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Constitution Minute
BROUGHT TO YOU BY HILLSDALE COLLEGE
America’s founders believed in the separation of church and state, in that the country was not to have an official religion or an official sect, but that did not mean that government was to be hostile to religion, or even indifferent to religion, as many today argue.
In fact, America’s founding document, the Declaration of Independence, includes both a reference to God as the author of the laws of nature, and a confident assertion that human beings are endowed by their creator with certain inalienable rights. Far from being hostile or indifferent to religion, America’s founders understood the theology of the declaration to be an essential part of the education of citizens.
AVE MARIA
® OWNER/PUBLISHER
Chad Beatty
MAGAZINE DESIGNERS
Kelly Schoonbeck
Kacie Cotter-Harrigan
ADVERTISING DESIGNER
Ana Sosa
CONTRIBUTING WRITERS
Tristan Amzallag
Becky Bruehl Bestul
Jorge & Karla Cebreros
Kevin Creighton
Jim Feipel
Chef Trevor Ganzi
Mary Harp-Jirschele
Sharon Levesque
Logann McElfresh
Megin Potter
Rachel Sheffey
Kate Morna-Towne
PHOTOGRAPHERS
Yvette Forte
Jorge Molina, Florida Urban Photography
Tukey Oliver
Alicia Padial
Randall Perry Photography
EDITORIAL/PHOTOGRAPHY
518-248-2080
cbeatty@oilwellpublishing.com
SALES
305-504-9369
dleovarela@gmail.com
cont ributors
TRISTAN AMZALLAG
Tristan Amzallag started his career as an early internet innovator, successfully filing 3 patents before retiring from that career. In 2013 he dove into Bitcoin and has been an avid miner and educator since.
BECKY BRUEHL BESTUL
A resident of Ave Maria since building a home here in 2015, Becky Bruehl Bestul is an award-winning, former print and broadcast journalist from Wisconsin who later entered the business world. After retiring from corporate management, Bestul sought the Florida sunshine with her husband, John Bestul. She immersed herself in the community supporting a number of volunteer activities. Writing is her first love and she looks forward to sharing the stories of the area. The Bestuls live in Maple Ridge with their two dogs. They enjoy hosting friends and family (especially their grandchildren) and introducing visitors to the uniqueness of Ave Maria.
TREVOR
An Italian American chef from Ave Maria, Trevor has over 15 years of experience. Coming from backgrounds of Michelin recognized restaurants from farm to table to classic french, we know how to cater
to all personalized requests. Specializing in Italian, French, American, and Mediterranean cuisines. Owner of Ganzi Hospitality LLC that works in 10 different states that brings events to your home with a private chef experience or food truck Capeesh Italian Street food for a more casual event.
KEVIN CREIGHTON
Kevin Creighton works full time for the world's largest gun rights organization and is the owner and head trainer at Quietly Armed, a firearms training company located in Ave Maria. He has completed over 1000 hours of firearms training from some of the top schools and instructors in the country and is certified to teach firearms classes by the NRA, Rangemaster and Defense Training International.
Originally from Chicago, Illinois, Jim was elected as a Member to the PGA of America in October of 2000. In 2005, Jim moved to Naples, Florida, where he accepted the position of Head Golf Professional at Tiburon Golf Club. Jim was also a golf instructor at the Rick Smith Golf Academy at Tiburon Golf Club, where he was able to learn and teach alongside PGA tour Instructor Rick Smith. In October of 2022 an opportunity came about to join the Del Webb community as the new Director of Golf at Panther Run Golf Club. In the past 3 years, Jim has assembled a truly unique team of golf professionals who provide instruction to players of all ages and skill levels.This year Jim will be inducted into the Quarter Century Club of the PGA of America for 25 years of service being a PGA Member! JIM FEIPEL MARY HARP-JIRSCHELE KATE
A Naples based designer with Indiana roots and a strong passion for designing inviting and beautiful homes for clients. I graduated from Purdue University and earned a degree in Interior Design, coupled with a minor in Construction Management and a Certification in Entrepreneurship. Since moving to Naples in 2020, I have gained residential design experience in exclusive neighborhoods such as Port Royal, Grey Oaks, Bay Colony, and Pelican Bay. My philosophy is based on timeless and approachable design and my projects are primarily large-scale, full renovations or new construction. When I am not designing, you will find me exploring the great outdoors. My love for nature and staying active inspires me to incorporate natural elements and inspiration into my designs.
Megin is an expressive writer and artist with work published in books, newspapers, corporate communications and online. As a mother to her active young son, she is inspired to explore interesting people and places.
Mary started playing with her dad’s L.C. Smith manual typewriter as a child in the 1960s, and followed him into the newspaper business as a teenager. After 20 years in smokefilled newsrooms chasing ambulances for stories, she joined the world of corporate communications where her passion for non-profits was born. She went on to run two private family foundations helping to solve world problems, one person at a time. She and her husband Jeff found their retirement nirvana in Ave Maria five years ago and haven’t missed Wisconsin winters one little bit.
Kate is wife to a really good man and mom to their seven sons, as well as a professional writer, college-level writing tutor, and high school Spanish teacher. Her work has appeared both in print and online in such places as the Saratoga TODAY family of publications, CatholicMom.com, Nameberry, and Mothering magazine; she also wrote a book entitled Catholic Baby Names for Girls and Boys: Over 250 Ways to Honor Our Lady (Marian Press, 2018). You can email her at kmtowne23@gmail.com.
from the publisher's desk
The time is Now...
Every day on Facebook I hear people complaining about little issues around town, and I must admit occasionally I am among those complaining. Yes, I can whine with the best of them. While complaining, for the sole purpose of complaining, achieves nothing, I believe most of us simply want to maintain the integrity of our safe, vibrant, and faith-filled community.
So, how do we maintain our little slice of heaven in SW Florida? Let’s deconstruct this scenario and get to the core of the issue.
We will begin with the following assumptions:
To have a strong region, we must have strong communities.
To have strong communities, we must have strong families.
To have strong families, we must have strong faith.
First, let’s each reflect on the true nature of our individual faith. Think about that for a few minutes and then continue reading. To help, we will begin with a story.
While having lunch with Michael, he tells me he is a sailor.
I respond: That’s great Michael, I am really interested in sailing.
I ask Michael if he goes sailing every week, to which he replies: no.
I ask Michael if he reads THE book about sailing, to which he replies: no.
I ask Michael if he ever visits the sailing club, to which he replies: no.
I ask Michael if he is teaching his children about sailing, to which he replies, no.
I ask Michael if he gets together with other sailors, to discuss sailing, to which he replies: no.
I ask Michael if he practices his sailing techniques, to which he replies: no.
I ask Michael if he helps other people who want to become sailors, to which he replies: no.
Finally, I ask Michael why he thinks he is a sailor. Michael replies: Well, I believe in sailing, and I visit a sailboat every Christmas.
This scenario may sound silly, but is this how we treat our faith? Simply saying something doesn’t make it true.
If the only proof that you are a Christian, is you saying, “I believe in God,” that is a very shallow commitment. You know who else believes in God? The devil!
I have always lived by the belief that one should delve deeply into their interests if they want to achieve superior results. For example, know the history; who the main players were; how it started; what are the rules; who are the leading players today; how can one become better, etc. Simply put, if you are committing time and energy into something, thoroughly understand that ‘something.’
And if we are serious, is there any more important interest than eternal salvation?
So, as we prepare for the upcoming season of Lent, I invite you to live your faith; Go to church every week. LISTEN, and take it to heart. Donate to the poor. Get off your devices and spend silent time in prayer. Attend holy hours. Sit down for family dinners and begin with Grace. Watch the series ‘The Chosen’. Volunteer at your church or a community center. Meet with your Priest or Pastor and talk. There are great books available about ‘Understanding Your Faith,’ buy one and read it every night.
This will require sacrifice, but what good is ever achieved without self-sacrifice?
I can attest from personal experience that it is worth it. While my journey has been filled with unexpected setbacks and encouraging victories, it is a continuous work in progress. So, hang in there and commit.
Circling back to the beginning; If we have strong faith, we will have strong families. If we have strong families, we will have strong communities. And if we have strong communities, we will have a strong town.
God Bless!
- Chad
TUESDAYS & SATURDAYS Jan. 14 - Apr. 26
LIVE MUSIC | Town Center
Enjoy shopping and dining with live music from 11 a.m. – 2 p.m.
TUESDAYS Jan. 14 - Apr. 22
TROLLEY TOURS | Ave Maria Welcome Center
Enjoy a complimentary 1-hour narrated trolley tour around town, learn its history and enjoy live entertainment. Tours depart from 11 a.m. – 2 p.m. on the hour. For questions call (239) 352- 3903
SATURDAY Jan. 25
STEAK COOK-OFF | Town Center
In its 15th year, The Sunshine State Steak Cook-Off has become the largest steak competition east of the Mississippi, with more than 2000 steaks grilled. This family event from 2–6 p.m., features food, music, games and fun. All proceeds are donated to charity. To register as a grill team or to purchase tickets, visit sssco.org.
SATURDAY Feb. 15
BLUES, BREWS & BBQ FESTIVAL | Town Center
From noon to 5 p.m., this fun festival includes blues entertainment with Deb & The Dynamics, and Old School, as well as a car show by the Cool Cruisers, food trucks, BBQ, and a wide variety of craft beers. Cornhole games and children’s activities round out the festival, making it an enjoyable day for the whole family.
SATURDAY Mar. 15
SHAMROCK FESTIVAL | Town Center
From noon to 5 p.m. everyone’s Irish at the Ave Maria Shamrock Festival. This is sure to be a fun family day that kicks off with a golf cart parade at noon and local Irish band, The Crows, followed by kids’ activities, Irish Soda Bread contest at The Bean, and Celtic dance performances by Kellyn Celtic Dance.
MONDAY - WEDNESDAY Mar. 31-Apr. 2
LENTEN MISSION | Ave Maria Parish
From 7– 8:30 p.m. come for prayer, talks and reflection as we journey through Lent in preparation of Jesus’s Resurrection. Come one night or all three. For more information visit AveMariaParish.org.
SATURDAYS through Apr. 26
AVE MARIA FARMER’S MARKET
Town Center
Browse and shop locally sourced goods with entertainment from 9 a.m. – 2 p.m.
TUESDAYS through Apr. 22
AVE MARIA PARISH CHURCH TOURS | Town Center
From 1–3 p.m. enjoy a guided 30-minute tour of the world-renowned church in “Our Lady’s Town,” while taking in the stunning details of the Frank Lloyd Wright inspired architecture.
SATURDAY & SUNDAY Jan. 25 & 26, Mar. 22 & 23
ART FESTIVAL | Town Center
From 10 a.m. – 5 p.m. find a unique blend of boutique art and artisanal crafts, from intricate jewelry and pottery to hand-woven textiles and elegant home décor, plus so much more!
SATURDAY Feb. 1
TASTE OF AVE | Town Center
From Noon to 5 p.m. enjoy all Ave Maria has to offer with live bands, raffles, shopping, dining, and children’s activities.
SATURDAY Mar. 8
IMMOKALEE CATTLE DRIVE & JAMBOREE
Main Street, Immokalee
Experience the pioneer spirit and rich agricultural history of Florida’s heartland with the Immokalee Cattle Drive and Jamboree beginning on Main Street and ending at the Pioneer Museum at Roberts Ranch. For the schedule of events please visit colliermuseums.com/immokalee-cattle-drive-and-jamboree.
