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Contents May 2018 Volume 33 â&#x20AC;˘ Number 9

Teacher Appreciation Week

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Whatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Inside 6 Family F.Y.I.

How Birth Order Affects Personality

Overnight at the Museum

14 Bookshelf 18 Calendar of Events 30 Single Minded

Unforgettable Sleepovers

Directories

15 Camps and Summer Programs 24 Schools & Childcare Centers 28 Entertainment & Party Needs 29 Classes and Enrichment 4

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Stop the Bleed What Mom Really Wants Childcare & Preschool Guide

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till trying to figure out where you’ll send your child to camp this summer? The 2018 digital edition of Northeast Camp Guide features helpful articles on picking the right camp, specialty programs, family camps, dealing with food allergies and more. Read it on BostonParentsPaper.com – just click on the Magazine tab then on the image of the Northeast Camp Guide.

What Mom Really Wants for Mother’s Day

lowers are nice. Brunch is a nerve wrecking and tiring experience and a weekend away can be too much work when you have kids under 10. Mom’s don’t require much. Most would like to do a little less. Here are 10 great and inexpensive ideas to get the gift Mom really wants and needs this year:

Memorial Day Memories

ou might not know that while Memorial Day has held its name since 1882, prior to that it was still celebrated but called Decoration Day. The name came from the practice of decorating graves with flags, flowers and wreaths. Memorial Day became its official name by federal law in 1967. 6

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1. Clean and Empty House 2. Sleep 3. A Really Good Workout 4. Spa Day 5. A Day Free from “Mom Routine”. 6. Car Wash 7. Subscription Box-self-care, clothing, books, wine 8. A finished Honey-Do list. 9. A no-cook or dishes week. 10. A handmade something, a card, photo collage, jewelry or piece of kid’s art.

Sun Smarts Woo-hoo – warm weather is here! More outside time, more playing, more fun! Just make sure you and your family are slathered in sunscreen. Remember, even on cool or hazy days, SPF is a must. The sun can affect your skin no matter the weather, so be sun safe. If you are going to the beach search up sunscreens that protect our oceans while still protecting you and your brood.

Back in the Day Did you know that once upon a time, before

Mother’s Day as we know it existed, there was something called Mothering Sunday? It was celebrated in the United Kingdom and some areas in Europe. Mothering Sunday fell on the fourth Sunday during Lent and referred to church-goers returning to their mother church. Wonder if parishioners brought their church homemade cards, too?

Clean House

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Now here’s a wacky holiday parents can get behind – Clean Up Your Room Day. The orderly occasion falls on May 10 and is the perfect opportunity to enlist kids in picking up after themselves to make those rooms spotless (or at least a couple of notches above pigsty). After all, you never know when the Clean Up Your Room Day Fairy might bump into Santa while he’s making his naughty or nice list.

Looking for the sweetest parade in town? Boston welcomes the Duckling Day Parade on May 13 in honor of the beloved children’s book Make Way for Ducklings by Robert McCloskey, which was published in 1941. It’s a fitting setting to celebrate a book that centers around a family of ducks that live in a lagoon in Boston Public Garden. The story is a Caldecott Medal winner and has sold more than 2 million copies.

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he latest studies have shown that active shooter incidents have been increasing over the past several years. The average number of active shooting events per year in the United States is 16, which has tripled since 2008. 80% of civilian trauma fatalities are a result of hemorrhage, yet uncontrolled hemorrhage is the most preventable cause of traumatic death in the U.S. Many of these deaths occur out in the field, while awaiting professional care to arrive. The scene is usually secured by law enforcement within the first few minutes of an incident whereas medical professionals can take much longer to arrive. In situations where there are a large number of injuries, 80% of those injured are transported to medical centers by civilian or nonambulance vehicles. The Stop the Bleed Coalition was created to educate the general public, raise awareness and provide tools to help control hemorrhage at the time of the event,

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before help arrives. Those around, during and immediately after an incident can help save lives with just a little bit of training on how to stop the bleed. Without care to stop the bleeding on site, survival rates of the injured drop drastically. Learning how to place a simple tourniquet can make all the difference if you happen to be a bystander in such an event.

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ne of my favorite Dr. Seuss books growing up was The Lorax. That tufted little monster who was shortish, and oldish, and brownish, and mossy stole my heart when he declared, “I am the Lorax. I speak for the trees. I speak for the trees, for the trees have no tongues. And I’m asking you, sir, at the top of my lungs.” In this modern-day twist of the classic story, I would like to speak for the teachers. Although they have tongues, those tongues are currently busy inspiring and engaging our sweet little ones. Not unlike that little Lorax, I am committed to elevating and celebrating the great work of teachers just as he stood by his Truffula trees. There’s no better time than May to share this message, as Teacher Appreciation Week is from May 7-11. Why am I so committed to this celebration? I was lucky enough to be raised by two amazing educators. As a teacher myself, I saw how hard my colleagues worked and experienced how much we poured into our classrooms. Now, as an assistant superintendent of schools, I get to spend my days collaborating with teachers, K-12, who consistently learn and grow

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along with our babies. Sadly, teachers in this country are falling as fast as those Truffula trees. A recent survey suggests that 46% of teachers say they feel high levels of stress and agree with this statement: “The stress and disappointments involved in teaching at this school aren’t really worth it.” Additionally, a 2016 report by the Learning Policy Institute (LPI) found that new teachers leave at rates somewhere between 19% and 30% during their first five years of teaching. I can’t see these numbers and not say anything. As the Once-ler stated after all the trees were gone, “And all that the Lorax left here in this mess was a small pile of rocks, with the one word ‘UNLESS.’ Whatever that meant, well, I just couldn’t guess.” Well, I can. Unless we begin to celebrate and elevate teachers, and fight for strong professional development and support from families and communities, the individuals who commit their lives to our kids won’t stick around to foster them into the next generation. Dr. Seuss reminds each of us, “UNLESS someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It’s not.” Sometimes, our teachers may fall short of our expectations, but I promise you it is not for lack of trying. Our

Katie Novak, EdD, is an internationally recognized education consultant, the assistant superintendent of the Groton-Dunstable Regional School District, the author of four books, including Let Them Thrive (CAST, 2017) and the mom of four amazing little Novaks. Learn more at http:// katienovakudl.com or follow Katie at @KatieNovakUDL on Twitter.

