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October 2021 DEPARTMENTS 2 Dialogue Celebration Traditions

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• National savings day • Piggy bank craft • RAK Review: Pita Jungle • Preventing common sports injuries in children

32 FEATURES 32 Meet the Eilers Family: Owners of The Strawberry Inn Carson and Amber Eilers talk about how it’s been a labor of love, juggling raising a family while also renovating and managing The Strawberry Inn in the small town of Strawberry.

36 RAK Review: Strawberry? Where the heck is that?

Mom and publisher, Kate Reed takes the family up to Strawberry, AZ for a weekend of fun at The Strawberry Inn and its surrounding areas.

22 Celebrate Fall • Fun fall activities from PBS Kids • Date night ideas • Halloween safety tips • Craft: Pumpkin painting

18 10 Ages & Stages • Ask a pediatrician: How to stay safe this flu season • Finding healing after a miscarriage • I was 1 in 4 • Talking to your baby’s caregiver about safe sleep

38 Family Time!

• October top events • Halloween events & pumpkin patches

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dialogue

October 2021 | Vol 32 | No 8

Traditions

PUBLISHER Kate Reed EDITOR Monique Seleen

OCTOBER HAS BEEN my favorite month for

Arizona. Locally owned by the Eiler family

as long as I can remember. The weather

from Scottsdale, this inn was a project of

in Arizona starts to cool off a little, the

passion that turned into an Arizona gem

air in the morning is crisp, pumpkins

less than 2 hours away from Phoenix.

begin to adorn front porches, and I get to

Our family had a chance to spend a

start planning fun fall activities with my

weekend at The Strawberry Inn and we

three boys.

shared all the fun activities we were able

I am a huge fan of creating traditions so

to do and pictures from our trip. It was a

CONTRIBUTORS Noah Arenson, Rachel Galvez, Bill Herzog, Emily Singleton ART DIRECTOR Michèlle-Renée Adams COVER PHOTOGRAPHY Kate Reed MARKETING CONSULTANTS Shannon Cornall, Mary Vandenberg

that my children can share these memories

weekend we’ll cherish forever! You can also

R aising A rizona K ids magazine (ISSN 1051-4295)

with their own kids one day, just like I

read about the Eiler family in our feature

was created to connect Valley families to local

remember doing with my parents. We’re

story and learn more about how they

resources and share real-life stories about the

always trying new things but have our

transformed the inn and how the inn came

challenges and joys of raising children. Copy­right ©

‘staple’ activities that we do every year.

to be what it is today.

Our biggest tradition is visiting Mortimer

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Farms in Dewey, Arizona. We’ve been

OCTOBER IS ALSO Pregnancy and Infant

for one year or $35 for two years. Back issues are

going there since my oldest (now 8) was a

Loss Awareness Month and you’ll read

$6 per copy. Make address changes on our website

baby and now, every October, we plan a

recollections from both myself and

weekend to go. This year we also added

our editor, Monique Seleen, on our

Apple Annie’s in Willcox and Schnepf

journey navigating loss and grief after

Farms in Queen Creek to our list.

miscarriage. While difficult to write, we

In this issue of Raising Arizona Kids

hope by sharing our stories it helps you

we’ve compiled some of the fall and

feel less alone if you’re struggling with a

Halloween events to help you create your

loss as well.

own family traditions. We’ve also got some

As we start to embrace the cooler

other fall related fun: Find out where to

weather this fall, we hope you are able to

pick pumpkins in Arizona, how to paint a

make time to create new traditions and

pumpkin for mess-free fun, and brush up

start making memories you will cherish

on some trick-or-treating safety tips. Plus,

forever with your family.

we’ve included some safe sleep tips for your baby and advice for staying healthy during the upcoming flu season.

On the cover you’ll see the beautifully renovated Strawberry Inn in Strawberry,

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It’s Time To Think BEYOND The Piggy Bank Start your child’s financial education journey today

By Rachel Galvez TO SAVE OR TO SPEND? That question has plagued us all at some

stress, there are resources available to get yourself and your

point. But how do we foster the save mentality in our youth?

children on the right track.

October 12th is National Savings Day, inviting us to pause and

It will reassure many parents that statistics show Gen Z to

consider our relationship with money and how our financial

be more mindful of saving based on their experience watching

habits will influence our children’s perspective. Are we

their parents grapple with the recession of 2008, and with the

modeling smart saving and spending habits and encouraging

financial fallout of COVID-19. This generation still has much to

our children to be considerate with how they earn, save and

learn about money management, but many kids already have an

spend their money?

awareness you can build on.

Your children will model your financial behaviors and start

Where should you start? Here are three things you can start

forming financial habits at a young age. Does that statement

doing today to set your kids on the path to smart savings and

make you proud or cause you to worry? If it is the latter, don’t

financial stability:

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• WANTS VS. NEEDS. Talk with your kids about the difference between what they want and need in real-life terms. You might want to buy a giant TV and a freezer full of ice cream, but you need to pay monthly bills and purchase food for all meals, not just dessert. Show them your monthly budget and how much you set aside for recurring spending and for saving for the future.

An Activity for

NATIONAL SAVINGS DAY

• TALK ABOUT HOW MUCH THINGS COST. Don’t assume kids conceptualize dollars and cents the way you do. Nowadays, they see us swipe a card at the store rather than exchange physical money, so the concept can be vague. Explaining how much you have to spend and how much things cost can help make money “real” to them.

• OPEN A YOUTH SAVINGS ACCOUNT. Do this as early as possible so they can start saving and it becomes a routine. Whether it’s $10 from mowing a lawn or $40 from babysitting, setting and reaching savings goals fosters a positive perception of money. Have them track progress and work with them to set reward milestones, ISTOCK

such as purchasing a small item that won’t wipe out their account.

If you’re intimidated to teach your kids about money management because you aren’t the most financially savvy parent, consider this a great time to bolster your own knowledge. Contact a financial coach to revamp your budgeting practices and involve your kids in the process. There are numerous free resources online and through community organizations, so don’t let finances hold you back from educating yourself and your children.

Most of all, be transparent with your children. Let them know

TO CELEBRATE NATIONAL SAVINGS DAY, let each of your

kids pick out an inexpensive piggy bank and provide them with

some of your missteps or give a peek behind the curtain on family

a variety of stickers, glitter glue, tape, ribbon, etc. to decorate it

finances. It may just open their eyes to what you struggle with and

however they want. Personalizing their own bank will help kids

make money “real” to them. Don’t let this opportunity pass you by to

get excited about starting to save! When they have been saving

start your kids off on the path to financial literacy and security. Start

a while and their piggy bank starts getting full or reaches a

your child’s financial education journey today.

milestone you have set together, celebrate by taking it to the bank or credit union branch to deposit into their account. Make

Rachel Galvez is the Marketing Partnerships Manager at Arizona Federal Credit Union. A mom of two, Rachel is committed to empowering families with the information they need to make smart financial decisions now and set their children on the path to financial success in the future.

it a memorable occasion by celebrating with a treat, purchasing a small item they’ve been saving for or calling a grandparent to share their big news.

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KATE REED

az grown RAK review

Above: Kafta Burger and garlic potatoes. Top right: Shirley Temple. Bottom right: Blue Corn Nachos.

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PITA JUNGLE: A spot to consider for kids MY HUSBAND AND I were recently

when we walked in my oldest said it

to go with the Blue Corn Nachos because

discussing how our oldest two boys (8

smelled really good (phew!). The kids

it was familiar. My son was hesitant

and almost 3) are not what we would call

were able to get Shirley Temples (their

because...”yogurt? On nachos?”. Our server

‘adventurous eaters’. Not picky by any

favorite!) so they were already warmed

told him it was more like sour cream and

means, just not always willing to order new

up to the idea of eating here. The server

that he should definitely give it a shot. As it

things off restaurant menus.

got us some menus and kid activity

turns out, he devoured the entire plate! He

So when Pita Jungle reached out

books with crayons. There were plenty

hardly left any for mom!

and asked if we’d be willing to take the

of activities in these books to hold them

kids and try their restaurant I was a

over until food would arrive! We had fun

menu—there were so many delicious

little worried. I knew Pita Jungle had a

playing tic-tac-toe and finding words in

sounding choices! My son really wanted

Mediterranean (and healthy!) inspired

the crossword puzzle.

a burger (of course) and despite trying

menu and was concerned the kids might not find something to order.

I showed up with 3 kids in tow and

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We took a look at the appetizers and

We had a harder time with the entree

to get him to try a bowl, or pita wrap he

nearly everything called out to me but

was SET on that burger. The server told

after discussing with the server we opted

us the closest to a ‘regular’ burger was the

Catch up on what you missed!

Kafta Burger with a pomegranate molasses ground beef patty (mixed with onion, parsley, and jalapeno!). It also had arugula, tomato, onion, and a chipotle hummus. So we decided on that and my son was ready

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to try something ‘out of the box’.

I ordered the Avocado Garbanzo Southwest Salad because I love grains, avocado, and chickpeas! For our toddler we built a bowl off the kid’s menu which he thought was fun! He loves getting to choose his own items so the handy colored wheel allows him to pick one item from every category. He chose chicken, mac n’ cheese (obviously), broccoli, and the seasonal fruit (which varies!).

The kid’s meal comes out on an adorable cafeteria style tray so none of the food touches (how did they know?) and the chicken is already cut into small bites which makes my job easier!

My son demolished the burger with garlic potatoes and said it was definitely one of the best burgers he’s tried. He told our server that next time he’s willing to try one of the pita wraps!

My salad was delicious. The perfect amount of crunch from the pumpkin seeds balanced the quinoa and it featured a herb-honey-apple-cider vinaigrette which was SO good! It was a great salad for the beginning of Fall.

Bottom line: Pita Jungle is definitely a great pick for kids! There was so much on the menu that I need to try so we’ll have to add this restaurant to our dining rotation.

Plus, I always consider it a bonus when I get to add a parenting teaching moment for my kids and I think they’ll be a little more willing to try new and interesting foods when we’re out.

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Preventing Common Sports Injuries in Children

By Noah Arenson

SCHOOLS ARE BACK in session and that

means Fall sports are underway. Sports are a great way for kids to learn teamwork, cooperation, discipline, and get the exercise they need to stay healthy. However, there is a downside to participating in sports.

