CHURCH of SAINT MARY The Fourth Sunday of Lent Laetare Sunday March 27, 2022
Reverend Father Robert A. Romeo | Pastor Reverend Father Dominik Wegiel | Parochial Vicar Reverend Father Collins Yeboah | Parochial Vicar
1300 Northern Boulevard | Manhasset, New York 11030 516 627 0385 | Fax 516 627 6070 www.saintmarysmanhasset.org
Parish Mission Statement We, the community of Saint Mary’s, Manhasset, building on our rich heritage of Catholic faith and tradition, center ourselves in the Eucharist and honor God in proclaiming the Good News of Jesus Christ. Guided by the Holy Spirit, we seek to be the presence of Christ through our liturgical, educational and social ministries. We dedicate our time, talent and treasure to the service of all as we build the kingdom of God in our world. We commit to this mission in the name of Jesus Christ.
Church of Saint Mary 1300 Northern Boulevard Manhasset, New York 11030 (516) 627-0385 Fax (516) 627-6070 www.saintmarysmanhasset.org
Schedule of Masses Monday–Friday 9:00 AM Saturday 9:00 AM, 5:00 PM Sunday 7:30 AM, 9:00 AM, 10:30 AM, 12:00 Noon
Sacrament of Penance Saturdays from 4:00-4:45 PM and by appointment. Please call 627-0385.
Anointing of the Sick The Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick is celebrated in the Chapel on the second Sunday of the month following the 10:30 AM Mass. If you are unable to come to Church, please call the Parish Office to make arrangements for Anointing or to receive the Eucharist.
Parish Office 627-0385 | Fax 627-6070 Monday 9:00 AM - 4:00 PM Tuesday - Friday 9:30 AM - 4:00 PM Saturday - Sunday (phone only) 10:00 AM–1:30 PM E-mail: information@stmary.ws
Parish Social Ministry 365-2705 Monday-Wednesday-Thursday 11:00 AM-3:00 PM E-mail: socialmin@stmary.ws St. Vincent de Paul Society: svdp@stmary.ws
Religious Education 627-4028 Monday 12:00 Noon-8:00 PM Wednesday 9:00 AM–5:00 PM Tuesday and Thursday 9:00 AM–6:00 PM Closed on Friday
PARISH DIRECTORY Pastoral Staff Rev. Fr. Robert A. Romeo Pastor 627-0385 | ext. 1004 pastor@stmary.ws Rev. Fr. Dominik Wegiel Parochial Vicar 627-0385 | ext. 1006 frdominik@stmary.ws Rev. Fr. Collins Yeboah Parochial Vicar 627-0385 frcollins@saintmarysmanhasset.org
Parish Staff
The Schools of Saint Mary Nursery through 12th Grade Very Rev. Dom Elias Carr, Can. Reg. President
627-2711 president@stmary.ws Norma Ragalli Stafford Director of Admissions 627-2711 | ext 1084 nstafford@stmary.ws Edward Short Vice President of Development 627-2711 | ext 1120 eshort@stmary.ws
Jane Clifford Bulletin Editor bulletin@stmary.ws
Eileen M. Symmons ’82, ’86 Director of Communications 627-2711 esymmons@stmary.ws
Jennifer Fedele Office Manager 627-0385
Kiera Gmelich Walsh Director of Alumni and Parent Relations 627-2711 | ext. 1162 kwalsh@stmary.ws
Marie T. Granieri Director of Religious Education 627-4028 | ext. 1127 releddirector@stmary.ws Vincent Hartley Facilities Manager 627-0385 | ext. 1002 Kathleen Kosciusko Director of Parish Social Ministry 627-0385 | ext. 1126 kkosciusko@stmary.ws Robert Levulis Music Director 313-7606 Vanessa Quiros Parish Office 627-0385 vquiros@stmary.ws Sr. Teresa Raftery, IHM Adult Faith Formation 627-0385 | ext. 1010
St. Mary’s Elementary School 627-0184 www.stmary11030.org Sarah Griffin (de Venoge) ’02, ’06 Co-Principal sdevenoge@stmary11030.org Theresa A. Kemp Co-Principal tkemp@stmary11030.org St. Mary’s High School 627-2711 www.saintmaryshs.org Gerard J. Buckley Principal gbuckley@saintmaryshs.org
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From the Pastor’s Desk Dear Parishioners,
“Father, I have sinned against heaven and you.” (Luke 15:21) The word “prodigal” means “wasteful or squandering.” It is used to describe one who wastes gifts and resources. The beginning of the parable tells how the son “squandered his inheritance on a life of dissipation.” It is interesting and poignant that the father allows his younger son to leave. Sometimes the worst thing God can do is to give us what we want in order to show us that our desires can’t always bring satisfaction. The prodigal son got what he wanted, but lost what he had. When we rebel against God’s will, He sometimes says, “All right, YOUR will be done! See how you like it!” God’s most severe punishment may be to give us what we want. The lost son lusted for freedom without restraints and ended up enslaving himself. When his money ran out, his so-called friends deserted him; they were only friends of his wealth. He learned the hard way that we can’t enjoy the things money can buy if we ignore the things money cannot buy. Sin promises freedom, but it only brings slavery. It promises success, but it only brings failure. It promises