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GERRY MCGUIRE
The Most Extreme Sport
W
hen we have small children or busy careers, there often isn’t much time to indulge in our favorite pursuits or try new things. As we age, and our time becomes more our own, however, we often take up new hobbies and delve deeper into our interests.
enemy…” In other words, one must become a hummingbird, to see how it sees, think how it thinks, and drink how it drinks. This guide will help anyone desirous of making their garden Stop Number One along the hum-
Some people take to painting, others pho-
bird. That of course is the physics defying,
mingbird’s never-ending nectar pub crawl so
tography, pickleball, needlepoint, crotchet,
nectar thirsting, no-bigger-than-your-thumb,
they can witness one of nature’s most unique
charity work, biking, hiking, or woodwork-
master of the sky: the hummingbird.
creatures carrying out their fascinating and
ing; the possibilities are endless. One hobby
Due to their incredibly small size and
beautiful, aeronautic feeding ballet.
that has been popular since the Victorian era
quickness, hummingbirds can be difficult to
The first step towards knowing a hum-
is birdwatching. Whether sitting by a bird
spot. In addition to their diminutive size and
mingbird is understanding what kind you’re
feeder or walking a park with a guidebook,
blink-and-it’s-gone speed, the hummingbird’s
trying to attract. For the most part, there is
notebook, camera, and binoculars, collecting
unique diet means that even if you have the
only one species that ventures north from Central America and Mexico to make Connecticut its summer home: the Ruby Throated hummingbird. The male has a red throat and dark head with green back and wings. The female has a white chest and throat and green back and wings. While hummingbirds feed on gnats, spiders, flies, and beetles, to keep their wings
GERRY MCGUIRE
moving at 53-beats per second, it takes a sugar high suitable only for tiny birds and Buddy the Elf. The nectar that flowers secrete contains a mix of fructose, glucose, and sucrose that can be up to 80 percent sugar. All that sugar helps these geeked-up birds
sightings of common visitors as well as some
lushest of gardens, if it doesn’t see what it
reach speeds up to 60 miles per hour on their
of our rarer avian friends, is—for bird enthu-
likes, the hummingbird will pass you by like
endless search for food.
siasts—like treasure hunting. While sightings
a midtown cabbie on a rainy night.
Trying to lure hummingbirds to a garden or
of a very off-course Roseate Spoonbill or
To successfully lure hummingbirds, you
Snowy Owl can bring a murmuration of
must follow the words often attributed to
these minuscule, sugar-addicted fowl cannot
birdwatchers to a hot viewing location, there
famed general and philosopher Sun Tzu: “To
always be trusted to behave the way one
are others whose interests lie in only one
know your enemy, you must become your
expects. Hummingbirds have extraordinary
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just a nectar feeder can be frustrating; it seems
eyesight that allows them to see colors
flowers that attract hummingbirds are GE R RY
in the ultraviolet spectrum, so they can
MC G UIR E
actually see colors that humans can’t. This ability, along with their excellent sense of direction and memory, allows them to pinpoint possible feeding sources
wild columbine, azalea shrubs, foxglove, heuchera (coral bells), and Major Wheeler honeysuckle vine. If you’re starting with a feeder, you can entice hummingbirds
with a bright red feeder and to make sure
while zipping over them and, once found,
they see it, hang a red ribbon from it.
remember where they are and how to return
Once you’ve attracted hummingbirds to
to them, year after year. While hummingbirds
your feeder, it’s important to keep it full and
are attracted to flowers with colors across
clean. If hummingbirds have identified your
the spectrum, the one color that will most
yard as a place to feed, you might notice that
assuredly make a hummingbird hit the brakes
for, let the gardening begin. Because hum-
they don’t play nice. They’re highly territo-
and drop by to investigate your garden is the
mingbirds first arrive back in Connecticut
rial, and one hummingbully can intimidate
color red. Whether flowers or a hummingbird
in the spring and leave in early fall, it’s
and chase away many hungry humming-
feeder, red is the hue to shoot for.
good to have shrubs, annuals, baskets, and
birds. To keep these bullies from ruling your
perennials that bloom at different times
yard as their personal fiefdom, spread out
to keep them visiting your garden. Spring
your plants and put feeders far apart so
So now that everyone understands what a hummingbird wants and what it is looking
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you seeing many Ruby Throated visits throughout the day. The one plant that seems to consistently stand out (in my yard at least) is the scarlet red Crocosmia Lucifer. Many of these summer flowers bloom into the fall keeping the tiny hummingbirds well fed for
era can become a hobby in itself. Although
of them, while feeding mid-hover, takes
their 2,000-mile trip back home.
hummingbirds can become quite used to
patience and timing. In a world filled with
Once a garden is established and drawing
homeowners and will sometimes even land
many hobbies, it is the most extreme sport.
in visitors, capturing their beauty with a cam-
on their hands, trying to snap a clean photo
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Refurbishing an Iconic Steeple
J
ust say, “That big white church behind City Hall,” to any Milford resident and they will know exactly which landmark you mean: The First United Church of Christ Milford. Grandly sitting atop a hill at the juncture of West BILL CANFIELD
River and West Main Streets, the building and its iconic steeple are featured elements in tens of thousands of wedding pictures, tourist’s photos, and at least one Hallmark Channel romance film. In late 2021, however, pieces of it were found on the ground. “We all get old and fall apart,” says Bob
it’s time.” According to Rich, the steeple and
First United Church of Christ, a hometown
Rich, church treasurer and long-time member,
belfry are predominantly made of wood, and
landmark to many Milfordites.
referring to the steeple. “It’s been 22 years since
their exposure to various weather conditions
its last structural and ornamental repairs, so
is much more dramatic than ground-level
structures, requiring more frequent upkeep. GNCB Consulting Engineers of Old Saybrook will work with a construction company to use historical as well as modern-day techniques and materials to refurbish the steeple, with the goal of keeping it safe and beautiful for the next 50 years. “It’s an extremely expensive venture for the church to take on every 20 years or so,” Rich says. The restoration is expected to cost about $450,000 and will be funded by private donations, matching grants, and other historical renovation grant sources. The project has already begun, with temporary bracing installed in January to alleviate any further damage before the total renovation in 2023. It will take two years to explore and secure funding for the restoration, which Rich hopes will be completed before the church
The second Meetinghouse was constructed in 1727 and was used for about 100 years.
