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Come, soft wet flakes upon my cheek Waterfowl weary dabblers rest their bills A friendly snowman waves goodbye The winter rose heralds a new beginning Calm rests under cloudy skies —Suzanne Manning

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A Winter’s Tale Local photographers turn theirr lenses on the beauty that is Milford in the winter.

The Annual Milford ord Gift Giving Guidee There’s no place like ke home too find the perfect gift

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Publisher’s Letter Readers’ Letters At Your Service Milford Spotlight At Home Milford Morsels Family Time Education Notebook Money Matters Senior Corner Arts & Artisans Calendar Where is it? Next Issue

About the cover: For the cover of our winter issue, photographer Mary Hegarty Neschke presents us with a tranquil time of A rest in our usually busy harbor in a photo entitled “Harbor Rest.” Her work is available for purchase at MHN Photo Gallery on New Haven Avenue and The Canvas Patch in downtown Milford. Also you may view her work on display at the Milford Fine Arts, Milford Library, Gallery on the Green, Milford Photo, and the Milford Chamber of Commerce. A

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WINTER 2010 VOLUME 6 • ISSUE 4 Publisher/President Suzanne Cahill-Manning Suzanne@milfordliving.com

Editorial Director Ann McGuire Ann@milfordliving.com

Art Director Ryan Swanson

Photographer Mary Hegarty Neschke

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Dear Friends & Neighbors, In this winter issue of Milford Living, we’ve tried to focus on the unique winter landscape that annually embraces our

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the embers of an evening blaze (even if it’s in the furnace) warm our hearths and homes. At this time of year it’s hard not to recognize the beauty of the season and reflect upon the year gone by while making ready for new beginnings. With this issue we invited many of the local photographers who regularly grace our pages to contribute to a montage of winter images, all of which we consider to be quintessentially Milford. In addition, our annual Gift Guide is back; “Local Proud” Milford merchants stand ready to assist you by providing a wide array of gifts of distinction available right here at home. Finally, it is with gratitude that I say “thank you” to all of our subscribers and readers for their heartfelt well wishes throughout the year. A huge “thank you” as well to our advertisers, who continue to see the value we deliver; they not only support us, they support our community.

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The program is the cornerstone mission of The Get In Touch Foundation®, and was developed speciﬁcally for girls in grades 5-12 to educate them on the importance of, and how to do a breast self exam. In collaboration with a medical consulting board that includes a school nurse, a pediatrician, an oncologiﬆ, a breast surgeon and a radiologiﬆ, GIT has developed the Daisy Wheel®. This highly innovative tool will be introduced by health educators to girls beginning in 5th grade, when introducing topics of hygiene and the girls’ changing bodies, and will be taught annually through 12th grade. These “Eight Tips” for “Eight-Straight” years of the Girls’ Program will give the girls the foundation they need to practice BSE – for life. Already being heralded in the medical community as a tool that will signiﬁcantly alter the face of Breast Cancer, the Daisy Wheel® is now available to your school! Ours is a global initiative; we aim to put a Daisy Wheel® in the hands of every girl in the world! Join us as we “change the world one girl at a time!” If you are interested in having the Get In Touch Girls’ Program at your school, please contact us at girls@getintouchfoundation.org.

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readers’ letters I would like to know more about areas

Absolutely, we love the Milford Historical

In the mean time we will keep our eyes and

north of the Post Road. Turn of the century

Society and know that it is one of our city’s

ears open for additional stories and imagery

photos, etc. Love your magazine!

treasures!

from the time period you specified for a future issue.

—Valerie Wagner

I would like to see more about Walnut North of the Post Road is an area that we will focus on for a future issue. If anyone has

Beach without concession and amusements, back in the 40s and 50s.

resources, stories, or photos that they would

Love the magazine. We look forward to each copy. Would like more descriptions

—John Cammarano

like to share with us and our readers we would

under the pictures. —George Weber

The book Sand in our Shoes may be just the

love to hear from you.

resource you are looking for when it comes Thank you for presenting and photographing the Milford Historical Society. —Laura A. Macaluso

Thank you, we think that sometimes the

to memoirs of Walnut Beach. The book is

images just speak for themselves, but your

available at Collected Stories in downtown

point is well taken; we will do our best when

Milford and its sister store in Walnut Beach.

possible to add more photo captions.

Drop us a line… Please send your comments, contributions, suggestions, and questions to Milford Living Magazine P.O. Box 2387, Milford, CT 06460 or email us at info@milfordliving.com

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The Interact Club A

S ADULTS,

we hope our teenage children

learn more from school than academics

hosting a 5k Relay for Fun for the West Haven

Jonathan Law Interact Club members help people near and far including hoppin’ down the bunny trail with local kids at Easter, and creating and selling bracelets to buy water filters for villages in the Dominican Republic.

Veteran’s Administration on Veteran’s Day.

alone. Individual success and growth depend

For Thanksgiving, the club put together food

the Milford Senior Center with meal service

on qualities like leadership, commitment,

baskets for families in need, with turkeys

and activities.

and good ideals—in addition to book smarts.

donated by Stop & Shop of Milford. They also

The Jonathan Law Interact Club, sponsored

joined with another Interact Club to do a

midway through her junior year, is particularly

by the Devon Rotary, encourages these

prom-style dance for senior citizens. Provid-

proud of the club’s help on an international

traits while inspiring teenagers to make

“Interact is an organization that reaches out locally and globally for underprivileged kids and for any group that needs help,”

differences near home and around the world. “Interact is an organization that reaches out locally and globally for underprivileged kids and for any group that needs help,” says Greta Stanford, Devon Rotary liaison to the Jonathan Law Interact Club.

Alyssa Dunn, a senior who joined Interact

ing hot chocolate at the tree lighting on the

level. “Since we are blessed to have so much in

Green, sponsoring an Easter egg hunt, and

our lives, it is nice to take a moment and think

Rotary’s Oktoberfest, replete with German

aiding a local Habitat for Humanity build are

about others who are deprived of what we take

beer, food, and dancing. Next up were a Hal-

slated as well. Throughout the year, Law club

for granted. For example, a big project of ours

loween party for disadvantaged children and

members also assist the Beth-El Center and

last year was the creation and selling of what

The 2009 kick-off began with Devon

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we called â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;strength bracelets.â&#x20AC;&#x2122; The profits made

lend their guidance as the entire team

from these tremendously popular bracelets

works toward its goals.

within our school went to purchasing

Being a member of the Interact Club

Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s not too late to register for this yearâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Interact program at Jonathan Law. Students can join throughout the year by visiting

water filters for third-world villages in the

helps teens academically and profession-

one of the weekly meetings, Wednesdays,

Dominican Republic to provide the people

ally, too. â&#x20AC;&#x153;When you go to college, the

at 2:00 p.m. in Room 201. Club dues are

with clean water.â&#x20AC;?

first thing they ask you is, â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;What clubs did

$5.00 per year.

