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12 Short & Sweet News | Notes | Tips
22 It’s Time for Ho-Ho-Holiday Toys! Part one of our annual holiday toy guide
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Count Down to Christmas If your family celebrates Christmas, consider using an advent calendar starting Dec. 1 to help kids count down to Christmas Day. The magnetic Countdown to Christmas Wooden Calendar from Melissa & Doug is sure to get everyone into the holiday spirit. The beautiful set includes a wooden tree and 24 magnetic ornaments (and a sparkly star for the top) that fit nicely into a wooden box at the base of the tree. Kids choose one ornament each day between Dec. 1 and Dec. 24 to place on the tree. Such a fun, yuletide tradition!
Find more unique advent calendars (including some from American Girl, BRIO and National Geographic) at www.sandiegofamily.com/for-the-kids/kid-testedtoy-product-review/advent-calendars.
Stay Alert, San Diego! Stay informed with local emergency updates with AlertSanDiego (formerly called ReadySanDiego) from the County Office of Emergency Services. Residents must register their cell phones at www.readysandiego.org/ alertsandiego to receive alerts about emergencies such as wildfires, evacuation orders, earthquake warnings and more.
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Got too Much Candy? Read our article “11 Ways to ‘Give Back’ Halloween Candy” to discover where to donate candy to military troops and local community members who would very much appreciate it. www.sandiegofamily.com/ things-to-do/seasonal-happenings/waysto-give-back-halloween-candy In the spirit of sharing great meals and good company, foodies and home cooks will love the cookbook Gatherings: Casual-Fancy Meals to Share. Get unique menu suggestions (The Great British Picnic, Mexican Brunch, Vegetarian Dumpling Party, Sunday Supper and many more), delicious recipes and foolproof planning tips from the cooks of America’s Test Kitchen to make your next gathering of friends and family fabulous.
Start a New Family Tradition Are you familiar with the tradition of the Peppermint Pig? It started in the 1880s by a candy maker in Saratoga Springs, New York. After the Christmas meal, families would take turns breaking off a piece of the candy pig with a tiny hammer, then eating it with the hope of good fortune in the coming year. Brooke Zarconi of Spring Valley shared with us that her family has adapted the tradition for Thanksgiving. “We pass the Peppermint Pig around the table after Thanksgiving dinner, break off a piece of peppermint and say what we’re thankful for,” she says. Find Peppermint Pigs at Saratoga Candy Co. and other retailers: www.saratogasweets.com/ peppermint-pigs.
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Arden Pala Sports4Kids Arden Pala is a freshman at Francis Parker in Linda Vista who founded the nonprofit Sports4Kids to provide opportunities for low-income youth to play sports while building physical and social skills. Pala was inspired to start Sports4Kids after volunteering to read books to students at Perkins Elementary. During one of these visits, Principal Hernandez told him about an important issue facing the school: They had to let go of their fitness coach due to budget constraints. “My vision for Sports4Kids was to create a level playing field where every child, regardless of circumstances, can benefit from the positive impact of sports,” says Pala. “Since its inception, we have raised over $140,000 [via grants, donors and sponsorships], benefitting more than 7,500 underserved individuals.” Sports4Kids has dramatically impacted the community by introducing 450 children to team sports, offering them a sense of belonging and the opportunity to learn essential life skills. The organization’s youth volunteers have dedicated 6,500 hours to serving people experiencing homelessness. In addition to starting a successful nonprofit, Pala created a documentary called A Second Chance, offering an honest look into San Diego’s homeless community and how we can make a difference.
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How to support Arden Pala and Sports4Kids Volunteer at an event (www.sports4.org/events) or make donations at www.sports4.org. • Sports4Kids welcomes youth volunteer assistant soccer and basketball coaches ages 14 & up. • The nutrition program offers volunteers an opportunity to serve at a soup kitchen every other month. • Sports4Kids hosts two annual events: Back2School in August and Bags of Hope during the Christmas season.
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Grace Sun Melodies for Remedies
“I used to think community service was something people did because they needed service hours for school,” says Grace Sun, 18-yearold founder of Melodies for Remedies. “This experience taught me that high school students like me can make a difference in the community. I’ve found my true passion is serving people.”
Grace Sun graduated from The Bishop’s School in La Jolla this past spring and was just announced as a national winner of the coveted Gloria Barron Prize for Young Heroes for her nonprofit Melodies for Remedies. Melodies for Remedies performs free concerts at senior homes, family care centers, hospitals and to disadvantaged people. “Our mission is to provide opportunities for students to perform while forging deep connections with their peers and communities through active volunteer engagement,” says Sun. “We utilize performing arts to provide healing and comfort to those in need through various performances, events and music therapy.” Melodies for Remedies is student-run and volunteer based, working in partnership with six student-led organizations that provide concerts (both live and over Zoom) around the U.S. The organization has over 115 members in four different countries, and has raised $4,000 for Alzheimer’s research and care. Sun and her organization have established connections with UC San Diego Health, Serving Seniors, Hershey’s, United Nations Association, Treedom, Glenner Alzheimer’s Family Centers and others. Sun was inspired to start the organization after volunteering to play piano at a senior home. “As I performed, I was surprised and delighted to see how engaged and appreciative the seniors were,” says Sun. “I found my passion to spread the positivity of music to people who needed it more than I did.” What started as Zoom concerts to senior living centers in La Jolla expanded to Alzheimer’s care centers, veteran homes, hospitals and more.
