Church of Saint Mary Parish Bulletin: September 15, 2024
Parish Mission Statement
We, the community of Saint Mary’s, Manhasset, building on our rich heritage of Catholic faith and tradition, center ourselves in the Eucharist and honor God in proclaiming the Good News of Jesus Christ.
Guided by the Holy Spirit, we seek to be the presence of Christ through our liturgical, educational and social ministries. We dedicate our time, talent and treasure to the service of all as we build the kingdom of God in our world. We commit to this mission in the name of Jesus Christ.
Church of Saint Mary
1300 Northern Boulevard
Manhasset, New York 11030 (516) 627-0385
Fax (516) 627-6070
www.saintmarysmanhasset.org
Schedule of Masses
Tursday 7:00 AM (when school is in session)
Monday–Friday 9:00 AM
Saturday 9:00 AM, 5:00 PM
Sunday 7:30 AM, 9:00 AM, 10:30 AM, 12:00 Noon
Sacrament of Penance
Saturdays from 4:00-4:45 PM and by appointment. Please call 627-0385.
Anointing of the Sick
Te Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick is celebrated in the Chapel on the second Sunday of the month following the 10:30 AM Mass. If you are unable to come to Church, please call the Parish Ofce to make arrangements for Anointing or to receive the Eucharist.
Parish Ofce
627-0385 | Fax 627-6070
Monday 9:00 AM - 4:00 PM
Tuesday - Friday 9:30 AM - 4:00 PM
Saturday - (phone only) 10:00 AM–1:30 PM
Sunday 9:30 AM - 2:00 PM
E-mail: information@stmary.ws
Good Samaritan House 365-2705
Monday-Wednesday-Tursday 11:00 AM-3:00 PM
E-mail: kkosciusko@stmary.ws
St. Vincent de Paul Society: svdp@stmary.ws
Religious Education
627-4028
Monday 12:00 Noon-8:00 PM
Wednesday 9:00 AM–5:00 PM
Tuesday and Tursday 9:00 AM–6:00 PM
Closed on Friday
PARISH DIRECTORY
Pastoral Staf
Rev. Fr. Robert A. Romeo Pastor 627-0385 | ext. 1004 pastor@stmary.ws
Te Schools of Saint Mary Nursery through 12th Grade
Very Rev. Dom Daniel Nash, Can. Reg. President 627-2711 president@stmary.ws
Norma Ragalli Staford Director of Admissions 627-2711 | ext 1084 nstaford@stmary.ws
Edward Short Vice President of Development 627-2711 | ext 1120 eshort@stmary.ws
Eileen M. Symmons ’82, ’86 Director of Communications 627-2711 esymmons@stmary.ws
Kiera Gmelich Walsh Director of Alumni and Parent Relations 627-2711 | ext. 1162 kwalsh@stmary.ws
Sarah de Venoge Grifn ’02, ’06 Liaison for School Relations sgrifn@saintmarysmanhasset.org
St. Mary’s Elementary School 627-0184 www.stmary11030.org
Teresa A. Kemp Principal tkemp@stmary11030.org
St. Mary’s High School 627-2711 www.saintmaryshs.org
Gerard J. Buckley Principal gbuckley@saintmaryshs.org
A Refection by Father Raphael
REFLECTION FOR THE 24TH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME, YEAR B THEME: JESUS THE SUFFERING SERVANT – WE SUFFER TO GAIN
Te frst reading is from the Tird Servant Song of Isaiah (Isaiah 50:5-9). It describes the sufering which the servant is called to endure. Te third reading from the Gospel according St. Mark 8:27-35 is about Peter’s profession of faith and Jesus speaking of his impending passion and death. In the second reading, the letter of St. James (James 2:14-18) sheds light on the relationship between faith and good works.
Te text in the frst reading could be divided into two parts: verses 5-6 describe the type of sufering the prophet has to undergo and verses 7-9 describe his confdence in the Lord who vindicates him. So let us look quickly at the two parts.
Te frst type of the oppression he sufers is what he hears. It refers to insults and threats. He could hear the threats about himself which were from afar. Te second threat is that which he sees. He does not hide his face from it. Tat which he hears comes from afar and he might not be able to recognize the enemy. But that which he sees, is pretty close. Te threat is increasing. He probably cannot just hear the rumors; he can see the expression of anger on the faces of the adversaries. If rumors can be dismissed, what he sees with his own eyes cannot be easily forgotten.