Adds Stanford, â&#x20AC;&#x153;The water filter program

you belong to? What did you do?â&#x20AC;&#x2122;â&#x20AC;? says

â&#x20AC;&#x153;We joke that Interact Club is saving the

was a fantastic project because it provided

Stanford. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Even in getting a job, you put

world, but it's truly what I believe,â&#x20AC;? says

twenty-five people with fifty years of

that on your resume. Rotary is an interna-

Dunn. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Our contribution to both the local and

clean water for every filter sent there.â&#x20AC;?

tional organization, and Interact is a part

international communities, however small

This lasting gift of pure water was part

of that. Anybody whoâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s reading a resume

it may seem to some, is making a difference

of a multi-Interact Club initiative, which

knows that this involves dealing with

and is hopefully changing lives. If one life has

will be on the agenda again this year. Jeff

and doing good things for the worldwide

been positively affected because of what we

Solomon, president of the Devon Rotary,

community. Most of the kids are also very

have done through Interact Club, then I have

Virginia Orman, president of the Jonathan

active in school. Theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re in band, theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re in

succeeded in my attempts to help others to

Law Interact Club, and her twin brother,

different clubs, and theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re well-motivated

the best of my abilities.â&#x20AC;?

Sam Orman, the clubâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s vice president, will

academically.â&#x20AC;?

â&#x20AC;&#x201D;Lynn DeRocco

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That House in Milford T

HE LICENSE PLATE

on the car outside the

yellow ranch on 75 Meadows End Road

the Connecticut Food Bank. From the day

Putting on a display as large as this is a

after Thanksgiving when they “flip the

year round job, “My wife is my only helper

reads MR.XMAS. It might be a fairly obvious

switch” until the lights are turned off on the

and if it weren’t for her, I would never get

deduction, but MR.XMAS really enjoys the

first day of the new year, their electric bill

all this done,” admits Donnells. Witnessing

Christmas season. Like many homeowners

quadruples. Still, the $4,000 they’ve helped

the amount of effort that was put into this

during the holidays, MR.XMAS—otherwise

raise for the Connecticut Food Bank over the

year’s display makes it hard to believe

known as Christopher Donnells—decorates

last two years through their website, www.

that it all began seven years ago with a

his house with a few lights. Actually, using

thathouseinmilford.com, makes it well

paltry 1,500 lights. “Each year I doubled the

the term, “a few lights” might be a tad

worth the cost.

amount of lights until my friends started

misleading. You don’t drive around all year with MR.XMAS emblazoned on your plates and only put up “a few lights.” A license plate that bold dictates that whoever is behind the wheel do more…much more. This year Chris and his wife Ann, used ANN DONNELLS (2)

upward of 45,000 lights to illuminate their home! But the tens of thousands of lights do more than just bring holiday cheer and brighten cold December nights. Since 2006, the Donnells have used the attention their

Christopher Donnells, also known as MR.XMAS, installing some of the 45,000 lights needed to

light display attracts to raise money for

accomplish the annual transformation of his home into “That House in Milford.”

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asking, ‘How many lights are you going

The Donnells know, of course, that

the Connecticut Food Bank. “We got over

to add next year?’ I just kept doubling and

Christmas is more than just decorating.

8,000 hits on our website last December,”

doubling. When I first put up the fourteen-

As a boy, Chris Donnells went to see a

Donnells says. “If everybody who visits the

foot arches over my driveway, my neigh-

play in Manhattan with his family. His

site just donates $5.00 we could raise a lot

bors thought I was putting an addition on

dad gave him $3.00 to buy himself a soda

of money and improve a lot of lives.”

the house.”

and a pretzel at a fast food chain. While

Fun yes, but all this holiday joy doesn’t

Ann Donnells once told her husband, “You

waiting in line, he witnessed a homeless

know, one day people are going to refer to us

come cheap. In addition to the cost of elec-

man asking for a piece of chicken that

as ‘that house.’” From November to January

tricity, the building and purchasing of items

cost $3.00. The owner of the store denied

That House in Milford will be shining brightly

for the display costs about $1,500 a year.

him the food and chased the man from

as a reminder that Christmas is not just a

The house has garnered enough attention

the premises. Chris looked at his $3.00

time to receive but to give as well.

through news stories that the Connecticut

and realized he could have fed the man.

Energy Efficiency fund became involved

The sight of someone being denied food

and donated 25,000 low-energy LED lights.

when he could have helped stuck with him

All of the time and money saving tips Chris

“Using LED light versus incandescent is

and made him feel that he could make a

has picked up over the years can be found

like running one hairdryer instead of ten,”

difference in people’s lives. That is why he

in his book, Let There Be Lights! available on

explains Donnells.

uses his house as a way to raise funds for

www.thathouseinmilford.com.

—Gerry McGuire

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at home

Indestructible Houseplants

S THE CHILL OF WINTER ARRIVES, we gravitate

toward the inviting warmth of indoors.

With windows closed it can get a bit stuffy,

Christmas Cactus A succulent plant with a propensity to bloom

but there is a way to bring the great outdoors

around the holidays, though technically a cactus,

into your home—with houseplants. You don’t

this plant needs to be watered as soon as the

need a green thumb to enjoy the oxygenating

top-soil becomes dry. Place the plant in a well-lit

benefits of plants. Here are some indestructible

spot in your home and keep it away from cold

houseplants that are so easy to tend they

drafts, heating vents, or fireplaces. A cooler, but

will make you feel like Mother Nature!

not cold spot, will help its blooms last longer. The Christmas cactus can live for decades and, with proper care, its holiday color can be enjoyed by generations.

Mother-In-Law’s Tongue Also known as the snake plant, this is one of the easiest to care for plants…far easier than your mother-in-law. An evergreen perennial, they can thrive in low or bright light; just water when dry. Though tough, they can expire with too much water or no water at all.

Lucky Bamboo A popular plant over the past few years, bamboo has been a symbol of good fortune in Asia for 4,000 years. In the practice of Feng

Philodendron

Shui, which seeks an elemental balance of

Native to the tropical Americas and West

earth, water, wood, metal, and fire in order

Indies, philodendrons prefer the medium or

to bring harmony to the home, these lucky

low light they enjoyed when they thrived

bamboo plants represent wood—believed to

on the jungle floor. Too much sun will stunt

influence life energy, growth, vitality, and

their growth. Keep philodendrons evenly

physical activity. The hardy nature of these

moist and fertilize every few months with a

plants allows the chi to flow and enhance

water-soluble fertilizer. They are tough to kill

dwellings. Bamboo prefers indirect light and a

and will last for years.

consistent water level.