life, but brings death. When he gets to the point where he has nothing left, no money, no friends, no food, no shelter or dignity, the prodigal son complains about no one but himself. He speaks of no unworthiness but his own. He doesn’t blame his plight on his former evil companions. He admits his eagerness to leave the protection of his home and offers no excuses to cover his guilt or justify his waywardness. It is in this “mature” realization that repentance and eventual change of life can occur. Guilt and shame are painful to face, yet we desperately need to see ourselves for what we are. Only then can we respond to God’s mercy. The returned son attempts to deliver his prepared speech to his father. He admits he has sinned against “heaven,” too shamed to even speak the name of God. He begins, but doesn’t get to finish, for his father calls to the servants to bring out the best robe to cover the son’s poverty and shame; a ring as a seal and symbol of his identity as a member of the household; and shoes so that he can now walk in a new way. Also, shoes were not worn by servants! The father does not humiliate his son, but welcomes him into all the privileges of the family and treats him with honor. Sometimes we think we need to clean ourselves up before we come to Jesus. All we need to do is come home and the Father will give us His best even though we have sinned. If you’re afraid to come to Jesus; if you’re ashamed of your past; if all you have to offer is your heart to Jesus, then do it! St. Paul reminds us today: “We implore you on behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God.” This is a reminder and an invitation from God Himself. So I implore you in the name of Jesus…go to confession, and then remember the loving father of the prodigal son. He represents, in fact, the Father of us all, and is ready to run to us with open arms. What a beautiful image...what a beautiful God! As many of you have probably heard, Pope Francis has asked for a worldwide Synod to take place on the diocesan level and in local parishes in the next few months. I will be looking for a date for us to gather after Easter. Please see the bulletin and our website for further details. A reminder that Stations of the Cross are prayed each Friday night at 7:00 PM in the Church. Use these last few weeks of Lent wisely to deepen your relationship with Jesus. In Jesus, our Crucified Lord, Fr. Bob
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Stewards of God’s Gifts In today’s Gospel, Jesus tells the story of the Prodigal Son. Living Stewardship (Pillar of Hospitality): This week, take a look back to the beginning of Lent. How have you been more hospitable to your brothers and sisters, these past few weeks? What is one way you could show more love to those around you?
The collection for Sunday, March 20, 2022 amounted to $24,007.00 The collection for Sunday, March 21, 2021 amounted to $22,983.00
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We Care for Our Parish Community Baptism We celebrate Baptism at 1:30 PM on the second Sunday of the month and at 12:30 PM on the fourth Saturday of the month as scheduled. Please call the Parish Office at least one month in advance to see if a date is available and to arrange to fill out pre-baptismal paperwork. New parents are required to attend a Baptism preparation session held once every month. Those chosen as sponsors for Baptism should lead lives in harmony with the Catholic faith and the role of Godparent.”
4:30-5:30 PM. Classes also meet on Sundays from 9:3010:20 AM for Grades 1 through 8 and on Mondays from 7:00-8:00 PM for Grades 6, 7 and 8. We also offer the option of an online home program for Grades 1 through 7. For information about Grades 1-8 call 627-4028 or email Mrs. Marie Granieri at releddirector@stmary.ws.
Parish Social Ministryã We care for our sisters and brothers through our Parish Social Ministry and Food Pantry. For information call 365-2705.
Marriage Youth Ministry
At least six months before you plan to be married and before you make arrangements for the reception, please make an appointment with one of the priests to begin the necessary preparations.
We reach out to our teens though our Youth Ministry Program. For information email youth@stmary.ws or visit stmarysyouth.weebly.com.
Children’s Education
New Parishioners
Saint Mary’s Elementary School offers excellent education in the spirit of the Gospel from grades N, Pre-K to Eighth grade. For information call 627-0184.
We welcome new members to the Catholic Church and to Saint Mary’s Parish. If you are new in the area or interested in learning more about the Catholic faith, please call the Parish Office.
