Staten Island Parent - October 2023

Page 1

OCTOBER 2023 SIPARENT.COM
October 2023 | Staten Island Parent 3
4 SIParent.com | October 2023 OCTOBER 2023 SIParent.com CONTENTS FEATURES 20 | Education Choosing a middle or high school 26 | Education The benefits of tutoring & test prep 56 | Cover Family magic with The Smiths FALL FAMILY FUN GUIDE 40 | Fall Road Trips Check out our family road trips picks for fall and winter 52 | Fall Family Fun Our guide to the ultimate family experiences this autumn STORIES & COLUMNS 6 | Editor’s Letter 8 | Ask the Expert Managing your kids’ screen time 12 | Safety Four trick-or-treating safety tips 16 | Local Spotlight Meet the 11-year-old keeping local beaches clean 18 | Local Spotlight Staten Island kid wins NYPL writing contest 28 | Health The new postpartum depression drug 30 | Family Day Out Fall bucket list 32| Family Fun Staten Island's haunted houses 34 | Family Day Out
of our favorite spots to check out fall foliage 38
Family Day Out
best pumpkin picking FAMILY FUN 60 | Calendar Fun events and activities for October 62 | Birthday Club
October birthdays DIRECTORIES 24 | High and Middle School Listings
THE COVER
Some
|
The
Celebrating
ON
Makeup:
& Produced by:
Kidpik
shop.kidpik.com pg. 56 pg. 40 pg. 52 pg.60 pg. 38
Photo: Yumi Matsuo | yumimatsuo.com Hair &
Buffy Hernandez | buffysaintmarie.com Written
Donna Duarte-Ladd Clothing:
|
For Indoor
Entertainment
Family

It’s Feeling Like Fall, Y’all!

As a native New Yorker, I never actually say the word “y’all.” But I guess there’s just something about fall that brings out the country girl in me! Must be all the apple cider donuts.

Get your own donut fix straight from the farm; we’re sharing our top spots for Pumpkin Picking (pg. 38) and be sure to check out our favorite places to see Fall Foliage for leaf peeping from here all the way to the Hudson Valley (pg. 34).

Our Fall Bucket List (pg 30) has 25 festive ways for families to celebrate the autumnal season in and near Staten Island, so start checking off your adventures today.

Nothing SCREAMS fall like Halloween (see what I did there?) and we’ve got Haunted Houses (pg. 32) and Trick or Treating Tips (pg. 12), plus tons of spooktacular events in our Family Calendar (pg. 60).

Fall also marks the start of middle and high school admissions season, when 5th and 8th graders begin the process of applying to the schools of their choice. It can be an overwhelming process but we’re breaking it down for you in Choosing a Middle or High School & Why You Should Attend an Open House (pg. 20).

We’re also highlighting some talented and inspiring young Staten Islanders (pgs. 16 and 18), along with tips for Managing

Your KIds Screen Time (pg. 8). This month’s cover family, Jodenny Smith (and kids), share places they love, and Jodenny shares why being a mom known for always being out with the kids is learning to enjoy the calm moments. Happy reading!

Jeannine

NewYorkFamily.com

PUBLISHER: Clifford Luster

DEPUTY EDITOR: Jeannine Cintron

REPORTER: Barbara Russo

COMMUNITY CONTENT CREATOR: Shara Levine

EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR: Donna Duarte-Ladd

ASSOCIATE PUBLISHER: Erin Brof

ADVERTISING DIRECTOR: Stacie Goldberg

ADVERTISING MANAGER: Janine Mulé

DIGITAL EDITOR: Kaitlyn Riggio

SENIOR ADVISER: Susan Weiss

PARTNERSHIP MANAGERS: Lauren Alperin, Lauren Anchin, Joan Bergman, Mary Cassidy, Suzanne Cirigliano, Chris Cunnington, Lori Falco, Shelli Goldberg-Peck, LynnMarie Hanley, Lisa Herlihy, Nina Spiegelman, Gwen Tomaselli