One out of three childhood injuries occurs

Overuse Injuries Repetitive actions like pitching and

with proper warmup and stretching techniques. By preparing for matches

while a child is playing sports. As a certified

throwing can put extreme stress on

and practices, your child will be less

physical therapist, I have treated dozens of

the bones and muscles. Little Leaguer

prone to injury. Proper preparation is

kids for various sports injuries. By knowing

Elbow is a common overuse injury seen

key to preventing sports injuries and it is

the causes of sports injuries and how to

in children. Therefore, you now see the

important not to send children into a game

prevent them, you can help make athletics

implementation of pitch counts in little

if they are not ready. For example, if your

an enjoyable experience for your child.

leagues across the country. Overuse

child is a runner, have them build up their

injuries are especially troublesome in

distance and stamina. If your child plays

children because these injuries can affect

basketball or football, have them work on

bone growth. All kids involved in sports

cutting techniques to build up the muscles

twisted ankles, ACL tears, or concussions

can develop overuse injuries, but the

in the ankle and knee to prevent injury.

fall into the acute injury category. Often

likelihood of these injuries occurring

Preparation is key to helping prevent

the cause of acute injuries is improper

increases with the amount of time a child

injuries and should always be a priority for

equipment and lack of preparation. Loose

spends on the sport.

your young athlete.

Acute Injuries Injuries that happen suddenly such as

footwear, improperly fitting helmets, and

Some of the most common overuse

Many children playing sports will

not properly building up muscle groups are

injuries include shin splints, anterior knee

receive some form of injury over time.

common reasons these injuries occur.

pain, tennis elbow, and swimmer’s shoulder.

The best thing you can do for your child

If your child is complaining of pain,

is recognize when they are in pain, get the

Many physical therapists and sports medicine specialists will usually take

then there is an issue. Treating overuse

treatment necessary, and make sure they

a “better safe than sorry” approach to

injuries begins with rest until your child

are taking the right steps when it comes to

treatment. If an injury is affecting basic

can see a doctor. The doctor will diagnose

warmups and preparation for their sport.

functioning in any way, for example,

the injury and determine the best form

If your child does suffer an injury, contact

limping due to a knee injury, the child

of treatment. Diagnosing overuse injuries

your family doctor as soon as possible to

needs first aid immediately such as a splint

usually involves x-rays and a physical

prevent further injury from occurring.

or other form of immobilization. Your

examination.

child should see a doctor to receive a proper diagnosis. If an injury is more serious,

Proper Preparation

it is important to take your child to the

Kids must be adequately prepared

emergency room as quickly as possible.

before practices and games. This begins

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Noah Arenson is a partner and Physical Therapist at Contact Physical Therapy in Mesa, Arizona. Arenson earned his Master’s degree at Northern Arizona University’s Physical Therapy program and has been practicing in the Valley since 1997. Noah was named Mesa General Hospital’s “Employee of the Year” in 1999.

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ages & stages health

ASK A PEDIATRICIAN:

How to stay safe this FLU SEASON

What can pregnant moms do to stay safe this flu season? Are there

pregnant mom’s risk of being hospitalized with the flu by

complications if the flu is contracted during pregnancy?

about 40%.

• Staying healthy while pregnant includes universal masking

• The flu shot also helps to protect your baby after birth and

indoors, avoiding people who are sick, good hand hygiene

through the first several months when the baby is too young

and making sure you’re up to date on your vaccines. Special

to get the flu vaccine.

vaccines to remember include your annual flu shot, pertussis

• During pregnancy and immediately after birth, your

booster and the COVID-19 vaccine. These vaccines are

immune system, heart and lung functions change. These

safe and can help to keep a pregnant mom safe during flu

changes are normal but it means that these mom’s can

season.

get severely ill (really sick) from the flu. Pregnant and

• During previous flu seasons, the flu vaccine helps to

postpartum moms (2 weeks after delivery) are at higher risk

decrease a pregnant mom’s risk of respiratory infection by

for being hospitalized from a flu infection. We know the

about one-half. It has the additional benefit of reducing a

flu shot helps to keep people healthy.

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ages & stages health

We have a new baby and older siblings–how do we prevent the baby from getting sick?

Congratulations on the new baby! Newborn babies need parents to keep them safe until their immune system is stronger.

Full-term babies (babies born at 37 weeks or later), need extra protection during the first 1-2 months of life. (Premature babies need special protection even longer). The best way to keep your new baby safe is to avoid group gatherings, avoid sick visitors, good hand hygiene and updated vaccines for everyone in close contact with the baby.

When older siblings want to love on the baby, I recommend good hand hygiene and avoiding kissing the baby’s head. I recommend kissing the baby’s feet instead since the baby won’t be able to get their feet to their mouth. If a sibling is sick, do your

For our pediatric population (those under 18 years old),

best to keep them separated (I know it’s tough!). Lots of good

we know that children under 2 years of age have the highest

hand washing for everyone. Encourage the sibling to cough into

number of hospitalizations and those under 6 months of age

their elbow and lots of good hand hygiene. If the sibling is over 6

have the highest reported death rates. Luckily, flu related

months old, then they should receive their yearly flu shot to help

deaths are rare but we know that about 80% of those children

keep the baby safe.

who died were not fully vaccinated. (4 out of 5 children who

died were not fully vaccinated)

Should families get the flu and COVID vaccines at the same time?

Yes, you can get both vaccines at the same time. Talk to your

Since Arizona is warmer than other states,

pediatrician or primary care doctor about these immunizations.

does the flu season start later?

Anyone 6 months or older is eligible for the flu vaccine.

Predicting the annual flu season is very challenging. Our

Currently the Covid vaccine is available to those 12 and over.

flu season can be earlier or later than the east coast but it is

not very predictable. Past flu seasons have started as early

Who is at risk this flu season? How dangerous is it?

as October or November and sometimes last until May. In

Flu infections can be seen in healthy adults and children of all

Arizona, we usually see the highest number of flu cases

ages but we know there are certain groups and health factors that

between December and February.

can make you more susceptible to having serious complications and a higher chance of needing to be hospitalized. Those at

The kids love to spend time with their grandparents but I know older

increased risk include children 5 years and younger, adults

people are more likely to have complications from COVID and the flu.

over 65 years old, pregnant women and residents of nursing

Should we avoid spending time with them?

homes or other long-term care facilities. Health factors such as

• We love grandparents and they are an essential part of

lung conditions (like asthma, chronic lung disease), metabolic

our village. To help protect everyone in our village and

disorders (including diabetes), liver, kidney, neurologic and

community, we have to work together. We know that adults

neurodevelopmental conditions, blood disorders (including

65 and older have a higher chance of complications from

sickle cell), weakened immune system and obesity can increase

both the flu and Covid. We also know the flu and Covid

your risk for severe disease.

vaccines can help provide protection. In Arizona, 91% of

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ages & stages health

Dr. Sarah Bannister has

those 65 and over have received at least one Covid shot. Now that

been providing

infection and spread of illness for everyone.

care as a Pediatric

the flu shot is available, these two vaccines will help decrease risk of • In addition to vaccines, it is very important to stay home when you’re

Hospitalist since

sick or keep kids away from others when they are sick. This helps

2012. She completed

to prevent the spread of many viruses (not just the flu and Covid).

her pediatric residency at St. Joseph’s Hospital and

Handwashing is another step that helps us to prevent illness by

Medical Center in Phoenix and served as a Chief

limiting the spread of germs.

Resident at Phoenix Children’s Hospital after the

• The Covid pandemic taught us how to prevent illness with multiple

programs were combined in 2011. She is board

layers of protections - masks, social distancing, hand washing,

certified in General Pediatrics and Pediatric Hospital

vaccines and staying home when you’re sick. During the flu season we

Medicine. As a Pediatric Hospitalist, she is part

can use the same game plan to keep everyone healthy.

of a team that cares for inpatient admissions and newborns at Banner Desert and Banner Gateway

In addition to vaccines, is there anything we can

Medical Centers. Dr. Bannister has served as the

do to prevent getting sick this year?

Chair of Pediatric Medicine at Banner Gateway

Keeping kids and adults home when you are sick, universal masking

and Banner Children’s at Desert in addition to the

indoors, good hand hygiene and making sure you’re up to date on your

Physician lead for the Pediatric Hospitalists at

vaccines is the best way to stay healthy.

Banner Children’s at Banner Desert. Currently, she is

Making healthy lifestyle choices - food, exercise and sleep are also

the Medical Director of Care Coordination at Banner

important. We want to give our body the right fuel and rest so it can

Ocotillo Medical Center and Banner Children’s at

perform at the top of our game.

Desert. Dr. Bannister has a deep commitment to high quality evidence-based care. She believes that

I’ve read this flu season will be worse than we’ve seen

advocacy, equity and excellent care is essential to

in a while, what should we expect?

the success of our patients and profession.

Unlike last year, we expect a “normal” flu season. It’s difficult to predict

Dr. Bannister has spent the majority of her life in

the severity of the flu season but we know it is coming and we know how

Arizona and completed her undergraduate education

to prevent severe illness. We know that giving our bodies time to have

at the University of Arizona (Go Wildcats!). She

proper immunity is important. It takes the flu shot at least 2 weeks to

enjoys baking and spending time with her family.

start working, so it is important to get your flu shot early. For children 6

She has 3 active boys, a husband and 2 dogs that

months to 8 years old, they will need 2 flu shots (1 month apart) during

keep her busy.

their first flu shot year, so you want to make sure they have extra time to build up their immune system.

Raising Arizona Kids partners with the Arizona Chapter of the American Academy of Pediatrics to bring evidence-based child-health information to our communities.

What didn’t I ask that you’d like to add?

Your pediatrician (or primary care doctor) is here to help! We want to keep you healthy and safe. Be sure to get caught up on healthy check ups and vaccines that might have been missed over the last year of craziness. Vaccines help prevent many other dangerous diseases. Your doctors are here to help you stay healthy and safe!

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ages & stages infant and pregnancy

MY FIRST PREGNANCY ended in a

miscarriage at just shy of 7 weeks along. While I knew miscarrying was a possibility, like so many, I wasn’t prepared for it to happen to me. My husband and I went from being blissfully ignorant, excited, and envisioning our future family, to feeling completely devastated, heartbroken, and empty. While it was not an easy healing journey, here are some things I did that helped me cope with the unexpected loss we faced: Take time off from work Ask if your employer offers bereavement for a miscarriage—my husband’s work allowed this and we were so grateful.

You’ll need the time to heal both physically and emotionally.

Reach out to others who have also experienced a miscarriage Neither my mom nor my mother-in-law had had a miscarriage so at first I felt

Finding Healing After a Miscarriage

By Monique Seleen

Monique (pictured at 16 weeks) with her husband Chris in September 2021.

They are expecting a baby boy in February 2022.

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very alone in what I was going through.

