Church of Saint Mary Parish Bulletin: September 22, 2024
Parish Mission Statement
We, the community of Saint Mary’s, Manhasset, building on our rich heritage of Catholic faith and tradition, center ourselves in the Eucharist and honor God in proclaiming the Good News of Jesus Christ.
Guided by the Holy Spirit, we seek to be the presence of Christ through our liturgical, educational and social ministries. We dedicate our time, talent and treasure to the service of all as we build the kingdom of God in our world. We commit to this mission in the name of Jesus Christ.
Church of Saint Mary
1300 Northern Boulevard
Manhasset, New York 11030 (516) 627-0385
Fax (516) 627-6070
www.saintmarysmanhasset.org
Schedule of Masses
Tursday 7:00 AM (when school is in session)
Monday–Friday 9:00 AM
Saturday 9:00 AM, 5:00 PM
Sunday 7:30 AM, 9:00 AM, 10:30 AM, 12:00 Noon
Sacrament of Penance
Saturdays from 4:00-4:45 PM and by appointment. Please call 627-0385.
Anointing of the Sick
Te Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick is celebrated in the Chapel on the second Sunday of the month following the 10:30 AM Mass. If you are unable to come to Church, please call the Parish Ofce to make arrangements for Anointing or to receive the Eucharist.
Parish Ofce
627-0385 | Fax 627-6070
Monday 9:00 AM - 4:00 PM
Tuesday - Friday 9:30 AM - 4:00 PM
Saturday - (phone only) 10:00 AM–1:30 PM
Sunday 9:30 AM - 2:00 PM
E-mail: information@stmary.ws
Good Samaritan House 365-2705
Monday-Wednesday-Tursday 11:00 AM-3:00 PM
E-mail: kkosciusko@stmary.ws
St. Vincent de Paul Society: svdp@stmary.ws
Religious Education
627-4028
Monday 12:00 Noon-8:00 PM
Wednesday 9:00 AM–5:00 PM
Tuesday and Tursday 9:00 AM–6:00 PM
Closed on Friday
PARISH DIRECTORY
Pastoral Staf
Rev. Fr. Robert A. Romeo Pastor 627-0385 | ext. 1004 pastor@stmary.ws
Te Schools of Saint Mary Nursery through 12th Grade
Very Rev. Dom Daniel Nash, Can. Reg. President 627-2711 president@stmary.ws
Norma Ragalli Staford Director of Admissions 627-2711 | ext 1084 nstaford@stmary.ws
Edward Short Vice President of Development 627-2711 | ext 1120 eshort@stmary.ws
Eileen M. Symmons ’82, ’86 Director of Communications 627-2711 esymmons@stmary.ws
Kiera Gmelich Walsh Director of Alumni and Parent Relations 627-2711 | ext. 1162 kwalsh@stmary.ws
Sarah de Venoge Grifn ’02, ’06 Liaison for School Relations sgrifn@saintmarysmanhasset.org
St. Mary’s Elementary School 627-0184 www.stmary11030.org
Teresa A. Kemp Principal tkemp@stmary11030.org
St. Mary’s High School 627-2711 www.saintmaryshs.org
Gerard J. Buckley Principal gbuckley@saintmaryshs.org
A Refection by Father Raphael
REFLECTION FOR THE 25TH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME, YEAR B THEME: HARMONY WITHIN THE CHRISTIAN COMMUNITY
In the frst reading from the book of Wisdom today, the wicked are pitted against the just man. Tey are determined to rid themselves of his presence simply because his justice itself is a reproach to them. In today’s Gospel, Jesus concludes his Galilean ministry speaking once again of his approaching passion and instructing his disciples on the true meaning of rank or position among his followers. In the second reading from the Epistle of James, the author shows how God’s wisdom imparts virtue while vice originates within the human heart.