Empowering Character, Innovation and Leadership in our students, Saint Mary’s High School is a dynamic, contemporary, Catholic value-centered school, combining a commitment to academic excellence and educational innovation, with a passion for learning, and an emphasis on moral character development through the pursuit of truth and discovered in faith and reason. For information call 627-2711. The Religious Education Program provides excellent formation in the Catholic Faith for children in public or private schools. Preparation for First Holy Communion and Confirmation requires two years. Classes are held at St. Mary’s for Grades 1 through 5 on Tuesdays and Thursdays
Opportunities For Prayer The Church is open Monday to Friday until 8:45 PM, on Saturday until the end of the 5:00 PM Mass, and on Sunday until 6:00 PM so that we may have the opportunity for quiet prayer before the Blessed Sacrament. The Miraculous Medal Novena is said each Monday following the 9:00 AM Mass. Monday to Saturday the Rosary is said following the 9:00 AM Mass. Eucharistic Adoration is held every Monday from 3:00 to 5:00 PM in the Chapel. On First Saturdays, the Scriptural Rosary is recited following the 9:00 AM Mass.
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Masses and Special Intentions Lottie Jennings Kristen Lovero Christine Marchese Margaret Murray Gabriella Tranchina Anna Forte Madison Milio Laarni Melliza Perlman Ellen Ward Thomas Hyland Maryann McDermott Thomas Ryan Estela Fernandez Marie Pellegrino Theresa Fallon Cherie Baldenko Marguerite Baron Virginia Fallon Carol Bennett Eileen Zurndof Salvatore Marsala Lisa Fontenelli Gina Ross Eugene Rorke Paul Martocci Marko Russ Jeanette Albanese Paul Rogalli Names will remain on the list for three months. Please email bulletin@stmary.ws if you would like to continue with the listing. Edgar M. Fitzsimons Marie Cuttita
125th Brigade Support Battalion 23rd Marine Regiment 25th Marine Regiment 2-4 GSAB Task Force Mustang 2-211th GSAB Task Force War Horse 51st Security Force Squadron 75th Ranger Regiment 82nd Expeditionary Rescue Squadron Alacqua, Alexander, 1LT, USA Amerson, Jason, CPT, USA Anderson, Michael, 1LT, USA Arnold, James, LCpl, USMC Avasthi, David, Capt, USAF Baber, Joseph, Maj, USAF Broderick, Evan, SGT, USA Broderick, Steven, SN, USN Brodie, Virgina H., 2ndLt, USMC Brown, Jason, SGT, USA Fontanetta, Joseph, Maj, USMC Hayes, Andrew, Capt, USMC Hernandez, Steven, SSgt, USAF Higgins, James, GySgt, USMC Hilton, Justin, SGT, USA Hilton, Nathaniel, SGT, USA Horner, Brian G., 1stLt, USMC Howard, Edward, PV2, USA
Hussey, James M., GySgt, USMC Jones, Scott B., LT, USN Jones, Katherine L., LTJG, USN LaManna, Vincent S., Jr., PVT, USA Landolphi, Michael, ENS, USN Lanza, Anthony E., LtCol, USMC Madden, Michael E., Major, USAF Major, A. Edward, III, MAJ, USA Marine Medium Tilt Rotor Squadron 161 Marine Transport Squadron 352 McGorry, Patrick F., HM3, USN McKievear, Gary, LT, USA Millau, Jeffrey, PFC, USMC Morris, Jr., Brian J., MA1, USN O’Leary, Jason, SSgt, USAF Petracca, Evan L., LTJG, USN Quinn, Anthony, Jr., SGT, USA Richardson, Timothy, PV2, USA Radman, Paul Cpl, USMC Rodi, Caroline G., CAPT, USN Sharkey, John J., LtCol, USMC Spivak III, Edmund, Capt, USAF Sweeney, Timothy, CPT, USA Swersky, Roberto, Capt, USMC Tafone, Samantha, SGT, USA Ullrich, Kenneth C., HN, USN Unger, Matthew J., SPC, USA Vachris, Madison LTJG, USN Wood, Kelly, BMSR, USN
Masses for the Week Monday, March 28th Is 65:17-21, Jn 4:43-54 9:00 AM | 1. Andrew Gaspar 2. Angelo Paladino Tuesday, March 29th Ez 47:1-9, 12, Jn 5:1-16 9:00 AM | 1. Lucille Lukin 2. James Saladino Wednesday, March 30th Is 49:8-15, Jn 5:17-30 9:00 AM | 1. Domenico Accolti-Gil 2. Timothy Dowd, Sr. Thursday, March 31st Ex 32:7-14, Jn 5:31-47 7:00 AM | Virginia Soden 9:00 AM | Ignatius Lechleider Friday, April 1st First Friday Wis 2:1a, 12-22, Jn 7:1-2, 10, 25-30 9:00 AM | 1. Emily Brown 2. Margaret Mahon Saturday, April 2nd St. Francis of Paola, Hermit First Saturday Jer 11:18-20, Jn 7:40-53 9:00 AM | Maria Terracina 5:00 PM | Maria & Chelestino Pugliese Thomas J. Flynn, Sr. Kim Actisdano Milan Duras Josephine Gallo Roseann Lepore-Curoto Sunday, April 3rd Fifth Sunday of Lent Is 43:16-21, Phil 3:8-14, Jn 8:1-11 7:30 AM | Rob Scanlon 9:00 AM | People of the Parish 10:30 AM | Dominick Joseph Massaro Angelo Paladino Toni-Ann Zarra (living) Joan San Angelo Kyle Mullen Sonia Aguilar 12:00 Noon | Puratorial Society
On the cover: The Return of the Prodigal Son. Artist: Pompeo Batoni (1708-1787).
