HEART Magazine - Spring 2019 by Sacred Heart Academy

SACRED HEART ACADEMY

SPRING 2019

INSIDE WE CELEBRATE THE BEATIFICATION OF BLESSED CLELIA MERLONI, Foundress of the Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus

Trust in God and miracles will happen. Blessed Clelia Merloni

CELEBRATING

BLESSED CLELIA MERLONI THIS PAST NOVEMBER, THE ENTIRE SACRED HEART FAMILY AND APOSTLES OF THE SACRED HEART OF JESUS ALL OVER THE WORLD CELEBRATED AN EXTRAORDINARY EVENT THAT HAD LONG BEEN PRAYED FOR: THE BEATIFICATION OF FOUNDRESS BLESSED CLELIA MERLONI. IN THIS ISSUE, YOU WILL READ REFLECTIONS FROM SOME WHO WERE ABLE TO BE IN ROME FOR THE EVENT, AS WELL AS AN OVERVIEW OF HOW BLESSED CLELIA’S CHARISM OF LOVE, SERVICE, AND REPARATION IS EMBEDDED IN THE EVERYDAY LIFE OF OUR SCHOOL.

Front Cover: The Beatification of Blessed Clelia Merloni at the Basilica of St. John Lateran in Rome, Italy, November 3, 2018. Photo by Giédre Alcântara Sartorelli.

IN THIS ISSUE

VIVA MADRE CLELIA!

Sisters, alumnae, parents, and friends describe their time in Rome as they witnessed and participated in the Beatification of Blessed Clelia Merloni.

OUT IN THE WORLD In their families, careers, and communities, thousands of our alumnae offer living examples of Blessed Clelia Merloni’s charism of love, service, and reparation. Meet a few of them.

SHARING THE GIFTS Learn how Blessed Clelia’s charism is woven into daily life at Sacred Heart.

ACADEMY EARNS KUDOS FROM NEASC We passed our accreditation review with flying colors!—and received much positive feedback.

3 From the President 33 Commencement 44 Strong Bonds

29 Excelsior Lives

31 Student Spotlight

36 Around the Academy

43 Mission Advancement

49 In Memoriam

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FROM THE PRESIDENT

Sr. Sheila O’Neill, ASCJ, Ph.D., ’71 at the New York City celebration of the Beatification of Blessed Clelia Merloni.

“Sacred Heart Academy continues to be a place where God’s love is shared, spoken of, and lived each and every day. Thank you for all that you do to sustain our efforts. We are grateful beyond words.” Sr. Sheila O’Neill, ASCJ, Ph.D., ’71

Dear Friends of Sacred Heart Academy, It is with great joy that we share with you this edition of HEART magazine, dedicated to Blessed Clelia Merloni, in celebration of her recent Beatification. As the beloved foundress of the Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus, she provides the example of undivided love of the Sacred Heart and those around her, a love that permeates everything we do here at the Academy. It is as though our school is “built on love, God’s love.” Everyone understands this ideal, and we never take it for granted. The world is hungry for authentic love and true compassion. How beautiful it is that we can speak so freely about God’s love and Clelia’s witness to that love. Doing so only makes us better. What a privilege it was to finally celebrate her Beatification.

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Blessed Clelia was a woman ahead of her time. She was independent, very much an individual, and had a vision for what God was calling her to do. She didn’t let the challenges she faced stop her and she had the confidence to think creatively. She

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was kind and compassionate, loving and forgiving, and worked to serve those she

EDITOR Beth Griffin

met along life’s way who were in any kind of need. She believed God was calling her

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to let the world know how much He loves us, and worked very hard to carry that message in her own life.

This to me, is what we strive to do each day here at the Academy. We instill in our students the notion of God’s love for them from the moment they first enter the building, and in times of trial we remind them that He is there for them. We inspire our students to discover their God-given talents and to be lifelong learners so that they will share God’s love long after they leave and help build a better world. Our young women are kind, and caring. They are distinctive in our society for their integrity, always reaching for Excelsior—”ever higher” and never complacent. They come to us while they are here, and long after they graduate, to ask for prayers for family members and friends. And especially during these two years of preparation for and finally witnessing her Beatification, Blessed Clelia has become very real to

MAJOR PHOTOGRAPHY Cheryl Cronin ’84 ı Cronin Photography FEATURE WRITER Rhea Hirshman CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Beth Griffin ı Director of Public Relations Mary Sarah Olson ‘19 Caroline Dearborn Raynis ’07 ı Director of Alumnae Relations CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS Elizabeth Christophy, Ph.D. Kim Cramer Curbow ‘81 Impressions Studio Jeanne Lawlor Mazzariello ‘78 Elizabeth Parker Kara McGuire Redente ‘99 Giédre Alcântara Sartorelli

them.

I hope you enjoy reading about how Clelia’s charism permeates everything that is Sacred Heart Academy. We have wonderful stories of our current students and alumnae who continue to exemplify lives dedicated to sharing the love of God. How blessed we are to be “disciples of the Heart,” the Sacred Heart.

We continue to pray for Clelia’s intercession as she moves to sanctity. And each day we thank her for special people like you, who so generously support all that we are and do. In a world torn by hatred and division, Sacred Heart Academy continues to be a place where God’s love is shared, spoken of, and lived each and every day. Thank you for all that you do to sustain our efforts. We are grateful beyond words. In the Heart of Christ,

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Sr. Sheila O’Neill, ASCJ, Ph.D., ’71 President

Unless a grain of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it will bear no fruit. But, if it dies, it will yield a rich harvest. John 12:24

Ex ossibus relic of Blessed Clelia presented at the Mass of Beatification.

APOSTLES OF THE SACRED HEART OF JESUS

FOUNDRESS

BLESSED CLELIA MERLONI

other Clelia was born in Forli, Italy on March 10, 1861, to Maria Teresa Brandinelli and Joachim Merloni. Her mother died when Clelia was very young and, as Clelia grew, her father planned a life of luxury and marriage for her. However, she desired only religious life, and entered the Congregation of the Daughters of Our Lady of Providence in Como in 1892. When she made a miraculous recovery from tuberculosis at the end of a novena to the Sacred Heart of Jesus and the Immaculate Heart of Mary, she set out to follow the vision, inspired by Christ, of founding a congregation. On May 30, 1894, in the Church of St. Francis in Viareggio, the first three Apostles were presented to the parish and the Congregation of the Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus was born. The Congregation quickly grew and its works with the poor, the elderly, and orphans flourished. In 1895, Clelia became the sole beneficiary of her father’s substantial patrimony, and his conversion on his deathbed was aided by Clelia’s many prayers and sacrifices. But the resultant expansion of her works came to an abrupt end after only three years when the dishonesty of the priest who administered her father’s inheritance led to complete bankruptcy. With the financial support of the Bishop of Piacenza, John Baptist Scalabrini, the Congregation survived. In 1900, at his invitation, Mother Clelia sent Apostle missionary Sisters to minister to Italian immigrants who had settled in Brazil, and then sent Sisters to Boston in 1902. By 1903, the Congregation numbered 196 Sisters in thirty houses worldwide. Mother Clelia, however, became a victim of calumny after the bankruptcy and subsequent law suits. Not wanting to accuse the priest publicly, she took the blame on herself, leading to untold misunderstandings. After years of mistrust from Church leaders and her own Sisters, Clelia saw herself an obstacle to the peace of the community. In 1916, she left the Institute she had founded rather than see it torn apart by discord. After many years, she was finally allowed to return to the Generalate in Rome on March 7, 1928. Aging and weak, and deprived of any association with her Sisters, Mother Clelia spent the last two years of her life in solitude and prayer before the Blessed Sacrament and in self-offering to the Heart of Jesus. The hallmark of her charity was her unconditional forgiveness for all who had been the cause of her sufferings. Mother Clelia Merloni died in Rome on November 21, 1930, and was buried in nearby Campo Verano Cemetery, which was heavily bombed during World War II. On May 20, 1945, after a painstaking search, her body was found incorrupt and was transported to the main chapel at the Generalate. In 1989, the cause of Canonization of Mother Clelia Merloni was opened. On January 27, 2018, after investigation by the Congregation for the Causes of Saints and the medical board of specialists, bishops, and cardinals, Pope Francis signed the approval of the miracle of Mother Clelia Merloni. It was decreed that Dr. Pedro Ângelo de Oliveira Filho of Brazil was healed of Guillain-Barré syndrome on March 14, 1951, through the intercession of Mother Clelia. A Mass of Beatification for Blessed Clelia Merloni was celebrated on November 3, 2018, at the Basilica of St. John Lateran in Rome, Italy. The Congregation that Blessed Clelia Merloni founded, the Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus, now has over a thousand Sisters serving in 15 countries: Albania, Argentina, Brazil, Benin, Chile, Haiti, Ireland, Italy, Mozambique, Paraguay, the Philippines, Portugal, Switzerland, the United States, and Uruguay. The Apostles’ ministries include education, healthcare, social work, parish ministry, legal services, and prison ministry. — Adapted from information provided by the Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus

Viva Madre Clelia!

SACRED HEART SISTERS PARTICIPATE IN BEATIFICATION

“I could not have been more proud to be an Apostle of the Sacred Heart of Jesus than I was on that day, and proud of our religious family all over the world.” Sr. Mariette Moan, ASCJ, ‘77

THREE SISTERS WITH CONNECTIONS TO SACRED HEART ACADEMY WERE AMONG THOSE FROM THE U.S. PROVINCE WHO WERE AT THE BEATIFICATION CEREMONIES IN ROME. EACH HAD A UNIQUE ROLE, DETAILED BELOW, ALONG WITH EACH SISTER’S REFLECTIONS ON THE MEANING OF THE WEEKEND TO HER PERSONALLY, TO THE CONGREGATION, TO THE CHURCH AS A WHOLE, AND TO THE WORLD.

SR. ELIZABETH DOYLE, ASCJ Thousands of the faithful from all over the world attended the Beatification of Blessed Clelia Merloni in Rome this past November. For those not able to make the journey, EWTN (a global Catholic broadcast network) carried the ceremony live on television. And those who tuned in would have heard our own Sr. Elizabeth, theology teacher and co-director of Campus Ministry, who was tapped by her provincial superior, Sr. Ritamary Schulz, ASCJ, ’59, to provide the English language commentary for the Mass of Beatification—an opportunity she calls “an unexpected blessing.” Here are Sr. Elizabeth’s reflections on the events of that remarkable weekend. BROADCASTING TO THE WORLD To prepare for the broadcast—I had never been to a Beatification Mass!—I watched beatification Masses on YouTube. After noting the detailed format of the Mass, I began to think about the people, events, and places I would need to be familiar with in order to provide context and background for viewers. I also prepared and sent to EWTN documents on Mother Clelia and the Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus.

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Once in Rome, I met with the EWTN Rome Bureau Chief, Alan Holdren, my co-commentator. We discussed Mother Clelia and my religious community, the Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus. As our meeting was concluding, an 7

Italian correspondent from the Rome office interrupted and said, “Alan, we could interview her if you want. We just got a 5:30 news slot.” And just like that, we switched gears and began to prepare for a TV interview to be held in St. Peter’s Square. I certainly got a glimpse of the fast-paced media production world! We put together an introduction and questions for the EWTN Nightly News anchor, Lauren Ashburn. Then I rode down the elevator, walked out of the building and down the street to St. Peter’s Square where the TV and sound crew were setting up. The sound man, Massimiliano, busied himself with adjusting my microphone and also trying to wipe the shine off my nose and forehead. I felt a little nervous but his ease and humor helped me relax. After the interview, I walked back to the Generalate convent where I was staying. It was a busy first day in Rome! During the few days before the Beatification, I received a copy of the Italian Mass program and set to work translating it. I also tried to learn as much as I could about the people who would be participating in the Mass. For anyone who read a reading, brought up a relic, flower, or gift, I wanted to know their stories. On the day of the Beatification, I didn’t feel nervous at all. Alan and I sat in the sound studio and watched the Mass on a computer monitor. He and I had planned a few talking points during the opening, offertory procession,

Sr. Elizabeth Doyle, ASCJ, prepares for a TV interview with EWTN in St. Peter’s Square.

and communion. However, we took our cues from the unfolding of the Mass and let conversation flow naturally. I thought about all the people who would be watching—students and faculty at Sacred Heart, the U.S. Sisters, my family, and all those who know and love Mother Clelia. I felt deeply connected to everyone as we all watched together from different places around the world. “VIVA MADRE CLELIA!” I was thrilled by the number of people from around the world—about five thousand—who made the pilgrimage to Rome. During the days that followed the Beatification, all over the city, we bumped into groups wearing Blessed Clelia bandanas and, no matter our language differences, we could all express “Viva Madre Clelia!” (“Mother Clelia Lives!” or perhaps even, “Long live Mother Clelia!”).

unveiling of her tomb at that exact moment. I was particularly struck by the contrast between the end of her life and the moment of Beatification. During the end of her life, she was unappreciated as a foundress and as a person. She was forgotten, disdained, kept secluded from even her own Sisters, and died in relative obscurity. Now, almost nine decades later, her life is being celebrated and honored in the most profound way, and she is known worldwide.

“Mother Clelia responded to brokenness and injury with love and forgiveness. She modeled Christ’s merciful love in the concrete sufferings of her own life.”

Mother Clelia’s Beatification confirmed for me that her charism, the charism of the Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus, is still vital for the world today. Mother Clelia responded to brokenness and injury with love and forgiveness. She modeled Christ’s merciful love in the concrete sufferings of her own life, and I am sure that I also am being called to live this charism more fully in my life.

Sr. Elizabeth Doyle, ASCJ

I was deeply moved to realize how Clelia’s life, one woman’s life, has touched and continues to touch people’s lives, including mine. As a student 15 years ago at Cor Jesu Academy in St. Louis, MO, I would have never imagined how deeply transformed my life would be by Mother Clelia’s life and her charism of reparation. The unveiling of Mother Clelia’s portrait and of her tomb was the most memorable moment of the Mass for me. I had no idea that her portrait would be so large, nor did I know that we would be able to see the

My experience in Rome reminded me yet again that God works in wonderful and mysterious ways. I am encouraged to continue to trust more fully in the Heart of Christ and to work to share the love of the Heart of Christ with all. I felt very energized to return to Sacred Heart Academy and share with the students my experience. I know that they have each been touched by Blessed Clelia’s life and charism and I enjoy, each and every day, journeying with them closer to the Heart of Jesus.