What the frst reading shows is a contest between two groups of Jews: the wicked and the virtuous. Te wicked suggests that since they are in the diaspora, they could as well conform to the Greek worldview, by either abandoning the Jewish faith or at least taking a compromising position. Te virtuous man; however, takes a diferent position. He reasons that even in diaspora, one ought to be faithful to the Torah and to the Jewish upbringing. Te problem is that abandoning the Torah has a direct consequence on morality. Te frst action of the wicked is to begin to see “if his words are true.” Te frst challenge is of an intellectual nature by the use of every sort of argument. When this does not work, the second tool is marshalled: insult and torment. Tis has to do with psychological attack. It pertains to a personality attack directed at maligning the integrity of the virtuous. Te third is to condemn him to a shameful death. Tis is an attempt to direct physical harm toward the virtuous. Not just physical harm, but also irreparable damage. Tis is precisely an overturning of the Torah. Terefore, abandoning the Torah leads to a gradual degeneration of the human person.
Te Gospel reading combines two scenarios. Te frst speaks of Jesus’ prediction of his passion and the second narrates the teaching about greatness. In this reading, Jesus is seen going through Galilee and does not even want anyone to know he is there. Moreover, his mind is set on his passion. Te disciples are the opposite. Tey are consumed with the desire to be noticed, to be the greatest. So, Jesus calls them together when they were in the house and gives them two images: A Servant and a Child. In Ephesians 6:1 and 5 the image of children and servants is obedience. Obedience is what is due the father of a household. In the household, there is no contest about greatness. Everyone belongs to the family and everyone is loved by the father of the house. Tat is what the Christian community is like. It is; however, true that Jesus himself attained greatness because of his obedience to the Father. Indeed, if the apostles seek greatness, there is no other path to use than that of obedience to the Father’s will.
Brothers and sisters, there is no other way to be happy in Jesus than to trust and obey. Greatness and harmony in the community of believers can be achieved when we are obedient to the will of the Father. Ambition often leads us to take exceptional, even unethical, steps to get ahead. It often leads to position which is undergirded by power. Power tends to corrupt, and when it is absolute, it corrupts absolutely. Terefore, status was to have no place in the reign of God; it was to be absent from the Church. Tose who exercise authority in the Christian community are not to resemble the “rulers of this world who lord it over their people.” Indeed, this clear teaching of Jesus was frequently neglected. We have sought to be served rather than to serve. We have perpetuated evil so much so that, like in the frst reading, we simply want to eradicate the good person because such a person is a reproach to us. Or like the Gospel, we fght among ourselves for rank. James warns us to beware of our interior motives. Exteriorly, we can seem to be Godlike. But within? James assures us that selfsh ambition will only lead us to “disorder and foul practice.” It is when we serve the neediest, the beloved of God, that we come closest to what Christian leadership means.
Stay Blessed!
Father Raphael
J Stewards of God’s Gifts
In today’s second reading, we are called to live as God wants us to live.
Living Stewardship ~ Pillar of Service: Tis week, put aside any selfshness you may possess and think of others frst. Pray for wisdom so you can grow as a Christian.
Te collection for Sunday, September 15, 2024 amounted to $22,616.00.
Te collection for Sunday, September 17, 2023 amounted to $24,003.00.
Te collection for the St. Pius X Residence amounted to $7,049.00
Have you enrolled yet? Visit www.faithdirect.net. Our parish code is NY281.
We Care for Our Parish Community
Baptism
We celebrate Baptism at 1:30 PM on the second Sunday of the month and at 12:30 PM on the fourth Saturday of the month as scheduled. Please call the Parish Ofce at least one month in advance to see if a date is available and to arrange to fll out pre-baptismal paperwork. New parents are required to attend a Baptism preparation session held once every month. Tose chosen as sponsors for Baptism should lead lives in harmony with the Catholic faith and the role of Godparent.”
Marriage
At least six months before you plan to be married and before you make arrangements for the reception, please make an appointment with one of the priests to begin the necessary preparations.
Children’s Education
Saint Mary’s Elementary School ofers excellent education in the spirit of the Gospel from grades N, Pre-K to Eighth grade. For information call 627-0184.
Empowering Character, Innovation and Leadership in our students, Saint Mary’s High School is a dynamic, contemporary, Catholic value-centered school, combining a commitment to academic excellence and educational innovation, with a passion for learning, and an emphasis on moral character development through the pursuit of truth and discovered in faith and reason. For information call 627-2711.
