olumese

Mrs. V.A. Mgbada Dr. Onu Ifeoma

Mr. Lanre Ogunlesi (m)

Newspapers, Lady Maiden Alex Ibru; former Rivers State Governor, Mr. Young Arabamen, Prof. Bolaji Akinyemi, Paul Dike, Okubo Tony and a host of others. Ace comedian, Gbenga Adeyinka and veteran actress, Jennifer Eliogu were the comperes of the wonderful event. Guests were pampered with assorted delicacies, drinks and also with a thrilling performance from singing sensation, Sunny Neji with one of his best-selling tracks of all time Oruka that got both the couple and the guests moving rhythmically. The cutting of the cake was conducted by Lady Maiden Ibru after which the bride changed into a stunning knee-length ‘April by Kunbi’ gown and danced with glee. Later, Omoruyi delivered a stirring vote-of-thanks, expressing deep appreciation to everybody that came to felicitate with them. 296

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THE FUNERAL CEREMONY OF ASIWAJU OF ERINMO-IJESHA, CHIEF OLUBOWALE AJAYI Story: Funmilayo Adeyemi Photo: Ken Ehimen

The Ajayi family

look upon life as a gift from God,” said philosopher, Joyce Quary, “I did nothing to earn it. And now that the time has come for me to give it back, I have no right to complain." These stoical words capture the fact that no one has control over when he exits life’s stage; what in fact does matter is that, a man has fulfilled his earthly assignment before taking that final bow. Life has taught us that there are people who, even though they died in old age, very much like the iconic African figure, Nelson Mandela, their deaths still leave us shattered and in despair, mostly because of the key roles they played in our lives and what their very existence symbolised. Such was Chief (Dr.) Joseph Olubowale Ajayi, the Asiwaju of Erinmo-Ijesa of the Arowotawaya Ruling House, whose death on Friday, October 25, 2013 at the age of 75, threw the entire Erinmo community in Ijesha, Osun State, into mourning over the loss of a man, whom many described as a visionary community leader. Chief Ajayi died having contributed immensely to the development of his people in all ramifications. Those who spoke to OVATION described the late sage as a man who epitomized courage, transparency, honesty and modesty. The laudable developmental efforts of the ex-United Africa Company (UAC) Executive in Erinmo community were on the minds of residents when they took to town to protest his demise, refusing to accept that their hero had died of natural causes. The people of the town were saddened that his death had created a vacuum that would not be filled anytime soon, but then, fate’s word was final. It therefore became necessary to give him a befitting farewell due kings. At the fore of the preparations for this stately funeral was the first child of the deceased, Otunba Michael Ajayi, the Director General of Ghana-Nigeria Chamber of Commerce and Industry (GNCCI), as well as the Chief Executive Officer, Vintage Visions and

that all of his children were well-educated, each one of them growing to become accomplished professional in his or her field of endeavour. Other children of the deceased include, Mrs. Oreoluwa Famurewa, who is the Public & Regulatory Affairs Manager at Friesland Campina WAMCO Nigeria Plc., makers of Peak Milk and other quality brands; Mrs. Folahanmi Ibilola and Mrs. Oladiti Atoyebi, who are both lawyers and businesswomen; Mrs. Temitope Alao, a banker in the United States of America and Mr. Joshua Ajayi, we gathered, is a professional who works at a transnational company in Abuja. Together, they resolved to give their onein-a-million dad the burial he deserved. A three day event was packaged by the Ajayi family and the Arowotawaya Ruling House which commenced with a Service of Songs at a place the deceased called home for several years - his Lagos residence on Fashanu Street, off Fatade Road, Baruwa, off Ipaja Road. Chief Ajayi was a big time community player here in his lifetime. He was the Treasurer of the Baruwa Central Community Development Association Well-Owners from 2004 till his death. The Chairman of that association, Rev. Dr. J. A. Ogungbangbe, revealed that the deceased was a transparent man who faithfully managed the resources put in his care on the construction of Baruwa Vocational Training Centre from the foundation level till its present level and more particularly, the increase in the number of transformers in Baruwa community from one to three. Rev. Ogungbangbe added, “His sudden exit is a Oba Michael Ajayi, great blow to all of us in the Baruwa son of the deceased Community.” On the second day of proceedings, his Founding President of the Forum of Nigerian remains, which had been conveyed to his hometown in Professionals in Ghana. Otunba Ajayi is a living Erinmo-Ijesha in Osun State, laid in state. This lyingtestament of the ideal of self-actualization which his in-State ceremony was held at his country home at 1, father held. Olubowale Ajayi Street , Ijeda Road, Erinmo - Ijesha, We gathered that the deceased was a stickler for Oriade Local Government Area. Numerous quality education and spared no resource in ensuring 297

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Chief Adesoji Ajayi- Bembe with Otunba Michael Ajayi

The Sasore of Lagos, Chief Waidi Ayeni & Chief Adesoji Ajayi Bembe

Chief Babatunde & his wife

Otunba Michael Ajayi & his wife, Mrs. Thelma Ajayi with Mr. & Mrs. Ibukun Atoyebi

Officiating Ministers

Otunba Michael Ajayi & his wife, Mrs. Thelma Ajayi with Mr. Michael Kayode Fagbote

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community residents came to take one final look at their departed benefactor. Then, in the evening, the Wake Keep followed and was well-attended by family members and loved ones, from far and near. The next day, a private funeral service was held at his country residence, where he had earlier been laid in-state, after which the deceased was interred amid tears. It was clear that he would be dearly missed. From there, the crowd of family and friends moved to Christ Apostolic Church, Oke Isegun 1, Erinmo- Ijesa for an Interdenominational outing and Thanksgiving service. The service was officiated by Pastors from the Christ Apostolic Church, the Cherubim and Seraphim Movement Church and the Anglican Church of Nigeria. Here praises were offered to God for a life well spent and for the success of the entire event. Prayers were also offered for the continued wellbeing of the family of the deceased. The Thanksgiving service also featured the ministration of a special number by the F'ogo Olorun han (Show forth God’s Glory) Band in honour of the memory of the deceased. The Church service came to an end with the closing hymn, “When the Trumpet of the Lord shall Sound.”

After the Thanksgiving service, a grand reception took place at St. Peters Anglican Church Primary school field, Ijeda Road, Erinmo - Ijesha. The colour code for the august gathering was a dual combination of Royal Blue and White in which the glamorous guests at the event excelled, sporting different superlative traditional outfits. Experts at events planning and management, Posh Events Solution, did a great job of creating a convivial backdrop for the party. Dignitaries at the reception included the First Lady of Ekiti State, Erelu Bisi Fayemi; His Royal Highness, Waidi Ayeni (Sasore of Lagos); His Highness, Adesoji Ajayi Bembe (Obanikoro of Lagos), Hon. Nathaniel Agunbiade, High Chief Ejemu Atore , Alhaji Tejumola, Alhaji Rasaq Animashaun (from Ghana) and Chief( Dr.) Olapade of Agoro (Owotapa of Ijesha) amongst others. Rotimi Martins popularly known as Alariwo compered the event and the guests were entertained with tasty delicacies and assorted drinks while the undisputed juju legend, Sir Shina Peters, provided a characteristic electric and roof-raising musical performance. Guests also rocked to the music of Queen Funmi Band. All who attended the burial

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The Ajayis

Otunba Michael Ajayi with Chief Ademuyiwa Adedeji Areola

Chief S.O. Olayinka with Chief Anthony Oluwaloseyi

Sam Ayodele, Muyiwa Abolaji with Biodun Ojo

Barr. Chinwe Amedu, Mrs. Osuala with Mrs. Rosemary Muonike

Mrs. Titi Olorunfemi with Mrs. Maureen Ifada

Israel Eledan, Femi Afolabi with Gbenga Alonge

ceremony reckoned that the deceased indeed lived a fulfilled life. In a tribute, Otunba Michael Ajayi called his father, “one of the finest and most honourable men,” he had ever known. He continued: “Throughout his life, he showed a selflessness that makes me convinced that, in such a final accounting based on love, he, of all people, would not have been found wanting. Always quick to forgive, he never harboured grudges.” One of his daughters, Mrs. Oreoluwa Famurewa, who had worn her Dad’s convocation gown during her own graduation from the University of Lagos, which was also her Dad’s Alma Mater, recounted in her tribute, several fond memories she shared with her late Dad. Sharing a striking resemblance with him, both of them were so close, she was labeled, “Daddy’s Girl”. She revealed, “Due to our closeness, most of my costudents at that time actually thought you were my

boyfriend, because you always picked me up from my hostel (Queen Amina Hall) every Friday evening to bring me back on Monday morning.” Another daughter, Mrs. Folahanmi Ibilola, called her Dad, “the best father any child could ever have” while Mrs. Oladiti Atoyebi referred to her Dad as ‘’my best friend and confidant.’’ For Mrs. Temitope Alao, her father was, “a man full of integrity in all ramifications, highly principled, resilient, caring, loveable, diligent, and most of all, God-fearing.” His youngest child, Mr. Joshua Ajayi, said his father drew him closer to God and bought him his first Bible – a King James Version.