How to support Grace Sun and Melodies for Remedies Visit the website or connect via social media for information on donating and volunteering. www.melodiesforremedies.org Instagram: @melodies.for.remedies YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UC_9QwYkgbb1ls1Nj0HRyjiA Email: melodiesremedies@gmail.com
The Gloria Barron Prize for Young Heroes is an annual national award that honors outstanding young leaders ages 8–18 who have made a significant positive difference to people and the environment. Fifteen top winners receive $10,000 each to support their service work or higher education. Learn more at www.barronprize.org.
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Isabelle (Izzy) Mak Little Notes Paper Co. Izzy Mak is a senior at Del Norte High School in 4S Ranch who launched Little Notes Paper Co, a stationery brand featuring designs inspired by Asian culture. She sells stickers, greeting cards, washi tape, keychains and suncatchers in her online Etsy shop, Little Notes Paper Co. She also works with customers to create customized gift stickers for the holidays. Mak is excited to take studio art this school year. “I love being able to pick a portfolio theme that I care about and am excited to create.” The marketing economics class she took sophomore year sparked inspiration and offered learning opportunities that helped her build her business. Along with running an Etsy business, Mak is taking five AP classes, including literature, studio art, government, Chinese and statistics. “I have learned much more than I ever thought I would,” says Mak. “I don’t have a storefront, so I have learned about online algorithms, utilizing social media to put products in front of people, and to take initiative by reaching out to others for help growing my business.”
How to support Izzy Mak through Little Notes Paper Co. Meet Mak in person and purchase Little Notes Paper Co. products at the Makers Arcade Holiday Fair at Broadway Pier (downtown) on Dec. 2 & 3. Connect with her via Instagram or email, and buy products on Etsy. Etsy: Little Notes Paper Co. Instagram: @littlenotespaperco Email: littlenotespaperco@gmail.com
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Malia Wilke, Miranda Martien and Elizabeth Young FIREfly Health Three local students attending Mt. Everest Academy in Clairemont Mesa created the FIREfly Health stove, a safe, affordable and efficient stove that combats indoor air pollution in households around the world. Malia Wilke (eighth grade), Miranda Martien (ninth grade) and Elizabeth Young (10th grade), in collaboration with teachers Mr. Nielsen and Dr. Rodenberg, took first place in the 2023 University of San Diego’s Jacobs Teen Innovation Challenge, which supports educators and teens in developing social solutions aligned with the UN’s Global Goals.
What does FIREfly mean? “FIRE” stands for: • Fumes reduced • Inexpensive innovation • Reused materials • Environmentally friendly “Fly” refers to the fact that the stoves are fast and easy to make.
“The inspiration for designing these stoves came from hearing stories about indoor air pollution,” says Martien. “This issue is much worse in developing countries that do not have access to modern luxuries and resort to open and unsafe fires.” FIREfly Health stoves are an effective replacement for open fires, which produce large quantities of smoke in an enclosed space.
“Breathing in smoke has numerous negative effects on health and can lead to many serious diseases,” says Wilke. “It is vital that an efficient replacement is used to cook food and provide warmth.” The students created the FIREfly Health stove using recycled food and paint cans. Their design follows the World Health Organization’s guidelines for indoor air quality and household fuel combustion. The students also developed an instructional pamphlet on how to build the stove (available in English, Spanish, French and German). Their prototype was successful in cooking eggs and boiling water, while directing smoke away. The future mission of FIREfly is to have the support of the United Nations to distribute stove pamphlets, can openers and can cutters, along with food cans. From there, people can follow the steps outlined in the pamphlet to create the stove.
How to support the mission of FIREfly Health Stoves Learn more about the stove and the girls’ efforts: www.pactful.org/jtic23 Donate to (and learn more about the project): https://gofund.me/dbac55f9 Email: fireflyhealth.info@gmail.com v Megan Woolsey is a freelance writer who lives in Carlsbad with her husband, teenage triplets and their older sister. November 2023 • SanDiegofamily.com • 17
Parenting with Purpose • Jody Lee Cates
Teaching Kids to Care Discover the joy of caring for community This is part two of a two-part series. If you missed “Teaching Kids to Care: The unexpected power of essential life skills” in our October issue, read it at www.sandiegofamily.com/parenting.
When kids learn to care for themselves and family members, it provides a sense of belonging and responsibility. By practicing simple daily acts of caring and kindness, kids experience the joy of helping others and grow confident that their actions make a difference. When that confidence and desire to serve others spill into local communities, kids become more engaged and everyone benefits. Read on to learn more about how teaching kids to care leads to the joys and benefits of community care. What is community care? Community care refers to the service and empathetic actions of taking care of and contributing to the good of others. It extends beyond individuals and families to lift and strengthen communities. Young children might understand it best as looking out for the people around you and knowing they look out for you. These people could include extended family and friends, neighbors, teachers, classmates, local business owners and members of local organizations.
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Note: It’s hard to have healthy community care without healthy self-care. Extending time, energy and resources to meet the needs of others isn’t sustainable if families don’t care for their own needs as well. When families tend to their mental, emotional and physical needs at home, they grow healthy, engaged kids who are able to participate in the lives of others.
