Bubbly by Reya Buenaventura

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INTRODUCING THE TAG EDITOR’S NOTE

ABOUT THE COVER

CONTRIBUTOR’S PAGE

LIGHTS ON THE DARK: UNDERSTAND THE MILLENNIALS

TH I S I S U S

things millennials should learn

COSPLAYING FOR A CAUSE

B EY O N D TH E TA G PAINTING RAINBOWS

teen dilemmas

what type of millennial are you?

life hacks 101 for teens

MILLENNIALS MOST USED WORDS

BROKEN YET THE STORY OF A TEEN FIGHTER UNBREAKABLE THE STORY OF A TEEN FIGHTER

LGBTQ IN THE MILLENNIAL ERA

THAT THING CALLED AWKWARDNESS

TH E NEW Y O U SUMMERâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;S FASHION

50:50 MODEL & STUDENT THE GIRL IS STILL HUMAN

TAG TIPS AWESOME WAYS TO DECORATE USING BOOKS

SAVE-INGS: SAVING YOURSELF AND YOUR WALLET

THE GOLDEN RULE: HOW TO FULLY ENJOY THAT CONCERT

E DITOR 'S NOTE

i Bubblies!

Let us talk about your pain. Yes, your pain. We are all entitled to feel, and as this is the first issue of Bubbly, I would take this chance to introduce to you what this magazine is all about. Actually, the subject is easy, it is about YOU.

To you who will be experiencing teenage life, to you who is currently a teen, and to you who somehow surpassed the teen-age years. More than anything else, this issue is about breaking the stereotypes we, now, millennial are accused of. And in this issue, millennial=tag, teen millennials in specific. We are the tag, the trend, because this is our time. But as our time shines, we are also thrown out of the tribe as we somehow develop and show different ways of living the modern and science world. In this issue, we do not defend, we try to understand what is said and done. We have interviews of different people with their viewpoint, and experiences. Because, guess what? Beyond those smiles and perfect selfies we take, lays the same human we all are who experience feelings aside from happiness. I wonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t hold you too long, then. Have fun reading our write-ups and let me know what you think. Feel free to e-mail me, reyaceanne@gmail.com. Weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;d love to hear from you!

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eople easily judge what they don’t understand,” this is what they say and, yes, this quotation is tested to be true and proven especially in the case of how other generations perceive and judge the teenagers of millennial era.

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The mainstream media has painted Millennials or ‘Generation Y’ today – most specifically teenagers of the millennial era – as eccentric, egotistical and narcissistic human beings who want ‘everything’ and want all of it ‘now’ or in just a snap of their fingers.

LIGHTS ON THE DARK: UNDERSTAND THE MILLENNIALS By Wilfranz Rosqueta

Maybe, just maybe, they are right but maybe, or most likely, they are wrong and they somehow misunderstood. With that, people from other generations see Millennials in the dark, casted with shadow that they don’t try to light up and try to understand but with this article, we will cast light on the Millennials and clear what other people may be too blind to see. 1. Millennials boost their self-confidence through social media Being born in an era where technology and social media platforms has been created and is still evolving and developing rapidly, Millennials has found a way to cope up and save the little self-confidence that is left with them as today’s world is full of people trying to drag you to the mud. And this is by posting their selfies or pictures of themselves on the internet. But with that, complaints are surely to come along with the words ‘nar-

cissistic’ and ‘overconfident’ on top of the list. Though, according to a research in UK, craving ‘likes’ and ‘compliments’ from different social media platforms for their photo is as similar to drug addiction and as such. Meaning, it’s not a good kind for a lifestyle as well but only if abused. Regardless, should a teenager whose ego became apparently non-existent stop trying to find a way to cope up? 2. Millennials live in their own terms Most people from different generation think that Millennials do whatever they want because they have the greatest sense of entitlement or they think they’re better than anyone. This way of thinking has been proven with a survey conducted by http:// www.dailymail.co. It is mostly implied that when Millennials are not doing as they are told, they are perceived to be belittling other people and caring only for themselves. It is used against them in fact when they don’t live in other people’s terms. Can’t someone live in their own terms? Can’t the quotation “My will is mine, I shall not make it soft for you” of Aeschylus be implicated to them as well? 3. Millennials are opinionated and active With the issue regarding the hidden agenda or the burial of Ferdinand Marcos at ‘Heroes’ Cemetery’, it has been established that teen Millennials today are indeed aware of what is happening in their environment and they speak their thoughts when they believe they are right. With this, they initiated rallies and oth-

With that comes of how to prove them wrong, of how the Millennials will prove them wrong in the next 20 years as they will dominate the population and workforce of the world. er ways of protests in universities, roads and other venues to express their opinions. And also because of that, they are said to be ‘aggressive’ and ‘uneducated youth who loves to run off their mouth. But compared to other generations, Millennials just don’t remain passive when oppressed; they are not aggressive but opinionated and active. 4. Millennials are not worst as they are portrayed to be According to research of http://www.vox.com, though the percentage of teens in the US who smoked twenty years ago had been 34.8 percent, teens today had reduced the count to a shocking 10.8 percent. While in the same timeline, teenagers before who binge drink had been 46 percent while the count today had decreased to 21 percent – some teenagers today have never even known the taste of alcohol. It’s shocking but these are all facts. Up ‘til now, Millennial teenagers today is degraded because of what has happened to their past.

According to thoughtcatalog. com from Ms. Alexandra Lasicâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s article last 2016, as she is a millennial herself, she felt the need to share lessons every millennial should know about this generation-our generation.

FOR A CAUSE By Cereza Bulatao

Cosplay as a hobby

“Seeing the smiles and happiness from the children was a great feeling,” those are the words full of genuine passion and enthusiasm from Mr. Arnel Serioso also known by other cosplayers and young kids as Trooper Akagi (TK 4564), a member of the 501st Legion Philippine Garrison which is a worldwide “Star Wars” costuming organization led and operated by its fans. Arnel is a 40 years old cosplayer that works as a software test coordinator when he is not wearing his costumes to attend some cosplaying events. When asked how he started off in his hobby of cosplaying, he stated that it all began when he wore a costume for a party in his work and then a friend of his asked him if he would like to wear it (the costume) while attending a cosplay convention.

“I do attend conventions before, but only as a con. (Convention) goer only, but attending a convention wearing a costume was a different feeling,” Serioso added.

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COSPLAYING

osplay is almost considered as a new and rising hobby among the young generations, for cosplaying lets you act and dress as your favourite anime or even game character that promotes self expression, arts and individuality, in which most people would think that cosplay is only for the young, but what if it was done for a cause by a midaged man?

