Staten Island Parent - February 2022

February 2022

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Things to do This Month

The Importance of Preschool

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Your Child’s First Crush!

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Experts share tips for how to handle

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Experts share what you need to know about— and how to handle—your child’s first crush.

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LOVE IS IN THE AIR!

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y son’s first crush took place in the third grade. I helped him make the object of his affection a beautiful card for Valentine’s Day, and his admiration continued for about two full weeks (he got over it after she was mean to his friends in the schoolyard one day). Young love can be so sweet! But it can also be brutal, if unrequited. With Feb. 14 approaching, we’re sharing some tips for parents on helping their child through the ups and downs of their first crush on p. 28.

My daughter has yet to admit to having a crush on any of her schoolmates, but she definitely falls in love with every animal she meets! If your kids prefer a Valentine of the furry kind, maybe it’s a good time to adopt a new pet. You’ll find a list of local animal rescues on p. 34 to help you in your search for a new family member.

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Staten Island Parent, along with our sister company NYMetroParents, has merged with New York Family. We’re joining forces to bring you—New York City moms and dads just like us—the absolute best parenting resources, advice, and information. Your family has always been a big part of our family, and we couldn’t be happier to now be part of New York Family! Flip the page for a word from our new publisher, Schneps Media.

How is your family handling this icy cold winter? It’ll be over soon, and we’ll be here for you with all the best outdoor and springtime activities. But for now, fight the cabin fever with some indoor fun ideas, listed on p. 32.

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What’s Happening Staten Island?

Local news, major events, community updates, and hot topics equipment for children of all ages, an adult fitness area, a junior basketball court, and new fencing, pavement, and plantings.

“Bobbie was a beloved member of the community who was tragically taken from us far too soon,” said Michael Cusick, New York State assembly member.

“Naming this playground after him is a fitting way to honor his legacy and ensure that his spirit lives on.”

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City officials and community members gather at the Bobbie Lewis, Jr. Playground ribbon-cutting ceremony.

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RENOVATED NORTH SHORE PLAYGROUND IS NOW OPEN City officials and community members gathered recently to celebrate the renovated Bobbie Lewis, Jr. Playground, formerly the Mariner’s Harbor Playground. The newly renamed park honors local resident, Bobbie Lewis, Jr., who was killed in a hit-and-run accident in Brooklyn in 2019. Lewis, Jr. hailed from Mariner’s Harbor and was a CYO referee with a passion for basketball.

He became a local basketball star while playing for Port Richmond High School.

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He died at age 51.

“Bobbie was a positive influence on so many of our youth. He was passionate about the game of basketball and always willing to share his time and energy with anyone interested in the sport,” said city council member, Debi Rose. “This beautiful playground is truly a fitting tribute to Bobbie Lewis.”

The transformation of the playground is part of the Community Parks Initiative—the city’s parks equity initiative that has invested nearly $1 billion to revamp parks in underserved communities. The playground has been completely redesigned with new features and amenities. There’s creative play

Dan Singleton, principal of P.S. 31 in New Brighton was honored in December with the Maniscalco Award by James Oddo, former Staten Island borough president.

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The team has helped teachers and educators both physically and mentally throughout the pandemic, according to Principe.

The club is participating as a team in two upcoming races on Staten Island: • The Conference House Park Valentine’s Day 5K: Sunday, Feb. 13 at 10am • The Wolfe’s Run 10K at Wolfes’s Pond Park: Saturday, April 16 at 10 am For more information, follow the club on Instagram @SpeechwithG. Speech with G runners, left to right: Gina-Marie Principe, Andrea Fusaro, Graziella Casale, Kim Molloy, and DeniMarie Crowley at Clove Lakes Park.

in 1986 in honor of the ninth borough president, celebrates the civic-mindedness and tireless energy of individuals or organizations that work to help community members in need and improve Staten Island.

Singleton received the award for his community service. Principal at the school since 2017, Singleton works with community partners to provide books, haircuts, electronic devices, and more for children in need.

“I would have never expected to receive this award because it’s not about me, it has always been about the kids of my school,” said Singleton, who grew up on

the island’s North Shore. “I hope to be an example and a positive role model as my students follow wherever their dreams lead them.”

Singleton began his career with the Department of Education in 1999 as a drug intervention specialist at Grady High School in Brooklyn. He eventually became a classroom teacher in 2004 at P.S. 57 in Park Hill and has held various positions in several schools on the island, including P.S. 78 as assistant principal.

This was Oddo’s last time giving out the Maniscalco Award before leaving office, making way for the island’s current borough president, Vito Fossella.

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Ask DadandBuried “I’m getting too old to shovel and my kids never help! Am I alone in this or are all kids useless after a snowstorm?”

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h, Jackie. My sweet, innocent Jackie. I assure you, as a fellow parent constantly bemoaning my kids’ laziness and complete lack of upper body strength: No, you are not alone. My kids are the very definition of useless.

Sure, they’ve made progress in some areas. They can dust, if my wife and I threaten them enough. The 11-year-old can handle the vacuum and occasionally charge his devices, the 5-year-old can properly return the juice to the fridge and wake the dead with his soul-piercing shrieks. They have skills. But none of their skills have anything to do with yard work or manual labor of most kinds.

It’s not all their fault. In the old days, half the reason you had kids was to get extra farm and factory hands. Nowadays, the only thing my kids use their hands for is to swipe to the next TikTok video.

Times have changed, and unfortunately it’s on us to instill a healthy work ethic—and to get them to do the backbreaking chores they’ve made us too old and too tired to do ourselves.

