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N.C. Family-Friendly 50

The top companies for working parents

Mommy Guilt

Learn to let it go!

The Making of a Mompreneur

Advice from moms who own their own businesses

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Family Fyi Family Health 4 Ask the Teacher 4 Community News 5 Fab Finds 6 Craft Corner 7 Top 5 7

Is My Kid OK? Parenting with confidence

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Growing Up

Making good choices

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Calendar of Events Say Cheese!

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Letting Go of Guilt

m I doing enough? It’s a question that all parents ask themselves, especially moms. I know all too well that the mommy guilt struggle is real. When I worked outside of the home, I felt guilty that I didn’t spend enough time with my kids. Now that I work from home, I often worry that I spend too much time on my laptop. I’m inspired by moms who plan their kids’ summer with crafts, daily activities and day trips, yet the best I can manage is an afternoon with hardened Play-Doh on the kitchen table. I know I’m not a perfect mom. The perfect mom doesn’t exist. But I am a doing-the-best-that-I-can mom, and I’m learning to be OK with that. We all want what is best for our kids, but how can we ditch the guilt we feel at work and at home? Writer Anne Wooten Green talks to four moms who share their struggles with work and family (Managing Mommy Guilt, page 14). Green also shares great advice for learning to let go of guilt. Many N.C. companies also help parents manage guilt by offering programs, benefits and work cultures that promote work-life balance. This month, we announce our annual N.C. Family-Friendly 50, the top companies in the state for working parents (N.C. Companies That Promote Work-Life Balance, page 10), and we profile 14 of these companies that have ties to the Triad. We applaud these companies for their exemplary policies that support and encourage working parents. To see profiles of all the 2014 Family-Friendly 50 companies in North Carolina and to learn more, visit ncfamilyfriendly.com. And finally, writer Resa Goldberg interviews successful moms who have started their own businesses (A New Generation of Mompreneur, page 18). If you’ve ever considered being your own boss, don’t miss Goldberg’s article on how these remarkable women balance business and family and their advice for growing your business. As always, send questions, comments or story ideas to mwright@ piedmontparent.com.

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Helping your child find friends in a new city We have just moved to a new city where my son, a fifth-grader, goes to a private school. Unfortunately, none of the kids in his class live close by. How can I help him find after-school playmates in our neighborhood?

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Most children in your son’s situation will find friends in three places: organized groups, such as scouts; classes, from swimming to karate to art; and team sports. You can find the scouting activities in your neighborhood by calling the scouting district office. If your son has an interask the est in learning a particular skill, your teacher local parenting magazine or a neighbor can provide leads to classes that might interest him. As far as finding sports teams goes, this can be a bit more difficult. Sports teams are typically sponsored by communities or local organizations. A neighbor with a child your son’s age or even an older child should be a good resource for finding out what is available locally. Plus investigate what the public schools in your area have to offer. Some may have

North Carolina’s rank for overall child well-being. The state ranked 38th in the US for children’s economic well-being. Source: 2014 Kids Count Data Book, the Annie E. Casey Foundation after-school programs that are open to children who do not attend that school. Finally, go out and meet your neighbors. They will know of other children who live close by. Parents should send questions and comments to dearteacher@dearteacher. com or go to dearteacher.com. — Peggy Gisler and Marge Eberts

Managing media in the home The lives of most U.S. children and families are dominated by 24/7 media exposure. Many families have few rules for children governing their media use. While children and teens can health gain knowledge and skills from many types of social media, excessive media use has been associated with obesity, lack of sleep, school problems, aggression and other behavior issues. A recent study released by the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) shows that the average 8- to-10-year-old spends nearly eight hours a day with

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different media, and older children and teens spend more than 11 hours per day. Kids who have a TV in their bedroom spend more time with media. About 75 percent of 12- to 17-year-olds own cell phones, and nearly all teenagers use text messaging. Here are some suggestions from the AAP to help parents monitor media use by their children: • Help children learn to be selective and healthy in what they consume. Take an active role in children’s media education by co-viewing

programs with them and discussing values. • Make a media use plan, including mealtime and bedtime curfews for media devices. • Screens should be kept out of kids’ bedrooms. • Limit entertainment screen time to less than one or two hours per day; in children under 2, discourage screen media exposure. — Katherine Kopp Source: AAP Policy Statement on Media Use 2013

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Greensboro Ballet gives children with physical disabilities the opportunity to dance Greensboro Ballet’s Dancing Above the Barre program will open its fall season with an open house Saturday, Sept. 6 at the School of Greensboro Ballet Studios (third floor of the Greensboro Cultural Center, 200 N. Davie St., Suite 302). The program provides an opportunity for children with disabilities to build self-confidence, strengthen their bodies, create new friendships and of course, dance. Dancing Above the Barre consists of seven weeks of classes, one hour per week, culminating in a presentation. Participants will range from 4 to 12 years old. A local physical therapist serves as a consultant to develop a dance program specifically for young children with disabilities. The cost is $75 per dancer. For more information, contact school director John Dennis at 333-7480 or at greensboroballet@yahoo.com.

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Heartstrings’ 10th annual Walk for Remembrance & Hope to be held Oct. 11

Michelle, Stephen and Carson Linkous, along with Michelle’s parents, participated in 2013’s Walk to Remember in memory of their son James.

Every year, hundreds of community members come together for the Heartstrings Walk for Remembrance & Hope to share with each other their journeys, their babies and their hopes. It is a time when parents can openly grieve and remember, and through that togetherness, grow in the hope that carries them forward. Heartstrings is a nonprofit organization that provides compassionate validation, bereavement education and hope to Triad families who have suffered pregnancy, infant and child loss through peer-based support groups and one-to-one peer mentoring.

Friends and family are also invited to create fundraising teams to compete in the Walk Fundraising Competition. The top three teams will win garden stepping stones and memorials on the Heartstrings website. The event will be held Oct. 11 at Triad Park in Kernersville, Shelter 1, and will include a Time of Remembrance program followed by a 1.25-mile walk, reading of baby names and a balloon release. Check-in for the walk is open from 9 to 10 a.m. with the program immediately afterward. Registration information can be found at heartstringssupport.org.

Women’s Hospital works to prevent SIDS According to Susan H. Pedaline, vice president of nursing and patient care services at Cone Health’s Women’s Hospital in Greensboro, Guilford County ranks as the most dangerous place for sleeping children in the state. In 2012, 16 Guilford County infants died in their sleep, says Pedaline. The county with the next most sleepinginfant deaths was Forsyth County, with seven. “Those chilling numbers are why sudden unexpected infant deaths are a major concern for our community and Women’s Hospital is trying to raise awareness. We are working with the North Carolina Healthy Start Foundation to become an Infant Safe Sleep Model of Excellence Hospital this fall. But we need your help in keeping infants safe,” says Pedaline. Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) is the leading cause of death in the U.S. for infants from 28 days to 1 year old. Boys are more often affected than girls and 90 percent of SIDS occurs before the infant turns 6 months old. SIDS is not hereditary. Preterm babies are at higher risk for SIDS. American Indian and Alaskan Natives have the highest SIDS rate, followed by African-Americans, Caucasian, Hispanic and Asians. But Pedaline is confident that through education and awareness, SIDS can be prevented. “The latest figures from the North Carolina Department of Health and Human Services are terrific news when it comes to the overall rate of infant mortality in Guilford County,” says Pedaline. “The county had fewer than 8 deaths per 1,000 births for now two years in a row. Preventing heartbreaking, unexpected infant deaths is our next big step. Do what you can to join Women’s Hospital in protecting sleeping infants in our community.”

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What extracurricular activities will your child participate in this fall? Jodi Amos Koment: Martial arts at Matraid off Country Club. I can’t say enough about them. They are great with the kids and a big help with teaching respect. Shawna Tshiboyi: All 3 of my boys will be on YMCA soccer teams (all in different age groups so I can bid my Saturdays goodbye). Anita Dominie Deslauriers: Soccer, baseball and dance Kim Chisholm Buccino: Football Danyel Mcfadden: Gymnastics and Girl Scouts Diaz Marie: Soccer, drama class, ballet Carmen White: Soccer Cindy Jolly Sealey: Football for one and dance/gymnastics for the other Regina Hayes Alexander: Dance and hopefully Daisy Scouts (if we can find a troop) Christina Kimble Blake: Springboard and platform diving Melissa Knight Spangler: Ballet and swimming Michelle Seibert andS cooter Eckrote: Competition dance

“Ramshackle Glam: The New Mom’s Haphazard Guide to (Almost) Having It All” by Jordan Reid (Running Press, $19), has been described by the Daily Beast as “a survival guide for those who don’t have a clue how to be domestic.” Pickup tips on storing baby gear, putting on makeup in 5 minutes flat, making wardrobe adjustments to complement the cleavage challenges that come with breastfeeding, helping pets adjust to a new baby and more. Reid, a Harvard University graduate who worked as an actress for more than a decade, launched ramshackleglam.com after the birth of her son in October 2011.

Summer Kiefer Ervin: Football

Allowance apps Having trouble keeping up with your kids’ finances — let alone yours? Here are three apps you can use to easily track and update their accounts. 1. Allowance Manager. Track weekly allowance and set it up for automatic “deposits.” No money is exchanged with the free version, but the paid “Pro” version can be set up to work like a debit card. Available for Android devices and iPhone, iPad and iPod touch (using iOS 4.2 or later). allowancemanager. com. 2. iAllowance. Schedule and deduct payments — when chores aren’t completed. You can track household chores. $3.99. Available for iPhone, iPad or iPod touch (using iOS 5.1.1 or later). jumpgapsoftware.com/iallowance. 3. MoneyTrail. Track allowance and encourage kids to log expenses and cash exchanges. Available for $1.99 for iPhone, iPad and iPod touch (using iOS 4.3 or later); $1.99 for Blackberry devices; and $.99 for Android devices. moneytrail.net/home/infooverviewmobile.

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Popsicle Stick Scarecrow Fall is the perfect season to create fun scarecrow projects and celebrate the harvest season. Here is a fun and simple one perfect for kids.

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You will need: Popsicle sticks, glue, yarn, felt, buttons and googly eyes (or whatever fun crafty items you have around the house)

1. Glue your sticks together to create a scarecrow head and let them dry.

2. Add decorations with glue and let them dry. 3. Hang it up and enjoy. Happy fall y’all! Provided by North Carolina artist Laura Kelly, creator of Laura Kelly Designs. Find more of her crafts at laurakellydesigns.com/cms/Videos.php.

Leading moms in business winners

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StartupNation, a resource for small-business owners looking to start or grow their businesses, released its “2014 Top 100 Leading Moms in Business Winners” list in May. Mom-owned companies rounding out the top five were:

1 Dressing Your Truth — dressingyourtruth.com 2 Giveaway Bandit — giveawaybandit.com 3 Carbon Three — carbonthree.com 4 Ask Doctor G — askdoctorg.com 5 Jeneration PR — jenerationpr.com

When purchasing a new vacuum, consider going with a bagless model to eliminate the unneeded waste of a bag. — amillion waystogogreen.com

See the entire list at startupnation.com/ leading-moms-in-business/WINNERS.php.

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is my kid ok?

