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SPEAKS ON BEING AN AUTISM MOM

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ENTREPRENEUR SPOTLIGHT JESSICA TOUSSAINT DESIGNER SPOTLIGHT B PRETTY INC.

CURLY HAIR CARE MEAL PREPS; ITâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;S NOT JUST FOR DIETING

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“If you love what you do stick with it, but do it right!”

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FROM THE EDITOR Tawana Blassingame Founder & Editor in Chief

Welcome to the April 2017 issue of Queen Size Magazine. As you all know, April is Autism Awareness Month. Did you know that Autism now affects 1 in 68 children and 1 in 42 boys? And that boys are nearly five times more likely than girls to have autism? Most of us have never had to deal with children with Autism, therefore we cannot relate to what they go through or what their mom goes through either. Our cover model, Serenity, has a son that fell into those statistics. She speaks out on her experiences as an Autism mom and how they are breaking barriers. Be sure to check out her story and in-depth interview inside. Speaking of children, we also have an exclusive interview with Jessica Toussaint who is the Founder and President of Bridge to Promise Inc., a growing youth development organization focused on providing programs and services that positively addresses the physical, mental and emotional aspects of a young person. We hope that you enjoy the stories in this issue. Congratulations to all of our features, and of course thank you to our contributors. Thank you all for continuing to support Queen Size Magazine. We would love to hear your feedback. Email us at queensizemagazine@gmail.com and let us know what you like, donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t like and/or want to see in future issues. We value your opinion.

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MASTHEAD TAWANA BLASSINGAME CEO/Editor In Chief PHILIP DREW Executive Director & Director of Photography DOUG SWAIM Director of Photography for the DMV area ELVIRA ANDERSON Photographer DANA HALL Photographer MEESHA ANN Fashion Editor JACKIE PAYTES Fashion Blogger CRYSTAL CARMEN Beauty Editor LAWANDA SANYANG Beauty Blogger LAFINA PHILLIPS Creative Stylist TANAYA JOHNSON Makeup Artist ANDREA BLASSINGAME Makeup Artist EYANI COUTURE House Designer

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FLAVORS OF FULLNESS House Designer DIONNE REEVES-GRUBBS Model Recruitment Manager

CONTENTS FEATURED STORY

SERENITY SPEAKS ON BEING AN AUTISM MOM By LAFINA PHILLIPS

HEALTH AND FITNESS

MODEL SPOTLIGHTS

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MEAL PREPS; ITâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;S NOT JUST FOR DIETING By QSM

BEAUTY&FASHION

08 CURLY HAIR CARE By CRYSTAL CARMEN

10 TREND ALERTS WITH CHARLOTTE RUSSE

By MEESHA ANN

SPOTLIGHT 12 DESIGNER B PRETTY INC. By QSM

BUSINESS

MODEL SPOTLIGHT MALLORY RICHARDSON

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BRIDGE TO PROMISE JESSICA TOUSSAINT By QSM

SPOTLIGHT 38 MODEL DAMARIS RUIZ By QSM

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MEAL PREPS; IT’S NOT JUST FOR DIETING With all the errands and chores that we do, I know that meal planning can be considered an added task to add onto our already long “to-do list.” However, this is one task that we really push to the top of that list! Here are our top three reasons why meal prepping is essential.

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MEAL PREPS; IT’S NOT JUST FOR DIETING | BY QSM

WEIGHT LOSS When people hear meal preps the one thing that comes to mind is usually for dieting reasons; and they wouldn’t be wrong either. If you are on the road to healthy eating, the smart thing to do is to prepare your meals for the week. When I go to work and I don’t take my lunch, I end up having to resort to what is accessible and convenient. And typically it ends up being something that is not healthy for me. I work in a hospital; you would think that healthy food options would come easy but they don’t really. You get choices like burgers, fries, sandwiches, Panini’s, etc. These all may sound delicious but they are complete torture and counterproductive for someone who is trying to eat healthier or lose weight. HUGE TIMESAVER When you live a busy lifestyle, who has time to come home and cook every night? I know I don’t! I can recollect my earlier years of being a single mom; things were tough for me. It was a new experience and I was so used to just having to take care of myself. I didn’t have to worry about what I was going to eat when I got home because I usually ate out. But having a child to care for when I got home proved to be a lot of work. I was spending a lot of time coming home doing homework, bathing, taking out school