If you have a service member that you would like to add to this list please e-mail bulletin@stmary.ws. Please include name, rank and branch of service. The Fourth Sunday of Lent | March 27, 2022
at St. Mary’s DAILY MASS DURING LENT is celebrated at 9:00 AM Monday through Saturday 7:00 AM on Thursday
EXPOSITION AND ADORATION OF THE BLESSED SACRAMENT WITH BENEDICTION is held on Mondays from 3:00 to 5:00 PM in the Church. STATIONS OF THE CROSS are held in the Church every Friday at 7:00 PM. SACRAMENT OF RECONCILIATION Lent is a special time to celebrate the Sacrament of Reconciliation. Priests are available for confession each Saturday afternoon from 4:00 to 4:45 PM in the chapel or by appointment. Call the Parish Office at 627-0385 to make an appointment. RECONCILIATION MONDAY - On the Monday of Holy Week, April 11th, confessions will be heard from 2:00 to 4:00 PM and 6:00 to 9:00 PM in all the churches in the Rockville Centre diocese, the Brooklyn diocese and the Archdiocese of New York.
A Lenten Prayer Group, led by Sr. Teresa, meets on Wednesdays, from 7:30 to 8:30 PM, in the Marian Room. FAST AND ABSTINENCE - Those who have reached their fourteenth year are bound to abstain entirely from meat on all the Fridays of Lent. All Catholics between the ages of eighteen and fifty-nine are also bound to fast on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday. This means to limit oneself to a single full meal and avoid food between meals. Two other light meals, which together do not equal a full meal, may be taken during the day.
Readings and Questions for Faith Sharing on the Fifth Sunday of Lent Reading I: Isaiah 43:16-21 See, I am doing something new! Reading II: Philippians 3:8-14 I continue my pursuit toward the goal, the prize of God’s upward calling, in Christ Jesus. Gospel: John 8:1-11 ‘Neither do I condemn you. Go, and from now on do not sin any more.’ Question for Adults: How has Jesus challenged me to recognize the deeper meaning of God’s commands? Question for Children: Do I have special places where I go to pray?
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Parish Social Ministry The food pantry needs your help in filling its shelves. If you can provide some of the items listed below, it would be grestly appreciated. Instant Coffee Jarred tomato sauce Crackers Canned peas, beans, and Cookies carrots Diapers and Pull-ups Small bags or boxes of rice Donations may be left in the donation box located in the south lobby of the Church or brought to the Parish Social Ministry office located on the ground floor level of the convent facing the east side of the church. Thank you for your generosity and support!
Thanks So Much for Donations for Ukraine Thank you to all of the very generous and kind St. Mary’s parishioners who donated much needed medical supplies, thermals, flashlights, and more to those suffering in Ukraine. The outpouring of concern was vast as seen by the carloads of supplies that we are sending over. Thank you also to Margaret and John Palmadessa (pictured at left) for giving their time to transport our collection to the Ukrainian church who is preparing all for shipment. We are blessed to have such a generous and concerned community. May God bring peace to the Ukrainian people soon. WE ARE NO LONGER COLLECTING ITEMS TO SEND TO UKRAINE. IF YOU HAVE ITEMS TO DONATE, PLEASE REACH OUT TO ANOTHER ORGANIZATION TO ARRANGE TO DONATE. THANK YOU AGAIN FOR YOUR GENEROSITY.
F.O.C.U.S. Friends Offering Care, Understanding and Support for the divorced, singles and the widowed The FOCUS group has scheduled a Mass in St. Mary’s Chapel at 12:00 Noon on Wednesday, April 20th. A complimentary light lunch will follow in the Marian Room. If you would like to attend this Mass and lunch, please RSVP to Bill Urig via email at dorisbilljag98@aol.com) or phone 516-627-4282 by April 10th.
