Church of Saint Mary Parish Bulletin: April 28, 2024

CHURCH of SAINT MARY

The Fifth Sunday of Easter April 28, 2024

Reverend Father Robert A. Romeo | Pastor

Reverend Father Dominik Wegiel | Parochial Vicar

Reverend Father Rafal Borowiejski | Parochial Vicar

Reverend Father Edward Obi, MSP | Parochial Vicar

1300 Northern Boulevard | Manhasset, New York 11030

516 627 0385 | Fax 516 627 6070

www.saintmarysmanhasset.org

Parish Mission Statement

We, the community of Saint Mary’s, Manhasset, building on our rich heritage of Catholic faith and tradition, center ourselves in the Eucharist and honor God in proclaiming the Good News of Jesus Christ.

Guided by the Holy Spirit, we seek to be the presence of Christ through our liturgical, educational and social ministries. We dedicate our time, talent and treasure to the service of all as we build the kingdom of God in our world. We commit to this mission in the name of Jesus Christ.

Church of Saint Mary

1300 Northern Boulevard

Manhasset, New York 11030

(516) 627-0385

Fax (516) 627-6070

www.saintmarysmanhasset.org

Schedule of Masses

Thursday 7:00 AM (when school is in session)

Monday–Friday 9:00 AM

Saturday 9:00 AM, 5:00 PM

Sunday 7:30 AM, 9:00 AM, 10:30 AM, 12:00 Noon

Sacrament of Penance

Saturdays from 4:00-4:45 PM and by appointment. Please call 627-0385.

Anointing of the Sick

The Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick is celebrated in the Chapel on the second Sunday of the month following the 10:30 AM Mass. If you are unable to come to Church, please call the Parish Office to make arrangements for Anointing or to receive the Eucharist.

Parish Office

627-0385 | Fax 627-6070

Monday 9:00 AM - 4:00 PM

Tuesday - Friday 9:30 AM - 4:00 PM

Saturday - (phone only) 10:00 AM–1:30 PM

Sunday 9:30 AM - 2:00 PM E-mail: information@stmary.ws

Parish Social Ministry 365-2705

Monday-Wednesday-Thursday 11:00 AM-3:00 PM

E-mail: kkosciusko@stmary.ws

St. Vincent de Paul Society: svdp@stmary.ws

Religious Education

627-4028

Monday 12:00 Noon-8:00 PM

Wednesday 9:00 AM–5:00 PM

Tuesday and Thursday 9:00 AM–6:00 PM Closed on Friday

PARISH DIRECTORY

Pastoral Staff

Rev. Fr. Robert A. Romeo Pastor 627-0385 | ext. 1004 pastor@stmary.ws

Rev. Fr. Dominik Wegiel Parochial Vicar 627-0385 | ext. 1006 frdominik@stmary.ws

Rev. Fr. Rafal Borowiejski Parochial Vicar

Rev. Fr. Edward Obi, MSP Parochial Vicar fredward@saintmarysmanhasset.org

Parish Staff Jane Clifford Bulletin Editor bulletin@stmary.ws

Marie T. Granieri

Director of Religious Education 627-4028 | ext. 1127 releddirector@stmary.ws

Vincent Hartley Facilities Manager 627-0385 | ext. 1002

Kathleen Kosciusko Director of Parish Social Ministry 627-0385 | ext. 1126 kkosciusko@stmary.ws

Jennifer LaChance Office Manager 627-0385 information@stmary.ws

Daniel Maimone Music Director 627-0385 | ext. 1021 dmaimone@saintmarysmanhasset.org

Vanessa Quiros Parish Office 627-0385 vquiros@stmary.ws

Sr. Teresa Raftery, IHM Adult Faith Formation 627-0385 | ext. 1010 traftery@stmary.ws

The Schools of Saint Mary Nursery through 12th Grade

Very Rev. Dom Daniel Nash, Can. Reg. President 627-2711 president@stmary.ws

Norma Ragalli Stafford

Director of Admissions 627-2711 | ext 1084 nstafford@stmary.ws

Edward Short Vice President of Development 627-2711 | ext 1120 eshort@stmary.ws

Eileen M. Symmons ’82, ’86 Director of Communications 627-2711

esymmons@stmary.ws

Kiera Gmelich Walsh Director of Alumni and Parent Relations 627-2711 | ext. 1162 kwalsh@stmary.ws

Sarah de Venoge Griffin ’02, ’06 Liaison for School Relations sgriffin@saintmarysmanhasset.org

