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THE VOICE OF THE ARMY
January 2016
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CONTENTS
Salvationist January 2016 • Volume 11, Number 1
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Departments 5 Frontlines
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14 Point Counterpoint
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Behind Enemy Lines by Colonel Bob Ward and Major Amy Reardon
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16 Fresh Ideas Birthday Blessings by Kristin Ostensen
22 Perspectives Ode to Joy by Lt-Colonel Jamie Braund
25 Cross Culture 26 People & Places 30 Salvation Stories Fanning the Flame by Brandalyn Musial
Columns 4 Editorial One Army, Many Voices by Geoff Moulton
24 Ties That Bind Step Out by Major Kathie Chiu
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Features 8 Boundless in Bermuda Divisional congress welcomes international leaders and inspires Salvationists by Pamela Richardson
12 Through the Storm I lost my son to suicide, but the story isn’t over by Ken Debney
17 Relief and Recovery Although Ebola is not in the headlines anymore, the need is still great by Major Gillian Brown
18 Aging with Dignity With Zumba classes, floor curling and more, the William Booth Special Care Home puts residents first by Kristin Ostensen
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Designer Carson Samson uses his God-given talents for good by Ken Ramstead
KID’S GOT
TALENT With his mix of secular and religious songs, Charlie Green rocks the music world
23 Come Together It’s time to mobilize around our seven strategic priorities by Commissioner Susan McMillan
Church Behind Store Thethe Thrift
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EDITORIAL
One Army, Many Voices
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hen I was growing up, people referred to the War Cry, Salvationist’s predecessor, as “the official organ of The Salvation Army.” Of course, these days “organ” sounds too old-fashioned. It used to mean a periodical, but now conjures up images of a dusty old keyboard or a transplant surgery—neither of which sounds very appealing! That’s why in recent years we’ve chosen a new slogan: “The Voice of the Army.” This reflects our editorial philosophy in the following ways: 1) It keeps readers informed. Our mission is to focus on the news that matters to Salvationists. This month, for example, you’ll enjoy our coverage of Bermuda’s Boundless Congress and the visit of General André Cox and Commissioner Silvia Cox, World President of Women’s Ministries (page 8). 2) It broadens the scope of the discussion. It’s hard to engage meaningfully with difficult issues when we just scratch the surface. Our magazine asks tough questions and encourages readers to probe deeper. You’ll find one such discussion on page 14 as Colonel Bob Ward and Major Amy Reardon reflect on whether it’s possible to love our enemies—even terrorists such as ISIS. 3) It acknowledges our diversity. We may be one Army, but people in our ranks come with a variety of perSalvationist
is a monthly publication of The Salvation Army Canada and Bermuda Territory André Cox General Commissioner Susan McMillan Territorial Commander Lt-Colonel Jim Champ Secretary for Communications Geoff Moulton Editor-in-Chief Giselle Randall Features Editor (416-467-3185) Pamela Richardson News Editor, Production Co-ordinator, Copy Editor (416-422-6112) Kristin Ostensen Associate Editor and Staff Writer 4 January 2016 Salvationist
spectives. Some readers have objected to certain articles that don’t represent their viewpoints. But it’s unrealistic to expect that we can achieve consensus on everything. We see Salvationist as a forum for discussion, not a policy document or official position statement. 4) It admits we don’t have all the answers. Although we trust in the authority of Scripture, we don’t live
Our magazine encourages readers to probe deeper
media. As a reader you may find yourself out of your comfort zone at times, but the Army cannot afford to ignore the tough issues. Collectively, we are “The Voice of the Army.” The Bible says, “Come now, and let us reason together” (Isaiah 1:18 ESV). To do that, we must have respectful and open hearts. Let’s seek discernment as we listen to the Spirit and to each other. To quote the church fathers: “In essentials, unity. In non-essentials, liberty. In all things, charity.” GEOFF MOULTON EDITOR-IN-CHIEF
in a black-and-white world. Recent research suggests that strong religious belief in “right” and “wrong” often does not allow for a “grey zone,” prompting children from religious backgrounds to be more judgmental of others and less empathetic (see page 25). Do they take their cue from us? At Salvationist, we believe in editorial openness. We want all voices to be heard. That’s why we’re committed to printing your letters and providing opportunity for comment on salvationist.ca and social
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FRONTLINES
Canadian Commissioners Now Chief of the Staff and World Secretary for Women’s Ministries
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ommissioners Brian and Rosalie Peddle, Canadian-born officers and former leaders of the Canada and Bermuda Territory, have taken up their new posts as Chief of the Staff and World Secretary for Women’s Ministries at International Headquarters (IHQ) in London, England. The welcome meeting, held at IHQ in November, included a number of former international leaders, as well as the Peddles’ daughters, Stephanie Forystek and Captain Krista Andrews, who presented a song. In his opening comments, the General greeted Commissioner Brian Peddle as his second-in-command. He spoke appreciatively about the Chief and Commissioner Rosalie Peddle’s experience, vision, dedication and commitment, promising them that “God who calls you is more than able to sustain you.” Commissioner Brian Peddle revealed that becoming Chief of the Staff had not been on his “bucket list” but that when the General had asked him to take the appointment, “faith and obedience collided.” Listing some of the many ways
in which God continues to bless and use The Salvation Army, the Chief concluded: “I would be crazy not to want to be a part of that!” Above: The Chief of the Staff and Commissioner Rosalie Peddle salute as General André Cox welcomes them to their new appointments. Right: The Peddles’ daughters, Cpt Krista Andrews and Stephanie Forystek, present the song He Giveth More Grace
Women’s Ministries Aims to Equip Leaders Recently appointed co-ordinator of women’s ministries resources at territorial headquarters, Major Shirley King comes to the position with 39 years as an officer and a passion for women’s ministry. What are we doing well in women’s ministries in the Canada and Bermuda Territory? We are making a difference in the lives of women in this territory as we encourage and experience spiritual growth through fellowship, worship, education and service. Leaders are providing innovative and creative opportunities for women to grow in faith, including life-changing home Bible studies, worship and retreats designed to facilitate learning and fellowship. We are reaching out to our communities through shared meals, walking groups, Zumba
classes, moms and tots groups, and baby song groups. We are embracing women who are not connected with the church. We are ministering in many languages: English, French, Spanish and Chinese. Women are involved in social justice issues and missions, and women are being led to the Lord. What are the challenges for this ministry? As we plan events, our primary goal must always be to bring women into a deeper relationship with Jesus Christ. I would love to see more opportunities for ministry to pre-teen and teen girls. What is your vision for women’s ministries in this territory? My vision is to continue developing accessible and relevant resources to help equip our women’s ministries leaders
as they reach beyond the walls of our buildings into the hearts of our communities, to care for the women, children and families we are privileged to serve. We have many talented leaders we can learn from, so I hope to facilitate a way to share their experiences. Finally, developing new leaders is crucial. Salvationist January 2016 5
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Homeless Connect in Edmonton
dmonton’s homeless and at-risk residents came out for the 15th Homeless Connect at the Shaw Conference Centre in October. With an increasing number of attendees every year, this bi-annual event has become the epicentre for connecting social services with Edmonton’s most vulnerable residents. The Salvation Army’s local community and family services, Addictions and Residential Centre and Crossroads Community Church participated in the event, along with more than 60 different services and 300 volunteers. More than 2,100 guests came through the doors, exceeding expectations. “This is a great event for the community because there are no hoops or applications, just access to services that they choose without barriers,” says Captain Mark Stanley, executive director, Addictions and Residential Centre. “It’s not just about services that deal with homelessness and poverty but also services that make people feel good about themselves.” Such services included haircuts, professional photos, legal advice, tax services, dental and eye care, immunization, massages, pre-natal services, counselling, manicures and laundry. The Army’s emergency disaster services vehicle was also on hand, serving hot chocolate as hundreds of people lined up hours before the doors opened to the public. The Army handed out socks, underwear and protein bars, along with information about housing, addiction programs, women’s outreach ministries and social justice programs. “I am overwhelmed by the amount of support in one place, in one day,” says Major Carolyn Hale, executive director of
Peter Mitchell, chaplain at the Addictions and Residential Centre, and Cpt Mark Stanley serve drinks at Homeless Connect
community and family services. “This is a community that comes together to treat vulnerable people like a king or queen for a day.” “It’s a positive experience for everyone who comes out,” concludes Captain Stanley.
24 Hours Homeless Event Raises Funds, Awareness
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Dave Schmirler and Centre of Hope staff member Mike Hodgson. “Dave and Mike had a good laugh, as Dave had arrested Mike when Mike was a shelter user years ago,” notes Nate McCready, who oversees the shelter
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he Salvation Army in Abbotsford, B.C., launched a new initiative for Homelessness Action Week in October, inviting members of the community to become “homeless” for a day, to raise awareness and funds for the shelter. Nine people participated in 24 Hours Homeless, which raised more than $18,000. The participants arrived at the shelter with only the clothes on their backs—no cellphones, no money, no ID. The only person allowed a phone was Dave Schmirler, the operations deputy chief constable for the Abbotsford Police Department, who live-tweeted the event via the police department’s Twitter. After going through intake, the participants attended an AA meeting, had dinner and slept on floor mats. The next day, each participant was given a “case plan” for the day—for example, registering with Labour Ready, obtaining medical support or finding housing. “They had to do the same things our people have to do to break the cycle of homelessness,” explains Nate McCready, community ministries director. No one was able to complete their case plan during their stay, and the participants quickly began to understand some of the challenges—big and small—facing people who are homeless. Schmirler, for example, could not register for Labour Ready because he did not have proper ID. The Centre of Hope plans to make 24 Hours Homeless an annual event.