FRIDAY - SUNDAY Mar. 28 & 30
AVE UNIVERSITY DRAMA CLUB MUSICAL
Contact Ave Maria University for more information and tickets
SATURDAY Apr. 5
MARGARITA AND TACO FESTIVAL | Town Center
From Noon to 5 p.m. bring your lawn chairs and the family to enjoy live bands, food trucks featuring Mexican specialties, exotic animal show and a car show.
Ave Maria GOVERNMENT
the Nuts & Bolts
As a new, or seasoned homeowner, Ave Maria government can be confusing to say the least. From the Master Association to individual HOA’s, it’s not always clear to whom you should be speaking.
Beginning with this edition we will break down the three primary associations that keep our town running smoothly. In each edition we will have an introduction page with a basic overview (this page), followed by a deeper dive into one of the three associations.
We hope this helps you navigate your day-to-day life in Ave Maria, and fully enjoy everything this town has to offer.
Ave Maria MASTER ASSOCIATION
The Master Association maintains the Common Area Amenities: North Park, South Park, Water Park, & Fitness Center. The responsibility of the Ave Maria Master Association is to improve the value and the quality of life in our community. The Master Association is funded by quarterly dues.
Ave Maria DEVELOPMENT
AMD is a partnership between the Barron Collier Companies.
AMD manages the ground floor & all commercial space in and around the Town Center, as well as all businesses and property around Annunciation Circle, the Publix Plaza, the Mobil Gas Station Plaza, and the Park of Commerce.
Your primary contact for the Master Association is: Kim Twiss
EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR
Kim.Twiss@ fsresidential.com
Ave Maria STEWARDSHIP COMMUNITY DISTRICT
The Ave Maria Stewardship District maintains the infrastructure outside of Ave Maria’s neighborhoods. This includes: Ave Maria Boulevard, Anthem Parkway (except in Del Webb), Parts of Roma Street, Sidewalks and Golf Cart paths on Stewardship roads.
• A Stewardship Community District is an independent, special taxing district authorized by special act of the Florida Legislature
Your primary contact for Ave Maria Development is: Cee Cee Marinelli VICE PRESIDENT of Commercial Real Estate cmarinelli@ barroncollier.com
Your primary contact for Ave Maria Stewardship District is:
Allyson Holland DISTRICT MANAGER aholland@sdsinc.org
Ave Maria Stewardship District is funded by: An assessment on your Collier County property tax bill, which is sent each November.
MASTER ASSOCIATION AVE MARIA
The Ave Maria Master Association is comparable to a city’s Department of Parks & Recreation. The Master Association is responsible for:
• Managing and maintaining the Resident Amenities - North Park, South Park, Water Park, and the Fitness Center.
• Collecting maintenance fees & resolving maintenance work orders for the parks.
MANAGEMENT
• Paying & monitoring services provided by contractors for community services in the parks.
• Assist the Amenities Board in all administrative details.
The Ave Maria Master Association hired FirstService Residential to manage the day-to-day operations of the Association. Their primary responsibility is to improve the value and the quality of life in our community. They regularly review the overall needs of the community and prioritize how those needs can be met most efficiently and effectively.
Our primary contact is the executive director of the Ave Maria Master Association: Kim Twiss 239-867-4322 | Kim.Twiss@fsresidential.com
• Providing lifestyleenhancing activities and events, and providing Master Association publications and e-blasts to homeowners.
BOARD OF DIRECTORS
The Board of Directors for the Ave Maria Master Association meets on an annual basis. The Annual/ Budget meetings are usually held in November. The Board members, who are all Barron Collier employees, consists of the following:
President David Genson
Vice President John English
Secretary/Treasurer Jaime Lopez
AMENITY COMMITTEE
The Amenities Committee handles recommendations to the Board Of Directors for the parks, fitness center, and overall lifestyle. Committee member are as follows:
Ave Maria Development Cee Cee Marinelli
Pulte Scott Brooks
FUN FACT
Inside the Master Association (5080 Annunciation Circle) is a lending library. If you are a bibliophile, voracious reader, or just want to check out the selection, stop in during business hours.
FUNDING
The Master Association is funded by quarterly dues paid by homeowners. These dues go to your Ave Maria Master Association account.
They are due in January, April, July, and October. Assessments are posted on the 1st of the month and are due before the 28th to be considered on-time. The dues cover costs for maintaining the amenities of Ave Maria.
As of 2024, the dues are $209 per quarter.
Ave Maria R tary
WRITTEN BY MARY HARP-JIRSCHELE
Membership organizations throughout the country – from clubs to churches – are struggling to grow or even maintain current levels of participation. Numbers were already down during pre-COVID years, but it became exceedingly more difficult since that time. Most organizations were lucky to simply survive versus thrive. However, Ave Maria has bucked that trend and successfully launched a new service organization that is gaining traction and poised to make a real difference for the people of this community and beyond.
The Rotary Club of Ave Maria was officially established in June 2024 and has united residents and businesses in a new and unique way. The club evolved from a local-business group that was formed by Avalon Park resident JD Ribali in 2017. The Ave Maria Business Network brought businesspeople together on a monthly basis to hear from speakers and learn from each other. The group grew as the community flourished, and in March of 2023 the idea of transforming the business networking group to a service-oriented club was born. Garry Grove, who was previously a Rotary Club member in both Alabama and Tennessee, approached the Master Association about starting a club in Ave Maria, and was connected with Ribali. In just over a year, it all came together, and the Rotary leadership from the southeast corridor of Florida is thrilled with the development.
“You have everything you need to be an extremely successful club,” said Don Thomas of Cape Coral, Rotary District Past President and current membership chair for the region. “Pairing a business network with a community service mentality is terrific. We look for great things from your group. You are positioned very well to make a considerable impact on your community. I really believe your club is going to be a star in the district.” And that says a lot – the district runs from Tampa Bay to Marco Island and has many wellestablished and well-endowed Rotary clubs.
Who: JD Ribali
Hometown: Loveland, CO
Moved to Ave Maria: 2016
Why Ave Maria?
“We were headed to Naples but got so much more for our money here.”
Family: Married 30 years to Kristina; two grown children (son in the Space Force)
Employment: Founder/CEO of Top Notch University – School of Entrepreneurship; Publisher of the Ave Maria Business Guide; Founder of BizKidz USA; Owner, Top Notch Home Pros and Top Notch Home Watch
Interesting career twists: Started a successful lawn care business at age 13, which he sold 23 years later; served 12 years as Army combat medic but never saw combat (his squad was deployed to Iraq after he left)
Something you’d never guess about him: Learned he was dyslexic in the 3rd grade and was told he’d never graduate. Fast forward, he has a Bachelor’s degree in Business & Communications and a Master’s degree in Business Administration.
First entrepreneurial endeavor: At age 7, unbeknownst to his mother, he went door-to-door selling her cucumber crop in order to make money to visit the ice cream truck that roamed the neighborhood.
Statement he lives by: “It’s what I teach the BizKidz: ‘Celebrate the failures.’ That’s where you learn the most.”
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Rotary International is a service club with more than 1.2 million members worldwide who join together to address community needs. The organization is facing the same stagnant membership issues as other nonprofits, and Thomas emphasized that it is no small task to start a new club. But thanks to the entrepreneurial spirit that is alive and well in Ave Maria, a few people banding together accomplished the feat in a very short time.
The Rotary Club of Ave Maria was officially chartered with 24 members at a ceremony attended by 11 clubs from the district. To help get the new club started off on solid ground, those clubs brought with them checks totaling $3,500 to seed the Ave Maria treasury. “That show of support was very heartwarming,” club President Ribali said. “Their encouragement and backing let us know that all our hard work was paying off and that we made a good decision to evolve to a service-centered organization.”
Each Rotary club is autonomous and can pick its areas of service to focus on, and the Ave Maria club has already identified water safety for children as its first priority. “Josh the Otter” is a nationally renowned teaching tool used to provide water safety training, and locally hundreds of books featuring the charming water safety mascot have already been distributed at community events. The next step for the club is to sponsor water safety education programs at various sites in Ave Maria in the coming year.
Ribali is excited about the potential for Rotary to serve the broader Ave Maria community. “My dream is to have a good, strong group of people to help our community members. From dropping off meals to seniors in their homes to supporting programs of importance to kids, that’s where I see the need in Ave Maria.” The club is already active in supporting BizKids, an effort to provide students aged 7-18 with the knowledge, skills and experience to become successful entrepreneurs. Throughout the year, you can find the youths at BizKidz Markets selling everything from their handmade dog leashes to tasty lemonade and baked products.
Rotary Cub of Ave Maria meets from 6:30-7:45 p.m. the second and last Mondays of each month. For more information, go to www.avemariabiz.com and look for the Rotary tab.
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One Gift. Every Occasion.
We believe personal expression – especially when entertaining – is part of the fun. Mix and match and collect all the toppers as you please.
AVAILABLE AT...
Stella Rose Way
5064 Annunciation Circle, Ave Maria 239-207-6560 | stellaroseway.com
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Illuminate Your World
With inspiration as their guide, each collection of Voluspa candles brings together ingredients to capture the essence of the adventure through layers of scent and expressive artistry.
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The Secret Ingredient
5064 Annunciation Circle, Ave Maria 239-213-0990 | shopthesecretingredient.com
Cool Vibes, Stylish Threads
A bag to match every personality.
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The Secret Ingredient
5064 Annunciation Circle, Ave Maria 239-213-0990 shopthesecretingredient.com
Whether you’re a local, visiting for the day, or planning your new SW Florida home, these downtown shops have something for everyone!
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Ready to Wear Charms
Whether it’s your outlook on life or your personal style, you can create meaningful, beautiful jewelry that makes a statement about you!
AVAILABLE AT...
Stella Rose Way
5064 Annunciation Circle, Ave Maria 239-207-6560 | stellaroseway.com
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Crucifix
Crucifixes are powerful visual reminders of God’s love, and remind us to bear our own crosses daily. All sizes, designs and colors.
AVAILABLE AT...
Ave Maria Religious Store
5080 Annunciation Circle, Ave Maria 239-867-4336 avemariareligiousgifts.com
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Easy Shopping
We make shopping easy... from apparel, leotards, shorts, skirts, shoes, and tights!
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Ave Maria Dance Academy
5068 Annunciation, Ave Maria 239-261-2606 avemariadanceacademy.com
Etiquette:
The Rules Road
I have heard Ave Maria described as the following: a golf-cart community; a walkable community; and a bikeable community. While golf carts follow standard motor vehicle laws (other than driving on sidewalks), and walking is…well walking, does everyone know the rules of the road for those 2-wheeled people-powered cruisers?
Since this town is filled with cyclists of all categories: adults, kids, and teams, we thought it wise to give the adults a refresher and provide fresh information for the kids. And if you have driven by any school bus stops, you know that they look like used bike shops! So, parents, please review all this information with your little ones.
Top Tips
1. VISIBILITY: Add lights to your bike and wear reflective clothing.
2. HAND SIGNALS: Know the basics for yourself and the cars on the road.
3. NOISE: Bells and horns help to alert everyone of your presence, especially pedestrians.
4. RESPECT THE ROAD: Stay in designated bike lanes and obey all traffic signals and signs.
5. RESPECT PEDESTRIANS: In addition to sharing the road with vehicles, cyclists share the sidewalks, paths and intersections with pedestrians. Reduce your speed and yield to pedestrians.
Kn w kn ts
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WRITTEN BY CHAD BEATTY
Whether for fun, or for an emergency situation, knowing some basics knots is an important life-skill.
And learning a new life skill is a great way to bond with your child while preparing them for life.
