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am feeling like quite the fortunate Scorpio birthday woman these days. By the time you read this note, I will have received one of life’s greatest gifts: my first grandchild. I’ve spent the past nine months dreamy-eyed watching my daughter grow in myriad ways as her beautiful belly expands. More than once, I’ve been thrust back into reflecting on the miracle of birthing three healthy babies, a joyous period intermittently shattered by too many miscarriages. The arc of our life reinforces how devastatingly fragile and enchanted life can be at every moment. Enter the magic of this month’s Someone You Should Know: John Kahan. Serendipitously, John, a new friend, met my ready-to-birth first daughter at my front door. Heart racing, I momentarily froze, unable to utter a proper introduction. Here’s why: Fifteen years ago, John’s beautiful baby boy Aaron Matthew died from SIDS days after birth. I struggled to know how to broach such a painful subject for both him and my expectant daughter. John Kahan and Alayne Instead, I focused on the amazing way John has channeled that personal tragedy into positive change for others. “Meet John,” I told my daughter. “He’s got an amazing position at Microsoft where he works on AI for humanitarian action to support disaster recovery, address the needs of children, protect displaced people and promote human rights.” As if that’s not enough, John has also launched the awe-inspiring First Steps for SIDS online video campaign in honor of his son, I added. While we count our blessings this Thanksgiving, let’s also make positive change. Through First Steps for SIDS, let’s raise public awareness (share #firststepsforSIDS) and funds (donate, firststepsforsids.org) to support research into the causes of and, ultimately, preventative measures for SIDS. Every parent should experience the joy of their child’s first step. Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours.

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hen you’re pregnant, one of the first things people ask is, “Is it boy or girl?” These days it’s assumed

that you know before birth. You can usually discover the sex of your baby at your 20-week ultrasound or even earlier with a blood test. Once you know, you could plan a big reveal party but guess what? You don’t have to find out. You can leave it a surprise. Here are just a few reasons why leaving the sex a surprise can be a wonderful thing.

Thanks but no thanks, gender stereotyping Many of us want our kids to grow up as individuals and not feel boxed in by gender stereotypes. Unfortunately, that’s often easier said than done. Take the types of clothes available for kids: frilly pink onesies “for” girls and construction truck pajamas “for” boys. And the minute you tell friends and family you’re expecting a boy or girl? You guessed it: The (stereotypical) gifts start rolling in. Before you know it, you already have a closet full of pink before your baby girl is even born. One benefit to keeping your baby’s sex a surprise: You can start off gender neutral right away. Not to mention, as soon as people hear

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that you don’t know the sex, they start to speculate. All the old (and kinda fun) superstitions come out: Sweet cravings for a girl, salty for a boy. Boy bumps are like basketballs while girl bumps are like watermelons. Accuracy aside, it certainly keeps things interesting.

Sometimes the technicians get it wrong Even though ultrasound imaging has advanced a lot, it’s still possible for the technician to get it wrong. In fact, it happens about 5 percent of the time. If you want to be 100 percent certain of the sex, get a blood test — or save yourself the hassle and the stress altogether and leave it a surprise.

Talk about a fun surprise Giving birth can be one of life’s most precious moments. Now add the suspense of finding out your baby’s sex when they arrive, and you’ve got a recipe for even more special day. One word of caution: If you do choose to keep your baby’s sex a secret, be sure to inform (and remind!) your medical team along the way. They may forget and we don’t want any accidental slip-ups! n Vicky McDonald is the digital content editor at ParentMap.

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The Ultimate CODING ADADEMY FOR KIDS

YouTuber? A little guidance can help your kids ‘channel’ a positive experience

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win sisters Monica and Shelby Church were teenagers attending Jefferson High School in Federal Way when they started their respective beauty channels, Hairodynamic and Teenmakeuptips. Their numbers skyrocketed, and now, in their early 20s, they continue to run the highly popular channels, with more than 1 million subscribers each. Achieving that kind of success on the platform is what many young YouTubers envision when they launch their own channels. But kids who wade into waters of content creation often find there’s no quick, direct path to YouTube fame. It can also be a place where kids stumble upon inappropriate content or experience cruel comments from strangers or cyberbullying. And, as with any digital platform, too much screen time can detract from analog friendships and activities. So, how should you react when your kid is obsessed with becoming a YouTuber? First, know that your kid isn’t alone.

Plugged in For many kids, YouTube has become a major part of their media diet. Take, for example, Anitra Durand Allen’s daughters, 13-year-old Olivia and 11-year-old Alexandra, in Louisville, Kentucky. “They know that there’s TV and they understand that there’s cable,” Allen says, “but they get their entertainment, for the large part, from YouTube.” And for kids who enjoy watching YouTube videos, making videos themselves is sometimes the natural next step. Inspired by popular accounts like Ryan Toys Review,

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But what about bullying? Cyberbullying is also a real issue that parents should be aware of, she says. Too little supervision can lead not only to your kid becoming the victim of cyberbullying, but also the perpetrator. Allen, whose daughters enjoy watching YouTube, says she’s confident she could help her kids cope with cyberbullying. But for now, she’s limiting their social media experience to Instagram because she has concerns about the YouTube platform itself. Each of her daughters has a compelling reason to engage online: Eleven-year-old Alexandra is a nationally competitive sprinter, and 13-year-old Olivia runs a nonprofit. Allen closely monitors their Instagram accounts, where each girl has hundreds of followers.