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Spider Plant

Peace Lily

Another easy to care for plant, the spider plant’s

life. These lilies prefer low light. Water when

Offering a lovely white flower and low

spider-like foliage and “baby” offshoots make

maintenance, the peace lily will let you know

an impressive display. They prefer indirect

p big g time,, when it needs water;; it will droop

light and require water when soil gets dry.

ut don’t panic! Add but

Pinch off a plantlet and leave it in water until

water and it

you see the roots form. Once the roots grow

will spring

to an inch or two in length, plant them in

ack to back

soil gets dry and fertilize occassionally.

Aloe Vera A commonly used ing ingredient in many over-the-counte remedies, aloe vera is over-the-counter an easy pla plant to grow and a handy plant to have. Burn your hand, bit get bitten by a mosquito, or

soil and share your spiders with friends.

scrap your knee? Pinch scrape off a stalk of aloe vera. The

HELPFUL INDOOR WINTER PLANT CARE HINTS

in gel inside has remarkable

• Check soil more often; winter heat can affect watering atering frequency ching window panes • Keep plants away from cold drafts and from touching • Remove dead leaves or branches

prope properties that will help you bet in no time. Aloe feel better prefers mo moderate to bright light.

ght weeks • Feed with water-soluble fertilizer every six to eight

succulen so water when the It is a succulent,

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AWINTER’S TALE Come, soft wet flakes upon my cheek Waterfowl weary dabblers rest their bills A friendly snowman waves goodbye The winter rose heralds a new beginning Calm rests under cloudy skies —Suzanne Manning

1,4,5: Mary Hegarty Neschke 2: Lindsay Comer 3,8,10: Chris Carveth 6,9: Paul Hromjak 7: Karen Allen

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Frozen foam hugs the shoreline Reeds beat rhythmic with the winter wind that glides like icy fingers across the frozen marsh Branch and berry, leaf and log, encased in ice, wait. Warm inside, a yellow-lit house. A community sighs a breath of relief. Safe at home. â&#x20AC;&#x201D;Ann McGuire 7 2010 â&#x20AC;˘ Milford Living 17

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Snow falls at the beach Burying seashells beneath Lost in summers steps Snow falls at the beach Sandcastles are now igloos Hiding summers past Snow falls at the beach Crisp winds blow the icy sand That once flew a kite â&#x20AC;&#x201D;Mary Nilan

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The AnnualMilford

Gift Giving Guide There’s no place like home to find the perfect gift. Th

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Belts & bracelets

Hand carved in Peru, this charming Santa Claus gourd box is a truly unique holiday decoration. $12; Artifax

Sweeten up someone’s day with chocolate. Milford’s resident confectioner delivers delicious treats. Boxed truffles start at $8.00; H. Mangels Confectioner

by Brave Beltworks are the perfect way to accessorize. $50 - $110; Catherine H.

Colorful and comfortable, this sarong comes in a handy bag— perfect for your winter getaway to the islands! $19; Artifax

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Give the ‘Heart of Milford’ to the one you love, this handcrafted piece is made of Milford Marble, and set in 14kt gold. $700.00: Vincent Jewelers

Colorful and handmade in Russia, these finely detailed

A wood cheese board by Picnic Time offers clever storage of stainless utensils in a hidden drawer. $50; Villa Gourmet

Matryashka nesting dolls by Svetlana Gusava are made for playing and collecting. $12.95 - $799.95; Canvas Patch This unique and elegant handblown Lindsay Glass would be a special gift for a special person. $250; Gilded Lily Gallery Stonewall Kitchen’s Red Pepper Jelly is delicious with a bit of cream cheese and crackers. $7.75; Something of Bev’s

Add a little sunshine to the holidays with boldly pat-

terned and colorful backpacks and cosmetic cases. Set of two cosmetic cases $62, Turtle backpack $58, pink and green backpack $78; Island Time

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Gift Giving Guide One of the oldest books in Connecticut,, The Freeman’s Oath was thought lost ost forever. However, the author presents a lively mystery of whatever became of this lost manuscript and d along the way reveals a treasure trove of facts about CT. Author Joseph F. Newman lives in Milford. Books by these hese and other local authors are available. $14.99; Collected Stories

Unique Moss Topiary ary

with flowers and textural pods. $75 and up; Fleurescent

One if by lan land, nd, sea…this two if by sea a…this

hand punc punched ched tin Paul Re Revere evere lantern wil willll light $19.99; the way. $19 9.99; Historical Milford Histo orical Society

Enjoy Milford 365 days ys a year with this picturesque esque Milford calendar by Mary Hegarty Neschke. $15.00; .00; MHN Photo Gallery

Show off your Milford pride with these super soft Milford sweatshirts. $26.50; $ 5 ; Whyy Not?

Travel in style with a

monogrammed silk cosmetic bag. $27; Kristine’s Papery

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Get in Touch with this Vineyard Vines

Daisy tote and “GIT” signature pink daisy t-shirt to help benefit the Get In Touch Foundation. Tote, $75.00; t-shirt; $15.00. www.getintouchfoundation.org

As unique as its wearer, this elegant hand crafted silver

and amethyst necklace and earrings will make any day a holiday. $425; Gilded Lily Gallery

Hand pai painted inted Christmas ornaments ornamen nts add whimsy to anyy tree. $30; Gallery on the Green

Adorable yet classic children’s

Vineyard Vines sweaters, dresses, cords, shirts and more. Size 2T-14. $39.50 and up; Island Time

Show your Milford loyalty with an M key. It will take you to discounts and bonuses at fine stores in Milford. $25; Local Proud

Feel totally girlie in this

Betsey Johnson babydoll nightie. $68; Whispers

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Gift Giving Guide This cast pewter limited edition ornament will make anyone who loves Milford proud. $15; Local Proud

A pre-owned

Dooney & Bourke “Initial” bag features a The Rivers Edge is a new CD from renowned harpist Jan Baldwin. This beautiful music will sooth your soul and wash your holiday stress downstream. $15; Jan Baldwin.

place for your cell phone and everything else you need to carry. $39; Village Vogue

A wine purse with corkscrew is a convenient and stylish way to BYOB. Available in three different designs. $35; Villa Gourmet