I also found that people who had never gone through it didn’t quite know what to say and often just didn’t say anything about it at all, which was actually more hurtful to me.

Eventually, though, I had several friends reach out who had been through one or even two miscarriages of their own and offered words of hope, encouragement, and understanding.

Find a maternal mental health counselor A week or so after our miscarriage, I started searching for a counselor who was trained to help me handle the grief and

emotions I was experiencing. Fortunately,

learn a new language, start a blog, etc.),

and I jumped right from a positive

I stumbled across a wonderful therapist

volunteer, or start that Etsy shop you’ve

pregnancy test to picturing what our baby

who specializes in maternal mental health

always dreamt about.

was going to look like and in doing so, it

who also focuses specifically on those experiencing a miscarriage or loss.

Therapy can be expensive, but many

Dealing with the Anxiety of a Pregnancy after a Loss

health insurance plans offer it as part of your coverage if the therapist is in network.

made the loss so much harder.

Instead, this time, we decided to focus on one small win at a time. We could still celebrate but were cautious not to get too

WHILE I WRITE THIS, I am currently

17 weeks pregnant and have been

far ahead of ourselves.

Focus on the facts and celebrate each

Plan some fun things to look forward to

experiencing firsthand the anxiety that

small victory—a positive pregnancy

and distract yourself

comes with being pregnant after a loss.

test, good blood work results, your first

Our miscarriage happened a week before

Since my very first pregnancy ended

doctor’s visit, etc. Then, stay focused

Christmas and while it definitely put a

in a miscarriage, all I had was a negative

on whatever the next milestone is—the

damper on our usual joyful celebrations, we

experience to compare it to, so naturally,

first ultrasound, making it further along

were also thankful for the distraction and

I worried about the same outcome

than you have before, the end of the first

busyness that the holiday season provided.

happening again.

trimester, etc.

Plan some fun date nights, a weekend

I have been a ball of anxiety since the

getaway, a movie night watching your

moment I saw those two pink lines but

Look into midwifery care

favorite comedy, or go for a walk with

here are some things that have been helpful

When I had a miscarriage, the doctor’s

a friend. The more things you have on

in getting me through:

office I was going to wasn’t particularly

your calendar to keep yourself busy, the

sensitive. I know miscarriages are

less time you’ll have to sit and wallow in

Write down words of affirmation and

common and that they probably see

your sadness.

recite them daily

them all the time, but it was my first

I wrote down a bunch of phrases on sticky

pregnancy and a devastating loss for

Start a project

notes and stuck them in a place I would

me. Yet I felt like they were treating me

I was so looking forward to all the fun

see as a daily reminder (a bathroom mirror,

like just another patient and told me

things that came with a pregnancy—

refrigerator, inside your closet, etc.). Some

to “come back in when I got another

designing a baby’s room, picking out a

of the phrases I found helpful were:

positive test”.

name, starting a registry, etc. So after the

• I trust my body knows what it’s doing

miscarriage, I felt even more at a loss of

• It is okay to hope

from a regular Obstetrician to a Certified

what to do with myself.

• Every day is one day closer

Nurse Midwife. The midwife I see does

• Hope does not make bad things

not rush me when I’m in the office,

My husband and I decided to use that time to take an online course together

happen

Because of that, I decided to switch

looks at my situation individually, and

about how to better handle our finances

• The past is not the future

is available to communicate via an

and become debt-free. That gave us

• This is a different experience

online portal/app, usually responding

something else to focus on and we felt like

• There is nothing I can change with

to me within a couple of hours. This

we were accomplishing something, too.

worry

Use this time to tackle a home

has brought me so much reassurance when I’m worried and having someone

renovation, start a new hobby (learn how

Stay focused on one milestone at a time

understand my anxiety because of my

to sew, play an instrument, knit, crochet,

With my first pregnancy, my husband

past experience has been so wonderful.

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ages & stages infant and pregnancy

I was 1in 4

By Kate Reed Photo by Laura Liz Photography

DRIVING TO OUR 12 WEEK ULTRASOUND I was zoned out, focusing

But, there he was…happy as could be dancing on the big

only on the road ahead of me. We drove in silence for 45 minutes.

screen in front of me. I sobbed. I’ll admit, seeing a healthy baby on

Both of us afraid to jinx it. I prepared myself for another loss. I

the ultrasound provided a big sense of relief but it didn’t seem to

had convinced myself that if there was nothing on the screen, I’d

cure all my worries.

be ok. I was expecting it this time. We told no one except close family that we were pregnant again.

After suffering two miscarriages in the previous year, I was

Each appointment, I mentally prepared myself to hear “I’m sorry, there’s no heartbeat”. Of course, I let out a sigh of relief after he was deemed perfectly healthy week after week.

no stranger to the feelings of loss. We lost one right around the 6 week mark and another at 10 weeks. I had two healthy babies

MISCARRIAGE STOLE MY JOY. There weren’t as many blissful

before so I was angry at my body for not being able to do what it

pregnant updates with this baby. Not nearly as many belly shots.

was supposed to do.

It wasn’t that I didn’t want to celebrate him, but rather I was

I found that I didn’t like talking about it and rather

worried that the loss would hurt even more if I fell TOO much in

internalized my grief. I pretended it didn’t bother me and that it

love with our baby. I spent too much time researching everything

was just ‘meant to be’. It wasn’t until multiple friends (more than

that could go wrong. I didn’t even want to wash his clothes or

I ever knew) admitted that they also had miscarriages. So why did

set up his crib at first ‘just in case’. I think in many ways I was

I feel so alone?

disconnected.

When I thought I was pregnant again, I hesitantly peed on

Maverick was born at 41 weeks in a precipitous late night

that stick and when the second line appeared, I wasn’t sure if I

labor and I think I was in shock for the first few moments until I

should feel happy or anxious.

realized he was finally here. I think my face in this photo above

At 12 weeks, I still couldn’t hear a heartbeat on a doppler and you can’t feel the baby move so I had no idea if there was even a

really encompasses that feeling.

Maverick is now 4 months old and he’s the smiliest,

baby in there. Every time I went to the bathroom, I feared there

squishiest, and joyful baby we’ve had yet. He truly is our

would be blood.

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ages & stages safety

Talking to your baby’s caregiver

ABOUT SAFE SLEEP

By Emily Singleton

MOST NEW PARENTS have had some training

in the ABCs of safe sleep: All babies should

per 100,000 live births in 2017.

Once babies can roll over to their

RICE IN THE BABY BOTTLE: “They need more than milk to keep them full and sleep through the night”

sleep Alone on their Back and in a Crib.

tummy on their own (usually around 4-6

But what about when someone else will

months of age), caregivers do not need to

be caring for your baby, especially if that

turn the baby to their back again. The

to put their babies to sleep, several

person is from another generation and has

important thing is that babies start their

studies have shown that babies with

different ideas about baby sleep?

sleep on their backs and that all caregivers

solids added to their bottles do not sleep

follow this important safety procedure.

longer than babies who were not given

Here are some tips for addressing some common misconceptions to keep your baby safe while they sleep: TUMMY SLEEPING: “But they sleep so much better on their tummy”

Although many swear by this practice

solids. Further, if your baby is under 6 CRIB BUMPERS: “Won’t they get their

months old, they might even sleep worse

arms stuck in the crib slats?”

due to reactions to the solids.

Bumper pads that attach to crib slats

All caregivers want their babies to

or sides come in cute designs and are used

have a good night’s sleep. While it can

with the idea of protecting infants from

be exhausting for a caregiver, it is normal

of Pediatrics began recommending babies

injury. However, they can actually cause

for young babies to wake several times

be put to sleep on their backs. Since

serious injury and even suffocation. The

throughout the night. Adding cereal to a

then, deaths from sudden infant death

best way to keep babies safe in their crib

baby bottle can be a choking hazard and

syndrome, more commonly known as

is to keep the crib bumpers out.

it also takes away from the amount of

In the early 90s, the American Academy

SIDS, dropped from 130.3 deaths per 100,000 live births in 1990 to 35.4 deaths

Grandparents and older caregivers might remember a time before crib

milk or formula in the bottle so the baby may not get enough for their growth.

safety was regulated and the the crib sides could have

visit safesleep.gov or you can also contact

been dangerous to babies

Southwest Human Development’s Birth

if they were too wide. Now

to Five Helpline at 877-705-KIDS

that cribs must meet

(5437), which offers parents, caregivers

safety standards (slats

and professionals free early childhood

can’t be more

information and advice. Specialists are

than 2-3/8

available from Monday through Friday,

inches apart),

from 8 a.m. to 8 p.m.

the slats don’t pose the same dangers and the bumpers are not needed.

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For more information about safe sleep,

Emily Singleton is the senior program manager of Parent Partners Plus at Southwest Human Development. To learn more about Parent Partners Plus, visit www. parentpartnersplus.com. For more about Southwest Human Development, visit www.swhd.org

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KATE REED

It's Pumpkin Spice

Season!

As the leaves turn color and the weather gets cooler, families are preparing for their favorite fall activities. In this seasonal section: we have fun crafts, date night ideas and safety tips for Halloween.

Plus, meet Amber and Carson Eilers, owners of The Strawberry Inn and find fun things to do in and around Strawberry Arizona.

Last, in the October calendar, we have festivals, pumpkin patches and seasonal activities to help you celebrate the fall season.

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KATE REED

crafts & activities

Supplies • Pumpkin • Chalk Markers

• Drop cloth/table cloth for easy clean up

That’s it! That’s all you need! When you

Painted Pumpkins:

A New Spin On An Old Favorite Activity provided by Rachel’s Young at Art (and tested by Grayson, 3)

P

umpkin season is officially here and we couldn’t be more excited! Let’s face it, pumpkin carving and pumpkin painting always sounds like a fun idea, but usually

get the markers, shake them up really hard.

Then, press the tip of the marker onto a piece of scratch paper until it turns the color of the chalk paint. Once the chalk paint starts leaving a mark on your paper, you’re ready to move on to your pumpkin.

We gave our pumpkin a quick wipe down to remove any dirt or debris.

Because pumpkins are non-porous,

ends up being a mushy mess for mom and dad. And if you’re in the fall spirit now you

if you “mess up” (even though there’s

can’t carve pumpkins just yet or they rot on your porch!

no such thing as mistakes in art, only

Here’s a frustration-free solution for your mini Monets.

beautiful oops!), just grab a wet wipe or damp paper towel and wipe the unwanted

Chalk markers have now entered the chat. The colors are much more vibrant than

spot right off. Or, layer the different

ordinary tempera paint, they dry almost immediately in our Arizona sun, and did we

colors right on top of one another to

mention that they are non toxic and odorless? Our personal favorites are by Chalktastic

create fun and bright patterns.

and can be found on Amazon Prime for quick delivery. They are almost making it too easy to get into the fall spirit this year!