and work clothes for the next day, cooking dinner, cleaning up, putting the kid to bed and then trying to catch my breath before it was time for me to go to bed. I am tired just rethinking all of that. I had to come up with a better plan because putting a child to bed at 10pm every night meant mornings were going to be that much tougher. One of the things that helped me was doing our meal preps on Sundays. After church I would come home and cook a big meal to last us for the week. I packed them in individual Tupperware bowls and stored them in the refrigerator. I even did this for our lunches so when it was time to eat I could pop them in the microwave and dinner was ready. It saved a lot of clean up time as well. MORE MONEY TO SAVE If you are anything like me then I am sure you don’t have money to throw out the window. When you are eating out every day that is just what you are doing. Depending on where you work, you can spend a lot of money a day on just food alone; that can add up quickly. For me, if I didn’t do meal preps I could spend about $6 for breakfast a day, and about $10 a day for lunch. That is $16 dollars a day/ $80 a week/ $320 a month/ $3840 a year. That’s a lot of money just for eating at work. Imagine what you can do with that money for the holidays.

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BEAUTY AND FASHION

BEHIND THE GLAM By CRYSTAL CARMEN

CURLY HAIR CAREÂ

TOP PRODUCT RECOMMENDATIONS Kinky-Curly Knot Today (Leave In Conditioners) Dope Hair (Edge Control) Garnier Fructis Sleek and Shine Shampoo and Conditioner (Cleansing) Suave Sleek Shampoo and Conditioners (Cleansing) Pink Stiletto Cosmetics Hair Whip (Straightening) Mizani Thermasmooth Smoothing System (Frizz Control System)

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CHARLOTTE Pom

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Bianca M. Williams stars and co- hosts Pretty, Styled & Beautiful, a video series on YouTube which highlights and explores beauty, fashion, and ”the world of glamification.” Bianca is an Author, mentor, owner and founder of B Pretty Inc, B Pretty Lashes and Specialty Salon B Pretty Glam Factory Brooklyn Native Bianca M. Williams is a business-driven wife and mother of one who became an entrepreneur in 2013. She owns and operates B. Pretty Inc, Catch my Lash Classes along with The Power and How to Put the Yes before the No Seminars; she works with individuals all over the world. Bianca’s rise in the business world began at an early age, as she embarked upon an entrepreneurial path after graduating high school. She made a wise decision to start learning business from the inside out by working as a manager at an insurance firm for several years. She was learning a lot very quickly. She began to close more and more accounts at the insurance firm and decided that with her key attributed customer service, business savviness and key contacts she could begin to build her own legacy by returning to her initial passion for sewing. Bianca began to use her sewing as a platform to gain insight into the industry. As a result, she created B. Pretty Inc: a plussize fashion line which has established itself as a fine purveyor of plus-size clothing. WWW.QUEENSIZEMAGAZINE.COM|APRIL 2017 ISSUE

DESIGNER SPOTLIGHT | B PRETTY INC.

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”Try to be a rainbow in someone’s cloud” ~Maya Angelou

Photography by | Jose Pagan Dress | Ralph Lauren Shoes | Aldo Clutch | Coach Clothing Stylist: The Doll House Makeup: Alicia Smith Hair: Watrina Armstrong Jewelry: Blue Hibiscus Boutique

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MODEL SPOTLIGHT | MALLORY RICHARDSON

Mallory Richardson

Photography by | Jose Pagan - Denim Crop top | NY & Co - White Pants | NY & Co - Clothing Stylist: The Doll House Makeup: Alicia Smith - Hair: Watrina Armstrong - Jewelry: Blue Hibiscus Boutique

