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Reunification: Lessons from a first-time foster mom “We entered foster care aware of the statistics: The average case lasts 18 months, and 50 percent of children go home to their families. Still, it’s hard to go from calling a child your son to suddenly not,” writes Maggie Zehring, who shares what she learned through the reunification process.

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Chill Out! 2019 Summer Survival Guide Here are 25 ways to beat the heat and enjoy summer as a family in the Sonoran Desert — from indoor playgrounds and summer camps to night hikes and after-sunset activities.

Included are tips for family staycations and vacations, and ways to save, like the Act One Culture Pass, which offers free admission to local plays and museums. There’s something for every interest here, including a real bat cave and a new Crayola Experience attraction.

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az grown • Sari on Science: The art of paper marbling • Marie Kondo-ing a family home • Lessons learned from family travel

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SUMMER SUN SUMMERS SHOULD BE CAREFREE. Factor in the intense desert heat, and the fact that most parents don’t have summers off, and these months can feel anything but lazy and free. If your household is like ours, summer mornings are typically a mad dash of packing lunches, driving extra miles to summer day camps and figuring out how to make it to the weekly “showcase” or performance.

Most parents also get the inevitable complaint — “I’m sooooo bored” — a few weeks in, when it’s too hot for kids to play outside. For the third year, we’ve combined our June and July issues into one big Summer Survival Guide, exploring all the ways kids and families can get through these summer months comfortably.

Every year, I learn something as we compile these pages. Crayola Experience, opening May 23 at Chandler Fashion Center, is an exciting new summer destination — a kids play place offering hands-on activities and art projects. These types of indoor play centers, along with camps, after-sunset activities and family getaways, can make summer a time to enjoy. We also offer ideas for getting out of town, ways to stay cool (movies, museums, performances and more) and nighttime activities like flashlight tours, star parties and moonlight hikes.

ALSO IN THIS ISSUE, Sari Custer shares a great summer craft for kids — paper marbling — and explains the science behind it. Carrie Wheeler helps us think about taking on the task of summer decluttering with her piece “Marie Kondo-ing a family home.” Stephanie Pletka shares important lessons her kids learned from their extensive travels. She reminds us there’s never a perfect time for that family trip, so why not get out and explore this summer?

Maggie Zehring, a first-time foster mom, bravely shares the details of her foster son being reunited with his biological family and offers tips for getting through it. She concludes, and we agree, “It is never a loss to have loved and genuinely cared for a child.”

Just remember that summer will be over all too soon, and the kids will be starting new grades before you know it. Cherish some family time together and make memories before that summer sun fades away.

Kara G. Morrison, Editor kara@RAKmagazine.com

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GENIUS IN EVERY STUDENT SELF DEVELOPMENT ACADEMY is based on a single guiding principle: Every child sculpted by proper nurturing and a demanding curriculum can grow up to electrify the world.

“We don’t believe in limits or labels,” says Dr. Anjum Majeed, who founded the school in 1988. “We believe in the inherent brilliance that exists in every child. Our role as educators is to find that brilliance and make it sing.”

Self Development Academy began as a preschool and was one of the first institutions to use STEM and Arts (STEAM) based learning projects. As its students moved on to elementary school, many were years ahead of their peers. Parent began asking Dr. Majeed to open a school where their children could continue in this enriching environment. In 2000, Self Development Academy opened as a charter school. It now serves grades K-8.

“We quickly realized that a perfect combination of love and high expectations yielded astounding results,” says Dr. Majeed. “Children could absorb knowledge at a breathtaking speed, surpassing state standards.” The school teaches one to two grade levels above state standards. The middle school offers high school level courses: Algebra I and II, physics, biology, and chemistry.

A guiding ethos of “relentless attention to every single student’s own genius” exhibits in lots of individual and small-group learning opportunities where students can catch up or accelerate, perfecting their understanding of complex concepts. SDA students have gone on to Princeton and Harvard.

The Arizona Department of Education gave SDA an “A” ranking and listed it as one of the few “excelling” schools. In 2017 and 2018, niche.com ranked SDA #1 Best Elementary School in Arizona, #1 Best Middle School Teachers in the Nation and #3 Best Public Elementary School in the Nation. SDA was awarded Charter School of the Year in 2010.

“It is our job as educators to find precisely what can make each child excel,” says Dr. Majeed. “Once we find that, there is no stopping any child.”

Two new SDA campuses will be opening in the fall — one in Glendale and one in East Mesa. Learn more at selfdevelopmentcharterschool.com PHOTOS BY ALLEN PATROU

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Sari on Science

THE ART OF PAPER MARBLING

By Sari Custer

PAPER MARBLING has been an art form for more than 1,000 years, with variations on the “floating ink” technique dating back to ancient Japan and Turkey. This activity provides the perfect blend of art and science. As the colors are attracted and repelled by the water and soap molecules, and the artist swirls the colors with a pick, true beauty is revealed. Try this at home with just a few simple ingredients.

Supplies: • Shaving foam (not gel) • Food coloring • Toothpicks • Cardstock or heavy paper • Craft stick • Paper towels • Baking sheet (or a broad, shallow tray or plate) Directions: 1. Fill baking sheet with shaving foam. Some people like to smooth out the foam, but I think you get better patterns by leaving it lumpy!

2. Add food coloring. Drop several drops of food coloring all over on the foam using whatever

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colors you like.

3. Swirl and press. Use toothpicks to swirl the colors into interesting patterns. Hold the corners of the cardstock and press the face of the cardstock into the foam with the food coloring, then lift off.

4. Scrape and blot. Scrape the shaving foam off the paper with the craft stick and blot with a paper towel. Set paper aside to dry flat.

5. Enjoy. When dry, hang your custom print in a picture frame, turn it into a greeting card, cut it into an ornament or enjoy it any way you wish!

What’s happening?

Shaving foam is made of mostly soap and gas — the gas is what makes it fluffy. Soap is a surfactant (that’s “science speak” for something that’s good at removing grease) because its molecules are hydrophobic (repel water) at one end and hydrophilic (attract water) at the other.

The food coloring you’re using is made of water and dye, so it can only interact with the hydrophilic (water attracting) ends of soap molecules. This means the dye mostly just sits on top of the soap and doesn’t mix in.

Paper is made of cellulose, which is also hydrophilic (water attracting), so when you press the paper on the dye, it soaks right into the paper through capillary action, or the ability of water to flow against gravity in a narrow space. When you wipe away the shaving cream, all you’ll see is your beautiful design!

Experiment further: What happens if you try this with waxed paper? Do different colors behave the same way? How many different designs can you make?

Visit azscience.org/create for more opportunities to explore the intersection of art and science at Create at Arizona Science Center.

Create workshops are offered at 10:30 a.m. and 3:30 p.m. Saturdays and Sundays and from 5:307:30 p.m. during First Friday Make ‘N Takes in the 6,500 square-foot makerspace.

Sari Custer is a lifelong science junkie, Chief Scientist at Arizona Science Center, and mom to daughter Carson (4).

Follow her on Twitter and Instagram @SariOnScience.

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MARIE KONDO-ING

A FAMILY HOME

By Carrie Wheeler IN MY ASPIRATIONAL HOME, everything I own has a place … and everything sparks joy.

Yes, I have binge-watched “Tidying Up with Marie Kondo” on Netflix, where the Japanese organizing guru instructs Americans to start by getting rid of anything that fails to “spark joy.”

Marie Kondo has shown me that my dreams can become reality, though I still have one major hurdle to tidy bliss: an 8-year-old with hoarding tendencies. Cut from the same cloth as his paternal grandma, he loves “old things” and tchotchkes. He can form an intense sentimental bond in mere moments.

We went through his clothing Kondostyle and found that … everything sparks joy, even the free fun-run T-shirt he’s never worn: “I love that! It reminds me of my old school!” When he saw his too-small Pigpen T-shirt in the giveaway pile, he balked and got somewhat teary: “I love it! It reminds me of my childhood!” he sniffed earnestly.

While we kept the aforementioned items, he did finally agree to let go of some too-short pants and too-tight shirts and jackets. Some of his things will go to his younger friends, but no one we know has a suit fetish like my son did at age 5. And what about the Halloween costumes?

All the stained T-shirts or ripped pants? Here’s a guide for what to donate and consign: DONATE Anything. The Salvation Army (satruck.org) or Goodwill (goodwill.org) takes clothes and shoes, even those with stains and holes.

Books. Donate them to your local library branch.

Gently used items. Donating to places that need kids clothes and toys is a great way to spark joy for others and get a cleaner house at the same time. Consider donating gently worn kids toys, books and clothes to a nonprofit organization: • Helen’s Hope Chest (mesaunitedway.org/

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helenshope), a Mesa nonprofit that assists foster children.

Sojourner Center (sojournercenter.org), a Phoenix nonprofit helping victims of domestic abuse.

UMOM New Day Centers (umom.org), a Phoenix homeless shelter for families.

The Welcome to America Project (wtap. org), a Phoenix nonprofit that helps refugee families get settled in the Valley.

Arizona Helping Hands (azhelpinghands. org) takes gently used clothing only.

tweens and teens. But prepare your kids; consignment stories are picky about what they take, especially when they offer cash.

Take like-new and good-condition trendy and brand-name clothing to chain resale stores such as Buffalo Exchange (buffaloexchange.com) or Plato’s Closet (platoscloset.com).

Consign online. You can also consign kids clothing via online stores including ThredUp (thredup.com), Kidizen (kidizen.com), Schoola (schoola.com) or Poshmark (poshmark.com).

CONSIGN Children’s resale shops. Kids resale boutiques are thriving in the Valley, and are great places to take things like children’s bikes, playhouses, special-occasion dresses and clothes that are in good shape — plus books and more. When they sell your stuff, you’ll get cash or store credit.

MORE IDEAS FOR CLEARING CLUTTER • Host a clothing and/or toy swap where people can bring in clothes/toys kids have outgrown and exchange them for “new” ones.

• Host a yard sale. Compete to see who in the family can make the most money. Get the neighbors involved!

• Always have a “donate” bag accessible so everyone in the family can contribute items they’ve outgrown.

• Put old or broken toys in a bin for future building, fixing or craft projects.

Cash upfront. Cash can be a strong motivator to help anyone clean closets — especially

Calendar Editor Carrie Wheeler is the mother of Wilson (8).

Toys and trinkets. Little toys that invariably accumulate around the house can be repurposed at local elementary schools, which typically have toy or reward boxes that need to be stocked.

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Stephanie Pletka’s daughter Ava (7) and son Will (12) learn to be team players and row across Lake Louise in Banff, Canada.

Lessons learned from

FAMILY TRAVEL

By Stephanie Pletka | Photo courtesy of the Pletka family.

“Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness, and many of our people need it sorely on these accounts. Broad, wholesome, charitable views of men and things cannot be acquired by vegetating in one little corner of the earth all one’s lifetime.”

— Mark Twain, “The Innocents Abroad” WARNING: IF YOU TRAVEL WITH KIDS, they will be changed forever! As Mark Twain said, “Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry and narrow-mindedness.”

The thought of traveling with kids may seem daunting.

Perhaps you’ve decided to wait until the kids are older, when you have more money or when everything is perfect. But guess what? Life will never be perfect. Travel isn’t just about discovering new places — about swimming in the Pacific Ocean or hiking through a rugged national park. It’s about discovering the real you away from the busy schedules, distractions and technology that hold us hostage to living our best lives.

In 2013, we found ourselves in a precarious situation. Our consulting company began picking up clients in other states and overseas. Before we knew it, my husband was gone for months at a time. Not seeing his family for extended periods began to take its toll, and I felt I like I was raising four kids alone. We had a dilemma. So we hatched a plan, a crazy one: We found tutors and online teachers for our kids (ages 5-15 at the time) and hit the road. We traveled for three years to 45 states and 10 countries, wherever the clients took us.

It wasn’t easy. The kids’ fighting didn’t cease because we were traveling. But in the midst of traveling, we discovered we’re such a small piece to a larger puzzle in a diverse and beautiful world. It’s been a gift and an honor to see the world through the eyes of our children, without judgment, prejudice or preconceived ideas. Here’s what we learned:

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2. To slow down. We sidelined ourselves from the chaos and hurriedness of life, carving out intentional moments to hike, bike, kayak and tell stories, creating memories and quality time. It told our kids they’re important enough for us to truly listen and just be.

3. To appreciate diversity. The world is full of different languages, cultures and ideologies. But friendship has no border. My 8-year-old inserted himself into a soccer match at a local park in Barcelona.

“Mom, that kid is my best friend!” “What’s his name, buddy?” “I don’t know; does it matter?” Deep down, we are all just humans with a need for connection, love and community.

