Staten Island Parent - November 2022

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There is NO WAY it is already November! I feel like I just put away my holiday decorations and I’m already pulling them back out. Do you ever wish you could just press a button and BAM! a beautifully decorated home for every season appears around you. How great would that be? But I digress.

It might seem early, but we’re already getting into the holiday spirit around hereand we hope you are, too! Start planning the festivities with a Holiday Train Ride (page 14) or a Holiday Highlight event (page 34). Keep an eye out for the upcoming December issue featuring tons more holiday fun, and make sure you are signed up for our emails (go to siparent.com/signup).

As the fall air changes from crisp and cool to just plain cold, you’ll probably want more indoor ideas for your family outings. We’re highlighting museums this month with our Guide to Art Museums with Kids (page 40) and our favorite museums for children in and near Staten Island (page 10). Does your child have a winter birthday? Plan their party at one of the 5 Best Birthday Party Places in Staten Island (page 28).

If you are the parent of a child with special needs, flip to page 16 to read about 5 Common Autism Myths, and page 20

to learn more about Occupational Therapy. Our Special Needs Directory (page 22) might help you find just the right professional you have been seeking for your child. This Thanksgiving (and every day), I am grateful to you, our readers, who have trusted Staten Island Parent for over 30 years to help you raise your family . We would like to wish you and your loved ones a very happy and healthy Thanksgiving!

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What is it about those British royals people are so enthralled by? If that’s you, you might be interested to know that Princess Anne—the only daughter of the late Queen Elizabeth—paid a visit to Staten Island last month!

A lighthouse enthusiast, Princess Anne was named the honorary chair of the National Lighthouse Museum’s Campaign For Illuminating Future Generations, which is part of a longterm plan to expand the St. Georgebased museum’s space and develop high-tech exhibits.

Princess Anne was invited to Staten Island by Linda Dianto, the museum’s executive director, who knew of her love of preserving lighthouses.

Fossella said Borough Hall will continue to support the museum’s mission “any way we can.” He called it a key part to opening the promenade and revitalizing the St. George waterfront.

“This museum will actually be an integral part of that vision, so we’re going to do whatever we can to help them grow,” he said.

Princess Anne returned to Manhattan aboard the Sandy Ground Ferry.

cHiLDreN ’s museum oFFers NeW Hours

The Staten Island Children’s Museum, a popular destination for local families, has expanded its hours.

The museum is now open WednesdayFriday, 10am-1pm; Saturday-Sunday, 10am1pm, and 2-5pm.

“We regularly survey our visitors and have received feedback that more weekday hours

would be useful particularly for those with chil dren not yet in pre-k and for homeschoolers,” Dina Rosenthal, executive director, said. “So, we are excited to be able to expand our fall hours to include an AM session 10am to 1pm, Wednes day through Friday in addition to our weekend hours. The museum is also available during the week for school field trips by appointment.”

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Debt reLieF appLicatioN is NoW avaiL abLe

The long-awaited student loan debt relief application is now live and available at studentaid.gov/DebtRelief/Apply.

The federal program provides eligible borrowers with full or partial discharge of loans up to $20,000 to Pell Grant recipients, and up to $10,000 to non-Pell Grant recipients.

Here’s who qualifies:

Individuals who made less than $125,000 in 2021 or 2020

Families that made less than $250,000 in 2021 or 2020

The application process should take less than five minutes to complete. You don’t need to log in or provide any documents when you apply, but you’ll need to enter your Social Security number and other pertinent ID information. The application is also available for both desktop and mobile devices.

The deadline to apply is Dec. 31, 2023. Education Department officials will contact applicants if they need more information.

soccer reF opportuNities opeN For teeNs

The Eastern New York Youth Soccer Association is seeking new grassroots referees to be in the middle as refs and/or on the line as assistant referees in soccer games throughout the state.

The minimum age is 14 years old to become certified.

Kids who become refs learn to manage people, be their own boss by going directly to

the customer (players, coaches and leagues), stay or get fit and make new friends, all while earning money. Working with assignors, kids will set their schedules based on their availability.

For more information on upcoming courses near you, contact State Youth Referee Administrator Piero Olcese at wsropresident@ gmail.com.

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and evening parent-teacher conferences for middle schools and D75 schools; students in these schools dismissed three hours early

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Evening parent-teacher conferences for high schools, K-12 and 6-12 schools

Afternoon parent-teacher conferences for high schools, K-12 and 6-12 schools; students in these schools dismissed three hours early

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– Thanksgiving recess, schools closed

Children’s Museums Near Staten Island

By Bella KjelleN

Whether you are looking for a day of adventure and learning with the kids or are looking for a museum that has kids in mind, New York has the best offerings.

While museums may sometimes be characterized as quiet spaces filled with dull exhibits, these museums are specifically created with kids in mind. Many of these picks boast highly interactive and sensoryenhancing exhibits designed for growing intellects. Whether your child is interested in art, science, history or anything in between, a children’s museum is sure to be perfect for you and your family.

Here’s a roundup of children’s museums in New York to visit with your family!

Staten Island Children’s Museum

1000 Richmond Terrace, Staten Island, NY One of the museums on the expansive grounds of Snug Harbor, the Staten Island Children’s Museum offers imaginative,

creative, and cultural hands-on experiences for children ages 1 and up. With 12 indoor and outdoor exhibits, dance and art workshops, science and story times, there is something for every kid. Added bonus? The museum offers free admission on most holidays when the kids are off of school.

Children’s Museum of Manhattan

212 W 83rd St, New York, NY 10024

Over the years, the Children’s Museum of Manhattan has been a notable destination for thousands of kids, families and educators in the five boroughs and beyond. Here, discover what the museum has to offer, like their new exhibit, Inside Art: Create, Climb, Collaborate. The interactive exhibition allows kids to engage with contemporary art and explore new ideas.

Other exhibits include Dynamic H2O, which allows kids to learn about New York City’s water system; Play Works; Right to Vote, a temporary exhibition to celebrate the centennial of women’s suffrage and teach children about the importance of voting;

and Superpowered Metropolis, an immersive superhero-themed exhibition. All of these offerings are curated for different ages and designed to teach kids important skills while having fun.

Di m enna children’s History m useum 170 Central Park West at Richard Gilder Way (77th Street), New York, NY 10024

Part of the New York Historical Society museum, the DiMenna Children’s Museum allows families and children to connect with America’s past, present and future. Learn about the history of the country and New York City through exhibits that teach visitors about the lives of historical figures, from childhood to adulthood. Join along in singalongs, arts and crafts, and games scattered throughout the museum. Connect with our country’s past and have your kid engage in various interactive displays and lessons!

Liberty science center

222 Jersey City Blvd., Jersey City, NJ 07305 Liberty Science Center has been serving the

community for over two decades providing interactive, educational fun for generations of families and children, and it’s home to the largest IMAX Dome Theater in the Western Hemisphere. This four-floor, nearly 300,000-square-foot facility appeals and caters to children and adults of all ages, be they a science aficionado, a budding botanist, a tech enthusiast, an animal-lover, or just a person looking to spend the day in one of the most entertaining, enthralling, thought-provoking museums in the NYC area.

National Museum of Mathematics

11 E 26th St, New York, NY 10010

Numbers take on a new life in the National Museum of Mathematics. This museum highlights the role of math in the world around us. Within its dynamic exhibits, allow your kids to explore how math is all around them, in everything from logo designs to sports. The museum also features events, including a math book club that allows tweens and teens to keep learning about math even when they’re not at the museum.

American Museum of Natural History 200 Central Park West, New York, NY 10024

The American Museum of Natural History brings excitement to learning about history, especially for families. Discover the world of sharks (running until September 4, 2023) in their new exhibit that focuses on these spectacular and often misunderstood creatures. The museum is filled with incredible life sized skeletons, including a Tyrannosaurus Rex! While you’re there, be sure to reserve tickets for the Hayden Planetarium. You and your family will be blown away with what this museum has to offer.

Historic Richmond Town 441 Clarke Ave., Staten Island, NY 10306

Step back in time at this living history village that focuses on the colonial period to the present. The museum’s collection has 60,000 artifacts that tell the stories of American life over centuries. Exhibits include the Third County Courthouse: Center of Civic Life on Staten Island that showcases courthouse architecture, notable

trials, the political process and a county jail. The village is also home to the Voorlezer’s house, believed to be one of the oldest school houses in the country, dating back to the 1690s.