While Allen supports her “If it’s marked PG or G or family“ Too little friendly, I need to know it actually daughters’ use of Instagram and supervision is,” she says. the connections they form there, Supervision and communication she’s concerned about the YouTube can lead not are the forms of assistance that Allen algorithm, which she says gives applies to her daughters’ online only to your YouTubers less control over what activity. Social media contains happens to their content. kid becoming opportunities for both good and When one video ends, the site bad behavior, Allen says, and it automatically supplies another the victim of sometimes gets an unfair bad rap. one to follow it. Critics say the cyberbullying, But parents can be their kids’ guides site’s algorithm makes it too easy to unlocking its positive potential. for a kid’s video to be followed but also the “As the parent of kids who’ve by inappropriate content that has known nothing but social perpetrator.” nothing to do with the video that media,” she says, “I think it’s our preceded it. responsibility to make sure they’re For Allen to feel comfortable letting her responsible users of social media.” n children publish on YouTube, she says, the algorithm needs to be better at filtering out Emily E. Smith is a journalist based in Montana. inappropriate videos.

Seattle-Area Camps and Classes for Kids Interested in Tech For budding YouTubers, a class in video production or animation may help them take their craft to the next level. All around the Sound, you can find classes, workshops and camps that focus on advancing kids’ skills in coding, STEM and multimedia through fun and challenging projects. Check out the following programs for tech-inclined kids.

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Summer tech camps for kids ages 7–18 through iDTech focus on a variety of topics, such as coding and web design. For students ages 10–12, there’s also a camp on YouTube gamecasting and video production. idtech.com/courses/youtube-gamecasting-andvideo-production Workshops and summer camps give kids ages 8–17 an opportunity to learn about the craft of filmmaking, including video production and editing. nwfilmforum.org/youth

Kids ages 8–16 have the chance to learn about game design, and digital music, video, and photography at Camp TechWise’s summer camp. camptechwise.com

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Creative Coding provides after-school classes and summer and holiday camps that teach computer programming and game design for kids ages 8–12. creativecoding.com

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Engineering, with workshops and summer camps centered on computer science. cs.washington.edu/outreach/k12

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Summer and year-round programs are available through DigiPen’s ProjectFun for students in grades 1–12 who are interested in game development, multimedia production, animation and engineering. projectfun.digipen.edu/summer-programs

Seattle Public Library

The library’s digital learning programs for kids cover subjects such as robotics, programming, electronics, gaming and virtual reality. spl.org/programs-and-services

TechVenture

Classes, clubs and summer camps through TechVenture focus on coding, engineering and digital photography for students in first through eighth grade. techventurekids.org

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Homework doesn’t matter as much as you think. While homework routines can foster the ability to manage projects and deadlines, there are also huge benefits when young children simply read for pleasure, talk to their parents about their day, play in the backyard, bake something in the kitchen or do nothing at all. Imagine a world without homework battles.

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SUNDAY TALALITO/PIXABAY

PICKS

MONDAY Día de los Muertos Community Festival, Nov. 4

Piper’s Creek Salmon Celebration, Nov. 18

ParentMap ‘LIKE’ ﬁlm screening, Nov. 15

SWANSONS NURSERY

Hmong New Year Celebration, Nov. 3

FANTASY LIGHTS

Swansons Reindeer Festival, Nov. 10–Dec. 24

Día de los Muertos Community Festival. Create art in the TAM studio, view community altars and a tapete sand painting, enjoy traditional food, performances and more. 10 a.m.–6 p.m. FREE. Tacoma Art Museum. tacomaartmuseum.org Salmon SEEson. See the salmon spawning in Issaquah Creek on a drop-in tour Saturdays and Sundays. 11 a.m. or 1 p.m. through Nov. 11. $2 suggested donation. Issaquah Salmon Hatchery. issaquahﬁsh.org

Toddler Time at the Aquarium. Engage with your tot in fun, marine-themed activities. Nov. 4–6, 18–20; 9:30 a.m.–noon. Included with admission. Ages 5 and under with adult. Seattle Aquarium. seattleaquarium.org Pajamarama! Evening Story Time. Get cozy in your jammies and your favorite stuﬀy to wind down with stories and songs. Mondays, 6:45–7:30 p.m. FREE. Ages 3–6 with adult. Shoreline Library. kcls.org ONGOING EVENT

Hoppy Hour. Get an early bird discount for energetic kids to get the rainy-day (or any-day) wiggles out. Monday–Friday, 10 a.m.–12:30 p.m. $7–$12. Ages 1–8. Elevated Sportz Trampoline Park, Bothell. elevatedsportz.com ONGOING EVENT Ballard Church Indoor Play. Neighborhood church opens its doors for families with tots to play out of the rain. Tuesday– Thursday, 10:30 a.m.–1:30 p.m. FREE. Ages 0–8 with adult. Ballard Church, Seattle. ballardchurch.com ONGOING EVENT

Chum Salmon and Cider Celebration. Celebrate the return of chum salmon with experts answering questions and partake in free spiced cider and snacks. 11:30 a.m.–2 p.m. FREE; Discover Pass required to park. McLane Creek Nature Trail, Olympia. streamteam.info FREE Entrance to National and State Parks. Enjoy our national parks FREE Nov. 11, and state parks FREE (no Discover Pass required to park) Nov. 11 and 23. nps.gov, discoverpass.wa.gov

Tribute to Veterans at Imagine. Add to the tribute wall and hear the presentation of colors at noon. 10 a.m.–4 p.m. Included with admission; veterans free. Ages 1–12 with families. Imagine Children’s Museum, Everett. imaginecm.org Veterans Appreciation Days. Point Deﬁance Zoo & Aquarium and Northwest Trek oﬀer free admission to active-duty military and veterans, and half-price for their immediate families. Friday–Sunday, Nov. 10–12. Tacoma, Eatonville. pdza.org, nwtrek.org

Where the Wild Things Are: Maurice Sendak Exhibition. Admire at the original, iconic artwork of the late author of “In the Night Kitchen,” “Where the Wild Things Are” and other classics. Daily through Dec. 1 during library hours. FREE. Tacoma Public Library main branch. tacomalibrary.org Animal Viewing at Kelsey Creek Farm. Stop by Bellevue’s city-owned farm park to see pigs, ponies, rabbits and goats. Daily 9:30 a.m.–3:30 p.m. FREE. Bellevue. farmerjayne.com