St. Mary’s Elementary School 627-0184

www.stmary11030.org

Theresa A. Kemp Principal tkemp@stmary11030.org

St. Mary’s High School 627-2711

www.saintmaryshs.org

Gerard J. Buckley Principal gbuckley@saintmaryshs.org

From the Pastor’s Desk

Dear Parishioners,

“I am the vine, you are the branches.” (John 15:5)

The Scriptures are filled with many metaphors. Today, St. John offers us the image of Jesus as the vine and we as the branches. This model for Christian life reminds us that for us to bear fruit of the faith we need to make sure we are constantly connected to the source of our life…Jesus, like a vine gives life to the branches and allows them to live and bear fruit. When we are one with Jesus, He can offer us His life. Like a branch that is cut off from the vine and withers and dies, when we are separated from Jesus that relationship and faith cannot grow. There is no “nourishment” to sustain us. St. Cyril of Alexandria says

“Like branches growing from a vine, we now draw our life from Christ and we cling to His holy commandment in order to preserve this life…and He helps us grow in love and reverence for God, and teaches us to discern right from wrong and to act with integrity.”

That connectedness is the strength and “nourishment” we need to live as fruitful Christians. The Word of God is a good source of Jesus’ life to us. Meditating, pondering, and devouring the Word keeps us aware of who Jesus is.

In the Acts of the Apostles, we are told that Saul (St. Paul), hearing the voice of Jesus in such a dramatic fashion, is radically and permanently transformed. This transformation moves him from being a major persecutor of the early Church to one of the greatest preachers of Jesus Christ as Lord. Hearing the voice of Jesus was paramount in his life because he now, as St. John tells today, follows “the command of God and believes in the name of His Son, Jesus Christ.” St. John continues to remind us to love one another as He commanded us. When we profess the Lordship of Jesus and follow His commands, we remain in Him. It is in Him that we are continually nourished and strengthened in our faith. As you know, strengthened in the Vine, we find our true life in Jesus.

The most powerful experience of the life of Jesus is, of course, the Eucharist. It is in the Mass that Jesus, as the vine, gives us His very self as gift. This gift unites us to Jesus is a way no other experience can come as close. See in the Eucharist the unity and strength that comes from Jesus. St. Augustine says “The one who devoutly participates in Holy Mass will receive a great vigor to enable him to resist sin.” When we move from sin, we naturally embrace a deeper experience of Jesus in our lives and hence our actions. Let His holy presence make you a “fruitful vine.” Come with devotion and reverence to receive Our Lord in this most wondrous gift. Allow the vine to nourish your faith in this life so you may preserve it for life eternal.

This week, we begin the month of May, the month dedicated to Our Blessed Mother. I encourage you to honor her by saying the Rosary as a family. Let her maternal love lead you closer to her Son, Jesus.

In Jesus, our Resurrected Lord, and Mary, our Mother, Fr. Bob

Second Collection Next Weekend Invest in the Future of Our Church Support Catholic Education on Long Island

100% of your donation supports Catholic School students. Half goes directly to St. Mary’s and half supports scholarships for students throughout Long Island attending Catholic schools.

Stewards of God’s Gifts

In the Gospel, we are called to remain close to Christ—for this is how we grow.

Living Stewardship ~ Pillar of Hospitality: As Catholics, let us spread love and compassion wherever we go. Let us allow the Spirit to guide us to be hospitable to all we come across.

The collection for Sunday, April 21, 2024 amounted to $24,537.00.

The collection for Sunday, April 23, 2023 amounted to $23,750.00.

We Care for Our Parish Community

Baptism

We celebrate Baptism at 1:30 PM on the second Sunday of the month and at 12:30 PM on the fourth Saturday of the month as scheduled. Please call the Parish Office at least one month in advance to see if a date is available and to arrange to fill out pre-baptismal paperwork. New parents are required to attend a Baptism preparation session held once every month. Those chosen as sponsors for Baptism should lead lives in harmony with the Catholic faith and the role of Godparent.”

Marriage

At least six months before you plan to be married and before you make arrangements for the reception, please make an appointment with one of the priests to begin the necessary preparations.

Children’s Education

Saint Mary’s Elementary School offers excellent education in the spirit of the Gospel from grades N, Pre-K to Eighth grade. For information call 627-0184.

Empowering Character, Innovation and Leadership in our students, Saint Mary’s High School is a dynamic, contemporary, Catholic value-centered school, combining a commitment to academic excellence and educational innovation, with a passion for learning, and an emphasis on moral character development through the pursuit of truth and discovered in faith and reason. For information call 627-2711.

