Church of Saint Mary Parish Bulletin: June 9, 2024

CHURCH of SAINT MARY

The Tenth Sunday in Ordinary Time June 9, 2024

Reverend Father Robert A. Romeo | Pastor

Reverend Father Dominik Wegiel | Parochial Vicar

Reverend Father Rafal Borowiejski | Parochial Vicar

Reverend Father Edward Obi, MSP | Parochial Vicar

1300 Northern Boulevard | Manhasset, New York 11030 516 627 0385 | Fax 516 627 6070

www.saintmarysmanhasset.org

Parish Mission Statement

We, the community of Saint Mary’s, Manhasset, building on our rich heritage of Catholic faith and tradition, center ourselves in the Eucharist and honor God in proclaiming the Good News of Jesus Christ.

Guided by the Holy Spirit, we seek to be the presence of Christ through our liturgical, educational and social ministries. We dedicate our time, talent and treasure to the service of all as we build the kingdom of God in our world. We commit to this mission in the name of Jesus Christ.

Church of Saint Mary

1300 Northern Boulevard

Manhasset, New York 11030 (516) 627-0385

Fax (516) 627-6070

www.saintmarysmanhasset.org

Schedule of Masses

Thursday 7:00 AM (when school is in session)

Monday–Friday 9:00 AM

Saturday 9:00 AM, 5:00 PM

Sunday 7:30 AM, 9:00 AM, 10:30 AM, 12:00 Noon

Sacrament of Penance

Saturdays from 4:00-4:45 PM and by appointment. Please call 627-0385.

Anointing of the Sick

The Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick is celebrated in the Chapel on the second Sunday of the month following the 10:30 AM Mass. If you are unable to come to Church, please call the Parish Office to make arrangements for Anointing or to receive the Eucharist.

Parish Office

627-0385 | Fax 627-6070

Monday 9:00 AM - 4:00 PM

Tuesday - Friday 9:30 AM - 4:00 PM

Saturday - (phone only) 10:00 AM–1:30 PM

Sunday 9:30 AM - 2:00 PM

E-mail: information@stmary.ws

Parish Social Ministry

365-2705

Monday-Wednesday-Thursday 11:00 AM-3:00 PM

E-mail: kkosciusko@stmary.ws

St. Vincent de Paul Society: svdp@stmary.ws

Religious Education 627-4028

Monday 12:00 Noon-8:00 PM

Wednesday 9:00 AM–5:00 PM

Tuesday and Thursday 9:00 AM–6:00 PM

Closed on Friday

PARISH DIRECTORY

Pastoral Staff

Rev. Fr. Robert A. Romeo Pastor 627-0385 | ext. 1004 pastor@stmary.ws

Rev. Fr. Dominik Wegiel Parochial Vicar 627-0385 | ext. 1006 frdominik@stmary.ws

Rev. Fr. Rafal Borowiejski Parochial Vicar

Rev. Fr. Edward Obi, MSP Parochial Vicar fredward@saintmarysmanhasset.org

Parish Staff

Jane Clifford Bulletin Editor bulletin@stmary.ws

Marie T. Granieri Director of Religious Education 627-4028 | ext. 1127 releddirector@stmary.ws

Vincent Hartley Facilities Manager 627-0385 | ext. 1002

Kathleen Kosciusko Director of Parish Social Ministry 627-0385 | ext. 1126 kkosciusko@stmary.ws

Jennifer LaChance Office Manager 627-0385 information@stmary.ws

Daniel Maimone Music Director 627-0385 | ext. 1021 dmaimone@saintmarysmanhasset.org

Vanessa Quiros Parish Office 627-0385 vquiros@stmary.ws

Sr. Teresa Raftery, IHM Adult Faith Formation 627-0385 | ext. 1010 traftery@stmary.ws

The Schools of Saint Mary Nursery through 12th Grade

Very Rev. Dom Daniel Nash, Can. Reg. President 627-2711 president@stmary.ws

Norma Ragalli Stafford Director of Admissions 627-2711 | ext 1084 nstafford@stmary.ws

Edward Short Vice President of Development 627-2711 | ext 1120 eshort@stmary.ws

Eileen M. Symmons ’82, ’86 Director of Communications 627-2711 esymmons@stmary.ws

Kiera Gmelich Walsh Director of Alumni and Parent Relations 627-2711 | ext. 1162 kwalsh@stmary.ws

Sarah de Venoge Griffin ’02, ’06 Liaison for School Relations sgriffin@saintmarysmanhasset.org

