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Marching On!

With spring peeking out from the distance, we are ready to put this uneventful winter behind us. My kids have missed the snow but I’m good without it!

As the warmer weather approaches, you might want to start thinking about summer camp. Be sure to check out What Parents Should Look for During a Camp Tour (page 22) and, of course, browse our camp listings (page 24) as you start your search.

If you have a child with ASD or who is sensory sensitive, you might want to plan a trip to Legoland New York, which is now designated a Certified Autism Center (page 18). That’s some exciting news!

Looking to try something different for your next family day out? Go Wild at the Newark Museum of Art (page 34), where you can celebrate the whole animal kingdom in one exciting afternoon.

Lastly, this month’s cover mom is parenting expert Bethany Braun-Silva. This born and bred New Yorker (page 42) follows her dream by chatting with parenting experts and celeb moms on her new podcast “The

Breakdown with Bethany” while keeping her day job as a writer and shares her advice on how you can pivot towards something that matters to you!

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What’s Happening on Staten iSL an D

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Schmul Playground

(Wild Ave., Pearson St, Melvin Ave)

The playground at Schmul Park in Travis is undergoing a makeover! The park—a neighborhood favorite—has seen better days since it reopened in 2012 as part of the larger Freshkills Park project. In just 10 years, many on-site attractions and features have become eyesores, fading in color and wearing out.

But the city is working on reconstructing the West Shore-based playground. Currently, the makeover is in the design phase, which is set to be complete this month, according to the NYC Parks Department. Construction is expected to begin in 2024. There’s no official re-opening date yet, but when it does open, there will be plenty of fun amenities for kids to enjoy, including: a new rope climber; play mound with accessible ramp and stairs; a play area for 2 to 5 year olds and 5 to 12 year olds; planting beds; and more.

Dugan Playground

(Mill Rd. and Tysens Ln.)

The city cut the ribbon on the newly renovated Gerard P. Dugan Playground, New Dorp, last month. The playground is now completely transformed with brand-new features, including new play equipment for children ages 2-5 and 5-12, large and small swing sets and spray showers. There’s also newly installed water utilities, ADA accessible seating areas, game tables and more trees and shrubs. There’s more shade in the center of the site, which is ideal for

cooling off on hot summer days.

“These enhancements guarantee that Staten Islanders of all ages will be able to enjoy this beloved community playground for generations to come,” NYC Parks Commissioner Sue Donoghue said. “Like our parks and beaches, playgrounds are vital public spaces for connecting with friends, building community, and staying fit. This

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renovation is just the latest example of our commitment as NYC Parks to providing safe, accessible public spaces in all five boroughs.”

The mayor’s office and city council paid for the $3.72 million project. The park is named after Gerard P. Dugan (1905-1973), a U.S. Marine from Brooklyn. Dugan moved to Staten Island in 1935, where he became a dedicated community activist.

incLuDenyc hosts First- ever resource Fair on s .i.

INCLUDEnyc, an organization that helps support children and young people with disabilities, will hold its first-ever recreation, camp and after-school resource fair on Staten Island this month.

The fair is at the Staten Island UFT, 1200 South Ave., on Saturday, March 11, from 10am to 1pm. It’s free to attend and will be hosted by INCLUDEnyc in partnership with the Staten Island UFT and Parent to Parent of

Staten Island.

The event is designed to give Staten Island families with children with disabilities the opportunity to speak directly with program directors about year-round recreation opportunities.

Registration is required. For more information, contact Mary Beth Bergren at mbergren@includenyc.org or visit includenyc.org.

tWo isL anD eDucators receive patrick F. DaLy aWarD

Congratulations are in order for two Staten Island educators who received this year’s Patrick F. Daly Award for their outstanding service in education.

Staten Island Borough President Vito Fossella presented the award to John K. Boyle, principal of Totten Intermediate School (I.S. 34), and Lisa Friscia, a K-5 English as a new language teacher at P.S. 39.

Boyle was named the principal of Totten Intermediate School in 2011. He’s committed to ensuring that every day is “just another great day at I.S. 34” for all students, faculty, and staff, the borough president’s office said. He has been appointed both a model and master principal by NYC Schools Chancellor David Banks. A graduate of Monsignor Farrell High School, he holds a master’s degree in secondary education from the College of Staten Island and a master’s degree in educational administration from Touro College.

Friscia has been teaching for 14 years and currently works with new students entering P.S. 39 from around the world. She developed an interest in working with and supporting culturally diverse student populations while writing her thesis on shared reading strategies to support English-language learners. She currently serves as a NYS TESOL advocacy committee member and mentor teacher for new classroom teachers and TESOL teaching candidates from Touro College.

The award honors Patrick F. Daly, a principal who lost his life in a gang cross-fire 30 years ago in Red Hook, Brooklyn, while searching for a student who had left the school building.

New Legislation Helps Students with Disabilities Transition to Higher Education NYC Mayor Eric Adams signed legislation last month to support high school students with disabilities as they transition to higher education.

On the heels of the mayor’s recent announcement to expand pre-school special education seats within the city, the new law—called Intro 660-A—focuses on older kids. It establishes a program to help high

schoolers with disabilities who are moving into higher education institutions get the accommodations and resources they need for a smooth transition.

“For too long, our students with disabilities have struggled in a system that hasn’t been able to fully meet them where they are,” Adams said. “Being able to succeed while attending a higher education institution involves more than just being able to attend classes and studying — it means having the available support and accommodation to succeed. Intro 660-A will help provide that support, making it easier for students with disabilities to enter higher learning institutions.”

important puBLic schooL Dates in march :

march 9 – Afternoon and evening parent-teacher conferences for elementary schools and pre-k centers; students in these schools dismissed three hours early

march 16 – Afternoon and evening parent-teacher conferences for middle schools and D75 schools; students in these schools dismissed three hours early.

march 23 – Evening parent-teacher conferences for high schools, K–12, and 6–12 schools

march 24 – Afternoon parent-teacher conferences for high schools, K–12, and 6–12 schools; students in these schools dismissed three hours early

Patrick F. daly Award recipients John K. Boyle, i s . 34, and Lisa Friscia, P. s . 39

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New Guidelines for Childhood Obesity

The American Academy of Pediatrics releases its the first comprehensive update in 15 years

By BarBara russo

As the body positivity movement continues to trend, the American Academy of Pediatrics recently announced new treatment guidelines for childhood obesity that includes early use of medications and weight-loss surgery.

In recent years, body positivity has grown in popularity. Plus-size models grace the covers of major fashion magazines and shopping sites. Artists write songs about defying the stereotypical “model” body. And strangers argue on social media about what it means to be “fat.” But the new AAP guidelines seem to serve as a reminder that being very overweight can—in fact—be very dangerous.