Hand made in Milford this dapper Santa will help keep the kiddies good. $98; Something of Bev’s

These one of a kind glass ornaments by Rosemary Celon are colorful and whimsical. $15 - $125; Gilded Lily Gallery

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Serve your guests with a customizable ceramic platter. Platter $49, add-ons $12; Kristine’s Papery

Keep your hand on the wheel with a Parrot—it connects all your gadgets, Bluetooth, iPhone, and PDA’s. $249 plus installation; Starlander Beck

Made out of soapstone, this river of light candleholder from India will illuminate your home and your spirit. $15; Artifax

Out of the C Country silk and wo wool scarves are delicate but warm, just like that special someone. $34; Something of Bev’s

Give the gift tthat keeps on giving, a Milf Milford for Living

magazine sub ssubscription $14.80; www. www.milfordliving.com .mil

The Avalanche necklace presents a cascade of semi-precious gemstones and freshwater pearls in sterling silver that adjusts to any length, a matching bracelet is also available. $110; Given to Gauche

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Gift Giving Guide This stunning and contemporary

rose quartz cabochon pendant is surrounded by 18kt gold and sterling silver and is crafted by Lorenzo. $495.00; Hebert Jewelers

Contact these Milford n or to retailers for more information ide. purchase items in the gift guide. Artifax (203) 878-2131

Bottle stoppers by Two’s Company add d a little personality to your wine rack and make a perfect rfect hostess gift. Available ble in assorted styles. $15 - $20; Me Boutique

These handcrafted

seashell ornaments are sure to bring backk your best summer memories. ries. $3; Blue Heron

Blue Heron (203) 301-0100 Canvas Patch (203) 878-7505 Catherine H. (203) 783-3037 Collected Stories and Local Proud (203) 874-0115 Fleurescent (203) 283-7880 Gallery on the Green (203) 874-6047 Gilded Lily Gallery (203) 878-7007 Given to Gauche (203) 878-2625 H. Mangels Confectioner (203) 783-9770 Hebert Jewelers (203) 874-3164

Create a figure eight in style with these

sharp skates hand d painted by June Benson. $35; Galleryy on the Green

Island Time (203) 878-0200 Jan Baldwin (203) 877-2258 Kristine’s Papery (203) 882-8039 Me Boutique (203) 874-2663 Milford Historical Society General Store (203) 874-2664 Shoreline Chef (203) 687-8794 Something of Bev’s (203) 874-4686 Starlander Beck (203) 877-4651 Village Vogue (203) 283-9400 Villa Gourmet (203) 877-6663 Vincent Jewelers (203) 882-8900 We Sell Hoops (312) 714-7543 Whispers (203) 876-7400

Go local and go proud with this sturdy tote made of recycled materials by Milford’s Green Goods 2 Go. $15; Local Proud

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Make photography a snap with photo greeting cards

and personalized photo gifts. Milford Photo

Try putting a little bit of history in the kidsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; stockings this year from om the Historical Society General neral Store. $.50 $3; Milford Historical Society

Designed, assembled, and decorated by hand these oversized hoops will keep your hips swiveling. $19.99 - $69.99; We Sell Hoops

Enjoy a delicious three-course meal prepared by the Shoreline Chef Larry Landsberg in your home, including wine

and dessert. Made all the more romantic and relaxing with a couples massage from Soothing Touch From the 1950s, this vintage red hat with veil and bow can cap off any special frock. $66; Village Vogue

Massage. $350; Shoreline Chef

Make any window a stained glass window with a creation that will color your world. $75; Blue Heron

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milford morsels

BOB HARRINGTON (3)

Scott Rohrig and his wife Joanne bought the business from Joanne’s

what’s for dinner, it can be hard for small, family-owned restau-

parents five years ago and are pleased to keep it in the family. “We are

rants to compete. Only the best can survive. Through it all, the great

one of the longest established restaurants in Milford,” Scott explains.

food, and even better friends at Lasse’s are why this Milford landmark

“They started Lasse’s on the principal of offering good food at good

restaurant has thrived for forty-five years.

prices,” he adds. “It’s a principal that still holds true today.”

The Hot Open Roast Beef Sandwich that helped Russ and Evelyn

This is precisely why people keep coming back to Lasse’s. “When

Lasse launch the business in 1964, is arguably one of the best

people come to Lasse’s, they come for comfort,” says Scott. It is

sandwiches in the city; no small distinction

consistent and reliable food that feeds the soul while soothing the

in a city that is literally the global headquarters of certain other sandwiches.

wallet. Diners often return for the first time in several years, and they are invariably thrilled to find that they can still get the great meals they remember. Scott admits that it’s not easy keeping up the quality and value of yesteryear, but with the help of Chef Ricardo Rose, he does just that. “Our food is what keeps people coming back,” Scott explains. The extensive five-page menu still features all the old favorites while adding modern dishes. “People are looking for healthier meals,” Scott explains. “That is why we have added salads and fresh fish dishes.”

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One such dish is the Seafood Jambalaya, ($18.95) a generous portion of tender tilapia with shrimp and sweet jumbo sea scallops in a perfectly balanced Cajun tomato sauce. The freshness of the fish is undeniable and the flavorful sauce has just enough kick to beseech another bite. The Appetizer Combo ($10.95) is a mountain of fried goodness, complete with a heaping pile of crispy fried calamari, tender and tasty coconut shrimp, stuffed mushrooms

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replete with sausage, and a sizable share of eggplant rollatini. With so many ingredients and generous portions, this dish would certainly cost more to make at home; now that’s comforting. The Penne ala Vodka ($13.95) is one of many savory pasta dishes, rich and creamy, laced with pancetta and dotted with fresh parsley. Chicken Florentine ($13.95) is fork tender, topped with a mound of fresh spinach and classically presented with its garlicky

butter sauce—exactly the way you would see it in your mind’s eye. The dining room is also the way you would picture it, circa mid-60s. “People don’t like change,” Scott explains. If walls could

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talk, the original dark wood paneling looks like it could tell a story or two. Lining the walls are pictures of the bygone days of Milford dating back to the turn of the century, an interesting juxtaposition in an establishment that is a bit of history itself. A bar area in the back is cozy and friend-filled, highlighted by a long, antique wooden bar. The unassuming brick building is easily overlooked

BOB HARRINGTON

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could come out of this place,â&#x20AC;? Scott admits.