HAVING FUN. Serioso in his portrayals of characters and mall shows.

“It would all be

worth it to see the smile and joy you can give on young kids and also to some kids at heart”

-Arnel Serioso 12

Passion and Expression Arnel started his passion in cosplaying since 2011, his first pariticipation in the regular cosplaying scene, then eventually joined the 501st Legion Philippine Garrison that participates in showcasing and promoting the film “Star Wars” and supports charities and also does hospital visits for kids, in which he added as what he really love doing for young kids. He stated that almost every character that he did a cosplay for are almost all of his favorites, but when asked what are his top picks would be he said that it would be his “Star Wars” costumes because he usually wear those for his group’s charitable works along with his cosplay for Saito Hajime and Aoshi Shinomori from “Rurouni Kenshin” or most known as “Samurai X”. Also he shared that with that costume, he became part of a Philippine mall premiere show of a film a few years ago that gave him the chance to meet the Japanese cast of that film. Also, Arnel added that joining cosplay competitions is all about the experience and fun, in which according to him he won few as well, but for him it is really all about expression and dressing up. Enjoyable and Fulfilling

Right now at present, Trooper Akagi is preparing for a convention to be held in Helsinki, Finland this coming April of this year for he was invited to represent his organization, 501st Legion Philippine Garrison, and also for an

upcoming event on the 4th of May to be held here in the Philippines. Aside from those schedules, he said that he will regularly try to do hospital visits for the kids.

“My family and relatives are very proud of me,” Serioso added passionately when asked what his family’s reaction toward his cosplaying activities. When I inquired what is his advice for anyone who would like to try out cosplaying yet feels hesitant in doing so because of some negative connotations, he humbly answered that cosplay is a hobby, and it isn’t a cheap one. Instead, it is quite pricey but it would all be worth it to see

the smile and joy you can give on young kids and also to some kids at heart. He also said to always bear in mind that cosplaying is an expression, not dressing to impress where you would meet new friends in the community; to not pay any attention to what others would negatively say, because just like for him, even if he is in his 40’s and still doing what he loves and enjoys, age is just a number and one should do what they love as long as they don’t trample others.

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s a 19-year old girl currently struggling to survive my life against all odds, I am aware that teenagers like me are experiencing some of those so-called teen dilemmas. Let me just clear how I define a ‘teen dilemma’. It is a concern which we, the teens of millennial generation, are considering as if it’s a big problem, but in reality, it is not. We tend to be overly dramatic because of these matters resulting to overreaction and exaggeration.

Let me now list down the top 4 dilemmas that teens are experiencing. Teen Dilemma Number 1: ‘Walapa-akong-assignment-bukas-naang-deadline’ Indeed, procrastination at its finest. The assignments were given, like, a week or a month ago; and here we are, always cramming perfectly because the deadline of submission is tomorrow and we haven’t done anything yet.

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By Princess Fajardo

Few days before the deadline, it is always funny how we rant and exclaim over the loads of school works that our professors dumped upon us but forget the fact that they gave these assignments or projects ahead of time. We were already given a lot of time to finish them, thus, it is solely our fault for not doing it early. Teens nowadays, seem to practice procrastination and master it in some point. The best solution for this dilemma is to be more responsible when it comes to accomplishing your school works to avoid cramming

before your deadlines.

Teen Dilemma Number 2: ‘Gusto-ko-mag-ipon-pero-gusto-korin-kumain’ This is a common problem for teenagers like me. We like to dream about buying this or that stuff but what stops us from doing so is also ourselves. For food lovers like me, we cannot resist the urge to splurge on mouthwatering foods resulting for our extra money meant for other things to be spent on our cravings. Then after submitting to our selfish hunger, we become annoyed and irritated that we have no money for other things. Look how teens react on little things like this. It is really funny watching someone complaining that he or she has no money while chewing a piece of bread or drinking a cup of shake. Indeed, we are always creating our own little problems. Teen Dilemma Number 3: ‘Latena-ako-kahapon-pero-late-parin-ako-ngayon’ Another common dilemma for teens especially students is tardiness. We kept complaining how we are always late in class but we do not make any move to change this routine. We kept using many excuses to cover for ourselves. Blaming the traffic, your alarm clock that did not ring, your mother who did not wake you up and even the dream that you had that kept you from waking up early! You already know that the roads in your place are under construction, resulting to heavy

traffic. Why not wake up an hour earlier than usual? This will save you from being late to school. There are many ways for us to avoid being late to our appointments. We just have to understand the importance of being punctual at all times. Teen Dilemma Number 4: ‘Gusto-ko-ito-pero-ayaw-ko-pala’ Hail inconsistency! As far as I observed, a teenager is one of the most inconsistent animal alive. Example, one minute ago, she decided that she would pursue the field of Medicine. She took the entrance exam, passed it and enrolled. After a few months of studying, she said she couldn’t take it anymore. She exclaimed that medicine is not for her and shifted to Business Administration. See? Teenagers live in a world of inconsistencies. Their minds are unpredictable; sometimes you will not be able to understand how it works or if it works at all. But illogical and unreasonable they may seem to be, teenagers are some of the most wonderful creatures alive. Their impulsiveness and their eagerness to try new things result to countless accomplishments and achievements in the end. It is not bad to be undecided with a lot of things, but maybe just try being a little bit more consistent than you are right now. A little consistency won’t hurt!

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life hacks 101 FOR TEENS By Princess Fajardo

n order to manage time and daily activities in a more effective and efficient way, the so-called life hacks existed. Let’s define what a life hack is. According to Wikipedia, Life hack (or life hacking) refers to any trick, shortcut, skill, or novelty method that increases productivity and efficiency in all walks of life. Life hacks are things which can make our life a lot easier than it is. Either for academic or recreational purposes, teenagers nowadays are the most eager ones to use these kinds of tricks. Here is a list of 30 must-try simple yet clever life hacks made especially for teens like you! 1. Make a password into a goal of yours so you constantly have to be reminded of it. Try it! 2. Never use your favorite song as your alarm clock, you’ll end up hating it. 3. Storing batteries in the freezer can up to double their life span. Interesting, right? 4. Learning a new language? Try to find a translation of your favorite book when you were 9-12. This might help you a lot! 5. When proofreading, read aloud to yourself. Your mouth will catch

6. Life tip: when nothing goes right, go to sleep. 7. Exhale when your left foot hits the ground to avoid cramps while running. 8. Need to test a printer? Print the Google homepage, it has all the colors and uses almost no ink. 9. Life Tip: The greatest things never come from inside your comfort zone. 10. If you put your fingers in ice water immediately after painting your nails, the paint will dry instantly! 11. Drinking two cups of water before meals can make you lose an average of 4.5 more pounds within 12 weeks than if you don’t. 12. You’re 50% more likely to remember something if you speak it aloud instead of simply reading it over and over. 13. Drinking two glasses of Gatorade can relieve headache pain almost immediately without the unpleasant side effects caused by traditional pain relievers. 14. Using your phone while it’s charging can damage the battery. This is why the cords for chargers are so short. Get it?

