January 2019 Issue by Queen Size Magazine

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Welcome to the January 2019 issue of Queen Size Magazine. Where is the time going? I want to talk to you a little bit about support. We very proudly use the hashtag #WeSupportOurIndustry; whether we get it, we still give it. But this is not about THAT; this is about YOU. Many people complain about the lack of support they get they get from their friends and families. If your family and friends support you, great, but think of where that leaves you in terms of comfortability. You are comfortable talking to them about your business; they are supporting you because it’s you. You don’t need to sit in front of them (most of the time) and explain your business like you would need to do with a stranger or other business individual. Being an entrepreneur is an uncomfortable experience sometimes. It is scary to take that leap, but it is not impossible and can be very rewarding. Believe in yourself enough to be able to explain to people why they too should believe in you. So don’t worry too much about your family and friends supporting you. Don’t allow that to discourage you. I have found in my journey that in my journey it’s the ones that I don’t know that cheer for me the loudest. And I am perfectly fine with that. I want to wish you all a very happy and prosperous New Year . As with every issue, I truly thank each and every person that had a hand in making Queen Size Magazine possible. Thank you for making us the number one publication for 2018. Without your love, support and contributions we would not still be here. Be blessed and remember to be a blessing as well.

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MAKING QUEEN SIZE MOVES

MASTHEAD TAWANA BLASSINGAME CEO/Editor In Chief PHILIP DREW Executive Director & Director of Photography MEESHA ANN Executive Director & Fashion Editor JONNA CAPONE PR/Fashion Director SHEENA POSTELL Social Media Director LAWANDA SANYANG Beauty Editor EYANI COUTURE House Designer FLAVORS OF FULLNESS House Designer

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS: CRYSTAL CARMEN MARCO MAYS (SIR ICON)

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CONTENTS FEATURED STORY

VANESSA MAYS ON WHY AGENCIES ARE NOT FOR EVERYBODY By QSM

HEALTH AND FITNESS

KEEPING HEALTHY DURING THE HOLIDAYS By STATEPOINT

08 PUNCH IT UP THIS HOLIDAY SEASON By FAMILY FEATURES

BEAUTY&FASHION

10 MODEL SPOTLIGHT: RAE NICOLE By QSM

14 TIPS FOR DEALING WITH DAMAGED HAIR

MODEL SPOTLIGHTS

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By STATEPOINT

MODEL SPOTLIGHT: SHERITA IVORY By QSM

26 MAKEUP MUST HAVES FOR BEGINNERS By QSM

BUSINESS

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A HEALTHY WINTER READY 38 CREATE HOME By FAMILY FEATURES

SPOTLIGHT: AQILA 40 ENTREPRENEUR “MIMI” BENJAMIN By QSM

SPOTLIGHT: LATOIA 46 ENTREPRENEUR VALENTINE By LAWANDA “LALA FACES” SANYANG

THE BIG AND TALL OF IT; THE BODY 48 ON STRUGGLE IS REAL By SIR ICON

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HEALTH AND FITNESS

KEEPING YOUR HEALTH ON TRACK DURING THE INDULGENT HOLIDAY SEASON The holiday season can be an indulgent one, full of cookies, candies, heavy meals and eggnog. While no one wants to rein in the fun during the merriest time of year, there are simple ways to keep your health on track during this indulgent holiday season.

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KEEPING HEALTHY DURING THE HOLIDAYS | STATEPOINT STICK TO ROUTINES. To the best of your ability during this hectic time of year, attempt to stick to routines that promote wellness. Set a bedtime and honor it. Hit the gym. Meditate. Do whatever it is that keeps you grounded and feeling your best.

DRINK UP. Many people associate dehydration with the warmer months. But in winter weather it can be especially easy to forget to stay well-hydrated, especially when you’re indulging in alcoholic beverages at all those holiday parties.

Remember, water doesn’t need to be the only source of hydration you think about this season. Soups and purees made from hearty winter vegetables, as well as citrus fruits do the trick, too, and their nutritional properties can help keep you healthy in winter.

KEEP THINGS ORGANICALLY SWEET. Staying

on track doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy the sweetness of the season. Instantly boost the flavor of your favorite meals with organic honey. One great option is Organic Honey In The Raw. USDA Organic Certified and Non-GMO Project Verified, it’s made from pure nectar collected from exotic wildflowers found in the remote Caatinga region of northeast Brazil. The hand-harvested, sustainable honey is raw (never heated above 117 degrees) and unfiltered, so it retains the benefits of bee pollen. And just one tablespoon of organic raw honey provides the right amount of sweetness and flavor for any dish or drink, including year-round staples like oatmeal, yogurt, tea, and more. You can also consider giving a honey makeover to all your favorite holiday recipes, including glazes and sauces

for meat and poultry, cocktail recipes, and of course baked treats.

MAKE SUBSTITUTIONS. Other healthful substitutions

you can make this holiday season include topping pies with Greek yogurt instead of cream, using apple sauce in place of oil and nut flour instead of white flour in baking, and serving vegetable mash as an alternative to mashed potatoes.

BE MINDFUL. The holiday party circuit can be

dangerous when it comes to making nutritious choices. When you enter a party with a buffet set-up, it can be tempting to reach for the richest foods first. Before indulging in the canapes and Swedish meatballs, try filling up a plate with crudité first. While you’re doing so, get a good look at all the options available. This way, you’ll be more likely to savor choice items you’ll truly enjoy. A joyful holiday season doesn’t mean you must pack on pounds or feel under the weather. By keeping your health on track throughout this indulgent time of year, you can start 2019 with your best food forward.

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HEALTH AND FITNESS

PUNCH IT UP THIS HOLIDAY SEASON If you are looking to host an unforgettable holiday cocktail party, punch can make a memorable impression on your guests and bring your gettogether to the next level. Punch reached the height of its popularity during the Victorian Age. Originally made with alcohol, it ultimately became a non-alcoholic drink largely due to the preference of Queen Victoria. Over the following decades, it faded in popularity, briefly regaining favor in the 1920s when champagne punch was a hallmark of parties and celebrations. Now, as new generations are reinvigorating old favorites and enjoying the art of mixology, punch is trending again. Start by making punch a visual centerpiece at your holiday party. Consider a charming drink dispenser, an unusual punch bowl or an elegant glass pitcher. Let your personal and unique style shine through with your choice of glassware and table decorations and offer a variety of garnish selections for your guests to further personalize their glasses. Typically, punches start with a blend of sweet and tangy, and you can get that “swangy” taste with an option like Tree Top’s 100% Pure Pressed Sweet & Tart Apple Cider as a base. For inspiration, take a mixologist’s approach to creating a memorable punch. Lemon, cinnamon and cloves not only spice up the flavor but can also double as decorations. Try ginger beer for a nice fizzle, and for an adult-only punch, consider adding vodka or rum. Your punch table can be a place to gather and reconnect with loved ones while enjoying a trending holiday beverage. Find more recipes perfect for entertaining at treetop.com. Swangy Cider Punch Servings: 10 (8 ounces each) 1 16 2 1 1 1 1 6 6 3

bottle (64 ounces) Tree Top 100% Pure Pressed Sweet & Tart Apple Cider ounces ginger beer oranges, juice only lime, juice only lemon, juice only cup vodka or light rum (optional) sliced Granny Smith apple star anise pieces, plus additional for garnish (optional) whole cloves cinnamon sticks frozen cranberries, for garnish (optional) colored sugars or ginger crystals, for garnish (optional)