We will begin with a figure 8 on a bight. It is called a figure 8, because at completion, the knot should look like a figure 8. The figure 8 family of knots are used for making loops to anchor the end of the rope to any object.
Step 1
Grab a bight of rope. A bight is formed by doubling back a length of the rope against itself to form a U.
Step 2
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Grab the bight and loop it around the strands.
Step 3
Loop it around the strands a second time.
Step 4
Push the bight through the opening.
Step 5
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Pull the bight all the way through. As the knot tightens make sure to adjust all the strands, so they are parallel with each other and not crossing over each other. (This is called dressing the knot.)
Make sure the tail of the rope (the free end of the rope) is at least 2” long.
mothering boys...
his is what sometimes looks like anxiety
WRITTEN BY KATHERINE MORNA TOWNE
When my youngest was born, I was diagnosed with postpartum depression and anxiety and went to therapy every week for four months (which I loved).
One of the things I learned in therapy was that my anxiety has been around for a while — I just didn’t know that’s what it was called. As a mom, it’s been interesting for me to see that there are some very specific times that it’s more obvious than others (including when my therapist told me I no longer needed
One of those circumstances is leaving the hospital after having a baby. I’ve seen a bunch of memes and posts online that reveal I’m not the only one who feels panic set in when being sent home from the hospital with a brandnew baby. I was never really worried I wouldn’t know how to take care of the baby, or that I didn’t know what to do when the baby cried, or that the baby was surely too fragile for my rough adult ways, or that the work and exhaustion that loomed was daunting. It was more than being at home meant there was no safety net — no nurses checking in on the baby and me regularly, no nurses available at the touch of a button day and night, no doctor just down the hall *just in case*.
By the time of discharge I was ready to go home, I really was, and even in the hospital I wasn’t the kind of patient who used the call button all the time or was high maintenance in any way (I’m actually the kind of patient who would rather wait until my arm has actually fallen off before taking the embarrassing step of letting someone know my arm hurts. Not because I’m tough! It’s because it embarrasses me to inconvenience others!). But there was something so reassuring about knowing that if I ever encountered a situation with the baby that I didn’t know how to handle or that was serious and especially timesensitive, the baby was in good hands.
Another of those circumstances was when we added on to our house. When we were looking for what we hoped would be our “forever” house about fifteen years ago, the only houses we could find that were big enough for the big family we hoped to have, with a yard, and that were within our price range, were outside the area I wanted to be. It was important to me to be within walking distance of my parents, school, and church (I’m sure you’re rolling your eyes just as much as my husband did back then! I may not be a high maintenance patient, but I’m sometimes a high maintenance wife), but the only houses we could find within our budget (when we could find any at all!) were very small. We had a few conversations discussing the pros and cons of a bigger house outside my desired location or a small house in the location I wanted, and we (I) ultimately decided we (I) were committed to location.
We hoped to add on when the time came, in large part because our sweet 1.5 story house couldn’t accommodate bunk beds in the bedrooms because of the slanted ceilings, and if nothing else we needed to be able to fit beds for all our future children. We were able to do so a few years later and had an awesome contractor who did an amazing job; he and his crew were in the house daily for a solid three months. As much as I liked them all and loved watching the progress, we were so eager for it all to be done and to have
the privacy of our home back. But! As soon as they packed up all their things and were gone for good, I felt that familiar dread settle in that I always felt upon leaving the hospital with the baby. It was so reassuring when the guys were here! If anything went wrong in the house, they could fix it! It wasn’t all on me to identify problems and call the right people and hope the house didn’t fall apart under my watch.
The most recent experience I had like that had to do with my then-fifteen-year-old son — he broke his femur playing soccer and was in a hip-to-toes cast for eight weeks; my husband and I and my parents had to help him with every aspect of daily life and care for a good while, and I even slept on the couch in the next room for the first week or so (he slept on the couch for those months because he couldn’t go upstairs) and set my alarm for the middle of the night to accommodate his pain med schedule (it felt like having a baby again!). His ordeal is one of those things that took up all of my brain space and heart space that wasn’t being used for survival for a solid three months, and I had to make a concerted effort not to talk about it all the time, because all I could think of to talk about with anyone was his leg. No one likes it when someone talks about the same thing all the time that’s only relevant to them! So anyway. His ordeal was *our* ordeal, and even though he likes to downplay its seriousness and insists it wasn’t as big a deal as I thought it was, I’m telling you that it was a very big deal. Looping back to the topic at hand, I felt very attached to and dependent
on his surgical and care team in the hospital, his pediatrician, and the physical therapy team that got him back to regular life. When the cast was finally off and even the brace was no longer needed and my son had his last physical therapy session, I felt that feeling. I imagine it’s a little bit like how with sky diving you just have to trust that your parachute will open. It’s definitely a leap-of-faith feeling. I definitely wanted to ask every one of those trained professionals to move in with us, just until we were totally, one hundred percent sure that everything will be okay.
I am not an expert in anxiety and can certainly in no way comment on anyone else’s mental health struggles, but I wanted to share something that a mental health professional shared with me that I’ve found helpful many times: when I start feeling that dreadful panic, I should try to remember all the other times I’ve felt it and how, each time, it all ultimately worked out. Truly, there have never been any emergencies or situations that weren’t ultimately managed. As a woman of faith, I also remind myself of my sincere belief that if I were really in a bind, help would come — usually through others. “Just pray and do the best you can,” as my mom always says! With much hope that this year has started well for you, I wish you a very happy New Year! I hope 2025 is your best year yet!
Kate and her husband have seven sons ages 20, 18, 16, 14, 12, 10, and 6. Email her at kmtowne23@gmail.com.
ARTIST SPOTLIGHT TYLER HENATAY.
Tyler grew up in Southern California, where his love for coastal life first took root. His early sketchbooks are filled with drawings of dilapidated buildings perched above the coastline, antique motorcycles on the edge of Pacific Coast Highway with waves crashing in the background, and sailboats set against golden sunsets.
“My creative process is a combination of the relentless pursuit of technical skill, without losing the ‘vibe’ of a certain scene.” Tyler commented. “The trick is to balance technical skill with the emotions and childlike wonder I feel in the presence of various situations.”
In 2014, Tyler embarked on a life-changing journey with his young family, spending two years on the road in their vintage travel trailer. Their cross-country travels exposed them to the vast array of landscapes and cultures across America, ultimately leading to a new home in southwest Florida. Here, Tyler rediscovered his passion for painting, particularly drawn to the vibrant wildlife, striking coastlines, and captivating sunsets of Florida's natural beauty.
“Sandhill Cranes are incredible to see just wandering around my backyard, wind tearing through sails on a beam reach makes me giddy,” Tyler quipped. “Even just looking up into the everchanging sky is inspirational.”
These scenes embody Tyler's passion for capturing the rugged charm of coastal living.
For the past six years, Tyler has showcased his art in galleries, art shows, and local markets. “The dynamic landscapes of southern Florida provide endless inspiration for new pieces.”
Through his art, he aims to capture the essence of this region’s serene yet vibrant character, conveying both its tranquility and untamed spirit. Each painting becomes a story, an exploration of the unique perspective that Florida’s natural wonders continue to offer.
When asked about his creative process, he commented “My motivation comes from a desire for excellence and self-sufficiency. I can study and work to master various artistic disciplines with reckless abandon, and still get to spend time with my family, even make them part of the process.”
There is an old saying that goes, ‘spending time with family, is time well spent’ and Tyler lives that sentiment. “Wandering the state looking for places that embody a simpler time, and then capturing them as best as possible has become a family affair.” He added. “While it may not be the most efficient, it is certainly the most pleasant, and a worthwhile endeavor to me.”
I originally met Tyler at the Ave Maria Farmers Market, where I found about five pieces I loved. But if you have a special request, he is more than happy to speak with you. “I love doing commissions. When someone has the moxie to say, "I want this specific thing on my wall, and I want it done the way you paint!" It makes me happy and proud and humbled.”
While each commission project is unique, Tyler welcomes all requests. “I do everything in my power to bring their vision to life. I've never had a situation where a client was anything other than ecstatic, and I've never delivered a commission I wasn't proud of.”
To learn more about Tyler and artwork, visit: stormcloudartworks.com
CORKSc
WRITTEN BY ÉLISE ROSE | PHOTOS BY FLORIDA AUDUBON
DDeep in the western Everglades, less than half an hour away from Ave Maria, lies a place unique in all the world, the Audubon Corkscrew Swamp Sanctuary. The refuge plays an important part in preserving ancient plant specimens, in providing habitat for wild animals, and in storing water and cleaning storm runoff. Most of all, its wild, stunning beauty stands in stark contrast to the paved and developed parts of southwest Florida.
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Visitors can walk along an elevated wooden boardwalk, either a one-mile loop or a 2.25-mile loop to view four different types of habitat: the Bald Cypress Forest, the Freshwater Marsh, the Wet Prairie, and the Pine Flatwoods.
Perhaps the most iconic of these is the Bald Cypress Forest. The Audubon Corkscrew Swamp Sanctuary contains the largest oldgrowth bald cypress swamp in the world. Some of the trees are 500 to 600 years old, meaning they were here before the age of European exploration. The bald cypress forest looks like a cartoon concept of a spooky swamp. The huge trees (50-150 feet) are festooned with grey Spanish moss. Even on a sunny day in early winter, when most of the needles have fallen, it’s dark. The cypresses grow in standing water that looks like tea: very clear, but stained dark brown from tannins.
And of course, there are alligators lurking in the water, or even draped across the cypress knees. Don’t worry; visitors are on an elevated boardwalk where the alligators can’t reach.
The bald cypress is a tall deciduous conifer. Unlike most conifers, its needles change color and drop off in the late fall. Because its roots are under water, the tree grows “cypress knees”, knobby growths above the water line, several feet away from the main trunk. These provide oxygen to the submerged part of the roots. They take strange, twisted shapes that could be mistaken for mythical creatures.
The heartwood of the bald cypress is resistant to rot, so it is very desirable for building. Seventy years ago, the old-growth forests had been logged almost to extinction when a group of local residents decided to purchase the original land for the sanctuary. The land, now over 13,000 acres, is now owned by the Audubon Society, but the sanctuary is a separate nonprofit organization.
If you go in summer, you may get to see the flowers of the ghost orchid, the elusive species featured in the book The Orchid Thief. The spidery, delicate white flowers are growing 40 feet high in a tree, so bring your binoculars.
Many of the wild birds we see in Ave Maria are present in far greater numbers in the sanctuary, because of the favorable habitat. More than three dozen bird species can be seen in the preserve. Some, such as the white ibis and anhinga, a dark diving bird, are year-round residents; others, such as the wood stork and the colorful painted bunting, are winter visitors.
VISITOR INFORMATION
375 Sanctuary Road West Naples, FL 34120
(239) 348-9151 corkscrew.audubon.org/
General admission: $17
US Military members with ID: $14
National Audubon Society Members with ID: $14
College students with ID: $10
Children 6-14: $6
Children 5 and under: free
Corkscrew Swamp Sanctuary members: free
Inquire about group discounts
The preserve contains more wood storks than anywhere else in the U.S. These striking, very large wading birds stand over three-feet-tall, with a wingspan of five-feet. They mate and build their nests over standing water in the dry season, late winter and early spring. You may see their flocks congregating with pink roseate spoonbills. After their eggs hatch, they leave for other parts of the southeastern US.
The Freshwater Marsh habitat consists of grasses growing in standing water, but has no trees. In this sunny area you can see small birds, butterflies and bees. The Wet Prairie is similar, but the plants are growing in mud, not standing water. The Pine Flatwoods occupy drier ground. The trees are immense, even taller than the bald cypresses, and evergreen, so it’s also quite shady.