The Religious Education Program provides excellent formation in the Catholic Faith for children in public or private schools. Preparation for First Holy Communion and Confirmation requires two years. Classes are held at St. Mary’s for Grades 1 through 5 on Tuesdays and Thursdays

4:30-5:30 PM. Classes also meet on Sundays from 9:3010:20 AM for Grades 1 through 8 and on Mondays from 7:00-8:00 PM for Grades 6, 7 and 8. We also offer the option of an online home program for Grades 1 through 7. For information about Grades 1-8 call 627-4028 or email Mrs. Marie Granieri at releddirector@stmary.ws.

Parish Social Ministry

We care for our sisters and brothers through our Parish Social Ministry and Food Pantry. For information call 365-2705.

Youth Ministry

We reach out to our teens though our Youth Ministry Program. For information email youth@stmary.ws or visit stmarysyouth.weebly.com.

New Parishioners

We welcome new members to the Catholic Church and to Saint Mary’s Parish. If you are new in the area or interested in learning more about the Catholic faith, please call the Parish Office.

Opportunities For Prayer

The Church is open Monday to Friday until 8:45 PM, on Saturday until the end of the 5:00 PM Mass, and on Sunday until 6:00 PM so that we may have the opportunity for quiet prayer before the Blessed Sacrament. The Miraculous Medal Novena is said each Monday following the 9:00 AM Mass. Monday to Saturday the Rosary is said following the 9:00 AM Mass. Eucharistic Adoration is held every Monday from 3:00 to 5:00 PM in the Chapel. On First Saturdays, the Scriptural Rosary is recited following the 9:00 AM Mass.

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Masses and Special Intentions

Christine Marchese

Maria DeAngelis

Donna Chesney

Erica Klock

Jacob Rivera

Jaxson Rivera

Ronald Grubert

Dr. Michael O’Grady

Gladys Jean

Douglas Martocci, Sr.

Katharin Whelan

Carol Furciato

Mason

Tom Francess

Gabriel Romeo

Ann Shields

Mickey Kennedy

Sarah Horsham

Nina Principe

Cole Marguglio

Sandy Pittman

Richard Atkinson

Anthony Polizzi

Kathy Dellis-Stover

Edwin Kennedy

Names will remain on the list for three months. Please email bulletin@stmary.ws if you would like to continue with the listing

Mary Stark

Cecilia Ugbut

Angelina Leuschner

Sheri Ralph

125th Brigade Support Battalion

23rd Marine Regiment

25th Marine Regiment

2-4 GSAB Task Force Mustang

2-211th GSAB Task Force

War Horse

51st Security Force Squadron

75th Ranger Regiment

82nd Expeditionary Rescue Squadron

Alacqua, Alexander, 1LT, USA

Amerson, Jason, CPT, USA

Anderson, Michael, 1LT, USA

Arnold, James, LCpl, USMC

Arnoux, Seraph, PFC, USA

Avasthi, David, Capt, USAF

Baber, Joseph, Maj, USAF

Broderick, Evan, SGT, USA

Broderick, Steven, SN, USN

Brodie, Virgina H., 2ndLt, USMC

Brown, Jason, SGT, USA

Collins, Matthew, LT, USN

Fontanetta, Joseph, Maj, USMC

Hannan, Jack, ENS, USN

Hayes, Andrew, Ca1837-1890pt, US MC

Hellman, Thomas, 2d Lt, USSF

Hernandez, Steven, SSgt, USAF

Higgins, James, GySgt, USMC

Hilton, Justin, SGT, USA

Colleen Nash Mazj

Patrick Joseph “PJ” Nash

Hilton, Nathaniel, SGT, USA

Horner, Brian G., 1stLt, USMC

Howard, Edward M., GySgt, USMC

Jones, Scott B., LT, USN

Jones, Katherine L., LTJG, USN

Kennedy, Michael, Col, USAF

LaManna, Vincent S., Jr., PVT, USA

Landolphi, Michael, ENS, USN

Lanza, Anthony E., LtCol, USMC

Madden, Michael E., Major, USAF

Major, A. Edward, III, LTC, USA

Marine Medium Tilt Rotor Squadron 161

Marine Transport Squadron 352

McGorry, Patrick F., HM2, USN

McKievear, Gary, LT, USA

Millau, Jeffrey, PFC, USMC

Morris, Jr., Brian J., ENS, USN

O’Leary, Jason, SSgt, USAF

Petracca, Evan L., LTJG, USN

Quinn, Anthony, Jr., SGT, USA

Richardson, Timothy, PV2, USA

Radman, Paul Cpl, USMC

Rodi, Caroline G., CAPT, USN

Saville, John A., ENS, USN

Sharkey, John J., LtCol, USMC

Spivak III, Edmund, Capt, USAF

Sweeney, Timothy, CPT, USA

Swersky, Roberto, Capt, USMC

Tafone, Samantha, SGT, USA

Ullrich, Kenneth C., HN, USN

Unger, Matthew J., SPC, USA

Vachris, Madison, LT, USN

Wood, Kelly, BMSR, USN

If you have a service member that you would like to add to this list please e-mail bulletin@stmary.ws. Please include name, rank and branch of service.

