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My Daughter is what?
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Confessions of a Neurotic Mom
Earth Day, St. Patrick's Day Adventure.
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“Chronically inflexible…easily frustrated…highly explosive.” Here we go. Again.
Walking through life with ADHD Being a kid today is so totally different from when I was a child.
I am a mom. An even-keeled, laid back, go with the flow kind of mom... well, not exactly…
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ST. PATRICK’S DAY
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Earth Day was born on April 22, 1970 in San Francisco and is the largest most celebrated environmental event worldwide. The United States Environmental Protection Agency urges parents to share in the joys of Earth Day through education and activity. Here are a few great reads that will strengthen the connection between your child and Mother Earth:
Stockton Earth Day Festival APRIL 6, STOCKTON
Bring your family out to the largest Earth Day Festival around! From live music and dance to fun ways to go green. 10 a.m. – 4 p.m. Free admission! Victory Park, North Pershing Avenue and Argonne Drive (behind Haggin Museum), (209) 937-8389, livegreensanjoaquin.org
CELEBRATING EARTH DAY
(Circle the Year With Holidays) Written by Janet McDonnell & Illustrated by Diana Magnuson CLIFFORD’S SPRING CLEAN-UP
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GOVER’S 10 TERRIFIC WAYS TO HELP OUR WONDERFUL WORLD
Written by Anna Ross & illustrated by Tom Leigh JUST A DREAM
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Written by Linda Lowery & illustrated by Mary Bergherr EVERY DAY IS EARTH DAY
A Craft Book (Holiday Crafts for Kids) Written by Kathy Ross & illustrated by Sharon Lane Holm FOR THE LOVE OF OUR EARTH
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March 17 is the perfect day to implement a new family tradition! As a child, I had a blast creating an annual scavenger hunt for my little brother. It brought a new meaning to this holiday, while also encouraging my creativity, writing and craft skills. This is now a tradition near and dear to my family’s heart, that has cultivated many memories. Check out the foundation of my idea and make it your own! • Go to the craft store for green construction paper, pens and glitter
• Write clues on each shamrock that will lead to the next clue
• Head to a dollar store or something similar for treats, toys and prizes. Look out for a ‘pot of gold’ or make one of your own as the final prize!
• Plant your clues throughout the house or outside, leaving a treat or prize at each hiding spot
• Cut the green construction paper into 10 shamrocks the size of your hand • Think up clues that rhyme or follow a format of your own. The clues are from leprechauns, of course!
• Save the best clue and hiding spot for last, as this is where you will hide the pot of gold! Use this outline to get creative and active. Dress up, get the older kids involved and make it a family affair. Everyone will surely find a new love for St. Patrick’s day through a funfilled scavenger hunt.
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KIDS AND PARENTS | BE WOWED AT WOW
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World of Wonders Science Museum is continuing to engage the children of San Joaquin through exciting new workshops and events this spring. Founder Dan Ingrum’s dreams of providing hands on, Exploratorium activities for the future doctors and astronauts of the world continues to flourish through the extensive list of exhibits events and activates. If you’re a newbie to the WOW experience, permanent exhibits like Sound blocks will certainly wow you. This particular exhibit is a music-based experience that allows for creation of a melody from pre-configured tune blocks on a computer screen. Another classic is the Electric Table and Circuit Workbench, a display that defines electricity by demonstrating magnetism and static electricity. In addition to the handfuls of exciting exhibits, World of Wonders Science Museum is shaking things up with some seriously cool events.
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Enjoy family carriage rides, pony rides and western activities during this equine-inspired event.
REPTILE ROUNDUP APRIL 5
Spend a Saturday with some of our favorite leatherskinned creatures. Arts, crafts and hands-on experience will surely leave any reptile lover in awe.
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Ernest Pontiflet learned about prostate cancer the hard way. His pastor, who himself was fighting prostate cancer, asked Ernest what his “PSA level” was. Ernest didn’t know what that was, but he soon found out. His was high—and he too had prostate cancer. At St. Joseph’s, he received surgery, radiation therapy and hormone therapy, until finally he got his illness under control and began feeling strong again. Cancer changes the lives of all it touches, but Ernest Pontiflet has set about becoming an agent of change himself. And if you’re a man over 40, he’ll ask you what your PSA level is. Because as Ernest sees it, his mission is to get the word out and share the truth. While St. Joseph’s is proud to be the area’s only accredited Cancer Center, we are equally proud of our wide array of support services. We believe treating cancer means caring for the whole person in mind, body, and spirit.