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schools have to support our teachers to provide them with high-quality professional development and environments where they flourish. As parents, one of the best things we can do is thank teachers for choosing to commit their lives to the bright, beautiful futures of our kids. And so, with Teacher Appreciation Week coming, I’d love to say how thankful I am for teachers and to give you some ideas about how to share your appreciation and love for them in no-cost and low-cost ways to lighten their load and celebrate their craft. Handwritten messages are the best! I received a lot of “thank you” cards as a teacher with kids’ signatures. These made me smile, but the ones I kept shared specific things I did as a teacher: specific assignments, field trips and things I said to the kids that made an impression on them. Whether they were written by kids or parents, I cherished them. I still keep all of them in a file to remind myself how amazing this profession is. Take the time to write a note to the amazing teachers in your life. It will go a long way. If you’re thinking about doing something nice, but you’re not sure what to do, ask them! If you’re willing to send in a small gift or small gift card, ask your teacher if there is anything he/she needs for the classroom, or ask where he/she buys a morning pick-me-up (Starbucks or Dunkin Donuts?). One of my best surprises from a parent was when she stopped by during first period with my chai latte. I still remember thinking it was incredible that she went out of her way like that. Did you make a fresh batch of blueberry muffins? Send one in with a note. I promise it doesn’t take much to show appreciation. In many schools, parents come together to put out a potluck breakfast buffet, a hot chocolate bar and/or a cookie swap for teachers in the Teacher’s Room. Ask your school principal if you can set something like this up for your teachers. Believe me, there is no greater treat than walking into the lunchroom with yucky leftovers and seeing fresh fruit sliced with yogurt dip! As a reminder, if you’re feeling super generous, in Massachusetts, there is a state ethics commission that has ethics guidelines for public school teachers. This law prevents teachers from accepting any gift valued at or above $50 from an individual or $150 from a class. So, if you’re feeling super generous, a nice $49 gift card to a favorite restaurant is a thoughtful, (and ethical) gift! For more details about this law, visit: http://www.mass.gov/ ethics/gifts-to-public-school-teachers-and-staff.html Stay away from Thneeds. Seriously, they are bad for the Truffula trees. On behalf of teachers, thank you for sharing your kids, your support and your appreciation. It’s a tough job but one I will always be committed to fighting for. So today and every day, thank your child’s teacher. The Lorax would be totally behind you.

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f you’re of a certain age, perhaps

the most obvious group of siblings that offered up an interesting illustration of birth order was TV’s iconic Brady Bunch. Even watching it in re-runs as second- or third-generation viewers of the 1960s series, at least one member of the squeaky clean clan probably spoke to you as a kid in some way, shape or form … and it may have to do with where you personally fall in your own family’s age lineup. Ever wonder why your oldest child agonizes over a book report while your youngest couldn’t care less whether he even finishes the book? It’s probably due, in large part, to birth order. Where you fall in your familial line influences your personality way more than you might think.

Firstborns

“Firstborns are the achievers,” says Dr. Kevin Leman, the best-selling author of The Firstborn Advantage (Baker Publishing Group, 2008) and The Birth Order Book: Why You Are The Way You Are (Time Group Books, 2011), among others, who has given countless interviews on the subject. “They’re our Presidents of the United States. They’re our astronauts in outer space. Of the first 23 astronauts, 21 were firstborns and the other two were only children. Firstborns are the architects or engineers, they’re English teachers, our dentists – anywhere where perfectionism pays off you’re going to find a proliferation of firstborn and only born children.” But here’s the real kicker – it’s possible you could have more than one firstborn. “Huh?” you ask. There are actually variables that can upset the birth order, like if you place a lot of time in between your first and your second (such as five years) it’s

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HOW BIRTH ORDER AFFECTS PERSONALITY

almost akin to starting a new family … at least mentally. And gender can make a difference as well. “I have five kids and I have one son in the middle of four girls. Is he the middle child? No, he’s the firstborn son,” says Leman. “He’s an executive producer of The Ellen DeGeneres Show. He does very well for himself. He’s not a middle child, he’s a firstborn. If there’s a fiveyear gap between the births of same sex children, you psychologically start another family.” Leman also explains that without older siblings, firstborns and only children are just influenced by their parents, almost acting like little adults at an early age. They’re also more likely to have their nose in a book.

Middle Children

Interestingly, Leman says middle kids are the toughest to “pin down,” so to speak. They often play off of their older sibling and they’re excellent negotiators because since they never got their parents to themselves, they’re used to compromising on just about everything. For this reason you’ll find a lot of middle children drifting toward careers in the social sciences and similar fields. “You wouldn’t be surprised to find a middle child who is doing very well in middle management because they’re relational by their nature and they negotiated for everything in life so they end up being pretty good negotiators,” says Leman. Middle children also have the tendency to be fiercely loyal, but make no mistake, if you have two kids of the same gender right next to one another in birth order, it makes for some serious competition. “It’s because we’re competitive by nature,” says Leman. “Two girls who are right next to each other or two boys who are right next to each other in birth order, if there’s a third or fourth child down there they’re going to find more of a chance to have a simpatico relationship by skipping a child

so to speak because there’s not that head-to-head competition.”

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The baby of the family might feel like your most precious – the last one to go through every rite of passage so you’re feeling a bit sentimental as mom or dad. But for as cute and outgoing as they are, they may not be so conscientious or good with responsibility. They’re open to new experiences, but also a little too willing to take risks that could prove to be dangerous. Still, Leman says don’t be afraid to parent your kids differently because they’re different people. “Your firstborn should line up his toys or his DVDs or anything he’s playing with, you should see the perfection in his life already, whereas the second born (or youngest) could be walking around with his underwear in his back pocket,” he says. “He couldn’t care less. But here’s the thing, as a parent, you learn to treat the kids differently, so the kids don’t go to bed at the same time, put the little one down first, have different allowances – it’s the differences that make us a couple in relationships. Firstborn women are more likely to marry youngest males or middle males.” Interestingly, because youngest borns are so social, they tend to excel in careers like marketing, where they can use their skills for the greater good. It’s also important to keep in mind that the way in