For added fun you can add googly eyes or stickers to your pumpkin!

Once it’s dry add your creative

Rachel's Young at Art Studio, 7366 E Shea Blvd #112, Scottsdale

pumpkin masterpiece to your front porch

480-621-6155 or rachelsyoungatart.com

for all to enjoy!

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Fun Fall At-Home Activities F

rom pumpkin patches to Fall carnivals, corn mazes, and preparing for Halloween, there are lots of fun things to do this time of year.

But if you’re looking for some simple activities that won’t cost much and can be done

right at home, look no further! Thanks to PBS Kids, here are 3 fun at-home activities you can do with your child this season: Create a Fall collage. Take a walk outside and collect Fall nature items such as leaves, sticks, or pinecones. Add some dried pumpkin seeds leftover from your pumpkin carving and help your child arrange it all using a big piece of paper and some glue. Add some construction paper or Halloween tissue paper for some added color and holiday vibes.

Make pumpkin spice scented play dough. Take orange play dough (or make your own) and add in small dashes of cinnamon, nutmeg and ground cloves until it smells just like that yummy pumpkin spice Fall scent. You can then use cookie cutters to roll, shape and decorate your play-dough creations.

Try pumpkin bowling. Take some empty plastic bottles and line them up in a V formation. Use a pumpkin as the bowling “ball” and try to knock them down. Add some dry rice or a few small bells to the inside of each bottle for a noisier version.

Pumpkins don’t roll evenly so you’re guaranteed to have lots of laughs and silly fun!

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date night SPONSORED CONTENT

GARAGE-EAST: Gilbert winery is the perfect date night spot

IF GOOD FOOD, WINE, and live music sound

and Saturday nights are a lot more busy

like the perfect combination for a romantic

and there can be up to an hour wait!

date night, then Garage East Winery in Gilbert will be your new favorite spot.

The locally owned winery is a part of

The bistro lights strung above and trees wrapped in twinkling white lights created a perfectly romantic atmosphere.

Barnone—a collection of small businesses

During the winter, many of the seating

and restaurants within the Agritopia

areas have fire pits to enjoy when it’s

community.

chilly outside.

My husband and I visited Garage East

The live music was a great addition,

on a Saturday night so we could enjoy

providing some entertainment while we

their live music, which happens every

waited for our food and drinks, but it wasn’t

Wednesday during the Farmers Market

so loud that we couldn’t hear each other or

nights, then again on Friday and Saturday

have a conversation.

evenings from 8 p.m. to 10 p.m.

We were greeted right away and asked

My husband did the wine tasting for us both (no wine for me since I’m

if we preferred indoor or outdoor seating.

pregnant!) and was able to try six of their

We chose to sit outside on the patio so we

most popular wines in a wine flight (Wine

could listen to The Townfolk Collective,

flights are typically only available until 4

the local band that was playing. It was

p.m. but they made an exception for us so

open seating on the patio but we had no

we could sample more for this review!).

trouble finding a table—although we were told that during the cooler months, Friday

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Although my husband usually gravitates toward white wines, his favorite

Far left: Monique and Chris Seleen.

Chris has a glass of the 2015 Orchard red wine.

Below: Green Chili Savory pie and a side salad with red-wine vinaigrette Bottom: A wine tasting flight.

one ended up being a red called the 2015

including little pork sausages, goat cheese,

Orchard. He said it had a fruity flavor

Japanese peanuts, fig spread, cheddar

without being overly sweet or too dry and

cheese curds, and a delicious creamed

he ended up ordering a glass of it to go

honey, with crackers on the side. Many of

with his food later.

the components were also locally sourced

We went there with empty stomachs

from nearby farms and businesses.

and were eager to try a few different menu

And of course, we couldn’t leave

items (plus, pregnancy gives me an excuse

without dessert. We shared the caramel

to order more food without being judged

brownie, which came with two scoops of

too much). I ordered the tomato basil hot

vanilla ice cream and it was dreamy! I’m a

pressed sandwich, which had mozzarella,

sucker for a good fudgy brownie and this

fresh basil, cracked pepper, and pesto on

was no exception.

locally made bread from Noble Bread

The experience hit all the markers

Bakery in Phoenix. It was basically an

for a perfect date night—delicious food

adult version of a grilled cheese only with

paired with elegant wines, live music, a

more sophisticated flavors and ingredients

romantic atmosphere, and a great place

and had that melt-in-your-mouth quality

to spend the evening soaking in some

to it. I would definitely recommend it to

quality time together.

any Caprese lover!

My husband ordered one of their

Some tips to know before you go: As we head into the cooler months,

savory hand pies, which are similar to

remember that Wednesday, Friday, and

empanadas. He tried the green chili pork

Saturday nights can be busy!

one which came with extra sauce on the

Don’t want to wait? Try visiting on a

side for dipping. He said it wasn’t greasy

different night or go for a day-date instead.

or heavy and he could have easily eaten

Tuesdays they offer a 20% discount for all

two or three of them!

nurses and teachers and Sundays you can

Both our orders came with the choice of potato chips or salad on the side. Since

get half-off food all day.

They will allow you to bring any

we were already given chips to munch on

outside food you want—pickup to-go

with the wine flight, we chose the salad. I

from one of the nearby restaurants or

tried the balsamic and olive oil dressing--a

even pack your own food from home to

classic--while my husband got the red-wine

bring with you!

vinaigrette, which was definitely our favorite!

We were both pleased with the portion of food. They were individual-

If live music isn’t your thing, they also have a selection of board games to borrow while you’re there

sized and not overly huge or filling,

Dogs are allowed on the patio and

which was perfect for us because we

they’ll even give bring your pet a bowl

wanted to keep eating!

of water.

Being that we were at a winery, we felt it was only fitting we sample the cheese

Garage-East

board and that did not disappoint! It was

3000 E. Ray Road, Building 7, Gilbert

made up of a variety of small bite items

480-493-7151 • garage-east.com

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LAURA SEGALL PHOTOGRAPHY

date night

Shrimp cocktail (left) and elote (right).

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lives for heat, and ordered the habanero

enchiladas. He chose the ‘Smoked Chicken

restaurants (my husband has a thing for

which he said was phenomenal.

Enchiladas’ which he declared the best

enchiladas) so when Los Sombreros invited

We took a look at their drink menu

sauce he’s ever tasted with enchiladas.

us to try their restaurant for our weekly

(it IS date night, after all) and I decided

It was served with salsa verde and a

date night, my husband was thrilled.

to get their Cucumber Jalapeño Spritz

chipotle crema-YUM! We found out after

which sounded great for a hot day. My

that they make the sauce in house (they

tucked away in Old Town Scottsdale

husband is a little simpler than I am and

wouldn’t give us the secret recipe though!)

(they also have a Mesa location!) and we

did some tequila and a beer. He’s pretty

I hemmed and hawed and eventually went

were immediately drawn to their outdoor

easy to please!

with the ‘Greens & Fruits’ salad to balance

Los Sombreros is this quaint restaurant

patio with misters and lots of greenery.

The menu looked amazing and we

out the massive amount of elote I inhaled.

And then the smell of the wood-fired oven

had a hard time narrowing down some

My salad came adorned with Oaxaca

immediately made us drool. I knew we

appetizers but settled on their shrimp

cheese, apples, and jalapenos with a freshly

were in for a treat. We agreed it was still

cocktail and elote. The shrimp cocktail

made vinaigrette. It was definitely one of

much too hot and opted to sit inside, but

was unique (to me, at least!) because it was

those salads you know you’re going to have

next time we’re going back to enjoy that

served in a large bowl with homemade

to recreate at home!

outdoor seating!

tomato juice mixture with delicious

It’s a rustic styled brick restaurant

While we really enjoyed having our

crackers. I had never had it made this

weekly date night here we’re definitely

which is perfect for a cozy dinner for two

way before! The elote though…I’m still

returning with the whole family in the

or even a bigger celebration. When you’re

thinking about how good it was. It was

near future!

seated you’ll get a batch of their homemade

creamy and smoky and I think I ate all of

chips and salsa which are both delicious!

it in about five minutes.

The salsa is smokey and the perfect amount of heat for us wimps. My husband

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When it was time to consider some entrees, my husband had no hesitations:

Los Sombrerose 2534 N .Scottsdale Road, Scottsdale 480-994-1799 • lossombreros.com

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Gardens will check all your boxes. Get spooky with the upcoming Strange Garden: Spirit Walk (Oct. 21) and uncover botanical history and mysteries with a ‘spirited’ cocktail. Or try your luck with Loteria Nights (Oct. 7, 28 & Nov. 11) and play rounds of loteria, listen to music, have a drink, and win prizes! Visit any other night and take a romantic stroll through the gardens, grab dinner at Gertrude’s, and experience all the beauty our desert landscape can offer us. Make sure to grab ticket reservations before you arrive. 9 a.m. to 5 p.m.

Queen Creek Olive Mill 25062 S. Meridian Road, Queen Creek • 480-888-9290 queencreekolivemill.com/pages/queen-creek-az Queen Creel Olive Mill

Not only a farm, eatery, and marketplace, but a great place to wind up for an evening out.

They have a Lunch/Dinner menu available after 11 a.m. Monday - Saturday featuring bruschetta, soups, salads, and wood-fired pizzas. On Sundays their Brunch Menu is available all day. Additionally, they also have live music outside on the patio every Friday - Saturday from 5 to 8 p.m., and Sunday from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. Pizza Date Night (Oct. 13), 6:30 -9 p.m. every second Wednesday of the month.

Tap That Downtown 909 N. 5th St., Phoenix • 602-812-3222 • tapthatbeer.com Featuring 35 self-pour taps with a variety of craft beers and five wines. The menu has delicious comfort food and you’ll appreciate the cozy indoor seating and awesome outdoor patio with the cooler fall weather. Happy hour specials, trivia night, live music on the weekends, and special date night events like Paint & Sip. It’s a great way to try delicious local beers without committing to an entire glass—you only pay for what you pour! RAK highly recommends the burgers, poutine, and flatbreads! 12 to 10 p.m. Monday - Thursday, Noon to 2 a.m. Friday, 10 a.m. to 2 a.m. Saturday, 10 a.m. to 10 p.m. Sunday.

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safety

Halloween Safety Tips

By Bill Herzog

H

alloween is a fun filled time of year filled with ghosts, goblins, candy, and pranks. As you prepare for the

upcoming holiday, safety should always be on your mind. Here are a few simple tips to keep your family safe while trick or treating.