Fantasy Lights Walk, Nov. 18

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Piper’s Creek Salmon Celebration. Welcome chum and coho salmon back to the creek and mark the occasion with kids’ activities, music and more. 11 a.m.–2 p.m. FREE. Carkeek Park, Seattle. govlink.org/ watersheds Fantasy Lights Walk. Take in the amazing light displays by foot, the only chance to walk, not drive, through the park. 5–8 p.m. $4 per person; ages 3 and under free. Early bird discount available online. Spanaway Park, Tacoma. co.pierce.wa.us

19 Lil’ Diggers Playtime. Kids dig digging in the giant indoor sandbox. Monday, Wednesday, Thursday, 9:30–11 a.m. or 11:30 a.m.–1 p.m. $8; one free adult per child. Ages 5 and under with caregiver. Sandbox Sports, Seattle. sandboxsports.net ONGOING EVENT Magic Monday. Local magicians perform in the cozy quarters of the bookstore the second Monday of the month, 7–8 p.m. FREE. Third Place Books Ravenna, Seattle. thirdplacebooks.com

20 Kidz Bounce Drop-In Time. Grown-ups get a breather while the little ones get their workout. Tuesday–Thursday, 10 a.m.–2 p.m.; Thursday, 5–6:30 p.m. $8–$10. Ages 2–10. Kidz Bounce, Preston. kidzbounce.com ONGOING EVENT Matilda the Musical. Enjoy this Tony Award-winning musical that highlights how every individual has the power to change their own story. Nov. 8–Dec. 30. $37–$82. Ages 8 and up. Village Theatre, Issaquah. villagetheatre.org

Santa Train. Ride a vintage train to visit Santa and have a treat. Saturday–Sunday, Nov. 24–Dec. 16; special Victorian Santa Train on Dec. 14. $27; under age 2 free. Northwest Railway Museum North Bend Depot. trainmuseum.org Let’s Plant a Tree. Learn about leaves, then go on a nature walk and plant a willow tree! 2:30–3:30 p.m. FREE; preregister. Ages 5–10 with adult. Lewis Creek Park Visitor Center, Bellevue. parks.bellevuewa.gov

Providence O’Christmas Trees Family Preview. View the gorgeous trees, let kiddos’ creative juices ﬂow with arts and crafts and have a snack. 3–7 p.m. FREE. The Westin Seattle. washington.providence.org WildLights. Experience the zoo after dark, illuminated in a wonder of holiday sparkle. Daily, Nov. 23–Jan. 5, 5:30–8:30 p.m. (closed Dec. 12, 24–25). $9.95–$14.95; ages 2 and under free. Woodland Park Zoo, Seattle. zoo.org

Annie. Follow Annie on her journey to ﬁnd her forever family in this dazzling production of the hit Broadway musical. Nov. 23–Dec. 30. $36 and up. The 5th Avenue Theatre, Seattle. 5thavenue.org Zoolights. Revel in the dazzling light creations — hammerhead sharks, a polar bear family and more. Nov. 23–Jan. 6, 5–9 p.m. (closed Dec. 24). $10–$12; ages 2 and under free. Point Deﬁance Zoo & Aquarium, Tacoma. pdza.org/zoolights

Book signing, Nov. 10

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Disney on Ice: Dare to Dream. It’s a fantastical mash-up of Disney faves including “Cinderella,” “Moana,” “Rapunzel” and, of course, “Frozen.” Nov. 1–5; also Nov. 8–11 at Angel of the Winds Arena, Everett. $25 and up; ages 1 and under free. ShoWare Center, Kent. disneyonice.com Small Frye: Storytelling in the Galleries. First Friday stories and art-making session. 10:30–11:45 a.m. FREE; preregister for art. Ages 3–5 with caregiver. Frye Art Museum, Seattle. fryemuseum.org ONGOING EVENT

Three Little Pigs. You’ll be rooting for the pig sisters in StoryBook Theater’s re-interpretation of this classic. 11 a.m. and 1 p.m. $15. Ages 3–10 with families. Kirkland Performance Center. (Find additional dates and venues online). storybooktheater.org Hmong New Year Celebration. Celebrate the unique culture of Southeast Asian highlands with live performances, food, games and more. 11 a.m.–6 p.m. FREE. Seattle Center. seattlecenter.com/festal

Let’s Play: Stone Soup. Littles enjoy a live-theater show, just right for their attention spans. Nov. 7–11, 10 a.m. $5. Ages 0–5 with caregiver. Olympia Family Theater. olyft.org Low-Sensory Evening. KidsQuest invites kids with sensory sensitivities to play with a bit less noise and light, and fewer other guests. 5:30–7:30 p.m. FREE; preregister. Ages 1–10 with families. KidsQuest Children’s Museum, Bellevue. kidsquestmuseum.org

Theatre for Young Children. Fun and upbeat shows celebrate cultural stories and keep tots on the edge of their seats. 10–10:45 a.m. FREE. Ages 2–6 with caregivers. Belltown Community Center, Seattle. seattle.gov/parks Seattle MathFest. Celebrate math and its awesomeness with carnival-like games and prizes for kids and families. 5–7:30 p.m. FREE; preregister. Ages 3–11 with families. Rainier Community Center, Seattle. zenomath.org

Critter Club. Enjoy animal stories, handson exploration and a real-live surprise. Nov. 8–9, 29–30. 11 a.m.–noon. $14–$15; preregister. Ages 3–5 with adult. Point Deﬁance Zoo & Aquarium, Tacoma. pdza.org Family Bingo Night. Bring your family and your own marker or dauber and get in on some bingo fun with great prizes. 6:30–9:30 p.m. $5 includes 6 bingo sheets; ages 3 and under free; preregister. Meridian Habitat Park, Puyallup. piercecountywa.org