4. Critical thinking. The kids had to decipher train maps, subway systems, street grids and departure times. In the beginning, like a sea of minnows following a larger fish, they wanted a passive role, following us. Now they have navigational skills and an awareness of their surroundings.

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1. To take risks. On the road, I discovered the kids’ willingness to try new activities, away from the judgment of their peers. They would try to speak broken Spanish in Mexico or tell a scary story by the campfire.

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5. Independence. Each kid had a day to shine. They helped to plan events, problem solve and use their skills to lead the team. It eliminated all the “Hey, Mom” questions, because someone else was on duty to lead, solve and suggest. This allowed them to try and fail in a safe environment.

6. Empathy. When we traveled to California, we made it a point to volunteer at the Dream Center in Los Angeles, handing out food and clothes or cleaning up Echo Park. The kids took chore money and bought food, socks, blankets and bathroom supplies for the homeless in Atlanta. Once you’ve seen suffering, you cannot unsee it. Your heart grows bigger, and the need to help grows stronger.

7. Flexibility. A missed train, bad weather, a closed museum. Life is full of Plan Bs. It teaches kids to re-strategize and recalculate. This attitude generates adaptability, setting them up for success when life throws the inevitable curveball.

Remember, there’s never a perfect time to do anything. Just go. Grab your passport, your plane ticket or national park pass and hit the road.

Life is a mess and a masterpiece, where lessons are learned along the journey. Safe travels!

Stephanie Pletka is a southern transplant, writer and blogger living with her husband and four kids in Scottsdale. Learn more at stephaniepletka.com

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Reunification: Lessons from a first-time foster mom

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By Maggie Zehring

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HE OTHER DAY, a stranger approached me and my brood of boys at Costco and commented that I “must have my hands full with three boys.” My oldest, Zeke, quietly correctly her: “We have four boys.” He was counting our foster child, who returned to his biological family in February.

When we counted out Easter baskets in Target, we added two more to our cart for our little man, whom we nicknamed “A” on social media posts, and his baby brother, just in case they could join our backyard egg hunt.

The end of A’s time with use was anything but smooth and not at all easy. The situation was unique, painful, heartbreaking. We cared for him as our own son (and brother) for just two weeks shy of two years, and the absence of his personality and heart is stark. Not a day goes by that we don’t say his name.

A is the only child we’ve parented through foster care. We have no other experience of what reunification looks like. We entered foster care aware of the statistics: The average case lasts 18 months, and 50 percent of children go home to their families. Still, it’s hard to go from calling a child your son to suddenly not.

I know we’re not alone in wading through the grief of reunification as foster parents — it’s part of the gig. On a good day, I count it an honor to have loved a child like my own, helped a family in need and shepherded my children through a ministry like this. On a bad day, I wrestle with “what ifs,” “how comes” and tears.

Here’s what we learned.

Withhold your expectations. There is good reason to be hopeful and excited for the reunion of a family, or to be grateful for the opportunity to adopt the child you’ve cared for. There is also good reason to “trust but verify” every emotion and experience as a foster parent. The best way you can set expectations in your family is to communicate what you know regularly and practice surrendering to what is yet to be decided.

As a foster parent, you might be told six different things about the trajectory of a case in a matter of hours, because the lawyer disagrees with the caseworker and the parent aide is unsure of the goals. There are a million different ways you can be given incorrect or incomplete information regarding the future of the child in your care. Withhold any singular expectation of outcomes and only communicate to your children what you know 100,000 percent to be true.

Every reunification is unique. We have heard — both by following foster parents online and from friends — about children being mandated to go home with their biological families and the state picking them up just hours after the court hearing. We’ve also heard of mandated reunifications halted one week in, with the children ultimately adopted by their foster parents.

In our instance, we had the chance to be very hands-on and involved with A’s family. We worked in person at his future home, mapping out week by week the smoothest transition for him. Visits progressed from four hours per week to eight hours, to weekends, to three days a week. By choice, we managed the transportation. There is no singular policy on how a child is transitioned home. Understanding that every reunification can look vastly different is helpful.

Reunification will be hard on everyone. A child’s reaction to reunification can manifest itself in a million different ways.

Managing the logistics, working through the impending grief and helping our child cope with the transition was the single hardest season of our time as foster parents. Regardless of age, many children will exhibit changes in sleep, loss of appetite and inward or outward expressions of stress. “Post-visit behaviors” can exhibit after the visit with the biological family. Reunification will bring about more frequent and longer visits, hence more behaviors.

Unfortunately, there are no cut-and-dried guidelines as to what behaviors are considered alarming, what behaviors should be reported, or what behaviors indicate reunification is not in the child’s best interest. As you can imagine, this can add a layer of stress to the parenting process. How do you know what behaviors are signs that the situation should be evaluated?

Just know you’re not alone. Reunification is super hard. But these kids need you. Being in the middle of the transition — and being there as a calm, loving presence— is a gift to their hearts. Stay strong.

Caseworkers and state law dictate to what extent the “child’s best interest” is considered. In foster care, there is an ever-present tension between protecting the child from abuse and neglect and honoring parents’ inalienable rights as protected by the Fifth and 14th Amendments. These rights explain many state policies of “minimal adequacy,” the typical standard of parenting required by biological families for reunification. Many biological families parent at a level above this measurement, but many also just meet these standards: providing food, shelter and medical attention.

Minimal adequacy and a child’s best interest can seem to clash. Knowing the laws surrounding child welfare is key. There are no constitutional amendments protecting a child’s best interest following instances or cases of neglect and/or abuse. At the end of the day, a parent’s ability to parent, protect the child and care for the child come down to one or two individuals’ opinions of the case — and some of these opinions will come from people who have never parented a child. This challenge in social work and child welfare is well-documented and constantly discussed in the field.

Still, it’s important to understand the policies and laws surrounding permanency planning for children in foster care.

Realize “This too shall pass.” As harsh as this may sound, it’s true. The hardest part of finalizing permanency for a child in your care will eventually end. Reunification will eventually be halted permanently or completed successfully. The back-and-forth of visits, parenting a traumatized, stressed child and navigating a broken system will eventually come to an end. No matter how grueling the process, the effort you put in will always be worth it. It is never a loss to have loved and genuinely cared for a child in need.

Maggie Zehring of Scottsdale juggles her writing and social media skills with raising three boys.

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CHILL OUT! 2019 SUMMER SURVIVAL GUIDE

By RAK Staff

Summer is here! The season should bring lazy and carefree days, but the heat of the Sonoran Desert can feel punishing. The key to summer survival is finding after-sunset adventures, planning a vacation or staycation and visiting indoor venues for family fun. Don’t worry! We’re sharing some of the best ways to get through these hottest months so you and your family can have a fantastic, relaxing summer.

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SURVIVAL TIP NO. 1: INDOOR PLAYGROUNDS Big, air-conditioned spaces, where kids can run, jump and play, are key to surviving the desert heat. Luckily, there are plenty of options in greater Phoenix — trampoline parks, family entertainment centers, indoor climbing gyms and more. Here’s a sampling of places where kids can burn off energy and parents can relax!

• TRAMPOLINES AND MORE: Urban Air Adventure Park (urbanairtrampolinepark. com) recently opened a Goodyear location in addition to its Ahwatukee space. Like many of the new facilities, it boasts much more than trampolines: a slam-dunk zone, climbing walls, a ropes course, dodgeball and a zipline. Uptown Jungle Fun Park (uptownjungle.com) has grown to include locations in Chandler, Mesa and Peoria. Flip Dunk Sports (flipdunksports. com) in central Phoenix was started by Bob Woolf, a.k.a. the 1980s Phoenix Suns Gorilla, and hosts Parents Night Out and other fun events. Sky Zone trampoline park (skyzone. com) has locations in Peoria and Scottsdale. KTR centers (ktr-centers.com) in Scottsdale, Chandler and Mesa offer indoor trampolines plus an indoor skate park. And AZ on the Rocks in Scottsdale (azontherocks.com) offers climbing, yoga and ninja training!

Urban Air Adventure Park

• PIZZA AND GAMES: Lots of places offer family fun that involves games like laser tag and bowling, plus rides, activities and extensive menus or buffets. Fat Cats (fatcatsfun.com) in Gilbert (opening a Mesa location soon), offers bowling, glow golf, arcade games, food and movie theaters. Main Event in Gilbert, Tempe and Avondale offers laser tag, bowling, arcade games and a ropes course. And Jake’s Unlimited in Mesa (jakesunlimited.com) boasts an unlimited food buffet, rides, arcade games, laser tag and bowling.

• PLAY PLACES: Other favorite local indoor play centers — especially for younger kids — include Legoland Discovery Center (arizona.legolanddiscoverycenter.com) inside Arizona Mills mall in Tempe. This Lego-themed play center offers an indoor playground, two small rides, Lego-building areas, a car-testing space and a 4D theater showing short Lego films. There’s also a cafeteria and parents lounge, so it’s a great place to hide from the heat for a few hours. Makutus Island in Chandler (makutusisland.com) has an extensive tree-themed indoor kids playground with climbing tubes and tall slides.

For parents, there are adult beverages, samosas and inventive pizzas! PlayGrounds Fun Zone & Cafe (playgroundsfunzone.com) in Glendale and Kids Empire (phoenixgreenway. kidsempire.us) also offer big indoor playgrounds, and the Children’s Museum of Phoenix (childrensmuseumofphoenix.org), with its three-story climber, noodle forest and arts room, offers hours of indoor fun.

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SURVIVAL TIP NO. 2: ASTRONOMY The Arizona Science Center’s Dorrance Planetarium (azscience.org) is the perfect cool venue to learn about the galaxy all summer. Stargazing for Everyone’s Tony and Carole LaConte (stargazingforeveryone.com) host public stargazing programs at area libraries and parks. And if you get really inspired by the cosmos, you can travel to Lowell Observatory in Flagstaff (lowell.edu), Kitt Peak National Observatory near Tucson (noao.edu/kpno) or the Mount Lemmon SkyCenter (skycenter.arizona.edu) to gaze the galaxy at cooler altitudes.

SURVIVAL TIP NO. 3: CASTLES Can’t get away to a theme park this summer? The kids will still have fun at Castles ‘n’ Coasters (castlesncoasters.com) in north Phoenix, which offers a $49.99 Royal Pass good for unlimited rides March 1-Sept. 2, plus discounts on mini golf and more. The other castle in the Valley is ramping up, and at press time still didn’t have a set opening date, although it was shooting for summer. Medieval Times Dinner & Tournament (medievaltimes.com) is constructing its 10th castle in North America near Salt River Fields on the Salt River Pima-Maricopa Indian Community near Scottsdale. The 79,000-square-foot 11th century-style castle will host live jousting tournaments complete with horsemanship, falconry and knights in shining armor. Tickets are expected to be $30-$50, including a two-hour tournament and a four-course, utensil-free feast.

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SURVIVAL TIP NO. 4: BOWLING Bowling alleys fall into the air-conditioned fun category. AMF’s Summer Game Pass (bowlsummergames.com) lets you bowl three games daily — including shoe rentals — from May 20 to Sept. 2. Buy your pass at a participating local center or upgrade to a passport for use at all participating Bowlmor, Bowlero, AMF and Brunswick Zone bowling alleys nationwide. Prices vary, but the pass starts at about $49.95 for ages 16 and up; $34.95 for ages 15 and younger. Kids Bowl Free — a national program designed by bowling centers to give children a safe, fun summer (kidsbowlfree.com) — lets each registered child bowl up to two free games daily.

Let It Roll Bowl in Phoenix participates, as does Glenfair Lanes in Glendale.

Bowlers still rent shoes for about $3.50. The offer is available to ages 15 and younger; others can participate at discounted rates, making it a great family outing.

Main Event

SURVIVAL TIP NO. 5: CHEAP MOVIES It may be 115 degrees outside, but it’s always cool in the movie theater! The Harkins Theatres Summer Movie Fun program (harkinstheatres.com) offers 10 animated kids movies for $7, or $2 per person per movie, playing May 27-Aug. 2 at participating Valley locations. Alamo Drafthouse movie theaters (drafthouse. com) in Tempe and Chandler (with one coming soon in Gilbert) hosts Kids Camp matinee shows daily for $1-$5 June through August. Studio Movie Grill, 15515 N. Hayden Road in Scottsdale, (studiomoviegrill.com) offers a Children’s Summer Series for as little as $1 per ticket; kids can sit in a regular movie seat with a tray or eat at a lunch counter while watching films. Pollack Tempe Cinemas, 1825 E. Elliot Road in Tempe, (pollacktempecinemas.com) offers $3.50 movies ($2.50 on Tuesdays), including recent blockbusters and animated films.

