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ten local weddings

11 Elizabeth Gay + Harrison Cozart 19 Samantha Hopp + Peter Fabian

27 Allison Auman + Joseph Smith

35 Cassidy Benjamin + Michael Asbury, Jr.

43 Alejandra Reyes + Walter Monroe Williams 51 Cate Dahl + Grant Bitzer

59 Samantha Parkes + Nathaniel Klimek 67 Jacquelyn + Spencer

75 Ashlin Owen + John Adkins

83 Alyssa Rocherolle + Reuben Kennedy

industry spotlight from our local contributers

14 Spin Your Own Tale in an Iconic Storybook 16 Relive the Wedding, in Detail, on Video

22 Secure a Florist That’ll Make Your Vision Bloom to Life

24 Put Your Own Spin on a Timeless Beauty

30 Beneath the Blush, Beautiful Skin for the Bride 32 Live Out Your Fairy Tale in the Heart of Southern Pines 38 Flowers Are the Icing on the Cake!

40 Say ‘I Do’ to Your ‘Something New’

46 The Wedding Planner: A Bride’s Best Friend 48 Bloom With a Purpose on Your Big Day 54 Leave the Details to the Proven Experts

56 Good Ideas, Good Food, Good Memories 62 Tips for the Wedding Day So It Won’t Go Cattywampus! 64 Revel in the Charm of a Small Town 70 Feel Beautiful Every Step of the Way

72 Glide Through Your Big Day Without Missing a Step 78 Choose a Venue That Hits a Hole-in-One

80 An Expert’s Guide to Achieving the Perfect Wedding Day Glow 86 Get the Perfect Smile for the Perfect Day 88 The Ultimate Wedding Checklist 91 Preferred Vendors 93 The Directory

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Elizabeth Gay + Harrison Cozart Harrison channeled The Notebook vibes, proposing to Elizabeth in a canoe on the pond at her grandparent’s home in Sneads Ferry, North Carolina. Both Tar Heel natives — Elizabeth from Sanford and Harrison from Raleigh — the two grew up visiting the Sandhills for family, tennis and golf. Familiar with the beautiful, historic area, it’s no surprise the couple chose the Village Chapel for their wedding and the Members Club of the Pinehurst Resort for their reception. Though the Cozarts’ original wedding date was in June 2020, they postponed the event to November. But the couple couldn’t have been happier with the change. The weather was still warm, but the church flickered in the fall evening, and the resort’s Christmas decorations were a welcome, magical touch. 12

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Spin Your Own Tale in an Iconic Storybook

ith their pick of 18 venues, world-class dining options and accommodations, nine golf courses and luxurious spa offerings, couples who book a wedding at Pinehurst Resort have a lot to look forward to. More importantly, they pen their own chapter in a storied history that began in 1895. “Timeless tradition is something that appeals to the Pinehurst Resort bride,” says Michele Soderquist, a Resort wedding planner. “Our own history, and the history of those who have walked our properties or said their own vows here, become part of every bride and groom’s story.” While many couples say “I do” to the historic Pinehurst name and the 2,200 acres of perfectly manicured properties, they soon find that the unparalleled level of service is what will make their moments legendary. “From catering to event design, food and beverage, transportation and reservations, you really have a whole team at your disposal — but you have one point of contact, one planner who works with you all the way

through your event,” Michele says. “We do really well at communicating with our team across all our properties, so our entire staff knows what’s going on and can jump in, if needed, at any moment.”

A Personalized Level of Service

The Resort’s wedding packages simplify the decisionmaking process, allowing couples to customize offerings to fit their vision and pricepoint. Planners are ready to be as involved as much or as little as needed. “We are more than happy to jump right in and plan details for a wedding weekend, from accommodations for the whole party to a groom’s golf outing, ladies’ day at the Spa and goodbye breakfast,” Michele says. “Or, we can sit back and just provide guidance for a ceremony. It’s totally up to what the bride and groom want.” No matter your choice, a booking at Pinehurst comes with a team of professionals who know each Resort property by heart. PS Bride & Groom

“Many people who come here fall in love with working here and they don’t leave,” Michele says. “There are families of people who have spent their whole career at Pinehurst, and I think that shows in both our food and service.”

Venues with Personality

Eighteen spaces ready for your personal touch include the Carolina Hotel’s West Lawn, indoor and outdoor spaces of Pinehurst Nos. 7, 8 and 9, the fashionable North & South Bar area at the renovated Manor, the newly built semi-enclosed waterfront pavilion at Lake Pinehurst, multiple ballrooms, and even the first tee box on the famous No. 2. “The Resort property in general is just gorgeous — there are photo opportunities around every bend,” Michele says. “Photographers love coming to Pinehurst. They always seem to find nooks and places off the beaten path, almost like secret gardens, to create perfect vignettes.”

Adaptable to Change

Over the past few months, many couples have changed their perspective on what the perfect wedding looks like. The Resort has risen to the occasion, putting a focus on seven all-outdoor venues and working with brides who have had to make last-minute changes – or move destination weddings closer to home. “We have systems in place, but we’re not rigid,” Michele says. “We have developed a completely separate set of offerings for intimate weddings for less than 50 guests, and an elopement package. “No matter your vision, Pinehurst Resort can accommodate.” & Want to learn more about starting your life as a twosome at Pinehurst Resort? Read more and see galleries of real weddings at pinehurst.com/weddings; or browse dozens of 5-star reviews at The Knot.