In punch container, combine apple cider, ginger beer, orange juice, lime juice, lemon juice and vodka or rum, if desired, for an alcoholic version. Decorate container with apple slices, star anise pieces, cloves and cinnamon sticks. Personalize each serving with additional star anise pieces, frozen cranberries and sugars or ginger crystals, as desired. Serve cold. Photo courtesy of Alamy Article provided by (Family Features) WWW.QUEENSIZEMAGAZINE.COM|JANUARY 2019 ISSUE

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BEAUTY AND FASHION

Rae Nicole

Photographer | Philip Drew @pdrewphotography Model | Rae Nicole Davis @RaeNicole.Davis MUA : Jeanette Dozier @macgurl627_mua Attire |Express @express Shoes |Nine West @ninewest

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MODEL SPOTLIGHT | RAE NICOLE

Rae Nicole Davis is an award winning professional plus-size model, and mental health advocate who has showcased in print, runway and as a fit model. From December 2017 to date, Rae Nicole has been featured in several different magazines; including gracing the cover of Queen Size Magazine in the January 2018 issue. In April 2018, Rae Nicole Davis was voted “Top Plus Model” for the inaugural DMV Plus Awards. Remaining active in the art of runway, during this current season, Rae Nicole appeared in New York Fashion Week walking for Rebdolls and Kizzed. She was also featured in the National Curves Day Fashion Gala and Baltimore Style Magazine’s “Big Bash” fashion showcase. As a model, brand ambassador and influencer, Rae Nicole hopes to continue to use fashion to positively impact the youth in her community. One of the ways she accomplishes this, is through her Baltimore, MD based mentor program EAGER, Inc. In the future, Miss Davis is interested expanding her focus to incorporate “Sliver Foxes”, by promoting positive mental and physical health through fashion at every age; and supporting an inclusive social climate change on transgenerational beauty standards. Since 2017, Rae Nicole has been wearing more than just the hat of the person in front of the camera. She has also served as a panelist, and has been worked behind the scenes as a creative director, production assistant, model coordinator and consultant.

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Tips for Dealing With Damaged Hair PHOTO SOURCE: (c) alfa27 / stock.Adobe.com ARTICLE BY STATEPOINT

Heat tools, color processing and even the simple act of brushing, can cause hair to lose its strength. Indeed, eight out of 10 women in the U.S. experience some form of damaged hair, according to an IPSOS Brand Health Study. But there’s good news, say experts. “You shouldn’t have to give up styling, coloring or all the things you love to do to your hair,” says Dr. Rocio Rivera, vice president and head of scientific communications at L’Oréal Paris. “You just need a solution that will repair and prevent the damage.” To revive your locks and protect them for the future, consider the following: TREAT HAIR WITH CARE Stick to the routines that leave you feeling beautiful. Just be sure to complete these tasks with care, gently shampooing and conditioning hair, avoiding unnecessary friction on the hair fiber by using a wide tooth comb (or whatever style brush or comb your stylist recommends for your hair type), avoiding tugging when combing and brushing, and considering wearing your hair in styles, at least some of the time,

that don’t pull. A gentler beauty regimen will mean healthier hair. RESTORATIVE PRODUCTS “Flat irons, curling irons, blow dryers -these daily essentials that give women the short-term look they want, often lead to long-term effects that cause real damage to the hair fiber,” notes Dr. Rivera. “Using a heat protectant before heat styling will prevent breakage and help hair remain strong.” Dr. Rivera recommends undoing the effects of heat styling as well as protecting hair from future damage with restorative products, such as those from the Elvive Total Repair 5 Collection. The collection includes Total Repair 5 Protein Recharge Leave-in, which is made with almonds and protein to restore protein loss in hair, offer 450 degree heat protection and make hair 15 times stronger for 97 percent less breakage. Also included is a rinseout balm product that repairs up to one year of damage in one use, fighting the appearance of split ends, weakness, roughness, dullness and dehydration. To complete your hair repair routine, use

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shampoos and conditioners tailored to your needs. This collection’s shampoo and conditioner, for example, are made from a formula containing ceramide and protein to fight visible signs of damaged hair. GET A REGULAR TRIM Even if you are growing your hair long, it’s important to trim ends regularly to do away with split ends and keep hair looking healthy and shiny. Skipping regular trims can cause the split end to go up the hair shaft, resulting in extra damage and frizz. CHECK YOUR LIFESTYLE Certain nutritional deficiencies, stress and lack of sleep are linked to hair damage and loss, so be sure your diet is wellrounded and contains all the components necessary for healthy hair. Likewise, get plenty of sleep and seek out ways to manage stress. Love your styling routine but hate damaged hair? Don’t despair. Whether it’s dryness, roughness or split ends, hair damage is normal, and simple steps and useful tools can help you protect and revive your locks.

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A CHAT WITH SHERITA IVORY yourself without judgment. All the experiences we have whether good or not so good, is an adventure and as long as I am able to wake up in the morning, I thank my Father God for carrying me through because for me, without Him I could lose it all. QSM: Thank you. And can I tell you how much I love your humble spirit? No matter where I see you at, you are always so quiet and humble. What do you do for a living if you don’t mind me asking? Sherita: Aww, Thank you for your statement about having a humble spirit, I’m thankful to be viewed in that light. I guess it’s just something that’s visibly seen by others but for me I’m just living. As a child of God, I know that He has been a positive, life changing influence in my life and I don’t take for granted the personal relationship I have with Him. In no way am I a perfect person but I do understand that I’m being perfected every day that I have breath in my body and for that I am thankful. In my professional life, I have a background as an administrative assistant and I was lead concierge in a nursing home for a number of years as the “nucleolus” in the sense that I was the point of contact for each department, so clearly I would have to have great communication skills *laughs*.