It’s also important to keep in mind that the way in which we parent can be a variable in whether or not a child follows the personality traits typically associated with her place in the birth order. which we parent can be a variable in whether or not a child follows the personality traits typically associated with her place in the birth order. Leman notes a phenomenon he refers to as the critical-eyed parent, whose disappointment can have a huge impact on kids. “That’s the parent who can spot a flaw with ease and they’re always ‘should-ing’ their kid,” he explains. “They’re pushing them and they’re essentially saying measure up. Lots of times, if that parent is strong enough, the firstborn child will do something very unusual. They’ll dig in, they’ll become a procrastinator and they won’t meet up to their expectations. They start a lot of projects and they’re good at the start but not at the finish, and they end up shooting themselves in the foot through life. If that happens then the second born, if they’re less than two years from the firstborn, might overtake the first born and become the leader of the pack.” Wherever your children stack up in your family’s birth order, just remember one thing. Similarly to the people you meet out in the world each and every day, they have their positive qualities and less than flattering ones, but each is truly special in their own way and it’s our job as parents to help them flourish as such. ■

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For the Birds Exploring birds all around us

he National Audubon Society, National Geographic and over a hundred organizations have declared 2018 the Year of the Bird. Get outside and explore birds all around us! These picture books will help build your children’s knowledge all about our fine feathered friends. “Beauty and the Beak: How Science, Technology and a 3D-Printed Beak Rescued a Bald Eagle,” by Deborah Lee Rose and Jane Veltkamp (Persnickety; ages 8-10; $16.95; 40 pp.). Our students have been fascinated by author Deborah Lee Rose’s inspiring account of a bald eagle whose beak was restored after she was illegally shot. Raptor biologist Veltkamp created a prosthetic upper beak using a 3D printer, enabling the eagle to eat and drink by herself. Very unfortunate, but ultimately uplifting. “National Geographic Kids Bird Guide of North America, 2nd edition,” by Jonathan Alderfer (National Geographic Kids; ages 6-10; $16.99; 208 pp.). This updated edition provides a great guide to identifying more than 150 birds, organized in chapters by habitat. Vital stats, habitat range and identifying markers help kids get to know these birds. A great introduction to the much more extensive National Geographic Field Guide to the Birds of North America.

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“Birdsongs,” by Betsy Franco (Margaret K. McElderry / Simon and Schuster; ages 3-7; $19.99; 40 pp.). Does the “tat, tat, tat” of the woodpecker draw you outside? Can you hear the quiet “coo coo coo” of the mourning doves cooing to one another? Author Betsy Franco turns these birdsongs into a delightful count-it-down picture book. “Every Day Birds,” by Amy Ludwig Vanderwater, illustrated by Dylan Metrano (Scholastic; ages 2-5; $17.99; 32 pp.). Very short simple verses and cutpaper collage illustrations introduce young readers to common North American birds. Perfect for budding naturalists. “Everything You Need to Know about Birds,” by DK (DK; ages 6-10; $15.99; 79 pp.). This collaboration between Smithsonian and DK is filled with high-interest facts and photographs. The colorful layout is packed with photos, maps and diagrams, and the text provides lots of information. “Feathers: Not Just for Flying,” by Melissa Stewart, illustrated by Sarah S. Brannen (Charlesbridge; ages 5-9; $7.95; 32 pp.). Did you know that feathers can help provide sun protection? Or help carry water back to nestlings? This remarkable book helps young readers think more deeply about the tremendous variety of birds’ feathers, their uses,

shapes and design. Perfect for developing inquiring minds. “Fire Birds: Valuing Natural Wildfires and Burned Forests,” by Sneed B. Collard III (Bucking Horse Books; ages 8-11; $17.00; 48 pp.). Collard presents a very interesting look at the impact of natural forest fires on wildlife, especially birds. He looks at the benefits of wildfires and explores ecosystems that thrive in their wake. Excellent introduction to the work of scientists and their impact on policy. “Just Like Us! Birds,” by Bridget Heos (HMH; ages 4-8; $14.99; 32 pp.). Did you know that birds can sing up to one hundred notes in two seconds? The world’s fastest rapper only sings twenty-eight words in the same time! Heos creates high interest by comparing birds to people, looking at all sorts of different behaviors from singing to housekeeping to raising babies.

“Sweep Up the Sun,” by Helen Frost & Rick Lieder (Candlewick; ages 5-9; $6.99; 32 pp.). Frost’s poem encourages young readers to watch birds in flight playing in the sky, learning to fly and trusting the sky to hold them aloft. Her poem is paired with Lieder’s amazing photography capturing birds in midflight, freezing a moment in time. Truly gorgeous. “Woodpecker Wham!” By April Pulley Sayre, illustrated by Steve Jenkins (Henry Holt / Macmillan; ages 4-8; $17.99; 40 pp.). Sayre’s dynamic verse brings alive the sound and movement of six different woodpecker species as they chop, bonk, tap and slam, doing serious work. “Wedge it. Sledge it. / Wham by wham. / Clear those chips. / SLAM, SLAM, SLAM!” A fantastic, upbeat celebration of science, poetry, art and language. Mary Ann Scheuer is a teacher librarian. Find more books Mary Ann recommends sharing with children at her blog, Great Kid Books, http:// greatkidbooks.blogspot.com.

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ave you ever wondered what really happens inside a museum after dark? How about at a zoo or aquarium? Chances are your kids have, and thanks to the popular trend of museum sleepovers, you can turn your next day at the museum into an unforgettable night at the museum! From slumbering beside a space capsule to waking with the Wampanoags, these local venues host overnights that include special events and exhibit access for the ultimate family outing. Looking for your Scout’s next stellar troop activity and badge? Some programs will even provide a custom program patch! So power up your flashlights, take a vote and make your own history overnight! 16

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Battleship Cove Maritime Museum Nautical Nights overnight camping program is an exciting way to experience a sailor’s life with activities such as Plane and Ship Spotting and Navy Lingo Bingo followed by a night in an authentic sailor’s bunk. Climb aboard with your Girl Scout or Boy Scout troop—the more, the merrier and pack your seabag! Fall River, www.battleshipcove.org