Easter Candy Collection Has Begun The Parish Social Ministry office is collecting Easter candy for those in need in our community. All donations can be dropped off in the food donation box in the south lobby of the church. As always, thank you for your generosity and your willingness to sweeten the lives of those in need during the Easter season!
Parish Social Ministry Reaches Out to the Elderly and Homebound The Elderly and Homebound Ministry provides a social connection between the parish and the one in need. This ministry, through volunteer efforts, contacts parishioners who reside in residences, nursing facilities, and other home situations. Ministry volunteers offer a listening ear to those who are ill or homebound. The goal is to offer parishioners an encounter with one another to experience God’s goodness and to continue the connection to St. Mary’s Parish. If you are interested in volunteering or being contacted by our volunteers, please call the Parish Social Ministry office at 516-365-2705.
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Rosary Society Our Mission Statement: The Rosary Society fosters devotion to Mary through prayer and good works for causes that would be dear to her heart Invest 20 minutes of your day to pray the Rosary, and see the difference it will make in your life. If you would like the Rosarians to pray for a special intention, please e-mail us at rosarysociety@stmary.ws.
PRAYING THE ROSARY DURING LENT Pray a decade for the intentions of your works of mercy during Lent. Then spend a few moments thinking of those in need that you personally could help by your presence, like the sick or shut-ins. Your visit does not have to be long, but it can be really life-giving to those who are bedridden or alone. Or just resolve to listen to others when you are inclined to be impatient, and never omit some alms, real money for the support of the needy. - Father Hugh Barbour, O. Praem., catholic.com
Annual Communion Brunch Mass and Induction of New Members Saturday, April 23rd The invitations have been mailed out! Please note that this year’s event is on a Saturday rather than the usual Sunday Father Bob will celebrate Mass at 11:00 AM for the Rosary Society and induct our new members. Immediately following there will be a brunch at North Hempstead Country Club. Very Rev. Dom Elias Carr, Can. Reg. President of the Schools of St. Mary’s, will be our guest speaker. We invite our attendees to wear their best Easter bonnet or Springtime chapeau to add to our festivities as we celebrate our devotion to Mary. If you would like to attend, please contact Marijo by phone at 917-496-5640 or by email MALantier510@gmail.com.
GRAND REOPENING of the ST. MARY’S GIFT SHOP is
SUNDAY, APRIL 3RD
The shop will be open after the 9:00 AM, 10:30 AM, and 12:00 Noon Masses on Sundays. It is located in the Parish Ministry Center below the church.
A Lenten Reflection by Father Collins WHY FOR-GIVE? Getting back on track, let us bring finality to the matter by summing up the arguments making forgiveness necessary for our Christian lives. In the previous reflection I sought to drive home the point, through an analysis of several Scriptural texts, that the acceptance of our prayers to God the Father is inextricably linked with forgiving our brother or sister. Hence, the conclusion was: before you GIVE-FOR GOD (the offering of your prayers), FOR-GIVE your neighbor. Let me take that conclusion to a further height and say that our ultimate salvation is also connected with whether we forgive our neighbor. Yes, it is that serious. The Scriptures state in unequivocal terms the need for us to forgive in order to be made worthy of God’s forgiveness. Just have a look at these texts: “Blessed are the merciful, for they shall have mercy.” (Matthew 5: 7) “For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you; but if you do not forgive others, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.” (Matthew 6: 14-15) “For there will be judgment without mercy to anyone who has shown no mercy.” (James 2:13) When it comes to the practice of the Christian virtues, Christians are commanded to show perfection in forgiveness. This is clearly illustrated in the parable of the unmerciful servant. Peter approached Jesus and asked him, “Lord, if my brother sins against me, how often must I forgive him? As many as seven times?” Jesus answered, “I say to you, not seven times but seventy-seven times” (Matthew 18: 21-22). As William Barclay, a Scottish theologian, explains it, Peter thought that he was being generous enough by suggesting that he should forgive seven times. He expected to be warmly commended; but Jesus’ answer was that the Christian must forgive seventy times seven. In other words, there is no reckonable limit to forgiveness. He further adds that nothing others do to us can in any way compare with what we have done to God; and if God has forgiven us the debt we owe to him, we must forgive our neighbors the debts they owe to us. Nothing that we have to forgive can even faintly or remotely compare with what we have been forgiven. We have been forgiven a debt which is beyond all paying (for human sin brought about the death of God’s own Son) and if that is so, we must forgive others as God has forgiven us, or we can hope to find no mercy. (William Barclay, The New Daily Study Bible: The Gospel of Matthew, Vol. 2, p. 227) Another reason to forgive is that offenders are often our close relatives. It turns out that those who are close to us are the ones who offend us. In my native