Mother Clelia will need another miracle attributed to her intercession in order to be declared a saint. As a community, we can continue to ask for her intercession especially for those we know and love who are going through difficult times, suffering from illness, or who feel far from or unloved by God. I believe that Mother Clelia intercedes for us every day. We may not be able to “prove” these small miracles but we can know in our hearts that we indeed received a miracle from God. Also, we can tell other people about Mother Clelia. We can spend more time learning about her story and sharing that story with others. We can’t keep such a good secret to ourselves now that she’s a public figure in the Church!”

+++ SR. LANY JO SMITH, ASCJ Sr. Lany Jo, who is currently the pastoral minister at Clelian Center, and previously served for 12 years as director of Campus Ministry at Sacred Heart Academy, has been singing with her Apostle Sisters for more than five decades. She remembers visiting Mount Sacred Heart for the first time when she was a senior in high school. Deeply moved by the prayerful and beautiful music during the Masses and prayer times at the Mount, she realized how much this community loved music, and how they used it to enhance reverence during worship. Later, she learned that Mother Clelia herself was a musician and was said to have had a lovely voice. Sr. Lany Jo was surprised and humbled to be asked by provincial superior, Sr. Ritamary Schulz, ASCJ, ’59, to sing with the Pontifical Choir for the Mass of Beatification at the Basilica of St. John Lateran. The choir, which sings for papal events in Rome, was directed by Monsignor Marco Frisina, a worldrenowned liturgist and composer who created most of the music for the Beatification. For this occasion, the choir welcomed the additional voices of about thirty Apostle Sisters from provinces around the world. The time in Rome, Sr. Lany Jo notes, was filled with liturgies and events of beautiful music, including a magnificent oratorio based on the words of Mother Clelia: I Bless You with a Hundred Hearts. Sr. Lany Jo writes:

Sr. Lany Jo Smith, ASCJ, practicing with the Pontifical Choir for the Mass of Beatification.

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In my years as an Apostle of the Sacred Heart of Jesus, I have learned that we make the most meaningful and beautiful music when we listen to each other, and love and respect each other’s lives and voices. In addition to singing with that magnificent choir, I was also privileged, along with so many Apostle Sisters and laity associated with us from around the world, to be present in St. Peter’s Square when Pope Francis acknowledged Blessed Clelia, her holiness of life, and her heroic virtue. On one of our days there, another Sister and I, together with a large group of lay people who had come from Brazil for the Beatification, went on a day trip to Assisi, home of St. Francis and St. Clare. In spite of our language differences, we enjoyed the trip and shared many experiences and joys from our common charism, given to us by our Blessed Clelia. During my time in Rome, my greatest delight was being a part of our Sisters and laity from the 15 different countries around the globe in which we are missioned. I realized in a more profound way that Blessed Clelia’s life of love, sacrifice, and service had, across many decades, rippled around the world, sharing with all of us who had never met her in person the wonderful charism she had been

“By her heroic and virtuous life, Blessed Clelia still challenges us to live lives that convince others, by the way we love and care for them, of this great love God has for all of us.” Sr. Lany Jo Smith, ASCJ

given of putting a human face and heart on the unconditional love of God. By her heroic and virtuous life, Blessed Clelia still challenges us to live lives that convince others, by the way we love and care for them, of this great love God has for all of us. I knew this idea to be true among our Sisters here in the States, but in Rome I saw that it has wrapped around the world and around the hearts of people everywhere.

This realization gave me a deeper understanding of how to continue the charism Blessed Clelia received from Christ and passed on to us. If I could live as Clelia lived, in such a profound imitation of Christ’s great love, then even my seemingly small everyday acts of love, sacrifice, and service could also ripple beyond what I might realize, as it did in Blessed Clelia’s life.”

+++ SR. MARIETTE MOAN, ASCJ, ’77 Sr. Mariette served as our Director of Alumnae Relations for more than a decade. In this role she was not only a gatekeeper of the past, but also challenged the alumnae always to reach “ever higher”. She now serves the Apostles as a member of the Council on the Leadership Team and the Archdiocese of Hartford as Vicar for Religious. For Sr. Mariette, traveling to Rome for the Beatification of Blessed Clelia Merloni was a bit of a homecoming, as she spent several years studying philosophy, theology,

and liturgy in the Eternal City’s academic institutions. Those credentials, along with her fluency in Italian and experience as a musician and liturgist, led to her being asked by the congregation’s superior general, Mother Miriam Cunha Sobrinha, ASCJ, to assist in planning the prelude period before the Mass of Beatification. Sr. Mariette notes that, with thousands attending, there would naturally be socializing as people entered the basilica. The idea was to offer a prayerful period, consisting of readings, prayers, and music to help people prepare their minds, hearts, and souls for a deeply spiritual experience. The prelude, which began forty minutes prior to the liturgy, consisted of musical selections in Italian, Portuguese, and English, some of which were original compositions in honor of Mother Clelia composed by Antonio Parisi, Sr. Claudia Calzetta, SL, ‘60, Sr. Mariette, and Sr. Cristina Zan, ASCJ. Sr. Mariette was the organist, accompanied by Sr. Mary Grace Giaimo, ASCJ, ’72 on flute, and joined by a select group of Sister soloists from Benin, Brazil, Ireland, and Italy.

As the U.S. Province representative for the ASCJ International Commission for Communications and Technology, Sr. Mariette, along with the other Commission members, worked to ensure a successful livestreaming of the Beatification Mass— the single most important event for the congregation since its founding 125 years ago—to all Apostle ministries around the globe. The Commission also managed other communications and social media activities throughout the week. With Apostles present from 15 countries, the group wanted to ensure this momentous occasion would be available in real time to the Sisters back home and going forward, to communicate effectively in order to strengthen what Sr. Mariette describes as “our unity in the diversity of our charismatic family.” She writes about her experience in Rome: SEEING MOTHER CLELIA

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God surprised and blessed me with the opportunity to go to Rome for Mother Clelia’s Beatification, and I was grateful

Sr. Mariette Moan, ASCJ, ’77 in the Basilica of St. John Lateran with the Mass of Beatification choir. Also pictured is Sr. Mary Grace Giaimo, ASCJ, ’72. 10

to be able to offer my gifts to the much larger preparation. Everything about the ceremony was breathtakingly beautiful. But the moment that I can’t speak about without having the emotions catch my throat was when Mother Miriam gathered us, the Sisters, in back of the chapel and unveiled the intact body of Mother Clelia so that we could gaze on her for the first time. Religious life is a challenge. We give ourselves in vowed commitment for the rest of our lives, but the person we vow ourselves to is One whom we have never really seen, but whom we know by faith and to whom we give ourselves forever. The Lord calls us to a particular congregation, and I was called to the Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus. Our foundress, Mother Clelia, died in 1930, so my Sisters of today and I have never seen her. She had a fascinating life story, both complex and painful, as well as inspiring and captivating, and we accept and embrace the Lord’s invitation to have been chosen by this charism. Then, in whatever situation in which we find ourselves, we want to give life and energy to the charism that Clelia herself received and which she, in turn, entrusted to us—to make the Heart of Jesus better known, loved, and served. For us, her spiritual daughters, seeing Blessed Clelia for the first time was a deeply prayerful moment and powerful beyond words. Another powerful moment happened on the day we were to leave. After our morning prayer, all the U.S. Sisters gathered around

“In whatever situation in which we find ourselves, we want to give life and energy to the charism that Clelia herself received and which she, in turn, entrusted to us—to make the Heart of Jesus better known, loved, and served.” Sr. Mariette Moan, ASCJ, ‘77

Mother Clelia’s casket. There was conversation among us, but also a palpable sense that we were very reluctant to leave her. She looked so beautiful, with one hand resting over the crucifix on her black habit and the other opened up to our constitution, specifically to the Eucharistic devotion—we felt as if she were saying, “This is your path to holiness, Sisters.” Then we sang in beautiful harmony “God Alone”—a song whose title was Blessed Clelia’s personal motto. And I was reminded of how Mother Clelia sent the first Sisters to the United States in 1902 and how they did not want to leave her, their spiritual mother, because they might never see again. But they knew they had to embrace their chosen missions. And we knew that we, too, had to return to our missions, and so we took leave of Mother Clelia, feeling that she is more alive now than ever. CULMINATION AND BEGINNING While the Beatification certainly represents the culmination of decades of research and

GOD ALONE Music by Sr. Claudia Calzetta, SL, ’60; Lyrics by Sr. Susan Emmerich, ASCJ

God alone is my life and love, To God alone I surrender my heart. God alone, my life, my all.

If we place all our hope in the Heart of Jesus, Miracles we shall witness.

Our aim as Apostles the glory of Jesus And the salvation of souls. If we live for the Lord, He will be our support, Our defense, our every comfort.

To go toward our God. If we only love Him we will receive Ev’ry good from His Heart.

The more good we see that has to be done The more we must do.

All things become a means for us

Let us live then and die embracing the cross In the footsteps of our Lord. We are called as victims, chosen souls For a world that thirsts for God.

study into the life of Clelia and years of work on the part of those responsible for compiling information in support of the formal process of her cause for Beatification, the Beatification is even more a beginning. Because Clelia no longer belongs only to us, but to the universal Church, now her story can be shared with the whole Church around the world. Since a major feature of the charism that Clelia passed on to us, her spiritual daughters, is reparation, many of us have been reflecting on the truth that everything has its own time, according to God’s plan. With everything happening in our Church in so many areas, especially pertaining to the sexual abuse crisis, it is no coincidence that Clelia was beatified now, when so much healing needs to take place and so many breaches of trust need to be repaired. She can help us be instruments of that healing and to become “repairers of the breach,” an image that redounds to the prophet Isaiah. Her life and example of heroic virtue during the storms she experienced can serve as a guiding light to allow us to keep our focus on moving toward God, the goal of our lives as He was for hers. In the biography Like a Grain of Wheat by Nicola Gora, Mother Clelia’s life is likened to a passage from the Gospel of John: “Unless a grain of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it will bear no fruit. But, if it dies, it will yield a rich harvest.” (John 12:24) Mother Clelia’s life and works are yielding a great harvest. I was so proud to be an Apostle of the Sacred Heart of Jesus on that day and also proud of our ever-growing “charismatic family” all over the world.”

How Could We Not Go? ALUMNAE AND FRIENDS HEAD TO ROME

ALUMNAE AND FRIENDS OF SACRED HEART ACADEMY WERE AMONG THE THOUSANDS OF THE FAITHFUL WHO JOURNEYED TO ROME TO WITNESS THE BEATIFICATION OF BLESSED CLELIA. THESE ARE THE RECOLLECTIONS OF SOME WHO WERE INSPIRED TO ATTEND.

KELLY VANACORE FUSCO ’89, P ’19 “We knew that the Beatification of Mother Clelia would be the experience of a lifetime,” Kelly says. So, accompanied by three generations of family—mother Shirley Vanacore, husband Joe, son Michael, and daughter Madeleine ’19—Kelly traveled to Rome to attend the ceremony. The event itself, Kelly says, was extraordinarily moving. “The peace that came over me during the Mass was something I had never felt before, and the Rite of Beatification moved all of us to tears,” she says. But the trip to Italy became even more meaningful when Kelly and her family traveled south to the town of Caserta, where they stayed for several days after the Beatification event. Joe, she explains, was born there, and emigrated to the United States when he was eight years old. “My

husband re-established a connection with his extended family,” she says. “We now communicate weekly and hope to return soon. I feel that it was Mother Clelia who brought the family together.” Now back from Italy, Kelly says that she has grown in her faith because of Mother Clelia’s teachings and dedication to the Sacred Heart of Jesus. “To be there to witness the charism of Mother Clelia was a humbling experience. We were blessed to be a part of it, along with people from all over the world who made the pilgrimage. I aspire to follow in Mother Clelia’s footsteps as a Christian woman and for the Sacred Heart of Jesus to guide my heart.”

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MARSHA WALSH, P ’95, ’00, GP ’22 Although she is not an alumna of Sacred Heart, Marsha is well acquainted with the life and work of Mother Clelia Merloni. A nurse at Sacred Heart Manor where retired Sisters live, mother of Megan Walsh Giaquinto ’95 and Meredith Walsh Aurora ’00, and grandmother of Isabelle Giaquinto ’22—Marsha “just had to go” to the Beatification ceremony. She has also been involved for several years with the Holly Berry Festival which benefits the retired Sisters.

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“I had heard for several years about the possibility of Mother Clelia being beatified,” she says, “but I knew it was a long process and was not assured. I was so happy for the Sisters when the possibility became reality—I could see the joy in every one of them.” Marsha was uncertain whether she would be able to make the trip— her husband, Jim, a former member of the school’s Advisory Council who now serves on the Advisory Board for the Apostles, was not able to go. She gave up on the idea even though, she says, “I knew it was an experience one rarely gets in this life, especially for me, because of knowing so many of the Sisters personally.” But during dinner with friends, when the conversation turned to the Beatification, Marsha’s longtime friend Kathy Mengacci jumped at the idea of going, and Marsha and Kathy were on their way to Rome on Halloween night.

For Marsha, while all the events of the weekend were filled with joy, the music at the oratory at St. Anthony of Padua was particularly meaningful. “I am truly grateful that I was able to experience these emotional few days with a wonderful friend and able to P ’19 9, ’8 o sc core Fu Kelly Vana meet some terrific people along the way,” Marsha says. “And this trip made both Kathy and me realize how much our friendship means to us. We went to Rome not knowing what we would encounter, and everything that happened exceeded our expectations.”

+++ SUSAN LAGERSTROM SULLIVAN ’65 AND JUDI SHEIFFELE ‘65 It may have rained every day they were there, but the weather did not dampen the enthusiasm that Susan and Judi felt during their time in Rome for Mother Clelia’s Beatification. Friends since graduating from Sacred Heart, they admit that, during their school days, they were so busy having fun that they might have been voted “least likely members of the class to go to a Beatification.”

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But, despite their high school hijinks, their strong faith remained with them, helped shape their lives, and was further fortified by their time in Rome.

“It was so mov ing to be with the Sisters as t hey watched the fruition of wh at they had worked so ha rd and prayed for. This trip was one of the highlights of my life.