Swamps such as the Corkscrew Sanctuary form an essential part of the water cycle. They act as reservoirs for water and places where stormwater runoff is cleaned as it settles into the swamp.
Winter hours (Dec. 16-April 30)
8am-5pm; last visitors admitted at 3pm. Summer hours (May 1-Dec.15) 8am-3pm; last visitors admitted at 1pm. Visitors are advised to bring water and sunscreen.
The sanctuary is part of the Comprehensive Everglades Restoration Project. Its own research projects include habitat conservation and wildlife movement, and the impacts of development and of water levels on plant and animal species. For instance, they use small planes flying above the area to look for wood stork nests. Educational programs help ensure that the next generation learns about preservation.
The sanctuary has excellent accessibility for those using wheelchairs or walkers. Both of the trails are along a flat wooden boardwalk and the visitors’ center has wheelchairs and strollers available. For children, you might want to download in advance the scavenger hunt page, which lists various plant and animal species they might see. There’s a gift shop which is open year-round and a café which is open December 16-April 30.
AN INCREASING NUMBER OF AMERICANS ARE COPING WITH CHRONIC CONDITIONS.
According to the Centers for Disease Control, six out of every ten adults have been diagnosed with a chronic illness such as heart disease, cancer, lung disease, kidney disease, diabetes, etc. Four in ten adults have two or more.
These numbers have been rapidly increasing during the last twenty years and are significantly higher than just a decade ago. While the largest cause of chronic conditions is an individual’s lifestyle choices, some doctors are saying that rather than enabling them to help guide their patients on a productive path toward improved health, traditional fee-based care is trapping the most vulnerable of the population in an impersonal, ineffective, fractured, and reactionary system. But there is a solution…
TO CONCIERGE MEDICINE Welcome
“I was frustrated with a health care system that is primarily driven by numbers” said Dr. Raul Enad. “Concierge Medicine is the answer to that frustration”
Dr. Enad was in his10th year with the Franciscan Physician Network in Northwest Indiana when he resolved to focus on balancing his life: his medical career, his family, and his health. Little did he know that a job offer at a Medical Clinic in Fort Myers would change everything.
“I was invited for a personal interview in Miami. On my way to Fort Meyers to visit my prospective workplace, I noticed signs leading to a town called Ave Maria. With little expectation, I took the turn that led me to Ave Maria.” Dr. Enad vividly remembers his first impression. “It literally began with the welcoming feel of that first sign. The road led me to the town center with an impressive, beautiful Church that stood majestically tall. I parked my car, and little did I know I was directly in front of the location of my future practice!”
He and his family moved the day after his last day working in Indiana, and he immediately embraced the community lifestyle. “On my first day in Ave Maria, I started my devotion to Eucharistic adoration - I was naturally drawn to visit the Blessed Sacrament twice a day. My desire to bring the Eucharist to the lives of my patients became stronger. I became more convinced that holistic healing of a person should be centered on Meditation: Guided breathing and Mindfulness of Christ's Unconditional Love for humanity through His Passion.
"I WAS FRUSTRATED WITH A HEALTH CARE SYSTEM THAT IS PRIMARILY DRIVEN BY NUMBERS. CONCIERGE MEDICINE IS THE ANSWER TO THAT FRUSTRATION."
When asked what led him to concierge medicine, Dr. Enad stressed that the current model destroys the ability of the physician to engage with the patient and attend to the complexity of the medical problem. “I am very dedicated to giving quality care that truly covers the needs of the entire person, including the soul of the person. The engagement process takes time, which is impossible to deliver with the standard healthcare model that is based on delivering volume.”
Dr. Enad stressed how much easier it is for the patient to get seen by the physician at Cadenza Medical Clinic. “Patients need someone to help them navigate through the maze of the complex health care network; get referred to other doctors and make the treatment plan more sensible and less confusing. In my practice, I can get my patients seen quicker by other specialists.
“Practical treatment is also delivered in the clinic the same day by delivering same-day lab results, IV Fluid treatment, and IV Vitamins and trace minerals. These are simple solutions for simple problems like fatigue and dehydration.”
While discussing vocations, he highlighted that medicine and faith cannot be separated. “Catholic Faith is rich in teachings that would make a person healthy: Fasting, Corporal mortification, and Meditation.” He added, “The catechism teaches us about venial sins which are relevant to our health, such as Gluttony, which can result in metabolic dysfunctions causing inflammation and aging; Sloth, which results in lack of physical activity; and Pride, which sometimes results in non-compliance with recommended treatment.”
His practice is for everyone who embraces the concept of approaching the medical problem in a Holistic way, and not just getting treatment like antibiotics or pain medicine for instant gratification. If you are looking for personalized, convenient, and customer-centric care, Cadenza Medical Clinic may be the place for you and your family.
Fifty-Thousand Bricks Later…
RosaryWall
Becomes Reality
WRITTEN BY MARY HARP-JIRSCHELE | PHOTOS BY RANDALL PERRY PHOTOGRAPHY
Most people know Tom Monaghan as a respected entrepreneur and visionary. Those qualities brought Ave Maria to life. What they might not know is that he studied architecture and is one of the foremost collectors of Frank Lloyd Wright artifacts. All of that has combined to generate one of the newest and most visible developments on the Ave Maria University campus – the Rosary Wall.
While under construction on Ave Maria Boulevard for almost a year, the Rosary Wall was somewhat a mystery to anyone who happened by. There was no “big announcement” about it, no groundbreaking, no public fundraising. One late-Fall day in 2023, big pallets of
bricks simply appeared in a grassy area in front of the dorms facing the main street in town. As the holiday season approached and construction was yet to begin, Monaghan himself suggested the bricks be “wrapped” and tied with bows to simulate Christmas presents. The “buzz” in the community heightened.
It soon became public knowledge that the coming “gift” was a Rosary Wall. But that didn’t answer many questions. As people searched the internet to determine what exactly a “Rosary Wall” was, they came up empty. Chances are this is the only one in the country – and even if there is another, it’s nothing like Ave Maria’s.
“The Rosary Wall was a vision of Tom Monaghan’s when Ave Maria was still a tomato field,” said Jim Thomas, Vice President of Advancement at the university. Interestingly, Thomas found a balsa wood rendering of the wall in a storage room at the university and brought it out last summer to give people a three-dimensional sense of what Monaghan’s dream was all those years ago.
As the dream started to become reality, University President Mark Middendorf actually coined the term "Rosary Wall.” As Thomas tells it, "The combination of Mark Middendorf and Tom Monaghan brought this project and its name to life. They share an entrepreneurial spirit and a passion for Catholicism.”
Actual construction began in July 2024 with completion set for January 2025.
The wall spans 624 feet along Ave Maria Boulevard, between Dolan and Donahue streets and simulates Frank Lloyd Wright-style architecture. It is constructed in zig-zag fashion, and there are 26 separate segments to the wall, each 24 feet in length and 8 feet high. In all, the wall is comprised of nearly 50,000 bricks. There are six screened pavilions, accessed easily by students from the nearby dorms. Those pavilions feature lighting, electricity and a fan for the comfort of those making use of them.
The Rosary Wall is multi-purpose in nature. “We want it to be a gathering place,” Thomas said. “We want people to say, ‘I’ll meet you at the wall.’ It’s a place for students to use on a daily basis for a variety of reasons. And it’s a resource for church members and community residents. It’s also a venue we will leverage for celebrations. We clearly want it to be a destination place for visitors.”
The Rosary Wall was built by Wright Construction Group from Fort Myers, and the architect was the renowned Victor Latavish of Naples, whose portfolio spans from church expansions to airport facilities and recreational buildings.
The project was funded by a small group of friends who banded together to make it happen. That special group, along with some 40,000 Founders who helped establish AMU in 2003, are honored with their names on the wall. Early on, it was agreed that the wall is the perfect place to thank the many people who have contributed to the University – estate gift donors, friends of the university and Founders. Thomas says, “We want someone to come to the display that honors the AMU donors and say with excitement, ‘Look, that’s my grandparents’ names right there!’”
Tom Monaghan’s dream of a Rosary Wall will continue to manifest itself well into the future, as more segments of the wall are expected to be built around the campus. “We’d love to see the wall surround the entire campus eventually,” Thomas said.
Truth be told, “Tom Monaghan’s hope is to have a ‘rosary walk’ along the Rosary Wall every hour of the day,” Thomas said. Each Sunday night, there is a group of students who pray the rosary while walking home from church. The Rosary Wall will be a peaceful place for students, community residents and even visitors to do just that, or for people to simply enjoy the serenity of the native landscaping and garden beds that surround the area while taking a stroll.
As Ave Maria continues to grow, so too does the University. The Rosary Wall is one of the many elements of AMU open to the community, and residents are invited to reap the benefits of living in a “college town” by learning more at www. avemaria.edu/events.
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Exploring the Cattle Industry in Southwest Florida
wide open ranges,
the silhouettes of majestic mountains or sandstone buttes in the distance, the rugged individualism of John Wayne or John Dutton on horseback…for as long as we have had media, Americans have associated cattle ranching and cowboys with the American west. Visitors to the Immokalee Pioneer Museum at Roberts Ranch, the historic home of one of Florida’s biggest cattle ranching families, are often surprised that the history of cattle in our country has its roots right in our own swampy backyard.
WIn 1521, Governor of Puerto Rico and conquistador Juan Ponce de León came to our area for what would be his second and last journey to “La Florida,” bringing with him a small heard of Andalusian cattle and horses. An ensuing skirmish with the Calusa people dealt Ponce de León a mortal wound and the cattle and horses their freedom in the wilds of Florida. Whether these cattle were the origins of the wild cattle population of Florida is debatable, but the cattle and horses he brought are considered the first to set hoof on what is now the continental United States.
Cattle ranching became an important industry for Spanish colonial Florida, and by 1700 there were approximately 34 ranches and 20,000 head of cattle in the colony concentrated in the heavily settled areas around St. Augustine and into the panhandle. As the politics of Spanish and British fighting in Europe negatively impacted the cattle ranching colonists, the early Seminole people in northern Florida moved into the cattle industry and sustained it throughout the 1700s. By 1775, Seminoles worked 7,000 to 10,000 head of cattle and many of the popular tactics employed by the later Florida crackers came from Seminole cattle keepers, such as the use of cattle dogs, certain open range practices, and the utilization of small, maneuverable horses called “marshtackies.” The Seminole Wars that dominated Florida from around the time of its acquisition by the United States until the eve of the Civil War resulted in the confiscation of large swaths of Seminole ranges, leading to an unfortunate downturn in cattle ranching for the tribe.
This new vacuum in the industry set the stage for homesteaders from Alabama, Georgia and the Carolinas to make their way down to Florida to try their hand at cattle ranching. Because Florida had extensive open range for grazing, few settlers needed to own the land their cattle grazed on, making cattle ranching an approachable start-up operation for these transplants. In the 1840s, the number of cattle increased rapidly in Florida, and the new state became second only to Texas in per capita value of livestock in the south. Throughout all these centuries, cultural groups, and political changes in Florida, one constant was that the cattle being reared in Florida were exported to Cuba. A disruption in trade to Cuba came during the Civil War, when Florida cattlemen were able to take advantage of the shorter supply in cattle production from other Confederate states. Post-war cattle trade with Cuba helped Florida recover financially from the Reconstruction-era depression, with the infusion of millions of dollars in gold doubloons into the economy via ranchers, shippers, and merchants.