language, there is a proverb that could be literally translated as: “The insect that bites you can only come from your clothing.” This means that it is the one who shares the same roof or shares the same bed with you, that close friend, the member of the society or the parishioner who, because of the close connection with you, can step on your toes. It is easy to look at this in a negative way and decide to live a solitary life. But how possible is that; and for how long can one live like that? By the fact of our wounded nature and brokenness, we are bound to offend each other. Therefore, the only way to keep these necessary relationships going is to learn to forgive offenses. Don’t forget that offending is a two-way affair; each can be the offender at any point in time on any given day. Besides, these close relations are the ones you usually GIVE your time, talent and treasure FOR. So, the argument is, since you are able to GIVE what is most precious and even private to you FOR him or her, try to also FOR-GIVE his or her offenses. Furthermore, you don’t deserve a double punishment, but peace of mind. Keeping wrongs in your heart doubles the effect of the wrongdoing. It is not worth enduring the pain or loss caused by the wrongdoing itself plus the harboring of it in our minds. This can lead to serious mental health issues or other health-related conditions. Sometimes, the offenders might not even be aware of their wrongdoing or might simply not care. This would mean that whatever the consequences from the wrongdoing, only you suffer it if you choose to let it take up space in your mind and heart. Yes, you might never forget it; but try to forgive. So as can be deduced from the arguments above, forgiveness is linked to the acceptance of our prayers before God, our peaceful and lasting relationships with loved ones, our inner peace, our mental and physical well-being and, ultimately, with our salvation. Aren’t all these enough reasons to forgive?
The Schools of Saint Mary Students Take the “Red Ball Challenge” Our Sixth graders recently learned about frame-by-frame animation creating movies and cartoons. Then, they took what they learned to their small group to complete the “Red Ball Challenge” under the guidance of the technology teacher, Mrs. Tripi. By taking their prior experience working with Google Slides, their task was to animate a red ball going from one side of a screen to the other. As you can see, working in groups made the study more interesting as more screens were used by students in the project, adding to their perseverance to succeed. As a team, they reflected on the experiences of working within their group, recognizing that they could apply animation to any discipline, all while increasing their problem-solving skills. Excellent job, 6th grade!
Bible Entrustment Ceremony for Freshmen The Ninth Graders from St. Mary’s High School were recently entrusted with their own personal Bibles during a special ceremony in the Church of Saint Mary with Fr. Bob, our pastor, and Fr. Dominik, who serves as the chaplain of the Schools. The High School generously gifted each of the Freshmen with a Bible to use for personal prayer as well as for class assignments. During the Entrustment Ceremony, the Bibles were blessed and then distributed to each student one at a time in a solemn commissioning to “Receive the Word of God.” Fr. Bob and Fr. Dominik also shared words of encouragement and insight on the importance of the Holy Bible and the power it has in one’s personal life. After the final prayer, the students were sent forth to live out the Good News, which they had just received. We look forward to seeing the tremendous fruits of the Word of God in the lives of our students. May Our Blessed Mother and patroness, St. Mary, help our students be faithful disciples and readers of God’s Holy Word. -Mr. Paul Pileggi, 9th and 12th Grade Theology Teacher
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RCIA and Adult Faith Formation The Elect Participate in the Second Scrutiny Since Isabella Keating has participated in the Rite of Election at St. Agnes Cathedral she is no longer a catechumen but is in the period of “The Elect.” At this time, she is being prayed over at the 10:30 AM Sunday Mass in a Rite called “The Scrutinies.” There are three separate Scrutiny prayers, one for the 3rd, 4th and 5th Sundays of Lent. This Sunday she will participate in the 2nd Scrutiny. Do keep her and Ingrid in your prayers.
Lenten Prayer Group It is not too late to join the Lenten Prayer Group that is meeting on Wednesdays at 7:30PM in the Marian Room. All are welcome to take advantage of this opportunity to pray with a group. Remember the words of Jesus, “Wherever two or three are gathered my MY Name, there am I in the midst of them.” Sister Teresa can be contacted about our RCIA and other Adult Faith Formation programs at 516-627-0385, ext. 1010. Her office hours are Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday between 10:00AM and 4:00PM and other times by appointment. Scripture Study Group Begins The Letter of St. Paul to the Hebrews on Monday, March 28th The Scripture Study Group is completing our study of St. Paul’s Letters ro the Galatians and the Romans. On Monday, March 28th, the group will begin the study of St. Paul’s Letter to the Hebrews. Please join or rejoin us as we go ever forward in our study of Sacred Scriptures. The group meets on Mondays at 10:00 AM in the St. John Paul II Room. Books will be available at class for a small fee. We welcome old friends and new!