Avoid masks Wearing masks can obstruct a child’s vision, especially as it gets

Stay well-lit

darker outside. Use face paint instead of masks to keep vision

When heading out trick or treating, always stay in well-lit

unobstructed, allowing your child to be able to see oncoming

neighborhoods. If your child is wearing a dark colored costume it

cars and not trip over any cracks or tree roots when walking

is important to apply reflective tape to it to help drivers see your

down paths.

child. Make sure your child also carries a flashlight with them for added visibility. Always stay on sidewalks and check both ways

Check your child’s candy

before crossing the street and only cross at designated areas.

Make checking your child’s Halloween candy a rule immediately after getting home. Dump the candy out in a well-lit room and

Stay in neighborhoods you know

discard any homemade treats from strangers. If your child has

Make a trick-or-treating plan before leaving the house. Planning a

any food allergies, discard candies that may contain allergens

route ahead of time can keep you and your kids from wandering

like peanuts. Always err on the side of caution when it comes to

into unknown areas of town. Try to avoid routes without paths or

candy wrappers. If something looks off, such as an open wrapper

sidewalks and take a route that your child is already familiar with.

or a piece of candy has a hole in it, then discard it. If you do find any candy that you believe has been tampered with, contact the

Trick or treat in a group

police immediately.

Children must always trick-or-treat in groups. It is also recommended that an adult accompany them while out trick-or-

Halloween is a holiday filled with fun, ghosts, goblins, pranks,

treating. Have the kids check out the other kids in the group’s

and frights. Keeping your child safe while trick or treating is top

costumes. This will allow the kids to be able to give a description

priority. Following these few simple tips can help keep your child

of their friend’s costumes in case of separation. Create a buddy

safe and allow them to have fun on the scariest of nights.

system within the group and make sure the buddies stay together.

This helps keep the kids safe and provides extra fun when trick-ortreating with friends.

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Bill Herzog is the Director of Operations for LionHeart Security Services in Tempe, Arizona. Herzog has been in law enforcement for over 25 years before joining LionHeart’s staff.

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Meet the Eilers Family: Owners of The Strawberry Inn

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he Eilers are your typical family—Amber and her husband Carson have been married for 10 years and together are raising their two daughters, ages 6 and 8.

They, like so many other families, are involved with their local community, church, their daughters’ school, and sports.

But, the family also owns and manages The Strawberry Inn in the small town of Strawberry, Arizona which they acquired in 2016.

As newlyweds, Amber and Carson worked in real estate and began buying and flipping properties together. After dabbling in that for a while, they tried their hand at vacation rentals and bought several homes in Scottsdale.

In 2016 they came across a for-sale listing for an inn up in Strawberry, Arizona.

“The Inn was listed for sale as a business,” said Amber. “We found it and with our experience with vacation rentals we thought it could be an Airbnb.”

After some discussion, the couple decided to purchase the Inn and began what would be a major renovation project.

“No surface was untouched,” said Amber. “There were lots of repairs we had to do from lighting, to paint, to tiling.”

Fortunately, since they had already established relationships with contractors and construction workers due to their experience with house flipping and vacation rentals, Amber said they had a team they could call upon for assistance.

In addition to the remodels and repairs, Amber said she knew she wanted to give the décor of the Inn a whole face lift.

“We tried to give a nod to the local environment with a rustic yet updated feel,” said Amber. “We brought all the old furniture outside and had a free yard sale—giving away beds, dressers, everything.”

The new interior features white walls, shiplap, wood tile, and modern farmhouse-style design.

“Everything is painted white inside,” said Amber. “You can tell that it’s clean when it’s white and cleanliness is important to us.”

While renovations were underway, Carson suggested they create an Instagram account to begin interacting with their future guests, the nearby restaurants and businesses, and frequent visitors to the Strawberry/Pine area.

“Social media gave us an outlet to connect with the people who were staying at the Inn and helped us build community,” said Amber.

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Top: The Strawberry Inn. Above: The Strawberry Inn Cottages.

Top Right. The Eliers family. Bottom Right: The Windmill Coffee House.

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With over 65,000 followers on their account today, Amber says

“We’ve become like a special place for lots of families,” she

Instagram is really their lifeline to the community.

says. “We’ll have people who will come up for a babymoon, their

“We post last minute deals on there, share about our life, and like

anniversary, or bring their kids for their birthdays.”

to connect with people through social media.”

In just a few short months, the Eilers were able to transform the Inn and officially opened for business in November that same year.

The quick turnaround meant that the Eilers spent all of their time at the Inn overseeing the renovation process, all with their two young daughters, who were just 1 and 3 years old at the time.

“We were all staying in the hotel, sleeping in the hotel, with two little kids,” Amber recalls.

Now, with the help of their management team, the couple operates the Inn remotely—living in the Valley but spending most of their days off, weekends, and the girls’ school breaks in the Strawberry area.

“Sometimes we go up for just a day,” said Amber. “Our girls do

With so many versatile accommodation options, Amber says there’s a space for everyone, no matter what the occasion.

At the main Inn, guests can stay in one of the 8 traditional rooms which all include their own private bathroom and are within walking distance to bars and restaurants.

A block away are tiny cottages and a few separate houses where guests can have their individual space, some which even have small yards.

The Owner’s Property has since been turned into what they call the Bungalow, which features one main bedroom and sofa sleepers, perfect for young families.

They also have the Bunk House, with 4 queen bunk beds and a full kitchen—sleeping 8 people.

The Inn’s largest property is the Guest House, which Amber

horseback riding in Strawberry so we’re there quite a bit—multiple

says was their home during COVID-19 when they stayed there for

times a month if not weekly.”

the summer. It can sleep up to 10 people and is a perfect place to

However, Amber said she credits much of their day-to-day operations to the staff that assists them with keeping everything up and running.

“We have a really amazing team that we’ve built over the years,” says Amber. “It’s a big team effort to make it happen. We couldn’t do it without our cleaning staff, maintenance repair team, and the people working on the reservations.”

With a remote check-in process, similar to that of Airbnb, Amber says the Inn saw its busiest season during the summer of

accommodate large family gatherings, such as Thanksgiving.

Unique to the Inn are also its 4 renovated vintage Airstreams, which Amber says are like mini hotel suites for two. They even have a special Airstream specifically for honeymooners, which features a hot tub and a little yard.

In the months ahead, Amber says they are exploring partnerships to make the Inn a possible wedding destination and venue site.

Despite the effort it’s taken to juggle raising a family while also

2020 when people were desperate to escape their homes and the

renovating and managing the Inn, Amber says it’s been a labor of

brutally hot summer amidst the pandemic.

love.

“During COVID we were already set up to be completely unhosted, so it was perfect,” said Amber.

Apart from being a popular weekend getaway destination,

“We like being people’s special getaway in the mountains,” she says. “When people come up here it’s nice to see them unplug— enjoying the weather, making friends, reading books, sitting on

Amber says they have started to see people become frequent

the porch swing. I like that it forces people to relax and enjoy the

stayers—creating their own family traditions and celebrating

cute the little town.”

milestones at the Inn.

For more information visit thestrawberryinn.com

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Strawberry?

Where the heck is that?

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here is so much to be explored in Arizona, so it was no surprise to me

when I told a friend we were taking a trip to Strawberry, she had no idea where that was. A quaint little town nestled in between Pine and Camp Verde, you’ll find Strawberry (about 25 minutes outside of Payson) …and The Strawberry Inn--a boutique hotel that manages to capture the charming history of the original inn while offering modern amenities.

A friend had told me about the inn, and I shared that I had never stayed there, but had driven through the town once about 12 years ago (yep, that long ago!).

I looked at some pictures and decided we had to put it on the cover of our October issue. The owners were so sweet and asked if we’d like to come and stay for a few days to see what it was all about.

My husband and I are always looking for adventures around Arizona to take part in, so this was right up our alley. Exactly a week after we shot the cover, we packed up the kids, and took off!

We decided to go up early on our arrival day and get a head start on the fun things to do in town. Some things that came recommended to us were to visit the lavender farm, antique shops, farmers market, grab some ice cream, see the Old

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School House, and make our way to the Tonto Natural Bridge.

On our first day, we arrived right around lunch time so we

wooded view in the back. The hot tub is not easy for a child to open so when you have a toddler who loves to explore, that

stopped at THAT Brewery in Pine. The kids played in the yard

extra bit of safety is important! They even thought to provide

space while we ate a ton of great food (try their smoked meats!)

a highchair and a pack n’ play! As a parent those little touches

and beer, then explored the quaint downtown area and admired

really mean the most.

the collection of unique stores.

We picked up a Christmas ornament at the local farmer’s

We spent a few hours relaxing before settling on the Old County Inn for dinner. It came highly recommended and we

market store to put on our tree this year to commemorate our trip.

had to try it! We got a few appetizers, pizzas, and cocktails and

Then we stopped for ice cream at Elky’s and picked up a geode for

the service was great! The kids also enjoyed the patio space with

our oldest son at Fancy Finds.

games. We finished up dinner and decided to unwind back at the

Next, we took a quick drive to the Old School House but I definitely recommend calling ahead to make sure they’re

Bungalow. We got in the hot tub and had some fun around the fire pit before settling in for the night.

offering tours! My son was amazed by the small school room, which used to be the norm. This is the oldest standing school

Day two was a little slower. We started our morning at 6:00 a.m.

house in Arizona and the renovated touches the Pine-Strawberry

with a nice wake up call from our 4 month old. We went out onto

Archeological and Historical Society added really made all the

the back deck and waited until Windmill Coffee opened at 6:30

difference--it was like stepping back in time!

a.m. Luckily The Strawberry Inn has a coffee pot to hold you over

The kids were smoked at this point but we weren’t ready for check-in just yet, so we stopped by the Pie Bar in Strawberry for a

if your kids don’t let you sleep in!

We grabbed a latte, regular coffee, and hot cocoa for the

quick snack. We tried the cherry, strawberry, lemon, green chili,

kids. The owner was even thoughtful enough to make sure the

and chicken pot pie empanadas and they were all delicious. But,

cocoa wasn’t too hot! Then, once everyone was ready for the day,

the strawberry one was my favorite, my husband preferred the

we played some yard games and visited the library on the main

green chili, and the lemon was my eldest’s pick!

property to add some new books to to their Little Free Library

We had a little bit of time still before check-in and decided to grab a few things to bring to our house in case we got hungry later

collection (a non profit).