St. Mary’s Elementary School 627-0184 www.stmary11030.org

Theresa A. Kemp Principal tkemp@stmary11030.org

St. Mary’s High School 627-2711 www.saintmaryshs.org

Gerard J. Buckley Principal gbuckley@saintmaryshs.org

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Masses and Special Intentions

Christine Marchese

Maria DeAngelis

Donna Chesney

Erica Klock

Jacob Rivera

Jaxson Rivera

Ronald Grubert

Dr. Michael O’Grady

Gladys Jean

Katharin Whelan

Carol Furciato

Mason

Tom Francess

Gabriel Romeo

Ann Shields

Mickey Kennedy

Sarah Horsham

Nina Principe

Cole Marguglio

Sandy Pittman

Richard Atkinson

Anthony Polizzi

Kathy Dellis-Stover

Neil Gillis

Nicolas Inglese

Paul Inglese

Names will remain on the list for three months. Please email bulletin@stmary.ws if you would like to continue with the listing

John White

Peter Striano

William W. Parrott

Mary Nicholas

125th Brigade Support Battalion

23rd Marine Regiment

25th Marine Regiment

2-4 GSAB Task Force Mustang

2-211th GSAB Task Force

War Horse

51st Security Force Squadron

75th Ranger Regiment

82nd Expeditionary Rescue Squadron

Alacqua, Alexander, CPT, USA

Amerson, Jason, CPT, USA

Anderson, Michael, 1LT, USA

Arnold, James, LCpl, USMC

Arnoux, Seraph, PFC, USA

Avasthi, David, Capt, USAF

Baber, Joseph, Maj, USAF

Broderick, Evan, SGT, USA

Broderick, Steven, SN, USN

Brodie, Virgina H., 2ndLt, USMC

Brown, Jason, SGT, USA

Collins, Matthew, LT, USN

Fontanetta, Joseph, Maj, USMC

Hannan, Jack, ENS, USN

Hayes, Andrew, Ca1837-1890pt, US MC

Hellman, Thomas, 2d Lt, USSF

Hernandez, Steven, SSgt, USAF

Higgins, James, GySgt, USMC

Hilton, Justin, SGT, USA

Hilton, Nathaniel, SGT, USA

Horner, Brian G., 1stLt, USMC

Howard, Edward M., GySgt, USMC

Jones, Scott B., LT, USN

Jones, Katherine L., LTJG, USN

Kennedy, Michael, Col, USAF

LaManna, Vincent S., Jr., PVT, USA

Landolphi, Michael, ENS, USN

Lanza, Anthony E., LtCol, USMC

Madden, Michael E., Major, USAF

Major, A. Edward, III, LTC, USA

Marine Medium Tilt Rotor Squadron 161

Marine Transport Squadron 352

McGorry, Patrick F., HM2, USN

McKievear, Gary, LT, USA

Millau, Jeffrey, PFC, USMC

Morris, Jr., Brian J., ENS, USN

O’Leary, Jason, SSgt, USAF

Petracca, Evan L., LTJG, USN

Quinn, Anthony, Jr., SGT, USA

Richardson, Timothy, PV2, USA

Radman, Paul Cpl, USMC

Rodi, Caroline G., CAPT, USN

Saville, John A., ENS, USN

Sharkey, John J., LtCol, USMC

Spivak III, Edmund, Capt, USAF

Sweeney, Timothy, CPT, USA

Swersky, Roberto, Capt, USMC

Tafone, Samantha, SGT, USA

Ullrich, Kenneth C., HN, USN

Unger, Matthew J., SPC, USA

Vachris, Madison, LT, USN

Wood, Kelly, BMSR, USN

If you have a service member that you would like to add to this list please e-mail bulletin@stmary.ws. Please include name, rank and branch of service.

Masses for the Week

Monday, June 10th

1 Kgs 17:1-6, Mt 5:1-12

9:00 AM | Marie Reali

Tuesday, June 11th

St. Barnabas, Apostle

Acts 11:21b-26, 13:1-3, Mt 5:13-16

9:00 AM | Jane & Francis Hone

Wednesday, June 12th

1 Kgs 18:20-39, Mt 5:17-19

9:00 AM | Josephine & Lindo Cione

Thursday, June 13th

St. Anthony of Padua, Priest & Doctor of the Church

1 Kgs 18:41-46, Mt 5:20-26

7:00 AM | Adam Brzozowski Dorota

9:00 AM | Jayne Morrissey

Friday, June 14th

1 Kgs 19:9a, 11-16, Mt 5:27-32

9:00 AM | Jane Hone

Saturday, June 15th

1 Kgs 19:19-21, Mt 5:33-37

9:00 AM | Eugene Paul Murphy

5:00 PM | Peter Calabretta, Sr.