QSM: Well hello beautiful. Who is Sherita? Sherita: HeyHey QSM! To begin, I’d like to acknowledge that it is so Awesome to be interviewed by such an inspirational and respected magazine in the plus community and beyond as Queen Size Magazine is and I’d like to say that I appreciate this opportunity… Sherita Ivory, to sum up who I am is difficult to definitively say because I am continually exploring who I am through self growth and remaining open to learn more. As a passionate person, I’m motivated to put my all into what I connect with. My ambition causes me to thrive in whatever I set my mind to accomplishing the goals I have set for myself. Teaching and mentoring have always been a huge part of my life from my youth and I have continued utilizing those skills well into my adult life. I also enjoy public speaking in different capacities because I can use those opportunities to encourage and impart into others what knowledge I’ve acquired on various topics. My family and close friends are an important part of my life and I am strengthened by their love and compassion which I can in turn give unto those I come in contact with. I’m generally a happy person so I have the ability to find the “light” in every situation because I look for it and that light has helped me to get through the toughest of times. In this lifetime, we need laughter! I like to be silly and playfully crack jokes when I get to know people because when you’re around me I want you to feel relaxed and able to enjoy

QSM: What are some things about Sherita that people would be surprised to learn? Sherita: I had the opportunity to accompany a church on a weeklong mission’s trip to a rural area in Jamaica called Runaway Bay (definitely not the resort side of Montego Bay), years back which truly deepened my spirituality and opened my eyes to how we can take some of the basic needs that we have access to for granted. I taught bible story lessons to the children and we bought supplies for them to use for school. The people of that country including the children have such great faith and joy with the little that they have not looking to desire every “Want” as long as they have their “Need” was filled. Talk about a humbling experience… As the adventurous person that I am, I usually try to do something interesting for my birthday. So one year I felt like skydiving *laughs*. Only one of my sister girlfriends was brave enough to accompany me and we went to “I Fly” indoor skydiving and had a blast. I’ll take that for now but the time will come when I do the real thing. I’ve been snorkeling in the middle of the Caribbean without a life jacket because I can actually swim *laughs*, parasailing 1000ft in the air by myself and I was so amazed of how silent it was up that high and the first time I did the “dare devil dive” at Six Flags, I did it by myself because no one would go on with me but I wasn’t discouraged *laughs*. That’s just to name a few but there are other thrill seeking experiences I would like to have so I’ll keep you posted when I conquer them *laughs* WWW.QUEENSIZEMAGAZINE.COM| JANUARY 2019 ISSUE

18 QSM: Where did the idea of becoming a model come from? Sherita: The idea of becoming a model must have gotten sparked when my parents and grandmother took me on auditions for commercials as a baby. I later found out that my mother was also interested in modeling as a teenager but she didn’t pursue it, so I guess you can say it’s in my blood *laughs*. As I was growing up, I’ve always loved fashion because of the unique ways I could express my personality through what I wore. My style is defined as “free style” because it just depends on how I feel that day *laughs*. It’s catered to me and has evolved through the years according to the phase of life I was in. I can go from street, to corporate, to cultural, to full glam and embody that look. I’ve never been afraid to at least try a different style because I knew if I didn’t like it, I could change it, simple. QSM: How long have you been doing it now? Sherita: I’ve been modeling for a total of about eight years on and off. It was important for me to graduate high school with an advanced diploma and further my education in college studying psychology while pursuing my dreams to become a model. QSM: You recently took some time off from modeling; why? Sherita: I used the term “total” referring to the number of years I’ve been modeling because there was a period of time when I felt my life moving in a different direction so modeling had to be put on hold. I won’t go into great detail because that is a book within itself *laughs*, but I will say it’s important to be secure in who you are and be receptive to understanding the impact you can make in this world. During my years of sabbatical from modeling, the passion I had for the craft did not dissolve, so I went on model castings when I felt that I was able to return and doors began to open. QSM: What is it about modeling that you love the most; that thing that made you come back to it? Sherita: The thing that I love most about modeling is the creative aspect. I am naturally creative and I can implement my talents into the work that I produce individually and collaboratively. I’ve had the wonderful opportunity to meet and work with a number of talented people in their own right that I’ve learned from. Whether they are photographers, designers, fashion show producers, models, MUA’s, hairstylist, magazine publishers, business managers, pr representatives, etc., I found out more about myself as a woman and a model. Being able to wear a garment and present it in a way that the onlooker is interested enough to purchase that item, really makes me feel a sense of achievement because that’s what I feel is my purpose as a model. It is very satisfying because to me one of the definitions of being a model is that you are actually a sales person, so when purchases are made because I wore it, #NailedIt *laughs*. QSM: Do you find that modeling is everything that you expected it to be? If not, what experiences have taught you differently? Sherita: My expectation is very broad on what modeling is because there are so many facets to it. Thankfully, I am making strides but I’m not at my fullest potential since there are areas I haven’t been exposed to but I believe they are soon approaching. I came in knowing that it would take hard work and that everyone doesn’t make it into the mainstream industry but with patience and timing it’s possible.

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BEAUTY AND FASHION QSM: You have a very unique style that I like about you. Where did you pick up your posing techniques? Sherita: Posing technique? *laughs* Well thank you for considering it that way but I just try not to think too deeply into what I’m doing because that seems to work better for me. I’m not afraid to try something that is considered awkward or challenging because those could be the “money shots”; clearly I’m not above climbing in a tree like I did for our photo shoot *laughs*. I think it’s important to give the photographer/editor a variety to choose from so letting go and just doing can produce many usable photos. There was a time in my life when I was a little more reserved and maybe you can even say shy, but to be a model you cannot exhibit that behavior in front of the camera because it will show up in your photograph. I choose not to live up to anyone else’s standard but to give my personal best. QSM: Who are some of the other plus size models that inspire you and why? Sherita: OMGoodness! There are so many plus model influences that I can name who inspire me but I would have to start back to Marilyn Monroe. Now she was more known as an actress but she definitely had many classic poses from a still shot. We can look at her and say there’s no way she is plus size but according to “industry standards” she was and carried it well. Mia Tyler has also been a favorite of mine along with Tocarra Jones, Anansa Sims, Liris Cross, Tess Holliday, Ashley Graham are a few who have made it to celebrity status as plus models. These women have opened doors in the industry so others who are on similar paths can walk through and continue to change the view of the standard as I desire to achieve. Some of my peers on the “Stiletto Circuit” (it’s what I call it because a lot of us run into each other at various castings and shows; reminiscent of the Chitterling Circuit *laughs*), I am also inspired by and we should encourage each other since we’re heading towards a goal within the community. QSM: What contributions do you feel you make to the modeling industry and what are two things that you like to see change? Sherita: Well, I can only hope that I make contributions within the industry. I would like to leave an impression of love and heart with everything I produce. Whatever you choose to do in this lifetime, I believe it’s imperative to enjoy it and have fun doing it in order to have fulfillment within yourself. I am not where I’d like to be YET with modeling financially sustaining me but I truly am thankful that I am living my dreams even at this level… One change that I would like to see in the industry is more plus size designers actually making plus size clothes. Too often I have come across designers who are considered plus size themselves that refuse to make plus size clothing. Being that they know about structure and placement, I would think that it makes sense to be able to drape a body type similar to yours in a flattering way. It’s an interesting concept to me but I am a proponent of doing what you feel. Another change I would like to see is for high end designers to create more styles in plus size measurements over a size 10/12. This also ties into models within the community accepting all sizes of plus. I am 5’10, size 14/16 and I often get told that I am not really “plus size”. Listen, I’ve been plus my entire life and have grown to love my frame. As long as I am at my personal “health wealth” weight, no matter what they say I’m comfortable with me.

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and create something that will continue on beyond the modeling. I would want to have been an inspiration and positive representation not only those coming up behind me but to those I’m walking along side, letting them know that you should always, always chase your dreams and do it without regrets. I personally did not want to go through my life wondering why I didn’t at least try earnestly without even knowing the outcome. Know that your sacrifices will be rewarded if you keep a steady pace while maintaining your focus and investing and believing in yourself.