Mallory has been a plus size woman for the majority of her life. Throughout that time she has explored her own personal style; customizing, risk taking, diversifying and really embracing her body along the way. Mallory developed a gift and loves to help others feel as beautiful as she did when she stepped out to an event; much less the grocery store, hence her development of The Doll House. “I provide 1:1 consultations, ride along fitting, online shopping and fashion event coordination services.” As a child, Mallory, was obsessed with Barbie; she had a huge influence on her girlish and fashion loving ways. “One of my high school friends nick-named me Malibu Barbie for my looks, and play on my name... It stuck and I created The Doll House finally in 2014.” Birth of an Empire was the first of many events to come created under this umbrella of fashion services organization. As a clothing stylist and aspiring online boutique owner, Mallory strives to build reputable relationships and long lasting customer engagement. She strategically plans to evolve with the market of fashion while offering top quality services for nominal rates for aspiring models, fashionistas, and people who need support modifying their style to changing careers, and the different aspects of their lives. Follow The Doll House on Facebook.

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”Happiness is not something we postpone; it is something you design for the present” ~Jim Rhon

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MODEL SPOTLIGHT | MALLORY RICHARDSON

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SERENITY SPEAKS ON BEING AN AUTISM MOM| BY LAFINA PHILLIPS

Serenity My name is Serenity and I am a 27 year old model from Philadelphia. I actually got introduced to modeling because I lost a bet! While attending Tuskegee University, a few friends was auditioning for the school’s modeling troupe. Being a tomboy at heart, I made jokes and thought the idea was ludicrous. What I didn’t know was how this organization would shine a light on a piece of me that I did not know existed. After trying out and making the line, I learned the in’s and out’s about modeling. Not until I began coaching female models, is when I began learning that modeling was not just about what you looked like, but the person it creates inside as well. I have walked for hair shows in Atlanta for Cutting in ATL, Philadelphia Small Business Fashion Week, and Runways on Fire NYFW. Being a ”non-traditional” plus size model I have faced body shaming amongst various people in the industry. At first it was intimidating, but once I received my son’s diagnosis for ASD everything changed! Once again, my family was being placed in a box and I wasn’t going to stand for it. So I constantly redefine the definition of being a plus-size model and also being a mother of a 5 year old boy who is Autistic. The best thing about my situation is that I have an awesome support system, but sometimes it gets difficult balancing being a mother and a model. My son has a limited vocabulary, so I don’t trust many people with him. Since he looks like a ”normal” kid, many people confuse his meltdowns with just being defiant and judgment is passed so quickly. There are many opportunities that I may pass up on because Motherhood always trumps my wants/desires. What I am starting to learn is creating a world that accepts us both! I am starting his modeling career with simple headshots, so it can not only bring him into this industry that I have fallen in love with, but also create a platform for Autism. There is not a blueprint of how a child will act/perform, so taking each day one at a time is key. If I could just say one thing when it comes to children on the spectrum and their parents is please stop isolating yourselves because of shame. Your children are amazing and they are different, but that’s what makes this world so awesome. There’s a Dr. Seuss quote that I am in love with which states, ”Why fit in when you were born to stand out?”

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Lafina: How old was KyMani when you noticed something was wrong? Serenity: Both my mother and my sister work in the mental health field; they informed me when he was two years old. He was diagnosed as developmentally delayed and at age three he was diagnosed with autism. Lafina: Tell us about your labor and delivery. Serenity: My pregnancy was full term, 4 days after due date. My delivery was hard. My mid wife was not able to get to the hospital; she arrived after the delivery of my son. I was stressed because of her absence and ended up receiving an epidural because both of our heart rates had begun to drop. I ultimately had to receive a c-section due to our dropping heart rates. Lafina: What are some of the challenges that you face? Serenity: Discrimination and being ignored. Autism doesn’t come with physical characteristics like Down Syndrome for instance. Other adults are uneasy when it comes to him. For example; If he don’t stick to his schedule he will have a meltdown. Other parents will judge and say things like “she can’t control her son”, but what they don’t understand is that is how he copes. You and I can do things to calm down but he don’t know how to and it looks bad in the eyes of other adults and parents.