Thomas J. Flynn, Sr.

Jane Hone

Sharon Chillemi

Concetta & Concetto Gentile

Linda Gowen Wood

Stephen Gentile

Sunday, June 16th

The Eleventh Sunday in Ordinary Time

Ez 17:22-24, 2 Cor 5:6-10, Mk 4:26-34

7:30 AM | Harold Henrickson

9:00 AM | Consiglia & Faustino Parrella

10:30 AM | People of the Parish

12:00 Noon | Domenick Puleo

Tina Marie Ferazzoli

Anthony Arenare

Mimi & Vincent de Venoge

Anthony Lee

Nicholas Sciara

Philip De Rosa

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As Catholics, we are called to pick up our crosses and carry them, knowing that we will experience crosses in this life.

Living Stewardship ~ Pillar of Service: This week, be at service to someone who may need help carrying their cross—it may be either a stranger or someone you know.

The collection for Sunday, June 2, 2024 amounted to $25,349.00. The collection for Sunday, June 4, 2023 amounted to $24,564.00.

Have you enrolled yet? Visit www.faithdirect.net. Our parish code is NY281.

We Care for Our Parish Community

Baptism

We celebrate Baptism at 1:30 PM on the second Sunday of the month and at 12:30 PM on the fourth Saturday of the month as scheduled. Please call the Parish Office at least one month in advance to see if a date is available and to arrange to fill out pre-baptismal paperwork. New parents are required to attend a Baptism preparation session held once every month. Those chosen as sponsors for Baptism should lead lives in harmony with the Catholic faith and the role of Godparent.”

Marriage

At least six months before you plan to be married and before you make arrangements for the reception, please make an appointment with one of the priests to begin the necessary preparations.

Children’s Education

Saint Mary’s Elementary School offers excellent education in the spirit of the Gospel from grades N, Pre-K to Eighth grade. For information call 627-0184.

Empowering Character, Innovation and Leadership in our students, Saint Mary’s High School is a dynamic, contemporary, Catholic value-centered school, combining a commitment to academic excellence and educational innovation, with a passion for learning, and an emphasis on moral character development through the pursuit of truth and discovered in faith and reason. For information call 627-2711.

The Religious Education Program provides excellent formation in the Catholic Faith for children in public or private schools. Preparation for First Holy Communion and Confirmation requires two years. Classes are held at St. Mary’s for Grades 1 through 5 on Tuesdays and Thursdays

4:30-5:30 PM. Classes also meet on Sundays from 9:3010:20 AM for Grades 1 through 8 and on Mondays from 7:00-8:00 PM for Grades 6, 7 and 8. We also offer the option of an online home program for Grades 1 through 7. For information about Grades 1-8 call 627-4028 or email Mrs. Marie Granieri at releddirector@stmary.ws.

Parish Social Ministry

We care for our sisters and brothers through our Parish Social Ministry and Food Pantry. For information call 365-2705.

Youth Ministry

We reach out to our teens though our Youth Ministry Program. For information email youth@stmary.ws or visit stmarysyouth.weebly.com.

New Parishioners

We welcome new members to the Catholic Church and to Saint Mary’s Parish. If you are new in the area or interested in learning more about the Catholic faith, please call the Parish Office.

Opportunities For Prayer

The Church is open Monday to Friday until 8:45 PM, on Saturday until the end of the 5:00 PM Mass, and on Sunday until 6:00 PM so that we may have the opportunity for quiet prayer before the Blessed Sacrament. The Miraculous Medal Novena is said each Monday following the 9:00 AM Mass. Monday to Saturday the Rosary is said following the 9:00 AM Mass. Eucharistic Adoration is held every Monday from 3:00 to 5:00 PM in the Chapel. On First Saturdays, the Scriptural Rosary is recited following the 9:00 AM Mass.

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St. Mary’s Celebrates the Solemnity of Corpus Christi with an Outdoor Eucharistic Procession

On Sunday, June 2nd, faithful parishioners and parish clergy walked with Christ to commemorate the Solemnity of the Most Holy Body and Blood of Christ. The outdoor procession took place after the 12:00 Noon Mass. Thanks to the Knights of Columbus and the Music Ministry for contributing their time and talent to this beautiful event. This annual tradition dates back to The Council of Trent (1545-1563) when it was solemnly approved and recommended that the procession on Corpus Christi should be a public profession of the Catholic faith in the real presence of Christ in the Holy Sacrament.