Masses for the Week

Monday, April 29th

St. Catherine of Siena, Virgin & Doctor of the Church Acts 14:5-18, Jn 14:21-26

9:00 AM | Mary Indelicato

Tuesday, April 30th

St. Pius V, Pope Acts 14:19-28, Jn 14:27-31a

9:00 AM | Kevin Joseph Driscoll, Jr.

Wednesday, May 1st

St. Joseph the Worker Acts 15:1-6, Jn 15:1-8

9:00 AM | Ellen Coughlin

Thursday, May 2nd

St. Athanasius, Bishop & Doctor of the Church Acts 15:7-21, Jn 15:9-11

7:00 AM | Patricia Gail Ascolese

9:00 AM | Francis Hone

Friday, May 3rd

Ss. Philip & James, Apostles

First Friday 1 Cor 15:1-8, Jn 14:6-14

9:00 AM | Mary Jane Belt

Saturday, May 4th

First Saturday Acts 16:1-10, Jn 15:18-21

9:00 AM | Bernardo Benacquista

5:00 PM | Giuseppe Parrella

Thomas J. Flynn, Sr.

Syed Massakat Naqvi

Robert Palma

Anna Forte

Joseph Haddock

Randi DeLucia

Sunday, May 5th

Sixth Sunday of Easter Acts 10:25-26, 34-35, 44-48, 1 Jn 4:7-10, Jn 15:9-17

7:30 AM | Harry Pallas

9:00 AM | People of the Parish

10:30 AM | Mary Alice J. McCann

William McDonough

Francis Hone

Tina Marie Ferazzoli

Kevin Cronin

Martin Gately

Lorraine Anne Rios-Veve

12:00 Noon | Purgatorial Society

Cover Art: Christ the True Vine.

Artist: 16th century Greek icon.

Spa photo on page 16 courtesy of Mediamodifier on Unsplash

Novena of Masses

Please hand in the names of those you wish to be remembered in the Mother’s Day Novena of Masses by

Mother’s Day, May 12th. Cards are available in the vestibules and on the windowsills of the church.

ST. MARY’S GIFT SHOP IS OPEN ON S U N D A Y S AFTER THE 9:00, 10:30 AM, & 12:00 NOON MASSES WE HAVE BEAUTIFUL ITEMS FOR ALL OCCASIONS

Located in the Parish Ministry Center 516-627-0385 ext. 1033

Visit the parish website: www.saintmarysmanhasset.org for the latest parish news and events

Readings and Questions for Faith Sharing on the Sixth Sunday of Easter

Reading I: Acts of the Apostles 10:25-26, 34-35, 44-48

“In truth, I see that God shows no partiality.”

Reading II: 1 John 4:7-10

In this way the love of God was revealed to us: God sent his only Son into the world so that we might have life through him.

Gospel: John 15:9-17

“No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.

Question for Adults:

How am I living out Jesus’ commandment to love my neighbor?

Question for Children:

How do I show that I love God above everything and everyone else?

Church of Saint Mary

Rosary Society

Our Mission Statement:

The Rosary Society fosters devotion to Mary through prayer and good works for causes that would be dear to her heart

Invest 20 minutes of your day to pray the Rosary, and see the difference it will make in your life.

If you would like the Rosarians to pray for a special intention, please e-mail us at rosarysociety@stmary.ws.

Upcoming Events for Members:

Friday, May 3rd - Monthly Meeting. Details to follow. Thursday, June 13th - Closing Mass. Details to follow.

All Parishioners Are Invited to the Following Events:

Sunday, May 5th - after the 9:00 AM Mass - May Crowning

All First Holy Communicants in the Parish are invited to attend. If possible, please wear your Communion attire.

Saturday, May 11th - 4:15 PM - Outdoor Rosary

Please join us as we honor our Blessed Mother.

Wednesday, May 15th - 7:00 PM - Evening of Prayer

The Rosary Society will be hosting an evening of prayer in the church with the Recitation of the Rosary followed by Vespers in honor of our Blessed Mother.