Lafina: What are your child’s strengths? Serenity: He is a lovely child. He loves being silly. He lights up any room and he is also the life of the room. We have been through a lot and he has been my support/push reassuring me that everything will be ok. Lafina: What progress have you seen in your son since his diagnoses? Serenity: Sign language has been used for communication. He didn’t start speaking until he turned 4. His speech has dramatically improved. He can express what he likes and what he doesn’t like. He can point and decipher and he is now ready to read his first book. I went from wishing to hear his voice to him calling my name all the time. It makes me happy to see how far he has come and how he is steadily progressing. Even with some of the things he does and say; like one day he said “oh mu gish”. And I was like boy how do you even know to say that lol. Model | Serenity Photography | Philip Drew, PDrew Photography Stylist | Lafina Phillips Leopard Dress | Curvaceous Boutique Accessories | LeBeautique

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SERENITY SPEAKS ON BEING AN AUTISM MOM| BY LAFINA PHILLIPS Lafina: What are your concerns for your child’s future? Serenity: My biggest concern is to make sure he can live a “normal” life with or without me. Lafina: What are some of the things that you have found to help you cope with autism? Serenity: I am a child of an addict. I have been in studies. They predicted that I would turn out a certain way due to me being a “crack baby”. By breaking every expectation prepared for me in regards to my son; the doctors telling me that he can’t do this and he can’t do that, and then watching him break all those barriers make me feel proud because he is his mama’s son . Lafina: Do you ever feel overwhelmed? Serenity: There’s good days and there are bad days. I use to suffer, but having my family and my boyfriend there every step of the way has made things bearable. Just being that shoulder to cry on. There are a lot of people that have children with disabilities who don’t have the support that I have, so I am grateful for that. Lafina: What have been some of the problems/challenges you and your family have faced? Serenity: The biggest problem we have faced is being accepted. Many people meet my son and of course fall in love with his smile and his big personality, but when they realize his personality doesn’t have a dial down button they can’t deal with him. We’ve been kicked out of daycares and even centers created for children for autism. Lafina: How did your family react and what has been the impact on their lives? Serenity: Whenever there was any kind of adversity against my son, my family came dressed for battle. One thing we don’t tolerate is being taken advantage of and they made sure KyMani received everything he deserves. That kind of support can’t be bought; it feels good to know he has so many people in his corner.

dreams? Serenity: Do it! It’s going to be hard work and financially troubling but just because your journey has more obstacles doesn’t mean you shouldn’t pursue it. Get you a sitter that you trust with your child and vision. The more I’ve gotten into modeling, the more I’ve realized that I don’t even want my son in a regular public school. You never know how your perspective will change when it comes to your child. Lafina: Do you plan on having anymore children? Serenity: I do but I want to know where his diagnosis stems from first. The probability for having another child with autism almost doubles with the second child. I was blessed to have a child that’s high functioning. I know the struggles we go through, so I couldn’t imagine how hard it may be for parents that have children that aren’t able to function on their own. Lafina: What are your goals for the future when it comes to your career as a model and a mother of a child with a disability? Serenity: I want to be one of the first dark skinned plus size tattoo models that go international. I also want to break barriers within the modeling industry. I feel like women shouldn’t have to fit standards to say they are beautiful. I think that’s what I want for my son, regardless of his disability; to shake the world. Being a black man in this world, he already has so many things lined up against him. I want him to know and understand that he has the power to be anything that he puts his mind to. Nobody can hold him back, but until then I just want him to keep that kind spirit he has. I want to be the mother that I always dreamt of as a child: one that is patient, one that is stern, but also loving and kind.