15. Having trouble sleeping? Looking at photos of other people sleeping triggers a response in your brain that can make you feel more tired. 16. Drinking a cold glass of water in the morning will wake you faster than a cup of coffee. A must for those who have low caffeine tolerance! 17. Want to find a job after college? Be friends with as many people as possible in your filed but on pace to graduate 1-2 years ahead of you. 18. Trying to quit smoking? Lick a little salt with the tip of your tongue whenever you feel the urge to smoke. This is said to break the habit within a month.

23. You are more likely to remember something you’ve written in blue ink than something you’ve written in black ink.

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ing your phone while it’s charging can damage the battery. This is why the cords for chargers are so short. Get it?

Smiling for 60 seconds can instantly improve your mood. Try it!

21. Smiling for 60 seconds can instantly improve your mood. Try it! 22. You can remember the value of pi (3.1415926) by counting each word’s letters in “May I have a large container of coffee.” Smooth!

25. Life Tip: The easiest way to keep people from getting involved in your personal problems is to not post them on the internet. 26. When you’re thinking about buying something you don’t necessarily need, imagine the item in one hand and the cash in the other. Which one would you take? 27. An iPad charger will charge your iPhone much faster. Cool? 28. To remove gum from hair, dip into a small bowl of Coke, leave for a few minutes. The gum will wipe off.

19. If your phone battery is really low and you need it for later, don’t turn it off. Instead, put it on airplane mode. Turning it off and on will waste more battery life. 20. The Two-Minute Rule: If you see something that needs doing, and it can be completed within two minutes, do it immediately.

24. Having trouble sleeping? Blink fast for a minute. Tired eyes help you to fall asleep.

Having trouble sleeping? Blink fast for a minute. Tired eyes help you to fall asleep.

29. Taking a quick nap after learning something new can solidify that memory in your brain. 30. Always be ten minutes early to everything. After some time, it will become a habit and you’ll never be late to anything again. There you go! 30 life hacks made just for you! Another life tip, my dear readers! Remember that success is not the key to happiness. Rather, happiness is the true key to success! If you love what you are doing, you’ll be successful. Keep that in mind!

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everyone’s life ain’t easy and she is a living example, this girl has survived most of it but is still surviving life

he was five years old when everything fell apart. The marital bond binding her parents suddenly was severed. She was scared, she was alone and she was broken. But not for long, because she was a fighter. And until now, she is. It is never easy to accept that your once happy and complete family got broken in just a blink of an eye. TJ Audrey Inson, 19 years of age, shared how everything that happened changed her whole life and made her a better version of herself.

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THE STORY OF A TEEN FIGHTER

By Princess Fajardo

“May isip na kasi ako no’ng nagkahiwalay sila. So, ang initial reaction naman talaga ng isang bata di ba ay umiyak? Basta aware na ako noon na aalis si mama at hindi na babalik. Nasaksihan ko ‘yong pag-alis ni mama at pinipigilan ako noon ni papa dahil sumasama ako.”, she narrated. TJ Audrey, who I fondly call TJ, is a very bubbly and lively type of girl who always has that sparkling smile in her lips every time I see her. She never fails to complete anyone’s day with her animated stories and cheerful laughs. It is not obvious on how she acts that she is carrying a burden in her chest. When asked what she did to cope up with her parents’ separation, she shared, “Noong bata ako, ang ginagawa ko ay makipaglaro lang sa mga pinsan ko, ganon. Saka yo’ng mga lolo at lola ko hindi naman ako pinabayaan. Ngayon, pananalangin nalang ginagawa ko para hindi

ako ma-depress ng todo.”

She added, “Sa totoo lang, nahihirapan ako. Alam mo ‘yong pakiramdam na ako ‘yong unang anak, legal pa pero heto naiwan akong mag-isa. Palagi nalang. Ako nag –a-adjust makisama sa bawat isang pamilya. Sobrang hirap. Pero kinakaya ko. Para sa sarili ko. ” Indeed, the lady whose favorite color is blue fought and is still fighting against life’s trials upon her. Although everything is surreal at first, she accepted everything and move forward towards her future. She is a fighter, but even a soldier deported in war had his moment of weakness. TJ felt another blow of sadness when her mother left to work abroad. Still, she stood strong.

“Masaya na malungkot. Syempre, sino ba naman ‘yong gusto na magtrabaho ang magulang sa ibang bansa para mangatulong. Pero okay na din kasi para naman ‘yon sa pangtustos sa pag-aaral ko.”, she said with a smile. It takes so much courage and determination to be able to take in everything that happened in TJ’s life. She had to adjust and try to live normally with her parents’ new families. Sometimes, it was hard; sometimes it’s easy as breathing. And those sometimes will be ‘always’ now because her life will never be the same as when she was four years old. Nevertheless, the small yet wonderful lady with a big heart never ceases to amaze me. She made me understand

“She is a fighter, but even a soldier deported in war had his moment of weakness.” that even when you have a rollercoaster kind of life, there are still many reasons to smile and continue living to the fullest. Currently, bubbly TJ who loves singing and daydreaming, is a 2nd year Food and Service Management student in Bulacan State University. She intends to finish her studies and create a bright future for herself and her family-to-be. When asked what she has to say to those who are experiencing the same situation as her, “May dahilan ang Diyos kaya nangyari sa atin ‘to. Patuloy lang mangarap at tupadin ito. Huwag magpatalo sa problema. Alam kong mahirap ang sitwasyon natin. Isipin nalang natin na kapag tayo naman dumating sa puntong magpapamilya na, huwag nating hayaan na humantong tayo sa gano’ng sitwasyon. Ang magiging anak natin ang lubos na mahihirapan at masasaktan. At lagi din nating tandaan na mahal tayo ng ating mga magulang. Maging silbing inspirasyon ang nangyari sa atin para matupad ang lahat ng ating pangarap. Higit sa lahat, manghawak tayo sa Diyos dahil kailanman ay hindi Niya tayo pababayaan.” , she finished with a smile.

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awkward adj. || causing or feeling embarrassment or inconvenience

friend turned lover is a fine thing, but how come a lover turned friend is a one in a million chance?