This is the first comprehensive update to the AAP’s obesity treatment guidance in 15 years. Published in the journal, Pediatrics, a major highlight includes recommendations on medical care for kids as young as 2 and

through the teen years who struggle with obesity.

“The goal is to help patients make changes in lifestyle, behaviors or environment in a way that is sustainable and involves families in decision-making at every step of the way,” Sandra Hassink, M.D., an author of the guidance and vice chair of the Clinical Practice Guideline Subcommittee on Obesity, said.

While treatment includes extreme measures such as pharmaceuticals and bariatric surgery, it does not eliminate the need to focus on good nutrition and exercise as well. In fact, a bulk of the guidelines discuss treatment that includes nutritional support, physical activity treatment and behavioral therapy.

According to the AAP, intensive health behavior and lifestyle treatment (IHBLT) is the most effective known behavioral treatment for child obesity. It requires 26 or more hours of face-to-face, family-based

multicomponent treatment over a 3- to 12-month period.

“Lifestyle changes are hard- it’s so hard. Patients, families and children need much more in the way of support than just ‘don’t drink soda’ or ‘don’t eat fast food.’ The recommended lifestyle treatment in the guidelines is a really comprehensive, familybased intensive treatment,” explained Sarah Armstrong, M.D., FAAP, chair of the section on obesity at the AAP, and professor of pediatrics at Duke University.

Medication and surgery—to be done in addition to lifestyle treatment— is an option for some children who are older and teenagers who’ve developed severe degrees of obesity.

“We’re very fortunate to have some additional options, including medications and surgery where there is evidence of them being safe and effective,” Armstrong said. “It doesn’t mean everyone has to be on medication or get surgery. It means that

parents, children and doctors have choices.”

Stressed throughout the guidance is the need to intervene early.

“There is no evidence that ‘watchful waiting’ or delayed treatment is appropriate for children with obesity,” Hassink said.

The new guidelines do not discuss obesity prevention. According to the AAP, this will be addressed in another forthcoming AAP policy statement.

Treatment Guidelines for Childhood Obesity

Weight and obesity can be controversial topics. But one thing clear to most is the increased health risks that are associated with obesity. The AAP refers to obesity as a disease that could lead to short- and longterm health concerns when left untreated, including cardiovascular diseases and diabetes. Headlines and research throughout the COVID-19 pandemic showed that many of those who died from the virus were obese.

One thing to note is that the guidelines are geared toward doctors, not necessarily parents.

According to the AAP, doctors should offer adolescents ages 12 and older weight-loss drugs to treat their obesity. The fancy phrase for this is “weight-loss pharmacotherapy,” and it should be done in combination with health behavior and lifestyle treatment.

Teens ages 13 and older with severe childhood obesity should be evaluated for metabolic and bariatric surgery, the AAP adds.

More than 14.4 million U.S. kids live with obesity. And it isn’t easy—mentally or physically. The AAP noted that obesity is a disease that has been stigmatized for years, and it can be treated successfully with the recognition that complex genetic, physiologic, socioeconomic and environmental factors are at play.

“Weight is a sensitive topic for most of us, and children and teens are especially aware of the harsh and unfair stigma that comes with being affected by it,” said Sarah Hampl, M.D., a lead author of the guideline, which was created by a multidisciplinary group of experts in various fields, along with primary care providers and a family representative.

Diet and Exercise: Is it Still Important?

Yes. None of these new treatment guidelines for childhood obesity eliminate the need for

proper diet and exercise. These are healthy habits that are important for all people, regardless of their weight. Dr. Bridget Cole Williams, board-certified family physician and CEO of Green Harvest Health, says that offering weight-loss surgery and drugs to children who are obese serves as a huge “red flag” on how serious the issue is.

“We’re so careful with our kids in the first place. We don’t even want our kids on any medication, let alone medication and surgery for obesity,” Williams said. “However, I think it is a humongous red flag for how bad the obesity epidemic is in our country.”

Williams underscored the need to start obesity treatment early in kids.

“We have to start earlier, and we have to start younger,” she said. “Inevitably, if we do not do something, our children with the rate of sleep apnea, asthma, bone and joint issues, as well as heart disease and diabetes, will continue to grow astronomically.”

Overweight is defined as a body mass index (BMI) at or above the 85th percentile and below the 95th percentile for children and teens of the same age and sex. Obesity is defined as a BMI at or above the 95th percentile for children and teens of the same age and sex.

Access to Nutritious Food and Opportunities for Physical Activity

As noted in the guidelines, it’s important to consider a family’s access to nutritious food and other necessities that help keep people healthy. The guidelines discuss increased risks for children with special health-care needs, as well as inequities that promote obesity in childhood, such as the marketing

of unhealthy food, low socioeconomic status and household food insecurity.

“Research tells us that we need to take a close look at families—where they live, their access to nutritious food, health care and opportunities for physical activity—as well as other factors that are associated with health, quality-of- life outcomes and risks,” explained Hampl. “Our kids need the medical support, understanding and resources we can provide within a treatment plan that involves the whole family,” Hampl said.

Additional Information on Childhood Obesity

Williams added a cultural and societal shift needs to happen in order to reverse the childhood obesity epidemic.

“There are foods that are in the American diet that are not even allowed in other countries because of how fattening or toxic some of them are,” she said. “We need to change how our grocery stores look and have better access to nutritious food in lower income neighborhoods.”

Taking on these changes sound like a major feat, but Williams says it starts with the individual making simple changes. Parents can ask for half their families’ meals in a carry-out box when they eat at restaurants, spend more time shopping around the perimeter of grocery stores where the fresh foods are shelved and put less fattening foods on dinner plates.

Abrie McCoy, a certified lactation counselor with SimpliFed, a maternal and baby feeding health platform, recommends making nutrition a priority during pregnancy, too.

“Your child’s nutrition starts during gestation. In pregnancy, your body provides nutrients via the placenta and amniotic fluid, which is derived from the foods that you fuel your body with, McCoy explained.

Preventing overfeeding at the infant age is important, too.

“Using methods such as responsive feeding, infant led feeding, or paced feeding can help keep babies in control of a feed,” McCoy said. “This supports them learning to eat when hungry or thirsty and stopping when they are full. In turn, avoiding overfeeding at an early age.”

To learn more about childhood obesity, visit the AAP’s website or the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.To learn more about childhood obesity, visit the AAP’s website or the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

“The goal is to help patients make changes in lifestyle, behaviors or environment in a way that is sustainable and involves families in decision-making at every step of the way.”