Brooklyn Children’s Museum

145 Brooklyn Ave, Brooklyn, NY 11213

As the first children’s museum in the United States built in 1899, the Brooklyn Children’s Museum does not disappoint. The museum was designed to encourage little ones to explore a variety of senses and encourage social, physical and emotional development. With different exhibits like Totally Tots (which features nine different sensory play areas) and The Nest on their rooftop terrace, kids have the opportunity to experience what the museum has to offer hands-on.

One of the museum’s most unique features is the World Brooklyn exhibit. This is the BCM’s very own mini Brooklyn with mini shops based on the real ones they would find across Brooklyn. Here they will have the chance to learn about the different parts of a community and what helps it thrive.

GRAND OPENING!

A FLURRY OF FUN IN NEW JERSEY

Welcome winter in New Jersey—from candlelight tours in Cape May to snow tubing in the Skylands. View dazzling light shows and live performances of The Nutcracker and other classics. Experience Holiday in the Park at Six Flags Great Adventure and shopping at Palmer Square in Princeton. Discover museums like the Liberty Science Center and enjoy journeys with American Revolution and Black Heritage Itineraries.

Get your free official travel guide and discover more at VisitNJ.org

Christmas Train Rides

By BaRBaR a Russo

This holiday season, hop on a holiday train ride or polar express train in New York City or nearby and head into a magical winter wonderland of snow, garland, reindeer and Christmas cheer, all arranged by Santa himself. These whimsical train or trolley rides are the perfect Christmas events to put your family into the spirit of the holiday season. There are many Christmas- and Polar Express-inspired train and trolley rides planned in New York City and nearby this winter. Most feature an hour-long journey complete with live entertainment, hot cocoa, festive snacks and more, all en route to meet Santa at the North Pole.

While many holiday train rides are heavily inspired by “The Polar Express,” a classic Christmas tale written by Chris Van Allsburg, other excursions have added their own unique elements of holiday fun. Either way, a holiday ride to the North Pole is sure to delight kids – and adults! – of all ages. So book your ticket, get on board for fun and immerse yourself in the holiday season!

Finish out the day skating in Rockefeller Center, stop by New York Botanical Garden’s Train Show, or heading back to Staten Island to do some holiday shopping.

North Pole Express 2022 42 Street between Fifth and Sixth Avenues, Manhattan 212-664-0300 • topviewnyc.com Ready for a festive NYC holiday adventure? Top View Sightseeing is back with a festive spin on its sight-seeing tours. Take the North Pole Express to re-live a magical childhood Christmas experience. This double-decker trolley travels through the city as passengers enjoy caroling, meeting Santa, storytelling and lots of holiday-themed activities for kids. Ride through the city to see beautiful light displays that are the signature of the season. Standard and enhanced packages available.

Catskill Mountain Christmas Train 55 Kingston Plaza Rd., Kingston, NY 845-332-4854 • catskillmountainrailroad.com Did you know that there’s a route through the Catskills to get to the North Pole? Check

it out during a 60-minute train adventure through the majestic Catskill Forest to Santa’s Workshop up north. Passengers will enjoy live entertainment and receive a free cookie and small gift.

The Polar Express Trolley Ride 96 Main Rd., Riverhead, NY 631-369-3031 • northforktrolley.com/ Hop on a vintage trolley and enjoy the magic and beauty of Christmas as you relive the enchanting tale of The Polar Express. Santa and his helpers are on board the whole time to greet passengers and give them the first gift of Christmas before characters lead festive onboard entertainment. Lots of activities for kids are part of the fun, and each child will receive a keepsake sleigh bell to take home (reminiscent of the classic tale). Visit the online gift shop where you can purchase gifts after booking your tickets. Staff will have the gifts ready for you when boarding.

Polar Express Whippany 1 Railroad Plaza Whippany, NJ 973-419-6255 • whippanythepolarexpressride. com

Get whisked away to a magical land on a one-hour train ride to the North Pole. The fun begins as soon as you board. Car hosts work their way through the cars to punch your golden ticket before serving delicious hot chocolate and shortbread cookies. Throughout the trip, there’s a reading of the classic story, caroling and other festive onboard entertainment. Passengers take home a keepsake sleigh bell reminiscent of the story. Value, standard and premium

packages are available.

The Santa Train Route 23 Transit Center, Wayne, NJ 973-656-0707 • tristaterail.org

The Tri-State Railway Historical Society, Inc., returns in 2022 with its annual Ride with Santa in Wayne, NJ. Set in a modern, climatecontrolled train, the excursion is an hour long holiday-themed ride where passengers are treated to on-board entertainment including caroling, music, a cast of costumed characters and more holiday fun.

The Polar Express In Phillipsburg 99 Elizabeth St., Phillipsburg, NJ 877-872-4674 • 877trainride.com

Board the Polar Express at the Delaware River Railroad Excursions, operated by the New York Susquehanna and Western Technical and Historical Society. The experience is set to the music of the motion picture version of The Polar Express. Passengers will be treated to hot chocolate, cookies, live entertainment and more. Santa boards the train and visits with children along with his elves. Each child receives a bell from Santa.

Santa Express 80 Stangl Rd., Flemington, NJ 908-782-6622 • blackriverrailroad.com

The Santa Express features lots of holiday fun. New this year, passengers can take a photo with a 6-foot-tall wreath at North Pole Station. Passengers will meet Santa and Mrs. Claus on board the train. Kids receive a sleigh bell gift to take home. Various ticket packages are available.

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Common Myths

Autism Spectrum Disorder

BY KATELIN WALLING

While the awareness of autism spectrum disorder has grown due to social media, increased research, Autism Awareness Month, and more, there are still many misconceptions about ASD, from its causes to the characteristics and abilities of those on the spectrum.

As its name denotes, autism is a spec-

trum, meaning not everyone diagnosed with autism displays the same traits, exhibits the same behaviors, or has the same abilities— just like you or me. So applying blanket statements to those on the spectrum would be like saying girls can’t throw or boys don’t cry.

We spoke to experts about stereotypes of ASD, and uncovered the truth behind five big misconceptions about the disorder and those diagnosed with it.

Myth 1: Vaccines cause autism. Unfortunately we do still hear the misconception that autism is related to vaccinations, commonly the measles, mumps, rubella vaccination, says Sarah Kuriakose, Ph.D., BCBAD, clinical assistant professor of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry at NYU Langone Health. “Not only was the initial study that showed that a fraudulent study, but follow-up studies have debunked that many times,” she explains.

There are other concerns that autism is caused by “various environmental factors that a pregnant mother may be exposed to and in utero some of those environmental causative factors may have somehow affected the fetus,” says John Pfeifer, senior director of Clinical Services and the Family Center for Autism, part of Life’s WORC, a Long Island nonprofit that supports people with developmental disabilities and autism. “There’s still ongoing research about the expansion of electromagnetic technology and various environmental chemicals and such that may be at play, but not knowing everything in the environment that may be affecting a fetus, either seen or unseen, makes it hard to decipher that.”

“What we do know about autism is there seems to be a genetic component, and about ten to twenty percent of cases with ASD are linked to an identified genetic disorder,” says Dr. Kuriakose, who is also senior director of the NYU Langone Autism and Developmental Neuroscience Initiative and the clinical direc tor of the Autism Spectrum Disorder Clinical and Research Program at NYU’s Child Study Center. “We anticipate that that number will go up with more genetics research. But even in identical twins, the concordance rate is not one-hundred percent, so we know there is some factor that is not genetic as well.”

Myth 2: People on the spectrum are anti-social and don’t have feelings. Dr. Kuriakose says parents, teachers, and even doctors will tell her things like, “that child can’t have autism because…he’s affectionate, …she makes eye contact, or …he’s interested in other kids.”

“So what can end up happening is people have this very black-and-white picture that a person with autism is someone who is anti-social and isn’t interested in other people,” she says. “We know that those aren’t necessarily true.” Yet thanks to this persistent myth, a child who does have autism might not be given a diagnosis—his parents may be hanging on to the fact that their child is affec tionate though he is struggling in other ways.

“It is often thought that people with autism don’t have feelings, which is a very sad misconception and very far from the truth,” adds Janet Koch, CEO of Life’s WORC. “They are capable of having loving relationships with family members and friends.”

Myth 3: People with autism exhibit challenging and/or maladaptive behaviors.

“It’s not fair to say that challenging behaviors are inherent in the diagnosis,” Pfeifer says. “They are often a byproduct of ineffective treatment of some of the things that are inherent in the diagnosis, which are communication and socialization difficulties.” These behaviors could include flapping hands, rocking, or other selfstimulatory behaviors.

“We still unfortunately have the misconception from previous media portrayals that kids with autism are nonverbal, are going to sit in the corner, and just rock or flap their hands,” Dr. Kuriakose says.