THAT THING called awkwardness

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For the record, I am a teenager, and yes I’ve had and am still having these awkward situations I want to get rid of, myself. It was a series of getting to know each other, MU (mutual understanding), separation tendencies, and separation eventually to strangers. Of course, we all experience one or two of these ‘lover-turned-stranger thing’ after all the butterflies eventually died. And it left me wondering why it is always awkward after these parts of your teenage life. I mean, it is not a bad thing to be awkward but I see it as a bad thing when after all the years, friendship just won’t be back!

well, right? (Defensive mode: on *smiles*) Mine has been about three years now, and it is crazy how every time we meet, awkwardness consumes us that even a simple “Hi, how are you?” can’t be uttered. While others may think that we still have the thing for each other, the answer is a big no. This is not a matter of being in denial; it is a matter of telling the truth.With that in mind, I have thought that may be science or psychology has something to say about it. But, how can psychology and science answer that when they think that love comes from that part of the brain while everyone else thinks it’s from the heart? And so, I came up with my own reasons. First, people around us affects us the most, these people who teased us, who teases us, and who will continue to tease us. They make things awkward for a reason; it is hard to act knowing that all eyes are on the both of you.

Second, if the separation This is not me purely on wasn’t good at all. Definitely, this an experience basis, like, I can is a factor. Because upon seeing learn from other’s experiences as that person again, hurtful events

will just come through you, seeing it all in his/her face like a projector. Third, my list can go on and on, but I’ll stop with this: One of the things I’ve learned about life is that feelings never die nor decrease. You may not like the person like before, but seeing that person will always be a reminder that once in your life, you both had this thing with each other. On the brighter side, that awkwardness we all felt is a reminder that, somehow, good and memorable things have happened in our life – that some of which are worth remembering. So, I think this is a thing all teenagers must experience. Falling in and out of love, being vulnerable and being immature, and being awkward every time something ends because through these things we only not learn, we know. And in the end, knowing makes all the difference.

-An open letter from me to you, and to everyone else

“There’s a difference sa pagitan ng tolerance and acceptance at tolerance that’s what they’re giving us and we don’t need it. What we need is acceptance” -Paulo mendiola

P A I N T I N G LGBTQ IN THE MILLENNIAL era

colors, 1 flag, the symbol of their community. It’s no secret that the rainbow flag has been and will always be the symbol of the community that we call the “LGBT” or “LGBTQ” or in unabbreviated term “Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transexual, Queer” community or people who are deemed to be an abomination for not being attracted to their opposite sex.

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Besides, it’s not a secret that this group of people has been through a lot from the past, and even until now, they’re still fighting for their rights that was stripped away from them by their society. But as the world continues to revolve and as the mind of people slowly shifts and alters, what is the current status of this community in the millennial era? Let’s find out. Identifying himself as part of this community as a bisexual and coming out to his friends 2 years ago, Paulo Mendiola, aged 19, has always known there is some-

thing different about him that other people would consider normal. But despite knowing that, he kept it to himself at first as he feared of what the society would think of him but not until he could no longer keep the box unsealed as the truth tried to choke him.

“Alam ko na may kakaiba sa akin sa mga taong tinatawag ng iba na ‘normal’ pero I tried na i-deny kung ano talaga ako. Ngayon college ko lang talaga nalabas kung ano talaga ang sexuality ko. Una kong sinabihan best friend ko tapos mga kaibigan ko. Hindi nag-

bago ‘yong pakikitungo nila sa akin dahil wala naman talagang nagbago sa akin, sinabi ko lang talaga sa kanila kung ano ang preference ko,” Paulo said enthusiastically. As he felt the acceptance of his friends regarding his preference, Paulo couldn’t hide the joy of his heart and felt like he breathed for the first time. Just as much to his delight, he acknowledges that the reason why his friend were easily to accept of what he is was because people in this era has been more welcoming of other things compared to the past.

“Nakakatuwa lang sa panahon ngayon na mas marami na nakikipaglaban kasama LGBT sa mga rights nila. Lalo na mga Millennials ngayon kahit hindi sila part [ng community]. Iba kasi pag-iisip ng mga Millennials ngayon kumpara sa ibang generation sa totoo lang... Mas open-minded at hindi nila binibigyang pansin ang orientation ng isang tao. Mas nagfo-focus sila sa kung ano mismo ang personality at kung ano nagagawa ng isang tao,” he shared his thoughts. Though he believes that Millennials are more accepting to the issues regarding the LGBT community, Paulo knew as well that they fight for other socio-political issues of the society that other generations divert their eyes from.

“Hindi lang naman sa LGBT issues mulat ang mga Millennials ngayon pati na rin sa corruption, racism, sexism, rape jokes, mga bagay na hindi naman talaga tama at dapat talagang i-oppose.

Mulat talaga ang Millennials ngayon at palaban sila sa mga bagay na hinahayaan lang ng ibang generation,” Paulo said. Truly, the members of millennial era response has been warmer compared to other generation’s reaction regarding the LGBT but Paulo hopes that that day when everyone will be accepting, not tolerating of what they are as people will come someday. With that, Paulo also shared that there’s a big difference between people accepting them and people tolerating them as they go in a relation with the same sex.

“There’s a difference sa pagitan ng tolerance and acceptance at tolerance that’s what they’re giving us and we don’t need it.

What we need is acceptance... Sa ngayon, hindi ko masasabing tanggap ang LGBT ng buongbuo ng mga tao. May mga tao kasi na hanggang sa ngayon sinasabi nilang tanggap nila kami pero hindi nila magawang suportahan mga pinaglalaban namin,” he said. It will continue to go on – the fight for the rights of the LGBT and for them to be accepted not only by Millennials but the entirety of society. And just like the flag that symbolizes their community raised and soaring in the sky will never waver and its colors will always remain vibrant, their hopes for an attained freedom and acceptance will never break and will always be bright.

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One of the picks for bohemian style is the maxi dress that would fit your ‘I’m-a-little-conaservative’ look. With this dress, you can achieve your complete bohemian look once you pair it with long necklace, bangles and a summer hat. But if you want to be a little sexy with your outfit, you can try the bohemian look using jumpsuits with cardigan poncho. Viola! You’re now ready for summer selfies.

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Nowadays, bohemian look is one of the trendsetting summer styles in the Philippines that can fulfill the ‘wow’ looks for girls like you.

According to Mikka Padua, Women of Allure 2016 awardee, dresses and jumpsuits are easy to style because they are throw-on-and-go types that can easily be dressed up or down.