Little kids get some slack. I can’t blame my 5-year-old for not helping; the shovel is taller than he is. Plus, it takes a solid 5 months to get him dressed in snow gear, at which point the snow has melted and summer has arrived, so he’s not really the issue here.

But my 11-year-old? He can handle a shovel. Not well, but that’s fine; sometimes we just need to see a little effort! It’s the thought that counts, right? He puts plenty of thought and effort into his Minecraft builds! He’s downright enthusiastic about decorating his virtual properties, but ask him to hold a bucket of salt so I can sprinkle some around and he starts complaining before I can even finish my request.

The way I see it, the key to getting kids to do chores is simple: threaten and bribe. Or, if you’re a good parent, you can just incentivize their work. That’s why I’ve decided that the next time there’s a snowstorm, I’m going to bury his tablet and his Nintendo Switch in one of the drifts. If he wants to play video games, he’s gonna have to break a sweat first.

Our advice column features the wise and humorous commentary of Mike Julianelle (aka @DadandBuried), a 40-something influencer with a popular podcast who lives in Brooklyn with his wife and two kids.

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inter is in full swing, and there are plenty of fun activities planned throughout the borough! Here are some of this month’s most exciting events in Staten Island and nearby. Be sure to call ahead or visit event websites to confirm details and COVID precautions. Go to siparent.com/events for details on the events listed here and even more stuff to do with your family throughout the month! middle-school teacher of special education science, on a hike at night to search for owls. Registration required.

Lighthouses Are for Lovers and Friends

Saturday, Feb. 12, 7pm

National Lighthouse Museum, 200 The Promenade at Lighthouse Point Plan a date night or evening out with friends at this Valentine’s event that includes live entertainment, wine and food from DaNoi restaurant, and raffles.

Tickets can be purchased online.

Valentine’s Day Pet Photos Maple Syrup Saturdays

Saturdays in February, 1-3pm

Clay Pit Ponds State Park Preserve, 2351 Veterans Road W. Learn the process of making maple syrup from tap to table! Go on a 1-mile hike to reach the maple trees to see demos of tapping and sap collecting.

Lapsit Storytime

Wednesday, Feb. 2, 10:30-11am

Great Kills Library, 56 Giffords Lane Join the library for a special time to bond with your little one and meet other caregivers. Explore the joys of movement, books, and songs, in addition to building early learning skills you can practice at home. Registration required.

Galentine’s Day Paint Party

Friday, Feb. 4, 6-9pm

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Ocean County Artists’ Guild, 22 Chestnut Ave., Island Heights, NJ Grab your sweetheart, best friend, or another loved one and head to the Ocean County Artists’ Guild to make an adorable friendship-themed canvas painting featuring snowmen. For teens and adults.

Online Family Storytime

Thursday, Feb. 10, 10:30-11am

Join the Great Kills Library for songs, rhymes, and favorite read-aloud books in this story time that’s fun for the whole family. Registration required. Virtual.

Owl Prowl

Saturday, Feb. 12, 6-7:30pm

Clay Pit Ponds State Park Preserve, 2351 Veterans Road W. Join Cliff Hagen, president of the Protectors of Pine Oak Woods and

Saturday, Feb. 12, 6-9pm

Hub17NYC, 73 Wave St. Make memories with your best friend.

Take professional photos with your pet. Hosted by Marcie Photography.

Donations will be collected for Louie’s Legacy Animal Rescue.

Paper Marbling Workshop

Feb. 19-20, Saturday-Sunday, 12-5pm

Historic Richmond Town, 441 Clarke Ave. Learn about this time-honored art form of creating unique, one-of-a-kind paper prints with the education team at Historic Richmond Town.

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2351 Veterans Road W. Help Clay Pit contain the invasive spotted lanternfly by learning how to identify and scrape away their overwintering egg masses. Includes a 1-mile hike.

Art in the Park: Tree Cookie Art

Thursday, Feb. 24, 10am-2pm

Clay Pit Ponds State Park Preserve, 2351 Veterans Road W. Stop by Clay Pit to decorate a slice of a tree trunk to make your own coasters or other decorative art. This event is indoors.

Movie Screening: Rocky

Friday, Feb. 25, 7pm

St. George Theatre, 35 Hyatt St. Head to the St. George Theatre for a screening of the classic 1976 film, Rocky, starring Sylvester Stallone, as part of the 2022 Better on the Big Screen Classic Movie Series. Tickets can be purchased online.

Artist Talk

Sunday, Feb. 27, 12-2pm

Historic Richmond Town, 441 Clarke Ave. Join artist Ann Marie McDonnell and Historic Richmond Town collections manager Carli DeFillo for a discussion

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and gallery tour of HRT’s latest exhibition, Art Inspired by the Collection.

Little Movers Storytime

Monday, Feb. 28, 10:30-11am

Great Kills Library, 56 Giffords Lane Head to the library to hear stories, sing songs, and get those wiggles out as you help your active child build important early learning skills. Registration required.

Tot Time Tuesdays

Through March 29: Tuesdays, 10-11:30am

Clay Pit Ponds State Park Preserve, 2351 Veterans Road W. Explore a different nature theme each week during this free indoor play group.

A guided story time begins at 10:30am, followed by a short hike at 11am, weather permitting.

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Calling All Minecraft Lovers!

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BY BARBARA RUSSO can reinforce geometry concepts, as it strengthre you ready to get your game on? ens players’ logic skills, Head to Liberty Science Center in creativity, and even Jersey City for its new, upcoming collaboration, according to exhibit: Minecraft: The Exhibition. It features scenes and characters from the popular Common Sense Media.