Lafina: What kind of support has been most helpful to you? Serenity: My older sister is a master level clinician and my mom has worked in the mental health field all of my life, so their input means a lot when figuring out what’s next. Of course as a mother, some things I don’t agree with, but I always go to them first before making any solid decision regarding my son. Lafina: What have been your experiences with school personnel? Serenity: The schools in Alabama were more open and helpful in my opinion. I’m guessing because my son was still young, but I never had any issues when requesting anything regarding his education. When we moved to Philly it felt like I was in a constant battle to make sure my own was included. That has harmed his social development more than anything. Just the other day my son turned to me and asked for friends. No five year old should have to ask for friends. Lafina: What advice would you give other mothers who have children with disabilities and wants to pursue their

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JESSICA TOUSSAINT | BY QSM

JESSICA TOUSSAINT Jessica Toussaint, affectionately known as “Jess” is the Founder and President of Bridge to Promise Inc., a growing youth development organization focused on providing programs and services that positively addresses the physical, mental and emotional aspects of a young person. Her goal is to serve as a catalyst that propels young people to achieve their potential and purpose. Jessica’s passion is attributed to her observing her peers and younger, that are full of great promise and possibilities, but are just existing in mediocrity, overwhelmed by life’s obstacles, having the desire to become, but never achieving or attaining. Noticing that many are seeing the symptoms, but are failing to provide a remedy, Jessica decided to become the Bridge, instead of being another critic. She has dedicated herself to coaching and pushing young people into their calling, potential and purpose. Her premise is this: “When a young person dies, we mourn greatly because we do not know what they could have become, but what happens to the ones that are walking aimlessly without purpose? They face the same fate and never achieve. This is a tragedy as well because it’s in these young adult years that one makes decisions that set the tone for the rest of our lives.” Jessica has worked in a wide variety of professional capacities in the nonprofit sector since 2009. Growing up her parents stressed the importance of education and as such, she has both her Bachelors of Science in Special Education and her Master’s in Business Administration with a focus in Management and Leadership from Dowling College. In 2016, she received a Certificate in Organizational and Community Leadership from Adelphi University and her certification as a Life and Success Coach from The Coach Training Academy. In her free time, she serves on the leadership team of her church where she is an active member of several departments and committees. Additionally, she spends time with a host of young adults that she mentors. She ascribes her success to her parents, her faith, and mentors. Jessica’s ongoing mission is to be the change that she wants to see. She is the proud daughter of two amazing parents that have led her and her siblings by example, demonstrating the meaning of love, honor, respect and integrity. She has the honor of being the eldest of three remarkable siblings. In the near future, Jessica plans to open a private coaching practice to empower people to achieve their goals and walk into their calling, purpose and destiny.

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QSM: Jessica Toussaint. First let me say how much of an honor it is to be speaking with you. I love what you are doing. We are living in some different times and our children and young adults need guidance. What got you into wanting to help and guide the youth? Jessica: Thank you Tawana for having me as part of this awesome magazine. My passion is attributed to observing my peers and younger, that are full of great promise and possibilities, but are just existing in mediocrity, overwhelmed by life’s obstacles, having the desire to become someone great, but never achieving or attaining. Noticing that many are seeing the symptoms, but are failing to provide a remedy, I decided to become the Bridge, instead of being another critic. I have dedicated myself to coaching and pushing young people into their calling, potential and purpose. “When a young person dies, we mourn greatly because we do not know what they could have become, but what happens to the ones that are walking aimlessly without purpose? They face the same fate and never achieve. This is a tragedy as well because it’s in these young adult years that we make decisions that set the tone for the rest of our lives.” QSM: Tell me about your younger years. Jessica: I am the proud daughter of two amazing parents that have led me and my siblings by example, demonstrating the meaning of love, honor, respect and integrity. I have the honor of being the eldest of three remarkable siblings. Growing up my parents stressed the importance of education and as such, I have both my Bachelors of Science in Special Education and my Master’s in Business Administration with a focus in Management and Leadership from Dowling College. In 2016, I received a Certificate in Organizational and Community Leadership from Adelphi University and my certification as a Life and Success Coach from The Coach Training Academy. They are my role models. They migrated from Haiti knowing that there was something more that they needed and with hope of a bright future they created a family in the United States of America and shortly after became citizens of this great country. It took courage to come to a new place and make it work! They literally are my heroes. Watching their journey as a child until now has been a privilege and point of reference for me to always know that where you start is not where you will finish and hard work pays off. QSM: If the younger you can have a conversation with the youth that you help today, what would that conversation be like? Jessica: The younger me would ask them questions like “what are their goals, what gifts do they bring to this world and if they died, what would be their legacy?” These questions are seguing into conversations about their purpose and how to accomplish it. For example, if they mentioned that they had goals, then we would talk about