Rosary Society Celebrates Their Annual Induction Mass and Communion Brunch

On Saturday, April 20th, the Rosary Society held their annual Induction Mass and Communion Brunch preceded by the recitation of the Rosary. Over fifty Rosarians and family members were present for the official induction of four Rosarians (at top right) June Keller, Ingrid Keating, Jennifer LeChance, and Adrianna Duggan and four Daughters of Mary (at bottom right) Grace Romito, Abby (Abigail) Guiheen, Emma Alameda, and Caterina Bootsma with each inductee receiving their medals. The four Daughters inductees are all students at St Mary’s. They join nine other Daughters of Mary, five of whom attend St. Mary’s High School and four attend other Catholic High Schools. The Daughters of Mary meet under the direction of Cathy Morrissey, Erin Morrissey-McNamara and Laura Sciametta. Throughout the school year, these girls have demonstrated commitment to the mission of the Rosary Society in their devotion to Our Blessed Mother at regular prayer meetings as well as charitable service to the parish community.

At the brunch which followed at North Hempstead Country Club, the new Daughters of Mary as well as existing Daughters Caroline, Serene, and Saoirse were recognized at the brunch. The three existing Daughters received a certificate of recognition for their continued participation.

The Rosarians had the pleasure of listening to a talk by the Very Rev. Dom Daniel

Steven Nash, Can. Reg., Pastor of St. Rocco in Glen Cove and St. Hyacinth in Glen Head, and President of the Schools of St. Mary. He shared his story of how he came to be a Canon, living in a community under an Augustinian rule. We thank Father Daniel for taking the time out of his busy schedule to speak with the Rosarians. We are very fortunate to have Father as part of our community.

Cheerful Catholic Academic

THE SCHOOLS OF ST. MARY

Students Trace their Family Origins to Embrace their Past and Share their Stories

The second-grade students at Saint Mary’s Elementary School recently embarked on a fascinating journey to discover their family origins. These young explorers worked on their projects in the classroom and at home, creating a beautiful kaleidoscope of heritage and tradition by tracing ancestral roots and celebrating diverse cultures. From Italy to India, Ghana to Greece, and points in between, our young scholars embraced the beauty of their family stories. Beyond their geography lessons, they learned the power of connection and unity in diversity, as we are all children of God. Their smiling faces showed how happy and proud they felt upon sharing their stories with their classmates and teachers. Here’s to embracing our past to illuminate our future!

St. Mary’s Gaels Varsity Lacrosse Honors Fallen Alumnus

On Tuesday, April 9, 2024, the Saint Mary’s High School Varsity Lacrosse team took to the field with “JD” monogram patches on their jerseys in honor of fallen NYPD Detective Jonathan Diller, who was a member of the Class of 2010 and a former Gaels championship team lacrosse player. The visiting team, Xaverian High School, also paid tribute to the fallen alumnus by wearing blue ribbons on their jerseys for the non-league game. Together, the teams, coaches, and attendees prayed and shared a moment of silence before the game. St. Mary’s Athletic Director Patrick Welsh noted, “We are grateful to the Xaverian Clippers for demonstrating their support of our school during this difficult time. Although we lost (6-8), I was proud of our team and coaching staff for their remarkable strength and sportsmanship during this game.”

St. Mary’s High School will continue to remember their fellow Gael, fallen hero, and brother in Christ. The school is planning largerscale events later this year to honor the memory of Detective Diller.

CLOTHING DRIVE

Donate gently used or new clothing to those in need.

Sunday, May 5, 2024

7:30 AM through 1:30 PM

Church of St. Mary Main Parking Lot

The Growing Danger of Physician-Assisted Suicide in New York State

A Pastoral Statement to the People of God of the Diocese of Rockville Centre

Most Reverend John O. Barres, Bishop of Rockville Centre

https://www.drvc.org/wp-content/uploads/

Pastoral-Statement-4-18-2024-2-1.pdf

St. Mary’s Book Club

MMER SUMMER

WEEK 1 JUNE 24-28

ART (Grades 1-8)

WEEK 3 JULY 8-12

THEATRE (Week #2)

CHEER/DANCE (Grades 1-8)

BASKETBALL (Grades 3-12)

VOLLEYBALL (Grades 6-9)

ALL SPORTS (Grades 1-8)

WEEK 5 JULY 22-26

BOYS BASKETBALL (Grades 3-12)

GIRLS BASKETBALL (Grades 5-9)

CAMPS C CAAMMPPS S

WEEK 2 JULY 1-5*

THEATRE (Grades 5-9) This is a three-week program

BASKETBALL (Grades 3-8) culminating with a show.

LACROSSE (Grades 1-8)

ALL SPORTS (Grades 1-8)

*No camps held on July 4.

