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PULSE MAGAZINE: MAY 2019 FOOD + DRINK
COVER STORY Worcester Music Awards: 6 Local Music Takes the Stage
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Worcester Comedian Alingon Mitra Brings the Laughs Home
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The Central Scene
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GameOn: 13 Saving the world as Shaquille O'Neal
SPORTS + FITNESS
Pulse Books
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FindingBalance:
Club Listings
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The Mountain
Pulse Shots
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Spring Regatta Makes Waves in Worcester
3 Ways to Celebrate Your Stepmom This Mother’s Day
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ARTS + CULTURE
Out+About:
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Worcester’s Albanian Festival: Building Bridges
420 in the 508:
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STYLE + BEAUTY
Luxe List:
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Dido / Weezer / Billie Eilish
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“YOU GOTTA DO IT FOR THE PASSION.” - Matthew Wade
(My Silent Bravery)
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Worcester Music Awards: LOCAL MUSIC TAKES THE STAGE SUZANNE KARIOKI
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hen the Plymouth Theatre opened in November of 1928, it was a place for the wealthy and well-connected of the city to gather for a night of entertainment. Less than a year later, the Great Depression would render its prized theatre organ and collection of silent films almost obsolete. But the Plymouth Theatre has survived decades of hardship, twice threatened with demolition and often facing an uncertain future in bleak economic times. But today, as the Worcester Palladium, the concert venue has seen stars from all genres of music, from Bob Dylan and Prince to Kanye West and Fall Out Boy. The Palladium is one of the few event spaces in the city capable of simultaneously hosting historically famous acts and local indie artists, including events like the Worcester Music Awards on April 10. The opening act that night blazed in with AriBand lead by Ari Charbonneau, an intense guitar player and singer with the attitude and swagger of a rock star in a bygone decade, but with a genuine warmth and fervor. Behind the stage, Charbonneau warms up in the old theatre that opened in 1928. The lush flower baskets and palms are long gone, but there’s still a faint air of grandeur; a rack of lights has replaced its dusky blue curtains and gold detail, but its grand structure remains. Charbonneau’s voice carries and echoes effortlessly in a room designed to project and radiate sound from the stage. Originally from Northborough - a town about 20 minutes from Worcester whose main street, until recently, mostly consisted of a family-owned pharmacy, liquor store and pizza place - Charbonneau launched herself into music immediately after high school, playing in the streets of Boston and taking her laundry home on the train. She’s never stopped creating music, even with her full time job as a massage therapist, which she enjoys as a way to tap into her deep spirituality. In the empty theatre, she muses about the physical and emotional power of music, its ability to move people, to shake the earth and shatter glass. She gets lost there for a while, wanders off in her own thoughts for a moment and then shakes off her nerves. “I feel less nervous
after talking to you,” she says, but she has to run; her set starts in a few minutes. It’s certainly an interesting start to the show; guitar in hand and eyes closed, it doesn’t seem to matter where she is other than within the music, switching characters from highpitched to punk swagger. In front of the stage are a litter of very enthusiastic swaying dancers, separated from the rest of the crowd. Like Charbonneau, they don’t seem to care who’s watching. Music is a labor of love for independent artists who often lose money touring and recording albums, so events like the Worcester Music Awards are especially important as a space to honor and appreciate local talent on one stage. Matthew Wade, singer-songwriter and guitarist of My Silent Bravery is one of those indie artists who works full time and tours on his time off. “You gotta do it for the passion,” he says, and passionate he is; he and his bandmate, Katie Abendroth, performed a rousing set during the show, with Abendroth on a beautifully played electric violin. It was very easy to forget that they were the only two people on stage; Abendroth’s lilting melodies perfectly filled the space over Wade’s tenor and invigorating guitar. The two of them brought a palpable energy that had the audience riveted. Originally from Worcester, Wade suffered a sports injury while travelling in Australia which forced him to really think about his future. It took a lot of self-work to get through the injury, he explains, and that journey made him realize that he wanted to inspire others. With his community of fans — nicknamed the Bravehearts — Wade and My Silent Bravery have created an intensely positive community. Wade has toured in Europe as well as the United States, opening for acts like Saving Abel, Puddle of Mudd and Aaron Carter. But Wade also makes time for his fans, hosting a concert every
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Tuesday night via Facebook Live and inviting them to share their own talents. Wade has played every club in Worcester and greatly appreciates events like the Worcester Music Awards that showcase and celebrate local talent. With a new album in the works (“Holding Out for Hope”) and a milestone birthday party in June at the Bull Mansion, Wade is looking towards an exciting second half of 2019. Giving the most rousing performance of the night was New Pond Fondle, whose members met in 1995 in Fitchburg. They grew up together and formed the band in high school, playing covers until they decided to work on their own original music. 24 years later, the band is family. Even though the internet and social media have drastically changed the indie music scene, New Pond Fondle has stuck around. Comprised of guitarist Mat Babineau, keyboardist Dan Cormier, lead vocalist Dave Harrington, Greg Secino on drums and Kyle Shattuck on bass, the band are very close friends whose connection is obvious both on and off the stage.
“WE PLAY BECAUSE WE REALLY LOVE PLAYING.” - Dave Harrington (New Pond Fondle)
“We play because we really love playing,” explains frontman Dave Harrington. He, like the rest of the band, are exceedingly busy. “We all have full time jobs, wives, kids, solo projects and other bands,” he says. With all of those responsibilities, I ask, when do they ever get a moment to rest? They laugh. With almost the same lineup since 1996, the band has been around long after most others have broken up and moved on. Bands are notorious for ending relationships, but remarkably for these five, they all still love spending time together outside of the band. Their children and wives are friends, and they’ve attended everything from each other’s weddings to their children’s birthday parties. That friendship is clear on stage, where the band plays seamlessly together; Babineau sports an impressive collection of pedals which he demonstrates with an inspiring technical precision. Although he sets them up to do specific things before shows, he still has room to experiment on stage, striking out into expansive solos as he alternates between pedals. Shattuck keeps up an unmissable bass line while Secino starts the party on the drums, kicking off a beat that has the audience unwittingly tapping their feet. Dan Cormier -- the quick-witted keyboardist with a brilliantly sharp sense of humor -- is spritely and upbeat, both on his keyboard and with his bandmates. They’ve clearly been playing for years but are still brimming with ideas and haven’t lost the spark that pushed them to form the band over two decades ago. Although that night was their first time performing at the show, New Pond Fondle won an award in 2008 and were nominated again in 2016. They were flattered to be asked to perform and greatly appreciate the show’s dedication to local music. “It’s nice to be in a room with other musicians,” says Harrington, who, with the band, have played other local shows with the intention of supporting the community and the friends and family who have never missed a show. When asked what’s the best thing a music lover in Worcester could do? “Support local music!” the band said. As well as the ever-entertaining New Pond Fondle, there were a lot of new faces taking the WMA stage for the first time that night. David Jette, of Booty and the Jett, was surprised and flattered by his win. Flushed with pride and surprise, the Greendale native accepted his award for Best Up and Comers Act, beaming with gratitude. Jette was living in Arizona before he moved back to Worcester about a decade ago and
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despite playing music for years, he didn’t get serious until about a year ago under the encouragement of friends. “I’m excited to keep doing music,” said the Greendale native, a little dazed but definitely charged by his win. Jette wasn’t the only one who went home with a prize that night:
Best CD: The Promise is Hope (“Every Seed Must Die”) Best Radio DJ: Rick McCarthy Best Up & Comers Act: Booty & The Jett Best College Act: Fordham Road Best Blues/R&B Act: Big Jon Short Best Club DJ: DJ Kid Kash Best Country Act: Ashley Jordan Best Americana Band: The Promise is Hope Best Jazz Act: Jazzed Up Trio Best Female Vocalist: Ashley Jordan Best Rock Act: Hot Letter Best Acoustic Act: Ashley Jordan & Kathryn Haddad Best Cover Band: He Said She Said Best Rap/Hip-Hop Act: Boston Kev Best Electronica Act: Dub Psychonauts Best Male Vocalist: Ricky Duran Lifetime Achievement Award: Jimmy D’Angelo Best Local Music Station: WXLO Best Jam & Groove Act: Clamdigger Best Live Venue: Michael’s Cigar Bar Best Punk/Pop-Punk Act: Michael Kane & The Morning Afters Best Pop Act: The Promise is Hope Best Cover Art: The Promise is Hope (“Every Seed Must Die”) Local Tribute Band: Burning Sky Best Hardcore/Metal Act: Whiskey Church Best Music Video: Ashley Jordan (“Come Home”) Sexiest Musician: Cara Brindisi Best Live Act: Ashley Jordan
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For more information about the artists featured here: Matthew Wade and My Silent Bravery are on YouTube, Spotify and any place you find music. For updates about upcoming tours, visit mysilentbravery.com Find out what Ari Charbonneu and AriBand is up to on her Facebook page @ aribandofficial and find her music on Spotify, Bandcamp and anywhere you find music. Follow Booty and the Jett on Facebook @rickyboothmusic for upcoming shows and updates. Follow New Pond Fondle on Facebook @newpondfondle for upcoming shows and updates. And don’t forget to nominate and vote for your favorite acts for next year’s show - you
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WORCESTER COMEDIAN ALINGON MITRA BRINGS THE LAUGHS HOME JASON SAVIO
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ometimes dreams do come true. Just ask Alingon Mitra, a Worcester native and standup comedian who will be making his homecoming at the new WooHaHa comedy club this month.
and also by doing that, it’s what helped tip me to do it more nationally because I got all these TV credits. It was very fulfilling. For the people to keep voting and wanting me back was very rewarding.”
