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December 2021

10 STEPS

TO A MORE JOYFUL SEASON

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Merry &Bright

NEW YEAR’S TRADITIONS AROUND THE WORLD

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14 10 Steps to a More Joyful Season Practical tips to manage your to-do list

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20 San Diego’s Map of Christmas Lights Use our famous map to plan an adventure

12 Short & Sweet News | Notes | Tips

23 Christmas Lights Scavenger Hunt Be sure to take it along in the car 24 Holiday Toy Guide Part two of our kid-tested toy round-up

Sophia Adajar as Cindy-Lou Who and Andrew Polec as The Grinch. Photo by Rich Soublet II.

30 December Calendar

Holiday happenings and family fun abound!

28 New Year’s Customs Around the World

Inspiration to create traditions of your own

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38 No-Bake Holiday Treats Kitchen fun with kids

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Things to Do: Seasonal Happenings • Holiday Hacks from San Diego Moms

For the Kids: Crafts for Kids • Hanukkah Countdown Calendar

San Diego Botanic Garden magically transforms its grounds and glass conservatory into a wonderland of holiday happiness. Along with festive lights, the family can enjoy live music, kids’ activities, holiday crafts, Santa and more from 5–9 pm on Dec. 4, 5, 10–23, and 26–30. Contest ends Dec. 8.

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HOLIDAY MAGIC IS HERE! The San Diego Model Railroad Museum in Balboa Park invites you to enjoy six enchanting model railroads, including a Toy Train Gallery decorated for the season! Peek into our past through historical railroads and exhibits, and find the perfect gift for a train lover in our gift shop. Closed Christmas Day. 1649 El Prado, Balboa Park | 619-696-0199 | sdmrm.org December 2021 • SanDiegofamily.com •

From our family to yours:

May your home be filled with love, light and laughter this season. Where (or how) does your family give back or support others during the holiday season?

Sharon & Larry Bay, publishers This year we are giving money to Grace Children’s Home/Catherine’s Kids in Tijuana. The kids will receive new shoes (often their very first pair). We are also helping Refuge for Women SoCal, which helps women overcome human trafficking and sexual exploitation.

Lisa Gipson, managing editor This year we are supporting women in crises through the Alabaster Jar Project here in San Diego. We also like filling shoeboxes with gifts for children around the world through Operation Christmas Child (Samaritan’s Purse).

Rik Thiesfeld, art director It’s not a planned thing—it usually happens spontaneously, but I think the U.S. Postal Service Christmas letter program sounds like a terrific way to give back. See page 12 for details on how to participate.

Emily Dolton, resource specialist Our family supports the Special Needs Resource Foundation of San Diego’s movie night fundraiser each holiday season (this year it’s “Spider-Man: No Way Home” on 12/18). We also help decorate a tree for Enchanted Village at Noah Homes in Spring Valley.

Finish this sentence: It’s not the holiday season without … Adrienne Sigeti, editorial assistant Holiday lights! One of my favorite traditions is driving around town to see the creative and over-the-top light displays. I take San Diego Family’s Map of Lights (p. 20) and try to find the biggest and brightest decorations.

Giovanni Baldan, marketing representative Panettone and pandoro, traditional Italian sweet breads eaten during Christmas celebrations. Many cultures have their own traditional holiday bread — what’s yours?

Tony Andrews, marketing representative A trip to Family Christmas Tree Farm (El Cajon) to pick out our Christmas tree. It’s a fun tradition that gets the whole family into the Christmas spirit.

Linda Bay, calendar editor Lefse — we make this Norwegian bread every year. And college football bowl games. We’re excited to have the Holiday Bowl back in San Diego this year and look forward to watching it at Petco Park.

Michele Hancock, marketing director A trip to Hotel del Coronado to see the themed tree. We also stop by Starbucks for hot chocolate and head to Belmont Park for their Winter Wonder festival, which has holiday music, lights and shopping.

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With so many families struggling due to financial hardship or health issues, some parents may not be able to fulfill their children’s holiday wishes. That’s where USPS Operation Santa comes in. Since 1912, the program has helped connect millions of children with generous, anonymous gift givers. Last year more than 23,000 Santa letters were adopted nationwide. To be a potential gift recipient, children need to write and send a letter to Santa by Dec. 10, which will be opened by one of Santa’s postal elves. For important tips on how to write the letter, to obtain Santa’s address, or to register to be an anonymous gift giver, visit www.USPSOperationSanta.com. Find a free, printable Santa letter at www.sandiegofamily.com/things-to-do/seasonalhappenings/free-printable-santa-letter.

Whether you attend in person or watch on TV, be sure to keep an eye out for Mira Mesa High School’s Sapphire Sound Band & Color Guard in the Tournament of Roses Parade in Pasadena on January 1, 2022. To learn more about the Rose Parade, visit www.TournamentofRoses.com or to purchase grandstand tickets, visit www.SharpSeating.com.

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There’s a New Chocolate Shop in Town Chocolate lovers, rejoice! Just in time for the holidays (or any day, who am I kidding?), we have easy access to premium Swiss chocolate locally. Läderach Chocolatier recently opened its first California store right here in San Diego. Choose from dozens of individual truffles and pralines, specialty gifts, their famous FrischSchoggi (chocolate bark in a variety of flavors) and more. Located right next to Better Buzz Coffee in Fashion Valley Mall.

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It’s a common question: How does my family have a joyful holiday season that doesn’t leave us exhausted, miserable and broke? We have the answers! Here are 10 ways to shift your perspective and take command of this special time of the year.

“Be firm, decisive and assertive, always coming from a place of love and keeping the focus on the origin of the holidays,” says Flynn, who specializes in helping women manage anxiety, depression and holiday overwhelm. “Graciously decline and send a nice note.”

Let go of perfection. Nothing burns holes into the fantasy holiday season like real life. Maybe the tree is lopsided, the dog ate your son’s gingerbread house, or you were so focused on creating the best event ever that you became too sick to enjoy it when the big day arrived. “Decide to do things differently this year,” says therapist Julia Flynn, LCPC. “Strive for good and be satisfied with good. Too often the focus is on the result, and we tend to lose focus on the beautiful process of getting to the result.”

Rediscover the “why.” Take time to reevaluate priorities. How do you want the season to feel? What do you want the kids to remember? “Sometimes we need to take a step back and ask ourselves why this time of year is important to us,” says Maki Moussavi, a life coach and book author. “It becomes an expectation of self and family to have it look a certain way. Take a step back to assess, from an intangible, emotional perspective, why the holidays are important.”

Don’t overcommit. Decide ahead of time which activities won’t work this year. Instead of committing to five parties and multiple gift exchanges, choose a couple that you’re enthusiastic about.

Rest. Self-care is essential all year, but especially during busy holidays when your stress level may skyrocket. Do what reasonably makes sense for your health, time and emotional wellbeing. Continued on p. 16

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Prioritize family. Attempts to please others without taking your family’s wishes into account causes undue anxiety, frustration and resentment. “The holidays are about family time—appreciating one another and caring for each other,” says Flynn. “If the focus is on less important gatherings, you can’t enjoy the experience and the original meaning is lost.” For events you’d like to attend but can’t, firmly communicate to those people that you would like to discuss alternative ideas or dates to get together. Don’t feel guilty about standing by your decisions. “You have every right to establish your holiday traditions,” Moussavi says. “You are not obligated to participate in somebody else’s version of the season.” Invite your partner’s participation. If you feel overwhelmed because you’re trying to manage holiday prep on top of working and taking care of kids, ask your spouse for help. Discuss what you’d both like the season to look and feel like. “Sometimes it’s not that men don’t want to be involved,” says Moussavi. “It’s that they are never invited to be—and they don’t ask.” Maybe your partner can mail packages, purchase event tickets or take charge of a few gifts. Don’t allow anyone to steal your joy. Plan ahead for individuals who love to bait you into an upsetting conversation at annual gatherings. Since you know what to expect, rehearse your response for when they pounce. “Get better at making it clear what you will and won’t tolerate,” Moussavi says. “Standing up for yourself is normal, empowered, adult behavior.” Arm yourself with responses like: “I’m here to enjoy myself. I don’t want to talk about that right now.” Or, “Let’s agree to disagree.”