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FOR WOMEN

FOR WOMEN Since the weather is really boiling hot, I bet, some of you don’t prefer to wear jeans. That’s why I’m willing to give you options that you might love. And it’s the trendy look with off shoulder top paired with skirt (mostly above the knee) or high waist shorts. It’s perfect! You’re comfy and still on latest path of fashion.

Just like what was said in most blogs, jeans are still the fashion staple of all time. But since this is a new era, let me introduce to you the jeans of millennials girls, the so-called boyfriend jeans.

Off shoulder fashion style started in 2015 in the Philippines, then bloomed in the year 2016, and still on its peak this 2017. So it’s not ‘laos’ okay? This attire is the best thing to wear when you’re going on resorts or beaches. Why? Because aside from the neat and fresh feeling with this look, your high waist can be your swimwear as well. Since bra and high waist are also ‘in’ swimwear this summer, your short has a double purpose then.

Boyfriend jeans are best for girls who love wearing pants. Just pair it with any tops – be V-neck shirts, button-downs or simple tees will all do. Plus wear flats, heels or stilettos to complete the attire. You can be the simplest yet gorgeous teen with this!

FOR MEN

FOR MEN If you are the kind of guy who’s not comfortable with shirts, you can pair off your ‘sando’ with button down shirt and skinny jeans (if this is the type of cloth you’re comfortable with). In fact, for Stephen Garcia, a fashion blogger, button down shirts are versatile in all aspects of fashion. Mean, you can wear it for casual, formal or classy looks. Just like with the blazers, you can also take off the button down shirt, if you want to show your biceps to the crowd. Oh, but remember, you must wear a very neat white ‘sando’ if you don’t wanna be embarrassed, okay?

Unlike girls, boys are not that complicated when it comes to fashion statements. Their clothing style is simpler but the fashion is still there. A plain shirt and blazer paired with short is the best example of clothing which can give you the simple yet fashionable look – and it is the best style for guys nowadays. It is good to wear for summer vacations because you can take off the blazer anytime the weather changes. Oh come on, this might happen. Remember? Climate change? You know, bloggers in pinoyguyguide.com used to say that blazer always saves the day. You can be formal with it or sometimes use it as part of your everyday fashion style. Swear, this one would be a good thing for you.

FOR MEN

You must now prepare your newest ripped jeans and pair it with your patched or plain shirt. It would be better if you also use a cap or checkered polo around your waist. It is not too formal nor too plain, but you’ll got that ‘wow-you’re-notbaduy-anymore’ factor.

50-50 MODEL & STUDENT

the girl is still a human

By Reya Buenaventura

rowing up, teens nowadays take maturity in all forms possible and it wouldn’t be a shock on how some reach theirs in a certainly different way than others did. This 18 year old girl chose her own path – in the runway, as a model. But that didn’t make her less of a

bigger names the moment I was signed to Art Personas, they helped booked me for Manila Fashion Festival where I got to walk for famous and aspiring designers namely Bengt Enrique, Joy Chicano, Renan Pacson, Mean Marquez, Goethe Institut, TW Steel, Sari Lazaro. I also got the privilege to be chosen as one of the models for a Rustan’s endorsement shoot that features make up products they have and

they know each other even if it was only their first meeting then.

ways on how to apply them and the techniques girls can use. I also did an instructional video shoot for a Japanese Skin Care Line, Zeal Cosmetics.”

themselves on and off stage. But I also look up to contemporary people who choose to be themselves in this world of uncertainty; they are Emma Watson, Natalie Portman, Rupi Kaur, Cara DeLevigne. They are an inspiration to all young people to be in touch with the world around us”.

While working on being a model, she aspires on inspiring her fellow youth through the world she now takes part in. And like a model, she holds a list of personalities which she admires at the moment, her peg as we call.

“I think it’s all about striking a balance, being able to be spontaneous but calm at the same time”

“I have a thing for beauty queens for I admire how they handle

person, that didn’t make her absolutely different because behind all the lavish clothes and heavy make-up lies a teenager, still figuring out how the world works. HER RUNWAY Introducing: Joanna Day, 18, half Filipino, half Australian. In an interview, she recalled her first modelling experience, stating that she started it way back, around 4-5years of age. (Man, this girl was born to nail the runway and cameras!) It started as a play, w As her modelling career boosted, no doubt, Art Personas Management (a modelling management, taking care of models with potentials), signed her up which opened a lot of opportunities for her.

“I started getting exposed to

But with a lot of experiences, she had a memorable one when she did a shoot for SoFa Design Institute students for their portfolio. She loved the vibe it gave off, the familiarity and the feeling that

On some note, she also mentioned international and local

models such as Candice Swanepoel, Gigi Hadid, Olivia Culpo, Megan Young, Kylie Verzosa, Pia Wurtzbach.

breaks to focus on full time modelling, but every day is a chance to be a greater model than before.”

“I can’t know for certain (what the future holds) but I know that modelling is a part of me that I cannot take away from myself”.

HER AS HERSELF

HER STUDIES/PRIORITIES Besides being a model, Joanna Day doesn’t neglect her priorities, which is her studies. Way back in high school, she was in the Science High section in her school, and now, Day is taking up BS Applied Physics in the University of the Philippines Diliman (Whew!). Thus, proving that choices make a person, and she knew hers.

“The struggle is to not fully engage yourself, to hold back especially on days that school requires you to be there. Studies has always been a top priority of mine and I find it hard to choose between your passion and the future education holds. But we can always manage to find time to do the things we love, there will always be weekends and summer

As people tend to say, “Do not get lost in the process”, it is amazing how this teen manages to keep her head above water. It may be usual for people to say that anything is possible through time management but not everyone can prove it right. But this girl is definitely having the best time of her life, the best possible way she can.

“I like to enjoy my life to its fullest, so whenever I’m not studying I’ll try to go out as much as I can, go out with friends, watch sports games, have occasional fun shoots with my friends , see a movie with my sister, go on food trips, have a scenic view while running or biking. As much as I love the outdoors I do enjoy the solace of home, being at home with family, reading a good novel, experimenting in the kitchen. I think it’s all about striking a balance, being able to be sponta-

neous but calm at the same time. You’ll have to be mature and professional at work but at the end of the day you’ll take off all your clothes and still be there, a teen facing the world, growing up one day at the time”. She knows that at the end of every shoot, and at the end of every school day, what she’ll see in the mirror is not a matured woman, but rather a teenager still figuring out how things will work out. And at the end of this runway, Day has something she wanted to convey to every dreamer, and to every young people of this generation who felt wrong at one point in their lives.