In verse 6, the game changes. Te threat has moved from hearing and seeing to the expression of hostility. Now it has become physical. Te enemy is close enough to touch him with his hand, to strike him on the check and on the back, pull his beard, and spit on his face. Tis action is not just about how hostile his enemy has become, but also how emboldened he is. Ten in verse 7 the prophet begins his defance. He dares the adversary to face him squarely, to advance, and to come near him. He is sure that the Lord will be his defense. If the Lord is on his side, who will declare him guilty? (verse 9)
Te Gospel reading concerns the profession of faith by Peter in Caesarea Philippi. Tis account has three elements. First, the question of who Jesus is and Peter’s declaration of the Christ; second, the challenge of Peter and the rebuke; and third, the teaching about discipleship and the cross. Note that in this Gospel, after Peter’s proclamation, Jesus does not declare that his Father has revealed it to Peter (that is in Matthew’s Gospel). Rather the disciples are asked not to tell anyone. What Jesus notices is the danger of the enemy (adversary) within, similar to the frst reading, and he rebukes Peter. After that account, Jesus gathers, not just the disciples, but even the multitude and reiterates the true teaching. Te key message of the cross is sufering through persecution. It is only by accepting the sufering of Christ, and following him, that discipleship is complete.
Dear brothers and sisters, today’s liturgy reminds us that the name “Christian” confgures us to Jesus Christ. Terefore, the pursuit of the Christian life is certain to entail hardship and sacrifce if it is taken seriously. For example, James speaks of faith’s call to action, especially in the service of others. We cannot look at the poor and simply wish them well, but to sacrifce and doing something more. Looking at the prophets of old, their faith lived in action. Our Christian faith is a challenge, because it is intrinsically connected with our life journey. Tough we shall go through sufering, we shall not be put to shame because the Lord is our helper. Unlike Peter who did not want Jesus to go through sufering, the reason for which he was rebuked, we should embrace sufering like the cross. Paul says: For I consider that the suferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us (Romans 8:18). Persecutions and suferings may come our way, but they are temporary; the glory is eternal. So let us be still trusting the Lord to fght our battle for us. (cf. Exodus 14:14).
Stay blessed!
Father Raphael
J Stewards of God’s Gifts
“So also faith of itself, if it does not have works, is dead.”
Living Stewardship ~ Pillar of Service: As we hear in the second reading today, show others your faith through your works.
Te collection for Sunday, September 8, 2024 amounted to $22,542.00.
Te collection for Sunday, September 10, 2023 amounted to $21,439.00.
Te collection for the Catholic University of America amounted to $4,251.00
Have you enrolled yet? Visit www.faithdirect.net. Our parish code is NY281.
We Care for Our Parish Community
Baptism
We celebrate Baptism at 1:30 PM on the second Sunday of the month and at 12:30 PM on the fourth Saturday of the month as scheduled. Please call the Parish Ofce at least one month in advance to see if a date is available and to arrange to fll out pre-baptismal paperwork. New parents are required to attend a Baptism preparation session held once every month. Tose chosen as sponsors for Baptism should lead lives in harmony with the Catholic faith and the role of Godparent.”
Marriage
At least six months before you plan to be married and before you make arrangements for the reception, please make an appointment with one of the priests to begin the necessary preparations.
Children’s Education
Saint Mary’s Elementary School ofers excellent education in the spirit of the Gospel from grades N, Pre-K to Eighth grade. For information call 627-0184.
Empowering Character, Innovation and Leadership in our students, Saint Mary’s High School is a dynamic, contemporary, Catholic value-centered school, combining a commitment to academic excellence and educational innovation, with a passion for learning, and an emphasis on moral character development through the pursuit of truth and discovered in faith and reason. For information call 627-2711.
The Religious Education Program provides excellent formation in the Catholic Faith for children in public or private schools. Preparation for First Holy Communion and Confrmation requires two years. Classes are held at St. Mary’s for Grades 1 through 5 on Tuesdays and Tursdays
4:30-5:30 PM. Classes also meet on Sundays from 9:3010:20 AM for Grades 1 through 8 and on Mondays from 7:00-8:00 PM for Grades 6, 7 and 8. We also ofer the option of an online home program for Grades 1 through 7. For information about Grades 1-8 call 627-4028 or email Mrs. Marie Granieri at releddirector@stmary.ws.
Parish Social Ministry
We care for our sisters and brothers through our Parish Social Ministry and Food Pantry. For information call 365-2705.
Youth Ministry
We reach out to our teens though our Youth Ministry Program. For information email youth@stmary.ws or visit stmarysyouth.weebly.com.
New Parishioners
We welcome new members to the Catholic Church and to Saint Mary’s Parish. If you are new in the area or interested in learning more about the Catholic faith, please call the Parish Ofce.
Opportunities For Prayer
Te Church is open Monday to Friday until 8:45 PM, on Saturday until the end of the 5:00 PM Mass, and on Sunday until 6:00 PM so that we may have the opportunity for quiet prayer before the Blessed Sacrament. Te Miraculous Medal Novena is said each Monday following the 9:00 AM Mass. Monday to Saturday the Rosary is said following the 9:00 AM Mass. Eucharistic Adoration is held every Monday from 3:00 to 5:00 PM in the Chapel. On First Saturdays, the Scriptural Rosary is recited following the 9:00 AM Mass.