As society becomes more educated about autism, people are learning about adapting communication efforts. “I have young children, and they’re learning in integrated classrooms about what these behaviors may mean. It could actually help a person [on the spectrum] to not escalate to such a significant behavior because they’ll be able to communicate more easily with people who have been taught how to communicate with them,” Koch says.

Myth 4: Those on the spectrum are savants and/or are fixated on one topic.

The media commonly portrays those with autism as being savants or having restricted interest in a singular subject area: Sam Gardner in Netflix’s Atypical and Shaun Murphy in ABC’s The Good Doctor are two recent portrayals. “Certainly we have kids and adults with autism who have an amazing depth of knowledge in a particular area, incredible memory, incredible pattern recognition skills, things like that that are going to set them up for a particular career,” Dr. Kuriakose says, but not all people on the spectrum show these characteristics.

In fact, the most recent criteria for an ASD diagnosis from the Diagnostic and

Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders fall into two categories: social communication and restricted, repetitive behaviors (RRB). There are four traits that fall under the RRB category—repetitive speech or behavior/ mannerisms, restricted interest, sensory challenges, and difficulty with transitions or insistence on sameness—and a person needs to only exhibit two of the RRB traits (and meet criteria from the social communication category) to receive a diagnosis of autism, according to Dr. Kuriakose. “So you could have a kid who has some sensory challenges and insistence on sameness without any restricted interest at all and you could still have the diagnosis,” she says.

Myth 5: People with ASD can’t go to college, have jobs, or get married. Because some people with autism may struggle with social situations, have commu nication challenges, and have difficulty with flexibility, there’s the misconception that they will not be able to attend higher education, have a job, or get married and have kids.

“There are lots of examples of folks with au tism who do successfully do those things, and the big thing that’s important is it’s all about the supports the environment can provide,” Dr. Kuriakose says.

When working with a patient who is looking at colleges or employment opportunities, Dr. Kuriakose looks for a setting that is supportive of that patient’s strengths and challenges. In fact, “a lot of individuals with autism are actually really great, dedicated, passionate employees, but it has to be a setting that can understand that they might process information and interact in ways that are slightly different from typical.”

In terms of getting married, Dr. Kuriakose says there are quite a few instances where she’s diagnosed a child with autism, and a few months later their parent will observe that they’re seeing some of the same characteristics in themselves or another family member. “And these are all people who had families,” she says.

Combatting the myths So how can we continue to combat these and other myths about people on the spectrum? “Just like with any other group, you shed your misconceptions when you have more close relationships with people in that group,” Dr. Kuriakose says. “And so I really would encourage people to engage with lots of individuals with autism.”

“It is often thought that people with autism don’t have feelings, which is a very sad misconception and very far from the truth.”

Occupational Therapy

By Jeannine Cintron

“Every child develops at their own pace.” I have repeated this (absolutely true) statement countless times before, always in an effort to comfort a concerned friend or relative who is wondering why their child isn’t walking yet, talking yet, playing yet or reaching any number of milestones a parent will anxiously await when their kids are young. I’ve even said it to myself a few times. A parent’s job is to worry, right?

But what happens when it becomes apparent that “their own pace” is nowhere near that of other children their age? Words of comfort from a friend should be replaced by the advice of a professional, which is when the occupational therapist might come in.

We chatted with Nicole Benedicks, a school-based certified Occupational Therapist, who shared with us what the OT

does and what a parent should expect if their child is starting this kind of therapy.

What does an Occupational Therapist do?

Generally, occupational therapists work with people of all ages in a variety of settings to enhance or recover function, teach or modify a skill, or adapt a task or the environment to promote independence. Occupational therapy helps people live more independent lives and engage in everyday activities that are purposeful to them.

I work with children in a special educa tion school environment (K-5) to support and enhance students’ school-based skills. I work with a team, which can include the teacher, speech therapist, and physical therapist, guidance counselor and/or social worker. I typically work with students 1:1 or in a small group to develop or enhance skills to help them function and be as independent as pos sible within the school environment. Areas of

focus can include writing, cutting, dressing, feeding, visual perceptual skills (e.g. puzzles), and visual motor skills.

What is the difference between Occupation al Therapy and Physical Therapy?

There is a lot of overlap between the two professions. The most common assumption is that occupational therapists focus on the upper extremities and that physical therapists focus on the lower extremities, but that is not always the case. Both professions focus on the entire body and movement, but occupational therapy typically focuses on improving a person’s ability to engage in everyday activities, and evaluates limitations that might be affecting their daily performance. Physical therapy, on the other hand, focuses on movement, specifically a per son’s physical abilities and limitations in their mobility, strength and range of motion, and evaluates their movement dysfunction.

How can you prepare your child for Occupa tional Therapy?

It is beneficial to start therapy immedi ately once you notice there is a problem or de lay in development. When your child is very young there isn’t much you can do to prepare them for occupational therapy. However, if

therapy begins when your child is old enough to understand that they are meeting someone new, preparation will depend on your child’s age and level of cognition.

Typically, OT sessions include play activities, so explaining to your child that someone new will be coming to play with them may help to prepare for their session. I typically recommend having a child’s sessions scheduled for an optimal time of day where you would expect them to perform their best (i.e., not too tired, not overstimulated). Avoid allowing them to be engaged in a desired task (e.g., playing with a tablet, watching television) just before their scheduled session because removing the desired item can lead to a meltdown and your child may make a nega tive association with their therapist.

How long can treatment last?

The length of time a child receives treatment varies based on the child’s needs. Treatment can be on a consultative level where a child may not receive direct services and an OT can provide useful information and strategies that families can implement

and use in their everyday lives. For children with more severe cognitive and/or physical deficits, treatment can last through child hood into adulthood.

What does treatment look like for a child who mildly needs OT versus a child who has a disability?

Typically, treatment for a child with mild delays focuses on specific areas of deficit and the OT will work to develop those problem areas to promote independence.

When a child has a more severe disability, an OT will typically work on a range of skills focusing on helping children play and learn in a purposeful way. When physical disabilities are involved, treatment can include strength ening tasks, fine motor muscle development, improving dexterity, and adapting a task or the environment so they can engage in tasks in a modified way.

What should a parent consider when select ing the right OT professional for their child?

I would recommend finding a therapist that works mostly with children, and more specifically, if your child has a diagnosis (e.g., autism, cerebral palsy), finding a therapist that has a lot of experience working with that population. You might want to schedule a “trial” session before making a decision to see how well your child responds to them.

You should also consider what works best for your family and your schedule. Children can be seen in their home, at school or in a clinic-based setting. Finding what works best for your child is really going to differ from one family to the next.

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At A Friendly Face Family, they understand the difficulties and frustration in finding professional assistance for your child. Their goal is to provide a highly skilled and trained behavior professional team to assist your child and family to acclimate to a life of loving and caring for someone on the Autism Spectrum.

children at play 40 Merrill Avenue, 10314 718-370-7529

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Children At Play (CAP) has provided services to the Staten Island special needs community for over 30 years!

CAP offers educational and waiver services for

children and adults. CAP is committed to providing each student and participant with a unique and individualized experience.

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Early Start is an Early Intervention Program that provides homebased evaluations and therapeutic services for children from birth to 3 years old. They have been providing Speech/Feeding, Physical, Occupational and ABA therapy for 30 years.

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Serving Staten Island families since 1993.

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First Foot Forward is a preschool program for children 2.6 to 5 years old with developmental needs. Their individualized curriculum allows children to reach their full potential in a nurturing environment. New York City and State fund programming. All services (evaluations, transportation, tuition) are at no direct cost to parents.

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Marvin’s programs are led by highly experienced staff with degrees in special education, social work, and school psychology. Low staff-tocamper ratios. They also offer an inclusion program in their traditional camp program. Interview is required for all new campers.

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Person Centered Care Services is a not-for-profit organization creating social change within communities by supporting people with disabilities on their search for identity and acceptance. Services available include Community Supports, Residential Supports, Career Supports, Day Supports, Family Education & Training, Self-Directed Supports.

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411 Richmond Hill Road, 10314 917-819-5056

Rivertowns Pediatrics of Staten Island is an innovative, sensory friendly, general pediatrics office that offers a personalized and comprehensive medical experience. Skip waiting rooms, get convenient appointments, text your doctor directly when you have a question. Dr Barayev is now also offering comprehensive diagnostic autism evaluations.

