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2 September 2022 pdxparent.com pdxparent.com September 2022 3 * cover stories contents10 FEATURES Sending Out an SOS 10 Feeling anxious about being a new parent? You’re not alone. Thankfully these local resources are ready to help. By Miranda Rake. The Right Stuff 14 We take the guesswork out of buying gear for your new baby with these nine necessary items. By Miranda Rake. Say Yes to Yes Day 18 If you’ve got a kiddo looking for something different than the traditional birthday party, organize a day of yes with them for a memorable celebration. By Meg Asby. PDX Parent Picks: Pregnancy & Baby and Birthday Resources 22 DEPARTMENTS Editor’s Note 4 Play Room 6 A teen mental health hero; DIY kits for decorating beautiful birthday cakes; and find out about the latest recommendations. breastfeeding Family Supper 26 Introduce your kids to the rockin’ ’50s — and indulge in classic diner fare — at Rockabilly Cafe in St. ByJohns.Denise Castañon. Time Out 28 Celebrate the arrival of fall with fun events like Oktoberfest, star gazing at Rooster Rock, free museum admission and the annual Train Fest in Molalla. GREENBERGGOMESEVELYNNE RESOURCES New Parent 9, 13 After School 12 Birthday 16-17, 21 Back to School 27
Meg has made it super easy for you to try it out: You can literally rip the pages out of the magazine, hand them to your children and have them check the boxes of what they’d like to do (with some ground rules!). There are cool, local parks to visit; fun, familyfriendly spaces to explore; and treats to enjoy! It’s hard to imagine what lies ahead when you are in that groggy, new-baby daze, but, trust us, that phase is short-lived and you will get through it. Find your support and know that more times to celebrate are on the horizon.
While the fog of new parenthood blurs memories of the first months with a new baby, there are some things that come back into crystal-clear focus even when your children (like mine) are well beyond that squishy baby phase. The smell of the top of your baby’s head. The sheer panic you feel upon jolting awake and thinking your newborn has rolled off the bed (when they were actually safe in a bassinet the whole time). And if you are like me, you probably automatically start that swaying motion you used to calm your infant when someone hands you a baby.
Another thing I remember. New parents need all the support they can get. Especially mental health support. Writer and mom of two Miranda Rake clearly recalls her search for support after giving birth to her second child last year. She wrote "Sending Out an SOS" on page 10 so other struggling new parents would be able to access local resources more easily than she did. (She also rounded up some fun baby gear picks on page 14!) Our readers’ poll favorites on page 22 also can help new parents find the help they need. The years that turn you from new parent to veteran parent go quickly. And the day your child was born serves as a reminder of just how far you both have come. And that calls for a celebration!
Once your kids can give input on how they’d like to celebrate, it’s really time to party. And if you’d like to try something different this year, our Web Content Coordinator Meg Asby has a take on Yes Day — see page 18 — that’s uber fun without being outrageously expensive. The Yes Day concept is about letting your child choose your family’s adventures for the day. (There’s also a book and a movie about it on Netflix).
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A big thanks to Evelynne Gomes Greenberg Photography for this month’s cover image that so beautifully touches on that joy of having a newborn baby. “Having a newborn is such a rollercoaster of emotions,” says Gomes Greenberg who is the mom of a 7-year-old boy. “Parents and babies are going through so much during that time, it can feel like a blur. It’s an honor to document precious moments between parents and their babies because as time goes on, it gets so hard to remember. Being able to give them those memories means the world to me.”
See more of her emotive photography at egomesgreenbergphotography.com on Instagram @egomesgreenbergphotography and on our table of contents page.
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Earlier this year, Li received a $5,000 award for the creation and work on the website from Prudential as one of 25 winners of the Prudential Emerging Visionary program (which recognizes teens for their innovative solutions to social challenges). What’s equally impressive is that Project Lotus’ staff and directors are all youth. “A lot of our best feedback comes from parents and adults,” he says. “Many have come to our webinars or read one of our blog posts and sent us emails about the importance of our work and how they wish they had something like Project Lotus when they were younger.”