QSM: If you had the opportunity to model for one particular designer who would it be? Sherita: There are so many fabulous designers to choose that I would Loove to model for such as Tracy Reese, Zac Posen, Alexander McQueen, Dsquared, Betsy Johnson, Rachel Roy, Yves Saint Laurent, Diane Von Furstenberg, I could go on and on, but the designer I have been watching since he hit the scene on Project Runway is Christian Siriano. To me, he uses a unique eye with his designs that is chic, solid and fashionably fashion forward. His color palettes, textures and structure in design really speak to my style taste. Although he is considered a high end designer, he also has more affordable items which is commendable. QSM: What are your ultimate goals as a model? When you can no longer model for whatever reason, what accomplishments would you want to have made? Sherita: My ultimate goal as a model is to get consistent monetary reward doing what I love. Whether that is as an independent or a signed model would be welcomed. Currently, I am learning the business and retaining information in order to present myself accordingly as I set my goals and achieve them. If for whatever reason my time is completed with modeling, I would like to have accomplished more than enough knowledge to continue in the industry in some capacity. To remain around that type of creative energy will only yield to the expansion of my own gifts and talents

QSM: What advice would you give if approached by another model for advice on how to get into modeling? Sherita: When people approach me about how to start modeling the first thing I say to them is that everybody in the industry has started somewhere so don’t feel like you won’t obtain your goals. For example, if we all had the same goal, our paths will be different but we will get there. I’d tell them that they have to have a passion for the business. There will be times when you won’t get selected or get paid, people will be rude to you, offend you, talk about you whether it be good or bad and you have to be able to deal with the different personalities diplomatically. Show yourself friendly and welcoming to project someone that people are willing to work with. Professionalism and consistency is highly encouraged because you never know who is connected to whom and people talk. Be open to doing something you may have never done according to your standards and morals, knowing that if it’s something you don’t want to do, you don’t have to. Be in control of your career and the image that you want to portray to society since we are living in a digital, social media world. Maybe most important of all, search within yourself to see if modeling is for you. You may feel like you want to give it up at times, believe me everybody’s been there, but your passion has to override your temporary emotion. To someone on the outside it may look as if we’re just standing and looking pretty but there is a lot of actual work that goes into it if you want to make a name for yourself in the industry. “I operate as a business but I’m corporate minded.” –Sherita Ivory QSM: Thank you for your time Sherita. Remind everyone where they can follow you for updates and bookings. Sherita: Thank you again for allowing me to share my experience on this platform. I am on Instagram @sherita_ivory and you can book me through Email: ivorymodel@yahoo.com QSM: Any final thoughts you want to share? Sherita: You have to know that everyone is not going to be your friend but in many cases it will only be a professional relationship and that’s ok. For the place that I am currently in on this journey, I can say that I literally love what I do and I’m taking every experience as it comes and living in that moment. During my life I’ve marched to the beat of my own drum. Sometimes it may be as loud and energetic as the “Big Band” of the 1900’s (I would actually like to sing with one someday *laughs*), or it may be as calm as a lullaby, either way I’m going to keep beating. I know my path is specific and catered to my destiny in this lifetime so I operate in faith believing what is meant for me, is for me.

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Vanessa Mays is a wife, mother, full-time student and a plus size model/influencer from Newark, NJ. When Vanessa is not spending time with family and friends or doing school work, she enjoys pursuing her modeling career. She has worked with many notable companies and designers and has participated in many popular runway shows in her six years of modeling. She has modeled for Full Figured Fashion Week three times from 2013-2015. She also has walked the runways of Curves Rock Fashion Weekend, Plus Night Out, and Brooklyn Fashion Week. There she made many connections and went on to model for designers such as Robert E. Knight, Tru Diva Designs, Qristyl Frazier, SimplyBe, Macyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s, and Eyani Couture among others. She has done print work for Atlanta Based companies Jibri and the Diva Kurves Collection. She is also the face for designer Kay Dupree. Vanessa has also been featured in fashion segments on BET and The Today Show working as an in house model for Ashley Stewart and working with celebrity stylist Denise Caldwell. Through her modeling journey she has appeared in Full Blossom magazine, Daily Venus Diva and Plus Model Magazine and has received honorable mentions in different plus size fashion blogs such as The Curvy Fashionista, Vibe, Everything Curvy and Chic and A Thick Girlâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Closet. This year she modeled at the CurvyCon in NYC. Most recently, she completed a special project with celebrity designer, Marco Hall and leading authority on beauty, Mikki Taylor.

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Getting to know Vanessa QSM: Vanessa Mays-Hinds, now this has been a long time coming. We are finally here; thank you. Thank you for always being true to you. How long have you been in this modeling game? Vanessa: No, thank you for this awesome opportunity! I am so excited to be on my first cover! This has come full circle for me because when I started out back in 2012, I remember meeting you at one of my first castings and receiving a printed QSM magazine with my friend Tanisha Frazier on the cover. I still have that magazine! QSM: WOW!!! I remember that. LOL…. You are a mom, a wife, student and a career woman. I don’t mean to sound cliché-is, but how do you manage? Vanessa: Time management is super important to me. I prioritize the important things in my life and make sure that everything gets the proper time and attention it needs. I pride myself in being meticulous and organized in everything I do. I am currently maintaining a 4.0 GPA in school. However, I will drop everything for my two loves, my husband and my daughter. QSM: What are you currently studying? Vanessa: I am majoring in Early Childhood Education with a minor in English with a Special Education endorsement. I may complain about the workload but I secretly love it. Geek life! QSM: How old is your daughter now? Vanessa: Jenna is fifteen years old and a sophomore in high school. Can we talk about how she is in Driver’s Ed? I’m not ready! LOL. She is such a respectful, kind, smart, and funny young lady. She is my world! I have become a soccer mom because of her :) QSM: You blink and they are all grown up. Let’s talk about your husband for a second. Did you get married before or after you began modeling? Vanessa: I got married in 2010 so it was before I began modeling. Early on in my modeling career, I used to travel a lot! I’d be away for castings, practices, shows, and photoshoots in NYC, Pennsylvania, Maryland, Virginia, and Florida. He was SO understanding and supportive because he knows what it is like to pursue your passions and dreams. It was very eye opening for me because it made me realize that there were times where I could have been more supportive of his passion for music. I didn’t understand it at the time but being a model, I totally get it now. He’s such a great dad too, and stepped even further into that role while I was away. At times, I would feel guilty being away from my daughter every weekend while I was working.