CUISINE: Homestyle American

What better way to polish off a home style meal than with a

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family time

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Blessed are the Piecemakers W

HEN MARILYN RUBIN WANTED TO LEARN TO DO SOMETHING,

she visited the

town library and checked out a book. Her

have to work with a group, or start on your

sets, meet Friday afternoons at 1:00 p.m.

own, make your mistakes, and learn how to

at the Milford Library under the quilted

correct them later.”

banner of the Milford Piecemakers. There

mother never picked up a needle, so Rubin

More than willing to help others learn

learned to knit and sew by trial and error.

from her own mistakes, Judy Rubin, along

sewing, embroidery, and appliqué to piece

There were many nights when her father

with a group of women from diverse

together beautiful quilts—most for local

came home from work to find her sitting

backgrounds and boasting different skill

charities and raffles.

on the couch, working intently on one of her projects. He’d shake his head and say, “Your mother didn’t teach you that.” Rubin passed on what she knew of sewing and knitting to her four daughters. When her oldest daughter married twenty-five years

the Piecemakers unite their talents at

“Frankly, there’s no easy way to learn to quilt. You either have to work with a group, or start on your own, make your mistakes and learn how to correct them later.”

ago, Rubin wanted to make her a wedding quilt. It didn’t matter that she’d never done it. She went to the library and checked out books on quilting and patterns. “Judy lived in California, so I chose ‘The Road and she has it still. After that, I started working with a quilting group and learned how to make other kinds of quilting,” Rubin says. “Frankly, there’s no easy way to learn to quilt. You either

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to California’ pattern. It turned out beautifully

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Elinor Fajen became interested in quilting because she loves needlework. She pieces the patterns and quilts them by hand. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Quilts are a poor manâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s tapestries to keep out the cold and beautify a home, however humble,â&#x20AC;? she says. Some members of the Piecemakers have practiced their

me,â&#x20AC;? she says. Emily Chen, a student at the University of Bridgeport, has been quilting for only six months but in that time has completed four quilts. When she returns home to Beijing, she teaches her mother. â&#x20AC;&#x153;We do not have piecework quilts in China,â&#x20AC;? she explains. â&#x20AC;&#x153;We appliquĂŠ whole pieces of cloth.â&#x20AC;?

art for decades, while newcomers

Member Edith Fortuna beautifully

have only begun working at their

expresses the special group dynamic

craft. Joan Hedman began quilting seriously thirty-five years ago. Her

of the Piecemakers. â&#x20AC;&#x153;What I most love about quilting is the camaraderie. It

specialty is hand-stitched appliquĂŠ. â&#x20AC;&#x153;My

reminds me of my Canadian grandmother

grandmother taught me to embroider at

who hosted quilting bees. Women from the

age three...I love to create. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a need within

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to quilt and chat. They’d unroll the quilt on

was so amazed that she decided she wanted

the big frame and, bit by bit, by the end of

to learn to quilt. “She made a Heart design

the day, it was finished.”

quilt from all of Jenny’s old baby clothes,”

That kind of camaraderie can be hard to come by these days. Like the other Piecemakers, Judy Rubin does her best to pass

says Rubin. “Jenny took the quilt with her to college to remind her of home.” There is something quintessentially American

it on. “My daughters were grown and had left

about quilting, and particularly evocative of

home before I started quilting,” she explains.

simpler times. Make no mistake however;

“When my granddaughter, Jenny was ten,

quilting is not simple. But learning from the

she visited from California. I took her with

skilled hands of others makes it easier.

me to my quilting group. She learned how

—Connie Jagodzinski

to put together the Stained Glass Window patch. She made a quilt for her American Girl

Anyone interested in learning to quilt can join

doll from the pattern that I taught her and

The Piecemakers each Friday at 1:00 p.m. in the

finished it on the plane home.” Her mom

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education notebook

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Other Classrooms L

EARNING HAPPENS EVERYWHERE:

during physical play, at music lessons,

visiting museums, or sightseeing. A child’s recreational activities

for as long as he can remember. It is a passion he shares with his father. Jacob, who rides his ATV only on local property his family owns, has

provide an avenue for learning life lessons that often cannot be

learned how to cooperate with other riders, the importance of following

duplicated in the traditional school setting. Development of self-esteem

safety rules, the best way to get around a deep puddle blocking the

and problem solving skills, increased physical well being, and hands-on

path, and how to navigate a suspension bridge along a trail! “Jacob

reinforcement of academics are all benefits of activities a child can

has always had an active outdoor classroom,” shares his mom, Laurel.

engage in outside his or her school day. There are so many ways to

“What’s an adventure to a child is a learning experience in my eye.”

learn and so many “alternative learning environments” available to children today that often times they don’t even realize they’re learning!

Jacob’s ten-year-old sister Abby, on the other hand, prefers a quieter pastime. An avid dancer, she juggles a demanding practice

Cathi Berni likes to keep her young daughters active. Faith, who

schedule with school because for Abby, dance is a way to express her

has Down’s syndrome, participates in soccer, dance, and gymnastics

feelings. “It’s fun because you can set yourself free,” she explains. She

programs through the Milford Recreation Department, the YMCA, and

has learned how to work through a mistake on stage that can affect

Cartwheels. According to Berni, while her daughter benefits physically

an entire routine and several other dancers. She understands the

and socially from these activities, other children are being exposed to

importance of following through on her commitment and has earned a

diversity and the adult coaches have learned how to discreetly adapt

“perfect attendance award” for three years running at her ballet school.

instruction to the needs of the children. An older daughter, Teresina, age

Milford youngster Maeve Rourke also has a favorite artistic pursuit—

eight, takes horseback riding lessons at Silver Horseshoe Stables. Caring

playing the piano—which has given her “a new dream to pursue,”

for and interacting with the horses takes special skill, she says, since they

while also helping her to “not be shy” about performing in front of

have individual personalities. “It is amazing to see little girls learn to

others. Having taken piano lessons for only a year, she has already

control these magnificent animals despite the size difference. It seems to

developed the self-confidence needed to challenge her Meadowside

do wonders for their confidence,” Cathi Berni says.

School principal, Bob Davis, to a duet. Davis, coincidentally, also took up

“Quadding” has been part of thirteen-year-old Jacob Williamson’s life

the piano about the same time as Rourke.

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(From top left) Austin Cepalia

has a positive impact on academic

and Eve Brannin learned a lot

performance. As parent Karen

on a recent trip to Yellow-

Oâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;Neil puts it, her six-year-old

stone; Teresina Berni does

daughters simply value time with

gymnastics; Faith Berni on

their mom and dad. â&#x20AC;&#x153;I think time

horseback; (this page) Maeve

with parents is one of the most

Rourke at her piano lesson;

important avenues outside of

Ted Stanton in a class at

the classroom to teach children,â&#x20AC;?