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Both Mental Health Awareness Month and Asian American and Pacific Islander (AAPI) Heritage Month were spotlighted and celebrated earlier this year in May. But while those 31 days have passed, important work is still being done. One such Portland crusader for both causes is 17-year old Aaron Li. Li started Project Lotus with three fellow high schoolers in Beaverton. “I created Project Lotus after seeing how members of the Asian-American community brushed aside mental health problems and swept them under the rug,” he says.The goal of Project Lotus is to educate and destigmatize mental health, particularly in AAPI communities. And because mental health affects anyone, the website, which includes resources, webinars, a blog and a podcast, is aimed for everyone, from youth to adults, including specific content for parents. “We try to tackle the intergenerational gap in mental health education, so we make sure to develop resources that are appealing to each audience,” says Li.
Li says some of his goals are to train mental health professionals to be more culturally competent, and facilitate the creation of in-person chapters at colleges. Right now, anyone interested can get involved with Project Lotus by volunteering, starting a chapter in their high school or college and more. Theprojectlotus.org. — Tiffany Hill
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In light of recent Supreme Court rulings, you could be feeling discouraged/ shocked/enraged. While it’s aimed squarely at preschool- and elementary-school aged children, Again Again’s new album Your Voice Is Magic, with its clever lyrics featuring progressive messages of inclusion and female empowerment might make you feel better. The first track, Signs Up High, tells small humans (and reminds those already grown) that their voices matter. Pronoun Party spotlights gender identity (“let’s celebrate the differences so we can all shine!”) in a kid-accessible way. With an ’80s synth sound, Girls Included encourages girls to ignore gender stereotypes and pursue their passions. And with its Latin rhythms, FOMO stays super fun while importing a valuable lesson: “It’s OK to miss out sometimes …” The album from duo Anne Montone (a former Portlander) and Jennifer Cooke drops on August 26. Againagain.net — Denise Castañon 228-9571
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If you have visions of decorating a Great British Baking Show showstopper for your kid’s birthday, but have skills that more closely match the contestants on Nailed It! then Tigard-based Hoopla could be for you. Cake Hoopla offers a variety of cakes and cupcakes that are frosted and ready for you to decorate. My kids and I tested out the Make Me Right Meow cake kit that had everything to design a cat-faced cake. I loved that the kit included piping bags of colorful buttercream with decorative tips already in place. It was so easy and minimally messy. (When fill my own piping bags, I usually end up with food coloring and frosting everywhere!) The kit also included fondant to shape, roll and cut out for the cat’s face. My kids and I had never worked with fondant before. They loved rolling it out and placing it on the cake. We do have experience decorating with buttercream, so adding the frosting to top of the cake was pretty easy for us. The big decorative tips ensured the frosting looked good even when applied by a 7-year-old!
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The best part is that every single element of the cake was delicious; the chocolate cake, the frosting and the fondant were all excellent. My 7-year-old son has asked several times if we can get another Cake Hoopla kit. Cake kits start at $60 and cupcake kits start at $50. Pro tip: They’ll also bring a cake-decorating party to you! Find out more at cakehoopla.com — D.C.
There are a few medical conditions that preclude breastfeeding. Some families can’t breastfeed or it just doesn’t work for them. In those cases, formula is a safe breast milk alternative. For those who can, the benefits of breastfeeding include reduced risk of SIDS, ear infections, asthma, diarrhea and obesity in children, and ovarian and breast cancer in women. It provides exclusive nutrition for the first six months, serves as a source of comfort and bonding, and is cost effective. Our current rates are below the global average. About 25% of U.S. babies are exclusively breastfed at age 6 months compared to 40% globally. Breastfeeding rates are tied to race, age, socioeconomic status and education level. Countries with paid parental leave have higher breastfeeding rates, and the U.S. remains the only developed country without a national policy for paid leave. However, starting next year, Oregon will offer 12 weeks of paid family leave. If you’re thinking of breastfeeding or currently are breastfeeding and having difficulty, there are many people around to support you! Check in with your pediatrician or a lactation consultant who can help you meet your own personal breastfeeding goals.