This is the East Coast pregame, Minecraft. miere of the exhibit, which was created by The interactive exhibit, which opens MoPop, the Museum of Popular Culture, Feb. 18, gives Minecraft fans an in partnership with Mojang Studios. The opportunity to step inside exhibit is a 6,000-square-foot multimedia the world of the game, experience designed for both Minecraft surrounded by blocky players and non-players of all ages. scenes and characters from Minecraft builds.

THE EXHIBIT’S HIGHLIGHTS But you don’t have to be a Minecraft wiz Life-Size Characters: The exhibit features photo opportunities with 15 life-size to enjoy the exhibit. characters from Minecraft, including Those who aren’t the explosive Creeper and mysterious familiar with the game will learn the fundamental Enderman. A diorama includes a Minecraft tree, zombie, and wolf. Phantoms fly skills and moves at game stations inside the gallery to start overhead, chickens scramble underfoot, and

The popular game is coming to Liberty Science Center with an interactive exhibit.

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baby pandas play in a bamboo forest.

Time-Lapse Builds: Videos showing time-lapse builds and veteran players at work are designed to help museum visitors become experts at the game.

Crafting Table: Players can use cards that represent building materials from the game to make their own objects and tools. These materials include wood, iron, and obsidian.

KNOW BEFORE YOU GO Your family can explore Minecraft: The Exhibition at Liberty Science Center, 222 Jersey City Blvd., Jersey City, NJ, from Feb. 18-Sept. 5.

The exhibit is open during regular operating hours: Thursday-Friday, 10am-4pm; Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm.

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Why Preschool Is So Important Experts discuss the importance of early childhood education.

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ids play together, sit in a circle with their teachers, and sing songs, eventually enjoying a snack. Maybe they discuss the weather or the calendar or learn about letters and numbers.

From the outside, you’d be forgiven for seeing preschool as a nice-to-have, rather than a necessity—and, for those not in public pre-K programs, a potentially expensive option. Indeed, some parents have argued that preschool is a glorified day care, that anything taught there can be learned at home.

There is, however, more going on in that classroom than the untrained eye might observe. Educators and child development experts say early childhood education offers kids advantages long after they leave the colorful walls of their preschool classroom.

Research shows that the benefits of preschool are tangible and visible in more ways than one. Preschool not only provides more opportunities for children, it helps them learn how to face social interactions, according to Rina Patel, a former preschool teacher and director of the early childhood enrichment program Book Nook in Manhattan. There are, as a result, big differences between at-home learning and in-school learning.

“There’s a different expectation at home when there is a parent with a child versus a teacher with a child,” Patel says. “Children do naturally develop skills, but at home they are only exposed to a 20 February 2022 • siparent.com

certain amount of materials, toys, or learning products. School is open to a whole different variety of learning materials.”

TRAINED TEACHERS AND GROUPS OF PEERS Schools provide teachers who are professionally trained to be molding young minds and are equipped with certain skills parents alone may not have. An important aspect of in-school learning is instilling in kids the ability to interact successfully with other people. It may seem very straightforward, but getting along with others, especially at 2-4 years old, is not so easy. Being in a classroom with multiple children their own age allows children to develop social and emotional skills that cannot be learned solely at home, Patel says.

At preschool, children become accustomed to being in group settings, separating from parents, and making decisions on their own—even if those decisions are as simple as, “Do I want to build with LEGO or finger paint today?” All of the social experiences children undergo in preschool contribute to their overall confidence, according to Tovah Klein, Ph.D., author of How Toddlers Thrive and director of the Barnard College Center for Toddler Development.

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by being able to handle themselves away from their parents and then reuniting with them later in the day.”

Preschool classrooms also teach kids about resiliency and curiosity, Dr. Klein says. Being able to handle disappointment and moving on from it, learning to be proud of your work, and the ability to make decisions all play into a child’s curiosity and desire to learn.

PREPARING KIDS TO LEARN Beyond the realm of confidence and social skills, preschool prepares children for life in other ways, such as getting them ready to learn in school. Today, skills such as reading are generally being taught earlier, prompting one study to ask, “Is kindergarten the new first grade?” With so much more expected of children in kindergarten, early education becomes crucial as preparation.

Attending preschool has been shown to improve children’s IQ, their receptive and expressive vocabulary skills, and early reading and math skills. By enrolling your child in a preschool program, you are preparing them to acquire academic skills that they will be expected to use as early as kindergarten.

Studies show that a crucial part of preschool education lies in stimulating interactions between students and their teachers. By supporting their students emotionally and academically, teachers help children learn to develop skills, respond verbally and physically, and enjoy learning. Young children often struggle with the transition from a play environment to a learning environment, which can cause a “learning anxiety,” or fear of learning, according to Patel.

By introducing your child to this environment as early as preschool, you eliminate the anxiety early, preparing them for future learning.

TEACHING KIDS ROUTINE Preschool also helps children develop and understand the concept of a routine. The school day is structured, which helps acclimate children into a daily routine and a learning environment in a gentle and enjoyable way. Being accustomed to a routine helps children prepare for higher levels of school and a professional life, Patel says.

“When I was in a kindergarten classroom with children who didn’t go to preschool...they were experiencing social anxiety and learning anxiety simply because they didn’t know what to expect,” Patel says. “Preschool fills those separation and learning anxieties, so your child has a better idea and is better prepared.”

In the process of preparing a child for a routine, parents likewise become accustomed to enforcing and sticking to that routine. The earlier you start bringing your child to a structured program every day, Patel says, the earlier you learn the importance of an everyday routine for your child. An aspect that is also beneficial for parents is, the earlier you begin, the earlier you can decide what works for you and your child and what doesn’t.