Simplify. “The holidays are manageable if we allow them to be,” Flynn says. “What makes holidays so difficult is our own thinking.” Experiment with small changes to relieve stress. Hire a caterer for a party. Forgo Christmas cards this year. For relatives who have everything, send flowers or make a donation in their name to an organization they love. Don’t compare yourself with others. As Theodore Roosevelt once quipped: “Comparison is the thief of joy.” Some people enjoy casting their home in a professionally-created holiday glow while others prefer to hang a festive wreath on the door and call it good. Do what brings you pleasure and makes sense for your budget. Give from your heart. Rather than twisting yourself in knots seeking the perfect present for everyone on your list, take a more light-hearted approach to gift-giving. For example, give a digital photo album commemorating a fun getaway, or an experience like tickets to the zoo or a concert. Volunteering your time is also a fulfilling way to give. “If you are intentional, you can make the holidays about love, caring, understanding, enjoying quality time together and treating each other as the precious beings we are,” Flynn says. v Freelance writer Christa Melnyk Hines plans to slow down this holiday season to focus more on the magic of the season and less on lopsided Christmas trees.

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FAMILIES Unwrap the magic of the season with a bounty of merry-making experiences for families. Your days are sure to be merry and bright as you create joyful memories and get into the holiday spirit with these glittering festivities!

Who doesn’t love the sights of a winter snowfall? Experience enchanted flurries, choreographed lights, and seasonal music Thursdays through Sundays at 6 and 7 pm beginning Dec. 2 at Village Walk at Eastlake. Kids receive free holiday headbands and “magic” glasses to view the falling snow in rainbow colors. They can even meet a charming “snowman” and capture unique family photos in a life-size photo frame on select dates. Visit www.shopvillagewalk.com for details on the snowfall and other holiday events.

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Can you imagine a room filled with wooden toys that come to life at the push of a button? Explore the magical world of automata in Mechanics Alive at the Fleet Science Center! The entire family will marvel at whimsical and thought-provoking mechanical sculptures with exposed inner workings that reveal how each piece animates. Get inspired and create your own automata with family and friends at the Fleet’s Studio X. You don’t want to miss this magical and festive experience! Get details on our website at www.fleetscience.org/exhibitions/mechanics-alive.

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Experience a festival of trees and lights at Noah Homes’ Enchanted Village in Spring Valley, Dec. 17-22, 5-8 p.m. Enjoy a winter wonderland filled with over 200,000 dazzling lights, the tallest musical Christmas tree in San Diego, and interactive holiday displays. You can even take a photo with Santa! Proceeds benefit Noah Homes, a nonprofit for people with developmental disabilities such as Down syndrome and autism. Purchase tickets and learn more at www.EnchantedVillage.org.

Revel in holiday magic at the San Diego Zoo and San Diego Zoo Safari Park! Jungle Bells at the Zoo beckons with Aurora, an evening spectacular filled with light, sound and 3D projections: Dec. 10–23 and 25–Jan. 2. Wild Holidays at the Safari Park offers a wild wonderland with twinkling lights, holiday music and seasonal treats; weekends in Dec. and Dec. 26–Jan. 2. Details at www.sdzwa.org.

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Experience holiday fun the oldfashioned way during Julian’s Country Christmas. You’ll feel a nip in the air and might even catch a glimpse of snow-capped mountains! Visit Santa at Town Hall, enjoy a Light Parade on Main St. (Dec. 18), take a winter hayride and shop for unique gifts. Kids can write Santa letters at Town Hall and drop in a mailbox to the North Pole. Visit www.JulianCountryChristmas.com for details.

Make magical memories at Family Christmas Tree Farm, a familyowned Christmas tree farm in El Cajon. Take unique photos, enjoy hayrides, a petting zoo and an old-time Christmas atmosphere. Smell fresh pine trees as you find the perfect one to cut down. Fresh wreaths, many varieties of pre-cut trees (in hard-to-find sizes) and potted trees also available. Opens Nov. 26. Learn more at www.familychristmastreefarm.com.

Celebrate Christmas Eve with candlelight and carols, the Christmas Story, and the Christmas Spirit. First United Methodist Church in Mission Valley offers three candlelight services with a special service for families. At 5 p.m., the annual Christmas Pageant re-enacts the story of Jesus’ birth through scripture readings, carols, and candle lighting. Visit www.fumcsd.org/christmaseve for additional information.

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San Diego Central Jungle Bells at the Zoo beckons with “Aurora,” an evening spectacular filled with light, sound and 3D projections. Dec. 10–23 & Dec. 25–Jan. 2. www.sdzwa.org

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LIGHTS Presenting San Diego County’s most comprehensive (and accurate) list of holiday light shows and glittering festivities. Make your “lights tour” even more exciting by taking along our Christmas Lights Scavenger Hunt (on p. 23). If you have an awesome Christmas light display in San Diego County that isn’t listed, email events@sandiegofamily.com to be considered next year. All listings are checked annually!

Lana Dr. & Jamar off Mt. Abernathy Ave. Circular street. “Clairemont Christmas Park.” 40+ homes decorated. Dec. 2–25. 4005 Mt. Albertine Ave. “Nightmare Before Christmas” theme. This home started for the Halloween holiday and evolves with new characters added weekly. Playable chalk game weather permitting. Nov. 27–Jan. 1. 5404 Mt. Burnham Dr. Features a 96-channel animated light display to 98.5 FM. North Pole village display, train and animated figures display in garage. Dec. 9–27.

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Stonebridge Pkwy. & Merritage Ct. Nicknamed “Merry-tage Court,” entire street lit up with themes including Star Wars, Minions, Disney, Frozen, Cars, The Grinch and more. Dec. 1–31. 10883 Sunset Ridge Dr. Decorated house with lights, inflatables and animated decorations. Nov. 25–Dec. 31.

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Fairway Village, east and west sides of Stoney Gate Pl. 100+ homes decorated in “Holiday Magic.” Dec. 15–Jan. 1.

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340 N. Escondido Blvd. Peace Family Light Show at the California Center for the Arts, as featured on ABC’s “The Great Christmas Light Fight.” Musical lights and new interactive Harry Potter display. Nov. 27–Jan 2. www.peacefamilylights.com Northern Lights. California Center for the Arts, Escondido will be transformed into a fantasy of light. After sunset, enjoy tunnels of twinkling lights, LED Christmas trees, light shows and a Hogwarts Platform 9¾-themed light extravaganza at the historical train depot. Free. Nov. 26–Jan. 3. 340 N. Escondido Blvd. www.artcenter.org Wild Holidays at the Safari Park offers a wild wonderland with twinkling lights, holiday music and seasonal treats. Weekends in Dec. & Dec. 26–Jan. 2. 15500 San Pasqual Valley Rd. www.sdzwa.org

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2002 Ainsley Rd. Features a 20 ft. star made of lights, multiple blow-ups and lights. Dec. 1–31.