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community celebrates the 200th anniversary
of this particular meetinghouse. It is the third
Rutheva Baldwin Brockett, church clerk in
since the church’s founding more than 380
1989. The second building was much larger; a
years ago on the same site.
three-story edifice built in 1727 which, at the
The church’s history is Milford’s history. It’s
time, was said to be the largest in Connecticut.
first pastor, Reverend Peter Prudden, came to
(“150th Anniversary Building Sketch, 1823-1973,”
“Wepawaug” with 54 families from New Haven
by Raymond D. Cable, church historian).
and Wethersfield to found their own worship-
The current church building was built in
ping community and colony (now named
1823 and designed by famed architect David
Milford). They purchased the land from the
Hoadley. It was featured in Robert H. Mutrux’s
Wepawaug Native Americans in 1639 and the
1981 book, Great New England Churches: 65
first of the meetinghouse—and steeple—was
House of Worship That Have Changed Our Lives.
built. The building was just “30 feet square
“It is basically a rectangular shell with
after such a manner as they shall judge most
a shallow gabled roof which traces its
convenient for the public good,” according
origin to the New England barn. It is
to historical church documents compiled by
heralded, however, by an imaginative
The anatomy of the steeple.
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The wear and tear of a steeple over time
bered by the brides and grooms who pose at
requires repairs.
the waterfall for their wedding portraits, and
and a creator of the current wooden “urns”
of course, the many church-goers who have
that adorn the steeple. “We went up the stairs
the tops of the trees, the Sound, and Long
memories there.
without railings and over the catwalks and
Island. I can close my eyes and still see that
“One of my most treasured childhood
stood outside at the railings,” she recalls. “It
incredible sight today.”
memories is when my father took me up to
was a beautiful, clear spring day and I saw
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the belfry through the steeple,” said Carol LaBrake, a lifelong church member whose fa-
DONATIONS FOR THE RESTORATION from residents and businesses are being accepted by First UCC Milford
ther, Peter Brockett, was a church moderator
on their website: FirstChurchofMilford.org.
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Horsing Around for 50 Years
The Rainbow Pride flag is raised on the Milford City Hall flagpole in celebration of Pride Weekend 2019.
SILVER HORSESHOE STABLES
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here’s a four-acre slice of pastoral paradise tucked away in the northern corner of Milford.
Silver Horseshoe Stables is a third-generation
equestrian facility owned and operated by the Crandley family for the last five decades. Specializing in both English and Western riding and offering lessons for both disciplines as well as boarding, Silver Horseshoe Stables invites
Silver Horseshoe Stables has been offering
visitors to put their hectic schedules and to-do lists aside, and “catch the wind and saddle it”.
lessons, trail riding, and boarding for half a century.
It’s no secret that horses have long been
by approximately 47,000 horses in the state
an integral part of daily life throughout the
(according to UCONN), Connecticut is estimated
early history of Connecticut. Instrumental in
to have a higher population of horses (51,968)
transportation of provisions, the building of
than any other New England state. In fact,
the majority of which are quarter horses and
roads, and the clearing of land, horses continue
while the Nutmeg State may lack the sprawling
thoroughbreds. Tucked quietly away on Wolf
to play a pivotal role in the lives of Connecticut
open plains of Big Sky Country, it ranks third
Harbor Road, the stable was purchased by Jack
residents, though in a much different way.
in the density of horses nationwide (calculated
and Dolores Crandley 50 years ago. The “old
by dividing the estimated number of horses by
run-down farm house with a small barn” was
With hundreds of miles of trails trod upon
state area in square miles). Silver Horseshoe Stables is home to 22 horses,
transformed into a beautiful farmhouse by Crandley for his wife and their six children, all while he worked two jobs. Before long, he purchased a few horses, eventually expanding his services and beginning to board other people’s horses.
SILVER HORSESHOE STABLES
Crandley’s daughter, Susan Crandley
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Ambrose, began to ride competitively, and by the time she was sixteen, she was teaching other people about horsemanship. Susan’s From ages five though 75, Silver Horseshoe students share an unwavering passion for horses.
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lesson plan and riding instruction program took off and she soon found herself with a thriving business that catered to many regular customers. Silver Horseshoe Stables was officially born. “I’m a third generation for Silver Horseshoe,”
over to wave at the horses and the owner stopped to talk to them. He was so nice and friendly with the kids. He told us about the lessons at Silver Horseshoe Stables and we took the girls over the following weekend to register.” From day one, her daughters fell
says Rhiannon Crandley, the current barn
Silver Horseshoe Stables invites visitors to put
in love with the stables and their instructor,
manager and head riding instructor. “My
their hectic schedules and to-do lists aside and
Rhiannon. “I also think the kids really enjoy
father, Richard, purchased the business from
saddle up.
connecting with the horses and developing
his parents in 2008 and took it over when I was
relationships with them,” she says.
about 10. I’ve been helping him for as long as
our students to the atmosphere.” But, she adds,
I’ve been able.”
“We are definitely a family-oriented barn where
granddaughter, Peyton, began riding in
our main goals are to learn, love, and have fun.”
May 2021 at Silver Horseshoe and formed an
Offering trail riding, instruction, summer camp, birthday parties, and hosting Girl Scout
Milford resident Tami Washenko discovered
Tina Keating says her seven-year-old
immediate connection with Rhiannon and her
troops, Crandley says riding can be done either
Silver Horseshoe Stables while exploring
horse. “Rhiannon has the ability to read each
recreationally or competitively. “We enjoy
Eisenhower Park with her three children. “We
rider as an individual—she sees their strengths
participating in some competitions to expose
saw some people riding horses. The kids ran
and offers encouragement,” she says.
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milford spotlight With long days and sometimes even longer nights and continual upkeep of the facilities and horses themselves, the equestrian SILVER HORSESHOE STABLES
industry can be very difficult. “A lot of barns that started at the same time are no longer in business today or have been bought out by new management. It is certainly a difficult industry to maintain,” Crandley says. “Your life revolves around caring for your horses and additionally managing
Rhiannon Crandley is the barn manager and head riding instructor at Silver Horseshoe Stables.
a business,” she says. “The industry is competitive. It can be difficult to learn if you
reason. “It comes down to the magic that is the
the same time wild and free. They inspire you
are new to it, and it can be hard to start out. If
animal,” she explains. “Horses are truly special
with their wild side and mesmerize you when
you do figure it out and find success, though,
creatures. The bonds you create with them are
you see one that has been trained at work.”
it is incredibly rewarding.”
unbreakable. They are kind and caring, but at
—Makayla Silva
Whether age five or 75, Crandley says all her students ultimately come for the same
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Discovering the Secret Life of Your Old Home
P
eople want to know the history of their home. Questions range from, “Who was the original owner?” and “What is the actual age of my home?” to statements of fact: “I had an experience here and I want to know who died in these walls.” While not everyone is enthusiastic to learn if someone passed in their house, almost everyone is curious about the lives lived, parties had, businesses and careers built, and the general biographies of those who once inhabited their space. While it is possible to identify style, construction techniques, original components and architectural elements by sight, the most sought-after information lies in documents.
documenting history and storing
may be good places to begin to
research on places of importance.
research, it is best to start from
Historical societies, local
the beginning, and that means
museums, and libraries may very
the Town Clerk’s Office.
well have plaque programs and files on old houses. While these
The land records should have all transactions—warranty
Whether it is a question of the person(s) responsible for the initial construction or simply a wish to determine age, the process of researching a historic place begins the same. Each
A map of Milford from 1855 illustrating a number of the town’s more prominent homes.