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NY’s Legoland is now a Certified Autism Center

By Donna Duarte-LaDD

Starting with its opening of the new season Legoland New York will also be a Certified Autism Center. Ask any parent of a child diagnosed with ASD (Autism spectrum disorder) if going to a theme park is easy; most likely, every answer will differ. This is because, as a parent with a child with autism, sometimes going anywhere can be challenging. I should know, I have gone to several theme parks with my ASD son and I have been hit, slapped and bitten, for the park was too overwhelming for him. My son is quite sweet, but visiting a spot where loud noises are the norm, long lines part of the deal- can be quite stirring especially for a nonverbal or sensory-sensitive person. When even the most simple place does not consider that not all kids are the same, going to something grand like a theme park feels impossible.

There has been one exception- and this is Legoland. We have been to Legoland three times, and it has been the only theme park where my son is happy. A few months back, I learned that Legoland was in the process of becoming a Certified Autism Center. I may have cried, for I know that parents with kids with special needs want to try at least to give their kids the same experience as other kids

and to learn that the park would become even more equipped for my ASD child is a game changer for families. And now starting March 31st Legoland with be equipped to to give these kids and their families the support they need to enjoy their visit.

What you can expect on your next visit to Legoland

Being certified provides Legoland NY with the tools and support needed to thoughtfully engage with a neurodiverse population while understanding that kids play at a level that is known and comfortable to them. While all Legoland Resorts across North America will now be Certified Autism Centers by spring 2023 this is what you can expect at Legoland New York:

• No more having to explain why your child may do this or that; there will now be trained front-line team members educated and equipped to help autistic guests and sensory sensitive individuals.

• Pre-planning resources available for guests on the Parks’ websites.

• I once took my son on a ride and he was unable to push a button (he now can); he just sat there in his little ride while the other kids passed him by and my heart sank. At Legoland, you will find at every ride a posted sensory

guide (developed in partnership with The International Board of Credentialing and Continuing Education Standards) indicating whether there are bright lights, loud sounds, or any features that guests might need to plan around.

• Low sensory areas allow guests with certain sensitivities to take a break and relax in a less stimulating environment.

• Upon request, First Aid offers ear plugs to assist with sound and overstimulation and “Assisted Access Passes” can be requested at Guest Services.

What does it mean to be a Certified Autism Center?

According to their press statement Legoland NY received its certification from the International Board of Credentialing and Continuing Education Standards. IBCCES works with many fields such as education, healthcare, entertainment and professionals to provide evidence-based training and certification programs created in conjunction with its board of clinical and subject matter experts and autistic individuals to give a better understanding of autism and other neurodivergencies. Simply put, they give people the tools to know how to understand people with ASD as well as people who may be challenged with neurodivergencies such as dyslexia, dyscalculia, epilepsy, hyperlexia, Dyspraxia, ADHD, obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), and Tourette syndrome (TS).

Legoland New York Opens for the season March 31st and is located at 1 Legoland Blvd, Goshen, NY 10924.

How to Begin the Camp Search

BY JESS MICHAELS

Thinking about summer camp for your child but don’t know where to start? Here are a few tips to help you find the best camp for your child.

Think of What You Want Out of the Experience

Take the time to really think about what you would like your child to gain from the camp experience. Are you looking for your child to gain independence, build confidence and make new friends or are you looking for that along with excelling at a specific sport? Are you considering day camp as a working family and need full day care? Is there a specific “must have” activity or feature you need the camp to have? Write down a list of things you want your child to get out of the experience and what the “must have” things are to help you narrow down the options.

Consider Who Your Child Is

Being able to describe who your child is will help you find the right camp for them. Is your child introverted or outgoing? Does your child have any special considerations? Do they thrive in large groups, or would a smaller camp be a better fit? Does your child enjoy participating in sports or do they prefer theater and art? Being able to answer these questions about your child will help you look for a camp that checks the boxes of what your child needs to thrive at camp.

Researching camps

There are many different ways to go about searching for a camp:

Word of mouth – It’s good to talk to friends and neighbors about where their children go to camp and to learn about their child’s camp experience, however, you want to make sure to do their own research when it comes to choosing a camp. While one camp might be a perfect fit for one child, it might not be for another. Each family and child are different, as is each camp, so finding the one that is the best fit for your child may be different than someone else.

Talk to the Camp Director /Leadership –

Whether this is in person or by zoom/phone , one of the most important parts of your camp research is to talk to the camp director or a member of the leadership team at a camp you are interested in. When you choose a camp, you are forming a partnership with the director and you want to make sure you feel comfortable with them. Clicking with the camp director and feeling that you can be open and honest with them is imperative when choosing a day or overnight camp.

Search online – Checking out a camp’s website and social media channels is a great place to start. See what type of activities are offered, if the session lengths match what you are looking for, and what the camp’s philosophy is.

Touring – One of the best ways to get a feel for a camp is to tour a camp you are interested in. Day camps offer tours all year long and overnight camps tour during the summer into the fall. Touring allows you to see the facilities and ask questions about the camp while in the camp environment. Touring during the summer allows you to see the camp in action, which can give you a good feel about how what the camp is like. If you are considering an overnight camp for 2024, set up a few tours at camps you are interested in. It’s helpful to have an initial conversation with the camp director before scheduling a tour to be sure the camp is potentially a good fit for your child before traveling to see a camp.

Camp Fairs – At camp fairs, families can

walk from table to table to find out about all the different summer camp options. The fairs allow families to talk to multiple camp directors all in one day to compare various camps and gather information. Find out about New York Family’s camp fairs taking place this winter in NYC, Long Island and Westchester at newyorkfamily. com/camp-fairs.

Camp Open Houses – Many day camps and overnight camps offer open houses in the spring and fall so families can have a chance to visit the camp. During the open house, the camp will offer activities and provide families with a chance to walk around camp. These days are fun ways to visit the camp and give you the opportunity to talk to the camp director and leadership team in the camp environment.

Call the American Camp Association, NY and NJ – The ACA, NY and NJ offers parents free, one-on-one advice in finding a camp. Whether you are looking for a day, overnight or specialty program, the American Camp Association, NY and NJ can help in your search! Contact Renee Flax at 212-391-5208 or renee@ acanynj.org.

While the process of searching for camps can often be overwhelming for parents, once you sit down and focus on who your child is and the type of camp experience you want, the choices begin to narrow, leaving you with a few camps to consider. Spending the time now to find the right camp will pay off when your child has the summer of their life at camp!