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KIDS AND PARENTS | MY DAUGHTER
MYDaughter BY HEATHER REAGAN
“What?” I ask. I stare at my pediatrician, silently searching my brain’s catalog in hopes of finding an archived file explaining the words she uttered in the sentence that preceded my question. I have been here before. I vaguely remember being in this moment, in this space, in this fuzzy state of mind, trying to make heads or tails of the information bequeathed to me by a medical professional.
“Chronically inflexible…easily frustrated… highly explosive.” Here we go. Again. The doctor continues… “I’ve noticed in the last year during our visits that your daughter is less adaptable than other children her age. She is unable to behave in a logical and rational manner when she is frustrated. The situation with her pink blanket (oh no, she did not go there with pink blankie) overwhelmingly frustrated her; she was unresponsive to our efforts to reason with her, and in fact, the situation became worse. I am concerned that she is lacking the necessary coping skills to function well in everyday life.” “For instance..The pink blanket being left at home should have been a relatively trivial event.” Should, she stresses, but it wasn’t. It never is. Nothing is ever “trivial” or easy with my daughter. We go through a series of Q & A so that she could better evaluate my daughter. Yes, she was difficult to soothe as a baby. Yes, she has frequent
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meltdowns. Yes, she has difficulty shifting readily from one activity to another. Yes, she obsessively plans and recites plans and persistently checks for authorization on something we agree upon repeatedly- until it happens. No, she does not have any language processing problemsshe is as smart as a whip. Yes, she struggles with sharing. Yes, she is exceptionally charismatic and vibrant. Yes, she is acutely perceptive. Yep-it’s conclusive. She identifies my daughter as fitting this psychiatric profile for behavioral volatility. “An Explosive Child” she diagnoses. So, not ADHD/ODD/OCD like my eldest, and not ADD like my middle, but highly explosive with a limited capacity for flexibility, extremely low frustration tolerance threshold, rigid thinking and poor response to frustration to the point of incoherence. Yes, this is my sweet spitfire, my spirited little soul.
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IS WHAT?!
I neither shy away from the assessment, nor condemn my pediatrician to the deepest, darkest place on earth. Rather, I sigh, inhale, exhale and breathe. I’ve got this. Armed with my humor and wit (my saving grace), I quickly ask my pediatrician what kind of trade in I could get for all threeI am willing to negotiate a heck of a deal. (Negotiation is after all a strong suit of mine, having now three kids with special needs.) She laughs. “Well, Heather,” she says “I do believe you will navigate your way through this with your daughter. These are not foreign waters for you.” No. No, they’re not. We leave the doctor’s office- my daughter and I. I swoop her up, give her a tight squeeze and whisper in her ear, “You have the most beautiful wings. All you have to do is FLY. Together, my baby girl, we will soar through this amazing life.”
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Being a kid today is so totally different from when I
was a child. In today’s world of iPhones, iPads, iPods, Wiis, Xboxs, PlayStations and Kindles, I often mourn childhood for the children of today. Gone are the days of blanket forts and pillow fights… Spring is the perfect time to introduce our kids to the nostalgia of our youth and get back to the basics of being a kid. Disconnect and head outside for some good old-fashioned fun.
Look for a Four Leaf Clover… Not only does finding a four leaf clover bring you luck, but it also protects human beings and animals from the spell of magicians and the wiles of fairies! So, head out to Micke Grove, Oak Park, or Pixie Woods with your spyglasses and move into a world of intriguing imaginings. There is no better time than spring to grab your rain boots and jump in some puddles! Give into the urge to splash and be splashed and watch the endless amount of giggles that unfold. The bigger the puddle, the better!