Families and communities are better together. The way we do life has changed since the onset of COVID-19. It’s easy to isolate by having everything we need delivered to our door. But being so disconnected doesn’t feel good and it’s not a healthy way to live. We need each other to be our best. Belonging to a community also makes us more compassionate people. When we engage with and serve the communities to which we belong, we see the struggles of others and can become part of the solution. Introducing children to this next level of caring offers a sense of belonging, ownership and social concern, and an opportunity to become active, caring members of the world around them.
The benefits of caring go both ways. While community care means serving the needs of others, multiple studies show that individual happiness and success are closely tied to the satisfaction that comes from helping others. “The evidence is quite clear that giving makes us happier,” says Sonja Lyubomirsky, Ph.D., psychology professor at University of California, Riverside. “In our research, we have found that for longer-term happiness, it is better to give than to receive. That’s also correlated with creating connection because kind actions involve others, and you create a connection when you help someone. Strong relationships and connections with others are highly correlated with happiness.”
Practice community care with kids. Help children develop a positive community mindset by having fun in it. Play at the neighborhood park. Take part in neighborhood gatherings. Watch for community events like movies or concerts and while you’re there, thank volunteers. Pitch in and have children volunteer alongside you. You’ll model how important it is to get involved and how fun it is to work together. Have your preschooler help you sort donations at a food pantry. Take a child who loves to dig to a tree-planting event at a park. Show children that connecting goes both ways. For example, you might offer to collect your neighbors’ mail when they’re on vacation and ask them to collect yours when you’re away. Practice kindness by building it into small moments throughout your day. Simply saying “hello” and “thank you” to people you encounter models kindness and consideration for other community members. Expand your child’s area of “concern” by talking to them about how to help someone outside of their circle, such as a new student in class or someone who doesn’t speak the same language.
Mind the gap between words and actions. In our success-driven society, it’s easy to get caught up with all things necessary to ensure children succeed in school, sports and extracurricular activities. A survey of 10,000 middle and high school students conducted by Making Caring Common, a Harvard Graduate School of Education project, reported that nearly two-thirds of youth believe that their parents and peers would rank the importance of achievement above caring for others. Examine how your family’s priorities, schedules and activities align with your desire to teach kids the power of caring. Make sure your words are consistent
with your actions by making time and creating opportunities for kids to care for friends, neighbors and the communities in which they live, learn and grow. Community care makes life better for everyone. Engaging in the care of others demonstrates to children that kindness and empathy make a difference in the world; it provides a greater sense of connection and belonging; and it allows families to experience the joy and satisfaction that come from making life better for themselves and others. v Jody Lee Cates is the award-winning author of our column, “Parenting with Purpose.” She is also a local San Diego mom who blogs about healthy relationships at www.jodyleecates.com.
Practical Ways to Serve Others as a Family • Participate in a beach or community clean up • Bring in a neighbor’s garbage cans • Do some planting, weeding or watering at a community garden • Help a neighbor with yardwork • Deliver cookies or snacks to a local fire or police station • Donate books to a nearby Little Free Library • Make cards for residents of a nearby senior living home • Deliver a meal to a family who just had a baby Get more ideas in our articles “Doing Good Deeds: 21 ways kids can help the community” and “41 Random Acts of Kindness.” Both are at www.sandiegofamily.com/ things-to-do/donationsvolunteers-and-localfundraisers. November 2023 • SanDiegofamily.com • 19
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Belmont Park’s Annual Pass offers unlimited year-round access to San Diego’s most iconic beachside amusement park! With thrilling rides, ocean views, and endless entertainment, you’ll never have the same day twice. Experience unlimited access to rides and attractions, exclusive discounts and more. Create endless memories at Belmont Park! Visit www.BelmontPark.com for more details and to purchase passes.
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It’s Time for Check out some of this year’s best
Ho-Ho-Holiday Toys!
toys (reviewed by local families) before buying gifts. Be sure to pick up our December issue for even more ideas.
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National Geographic Hobby Series Pottery Wheel $139.99; 8+ Amazon.com Developed by professional potters, this lightweight, portable pottery wheel kit features an 8” wheel, two-way rotation, articulating arm tool, a quiet, variablespeed motor and all supplies to get started. Perfect for all skill levels.
Furby $69.99; 6+ Amazon.com An all-new chatty little Furby is back with 600 see p. 6 phrases, jokes and songs. Furby responds to hugs, pats and eating its pizza charm. The more kids play, the more fun features are revealed.
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BRIO Train Advent Calendar $49.99; 3+ BRIO.net Train enthusiasts will love this advent calendar! Each day a surprise is revealed— items compatible with beloved, highquality BRIO sets, such as train tracks, road signs, seasonal accessories, even Santa Claus.
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CoComelon Big Bouncer $84.99; 3+ Target.com Kids will jump for joy (building muscles and strength as they play) with an adorable bouncer for home! Parents love the mesh walls and built-in pump that inflates/deflates the bouncer in minutes.
Giant Double-Sided Inflatable Axe-Throwing and Ball-Toss Target Game $134.99; 3+ HearthSong.com Release your inner lumberjack! This innovative dual-sided outdoor game features durable vinyl target boards for inflatable axes and ball tossing. Includes 3 weighted axes, 3 balls, 4 ground stakes, tethers and water compartment for weighted base.