Mitra, a dedicated fan and student of comedy, has hit the big time with appearances on national television shows like the Late Show with Stephen Colbert and Conan. Those late-night standup spots came on the heels of his feature on NBC’s Last Comic Standing competition. But it all started on the other side of the television screen for Mitra while growing up at his home near the Greendale Mall. “I used to watch a ton (of standup comedy) when I was younger,” he said. “I would basically gorge myself on Comedy Central and the standup specials that they would have. I always wanted to do it.”
Since his time on Last Comic Standing, Mitra has made the late night TV rounds, living out his childhood fantasy. “It’s kind of surreal because I grew up watching standup comedy,” he said. “Anytime there was a comic on a late night show I made sure to either DVR it or watch it online. To be one of the guys doing what I watched growing up was kind of surreal. Kind of like when you’re growing up and you play in little league and you think about the major league and then all of a sudden you get to be playing in the major league. It was really thrilling.”
Comedians Jim Gaffigan, Chris Rock and Dave Chappelle made an impact on him, Mitra says, as did The Daily Show, which he would later join as a writer. His first taste of performing standup comedy came when he entered a competition while attending Worcester Academy. While his fellow students were reciting lines from literary works in front of the whole school, Mitra was performing routines from Ray Romano and Jerry Seinfeld.
Others are excited for Mitra too, including WooHaHa’s owner, John Tobin. “Here’s a guy who started in the Worcester scene and in Boston and now he’s a national comedian with national credits and he’s coming back home, which is awesome,” said Tobin.
Mitra would continue his interest in comedy when he attended Harvard University, where he wrote for the Harvard Lampoon. With his writing skills sharpened, he made the next step: “After college I wanted to do [standup] for real and I went to an open mic in Worcester, my first open mic,” he said. “I kind of caught the bug and did it more frequently after that.” Soon, Mitra began performing wherever he could. “Anywhere there was a stage, I would get up,” he said. “You name a city and if they had a stage, I probably got up there.” Worcester provided the ideal spot for Mitra to work out of, allowing him to travel between New Hampshire, Boston and Providence with relative ease to practice his material in front of live audiences. “Worcester was the home base for a little while, for sure,” he said. That tenacity would eventually pay off and land Mitra a spot on NBC’s Last Comic Standing. It wouldn’t come without drama, though. After not advancing past the semifinals to perform in the finale, Mitra was brought back by viewer votes as part of the program’s Comic Comeback Contest. He came in first place five weeks in a row, going up against a gauntlet of other comics. “I didn’t think it would be possible, but a lot of comics in Massachusetts and Worcester were very helpful in getting the word out to vote,” he said. “It was very big for me in that I felt very supported in the community
Those attending Mitra’s performance can expect a blend of topics, from observational to political and everything in between. “There is always a commentary throughout the act so I feel that it generally works well, in that people who want to just sit and laugh can enjoy it on that level and people who want to sit and laugh and think a little bit about what I’m saying, they also have that, too,” he said. “It works on both levels.” Mitra also likes to add plenty of sarcasm to go along with the wit in his standup routine, something he credits to his upbringing in Massachusetts. “I think in Worcester and Massachusetts, there’s sort of a vein of sarcasm that runs through us which you don’t realize when you’re in Massachusetts because you’re surrounded by it,” said Mitra, who now resides in New York. “That is something that I feel came to me from growing up in Massachusetts.” It has been at least two years since Mitra last performed in Worcester, and he says he is looking forward to returning and getting onstage at WooHaha for four shows in three nights, beginning Friday, May 9 through Saturday, May 10. “I’ve always felt that Massachusetts crowds are savvy audiences and I always have fun performing in front of crowds that get it,” he said. “It’s almost like you’re speaking the same language when you’re in Massachusetts because they grew up the way I grew up talking a little bit, so I’m looking forward to being able to commune with them in that way. It’ll be fun.”
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Events happening in Central Massachusetts: Shrewsbury Street Nurses Day Pub Crawl Join us on National Nurses Day for a pub crawl celebrating the health care professionals of Worcester. Participation open to the public. Each group will visit around seven bars. All groups will end at a mutual after-party location. Tickets include one beer ticket [valid at a specified location], snacks at each location, and a custom t-shirt. A portion of each ticket sold will be donated to a local charity. 2 p.m., May 11; Shrewsbury Street; $20; shrewsburystreetpubcrawl.com.
Paul Anka Sings Sinatra A note from Paul Anka: “The Anka Sings Sinatra tour will honor a great artist who has influenced me more than anyone else throughout my career, Frank Sinatra. It will also feature the hits that have spanned my career on this 60th anniversary year. It will be a night filled with his songs, my songs, my way!” 7:30 p.m., May 16; Hanover Theatre, 2 Southbridge St., Worcester; $62.50 - $150; thehanovertheatre.org/paulanka.
Her-Larious! The Art of Women’s Comedy Four Her-Lariously Diverse Women - Cynthia Gray, Latasha Hughes Thomasson, Lindita Taka and Kristy Kielbasinski - will take to the stage and have you roaring as they tackle the topics that we ladies relate to - no topic off limits! Music by the lovely DJ Stardust. This is an 18+ show. Cash Bar. Female-centric vendor area for some shopping in between sets! Join us Mother’s Day weekend for THE women’s comedy event of the year! 7 p.m., May 11; The Sprinkler Factory, 38 Harlow St., Worcester; $20 - $200; eventbrite.com.
Suya & Chill ( Memorial Day Weekend ) Day Party Come and enjoy the 2nd Annual Suya & Chill Day Party in your best denim outfits. Presented by Mr. Nay to celebrate the Memorial Day Weekend. Hosted by the Worcester PopUp and the Worcester Cultural Coalition, the event will feature free Suya (spicy beef kabobs), DJs, and live painting. This is a 21+ event. 5 p.m. through midnight on May 26 and May 27; Worcester PopUp, 20 Franklin St., Worcester; worcesterculture.org. t h epu ls emag.com
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It’s probably not what one would call a full-fledged party, but Dido’s first album in five years should give us all reason to celebrate. Her signature sound is a much-needed breath of fresh air for a pop world saturated in saccharine sans substance. Known for wearing her vulnerability like a badge of honor when it comes to her songwriting, Dido’s often somber, but always soothing vocals are still the highlight for listeners.
Listening to Weezer in 2019 is like being stuck in a relationship that has run its course. Against your better judgement, you stick around because the other person still does just enough of those little things that made you fall for them in the first place. That’s exactly the trick that Weezer likes to play with listeners on the long-awaited Black Album.
A triumphant return to 2000-era electronica, we hear the inspiration of Dido’s folk music roots and her hat tip to hip-hop. Her music is grown up, too, with lyrics that touch on loss but always feel triumphant in spite of themselves. Back in 1999, “Thank You” became known as her signature song for a reason, and while that song is nearly 20 years old now, this musical sensibility is at the root of everything we’ll hear on Still on My Mind. The proceedings are not all gloom and doom, of course. Dance beats bubble up and slowly simmer on this easy-tolisten-to album, too. With the full gamut of love-song angst (make-ups, break-ups, love lost, love found, marriage… and even motherhood), Still on My Mind showcases Dido’s most remarkable asset very well: her voice — think love child of The Cranberries’ Dolores O’Riordan and Sarah McLachlan. Sit back, relax and let Still on My Mind wash over you. It’s certainly worth a listen and is a solid entry in Dido’s musical catalog. For more information, please visit didomusic.com or follow her on Twitter @didoofficial.
Despite the brooding sound its title suggests, the Black Album is one of Weezer’s glossiest and poppiest records to date. It can also be very frustrating. “Living in L.A.,” an upbeat, soulless pop fart, sounds nothing like Weezer. Sure, go ahead and experiment. Push the boundaries of what you think your band can do, but try not to make it sound like such a contrived and desperate attempt at a radio hit. Hey, Rivers Cuomo, you’ve done this before and lost half your audience. Lucky for you, some of them came back when you released Everything Will Be Alright in the End and the White Album. Why make the same mistake twice? Cuomo ironically sings, “When I play guitar it’s sick” over the dance fuzz of “California Snow.” Please. Is Cuomo trolling his fans? It’s hard to tell, but the sometimes-charming sense of humor we have come to expect from him is still intact on “I’m Just Being Honest” and “Too Many Thoughts in My Head,” with him deadpanning on the latter, “I’m so high on cookies it’s insane.” “High as a Kite” is a mix of the old and new Weezer, a skeleton of yesteryear dressed in a loose-fitting suit, and is the most genuine sounding song here. “Piece of Cake” is a close second. To be fair, the Black Album can be fun to listen to, but unfortunately, it’s another addition to Weezer’s growing bin of guilty pleasures. It just sounds like a band trying to be something it’s not. Again. For more information, visit weezer.com.
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BILLIE EILISH /WHEN WE ALL FALL ASLEEP, WHERE DO WE GO? JENNIFER RUSSO You could probably call me a Billie Eilish superfan. A few years ago, when she emerged out of nowhere online with her hit “Ocean Eyes”, I was immediately enamored with her sound and had no idea that at the time, she was, what…14 years old? To have such a command of the voice and a confident style so young is inspiring, to say the very least. I have been following her ever since, so when her new album was released in late March, I had to download it immediately. Now, at only 17, she offers a deep and thoughtful album that hits every chord. It literally brings everything to the table – pop, hip-hop, punk, electronic, acoustic, jazz, a capella, distortion - and it’s downright weird in the very best way possible. The content of the album is surprisingly mature and dark, wrought with angsty cynicism, and discusses everything from death to addiction and heartbreak. It balances slow, unrelenting ballads with dance-worthy club style tracks with some well-placed background noise, like kids in a playground or random conversations. There is a creepiness factor to be sure with one song that talks about being the “bad guy” and hitting on someone’s dad, to a song from the perspective of someone contemplating jumping off a building. There is even a song where she enters in with a child’s singing voice and duets with her “younger self”, something I have never heard done, but is f***ing brilliant. And as much as there is darkness, there is also a good deal of humor to be found throughout the tracks. My favorite song by far is “You Should See Me in a Crown”. It’s so cool I won’t even explain it here – you have to hear it for yourself to see why it made it to the top for me. Check out her official website at billieeilish.com – she will be touring and hitting Boston on June 14th.