THE MAN, JOSEPH OLUBOWALE AJAYI Joseph Olubowale Ajayi was born on the 21st June 1939 at Erinmo- Ijesha in Oriade Local Government

Area of Osun State, South West Nigeria into the family of late Job Ajayi of the Abioye Royal family and late Madam Ruth Abiodun Ola Ajayi of the Arowotawaya royal dynasty. He began his elementary education at St. Peter’s Anglican Primary School, Erinmo which he completed in 1955. Thereafter, he attended the United Modern School and Division Teacher Training College, both in Ilesha for his Secondary education, then had a brief stint as a teacher at St. Peter’s Anglican School, Erinmo. During this period, he did not rest on his oars. He began private studies and passed the GCE Ordinary Level and Advanced Level, administered and awarded by the University of London. Then, he gained admission to study at the University of Lagos, where he obtained a B.SC (Honours) Degree in Sociology in 1972, becoming the first ever Nigerian University graduate from Erinmo. 299

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Otunba Michael Ajayi

Otunba and his wife Mrs. Thelma Ajayi, Olori Igbare Oke with Mrs. Ajayi

Otunba Michael Ajayi & his wife, Mrs. Thelma Ajayi with Mr. Joshua Ajayi

Mr. Dele Avbayeru with Pastor Banji Obe

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Otunba & Mrs Micheal Ajayi with his mother Chief (Mrs ) S.S Ajayi

Hon. (Chief) Olatunde Fatiregun & his wife

Senator Bode Olajumoke with Govâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;nor Ken Caleb Olumese

Mr. Bayo Adenuga with Otunba Michael Ajayi

Ama, Esi & Odelue

Maureen Ifada, Titi Olorunfemi, Dolapo Otegbayi with Tope Odukoya

Mrs. Bola Falade, Mrs. Sinmisola Gaji with Mrs. Nore

Tosin Ilesanmi, Razaq Animashaun & Demole Tejumola

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Mrs. Ayanbowale

Razaq Animashaun, Otunba Mike Ajayi, Alhaji Tejumola & Demola Tejumola

Mrs. Eniola Ademodi

Chief (Mrs.) Omolola Dada, Mrs. Ore Famurewa with Mr. & Dr. (Mrs.) Peter Eshikena

On his graduation from the University, he joined the Federal Ministry of Labour and Productivity in 1972 at Ikoyi, Lagos, as a Labour Officer from where he was posted to Ilorin, Kwara State and later Kaduna, before he voluntarily opted out of public service as a Senior Labour Officer to join the United Africa Company of Nigeria in 1978. His career with the UACN group spanned over two decades heading the Personnel Department as Personnel Manager, and then General Manager, Personnel, and Divisional Personnel Director of several companies like Vono Product limited; Federated Motors Industries and Niger Motors (now General Motors); AJ SEWARD (now merged into 302

Rotimi Martins (Alariwo)

Olajumoke Olayinka

Otunba Mike Ajatyi with Pastor Lanre Jooda, Mr. Vincent Iniobong, Mr. Iyiola Saraki, Mr. Peter Odedina, Mr. Akinsola (members of the RCCG Ambassardor, Accra, Ghana)

UNILEVER); Tractor and Equipment (now MANTRAC), before retirement in 2001. He was awarded the prestigious Fellowship of the Chartered Institute of Personnel Management of Nigeria in 1998 at their 30th Annual Conference. Under the purposeful leadership of Special Apostle Prophet (Dr.) E. A. Alogbo, D.D, JP, the deceased rose within the C & S Movement Church, Sabo, Oko-Oba District Headquarters to become an ordained Most Senior Apostle, a chaplain of the CSM College of Theology and Chaplaincy, where he was also awarded a honorary Doctorate degree. He was the Chairman of the Church Building Fund Raising committee between 1998 and 2005, Member of the Church Management

Committee, Deputy Head of Administration and a Member of the highest organ of the Church, the Leaderin-Council, till his death. He was the founding Patron and later, Grand Patron of the Abigail Band, staunch Member of arguably, the biggest and most active band in the Church, the Fogo Olorunhan Band as well as a Member of the Choir Advisory Board. He was a founding member of the Baruwa Landlordsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; Association and the Committee of Friends, Community Development Association. The Asiwaju of Erinmo-Ijesha was very passionate about developing his native Erinmo since he was a kid and was always ready to lend a helping hand to ensure

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Otunba & Mrs. Ajayi, Mr. Demola Tejumola, Razak Animashaun, Emmanuel Ohiomokhare & friend

Chief (Mrs.) Omolola Dada with Mrs. Ore Famurewa

Her Excellency, Mrs. Bisi Fayemi & Otunba Michael Ajayi with Sir. Shina Peters

Mr. Ejiro Omonode with Mrs. Titi Olorunfemi

Otunba Ajayi, Pastor Dele Ogundiran, Tope Ajayi & Chammy

Otunba Mike Ajayi with friend: Razak Animashahun, Titus Olowookere & Mr. Shittu

Engr. Olubusuyi Oladele, Mr. Dayo Dairo with Mr. Layiwola Komolafe

Otunba Mike Ajayi, Mr. Jide Onigbogi with Professor Jacobs both of Chrisland School, Nigeria

the town grew. He was a Founding Director of the Erinmo Community Bank and the President of the Erinmo Community Development Association, through which he was able to harness resources for the accelerated development of Erinmo town. In August 2000, in recognition of his positive contributions and unflinching efforts towards the development of Erinmo and his ability to champion the cause of the youths, he was appointed Patron of the Federation of Erinmo- Ijesha Community Youth

Association, for many years. And then, in recognition of his unrivalled contributions to the development of the community and for his service and pioneering role in Erinmo, Chief (Dr.) Joseph Olubowale Ajayi was awarded the honorary Chieftaincy title, as the first ever Asiwaju of Erinmo- Ijesha land in 2002. He is survived by his wife, Pastor (Mrs.) S.S. Ajayi; six biological children and many non-biological children as well as many grandchildren. Sir. Shina Peters performing with his band

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REVEALS HER VISION, MISSION AND LOVE FOR CHILDREN By Makeba Boateng Photo: C. Asare Photography

Interview: Makeba Boateng Photos: C Asare Photography Styling: House of Crammer Make up stylist: Leona Rose Beauty Designer Dresses: She by BENA Jewellery: April Rust

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My first ever show has been launched and I am so excited about it. It is called the EFGH show and it showcases entertainers from Ghana. It is the first ever show of its kind. What we have done is we have taken a 30 minute magazine show and added a twist to it. So we profile the crème de la crème of Ghana's entertainment industry in a sort of pop quiz interview format about them. eace Hyde is certainly The most talked about new actress in Ghana’s entertainment circuit today. We got up, close and personal with the intellectual, friendly, action-oriented and admirable woman in this interesting tete a tete.

Tell me the story behind your name, what is your full name

I wish there was an exciting story behind my name but unfortunately there isn't. My full name is Peace Regina Hyde. Some people refer to me as Regina. I go by Peace because growing up that is what my family called me. Your style

I like to think my style is a reflection of a confident modern day African woman. I believe style is personal. The key to understanding your personal style is to understand your individual beauty enough to know which looks will work for you and which ones won't. We all put obstacles in our own path towards personal style. I believe if we understood why we constructed these personal and emotional obstacles, we might move beyond it to a healthier and happier perception of ourselves and ideally a better sense of self-esteem. Story behind the new photos you just released

I am a proud African woman. I believe the rich cultural heritage of this beautiful land is infectious. Whether you are Ghanaian, Nigerian, South African or whatever ethnic disposition you are. It is good to express yourself, I thought I would showcase my depiction of what a bold, strong, modern day African woman means to me. The values I wanted to convey through the photo shoot are those of beauty, strength, ambition and independence. Some say you are already a style icon

That is touching. As I always like to say, give a girl the right shoes and she can conquer the world. In lieu of this, I would say my style icon is Christian Louboutin. Fashion fades but style is eternal and I believe he is a unique visionary in a time of mediocre copycats of trends. You can never take too much care over the choice of your shoes. Too many women think they are unimportant, but the real proof of an elegant woman is what is on her feet. And in my humble opinion Christian's designs exemplify this fact. Sermon over! Lol. Who are your acting icons and why

I have a lot of icons in the film industry. I think they are all amazing at what they do. However, I think my favourite icons will always be those hardworking people behind the camera who bring the vision of writers to the big screen. They are the unsung heroes of this industry and I personally salute each and every one of them for their amazing creation which keeps us riveted to our seats. What’s next and upcoming for Peace Hyde

Well, I have a lot of new and exciting projects in the pipeline. My first ever show has been launched and I am so excited about it. It is called the EFGH show and it showcases entertainers from Ghana. It is the first ever show of its kind. What we have done is we have taken a 30 minute magazine show and added a twist to it. So we profile the crème de la crème of Ghana's entertainment industry in a sort of pop quiz interview format about them. So we have four main sections, your firsts, where we ask our guest a range of interviews about their first ever experiences whatever they may be, we have Star or fan section where we find out about who our celebrities favourite stars are, wheel of truth where we ask a range of questions from easy to controversial questions and finally what's next which looks at the next phase in the 305

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As far as individual personality traits go, I am very ambitions and focused, I am a bit of a perfectionist, I am very strong minded and very down to earth. careers of our guest. Trust me when I say this, it is a fun-packed ride whenever a celebrity comes through the EFGH factory. What are your star sign, are you typical of the characteristics and traits of your starsign

I think I am a Leo but I do not really follow astrology so I would not know what traits or characteristics that star sign shows. However as far as individual personality traits go, I am very ambitions and focused, I am a bit of a perfectionist, I am very strong minded and very down to earth. Maybe I will double check after the interview to see if it matches with my zodiac sign. Tell us a little about your family

I am a British born of African parentage. I have three siblings whom I love dearly and who are all in the UK. My parents are from Ghana and they are one of my main motivations for relocating back home. How old were you when you played Mary Poppins