Veterans Day Parade. Honor our country’s veterans and active-duty military at this terriﬁc annual parade, one of the largest in the U.S. 11 a.m. FREE. Auburn Main Street. auburnwa.gov ’52 Seattle Adventures With Kids’ Book Reading. Meet the editor and writers of this new book which details fun family adventures for all seasons. Refreshments provided. 4–5:30 p.m. FREE. Island Books, Mercer Island. mercerislandbooks.com

Baby Gym. You and your baby explore with coach guidance at this FREE drop-in group class. Wednesday, 9:30–10 a.m. FREE. Ages 4–12 months with caregiver. Advantage Gymnastics Academy, Woodinville. advantagegym.com ONGOING EVENT Swansons Reindeer Festival. Meet real-live reindeer plus check out the train display and snap a photo in the sleigh. Daily, Nov. 10–Dec. 24. FREE. Swansons Nursery, Seattle. swansonsnursery.com

‘LIKE’ Film Screening. Is your child addicted to social media? Join ParentMap at our screening of the original IndieFlix documentary “LIKE” to understand the eﬀects of technology and how to navigate it safely as a family. Q&A with experts directly after. 7–9 p.m. $15–$18. Kings Schools, Shoreline. parentmap.com/like Black Violin. World-renowned classical-hip-hop fusion duo performs. $31–$71. 7:30 p.m. The Paramount Theatre, Seattle. stgpresents.org

Overnight at the Museum. Drop your kids oﬀ for a night of wand crafts, scavenger hunts, potion experiments and more! Friday, 7 p.m.–Saturday, 8 a.m. $35; preregister. Ages 7–12. White River Valley Museum, Auburn. wrvmuseum.org Skwim. Gather your crew for this pool game mash-up of water polo and Frisbee golf! Fridays through Dec. 28 (no program Nov. 23), 7–8 p.m. $3.75–$5.50. Ages 8 and up and must be able to swim independently. Evans Pool, Seattle. seattle.gov ONGOING EVENT

Yulefest. Partake in Scandinavian Christmas traditions with music, tasty treats, craft marketplace and Santa. Check website for prices. Saturday–Sunday, Nov. 17–18. Nordic Museum, Seattle. nordicmuseum.org Bird Tour. Embark on a search with experienced leaders for migratory birds and year-round residents within the park; bring binoculars. Also Nov. 17, 8–10 a.m. $5. Ages 8 and up. Discovery Park, Seattle. seattle.gov

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1 Family Nature Class. Explore seasonal learning stations and get outside for a short hike. Nov. 1 or 3, 9:30–11:30 a.m. $19 per adult/child pair; preregister. Ages 2–5 with adult. Washington Park Arboretum, Seattle. botanicgardens.uw.edu Play.Perx. Bring your tot to this sensory play day to explore all ﬁve senses with a variety of materials. Thursdays through Nov. 15, 9–9:45 a.m. $15. Ages 1½–3 with caregiver. Jewish Day School, Bellevue. jds.org

Santa Train at Northwest Railway Museum, Nov. 24–Dec. 16

Toddler Tales & Trails. Kids and caregivers enjoy story time and a nature stroll. Wednesday and Saturday, 10–11 a.m. $2. Ages 2–5 with caregiver. Seward Park Audubon Center, Seattle. sewardpark.audubon.org ONGOING EVENT Gingerbread Village. This year’s theme is “Inspired by Whoville” so expect amazing Seuss-ian creations. Daily, Nov. 20–Jan. 1. FREE; donations appreciated for the JDRF Northwest Chapter. Sheraton Grand Seattle Hotel. sheratonseattle.com

Norpoint Turkey Trot. Move your body before stuffing your belly; try the 5K run, 2-mile run/walk or kids’ trot. 9 a.m. $15–$35. Center at Norpoint, Tacoma. metroparkstacoma.org/trot Seattle Turkey Trot. Join your community for a scenic 5K jaunt that finishes at Golden Gardens and benefits the Ballard Food Bank. 9 a.m. $15–$40. Golden Gardens, Seattle. seattleturkeytrot.org

OmTots Play Gym. Bounce around, swing from the ceiling and play like a monkey. Monday–Friday, 9:30 a.m.–noon. $12; discounts available. Ages 1–5 with caregiver. OmCulture Wallingford, Seattle. omculture.com ONGOING EVENT Garden d’Lights. Plant and critter shapes created from over half a million lights sparkle and amaze. Daily, Nov. 24–Dec. 30, 4:30–9 p.m. $5; ages 10 and under free; check online for select free admission nights. Bellevue Botanical Garden. gardendlights.org

Kaleidoscope Play and Learn. Meet and play with other families. Thursday, 10:30–noon. FREE. Ages 0–5 with caregiver. Third Place Commons, Lake Forest Park. thirdplacecommons.org ONGOING EVENT Bellevue’s Magic Season Ice Arena. Get your glide on at this seasonal, covered ice arena. Nov. 24–Jan. 15. $10–$14 includes skate rental. Bellevue Downtown Park. bellevuedowntown.com

Winterfest. Marvel at the massive model train display (control trains during special hours with $2 suggested donation) and enjoy the seasonal skating rink. Performances on select dates. Nov. 23–Jan. 6. Village viewing FREE; skating requires fee. Seattle Center. seattlecenter.com Snowﬂake Lane. It’s a nightly holiday parade with lights, drummers, dancers and more. Daily, Nov. 23–Dec. 24, 7 p.m. FREE. Bellevue Way and N.E. 8th St., Bellevue. snowﬂakelane.com