SURVIVAL TIP NO. 6: FREE MOVIES

Free and lowcost movies

Enjoy a free outdoor evening movie in The Barnes & Noble Courtyard at Desert Ridge Marketplace (shopdesertridge.com) twice a month all summer.

Goodyear Ballpark (goodyearbp.com) screens free movies periodically May 31-Sept. 20 at the spring training home of MLB’s Cleveland Indians and Cincinnati Reds. Bring blankets and sprawl out in the outfield lawn. UltraStar Multi-tainment Center at Ak-Chin Circle in Maricopa (ultrastarakchin.com) also offers free outdoor summer films. And if you’re headed up north, Flagstaff hosts Movies on the Square on Saturday nights (flagdba.com).

SURVIVAL TIP NO. 7: FREE CONCERTS McCormick-Stillman Railroad Park (therailroadpark.com) in Scottsdale hosts its Summer Concert Series from 7:30-9 p.m. every Sunday through June 30. While there, kids can ride the train or carousel for $2, and food is available for purchase. You can also hear live music at Desert Ridge Marketplace (shopdesertridge.com); Westgate Entertainment District (westgateaz. com) and Tempe Marketplace (tempemarketplace.com) on various nights all summer. Another free concert favorite is Glendale’s long-running Summer Band Concert (glendaleaz.com). Community musicians perform marches, polkas, movie medleys and other classic favorites at 8 p.m. Thursdays June 6-July 25 at Murphy Park Amphitheatre, 59th Avenue and Glenn Drive.

SURVIVAL TIP NO. 8: POGO PASS

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If you’ll be spending your summer hopping from one venue to another, consider getting a Pogo Pass (pogopass.com )and spending $49.98 for a year’s worth of fun activities, like visits to KRT sports centers, Arizona Diamondback games, Phoenix Rock Gym, skating venues, ziplines, the zoo and many more indoor and outdoor activities. Admission to all these venues (number of visits varies by venue) is included in the price of one pass.

SURVIVAL TIP NO. 9

FREE PERFORMANCES AND EXHIBITS

ACT ONE CULTURE PASS

offers free admission to plays and more

By RAK Staff

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HIS YEAR MARKS the 10th anniversary of the Act One Culture Pass — a pass available at 48 libraries around metro Phoenix. Families can use the pass to get free admission for two people to attend live performances or to explore museums and other cultural venues around the state.

Every year, the pass provides more than 500,000 Arizonans with free admission and performance tickets — making the arts accessible to all! We asked Act One CEO and President Geri Wright to explain how it works.

How did this program come about, and what is its goal?

The Act One Culture Pass program is a long-standing partnership between Act One, public libraries and arts and cultural institutions, providing library cardholders free admission for two people to participating cultural institutions or theater performances. Initially established

by Phoenix’s Head Librarian Rita Hamilton in Maricopa County in 2009, the Culture Pass was adopted by Act One in 2013 and has since expanded into Pima County and Sedona. The mission of Act One’s Culture Pass to make the arts accessible to everyone, regardless of age, circumstance, income or economic ability.

Why is it important for kids to experience a live performance? We believe that the arts are an essential part of a child’s education and personal well-being. Just one artistic experience holds the potential to ignite a passion or transform a moment into possibilities. Experiencing the arts as a child opens up a whole new world of creativity and imagination.

How does a Culture Pass work? Culture Pass is available to library cardholders. Head over to your local library and check out the Culture Pass Kiosk. Choose the Culture Pass card for the venue you want to visit, and take the card to the librarian. The librarian will give you a receipt to take to the venue that you are visiting.

Bring your receipt to the venue and exchange it for free admission for two within seven days. Last, and most important, enjoy the venue and be sure to fill out the Culture Pass survey at the end of your experience, and tell all your friends and family about it!

What museums and performing arts venues can families visit using Culture Pass? Today, 51 arts and cultural organizations participate in the Culture Pass program statewide. In Phoenix, you can enjoy the arts at venues like the Arizona Science Center, Scottsdale Museum of Contemporary Art, Phoenix Art Museum and Desert Botanical Garden, among others.

What are some local performances that will be great for families this summer via Culture Pass? While many of the performing arts organizations take a hiatus in the summer, metro Phoenix families should definitely check out “Madagascar the Musical,” which will be performed from June 21 to July 5 at Arizona Broadway Theatre. East Valley Children’s Theatre will be presenting “The Lost Boys of Neverland” June 13-23. Culture Passes will be available for select shows.

I understand Culture Pass is only good for two admissions.

What if I have a large family? Culture Passes are limited to one per household and two per month. Many venues allow families to use their Culture Pass for the adults and pay for the children.

Check with the venue ahead of time about their policies.

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SURVIVAL TIP NO. 10: TRAVEL

COSTA RICA: A destination for family adventures

By Elaina Verhoff

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AVE YOU HEARD the Spanish expression pura vida?

Literally translated, it means “simple life” or “pure life.” But in Costa Rica, it’s used more like hello, goodbye or — in my case — “I don’t speak Spanish, but thanks for being so nice!”

Costa Rica has been on my travel wish list for decades — since I first heard about this country making a concerted effort to develop ecotourism in the 1990s. Friends and neighbors who had visited with their kids raved about its beauty and adventures. So this spring, I took my hard-to-impress 15-year-old son and 12-year-old daughter on a weeklong trip to Costa Rica. They did not want to leave.

Costa Rica is all about good vibes and good times. A stable Central American democracy south of Nicaragua, Costa Rica abolished its army in 1949, boosted spending on education and welcomed tourists. The U.S. Department of State gives Costa Rica its safest travel ranking.

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Logistics: First off, you will need passports for everyone in your family.

Visas are not required for American citizens who visit Costa Rica for fewer than 90 days. Getting a passport routinely takes at least four to six weeks, so plan ahead.

Costa Rica has two main airports — Liberia in the north, near the beaches of Guanacaste and Papagayo, and San Juan, more centrally located in the capital city. You’ll find direct flights to San Juan, but we flew to Liberia through Charlotte, with a massive layover. I splurged on a day pass for the American Airlines lounge, and it was the best $59 I ever spent (kids were free!) thanks to the big cozy chairs and complimentary snacks (made-to-order avocado toast!), drinks and newspapers.

Language: I’m a firm believer that it’s important to try speaking the language of the country you’re visiting — even if it’s only a few words. I

Left: Access to the Tabacon hot springs — heated underground by Arenal Volcano’s magma — is included with a stay at Tabacon resort in Costa Rica. Above left: Wildlife encounters with monkeys, iguanas and coatis (shown here as Riley Verhoff (15) and Lily Verhoff (12) play in the pool) are part of the fun at Andaz Papagayo, a beachside resort in Costa Rica’s Guanacaste Province. Above right: Cafe y Macadamia is a family-friendly spot with delicious sandwiches and an incredible view of Lake Arenal. Photos courtesy of Elaina Verhoff.

brought a Costa Rica Spanish phrasebook, and my kids used their phones to quickly look up Spanish words when needed. I had to prompt them a few times to try it, and the reaction was always positive.

My kids came away from the experience wanting to study Spanish.

Lodging: We started our stay with two nights at Andaz Costa Rica Resort at Peninsula Papagayo, using Hyatt points for one of the nights. A young woman greeted us at the resort with cold towels and glasses of delicious green juice. While we were sipping, another guest called us over to see monkeys swinging through the trees, including two babies. During our stay, we saw coatis (similar to racoons), iguanas, birds and unusual insects.

The Andaz Papagayo is great for families, with large, modern rooms featuring a free minibar stocked with drinks and snacks, swimming pools overlooking the bay, and even fedoras and flip flops for guests to use. The Andaz also has a kids club and an exceptional breakfast buffet featuring tropical fruit and Costa Rican specialties like cooked plantains, yucca with spicy salsas and plenty of Costa Rican coffee and chocolate.

After two nights in Papagayo and Playa Hermosa beach, we hopped in our rental car — a mini 4x4 SUV — and headed toward Lake Arenal and Arenal Volcano. (Note: most rental cars are manual transmission, so if you want automatic be sure to specify this ahead of time) The dry coastal climate and paved freeways gradually gave way to lush rainforest, then unpaved roads leading to our eco-lodge, Rancho Margot, a sustainable ranch that produces its own energy and food, and our own simple but comfortable cabin with a beautiful deck nestled in the thick of the jungle.

We ended our trip at Tabacon Resort, a half-hour drive from the eco-lodge. Tabacon is known for its labyrinth of thermal hot springs, heated from the Arenal Volcano, of which we had an amazing view from our room. The restaurant was incredible — with steaks you sizzle on your own lava rock and Instagram-worthy desserts. The hot

springs are a five-minute walk from the resort.

My kids had a blast at the springs, climbing the waterfalls and playing hide-and-seek in the many pools. In an adults-only area called Shangri-la, I played a little hide-and-seek of my own, escaping to a cabana with a rum and fresh pineapple drink. My daughter and I got massages in an outdoor cabana, where we were rubbed with all kinds of honey concoctions while listening to the sounds of the rushing river and hundreds of birds.

Adventures: We had some pretty crazy adventures. Please be smarter than I was and turn around when Goggle Maps tells you to drive through a river. (A kind man waded out and helped me get unstuck by showing me that my four-wheel drive feature wasn’t activated!)

And do not attempt a day trip from the Arenal/La Fortuna area to Monteverde. The roads to Monteverde are ridiculously rough, winding and steep — especially in a car that stalls on hills. We drove there to go ziplining, but in hindsight, I would have chosen Sky Adventures ziplining near Arenal or hired one of the many dayexcursion vans. And while I swore I would never go bungee jumping, the final “surprise” they touted throughout our ziplining adventure was a backward freefall bungee jump.

Costa Rica offers many other family adventures, including whitewater rafting, horseback riding, waterfall hikes, chocolate farm tours and traversing hanging bridges through the rainforest.

Even if you opt for resort stays, be sure to get out and experience Costa Rican culture. We had fun eating at the sodas. That’s what they call family-owned restaurants that serve typical Costa Rican food like grilled meats, rice and vegetables. Be sure to try the fruit juices, too.

There is so much to see and do in Costa Rica, there is no way to do all in one week. My kids and I would happily return!

Elaina Verhoff is a Phoenix freelance writer, travel lover and mom. Follow her on Twitter and Instagram @elainaverhoff.

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SURVIVAL TIP NO. 11: READING PROGRAMS Stop the “summer slide” in learning that can happen when kids are out of school. Maricopa County Reads, the all-ages online summer reading program, runs June 1-Aug. 1. This year’s theme is “A Universe of Stories.” Participants who register online at maricopacountyreads.org get one point for every minute added to their reading logs and can earn prizes and coupons throughout the summer, such as a free book, a day-use pass for Arizona State Parks or free pizza. Log 20 minutes of reading every day for a chance to win a weekly drawing prize. “A Universe of Stories” also offers hands-on workshops, classes, festivals, tasks, scavenger hunts and “community experiences” for participants. Changing Hands Bookstores (changinghands. com) in Phoenix and Tempe also host a Kids’ Summer Reading Passport program through Aug. 1. Log book titles in your passport and visit Changing Hands for a passport stamp and prizes such as temporary tattoos, bookmarks, treat coupons and gift cards.

SURVIVAL TIP NO. 12: BASEBALL The Arizona Diamondbacks’ air-conditioned, domed stadium offers relief from the heat with kid-friendly amenities, including the Phoenix Children’s Hospital Sandlot. Kids can bat Wiffle balls on a small diamond, play on a playground, or (for older kids and adults) swing away in a batting cage. Near the Sandlot is the D-backs Kids Club headquarters; kids ages 3 to 15 who sign up (membership is free) can get freebies for each game attended plus a free ticket to Sunday home games. You can also see fireworks after select home games, and kids can run the bases on Sundays. Times and ticket prices vary. Chase Field, 401 E. Jefferson St., Phoenix. 602-462-6500 or dbacks.com

Arizona Diamondbacks

SURVIVAL TIP NO. 13: BASKETBALL The championship WNBA Phoenix Mercury team plays all summer in the air-conditioned Talking Stick Resort Arena. In addition to pro-level women’s basketball, the games are full of family fun with team mascot Scorch, the co-ed Hip Hop Squad, the COURTyard where fans can play games, plus post-game free throws and more. 201 E. Jefferson St., Phoenix. $9 and up. phoenixmercury.com

SURVIVAL TIP NO. 14: SHARKS In July, the month of Discovery Channel’s “Shark Week” programming, OdySea Aquarium in Scottsdale will be celebrating “Jawsome July” and these fearsome predators. The aquarium is currently home to 50 sharks in nine varieties — the largest and most diverse collection of sharks in Arizona. OdySea (odyseaaquarium.com) will offer special programs, activities, and more. Sea Life Arizona Aquarium (visitsealife.com/arizona) at Arizona Mills Mall in Tempe also celebrates Shark Week and Jawsome July with special activities and shark feedings.