A: As a new parent, it is hard to keep up with ever-changing recommendations. An important one to know is that the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) has extended the recommendation to breastfeed from 1 year of age to 2 years of age or beyond, as mutually desired by mother and child. While this is a change for the U.S., the World Health Organization has long recommended breastfeeding for two years or beyond. In fact, the global average age of weaning is 3 to 4 years old. This update is an effort to highlight the benefits of breastmilk, remind families the benefits of breastfeeding extend beyond 1 year of age, and to help improve U.S. breastfeeding rates.
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PMADs or no, any expectant parent can benefit from therapy. Every new baby brings with them a paradigm shift, and it can be a lot to process in the best of circumstances. It can be hard to carve out 45 minutes to spend on yourself, but you can do it! Enlist a partner, ask a neighbor for child care, or even bring the baby. Portland is lucky to have a host of therapists and psychologists with an expertise in the perinatal time, but they do mostly tend to have rather long waitlists. If you are pregnant or trying to conceive, now is the time to reach out and connect with a therapist. If you have trouble finding someone, reach out to Postpartum Support International (online at postpartum.net), an organization that specializes in connecting new parents with the support systems in their area. See the list at right for some local practitioners who offer therapeutic support through the perinatal period.
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Whatever you want to call it, you know these feelings when you experience them. They’re overwhelming and often painful, and can be accompanied by strong feelings of guilt — this is not how anyone hopes to feel in the first weeks and months of new parenthood. Thankfully, there are many, many people out there waiting to help. Unfortunately, postpartum mental health support is not typically a de facto piece of postpartum care in the United States, but a bit of legwork while you’re pregnant can set you and your family up for a softer postpartum landing. If you’re expecting, there’s no better time to line up postpartum support for yourself. Doing it now will save you from scrambling when you’ve got a new baby to juggle, and the worst-case scenario is that you feel so great postpartum that you don’t end up needing the postpartum care you have put in place. And, if you have any history of anxiety or depression at all, it’s worth noting that that makes you more likely to experience PMADs, so a proactive approach is the way to go. PMADs are challenging but, with good support in place, this is a storm that can be tamed and weathered in relative comfort.
Not all doulas offer postpartum support. Some focus primarily on preparing for and supporting you through childbirth. But others focus heavily on the transition to new parenthood and offer tons of postpartum support options. While this type of care can definitely come with a bit of sticker shock, it’s worth its weight in gold — particularly for those who may be more prone to experiencing PMADs. Not only do postpartum doulas offer household support like meal prep and laundry, they’ll also help you rest and heal from birth while offering emotional support as you adjust to your post-baby reality. Many also include lactation support. See the list at right for a few Portland-based doulas with postpartum offerings.
We all want the first days with our baby to be as happily hazy, cozy and blissful as Instagram tells us it should be, but the reality is not always quite so simple. New parenthood is a marathon of joy, yes, but — for about one-third of new moms — it can also be a time of intense anxiety and depression. The very uncomfortable, but ohso-normal feelings of sadness and isolation after the birth of a baby are known colloquially as postpartum depression or postpartum anxiety. Recently, though, the term “perinatal mood and anxiety disorders” or PMADs has become increasingly used in the world of maternal mental health as a better catch-all for the varied and complicated challenges that so many people face after the birth of a child. Ann Marie Miner, Psy.D. annmarieminerpsyd.com/specialties Michelle Block, Psy.D. Drmichelleblock.com Kelly Mach, L.P.C. kellymachlpc.com Rebekah Lubeck, L.C.S.W. at Pulse Wellness pulsewellnesspdx.com/rebekah-lubeck Genevieve Pruneau, Ph.D. and Christy Blevins, Ph.D. of Juniper Psychological Services juniperpsychologicalservices.com MindTree Holistic Counseling pregnancy-and-postpartum-therapymindtreeholisticcounseling.com/ Call In the Pros
From crisis support to ongoing therapy to super casual — but essential! — parent groups and meet-ups, for every budget and for every need, there is someone or something in Portland to support you through one of the biggest transitions of your life. If money is tight, consider registering for postpartum support! Or if you know someone who is pregnant and needs a great gift idea, consider teaming up with friends to give the gift of doula support. Even if it’s not your first child, the arrival of any child is a massive shift for everyone in your household, and new parents deserve all the support in the world.