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E.R LAMBERT
municipality has its own way of
MILFORD HISTORIC BUILDINGS CT STATE LIBRARY
deeds, mortgages, quit claims,
pay attention to the changing
19th century home, there are a
From left: Mark Merwin home
lis pendens, and sometimes,
boundaries of the parcel in
handful of maps that may record
(c.1750, Old Field Lane); Anthony
divisions of estate—associated
question. Many areas were
the name of a homeowner at
Stowe home (c.1790, Gulf Street);
with all property within the
plotted in the early 20th century,
a particular time, such as the
Jehiel Bryan home (c.1785, Cherry
limits of the town. There are
so if a home is thought to be
1856 H & C.T. Smith Map of New
Street)
a few instances where the
earlier than circa 1900, it is likely
Haven County and the 1867
situation is different, but for
to have been part of a larger piece
Beers Atlas. Other maps can
Maps, Bailey’s Birds-Eye Views (c.
the most part a backwards title
of land. Likewise, additional
be useful and can indicate the
1880s-1890s), and the Dolph and
search of the property should
information may be gleaned
shape of a house, its construction
Stewart maps of the 1930s and
be fairly straight forward and
from probate records, depending
methodology, and general
40s. These resources can be easily
provide a broad stroke history
on the age of the home itself.
development of the area, such
found online, but only provide
If the home is potentially a
as the Sanborn Fire Insurance
the barest information.
of ownership. It is important to
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Once the title search is complete,
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at home
however, anecdotes about the
city directories, census records,
Michael Peck home (c.1750, Maple
it is possible to begin collecting
person’s life or even genealogical
old photographs, obituaries, and
St.); Stephen Gunn home (c.1810
biographical information about
books may be found—all of which
more. While it takes a little time
once stood on Route 1); Gov. Robert
the previous owners. Depending
is helpful in piecing together not
to become adept at using all their
Treat home (c.1650, Governors Ave.)
on the fame/infamy of the person,
only the history of the owner, but
features, they are great sources.
a quick Google or Google Book
perhaps what life was like in the
From here, libraries with more
and tedious, especially if a person
search may reveal information.
house in question.
local newspapers and periodicals,
is new to the types of records
oral histories, and potentially
described above. It is, however,
At times, it is only cursory
Without fail, Ancestry.com and
information about business
Newspapers.com can provide
historic photograph collections can
infinitely rewarding to discover
ventures, automobile licenses in
much more information if they
be consulted.
the personality of a property and
the 1920s, or perhaps even a line
are used correctly. These sites are
about a marriage. Other times,
treasure troves of information:
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Keeping the Past Afloat
I
Owner Andrew Robb cannot recall a time
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when he was not on the water. “My parents
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Runabout, became an award-winning beauty.
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progression,” says Robb. In fact, his fondness
old,” he says. “From that point on, so many
for the water continued to grow as he did.
It was fate. “I studied at IYRS for two
of my childhood memories revolved around
“After college I was hired as first mate on a
years,” recounts Robb. “During school and
boating.” Robb recalls that his very “first
private motor yacht. We docked in Newport,
after graduation I worked at a couple of
ride in a wooden boat was the same year we
Rhode Island for several weeks.” While there,
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Robb made a life changing discovery. “The
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he was enjoying his work, he wanted to
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Restoration School (IYRS), a boatbuilding and
the opportunity to touch every part of the
restoration school.”
restoration, not just bits and pieces.”
“I knew I wanted work on or around the
Robb says, “family, friends, and acquaintances started asking if I could work on their boats, which was difficult to do while having a full-time job.” Then fate stepped in again. While driving along on his honeymoon, he saw something out of the corner of his eye. “Like all wooden boat fanatics, I have a habit of scanning for a telltale sign of the fabled ALEXTAYLORPHOTO.COM
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Once completed, “Nezzie” won the People’s Choice Award at the prestigious Lake Tahoe Concours D’Elegance competition—a remarkable feat for North Country Boatworks’ first full restoration project. The competition requires exacting restoration to the boat’s original manufactured condition.
The attention to detail brought to a restoration is in evidence at North Country’s Higgins Lane facility.
Robb and his crew have now been restoring classic wooden boats for ten years in their
bent into shape. The fragrance of freshly
in the Museum of Yachting as a live exhibit,”
facility on Higgins Lane. Watching the crafts-
sanded mahogany is present as you walk into
Felter recalls. Working in the Newport mu-
men at work is fascinating; hand tools are
the shop.
seum was inspirational and he tries to bring
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wielded with finesse, creating perfect joinery
Brad Felter, a classmate of Robbs also
for the complex wood framing. Curved pieces
works at North Country. “After graduating
are created by soaking wood with water and
from IYRS I was hired to build a small boat
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on the water was used when these boats were built.” NORTH COUNTRY BOATWORKS
He creates a remarkably exacting puzzle of wood framing and finish details using hand chisels, saws, planers, and exceptional skill. Two additional craftsmen work with Robb and Felter to restore these historic vessels: Adam Hiatt, also a graduate of IYRS, and Aime Fraser, trained in New Zealand, who
Classic wooden boats are an eye-catching sight when they have been brought back to their original state.
previously led the boat building workshop at the Maritime Center in Norwalk. There are currently seven boats undergoing work in the shop. In addition to wooden boat restorations, North Country specializes in modern yacht woodworking, creating
structible product called Permateek that looks
loves. “We have a dedicated team of skilled
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craftsmen and artisans. It is very gratifying
into newer boats.
to see a project completed and returned to
Robb is exceptionally grateful for his team and for being able to do what he
its former glory.” —Susan Carroll Dwyer
built-in cabinets, cockpits, and a variety of custom projects. Newer boats are also in their
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Spring reminds us of the many ways Milford shines from season to season. importance of this place. About
h, springtime. In New England is always a highly anticipated time. As we head outside to savor the sweetsmelling cherry blossoms, the sounds of peeper frogs, and the long-awaited warmth of the sun, we’re reminded of the many ways Milford shines from season to season.
ensuring its survival for future generations.
The Care and Keeping of a Place Placekeeping is the idea that by actively caring for a place and
munity’s identity and character
its natural, cultural, and social
is not. We’ve learned that our
fabrics, you can keep a place alive.
city can continue to grow, even
Better yet, by utilizing the existing
in the ever-changing economic
community resources to grow its
landscape.
role and strength in the commu-
It got me thinking about the Spring is a time to celebrate
it. About honoring its past and
DINA CASHMAN
The Importance of Place A
treasuring it. About preserving
nity, you can not only keep a place
nothing quite says spring like the
daffodils and forsythias, the
start of baseball season.
opening of ice cream stands, and
I’ve been consciously taking
the boat launch gearing up for
in the sights, tastes, and sounds
another season on the water. And
of Milford that shift with the seasons, noticing the places that make up the fabric of our downtown. Those that have remained for decades, like Vincent’s Jewelers and the Seven recently made downtown their home, like Static Era Records and Micalizzi’s. If we’ve learned anything over the last two years, it’s that
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Seas, and those who have just
Micalizzi’s is now part of Milford’s
change is inevitable. Lucky for us,
The DMBA’s first annual Easter Eggstravaganza was born out of the hope to
thriving downtown.
the destruction of our com-
return some normalcy to families during the pandemic.