10 tips for parenting with confidence By Susan Michels

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Do you have some simple guidelines for parenting with confidence? Parenting is tough. It is a full-time commitment requiring more patience, tenacity and flexibility than any other job on the planet. But as we increasingly focus on making sure our children attend the right schools or participate in the right activities, we often lose sight of what we desire most for them — to be happy and healthy. Here are some basic tools to help you approach parenting with confidence:

1. Resolve conflicts ASAP. Families argue; it is inevitable. In dealing with conflicts it is best to fight fairly by using direct communication, active listening and maintaining ground rules such as focusing only on the issue at hand. 2. Establish clear roles. A child’s role is to focus on growing and learning in a safe, stable environment. A parent can help create that environment by keeping their own issues in check and seeking support from peers or professionals rather than overburdening their child with adult problems. A parent’s role is to raise the child, not the other way around. 3. Maintain boundaries. It is important to establish clear boundaries, especially as children approach puberty. Knocking on bedroom doors before entering, insisting on privacy for toileting and showering, and respecting a child’s personal issues by not sharing them outside the family are ways that you can show your child that you respect them. 4. Build a family heritage. Help your child move into their future by teaching them about their past. Use examples from your family tree to illustrate character traits such as courage and honor. 5. Use words that build. Words are one of the most powerful tools we have to build a child up or to tear down a child. Choose your words carefully and refrain from comparing one sibling to another. Praise their efforts, even when the outcome is not to your standard. 6. Teach by example. If you want your child to become a community volunteer, become one yourself. If you want your child to learn to be a good friend, show them how by lending a helping hand when a friend or neighbor needs support. When our actions match our words it sends a powerful message to our children.

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7. Demonstrate grace within limits. We all make mistakes, especially while we are learning skills. Children require patience and grace as they learn to tie shoes, mow the lawn or drive a car. Be slow to anger and quick to forgive when mistakes are made. 8. Value internal over external. Children brought up to believe that human worth is tied to good grades or soccer goals will be more likely to become adults who judge themselves and others on this same scale. Help children to understand they are designed to be uniquely gifted and innately valued. 9. Choose your friends carefully. Be mindful of those you invite into your home. Monitor your child’s comfort level around those with whom you associate. Children should feel at ease in their own homes. 10. Take care of yourself. Children will be more inclined to establish a healthy balance of work and play, and learn to care for themselves if you model this for them. Eat well, maintain a good attitude and take some time for yourself. You are preparing for a marathon, not a sprint! Susan Michels works with children and adolescents at Cone Health Behavioral Health Hospital. Send questions to Sherri McMillen at sherri.mcmillen@conehealth.com.

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Teaching kids to make good choices By Malia Jacobson | Freelance writer and mother of three

Helping kids learn to make good choices is a powerful way to foster success. We beam with parental pride when our toddler chooses to share a toy, or when our teen swaps candy for fruit. But how can we help raise kids who make good choices when we’re not around? The fact is, kids make bad decisions from time to time, and that’s OK, says family therapist Michelle P. Maidenberg, president of Westchester Group Works in Harrison, N.Y. But parents can help set kids on the path toward making better choices for life. Read on for age-by-age strategies for supporting strong decision-making skills from toddlerhood through the teen years.

Ages 2-5

Ages 6-12

Message magic

Beware of constantly warning your tot to be careful or swooping in to hurriedly complete a task he’s trying to accomplish. Parents should tune into subliminal messages they may be sending to their child, says Maidenberg. “By always cautioning against risk or doing things on his behalf, you may be communicating that he isn’t capable or trustworthy and can’t make good decisions independently.” Parents also send important messages through their own actions. Model effective problem-solving skills and sound decision-making in your own life to impart these skills to kids. If you tend to procrastinate, flip-flop between choices or wallow in disorganization, your child may follow suit. Make a habit of sticking to your plans and seeing your choices through, and discuss the impact of daily decisions with your child. When something doesn’t work out the way you’d hoped, talk through what you might have done differently in age-appropriate language; for example, “Mommy decided to sleep later this morning, and now I’m sad because I missed my daily run.”

Failing up

During the school years, decision-making prowess starts to show — and sometimes, so do poor choices. But these small failures can actually help build stronger decision-making skills down the road. The key is letting kids experience minor falls and figure out how to get back up. Radio personality Julie Gates of the “Gene and Julie Show” on Raleigh’s WRAL-FM learned that 9-year-old Sophia’s small mistakes could actually build decision-making power. “When Sophia was 6, she accidentally left her lunch in the refrigerator, and my first instinct was to jump in the car and shuttle it to school.” Then Gates remembered Sophia’s teacher telling her that a small mishap like a forgotten lunch can present an opportunity to build decisionmaking skills, confidence and pride. Sophia didn’t go hungry; she decided to ask her classmates if they had anything they could share. “One shared his apple slices and another had an extra granola bar. She was so proud she was able to find a solution all by herself,” says Gates. “And she never forgot her lunch again.”

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Fear factor

Juggling college applications, summer jobs and relationships brings on a boatload of decisions for teens, along with a possible fear of failure. A teen who procrastinates and seems to avoid big decisions may be afraid to fail. If your teen seems to drag her feet with decisions, talk to her about her fears, says Maidenberg. Encourage more independent decisionmaking by addressing fear-flooded beliefs like “I won't be able to do it,” “I won't be good at it” or “They won't like me.” Help your teen see past fears by reminding her that she’s capable of achieving when she sets her mind to something. Don’t feed counterproductive fears by belittling a teen for a poor choice. Saying “You’re a moron!” or “What’s wrong with you?” communicates shame and hurts self-confidence, while phrases like “Everyone makes a bad choice now and then. What can you do differently next time?”

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2014 N.C. Family-Friendly 50

N.C. companies that promote work-life balance

Achieve Therapy Services Advanced Home Care Alston & Bird, LLP ARCA Arts Together Flexible work schedules, child-care Arysta LifeScience referral services and wellness programs Auto Logic are just a few of the ways businesses can Bayer CropScience make life easier for employees. In partnerBDO USA, LLP ship with the UNC Kenan-Flagler Business Blue Cross Blue Shield NC School in Chapel Hill, Carolina Parent, Bright Horizons Family Solutions Charlotte Parent and Piedmont Parent magaCapital Broadcasting Co. zines reviewed submissions from North Caterpillar Inc. Carolina companies that honor familyCharlotte Christian School friendly practices. From those who applied, Coastal Federal Credit Union 50 companies were chosen for a spot on Cognitect Inc. our exclusive Family-Friendly 50 list. The Copernicus Group IRB following are brief profiles of companies Duke University & Health System with locations in the Triad. To see profiles Durham Academy of all the 2014 Family-Friendly 50 Elliott Davis companies in North Carolina, visit Ernst & Young, LLP ncfamilyfriendly.com. Fifth Third Bank Hill, Chesson & Woody Advanced Home Care Hope Community Church No. of U.S. employees: 1,600 IBM Corporation N.C. locations: Multiple locations throughInmar out the state Integrated Laboratory Systems Family-friendly programs include comKindermusik International plimentary on-site biometric screenings, L&E Research health assessments, on-site nutritional Lyerly Agency counseling, an on-site farmers market, an Mims Distributing Co. ATM, an employee assistance program and Mulkey Engineers & Consultants a lactation room. Advanced Home Care Nationwide Insurance allows flexible schedules, compressed Novo Nordisk workweeks and part-time and work-fromOrthoCarolina home options. Medical coverage is proProvidence Day School vided for same sex domestic partners and QualComm their dependents. advhomecare.org Replacements Ltd. Research Square ARCA Rex Healthcare No. of U.S. employees: 103 RTI International N.C. location: Mebane SciWorks ARCA covers 100 percent of preventative Smart Start of Forsyth County care for employees and their families, and Speechcenter Inc. partners with local farms to subsidize the The Steel Network Inc. cost of a community supported agriculture The Angus Barn Ltd. membership so employees and families TIAA-CREF can enjoy local, seasonal produce. Children WakeMed Health and Hospitals are welcome at the workplace and ARCA Ward Black Law Workplace Options SEPTEMBER 2014 | piedmontparent.com

offers families a large kitchen with plenty of healthy snacks. arcatechsystems.com

BDO USA LLP No. of U.S. employees: 3,879 N.C. locations: Charlotte, Raleigh and High Point Through partnerships, BDO offers many resources to parents such as child care, backup care, education programs, resources for expecting parents and more. Flexible schedules are offered, and counseling is provided for marital, parental, financial, substance abuse, smoking and gambling problems. Productivity and time management seminars are also offered. bdo.com

Blue Cross Blue Shield of North Carolina No. of U.S. employees: 4,659 N.C. Locations: Multiple locations throughout N.C. BCBSNC offers stress management, financial management and wellness workshops. On-site features include health clinics, gyms and lactation facilities. ParentNet ensures that all employees understand the benefits and offerings for parents. ParentLife is a resource center for prospective, new and working parents. There is also a WorkLife SuperStar contest held to recognize outstanding working parents. bcbsnc.com

Ernst & Young, LLP No. of U.S. Employees: 175,000 N.C. Locations: Charlotte, Greensboro and Raleigh The EY Assist program provides information to employees on topics ranging from nutrition to college admission to counseling. EY offers parental leave for mothers and fathers, lactation facilities and flexible work options. EY has been among Working Mom’s “Top 100 Companies” to work for 15 consecutive years. ey.com

Hill, Chesson &Woody No. of U.S. Employees: 70

work-life balance N.C. locations: Durham, Greensboro and Wilmington Hill, Chesson & Woody’s wellness committee hosts monthly events such as salad day, sneaker day and massage day. Workplace flexibility, an employee assistance program and a referral service help make life easier for employees. The company pays 100 percent of employee benefits and 34 percent of family coverage. hcwbenefits.com

Inmar No. of U.S. employees: 1,868 N.C. locations: Winston-Salem, Rural Hall and Charlotte Inmar provides health/dental and vision benefit plans from day one of employment. A wellness program designed to promote fitness and reduce obesity and tobacco use is offered for the whole family, and Inmar offers partnerships with local child care facilities. inmar.com

Advanced Home Care employees, who enjoy flexible schedules, take part in a company kick ball team.

Kindermusik International No. of U.S. employees: 40 N.C. location: Greensboro Kindermusik International offers flexible work hours, work-from-home opportunities, and generous paid time off. Children are welcomed in the workplace during teacher workdays/snow days and other gaps in day care. Lactation facilities are offered on-site. kindermusik.com

Nationwide Insurance No. of U.S. employees: 33,000 N.C. location: Multiple locations throughout the state Nationwide offers a Back-Up Care Advantage Program for child care and supports Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender equal rights. An on-site café serves healthy breakfast and lunch options for parents on the go. There is a lactation room, and Wellness Wednesdays offer stress management and work/life balance seminars. Corporate discounts to local restaurants and retailers are also provided. nationwide.com

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Irma, daughter of ARCA executive vice president Kirk Nelson, adding a personal touch to a whiteboard. ARCA covers 100 percent of preventative care for employees and their families.

Replacements Ltd. No. of U.S. employees: 425 N.C. location: Greensboro Replacements Ltd. offers an extensive health care plan as well as an on-site health clinic and fitness room. Female employees are transported by a stretch limousine annually for mammogram screenings. Flexible schedules are offered. Let’s Get Up and Move Initiatives encourage employees and their families to become more physically active through friendly competition. replacements.com

Blue Cross Blue Shield of North Carolina’s Working Mother of the Year, Christel Saunders, takes a stroll on the employee wellness trail with 9-year-old daughter, Laci.

