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SUMMER CAMPS

M I LWA U K E E

SPRING/SUMMER 2014 | COMPLIMENTARY

RAISING COMPASSIONATE

KIDS

FINDING THE RIGHT BABYSITTER FUN ITIES

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27 Cover Story Raising Compassionate Children . . . . 8

FEATURES Summer Learning . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4 Camp Guide . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10 Birthday Parties . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15 College Guide . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17 Want to Adopt? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19 Cooking . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22 Parenting . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24

22 FAMILY FUN GUIDE Great Events . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27

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Child’s Play

How Imaginative Play Benefits Your Child

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etween the everyday obligations of school, sports and other extra-curricular activities, many children equate playtime with sitting in front of the television, computer or other electronic device.

This dependence on electronic devices can be linked to a list of issues, including childhood obesity, as well as reduced cognitive and muscle development. Children who instead engage in imagina­tive or pretend play are offered a stress-free environment where their dreams have no boundary.

This type of activity just comes naturally for kids because it’s just plain fun.

Create a pretend play paradise A make-believe-friendly setting begins with the parents. Here are a few ideas to create an environment that fosters crea­tive, imaginative play for your little ones: n FOCUS ON FUN:A truly free setting for imaginative play is one without structure or rules. Let your child know there are no expectations or wrong outcomes while they are pretending. There may be moments where you have to intervene, but the atmosphere should be relaxed and free from rules. n GIVE

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these adorable, high-quality miniature animal figures, which include families of rabbits, dogs, cats, bears and more.

For more information, visit www. calicocritters.com. n READ TO YOUR CHILDREN: The bene­fits of children who are regularly read to are immense, from enhanced bonding between parent and child to better test scores. So, begin the reading ritual as early as you can. You will find your child will love and look forward to sharing this healthy activity with you. n PLAY ALONG: Young children mimic everything their parents do, so be a model of imaginative play for them.

Go ahead and act silly — dress up with them, act out puppet shows or build forts with bed sheets. Calico Critters, with its imaginative collec­ tion of families, homes and acces­ sories is perfect for “Mommy & Me” playtime. You may be surprised by how much enjoyment you get out of it.

n CREATE

A FANTASY PROP BOX:

Fill a box with various trinkets found throughout your home for kids to create their own forts, homes, busi­ nesses or simply a rousing game of dress-up. Just make sure to pick items

A make-believefriendly setting begins with the parents. that are safe and you won’t miss if they are lost or damaged from heavy play.

n PLAN

OPEN-ENDED ACTIVITIES:

Instead of starting an art project with a finished model for them to create, plan free painting or crafting sessions with your kids. This will allow your children to fully express themselves any way they desire.

Just make sure you have plenty of fun supplies on hand, such as glitter, paper, glue, markers, boxes, feathers, sequins or any other trin­kets you have on hand. n USE

THE GREAT OUTDOORS AS A PLAYGROUND: Encourage your

kids to use the great outdoors as their canvas for unbridled creativity.

A simple trip outside opens a whole world of play options for a child. Plus, it allows your children to be more active, which is always a bonus.

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imaginative play offer a healthy, supportive environ­ ment for their children. Here are a few of the ways in which the power of imagination benefits your child’s development and overall well-being: n EMOTIONAL AND SOCIAL DEVELOPMENT: When a child is involved in pretend play, he/she naturally creates scenarios and acts out different roles. This often involves looking outside of their individual desires and learning the essential skills of empathy and understanding. n LANGUAGE APTITUDE: When alone at play, children will often mimic the vocabulary they’ve picked up from their parents, family members and educators.

This association of vocabulary and word meaning is reinforced more when acted out in front of peers during pretend play. l Enhanced

mathematic skills: Parents who use fake food or money to act out a grocery store trip help their children associate the challeng­ing concepts of addition and subtrac­tion to real life. l Problem solving skills: From decid­ing who gets to be the prin­cess to tak­ing turns hosting the tea party, pretend play allows children to tap into cogni­ tive thinking skills they’ll use in different scenarios through­out life. l Enhanced

relationships and bonding:

New worlds are opened when children and adults interact together through imaginary play. Adults can offer wisdom, life lessons and vocabulary the child will absorb. l Good, clean fun: Pretend play is the best way for children to escape from the stresses of daily life. By creating their own makebelieve world, kids have complete control of their destiny within that environ­ment. With so many play dates and after-school activities, such a release is a positive for many youngsters. i

More make-believe play means enhanced skills Research shows an environment where imaginative play is fostered as healthy for a child’s develop­ment. Here is a snapshot of the many benefits this type of activity can provide to a child: l Increased

protection.

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sense of safety, calmness and

rates of self-esteem.

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to cooperate, control impulses and deal with disappointment.

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levels of fitness and coordination.

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to negotiate with peers.

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sense of accom­plish­ment and pride.

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to apply learned information.

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developed motor skills.

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By Kim Seidel young student eagerly told his teacher, “Guess what? I saw ‘compash’!” He explained how he witnessed a friend fall at recess, and another friend helped him up from the playground.

Although the student mispronounced the word - using “compash” rather than “compassion” - he was right on that he did see compassion in action.

“Compassion is the observation and recognition of suffering and the desire to make a person feel better,” says Tim Riley, a Wisconsin-based school foundation executive.

“Basically, someone’s hurt and you want to help them.”

That’s the “over-arching” definition used, but it can be transferred to bullying, the environment, animal rights, and many other areas, says Riley who has helped to lead “compassion projects” in two cities – La Crosse and Appleton - in this state.