KidsQuest Gingerbread House Workshop. Sign up early for this fancy holiday outing to decorate a gingerbread house. Friday–Saturday, Nov. 23–24. $60/family of up to 6; preregister. Hyatt Regency Bellevue. kidsquestmuseum.org Elf the Musical, Jr. Enjoy the musical version of Buddy the Elf’s story. Friday– Sunday, Nov. 23–Dec. 2. $15. Bellevue Youth Theatre. parks.bellevuewa.gov

Greet the Season. Celebrate the season with a special festive showing of model trains, music, dance, crafts and more. 10 a.m.–8 p.m. FREE. Lake Union Park, Seattle. mohai.org Holiday Tree Lighting. Join a community welcome to the holiday season; get tickets to see Broadway Center’s “Imago Theatre’s Frogz” at 7:30 p.m. (tickets sold separately). 4:30–6:30 p.m. FREE. Pantages Theater, Tacoma. broadwaycenter.org

Loads more family fun activities at parentmap.com/ calendar

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BE CURIOUS.

Excerpted from ParentMap’s

ZOOM IN.

new book “52 Seattle Adventures With Kids.” Learn more at parentmap.com/ parentmap-books.

Rainy Day

Curiosity emerges at PacSci’s Tropical Butterfly House. New butterflies taking flight every week.

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From A to Z

Where to get out when you can’t get outside By Elisa Murray

he Seattle metropolitan area experiences an average of 152 rainy days a year. Drizzle, of course, doesn’t stop us (right?), but there are those days when it’s just too

wet or windy to go outside. Here’s a field guide to the great indoors with kids.

#ArmMeWithBooks

A note: In any season, hanging with young kids can be isolating. Find yourself a meet-up group: In addition to PEPS (Program for Early Parent Support), which is focused on

84.88% of those

new parents, check out resources such as Families of Color

surveyed in a recent ParentMap poll say they are adamantly opposed to arming educators.

Seattle or MOPS International, or form your own group with the help of your community Facebook group or listserv.

Most parents, educators, and kids agree:

Guns don’t belong in the classroom.

parentmap.com/never-again supports common sense gun reform. Follow us on

to join in our fight to end gun violence NOW.

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AQUARIUMS: Touch tidal life and ogle octopuses at the Seattle Aquarium; or spy on sharks in the underwater tunnel of Point Defiance Zoo and Aquarium’s 35,000-squarefoot Pacific Seas exhibit. Also, Poulsbo’s SEA Discovery Center and Highline College’s Marine Science and Technology (MaST) Center in Des Moines (open seasonally) are free aquariums with plenty to see.

BOUNCE AND JUMP: Check out epic jumping spots, such as the 53,000-squarefoot Flying Circus in Tukwila or Arena Sports’ gigantic facility in Mill Creek. For the younger set, spots such as the free Ballard Playspace and WiggleWorks Kids get the, er, wiggles out. COMMUNITY CENTERS: More than 20 Seattle community centers offer free drop-in play sessions designed for kids ages 5 and younger, complete with balls, trikes, scooters, push bikes and other entertainment. Many other regional community centers have indoor play of all kinds for kids of all ages.

COWORKING CENTERS: Coworking spaces that include child care are popping up. Try The Inc. (with two locations in Seattle), Roo’s World of Discovery in Kirkland (also a play space) and others. DANCE: So many options! Beyond formal ballet and tap classes, kids can try break dancing (check out Anna Banana Freeze’s famous Mini Breaks break dancing classes in Seattle’s ChinatownInternational District); square dancing (consider a family dance at Phinney Center), Hawaiian dancing and much more. DROP-IN CHILD CARE AND GYMS: Drop ’em off and shop (or work) at centers such as Woodinville’s The Nest, and Adventure Kids Playcare in Bellevue and Issaquah. Athletic clubs can be a great source of reasonably priced child care for an hour or two.

GAME STORES: Unplug with board games at spots like Blue Highway Games on Queen Anne and Meeples Games in West Seattle; you can also borrow a game from most stores’ lending libraries to try it out before buying. Other hot spots include Uncle’s Games (Bellevue, Redmond, Tacoma), Games and Gizmos (Redmond) and Mox Boarding House (Ballard, Bellevue). 28 • November 2018 • parentmap.com

HOME DEPOT: You can’t leave your kid at Home Depot, but you can sign them up for a free DIY kids’ workshop, which will guide them in projects such as building a picture frame or constructing a bird feeder.

IKEA: Yes, Virginia, you can shop for furniture and entertain your kids at the same time. Upon arriving at IKEA, drop the kids off at Småland, a supervised play area, or let them visit the activity stations in the store’s showroom. parentmap.com/ikea INDOOR SKATE PARKS: All Together Skatepark in Fremont and Bellevue Indoor Skate Park offer lessons throughout the year teaching kids

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MAKER SPOTS: Many local art centers, such as Seattle ReCreative and Tacoma’s Tinkertopia, offer drop-in sessions that are perfect for preschoolers and older. And even young kids can throw some paint and end up with a gift at a paint-your-own pottery spot.

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NATURE CENTERS: Beautifully designed environmental centers, such as those at Bellevue’s Lewis Creek Park, the Cedar River Watershed and Mercer Slough as well as the Tacoma Nature Center, are often empty midweek and have space for kids to play and learn. (Always check center hours beforehand.) PET STORES: Never underestimate the power of an hour at Petco to watch the fish, ferrets and dwarf hamsters. Just be prepared to say no to expanding your critter collection.

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PLAYFUL CAFES: Finding a cafe or low-key restaurant with solid espresso options, good snacks and a train table or play area is the holy grail for parents. TUMBLE ON: High-flying indoor playtime at spots like the Seattle Gymnastics Academy guarantees a long nap later that day. Older kids

may be interested in parkour, an up-and-coming sport whereby kids learn to run, jump and climb over obstacles. Classes are offered by the likes of Parkour Visions, MoveFree Academy and other organizations and businesses.