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Masses and Special Intentions
Maria DeAngelis
Donna Chesney
Erica Klock
Dr. Michael O’Grady
Gladys Jean
Katharin Whelan
Carol Furciato
Mason
Tom Francess
Gabriel & Frances Romeo
Ann Shields
Mickey Kennedy
Sarah Horsham
Nina Principe
Cole Marguglio
Sandy Pittman
Richard Atkinson
Anthony Polizzi
Kathy Dellis-Stover
Neil Gillis
Nicolas Inglese
Paul Inglese
Pamela Gallo
Allison Azzara
Teddy Connolly
Sarah Praay
Agnes Gaus
Glenn LaChance
Mary Jo Beagen
Names will remain on the list for three months. Please email bulletin@stmary.ws if you would like to continue with the listing
George DeLong
125th Brigade Support Battalion
23rd Marine Regiment
25th Marine Regiment
2-4 GSAB Task Force Mustang
2-211th GSAB Task Force War Horse
51st Security Force Squadron
75th Ranger Regiment
82nd Expeditionary Rescue Squadron
Alacqua, Alexander, CPT, USA
Amerson, Jason, CPT, USA
Anderson, Michael, 1LT, USA
Arnold, James, LCpl, USMC
Arnoux, Seraph, PFC, USA
Avasthi, David, Capt, USAF
Baber, Joseph, Maj, USAF
Blake, Julia, Cadet, USN
Broderick, Evan, SGT, USA
Broderick, Steven, SN, USN
Brodie, Virgina H., 2ndLt, USMC
Brown, Jason, SGT, USA
Casazza, Jack, 2nd Lt, USMC
Collins, Matthew, LT, USN
Fontanetta, Joseph, Maj, USMC
Grubert, Sean, LCpl, USMC
Hannan, Jack, ENS, USN
Hayes, Andrew, Ca1837-1890pt, US MC
Hellman, Tomas, 2d Lt, USSF
Hernandez, Steven, SSgt, USAF
Higgins, James, GySgt, USMC
Hilton, Justin, SGT, USA
Hilton, Nathaniel, SGT, USA
Horner, Brian G., 1stLt, USMC
Howard, Edward M., GySgt, USMC
Jones, Scott B., LT, USN
Jones, Katherine L., LTJG, USN
Kennedy, Michael, Col, USAF
LaManna, Vincent S., Jr., PVT, USA
Landolphi, Michael, ENS, USN
Lanza, Anthony E., LtCol, USMC
Madden, Michael E., Major, USAF
Major, A. Edward, III, LTC, USA
Marine Medium Tilt Rotor Squadron 161
Marine Transport Squadron 352
McGorry, Patrick F., HM2, USN
McKievear, Gary, LT, USA
Millau, Jefrey, PFC, USMC
Morris, Jr., Brian J., ENS, USN
O’Leary, Jason, SSgt, USAF
Petracca, Evan L., LTJG, USN
Quinn, Anthony, Jr., SGT, USA
Richardson, Timothy, PV2, USA
Radman, Paul Cpl, USMC
Rodi, Caroline G., CAPT, USN
Saville, John A., ENS, USN
Sharkey, John J., LtCol, USMC
Spivak III, Edmund, Capt, USAF
Sweeney, Timothy, CPT, USA
Swersky, Roberto, Capt, USMC
Tafone, Samantha, SGT, USA
Ullrich, Kenneth C., HN, USN
Unger, Matthew J., SPC, USA
Vachris, Madison, LT, USN
Wood, Kelly, BMSR, USN
If you have a service member that you would like to add to this list please e-mail bulletin@stmary.ws. Please include name, rank and branch of service.
St. Robert Bellarmine, Bishop & Doctor of the Church
St. Hildegard of Bingen, Virgin & Doctor of the Church 1 Cor 12:12-14, 27-31a, Lk 7:11-17
9:00 AM | Marie Reali
Wednesday, September 18th 1 Cor 12:31-13:13, Lk 7:31-35
9:00 AM | Florence H. Lechleider
Tursday, September 19th
St. Januarius, Bishop & Martyr 1 Cor 15:1-11, Lk 7:36-50
7:00 AM | Patricia Brennan
9:00 AM | Lucia DeRosa
Friday, September 20th
Ss. Andrew Kim Tae-gon, Priest & Paul Chong Ha-sang, and Companions, Martyrs
1 Cor 15:12-20, Lk 8:1-3
9:00 AM | Teresa Papa
Saturday, September 21st
St. Matthew, Apostle & Evangelist
Eph 4:1-7, 11-13, Mt 9:9-13
9:00 AM | Tomas Nicosia
5:00 PM | Tomas J. Flynn, Sr. Dorothy Brincat
Tomas Nicosia
Maria Valenti
Donald Dunphy, Jr. ’56, ’60
Joseph Mattone, Sr. Giuseppe Barone
Sunday, September 22nd
Te Twenty-Fifth Sunday in Ordinary Time
Wis 2:12, 17-20, Jas 3:16-4:3, Mk 9:30-37
7:30 AM | People of the Parish
9:00 AM | Patricia Brennan
10:30 AM | Antonio Pistidda
12:00 Noon | Harry Pierson
Gus Panopoulos
Juanita Gusmanos
Mary Beth Brady
Gerard Gaveau
Valerie Rose Kratochvil
Franca Zecca
Cover Art: Domine, quo vadis. Artist: Annibale Carracci (1560-1609).