By sending your child to preschool, experts say, they will be provided the resources for proper academic preparation, and social and emotional development. Plus, they will learn more about themselves than they could from your living room.

Melissa Wickes is a graduate of Binghamton University and the NYU Summer Publishing Institute. She’s written hundreds of articles to help parents in NY.

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2022 Preschool & Day Care Directory Castleton Hill Moravian Church Preschool 1657 Victory Blvd. • 10314 718-442-5350 • Betty Jane Bullen mtobia@castletonhillpreschool.com castletonhillmoravianpreschool.com

Programs: Tot-Time-Together 12-20 months old, 2-year-old toddler classes, 3-year-old half-day classes, 3K For All, Pre-K For All Objective: A creative early childhood program where the developmentally appropriate curriculum encourages children to enjoy being young while they look forward to growing older.

The Children’s Center – College of Staten Island 2800 Victory Blvd. • 10314 Building 2R, Room 104 718-982-3190 • csi.cuny.edu/childcare

Programs: Infant/toddler programs, Preschool program, 3K and Pre-K for All full-day, school-age program (pending enrollment) Objective: Early education and child care. Flexible scheduling. Subsidized fees for children of CSI students.

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programs including Pre-K for All (PKA Full Day) and Kindergarten, full- and half-day options.

Objective: Since 1978, our Montessori philosophy, creative curriculum, and loving staff have developed the social, emotional, cognitive, and physical needs of our students. Each student’s unique personality is encouraged and respected as an important member of the Montessori community. Our students can work at their own pace to indulge in the innate willingness to learn.

JCC of Staten Island

1466 Manor Road • 10314 2221 Richmond Ave. • 10314 1297 Arthur Kill Road • 10312 485 Victory Blvd. • 10301 718-475-5230 Jayne Smith • jsmith@sijcc.org • sijcc.org Programs: Day care stars at 3 months, 3-K For All, and Pre-K For All. Extended hours available.

Objective: We offer a stimulating, individualized, age-appropriate curriculum. A developmental approach fosters social and emotional growth.

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Share the Love Thoughtful and unique Valentine’s Day gift ideas for those who warm your heart

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BY ELIZABETH WINCHESTER

hocolates, flowers, teddy bears, candy hearts—been there, done that? Try something a little different for your valentines this year! Surprise your loved ones with unique gifts that are also good for them. From hearthealthy treats (think quinoa + dark chocolate + blueberries) to fun deodorant (yes, you read that correctly!), here are our gift picks to give to your heart’s content.

How do I love thee? Let me WRITE the ways. Love Notes from Me! by Sharona Saltzman is a book of 101 short and sweet notes to tuck into your sweetheart’s lunch box, under their pillow, or even in their coat pocket. Sayings including ‘You are a blessing. You are a treasure. You are fun to be around!’ remind the ones who hold your heart how much you appreciate and care for them.

With Sweet Chaos Drizzled Popcorn, just say NO to artificial colors, flavors, gluten, and GMOs. Say YES to handmade kettle corn made by real people and popped in coconut oil. The popcorn is drizzled in various flavors, from peanut butter cup to cake batter (pictured).

Yummies for your honeys.

Heart-Shaped Name Labels from Mabel’s Labels are perfect for your little loves to stick to their water bottles, phones, and other belongings. The labels are a cute and practical gift for teachers too. Who would dare snag a charger labeled in the classroom as Ms. Anderson’s (see photo). We wouldn’t! Festive for Valentine’s Day and great for year-round use.

What do you get for a little cupcake on Valentine’s Day? This pink Whimsy Silicone Bib from KeaBabies that says ‘Love at First Bite’ is an adorable and useful choice. The bib is BPA-free, comes with an adjustable neckline, and has a wide food catcher opening. It’s easy to wipe clean after use and comes in several other colors.

Tweens and teens will love the Starling Kid’s Starter Set, which includes Birthday Cake Kid’s Deodorant, Fresh Cleanser, and Hydrating Lip Balm. The products are gentle enough for kid use, toxinfree, and made without synthetic fragrances. The naturally sweetsmelling deodorant (think: vanilla cake) might even help your clean beauty attract a valentine of their own!

Nothing says I love you like…quinoa? Undercover Chocolate Quinoa Crisps truly are “irresistibly satisfying and incredibly delicious” as the packaging says. But you may need to try them for yourself to believe it!

Made with simple, natural, and gluten-free ingredients, the tasty treats come in Milk Chocolate (pictured), Dark Chocolate + Blueberries, and six other varieties. A better-for-you treat to give to your sweettoothed sweetie.

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First Loves

What you need to know about your child’s first crush

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BY LAURIE SUE BROCKWAY

y son’s first crush was Victoria. It was love at first sight when they met in kindergarten, and it continued in elementary school. Then Titanic came out and their relationship sank too—until my son declared his affection on national television. During an appearance on the show Kids Say the Darndest Things, he said in the cutest little 6-year-old voice that he loved Victoria, but then explained: “She dumped me…because she loves Leonardo DiCaprio.”

After this public proclamation, Victoria agreed to be his girlfriend again. I worked with her parents to set up lunches, movies, and playdates—until they broke up again, of course. Before I could blink there were others that caught his eye and captured his heart.

There is a great innocence and excitement in that first love.

It gives parents cute stories to share and kids a chance to learn about feeling a special connection to another. “Young children have experienced crushes for a long, long time. It is not a new phenomenon,” says Gail Saltz, M.D., an associate professor of 28 February 2022 • siparent.com

psychiatry at NewYork-Presbyterian/Weill-Cornell School of Medicine in Manhattan. “But a young child’s experience of ‘love’ is not the same as an adolescent or adult.”