POWAY, 92064

12631 Stoutwood St. Off Twin Peaks Rd. & Deerwood St. Nicknamed “The Griswolds.” Dec. 1–Jan. 1. Hickory Ct., Hickory St., Butterwood Ct., Rockrose Ct. All off Twin Peaks Rd. & Silverset St. named “Candy Cane Lane.” Entire cul-de-sacs are lit up. Dec. 1–25.

RAMONA, 92065

23542 Bassett Way. “Happy Lights Ramona” light show with 30,000+ lights animated to music on 106.9 FM. Nov. 27–Jan. 1.

23542 Bassett Way

RANCHO PEÑASQUITOS, 92129

Oviedo St. off Black Mountain Rd. “Christmas Card Lane.” Also enter off Twin Trails Dr. & Carmel Mountain Rd. or park at Sunset Hills Elementary School and walk. Dec. 1–31.

SAN MARCOS, 92078

2516 Rockdale Pl. Known as “The Griswold’s,” over 21,000 lights decorate this home and entire cul-de-sac. Enjoy a candy cane and check out the lights. Nov. 27–Jan. 2.

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TIERRASANTA, 92124

5306 Belardo Dr. Off Via Valarta at Via Playa De Cortes. Over 100,000 lights and decorations all sequenced and animated to music at 106.1 FM. Nov. 27–Dec. 27. www.belardolights.com

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Holidays at LEGOLAND. Live entertainment, twinkling lights and festive cheer await. Nightly tree lightings of the Park’s LEGO Christmas tree decked with spectacular lights and LEGO ornaments. Nov. 20–Jan. 2. Activities included with admission. One LEGOLAND Dr., Carlsbad. www.LEGOLAND.com.

San Diego Bay Parade of Lights. 50th Anniversary. “The Twelve Days of Christmas” theme. Dec. 12 & 19, 5:30 pm. Starts off Shelter Island, goes through the harbor and ends at the Coronado Ferry Landing. www.sdparadeoflights.org

Botanic Wonderland. Festive lights, music, kids’ activities, crafts and more. Dec. 4–5, 10–23, 26–30, 5–9 pm. $10–$18. San Diego Botanic Garden, 230 Quail Gardens Dr., Encinitas. www.sdbgarden.org Snow N Glow Holiday Festival. “Holidays in Your Car” 1.5 mile drivethru light spectacular or stroll through Winter Wonderland with over 1 million glowing lights. Select nights, Dec. 4-Jan. 2. $12.99–$45. Del Mar Fairgrounds, 2260 Jimmy Durante Blvd., Del Mar. www.snownglow.com/ delmar

CARLSBAD, 92009, 92011, 92024

7607 Romeria St. The “Carlsbad Christmas House” where it snows. Home of Canterbury Gardens’ giant Santa. Walk around to see Surfin’ Santa, Snoopy & Friends ice skating, Island of Misfit Toys and animals frolicking in the waterfall. Food drive donations accepted. Dec. 5–26. www.carlsbadchristmashouse.com 6646 Elegant Tern Pl. Free Santa’s mailbox and treats for the kids nightly. Santa writes back a personalized letter to each child. Santa visits on Dec. 18 with crafts, music, hot cocoa and cotton candy. Dec. 3–Jan. 3. 6646 Elegant Tern Pl. 3520 Corte Ramon. Lights and characters coordinated to music, different theme each year. Accepting food donations for local food shelters.

3520 Corte Ramon

SeaWorld’s Christmas Celebration. Over 100 acres of beautifully decorated park, including a towering sea-themed Christmas tree and a holiday music-activated tunnel of lights. Nov. 12–Jan 2. Interstate 5, exit SeaWorld Dr. www.seaworldsandiego.com Sights and Sounds of Christmas. Walk the San Diego Temple grounds and enjoy more than 130,000 lights and nativity scenes. Free. Nov. 27–Jan. 1, 5–11 pm. San Diego Temple, 7474 Charmant Dr., UTC. Winter Wonder at Belmont Park. Holiday sculptures, movie nights, “Illuminated Winter Nights” and more. Weekends in Dec. 3146 Mission Blvd. www.belmontpark.com Old Town Trolley’s Holiday Lights and Sights Tour. Join in sing-along caroling with the elf conductors as they share fun holiday facts and traditions and see the festive lights of Old Town, Embarcadero, Seaport Village, Balboa Park and more. Dec. 6–24 & 26–30. $25–$30; 3 & under free. 4010 Twiggs St. www.trolleytours.com

POINT LOMA, 92106

Garrison St. & Chatsworth. Off Rosecrans. “Garrison Street Lights.” Dec. 1–31.

Downtown San Diego The Forward House in Bankers Hill. 24th annual holiday lighting display at The Forward House, built for San Diego Mayor John Forward, Sr. in 1905. Santa makes a pre-Christmas stop upon the roof in his sleigh on Dec. 18 between 6–8 pm. All visitors receive a wrapped candy cane. 108 Ivy St. (1st & Ivy). Nov. 25–Dec. 31, 5–10 pm. www.AmericanSecurityMortgage.net The Holiday Market at Petco Park. Candyland, Winter Wonderland and Classic Christmas walkthrough light displays. Nov. 29–Dec. 24, 4–9:30 pm. $10–$14. Gallagher Square, 100 Park Blvd. www.padres.com

6774 Vermarine Ct. Light show synchronized to music. Dec. 1–31.

South Bay 3920 Rockfield Ct. Musical light show with 20,000 lights and show selector where visitor can pick from over 20 songs. Nov. 28–Jan. 2.

3920 Rockfield Ct.

Hotel del Coronado. The iconic resort shimmers and shines as its signature red turrets are draped in thousands of sparkling lights with magical Christmas trees, snowy surprises and garlands galore. Nov. 22–Jan. 2. 1500 Orange Ave., Coronado. www.hoteldel.com

CHULA VISTA, 91910, 91911, 91914, 91915

Whitney St./Mankato. Circle between First and Second Ave. off H St. & 1st Ave. “Christmas Circle.” 64th year of decorating 55+ homes. Dec. 11–26. 751 Nolan Ave. A night at Disney theme. Nov. 25–Jan. 1.

OCEANSIDE, 92056, 92057

5279 Willow Walk Rd. Over 35,000 lights create a Christmas light show synchronized to music featuring mega board and arches. Santa visits and food drive for San Diego Food Bank on Dec. 10–11, 5:30–8 pm. Dec. 1–31. 2329 Snead Dr. Lights, nativity scene, animated elves and Santa Village light display. Walk up to see Christmas scene in garage. Dec. 7–31.

PARADISE HILLS, 92139

6134 Chadwick Ave.

2160 Reo Dr. Lights, inflatables and decorations. Nov. 25–Dec. 31. 6134 Chadwick Ave. Lights and inflatables. Nov. 26–Jan. 1.

5279 Willow Walk Rd.

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SANTEE, 92071

EL CAJON, 92019, 92020, 92021

1552 Cajon Greens Pl. Thousands of lights plus yard decorations synchronized to holiday music on 97.7 FM. Nov. 25–Jan. 2. Jingle Bell Hill (also known as Pepper Dr. Lights). Solomon Ave./ Pegeen Pl. and surrounding area. Off 67 & Bradley. Dec. 2–25.

Starlight Circle/Sunburst Santee. Tomel Court, off North Magnolia Ave. 75 homes lit up in an easy-to-drive circle. Dec. 1–31. 8728 Lind Vern Ct. 38,000 lights synchronized to music on 98.5 FM. Nov. 26–Dec. 31. 8728 Lind Vern Ct.