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465 Belfield Ave., 13012 917-825-9005

Providing speech and

language therapy to the Staten Island community for over 40 years. Toddlers - seniors. Specializing in fluency and stuttering, language and feeding disorders. Prompt trained for Apraxia of speech and phonological and articulation disorders. ASHA certified. New York state license in Speech and Language Pathology. Department of Education RSA accepted.

s unny Days consulting s ervices

1110 South Avenue, Suite 405, 10314

718-556-1616

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Sunny Days provides homebased evaluations and ongoing therapy for infants and toddlers (ages birth to three years) suspected of

having any developmental delays. We offer Speech Therapy, Occupational Therapy, Physical Therapy and Special Educational services. Services are funded by the NY State Department of Health. No out of pocket expenses necessary.

the community school High School: 201-862-1796 CHSoffice@communityschool. k12.nj.us 1135 Teaneck Road, Teaneck, NJ 07666

Lower School: 201-837-8070 office@communityschool.us 11 W Forest Avenue, Teaneck, NJ 07666 communityschoolk12nj.org Community School serves the bright child with learning and attentional disabilities. For 54 years the school’s primary goal has been to

help children achieve a level of classroom performance that is fully commensurate with their abilities, intellects & talents. Located in Teaneck, NJ, just over the George Washington Bridge.

the g race Foundation 460 Brielle Avenue 718-983-3800 graceofny.org

The Grace Foundation improves the lives of individuals and families affected by Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). Grace provides programs including Site Based Respite/In-Home Respite, Day Hab and Com Hab for ages 5-30. The ultimate goal is to enable individuals with ASD to lead independent and productive lives.

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At the James P. Murphy Staten Island Preparatory School, we are proud to provide a rigorous curricular program combined with ABA programming to meet the needs of students with disabilities from ages 3 to 13. Our curriculum includes ELA, mathematics, science and social studies with the use of the Next Generation Learning Standards modified for our students to access instruction. Our school is excited to provide on-site related services and a social emotional learning emphasis for each student in our building. Small classroom ratios and specially trained staff allow for an individualized experience and approach to learning.

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Fall Activities at American Dream

american Dream is the ultimate destination for indoor fun and action-packed attractions for kids of all ages. Home to the DreamWorks Water Park, Nickelodeon Universe Theme Park, Black Light Mini Golf, Angry Bird Mini Golf, Big SNOW, The Rink, SEA LIFE Aquarium, the fun doesn’t stop there!

Shop at North America’s largest Zara, Lululemon, Saks Fifth Avenue and more! Don’t forget to stop by the first-ever MrBeast Burger, House of ‘Que – BBQ prepared Texas Style, and fine-dining Italian by Carpaccio.

This fall, you’ll also find tons of special events and activities that will truly be a dream for you and your family.

Dream Day Sundays – The Ultimate Fan Zone

Watch football with your family every Sunday at House of ‘Que. Wear your

favorite jersey for an all-day indoor tailgating experience.

Women’s Pro Hockey Skates Into American Dream

See The Metropolitan Riveters take the ice at American Dream this fall. This women’s team from the Premier Hockey Federation will be playing on The Rink during opening weekend on November 19th at 1:00pm and 20th at noon.

Beyond Van Gogh: The Immersive Experience

Experience the artistic wonders of Van Gogh through this immersive experience. Kicking off on December 1st, the exhibit features the use of cutting-edge technology and original music that breathes new life into 300 of his paintings. Guests will love walking through this 30,000-square-foot space, soaking in the fusion of art and technology.

Get a Dream Pass and Season Pass

Enjoy all of the awesome experiences at American Dream – for both parks at a dis count! Dream Passes allow you and your kids to experience the fun of DreamWorks Water Park and Nickelodeon Universe this fall and winter at a discount. The Season Splash Pass for DreamWorks Water Park cost $179 per person and the Season Thrill Pass for Nickel odeon Universe is $125 per person.

Soaring Skies Bundle

Save on a thrilling adventure to American Dream with a Soaring Skies Bundle. The bundle combines a day pass to Nickelodeon Universe and a pass to Dream Wheel, NJ’s only observation wheel for $89 per person. Passes can be used for one day or over two days.

Check out the full experience at americandream.com!

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Best Birthday Party Places

By New yoRK Family

Birthday Party planning can be right up there with trying to find the right daycare provider. Ok, fine, they aren’t that stressful. Yet, we want our kids to have a fantastic birthday experience, and if your kids are like ours, they may start bringing up

their birthday at least ten months before the big day. So yes, there is a bit of pressure.

And, of course, all parents want their kids to have an amazing birthday party. Fortunately, we got you covered! What if we told you we could take a large chunk of that worry from your to-do list? We can, as we have five of the best spots to throw a birthday party in and

around Staten Island. From parties that include an indoor water pool to a venue where the kids can dance their socks off, check out five of the best places to start planning that birthday party!

american Dream

Head to this fun spot for a memorable birthday party at the world-renowned indoor attraction American Dream for your child’s next birthday. Stay cool by the pool at DreamWorks Water Park or coast into thrills at Nickelodeon Universe! At the American Dream fun destination- the birthday possi bilities are endless. Kids can enjoy visits with their favorite characters, customizable food & drink menus, face painting & glitter tattoos, Magic Memories photo & party favor pack ages, Candy raid, Graffiti wall and more. 1 American Dream Way, East Rutherford, NJ 07073, 833-263-7326, americandream.com/ locations, americandream.com/birthdays.

Dream Wheel NJ

The new Dream Wheel NJ, at The American

Dream Mall in East Rutherford, NJ (a quick 20 minutes from Manhattan), offers a wide range of kids’ birthday party packages to make the special day unique and unforgettable! Private areas and café space paired with private “gondolas” to experience amazing views of the NYC skyline from almost 300 feet in the air. For yummy food, partygoers can eat at Deep Fried Love; the in-house carnival-type treats café. Munch on Deep Fried Oreos, Corndogs and cotton candy, and it is not a party if you don’t have four choices of flavored lemon ade. Your party kid and friends will make memories that last forever! Dream Wheel NJ, 1 American Dream Way, East Rutherford, NJ 07073, 201-800-4261, DreamWheelNJ.com, info@dreamwheelnj.com.

victory gymnastics center Planning a birthday party for your little gymnast? VGC’s popular birthday parties consist of one hour of fun-filled, age appropriate gym activities followed by 45 minutes of celebration time in the refreshment area. Gym activities during your party may include relay races, obstacle course, rope

swing, trampoline and other gymnastics, parachute games and more. All parties are led by staff members to ensure that the children and guests have a safe and exciting experience. Victory Gymnastics Center, Staten Island’s longest running gymnastics facility, has been providing safe, fun recreational classes, tumbling classes, private instruction, and, of course, birthday parties for over 40 years. In addition to parties, VGC offers classes for all age groups from Tiny Tots parent and child classes through Adult private sessions- there’s a little something for everyone. Victory Gymnastics, 3575 Victory Blvd., 718-9839090.

m aster curry karate Master Curry hosts thrilling and affordable birthday parties for their students and neighbors in a very clean and safe environment. Your guests will enjoy a fun session with Master Curry, where all kids can participate in activities and earn prizes. Master Curry and his attentive, engaging staff chaperones and supervises your child’s party, creating a well-structured class full

of fun, life lessons and, of course, karate –while parents sit back and relax! Children may choose to participate or sit back and enjoy the show. A retired NYPD detective, Master Curry has been a pillar in the Staten Island community for over 30 years and has instructed thousands of students. Master Curry Karate, 3896 Richmond Avenue, 718979-7087, mastercurry.com.

staten i sland Fun park

Want to host a party that your kid and all of their friends will never stop talking about? Create unforgettable moments at the Staten Island FunPark on your birthday and all the time! Show off your racing skills on the Go-Karts at Staten Island Raceway, try not to strike out at the batting cages, then meet up with your friends at the 19th hole snack bar after that hole in one! Guests also receive an exclusive party space with an overhead tent and four picnic style tables to celebrate their special event with family and friends. Staten Island Fun Park, 215 Schmidts Lane, 718788-2676, info@nycarousel.com, sifunpark. com/birthdays-groups/birthdays.

Run/Walk Honors Staten Islander Who Saved Lives Through Organ Donation

kidney went to her brother’s friend, Jarred Worley, who was on dialysis at the time.

By BaRBaR a Russo

Throughout her life, Victoria McDonnell loved to help people. And her last act of kindness made her a hero. It saved three lives.

Victoria, who grew up on Staten Island, died suddenly in 2019 at the age of 26 of an arteriovenous malformation, known as an AVM, an abnormal tangle of blood vessels in the brain.