Respect Life Ministry St. Mary’s Respect Life Ministry invites you to participate -- through prayer, fasting, and witness -- in the local campaign of 40 Days For Life. This is an effort aimed at “changing hearts and minds.” The Spring 2022 campaign began on Ash Wednesday, March 2nd, and runs through April 10th, Palm Sunday. This is truly a lifesaving measure, as there are “turnarounds” (women who change their minds at the facility) in each campaign. The organization’s website describes it as “an internationally coordinated 40-day campaign that aims to end abortion locally through prayer and fasting, community outreach, and a peaceful all-day vigil in front of abortion businesses.” (40DaysForLife.com) In our area, the local campaign of peaceful, prayerful witness will take place 6 days each week – from Monday through Saturday, from 9:00 AM to 5:00 PM, at: Public right-of-way outside Planned Parenthood 540 Fulton Avenue Hempstead, New York More details are available at 40DaysForLife.com; find Hempstead NY through the “Location” search. The local campaign is coordinated by Pro-Bikers For Life. More information on witnessing can be found through the Diocesan Respect Life page, https://drvclife.org/witness/. For more information about St. Mary’s Respect Life Ministry, email Catherine Dillon at RespectLife@StMary.ws.
The Columbiettes’ Blanket Project Help make a blanket for an organization in need. Join us on
Tuesday, March 29th, 7:00 - 8:30 PM in the Marian Room No sewing skills required.
Liturgical Ministry Are You Interested in Serving St. Mary’s as an Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion (EM) or a Lector? The Diocese of Rockville Centre has announced Spring Training Dates and Locations Please Note: Only candidates recommended by the Pastor are eligible for the training Contact the Parish Office (627-0385; email information@stmary.ws) to indicate your interest in becoming an EM and/or Lector and give the date and location of the training session(s) you prefer For Extraordinary Ministers of Holy Communion, Part A* and Lectors Tuesday, April 26th - St. Elizabeth in Melville - 7:00 - 10:00 PM Wednesday, April 27th - St. Christopher in Baldwin - 7:00 - 10:00 PM Saturday, May 14th - Christ the King in Commack - 9:00 AM - 12:00 Noon For Extraordinary Ministers of Holy Communion, Part A* Saturday, April 30th - St. Paul the Apostle in Brookville - 9:00 AM - 12:00 Noon For Extraordinary Ministers of Holy Communion, Part B* (presented in conjunction with Catholic Health) Saturday, May 14th - St. Paul the Apostle in Brookville - 9:00 AM - 12:00 Noon Tuesday, May 17th - St. Elizabeth in Melville - 6:30 - 9:30 PM Saturday, June 11th - Christ the King in Commack - 9:00 AM - 12:00 Noon
*Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion, Part A Training - This “BASIC” training is required of all those beginning as Ministers. Those wish to minister in hospitals, nursing homes, eldercare facilities, and to the homebound are required to attend Part B Training in addition to BASIC Training. BASIC Training must be taken before the Part B Training. If you have taken the Part A Training only in the past, but would now like to serve in hospitals, etc. you should indicate your interest in EM Part B Training only. Questions about EM training and service may be directed to Jane Clifford, Coordinator of EMs at St. Mary’s, at bulletin@stmary.ws. Lector training may be taken by both new and experienced lectors. Questions about serving as a Lector at St. Mary’s may be directed to Rich Bentley, Coordinator of Lectors at St. Mary’s, at RBentley@downstate.edu.
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Vocation Retreat
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Day 1: Friday, April 8, 2022
6:00pm - Pizza Dinner 6:30pm - Talk by Sr. Joseph Andrew, O.P. 7:00pm - Holy Hour, Confessions available
Day 2: Saturday, April 9, 2022
9:00am - Mass Breakfast 10:00am - Talk by Sr. Joseph Andrew, O.P. 11:00am - Adoration, Divine Mercy Chaplet (retreat concludes, those who wish to stay for Adoration are welcome)
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Exposition and Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament The Stations of the Cross 1st Station: Jesus is condemned to death. Scripture Reflection: Mark 15:1-5, 15 Jesus was innocent, but he chose to accept His death to save us. Have you ever been falsely accused? How did you respond? 2nd Station: Jesus carries His cross. Scripture Reflection: John 19:6, 15-17 Jesus’ cross was literal, but we all have crosses we bear in this life. It’s easy to get caught up in our own world and focus on our own cross. Do you grant others grace the way you want others to do for you?