11456 Pegeen Pl. “Nightmare Before Christmas” theme, complete with Jack, Sally, Zero, the Mayor & Oogie Boogie. Santa may make a surprise visit through Christmas Eve. Nov. 26–Jan. 2. 1838 El Pico Dr. Off Hacienda Dr., Fletcher Hills. The 57th year decorating the 18-ft. star sitting on top of an 80-ft. twinkling tree of over 4,000 lights overlooking El Cajon Valley. Also experience over 70,000 programmed lights, a 55-ft. automated train and a view into Santa’s Workshop. Dec. 5–31.

9325 Pebble Beach Dr. Full light display on home and yard set to music. Dec. 1–31. 8575 Shanes Way. The sights and sounds of Christmas with a 25-ft tree of light and more. Thousands of lights dance to over 30 Christmas songs on 91.3 FM. Dec. 1–31. 1838 El Pico Dr.

9435 Saint Andrews Dr. The Santee gingerbread house with over 16,000 LED lights. Nov. 29–Jan. 1.

LAKESIDE, 92040

10248 Paseo Palmas Dr. 20+ houses nicknamed “Tinsel Town.” Dec. 7–25.

SPRING VALLEY, 91977 4037 N. Bonita St. Lots of lights, music, penguins, Snoopy, Mickey, Minnie and Santa in the window. Dec. 10–Jan. 3.

LEMON GROVE, 91945

2034 Ensenada St. A “Winter Wonderland” theme. Nov. 25–Jan. 1. 10248 Paseo Palmas Dr.

SAN CARLOS 92119

6715 Tuxedo Rd. A Winter Wonderland with an RGB musical tree synchronized to holiday music. Nov. 28–Dec. 26. 6715 Tuxedo Rd.

9435 Saint Andrews Dr.

Noah Homes Enchanted Village. 8-acres of brilliantly lit trees, magical cottages, light tunnels, giant candy canes, over 200,000 lights, interactive displays and more. Noah Homes Dec. 17–22, 5–8 Enchanted Village p.m. $9.99–$19.99. 12526 Campo Rd. All proceeds benefit Noah Homes. 12526 Campo Rd. www.enchantedvillage.org

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San Diego Family’s

Christmas Lights Scavenger Hunt

Nativity Scene

The Grinch

Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer

Giant snow globe

Train

Mickey & Minnie Mouse

Giant candy cane

Gingerbread man

Peanuts Gang (Charlie Brown, Snoopy, etc.)

Giant nutcracker

Surfin’ Santa Superhero decorations Palm tree w/ Christmas lights

Star

Angel Inflatable Snowman

Mrs. Claus

House with white lights only

Santa on a rooftop

House with blue lights only

Sleigh

Projector playing a Christmas movie

Icicle lights

Camel

Elf (from the movie)

Blinking lights

3 reindeer at one house

North Pole sign

How many did you find? ____

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Holiday Toy Guide Presenting Part Two of this season’s round-up of kidtested toys. And guess what? We’re giving more away! Turn to page 6 for details on how to enter. Find our complete list of the 100 Hottest Holiday Toys, plus games, books and more at www.sandiegofamily.com/for-the-kids/kid-tested-toy-product-review. Find our round-up of Holiday Toys for Kids of All Abilities at www.SNRFSD.org.

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Flashback BMX Style Kick Scooter $139.99; 8+ Razor.com Razor pays homage to the early days of BMX and the company’s Californian heritage with the retro-inspired Flashback Scooter. Features 12” mag wheels with air-filled tires, dual hand brakes, large deck and a smooth ride. Max weight: 220 lbs.

CastAway Fishing Game $54.99; 3+ CastAwayGame.com Improve casting ability in your favorite outdoor space! Includes an inflatable gameboard, lures, tackle box and carrying case. Need a pump or poles? Check website for options. “One of the most unique and fun toys I’ve seen,” says dad Rick. “The lure connects to the board with Velcro, then reel it in and try again.”

Get Well Doctor Activity Center $173.94; 3+ MelissaAndDoug.com Kids love role-playing visits to the doctor with this multi-sided wooden see p. 6 activity center from wildly popular Melissa & Doug. Whether they pretend to be a patient, doctor, receptionist or nurse, empathetic and imaginative play is encouraged. Includes a seat, clock, reusable patient file, wooden phone, sink, blood pressure monitor, eye chart and more. Lite-Brite Oval HD $19.99; 4+ Target.com Bring designs to life with the modernized, high-definition version of everyone’s favorite Lite-Brite! Includes eight templates, 650 pegs, three color-changing modes and two animation settings. “It’s nostalgic, artistic and fun,” says mom Jacque. “One design kept all my boys (ages 9, 7 and 4) busy and happy for 45 minutes.”

Carrera Racing System MarioKart GO! $69.99; 5+ Target.com MarioKart characters are making a comeback! Build a customizable track, race at high speeds, and watch your favorite characters come to life! Spend screen-free time together with the family while enjoying the nostalgia of Mario and friends. “They go really fast!” says 6-year-old Sam.

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Dr. Seuss Merry Grinchmas! $19.99; 5+ FunkoGames.com Perfect for family game night! Everyone (up to six players) works together to make the Whos’ holiday dreams come true by collecting more points than the Grinch. “The kids like that everyone is a team against the Grinch,” says mom Jacque.

Find more great games at www.sandiegofamily.com/for-thekids/kid-tested-toy-product-review.

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All-Terrain Batmobile RC $54.99, 4+ Target.com Take this high-tech ride from the streets of Gotham City to your neighborhood! The All-Terrain Batmobile features performance tires that conquer mud, grass, snow and water. Compatible with 4-inch figures (sold separately). “The Batmobile drives in the pool!” says Wesley, age 6. “It’s the coolest toy I’ve ever seen.”

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Snap Circuits MyHome $75.65; 8+ Elenco.com Build a house or tower with real, working circuits and learn how electricity works in your own home. This STEM-centric activity is screenfree, educational and fun! Learn about circuitry, security systems, dimmer switches, automatic lights, alarms, motion detectors, fan speed, appliance motors, generators and more.

Arcade1Up Jr. PAC-MAN $299.99; 4–8 Arcade1Up.com Arcade1Up Jr. helps little ones experience retro video gaming with this “mini” version that stands 36 inches tall. Featuring oversized controls, slowed down gameplay options, volume control and a stool. “Not only can you play PAC-MAN, but the unit includes Galaga and Dig Dug, too!” says mom Sarah. “It’s fun, lightweight and easy to move.”

Battery-Operated Steaming Train $39.99; 3+ Brio.us Why is this battery-operated train engine so cool? Because it releases safe-to-touch steam from the chimney as it speeds down the track! Use refill load behind the engine to refill when needed. Activate lights and movement with the touch of a button. Two AAA batteries needed.

Bouncy Pals Reindeer $39.99; 18 mos.+ iPlayiLearnToys.com Kids will be delighted to find this reindeer bouncy under the Christmas tree! They’ll gain strength and balance as they grab the antlers and hop around. Inflates with included hand pump. Covered with soft, washable fabric. “It’s super cute and makes a great decoration when not being used as a toy,” says mom Vicky.

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Large City Zoo $69.99; 4+ Playmobil.us Take the kids on an imaginary zoo adventure with this awesome playset! Set includes six people (including a zookeeper), zoo entrance “gate,” six penguins and a penguin slide, observation deck, two giraffes, giraffe feeding basket, souvenir stand, a pelican, bicycle, cash register, balloon stand and tons of other accessories.