Novena of Masses

Please hand in the names of those you wish to be remembered in the Father’s Day Novena of Masses by June 16th, Father’s Day. Cards are available in the vestibules and on the windowsills of the church. The Gift Shop is open on SUNDAYS We have beautiful items for All Occasions

The hours are after the 9:00 AM, 10:30 AM, & 12:00 Noon Masses. It is located in the Parish Ministry Center below the church. Any inquiries, please call 526-627-0385 ext. 1033

Readings and Questions for Faith Sharing on the Eleventh Sunday in Ordinary Time

Reading I: Ezekiel 17:22-24

All the trees of the field shall know that I, the Lord, bring low the high tree, life high the lowly tree, wither up the green tree, and make the withered tree bloom.

Reading II: 2 Corinthians 5:6-10 We walk by faith, not by sight.

Gospel: Mark 4:26-34

“To what shall we compare the kingdom of God, or what parable can we use for it?”

Question for Adults:

Will I allow my faith to give me the strength to turn away from the short-sighted fixes the world offers?

Question for Children:

Am I learning to treasure the visible signs of God’s love for us, particularly the Eurcharist? Visit the parish website: www.saintmarysmanhasset.org for the latest parish news and events

Rosary Society

Our Mission Statement: The Rosary Society fosters devotion to Mary through prayer and good works for causes that would be dear to her heart

If you would like the Rosarians to pray for a special intention, please e-mail us at rosarysociety@stmary.ws. Invest 20 minutes of your day to pray the Rosary, and see the difference it will make in your life.

Closing Mass -Thursday, June 13th

11:30 AM Recitation of the Rosary, 12:00 Noon Mass Light Lunch to follow in the Marian Room

Once again, we ask our talented Rosarians to start baking, and provide some delicious desserts. Please let us know if you are able to help with this.

The Rosary Society’s Statue of Our Lady of Fatima

On June 13th, we celebrate the second apparition of Our Lady to the three shepherd children near Fatima, Portugal in 1917. The three children, Lucia dos Santos, Francisco, and Jacinta Mario, reported seeing an angel. During the apparition Mary told the children to pray the Rosary daily in honor of Our Lady of the Rosary. She also asked the children to add the Fatima prayer. In 1929, Mary appeared to Lucia privately and asked her to consecrate Russia to her Immaculate Heart. The Catholic Church officially recognized the Fatima events as worthy of belief in 1930.

In 2017, the centennial anniversary of the apparitions of our Lady at Fatima, St. Mary’s Rosary Society received the gift of a beautiful statue of Our Lady of Fatima. This statue is a traveling statue, and came to us with the requirement that its presence be shared throughout our parish. The statue of Our Lady has been “visiting” with Rosarians and St. Mary’s friends and families in their homes since that time. For those whom Mary has visited, she has brought peace, hope, comfort, strength and renewed faith.

As the Rosary Society continues this ministry, please let us know if you would like a special visit with the statue of Our Lady of Fatima in your home. For more information please contact Rosarian Mary Lou de Venoge by Email at: doggonelab@msn.com

Saturday, June 17th - The Immaculate Heart of Mary

This feast is celebrated on the Saturday following the Solemnity of the Sacred Heart of Jesus. “The Immaculate Heart of Mary is a special form of devotion to the physical heart of Mary. It is Mary’s love for God, her love for her Son, and her love for all people that draws us to want to study and to imitate her. In his Gospel, St. Luke mentioned this devotion twice, saying that Mary kept what Jesus was saying and doing in her heart. Mary’s Immaculate Heart is typically pictured with flames representing her burning or undying love. Her Heart is encircled by roses or lilies symbolizing her joys and her purity, and oftentimes, a sword pierces the heart reflecting the prophecy of Simeon in the Gospel of St. Luke. Mary’s Heart is a symbol of her compassion and her sinlessness.” - The Illustrated Book of Mary

Exposition and Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament

O ETERNAL TRINITY

a prayer of St. Catherine of Siena

Eternal God, eternal Trinity, you have made the blood of Christ so precious through his sharing in your divine nature. You are a mystery as deep as the sea; the more I search, the more I find, and the more I find the more I search for you. But I can never be satisfied; what I receive will ever leave me desiring more. When you fill my soul, I have an even greater hunger, and I grow more famished for your light. I desire above all to see you, the true light, as you really are.