By 8:00 a.m. we were ready for breakfast and had a tough

in the night. If you have kids…you know the snack requests are

decision on where to go…but we decided on the Early Bird Café

never ending! We stopped by the Ponderosa Pines Market and

in Pine. I mean it when it say they were hands down the BEST

found everything we needed.

pancakes I’ve ever had. When you’re in the area, definitely make

At exactly 4:00 p.m. we got our easy check-in email with our

this place a ‘must visit’ for breakfast!

key code for entry and we excitedly made our way back to the property.

We stayed in ‘The Bungalow’ which is walking distance from

On our last full day we decided on the Tonto Natural Bridge, a few more shops in town, and just enjoyed walking around at

the main property and was the perfect place for a family. The

a slower pace. We made it a goal to be back at the Bungalow

contactless check-in was a breeze and we were able to settle in

by early afternoon so everyone could relax and enjoy the cooler

right away. This property is a beautifully renovated home with a

weather. We had an early dinner at the Pine Tavern and it was

gourmet kitchen, master suite, gorgeous bathroom, a family room

a hit with our family. We did another hot tub and fire pit night

and living room with extra sleeping arrangements!

and after the kids went to sleep, we got to spend a little time

If your oldest child forgets to pack enough clothes for the weekend, you’ll appreciate the stocked laundry room as well (I guess I never learn to double check his bag!). Both the front

conversing with each other on the back deck. It was a nice change of pace.

Somehow while we did SO much while in Strawberry, it

patio and back deck are fully fenced, and you’ll also find

definitely didn’t seem like enough. We can’t wait to visit again and

a porch swing in the front and a hot tub and a wonderful,

check more off our to-do list!

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October

TOP EVENTS

NOTE: Because last-minute schedule changes can occur, please confirm dates and times on event websites. Find more extensive day-by-day event listings at raisingarizonakids.

Phoenix Children's Hospital 5K Walk and Fun Run (Oct. 2) at Wesley Bolin Memorial Plaza.

com/calendar. Send calendar information to familytime@RAKmagazine.com

OCT. 1-2

OCT. 2

The Great American Seed Up. A unique and popular “pop up”

“Kids Music Day” Fun! Come experience the joy of family music while celebrating “Kids Music

seed bazaar that offers well-known garden varieties in a bulk

Day!” Singing, dancing and making beautiful music with your child! Music Together in Phoenix is

seed format where customers can scoop up as many seeds as

offering a free preview of our Mixed Age class for families with children age birth to 5 years. (one adult

they want from popcorn buckets. This one-of-a-kind purchasing

and two children maximum per family). 1 p.m. Kids.Play.Music., 3241 E Shea Blvd, Phoenix. 602-363-

option eliminates the high cost of packaging, printing and mailing

8202 or musictogetherinphx.com

so that seeds can be dramatically discounted. Plus free online classes and chats to help answer questions about growing

Monster Jam It’s time to fire up the engines again as the most action-packed motorsports experience

fruits and vegetables. All seeds are non-GMO, desert-adapted,

for families in the world today roars back into Arizona for another high-octane weekend event.

open pollinated, and dramatically reduced in price. 4 to 8 p.m.

Featuring the ultimate mix of high-flying stunts and four-wheel excitement. With unbelievable action

Friday, 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. $7.50 per person. Saturday. North

to unexpected thrills, this is full throttle family fun. 7 p.m. (Pit Party 2:30 to 5:30 p.m.). Tickets $23-

Phoenix Baptist Church Bldg. B, 5757 N. Central Ave., Phoenix.

$149. State Farm Stadium, 1 Cardinals Drive, Glendale. 800-745-3000 or monsterjam.com

greatamericanseedup.org Once Upon a Star workshops: Spooky Poetry in Motion. Join Step and Lisa from Desert Dance for a movement and communication class incorporating poetry, dance and mask making.

OCT. 1-10

Open to all special needs persons ages 6-adult. Participants do not need to be enrolled at Hi Star to

Miss Demeanor: The Musical Comedy Beauty Contest.

attend workshops. Classes meet the first Saturday of every month. 1 to 3 p.m. $30 per workshop.

Fountain Hills Youth Theater presents a fun, toe-tapping musical

Reservations are required for all worships due to limited class size. Hi-Star Center for Children, 5807

spoofs beauty pageants and the silly stereotypes that enter these

N. 43rd Ave., Phoenix. 602-548-3038 or onceuponastar@gmail.com or histarcenter.com

events. Presented by the fictional Demeanor Hair Care Company, six questionable contestants vie in beauty, pose and talent

Phoenix Children’s Hospital 5K Walk and Fun Run. A family-friendly event for runners, weekend

categories to win the ‘coveted’ title of Miss Demeanor. It is soon

joggers and everyone looking for a fun activity, will be in-person and virtual this year. 6:30 a.m. In-person

discovered that one of the contestants is sabotaging the pageant.

registration; 7:30 a.m. 5K walk/run; 8:30 a.m. and the Kids’ Dash. Proceeds support vital PCH programs

7 p.m. Friday and Saturday; 2 p.m. Sundays. $18, group rates

and services that are funded through donations to the Phoenix Children’s Foundation. 5K $55 adults,

available. Fountain Hills Theater (Main stage), 11445 N. Saguaro

$15 youth. Kids’ dash $15 ages 12 and younger. Fundraising encouraged. Donations gratefully accepted.

Blvd., Fountain Hills. 480-837-9661 x3 or fhtaz.org

Wesley Bolin Memorial Plaza, 1700 W. Washington Street, Phoenix. phoenixchildrensfoundation.org

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Monstaer Jam (Oct. 2) at State Farm Stadium.

family time! OCTOBER TOP EVENTS OCT. 2 & 9 Pedal Haus’ Oktoberfest. Enjoy authentic German Oktoberfest fare and beer, live music by local bands and a spirited polka band, a sausage eating contest, a stein holding contest, carnival games and more. Learn more at pedalhausbrewery.com/oktoberfest. Pedal Haus Chandler: Block Party (Oct. 2). 2 p.m. to Midnight. Tickets $10-$50. Pedal Haus Brewery, 95 W. Boston St.,

A Conversation with Stacey Abrams (Oct. 12) at Mesa Arts Center.

Chandler. 480-656-1639. Pedal Haus Tempe: Party (Oct. 9). 2 to 8 p.m. No tickets needed. Pedal Haus Brewery, 730 S. Mill Ave., Tempe. 480-314-2337.

OCT. 3 & 30; NOV. 2-3 Rock It Up Fall Concert Series. Featuring four free, full-length concerts from some of rock’s hottest national acts, including Mod Sun (Oct. 6), Tessa Violet + Twin XL on (Oct. 30), iDKHOW on (Nov. 2)

OCT. 12

and Grabbitz on (Nov. 3). All concerts will feature an outdoor bar from

A Conversation with Stacey Abrams. Join Stacey Abrams, political leader, voting

Dave & Buster’s. Free. All ages. 7 p.m. Tempe Marketplace (The District

rights activist, entrepreneur and New York Times bestselling author for an evening

Stage), 2000 E Rio Salado Pkwy., Tempe. tempemarketplace.com

of candid conversation and insights on politics, leadership, entrepreneurship, social justice and being a true voice for change. Designed around worldwide and national events, as well as questions from the audience and community, this conversation

OCT. 8-9

with Stacey Abrams will entertain, inform and empower. 7:30 p.m. $53.50-$78.50,

Jurassic Fight Night. Don’t miss this family friendly, non-stop, high energy

$204 VIP. Mesa Arts Center (Ikeda Theater), 1 E. Main St., Mesa. 480-644-6500 or

entertainment production featuring dinosaurs in a boxing ring fighting to determine

mesaartscenter.com

the fiercest creature of the prehistoric era. This year will include the debut of the new female division “Diva Dinos.” Plus, a pre-show costume contest party and a chance to win a free ticket to visit Pangaea Land of the Dinosaurs. Tickets $24-$94. 7 p.m.

OCT. 13

Friday, 2 p.m. and 6:30 p.m. Saturday. Gila River Arena, 9400 W. Maryland Ave.

National Geographic Live! Life on the Vertical. Mark Synnott is a man ever on

Glendale. jurassicfightnight.com

the brink of new discovery. A big wall rock-climber of the highest order, he’s made legendary first ascents of some of the world’s tallest, most forbidding walls, from Baffin Island to Pakistan. Today, he uses his skills to break scientific ground, reaching

OCT. 9

incredibly inaccessible environments in search of rare species. It’s all in the spirit of

Valleywise Health Free Flu Vaccinations. Vaccinations for adults 18 and

adventure and exploration in order to educate about these sites of strange, remote

over are available in drive-thru capacity while pediatric patients (6 months to 18

beauty. 7:30 p.m. $31-$45. Mesa Arts Center (Ikeda Theater), 1 E. Main St., Mesa.

years-old) will be vaccinated outside of the car. No appointment is necessary and

480-644-6500 or mesaartscenter.com

walk-ups are welcome. Vaccinations will be administered on a first come, first served basis while supplies last. Masks are required or one can be provided. Please wear short sleeves. Following the vaccination, participants will be asked to remain

OCT. 14-17

on-site for a short period of time so medical professionals can monitor status before

Billy Moore Days. A City of Avondale yearly event for over 50 years. Enjoy carnival

departure. 8 to 11 a.m. Four Valleywise Community Health Center locations: Peoria:

rides, barrel wars, cornhole tournaments, and more! Get in touch with your wild west

8088 W. Whitney Dr., South Phoenix/Laveen: 5650 S 35th Ave., North Phoenix:

spirit and join the fun. Free. Check for times and schedule of activities. Western Avenue

2025 W. Northern Ave., Chandler: 811 S. Hamilton St. valleywisehealth.org/flushots

in Old Town Avondale, 351 E. Western Ave., Avondale. 623-333-2400 or avondaleaz.gov

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Burro Run and Apache Leap Mining Festival (Oct. 22-24) in Superior.

Rock It Up Fall Concert Series (Oct. 3 & 30) at Tempe Marketplace.

OCT. 17 Coronation Day. This royal event hosted by the Sleeping, Mermaid and Tower

OCT. 16

Princess from Once Upon a Tiara, includes royal training lessons, a coronation

Celebrate Mesa. A free family event. Activities include: tot spot, live music, food

ceremony, themed crafts, a celebratory royal dance party, and more. Royal guests also

trucks, carnival rides ($5 wristband for unlimited rides), inflatables, a movie and

have the option to get a ‘Makeover Boutique’ ticket to arrive early and get a princess

more. Free event. 5 to 9 p.m. Red Mountain Soccer Complex, 905 N Sunvalley

makeover from our very own princesses. 3 to 4 p.m. $25/$15 for each additional child.