I was 12 years old. It was so exciting because I had been rehearsing all week and this was the first time my parents were going to see me in a play. It was a proud moment that gave birth to my love for the creative Arts. Did you sing in that musical

Yes I sang in the musical. And I must say I think I delivered a stellar performance in my opinion. Lol Can you sing

I believe everyone can sing at home, alone in the bathroom. I am one of those people but I wouldn't classify my singing abilities on a Whitney Houston level! Public speaking memorable ones

engagements;

any

In my previous professional experience as a senior management level education specialist, I have been involved in many formal public speaking events with regards to high profile fund raisers. As a result I am comfortable speaking in public. In my new entertainment career, I have also had a number of high profile engagements. I find the main difference between my speaking engagements in education and entertainment is the level of planning. With education, things tend to be formal and thoroughly planned in advance. You know the running order; you prepare, rehearse and deliver on the day. There are hardly any major last minute glitches, providing your planning is done correctly. In entertainment however it is a totally different ball game, despite the thorough planning a lot of factors are out of the organizers control. Celebrities fail to turn up last minute, corporate heads pull a no show and very soon you find yourself free-styling a planned event. I had a corporate event in which everything that could go wrong went 306

wrong and as the M.C I was left alone trying to hold everything together. Thankfully I pulled through in the end and we successfully launched the product. Any memorable performances that you would want to share with us

My most memorable performance would have to be my first film in September 2013; 'The ProtĂŠgĂŠ' shot by the award winning director Alex Mouth in Lagos, Nigeria. This was my first official acting engagement and I was a bag of nerves. I remember walking on set and seeing some of the beautiful talents preparing for their scenes

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You can achieve anything you put your mind to and I am a strong advocate in setting myself goals and targets. I believe you must take up one idea. Make that idea your life. Think of it, dream of it, live that idea. Let your brain, muscles, nerves and every part of your body be full of that idea alone. This is the way to success. For example, achieving anything less than a first was never a consideration. After that, I set myself the target of passing my GTP qualification within the shortest time, which I succeeded in and went on to acquire more qualifications to enhance my craft as a teacher of the Sciences and it dawned on me that the journey had begun. I found the challenge exciting and I knew after that shoot that I had a real passion for acting. You got a first class qualification in Psychology with distinction in your GTP, Graduate Teaching Program, how does it feel

It feels like you can achieve anything you put your mind to and I am a strong advocate in setting myself goals and targets. I believe you must take up one idea. Make that idea

your life. Think of it, dream of it, live that idea. Let your brain, muscles, nerves and every part of your body be full of that idea alone. This is the way to success. For example, achieving anything less than a first was never a consideration. After that, I set myself the target of passing my GTP qualification within the shortest time, which I succeeded in and went on to acquire more qualifications to enhance my craft as a teacher of the Sciences (Biology and Chemistry) and skills as a senior member of management in my school. Similarly, after I achieved my goals as an Education Specialist for 6 years in the UK, I embarked on my other passion of the creative arts. Which age group did you tutor

I tutored pre-university students from the ages of 10-17. I love everything about my life as a Science Teacher. I am a strong advocate of education. I believe education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world. It is not preparation for life, it is life itself. As a result I approached my teaching career with a serious determination to impact the minds of the future. It is something that I am still passionate about today. Chemistry & Biology Teacher versus acting and presenting

I love, the new challenge which is presenting and the entertainment sector. It is fast paced and very competitive. It requires constant thinking on your feet and a focus on personal development to hone your craft. It is this challenge that motivates me to be part of the industry. It also gives me the chance to showcase the creative side of my personality. Tell us about your challenges or greatest achievements in Education

In the UK I was responsible for driving new initiatives for my school to raise the profile of the school and simultaneously raise funds. The challenges as with any management role was trying to assemble the best human capital suitable for the task at hand. The success of any campaign depends on how well

synergies are created between the internal resources of the organization and the external working conditions. I developed a project where different schools within the UK could collaborate and share ideas with the view of developing a more cohesive education environment. The project required the collaboration of several school heads across various religious dispositions to come together in spite of their differences on morals, ethics or religious views to sit down and share ideas. It was a raving success and we managed to achieve all our fundraising goals. Conversing with adults vs children, which do you prefer

It may sound strange, but I actually prefer conversing with children from a self-development perspective. They are the most inspirational people around. Most people overlook the power of a young mind to dream and create our future. I am blessed to have mentored some of these amazing kids who I have no doubt will be world changers. Nelson Mandela put it best when he said "there can be no keener revelation of a society's soul than the way it treats it's children". Would you like to go back to teaching in the future? Do you not think that you are more valuable as a Teacher than an actor in terms of the nation of Ghana

I love teaching and I still consult with many schools in Ghana. We have a program that I developed which is focused on improving the standards of local schools. So I work with individual in house teachers and provide guidelines on disciplinary, marking and testing assessment, lesson structuring, performance appraisal etc. I believe God blesses everyone to become a blessing to others. It is my way of giving back to this beautiful land I call home. Currently I have six schools on my books. In terms of value, I believe every citizen of Africa has the ability to add value in their own way and that is not dependent on what industry you are in. Africa needs it's story to be told. We are a beautiful culture. My new passion as an actress is to help add value to Ghana in another way. I believe actors and people in 307

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I believe the greatest adventure you can ever take is to live the life of your dreams. I have now embarked on a new dream and the new challenge feels remarkable. I want the Peace Hyde brand to be an advocate for change across Africa. I want the Peace Hyde brand to motivate young women to think like the queens they are. A queen is not afraid to fail, failure is another stepping stone to greatness. the experience working with Director, Shirley FrimpongManso. Did you learn anything or gain more experience

I played the character of Esther, a family member of Kim who gives Kim's not so-good boyfriend a hard time when he jilts her for another woman. The experience was amazing. I think Shirley is a visionary and I learnt a lot on set. She knows exactly what she is looking for and pushes for the best in each actor. I learnt a lot from that experience which helped me in my subsequent Roles. Protégé and The Prodigal Son. Tell us a little about this experience and any fond memories from than

Protégé and Prodigal Son were really exciting projects. It gave me the opportunity to explore a darker side of my personality as I was a “baddy” in both roles to different extents. The directors Alex Mouth for Protégé and Mr E for Prodigal Son were a delight to work with. They give their actors free room to express their creativity which in turn leads to outstanding performances. I enjoyed working with the amazing MNet team who were so supportive and ensured everything went on smoothly. Tell us a little on working on Tales from the Powder Room

I was a Guest Presenter on Tales From the Powder Room. It is a weekly relationship advice show on GH One. Each week we read a letter from an audience member who is facing a difficult relationship problem, dissect the letter and offer practical advice to help them overcome the issue. I enjoy this because we try and offer real life solutions to real life problems of the viewers. The feedback is overwhelming and the fact that our discussions helped someone out there to be better or keep pushing forward is mind blowing. It is a truly humbling experience to be given the opportunity to contribute to someone's life. It is a responsibility I take very seriously and I'd like to say a special thank you to the producers of the show for such a brilliant concept. Tell us anything funny that happened on the shoot of behind the scenes (D Black ft. Davido)

the media are the strongest proponents of change. In an age of social media and Web 2.0 communication, our continent is increasingly becoming more tech savvy. The power of celebrities in society and the impact they have in their local communities are well documented. Actors like Angelina Jolie for example who through her work as a UN ambassador has been able to bring a great deal of focus on social issues which in turn has led to UN policies which intervene to save lives. Everyone has a value. Actors, teachers, bloggers or writers like yourself. It begins with a conscious decision to make an impact followed through with a passion to be an advocate for change. Why relocation? Why Ghana? Why Acting and not teaching

I get asked this question a lot. I always begin by saying I am a child of Africa. I love this beautiful continent and I am proud to be a part of it. My parents 308

are Ghanaians and as a result I grew up in a very African principled household in the UK. In my household Ghana began when you walk into the house and UK starts when you walk out. There has always been restlessness in my heart to move back to Ghana to experience the culture properly and immerse myself in the beauty of Africa as far as I can remember. But with everything, the timing had to be right. I don't believe I chose Ghana, I believe I chose Africa because it's where my cultural values are built on. With Acting this represents a different dimension of Peace Hyde. I have enjoyed teaching and achieved all my set goals and targets in this sector and acting is an old passion which has never been realized until now. Adam’s Apples; which character did you play. How was

I was a Presenter for the making of the video behind the scenes, for the hit single 'Carry Go' by D Black featuring Davido, which was used as a promotion tool for the single across the continent. I never actually realised how much work goes into a four minute video. We started shooting from like 12 pm and finished at midnight. I was amazed about the level of focus they had for the video concept, everything had to be just right from the outside lighting to props and what type of models they used. What I found most amusing was the ladies all trying to keep their cool when D Black and Davido turned up. For the most part though, it was an enjoyable experience and a good learning curve. As an Event host, do you have any memorable or funny thing that has happened that you’d like to share

I hosted the Ghana Movie Awards in December last year. It was a very exciting moment. I remember going on the stage for the first time and when I was walking off, the audience began to applaud and make a whole lot of noise. So I immediately came off stage and asked the organizers if I had made any mistakes. Everyone looked at me confused. They asked me why I would think that and I said " did you not hear all that noise". They burst out laughing and when they calmed down they told me was the crowd showing their

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appreciation. So embarrassing, Haha, but it was a very enjoyable night. What are you thoughts on film in Ghana