MARKETING & STRATEGY DIRECTOR: Rosalia Bobé

SALES & MARKETING ASSISTANT: Elana Cantor

MARKETING ASSISTANT: Tilejah Gilead

ART DIRECTOR: Leah Mitch

WEB DEVELOPER: Sylvan Migdal

GRAPHIC DESIGNERS: Arthur Arutyunov, Connie Sulsenti

CONTACT INFORMATION

ADVERTISING: (718) 260-4554

Advertising@NewYorkFamily.com

CIRCULATION: (718) 260-8336 Tina@NewYorkFamily.com

ADDRESS: New York Family Media/Schneps Media 1 MetroTech Center North, Third Floor Brooklyn, NY 11201

PRESIDENT: Victoria Schneps-Yunis

CEO: Joshua Schneps

COO: Clifford Luster

2022

Staten Island Parent has been awarded the PMA Gold Award for Excellence in Editorial and the Bronze Award for Excellence in Digital Media.

New York Family is published monthly by Queens Family Media, LLC.

Comments? Questions? Suggestions? Email Jeannine at jcintron@siparent.com Get news, tips and humor all month long: siparent.com/signup

6 SIParent.com | October 2023 EDITOR’S NOTE
Reproduction of New York Family Media in whole or part without written permission from the publisher is prohibited. All rights reserved. ©2023 GET IN TOUCH
Queens Family Media, LLC
October 2023 | Staten Island Parent 7
BergenPoint
Festival
Saturday, October 21st Noon to 6pm (Broadway Bet Cottage & 5th Sts.) A Great Day for the Family! Vendor Tables, Local Merchants, Crafts, Inflatable Rides for the Kids, Face Painting, Dog Costume Contest, Balloon Art and More! Music, Entertainment & Food! brought to you by The Bayonne UEZ Mayor James Davis The City of Bayonne ad paid for with UEZ funds
BAYONNE
Fall
Head Over the Bridge!

Managing Your Kids’ Screen Time

School has been back in session for a little over a month now which means kids may be spending more time on their devices for school work, homework and leisure time when work is done.

While it’s nearly impossible to completely ignore screens, especially during the school year, there are ways that parents can manage screen time for their children and for the whole family.

We sat down with clinical psychologist Dr. Roni Cohen-Sandler about the effects that screen time can have on kids and adolescents and how parents can manage screen time at home.

What are some negative effects of too much screen time?

The potential harms of too much screen time are generally thought to be poorer sleep habits, less motivation for schoolwork, constant interruptions and procrastination,

exposure to inappropriate content, and the brain becoming so used to rapid-fire stimulation that attention spans shrink.

But a relatively neglected issue is that when kids are on screens, they are not doing other activities that are valuable for their development and wellbeing. For example, they spend less time outside, getting exercise, and socializing with friends (although some do group gaming).

Kids who spend a great deal of time on screens usually are less likely to create art, music, or poetry. In fact, they may find it harder to tolerate being alone—and just being, which is necessary for these important outlets.

Kids are being exposed to screens earlier and earlier. How can parents set ageappropriate boundaries and rules for their kids around screens?

It is important for parents to be knowledgeable about what doctors and neuroscientists recommend. The American Academy of Pediatrics, for example, states

that no children should be watching any sort of screen until after age two.

Common Sense Media has wonderful guidelines for parents. From a psychological viewpoint, it is best to delay as long as possible so children’s brains have as long as possible to develop.

Not only will screen usage change the brain, but also, until kids are mature will they have less ability to plan, anticipate consequences of their behavior, control themselves, inhibit impulses, and manage their time—essentially, the ingredients of good screen hygiene.

What are some strategies families can use to manage screen time at home?

Talk about guidelines before kids are given access to screens. Make them crystal clear by writing out the rules and posting them in a communal place. Explain why they are in place and what will happen if kids violate them.

Then it’s crucial to follow through.