The cattlemen of Florida, whether they were European, Indian, or American, all had to survive and work in an environment vastly different from the collective American image. Cowmen, also called cow hunters (not cowboys, that’s a western term), spent weeks or months on drives across the swampy marshes and dense scrub of Florida’s unique subtropical terrain. They faced intense heat, common in the American west, but also crushing humidity. Throw in many a torrential thunderstorm and the occasional hurricane-force winds, and you have an incredibly tough group of not just people, but cattle as well.
Surviving as a cattleman was hard, exhausting work, and not everyone was lucky or successful enough to make it. Settlers had to plant their own gardens to have a ready source of food, and preservation techniques were key. Crops frequently failed due to animal incursions, diseases, and weather. Panthers and other predators could decimate and disperse herds. A rancher’s horse or dogs could be killed, and without funds to secure and train new ones, the cow hunter’s dream might fail.
Cattlemen in Florida, especially the central and south regions, couldn't use the same techniques as western cowboys. Pine and scrub habitat was too thick for roping and long chases, so long whips were the preferred method of scaring cattle out of the thick undergrowth. These whips could be heard up to 2 miles away, and the loud signaling of cattlemen bringing in a herd gave these settlers the name of the "Florida Cracker." As previously mentioned, these crackers and ranchers preferred to call themselves cowpunchers, or cow hunters. Calling someone a cowman was a praise reserved for those who had proved their skills and worth over several years.
By the early 1900s the cattle being raised in Florida were no longer purely scrub cattle, or descendants of the original Andalusian heifers of 1521. Over the years they were interbred with English breeds brought down
by settlers pushing in from Georgia and were selectively crossed with Brahmans, Santa Gertrudis from Texas, as well as Red Devons. Photos from early Florida scrub cows show a small animal, about hip height, and between 300 and 600 pounds--about the size and weight of a beef calf today. Catch-dogs, or cow dogs accompanied a cow hunter and were key to their success in driving cattle. Today, the descendants of these original cur dogs can still be found, working cattle up and down the Florida peninsula.
Fencing laws were not introduced in Florida until the mid20th century, and it was an individual’s responsibility to fence their land if they did not want someone else’s cattle stomping through it. Disease also took a major toll on the Florida Cattle industry at this time, with the Texas tick fever and screw worms challenged the livelihoods of Florida cattlemen and women. These parasites pushed small producers to the brink of disaster, if not outright ruin, with many selling off their entire stock. At one point Georgia refused to allow any Florida cattle to be sent across the state border, and in 1923 the Florida legislature passed a tick eradication measure that required cattle to be dipped in vats with arsenic to kill the insects infecting them. With the pressures of these diseases and increased human population on the landscape, Florida officially ended the open range in 1949, becoming the last state in the union to require fencing.
Today, Florida is still among the top 15 states for beef production, and heritage breeds of cattle and horses can still be found in pockets all around the state. These examples of living history continue to influence the landscape, economy, and culture of our area and the state as a whole and are a persistent reminder that the land is full of possibility for those with the intent to build a life and the will to suffer unknown and hard times. The Immokalee Pioneer Museum at Roberts Ranch is the former cattle ranching homestead of Robert Roberts and his descendants, and a testament to that world of grit and opportunity. The Roberts family came to Immokalee in 1914 from more northern Ona Florida. Robert Roberts had worked as a cow hunter for large ranchers. He came to discover the Immokalee area after driving another rancher’s cattle through the area. He noted the quality land, open spaces, and lack of neighbors that would make Collier County a desirable destination for early settlers. Over time he and his wife Sarah raised nine children and amassed over 100,000 acres of ranch land. Generations of Roberts descendants work cattle and serve the Immokalee community to this day. The Museum honors the history of the Roberts family and all southwest Florida ranchers and pioneers and offers free programming for the public on traditional crafts like soapmaking and basketmaking, as well as through community events such as the annual Immokalee Cattle Drive and Jamboree, which will be on March 8th, 2025.
WRITTEN BY BECKY BRUEHL BESTUL
PHOTOS PROVIDED
Advice from
GatorBeth Living with Alligators
When a neighbor of Diane Roundy called to tell her an alligator was in her neighbor’s second floor lanai, right above her, in their condo in The National, Roundy’s response was, “No way!”
Roundy’s first floor condo veranda is located on the way to Hole #1 on the golf course. She immediately went out to her back lanai thinking the gator somehow crawled up the screens closest to the water. But no, the gator was in her neighbor’s front lanai. That means it took the stairs up—including a 90-degree turn — then more steps to the second floor, pushed open a lanai door and got stuck inside when the door closed behind it.
The owner of the condo was away on Nov. 13, but his Ring camera was triggering so he had asked neighbor Gary Lucas to go check it out. As Lucas approached the condo, he said he noticed the lanai furniture was tipped over and he thought it was odd as it hadn’t been windy. As he reached to open the door he caught the alligator in his peripheral view. Needless to say, he didn’t go inside. Roundy said she and her husband and two neighbors had attended one of the presentations on gator safety by Beth Hamm, so they knew who to call.
Hamm, known to residents as Gator Beth, has been wrangling alligators in Ave Maria for at least a dozen years and she still loves every minute of it, despite the long hours, heat, mosquitos and gators that are none too happy about being captured.
“It’s corny but I love ‘em,” Hamm said after a recent presentation to a group of Ave Maria residents.
Hamm is a contracted nuisance alligator trapper working for the Florida Fish and Wildlife Conservation Commission (FWC). A nuisance alligator is one believed to be a threat to people, pets or property.
Hamm and her husband, Tony, trap alligators throughout Collier County. She’s one of only three female trappers in the entire state of Florida.
Hamm is passionate about alligators and has made it her mission to educate the public about this unique animal to keep people safe—and the gators safe. She’s also a licensed and insured alligator exhibitor. Many times, she’ll bring one of her smaller, personal alligators to presentations to aid in the educational process.
Hamm does several presentations a year in Ave Maria on gator safety. She estimates she’s in Ave Maria at least once a week responding to calls about alligators. She will observe gators that have raised residents’ concerns and, if necessary, trap and remove those that are considered “nuisance” alligators, like the 9’2” gator that made its way to that secondfloor lanai in The National.
Hamm’s busiest time of the year is in the spring when the alligators are on the move during mating season. Then she’s on calls every day.
Even with the education she provides, she estimates many of the alligators she removes don’t really pose a threat. But people are fearful. “Alligators are a misunderstood animal,” Hamm said.
For that reason, she tries to do what she can to save the lives of the gators. The state of Florida requires “nuisance” alligators over four feet long to be killed. But Hamm carries an additional license that allows her to take those larger alligators to a licensed alligator farm near LaBelle. That farm may eventually harvest that animal, but it will live longer than being immediately killed after trapping, she said.
“I’m giving them every chance I can to keep them alive.” Nuisance gators under four feet long must be relocated. She takes them to a remote area far away from any people.
In her presentations, Hamm tries to educate people about normal gator behavior so they don’t panic. Even people who moved to Ave Maria from urban areas of Florida, may not have seen many gators on a day-to-day basis. “You moved to a swamp,” she said with a laugh. “The cypress trees here tell you it’s wet.” And where there’s fresh water in Florida people should expect the possibility of gators. Even if a gator is removed from a pond, there’s another gator that will likely move in shortly after.
Her slide presentation shows a gator swimming in a pond. “Normal alligator behavior,” Hamm said.
Another slide shows an alligator laying on a pond bank in the sun. “Normal alligator behavior.” They need the sun to warm themselves.
An alligator with an open mouth is also “normal alligator behavior,” she said. Similar to dogs that pant when they’re hot, alligators open their mouths to lower their body temperature. If their mouth is open and they make a hissing sound, you’re too close—back away from the gator.
“Hissing is not a concern, but heed the warning,” Hamm said. If an alligator leaves the water to approach a person on land — that is a concern and not normal alligator behavior, Hamm said.
Ave Maria has an expedited process for dealing with nuisance alligators. In other communities, if there’s a nuisance gator, the trapper needs to secure a state permit to remove the gator. Ave Maria has a standing permit so the Master Association can call Hamm and she can take any necessary action using that standing permit. If the situation is not an emergency, it may take a day or two for her to get to Ave Maria to evaluate the gator because she may be in another part of the county. What’s an emergency? If there’s a gator in a pool, in a garage, under a car, in a road or in a second-floor condo lanai — those are examples of emergencies where Hamm or her husband will come as soon as possible. But if the situation changes, she asks that they be notified. Sometimes they rush from a distance only to find out the gator made its way back to the water and there’s no longer an issue. Trappers are paid $50 for a trapped alligator. If the gator doesn’t need to be trapped, they’ve just spent time and gas money with no financial return.
In the case of the stair-climbing gator in The National, Roundy said she was impressed by the response of Kim Twiss, executive director, Ave Maria Master Association, and Beth and Tony Hamm who trapped and removed the gator. “At first I think Kim thought we were exaggerating but she came to check out the situation and quickly learned we were not exaggerating.”
“Beth and Tony were extremely professional,” Roundy said. “They approached the situation quickly and with grace and ease.”
It is against the law to feed, harass, possess, capture and/ or kill an alligator. Feeding an alligator teaches it that it can expect food from humans and that’s how problems begin, Hamm said. Don’t feed the fish, or the turtles or the ducks because the alligators will view that as food, as well. They’ll even hang around bird feeders if the feeders are positioned near water, because the birds the feeder attracts are potential prey for the gators.
Children must be educated, as well. Not to scare them but to make them aware and keep them safe.
Pets and small children should be kept away from the water’s edge, Hamm warned. Four legged animals are normal prey for gators—they don’t distinguish between a wild animal and a dog or cat. Children must be educated, as well. Not to scare them but to make them aware and keep them safe. Even if an adult is working on the ground in the yard, stay aware, don’t put your back to the water, get up occasionally and make yourself tall so the gators can see you’re an upright, two-legged human, she said. Hamm is on-call as a gator trapper 24-hours a day, seven days a week. But she wouldn’t change a thing. Her husband applied first to the state to be a trapper and it was taking a while so she thought she’d put in her application. She actually was chosen first because she didn’t have another job like her husband did. Her schedule was more flexible.
“I love the gators,” Hamm said. “We are doing something we love, we are doing it together…who gets to do that? Some days we have to pinch ourselves.”
Mother of three grown children, Hamm is caregiver to her aging mother. She also is a licensed bear response contractor for the state and covers roughly the southern third of the state for bear calls.
Because of how busy she’s been, she said residents may see more of her husband responding to gator calls in Ave Maria in the future but she still loves her job—and the gators.
If you happen to see Hamm or her husband in the process of trapping a gator, she asks that you don’t get close or follow them. The Hamms understand people are curious about the process but please don’t approach them as they’re working. They need to stay focused on the task at hand and safety is a priority. If they need information about the alligator, they will ask.
The Florida Fish and Wildlife Conservation Commission says that over the last 10 years, Florida has averaged eight unprovoked alligator-human bites per year that are serious enough to require professional medical treatment. Despite an increase in the human population in the last 10 years in Florida, there has not been a significant bite trend one way or the other over that time period. The likelihood of a Florida resident being seriously injured during an unprovoked alligator incident in Florida is roughly one in 3.1 million, according to the FWC website.
Lucas admits to checking his lanai now before entering, but he is fond of the gators. “We love them, they don’t bother you.” After the alligator was removed from his neighbor’s lanai he cleaned it up and there were only a couple tears in the lanai screen.
Roundy, a seasonal resident with her husband, Rick, who split time between Wisconsin and Florida, said the wildlife in Ave Maria is beautiful. “The more we can keep us all living together safely, the better.”