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“In a time when bullying and crime are so widely talked about, it is even more important to take the positive approach with our students; to tell them to show compassion, rather than to ‘stop bullying/being mean,’ says Bethany Nugent, a visual arts teacher at the elementary and middle school levels. “As students, they need to learn to be empathetic. Students have to be taught to think about others, and show

Teaching compassion through art “Compassion projects,” such as the ones led by Riley, are placed in the spotlight through student artwork. Students receive a blank tile to portray with artwork what compassion means to them. They also are asked to write a sentence or two about their creation.

Through discussions with students, Nugent challenges students by asking them, “What does compassion look like at school?

At home? At the grocery store?” She allows them time to think, and then share their ideas. “They really are able to come up with unique ideas for ways to help others, and I hope that this make them think twice the next time they see someone in need, whether it’s at home, school, or in the community,” Nugent says.

“In a time when bullying and crime are so widely talked about, it is even more important to take the positive approach with our students; to tell them to show compassion, rather than to ‘stop bullying/being mean.”

kindness and caring for them, whether it is at home, or at school. It is imperative to teach character traits, such as compassion, in a very direct manner to our students.”

Inspiration for the compassion projects originated with a prominent University of Wisconsin-Madison psychology and psychiatry professor and brain researcher, Richard Davidson. His recent scientific studies show that people who practice compassion have measurably healthier brains, and generally, a happier outlook on life. What parents wouldn’t want that for their child?

“We can choose to show compassion and to practice compassion,” Riley says.

“We can teach our children about compassion, and give them positive ways to reinforce it in their lives.”

“Connecting the creative process to compassionate thought and action was deliberate. To practice compassion, we need to think critically about it to put our empathy into action,” says Steve Michaels, a fine arts supervisor and school principal. “The arts are fundamental in fostering this type of divergent thinking.”

It’s an ideal conduit for children to express compassion, more abstract than drawing a flower or a dog, for instance. “The students will need to think about it, to reflect on compassion,” Riley says. “This act of slowing down and contemplating what they will create is a great experience for the mind.”

Art provides a perfect way to teach compassion because it forces students to visualize what compassion means. “It is easier for students to talk about compassion by using examples, but when we dig in to ‘what does compassion look like’ is when we see them coming up with new, great ideas for compassion,” Nugent says.

-says Bethany Nugent

It’s significant that the students are only given a 6-by-6-inch space to work within.

“It is a very small space to depict such a big idea, but speaks well to the idea that their small acts of compassion can add up to something much greater, just as their 6-by6 inch canvas is just one small piece of a larger project with the greater goal of sparking a community conversation on a globally important topic,” Nugent says.

In a final, grand mosaic, the highlight of the compassion project is a public art show in a gallery and on a website. Art is an ideal way for students to learn about compassion because they discover that art can express an idea, or an emotion, to a wide audience. “It’s important for our students to realize that art is about more than just pretty pictures, and to understand that their art can communicate even the most complex of ideas,” Nugent says.

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THE MOST IMPORTANT THING THAT KIDS GET IN DAY CARE AND SUMMER CAMPS ARE THE RELATIONSHIPS; THEY MAKE THE MOST LASTING AND DEEPEST IMPRESSIONS.

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t’s never easy leaving your child in the hands of a caregiver, but as parents it’s inevitable there are times when we need to—perhaps because the economy necessitates both parents work, or you’re a single parent who needs a hand. Choosing a day care or summer camp can be a stressful decision for parents. So, what are the most important things to consider?

Much of what a parent should look for comes down to the atmosphere and the gut feeling you get when you check it out, say area experts.

The most important thing that kids get in day care and summer camps are the relationships they make and the most lasting and deepest impressions. I would focus on the staff.

Ask questions like, does the center have a stable staff (i.e. minimal staff changes throughout the week, as well as low overall turnover)? Is the staff actively interacting with the kids? Do I feel like my child will get the attention and care I would expect? Does it feel secure?

Will the staff listen to what’s important to me? Does the staff look bored or “fried”?

What your child will do throughout the day at day care or summer camp is another crucial point; after all, you want your child to learn while still having fun.

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ust minutes outside Milwaukee, excitement waits inside the walls of The Springs Water Park.

Located at the Country Springs Hotel in Waukesha, The Springs Water Park boasts over 45,000 square feet of thrilling water park adventures for you and your family. Water Park attractions include thrilling tube and body slides, a meandering lazy river, activity pool, indoor/ outdoor hot tub, and zero-depth pool. Stay past dark and the park starts to glow with blue lighting.

Additional features include an amazing arcade with moonlight bowling and a variety of video games, and an extensive snack bar.

BIRTHDAY PARTIES Birthday parties at The Springs Water Park are a splash!

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activities the park offers and adults appreciate the variety of packages that are designed to fit their budget. Sarah Dawson, Water Park Sales Associate at the park said, “The Springs Water Park makes it easy to create birthday memories that will last a lifetime. We have a lot of repeat customers that come back each year because the whole family enjoyed the experience.”

GROUP EVENTS From family reunions to graduation parties and private events, scouting groups to summer camps, The Springs Water Park offers the perfect venue for group events. Group events consist of 15 or more swimmers and must be booked at least 3 business days in advance to receive discounted rates. Maria Morgan, Water Park Group Sales Manager said, “The Springs Water Park is a popular choice for many youth groups and schools. Group lead-

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ers appreciate the numerous lifeguards on duty and not having to worry about the weather being a factor as the water park is always 84 degrees.

OVERNIGHT GETAWAYS

Country Springs Hotel’s 187 guest rooms include deluxe and executive suite floor plans designed to make guests feel at home during their stay. A variety of value-packed overnight water park getaways are available throughout the year. Water Park overnight packages are a great value and provide lots of time to splash and play starting at 2pm the day of check-in until park close on the day of check-out.