UNUSUAL STORY TIMES: Tugboat story time, multilingual story time, story time with theater, story time with chocolate, story time with nature exploration: You can find all that and more around Seattle.

ZOOS: Climb, jump and learn at Woodland Park Zoo’s Zoomazium; wander and wonder at Point Defiance Zoo’s Pacific Seas Aquarium. And don’t forget Pacific Science

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Go Away Monster! by Gamewright, recommended by Meeples Games and Blue Highway Games. Kids love this award-winning board game, which combines conquering fears with finding the missing pieces of a bedroom game board. $14.99 Hanna Honeybee by Haba Games, recommended by Blue Highway Games. Preschoolers turn flowers into honey while learning dexterity and patience. $19.99 Jellycat stuffed animal, recommended by Top Ten Toys and Snapdoodle Toys. These stuffed animals out of London are the softest, sweetest and most loving whimsical versions of animals; for every kid who never says no to another “stuffie.” Starting at $22.50 Loulou Lollipop silicone teether, recommended by Clover Toys. Who says a necessary item can’t be beyond adorable? You’ll want a llama and a sloth for your little one’s collection of natural rubber or silicon teethers from this Vancouver, British Columbia, company. $26 Grimm’s wooden toys, recommended by Clover Toys. Handcrafted in Europe, these wooden stacking toys can be turned into an array of useful items, from tunnels and tiny houses to rocking chairs for beloved dolls and stuffed animals. Starting at $20.99 Corolle baby dolls, recommended by Clover Toys. Your toddler will love that this vanilla-scented baby doll is exactly the right size for snuggling in their arms. $49.93

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Plus-Plus construction toys, recommended by Top Ten Toys and Snapdoodle Toys. Toy store owners tell us customers can’t stop creating creatures and objects with these little plastic shapes that look like plus signs. These manipulative, brightly colored building blocks are made in Denmark. $9.99 Squishies, recommended by Top Ten Toys and Snapdoodle Toys. Satisfy your child’s tactile wish for a squeezable and scented toy that slowly rises to show off its cute factor. From Japan, these squishes come in a plethora of shapes, from unicorns to boba balls. Starting at $10.99 Rhino Hero by Haba, recommended by Meeples Games. Adults and kids love building skyscrapers with this award-winning game. $14.99 Giant T-rex by Schleich, recommend by Clover Toys. Standing nearly seven inches high, this toy will be your dino fan’s new favorite. $16.49

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Holiday puzzles by Piatnik, recommended by Magic Mouse Toys. Work together as a family to put together these charming holiday puzzles from Europe. starts at $22 Kwik Stix solid tempera paint, recommended by Top Ten Toys and Snapdoodle Toys. While a Kwik Stix looks like a cool crayon, it’s actually a tempura paint stick, which means painting doesn’t have to be super messy. $24.99 E-Blox building sets, recommended by Magic Mouse Toys. With E-Blox’s plug-together bricks and modules, kids build items that light up and make sounds, such as a working FM radio or an airplane propeller that spins at different speeds. $32.99

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Go Nuts for Donuts by Gamewright, recommended by Meeples Games. Victory is sweet as players collect crullers and glazed doughnuts while playing this card game. $15. Santorini by Spin Master, recommended by Blue Highway Games. This mythic game celebrates the island of Santorini. $29.99 Dragonwood by Gamewright, recommended by Blue Highway Games and Meeples Games. This Mensa Select pick is a game of dice and daring that both kids and adults love to play. $14.99 Kingdomino by Blue Orange Games, recommended by Blue Highway Games. In this game, winner of the German “Game of the Year” awards, each player builds a kingdom using domino style pieces. $19.99 Labyrinth by Ravensburger, recommended by Blue Highway Games and Meeples Games. Players move around the shifting paths of the labyrinth in a race to collect various treasures during this slightly abstract maze game. $31.99 GraviTrax Set by Ravensburger, recommended by Top Ten Toys, Snapdoodle Toys and Magic Mouse. With this modern mouse-trap game, players design and build their own three-dimensional marble runs and experiment with gravity, magnetism, and kinetics. $59.99

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Top Ten Toys in Greenwood and Snapdoodle Toys in Kenmore and Redmond will celebrate Neighborhood Toy Store Day on Saturday, Nov. 10, with treats, demonstrations and giveaways. There’s also Parent Shopping Night with drinks and appetizers on Friday, Dec. 7, from 8 to 10 p.m.

On Saturday, Dec. 15, from 1 to 4 p.m., Magic Mouse Toys in Pioneer Square will share some of their top STEM science toys.

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When It’s More Than the Mid-Winter Blues Talking about depression as a family By Malia Jacobson