“We, young people, struggle to become a person both in sync with the past and the present. There is too much pressure on us that we forget to be ourselves to be who we really are. May you always find the courage to listen to your heart and never let yourself be blinded by the bright lights the future may hold. Keep yourself on the ground, grounded. Please remember that there’s always one person who belives in you, you”.

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AWESOME WAYS

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ks o o b g n usi e t a r o c to de By Cereza Bulatao

BOOKS ARE NOT ALWAYS FOR KEEPS, THEYâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;RE ALSO FOR DESIGN

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ven though we are certainly in a very digital world where everything you want to know or read, even if it is about news, novels, comics and magazines can be found to have a digital version of it. Still, many among us still yearn for that feel and smell of new and loved books that it are still part of our homes; and good thing that book is one of the most versatile and widely used for its stylish yet minimalistic effect. And even if you only have a single piece of book, don’t falter. It might not be as more attention grabber unlike a stack of books put in a certain place in the room, that one book can give off a subtle yet also an effective way to put ornament the simple ways. With that, here are some of the effective ways to use books as decorations.

Books on side table Your own room could also be a very nice place to put your book collection in style. If you don’t have a bookshelf, your bedside table could also be of use as an alternative and it is the addition of those other ornaments on your shelf that would help your book collection stands out more. Create a tower And if you have a vast collection of books, you can create a tower out of those which is also a per-

ares of brit+co.com a piece of wood attached on the trunk part of a fireplace is a good place to give you some extra space, which if you’re thinking of stacking some of your books with or filling it up to the brim is a-ok, but because Philippines is a tropical country and there is no need for a fireplace, you could substitute it with an old bookshelf with the typical height of a fireplace and some vignettes would definitely add some persona to it that would give off a cozy and library vibe. Fill it from floor to ceiling

Decorate small stacks of books with flowers According to everygirl.com, one of books’ great characteristics especially in styling is that it could go well alongside other decorative ornaments in our homes. And one of those that go well with books are flowers. Those two goes well together mostly when there is a stack of books and a vase with fresh flowers on top that would give off a sense of home to your visitors instead of a staged exhibit of your books.

fect and great way to show off your love for your books. Also, it would be an ideal way to add height to the space in your room, and according to decoist.com, you should pick the colors and sizes you would match for your book tower for it is essential in creating an aura in your room. Fireplace turned bookshelf While according to Reyna Caz-

If you have a wide array of book collection that your bedside and coffee table cannot handle anymore, Preview.ph got your back with this style tip and hack they have, and that is by investing on good, sturdy and tall bookshelves that would cradle all of your beloved babies. Those would also be a great opportunity to showcase your big love for books and would definitely be an accent in the room even with little or no vignettes to add on it.

By Reya Buenaventura

SAVE-INGS SAVING YOURSELF AND YOUR WALLET

pending and saving is a very dangerous combination teens tend to use nowadays. It is ironic how people can spend while they save, seems impossible but what else isnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t, right? And while they may be a lot of tips and advices the online platform may give, not all is applicable and effective. So, Bubbly took the liberty and chance to bring some down to your fingertips. (So that there will be things that can stay with us (like money), we must learn how to hold back and learn when to let go).

DEFINE WANTS AND NEEDS Setting ground rules is a good thing but remember, you are your own biggest enemy. Your heart and mind may say two different things but you shouldn’t be shaken up! (Keep it balanced and simple, do not let your heart win at everything or else you’ll be left with nothing). Hence, the definition of your wants and needs will come, ask yourself every time you’re planning to open that poor and overused wallet of yours.

School situation: You NEED to eat. You WANT to, in a fast food chain. That is a big NO then, as a lot of cafeterias in school offers a great deal without having to empty your entire allowance of the day.

DEFINE WANTS AND NEEDS

Mall situation: Buying something you saw because of the racing heartbeat you felt the time you saw it. No, that’s not practical! Let’s not be blind of the things we see the first time. Think.

REWARD YOURSELF Creating a list of what you want to buy is the most effective way to push yourself to save more, as you can see the end result already - having what you want. It gives a different feeling when you’re able to buy something you tried to save hard for. It pays off. (So, don’t rush, take it easy). Mall situation: Add whatever made your heart race in your wish list, upon saving money, come back for it, see if it’s still worth it and see if it still made your heart race, because maybe, it was just “like at first sight”. Think of saving money as saving yourself from heartbreak and waiting for the right person. It takes time but it is worth the wait. You carefully think of who, what rather, is worth spending for.

TIP#2

(ONCE IN A BLUE MOON BASIS) Cutting of your slack every time and knowing that you did a good job deserves some recognition, buy yourself something you desperately want this time, but be smart of your choices as you don’t want to regret anything. Treating yourself something after all the academic or non-related stress you’ve been through is a great thing and you’d appreciate it more. School situation: You haven’t eaten in fast food chains for quite a time now, school’s been a mess. Go! Treat yourself! You deserve it!

TIP#4

CREATE A WISH LIST

part ii. letting go

TIP#3

There may be established meanings for both words, but interpretation varies from a person to another. Set ground rules on what you consider as a need and a want. Make it clear to your dictionary that it is properly defined. Need is something you desperately need and not something you’re just desperate to have.

sources: http://www.wikihow.com/Budget-Your-Money-As-a-Teen / http://moneysavingdude.com/ways-to-save-money-as-a-student/

movie screenshots from the film “Confessions of a Shopaholic”

PART I. HOLDING BACK

TIP#1

HOW TO FULLY ENJOY THAT CONCERT By Wilfranz Rosqueta

67 p h o t o s f r o m E XO c o n c e r t ’s c o n c e r t / s o m e f r o m A r a n e t a C o l i s e u m ’s p a g e

THE GOLDEN RULE:

comfortable yet still makes you feel good. Be well-dressed without getting stressed!

“ our dream in flesh” – this is most likely the best way to describe everything for that special day of yours while holding that piece of paper you call your entry pass to a certain venue – a venue that will witness what you may say with a bliss-filled voice ‘one of the best nights’ of your life. With the blast of music from gigantic speakers still ringing on your ears and pain on your throat from too much screaming, yes, it will definitely be unforgettable! Tons of concert tours have been going around in all sides of the world, performed by various artists and idols as the industry of music continues to grow and spread its different messages in diverse languages. And of course, as Millennials in this modern day, we wouldn’t pass up the chance to attend a concert even once in our entire life. Well, I dare say, it is written down in our bucket list. And so, if you are planning of attending one as a first timer and you’re feeling nervous and ignorant as I did before of what you should and what you should not do, fear no more because I am here to guide you in your way to the one of the best nights of your life. Are you ready? Here is the list of everything you should know!