DAY PASSES For guests that cannot stay overnight and would like to play for the day, The Springs Water Park offers day passes on most days of operation. Day passes are sold based on availability and are $15 (Monday – Thursday) and $25 (Friday – Sunday and peak times).

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college How to Pick the Right

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electing the right college means not only choosing where you’ll live for the next four years, but finding the best fit for your personality, interests and your family’s financial situation.

It’s often one of the biggest decisions many teens have ever faced.

If you’re considering several colleges, the best way to compare them is to make a list of the things that are most important to you and see how each school stacks up. You might include proximity to home, athletics or arts programs, campus size, etc. When listing pros and cons, consider cost, academics, social life and the impact it will have on your future career.

Consider costs According to the most recent Annual Survey of Colleges by the College Board, students attending a four-year college in their own state will spent an average of $17,860 on tuition, fees and room and board during the 2012-2013 academic year.

The average price tag jumped to $39,518 per year for a private fouryear college1.

To cover the costs, parents and students may need to consider student loans, financial aid and scholarships. You can get a list of available scholarships from your high school guidance counselor as well as

the colleges and universities you want to attend. It’s important to start your scholarship search early and look at all possible sources.

For example, Foresters(tm), an international life insurance provider committed to family well-being, offers the Foresters Competitive Scholarship Program2, which awards up to 250 tuition scholarships for higher learning worth up to $8,000 each in the US and Canada for eligible members and their spouses, children and grandchildren.

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you value most in an educational program will help put you on the path to success.

Narrow down top choices Plan a few campus visits to get a feel for campus size, dorm life, the school’s resources and how helpful school staff will be. Finally, make sure any scholarship you might be awarded can be used at the schools you have on your short list. For example, Foresters Competitive Scholarship can be used for tuition at any vocational or trade school, college or university offering a full-time academic program of two years or more.

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How local adoption works In order to adopt a child locally, couples or individual must first become a licensed foster home. This is because the local children available for adoption are part of the foster care system. Becoming a licensed foster or adoptive family takes three to four months. The process includes education for the prospective parents, as well as in-home visits and interviews by a social worker known as a licensing specialist. The licensing specialist helps prospective parents through the process and the paperwork.

Once licensing is completed, the social worker notifies prospective parents when a child becomes available for placement. The social worker, prospective parents and child then meet each other to determine if the placement will be a good fit. When prospective parents’ primary interest is adoption, social workers make every effort to place children with them who are likely to become available for adoption in the near future.

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The cost of local adoption One of the biggest benefits of local adoption is the low cost. Depending on the child’s country of origin, foreign adoption costs can be quite prohibitive, ranging anywhere from $7,000 to $30,000. However, most local adoption costs are reimbursed by the state of Wisconsin, which means the biggest investment is time.

The children available for adoption in Milwaukee span a wide range of ages and personalities. But the one thing they all have in common is a need to find a family who really cares and who will love them for who they are. i

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Where to Start

How to find the RIGHT SITTER

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By Jill Slattery

reedom is the word that runs through all kids minds as summer rolls around. For most kids, summer provides opportunities for creativity and exploration along with a much needed break from the day-to-day scheduling that exists during the school year. However, this three month hiatus can be a major source of stress for parents. This new freedom often leaves parents scrambling to find a suitable summer babysitter. Finding a reliable babysitter is essential for peace of mind during the summer months.

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The absolute best way to begin your search is by word of mouth. When looking for someone to watch her five children, Pam Larson of Brookfield says, “I always find my sitters through my friends and neighbors.” Even if your acquaintances cannot give you a name on the spot, they will be able to tell you how they found their sitters.

The next place to begin looking is in your local directories, either at your church, library, or even at your children’s school. Perhaps one of the best, and the most underused resource exists at local colleges, especially in the education departments.

Colleges and universities often have message boards where parents and students alike can post their requests for summer employment. Students seeking education degrees in the state of Wisconsin are required to have 350 hours of experience working with children, so often parents may find a significant number of potential babysitters.

If you have exhausted all your options, there are numerous websites, like babysitters.com, where you can search for babysitters in your area.

After you find a potential candidate, it is important to set up an interview as soon as possible. It is also important to schedule the interview in your own home, when the whole family is present to get an authentic look at the situation, for both the parents and the babysitter.

There are many questions to consider, but first and foremost are the babysitter’s qualifications. Parents should make sure to ask about previous experience, how many families have they worked for, numbers of kids they have watched at one time and most importantly, why do they want the job? Parents should also ask for references from former families. It is also perfectly acceptable to ask for character references from two to three adults, especially if this is their first long-term babysitting job.

On the other side, parents should be clear from the start about what the job will entail. Summer is often synonymous with “camps,” which means there may be a lot of shuttling kids back and forth for the babysitter. It is important to discuss whose car will be used and what legalities exist.

Parents may want to ask about driving records and can even pay to get them from the DMV. If the babysitter will be using her own car, compensation for gas money should also be discussed.

And finally, the big question, “How much should I pay?” There is no set rate; however, there are helpful websites like sittercity.com that calculate pay rates based on experience, number of children, age of the sitter and zip code.

There is no one way to find a sitter, but once you do, it is important to promote honest and open communication to ensure a fun-filled, stress-free summer for all involved! i

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People of all ages and places can benefit from learning about compassion and then practicing it out in the world. “Everyone is in this together,” Riley says.

Connecting school to home “If we’re not showing compassion at home, children will be less likely to grasp and apply it,” says Stacy Shapiro, president of Shapiro Strategies, a consultation and training firm for organizations and families. “There needs to be a connection between home and school.”