The Religious Education Program provides excellent formation in the Catholic Faith for children in public or private schools. Preparation for First Holy Communion and Confrmation requires two years. Classes are held at St. Mary’s for Grades 1 through 5 on Tuesdays and Tursdays
4:30-5:30 PM. Classes also meet on Sundays from 9:3010:20 AM for Grades 1 through 8 and on Mondays from 7:00-8:00 PM for Grades 6, 7 and 8. We also ofer the option of an online home program for Grades 1 through 7. For information about Grades 1-8 call 627-4028 or email Mrs. Marie Granieri at releddirector@stmary.ws.
Parish Social Ministry
We care for our sisters and brothers through our Parish Social Ministry and Food Pantry. For information call 365-2705.
Youth Ministry
We reach out to our teens though our Youth Ministry Program. For information email youth@stmary.ws or visit stmarysyouth.weebly.com.
New Parishioners
We welcome new members to the Catholic Church and to Saint Mary’s Parish. If you are new in the area or interested in learning more about the Catholic faith, please call the Parish Ofce.
Opportunities For Prayer
Te Church is open Monday to Friday until 8:45 PM, on Saturday until the end of the 5:00 PM Mass, and on Sunday until 6:00 PM so that we may have the opportunity for quiet prayer before the Blessed Sacrament. Te Miraculous Medal Novena is said each Monday following the 9:00 AM Mass. Monday to Saturday the Rosary is said following the 9:00 AM Mass. Eucharistic Adoration is held every Monday from 3:00 to 5:00 PM in the Chapel. On First Saturdays, the Scriptural Rosary is recited following the 9:00 AM Mass.
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Masses and Special Intentions
Maria DeAngelis
Donna Chesney
Erica Klock
Dr. Michael O’Grady
Gladys Jean
Katharin Whelan
Carol Furciato
Mason
Tom Francess
Gabriel & Frances Romeo
Ann Shields
Mickey Kennedy
Sarah Horsham
Nina Principe
Cole Marguglio
Sandy Pittman
Richard Atkinson
Anthony Polizzi
Kathy Dellis-Stover
Neil Gillis
Nicolas Inglese
Paul Inglese
Pamela Gallo
Allison Azzara
Teddy Connolly
Sarah Praay
Agnes Gaus
Glenn LaChance
Mary Jo Beagen
Names will remain on the list for three months. Please email bulletin@stmary.ws if you would like to continue with the listing
125th Brigade Support Battalion
23rd Marine Regiment
25th Marine Regiment
2-4 GSAB Task Force Mustang
2-211th GSAB Task Force War Horse
51st Security Force Squadron
75th Ranger Regiment
82nd Expeditionary Rescue Squadron
Alacqua, Alexander, CPT, USA
Amerson, Jason, CPT, USA
Anderson, Michael, 1LT, USA
Arnold, James, LCpl, USMC
Arnoux, Seraph, PFC, USA
Avasthi, David, Capt, USAF
Baber, Joseph, Maj, USAF
Blake, Julia, Cadet, USN
Broderick, Evan, SGT, USA
Broderick, Steven, SN, USN
Brodie, Virgina H., 2ndLt, USMC
Brown, Jason, SGT, USA
Casazza, Jack, 2nd Lt, USMC
Collins, Matthew, LT, USN
Fontanetta, Joseph, Maj, USMC
Grubert, Sean, LCpl, USMC
Hannan, Jack, ENS, USN
Hayes, Andrew, Ca1837-1890pt, US MC
Hellman, Tomas, 2d Lt, USSF
Hernandez, Steven, SSgt, USAF
Higgins, James, GySgt, USMC
Hilton, Justin, SGT, USA
Hilton, Nathaniel, SGT, USA
Horner, Brian G., 1stLt, USMC
Howard, Edward M., GySgt, USMC
Jones, Scott B., LT, USN
Jones, Katherine L., LTJG, USN
Kennedy, Michael, Col, USAF
LaManna, Vincent S., Jr., PVT, USA
Landolphi, Michael, ENS, USN
Lanza, Anthony E., LtCol, USMC
Madden, Michael E., Major, USAF
Major, A. Edward, III, LTC, USA
Marine Medium Tilt Rotor Squadron 161
Marine Transport Squadron 352
McGorry, Patrick F., HM2, USN
McKievear, Gary, LT, USA
Millau, Jefrey, PFC, USMC
Morris, Jr., Brian J., ENS, USN
O’Leary, Jason, SSgt, USAF
Petracca, Evan L., LTJG, USN
Quinn, Anthony, Jr., SGT, USA
Richardson, Timothy, PV2, USA
Radman, Paul Cpl, USMC
Rodi, Caroline G., CAPT, USN
Saville, John A., ENS, USN
Sharkey, John J., LtCol, USMC
Spivak III, Edmund, Capt, USAF
Sweeney, Timothy, CPT, USA
Swersky, Roberto, Capt, USMC
Tafone, Samantha, SGT, USA
Ullrich, Kenneth C., HN, USN
Unger, Matthew J., SPC, USA
Vachris, Madison, LT, USN
Wood, Kelly, BMSR, USN
If you have a service member that you would like to add to this list please e-mail bulletin@stmary.ws. Please include name, rank and branch of service.