4. Know the lines and join the ‘choir’ It’s embarrassing not knowing the songs being played in the concert especially when other fans around you are side-glancing at you because your lips are shut so you should definitely memorize them. Join the crowd as they sing together with the artist/s because let me tell you, it will make your idol/s delighted! The blinding smiles on their faces are your reward, and of course you all want that! 5. Oppa/noona is life but make food ‘lifest’

1. Get to know the venue and seating plan like how you try to get to know your ‘besssss’

Before you buying a ticket, thoroughly check the venue and seating plan. Know the best place you can get with your allotted money so you won’t have to make rushed decisions at the exact day of ticket selling. Remember: seats or standing slots are easily snatched from your grasps like your jowa by mga ‘besssss’ if you’re too chill and careless so learn a thing or two about them.

2. Do not bring your ‘whole house’ though you call that concert ‘home’ Only limit what you will bring; do not bring everything! It’s mandatory in a concert to bring a small bag because a bigger bag means a longer time for inspection. Also, imagine the burden of carrying a heavy weight; you will drain your energy before the concert even starts. Only bring the necessities: food (to eat outside the venue), extra shirt, towel, light stick, ex-

tra batteries, banners and other things you really need. 3. This is not ‘prom night’, it’s ‘sleepover’ Though we always dress to impress, this should not be the first thing in your mind when it comes to attending concerts. Your comfortableness is your top priority. You won’t want to sprain your ankles by jumping to the music with your heels on or faint due to extreme heat because of your evening gown. Wear something

Sometimes, your appetite becomes non-existent because of excitement or nervousness while waiting outside the venue but you definitely must shove that chicken right down your throat! You will need extremely ton amount of energy before concert starts. Also, any kind of food or drinks is to be disposed before entering the venue while food sold inside is unimpressively expensive. Let me tell you, a famished and tired being honestly takes away your complete attention from the artist/s because you’re half-thinking of yourself. Eat like a pig and you will have fun! 6. Be ‘The Wall of China’ for this special day This is where it gets physical – literally! If you bought a ticket in the standing floor section

or ‘pit’ as we call it, you have to prepare yourself in the physical aspect because there will be a lot of pushing. Your body will be pushed around and abused but you’ll have to hang in there for oppa/noona. Be strong as the wall of China and you’ll be fine! 7. Seize the ‘moment’, don’t live in pictures A memory of this special moment in flesh, you can have it with the help of your camera phones but taking pictures in most of the duration of the concert is something you will regret when it finally comes to an end. I want you to know and remember that there’s a difference of seeing with your eyes and behind lens. It’s not bad to take photos, but I advise you to put your phones down in most parts and enjoy this dream of yours with your own eyes. Live this moment, seize it! 8. Fly and be a social butterfly Trust me, you really have to do this one because it’s so much fun! Meeting other fans and befriending them, sharing your favorite songs and moments of your idols will surely level up your excitement with the concert especially if you’re alone. Just plaster that beautiful smile on your face, turn toward the fellow fan beside you and let your mouth do the talking. And there you have it! These 8 are the most important tips – the golden rule – to enjoy the concert you will be attending. While abiding this guide, you’ll surely have the time of your life, I guarantee

it since this is what I did when I attended my favorite idol’s concert. It’s tested and proven to be effective! Now, let’s all cross ‘attending my favourite artist/s’ concert’ out in our bucket list and turn our dreams into flesh by saving up to buy a ticket for an experience of that special moment and have that best night of our life.

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OWN COLUMN LETTER TO YOUR OLD SELF

YOU ARE NOW MORE THAN ear 16-year-old self, WHAT SHE I want you to know that I am so proud of you. I know that your road became a little too rough but you never stopped going. Even EXPECTED YOU though sometimes you tried to walk in strange roads, at least TO BE you keep coming back to the right path.

-ELLA ALVARAN

never asked for love, it is not asked, it is given. -reya buenaventura

-year old petite Reya,

Stop eating. NOW! Take it all away from yourself because next year you’ll be chubby af and everyone will call you fat and that will be your new nickname, “TABA”. However, I’m just kidding! Enjoy life! Eat all you want, and let them tease all they want in return. No, seriously. I’ll tell you one thing.

Losing your mom became your weakness and strength.

It is okay not to be okay. And never be afraid to show that.

Weakness, because you felt like nobody understood you and no

Take off the mask and let go of that posture, you act so mature and all when deep inside you’re still a young girl trying to build herself up. Guess what. At the end of those days, you’ll realize how much you built others up but not yourself. Leave a bite for yourself. Leave something for you.

one cared for you like your mother did. You lost hope and felt like you couldn’t find happiness anymore, that’s why you let yourself suffer. You wouldn’t eat, sometimes you wouldn’t go to school and most of the times, you were alone – and that’s a thing that you were most afraid of. You became someone you never expected you would be. But with God’s will, He made you realize that He took away your mother from you for you to mature and prepare yourself for more challenges; and that became your strength. You made your mother your inspiration for every step you take. You started with your family, did all the things that your mother used to do, and that’s good. Because I know you helped them find hope from within you. And with that, you became closer to each other which made more reasons for you and your family to carry on. I’m really proud of you because you found ways to make it back to your road and walk in smooth path once again. You found friends to keep you accompanied when you are alone and you found ways on how to lighten up your home again. And one of the things that you do that I’m really proud of, is that, losing your mom did not become a reason for you to put barrier between Him and you. In fact, you made it an inspiration and grasped what is more than your goal – you became His servant. I know that your mother is also proud of what you did, about everything you did. Now, you act more than your age, and made the right decisions. You are now more than what she expected you to be. It’s kind of too late because you don’t have your mother by your side anymore when you did beautiful things, but it’s okay. Because she knows that it made you what you are now. Proud and love, 20-year old you