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Survey Shows Territory’s Values
n the spring of 2015, all Salvation Army employees and officers were invited to participate in the second annual Canada and Bermuda Territory values assessment, the results of which were released in the fall. This assessment provides both a snapshot in time, as well as a vision of the Army’s aspirations for organizational life. “Values drive culture—they are reflected in our behaviours, whether or not they are put into words,” says Sharon Jones-Ryan, consultant, management and organizational ethics, at the Ethics Centre in Winnipeg. “The survey provides an opportunity for all who work in our territory to share their motivation and their lived experience, and provides leaders at all levels rich language with which to foster values-driven culture.” The survey asks three primary questions. The first looks at values the respondents see as reflecting who they are. The second asks respondents to identify values they currently see in action in the workplace. The third asks what values they believe are essential for The Salvation Army to reach its highest potential. More than 1,100 surveys were completed in 2015. This year’s survey yielded three key findings: About our people: The people working for the Army have a real sense of vocation: they are focused on finding life’s mission and meaning. They value their personal and spiritual connections and have an uplifting, can-do approach to work and life. About the workplace: People see caring, local engagement with a strong sense of purpose and a positive impact on people with whom we interact. But people might also feel constrained by organizational structure, systems and processes. What respondents think is most important in the workplace: People are asking to be empowered and have a flexible approach in the work they do. They are looking for measures to increase staff involvement and want leaders and staff to be involved in learning opportunities that will advance their capabilities. They see a need to navigate actions and decisions using high principles and God’s love and wisdom as their guidepost. “There were two values that surfaced above all—accountability and compassion,” says Jones-Ryan.
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he Hope Ventures program at The Salvation Army’s Bethany Hope Centre in Ottawa will receive a boost, thanks to new funding from the Ontario government. The program will receive $334,000 over three years through the Local Poverty Reduction Fund. Hope Ventures is an entrepreneurship program that helps young parents rise out of poverty. The program offers training and includes wrap-around supports, such as career and leadership training, child care, meals and housing services, to help parents meet their children’s needs while they transition into the world of work. The new funding will enhance the Bethany Hope Centre’s capacity to provide services to as many as 100 young men and women over the next three years. “At the Bethany Hope Centre, we focus on being part of the solution for young-parent families who are dealing with significant barriers,” says Naomi Praamsma, executive director. “Hope Ventures aims to spark a creative and entrepreneurial spirit that allows young parents to see employment and selfemployment as a viable option in their lives. It will impact not only each participant’s future, but also that of their children and the community we live in.”
Together after the announcement are Mjr Sharon Cooper, AC, Ont. CE Div; Naomi Praamsma; MPP Bob Chiarelli; Raven Chopowick, program participant; Shawna Norman, manager, Hope Ventures; and Mjr Gary Cooper, AC, Ont. CE Div
Pilot Project Provides Pathway of Hope
new pilot project is helping vulnerable families in the Ontario Central-East Division. Called Pathway of Hope, the approach was developed by the U.S.A. Central Territory in 2011 in response to the increasing needs of families in crisis who come to The Salvation Army for help. “Pathway of Hope provides strengthsbased case management for families who are ready to take life-changing action,” explains Claire Dunmore, social services consultant. “It seeks to empower them and break the cycle of intergenerational
poverty by helping them address root barriers, set and achieve a series of goals and, in doing so, increase stability and hope for their family’s future.” Pathway of Hope employs a teambased approach, utilizing partnerships with other service providers, churches and community leaders to help families reach their goals. The spiritual care component—a critical part of the initiative—involves corps officers, Salvationists and volunteers, as well as employees, to maximize the resources available. Outcome measurement
focuses on increased financial stability and hope. In October, ministry teams from six corps-based community and family services units received two days of training in the Pathway of Hope approach. The 12-month pilot commenced in January 2016, with the goal of having 20 families involved by the end of the year. “We are encouraged by the progress and impact of Pathway of Hope in the U.S.A. Central Territory, and we are excited to see similar success here,” says Dunmore. Salvationist January 2016 7
Photos: Tony Bean and Pamela Richardson
General André Cox and Commissioner Silvia Cox with West End CC’s puppet team
Boundless in Bermuda
Divisional congress welcomes international leaders and inspires Salvationists
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od is speaking to The Salvation Army in Bermuda!” declared General André Cox as hundreds gathered for the welcome meeting of the Boundless Bermuda Congress, November 12-15. The General and Commissioner Silvia Cox, World President of Women’s Ministries, visited the island nation to lead the four-day congress celebrations that continued the theme of the 8 January 2016 Salvationist
BY PAMELA RICHARDSON Boundless international congress held in London, England, in July. The warmth of welcome was clear from the moment they stepped off the plane to be met by Commissioner Susan McMillan, territorial commander, Majors Frank and Rita Pittman, divisional commander and divisional director of women’s ministries, the Bermuda Divisional Band and an exuberant group of Salvationists and friends.
Also present for the congress events were Colonels Mark and Sharon Tillsley, chief secretary and territorial secretary for women’s ministries. In addition to the public congress meetings, the international leaders shared a meal with local Army leaders, toured Salvation Army facilities, met with government officials and participated in officers’ councils and a prayer breakfast.
A liturgical dance by Patreese Simmons of North Street Citadel preceded the General’s sermon and prepared the hearts of those gathered to hear from God’s Word. Sharing from Hebrews 11, the General challenged the congregation to deepen their relationship with God and then live out their faith to make positive changes and bring about transformation in the world. “God chooses to fulfil his plan of salvation for the world through us,” he said. After the meeting, as news broke of the terror attacks in Paris, the General reflected on the tragic events online, calling Salvationists and friends around the world to “pray long, and pray hard.”
Young people share a vocal item during Boundless Bermuda
On Thursday, the first day of congress events, opening ceremonies took place on the front steps of Hamilton City Hall and featured the reading of the Boundless Bermuda 2015 Proclamation by a traditional town crier. March of Witness The streets of Hamilton rang with sounds of praise on Friday evening as Salvationists participated in a march of witness. The international leaders and Commissioner McMillan took the salute as officers and soldiers marched past on their way to the Hamilton Princess Hotel for the welcome meeting. The evening featured the congress chorus, a choir of young people, the Bermuda Divisional Band and the puppet team from West End Community Church, who performed using glowin-the-dark puppets. A particularly poignant moment was when a group of men from the Harbour Light treatment centre sang Your Grace and Mercy, as a testimony to the way God has brought them through difficult times. Prior to the singing of the congress theme song, Saved to Serve, written for the occasion by Salvationists Jerome Astwood (lyrics) and Sheldon E. Fox II (music), the General and Commissioner Cox were invited to join in a few moments of lighthearted fun. To the great delight of the congregation, a moped—an iconic symbol of transportation in Bermuda— was brought into the sanctuary. The international leaders donned helmets, sat astride the motorbike and received a personalized Bermuda license plate displaying their name.
The congress chorus contributes to congress celebrations
Anjelina Chandrasekaran takes part in the massed timbrel group. She was enrolled as a junior soldier by the General
Carnival of Praise As Salvationists proclaimed the message of Jesus Christ through song, dance and puppetry on the front lawn of Hamilton’s City Hall on Saturday afternoon, countless people stopped to listen and enjoy complimentary refreshments. A highlight of the celebration was a performance by traditional Bermuda Gombey dancers. Dressed in colourful costumes, masks and tall headdresses, the Gombeys invited the General and Commissioner Cox to join in their dance. To the delight of the crowd, the territorial and divisional leaders enthusiastically took part. Later that day, young people from the division gathered at North Street Citadel for fun, food and games. The General stopped by to greet the young people and to answer a wide range of questions, from the most interesting food he had been served since becoming General to what he was doing when he Salvationist January 2016 9
was their age. He encouraged the young people in their faith by saying, “Don’t give up. Following God’s way is the right thing to do.” Time of Commitment The familiar words of Joyful, Joyful We Adore Thee set the tone for Sunday morning’s holiness meeting. Following a prayer by Cadet Cathy Esdaille, who
had travelled home to Bermuda with her husband, Cadet Alfred Esdaille, and daughter, Kayla, from the College for Officer Training in Winnipeg where they are in their second year of training, the General stepped forward to enrol Anjelina Chandrasekaran as a junior soldier and Karen Hollinsid and Vecal Astwood as senior soldiers. Passing a microphone to Anjelina, General Cox
The Army’s international leaders receive a warm welcome at the airport. From left, St. George’s Councillor Eakin McLaughlin; Terry Battersbee, holding the flag; the Rt. Wor. Quinell Francis, mayor of St. George’s; Commissioner Susan McMillan; General André Cox; Commissioner Silvia Cox; David Firth, town crier
asked her to read aloud from her enrolment certificate the promises she was making as a junior soldier. He said that he had been questioned why the Army asks children to make such promises as avoiding alcohol, tobacco and nonmedicinal drugs. “Because they can,” he responded. “Walk the streets of Hamilton to see why we promise to keep away from things that harm the body.” As the children made their way to a special junior congress, the congregation joined in a time of praise and worship before Bandmaster Jamel Bean of North Street Citadel prepared hearts and minds to hear the General’s sermon by singing They Need You, They Need Me, They Need Christ. General Cox challenged the congregation to examine their personal relationship with Christ. “Have we truly accepted the sacrifice of Jesus? He paid the price on the cross for each one of us, and if we want to be blessed by God and know his presence, then we need to know that we are redeemed and saved.” Many people responded to the invitation to come forward to the cross-shaped mercy seat to kneel in dedication and recommitment of their lives to the Lord. Service of Celebration Salvationists and friends gathered Sunday afternoon for the final congress
Photos: Tony Bean and Pamela Richardson
Below: From left, Sophie Jones and Naezori Weeks enjoy the congress carnival
Traditional Gombey dancers were a highlight of the public celebration at Hamilton City Hall
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Tamiko Ramabuke plays with the Bermuda Divisional Band
meeting. A massed timbrel brigade included three members who had participated in a 200-strong timbrel group at the international congress. A highlight of the afternoon was a liturgical dance by performers wearing white gowns emblazoned with full-length gold crosses. Cadet Alfred Esdaille shared his testimony about the way God is teaching and moulding him through his time at the College for Officer Training. In her message, Commissioner Silvia Cox shared from Luke 4 and reminded
the congregation about what is important to God: that we love him more than anything else and that we love our neighbours as ourselves. “Loving him, serving him also means taking up his cross and following him,” she said. “It’s not an easy choice to follow Jesus, but he promised the Holy Spirit to help us with our mission—to go to the lost.”