The Gift Shop reopens TODAY
SUNDAY, September 15th
The hours are after the 9:00 AM, 10:30 AM, & 12:00 Noon Masses. It is located in the Parish Ministry Center below the church.
Any inquiries, please call 526-627-0385 ext. 1033
Let the little children come to me... (Matt 19:14)
Children’s Liturgy of the Word Every Sunday at the 9:00 AM Mass
We are in need of additional Prayer Leaders. Materials and training are provided; scheduling is fexible. If interested, please contact Jane Cliford at bulletin@stmary.ws or sit in with us.
Readings and Questions for Faith Sharing on the Twenty-Fifth Sunday in
Ordinary Time
Reading I: Wisdom 2:12, 17-20
For if the just one be the son of God, God will defend him and deliver him from the hand of his foes.
Reading II: James 3:16-4:3
Te wisdom from above is frst of all pure, then peaceable, gentle, compliant, full of mercy and good fruits, without inconstancy or insincerity.
Gospel: Mark 9:30-37
“If anyone wishes to be frst, he shall be the last of all and the servant of all.”
Question for Adults: Is it important to me to be recognized or appreciated? How can I live with more humility?
Question for Children: How can I show appreciation for the people in my life who serve others?
Rosary Society
Our Mission Statement:
Te Rosary Society fosters devotion to Mary through prayer and good works for causes that would be dear to her heart
Invest 20 minutes of your day to pray the Rosary, and see the diference it will make in your life.
If you would like the Rosarians to pray for a special intention, please e-mail us at rosarysociety@stmary.ws.
ATTENTION MEMBERS:
Te opening letter and schedule of events packet was sent out earlier this month. Please let us know if you have not received it. Extra event cards will be located in the south lobby of the Church and the Parish Ofce.
Our First Meeting will be held on Tursday, October 10th, in the St. John Paul II Room at 10:00 AM. All members are welcome to attend. We will discuss our plans for 2024-2025 as well as our annual Christmas dinner to be held on Tursday, December 5th.
Please remember to check your email for any updates and/or changes to the schedule.
UPCOMING EVENTS OPEN TO ALL PARISHIONERS
Flu Shot/Immunization Clinic
Tis year’s clinic will be held the weekend of October 19th-20th. Dr Joseph Hansen and his staf of the Port Washington Rite-Aid will administer the shots after the 5:00 PM Mass on Saturday and before/after all Masses on Sunday EXCEPT the 7:30 AM Mass.
A Musical Rosary will be held on Sunday October 27th, following the 12:00 Noon Mass. All parishioners are
Feast of Our Lady of Sorrows
On September 15th, the Catholic Church observes the Feast of Our Lady of Sorrows (not this year, due to the priority of Sunday). Our Church calls attention to Our Blessed Mother’s suferings to remind us of the pain and sadness Mary sufered in her earthly life. Te story of Mary’s sorrows is the story of her love, faith, and trust in God as well as obedience to God’s perfect will. It reminds us of her perseverance, patience, and humility. Much the same as the Church “commemorates” Jesus’ passion and death on Good Friday, a refection on Our Lady’s suferings will draw us nearer to our own salvation. Tis day ofers us an opportunity to ask Mary, in a special way, to help us through our own trials.
Te Rangers held their frst meeting with several new recruits. Te ladies prepared a shipment of 720 Rosaries while the new recruits learned how to make them. Te total number of Rosaries made by St. Mary’s parishioners and shipped to date is 21,897!
Te Rangers will meet again on Wednesday, October 2nd, at 10:00 AM in the Library.
Good Samaritan House
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On Saturday, September 21, 2024, the Society of St. Vincent de Paul will host its Annual Friends of the Poor Walk at Heckscher State Park in East Islip.
The Society is one of the largest Catholic lay organizations in the world and seeks to relieve suffering through person-to-person involvement of its members with those in need. Vincentian volunteers make home visits to families who ask for help and try to alleviate their stress in some way by offering material, financial and spiritual aid. They also collaborate directly with our Good Samaritan House in serving families in the neighborhood.