Hamm appreciates the long-time residents who have come to love and respect the alligators that live in the Ave Maria community. “Enjoy from a distance. You’re fortunate where you live and what you get to see,” Hamm said.
Who Should Ave Maria Residents Contact for Alligator Concerns?
Residents of all neighborhoods in Ave Maria should contact the Master Association office at 239-867- 4322
For after-hour emergencies contact:
• Your neighborhood or home owners association (HOA) emergency number
• Florida Fish and Wildlife Conservation Commission (FWC) at 888-404-3922
• Collier County Sheriff’s Office at 239-252-9300
• Call 9-1-1 (for human injuries)
ROD & GUN CLUB
In EVERGLADES CITY
A REMNANT OF OLD FLORIDA
A former playground for the rich and famous, the Rod and Gun Club, nestled along the Barron River in Everglades City, provides a glimpse into Old Florida that’s becoming harder to find.
Entering the lobby of the lodge and restaurant, you’re transported back in time to the early days of the last century. The original furniture, the hardwood floors, an antique billiards table, the fishing and hunting trophy mounts on the walls, crystal chandeliers, even a small phone booth, are reminiscent of a time longgone. Sitting with a lemonade or cocktail on the screened verandah and watching the river flow past to the Ten Thousand Islands and the Gulf of Mexico, harkens to a simpler way of life. The establishment has been called a hidden gem, a place where time stands still.
Barron Collier purchased a lot of land in southwest Florida in 1922, including the Rod and Gun Club, and operated it as a private club where he hosted international dignitaries and several U.S. presidents.
The guest list over the years has included presidents Roosevelt, Truman, Eisenhower, Hoover and Nixon and entertainers such as John Wayne, Burt Reynolds, Sally Field, David Carradine and Jack Nicklaus to name a few. It still includes a helicopter pad for those who arrive via that mode of transportation. Visitors come to fish, boat, rent a cottage for a family vacation, tour the Everglades or even just for a meal and beverage to take in the history of the place.
Brian Art and Michele Murphy of Venice, Florida, stopped in for lunch recently on their drive down to the Keys for a charter fishing show. “A lot of great history here,” Art said. “It’s endured a lot of storms. If you want to see Old Florida, this is it.”
Those storms have taken a toll on the structure originally built in 1864. Current owner Patty Bowen grew up at the club after her father, Martin Bowen, bought it in 1972. She said her dad didn’t have a lot of money, but he had five kids who could work. The place had been abandoned and needed major repairs. “He saw things that other people passed up on,” she said. Her dad passed away 30 years ago. She runs it now with a daughter and two nephews. “When they were younger, they weren’t too interested,” she said. “But now they’re starting to see the treasure. And they have to have the passion to keep it going, it takes a lot of work.”
Hurricane Irma took out a wing of lodging rooms on the upper floors that haven’t been reopened. It also took some of the roof and the dock. More recent hurricanes took part of the seawall that Bowen says is too expensive to replace. Although she’s lived in Everglades City since she was a young girl, she doesn’t remember such damaging storm surges from hurricanes in the past. But the Rod and Gun Club structure—which started as a trading post--was designed well in the 1800s, she said. It’s up off the ground, it was built for a time when there was no air conditioning so it was optimized for cooling air flow which also inhibits any mold growth, and the first floor has holes along the baseboards where they can push out any water encroachment. “They knew how to build,” she said.
Despite the good construction, the building’s age causes an endless stream of repairs and updating, Bowen said. “It’s a lot to keep this old girl going. A lot of work.”
Bowen, who was born in Naples, appreciates growing up in Everglades City and working at the club. “I feel I was fortunate every day and coming in here to work. Every day in the tropics and the laid-back southern style…I’m not one for big cities.”
She remembers when President Nixon visited and she’s met many entertainers over the years. Some of the more recent visitors are famous but Bowen said she usually doesn’t recognize them as such. “Here they can be themselves without someone gawking at them,” she said. The walls of the entrance way into the lodge are covered with news articles, photos of some of its famous guests, and decades of its colorful history.
Bowen says her father discovered Everglades City when he was trying to get from Naples east toward Miami in 1960 after a storm. A large tree had fallen across the Tamiami trail--the only east/west road at the time. A man was on the Miami side of the tree trying to get to the West Coast. They crawled over the tree and swapped cars so they could each continue on their way. That’s how her father ended up in Everglades City. He owned other businesses there before purchasing the Rod and Gun Club.
Bowen said she’s sadly outlived some of the old-time regular customers. They’re trying to get the word out to new visitors. “A lot of people don’t know we’re here,” she said. They offer the cottage rentals for overnight accommodations, guest services assistance with area attractions such as private boating and fishing charters, private swamp buggy tours and other ways to explore the area. There’s a swimming pool overlooking the river, and the bar and restaurant are open every day of the week. The club makes a nice day trip for boaters who come by water, car or bike cruising groups, for women’s groups and other organizations, Bowen said.
There’s a local fundraising effort going on to refurbish the old bank building across the street from the Rod and Gun Club as a visitor’s center. Bowen said that should bring in more visitors. And the annual Everglades City Seafood Festival is a good draw of outside visitors.
She hopes the next generation will continue to improve the place and repair the hurricane damage. “You gotta love the place because you could make more money somewhere else and work less. So you have to have some kind of emotional attachment to it.”
That emotional attachment is reflected in the restaurant menu that includes a brief history of the lodge, cottage room rates and other services and closes with this statement: The Rod and Gun Lodge does not intend to meet the needs of all vacationers; therein lies our unique character. We invite you to stay with us with faith that you will appreciate the simple, basic values of Olde Florida.
a Backstepin Time... TAKING
If you are a fan of history, architecture and faith, we have the trip for you! So, grab the family, get on Rte 75, and head East for 80 miles. WELCOME TO THE
“WE PRACTICE WHAT ST. BENEDICT TAUGHT HIS MONKS: “ALL WHO PRESENT THEMSELVES ARE TO BE WELCOMED.”
- RULE OF BENEDICT 53:1
*Monastery: A building or buildings occupied by a community of monks living under religious vows.
*Cloister: A covered walk in a convent, monastery, college, or cathedral, typically with a wall on one side and a colonnade open to a quadrangle on the other.
Construction of the Monastery of St. Bernard de Clairvaux was begun in the year 1133 AD in Sacramenia, near Segovia in northern Spain. Completed eight years later in 1141, the Monastery* was dedicated to the Blessed Mother and was originally named ‘The Monastery of Our Lady, Queen of the Angels.’
Upon the canonization of Bernard of Clairvaux in 1174, the Monastery was renamed in his honor. A Cistercian monk and mystic, the founder and abbot of the Abbey of Clairvaux, Bernard was one of the most influential church leaders of his time.
Cistercian monks occupied the Monastery for nearly 700 years. After a social revolution in the 1830's, the Monastery’s Cloisters* were seized, sold, and converted into a granary and stable.
“THE BIGGEST JIGSAW PUZZLE IN HISTORY.”
- TIME MAGAZINE
In 1925, William Randolph Hearst purchased the Cloisters and the Monastery's outbuildings. The structures were dismantled stone by stone, bound with protective hay, packed in more than 11,000 wooden crates, numbered for identification and shipped to the United States. Soon after the shipment arrived, Hearst's financial problems forced most of his collection to be sold at auction.
The massive crates remained in a warehouse in Brooklyn, New York, for 26 years. One year after Hearst’s' death in 1952, they were purchased by two entrepreneurs for use as a tourist attraction. It took 19 months and the equivalent of nearly $20 million dollars (in today’s currency) to put the Monastery back together. In 1953 Time magazine called it “the biggest jigsaw puzzle in history.”
In 1964, Colonel Robert Pentland, Jr, who was a multimillionaire banker, philanthropist and benefactor of many Episcopal churches, purchased the Cloisters and presented them to the Bishop of Florida. Today the parish Church of St. Bernard de Clairvaux is an active and growing congregation in the Episcopal Diocese of Southeast Florida.
Monastery of St. Bernard de Clairvaux 16711 West Dixie Highway North Miami Beach, FL 33160
(305) 945-1461 spanishmonastery.com
Cooking Chef Trevor WITH
Something that I can eat any day of the week are chicken cutlets. The smell of them sizzling up in the kitchen brings me right back to my childhood with either my grandmother or father cooking up dinner or lunch for the family. Something that people may not realize is how easy it is to make them if you have just a little bit of patience. Chicken cutlets also provide lots of options: chicken parm, chicken sandwiches, and more. For this month's recipe we will go a little lighter, since last month's risotto still has us full in our bellies!
CHICKEN CUTLET:
• 2 Chicken Breasts
• 6 Egg Yolks
• 16 oz Panko
• 16 oz Italian Bread Crumbs
• 32 oz Parm Cheese grated
• Olive oil or Canola oil for frying
Chicken Milanese ingredients directions
SALAD:
• Arugula
• Artichoke Hearts
• Cherry Tomato
• Parm Cheese Fresh
• Lemon
• Olive Oil
• Balsamic Glaze
1. Slice chicken breasts thin but keep their original shape. Large chicken breasts can get three slices, smaller chicken breasts can get two. Now cover with saran-wrap and pound thin. Season both sides with salt and pepper.
2. Mix eggs in a separate bowl to form egg wash.
3. In another separate bowl, mix all your dry ingredients: cheese, panko, and Italian breadcrumbs.
Pro tip: Even though some mixtures say "seasoned" add more seasoning such as dry oregano, parsley, basil, garlic salt to your liking.
4. Coat all your chicken cutlets with the egg wash (thoroughly) and move them to the bread crumb mixture, coating evenly so that it is completely covered. Set them aside for and wait for your oil to get hot.
5. In a frying pan, add enough oil so that it is just covering the top (or some of the top is exposed) when chicken is placed in. Medium high to high heat works best. To know if your oil is ready, throw in a breadcrumb…If it sizzles it is ready!
6. Cook till golden brown. The thinner the chicken, the quicker it cooks. Don't feel bad cutting up a piece to make sure it is cooked through. Once you get the hang of it, the color will let you know if it's finished or not. Meat thermometers are fine to use as well.
7. Set aside the cooked chicken on a paper towel or drying rack. Immediately add salt and pepper for final seasoning.
8. For Salad, mix argula, artichoke hearts and cherry tomato.
9. Once mixed, squeeze lemon juice and olive oil and mix with salt and pepper to taste.
10. Place the chicken cutlet on top of the salad, drizzling balsamic glaze over everything. The finishing touch: Grate a fresh block of parm cheese to your liking.
Bon Appétit
FOLLOW US AS WE EXPLORE SOME
Everything down to the light switches in Chris and Rhonda Aubert’s custom-built Pulte Home is meaningful to them. Filled with family photographs, heirlooms, collectibles, and artwork, each piece tells a story. One of the symbols you’ll see everywhere is the fleur-de-lis. Born and raised in New Orleans, Rhonda said this symbol represents more than where she came from, it speaks of who she is, and where she wants to be.
After being driven out of Louisiana when their home was destroyed by Hurricane Katrina in 2005, the couple, who have been married for 30 years and have six children, relocated to Texas, before finally moving to Ave Maria during the pandemic. “Because of Katrina I left New Orleans but New Orleans never left me,” said Rhonda.
Family Treasures
Showcasing collections makes an artful statement in an Ave Maria home.