I think the Ghana film industry is undergoing a transition. There is now greater push for film makers to focus on quality scripts, casting and great cinematography. There is also a renewed focus on producing movies in the local language which I think is a good thing to give a fair chance to the home grown talent. I believe however the industry needs an infrastructure. The government needs to do more to bolster this sector. I believe the film industry can contribute to the GDP of the economy and more needs to be done to facilitate the production of high quality films. Bollywood and Nollywood for example are further along in terms of raising finance than Ghallywood is. We have the talent and the competence to produce top notch movies, we just need the right infrastructure. Who did or do you look up to in film in Africa

I would be very surprised thankfully; my experience so far has been one of professionalism and sound moral values. I guess it's mainly a reflection of

how you carry yourself and the type of movie projects you choose. I am very particular about the type of roles I decide to do and in fact I have turned down scripts that I feel did not portray my brand in the right way or do not convey the image I would be proud to look at 5 years from now. I believe in value added projects. What I mean by this is, you need to build value in your work and your projects from the very beginning to ensure you invoke the right perceptions about you and your work. There is no context in which getting undressed and sleeping my way to a role adds value to me as a person. It is sad that certain values are forsaken in this day for the sake of 120 mins of fame. Do your see yourself as sex symbol

I think of myself as an Actor not a sex symbol. Do I think I'm sexy? I think Everyone is beautiful in their own way, I see myself as a strong, confident and proud African woman. Being sexy has got nothing to do with it. I think a "sex symbol" becomes a notion which objectifies a person. I'm more than that and have much more to offer than that. What’s your comments on Reggie Rockstone’s twitter and instagram post on you ‘Beauty and brains equals sexy Peace Hyde; “Powerful woman”

I was extremely touched when I saw that post. Reggie Rockstone is one of the great pillars in the Ghanaian entertainment scene. He started a movement called 'Hip Life' which today has given birth to a huge number of young talents in today's music scene. To have such an endorsement from him was truly 309

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humbling. How about another article I read, ‘Peace ‘badonkadonk @ 2013 GMA stealing the show with looks dresses, show stopper’. How was the GMA’s for you? Do you think that you have finally arrived

I found that post very flattering. Obviously the wording could have been slightly better but hey that's the media for you, you have to take the good with the bad but without them we certainly would not be here today. The GMA's was a good experience. I felt it was an audition process and it was a bit daunting standing in front of the crème de la crème of Ghana's entertainment industry. I love all the positive feedback I received and I was amazed by the support from my peers in the industry. I wouldn't say I have finally arrived, but I think by God's grace people are getting to know more about who I am and what I can bring to the table in terms of my talent and I am immensely grateful for this opportunity. Where do you see the brand Peace Hyde in 5 years time

I believe the greatest adventure you can ever take is to live the life of your dreams. I have now embarked on a new dream and the new challenge feels remarkable. I want the Peace Hyde brand to be an advocate for change across Africa. I want to change the stereotype of what it means to be an African woman in this male dominated industry. I am a woman in process. I just try like everybody else. I try to take every conflict and every experience and learn from it. I want my experiences to shape minds and have a positive impact to the world. I want the Peace Hyde brand to motivate young women to think like the queens they are. A queen is not afraid to fail, failure is another stepping stone to greatness. For every one of us that succeeds it's because there is someone there to show you the way out. I would love the Peace Hyde brand to show the way out for those who want to give up on their dreams. If I can impact just a single individual to do something positive in 5 years, then I would have achieved a lot. As a “returnee”, how has it been living in Ghana

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rewarding in the sense that the homeland offers a lot of opportunities to realize your goals and ambitions. The developing infrastructure means that a lot of industries are in the infant stage and thus not over saturated. This means the barriers to entry in a lot of sectors are relatively easy to overcome. Challenging however because there is a lack of proper infrastructure underpinning the different sectors. Challenges like lack of 24 hour electricity means doing simple routine things become more difficult. In all it's been a steep learning curve but I believe once you manage to commit to a two year plan, things slowly start to take shape. What challenges do you face the most

Not having central London at your disposal has probably been one of the hardest things to cope with. I miss the shopping experience in London terribly sometimes. Outside that, I think the lack of accessibility is also another challenge. What I mean by that is, there is only one main mode of transport in Ghana and that is by car. This means there is usually a lot of traffic getting anywhere. Also, in the UK for example certain utilities are handled by the government like gas, water etc. I never had the need to go refill a gas cylinder or refill my water tank. It's just little differences like that which I feel you need to adjust to just to make the Africa experience worthwhile. Is your cultural or identity important to you

I think by now it's very apparent that it is. I love my African culture. I think a people without the knowledge of their past, history, origin and culture is like a tree without roots. My culture is what makes me who I am and it is the foundation upon which I build my identity. Has your perceptions changed in any way

My perceptions have changed a lot about Africa in general. It has strengthened my resolve in being a person of value to this beautiful continent. Seeing the problems faced daily through my work in the education sector for example has highlighted to me that there is a lot more that needs to be done and

everyone in their own little way can contribute significantly to change. I think Africa needs to be united in such a way that its leaders will combine their efforts to solve the problems of this continent. When I say the word children, what comes to your mind

They are the future. I think we all have a responsibility to show them how to become value adding citizens to the African continent. Each adult should live so that when our children think of fairness, caring and integrity they think of us. As an educationalist, I think it's very sad that modern cynics and sceptics see no harm in paying a small wage to those who they entrust the minds of their children than a mechanic. Let us sacrifice our today so our children can have a better tomorrow. Seeing street children and poor children everywhere, how does that make you feel?

I feel we have failed our children as a society. In one of my initiatives I developed last year, we decided to take a hard look at streetism in Ghana and its long term effects on the moral fabric of the nation as well as the socio-economic implications mostly from the macroeconomic point of view. The results we got were astonishing. It is a hard battle to fight and win simply due to the sheer volume of street children in Ghana. It is estimated that there are about 25 000 street children in the greater Accra area alone. Most of these children migrate from other parts of the country in search of life-changing opportunities. Organizations like the 'Catholic Action for Street Children' for example have been tackling these issues for a number of years and their results make for a very depressing read. I believe the only difference between a street child and a home child is the opportunity the latter has over the former. These children due to their living conditions are exposed to all sorts of dangerous conditions like abuse, sexually transmitted diseases; stealing for food and survival etc. we need to do more as a nation to ensure we create opportunities that remove every street child from our streets. I know that one of your passions in your spare time is cooking and Fashion, can you elaborate

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There are a lot of people in my opinion who have captured the essence of African film since the late 90's. I think a major contributor in my opinion would have to be Wale Adenuga of Nigeria. Soap operas like 'Super Story' and 'Papa Ajasco' in my opinion shaped the way we looked at film in Africa. I remember watching 'Papa Ajasco' as a young lady and I absolutely found it hilarious. I think Wale changed the face of film in Nigeria and his influence cuts across boundaries even to Ghana. He is a true icon of African film among a great many others. for food began in the university days where I opened a little catering business to generate extra income for living expenses. I am a fan of fashion. I love how designers juxtapose various fabrics and colours to create exceptional pieces. I think there is a new era in fashion. There are no rules. It's all about the individual's personal style wearing high end, low end, classic labels and up and coming designers all together. You seem to have travelled a lot, asides from France, Spain, Tenerife, Jamaica, South Africa, USA which other places bring back fond memories and were these work related or pure pleasure

My travel experience was mostly work related. As part of my role in school, I organized programs where we take a select group of children from my school to a different school in a different country to share ideas and learn from each other. I call it collaborative learning. It builds a stronger focus on thinking outside the box by exposing the students to different cultures and ideas. I was privileged to visit all these beautiful countries as part of my work. What kind of ‘come on lines’ do you get from Men, are they funny, sweet or ridiculous

I don't really get come on lines from men. I think it's because I'm always working on new initiatives so I hardly have time to indulge in social activities so there is no real opportunities for come on lines. With me men do the classic trying to sound sensitive than they actually are because they feel that is what I respond to. It's quite amusing sometimes. The type of man would you consider marrying

I think every person in a relationship has to bring something to the table and that goes for both men and women. More often than not, as women we have a long list of requirements that we want our men to have before we deem them worthy. That is great. It is absolutely important to know exactly what your standards are and stick to them. However, what are you as a women also bringing to the table? I believe both parties should add value to each other and help each other develop. It is only after developing yourself first, before you know what you are bringing to the

table and thus what you expect from your ideal man. I am currently in the selfactualization stage of my individual development plan. Once that is completed I'll know who to consider that will compliment my goals and vice versa. What item in your bag and items can you not live without

My iPad as I love to stay connected always because I never like to be without information at any point in time. I think information is key to success. I am not really brand focused with regards to bags; it's more of a case of how functional it is for what I need done. What African Design labels you love to buy. –Ghana, West Africa,

Europe.

I love African-inspired clothes and I have a number of designers that are absolutely amazing at what they do. I love sharing ideas with the designers because I love to study fashion. I find I tend to gravitate towards new upcoming designers like ‘Anutua Designs’, ‘She by Bena’ and ‘Map Designs’ in Ghana. Pet hates and loves

Pet hates will have to be long dirty nails. My Pet love is desserts. If you were a creature or animal, what would you be

Probably a lion because it's a beautiful animal, it is a majestic and confident creature. It knows exactly who it is and does not compromise that self-image for anyone. What type of music do you enjoy in your quiet moments

In my quiet time I like to meditate on God and his blessings so it's usually gospel music. What type of music do you enjoy when you want to let your hair down

I love listening to a different range of music but I'd say my go to music for fun is Afrobeat. Complete this sentence, My Perfect Dream is….