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Replacements Ltd. employee Trenity Enoch and Japreme Hatfield. An on-site health clinic and fitness room is just one of the many perks at Replacements.

The 4-year-old classroom from Lollipop Stop were invited to paint murals in the hallways of the Smart Start of Forsyth County office.

SciWorks

Speechcenter Inc.

No. of U.S. employees: 30 N.C. location: Winston-Salem Parents enjoy generous flexibility for responding to family matters. All employees receive an Association of Science and Technology Centers membership and are encouraged to bring friends and family to special events at SciWorks. SciWorks pays a portion of a YMCA membership for any interested employee. sciworks.org

No. of U.S. employees: 75 N.C. locations: Winston-Salem, Charlotte and Boone Speechcenter helps parents meet child care needs by providing flexible scheduling and telecommuting options, and may be eligible to receive reimbursement for child care services. Employees are offered personal development assistance, therapy materials, travel reimbursements, home office materials and life insurance packages as well. speechcenter.net

Smart Start of Forsyth County

Ward Black Law

No. of U.S. employees: 16 N.C. location: Winston-Salem Family-friendly initiatives include child care referrals, access to the Work Family Resource Center, a family scholarship program, flexible work schedules, the ability to bring children to work and insurance plans. Staff members are offered a lactation room and paid time off to participate in weight management programs. smartstart-fc.org

No. of U.S. employees: 35 N.C. location: Greensboro Employee benefits are structured to support a family-oriented culture, including flexible scheduling options, an on-site concierge service to assist employees with errands, on-site retirement planning opportunities, and dry cleaning and automobile cleaning services. The company also provides mentoring and internships to young women in the community. wardblacklaw.com

HOW COMPANIES WERE SELECTED

Ward Black Law recognizes that pets are valued members of their employeesâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; families. Pets like Gerard Davidsonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s German Shepherd, Treva, are commonly seen visiting the office.

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Honored companies were nominated and provided information about benefits and programs via surveys and supporting employee testimonials. Information was reviewed at the UNC Kenan-Flagler Business School in Chapel Hill, and the final list of selected companies was determined in partnership with the business school. To nominate your company for the 2015 N.C. Family-Friendly 50, visit ncfamilyfriendly.com.

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Managing ‘Mommy Guilt’ Four mothers share how they juggle work and family By Anne Wooten Green

Mommy guilt. If you’re a woman with children, you’ve felt it — sometimes just a little, sometimes a lot. Mommy guilt is an equal-opportunity offender — it strikes whether you’re 25 or 45, CEO of your home or a Fortune 500 company, living in a small town or a big city. Women who work outside the home haven’t cornered the market on it. Work-from-home and part-timework moms feel it, too. Mommy guilt also doesn’t discriminate between women who have family around to help, or moms who depend on nannies, babysitters, daycare or school to keep their kids safe and happy.

Full-time guilt Kristi Roe, 41, of Charlotte sees mommy guilt from both sides, as a mother and a family counselor. Roe, who has two children, Spencer, 6, and Harper, 5, is director of patient experience at Carolinas Healthcare System. She previously had her own counseling and consulting business, and still counsels several clients, mostly women, with family issues. Mommy guilt is real, says Roe, but the level of guilt depends on the person, she says. “All moms have some level of guilt. I think many women feel pressure to do things a certain way … the food they feed their children, the way their children behave. Parenting is intense. Sometimes women lose themselves in their child; they try to micromanage everything.” Roe works long hours and travels frequently. When her son was born, she started with a nanny and worked

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part-time for a while. “But when my daughter came, we put both of them in daycare full-time, and they were both fine.” Roe and her husband Greg, who is an IT security analyst at Wells Fargo, have no family in the area. “We’re here totally alone. It was a hard struggle entering mommyhood.” When asked if she has mommy guilt, she says, “Oh, absolutely I do. But I’m very passionate about my career path. My job is important to me. I’m ambitious. The guilt would be worse if I didn’t feel good about my children’s lives. But I do.”

Carrying the load Libby Perry, 33, of Cary, confirms Roe’s view that some moms feel guilty if they can’t manage everything. “I feel guilty for working with young kids at home. I feel guilty when I think I am letting the 4-year-old watch too much TV. I feel guilty if I think that maybe I spend too much time looking at my phone around the kids. I feel guilty that I don’t take as many pictures of the 1-year-old as I did with the 4-year-old. I feel guilty that

I don’t always cook healthy enough meals.” A Pittsburgh native, Perry works for a software company in Raleigh. She has two children, Meadow, 4½ and Domenic, 1½. Her husband, Tony, 32, works as an executive for a pharmaceutical company in Raleigh. Perry said she is lucky that her employer let her go to a 30-hour workweek after having her second child. Though her husband works long hours, she said she tries to make running a house while working and having a family as easy as possible. “Things like Lowes Foods to Go, Amazon Prime and a house-cleaning service are things that help,” she says. “I wish I had more time with my kids. And I wish the kids and I had more time with my husband, she says. “As far as lessening the guilt, I’m still looking for ways to do that. I just remind myself that I am doing the best I can right now. Sometimes I feel like I am in survival mode.”

Making hard choices Even moms who have plenty of

work-life balance family around still feel twinges of guilt. That’s the case for Sherri Weddle Bowen, 44, of WinstonSalem, who is the director of the office of the president at Forsyth Technical Community College. She is also the college’s team captain for the March of Dimes and sells a line of flameless candles. She had her children while working on her bachelor’s and master’s degrees. “What was I thinking?” she said. Her two children, Cody, 10, and Dakota, 8, spend most of their free time with her husband, Marty, 45, who is a captain at the Lewisville Fire Department, her parents or her inlaws. Even with family members to help care for her kids, Bowen says, “There are times I feel the mommy guilt … but you still have to do stuff for yourself.” Bowen juggles kids, her husband, her job and other activities with lots of planning, she says. She comes in late every year to take her boys to the first day of school, “but that’s the only time I do it, and I don’t pick them up.” And her husband is the primary cook in the house. “I say that you can pick two of three things: your sanity, a clean house or your family. I choose sanity and my family and kids.”

Give yourself a break Amanda Harrell, 39, of Raleigh, a licensed marriage and family therapist at 3-C Family Services in Cary, spent the beginning of her career “going full throttle, going 100 percent. I was working from 9 a.m. to 8 p.m. every day,” she says. She then had her first child, daughter Harper, now 6. Harrell says she had to figure out how to keep her long hours along

with a newborn. But when her twin boys, Quaid and Hudson, now 4, came along, she said, it was an easy choice to begin working part time. Now she works two days a week, seeing clients back-to-back from 9 a.m. to 8 p.m. When she counsels a woman who is feeling mommy guilt, she first tries to determine if the guilt is justified or not justified. “A lot of women are walking around with unjustified guilt. They feel they’re not doing enough. They feel unworthy. In that case, there is a lot of work we can do to figure out and get to the bottom of their feelings.” If the guilt is justified, she works with the woman to figure out ways to spend more time with her kids. “Maybe you do something special with your kids at the end of the week, maybe you attend a baseball game or other activity they are involved in on the weekends,” she says. Even though her husband, Jim, 39, an attorney, works “insane” hours, they find time together as a family on weekends. “The kids go to bed fairly early now, so that’s a way my husband I can have time to hang out.” “Moms need time to themselves,” says Harrell. “Many have a hard time doing something nice for themselves. If you lack energy, are running on empty, you’re doing things halfway with your children.”

TIPS FOR MANAGING MOMMY GUILT compare: Log off Pinterest and stop chatting with the PTA moms, because what you think is an ideal mom just doesn’t exist.

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the benefits: If you work outside the home or from home, realize that your family is not only benefiting financially, but you’re also setting an example for your kids. They will be proud of your accomplishments

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kind to yourself: Kids don’t need a perfect mom. They just need unconditional love.

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separate work and family: If you’re passionate about what you do, share it with your kids. It’s a way to teach them important life skills.

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present: It’s hard not to check your email when you’re at home, but setting limits can ensure you’ll be fully engaged when you’re with your children.

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“me” time: Just because you’re home doesn’t mean you have to devote every second to your child. Take 15 minutes to exercise, meditate or watch TV to recharge.

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Anne Wooten Green is a freelance writer and editor from Winston-Salem. She still feels mommy guilt even though her children are 26 and 22.

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A New Generation of Mompreneurs So you think you want to start a business? Heather McDonnell knows how to blow up a Twitter stream almost as good as she cooks up impossibly delish Sweet Tea cupcakes. That’s precisely what happened three years ago when she won the Food Network’s “Cupcake Wars.” The news went viral, and she received thousands of kudos via social media. Of course, using Instagram to post pictures of daily specials and answering customer comments on Yelp is more than just keeping up with technology to her. “I basically started my business through Facebook and Twitter,” says McDonnell, owner of Cupcrazed Cakery in Fort Mill, S.C., which boasts 17,000 followers on Facebook. “It’s fun now, but in the beginning, getting started wasn’t just hard; it was the most difficult thing I’ve ever done.” A thorough business plan and subsequent bank loan, too many 20-hour workdays, and a strong passion for her company put Cupcrazed on the fast track. Yet McDonnell still worried that she couldn’t afford to pay staff to help with the workload. Most of all, she worried that she was neglecting her four children — now ages 6 to 19 — when she was at the shop.

Striking out on your own McDonnell is typical of many mompreneurs who struggle to find balance between their family and their business, which most have traditionally started in their homes. It’s not a new phenomenon but the term “mompreneur” was coined in the late 1990s by Ellen Parlapiano and Pat Cobe, co-authors of “Mompreneurs: A Mother’s Practical Step-by-Step Guide to Work-at-Home Success” and “Mompreneurs Online: Using the Internet

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Heather McDonnell is the owner of Cupcrazed Cakery in Fort Mill, S.C.

to Build Work@Home Success.” They also created mompreneursonline.com and actually trademarked the term “mompreneur.” Today the term is simply used to describe a female business owner who actively balances the roles of mom and entrepreneur. Although there are no statistics for the number of mothers who own businesses, the number of women-owned firms has been growing exponentially across the nation and locally. According to American Express OPEN’s 2013 State of Women-Owned Businesses Report, it is estimated that there are more than 8.6 million women-owned businesses in the United States, generating more than $1.3 trillion in revenues and employing nearly 8 million people. That’s an increase of 5 million businesses in only two years. North Carolina is in line with that trend. “Most reports show significant increases in the growth of womenowned businesses in North Carolina, including the SBA’s Office of Advocacy Report,” says Mike Ernandes, publicaffairs specialist for the U.S. Small

Business Administration’s North Carolina District Office in Charlotte. “I think this growth is encouraging for women interested in starting businesses all over the state.” Despite the rising numbers of women opening businesses, they still face the challenges getting access to capital and improving access to markets, including the federal government. The SBA is trying to make that easier. In July, the organization eliminated the requirement that lenders perform cash-flow and debt-coverage analysis on loans under $350,000. The SBA has also implemented a new business credit-scoring model that combines an entrepreneur’s personal and business credit scores to make it easier and faster for lenders to work with the SBA. Many mompreneurs still choose to go at it alone, or with help from family and friends. Others adopt a “if you can’t beat them, join them” mentality by accepting monies from female “angels,” or firms that invest in women-owned startups. In 2008, Brandi Tysinger-Temple was a

work-life balance full-time mom to her four kids and started sewing clothes for the girls as a hobby. She started selling the clothes on eBay, but within a matter of weeks she had to hire dozens of relatives and friends to help her address the demand. By 2010, she transferred her eBay store to Facebook, and her children’s apparel company, Lolly Wolly Doodle, has now moved to a 19,000-square-foot facility in Lexington. “By creating jobs in our community it not only creates amazing product but amazing opportunities as well,” says Tysinger-Temple.