In our own St. Mary’s Conference, this year alone, we have provided assistance with furniture, utility payments, rent payments, medical expense aid, and help with car repair bills. These hardships may be a result of a catastrophic illness, loss of employment, or the death of a breadwinner. A helping hand to meet an acute need may be all someone needs to get back on their feet.
ALL FUNDS RAISED BY OUR TEAM THROUGH THIS EVENT WILL REMAIN WITH OUR ST. MARY’S CONFERENCE to help our neighbors in need, regardless of their religious denomination. fundraiser for the Society of Saint Vincent de Paul. We would be so grateful if you would consider donating so that we can continue to help our neighbors in need.
Donations can be made in several ways:
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Online with a credit card on our parish website: saintmarysmanhasset.org/st-vincent-de-paul-society
Use the blue envelopes available in the vestibules of the Church, and drop your contribution at the Parish Office. If you are using a check, please make the check payable to “St. Vincent de Paul Manhasset.”
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Mail a donation to: St. Mary’s SVDP Conference, c/o Church of St. Mary, 1300 Northern Blvd., Manhasset, NY 11030. Please make the check payable to “St. Vincent de Paul Manhasset.”
Scan the QR Code to go directly to the online donation page.
Thanks again for your consideration to help us to help the impoverished! May God bless you!
ST. VINCENT DE PAUL – ST. MARY’S CONFERENCE - MANHASSET
Respect Life Ministry
All Are Welcome!
St. Mary’s Respect Life Ministry will hold their regular meeting this Wednesday, September 18th, at 7:00 PM, in the Msgr. Sharp Library. We will focus on Respect Life Month plans (October), Walking with Moms in Need, and the 2024-2025 program. Please join us – and bring a friend – as we explore ways to promote the mission and vision ofered by our diocese:
Our mission is to build a civilization of love and life which upholds the dignity and inviolability of all innocent human life, seeks objective moral Truth, embraces the value of redemptive sufering, and yearns for the fullness of life in eternal communion with God the Creator. For more information about St. Mary’s Respect Life Ministry, email RespectLife@StMary.ws.
Critical Ballot Amending NYS Constitution: Proposal 1 is A Wolf in Sheep’s Clothing
Pope Francis has reminded us that as thoughtful Catholics, we must participate in the public square for the sake of the common good. We are called to properly inform our consciences, voting for candidates and policies that will best advance the natural law, the protection of human rights, the dignity of the human person, the sacredness of all life, and the teachings of Christ and His Church. New York has a critical referendum on the ballot this November, “Proposal 1,” often called the “Equal Rights Amendment.” While that suggests a noble cause, Proposal 1 has dangerous consequences, and we are urged to vote No. Proposal 1 is a wolf in sheep’s clothing that could lead to darkness for many families, as it disregards the lives of unborn and struggling children in the name of political agendas.
• Proposal 1 is redundant in New York, which has already stripped away abortion limitations. It efectively legalizes abortion up to the moment of birth, and removes the people’s right to initiate any legislation protecting the child in the womb.
• Proposal 1’s inclusion of “age” as a protected class can eliminate parents’ authority over minor children’s destructive and permanent decisions they could later regret, such as so-called “gender afrming” treatments and surgeries. Te relationship between parents and their children is sacred; parents must be able to support and guide their children in accord with natural law.
Faithful Catholics should consider these consequences and vote no.
From NYS Catholic Conference letter, A Wolf in Sheep’s Clothing, September 5, 2024. See full text at https://www. nyscatholic.org/posts/proposal-1-wolf-sheeps-clothing.
Society of St. Vincent de Paul
In today’s Gospel Jesus says “If a man wishes to come after me, he must deny his very self, take up his cross, and follow in my steps.” Te cross of Jesus and the crosses of his members can evangelize us: the sick, who bear illness with courage; the grieving, who hope against hope; the dying, who clearly trust in the resurrection; the sufering of our poor brothers and sisters who are hungry and homeless, but who still trust in God’s love. Is there a neighbor or friend of yours who is in temporary need because of a loss of a job or an illness? Please leave a message for the Society of St. Vincent de Paul…we want to help!
Our St. Vincent de Paul Conference is able to help our neighbors in need through the generosity of our St. Mary’s parishioners. Each time you donate, either through the collection slots at the doors of the church, or in an envelope marked for St. Vincent de Paul, you are helping our neighbors within St. Mary’s Parish. If you or someone you know is in need of assistance, contact the St. Vincent de Paul Society at 516-627-0385, ext. 1125, or email SVDP@stmary.ws. To donate furniture, clothing or household items, please call the store in Garden City Park at 516-746-8250. Tank you for your continued support.
Celebratingthe Feast of the of St. Francis St.
SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 29
Following the 12:00 PM Mass
PLEASE ASSEMBLE IN FRONT OF THE RECTORY
PLEASE SUPPORT THE KNIGHTS OF COLUMBUS DRESS SHOE DRIVE
SEPTEMBER 7THSEPTEMBER 22ND
Te Fr. Daly Council 2122 of the Knights of Columbus was asked by Te Inn, a volunteer organization that provides essential services for those challenged by hunger, homelessness, and poverty in a dignifed and respectful way to achieve self-sufciency. Te Daly Council was asked to collect dress shoes for those to have when going on interviews for prospective employment. Te Knights will hold the shoe drive from September 7th through the 22nd. A box will be set up in the south lobby for donations. We ask that you please help those in need with any shoes you don’t seem to wear anymore. Te Fr. Daly Council thanks you in advance for your continued support.
Any questions, please contact Tomas Mayerhauser, PGK at 516 852-0812
ALL CREATURES GREAT & SMALL ARE WELCOME TO ATTEND!
Knights of Columbus Father William A. Daly S.J. Council #2122 Serving St. Mary’s Parish in Manhasset and St. Aloysius Parish In Great Neck www.kofc2122.org
What is a Knights of Columbus Family?
We are Catholic families building a bridge to our faith. Our lives, time, eforts, and resources are dedicated to these values: Charity. Unity. Fraternity. Patriotism.
We come from diferent places, backgrounds, and all stages of life. But the common thread is our Catholic faith. We are Catholic families seeking to improve ourselves and the world. It’s one thing to say who you are. It’s another thing is to live it. Put your values into practice. Become a Knights of Columbus family.
Interested? Please call:
Tony Racioppo 917 539 0859 Dan Garcia 516 358 1817
Ladies interested in joining the Columbiettes, please contact Maura Cliford at Maclif56@gmail.com
SATURDAY OCTOBER 12
6:00-10:00 PM IN THE MARIAN ROOM
$65 PER PERSON*
TICKETS WILL BE AVAILABLE AFTER 9/22 IN THE PARISH OFFICE DURING BUSINESS HOURS
Guests will receive one CHANCE BOOK valued at $12 with each ticket purchased
50/50 RAFFLE
Dinner catered by Restaurant 388
Beer, wine & soda included
Reservations can be made by emailing FSKofC2122@gmail.com
*ALL TICKETS MUST BE PURCHASED IN ADVANCE. SEATING IS LIMITED.
Exposition and Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament
How to Pray During Eucharistic Adoration
Tere is no wrong way to pray during adoration! You can talk to God about your personal intentions, seek spiritual guidance, or simply ofer thanksgiving and adoration to God. It’s a great time to practice Lectio Divina, prepare for the upcoming Sunday by reading the Gospel ahead of time, or meditating on the Rosary. Even just sitting in silence and allowing for God’s presence to wash over you is an appropriate way to spend time in adoration!
Hymn for Exposition
After the priest begins with the opening prayers, he will sing
O Saving Victim, either in Latin or English:
Latin: O salutaris Hostia Quae caeli pandis ostium; Bella premunt hostilia, Da robur, fer auxillium. Uni trinoque Domino Sit sempiterna gloria, Qui vitam sine termino Nobis donet in patria. Amen
English: O saving Victim, open wide. Te gate of heaven to us below. Our foes press on from every side; Your aid supply, your strength bestow. To your great name be endless praise, Immortal Godhead, One in Tree; O grant us endless length of days in our true native land with thee. Amen.
Hymn for Benediction
Tantum Ergo is sung, either in Latin or English.
Latin: Tantum ergo Sacramentum Veneremur cernui, Et antiquum documentum Novo cedat ritui; Praestet fdes supplementum Sensuum defectfui. Genitori Gentioque Laus et jubilatio, Salus, honor, virtus quoque Sit et benedictio; Procedenti ab utroque Compar sit laudatio. Amen.
English: Down in adoration falling, this great Sacrament we hail; Over ancient forms of worship Newer rites of grace prevail; Faith will tell us Christ is present, When our human senses fail. To the everlasting Father, And the Son who made us free, And the Spirit, God proceeding from them each eternally, Be salvation, honor, blessing, might and endless majesty. Amen.
Te Divine Praises:
Blessed be God. Blessed be his holy name. Blessed be Jesus Christ, true God and true man. Blessed be the name of Jesus. Blessed be his most Sacred Heart. Blessed be his most Precious Blood. Blessed be Jesus in the most holy sacrament of the altar. Blessed be the Holy Spirit, the Paraclete. Blessed be the great Mother of God, Mary most holy. Blessed be her holy and Immaculate Conception. Blessed be her glorious Assumption. Blessed be the name of Mary, virgin and Mother. Blessed be St. Joseph, her most chaste spouse. Blessed be God in his angels and in his saints. Amen.
Mass Intentions Book for April 1, 2025 - June 30, 2025 will open on Tuesday, September 24th.