8 SIParent.com | October 2023
ask the expert
October 2023 | Staten Island Parent 9 Opportunity
year, Staten Island Academy awards merit-based scholarships to students entering Grades 6 and 9. Make this the year you seek such an opportunity to launch your future. Find challenge, support, and inspiration as a William Winter Scholar. CONTACT US TO SCHEDULE A TOUR TODAY! 718.303.7803 statenislandacademy.org APPLYING TO GRADE 9 OPEN HOUSE Tuesday, October 17 at 7:00 PM
Each

Otherwise, kids will always be pushing the limit to see how much they can get away with. The reward center in the brain is powerful, so the pleasure that kids get from screens will be difficult to resist.

Also, it is important to create boundaries for the entire family. Kids learn more from what parents actually do than whatever they say. Parents need to be scrupulously honest with themselves.

If they are constantly on their phones, their well-intentioned efforts to curtail kids’ screen times will fall on deaf ears.

Set aside sacred times and no-screen zones, such as the dinner table, when friends visit, on vacations, and during family times at home and outside, such as on walks or at the beach.

The best way to bring up this subject with kids is not for parents to act like they have all the answers.

Rather, they should approach kids with curiosity, an openness to learn what kids are thinking, a desire to learn the challenges kids face in managing screens, and a nonjudgmental attitude so that kids feel

comfortable sharing their worries and any tech-related troubles they get into.

A lot of times having boundaries around screen time come across as a family being “tech-phobic.” How can families accept and even embrace technology while still having boundaries?

Parents can create situations in which the whole family enjoying screens for entertainment. Watching TV shows and movies together can be a source of great fun and laughter. There is also educational content that often appeals to kids, such as shows about

baking, cooking, animals and travel—or other interests they may have.

How can boundaries around technology and screen time change as kids get older?

Kids have to demonstrate that they have the necessary skills to earn more privileges.

They need to be able to meet their responsibilities, be transparent about what they’re doing on their screens, be willing to talk about parents’ concerns, and not show signs of anxiety or panic when asked to shut down their screens.

In many cases, kids default to a screen when they’re bored or looking for something to do. How can parents encourage their kids to pass time without screens?

The best way is modeling what to do when bored—reading, doing a puzzle, having a conversation, listening to music, doing an art project, taking a walk outside, being in nature, helping a parent, etc.

Parents can also play a brainstorming game in which kids create a list of all the things they can do when bored, which is posted in their room for easy reference.

10 SIParent.com | October 2023
ASK THE EXPERT A CREATIVE PLACE WHERE KIDS CAN LEARN, CREATE AND FLOURISH! DEAMUSICANDART.COM FREE FREE FREE TRIAL (718) 370-7733 $100 SAVINGS $100 $100 NEW STUDENTS ONLY PERFORM WITH US DEA MUSIC & ART TAKES CARNEGIE HALL We aim for the stars and provide unmatched performance opportunities for students of all ages and levels. MUSIC & ART CLASSES
“When kids are on screens, they are not doing other activities that are valuable for their development and wellbeing.”
October 2023 | Staten Island Parent 11

4 Trick-or-Treating Safety Tips

Halloween is almost here! Are you ready for some trick-or-treating action with your little ghouls and goblins?

Collecting candy, dressing up and seeing pumpkins on neighborhood doorsteps is super fun. But, it’s also important for parents to keep safety in mind, especially if they have children with food allergies or toddlers and young kids new to the trick-or-treating scene.

Here are some trick-or-treating safety tips so you and your kids can enjoy a fun and safe Halloween season this year!

Avoiding Injuries

Spooky season is an exciting and creative time for little ones. But it’s also a time when

kids can be at an increased risk for injuries, including serious ones.

To start, consider vehicular traffic. Make sure your child’s costume is in bright colors and reflective. Remind kids to cross the street at corners or crosswalks.

A 2019 study from JAMA Pediatrics says 4- to 8-year-old children experienced a 10-fold increase in pedestrian fatality risk on Halloween. The highest risks were around 6pm when daylight fades.