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The Liberty Fleet offers a truly unique opportunity to come aboard a working tall ship and spend the night in Boston Harbor from June through September. Each shipboard cabin is double-bunk style to simulate a sailor’s life on a schooner or “camping on the water” as they call it. Great hotel alternative and home base for exploring Boston as a family and getting your sea legs! Children must be 8 years old. Boston, www.libertyfleet.com

Museum of Science

This popular Boston museum sleepover is open to groups of ten or more for students and scout troops in grades 1-7. Spark a love of science in kids from dusk until dawn with hands-on science discovery, interactive demonstrations, a latenight indoor Theater of Electricity Lightning show, a Sky Tonight Planetarium show and much more. Here’s your chance to sleep under a life-size T-Rex or journey to the moon in your dreams beside a model of the Apollo space capsule. Boston, www.mos.org

EcoTarium Museum of Science and Nature

Targeted toward families, Family Fun Overnight: EcoTarium Campout is scheduled for an early summer night in June and focuses on the wonder and discovery of nature. Kids will learn about Leave No Trace principles, practice life skills such as knot tying

van der Graaf Generator, Museum of Science, Boston and go on a guided nighttime nature hike. After sleeping indoor among the exhibits or pitching a tent outside if you’d prefer, there will be a sunrise wildlife tour in the morning—following breakfast of course! Worcester, www.ecotarium.org

Franklin Park Zoo

Get wild with your favorite animals at the Snorin’ Roarin’ Sleepover program accepting groups of ten or more on Friday and Saturday nights year-round. Choose from the Tropical Forest or African Savannah theme, and go behind the scenes with zookeeper presentations and games, live animal encounters and more. Perfect for parties, Scout troops and youth groups, all guests receive one day of free Zoo admission.Boston, www.zoonewengland.org

Plimoth Plantation

Plymouth’s famed living history museum’s Overnight Program invites groups of twenty or more from March through November to explore 17thcentury life through a multisensory experience. Choose between the Wampanoag and Colonial Overnights, and learn about different cultures through native people and role players, hands-on activities, and authentic games and craft techniques. Share a traditional and educational feast with your group for dinner featuring items such as Naussump and Shrewsbury Cakes! Plymouth, www.plimoth.org

Alyson Young Gregory is a native New Yorker, and Boston-based freelance writer, mother, and Holistic Health Educator specializing in Ayurveda. She has a passion for maximizing vitality through nutrition based on environment and individual body constitution for all ages, supporting children's wellness policies, and finding inspiring local activities for families.

Out-of-State Museum Sleepovers THE MARITIME AQUARIUM

Norwalk, CT www.maritimeaquarium.org JOSEPH CONRAD SHIP Mystic, CT www.mysticseaport.org MONTSHIRE MUSEUM OF SCIENCE Norwich, VT, www.montshire.org CHILDREN’S MUSEUM & THEATRE OF MAINE Portland, Maine, www.kitetails.org AMERICAN MUSEUM OF NATURAL HISTORY New York, NY, www.amnh.org INTREPID MUSEUM New York, NY www.intrepidmuseum.org

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of music. $15. rockportmusic.org

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1 Tuesday

CAMPS AND SUMMER PROGRAMS

The Sound of Music at Wang Theatre 7pm, Wang Theatre 270 Tremont Street Boston. The spirited, romantic and beloved musical story of Maria and the von Trapp Family will once again thrill audiences Through May 13. Full schedule at www.bochcenter.org

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2018 THEM

ArtWeek at the Children’s Museum

ArtWeek Boston Various locations, Boston. A twice-annual 10-day collection of events throughout the city, featuring interactive and creative experiences. Through May 6. Full schedule at artweekboston.org

Lego Engineering, Robotic Programming, Stop Motion Animation, Minecraft

Easton, Hanover, Martha’s Vinyard, Melrose, Newton, Sharon, Tewksbury, Wakefield, Walpole, Wellesley, West Roxbury www.LetGoYourMind.com

2 Wednesday

Pine Village

I’m a Little Tadpole 3:30 – 5pm, Drumlin Farm Wildlife Sanctuary, 208 S Great Road, Lincoln. I’m a little tadpole, soon to be a frog. I’ll jump from the water and sit on a log! Spring is the time for frogs (and salamanders) to lay eggs. Meet frogs, listen for their songs, and check for babies swimming in the pond. For families with children ages 0-8. Registration required. $15.50. 781-259-2200; massaudubon.org

3 Thursday Some Bunny Loves You 10 – 11am, Drumlin Farm Wildlife Sanctuary, 208 S Great Road, Lincoln. Hop, hop, hop! Have an up-close visit with a Drumlin Farm rabbit and have a snack it would love to eat! We’ll search for rabbit hiding places around the sanctuary and visit the garden to plant a rabbit treat. For families with children ages 0-8. Registration required. $15.50. 781-259-2200; massaudubon.org

Nature Time 10:30 – 11:15am, Blue Hills Trailside Museum, 1904 Canton Ave, Milton. Programs may feature a story, nature games, crafts, short walks outside, or meeting one of the museum’s animal residents. Meet, play, and learn with other area families. Each program runs for 45 minutes and meets most Thursdays. For families with children ages 3-6. Registration required, Adults $6/ Children $9. 617-983-8500; massaudubon.org

Fairy and Leprechaun Story and Song with Celebrating Ireland 3:30pm, Blithewold Mansion, Gardens & Arboretum, 101 Ferry Rd Tiverton, Rhode Island Calling all Fairies and Leprechauns: come sing and dance at Blithewold Mansion as Mary King, Phil Edmonds and Kevin Fallon

er? Got leg o fev cur e! We’ ve got the

Summer STEM Programs

Old Fire Station at 9 Sullivan Avenue in North Easton. Throughout the week the focus will be on Claude Monet and his love of his water lily pond. Through May 6. Full schedule at childrensmuseumineaston.org

Summer Program

Vengan y Exploren con nosotros! A bilingual Spanish summer program for children ages 15 mos. to 7 yrs. Un programa bilingue de verano para niños de 15 meses a 7 años. Brighton • Jamaica Plain (Revere St.) • Jamaica Plain (South St.) • Kendall Sq. • Needham West Newton • Porter Sq. • South End

July 2 - August 24, 2018 Join us on the Pine Village “Avión Imaginario” for the adventure of a lifetime as we explore and discover Spanish-speaking countries of South and Central America and the Caribbean.