OdySea Aquarium

SURVIVAL TIP NO. 15: ICE “As cold as ice” isn’t just a catchy tune by Foreigner, it’s a solution for the scorching summer heat. Check out Polar Play Ice Bar (polarplay.com) at Odysea in the Desert, where kids and adults borrow parkas to play shuffleboard, checkers or cornhole and enjoy frosty drinks in belowfreezing temperatures. Admission is $8-$10 for a drink and an all-day pass. Another way to experience icy coldness in the searing desert: ice skating. Fees range from $5-$10 and $3-$4 for rentals, but look for special nights like the Ice Den’s $6 Fun Friday, which includes two hours of skating with free rentals. AZ Ice has locations in Arcadia, Gilbert and Peoria (azice.com) and Ice Den boasts locations in Scottsdale (icedenscottsdale.com) and Chandler (icedenchandler.com).

SURVIVAL TIP NO. 16: PADDLEBOARDING Explore stand-up paddleboarding around Arizona as a family this summer. You can rent paddleboards and find your calm at Tempe Town Lake, Lake Pleasant near Peoria, Canyon Lake in Tortilla Flat, Watson Lake in Prescott or on the local Salt River — where if you’re lucky, you’ll see a few horses or cows drinking at the water’s edge while you glide along. Here’s where to rent boards: Tempe Boat Rentals (boats4rent.com), Go Paddle AZ (gopaddleaz.com), Canyon Lake Marina (canyonlakemarina.com), Prescott Outdoors Adventure Rentals (prescottoutdoors.com) and No Snow SUP (nosnowsup.com) in Mesa.

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Tempe Town Lake

SURVIVAL TIP NO. 17: FREE MUSEUMS Summer is the perfect time to explore air-conditioned museums around the Valley, and many offer free or pay-what-you-wish admission days in the summer. The Heard Museum (heard.org) in Phoenix offers free admission on the 4th Sunday of each month through August and 6-10 p.m. on First Fridays. The Phoenix Art Museum (phxart.org) offers voluntary donation days from 3-9 p.m. Wednesdays, 6-10 p.m. on First Fridays and noon to 5 p.m. on Second Sundays. The Chandler Museum (chandlermuseum. org) offers free admission daily (closed Mondays). The Blue Star Museums (arts.gov/ bluestarmuseums) program provides free summer museum admission to America’s active-duty military personnel and their families through Labor Day. More than two dozen Arizona museums participate, including the i.d.e.a. Museum in Mesa, Arizona Science Center in Phoenix and the Arizona Railway Museum in Chandler.

SURVIVAL TIP NO. 18: SPLASH PADS i.d.e.a. Museum

Splash pads abound at outdoor shopping centers and local parks Valleywide.

This is a brilliant and free way for kids to cool off and get some exercise despite the heat. Family favorites include the Pioneer Community Park splash pad in Peoria (peoriaaz.gov), and one of the area’s largest new splash pad playgrounds — The Cloud — in Tempe’s Kiwanis Park (tempe.gov), which opened last summer. We also love the beautiful fountain/splash pad area at Scottsdale Quarter (scottsdalequarter.com) along with splash pads at Tempe Marketplace (tempemarketplace.com) and Desert Ridge Marketplace in north Phoenix (shopdesertridge.com), which offer periodic kids entertainment. Find a favorite splash pad near you at raisingarizonakids.com/splash-pads

SURVIVAL TIP NO. 19: CRAFTS

Desert Ridge Marketplace

The arts and crafts room at the Children’s Museum of Phoenix (childrensmuseumofphoenix.org) boasts a place to turn recycled materials into treasures. Create Makerspace at Arizona Science Center (azscience.org) offers high-tech workshops where older kids can spend hours exploring 3D printing, laser cutting and more. For a fun intro to crafting, check out the Arizona Craft Rave on June 28 at Changing Hands bookstore in Phoenix (changinghands.com). As You Wish stores Valleywide (asyouwishpottery.com) host kids classes all summer, and the Michael’s (michaels.com) and Home Depot (homedepot.com) chains both offer summer craft projects for kids.

SURVIVAL TIP NO. 20: DINOSAURS Pangaea, Land of the Dinosaurs (landofthedinos.com) in the OdySea in the Desert complex (on the Salt River Pima-Maricopa Indian reservation near Scottsdale) features more than 50 life-size animatronic dinosaurs in colorful, interactive, educational exhibits designed to transport visitors back in time. Excavate fossils, take dino rides and more. Admission is $14.95, plus additional charges for some activities. The Arizona Museum of Natural History in downtown Mesa (arizonamuseumofnaturalhistory.org) offers a Prehistoric Preschool program in June for ages 4-5 and a Dino Discovery Camp for ages 6-10 starting in mid-July. All summer, families can explore Dinosaur Hall, pan for gold in the courtyard and more. Admission is $12; $7 for ages 3-12; free for ages 2 and younger at 53 N. Macdonald, Mesa.

SURVIVAL TIP NO. 21: SNOWBOWL

Pangaea Land of the Dinosaurs

Temperatures atop the San Francisco Peaks in June and July are always cooler than the Valley’s triple digits. The Arizona Snowbowl (snowbowl.ski) has ramped up its summer activities in recent years to include a 150-foot-long summer tubing slope, a bungee trampoline and a family-friendly ropes course. Kids can also pan for treasure or test their balance, footwork and skills on the Barrel Roll. Last year, Snowbowl hosted sunset dinner packages with a scenic chairlift ride, lawn games and activities and live music.

Before making the drive, check whether forest fire danger has impacted open dates.

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SURVIVAL TIP NO. 22: CAMPS

There’s no reason for boredom when kids can film their own movies, learn circus tricks, start a rock band or go wakeboarding at summer camps. Explore day and overnight camps for every interest in our directory: raisingarizonakids.com/summer-camps Amy and her husband Keith with their triplets (then 13) at Camp Kanakuk in Branson.

MY SUMMER CAMP “SACRIFICE”

By Amy Carney

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E DRIVE ALONG A WINDING ROAD, finally approaching scenes that feel familiar. Until now, we have seen them only on colorful brochures and website pages.

We pull to a stop. College-age counselors surround our car, cheering and welcoming us to Kanakuk, a Christian summer camp in Branson, Missouri.

As our first-born triplet sons get out of the car, my confidence in our decision to send them to this serene, woodsy environment for the next month plummets. Fear and doubt consume me.

Why had I ever thought it was a good idea to send our boys to a sleepaway camp hundreds of miles from home? My parents never sent me away to camp. I am dreading the thought of missing precious summer moments with them, and going to bed each night without full assurance that they are safe and happy.

What if they don’t like camp? What if they struggle to make friends? What if they get sick or can’t stand the food? Why hadn’t I listened when my children said they didn’t want to go away to camp? What if we had made a big mistake?

I watch our 13-year-old boys walk nervously toward the camp tram that will whisk them away to their respective cabins.

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What seemed like a perfectly logical idea — to separate our sons in different cabins to strengthen their individuality — now seems nothing short of unloving. All I want is to take them back to the familiar comfort of the room they share at home.

The only way I can move beyond my fear and discomfort is to focus on the reasons we are here: My husband and I want to raise children of strong faith and character, and we want them to master life skills they will need for adulthood. Summer camp offers reinforcement for these essentials in a safe, supervised environment allowing opportunities for self-discovery and personal growth.

We want our children to have time away from the pressure and distractions of technology and the fast-paced, competitive world they inhabit. Living in rustic cabins in a wooded setting gives them a needed break from worry and stress about grades, performance, achievement, social media and materialism. We want our children to have downtime in nature — and space to jump, run and play outdoors freely without parents monitoring and managing their every move.

We want them to learn how to build relationships with other human beings — in person. Most sleep-away camps prohibit or limit the use of computers, video games, televisions

and other digital devices. Campers can’t hide behind their devices, which forces them to communicate faceto-face with peers and adults, make new friends and learn important socialization skills. If we want our kids to feel comfortable interacting with others in the real world, then we need to start setting them up for success.

We want our children to experience safe environments in which they can move through discomfort and overcome obstacles they would never be faced with at home. Camp provides children with adventures and situations that build their problemsolving and critical-thinking skills. We know this builds grit, determination, and resilience — positive and necessary traits that will prepare them to be confident adults.

We also want them to have fun. Camps offer many new activities like wakeboarding, sailing, caving, horseback riding or simply enjoying doing nothing.

As we say our goodbyes, I put a brave smile on my face that does not match the pit in my stomach. Tears spring to my eyes as my husband and I drive away. I knew the next four weeks will be a stretch for all of us.

Back at home, we log on to the camp website nightly, hoping to catch a glimpse of our kids enjoying their time away. In the photo galleries, we see pictures of our boys together and apart, smiling with strangers and hanging out with their counselors. As I see how happy and healthy they appear, I begin to relax and relish having more time alone with my husband.

Handwritten letters begin arriving in our mailbox.

The experiences our sons relate affirm the reasons we sent them to camp: They are making friends with people from all over the country. They are trying new feats and accomplishing new tasks. They are learning to wakeboard, sail and play new sports. They miss filtered bottled water and the comforts of home. They even say they miss us. They never mention missing their technology.

Sending children to sleepaway camp each summer is a sacrifice. It’s never easy to pay the tuition, pack up the trunks or have our kids away for such a long time.

But it is a sacrifice I’m willing to make. This summer, as we drop off our children for the fifth year and drive away, the tears may still come. But they will be tears of gratitude, not fear. I know our decision to send our kids to sleepaway camp was one of the best and bravest decisions we ever made.

Amy Carney, of Paradise Valley, is the author of “Parent on Purpose: A Courageous Approach to Raising Children in a Complicated World.” The mother of five children ages 12 to 17, she is married to retired pro hockey defenseman Keith Carney of the Phoenix Coyotes. Learn more at amycarney.com.

REINFORCEMENT FROM FORMER CAMPERS The American Camp Association (acacamps.org) recently conducted a national study of young adults who attended overnight camp as kids. These young people, ages 18 to 25, listed the many ways camp experiences broadened their perspectives and helped them in school and early careers: • Camp enhanced a spirit of independence by giving them the freedom to explore new activities, make new friends and learn by doing.

• Camp encouraged effort and perseverance. Former campers said camp helped them become self-reliant and confident.

• Camp taught them to live in the moment. Former campers confirmed that time at camp was spontaneous, unrehearsed and relaxed. They didn’t dwell on the past or worry about the future.

• Camp created a community that celebrates diversity — a chance to meet new people and learn to appreciate, respect and value everyone’s uniqueness.

• Camp built collaboration skills. Former campers said they learned to work together and conduct important or even difficult conversations.

Former campers attest to the importance of these relationship skills in their success in higher education, the workplace and life.

HOW TO HANDLE PUSHBACK Don’t let your child’s fear of the unknown keep you from sending him or her to sleepaway summer camp.

Get clear on the end goal for your child. It’s not your job to make your children happy at all times.

Don’t be afraid to nudge children into uncomfortable experiences you know will benefit them in the long run.

Remember: Children aren’t capable of understanding the benefits of sleepaway summer camp until they’ve experienced it. Then, beware: They may beg you to sign them up year after year.

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Crayola Experience

SURVIVAL TIP NO. 23: CRAYONS Crayola Experience (crayolaexperience.com/chandler) is a new family attraction opening May 23 at Chandler Fashion Center. It’s a destination where kids and adults can do hands-on art projects and enjoy live entertainment.

Kids can name and wrap their own Crayola crayons, star in their own coloring page, bring 4D art to life, create melted wax spin-art and more.

The 4,000-square-foot Crayola Store boasts the world’s largest selection of Crayola products and souvenirs, including plush toys and apparel. Open daily, Crayola Experience also hosts birthday parties, field trips and more at 3111 W. Chandler Blvd., Chandler. General admission is $14.99; annual passes were $29.99 online at press time.