Storytime with Sunny $59.99; 3+ VTechKids.com Sunny (the friendly talking lamp) engages children as she tells stories and jokes, sings songs and asks questions. Kids hang on every word as Sunny invites participation in 300+ activities, encouraging healthy habits, good manners, mindfulness and a quiet bedtime routine. “I am shocked at how quickly my 3-yearold took to Sunny,” says mom Brit. “She can’t wait to greet her in the morning and talk to her.”
Explore the Outdoors! Travel Camper $59.99; Ages 3–8 Lakeshorelearning.com Imaginations soar with this awesome travel camper! Open the roof to reveal a dinette, kitchen, bathroom and bed. The fun continues with an awning, foldout grill, chairs and fire ring. Includes family of three and dog.
Sharper Image RC Road Rage Speed Bumpers $45; 6+ FAOSchwarz.com Play fast-paced duels against your rival— crashing is encouraged. Bump the other driver hard enough to eject and send him flying! Use wireless remote control to battle each other from a distance until someone wins. Batteries not included.
DC Comics The Batman Jack in the Box $27.50; 6 mos.+ Amazon.com Gotham City meets “Pop Goes the Weasel” with this retro Jack in the Box by Kids Preferred that entertains babies over and over again. Liven up game night with new family board games such as Ravensburger Disney100 Labyrinth ($36.99; 7+), The Very Hungry Caterpillar Rainbow Picnic Game ($19.99; 3+) and Monopoly Chance ($19.99; 8+). Find these new games and more at www.sandiegofamily.com/for-the-kids/ kid-tested-toy-product-review.
National Geographic Metal Detector: Explorer Series $49.99; 8+ Amazon.com Search for treasure at the beach or park with this lightweight, collapsible metal detector, perfect for beginners of all ages. “My 9-year-old couldn’t wait to get her hands on a metal detector,” says mom Brenda. “She loves exploring with it!”
Rainbow Learning Lights Mixer $29.99; 2–5 LeapFrog.com Mix learning and imagination with this engaging stand mixer that features a spinning paddle and detachable bowl. Little ones practice counting and learn colors while playing. Includes recipe cards, pretend ingredients and more.
DUPLO Dream Playground $49.99; 2+ LEGO.com Little ones enjoy hours of imaginative play with this versatile playground as five figures climb, slide, swing or seesaw together. A great gift for toddlers!
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NOVEMBER
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O’Side Turkey Trot 5 Mile & 5K Run/Walk
Move your feet before you eat. Features live entertainment on the course, costume contests and more. Nov. 23. $32–$62. 330 N. Coast Hwy. Register: www.osideturkeytrot.com Photo courtesy of O’side Turkey Trot
Don’t forget to call to confirm dates, times and admission prices.
wednesday | 1 FREE The Super Dentists Candy Buy Back. Turn candy into cash, receive $1 for each pound of candy. Through Nov. 6. Deliver to any of their six locations. www.thesuperdentists.com/candy-buyback-2 FREE Halloween Candy Buy Back. Exchange candy for toys, activities and gift cards, while supplies last. Tours will be offered to attendees. Through Nov. 3, 11 am–6:30 pm. Brain Balance Centers of San Diego, Chula Vista and Encinitas. www.brainbalancecenters.com FREE Día de los Muertos Celebration. The open-air shopping center will be transformed into a colorful holiday celebration with traditional altar displays,
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live music, dancing, sugar skull face painting, stilt walkers and more. 7–10 pm. Terra Nova Plaza, 394 E. H St., Chula Vista. FREE Día de los Muertos. Traditional altars, live music, family-friendly crafts, face painting and more. 4–9 pm. The California Center for the Arts, Escondido, 340 N. Escondido Blvd. www.artcenter.org Step Right Up: Circus Trains. Explore the history of the world of circus. Tues.– Sun., 10 am–4 pm. Through Nov. 19. $9–$19.50. San Diego Model Railroad Museum, Balboa Park. www.sdmrm.org FREE Día de Los Muertos - La Experiencia. Face painters, altars, live music and more. Today & tomorrow, 11 am–9 pm. Old Town. www.fiestadereyes.com/ddlm FREE Cajon Classic Cruise. Display of classic cars. Wednesdays, 5–7:30 pm
through Oct. 25. Downtown El Cajon. www.cajonclassiccruise.org
thursday | 2 El Día de los Inocentes. Day of the Children/All Saints Day. Dusk–8 pm. Old Town. www.dayofthedeadsd.com UltraStar Discount Thursdays. 50% off all movie tickets and popcorn. 7510 Hazard Center Dr. Showtimes: www.ultrastarmovies.com
friday | 3 FREE Celebrate Día de Muertos with Mariachi Juvenil. Outdoor concert featuring students from LJMS’s own Community Music Center. Including themed arts & crafts. 5 pm. The Conrad Prebys Performing Arts Center, 7600 Fay Ave., La Jolla. www.theconrad.org