QBRIX Poster $59.99; 10+ Amazon.com Turn any photo into a pixel art masterpiece! Disassemble and reassemble with new photos as many times as you want. For best results, use high resolution photos with minimal details. “This is our favorite toy in a long time!” says mom Emily. “It took two kids two nights to complete the photo shown. We will definitely purchase these for friends!”

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New Year’s Customs Many of us in the U.S. ring in the new year by watching the ball drop in Times Square, kissing loved ones at midnight, and making resolutions (or setting intentions) to improve health and productivity. We also often gather with friends and family for shared food, drink and merriment. If you grew up in the south, a meal including Hoppin’ John (black-eyed peas), collard greens and cornbread is likely on the menu. Some people celebrate New Year’s with traditions from other cultures. My family, for example, eats 12 seeded grapes at midnight. This is supposedly for luck, but mostly we do it to honor my husband’s Panamanian heritage. In Panama, and throughout many Latin American countries, it is also common to burn muñecos (life-size effigies made of straw) to destroy evil spirits and make way for good fortune in the new year. No matter your background, establishing New Year’s traditions within your family is important. Just 28 • SanDiegofamily.com • December 2021

like adults, kids benefit from signaling closure to the previous year and starting out fresh. To help discover new ideas, here are some of the many ways that people celebrate around the globe.

Eat Special Foods

Many choose to welcome in the new year by eating special foods. Along with eating grapes at my house, my family enjoys cheese fondue, something that I grew up with after living in Switzerland as a young child. Another Swiss tradition is to drop a dollop of ice cream on the floor at midnight, intended to invite a year of abundance. In Japan, one food-related custom is to eat toshikoshi (year-end) soba noodles on New Year’s Eve, usually at home with family and friends. On New Year’s Day, a meticulously prepared feast called O-sechi ryori can be served to welcome in good luck, prosperity, and health for the coming year.

In Greece, Vasilopita (a type of cake) is baked with a gold or silver coin inside, then served at midnight. Whoever gets the slice with the coin is slated to have good luck all year long. San Diego mom Vincian Van Moer shares that she grew up eating heartshaped cake on New Year’s Eve in Belgium, followed by cider and galettes (waffle cookies) the next day.

Get Dressed Up

Around the world, people often don their finest outfits to celebrate the new year. According to Encinitas resident Olivier Bourgeot, there’s an expression for this in France, “se mettre sur son 31.” Roughly translated, this means “getting dressed up for New Year’s Eve.” Brazilians, who are known for celebrating New Year’s in massive style, often wear white to designate peace and prosperity. At midnight, people near the beach run into the water (clothes

Around the World and all) to jump seven waves, making a wish after each one. In Italy, it is common to wear red underwear on New Year’s for good luck and fortune. People also attend openair parties, concerts and fireworks displays to celebrate.

Change the Timing

Different time zones impact when New Year’s celebrations occur. If you have young children (even if you don’t), you may wish to consider having your New Year’s countdown earlier in the evening. That way, you can all start the new year well-rested. LEGOLAND is having a Kids’ New Year’s Eve Celebration with a countdown at 6 p.m. Flip to p. 37 for details. Kay McKenzie, a local mom who is originally from England, shares, “At midnight, most people watch (on TV) Big Ben strike in the New Year, which

is always followed by an amazing fireworks display from barges right down the Thames. Nowadays, we see the new year in at 4 p.m. because that’s when the UK does. I love it, since we don’t have to stay up till midnight.” Chinese New Year (also called Lunar New Year) is an important two-week festival that follows the lunar calendar. This year it begins on February 1, 2022 (the Year of the Tiger). To prepare for the festivities, homes are cleaned to sweep away bad luck, then decorated in red (an auspicious color) to welcome happiness and good fortune in the coming year. Many people in China also celebrate by gathering with family, watching impressive fireworks displays, dancing in colorful dragon processions, and giving red envelopes filled with money to children. The Jewish New Year, called Rosh Hashanah, is based on the Hebrew

calendar and falls in September or October. It tends to be a more subdued celebration, often involving a service at synagogue followed by a symbolic meal. Jordana Land, mother of two, says, “We celebrate with a meal that includes a round challah (symbolizing the cycle of life), apples dipped in honey (for a sweet New Year), and a noodle kugel (a traditional Jewish dish).”

Develop Your Own New Year’s Traditions

Perhaps the best thing about New Year’s is that your family can decide what to wear, what to eat, and when to celebrate. What’s important is establishing meaningful memories and traditions that your family will look forward to each year. Happy New Year! v Lisa Pawlak is an award-winning contributing writer living in Encinitas with her family. December 2021 • SanDiegofamily.com •

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“ Dr. Seuss’s How the Grinch Stole Christmas!” The Old Globe Theatre is transformed into the snow-covered Whoville, right down to the last can of Whohash. Featuring the songs “Santa for a Day,” “You’re a Mean One, Mr. Grinch,” and “Welcome, Christmas (Fah Who Doraze).” Through Dec. 31. Visit website for tickets. 1363 Old Globe Way, Balboa Park. www.theoldglobe.org Sophia Adajar as Cindy-Lou Who and Andrew Polec as The Grinch. Photo by Rich Soublet II.

Don’t forget to call to confirm dates, times and admission prices.

wednesday | 1 Seas ’n’ Greetings at the Birch Aquarium. SEAsonal decor, Scuba Santa, an interactive scavenger hunt and more. Through Dec. 31 (closed Dec. 25), 9 am–5 pm. $19.95–$24.95; 2 & under free. 2300 Expedition Way, La Jolla. www.aquarium.ucsd.edu FREE Pinery Christmas Trees. Noble and Douglas Fir trees, wreaths, poinsettias and more. Through Dec. 24, Mon.–Thurs., 10 am–9 pm, Fri.–Sun., 9 am–9 pm. Locations in Bonita, Mission Valley, Rancho Bernardo, Murietta and the Del Mar Horsepark. www.pinerychristmastrees.com Skating by the Sea. This beachfront ice rink features views of the Pacific and benefits Make-A-Wish San Diego. Through Jan. 2; visit website for times. $35. Hotel del Coronado, 1500 Orange Ave. www.hoteldel.com

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FREE Family Christmas Tree Farm. Fresh cut trees, wreaths and more. Visit website for schedule. 300 Pepper Dr., El Cajon. www.familychristmastreefarm.com

decked out with LEGO ornaments. Through Jan. 2. Activities included with admission. One LEGOLAND Dr., Carlsbad. www.LEGOLAND.com.