SURVIVAL TIP NO. 24: STAYCATIONS Greater Phoenix resorts offer smoking summer deals. When plane tickets or cross-country drives aren’t in the family budget, pack a bag and spend a night or two as a family lounging by a local resort pool. Here are some posh picks with family amenities: The Arizona Biltmore (arizonabiltmore. com) in central Phoenix is celebrating its 90th year. Frank Lloyd Wright was a consulting architect on the project, and guests have included Marilyn Monroe and Frank Sinatra. Guests can enjoy eight swimming pools, a water slide, golf, lawn chess, dive-in movies, live entertainment, arts and crafts, tennis lessons, guided family hikes and High Tea. Fairmont Scottsdale Princess (scottsdaleprincess.com), with a white-sand beach, six pools and ample entertainment, is a popular Scottsdale staycation spot. Hyatt Regency Scottsdale Resort & Spa at Gainey Ranch (hyattregencyscottsdale.com) offers 10 pools, 20 fountains, 45 waterfalls, a sand beach and a three-story waterslide. Arizona Grand Resort (arizonagrandresort.com) in south Phoenix boasts a seven-acre Oasis Water Park with an eight-story Slide Canyon Tower and two dramatic waterslides, a lazy river and nightly family activities. The Westin Kierland Resort & Spa (kierlandresort.com) in northeast Phoenix offers a “flowboarding” ride (part surfing, part wakeboarding), a lazy river and waterslide and poolside games including lawn chess, basketball, table games and campfires for s’mores.

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SURVIVAL TIP NO. 25: NIGHTTIME ACTIVITIES

Raising Outdoor Kids:

THE DESERT AFTER DARK

By Lisa Van Loo | Photos by Ron Abelar

Above:(L-R) Josie Nicita (12), Nolan Abelar (6), Lulu Nicita(9), Riley Abelar (10) and Dominic Nicita (10) hike out of Hidden Valley at South Mountain as the sun begins to set.

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N PHOENIX, THERE are times during the summer months when families start to feel like shut-ins. It’s hot. Kids split their time between swimming pools and finding ways to make outdoor games indoor-friendly.

But, there’s hope. After dark, the desert comes alive. At sunset, outdoor adventures are possible without a whole lot of sweating and whining. From neighborhood bike rides to lighted batting cages to evening walks with the family dog, there are ways to get outside. You just might have to look a little harder, have a little more patience and get creative. Think: stargazing, flashlight hikes and nocturnal critters. To be ready for the desert after dark, have flashlight batteries or headlamps ready. Grab water bottles, find the sneakers and plan for a night out.

STAR PARTY. It’s true that many parks officially close at sunset. But during the summer, several parks offer special nighttime events, such as Star Party (azstateparks.com/stars). Arizona state parks host these stargazing parties throughout the summer, including Red Rock State Park in Sedona (7:30 p.m. Saturday, June 1) and Lost Dutchman State

Park in Apache Junction (8 p.m. Saturday, June 8). Lyman State Park in St. Johns, Homolovi State Park in Winslow and Oracle State Park in Oracle also host summer Star Parties that pull together hobby astronomers eager to share their knowledge of the cosmos. Fees for park entry; some parks charge additional program fees.

Celebrating its centennial this year, Grand Canyon National Park (grandcanyon.org) hosts a Star Party and Summerfest June 22-29 on the park’s South Rim with the Tucson Amateur Astronomy Association and on the North Rim with the Saguaro Astronomy Club of Phoenix.

THE BAT CAVE. During the summer months, a flood control tunnel in Phoenix hosts spectators as its inhabitants exit for the night. The tunnel is the summer home for thousands of Mexican free-tailed bats. When the sun goes down, the bats take flight. Onlookers gather at a viewpoint near the tunnel, located near the intersection of 40th Street and Camelback Road, to witness the evening exodus. This is one of those seasonal events that is both unpredictable and incredibly unique, which means each night is subtly different. It’s also a phenomenon that is completely free and brings kids and adults closer to the natural world around them.

FLASHLIGHT TOURS. The Desert Botanical Garden (dbg.org) is stunning, and it’s great at finding ways to lure folks out for a visit after dark during the hottest months. The garden hosts flashlight tours from 7-9:30 p.m. every Saturday, June through August. Visitors take self-guided tours with their own flashlights to see nocturnal critters and night-blooming plants.

Often there is entertainment and a festive atmosphere. Flashlight tours are $14.95; $9.95 for ages 3-17 and free for ages 2 and younger at 1201

N. Galvin Parkway, Phoenix.

Families can also beat the heat with flashlight tours at the ArizonaSonora Desert Museum in Tucson (desertmuseum.org) during Cool Summer Nights from 6-10 p.m. Saturdays May 18-Aug. 31. Bring your own flashlights to explore night-blooming plants and nocturnal animals.

Docents let visitors see some of these critters up close. Admission is $16.95 for Arizona residents; $8.95 for ages 3-12 and free for ages 2 and younger at 2021 N. Kinney Road, Tucson.

NIGHT HIKES. Maricopa County parks (maricopacountyparks.net) offer scorpion hunts, full-moon hikes and more after sunset. Lake Pleasant Regional Park near Peoria hosts a 90-minute guided scorpion hunt at 8 p.m. on Friday, July 12. Bring a flashlight or black light and water and wear closed-toe shoes.

Greater Phoenix city parks also offer nighttime activities. Skyline Regional Park in Buckeye (buckeyeaz.gov) hosts a one-mile Venomous Creatures of Arizona Hike at 7 p.m. on Tuesday, July 9. Participants learn about snakes, gila monsters and scorpions.

Don’t forget to check the event calendar for Arizona State Parks (azstateparks.com), which details full-moon hikes at Rock Rock State Park in Sedona (June 16 and July 16). Lost Dutchman State Park in Apache Junction also hosts a full-moon hike (June 16) that concludes with roasting marshmallows over a campfire.

Lisa Van Loo is Gilbert freelance journalist. Ron Abelar is an avid outdoorsman and photographer. Together, they are parenting five children. Follow them on Instagram @RaisingOutdoorKids

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TOP SUMMER EVENTS

By Carrie Wheeler

Summer is in full swing, and the name of the game is keeping kids out of the heat! June and July are full of activities that include water play, the air-conditioned indoors and nighttime events to keep kids busy and using their brains. If you can get out of town, check out some of the cool and cultural events happening around cooler parts of the state.

NOTE: Because last-minute schedule changes can occur, please confirm dates and times on event websites.

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JUNE 1: National Trails Day. Give back to the places we love and set the world record for the most people improving trails in a single day. Participants are asked to take the pledge to pack out trash, join a trail work project or clean up a park. The National Trail System also features hikes, biking and horseback rides, paddling trips, bird watching, geocaching, gear demonstrations and stewardship projects in Arizona and all across the country. Times and locations vary. Some parks have entry fees. americanhiking.org/national-trails-day World Atlatl Day. Test your prehistoric hunting skills! The local skills group S.A.L.T. (Study of Ancient Lifeways and Technologies) gives an atlatl demonstration (a weapon predating the bow and arrow), and a distance and accuracy contest opens to the public from 9 a.m. to noon. Free admission.

Pueblo Grande Museum, 4619 E. Washington St., Phoenix. 602-495-0901 or pueblogrande.com Unicorn Festival. Visit the Outlets at Anthem for the inaugural Unicorn Festival where families can get their pictures taken with unicorns in the Enchanted Garden, splash with mermaids at the Mystical Falls and enjoy princesses, a petting zoo, fairies, face painting and more. 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. Free. Outlets at Anthem, 4250 Anthem Way, Phoenix. outletsanthem.com

JUNE 1 AND 8: Summer Cultural Crafts for Kids in the Garden. Spend Saturday morning in the Japanese Friendship Garden doing culture crafts like mini ikebana (flower arranging), kite making, and making creative objects using materials from the garden. 8:30-10:30 a.m. General admission plus a $5 craft fee. Japanese Friendship Gardens, 1125 N. Third Ave., Phoenix. 602-274-8700 or japanesefriendshipgarden.org

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Arizona Authors Summertime Storytelling & Craft Saturdays.

Pueblo Grande Museum hosts hands-on children’s storytelling and crafts 10 a.m. to noon Saturdays for children in pre-kindergarten through fourth grade.

Events include readings by local authors — Dianne White, Rodo Sofranac, Michael Hale, Phoebe Fox and Debi Novotny — followed by story-related crafts and a light snack. $5 includes museum admission for participants; free admission for parents. The event is part of the Maricopa County Reads program, and kids get a secret code to enter at maricopacountyreads.org to collect badges! Pueblo Grande Museum, 4619 E. Washington St., Phoenix. 602-4950901 or pueblogrande.com

Fanboys Comic Con. A celebration for lovers of comics, movies and all things fandom. Fanboys Comic Con includes a marketplace to buy and sell collectibles, meet cosplay favorites and participate in a cosplay contest. 5-11 p.m. WestWorld of Scottsdale, 16601 N. Pima Road, Scottsdale. fanboyscomiccon.com Mighty Mud Mania. This popular annual event offers free, muddy obstacle courses for all ages. Non-muddy events are also available. The Original Mud Obstacle Course for ages 7-12 includes a foot race, mud pits, a slide and ropes. There’s also Muddy Tot for ages 1-3 and a Mini Mud Course for ages 4-6. Ages 13 and older can attempt the Extreme Course. Ages 18 and older pay $10 for the Extreme Course, otherwise the event is free with inflatable water slides, food vendors, open-play mud pits and wash stations. 7 a.m. to noon. Chaparral Park, 5401 N. Hayden Road, Scottsdale. scottsdaleaz.gov/mighty-mud-mania

JUNE 9: Discount Tire Free Family Sunday. Phoenix Art Museum offers free general admission and discounted special exhibition admission from noon to 5 p.m. on the second Sunday of each month. Free Family Sunday offers hands-on art activities, scavenger hunts, live performances, storytimes, free tours and more. Phoenix Art Museum, 1625 N. Central Ave., Phoenix. 602-257-1880 or phxart.org

Flashlight Tours (June 1-Aug. 31) at Desert Botanical Garden.

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JUNE 1-AUG. 31: Desert Botanical Garden Flashlight Tours. Bring your own flashlight to light up the trails and discover night-blooming plants and elusive animals. The tours are popular with all ages. See desert critters up close, make crafts and more. These nights in the garden are always festive with entertainment and refreshments for purchase. 7-9:30 p.m. Saturdays. $14.95; $9.95 ages 3-17; free for ages 2 and younger. Desert Botanical Garden, 1201 N. Galvin Parkway, Phoenix. 480-9411225 or dbg.org

JUNE 7-28: Itty Bitty Beach Parties. Grab the sunscreen and join Cigna Healthcare of Arizona and the City of Phoenix Parks and Recreation Department for these free poolside parties. Ages 6 and younger (with an adult) can dive into safety lessons, games, dance contests, swimsuit contests, refreshments and more. June 1: Maryvale Pool; June 7: Paradise Valley Pool; June 14: Deer Valley Pool; June 21: Pecos Pool; June 28: University Pool. phoenix.gov/parks/pools/cigna-summer-events

JUNE 14: Birthday Bash at the Children’s Museum of Phoenix. This hands-on play and discovery center for ages 10 and younger celebrates its 11th birthday with music, party games, activities, treats and giveaways. $14.95; free for babies under age 1. Children’s Museum of Phoenix, 215 N. Seventh St., Phoenix. 602-253-0501 or childrensmuseumofphoenix.org Roadside USA. The summer road trip is an American tradition. i.d.e.a. Museum’s new exhibit opens today with photos, art and hands-on activities that celebrate the unique destinations and culture surrounding the quintessential pastime. 9 a.m. to 4 p.m.

Tuesday-Thursday and Saturday; 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. Fridays; noon to 4 p.m. Sunday. $9; free for babies younger than 1 year. i.d.e.a.

Museum, 150 W. Pepper Place, Mesa. ideamuseum.org Snacky Snacks – Game and Snack Festival. Enjoy a variety of snacks while playing a variety of games — from video games to board games. For an additional fee, participate in Super Smash Bros.

Ultimate video game tournament. Noon to 8 p.m. $11-$15; $4-$5 for ages 7-12; free for ages 6 and younger. Admission does not include food and drinks. Fellowship Center at North Phoenix Baptist Church, 5757 N. Central Ave., Phoenix. facebook.com/azsnacksfest

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TOP SUMMER EVENTS continued JUNE 14-15: Girls in STEM Overnight Event. Calling all fourth through eighth grade girls! Explore STEM — science, technology, engineering, and math —fields like engineering and chemistry through hands-on workshops and collaborate on real-world problemsolving activities with women currently working in STEM careers. Dinner, breakfast and snacks provided.

5 p.m. to 9 a.m. $20. Arizona Science Center, 600 E. Washington St., Phoenix. azscience.org

Freaky Friday. A frazzled mother and her teenage daughter magically swap bodies and have to spend a day in each other’s shoes — all while trying to figure out how to get back where they belong. 7 p.m.