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Camp Tours

What parents should look for

By Jess Michaels

Thinking about summer camp for your child? One of the best ways to learn about a day or overnight camp is to tour the camp. Touring camps is an invaluable way to get to know a camp. Each camp has its own feel and touring the camp will give you a good sense of whether the camp is the best fit for your child and family.

Before you begin setting up tours, take the time to really think about what type of camp experience you are looking for. Doing your initial research will save you a lot of time and allows you to focus on what you really want in a camp. Ross Moskowitz, Owner and Director of Camp Westmont, a coed overnight camp in Wayne County, PA feels it’s imperative that parents figure out the type of camp they want for their child before touring overnight camps. “If you are looking for a traditional coed overnight camp, you should tour 3-4 traditional coed camps instead of seeing one coed camp, one singlesex camp and one brother-sister camp. This way, you are touring the exact types of camps you want, making it easier for you to narrow down the choices.”

Once you decide on the type of camp you are interested in, you can call the director and set up camp tours for the summer. Renee Flax, Camper Placement Specialist for the American Camp Association, NY and NJ advises parents not to tour too many camps in one day. “Seeing one camp in the morning and one in the afternoon is generally a good rule of thumb. Touring can be tiring for you and your child, and you also want to give yourself time to debrief between visiting the camps.”

Whether you are touring a day camp or an overnight camp, one of the most important aspects of the camp tour is relationship building. Genna Singer, Director of Camps, Marlene Meyerson JCC Manhattan says, “The people who are doing the tours are the leadership staff or the owner/director and it’s important you feel connected with them. You want to know that you speak about children in the same way, that you can feel the energy of the leadership team and that

you understand how the camp is run. You are entrusting this person with your child, and you need to feel there is a connection and a trust with the leadership staff.”

Jason Mercado, Director of North Shore Day Camp in Glen Cove, NY says, “Seeing camp in action allows you to see the campers and what it would be like to have your own child there. You can also watch the directors interacting with the campers in real-time. Do the kids know them? Are the staff connected to them? When you tour, you notice things and are able to get the true feeling of the camp.” Mercado understands that not all families are able to visit over the summer and feels that fall open houses are another great time to see camp. “Our fall open houses coincide with the early bird rates we offer. These days are nice because we have the whole leadership team at camp so it’s more spirited than just touring on an off-season day and allows you to get to know the key staff members.”

All day and overnight camp do their tours differently. Some camps tour the whole family together while others, like Camp Westmont, do separate tours for the parents and the child. “We do camper only and parent only tours which allows each to have a meaningful experience. Both children and parents have their own specific set of questions and want to see different things at the camp. At the end, we meet up, go over

the highlights and ask if the camper has any questions which feels empowering, like they are being heard,” explains Moskowitz. While Moskowitz feels a child’s input is paramount to the camp decision, parents will want to give them choice within the camps they are feeling are the right fit. “If you are touring camps A, B and C but there is something you don’t like about camp C, you can say to your child that they can choose between camps A and B, but the ultimate say has to be the parents.”

It’s important to ask questions while on the tour and in the camp environment. “Find out about their policies, what they consider to be a successful summer for a camper and how they hire staff. All of these questions will help you understand whether or not you agree with the camp’s philosophy,” says Flax. “If your child has a specific special consideration like a food allergy or anxiety, the tour is a good time to ask how they handle these things.”

After you complete your camp tours, take the time to review all the camps and everything they offer. Some families say they just get a gut feeling after touring a camp. Others will have follow-up questions and should call the director to have another conversation. In the end, only you know your family and child best and will be able to make the final decision on your child’s summer home.

Art Lab

1000 Richmond Terrace, 10301 artlabsi.com

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Art Lab’s Camp Picasso & Camp Kandinsky provide a great creative environment for children all summer long. Taught by professional teaching artists, campers will learn various techniques of fine and applied arts through hands-on art activities including drawing, painting, sculpture, collage & more. Weather permitting, campers will also enjoy outdoor art activities as they explore the beautiful grounds of Snug Harbor. They offer multiple camp sessions all summer, so you can register for two weeks, ten weeks, or something in between. Half-day and fullday available.

Big Bird’s Playhouse

1859 Richmond Ave., 10314 bigbirdsplay@aol.com bigbirdsplayhouse.com

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Children will enjoy trips to parks, roller skating, aquarium, Liberty Science Center, Turtleback Zoo, swimming, bowling, movies & sports. Parents have the choice between on site, infants to 5 years old, or traveling camp for ages 5-10. Camp runs July 5 to August 26. Established 1991. Give your child the best summer ever!

DEA Music & Art Summer Program

1481 Hylan Bvd., 10305 718-370-7733

magi@deamusicandart.com deamusicandart.com

Get ready to explore the incredible world of music, art and theater through exciting programs at DEA Music, Art & Theatre School! From instrument lessons to musical theater and dance classes – this is your chance to craft experiences

and memories that will last a lifetime. Sign up today for both year-round and summer camp opportunities. Free trial classes are available to newcomers. Sign up for summer camp early and save.

Fastrack Kids Summer

STE(A)M Adventure 2023

141 Evergreen Avenue Staten Island, NY 10305 Phone: (347) 983-2229

ftkny.com/summer-camp/ At FTKNY’s STE(A)M and academics based summer programs, children will explore the weeks’ enrichment adventure, interact with a SmartBoard Learning Station, engage in role play, do arts and crafts, conduct experiments, improve their math and literacy skills and have lots of free play time pus trips to the park with their friends! Two Convenient Staten Island locations. At FTKNY kids have so much fun they

Art Classes

We have art classes for all ages, including Children’s Art, Creations, Young People’s Art, Pre-k Art, Anime & Manga, Comic Book Art, Teen Painting, Portfolio Development, and more. Register online or call us for more info.

Spring Highlights

• Spring Semester begins April 2nd

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Join Staten Island’s fastest growing camp! FSDC has gone from 25 kids in 2012 to well over 300 last year. The home facility has 70+ arcade games, rides, laser tag and two full sized basketball courts. In addition, campers go on 3-4 trips per week: Swimming, Nickelodeon Universe, Keansburg, Chelsea Piers and more. Free daily lunch, bus service and extended hours (7am to 6pm) available.

High Hopes Summer Camp 1298 Woodrow Rd., 10309 718-317-8143

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High Hopes is now accepting Summer Camp Registration for children ages 2-6 years old. In this State of the art facility, children will experience an array of activities including a Disney Party, Pajama Parties, Space Exploration and more. They also have an outdoor play area for outdoor activities. High Hopes is now celebrating 28 years of caring for the children of Staten Island; Become a part of the High Hopes family this summer.