Susan, who lives in Memphis, TN, raised two children and has a long history of volunteer work—most notably at a women’s and children’s shelter run by the Missionaries of Charity, the order founded by St. Teresa of Calcutta (Mother Teresa). Susan is also a candidate for the Order of Malta—a millennium-old organization that sponsors worldwide international relief work. With her connection to the Missionaries of Charity, Susan was able to attend the Canonization of Mother Teresa in Rome in the fall of 2016. She enjoyed the entire experience so much that she suggested to her friend Judi a jaunt to Rome just for fun—including a stay in the same bed and breakfast, run by the Apostles of the Sacred Heart—for December the following year. “During that trip we learned about Mother Clelia’s Beatification,” Judi says. “And right then and there, we decided we were going back again.”

Judi, who lives in New Haven, has been the city’s deputy director of economic development and is currently executive director of the New Haven Port Authority. She also has been involved with volunteer work throughout her life—from teaching knitting at the Polly McCabe School to helping rescue pets after Hurricane Katrina. What moved her most about the Beatification was the overwhelming feeling of joy. “It was so moving

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to be with the Sisters as they watched the fruition of what they had worked so hard and prayed for,” she says. Susan adds that, even in a crowd of many thousands, there was also a sense of great intimacy— because, as she notes, “We were all there for the same reason, and we all felt blessed.”

In reflecting on the ceremonial activities, Judi, who was the former company manager for the Connecticut Ballet, notes how the theatrical and liturgical aspects of the event worked together to create both a sense of awe and an intense spiritual experience. “The highlight for me was the sacred music written for the event,” she says. “And, during the ceremony, a huge video screen in the basilica showed two Sisters raising a curtain to show Mother Clelia’s uncorrupted body, which is at the Generalate in Rome.” Both women say their journey makes them feel even closer now to the Sisters at the Academy, with a greater appreciation for their work and sacrifices, and joy in their friendships. “In my wildest dreams when I was a student, I never thought I would end up where I am,” Susan says. “But everything you learn at Sacred Heart—the kindness, the service—comes back to you.” Judi adds, “This trip was one of the highlights of my life. Now, we are all praying for the canonization.”

Hartford Celebrates

A COMMEMORATIVE LITURGY CELEBRATING THE BEATIFICATION OF BLESSED MOTHER CLELIA On Sunday, April 7, the Connecticut and Rhode Island regions of the Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus gathered in thanksgiving for and in celebration of the Beatification of Blessed Clelia Merloni at the Cathedral of St. Joseph in Hartford. The Most Reverend Leonard P. Blair, Archbishop of Hartford, was the celebrant. This was the last of five regional liturgies held throughout the United States to celebrate the Beatification.

Becoming a Saint As we continue to celebrate the Beatification of Blessed Clelia Merloni, foundress of the Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus, we thought the process of canonization might be of interest to our readers. The process begins when a bishop gives permission to open an investigation into the virtues of a candidate in response to a petition by members of the faithful, typically at least five years after the death of a candidate. An exhaustive search of the candidate’s writings, speeches, and sermons is undertaken, a detailed biography is written, and eyewitness accounts are collected. The process continues with the following steps: SERVANT OF GOD If the candidate is deemed worthy of further consideration, the Vatican grants a “Nihil Obstat,” the Latin phrase meaning “nothing hinders.” The candidate is then called a Servant of God and the investigation into the cause for canonization is opened. VENERABLE The definition of venerable is deserving of honor or respect. In the Venerable step, the candidate has been judged to have lived out the cardinal and theological virtues to a heroic degree. BEATIFIED or BLESSED A miracle—something considered “extraordinary” or “unexplained”—must be attributed to the candidate. The miracle must have taken place after the candidate’s death and as a result of a specific petition to the candidate. Medical and theological authorities must concur that the miracle is authentic. Investigation into the candidate’s life continues. CANONIZATION An additional miracle is required and further investigation into the life of the candidate takes place. The Pope has the authority to waive the need for a second miracle. Once canonized, the saint is offered as an example to the whole Church and inscribed in the Catalog of Saints. A church is dedicated and a Mass is celebrated, and the saint is assigned a day in the liturgical calendar. BLESSED CLELIA MERLONI TIMELINE Death November 21, 1930 Cause of Canonization opened May 20, 1989 Servant of God May 20, 1989 Venerable December 21, 2016 Beatified November 3, 2018 Only one more piece of evidence is needed for Blessed Clelia to become a saint—an additional miracle. If you believe that you have received graces through the intercession of Blessed Clelia, please contact ascj.gen@gmail.com. We keep praying!

Out in the World: Living the Charism of Mother Clelia IN THEIR FAMILIES, CAREERS, AND COMMUNITIES, OUR ALUMNAE OFFER LIVING EXAMPLES OF MOTHER CLELIA MERLONI’S CHARISM OF LOVE, SERVICE, AND REPARATION. OF THE THOUSANDS OF THESE EXCELSIOR WOMEN, WE HAVE CHOSEN A FEW FROM DIFFERENT GENERATIONS TO FEATURE AS WE REFLECT ON AND CELEBRATE MOTHER CLELIA’S ELEVATION TO THE RANKS OF THE BLESSED.

LIVING THE CHARISM OF MOTHER CLELIA

Tracy Salemme Church ’79

racy is a member of Sacred Heart’s Advisory Council, where she serves as chair of the Planning Committee. She has had a decades-long career as a senior executive in health care—currently as Hartford HealthCare’s executive vice president and chief administrative officer—volunteers extensively in her community, and has raised a family of four with her husband, Ed.

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The oldest of four children herself, Tracy was just a freshman in high school when her father died. The leadership role that she had to assume in her family informed her professional life and created a strong sense of the importance of caring for others. Through it all, Tracy has been inspired by Mother Clelia’s attributes of strength, compassion, and service.

Sacred Heart shaped me in so many ways, large and small. The idea of Excelsior and striving “ever higher” has had a particular impact on me. As I reflect on my family and my career, I would say living Excelsior really is the cornerstone of so much—probably everything—that has guided me on my path since I graduated from the Academy. I was the first in my family to attend college. While still in school and working on Capitol Hill for one of Connecticut’s Congressmen, I met Ed, also a staffer, when our offices played each other in the Congressional Softball League. We married the following summer and, a year later, moved to Albuquerque, NM, where our two older children, Tyler and Samantha, were born and raised. It was there that my career as an HR practitioner began. I believe my calling is to help people who help people, and most of my career has been in the health care field. I have worked as a human resources (HR) professional for a national long-term care company, and then as HR vice president for a faith-based hospital system. Eight years ago, I returned to Connecticut to become the senior HR executive at Hartford HealthCare.

I am inspired daily by Mother Clelia’s attributes of strength and compassion, by her positive influence on her community, and by her focus on selfless service to lift up those less fortunate. The ideals of both Mother Clelia and the Academy inspire us all to build a better world. As I reflect on the community and volunteer organizations with which my husband and I have been and continue to be involved, it’s no surprise that we focus on ways to advance education. In addition to serving on Sacred Heart’s Advisory Council, I chair the Susan G. Komen New England Affiliate Board. I am a board member for Hartford Youth Scholars, an academic immersion and preparatory program to help Hartford students get into and through college, and the Urquhart Memorial Foundation, an organization providing scholarships to deserving students from Philadelphia. There’s nothing better than the feeling you have when you see the impact made by an organization you support or are involved with, and knowing you helped to make something positive happen for others. That’s how we make change happen—with a thousand tiny steps, we move mountains.” — Tracy Salemme Church ’79

LIVING THE CHARISM OF MOTHER CLELIA

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t this stage in her career Mary Ellen does a lot of mentoring. While she is still surprised that younger co-workers care about what

she thinks, she is also thrilled to build community by helping them excel. Professionally, she is passionate about ensuring that her teams collaborate, support each other, and celebrate successes together. The theme of building community is deeply woven into everything Mary Ellen does, whether she is mentoring younger colleagues in her current position as business manager for the Formulation Additives division at BASF, or being involved in a range of faithbased volunteer work that includes teaching faith formation classes and leading youth mission trips with her husband, Joe.

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What I remember most from my time at Sacred Heart is the strong sense of community fostered there. I watched it modeled by the Sisters in their daily lives and I lived it as part of the Class of 1983. I saw how being part of a community could help each of us achieve success. More importantly, I learned how being part of a community could help us best use the gifts God has given us and best live out the path He has set for us. As I reflect on my work, my volunteer activities, and my community engagement, I realize that I work to build community in each of these areas. I’ve been connected to Catholic Charities for the last six years— first in the Diocese of Raleigh, NC, and now in the Diocese of Charlotte, NC. In Raleigh, when I was chair of the board of directors, we began a partnership with the city of Raleigh to develop an organization called Oak City Cares—helping to eliminate homelessness by engaging numerous organizations and services to provide coordinated care. This effort was in its infancy when I left, and I’m so pleased to say it has moved forward and will launch fully later in 2019. I’ve served as chair of the finance council at both my former parish and my current parish—a great way to use my business/professional skills in service to my faith community. About ten years ago, I started an annual youth mission trip event at St. Thomas More in Chapel Hill; the trip involves about 75 teens and adults in a weeklong experience of service and prayer, and engages teenagers in serving others. I planned the trip each year, and my husband and I chaperoned each year, first with our own kids, and continuing even after our kids were grown. Though we moved from St. Thomas More three years ago, I’m pleased to say the annual mission trip has continued as a highlight of the youth ministry program there. Joe and I have also taught faith formation together for nearly twenty years. When our son and daughter were in high school, they too taught elementary faith formation; the activity was unifying for our family and in a way that allowed us to help our broader faith community. I’ve always been compelled by the idea of Matthew 25:40— “Whatever you do for others, you do for Me.” This passage had a major influence on Mother Clelia and my love for this scripture grew during my time at Sacred Heart. Much of my service work is related to the corporal and spiritual works of mercy compelled by this verse. Christ calls us to love and serve others and I think He tells us in this passage that when we look to the faces of those we serve, we see the face of Christ too. My love of service is definitely based on my love for others and for my community, but I serve mostly because it allows me to glimpse the face of God in others.” — Mary Ellen Potash Gustainis ’83

Mary Ellen Potash Gustainis ’83 chaperoning a Youth Mission Trip for St. Thomas More in Chapel Hill, NC. 20

LIVING THE CHARISM OF MOTHER CLELIA

Maria Acampora Loitz ’89

hen Maria attended the June 2018 groundbreaking of Sacred Heart’s new School Center, she was not just an interested alumna. As director of marketing and associate principal for BVH Integrated Services, the firm responsible for providing the engineering design on the project, she is thrilled to be connected with such an important milestone for the school. With a deep desire to help provide opportunities so others can live their best lives, and with the support of her company, Maria mentors young women along their career paths in her male-dominated industry, and serves as president of the ACE Mentor Program which tackles worker shortages in the architecture, construction, and engineering industries by connecting professional mentors and high school students. The ACE Mentor Program was named by the Hartford Business Journal as the 2018 non-profit of the year. Maria is also an industry advisory board member of the Academy of Engineering and Green Technology at Hartford Public High School. Maria describes herself as a “proud and devoted hockey mom” to her son and, with a daughter now in college, she was a Girl Scout leader for many years. With Tracy Salemme Church ’79 heading the effort, Maria has been invited by President Sr. Sheila O’Neill, ASCJ, Ph.D., ’71 to participate in developing Sacred Heart’s new Alumnae Mentoring Program.

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My passion for giving back is rooted in my childhood. My parents are active parishioners at Saint Bernadette Church. They served on the school board, and church board, chaired the Saint Bernadette carnival committee for more than twenty years, and still volunteer each night of the carnival. In addition to graduating from Sacred Heart, I attended preschool and kindergarten at Saint Michael’s School, and first through eighth grade at Saint Bernadette School. Catholic schools not only provided me with an exceptional education and lifelong friends, but also encouraged me to live life as an advocate for those less fortunate. My Catholic education—coupled with

my family’s devotion to giving back— empowered me to become a champion for those needing a helping hand. I am deeply committed to ACE because I have witnessed the results. The program serves approximately 150 students from thirty schools across Connecticut each year. With eighty mentors from forty firms and organizations, students are exposed to careers in the architectural, construction, and engineering industries through weekly or biweekly sessions, hands-on workshops, and construction site visits. Since its inception in 1998, ACE CT has awarded $520,000 in scholarships to students pursuing careers in architecture,

construction, engineering management, or related fields. I truly believe that the opportunities given to me at the Academy—the ability to be a leader, to be an advocate, to find purpose in life—have helped me to grow in Christ and appreciate the beauty that surrounds around me each day. Whether through small acts of kindness, which I try to do each day (letting someone get ahead of me in line at the grocery store!) or more complex acts of giving (my work with the ACE Mentor Program), my soul is filled with love for others and a deep desire to provide opportunities so others can live more fulfilled lives.” — Maria Acampora Loitz ’89

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LIVING THE CHARISM OF MOTHER CLELIA

Abbey Lawlor ’15

Recipient of the 2015 Mother Clelia Merloni Award, Abbey was commended by President Sr. Sheila O’Neill, ASCJ, Ph.D., ’71 as “an outstanding Christian woman…known for her dedication and commitment to the mission, vision, and core values of the Academy and the Apostles. Administrators, faculty members, and fellow students have witnessed her compassion for others, her leadership ability, and her passion for service.” While at Sacred Heart, Abbey was a member of National Honor Society, Key Club, Random Acts of Kindness (RAOK), musical, and served as president of Book Club. She was a member of the varsity cross country and indoor and outdoor track and field teams. A Kairos Retreat leader, Abbey traveled to Clelian Heights School on a mission trip, was as an altar server, and founded and co-chaired Sister to Sister Club to provide an opportunity for students to interact with the older Sisters at the Manor. A 2019 graduate of Fairfield University’s Egan School of Nursing, Abbey has been working as a patient care associate at Smilow Cancer Hospital and plans to pursue a career as an oncology nurse. During her time at Fairfield, she served as a Eucharistic minister, was a member of the Student Nurse Association and a student representative for the National Student Nurses’ Association, and mentored younger nursing majors. She participated in spring break service trips to communities around the country—experiences that left her with an understanding of the importance of being aware of and serving the needs of the people around her.

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Sacred Heart Academy has always played a significant role in guiding my life, even after I graduated. I was introduced to the Sisters at the Manor during a visit in high school and fell in love with how wonderful they all were and how each of them led faithful, service-filled lives even in their final days. My best friend, Cara Walsh ’16, and I decided to form a link between the students at Sacred Heart and the retired Sisters at the Manor, and named it Sister to Sister. Overwhelmed with the number of students who signed up, we organized themed parties once or twice a month, and brought groups of students to the Manor to play party games, enjoy baked goods, and build friendships.