PERRY PHOTOGRAPHY
Swimming in Style
Attracted to the welcoming Avalon Park neighborhood, the Aubert’s five-bedroom, three-bath, single-story home is within walking distance to Ave Maria’s Town Center, Ave Maria Parish church, and the top-rated Catholic school, the Donahue Academy, where their youngest attends middle school. Enjoying the warm weather is a breeze in the dreamy swimming pool. Located just steps from their back door, from the comfort of the two lightweight lounge chairs on the pool’s sun shelf, the soothing sounds of cascading water from the bubblers and waterfall drown out neighborhood noises, creating an added sense of privacy to the space.
Inside the home, elegant tray ceilings add an extra element of sophistication and depth for displaying the well-organized collection of antique, rustic, and contemporary décor.
Small Details Hold Mighty Meaning
Within an open concept layout, the well-appointed kitchen features granite countertops and high-end appliances including an electric range and smart refrigerator that’s the perfect size for their family (since most of the children are adults now and no longer live with their parents).
On the pantry door hangs a wooden pelican, representing Christ's sacrifice for humanity and a nurturing mother’s self-sacrifice, a symbol that inspires Rhonda, she said.
This space serves as a neutral backdrop for the Aubert’s colorful collection of unique items, including an impressive antler candelabra positioned above the circular table and controlled by a dimmer switch. (While Rhonda’s father was an electrician at the New Orleans Caesars Superdome, he was able to salvage the light switches, so even they hold meaning for her, she said.)
The dining table is another significant piece. Constructed by a local craftsman from the pine tree that fell on their New Orleans area home during the storm that upended their lives there, it features studding and the Texas star (branding of their second home) and is paired with stylized twig chairs covered in fleur-de-lis fabric. More than the symbols it holds, this table is proof that something good can be created out of something bad, said Rhonda.
That Special Charm
In the living room, a stone accent wall and small fireplace set a warm, homey scene. On the adjacent wall, a prominent family portrait (flanked by a fleurde-lis and a cross) hangs above small accent pieces displayed on a floating mantle shelf.
The room’s reinforced ceiling confidently holds the large wagon wheel style chandelier, while matching antler wall sconces add a touch of rustic charm to the space, which also contains a large star animal-hide area rug, concrete cowboy boots, and two ladders displaying fabrics from Chris’ parents.
Curated Collections
In the office, where Rhonda, an avid scrapbooker, documents the family’s lives, collections are kept under control with built-in shelving and framed displays. This area showcases Rhonda’s time as an NFL cheerleader for the New Orleans Saints from 1987 to 1994. It also displays sports memorabilia that she has collected through the years, including a baseball signed by former President George W. Bush.
Artful Choices
By arranging tidy gallery walls throughout her home, Rhonda keeps the focus on their one-of-a-kind pieces while minimizing clutter.
Here, the drama of the widespread devastation from Hurricane Katrina and the resilience of the community afterward is displayed on door retrieved from a home in the lower Ninth Ward. The piece contains markings left behind by the Florida National Guard indicating that no survivors, firearms, or remains were discovered within the home when it was searched on September 2, 2005.
Next to this telling piece hangs an incredible paper mâché replica of the beloved Covington, Louisiana home this family lost.
Thoughtful Openings
In the hallway, a pew recovered from the New Orleans Ninth Ward high school Rhonda attended takes center stage. Surrounded by religious artwork, this space also features an antique mirror, and a buffet table inherited from Rhonda’s grandmother. The centerpiece of the hallway is a large image of Our Lady of Guadalupe, greeting visitors as they enter the home. A collection of crosses, including a shell cross that the couple found before moving to Florida (by Divine Providence, said Rhonda) as well as a sign on the inside of the front door reading “Return with Dignity” serve as reminders of their Catholic faith, respect, and appreciation for all that has been, and all that will be.
HOME INSPECTIONS & Why They Matter
WRITTEN BY SHARON LEVESQUE, REALTOR
Purchasing a home or condo is the largest financial investment most people will make in their lifetime, and having a home inspection is the easiest way to protect that investment. Phil Gaither, of Assurance Home Inspection Services, is a Florida licensed and a nationally certified home inspector with 14 years experience. He sat down with us to share some helpful hints.
When asked about the importance of an inspection to potential homeowners, Phil shared, “A home inspection is extremely important to a buyer so they know what kind of repairs might be needed and what the cost of those repairs might be.”
He went on to suggest that everyone purchasing property, whether it’s a single-family home, condominium or a commercial property, get all inspections recommended by the home inspector. He also recommends an inspection when buying a new construction home. “Yes definitely, it is recommended that buyers get home inspections for new construction homes as well. I have performed home inspections on new constructions and homes that needed the roof repaired or completely replaced.”
A typical home inspection should cover the exterior of the home, the grounds, the roof, the interior of the home, the home systems such as the HVAC systems, plumbing, electrical systems, attics and crawl spaces when and where accessible. Phil explains, “A home inspection is only required to cover the readily accessible and visible items during the day and time the inspection was performed...”
Home inspections are a crucial element in helping a potential buyer make an informed decision when considering which home to purchase. They provide a detailed assessment of the property's condition and can reveal potential safety hazards, issues with mechanical systems throughout the home and may reveal major repairs that could result in significant financial hardship to a buyer after closing. The home inspection report can also be a valuable tool to potential buyers in negotiating the purchase price of a home if necessary.
“Purchasing a home is a very expensive purchase and not getting a home inspection is extremely risky and can result in thousands of dollars of unexpected expenses.” He continues, “Never try to hire the cheapest or least expensive home inspector, that rarely works well. Experience is more important when choosing a home inspector than price. There's an old saying, ‘tripping over a dollar to pick up a penny.’” Hiring an inspector with solid experience will pay better dividends in the long run.
Phil also recommends looking for a smaller ‘owner operated’ home inspection company, rather than a larger high-volume company that does multiple inspections in a day. “Inspectors who do more than 1-2 inspections a day tend to be focused on volume rather than quality.” Finally, Phil recommends an inspection company where the owner will come out himself to do the inspection, or with another inspector.
The bottom line... Always Get an Inspection!
ART Of LAYERING The
WRITTEN BY LOGANN MCELFRESH PHOTOS PROVIDED
CCreating an aesthetically pleasing and functional bedroom involves careful consideration of various interior design elements and layers. These components work together to create a harmonious space that is both inviting and practical. Here are some key elements and layers to focus on...
1 COLOR PALETTE
The color scheme sets the tone for the entire bedroom. Opt for calming and neutral colors like soft blues, grays, or earthy tones to create a serene atmosphere. Accent colors can be introduced through accessories like throw pillows, artwork, or rugs to add depth and interest.
2
FURNITURE
Choose furniture pieces that are both stylish and functional. A well-designed bed with a comfortable mattress is essential. Nightstands, dressers, and wardrobes should provide ample storage while complementing the overall design. Consider the scale and proportion of the furniture to ensure it fits well within the space without overwhelming it.
3
TEXTILES AND BEDDING
BRIDE
Layering textiles adds texture and warmth to the bedroom. Start with high-quality sheets and add a duvet or comforter, followed by throw blankets and decorative pillows. Mix and match different fabrics like cotton, linen, and wool to create a cozy and inviting bed.
4
LIGHTING
A combination of ambient, task, and accent lighting is crucial for a functional bedroom. Overhead lighting provides general illumination, while bedside lamps or wall sconces offer task lighting for reading. Accent lighting, such as string lights or candles, can create a relaxing ambiance.
5
WALL ART AND DECOR
Personalize the space with wall art and decor that reflect your style. A statement piece above the bed or a gallery wall can add visual interest. Mirrors not only enhance the aesthetics but also make the room feel larger and brighter.
6RUGS AND FLOORING
A soft rug underfoot adds comfort and defines the space. Choose a rug that compliments the color palette and furniture. Hardwood floors, carpet, or laminate can also contribute to the overall design and feel of the bedroom.
7
STORAGE SOLUTIONS
Functional storage is key to maintaining an organized bedroom. Utilize under-bed storage, built-in closets, and multi-functional furniture to keep the space clutter-free. Stylish baskets and boxes can also be used to store smaller items.
8
PLANTS AND GREENERY
Incorporating plants into the bedroom design adds a touch of nature and enhances the air quality. Choose low-maintenance plants like succulents, snake plants, or peace lilies that thrive in indoor environments.
BY THOUGHTFULLY COMBINING these elements and layers, you can create a bedroom that is not only aesthetically pleasing but also a functional retreat. The key is to balance style with practicality, ensuring that each component contributes to a cohesive and comfortable space.
Logann McElfresh is an interior designer working out of Naples Florida. Her philosophy is based on timeless and approachable design.
Visit her online at: logannmcelfresh.com
TIPS from the
WRITTEN BY JIM FEIPEL, PGA
The Warm Up
When preparing to play a round of golf you should always allow yourself the time to warm up. The body is stiff, as it relates to the concentration of your golf muscles and they need to be loose and limber to perform such an athletic movement.
Golfers will often inquire as to what is the proper way to warm up and what constitutes a warm up prior to playing a round of golf. After you check into the golf shop, most golf courses have a driving range where a player can hit practice balls to get loose before they play. Your shoulders and hamstrings are the two most vital muscles to stretch before hitting golf balls. We are stretching the shoulders to relieve tension in the arms which need to be relaxed to allow the club to travel a proper path to the target. We stretch the shoulders by doing a few forward and backward circles to all the shoulders to feel a burn and indicate that they are in good working order and ready to do their part. The hamstrings are as equally important as they provide speed, stability, and balance in the golf swing. Doing a few repetitions by touching your toes or even taking one leg and lunging forward while keeping the back leg relatively straight should do the trick nicely to keeping those hamstrings from tightening and therefore giving you the best chance to sustain your posture while creating a good strike on the golf ball. Hitting a few balls before we play is just that.
PRO
One mistake I often see players make is the first club they take out of their bag is the driver. Why not? It’s the club that makes the golf ball go the farthest. Yes, it makes the ball go the farthest. No, because are body has not made enough swings to be aggressive with the longest club in the bag. Start by taking a short iron, like a pitching wedge or a 9 iron. Hit shots where you take the club half way back and half way through. This will allow the upper body and lower body getting comfortable working together. After about 5/6 golf balls then change clubs and go to a 6 iron or 7 iron and begin to take the club further in the backswing and follow through longer in the follow through. This will allow your body to adapt to the swing gaining more velocity and you the player having more control. After 5/6 more golf balls now take out a fairway wood and again let the swing get a little longer and continue to build speed. Now, we are ready to hit the remaining 5/6 golf balls with the driver because the body is loose, we now have built speed and most importantly we have control and balance.
The Four Fundamentals...
G.A.S.P.
TIP # 2
G = Grip
The grip is single most important thing we do that controls every aspect of the club. The importance of a good grip makes sure that the club face does not twist in your hand. The grip makes helps the arms determine the proper path of the club so that it can create a quality strike on the golf ball. A good grip also determines the fluidity and relaxed nature for which the club is swung. Lastly a good grip establishes leverage so that the club will not wander into a position for which inconsistency will begin to form. So what makes up this good grip.
A good grip starts with applying the left hand onto the grip so that the club rests in the fingers of the left hand (I am speaking as if I am a RIGHT HANDED PLAYER). If the grip is resting against the under pad of the thumb, the club is to high in the palm and will be in a weak position at impact. The grip should lie across the where the fingers are connected to the palm. When the fingers wrap around the bottom of the shaft the fingers will act as a cradle for the grip to lie in. This positioning in the fingers, instead of the palm, allows the wrists to be nimble and allow proper rotation back and through the point of contact of the golf ball.
A = Aim
Players struggle with aim but they forget or don’t understand there are two points of reference when it comes to aim. The first point of reference is the target line or ball line. This is the line that is established when a player sets the face of the club behind the ball to indicate that this is the path for which they want their ball to travel.