Día de los Muertos. Bring together the flavors and sounds of this family centric Mexican tradition. Through Nov. 5. SeaWorld, Interstate 5, exit SeaWorld Dr. Tickets: www.seaworldsandiego.com Fleet Week San Diego. Events designed to honor and celebrate our military’s contribution to our nation and community. Through Nov. 12. Broadway Pier, downtown San Diego. Schedule: www.fleetweeksandiego.org Art San Diego. Exhibitions that showcase the thriving art and design landscape of San Diego and beyond. Through Nov. 5. The San Diego Convention Center, 111 Harbor Dr. www.redwoodartgroup.com/ art-san-diego Big Bear Oktoberfest. Bands, beer, food and more. Tonight, 4–11 pm & tomorrow, 1–11 pm. Big Bear Convention Center, 42900 Big Bear Blvd. Tickets: www.bigbearevents.com “The Sound of Music.” The timeless story of love, courage and the power of music. Through Nov. 12. $20–$22. Casa del Prado Theater, Balboa Park. www.juniortheatre.com
saturday | 4 Day Out with Thomas. Take a ride with Thomas, meet Percy and Sir Topham Hatt, and enjoy a day of family fun. Today, tomorrow & Nov. 10–12. Southern California Railway Museum, 2201 S. ‘A’ St., Perris. Tickets: www.socalrailway.org “Spider-Man Into the Spiderverse: Live in Concert.” Pairs a screening of the animated film with live musicians and turntables featuring a DJ scratcher live on stage. 7:30 pm. Starting at $39. San Diego Civic Center, 1100 Third Ave. www.broadwaysd.com
Sunset Pier Walks. Scoop up plankton, dissect a squid and more. Today, tomorrow, Nov. 11–12 & 18. $35. For ages 9 & up. Scripps Pier, Birch Aquarium at Scripps, 2300 Expedition Way, La Jolla. Reservations required: www.aquarium.ucsd.edu FREE Antique & Craft Fair. Crafts, collectables, antiques and more. Today & tomorrow, 9 am–3 pm. Summers Past Farms, 15602 Olde Hwy. 80, Flinn Springs. www.summerspastfarms.com “Peter and the Wolf.” The perfect introduction to the world of classical ballet and music for young children and their families. 2 pm. $25. Balboa Theatre, 868 Fourth Ave. www.sandiegotheatres.org FREE Christmas on the Farm Arts & Crafts Fair. Handmade crafts, pony rides and face painting. Today & tomorrow, 9 am–4:30 pm. Bates Nut Farm, 15954 Woods Valley Rd., Valley Center. www.batesnutfarm.biz
sunday | 5 Daylight Saving Time Ends FREE California Festival Family & Community Day. Showcases performances by the San Diego Youth Symphony, San Diego Master Chorale and Art of Elan. 12–6 pm. The Rady Shell at Jacobs Park, 222 Marina Park Way. Register: www.theshell.org FREE Spreckels Organ Society Concerts. Sundays, 2–3 pm. Pavilion-Pan American Pl., Balboa Park. www.spreckelsorgan.org
FREE Fall Back Festival Children’s Historical Street Faire. Old-time activities, crafts and games. 11 am–4 pm. The Gaslamp Museum at the Davis-Horton House, 410 Island Ave. www.gaslampfoundation.org FREE Carlsbad Village Street Faire. Over 750 vendors with children’s rides and fun for the whole family. 8 am–4 pm. Grand Ave. & Carlsbad Blvd. www.visitcarlsbad.com Komen San Diego More Than Pink Walk. 8 am. Balboa Park. Register: www.komensandiego.com FREE Opera4Kids Message in a Bottle. Featuring Mozart, Vivaldi and more. 2 pm. Spreckels Organ Pavilion, Balboa Park. www.spreckelsorgan.org
tuesday | 7 Residents FREE Days at Balboa Park. Park museums offer free admission Tuesdays on a rotating basis throughout the month to residents of the City and County of San Diego, and to active military personnel and their dependents. Schedule: www.balboapark.org. “Mamma Mia!” A mother. A daughter. 3 possible dads. And a trip down the aisle you’ll never forget. Through Nov. 12. Starting at $39. San Diego Civic Center, 1100 Third Ave. Tickets: www.broadwaysd.com
wednesday | 8 “Dr. Seuss’s How the Grinch Stole Christmas!” A wonderful, whimsical
FREE Holiday Market & Bake Sale. Thanksgiving and Christmas decor and more. Hosted by Kiwanis Club of Scripps Ranch. 9:30 am–3 pm. Scripps Ranch Community Center, 11885 Cypress Canyon Rd. Escondido Renaissance Fair. Jousting, live entertainment and more. Today & tomorrow, 10 am–6 pm. $12–$27; under 5 free. Felicita County Park, 742 Clarence Lane. www.oldetymeproductions.com SDSU Aztec Football Home Games. Tonight & Nov. 25. Snapdragon Stadium, 2101 Stadium Way. Tickets: www.goaztecs.com November 2023 • SanDiegofamily.com • 25
Calendar • November
VETERANS DAY
Kids in the Garden: The Magic of Autumn: Trees and Leaves. Learn why leaves change colors and more. 10 am–12 noon. $5. Alta Vista Botanical Gardens, 1270 Vale Terrace Dr., Vista. Pre-register at farmerjonesavbg@gmail.com. https://altavistabotanicalgardens.org