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adding dates to it and then we would start monitoring their progress. If they do not have goals, we would talk about why goals are necessary and how to develop them. The question about “what gifts they bring to the world” allows them to explore themselves to see what their passions are and how they are using it, or if they are using it. Lastly, I would address the question of legacy, “how do you want to be remembered?” and my follow up question would be “are you doing the thing for which you want to be remembered?” i.e. I want to be remembered making a difference in my community. Well, are you involved in your community? QSM: Can you relate to the youth you interact with? If so how? Jessica: Yes absolutely! At our organization, “Bridge to Promise,” the current focus as we build is young adults between the ages of 18-35. As these participants grow with Bridge, the hope is that they will give back to the next generation as organizational ambassadors, mentors and facilitators. I relate because I fall into that age group being 31 years old, so I am a young adult and I am one of them. I understand their struggles and strengths because I too sit in their seat. I understand that I will not always be considered a young adult so we are developing a team that will help us to keep tabs on the pulse of that demographic so that we can remain relevant. QSM: I am sure you have heard many stories from the youth you mentor; tell me about the one story that really sticks with you? Jessica: You are correct and I have heard many stories, but the one that inspires me every time is Tanika’s story. She is 29 years old and grew up with two parents that struggled with substance abuse. Her step father was physically abusive to both her and her mother. At the age of 16 she was placed into foster care and separated from her siblings. She had an unhealthy relationship with her mother since her mother took all of her siblings back except her. She lived with her foster family until going away to college. In college, she received her Bachelor’s in Psychology. She now works for Children and Family Services as a Juvenile Justice Initiative Family Service Specialist and is currently pursuing a dual Master’s degree in Psychology and Mental Health Counseling. She is now one of our ambassadors at Bridge to Promise. Tanika is resilient and turned out to be a great woman! She has overcome great obstacles and now is making a difference in her community and the world around her. She is a prime example that where you start is not where you finish. I am so proud to know her and watch her blossom before my eyes.

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QSM: What three adjectives would you say describes your strengths? Jessica: Catalytic, loving, and passionate QSM: You inspire so many people; how do you inspire yourself? Jessica: Honestly, my faith is what inspires me. I am so humbled that God has given me the assignment and trusts me to help guide young adults into their purpose and calling. I am also grateful for the many mentors that have been placed in my life. It is so important to have accountability and people that believe in you that will push you to go further. The Bridge to Promise team inspires me, they believe in me and our vision and they have committed themselves to the work. I would not be here today had it not been for some key team members like LaShan Brown, Jennifer Rose, Diane Jackson, Malinda Ward, Cerina Butler, Shimay Montero, Veronique Seaman, Melissa Brooks, Tarris Bell, Sherisse Davis, Nicole Bryan, Tiffany Caine, Rhode Jean-Baptiste, Deana McAleer, Beverly Lopes, Devin Wharwood, and all of our speakers, facilitators, and volunteers. I am also driven by my desire to be the example for my siblings and to honor my parents for the sacrifices they made, so that their children can have the opportunity to make a difference. My desire is for them to bear witness to the fact that I am making, and have made a difference in the lives of young people and that I’ve effected change in my community, before they depart this life. That is what inspires me. I remember their sacrifice and I want to honor them for it. QSM: How did you come up with the name of your company? Jessica: One night I was trying to find a domain name with the word “promise,” and I thought of the word “bridge” as well so I simply put it together. That was definitely one of those God moments because that is who we are, a bridge to young people’s promise and we are certainly helping them to reach their potential. QSM: We get advice all the time as entrepreneurs; what is the best and worse advice that you have gotten thus far? Jessica: The best advice was to believe in your dream and take action. The worst was discouragement that I rather not give it a voice. Also a good friend shared that “a thought becomes a thing”. So I try to keep my thoughts positive so that positive things will manifest. QSM: I understand that you don’t just mentor young adults, you do other things as well… correct? Can you elaborate on that? Jessica: Yes, Bridge to Promise is currently servicing youth, in high school, through a collaborative project with local