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of Celebrating Ireland get your toes tapping and your imaginations running wild! Free with Admission. 401-253-2707; www.blithewold.org

4 Friday

3:30 – 5pm, Drumlin Farm Wildlife Sanctuary, 208 S Great Road, Lincoln. Pigs dig and potatoes grow underground. Will the pigs dig for potatoes? We’ll dig, plant, and pig out! Then we’ll feed the pigs a garden treat. For families with children ages 0-8. Registration required. $16.50. 781-259-2200; massaudubon.org

Pigs and Potatoes

Fabulous Fridays Garden Play 1pm, Eleanor Cabot Bradley Estate, 2468B Washington Street (Route 138) Canton. Happy Friday! Kids natural playground is open for business! Come to the woods not unlike where Charlie Eliot once played! $10. 857327-5043; www.thetrustees.org

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The Sound of Music at Wang Theatre 7pm, Wang Theatre 270 Tremont Street Boston. The spirited, romantic and beloved musical story of Maria and the von Trapp Family will once again thrill audiences. Through May 13. Full schedule at www. bochcenter.org

Acro • Adult Classes • Ballet • Creative Dance (2-5) Competition Teams • Contemporary • Hip Hop • Jazz • Line Dancing Lyrical • Mommy & Me • Musical Theater • Performing Dance Teams • Pointe • Tap • Zumba

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Hansel and Gretel What do Mary Poppins, the rock star, and the babysitter all have in common? They each are trying to get Hansel and Gretel home before the witch eats them. Hansel and Gretel, written by Rene Pfister, artistic director of the Berklee Theater Arts Collaborative, is a new musical theater production. The production features Berklee's Theater for Young Audiences Ensemble and is suitable for children and families. 617-747-2261. The Berklee Performance Center, 136 Mass Ave. in Boston. berklee. edu

5 Saturday Wake up the Earth Festival 11am – 6pm, Southwest Corridor Park, Jamaica Plain. The parade begins at 11am, followed by multiple stages of entertainment, craft and food vendors, and much more. FREE. 617-524-6373; spontaneouscelebrations.org

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all that DANCE STUDIO

Come Discover the Joy of Dancing! CLASSES START AT AGE 2 AND ARE OFFERED 7 DAYS A WEEK Register now for Summer & Fall Check out our Free Performances! - Sunday, May 20th at 3:00pm at The Street, Chestnut Hill. Ages 2 and Up TM

• Ballet • Tap • Jazz 2017 • Hip Hop • Contemporary TOP 5 • Fairy Princess Dance • Musical Theater Triple Threat • Street Jazz and Lyrical • And More! 330 Watertown St., Newton • 617-641-0784 www.AllThatJazzNewton.com 2016

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Aerospacefest at the McAuliffe-Shepard Discovery Center 11:30am – 4pm, McAuliffe-Shepard Discovery Center, 2 Institute Dr., Concord, NH. The public is welcome to engage in a wide variety of hands-on science and engineering activities at the festival, to see the Discovery Centers newest planetarium show, and to meet an

astronaut: New Hampshires own Dr. Jay C. Buckey, Jr. $15 adults, $13 for students and seniors, $10 for children ages 3-12, and free for Discovery Center members and children under 3 years. 603-271-7827; www.starhop.com

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Meadowbrook

Newton Asian Culture Festival 10am – 2pm, Newton City Hall, 1000 Commonwealth Ave., Newton. Celebration of Asian culture with traditional foods, ethnic attire, cultural performances, folk art displays, kids activities, and more! FREE. newtoncommunitypride.org

Tulip Festival Open House 10am - 2pm, Stevens-Coolidge Place North Andover, 92-128 Andover St, North Andover. Bring the whole family and enjoy making flower sun catchers with the kiddos and reading stories in the cozy nook of a tree. Throughout the day, the gardens and grounds are open for exploring. Play lawn games set up around the property. $10. 978.356.4351; www.thetrustees.org

Day Camp

Entering K-7th Grade NEW DROBOT PROGRAM Two Week Sessions Extended Day Free Transportation

Teen Adventures

Entering 8th or 9th Grade One Week Sessions Exciting Activities NEW -DROBOTS FOR TEENS Experienced Leaders

Check out our new leadership program for teens 10 Farm Rd, Weston MA 781-647-0546 Daycamp.meadowbrook-ma.org for more info.

Boston By Little Feet 10am, Park Street MBTA Station, Boston. This child’seye view of the Freedom Trail’s architecture and history is especially designed for young walkers from 6-12 years of age. Reservations required. $12. 617-367-2345; bostonbyfoot.org

Concert by the Boston Children’s Chorus 7pm, Shalin Liu Performance Center, 37 Main Street, Rockport. Children ages 7-18 from diverse backgrounds discover the power of singing and transcend social barriers in a celebration of shared humanity and love of music. $15. rockportmusic.org

Wake up the Earth Festival 11am – 6pm, Southwest Corridor Park, Jamaica Plain. The parade begins at 11am, followed by multiple stages of entertainment, craft and food vendors, and much more. FREE. 617-524-6373; spontaneouscelebrations.org

6 Sunday New England Right Whale Festival 11am – 3pm, New England Aquarium, Central Wharf, Boston. Hear from scientists and researchers about efforts to protect this highly endangered species and take part in family activities. FREE. 617-973-5200; neaq. org

Birds and Breakfast (41st Annual) 7am – 12pm, Broadmoor Wildlife Sanctuary, 280 Eliot Street, Natick. This year celebrate Mother’s Day a week early! Be an early bird and come on your own or with family and friends for guided birding explorations followed by a homemade breakfast (pancakes and REAL maple syrup from the Natick Community Organic Farm) at the Nature Center. For families with children ages 5 and up. Registration required. Adult $19/Child $11. 508655-2296; massaudubon.org

Celebrating over 60 Years of Excellence in Early Childhood Education!

Join the Fun at

Beacon Hill Nursery School

this Summer!

"Come explore Nature in the City" in our 2 natural playscapes, discovering science and nature, and engaging in water play and outdoor art activities. ★ Discovery Museum ★ Barn Babies ★ Aquarium ★ Yoga ★ Curious Creatures ★ and More! Visit our website for a complete list of summer programming. Registration now open!