These Sisters soon became my most significant role models; I often turned to them for life advice and I still do to this day. They helped me discover my desire to be a nurse and have been my biggest supporters throughout my four years in nursing school. Once I started at Fairfield University, I was hired at the Manor as a student nurse intern and was able to gain experience working with the elder Sisters—work that has been one of the many blessings in my life. The Sisters taught me to have patience in stressful situations, to be an active listener, to always look on the bright side, and to care from the heart. They also taught me the difficult lesson of how to compassionately care for those close to death. This final lesson has been one

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of the most difficult for me as I have had to learn to let go of so many of them as they reached their time to go to the Lord. But it has instilled in me the importance of providing palliative care throughout the end of life progression and encouraged me to maintain the best possible quality of life for them.” I cannot believe that four years have passed since I graduated from Sacred Heart! I am honored and humbled to be thought of as someone who lives Mother Clelia’s charism. She exemplifies living out the Catholic faith and leading a life of service. I am inspired by her every day and hope to be able to live by her example.“ — Abbey Lawlor ’15

LIVING THE CHARISM OF MOTHER CLELIA

Patricia Coonan Scafariello ’85 As the fourth Coonan daughter to graduate from Sacred Heart and with elder sister, Sr. Kathleen Mary Coonan, ASCJ, ’76 now the principal of the Academy, Patty has long been well grounded in the ideals of the Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus. But becoming director of the Clelian Center two years ago fully immersed her in the charism of Mother Clelia. Throughout her nursing career, which has included stints in medical intensive care and emergency work, Patty has enjoyed caring for seniors more than any other group. The offer to become director of Clelian Center two years ago came at a perfect time in her life, helping her to transition from being the mom of students in high school to students now in college. Avid sports fans, Patty and her husband, Mark, eagerly follow the baseball career of their son, Liam, and the softball career of their daughter, Maighread. Patty’s devotion to older adults is also exemplified in her volunteer work as executive board member for the Connecticut Association of Adult ter member. , a longtime Clelian Cen right, celebrating Roberta far , ’85 o iell far Sca n Patricia Coona

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Day Centers and as a support group facilitator for the Alzheimer’s Association.

The most valuable ideals I learned at Sacred Heart were: finding one’s genuine self and living without pretense—you should recognize and like the person in the mirror; learning when and where—there is a time and place for everything; using diplomacy—when you create a comfortable environment where your voice is heard, and firm but fair policies are practiced, that environment promotes more effective problem solving; and, being fair and treating others with dignity and respect—this ideal transitioned into a motto I’ve followed since I became a nurse and cared for my terminally ill mother at home—afford everyone the care you would give to your mother, father, sister, or brother. I have shared this ideal with every student I encounter and every team I lead.

experience when visiting. These feelings are completely understandable to me because I felt them the very first time I visited. I see it in the way our members relax and take comfort while they are at the Center and I feel it when I address them. I believe Clelia’s message is simple: “Truly love them and find their joy.” I also believe that Blessed Clelia guides the Center through the people helping this ministry. Sometimes an idea hits me from out of the blue and, when it turns out to be exactly the right idea for our members, I feel that I am following Blessed Clelia’s direction. I am a daily witness to the healing of spirit here at Clelian Center. Whenever there is a need Clelia finds a way to send just the right person or create a situation that makes everything go our way; all we need to do is listen and have faith.

Blessed Clelia’s charism is part of the daily routine at Clelian Center where her image and quotations are displayed. Every morning, my team starts with a quotation from Blessed Clelia, posted for all to reflect on, and we always find a way to relate it to our day. These daily physical reminders aid in our ministry but pale in comparison to the spirit of Blessed Clelia felt by the majority of those who enter through our doors. Countless visitors and family members inform us of the sense of calm, love, and joy they

The ideals learned at Sacred Heart and now the charism of Blessed Clelia have been instrumental in my life. I am so very fortunate to direct a team of dedicated brothers and sisters with diplomacy and now share moments of joy with over one hundred newly acquired “parents.” Clelian Center is the right place for me to share my gifts and learned ideals. I am truly grateful to the Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus and honored to be a part of this ministry.” — Patricia Coonan Scafariello ’85

Sharing the Gifts of Blessed Mother Clelia AT SACRED HEART ACADEMY

“The Beatification has helped us be a better school because of our having had the privilege to follow Clelia’s road to Beatification. We have her life to guide us. Her life was hard, but she didn’t give up. She had a passion for being loving and caring and she is an example to us that good will prevail.” Sr. Sheila O’Neill, ASCJ, Ph.D., ’71

s spiritual descendants of Mother Clelia, the Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus have inherited her tradition, and are carriers of her charism. Charism, says Sr. Elizabeth Doyle, ASCJ, theology teacher and Sacred Heart’s co-director of Campus Ministry, “is a gift of the Holy Spirit that helps to build up the Church— Christ’s body. Each of us has these gifts.”

charism is by being a welcoming community that embraces and values each individual for who they are. “We want each person to feel that they are a part of our community with a particular role to fill here—that their presence makes a difference to all of us,” she says. Service is also central. “We are asked,” she says, “to be aware of the people around us, to share our gifts and talents with others—to be a caring presence and respond compassionately to the needs of others, and to pray for one another.”

Mother Clelia’s charism, Sr. Elizabeth says, is one of reparation, defined by Sr. Virginia Herbers, ASCJ, vice provincial for the U.S. Province of the Apostles, as “a tender response of love motivated by recognizing the heartbrokenness of my beloved.” Sr. Elizabeth goes on to explain: “We can understand “the beloved” as Christ. Any time evil is perpetrated in the world, the body of Christ is wounded. Mother Clelia sought to respond to this wounding with love. In her own life, she was subjected to hatred, slander, and malice, even from her own Sisters. Rather than returning hurt for hurt, she responded with love, never speaking ill of those who injured her. Instead, she saw each instance of injustice as a wound to the body of Christ and she sought to heal or be a compassionate presence amidst that suffering.”

Noting that, in many ways, Mother Clelia was a woman ahead of her time, Sacred Heart’s president, Sr. Sheila O’Neill, ASCJ, Ph.D., ’71, says that she was “very much an individual, very independent, and had a clear vision of what God was calling her to do. She did not let challenges stop her from serving those in need, and letting the world know of God’s love.” Integrating those values into an academic community, Sr. Sheila says, includes creating an environment in which students can work to their full potential so that they can use their skills and knowledge to better their communities and help the world. Those values also result in a strong sense of “sisterhood” that follows alumnae throughout their lives—and a strong sense of God’s love for them as each finds her own path.

Sr. Kathleen Mary Coonan, ASCJ, ’76 the Academy’s principal, notes that one way Sacred Heart as an institution lives Mother Clelia’s

You will read in the following pages about how Mother Clelia’s charism is woven into the daily life of the school.

share with each other, learn more about Mother Clelia and her charism, and train students as leaders in their schools to promote the charism through programs during the school year. Adult participants offer talks on Clelia’s virtues and students discuss how these virtues can be integrated into their school communities.

CLELIAN INSTITUTE The Clelian Institute, which functions as a mini-retreat each summer, was initiated by the Apostles as a way of empowering lay co-workers to share in the charism of Mother Clelia. It was founded on the belief that what the Apostles do is not simply a “job” but rather a vocation, and that those called to minister with them are also called to bring Christ’s compassionate love to those most in need.

Above, students participate in Rise Against Hunger; left, members of Charism Connection participate in a group discussion; right, students at a recent Kairos Retreat.

CAMPUS MINISTRY Sr. Elizabeth Doyle, ASCJ, says “In Campus Ministry, we look to help students move from reflection about the charism to action.” The program sponsors prayer services and service projects that focus on building up God’s kingdom and sharing the love of the Heart of Christ here at school, in our local community, and around the world. Whether students are selling baked goods to benefit our mission in Haiti, making lunches for St. Ann’s Soup Kitchen in Hamden, collecting coats to benefit residents of Catholic Worker House in New Haven, or preparing a video prayer service on human trafficking, “We try,” Sr. Elizabeth says, “to keep our eyes open to those who are suffering and offer some kind of relief.”

CHARISM CONNECTION Charism Connection is a week-long event—part retreat and part leadership camp—that provides an opportunity for selected students from Sacred Heart Academy and our sister school Cor Jesus Academy in St. Louis, MO, to

Sr. Virginia Herbers, ASCJ says: “The Institute serves as a means of steeping all Apostle co-ministers in the elements of Clelia’s spirituality and the ASCJ charism. It allows for each co-minister to interact and collaborate with those from Apostle missions across the nation, and it affirms and strengthens the commitment of our co-ministers to be true apostles with a little ‘a’.”

PASTORAL COUNSELING This program provides pastoral attentiveness and support to students, as well as a compassionate and trusting environment that can facilitate a student’s ability to discuss personal problems relating to her own human and spiritual growth. Pastoral counseling highlights our ability to invite faith into the dialogue. With our commitment to developing “the whole young woman,” the school supports students as they cope with psychosocial, relational, and emotional issues and the spiritual questions that

“We are asked to be aware of the people around us, to share our gifts and talents with others—to be a caring presence and respond compassionately to the needs of others, and to pray for one another.” Sr. Kathleen Mary Coonan, ASCJ, ’76

accompany those challenges. Pastoral counselor Jeanne Lawlor Mazzariello ’78 says, “Making sense of their lived experiences in light of the principles of theology encourages greater depth of spirit. Young people characteristically inquire, probe, and ponder life’s more profound questions. The kind and gentle touch of Mother Clelia offers a model of how we work with students as they search for answers.”

KAIROS Kairos, a religious retreat program for Sacred Heart seniors, provides a threeday experience of Christian community. Grounded in Christian, incarnational theology and based on the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius of Loyola, the retreat offers talks by both peers and adults. Participants are encouraged and challenged to integrate the experience of the retreat into their daily lives, focusing on the call from both St. Ignatius and Blessed Clelia to create “love in action.” The purpose of Kairos, says pastoral counselor Jeanne Lawlor Mazzariello ’78, “is to allow each person to see the value of her Christian faith as lived and experienced in community.”

THEOLOGY DEPARTMENT The freshman theology course opens with an entire unit on “charism” to help students understand more explicitly the charism of the Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus, which they also implicitly learn through the school’s culture and its liturgical and service experiences. Sr. Elizabeth Doyle, ASCJ, says that, in her theology classes, “I work to instill in students their identity as beloved daughters of God, unconditionally loved by their creator. Knowing of that love, they are then impelled to share it with others. This concept sounds beautiful. But how do we live it? How do I respond to a friend’s rebuff? What do I do when I see gossip and slander on a friend’s social media story? What do I want in my friendships? My dating relationships? How do I discern to what work God is calling me? How do I respond to injustice? And how can we apply Mother Clelia’s call to love in a complex and changing world?”

In this feature, we capture a snapshot of life at the Academy with 265 or so words from a faculty or staff member, a student, or an alumna. Here, a student reflects on the charism of Blessed Clelia Merloni.

Mary Sarah Olson ’19

was first introduced to Blessed Clelia Merloni in middle school at St. Rita School where my principal was a Sister of the Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus. There, I learned that Mother Clelia was a woman of strength and virtue, but I never anticipated that her example of faith and leadership would play such a large role in my life here at Sacred Heart. Last summer, I was part of the Charism Connection leadership retreat team for students from Sacred Heart Academy and Cor Jesu Academy. Our focus was the charism and mission of Mother Clelia. We learned about her life and the hardships she faced, focusing on her virtues and examining how we could use these virtues to become more effective, faithful leaders. From her example, I learned the importance of forgiveness and the power of leading by example, and I began to feel more confident in my faith and my ability to lead others. As Charism Connection ended, we began to prepare for the masses and events that would accompany Blessed Clelia Merloni’s Beatification in November. After learning about Mother Clelia for six years, I was honored to witness her Beatification. She provides the world with a shining example of courage, generosity, compassion, and integrity. Mother Clelia’s virtues are the foundation of the Sacred Heart Academy community, and each day I can see that my fellow students are living out the charism of Mother Clelia by sharing God’s love with everyone they meet. Mother Clelia has not only touched my life, but each day she continues to touch the lives of the Excelsior women of Sacred Heart Academy.

EXCELSIOR LIVES SR. MAUREEN FLYNN, ASCJ, ’81

Sr. Maureen Flynn, ASCJ, ’81 with students at Santa Maria School in the Bronx, NY.

The 18-year-old who taught CCD classes has carried out the Apostles’ ministry through nearly four decades of work in education.

hen Sr. Maureen thinks about her six years as Sacred Heart’s principal, she remembers especially her time in the lunch room. “I would visit each table and see how every student was doing,” she says. “I loved hearing about their days, and was honored that they opened up to share their struggles and achievements.” That reflection exemplifies Sr. Maureen’s long and varied career in education, which began when she was still a student at Sacred Heart. In addition to her involvement in numerous other activities (including four years on the softball team!), Sr. Maureen went with the Apostles of the Sacred Heart every Saturday morning to teach CCD classes. At the same time, she felt

the call to religious life. “I have to say that I was so nervous about making the commitment to enter, that I was sick almost every morning,” she remembers. “But the day I finally decided that I would enter I felt a sense of peace that has stayed with me to this day. No matter what difficulties I’ve faced, I have always felt that God was with me. And I knew that I wanted to be of service.” The 18-year-old who taught CCD classes has carried out the Apostles’ ministry through nearly four decades of work in education. She obtained an undergraduate degree in mathematics from Albertus Magnus College, has a Master of Arts in Teaching in secondary math from Webster University, and a master’s degree in supervision

and administration from Fordham University. Early in her career, Sr. Maureen taught math at Blessed Sacrament School in Hamden, CT, and Our Lady of Loretto School, a non-graded school in Pittsburgh, PA. For 16 years, she served at our sister school, Cor Jesu Academy in St. Louis, MO, as dean of students and then assistant principal. Before coming to Sacred Heart, she was principal of Our Lady of Pompeii School in New York City’s Greenwich Village neighborhood. Sister is currently working on a Ph.D. in administration and supervision in church leadership at Fordham.

have become friends with many of the people they call their “regulars,” who let the Sisters know of others who might need help. “They have taught us,” Sr. Maureen says, “how even in your own need, you should take care of one another. They make us laugh and make us even more grateful for the many gifts that we have.”