Again, people responded to the invitation to kneel at the cross in dedication of their lives to Christ. The Boundless Bermuda Congress came to a fitting conclusion as Salvationists joined in a traditional “hallelujah wind up,” happily marching around the room behind the Salvation Army flag.
From left, Cpt David Williamson, Brian Fubler, Jamel Bean and the General share a moment together
From left, Maxwell Assing and Terry Battersbee carry the flags for the march of witness
The international leaders join in a few moments of fun
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Through the Storm I lost my son to suicide, but the story isn’t over BY KEN DEBNEY
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here are a few truly defining moments in our lives—getting married, losing a loved one, coming to faith. In 2014, I shared my story in Salvationist of becoming a Christian at a Salvation Army men’s camp. It was published shortly before that year’s camp and I hoped it would encourage others to attend, and perhaps even meet Christ. On August 21, 15 days before the camp, I experienced another defining moment, one that has changed who I am. That night, I arrived home after working a late shift. My wife was home and my daughter was visiting, doing laundry. At 10:15 p.m., our world crashed down on us. My daughter answered the phone and started screaming, falling part way down the stairs. My wife grabbed the phone and then fell to her knees. I picked up the phone to hear a police officer on the other end. I asked two simple questions. “Is he gone? Are you sure?” The answer to both questions was yes. My son, Gordon, was gone. He had suffered the terrible burden of depression in silence, until it was too much to bear and he took his own life. That morning, we’d been planning a 30th birthday party for him. The next morning, we planned his funeral. Light and Dark Nothing can take the pain of that night away, not even faith. Faith can’t fix everything. But in the hours, days and months that followed, in the times when 12 January 2016 Salvationist
Gordon Debney was a Maple Leafs fan. Friends and family wore Leafs jerseys at his funeral
I faltered, God sustained me. Some have said this is a test of faith, but I think it has been a depth finder. The journey I have been on is one of sharp contrasts—the dark cloud of grief and the bright light of faith, showing me a way forward. In my darkest moments, faith has sustained me. In the brighter moments, it has shone through me to others. Someone asked me, “Do you believe what you believe?” I said yes. He asked again. After a moment of reflection, I said yes again. “If you really believe what you believe, and you trust in God, then you can face anything,” he replied. The night my son died, in the midst of grief, I somehow knew that I would be OK—that although this would be the most painful experience I would ever endure, if I trusted God, I would come through it. Saying Goodbye After Gordon’s death, I expected the pain that came, but I didn’t expect the immense blessings that came with it. Our church family, Cambridge Citadel in Ontario, embraced us with compassion, hurting with us. But it wasn’t only friends who shone a light of encouragement. Complete strangers also did what they could to ease our burden: the manager of the photo store who made sure we had a slideshow in time for the funeral; the server who made sure we had privacy in a busy restaurant; and many other acts of compassion.
The Salvation Army is known for funerals that are a celebration of life. We wanted to say goodbye to our son in a meaningful way. Gordon was a fanatical Toronto Maple Leafs follower, so we chose to honour him with a Leafs theme and encouraged friends and family to wear their colours. We weren’t prepared for 300 people to show up, most in Leafs jerseys. We also went ahead with a birthday party for Gordon, inviting friends and family to a celebration and fundraising night, with proceeds going to The Salvation Army Hope Line, a suicideprevention ministry based in Hamilton, Ont. What Matters Gordon’s death has been a dark and painful time, but I have learned so much about my faith and about what matters. Our friends and family struggled to find ways to comfort us, feeling that words were inadequate. They weren’t. I read every single message of condolence. In the days after Gordon’s passing, I kept my iPad on the night stand and read all the new messages in the morning. It gave me the encouragement I needed to get up and face the day. The next time you struggle to console someone, remember it’s not the exact words or actions that matter, it’s the love that counts—and it does make a difference. It’s an often-repeated cliché that the best gift you can give is time. It’s true.
Photo: Melanie Debney
Ken Debney, with his wife, Christine, daughter, Melanie, and son, Gordon
Debney gets a tattoo of a semicolon—a symbol used when a sentence could have ended, but didn’t— as a physical reminder that Gordon’s story isn’t over. The semicolon is a way to start conversations around mental illness and end the stigma
Time isn’t infinite, and you can’t get it back once it’s gone. Spending time with family and friends is the most important thing you can do. In the past year, my work life has been far busier than usual, but you will often find me at a café with friends on Fridays, watching our favourite TV shows together as a family on Sundays, and sharing lazy mornings with my wife when we can. Love matters. Time matters. I matter to Christ. I’ve known this since becoming a Christian, but it was an abstract idea.
Now it is a profound truth. There have been times when my spirit was broken and I was beyond the reach of friends and family. More than once, I left for work and then found myself on the side of the road, overcome with grief, ready to turn back. How could I lead my staff when I wasn’t able to push through the dark cloud enveloping me? Then I would feel a physical presence, a lifting of the burden and a sense that Jesus was saying, “I’ll take it from here.” With that, I could carry on and face the day.
Fighting Stigma Gordon was an all-around great guy, good-natured, with lots of friends, a job and a future. He had no addiction problems. But he was living two lives. In public, he seemed happy and welladjusted. In private, he was in anguish. He was diagnosed with depression and started treatment the month before he died. When he told us of the diagnosis, he shared that he had been suffering for most of his adult life. His struggles intensified in the year before his death, with loneliness after a relationship ended and intense pressure at work. He was suffering in silence, hiding a terminal disease, one that is still not socially acceptable to talk about. I keep coming back to the thought that it wasn’t suicide that took my son, or even mental illness. It was stigma that prevented him from seeking help until it was too late. So now I speak openly about his illness, to let people know that mental illness is no different than any other disease. I owe it to him and to the many others who are suffering. I bear a simple tattoo in his memory, a semicolon on my wrist. Project Semicolon began in 2013 after founder Amy Bleuel lost her father to suicide. The semicolon is used when a sentence could have ended, but didn’t—a symbol that the story isn’t over. For me, the tattoo is a physical reminder that Gordon’s story isn’t over. His life mattered and still does. We are carrying on his story by committing to annual fundraising for the Hope Line. To date, we have raised $11,000 in his honour. It’s too late to save Gordon’s life, but it’s not too late to help others who are struggling. My story isn’t over, either. The loss of a son has brought many challenges— irrational guilt that I must have missed something, that I could have or should have been able stop this. But I’m not alone on this journey. I have faith in the midst of the storm. Ken Debney is the corps treasurer and serves on the mission board at Cambridge Citadel in Ontario.
For more information about The Salvation Army Hope Line, or to make a donation, please contact Major Bradley Donais, executive director of community and family services in Hamilton/Wentworth, at bradley_ donais@can.salvationarmy.org. Salvationist January 2016 13
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Behind Enemy Lines What does it mean to love those who persecute you? In this series, Colonel Bob Ward, who retired in 2013 as the territorial commander in Pakistan, and Major Amy Reardon, corps officer at Seattle Temple in Washington, U.S.A., discuss issues of the day. This is their last column in the series, and we are grateful for their contributions. DEAR BOB,
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recently overheard a debate between my eight-year-old son and my six-year-old daughter. My son was convinced that Jesus hates the devil (and, apparently, my son is going to beat up the devil, for Jesus’ sake). My daughter argued that Jesus loves the devil, because he loves everyone. In Matthew 5:44, Jesus said, “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.” It’s not a trick. We aren’t trying to make our enemies feel guilty by treating them kindly. We are to genuinely love and sincerely pray for them. So, I had to side with my daughter. I suppose that Jesus does love the devil, his great enemy. Transfer that, then, to people who seem to be working on the devil’s behalf. It’s hard enough to love the people in our lives who hurt, betray or defame us, but what about those who commit evil on such a large scale that it impacts the world? According to Jesus, we are to love them, too. I felt anger and dismay well up inside me when I learned of the terrorist attacks in Paris. Everyone in each scenario was utterly, hopelessly vulnerable. It could have been you or me sitting in one of those restaurants. It could have been someone we love attending that concert. People lost their lives over the twisted ideology of terrorists who were willing to kill for their beliefs. And Jesus says to love and pray for them! We could almost convince ourselves that we love them, because it is hard to measure love when the object of love is so very far away. All we have to do is declare that we love them, and no one can prove otherwise. But as for prayer, that’s harder—because it is a real, measurable act. Either we pray for them, or we don’t. And honestly, I suspect that many of us don’t. Perhaps the very idea is repugnant to some Christians. What are your thoughts on this subject? AMY DEAR AMY,
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ou have just destroyed one of my favorite choruses: “The devil and me we don’t agree/Glory Hallelujah/I hate him and he hates me/Glory Hallelujah!” However, I share your revulsion at the atrocities we are witnessing in the name of religion. Gandhi was profoundly influenced by that verse in the Book of Matthew, which formed his doctrine of non-violent civil disobedience. In Romans, the Apostle Paul elaborates on how to treat our enemies, reminding us that it is written, “If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat; if he is thirsty, give him water to drink” (Proverbs 25:21). But the next verse is enigmatic: “In doing this, you will heap burning coals 14 January 2016 Salvationist
on his head, and the Lord will reward you” (Proverbs 25:22). The reversal of the normal order of affairs creates a cognitive dissonance with the potential to change a hostile relationship. Let it never be said I disagree with the words of the Master. However, I would like to make two points in response to your assertion above. The first has to do with loving (or hating) people we do not know personally. We may say we “love” people who live in distant lands, and may even donate to organizations who help feed, clothe, house or educate them. We may even say we love ISIS or the Taliban because God loves them. Having served in Africa, South Asia and North America, we have heard people express their love for people (especially children) from other lands. However, when these children and their families come to live and work in this country or in their neighbourhood, the love and tolerance quickly disappear.