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Relive the Wedding, in Detail, on Video

n the haze of excitement intensified by nerves, the bride and groom will certainly miss details of their own wedding: a flower girl’s shy smile, Grandma doing the jitterbug, a friend rolling her eyes over the cake. Capturing these fleeting moments is the videographer’s job: “I love what I do,” says Terry McMillian of Brick Capital Video in Sanford. Perhaps because he does it so well. A trained eye captures these moments best, and McMillian has been behind the camera for decades. This Sanford native served in the Marines as a robotic technician, taught technology courses at Pinecrest and Union Pines, holds

undergraduate and graduate degrees in related fields. He settled on videography in 1985 — holiday parties, business meetings, even funerals. Now, weddings make up 95 percent of McMillian’s bookings. “While you cherish the memories, we’ll preserve the legacy,” he tells couples. Although he works with the wedding planner and from his own checklist, suggestions are welcome. Filming could begin before the ceremony as the bride, her mother and her attendants gather for hairdressing and makeup. Or the florist constructing a bower of white lilies, the caterer setting the tables, special features of the venue PS Bride & Groom

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— maybe a cathedral, maybe a meadow. For sure, Brick Capital Video will catch the family dog, bedecked in a frilly white collar, trotting down the aisle. Sometimes, McMillian obtains pre-wedding interviews with bride and groom and another with both sets of parents. How sweet when the bride blows her new husband a kiss. Then, Brick Capital Video’s signature shot: “This is the bride’s day. I like to surround the bottom of her dress with flowers,” McMillian says. At the reception, guests are relaxed, therefore interviews more personal. The finished DVD, about

an hour, begins with a trailer and flows smoothly. The videographer might edit out a baby crying – maybe not, since small details provide texture. Experience has taught Brick Capital Video to use only the highest quality professional cameras and other equipment, to ensure a product as polished as the bride. No wonder “capturing memories” is his banner and the result a priceless time capsule for the couple to enjoy forever. & Call 919.356.1624. For more information and video galleries, visit: brickcapitalvideo.com.

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Samantha Hopp + Peter Fabian Sam and Petey met at Wake Forest University, and, after Petey proposed, the couple planned to marry in Denver, Colorado. But, when the COVID-19 pandemic shelved their plans, they pivoted to a backyard wedding in Pinewild — Petey’s parents live in the area. The ceremony overlooked the lake from a neighbor’s backyard, and the reception took place in Petey’s parents’ backyard. “Obviously, our wedding turned out dramatically different than originally planned, but it was still perfect for us, and we would not change anything in hindsight,” Sam says. The couple replanned their wedding in less than six weeks, and the bride credits her husband and mom for the remarkable pivot. Sam says the theme was timeless and classic, but Petey jokes that it was “marriage and COVID.” 20

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Secure a Florist That’ll Make Your Vision Bloom to Life

hen it comes to choosing your wedding day team, every soon-to-be-bride needs a dedicated florist that’s ready to jump in and help execute her own unique vision. With decades of experience, a personal approach and a love for design, the crew at Jack Hadden Floral & Events understands the importance of going the extra mile to ensure that every bride is in good hands. “When you are one of our brides, you have full access to not only me, but my whole design team,” owner Leslie Habets says. “We have an open-door policy. When I call clients it’s not just to fulfill a contract, it’s more like I’m calling up a friend to brainstorm ideas.” If you’re thinking about your wedding, you’re already thinking about how flowers will complete your look. Jack Hadden’s team of designers have provided some insight for your own brainstorming session:

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“With DIY weddings, people come in and don’t understand the rules of their venue, the fluctuations of the flower market, or the logistics of making everything work together,” Leslie says. “They have a grand plan, and then there is panic, even with small backyard weddings. “A professional florist is comfortable in every setting and knows how to make it look its best.”

What Does the Timeline Look Like? When Should I Book?

For the sake of your own peace of mind, don’t push flowers to the bottom of your to-do list. According to Leslie, you should book at least three months in advance. The Jack Hadden team handles more than 80 weddings each year; like many local vendors, their calendar fills quickly. Even if you’re not ready to discuss details, you should get on their books. You should also have your venue secured before you book your floral vendor. Experienced florists like Jack Hadden know the layout of local venues like the back of their hand, and understand the rules of each as well as the best techniques to make them shine. PS Bride & Groom

Should I Have a Floral Budget?

You absolutely should have a budget for flowers.Not much planning can be done without one. Oh, and keep it realistic. “If you’ve been all over Pinterest and you know what you want, that’s great,” Leslie says. “But lots of girls don’t know what flowers cost, and want a look that may not fit in the budget they have set. We can come up with something to fit that budget, and still hit that wow factor.” The bridal party often comprises most of the floral budget, so brides should keep in mind the money fluctuation between having three bridesmaids, or having 14.

Are There Packages I Can Choose From?

When it comes to wedding flowers, Leslie has found that two designs prevail: traditional, with lots of blooms and color; and bohemian, with heavy greenery. Whatever your style or theme, a professional florist will work to accentuate it. “We don’t do packages. Every client is different and every wedding created is different,” Leslie says. “We make

sure to customize your look. If we get something in that we think will complete your look and make it stand out, we’re going to include that for you.”

Why Jack Hadden?

When you book Leslie and her team, you can trust that they are going to do what it takes to make sure your day stands out — starting with the bouquet you’ll carry down the aisle. “The bridal bouquet is one of the first things that’s made. We ask each designer if they love the arrangement and if they would carry it down the aisle at their own wedding. If the answer is no, it’s going back to the table. If we wouldn’t give it to our daughter, our granddaughter, or our best friend, it’s not going out the door.” Jack Hadden Floral and Event Design is located at 120 West Main Street in downtown Aberdeen. & For more information visit www.jackhadden.com, call 910.944.1071, or follow them at Facebook and Instagram at Jack Hadden Floral.

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Put Your Own Spin on a Timeless Beauty

ith a rich history rooted in the village of Pinehurst and stunning architecture, the Fair Barn is an iconic blank canvas that can stand on its own but also plays with others. Built in 1917, the Fair Barn boasts 10,000 square feet of natural beauty that can be dressed up or down, allowing each bride to write their own chapter in the venue’s history book.