First loves for kids younger than 11 are usually innocent but parents may be shocked. That’s what happened to Queens mom Julie Schwietert Collazo when her then 6-year-old daughter announced to a family friend that she had a boyfriend. “I was stunned, not just because she told our friend rather than her dad or me, but because, well, a boyfriend!” she says. “How did my baby grow so fast?”

She found love notes. One professed “I love you,” and the other was a drawing of a boy and girl that read: She likes that boy. He likes that girl. After a little mom reconnaissance, Schwietert Collazo discovered her little one liked a nice boy at school. When she asked her daughter about the note, the 6-year-old ripped it up and told mom she wasn’t supposed to find it, so Schwietert Collazo gave her the space to reveal this at her own pace—while keeping an eye on things.

FIRST LOVES AND CRUSHES FOR KIDS AGES 4-11 First crushes are not really “romantic.” Keep young crushes in perspective—and don’t equate them with romantic love. “The stories of young love are more about strong connection in a sibling/friendship way,” says Darby Fox, MSW, a New York City child and adolescent family therapist.

“Young love is not romantic love. Romantic love is really later on, although kids might describe their feelings that way. Real feelings of love are more for twelve-year-olds.”

Love is all about attachment. The way children experience attachment has everything to do with the kind of nurturance and support received from caregivers. “Attachment is a powerful connection that has physical and emotional bonds,” says psychologist Deborah Serani, Psy.D., a professor at Adelphi University in Garden City. “They go from mom or dad and move toward sister, brother, grandparents, aunts, and uncles—and others in their circle of life. Attachment to others may be mild, or even casual. But then there are those that stir emotions and physical feelings that make the child brim with adoration. So, when a child pronounces love for another, it’s really about the powerful connection that’s rooted in attachment.”

Children mimic the world around them. It’s natural for kids to pick up their cues from others in their home, and from media and culture. “Children grow up seeing how their parents and other couples act, as well as watching hours of cartoons, movies, and even regular programming that demonstrates how a loved one is cherished,” Dr. Serani says.

“So, kissing, holding hands, professing love aloud, or making

or giving gifts is part of the attachment celebration.”

Let it play out. While you want to monitor blossoming affections, you don’t want to stifle it or make your child uneasy. “These are lessons the kids need to learn for themselves, in terms of the relationships and experiences they have,” says Jane Greer, Ph.D., a New York-based relationship expert and author of What About Me? Stop Selfishness from Ruining Your Relationship. “There’s no need to intervene, unless your son or daughter is involved with someone who’s lying, cheating, stealing, etc. If they are a bad influence, that’s when parents can get involved.”

It’s okay to encourage your child. Parents may be reluctant, but it’s healthy to support children in feeling a connection to others and at the same time teach them to be discerning. “If they like this person, there must be attractive characteristics about them,” Dr. Greer says. “Help them learn to evaluate others and show them what qualities they should look for in another person.”

Never make fun of young love or crushes. Older kids or unthinking adults may turn a first crush into a big joke and make light of it. This will make a child feel humiliated and belittled, Dr. Greer says.

“You want them to feel secure and confident in their choices of friends and crushes,” she says. “If you have concerns, raise them in a thoughtful and respectful way that enhances their self-esteem and helps them feel good about their choices.”

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H A DIFFERENT LENS VIEW AFFECTION THROUG The kind of kisses that Teach kids how to show affection. een family members are demonstrate love and tenderness betw ung children see kisses not recommended for first loves. “Yo d ones as signs of affection,” modelled by parents and other love adolescent psychologist with says Laura Paret, Ph.D., a child and an. “It follows that these same Union Square Practice in Manhatt on the playground at preschool youngsters might use a little peck !’” She suggests explaining that or at a playdate to mean: ‘I like you share feelings outside the home verbal expression is the best way to an invasion of personal space. because a kiss can be perceived as ning of a kiss changes When a kiss is just a kiss. The mea econd-grade age group. “Older as kids age out of the nursery-to-s older have a more abstract children about eight years old and

ns and how it can be used understanding of what a kiss mea compared to much younger to express romantic intentions, as s and kisses, more dominantly children who use touch, such as hug al expression toward all as their ‘language of love’ than verb r children that touch must be others,” Dr. Paret says. Teach olde both parties and let them know appropriate and welcome between me. ways in which it may be unwelco develop. Kids need to be they as gs thin on Keep an eye to worry less. “Kids don’t really supervised, but parents should try says. “It is unsettling for express worries, but parents do,” Fox they assign sexuality to parents of young children because Best advice is to let the the relationship that the kids don’t. as they get older that kids play and be friends but watch g into rooms alone. they aren’t playing ‘doctor’ or goin nd [age] ten.”

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ESTABLISH TRUST FOR THE TWEEN AND TEEN YEARS At some point your little ones will grow, hormones will kick in, and romance and sexuality will be a natural part of their interests.

How you handle early crushes can help establish a sense of trust for those tween and teen years, says Jody Ripplinger, MA, LMHC-P, a psychotherapist at Manhattan’s Citron Hennessey Private Therapy and a Brooklyn mom of three.

The best strategy is to listen to your children. “If my ten-year-old daughter came to me to say she was in love, I would first of all become really curious about the who, what, when, and

where of her experience, especially listening for what ‘being in love’ means to her,” Ripplinger says.

She admits her next impulse would be to give advice: “You’re too young to be in love!” This is a completely normal reaction from any parent. But, she says, if you pull back and try to assess what kids really need and honor their feelings, you have a much greater chance of gaining their trust down the line when the stakes are higher.