It’s hard enough to love the people in our lives who hurt, betray or defame us, but what about those who commit evil on such a large scale that it impacts the world? Christian love cannot be based on whether the new immigrants are documented or not. Both Old and New Testaments command us to love our neighbours as ourselves. The real test of our love is what we demonstrate in practical ways to those with whom we live, work and play. So I question whether it is possible to love people we only see in the news, with whom we have no personal interaction—such as ISIS. Second, there is a handy refuge used by earnest Christians who assert they “love the sinner, but hate the sin.” Personally, I think this combination of two separate thoughts is dishonest, both in theology and practice. We do not find any words of Jesus that give us an excuse to hate anybody or anything. The only time Jesus suggested we could hate is the strange reference in Luke 14:26: “If anyone comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters—yes, even their own life—such a person cannot be my disciple” (italics mine). A parallel passage clarifies: “Anyone who loves their father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; anyone who loves their son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me” (Matthew 10:37). In a similar sense, we love one master and hate the other. But it’s not really hate; we just subordinate our
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loyalty and affection. Jesus was saying we may only hate that which holds us back from the work of the kingdom. If we are called to love ISIS, we should be equally ready to love the refugees fleeing the war and provide a safe haven. But that is an issue for another day. In the end, we must ask ourselves—just as Christians asked themselves during the two World Wars—would we prefer for our enemies to be destroyed, or can we be at peace with each other? What do we pray for ISIS? What should we, as a church, advise our decision-makers? How does love impact the answers? BOB DEAR BOB,
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ou really made me think when you said it might not be possible to love people with whom we have no personal interaction. At first, your comment took me aback, but then I realized you weren’t saying that we harbour ill feelings toward them. We neither love nor don’t love, because we don’t have opportunity to do either. You’ve probably heard the phrase, “love is a verb.” I think there is wisdom in that. Love isn’t how you feel; it’s how you act. If that’s a fair statement, we can’t really love those we never encounter. Your questions are very helpful, I think, in sorting out whether or not we have a Christlike response to others. You ask, which would we prefer: peace, or the destruction of our enemies? Let me pause on that question for a moment. Soon, we’ll be electing a new president here in the United States. I’ve often heard some of my fellow countrymen—even Christians— express a desire for the president to fail when their favourite candidate hasn’t made it into office. Not only is this illogical (if the president fails, we all suffer), it is cruel and un-Christlike. We should pray for wisdom for our leaders. Peace for all is far better than the demise of those we don’t like. Peace at home, peace for the world. As for praying for ISIS—what do we say? What do we want?
Perhaps we should pray again for wisdom for ISIS members, so that those who kill, hurt and destroy would turn and value life and our collective humanity. I also think it is important to remember that these men and women are loved by God. He formed each one, knitting them together in their mother’s womb. He longs for relationship with each of them. Though their deeds are heinous, I believe God still yearns to draw them to him, if only they would allow it. I disagree with what you’ve said about hating the sin but loving the sinner. Sin repels God; that’s why we need a Saviour. Since it is so offensive to God, I have no problem saying I hate it. I’m not sure what would be wrong about saying I hate murder, lies, infidelity, etc. These things destroy peace and happiness and ruin lives. AMY DEAR AMY,
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t the time of writing, we, too, were in the midst of a federal election, with our own destructive tendencies. What to pray for? Perhaps one response, taking a lesson from past conflict, is to pray for voices that can speak to both sides, people who have their respect, who start to humanize “the enemy.” Or that voices of reason within both sides are heard, leading to respectful discussion and a workable co-existence. This is what I pray for regarding ISIS, or, for that matter, the parties in the North American elections. In terms of your comment about loving the sinner but hating the sin, I believe that Christians need to begin to model God’s unconditional love. In the end, Christ tells us that we are in no position to point fingers at another’s shortcomings when we fail to acknowledge and correct our own. I hope, though, that the devil feels just a little uncomfortable with the thought that your daughter is praying for him. BOB Salvationist January 2016 15
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A Salvation Army club in Calgary helps children feel special BY KRISTIN OSTENSEN
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appy birthday to you!” The final notes of the familiar song ring out as Hazel Chan blows out the candle on her birthday cupcake. It’s the first birthday party she has had with her family at the Barbara Mitchell Family Resource Centre (FRC) in Calgary, where she’s one of eight children celebrating in September. The Birthday Club, which provides families with free-of-charge birthday parties each month, began in 2013 when FRC staff noticed that many of the centre’s clients were new to Canada and often did not know how to plan a “Canadian” birthday party. “We identified that this was one of the ways that we could help them ‘fit into’ their new culture,” says Captain Raelene Russell, chaplain, children and youth ministries, at the FRC. “And because many of them are new to Canada and Calgary, their children haven’t made a lot of friends yet, so the Birthday Club gives them an opportunity to celebrate with other families at the FRC.” The Birthday Club serves children aged one to early teens. Most families are already connected to the FRC through programs such as Messy Church, English classes and sports programs. “It provides another avenue for us to celebrate their children,” says Captain Russell. “Every child should be made to feel special—and what better occasion than their birthday?” The program begins with games for children, while parents have the opportunity to choose a gift for their child, which is provided by the FRC as some families may not be able to afford one. The presents were the highlight of the event for Oswald Chan’s children, Hazel, Darren and Grady, each of whom has participated in the Birthday Club in the past year. Without the assistance of the Army, it would have been difficult for him and his wife, Abigail Chiang, to provide them with a party and gifts. “As newcomers, my wife and I have had difficulties finding a good job, especially since our English is not as good as Canadians, and we don’t have Canadian experience,” says Chan, who came to Canada from Taiwan four years ago. “But at least we have The Salvation Army to help us go through the tough times.” The Chan family first connected with the Army in Calgary through the Christmas hamper program three years ago. 16 January 2016 Salvationist
Blessings Despite the “mass” nature of the birthday party, each “birthday kid” is singled out and celebrated. “We sing for each child individually, they get to blow out their candle and receive their present, and then their family can take pictures,” says Captain Russell. As well as the presents and activities, the party includes a time for devotions, led by Captain Russell. “Often, I reference Psalm 139 because it talks about how we are fearfully and wonderfully made, and how God already has a plan for our lives,” she says. “I use that as a springboard to talk to the kids about how special they are, to remind them of their worth and their value, and how much God loves them.” The Christian nature of the program was a draw for Damaris Kimetre, whose children, Grace and Gloria, have participated in the club. “I signed my kids up for the Birthday Club because I wanted them to celebrate with the kids at the centre, and because they have a good program and they talk about God,” she says. As newcomers from Kenya, Kimetre and her husband first became involved with the Army while they lived in New York. “So when we came to Calgary six years ago, we looked for The Salvation Army and we found the family resource centre,” she says. In the past, Kimetre had not been able to put on a birthday party for her children, who were thrilled to have a party at the centre. “They really liked it,” she says. “They enjoyed the presents, the food, the crafts—everything. Next birthday they can’t wait to do it again.”
Oswald Chan and Abigail Chiang, with their children Chandler, Hazel, Darren, Grady and Walter
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Relief and Recovery BY MAJOR GILLIAN BROWN First in a four-part series in support of the Partners in Mission campaign.
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ome disasters are like slowmoving freight trains. Others arrive like express trains, with horns blowing. And some begin slowly but quickly pick up speed. When the Ebola virus first began claiming victims in Liberia, few people imagined it would build to a disaster resulting in more than 4,800 deaths in Liberia alone, or that it would spread to three neighbouring countries and beyond Africa to the United States and Europe. Many in the country assumed that, like other epidemics, it would be contained within an area. The Salvation Army in Liberia played an active role in ministering to communities throughout the epidemic, especially when families and even neighbourhoods were quarantined, shut off from receiving basic supplies. Salvationists were also there to provide pastoral care, lead community training sessions and offer whatever practical support they could. Recovering from the impact of the Ebola virus will take time and planning.
In West Point, one of the most densely populated slums in Liberia’s capital city, one young woman, Rachel, spoke for many when she told me, “Ebola left us with so many things on our head.” Rachel lost her husband to the virus and now cares for two children alone. Her story was similar to many I heard throughout my visit. And as if caring for their own families was not enough, Rachel and many others found themselves called to care for parents, in-laws and siblings, as well as orphaned nieces and nephews. Most of the families affected by the Ebola virus were already living at or below the poverty line. Liberia is ranked 175 out of 187 on the human development index—one of the poorest countries in the world. Yet people in Liberia are not without hope. Many have a resilient faith that God has not abandoned them. The Salvation Army remains committed to finding ways to make a difference. In the Cotton Tree and Mount Barclay communities, providing support for farmers will play a key role in the recovery process. George, a university student studying agriculture, lost a brother and sister during the epidemic and took in their children. He and
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Although Ebola is not in the headlines anymore, the need is still great
Above: The Salvation Army is providing support for farmers, like George, in the Cotton Tree and Mount Barclay communities. Below: “Ebola left us with so many things on our head,” says Rachel, who is caring for two children alone after losing her husband to the virus
other small-holder farmers shared in the planning of the resources needed to increase crop production—seeds, tools and equipment; training in crop rotation and pest control; and opportunities for mentorship. It’s a path toward improved income and health for families that will transform the community. Major Gillian Brown is the director of world missions for the Canada and Bermuda Territory. Salvationist January 2016 17
June McFadden in the comfort of her room at the William Booth Special Care Home
Aging with Dignity
With Zumba classes, floor curling and more, the William Booth Special Care Home puts residents first
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Since 2012, McFadden has been a resident at the William Booth Special Care Home in Regina, in the long-term care wing. Before coming to the home, she had a small stroke on her left side which, when combined with her bad back, meant special care was a necessity. Yet at the home, such challenges do not define her. Outside McFadden’s door, there’s a hand-written sign letting staff and visitors know that she is a former teacher, a minister’s wife and the mother of four children. It’s small touches like this that demonstrate the home’s commitment to engaging with each resident as a whole person, with spiritual and psycho-social, as well as physical, needs. “We provide care and treatment, but that’s not the main focus,” explains Ivy
Scobie, executive director. “I always tell our new staff, ‘You’ll never go wrong if you remember this: You are working in the resident’s home. They are not living in your workplace.’ That’s our philosophy of care.” Improving Quality of Life When the William Booth Special Care Home opened in 1966, it provided only long-term care. But since then, it has undergone several expansions, growing to 53 long-term care beds, 10 hospice beds, 18 convalescent beds, a short-term respite program and a popular day program, which operates seven days a week and serves 100 clients. As the home has grown, so, too, has Canada’s aging population. In 2011, 15
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started off as a two-pound, 10-ounce preemie, in the days when they told parents they couldn’t do anything for them but take them home, so I ended up on the oven door, in woollen clothes in June.” Sitting comfortably in her grey armchair, surrounded by mementos from her long life—a white, well-worn Bible, yellowing photos of children and grandchildren, a green Roughriders flag—June McFadden smiles as she shares her story. “My dad had read somewhere that ripe bananas were good for preemies, so they fed me ripe bananas, and by the time I was a year old, I was regular weight. And now look at me!” She laughs. “I am very fortunate to still be here, and I’m happy.”