Setting the Stage for Your Fairytale

From dramatically exposed scissor trusses to warm woodwork and dreamy skylights, the Fair Barn exudes a sense of effortless grace that will leave a positive first impression on the bride, groom, and their guests. Whether you envision classic and minimalistic elegance as the backdrop for your happily-ever-after, or you’d prefer to showcase your style and individuality, the Fair 24

Barn offers flexibility for every bride – and every budget. For those interested in investing in personal touches, the expansive square footage and minimal restrictions on aesthetic choices allow couples a myriad of opportunities to make the space their own — whether they choose to dress it up or keep it low-key. Brides will find the space well-suited to a myriad of wedding trends – both natural and foraged and bold and texturized. Behind the altar is a large focal point that anchors the room, ensuring all focus is directed toward the bride and groom. When it comes to seating, you can choose from tables of any shape, or opt for lounge seating for a more relaxed vibe. Different lighting options can also add drama to designated dance floor spaces, call attention to the venue’s natural beauty, or highlight centerpiece arrangements. Natural acoustics are perfect for live PS Bride & Groom

bands or dancing directed by a DJ; and out-of-the-box ideas, like including adoptable pets in your wedding party, are always welcome. No matter what theme you choose, the Fair Barn sets each couple up for success in their endeavor to let their love stories shine.

Al Fresco Options and Other Amenities

The Fair Barn’s location in the oldest continuously operating equine sports complex in North Carolina allows plenty of fluidity for outdoor spaces, enhancing the overall atmosphere on your special day. While many brides hold their ceremony and reception behind the barn doors, others have set up an altar just outside — waiting to unveil the spaces they’ve created for eating, drinking and dancing until after they’ve said “I do.”

Outdoor space can also serve as an extension of the reception — for a pre-dinner cocktail hour, late night lawn games or a special farewell as the newlyweds drive off into the sunset. Perhaps most importantly, though the barn is historic, amenities are state-of-the-art. You’ll find a large catering kitchen, dressing rooms, beautifully tiled restrooms, and a private bathroom just for the wedding party and those working behind the scenes. The only catch? Reserve your preferred date quickly, because the Fair Barn is a one-of-a-kind venue too good to be kept a secret. & For more information and photo galleries, visit: www.vopnc.org/our-government/departments/fair-barn

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Allison Auman + Joseph Smith Allison grew up in West End; her family, the Aumans and the Pages, have been in Moore County since the 1800s. Lucky for her, while she was working in Raleigh, Joseph was stationed at Fort Bragg, and the pair fell in love in a modern way, with a right swipe. Because Joseph is in the military, he is away from home for many holidays and birthdays. To make up for his absence, he planned a special “Allison Day” to show his appreciation for his partner and — to Allison’s surprise — propose. The pandemic postponed the Smiths’ wedding a year and slashed the guest list from over 300 to 100 people. But the couple and their guests enjoyed the intimate wedding. Most guests attended the rehearsal dinner, wedding and day-after brunch. Cultural touches completed the day. Joseph is Samoan, so he and his family performed traditional songs and dances, and the couple had leis sent in from Hawaii. 28

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Beneath the Blush, Beautiful Skin for the Bride

wedding begins a new life for the bride and groom, a logical time to leave behind bothersome blemishes and put forth a fresh face. Because even the most masterfully applied makeup must, eventually, come off. The medical professionals at Pinehurst Dermatology, led by board-certified dermatologist Dr. Timothy Pearson, confirm that healthy skin is beautiful skin. Brides who have been living with acne, melasma (patchy brown discoloration) , rosacea (red patches with visible blood vessels), moles, early aging and other treatable imperfections should consult staff for a skin check, an

assessment and skin care routine about six months before the wedding. This may involve products from Obaji Medical, Elta MD and Skin Ceuticals, which include sun protection and increase overall skin health. Slowly, skin texture will improve, making the bride (or groom’s) face appear brighter, requiring less makeup for a natural look that will last through the honeymoon, and beyond. & For more information visit: pinehurstdermatology.com

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Live Out Your Fairy Tale in the Heart of Southern Pines

nce upon a time, the fresh air, idyllic charm, and wondrous beauty of the longleaf pine captivated the hearts of Pennsylvania railroad tycoon James Boyd and his daughter, Helen, as the pair made their way through Southern Pines, North Carolina. With a little persistence from Helen, James purchased 1,200 acres of the pine-covered land with the purpose of preserving its beauty. The Boyds called it “Weymouth,” after their favorite place in England, and preserved the land for people to enjoy for years to come. When his grandson author James and bride Katharine built Boyd House on the estate in 1921, they opened their doors and grounds to welcome townsfolk and coveted literary prodigies alike. Their legacy continued when, in 1979, the Friends of Weymouth was formed to buy this

magical place and transformed its use into the nonprofit cultural center it is today – Weymouth Center for the Arts & Humanities. For over 40 years, this fairytale estate has captured the hearts of brides across the state and country in search of the perfect spot to begin their happily ever afters.

Who Brings the Fairy Tale to Life When You Say, “I Do”? We Do.

Whether you’re in search of a venue to house an intimate ceremony, or a picturesque spot to accommodate your larger-than-life guest list, Weymouth Center for the Arts & Humanities checks all of the boxes. Couples can choose to exchange vows within the hallowed walls of the Boyd House or opt for an alfresco PS Bride & Groom

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soiree among the ponds, fountains, and blooms of the Weymouth Center gardens. A commercial kitchen, dressing room, veranda, great room, patios, and more provide a variety of modern conveniences, all of which are wrapped up in the 26-acre private and historic setting. For those looking for options, Weymouth Center offers a variety of accommodation packages to fit any and every need. Secure the first floor of the Boyd House and enjoy amenities like access to The Great Room and the lawn. Once known as a hangout spot for authors like Thomas Wolfe and F. Scott Fitzgerald, the Great Room can fit up to 60 people seated or 150 people standing. The lawn is large enough to accommodate a large tent, which can typically house up to 200, and the grounds allow for even larger groups.