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Are you ready to get your feet wet and have a Summer of fun? Join Learn and Explore for a summer filled with foam parties, bubbles, water play, visits from the ice cream truck, and of course, enrichment activities to make the summer months a learning experience!

Master Curry Karate 3896 Richmond Avenue, SI,NY 10312 718-979-7087

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When it comes to summer workshops, Master Curry Karate is the answer. It is so much more than a Summer Boot Camp! Master Curry offers a complete introduction into Martial Arts. He teaches important life skills, coordination, strength and self defense. With over 52 Years of experience and 30 years teaching in Staten Island, this is the #1 place to spark your child’s enthusiasm and thirst to learn more!

Marvin’s Camp for Children with Special Needs

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Marvin’s Camp for Children with Special Needs, a program of JCC Day Camp, provides an educational, creative, social, and safe environment for kids and teens with disabilities. All Marvin’s programs are led by highly experienced staff with degrees in special education, social work, and school psychology. The program features low staff-to-camper ratios. JCC Day Camp also offers an inclusion program in their traditional camp program. Interview is required for all new campers.

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New Dorp Christian Summer Camp welcomes families from all denominations to participate in a comprehensive camp for

children ages 3-12. Camp is a unique opportunity for children to thrive academically, socially, and creatively in an environment supporting exploration, discovery, and personal growth. The camp channels natural curiosity through innovative STEM activities and weekly trips. Campers creativity is engaged through music, arts and crafts; and a commitment to team sports builds athleticism and promotes good sportsmanship.

Richmond County Day Camp

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Since 1995, Richmond County Day Camp has provided memorable summers to thousands of Staten Island children by specializing in creating a nurturing environment

where campers make friends and build self-esteem. At the rustic, private facility, campers enjoy an exciting program of activities like swimming, sports, arts and crafts, fishing, fencing, yoga, dance, STEM and drama, with daily trips, themes, shows and special events. Tuition includes door-to-door transportation, extended hours and all activities.

St. Joseph Hill Academy Summer Camp

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of 2023. Six sports camps to choose from including Flag Football, Basketball, Soccer, Track, Volleyball and Cheerleading and two weeks of Camp Koala. All Camps are co-educational and students from all schools are welcome.

Staten Island Academy Camp

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Staten Island Academy Day Camp is managed by a full-time staff of caring professionals that provide exceptional and diverse opportunities for children ages 3 to 15. Their unique and flexible registration process allows families to choose the number of days and weeks their child can attend. Whether it is Carnival Day, Crazy Hat Day or Camp Show Day, Staten Island

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Staten Island Skating Pavilion’s Learn to Skate Camp

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The Pavilion’s Learn to Skate Camp is designed to be a home away from home for children where they can learn, laugh, grow and have fun! Focused on inspiring creativity and independence, each day the campers will have up to 1.5 hours of non-ice instruction with skating and hockey coaches. Depending on the day, they will also have up to one hour of off-ice training, dance or movement/stretch class and/or outdoor play. This exposure to sports

will offer invaluable life lessons such as working hard to accomplish goals and overcoming obstacles. These lessons will physically improve large muscle development & spatial awareness.

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This summer, join DEA Music & Art and FasTracKids on a remarkable journey that will be sure to create lifelong memories! Campers at the Grasmere location will have the opportunity to explore the boundless realms of music, drama, and art all while their minds are expanding in science, technology and academia due to the indepth weekly curriculum. With access to many activities at the Grasmere facility, Super Kids will make sure everyone has an incredible

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YMCA Summer Day Camp offers the best of adventure, aquatics, sports & games, creative arts, camp traditions, special guests & trips, and summer learning. YMCA programs for ages 3-15 are designed to meet your child’s interests and abilities. Through their day camps and specialty camps in all five boroughs, parents can trust the Y to give their kids a fun, enriching, and high-quality camp experience this summer — out of the house and learning new skills. Summer camp starts on July 3 and runs in two-week sessions through August 25. Camp hours and prices vary by location. Visit the website to find a camp near you to learn more!

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Charter School Education in NYC

Charter schools continue to be popular among parents as the city recovers from pandemic

By IsaBel song Beer

New York City has 275 charter schools across all five boroughs, with six new additions from last year. As parents continue to weigh whether or not they should enroll their children in charters — among other countless education issues citywide — it is more important than ever that these 275 schools reflect the needs and requirements of each individual student.

A charter school differs from a traditional public school because charters still receive government funding, but operate outside of the school systems previously established in the geographic area in which the school is located.

This means that charter schools are not as beholden to the sometimes rigid statewide curriculum that is followed in traditional public schools. Instead, charters have the opportunity to explore alternative learning styles in addition to what the state expects to be taught.

“Charter schools are independentlyoperated public schools that have the freedom to design classrooms that meet their students’ needs,” a statement from the National Alliance for Public Charter Schools website reads. “It is common to see charter schools led by former teachers who wanted to take the lessons they learned in the classroom and apply those lessons to an entire school.”

All charter schools are required to operate under a contract with a charter school authorizer, which holds the individual school accountable for the educational standards of their charter. Still, all charter schools are different, with some focusing on subjects relating to STEM education, college prep while others integrate forms of the arts into each subject.

This ideal of having a charter school emphasize individual skills or subjects is one reason why charters can be so appealing to guardians who want their children to have a more individualized school experience.

“Every day I am inspired by the hard but incredibly joyful work of our teachers and staff to get students back on track from the pandemic and empower them to build a future where they can reach their full

potential as learners and as people,” said Jane Martinez Dowling, chief of external affairs at KIPP NYC, a charter school system.

“I think what really sets KIPP NYC apart is our commitment to supporting students

throughout their lifelong learning journeys – from the moment they step through our doors in kindergarten, through graduation, college, their careers, and beyond to fulfill their potential.”

In the Big Apple, another attractive quality about charter schools is the emphasis of diversity within their student bodies as well with staff and educators.

According to the New York City Charter School Center during the 2022-23 school year, 49% of the student body in the NYC charter school system identified as Black and 41% as Latinx. Additionally, 80% of charter school students are economically challenged, 18% of students are in individualized education programs (IEP), 9.6% live in temporary housing and 9% are multilingual learners.

The NYC charter school system has an estimated population of 142,500 students, with 15% of all NYC public school students attending a charter school.

Recent studies conducted by New York City Charter School Center indicated that in 2022, NYC students attending charter schools scored at higher proficiency rates in both English language arts and mathematics than their district counterparts.

Citywide, Black and Latinx students attending charter schools achieved twice the

proficiency rates as their district school peers in math, and scored nearly 20 percentage points higher in English language arts.

Especially as the city heals from the COVID-19 pandemic, parents and guardians look for ways that can help their child have the best opportunities in education, and for some that means enrolling in a charter school.