Please note our policy whereby you will be able to reserve only two Masses during the first two weeks of the opening of the Mass Intentions Book for the second quarter of 2025. After that time, you may reserve any additional Masses for the period. Mass intentions may be requested in person at the Parish Office, Monday through Friday, 9:30 AM to 4:00 PM, Sunday 9:30 AM to 2:00 PM or call (516-6270385) or email (information@stmary.ws) for other options.
Please also note the following change in policy due to high demand for Mass intentions: Walkin requests may take precedence on the day of opening. Phone and email requests will be considered in the order received following the morning rush.
Please also consider our other memorial options including Yearly Membership in our Purgatorial Society and Weekly Bread and Wine dedications. Call or visit the Parish Office for details.
Exposition and Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament with Closing Benediction Mondays 3:00 - 5:00 PM in the Church
ST. MARY’S CHURCH
SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 22
8:00AM - 2:00PM
1300 Northern Blvd., Manhasset Marian Room
Appointments Preferred walk-ins welcome if capacity permits
To make an appointment please click here, or scan QR code below and type 06384
For more information, please contact 516-627-3183 or e-mail vamar185@aol.com
Appointments are preferred however walk-ins will be welcomed if space permits. Please remember to eat, drink and bring your donor ID card or ID with name and photo. Masks are optional for all donors and staff. For full list of COVID-19 safety protocols, please visit nybc.org/coronavirus
In Session with Dr. Patricia Pitta
Have a Successful School Year: with God in Your Heart and Mind
(For Parents Only)
“I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you.” (Psalm 32:8)
Yes, we are at the beginning of another school year. Tere is relief felt by many parents to have an organized schedule and set expectations. While for other parents, the dread of facing another school year with the many challenges of children/teens needing to do what they are supposed to is again much uncertainty and fear for what may happen. Parents wait patiently for the frst marking period to end, usually before Tanksgiving, to learn how their child/teen has adjusted.
Te Good News is that you don’t have to wait to hear from the school, you can set your positive foundation built on 5 factors (a commitment to create realistic expectations, to defne steps on how to reach stated expectations, to keep anxiety within a working level, to show gratitude with prayer and to celebrate each step achieved towards stated goals). to ensure that you are setting up healthy expectations and a positive work and behavioral plan. So let me repeat the steps:
1. Commit to creating realistic expectations.
2. Defne steps on how to reach the expectations.
3. Keep anxiety within healthy working levels.
4. Show gratitude with prayer.
5. Celebrate each step achieved.
Let’s start our discussion simply with
a young child as our example. A goal is for your child to get to bed on time. Tere are many steps before that need to be achieved: Set the goal: My child must be to sleep by 7:30. So how do you reach that goal? For a child to be sleeping by 7:30 PM, the process begins when he/she comes home from school or activities. Have dinner at 5:00 or 5:30 PM at the latest. Do homework before dinner. Parents have dinner cooked before the child gets home. 5:00 PM is the most challenging time of the day. Children are hungry and want to eat. If the food is not ready, they start to act out. Tey want to watch TV or play with electronic devices. NO electronic devices 2 hours before going to sleep. Parents want peace so they can prepare dinner and let the children go on devices. Ten you have a battle to get them of the devices.
Start each dinner with a prayer thanking God for the gift of the meal and say one good thing that happened that day and one thing that maybe bothered you (if the child has nothing in this category, that is fne). Ten as a family say, “You are grateful for your parents and if there are siblings and whoever else is present.” By this prayer, you are teaching your child to express gratitude and get in touch with the love of God. Ten have the child talk about what they achieved or worked on in school or at home that day. Be sure to be attentive and not on your phones and reinforce and attend to what your child is saying. Parents also partake in this conversation by answering the questions you ask the children. Tis is a means of celebrating your child and his/her eforts as well as yourselves.
Teens have more demanding schedules with sports and other activities so that they don’t arrive home till 6:00 PM. Many families do not have family
dinner. If you can have that special time each day, usually by 7:00 PM, try to make it happen. In my household, we had family dinner at 7:15 each night. My teens got home around 6 and started their homework and then we all were available for dinner at 7:15. If your teen is hungry, have a snack they can eat that will hold them over till 7 or so. Take that time to talk about what happened during the day. Do not accept nothing, or “it was good.” Ask what was something good? What was a challenge? Also, parents talk about your day in the same way. You can set the example. You can tell funny stories, too. Also, ask about if they need your help with anything that evening. Talk about weekend plans, Say a prayer for gifts of the day and of life.
When you get in touch with God, you are connecting to the love of God. When I think about God, I think about loving in a disciplined way. So, if we set up our life and home with discipline, each member will know what is expected of them. Each member will know the steps on how to achieve their goals.