Write Your Next Chapter

Weymouth has served as a warm and welcoming gathering place for over 100 years. Its scenic grounds and rich history are unparalleled for couples looking for the perfect place to begin writing their love stories. Whether you have already embarked on the journey to “I Do,” or you are still in the daydreaming stages of planning your happily ever after, learn more about what Weymouth Center for the Arts & Humanities offers by visiting weymouthcenter.org. Interested in taking it all in for yourself? Located at 555 E. Connecticut Ave. in Southern Pines, the grounds are open daily, and you can make an appointment to see inside the Boyd House and tour the grounds with the Director of Membership and Events, Monday through Friday. &

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Cassidy Benjamin + Michael Asbury, Jr. Golf-and-spa-filled vacations brought Cassidy’s family to Pinehurst, then her parents decided to retire to the area. After graduating from college, Cassidy followed her parents to the Sandhills. Mike moved to the area for his job as a sales manager at the Pine Needles and Mid Pines Golf Clubs, and the two eventually met on a dating app. “Thank goodness for technology,” Cassidy says. In May 2020, Mike proposed after a round of golf on the 18th green of Mid Pines surrounded by their closest friends and family — in person and on Zoom. A year later, the couple married at the Pinehurst Resort. They skipped traditional events like the bouquet toss, so their guests could get right to dancing. 36

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Flowers Are the Icing on the Cake!

n literature, flowers represent life, love, and beauty. Wedding flowers set the tone and mood as well, bringing the bride’s vision and theme to life. The majority of brides will come to an initial consultation with a few inspiration pictures from Pinterest at the very least, with some bringing an entire portfolio of photos and fabric swatches. “Our job as floral designers is to interpret the bride’s ideas for her wedding day into a plan that accomplishes her vision while being mindful of her budget,” says Hollyfield Designs wedding coordinator, Pamela Butterworth. This requires experience and knowledge of the current wedding trends and product availability, especially during the pandemic. The design team at Hollyfield Design brings that

experience and knowledge to the table. Matthew Hollyfield, a Sandhills native, has been designing locally for more than 25 years and seen many wedding trends come and go. “We’re fortunate to have a large group of designers that have experience in every style a bride can envision,” says Hollyfield. “From elegantly classic to woodsy and down-to-earth, to garden feels of ‘just picked’ blooms, we’ve seen and done it all.” And yes, that includes traditional holiday weddings, Halloween nuptials, brides on horseback, and recently a Harry Potter-themed event. Equally as important, especially during the pandemic, has been the cultivation of relationships with local Sandhills flower growers. COVID hit the flower industry hard, with many growers losing their crops PS Bride & Groom

and downsizing their fields due to the availability of workers and later, with the ongoing disruption in the supply chain. “We’ve all been forced into being even more creative with our ideas and designs as certain flowers became hard to source and hard goods sat on ships,” Hollyfield explains. “Being able to find fresh product right here at home has become even more important to us and we have been fortunate to find local peonies and dahlias which are wedding favorites, as well as an abundance of sunflowers, zinnias, ranunculi, and more. Of course we also have abundant greenery year-round here in the Sandhills area and many brides want to incorporate our pine and

magnolia, especially if it’s a destination wedding for them.” Since contact with a florist may be a new experience for most brides, communication and trust are key to a good working relationship and a beautiful wedding day. “Since flowers will be in most wedding photos that a bride will keep for a lifetime, it’s important that they help to create memories of her important day,” Hollyfield says. Flowers, after all, will be the perfect icing on the cake.” & For more information visit: www.hollyfielddesign.com Located on 130 E Illinois Ave, Southern Pines.

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Say ‘I Do’ to Your ‘Something New’

hether it’s a unique frock to rock at the rehearsal dinner, or the perfect set of cufflinks to make the groom’s attire infinitely more dapper, Monkee’s of the Pines is a one-stop-shop for your “something new.” Voted “Best Boutique for Clothing and Shoes” in the annual Best of the Pines competition, Monkee’s has secured a standing invitation to weddings across the Sandhills. To celebrate that invite, they’re bringing the ultimate gift of access to their unmatched selection of dresses, shoes, accessories and more, and a special bridal coupon that guarantees 20 percent off full-priced to any bride preparing for her big day.

Throw in the expert advice of owner Veronica Lloyd and her wingwoman, store manager Charlotte Owen, and any worry of a fashion emergency can be pushed to the very bottom of that everlasting bridal to-do list. “We absolutely love it when customers come into the store and want our advice,” Veronica says. Whether it’s styling tips, or simply showcasing what we have to offer, it’s absolutely our favorite.” When the team at Monkee’s of the Pines attends seasonal fashion markets, Veronica says they prioritize the needs, wants and desires of brides when selecting the new arrivals that will grace the store’s racks. For grooms in search of the perfect wedding day gift PS Bride & Groom

for their soon-to-be forever date, Monkee’s of the Pines offers a wide selection of jewelry that will add the perfect amount of sparkle to her already radiant beauty. From timeless hoops to meaningful necklaces and bracelets, you’ll find baubles of all shapes and sizes for occasions in stock from designers like Sheila Fajil and Julie Vos. For the brides embarking on the journey of finding the right bow tie to tie her beau’s wedding day look together, Monkee’s of the Pines offers a variety of options from the Charleston-based Brackish line. Looking for something fun and lighthearted for your main guy? You’ll also find leather koozies and keychains as charming as he is from Smathers & Branson.

The bridal discount at Monkee’s of the Pines is available both in-store and online. It can’t be combined with other promotions and isn’t valid for purchases of vintage handbags. Fall in love with the offer Monday through Saturday from 10 a.m. until 5 p.m. and Sundays from noon until 4 p.m. “We have so many brides that frequent our store, so we are more than happy to offer this incentive program to all those brides who decide to shop with us for their special day,” Veronica says. & For more information visit: monkeesofthepines.com

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Alejandra Reyes + Walter Monroe Williams Alejandra and Walter grew up in Richmond County and knew of each other in high school — they had friends in common. But they were only “friends” on social media until nearly a decade after high school when they finally connected and went on a date. Alejandra’s final semester of graduate school briefly delayed their relationship, but, after graduation, the couple reconnected for date number two. A month into the pandemic, Walter planned a low-key, intimate proposal. The pair had casual conversation over Mexican takeout and walked around Aberdeen City Lake before Walter popped the question. Honoring Alejandra’s Mexican heritage, the couple had a bilingual wedding filled with rich traditions and a vibrant palette of dark green with pops of red, yellow and pink. 44