To help keep kids safe at night, one of the best things parents can do is to focus on traffic safety. Just because it’s Halloween, it doesn’t mean everyone will be mindful on the road.

As the study reports in its conclusions, “…policymakers, physicians and parents should act to make residential streets

safer for pedestrians on Halloween and throughout the year.”

Costume Safety

When it comes to trick-or-treating safety tips, it’s important to make sure your child’s costume fits well. If they’re wearing a mask, make sure they can see out of it.

In fact, the U.S. Food and Drug Administration recommends wearing makeup and hats rather than costume masks that can obscure the wearer’s vision.

But trick-or-treating safety tips apply to makeup, too. The FDA recommends checking its list of color additives to see if the colors are FDA approved. If they aren’t approved for their intended use, don’t use them, the agency says.

This is especially important for colored

12 SIParent.com | October 2023
SAFETY

MERCER MUSEUM & FONTHILL CASTLE

ONLY 80 MILES FROM NYC IN BUCKS COUNTY, PA.

October 2023 | Staten Island Parent 13

makeup around the eyes.

Test makeup for possible allergic reaction at least 24-48 hours in advance, the FDA says. Put a small amount on the arm of the person who will be wearing it. If a rash, redness, swelling or other signs of irritation develop where the makeup was applied, that’s a sign of a possible allergy.

Wear costumes that say “flame resistant” on the label, the FDA says, adding if you make your costume, use flame-resistant fabrics such as polyester or nylon.

Food Allergies

Don’t forget about food allergies either, when it comes to trick-or-treating safety tips.

Most parents of children with food allergies make their kids aware that unknown candy could be a potential risk. But, as extra precaution, it doesn’t hurt to remind them to bring all candy home first before unwrapping and eating it.

This year, Food Allergy Research & Education (FARE) partnered with CVS Pharmacy again for its famous Teal Pumpkin Project.

As part of the partnership, CVS is communicating Teal Pumpkin offerings with customers through in-store signage to help shoppers identify food-allergy friendly items. These include small treats, and fun toys such teal pumpkin buckets, craft kits, spooky spiders and critters, and more. (We’re told there are many more fun items to browse this year, too.)

Anyone can participate in the Teal Pumpkin Project by placing a teal-colored pumpkin on their doorstep to signal that, in addition to candy, non-food goodies and food allergy safe treats are available for trick or treaters.

“We are thrilled to grow our partnership with CVS Pharmacy, a company that shares our dedication to inclusivity and safety,” Sung Poblete, RN, PhD, CEO of FARE, said. “Last year was such a great success and, this year, together, we will reach even more families across the nation, spreading awareness about food allergies and creating a sense of belonging during cherished celebrations.”

Poblete added, “By combining our efforts,

we will make a meaningful difference in the lives of the 85 million Americans who are affected by food allergies and intolerances.”

As a bonus, the partnership between FARE and CVS will extend into Valentine’s Day 2024 and the spring season.

The pharmacy will continue to offer allergy-friendly and non-food options to help those who have allergies celebrate holidays safely.

Checking Candy

Trick-or-treating safety tips include checking candy, and it’s important to always check your child’s candy before they eat it. Tell your kids not to eat any candy until they get home, said Gerard Lennon, crime prevention officer at Adelphi University and retired NYPD lieutenant.

You don’t want them eating candy in wrappers that have been tampered with.

“Check all candy for open wrappers. If they’re open—even just slightly—toss them in the trash,” Lennon said.

Also, throw away any loose candy. All candy should be completely wrapped.

14 SIParent.com | October 2023
SAFETY

Meet the 11-YearOld Keeping Staten Island Beachy Clean

The Raccuglia family of Pleasant Plains has something—or someone, rather!— to be proud of: Their 11-year-old son, Vincent, who worked tirelessly this summer to help keep New Jersey and Staten Island beaches clean!