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Saving the World as Shaquille O’Neal in Shaq Fu: A Legend Reborn JASON SAVIO Sometimes the best way to enjoy a game is to turn your brain off and have fun. Shaq Fu: A Legend Reborn is one of those games. For those who may not know, this isn’t the first videogame to call former NBA player Shaquille O’Neal its star. A Legend Reborn is actually a reboot/quasi-sequel to the 1994 cult classic Shaq Fu. Like its predecessor, the Indiegogo funded Reborn is a bonkers fighting game that is way over the top in the best way possible.
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You play as the one and only Shaq against an evil force’s attempt to take over the world by using demons who look like celebrities to brainwash people. Yes, it’s that crazy. Crazy and hilarious. The humor in Reborn is the best part. You’ll square off against enemies who resemble, among others, a particular president and an annoying Canadian pop star, in settings that range from China to Hollywood to Hell. Shaq’s quips and observations (he provides his own voice) are priceless. When battling it out in China, he runs across an area named China Town, prompting him to ask, “Why is there a China Town…in China?” What’s even better is the fact that you replenish your health using Icy Hot, one of the many products Shaq endorses in real life. Gold Bond, another Shaqapproved product, is also prominently featured. The gameplay itself isn’t anything to really hoot about; it’s basically a button mashing, side-scrolling fighting game. You often get swarmed by hordes of enemies and have to punch and kick your way out, sometimes using special moves like the Shaq Wave. The controls aren’t necessarily great either: Shaq’s movements can be slow and clunky, causing you to get yourself stuck in tight spots, but one can figure that’s what it would be like if Shaq was trying to move around and fight evil mystic ninjas in real life anyway. All of this might sound like nonsense — a retired NBA player fighting off forces bent on world destruction — and it kind of is. But that’s the charm and wit of Reborn. It doesn’t take itself seriously and instead has a good time poking fun at itself and everyone else. At one point in Reborn, you get a metallic suit that runs on diesel, transforming you into Shaq Diesel, the same name as Shaq’s debut rap album. While throwing punches at a rapid pace, Shaq yells, “Hell, yes! I’m a diesel engine. Come get some!” before overheating. It basically sums up Shaq’s music career in a nutshell, and it’s great. If only more public figures had the same sense of humor.
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Fun Spring Reads APRIL GOODARD
Rich People Problems (Kevin Kwan) If you loved being lost in the world of Crazy Rich Asians and exploring the plot twists and turns of China Rich Girlfriend, you will be keen to dive into the last chapter of Kevin Kwan’s trilogy: Rich People Problems. Rejoin this lavish and overthe-top world as the finale takes the reader through the twists and turns of love, hate, reconciliation, and of course, revenge. This trilogy, at first read, divulged the lives of the supposed heir to Tyersall Park fortune, Nicholas Young, and his girlfriend-turned-wife, Rachel Chu. Through the trials and tribulations of Nicholas introducing Rachel to the infamous Young clan, the ultra-private lives of Singapore’s most wealthy families were brought to light. Rich People Problems offers a deeper exploration into the lives of the incredibly lovable (or not so lovable) characters of the first two novels, and brings their stories and intertwining relations to the forefront. Su Yi, matriarch of the Young family and owner of one of the vastest and leastknown estates on the island of Singapore, lies on what is presumed to be her deathbed. As formerly-assumed heir Nicholas Young has not seen or spoken to his grandmother, Su Yi, in a few years. Family from all around begin to come out of the woodwork, both to pay their final respects to Su Yi, and to find out who will be the sole heir to the grand estate that is Tyersall Park. With an estate of millions lying in the balance and everyone trying to prove that they’re worthy of it, this “Crazy Rich” world becomes a spectacle of relatives trying to outdo one another in an effort to gain Su Yi’s fortune. As the great race unfolds, there are people in the works trying to halt the return of Nicholas Young to Tyersall Park should he reconcile with his grandmother and then inherit the totality of the fortune. The story takes an even closer look into the extended family of the Youngs through scandal, heartbreak, and triumph and how everyone’s actions will dictate the outcome and the fate of the estate. But maybe, just maybe, Su Yi will go out with a bang. Presumptions made of the wealthy by the wealthy (or anyone else for that matter) are not always as they appear. If you are looking for a good mid-spring read, Kevin Kwan’s Rich People Problems is a phenomenal option.
Sleeping with the Enemy: Coco Chanel’s Secret War (Hal Vaughan) The name “Chanel” holds a slew of connotative meanings to almost everyone who is even slightly aware of the fashion world. Often synonymous with terms such as fashion, luxury, and tradition, the House of Chanel is a household name whose designs can be seen on everyone from high-profile celebrities to the average consumer. But who was Chanel, really? Who was the woman whose persona and memory are now seemingly larger than life? How was the empire you see today crafted as such? In the historic narrative Sleeping with the Enemy: Coco Chanel’s Secret War, we explore the woman behind the famous name. With historic accuracy in mind, Sleeping with the Enemy starts with the childhood and humble beginnings of Gabrielle “Coco” Chanel. The author takes us through what is believed to have been the most accurate depiction of her childhood to how she funded one of her first business endeavors through wealthy gentleman friends. The novel then explains who Chanel was through the roaring 20s of France and how she eventually became the fashion powerhouse of her day. But the story takes a drastic turn with the invasion of France by the Nazis during World War II, and her eventual collaboration with a German Nazi spy. Was Chanel really the woman of fashion and grace that she is known to be today? Or is a hidden past and shocking evidence of treason going to dishevel everything society knows about the legacy of Gabrielle Chanel?
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ENTERTAINMENT & NIGHTLIFE 435 Bar & Grill 435 Lancaster St., Leominster May 3: Mike Melendez May 4: Brian Chaffee May 10: Dan Cormier May 11: Alex Cohen May 17: Matt Soper May 18: Lizzy Marquis May 24: Dave Harrington May 25: Ethan & Ashley Caoette May 31: Midnight Sharp American Graffiti 113 Summer St., Lunenburg 978-345-1010 Art’s Diner 541 W. Boylston St., Worc. 774-530-6120 B-Man’s 140 Tavern 348 Redemption Rock Trail, Sterling 978-422-9763 140pub.com Sundays: Live Music The Banner Bar & Grille 112 Green St., Worc. 508-755-0879 thebannerbar.com Barbers Crossing (North) 175 Leominster Road, Sterling 978-422-8438 barberscrossingrestaurant.com Friday: Bill McCarthy Beatnik's 433 Park Ave., Worc. 508-926-8877 beatniksbeyou.com Thursday: Center Stage Karaoke Wednesday: Wednesday Night Mayhem May 3: Gold Star Boulevard May 4: Bang A Uey May 5: Pray4Me May 10: Afterlife Garage May 18: Easily Amused Billy’s Pub 81 Clinton St., Shrewsbury 508-425-3353 Black Sheep Tavern 261 Leominster Road, Sterling 978-422-8484 Friday: Live Music Saturday: Live Music Blueprint New American Bar & Grill 9 Village Square, Westminster 978-668-5580 May 4: Middlemen May 9: Mike Melendez May 10: Scott Babineau May 11: Evan Foisy May 16: Dan Cormier May 17: Eavesdrop May 18: Whitney Doucette May 23: Amanda Cote May 24: Dan Kirouac
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May 25: Lizzy Marquis May 30: Chris Reddy Acoustic Loops from Hell Boardroom 139 Water St., Worc. 508-757-6259 boardroomwoo.com Boulder Cafe 880 Main St., Fitchburg 978-345-0008 Breakaway Billiards 104 Sterling St., Clinton 978-365-6105 Bull Run Restaurant 215 Great Road, Shirley 978-425-4311, 877-536-7190 bullrunrestaurant.com Cedar Box Lounge 15 Hamilton St., Worc. 508-373-2314 Chuck’s Steak House and Margarita Grill 10 Prospect St., Auburn 508-832-2553 chucks.com Classic's Pub 285 Central St., Leominster 978-537-7750 classicspub.net Club Kasbar 234 Southwest Cutoff, Worc. 508-798-8385 Sunday: Karaoke Monday: Karaoke Tuesday: Karaoke Wednesday: Karaoke Columbia Tavern 28 Manning Ave., Leominster 978-751-8962 Compass Tavern 90 Harding St., Worc. 508-304-6044 thecompasstavern.com Friday: DJs Saturday: DJs May 3: David Garden May 10: FM Live May 24: Jay Graham Days End Tavern 287 Main St., Oxford 508-987-1006 May 3: In Dispute May 4: Dave Mack May 10: Jeff Anderson May 11: Papa Joe May 17: Brett Talbert May 31: Ron Jones & The Diehards The District 109 Water St., Worc. 508-756-2100 districtworcester.com Electric Haze 26 Millbury St, Worc. 508-799-0629 Firefly's / Dante's 350 E. Main St., Marlborough