QSM: I remember discussing with a model a while back about the strain her modeling had on her relationship. Does this ever, or has this ever been an issue within your marriage? Vanessa: I would have feelings of guilt being away so much but if it bothered him, he would keep it to himself. LOL. Communication is so important. I’d make sure to communicate about the projects I was involved in and check in on the family when I was away. Most of my model friends are single (and ready to mingle:) There are a couple that I know that are in relationships where their boyfriend is super supportive, which is great! I have heard a couple of stories of boyfriends being jealous of their girlfriend’s success, or resentful that she was making more money. In the age of social media, we as models get a lot of attention from men (comments, likes, DM’s) and sometimes that can cause insecurities in relationships as well. My husband realizes that this attention just comes with the territory, but I will check a man or woman quick if they say anything inappropriate to me on social media. WWW.QUEENSIZEMAGAZINE.COM| JANUARY 2019 ISSUE

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QSM: Tell me about what got you into modeling? Vanessa: Modeling was something I had wanted to do since high school but didn’t have the confidence or the knowhow on how to get started. In 2010, I lost about sixty pounds for my wedding. I was the smallest I had ever been, a 14/16, and was feeling healthy and super confident. I decided to do my research and find out how to break into the modeling industry. I was so incredibly nervous but, I was received and welcomed with open arms by everyone I met. Not to mention I was getting booked for most of the jobs I casted for. That is when I knew that I was doing something right :) QSM: I have to ask you as an experienced model; what are your views on the whole “drop the plus” controversy? Vanessa: I personally embrace the term “plus size.” What is wrong with it? When did it become shameful to identify with such a word? Of course the term “plus size” doesn’t define who we are as individuals but it absolutely brings us together as a community. I like walking into a store and looking for the plus size section and knowing that I can go in that section and find clothes that fit me. Just don’t put us in the back of the store! Pet peeve! QSM: Now what are your thoughts on the progress of the plus fashion industry and what changes would you like to see? Vanessa: I believe we have made some huge strides in the last couple of years. I’m starting to see more size, age, and color diversity in campaigns. There has been a push with the body positive movement for us to embrace our flaws. Women consumers are asking to see models that look like them in the magazines and we are seeing more of that from certain brands. You can see an ad where the images haven’t been airbrushed and the model has imperfections, cellulite, and stretch marks. That is definitely a step in the right direction although we have much more work to do in terms of inclusivity. What I really love to see is the breakthrough of plus size male models industry! The “Bae

Walks” show at Full Figured Fashion Week was the first time I had seen a production dedicated solely to showcasing plus size men. If that’s not fantastic, I don’t know what is! QSM: There have been many talks about freelancing vs being signed. Let me ask you first, have you ever been signed to an agency? Vanessa: Yes, I was signed to several agencies when I first started out. The education portion of it I really loved. A good agent will teach you what to wear, what to do, terminology, and how to carry yourself to castings, print, showroom, and fit jobs. I am very curvy, so at the time, my measurements were not necessarily what clients were looking for, for fit work. Those were few and far between for me. Print and runway were mainly what I was being casted for. Over time, I realized I liked the freedom of being a freelance model; however, I value what I have learned from working with agencies. QSM: What are some brands that you have had the opportunity to work with? Vanessa: Whew! I have been so blessed to work with some of the best! Ashley Stewart, Jibri, Diva Kurves, Tru Diva, Eyani Couture, Kay Dupree, Qristyl Frazier, SimplyBe, Rebdolls, Haircredible, and Macys, just to name some. I just shot a special project with celebrity designer Marco Hall and the First Lady of Beauty, Mikki Taylor. QSM: WOW! Congrats!!! I remember you saying to me that you felt like everyone was not built for an agency; can you explain what that means? Vanessa: If I’m being honest, not everyone is going to be scouted to be represented by an agency and that is perfectly okay. The industry fluctuates and clients may want something one day and something different the next. The agency may already have someone on their board that looks like you already, or you may not meet their size and height requirements. It does not make you any less of a model if you are not signed to an agency.

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QSM: Why do you think aspiring models today are so caught up on trying to get signed? And what would be your advice to them? Vanessa: I think that there is a preconceived notion that once you are signed to an agency, that the money and fame will automatically start rolling in as soon as you are signed. That couldn’t be further from the truth. You can sit on an agency’s board for YEARS and not get booked for one job. There is a lot of competition between models and as I mentioned before, clients change their needs all the time. My advice to aspiring models: do not get hung up on signing to an agency. That will not validate you or measure your success as a model. If it doesn’t happen for you, create your own lane. QSM: What are your thoughts on model managers? Vanessa: I have never had or needed one. If it works for you, great! QSM: Are you still modeling? Vanessa: I am still modeling although I keep telling people I am retired. LOL. I am blessed to have built relationships with people in the industry who will still call me to work on projects with them. I love modeling but it has taken a backseat to me pursuing my degree. However, I am always down to come out for a good SLAYYYYYY :) QSM: You said in a previous statement to me that you made the shift over to influencer; what exactly does that look like for you? Vanessa: I love fashion and beauty and that will never change. Even though I do not model as frequently as I used to, I still like to showcase my love for fashion on my social media platforms. My followers/supporters seem to be very receptive when I do that. I will occasionally partner with brands and post myself wearing their products on my

instagram. It allows me the freedom to still model but with more flexibility and more creative control. With my busy schedule it just works for me. QSM: Why the switch? What is the difference between what you were doing before to this new role? Vanessa: As an influencer, it gives me the ability to connect with my supporters on a more intimate level. They are seeing my personal sense of fashion and my flaws and all. I can talk to them on my social media about everything-sizing, fit, body positivity and confidence…..and of course, how they can get into modeling. I can still make money working with brands in this way but it is more on my time and gives me the ability to be creative. This, in conjunction with traditional modeling, is a match made in heaven for me. QSM: When it’s all said and done, how do you measure your success? Vanessa: I measure my success on the people I impact. I love when I get messages from women saying that they put on a two piece bathing suit for the first time because they loved how confident I looked wearing mine. I also love when aspiring models approach me about the ins and outs of the industry and actually follow some of my advice. Then I see them getting booked! I love that! QSM: Please share some final thoughts and your social media info for people to follow you. Vanessa: I am so humbled and blessed to be able to live life on my own terms. At the end of the day, we all have to do what is best for us, whatever that may look like. I’m loving what my modeling career looks like for me right now, but who knows, that may change. I am open to evolving, learning, and seeing what the future has to bring. Please can follow me on IG @Iamvmays or FB at Facebook.com/ plusmodelvanessamays

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hen chilly weather arrives and the days get shorter, chances are good you’ll spend the majority of your days indoors. Before you start your hibernation, it’s a good idea to ensure your home is up to the task. Put your well-being at the top of the list with these ideas to help ensure a health-conscious home that’s ready for the dark days of winter.

Encourage better air quality

When the house is closed up tight to keep out the cold, you may be trapping in some undesirable air pollutants. A well-sealed house may not have the best circulation, and that’s the ideal environment for dust mites and other allergens to accumulate. A thorough cleaning is the first step toward better air quality. Do a deep vacuuming of all carpets, including under furniture and around baseboards. Be sure to launder linens that aren’t

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typically part of your regular washing routine, like window treatments and comforters. You may want to consult a heating and cooling specialist to determine whether your ductwork is due for a cleaning. Especially if your system didn’t get much use through the summer months, there may be a fair bit of dust just waiting to infiltrate your home once the furnace begins to blow. Be sure to change filters, clean vents and air returns and, if necessary, consider adding an air purifier that helps filter any remaining particles for the best quality air. When opening windows isn’t comfortable during cold winter weather, letting the sunshine in can still help to improve indoor air quality. A study by the University of Oregon’s Biology and the Built Environment Center showed rooms with increased sunlight have fewer viable bacteria. “Until now, daylighting design has been primarily about visual comfort or circadian health, but now we can say daylighting influences air quality,” said Kevin Van Den Wymelenberg, co-director of the BioBE Center and co-author of the study.