Movin-Zone.

Oâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;Neil says. It doesnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have to be extraordinary or expensive. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Just

While formal programs can be fun, unstructured time can be equally as beneficial. Maureen Lucas, a certified children's fitness

doing simple things and talking with their children.â&#x20AC;? Whether simple or more involved, many activities widen the

specialist and owner of Movinâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;-Zone (185 Research Drive), points

horizons of Milfordâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s children, enriching their lives and, truly making

to any exercise as a foundation for lifelong physical benefits,

the world their classroom.

while plain old play spurs creativityâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;making up games even

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money matters

All That Glitters

OU’VE PROBABLY SEEN THE TV COMMERCIALS

continues to keep interest rates artificially

since the Great Depression of 1929, we are

and prominent advertisements

low (so as not to relapse into a deeper

uncertain of the long term impact such

displayed in newspapers and other media

recession) and attempts to stimulate our

actions will have on our dollar, interest

touting the value of investing in gold. With

way out of one of the worst recessions

rates, and government programs (like

gold reaching over $1,096.90 per ounce (as

Medicaid/Medicare and Social Security). It is

of this writing) (source: Financial News

a delicate balancing act.

Media CNBC), many investors are asking

The U.S. is currently using new debt

if they should hold, sell, buy, or add more

to pay off old debt. So how can

gold based investments to their portfolios.

our government reduce our

Gold-based stocks, mutual funds, or

debt levels? There are typically

C d p y d

ETF’s have been used to provide a

three choices: cut government

hedging potential (or reduced

spending, increase taxes, or print

more money. The latter

risk) against unforeseen events that include, but are not limited to, geopolitical

has actually been happening for some

events, inflation, currency

time now. The increase

instability, or currency/trade

in circulation of new

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dollars has the potential to cause our

Exchange-Traded Funds (ETFs). The share

role in your portfolio. No matter what the

existing dollars to depreciate and escalate

prices of these aforementioned instruments

preferred investment choice (shares of a gold-

inflation. Gold may offer some insurance

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are based on the price of gold.

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economic times, gold-based investments

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senior corner

Talent Times Two

continue to share their endless talent, and never tire of their

chosen labor of love. Two women in particular have delighted

Milford with their abundant talents and are have expanded their

contributions to include work beyond the scope of their art.

HERE ARE MANY EXTREMELY GIFTED ARTISTS, musicians, actors,

singers, and performers living and working in Milford who

Marylyn Mulvey and Frieda Howling are still at the top of

their games with no signs of slowing down any time soon.

An opera singer for most of her life, Marylyn Mulvey was born in Waterbury and has resided in Milford for thirty years. Her career began,

she says, when her kindergarten

teacher heard her singing and “thought singing should be nurtured.” She’s never looked back. After winning a competition that led to a national National Company in 1966, Mulvey’s career was off and running. A few years later she was performing with the New York City Opera at Lincoln Center when a mutual friend introduced her to Victor Borge, the famed humorist and

M MARY HEGARTY NESCHKE

contract with the Metropolitan Opera

pianist. It was with Borge that Mulvey MARY HEGARTY NESCHKE

began a partnership that brought her a small share of fame and allowed her “to travel all over the world for more than twenty years.” Mulvey was the straight man to Borge’s clown. The part of his act she participated in consisted primarily of the classically trained Borge inviting Mulvey on stage to sing an aria while Borge proceeded to continuously intrude with various hijinks—such as affecting shock or falling off his stool when she hit a high note, or repeatedly telling

Marilyn Mulvey (left) and Frieda Howling (right) are two talented Milford

her not to relax her hand on his piano. Borge’s comical mocking of

seniors who haven’t let age stop them from embracing their talents.

high art never bothered Mulvey. “I never felt put down,” she said. “He made fun of the artist I represented, of the musical situation, not of

for K-5 children. She performs three masses each weekend at St. Mary’s

me personally.”

Church, and in recent months has performed for the Milford Fine Arts

A vigorous, dynamic woman who would be considered extremely active for any age, today Mulvey is a full-time para-educator at Pumpkin Delight Elementary School where she helps implement the reading program

Council and Southbury Fine Arts, and with the Hamden and Cheshire symphonies. Frieda Howling has been stimulating the public for many years

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with her painting and printmaking. A member of the Milford Fine Arts Council for over thirty years, Howling is a huge fan of the

says, “I became too involved in my own work to want to teach anymore.” And work she does. “I do at least several hours a day. I get new

Firehouse Art Gallery. “It is operated by volunteers,” she explains. “It’s

ideas all of the time and I never get bored.” Howling is interested in

always free. Everyone should come and see all of the wonderful work

all forms of art and in recent years has developed a love and great

there.” Howling does publicity for the gallery one day a week.

talent for printmaking. “I get new ideas all the time,” she says, and

Above all, however, Frieda Howling is an artist. Her work has been

never stops thinking or planning some novel piece of art, even though

shown around the world in solo and group exhibitions since 1970 and

she has now lived more than three-quarters of a century. In fact,

she has sold paintings as far away as Uruguay and the Philippines.

Howling was in her seventies when she authored Art in Lebanon:

Several corporations, including GE in Fairfield, have purchased her

The Development of Contemporary Art in Lebanon, 1930-1975, which

works and proudly showcase them in their headquarters.

was published in 2005. Her home and studio are alive with art, a

Born in Munich, Germany, Howling came to live in New York at the age of twelve. She was an art major at Douglas College at Rutgers

testament to both her talent and her daily commitment to her art. Together Marylyn Mulvey and Frieda Howling are just two of the

University and later received a Master’s Degree in interior decorating

incredibly talented seniors who make Milford such a special place,

from the University of North Carolina at Greensboro. For almost twenty

adding joy to the world and pride to Milfordites everywhere. —Nick Olshansky

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arts + artisans

Portrait of a Young Artist J

OHN GALIN HAS CREATED

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500 works of

art, been in countless art shows,

and received second place in a national

chemistry poster contest—all by the age of eighteen. Galin is a talented artist who likes to work in multiple mediums: painting in oil and watercolor, drawing, sculpting, and papier-mâché. His favorite medium is painting oil on canvas. It was during elementary school that Galin started to get interested in arts and crafts and began taking art classes. He took a liking to art around first or second grade, but it wasn’t until sixth and seventh grade that his parents began to realize his talent and encourage John to create more art. They

In front of his Milford home, John Galin proudly displays one of his

bought him his

favorite paintings. (Left) John’s “Boy” drawing.