Some educators involved with the state’s charter programs say that since the schools are seeing higher enrollment rates and higher general interest especially in response to the pandemic, New York State should respond to the increased demand and lift the current caps on the number of charter

schools that can open in a state.

The cap in New York State currently stands at 460 schools, with a smaller-sub cap on NYC.

“Despite the historic challenges of the past three years, charter schools delivered for NYC families – providing a high-quality public education that has set students up for success – no matter where they live in the city,” said James Merriman, CEO of the NYC Charter School Center. “But there is much work still to be done, and the need for opening more seats at great public charter schools have never been higher. All families deserve a choice in where they send their kids to school.”

“Despite the historic challenges of the past three years, charter schools delivered for NYC families – providing a high-quality public education that has set students up for success – no matter where they live in the city.”

Go Wild at the Newark Museum of Art

Animal Kingdom exhibition offers a fresh look at nature

By Kaitlyn Riggio

Families and kids can now learn about and celebrate the wonders of the animal kingdom from the comfort of an art museum.

The Animal Kingdom exhibition at The Newark Museum of Art (newarkmuseumart. org) teaches visitors about the different animals that inhabit the land, air and sea and how we as humans impact them through a series of immersive and interactive experiences.

Upon entering the exhibition, visitors are greeted with the intro gallery, where they can get acquainted with animals of the land, air and sea.

One of the most exciting features of this gallery is the Magic Door to Art. When visitors open the door, they’ll be greeted by a dynamic presentation of 15 different works of art fea-

turing different animals.

The Magic Door to Art shows animals coming to life through art while also demonstrating a connection between science and art.

Showing the connection between different disciplines was a primary goal of the exhibition.

Silvia Filippini-Fantoni, deputy director of learning and engagement at the Newark Museum of Art, says the aim was to “move away from science for science’s sake” and instead “look at the integration between art and science and technology, given that our museum has all these different collections, and how we can bring them together.”

After leaving the intro gallery, visitors will fly into the world of birds in “Lost World: The Audubon Immersive Experience.” This fully immersive projection-based experience brings the animals from Audubon’s Birds of America to life.

The projections in this gallery feature dynamic versions of Audubon’s bird illustrations in their natural habitats, accompanied by a soundtrack of actual bird sounds compiled

from the Cornell Lab of Ornithology’s database.

This room is also home to a replica of an underground cave, complete with cave paintings modeled after seven different caves from around the world. Here, visitors can play a matching game, allowing them to interact with the first known human art displaying animal subjects in a playful way.

Finally, visitors will enter the “Sketch Aquarium.” In this digital aquarium, parents and kids alike can create their own sea creatures and then scan them into the aquarium. And unlike traditional aquariums, you’re encouraged to tap the glass in the Sketch Aquarium!

In addition to teaching visitors about different animals of the land, air and sea, the Animal Kingdom exhibition also helps visitors learn about the realities of human impact on the environment.

The “Endangered” room in the exhibition highlights endangered and threatened animals, but it’s also a call to action. In this room, visitors can learn about small changes they

can make in their own lives to have a positive impact on the world around them.

Filippini-Fantoni says museums have a responsibility to discuss important social justice issues like humans’ impact on the environment.

“There’s this idea that museums should be neutral,” Filippini-Fantoni says. “But really, we want to address these topics that are relevant and important for our audiences.”

Families can connect with the exhibition even further through special events, like immersive yoga classes held in the “Sketch Aquarium” and “Lost World” rooms of the exhibition.

These special events as well as the immersive nature of the exhibition are efforts to effectively engage with visitors, especially visitors from younger generations.

“We kind of understand that just putting artwork on the wall is not really going to engage and connect with younger audiences,” Filippini-Fantoni says. “We really need to do it in a different way.”

The Animal Kingdom exhibition is unique from what you’d typically find in an art mu-

seum, but it was created in connection with the Newark Museum of Art’s values and mission.

“It was all very intentionally focused on creating opportunities that are unexpected and creative,” says Andreina Castillo, director of marketing and communication for the Newark Museum of Art.

Maegan Douglas, manager of interpretation and public programs, says she hopes attendees leave the exhibition with a sense of awe and wonder.

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“Many visitors may not remember some of the things they saw,” Douglas says. “But they’re going to remember how they felt.

The Animal Kingdom exhibition at the Newark Museum of Art is on view through May 2024.

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The Airway Revolution

Staten Island dentist raises airway disorder awareness

By BarBara russo

AStaten Island dentist has started the Airway Revolution, a nonprofit that raises awareness about airway disorders in both kids and adults.

Victor Avis, D.D.S, is chairman of the board of the organization, which he started in 2020 with his daughter, Sydney, who at one point in her life suffered from an airway disorder herself.

Up to 70 million people in the United States suffer from an airway disorder, with over 80% of these undiagnosed or not being treated properly.

Raising Awareness About Airway Disorders

The Airway Revolution is based in Tompkinsville. Its mission is to create awareness and lead an expansive patient advocacy movement that will revolutionize airway disorder research and education.

One particular concern Dr. Avis has is that upper airway disorders haven’t been studied much in dental and medical schools. To help combat this, the organization has partnered with Columbia University to create a center for airway disorders. Columbia will also add airway disorder education to their curriculum for dental and medical students, Dr. Avis explained.

The organization is also establishing a fund to help support airway disorder prevention and treatment for underserved communities.

What Parents Should Know About Airway Disorders

An airway disorder refers to any limitation to the flow of air in the upper airway during the day or at night. This includes obstructive sleep apnea and upper airway resistance syndrome. The latter is the lesser known of the two.

“It’s just as dangerous as obstructive sleep apnea, but far less known by the masses.

It’s a huge problem in and of itself. More young people and women have upper airway resistance syndrome,” Dr. Avis explained.

Mouth breathing is another example of airway disorder. Nasal breathing is what should be happening, Dr. Avis said.

“When you breathe through your nose, the air gets filtered by the hairs in your nose. It gets warmed and humidified so it’s conditioned for going down the airway without irritating,” Dr. Avis explained. “And, it gets mixed with nitric oxide, which is a vasodilator that opens blood vessels and boosts the immune system.”

An airway disorder could interfere with a person’s quality of life and health, which is true for both kids and adults. While Dr. Avis’ daughter, Sydney, required surgery to correct her airway disorder, parents should know that this isn’t the only form of treatment available. Surgery isn’t always necessary. Sometimes, consulting specialists such as speech language pathologists, allergists and ENTs can help. Myofunctional therapy can help, too, according to Dr. Avis.