WEEK 4 JULY 15-19

THEATRE (Week #3)

CHEER/DANCE (Grades 1-8)

VOLLEYBALL (Grades 6-9)

SOCCER (Grades 3-8)

HIKING (Grades 5-9)

Bread & Wine

are offered this week in loving memory of Ellen Coughlin

The Parish Book Club meets on Thursdays at 10:00 AM Facilitated by Fr. Eddy

The Return of the Prodigal Son: A Story of Homecoming by Henri J.M. Nouwen

Even though they have already begun, anyone interested in participating in the book discussions may acquire the book (Amazon, Barnes and Noble, etc.) and join in. The meetings are about an hour in the Saint John Paul II Room, ending on May 23rd.

In Session with Dr. Patricia Pitta

Getting Closer to God: Break Negative Habits and Be Born Again in God’s Image

Jesus replied, “Very truly I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God without being born again.” (John 3:3)

In this Easter Season of Resurrection: How can you get closer to God? Can you create new healthy habits? Can you make the love and devotion to the Lord a part of your daily life?

As we know, we are all imperfect. Our journey on earth is to improve ourselves in the likeness of God and change our actions to reflect his actions and messages for us. When you are faced with a challenging situation, a good question to ask yourself is: “What would God do or what advice would God give you?”

Is it your anger expression that hurts others and ultimately yourself? Does your anxiety overtake your ability to enjoy your life? Are you lost in searching for the next bigger and better acquisition? Do you envy what others have and cannot find beauty in your own life? Do fears and worry define and drive your thinking and cheat you of seeing and appreciating the beauty in your life? Do substances overpower you, so you are lost in a world of distortions and wishes, leaving those around you in angst, fear, and loneliness? And, leaving you in destructive patterns and behaviors that influence your life and stop you from evolving in a positive manner? I bet there are many questions you can entertain about your behaviors, life, and adjustment. Just ask yourself: What would God tell you to do?

How would God deal with similar situations you find yourself struggling with? Remember, when God lived on earth, he suffered as a human being to show us the way.

So, you might ask: “How would God guide your actions?”

Let’s take the example of your expression of anger. This is such a common problem. For many, it is not what you say, it is the way you say it. How do you learn to control your temper so you can state your message in a way that it can be received? You need to emotionally regulate yourself and state your thoughts and feelings directly.

Emotional regulation means that you learn to calm your mind so you can think with logic from God rather than from being over excited and destructive in your delivery. How do you integrate God’s grace and love into yourself so you can touch others with understanding and strength in times of emotional upheaval? By praying to God for transformation of anger to strength and understanding. That will enable you to accept the guidance of the Holy Spirit to stop the negative habits in the face of distress and challenge.

So, when you feel yourself getting upset for whatever the reason: Say a prayer, calm your mind that is overexcited, and envision the strength of the Lord over you. Put out the fire within your brain that travels to many parts of your body and take a deep breath and respond to your challenging situation. You can do it. I tell my children and adolescent patients to envision what a fire fighter does when there is a fire. Envision water coming from a firehose putting out the fire and say a prayer.

Below is a prayer for internal calm that you can say. Practice it and think about its meaning. When a situation arises, say that prayer to our dear Lord and you will be able to take the necessary steps to deal with your challenges. Remember: The Holy Spirit is always available to guide you. I envision the power of the Holy Spirit on my shoulder that is there for the taking when I need HIM. If you transform your challenge, you will not have to transmit your challenge in a negative manner and create further chaos and pain in your life and those you touch.

My Dear Lord: I know you are always here for me. I thank you for all the gifts of my life. I am asking you to help me with my emotions so I may deal with my behaviors, thoughts, and actions that I would like to change. It is very difficult when I become upset not to resort to my actions that are laden with anger, insecurity, fear, and (put what you are struggling with here). Help me calm my emotions that are on fire now and help me realize I can work through the necessary steps to find resolution with the Holy Spirt as my guide.

Dr. Pitta is a Clinical and Family Psychologist practicing in Manhasset and is the chair of the Mental Health Ministry of St. Mary’s. For more about Dr. Pitta, visit her website drpatriciapitta.com.

Mother’s Day Spa Basket Raffle

Sponsored by the Fr. William A. Daly Columbiettes

6 beautiful spa baskets will be raffled off on Sunday, May 5th, after the 12:00 Noon Mass Tickets will be sold after all Masses May 4th - 5th

Knights of Columbus

Father William A. Daly S.J. Council #2122 Serving St. Mary’s Parish in Manhasset and St. Aloysius Parish In Great Neck www.kofc2122.org

What is a Knights of Columbus Family?

We are Catholic families building a bridge to our faith.

Our lives, time, efforts, and resources are dedicated to these values: Charity. Unity. Fraternity. Patriotism.

