Sexual Repression

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RELENTLESSDAILY “I come from a past life of

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repression that was deeply rooted in my late teens and early 20s, until my mid 30;s”

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I WONDER IF YOU (MAN or WOMAN) HAVE ISSUES WITH SEXUAL REPRESSION? I wonder if you're in control of it, if you are being controlled by it, or if you’re even aware of your sexual repression. What are you doing about it? Are you happily involved in a committed relationship? Are you happily married? Maybe you’re married, but that is merely on paper, and you still happen to be single and looking? LOL! You might understand what I'm talking about when I say that “happily involved” and “happily married” is most likely giving you the necessary physical interaction we need as human beings. My friends, hugs are important! Many times in our lives we may go through a drought. It may even be seasonal due to one of you traveling. It may be coincidental, where your significant other is on duty in the military. It may be none of that and the two of you are just poor communicators. How many of us know people who are in relationships where the sex is “labor” and not at all enjoyable? After all, mastering that relationship takes a professional approach! Women are COMPLEX BEINGS! But they can also be simple, especially if there are certain understandings between the two of you. This ain’t hard (once you know your s t u f f ! Once you’re READY to get it right!) But let me speak to my single folk out there and remind you all that even mastering average people skills takes practice. So if you're not in a position where you are around people, and you’re not interacting physically with people all day, you can experience a drought. Many people who travel know what I'm talking about. You are in some foreign place where you have no friends and you find yourself becoming more friendly with people just to fabricate a connection. If you can't create it within your work, and if you’re not already working that body to the point of exhaustion, where that comfortable pillow is callin for you, then you may find yourself wandering. You may find yourself searching for social experiences like movies and nightclubs where that


human interaction is almost necessary and anticipated. For instance, in a movie theater you know you must cope with people, whether directly or indirectly. In a nightclub, there is an expectation of boy meets girl/most clubs, anyway. Of course, coffee shops are an amazing environment to meet and connect with folks. And if you are not interacting with people, then what ARE you doing? Overdosing on porn, maybe? Oh not you. You, yeah YOU over there… you’re just busy making use of idle time, right? You’re the progressive/productive type in the world sexual who doesn’t squander idle time. Right? ;-)

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The other day I watched Beyonce’s concert film that could lead to took us behind the scenes with her traveling, being homesick, and even crying because she wanted to be at arguments, home where she was comfortable, loved and (I know) fights, and where she could receive intentional, physical affection. (How do I know that? Uhm, there’s a baby in the equation. other poor Do the math!) Yet, that home-lovin is an affection that you decisionjust don’t get on stage, and definitely can’t get from tens of thousands of fans. making. For me, it is necessary to make use of my idol time. I come from a past life of sexual repression that was deeply rooted in my late teens and early 20s, until my mid 30s. Even then I had challenges. Sure, I had that on off switch, but I know now I had issues. Today, friends jokingly say I “still” have issues. In ways I’d hafta agree; I have been random. Am I over my sexual repression? Its hard to say. Though I do know that when I have an extreme urge for affection (to be touched and to be loved) there had better be a way to exhaust that urge, or else there will be trouble! And I don't mean trouble as in violence mayhem and all things illegal.

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Some Ways To Curve Sexual Frustration Increase the amount of sex you and your partner are having or make sure that it is regular. If you and your partner are not having sex on a regular basis, make it more frequent. Regular sex is a thing which each couple should enjoy, happy couples should be having sex at least once a week, but daily is even better Be very intimate with your partner. Make sure that you love her/him dearly, and make sure that they know you love them, be very affectionate to each other, kiss heaps, hug, play with each others' parts (penis, boobs, vagina) in a discrete way and have fun, this will turn you both on and want to have sex. Talk to your partner. If you're in a relationship, the first thing you should do is tell her/him about how you're feeling and what the lack of sex or lack of exciting/ enjoyable sex is causing you to feel.

But, sexual repression could lead to arguments, fights, and other poor decisionmaking. It can fuel my imagination and my talents; but in what direction? If I’m sexually repressed, would that lead to a character’s raunchy, tyrannic actions? If I’m satisfied, would I then be more relaxed, perhaps looking to deliver more motivation and inspiration through that same character? Perhaps some sort of evolution or breakthrough he/she is experiencing? INDEED, that psychosomatic balance can weigh heavily on what a writer writes, how a boxer boxes, and how a police officer officiates! I’m thankful for my allegiance with the local chiropractor, for massages, my heavy workload and my extreme passion and dedication to my talent. And of course there’s my daily workout routine. Another truth is I get my dose of sexual intercourse every now and then. Hey, you’re either getting it, or you’re not! Some of us find release in church. They call it “catching the Holy Spirit,” when in fact (sometimes) it is merely the want to yell and scream and shout and dance and release all that pent-up energy or anxiety inside of us. Not that your want for faith and allegiance to your God is manufactured. I don't mean that in any broad sense, even though that is the truth in some instances. What I am hoping is that you're clear about the reality of our needs as human beings; our need for release. And I hope you satisfy that urge before you do or say something your regret.


Are You Pursuing Greatness? When is the last time you relaxed? When is the last time you had a days worth of water? When is the last time that you took a deep breath, not to survive but to live? When is the last time you meditated, and allowed nothingness to wash away all of your concerns, your headaches and your worries? When is the last time that you allowed your imagination to wander, to explore, to reach for the healthiness, the happiness, the Holiness and the greatness that you know awaits you?

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Friends, without these various means of release, whether mentally or physically, a person could have extreme issues. If you're not already familiar, there is something known as a psychosomatic balance; that is a balance between your mind and your body. That balance is necessary in order for you to think clearly, to perform efficiently and there are those little things known as patience and confidence. Patience affects all of us when you’re driving along the thruway, considering who has the right-of-way, who you let pass, who you don't. Someone with a psychosomatic imbalance could easily create a situation out of a coincidence. And that could lead to road rage. But road rage is a lot less likely when you have psychosomatic balance. When you’re feeling loved. Things that may have bothered you in one state of mind may not bother you in the other—the relaxed state of mind. There is an age-old rule in boxing that keeps a boxer from sexual involvement in the days leading up to a prizefight. The idea is for the fighter to maintain his stamina and energy and that desire to win the fight. That is the same stamina energy and desire that a woman expects to see and experience when her husband has been gone for a long time, or when they have not had relations for a while. If she knows her man well, she will be able to tell if he has been with another woman or if he has somehow "released" without her presence. And again, release comes in various forms and does not HTTP://WWW/EASTATLANTAMULTIMEDIA.NET

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necessarily mean sex. Jogging can get that “edge” off of one’s mind. A cold shower has been known to help. However, every one of you knows exactly what I'm talking about when I remind you of how relaxed and how at ease you are following ejaculation. Sex is the major most activity to handle that urge! And if you don’t have that satisfaction, you could very well find yourself looking for it in the wrong places! So, I will end this as I started it: how are you dealing with your sexual repression? #Relentless

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