Laurie Sue Brockway is a journalist and author who has written extensively on love, romance, marriage, parenting, well-being, and emotional health. Her work has appeared in hundreds of print and online publications, including Woman’s Day, Everyday Health and The Huffington Post.

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Defeat the winter doldrums by bowling, rock climbing, playing laser tag, and more.

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amily fun doesn’t have to stop just because it’s cold outside! There are many indoor activities for families to enjoy on Staten Island and nearby. Play laser tag, go bowling, defeat a rock-climbing wall, and much more. There are plenty of local indoor activities for families to choose from that offer a great time for all ages. Browse our list of indoor family activities on Staten Island and nearby and be on your way to a great time!

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Linden Lanes

741 N. Stiles St., Linden, NJ nationwidebowling.com 908-925-3550 Hours: Monday and Thursday, 9am-12am; Tuesday, 3-11pm; Wednesday, 9am-11pm; Friday, 3pm-12am; Saturday, 10am-11pm; Sunday, 9am-10pm. Call for lane availability.

Price: Call for information This bowling center features 24 lanes, automatic scoring, a full-service grill, arcade games, and more.

Majestic Lanes Bowling

525 Route 9 N., Hopelawn, NJ majesticbowling.com • 732-826-6800 Hours: Sunday-Thursday, 10am-12am; Friday-Saturday, 10am-2am Price: Monday-Friday, 9am-5pm, $25 per lane per hour; 5pm-close and SaturdaySunday all day, $35 per lane per hour Enjoy a fun time at this family-owned bowling center that features 40 lanes and

daily open bowling specials. There’s also a snack bar with an extensive menu featuring foods that kids like.

Rab’s Country Lanes

1600 Hylan Blvd., Staten Island bowlatrabs.com • 718-979-1600 Hours: Sunday-Monday, WednesdayThursday, 9am-12am; Tuesday, 9am-5pm and 9:30pm-12am; Friday-Saturday, 9am-2am. Call for lane availability.

Price: Weekdays: $28 per hour until 6pm; $35 after 6pm; weekends: $37 per hour until 6pm; $42 per hour after 6pm Enjoy 48 lanes, open bowling every day, cosmic bowling, and more. Grab a bite to eat at the on-site kitchen to keep your energy going throughout the game.

Showplace Entertainment Center 141 E. Service Road, Staten Island facebook.com/showplace.bowling 718-477-2695 Hours: Monday-Thursday, 9:30am-12am; Friday-Saturday, 9:30am-1am; Sunday, 9:30am-2pm Price: Call for information.

Strike up some family fun at this bowling alley. Other activities on-site include a pizzeria, snack bar, and an arcade.

Woodbridge Bowling Center

346 Main St., Woodbridge, NJ woodbridgebowling.com 732-634-4520 Hours: Monday, 10am-6pm; Tuesday, 12pm-12am; Wednesday, 5-11pm; Thursday, 4-6pm and 9:30pm-12am; Friday, 5-6pm and 9:30pm-12am; Saturday, 9am-1am; Sunday, 9am-10pm. Call in advance for lane availability.

Price: Weekdays, 10am-5pm: $20 per lane per hour or $3 per person per game; 5pm-12am and Saturday-Sunday: $32 per lane per hour.

Make this bowling alley part of your itinerary for a day of fun in nearby Woodbridge. Enjoy 24 lanes and a snack bar that kids will love after they get tuckered out from knocking down lots of pins.

ESCAPE ROOMS All In Adventures

755 NJ-18, East Brunswick, NJ 732-201-7285 250 Woodbridge Center Drive, Woodbridge, NJ 732-351-2772 301 Mount Hope Ave., Rockaway, NJ 862-203-5394 • mysteryroom.com Hours: Hours vary by location; check website for details.

Price: $25 and up Choose from an array of challenging escape rooms, where you’ll have 50 minutes to solve a series of clues, codes, and puzzles.

With three difficulty levels to choose from, these escape rooms are perfect for players of all ages and skill levels.

Unreal Escapes

2571 Arthur Kill Road, Staten Island unrealescapes.com • 877-867-3255 Hours: Daily, 9am-11pm Price: Call for information.

At this escape room, groups have 60 minutes to solve riddles and puzzles using clues to find their way out.

LASER TAG Bullseye Laser Tag

200 Menlo Park Drive, Edison, NJ bullseyelasertag.com • 908-485-4040 Hours: Thursday-Saturday, 5:30-11pm Price: $30 Enjoy a 10,000-square-foot laser tag play space for ages 12 and older.

Fun Station USA

3555 Victory Blvd., Staten Island funstationsi.com • 718-370-0077 Hours: Monday-Thursday, 10am-11pm; Friday, 10am-12am; Saturday, 12pm-12am; Sunday, 12pm-10pm Price: $12.95 for one game; $21.95 for two games. On Sundays, buy one game and get one for half price.

Head to this family fun center to enjoy laser tag and other activities including an arcade, lots of rides, and batting cages.

The Funplex

182 NJ-10, East Hanover, NJ 973-428-1166 3320-24 NJ-38, Mount Laurel, NJ 856-273-9666 • thefunplex.com Hours: Check the website for the most up-to-date calendar to reserve your spot.

Price: East Hanover: $9; Mount Laurel: $7 Enjoy a thrilling battle of laser tag with surprises at every turn at this New Jersey laser tag center. After your tagging experience, round out your family fun day with other on-site attractions, including go-karts, rides, and arcade games. Note: The venue recommends laser tag for children ages 7 and older.

iPlay America

110 Schanck Road, Freehold, NJ iplayamerica.com • 732-577-8200 Hours: Check the website for updated information.

Price: There are several ways to pay, including an Unlimited iRide Band that includes access to several attractions for $34.99, plus laser tag for an additional $8.