We come from different places, backgrounds, and all stages of life. But the common thread is our Catholic faith. We are Catholic families seeking to improve ourselves and the world. It’s one thing to say who you are. It’s another thing is to live it. Put your values into practice. Become a Knights of Columbus family.

Interested? Please call:

Tony Racioppo 917 539 0859

Dan Garcia 516 358 1817

Ladies interested in joining the Columbiettes

Please contact Maura Clifford at Macliff56@gmail.com

Let the little children come to me... (Matthew 19:14)

All Children Are Invited to Participate in Children’s Liturgy of the Word Every Sunday at the

9:00 AM Mass

Fifth Sunday of EASTER

John 15:1-8 “Jesus said, I am the true vine, and my Father is the vine grower. Remain in me, as I remain in you. I am the vine, you are the branches. Whoever remains in me and I in him will bear much fruit. If you remain in me and my words remain in you,ask for whatever you want and it will be done for you.” Check out a Worldwide Marriage Encounter Experience today. It will help your relationship and teach you tools to transform your marriage.You can find one by looking up WWME.org. Some of the dates to sign up are:

June 7-June 9, 2024 in Upton,, MA

June 21-June 23, 2024 in Huntington, NY

August 2-4, 2024 in Portland, CT

Worldwide Marriage Encounter sponsors a variety of in-person and virtual marriage experiences, some on weekends and some on seven weekdays. Couples explore their relationship with each other, God, and the Church. Registration is limited; there is a $100 application fee. For more information or to apply, call Kevin & Regina Hickson at 516-554-3835 or https://wwmenyli.org/.

Business Owners:

Please consider advertising in our bulletin. It’s a great way to support our parish. Call our printer, LPi, at 1-800-477-4574

Parish Social Ministry

FOCUS

Friends Offering Care Understanding and Support

We hope you will join us for a

Chapel Mass and Luncheon Mass and Luncheon

Friday, May 17th, 2024

Mass in the Chapel at 11:30 AM

Luncheon in the Marian Room at 12:30 PM Reservations $20.00 per person

Chairpersons: Ronnie LoCascio and William Urig

RSVP By May 13th

Make checks payable to: St. Mary’s Parish Social Ministry

1300 Northern Blvd. Manhasset, New York 11030 Attention: FOCUS Luncheon

Email Kathleen Kosciusko at kosciusko@stmary.ws with questions

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Special Seating Request

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Our pantry is running low on the following items:

Pork and Beans

Juice

Salad Dressing

Small Bags of White Rice

Small Packs of Toothbrushes

Thank you so much for your continued generosity!

Society of St. Vincent de Paul

In the Gospel today, Jesus says “Whoever remains in me and I in him will bear much fruit, because without me you can do nothing.” Indeed, by helping the poor we can “bear much fruit” and we find that with Jesus we can do everything. Your gift to the Society of St. Vincent de Paul will show that you are indeed the disciple of Jesus as it will bring your love to those who live in fear and doubt, loneliness and dread.

Our St. Vincent de Paul Conference is able to help our neighbors in need through the generosity of our St. Mary’s parishioners. Each time you donate, either through the collection slots at the doors of the church, or in an envelope marked for St. Vincent de Paul, you are helping our neighbors within St. Mary’s Parish. If you or someone you know is in need of assistance, contact the St. Vincent de Paul Society at 516-627-0385, ext. 1125, or email SVDP@stmary.ws. To donate furniture, clothing or household items, please call the store in Garden City Park at 516-746-8250. Thank you for your continued support.

Exposition and Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament

Praying with the Blessed Sacrament

From the very beginning of the Christian story, the Eucharist has been central. It has been called the Source and Summit of the Christian Life. Through the celebration of the Mass, we come to a deeper union with Christ, our Lord and Savior.

But our prayer with the Real Presence of Jesus Christ in the Blessed Sacrament does not have to end with the Mass. One true gift of our Church is that this meal for the journey is also the companion on our journey.

Through time spent in prayer with Christ we come to a deeper sense of ourselves. And yet, when one begins praying before the Blessed Sacrament it can be difficult to find a way. It can sometimes be a struggle to know what to say or how to present oneself to the Divine Creator..

As St. Alphonsus Liguori observed, “Know also that you will probably gain more by praying fifteen minutes before the Blessed Sacrament than by all the other spiritual exercises of the day.”

Exposition and Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament with Closing Benediction

Monday 3:00 - 5:00 PM in the Church

Prayer in Full Faith St.

Thomas More (1478-1535)

Give me, good Lord, a full and fervent charity, a love of you, good Lord, incomparable above the love of myself; and that I love nothing to your displeasure but everything in an order to you. Take from me, good Lord, this lukewarm fashion, or rather this cold manner of meditation and this dullness in praying to you.