…to eat anything I want without getting fat. Are you in love

I'm in love with my saviour, Jesus Christ. I believe without Him I wouldn't be here and I owe Him my life. Final word to Ovation International readers

Thank you and God richly bless you for taking the time to read my interview. I am blessed to have you along on this incredible journey of selfdiscovery and I hope I can inspire someone out there through my work to be more than society's expectations of you. Remember, persistence beats resistance and the only one who creates opportunities is God and no else. Stay strong, keep focused and put your trust in Him and no matter what the adversity you are going through, he will see you through. 311

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ZAKKI AZZAY LAUNCHES ONE BENUE IN MAKURDI Story: Funmilayo Adeyemi Photo: Abraham Falodun

L-r: Hon. Speaker Benue State House Assembly, Rt. Hon. Terihile Ayua, Zakki Azzay, Gov. Gabriel Suswam, Susan Peters & Zack Orji

3rd left: Deputy Governor of Benue State, Chief Steve Lawani with Zakki , Susan Peters & Zack Orji

One Benue unveiled by SSG Benue State, Dr. David Salifu

Deputy Governor Nasarawa State, Hon. Demeshi B. Luka, Zakki Azzay, SSG, Benue State & Tor Tiv Representative

Arrival of Hon. Ministers: Comrade Abba Moro & Hon. Sam Ortom

usic star, Zaaki Adzzay who is largely recognised by his striped black and white head gear and significantly remembered as a torchlight-bearing artiste organised an international festival named One Benue, which was fun-filled. This colorful international festival was organized to celebrate Food, Culture, Love, Progress, Entertainment, in Oneness. And was supported by OVATION International Magazine, City People Magazine, Sound City, AIT, NTA, Cool FM, Wazobia FM, The Nation, The Sun Newspaper, Yes magazine and Light/Up entertainment. The lively event which was held at Akiga Conference Centre, Royal Choice Hotel in Makurdi, Benue state was attended by prominent people in the society including the Executive Governor of Benue State, H.E Gabriel Suswam; Executive Governor of Nasarawa State, Alhaji Umaru Tanko Al-Makura;

Deputy Governor of Benue State, H.E Steve Lawani, Minister of State for Trade and Investment-Dr. Samuel Ortom; Minister of Interior, Comrade Abba Moro; Secretary to Benue State Government, Dr. David Salifu and Deputy Governor, Nasarawa State- Hon. Dameshi Luka. The event had Nollywood actors Zack Orji and Susan Peters as comperes. The event which kicked off with an opening prayer by Pastor Abel Uloko of House On The Rock Church, Makurdi, Benue state was preceded by a red carpet session where guests looked stunning in different outfits fit for the day. The high point of the event was the unveiling of the logo of One Benue by the Secretary to the State Government, Benue state Dr. David Salifu. The logo had the green and white colours of the Nigerian flag for

official colours symbolizes and this according to Zakki productivity and peace in oneness. Comedian, Pastor Nicodemus thrilled the guests with numerous jokes while Benue Dance Troupe enthralled the guests with a breath-taking performance using some energetic and amazing dance steps. According to the organiser, Zaaki Adzee, the festival was hosted to promote agriculture and encourage farming, celebrate valuable cultures and encourage cultural exchange with foreign countries. It also aimed at complimenting the state and federal government efforttowards the peaceful and progressive co-existence of Nigerians and promoting the unique traditional dances, music and comedy from Nigeria. One Benue international festival will be an annual event and will feature traditional performances from India, China, France, Italy, Cuba, Nigeria, Ghana and other countries. 313

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Zakki Azzay delivering his speech Hon. Minister of Interior, Comrade Abba Moro delivering speech

Commissioner for Arts & Culture, Benue State, Mrs. Comfort Ajene

MCs Susan Patrick & Zack Orji

Aura Agber (Anchor) interveiwing Zakki Azzay

Deputy Governor of Nasarawa State, Hon. Dameshi B. Luka

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Pst Abel Uloko of House On The Rock Church, Makurdi

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Zack Orji, Susan Paters, SSA to Governor of Benue, Eugene Ivatse & Zakki

Rep. of Tor Tiv with Zakki Azzay

Mr. & Mrs. Pilla

Wanamase, Susan Peters, Zaaki Azzay, Zack Orji & Mr. John

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Zaaki Azzay with Usherettes

Zaaki Azzay consulting with Colonel Kwembe

Benue Dance Troupe

Zaaki Azzay with friends

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THE WEDDING OF

EMMANUEL ITAM AND MERCY ASARE IN ACCRA, GHANA By Ben Dzakah

The Lovely couple

fter many years of going out as friends and feeling comfortable in each other’s company, businessman, Emmanuel Itam and his belle, Mercy Asare have decided to spend the rest of their lives together as husband and wife. Their wedding train took off with a nice Prewedding party at Globalview Hotel whicht was attended by the couple’s family and close friends. It was an all jeans affair-and the couple, like their friends were all turned out in very casual and relaxing outfits.

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Couple returning from church office

They all had loads of fun. The next day was for the wedding proper and the couple were decked in their best outfits to celebrate their happiest day together. The solemnization took place at the Glorious Body Charismatic Ministry in Kasoa. The ceremony was well-attended by both Ghanaians on the bride’s side and Nigerians on the groom’s side and the brotherly love between both guests was evident as guests interacted gleefully.

After a session of praises and prayers, the couple were formally joined as one body and one flesh by Prophet Evans Sarpong, the General Overseer of the Church. The Man of God was so witty that everyone truly enjoyed the ceremony and applauded the couple. Hours later, the couple and their families were at their hospitable best as they laid out enough victual for their guests at a lively reception held in Kakraba. Many Ghanaian and Nigerian Chiefs were in attendance and they added a touch of colour to the ceremony.

Nana Ama the Bride & Edinam Mohammed the Maid of Honour

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The groom Oziri, Uzo Aku 1 & best man Kalu Kalu Okore

Prophet Evans Sarpong & Couple during exchange of vows

Mr. Emmanuel Itam with his beautiful bride, Mercy Asare

Prophet Evans Sarpong & Pastor Boateng

I.D.U. Chairman with Emmanuel K. Agwu

Bride signing the marriage certificate

Mr. Emmanuel Itam signing the marriage rigister

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Bride’s father Mr.John Asare signing the marriage certificate

Groom’s mother signing the marriage certificate

Groom’s father signing the marriage certificate

The Couple with bestman & maid of honour

Mr. Emmanuel Itam with his beautiful bride Mercy Asare

The couple

THE RECEPTION

Couple with bride’s maids in yellow

Couple with bride’s maids in blue

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Couple, page boy, flower girl & the bridal train

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Couple with Glorious Body Charismatic Ministry members

Couple with friends

Bride with friends

Couple with friends

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Couple with men in suit

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Couple cutting their wedding cake

Couple at the buffet table

Couple with traditional rulers who grace the occasion

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Hon. Amah Abraham (chairman of the program) with members of the high table

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THE COLOURFUL WEDDING OF

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AND Photo: Ben Dzakah

DARLING AMOO

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ENGAGEMENT CEREMONY

Fatau & Darling in traditional outfits

Bride with groom’s mother, Mrs. Jelilat Mahama

ashing Fatau Mahama and beautiful Darling Bilkis Lolade Amoo were in their own world…smiling, cooing into each other’s ears and generally having fun as they stepped into 5-star Movenpick Ambassadors Hotel, Accra to celebrate their wedding. The reception was the highpoint of weeks of traditional and religious ceremonies that were attended by friends and family members. As traditional demands, the groom’s family were first to make a move and they went t the bride’s family’s house to sort out the small

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matter of the bride’s price after which both families exchanged smiles and gifts. And of course, there was another ceremony in the home of the groom’s family in the Airport Residential Areaand then all was set for the mighty reception. The superlative reception was where style and elegance came to fore in all ramifications. The décor company, Jandel Limited went all out to create an awe-inspiring setting that provided a perfect backdrop for the wonderful to cut their cake, dance and exchange vows all over again. It was indeed an evening of undiluted fun.

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Sheikh Imam Faisal delivering the sermon during the wedding fathia

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Groom's parent

Bride's father & brother

Congratulations!!! Fatau, grand uncle Woblewura, & Col. Iddisah

Mr. Peter Mahama & brother, Ibrahim Mahama

Auntie Denu, Darling & auntie Risi

Michael Mahama (Energy) and brother Ibrahim-uncles of Fatau

Fatau & uncle Adam

HE. Hajia Fati Jawulaa & children

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John Dumelo & friend

Ibrahim Mahama, Mrs. S. Jawula, Jemilat & Lepowura M. N. D. Jawula

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Fatau & Alhaji Asoma Banda

Hashia, Mamaa & Cynthia Addo

Groom's father, Peter Mahama

Mrs. Nana Hawa Thompson

Mrs. Oona Ibrahim Mahama

Peggy & Valerie arriving

Valerie, Jemilat & Peggy

Alhaji Collins Dauda & wife

Darling & Fatau's bestman, Sena

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Michael Mahama (Energy) and wife, Sanja

Fahd, Ramadan, Mallam Dasuki, Abdul-Fatau, Everton, Jamil, Pasco & Suleman Iddrisu

Luo, Mrs. Bobie, Dr. Egala & groom's mother

Mrs Fautina Acheampong, Mrs. Rose Iddisah, Ibrahim Mahama, Col.Iddisah & friend

Mr. Peter Mahamah, Alhaji Abu-Jaja & friends

Wosiela, Boahema, kojo, Valerie, Peggy & Jemilat

Oboo India & Abla Suma

Sirina, Risi & friend

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Front row- Amir, Nana & Hakeem. Back row- Sanja, baby Arman, Energy, Darling & Fatau