While you’re there for laser tag, test out the bumper cars and go-karts, rides, an arcade, and more. Minimum height for laser tag is 42 inches.

Laser One

205 Route 23, Wantage, NJ laser1.us • 973-702-0500 Hours: School year: Monday and Thursday, 3:30-6pm; Friday, 3:30-11pm; Saturday, 11am-11pm; Sunday, 11am-8pm. Check the website or call for updates.

Price: $13; $3 Laser Maze Challenge Play laser tag at this multi-level arena or tackle the Laser Maze Challenge where you navigate your way through a web of green lasers. Other activities include bowling, arcade games, and mini golf.

ROCK CLIMBING ClimbZone

5369 US 9, Howell, NJ climbzone.us • 732-813-8300 Hours: Wednesday-Friday, 4-7pm; Saturday, 11am-8pm; Sunday, 11am-7pm Price: $11.99 and up This indoor climbing and entertainment center offers a variety of uniquely themed walls for kids to conquer. Other attractions include a soft play area for toddlers, arcade games, ropes course, and more.

Liberty Science Center

222 Jersey City Blvd., Jersey City, NJ lsc.org • 201-200-1000 Hours: Thursday-Friday, 10am-4pm; Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm Price: $29.99; $24.99 ages 2-12 Liberty Science Center is known for its science exhibits for kids, but did you know it also has an awesome climbing structure? While it’s not rock climbing, per se, the Infinity Climber is an exhilarating, suspended climbing play space.

It’s surrounded by hand-threaded wire that forms a protective mesh, preventing climbers from falling to the ground.

SKYZ Extreme

638 Sharrotts Road, Staten Island sites.google.com/view/skyzextreme 347-391-7673 Hours: Monday-Friday, 1-5pm; Saturday, 12-5pm Price: Call for information.

Enjoy rock climbing and aerial silks classes for kids and adults.

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Animal Rescues These shelters are full of cats, dogs, bunnies, and more looking for their fur-ever homes.

BY BARBARA RUSSO

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t one point or another, every kid has asked for a pet. If your family is ready to make the commitment to welcome a new furry, feathered, or scaly friend into your life, look no further than a local animal rescue! Not only would you be giving a permanent home to an animal in need, but pets have been known to be good for our health—psychologically, emotionally, and physically.

If you’re not quite ready to bring a pet into your life but still want to help animals, many of these organizations are in need of support.

Consider donating time, money, or supplies!

Last month’s #thebettywhitechallenge encouraged animal lovers to donate to a local rescue or shelter in Betty White’s name on Jan. 17, which would have been the beloved actress’s 100th birthday. White was an advocate and champion for all animals, and she’d be so happy to learn how much money was raised in her honor.

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STATEN ISLAND Victory 4 the Voiceless Animal Rescue

victory4thevoiceless.com Adoption inquiries: victory4thevoiceless@gmail.com All the lead group members here are certified for TNR (trap, neuter, return) and have more than 10 years of experience with animal handling and adoptions. Visit the rescue’s website to learn more about the adoption process.

For Blake’s Sake Rescue

sites.google.com/ps69dolphins.com/ forblakessake • 732-413-5006 Many animals are available for adoption here, including dogs and cats of many different breeds. Browse the rescue’s website to see who’s looking for a fur-ever home.

Animal Care Centers of NYC

3139 Veterans Road W. nycacc.org • 212-266-7880 Adoptions by appointment: TuesdaySaturday, 12-5pm With adoption locations across NYC, Animal Care Centers of NYC (ACC) is the only open-admissions animal shelter in the city and takes in an average of 30,000 animals a year. Not ready to make a full commitment, but still want to help shelter animals in need? The ACC has a foster program where you can take in a pet for a set amount of time. The organization provides foster parents with necessities, including food and toys.

Staten Island Council for Animal Welfare, Inc.

sicawsaves.org • 718-948-5623 Founded in 1972, this Staten Island animal rescue is 100-percent volunteer driven and

funded by public donations. Learn more about the organization’s adoption process and view adoptable animals on its website.

BROOKLYN AMA Animal Rescue

amaanimalrescue.org • 347-448-5944 This no-kill shelter’s mission is to safeguard and rehabilitate animals who have experienced the most severe cases of abuse, neglect, and abandonment. Read the profiles on the website of many adorable animals available for adoption. You’ll see their photos, a summary of their past, and some info on their personalities!

Animal Care Centers of NYC

2336 Linden Blvd., East New York nycacc.org • 212-266-7880 Adoptions by appointment.

With adoption locations across NYC, Animal Care Centers of NYC (ACC) is the only open-admissions animal shelter in the city and takes in an average of 30,000 animals a year. Not ready to make a full commitment, but still want to help shelter animals in need? The ACC has a foster program where you can take in a pet for a set amount of time. The organization provides foster parents with necessities, including food and toys.

Sean Casey Animal Rescue

153 E. 3 St., Windsor Terrace nyanimalrescue.org • 718-436-5163 This no-kill shelter specializes in the rescue, rehabilitation, and placement of dogs, cats, reptiles, birds, and small mammals. The organization educates families and pet owners about the needs and responsibilities of pet ownership, behavior and training issues, and health and well-being concerns.

The website has great information for both first-time and seasoned pet owners.

Hearts and Bones Rescue

heartsandbonesrescue.com Adoption inquires: info@heartsandbonesrescue.com

This foster-based rescue provides dogs with loving, temporary homes while they wait to be permanently adopted.