I have tasted and seen the depth of your mystery and the beauty of your creation with the light of my understanding. I have clothed myself with your likeness and have seen what I shall be. Eternal Father, you have given me a share in your power and the wisdom that Christ claims as his own, and your Holy Spirit has given me the desire to love you. You are my Creator, eternal Trinity, and I am your creature. You have made of me a new creation in the blood of your Son, and I know that you are moved with love at the beauty of your creation, for you have enlightened me.

Eternal Trinity, Godhead, mystery deep as the sea, you could give me no greater gift than the gift of yourself. For you are a fire ever burning and never consumed, which itself consumes all the selfish love that fills my being. Yes, you are a fire that takes away the coldness, illuminates the mind with its light and causes me to know your truth. By this light, reflected as it were in a mirror, I recognize that you are the highest good, one we can neither comprehend nor fathom. And I know that you are beauty and wisdom itself. The food of angels, you gave yourself to man in the fire of your love.

You are the garment which covers our nakedness, and in our hunger, you are a satisfying food, for you are sweetness and in you there is no taste of bitterness, O triune God!

Exposition and Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament with Closing Benediction Monday 3:00 - 5:00 PM in the Church

The Diocese of Rockville Centre Celebrates June as the Month of the Most Sacred Heart of Jesus

The Most Reverend John O. Barres, Bishop of Rockville Centre has again declared the month of June in the Diocese of Rockville Centre as the Month of the Most Sacred Heart of Jesus, proclaiming to the world that “God is Love.”

Bishop Barres says:

“Our hope is to renew and advance the beautiful tradition of contemplating God’s love for humanity –shown so powerfully in the Pierced Heart of the Savior, during this time. We need His love, as does every dimension of the global public square. Therefore, under the theme God is Love, we pray that a renewed devotion to the Most Sacred Heart of Jesus this June will open us to God’s love and moral teaching. As our Lord says in John’s Gospel: ‘If you love me, keep my commandments.’” (John 14:15)

Good Samaritan House

PLEASE HELP US

RESTOCK OUR PANTRY SHELVES FOR THE SUMMER

WE ARE RUNNING VERY LOW ON MANY NON-PERISHABLES INCLUDING:

Peanut Butter

Jelly

Canned Fruit

Tuna

Oatmeal

Snacks:

Cookies & Chips

Jello Crackers

Pancake Mix

Syrup

Mashed Potatoes

Instant Coffee

Juice

Carrots

Mixed Veggies

Chef Boyardee

Shampoo

Soap

Toilet Paper

Paper Towels

Thank you so much for your continued generosity!

FOCUS

Friends Offering Care Understanding and Support

We hope you will join us for a

Summer Luncheon

Wednesday, August 21st, 2024

Port Washington Yacht Club 12:00 Noon - 4:00 PM

Free Bingo with prizes starts after lunch for those who are interested Reservations $60.00 per person

Chairpersons: Esther Markiewicz and William Urig

RSVP By August 12th

Make checks payable to: St. Mary’s Good Samaritan House 1300 Northern Blvd. Manhasset, New York 11030 Attention: FOCUS Luncheon For information, please call 516-320-5879 or 516-697-9579

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Cheerful Catholic Academic Luncheon Tea held for the Daughters of Mary

THE SCHOOLS OF ST. MARY

The 7th and 8th-grade girls of Saint Mary’s Middle School were recently invited to a beautiful luncheon tea sponsored by the Daughters of Mary. This ministry is dedicated to fostering a strong sense of community among young women, helping them grow spiritually and discover their true purpose in the eyes of God and our Blessed Mother, Mary. Through prayer, service, and friendship, members discern their mission in our community and the world while striving to find fulfillment in their Catholic faith. Under the leadership of St. Mary’s Rosary Society members, the Daughters of Mary meetings are filled with mentorship, fun activities, and opportunities for friendship among young ladies at the middle and high school levels. We are grateful to the Rosarians who hosted this event for the girls, and we look forward to a great new year ahead this September!

Ira Hunt Named Coach of the Year

Ira Hunt is no rookie when it comes to coaching men’s basketball. He fell in love with the sport in the third grade and made it a large part of his life through his desire to be a better player, hard work, and willingness to learn every step of the way.

Born and raised in Brownsville, Brooklyn, Coach Hunt understands the need for our children today to have support, encouragement, and positive role models in their daily lives. He does this precisely with every child he works with, whether coaching or training.