The young Staten Islander loved her family and friends, as well as her job at the Duane Reade cosmetics counter in Downtown Manhattan. As a talented makeup artist, busy workers from the Financial District and many others would seek her out at that location to get beauty consultations. Her clients loved her work, and she loved

helping them feel good about themselves. Victoria’s father, Michael McDonnell, 59, recently spoke about his daughter’s life and how proud he was of her.

“She was funny and had a great sense of humor,” Michael said. “She was very giving of her time and herself, and very generous. I think that’s probably the quality about her that sticks out the most in my mind. She just liked to help people, which is something I’m very proud of.”

victoria’s r un/Walk For Life 5 k Michael was proud of Victoria throughout her life and after her death. She saved three lives through organ donation. Her liver and one kidney went to a 53-year-old man. Her left lung saved a 72-year-old. Her other

“Once I found out she was an organ donor, I felt like we had some kind of purpose to this. Something good can come out of it,” Michael said. “I just felt so proud of her.”

Michael, who’s a retired NYPD detective, honors his late daughter’s memory through running. From the time Victoria was in the hospital, Michael has maintained a partner ship with LiveOnNY, the federally designated organ procurement organization that helps grieving families manage the complex, time-sensitive logistics of the organ-donation process in the greater New York area. Known as an OPO, LiveOnNY is one of 57 organiza tions of its kind across the United States. On Oct. 2, Michael and the LiveOnNY Founda tion hosted the second annual Victoria’s Run/ Walk for Life 5K at Clove Lakes Park.

The event raised over $12,000 for the

foundation.

was a pivotal moment in the hospital when we realized Victoria was a registered organ donor, and it really gave me a lot of strength and comfort that she was able to save others,” Michael, who lives in Manalapan, N.J., said. “It helps the recipients, but it also helps the family of the donor. It was a final gift that Victoria gave, and I do everything I can to honor her memory. Organ donation was her last amazing act of kindness and I encourage others to do the same.”

o rgan Donation i n New york

Since Victoria’s passing, Michael, who is now the director of life safety and security for Silverstein Properties, NYC, has become a passionate advocate in raising awareness on the importance of becoming a registered organ, tissue or eye donor. The run/walk is an annual run in Staten Island established to inspire others to become organ donors and to help over 8,000 New Yorkers currently on the waitlist for a lifesaving transplant.

OPOs like LiveOnNY, a nonprofit, are responsible for the logistical management of

organ procurement.

“We handle everything from the moment that the donor becomes authorized. Our staff are the ones holding the hands of families, going through the process in the hospital and clinically collaborating with the hospital,” Leonard Achan, president and CEO of LiveOnNY, said.

This also includes organ procurement and

preservation, arranging transportation such as planes, trains or cars, packaging, appropriate storage of the organ—and so much more— until the gifted lifesaving organ gets to its assigned recipient at the transplant hospital.

Facts about o rgan Donation

LiveOnNY shared some facts about organ donation for anyone interested in learning more about the process, including:

• Organ donation only occurs after the death of a patient is declared by a physician who, legally, must not be affiliated with donation.

• Most major religions support organ donations, including Judaism, Buddhism, Islam and Christianity.

• There is no age limit for organ donation. Regarding medical conditions, doctors will make a determination regarding the viability of organs at the time of death. Families of donors are not responsible for medical costs related to donation.

For more information about organ donation, visit liveonny.org.

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Holiday Highlights

By jeaNNiNe CiNTRoN & New yoRK Family adveRTisiNg PaRTNeRs

For some, the holiday season does not truly begin until the Thanksgiving turkey is carved and eaten. For others, the magic begins the moment the Halloween decorations come down. We here at New York Family are definitely more the latter (we’ve already swapped out the apple cider for some eggnog). So although it’s still early, we just had to reach out to some of our partners to find out what they have in store for the most wonderful time of the year. Check out their holiday highlights below and be sure to stop by NewYorkFamily.com all season long for TONS more holly jolly fun!

Hearth & Harvest Festival

Historic Richmond Town, 441 Clarke Avenue

Saturday, Nov. 19, 10am-4pm

Discover Indigenous culture and early American foods cooked over open hearths at our NEW Native Encampment and in the Historic Village! Enjoy special presentations of indigenous cultural dance and crafts, and taste dishes prepared in historic 19th century kitchens throughout the village.

Staten Island Ballet Nutcracker Holiday

Nicotra’s Ballroom Hilton Garden Inn, 1100 South Ave.

718-980-0500

siballet.org

Saturday, Dec. 17, 5:30 pm

Sunday, Dec. 18, 1 pm & 4 pm

A unique gift immersing you directly into the holiday spirit. Show and dining, $85 per person. Start with an elegant holiday meal amid palace guests, then follow dancers as the story unfolds in the land of enchantment. Tickets can be purchased by phone or online.

St. George Theatre Family Shows

35 Hyatt Street, 10301 718-442-2900, info@sgtr.org

stgeorgetheatre.com

The Christmas Show - Now in its 19th year, this two-hour production is a high energy, rhinestone-studded series of songs and dances that the whole family will enjoy. Willy Wonka - The delicious adventures experienced by Charlie Bucket on his visit to Willy Wonka’s mysterious chocolate factory light up the stage in this captivating adaptation of Roald Dahl’s fantastical tale. Baby Shark - This immersive experience will have fans of all ages dancing in the aisles as they join Baby Shark and friends for exciting adventures into the jungle and under the sea

to explore shapes, colors, numbers and so much more.

Breakfast & Bowling with Santa at Rab’s

Rab’s Country Lanes 1600 Hylan Blvd, Staten Island, NY 10305 bowlatrabs.com

Santa Claus is coming to the premier destination for fun! Visit Rab’s Country Lanes on Sunday, December 18 from 9 AM to 12 PM for a magical morning of Bowling & Breakfast with Santa. The experience includes 1 hour of bowling, breakfast buffet,

a photo with Santa, and special treats. Only $22 per person. Reserve your spot with Rab’s Elves at bowlatrabs.com.

Christmas Fantasy with Lights Storybook Land

6415 Black Horse Pike (routes 40/322) Egg Harbor Township, NJ 08234 Storybookland.com

Experience Christmas magic in real life! Watch as Santa Claus waves his magic wand and lights up Storybook Land with over 1 million lights! Visit with Santa and Mrs. Claus until December 23. All rides and snack bars are open. Check the website for holiday hours.

HERSHEY’S Melted Hot Chocolate

Hershey’s Chocolate World Times Square, 47th St & 7th Ave chocolateworld.com/locations/times-square.html

Warm up the holidays with a HERSHEY’S Melted Hot Chocolate. The signature recipe uses a full HERSHEY’S Milk Chocolate bar mixed with white milk and topped with whipped cream, chocolate drizzle, chocolate chips and a snack-sized HERSHEY’S Bar.

Westchester’s Winter Wonderland Drive Thru Holiday Light Extravaganza

Kensico Dam Plaza, 1 Bronx River Pkwy Rd, Valhalla, NY 10595 wwinterwonderland.com

Guests will be dazzled and delighted along the 1.2 miles of holiday lights by several new additions for 2022, including a new North Pole and live Santa display; breathtaking Kaleidoscope Corrido; cheerful Snowmen Caroling Corner; more electrifying lights

surrounding the largest holiday Christmas tree in Westchester and a new 30-foot glistening star guests will be able to make their New Year’s wish upon! Tickets are $25 weekdays, $35 weekends per vehicle.

Palisades Center- Shop Small

1000 Palisades Center Drive, West Nyack, NY palisadescenter.com

Palisades Center in partnership with the Greater Nanuet Chamber of Commerce will host a special event highlighting small busi nesses throughout the mall! Meet the business owners, listen to live music, enjoy free give aways, and more! Check Shop Small Saturday on November 26.

Holiday Fun at Palisades Center

1000 Palisades Center Drive, West Nyack, NY Palisadescenter.com

Holiday events are taking place at Palisades Center! Check out Santa’s Arrival - November 19 (5 PM - 7 PM), Visits with Santa - November 18 - December 24, Santa Cares (sensory friendly event) - December 5 (9 AM - 10:30 AM) and Pet Night with Santa - December 11 (4 PM - 6 PM.)

Rainbow Fentanyl

What parents need to know

By BarBara russo

Adeadly new drug is on the rise in the United States, and it’s designed to look like candy to appeal to kids.

Dubbed unofficially as “rainbow fentanyl,” this dangerous combination of manufactured chemicals is making its way into communities around the country in the form of small, colorful pills that resemble Skittles, Smarties or other popular candy products often given out during Halloween.