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May Fair

Rock Off Main

Noon to 6pm, Harvard Square, Cambridge. This annual spring festival includes multiple stages of music and dance, food, vendors, children’s activities and very cool sidewalk chalk art. FREE. 617-491-3434; harvardsquare. com

7pm, Amazing Things Arts Center, 160 Hollis St., Framingham. The Amazing Things Arts Center presents Diane Young Productions “Rock Off Main ” a monthly, all ages show that features local bands and singer/ songwriters from middle school, high school, college or just out of college. $8, 508-405-2787; amazingthings.org

CAMPS AND SUMMER PROGRAMS PAIGE ACADEMY | NGUZO SABA SUMMER PROGRAM •Each 2-week session has a theme: Academic Enrichment, Nature Around Us, The Universe, Sources of Energy, and Cultural Diversity. •Campers go on field trips and take swimming classes twice a week as well as attend music, art, drumming and yoga classes weekly.

July 2 - August 24, 2 week sessions 8 am • 5:30 pm

Ages 5-12 years old. Rolling admissions Register Now by contacting Brother Ashé Brooks-Cook

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The Martian 4-D Experience Multiple showings daily, Museum of Science, 1 Science Park, Boston. Journey out of this world and into space in The Martian 4-D Experience®! Stellar 3-D projection and action-heightening special effects will have you rooting for the safe return of the lone Martian! Free with Admission. 617-723-2500; www.mos.org

Dora & Diego’s 4-D Adventure Multiple showings daily, Museum of Science, 1 Science Park, Boston. Dora & Diego’s 4-D Adventure is featured in 3-D and brought to life with 4-D multisensory effects, sure to captivate the attention of young viewers! Free with Admission. 617-723-2500; www.mos.org

Visit the Japanese House 11am, Boston Children’s Museum, 308 Congress St., Boston. Experience Japanese family life, customs, ceremonies, art, architecture and seasonal events in this 100-year-old house. Free with admission. 617-426-6500; bostonkids.org

A Mirror Maze: Numbers in Nature Camp programs for children with type 1 diabetes. Programs offer fun, recreation, diabetes education, and support. • Clara Barton Camp for girls • Camp Joslin for boys • Day Camps

• Adventure Programs • Family Programs • Year-round Programs

The Barton Center for Diabetes Education, Inc.

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Exxcel Gymnastics and Climbing TM

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9am – 5pm, Museum of Science, 1 Science Park, Boston. At the center of it all: a 1,700-square-foot elaborate mirror maze where visitors can lose themselves in a seemingly infinite repeating pattern of mirrors. This arrangement of symmetry and tessellation is the ultimate introduction to patterns and how math is an integral part of our lives. Dead ends are scattered throughout, and a small secret room is hidden within, rewarding you with bonus puzzles and artifacts. Free with admission. 617-723-2500; mos.org

SUMMER STARTS HERE!

7 Monday

School’s Out Camp - ages 3+

MFA Playdates

June 11-15 and June 18-22 Half, Full, Extended Day – Full or Part Week

Summer Camp June 25 – August 30

Pre-School Gymnastics– ages 3-5

10:15am, Museum of Fine Arts, 465 Huntington Ave., Boston. Bring your toddler to enjoy story time, art making and looking activities in the galleries. Free with admission. 617-267-9300; mfa.org

Half, Full, Extended Day – Full or Partial Weeks

Gymnastics Camp – ages 5+ Rock Climbing/Sports Camp – ages 7+ Fun indoor/outdoor activities including Zip Line, Bungee, Foam Pit, Trampoline, Obstacle Courses, Water Slides, Crafts and more! Air Conditioned Facility

Where kids matter most! 88 Wells Avenue • Newton 617-244-3300 • www.exxcel.net

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8 Tuesday Cheeky Chipmunks 10 – 11am, Habitat Education and Wildlife Sanctuary, 10 Juniper Road, Belmont. Now you see them, now you don’t! The chipmunks at Habitat are very busy at this time of year scurrying along the stone walls and running across the driveway. Where are they going so quickly? See whether we can find out as we explore the sanctuary and play some chipmunk games. For children

ages 0-5 with an adult. Registration required. $8. 617489-5050; massaudubon.org

Spring Nature and Art Discovery programs 10 – 11am, Museum of American Bird Art, 963 Washington Street, Canton. Celebrate nature through art, songs, puppets, stories, and nature play along the trails, in the nature play area, museum, and studio space. Each week is a different theme and will include a story, nature exploration, and an exploration of a different art medium. When the weather is nice we will spend time outside. For ages 2.5-5.5 with an adult. Registration required. Adults FREE/Children $10. 781821-8853; massaudubon.org

9 Wednesday Everyday Engineering: Straw Structures 2pm, The Discovery Museums, 177 Main St., Acton. Engage in some everyday engineering as you construct and create with repurposed and recycled materials. Explore shapes, structures and so much more with the help of just straws and pipe cleaners. Free with admission. 978-264-4200; discoverymuseums.org

The Sound of Music at Wang Theatre 7pm, Wang Theatre 270 Tremont Street Boston.

The spirited, romantic and beloved musical story of Maria and the von Trapp Family will once again thrill audiences. Through May 13. Full schedule at www. bochcenter.org

Every Day Art Program: Journey Boxes The Eric Carle Museum, 125 West Bay Road, Amherst. Inspired by the exhibition Paddington Comes to America, use collage to create an artwork that travels! Free with admission. 413-658-1100; carlemuseum.org

10 Thursday Birds of a Feather 10 – 11am, Drumlin Farm Wildlife Sanctuary, 208 S Great Road, Lincoln. Flock together and greet the songbirds that are preparing to build nests and raise their families. Meet a couple of feathered friends and create bird nest helpers to take home for the birds in your neighborhood. For families with children ages 0-8. Registration required. $15.50. 781-259-2200; massaudubon.org

Nature Time 10:30 – 11:15am, Blue Hills Trailside Museum, 1904 Canton Ave, Milton. Programs may feature a story, nature games, crafts, short walks outside, or meeting

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one of the museum’s animal residents. Meet, play, and learn with other area families. Each program runs for 45 minutes and meets most Thursdays. For families with children ages 3-6. Registration required. Adults $6/ Children $9. 617-983-8500; massaudubon.org

11 Friday 1pm, Eleanor Cabot Bradley Estate, 2468B Washington Street (Route 138) Canton. Happy Friday! Kids natural playground is open for business! Come to the woods not unlike where Charlie Eliot once played! $10. 857327-5043; www.thetrustees.org

Trucks, Tractors and Tools 3:30 – 5pm, Drumlin Farm Wildlife Sanctuary, 208 S Great Road, Lincoln. Search for trucks, tractors, and tools all over the farm and see the important jobs they help do. What did farmers use before they had machines? Meet a farmer and take a hayride while getting a behind-thescenes look at these mega machines! For families with children ages 0-8. Registration required. $16.50. 781-2592200; massaudubon.org.