Thursday-Saturday; 2 p.m. Saturday-Sunday. $20.

This Valley Youth Theatre production takes the stage at Herberger Theater Center, 222 E. Monroe St. in Phoenix. 602-253-8188 or vyt.com

Winter in July (July 13) at Phoenix Zoo.

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JUNE 28:

Multi-Generational Father’s Day Tinkershop.

The i.d.e.a. Museum in Mesa celebrates fathers and grandfathers with a day of tinkering and creating. The morning will include hands-on activities including building a buzz bot. Recommended for ages 4 and older. 10-11:30 a.m. $12-$15. i.d.e.a. Museum, 150 W. Pepper Place, Mesa. ideamuseum.org

Arizona Craft Rave! Families are invited for five hours of nonstop crafting, featuring one-on-one instruction from Arizona artisans. 5:30-10:30 p.m. $5 plus craft fees ($5-$25). Changing Hands Phoenix, 300 W. Camelback Road, Phoenix. 602-274-0067 or changinghands.com

JUNE 16: Family Drumming Workshop. Take dad for a day of drumming at this special Father’s Day workshop.

Learn the basics of African, Latin and pop-music hand drumming with master instructor Frank Thompson.

Get some pointers, then spend the rest of the class jamming with your newly acquired skills. $12. 11 a.m. to noon; 1-2 p.m.; 3-4 p.m. Musical Instrument Museum, 4725 E. Mayo Blvd., Phoenix. mim.org

JULY 4: 4th of Zooly. Spend July 4th at the Phoenix Zoo with an all-American catered barbecue feast lakeside at 7 p.m.

The night includes special animal encounters, carousel rides, live music and bounce houses. Gather at the back of the zoo at 9 p.m. for a special view of the Tempe Town Lake Fireworks Spectacular show. Reservations required. $45; $35 for ages 3-12; free for ages 2 and younger. The Phoenix Zoo, 455 N. Galvin Parkway. 602-286-3800 or phoenixzoo.org See additional 4th of July events on pages 34-35.

JULY 6: Fantastic Summer Water Day. Cool off with thousands of gallons of water and two real fire trucks. 1-3 p.m.

Free. Outlets at Anthem, 4250 Anthem Way, Phoenix. facebook.com/fantasticfiredepartment

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Make It! A monthly drop-in, family-friendly, hands-on art activity at the Phoenix Art Museum. Each month features a different activity inspired by objects in the museum’s collection or current exhibitions and collaborations with different local artists. This 3:30 p.m. event is free and open to all. Every Wednesday, general admission to the museum is free from 3-9 p.m.

Phoenix Art Museum, 1625 N. Central Ave., Phoenix.

602-257-1880 or phxart.org

Winter in July. You won’t even remember it’s 100-plus degrees outside when The Phoenix Zoo transforms into a winter wonderland. Chill out and play in more than 50 tons of snow, splash around at the wet and wild play areas, and watch animals cool off and enjoy icy treats. 7-11 a.m. $14.95-$24.95. Phoenix Zoo, 455 N. Galvin Parkway, Phoenix. 602-286-3800 or phoenixzoo.org

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Boy Scout Badge Day. Boy Scouts can earn the Music Merit Badge by engaging in five activities that meet the requirements. They’ll attend a live musical performance, craft a musical instrument and participate in a workshop on music making. Chaperones are required; please bring your blue card with you. 9:30 a.m. to 4 p.m. $15. Musical Instrument Museum, 4725 E. Mayo Blvd., Phoenix. 480-478-6000 or mim.org

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JULY 13-14: Experience France. Celebrate Bastille Day and French culture at the MIM with live musical performances, French merchandise and food for purchase. 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Saturday-Sunday. $10-$20; free for ages 3 and younger. Musical Instrument Museum, 4725 E. Mayo Blvd., Phoenix. 480-478-6000 or mim.org

JULY 19-20: AFHE Homeschool Conference. For families new to home-schooling or seasoned home schoolers looking for motivation or new approaches for their growing students. Speakers and panels cover various topics, such as getting started, transitioning from home-schooling to public schools and vice versa, early education and more. There is also a marketplace for resources and curriculum.

Tickets $8-$78; $10 for ages 3-18. Phoenix Convention Center, 100 N. Third St., Phoenix. afhe.org

JULY 25: Hawaiian Happenings with American Girl. Celebrate the island culture of Nanea, American Girl’s Hawaiian doll, with hula dancing, a craft and treats.

Girls will create colorful leis to take home, watch a hula demonstration and try it themselves. Includes summer smoothies and cookies. 12:30-1:30 p.m. $10.

American Girl at Scottsdale Quarter, 15059 N. Scottsdale Road, Suite 100, Scottsdale. americangirl.com

JULY 26-27: Summer Splash. Fantastic Fire Department hosts this super-soaked event. Cool off with thousands of gallons of water and two real fire trucks. 5:30-7:30 p.m.

Free. July 26: Queen Creek Marketplace, 20820 S. Ellsworth Road, Queen Creek.

July 27: Crossroads Towne Center, 3757 S. Gilbert Road, Gilbert. facebook.com/ fantasticfiredepartment Calendar Editor Carrie Wheeler is the mother of Wilson (8). Send calendar info to Carrie@RAKmagazine.com.

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FLAGSTAFF

Kidz Monster Mudda (June 22) in Payson.

Movies on the Square (June 1-Aug. 31). Bring your chairs, blankets and sweaters to the town square every Saturday night for games, activities and a free movie. Fratelli’s pizza, ice cream, popcorn and drinks available for purchase.

Free. Heritage Square, 111 W. Birch St., Flagstaff. downtownflagstaff.org Summer Concert Series (June 1 and July 6). The first Saturday of the month, all ages can enjoy music performances under the pines on the Arboretum stage.

Beer, wine, cocktails and food available for purchase. 5:30 p.m. $22; free for ages 12 and younger. June 1: The Talbott Brothers; July 6: Kyshona. The Arboretum at Flagstaff, 4001 S. Woody Mountain Road, Flagstaff. thearb.org

Flagstaff Folk Festival (June 29-30).

Over 150 acts will perform on five indoor and outdoor stages, along with workshops, jam sessions and more at this 18th annual festival. 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. $5 per person or $15 per family. Coconino Center for the Arts & Arizona Historical Society Pioneer Museum, 2300 N. Fort Valley Road, Flagstaff. flagfolkfest.org

Flagstaff Hullabaloo (June 1-2).

Celebrate the Flagstaff community with live bluegrass, reggae, funk and rock ‘n roll, giant puppets, a costume contest, bike parade, circus performers and so much more. Plus special kids activities, local food vendors and craft brews. $8-$90. 10 a.m. Wheeler Park, 212 W. Aspen Ave., Flagstaff. flaghullaballoo.com

Flagstaff Festival in the Pines (July 4-6). More than 150 potters, painters, jewelry makers and other artisans showcase their wares at this year’s annual arts and music festival. Enjoy live music, food vendors and a kids gallery with loads of arts and crafts activities for kids. 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. $10; free for ages 12 and younger. Fort Tuthill County Fairgrounds, 2446 Fort Tuthill Loop, Flagstaff. flagstaffartfest.com

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Flagstaff Urban Flea Market (June 8 and July 13). The second Saturday of each month, local artisans gather to sell their wares — handmade wood and leatherwork, ceramics, soaps, vintage clothing, used tools, comics, toys, household goods, jewelry, upcycled goods, flowers, and fleamarket-type treasures. 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. Free.

City Hall parking lot, 211 W. Aspen Ave., Flagstaff. flagstaffmarket.com

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Flagstaff Pride (June 22). Kat Deluna, Roman Buffalo, Zigtebra and more will perform at this year’s Pride Festival, which seeks to educate, celebrate and increase acceptance of the LGBTQ community in Northern Arizona. Noon to 9 p.m. $22-$75. Thorpe Park, 182 N. Thorpe Road, Flagstaff. flagstaffpride.org

Flag Wool and Fiber Festival (June 1-2). This family event features live animals useful in fiber making (like alpacas, sheep and yak), demonstrations in blacksmithing and candle making, weaving workshops, a fiber-arts competition and a marketplace. 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. Free. Pioneer Museum, 2340 N. Fort Valley Road, Flagstaff. flagwool.com

Kids Squared (June 6-July 25).

Heritage Square Trust hosts activities for kids of all ages from 10-11 a.m. every Wednesday in Heritage Square, 111 W. Birch St., Flagstaff. downtownflagstaff. org/events/kids-squared

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STEAM Second Saturdays (June 8 and July 13). The Museum of Northern Arizona hosts hands-on activities and creative crafts following different themes each month: archaeology, geology, mammals, plants, reptiles and more. 2-4 p.m. $12; $8 for ages 10-17; free for ages 9 and younger.

June 8: Wild for Wolves. July 13: The Ant Empire. Museum of Northern Arizona, 3101 N. Fort Valley Road, Flagstaff. 928-7745213 or musnaz.org

Flagstaff Art in the Park (July 5-7).

Enjoy live music, wine gardens featuring Arizona wineries and fine arts and crafts and this 13th annual event. 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. Friday-Saturday; 9 a.m. to 4 p.m.

Sunday. Free. Wheeler Park, 212 W. Aspen Ave., Flagstaff. flagstaffartinthepark.com Arizona Highland Celtic Festival (July 20-21). The Northern Arizona Celtic Heritage Society hosts this annual event featuring bagpipes, bands, reenactments, kids activities, workshops and competitions. $5-$30. Fort Tuthill, 2446 Fort Tuthill Loop, Flagstaff. nachs.info

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around arizona continued PAYSON Summer Concert Series (June 1-July 27). Every Saturday night in June and July, bring the family and a picnic (or buy food from local vendors) and enjoy live music under the stars. Dogs must be on a leash. No smoking or alcohol. 7 p.m. Free.

Green Valley Park, 1000 W. Country Club Drive, Payson. paysonrimcountry.com Payson Book Festival (July 20). This family-friendly book festival invites more than 80 Arizona authors to sign books and visit with readers. Children will enjoy a storytime sessions with their favorite fictional characters. 9 a.m. to 3:30 p.m. Free. Mazatzal Hotel and Casino, Highway 87, Mile Marker 251, Payson.

928-478-6793 or paysonbookfestival.org

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Kidz Monster Mudda (June 22). Ages 6 to 11 can participate in the Kidz Monster Mudda — a kid-friendly course at the Arizona Mountain High Games annual Mogollon Monster Mudda 5K Mud Run. The course includes 20 natural and manmade obstacles on mountain trails. Kids can climb walls, run through mud pits, slither through mud slides, cross monkey 1:37 barsPM and more. Noon. $20-$25. Payson Event Center, 1400 S. Beeline Highway, Payson. paysonrimcountry.com/mudda

PINE/STRAWBERRY Pine-Strawberry Festival (June 15-16). Enjoy cool mountain air, live entertainment, arts and crafts vendors, food vendors and lots and lots of strawberries at this 29th annual event. 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Saturday; 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. Sunday.

Free. Pine/Strawberry Community Center Ramada, 3886 N. Highway 87, Pine. strawberryfestivalaz.com

$9; free for ages 17 and younger. Sharlot Hall Museum, 415 W. Gurley St., Prescott. sharlot.org/festival/folk-arts-fair Zoo by Moonlight (June 17 and July 16). Visit the Heritage Park Zoological Sanctuary every full moon to see nocturnal residents out and about. Docents will also be available to help locate and answer questions. Bring a flashlight! 8-9:30 p.m. $8. 1403 Heritage Park Road, Prescott.

928-778-4242 or heritageparkzoo.org Prescott Frontier Days (July 1-7). This year marks the 132nd annual World’s Oldest Rodeo with daily rodeo performances and festivities including a dance, parade, kiddie parade and an arts and crafts show. Times vary. $14-$25. Prescott Rodeo Grounds, 840 Rodeo Drive, Mackin Building # D, Prescott. worldsoldestrodeo.com

TUCSON Cool Summer Nights (through Aug. 31). Families can beat the heat at the Arizona-Sonora Desert Museum. See stunning sunsets, star-filled skies, night-blooming plants and nocturnal animals that appear after their daytime naps. Bring flashlights and explore or participate in themed activities.

6-10 p.m. Saturdays. $16.95 Arizona residents; $8.95 ages 3-12; free for ages 2 and younger. Arizona-Sonora Desert Museum, 2021 N. Kinney Road, Tucson.