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government and high schools. The focus is on college readiness. QSM: Do you offer private sessions? Jessica: Not right now. However, if a young person has a need and just need to talk things through, I will avail myself. It is hard to say no to something you love and in the future, I am looking to build a coaching practice for all ages so this is just foundational practice. QSM: For anyone looking to join one of your sessions, when is the next session and how can they stay abreast of what you are offering? Jessica: We usually host a “chat and chew” where young adults (18-35) come together to encourage one another in a coaching style setting twice a year, once in the fall and the other in the spring. Our next Chat and Chew is on March 4th from 6pm to 9pm at the Ethical Humanist Society, located at 38 Old Country Road, Garden City, NY 11530. There is no admission fee but attendees are free to give a love offering to defray our costs. We have a conference on July 15th, 2017 from 10am to 4pm at the Ethical Humanist Society, as well where Akira Armstrong, Pretty Big Movement will be our keynote speaker. We plan to do a teleclass in the near future. To stay in touch with us you can find Bridge to Promise on all of social media, log onto our website at www. bridgetopromise.org, email us at info@bridgetopromise.org , or call us at 516-564-3212. QSM: Thank you so much Jessica for your time. Any final thoughts you would like to add before we close out our interview? Jessica: Yes, my final thought is challenge everyone that has ever had a dream and/or goal to take steps to attain it. Our goals, vision, and dreams are bigger than us. Think about the gift that you bring to this world and ask yourself, are you operating in it to the best of your ability. We can all use improvement so do what is necessary to take your gift to the next level… the world is waiting on you! If you don’t know the gift you bring to the world, than do some self-discovery. You are here for a purpose! Lastly, if you are a young adult don’t waste the prime time of your life, make the investment, you are worth it. If you know a young person, take the time to encourage and support them. They are worth the investment for when you invest in them you are investing yourself. Your love and support is significant to us more than you will ever know. Thank you Queen Size Magazine for what you’re doing and for giving me the opportunity to share my story.

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MODEL SPOTLIGHT | DAMARIS RUIZ

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She began to see plus size women of all shapes and heights in magazines and on the internet and said “I can do this”

Damaris Ruiz (Harmonee) was born and raised in Brooklyn, NY. She is a mother and a wife who has always been a dreamer and go-getter. Damaris has always loved fashion and modeling but for many years but feared she was not quite the right height or size due to the stereotypes in the media. She suffered from low self-esteem stating she will never be able to model. She began to see plus size women of all shapes and heights in magazines and on the internet and said “I can do this”. She booked her first photoshoot and began networking & working with local plus size entrepreneurs and practicing her walk for the industry. To this day she strives to encourage other plus size women that want to model to just do it. She thanks her family for their support in her dreams and continues to work with any plus size company willing to give her a chance to show what she can do. Her goal is to take part in all areas of plus size modeling but her aim is to do print, editorial, and commercials. Harmonee snuck her way onto the scene over night (it seems). I was contacted by Trojah Morgan of Trojah Brands and asked if Queen Size Magazine would be interested in working with her on a project. Her company was offering scholarships to aspiring models trying to navigate the plus size fashion industry. She asked if we would be willing to offer her winner a feature in our publication. Of course since we are all for helping people, we agreed without hesitation. In speaking with Harmonee (after it was announced that she won) we immediately saw the passion she had for modeling. We scheduled her shoot and even though she was nervous, she did a phenomenal job (as you can see for yourself). She took direction and got through her shoot without a hitch. We need more aspiring models like you Harmonee in the industry. Congratulations to you and we wish you much success.