All National Park Service sites that charge an entrance fee will offer free admission on Nov. 11. Locally, this includes Cabrillo National Monument. www.nps.gov/planyourvisit/fee-free-parks.htm musical based upon the classic Dr. Seuss book. Select dates through Dec. 31. The Old Globe, Balboa Park. Tickets: www.theoldglobe.org “Popnology.” Engage with science fiction technology such as driverless cars, robots, drones and yes, an exact replica of the famed DeLorean. Tues.–Sun., 10 am–5 pm. $12–$25; 5 & under free. Comic-Con Museum, Balboa Park. www.comic-conmuseum.org
friday | 10 A Very Furry Christmas. Sesame Place will transform into a festive winter wonderland filled with holiday magic and everyone’s favorite Sesame Street friends. Saturdays & Sundays through Dec. 31. 2052 Entertainment Cir., Chula Vista. www.sesameplace.com FREE Red, White & Blue Salute. SeaWorld holds the men and women that have served in our armed forces in the highest regard, and are honored to host them at their park as guests. Through Nov. 12. SeaWorld, Interstate 5, exit SeaWorld Dr. Tickets: www.seaworldsandiego.com Disney’s “The Little Mermaid.” This fishy fable will capture your heart with its irresistible songs, including “Under the Sea,” “Kiss the Girl” and “Part of Your World.” Through Nov. 19. Oceanside Theatre Company at Brooks Theater, 217 N. Coast Hwy., Oceanside. www.oceansidetheatre.org
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Ride the Point. Ride the hidden, unridden and forbidden Point Loma for pancreatic cancer research. 8 am. Starting at $10. Liberty Station, 2562 Lanning Rd. Register: www.ridethepoint.org
FREE In the Park Series: Barnyard Bash. Play ring toss, milk bottle knockdown and round up unbaa-lievable fun. 10 am–12 noon. Community Park, 13094 Civic Center Dr., Poway. www.poway.org San Diego Gulls Home Games. Tonight, tomorrow, Nov. 15, 17, 24, 25 & 29. Pechanga Arena, 3500 Sports Arena Blvd. Tickets: www.sandiegogulls.com
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FREE Entrance Day at National Parks:
Star of India 160-year Birthday Celebration Sail. A once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to sail aboard one of three legendary sailing vessels surrounding Star, as she sets sail heading for the ocean blue. Today & tomorrow, 9:30 am–5 pm. Maritime Museum of San Diego, 1492 N. Harbor Dr. Tickets: www.sdmaritime.org
Veterans Day Veterans Day Celebration on the USS Midway. 10 am–3 pm. Free entry with military ID. 910 N. Harbor Dr. Details: www.midway.org FREE Veterans Day Ceremony. Thank and honor our nation’s veterans and their families. 11 am–12 noon. Mt. Soledad National Veterans Memorial, 6905 La Jolla Scenic Dr. S. www.soledadmemorial.org FREE Veterans Day Flag Raising at The Garden. Thank our local veterans for their bravery and service to our country. 8 am. Admission free for all. The Water Conservation Garden, 12122 Cuyamaca College Dr. W., El Cajon. www.thegarden.org FREE Veterans Day Ceremony. A ceremony to honor those who selflessly served our country. 11 am. Veterans Park, 14134 Midland Rd., Poway. www.poway.org
Rady Children’s Ice Rink
Kick off holiday festivities and give back to San Diego families dealing with childhood cancer. Opens Nov. 16 at 4 pm. Nov. 17, daily through Jan. 7, 10 am–10 pm. $15–$20; includes skate rental and helmets. Central Promenade, Arts District, Liberty Station. www.rchicerink.org
“Coco” Live-to-Film Concert. Today, 3:30 pm & tomorrow, 7:30 pm. Starting at $33. The Baker-Baum Concert Hall, The Conrad Prebys Performing Arts Center, 7600 Fay Ave., La Jolla. www.theconrad.org
sunday | 12 Science Club: Secrets of the Squid. Get an inside look at the anatomy that makes cephalopods so fascinating. Girls only, 10 am–noon; all scientists, 1–3 pm. $18. Fleet Science Center, Balboa Park. www.fleetscience.org FREE East Village SALUTES! A day of festivities, gratitude and community spirit to honor the armed forces. 12:30–4:30 pm. Park 12 Luxury Apts., 100 Park Plaza. www.eastvillagesandiego.com
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FREE Family Read & Play Day. Book reading, playtime and a free book. For 5 & under. 10–11 am. Salvation Army Kroc Center, 6605 University Ave. https://sd.kroccenter.org 2023 SDJT Thanksgiving Camp Family Mag.pdf
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thursday | 16 Rady Children’s Ice Rink. (see information on p. 26) Peltzer Ice Rink. 8,400 square feet of skating space. Through Jan. 7; closed holidays. $12–$18; skate & helmet rental, $2–$4. Peltzer Family Cellars, 40275 Calle Contento, Temecula. www.peltzerfarms.com