“Rainbow fentanyl—fentanyl pills and powder that come in a variety of bright colors, shapes and sizes—is a deliberate effort by drug traffickers to drive addiction amongst kids and young adults,” Anne Milgram, DEA administrator, said.

Fentanyl, which started showing up on the West Coast earlier this year, is now making headlines in NYC. Last month, the U.S. Drug Enforcement Agency and law enforcement partners seized 15,000 of the colorful pills in Manhattan.

The significant seizure, the largest to date in New York City, signals more widespread distribution of the pills. The case highlights Mexican cartels’ most recent tactics to attract the public while deceiving them about the lethal drugs, the DEA said.

“Rainbow fentanyl is a clear and present danger, and it is here in New York City,” Frank Tarentino, DEA Special Agent in Charge, said. “Approximately 40% of the pills we analyze in our lab contain a lethal dose. And in a recent 15-week enforcement operation, DEA New York seized half a million lethal pills.”

Fentanyl is relatively cheap for drug dealers and their lab cronies to make. In fact, the pills are often made to look like real prescription opioids, such as Oxycontin or Xanax. So, any one who thinks they’re buying an Oxycontin can very well be getting fentanyl, which is far more potent, and far more deadly.

According to the DEA, fentanyl is 50 times more potent than heroin and 100 times more potent than morphine. Just two milligrams of fentanyl, which is equal to 10-15 grains of

table salt, is considered a lethal dose. Without laboratory testing, there is no way to know how much fentanyl is concentrated in a pill or powder.

To recap, fentanyl is not often a drug that tweens and teens are seeking out. Instead, it’s often in the other drugs kids are using.

“Teens for the most part understand how dangerous fentanyl is but rarely understand that it can be mixed into other drugs that they feel are ‘safer,’” Keri Cooper, LCSW, and author of Mental Health Uncensored: 10 Foundations Every Parent Needs to Know, explained. “Parents need to have honest conversations about drugs and how they are made and how buying pills off the street may likely have fentanyl mixed in them. It is never safe to be buying a drug that is made in

someone’s basement. Anything can be in it.”

It’s also possible for marijuana to be laced with fentanyl.

“While kids might not be directly exposed to fentanyl, they might be offered something like marijuana that could very well be laced with fentanyl,” Lisa Bonaviso, Ph.D., and licensed mental health counselor at Pleasantville Wellness Group, Westchester, said.

Here is some more information on what parents need to know about fentanyl and how they can help keep their kids safe:

What is fentanyl?

Fentanyl is a synthetic opioid. There are two types: Pharmaceutical fentanyl and illicitly manufactured fentanyl. Both are considered

synthetic opioids. Under controlled circumstances, pharmaceutical fentanyl is an effective medicine approved for treating severe pain. Doctors use it to relieve pain in patients during and after surgery. Fentanylrelated overdoses are linked to illicitly manufactured fentanyl.

What makes fentanyl so deadly? It’s a more potent drug than many others and can easily be disguised to look like a painkiller or party drug. It is 50 times stronger than heroin, and just a small amount is considered a lethal dose. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, the drug depresses the central nervous system and respiratory function. It can cause breathing to stop.

How would a parent know if their child has taken fentanyl?

There’s no way to tell if a pill or powder contains fentanyl just by looking at it, so the best thing to do is to not take any illegal drug. Test strips can tell you if a drug contains fentanyl, but not how much is in it.

What can a person do to help someone who is overdosing?

Fentanyl and other synthetic opioids are the most common drugs involved in overdose deaths. Over 150 people die every day from overdoses related to synthetic opioids like fentanyl, according to the CDC.

If you think someone is overdosing, the CDC recommends treating it like and overdose, and call 911 immediately. Also administer naloxone if it’s available. Try to keep the person awake and breathing. Lay the person on their side to prevent choking.

Children should always know that if they or a friend are seeming sick after using drugs, they can’t be afraid to immediately reach out for help, Cooper explained.

“Parents need to let their kids know that their life is more important than their fear of getting in trouble,” she said.

How can parents talk to their kids about drugs and peer pressure?

Parents need to acknowledge that all kids just want to fit in. It’s normal, and it’s not always easy to do something different from the

crowd, Cooper said.

“In saying that, parents need to have conversations with their kids about which friends would support their decisions, who are good friends and talk about what positive friendships look like,” Cooper explained. “There are many kids who don’t do drugs and sometimes it’s just about finding one or two other kids to stand up together.”

Bonaviso underscored the importance of talking to kids about drugs and keeping the lines of communication open. Informing them is key. Not to scare them, but to let them know the realities of fentanyl or drug use overall.

“Children are very curious. So it’s natural that they’d want to explore or experiment,” Bonaviso said. “But, parents giving them the reality of the long- and short-term effects of drugs might make them think twice before trying it.”

She added that it’s important for parents to remind their children that illegal drugs are not controlled.

“They’re coming from the streets, so you don’t know what people are contaminating them with,” Bonaviso said.

A pA rents guide to n Avig Ating them with kids NYC Art Museums

By Kaitlyn Riggio & Donna DuaRte- l aDD

We have all been there- you decide to spend the day at one of the many museums in the city, as NYC has no shortage of art museums. Perhaps you want to check out an exhibit or have you and the kids stare away at a Monet. And we are lucky- our city is full of the best museums in the world and visiting one is an educational day out for all. Plus, bringing your kids to museums comes with a whole host of benefits. It encourages a love of learning, develops their curiosity and critical thinking skills and inspires them to create independently!

But also, kids are kids and not all want to hang out for hours. This is why we have our own personal tips coupled with representa tives (from the most visited art museums in New York City) insider tips. We’ve gathered these helpful tips as well as the best offerings/ programs for families and kids to ensure you get the most out of your visit.

Metropolitan Museum of Art 1000 Fifth Avenue metmuseum.org

Open Sunday through Tuesday and Thursday, 10 am to 5 pm; Friday and Saturday, 10 am to 9 pm

A New York staple, the Metropolitan Museum of Art (the Met) showcases over 5,000 years of art from around the world. The Met has a wide variety of programs for kids and their families to help them engage with the art, like story times, art treks around the museum, family afternoons and more. They also offer an audio guide for kids, which includes thirteen tours with kid-targeted messages for artworks throughout the major areas of the museum.

The Met is pretty vast and if you have young kids they may get a bit exhausted, we suggest checking online and mapping out what floors and wings you would like to visit. A few favorites are the Egyptian Art Wing, European Paintings and not to be miss is the Kimono

Style: The John C. Weber Collection (until February 20, 2023)- a gorgeous exhibit of kimonos from the late Edo period through the early 20th century and runs until February.

Your kids can even explore the Met from home! #MetKids is a digital feature where kids can learn about the museum’s works of art, watch behind the scenes videos and even get inspired to make art of their own.

Tip: Tickets for New York State residents and New York, New Jersey and Connecticut students are pay what you wish!

Museum of Modern Art 11 West 53 Street moma.org

Open Sunday through Friday, 10:30 am to 5:30 pm; Saturday 10:30 am to 7 pm , Kids under age 16 are free

The Museum of Modern Art (MoMA) is com mitted to sharing modern and contemporary art with visitors. When visiting galleries as a family with kids, try turning your visit into a search-and-find experience. Look for people and places on Floor 5, lines, shapes and colors on Floor 4 and interesting materials on Floor 2.

The MoMA, while rich with art that adults appreciate, can be a lot for kids especially young ones. This doesn’t mean you cannot enjoy this amazing museum. We suggest you stay for a short time if bringing young kids and sticking to art that they may gravitate towards like Vincent van Gogh’s Starry Night and Pablo Picasso’s Girl before a Mirror– both on the 5th floor. Since kids under age 16 are free you can visit this museum a few times a year and explore a new section at each visit! Definitely check out the MoMA’s Kid’s Activity Guide. They offer movement, writing and drawing activities to do in front of artworks.

While you’re visiting, be sure to visit the Heyman Family Art Lab, where families can create art by drawing, working with wire, engaging in light-box play and more.

Tip: Looking to take a break during your visit? Spend some time in the Sculpture Garden or in the lounges throughout the museum.

Whitney Museum of American Art 99 Gansevoort Street whitney.org

Open Monday, Wednesday and Thursday, 10:30 am to 6 pm; Friday, 10:30 am to 10 pm; Saturday and Sunday 11 am to 6 pm. Kids admission is free Located in Manhattan’s Meatpacking District, the Whitney Museum of American Art displays a collection of twentiethcentury and contemporary American art. One of the ways that the Whitney strives to make their collection more accessible to children is through their kids guides. Available in English and Spanish, the guides contain descriptions of artworks that could be interesting to children. They share information about the art (including the title, artist and what the piece is about) and invite visitors, especially children, to imagine themselves as an artist by thinking about questions and even giving them the opportunity to create artwork of their own.