Irish Christmas in America. Lively tunes and Irish old-style dancing. 7:30 pm. $40–$55. Center for the Arts, Escondido, 340 N. Escondido Blvd. www.artcenter.org

SeaWorld’s Christmas Celebration. Meet Santa, Rudolph and your favorite Sesame Street friends, walk through a tunnel of lights, watch new shows and more. Dec. 1 through Jan 2. Visit website for tickets. Interstate 5, exit SeaWorld Dr. www.seaworldsandiego.com

Viejas Ice Skating Rink. Southern California’s largest outdoor ice rink. Through Jan. 2, 3–10 pm. $18–$20; includes skates. 5003 Willows Rd., Alpine. www.viejas.com “Ebenezer Scrooge’s BIG San Diego Christmas Show.” A riotous Dickens mash-up filled with music and laughter— set in “wintery” San Diego. Through Dec. 26; visit website for times. The Old Globe, 1363 Old Globe Way. www.theoldglobe.org Holidays at LEGOLAND. Live entertainment, twinkling lights and nightly tree lightings of the LEGO Christmas tree

“My Fair Lady.” The story of Henry Higgins who is determined to transform Eliza Doolittle into his idea of a “proper lady.” Through Dec. 5; visit website for times. Starting at $30. Civic Theatre, 1100 Third Ave. www.broadwaysd.com Rady Children’s Ice Rink at Liberty Station. Net proceeds directly support the Thriving After Cancer program at the Peckham Center for Cancer and Blood Disorders. Through Jan. 9 (closed Dec. 25), 10 am–10 pm. $13–$15; includes

skate rental and helmet. 2875 Dewey Rd. www.radyfoundation.org/icerink Holiday Market at Petco Park. Magical lighting displays, holiday characters, artisan vendors, food and more. Through Dec. 24, 4–9:30 pm. $10–$14. Gallagher Square, 840 K St. www.padres.com FREE Jingle Terrace Park. Drive-thru event featuring holiday-themed light displays. Through Dec. 23, 5:30–9 pm. Brengle Terrace Park, 1200 Vale Terrace Dr., Vista. www.cityofvista.com Peltzer Ice Rink. Through Dec. 31 (closed Dec. 25); visit website for hours. $10–$16; skate rental $2, helmet rental $4. 39925 Calle Contento, Temecula. www.peltzerfarms.com A Christmas Carol. Adapted from Charles Dickens’ timeless tale of hope and redemption. Through Dec. 26; visit website for times and tickets. Cygnet Theatre, 4040 Twiggs St. www.cygnettheatre.com

thursday | 2 FREE Magical Snowfall. Enchanted flurries, choreographed lights and seasonal music. Through Dec. 24, Thurs.–Sun., 6 & 7 pm. Village Walk at Eastlake, 878 Eastlake Pkwy., Chula Vista. www.shopvillagewalk.com Victorian Christmas Teas. Finger sandwiches, scones, seasonal desserts and more. Through Dec. 23, 10 am–4 pm. $14.95–$32.95. Reservations required. Julian Tea and Cottage Arts, 2124 Third St., Julian. www.visitjulian.com FREE Holiday Photo Wonderland. Photo props and life-size cut-outs featuring Santa, Elsa & Olaf. Through Dec. 24, Thurs.,–Sun., 11 am–8 pm. Village Walk at Eastlake, 878 Eastlake Pkwy., Chula Vista. www.shopvillagewalk.com

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Taste of December Nights. Drive-thru event with food vendors, food trucks and entertainment. Dec. 3–5, 11 am–10 pm. Inspiration Pt. parking lot. www.balboapark.org North Pole Limited. Enjoy hot chocolate, cookies and Christmas carols as you head to the North Pole to pick up Santa. Through Dec. 18, Fri.–Sat., 5 & 7 pm. Starting at $30. Pacific Southwest Railway Museum, 750 Depot St., Campo. www.psrm.org

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Calendar • December FREE Coronado Holiday Parade. Floats and bands culminating with carol singing and a tree/menorah lighting ceremony at Rotary Park, 7 pm. 6–7 pm. Along Orange Ave. www.coronadochamber.com FREE Winter Nights at Westfield UTC. Snow globes amidst snowfall and glistening lights, with storybook reading and sing-along events. Today, tomorrow & Dec. 10–11, 5–8 pm. 4545 La Jolla Village Dr. www.westfield.com/utc/event-detail/ Winter-Nights FREE December Nights at One Paseo. Festive holiday lights, snow cascading from the rooftops and surprise guests. Through Dec. 24, Fri. & Sat., 5–7 pm. 3725 Paseo Pl. www.onepaseo.com

Snow N Glow Holiday Festival. Snow tube down the snow hill or walk through a million festive lights. Select nights, Dec. 4– Jan. 2, 4–10 pm. $12.99–$34.99. Del Mar Fairgrounds, 2260 Jimmy Durante Blvd. www.snownglow.com/delmar

Holiday Movies on the Beach. Tonight: “How the Grinch Stole Christmas,” Dec 11: “A Christmas Story” & Dec 18: “Elf.” Doors open, 7 pm; movie, 7:30 pm. $25. Del Beach, 1500 Orange Ave., Coronado. www.hoteldel.com

Wild Holidays at the Safari Park offers a wild wonderland with twinkling lights, holiday music and seasonal treats. Weekends in Dec. & Dec. 26–Jan. 2, holiday festivities 4–8 pm. 15500 San Pasqual Valley Rd., Escondido. www.sdzsafaripark.org/wildholidays

FREE Holiday Fun at Village Walk at Eastlake. Santa, train rides, holiday crafts and afternoon snowfalls. 12–3 pm. Snowfalls at 1, 2 & 3 pm. 878 Eastlake Pkwy., Chula Vista. www.shopvillagewalk.com

Holidays in Your Car. Drive-thru light spectacular. Dec. 4–Jan. 2, 4–10 pm. $45. Del Mar Fairgrounds, 2260 Jimmy Durante Blvd., Del Mar. www.snownglow.com/delmar

FREE Winter WonderLights. Holiday light show with magical snowfall. Today, tomorrow & Dec. 10–11, 5–7 pm. The Forum Carlsbad, 1923 Calle Barcelona. www.eventsforumcarlsbad.com

FREE Tree Lighting in San Marcos. Festive crafts, activities and ‘snow’ right after tree lighting (5:35 pm). 1–7 pm. San Marcos Civic Center, 1 Civic Center Dr. www.san-marcos.net

Holiday Lights at AGSEM. Wagon rides, lights, Santa and more. Today & tomorrow, Dec. 10–11 & 17–18, 5–8 pm. $4–$5; under 12 free. Antique Gas & Steam Engine Museum, 2040 N. Santa Fe Ave., Vista. www.agsem.com

FREE Antique & Craft Fair. Today & tomorrow, 9 am–3 pm. 15602 Olde Hwy. 80, Flinn Springs. www.summerspastfarms.com

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FREE Fallbrook Christmas Parade: Miracle on Main. Lighted floats, marching bands, Santa Claus and more. 5–7 pm. Downtown on Main. www.fallbrookchamberofcommerce.org

Polar Express Experience. Special holiday activities, running Polar Express models and story time with St. Nick. Dec. 4, 9–11 am. $13.50–$20; under 2 free. San Diego Model Railroad Museum, 1649 El Prado, Balboa Park. www.sdmrm.org

FREE Little Italy Tree Lighting & Christmas Village. Entertainment, a tree lighting ceremony (6:30 pm), a visit from Santa and more. 4–8 pm. India Street between W. Cedar and Grape St. www.littleitalysd.com

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wednesday | 8 Mechanics Alive! Explore small, surreal worlds through mechanical sculptures in this interactive experience that combines science, technology, engineering, art and math. Visit website for times and tickets. Fleet Science Center, Balboa Park. www.fleetscience.org Paws & Pages. Read to animals in a nonjudgmental environment. 5–6 pm. $10. Helen Woodward Animal Center, 6461 El Apajo, Rancho Santa Fe. www.animalcenter.org Holiday Movies at Rooftop Cinema Club. Today, “Elf,” 8 pm; Dec. 12, “The Muppet Christmas Carol,” 2 pm; Dec. 17, “Arthur Christmas,” 5 pm & Dec. 19, “The Polar Express,” 2 pm. Visit website for full schedule. $17.50. Manchester Grand Hyatt, 1 Market Pl. www.rooftopcinemaclub.com

thursday | 9 FREE Hullaballoo Concert at Del Mar Highlands. Today, Dec. 16 & 23, 10 am. Pop-Jet Fountain, 12925 El Camino Real. www.delmarhighlandstowncenter.com Balboa Park Carousel. Open daily, 11 am–5:30 pm. $3 per ride; 4 for $10. Cor. of Zoo Pl. & Park Blvd., Balboa Park. www.balboaparkcarousel.org