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Calendar • November Ebenezer Scrooge’s BIG San Diego Christmas Show. A fast, funny, and highly theatrical reimagining of one of the most beloved holiday stories ever told. Select dates through Dec. 24. The Old Globe, Balboa Park. Tickets: www.theoldglobe.org Nat at Night. Explore the museum’s wonders after hours, plus admission is half price after 5 pm. 10 am–10 pm. $14–$24; 2 & under free. San Diego Natural History Museum, Balboa Park. www.sdnat.org SeaWorld Christmas Celebration. Where holiday traditions are made, with delicious food, stunning live shows, delightful shopping and joyous entertainment. Through Jan. 7. SeaWorld, Interstate 5, exit SeaWorld Dr. Tickets: www.seaworldsandiego.com FREE “All That Jazz” Lightshow Spectacular. Experience the magic as The Del’s historic pine trees are draped in a spectacular light show with festive holiday jazz and snow flurries. Nightly every 30 minutes, 5–9 pm. Through Jan. 7. Hotel Del Coronado, 1500 Orange Ave. www.hoteldel.com
Nov. 26, Dec. 2–3, 9–10, 16–30 & Jan. 1–7. One LEGOLAND Dr., Carlsbad. www.legoland.com FREE Doggie Street Festival. Pet products & services, vet tips, music and more. 9 am–3 pm. NTC Park at Liberty Station, 2455 Cushing Rd. www.doggiestreetfestival.org FREE PB Christmas Tree Country. Through Dec. 25. Mon.–Fri., 10 am–9 pm; Sat. & Sun., 8 am–9 pm. 870 Garnet Ave. www.pbchristmastreecountry.com
sunday | 19 The Polar Express. A magical trip to meet Santa with hot chocolate and a cookie
served by dancing chefs. Nov. 19–22, 24–26 & 29–30; 11:30 am, 1:30, 4, 6 & 8 pm. $43–$50. Southern California Railway Museum, 2201 S. “A” St., Perris. www.socalrailway.org Pacific Rim Park Friendship Walk. Celebrate cultural diversity with mariachi music, Mexican folklorica dance and more. 12–3 pm. Shoreline Park, Shelter Island. Register: https://ilanlaelfoundation.org/walk FREE Encinitas Holiday Street Fair. Enjoy over 450 unique food, arts and crafts vendors plus four entertainment stages, children’s rides and more. 9 am–5 pm. Downtown Encinitas. www.encinitas101.com
THANKSGIVING DAY
FREE Santee Holiday Lighting Celebration. Santa photos, sledding, face painting and more. 5:30–8:30 pm; tree lighting, 6:15 pm. Santee Trolley Square, 9884 Mission Gorge Rd. www.cityofsanteeca.gov
saturday | 18 Pinery Christmas Trees. Open daily (except Thanksgiving); Mon.–Thurs., 10 am–9 pm & Fri.–Sun., 9 am–9 pm. 4 locations: 5354 Sweetwater Rd., Bonita; Del Mar Horsepark, 14550 1/2 El Camino Real; Mission Valley, 1750 Camino Del Rio N.; 1341 Highland Valley Rd., Rancho Bernardo. www.pinerychristmastrees.com Junior Science Club: Rockin’ Discoveries. Unlock the mysteries of rock and mineral formation, transformation, and the ancient creatures that left their mark in stone. 9–10:30 am & 11 am–12:30 pm. $18. Fleet Science Center, Balboa Park. www.fleetscience.org Teen Fall Fest. Acorny activities, delish autumn treats and more. For grades 6–9. $5. Community Park Community Center, 13094 Civic Center Dr., Poway. Registration required: www.poway.org Holidays at LEGOLAND. Holiday characters, 30-ft. LEGO Christmas tree, falling “snow” and more. Today through
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thursday | 23 Encinitas Turkey Trot 10K, 5K, Walk/ Fun Run. Start and finish the race under the world-famous “ENCINITAS” sign on Coast Highway 101. 10K, 7:30 am; 5K, 8 am. Register: www.encinitasturkeytrot.org Coronado 5K Turkey Trot. 8 am. $20–$50. Tidelands Park, 2000 Mullinex Dr., Coronado. Register: www.rchacoronadoturkeytrot.com O’Side Turkey Trot 5 Mile & 5K Run/ Walk. See pullout on p. 24. Father Joe’s Villages Run for Hope Thanksgiving Day 5K. Help provide lifechanging meals to feed hungry neighbors in need. 7:30 am. $30–$45. Balboa Park. Register: www.thanksgivingrun.org
Thanksgiving Day Brunch Cruise. Enjoy the holiday on the Bay with friends and family. 11 am–1 pm. $63.92–$79.92; 3 & under free. Pier 1 Hornblower Landing, 1800 N. Harbor Dr. www.cityexperiences.com Thanksgiving Dinner at the Del. Enjoy a lavish feast with live music. Adults, $195; ages 4–10, $100; 3 & under free. Southpointe Ballroom, 1500 Orange Ave., Coronado. Reservations required: www.hoteldel.com Thanksgiving Day Lunch Cruise. Gourmet meal, waterfront views and more. 1–3 pm. $56.70–$94.50; 3 & under free. Flagship San Diego, 990 N. Harbor Dr. www.flagshipsd.com FREE Purdy Tree Farms. From tabletop trees to towering 16-ft. tall trees and everything in between, you’ll find the perfect tree for you. Daily through Dec. 21, 9 am–3 pm. Del Mar Fairgrounds, 2260 Jimmy Durante Blvd. www.delmarfairgrounds.com
friday | 24 FREE Family Christmas Tree Farm. Cut down your own Christmas tree, explore the mini hay maze and more. Daily, 10 am–9 pm. 300 Pepper Dr., El Cajon. www.familychristmastreefarm.com
SAN DIEGO’S BEST MAP OF CHRISTMAS LIGHTS IS LIVE! Starting 11/24 be sure to use San Diego’s