As an administrator, Sr. Maureen sees herself as an advocate and facilitator for parents, students, and teachers. “My most important responsibility,” she says, “is to live the mission of the school and to be present to each of these During a walk, Sr. Maureen Flynn, ASCJ, ’81 chats with a Bronx community member. constituents.” Acutely aware “Having worked in many areas with of her students’ low test scores many different types and ages of students,” Sr. Maureen says, “I have and knowing that the greatest predictor of success in school is daily learned that you need to listen to, understand, and respect the people reading, Sr. Maureen devised a plan to get culturally appropriate books you are serving and then assess and try to meet their particular needs.” into places like neighborhood barber shops and laundromats—places In her current position as principal of Santa Maria where her students and their families spend time. School in the Bronx, Sr. Maureen is responsible “We can’t measure the impact,” she says, “but I’m for a pre-K to grade 8 student body of close to hopeful that students will pick up books if they are five hundred, which includes the largest universal available.” pre-K program in the Archdiocese of New York. During her six years at Sacred Heart, Sr. For her, that responsibility extends far beyond Maureen was known for a number of concrete the school building into the very diverse accomplishments: upgrading of technology, surroundings. “When I moved to the Bronx,” she increasing AP offerings, expanding other course says, “I did a lot of walking around. Wherever I offerings including adding Mandarin Chinese and went, there were people in need: people asking Online School for Girls, and improving the athletic for money; mentally challenged people who lived program. But above all, she was known for her in a halfway house nearby; students in my school devotion to the emotional and spiritual well-being who were foster children or living in shelters. The of students, spending time in the hallways and vast majority of our students qualify for free or cafe, on the athletic fields and in the gym, and at reduced cost lunch during the school year. The countless events and activities—always with the needs were everywhere I looked.” right words at the right time, and camera in hand.

“Wherever I went [when I moved to the Bronx], there were people in need: people asking for money; mentally challenged people who lived in a halfway house nearby; students in my school who were foster children or living in shelters.” Sr. Maureen Flynn, ASCJ, ‘81

When Sr. Maureen realized that some of the lunches provided for a summer math and reading program were not being used, she sprang into action and started to distribute the extra lunches to the surrounding neighborhood. “And doing that,” she says, “gave me the idea that this needed to happen all year round.” Now, she and four other Sisters make lunches that they give out every Saturday. The Sisters are there rain, snow, or shine, and

A committed walker and runner who has accumulated more than 25,000 walking and running miles, Sr. Maureen now has the whole of New York City to photograph, and walks all over to capture its people and places. As she reflects on her current mission, she says, “ I am not sure what my most important accomplishment will be at Santa Maria. I just hope that I am able to be the person God called me to be and to be what those whom I am serving need at this time.”

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STUDENT SPOTLIGHT JULIETTE ST. GEORGE ’21 — DANCE, THEATER, AND TRAVEL

“Dance and theater are two of the most important parts in my life; I have been dancing since I was two years old and I am in love with it.” Juliette St. George ‘21

llroom Experienced ba St. dancer Juliette George ’21.

been dancing since I was two years old and I am in love with it.” A student at Joni’s Dance Center in Hamden where she took ballet for ten years, Juliette currently studies tap, jazz, hip hop, and lyrical. She also assists with the younger students, helping them better understand technique and choreography, and encouraging them to grow as dancers. “I help them understand that, when dancing or doing anything you love, you must put in your full focus and best energy,” she says. Juliette is also an experienced ballroom dancer, having taken lessons since she was nine and competing since she was eleven. After taking a year or so off from competing, she went back to ballroom dance again this spring and is, “excited to be back on the dance floor.”

hether traveling, dancing, or acting, Juliette has never spent much time sitting still.

With her family, Juliette has been traveling since she was a young child, including living in Switzerland for a year when she was five with her mother and brother and using that country as a jumping-off point to visit much of Western Europe. More recent trips with her mother have included a journey to England, France, Ireland, and Scotland last summer, and a trip this spring to Italy and Switzerland. “When we travel,” Juliette says, “my mom always takes me to art museums. When I was little, I wasn’t too fond of being what I called ‘dragged around’ to the museums, but I’ve grown to develop an interest in and love of art, and I appreciate that my mom wants me to experience the world and form my own ideas.” Juliette is particularly fond of Expressionism. “I think it is the most engaging style,” she says. “I love the blurry yet vivid detail.” Dance and theater are the focus of Juliette’s own arts practice. “Dance and theater are two of the most important parts in my life,” she says. “I have

In her theater work—which she began when she was four—Juliette has undertaken roles ranging from Ariel in The Little Mermaid to Cherry in the theater adaption of S. E. Hinton’s novel, The Outsiders. She has acted in community theater shows including Annie, Good News, Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat, Legally Blonde Jr., The Music Man Jr., and The Sound of Music. At Sacred Heart, she appeared in The Sound of Music, and has played Barbara in Leader of the Pack and a child in Chitty Chitty Bang Bang. “Theater has made a tremendous impact on my life,” she says. “I have learned to show respect for myself and others, and to go into what I do with a positive attitude. Respecting others and having a positive attitude allows an actor to develop herself to be the best she can be as a person. I am constantly learning that, as an actor you need to understand others before you can give an honest performance.” In her academic life, Juliette is particularly interested in English and world languages. Before her sophomore year, she completed the summer Great Books Program at Amherst College, and will be pursuing a five-week intensive Spanish program at Choate Rosemary Hall this coming summer. Looking toward a career in theater, Juliette would like to minor in that subject in college and major in journalism or international business. And, of course, she wants to travel extensively and hopes to study abroad.

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Sacred Heart Academy Earns Kudos and CONTINUED ACCREDITATION

“WE WERE THRILLED WITH THE COMMITTEE’S REPORT AND WE PLAN TO MOVE QUICKLY TO ORGANIZE THE IMPLEMENTATION OF RECOMMENDATIONS FROM THE SELF-STUDY, THE VISITING COMMITTEE, AND THE COMMISSION.” Sr. Sheila O’Neill, ASCJ, Ph.D., ‘71

n addition to our usual busy days of activities at Sacred Heart, our faculty, staff, parents, and students were deeply engaged last year in the reaccreditation process that all New England independent schools undergo once every decade.

Sacred Heart was applauded for the school’s capacity for self-reflection and insight about its programs, and about its next steps. The Visiting Committee stated how truly impressed they were with the quality of education and the spirit of personal integrity at Sacred Heart Academy.

Conducted under the auspices of the New England Association of Schools and Colleges (NEASC), the process requires a full year of self-study, research, and report writing, culminating with a visit by an evaluation team (the Visiting Committee) made up of representatives from NEASC peer schools.

The Visiting Committee report identified many areas for commendation, particularly the following:

During the 2017-2018 academic year, internal committees made up of faculty and staff, and parents researched and wrote the reports required to respond to the standards used for the evaluation. The 46,000 word self-study, which involved the entire community in structured analysis, self-reflection, and planning, was submitted to the Visiting Committee in July 2018. After their three-day visit to campus in October 2018, the committee submitted their report to NEASC. The short version of the results: We passed our accreditation review with flying colors and were granted a ten-year reaccreditation in November 2018. In a letter to President Sr. Sheila O’Neill, ASCJ, Ph.D., ’71 and Principal Sr. Kathleen Mary Coonan, ASCJ, ’76 the Commission stated, “Both the Visiting Committee and the Commission found Sacred Heart Academy to be a truly outstanding school. The Committee was impressed by every aspect of the Academy and raised several of the school’s own Assessments on Standards as they observed that the school was very strong in many areas—while also humble about their own achievements. The Visiting Committee felt the Academy’s mission was visible and vital in every aspect of the program and that the school is notably focused on its students. The school community truly is a family in the best sense of the term and this warmth, spirit of care, and camaraderie is genuine.”

+ The mission of family and community and for the deep faith manifest in the mission; + Evidence of school spirit; + The immaculate facilities that give testament to the school’s care for everything that serves its students; + The deep traditions that define much of the students’ personal and collective experience; + The uniquely understated acceptance of the exceptional. In an era when public statements of personal value seem paramount, Sacred Heart values quiet but substantial self- realization and unsung care for others—in its students and in the institution of the Academy. Major recommendations include the following: + Continue to implement consistent, long-term faculty training in relation to diversity, inclusion, and fairness within the community; + Continue to clarify useful data and methods for its collection and use when planning or making decisions about enrollment, finances, and marketing; collecting demographic or opinion data that could be helpful; + Continue to develop coherent curriculum plans that emphasize, where appropriate, assessments of student knowledge, skills, and mastery. “We were thrilled with the committee’s report and, having taking full advantage of the accreditation process thus far, we plan to move quickly to organize the implementation of recommendations from the self-study, the Visiting Committee, and the Commission,” said Sr. Sheila. 32

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Throughout her four years here, Vivian has been a member of Student Council. She has also been a member of National Honor Society as well as the French, Math, and Science Honor Societies. A member of the cross country team for all four years, she served this year as captain. An SCC Scholar Leader and a Summa Scholar, Vivian was a member Key Club, Math League, Honors Chamber Choir, Alethea, and served as president of our Medical Researchers Club. Outside of school, she has distinguished herself as a researcher, working with two doctors from the Yale University School of Medicine Department of Immunobiology on a research project that was published in the October 2018 Journal of Immunology. Vivian is listed as one of the three primary researchers in the publication, earning the same credit for the work as the two doctors who spearheaded the project. With her passion for learning, research and leadership, Vivian is well poised for a successful college experience.

Supportive, compassionate, and concerned for others, Clare single-handedly collected and donated more than eight hundred books to New Haven Reads, an urban literacy program, and spends hours reading to a family member with special needs. She volunteered here as a teacher’s assistant in algebra and at Caroline House as an ESL tutor. Recipient of the Yale Book Award as a junior, Clare was named a Summa Scholar, National Merit Commended Scholar, and AP Scholar with Honor during senior year. She is also a member of National Honor Society, and the Latin, Math, and Science Honor Societies, A true lover of anything and everything math, Clare served as president and communications director for the Math Honor Society and was captain and communications director of the Math Modeling Challenge team. Extracurricular activities include Academic Team, Classics Club, and Drama Club. As a rising senior, Claire studied economics and Boston history at Boston University. Also a music lover, she has studied voice for ten years.

In the fall, Vivian will attend Yale University with plans to double major in cognitive science and film.

Clare will be a Presidential Fellow at Bucknell University where she plans to double major in mathematics and classics.

MARY SARAH OLSON—SALUTATORIAN A member of the National, Math, and Science Honor Societies, Mary Sarah earned high honors all four years. She was also a fouryear member of the varsity basketball team, serving as captain senior year, and played soccer all four years. For her accomplishments in academics and athletics she was named our 2019 Scholar-Athlete. In sophomore year, Mary Sarah was selected as our representative to attend the Hugh O’Brian Youth Leadership Conference (HOBY) and as a junior she was our nominee for the Governor’s Scholar Award. She was awarded the University of Rochester Xerox Innovator Award and the Princeton University Book Award, and was named an AP Scholar and Summa Scholar. Mary Sarah was an active member of Key Club, Earth Club, Math League, Sister-to-Sister, Peer Connection, and Charism Connection. She was also a four-year member of the Yale New Haven Hospital Junior Board where she helped raise awareness about issues in the community and spearheaded fundraising activities for the Children’s Hospital.

AMANDA SAVONA—THIRD IN THE CLASS During the summer before her senior year, Amanda participated in the Habitat for Humanity Mission Trip and volunteered at Yale New Haven Hospital in short-term surgery. At Sacred Heart she has served at many events and tutored peers, and in her community, she has volunteered at her local library for more than five years. A member of the Math Modeling Challenge team, Alethea, Classics Club, Orchestra, Shades of SHA, Ski and Snowboard Club, and co-founder of our new Law Club, Amanda still finds time to work at a local bakery. Recognitions include Summa Scholar, AP Scholar with Honor, Gettysburg College Book Award, National Latin Exam—cum laude—and membership in the National Honor Society, as well as the Latin and Science Honor Societies. Amanda is also a musician and makes and sells jewelry on the side. The next step for Amanda is Northeastern University; she is undecided on a major but interested in political science and journalism.

Mary Sarah is headed to Boston College where she will major in biology.

KELLY FRIER—FOURTH IN THE CLASS Kelly works as a swim instructor and lifeguard at her local YMCA. As a rising senior, she participated in the Habitat for Humanity Mission Trip and volunteered with Area Health Education Centers and UConn Medical School registering patients and assisting physician assistants and medical students at pop-clinics for migrant workers in farms throughout Connecticut. She was recognized with the President’s Volunteer Service Award for serving more than a hundred hours to a single organization in one year for her work as an emergency department volunteer at Middlesex Hospital. A member of the National, Math, Science, and

Spanish Honor Societies, Kelly is most proud of the tutoring work she has done with her peers, relishing in their success. She was also a member of Student Council, Medical Researchers Club, and STAR Programmers Club. Awards include AP Scholar with Honor, National Spanish Exam Gold Medal, Summa Scholar, National Merit Commended Scholar, and the Harvard Book Award. Kelly will attend the six-year entry level BS/Master’s physician assistant program at Quinnipiac University.

