Psychologists have known for a long time that there is a better way to “find yourself” than isolated self-contemplation. Everyone needs a mirror to see themselves clearly. To know about one’s inner life requires the “mirror” of social interaction. How do others react and respond to me? It’s easy to get so caught up in our own challenges, struggles, and issues that we withdraw from others altogether. That withdrawal can distort our outlook and lead to crippling self-centeredness. Science makes it clear that socializing can help sustain emotional balance. Jesus goes a step further and suggests that if we serve others—considering and working to meet their needs—we will be fulfilled.