Blvd., Mesa. mesaparks.com

$20 makeover add on. Register online in advance. Stage Door Studio, 1100 N Alma School Road, Chandler. 480-760-1195 or onceuponatiara.com

Field Sketching workshops. Learn to draw and paint with local artist and biologist, Liz Blaker. The monthly Field Sketching session provides practice

Flamenco por la Familia. Julia Chacón, founder of Julia Chacón Flamenco Theatre

sketching birds and other wildlife on the museum grounds. 9 to 11 a.m. $35.

invites all ages to experience and learn the art of flamenco. Families can enjoy a

Email Liz at elizabethblaker1@gmail.com with questions or to enroll. The

60-minute short story flamenco performance, dance lessons and art activities. 1 to 2

Museum of Northern Arizona, 3101 N. Ft. Valley Rd., Flagstaff. Musnaz.org

p.m. $25 adults, $20 youth. Scottsdale Center for the Performing Arts (Stage 2), 7380 East Second Street, Scottsdale. 480-499-TKTS (8587) or scottsdalearts.org

Walk with a Doc: Arizona. This is a program for all ages interested in taking steps for a healthier lifestyle. Walk with a Doc is an international non-profit organization whose mission is to inspire communities through movement and

OCT. 21

conversation. Dr. Andree Jones, a District Medical Group sports medicine

MeBe Learning Webinar: The Ins and Outs of IEPs. Free for parents and

specialist from Valleywise Health, is spearheading this effort locally. Lace up your

caregivers who want to learn about Individualized Educational Plan (IEP) terminology.

walking shoes and join Dr. Jones and other physicians and representatives from

Available services for your child the school may have deemed necessary. Assessing

Valleywise Health for this free inaugural walk every 3rd. Saturday at 7 a.m. Cesar

the “red flags” versus “green flags” in IEPs. Learning basic rights for parents and

Chavez Park, 7858 S 35th Ave., Laveen Village. walkwithadoc.org/join-a-walk/

students in the IEP process. Tips on what to look for in your child’s IEP so you can

locations/phoenix-arizona

better understand the services your child is receiving in the PreK to High School settings. 5:30 p.m. 619-795-9925 or mebefamily.com/family-resources

2nd Annual Western Wiffle Ball Classic. 42 Teams will compete in a tournament at the Spring Training home of the San Francisco Giants. Games are 4 innings or 35 minutes whichever comes first. All teams are guaranteed 3 games

OCT. 22-24

before 16 teams proceed to the single elimination playoffs. First and second place

Burro Run and Apache Leap Mining Festival. Celebrate Superior’s rich history as

teams will receive a commemorative trophy. Players can participate in a home run

a mining town with a series of fun, family-friendly activities, ranging from pack burro

derby in between games. The cost is $5 per person. All ages are invited to join. 9

racing to a hands-on mining competition and more. 5 to 11 p.m. Friday, 10 a.m. to 11

a.m. to 6 p.m. Tickets $5, Free ages 13 and younger. All guests will be required to

p.m. Saturday, 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. Sunday. Free, except for the race participants. Dogs

bring their own seating, blankets, etc. Scottsdale Stadium, 7408 E. Osborn Rd.,

are not allowed. Superior Chamber of Commerce, 165 W. Main St., Superior. 520-

Scottsdale. westernwiffleballclassic2021.eventbrite.com or blwwiffleball.com

689-0200 or superiorarizonachamber.org

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family time! OCTOBER TOP EVENTS Gilbert Oktoberfest (Oct. 23).

Fit Families Mud Run (Oct. 23).

The Bentley Scottsdale Polo Championships (Oct. 23).

OCT. 22-NOV. 7 Sunset Baby. This play takes a look at the world of an activist long after his days in the headlines have vanished. Kenyatta Shakur’s wife has died and this former Black Revolutionary and political prisoner is desperate to reconnect with his estranged daughter, Nina. If Kenyatta truly wants to reconcile his past, he must first conquer his most challenging revolution of all – fatherhood. $44. Check for times. Helen K. Mason Performing Arts Center, 1333 E. Washington St. Phoenix.

602-258-8128 or blacktheatretroupe.org

OCT. 23 Fit Families Mud Run. This family-friendly obstacle course offers a 1.25-mile beginner route with about 10 obstacles. Or choose the 2.5-mile route with 13

2021 Autism & I/DD Conference. A comprehensive day of learning for Professionals,

obstacles designed for ages 12 and older. Parents should accompany ages 10 and

Parents/Family, Caregivers, Direct Care Providers and Individuals with ASD,

younger (running with a child is free). The first 200 registered participants get a Mud

Intellectual/Developmental Disabilities with sessions on Treatment, Provider & Agency

Run T-shirt. 9 to 11 a.m. $10-$25. Apache Junction Rodeo Grounds, 1590 E. Lost

Support, Education, Legal & Medical topics. 8:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. $75-$100 parents/

Dutchman Blvd., Apache Junction. 480-983-2181 or apachejunctionaz.gov/parks

family, $125-$200 Professionals. Registration required. Desert Willow Conference Center, 4340 E. Cotton Center Blvd., Phoenix. autismiddconference.com

Gilbert Oktoberfest . An authentic, family-friendly celebration of German culture with several Oktoberfest-themed activities including stein holding competitions, a

The Bentley Scottsdale Polo Championships. Families can watch four polo

bratwurst eating competition, traditional polka music and a performance by event

matches, at halftime watch a youth Rugby game and an Arabian Horse Show. Plus

host and musician, the ”Queen of Oktoberfest.” The family-focused celebration

kids can participate in a Canine Couture Dog Fashion Show. VIP tents with food

will have oversized games, a kids’ zone, and themed food and drinks. 2 to 9 p.m.

and refreshments. Vendors, food trucks and a Ferris Wheel. 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. $30.

$12 online, $20 at gate, Free ages 12 and younger. Gilbert Regional Park, 3005 E.

WestWorld of Scottsdale (Polo Field), 16601 N. Pima Rd., Scottsdale. 480-423-1414 or

Queen Creek Rd., Gilbert. gilbertoktoberfest.com

thepoloparty.com

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family time! OCTOBER TOP EVENTS 6th Annual Noche en Blanco (Oct. 30).

OCT. 24.

Pirate’s Day Celebration (Oct. 24) at Enchanted Island Amusement Park.

KidZONA. Hidden Lake presents their first annual event for kids, a nonstop-fun, interactive experience for kids of all ages! Featuring superheroes, princesses, live entertainment, animals, bounce houses and so much more!

Meet your favorite characters at Storybook Stop, get creative at Imagination

OCT. 27

Island and don’t forget to try all the yummy treats at Carnival Central! Every

Lenhardt Lecture: Derek Fordjour. Join the Phoenix Art Museum in-person or virtually

depot you come across, has been carefully curated to provide the most

for this year’s Lenhardt Lecture featuring internationally renowned artist Derek Fordjour.

unforgettable experience for your family. $17.50 online and $20 at the gate

Born in Tennessee to parents of Ghanaian heritage, Fordjour creates large-scale works

for children ages 2-17. Adult companion is free. $10 parking. 11 a.m. to

that examine the power, performance, vulnerabilities and martyrdom inherent in the Black

4 p.m. Hidden Lake, 24445 W. Sunrise Dr., Buckeye. 623-777-5814 or

experience. Free, registration is required. 6:30 p.m. Phoenix Art Museum (Whiteman Hall),

hiddenlakeaz.com/kidzona

1625 N. Central Ave., Phoenix. 602-257-1880 or phxart.org

Pirate’s Day Celebration. New this year for the celebration, Circus Americana Performances that includes mermaid contortionist/juggler,

OCT. 28-30

strongman pirate act, pirate on a tightrope, hand balancing pirate on a barrel/

Potted Potter: The Unauthorized Harry Experience. A Parody that takes on the

treasure chest, pirate balancing on the rolling globe, fire eating pirate, sword

ultimate challenge of condensing all seven Harry Potter books (and a real life game of

fighting pirates & acrobatics. Plus, Pirate theme Inflatables, a treasure hunt,

Quidditch) into seventy hilarious minutes. Created by two-time Olivier Award-nominated

mini golf, games and photos with a Mermaid. $7.50 (rides extra). $25 + tax

actors Daniel Clarkson and Jefferson Turner. All ages. 7 to 8:15 p.m. $49-$59. Madison

unlimited access to Pirates Day & amusement park rides. Noon to 7 p.m.

Center for the Arts, 5601 N. 16th St., Phoenix. 602-664-7777 or themadison.org

Enchanted Island Amusement Park, 1202 W. Encanto Blvd., Phoenix. 602254-1200 or enchantedisland.com

OCT. 30 6th Annual Noche en Blanco. Bring the family to this multicultural community dinner

YES Day for Autism. A new, free event hosted by SARRC (Southwest Autism

in celebration of Hance Park. The event is produced by the Hance Park Conservancy

Research & Resource Center) is focused on raising funds, awareness and

in partnership with the City of Phoenix Parks and Recreation Department and is a night

acceptance. YES Day teams who fundraised, can check-in, claim their prizes

of community fun where guests are invited to dress in white costume cocktail attire,

and drop off any donations! There is no cost to attend. Includes a resource

enjoy live entertainment and dine under the stars. 5 to 10 p.m. Adults only. $25 per seat,

fair, Free Sprouts Pumpkin Patch, a carnival zone, live entertainment and local

$200 table of eight. $50 Gourmet Picnic for 1. $40 Vegetarian Picnic for 1. Registration

food trucks. 8 a.m. to 12 p.m. Tempe Beach Park, 80 W Rio Pkwy., Tempe.

required. Donations welcome. Hance Park (east lawn), 116 E. Moreland St., Phoenix.

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family time! Halloween events

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Pumpkin Days & Corn Maze (Oct. 1-31) at Tolmachoff Farms.

October Fright Nights (Oct. 1-2, 8-9, 15-16,

Jack-o-Lantern. The giant, seven foot Halloween

Railfair 2021 (Oct. 2-3). An annual celebration of

22-23, & 29-30). Celebrate the spookiest time of the

installation will be on display in front of Harkins Theatre.

trains features model train displays and exhibits and

year at select Harkins Theaters all month long. See

Free. All ages. Tempe Marketplace, 2000 E Rio Salado

a wide selection of the park’s seldom-seen vintage

your favorite frightening films on the big screen every

Pkwy., Tempe. tempemarketplace.com

railroad equipment along with special presentations

Friday and Saturday for only $5. The Exorcist (Oct.1-2),

on railroad and Arizona history. 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Free

The Frighteners (Oct. 8-9), The Shining (Oct. 15-16),

Pumpkin Days and Corn Maze (Oct. 1 – 31).

admission. Rides on the Paradise & Pacific Railroad

Halloween (Oct. 22-23), A Nightmare on Elm Street (Oct.