The family spent a lot of time at the beaches of Monmouth, Long Beach Island and Staten Island this year. Although young Vincent could’ve enjoyed swimming, playing Boardwalk games or doing a plethora of other fun things that kids do in the summer, he decided to do something that would make more of an impact on the world.

Whether he spent an afternoon at Lemon Creek, or was on vacation with his family at the Jersey Shore, the young Staten Islander combed the shorelines to pick up litter so residents, visitors and local wildlife can enjoy and thrive in a clean environment.

“I just do it because I love the environment,” Vincent said.

Although a litter-lined beach is an eyesore for anyone, much of Vincent’s motivation for cleaning up the areas was to protect animals.

And his effort to help wildlife is important, especially when it comes to the catastrophic effects plastic refuse has on animals. The Sea Turtle Conservancy reports that over 1 million marine animals are killed each year due to plastic debris in the ocean. More than 80% of this plastic comes from land. It washes out from our beaches and streets.

“I just don’t like seeing the animals die,” Vincent said as he recounted a story about going on a school trip to a local beach and seeing a dead turtle laying on the sand, with a plastic bag in his mouth.

“Animals have feelings. They’re living creatures, so I just help them out,” he said.

While Vincent has an inner drive to help the environment, he admits to getting a few tips and learns a lot from YouTube videos

about beach cleanups, trash collection and animals.

Sadly this summer, there was no shortage of trash to pick up at the New Jersey or Staten Island beaches. From late June to early September, Vincent filled at least five large Home Depot buckets (which usually hold about five gallons each) from the Jersey Shore beaches. He also came across larger pieces of debris on Staten Island, including tires that most likely washed up from the surrounding waters.

Other items that Vincent collected and disposed of include lots of plastic bottles, cans, wrappers, fishing line, fabrics, and random pieces of plastic and rubber.

After collecting the trash and putting it all into the buckets, Vincent brought it all to the appropriate nearby receptacles and placed it inside. On most days, he collected so much trash that he’d have to make multiple trips from the area he was cleaning to the trash cans and back again. This sometimes took up to two hours a day.

Keeping communities clean is something that runs in the Raccuglia family. And the anti litter-bug apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. Vincent’s father Joseph works for NYC

Department of Sanitation.

Interestingly enough, however, Joseph never prompts his son to do this good work— cleaning NJ and Staten Island beaches—it’s something the younger Raccuglia has always done on his own for quite a while now.

His regular cleanups of New Jersey and Staten Island beaches started a few years ago, specifically in Monmouth Beach, where his grandmother lives.

“Over time, it just really progressed,” Joseph said. “He’s obsessed with doing it. He’ll go around the neighborhood. We live in a cul-de-sac, and he’ll clean it, free of charge, and just tidy up.”

Needless to say, Joseph and his wife are tremendously proud of Vincent, who has a twin brother and an older half brother.

When the eco-conscious kid isn’t busy doing beach cleanups, he enjoys helping his dad cook and playing with his cat. He also shared a bit of advice for anyone reading this who wants to do a little bit–or a little bit more–to help the environment.

“When you see an overflowing garbage pail, don’t keep piling things on top of it,” he recommended. “Try to find another one.”

16 SIParent.com | October 2023
LOCAL SPOTLIGHT
October 2023 | Staten Island Parent 17 Fall in Love with Rockland County! Explore our village shops and restaurants. Experience the natural splendor of the Hudson Valley. Enjoy fabulous fall golf, hiking, camping, and more! For a Great Getaway that’s not far away, make your next... explorerocklandny.com

Mariners Harbor Kid Wins NY Public Library Writing Contest

You’ll love her sweet story!

This summer, the New York Public Library (NYPL) asked kids to participate in an writing contest about the Big Apple, and Valentina Daif, age 7, of Mariners Harbor, was one of the winners!

As part of the annual NYPL Summer Writing Contest, the library asked kids this year to write what they think would happen if the beautiful Statue of Liberty came to life and set out to explore New York City. When Valentina and her mom, Ashley Endall, found out about the contest at the St. George Library, they knew they had to enter, as Valentina is a huge fan of Lady Liberty.