Ira Hunt’s dedication to coaching men’s basketball is unparalleled. With a tenure of 19 years at Saint Mary’s High School, he started as an assistant coach and then spent a good portion of that time coaching the Freshman team. In addition to coaching at the school, he founded Xpress Training, a basketball training and mentoring program. This season marked his fifth year at the helm of the Boys’ varsity team at St. Mary’s, and the word is spreading quickly about their success after an excellent run in the league, which took the team straight to the semi-finals. Coach Hunt’s transition into the Varsity role was not without its challenges, including a lack of experienced players and a demanding schedule. However, his strategic planning, rigorous training, and unwavering belief in his team allowed him to overcome these obstacles. His leadership, marked by grit and determination, inspired the athletes to respond to respond equally, fueling their success. The Gaels fans, too, responded with resounding accolades. The storied success of the school’s Athletic Program turned heads again this year, so much so that the Nassau Suffolk Catholic High School Athletic Association League named Hunt Coach of the Year. Well done, Coach Hunt! Your dedication and spirit are truly inspiring.

Coach Hunt’s basketball camps continue to headline the Summer Camps at the School. He will bring his basketball expertise to three one-weeklong sessions. Visit saintmaryshs.org for more.

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Parish GALA

LEVELS OF PARTICIPATION

SPONSORSHIPS

PLATINUM SPONSOR $15,000

Ten tickets plus platinum full page journal ad, recognition in Program and at event

GOLD SPONSOR $10,000

Eight tickets plus gold full page journal ad, recognition in Program and at event

SILVER SPONSOR $7,500

Six tickets plus silver full page journal ad, recognition in Program and at event

BRONZE SPONSOR $5,000

Four tickets plus bronze full page journal ad, recognition in Program and at event

WHITE SPONSOR $2,500

Four tickets plus white full page journal ad, recognition in Program and at event

FRIEND OF SAINT MARY’S $1,000

Two tickets plus full white page journal ad, recognition in Program and at event

UNDERWRITING OPPORTUNITIES

DINNER $7,500

PRINTING $5,000

COCKTAIL HOUR $ 3,000

BAND $2,000

FLOWERS $1,000

INVITATIONS $500

JOURNAL ADS

OUTSIDE BACK COVER $7,500

INSIDE FRONT COVER $5,000

INSIDE BACK COVER $5,000

PLATINUM FULL PAGE $2,500

GOLD FULL PAGE $1,500

SILVER FULL PAGE $1,000

BRONZE FULL PAGE $750

FULL WHITE PAGE $500

HALF PAGE $250

BUSINESS CARD $125

LISTING $50

EVENT PRICING

INDIVIDUAL TICKETS $175

JUNIOR & SENIOR TICKETS $125

(Under 30 and over 80 years old)

SPONSOR A PRIEST/RELIGIOUS $125

TO BECOME A SPONSOR, UNDERWRITER, JOURNAL SUPPORTER OR TO PURCHASE TICKETS PLEASE VISIT SAINTMARYSMANHASSET.ORG OR SCAN THE CODE ABOVE.

Good Samaritan House Announces Fall Bereavement Group

A weekly support group for the bereaved and those struggling with unresolved loss will begin on September 14, 2024.

The session will run for ten consecutive weeks on Saturdays from 9:30-11:00 AM. The primary goals of the group are to help the participants learn about the grief process, develop skills to manage their grief, and help them adjust to living in a world without the deceased.

The group is open to anyone who has lost a spouse, partner, parent, or sibling – including non-parishioners and people of other faiths. It should be noted though, St. Mary's bereavement sessions are faith based sessions that at times refer to bible verses or prayers to assist in the healing process.

For complete details and registration*, please scan the QR code or visit https://tinyurl.com/forthebereaved FOR FURTHER INFORMATION, CALL 516 365 2705

*REGISTER BY 9/8

LECTIO DIVINA

Lectio

Meditatio

Oratio Contemplatio

THE CHURCH OF ST. MARY, MANHASSET HISTORY ARCHIVES PROJECT YOUR HELP IS NEEDED!

We are still attempting to collect photos, documents, and all kinds of information relating to the history of St. Mary’s, encompassing all aspects of parish activities and ministries, including the Schools of St. Mary’s.

As we look forward to the Centennial celebration of the Elementary School (2026), and the 175th Anniversary of the Parish (2028), our goal is to accumulate not only recent history, but find some missing pieces to fill in the past 170+years.

If you have any of the following from any event, ministry, or of any of the Schools of St. Mary’s, sharing these would be greatly appreciated:

Photos: Celebrations, graduations, sacraments, galas, etc.