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Noel, Noel. Join the San Diego Symphony, Master Chorale and Children’s chorus for performances of holiday classics and stories. Dec. 10–12, 5 pm. $25–$95. The Rady Shell at Jacobs Park, 222 Marina Park Way. www.theshell.org

saturday | 11 FREE Holiday Moonlight Cinema: “Polar Express.” 6–8 pm. One Paseo, 3725 Paseo Pl. www.onepaseo.com La Jolla Half Marathon This iconic race takes off from the Del Mar Fairgrounds and weaves its way along the coastline down to La Jolla Cove. 6:30 am. $69; parking $10. 2260 Jimmy Durante Blvd. www.ljhalf.com FREE Santa Arrives on the Holiday Express Train. Train rides, crafts and more. 1–4 pm. 2275 Otay Lakes Rd., Chula Vista www.shopeastlakemarketplace.com FREE Christmas in the Park. Caroling, Santa, crafts and more. 3:30–8:30 pm. Old Poway Park, 14134 Midland Rd. www.poway.org San Diego Santa Run. 5K runners receive a Santa suit, sunglasses and more. 5K, 9 am; kids mile, 11 am. $25–$40. Pacific Beach. Register at www.sandiegorunningco.com/santarun. Breakfast with Surfin’ Santa. Breakfast, photos with Santa and activities. 9–11 am. $25. Seaport Village, 870 W. Harbor Dr. www.seaportvillage.com

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San Diego Bay Parade of Lights. “The Twelve Days of Christmas” theme. Today & Dec. 19, 5:30–7:30 pm. Starts off Shelter Island, goes through the harbor and ends at the Coronado Ferry Landing. www.sdparadeoflights.org

Jungle Bells at the Zoo beckons with “Aurora”, an evening spectacular filled with light, sound, and 3D projections. Today through Dec. 23 & Dec. 25–Jan. 2, 9 am–8 pm; Dec. 24, 9 am–5 pm. www.sandiegozoo.org/junglebells

Parade of Lights Dinner on the Berkeley. Dinner, boat parade viewing and museum admission. 4 pm. $35–$70; under 2 free. Maritime Museum of San Diego, 1492 N. Harbor Dr. www.sdmaritime.org

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The Nutcracker. Join Clara as she travels to the Land of the Sweets with her Nutcracker Prince. Through Dec. 19; visit website for times. $18–$22. Casa del Prado Theater, Balboa Park. www.sdcyb.org

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“The Nutcracker.” Tchaikovsky’s timeless score will be performed live by the San Diego Symphony. Through Dec. 23. Starting at $25. Civic Theatre, 1100 Third Ave. www.sandiegotheatres.org FREE Kids Countdown to Christmas. Today & Dec. 18: arts & crafts; Dec. 17 & 19: cookie decorating & hot cocoa; Dec. 20: “How the Grinch Stole Christmas.” 6 pm. RSVP on Eventbrite. Cape Rey Carlsbad Beach, 1 Ponto Rd. www.caperey.com/holidays

friday | 17 Noah Homes Enchanted Village. 8-acres of brilliantly lit trees, interactive displays and more. Through Dec. 22. www.enchantedvillage.org See page 19 for details. Victorian Tea. Enjoy a variety of teas, finger sandwiches and sweets. Today & Dec. 19–21. $40–$75; 3 & under free. Hotel del Coronado, 1500 Orange Ave. www.hoteldel.com

saturday | 18 The Special Needs Resource Foundation of San Diego presents “Spider-Man: No Way Home.” Marvelthemed activities, 6:30 pm; movie, 7 pm. $28. UltraStar Cinemas Mission Valley, 7510 Hazard Center Dr., #100. Purchase tickets at https://snrf-movie-night. eventbrite.com. www.snrfsd.org Disney’s “The Muppet Christmas Carol” Live in Concert. The Muppets perform the classic Charles Dickens holiday tale on screen. Dec. 18, 5 pm. $25–$95. The Rady Shell at Jacobs Park, 222 Marina Park Way. www.theshell.org “The Nutcracker.” Presented with live orchestra by West Coast Ballet Theater/ San Elijo Dance & Music Academy. 2–4:30 pm. $28–$48. California Center for the Arts, Escondido, 340 N. Escondido Blvd. www.artcenter.org FREE Country Christmas Light Parade. Holiday lights on cars and trucks. 5:30 pm. Main St., Julian. www.visitjulian.com Junior Science Club: Sugarcoated Science. Make homemade bubble gum, experiment with the melting point of candy canes and more. 11 am–12:30 pm. $15. Fleet Science Center, Balboa Park. www.fleetscience.org

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Calendar • December Accessibility Mornings at the Fleet. Families who benefit from a low sensory experience can enjoy exhibit galleries in a quieter setting and a special IMAX film screening (lights on and a lower volume). 9–10 am; IMAX, 10 am. Free admission for one guest and one chaperone included. Visit website for tickets. Fleet Science Center, Balboa Park. www.fleetscience.org

sunday | 19 An Irish Christmas. Dancing, singing and Irish traditional music. 2:30 pm. Starting at $33.50. Balboa Theatre, 868 Fourth Ave. www.sandiegotheatres.org

Don’t forget to sign the kids up for Winter Camp! San Diego Junior Theatre. Avoid winter blues with weekly sessions of singing, dancing and acting to keep your spirits high! Dec. 20– Jan. 7. www.juniortheatre.com Helen Woodward Animal Center. Kids love themed camp days with hands-on animal interactions, crafts and activities! Dec. 20–Jan. 7. www.animalcenter.org/education The Elementary Institute of Science. The Art of Science camp features hands-on activities using art to create scientific models. Enjoy ecology, chemistry, art, nature journaling and computer design. Dec. 20-23 and 27-30. www.eisca.org/register Fleet Science Center. In-person STEM camps for kids in grades 1–3 offer fun and educational activities that incorporate the Fleet’s exhibit galleries. Dec. 20–23 and Dec. 27–31. www.fleetscience.org/events/ winter-stem-camps Little Fish Comic Book Studio. In-person camps for ages 9 and up. Reduced price available for campers who sign up for both weeks. Dec. 20–23 and Dec. 27–30. www.lilfish.us/camps

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Escondido, 340 N. Escondido Blvd. www.cityballet.org Disney’s “Frozen.” The San Diego Symphony performs the unforgettable score alongside the Disney film. 5 pm. $25–$95. The Rady Shell at Jacobs Park, 222 Marina Park Way. www.theshell.org

friday | 24 FREE Christmas Eve Candlelight Worship. Christmas Pageant with nativity scene, 5 pm; Candlelight Service, 7 & 9 pm. First United Methodist Church of San Diego, 2111 Camino del Rio S. www.fumcsd.org

FREE Home for the Holidays. Thousands of sparkling lights, Christmas trees, snowy surprises and garlands galore. Through Jan. 2. Hotel del Coronado, 1500 Orange Ave. www.hoteldel.com

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“The Nutcracker.” Tells the classic tale of Clara, the Nutcracker Prince, Herr Drosselmeyer and the Sugar Plum Fairy. Tchaikovsky’s score performed live by the City Ballet Orchestra. Today & tomorrow, 2 & 7:30 pm. California Center for the Arts,