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alive, but you can make it thrive.
than one. We are continually bridging the gap between the
Looking Ahead to 2022 Downtown
The Duck Race brings families
Downtown Milford is everyone’s neighborhood, whether
existing history and culture of
There is a lot to look forward to
of rubber duckies travel from the
you live there or not. With
the community, creating new
and celebrate downtown in 2022,
waterfall into Milford Harbor.
cultural and civic significance
experiences that support bur-
traditions both big and small,
for those who live, work, and
geoning business opportunities,
that not only showcase our small
play here, downtown has
and fostering a sustainable and
city, but reinforce community
there is a celebrated community
become a place that defines
dynamic downtown district. We
pride while fostering economic
event nearly every weekend.
our community in more ways
are continually placekeeping.
and cultural development.
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more than fifty local artisans of handmade items on the green, from pottery and woodworking to glass and crochet. In June, the beloved Milford Duck Race returns, a community fundraiser benefitting Milford United Way.
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destination downtown
Memorial Day Weekend will
From opening day of baseball to Pirate’s Day, downtown’s many traditions weave a tightly knit community
officially kick off the summer
committed to the keeping of a place.
season at Fowler Pavilion, with the downtown summer concert
We’ll play host to Pirate’s Day
Downtown Farmers’ Market at
they eagerly anticipate Captain
series and movie nights hosted
for the 20th consecutive year,
Wasson Field.
Kidd’s arrival. It’s the com-
by the Milford Regional Cham-
welcome boaters to the ma-
ber of Commerce and Downtown
rina, baseball players to Ralph
green lined with vendors and
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a community congregating as
But you see, it’s more than the
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opportunities for entertainment and recreation all year round, and many of those opportunities are free! If you’re looking for a few ideas on
how families and individuals can
find fun activities without spending a penny, look no further.
BEACHES
the sea life exposed at low tide. Parking is
The great outdoors calls to many of us, and
free for Milford residents. Silver Sands State
Milford has a variety of beaches and parks to
Park offers a similar experience, along with
visit and enjoy, free of charge. From Anchor
picnic areas and walking trails.
Beach and Woodmont Beach on the eastern side of Milford, Gulf Beach at the eastern mouth of the harbor, west to Fort Trumbull
CRAFT FAIRS ON THE GREEN
The Milford Green, being the second longest
and Walnut Beaches, visitors get the chance
in New England, is a perfect setting for craft
to experience the salt water, the sand, and
fairs. There are several scheduled each
Craft and art fairs are a staple on the Milford green, bringing visitors from all over.
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Milford has a multitude of
JJ RICHARDS (2)
The beaches in Milford offer something for everyone, whether you enjoy playing ball with friends, casting for the big catch, or just relaxing with a good book. the Housatonic River, and the rest of the shore where anglers can attempt to indulge their passion. Check out spots such as the year through spring, summer, and fall. The
Memorial United Methodist Church’s Fair on
Gulf Beach and Fort Trumbull breakwaters,
Milford Artisan market, boasting fine art
the Green.
Anchor Beach, Silver Sands State Park, and
and craft exhibitors, as well as food and music, will take place the weekend of May 7-8. About a month later, on June 3-4, plan on stopping by the annual Mary Taylor
FISHING
Audubon Coastal Center at Milford Point. Those preferring freshwater can cast a line
For saltwater enthusiasts, there are several
as well. Both duck ponds are popular locations,
popular locations along Milford Harbor,
and each May the annual Milford Fishing
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is the unofficial start of summer. Milford honors those service members with a rousing parade, this year to be held on Monday, May 30th, beginning at the Parsons Complex and winding its way through downtown and along the Green.
MAC SUMMER POP UPS
All summer long, the Milford Arts Council (MAC) holds their Summer Pop Ups on COURTESY OF THE MILFORD STRIPED BASS CLUB
Saturdays at 11:00 am. Each week features a different venue and a different theme, from theater to music, spoken word to fine art. All are free to attend. (Left) The Annual Fishing Derby is great fun for young anglers; (below) The Milford Living Kite Fly features the Connetikiters with their spectacular aerial colors. Derby is held by the Milford Striped Bass club for kids aged 15 and under. Mondo Ponds, the pond at Eisenhower Park, and Beaver Brook ponds are also great places to fish. Children can fish without a license in Connecticut, however those 16 and older do need to obtain one before they fish.
LIBRARY EVENTS
Milford Public Library has a broad range of free activities and resources for adults and children. Programs range from story hour for youngsters to book discussion groups for adults, educational programming (both in-person and virtual) “take and make” craft kits, and more. Downloadable e-books, magazines, and audiobooks as well as a streaming video service are available to those with a library card. Visit milfordlibrary.org
MEMORIAL DAY PARADE
Memorial Day, commemorating the ultimate sacrifice that service members from the Revolutionary War to present day have made to protect the freedom of our great country,
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for a calendar of events.
MILFORD LIVING ANNUAL KITE FLY
This annual event hosted by Milford Living is held at Walnut beach. This Springtime tradition draws people of all ages, who come together to send kites of all kinds aloft. The Connectikiters kite club attends with their spectacular kites and are happy to give tips to
The Milford Oyster Festival is the largest event in the city, bringing tens of thousands to our Small City with a Big Heart on the third Saturday of August (this year August 21) each Music is in the air on the land and sea beginning Memorial Day and continuing into the fall, including a wide variety of concerts to enjoy.
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attendees.
summer. Live entertainment can be found in
the Fridays After 5 free downtown summer
multiple locations, including the main stage
concerts being held at Fowler Pavilion from
on Fowler Field. A large craft fair is held on
5:00 – 8:00 pm beginning Memorial Day
the Green as well.
through July 1st. After that, the Walnut Beach Summer
MUSIC
Concert Series kicks in, held under the Rotary
Residents and visitors can take in a variety
Pavilion at Walnut Beach on Sundays from 4:00
of outdoor musical entertainment during
– 7:00 pm beginning July 3 and running through
the summer in Milford, beginning with
September 4.
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PARKS
There are numerous parks to visit for free in
Stroll through one of Milford’s many parks or walk the plank with Captain Kidd and crew on Pirate’s Day!