Making a connection means showing compassion for each other at home and discussing compassion as it relates to their experiences in and out of the family unit.

This mother, her husband Dan Baumgardt, and her two sons, ages 15 and 12, often talk about how people treat one another. The conversations arise naturally during dinner hour or time in the car. “When we talk about these types of situations, where there’s an opportunity for them to show goodness and compassion, I often raise the question, ‘How would you feel if it were you?’” Shapiro says.

If a player falls on the field at a game, for instance, and her son would be hesitant to say anything to the teammate – he may not know him well or he may seem fine – Shapiro tells her child it’s still appropriate to ask, “Are you Ok?” Or offer a question or statement along those lines to show caring, concern, and kindness.

Other conversations start when a son brings up an action by a peer that he may not agree with. Shapiro fits in phrases such as, “Even good people make mistakes”; “Nobody’s perfect”; and “We don’t know what else is happening in their lives.”

As parents, Shapiro and Baumgardt give her sons “appropriate attention” when they see them hurting physically or emotionally. “We don’t believe in ignoring feelings, and having them ‘tough it out,’’’ she says. “We will ask them how they feel and if they need anything. Then we can move forward.”

Making room in the chaos of everyday life for family time is vital to showing compassion and learning about this important value. A “read and tea night” at their home is only 30 minutes, but it’s “a slow down,” Shapiro says.

Another “slow down” is about 15 minutes to read an article, watch a TV clip, or share a short story that portrays goodness, Shapiro says. She cuts positive items out of the newspaper to show her family, and she encourages them to find good news, too.

Volunteering as a family is another effective and fun way to learn and practice compassion. They volunteer once a month at a local food pantry and other organizations. “My sons realize that in their community there are people who are in need of food,” she says. “There are so many opportunities out there to practice compassion.” i Kim Seidel is a Wisconsin-based writer and mother two daughters, ages 11 and 15.

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cooking

Kid-Friendly Snacks to

NOURISH MIND AND TUMMY PARENTS DON’T OFTEN ENCOURAGE THEIR CHILDREN TO PLAY WITH THEIR FOOD. HOWEVER, WHEN SNACK TIME OFFERS THE OPPORTUNITY TO NOURISH BOTH THE BODY AND THE MIND, THAT’S A TREAT ANY PARENT WOULD BE GLAD TO SERVE THEIR LITTLE ONES.

Learning and snacking together

Invite the kids into the kitchen and take snack time to a whole new level.

These tasty snack recipes feature the kid-approved flavor and crunch of Post Alpha-Bits cereal, as well as fun alphabet shapes, perfect for familiarizing young learners with the letters of the alphabet.

The time spent together creating these tasty recipes provides a special learning opportunity for children and parents, while enjoying fun snacks along the way. Who knew snack time could be so educational? For a fun and tasty spin on a classic family favorite, whip up a Breakfast Banana Split. If your family is looking for a great snack to pop in a baggie for car rides, you will love this Cinnamon Crunch Mix. Or, for an airy and sweet treat, try this recipe for Cool and Creamy Bananas.

Beyond the fun educational benefits, Post Alpha-Bits cereal as part of a nutritious breakfast is a great way to start the day. A serving provides 12 essential vitamins and minerals growing kids need. For more great recipes your family will love, and recipe nutrition information visit www.postfoods.com. i

BREAKFAST BANANA SPLIT

Prep Time: 5 min 1/2 cup Post Alpha-Bits cereal 1 small banana 1/2 cup vanilla low-fat yogurt 1/4 cup seedless grapes, halved 1/4 cup strawberries, sliced Peel banana; split in half lengthwise.

Place in sundae dish or cereal bowl. Top banana with yogurt. Sprinkle with cereal and fruit. Makes 1 serving.

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CINNAMON CRUNCH MIX

Prep Time: 5 min 2 cups Post Alpha-Bits cereal 1 cup dried fruit, such as raisins, apples or apricots Ground cinnamon Toss cereal and fruit in a medium bowl.

Season with cinnamon to taste. Place 1/2-cup portions in individual snack bags. Store at room temperature.

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for Moms, Kids to Enjoy Together

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ith warm weather and kids’ freedom from school, there are extra opportunities for moms and kids to spend more time together. Whether your children are toddlers or school age, it’s important to find fun ways to spend precious hours with one another.

Here are a few activities those of all ages can enjoy: Put a twist on movie night: Summer blockbusters have families flooding theaters in droves. Pack the whole family in the car, pop some corn and catch a drive-in movie. It’s an old-fashioned experience every kid should enjoy at least once.

BLOW BUBBLES FOR A CROWD: Create a bubble station on your front porch and wait for the neighborhood kids to congregate. After all, there is just something so simple and nostalgic about bubbles that everyone loves TAKE A HIKE: Spend time exploring nearby parks, lakes and arboretums with the kids. Pack plenty of water and healthy snacks, such as Dole Fruit Squish’ems, squeezable fruit pouches. Each serving has 60 calories and contains 20 percent of the daily value of vitamin C. Add an extra element of fun to your hike by going on a treasure hunt.

WATCH THE MAGIC OF FIREFLIES: Enjoy cool evening breezes, while watching the special magic fireflies bring to a backyard. Catch a few in a Mason jar, and then release them after the kids are tucked in for the night.

PACK A PICNIC: Take a picnic lunch on your next outdoor adventure. Keep it simple, portable and healthy with good old peanut butter and jelly with healthy, delicious side dishes like baby carrots, sliced bell peppers and Dole Fruit Squish’ems squeezable fruit pouches. From orchard to pouch, they are made with fresh apples from the USA, and are an easy on-thego summer snack.