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Let in light

Natural light plays an important role in overall health, and reduced daylight in the winter months can have a big impact on productivity and sleep, according to a recent survey conducted by YouGov on behalf of Velux. For example, nearly twothirds of respondents said they believe daylight affects their productivity and mood. Light is also an important cue to the body’s circadian clock, and proper exposure to natural light during the day can help support better sleep when darkness falls. What’s more, sunlight is a natural antidepressant, and there is ample scientific evidence that associates daylight with better health and quality of life, such as improved mood, less fatigue and reduced eyestrain. It may be tempting to keep the drapes closed when it’s blustery outside to ward off a draft, but with well-sealed windows, there’s no reason to block that all-important natural light. In rooms with ample natural light available, take advantage, especially in the morning when exposure to daylight can benefit your circadian rhythm. However, not every room is situated to maximize your access to natural light, and that’s when you can get creative. One solution is skylights, which add natural light to virtually any space. An option like a Sun Tunnel Skylight offered by Velux Skylights lends brightness to even the smallest spaces, like a bathroom or hallway. For a larger room, a fresh-air skylight can help address air quality concerns, and some models offer smartphone connectivity to open and close the skylight and even raise or lower blinds with a few quick taps of the finger. Learn more at whyskylights.com.

Keep out the cold

As a child, you were probably warned to bundle up in cooler weather to avoid catching a cold. As an adult, you likely realize that germs, not temperatures, cause illness. However, there is some truth to the old wives’ tales associating cold with getting sick. The viruses that cause colds and the flu thrive in cooler temperatures, for example. This means that, at least indirectly, a cold environment may indeed make you sick. To ward off a chill in your home, safeguard against drafts around windows and doors. If seasonal weather-proofing is impractical, consider temporary solutions like draft stoppers or mats you can place at the base of doors. Add insulation, if needed, in areas that commonly release a significant amount of heat, such as the attic and garage.

Daylight Makes a Difference As the days become shorter and colder, the importance of getting enough daylight is even more acute to sleep patterns, mood and productivity. These tips can help you get a better night sleep: n Increase your exposure to natural light during the day. Take a lunchtime walk at work or, if you can’t get outside, sit by a window while you eat. n Install blackout curtains in your bedroom to block light from street lamps and the moon. n Turn your thermostat down in the evenings to create a cooler bedroom to sleep in. n Establish a good bedtime routine. For example, read a book instead of spending more time looking at a screen. Blue light from electronic devices mimics daylight and can trick your brain into staying alert. n Use red or orange bulbs in kids’ night lights as these are some of the least disruptive to sleep.

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Photo credits - Photographer | PDrew Photography @pdrewphotography, Model | Aqila Mimi Benjamin @thefullersideofthings, Hair and Makeup done by model Left: Custom Made Blouse & Skirt | Shakira Browne @stylzoverfashion, Shoes | Aldo’s @Aldo, Fascinator (Hat) | Comfort One Shoes @ComfortOneShoes, Earrings | Belle and Broome @Belleandbroome Right: Silk Shirt | Fat Girl Club Apparel @FatGirlClubApparel, Faux Fur Stole | Charming Charlies Jeans | Ashley Stewart @byashleystewart, Shoes | Macy’s @Macys

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ENTREPRENEUR SPOTLIGHT | AQILA “MIMI” BENJAMIN

Aqila “Mimi” Benjamin of The Fuller Side of Things serves as an Emcee/ Host, Body Positive Advocate, Motivational Speaker, Plus Model and her most popular role: Social Media Correspondent. With an infectious spirit and a keen sense of what it means to mobilize others, Mimi takes her roles seriously all while empowering everyone to be the best version of themselves. She gives her backing to any cause with the objective of the empowerment of people; and puts her money where her mouth is supporting numerous community service organizations. She also spends time promoting her own anti-bullying campaign: #Advocate4You. Through this initiative Mimi puts her pumps to the pavement, spreading body positivity and self advocacy. You can catch her traveling city to city on a mission to Unify, Mentor and Inspire others through her newest venture: the NetWerq Your Ass Off Tour! Photographer | PDrew Photography @pdrewphotography, Model | Aqila Mimi Benjamin @ thefullersideofthings, Hair and Makeup done by model, Silk Shirt | Fat Girl Club Apparel @FatGirlClubApparel, Faux Fur Stole | Charming Charlies

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MIMI WHO? QSM: Heyyyy Mimi… lol. Let’s chat. Tell us a little about Aqila. Where are you from? What was life like growing up for you? Mimi: Hey Girl Hey! I am from Washington DC. Lived most of my life there then moved around a little. But the DMV (DC, Maryland and Virginia) area is home. Growing up was AMAZING! My mom wasn’t rich but that didn’t stop her from making sure we made wonderful memories. My whole family showed me love and taught me so much about life. QSM: What did you want to be when you were growing up? Mimi: I wanted to be a Chef. I used to burn my mom pots UP! lol Can you believe I don’t like cooking now as an adult? QSM: Well what a change lol. In school, were you a social butterfly or were you the quiet one? Mimi: I was THE Social Butterfly; always have been. Even when I tried to be quiet it never worked. My whole family is full of Social Butterflies though. Yes Holidays with my family are full of loud laughter and crazy ass stories. QSM: Before you became a Social Media Correspondent, what were you doing before then? Mimi: I was working at Fashion To Figure. They had just started opening stores in the DC Metropolitan Area and I was one of their first hires. I absolutely LOVED working for them. It taught me so much. I worked directly under the owners so I absorbed as much knowledge as possible. I became very popular in the area amongst the Plus Size Community. That’s where my passion to become a part of the Body Positive Movement came from. I had the power of giving people their confidence back through Fashion. QSM: What was your motivation behind becoming a Social Media Correspondent? Mimi: I started to do it honestly out of nowhere. I wanted to become an Influencer and the wave at the time was people doing Social Media “Takeovers”. So it was to showcase me; then I started to notice that people needed REAL coverage for their events. So I developed a template to make sure that whatever content I post for their events paralleled with their brand. I wanted to make sure that people were going to have AMAZING LIVE coverage when coming to look into attending the next event. Then the rest was history. QSM: Let’s take a step back and talk about your anti-bullying campaign. What is the story behind that? Mimi: #Advocate4You was birthed after I was publicly Fat Shamed on my birthday two years ago. It was one of the most humiliating moments. I have talked openly about Fat