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percent of Canadians were 65 years or older, and this population is expected to double by 2036. In Regina, the home is already in high demand, with a threeyear waiting list for long-term care. The hospice, with its 10 beds, admits 250 residents each year. All programs combined, the home serves 500 people each year. “We’re the top home choice in Regina,” notes Scobie. After a tour of the facility, it’s not hard to see why. The first thing Val Linder noticed when she came to the home two years ago for its day program was that it had a clean smell, unlike other care centres she had visited. “As soon as I walked in the door I knew I’d like it,” she says. “The staff were so nice and friendly. And they’re always joking around, which is really good.” Attending the day program three days a week has transformed Linder’s quality of life, which had declined significantly after she had a stroke three years ago. Partially paralyzed and confined to a wheelchair, Linder became depressed. “The stroke changed everything,” says the former office manager. “I was very independent. I never had to ask anybody for anything. But now I can’t wash myself, I have to have somebody to help me dress. I started to wonder, What good am I? I can’t do anything for myself. It’s just devastating.” But since she started coming to the home, all that has changed. “I feel great because I’m with other people,” she says. “We joke and laugh together.” Since joining the program, she’s participated in a variety of activities, from baking to painting, but Linder’s favourite activity is the daily exercises which, along
with the help of the staff, have greatly improved her mobility. “If the staff had time, they helped me walk,” she says. “Because of that, I can walk a bit now, with a cane.” More than improving her day-to-day life, the staff’s assistance helped her fulfil her son’s request that she walk him down the aisle when he got married. “They worked and worked with me so that I could do that,” she shares. “My son was amazed.” A Resident-Centred Approach Though long-term care and the adult day support program are separate programs, they share many activities. “It helps the people who are in longterm care to know that they’re still part of the community, because they look for their friend coming in,” says Scobie. “And the people in the day program don’t see a long-term care facility as a bad place
Ivy Scobie, Val Linder and Mjr Joanne Binner, former chaplain, share a moment together in one of the home’s lounges
Residents and day-program participants join in a Zumba class
to be when they need it, so it’s good for both of them.” “We follow a therapeutic model, so we develop programs to meet cognitive, physical, social, emotional and spiritual needs,” explains Linda Ostryzniuk, program co-ordinator. “We focus on quality of life, figuring out what’s meaningful and purposeful for residents.” The home offers programs that encourage physical activity, such as Zumba and floor curling, in the mornings, when participants are at the peak of their energy. In the afternoons, it offers smaller-group programs, such as games and crafts, with a cognitive component. “I believe that all the residents are entitled to fair and equitable recreation, not dependent on their level of function,” she says. “Our approach is residentcentred—it’s all about the residents. So we try to develop programs to meet the needs of everyone.” Being able to run a large variety of programs reflects the amount of support the home receives from the community. “We could never do the programs that we do without the help of our volunteers,” says Ostryzniuk. The home has more than 50 registered volunteers, who come every week, plus 150 to 200 unregistered volunteers who put on events such as dog shows and musical presentations. Caring for the Soul As a Salvation Army facility, one of the home’s most important programs is spiritual care. “We have chapel every day—not many places in Canada do,” says Scobie. “We have a full-time chaplain, too, and a chaplain for the hospice. And when the chaplain’s not here, the staff step in and do the devotions. You wouldn’t find that in another health-care facility.” In addition to chapel and chaplainled Bible studies, the home also has clergy from other denominations, such as Lutheran and Roman Catholic, come in and conduct services. “The spiritual care here is terrific,” says McFadden, who attends chapel daily. “It’s a lot of help in our last years to have that opportunity to renew our spiritual life. “I’m so grateful that I’m in a place like this,” McFadden continues. “A loving, caring, clean, healthy, spiritually good atmosphere—you can’t ask for much more.” Salvationist January 2016 19
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Strength Designer Carson Samson uses his God-given talents for good
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used to attend church with my parents when I was seven or eight years old and, like many young kids, I’d get bored and start figiting,” says Carson Samson. “So my mother would pull whatever scrap paper she had out of her purse, and I’d begin to draw the people around me.” Even at that early age, Samson had an aptitude for portraiture. No stick figures for him. “I’d draw everyone in great detail, right down to the lines around their eyes. Mom would look at my sketches. “ ‘Don’t show these to anyone,’ she’d gently scold me. ‘They’re too realistic! You’ve made them look old. You’ve made me look too old!’ ” Samson smiles. “Despite that, they encouraged me to embrace that and sent me to art courses and such. Who knows where I’d be or what I’d be doing now?” Devastating Move Samson’s parents were not yet officers when he was born in Newfoundland and Labrador but made the decision soon after. “I was two when my parents were commissioned at the training college in St. John’s, N.L.,” observes Samson. “Growing up, all I knew was The Salvation Army.” After a couple of appointments on the island, Samson’s family moved to Toronto when he was five and spent nine years in the city, attending North Toronto Corps. “Toronto was a huge part of my upbringing and youth,” Samson says. “I was immersed in big-city culture, and I was very involved in church life.” From there, the family, which included Samson’s older sister, Tracy, was posted to nearby St. Catharines, Ont. 20 January 2016 Salvationist
In their fourth year there, Majors Pearce and Fronie Samson received news that they were being transferred to Winnipeg. “We weren’t expecting that,” Samson says. “My sister was getting married in a couple of months. Nobody really wanted to move to Winnipeg just then. I was devastated.”
“I feel that I have a responsibility to turn my gifts into something practical,” says Carson Samson
stayed in Winnipeg, and he and Donna Lee were married one year later. “And I’ve been here ever since,” he says proudly. Building a Base Now that Samson was in Winnipeg to stay, he needed to figure out what he was going to do with his life. “I had a job at the thrift store, and thanks to Donna Lee, I’d met some good friends, but I was aimless.” But at the University of Manitoba’s School of Art, his childhood passion was reignited when he was exposed to painting, sculpture, print making and a number of other mediums. The graphicdesign program particularly attracted him, and Samson graduated with an honour’s degree in fine arts. With that, he started working for Bramwell Ryan at Tundra Lights Communications in Winnipeg. “He was the first one to take a chance on me as a professional designer,” Samson recalls fondly. “I’ve been fortunate with the mentors in my life, and
Home in Winnipeg A few days after the wedding, a disgruntled 17-year-old Samson found himself in the Manitoba capital. “I had my nose out of joint,” he remembers. “Winnipeg was the last place on earth I wanted to be, and I had a bit of a chip on my shoulder. I’d been displaced from my home and friends and even my sister, without anyone consulting me—my point of view was narrow back then. So despite the fact that there were lots of kids my age at the corps, I didn’t plan to engage with anyone. And I had no intention of staying. I even had plans to go back and finish my education in southern Ontario!” But as things worked out, a pretty young woman named Donna Lee Maye and her Salvation Army officer parents had just been transferred from St. John’s to Winnipeg. The two met at Heritage Park Temple and before the week was out, they had become inseparable. When Samson’s parents were transferred fou r yea rs later in 1998, Samson The Samson family, from left, Caleb, Carson, Donna Lee and Claire
Bram’s definitely one of them.” Eventually, Samson decided to branch off on his own and created Samson Studios, working hard to develop a client base. While he enjoyed the work, he found the often-cyclical nature of the business to be problematic, especially as he was now a happily married father of two. So in 2014, when his clients at the Mennonite Brethren Church of Manitoba offered him the position of communications co-ordinator, he accepted, while continuing to provide services to his existing clients, including the Army’s College for Officer Training (CFOT) in 3 Winnipeg. Furthering the Mission Samson had stopped drawing after he became a graphic designer. “You’re working on a computer, with a mouse or a tablet 4 of some kind, rather than a pen,” he explains. “You stop using those muscles, the muscle memory deteriorates and you forget how to do it.” Then in March 2014, Samson’s father passed away unexpectedly. “I was trying to hold things together for the family, for my sister and mother, 5 and for me, too, but I needed some sort of therapy.” It just so happened that at about t he s a me t i me, Samson picked up a sketch book. He started small but was soon spending a couple of hours at a time creating masterpieces on paper. Now, not a week goes by where he is not drawing. Without planning it, returning to his artistic roots became part of his healing. Perhaps because of his newfound passion, Samson’s children—Caleb, 12, and Claire, eight—have also started to develop their own artistic skills. “They’re both incredible artists,” he says. “Donna Lee and I have always
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encouraged them to embrace their talents and take it at their own pace.” As for Donna Lee, she’s the songster leader at their corps and a program team manager at St. Boniface Hospital in Winnipeg. “What she does is worlds away from what I do,” Samson says. “But she’s my rock. Without her love and support, I could never have grown as a graphic designer, let alone as a husband and father. I wouldn’t be here if God hadn’t put her in my path. “A nd I k now that my talents are a God-given blessing,” Samson concludes. “I feel that I have a responsibility to turn my gifts into something practical. Whether I’m helping to raise money at Christmastime on the kettles or I’m working on a commissioning book for CFOT, I’m furthering the mission of The Salvation Army.”