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The Wedding Planner: A Bride’s Best Friend

ccording to tradition the bride should have something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue and a wedding planner. No? Just ask the bride who gave the florist the wrong address. Or assumed mosquitoes wouldn’t be a problem at her backyard nuptials. In truth, the minutiae involved in contemporary weddings are staggering. Missing a single detail can cause a domino effect. Entire movie plots have revolved around blunders attributed to inexperience. Solution: A wedding planner like Nicole Smith, owner of Vision Events Wedding and Event Planning in Sanford. Smith, a certified wedding planner with clients from Raleigh to Pinehurst, displays a cheerful let-me-help attitude backed up by 15 years

experience; she is an encyclopedia of caterers, customs, venues, bands and DJs, florists, entertainers, travel destinations. “A therapist, too,” she says, who faces sticky situations calmly, averting meltdowns. She is as comfortable planning a simple ceremony and dinner for the immediate family as an eight-hour bash for 300. Smith also stays abreast of trends, still affected by COVID-19. Last February when a destination wedding in Colorado was canceled she quickly pulled together a home ceremony in a heated tent with a dance floor. “Our clients are opting for more formal weddings – black tie and a plated dinner, like you’re taking 150 guests out to dinner,” Smith says. However, she has also planned “experience” events with hot dog carts, even bars set up in horse trailers. PS Bride & Groom

Entertainment is possible. “We hired an illusionist for one wedding; he went around the tables doing magic tricks.’ Some brides prefer violin or harp music during dinner, others want a DJ to spin everything from waltzes to a jitterbug. Smith has them all on speed dial. But first, scheduling and price. Ideally, the bride calls Smith the minute after her groom slips the engagement ring on her finger, especially if she wants a spring wedding, or during the busy Christmas season. Ideally, Smith likes a year to plan since popular venues get booked fast. The next topic should be an honest and open budget discussion. “Costs have risen (and supplies decreased) because of COVID,” Smith says, when venues shut

down and weddings scaled back or were postponed. Some brides bring ideas that might fit a budget for 60 guests, but her list tops 100. Smith tactfully negotiates options. Her fee is based on a percentage of the agreed-upon budget and includes on-site supervision, coordination with vendors, even help finding a gown, if needed. As plans progress, Smith gets to know her clients, their whims and tastes. Her wealth of information and availability reduces stress too often shadowing this day-of-days, when the sun always shines and the bride is always beautiful as she cuts her perfect cake before departing on a glamorous honeymoon. & For more information visit: www.visioneventsnc.com

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Bloom With a Purpose on Your Big Day

aking your way down the aisle surrounded by buds and blooms that accentuate your wedding day glow is no accident when Thistle & Moon Floral is involved. According to owner Mary Furby, every arrangement from Thistle & Moon is created with an intention in mind, and on your big day, Mary and her team go above and beyond to ensure that the florals accurately reflect the couple’s special intention. “We welcome and accept couples from all backgrounds and all walks of life,” Mary says. “It’s our goal to make everyone feel welcome and to make sure the day is truly beautiful and very unique.” From table arrangements to floral installations, Thistle & Moon takes pride in going the extra mile to bring a couple’s vision to life – whether that means

meeting with them personally to discuss their likes and dislikes, offering day-of support and more. With years of experience in the floral industry, Mary and her team are up-to-date on the latest wedding trends like loose florals, whimsical and garden styles. Oh, and they’re more than ready to create the perfect floral installation for any idea, setup or venue. “Installations … those are really our bread and butter,” Mary says. “I really think people are looking at big, attention-catching florals for 2022. I’m looking forward to doing more of them.” Thistle & Moon also offers plenty of rental options for ceremonies and receptions. Whether you’re in search of the perfect vases to adorn each table, timeless pillar candles to light the way as you make your way to PS Bride & Groom

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the altar or an arbor to stand front and center during the ceremony, your options are covered. Oh, and if you’re interested in renting a piece but it’s not in the Thistle & Moon repertoire, just let them know. If the piece you’re after is something that could be used again in another wedding, Mary just might grant your wish and snag it. “We are a newer business, but we definitely have the experience,” Mary says. “We love to be a part of any

special day by being there for our clients and bringing fresh ideas to the table.”

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Thistle & Moon accepts bookings up to six months in advance, but the earlier you book, the better. To learn more about Mary, Thistle & Moon’s work and their new brick-and-mortar location coming to Southern Pines in February 2022, check them out on Instagram and Facebook @thistleandmoonnc. &

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Cate Dahl + Grant Bitzer Cate and Grant, both physical therapists, met on Cate’s first day of work in the rehabilitation department at the University of North Carolina’s hospital when Grant stood up to shake her hand. Now, their physical therapy careers have taken the pair to separate jobs, but they’ll forever be grateful for their serendipitous meeting at UNC. Throughout their relationship, Cate had been asking Grant to go on a picnic. When they finally did, Grant got down on one knee and proposed to Cate in Weymouth’s gardens. Fifteen months later, the pair wed at the church Cate grew up in, Emmanuel Episcopal Church, before heading to their dream reception at Pinehurst’s Fair Barn. 52