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A new baby brings joy, but for many new parents those early days and months can be a time of anxiety and even depression. The good news is that new parents have so many local resources to call on for help.
This weekly support group for parents of babies 0-12 months has gone virtual. The idea of getting out the door with a newborn can be daunting, so attending this weekly support group is even easier now that it meets over Zoom instead of in person. health/ohsu-baby-club. Ohsu.edu/womens-
Sometimes you just need to talk to someone who gets it, and no one understands what a new parent is going through quite like other new parents! Special bonds are formed fast when you have babies at the same time as someone else — strangers become quick friends. Here are three groups that make it easy to connect with other parents who are at the same step as you on the parenthood journey: Hike It Baby You’ll have to create a Hike It Baby account to view upcoming hikes in the Portland area, but sign-up is free and just takes a minute (pictured above). Hikeitbaby.com. Baby Blues Connection When a new parent is experiencing PMADs, their partner is often in need of support as well, so we love that this Portland-born support network offers lots of support groups — mostly via Zoom these days — for new parents. They also offer one-on-one support and resources, via phone, text or email. Babybluesconnection.org.
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Whether you’re a new parent or a new parent-all-over-again, whatever you hope or expect to experience during pregnancy and the postpartum period, one thing is certain — surprises lay ahead. Taking steps to protect your well-being as you travel through this transition is a wonderful way to make the highs and lows of early parenthood feel a little more even-keeled. Miranda Rake lives in Portland with her husband and two little kids. She’s passionate about all of the usual stuff like how her children are sleeping, berry season and swimming in the warm sea. and operated,
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The name is a bit of a mouthful, but the cuteness of this tummytime mat is off-the-charts. Most babies don’t love tummy time right off the bat, but a sweet and colorful mat might help you (and your baby) look forward to this important first bit of “homework.” $39.99. Available at nordstromrack.com
Maptote One-piecePortland Show everyone that your newborn is a Portland babe, through and through, with this sweet, soft outfit. $26. At maptote.com.
This must-have machine plays music and white noise, but it also doubles as a nightlight — essential for those 3 am nursing-and-changing sessions. It doesn’t just play one white-noise tone, though: It has 11 soothing, volume-adjustable options, from crickets to rain, bird song to ocean waves. Pro tip: It’ll do double duty as your baby grows, too — it easily adjusts to become an “OK to get out of bed” light. $69.99. At Target and hatch.co
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Just a good old diaper pail is, of course, a must. How do we put this, ahem, delicately? This magical pail contains both diapers and their unique aroma like none other. And it’s not bad looking, either. $49.99. At Target and amazon.com Stuff
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With its hefty price tag, this high chair is an investment. But if you consider the fact that your baby can sit in it from age 0 to adulthood (!), it pays for itself in no time. Plus, we love that it’s built in a way that makes it easy to push into the table; no tripping hazards here. It’ll grow with your baby — it doubles easily as a toddler tower when the time comes — and with your family, and it looks good doing it. Baby set starting at $289. At blackwagon.com
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With a price tag of more than $1,600, you might be tempted to walk away from this bassinet. However, the Snoo is rentable for a reasonable fee of $159 a month and can often be purchased used. Plus, with a ton of adjustable, newborn-soothing settings and a design that keeps your baby securely on his back, it’s worth every penny. Pro tip: Ask around in your nearest mom group — because they are only used for the first three to four months, families are constantly reselling them at less than half the retail price. $1,695.99. Available at Target and happiestbaby.com
Easy to figure out — which cannot be said of all baby carriers — and comfortable to wear, this light-weight wrap is a real baby-wearing standout. Available in lots of colors and quite affordable, this Moby carrier is a baby registry no-brainer. $59.95. Available at Posh Baby, 916 NW 10th Ave.
A classic for a reason, this elegant, simple bouncer folds up for ultra easy transport and storage. But even better, babies love this thing! You can gently bounce a 4-week-old in it (on the lowest of its three settings) and later put your 5-month-old in it on the highest setting and let them make their own motion with kicky legs! $199.99. At Posh Baby, 916 NW 10th Ave.