St. Vincent de Paul, Priest Eccl 3:1-11, Lk 9:18-22
9:00 AM | Gennaro F. Parrella
Saturday, September 28th
St. Wenceslaus, Martyr
St. Lawrence Ruiz and Companions, Martyrs
Eccl 11:9-12:8, Lk 9:43b-45
9:00 AM | Caesar Humberto Vera
5:00 PM | Tomas J. Flynn, Sr.
Margaret Cirillo
Jake Blake
Kevin Donnelly ’57
David Ryan ’65
Nancy Weigele Lambert ’65
Francis Gilligan
Sunday, September 29th
Te Twenty-Sixth Sunday in Ordinary Time
Nm 11:25-29, Jas 5:1-6, Mk 9:38-43, 45, 47-48
7:30 AM | David Castell
9:00 AM | People of the Parish
10:30 AM | Tomas Nicosia
12:00 Noon | Joseph Hardiman
Raymond A. Parrella
Lidia Brzozowska
Don Dunphy, Jr.
Ayse Murad
Joseph M. Mattone, Sr.
Mary Beth Brady
Cover Art: Sufer the Children. Artist: Carl Heinrich Bloch (1834-1890) .
The Gift Shop IS OPEN on SUNDAYS
The hours are after the 9:00 AM, 10:30 AM, & 12:00 Noon Masses. It is located in the Parish Ministry Center below the church.
Any inquiries, please call 526-627-0385 ext. 1033
Bread & Wine
are ofered this week in loving memory of Linda Gowen-Wood
Readings and Questions for Faith Sharing on the Twenty-Sixth Sunday in Ordinary Time
Reading I: Numbers 11:25-29
“Would that all the people of the Lord were prophets!”
Reading II: James 5:1-6
First Time
Matthew Lee and Paige Pacent
Christ Our Savior, St. Mary, Manchester Center, VT Manhasset, NY
Tird Time
James Smyth and Sabrina Osieczkowski
St. Mary, St. Aidan, Manhasset, NY Williston Park, NY
Frank Pino and Laura Trocchia
Our Lady of Sorrows, St. Mary, Linwood, NJ Manhasset, NY
Come now, you rich, weep and wail over your impending miseries.
Gospel: Mark 9:38-43, 45, 47-48
“Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him if a great millstone were put around his neck and he were thrown into the sea.”
Question for Adults:
How have I been able to share God’s Word with children through gifts or blessings that I have received?
Question for Children:
How can I bring joy to my family and others by following the ways of Jesus?
Rosary Society
Our Mission Statement: Te Rosary Society fosters devotion to Mary through prayer and good works for causes that would be dear to her heart
If you would like the Rosarians to pray for a special intention, please e-mail us at rosarysociety@stmary.ws. Invest 20 minutes of your day to pray the Rosary, and see the diference it will make in your life.
October is the Month of the Holy Rosary
“With the Rosary, the Christian people sit at the school of Mary and are led to contemplate the beauty on the face of Christ and to experience the depths of His love. Trough the Rosary, the faithful receive abundant grace, as though from the very hands of the Mother of the Redeemer.” - St. John Paul II, 2002, as the Year of the Rosary and addition of the Luminous Mysteries were announced.
On Tursday, October 10th, we will hold our frst monthly meeting in the St. John Paul II Room at 10:00 AM. All members are welcome to the meeting. We will discuss our plans for 2024-2025 as well as our annual Christmas dinner to be held on Tursday, December 5th.