Let the unforgettable fall season memories began at

and Charros Carousel are $3; free for ages 2 and

29-30). Check for times. harkins.com/fright-nights

Tolmachoff Farms and experience the ultimate holiday

younger with a paying adult. McCormick-Stillman

outing where there is something for the whole family:

Railroad Park, 7301 E. Indian Bend Road, Scottsdale.

Haunted Corn Maze: AZ Field Of Screams

Great big pumpkin patch, 6 acre family corn maze with a

480-312-2312 or therailroadpark.com

(October 1 – 31). Don’t be afraid to enter the corn

new theme every year (search for pieces of your map as

field that was planted over an old forgotten cemetery?

you walk through), mini corn maze (perfect for the little

Family Fun Friday Paint Night: Spooky Tree

Are the dead now seeking revenge on anyone

ones), haunted corn maze (Do you have the courage

(Oct. 8). Grab the whole family to have fun and paint

trespassing their grounds?! Do you dare enter where

to enter?). Other activities: petting zoo, train ride, hay

a spooky tree together. No artistic ability needed.

your most horrifying dreams become a reality?! $25

pyramid, corn box, adult/child pedal cart track, jumping

Instructors will guide step-by-step. Customize your

($18 opening night). $30 Combo tickets (Haunt and

pillow and much more. $15. Free ages 2 & younger.

paintings with your favorite colors. Supplies are

Family maze). 7 p.m. to 11 p.m. Fridays, Saturdays and

Additional cost for pumpkins, Train ride, Tomato cannon

provided. Ages 5 and older. 6:30 to 8 p.m. Price range

Halloween night. Azfieldofscreams.com

and food. Noon to 8 p.m. Wednesday – Thursday, Noon

1 person/$24.50–6 people/$126. Craft Nights Studio,

to 11 p.m. Friday, 10 a.m. to 11 p.m. Saturday, 10 a.m. to

3241 E Shea Blvd, Ste #9A, Phoenix. 602-341-3570 or

8 p.m. Sunday. tolmachoff-farms.com

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Moonlit Jack-o-Lantern (Oct. 1-31). Snap the perfect fall photo at Tempe Marketplace with the Moonlit

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family time! Halloween events continued Halloween Spook-Track-ula (Oct. 8-31). The family-friendly event is perfect for kids of all ages.

We’ll creep it real with the event’s feature, a spooky train ride created with younger children in mind… a bit spooky, but not too frightening. The event will feature limited capacity of 750 people per one and a half hour time blocks at 6 p.m. and 8 p.m. nightly. The park will only be accessible to those who have purchased tickets during a specific time block. Visitors will have an opportunity to ride the train and carousel as many times as they’d like during their time block. 6 to 9:30 p.m. $15, Free ages 2 and younger. Tickets must be purchased online. McCormick-Stillman Railroad Park, 7301 E. Indian Bend Road, Scottsdale. 480-312-2312 or therailroadpark.com

Old MacDonald’s Pumpkin Patch (Oct. 8-31).

Boo & New (Oct. 18-23) at Scottsdale Quarter.

When all of the animals on Old MacDonald’s farm need to find Halloween costumes, fun and silliness ensues.

near AMC Theatres. Pick the perfect pumpkin (while

football lounge. Younger crowd will be entertained

Told with hand puppets and rod puppets with lots

supplies last), snap a seasonal photo and enjoy free

with oversized games, crafts, character appearances,

of singing along. Recommended for ages 3 and up.

face painting and balloon twisting on select dates. 11

balloon twisting and face painting. Free, pre-

10 a.m. Friday, 10 a.m. and 2 p.m. Saturday, 2 p.m.

a.m. to 9 p.m. Monday through Saturday; 11 a.m. to 6

registration required for some events. 10 a.m. to 9 p.m.

(subject to change) Sunday. $12 ages 13 and older,

p.m. Sunday. Desert Ridge Marketplace (AMC Lawn),

Monday - Saturday, Noon to 6 p.m. Sunday. Scottsdale

$8 ages 12 and younger. Advance ticket purchase

21001 N. Tatum Blvd., Phoenix. 480-513-7586 or

Quarter, 15059 N Scottsdale Road. Scottsdale.

required. Great Arizona Puppet Theater, 302 W.

shopdesertridge.com

scottsdalequarter.com

Boo & New (Oct. 18-23). A chance to celebrate

Costumes, Cake, and Cub Scouts! (Oct. 22). Join

Halloween Town Pumpkin Patch (Oct. 14-31).

the season while exploring the newest offerings at

Cub Scout Pack 416 AZ for a fun Halloween-themed

It’s time for fall festivities, a new location and an extra

Scottsdale Quarter. Free family fun, live musical

event featuring costumes and cake! Boys and girls

week of fun. Features arts and crafts, carnival games,

performances, local art, fall-themed activities and

in kindergarten through 5th grade. Free. 6 to 8 p.m.

rides, face painting, food and a pumpkin patch where

local craft brews. Wander through the pumpkin patch

Paradise Valley United Methodist Church (PVUMC),

you can find your perfect gourd for jack-o-lantern

and enjoy nightly live musical performances by favorite

4455 E Lincoln Dr., Paradise Valley. Learn more at

carving. Halloween costumes encouraged! 4 to 9 p.m.

local bands. Friday there will be live artist mural

beascout.scouting.org or email Dean Clayton for more

weekdays; 11 a.m. to 10 p.m. Saturday and Sunday.

paintings and curated workshops hosted by Scottsdale

information at pack416az@gmail.com

$5. Free ages 2 and younger. Family 4-pack available

Quarter tenants. Guests will also have the opportunity

online. Wristbands for rides starts at $20. Halloween

to paint a section of a giant, paint-by-numbers art

Creepy Candy Crawl (Oct. 22-23). Children and

Town Pumpkin Patch, 8980 N. 90th Street, Scottsdale.

mural, designed by local artist, Lauren Lee, which

families are invited to dress to impress for the annual

480-435-4325 or halloweentownaz.com

will later become a permanent art installation. Boo

Halloween costume contest and trick-or-treating. Plus,

& Brew (Oct. 23), grownups can treat their taste

enjoy Halloween-themed music, dancing, games,

Desert Ridge Pumpkin Patch (Oct. 15-31). The

buds with local craft brews, while listening to live

prizes and more. Desert Ridge Marketplace (Oct.

third annual Pumpkin Patch returns to The District

music and watching their favorite college teams in the

22). Free. 6 to 8 p.m. 21001 N. Tatum Blvd., Phoenix.

Latham St., Phoenix. 602-262-2050 or azpuppets.org

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family time! Halloween events continued

Boo & New (Oct. 18-23) at Scottsdale Quarter. shopdesertridge.com. Tempe Marketplace (Oct.

raffle to celebrate your participation. 7 a.m. $25

24 E. 6th St., Tempe. downtowntempe.com/events/

23). Free. 2 to 9 p.m. 2000 E Rio Salado Pkwy.,

per person, $50/2-5people with a children 12 and

Halloween-stroll

Tempe. tempemarketplace.com

younger. Registration required. McCormick Ranch Golf

Glass Pumpkin Patch (Oct. 22-24). This festive

Club, 7505 E. McCormick Parkway, Scottsdale. give.

Bashas’ Halloween Celebrations (Oct 30).

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Families across the state are invited to creep and crawl

event will showcase over 1,000 whimsical, vibrantly

into their neighborhood Bashas’ supermarket for some

colored glass pumpkins handmade by Gregory Tomb,

Dia De Los Muertos Phoenix Festival (Oct. 24).

fun-filled holiday treats and activities the day before

an acclaimed local glass artist known for his unique,

This 10th annual festival is a free event presented

Halloween. There will be employees in costumes,

intricate designs. These one-of-a-kind works of art

by Cultural Coalition. The longest running Dia de

trick-or-treat candy stations at each department. A

will be available for purchase, with proceeds benefiting

los Muertos festival in Phoenix, this community

free cookie (individually wrapped from the Bakery

the Holland Center, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization

event is open to the public, with something for the

Department) and free apple cider. At 1 p.m. each store

committed to enhancing arts, education and community

whole family. Music, dance, masked performances,

location will award $25 and a dozen donuts for the

in the Desert Foothills region. Free to attend. 10 a.m.

kids art activities, an artists mercado, food trucks,

best children’s costume. Plus seasonal treats will

to 5 p.m. daily. Holland Center, 34250 N. 60th Street,

and a candlelight closing procession with ceremony

be available to purchase and take home decorating

Scottsdale. 480-488-1090 or hollandcenter.org or

and celebration are available throughout the

kits. Free. 10 a.m. to 2 p.m., no advance registration

glasspumpkinpatchfundraiser.com

day for everyone to enjoy. 1 p.m. Steele Indian

required. Bashas’ has more than 40 supermarket

School Park, 300 E. Indian School Rd., Phoenix.

locations throughout the state, as well as at the

diadelosmuertosphx.com

Bashas’ Diné Markets on the Navajo Nation, Eddie’s

Childhelp Wings Trick or Trot Family Fun Run (Oct. 24). Join in on the Fun and Walk or Run to help

Country Store in Pinetop, and Food City stores in

raise funds for the children in our community impacted

Halloween Stroll Downtown Tempe (Oct. 24).

by abuse and neglect. Bring your family, bring your

Ghosts, goblins, and princesses of all ages are invited

friends for this family fun event. There will be 1 mile

to head over to Downtown Tempe for some not-

Halloween Little Leapers (Oct. 30). Bring your little

and a 2.8-mile course. Come as you are or dress

so-spooky Halloween fun. This free event includes

ghosts and goblins in for a ‘Not So Spooky’ event with

up in costume. We welcome wheelchairs, strollers,

Halloween-themed crafts, games, a costume contest

candy and costume contest. For ages 5 and younger.

wagons (no leashed pets, rollerblades, skateboards

and outdoor trick-or-treating at various Downtown

Tickets are $10/60 Min, $14/90 Min, $16/120 Min.

or motorized devices please). At the finish line, enjoy

Tempe merchants. All participants will be given a

Sky Zone Phoenix, 4857 E. Greenway Rd., Scottsdale.

refreshments, snacks, fun energetic music, and a

map with a list of businesses. 2 to 5 p.m. 6th St. Park,

602-493-5867 or skyzone.com/phoenix

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Parker and Lake Havasu City. bashas.com