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Skip Stones…
There is something trancelike about watching a stone skip across the water. Hearing the water splash and watching the ripples expand brings you closer to nature. And the best part…? Searching high and low for the perfect skipping stones and the unconcealed exultation that comes with finding them. “Mom! Look at THIS one!” Head out to Lodi Lake today and cop a squat lakeside and skip some rocks! There is something to be said about a really big, old, sprawling tree; and it, in turn, says something: Climb Me. For just a few moments, let instinct take over and climb a tree. Go side by side with your kiddos and venture up and away. There’s a reason this is one of the greatest children’s
pastime. Look around for animals living in the tree. Watch the clouds float by. Look below if you dare and see how much smaller the world has become beneath your feet. Nothing beats trying to cross a stream by stepping from rock to rock (even if a sneaker gets wet or a knee gets bruised), so set your sights on a picnic point across the water and make your journey. This simple activity invites you and your kids to experience the sights, scents, sounds, and textures of the outdoors. The natural world is a giant, open-ended learning laboratory for our children. And with a blanket of outdoor opportunities right in the San Joaquin Valley’s backyard, getting back to basics with your kids has never been easier!
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I am a mom. An even-keeled, laid back, go with the flow kind of mom... well, not exactly…but I am a mom. Candidly speaking, I am non-traditional, a little outside the lines and a bit neurotic. Okay, very neurotic, but in a good way (yes, that is possible). I blame my kids for my neuroticism. Two out of my three kids (my oldest and youngest) are insanely neurotic. Did I mention that my middle child is my favorite? Wait. I’m not supposed to have a favorite. Here’s the thing- my neuroses doesn’t fit the typical bill. I don’t care about germs- the way I see it, the more germs they ingest as babies, the stronger their immune systems become as they develop. A Shopping cart cover; what’s that? I don’t care that my four-year-old daughter leaves the house everyday with plaids and stripes and every color of the rainbow in her attire with mismatched shoes; self-expression is a good thing. The five-second rule always applies in our house; which is actually more like the 20-second rule. More than 20 seconds though, whatever is dropped becomes free game for the Golden Retriever. As a toddler, my middle son had a tough time with this concept. No matter what was dropped, it was his. And even if the dog got it, well that simply would not work for him. He opened the dog’s mouth, reclaimed what was his and plopped it back in the mouth of the rightful owner- his own; much to the repulsion of his siblings and father. Should this have bothered me? When my oldest son was two, bouillon cubes were his go-to for wreaking havoc. I would watch my husband re-direct him, distract him, and continuously relocate the bouillon cubes. One day, on my watch, my son made it to the bouillon cubes. I watched as he excitedly ripped into the foil of a cube with reckless abandon. “Knock yourself out big guy”, I thought, “You’ve got your pot of gold.” With utter shock and sheer horror, my husband walked in as the bouillon cube went in his mouth… and then came back out, in a matter of seconds. To this day, my son doesn’t care for meat. Thank you, Beef Bouillon Cube. So, what am I neurotic about you ask? I have to rearrange all the ornaments on the tree after our white picket fence decorating evening. I don’t do small pieces. Any and every small piece, part, object, article, leggo, artifact, or item smaller than a chicken nugget that comes my way is immediately terminated. Gnarly textures are not my friend. My daughter has a touch and feel book with color photographs that show sweet tiny hands playing with bright colorful balls, velvety flower petals, soft teddy bears and silky pink tutus with lifelike samples of the textures being written about. The tutu was horrifyingly scratchy, the colorful ball disgustingly gummy and the teddy bear disturbingly wiry. Needless to say, we haven’t been able to find that book for a while. School clothes are non-negotiable. Nothing makes me twitchier than when my sons come at me dressed for school in sport shorts or sweats. Grammar, potluck, and shoes without socks… don’t get me started.