12 Saturday March for Babies 9am, North Point Park, 6 Museum Way, Cambridge. Join Boston Parents Paper in a scenic walk while raising money for the March of Dimes. Registration required. 508-366-9066; marchofdimes.com

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3pm, Boston Symphony Orchestra, 301 Massachusetts Avenue, Boston. Under the direction of conductor Keith Lockhart, the Pops will perform an unforgettable afternoon of Disney’s Broadway Hits, featuring stars from Disney’s top Broadway shows. Repeats Sunday. $30 and up. 888-266-1200; www.bso.org

Brookline Cherry Blossom Festival

Fabulous Fridays Garden Play

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Noon – 4pm, Brookline High School Quad, 115 Greenough Street, Brookline. Loud and thunderous, in addition to food, games, and music, the festival’s artistic draw is the region’s only public taiko drumming showcase featuring taiko groups throughout New England. $5 suggested donation, $10-20 for families. www.brooklinecherryblossom.com

Multi-culteral Festival and Kids FunFest. 10am – 5pm, Newton Centre Green, Newton. This community festival features kiddie amusement rides, face painting, craft and food vendors as well as dance performances. FREE. newtoncommunitypride.org

Celebrate Azize’s Third Birthday! 10am – 2pm, Franklin Park Zoo, 1 Franklin Park Road, Boston. Azize, the baby of the gorilla troop, turns three. Sign a card, have some cake and learn more about gorillas. Free with admission. 617-989-3742; zoonewengland.org

13 Sunday Mother’s Day Lilac Sunday, 10am – 3pm, Arnold Arboretum, 125 Arborway, Boston. The lilac is celebrated with tours and activities. Stay for lunch – it’s the one day picnicking is allowed on the grounds but food must be brought in to the Arboretum—no food vendors on site. FREE. 617-3845253; arboretum.harvard.edu

Duckling Day 10am – 12:30pm, Parkman Bandstand, Boston Common, Boston. Dress up as a Make Way for Duckling character and parade through the Common. After, enjoy games, music, magic and more. Family, $40. 617-599-8509; friendsofthepublicgarden.org

Boston Pops Disney Broadway Hits Mother’s Day with the Music of Disney, 3pm, Symphony Hall, 301 Massachusetts Ave., Boston. For 20 years, Disney has astonished millions worldwide with theatrical productions that both entertain and amaze. $30 and up; 50% off youth tickets. 888-266-1200; bostonpops.org

Mother’s Day Spring Alpen Celebration 10am, Appleton Farms, 219 County Road, Ipswich. A tradition originating in the Alps, enjoy traditional Swiss treats, a fondue bar, live music, a cow parade and more. Registration required. Moms, free; adults, $30; youth, $15. 978-356-5728; ttor.org

Mother’s Day 9:30am- 5pm, Old Sturbridge Village, 1 Old Sturbridge Village Road, Sturbridge. Visit the Village to learn about 19th century parenting, watch cooking demos and partake in hands-on crafts. Free with admission; moms, free. 800-733-1830; osv.org

Celebrate Mother’s Day at the Zoo 10am – 6 pm, Franklin Park Zoo & Stone Zoo. Celebrate your mom (and all of the zoo moms!) with FREE ADMISSION for all mothers throughout the day. Bring Mom along with the entire family to the Zoo for a memorable day spent discovering incredible animals! Moms free, free with admission. 617-989-3742; zoonewengland.org

14 Monday MFA Playdates 10:15am, Museum of Fine Arts, 465 Huntington Ave., Boston. Bring your toddler to enjoy story time, art making and looking activities in the galleries. Free with admission. 617-267-9300; mfa.org

16 Wednesday Toddler Time on the Farm 10am, Gore Place, 52 Gore St., Waltham. A monthly morning of outdoor fun and education on a farm. Meet animals and help with farm work as you play. Ages 2-3. Registration required. Youth, $10. 781-894-2798; goreplace.org

18 Friday Star Gazing Nights 8:30 – 10:30pm, Moose Hill Wildlife Sanctuary, 293 Moose Hill Parkway, Sharon. Join local astronomers for a look at the stars and other night objects through big telescopes. The event is on-going, so drop in for all or just some of the evening. This free program is cancelled if sky conditions are cloudy/milky or in the event of deep snow/extreme cold. For ages 6 and up. FREE. 781-7845691; massaudubon.org.

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19 Saturday

looking at Treehouses. Registration required. $10. 617391-4023; lbdma.org

MuckFest MS 9am, Willard Athletic Complex, Antietam St. & Sherman Ave., Boston. A 5K muddy obstacle course (ages 12 and up) supporting the National Multiple Sclerosis Society. Younger kids (ages 5-11) will enjoy the free mucky play area. muckfest.com

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20 Sunday Josh & the Jamtones 10am – noon, Newton City Hall, 1000 Commonwealth Ave., Newton. Josh & the Jamtones are an interactive, ultra-powered dance party. FREE. newtoncommunitypride.org

10:30am-12noon Old West Church, 131 Cambridge St, Boston by Charles/MGH. Donate clothes, baby and Special Storytime: Nadia Hohn at The Eric momma gear, and toys. Take home same. Extras donated Carle Museum to Cradles to Crayons. 100+ families. $5 per family, 2pm. 125 West Bay Road, Amherst. During this special free with bag of 18m-3T clothing. www.facebook.com/ storytime, Hohn will delight families with an interactive, groups/bostonbabies.clothingswaps or www.meetup. lively, and musical program exploring Caribbean songs, com/clothing-swaps rhymes, and games. Free with admission. 413-658-1100; carlemuseum.org Super Heroes for Endangered Species Day Varying times, Franklin Park Zoo, 1 Franklin Park Rd., Boston. Meet Spider-Man and Captain America, and learn how you can unleash your own powers to be heroes for our endangered species! Free with admission. 617-541-5466; zoonewengland.org