The second point of reference is the bodyline. This is the line in which the body sets up to the left of the target (every time!!). The question then becomes why is the bodyline left of the target and not directly at the target? The body line and ball line are two parrel lines. Envision a set of railroad tracks. Lets say that the right side of the tracks is the ball line or the target line. Then lets envision the left side of the railroad tracks as the bodyline. You now see that those two lines are parrel. These parrel lines happen on every shot whether your driving the tee shot, hitting an approach fairway, hybrid, or iron shot, chipping or pitching, and even the putting out the final strokes. Students will often ask what will happen if they try and aim both lines at the same target? Then answer is simple, the clubface will open or point several degrees to the right and you can expect an errant shot that will travel to the right in some fashion.
S = Stance
When students ask me about a good golf stance I communicate that we start with an athletic ready position. To gain stability and balance you must first widen your feet shoulder width apart. That means that if you were to put your club on the inside of each shoe, and go vertical with your club, it would connect to the shoulder. We want to flex our knees, which means to do nothing more than unlock them for flexibility. There is a slight tilt of the spine from the hip that we will cover in the posture segment. This tilt helps transfer body weight to the balls of our feet where we will continue to have solid balance as we prepare for a solid strike on the golf ball. As a way to check if we have the correct amount of tilt in the spine you can flex your knees, and place your hands on your thighs and slowly begin to slide your hands down you r thighs until the tips of your fingers stop just above the knee. You will then have achieved the right amount of tilt.
P = Posture
Posture has everything to do with the angle of the spine over the feet and allows the hands to hang freely so they may place the club face behind the golf ball without the arms disconnecting from the body. The tilting of the spine downward to the ball, with the club in hand, gives the player the best chance to make contact with the bottom of the ball and ground at the same time for a good strike on the golf ball. The spine angle is critical in the golf swing as it determines where the club will make contact on the golf ball. For instance, if the spine angle is to vertical we risk either missing the ball completely or at best hitting the ball above the equator. If the spine angle to far tilted over the ball two things can happen. One, because the amount of space between our chest and ground are minimal we risk hitting the ground several inches behind the ball. Two, if our mind registers that we need to increase the space between our chest and the ground we will raise up rather abruptly which can affect not only where we make contact on the ball but also the positioning of the club face being open and developing an errant shot at point of contact. In conclusion, if you have a good grip with moderate pressure, a stance that is shoulder width apart for balance, a posture that allows the spine to be tilted from your hip, weight that favors the balls of your feet, hands that are assembled to the grip that are naturally hanging below your chin, a club face that is pointed in the direction of your intended target and your body lined up slightly left of that target you will have a very good chance of hitting a good quality golf shot.
Waving to you from another fairway! -Jim
Keeping TROUBLE At A Distance
We’ve all experienced that worrying feeling that something just isn’t right, and we’ve placed ourselves in a potentially dangerous situation. Whether it’s a dark parking lot in an unfamiliar part of town, or a social gathering where someone sends out the wrong vibe, the response should be the same: Get out of the area as quickly and as safely as possible. The sobering fact is that we don’t get to decide when we need to deal with trouble. But we can reduce the chance of dealing with violent crime with the following guidelines: Don’t go to stupid places, at stupid times, to do stupid things, with stupid people. This idea originated with John Farnam, a legend in the firearms training industry, and it’s a good way to reduce our risk of being a victim of violent crime.
We can also reduce our chances of being a victim of violent crime by not looking like a victim. Watch any nature documentary, and you’ll soon find out that predators rarely pick on the strongest and most-fit prey. Rather, predators like to attack what appear to be easy targets. Consider this scenario: It’s late on a weekend evening, and you and your wife are leaving the movie theater. You are walking through a darkened parking lot towards your car and checking on your phone to see if anyone left you a message. Suddenly, a young man runs up behind you, grabs your wife’s purse and jumps into a waiting car. The car takes off, leaving you outraged and angry. What could you have done to prevent this from happening?
First, realize that transition spaces are prime hunting grounds for the criminal element. A transition space is any physical space between two other spaces. For example, a corridor in an office building is a transition space between offices, as is an elevator Parking lots are textbook examples of transition spaces, as you move from one space (in this case, a movie theater) to your car. When you’re in a transition space you should be more alert to potential trouble, and leave things like checking your phone for when you get into your car.
Pausing for a moment before you enter into a transition space is never a bad idea. This allows you to survey the area before you enter the space. It’s also a good time to do things like check messages, rather than when you are more vulnerable.
Next, look around as you leave one space and head to another. Windows and mirrors can be used to check behind you without appearing to be overly suspicious. Did anyone leave right behind you? Who were they? Where are the people in the parking lot, and what are their relationship to each other? Just this simple act of looking around and showing that you’re aware significantly reduces your chance of being a victim.
Lastly, consider carrying a small LED flashlight with you, and having it in your hand as you walk out of a building at night. In the world of the criminal element, there are only two types of people who carry and use flashlights, police officers and security guards. Carrying a light and using it to light your way sends a clear signal that you realize it’s dark outside and you are prepared to deal with that fact. Knowledge is power, and the more you empower yourself with security/self-defense knowledge, the less likely you are to be a victim.
BITCOIN BASICS
WRITTEN BY TRISTAN AMZALLAG, CRYPTO ASSET SPECIALIST
These days it seems like Bitcoin is everywhere; you hear about it on TV, on the internet and on the lips of everyone who has been involved with it since 2017. And for good reason: an investment in Bitcoin has beaten every single other asset class in the last 4 years in terms of growth and adoption. A $10,000 investment in Bitcoin in 2019, when it was valued at $3,700, would be worth approximately $270,000 as of press time for this edition.
Yes, Bitcoin has hit that magic figure everyone was waiting for, $100,000 per coin!
And it’s still not done climbing. In the short term, Bitcoin IS a risky asset class. It has seen price declines between 75% and 90% over very short periods of time (3 – 4 weeks). In fact, as I composed this article, I watched Bitcoin gain and lose, and then gain huge percentages of its value. This can be very jarring to your average investor without the stomach for such volatility or the understanding of what Bitcoin actually is.
So what IS Bitcoin?
Bitcoin is something new. It’s difficult to liken it to any existing asset types. Some say Bitcoin is like gold. While that’s partially true, it has much more utility than gold. Gold is heavy and cumbersome and doesn’t transport easily, so traveling with your wealth in gold isn’t easy, but Bitcoin only requires a USB key to allow you to transport hundreds of millions of dollars. Others say Bitcoin is like money. Yes, that’s also partially true, assuming vendors are willing to accept it as currency, and many are using it that way. Still others have classified it as an asset, like a house or stocks. In fact, the US tax system treats it that way, with gains/losses being classified as Capital Gains/ Losses and taxed accordingly. However, much of that could change with the incoming administration. (more on that at a later date)
I like to think of Bitcoin as Financial Freedom for the citizens of the world. Bitcoin transactions between two private parties transcend borders, countries, and laws that may otherwise exist between the parties in a traditional Fiat transaction. (Fiat is the term used to describe what we all know as government issued currency such as the US Dollar or the European Pound or Chinese Yuan). Currently, when I want to buy goods or services using the US Dollar, I need to “ask” for permission from my bank to transfer the sum of money to the vendor in order to purchase the services I want. This has been refined into a fairly smooth process in the US with the use of credit cards, cash, and most recently through apps such as Paypal, but ultimately the bank holds my wealth, and therefore is in control of my wealth.
In 2008, financial institutions played fast and loose with our money by underwriting risky mortgage holders which led to a real estate market bubble. That bubble eventually burst and revealed the dangerous actions the institutions had undertaken, leading to the great recession. To combat this, President Obama launched several quantitative easing programs that helped prop up the market with free cash, but in turn raised our national debt more than all the previous presidents combined. All of this was possible because we had handed over control of our wealth to a handful of people we “trusted.”
Bitcoin was born from that chaos like a phoenix rising from the ashes. The inventor, known as Satoshi Nakamoto, wanted to take money out of the control of governments and put it back into the hands of the people so that we were no longer subject to whims of greedy individuals. Through the distributed nature of the internet, Satoshi was able to create a new network layer that sits on top of the internet to facilitate such permission-less transactions between two parties. Due to the international nature of the internet and the usefulness it has given to communication and e-commerce, Bitcoin is able to take advantage of that same usefulness and apply it a new field: Digital Finance (DeFi).
Bitcoin and other digital currencies now allow us to conduct financial transactions with the same ease and flexibility as sending an email or one swipe ordering from Amazon. Imagine being able to mortgage a house without the need to go to a bank, or fund a business idea without the need for shareholders. This has already been done with DeFi and this new field is just getting started. That’s the freedom Bitcoin can bring to the world of finance and to everyday people.
While investing in Bitcoin may seem like “gambling with your profits” for an individual or company, I have two points to make about that: one, there are many large companies that are entering the Bitcoin world and holding a portion of their portfolio in Bitcoin. Even entire countries have started to look at Bitcoin, with El Salvador leading the way in 2021 when it announced that Bitcoin is now considered legal tender throughout the country. This adoption by more and more companies will remove today’s risk factors. Two, the free money monetary policies the Federal Reserve has enacted and upheld for over a decade has led to some of the highest inflation numbers I have ever seen in my lifetime, which means the buying power of the US Dollar is eroding and the profit being held by businesses is no longer as valuable as it once was.
Since Bitcoin is deflationary in nature, it will protect against that erosion. At the time of writing, Bitcoin’s Market Capitalization is just over $2 trillion. That’s a lot. But it’s a paltry sum compared to the size of the markets this technology could overtake. In its simplest form, Bitcoin is an easy way to store value and send that value across the world within minutes.
Another good store of value is gold, and if Bitcoin were to take the place of gold as said store of value, then its market cap would be closer to $11 Trillion and Bitcoin would be worth $647,058 each. That’s 10x growth from its previous all-time high. Like gold, Bitcoin has a limited supply: there will only ever be 21,000,000 btc in circulation. This was purposefully done by Satoshi in an effort to make Bitcoin a deflationary asset, contrary to the inflationary nature of Fiat.
To put that into perspective, there are 23,000,000 millionaires in the US alone and 56,000,000 in the world, which simply means that if every millionaire wanted 1 Bitcoin, it would not be possible to fulfill that demand. In fact if each millionaire in the world wanted an equal share of Bitcoin then they would only be able to have 0.375 btc each. When looking at these numbers you can start to see the potential Bitcoin has in the coming decades, even just building a small nest egg in Bitcoin could result in substantial future gains.
Bitcoin can be divided by 8 decimal places. The lowest unit of Bitcoin is called a “Satoshi” or “Sat”. One sat is 0.00000001 Bitcoin equal to $0.001. This means that any amount of USD can be invested into Bitcoin, you don’t need to invest in a whole coin; you can simply buy as many sat’s as you want.
Everything in life has a learning curve for us to go through before we feel comfortable with it. Email and online shopping both went through their periods of anxious adoption by the masses. In the early days of email, people didn’t know how to use it, some believed you still needed stamps, and others thought you needed to send it from the post office. Online shopping was rife with stories of stolen credit cards and lost packages. But those anxieties were overcome and new money making markets emerged. Bitcoin is no different; once you understand it and work with it, a whole new emerging market rife with innovation will open up to you.
But always do your due diligence and understand all the risks involved. As world renowned Bitcoin investor
Michael Saylor says “You'll spend 100,000 hours working to earn money. Spend 100 hours learning how to keep it.”
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