Whether you are visiting for the first time or the tenth, the views from the terraces as well as from the picturesque widows within the museum are pure wow!

Additionally, the Whitney has an ongoing program called Open Studio for kids. Families and kids have the opportunity to create their own works inspired by what’s on view in the museum.

Tip: Cris Scorza, head of education at the Whitney, says families should bring a snack, maybe a pack of colored pencils and a notepad and, most importantly, an open mind when visiting as a family.

Solomon R. Guggenheim Museum 1071 Fifth Ave, guggenheim.org

Open Sunday through Monday and Wednesday through Friday, 11 am to 6 pm; Saturday 11 am to 8 pm

The Solomon R. Guggenheim Museum collects, preserves and interprets modern and contemporary art. The Guggenheim offers

programming for children and families. For example, students in third to fifth grades can explore and create art in the Art After School program. There’s programming for older kids too. GuggTeens give teens the opportunity to learn about museum operations from a variety of different perspectives. Families visiting can use the kids audio guides to learn about different artworks.

Tip: Download family-friendly Art Kit activity sheets to encourage your kids to create their own art!

Frick Collection

Temporary home: 945 Madison Avenue frick.org

Open Thursday through Sunday, 10 am to 6 pm

While the Frick Collection’s historic buildings are closed for renovation for the time being, you can still visit Frick Madison to explore artworks from the Renaissance to the early twentieth century. This is a great choice if you’re looking for something to do with older kids– children under 10 are not admitted.

Tip: The Frick Collection offers pay what you will admission on Thursday evenings from 4 pm to 6 pm!

Brooklyn Museum 200 Eastern Parkway brooklynmuseum.org

Open Wednesday through Sunday, 11 am to 6 pm

The Brooklyn Museum’s mission is to

include tables with intergenerational games, like skelzies and dominoes, that invite visitors to relax and play as part of the exhibition. It will be on view from Oct. 26 through April 30.

Tip: Admission is always free!

Museum of the City of New York 1220 Fifth Ave mcny.org

Open Thursday, 10 am to 9 pm; Friday through Monday, 10 am through 5 pm The Museum of the City of New York gives visitors the opportunity to celebrate the city’s past, present and future. They offer programming for families, like the upcoming Movies for Minis event. Exhibitions on view will give kids an opportunity to learn about the city. There’s also a Kids Create series, where kids have the chance to take part in interactive art-making activities.

Tip: If you’re looking for a unique tour, check out the 80s-themed scavenger hunt that will take you and your family through all three floors of the museum.

connect visitors with art in a way that changes how they see themselves and the world. First Saturdays are a staple. Visitors of all ages from Brooklyn and beyond can enjoy free programming once a month. Other programming options include Yoga on the Stoop, where attendees of all ages can enjoy a relaxing outdoor yoga session. Keep an eye out for Stroller Tours, an interactive strollerfriendly tour designed for children up to 24 months old. It features touchable objects, music and an opportunity for parents to connect with each other.

Current exhibits the family will enjoy Virgil Abloh: “Figures of Speech” and Really Free: The Radical Art of Nellie Mae Rowe (January 29, 2023).

Tip: Looking for a way to enhance your day in Brooklyn? Stop by the Brooklyn Botanic Garden after visiting the Brooklyn Museum! Buy a Museum & Garden Pass to visit both spots on the same day.

The Bronx Museum of the Arts 1040 Grand Concourse bronxmuseum.org

Open Wednesday through Sunday, 1 to 6 pm The Bronx Museum of the Arts’ collection includes over two thousand works of art. The upcoming exhibition, “Swagger and Tender ness: The South Bronx Portraits by John Aheam and Rigoberto Torres,” is sure to be a great experience for the whole family. It will

New Museum of Contemporary Art 235 Bowery newmuseum.org Open Tuesday through Sunday, 11 am to 6 pm The New Museum is a contemporary art museum in Manhattan’s lower east side. Their goal is to create a dialogue between the public and contemporary artists. “Off Grid” by artist Kapwani Kiwanga is a great exhibition for kids and families on display through October of this year. Kids can enjoy the exhibition’s colors, shapes and natural lights and adults can enjoy engaging with Kiwanga’s ideas about how bodies experience and inhabit structures of power.

While you’re there, also be sure to check out the 7th floor Sky Room. The floor to ceiling windows and balcony offer beautiful views of Downtown Manhattan that anyone of any age can enjoy.

Keep an eye out for the museum’s Family Days! These events include free admission to all exhibitions for kids and two adults per family and art-making activities at extended morning hours. If you can’t make it on Fam ily Day, don’t worry: entry to the New Mu seum is always free for anyone under 18. The museum also offers a Kids Menu newsletter, so you can keep up to date with all of the museum’s offerings for kids and families.

Tip: Visit the galleries on weekdays for a quieter, more intimate experience. Go to the front desk for packets that include large print wall labels and stools.

By Cris Pearlstein

Full disclosure: I’ve known Julee Wilson since 2007, when we were both young, hard-working magazine editors trying to find our way in the fashion industry. I liked her from the day we met. She was outgoing, confident as hell, really funny, and always kept it real. She had a magnetism to her that drew you in—when she told a story, people hung on every word. I need to tell you before I go any further with this piece that she is the same exact way today, 15 years later. Except today she has two beautiful sons (Orion, 8, and Nadir, 21 months), a rockstar of a husband, and almost 72K followers on Instagram—who also hang on her every word. She still keeps it real, sharing the highs and lows of her life with an openness and vulnerability that Instagram could frankly use more of (everything from pep talks she gives to herself when she’s having a bad day, to being open about her diastasis recti and how she has not “snapped back” after having kids). Since those days of hustling as a young editor, Julee left fashion behind and has become a force in the beauty industry, making a major impact from the inside out (she counts publishing a story in Cosmo about how Black women interact with beauty as one of her proudest moments). You can also rely on her to introduce you to all the other smart, successful women in her life (and there are many) because she believes in lifting women up, and helping them to shine their light. Oh and let’s not for get, her feed is full of photos of her absolutely adorable boys (if you haven’t clicked on the hashtag #wombfire yet, do yourself a favor). So, dear reader, do you now understand why I’ve been manifesting this cover story for so long?

I knew you would love her. I knew you would learn from her. And, most of all, I knew you would want to know her. Read on to hear about how she got her start as a young Black woman in publishing, her incredible rise to beauty edi tor powerhouse, and why she never lets a day

go by without being grateful for the family she came from and the family she has now.

CP: Can you tell readers a little bit about yourself, and how you ended up where you are today?

JW: So my professional journey kind of actually started in college, when I decided I wanted to write fashion. That was when I was laser focused on getting the type of experience I needed in order to break into this industry. I knew being a young Black woman that I didn’t see much of myself in the industry, so I knew I had to start early. Most people do internships between their junior and senior years, I started interning after my freshman year. I interned at Bergdorf Goodman, because the father of one of the girls who went to my high school was a senior vice president there.That was my first “in”. After that experience I interned at Vibe magazine, then, between my junior and senior year, I got into the Condé Nast Internship Pro gram and was at Condé Nast Traveler magazine. It was exciting because I was able to write so I had bylines. I was able to go to the newsstand and pick up the magazines and see my name in print, which was crazy. Later I found my fulltime job at Real Simple, and then that started my real journey. I stayed there for six and a half years. It was great. I feel like it was such a strong brand during that time. The magazine was thick, they had international editions. It was so sick. I was traveling, I did media training, I was able to go on the Today Show. I’m like, 24 years old going on the Today Show doing segments, it was amazing. They really trusted me. But by the time 2011 rolled around magazines were folding and keeping their websites it was very clear that digital was about to take over. HuffPost reached out to me about Black Voices and I was like, why not? I got the job and it was a turning point. I’ve had very challenging jobs before, but I always say I went from a monthly to a minutely. I used to work on three to four stories a month. Now I was writing three to four stories a day. Writing

three to four fashion stories a day was a lot, so when they added beauty it really helped diversify my content and my voice and I just started to fall in love with beauty. It feels more universal. It feels like an industry that I can really make a difference in. But the real turning point in my career was when Essence reached out to me to write a cover story.

CP: I’ll never forget something you said to me back then: “Don’t let anyone dim your light” or “They will not dim my light.” And I think for you that was really it.

