ATTACHMENT BEHAVIOUR AND LEARNING: IMPLICATIONS FOR THE PUPIL, THE TEACHER AND THE TASK

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ATTACHMENT BEHAVIOUR AND LEARNING: IMPLICATIONS FOR THE PUPIL, THE TEACHER AND THE TASK Heather Geddes Two 8 year old boys were referred because of exclusion from school. They were excluded for aggressive behaviour and both were underachieving. It became apparent after some time that there was a major difference between the boys. Sam's family had moved about a lot and he had failed to acquire the basics of learning. He had a genuine interest in stories, his mother read to him a lot, but he did not know the sounds of letters and every word he tried to read was a guess though cleverly informed by all the clues in the text. His energy was directed at avoiding the task, subverting attention and in particular in denying any difficulties. Every task seemed to be associated with feelings of failure and hopelessness and ultimately with the affect of anger and rage. After some time the connection between his anger and frustrations about learning came together and were expressed directly on the work in hand.

His unwanted behaviour seemed to be a defence against the humiliation of not knowing how to read and feeling stupid. I concluded that Sam had genuine difficulties, which required a predominantly remedial response as well as a therapeutic response and I assumed that as his difficulties in reading and writing words diminished, his behaviour would modify. It was my judgment that his behaviour was a product of deficiencies in his learning skills, which had by now become deeply entrenched and all learning had become imbued with anger. He hated school and did not want to return. On the other hand, with the other boy Les, as soon as the session began and I put the task on the table, he began to tell me what he thought we should be doing, trying to assert his ideas of what to do over mine. No matter what I chose to begin the session with, his response was, 'But we could do this ... ', or 'You said yesterday that we would read first'.... or 'I think it would be better if ... '. When his idea of what to do was denied he would become very hostile. It was as if his energy was consumed by 'who was in charge' and not by what he was asked to do. It was my role as the one 'in charge', which seemed to be the trigger for the unwanted behaviour. The focus seemed to be on how he felt about not being in control of me rather than about learning and how he felt appeared to involve hostility towards me, the person who was directing the task. Both boys were excluded for the same reasons yet to me they represented completely differing responses and needs. Sam had a genuine learning difficulty requiring a sensitive educational response, an outcome of the failure of the system to identify and remediate his educational needs. On the other hand, Les demonstrated difficulties in response to the teacher that affected his capacities to learn - an inter-personal problem. The nature of the inter-personal response can vary. In another situation, in a class group of Year 8 children in an EBD residential school, there was a boy who was excluded from his school for aggressive and hostile behaviour and not doing as he was told. Barry was very distant becoming restless and aggressive if he was approached too closely or sat next to. He denied any need for help and worked completely autonomously - he was very comfortable working from SMP maths books. If the maths task was too difficult or he got stuck with it, he moved on to the next page or book. If the task was set by the teacher, he said it was 'shit' and tore it up and proceeded to do what he wanted to do. He was rarely offensive personally but often with the task. The teacher seemed to be a person he could not approach directly, could not ask for help or support and could not be directly angry with. He seemed to have a built-in proximity organiser - a sign on his forehead saying 'Keep your distance'. Like Les, this boy also seemed to have a difficulty in relating to the teacher rather than an educational problem but the response to the adult was distinctly different. Mike, another child who was referred, had been known to me in a therapy group when he was younger. He had changed from a sad and pathetic child who was vague and unaware of anything that was happening in any meaningful way,

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