520-883-2702 or desertmuseum.org

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Summer Safari Saturday Nights (May 25-Aug. 17). Fill your summer nights with safari adventures at the Reid Park Zoo. Animal encounters, zookeeper talks, games, crafts and face painting. 6-8 p.m. Saturdays. $6.50-10.50; free for ages 1 and younger.

Reid Park Zoo, 3400 E. Zoo Court Drive, Tucson. 520-881-4753 or reidparkzoo.org

Folk Arts Fair (June 1-2). Sharlot Hall Museum transports visitors to a simpler time when its shade-covered campus becomes a 19th century Arizona village with themed districts emphasizing education, demonstrations and hands-on experiences. Children can try traditional crafts and cooking, including popcorn and Dutch-oven baked biscuits with freshly churned butter. 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. on Saturday; 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Sunday.

Kids Create (June 8 and July 13).

This art program for school-aged kids encourages creativity working in smallscale. All children must be accompanied by an adult. Noon to 3 p.m. on the second Saturday of each month. $10.50: $7 for ages 4-17. The Mini Time Machine Museum of Miniatures, 4455 E. Camp Lowell Drive, Tucson. 520-881-0606 or theminitimemachine.org

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TOGETHER, WE can PREVENT DROWNINGS!

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A= Supervise children and adults around all water. The caregiver should be sober and know how to swim. Practice eye-to-eye and touch supervision always.

B= Block children from unexpectedly getting into water. Secure and lock gates. Make sure drain covers meet standards.

Coast-Guard Approved Life Vests and Classes

C= Take classes to learn how to swim and be able to perform mouth-to-mouth CPR. Wear a life vest while learning to swim.

For more information, visit www.PreventDrownings.org

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family time! 4th of July events Fireworks in downtown Phoenix.

ANTHEM Independence Day Celebration (July 3). The Anthem Community Council hosts an evening with fireworks, water slides, rides, inflatables, music, dancing and food. Bring blankets and lawn chairs. 6-10 p.m., fireworks at 9:30 p.m. Free admission and parking; $12-$15 ride/bounce wristbands.

Community Park, 41703 N. Gavilan Peak Parkway, Anthem. onlineatanthem.com

APACHE JUNCTION Fourth of July Celebration (July 4).

This hometown celebration includes something for the whole family: free watermelon, game booths, kids zone, bike and wagon decorating contests, water games and live entertainment. A volleyball tournament and swimming activities start earlier in the day at the Superstition Shadows Aquatic Center.

Free. 6 p.m., 8:30 p.m. fireworks. Apache Junction High School, 2525 S. Ironwood Drive. 480-983-2181 or ajcity.net

fireworks show. Free admission. 6-9:30 p.m. Youngker High School, 3000 S. Apache Road, Buckeye. buckeyeaz.gov

CHANDLER July 4th Fireworks Spectacular (July 4). The City of Chandler rocks the town red, white and blue with a high-energy “party in the park.”

Live music, food vendors and kids activities. 6:30-9:30 p.m., 9 p.m. fireworks. Free admission; $5 parking (cash only). Tumbleweed Park, 2250 S. McQueen Road, Chandler. 480782-2735 or chandleraz.gov

FLAGSTAFF 4th of July Parade (July 4).

The Greater Flagstaff Chamber of Commerce hosts more than 20,000 spectators at this annual parade with 100 floats, horses, dancers and bands marching through downtown Flagstaff.

9-11 a.m. Free. 928-774-4505 or flagstaffchamber.com

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Independence Day Celebration (July 4). Buckeye welcomes families for games and activities, water slides, live entertainment, food and treats and a

Fourth of July Celebration (July 4). Family, friends and neighbors are welcome at Gilbert’s annual 4th of July party. Bring blankets, chairs and lawn

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games. Food trucks onsite 6-9 p.m.; fireworks at 8:30 p.m. Free admission and parking. Higley High School, 4068 E. Pecos Road, Gilbert. 480-503-6200 or gilbertaz.gov/july4th

PAYSON Hometown 4th of July Celebration (July 4). This patriotic celebration offers beautiful weather and breathtaking sunsets. Bring chairs, a picnic basket and a blanket, or get food from local vendors. Fireworks, games, bouncy houses, prizes, music and more. 8 a.m. ceremony, 1-3 p.m. family games and activities, 6-9 p.m. live music, 9 p.m. fireworks. Free. Green Valley Park, 1000 W. Country Club Drive, Payson. 928472-5110 or paysonrimcountry.com

PHOENIX 4th of Zooly (July 4). Spend the 4th of July at the Phoenix Zoo with an allAmerican catered barbecue feast lakeside at 7 p.m. The night includes special animal encounters, carousel rides, live music and bounce houses. Gather at the back of the zoo at 9 p.m. for a special view of the Tempe Town Lake Fireworks Spectacular show. Reservations required. $45; $35 for ages 3-12; free for ages 2 and younger.

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Stay at Chase Field after the Arizona Diamondbacks host the Colorado Rockies for a post-game fireworks show, presented by Gila River Hotels & Casino.

6:10 p.m. $22-$185. Chase Field, 401 E. Jefferson St., Phoenix. 602-514-8400 or dbacks.com Fabulous Phoenix 4th (July 4). See one of the largest fireworks displays in the Southwest. The free and nonalcoholic family event attracts more than 100,000 people. Entertainment includes international recording artists, food vendors, arts and crafts, interactive exhibits and a classic car display. Kids World offers rides, inflatables and a water spray zone. 6-10 p.m., fireworks at approximately 9:30 p.m. Steele Indian School Park, 300 E. Indian School Road, Phoenix. 602-534-3378 or phoenix. gov/parks/special-events/fabphx4

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TEMPE July 4th Tempe Town Lake Festival (July 4). Enjoy a family fun fest, inflatable village, rock-climbing walls, live entertainment, Luke Air Force Base flyover, food court, beer garden and fireworks. 5-11 p.m. $10; $30-$60 for VIP; free for ages 12 and younger; discount tickets available at Fry’s stores. Note: Most bags are prohibited for security reasons. Tempe Beach Park, Rio Salado Parkway and Mill Avenue. 480-3505189 or tempe4th.com

TUCSON Let Freedom Sing Concert (July 4).

This musical celebration performed by the Arts Express Choir and Orchestra includes patriotic standards and all-American hits. 3 and 7 p.m. $10-$35. Fox Tucson Theatre, 17 W. Congress St., Tucson. arts-express.org

YUMA 4th of July All-American BBQ & Fireworks Spectacular (July 4). The City of Yuma’s celebration offers food and drinks, giant water features, water balloon challenges, eating contests and a 20-minute fireworks show. Bring chairs, blankets, towels and pop-ups. No outside food, drinks or coolers. 6-10 p.m. $1; free for ages 3 and younger. Ray Kroc Complex, 1280 W. Desert Hills Drive, Yuma. yumaaz.gov

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family time! on exhibit Away From Home: American Indian Boarding School Stories (ongoing). This updated exhibit examines the U.S. government’s efforts to assimilate American Indians into “civilized” society beginning in the 1870s. Children were taken from families and transported to far-away boarding schools, where all signs of “Indian-ness” were stripped away. Art, firstperson interviews and interactive displays. 9:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. Monday-Saturday, 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. Sunday. $18; $7.50 for ages 6-17; free for ages 5 and younger. Free admission 6-10 p.m. on the first Friday of each month.

Heard Museum, 2301 N. Central Ave., Phoenix. 602252-8840 or heard.org Color Riot! How Color Changed Navajo Textiles (through Sept. 2). This family-friendly exhibit explores how weavers use color, pattern, texture and their imaginations when they make textiles. At times, the colors are so bright and the patterns are so complicated that our eyes jump when we look at them. Some of these textiles are called Eyedazzlers! Kids can experiment with color, make postcards and try weaving. Hours vary. $7.50-$18; free for ages 5 and younger. Heard Museum, 2301 N. Central Ave., Phoenix. 602-252-8840 or heard.org Flora at Phoenix Art Museum (through Aug. 18).

Discover how flowers have inspired fashions through the ages. See designs by Marc Jacobs, Comme des Garçons, Charles James and Slava Zaitsev and explore botanicalinspired designs from the 18th century to the present. $14$23; hours vary. Pay-what-you-wish hours: 3-9 p.m. each Wednesday, 6-10 p.m. on the first Friday of each month and noon to 5 p.m. on the second Sunday of each month. 1625 N. Central Ave., Phoenix. 602-666-7104 or phxart.org Gaman: Enduring Japanese American Internment at Gila River (through April 18, 2020). During World War II more than 16,000 Japanese Americans were forcibly removed from the west coast to the Gila River Internment Camp near Chandler. This exhibit explores how gaman, the Japanese value of enduring the seemingly impossible with patience and dignity, helped these American citizens survive loss and incarceration in the Arizona desert. Free. 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. TuesdaySaturday; 1- 5 p.m. Sunday. Chandler Museum, 300 S. Chandler Village Drive, Chandler. 480-782-2000 or chandlermuseum.org Mighty Mike (through May 2020). OdySea Aquarium has a new star: Mighty Mike, the largest alligator in North America. At 14-feet long and 800 pounds, Mike will reside at OdySea Aquarium for a year. $27.95$37.95. Open daily; hours vary. OdySea Aquarium, 9500 E. Via de Ventura, Scottsdale. 480-291-8000 or odyseaaquarium.com

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Mummies of the World (through Sept. 2). Arizona Science Center hosts this blockbuster exhibit of 40 human and animal mummies and 85 rare artifacts.

Multimedia stations take visitors on a 4,500-year journey offering a look at life in ancient Egypt, South America and Europe. $7.95-$11.95 plus general admission: $18; $13 for ages 3-17; free for ages 2 and younger. 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. daily. 600 E. Washington St., Phoenix. 602-7162000 or azscience.org/mummies Paul Calle’s Life of Exploration: From the Mountains to the Moon (through Oct. 20). In time to mark the 50th anniversary of Neil Armstrong’s first step on the moon (July 16, 1969), this exhibit traces the career of American West artist Paul Calle, an official NASA artist whose postage stamp designs included the iconic 1969 First Man on the Moon. It includes his paintings and sketches of President John F. Kennedy, Robert Frost, Helen Keller and Anne Sullivan. $8-$15; free for ages 5 and younger. 9:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. Tuesday-Wednesday and Friday-Saturday; 9:30 a.m. to 9 p.m. Thursday; 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. Sunday.

Western Spirit: Scottsdale’s Museum of the West, 3830 N. Marshall Way, Scottsdale. 480-686-9539 or scottsdalemuseumwest.org Photographs by Barry Goldwater (through June 23). Best known for his politics, Barry Goldwater was also a photographer whose photos of the Grand Canyon and native Arizonans were regularly seen in Arizona Highways magazine. The largest collection of his photographs is on display at the Western Spirit Museum. $8-$15; free for ages 5 and younger. 9:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. TuesdayWednesday and Friday-Saturday; 9:30 a.m. to 9 p.m.

Thursday; 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. Sunday. Western Spirit: Scottsdale’s Museum of the West, 3830 N. Marshall Way, Scottsdale. 480-686-9539 or scottsdalemuseumwest.org Roadside USA (June 14-Sept. 8). The summer road trip is an American tradition. i.d.e.a. Museum’s new exhibit displays photos, art and hands-on activities that celebrate the unique destinations. 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. Tuesday-Thursday and Saturday; 9 a.m. to 6 p.m.

Fridays; 12-4 p.m. Sunday. $9; free for children 12 months and younger. i.d.e.a. Museum, 150 W. Pepper Place, Mesa. ideamuseum.org Surprise Your Eyes (ongoing). This 3D opticalillusion attraction encourages viewers to be a part of the art. The show offers 30 paintings and optical illusions, from fighting with dinosaurs to walking on the moon. 10 a.m. to 7 p.m. daily. $9.95. OdySea in the Desert, 9500 Via de Ventura, Scottsdale. surpriseyoureye.com The Electric Guitar: Inventing an American Icon (through Sept. 15). Learn about the history of

Flora (through Aug. 18) at Phoenix Art Museum. the electric guitar — from its invention to its role in changing American music — and see more than 80 of the world’s rarest electric guitars and amplifiers. 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. daily. $7-$10. Musical Instrument Museum, 4725 E. Mayo Blvd., Phoenix. 480-478-6000 or mim.org The Very Hungry Caterpillar’s 50th Birthday (through Aug. 31). Butterfly Wonderland partnered with Penguin Publishing and author Eric Carle to celebrate the 50th birthday of this classic children’s book. See live caterpillars and other creatures from Eric Carle’s books and larger-than-life storybook pages from “The Very Hungry Caterpillar.” Face painting, story times and movies on select dates. 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. daily. $23.95; $15.95 for ages 2-12; free for ages 1 and younger. Butterfly Wonderland, 9500 E. Vía de Ventura, Scottsdale. butterflywonderland.com Titanic: The Artifact Exhibition (through April 30, 2020). Generations have been fascinated by the Titanic, from its grand send-off in England to its ill-fated collision with an iceberg. See more than 120 artifacts never before seen in Arizona. Visitors step back into 1912, receiving a replica boarding pass of an actual Titanic passenger. The chronological tour moves through the ship’s construction, to life on board, to the sinking and eventual artifact-rescue efforts. 9 a.m. to 5 p.m.