Brandi Tysinger-Temple is the owner of Lolly Wolly Doodle, the popular children's apparel company based in Lexington.

themselves enough credit for how much they already know and how much they have learned as a parent,” says Hauser, who recently co-founded Tech Talent South, an intensive webdevelopment program with four campuses across the Southeast. “My advice to new mompreneurs is to be confident in your product and your ambition. You’re the one who put tireless hours in developing it and had the guts to get it off the ground. Don’t forget that.”

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While building her business, O’Neal was also learning how to pivot fast and go from executive to soccer mom When moms develop physical products, as Tysingerin seconds. How did she strike a balance? She admits that Temple did, there is a period of development each one must she certainly has not mastered the art of balancing family navigate. Claire O’Neal, founder of Pogginz bike accessories and business, but she tries to think of creative ways to stay for kids and an avid biker, looked into plastic injections and involved in her kids’ lives as well as involve them in hers. foam to make helmet accessories and tried various methHer 16-year-old son and 11-year-old daughter help out with ods of attaching the pieces to a helmet. She even tried using everything from packaging to assisting at events. Her daughsuper-strong magnets but then realized they were not safe for ter handles her Instagram account. young children. McDonnell of Cupcrazed Cakery says her balance O’Neal eventually began working with Betsy Hauser began with a solid foundation in the form of assistance from Idilbi, former president of a company called Little Idea Prodthose closest to her. She says the first year her store was uct Development, which merged with product development her “new baby” and her husband would take care of their giant Eventys last year. O’Neal children. Her mother and says Hauser was instrumental in friends would stop by to FOR MORE INFO helping her settle on final designs. help her do dishes at the Hauser had experience with fabric ■ The North Carolina Center for Women store and her sister-in-law and suggested O’Neal use fabric. Business Owners in Durham just won the was her office manager so “I fell in love with the glitter vinyl, 2014 SBA Women’s Business Center of the she could focus on building which is weather-resistant and Year at the state, regional and national her business. easy to clean, and now that is a levels. ncimed.org “I still have days that I Pogginz trademark,” she says. ■ “Entrepreneur” Magazine’s Mompreneur feel like I’m on a teeter-totThen they put the Pogginz Center offers business ideas, resources ter, but I’ve worked out designs on Etsy (20 cents per listand feature articles. entrepreneur.com/ most of the kinks,” says ing) just to see how many people mompreneur McDonnell. “Now I can go favorited each one. ■ National Association of Women Business home after a full day and “It was a simple way to decide Owners (NAWBO) represents women make dinner, help the kids what products to produce and entrepreneurs across all industries with with their homework, and which to abandon,” explains 5,000 members in 60 chapters nationwide. the laundry pile isn’t as Hauser Idilbi, who observed that nawbo.org scary as it used to be.” although O’Neal often said she ■ Resources for women business owners: didn’t understand business, really The Small Business Administration just Resa Goldberg is a she was quite business-savvy. unveiled a special resources page for freelance writer and editor “Moms who have taken a l women business owners. sba.gov/nc. Scroll in Charlotte with two eave from the business world down to “For women business owners.” teenage boys. to take care of family don’t give

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SEPT. 1-30 Kersey Valley’s Maize Adventure. Kersey Valley’s Maize Adventure offers your family, school, home school or church group a day of camaraderie and fun. See website for ticket information. Saturdays noon-6 p.m.; Sundays 1-6 p.m. (last ticket sold at 5 p.m.). Kersey Valley, 1615 Kersey Valley Road, Archdale. 431-1700. maizeadventure.com. Tech City Exhibit at SciWorks. This exhibition highlights the engineering behind many of the structures we encounter daily, from buildings and bridges to traffic intersections and gravity dams. Twelve interactive stations use hands-on activities for both younger and older students to present real-world problems that can be solved using an engineering approach. Included in museum admission. Monday-Saturday 10 a.m.5p.m.; Sunday noon-5 p.m. SciWorks, 400 W. Hanes Mill Road, W-S. 767-6730. sciworks.org.

SEPT. 5-15

Greensboro’s own O. Henry presented on the museum stage with live vintage music. This year’s playbill is created by playwright Joseph Hoesl and artistic director Barbara Britton and features “Proof of the Pudding,” “Elsie in New York,” “The Guilty Party,” “The Third Ingredient” and “The Girl and the Graft.” All ages. $13$16. Thursday-Sunday. See website for times. Greensboro Historical Museum, 130 Summit Ave., GSO. 373-2043. greensborohistory.org.

SEPT. 12-14 Greensboro Fall Home Show. The Home Show features a variety of home-improvement professionals in an interactive environment. Free. Friday, Sept. 12, 11 a.m.-8 p.m.; Saturday, Sept. 13, 10 a.m.-8 p.m.; Sunday, Sept. 14, 10 a.m.- 6 p.m. Greensboro Coliseum Complex-Special Events Center, 1921 W. Lee St., GSO. 373-7400. greensborocoliseum.com.

SEPT. 12-14

“Muppets from Space” at a/perture Cinema. As part of their k/ids at heart series, a/perture Friends of Alamance County Public Libraries’ Book Sale. Friends of Alamance County Public cinema is bringing “Muppets from Space” back Libraries is holding its 30th Annual Book Sale. to the big screen. In addition to the traditional Proceeds benefit library programs and literacy. popcorn, candy and beverages, a/perture offers Thousands of gently used books, movies and a variety of healthy snacks and treats made by music for children and adults. See website for local bakeries. All ages. $6.50-$9.50. See website daily times. May Memorial Library, 342 S. Spring for times. a/perture cinema, 311 W. Fourth St., St., Burlington. 229-3588. alamancefol.org. W-S. 722-8148. aperturecinema.com.

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SEPT. 19-21, 25-28

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“Into the Woods.” Weaving everyone’s favorite

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fairy tales together, this delightful and witty musical asks: what happens after happily ever after? Thursday-Saturday at 8 p.m. and Sundays at 2 p.m. $22-$25. Twin City Stage, 610 Coliseum Drive, W-S. twincitystage.org.

SEPT. 26-28 “The Great Muppet Caper” at a/perture cinema. $6.50-$9.50. Fridays 1:45 and 4 p.m (1:45 p.m. is a sensory-friendly screening for parents/younger children; tickets cannot be purchased online, and seating is limited, so be sure to arrive early). Saturdays 10 a.m. and Sundays 10 a.m. and 2 p.m. 311 W. Fourth St., W-S. 722-8148. aperturecinema.com.

SEPT. 13-19 Mount Tabor UMC Children’s Clothing & Toy Exchange. Consignments sold with 60 percent to seller and 40 percent to support women’s and children’s mission projects locally, nationally and internationally. Sizes newborn-juniors. Free. See website for times. Mount Tabor United Methodist Church, 3543 Robinhood Road, W-S. 830-1043. MtTaborUMC.org.

SEPT. 26-28 “The Fantastiks.” The longest-running musical in the world is a timeless fable of love that manages to be nostalgic and universal at the same time. $10-$30. Sept. 26 and 27 at 8 p.m. Sept. 28 at 2 p.m. Starr Theatre, 520 S. Elm St., GSO. 333-7470. ctgso.org.

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Book Babies. Stories, songs and bouncy rhymes for birth to new walkers. Free. 10 a.m. Central Library, 660 W. Fifth St., W-S.703-2665. forsyth.cc/library.

Festivals & Fairs

Burlington Youth Council. The Burlington Youth Council is a community service organization that meets the needs of the Alamance/Burlington middle- and high-school students. Students must be enrolled in an Alamance County school and maintain satisfactory grades. For more information or an application call 222-5134. Free to join. 6-7 p.m. Thataways Youth Center, 1334 Overbrook Road, Burlington. burlingtonnc.gov. PJ Story Time at Reynolda Branch. PJ Story Time is a traditional story time with one addition, wearing pajamas. This event is for all ages and features stories, rhymes, crafts and more. Free. 7 p.m. Reynolda Manor Branch Library, 2839 Fairlawn Drive. W-S.703-2960. forsyth.cc.

SEPT. 6

Bookmarks Festival of Books. Bookmarks brings writers and readers of all ages together as renowned authors, illustrators, storytellers and chefs share their work and insights through readings, presentations, panel discussions, workshops and book signings. This year’s festival features a Storybook Parade, a Spanish and English Story Time, and a Poetry Corner with Open Mic slots for poets of all ages. Be sure to stop by the Piedmont Parent booth! Free. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Milton Rhodes Center for the Arts and Spruce Street, W-S, 460-4722. Flip Flop Beach Music Festival. The afternoon/ evening event will feature an all-star line-up including Swingin’ Medallions, The Tams, Eric and the Chill Tones, and Hip Pocket. In conjunction with the Gate City Kiwanis Club, the 2014 Flip Flop Beach Music Festival is a charity event benefiting the Kiwanis Foundation. All seats $15 in advance, $20 day of show. Age 2 through college (with valid school ID) $10 in advance. 3 p.m. Greensboro Coliseum Complex, White Oak Ampitheatre, 921 W. Lee St., GSO. 373-7400. greensborocoliseum.com.

Teen to Teen Theatre. Explores difficult issues that affect adolescents through the creation and presentation of dramatic skits and workshops. Teens perform original and scripted plays, musicals and videos. Participants receive training in acting and character development, plus information about community-based assistance and healthy life choices. Ages 13-19. Free. 7-8:45 p.m. Thataways Youth Center, 1334 Overbrook Road, Burlington. 570-6516. burlingtonNC.gov/teen2teen.

Breast Friends. The support group will begin with a short education session followed by discussion among attendees to lend support to other breastfeeding moms. This is open to any breastfeeding mom regardless of where the baby was delivered. All ages. Free. 7-8 p.m. the first Tuesday of each month. Women’s Wellness Resource Room, 207 Old Lexington Road, Thomasville. 474-3253. NovantHealth.org.

The Stokes Stomp Festival on the Dan. Live music, dance, children’s area, food and craft vendors, art demonstrations, mobile zip line, and more. Saturday 9:30 a.m.-7:30 p.m. and Sunday 11 a.m.-6:30 p.m. Free. Moratock Park, Danbury. stokesarts.org.

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Central Carolina Fair. The 116th annual Central Carolina Fair returns to the Greensboro Coliseum. Featuring rides, carnival food and games, thousands of exhibits by local 4H groups, and family entertainment and attractions for all ages. $5 regular admission. See website for schedule and detailed ticket information. 1921 W. Lee St., GSO. 373-7400. centralcarolinafair.com.

SEPT. 13-14

Community Festival. UNCSA says thank you to the residents of Winston-Salem, the Piedmont Triad and all of North Carolina for a half-century of support. Performances and presentations, family-friendly activities, food trucks, and more. Free. 11 a.m.-3 p.m. UNCSA, 1533 S. Main St., W-S. UNCSA.edu

SEPT. 12-21

Children’s Story Time (Walkertown). Enjoy stories, rhymes, songs and fingerplays every Tuesday morning. Free. 10:30-11 a.m. Walkertown Branch Library, 2969 Main St., Walkertown. 7032990. forsyth.cc/library/Walkertown.