we’d call the condition by its name ennifer Mott of Burien and answer kids’ questions more was 12 years old when openly, he says. But mental health she began experiencing conditions aren’t handled with the symptoms of depression, same frankness. including lingering sadness and The unintended result of mood swings. But she didn’t know that silence: Symptoms of she had depression, a treatable depression can go unreported condition closely tied to genetics. and unrecognized, leaving youth “We were a private family,” vulnerable to substance abuse, she says. “It was more about self-harm and even suicide. pulling yourself out of feeling bad Although more youth and families and pulling yourself up by your have health insurance these bootstraps.” days, some 76 percent of youth So, Mott tried pulling herself with severe depression don’t get out of her depression, selfadequate help. medicating with alcohol and pills by age 13. After a decade Breaking the silence struggling with addiction and Talking about depression as a depression, she swallowed family can at first seem strange or hundreds of pills in a suicide stilted, especially for adults whose attempt that resulted in a monthown parents stayed quiet on the practice in Seattle, working primarily with people long coma, persistent respiratory distress and topic. But breaking the silence around mental experiencing metal illness. Her volunteer work severe muscle atrophy. health has profound benefits for children, says with the National Alliance on Mental Health Her long recovery from the suicide attempt Dr. Avila. First, talking openly about depression (NAMI) involves talking to local youth about was a bleak, dark period in her life, Mott says. helps kids depersonalize the behavior of a family mental health and depression. “It’s so important to Even with care from the region’s top specialists at member experiencing it. keep lines of communication open with kids and Overlake Medical Center and Clinics and other When a depressed parent withdraws, cries teenagers, so they know how to reach out for help local hospitals, she struggled to breathe and walk without warning and sleeps at odd hours without when they need it,” she says. independently. explanation, many kids blame themselves, he Overlake psychiatrist Dr. Antonio Avila agrees. “At one point after the coma, I was on a says. Only when the condition is labeled as Depression touches nearly every family at some ventilator and using a wheelchair, and I remember depression, a treatable, often temporary state, can point — recent statistics show eight to nine crying watching someone walk up the stairs kids begin to understand that the behaviors aren’t percent of adults and youth experience depression, because I didn’t know if I’d ever be able to do that,” about them. and rates for children and teens are climbing she says. Discussing depression has another important — but the topic isn’t openly discussed in many As Mott’s body healed, she eventually found benefit for children, Dr. Avila notes. Because homes. the right combination of treatments for her depression has a strong genetic component, kids If a family member has, say, diabetes or cancer, depression, which included a with a depressed parent have a much brain stimulation therapy called higher risk of developing depression Sponsored by: electroconvulsive therapy, or ECT. themselves, he says. Stronger and healthier, she decided “So developing a dialogue around to become a resource for others mental health helps share with kids experiencing the pain and isolation an important part of their own Overlake Medical Center and Clinics are committed to offering the of depression. health history, one that could affect highest quality, compassionate medical care for you and your family. Now 35, Mott is a licensed their own risk for mental illness Learn more about your healthcare options at overlakehospital.org. down the road.” mental health counselor in private

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Award-winning healthcare When is the right time to start talking? There’s no right age to begin a conversation about mental health, says Dr. Avila. “But kids are pretty smart, and they’ll get it, as long as we talk about it in an ageappropriate way.” This means approaching the topic differently with a 7-year-old than with a 17-year-old. With younger children, parents might say something like, “Dad loves spending time with you, but right now he has something called depression, which happens to people sometimes. He’s working to get better, but right now he’s feeling sad.” Teens and young adults are probably ready for a more factual conversation about depression, including risk factors, symptoms and therapies that can help. “Parents should talk to teens about what to do when they’re not feeling like themselves, and also what they can do if they notice that their friends are struggling,” says Mott. When a child shows signs of depression, which can start as early as age 5, parents shouldn’t wait to intervene, says Dr. Avila. “With kids experiencing depression, we see a lot of the same symptoms as adults, but kids are more likely to show a lot of anger,” he says. Symptoms like persistent sadness and irritability warrant a prompt visit to a child’s pediatrician;

for threats of suicide, call 911 or take your child to the nearest emergency room.

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Developing a dialogue Talking about mental health isn’t a onetime thing, says Mott; raising kids with mental health savvy takes many conversations over many years. But starting even a single conversation lets kids know that they can bring up questions later on. “Having discussions about a parent’s or grandparent’s experience with mental illness can let kids know they’re not alone if they’re experiencing these things too, and ways they can seek help,” Mott says. The goal is to build kids’ “health literacy” regarding mental health — healthcare-speak for the ability to recognize health problems, speak up and get needed help. When kids know that severe mood swings and crying jags aren’t character flaws or normal teen angst, but symptoms of depression, they’ll be more likely to get help before symptoms spiral out of control, says Mott. They’ll also be less likely to fall prey to depression’s most dangerous and seductive symptoms: isolation, fear and silence. n

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figured it would take much longer for me to become that older person who shakes their fist in the air and exclaims, “Kids these days!” But alas, here I am, 33 years old, totally confused and cantankerous about kids these days. Why don’t they know certain essential life skills? Has technology evolved so far and so fast that our young people forgot how to live without iPhones glued to their faces? So, pull up a seat, whippersnappers, because I’m going to teach you some things. I’ve taken the liberty of creating a list of “Old-School Life Skills That Your Kid Needs.”

If middle school kids are anything like I was back in the era of Doc Martens and skater jeans, the outfit changes are abundant. Teach your middle school kids how to do their own laundry. Teaching your kid how to launder their clothes might even reduce the number of items they pull from their closet and throw on the floor. Sewing is an essential skill as well, so break out a needle and thread and show them a little light mending.

Preschool and kindergarten Sure, your preschool or kindergarten kiddo can control your whole house with an iPad and work your phone better than you can. (OMG, someone make my child stop downloading apps on my phone!) But can they recall your phone number without accessing the contact list or asking the phone robot to “call home”? Your little ones absolutely must know how to memorize a phone number and how to actually dial it on a phone that doesn’t have a touchscreen.

