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THE LAZY DAYS OF SUMMER are giving way to a busy slate in the LGBTQATL, but for most of us, at least part of our schedule will be precious downtime, and for better or worse, a chunk of that will be screen time. With so much pulling us in multiple directions, this week’s Q helps sort some of the queer-er options. Let’s start on your e-reader. With an infinite, downloadable library, LGBTQ history is at your fingertips now more than ever. For your education and entertainment, 10 Queer Things finds literary escapes that are anything but boring old textbooks — when you’re finished flipping through this issue of Q of course. Now about that calendar app. Everyone is busy adding things to it, and while we probably want to get MIKE FLEMING away from it during time off, we can benefit from EDITOR & PUBLISHER an overview of how it’s shaping up. In Q Voices, Vince Shifflett talks about doing annual evaluation on our private lives, like the ones some people do on the job. He even lays out how to dive deeply into our judgments of self and others. The screen queens everyone’s really talking about in fall are the ones on your TV. Gone is the era of white gay male stereotypes exclusively lording over the list, and here are the days when trans, lesbian, asexual and queers of color shine, too. Between broadcast networks, cable channels and streaming services, we pick out some of the best queer characters to watch in Fall TV. Elsewhere in queer downtime, the People feature talks to Kathy Griffin about her comedy tour hitting Cobb Energy Centre on Friday. Her performance comes after what was perhaps her biggest controversy yet, and she lays bare how that plays into her latest show. We finish you off with the latest Q Shots photos, the Queer Agenda calendar of events, and The Q advice column. See what happens when two folks receive drunk texts from people they absolutely don’t want. Got ideas for future coverage? Want to write a Q Voices column or become a freelancer for Q? Hit me up on Facebook or Twitter @projectqatlanta, Instagram @theQatl, or by e-mail mike@theQatl.com. Of course, you can always find us too on Project Q Atlanta at theQatl.com. theQatl.com

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Queer TV LGBTQ characters this fall

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Annual

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Giving your personal life an evaluation just like at work can uncover what’s beneath the surface

THE STANDARD ANNUAL EVALUATION THAT TAKES place at work is a good time to look at the negative and positive. It’s a time to look at what’s working and what is not working. It’s a time to set goals and assess performance. It’s a time for both parties to evaluate whether or not the relationship is still mutually beneficial. I have also found it important to evaluate the different relationships in my personal life from time to time. For many of the same reasons that employment reviews work, examining and evaluating our personal relationships can be just as valuable, if not more.

Evaluation is essential for asking the hard questions and for taking a look at where we are on this journey of life. What is your relationship with yourself, your job, friends, co-workers and God like? Are they healthy relationships? If not, what needs to be done to move in a healthy positive direction? WHAT’S BENEATH THE SURFACE? When evaluating ourselves and others, I like to go deep and ask, “What’s beneath the surface?” When we see something with our physical eye, we are only seeing the surface. My mother used to say, “You can’t look at a book and tell what’s under the cover.” I’ve often asked myself, what’s beneath the surface of the ocean? What’s beneath the surface of the ground I’m standing on? What’s beneath the surface of my thoughts? What’s beneath the surface of every human I encounter daily? If we could see beneath the surface, we may see things differently. If we could see beneath the surface of the physical shell of another person, perhaps we wouldn’t be so quick to judge them. What’s beneath the surface of the homeless person I see on the street? What’s their story? What is really beneath the surface of the comedian who is making others laugh? Are they themselves laughing beneath the surface?

I have even learned the value in pausing to ask myself Relationship with Self: Do I nurture and take care VINCE what is beneath the surface of my thoughts. Where of myself? Do I love myself? I sometimes fall into SHIFFLETT did the thought originate? What does it mean? Exblaming and berating myself for things in my past. amining my thoughts has allowed me to decide which ones to give This is not healthy and has caused me some pain and suffering. I validity. Thousands of thoughts pass through our minds daily, but our continue to work on my relationship with self and have found it to be the most important relationship of all. thoughts are not necessarily our reality. I put most of them in File 13 Relationship with Job: Am I growing in my professional career? Am (the trash bin). I still passionate about what I do? Do I dread going to work, or do I look forward to it? Am I burned out with my current job?

Fear is an obstacle that keeps many of us from making necessary changes for growth. Leaving our comfort zone can be challenging, but I have learned to step out in faith knowing that greater things lie ahead. The Universe always has my back. Relationship with Others: I have found it helpful to look at my relationship with each individual in my life, including friends, co-workers, family and significant others. Are those relationships encouraging growth and positivity, or are they bringing a lot of negative energy into my space? Am I moving forward or backward as a result of those relationships? What am I contributing to each individual relationship? It’s a two-way street. Relationship with God (Spirit): When I neglect my spiritual practice, I end up feeling lost, sad and void. Connection to the spirit is vital for optimal health. Different people connect to God in different ways. One must choose the way that feeds their individual spirit. 8

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What’s beneath what others see when they look at you? What’s beneath your surface? Is it hurt, pain, bitterness, anger? Or is it love, acceptance, allowing, and peace? Is what others see on the surface a true reflection of what is beneath your surface? These are all great questions that I have pondered for myself. I have found it necessary to go deeper than the surface. It’s my desire to practice love with no judgment towards all fellow beings, because I have no idea what is beneath their surface.

I love the old saying, “Never judge another until you’ve actually walked a mile in their shoes.” We all go through stuff. Being mindful of what others may be going through beneath the surface is an essential element of kindness. In a world where there seemingly is so much hate, judgment, and division, let your light of love shine deep beneath the surface in an effort to brighten the way for others. Vince Shifflett is a critical care nurse and writer living in Atlanta.