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QSM: Congratulations on winning the scholarship; how and why did you enter? Damaris: Thank you so much. I actually entered through Trojah Morganâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Instagram page, she is amazing. I entered because for a long time plus size modeling is something I wanted to do; I battled with low self esteem because I was a bigger girl for a long time. It took me so long to overcome my insecurities and once I did I decided to just do all I can to show I can get in this field and rock, so I saw an opportunity and took it full force without hesitation. QSM: When did you realize that you made the right decision to pursue modeling? Damaris: At the moment I took that leap to enter this contest I know I had made the right decision and Lord knows I am so glad I did. Photography | Philip Drew, PDrew Photography Multi Color Top | Ashley Stewart Black leggings | Rainbow Shops MUA | Tanaya Johnson

QSM: What challenges do you think you will face as you continue on your journey? Damaris: I think no matter what I am going face challenges as a plus size female because the industry has some size and height requirements, but itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s ok because I know I am going to push to show that I can do this and I hope to help others who want to get in this field by showing what I can do. I feel that anyone can do anything as long as you have the drive and focus to do it and are willing to work hard.

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QSM: What do you currently do for a living? Damaris: I am a chef, baker and secretary. QSM: How do you balance your life with all the things you do? Damaris: I time manage everything I do. Sometimes it does get hard but I am a multitasker; I can do all things. QSM: What do you think of the progress of our industry? Damaris? I think it has gotten a lot more attention than it has years ago and I feel it still needs to push because plus is in and we are here to stay and shine baby! QSM: If you could change two things in the industry what would they be? Damaris: Stereotypes and ignorant people. QSM: Where do you see yourself in the next five years? Damaris: At the top of my game in the plus size industry. QSM: What is the best advice you have gotten so Far? Damaris: You will make it far in this industry so don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. QSM: What are your dream shows to walk in? Damaris: Honestly I want to do print. Mostly editorial but if I had a chance I would love to do BET rip the runway also Lane Bryant and Ashley Stewart QSM: If you could get personal training from one person in this industry who would it be? Damaris: I would have to say Tess Holliday, she is pure confidence. She is a big girl with sex appeal and spunk and she knows quite a lot which I can learn from. I feel she breaks so many barriers.

QSM: Congratulations once again Damaris. We will be watching. Please provide your contact information for everyone. Instagram is @cymphoneesoundz facebook is https://www.facebook.com/sultrysoundz email:damarisruiz1@yahoo.com Yes I want to thank you all at QSM for this wonderful experience and opportunity. You have truly made me feel even stronger and more confident because of this. If anyone out there needs a plus size model I am ready and I am willing to volunteer to continue building my portfolio of course eventually I would like a paid gig (laughing) but this is what I dream to do so please feel free to contact me at my contacts anytime.

”I truly believe a woman have to love themselves enough not to worry about the naysayers”

QSM: As a new aspiring model, what three things do you think you need to work on most? Damaris: Learning to stand in heels for long periods of time in pain without thinking about it (laughing). Learning to change clothes even faster for shoots. Learning to smile more for pictures and not always have a fierce look or sexy look for each take. QSM: What plus size models do you aspire to be like? Damaris: Tess Munster, Ashley Graham, Christina Mendez, Ivey Styles, Jeannie Ferguson QSM: Is your goal to go full time with modeling or would you like to do it part time or as a hobby? Damaris: no question full time QSM: Tell me about your earlier years. Damaris: I was a fun loving outgoing kid and always had dream to do big things but I suffered a long time with self esteem issues because I was chunky. As I got older I just tried turning that into something positive so I decided to attend culinary school. That is where I met my husband; he embraced me as I am and showed me that I was sexy from head to toe. He encouraged me and reminded me that I can do anything; and to this day I push to be in this industry because I belong here.

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