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SPOTLIGHT | MICKEY GROVE ZOO
MICKE GROVE
ZOO Meeting the Animals In Person Has Never Been So Much Fun BY LYNETTE CARRINGTON
There is almost nothing more thrilling to children than to see wild animals and discover how they live. Micke Grove Zoo is a special facility where children can experience a wide variety of animals while learning about conservation efforts. There is a new bobcat who will receive a name in mid-April. “We’ve received over 300 name submissions,” explains Allison Meador, director of conservation education at Micke Grove Zoological Society. “All of the zoo staff are going to be participating in the voting. This is the first public animal-naming opportunity that the zoo has offered to my knowledge and one of many that we will start doing.” The young bobcat is currently on exhibit in the south end of the zoo. “He was too habituated to humans to be returned to the wild. He was found as an abandoned kitten. Micke Grove Zoo is now his forever home,” says Meador. As part of ongoing education efforts at the zoo, the young bobcat will be help staff educate visitors on California native wildlife and the effects of urbanization. The bobcat is used to people and will come right up to the edge of the enclosure.
There will be another naming opportunity coming up in the near future for two young fossa. Natives of the isolated island of Madagascar, the stunning-looking animals are a relative of the mongoose family, but look more like a cross between a cat, a dog and a monkey. The twin brothers were the only ones born in captivity in 2012 and they are in the process of getting a new exhibit. The zoo has an entire exhibit dedicated to Madagascar called “The Island Lost in Time” and kids relate to it because of the popular film “Madagascar.” Other animals at Micke Grove Zoo include a wide variety of birds, reptiles, a tufted capuchin, golden lion tamarin, a Chilean pudu, a red ruffed lemur and many other wild friends. A new snow leopard will also be on display soon. Because Micke Grove is an intimately-sized zoo, children can easily explore the zoo without becoming burned out from extensive walking. Another great family experience is Zoo After Dark, a program that takes place once monthly March through August. “It’s unique because kids come to the zoo after dark and experience what the animals do after dark. Some species like our fossa and the bobcat will be very active and curious and they make it fun,” Meador says. “Zoo After Dark is geared towards families and kids ages 6-11 have the most fun with the program.” The program includes a campfire, s’mores bar, an animal-themed craft, and up-close-and-personal introduction with some of the animals in the zoo’s educational program and storytelling at the end of the evening. Participants get a tour of the facility’s kitchen and head out with a guide to discover the zoo via flashlight tour. Check the website frequently for current events and educational opportunities and programs. Parties and birthdays are welcome and family memberships are also available.
MORE INFORMATION: MICKE GROVE ZOO 11793 N. Micke Grove Rd., Lodi, (209) 953-8840, mgzoo.com
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SPOTLIGHT | MILLENNIUM DENTAL
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Millennium Dental specializes in dental services for the entire family. Dr. Lita Rodriguez and her husband, Dr. Ramon Chicchon provide expert dental care for every member of the household. “We are a family-oriented practice. I focus on the needs of children and my husband sees the adults,” explains Rodriquez. For nearly two decades, they have served the Central Valley. “What really sets us apart is that we are strong in the area of prevention. We try to educate the little ones and their
parents,” says Rodriguez. “I start with what I call a ‘Baby Workshop’ and I invite my patients who I know have had a baby or who have children under the age of two. We do an educational workshop with the parents and that’s when I do the child’s first ‘examination’.” In introducing children to a good routine of dental hygiene, the doctor hopes to prevent bigger dental issues. “If you have good health and a good understanding of how cavities begin, later on you won’t have to spend too much time at the dentist,” Rodriguez states. Services offered at Millennium Dental include regular dental check-ups and digital x-rays, fillings, crowns, root canals, implants, orthodontics and cosmetic and pediatric dentistry. Patients of all ages can be seen in either the Stockton or Tracy office locations and most dental insurance plans are accepted. Millennium Dental stays up-to-date with all the most current technologies, including digital x-rays which impart only a fraction of the radiation of dental x-rays from previous years. Son, Ivan Chicchon is also a dentist. He is a graduate of the University of the Pacific and will be joining his parents at Millennium Dental in a couple of years, after his specialization in Ann Arbor Michigan. “We are a family of dentists serving the families in our community,” Dr. Rodriguez finishes.