Tunde Ali & friends

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Priscilla, Salma, Phyllis, Sandra, Ima, Danielli, Selassie, Ananda, Madinat, Balma & Mariam

Nana Aisha, Fatau, Darling, Jide & Ferouza

Muriel, Jackie, Darling & Ronnie Bruce

Sardia, Majida, Darling, Tumi & Toyosi

Couple & groom's sisters

Darling, Fatau & Jojo Aboagye-Atta

Bride & groom leaving for the night

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Darling & Mariam

Fatau and father-in-law

Alhaja Anino, a friend, Amerley and auntie Adaku

Fatau & brothers

Hawa Agyemang & Hajia Jemilat

Mr & Mrs. Mawuko Dzikunu

Mariam, Nafisa, Balma & Danielli

Kylie, Darling & Mariam

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Risi, Iya Maria, Hajia Iyabo & friends

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THE WEDDING RECEPTION

Groom's grandma, Mrs. Fati Habib Jawula, mother, Mrs. Jemilat Mahama & paternal aunt, Mrs. Rose Iddisah

Mrs. Jemilat Mahama & Mr. Ibrahim Mahama

Mrs. Baaba Banda & friend

Auntie Denu & Darling

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Fahd, Edzi, Khalid, Chester, Adrien, Darling, Kojo, Kelvin, Nenya, Reggie & Adnan

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Jay Fresh, Darling & Wood

Alhaji & Mrs Ben Aminu

Darling & Chris with friend

Auntie Kudi, Alhaji 71 & Auntie Faila

Hajia Morilli, Hajia Zelia & Hajia Ashia

Mother & daughter-Auntie Maggie Ofori-Atta & Daniell

Mr. & Mrs. Ekow Awoonor

Mr. & Mrs. Kojo & Jemima Twum

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Togbe Dagadu with couple

Suma, Nana Hawa & Lou

Baba Kasim, Adam, Peter, Alhaji Jaja & friends

Azumi, Fatima, Darling & Tumi

Balma, Priscilla, Sandra, Ima, Nafisa, Danielli & Selassie

Cynthia Addo & Mamaa Adamu Atta

Boahema & Kojo Twum Boafo

Hassan & Ali from Nigeria

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OLABODE OLANIPEKUN WEDS TOLULOPE MARTINS IN LAGOS Story: Babatunde Martins Photo: Adekoya Adegbite

The beautiful couple: Olabode Olanipekun & Tolulope Martins

hen God created Adam, He knew man was incomplete without a help mate. And so, He wasted no time in creating a beauty, which He called, Eve, with a rib taken out of Adam. So it was in the case of Olabode Olutoyin Olanipekun who found love, joy and peace in Tolulope Aduke Martins as his missing rib and were joined in holy matrimony. Family, friends and colleagues of the couple from far and near came to celebrate with them. The church service was held at the Redeemed Christian Church of God, Christ Church Parish; Block A, Plot 6, Redemption Cresent

Gbagada/Oworonshoki Expressway, Lagos. Tolulope Aduke is the daughter of top Nigerian politician, Chief Kenny Martins while her beau, Olabode Oluwatoyin, is the son of legal titan, Wole Olanipekun (SAN). The couple was virtually in its own world throughout the ceremonies and it was certain the lovers were friends before they fell in love. Takeoff point for the ceremony was the traditional /engagement which was filled with colour and culture. Words could not describe the joy that engulfed both families at the church 347

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Groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s parents: Chief Wole Olanipekun (SAN) & wife

Gov. Ibikunle Amosun, Gov Emmanuel Uduaghan & Gov. Kayode Fayemi

Erelu Bisi Fayemi, Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu & wife Senator Oluremi Tinubu

Pastor & Mrs. Wale Oke

Mr. Toye Ariyo, Chief Wole Olanipekun (SAN) & wife, Mrs. Olanipekun with AIG Marvel Akpoyibo

Olori Oba Elegushi & Hakeem Muri Okunola

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Chief Wole Olanipekun (SAN) with Otunba Michael Subomi Balogun

Traditional rulers

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Couple with bride’s parents

Couple with groom’s parents

Couple with Prince Olagunsoye Oyinlola, Gen. Olusegun Obasanjo & Chief Johnson Fasawe (r)

Couple with Otunba Gbenga Daniel & a traditional ruler

Couple with Pastors

wedding. The bride, Tolulope, was looking so gorgeous in her wedding gown and her groom was just as elegant in his outfit and they were joined by Pastor J. T. Kalejaiye who led other men of God. The officiating Minister fed the congregation with the word of God and deconstructed the principles of marriage to the duo. He charged them to respect each other and put God first in all they do, so that their union would successful. The service ended with songs like “this is the day of joy and He has done it for us.” The gentle man of God blessed the newly-wed couple afterwards. Notable faces at the church service included: Governor of Lagos State, Babatunde Raji Fashola; former President Olusegun Obasanjo; former Governor of Ogun State, Otunba Gbenga Daniel; former

governor of Osun State, Chief Olagunsoye Oyinlola; Oba of Lagos, Oba Rilwan Babatunde Osuolale Aremu Akiolu; the Osemawe of Ondo Kingdom, Oba (Dr.) Victor Adeshina Kiladejo; former Lagos State governor, Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu; Governor of Ekiti State, Dr. Kayode Fayemi and his beautiful wife Erelu Bisi Fayemi; Ogun state governor Senator Ibikunle Amosu; Kastina state Governor, Ibrahim Shema; Human Rights lawyer, Femi Falana; National President of Arewa Consultative Forum (ACF), Alhaji Shettima Yerima; Senator Iyiola Omisore and Bashorun Dele Momodu . A no-invite-no-entry directive was fully enforced at the reception venue. Guests who stormed The Harbour Point Event Centre, Victoria Island, Lagos without

their invites were stranded on the street. Those who could not wait in the rain left the venue while others found their way in at night. The newlyweds rode in a blue Bentley. The executive automobile was their official car for the day, with number plate EKY 624 BU. Zapphaire Events were charged with providing everything guests needed. Other organizations that made the event worthwhile were Helando Delicia, owned by Morin Abaniwonda; Mallas Foods owned by Morenikeji Ogungbe; Larry Spices owned by Bayo Larry amongst others. Wande Coal, Tiwa Savage, Sean Tizzle and compere, Ali Baba all made the wonderful event joyous and exciting. 349

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Gov. Babatunde Fashola, Katsina Governor Ibrahim Shema & Amb. Musiliu Obanikoro

Chief Kenny Martins with Gov. Emmanuel Uduaghan

Gov. Ibikunle Amosun, Gov. Emmanuel Uduaghan & Gov. Kayode Fayemi

Oba Rilwan Akiolu, couple & their parents

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Chief & Mrs. Bayo Ojo

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Chief Michael Ade-Ojo & Erelu Bisi Fayemi

Chief Kenny Martins, Mr. Femi Falana, Chief Michael Ade-Ojo, Mrs. Martins & Chief Olanipekun

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Jim Ovia greeting Gov. Babatunde Fashola, SAN

Chief Kenny Martins with Chief Pius Akinyelure

Oba of Lagos with Oba Elegushi

Julius Agwu, Barr. Michael Igbinedion & groom

Chief & Mrs. Olanipekun, Oba Rilwan Akiolu & Chief Lisk Carew

Chairman of the occasion, Chief Michael Ade-Ojo

The Olanipekuns with Chief & Barr. (Mrs.) Mike Ozekhome, SAN

Amb. Musiliu Obanikoro & Oba of Lagos

Gen. Ike Nwachukwu, Chief & Mrs. Olanipekun with Bashorun Dele Momodu

Hon. Olumide Osoba proposing the toast

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Chief Kenny Martins with Chief Pius Akinyelure

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Chief Ifeanyi Ubah, groom & Chief Kashumu Buruji

Barr. Taiwo Afolabi with Mr. & Mrs. Olowolafe

Otunba Niyi Adeniyi, Chief Wole Olanipekun, Senator Tokunbo Afikuyomi & Mr. Olowolafe

Chief Kenny Martins with Chief & Mrs. Niyi Adewunmi

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HURRY! PROF. EZEKIEL AJAYI IS 70 Story: Babatunde Martins

Photo: Adekoya Adegbite

Prof. Ajayi & family cutting his birthday cake

Bashorun Dele Momodu, Prof. & Mrs. Ajayi with Mrs. Bolaji Momodu

very smile, every step, every word, every stare, in fact everything he did that day exuded joy. These words perfectly describe Professor Ezekiel Oladele Bolarinwa Ajayi and the excitement he felt when he strolled grandly into the distinguished order of the worldâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s septuagenarians. The beautiful thing for Professor Ajayi was that he was not alone in reveling in this moment of exceeding jubilation. He relished the special occasion with an elated company of family members and friends who came

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in their numbers to celebrate the milestone attainment. Indeed, for the celebrant, there could have been no better way to enjoy this extraordinary milestone than in the presence of his creator who has blessed him abundantly with children, grandchildren, good health, long life and all good things life can give. And the Redeemed Christian Church of God, in Ife, Osun State proved a more than perfect setting for a spiritual and stimulating thanksgiving service which was held to commemorate 70 years of Godâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s blessing and faithfulness in the life of this erudite Professor. The man of God in charge of the

