How finding the right spouse is basic to career success

How finding the right spouse is basic to career success.

Many people believe that having a relationship has a negative effect over career success.

However, sociologists now believe that the right spouse can actually be very benefiting. If your partner supports your decisions and initiatives, you will be much more motivated to succeed at work as well. Following are some ways in which your spouse’s involvement can lead you to good growth in your career: 1. The spouse does not stand in your way When your spouse wants you to be at your best, and does not get in the way when you want to work late hours and supports you instead, you will be motivated to work harder and at the same time would always remember your responsibility towards your spouse and children.

Tip: Do something for your spouse in return when you are rewarded for your work at the office.

2. The spouse is excited about your job It can sometimes be annoying when you cannot speak to anyone about the work you do. A good spouse would take interest in what you do in the office and would try to learn of what is going on at work. This would help you feel secure of your career choices.

Tip: You should be equally enthusiastic about your spouse’s work/hobbies too.

3. The spouse is intimidated by your success Many men are intimidated if their wife is more successful than them at work. Women might even be subjected to inferiority if their husbands are earning more than them. However, if your spouse truly supports you, they would never make you feel guilty about your success at work.

Your success will only make them happy.

Tip: Never belittle your partner’s job or salary if they don’t earn as much as you do.

4. They know when to pick fights It gets annoying when your partner would not clean up after him/her-self, not do their dishes or ignore their turn to answer the phone. But if you are with the right person, they will know when you are stressed and cannot do the chores at the moment. Hence, they won’t pick a fight when they know that doing so would only stress you out even more.

Tip: Do a little extra working when you can and support your spouse in a similar way. P.s. don’t use work as an excuse to take your partner for granted.

5. They are positive and realistic Being positive about your goals and setting you up for disappointment are two different things.

Someone who loves you and truly cares about you will never be so positive as to make you too hopeful for success. Doing so can lead to utter disappointment and sadness. A good spouse would carefully analyze the situation as neutrally as possible in order to encourage you accordingly and at the same time keep you informed with all the possibilities.

Tip: If your spouse tells you something different than what you have been expecting, do not get upset or offended. Your spouse is only looking to guide you with the best interest at heart.

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