Year of the Arts Fall Festival at HPU. This year High Point University will kick off its eight-month celebration of the arts with the Fall Festival. Exhibitors include quilters, painters, potters, jewelers, bookbinders and engineers with robots. All ages. Free. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. High Point University Campus, 833 Montlieu Ave., HP. highpoint.edu.

SEPT. 8-13

Harvest Moon Festival at Reynolda House. Celebrating the Harvest Moon and the Reynolda Estate, this annual event connects art, food and music on the Reynolda lawn. Hear rising star Caleb Caudle, a New Orleans singer-songwriter, and enjoy outdoor games. Members/students, $10; nonmembers, $15. 6-9 p.m. Reynolda House Museum of American Art, 2250 Reynolda Road, W-S. 888-6631149. reynoldahouse.org.

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Fiesta! Enjoy the Hispanic League’s 22nd annual street festival with live music, dancing, arts and crafts, children’s area, and more. Free. Noon-7 p.m. Downtown Winston-Salem. hispanicleague.org.

Apple Fest. Come enjoy apples, crafts, music, food, Hogway Speedway and a kids’ zone. Free. 10:30 a.m.-4:30 p.m. Historic Bethabara Park, 2147 Bethabara Road, W-S.924-8191. cityofws.org.

Stokes County Fair. Rides, exhibits, food and more. Gates open at 6 p.m. on Monday and 4 p.m. TuesdaySaturday. Saturday gates open at 2 p.m. $8-$12 admission. stokescountyfair.org.

Triad Americana Jazz Group. Come jam every Monday. Some days will be dedicated jam sessions while others will focus more on practice and music theory. Country, bluegrass, anything else. All skill levels welcome. Free. 6:30 p.m. Reynolda Manor Branch Library, 2839 Fairlawn Drive, W-S. 703-2960. forsyth.cc.

SEPT. 13

High Point’s Day in the Park Festival. Sponsored by the High Point Area Arts Council and its partners in cooperation with High Point Parks & Recreation. Free. 11 a.m.-5 p.m. City Lake Park, 602 W. Main St., Jamestown. 883-3498. highpointarts.org.

SEPT. 27

Black Walnut Festival. Live music, arts and crafts, family fun, food, and more. Free. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Historic Bethania, 5393 Ham Horton Lane. townofbethania.org.

SEPT. 20-21

Burlington Carousel Festival. Arts and crafts, music, children’s activity area, and more. Free. Saturday 10 a.m.-6 p.m., Sunday 1-6 p.m. Burlington City Park, 1333 Overbrook Road, Burlington.

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price. 5-8 p.m. Greensboro Children’s Museum, 220 N. Church St., GSO. 574-2898. gcmuseum.com. Book Babies (Reynolda). Songs, bouncy rhymes and a story. For birth to new walkers. Free. Friday 10:30 a.m. Reynolda Manor Branch Library, 2839 Fairlawn Drive, W-S. 703-2960. forsyth.cc/library. Food Truck Friday. Enjoy food trucks at the Carolina Theatre. Free to enter. Food and drinks for purchase. 6-10 p.m. Carolina Theatre, 310 S. Greene St., GSO. 333-2605. carolinatheatre.com. Kids’ Art Event at Hemphill Library. Express your creativity with paint. Children under age 8 must be accompanied by an adult. 3:30-5:30 p.m. Hemphill Branch Library. 2301 W. Vandalia Road, GSO. 373-2925. greensboro-nc.gov.

Kiddie Morning Movie Story Time at McGirt-Horton. Enjoy pre-K stories, movies and felt board activities. 10 a.m. McGirt-Horton Branch Library. 2501 Phillips Ave., GSO. 373-5810. greensboro-nc.gov.

story time with singing, dancing and coloring. Parental supervision required. Ages 3-6. Free. 10:15 a.m. Kernersville Branch, 130 E. Mountain St., Kernersville. 703-2930. forsyth.cc/library.

Special Populations Dance. Dances are designed to offer persons with developmental disabilities an opportunity to dance and socialize. For all ages (recommended for ages 16+). Free. 6:30-8:30 p.m. Thataways Youth Center, 1334 Overbrook Road, Burlington. 222-5134. BurlingtonNC.gov/thataways.

Special Populations Bingo. Bingo is designed to offer people with developmental disabilities an opportunity to have fun playing and socialize. All ages. Small cost for games and concessions. 7-8 p.m. Thataways Youth Center, 1334 Overbrook Road, Burlington. 222-5134. BurlingtonNC.gov/thataways.

Toddler Story Time (Clemmons). Enjoy stories for toddlers. Free. 10:30 a.m. Clemmons Library, 3554 Clemmons Road.703-2920. forsyth.cc.

Teddy Bear Story Time at Glenwood. Bring your favorite stuffed bear and enjoy stories, activities and a short movie. 10:30 a.m. Glenwood Branch Library. 1901 W. Florida St., GSO. 297-5000. greensboro-nc.gov.

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La Leche League of Winston-Salem. Pregnant women and breastfeeding mothers are welcome for breastfeeding information and support. Babies and toddlers also welcome. Free. 10 a.m. Redeemer Presbyterian Church, 1046 Miller St., W-S. 462-5782. lllofnc.org. Pregnancy Yoga. A one-hour class incorporating gentle and relaxing postures suitable for any fitness level or stage of pregnancy. Light refreshments provided after class. $12 for a single rate; can also purchase monthly passes at a reduced rate. 6:30-7:30 p.m. Forsyth Medical Center: Maya Angelou Center Community Room 2 (first floor) 3333 Silas Creek Parkway, W-S. 414-5942. forsythmedicalcenter.org. Preschool Story Time (Kernersville). A themed

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Mocha Moms. A support group for mothers of color who have chosen not to work full time outside the home to devote more time to their families and communities. Free. 9:30 a.m. Georgia E. Taylor Recreation Center, 471 W. Clemmonsville Road, W-S. 650-7695. mochamoms-winston.tripod.com. National Childhood Obesity Awareness Workshop. Learn ways for children to maintain a healthy lifestyle and make the right choices of food to eat. Ages 10-18. 6-7:30 p.m. Morehead Recreation Center, 101 Price St., HP. highpointnc.gov/pr.

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La Leche League of Greensboro Monthly Meeting. Pregnant women and breastfeeding mothers are welcome for breastfeeding information and support. Babies and toddlers also welcome. Free. 10 a.m. Leonard Recreational Center, 6324 Ballinger Road, GSO. lllofnc.org. Preschool Music and Movement. Join us for preschool music and movement. Large groups please call. 10:30 a.m. Mallory Jordan Branch Library, 1110 E. Seventh St., W-S. forsyth.cc/Library. Storybook Soiree: Charlotte’s Web. Celebrating a decade of play, the Children’s Museum of WinstonSalem is hosting its annual Storybook Soiree, themed around the beloved classic “Charlotte’s Web.” $80. 7 p.m. WinMock at Kinderton, 168 E. Kinderton Way, Bermuda Run. 723-9111. childrensmuseumofws.org.

6 SATURDAY

All-a-Flutter Family Fun Day. Visit a real working butterfly farm. Your visit begins with a fun, fast-paced skit using kids from the audience. Learn about the lifecycle of a monarch butterfly and more. $6. Children under 2, free. Cash and checks only. 10 a.m. All-a-Flutter Butterfly Farm, 7850 Clinard Farms Road, HP. 454-5651. all-a-flutter.com. Bilingual Story Time at Glenwood. This family event features Spanish/English bilingual stories, songs, a short video and an art activity about preschool concepts. 10:30 a.m. 1901 W. Florida St., GSO. 297-5000. greensboro-nc.gov. Blacksmithing Demonstration in the Historical Park. Watch a blacksmith craft iron pieces. Free. 10 a.m.4 p.m. High Point Museum, 1859 E. Lexington Ave., HP. 885-1859. highpointmuseum.org. Company Auditions for Artistic Motion School

calendar of Arts. Artistic Motion School of Arts is holding auditions for the 2014 Fall Company production of “The Snow Queen.” The Artistic Motion Dance Company is designed to offer company members the chance to work with more technical choreography, expand knowledge of dance and stage performance, and become acquainted with the life of a professional dancer. Ages 9+. 1-4 p.m. Artistic Motion School of Arts, 800 W. Smith St., GSO. 617-5099. artisticmotiondance.com. Free Back-to-School Health Fair. Bring the family: Screenings include B/P, BMI, triglycerides, cholesterol, glucose and bone density, posture, chair massage, and child ID (DNA) kits. Free flu shots with insurance card. Also features a bike rodeo, inflatables, corn toss and spin the wheel. Free Chick-fil-A sandwiches to the first 150 participants. Free. 10 a.m.-noon. Fountain of Life Church, 323 Hopkins Road, Kernersville. 993-4447. cometothefountain.com. Saturday Children’s Story Hour. Join dynamic leaders from the community as they conduct a story hour every Saturday. After the stories, children will complete a make-and-take arts activity. 5-12 years. Does not include museum admission. Adults, $6; ages 6-12, $4; under 6, free. 11 a.m. International Civil Rights Center and Museum, 134 S. Elm St., GSO. 274-9199. sitinmovement.org.

materials provided. Registration required as class enrollment is limited; please call 758-5599. 2-5 p.m. Reynolda House Museum of American Art, 2250 Reynolda Road, W-S. reynoldahouse.org. Half-Price Sunday. Sundays are now half-price. 1-5 p.m. $4. Greensboro Children’s Museum, 220 N. Church St., GSO. gcmuseum.com.

8 MONDAY

Book Babies. See Sept. 1 listing. Family Movie Night at Hemphill Branch. Enjoy the movie “Wings” with the family. 6:30-8 p.m. Hemphill Branch Library. 2301 W. Vandalia Road, GSO. 373-2925. greensboro-nc.gov.

“Divergent” at Glenwood Library. Bring a friend to watch “Divergent” and enjoy crafts and activities that symbolize each of the factions: Abnegation, Amity, Candor, Dauntless and Erudite. This is a teen event for middle- and high-school students. 2:30-5:30 p.m. Glenwood Branch Library. 1901 W. Florida St., GSO. 2975000. greensboro-nc.gov. Family First Sundays at Reynolda House. These two-hour workshops begin at 2 p.m. the first Sunday of each month for children in grades 1-6 accompanied by an adult. $8 members; $10 non-members. Art

Toddler Story Time (Clemmons). See Sept. 2 listing.

10 WEDNESDAY

Teen to Teen Theatre. See Sept. 1 listing.

Pregnancy Yoga. See Sept. 3 listing.

Triad Americana Jazz Group. See Sept. 1 listing.

Preschool Story Time (Kernersville). A themed story time with singing , dancing and coloring. Parental supervision required. 3-6 years. Free. 10:15 a.m. Kernersville Branch, 130 E. Mountain St., Kernersville. 703-2930. forsyth.cc/library.

Angel Bear Yoga: Johnny Appleseed Adventure. Join Angel Bear on a fall adventure. Read the book “Johnny Appleseed Goes a Planting” and celebrate his life. Learn the important character traits of perseverance and caring for the Earth as you do apple tree poses. Meet a special furry friend, too. Free with paid museum admission. 11 a.m. Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem, 390 S. Liberty St., W-S. 723-9111. childrensmuseumofws.org.