JW: I mean, look, people get threatened by what you have to offer. And to me, everyone has magical talents and traits. I’m just here to show mine off, you show yours off too. But whatever relationships I had or personality that I had that was exciting, or drew people or whatever, they would see it as some type of indictment on their own light. And I’m like, that’s got nothing to do with you. That’s just me being Julee. But I do stand by that today: Don’t let anyone dim your light. I used to dim my own light to make others around me feel comfortable. I have learned over the years— and I wish I had learned it sooner—that I am not responsible for how those people feel when I’m shining my light. And whatever conse quences come from that, I just have to ride with it. If that means them being, you know, cruel or bullying me and passive aggressive, I just have to eat it and know that what’s to come is better. Because yeah, it takes a lot of energy, stressed anxiety to dim your own light—while also hav ing their hand on the knob dimming you.

CP: So tell me about being a Black beauty director at a legendary brand that is not maybe known for its coverage of diversity. And tell me about the importance for you of your impact there and your mission.

JW: I first got hired…this is another func tion of age, and again, the journey of continuing to know your worth, right? When I went into

Julee Wilson, @missjulee, beauty editor extraordinaire, shares how she learned her worth and what advice she has for other women trying to find their way in the world

that interview with Cosmo, I was very self as sured and very aware of who I am, what I bring to the table. I never was like that in interviews before. It was always like, what do they want? What do they want to hear? Like, how do you want me to fit into this box? And I’m telling you every year that has gone by, I’ve been more like, this is who I am. I literally remember saying this to Jess Pels, in that interview. I was like, “I am a Black woman, but my superpower is the fact that I tell stories from that lens. And that I can know about everyone’s beauty, too.” Because I’ve had to know about everyone’s beauty. My white counterparts have not had to learn about me, they can be like, oh, that’s a Black girl thing. I have to write about me, I have to write about you, I have to write about our Asian brothers and sisters. I’m a true expert in this thing. And the fact that I tell stories through my lens, a lot of my story ideas and the things I want to talk about are Black, Black, blackity, Black. And I can’t hide that. And in fact, I don’t want to, I actually want it to be celebrated. So if you are down for that, and that is something that you see in Cosmo’s future, then I’m your girl. If it’s not, no hard feelings. But that is the space I need to live in, and if that is not something you’re down for, I will not take it personally, but this partner

ship won’t work out. And she was just like, “No, I love this!” And speaking to your light dimmer thing, Cris, I hand to God, I literally said to her in the interview, I was like, “I’ve worked for a lot of light dimmers. That’s my question to you, how do you interact with your talent and your leaders on staff? Are you someone that uplifts them and pushes them to greater things? Are you happy when you have stars on your team?” I was like, “I’m the type of manager that I want stars. It only makes me look better. I’m not here to dim people’s lights, I’m here to make them better.” We literally had this conversation. And she was like, “No, I love that. I’m not a light dimmer. I want everyone to be great.” And she’s proven that to me, she has pushed me in every way and has allowed me space and grace to be me, so I’m so grateful for that. I wrote a whole story about how Black women interact with beauty and how the world should take note. I’ve written about headscarves and bonnets.

CP: So what’s next for you?

JW: A few months ago, I got a new job. I am now the executive director of BeautyUnited. My part-time job is being editor-at-large at Cosmo. I am very grateful for that. Cosmo made a way that I could stay but also run this non-profit. So

the future is full and exciting! I get to still be an editor, I get to run a non-profit that I really, truly believe in. I have the freedom now to say, yes, no, maybe. Every day offers a new opportunity that I get to either say yes to and dream around, or say no, that’s not right for me right now. And even that feels magical.

CP: What’s your advice to someone who may be struggling with impostor syndrome and knowing their worth?

JW: Surround yourself with people that do know your worth and will constantly tell you in a real authentic way like, you can share your woes and your wells with them. And they will tell you the truth, they will be the battery in your back. They will tell you you’re being silly. Or they’ll tell you that, no, you’re right. Just a village of people that remind you of who you are. Whether that is a difficult conversation or a cel ebratory conversation. Also, don’t beat yourself up, don’t take yourself too seriously. And every year, know you’re going to get closer and closer to the ultimate you.

This interview has been edited for brevity and clarity. To read the full version, please visit us online at Newyorkfamily.com.

Photo by Yumi Matsuo

By BaRBaR a Russo

The leaves have changed, the air is crisp and November has arrived! Here are some of this month’s most exciting events in Staten Island and nearby. Be sure to call ahead or visit event websites to confirm details. Go to siparent.com/events for info on the events listed here and even more stuff to do with your family throughout the month and all season long!

NYC Lantern Festival Fridays-Sundays, 5-9:30pm. SIUH Community Park 75 Richmond Terr.

See beautiful, dazzling displays of hand-made Chinese lanterns, ride illuminated swings and enjoy lots of food options at this holiday event.

Vintage Camera Day

Friday, Nov. 4, 12-2pm Alice Austen House Museum 2 Hylan Blvd. Calling all shutterbugs: Marvel at the art of vintage photography, and enjoy a series of talks and activities about the art and image-making process. Bring your own camera.

St. Alban’s Church Holiday Fair

Saturday, Nov. 5, 10am-6pm St. Alban’s Episcopal Church 76 St. Alban’s Pl.

Browse a variety of items including attic treasures, books, new and used jewelry, and more. Photos with Santa, 10am-3pm.

Homeschoolers – Oh Deer! Thursday, Nov. 10, 10am-12pm

Clay Pit Ponds State Park Preserve 2351 Veterans Rd. W.

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Learn about deer and their effect on nature at this homeschool event. Ages 8 and older.

Treasure Hunt Friday, Nov. 11, 2-3pm

Clay Pit Ponds State Park Preserve 2351 Veterans Rd. W. In honor of Veterans Day, learn about navigation, an important skill taught in the armed forces. Ages 7 and older.

Fall Craft Show

Saturday, Nov. 12, 9am-2pm Fort Monmouth Recreation Area 2566 Guam Ln, Tinton Falls, NJ Get in the holiday season at this fair where you’ll browse from over 50 craft vendors.

ShopRite Kidz Cook Sunday, Nov. 13 and 27, 11am3:30pm

Staten Island Children’s Museum

1000 Richmond Terr. Young cooks will practice using kitchen utensils, measuring, chopping, and mixing at 11am, 12pm, 2:30pm and 3:30pm.

Falling into Fun Sunday, Nov. 13, 11am-2pm Avis/South Shore JCC 1297 Arthur Kill Rd.

Enjoy a free event for caregivers, care receivers and their families.

t he nYc l antern Festival illuminates siuh community park.

The afternoon will feature arts and crafts, interactive games, corn hole, face painting, relay races and live music.

Grease Sing-A-Long Friday, Nov. 18, 7:30pm St. George Theatre 35 Hyatt St.

Enjoy a sing-a-long screening of the classic 1978 movie, Grease. Doors open at 6:30pm.

Dance Party Studio

Saturday, Nov. 19, 11am-3:30pm

Staten Island Children’s Museum 1000 Richmond Terr.

Learn some dance styles and create cool new moves of your own. Non-dancers can join in by grabbing some instruments and helping to set the beat.

Tree ID and Fall Foliage Hike

Saturday, Nov. 19, 2-4pm Clay Pit Ponds State Park Preserve 2351 Veterans Rd. W.

Enjoy an interactive fall hike while seeing beautiful fall foliage. Ages 7 and older.

Family Game Show Fundraiser

Sunday, Nov. 20, 4:30-6pm Joan & Alan Bernikow JCC of Staten Island 1466 Manor Rd.

Families will go head-to-head in a variety of competitive and whacky challenges. 50% of

admission cost will be donated to Sunrise Day Camp, the JCC’s free camp for kids with cancer and their siblings. Register at sijcc.org.

Willy Wonka & The Chocolate Factory

Sunday, Nov. 20, 5pm. A sensoryfriendly show will be at 1pm. St. George Theatre 35 Hyatt St.

The delicious adventures experienced by Charlie Bucket on his visit to Willy Wonka’s mysterious chocolate factory light up the stage in this adaptation of Roald Dahl’s tale. Doors open at 4pm.

Hearth & Harvest Festival Saturday, Nov. 19, 10am-4pm Historic Richmond Town 441 Clarke Ave.

Historic kitchens throughout the village will feature demonstrations of 19th century hearth cooking in North America. Also enjoy a dance performance by Patrick Little Wolf Brooks of the Tuscarora Nation and 7 Directions Dancers.

Buy Nothing Day

Friday, Nov. 25 and Saturday, Nov. 26, 1-3pm

Clay Pit Ponds State Park Preserve 2351 Veterans Rd. W.

Make some unique gifts using recycled materials.

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