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Leave the Details to the Proven Experts

t Duncraig Manor & Gardens, we know that the care and hospitality shown to guests while providing the bride with her dream wedding are key to an enjoyable and memorable wedding and reception. This involves planning a series of activities and situations that provide interest, fulfill expectations, offer social interaction, and deliver enjoyment while avoiding periods with nothing planned. An outstanding event is a result of implementing a well-designed plan with excellence. In our meetings with wedding couples, we develop such an event plan. Having produced over 7,000 weddings and receptions in our historic venues throughout the country, we will relate our own stories that were teaching moments. Filling “down time” when the photographer takes pictures is particularly important. Use music, hors d’oeuvres and an invitation to enjoy the surrounding gardens, all while keeping guests informed about what is happening next. Once a group of older guests left

the facility because nothing was happening, and they thought wrongly that the event was over! And there was the group that left because the photographer took over an hour to capture all the “great spots” to photograph. Making sure that vendors and service partners are on board with the planned time schedule keeps things running smoothly. For instance, we have agreements with photographers specifying when as well as the length of time dedicated to photography. And once a DJ, after setting up his equipment, thought he had time to go shopping and left the venue when he was to provide music for the ceremony and cocktail hour. Organizing and monitoring spaces that service partners use to avoid hazards and provide adequate walking spaces for guests will minimize potential accidents. Setting up speaker stands or tripods in walkways, resulting in Aunt Mable breaking her hip, can ruin a reception! Realizing that not everyone enjoys the same decibel PS Bride & Groom

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level we keep the DJ’s music amplification at a safe level. You want to avoid the situation where the bride’s grandfather, who has tinnitus and cannot tolerate overly loud music, must leave his granddaughter’s party. Encouraging brides to assign seating at the reception makes dinner conversation more enjoyable and guests more comfortable. You do not want to be in the situation where all but nine people who want to sit together are not able to. The bride now has nine upset guests, and one is her father’s boss! Assisting the photographer and bride with the cake cutting photograph ensures a smooth transition into dessert time. Where is the cake knife? Did the bride not provide one? To SMASH or not to SMASH ? No one knows! Provide napkins! Keep the party to a reasonable timeframe that does not extend past the ability of guests to enjoy it. Our

experience says, “Limit the party to 3 hours or so.” Do not end up with the wedding couple ready for the big “send-off” and there are only five guests left and they are waiting for an Uber. At Duncraig Manor & Gardens our experienced wedding planners and coordinators collaborate with the wedding couple to create an event plan that fulfills their desires, demonstrates hospitality and care of their guests, and ensures that their wedding celebration is joyful and unforgettable. We welcome you to schedule an appointment to tour Duncraig Manor and Gardens and receive a personalized proposal for your special day. See how your wedding dreams can become a beautiful reality. & For more information and photo galleries, visit: duncraigmanorandgardens.com

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Good Ideas, Good Food, Good Memories

edding guests are more likely to remember the bridal gown and the food than anything else. Alison Hainley and Sophie Baugher nod yes to this industry truism. Hainley and her husband, Brian, operate Genuine Hospitality Catering and Events, which includes Mason’s in Aberdeen — divine shrimp and grits, enormous biscuits — and a soon-to-be pizzeria. Catering director Sophia Baugher plans food worthy of those memories at rehearsal dinners, receptions, showers, morning-after brunches, anything connected to the nuptials. “Buffet or plated, heavy hors d’oeuvres, a grazing table (fruits, nuts, cheese, flatbreads) or carving station, charcuterie, seafood/raw oyster bar and yes, anything from Mason’s menu,” including those famous shrimp and grits, she says, with enthusiasm.

Baugher’s enthusiasm is not only contagious but reassuring: “I love what I do.” As for culinary school graduate Chef Brian: “He can do anything,” Baugher says. As yet, no bride has requested an Asian spread but when it happens the team is ready. Ideally, menu-planning should start about a year in advance, noting preferences and allergies, which can be addressed for specific guests whether attendees number 30 or 250. Creative vegetarian, including vegan, are frequent requests. Baugher gets a “read” on the bride and her family through interviews. Some like the familiar; others dine on the wild side. Sometimes, the couple present a split decision: “I have a couple where the bride wants Mediterranean fusion while the groom prefers PS Bride & Groom

traditional Southern.” Baugher solved the issue with grape leaves, hummus, falafel, couscous salad — and spicy Nashville-style fried chicken. Another time, for trendy appetites she presented a raw tuna poke appetizer with mango and avocado. Industry predictions for 2022 include personalized menus to include places the couple have visited, treasured family recipes, locally sourced ingredients, ethnic and regional cuisine. However, couples expecting a different, perhaps more mature crowd might stick with hand-carved beef, roast chicken, a mashed potato bar, vegetables and dinner rolls. Fine either way. Remember, Chef Brian “can do anything.” Baugher patiently counsels brides who admit, “We have no idea what we want.” Her questions create a

profile that suggests an appropriate menu. Knowing the budget and number of guests early on helps, although she says that Chef Brian is good at both stretching a budget and/or suggesting affordable options. So far, their tactical challenges have been limited to catering a wedding on a farm and in an old building that had no kitchen. But this young, enthusiastic trio seems up for anything. “It’s the bride’s day,” Baugher says. “We believe the food brings people together, to celebrate.” Therefore the food, even more than bridal gown, must be memorable. & For more information call 910.447.2774 or visit: genuinehospitalitycatering.com. Located at 102 West Main Street, Suite 202, Aberdeen.

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Samantha Parkes + Nathaniel Klimek Sam, born and raised in Moore County, and Nathan, who grew up in Raleigh, met at the Pinehurst fireworks at the Fair Barn in July 2018. Nathan then proposed to Sam while they were hiking south of Boone. The pair stopped at an overlook for a drink of water when Nathan handed Sam a cup that read “Future Mrs. Klimek.” After a short and sweet proposal, Sam allegedly said yes so loudly that her response echoed through the canyon. Two hundred twenty-nine days later, the couple tied the knot in their farmhouse rustic wedding at the Country Club of North Carolina on September 25, 2021 — or, if you ask Nathan, the day of the NC State versus Clemson football game. The cake by the Bakehouse featured the couple’s dogs Lucy and Scout, and the altar was greenery with white roses except for one sunflower to honor the bride’s mom, who loved the yellow flower. 60

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Tips for the Wedding Day So It Won’t Go Cattywampus!