Exposition and Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament with Benediction Mondays 3:00 - 5:00 PM in the Church
3rd Station: Jesus falls the first time. With a crown of thorns shoved on His head and beaten by the soldiers, Jesus was exhausted by the weight of His cross. Not only was He physically exhausted - He was emotionally exhausted. His followers had betrayed him. Reflect on a time when you have felt burdened with the weight of the world. Even in hard moments, Jesus gives us an opportunity to pick up and keep going. 4th Station: Jesus meets His Mother. Scripture Reflection: John 19: 25-27 Mary, the Mother of Jesus, watched her son endure ultimate pain and suffering for us. A mother has a unique outlook on her child’s life. Reflect on how distraught Mary must have felt as she watched her son endure complete agony. 5th Station: Simon of Cyrene helps Jesus to carry his cross. Scripture Reflection: Mark 15:21 Do you think Simon wanted to help Jesus carry His cross, or was he picked out of the crowd and afraid of the Roman soldiers? When have you helped someone carry their cross? Were you willing to help or were you resentful? 6th Station: Veronica wipes the face of Jesus. St. Veronica boldly stepped out of the crowd to wipe Jesus’ face of blood and sweat. It wasn’t safe to be a known follower of Jesus, yet she took the time to help Him when He needed it. When have you stepped outside of your comfort zone to offer support or kindness, even if it was unpopular? 7th Station: Jesus falls the second time. We all make mistakes, we all fall down. How can you try to find the strength to rise again? 8th Station: Jesus meets the women of Jerusalem. Scripture Reflection: Luke 23:27-31 Even in the midst of his agony, Jesus recognized the pain of others. Are you so caught up in yourself, in your own pain, that you fail to comfort others? How can you support your friends and family in their own time of need? 9th Station: Jesus falls a third time Jesus. Sheer exhaustion made Jesus fall not once, not twice, but three times. Is there an area in your life that you keep messing up or falling short? Where can you turn to find the strength to stand up yet again? Church of Saint Mary | 16
Exposition and Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament 10th Station: Jesus’ clothes are taken away. Scripture Reflection: John 19:23-24 After the pain, and the blood, and the sweat, Jesus now faces humiliation. His clothes, His dignity, have been stripped away even further. When have you been utterly humiliated? When have you caused someone else humiliation? 11th Station: Jesus is nailed to the cross. Scripture Reflection: Luke 23:33-34 Touch your hands. Imagine stakes being driven into them. Imagine that you could make it all go away in an instant - and you don’t. Jesus chose this pain and sacrifice for us. Where in your life can you sacrifice for someone else? 12th Station: Jesus dies on the cross. Scripture Reflection: Luke 23:44-46 After three hours of complete agony, Jesus dies. And in doing so, He saves us from our sins and allows us a chance at eternal life. Can you spend time this week reflecting on the ultimate sacrifice? 13th Station: The body of Jesus is taken down from the cross. The world was still. Jesus’ mother, Mary, and other disciples had broken hearts. And yet they lovingly and tenderly removed His body from the cross. Where can you offer comfort and support today? 14th Station: Jesus is laid in the tomb. Scripture Reflection: Matthew 27:57-60 For the moment, all hope appears to be lost. But God’s greatest moment, the Resurrection, is about to begin. Reflect on your life. When has something incredible happened after a time of difficulty? How did that change you?
Altar Servers Altar Servers Returning to Sunday Liturgies at St. Mary’s Fr. Dominik is happy to announce that we will be returning altar servers back for Sunday Liturgies. We are calling back altar servers who have been previously trained to return first. We will announce at a later date when training for new servers will begin. Please check the bulletin for future information or email Father at frdominik@stmary.ws.
Society of St. Vincent de Paul In today’s Gospel the prodigal son repents and finds mercy in the heart of his father. Know that your penance during Lent can give the poor the grace of finding the merciful heart of God the Father. If you or someone you know needs assistance, contact the St. Vincent de Paul Society at 516-6270385 ext. 1125 or SVDP@stmary.ws. If you would like to make a donation, you may use the collection slots at the doors of the church or place an envelope in the regular collection marked “St. Vincent de Paul Society.” For furniture and household donations, please call 516-746-8250 to arrange for a pick up.
The Fourth Sunday of Lent | March 27, 2022
Worldwide Marriage Encounter
Retrouvaille Weekend
To support married couples during this time of social distancing, Worldwide Marriage Encounter is sponsoring virtual marriage experiences. Some are on weekends and are seven sessions on weekdays from 7:00pm to 9:30pm. We also have some in-person experiences for those interested. Couples will explore their individual personality styles, improve listening and communication skills, understand God’s plan for their marriage, and learn how to keep their relationship a priority. Registration is limited and a $100 application fee is required. For more information or to apply, call Chuck & Maria Reiss at 631486-8607 or visit them at https://wwmenyli.org/.
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