own supplies; John taught himself his own painting

own way. A drawing of a boy was inspired

recent charcoal drawing was inspired by

techniques.

by a photograph in his home; a tree

his favorite artist, Salvador Dali. Galin

painting was inspired by the DreamWorks

describes the abstract drawing as “Dali-

film insignia, especially the clouds; a

like” because it makes you think when you

Galin is inspired when he sees something interesting and wants to re-create it in his

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look at it. Dali’s work, according to Galin,

to paint, I start with the farthest thing

“makes me ask a question when I look at it.

back in the painting, then work my way

It’s not just a landscape—it’s something to

forward. If I don’t like the way something

look at that is not normal.”

is blended, I have to wait until it dries to

Galin’s favorite piece of work created so

re-paint it.”

far is a tree painting with a secret message

Galin uses his talent to his advantage.

encoded in the branches—love. Even

During high school he painted for extra

though he’s young, he knows that art takes

credit, including Napoleon for history, a

time. “Planning is an important step,” he

podium for math, and an atom for science.

says. “I have to know what I want to do. I

An abstract sunset which reminds us to

Before he graduated from Foran High School

sketch on a piece of paper a rough draft,

“never stop questioning.”

in June, Galin’s work had appeared in five

like an outline, with no details. I draw

art shows and he was offered his own show

shapes of where I want something to be. I

brown paint to lightly outline the shapes

at the Parson’s Complex. Galin cemented his

then have to prime the canvas and once it

that I’m going to paint, which creates a

legacy at Foran by painting a mural on one of

dries, paint the background. I usually use

rough outline on canvas. When I begin

the walls.

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arts + artisans Galin is now studying at the Academy of Art University in San Francisco, California John busy at work on his latest

as a freshman. Despite his skills painting

masterpiece, inspired by his

and sculpting, what he really wants to do is

favorite artist, Salvador Dali.

design cars. He plans to major in Industrial Design and specialize in Automotive Design. Galin first visited the Academy of Art University last summer where he took his first “real” technique art class. The teacher tried to tell him how to correctly hold the brush, but Galin says he prefers to paint his own way. Still, he’s excited about the future. “I love the school…and I love the staff and the people there.” No doubt, Milford will be hearing more about John Galin in the not-too-distant future. —Gina Rose Sirico

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Calendar of Events

December Ongoing WINTER EXHIBIT Firehouse Art Gallery Gallery hours: Thurs. - Sunday 12:00 - 5:00 p.m. View works of art and browse the Gallery Gift Shop. Free. For more information call 203-306-0016 or visit www.milfordarts.org. TODDLER TIME Milford Public Library Wednesday’s 10:00 - 11:00 a.m. Held each Wednesday for children ages 2 in the Children’s Department. Sing, share finger plays, and read stories in a relaxed and friendly environment. Program will not be held during school holidays, snow delays, or vacations. For more information contact Suzanne Thomas, children's librarian, at 203-783-3312. PRESCHOOL STORYTIME Milford Public Library Monday & Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. Programs for children ages 3 and up. Please join us for books, friends and fun! Program will not be held during school holidays, snow delays, or vacations. For more information contact Suzanne Thomas, children's librarian, at 203-783-3312.

December 3 - 6 CHRISTMAS IN THE MANSION…A SHOWCASE OF THE SEASON Academy of Our Lady of Mercy, Lauralton Hall Come to the 20th Annual Christmas in the Mansion featuring more than fifty specialty exhibitors including florists, artisans, boutiques, gourmet food shops, collectibles, jewelry, and much more set in our marvelously decorated 1864 Victorian Gothic Mansion. General Admission: adults: $6.00, seniors and children 4-12: $4.00, no charge for children under 4. We cannot accommodate strollers! For more information contact clopata@lauraltonhall.org or call 203.877.2786, ext. 143.

December 4 & 5 EIGHTH ANNUAL DOWNTOWN MILFORD LAMPLIGHT STROLL December 4 - 5:00 – 9:00 p.m. December 5 - 10:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. Sponsored by Downtown Milford Business Association. Visit thirty of downtown’s finest shops! Enjoy a carriage ride with Santa & Mrs. Claus, listen to the Yuletide Carolers, and get the latest news from the Town Crier. Collect your passport and stroll from shop to shop and have your passport stamped. Once the passport is complete, fill out the back of the passport and leave it at any of the participating shops to be eligible to win one of four baskets filled with downtown Milford surprises, treats, treasures, and gift cards! For more information, contact Michelle Merchant, me boutique, at 203-874-2663.

December 6 ANNUAL LISMAN HOLIDAY CONCERT Milford City Hall 4:00 p.m. The beautiful sounds of holiday music can be heard at this wonderful annual event. Donations for Milford Fine Arts Council accepted. For info: call 203-8786647 or visit www.milfordarts.org.

December 8 HOLIDAY GIFT SWAP & SHOP PARTY Village Vogue Bring a gift item (handbag, sweater, scarf) valued at $25 or more and swap it for another's treasure. Enjoy some holiday refreshments, some giftgiving ideas, and special one-night only discounts! Call Karen Quinn-Panzer at 203-283-9400 to register. Limited capacity. www.villagevogueboutique.com.

December 12 & 13 THE NUTCRACKER New England Ballet Company Parsons Auditorium December 12 at 12:00 p.m. and 4 p.m. December 13 at 1:00 p.m. In this large cast production, young children from local dancing schools dance along with company dancers and guest artists and add to the charm of the production. A wonderful ballet for the entire family and the perfect way to introduce children to the power and beauty of classical dance. Tickets are $20-$45. For more information and to reserve your tickets call 203-799-7950 or visit www.NewEnglandBallet.org.

December 15 CHRISTMAS IN SONG Parsons Auditorium 7:30 p.m. All are invited to attend this free performance which will feature members of Lauralton's Concert Choir, Advanced Vocal Ensemble, Freshman Choir, and Instrumental Ensemble. Voluntary donations of non-perishable food items will be accepted at the door to be given to local, needy residents.

December 17 NATURE BABIES: MAMMALS IN WINTER Audubon Coastal Center 10:30 – 11:30 a.m. How do mammals prepare for and survive the harsh winter months? Learn how native creatures get ready for winter. For children 3-5 years old accompanied by an adult. Fee (1 child and 1 adult): $10 CAS members, $15 non-members. For more information call 203-878-7440 or visit www.ctaudubon.org.