he wedding day belongs to the bride and groom, yes, yet because it is shared with family and friends, it carries the weight of being a special, once-in-a-lifetime occasion, and with that come pressure points that can take some of the shine out of the build-up to a beautiful day. Since 2017 our full-service team of a photographer/florist/ officiant/cake baker/wedding coordinator at Rubicon Farm has been marrying folks at our countryside location in West End. The heart of our venue is an 1820 farmhouse, the restored 200-year-old home where the brides and grooms get dressed, and where, beginning on the Thursday before a wedding weekend, couples and their families begin bringing things in for the weekend. I call Rubicon’s format the “slow wedding place” because we don’t do more than one wedding per weekend (unless another couple wants to elope), and that fact right there is a huge de-stressor for families. Recognizing that all venues can’t offer such exclusive access to their properties over a wedding weekend, I will structure my few tips so they can be adapted to all venue situations. 62

Plan and buy for the refreshments/bar 2 to 3 weeks ahead: At Rubicon we offer turn-key packages such that couples only coordinate the food and bar for their reception as well as their music. I encourage couples to bring all they can as soon as they want because, fortunately, we have plenty of places at the farm to put things. If you have only day access to your venue, ask a special friend or relative if you can bring items to their house well ahead, and their gift to you can be an early delivery to your location. That is a huge check off! Two important things at the rehearsal: At the farm we always have a wedding rehearsal the day before, but some venues are rented for another event. Make sure you have a rehearsal even if it’s in a quiet area of a hotel because little things come up. To take the pressure off the next day, have all the bridesmaids and groomsmen bring their clothing and shoes to the rehearsal, even if a family member takes it to the dressing site the next day. Doing this provides the opportunity to check for forgotten items that can be easily PS Bride & Groom

retrieved before the wedding day countdown. Check! Taking stock of the ceremony site and reception: At Rubicon we have all the infrastructure in place for the ceremony site and the reception by rehearsal time. This is a major de-stressor for our couples as well as the bride’s and groom’s parents. Everyone can see that the layout is organized, and our team can ask questions and double check some details with the couple before the coming day. I really think this is often the turning point of what makes our weddings go pretty seamlessly at the farm, the evidence that things are coming together! If this is not possible with your venue, try to visit face-to-face with your coordinating team, and make sure you aren’t the only one going over a timeline but also theirs about setting up. Don’t assume their time frame, ask for it! The pleasure and relaxation of seeing the beautiful elements come together: The wedding day at the farm has an old-world charm. The bridal party moves into the master bedroom to get glammed up and dressed, and throughout the day, Carol Dowd of Botanicals comes with her loaded van to unveil the flowers for the ceremony site, centerpieces for the reception, the bouquets, boutonnieres

and more. Her pleasure in what she creates adds a rosy glow to the day, and her happiness as well as our happiness as the coordinating team who have been out on the property since early morning, has a way of relaxing the day for the bride. The same can be said for Kristy Hansen whose cake_nc makes Rubicon’s custom wedding cakes, and when she delivers, often the bride is on hand chatting as fresh flowers adorn the tiers. These pleasurable elements build the excitement, and the couple continue to see the planned elements of their wedding day unfold. Plenty of smiling faces and hands on deck: One of the main smiling faces our couples will see on their wedding day is of our photographer Melissa Souto of Auston Photography and no fewer than three or four of our seasoned team to help keep the pace of the day moving in a positive, organized way. Seeing us, being able to ask for assistance with ease is huge for our families, and it feeds an occasion that will be festive and memorable for all the right reasons. & –By Elizabeth Sugg, owner of Rubicon Farm For more information visit: www.rubiconfarmnc.com

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Revel in the Charm of a Small Town

hoosing a wedding venue is an instrumental task for a couple to check off their never-ending to-do list. Should you opt for a more traditional setting, or something more unique? Should you play it safe and find an indoor location, or are you willing to put your faith in Mother Nature and hope for the best outside? Would you rather have an event in a big city, or revel in the charm of a small town? Sure, there may be benefits of having a wedding in a larger city, but small towns have charming venues that can provide many benefits to you and your guests without the big city costs. The Cole Auditorium in Hamlet, found in neighboring Richmond County, is the perfect venue if you are looking to have your wedding away from the hustle and bustle of a big city locale. The Cole Auditorium accommodates up to 260 people for seated meals, or up to 700 people for stand-up

receptions, and the auditorium itself boasts more than 900 seats. It has a bright, spacious lobby for additional seating or entertaining, and outdoor space as well. You’ll find large, private dressing rooms equipped with makeup mirrors, counter space, sinks, a separate changing area, restrooms and shower facilities. There’s no upcharges for guests, and the Cole has tables and chairs that do not require an extra rental fee. And as for the icing on the wedding cake? The Cole Auditorium’s beautiful brick exterior is a sight for sore eyes. When you choose a vendor like the Cole Auditorium in a smaller nearby town, you can often find better availability with other wedding vendors, like caterers and florists. This is especially important if you are planning less than a year in advance. These vendors offer more personalized services and recommendations, and they will PS Bride & Groom

work to earn your business. Vendor references are easy to retrieve and can be trusted for local services. Small town vendors also typically work together for receptions and weddings. Often, they are willing to be paired together for one “turn-key” package price, which generally is a fraction of the cost for these services elsewhere. If you have guests traveling in from out of town, there are reasonably priced options for hotels and overnight accommodations within a few miles of the Cole Auditorium. Proximity of the accommodations to a wedding venue should be carefully considered for the benefit of both guests and the wedding party. The small town setting around the Cole Auditorium is easy to navigate and offers plenty of parking accommodations. There’s no cost for parking, no tipping a valet or a parking tag to get in and out of a parking garage. The parking availability and proximity to the location

of the ceremony or reception space is important not only to the guests and bridal party, but also to the vendors. At the Cole Auditorium, vendors are able to load directly into the space where the event will take place, rather than having to navigate elevators or flights of stairs. Removed from the fast pace of a big city, the Cole Auditorium is a charming, upscale venue that has everything you need to have the perfect wedding, reception or celebration on your special day. There is nothing that a bride and groom could ask for more than to be the center of attention for a few shining moments — let the Cole Auditorium be the starting point to a wonderful future for you and your spouse-to-be. & –By Wylie Bell, Richmond Community College For more information on the Cole Auditorium, including more photos and a diagram of the space, visit richmondcc.edu/renting-cole