Our Flu Shot/Immunization Clinic will be held the weekend of October 19th-20th. Dr. Joseph Hansen and his staf of Rite-Aid (Port Washington) will administer the shots after the 5:00 PM Mass on Saturday and before/after all Masses on Sunday EXCEPT the 7:30 AM Mass. Open to all parishioners.
A Musical Rosary will be held on Sunday, October 27th following the 12:00 Noon Mass. All parishioners are encouraged to attend.
On September 12th, the Rosary Society held its Opening Mass and luncheon at Our Lady of Grace Spiritual Center. It was a wonderful way to start the new season in prayer and communion with our fellow Rosarians. Many of us had the pleasure of getting to know Sister Cecilia, the newest resident in the IHM convent at St. Mary’s. Sister Cecilia, among many things, is a very talented artist. If you would like to learn more about her work, you can fnd her most days toiling away in her studio, located in the lower level of the OLG Spiritual Center.
Good Samaritan House
Our pantry is running low on the following items:
Thank you so much for your continued generosity!
Community News
THE CHURCH & SCHOOLS OF ST. MARY
52 Collective Years of Service Celebrated
The Church and Schools of Saint Mary have been blessed over the years with dedicated, longtime employees who set a standard of care and work ethic and walk in faith, serving the Lord with gladness through their various positions. On Wednesday, September 4, 2024, the staff and many volunteers attended the annual back-to-school Opening Mass and Luncheon. Fr. Bob had the opportunity to announce the retirement of three such staff members during the luncheon, which was held in the Marian Room.
It is with sadness yet joy that we wish Trudy Hoffman, Vincent Hartley, and Sr. Teresa Raftery a wonderful and blessed beginning of the next chapter in their lives, said Fr. Bob.
Trudy Hoffman, a faculty member of St. Mary’s Elementary School for 24 years, has left an indelible mark on the school. Her dedication to sharing a passion for learning with her students, helping them achieve academic excellence in the classroom, and nurturing their Catholic faith formation has been truly inspiring. She was not just a leader, mentor, and friend to her colleagues but also a beacon of light for her students. Her absence will be deeply felt, but her remarkable, kind-hearted enthusiasm will continue to inspire us.
After 17 years as Facilities Manager, Vincent Hartley will finally get the much-needed and deserved time to enjoy retirement. Vincent’s job was a labor of love, and it indeed showed across our beautiful campus thanks to his leadership and love for our parish and schools.
Obstacles like weather, a pandemic, and power outages never slowed him down. Not even a double-knee replacement could keep him sitting on the sidelines for an extended time. Our community will miss his eye for beautification of our campus, quiet demeanor, and mighty strength.
With 11 years at St. Mary’s, Sr. Teresa Raftery, IHM, has brought sunshine to the Parish Office and her inspiring devotion to God. As our Director of Adult Faith Formation, Sr. Teresa spent much time preparing our RCIA candidates for their sacraments, creating opportunities for prayer groups during Lent, and providing care and compassion to all who encountered her spirit-filled personality. We know that she will continue to pray for all of us daily, mainly when she serves as a lector during Mass each week.
During the celebration, Fr. Bob presented each staff member with a token of appreciation for their unwavering dedication and service to St. Mary’s. With their coworkers’ heartfelt accolades and profound gratitude, the luncheon was a beautiful way to begin the new year as a family serving in the name of Christ. We wish our three retirees abundant blessings in their continued life journeys.
PICTURED BOTTOM, LEFT TO RIGHT: SR. TERESA RAFTERY, TRUDY HOFFMAN, VINCENT HARTLEY, FR. BOB, FR. ANTHONY, AND FR. DANIEL AT THE STAFF LUNCHEON. (PHOTO COURTESY OF RENEE FACCI)
Cheerful Catholic Academic
SMHS Parents Kick Off the New School Year
Saint Mary’s High School recently hosted its highly anticipated back-to-school “Blue & White Night” for the parents of its students. This annual event, aimed at welcoming parents and fostering a sense of community, took place outdoors on the evening of Friday, September 13, 2024, where parents wore their favorite school colors in a show of support and traditional St. Mary’s spirit! Faculty and administrators were on hand to meet and greet the guests and share in the festivities. Thanks to everyone, especially our dedicated parents, who helped make the event a success, and to all who attended in festive spirits! The 2024-2025 academic year is off to a great start! Watch for details on how you can get involved in our Gaels Parents Association or email gaelsparents@saintmaryshs.org.