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3 Samson designed the layout and photography for the cover of the 2014 Territorial Congress book 4-5 Back cover and spread of CFOT’s 2015 commissioning book, which Samson designed 6. “Probably my favourite chimpanzee sketch. The eyes are contemplative and wise” 7-8 “I did a two-piece series on my fathers, both of whom have passed away. This is my father, Pearce, when he was a boy. The other one is Donna Lee’s father, Mjr Don Maye, in his younger days”
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Ode to Joy What’s your happiness quotient?
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ave you seen the video “There is Happy in The Salvation Army”? It uses the music and lyrics of Happy by Pharrell Williams to illustrate what happiness means to us in the day-to-day work of The Salvation Army. The director, Matthew Osmond, has captured the many faces of our ministry and service in a joyful, spirited way—from the front lines to administration, from our territory to around the world. It reminds us that even though we are a diverse workforce with varied responsibilities, we are united in our common desire to fulfil the mission of The Salvation Army. The video, while playful in its delivery, presents an important condition: “Clap along if you know what happiness is to you.” It’s a reference to our happiness quotient, which is defined as the satisfaction we earn from our work, apart from the monetary remuneration received. This has both personal and corporate implications. Personally, the challenge is to regularly test my level of engagement. Am I giving my best? If not, why not? In his book, Working with Emotional Intelligence, Daniel Goleman suggests that we are at our best when we are working in a state of “flow.” “Flow blossoms when our skills are fully engaged—say, by a work project that stretches us in new and challenging ways. The challenge absorbs us so much we lose ourselves in our work, becoming 22 January 2016 Salvationist
so totally concentrated we may feel ‘out of time,’ ” he writes. “In this state, we seem to handle everything effortlessly, nimbly adapting to shifting demands. Flow itself is a pleasure. Of course, what gives people such pleasure varies: a machinist may love the challenge of a difficult weld; a surgeon gets contentedly absorbed in a complex operation; an interior designer finds delight in the creative play of pattern and colour. When we work in flow, the motivation is built in—work is a delight in itself.” From a spiritual perspective, we are at our best when we are working from our giftedness. In a fun way, this is what Osmond’s video has captured. Whether we are officers, employees, volunteers, Salvationists or friends of the Army, we experience deep satisfaction and joy as we offer our gifts to each other. Corporately, the challenge is to regularly gauge the health of the organization to ensure an environment where people are able to work in “flow.” In his book, The Advantage, Patrick Lencioni writes, “At its core, organizational health is about integrity; but not in the ethical or moral way that integrity is defined so often today. An organization has integrity—is healthy—when it is whole, consistent and complete, that is, when its management, operations, strategy and culture fit together and make sense.” Just as our physical health benefits from regular check-ups, our organizational health benefits from regular
check-ups, too. How often do we intentionally step back to confirm the appropriateness and effectiveness of what we are doing? In the personnel services department, we are in the midst of such a review. We’re asking: •D oes our recruitment process place people in positions that best use their gifts, skills and experience? •A re our development plans intentional and connected to goals that align with organizational needs and strategies? • Are our systems, processes and policies supporting rather than impeding, clarifying rather than confusing? Do they work seamlessly across all levels of the organization? Sometimes the process is painful. We don’t always get it right, but we are committed to seeking the more excellent way. The words of an old hymn by Thomas Kelly remind us of the true source of happiness in The Salvation Army: “Happy we who trust in Jesus, sweet our portion is and sure; When despair or doubt would seize us, by his grace we shall endure. Happy people, happy in his love secure!” You can view There is Happy in The Salvation Army at http://bit. ly/1LZZCes. Lt-Colonel Jamie Braund is the secretary for personnel for the Canada and Bermuda Territory.
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Come Together It’s time to mobilize around our seven strategic priorities BY COMMISSIONER SUSAN McMILLAN
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n Calgary, The Salvation Army Barbara Mitchell Family Resource Centre offers ESL classes to newcomers to Canada. In Woodstock, Ont., an Army program arranges transportation to medical appointments for seniors who can’t afford taxi fare. In Dartmouth, N.S., an Army budgetcounselling program helps families on the verge of bankruptcy learn how to manage their finances. What do the three programs above have in common? They are all examples of well-executed strategies. When I returned to Canada in 2014, I was pleased to find that our territory had established seven strategic priorities (see sidebar). Over the past year and a half, we have developed goals, action steps and measurable outcomes for each of these priorities. You can read more about them at salvationist.ca/strategic-priorities. We have also appointed champions for each priority. These individuals were carefully chosen based on their unique gifts and abilities in relation to the priority they are responsible to implement. The champions are: • Spiritual Health—Lt-Colonel Ann Braund • Leadership Development—Major Brian Armstrong • Social Justice—Jessica McKeachie and Mary Ellen Eberlin • Integrated Mission—Lt-Colonel Deborah Graves
• Children and Youth—Major Keith Pike • Gospel and Transformation— Lt-Colonel Fred Waters • Discipleship—Kevin Slous We do what we do in The Salvation Army because we love God and love people. Following God and expressing our faith in tangible ways through acts of service to others brings us great joy and fulfilment. In comparison, corporate buzzwords such as strategic planning, action steps and measurable outcomes may leave us feeling a little empty. Yet they are important. A recent report in Christianity Today noted that more than half of pastors have no intentional plan for discipling all ages in their church. “This lack of consistent strategy in our churches is killing our disciple-making,” says Ed Stetzer, executive director of LifeWay Research. The stakes are high if we ignore strategic planning. Of course, a great strategic plan that collects dust on a shelf is pointless. We need to put our plans into action. Our strategic priorities must be the focus of every person who serves under our flag. We must mobilize everyone—officers, soldiers, employees, volunteers, adherents and friends—to come together, seek God’s direction and move into the community to achieve great things. That’s why we’ve chosen mobilize as our slogan. Mobilize means to prepare our hearts
(upward), serve others (outward) and move forward together (onward). What are the next steps? The champions are working hard to develop and implement plans for the future. You will hear from them in future issues of Salvationist. But you don’t need to wait to mobilize. You can start today—wherever you are, whatever your role in the Army. Read the goals below and ask yourself, What can I do—on my own or as part of a group—to help achieve them? Don’t be discouraged by lack of funds, lack of personnel or lack of interest. Like the three examples at the beginning of this article, your program does not have to be big or cost a lot of money to be powerful and transformative. I pray that God will bless all of us as we consider our territorial strategic priorities, work hard to make a difference in people’s lives and grow his kingdom. Commissioner Susan McMillan is the territorial commander of the Canada and Bermuda Territory.
Strategic Priority Goals 1. Spiritual Health: to cultivate the spiritual well-being of Salvationists, employees, volunteers and the people we serve. 2. L eadership Development: to give Salvationists and employees opportunities to grow their leadership potential to advance the mission. 3. S ocial Justice: to promote the dignity of all people, with a focus on the marginalized and vulnerable. 4. Integrated Mission: to strengthen communities by responding holistically to the needs of the people we serve. 5. Children and Youth: to lead children and youth to faith in Christ and foster their spiritual development. 6. Gospel and Transformation: to share the gospel, lead people to Christ and nurture them in their faith. 7. D iscipleship: to encourage Salvationists to develop their relationships with God and express their faith through acts of service. Salvationist January 2016 23
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Step Out Finding the courage to be vulnerable BY MAJOR KATHIE CHIU
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ot long ago, I had a big idea to write a memoir. I have enough crazy stories to fill a book! I started jotting down notes and organized the outline. Then it was time to write. That’s when things stalled—right at the beginning. Why? Because of a memory. When I was young, I went across the street to visit my friend, Debbie. I pressed my nose against the screen door and tried to see into the house. Then I heard Debbie’s mom tell me to stop pushing on the screen. I remember jumping back in shame and running away, feeling like I’d done something wrong. I’m from a family affected by alcoholism, and as I thought about my life, I realized I still feel like that little girl—on the outside, looking in, pressing her face against the screen and being told off. I still feel like I don’t belong. Like I’m not worthy. As I write about it now, anxiety rises within me all over again. That’s why I stopped writing the book—it exposed my vulnerability. It’s one thing to talk about being vulnerable; it’s altogether another thing to actually be vulnerable. But it’s too late now—the cat’s out of the bag. I recently listened to two TED Talks by Brené Brown, a research professor at the University of Houston and author of several books on vulnerability, courage, authenticity and shame. In her first talk, about vulnerability, she shares how her research led to a journey of self-discovery, and how she experienced a breakdown. In her second talk, about shame, she related how she felt when the first talk—given to about 500 people—went viral and was viewed more than 20 million times. Brown describes people who believe they are worthy of love and belonging as “wholehearted,” from the Latin for courage, couer, which means “to tell the story of who you are with your whole heart.” They have the courage to be imperfect. They show compassion to themselves and others, and embrace vulnerability. As I listened, I thought, There are
How do we break the cycle of shame and unworthiness? actually people like that? I wanted to be one. I’m usually outspoken about my ideas and opinions, but if I’m truly honest, I’m not usually open about my feelings. Too much vulnerability is not a good thing. People can twist your words and make assumptions about you. People won’t like you. But vulnerability is the key to being “wholehearted,” Brown says. For a lot of people, that’s overwhelming. We numb ourselves with things—shopping, eating, addiction—but end up miserable. We try to control everything—our lives, our families, even religion, turning the mystery of faith into certainty. Controlling leads to perfectionism, and perfectionism affects our work, and even our parenting.
We work hard to show we are worthy of love and belonging. What makes this difficult to address is that we pretend it isn’t happening. We then pass this struggle on to our kids, and another generation continues the pattern. How do we break the cycle of shame and unworthiness? Brown argues we need to find the courage to tell our story and let ourselves be seen. We need to love with our whole hearts, even when there’s no guarantee we’ll be loved in return. We need to practise gratitude and joy, and believe we’re worthy to be loved, because of Christ’s love for us. For Christians, God sending his one and only Son for us is a sign of our worthiness. When we lean into that truth, we find the courage to be authentic in a way that honours all of our relationships— with our spouses, children, parents— and especially with God, because that is where it really matters. Major Kathie Chiu is the corps officer at Richmond Community Church, B.C.