Auditions for Artistic Motion Preparatory Academy. Auditions for dancers 12-13 are being held for Artistic Motion Preparatory Academy. $30 onsite. Registration 9-10 a.m. Artistic Motion School of Arts, 800 W. Smith St., GSO. 617-5099. artisticmotiondance.com.

Special Populations Dance. See Sept. 2 listing.

Music for the Community. Enjoy music at the library on Mondays. 5-8 p.m. Walkertown Branch Library, 2969 Main St., Walkertown. 703-2990. forsyth.cc.

ABC Music and Me: Kindermusik at GCM. Kids will use music to improve hand-eye coordination, foster early reading skills and build expressive speech. Sign up for a 4-week unit and join instructor Rosalind Brink for toe-tapping, music-making fun. Register by calling 209-1152. Ages 4-6 at 3:30 p.m. Ages 2-3 at 4:30 p.m. Greensboro Children’s Museum, 220 N. Church St., GSO. gcmuseum.com.

7 SUNDAY

Science Cafe at River Ridge Taphouse in Clemmons. Science Cafes are free, informal talks offering participants a chance to hear about the latest groundbreaking research from regional scientists. Visit sciworks.org for speaker and topic. 7 p.m. 1480 River Ridge Drive, Clemmons. sciworks.org.

Old Salem Puppet Show: “The Greenest Green.” Salem is abuzz as they await the arrival of an important person. Included in All-in-One Ticket. 10 a.m., 10:30 a.m., 11:30 a.m., 12:30 p.m., 1 p.m., and 1:30 p.m. Old Salem-Frank L. Horton Museum Center, 600 S. Main St., W-S. 721-7300. oldsalem.org.

9 TUESDAY

Star Party at SciWorks. Join Forsyth Astronomical Society and SciWorks Planetarium staff for an astronomy observation in the SciWorks parking lot. Admission is free, and telescopes will be provided. In case of bad weather, call SciWorks at 767-6730 after 5:30 for an update. Free. 8-10 p.m. SciWorks, 400 W. Hanes Mill Road, W-S. sciworks.org.

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Children’s Story Time (Walkertown). See Sept. 2 listing. Homeschool Day at SciWorks. Special programs for home-educated children and other small groups. Group admission rates apply and preregistration is required. Grades K-9. 10 a.m. and 11 a.m. SciWorks, 400 W. Hanes Mill Road, W-S. 767-6730. sciworks.org. Ronald McDonald Visits Glenwood Library. Bring the family for stories with Ronald McDonald and enjoy magic, music and more. 6:30-7:30 p.m. Glenwood Branch Library. 1901 W. Florida St., GSO. 297-5000.

“So Long Summer” Preschool Story Time at Chavis. Celebrate the final days of summer with stories, songs, a short film and a craft. 11 a.m. Chavis Branch Library. 900 S. Benbow Road, GSO. 373-5838. greensboro-nc.gov. Special Populations Bingo. See Sept. 3 listing.

11 THURSDAY

Bethabara Concert Band. Enjoy outdoor music with the Bethabara Concert Band. Bring the family, a blanket and picnic dinner. Dino’s New York hot dogs, ice cream, Colonial children’s games and more. Free. 5:30 p.m. 2147 Bethabara Road, W-S. 924-8191. bethabarapark.org. Flight Simmers’ Workshop. Share ideas and knowledge about flight simulation. 12+. Free. 7-8 p.m. The Wright Stuff, 121 Pineview Drive, Kernersville. 4033268. wrghtstff.com.

Growing Up in the Animal World. Learn how animals grow and explore the world around them in this presentation by the N.C. Museum of Natural Sciences with live animals. 3:30-4:15 p.m. Benjamin Branch Library, 1530 Benjamin Parkway, GSO. 3737540. greensboro-nc.gov. Mocha Moms. See Sept. 4 listing. piedmontparent.com

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$4 Fun Friday Nights. Explore the Greensboro Children’s Museum with the family when admission is discounted to $4 per person. 5-8 p.m. 220 N. Church St., GSO. 5742898. gcmuseum.com. Book Babies (Reynolda). See Sept. 5 listing. Brenner FIT Event. Brenner Children’s Hospital challenges you to join them for the Brenner FIT 5K Challenge. Proceeds benefit the Brenner FIT (Families in Training) program. For more information call the Hospital Development Office at 716-7985. All ages. Registration required. Fun Run-$10. 5k-$35. 6:30 p.m. WFU Deacon Tower, 499 Deacon Blvd., W-S. brennerchildrens.org. Old Salem Puppet Show: “The Greenest Green.” See Sept. 10 listing. Preschool Music and Movement. See Sept. 5 listing.

13 SATURDAY

All-a-Flutter Family Fun Day. See Sept. 6 listing. Auditions for the 20th Anniversary Production of “The Wizard of Oz.” Kids 12 and under. Please come with a prepared song, sheet music or karaoke CD (music only; no one singing on the CD). 2-5 p.m. Community Theatre of Greensboro, Greensboro Cultural Center, fourth floor, 200 N. Davie St., GSO. 333-7470. ctgso.org.

Cookie Mouse Visits GCM. Enjoy meeting Cookie Mouse from the popular children’s book “If You Give a Mouse a Cookie” at the Greensboro Children’s Museum. Included in admission. 1-4 p.m. 220 N. Church St., GSO. 574-2898. gcmuseum.com. Preparing for Winter in the Historical Park. Discover how early Americans prepared their households for winter. Participate in seasonal tasks with historical interpreters. Drop-in. Free. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. High Point Museum, 1859 E. Lexington Ave., HP. 885-1859. highpointmuseum.org.

Rock Laser Shows in the Planetarium. The Beatles, Pink Floyd’s “The Wall” and Pink Floyd’s “The Dark Side of the Moon.” Modern hard rock. $6/person or see two or more shows for $5/person per show. 6:30 p.m., SciWorks, 400 W. Hanes Mill Road, W-S. 767-6730. sciworks.org. Saturday Children’s Story Hour. See Sept. 6 listing. Second Saturday at SECCA. Enjoy activities for the family at SECCA. Free. Noon-3 p.m. Southeastern Center for Contemporary Art, 750 Marguerite Drive, W-S. 7251904. secca.org. Winston-Salem Air Show. In addition to dynamic aviation displays, there will be family fun events including musical acts, magic shows, jugglers and more. The ride-filled Children’s Village will entertain younger children, and those who want to experience the thrill of flight can ride in a hot-air balloon or helicopter. Free parking. 11:45 a.m.-4 p.m. $12 and up. Children 12 and under free. Smith Reynolds Airport, 3801 N. Liberty St., W-S. 767-6361. wsairshow.com. YA/Teen Book Club Presents a Tribute to Walter Dean Myers. Join the library for a celebration of Walter Dean Myers, the young adult author and poet. Pizza and drinks will be served. 12:30-2:30 p.m. Hemphill Branch Library. 2301 W. Vandalia Road, GSO. 373-2925. greensboro-nc.gov.

14 SUNDAY

Half-Price Sunday. See Sept. 7 listing.

Second Sundays on Fourth. Second Sundays on Fourth (SSO4) is a series of free parties between Cherry and Marshall streets in downtown Winston-Salem every Second Sunday from May to October. 2-6 p.m. Downtown W-S. secca.org. Winston-Salem Air Show. See Sept. 13 listing.

15 MONDAY

Bird Story Time at Benjamin Branch. Enjoy toddler

and preschool stories, rhymes, a short film, and a craft. 10:30 a.m. Benjamin Branch Library. 1530 Benjamin Parkway, GSO. 373-7540. greensboro-nc.gov. Bridging the Gap Between Freedom, Slavery and Africa in Your Family History. Lamar DeLoatch, president of the Piedmont-Triad Chapter of the AfroAmerican Historical and Genealogical Society, offers guidance in tracing African-American family histories. No pre-registration necessary. Free. 6:30 p.m. High Point Public Library-Morgan Room, 901 N. Main St., HP. 8833660. highpointmuseum.org. Burlington Youth Council. See Sept. 1 listing. Music for the Community. See Sept. 8 listing. Teen to Teen Theatre. See Sept. 1 listing. Triad Americana Jazz Group. See Sept. 1 listing.

16 TUESDAY

ABC Music and Me: Kindermusik at GCM. See Sept. 9 listing.

Children’s Story Time (Walkertown). See Sept. 2 listing. City Growers: Harvest Hoedown. Come celebrate the beginning of fall in The Edible Schoolyard with a Harvest Hoedown. We will harvest, plant, dig and visit our farmyard animals. The day will culminate with a barnyard dance party to kick off the season. Members, $8; nonmembers, $12. 3:30-5 p.m. Greensboro Children’s Museum, 220 N. Church St., GSO. gcmuseum.com. La Leche League of Kernersville. Pregnant women and breastfeeding mothers are welcome for breastfeeding information and support. Babies and toddlers also welcome. Free. 7 p.m. Fountain of Life Lutheran Church, 323 Hopkins Road, Kernersville. lllofnc.org. PIPP Squeaks: Changing Leaves. This Parent-Involved Preschool Program is just for children ages 3-5 and an accompanying parent or adult caregiver. Pre-registration Pinterest.com/ PiedmontParent

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calendar required. $7 for members and $15 for non-members (includes museum admission). Call 714-7105 to register. 10 a.m. SciWorks. 400 W. Hanes Mill Road, W-S. sciworks.org.

Impossibilities: An Evening of Magic, Mind Reading & Mayhem Sept. 20

Porcupines and Hugs Story Time. Enjoy pre-K stories, felt board activities, songs and more. 10 a.m. McGirtHorton Branch Library. 2501 Phillips Ave., GSO. 373-5810. greensboro-nc.gov. Special Populations Dance. See Sept. 2 listing. Toddler Story Time (Clemmons). See Sept. 2 listing.

17 WEDNESDAY

Pirate Story Time. Stories, rhymes, songs and more in honor of “Talk Like a Pirate Day.” 10:30-11:15 a.m. Glenwood Branch Library. 1901 W. Florida St., GSO. 2975000. greensboro-nc.gov.

Pregnancy Yoga. See Sept. 3 listing. Preschool Story Time (Kernersville). See Sept. 10 listing.

Mocha Moms. See Sept. 4 listing.

Special Populations Bingo. See Sept. 3 listing.

Young Adult Council. Come help the library plan events for teens in grades 6-12. Snacks will be served. 4-6 p.m. Glenn McNairy Branch Library. 4860 Lake Jeanette Road, GSO. 373-2015. greensboro-nc.gov.

18 THURSDAY

Greensboro Astronomy Club meeting at GSC. Learn about the stars and our universe at these free meetings held at the Greensboro Science Center every third Friday of the month. Open to the public. Visit greensboroastronomyclub.org for more info. GAC membership is open to anyone and yearly dues are $20 for a family membership. 7:30-8:30 p.m. 4301 Lawndale Drive, GSO. 288-3769. greensboroscience.org.

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$4 Fun Friday Nights. See Sept. 12 listing. Book Babies (Reynolda). See Sept. 5 listing. Center City Cinema: “The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy.” Bring a blanket and snacks, or grab some food at the food truck on site for the evening. Free. 8:30 p.m. Center City Park, 200 N. Elm St., GSO. centercitypark.org.