Milford and each has a different feel. Some, like Mondo Ponds, Beaverbrook, Wilcox
Landing. Activities and entertainment abound
and folks of all ages dress like pirates and
Park, and Solomon Woods are geared toward
in downtown Milford for the rest of the day,
enjoy the day.
folks looking for a light hike. Others, like Fowler Field and Eisenhower Park, have many different activities to offer including a playground and basketball and tennis courts. At Eisenhower Park there are trails, Bodie’s Place (a playground for children of all abilities), a summertime splash pad, pickleball and tennis courts, and a fenced-in dog park for those looking for some off-leash fun with their pup. Neighborhood parks with playgrounds
PIRATE’S DAY
A favorite Milford event will be held this year on Sunday June 5th. Pirate’s Day begins with “Captain Kidd” coming ashore at Lisman
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are scattered around Milford as well.
Milford residents, but a season pass must be obtained from the City’s Recreation Department to reserve a court. There is no cost for this pass, and it can be obtained by visiting milfordrecreation.com. There are so many free and fun things PORCHFEST
to do all year round in our Small City with a Big Heart; head on out and enjoy as many
PORCHFEST
Above: Porchfest is a fun music event that is
This eclectic event takes place all over
held on porches all over Milford. Below: Tennis
Milford, with a large variety of music offered
offers a fun way to stay fit.
for free by bands and individual musicians. Porches and front yards across the city are the venues, and past talent has included
TENNIS/PICKLEBALL
For tennis and pickleball enthusiasts
Milford’s own Jay Rowe, the Rum Runners,
Eisenhower Park, Fowler Field, and the
Emily Mager, and more. This year will be the
Anderson Avenue park provide locations
third annual Milford PorchFest. More info can
for residents to enjoy their favorite
be found at discovermilford.com.
sport. Playing on these courts is free to
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as you can!
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PHOTOS by the FALLS Generations have paused and posed in front of Milford’s iconic Duck Pond falls. BY CINDY PAPISH GERBER
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1. Sarah Brennan From Meg Brennan: “This is our daughter, Sarah Brennan, graduate of the Class of 2021 from Jonathan Law. The photo was taken by Corey Brennan, my husband/her Dad, in June 2021. The iconic falls have always been a backdrop to photos for our special family occasions, and our daughter’s high school graduation was no exception!” 2. Jessica Pitaniello Laura Salerno Pitaniello’s candid of her daughter Jessica walking with her grandfather Richard captured a unique family tradition. Richard Salerno, a past principal of Point Beach School and JFK Elementary, “took all 14 of his grandchildren on their first train ride (Milford to Stratford), followed by pancakes at a local diner and a walk to visit the waterfalls,” says Laura. “My dad truly would have loved to share this moment with others.” 3. Kristen Finnegan Kristen snapped this photo on December 4, 2015 of her children for the express purpose of using it as their annual family Christmas card. She recounts, “Jack was 14 and Molly was almost 12. They are now 20 and 18. Every year we take our Christmas card photo at a special location in Milford.”
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4. Ani Kelly Family friend Jose Serrano photographed Ani Kelly, Shaun Kelly, and their two daughters Lucine and Lenna Kelly (ages 5 and 2) on a sunny November day. So pleased with the results, Ani printed and framed them and used two for their holiday cards. “They were taken downtown because it’s my favorite part of Milford. It is super charming and so picturesque.” 5. Edona Qetta and Lorenc Dedaj Justice of the Peace Bill Healey officiated at the wedding of Edona Qetta and Lorenc Dedaj on July 14th, 2018. Their photographer, Laura St. John, reports that “on that particular day [perhaps due to weather or maintenance] the falls were turned off. But when the mayor heard the couple was eloping there he made sure they were turned back on!” 6. Kim Robert “This is Baci, a mini golden doodle”, says Kim Roberts. As Baci’s dogsitter, she’s taken him, “to the duck pond falls, beach, harbor, gazebo” and more. “He is the sweetest!” 7. Pantochino When the pandemic forced Bert Bernardi and co-producer Jimmy Johansmeyer to shift much of Pantochino Productions programming outdoors, Bert says, “we created a social media campaign featuring our mascot monkey Pantochino posing in various Milford locations. Here he is by the waterfall!”
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1. John and Debbie Nutter John and Debbie Nutter’s wedding on October 24, 1970, taken by Art Chedister. Debbie recollects being “So very happy that day. We met in the Milford high school in ‘66 and have been together ever since.” 2. Karla Hurd Carusone Karla Hurd Carusone posed in her full MHS 1979 Color Guard regalia for this photo. “Twirling rifles and flags was also a real workout experience,” she says. “We marched every parade and represented our school at every football game. It was a wonderful way to show our school spirit and make good friends for life.” 3. Rick D. and Candace A former resident of Milford, Rick D. describes his May 2016 selfie commemorating his Baton Rouge-native wife Candace’s longawaited first trip to Milford. “She immediately fell as in love with the falls as I’ve always been, and yes... we kissed on the bridge!” 4. Wendy Parent (MHS Baton Squad) “I am in the top row, far left,” said Wendy Parent. “Moe Knox took a lot of these around 1976,” perhaps for the Milford High School Yearbook.
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1. Kathleen Pirro’s Collies Breeder Kathleen Pirro’s photo of her smooth collie, Abby, relaxing at the falls with her and son Ryder, a rough-coated collie. 2. Donna Hurd Drohan, 1954 Donna Hurd Drohan treasures this photo taken by her father Mel Hurd, Sr. on Easter Sunday, 1954. Pictured are her brother, author Melville Hurd (Milford: Postcard History Series), David Armour, Donna Hurd Drohan, and Shirley Armour, David’s sister. “We were on our way to, or from, the First Church,” says Donna. Her “lovely childhood memories” include “lots of Sundays behind the Town Hall at the waterfall and pond.” 3. Jack Glagowski wife Alicia Jack Glagowski took this distinctly retro image of his wife Alicia Donegal. Alicia remembers, “Rockin’ my shearling and bell bottoms” in 1973. “That coat was the thing! But so heavy and hot, it was like wearing the whole sheep!” 4. Chuck Rumford’s lab Bailey Bailey is a 4-year-old lab mix “who loves taking runs all around Milford” with her dad Chuck Rumford. Smitten by her image, Chuck, his wife Jaclyn, and their kids CJ (15) and Chase (13) rescued her from Arkansas after seeing her picture on Facebook. “Doesn’t matter if it’s waterfall, the river at Eisenhower Park, or Gulf beach,” Chuck shares. “She loves the water!” 5. Barbara & Andrew Averna Andrew Averna from Orange, CT, and Barbara Kern Averna, who were married October 20, 1990, at Saint Mary’s Church.