Shaming, but to have it actually happen to ME was crazy! I have always been a person to talk the talk AND walk the walk. So I knew this couldn’t be taken lightly. I planned a PEACEFUL silent protest inside of the establishment. Before I did that I walked around DC collecting signatures from people promising to help put an end to bullying and Body Shaming. I gave them the posters with all the signatures. It encouraged so many people to stand up and want to do more. So that’s where it all started. QSM: You pour into people’s souls and you do it with genuine compassion. Why is this so important to you? Mimi: It is important to me because everyone is not blessed with a support system like mine. I want people who feel like they don’t have anyone to know I am here. Yes I know I might not be able to speak to everyone so I publicly post my trials and accomplishments to show others that yes it gets hard BUT you HAVE to keep pushing! You are your ONLY limit. Honestly I would have given up if I listened to every rejection, nasty comment or negative advice someone had given or did to me. I use that shit to fuel my fire! (I hope I can curse lol) QSM: You are allowed a cus word. Lol. You recently became a part of Amber Rose’s SlutWalk event. Share the story behind that for us please. Mimi: I was extremely nervous when it came to me applying to do Social Media Correspondence for them. But my motto in life is the worst thing someone can tell me is no, so just go for it. “SlutWalk is a transnational movement of protest marches calling for an end to rape culture, including victim blaming and slut shaming of sexual assault victims. Specifically, participants protest against explaining or excusing rape by referring to any aspect of a woman’s appearance”. No matter the assignment I take on as A Social Media Correspondent it HAS to parallel with MY Morals & Values. This one hit home. I became very passionate about this because I learned that my Mom was a victim of Sexual assault/Abuse. Once as a teenager then as an adult while we were in high school! We NEVER knew! So many people think it happens to people that are “Asking For It” but NO ONE is asking for it! No matter what your profession is No mean No! Think about it my Mom was assaulted covered head to toe because she practiced Islam when she was younger. What’s the excuse for that? It doesn’t matter what I wear or choose to NOT wear My Body MY Rules! Call me a Slut but DO NOT touch me! I wanted to show my support for women and men who have become SURVIVORS of the ill actions of Sexual Assault/Abuse and Being Body Shamed. Photographer | PDrew Photography @pdrewphotography Models | Shenell LaPierre @shenellle Travis Grady @ _chefunlimited_

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QSM: For the people that say “how do you make a business out of doing that”, what do you say to them? Mimi: Social Media is POWERFUL! To every business owner you can NOT go without having some type of Social Media platform. So I offer to my clients Guaranteed Quality coverage. Every Business has someone who does their Social Media/ Marketing. Social Media is a great way to advertise and promote any brand or business with the Visual Experience being key! As a Social Media Correspondent my clients have close to 1.1million followers combined. Even though you may have a Marketing or Social Media team, my job is to be day of and cover LIVE content. As a SMC, my job is to keep attending guests and your social media followers entertained and informed. I help ease the stress of media coverage for your event making sure the virtual experience is covered professionally and comprehensively. I am thoroughly knowledgeable about creating creative content that parallels with your brand to align with your analytics. QSM: Who are some of your clients as a Social Media Correspondent? Mimi: Third Annual Amber Rose #SlutWalk Weekend in Los Angeles, CA which consisted of the #OPENed Women’s Conference with keynote speaker Debbie Allen & #SlutWalk Festival that had over 18,000 people in attendance. KellysKlosetdotnet, MogulCom, 6th Annual Naturalista Expo, Philadelphia Curves Weekend, Essence Of Curves Curvy/ Plus Fashion Review & Curvy Boss Panel, Essence of Curves, Miami Curves Week, “U Better Get This Free Knowledge Tour”, Women’s Wealth B.O.S.S.(Business Owner Success Strategy) Brunch Washington DC, Third Annual Bold Favor Awards Douglasville, GA, New York Fashion Week Fall Fashion Showcase for Smart Glamour, National Curves Day 3rd Annual Honors and Fashion Gala, DC Metro Area, TCFStyle Expo in Atlanta, GA hosted by The Curvy Fashionista, District of Curves 4th & 5th Annual Full Figure Fashion Showcase, Washington, DC, “Curvy Road to Runway” Blog Launch at Fashion to Figure. QSM: What is the job of a Social Media Correspondent? I’m sure people probably think it’s sitting behind a desk and just posting on social media. lol Mimi: Social Media Correspondence is bigger than just a Takeover. You have to STUDY each and every client. I make sure that each Capture List is TAILORED to my client. It’s not just snapping pics and posting them. You have to become the “Ghost Poster” (get it? like a rapper has a Ghost Writer I’m corny lol) and make sure that what you cover is NOT what you feel is best. Yes you have to become creative with posting BUT you still have to make sure it makes sense. Your GOAL as a SMC is NOT to highlight YOU throughout the coverage; you have to let your work speak for itself. At these events I’m talking to EVERYBODY from the Volunteers to the Sponsors. So there is NO sitting down. You are there to do a job which I take VERY serious.

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QSM: Let’s talk about this NetWerq Your Ass Off Tour! I know the name itself was a turnoff for some people, but you kept it; why? Mimi: The Netwerq Your Ass Off Tour has the foundation to Unify Mentor and Inspire people into their Greatness! I created it because I have seen so many people STRUGGLE to promote themselves. Networking has become a lost art. People have become lazy in the sense of thinking just because they post on Social Media that will be enough to get their business to the next level. It is not! You must put your feet to the pavement and MEET people! Shake hands with folks; create long lasting business relationships through the exchange of knowledge! I refuse to change the name because it’s about the HUSTLE! People need to understand that you CAN’T wait for things to fall into your lap! You gotta get off your ASS and get what you deserve! Think about it how many times have you been to an event, went home and WISHED you talked to this person or that person? Or wished you had business cards on you, or had more confidence in your approach? Netwerq Your Ass Off is a Brand Building Seminar that teaches you the fundamentals of Networking. So you learn things like Elevator Speech and Being Confident in your Approach. Why spend hundreds and sometimes Thousands of dollars on attending events and having no real Return On Investment? My mission is for people to maximize those experiences by having the proper knowledge and tools. Yes I got a lot of rejection but my Goal is bigger than that. I want people to feel empowered. I don’t care if you have 50 or 500,000 followers you can be AMAZING! QSM: What is the tour about and why did you make it a tour? Mimi: I made it a tour because I understand that people can’t always travel to events. Entrepreneurship is NOT easy! So I wanted people to understand that I am here and I understand that it takes a lot of Financial, Spiritual and Mental Sacrifice to pursue your dream. I wanted this knowledge to be accessible. QSM: What are some things about Mimi that people would be surprised to learn? Mimi: I hate the actual action of traveling. Sooooo many people hit me up and says they wish they can travel like I do. I always pack last minute. I hate booking flights & hotels. I’m actually really bad at it lol and I hate going through TSA. It’s all a pain in the ass. Oh and I’m OBSESSED with Slim Jims. QSM: Girl I LOVE me some Slim Jims too. Thank you so much for your time. Please leave us with some final thoughts and advise. Also leave your social media info. Mimi: My #1 goal in life is NOT to become rich but to continuously encourage people. I don’t have a lot of money but I knew that I wanted to make sure that I gave back. So every single thing I do has a foundation to help people. I want to challenge you reading this article to do the same. Don’t start anything to “Prove” something. Do what you are doing to ENCOURAGE people! The fruits of your labor will be way more satisfying, I promise you. Do not let ANYONE tell you that your Passion and Dreams do not make any sense. As long as you do it with integrity you WILL be successful. IG: @Thefullersideofthings Photographer | PDrew Photography @pdrewphotography FB: The Fuller Side Of Things Model | Aqila Mimi Benjamin @thefullersideofthings Hair and Makeup done by model Website: fullersideofthings.com Army Green Duster | Eloquii @Eloquii Turtle Neck | Rainbow @rainbowshops Email: Thefullersideofthings@gmail.com Jean Shorts | Fat Girl Club Apparel @FatGirlClubApparel Shades | Kymmi Tea @ all_around_dope_girl Belt | Ashley Stewart @byashleystewart Shoes | Macy’s @Macys Necklace | Fashion To Figure @ftfsnaps