508-357-8883 fireflysbbq.com Forty’s 1030 Central St., Leominster 978-534-7026 Frank’s 274 Shrewsbury St., Worc. 774-420-2253 Funky Murphy's Bar & Grill 305 Shrewsbury St., Worc. 508-753-2995 funkymurphys.com Sunday: Live Music Monday: Live Music Wednesday: Live Music Thursday: Live Music Gardner Ale House 74 Parker St., Gardner 978-669-0122 gardnerale.com Thursday: Big Music Nights & Audio Wasabi Friday: Live Music Saturday: Live Music Monday: Live Blues The GazBar Sports Grill 1045 Central St., Leominster thegazbar.com May 2: Jae Mannion May 3: Kevin Shields May 9: Amanda Cote May 10: Two Timers May 11: Randy McGravey May 16: Scott Babineau May 17: Ricky Booth May 18: Chris Terp May 23: Joe Macey May 24: The Maniac Loves You May 30: Rick Hamel May 31: Ashley & Ethan Greater Good Imperial Brewing Co. 55 Millbrook St., Worcester ggimperials.com. Wednesday: Game Time Trivia Greendale's Pub 404 W. Boylston St., Worc. 508-853-1350 greendalespub.com Sunday: Sunday Blues Wednesday: Wacky Wednesday jam May 3: Doc Ten May 4: Petty Larceny May 10: The Verge May 11: Fellowship of the King May 17: Riff Raff May 18: Benefit for Mike Gianfriddo May 24: Vinyl Junkies Benefit Party May 31: Windfall Halligan's Sports Bar and More 889 Southbridge St., Auburn 508-832-6793 halliganssportsbarandmore.com May 4 - May 5: Dock 10 Happy Jack’s 785 North Main St., Leominster 978-466-3433 May 3: Macey & Gerrits May 4: Red Bridge Duo May 5: Cinco De Mayo with Scott Babineau 2-5pm Mike Livingston 6-9pm May 10: Dave Malouin
May 11: Ken Macy May 17: Alan Goodrich May 18: Mike Moore May 24: Rick Hamel May 25: Amanda Cote May 31: Steve Tolley Hotel Vernon 1 Millbury St., Worc. Indian Ranch 200 Gore Road, Webster 508-943-3871 indianranch.com Leitrim's Pub 265 Park Ave., Worc. 508-798-2447 leitrimspub.com Loft 266 Bar & Lounge 266 Park Ave., Worc. 508-796-5177 loft266.com Tuesday: Karaoke Tuesdays Starting Wednesday: Music Bingo Wednesdays Thursday: DJ X Kaliber Friday: DJ Joe T Saturday: DJ Joe T May 3: Jay Graham Marty's Pub 225 Canterbury St., Worc. 508-754-0033 martyspub.com MB Lounge 40 Grafton St., Worc. 508-799-4521 mblounge.com Wednesday: Karaoke with Mikey Mic's Medusa Brewing Company 111 Main St., Hudson 978-310-1933 medusabrewing.com Thursday: Open Mic Night May 3: Steve Burke May 4: The Promise is Hope May 5: Jazz Sunday with Dave Schneider May 10: Mike Macdonald of Strange Machines May 11: Downtown Funk Down featuring Stephen Lewis Big Band of Fun, Quadrafunk, The Trip & Bazookafoot May 17: Ricardo Barraza May 18: Big Jon Short May 19: Sunday Songwriter Series May 25: Gentle Temper May 26: Beatles Night with Brian Chaffee, Mike Melendez & Graham Brown May 31: Dave Ashman Jr Michael’s Cigar Bar 1 Exchange Place, Worc. 508-459-9035 michaelscigar.com May 3: Real Cool Cats May 4: Hit the Bus May 5: Hot Letter Duo May 8: Mike Melendez May 9: Jodee & Brian May 10: Doctor Robert May 11: Jim Devlin Band May 15: Kevin Shields May 16: Jim Devlin May 17: McKinley's Mood May 18: Abraxas
May 23: Mike Melendez May 24: Blue Light Bandits May 25: Ambient Sojourn May 30: Hot Letter Duo May 31: The Brumbletones The Mill 185 185 W. Boylston St., W. Boylston 774-261-8585 themill185.com May 3: Ken Macy May 4: Doctor Robert May 9: Scott Babineau May 10: Chad Clements May 11: Sarah Carcia May 16: Night Train May 17: Jay Graham May 18: Ricky Duran May 23: Belit May 25: Sam James May 30: Daniel Cormier May 31: FM Live Mill City Pub 19 Airport Rd., Fitchburg 978-342-2134 May 4: Neon Alley May 10: Darren Bessette May 11: Max Recoil May 17: Kevin Shields May 18: Go Gadget Go May 24: Riff Raff May 25: Overdrive May 31: Ash Boys The Monument Tap 13 Central St., Leominster 978-798-4653 monumenttap.com May 5: Big Dave & The Captain May 24: Chris Reddy Acoustic Loops from Hell The Muse 536 Main St., Worc. 508-756-6873 Nick's Bar and Restaurant 124 Millbury St., Worc. 508-753-4030 Olde Post Office Pub 1 Ray St., N. Grafton 508-839-6106 Padavano’s Place 358 Shrewsbury St., Worc. 774-823-3022 padavanosplace.com Tuesday: Padavano's Place $1000 SingerSongwriter Contest Thursday: Josh Briggs & Friends May 4: Trakdown May 5: Cinco de Mayo Party featuring Lisa Marie & All Shook Up! May 5: Right Through You/Burning Sky May 8: The Lounge Cats May 10: Press Play with Ken Tracy May 11: Roberta & the Guise The Palladium 261 Main St., Worc. 508-797-9696 thepalladium.net May 3: Andy Black May 4: Falling In Reverse May 7: Turnover May 17: Palaye Royale May 20: Architects May 22: Blessthefall
May 24: Tobias Sammet's Avantasia May 25: Vanish & Wind Walkers
Velazquez, Logun [Michael Arrastia], Nu Element
Park Grill and Spirits 257 Park Ave., Worc. Partner's Pub 970 South St., Fitchburg 978-345-5051 partnerspub.com Sunday: Karaoke Wednesday: Karaoke Friday: Karaoke May 4: Brother Kerry & The Hoptones May 11: Rock It May 18: Sean Daley & The Hooligans
River Styx Brewing 166 Boulder Dr., Fitchburg http:www.riverstyxbrewing.com May 3: Midnight Sharp May 9: Walter Salas Humara May 10: Food Truck Festival with Katie Dobbins & The Hunter's Bow May 11: The Ashboys May 17: Sean Daley May 19: Truett May 31: Ryan Hood
Patsie Dugan's 49 Millbury St., Worc. 508-755-4155 patsiedugans.com The Pint 58 Shrewsbury St., Worc. 508-414-1314 Point Breeze On the Lake 114 Point Breeze Road, Webster 508-943-0404 pointbreezeonwebsterlake.com Press Box 536 Lincoln St., Worc. 508-856-9255 Saturday: Karaoke Saturdays May 17: Kryngle Daly Purgatory Beer Company 670 Linwood Ave, Whitinsville 508-596-2194 Quinn’s Irish Pub 715 W. Boylston St., Worc. 508-459-2025 quinnsirishpub.com May 3: Terry Brennan May 4: Kevin Shields May 8: Josh Briggs May 9: Chris Reudiger May 11: Graham Brown May 12: John Brazile May 15: Chris Reddy Acoustic Loops from Hell May 16: John Brazile May 17: Sam James May 18: Timmy Brown May 19: Sarah Carcia May 22: Kevin Shields May 23: Sam James May 24: Annie Brobst May 26: Graham Brown May 29: Josh Briggs May 30: John Brazile May 31: Ashley Jordan Ralph's Chadwick Square Diner 148 Grove St., Worc. 508-753-9543 ralphsrockdiner.com The Raven 258 Pleasant St., Worc. 508-304-8133 Wednesday: Open Mic May 4: The Muckrakers / Hollow Betrayal / Mudf*ck / Gannon May 10: Mayfield/DangerofFalling/ Northwoods/NeedlePlay/DWD/ Circumstances May 11: K'nen, Ghost of the Machine, Death Over Simplicity, DannyFantom
Rock Bar 81 Water St., Worcester 774-243-7000 Thursday: Rock Star Karaoke May 3: Getaway Rocks May 4: On the Rocks May 8: Red Bridge Duo May 10: Wicked Garden May 12: Dezi Garcia May 15: Red Bridge Duo May 17: The Sunset Strippers May 18: The Verge May 19: Amanda Cote May 22: Red Bridge Duo May 24: Booty & The Jett May 25: Rattlesnake Shake May 26: Dezi Garcia May 29: Red Bridge Duo May 31: The Trip Rye & Thyme 14 Monument Square, Leominster 978-534-5900 ryeandthyme.com May 3: Invisible Sun May 4: De La High May 5: Dwayne Haggins May 9: Chris Reddy Acoustic Loops from Hell May 10: Nico Rivers & The Black Grass May 11: Daemon Chili May 16: Amanda Cote May 17: Ken Macy Band May 18: Caves on Mars May 19: The Promise is Hope May 24: Joe Sabourin Trio May 25: Jodee Frawlee Band May 26: Lizzy Marquis May 30: Scott Babineau May 31: Hot Mess Singapore Restaurant 170 Whalon St., Fitchburg 978-345-0132 www.facebook.com/ singaporerestaurantMA May 31 - Jun 1: Doctor Robert South Side Grille & Margarita Factory 242 W. Broadway, Gardner 978-632-1057 southsidemargaritafactory.com May 3: Lost Artifacts May 4: Whiskey Johnson May 5: Cinco De Mayo w/Brett Casavant & Kyle and Matt Black May 10: Steve Tolley May 11: Midnight Sharp May 12: Darren Bessette May 17: Dave Andrews May 18: Gold Rush May 19: Spud Kelly Jam May 24: Red Bridge Duo May 25: Phineas Gage May 31: Amanda Cote
Spruce Street Tavern 68 Spruce St., Clinton 978-368-1255 sprucestreettavern.com The Tavern on Central 3 Central St., Ashburnham 978-827-1272 thetavernoncentral.com May 3: Lizzy Marquis May 4: Dave Harrington May 10: Neon Alley May 11: JCDC May 17: Midnight Sharp May 18: Lost Artifacts May 24: Brian Chaffee May 25: Scott Babineau May 31: Tim & Lou Victory Bar & Cigar 56 Shrewsbury St., Worc. 508-756-4747 victorycigarbar.com Vincent's Bar 49 Suffolk St., Worc. 508-752-9439 Tuesday: Boogie Chillin' Tuesdays Wachusett Brew Yard 175 State Rd. E, Westminster 978-874-9965 http:www.wachusettbrewingcompany.com May 4: Boothill Express Duo May 5: Pete Towler May 10: Acoustic Friday with TC & Wendy May 11: Hitchcock Blondes May 12: Kevin Shields May 18: Music for Life Rock & Roll 5K Run May 19: Acoustic Sunday with Scott Babineau May 25: Hot Mess Whiskey Hookah Lounge 316 Main St., Worc. Whiskey on Water 97 Water St., Worc. 774-578-8829 Sunday: Video Karaoke with DJ Soup Wednesday: Video Karaoke with DJ Soup Thursday: DJ Cuz'n Kev May 3: Tequila Bonfire May 3: DJ Tec Threat May 4: Travelling Wanna B's May 10: Eric Pacquette May 11: Mockingbbirds May 17: Moonshine Band May 18: Gunpowder & Lead May 24: Alex 2E Duo May 25: Jeff Rosen Band May 31: Hit the Bus White Eagle Polish Club 112 Green St., Worc. 774-245-1991 Thursday: Musical Bingo Thursday: DJ Cookie Friday: DJ's May 4: Flock of Assholes May 5: Cinco De Mayo Party May 11: DJ Cookie May 18: Peter Ward WiFi May 18: Funny 4 Funds - Comedy Fundraiser May 25: DJ Cookie t h epu ls emag.com
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BY JUSTIN PERRY
CHUCK'S STEAKHOUSE – AUBURN
BREW CITY – WORCESTER
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EL BASHA – WORCESTER
J ANTHONY'S – AUBURN
FUNKY MURPHYS – WORCESTER
VICTORY – WORCESTER
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3 WAYS TO CELEBRATE YOUR STEPMOM THIS MOTHER’S DAY ALEXANDRA STIEGLBAUER
I’m going to put it bluntly: being a child of divorce is difficult. There are many wonderful things that stepparents bring into our lives and more often than not, we’re glad that our parents are separated. The dynamics of building a new family, however, are challenging. Consider that one in four marriages involve a remarriage and you’ll realize just how many stepparents there are. Although there are many books and resources available for new stepparents, I’ve found very limited resources for teenagers and adult children. Navigating holidays like Mother’s Day can be difficult for those of us who have a step-mom to celebrate in addition to our biological mother, because we don’t have the tools to navigate the feelings of stress and the expectations that are often involved. Use the ideas below to help create a memorable Mother’s Day for all of the moms in your life.