Journals, Programs

Announcements (Bulletins not needed)

Newspaper articles

Family remembrances

Information regarding:

The Elementary and High School (s)

APOSTLE THOMAS Touching the Wounded God

Past pastors, priests, nuns, principals, teachers Clergy & Religious who were parish residents Knights of Columbus, Rosary Society, and other ministries

Any and all of these would be very helpful.

PLEASE NOTE: Any article of information which you wish to be returned can be “digitized” (scanned) and saved, then returned to you. Please include this request with your item with the contact information for its return to you. A box is located in the Parish Office to receive these valuable pieces of our parish’s history.

For more information, please contact either Mary Lou de Venoge 516-993-2706 doggonelab@msn.com or Marijo Lantier 917-496-5640 MALantier510@gmail.com

In Session with Dr. Patricia Pitta

Express Your Gratitude to Dad: The Outcome Will Be Experiencing Love in Action

“For you know that we dealt with each of you as a father deals with his own children, encouraging, comforting and urging you to live lives worthy of God, who calls you into his kingdom and glory.” (1 Thessalonians 2:11–12)

The modern day Dad has many roles to fulfill. He works, he cares for children, he transports children to sports and other activities, and some cook and clean. It is what the 70’s and 80’s working woman experienced, and the modern day working woman is still experiencing. One trendy statement sums it up: “You have come a long way.” The same can be said about the modern day Man!

It is important to let Dad know you are grateful for all that he does. When gratitude is expressed, it creates a positive mindset for Dad as well as for the one who is expressing the special feelings. It offers Dad a positive mindset and outlook on life in knowing that those you love can see you and your positive impact on them.

When you express gratitude, your mental health, as well as the one receiving the messages, improves. You can experience less stress, anxiety, and depression. As a result, you can experience emotional resilience. This is a win-win for both the giver and receiver. Parents, by teaching your children, through your example, the lesson of expressing gratitude, you are enabling them to feel more empowered and calmer in their interactions with you and others.

When you express gratitude, relationships get stronger because you can feel the kindness and support of those you love. For sure, when you give kindness and support, it is usually returned with positive interest. Kindness begets kindness. Expressing gratitude through prayer together is a good family activity. Below you will find a prayer for Dad that you can say not only on Father’s Day. Make it part of your daily routine. Include Mom in that prayer, too. I was visiting with one of my sons and his family. He, his wife, and their very young children practiced circle and prayer time together. It went like this: I am grateful for one thing that happened today, and each person says it. I am grateful for the gifts that God has given me, and each

Society of St. Vincent de Paul

say something. We all love each other and then the family does a group hug. It was beautiful to experience this show of love and gratitude of love, life, and God.

Maybe this Father’s Day begin a new tradition and have your children express their gratitude for their dad and then going forward do some activity that resembles what I just described for practicing gratitude daily. Doing this will make for a happier existence and adjustment to life.

Happy Father’s Day to all the Fathers and Grandfathers from the St. Mary’s Mental Health Ministry.

Lord, thank you for my Dad. Thank you for all that he does for me and our family. He helps me learn all what he knows. He has patience and shows me much affection. I love being with my Dad and I appreciate him in every way. What I love about him so much is he takes the time to listen to me and help me in every way. I am so lucky you gave him to me, my dear Lord. Amen

Dr. Pitta is a Clinical and Family Psychologist practicing in Manhasset and is the chair of the Mental Health Ministry of St. Mary’s. For more about Dr. Pitta, visit her website drpatriciapitta.com.

Today, Jesus looking around those seated in the circle said, “Here are my mother and my brothers. For whoever does the will of God is my brother and sister and mother.” Through your almsgiving you are indeed doing the will of God and your gift placed in the St. Vincent de Paul poor box indeed brings Christ’s love and compassion to the poor.

Our St. Vincent de Paul Conference is able to help our neighbors in need through the generosity of our St. Mary’s parishioners. Each time you donate, either through the collection slots at the doors of the church, or in an envelope marked for St. Vincent de Paul, you are helping our neighbors within St. Mary’s Parish. If you or someone you know is in need of assistance, contact the St. Vincent de Paul Society at 516-627-0385, ext. 1125, or email SVDP@stmary.ws. To donate furniture, clothing or household items, please call the store in Garden City Park at 516-746-8250. Thank you for your continued support.