While nothing can quite prepare you for the baptism by fire that is life with a newborn, the right gear sure can help. These nine pieces of gear make your life with a newborn just a little easier. Though some of the best baby gear does come with a hefty price tag, a lot of these items can be found used with a little hustle. Mom friends (and friends of friends) are a great place to start — or you can check local resale spots like Beanstalk. Online community resellers like Offer Up, Craigslist, Facebook Marketplace and Buy Nothing are great sources for lightly used baby gear and clothes, too.
Frida Mom Adjustable Nursing Pillow You know that you need a NoseFrida, but did you also know that the company that created the iconic, must-have “snot sucker” has expanded into making all kinds of ingenious baby gear? This nursing pillow is designed to support your back as well as your baby during those many, endless newborn nursing sessions. Brilliance as usual from the folks at Frida. $49.99. Available at Buy Buy Baby.
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Yes Day is exactly what it sounds like: a day when the answer to your child’s every request is an enthusiastic, unequivocal, guilt-free YES. Sounds terrifying, right? Against my better judgment, I read the picture book, Yes Day by Amy Krouse Rosenthal to my (then) preschool-aged children. As I should have predicted, they immediately begged for a Yes Day of their very own. I was hesitant. With three November birthdays in four days — both kids, now ages 9 and 12, plus my husband’s — I felt that it was unfair of the universe to also throw in annual Yes Days, so I gave them a choice. They could have a traditional birthday party or a Yes Day. Their decision was immediate. Yes Day wasAnd,on. unexpectedly, I felt a burden lifted. I love a good birthday party, especially with a strong theme (we threw a Wacky Wednesday party that will live in memory forever), but suddenly I was free from the duties of party planning, with its requisite scheduling, etiquette and expense. There was almost nothing to do to prepare.Ourfirst Yes Day was a huge success, full of impromptu whims, following the birthday boy’s bliss from breakfast to bedtime. Now in the middle school years, Yes Day is still going strong. And, believe it or not, the requests are always surprisingly ordinary. May we play video games and eat Halloween candy before breakfast without even a side-eye of disapproval from mom? Roast marshmallows in the fireplace? Eat at Boxer Ramen? Go to the arcade with a friend? Hike to the Witch’s Castle? Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. “Will you play Minecraft with me?” is about as painful as it ever gets. Now, lest you think you will have to hand over the car keys to your 10-year-old on Yes Day, here are a few ground rules we’ve adopted along the way to make Yes Day a foolproof success:
Yes Days aren’t just for kids! This year I chose to spend my own Yes Day at Alsea Falls Campground, and as my kids get older, they also enjoy the option of traveling farther afield. Try out one of these fun locales for a Yes Day adventure within driving distance of Portland. Mt. Hood Adventure Park at Skibowl Lost Lake ❏ Astoria Silverton ❏ Tree to Tree Adventure Park Olympia Enchanted Forest Lincoln City ❏ Molalla Train Park Seaside ❏ Hood River Oxbow Regional Park ❏ (choose__________________________yourownadventure!) That’s it. And to make it even easier, we’ve created a Yes Day Checklist on page 20. Just rip it out, hand it over to the birthday kid and get ready for the happiest birthday your child has ever had. No thank you cards to write, no obligations of any kind, just spontaneity and celebration all day long.
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5. Set a Yes Day budget. Honestly, we’ve never had to do this because most of the things my kids ask for don’t cost nearly as much as a birthday party. But if you’re worried that your kids will ask for everything in stock at Mud Puddles Toys & Books, give them a budget and let them spend it however they like (even if it’s all on arcade games).
1. Requests must be reasonable. I can’t make the rain stop, especially in Portland. 2. Do no harm. A request that sister eat the vomit-flavored Bertie Botts jelly bean would be promptly vetoed.
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3. You can’t ask your sibling to do anything. Caregivers are the yessayers.
6. Yes Day ends at your regularly scheduled bedtime. If you have early risers in the house, you may want to set a start time, too.
4. Requests are limited to what can happen during Yes Day. Asking for a sleepover next month or an increase in weekly allowance is not part of the Yes Day magic.