“Valentina has always been interested in visiting the Statue of Liberty but we hadn’t gotten to do it yet,” Endall said. “Every time we would see it in passing on the ferry she would ask if we could go, so I had planned to take her over the summer. Then when I saw the writing contest I knew it was a perfect opportunity.”

Valentina’s amazing and adorable story is an adventure starring the little girl herself and her special Lady Liberty doll. One day, the doll comes to life and the two of them, along with Valentina’s mom, go on wonderful adventures throughout the city, meeting many adorable animals and interesting people along the way. At the end of the story, an “About the Author” section reads:

“My name is Valentina Daif. I am 7 years old and I live in Staten Island, NY. I wrote this book as a way to remember all the fun things I did with my mom this summer and to show kids my age that you don’t have to leave your own city to feel like you took a vacation. I hope you all enjoy reading it and looking at the pictures of my adventures with Lady Liberty!”

You can read Valentina’s full story at nypl.

org or link to it at siparent.com.

“We made the experience a part of her writing and several other experiences that followed,” Endall said. “We made the writing similar to the ‘Flat Stanley’ books where we had a Statue of Liberty doll accompany Valentina on all her adventures this summer. She went to the Statue of Liberty, Battery Park, the amusement park and beach in Coney Island, the New York Aquarium and Domino Park, and she took a picture with her Statue of Liberty doll and added the pictures to her story.”

Endall knew immediately that the NYPL writing contest would be a great way for Valentina to hone her writing skills. Although the young student loves writing, she struggles with it in school, Endall explained.

“At home she loves journaling and has so many fuzzy journals, so this assignment kind of allowed her to have fun without it feeling like school work,” Endall said. “She felt like she was still journaling because she was explaining different fun things that we actually did on various days. In addition, she illustrated every page so the drawing part also allowed her to get a little more creative and helped her express herself more easily than what she was trying to explain in her writing.

The contest was very open ended so the lack of restrictions helped her to be more creative and have fun with it.”

The NYPL writing contest was open to kids ages 6-12 who live or attend school in NYC. First prizes were awarded to one winner each from the Bronx, Manhattan and Staten Island, which are all of the New York Public Library’s service areas. Valentina and the other winners received a special writer’s tool kit and the winning entries will be published in the 2024 edition of “Portal,” the New York Public Library’s magazine for kids. Valentina also attended a fun ice cream party of which all the contestants in the NYPL writing contest were invited.

Both mother and daughter like to library hop throughout the island, and together the pair listen to Wonderbooks, hardcover picture books with an audio player built in.

“I’m so proud of Valentina because this summer she tried a lot of new things from writing a book to attending a theater camp in Manhattan where she didn’t know anyone,” Endall said. “She has blown me away with her bravery and determination. I’m so happy that she won, and I hope this encourages her to continue to write.”

Congratulations Valentina!

18 SIParent.com | October 2023
LOCAL SPOTLIGHT
October 2023 | Staten Island Parent 19

Choosing a Middle or High School

Your not-so-little ones are now navigating through middle or high school- setting the stage for their future college and professional success. Thankfully, New York City offers many new and established middle and high school options, reflecting the diversity of educational approaches. From public institutions to private academies, charter schools, and beyond, the array of choices can feel overwhelming.

Recognizing the importance of finding the perfect fit for your tween or teen, we’ve taken the initiative to compile an updated guide of the different schools NYC offers. Our guide covers a broad spectrum of institutions, taking into account the changing academic and career landscape. This way, you can make a well-informed decision for your family, ensuring that your kids are equipped with the knowledge and skills necessary to thrive in the years ahead.

Public Schools

NYC public schools place a strong emphasis on equipping students for future success. From middle to high school, the focus remains on obtaining diplomas, pursuing a technical or college education, and building fulfilling careers.