PLAY EXTREME TIC-TAC-TOE: Make an easy craft project that can be enjoyed all summer long. Paint a tic-tac-toe board on an old beach towel, and then mark ten Frisbees with an X or O. Now, you’re ready to play Frisbee tic-tac-toe anywhere outdoors.

KEEP THEM GROWING HEALTHY: Pick a spot in the yard to create a small garden or plant a few vegetables in large pots. Those few moments caring for plants together each morning may just be the most precious ones of the day.

To find out more about why kids ages 5-13 prefer Dole Fruit Squish’ems Apple and Apple Strawberry flavors over other brands, visit www.dole.com/fruitsquishems. i

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Helping Kids

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By Kim Seidel EALTHY RESPECT AND COURTESY BETWEEN EX-SPOUSES WILL MOST BENEFIT THE CHILDREN IN A DIVORCE.

WITH CURRENT DIVORCE RATES MORE THAN 50 PERCENT, STATISTICS REVEAL THAT CHILDREN OF DIVORCED PARENTS WILL FARE JUST AS WELL AS OTHER CHILDREN WHO DON’T CONFRONT DIVORCE, IF THERE’S NO DISCORD BETWEEN THE PARENTS.

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“It is the conflict, not the divorce that has a negative impact on children,” says Amanda Jalensky, coordinator for community services at the Family & Children’s Center (FCC), based in Wisconsin. “Successful parenting after divorce keeps children out of the middle.”

Generally, most divorce situations involve shared placement, in which each parent receives an agreed upon amount of time with the children. This arrangement may or may not involve co-parenting, a cooperative style of parenting following divorce, explains Kara Burgos, a Wisconsin attorney. Shared

placement can exist even when parents have no communication or contact, while as a co-parent, divorced parents raise their children together, but in separate homes, and give respect to one another.

“You don’t all have to go out to dinner together, but show common decency to the other parent,” Burgos says. “Obviously, there are reasons you’re not still together, which can cause anger and bitterness. It’s not always going to be easy, but you can make it work out to have a courteous co-parenting relationship.”

Breaking the news to kids with simple language Start early with no conflict when it comes time to tell the children about the decision to divorce.

Often when the news is shared, many aren’t surprised and some feel relieved. Yet it still matters greatly how a parent or parents let the children know their marriage is ending.

During the discussion, “it’s not fair to the child to criticize or blame your ex-spouse,” says Burgos, who divorced with two children more than three years ago and has since remarried. “Always remember that your child is half of that person.”

Cindy Ericksen, a marriage and family therapist in private practice at HeartJourney, advises parents to talk with straight-forward language.

For example: “We’ve tried really hard to work this out, but it will not work out for us to stay married. Although we’ll be divorced, we’ll both always be your parents. We’ll both always love you. We’ll both always be here for you.”

Keep in mind that children and teens are “ego-centric,” meaning they think the world revolves around them, says Ericksen, who experienced a divorce and works with many parents and children struggling with divorce. When kids learn that their parents are splitting up, they want to know how their lives will look different and how their lives will stay the same, Ericksen says. Children usually ask right away whether they have to switch schools or move to a new home or community. Immediate questions also typically involve their friends, toys, and other important “stuff.”

“You don’t all have to go out to dinner together, but show common decency to the other parent,” Burgos says. “Obviously, there are reasons you’re not still together, which can cause anger and bitterness.

It’s not always going to be easy, but you can make it work out to have a courteous co-parenting relationship.”

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While each divorce situation varies tremendously, be clear and honest to prevent more confusion and hurt, Burgos says.

How you communicate will depend on their age and maturity level. “You will speak differently to a toddler than you would a teen, but they still need to know that mom and dad won’t be living together any longer,” says Burgos, who specializes in litigation and advocacy for children’s best interests as a Guardian ad Litem.

Maintain a simple conversation for all ages. “Too often parents give their children information they don’t need to know, such as about child support and reasons for the split,” Burgos says. “If they ask you about those types of matters, just say, ‘Mom and Dad will work that out; you don’t need to worry about it.’ ” Giving “a minimum amount of details” prevents children from getting upset about matters they most likely weren’t even thinking about, Ericksen says. Keep the discussion open for questions, but answer with few details as well. “Children will ask what they’re most worried about,” Ericksen says.

A common concern is how their mom and dad will be different after the divorce.

“The younger the child, the more he or she will think the divorce is their fault,” Ericksen continues. Provide stability in the midst of concerns. “Children will feel more secure if parents tell them they’ll see them regularly and they will always love them,” Ericksen says. “Parents can assure their children that mom and dad will be okay. Children shouldn’t be comforting their parents.

Children need to remain children.”

Most kids naturally desire for their parents to stay together; fantasizing about a reunion is common. “It’s important that parents be clear that they won’t be a couple again,” Ericksen says. “If parents even insinuate the possibility, it keeps children from accepting the situation and being at peace with what is their new family.”

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Divorcing couples must consider their offspring’s health, safety, and best interests, and place that at the forefront of decisions-making.

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both parents remain actively and lovingly involved in their lives.”

Burgos’ children routinely go back and forth between their mom and dad’s homes, which are only one mile apart. “It requires organization, and the children need to be organized too,” says Burgos, who was fortunate to keep her children in their school and community and for several years, their same home.

It’s ideal to avoid huge changes, but it’s not always possible. Living in two houses is often more difficult for children than mom and dad may realize, Ericksen says. To help with adjustments, parents can strive to keep routines and schedules predictable and consistent.