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2. Kinal & Jay Kinal is a Milford native now transplanted to London, where she met Jay. Their engagement session, photographed by Ally Bowen, was taken moments after Jay’s proposal on the Green. “On his first visit, he knew Kinal’s hometown was the perfect spot to propose,” offers Kinal’s sister Roshni Patel. Having the falls serve as their backdrop reinforced “this special moment.” 1. Christi Filanowski Christi Filanowski’s husband and entire wedding party grew up in Milford. “We were married on September 20, 1974, in St. Ann’s in Devon, at a candlelight ceremony,” she recalls. It was a very warm day, so after the ceremony we headed to the Duck Pond with our photographer, Jan Baumgartner, as our guests gathered at Mary Journey’s Inn (in Bridgeport) to celebrate our union.” Pictured, L to R: KR Rainey, Joe Doehrer, Mike Filanowski, Jeff Doehrer, Jay Doehrer, Joe Filanowski, Bob Filanowski, Christi Doehrer, Nancy Doehrer, Chris Skarveles Wardwell, Carol Doehrer, June Wardwell, Donna Doehrer, Linda Filanowski. Front: John Supa
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family time Blue Crabs have adapted legs like paddles; they are swift swimmers. Jadach happily shares advice on how to lure your catch. “The best bait for crabbing is fresh fish, whether it be bait such as bunker or squid,” he says. “You can also use a fish carcass from a previous fishing trip.” The best time to go crabbing can vary. “Timing isn’t as important as much as tides. Some areas will be better with a higher tide, others better with low. I prefer low tides just for the
Be Crabby!
fact the crabs have less places to hide.”
ooking for an interesting family outing? Consider crabbing. Many Milfordites grew up crabbing and have fond memories of a stellar catch, the big one that got away, or the time one of you fell in the drink. Blue crabs are fascinating to watch, challenging to catch, and delicious to eat. Crabbing is fun for all.
for a hard shell, three-and-a-half inches for
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The blue crab resides in the shallows, scuttling sideways along the bottom in search of sustenance. Their favorite fare being clams, mussels, and oysters—you are what you eat—make them sweet and delicious. There are a few options for catching your dinner, including several types of traps,
Nets are an essential tool
scooping them up with a net, or using a throw
of the trade for kids when it
line with a hook. Jason Jadach, owner of Bobby
comes to catching crabs.
J’s Bait & Tackle has his preference for landing his quarry. “I prefer throw lines if going from the beach, marsh, or shoreline and traps for piers and bridges. Traps work much better being retrieved from above; throw lines are best when dragged in slowly,” Jadach says. “The best places for crabs are rivers and back marshes. The more mud, the better the crabbing.”
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There is no license required to crab as long as it is for personal use (yum). The state minimum width, spike to spike, is five inches a soft shell (when the crabs molt). They can grow to be nine inches across. The season runs from May 1st through November 30th.
baked, or steamed. “When it comes to the cook and prep time, I like to use a good ol’ seafood boil,” Jadach divulges. “We will mix in shrimp, potatoes, corn-on-the-cob, 12-18 blue crabs, and seasoning to your liking.” You can also enjoy them simply with some melted butter or be ambitious and concoct some crab cakes. There are so many ways to enjoy your catch. “The best part of crabbing is anyone can do it; whether they catch anything can be a test of patience and timing,” Jadach says. “I love that’s it’s fun for the whole family. Be sure to keep those young one’s fingers away
A crab boil is easy and delicious.
from those pinchers, they can bring a grown Warmer water temperatures mean crabs are
So, you landed your feast, now what?
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COURTESY OF MILFORD PUBLIC SCHOOLS
education notebook
Parent University
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he old adage rings true; it takes a village to raise a child,” says Sean Smyth and Christianne Golesky, instructional supervisors of Student Development and Wellness for Milford Public Schools. And so, the district’s Parent University was born to foster a successful partnership between parents and educators while supporting students in every aspect of their learning, as well as their physical and social-emotional wellbeing. The idea is to boost parent engagement in the space where children spend the better part of their waking day for almost half of every year. The end goal is to see healthy and happy young people reaching their full potential.
Dr. Alicia Farrell addresses a Parent University workshop on the impact of technology on the developing brain.
of Hope was the second movie screening, a documentary that explores Adverse Childhood
The 2018-2019 school year marked the inaugural run of the first set of Parent
important adult in their lives. Building on these themes, the idea grew of
Experiences (ACES), childhood trauma, toxic stress, and the movement among health
University workshops, using the annual
pairing movie screenings and conversations to
professionals and educators to use “cutting
“Freshmen Forum,” as a launching pad.
connect with parents. A viewing of the movie
edge brain science to disrupt cycles of violence,
Student participation in the forum is required,
Screenagers: Growing Up in The Digital Age
addiction, and disease.”
and parents and guardians are strongly
tackled the touchy topics of social media, video
encouraged to attend the event. Teen wellness,
games, and internet addictions and their effect
collaborated with cognitive psychologist
alcohol abuse, substance abuse, vaping, and
on academics, brain development, and the
Dr. Alicia Farrell on a Parent University
coping with and managing screen time are
relationships within a family. The conversation
entitled “Anxiety: The Monster Among Us”.
some of the topics addressed during the two-
that followed discussed solutions on setting
Following Dr. Farrell’s keynote address,
hour session. Following the forum, students
boundaries and empowering kids to find
parents were divided into breakout groups
prepare a reflective assignment based on
balance to a healthy amount of screen time.
facilitated by teachers and mental health
a conversation with their parents or other
Resilience: The Biology of Stress and the Science
professionals. Topics of discussion included
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As a follow-up to these topics, the district
Captain Garon DelMonte of the Milford Police Department and Annalies Spaziano, former
intelligence, improving a child’s behavior
Milford Public Schools Supervisor of Student
COURTESY OF MILFORD PUBLIC SCHOOLS
simple stress solutions, tools for emotional at home, and ways to promote decisionmaking with older students. The first Parent University sessions were an enormous success and continued into the following year. Dr. Farrell returned for two keynote talks that built on the original themes. “We try to focus on parent
Development and Wellness. The district pivoted to a virtual format for subsequent sessions. A casual conversation series, in the form of virtual coffee talks with Dr. Farrell, helped parents support their children as the pandemic progressed.
requests and the current needs of the time,”
workshop delved into the difficult topics of
“Dealing with Disappointment” was a hot
says Smyth in explaining how topics are
suicide, substance abuse, recovering from loss,
topic as students were faced with seeing
selected. Dr. Farrell’s discussion on the
and healthy relationships. These discussions
milestone events like end-of-year rituals,
impact of technology on developing brains
were almost prophetic.
senior sporting activities, proms, and
coincided with the roll out of the district’s 1:1 Chromebook initiative. A mental wellness
As 2020 unfolded, the pandemic began, and these topics would take on new meaning.
traditional graduation ceremonies curtailed. The district also asked its community
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education notebook partners to create a few slides detailing
emotional development of their children.