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Jacquelyn + Spencer Spencer proposed to Jackie after they summited Algonquin Peak in the Adirondacks. With the proposal out of the way, the couple planned an October wedding in the Sandhills. They married at St. Anthony of Padua Catholic Church, and the church staff streamed the wedding for family and friends who were unable to attend. After the ceremony, the party moved to the reception at the beautiful, Tudor-style Duncraig Manor and Gardens. The wedding’s inspiration was Hollywood glam. Maple syrup produced and bottled by the bride’s parents’ maple syrup farm in upstate New York was an intimate touch, and the s’mores pit was a guest favorite. The bride and groom ended the night by jumping into the pool to cool off — they highly recommend it. 68

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Feel Beautiful Every Step of the Way

ure, the dress may be the main focal point as the bride-tobe makes her way down the aisle, but that doesn’t mean it deserves all of the attention. From classically beautiful to elaborate and elegant, Knickers Lingerie offers luxurious undergarments and loungewear for every style of bride to ensure you feel beautiful through every step of your journey.

From Pre-Wedding Planning . . .

When it comes to saying “I do,” people typically consider the magic that occurs during the ceremony, but the road to tying the knot is a long one filled with plenty of hustle and bustle, and comfort is key when it comes to staying sane. Thankfully, Knickers can help keep comfort at the forefront of your pre-wedding mind. With a variety of soft and silky pajama sets and robes from Christine, Lise Charmel, Zimmerli, Clare De Lune, Skin and more, you can rest assured knowing that although there’s a lot on your plate, you don’t have to tackle it all while wearing uncomfortable loungewear. 70

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To the Day You Say I Do . . .

Ah, yes — the wedding day. You’ve spent your whole life dreaming of flowing white gowns and long, sheer veils, but under every dress is a well-fitted undergarment that’s keeping it all together. The experts at Knickers Lingerie are equipped with the knowledge to not only help you select the perfect bra and underwear set for your body type, but also for your dress type. Knickers offers private lingerie fittings for brides, so there’s no guesswork as to whether or not your garments will be a perfect fit. Just give them a call at 910-725-2346, or email them at info@knickers-lingerie.com, book your appointment, and bring your dress with you to receive expert-level assistance from owner and lingerie extraordinaire, Kerry Snyder Husted. PS Bride & Groom

. . . And Beyond.

Who says the reception has to be the best part of your wedding experience? Finish out your nuptial journey on a soft, lovely, and harmonious note by selecting your wedding night lingerie from Knickers’ extensive style vault. Kerry and the Knickers team are also available to lend a helping hand in assisting with lingerie parties for the leading lady to ensure she’s donning her best on the big night. How it works: The bride stops in for a fitting and chooses a selection of lingerie pieces in her size. Then, members of the bridal party can purchase one of those items or a gift card and a pair of panties to present to the bride at the party, which she can then use to snag the perfect pieces for the wedding night.

A wedding is ultimately a celebration, and you deserve to feel beautiful and adored through every aspect of the marriage process. Whether you’re searching for the perfect post-I do number, something to wear beneath your gown, or you’re just treating yourself to something sweet for surviving making a seating chart, Knickers Lingerie is your one-stopshop for it all. Ready to see what’s in store at Knickers Lingerie? Stop in Tuesday through Friday from noon until 5 p.m. and Saturdays from noon until 4 p.m. Knickers Lingerie is located at 150 E. New Hampshire Ave. in Southern Pines. You can also check out their website: www.knickers-lingerie. com, or on Facebook and Instagram. &

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Glide Through Your Big Day Without Missing a Step

ure, you and your significant other might excel at being partners in life, but with the help of Carolina Dance works co-owner and instructor Debby Hasson, you can excel as partners on the dance floor, too. With decades of experience teaching people of all ages to move to a beat, Debby has never met someone who can’t learn enough steps to impress the guests at their wedding reception. “For your special day together, we like to see people practice and be able to do something other than latch on to each other and sway, sway, sway like we all did in middle school,” she says. “We don’t have to do something fit for Dancing With the Stars. We’ll do a nice beginning, a couple of moves, and give you a good spot to end on.”

or elaborate choreography fit for a flash mob, Carolina Dance Works knows how to do it all. From mothers-son pairs to father-daughter duos, all members of the bridal party can benefit from some direction that’ll help them shine when it’s their turn on the ballroom (or barn) floor. As for music, Debby and her team of instructors are wellversed in a style to suit everyone and up-to-date on the romantic songs that are hitting the top of the charts. Go for a country and western number, or opt for jazz, blues, and tango – Debby and her husband, Bruce, co-owner of Carolina Dance Works, can coordinate the moves to matc your top song choice.

Choreography for Any Crowd

At Carolina Dance Works, routines are personalized down to the dress — brides who plan to wear a ballgown

Whether you’re looking for a sweet and simple routine

A Dance Personally Tailored for Every Couple

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can be equipped with a special skirt while practicing at the studio. If your gown has a deep plunge or a high split, Debby makes sure your moves won’t threaten a wardrobe malfunction. Learning also continues after the lessons end. Oneon-one instruction sessions are recorded and sent home with students, so they can practice between in-studio sessions up until their big day. Debby and Bruce even use technology to work with couples who are spending their engagement apart, through a deployment or other commitments.

Getting Started

Debby and Bruce can work with short timeframes if needed, but the best outcomes can be expected when

brides and their families start training with Carolina Dance Works six months in advance. Even if your routine isn’t elaborate, more time in the studio means more time to get it right — and more time to spend with those you care about most. Carolina Dance Works’ introductory special makes getting started easy, with five sessions for just $25. That includes three 30-minute private lessons, one group lesson and one practice party. & For more information visit CarolinaDanceWorks.com or find them on Facebook at @CarolinaDanceWorksSouthernPines or Instagram @carolinadanceworks