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Owlegories The latest in Christian “edu-tainment,” Owlegories is an animated series that teaches children about God through nature and Scripture. The show features five young owls—Joey, Nora, Violet, Gus and Twitch—and their Professor, as well as Devlin, a grumpy owl who sometimes creates challenges for the others. Each episode is about 15 minutes long, and the first DVD includes three episodes: The Sun, The Seed and The Water. As the name suggests, the show teaches through allegory. For example, in The Sun, the owls are sent on an adventure in the desert to find an ancient artifact and learn how God is like the sun. Owlegories also has a companion app, available for iPhone and iPad.
He Named Me Malala DIRECTED BY DAVIS GUGGENHEIM Pakistani teenager Malala Yousafzai made headlines around the world in 2012 when she was targeted by the Taliban and severely wounded by a gunshot when returning home on her school bus. Then 15 years old, she and her father were singled out because of their advocacy for girls’ education. Malala miraculously survived, and has since won the Nobel Peace Prize and co-founded the Malala Fund, which campaigns for girls’ education globally. He Named Me Malala (now on DVD) is an intimate portrait of this activist by acclaimed documentary filmmaker Davis Guggenheim (An Inconvenient Truth). The film gives us a glimpse into this extraordinary young woman’s life—from her close relationship with her father who inspired her love for education, to her impassioned speeches at the UN, to her everyday life with her family.
Great Commission, Great Compassion Following Jesus and loving the world BY PAUL BORTHWICK In Matthew 28, God gives us the Great Commission—the call to go wherever Jesus sends us, making disciples and proclaiming good news to all nations. This is our ultimate task, yet how do we go about accomplishing it? I n Gre at C ommi s sion , Gre at Compassion, Paul Borthwick encourages readers to go and do, showing how proclamation and demonstration of the gospel go hand in hand. As people living out the Great Commission, Borthwick writes, we must become people of God’s great compassion, following Matthew 25’s vision for treating others as we would treat Jesus himself, caring for the needy and living justly. Borthwick’s book offers practical ways for us to live out this call in every sphere of our lives.
ON THE WEB Jim Gaffigan Opens for the Pope Jim Gaffigan is a comedian on the rise. Last summer, h is sitcom, T he Jim Gaffigan Show, aired its first season to positive reviews. The TV Land show is loosely based on his life as a stand-up comic, Catholic and father of five. The second season will air later this year. At the end of September, Gaffigan had the opportunity to perform his stand-up act in Philadelphia at a once-in-alifetime gig: warming up the audience for Pope Francis. The Pope was in town for the World Meeting of Families, and tens of thousands had gathered to hear him speak. While the audience waited for Pope Francis to arrive, Gaffigan performed for about 16 minutes, mostly riffing on his life as a busy husband and father. Watch his performance at http://bit.ly/1RRGBL0.
IN THE NEWS Study Suggests Religious Children More Selfish Than Non-Religious Kids Religious faith is often associated with moral behaviour, but a new study has found that religious children are less altruistic than non-religious children. Researchers studied 1,170 children aged five to 12 in six countries (Canada, China, Jordan, Turkey, the United States and South Africa). In this sample, 23.9 percent of households identified as Christian, 43 percent as Muslim and 27.6 percent as non-religious. In one test, involving stickers, non-religious children were more sharing than Christian and Muslim children. In another test, the children were shown a short, visual depiction of interpersonal harm (i.e. a person pushing and/or bumping into others). The religious children tended to be less forgiving of such offenses, and to support harsher penalties for such actions than non-religious children. Within Christianity, the study reports, children from strongly religious or “fundamentalist” families showed more of a preference for more severe punishment than non-fundamentalist children. Commenting on these results, the researchers suggested that strong religious belief in “right” and “wrong” often does not allow for a “grey zone,” prompting children from religious backgrounds to be more judgmental of others and less empathetic. Salvationist January 2016 25
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PETERBOROUGH, ONT.—Five people have stepped forward at Peterborough Temple to be commissioned as local officers. From left, Mjrs Herbert and Kathie Sharp, COs; newly commissioned YPSM Leslie Lee; Lisa Quackenbush, commissioned as young people’s band leader; Bob Quackenbush, holding the flag; newly commissioned ACSM Kelly Elkiw; newly commissioned CSM Claudia Davison; and newly commissioned SL Heather Robertson.
SUSSEX, N.B.—New mission board members are installed at Sussex CC. Front, from left, Mjrs Everett and Violet Barrow, ACs, Maritime Div; Melissa Mowbray, Peter Goddard and Amy Parlee, new mission board members; Mjrs Judy and Stan Folkins, COs. Back, from left, Wendy Virtue, Walter Folkins, Wayne Murphy, Doris Fraser, Donna Virtue and Darleen McGray.
PETERBOROUGH, ONT.—Murray Shadgett, corps secretary at Peterborough Temple, receives a certificate of appreciation from Mjrs Kathie and Herbert Sharp, COs, as he retires following 20 years of faithful service.
PETERBOROUGH, ONT.—Bandsman David Weddell receives a certificate of appreciation from Ron Reid, bandmaster, Peterborough Temple, marking his retirement following 50 years of service to Salvation Army banding.
ACRONYMS AND ABBREVIATIONS Do you know the difference between the CCM and the CSM? Who’s your CO? And what exactly is a DDWM? See below for a list of some common acronyms and abbreviations that appear in the pages of Salvationist.
WINNIPEG—Four senior soldiers are enrolled at Weston CC. From left, Lt Keesom Phanthaamath, CO; Mjr Margaret McLeod, AC, Prairie Div; Lt Tina Phanthaamath, CO; Jayson Kones, Derrick Lusanji and Magese Lusanji, senior soldiers; Donald de Vlaming, holding the flag; Kabeyi Lusanji, senior soldier; and Mjrs Shawn and Brenda Critch, DC and DDWM, Prairie Div.
SYDNEY, N.S.—There is much to celebrate at Sydney CC as four new adherents and their children, Sarah and Colin Adams, with baby daughter, Ahnika, and Jacqueline and Ray Adams, with their children Jadzia, Jorja, Tėa and Rayce, are welcomed to the corps family. In further acts of commitment, Ray and Jacqueline dedicated their children back to the Lord, and then the four young people were enrolled as junior soldiers. 26 January 2016 Salvationist
BM/SL—bandmaster/songster leader CC—community church CCM/CCMS—community care ministries/ community care ministries secretary CO—corps officer CS—chief secretary CSM/YPSM—corps sergeant-major/young people’s sergeant-major IHQ/THQ/DHQ—International Headquarters/ territorial headquarters/divisional headquarters JSS—junior soldier sergeant RS—recruiting sergeant TC/DC/AC—territorial commander/divisional commander/area commander TPWM/TSWM/DDWM/DSWM—territorial president of women’s ministries/territorial secretary for women’s ministries/divisional director of women’s ministries/divisional secretary for women’s ministries Tty/Cmd/Rgn/Div—Territory/Command/ Region/Division TYS/DYS—territorial youth secretary/divisional youth secretary
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CORNWALL, ONT.—Andre Lavallee and Joan Merpaw are commissioned as corps treasurer and corps secretary, respectively, at Cornwall CC. Supporting them are Oren and Glenda Cole, corps leaders.
TORONTO—Scarborough Citadel’s newly formed ministry and administrative council is dedicated by Mjr Christopher Rideout, AC, Ont. CE Div, as the formal board of governance for the corps. Front, from left, Mjrs Ron and Donna Millar, COs; Mjr Tina Rideout, DSWM, Ont. CE Div; and Mjr Christopher Rideout. Middle, from left, CSM Lisa Baker; Alison Moore, integrated ministries co-ordinator; Nancy Lunt; and Charlotte Garcia, youth ministries co-ordinator. Back, from left, Keely Harris, CT Paul Thornhill, Don Halsey and Kevin Baker.
SUSSEX, N.B.—A new Salvation Army flag is dedicated at Sussex CC to be flown outside the building to herald the Army’s presence in the community. Salvationist Stephen Parlee raises the new flag, assisted by, from left, Mjrs Stan and Judy Folkins, COs; and Mjrs Violet and Everett Barrow, ACs, Maritime Div.
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HAMILTON, ONT.—Following 30 years of faithful service, Dan Wallace retires from the position of corps sergeant-major at Mountain Citadel. Taking up the mantle of leadership is newly commissioned CSM Nathan Downer. From left, Mjr Cathy Simms, CO; Nathan Downer; Col Bob Ward, holding the flag; Dan Wallace; and Mjr Darryl Simms, CO.
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Memorial Garden Dedicated at Meighen Retirement Residence TORONTO—In the midst of a cold Canadian winter, residents of Meighen Retirement Residence can look forward to the warm days of summer when they will spend time in a new garden located just outside their Toronto facility. Thanks to a generous donor, the garden was dedicated to the memory of Lt-Col Gladys McGregor and all women of The Salvation Army during a special ceremony held in July. Commissioned in 1943, Lt-Col McGregor’s 42-year career with the Army was spent primarily as a nurse and later a hospital administrator at Grace Hospitals in Winnipeg, Vancouver, Windsor, Ont., and Ottawa. She remained active in the Army well into her retirement and moved to the residence in her later years. A commemorative plaque includes The Nurse’s Prayer by Allison Chambers Coxsey and these words: “This garden is dedicated to the memory of Lt-Colonel Gladys McGregor (1920-2013) and all the other wonderful women of The Salvation Army who live lives of faith and service.”
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SASKATOON—The Prairie Div’s Beaver Creek Camp has a new sign thanks to a generous donation from Winnie Howard (front, centre) in memory of her husband, James Howard. The camp holds a special place in the heart of 93-yearold Winnie because her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren have been campers there throughout the years. Joining in the festivities as the new sign was unveiled were Winnie’s family and friends from Saskatoon Temple; Mjr Mike Hoeft, AC, Prairie Div, who thanked Winnie for her generosity; and representatives from the Kiwanis Club of Saskatoon, whose logo was included on the sign in recognition of their past and present commitment to the camp.