most accurate Map of Christmas Lights (ours) as you’re touring San Diego neighborhoods. Access the interactive, mobile map at www.sandiegofamily.com/ things-to-do/san-diego-sbest-map-of-christmas-lights. North Pole Limited. Enjoy hot chocolate, cookies and Christmas music as you head to the North Pole to pick up Santa. Fridays & Saturdays through Dec. 16, 5 & 7 pm. Starting at $15. Pacific Southwest Railway Museum, 750 Depot St., Campo. www.psrm.org Thanksgiving Turkey Bash. Watch big cats and bears savoring their Thanksgiving feast. Today & tomorrow, 10 am. $35– $60. Lions Tigers & Bears, 24402 Martin Way, Alpine. www.lionstigersandbears.org FREE Craft Fair, Santa’s Coming. Oneof-a-kind holiday shopping, live music and more. Through Nov. 26, 9 am–4 pm. Bates Nut Farm, 15954 Woods Valley Rd. www.batesnutfarm.biz
FREE December Nights at One Paseo. Lights, festive decor and snow. Fridays & Saturdays through Dec. 23, 5–7 pm. 3725 Paseo Pl. www.onepaseo.com
saturday | 25 Boarded: A Pirate Adventure. Guests will be fully engaged in pirate theatrics at the dock and underway on San Diego Bay. 10:30 am & 12:45 pm. $35–$80. 1492 N. Harbor Dr. www.sdmaritime.org Pajama Party: “Arthur Christmas.” Today & tomorrow, Angelika Carmel Mountain, 11620 Carmel Mtn. Rd. www.angelikafilmcenter.com FREE Christmas Market. Crafts, gifts and more. 12–8 pm. Julian Town Square, 2712 Washington St., Julian. www.visitjulian.com Holiday Hayride: A Christmas Celebration. Hayride, archery, candle making and more. 10 am–4 pm. $20–$25. Fort Cross, 4425 Hwy. 78, Santa Ysabel. www.fortcross.com FREE Tree Lighting at One Paseo. Lights, Santa and snow. 5–8 pm; tree lighting 5 pm. 3725 Paseo Pl. www.onepaseo.com FREE Holiday Lights on Main Street. Family fun, ice skating, holiday music and more. 2–8 pm; tree lighting, 6 pm. Downtown El Cajon. www.downtownelcajon.com/holiday-lightson-main
thursday | 30 Victorian Christmas Teas. Set menu includes finger sandwiches, savories, tea breads, seasonal desserts and more. Through Dec. 23, (closed Wed.) 11:30 am, 1 & 2:30 pm. $15.95–$39.95. Julian Tea & Cottage Arts, 2124 Third St., Julian. Reservations required: www.juliantea.com
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exception. Food, fun, family—uh, football (my husband and daughter made me write that)—what’s not to love? While you gather together this season, take time to do things you love with the people you love. For me, that’s cooking, eating, crafting, laughing and expressing gratitude. If you need inspiration for that last one, check out our Thankful Jars project online (url below). Happy Thanksgiving! Consider having a special breakfast on Thanksgiving Day—something to hold you over until the big meal, but not quite so labor-intensive. The Seaside Baker’s Quick Pumpkin Swirled Breakfast Bread will do the trick. The use of canned crescent rolls makes it a snap to prepare. Find the recipe at www.theseasidebaker.com/ pumpkin-breakfast-bread.
Sweet Endings
Thanksgiving Jokes for Kids The kids will get a kick out of entertaining family members (or each other) with these silly jokes. Q: Why did they let the turkey join the band? A: Because he had the drumsticks. Q: What happened when the turkey got into a fight? A: He got the stuffing knocked out of him. Q: What do you call a running turkey? A: Fast food. Q: What did the turkey say to the computer? A: Google, google, google.
Art from the Heart Have the kids help prepare the Thanksgiving table and festivities with these fun craft projects at www.sandiegofamily.com/for-thekids/crafts-for-kids.
Thankful Jars
As you finalize your Thanksgiving menu, be sure to check out our recipes for these delicious desserts at www.sandiegofamily.com/things-to-do/ dining-and-recipes.
Mason Jar Luminaries
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Apple Cider Cake
Mini Mason Jar Pies
Sweet Potato Pie
Tackling Leftovers Wondering what to do with all the Thanksgiving leftovers? Get a recipe for Turkey Pot Pie at www.sandiegofamily.com/ things-to-do/dining-and-recipes/turkey-pot-pie and read our article “20 Things to Do with Holiday Leftovers” for more ideas: www.sandiegofamily.com/things-to-do/seasonalhappenings/20-things-to-do-with-holiday-leftovers.
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Family Christmas Tree Farm Come Experience a San Diego Tradition!
FARM ANIMALS & HAYRIDES FOR THE KIDS! FRESH WINTER WREATHS & GREENS!
$5 off Purchase of $50 or more
• Cut down your own christmas tree, just $10 per foot • Fresh cut Noble, Douglas and Grand Fir trees! • Mini hay maze for the kids • Your whole family will love Family Christmas Tree Farm!
300 Pepper Drive • El Cajon • 619-448-5331 • www.FamilyChristmasTreeFarm.com Open 7 days a week starting November 24 (day after Thanksgiving) • 10 am to 8 pm Cashless payments only, accepted at farm.