Teen Mental Health, Pre-Literacy Skills, College
the services they could provide for families
As 2021 ended, the district offered a
during this time. These were compiled and
15-minute video, created by two school
presented in a webinar that is archived on
counselors, to support parents on recognizing
the district website www.milforded.org/
stress in children, helping them cope,
sessions return soon, Smyth concedes a mixed
page/parent-university, along with other
and accessing community resources or
approach might be a good idea. “In-person
past sessions.
professional help if necessary.
allows more interaction, but virtual is
Another timely topic involved the
While the current virtual Parent University
Financing, Intentional Play, and Supporting Children Behaviorally and Academically. And while everyone hopes to see in-person
accessible to more,” says Smyth.
“Distance Learning Playbook for Parents” in
series has largely focused on supporting
In the end, no one can disagree that a
collaboration with the Milford PTA Council.
students’ social and emotional needs and
positive parent-school relationship creates
The book was co-written by New York Times
sharing resources for families during the
a powerful force to support student well-
bestselling author Rosalind Wiseman, who
pandemic, Smyth and Golesky hope to widen
being and potential. Helping parents gain
presented sessions for parents on how to
the scope of offerings to further strengthen
self-confidence as full partners in their child’s
navigate the challenges of distance learning
the alliance between parents and the school
education is a win-win for all.
while supporting the academic, social, and
community. Topics being considered include
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Making Wishes Come True
O
n August 21, 2021, after a pandemic-driven hiatus, thousands of people returned to downtown Milford to celebrate the annual Milford Oyster Festival. At the south end of the Green, in a tent adorned with gold and purple balloons, sat Christine Brown and Traci O’Brien, co-founders of a very special nonprofit organization. It was the official launch of
Six months prior to the festival,
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at your service
Senior Wish CT’s mission is to enrich the lives of senior citizens through community engagement and the granting of senior wishes. citizens were not being met.
are 100% privately-funded, tax
When presented with a limited
deductible, and go to fulfilling the
budget, even after health benefits
needs of seniors.
have been applied, there were
One very special wish provided
still non-healthcare necessities
funds to Ruth, a woman in need
neglected. Their vision would
of new tires. She was one of the
Senior Wishes CT, which was,
Traci O’Brien, a Medicare/
help improve the lives of seniors
few members of her neighborhood
coincidentally, the same day
Medicaid insurance consultant,
and affect their daily activities.
who could still drive, but the
that President Ronald Reagan
shared her dream of starting a
declared National Senior
non-profit with her friend and
plans to fruition. They founded
that she could get into an accident
Citizens’ Day in 1988. It was a
colleague, Christine Brown. Too
a board made up of volunteers,
due to the condition of her bald
day designated to appreciate and
often, they would encounter
established their 501c(3), and began
tires. Upon meeting Ruth, Brown
recognize the achievements and
times when the needs of senior
granting wishes. All donations
recalls, “it was clear that she
Brown helped to propel O’Brien’s
mechanic she visited terrified her
accomplishments of American
did more than just drive friends
seniors.
around to the doctor or market.
The purpose of Senior Wishes CT
She was an integral part of the community who ran errands
citizens through community
and went to the food pantry and
engagement and the granting
brought back food to those who
of wishes that otherwise would
could not get out. Being able to
go unnoticed or unfulfilled.”
provide her with the peace of
According to the Senior Wishes
mind that she was safe in driving
mission statement, a “healthy
around meant more than just
senior population is an important
giving her tires, it meant that
ISABELLA O’BRIEN
is “to enrich the lives of our senior
part of a strong community and, to that end, the wishes we grant will serve to enrich not only the
she could continue serving the community in which she lived.” On another occasion, Senior
beneficiary, but the community
Volunteers and donors help grant wishes by contributing their time and
Wishes CT showed up to present
they call home.”
treasure to Senior Wish CT.
an iPad to 87-year-old Jeanne,
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need. They have also partnered
anonymously gifted her one
with the company Dabblesak,
the day before. Jeanne runs the
which has many products and
social activities in her assisted
purposeful activities, curated
living community, so she passed
by occupational therapists, for
her wish to her neighbor, Allie,
seniors who are living with
a throat cancer survivor with
dementia or Alzheimer’s disease.
family in Scotland.
In addition, Senior Wishes CT has
Senior Wishes CT is making a difference in the lives of seniors by providing a
installed ramps to keep seniors
helping hand when needed.
Senior Wish CT was there to
RODGER SMITH
only to find that someone had
make sure that one woman’s
in their own homes, provided
health and wellness was
maintenance to damaged
Angel donor will match that
gmail.com. To review a list of
continued. Jean A. had been told
wheelchairs, and donated winter
contribution. If you can make a
qualifications, download or
by her doctor that she needed
clothing to those in need.
difference locally, please consider
share an application, or to obtain
supporting this cause.
information about in-person
compression stockings, which
Senior Wishes CT is always
can cost hundreds of dollars, but
looking for new donors. Upon
If you know of a senior who
they were not covered by her
completion of a $10,000
needs wish fulfillment, please
insurance. Senior Wish CT met her
donation goal, an anonymous
reach out to seniorwishesct@
and virtual fundraisers, visit SeniorWishCT.org. —Amanda Veccharelli
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Seniors Staying Healthy
G
ood health is something nearly everyone strives for. In fact, over 2,000 years ago the poet Virgil is said to have written, “The greatest wealth is health,” showing that taking measures to maintain health is not a new idea. Since good health gains even more
better. The worst thing you can do
importance as a person ages, we asked a few
is be sedentary; everyone should
of our local healthcare professionals to share
remember that activity is crucial.”
easy recommendations on how seniors can optimize their health. Dr. Sanjay Aggarwal of Milford Medical
One condition Dr. Esposito sees frequently is leg swelling, a Catch-22 for some since walking can be uncomfortable with the
Walk-In is committed to helping his patients
swelling. He encourages those with new leg
stay healthy. “Most importantly for seniors is
swelling to be checked by their physician
to have their annual well visit, which is a nonface-to-face conference with their doctor. You should also have a yearly face-to-face physical as well, to monitor vitals like blood pressure and weight and address any medical issues.” “Another important thing is to keep
and, once cleared, to continue exercising. “Often with leg swelling the veins don’t
immunizations up to date,” said Dr.
clear the blood out of the legs adequately.