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TRIBUTES GUELPH, ONT.—Major Rolf Paul was born in Germany in 1939, and came to Canada in 1953. While earning a master of science at the University of Toronto, he was invited to the Toronto Temple Corps where he made a commitment to Christ. He taught secondary school science in Sudbury, Ont., but believed God had a greater plan for his life. Rolf accepted a teaching position at The Salvation Army’s Chikankata Secondary School in Zambia, where he met Captain Joyce Hetherington, a nurse at the mission hospital. Rolf returned to Canada and entered the Followers of Christ Session. Following commissioning, Rolf and Joyce were married and served together from Vancouver to Labrador City, N.L. In retirement, they moved to Guelph where he was involved in ministry within the corps and community, particularly through the Alpha program and by conducting worship services at seniors’ homes and a Bible study at his home. Promoted to glory suddenly in a car accident, Rolf loved the Lord with all his heart and is now in the New Jerusalem in the presence of God. He will be greatly missed by his wife, Joyce; son, James (My Pham); and daughter, Miriam (Dan Dupuis). SURREY, B.C.—Dr. Jakob (Jake) Meyerhoff was born in Vancouver in 1935, and grew up in the South Vancouver area. Jake entered the training college in Toronto and was commissioned in the Courageous Session in 1958. He married Elsie in 1960, and together they ministered as officers until he pursued a career in the medical field. Jake graduated from Dalhousie University in 1972 and was the gold medal winner for his class. He practised for two years in Hazelton, B.C., for more than 40 years in Surrey, and in the early 1980s, was the chief of medical staff at Surrey Memorial Hospital. Upon retiring from his practice in Surrey, Jake continued to serve patients part time in local clinics. He loved his work, his patients and the people he served, and reluctantly gave this up when illness made it impossible to continue. A faithful member of Cariboo Hill Temple, Jake played in the band and led Bible study groups. Promoted to glory from Surrey Memorial Hospital following several month of illness, Jake leaves his wife of 55 years, Elsie; sons Douglas (Glenys) and Gregory; daughter-in-law, Heather; and seven grandchildren. Predeceased by his brother, Walter, he is remembered by brothers John, William (Bill) and Ralph; sister, Martha; and their families. WINNIPEG—Rachel Bond (Dejeet) was born in Reserve Mines, Cape Breton, N.S., in 1919. She was actively engaged in ministry at the corps in Sydney, N.S., as well as in New Aberdeen, N.S., as the home league secretary. After moving to Winnipeg in 1961, Rachel was assistant home league secretary and a member of the songsters at St. James Citadel and later Heritage Park Temple. Her ministry stretched beyond the church walls to the corridors and rooms of The Salvation Army Grace Hospital in Winnipeg, where she found fulfilment in her calling as a registered nurse. Rachel was predeceased by her beloved husband, Carman, in 1989, and her dear daughter, Doreen, in 2012. Missing her, but rejoicing in the celebration of her full life, are her sons Wayne (Rose), Keith (Ceny) and Major Eric (Major Donna); 10 grandchildren; 19 great-grandchildren; many relatives and friends. KINGSTON, ONT.—Ronald William George Abrahams was born in Southend-on-Sea, England, in 1935. Ron was an active member of The Salvation Army throughout the majority of his life, both in Canada and England. He was a faithful servant to the Lord through various ministries, including summer camps, War Cry delivery, thrift store volunteer work and outreach programs. In more recent years, Ron was active with The Salvation Army in Gananoque, Ont., and at Rideau Heights Corps in Kingston. He was a much-loved uncle, great-uncle, dear friend to many and a devoted member of the church. Ron was peacefully promoted to glory at Kingston General Hospital at the age of 80.
LITTLE BRITAIN, ONT.—Martin Azariah Burt was born in 1934 in Peter’s Arm (now Peterview), N.L. He worked with the AbitibiPrice Company for 15 years. He married Bessie Hibbs in 1955, and together they had two daughters. In 1968, they moved to Toronto and began to worship at Greenwood Corps (now West Hill Community Church). Martin was enrolled there as a soldier in 1985, and served faithfully as the band’s colour sergeant and as a member of the men’s fellowship and 55-plus groups. His favourite chorus, With His Loving Hand to Guide, sums up his testimony. Martin will be sadly missed as a devoted and loving husband, father, grandfather and great-grandfather. Predeceased by his daughter, Leona, in 2003, Martin is remembered by his wife, Bessie; daughter, Maisie Waller (Ken); grandson, Jeff; granddaughter, Jennifer Wilson (Jeff); great-grandchildren Cameron, Brooke, Dylan, Kyle, Katie and Ashley; and sister, Lillian. VICTORIA—Myrtle Winnifred Martin was born in 1923 in Victoria to Ernie and Ruth Bent. Her great-grandmother, Mary Porter, and great-grandfather, John Porter, met the first Salvationists to land in Victoria to open fire in 1887, and they attended the first Salvation Army meeting. Myrtle was a lifetime member of The Salvation Army and spent her years helping others. She sang in a trio at the Esquimalt Corps and played the piano at the Esquimalt Corps and Victoria Citadel. Hospitality was her passion. She made everyone feel welcome. She loved the Lord and knew one day she would see him face to face. She is survived by her husband of 70 years, Nelson; daughter, June (Dave); granddaughter, Tracey (Dan); great-grandchildren Abbey and Nate; brother, Ernie Bent, and his family; and numerous extended family members.
GAZETTE INTERNATIONAL Appointments: Lt-Col David Burrows, GS, Bangladesh Cmd (pro-tem); Feb 1—Mjrs Samuel/Hagar Amponsah, OC/CPWM, Liberia Cmd, with rank of lt-col; Lt-Cols Jubilani/Fikile Khoza, GS/CSWM, Liberia Cmd; Mar 1—Lt-Cols Leopoldo/Evelyn Posadas, CS/TSWM, The Philippines Tty; Lt-Cols Kong Chew (Bob)/Teoh Gim Leng (Wendy) Lee, RC/RPWM, Taiwan Rgn; Jul 1—Lt-Cols Edward/Shelley Hill, CS/TSWM, Singapore, Malaysia and Myanmar Tty TERRITORIAL Appointment: Mjr Corinne Cameron, executive director, Kitchener Parent and Child Resource Centre, Ont. GL Div (additional responsibility) Promoted to major: Cpt Betty Lessard (Volkart), Cpt Glenda McKenzie Reaccepted as major: Frederick Pond Long service: 30 years—Mjrs Kenneth/Colleen Kimberley, Mjr Dale Pilgrim Promoted to glory: Mjr Dirk Krommenhoek, from Toronto, Nov 2; Mjr Harry Hickson, from Victoria, Nov 18; Mjr Fred Goobie, from Keswick, Ont., Nov 20; Mjr Guy Roberts, from Montreal, Nov 20; Mrs Mjr Eva Jennings, from Corner Brook, N.L., Nov 21; Mjr Roger Beaulac, from Beloeil, Que., Nov 22
CALENDAR Commissioner Susan McMillan: Jan 2-3 St. Thomas, Ont.; Jan 14-15 National Advisory Board, Toronto; Jan 24-29 divisional retreat, Prairie Div; Jan 29 Booth University College, Winnipeg Colonels Mark and Sharon Tillsley: Jan 10-11 CFOT, Winnipeg; Jan 15-18 officer family retreat, CFOT, U.S.A. Eastern Tty; Jan 25-28 divisional retreat, Ont. GL Div
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Fanning the Flame Bringing the spirit of the Boundless congress home BY BRANDALYN MUSIAL
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n 2008, my husband and I moved to Vancouver Island. We began attending a church, but something didn’t feel right. We used to drive past a Salvation Army corps in Nanaimo, B.C., and I felt myself drawn there. One Sunday, we decided to give it a try. We met some great people and the opportunities to serve made us feel at home, so we kept coming back. We had found our new church family, and were soon enrolled as soldiers. About two years ago, Lt-Colonel Larry Martin, the divisional commander for the British Columbia Division, visited our corps. He asked if we had applied to go to Boundless, the international congress in London, England. I replied that I didn’t even know what a congress was! The next thing I knew, we were handing in our applications. When we arrived in London, I wondered if sending us had been a mistake— if the money would have been better spent on someone “poor” who couldn’t afford to come. I pictured the spiritual benefit it would have been for someone to experience congress and return to their community refreshed. The believers we met from “poor” countries, such as Malawi, Nigeria and Sri Lanka, were on fire for Christ and full of the Holy Spirit. Their stories of churches bursting with enthusiastic young people and outgrowing their resources made our hearts sing. Their testimonies that God is alive and at work around the world, in and through The Salvation Army, motivated us to keep going. Their joy reignited our spark for mission. By the end of the congress, I realized that I was the poor one. I was the one who came to the congress feeling flat and discouraged about what I saw as the complacent, apathetic nature of churches in the West. I was the one who needed to be refreshed—to see the O2 arena 30 January 2016 Salvationist
Brandalyn Musial (right), her husband, Jesse Musial (centre), and Godspower Anozie (left), a new friend from Nigeria, at Boundless
The believers we met from “poor” countries were on fire for Christ … Their joy reignited our spark for mission filled with 15,000 joyful believers; to hear about the thousands of Salvationists in the Kenya East Territory excited about knowing the Lord; to talk with people who have a passion to reach out with the love and hope of the gospel. And hearing General André Cox’s vision for the future of the Army—to
remain a biblically centred, gospelfocused movement responding to God’s call—gave me the assurance that this is something I can throw my life into. We left the congress uplifted, invigorated and determined to bring home the burning embers we received and fan them into flames with our corps family—to encourage them, as we were encouraged, to keep trusting with reckless abandon, keep loving without limits and keep hoping with unwavering confidence. Since coming home, we have been looking for opportunities to be involved in community outreach, both personally and through our corps’ local initiatives. I have lots of ideas: visiting seniors’ homes, wearing my uniform more, visiting our soup kitchen to have a meal and interact with patrons, engaging in conversations with people. I have put my name on the “whatever you need me for” list at our corps. God is faithful and on the move!
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