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Charming things for little one that are... BY LYNETTE CARRINGTON
Let the spoiling begin! Simply Irresistible opened in November 2013 and has mothers in Manteca jumping for joy. The cute-as-a-button children’s boutique features charming lines of clothing, accessories, toys, bath products and safety items for the wee ones in your life. Owner Naomi Clark has spent considerable time and effort in creating a special place that is appealing to parents and their sweet tots. “Manteca is an up-and-coming community but she needs some of the little specialty shops that the big boys don’t provide,” says Clark. “The response from the community has been strong. We offer something that is higher-end, but still affordable.” Some of the adorable boutique lines carried at Simply Irresistible include Princess Bumble B, mudpie, petunia pickle bottom, Swaddle Designs, silkberry baby, Persnickety, Noodle & Boo, chewbeads, mayoral m, Luna Leggings, Kapital K, Books to Bed, giggle moon and aden + anais. Simply Irresistible carries sizes from preemie up to girls’ 6x and boys 7. “We have a lovely line of Wonderworld Wooden Toys, balance bikes, little cars and a line of dolls that are very safe and have everything
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stitched on,” Clark states. There are also several lines of sturdy books, even the ones that look like grandma’s purse and are stuffed full of “goodies” to discover. Moms will also love the assortment of cute bath time toys and hypo-allergenic toiletries. Customers will enjoy a beautiful and child-friendly shopping environment with an in-store gift registry, complimentary gift wrapping with purchase and a layaway plan. Custom orders for diaper cakes, party hats, balloon bouquets and similar gift items are also available. The Story Book Lady stops by Simply Irresistible on the 1st Saturday of each month at 11:00 a.m. “She’s a former preschool teacher and spends anywhere between 20 minutes to an hour reading stories and singing songs under the magical beanstalk in the back of the store,” Clark explains. In the weeks leading up to Easter, themed photo sessions in front of the beanstalk will be available to families. Check the store’s website for a schedule. A Grandparent’s Day tea will also be scheduled in September.
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Summer BY KELLY POLLARD
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CAMP Maybe you haven’t even had the strength to think about summer after stumbling out of the holiday season and into springtime sports and academics. However, many camps are taking early registration now for discounted prices and a guaranteed spot. It doesn’t matter if you have a stay-at-home parent running the
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DAY CAMP OR OVERNIGHT CAMP Children can attend camp for a day, a week, or for weeks at a time. Only you know what is best for your child and for your family budget. If you have a relatively new camper, I’d suggest signing up for just one day. More introverted children may be out of their comfort zone, so this is a good way to build their confidence. If your child is up for more of an adventure, there are overnight camps aplenty in the surrounding foothills and in the Bay Area. Do your research for the best fit. WHERE TO GO? I’ve always tried to tailor our camp choices to my sons’ interests. For my athletic son, he prefers sports-themed camps. My other son is more of a free spirit and he tends to drift toward camps that offer a variety of games and arts, with a dash of sports. Your local parks and recreation departments offer fantastic programs. Museums, zoos, animal shelters, gyms, karate studios, and the YMCA also have programs. Is your child a scout? I’ve heard those are some of the best day camps for a reasonable fee. Don’t overlook local churches and synagogues as well.
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BE PREPARED I typically send my sons to week-long day camps a couple times over the summer. I try to spread it out to give them breaks from each other (and from me) when I think we most need it. Camps are high energy, so always send plenty of snacks and water to prevent the exhaustion meltdown that can happen later that day. Get your kids involved in picking out what program suits them best and they will be more excited to go. COORDINATE Lately, I’ve coordinated camps with my sons’ friends to make the most of the experience. When children know they have a buddy meeting them at camp, it makes the day that much more fun. Plus, you knock out the playdate obligation in the same day and carpooling only sweetens the pot. If you want to go this route, it is even more important to register early so everyone can secure a spot. I see summer camps as an investment in my entire family’s sanity. Parents find a safe place for their children and the kids return tired and happy. It may seem crazy to chart out your summer now, but trust me, you will thank me in a few months.