Celebratingthe Feast of the of St. Francis St.
SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 29
Following the 12:00 PM Mass
PLEASE ASSEMBLE IN FRONT OF THE RECTORY
ALL CREATURES GREAT & SMALL ARE WELCOME TO ATTEND!
THE CHURCH OF ST. MARY, MANHASSET HISTORY ARCHIVES PROJECT YOUR HELP IS STILL NEEDED!
We are asking parishioners to share their memories of events at St. Mary’s, including Our Schools Our Ministries
Priests, Nuns, Teachers & Staff Who Served Here
Sacraments Celebrated at Our Church
We continue to collect any items at the Parish Office as we look forward to the 100th Anniversary of the Elementary School (2026) and the 175th Anniversary of our Parish (2028). Please help us compile historical information to make these coming events very special for the entire parish.
For questions and more information, please contact: MaryLou deVenoge at 516-993-2706 or doggonelab@msn.com, Marijo Lantier at 917-4965640 or MALantier510@gmail.com.
LAST WEEKEND for
THE KNIGHTS OF COLUMBUS DRESS SHOE DRIVE
Te Fr. Daly Council 2122 of the Knights of Columbus was asked by Te Inn, a volunteer organization that provides essential services for those challenged by hunger, homelessness, and poverty in a dignifed and respectful way to achieve self-sufciency. Te Daly Council was asked to collect dress shoes for those to have when going on interviews for prospective employment. A box is set up in the south lobby for donations. We ask that you please help those in need with any shoes you don’t seem to wear anymore. Te Fr. Daly Council thanks you in advance for your continued support.
Any questions, please contact Tomas Mayerhauser, PGK at 516 852-0812
Community Unity in
A Local Tribute to Tuesday’s Children
Join us for a cocktail party with live music, cigar and whiskey pairings, and exciting raffle prizes as we pay tribute to 23 years of Tuesday's Children and celebrate the community where we began.
Honoring the Church of Saint Mary, Manhasset
Represented by Kathleen Kosciusko, Director of the Good Samaritan House
Tuesday, September 24, 2024
6:30 PM - 10:30 PM
Manhasset Bay Yacht Club 455 Main St., Port Washington, NY 11050
For more details & ticket inquiries, contact Amanda Ferrando: (516) 562-9000 | amanda@tuesdayschildren.org
Register today: tuesdayschildren.org/unity
Respect Life Ministry
Mom & Baby Shower — Fir st Weekend of October Mom & Shower — First Weekend of October
St. Mary’s Respect Life Ministry will celebrate Respect Life Sunday by hosting its annual Mom & Baby Shower. Gifts for both mom and baby can be brought to any of the Masses from Saturday evening, October 5th, through Sunday, October 6th. Tere will be a table for gifts in both the North and South lobbies.
Please consider participating in the Respect Life Ministry. Te mission of this ministry is to build a civilization of love and life which upholds the dignity and inviolability of all innocent human life, seeks objective moral Truth, embraces the value of redemptive sufering, and yearns for the fullness of life in eternal communion with God the Creator.
For more information about St. Mary’s Respect Life Ministry, email RespectLife@StMary.ws.
Critical Ballot Amending NYS Constitution: Proposal 1 is A Wolf in Sheep’s Clothing
Pope Francis has reminded us that as thoughtful Catholics, we must participate in the public square for the sake of the common good. We are called to properly inform our consciences, voting for candidates and policies that will best advance the natural law, the protection of human rights, the dignity of the human person, the sacredness of all life, and the teachings of Christ and His Church. New York has a critical referendum on the ballot this November, “Proposal 1,” often called the “Equal Rights Amendment.” While that suggests a noble cause, Proposal 1 has dangerous consequences, and we are urged to vote No. Proposal 1 is a wolf in sheep’s clothing that could lead to darkness for many families, as it disregards the lives of unborn and struggling children in the name of political agendas.
• Proposal 1 is redundant in New York, which has already stripped away abortion limitations. It efectively legalizes abortion up to the moment of birth, and removes the people’s right to initiate any legislation protecting the child in the womb.