Greensboro-Central MOMS Club. Greensboro-Central MOMS Club meets the third Thursday of each month.10 a.m.-noon. email: momsclubgso@gmail.com. St. Paul of the Apostle Catholic Church, 2715 Horse Pen Creek Road, GSO. momsclubcentralgreensboro.com.

Movies in the Park: “Racing Stripes.” Join us for an outdoor movie, popcorn, food, vendors and more. Free. 7 p.m. Harmon Park, Kernersville. toknc.com.

Preschool Music and Movement. See Sept. 5 listing.

20 SATURDAY

All-a-Flutter Family Fun Day. See Sept. 6 listing. Butterfly Festival. N.C. State Parks has designated 2014 as the Year of the Lepidoptera, so SciWorks is celebrating all things butterfly. Activities for all ages, including tips for butterfly gardening and butterfly identification, a presentation about monarch tagging and migration, face-painting, crafts, and a walk-in vivarium with live butterflies. Included in museum admission. 11 a.m.-4 p.m. SciWorks, 400 W. Hanes Mill Road, W-S. 767-6730. sciworks.org. Family Cooking Class: Bento Box Basics. Are you looking for simple, creative ways to get excited about packing a healthy, balanced lunch? Learn the basics and assemble your own bento box. Registration required.

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Saturday Morning LEGO Club. Get creative and build with LEGOs. 10-11 a.m. Central Library. 219 N. Church St., GSO. 373-2471. greensboro-nc.gov. Walking Tour of Washington Street. Local Historian Glenn Chavis leads a guided walking tour of historic Washington Street, once a thriving business and entertainment district for High Point’s black community during the period of segregation. The tour lasts 90 minutes and is free but limited to 20 people. Call 8851859 to register. 9 a.m. highpointmuseum.org. Winston-Salem Symphony Kicked Back Classics: Opening Weekend. Prokofiev “Symphony No. 5,” Rachmaninoff’s “Rhapsody on a theme of Paganini” and Marquez-“Danzon No. 2.” $20-$67. 7:30 p.m. Stevens Center, 405 W. Fourth St., W-S. 631-1212. wssymphony.org. Worldwide Day of Play. The Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem celebrates the art of playing. Admission is $5 per person. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. 390 S. Liberty St., W-S. 723-9111. childrensmuseumofws.org.

See website for registration and cost. 11 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Greensboro Children’s Museum, 220 N. Church St., GSO. 574-2898. gcmuseum.com. Girl Gaming (Teen Central). Girls, join the library in Teen Central every third Saturday for gaming. Program for youth in grades 6-12. 1-3 p.m. Central Library, 660 W. Fifth St., W-S. 703-3080. forsyth.cc/Library/Central. High Point Theatre Presents: Impossibilities: Magic, Mind Reading and Mayhem. Magical Comedian Chris Collins and Master Mentalist Erik Dobell have teamed up to bring you a night of stunning magic, reality shattering mindreading and hilarious mayhem. $15. 8 p.m. 220 E. Commerce Ave., HP. 887-3001. highpointtheatre.com.

Rock Laser Shows in the Planetarium. See Sept. 13 listing. Saturday Children’s Story Hour. See Sept. 6 listing.

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International Red Panda Day at Greensboro Science Center. Come for breakfast in the zoo and celebrate International Red Panda Day with GSC’s red panda, Taiji. Visitors will play games, make crafts and enjoy panda-related activities as well as learn about real red panda rangers. Keepers will talk about red panda conservation both at the center and in the wild. Guests will also receive unique behind-the-scenes tours, a special keepsake item and admission to the center for the day. 8-10 a.m. $30 GSC member/$40 non-member. 4301 Lawndale Drive, GSO. greensboroscience.org.

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21 SUNDAY

Half-Price Sunday. See Sept. 7 listing.

Sunday Social at Old Salem: Homowo Harvest Food Tasting. This social will feature a tasting of foods from plants native to Africa and foods traditionally associated with African-American cuisine. An array of vegetables such as black eye peas, okra and sweet potatoes will be sampled. Included in All-in-One Ticket. 1-3:30 p.m. Old Salem, St. Philips Heritage Center, 913 S. Church St., W-S. 721-7300. oldsalem.org. Winston-Salem Symphony Classics Series. Robert Moody, conductor; Conrad Tao, piano. Prokofiev “Symphony No. 5,” Rachmaninoff “Rhapsody on a Theme

calendar Children’s Story Time (Walkertown). See Sept. 2 listing.

of Paganini,” Marquez “Danzon No. 2.” $20-$67. Sunday, Sept. 21 at 3 p.m. Tuesday, Sept. 23 at 7:30 p.m. Stevens Center of the UNCSA, 405 W. Fourth St., W-S. 721-1945. wssymphony.org.

City Growers: Wonderful Water. Come explore the wonder of water in The Edible Schoolyard. Children ages 5-9 will visit the magical pond and try to catch goldfish, water plants and more. Drop-off program. 3:30-5 p.m. Registration required. Members, $8; non-members, $12. Greensboro Children’s Museum, 220 N. Church St., GSO. 574-2898. gcmuseum.com.

22 MONDAY

Games in the Garden at Hemphill Library. Join the library for outdoor games and activities, weather permitting. 6:30-7:30 p.m. Hemphill Branch Library. 2301 W. Vandalia Road, GSO. 373-2925. greensboro-nc.gov.

Farm Animal Story Time. Enjoy pre-K stories, games, songs and more. 10-11 a.m. McGirt-Horton Branch Library. 2501 Phillips Ave., GSO. 373-5810. greensboro-nc.org.

LEAN Start with Terri Maultsby. Certified health coach and veteran K-12 educator Terri Maultsby will lead a six-part class on healthy choices for families. Learn more about nurturing your family’s wellness through food and lifestyle choices. 9:30-10:30 a.m. Register and rate information at thinkeatgrow.com. Greensboro Children’s Museum, 220 N. Church St., GSO. gcmuseum.com.

Special Populations Dance. See Sept. 2 listing. Toddler Story Time (Clemmons). See Sept. 2 listing. Winston-Salem Symphony Classics Series. See Sept. 21 listing.

Music for the Community. See Sept. 8 listing.

24 WEDNESDAY

Speech & Language Screenings. These private screenings led by a speech-language pathologist take 10 minutes per child and determine if a child’s speech is appropriate for his/her age or if a more in-depth assessment is needed. Children ages 18 months-6 years. Registration required. Contact csimonson@ childrensmuseumofws.org to reserve a time. Space is limited. 9-11 a.m. Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem. 390 S. Liberty St., W-S. 723-9111. childrensmuseumofws.org .

Makerspace: Create a Creature. Construct a silly or scary creature using common items and your imagination. 4-5 p.m. Kathleen Clay Edwards Branch Library. 1420 Price Park Road, GSO. 373-2923. greensboro-nc.gov. Music & Movement. Come move and groove through songs, fingerplays and a read aloud. Included in museum admission. 11 a.m. Children’s Museum of WinstonSalem, 390 S. Liberty St., W-S. 723-9111. childrensmuseumofws.org.

Teen to Teen Theatre. See Sept. 1 listing. Triad Americana Jazz Group. See Sept. 1 listing.

23 TUESDAY

Pregnancy Yoga. See Sept. 3 listing. Preschool Story Time (Kernersville). A themed story time with singing, dancing and coloring. Parental

ABC Music and Me: Kindermusik at GCM. See Sept. 9 listing.

supervision required. Ages 3-6. Free. 10:15 a.m. Kernersville Branch, 130 E. Mountain St., Kernersville. 703-2930. forsyth.cc/library. Special Populations Bingo. See Sept. 3 listing.

25 THURSDAY

Free Yoga Class for Adults and Teens. Join the library for a free yoga class for adults and teens. Bring your yoga mat, a small blanket or a beach towel. 5 p.m. Walkertown Branch Library. 2969 Main St., Walkertown. forsyth.cc.

Mocha Moms. Sept. 4 listing. National Dog Week at Benjamin Branch. Learn basic obedience training and the importance of responsible dog ownership in a program featuring real dogs. 3:304:15 p.m. Benjamin Branch Library, 1530 Benjamin Parkway, GSO. 373-7540. greensboro-nc.gov. Toddler Story Time (Kernersville). Come to the library for stories and activities. 10:30 a.m. Kernersville Branch Library, 130 E. Mountain St. forsyth.cc.

26 FRIDAY

$4 Fun Friday Nights. See Sept. 12 listing.

4th Fridays with Burlington Recreation & Parks. Kids’ activities, art, face painting, balloon twisting, live music, food trucks, downtown shopping and more. Stay for the ’80s pop-rock dance music band She Bop. Free. 5-9 p.m. Historic Depot-Downtown Burlington, 200 S. Main St., Burlington. 222-5030. burlingtonnc.gov. Book Babies (Reynolda). See Sept. 5 listing. “Harry the Dirty Dog.” Harry has everything a little

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calendar white dog with black spots could want. There’s just one problem: He hates baths so much that one morning he runs away. This new musical is based on the classic book by Gene Zion. $10-$14. Saturday at 10 a.m. and noon. Sunday at 11 a.m. Children’s Theatre of Winston-Salem, 610 Coliseum Drive, W-S. 748-0857. childrenstheatrews.org. Moneyville Members’ Preview Night. SciWorks members are invited to enjoy a preview of the Moneyville exhibit before it opens to the public. SciWorks members only. 4-7 p.m. SciWorks, 400 W. Hanes Mill Road, W-S. 767-6730. sciworks.org. Preschool Music and Movement. See Sept. 5 listing. See to Believe Annual Gala. Come see why more than 400,000 visitors this year have made the Greensboro Science Center one of the fastest-growing attractions in the area. Adults 21 and up. Casual cocktail attire. 6:30-10:30 p.m. 4301 Lawndale Drive, GSO. 288-3769. greensboroscience.org. Teen Cooking Class: A Taste of El Salvador. You’ll visit El Salvador in this international cooking class and learn to make traditional pupusas — a thick, handmade corn tortilla stuffed with pork, cheese or refried beans. Then, you’ll harvest garden-fresh produce for slaw and accompaniments. See website for registration and cost. 5-7 p.m. Greensboro Children’s Museum. 220 N. Church St., GSO. 574-2898. gcmuseum.com.

27 SATURDAY

2014 Bike MS: Tour to Tanglewood. VF Corporation and Wrangler Tour to Tanglewood is a two-day cycling event in Clemmons that raises funds to support people living with multiple sclerosis. Money raised through this event pays for MS research, programs, services and advocacy. Festivities at Tanglewood Park include team village, live music, hot food, cold beverages, silent auction and a kids’ zone. Sept. 27 and 28. Tanglewood Park, 4061 Clemmons Road, Clemmons. 299-4136. See website for registration and cost. bikenct.nationalmssociety.org/site/TR.

Blacksmithing Demonstration in the Historical Park. Watch a blacksmith craft iron pieces. Free. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. High Point Museum, 1859 E. Lexington Ave., HP. 885-1859. highpointmuseum.org. “Harry the Dirty Dog.” See Sept. 26 listing. Komen Race for the Cure. The Race is a 5K with an optional shorter family route. All fees are nonrefundable and nontransferable, even in the event of inclement weather. All ages. Registration required. Free. $35. 6:30 a.m. 951 Ballpark Way, W-S. 721-0037. komennorthwestnc.org/komen-race-for-the-cure.