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Celebrant & wife

Bashorun Dele Momodu

Bashorun Dele Momodu paying obeisance to elder brother, Prof. Ajayi

Prof. Omolayo Ajayi & Mrs. M.O. Ajayi

Mrs. M.O. Hamilton-Scott with Mr. & Barr. (Mrs.) Tola Adesuyi

Mr. Dotun Awoyemi & Mrs. Funmi Awoyemi

Mr. & Mrs. Isaac Aronkola

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Prof. & Mrs. Adeniyi

Mrs. C.O. Alao & Mrs. C.A. Adeniyi

Barr. & Mrs. Oyedapo

Prof. & Mrs. F.O.I. Asubiojo

Bashorun O. Olagundoye & wife

Prof. & Mrs. Ojo

Abigeal Enitilo & Yinka Ayanbuku

proceedings explained to the congregation the reason for celebrating birthdays. He said birthday celebrations are meant to thank God for adding to our years while also thanking Him for good health and long life. “Many of Professor’s age mates have bid life farewell,” the man of God observed, “but God has given Prof. the opportunity to witness today and He has also given Him the grace to see his grandchildren.” He described Prof. as a committed Christian, a good father counseling him to always give thanks to God because he was able to celebrate 70 years on earth. The man of God urged the children to emulate their father. As expected, some guests were invited to speak about the celebrant and one of those who mounted the rostrum 356

was OVATION’S Publisher, Bashorun Dele Momodu. Bashorunn Dele Momodu revealed that Professor Ajayi, who is brother is an epitome of humility who has contributed a lot to the academia. He said the celebrant was one of those who thought him that education was the key to success in life. The soul-stirring service ended with a special number from the Redeemer’s International Academy Choir. The celebrant children and grandchildren then joined him for prayers and blessings from the men of God. Blessing of longevity and prosperity were showered on him and the family members. The reception followed at Ogunbanjo Community

Centre, Obafemi Awolo University, Ile-Ife where guests were treated to good meals and exotic wines. The Master of Ceremonies, Dele Gold welcomed the guests and introduced a Christian drama troupe from Life Gate Drama Evangelical Christian Ministry to stage for their performance as part of the day’s lineup The high point of the occasion was the cutting of the cake; the celebrant was sandwiched by his children, grandchildren, family members and well-wishers for this special moment. Later on Prof. Ajayi stormed the dance floor and was joined by guests who were ready to dance and they danced till late at night to good music supplied by Divine Connection Band.

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LAGOS SPEAKER, RT.

HON. ADEYEMI IKUFORIJI IS THE NEW AARE OF KETU KINGDOM Story: Segun Adebowale Photo: Koya Adegbite & Solomon Ekhaiyeme

The new Aare, Rt Hon. Adeyemi Ikuforiji with Mayegun of Ketuland, Hon. Segun Olulade

Oba of Lagos, HRM Rilwan Akiolu blessing the new Aare

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Behold the new Aare & Yeye Aare of Ketuland

he worth of any man (and of course any woman) is the impact such person has made on humanity. One individual whose contributions to humanity, both in his Epe community, where he was born 55 years ago to the family of Chief Murtala Atanda Ikuforiji and Alhaja Ibironke Ikuforiji(Nee Shabi) as well as Lagos State, where he has been the longest-serving Speaker of the House of Assembly, cannot be quantified; is the Rt. Hon. Adeyemi Sabit Ikuforiji. No wonder, most people who knew him in his adolescence and teenage years, especially at the Local Authority Central School, Epe and Epe Grammar School, Epe; where he set a new record in the old Epe Division by breaking a four-year jinx as the only candidate that obtained Division 1 out of the 105 students that sat for the examination in 1975, have not found his political ascendancy a fluke. To these people, who also followed Mr. Speaker’s rise in the private sector before service to humanity and politicking came calling in 2003, Rt. Hon. Ikuforiji is indeed a round peg in a round hole! It is safe to conclude therefore that, Mr. Speaker’s adroitness in managing the Legislative arm in Lagos State, has contributed a great deal to the successes that have been a recurring decimal in the State, since the latter part of the era of Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu and especially, that of Governor Babatunde Fashola (SAN). After all, accolades and encomiums being showered on the Executive arm of the State, would not have been merited, if the State’s Legislators have failed in their duty to enact good laws for the progress and sustainable development of Nigeria’s most economically-viable State. It was therefore a home calling for Rt. Hon. Ikuforiji when he went to Ketu kingdom in Epe to receive one of the highest Chieftaincy titles in the community, Aare Alaketu of Ketu Kingdom. Alongside his amiable and resourceful wife, Pastor (Mrs.) Olumayowa Abeke Ikuforiji, their entrance into the RCM Primary School, where the installation by the HRM Oba Adegboyega Adefowora took place, was regal! Led by the Boys Brigade

band whose drum beats and songs could be heard over a mile from that venue, the Aare and Yeye Alaketu of Ketu Kingdom went round the venue to greet friends, associates, politicians, traditional rulers as well as wellwishers within and outside the community. After greeting and acknowledging cheers, the Aare and Yeye Aare Alaketu went to pay homage to the Oba Alaketu of Ketu kingdom, Oba Adegboyega Adefowora. Thereafter, they sat down on the royal seat. OVATION learnt that the events planners, B Events which is owned by Bola Awosika and been contracted to make the event a grand one had been on ground, one week, planning assiduously and erecting the magnificent Marquee which was also beautifully decorated. Awosika , who is used to planning such A-list events, has already gotten in touch with other stakeholders to make the event a memorable. Four caterers were contracted Oval Tart, Demo Kitchen as well as Creative Food and Cocktails. Gbemi Deserts was also on stand-by as well as Fruitful Wago and Veggies whose fruit baskets were irresistible. King of Small chops, Laredo also lent his weight and Events Watch ensured the venue was fully secured. The installation ceremony attracted the celebrations within and outside the State. The Speaker of Ogun State, Rt. Hon. Suraj Ishola Adekunbi, who was dressed in a flowing white Agbada and his counterpart from Oyo State, Rt. Hon. Monsurat Sunmonu were around to support their Lagos State counterpart, whose other 39 Honourable members led by the Deputy Speaker, Hon. Musibau Kolawole Taiwo. In fact, the Chairman of the Committee on Information in the House, Hon. Olusegun Olulade, who was installed as the Otunba Mayegun of Ketu kingdom, days before, had gotten to the venue as early as 7 am to ensure that the place was set for the installation. Other members of the House who were charged with different duties were also seen ensuring that those tasks were carried out, all in a bid to make the day a glorious and an eventful one for the

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Olori Elizabeth Akanni & M.S. Mobadoluwa

K1 De Ultimate, the Aare & his family with the Alaketu

Arch. (Chief) Taiwo Kara, Baale F.A.A. Odubote & Hon. (Princess) Adunni Oyefusi

Otunba Tokunbo Wahaab & Olu- Epe of Epe Kingdom, Oba Shefiu Olatunji Adewale

(Onilado of Ilado ) Bade Oyekan & Olori Oyekan, Bukky & Otunba Femi

Adekunle Olayinka & Otunba Henry Ajomole

Hon. Mufu, Hon. Muyiwa, Hon. Mojeed & Hon. Wahaab

Chief (Mrs.) Kemi Nelson & Chief (Mrs.) Yetunde Arobieke

Hon. Ramotalai Akintola-Hassan, Hon. Risikat Ajoke Adegeye & Adeola Adetoro

Folake Eletu, Mosun Folami, Toyin Sunmonu & Dotun Badejo

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Aare Adeyemi Ikuforiji with Alaketu

Hon. L.B. Ayeni , Hon. Ipoola Omisore & Hon. Muibat Rufa-Adeyemi

Mrs. Ogunyemi Yemisi, Mrs. Olawunmi Jimoh, Dr. (Mrs.) Olufunke Adeyeye & Mrs. Yinka Abiru

R-l: Hon. Segun Olulade, Justice Sola & Chief (Mrs.) Modupe Oguntade with a chief

Senator Olorunnimbe Mamora & wife, Mrs. Adeleke Mamora

Aare Alaketu of Ketu kingdom, who is the First among equals in the House. The Clerk of the Lagos State House of Assembly, Mr. Ganiu Olusegun Abiru was also around to felicitate with the Speaker. Member of the World Jurist Association and former Justice of the Supreme Court, Hon. (Justice) George Adesola Oguntade, who is also a ‘son of the soil’ also came with his wife, Chief. (Mrs.) Modupe Oguntade. Traditional rulers were in abundance at the event and they were led by the Oba of Lagos, Oba Rilwan Akiolu. The other traditional rulers included, the Ayangburen of Ikorodu, Oba Salaudeen Oyefusi; OluEpe of Epe kingdom, Oba Shefiu Olatunji Adewale Bamgbopa Esinlokun 1, Onilado of Ilado, Oba Mobadenle Oyekan and Oba of Onigbongbo, Oba Munirudeen Olatunji Yusuf. Along with these Obas, some Baales as well as traditional Chiefs also came to celebrate with the new Alaketu of Ketu Kingdom. They included, Baale Gedegede Tapa, Chief Ayodeji AlliEko Thomas, Baale of Owutu Ikorodu, Chief Aluko; 360