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pdxparent.com September 2022 2120 September 2022 pdxparent.com Meg Asby is the web content coordinator for PDX Parent and plans to spend all her future Yes Days lounging in a hammock with a good book and unlimited chocolate almonds. Start the Day off Right ❏ Family dance party ❏ Visit the Oregon Zoo ❏ Bake-a-thon ❏ Visit a farm animal at The Pumpkin Patch or Topaz Farm ❏ Climb the walls at The Circuit Bouldering Gym or Nest Playground ❏ Go on a hike ❏ Easter egg hunt with candy (fun any time of year!) ❏ Search the stacks at Powell’s, Annie Bloom’s, Maggie Mae’s or Green Bean Books ❏ Browse a little free library ❏ Go on a mini-tour: Visit the free PDX Minifig Exchange at SE 42nd and Cora, the PDX Dinorama near SE 78th and SE Morrison, and the Morrison Street Minigallery between 32nd & 33rd on SE Morrison. ❏ Visit OMSI ❏ Play a family board game ❏ Hunt for birthday freebies (see our list at pdxparent.com ❏ Go on a bike ride ❏ _____________________________________(choose your own adventure) Midday Fuel Up ❏ Picnic in the park ❏ Make DIY Pancakes at Slappy Cakes ❏ Lunch at the birthday kid’s favorite restaurant ❏ Have your favorite lunch at home ❏ Eat at Ikea and watch the planes take off and land ❏ _____________________________________ (choose your own adventure) Treat Time ❏ Pro Choice: Head to Birthday Boulevard (aka NE Fremont Street) and get a free birthday dozen at Pip’s Donuts and a free birthday cone at Nico’s Ice Cream ❏ Grab a scoop at Salt & Straw, Cloud City or Fifty Licks ❏ Get a decorate-your-own cake from Cake Hoopla ❏ Head to the grocery store for a Ruby Jewel ice-cream sandwich ❏ Pick a treat at Unicorn Bake Shop or Champagne Poetry ❏ Grab vegan and gluten-free sweets at Petunia’s Pies & Pastries ❏ Go to the “place with the googly-eye desserts,” aka Soro Soro Coffee & Dessert ❏ Eat your favorite homemade treat ❏ _____________________________________ (choose your own adventure) Afternoon Adventure ❏ Visit a destination playground, like Pirate, Westmoreland or Gabriel Park ❏ Geek out at Rice Museum of Rocks & Minerals ❏ Make some art and drink a milkshake at Creative Culture Studio ❏ Play a round of mini-golf at Wilsonville Family Fun Center ❏ Visit your favorite library ❏ Look for comics and graphic novels at Books with Pictures ❏ Visit the arcade or play laser tag at Pietro’s, Kingpins or Superplay ❏ Bowl at Grand Central Bowl ❏ Make messy art at home ❏ Visit Black Wagon, Hammer and Jacks or MudPuddles Toys & Books to spend that birthday cash ❏ Try to escape at Mindtrix Escape or Portland Escape Rooms ❏ Ice- or rollerskate ❏ Get the wiggles out at Two Sisters Play Cafe, Kowabunga Indoor Playspace, LEKA Playland or The Wiggle Room ❏ See a movie at McMenamins Kennedy School, The Academy, Studio One or Living Room Theaters ❏ _________________________________ (choose your own adventure!) Evening Eats ❏ Mississippi Pizza (check for kindie concerts!) ❏ Dick’s Primal Burger ❏ Hopworks Urban Brewery ❏ La Provence ❏ Oregon Public House (kindie concerts happen here, too) ❏ Waffle Window ❏ Go vegan at Vegan Junk Food, Thunderbird Bar or Off the Griddle. ❏ Boxer Ramen ❏ _________________________________ (choose your own adventure!) Wind Down ❏ Movie night with popcorn ❏ Video games ❏ Roast s’mores ❏ Flashlight tag (more of a wind-up, but worth it!) ❏ Reading marathon ❏ ______________________________ (choose your own adventure!) Yes Day Checklist Hand your child this checklist and have them choose one or two activities in each section. Feel free to take a black Sharpie to any options you’d rather avoid, or write in some of your family favorites in the blanks below. Our popular online Kids Calendar (pdxparent.com/events-calendar) is a great place to find fun write-in events happening on your child’s special day, such as kindie concerts or festivals. Have the happiest Yes Day! BIRTHDAY Star Wars: Return of the Jedi in Concert Fri, Sep 16, 7:30 pm Sat, Sep 17, 7:30 pm Sun, Sep 18, 2 orsymphony.orgpm | 503-228-1353 Experience your favorite films like never before! MKT-200_PrintAd_PDXParent_StarWars.indd 1 8/9/22 11:52 AM Relax, dine and sip while youngsters enjoy our playroom that has a climbing structure with a slide and ball pit plus plenty of toys! Activities also available for older children. 11923 SE McLoughlin Blvd. Milwaukie, Oregon 97222 (503) twosistersplaycafe.net344-4883 Open 8am–3pm Wed.–Sun., After-hours private play, parties, classes + events Two Sisters Play Café
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The caring staff at Providence St. Vincent Mother and Baby Clinic know that sometimes new moms need a little help. The team offers one-on-one support on issues such as breastfeeding, pumping, sleep schedules and more. But a true gem of the clinic is its mini store located in the lobby (currently only available to clinic patients with appointments because of COVID restrictions). After appointments, nurses will show parents products that can help ease new-baby challenges, such as breastfeeding supplies and preemie onesies for the littlest of infants.