Having conversations about setting up the home in an orderly manner is essential. Without the proper foundation, order cannot be achieved. If there are boundaries set, each person knows what is required and anxiety will be lower because expectations and steps to achieve goals are stated. Also, practicing mindfulness will help if you are feeling overwhelmed. Take a deep breath and envision the love of God (for children, get what their image of love looks like and use that). You can also say a prayer together when you are feeling overwhelmed. You can create your own mindfulness exercise. (continued on the next page -->)
Community Unity in
Join us for a cocktail party with live music, cigar and whiskey pairings, and exciting raffle prizes as we pay tribute to 23 years of Tuesday's Children and celebrate the community where we began.
Honoring the Church of Saint Mary, Manhasset
Represented by Kathleen Kosciusko, Director of the Good Samaritan House
Tuesday, September 24, 2024
6:30 PM - 10:30 PM
Manhasset Bay Yacht Club 455 Main St., Port Washington, NY 11050
For more details & ticket inquiries, contact Amanda Ferrando: (516) 562-9000 | amanda@tuesdayschildren.org Register today: tuesdayschildren org/unity
Dr. Patricia Pitta (con’t.)
Here is one I use. Take a deep breath and hold it for a moment. When taking a breath envision the warmth and love of God embracing you. Talk with your child or teen about what they can envision that will calm them down. Te point is to just do it! Eventually you will just be able to stay calm and the feeling and vision will help you take a rest and regroup your reactions and feelings.
I want you to think about: How do you want to organize your home and your child/teen’s schedule and responsibilities? Te parent sets the mood and tempo of the family, creating order. Te child takes the directions and dances to the tune created. Set a positive, disciplined, and loving tune and a orderly dance will follow. Below is a prayer you can say with your child/ teen, when you need to get back on track with less anxiety and to help with accomplishing your goals.
Prayer: Take a deep breath and say, “Tank you Jesus for all the gifts you have given me today (you can name them). I appreciate your love and I will love myself so I may reach the goals I have set under your direction. I love myself, my family, (can say school or teacher if appropriate) and all that I have. Amen.”
Dr. Pitta is a Clinical Psychologist and a Board-Certifed Couple and Family Psychologist practicing in Manhasset and is the chair of the Mental Health Ministry of St. Mary’s. She is the former director of the Post graduate training program at St. John’s University. She is the author of Solving Modern Family Dilemmas: An Assimilative Terapy Model published by Routledge (2014) and Integrative Couple and Family Terapies published by the American Psychological Association (2019).
“There can be no Eucharist without the priesthood, just as there can be no priesthood without the Eucharist.” - Pope St. John Paul II
Dear Friends:
Please accept my deepest thanks for your prayers and continued financial support for our senior priests residing at St. Pius X Residence.
It is through the Eucharist and the priesthood that Jesus shares His love for us. Through the hands of the priest, the very presence of Jesus Christ is mediated to all people.
As we offer thanks to God for the gift of the priesthood in our Diocese, and as we pray together for a rich harvest of vocations to the priesthood on Long Island, we have a critical role to play in the life of our priests, including our senior priests.
Many of our senior priests live independently in parishes or their own homes, but there is a group of priests that require assistance with their daily living or a safe place to recover from an injury or illness. For these priests, and with your support, the Diocese of Rockville Centre founded the St Pius X Residence.
St. Pius X Residence cares for our senior priests in a setting that allows them to keep the Eucharist as the center of their lives, while accessing a wide array of medical and social opportunities.
This month you will have the opportunity to express your gratitude to our priests and celebrate their presence among us through your gift to the annual St. Pius X Residence Fund. Your gifts and prayers will ensure that our retired priests are properly cared for today and long into the future.
With my prayers and gratitude.
Sincerely in Christ,
Second Time
James Smyth and Sabrina Osieczkowski St. Mary, St. Aidan, Manhasset, NY Williston Park, NY
Frank Pino and Laura Trocchia Our Lady of Sorrows St. Mary, Linwood, NJ Manhasset, NY
Tird Time
Edward Galvin and Ann Gardner St. Monica, St. Agnes, New York, NY Rockville Centre
Paul Faglione and Victoria Pineyra
St. Mary, St. Terese of Lisieux, Manhasset, NY Montauk, NY
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Bishop John O. Barres
Twenty-Fourth Sunday In Ordinary Time
James 2:18: “Someone might say, You have faith and I have works. Demonstrate your faith to me without works, and I will demonstrate my faith to you from my works.” Te call of marriage is to love and to live according to God’s will. To have a faithful and stronger marriage, check out a Worldwide Marriage Encounter Experience . You can fnd one by looking up WWME.org. Some of the dates to sign up are:
September 20-22 in Huntington, NY
October 18-20, 2024, Sunapee, NH
November 1-3,2024, Glen Rock, NY
Registration is limited; there is a $100 application fee. For more information or to apply, call Kevin & Regina Hickson at 516-554-3835 or https://wwmenyli.org/.