Class of 2019 College Acceptances Adelphi University Albertus Magnus College American International College American University Assumption College Auburn University Barry University Baruch College Becker College Bentley University Binghamton University Bishop’s University Boston College Boston University Brandeis University Bryant University Bucknell University California Polytechnic State University Central Connecticut State University Clark Atlanta University Clark University Clarkson University Clemson University Coastal Carolina University Colby-Sawyer College College of Charleston College of the Holy Cross College of William & Mary Colorado State University Connecticut College Curry College Dean College Delaware State University Dickinson College Dominican College Drexel University Duquesne University East Carolina University Eastern Connecticut State University Eastern Nazarene College Elon University Emmanuel College Endicott College Fairfield University Fairleigh Dickinson University Flagler College Florida Atlantic University Florida State University Fordham University Franklin & Marshall College Furman University Gannon University

Gateway Community College Gettysburg College Hamilton College Hampton University High Point University Hobart and William Smith Colleges Hofstra University Howard University Husson University Iona College Ithaca College James Madison University Johnson & Wales University Keene State College King’s College Lake Erie College of Osteopathic Medicine Lasell College Le Moyne College Lehigh University Liberty University Louisiana State University Loyola Marymount University Loyola University Chicago Loyola University Maryland Loyola University New Orleans Lynn University Maine College of Art Maine Maritime Academy Manhattan College Manhattanville College Marist College Marymount Manhattan College Marywood University MCPHS University Massachusetts Maritime Academy Mercy College Merrimack College Michigan State University Mount Saint Mary College Muhlenberg College New York Institute of Technology New York University Norfolk State University North Carolina A&T State University North Carolina State University Northeastern University Norwich University Nova Southeastern University Ohio University Pace University, New York City Pennsylvania State University Plymouth State University Point Park University Pratt Institute Providence College

Quinnipiac University Radford University Regis College Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute Rhode Island College Rhode Island School of Design Rhodes College Richmond, The American International University in London Ringling College of Art and Design Roanoke College Rochester Institute of Technology Roger Williams University Rosemont College Rowan University Sacred Heart University Saint Anselm College Saint Joseph’s College Saint Joseph’s University Saint Michael’s College Salem State University Salve Regina University Santa Monica College Sarah Lawrence College School of the Art Institute of Chicago Seattle University Seton Hall University Seton Hill University Sewanee —The University of the South Siena College Simmons University Skidmore College Southern Connecticut State University Southern Methodist University Springfield College St. Andrews University St. Bonaventure University St. Edward’s University St. John’s University State University of New York at Cortland State University of New York at Purchase Stevens Institute of Technology Stevenson University Stonehill College Stony Brook University Suffolk University Syracuse University Temple University Texas A&M University The American Musical and Dramatic Academy The Catholic University of America The College of Saint Rose The New School The Ohio State University The University of Alabama

The University of Arizona The University of Scranton The University of Tampa Thomas Jefferson University Towson University Trinity College Tulane University Tuskegee University Union College United States Army University of Bridgeport University of California, Davis University of Central Florida University of Chicago University of Connecticut University of Connecticut at Stamford University of Connecticut at Waterbury University of Delaware University of Florida University of Georgia University of Hartford University of Illinois at Chicago University of Lynchburg University of Maine University of Maryland University of Massachusetts, Amherst University of Massachusetts, Boston University of New England University of New Hampshire University of New Haven University of North Carolina at Pembroke University of Pittsburgh University of Rhode Island University of Richmond University of Rochester University of Saint Joseph University of San Diego University of South Carolina University of Tennessee, Knoxville University of Vermont University of Virginia University of Wisconsin, Madison Utica College Virginia Military Institute Wagner College Wentworth Institute of Technology West Virginia University Western Connecticut State University Western New England University Wheaton College Worcester Polytechnic Institute Xavier University Xavier University of Louisiana Yale University York College of Pennsylvania

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Mary Sarah Olson I Our 2019 Scholar-Athlete Congratulations to senior Mary Sarah, this year’s scholar-athlete. Recognized for her cumulative grade point average, varsity sports participation, community service, self-discipline, integrity, and leadership, Mary Sarah was honored at the 36th Annual Connecticut High School Scholar-Athlete Awards dinner in May. “Mary Sarah is a leader, an athlete, and an amazing student—the trifecta. When you meet her you immediately know there is no one quite like her. She can manage many activities and responsibilities and never lose her smile. She will stop in her tracks if someone needs her, always willing to lend a hand, to make sure everyone around her is happy. And she’s so genuine that it’s infectious. Mary Sarah makes you want to be better, do better, and be kinder,” said Director of Guidance Kerry Alexander.

“In my time at Sacred Heart, I’ve learned the value of perseverance and hard work both in the classroom and on the field. I’m grateful to my parents, teachers, coaches—and my teammates and classmates—who have supported and challenged me. The grit, knowledge, and confidence I’ve gained will remain with me as I shape my future and join the ranks of Excelsior women.” Mary Sarah Olson ’19

A member of the National, Math, and Science Honor Societies, Mary Sarah earned high honors all four years at Sacred Heart. A four-year member of the basketball team, she served as captain senior year and also played soccer all four years. Mary Sarah was a four-year member of the Yale New Haven Hospital Junior Board where she helped raise awareness about issues in the community and spearheaded fundraising activities for the Children’s Hospital. In addition, she was an active member of Student Council, serving as vice president senior year. She was also a member of Key Club, Earth Club, Math League, and Sister to Sister Club. As a member

of Peer Connection, Mary Sarah chaired the Freshman Transition Program, providing peer counseling and organizing assemblies on current topics such as bullying. She served on the Charism Connection leadership team helping to spread Mother Clelia’s charism in the Sacred Heart community, and also served as a Kairos Retreat leader. In sophomore year, Mary Sarah was selected as the Sacred Heart Academy representative to attend the Hugh O’Brian Youth Leadership Conference (HOBY). As a junior she was the Academy’s nominee for the Connecticut Governor’s Scholar Award and, at Honors Convocation, she was recognized with the University of Rochester Xerox Innovator Award (the science, computer, and math faculty jointly select a junior who shows high motivation in innovation and information technology). Mary Sarah also won the coveted Princeton University Book Award, earned a gold medal on the National Spanish Exam in both junior and senior years, and was an AP Scholar earning 3 or higher on three or more exams. Mary Sarah joins a distinguished group of young women at Sacred Heart—scholar-athletes who have taken on the challenge of our rigorous academic program while excelling in athletics. Always representing Sacred Heart in the best possible light, Mary Sarah consistently worked hard in the classroom, on the field and the court, and inspired her classmates, teammates, teachers, and coaches always to bring their best.

Senior Awards SCC SCHOLAR LEADERS

CAS FOR EXCELLENCE IN ARTS

The Southern Connecticut Conference (SCC) recently hosted its 26th Scholar Leader Banquet. Two students from each member school were recognized for their outstanding efforts in the classroom, in their school, on the field, and in their local communities. Claire Lagarde ’19 and Vivian Wang ’19 were selected to represent the Academy. Kudos!

The Connecticut Association of Schools (CAS) annually honors two outstanding seniors from each member school who excel in the performing and visual arts while possessing qualities of scholarship and leadership. Congratulations to Samantha Dorsi ’19 and Xiaoxiao Crystal Long ’19 who were selected for excellence in performing and visual arts, respectively.

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Senior’s Artwork Recognized

Xiaoxiao Crystal Long ’19 with several of her winning art pieces.

Congratulations to Xiaoxiao Crystal Long ’19 whose artwork earned recognition in several categories from the Connecticut Scholastic Art Awards. The following pieces of hers earned awards: Awakened, That Moment, and Serenity—Drawing and Illustration category The Young Man and The Eye—Painting category Love Cycle—Architecture and Industrial Design category Scholastic Art Awards, an affiliate of The Alliance for Young Artists & Writers, recognizes the work of talented artists in grades 7 to 12. Student artwork is juried by professional artists and university art faculty and selected for inclusion in an annual statewide art exhibition. The exhibit was held at the Hartford Art School Silpe Gallery during winter.

Xiaoxiao was also named the Connecticut Association of Schools (CAS) Featured Artist of Month. A clip showcasing Xiaoxiao and her outstanding artwork aired throughout the month of March on Fox61 News. “Xiaoxiao can always be found in the art room, working on several pieces, using different media, at the same time. She amazes all of us with each new work she produces, as well as each new medium she explores,” said art teacher and Chair of the Fine Arts Department Teresa DelVecchio. Xiaoxiao was accepted to and will attend Parsons School of Design (Early Action) in NYC and concentrate in industrial design in the fall.

With New Course and Club, Students Learn About Law The Academy’s mission to encourage “personal integrity, compassion, justice, and sense of responsibility to self, to others, and to the needs of society” helped steer Rebecca Lendroth Hyland ’01 into public defense, a career devoted to representing indigent individuals accused of crime. Becki graduated from The George Washington School of Law in D.C. and practiced law for six plus years before joining the faculty at Sacred Heart Academy in 2015. Now, as a social studies teacher and chair of the Social Studies Department, she hopes to ignite a passion for social justice and the law in her students. In Becki’s one-semester elective, Law and the Legal System, students are introduced to the history and purpose of law and learn how the rule of law plays a part in daily life. They develop an appreciation for the rule of law, and an understanding of how the law can be used to improve the world they live in. This understanding helps students become educated, active citizens. In the course, students participate in mock trials, critically analyze social issues, and engage in debate. This spring, the class traveled to Hartford, where they received tours of the State Capitol and the Connecticut Supreme Court and witnessed arguments at the Connecticut Appellate Court. Becki also serves as moderator for the Law Club, which exposes members to the many areas of law. Officers Elisabeth Crosby ’20, Gabriela Perez ’19, and Amanda Savona ’19 worked hard this year hosting three events: a game to teach students about search and seizure law; a viewing of RBG, a CNN produced documentary about Ruth Bader Ginsburg; and a fundraiser for Apostle Immigrant Services, a ministry run by the Apostles and close to the hearts of the Sisters. As we continue to build our elective curriculum, with courses like Law and the Legal System, and expand our club offerings, we broaden the experience of our students, guaranteeing that our alumnae will continue to reach “ever higher.”

Dreams Do Come True We are pleased to announce the upcoming fall musical, Peter Pan! Broadway’s timeless classic promises to whisk you away to a place where dreams are born and no one ever grows up. Featuring the iconic songs “I’m Flying,” “I’ve Gotta Crow,” “I Won’t Grow Up,” and “Never Never Land,” and a rousing performance full of magic, warmth, and adventure, Peter Pan is the perfect show for the child in all of us. A dream come true for the student body, Peter Pan will allow the crew to expand its technical prowess (you will see what we mean when you watch the show!), and the performers to entertain countless families. This production will be directed by MaryLee Delaney, produced by Kim Cramer Curbow ’81, and choreographed by Janet Gambardella Bracale ’77, with music directed by Matt Durland. The show opens at the historic Shubert Theater in downtown New Haven with an evening performance on Friday, November 15, and continues with two performances on Saturday, November 16.

From left, Law Cl ub officers Gabr iela Perez ’19, El ’20, and Amanda isabeth Crosby Savona ’19 with Social Studies De and Law Club mo partment Chair derator Rebecca Lendroth Hylan d ’01.

A Fond Farewell George Bedocs will “retire” for the second time this June after serving as our athletic director for 14 years. Prior to joining the Sacred Heart community, he was an educator at Hamden High School for 34 years...a remarkable 48 years in education! During his time as AD at Sacred Heart, golf and ice hockey were added to the athletic varsity offerings, which now number 14. For many years, George also served as the varsity soccer coach and was responsible for improvements made to the athletic facilities. “George will be missed tremendously by the faculty and staff, parents, and especially the student-athletes and we wish him well in this next chapter. His ability to communicate with students and parents and his genuine care and concern for our student-athletes, as well as his ability to motivate students and coaches, has enriched the program and the Academy,” said President Sr. Sheila O’Neill, ASCJ, Ph.D, ‘71.

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Sr. Sheila Tapped to Assist Archdiocese and Local Organization President Sr. Sheila O’Neill, ASCJ, Ph.D., ’71 has recently been asked to share her perspective and expertise. She was appointed by Archbishop of Hartford Leonard P. Blair to co-chair an ad hoc committee studying the future direction and growth of Catholic elementary school education in New Haven. Sister will serve with the president of Albertus Magnus College, Dr. Marc Camille, who will co-chair the committee. The committee’s goal is to research current demographic, financial, and educational data and recommend a plan that encourages the continued growth and improvement of Catholic educational opportunities in the Elm City. The committee’s report will be presented to the Archbishop and to Provost Sr. Mary Grace Walsh, ASCJ, Ph.D., ’75 before December 31, 2019. Archbishop Blair and Sr. Mary Grace

wellness, recovery, and independence. This ministry offers services from facilities based in Waterbury including a thrift store, soup kitchen/ food pantry, shelter, mental health residential living, and affordable housing program.

Sacred Heart was awarded a grant by the ExxonMobil Educational Alliance for science, technology, engineering, or math (STEM). Funds will be allocated to supporting our new engineering course—Engineering Design— slated for the 2019-2020 academic year, according to Sr. Sheila O’Neill, ASCJ, Ph.D., ’71.

Aerin McLaughlin ’21 (left) and Anna Weingart ’21.

Founded in 1958, HOBY has as its mission inspiring and developing our global community of youth to a life dedicated to leadership,

Sr. Sheila was also named to the board of directors of St. Vincent DePaul Mission of Greater Waterbury. Founded in 1978, this non-profit organization provides a network of services to support adults and families in the Greater Waterbury area who are experiencing poverty, homelessness, hunger, and mental health challenges. The goal is for clients to achieve their highest potential in the areas of

Educational Alliance Grant to Support Engineering Course

Hugh O’Brian Youth Leadership Seminar Selections

Each year, based on their essays about leadership, one sophomore is chosen by our Social Studies Department to represent Sacred Heart at the Hugh O’Brian Youth Leadership (HOBY) Seminar and one sophomore is chosen as alternate. This year’s selection is Aerin McLaughlin ’21 with Anna Weingart ’21 serving as alternate.

emphasized the desire to use this study to increase and improve opportunities for families in New Haven, which has a rich history of educating children in Catholic schools.

service, and innovation. HOBY seminars are conducted annually throughout the United States, serving local and international high school students. These seminars allow select students to participate in unique leadership training, service learning, and motivationbuilding experiences. The HOBY Seminar is the only program designed exclusively for high school sophomores. Congratulations to Aerin and Anna.

Through their partnership with Educational Alliance, Exxon and Mobil hope to “fuel young minds and create ‘aha’ moments.” Since its inception, this program has committed more than $34 million to schools across the nation as part of an ongoing effort to support STEM education in the communities served by the funders. The companies hope that, through this partnership with the Educational Alliance, they will be able to provide students with the tools and technology needed to make real-world connections with what they learn in the classroom. For more information, see the partnership’s website: www.exxon.com/en/educationalalliance.