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83rd Annual McKee Student Art Contest and Exhibition STOCKTON, FEBRUARY 6- APRIL 6
The Haggin Museum continues the longest-running student art competition in the United States. The museum’s founding patron, Robert T. McKee, whose goal was to encourage students by providing a public venue for their artworks, first envisioned the exhibition. All schools in San Joaquin County—public, private, charter and homeschools—receive invitations to submit their work. Every year we receive on average 1,000 pieces of art chosen by teachers as the best of their class. The Haggin Museum, 1201 N. Pershing Ave., Stockton, (209) 940-6300, hagginmuseum.org
The Frog Prince MODESTO, MARCH 9
Children love this popular tale by the Grimm Brothers about a vain and childish Princess who has promised to kiss a frog! At first she refuses to keep her promise, but in time realizes the importance of honesty and honor. Her kiss breaks the spell and transforms the frog back into a handsome Prince. Artful uses of puppetry, dance and comedy make this story “spring” to life and its audiences “jump” for joy! Suggested for grades K-5. Gallo Center for the Arts, Foster Family Theater, 1000 I St., Modesto, (209) 338-2100, galloarts.org
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McTeggart IrishDance Performance LODI, MARCH 15
Come celebrate St. Patrick’s Day with a high-energy performance from the McTeggart Irish Dancers! Event is included with museum admission. World of Wonders Science Museum, 2 N. Sacramento St., Lodi, (209) 368-0969, wowsciencemuseum.org
23rd Annual Trivia Bee STOCKTON, MARCH 7
Come out and enjoy a fun-filled evening of trivia! Trivia skills are put to the test while raising funds for children’s literacy programs. A fun and competitive evening filled with team and audience participation, the Trivia Bee is an annual Stockton favorite! Each team will have the opportunity to win the award for Best Team Name, while members of the audience can join in the fun by competing for Best Costume and Best Decorated Table awards. Doors open at 5 p.m. Dinner at 6 p.m. Trivia Bee begins at 7 p.m. Stockton Civic Memorial Auditorium, 525 North Center Street, (209) 957-7277, sjcliteracy.org
Discovery Days LODI, MARCH 18
This Month’s Topic: Big and Small Discover your inner scientist! Drop in and explore our monthly informal hands-on science sessions. This month, we’re learning about very little things, and very big ones! Activities are open for exploration from 10:00am-1:00pm and are included with your Museum admission. World of Wonders Science Museum, 2 N. Sacramento St., Lodi, (209) 368-0969, wowsciencemuseum.org
Banana Slug String Band Children’s Concert STOCKTON, MARCH 14
Join the award-winning Banana Slug String Band with their toetappin’, booty-shakin’ songs about understanding and caring for this precious green Earth we call home. Students from preschool through 6th grade learn common core science standards through music, theater, puppetry and audience participation. This concert is guaranteed to be a fun-filled learning experience. Tickets $9; 10 a.m. - Noon. Scottish Rite Auditorium, 33 W. Alpine Ave., (209) 487-2559, musicalchairsconcerts.org
Children’s Dance Theatre presents “Alice in Wonderland” APRIL 5, TRACY
This production is a contemporary and traditional look at “Alice in Wonderland” through dance, drama, and audience participation. 2-4 p.m. Tickets $10. Grand Theatre, 715 Central Avenue, (209) 831-6TKT (6858), atthegrand.org
Stockton Earth Day Festival APRIL 6, STOCKTON
Bring your family out to the largest Earth Day Festival around! Learn about the environment and how you can help preserve our natural resources. There will be a variety of interactive booths, displays, food, entertainment and more throughout the day. Other activities include community yoga and a Family Fun Bike Ride and Parade. The Stockton Earth Day Festival is truly a celebration of fun and educational opportunities for the entire family. From live music and dance to fun ways to go green. 10 a.m. – 4 p.m. Free admission! Victory Park, North Pershing Avenue and Argonne Drive (behind Haggin Museum), (209) 937-8389, livegreensanjoaquin.org
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Zoo After Dark LODI, MARCH-AUGUST
This is a fabulous after hours program for families and adults, offered once a month from now until August. During the program, the participants make a campfire and/or animal themed craft, meet some of our “night owls”, go on a flashlight tour through the zoo, and end up at a campfire with a full S’mores bar. Also enjoy storytelling, jokes and tons of additional fun! This adventure requires advanced registration (limited to 25 participants) for participants ages 5 and up. Micke Grove Zoo, 11793 N Micke Grove Rd, Lodi, (209) 953-8840, mgzoo.com
Reptile Roundup at the WOW Science Museum APRIL 5, LODI