1. BE AUTHENTIC Honor your stepmom the way that you want to. If that means a card that doesn’t include the word “mom” or “step-mom,” that’s fine. Perhaps you simply thank her for being a caring woman in your life. Honesty is always the best policy, and there is no point in using sappy sentiments if they aren’t truly felt. On the flip side, you may be very close with your stepmother and want to express that. Go ahead and buy a card that simply says “mom” on it! My relationship with my stepmom has evolved over the years and I’ve found that staying true to that is the best way to celebrate her. It started with a nice card that didn’t mention the word “mom” or “stepmom” and quickly stopping by her house to say “hello” and wish her a happy Mother’s Day. Now, all of my cards are simply addressed “mom,” and I spend most of the holiday with her. Leaving room for relationships to grow and change is key to building a happy stepfamily.
2. CREATE NEW TRADITIONS A good way to honor both your biological mom and step-mom, or “mom without stretch marks” as I like to say, is to create different traditions for both. This helps both women feel special and allows you to honor them based on your specific relationship. One way might be a fancy brunch, and the other might
be spending time working in the garden together. Again, these can evolve over the years as well. If you happen to only be celebrating your step-mom, still create new traditions. I’ve found this helps our family feel special in our own way and eliminates the comparison or sadness that inevitably comes up when practicing the traditions we had predivorce. Finding new ways to celebrate as a family of choice will strengthen your bond and make your stepmom feel especially loved.
3. BE GRATEFUL The more people who love and support you, the luckier you are. Although it can be difficult at first to get excited about having a stepparent, reframe your thinking and be grateful for an additional person to be loved by. This can take time, but over the years I’ve come to find incredible gratitude and joy for what my stepmom and stepbrother bring to my life and our family. Sharing your gratitude will also help the rest of your family come to accept the divorce. Often, children struggle with feelings of betrayal when they get close to their new stepparent. Positive affirmation from the biological parent towards the new bond is invaluable and helps alleviate that guilt. It may be on you as the adult child to start this conversation with your biological mother. Share with her the positive things your stepmom brings to your life and how lucky you feel to have two women to learn from and be loved by. Reassure her that your stepmom is not taking her place, but that you do want to feel supported in that relationship. If your mother is a mature adult, she will be happy for you and put aside any hard feelings she has. This may take time, but practicing gratitude yourself will help you navigate the dynamics in a more peaceful way. Holidays with new stepfamilies can be difficult at first, but staying authentic to your feelings, creating new traditions and practicing gratitude for these new relationships will help you create your family of choice. Best wishes for a Happy Mother’s Day, and remember that if your actions have positive intent, the day will be memorable for all.
Alexandra (Ali) Stieglbauer is the co-author of Chasing Perfection and the Business and Communications Manager at YESS! - Your Extraordinary Success Strategies. Her love of reading and writing incorporate well into her role at YESS! and her favorite assignments include conducting client interviews and running the company’s blog and newsletter. She serves as an admin to the three chapters of the Women Presidents’ Organization. Connect with her on LinkedIn.
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OUT & ABOUT: Intersectionality
SHADES REPRESENTS INTERSECTIONALITY IN THE LGBTQIA+ COMMUNITY OF COLOR. Last September, Bri Brewer, Chair of the SHADES Sub-Committee, had an idea to create a space for intersectional identities. In the diversity studies world, “intersectional identities” refers to the fact that people identify as more than one thing at the same time. One doesn’t walk into a room only identifying as their sexual orientation, but also their gender identity and, of course, their color. We in the LGBTQIA+ community pride ourselves on being inclusive, but sadly we fall short. This is especially true when it comes to the inclusion of people of color or those who do not identify as White in our culture. Brewer said, “Worcester is such a multicultural city! It has been for quite a while, that is why we feel the time is right, especially in the current political climate, locally as well as nationally.” Brewer said that there were others before her who tried to be inclusive as well. When Brewer pitched the idea of a sub-committee to Worcester Pride, the committee was onboard. By February of this year, the SHADES sub-committee were having regular meetings and planning action. The name SHADES refers to the variety, or “shades” of the people they hope to represent. The sub-committee created their mission and values statement and have been mapping out events throughout the year to promote inclusion. “We are proud to be able to support the multitude of communities that make up the LGBT+ People of Color populace of Worcester. We are looking forward to the discussions, events, and memories that we will make together,” said Brewer. She went on to say that they as a committee want to thank the community for giving Pride a second chance and that SHADES is not just a space for people of color, but also for allies. They want to highlight cultural holidays as well as have events and educational offerings that are relevant to the LGBTQIA+ People of Color community. The main event they are planning for Pride Week is a commUNITY mixer with the theme “there is no community without unity.” Brewer and the team she has assembled want people to know that they are welcome no matter what their intersectional identity is, but that people have to be willing to work together in unity. She said, “We want the community to know we have heard you, and we have created a space where you are welcome...free of bias.” Their meetings occur on the 2nd and 4th Monday of each month at Pathways for Change. If you would like more information please contact them at ShadesWP@ gmail.com -JOHN TROBAUGH
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WEBSTER • UPTON • GRAFTON • SUTTON • NORTHBRIDGE • DOUGLAS • UXBRIDGE • MILLVILLE
NORTHBRIDGE • SUTTON • GRAFTON • UPTON • WEBSTER • MENDON • MILFORD • HOPEDALE • BELLINGTON • BLACKSTONE
MENDON • MILFORD • HOPEDALE • BELLINGTON • BLACKSTONE • MILLVILLE • UXBRIDE • DOUGLAS
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May 1, 2019
420 IN THE 508: THC vs. CBD
Thank you all for coming to my TED Talk, because today’s subject is not industry, ethics or anything like that: it’s science! Not that surface level stuff we discussed in the hydroponics article either, we’re going deep, folks...on a molecular level! That’s right, someone with a Bachelor’s in English and who took one Psychology class is going to talk science for the next 432 words, starting now! Almost anything that enters our body has some sort of chemical that is meant to trigger some kind of reaction. For example, sugar is a chemical compound that not only makes things sweet but also releases a chemical in the brain known as dopamine. This chemical is essentially the pleasure response for almost everything we do. If you ever wondered why eating feels good, it’s because your brain is rewarding you for doing it. Sugar,in this case, is an accelerant because it releases more dopamine than if you just ate a steak. Another important chemical is serotonin, which helps to regulate mood, sleep and appetite. All the chemicals in your brain, however, are not always helpful. An excess or deficiency in the two chemicals I just described can lead to some serious problems, such as seizures, addiction, depression, and so on. There’s also the risk of overstimulating the sensors in your brain that want to release these chemicals when your body doesn’t feel the benefits anymore. This can lead to individuals trying to compensate by overindulging in the thing that once made them happy: for example, being a smoker who smoked once a day switching to twenty cigarettes a day as time passes. What does this have to do with weed? Quite a lot actually because the chemicals present in various strains of this product contribute to the raising or lowering of these brain juices. Tetrahydrocannabinol (THC) is the one we’re all familiar because it’s the one that gets people talkative, giggly, and all of those other things we see in the movies. THC increases the amount of dopamine released in the brain, which is what prompts that euphoria. Cannabidiol (CBD), on the other hand, is much more of a calming agent, meant to reduce the production of serotonin. If you think of THC as an accelerant of brain activities and CBD as a depressor, then you get the basic idea of how medical marijuana is prescribed for certain conditions. Depression caused by low serotonin levels? THC. Epilepsy triggered by the overabundance of dopamine? CBD. Unless some new plant life grows in tandem with marijuana and inherits new properties mingling with the familiar ones, all we can do for now is wait to see if even more health benefits can be uncovered through these compounds. If you feel like a strain of the green stuff can help with your mental affliction, just make sure to be descriptive and do your research, because getting a THC strain when you need a CBD one can be counterproductive and possibly painful.