Legacy Strongly Represented in Class of 2023 Legacies from the incoming Class of 2023 were recognized this winter at the annual orientation for incoming freshmen. Eight members of the class have mothers who are alumnae and three members have grandmothers who are alumnae. Twelve class members have one or more sisters who are current students or graduates of the Academy (19 sisters in all). Members of the entering class come from 25 towns and 36 feeder schools. “We are particularly struck with the number of alumnae who are sending their daughters to

Sacred Heart. The presence of these young women at the Academy is a testament to the importance that families place on the values learned here, and their desire to ensure that the Sacred Heart tradition continues,” said Director of Admissions Elaine Mastagni Lamboley ’60 in welcoming the Class of 2023. The following members of the Class of 2023 are Sacred Heart Academy legacies: Julia Cannon, daughter of Mary Jo Early Cannon ’90 and granddaughter of Josephine Notaro Early ’51; Haylie Cieslewski, daughter of Lauren Romano

Cieslewski ’97 and granddaughter of Margaret Sands Romano ’71; Jessica Cofrancesco, daughter of Mary Grether Cofrancesco ’82; Natalia Frangipane, daughter of Regina D’Ambruoso Frangipane ’91; Kathryn Marquis, daughter of Kristen Wajdowicz Marquis ’87; Sophia Mastriano, daughter of Carissa Terranova Mastriano ’94 and granddaughter of Theresa Czaplicki Mastriano ’61 (deceased); Kristina Ponzio, daughter of Renee Mastriano Ponzio ’91; and Carmella Roberts, daughter of Michele Canestri Roberts ’95.

Our New Antonine Scholars

Incoming freshmen with the highest entrance exam scores and those who demonstrate outstanding academic potential are selected to receive the Sister Antonine Signorelli, ASCJ Memorial Scholarship each year. Established in 1993, the scholarship honors the life, philosophy, and achievements of the Academy’s founding principal. These students display strong academic credentials with promise of

future accomplishments, and exemplify the Academy’s motto, Excelsior. This year we welcome ten new Antonine Scholars pictured here with Sr. Sheila O’Neill, ASCJ, Ph.D., ’71 and Sr. Kathleen Mary Coonan, ASCJ, ’76: Theresa Dobbins of New Haven; Pilar Infantino of Westport; Margaret Jinks of Cheshire; Katherine Kelly of Branford; Emma

Kirck of Orange; Kathryn Marquis of Orange; Maeve McConnell of Branford; Sofia Morgillo of Hamden; Francesca Siegel of Hamden; and Annemary Ummacheril of Wallingford. The administration and Antonine Scholars of the Class of 2019 celebrated the arrival of our new scholars and their parents at a reception in their honor in March.

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“BeYOUtiful” Chosen as this Year’s Diversity Week Theme

Program Launched for Middle School Girls Embracing our many cultures during the cultural fashion show.

Painting Mayan masks during Saturdays@SHA.

In March, the student organization SHAdes of SHA hosted Diversity Week to celebrate the many identities that make up our community. The theme, “BeYOUtiful”, was chosen by students to encourage members of the community to live their lives to the fullest and be their true selves. As always, the week culminated in a school-wide assembly; this year’s assembly included a performance by the Tia Russell Dance Company of Woodbridge, speaker Antoinette Brim, and the much anticipated cultural fashion show.

Experience Excelsior—Saturdays@SHA offered girls in grades 5 to 8 an opportunity to experience the serious fun of learning without the pressure of formal grades, putting them in contact with ways of thinking, seeing, and doing that challenged them to reflect deeply and think critically. The workshops and activities informed, engaged, and entertained participating students while they made new friends. More than one hundred students registered for these events, which were free of charge.

Antoinette Brim, an active member of the art community in New Haven and beyond, shared her poetry and thoughts on the importance of time and the power of saying no. Her work includes poetry, memoir, printmaking, and collage. Music was an important element throughout the assembly and the dance troupe performed West African dances to an enthusiastic audience. “They were astounding,” exclaimed one student.

Satyricon Dinner, a Taste of Ancient Rome Imagine a student-run dinner party where participants exchange gifts, and read ghost stories they’ve written—in Latin. That was the scene near the end of the first semester in Jessica Kapteyn’s, Ph.D. Latin 3 class. Replicating an event they had read about in Petronius’ Satyricon—which describes a Saturnalia dinner party where the host spares no expense on extravagant dishes for his guests and the partygoers entertain each other with ghost stories—the students also read Martial epigrams detailing various Saturnalia presents. The Saturnalia is the ancient Roman winter holiday that celebrates the god Saturn for the fall’s harvest and beseeches him for a successful sowing in the spring. Slaves were granted temporary “freedom,” masters served a feast to their clients and slaves, and everyone generally made merry.

Two Saturday sessions, led by experienced faculty with the assistance of current students, were offered during March. Middle school girls were invited to attend either one or both sessions. Reflecting the wide range of Sacred Heart’s humanities-based curriculum and inspired by trailblazers in theatre, ancient history, and art, Creative Arts Saturday offered students both fun and satisfying challenges as they experienced world languages, social studies, and visual and performing arts. STEM Saturday participants used math, science, and programming skills to find clues that led them to learn about trailblazing women, not only in STEM fields, but in business, entertainment, and everyday life. Structured as an escape room, students solved math puzzles, performed science experiments and wrote programs, using their knowledge and logic to break free. Saturdays@SHA is part of a larger initiative implemented this year for prospective students to Experience Excelsior at the Academy. These events, open to all girls in grades 5 to 8, include Open Houses, Shadow Days, and tours of the school.

The John G. Martin Foundation Supports Latest Technology for Sacred Heart Classrooms

Junior Named Governor’s Scholar

Physics teacher Nicole Granucci using a Promethean Board during a lesson on kinetic energy. This winter, Sacred Heart Academy was the recipient of a $24,000 grant from The John G. Martin Foundation of West Hartford to purchase ten state-of-the-art Promethean Boards. While it may have a slightly intimidating and mysterious name, a Promethean Board is actually an incredibly useful piece of technology that is finding its way into today’s classrooms. A Promethean Board is a specific brand of interactive whiteboard that allows someone to project an image from a laptop or a computer, as well as interact with the board through touch or specialized pens. Studies show that the use of interactive whiteboards considerably improves interactive teaching and learning. Features include: • Full high definition color • Anti-glare glass for enhanced visibility • Scalable software with Android applications • Pen and touch differentiation • Increased security with password protection • Lesson delivery software • Internal storage for saving/resuming lessons • Powerful front facing stereo speakers • Superior Ethernet, WiFi & Bluetooth connectivity • Multifaceted wireless communication Director of Mission Advancement Debbie Camner explains that the Promethean Boards are designed for smooth and effortless communication, with

several people being able to write on the same touch screen simultaneously. In addition, this tool allows teachers to create and show content on the screen to the class from their computers. They can then connect students on their laptops to these interactive display boards for collaborative learning. “We are tremendously grateful to president of The John G. Martin Foundation—Frank Loehmann— and to the Foundation board for their support,” said President Sr. Sheila O’Neill, ASCJ, Ph.D., ’71. “In order to have students comfortable and confident in this ever-changing, technology-driven world, we need to have equipment that reflects the strength of our programs. This new technology allows for experiences that will best prepare our students for a fast-paced, technology-driven future.” In noting that the Foundation’s board voted unanimously to approve the project, Frank Loehmann said, “The John G. Martin Foundation is proud to support the mission of Sacred Heart Academy…that of providing a challenging college preparatory education for young women.” This is the third time the Foundation has supported the Academy. In 2015, they funded the transformation of a forty-year-old laboratory into a state-of-the-art biological science laboratory and, in 2007, the Foundation assisted in funding a molecular science research laboratory.

Congratulations to Maria Papademetris ’20 who was named a 2019 Governor’s Scholar. Based on her essay, her PSAT score, and her rank in the top five percent of her class, Maria was chosen as one of only 22 Governor’s Scholars in the state. Selected from an entry pool of the top juniors in Connecticut’s high schools, she was honored along with the other designees at the Governor’s Scholars luncheon in May. As an incoming freshman, Maria was selected as a Sr. Antonine Signorelli Scholar for her outstanding entrance exam score and for demonstrating exceptional academic potential. This year, she served as junior captain of Math League, and as a Classics Club consul. She participated in the 2019 M3 MathWorks Math Modeling Challenge, in which her team placed in the top twenty percent nationwide. She is an active member of the National Honor Society and the Latin, Mathematics, and Science National Honor Societies. Maria sings alto in our Madrigal Choir and also pursues her interest in singing outside of school, chanting and singing in her parish choir.

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An Evening in Emerald City SACRED HEART’S 2019 AUCTION We are most grateful to the alumnae, parents, faculty, and friends who journeyed with us to Emerald City for our Annual Auction dinner in March. Under the leadership of Frank and Donna Sandillo, P ’20, we followed the yellow brick road, surrounded by great company, creative decorations, delicious food and libations, and one-of-a-kind items up for bid. A special thank you to our fabulous chairs for their incredible spirit and vision and to auctioneer extraordinaire Eric Hummel because of the wonderful things he does. It was an unforgettable night that achieved its purposes of celebrating our Sacred Heart family and raising substantial funds to benefit our tuition assistance program and academic programs—all made possible by the dedication of countless volunteers and a shared love for Sacred Heart Academy.

2019 Auction Chairs Frank and Donna Sandillo, P ’20.

FIFTH YEAR A GREAT SUCCESS This year marked our fifth time participating in #GivingTuesday, the global day of giving that kicks off the giving season. Encouraging personal philanthropy and charitable giving during the holiday season, #GivingTuesday embraces the Sacred Heart spirit of service and community. To honor this anniversary, we implemented several new initiatives. In addition to gifts being made on our site, there were two new ways to donate. Donors made their gifts on Facebook without ever having to leave the platform, and early gifts were matched by Facebook and PayPal. Donors also gave through Text2Fund, our new software for short-term campaigns. But the best news…our Advisory Council established a $30,000 matching challenge to

inspire our constituency to donate. Council members matched #GivingTuesday gifts dollarfor-dollar, creating an opportunity to multiply the impact of every gift, no matter the size. “We are so pleased with the results of our fifth #Giving Tuesday, said Advancement Associate Holly Fink. “Social media coming together with non-profit organizations makes for an extraordinary day of generosity. We had a wonderful opportunity for our entire community to support us in making this one-day campaign the largest, most successful to date. And it was; we exceeded our goal, raising more than $60,000. Thank you TUE all donors and to the Advisory Council for challenging us and for helping to educate, inspire, and empower our young women.”

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COMMEMORATIVE DONATIONS Did you know that you can make a tax-deductible donation to Sacred Heart Academy in honor of or in memory of someone, or to commemorate an event or milestone? We will notify the individual or family of your

The Sacred Heart Academy In 2007, former principal Sr. Ritamary Schulz, ASCJ, ’59 established the Heritage Society to give alumnae, their families, and other friends an opportunity to make bequests to Sacred Heart Academy. Charitable bequests may include cash, stocks, real estate, or other property. We welcome open discussions with you or your attorney, accountant, or financial advisor on the specifics of including Sacred Heart Academy in your estate plans. Please contact the Office of Mission Advancement at 203-2882309 for further information. 43

contribution and include it in the Honor Roll of Giving. For more information, contact the Office of Mission Advancement at 203-288-2309.

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Dorothy Sosnowski Lockwood thoroughly enjoyed planning her 60th Reunion, especially connecting classmates through good old-fashioned “snail mail” and electronic communications.

1977

Regina McFarland Johnson recently traveled to California where she crossed the Golden Gate Bridge, walking 7,000 steps!

1985

Jo-Ann DeMilo Iannaccone shared the news that daughter Rose Iannaccone ’16 is currently performing in the national tour of Cats as Rumpelteazer. The tour began in January and is booked for 72 weeks thoughout the country.

1987

Anita DeLucia-Willette shares that she was named after Rev. Mother Anita Marie, an Apostle who taught at St. Michael’s School and is credited with encouraging her students to apply to the newly established Sacred Heart Academy in the ’50s. Anita’s mother, Ann Marsico DeLucia ’51, and Sr. Anita Marie were very close. “Sr. Anita had such presence about her…I am truly blessed to have known her…she is so much a part of the woman I am today,” Anita said. The Sacred Heart tradition continues with Mia Willette, Anita’s daughter, a member of the Class of 2021.

1988

Lynette Sember Glynn is thoroughly enjoying life as a Floridian. This year, she began a new job as a language arts teacher at Emerald Cove Middle School in Wellington. She is still very much in touch with her classmates; Lynette and Lisa DeFrancesco Pyne ’88 met for dinner while Lisa was visiting Florida in January. Both are former presidents of Mothers’ Club.

1994

Kerry Flanagan worked on the video pilot for the new NBC show—The Village—which premiered in March.

2004

Chelsey Manning, J.D., has joined Halloran Sage, a Connecticut based law firm, and currently practices in the Westport office. Chelsey earned a J.D. from Roger Williams University School of Law and a B.S. from Northeastern University in criminal justice.

2006 Samantha Lombardi Girardin and her husband Daniel welcomed Stella Shea on Christmas Eve day.

Jessica Young Saba joyfully shares that on January 25, she and her husband Angelo welcomed their first child, Charlotte Anne.

Blair Destito Santoro and her husband Robert welcomed their first child, Maria Rose, on March 1. Blair teaches theology and serves as co-director of Campus Ministry here at Sacred Heart. Kira Gustafson White and her husband Tyler, of Houston, Texas, welcomed Benjamin Tyler on March 1.

2007 Kristen Edwards Adalio and her husband Anthony welcomed daughter Cadence Joelle on November 25.

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Justine Framularo, MAAT, ATR-P, EAGALA, is an art and equine psychotherapist with a private practice in Southington. She specializes in working with adolescents with substance abuse issues, eating disorders, Oppositional Defiant Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, impulse control issues, trauma, depression, and anxiety. Justine offers free consultations and has job openings for which she encourages Sacred Heart alumnae to apply. She can be reached at www.wilcoxwellness.com/justine. Caitlyn Kinney, fondly known as “Miss Cait” at Communication Foundations, LLC, was promoted to clinical fellow in May 2018. Elise Mangione McCormick and her husband Jack welcomed Henry Aiden, born on January 2.

Jessica Proctor was engaged in June 2018, with plans to marry next October. She and her fiancé Jeffery Valentine recently purchased their first home.

2009

Alexandra Nicaise completed her Ph.D. at UConn in biomedical science this year and moved to the UK for a postdoctoral position at the University of Cambridge. Pictured here is the moving away party given by her Sacred Heart sisters.

2010

Brianna Anania was engaged on Christmas to Sean Keenan; they met at Western Connecticut State University.

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Christie Colón known as DJ Christie in Connecticut and Manhattan, has a career as a DJ that has taken off and taken her global. She just finished her second international gig, which brought her to the Netherlands.