• Proposal 1’s inclusion of “age” as a protected class can eliminate parents’ authority over minor children’s destructive and permanent decisions they could later regret, such as so-called “gender afrming” treatments and surgeries. Te relationship between parents and their children is sacred; parents must be able to support and guide their children in accord with natural law.
Faithful Catholics should consider these consequences and vote no.
From NYS Catholic Conference letter, A Wolf in Sheep’s Clothing, September 5, 2024. See full text at https://www. nyscatholic.org/posts/proposal-1-wolf-sheeps-clothing.
Society of St. Vincent de Paul
THE NEXT SVDP MEETING IS WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 2ND, at 7:00 PM in the Saint John Paul II Room. New members are always welcome! We invite you to explore the St. Vincent de Paul Society of St. Mary’s Church. Tere are no special qualifcations to join, other than the desire to join with others in helping Neighbors in need. As a group, we meet monthly. Come decide for yourself if God is calling you to this special Ministry.
Our St. Vincent de Paul Conference is able to help our neighbors in need through the generosity of our St. Mary’s parishioners. Each time you donate, either through the collection slots at the doors of the church, or in an envelope marked for St. Vincent de Paul, you are helping our neighbors within St. Mary’s Parish. If you or someone you know is in need of assistance, contact the St. Vincent de Paul Society at 516-627-0385, ext. 1125, or email SVDP@stmary.ws. To donate furniture, clothing or household items, please call the store in Garden City Park at 516-746-8250. Tank you for your continued support.
Exposition and Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament
Prayer for Adoration
Imagine the scene of our Blessed Mother in the humble state of the Nativity. She had no home at that moment other than this place where animals gathered. Yet in the stillness of that holy night, she was at home as she gazed upon her Child with the deepest adoration and love. She gazed in silence as He lay sleeping on the hay. Tis must be an image of your soul. You are called to enter into the humility of the inner dwelling place of your heart. Deep within, you must see this Precious Child, resting in peace. Remain silent and attentive, keep your eyes fxed on Him in adoration, and allow yourself to become consumed with delight at His presence within your soul.
Refect upon your humble and silent prayer. As you sit quietly before Jesus, or even as you go about the duties of your day, are you attentive to the divine presence of your Savior living within you? Do you see Him sleeping there in the stillness? Our souls must become a place of prayer and silence so that we can humbly keep our eyes upon our Lord within this holy dwelling place. If you keep your eyes upon Him, as He dwells silently within you, you will then go about your day with the peace and joy that only this holy Child can bring.
Mass Intentions Book for
April 1, 2025 - June 30, 2025 will open on Tuesday, September 24th.
Please note our policy whereby you will be able to reserve only two Masses during the first two weeks of the opening of the Mass Intentions Book for the second quarter of 2025. After that time, you may reserve any additional Masses for the period. Easter intentions will open at a later date. Mass intentions may be requested in person at the Parish Office, Monday through Friday, 9:30 AM to 4:00 PM, Sunday 9:30 AM to 2:00 PM or call (516-6270385) or email (information@stmary.ws) for other options.
Please also note the following change in policy due to high demand for Mass intentions: Walkin requests may take precedence on the day of opening. Phone and email requests will be considered in the order received following the morning rush.
Please also consider our other memorial options including Yearly Membership in our Purgatorial Society and Weekly Bread and Wine dedications. Call or visit the Parish Office for details.
Lord, bring humility and stillness to my heart. May I discover You resting there in peace and adore You with a profound love. May I always keep my eyes upon You and never become distracted by the many temptations of this world. May the adoration I ofer You who dwell within me become a source of the love and service I ofer to all. Jesus, I trust in You. Visit the parish website: www.saintmarysmanhasset.org
Exposition and Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament with Closing Benediction Mondays 3:00 - 5:00 PM in the Church
Visit the diocesan website www.drvc.org for the latest events including Bishop Andrzej - In-person Eucharistic Adoration & Catechesis, Lectio Divina Webinar - Jesus & Nicodemus Holy Hours for Vocations and much more
Scouting Religious Recognition Programs
Now Available
Girl Scouts
Classes are now forming for 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th and 7th & 8th Grade Girl Scout Religious Recognitions. By completing these awards, scouts learn more about God, their Church and themselves. Special medals are awarded upon completion of each program. Te 1st and 3rd Grade programs are take-home workbooks which the girls complete with their families. Workbooks are due back to the coordinator in early February. Meetings for 2nd, 4th and 5th Grade programs are held following Masses on approximately six select Sundays through January. Te 7th & 8th Grade program is an intensive 18-month program, with meetings on Sunday afternoons approximately 1- 2 times per month. No classes for any of the programs are scheduled for holiday weekends. Recognitions for the 1st, 2nd and 3rd Grade programs are awarded at the Family Mass on Girl Scout Sunday, March 9, 2025. Te 4th and 5th Grade girls receive their awards at the annual Girl Scout Convocation at St. Agnes Cathedral in May 4, 2025.