- ELLIOT MERCIER
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THE LUXE LIST
SPRING FITNESS FINDS MERILEE KERN
Today’s fashion scene is bursting with fab fitness apparel and accessory trends that’ll have you steppin’ out in style. Here are a few notable wearables that exemplify some of my favorite fitness fashion staples of this season:
CUFFITS
Spring is all about making a fresh fashion statement. So, if you’re tired of wearing the same black leggings for exercise but don’t want to spend money on a variety of cute workout pants, then easily change up your fitness attire with Cuffits. They’ll let you customize the look of your ordinary leggings by adding bright and colorful interchangeable cuffs to the bottom. Cuffits come in many different colors and fashionable designs and patterns, so the styling options are seemingly endless. You even can match your attire with your Cuffits and have the perfect outfit in just seconds. Just slide each cuff onto your calf and a silicone elastic band holds them in place, even during exercise. So no need to sport that boring workout gear, or overspend to have a bunch of different legwear options. Cuffits can help your fitness fashion budget go further, for less! cuffits.com.
MYPHONEPOUCH CELL PHONE CARRIER
Here’s a great way to help someone stop misplacing their phone and wasting valuable time looking for it! MyPhonePouch is a sleek, innovative solution allowing you to carry your cell phone securely and accessibly on your hip. This soft, stretchy pouch is worn tucked over any snug, sturdy waistband to instantly add pockets to an outfit. Designed by Allison Santini, it’s especially great for those women and girls who often lack pockets on their outfits. It’s great with leggings, yoga pants, sweats, shorts, skirts, slacks and other pocketless garments. Made of high-density performance fabric, MyPhonePouch is available in different colors and sizes to fit most phones. myphonepouch.com.
CRAZYBABY AIR NANO WIRELESS EARBUDS
The Air Nano Wireless Earbud by Crazybaby is a great gifting option. The classic bullet design of these wire-free earbuds offers a snug fit for all types of ears, making them perfect for running, jogging and other rigorous activities. The soft material that makes up the wingtip is water-washable, anti-static and removable (different size options come bundled). It uses the industry’s leading 998 custom-made Carbon Nanotube Diaphragms, enabling crystal-clear acoustics that facilitate an immersive music listening experience. These earbuds boast eight to 12 hours of playback time for all day use. Super fuel technology allows a quick five minute charging window for a full 90 minutes of playback. Precision engineering has resulted in an ultra-compact charging case design that can fit in the smallest pockets without worrying about cables tangling up. The Crazybaby Air Nano Wireless Earbuds are available in 10 trendsetting, vibrant colors with plenty of choices to match your personal style. crazybaby.com.
LEBODY
Get spa-level results in the comfort of your own home with LeBody! The leading Korean beauty-technology company just launched in the United States this past December, offering two devices that bring professional-level technology directly to the consumer. The LeBody Face is a compact beauty device that uses electrical ionization and micro-currents to stimulate elastin in the skin for an instant lifting effect, while absorbing active ingredients, rearranging collagen and improving skin elasticity. The LeBody Form uses EMS mid-frequency to strengthen muscles and increase energy consumption to burn fat components in the body by directly stimulating and activating the muscles for a slimming effect. LeBody products allow consumers to use advanced, cutting-edge technology in the comfort of their own homes. lebodyusa.com.
As the Executive Editor and Producer of “The Luxe List,” Merilee Kern is an internationally-regarded consumer product trends expert and hospitality industry voice of authority—a travel, dining, leisure and lifestyle expert who spotlights noteworthy marketplace innovations, change makers, movers and shakers. She reports on exemplary travel destinations and experiences, extraordinary events and newsworthy products and services across all categories. Reach her online at www.TheLuxeList.com, on Twitter at www.Twitter.com/LuxeListEditor, on Facebook at www.Facebook.com/TheLuxeList and on Instagram at www.Instagram.com/LuxeListReviews.
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NORTH COUNTY • DINING • ENTERTAINMENT • NIGHTLIFE • SHOPPING • NORTH COUNTY • DINING • SHOPPING
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FOOD + DR I N K
DINING REVIEW
MEXICALI CANTINA GRILL: FLAVOR & FUN! BERNIE WHITMORE
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hen the British Beer Company (BBC) opened at this location on 225 Shrewsbury Street, not so many years ago, I was surprised to see such a lavish investment with theme-park elements touch down on Worcester’s Restaurant Row. After all, the city’s dining scene was experimenting with cuisine and discovering what we, as a community, could achieve. The BBC didn’t feel like any of that, so when they closed I wasn’t sure if I should feel vindicated or sorry for the failure. Chalk up another one for Darwin’s Theory of Natural Selection. On the street built by Italian cuisine, it was surprising to see Mexican fare fill the void that the BBC left behind. Mexican might work, but it would take more than hanging a few sombreros on the wall and frying churros for dessert. These thoughts were on my mind when I met my friend for our first meal at Mexicali Cantina. I’d been to their location in Holden, so I knew it wasn’t a freezer-to-deepfryer operation. Still, I promised myself to focus lasersharp on the cuisine. Forgoing my usual draft beer selection process, I asked Juanita, our server, for a margarita recommendation. For some reason she intuited I wanted ‘strong’ drink and guided me to the Presidente, a mix of Casadores Tequila, orange liqueur and Presidente brandy. It arrived in a thick glass chalice whose stem was made of globs of green glass shaped like cacti. The first indication that dinner at Mexicali might transcend my expectations was, innocently enough, their salsa. I’d come to expect little more than something poured out of a jar at most Mexican-American
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restaurants, but this one was different and was even subtle. With flecks of cilantro and bits of red pepper it had something of a smoky smolder that gathered to a pleasant after-burn. Forget the tortilla chips, I finished my little bowl with a spoon! Our appetizer, Guacamole Fresco for two, was billed as ‘made to order’. Within moments of ordering it, a young woman was wheeling a cart to our table and slicing open creamy-ripe avocadoes. Delightfully bashful, her command of English was sufficient to guide us through the specifications. Lime? Yes. Chilis? Yes. Cilantro? Yes. Basically, 'yes' to all options. The mashed-up results were a vibrantly delicious guacamole. The touch of lime accented the avocado flavor and she deftly balanced the textures and flavors with all the other ingredients. Mexicali’s menu is extensive with all the sections you’ve come to expect in Mexican cuisine. But they also had a full-color laminated supplement with an item that piqued my interest. I usually ignore plastic-coated menus on the presumption that they’re pushing pre-packaged fare that’s the most profitable and least fulfilling. However, when I spotted Sopa de Mariscos my entrée decision was made.
brothiness. Each species of mariscos was tender, juicy and fresh. Lovers of bouillabaisse should take note of this dish; Mexicali’s Sopa de Mariscos is a great value and a wonderfully tasty dining opportunity. Generous portioning was also in force with my friend’s entrée, Pork Carnitas. This huge plate-load featured guacamole, rice and refried beans topped with melted queso fresco. The real attraction, though, was the pork; five or six large cuts of slow cooked pork loin in a garlicky tomato broth. My friend enthused, “The star of the dish is the pork with big robust flavors. This place isn’t bashful with flavor!” Even our dessert, Flan, was exceptional. Another large portion, it had the classic creamy custard consistency one expects. However, its flavor was extended dimensionally by the infusion of coffee liqueur. Fear not, this wasn’t a cloyingly sweet adjustment; the hint of coffee flavor was perfectly restrained. Our visit to Mexicali Cantina Grill was a welcome surprise. The décor had been updated with restraint, the music was Pan-American with flourishes of salsa you’ll want to tag with Shazam. But the best part was the cuisine; generous flavors and portions served by a team that delivered friendly hospitality.
So much for that belief system! My bowl of seafood soup proved to be a special treat.
Isn’t that the formula that made Shrewsbury Street famous?