“We want pediatricians, pediatric dentists, orthodontists to be seeing this stuff early, treating it early and avoiding surgical needs,” Dr. Avis said.

Airway disorders in children can interfere with proper cognitive and behavioral development. Symptoms of airway disorders can include:

• Allergies and asthma

• Crowded or misaligned teeth

• Underbites/overbites

• Difficulty latching or breastfeeding

• Learning disorders

• Behavior issues

Speak with your child’s pediatrician or dentist if you notice any of these signs. There is also a lot of information from Airway Revolution in the “Where Can I Discover More?” section on the website, airwayrevolution.org.

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Books We Love

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The Soul of an Octopus

Author: Sy Montgomery

Genre: Non-fiction, Nature

A woman befriends octopuses at the New England Aquarium. The heartwarming book shows the intelligence and complexity of these spirited, playful and fascinating creatures, as well as the meaningful bonds they can form with humans.

Editor: Barbara Russo

Such a Fun Age

Author: Kiley Reid

Genre: Fiction, Coming-of-age

A case of racial profiling causes the relationship between a young Black woman and the wealthy white mother she babysits for to disintegrate. As both women try to figure out the other, they come to realize that their lives are far more intertwined than they could have ever imagined. Themes of race, identity, and privilege are undercut by humor and snappy writing that makes the novel hard to put down.

Editor: Vered Ornstein

Book Lovers

Author: Emily Henry

Genre: Romance

Cut-throat literary agent Nora Stephens is far from the typical heroine in a romance novel – and she should know, she’s read them all. When her younger sister begs her to go on a vacation to a tiny town in North Carolina, Nora keeps running into Charlie, a brooding book editor she’s worked with one too many times. But as their paths in this tiny town cross again and again, Nora and Charlie both discover that they’re more than the literary tropes they’ve assigned themselves.

Editor: Kaitlyn Riggio

I’m Glad My Mom Died

Author: Jennette McCurdy

Genre: Memoir

Fans of the Nickelodeon teen series’ iCarly and Sam and Kat will be left stunned by this biographical bombshell from the actor who plays the shows’ popular character, Sam Puckett. In it, she details how her mother forced her into a career she wanted no part of from a very young age, and how it led to a long-term struggle with eating disorders and alcohol abuse. The extremely personal and revealing memoir is the kind that will stay with you for a while, whether you’re familiar with its celebrity author or not.

Editor: Jeannine Cintron

The Rules Do Not Apply

Author: Ariel Levy

Genre: Memoir

Trigger warning on this book. This book is written with brutal honesty and does include the heartache of loss and love that doesn’t always work out. The book shares the author’s life as she navigates her career and life and how while some parts are sad - in my opinion, the openness is beautifully written and reminds us that we all have diverse outcomes for our actions but this is the heartbreak and beauty of life.

Editor: Donna Duarte Ladd

Somebody’s Daughter

Author: Ashley C. Ford

Genre: Memoir

This powerful memoir highlights Ashley’s complicated childhood that she defines with such depth and detail. She gives readers a look into her life – and her struggles, growing up poor and Black. A very different coming-of-age-story, she beautifully weaves stories of who she was, her family, her body, relationships, poverty, and more – recounting how they made part of who she is – as she learns to become herself.

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Bethany Braun-Silva

on pivoting into a new career with her podcast "The Breakdown With Bethany"

and parenting expert

By Donna Duarte-LaDD

At New York Family, we have the privilege of meeting all types of parents. It is an inspiring job; it is impossible not to learn and take in everyone’s story that we share. We also attend many events, talks, and summits because, as most parents know, parenting has many layers. Frankly, some of these events can feel a bit junior high and twirling around in my brain as I walk to each one is usually, will I have anyone to chat with ? Will I know anyone since most of our relationships these days are via social ? The answer is usually yes.

I met Bethany Braun-Silva at a parenting talk a few years back. Bethany walked up to me, introduced herself, and with her upbeat personality, she shared how she was also a parenting writer. As I have gotten to know Bethany, I now know that on top of being a prolific parenting editor, she is an on-the-go mom of two boys, Elias, 10, and Jake, 7, who she raises with her equally busy husband, Manny. On any given day, you may see an article pop up in the world web that she has written as a Special Projects Editor at Wild Sky Media. Or you will find her sharing helpful parenting advice and mom hacks on TV news segments. So it was not surprising when she founded her podcast and web show "The Breakdown With Bethany" on Mom. com, where she interviews celebrity moms and parenting experts that are a refreshing listen.

I caught up with this busy mom to learn more about how she has pivoted into a new career (the podcast) while keeping her day job as a writer and parenting expert.

DDL:What inspired you to start The Breakdown With Bethany?

BBS:Mindy Kaling! Well, not directly, but during my time as the Editor of Parenting. com , I got offered an interview with her

and couldn’t believe how lucky I was. The interview went well, but I didn’t get the green light to publish the conversation on Parenting.com , so I thought, “why not create my own platform for all these interviews with amazing moms I was being offered?” I love talking to mothers about their ambitions, motherhood journey, careers, relationships, struggles, and triumphs; I truly feel that is what I’m meant to do, so I just did it. I bootstrapped the project for so long, and now I’m so proud that it’s widely available on multiple podcast platforms and YouTube.

DDL:You interview many well-known moms, although they are all pretty famous; what are some things that make them just like us?

BBS:Get ready for a major name drop, but it was actually Serena Williams who said to me during an interview that “motherhood is the ultimate equalizer.” I think moms, famous or not, go through similar emotional struggles: guilt, shame, fear, and loneliness. Something that I’ve been so grateful to help do through my interviews is destigmatized conversations around postpartum depression and anxiety. This is something we talk about a lot on “The Breakdown With Bethany,” and famous or not, this is something that no mother is immune to, and I love that I’m able to help bring more and more awareness to this important topic.

DDL: Any incredible interviews where you signed off and said to yourself WOW?

BBS: Any time I can make a real connection with someone is a “wow” moment. I do the interview through Zoom, so this can definitely be challenging, but most recently, I interviewed Jenna Bush Hager, and from the first question, I could tell that this was going to be a great interview. She is so giving as a reporter and as a guest, and I am also such an admirer of hers that when I

finished, I needed to take a minute to take the moment in.

DDL:I also love hearing mothers’ stories; there always seems to be a common thread: we have a lot more in common than we think. By sharing these mom stories, do you feel it helps you parent?