Aggarwal. “In addition, anyone with a chronic
It’s usually easier to prevent than to cure but
condition should maintain their chronic care
staying active can help. Another thing that
management, seeing their physician every
can help is wearing compression socks.”
three months. And of course, healthy eating
Dr. Esposito also advises staying on
and exercise will help a senior stay healthy.”
top of the recommended regular medical
The simple advice from Dr. David Esposito
screenings. Milford Vascular Center offers
at Milford Vascular Center is, “Stay active.”
vascular screenings, aneurism screenings, as
Board certified in general surgery, vascular
well as screening for carotid artery disease.
surgery, and cardiothoracic surgery, Esposito
“We have a great senior population in
encourages all seniors to exercise. “Walking
Milford and we’re here for them.”
for 20 minutes without stopping is great for
Dr. Charles Guglin of HyperFit MD Age
heart and circulatory health and can also
Management Center focuses on functional
help keep the bones strong. Three times per
medicine, which puts prevention at the top
week is good, but more frequently is even
of the list of priorities. “Most health issues
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are lifestyle-related,” he shares. “Instead of only treating the symptoms of them, we address the underlying cause.” “Once a woman reaches menopause or a man reaches its equivalent, which is andropause, there is a decline in health due to decreased hormone levels. Bioidentical hormone replacement can help by being cardioprotective and preventing osteoporosis and osteopenia,” shares Dr. Guglin. “Lifestyle
“Walking for 20 minutes without stopping is great for heart and circulatory health and can also help keep the bones strong. Three times per week is good, but more frequently is even better. The worst thing you can do is be sedentary; everyone should remember that activity is crucial.” —Dr. David Esposito
changes are also important, including eating
curriculum-based, includes mentorship, and is
to stay healthy. “Eat less, exercise more,” was
quality food—mostly plants.”
focused on enhancing quality of life as well as
his response. “Move every day and it can help
physical health. He states his program can even
keep you happy, healthy, and keep a shine on
help with cognitive issues.
your skin.”
Since HyperFit MD is a full-service agemanagement practice, Dr. Guglin ensures that every patient gets a customized plan. Unlike regular office visits, Dr. Guglin’s practice is
Dr. Guglin didn’t hesitate to answer when asked the number one thing a senior can do
Many Medicare Advantage programs offer fitness opportunities for seniors as part of
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senior corner their benefits. These group fitness classes, which are run under a variety of brands such as Silver Sneakers, Active & Fit, and more, offer seniors the opportunity to exercise at participating locations. One such location is Center Rehabilitation and Sports Therapy. Owner and physical therapist Brian Williams extolls the benefits of exercise for the health of seniors. “Motion is lotion. The more movement a body gets the healthier it is,” he says. The low-impact exercises offered through
Maintaining health throughout our lives
this program “offer cardio benefits, range of
is a gift we can give ourselves, and we are
motion, and stretching,” shares Williams.
balance to help prevent falls and fractures.
fortunate to have so many resources to turn to
“And since falling is one of the biggest
Anything to help reduce sedentary time is
here in Milford!
hazards to the health of a senior, we work on
going to be beneficial.”
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published in the late 1800s, Manning was appointed sheriff of New York, and de facto commander of Fort James whenever Governor
Courting History
T
here are a number of historic and curious legal cases associated with Milford. Some are notorious moments in history, while others are almost comical footnotes. All are preserved in texts such as the Milford Tercentenary Committee’s 1939 book History of Milford, Connecticut 1639-1939.
The Memorable Mister Manning Charles Island isn’t the only historic island with connections to Milford’s rich history. Drive 90 minutes into New York City, take the skyway tram over to Roosevelt Island, and stand on the 17th century home grounds
Francis Lovelace was away. On August 9, 1673, the Dutch attacked Fort James and Manning surrendered, restoring pre-Manhattan to Dutch control. It was a move that caused sensational scandal and ruined Manning’s career. He was compelled to sail to England to face charges of treachery and cowardice. According to a biography of the Manning
He was acquitted of treachery but found guilty of cowardice and sentenced to have his sword broken over his head.
of Captain John Manning, who was arrested
the men abandoned the ship, and it was
family published by a relative in 1902,
in Milford in the 1600s for trading with the
brought back to Milford Harbor where, after
Manning argued he didn’t have enough men
enemy.
Manning was found guilty, his goods—beef,
to stave off the Dutch. He was acquitted of
pork, wheat, and more—were auctioned
treachery but found guilty of cowardice and
book, Manning was charged with trading
off. After the auction, according to the book,
sentenced to have his sword broken over his
with the Dutch, whose rival attempts to settle
“…twenty shillings was awarded to each
head (a humiliating punishment known as
the New World made them enemies of the
Milford man who had taken part in the
“cashiering”). He was also forbidden to hold
English. While he was on trial in New Haven
ship’s capture.”
office again.
In April 1654, according to the committee’s
for the charge, his men absconded from
That’s where Manning’s story ends in the
He spent his last days on what he had
Milford Harbor with his 10-gun trading ship,
History of Milford, but the trading captain
named Manning’s Island—now Roosevelt
apparently bound for the Dutch-controlled
would continue to make history.
Island—where according to the history books,
island that is now Manhattan. Realizing they would soon be caught,
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According to the fourth volume of Appleton’s Cyclopedia of American Biography,
he would entertain notable members of the community with rum punch.
Tomlinson’s Troubled Tavern Milford in the 1600s was a simple farming and seaside community. In 1652, according DAVID TENIERS
to the History of Milford, a weaver named Henry Tomlinson decided to settle there and open a weaver’s shop. Two years later, he opened the community’s only “ordinary” type of tavern.
An illustrated depiction of early settlers gambling in a tavern.
The problem was, however skilled Tomlinson was as a weaver, he had few skills as a cook
the village to congregate there to dance and
Peter Pond’s Predicament
and bartender.
play cards.”
A century-and-a half or so later, a man who
His meals were considered “meager and
The town seized the property from the
unappetizing,” according to the book, which
hapless barkeep a year into his venture, but
goes on to say he not only “overcharged his
he refused to leave until a court order forced
customers,” but “allowed the young people of
his eviction.
got away with murder was buried in an unmarked grave in Milford Cemetery. Peter Pond was born in Milford around 1740, and after serving with the Connecticut
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historical perspective Regiment in the French and Indian War,
Milford’s bold explorer Peter Pond.
followed in his father’s footsteps and became a fur trader in the Midwest. There, he gained
with another fur trader. “There was a duel
notoriety for his cartography, using his own
in Detroit early on where the guy insulted
explorations and interactions with the Native
him,” McDonald, a retired journalist, says,
Americans to create detailed maps.
referring to the Fort Detroit region of
President Thomas Jefferson to order the famed Lewis and Clark expedition, according to Bill
Michigan that later became the city. “That was enough for Pond to call him out.” In Pond’s journal, McDonald notes, the
McDonald, president of the Milford-based
trapper admitted to killing his rival in the duel,
Peter Pond Society, which keeps Pond’s
but boasted while he “Declard the fact” (sic) to
memory alive via research, a website, and
others, “thare was none to Prosacute me” (sic).
newsletters. McDonald described Pond as a surly man
Historical fiction author Nikki Rajala notes
UNKNOWN
It was Pond’s detailed maps that led
The third and final suspicious death, McDonald said, made Pond a marked man in
in a blog post on her website that Pond, or
Canada, leading him to return to Milford for
with a quick temper, who wasn’t in the
those loyal to him, may have been involved in
the rest of his life. He died in 1807.
Midwest very long before he got into a beef
two more murders, both in Canada.
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