I was served a deep bowl of spicy-rich sofrito based broth just packed with seafood and a few stray slices of savory vegetables. The chef lavished the portion with several jumbo shrimp, chunks of white fish, scallops, mussels and baby clams ‘in shell’. The steaming bowl had just the right degree of spicy heat and luxurious fish-flavored
Mexicali Cantina Grill 225 Shrewsbury Street, Worcester 508-926-8811 https://mexicaligrillrestaurant.com/menus/ worcester-ma/
HOT & NOW:
What’s hot and happening now in the restaurant scene Let’s be frank. Frank’s on Shrewsbury Street has closed and reopened under new ownership with a new name and look. Medusa Saloon opened at the end of April according to new owners Penny Marston and Monte Snellenberger. For those who forget their Greek mythology, Medusa was a Greek goddess who had snakes for hair. Taco Tatnuck. Pepe’s Taqueria will soon open in Worcester’s Tatnuck
Square, right up the street from Worcester State University. A great location for all those hungry college kids.
Speaking of college students. La Terrazza, the Mexican restaurant located on Worcester’s Park Avenue is branching out and opening a second location in Main South, near Clark University Route 20 gets a new eatery. Family Table & Tap is opening in the old
Papa Gino’s location on Route 20 at 545 Southwest Cutoff. As its name implies this will be a family friendly place.
New addition to downtown. Protein House opened on Worcester’s Front Street in April. The health food restaurant is occupying first floor space at 145 Front Street, Worcester’s newest apartment complex. What happened to Rovezzi’s? Rovezzi’s in Sturbridge is closed and appears to be for sale. Owner and Chef Chris Rovezzi maintains that it is closed for repairs but other sources say it is being sold. If you didn’t make it to Mardi Gras. A new restaurant, NOLA Cajun
Kitchen, opened at 340 West Boylston Street, in West Boylston. The New Orleans themed eatery took the place of a long-time hot dog stand. We hear good things are coming out of the kitchen.
Don’t axe me. Pixels & Pints will soon open at 179 Grafton Street in Worcester. Owner Jason Eastty had proposed putting an axe throwing bar in, but the License Committee baulked at the idea so he changed the concept to a retro style game - themed bar. Pac Man anyone? Are we doing a flip flop? Holden restaurant Flip Flops undergoes a name change as Elena Viapiano takes over the eatery from her father and longtime owner, Nick Viapiano. Elena is a graduate of the New England Culinary Institute. The new name of the eatery will be The Local Tavern.
Weintraub’s closes. As we reported earlier, Weintraub’s Deli on Worcester’s Water Street shut its doors in the middle of April after almost a century of serving kosher food to Worcester’s Jewish Community. Water Street was once the epicenter of Jewish life in the city. Say Om. Om will be the name of the city’s new Indian Restaurant openning soon on Water Street in the Canal District. The owners formerly owned a restaurant on Worcester’s Shrewsbury Street for over six years.
More American-Italian food. Russo’s is set to open also in the Canal
District in the middle of May. The menu will feature traditional Italian American family fare such as Chicken Parmesan, Lasagna, and Ravioli. The chef has promised to use his talents on the nightly specials. According to owner Ed Russo, who also owns Lock 50, the prices will be affordable and family friendly. Mangia! -PAUL GIORGIO
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NEW AROUND THE WOO
CEDAR BOX LOUNGE RACHEL SHUSTER
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ocated at 15 Hamilton Street in Worcester, Cedar Box Lounge is a new high-end cigar bar offering the Worcester community a unique experience. Owner Charles Youssef says that business has been a success ever since opening on January 2nd. “It’s been going great,” he said. “Customers are getting familiar with us and it’s been a great start.” As for the name, “Cedar Box Lounge,” Youssef explains there were two elements in choosing the company name. “Every cigar comes in a cedar wood type of box. Also, our humidor (a humidity-controlled box) is made out of cedar wood. Cedar wood does not create mold when it’s humid. It protects the wood from mold, and humidors are supposed to keep cigars in good condition. So, that’s where the name came from.” Youssef describes the space as a “cigar lounge designed in a way that when a customer comes in, they will be extremely comfortable.” Youssef spent a lot of effort creating a comfortable environment where people can enjoy and entertain themselves. “It’s a place where
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people can meet, converse and enjoy a cigar,” he said. “We have very high ceilings, almost 16 feet, so the smoke is not an issue. All our furniture is made of leather, we have seven different areas to sit as a group, plus nice stools around the bar. Smoking a cigar is a very timeconsuming thing. It takes almost an hour, so I want to provide the best and most comfortable environment for our customers.”
"I WANT TO PROVIDE THE BEST AND MOST COMFORTABLE ENVIRONMENT FOR OUR CUSTOMERS."
Worcester will grow with Cedar Box Lounge, and will welcome something different and different clientele from cities and towns,” he said. Cedar Box Lounge also offers some appetizers to munch on. “We have some finger food, appetizers – something to snack on while you’re enjoying a cigar and/or wine, bourbons, etc.,” Youssef said. “We have some cheeses, flatbreads and other small items,” he added. Pricing for these items range from $8 to $13.
Youssef is no stranger to the hospitality industry. “I have owned three pizza places in the city and was involved in some night clubs before that,” he said. “I also love to smoke cigars, so all those put together inspired me to open a cigar bar.”
Youssef mentioned that he has hosted a couple of events at Cedar Box Lounge, and is working on more in the future. “I am talking to a couple different bands, hoping to have live music on Fridays and Saturdays,” he said. “I want to make sure those bands, and any live music we have, provide entertainment, but also [that they] keep the environment nice and comfortable, matching the relaxed atmosphere of the lounge itself.”
As Worcester grows, Youssef hopes that Cedar Box Lounge will add a uniqueness to the city. “There’s a lot of new things happening in the city and I’m hoping
FOR MORE INFORMATION ON CEDAR BOX LOUNGE, CONTACT 508-373-2314. SEE YOU THERE!
PULSEBREW: On Your Mark, Get Set... Go Drink Beer!
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y fiancée Briana has a dream of one day running the Boston Marathon. She’s been a runner for years. It’s an exercise I loathe but that she loves, once I can get her out the door. Someday soon, she’ll join thousands of other runners at the start line in Hopkinton and, once the starter pistol fires, follow Pheidippides’s example and run 26 miles to Boston. The Boston Marathon, along with being the oldest annual marathon in the world, has held a special place in the hearts of New Englanders since the bombings in 2013. It is a symbol of athletic strength, personal sedulity, and community. I look forward to the day when I can cheer on Briana as she crosses the finish line, exhausted but overcome with pride. No doubt after her run, she’ll be wanting a much-deserved beer in a few hours’ time. Since we pass through Hopkinton on our way home, it’d be foolish not to pick up some brews from the aptly named Start Line Brewing Co. Located at Water Fresh Farm, Start Line’s beers are brewed using hydroponic hops grown on site. Their symbol is a turtle, indicative of the old fable which showcases their commitment to taking time and effort to craft good beer. We were introduced to Start Line just recently, on an evening when the weather forced us out of doors for a walk. On our way home, we stopped at our local package store in search of an evening refreshment. From the depths of the front cooler, a tall, honey gold can crested with a bumblebee caught our eyes: Honey Ritual Pale Ale. We were intrigued by the addition of locally-sourced honey to the ingredients list. Since we’d never sampled a beer brewed with honey - a surprising realization considering our various hoppy adventures - we eagerly bought a four-pack. You needn’t expect an assault of sweetness. The beer is surprisingly crisp and dry. This fact is advertised on the can, but it caught us off guard nonetheless. A mildly hoppy start, citrus and floral notes struck the palate on the finish. Altogether, a satisfying beer. With warm weather on the forecast and another successful marathon in the books, the season of chilled refreshment has finally returned. And I can now endorse Honey Ritual Pale Ale as an accompaniment to a sunny day. Be advised, however: you needn’t run 26 miles to enjoy this beer.
-RYAN CASHMAN
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FINDING BALANCE: The Mountain
On our life journeys, we are inevitably going to encounter a few mountains‌life events that block our path and often seem to show up out of nowhere, towering to the sky in what may seem an impossible barrier to everything we are trying to achieve. Their arrival may come as a shock to us or we may have seen the peak looming on the horizon as we made our way to where we now stand. Now, in its presence, we may feel discouraged, angry, or uncertain of what to do next. Sometimes, they also block our light, making it hard to navigate or understand our own potential and see the strength within. It may be difficult, when in the situation, to switch our perspective and view it as an opportunity, but that is exactly what it is. When these mountains block our way, it is a chance to reevaluate the journey. What do we need to become in order to face this in the best possible way? Perhaps the mountain is supposed to be there so that we can develop a critical skill that will be the tool we need on another part of the road, or even to help a stranger that we encounter later on that path facing a similar decision. Mountains are challenging. They require us to make decisions. Will we turn back and if we do will we regret it? Will we try to find a way around it? What if that takes longer than we want it to? Will we attempt the climb and if so, is it worth the risk of the fall? Though these may not be easy decisions to make, the outcome will always be better than remaining still. Find the positive, in that regardless of which choice you make, there will be learning and growth. The pure and present light in me honors the pure and present light in you. Namaste. -JENNIFER RUSSO
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ART + CULTU R E
SPORTS & FITNESS
SPRING REGATTA MAKES WAVES IN WORCESTER
Fitchburg State University’s Drag Show from April 2018
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s spring is officially underway, cities and towns begin to come alive with outdoor activities as the temperatures get warmer. Lake Quinsigamond is perhaps the epicenter of all outdoor events in Worcester and this May, that will be no exception. The lake will be hosting several regattas in what will be an exciting couple weeks of competition. Two of the bigger events are the Women’s Eastern Sprints, held on Sunday, May 5, and the Men’s Sprints which will take place on Sunday, May 19. The selection process is specific and organized. Because both events are collegiate competitions, schools must apply to be represented in this event. First, they have to be voted in as members of the Eastern Association of Rowing Colleges (EARC). Then, they have to be voted in as members of the Association, as well as competitors in the Regatta. There are currently 17 teams that can take part in this. The regattas are open to previous attendees of the event as well as new programs that are invited by the Association/Regatta Committee. Katie Boldvich plays a huge part in the success of these events. As the
Executive Director, she has to make sure everything runs smoothly while carrying out many roles throughout the competitions. Boldvich takes pride in what she does, “I help the teams with logistics, registration and serve as the liaison between the teams and the officials/professional staff. I work with the local organizing committee to secure vendors and also serve as a point of contact for our live broadcast team. I also coordinate the awards and awards ceremonies for the events.” The Women’s Eastern Sprints were very successful last year. The sprints occurred on Sunday, April 29, with about 575 individuals representing 16 colleges. The 2018 event saw strong competition and many colleges came out on top. With the first event starting at 8 a.m., and the last taking place at 4:30 p.m., it was a full day of competition. Separated into groups of eight, there are various heats that occur in each category. A heat, for those unfamiliar, is a series of races or competitions. The winners of each heat will then take part in a final competition against each other.