Baale of Ogolonto Ikorodu, Chief Fatola;as well as Baale of Isawo, Chief Orisan. The Chairman of the All Progressive Congress (APC) in the State, Otunba Henry Ajomale led the retinue of prominent players in the State’s Chapter of the party. They included Senator Olorunnimbe Mamora, the Chairman of Epe Local Government, Chief Segun Agbaje, Chairman of Ikorodu Local Government, Prince Adeola Jokomba, as well as the Chairpersons of Eredo, Epe and Ikosi Ejirin , Mrs. Funmilayo Adelaja, Yeye Omolola Agbaje and Mrs. Abolanle Adetola, who were all resplendent in different attires. Members of the Committee of the Wives of Lagos State Officials were also in attendance to add colour to the event. The colourful installation ceremony started with prayers after which, the coronation proper commenced with the Obas installing the Speaker as the Aare of Alaketu of Ketu kingdom. As soon as the rites were performed, the Speakers of the Ogun and Oyo States’

Houses of Assembly, Chairmen of the Local Government and Honourable members of the Lagos State House of Assembly were called upon to come to the royal arena to support the Aare Alaketu of Ketu Kingdom. That done, the Oba of Lagos, Oba Akiolu was saddled with the task of handing out the traditional state of office to the Aare Alaketu of Ketu. After being installed as the Aare Alaketu, Rt. Hon. Adeyemi thanked the Alaketu of Ketu kingdom, Oba Adefowora for the title and prayed for continued success of the kingdom, Epe community and the State. From there, the panegyrics (Oriki) of the Aare Alaketu of Ketu was rendered after which, Fuji exponent, K1 De Ultimate took center stage. The Fuji maestro who gave out three daughters out in marriage days to the event in Ijebu Ode and also celebrated his own birthday, invited eminent dignitaries, to dance with Mr. Speaker, who from now on, would be known as , Rt. Hon. (Aare) Adeyemi Sabit Ikuforiji.

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HON. SEGUN OLULADE BECOMES MAYEGUN OF KETU KINGDOM

Hon. (Otunba)Segun Olulade receiving his title from Oba Adegboyega Adefowora

Hon. Segun Olulade & wife, Engr. (Mrs.) Mosunmola Olulade & Hon. (Dr.) Adebayo Adeyeye

Hon. Ishawu Gbolahan with Otunba Mayegun of Ketu kingdom

Hon. Adebimpe Akinshola & Hon. B.Y.A. Ayinla with Otunba Mayegun & Yeye Mayegun of Ketu kingdom

he sleepy town of Ketu-Ejirin in Epe Local Government area of Lagos State was agog at the installation ceremonies of some of its illustrious children whose contributions to the development of the Ketu kingdom and Epe division at large have been significant. These worthy citizens were honoured with different Chieftaincy titles by the Alaketu of Ketu kingdom, Oba Adegboyega Adefowora. The new Chiefs include two members of the Lagos State House of Assembly who represent Epe Constituency in the House, Hon. Segun

Olulade and his wife, Engineer (Mrs.) Mosunmola Olulade, who are now the Mayegun and Yeye Mayegun , Hon. Abiodun Tobun and Mrs. Tobun , the Otunba Apesi and Yeye Apesi as well as the Chairman of Epe Local Government , Chief Segun Agbaje and his two wives, Mrs. Omolola Agbaje and Mrs. Sherifat Agbaje; as the Otunba Fesogboye and Yeye Fesogboye of Ketu Kingdom. Other new Chiefs were, the Provost of Michael Otedola College of Primary Education, (MOCPED) , Prof. Olu Akeusola who was installed with the title of the Otunba Ajagunla of Ketu

Hon. Kazeem Ademola Alimi with Hon. Segun Olulade & Engr. (Mrs.) Mosunmola Olulade

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Alhaja Adenike Abioye Tobun (Yeye Otunba Apesin of Ketu Kingdom), Alhaja Modupe Alimi,Alhaja Modinat Kazeem & Alhaja Tawakalilatu Yusuf

Mrs. Ogunyemi, Mrs. Olawunmi Jimoh , Engr, (Mrs.) Olulade Mosunmola (Yeye Otunba Mayegun) & Dr.(Mrs.) Olufunke Adeyeye

Mrs. Folake Eletu, Mrs. Mopelola Raheem,Mrs. Mosun Folami, Mrs. Toyin Sunmoni & Mrs. Dotun Badejo

Tony Olabadejo with Alhaji Saidi Owolabi

Rt. Hon. Monsurat Sunmonu (Speaker, Oyo State House of Assembly) with Hon. Yishawu Olusegun

Toyin Badejo, Odeyemi Mariam, Pastor (Mrs.) Lara Abari, Shola Otolorin & Princess Ramat Adeyinka -Ola

kingdom as well as Chief Musibau Ayinde Olofin and his wife, Mrs. Odofin , who got the title of the Otunba Tayese and Yeye Tayese of Ketu kingdom. The Kingdom, which had been preparing for the event , has already worn a new look and the serene town indeed came alive during the ceremony. The minute Oba Adefowora entered the venue, which was some minutes from his sprawling palace; he walked straight to the Gbedu drummers as tradition demands. He placed his foot on the drum and alongside his entourage, Oba Adefowora danced to the beat of the Gbedu drummers. The dance over, they entered the hall and started the event with a prayer by the Odofin of Ketu Kingdom. He prayed for long life and good health for the King and also for prosperity in the community. The moment he finished praying, each of the new Chiefs, alongside their family members, friends and well-wishers were invited to pay homage to the King. Each time this happened, shouts of Alaye , which is in reverence to the King, echoed inside the hall. Professor Akeusola was the first to be honoured as the Otunba Ajagunla of Ketu Kingdom by Oba Adefowora. Traditional rites were performed and traditional beads were placed on his neck and leaves on his head, before he was given the traditional cap. Soon after, he was given a Certificate and he thanked the Oba for bestowing the title on him, promising to live up to its responsibilities. He stepped outside to dance to the Gbedu drum, which is a compulsory traditional dance for anyone who is bestowed with a Chieftaincy title in Ketu Kingdom. The Chairman of Epe, Chief Segun Agbaje and his two beautiful wives, Otunba (Mrs.) Omolola Agbaje and Otunba (Mrs.) Sherifat Agbaje were the next on the roll. While Chief Agbaje, who is also the Otunba Mayegun of Ilara and Olu-Omo of 362

Epe Land, was honoured with the Otunba Fesogboye of Ketu Kingdom, his beautiful wives were installed as the Yeye Fesogboye of Ketu kingdom. He was later presented with a Certificate. The minute he was given the Certificate, he expressed his appreciation for the title and also prayed for the King and the community. Chief Musibau Ayinde Olofin and his wife, Mrs. Olofin took their turn to perform the traditional rites and were also presented with a Certificate, confirming the traditional title of Otunba Tayese and Yeye Tayese on them. They also stepped out of the hall to dance to the Gbedu drum. In between the conferment of these titles on these distinguished sons of the Epe community, the King’s official flutist kept blowing his flute intermittently, appreciating the people and the Alaketu of Ketu kingdom, Oba Adegboyega Adefowora. The Otunba Mayegun of Ketu kingdom, Hon. Segun Olulade and his wife, Engineer (Mrs.) Mosunmola Olulade, who bagged the title of the Yeye Mayegun stepped majestically to the King and the shouts of his sobriquet, Eleniyan, reverberated inside the hall. Thereafter, prayers were offered for him and his wife and they were fed with the ingredients of the traditional rites. Hon. Olulade, who is also a Patron of the Yoruba Video Film Producers and Marketers Association of Nigeria, YOVIFPMAN, was decorated with the traditional paraphernalia, including, the traditional cap, beads and walk stick. He collected the Certificate and stood up to thank the Oba for the honour. As demanded of them traditionally, the Otunba Mayegun of Ketu Kingdom and his wife, the Yeye Mayegun stepped outside to dance to the Gbedu drums. The last Chieftaincy title was conferred on Mr. Aliu Shittu and his wife, Mrs. Shittu. Both were given the traditional title of the Otunba Bobaselu and Yeye

Bobaselu of the Ketu kingdom. They performed the necessary traditional rites and were also given the Certificate. The event was witnessed by some members of the community including, the Chairman of Ikorodu Local Government, Prince Adeola Jokomba; Deputy Chairman of Epe Local Govt., Comrade Kenny KadiriEdu,; Olisa of Ketu Kingdom, Chief Adewale Badru; Balogun of Ketu Kingdom, Chief Sharafa Sonubi; Iyalode of Ketu Kingdom, Chief (Mrs.) Fausat Gbadebo and the Epe Women Leader, Alhaja Akingbade. The conferment of the Chieftaincy titles over, the next port of call was the residence of the Olulade’s, where friends and well-wishers of the new Mayegun and Yeye Mayegun of Ketu Kingdom were already waiting for them. Solidarity songs echoed from the residence and the well-wishers , majority of whom, were traders and politicians, also prayed for Hon. Olulade and demanded that he should be given another four year term to represent them in the House of Assembly. They were well pampered by the Olulade’s. Minutes later, the members of the Lagos State House of Assembly, who were led by the Deputy Speaker, Hon. Musibau Kolawole Taiwo stormed the residence of their colleague, whom they fondly call Eleniyan. Other members on the entourage included, the Majority Leader, Hon. (Dr.) Bayo Adeyeye, Hon. (Otunba)Mudasiru Obasa, Hon. Ramotallai Akinsola Hassan, Hon. Rotimi Abiru, Hon. Wahab Alawiye King, Hon. Gbolahan Yisau, Hon. Oluyinka Ogundimu as well as the Clerk of the House, Mr. Segun Abiru. They danced and felicitated with him and also enjoyed themselves. From his residence, they moved to that of Hon. Abiodun Tobun, the Otunba Apesi of Ketu kingdom. It was another session of celebration.

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