And give me warmth, delight, and life in thinking about you. And give me your grace to long for your holy sacraments and specially to rejoice in the presence of your blessed body, sweet Savior, in the Holy Sacrament of the Altar, and duly to thank you for your gracious coming.

Easter Flower Offerings

Kenneth & Margaret Haunss

Kazimierz & Jadwiga Sapinski

Eileen Amato

Albert Ronci

Mary Ronci

Salvatore Cennamo

Frances Cennamo

Dennis Martinelli

Alice & Cornelius Kelleher

Mrs. Adele Gallo

Mrs. Santino Di Fiore

Mr. & Mrs. James Short

Mrs. Teresa Benacquista

Mr. & Mrs. Dominic Dasilva

Mr. & Mrs. Sung Cho

Donated bY In Memory of

Frankie Paladino

Rose Tripodi

Vincent Tripodi

Deceased Members of the Clifford and Bianchi Families

Jean Buonocore

Anthony & Yolanda Spinetta

Don Scott

Carl Calcagni

Mr. Andrew Digiacomo

Mr. & Mrs. Richard Im

Mr. & Mrs. Jason Labriola

Mr. & Mrs. John Lynch

Mr. & Mrs. Robert A. Alessi

Mr. & Mrs. Gary D. Lewandowski

Elizabeth Anastasia

Margaret C.

Mr. & Mrs. Mortimer Nolan

Mr. & Mrs. Salvatore Pinzino Parents

Sister Deceased Members of the Bernic and Fahija Families

Bruno Ilibassi

Mr. & Mrs. Richard R. Nass

Mrs. Therese Ciampa

Mrs. Maria Arxer

Mr. & Mrs. Feridun Delale

Mr. & Mrs. THomas P. Howell Jr.

We endeavor to record your intentions accurately; please forgive any typographical errors.

TRAVEL/TICKETS

• WEEKEND IN MANHATTAN/HAMPTONS

• SPA/GOLF/FISHING WEEKEND

• HOT AIR BALLOON RIDE

• WINERIES

• SKY DIVING/BUNGEE JUMPING

• WHITE WATER RAFTING

• YACHT/BOAT DAY TRIP

• HELICOPTER TOURS

• THEME PARK TICKETS

• LOCAL RESIDENCE/VILLA/CONDO VACATION

• AQUARIUM/PLANETARIUM/ZOO

SPORTS

• TENNIS/GOLF/RIDING LESSONS

• GOLF FOURSOME AT A FAMOUS COURSE

• AUTOGRAPHED MEMORABILIA

SERVICES

• PERSONAL TRAINER

• BEAUTY SALON SERVICES

• MASON/CARPENTRY/ELECTRICAL

• ROUND TRIP LIMOUSINE TO MANHATTAN

• FLYING LESSONS

• DINNER PARTY AT YOUR HOME

• DINNER/LUNCH FOR TWO OR FOUR

• TREE OR FLOWERS PLANTED AT YOUR HOME

• LOCAL RESTAURANT GIFT CERTIFICATES

• FINE WINES/LIQUOR

• DANCE/MUSIC LESSONS/CLASSES

MISCELLANEOUS

• DESIGNER CLOTHING/HANDBAG/SUNGLASSES

• SPORTING/EXERCISE EQUIPMENT

• LUGGAGE

• FINE JEWELRY/WATCHES

• SKIS/SNOWBOARD

• SMART TV/DVD/BLU-RAY PLAYERS

• COMPUTERS/LAPTOPS/PRINTERS

• IPAD/IPHONE/IPOD

• WII/XBOX/PLAYSTATION

• ART/PAINTINGS/SIGNED PRINTS

• FINE CHINA/CRYSTAL

• FURNITURE/OUTDOOR FURNITURE

• GARDEN SCULPTURES/PLANTERS

• TOYS/JUVENILE FURNITURE

• GARDEN TOOLS/SUPPLIES

• KINDLE/NOOK

• CAMERAS/COMPUTER GAMES

• HOOKED RUGS/QUILTS

• HOLIDAY GIFT BASKETS

• BABY GIFTS

SPECIAL PACKAGES/EXPERIENCES

• DAY SPA

• LUNCH/DINNER ON A BOAT

• CELEBRITY MEMORABILIA

• AUTOGRAPHED CDS/BOOKS/SCRIPTS

• CONDO/CABIN/SKI RESORTS

• LOCAL LIMO/DINNER/OVERNIGHT HOTEL

• CATERED DINNERS

• GOLF PACKAGES

May 2024

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