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The skilled teams of doctors, nurses and midwives — and neonatal intensive care units — at Legacy Health are here to help you welcome your baby into the world. Soon-to-be parents can choose from state-of-the-art (but also cozy and homelike) family birth centers at Randall’s Children’s Hospital in North Portland, Legacy Good Samaritan Medical Center in Northwest, Legacy Meridian Park Medical Center in Tualatin and the Legacy Mount Hood Medical Center in Gresham. Each of these family birth centers offer labor and delivery options including water birth and nitrous oxide. Another bonus: Legacy offers virtual classes on childbirth, breastfeeding, and mother and baby care, including webinars for parents of multiples and new grandparents.
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If you watched the TV show 90210 in the 1990s and wished you could go to the Peach Pit, you’ll love the Rockabilly Cafe in the St. Johns neighborhood. Scads of ’50s memorabilia enlivens the space; Buddy Holly, Roy Orbison and Elvis songs play while you dine; and the kid-friendly menu is packed with all-American comfort food made from organic and locally sourced ingredients. The only thing missing is Brandon Walsh.
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Find kid-friendly classic American diner fare with a ’50s flair at St. Johns’ Rockabilly Diner. BY DENISE CASTAÑON
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The diner opened in February 2022 and I recently visited with my husband, 10-year-old daughter, Adela, and 7-year-old son, Cruz. The kids were instantly charmed by the checkerboard flooring, sparkly red-vinyl booths and vintage steering wheels dotting the walls. We seated ourselves in a roomy booth and looked at the menu. The Rockabilly Cafe offers a solid kids’ menu. Pro tip: They serve breakfast all day — a huge plus for Cruz. He ordered a waffle, apple slices and bacon for his meal. Adela opted for the kids’ cheeseburger and onion rings. She loves onion rings and was excited to have them as one of the menu choices. Adela can be picky about her hamburgers (she likes a juicy burger), but gave this one a thumbs up. Cruz’s waffle was a little dense, but he still ate a good portion of it. I tried the “Who Cares Who Invented It” cobb salad. It was a generous portion and tasty overall, I just wish it had had a few tomatoes in it. My husband tried The Clubhouse sandwich, a turkey and bacon triple decker with lettuce, tomato and avocado. He had intended to eat just half of it, but liked it so much he nearly finished it off. He was trying to show restraint because we had a plan to order milkshakes. You can’t go to a ’50s diner without having a milkshake, right? We tried the Chocolate Elvis, chocolate ice cream, peanut butter and banana; and a French Crepe, vanilla ice cream with Nutella, banana and malt powder. Both were out-of-this-world good. I couldn’t pick which one I liked better, but globs of peanut butter in the Elvis may have swayed me The King’s way. And the servings were enormous! We got a tall frosty glass full of shake, plus a big metal shake canister with a hefty portion in it. We slurped as much of the cool, creamy treats as we wanted and we still had leftovers. Pro tip: Two shakes was plenty for a family of four! If the Rockabilly Cafe was in our neighborhood, we’d become regulars. But since it’s a trek for us to get to North Portland, we’ll settle for an occasional visit when we are in the neighborhood or a special trip to one of their events like drag queen bingo brunch or a sock hop that includes dance lessons and dinner. Rockabilly Cafe, 8537 N Lombard St., rockabillycafe.com.