Children’s Story Time (Walkertown). See Sept. 2 listing.

Rock Laser Shows in the Planetarium. See Sept. 13 listing. Saturday Children’s Story Hour. See Sept. 6 listing.

28 SUNDAY

Family Fun Sunday at Four Seasons Town Centre. Four Seasons Town Centre presents Family Fun Sunday on the fourth Sunday of every month. 3-5 p.m. 410 Four Seasons Town Centre, GSO. 292-0171. shopfourseasons.com. Half-Price Sunday. See Sept. 7 listing.

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Triad Americana Jazz Group. See Sept. 1 listing.

Reynolda Village Tours. A two-hour walking tour of the barns, dairy and staff quarters. Listen to oral histories of the people who lived and worked on the estate. Tours begin at Reynolda House. Members/ students $15; non-members $20. 10 a.m. Reynolda House Museum of American Art, 2250 Reynolda Road, WS, 2250 Reynolda Road, 888-663-1149. reynoldahouse.org.

Bilingual Story Time at Glenwood. See Sept. 6 listing.

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Teen to Teen Theatre. See Sept. 1 listing.

30 TUESDAY

All-a-Flutter Family Fun Day. See Sept. 6 listing.

Simply Circle. Age-appropriate and language-based songs and activities for children ages 2-5 of all ability levels. Registration required for the four-week series. $32/member-child; $40/nonmember-child. Monday 10:30 a.m. Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem. 390 S. Liberty St., W-S. 723-9111. childrensmuseumofws.org.

Korner’s Folly Family Revue Puppet Show. The puppet show is followed by a make-and-take sock puppet craft. Free with general admission (puppet show only, $2). 10:30 a.m. Korner’s Folly, 413 S. Main St., Kernersville. 996-7922. kornersfolly.org.

Salem Band Summer Concert. Fall Fest Fundraising Concert with a Latin theme. Support your community band, one of the oldest in the country. Free. 7:30 p.m. Salem Square-Old Salem Historic District, 600 S. Main St., W-S. 721-7300. oldsalem.org.

Greensboro Ballet Presents “Café.” Enjoy a fanciful look at a 1940s nightclub visited by a sailor, a gangster, a drunk and a country bumpkin who arrive for an evening of music and dancing. 7-9 p.m. $20. Greensboro Cultural Arts Center. 200 N. Davie St., GSO. 333-7480. greensboroballet.org.

Music for the Community. See Sept. 8 listing.

Kathleen Clay Birthday Party. Celebrate Kathleen Clay Branch Library’s 10th birthday with cake, a time capsule, postcards and nature bookmarks. 6:30-7:30 p.m. 1420 Price Park Road, GSO. 373-2923. greensboro-nc.gov. LEAN Start with Terri Maultsby. See Sept. 22 listing.

ABC Music and Me: Kindermusik at GCM. See Sept. 9 listing.

City Growers: Super Seeds. Learn how to save seeds like real farmers. The afternoon includes a seed scavenger hunt, a seed craft and a delicious seed snack. Drop-off program for ages 5-9. 3:30-5 p.m. Registration required. Members $8; nonmembers $12. 3:30-5 p.m. Greensboro Children’s Museum, 220 N. Church St., GSO. 574-2898. gcmuseum.com. Family Story Time at Central Library. Bring the family for stories, felt board activities and rhymes. 5:30-6 p.m. Central Library. 219 N. Church St., GSO. 373-2471. greensboro-nc.gov. Special Populations Dance. See Sept. 2 listing. Tanglewood BMX New Rider Clinic. Learn how to ride your bike on a dirt track. Tanglewood BMX is a USABMX-sanctioned bicycle association with riders of all ages and skill levels. All ages. Free. 6-8 p.m. Tanglewood BMX is inside Tanglewood Park, 4061 Clemmons Road, Clemmons. 766-5269. tanglewood-bmx.com. Toddler Story Time (Clemmons). See Sept. 2 listing. Calendar compiled by Judy Caldwell-Midero Send your organization’s events to calendar@piedmontparent.com. The deadline is the 1st of the preceding month. For more events, including story times, visit our website at piedmontparent.com.

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Kids Eat Free! Want to know where to find the best meal deals for your family? Our Kids Eat Free directory lists Triad restaurants where the under 12 crowd eat free or at a reduced price. To find out if your favorite restaurant participates go to www.piedmontparent.com > Directories & Resources > Family-Friendly Restaurants.

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Haven, 3 • Walkertown

Liberty, 7 • Mayodan

Jacob, 14, and Akera, 18 • Greensboro

Sophia, 9 • Winston-Salem

Abigail, 11 • Winston-Salem

Kelsey, 6 • Winston-Salem

Lynden, 8 • Greensboro

Colin, 8 • Lexington

Kaden, 7 • Greensboro

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focus on Forsyth More than 350,000 people call Forsyth County home, and the county has a variety of attractions and activities for families. Here are just a few of the many events taking place this month. You’ll find more information in our comprehensive Calendar of Events on page 22. Bookmarks Fe

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focus on Forsyth Consignment Sales Looking to save big at are consignment sales this fall? Here’s a list of ones occurring in Forsyth County and surrounding towns. For even more consignment sales, visit Piedmont Parent.com.

Friday, Sept.12, 9 a.m.-noon and 5-7 p.m.; Saturday, Sept.13 (half-price sale), 9 a.m.-noon. Hillsdale United Methodist Church, 5018 Highway 158, Advance. 577-3527. hillsdaleumc.com/ consign1.

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Evelyn Lawrence Memorial Children’s Consignment Sale Friday, Sept. 5, 8 a.m.-7 p.m.; Saturday, Sept. 6, 8 a.m.-noon. Holy Cross Church (Education Building), 616 Cherry St., Kernersville. facebook.com/hcconsignment.

Clemmons West Children’s Clothing and Toy Sale Cash only. All ages. 8 a.m.-1 p.m. Clemmons Civic Center, 2870 Middlebrook Drive, Clemmons.

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Lewisville United Methodist Church Preschool Clothing Exchange Sales on Saturday, Sept. 13 and Monday, Sept. 15. Saturday, Sept. 13, 8 a.m.-2 p.m. Monday, Sept. 15, 9:30 a.m.-noon, 5-8 p.m. (half-price sale). Lewisville United Methodist Church, 6290 Shallowford Road, Lewisville. 945-3204.

Twin City Mothers of Multiples Clothing Sale 7 a.m.-3 p.m. Parkway Presbyterian Church, 1000 Yorkshire Road, Winston-Salem. 761-1291. tcmoms.org.

Sept. 12-13 Bethlehem Angels Preschool Consignment Sale Friday, Sept. 12, 7-8 p.m. Saturday, Sept. 13, 8 a.m.-1 p.m. (half-price sale noon-1 p.m.) Bethlehem UMC (Family Life Center), 321 Redland Road, Advance. 998-6820. Grace House Preschool Fall Consignment Sale Sept. 12, 9 a.m.-1 p.m. and 4-7 p.m., Sept. 13, 8 a.m.-noon (half-price sale). Grace Presbyterian Church, 360 Hopkins Road, Kernersville. 993-1305, ext. 12. gracehousepreschool.org. Hillsdale United Methodist Church Fall Consignment Sale

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Sept. 17-20 Mount Tabor UMC Children’s Clothing & Toy Exchange Toy Exchange Consignments sold with 60 percent to seller and 40 percent to support women’s and children’s mission projects locally, nationally and internationally. The only nonprofit consignment sale in town. Sizes newborn-juniors. Wednesday, Sept. 17, 7-9 p.m.; Thursday, Sept. 18, 9 a.m.-1 p.m., 4-8 p.m.; Friday, Sept. 19, 9 a.m.-1 p.m. Saturday, Sept. 20, 8 a.m.-noon (red tags are half-price). Mount Tabor United Methodist Church, 3543 Robinhood Road, Winston-Salem. MtTaborUMC.org.

Sept. 18-20 First Christian Academy Fall Consignment Sale Thursday, Sept. 18, 6-9 p.m.; Friday, Sept. 19, 8 a.m.-7 p.m.; Saturday, Sept. 20, 8 a.m.-noon (half-price sale) First Christian Academy, 1130 N. Main St., Kernersville. 996-1660. gofcaknights.com. Fountain of Life Lutheran Church Preschool Consignment Sale Thursday, Sept. 18, 5-8 p.m.; Friday, Sept. 19, 9 a.m.-2 p.m.; Saturday, Sept. 20 (half-price sale), 7 a.m.-noon. Fountain of Life Lutheran Church, 323 Hopkins Road, Kernersville. 993-4447. fountainoflifenc.com/preschool/ community_events.

Sept. 19-20 New Philadelphia Preschool Children’s Clothing Sale Friday, Sept. 19, 9 a.m.-6 p.m.; Saturday, Sept. 20, 9 a.m.-noon (half-price sale). New Philadelphia Moravian Church, 4440 Country Club Road, WinstonSalem. 768-4844. newphillypreschool. org/clothing-sale-2.

Sept. 23-26 Ardmore UMC Through-the-WeekSchool Clothing and Toy Sale 9:15 a.m.-12:45 p.m. daily; half-price days are Thursday, 5-7 p.m. and Friday, 9:15-10:30 a.m. 630 S. Hawthorne Road, Winston-Salem. 722-8430.

Sept. 25-27 Glenn View Baptist Children’s Consignment Sale

Thursday 9 a.m.-2 p.m. and 4-7 p.m.; Friday 9 a.m.-2 p.m. and 4-7 p.m.; Saturday, Sept. 27 half- price sale) 8 a.m.-noon. Glenn View Baptist Church, 4275 Glenn High Road, Winston-Salem. 788-2569. glennview.org/commChildren.php.

Sept. 26-27 Children’s Boutique Resale Friday 9 a.m.-4 p.m.; Saturday, 9 a.m.-noon. (half-price sale all day) 280 Charlois Blvd., Winston-Salem. childrensboutiqueresale.com. Friedberg Moravian Church’s Children's Consignment Sale Friday 8:30-10:30 a.m. and 6-8 p.m.; Saturday 8-11 a.m. Half-price sale. Friedberg Moravian Church, 2178 Friedberg Church Road, Winston-Salem.

Sept. 26 Holy Family Children and Teen Consignment Sale Gently used children’s and teen clothing, shoes, accessories, toys, games, music, movies, electronics, outdoor equipment, costumes, books, room decor, winter apparel, and sports equipment for sale at great prices. Friday, 9 a.m.-1 p.m.; Saturday, 9 a.m.-1 p.m. Consigner’s Preview Sale is Thursday, 6-8 p.m. Holy Family Catholic Church, 4820 Kinnamon Road, WinstonSalem. 778-0600. holyfamilyclemmons.com.

Sept. 26-27 Main Street UMC Preschool Consignment Sale Friday 9 a.m.-2 p.m. and 5-7 p.m.; Saturday 9 a.m.-noon. Main Street United Methodist Church, 306 S. Main St., Kernersville. 336-993-4089. mainstreetumcpreschool.org/ consignment.htm. Messiah Moravian Preschool Kid’s Clothing Sale Friday 9 a.m.-1 p.m.; Saturday, 8 a.m.-noon (half-price sale). Messiah Moravian Preschool, 1401 Peace Haven Road, Winston-Salem. 765-5652. mmpreschool.org.

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