MANHATTAN Animal Care Centers of NYC

326 E. 110 St., East Harlem nycacc.org • 212-266-7880 Adoptions by appointment.

With adoption locations across NYC, Animal Care Centers of NYC (ACC) is the only open-admissions animal shelter in the city and takes in an average of 30,000 animals a year. Not ready to make a full commitment, but still want to help shelter animals in need? The ACC has a foster program where you can take in a pet for a set amount of time. The organization provides foster parents with necessities, including food and toys.

bideawee.org • 866-262-8133 Adoptions by appointment.

Find your family’s cat, dog, kitten, or puppy at this Manhattan-based rescue.

2000 Spays and Neuters

petfinder.com • 917-371-2751 Visit the organization’s adoptable animals on Petfinder. There are many dogs and cats waiting for a loving family to take them in.

Animal Haven

200 Centre St., Little Italy animalhaven.org • 212-274-8511 This rescue works to find homes for abandoned cats and dogs in NYC.

NEW JERSEY Somerset Regional Animal Shelter

424 E. 92 St., Upper East Side aspca.org • 212-876-7700 x4120 While the center remains closed to in-person visitors and the adoption program is currently paused, families can view adoptable dogs and cats and apply online.

100 Commons Way, Bridgewater srasnj.org/adoptions • 908-725-0308 This animal shelter takes in nearly 1,000 animals each year, including cats, dogs, and rabbits. In addition to finding homes for them, the shelter provides behavior modification, animal control, affordable spay and neuter, and pet retention programs. Learn about the adoption process on the website.

Bunnies and Beyond

Humane Society of Bergen County

ASPCA Adoption Center

bunniesandbeyond.org Adoption inquiries: info@bunniesandbeyond.org Bunnies and Beyond is an adoption and educational nonprofit dedicated to the rescue, proper care, and adoption of rabbits and guinea pigs.

The Humane Society of New York

306 E. 59 St., Midtown East humanesocietyny.org • 212-752-4842 The humane society has been helping animals for more than 100 years. The organization’s hospital and Vladimir Horowitz and Wanda Toscanini Horowitz Adoption Center help more than 38,000 animals annually.

Bideawee

410 E. 38 St., Murray Hill

221-223 Stuyvesant Ave., Lyndhurst humanesocietybergen.org 201-896-9300 Adoptions by appointment.

This rescue provides care and homes to animals that come from kill shelters or homes where they are no longer wanted, as well as those found lost and abandoned.

New Beginnings Animal Rescue

777 Helmetta Blvd., East Brunswick newbeginningsanimalrescuenj.org 732-238-1348 This rescue’s mission is to provide a haven for homeless animals through meeting their medical, physical, and emotional needs. The organization matches animals with qualified adopters, providing essentials to alleviate the financial burdens of pet ownership.

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Sweets to the Rescue 15-year-old Amanda Murray doesn’t let her diagnosis stop her from doing what she loves— baking and helping animals.

BY BARBARA RUSSO

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manda Murray was born with ataxic cerebral palsy, a condition that causes trembling throughout the body and balance and coordination problems. She doesn’t use a wheelchair, but some tasks can be challenging, such as writing and other things that require fine or gross motor skills.

Despite her diagnosis, the Tottenville High School sophomore is a very happy kid with a huge heart, according to her mother Diana Perone-Murray. In fact, Amanda, who loves to bake, made a difference in her community recently by organizing a bake sale to raise money for local animal rescues.

“Amanda is an animal lover. We live in a house full of animals with three dogs and three guinea pigs,” explains Diana, who also has a 9-year-old daughter named Brianna.

WHEN ONE PASSION BENEFITS ANOTHER

In November, Amanda got to work on launching her fundraiser.

She spent a week in the kitchen following recipes and whipping up sweet treats such as pumpkin bread, banana bread, crumb cake, chocolate-covered pretzels, and chocolate-chip cookies all to help shelter animals find their fur-ever homes. Diana and support workers from A Very Special Place, a Staten Island-based organization that helps adults and children with disabilities, were there to help, but all the culinary credit goes to Amanda.

The bake sale was held at the Murrays’ South Shore home in early November, and it was a success. Amanda raised a total of $530 for the Sean Casey Animal Rescue in Brooklyn and For Blake’s Sake, an animal rescue on Staten Island.

“We had a great turnout,” Diana says. “That first day, we

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actually ran out of items. So that night, we baked more for Sunday.”

It’s not surprising the bake sale sold out so quickly. Amanda made signs and posted them throughout the neighborhood to advertise the fundraiser, while Diana promoted it on social media.

So, what is it about animals that Amanda loves so much? Her answer is one that undoubtedly rings true for many people. “I love that they are calming, and they make me feel relaxed,” she says.

“It makes me feel very good to help them.”

BAKING UP SUCCESS

Amanda plans to have another bake sale in the spring. Meanwhile, she just started her own small baking business called Rosie’s Sweets that helps keep her baking skills sharp. It’s still new, but she already had several sales in November. It’s not so much about the sales as it is the skills she’s learning while managing her own operation, according to Diana, “She did well over Thanksgiving, and made herself a little money,” Diana says. “I’m trying to teach her business, such as how much money you’ll need and how much things will cost. Things like that.”

Amanda thrives, has a 94 average in school, and works hard to overcome the challenges set forth by cerebral palsy. Diana adds that a lot of Amanda’s success is also due to the work put in by a team of professionals who help her. “She has a one-on-one para who is very familiar with her. She has a very good team of people,” Diana says. “The credit definitely goes to all of us. I can’t take credit for all of it.”

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