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Celebrate the arrival of the Autumnal Equinox with the Rose City Astronomers. Partnering with OMSI and Oregon Parks and Recreation, this is a Star Party space enthusiasts won’t want to miss. Rose City Astronomers will be on hand to help viewers find and delight in gazing at planets, stars, the moon and more. Saturday, September 17, starting at dusk at both Rooster Rock State Park and Stub Stewart State Park. Pro tip bring a telescope and flashlight with a red light if you have them (volunteers will also have telescopes on hand), and dress warmly. Omsi.edu/events. — T.H. museum magic Treat your kiddo to the joys of going to the museum — for free! Saturday, September 17 is the Smithsonian’s Museum Day Here in Portland, that means admission at the Portland Art Museum and the Oregon Jewish Museum and Center for Holocaust Education will be free. Register for tickets here: registration.smithsonianmag.com/museumday/museum-day-2022/—T.H. may the force be with you Who doesn’t love the iconic John Williams’ score to the Star Wars movie? Listen to the Imperial March in all its glory as the Oregon Symphony plays along to Return of the Jedi. Part of the Symphony’s Popcorn Series, this classic sci-fi film of good vs. evil is always a hit with the whole family. Shows run on Friday, September 16 at 7:30 pm; Saturday, September 17 at 7:30 pm; and Sunday, September 18 at 2 pm. Tickets start at $35. org/concerts-tickets/calendar.Orsymphony.—T.H. a gourd time For families that are counting down the days until fall harvest festivals, Oh My Gourd! Harvest Fest is here for you. Hosted by postpartum support organization, Baby Blues Connection, this daytime fest features free and ticketed activities, carnival games, crafts, food, live music and cute goats. From 11 am-3 pm on Saturday, September 10 at Sellwood Community House. Free admission. —Ohmygourditsfall.com.T.H.
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outtime 2022 Find more family fun on our online calendar: pdxparent.com/events-calendar. Be sure to confirm the most up-to-date info with event organizers before heading out. right on track All aboard! Take your little train lovers to Molalla Train Park for a weekend of family-friendly railriding fun during Train Fest. The train park, with more than 4,000 feet of track, sits on 4 acres and is dotted with ponds, bridges and trees. There’s also a covered pavilion and picnic tables — perfect for post ride snacks. Saturday, September 3 through Monday, September 5; free admission and kiddos ride the trains for free. Pnls.org/molalla-train-park. — T.H.
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raise a stein Oregon is home to some surprisingly kid-friendly Oktoberfest festivals. The biggest takes place in Mt. Angel (pictured left). It’s worth the trek for the Bavarian treats, live music, traditional dances and, for the grown-ups, local and German beer. Pro tip: The Alpinegarten welcomes families at all times (other venues are open to minors until certain hours). And be sure to hit the Kindergarten for oodles of free fun. Thursday to Sunday, September 15-18. Find out schedule, costs and more at oktoberfest.org Closer to home, Prost! in North Portland will also be celebrating with food and drink Friday, September 30 to Sunday, October 2. Kids are welcome in the Prost! pub till 9 pm and till 10 pm in the Market Place. Don’t miss the brass band playing 6 pm-9pm on Friday and again Saturday at 2 pm-4 pm and 6 pm-8 pm. Prostportland.com. And McMenamins will be hosting German-themed harvest fests on several of its properties. On Saturday, September 10, check out the Oktoberfest at Kennedy School And on Saturday, September 24 McMenamins Edgefield will have live music starting at 11 am, food and drink specials and more. Free admission. All ages welcome. Find out more at mcmenamins.com/to-do/live-music-events — D.C. starry night
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Another school year is here. It’s time to schedule a well-child visit to make sure your child is as healthy as possible. Our providers are ready with checkups, screenings, immunizations, teeth cleanings, youth mental health care and more. Best of all, it’s all free for CareOregon members.