Family Design Day

Fast & Furriest 5K – Run. Walk. Wag 8am, Baxter Park, Assembly Row, Somerville. A new family-friendly fundraiser for the MSPCA including a timed 5K fun run, walk and kids’ fun run – each including dogs. See website for pricing. 978-687-7453; fastandfurriest.com

10:30am, BSA Space, 290 Congress St., Boston. A design and architecture workshop for families, this month

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Family Science Sunday - May: Backyard Birding 1 – 3pm, Oak Knoll Wildlife Sanctuary, 1417 Park Street, Attleboro. Join us at the Ottmar Nature Center anytime between 1pm-3pm to conduct your very own hands on science experiment! Each month will feature a different topic and a different drop in activity kit. For ages 3 and up. Registration required. Adult $10/Child FREE. 508223-3060; massaudubon.org.

21 Monday MFA Playdates 10:15am, Museum of Fine Arts, 465 Huntington Ave., Boston. Bring your toddler to enjoy story time, art making and looking activities in the galleries. Free with admission. 617-267-9300; mfa.org

22 Tuesday

art, songs, puppets, stories, and nature play along the trails, in the nature play area, museum, and studio space. Each week is a different theme and will include a story, nature exploration, and an exploration of a different art medium. For ages 2.5-5.5 with an adult. Registration required. Adults FREE/Children $10. 781821-8853; massaudubon.org.

The Best of the Boston Pops 8pm, Boston Symphony Orchestra, 301 Massachusetts Avenue, Boston. Conducted by our beloved BSO Youth and Family Concerts conductor Thomas Wilkins, the concert will feature a bit of everything from the romance of Leonard Bernstein and Richard Rodgers, to swinging jazz of Duke Ellington and George Gershwin, to rock classics from bands like Queen, to the soaring film music of John Williams. While this concert may be designed more for families with older children, the selection of music is nonetheless fitting for fans of any genre. Repeats Wendesday. $30 and up. 888-266-1200; www.bso.org

Spring Nature and Art Discovery programs 10 – 11am, Museum of American Bird Art, 963 Washington Street, Canton. Celebrate nature through

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his is the story of John and Mary, whose names are not John and Mary. John and Mary met and married more than twenty years ago. During their early days as a couple, they traveled extensively, attended graduate school and eventually settled in Boston where both pursued careers that required high intensity and dedication. After close to a decade together they had a son. When that child was six years old, the bonds of matrimony started to fray. Although they continued to share a home for five more years, it was more as roommates than husband and wife. Eventually Mary moved out and after two years of living separately, John and Mary got a divorce. However, they still remain friends—or is it, friendly? John and Mary talk or text several times a day. They attend their son’s school functions together. They socialize with their common friends and they have not given up family vacations. They do not speak openly about the divorce, and many of their acquaintances are unaware of this change in their marital status.

Best Friends Forever

When I was in high school, divorce was rare in my hometown. Although it seemed odd at the time, the one couple that did end their marriage came to sports events to cheer on their daughters. When they both remarried, the foursome showed up together and really seemed to enjoy each other’s company. It is highly unlikely that my ex-husband and I could socialize together. I’m not even sure we could be in the same room at the same time! Divorced couples are supposed to be antagonists, not associates. Shouldn’t there be animosity instead of goodwill? Is it a sign of maturity that an ex-husband and ex-wife can be friends? “Ex-spouses may become good friends after some time has passed and they have healed from the loss of the relationship and the family’s reorganization,” says Diana Blank, LCSW, a divorce and separation specialist. But how does the child interpret the cordial relationship? Does he think Mom and Dad will get back together because they get along so well? “Younger children often maintain a reunification fantasy,” responds Diana, who teaches a workshop called Parenting Young Children through Separation/Divorce and leads a single-parent support group that meets quarterly. “It is important that parents not feed into this fantasy, but rather help the child accept the family’s new reality.”

Fantasy Vacations

Shortly after their divorce was finalized, John and Mary took their son on a European vacation. Although they booked separate rooms, they spent all of their time together. They had fun and created some wonderful lasting memories,

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but did they also sow seeds of a potential reunion? “A family vacation could be a healing experience for a child if there is a clear message that the parents are not getting back together,” explains Diana. “The couple should be far along enough in their post-divorce adjustment process before they plan the trip, though.” Diana says it can be confusing for kids if the parents don’t talk openly about why they’re traveling together: “They need to discuss the reality of their continued divorce status. If the child is still struggling to accept the divorce, it might be best to postpone the trip.”

Social Circles

Many of John and Mary’s mutual friends are the parents of their son’s friends. This social circle has remained supportive of all and no one appears to be lining up behind either. This seems remarkable to me but actually benefits the children of divorce. As Diana suggests, “It is often very stabilizing for children to maintain the same social connections.” And it isn’t a bad thing for kids to spend time with other divorced families. This may normalize a somewhat abnormal situation. I am surprised at how many of my own children’s friends come from divorced households. They recognize this as a 21st-century fact of life—not every child grows up with two parents under the same roof.

Making New Matches

Neither John nor Mary is dating. In fact, with work commitments and managing the busy life of an adolescent, making new matches is not a consideration. But when that day comes, Diana recommends they not bring this new adult into their son’s life too soon. “It is highly recommended that parents not introduce their children to dating partners until the relationship is considered solid, a long-term commitment,” she says. It takes time for exes to move past the pain of the dissolution of their marriage. “Each parent needs to keep working on adjusting to the divorce and a new life,” says Diana. “That can involve many changes and sometimes multiple losses before a friendship can be forged, maintained, and enjoyed.” Diana encourages divorced parents to work at being friends: “Children can benefit significantly from having cooperative co-parents who get along well and make good parenting decisions together.” And that’s exactly what John and Mary are doing. Susan Solomon Yem is singleminded about raising her five children to adulthood. She’d like to hear your stories about single parenting. Contact her at susansyem@gmail.com

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