December 19 NATURALLY CRAFTY: HOLIDAY PAPER MAKING Audubon Coastal Center 9:30 a.m. – 10:45 a.m. Spread some holiday cheer with handmade cards crafted out of homemade paper. It’s fun and festive! Advance registration recommended. Fee: CAS members $9 per adult, $5 per child; non members $14 per adult, $10 per child. For more information call 203-878-7440 or visit www.ctaudubon.org

January January 4 - March 1 TANGO CLASSES Milford Center for the Arts Mondays, 7:00 p.m. This class is for everyone interested in the authentic way of dancing tango and its music. No partner necessary. Cem Duruoz, instructor. $120 per person for 8 classes. For information call 203-5438099 or email info@tangosueno.com.

January 9 & 10 SOLO WILDERNESS FIRST AID Audubon Coastal Center 9:00 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. SOLO's 16-hour comprehensive introductory Wilderness First Aid (WFA) course is a must for outdoor enthusiasts. Using mock rescue scenarios, skilled instructors provide participants hands-on experience with first aid and long-term patient care in the backcountry. Payment in full is due upon registration; please register early. Fee: $189, includes lunch and snacks ($100 is nonrefundable). There’s an additional fee for adult CPR training; please inquire if interested. For more information call 203-878-7440 or visit www.ctaudubon.org.

January 18 MILFORD HISTORICAL SOCIETY LECTURE Mary Taylor Church 7:00 p.m. The Milford Historical Society will host a lecture on local history. Refreshments at 7:00 p.m., lecture begins at 7:30 p.m. Free. For more information call Milford Historical Society at 203-874-2664 or visit www.milfordhistoricalsociety.org

January 19 HOME DECOR SWAP & SHOP PARTY Village Vogue Boutique Need a post-holiday boost for your home? Bring a home decor item (vase, pillow, candleholder) valued at $25 or more and swap for another's treasure. Learn how to change up a room with creativity from an interior redesign specialist. Call Karen Quinn-Panzer at 203-283-9400 to register. Limited capacity. www.villagevogueboutique.com.

January 29 PERFORMANCE COFFEEHOUSE: CHRIS COOGAN Milford Center for the Arts 8:00 p.m. Tickets $10.For more information call 203-878-6647 or visit www.milfordarts.org.

February February 4 – March 4 NON-THEMED EXHIBIT Firehouse Art Gallery Opening reception: February 4, 6:00 – 8:00 p.m. Gallery hours: Thursday – Sunday, 12:00 – 5:00 p.m.

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View works of art and browse the Gallery Gift Shop. Free. For more information call 203-306-0016 or visit www.milfordarts.org.

February 5 – 21 EASTBOUND THEATRE PRESENTS: LOVE, SEX & THE IRS Milford Center for the Arts Fridays & Saturdays at 8:00 p.m. Sundays at 2:00 p.m. A play by William Van Zandt. Tickets $12.50 senior/student; $15 general admission. For more information call 203-878-6647 or visit www.milfordarts.org.

February 9 VALENTINE'S DAY SWAP & SHOP PARTY Village Vogue Wondering what to wear on Valentine's Day? Bring something red (sweater, lingerie, top) valued at $25 and up and swap for another's treasure. Learn some vintage/ romantic makeup tips from a makeup specialist to enhance your new romantic style. Call Karen QuinnPanzer at 203-283-9400 to register. Limited capacity. www.villagevogueboutique.com.

February 26 PERFORMANCE COFFEHOUSE: THE BLUELIGHTS Milford Center for the Arts 8:00 p.m. Tickets $10. For more information call 203-878-6647 or visit www.milfordarts.org.

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March 19

IRISH NIGHT Lauralton Hall 7:30 p.m. The Lauralton Hall Alumnae Executive Board is sponsoring the return of the ever popular Irish Night. Reservations are required. For more information, contact Kathleen Donahue, director of Alumnae Relations, at 203-877-2786, ext. 114 or by email at kdonahue@ lauraltonhall.org.

REFERENCING HISTORY EXHIBIT Firehouse Art Gallery Opening reception: Thursday, March 11, 6:00 – 8:00 p.m. Gallery hours: Thursday – Sunday, 12:00 – 5:00 p.m. View works of art and browse the Gallery Gift Shop. Free. For more information call 203-306-0016 or visit www.milfordarts.org.

ROBERTA PIKET QUARTET - JAZZ MUSIC Milford Center for the Arts 8:00 p.m. Tickets $15. For more information call 203-878-6647 or visit www.milfordarts.org.

March

MILFORD ST. PATRICK’S DAY PARADE 1:00 p.m. Downtown Milford This annual parade sponsored by the Irish Heritage Society of Milford has become a rite of spring. Come down to the Milford Green and wear your green! For more information visit www.milfordirish.org.

March 5 – 27

PHOTOEXPO ‘10 Milford Center for the Arts Wednesday – Friday 10:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. Awards reception: March 27, 6:00 – 8:00 p.m. View amazing pictures from local photographers. Exhibit is free and open to the public. For more information or to submit your work contact the MFAC at 203-878-6647 or visit www.milfordarts.org.

March 6 LUZ MARIA BOBADILLA Milford Center for the Arts 8:00 p.m. The New England Guitar Society presents classical guitarist Luz Maria Bobadilla from Paraguay. Tickets $15. For more information call 203-878-6647 or visit www.milfordarts.org.

March 13

March 13, 20 & 27 OCEAN ADVENTURE FAMILY BOOK CLUB Milford Public Library 11:00 a.m. Come on a 3 week adventure with local author Cat Urbain and explore her popular middle grade novel Manuel and the Lobsterman. Over the weeks, learn about lobsters, our rich Milford marine environment, and explore your own writing ideas. For ages 7 and up. Registration in the Children's Department begins February 16. Copies of the book will be available for checkout for all participants. For more information or call 203-783-3312.

March 26 PERFORMANCE COFFEHOUSE: KEN LELEN Milford Center for the Arts 8:00 p.m. Tickets $10. For more information call 203-878-6647 or visit www.milfordarts.org.

March 27 BLUES, BREWS, & BBQ Milford Shriners Hall 6:00 p.m. – 11:00 p.m. Lace up your dancing shoes for Milford Rotary Club’s first ever spring fling, featuring legendary rhythm and blues band Memphis Soul. Guests will be served mouth-watering Carolinastyle pulled pork, BBQ chicken, cole slaw, potato salad, macaroni and cheese, baked beans, and hot corn bread. The first drink is courtesy of Milford Rotary. Beer, wine, soda, and water available for additional purchase. Proceeds will benefit the Milford Rotary Scholarship Fund. Tickets are available for $35 from any Milford Rotarian. No tickets will be sold at the door. For more information, contact Milford Rotary Event Chair Eric Tashlein at 877-1520.

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