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Kelsey Higgins married John Steinberg at St. Mary’s Church in September. They celebrated their nuptials with a large group of Sacred Heart women in attendance before heading to Italy to honeymoon.

2011

ALUMNAE BUSINESS DIRECTORY is creating an alumnae business

Gwendolyn Lemelin married Domenic Pizzorusso in September at Aqua Turf with Julie Hendrickson ’10 serving as a maid of honor. Gwendolyn says, “Julie and I met on the first day of freshman year in Honors English and have now been friends for 13 years!” Nicole Apuzzo ’09, co-owner of Evermore Imaging, photographed the happy day.

Megan Readey has been promoted to general manager of The Coffee Bean & Tea Leaf in California, where the company is headquartered.

2016

Meghan Jerram, a junior at Saint Anselm College, spent winter break in Austin, Texas. She volunteered at Community First Village, established by the charity Mobile Loaves and Fishes, to help relieve the homeless epidemic in Austin. At the Village, she helped with community gardening and moving new residents into homes. Her group also worked with refugees recently released from detainment and at the Central Texas Food Bank,

packaging and distributing food. Her favorite part of the trip was working with the refugees. “I learned so much by listening to their stories about the hardships they faced on their journey to the United States,” she said.

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2017

Alexa Fiala is currently on the women’s varsity rowing team at University of Rochester. She is a biomedical engineering major, with a concentration in cell and tissue engineering and a minor in public health. Alexa, who plans to complete the premed track, is head of finance for her sorority, Kappa Delta, and participates in the Society of Women Engineers and the Biomedical Engineering Society.

2018

Jiwon Jeong, a six-year doctor of pharmacy major at Massachusetts College of Pharmacy and Health Sciences, visited with Director of Guidance Kerry Alexander while Kerry was touring colleges in Boston. Jiwon was recently asked to be a part of the pharmacy professor’s research team on opioid overdose and works in the Disability Student Services Office.

Fourteen alumnae, spanning nine years of shared Strong Bonds, gathered in Madison in February 2018 for a baby shower honoring Caroline Fischer Ferrarone ’06.” Pictured left to right: Deirdre Farrell Maalouf ’07; Kelly Mannion Ellis ’06; Alex Broderick Mata ’06; Emily Leete ’06; guest of honor Caroline Fischer Ferrarone ’06; Lindsay Walsh ’06; Natalie Tarutis Hambor ’06; Emily Connair ’07; Aileen Farrell Schruth ’00; Courtney Fischer Bright ’04; Maureen Farrell Wright ’04; Gail Butler ’06; Heather Havill ’07; and Emily Donnery ’09.

CLASS OF 1963 LUNCHEON The Class of 1963 held its annual winter luncheon on January 26 in Hamden. Ten classmates attended and enjoyed updating one another. “Such a nice way to spend a Saturday afternoon in the middle of winter! Several classmates who were unable to attend sent greetings and wishes for a healthy and happy 2019,” said Carol Smith Witkowski ‘63.

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Dorothy “Dottie” Sosnowski Lockwood ’59 shared this picture of a friendship formed sixty years ago with classmate Margaret Hilton ’59. She noted that Sr. Stephanie is also a part of her fond memories.

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Celebrates 50th Reunion

“Memory is a way of holding on to things you love, the things you are, the things you never want to lose.” Kevin Arnold

The Class of 1968 50th Reunion reigns as most memorable!

“Our special day came and went, but the memories we made will endure. We found ourselves seniors of a different kind in 2018, but being together and celebrating our golden year made us realize that we haven’t strayed too far away from our SHA roots or from each other. Strong Bonds… a concept that escapes many but is so precious to a chosen few. How fortunate we are to be among them!” Ellen D’Agostino-McGuire ’68

as near as Hamden, and as far away as Hawaii, California, and Florida.

Members of the Class of 1968 Reunion Committee spent nearly a year planning and organizing their big day. Under the guidance of Barbara Tracchio Romano ’61, Sally Cleto Cammarano ’68, Fran Dobek Castiello ’68, Patricia Giaimo Gambardella ’68, Ellen D’Agostino-McGuire ’68, Kathleen Crowley Monaco ’68, and Maria Gambardella Salzano ’68 worked diligently to plan a special time to reflect on memories and honor their deceased classmates. Barbara serves as the Alumnae Leadership Reunion Chair and works with reunion committees. June 2, 2018 marked exactly fifty years from the date of graduation for the Class of 1968, making the occasion that much more special. The committee recruited more than fifty attendees, representing more than fifty percent of their class. Graduates hailed from locations

Ellen said that the class could not wait to celebrate their days as The Golden Girls. “We have always been a strong, friendly, and cohesive group; a group that rarely misses the opportunity to celebrate a milestone reunion year together.” Ellen said that this reunion, particularly the dinner at Bellini’s Restaurant that followed the Mass and the reception at Sacred Heart, will reign as the most memorable. Both Sally and Ellen reflected on how important it was to the committee to honor and recognize deceased classmates: Frances Argento Scaramella ’68, Kathleen Belfanti O’Brien ’68, Patricia Brozek ’68, Ceil D’Albero Caron ’68, Rosemary Morello ’68, Georgia Mullen Dunsmore ’68, Joyce Reardon ’68, and Susan Short ’68. Since seven of the eight had cancer, a donation was made to Smilow Cancer Hospital to support cancer research. A donation in their memory was also made to Ever Higher— The Campaign for Sacred Heart Academy. Contributions were made by many members of the Class of 1968.

On the Road Again

Mark Your Calendar

FALL 2019 I ALUMNAE CALENDAR Musical Ad Campaign

September 4 to 23

Class Agent Conference

September 29

Dedication of the new School Center

October 6

Legacy Luncheon prior to Open House

October 20

Alumnae at the Musical

November 15 & 16

Chapel Bells Memorial Liturgy

November 21

Holly Berry Festival

November 22 & 23

Alumnae Stocking Drive

November 25 to December 9

Young Alum Return Day, Classes of ’19, ’18, ’17 & ’16

November 27

#GIVINGTUESDAY

December 3

Alumnae Stocking Stuffer Social

December 9

Alumnae at the Christmas Concert

December 15

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Alumnae Mentoring Program G FOR MENTORIN RT EA H D E SACR

While Director of Guidance Kerry Alexander was touring colleges and universities this academic year, she caught up with young alumnae Emma Reed ’18, Marah Alian ’16, Jasmin Russo ’16, Casey Goulden ’15, and Julia Benanto ’18 on campus at the University of Scranton, Pennsylvania. At another visit in Boston she visited with Jiwon Jeong ’18 (see Red and White Line). These gatherings give young alums the opportunity to connect with fellow graduates on their college campuses and catch up with the latest news from the Academy.

Do you work in social sciences, humanities, business, or engineering? Are you an interior or graphic designer, lawyer, accountant, or business owner?

Whatever your field of endeavor, please consider registering as a mentor on the Sacred Heart Academy Alumnae (Hamden, CT) Facebook page. For more information, visit the Facebook page and click the Mentorship tab to learn how to fully utilize this platform to network with other alumnae. Or, contact the Office of Alumnae Relations with any questions.

Are you part of a Sacred Heart Academy legacy? What does having been a Sacred Heart girl mean to you? We want to hear! Director of Alumnae Relations Caroline Raynis wants to capture and preserve your unique perspective. Come for a visit to document the Strong Bonds you have with the Academy. All interested parties, please reach out to craynis@sacredhearthamden.org; we would love to film your story, no matter the length!

CALLING ALL

ALUMNAE ATHLETES

Are you interested in participating in an alumnae game in a sport you previously played? An alumnae basketball game is already in the planning stages with former center, Adriana Biondi Betancourt ’07, taking the lead in organizing. Email the Office of Alumnae Relations at craynis@ sacredhearthamden.org if you are interested in organizing an alumnae game for your sport or if you want to play in the alumnae basketball game.

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MAGAZINE

In honor of our new School Center, an upcoming issue of HEART will feature students, parents, and alumnae involved in careers related to creating the spaces in which we live, work, and play. We are looking for those in fields such as ARCHITECTURE, CONTRACTING, INTERIOR DESIGN, LANDSCAPING AND GARDENING, ENGINEERING, THE BUILDING TRADES, AND THE LIKE. If you can help us identify individuals (or are a candidate yourself!) contact Beth Griffin, editor, at bgriffin@sacredhearthamden.org.

IN MEMORIAM

Sacred Heart Alumnae Catherine Mansi Barletta ’79 Judith Bussmann Climie ’64, sister of Marjorie Bussmann Gillis ’69 and Ann Marie Bussmann Heiser ’71 Patricia O’Neil DeToro, Esq., ’76 Christine Farrell Forsythe ’70 Joyce Cecarelli Garofalo ’60, sister of Jo-Ann Cecarelli ’66 Nicolina Diana Gontarz ’56 Laura Civitello Grieco ’86, sister of Marianne Civitello Lyden ’71 and Margaret Civitello Abbagnaro, Esq., ’79 Sheila Bohan Grove ’55 Kathleen Fitzgerald Gulbranson ’57 Diane Beaudoin Karr ’72 Margaret Mary McLeod ’78 Deborah Wilton McLoughlin ’71 Mary DeMeola Stranova ’61 Barbara DeMusis Trocchio ’54 Roberta Wilson Tuttle ’69, sister of Kate Wilson ’66

Sacred Heart Family

Therese Carlson, mother of Therese Carlson Martin ’82 Theresa D’Errico Caruso, mother of Carol Caruso Alix ’68 Alice Cavaliere, mother of Rosemarie Cavaliere Hansen ’73 Richard Chadderton, father of Lori Chadderton Saliby ’81 Lorraine Cronin, mother of Penni Danielson Rose ’78, stepmother of Janice Cronin Cunningham ’78 and Cheryl Cronin ’84 Stanley Cwiertniewicz, father of Joanne Cwietniewicz Mulcahey ’89 Anthony Cuomo, father of Audrey Cuomo Mascola ’63 and Lori Cuomo Earley ’76 Vincenzo Cusano, father of Josephine Cusano DiMatteo ’67 Lucille Daddio, mother of Deborah Daddio ’72 Scott DeFilio, son of Patricia Barilla DeFilio ’64 Telca DiBrigida, mother of Assunta “Sue” DiBrigida Slane ’97 Michael Esposito, father of Alberta Esposito Goodwin ’81 Marguerite Federico, mother of Maria Federico Crocco ’76 (deceased)

John Keefe, father of Brigid Keefe ’14 Rebecca Kwashie, mother of Bernice Kwashie ’13 Louise Mascolo, mother of Mary Mascolo Pellitteri ’74 Michael Mazzacane, brother of Joanne Mazzacane Scalesse ’67 Marguerite Mushinsky, mother of Mary Mushinsky ’69, Dr. Ann Mushinsky ’75, Kate Mushinsky ’77, and Jane Mushinsky ’81 Rosemary Necio, mother of Caren NecioRamirez ’95 Phyillis Nutile, mother of Jennifer Nutile Coyne ’93 and Tara Nutile Longley ’96 Theresa O’Hagan, mother of Margaret O’HaganLynch ’81 and Patricia O’Hagan-Kelly ’86 Nicholas Olivieri, father of Laura Olivieri Pedalino ’81 Michael Orifice, father of Hayley Orifice ’15 Mark Prestash, stepson of Frances Philabaum Prestash ’65 William Pursell, father of Mary Kay Pursell Dupont ’75, Susan Pursell, M.D., ’80, and Joan Pursell Fleming ’89; former Advisory Council member Mary Jane Roy, mother of Jennifer Roy Callahan ’84

Wayne Festa, father of Nicole Festa ’98

Leonard Sanna, father of Lisa Sanna ’76 and Angela Sanna Burkholz ’80

Ralph Fisco, father of April Fisco Keib ’87 and Danielle Fisco Rothe ’88

Belisario “Bill” Simeone, father of Maria SimeoneMcCarthy ’77

Deacon Louis Florio, father of Lynda Florio ’91

Robert Sisson, husband of Nancy Betzner Sisson ’59 Robert Torre, father of Leslie Torre ’95

James Barone, brother of Mary Kate Barone Spainhour ’82

James Flynn, husband of Joyce Williams Flynn ’65, father of Laura Flynn Ayala ’77, Sr. Maureen Flynn, ASCJ, ’81, and Barbara Flynn Schuler ’84

Deanne Beecher, mother of Maria Beecher ’14 and Courtney Beecher ’16

Angela Gambardella, mother of Janet Gambardella Bracale ’77

Michael Bellmore, husband of Deborah Guida Bellmore ’76

Dorothy Guarino, mother of Pamela Guarino Brennan ’71 and Roberta Guarino Sawicki ’74

Sally Cahill, mother of Kathleen Cahill Omicioli ’70

Emmet Hibson, father of Lisa Hibson ’81

John Callahan, father of Mary Jane “M.J.” Callahan, CPA, ’82

Paul Howarth, brother of Diane Howarth Schatz ’77 and Nancy Howarth ’80

Joseph Adante, father of Gina Adante Comeau ’08 James Avitabile, father of Deborah Avitabile Graham ’96 Donald Baird, father of Stacey Baird Williams ’83

Frank Iannotti, son of JoAnne Vigliotti Iannotti ’57

Fred Valenti, father of Lisa Valenti Scarpa ’76 (deceased), Cathy Valenti Freschi ’78, Carole Valenti Dupont ’80, and Anne Valenti Sypek ’84 Ronald Vitali, father of Lesley Vitali Montano ’88 Eugene Wajdowicz, father of Carol Wajdowicz Fulton ’79 Adrienne White, mother of Kimberly White Nelson ’85 and Deana White Ebert ’93; former school nurse Walter Woodmansee, father of Heather Woodmansee Saccu ’94

This memorial listing includes information as of February 18, 2019. Information about deceased persons received after this date will appear in the next issue of HEART. Please contact the Alumnae Office when an immediate family member or a graduate has passed so that we can express our condolences and remember that person in prayer.

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WE BUILT IT! JOIN WITH OUR SACRED HEART COMMUNITY AS WE CELEBRATE THE OPENING OF OUR

NEW SCHOOL CENTER SUNDAY, OCTOBER 6 2:00 P.M. LITURGY IN CHAPEL DEDICATION AND BLESSING IMMEDIATELY FOLLOWING ––––– TOURS AND RECEPTION IN THE SCHOOL CENTER