Elementary school Thanks to STEM programs, your kid can probably program their own robots by the time they reach elementary school. But unless they are some kind of wicked genius, it is highly unlikely they will program a robot to teach them how to properly address and mail a letter. I dig email as much as the next person, but our elementary school children should know how to address a letter, correctly add a return address and navigate a post office. Bonus points if they

High school Just the other day, I helped a 17-year-old kid with directions. They were literally lost. They flagged me down and explained that the charging port on their phone wouldn’t charge and their phone had died midnavigation. They explained a parent kept a map in the glove box, but they didn’t know what the words on the map even meant. Puzzled, I checked out the map. The confusing names were, you guessed it, street names. This poor kid was so used to just turning left when Google told them to that they weren’t able to connect with how to use the printed map. Your high schooler must know how to figure out north, south, east and west and how to navigate using a non-digital map. Our kids get hooked on technology before they are even walking, and the “old school” skills we once prioritized are relegated to the bottom of the stack in favor of even more technology. I’m worried for them. I’m worried for all of us. Let’s band together and bring the old school back in style. n Jasmine Banks is a queer Black feminist. She is a licensed therapist, racial justice organizer and mom.

write — not type — the letter

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someone you should know

John Kahan

Every parent should experience the joy of their child’s first steps

Here’s how you can help: firststeps forSIDS.org

By Alayne Sulkin • Photo by Will Austin

eather and John Kahan could have been forever crushed when their son Aaron Matthew, seeming to have been born healthy, died soon after birth. Kahan has turned his family’s profound heartbreak into an opportunity to advance medicine, science and technology to hopefully unlock answers leading to a cure for SIDS. Recruited by Steve Ballmer 15 years ago to leave his home state of New York and IBM, Kahan would only move to Seattle with his wife and kids if his parents’ joining were part of his Microsoft relocation package. Who doesn’t want that son? Meeting Kahan makes you revisit your reserved notions around high frequency connections and the magical dimensions of the universe. I had a powerful lesson in how devastation can cause transformation. He radiates kindness, optimism and warmth which overshadows what is surely one of the most gifted and sharp minds. His new mouthful of a title is chief data and analytics officer, corporate external and legal affairs. “John’s team will have an ambitious mission: to derive new insights and infuse data science to address the world’s great challenges. This will include promoting the sustainable use of the planet’s resources, improving opportunities for people with disabilities, protecting human rights, strengthening humanitarian assistance and increasing the capabilities of the world’s NGOs,” to quote his boss and Microsoft CEO Satya Nadella. But today, he’s razor sharp focused to raise awareness and funds with the First Steps for SIDS campaign.

How have you managed to embrace the loss of your son?

Fifteen and a half years ago I was truly feeling really blessed. I came to Microsoft with my wife Heather, who was 6 ½ months pregnant. On October 6, 2003, our first son was born and we were overjoyed having been fortunate to already have three spectacular girls. Having our first boy was a very big deal. Aaron Matthew was born and he was doing what new born infants do. Then tragedy struck and six hours after his birth he stopped breathing. Aaron was rushed to Seattle Children’s Hospital and the amazing doctors did everything 46 • November 2018 • parentmap.com

they humanly could. Grief for our lost baby was all-consuming for a long time. And then, at some point, we felt the need to do something. It’s impossible to stand in your shoes at that moment of pure tragedy.

You can imagine how completely devastating this was for our family. In spite of all of what was happening around us, we felt incredibly lucky that Aaron was at Seattle Children’s where they did everything they could to understand what happened. But even to this day, they don’t know why Aaron died [of SIDS].

“ SIDS is the leading cause of death for infants 1-month- to 1-year-old.”

How have you channeled this heartbreak into action?

When you start to just conceptualize what I began to learn, you grasp how shocking the data is. Since Aaron died in the United States, 60,000 infants have died from SIDS. The United States has one of the lowest infant mortality rates in all of the developed world markets. We are 32 of the top 36 markets in infant mortality. Yet, six out of every thousand children in the U.S. die before their first birthday and one of those six dies of unexplained and unexpected causes. SIDS is the leading cause of death for infants 1-month- to 1-year-old. This is why we has to launch the First Steps for SIDS campaign. How has your professional life merged with your passion to advance SIDS research?

About 2.5 years ago an absolute miracle happened. I was trying to raise awareness and money for the research going on at Seattle Children’s. My incredible Microsoft data scientist and colleague Juan Lavista Ferres had recently had a new baby, and wanted to help our cause. He went to go meet with Nino Ramirez, Ph.D. and director of the Center for Integrative Brain Research at Seattle Children’s. They married medical research with data science. They opened up new avenues of research and then Microsoft got 100 percent behind it from our CEO

Every parent should be able to see their baby’s first steps.

[Satya Nadella] to Kathleen Hogan [executive vice president for human resources and chief people officer]. They’ve donated all kinds of resources and efforts in order to help us moving forward. We’ve partnered with the world’s most renowned researchers at Seattle Children’s and now researchers from all over the world have joined our movement on their own dime, from as far away as New Zealand, Norway and the United Kingdom. So, what’s the latest news?

We have already found incredible avenues of correlation that people didn’t understand before. This funding is helping researchers to accelerate and open up new ideas which is leading to the building of the first ever Infant Genome Database that is totally focused on infant mortality in the United States. We’ve moved 176 children’s tissue samples to Seattle Children’s and we’ve begun the sequencing work with the guidance and support of Microsoft Genomics. Aaron Matthew, my son, is the first child in that database, which for me is incredible. We didn’t even know that they had his tissue samples but Seattle Children’s was smart enough 15 years ago, when they didn’t yet have sequencing capabilities, to put away samples for science. They came to my wife and me and asked if they could re-identify his tissue for this research. Bringing Aaron back to us in this way and being part of this miraculous research movement is everything, and it has all occurred because of Aaron. n

First Steps for SIDS: Enter video contest today! FirstStepsForSIDS.org Free to enter! Parents and grandparents are encouraged to submit videos of their child’s first steps. Visitors to the website are asked to make a $5 donation to vote on their favorite. One hundred percent of the proceeds will be used to support SIDS research. Videos receivng the largest number of votes will be eligible for prizes including a trip for four to Disneyland (along with hotel and air). Other prizes are detailed on the website. We are deeply thankful to our sponsors: Marriott, Alaska Airlines, Tata, WE Communications, Microsoft Surface, Microsoft Xbox and kind individual donors.

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