Teens have more challenges with two households, because they’re already extremely busy and not at home much with school, sports, jobs, and other responsibilities, Ericksen says. Being with friends is also important to them; they’ll often feel overwhelmed by the expectation to spend extra time with parents on top of it all, she says.

To best parent a teen in this situation, “continue to support their activities. Try to work around their current schedule,” Ericksen says. “Support the path they’ve already been on, such as planning to attend college out of town. Try not to put extra responsibility on them, such as watching younger siblings.”

If a parent needs to move into a new home, narrow it down to two or three houses before involving children, says Jillian Hugo, a realtor. “Otherwise, it’s too much information to process, and they may become confused about the situation,” she says. Once a home is selected, try to keep them posted in simple terms. “Don’t underestimate your child’s ability to sense what’s going on,” Hugo says. “Always keep them in the loop; it helps to ease any of their anxieties.”

To avoid fighting among siblings, Hugo says, decide how the kids will pick out bedrooms. Help children to visualize how their belongings will fit and can be set up in their space. “If it’s appropriate, help them picture how some stuff will be at their mom’s and some stuff will be at their dad’s, but it’s still all of their stuff,” Hugo advises. Maintain a calendar marked with which parent’s house they’ll be staying; hang it in the child’s bedroom to quell fears about changing routines, she adds.

By taking those first steps together when moving, children keep involved and focused on the positives. “They may no longer have bunk beds; those will be at dad’s house. But, they can have a new bed at mom’s house,” Hugo offers as an example of accentuating the positives. When moving out of a neighborhood or changing schools, keep in touch with close friends and neighbors and make plans for visits.

Familiarize the family not only with the yard, but also the neighborhood. “Drive the kids to their school so they can see where it’s located from home,” Hugo says. “Show them places to know about, such as a park or ice cream shop, so they can start to ground themselves in the area.”

Building a support network

Experts recommend that parents communicate with an effective system. Ericksen suggests email, especially when there’s potential for conflicts. “Email takes the emotion out of the communication. Just stick to the details and share what needs to be told,” she says.

Divorce brings “a huge loss and big change for everyone,” Burgos says. “Each family member will be in different stages.

Learn to respect which stage your child and the other parent is in. Think, ‘What do my kids need now?’ Parents need to find their own support system; don’t vent and put extra responsibility on the children. Find a trusted friend, family member, or a therapist. School counselors also are a good resource for kids.”

Children will more likely exhibit signs of anxiety and depression when conflict occurs between their parents; yet another reason to avoid tensions with the exspouse, Ericksen says. “Don’t be afraid to ask for help,” she adds.

A therapist is often helpful for children having problems adjusting to divorce, because they can talk to a neutral party. “Children are sensitive and intuitive,” Ericksen explains. “Sometimes they’re really afraid to tell their parents what their feeling, because they don’t want to hurt them.”

In turn, therapists can provide parents with tools to assist they’re children. “The parents are still the leaders of their family, and where they lead, their children will follow,” Ericksen says. i Kim Seidel is a writer and mother of two children and lives in Wisconsin. She enjoys writing articles that help parents in their family life.

calendar

Great Events April

APRIL 1 ..............................................April Fool’s Day APRIL 2 .. National Peanut Butter and Jelly Day APRIL 6 ....................................Hostess Twinkie Day APRIL 15 ........................................McDonald’s Day APRIL 20 ............................................................Easter APRIL 22 ....................................................Earth Day APRIL 30 ...........................National Honesty Day SUMMER SCHOOL THOUGHTS…..

Registration is open for College for Kids and Teens at UW-Milwaukee. Visit www4.uwm.edu for a list of the programs.

THROUGH APRIL 13 Crash Todd Wehr Theater 929 North Water St., Milwaukee Excellent play teaching important values for kids 8 and up. Visit firststage.org or call (414) 267-2961.

APRIL 1 – NOVEMBER 3 Camping Season Waukesha County Parks Camping areas are located at Menomonee Park,

for Spring & Summer 2014

Mukwonago Park, Muskego Park and Naga-Waukee Park for a fee, no electric or hookups. Visit waukeshacounty.gov for camping fees and more information.

APRIL 3 Target Free First Thursday Milwaukee Art Museum 700 North Art Museum Dr. Admission to the museum is free for individuals and families (excluding groups) on the first Thursday of each month, thanks to Target. Mam.org or call 414-224-3200.

APRIL 5 Family Free Day at the Zoo Milwaukee County Zoo 10001 West Blue Mound Rd. Sponsored by North Shore Bank and FOX 6. Regular parking fees still apply. For hours and information call 414-256-5412.

APRIL 12 & 13 Breakfast and Lunch with the Bunny Milwaukee County Zoo 1000l West Blue Mound Rd. Sponsored by Racine Danish Kringles Dine with the Easter Bunny! Visit milwaukeezoo.org for information on event or call.

APRIL 12 Fishing Clinic Menomonee, Muskego & Fox Brook Parks in Waukesha County Please call and register groups of 10 or more to the Waukesha County Park System (262) 896-8074.

APRIL 17 Neighborhood Night -Free Admission Betty Brinn Children’s Museum 929 E. Wisconsin Ave., Milwaukee Enjoy free admission and evening hours 5 – 8 p.m. courtesy of US Bank & FOX 6. For details, call 414-390-5437.

APRIL 19 Egg Day Milwaukee County Zoo, 10001 West Blue Mound Rd. Enjoy a scavenger hunt, Easter parade, a show and much more. Visit milwaukeezoo.org for more information.

APRIL 20 Have a Happy Easter!