Cub Scouts
Te National Catholic Committee for Scouting has established two diferent Cub Scout Religious Recognitions, one for 2nd graders and one for 4th & 5th graders. Te boys are required to complete spiritual exercises and lessons with a family member over a four month period. Special medals are awarded upon completion of each program. Te Scouts will receive these recognitions at the Family Mass on Boy Scout Sunday, February 2, 2025.
Boy Scouts
Te National Catholic Committee for Scouting has established two diferent Boy Scout Religious Recognitions: the Ad Altare Dei for 8th grade and older Scouts and the Pope Pius XII for high school age Scouts. Classes are forming for both programs, which are a year in duration, with approximately 10 meetings on scheduled Sunday afternoons and require the Scouts to attend an overnight retreat. No meetings are scheduled for holiday weekends. After successful completion of the program, Scouts are presented with their recognitions at the annual Boy Scout Convocation in September 2025.\]
If your child is interested in participating in one of these enriching programs, please contact Susan Cannatella at 365-5520 or susancannatella@me.com by October 1st.
Religious Education
Dear St. Mary’s Religious Education Family,
Te arrival of October brings the start of catechism classes for St. Mary’s online and in person student community. Every year, this parish program leads hundreds of students into a relationship with Christ. Te relationship they form now will grow with God’s grace for the rest of their lives.
It is a blessing to witness how God works through our devoted Catechists. Tis year, several new volunteers have joined our catechesis program. As Mother Cabrini passionately tells us, “Begin the mission, and the means will come.”
Tank you for responding to our outreach eforts. And, we are especially thankful for those committed “bedrock” Catechists who return year after year. Your impact is immeasurable.
Safety and trafc control will once again be carried out on a volunteer basis by Jim Brooks, Chris Muller, and Tim Burke. Tank you for being there to support this most vital part of our ministry.
Classes begin on Sunday, October 6th. Weekday classes start on Tuesday, October 1st. All registered parents will receive a confrmation email next week confrming class details (Catechist name/room number etc.). Students enrolled in the online program will also receive an email with steps to access their online catechism portal.
May we always remember that the Catholic journey and work ahead is not our own.
It comes from Christ who sets our path to “Go therefore and make disciples of all nations . . . teaching them to obey everything that I have commanded” (Mt 28:19-20).
Blessings, Mrs. Granieri, Director of the St. Mary Religious Education Program
Let the little children come to me... (Matt 19:14)
Children’s Liturgy of the Word
Every Sunday at the 9:00 AM Mass
We are in need of additional Prayer Leaders. Materials and training are provided; scheduling is fexible. If interested, please contact Jane Cliford at bulletin@stmary.ws or sit in with us on Sunday.
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Twenty-Fifth Sunday In Ordinary Time
James 3:16-: “Beloved:Where jealousy and selfsh ambitions exist, thre is disorder and every foul practice. But the wisdom from above is frst of all pure, then peaceful, gentle, compliant, full of mercy, and good fruits, without inconstancy or insincerity. Te fruit of righteousness is sown in peace for those who cultivate peace.” God gives us gifts of peace, love, wisdom, gentleness,and mercy in our marriage. To enhance your marriage, check out a Worldwide Marriage Encounter Experience . You can fnd one by looking up WWME.org. Some of the dates to sign up are:
October 18-20, 2024, Sunapee, NH
November 1-3,2024, Glen Rock, NY
November 4-25, 2024, (Virtual)
November 22-24, 2024, Calais, VT
Registration is limited; there is a $100 application fee. For more information or to apply, call Kevin & Regina Hickson at 516-554-3835 or https://wwmenyli.org/.