Let the little children come to me... (Matthew 19:14) All Children Are Invited to

Participate

in

Children’s Liturgy of the Word

Every Sunday at the 9:00 AM Mass

Tenth Sunday In Ordinary Time

2 Corinthians 4:13-5:1:”Brothers and Sisters: Since we have the same spirit of faith, according to what is written, I believed, therefore I spoke, we too believe and therefore we speak,knowing that the one who raised the Lord Jesus will raise us also with Jesus and place us with you in his presence.” Jesus sends us his grace in abundance. As a couple, we can us his grace to enrich our marriage and make it even better. Check out a Worldwide Marriage Encounter Experience today. It will help your relationship and teach you tools to love one another more. This will transform your marriage. You can find one by looking up WWME.org. Some of the dates to sign up are:

June 21-June 23, 2024 in Huntington, NY

August 2-4, 2024 in Portland, CT

Worldwide Marriage Encounter sponsors a variety of in-person and virtual marriage experiences, some on weekends and some on seven weekdays. Couples explore their relationship with each other, God, and the Church. Registration is limited; there is a $100 application fee. For more information or to apply, call Kevin & Regina Hickson at 516-554-3835 or https://wwmenyli.org/.

Business Owners:

Please consider advertising in our bulletin. It’s a great way to support our parish. Call our printer, LPi, at 1-800-477-4574

Mass Intentions Book for

January 1, 2025 - March 31, 2025 opened on Wednesday, May 29.

Please note our policy whereby you will be able to reserve only two Masses during the first two weeks of the opening of the Mass Intentions Book for the first quarter of 2025. After that time, you may reserve any additional Masses for the period. Mass intentions may be requested in person at the Parish Office, Monday through Friday, 9:30 AM to 4:00 PM, Sunday 9:30 AM to 2:00 PM or call (516-6270385) or email (information@stmary.ws) for other options.

Please also consider our other memorial options including Yearly Membership in our Purgatorial Society and Weekly Bread and Wine dedications. Call or visit the Parish Office for details.

Knights of Columbus

Father William A. Daly S.J. Council #2122

Serving St. Mary’s Parish in Manhasset and St. Aloysius Parish In Great Neck www.kofc2122.org

What is a Knights of Columbus Family?

We are Catholic families building a bridge to our faith.

Our lives, time, efforts, and resources are dedicated to these values: Charity. Unity. Fraternity. Patriotism.

It’s one thing to say who you are. It’s another thing is to live it. Put your values into practice. Become a Knights of Columbus family.

Interested? Please call:

Tony Racioppo 917 539 0859

Dan Garcia 516 358 1817

Ladies interested in joining the Columbiettes Please contact Maura Clifford at Macliff56@gmail.com

MMER SUMMER

WEEK 1 JUNE 24-28

ART (Grades 1-8)

WEEK 3 JULY 8-12

THEATRE (Week #2)

CHEER/DANCE (Grades 1-8)

BASKETBALL (Grades 3-8)

VOLLEYBALL (Grades 6-9)

ALL SPORTS (Grades 1-8)

WEEK 5 JULY 22-26

BOYS BASKETBALL (Grades 3-8)

GIRLS BASKETBALL (Grades 5-9)

CAMPS C CAAMMPPS S

WEEK 2 JULY 1-5*

THEATRE (Grades 5-9) This is a three-week program

BASKETBALL (Grades 3-8) culminating with a show. Must attend all three weeks.

LACROSSE (Grades 1-8)

ALL SPORTS (Grades 1-8)

*No camps held on July 4.

WEEK 4 JULY 15-19

THEATRE (Week #3)

CHEER/DANCE (Grades 1-8)

VOLLEYBALL (Grades 6-9)

SOCCER (Grades 3-8)

HIKING (Grades 5-9)

Book Signing

TUESDAY, JUNE 18, 2024

7:00 P.M.

In this sequel to Emily Hanlon’s phenomenal Christian fiction debut, Who Am I to Judge?, the scatterbrained octogenarian sleuth, Marya, and her sensible sidekick, Martha, are back in action!

“Fans of classic whodunnits are in for a treat!

Hanlon’s lyrical, evocative language ensnares the reader, bringing them into her tapestry of mystery and intrigue. Highly recommended!”

-Julie Carobini , Author of Cottage Grove Mysteries

REFRESHMENTS AND LIGHT SNACKS WILL BE SERVED. BOOKS WILL BE AVAILABLE FOR PURCHASE.

AUTHOR PROCEEDS FROM THIS EVENT WILL BE DONATED TO OUR LADY OF GRACE!

29 SHELTER ROCK ROAD, MANHASSET, N.Y.