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MAY 11 Mother’s Day Milwaukee County Zoo 10001 West Blue Mound Rd. Share in a trip to the zoo with your mom. They are admitted free on their special day. Visit milwaukeezoo.org for more details.

MAY 16 – 17 Romeo & Juliet Rosa Parks Auditorium, Golda Meir School 1615 North Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd.

Thrilling sword fights and poetry highlight this production along with the love story in a culture of violence and hate.

Twelve years and older will enjoy this production. Order online at www.firststage.org or call 414-267-2961.

May

MAY 5 ........................................................Cinco de Mayo MAY 11 ...........................................................Mother’s Day MAY 15 ........................National Chocolate Chip Day MAY 17 ...........................National Learn to Swim Day MAY 26...................................................... Memorial Day MAY 31 ..............................................Hug Your Cat Day GETTING OUTDOORS WITH KIDS Waukesha County Beaches Open May 31 – mid August 2014 with new beach hours for 2014, 11 a.m. – 7 p.m. daily. Visit Waukeshacounty.gov for details.

MAY 26 Memorial Day Weekend “Cool Waters” Family Aquatic Park Greenfield Park 2028 S. 124th St., West Allis Open Memorial Day Weekend through Labor Day, Monday – Thursday 10 a.m. -8 p.m. weather permitting and Friday, Saturday, Sunday/Holidays 10 a.m. – 6 p.m. weather permitting. Call the hotline at 414-257-8098.

MAY 31 Beaches Open Saturday Fox Brook, Menomonee, Minooka, Mukwonago, Muskego and Naga-Waukee Parks, Waukesha County Parks Open from 11 a.m. – 7 p.m.

Civil War demonstration, fashion show, food and much more. Visit elmbrookhistricalsociety.org for more info.

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Choose from over 40 restaurants, with menus at just $10 for lunch and $20 or $30 for dinner, it’s a deal too delish to resist. Visit milwaukeedowntown.com for updates.

JUNE 6 Milwaukee Art Museum 700 North Art Museum Dr. Admission to the museum is free for individuals and families (excluding groups) on the first Thursday of each month, thanks to Target. Visit mam.org or call 414-224-3200.

JUNE 6 – 8 Bead & Button Show Wisconsin Center, 400 W. Wisconsin Avenue The largest consumer bead and jewelry show in the world held annually in Milwaukee Visit Beadandbuttonshow.com or call 900-554-0197

JUNE 15 Father’s Day Milwaukee County , 10001 West Blue Mound Rd. All fathers admitted free on their day! Bring your dad and enjoy the day with him! Visit milwaukeezoo.org for details.

JUNE 20 – 22 Lakefront Festival of Art Children’s activities, artists, food & drink and entertainment to fill the whole weekend! Visit lfoa.mam.org for more information.

JUNE 23 Habitat Explorers Camps Retzer Nature Center S14 W28167 Madison St., Waukesha

Admission to the museum is free for individuals and families (excluding groups) on the first Thursday of each month, thanks to Target. Mam.org or call 414-224-3200.

MAY 3 – 4 Civil War Live Encampment Dousman Stagecoach Inn Museum 1075 Pilgrim Parkway, Brookfield

JUNE 5 – 12 Downtown Dining Week

Session one starts on June 18. Visit www4.uwm.edu for classes and enrollment forms for k-5 – 12 grades.

MAY 1 Free First Thursdays Milwaukee Art Museum 700 North Art Museum Dr.

Join us as history’s greatest teen detective, Nancy Drew faces Her greatest challenge. It’s great for kids 7 and up by Jeff Frank and John Maclay.

Visit firststage.org or call (414) 267-2961.

Enjoy this free musical series held (weather permitting) from 6 – 9 p.m.

JUNE 18 – JULY 1 Summer School Experience UW-Milwaukee Campus

Getting outdoors with pets Dogs are allowed within any of the Waukesha County parks provided dogs are licensed, leashed and owners clean up after their dogs. No dogs allowed at Retzer Nature Center. Check website for annual sticker prices at waukeshacounty.gov.

MAY 2 – JUNE 1 Nancy Drew and her Biggest Case Ever Todd Wehr Theater Marcus Center for the Performing Arts, 929 N. Water St., Milwaukee

JUNE 4 – AUGUST 27 Waterfront Wednesdays Pewaukee lakefront on Wisconsin Ave., Pewaukee

Register for this summer camp by June 16 for ages 7 – 12, 9 a.m. -12 p.m. Fee and information at waukeshacountyparks.com or call 262-896-8007.

June

JUNE 1 ..................................Say Something Nice Day JUNE 15 ........................................................Father’s Day JUNE 16.......................................................... Fudge Day JUNE 20 ..............................................Ugliest Dog Day JUNE 23.................................................... Let it Go Day JUNE 26 ......................................National Canoe Day

JUNE 25- JUNE 29 & JULY 1- 6 Summerfest Henry W. Maier Festival Park For more information on specials and free admission opportunities call (414) 273-2680 or visit www.summerfest.com

July

JULY 4 ..............................................Independence Day JULY 7 ..................................................Tell the Truth Day JULY 13 ............................National French Fries Day JULY 20 ...................................National Lollipop Day JULY 24 ......................................................Cousins Day VISIT THE JELLY BELLY CENTER 10100 Jelly Belly Lane, Pleasant Prairie The free warehouse tour is open daily from 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. Visit jellybelly.com or call 866-868-7522 for details.

JULY 3 Fireworks

JULY 23 The Phantom of the Opera Andrew Lloyd Webber’s phenomenal musical will be bigger and better than ever before, not to be missed! Visit marcuscenter.org or call 414-273-7206.