Sunday-Thursday, 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. Friday - Saturday. $14.95-$19.95 at the exhibit box office at OdySea in the Desert, 9500 E. Via De Ventura, Scottsdale. odyseainthedesert.com

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DANCE Ballet Etudes Showcase (June 1).

Students of Ballet Etudes School of Dance, ages 3-18, present an evening of ballet, jazz and contemporary works as they showcase their training. 7 p.m. $10.

Chandler Center for the Arts, 250 N. Arizona Ave., Chandler. 480-782-2680 or chandlercenter.org Everytime I Dance (June 5-6).

Performers of all ages show off their skills at tap, jazz, ballet, urban and contemporary dances. 6:30 p.m. $14; free for children 2 and younger. Mesa Arts Center, 1 E. Main St., Mesa. mesaartscenter.com MBBC Dance (June 13). Dancers of all ages perform routines from the 1990s and 2000s in a variety of dance styles. 7 p.m. $20. Chandler Center for the Arts, 250 N. Arizona Ave., Chandler. 480-7822680 or chandlercenter.org Ice Fantasy — Where Cirque Meets Ice! (July 26-28). See world-

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class talent in the arts of gymnastics, acrobatics and figure skating in this family-friendly theatrical performance.

2:30 and 7 p.m. performances. $29$69. Mesa Arts Center, 1 E. Main St., Mesa. mesaartscenter.com

MUSIC Summer Concert Series (June 2-30). Every Sunday in June, McCormick-Stillman Railroad Park hosts free concerts under the stars.

Local bands perform classic rock, retro ’80s and ’90s, country and/or rhythm and blues. 7:30-9 p.m. June 2: Paperback Writer, Beatles Tribute; June 9: High Tide, Beach Boys Tribute; June 16: One of These Nights, Eagles Tribute; June 23: Motown Magic, Various Motown; June 30: Garth Live!, Garth Brooks Tribute (accompanied by fireworks). Free. 480-312-2312 or therailroadpark.com Summer Band Concert Series (June 6-July 25). Sit under the stars and enjoy spirited renditions of marches, movie medleys, patriotic tunes, folk songs and polkas. 8 p.m. Free. Historic Downtown Glendale, E. Lowell Rogers Amphitheatre,

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Dueling Pianos (June 14 & July 12).

Double the pianos means double the fun! Spend an evening in Dorrance Hall singing along with AZ Dueling Pianos.

7:30-9:30 p.m. $25-$30. Desert Botanical Gardens, 1201 N. Galvin Parkway, Phoenix. dbg.org

Queen + Adam Lambert: The Rhapsody Tour (July 16). Two original Queen band members, Brian May and Roger Taylor, and frontman Adam Lambert will definitely rock you in their rousing cross-country tour. Queen plays its hits and unveils an experimental stage show. 8 p.m. $55-$190. Talking Stick Resort Arena, 201 E. Jefferson St., Phoenix. talkingstickresortarena.com

Musical Icons: Johnny Cash and June Carter (June 22-23).

Commemorate the music and legacy of Johnny Cash and June Carter and celebrate what would have been Carter’s 90th birthday. Music, curator talks and film screenings. 9 a.m. to 5 p.m.

Saturday-Sunday. $10-$20; free for ages 3 and younger. Musical Instrument Museum, 4725 E. Mayo Blvd., Phoenix.

480-478-6000 or mim.org Experience France (July 13-14).

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Saturday-Sunday. $10-$20; free for ages 3 and younger. Musical Instrument

PUPPETS Rumplestiltskin (through June 16).

A strange man with a hard-to-guess name and a woman forced to spin gold.

Recommended for ages 5 and up. 10 a.m. Wednesday-Saturday; 2 p.m.

Saturday-Sunday. $8-$12; free for ages 1 and younger with the purchase of a child’s ticket. Great Arizona Puppet Theater, 302 W. Latham St., Phoenix.

602-262-2050 or azpuppets.org Jack and the Beanstalk (June 19-July 7). A funny version of the classic tale about a brave little boy, a giant and an overgrown beanstalk.

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Legally Blonde: The Musical (May 17-June 16). California girl Elle Woods tackles stereotypes, snobbery and scandal in a journey of self-discovery at Harvard Law School. Times vary. $22-$28. Desert Stages Theatre inside Scottsdale Fashion Square, 7014 E. Camelback Road, Scottsdale. desertstages.org

The Three Wishes (July 10-21). This whimsical play warns about being careful for what you wish for, because you just might get it! A kind-hearted woodcutter and his wife are granted three wishes by a wood elf, and use them in increasingly silly ways. Recommended for ages 5 and up. 10 a.m. Wednesday-Saturday; 2 p.m.

Saturday-Sunday. $8-$12; free for ages 1 and younger with the purchase of a child’s ticket; closed July 4th. Great Arizona Puppet Theater, 302 W. Latham St., Phoenix. 602-262-2050 or azpuppets.org Old MacDonald (July 24-Aug. 11).

Sing along with everyone’s favorite farmer and his animal friends. Recommended for ages 2-8. 10 a.m. Wednesday-Saturday; 2 p.m. Saturday-Sunday. $8-$12; free for ages 1 and younger with the purchase of a child’s ticket; closed July 4th.

Great Arizona Puppet Theater, 302 W. Latham St., Phoenix. 602-262-2050 or azpuppets.org

THEATER Newsies (May 16-June 29). Extra!

Extra! Disney’s uplifting musical set in turn-of-the century New York City comes to Hale Theatre. When titans of publishing raise distribution prices at the newsboys’ expense, Jack Kelly rallies newsies from across the city to strike. Times vary. $22-$40. Hale Center Theatre, 50 W. Page Ave., Gilbert. 480497-1181 or haletheatrearizona.com In the Heights (May 17-June 2).

Before Hamilton, there was “In the Heights,” Lin Manuel Miranda’s first Broadway hit about life in the Washington Heights neighborhood in upper Manhattan. Mesa Encore Theatre explores what it means to be home, with Miranda’s signature mixtures of

Little Shop of Horrors (May 31-June 16). When meek plant-store worker Seymore finds a carnivorous specimen that has a taste for human blood, mayhem ensues. Expect lots of R&B-style music and slapstick comedy from this Broadway musical hit. 7 p.m. Friday-Saturday (with additional Saturday performances June 8 and 15); 2 p.m. Sunday. $15.

Spotlight Youth Theatre, 10620 N. 43rd Ave., Glendale. 602-843-8318 or spotlightyouththeatre.org Gerry Cullity’s Alice in Wonderland (May 25-June 9). Follow Alice down the rabbit hole and through the zany world of Wonderland in this Lewis Carroll classic told through songs and madcap characters. 11 a.m. and 1 p.m. Saturday-Sunday. $22-$28.

Desert Stages Theatre inside Scottsdale Fashion Square, 7014 E. Camelback Road, Scottsdale. 480-483-1664 or desertstages.org The Addams Family (June 7-July 28). Wednesday Addams has grown up and fallen in love … with a sweet young man from a respectable family! Her family wonders where they went wrong, and Wednesday wants one “normal” night as they host a dinner for her fiancé and his parents. Arizona Broadway Theatre presents a dinner theater show June 7-July 6 on its main stage, 7701 W. Paradise Lane in Peoria. The production travels to Herberger Theater Center in downtown Phoenix July 12-28. Times vary $28-$73. azbroadway.org or

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Saturday-Sunday. $8-$12; free for ages 1 and younger with the purchase of a child’s ticket; closed July 4th.

Dueling Pianos (June 14 & July 12) at Desert Botanical Gardens.

herbergertheater.org The Lost Boys of Neverland (June 13-23). The Peter Pan story continues!

Find out what happened after Peter Pan left Neverland and what became of Captain Hook and the rest of the crew. This East Valley Children’s Theatre production is fun for the entire family. 7 p.m. Thursday-Saturday; 4 p.m. Saturday; 2 p.m. Sunday. $15.

Mesa Arts Center, 1 E. Main St., Mesa. mesaartscenter.com Charlie and the Chocolate Factory (June 11-16). Based on the beloved Roald Dahl classic, this story follows Charlie and four lucky golden ticket winners who tour Willy Wonka’s super secret candy-making factory. With classic songs from the original movie and new songs created by songwriters from the hit musical “Hairspray.” 7:30 p.m. Tuesday-Friday; 2 and 7:30 p.m.

Saturday; 1 and 6:30 p.m. Sunday. $20$200. asugammage.com Freaky Friday (June 14-30). A frazzled mother and her teenage daughter magically swap bodies and have to spend a day in each other’s shoes — all while trying to figure out how to get back where they belong.

7 p.m. Thursday-Saturday; 2 p.m.

Saturday-Sunday. $20. This Valley Youth Theatre production takes the stage at Herberger Theater Center, 222 E. Monroe St. in Phoenix. 602-2538188 or vyt.com Madagascar the Musical (June 22 and 29). Arizona Broadway Theatre’s Theater for Young Audiences presents Alex the Lion, Marty the Zebra, Melman the Giraffe, Gloria the hip-hip-Hippo and the hilarious, plotting Penguins who escape from the New York’s Central Park Zoo and find themselves in King Julien’s Madagascar. 10 a.m. $15-$16. Arizona Broadway Theatre, 7701 W. Paradise Lane, Peoria. 623776-8400 or azbroadway.org Chitty Chitty Bang Bang (July 5-Aug. 17). Embark on a musical adventure over air and seas with an out-of-this-world car. Based on the 1968 film and featuring an unforgettable score by the Sherman Brothers (of Mary Poppins fame), this show is a fun-filled adventure for the entire family. $20-$40. 7 p.m.

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IT’S MONDAY MORNING, and my house looks a fright. It has survived the wrath of a 6-year-old over a long weekend — toys and half-finished craft projects strewn about. If you have small children, chances are yours is in a similar state.

With the popularity of the Netflix show “Tidying Up with Marie Kondo” and the release of Gretchen Rubin’s newest book “Outer Order Inner Calm,” I’ve been thinking a lot about the messes kids make in the wake of play. It never ceases to amaze me how quickly my family room can turn into a giant pile of abandoned toys.

Sometimes the vignettes that get left behind make me smile. A Winnie the Pooh picnic on the first day of kindergarten comes to mind, serving as a reminder of all the fun we had that summer and making the house feel less empty on that milestone day. But mostly, I feel the opposite of inner calm when my house is turned upside down.

I don’t consider myself a neat freak, and cleaning is far from my favorite pastime. Yet, I can’t help feeling down whenever my house is out of order. Although the mess usually looks far worse than it is, sometimes the task seems insurmountable. I don’t mean to make a mountain out of a molehill of toys, but I was not surprised to learn there is a proven correlation between women’s cortisol levels and clutter.

A friend shared a meme on social media that I try to conjure whenever I feel this way: Think of the mess like fairy dust. One day it will go away, and take all the magic with it.

Cue tears. I’ll wait while you grab a tissue.

When I think of it that way, I never want the mess to up and disappear. There is so much magic in the mess. When my daughter plays, anything is possible — her imagination knows no limits. She sees the world in a way that a grown-up cannot. The make-believe, dress-up clothes and talking stuffed animals are part of a magical world only a child can unlock. It’s a superpower we’re all born with that inexplicably vanishes into thin air as we age. When you’re little, you don’t need to be reminded to think outside the box, because you’re too busy playing inside the box. Creativity comes naturally.

The mess of creative play will be gone before I can say abracadabra — another bittersweet reminder that my daughter will only be little for a little while. Try as I might to embrace our disheveled living space as her personal Neverland, she is going to grow up.

In truth, the mess won’t actually go away (read: teenagers). A few years ago, I asked my mom how long we should wait before making some updates to our home so our then-toddler couldn’t destroy our freshly-painted cabinets and new furniture. Her response? College.

Someday my house will be pristine. An empty nest, ready for company at a moment’s notice. Ready for my grown daughter and her sticky-fingered children to make a mess. I can’t wait.

Until then, I’m off to tidy my family room.

Jessica Runberg is a Scottsdale freelance writer and the mother of Emily (6).

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