Dartmouth College looks to have a successful 2019 competition, as they won the first heat of the day in 2018 with a time of 6:29.798. With the heat starting at 8:20 a.m. they quite literally started the day off right. Harvard-Radcliffe and Rutgers were the winners of the other two races. Harvard-Radcliffe in particular had a strong day, as they secured the top times in the first heat of the Second Varsity Eight, as well as having the top time in the Grand Final with a mark of 7.24.982. In the final event of the day, the Wisconsin A-Team had the top time in the Varsity Lightweight Grand Final with a mark of 7.53.492. All 29 events that day saw tremendous representation from all across the East Coast. The Men’s Eastern Sprints, an event paired with the EARC was also a major success last year. Held on May 13, the competition was fierce as 950 competitors took center stage, ready to win it all. With the first event taking place at 9:12 a.m., Yale won the first heat of the day with a time of 5.40.165. With 11 events, it was a busy day on Lake Quinsigamond once again. The day concluded with the Grand Final in
the Varsity Four heat. Northeastern was victorious as they scored a time of 6.45.274. These events are not to be taken lightly. In order to uphold competition standards, all programs are vetted. However, despite this strict process of being able to compete in these events, all programs are invited to participate in these competitions. With so much time and effort being put into not only these events but into the training leading up to them, Executive Director Boldvich says she enjoys seeing the success and dedication of those competing. “The most rewarding part is helping facilitate a great event for the student athletes who commit hours and hours of their time to prepare and train for the championship,” Boldvich said. Seeing that hard work culminate into a championship race for a team is always rewarding. Taking place on the cusp of summer, it will be a fun few weekends on Lake Quinsigamond. It may be quiet most days, but for these couple of weekends, it will be alive and well as 2,000 meters of the lake will be home to the thrill of competition.
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WORCESTER’S
ALBANIAN FESTIVAL:
BUILDING
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ere is a picture of a bustling crowd moving through a city almost identical to any other around the world;
in the background are the classic skyscrapers, piercing
authoritarian Communist regime. St Mary’s is far more than a church here; it is a solace and symbol of a people’s resilience.
the gray but clear sky; there are buses, a tram, slim city bikes. There are no smartphones here, but plenty of sullen-faced city dwellers in large coats with outdated shoulder pads, and dressed in other forgotten fashions. This is modern North Korea; but looking at its capital, Pyongyang, I’m told that it is a perfect replica of Albania during the height of the Soviet Union. Worcester — and the rest of Central Massachusetts — is home to thousands of Albanians, many of them recent immigrants after the collapse of the Soviet Union in the 90s. This relatively unknown community hosts one of the biggest events in the city of Worcester. This year’s Albanian Festival at St. Mary’s Orthodox Church expects to see over 10,000 guests from May 1 to June 2, with local vendors, traditional food and live entertainment every night. “We want to honor the past while still looking forward,” explains Greg Steffon, festival co-chair. Steffon has been involved with the festival for decades, when the event was still growing from a small gathering to a weekend featuring international musicians. Steffon says that finding sponsors is one of the hardest parts of this massive undertaking, but the festival committee makes sure that the people who are generous enough to donate their services arrive in a space that’s incredibly welcoming. King Arthur’s Flour, one of their biggest sponsors, has told Steffon that they were shocked at how warm the reception was, especially compared to the hundreds of other events they have catered all over the country. It’s
The church itself is breathtaking: an oasis of gold, its hand-painted murals were completed by a single artist over the course of 10 years. Every wall is a devoted tribute of intricate, bold paintings which depict different Bible stories, from Jesus’ crucifixion to the ascension of Mary. Another point of pride for the community are its Albanian business owners. The festival depends heavily on them — and hundreds of volunteers — for fundraising and support. One such prominent entrepreneur is Benson “Benny” Shqina, who won a lottery visa in 1998. Shqina and his wife struggled for years at first. Despite both earning bachelor’s degrees back in Albania, finding work was incredibly tough. Shqina spent several months making bread dough while his wife worked as a gas station attendant in order to make ends meet. Eventually, after a few years working at Columbia Tech, Shqina and his family moved to Worcester where he was finally able to combine his electrical engineering expertise with his entrepreneurial experience. He bought a warehouse and began MEM Connections, a business which assembles and tests complex machine parts for its clients. Today, Shqina leases the extra space in his warehouse to a very successful plumbing company and Greater Good Brewing. But when Shqina finally achieved his “American Dream,” he didn’t stop there; he continues to thrive as a manufacturer, employing 24 people, many of whom are other immigrants from countries all over the world.
not “just an Albanian event,” Steffon says; it’s a weekend
"THIS IS WHAT THE ALBANIAN FESTIVAL
where the Albanian community seeks to build bridges,
SEEKS TO ACHIEVE AS IT GROWS: ITS
not walls. Without building that support, he says, the city wouldn’t be able to flourish the way it has over the years. Franklin Zdruli, the festival’s other co-chair, immigrated to the U.S. just over a decade ago. His grandfather was already a U.S. citizen years before Zdruli ever arrived in North America. But Albania’s Communist government
ORGANIZERS HOPE TO PASS ON THEIR SUCCESS TO FUTURE GENERATIONS AND KEEP NEW FAMILIES IN WORCESTER. " This is what the Albanian Festival seeks to achieve as it grows: its organizers hope to pass on their success to
locked the country away from the rest of the world,
future generations and keep new families in Worcester.
cutting off thousands of migrants for decades. As Steffon
The Albanian community is one that Steffon describes
and Zdruli explained Albania’s tumultuous history
as part of the “mosaic of the city,” comprised of new
over the last century, the existence of St. Mary’s seems
immigrants and proud Americans with a rich heritage.
especially remarkable. Zdruli mentioned that Albania
Zdruli himself has settled roots here and is in it for the
was the first country in the world to declare Atheism as
long haul: “This is our home,” he said.
its national belief system at the extreme detriment of all other religions in the country at the time. Steffon’s
With the festival rapidly growing every year, the Albanian
great-aunt, for example, was evicted from her home for
community in Worcester has much to be proud of.
practicing religion. Even after 20 years since the collapse of communism in Eastern Europe, Zdruli still speaks of this time with the anger and frustration of someone who has seen his family suffer under an overzealous,
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FOR MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THE EVENT AND HOW TO GET INVOLVED, VISIT ALBANIANFESTIVAL.ORG.
STYLESAVVY: Hot Summer Trends
It is finally May, and I could not be more excited that summer is on the way. While we have all been reaping the benefits of the warm spring weather (t-shirts, sandals, and light-washed denim among other things), I think that it is high time that we start looking towards the even warmer days of bathing suits, tank tops, and shorts. Speaking of, warmer weather often calls for more lax, and often times more simple, attire (shorts and a t-shirt anyone?). While this can feel somewhat drab and ordinary, who can be bothered to wear excess layers when it’s 85 degrees and sunny out? One way that you can forego a completely sub-par outfit is to dress it up with your accessories. Like what you’re hearing? Read on to discover four ways that you can dress up your summer wardrobe!
PRINTED SANDALS:
Printed sandals can be a super fun way to dress things up! You can pick any pretty print to dress up an otherwise basic outfit. If you really want to step up your overall look, you can pick your favorite designer’s monogram sandals (everyone is coming out with them in fun colors) to really make a statement.
GOLD STATEMENT EARRINGS:
You know those big, gold, gaudy earrings that you may have seen on the elderly in the 1980’s? Well, they are back and better than ever with a new twist. Gold statement earrings can step up any outfit’s game by acting as the focal point of otherwise plain attire. But be cautioned: sometimes less is more and when you are wearing a statement piece like flashy gold earrings. You want to keep other accessories to a minimum or forgo them altogether.
LAYERED JEWELRY:
If you are going for smaller, dainty jewelry of any kind, you can most definitely wear more than one piece (unlike our statement earrings above). But remember, moderation is always key - a.k.a going overboard is still a small possibility even if you are going for a layered look. Try pairing layered necklaces with stackable rings, or likewise try layering bracelets with more dainty pearl or neutral stud earrings. Remember, more is not always better! Mixing silver and gold pieces is okay, but make sure that you have an equal distribution of both colors: this way you can avoid one looking out of place over the other.
FRIENDSHIP BRACELETS:
While we are on the topic of jewelry, why don’t we shed some light on the 90’s-esque friendship bracelet trend that is having a serious moment right now. This is a total blast from the past in accessories. These yarn-knit bracelets come in a variety of patterns and colors, and loads of designers have been picking up and adopting the trend into their individual houses. They scream summer, and add a real visual appeal to any outfit with a hint of nostalgia. - APRIL GOODARD t h epu ls emag.com
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