BBS:I do! I think any time I feel connected and like I’m not alone on this crazy parenthood journey helps me to be a better parent. And that’s exactly why I wanted to share these stories, to help other parents, especially mothers, realize they are not alone. When I conduct interviews, I usually have a question (or two) pertaining to my life. For instance, I recently interviewed a well-known parenting writer who is coming out with a book about astrology and raising kids. I mentioned that it always seems to be a battle with my older son, who is an Aries, and she told me that Aries often like to “fight for fun.” She gave me some great recommendations on relating to him, like sparring with him a bit lovingly. So far, it seems to be working!

DDL:While still a working editor, you have made some pivots to follow your passion for storytelling; what advice can you share with parents on making changes in their careers (keeping in mind many of us still have to pay our bills)?

BBS:I totally get that bill-paying part. Nobody is bankrolling me or my husband so my desire to make a career shift has been fueled by my passion and ambition but it has also been incredibly intentional. What I would suggest to parents who want to make a change in their careers is to follow their passions and to go for it absolutely but not blow up their lives. What I mean is don’t quit the day job without a revenue stream. My journey to television and creating the podcast was, at times, painstakingly slow— because

— while keeping her day job as a writer

I couldn’t just leave everything behind to pursue the big dream, and I still can’t. But I’m finding that doing things at a slower, more calculated pace has helped me reach levels I never thought I could. So I say to go for it with all your heart, but don’t be afraid about taking it slow and making smart (and best) decisions for your family, even if it feels like a step back. You’ll get there!

DDL:What do you do to banish mom guilt?

BBS:Mom guilt can be incredibly overwhelming, especially when you are as ambitious as I am. In the moments when I’m feeling especially guilty, I take a moment to practice mindfulness and really get present with myself. I check in with myself by asking questions like: Are my kids okay? Are they healthy? Are they safe? Are they happy? The answer is usually “yes,” thank goodness, which helps ground me. And then, I spend some time with them where I am 100 percent present to check in and reconnect. But if I’m being honest, I mostly ignore it and push through.

DDL:You are a born and bred New Yorker; what do you love about raising kids here in the city?

BBS:So. Many. Things. I grew up in Hell’s Kitchen, and my husband grew up in Astoria, so raising our little New Yorkers to appreciate all the things we loved growing up is so fun and rewarding. From stickball in the schoolyard to trips to quick trips to The Met, there are so many things to appreciate about being from NYC. Watching them experience the same things I did for the first time is such a joy. They really are little New Yorkers and have a hard time understanding that pizza is not available 24 hours a day in other places.

DDL:What are some of the ‘rules’ you feel you have broken to create a life you are happy living?

BBS:I love this question because I’m actually writing a book that has to do with this very topic. I love breaking “rules.” I was a mother before I was a wife; I pursued a career in journalism without any formal education on the subject, and I started a podcast out of a sheer desire to spread a message and cultivate a community. Maybe it’s my New York sensibility or being an only child but I hate to be told I can’t do something. I advocate for myself professionally a lot. Sometimes it feels scary and a little desperate but I know who I am and what I can bring to the table. So I would also encourage other women to do the same!

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Things To do in march

By BarBara russo

As winter turns to spring this month, there are many local events for families and kids to enjoy! Here are some of this month’s most exciting events in Staten Island and nearby. Be sure to call ahead or visit event websites to confirm details. Go to siparent.com/ events for info on the events listed here and even more stuff to do with your family throughout the month and all year long!

Chess at Casa Belvedere

Thursdays through March 30, 4:30-6:30pm

Italian Cultural Foundation at Casa Belvedere

79 Howard Ave.

Kids ages 5 and older, teens, parents, guardians and grandparents will learn together and have fun playing chess.

Youth Conservation Class:

Archery

Saturday, March 4, 9am-12pm

Zimmer Club Youth Conservation Program

4411 Arthur Kill Rd.

Learn all about archery at this fun class for kids. Plus, get an introduction into archery competition. Ages 8-17.

Purim Carnival

Sunday, March 5, 11am-1:30pm

Joan & Alan Bernikow JCC 1466 Manor Rd.

Dress in your best costume and enjoy a family carnival with inflatables, carnival booths, Purim crafts and more. Register by March 3 to guarantee admission at SIJCC.org/Purim.

Irish Step Dancing with

Dawn Daniels

Sunday, March 5, 4-5pm

Staten Island Children’s Museum

1000 Richmond Terr.

Former North-American Irish Step Dance Championship winner

Dawn Daniels will perform and lead a dance workshop.

Youth Conservation Class:

Community Awareness

Saturday, March 11, 9am-12pm

Zimmer Club Youth Conservation Program

4411 Arthur Kill Rd.

Meet men and women from law enforcement agencies, see animals and more at this fun community awareness class for kids. Ages 5-17.

Signs of Spring Walk

Thursday, March 16 and Saturday, March 18, 1-2:30pm

Snug Harbor Cultural Center & Botanical Garden

1000 Richmond Terr.

Have your camera ready as you catch beautiful signs of spring

while exploring nature at Snug Harbor.

Practice Reading with a Pooch

Saturday, March 18, 3-4pm

Staten Island Children’s Museum

1000 Richmond Terr.

These adorable therapy dogs from Luv on a Leach enjoy literature and can’t wait for you to come by and read them some fun stories! (Spots will be limited).

World Frog Day

Sunday, March 19, 11am-2pm

Staten Island Zoo

614 Broadway

Jump, hop and leap to the zoo for this fun event that focuses on frogs.

ShopRite Kidz Cook

Sunday, March 19, 11am-3:30pm

Staten Island Children’s Museum

1000 Richmond Terr.

This caregiver-and-me program introduces children to a diversity of foods, explains cooking

concepts and helps build dexterity with cooking utensils (four sessions available).

Mad Science: Spin, Pop, Boom!

Sunday, March 26, 4-5pm

Staten Island Children’s Museum

1000 Richmond Terr.

See amazing feats of chemistry and explore all sorts of spectacular reactions at this exciting science event.

Kids Cooking Class: Confetti Mug Cakes

Monday, March 6, 4-5pm

Italian Cultural Foundation at Casa Belvedere

79 Howard Ave.

Kids will learn how to make these colorful and fun sweet treats. Ages 6-14.

Kids Cooking Class: Pasta Making

Monday, March 20, 4-5pm Italian Cultural Foundation at Casa Belvedere

79 Howard Ave.

Kids will learn how to make pasta with marinara sauce. Ages 6-14.

Celtic Angels Ireland

Thursday, March 30, 8pm St. George Theatre

35 Hyatt St.

Enjoy this theatrical performance that features Irish dance, music and song.

Teacher Open House

Thursday, March 30; 4-6pm

Alice Austen House

2 Hylan Blvd.

Join fellow educators for a free, lively evening of art and conversation and a chance to discover the Alice Austen House school offerings.

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