When you’re sad, show it. When you’re annoyed, tell them. When you don’t agree with them, disagree. And when you don’t want to do what they ask, don’t. Your life is yours, not theirs. I know you feel like you have to fit to everyone’s style to be their friends. You always adjust to everybody, but here’s the thing girl. Not all of them will do that to you, too. Not all of them will stay. And not all of them will want to be with you. And two years from your time, you’d fall in love. Not deeply, but love is still love. And I’ll tell you, it will hurt. Hurt you, heal you and then hurt you again. Don’t be afraid, I know how you do things, you keep it all in. That boy will find his happiness eventually and you’d be happy for him, genuinely. Want to know who he is? Shut up, in less than two years, you’ll know. But enough of that, you’ll get over him soon after the pain. (evil laugh) You are probably listening to Big Bang’s Fantastic Baby by now, go listen all you want and spazz all you want but please, SAVE MONEY all you want too. You’ll cry a river when they come here and you won’t be able to go. You’d be so into Kpop and kdramas and Korea eventually. Never lose that feeling with them. They taught you how to have your own bubble, that when things aren’t okay, you can depend on them and know that those things will soon fade out, too. They will be your best bubble and buddy. Just remember, do not fall in love deeply with your OPPAS. They won’t be yours. But your feelings are yours, so, you decide girl. But, I was hurt, deep deep deep wound cut. And I want to tell you, I am so proud of how strong you are, without giving any hint of downfall to everyone around you. You’ll survive that, I am still surviving. Oh, by the way, last piece of advice, never ask for love. Love is not asked, it is given. Love, 19 year-old amazingly cute-ly chubby Reya

hen I was younger, definitely around the age of 5 to 6 years old, I already knew the value of my own time. I mean it’s good, isn’t it to have your “my own time” whenever you could – whether it is about eating out alone, reading a good comics (manga to be precise) or even taking a short stroll around (which is mostly because I am searching for a yummy snack that I am craving for the moment). I just love having a personal “me, myself and I” time once in a while for it has a really great effect on me as if it is magically lifting some stress off my shoulders, as if my wings are regenerating (as if I have wings in the first place, hahaha!) That’s why some people, who don’t really know me that much, think of me as a party loving freak or someone too lethargic. Well I do love partying; I mean I could go out and party for almost a whole month drinking and eating and being crazy. But after it all, I would coop in at the house reading the manga chapters I’ve missed while doing “walwal” from the previous days.

o the girl who is a Grade 6 student right now spending all her time daydreaming about her future after graduating from elementary, here is a letter from the 19-year-old you who’s currently struggling to survive while living against all the odds. The day that you will graduate from elementary will be one of the saddest moments of your life. It will be very hard to part from your best friends, your classmates and your friends from the other sections; a day full of farewell speeches hugs and kisses. It will be the very day that you will bid goodbye to your simple and relaxing life. It’s the start of your countless sleepless nights; the first of the many gallons will be filled with your tears. Your environment will change; be it at school or the surroundings of your own home; standards for every single thing that you will do will suddenly skyrocket, making it hard for you to reach it. Still, you will have to fight and continue.

I think I am just that kind of person, spontaneous yet inhibited which comes down to what I perceive as a complex mood that others could misinterpret. Because sometimes, I am good and down into doing some heart pumping and brand new things but sometimes I also just go my pace and would be just “meh not feeling into it” kind of mood.

First year of your high school life will be harsh. Your newly found friends will turn against you and become your enemies. It will be the first year that you will experience bullying. The first of the four. Your grades will drop; suddenly you don’t have the motivation to do your best as you always do before. Loneliness will be your enemy; betrayal will be your best confidant. Your second year, third year and until your last moments as a high school student will be full of lonesomeness, regrets and doubts. But you will fight until the end and believe me you will survive.

So if I could ever have a chance to talk with my younger self that always feel pressured by others to change this and change that about myself because of blah blah blah blah and more of those things that gives the young me so many stress, I would tell her to “just do your thing”. That if you want to change, do it in your own pace and because you wanted it. Don’t let other people do those big choices for you, love; respect and be kind to yourself more and don’t let them get under your skin – choose the people you associate with.

Everything will change after you enter college. You will now meet real friends; people who will never stab you from behind. You can show them your weaknesses and flaws and they will still accept you for who you are. They will serve as your treasures, your best confidants during your college journey. They will make your once dull school life a colorful one. You should be thankful, for they will change you into a better individual.

And the most of all, remember that you are stronger, smarter and more beautiful than what others say to you, and learn to explain your feelings more. Like when you’re angry, let it out; when you are grateful, say thank you; when you’re frustrated and anxious, let the steam out.

College will teach you that if you want to succeed, you will have to earn it in a very hard and long way. It will make you experience brand-news stuffs; running after your subject all day, going into different kinds of coverage, and writing tons of articles will be a usual thing. You will know how to cram at its finest. Deadlines will be truly deadly; it will be one of your worst enemies during college. You will know how to skip one of your classes just to finish your requirements for another subject. Being late will be an almost-everyday thing; traffics due to road constructions will be your source of irritation every single day. You will have to face your fears, your doubts. Being timid and shy will do no help. You will have to set your eyes to your ultimate goal. College will be hard but it will not hinder you from pursuing your dreams. It will never stop you.

And always stay cool and calm and do things by your own choices because you’ve already think about its effects on you, not because someone is pressuring you. And remember in whatever you do, do it by being you.

don’t let them get under your skin -CEREZA BULATAO

Hey little girl, you’re up for a long and great adventure. The 19-year-old you is still far from the finish line but is doing her best to achieve her ambitions. Just remember these two things: never give up and never forget to pray to the Almighty God to guide you all throughout your entire journey. You will succeed. I know you will.

believe me you will survive -princess fajardo

the person we want most is the one we are best without -wilfranz rosqueta

o 15-year-old Wilfee who believes in fairytales,

Almost 4 years in your future, your heart will shatter into pieces. That boy you are so crazy about in your present time – that boy who bites his hanky whenever he’s nervous, that boy who stumbles over his consonant ‘r’, that boy who sucks in English so bad you tease him about it. He isn’t the first guy who caught your eyes but I know you first fell for his eyes and smiles. But he will break your heart in my present time. Yes, for almost 4 years your feelings for him never faded – it grew stronger. But no, it will not be his fault. You will not end up together like you will first wish before your high school graduation on April. The fault is completely yours because you two will be closer, and

you will overanalyze everything he will say, everything he will send on your messenger, and believe he has finally fallen for you. You will bug your best friends about it, even your future college friends who will have your back but it will never be what you wish. You will plan several confessions that will never happen, until you will finally explode and pour your heart out on his messenger. His answer will be a gratitude for your feelings and a note of staying as friends ‘until the end’ – it will hurt. It will be the first time for your heart to shatter into pieces after your father’s departure – that heart you thought is made of steel as time passed by is glass after all. But know that though it is fragile, it is edged and sharp. There will be a lot of other things to waste with your precious tears in the future, but I want you to know that when you reach my age, when you have to pick up the pieces of yourself from the ground, it will be fine to let it all out – to soak your pillows before you sleep at night. It will be your first after all, and I want you to remember this first. In my time, though it will hurt, you will learn that not all those who loved will always be loved back. That it’s not easy to walk away because you want him so much it hurts. But you will. And because of that, know that I will be proud of you because you will finally realize that leaving your feelings for him will make you better – that sometimes, the person we want most is the one we are best without.

Love and admiration, 19-year-old Wilfee who believes in reality