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Kathy Griffin has ‘giant pot of tea’ to spill on Trump in Atlanta By Patrick Saunders

hen Kathy Griffin calls from her Bel Air mansion, it takes her less than 30 seconds to bring up the incident — that incident.

“The photo that almost took me down ended up being the photo that took me around the world dammit,” she explained in an interview with Project Q Atlanta. In May 2017, the comedian posted a video of herself holding a mask that looked like the severed, bloody head of President Donald Trump. The backlash was immediate. She became national news, and those in the entertainment industry — many of them good friends — turned on her. All of the venues on her remaining scheduled tour dates canceled the shows. She retreated to her Bel Air home, not leaving for the first month or two after that. That’s where she found material for her act, courtesy of her neighbors Kim Kardashian and Kanye West. “Friends [including Anderson Cooper] are abandoning me left and right, and I just open up the window and see Kim Kardashian driving little North West around in our little gated community in a Rolls Royce golf cart that her insane mother Kris gave her,” Griffin said. She started from there, and a new act was born. The Laugh Your Head Off World Tour swings through Atlanta on Sept. 21. Fans in attendance will hear all about what she called a “historic, once-in-a-lifetime story to tell.” “I spill such a giant pot of tea that people should wear raincoats in the first few rows,” she said. She’s not sparing anyone, least of all the adult Trump children, who she has umm … creative nicknames for. “I’m not giving Feckless or Melania a break, not one bit,” she said.

PEOPLE Q “Not to mention the older sons, Eddie Munster and Date Rape.” Griffin dives into what it’s like to be under a federal investigation and being put on the No-Fly List. “Being detained at every airport wasn’t fun,” she said. “That’s a diarrhea-inducing situation. So, if you’ve had too many carbs, just get yourself on the Interpol list.” ‘GOD LOVE THE LGBTS’ The decision to “lean into it” and embrace the absurdity happened to be a good fit for her comedy style — brutally honest about herself and others. “So, I really made the decision to absolutely maximize the story, meaning instead of saying, ‘Well, you know, maybe I shouldn’t scare the audience with how the death threats came in or all the times the FBI had to call me saying that there was a new credible threat,’” she said. “I thought, well let’s go through some of these death threats onstage and read one.” She credits one particularly loyal segment of her fanbase for providing material for her show. “God love the LGBTs. The Washington Blade — the longest-running LGBT paper in D.C. — invited me to their table at the White House Correspondents’ Dinner, and that was fantastic.” She had run-ins with numerous figures, including White House cabinet members. “I got into so many fights it was in The Washington Post,” she said. She added that it was LGBTQ people who gave her a glimmer of hope in the wake of the controversy “when I was still just trying to put one foot in front of the other.” It came courtesy of the very same vehicle that helped her get into the mess in the first place — Twitter. “God love the gays on Fire Island. Somebody had randomly done a parade — you know how the gays are at Fire Island! If there’s an empty dock, somebody’s getting a blowjob under it and somebody’s doing drag on top of it,” she said. The video was of a group of drag queens dressed in blue dresses similar to the one Griffin wore during the infamous photo shoot, and they were holding bloody Trump heads. “You could just hear five other random gays going, “Yaaaaaaas! Yaaas honey!” Kathy Griff in plays Cobb Energy Centre on Sept. 21. $2 from every ticket sold on Kathy Griff in’s U.S. tour will go to The Trevor Project and their mission to help prevent LGBTQ youth suicide. Read her full interview at theQatll.com. theQatl.com

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NEW AND FAVORITE QUEER CHARACTERS CONTINUE TO EXPAND MAINSTREAM TV THIS FALL

By Mike Fleming

t’s been a long haul since Billy Crystal’s “Jodie Dallas” on Soap pushed boundaries beyond wink-wink-nudge-nudge portrayals of queers on primetime TV in the 1970s. Until the 1990s, most were relegated to white gay male character actors in comedic roles that may not even mention their sexual orientation per se (think “Uncle Arthur” on Bewitched and “Monroe” on Too Close for Comfort).

These days, we have the relative luxury to count LGBTQ representation on more than our fingers and toes. We can now look for degrees of better representation and inclusion, not just in multiple roles across genres, but in the openly queer actors hired to play them with increasing regularity. The 2018 fall season offers scores of queers in minor roles, walk-ons and cameos, as well as a relatively rich roster of leading, key or main characters. The following pages feature just a few of our favorites. 

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Jamal LYON (JUSSIE SMOLLETT) Empire, Fox One of, if not the first, characters on network TV to represent black gay issues, much less be played by an out actor, returns as the reigning CEO on the popular nighttime soap about a music mogul family.

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Colonel Kayla PRICE (LISAGAY HAMILTON) The First, Hulu An ensemble cast led by Sean Penn includes this queer astronaut of color who champions science in a straight white manâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s disastrous space race to Mars.

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Nia Nal ‘DREAMER’ (NICOLE MAINES) Supergirl, CW This trans actress plays TV’s first transgender superhero. She joins Kara Danvers’ lesbian sister Alex as a queer character on the show — as well as characters on sibling shows Black Lightning’s lesbian of color Anissa Pierce aka ‘Thunder’ (Nafessa Williams) and The Flash’s married gay Mister Terrific (Echo Kellum) and Citizen Cold (Wentworth Miller). As of this writing, The Flash has promised a new queer character in the fall season but hasn’t specified who that is.

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Will TRUMAN and Jack McFARLAND (ERIC McCORMACK and SEAN HAYES) Will & Grace, NBC