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Hello Queens, Have you ever wondered what it would take to be a Pageant Beauty Queen? Well let me share the first time experiences of Mrs. Latoia Valentine who recently won First Runner-up in the 2018 Ms. Full-figured North Carolina Pageant. Latoia is a wife and mother of two from Roxboro, North Carolina and is an educator by career choice. She was inspired by her young daughter, who is full figured, to get involved with the pageant. Her daughter thought it would be a good idea to take her to a pageant for exposure. As a contestant she learned that you do meet a lot of great people; however contestants fail to think about all of the time, effort and money that is required to be a part of a pageant, such as having their makeup artist, stylist and a photographer. These are things that she wished she had known about early on when she began the process. Choosing her pageant platform was second nature, she focused on education because there are a lot of unmet needs with the African American student versus their white counterparts. The best advice that Lotoia can offer if you’re interested in being a part of a pageant is be financially prepared to support the fees that are associated with the pageant, also think about your platform and know it well. Practice your speech so that you can be well-versed in front of people. One of the biggest challenges being in a pageant is dealing with the various personalities. People come from all walks of life and you may have the expectations that things are going to go smoothly but people get frustrated during pageants. You have to be comfortable in your own skin. Even within a FullFigured pageant unfortunately there is body shaming and body challenges. The sizes ranged from 12 to 24 and she would hear others say “ they shouldn’t be considered plus-size” or “they are too big to wear that” and there is a lot of mean girl stuff that goes on behind the scene which can cause division. Latoia does not always have a positive self-esteem view, but she draws from her daughter and projects that positive energy in different areas of her life. And she wants women to live beyond their expectations and never let anyone set limits on what they can accomplish. Whats next for Latoia? She is keeping her options open and is looking forward to getting into print modeling. She can be found on IG @ Classysassyme1, FB @ Latoia Johnson Valentine and email: Latoia@alumni.unc.edu. So Queens, are you ready to take on the Crown? Hopefully you now have better insight to answer that question. Until next time my Queens live your best life. Love, (Lala) Lawanda Sanyang Photographer: Rick D. Jones Makeup Artist: Lala faces WWW.QUEENSIZEMAGAZINE.COM|JANUARY 2019 ISSUE

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THE BODY STRUGGLE IS REAL: HEALTH vs FITNESS vs CAREER The holiday food rush is over! I do not know about you, but I ate real, real, real good for the months of November and December. I absolutely indulged in everything that was put in front of me. However, I did choose wisely on the amounts and the time of consumption for every mor-sel. Those choices were made basically from three aspects of my life: health, fitness, and career. Being Big and Tall comes with an eating price! That price is addressed by each and every Big and Tall man. So, yes you are on the bigger and taller side of the scale, but that does not mean you just let eve-rything go when it comes to your body as a male. There must be a happy medium when it comes to your body in relation to health, fitness, and career. These aspects are especially true for the aspiring or professional Big and Tall model and influencer. A thought out process, shall we say! Before you can dive into creating a happy medium, you must first understand your body shape and where you fall in those categories. Those three are ectomorph, endomorph, and mesomorph. These categories were popularized by William Sheldon, an American psychologist, back in the 1940s. However, please understand that these are not set in stone by no means. Strip down and take a look in the mirror, what do you see? Ectomorphs have lean, long bodies with difficulty in building muscle mass. Endomorphs have big, pear-shaped bodies with high body fat tendencies. Mesomorphs have muscular, well-built bodies with high metabolisms. On average, your body will fall into one or more of these shapes throughout your life. As a Big and Tall man, health should be a key factor in your life. According to the National Cen-ter on Health, Physical Activity and Disability Organization, males are more likely to lead less healthy lifestyles than females. Society actually highlights most stereotypical masculine things like smoking

and drinking as the thing to do, but will not highlight getting a checkup. Ignoring the issue usually means more difficulty with it in your later years. Research deeper into your body shape type and find out what kind of health conditions most affect you. The main goal is to find your health issues early and address them head on like a man. Fitness is another tremendous factor that is ignored by our Big and Tall community. To be a big man or big boy, for some reason, is seen as some type of hierarchy stature. Not saying that all big guys are not physically fit, but they get way more flack than our tall man counterparts. The tall guy also gets a false hierarchy stature in society with the thoughts of “slim is healthy,” but often times that is not true. Knowing your body shape type is the only foundation for creating an ef-fective fitness plan. A fitness plan is important for all males, big and tall. Your Body and Careers! This is the big one! Not all of us have careers that are directly associated with our body, but those that do please take note. Modeling and influencer careers in the Big and Tall industry are recent phenomena. So, yes there is a learning curve attached, but it may not bend as much as you think. For starters, know your body shape type and build a health and fitness plan around it to learn from. Creating that happy medium is extremely important when you choose a career that is associated with your body. Just because you are a Big and Tall guy does not mean that you are an instant model or influencer. This translates often times into clothing not fitting properly and/or un-healthy images because the individual does not understand his body. Displaying positive images replicate that you are aware of your body. These careers, like any profession, must be taken se-riously to be profitable. Sticking to the basics in health and fitness will help you tremendously in your career. The last thing you want to hear is the word diet as a Big and Tall man. However, to stay away from it you must have an understanding of your body shape type. It will help you manage many aspects of your life like health, fitness, and career. You will make those healthy eating choices, effective fitness plans, and worthy career choices. That is the master plan. So let’s be loud and clear with this one. An unbalanced medium could easily halt your career or even worse, your life! That’s the Big and Tall of it! __________________________________________________________ About Marco Mays aka Sir Icon He is the paragon of a classy male with sophistication and style. With the combination of his love for fashion and self-empowerment, Marco has made a name for himself in events management and image development. Known as a go to person to ensure that shows and models are presented seamlessly, Marco’s skills have allowed him to work with celebrities and on high-end productions, reinforcing his knowledge of image and brand from a Big and Tall perspective. WWW.QUEENSIZEMAGAZINE.COM| JANUARY 2019 ISSUE

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