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sunday | 26 Boarded! Be sworn in as part of the ship crew and learn how to navigate, sword fight, swab the deck and other pirate skills. 10:30 am & 12:45 pm. $25–$60. Maritime Museum of San Diego, 1492 N. Harbor Dr. www.sdmaritime.org

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ear-old Jocelyn of San Marcos loves to make art and play soccer. Like many kids these days, she’s attending school and Girl Scouts virtually, video chatting with friends often, and spending lots of time also facing the greatest with her pets. She’s challenge of her life. For the past 19 months, Jocelyn has been battling leukemia. Jocelyn currently has more good days than bad days, but the road has been bumpy. At times, she has endured lengthy hospital stays and bouts of intense nausea. Yet through this grueling experienc e, she has discovere da passion for giving back. In the past year, Jocelyn has organized two lemonade stands, raising over $4,000 for Rady Children’s Oncology Box and other charities. Toy Her Girl Scout troop voted to donate half their Leukemia & Lymphom cookie profits to the a Society (LLS) in her honor. At the time of this printing, she had nearly reached her sales goal of 1,000 boxes of cookies. In recognition of her inspiring story and positive attitude, Jocelyn was recently named Girl of the Year for LLS San Diego and Hawaii. In this role, she will serve as a spokesper son for fellow cancer patients and support the organizat ion’s ongoing fundraisi ng efforts. “The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society is an amazing organization that not only has helped us 18 • SanDiegofamily.com

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financially, but also with life after cancer, caretakinseminars on g and how to advocate for educational needs for Jocelyn,” says mom Tracy Croxen. Remarkably, this is the Croxen family’s second cancer battle in recent years. Tracy was diagnosed with ovarian cancer almost two years to the day before her daughter’ s leukemia was discovere a radical hysterecto d. After my and Tracy remains in remission18 chemo treatments, . “I believe I went through my journey to help Jocelyn get through hers,” she says. Jocelyn’s first symptom s were dangerously subtle. The Croxens noticed a swollen lymph node on the left side of their daughter’s neck. Aside from that, she remained happy and active. The next week, though, she was getting fevers every other Jocelyn to two different day. Tracy took doctors, who misdiagnosed her with a sinus infection and allergies. They both recommended holding off on bloodwor k. When the fevers didn’t stop, Tracy took it upon herself to take Jocelyn to Rady Children’ (which utilizes specialist s s from hospitals around the county) to insist they run lab tests. The Croxens received the terrible news that day. “Deep down I knew something was wrong, but to hear the word cancer felt like being punched in the stomach,” says Tracy.

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arriving at school to pick up your child from the curb where he waits every day with an aide, but he’s not there. Or, picture your reaction if you discover ed that the carefully crafted curriculum plan for your student was ignored because it was “too difficult to implement,” according to a substitu te teacher. Unfortu nate incident s like these often lead to heated convers ations and broken relation ships. But mistake s happen. Systems fail. Caregivers mess up. Even parents blow it from time to time.

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Whether it’s a miscomm unication or an actual failure, the bottom line is that when there’s a team of people helping to educate and care for your child, it’s likely that somewhere along the way, someone will let you (or your child) down.

So, what do you do when a blunder seems insurmountable? First, assess whether or not question is ultimate the person in ly your child’s well-bei benefici al to ng. When it’s in your child’s best interest to stay the course and repair the relation ship, here’s how to rebuild trust and move forward with confiden ce. April 2021 • SanDiegofa

Jody Lee Cates won First Place in the Public Service/Consumer Advocacy category for her article 19 “Rebuilding Trust After Big Blunders” in Flourishing Families – 2021.

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Check your emotion s and ask a lot of questions. Feeling frustrated or angry are normal reaction somethi ng goes wrong, s when but angry demand s are rarely product ive. The most urgent concern is to discern and act immediately if your child is in danger. Once his safety start gathering informa is secure, tion about the incident to gain a complete understa nding of what happened. Take time to collect your thoughts and cool your emotion s. Asking questions like “Can you help me understand how this happened?” will

We recently received 10 Excellence in Journalism Awards from San Diego Press Club — seven for San Diego Family Magazine and three for Flourishing Families, our publication for families with special needs. Congratulations to our design and editorial teams, especially Jody Lee Cates, Anne Malinoski, Cherie Gough and Dr. Jenny Pieratt! See the full list of awards and links to this year’s winning articles at www.sandiegofamily.com/about-san-diego-family/company-overview/ journalism-awards-won-by-san-diego-family-magazine.

tuesday | 28 Looking for flexibility & balance in your life?

Shen Yun. Stunning classical Chinese dance, colorful costuming, breathtaking backdrops and enchanting melodies. Today, 7 pm & tomorrow, 2 pm. Visit website for tickets. San Diego Civic Theatre, 1100 Third Ave. www.sandiegotheatres.org FREE Port of San Diego Holiday Bowl Parade. Marching bands, floats, drill teams and enormous balloons. 10 am. N. Harbor Dr. www.holidaybowl.com

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Holiday Bowl 5K Walk/Run. Race along San Diego’s beautiful harbor front. 9:45 am. $40. Starting on the cor. of Harbor Dr. and Ash St. and finishing near Ruocco Park. www.holidaybowl.com SDCCU Holiday Bowl at Petco Park. College football match-up between the Pac-12 and the ACC. 5 pm. Visit website for tickets. 100 Park Blvd. www.holidaybowl.com

thursday | 30 Mannheim Streamroller Christmas. The beloved Christmas music along with dazzling multimedia effects. 7:30 pm. Starting at $39. Civic Theatre, 1100 Third Ave. www.sandiegotheatres.org

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friday | 31 New Year’s Eve Kids’ New Year’s Eve Celebration at LEGOLAND. Live music, entertainment and a special New Year’s countdown at 6 pm. Included with park admission. One LEGOLAND Dr., Carlsbad. www.LEGOLAND.com Holiday Movies on the Beach. “Big,” 6:30; the New Year’s Eve Times Square Ball Drop, 9 pm. Starting at $25. Del Mar Beach, 1500 Orange Ave. www.hoteldel.com

More fun happenings await at www.sandiegofamily.com. Want us to spread the news? Email events@sandiegofamily.com and include the name of the event or activity, a brief description, event address, date, time, cost, contact number and website. Submission does not guarantee publication. Deadline for the February issue: January 1. December 2021 • SanDiegofamily.com •

Kitchen Fun: No-Bake Treats How do you simplify cookie-making with the kids this season? With no-bake treats, of course! These whimsical confections from The Seaside Baker deliver fun in the kitchen and frosting-filled faces, but streamline the process if you’re short on time (since there’s no baking involved).

Christmas Wreath Cookies These cookies are so easy, even your littlest ones can participate. Start with purchased cookies, grab some festive decorations and let the creativity flow. Find suggested shopping list and instructions on how to make each cookie shown here at www.theSeasideBaker.com.

Grinch Fudge How can you possibly be grumpy while eating fudge? Well, you can’t, which makes Grinch Fudge an oxymoron. But seriously, your heart may grow three sizes when you discover how easy this festive fudge is (no candy thermometer required). Your family will be singing “fah who foraze” around the tree in no time. Get the recipe at www.theSeasideBaker.com.

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San Diego Family December Holiday Issue 2021

Articles inside

December Events in San Diego

New Year’s Customs Around the World

10 Steps to a More Joyful Season

San Diego’s Map of Christmas Lights

No-Bake Holiday Treats

Merry-Making Experiences for Families

Short & Sweet