Round up your family and slither on down to the World of Wonders for the 5th annual Reptile Roundup. The WOW museum will be teaming up with local reptile stores and museums to bring you a hands-on day of reptile fun! The museum will be filled with arts and crafts and all of your favorite scaly friends. You can even have the chance to hold your favorite reptile or pick a new favorite! 10 a.m. – 3 p.m. Adults $6, Kids $4, Teachers Free! World of Wonders Science Museum, 2 North Sacramento Street, (209) 368-0969, wowsciencemuseum.com
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Fur, Feathers, Skin and Scales STOCKTON, APRIL 8
Join Kristy Benner, an Education specialist for the Micke Grove Zoological Society, for an exciting hands-on class at the Delta Kids College. This class introduces children to intriguing facts about animal coverings and textures. It includes experience with the real things! San Joaquin Delta College, 5151 Pacific Ave, Stockton,(209) 9545151, kids.deltacoll
Learn to Skate! STOCKTON, UNTIL MARCH 26
The Stockton Skating School “Learn to Skate” program will help build confidence and teach the FUN-damentals of skating. “Learn to Skate” is open to all ages and ability levels including Tiny Tots and Adults. The classes will teach the basics of either ice skating or hockey. Oak Park Ice Arena, 3545 Alvarado Ave, Stockton, (209) 9377433, stocktonlive.com
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TENNIS 101 BY KELLY POLLARD
IMAGINE BEING A GROWN WOMAN
in an alleged beginner’s tennis class. Imagine stinking up the court with missed swings, home run lobs and feet heavier than a stampede of horses. Imagine that your fellow “beginner” classmates have been in this class for several years and that their playing involves serves with a wicked spin, shots at your stomach and balls like rockets at your feet. Now imagine your horror when, after struggling through this class for several weeks, your menopausal tennis instructor forces you to sit out to observe how “real” tennis players play. This was me a few years ago, fighting back tears on the sidelines. This was me in a postpartum baby body, going crazy with a toddler and infant at home and plenty of weight to lose. I needed an escape from the monotony of diapers, tantrums and potty training. I never played sports growing up, content to write bad poetry or bury my nose in my mother’s Danielle Steele novels. Yet, I come from a family of tennis players. Hours of my childhood played out on the sidelines of a tennis court while my parents rallied away Sunday mornings. I figured it had to run in my blood, right? These classes made me feel like the girl in middle school who was always chosen last. I constantly apologized for missed shots and pretended not to notice the other player’s eye rolls. I did something that day when I was kicked out of the game that I constantly teach my sons not to do. I quit. Now here I am, six years later, a tennis player. A friend had encouraged me a few times to come out and play at our gym, that it was social, that it involved more gossip and wine than play. I told her no way. Did she know who she was talking to? I’m the girl that slams balls over the fence if I’m lucky enough to make contact. I’m the girl who was put on time out by her tennis teacher. No way could I suffer through the indignity of my clumsiness on display at my gym where people running on treadmills could witness my antics. Perhaps it was a matter of timing, hitting my stride in my thirties instead of dwelling in the insecurity of my twenties. I’m learning that the things that terrify me are worth going after. Case in point: I complet-
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ed a 5K mud run last year. If I could survive the craziness of scaling walls and swimming through thick globs of mud, why couldn’t I be the girl in the adorable tennis skirt and coordinating visor? The thought of tennis terrified me, but something made me say yes. I blame it on the promises of wine. I joined the tennis team last October, making it very clear to the captain that I was not ready to compete in matches against other clubs. Every time I showed up to play, I improved. Encouragement from other women cancelled out the can’t do it echoes in my head. I played two, three, even four times a week. Imagine how grateful I felt that my teammates continued to partner with me, although I wasn’t a strong partner. Imagine the feeling of strength that came from a satisfying swing at the ball. I’m no longer the girl sniffling back tears on the sidelines, too insecure to stand up against an impatient teacher. I play my first match this Friday and I’ll admit right now, I’m terrified. I know I will be fine, even if I don’t play my best. The thing that once terrified me is now a source of joy in my life.
If I could survive the craziness of scaling walls and swimming through thick globs of mud, why couldn’t be the girl in the adorable tennis skirt and coordinating visor?
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