JULY 25 – 26 North Shore Bank Taste of Lake Country Pewaukee Lakefront, Wisconsin Ave., Pewaukee This festival is from 5 – 10:30 p.m. on Friday and 4 – 10:30 p.m. on Saturday celebrating food and music in Lake Country.

JULY 31 – AUGUST 10 Wisconsin State Fair State Fair Park 640 S. 84th St., West Allis Visit the fair for cream puffs, exhibits, food, and entertainment! 1-800-884-FAIR (3247).

Come early and find a spot for the festive fireworks along Milwaukee’s lakefront, north of the War Memorial.

JULY 7 - 11 Earth & Space Adventure Camp Retzer Nature Center S14 W28167 Madison St., Waukesha Register for this summer camp by June 30, for ages 7 – 12, 8:30. -11:30 a.m. Fee and information at waukeshacountyparks.com or call 262-896-8007.

JULY 10 - 13 Bastille Days Cathedral Square Park & Surrounding Streets Free French Festival on Thursday and Friday 11 a.m.-midnight and Saturday 10 a.m. to midnight, Sunday 11 a.m. to 9 p.m. For more information call (414) 271-1416 or visit www. easttown.com.

Get Outside Get Active with Waukesha County Parks Try Geocaching Hear the first robin of the year Take your dog to a Dog Exercise Area Go camping and star gaze from your tent Keep the Olympic spirit alive- play hockey or join a figure skating club at Eble or Naga-Waukee Park Ice Arenas Get back into the swing - play a round of golf at Moor Downs, Naga-Waukee or Wanaki Golf Courses Beaches open May 31st Get back on your bike and enjoy the Bugline, New Berlin and Lake Country Trails Enjoy Retzer Nature Center...the exhibits, the trails, the programs, the special events, the planetarium Discover your inner child Get active Get healthy

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DISCOVER MILWAUKEE PARKS Milwaukee’s parks department offers endless possibilities for fun this spring and summer. Children can explore park trails that are specifically designed for biking, fly kites or explore the newly modernized playground equipment that includes plastic tunnels to crawl through. Visit the website at countyparks.com for the listings.

VISIT THE MILWAUKEE PUBLIC LIBRARY The library system hosts many free events throughout the year that are designed to encourage children to read and enjoy quality family time together. Activities range from scheduled play dates at designated area libraries to story time for preschool aged children and much more. Visit mpl.org or call 414-286-3000 for details.

VISIT A MUSEUM Betty Brinn Children’s Museum 929 E. Wisconsin Ave., Milwaukee, WI 53202 414-390-KIDS (5437) PLACES FOR A KID’S BIRTHDAY PARTY COUNTRY SPRINGS WATER PARK To book your birthday party, contact our Water Park Sales Department, 262-970-5262.

STONEFIRE PIZZA CO. 5320 S. Moorland Rd., New Berlin Visit stonefirepizzaco.com or call 262-970-8800.

SUMMER CAMPS FOR KIDS Artist & Display 9015 West Burleigh St., Milw.

Camp Anokijig W5639 Anokijig Ln., Plymouth Visit www.anokijig.com or call 800-741-6931 for camp registration and times.

First Stage Children’s Theater 325 W. Walnut St. Milwaukee, WI Visit their website at www.firststage.org/Our-Academy/ Faculty/. Any questions please call (414) 267-2970 or email academy@firststage.org.

LEARN TO SWIM AT WAUKESHA COUNTY BEACHES Swimming lesson registration: May 1, 8:30a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Call (262) 548-7801.

Fox Brook Park - Brookfield - (July 21 - Aug 1) Menomonee Park - Menomonee Falls (July 7 - 18) Mukwonago Park - Mukwonago (June 16 - 27) Muskego Park - Muskego (July 21 - Aug 1) Naga-Waukee Park - Delafield (July 7 - 18).

Hoofbeat Ridge Camp 5304 Reeve Rd., Mazomanie, WI Day camps, sleepover camps and much more. Visit hoofbeat.org or call 608-767-2593.

St. John’s Northwestern 1101 Genesee St., Delafield Visit www.sjnma.org/summercamp or call 800-7522338.

Milwaukee Center For Independence Camps MCFI Main Campus 2020 W. Wells St., Milwaukee Adventures for L.I.F.E. Camps: Expand Your Horizons, Day Camps, Overnight Camps all at various locations. Visit mcfi.net or call 414.937.2020.

Schlitz Audubon Nature Center 1111 E. Brown Deer Rd., Bayside Visit sanc.org for camp listings and brochure.

www.artistanddisplay.com or call 414-442-9100 for listing of ongoing classes.

CHILDREN’S RESALE BOUTIQUE Once in a Blue Moon of Lake Country 138 North Avenue, Hartland 262-369-9055.

Visit for terrific buys and also consignment!

Grades Alone Don’t Impress College Admissions Committee Below is a list of common extracurricular activities that may help students stand out from other college applicants: School activities and clubs (Examples: student government, debate team, school newspaper, yearbook, science club, homecoming committee, theater, choir)

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Work experience (Examples: store clerk, law firm internship, Little League coach, camp counselor, baby sitter)

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Summer programs (Examples: academic enrichment programs, volunteer programs)

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Sports (Examples: Swimming, football, soccer, tennis, cross-country, baseball, softball)

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Hobbies (Examples: playing piano, coin collecting, hiking)

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Community service and volunteering (Examples: tutoring, hospital volunteering, religious organizations)

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Travel (Examples: domestic travel, international travel, camping)

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Honors and awards (Examples: local scholarships, academic awards, community service honors) Independent ventures (Examples: helping launch an after-school program to teach grade school students how to use computers, organizing a community event)

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