Public schools offer many extracurricular activities, internships, and volunteer opportunities, allowing students to explore their interests and gain practical experience. The flexibility in scheduling encourages students to discover their passions. The commitment to diversity and inclusion ensures that every student can embrace their identity while benefiting from a supportive learning environment. Resources are in place to assist multilingual and special education learners, guaranteeing that no child is left behind.

As students progress through high school, they learn time management, balance between interests and requirements, college and career planning, and valuable life skills.

The city’s effort to ensure fair access to quality education is the lottery system for middle and high school placement in NYC public schools. As students transition to higher grades, this randomized process aims to distribute available spots in schools, especially those with limited capacity or high demand. While it can be stressful since it is a lottery and you may not get the school you choose, it allows kids and parents to tour schools and grasp the many education routes NYC offers.

Private Schools

NYC private schools provide middle and high schoolers with a wealth of options, from clubs and activities to meaningful projects. With spacious indoor and outdoor facilities, advanced technology resources, athletic teams, student publications, and summer programs, students have all they need to excel. The emphasis on individuality and

responsibility empowers students to pursue independent interests and leadership roles, both in and out of the classroom. Smaller class sizes foster deep connections between peers and teachers, ensuring personalized support.

Boarding Schools

For a more independent educational experience, consider NYC boarding schools. These institutions attract students from around the world, immersing them in a diverse and enriching environment.

Access to state-of-the-art facilities, including libraries, studios, and science labs, prepares high schoolers for university-level coursework. Leadership opportunities and college counseling resources pave the way for higher education success.

Dormitory life offers a taste of independence and the chance to form lasting peer connections.

20 SIParent.com | October 2023
Education
October 2023 | Staten Island Parent 21

While NYC has boarding schools, exploring options in New York state, New Jersey, or beyond can expand possibilities.

Charter Schools

NYC boasts 275 charter schools that provide free education to all children, operating independently from the Department of Education. Charter schools have the freedom to innovate, adapting to students’ needs and experimenting with different learning approaches. Extended school days and years are common, allowing for comprehensive education. These schools support special needs students and English language learners. Clear performance goals motivate charter schools

to prepare students for college and careers through enhanced communication skills, effective time management, extracurricular engagement, and academic excellence.

Catholic Schools

Catholic high schools in NYC offer a nurturing environment rooted in religious values. Students gain a deeper understanding of self, God, and community. With impressive graduation rates, college acceptances, and successful career outcomes, NYC Catholic schools have a strong track record. Co-ed and single-sex options are available, each offering a unique atmosphere. Students aiming for Catholic high schools should prepare for

the Test for Admission into Catholic High Schools (TACHS) exam.

Jewish Schools

NYC’s Jewish middle and high schools blend education with traditional values, fostering a holistic learning experience. Through Torah study, observance of traditions, connection to Jewish history, appreciation for Israel, and engagement in social and political activism, students develop into thoughtful young adults. Jewish schools emphasize learning inside and outside the classroom, with clubs, religious observances, and field trips enhancing the educational journey. Co-ed and single-sex Jewish schools offer choices to suit each family’s preferences.

10 Reasons to Attend a Middle and High School Open House

If your child is in the process of applying for enrollment in a new school for the upcoming academic school year, attending as many open house events at prospective schools is extremely important – even if they are being held virtually. Here’s why these events are essential.

Meet the Faculty.

This is your opportunity for you and your child to meet their potential future teachers and principal. The principal, in particular, plays a major role in the school and consequently, in the lives of the students. It is very important that you feel comfortable with this person being at the forefront of your child’s education.

Be on the School’s Radar.

Schools often take note of which students attend their open house events and that could be factor in their decision to offer your child a spot. Always be sure to neatly write your child’s name on the attendance sheet so they know they were there.

Get a Feel for the Surroundings.

Ever hear of good vibes? That’s exactly what you should feel for a prospective school. The atmosphere, the staff, the location, the students – all of it should just feel right. If it doesn’t, trust your gut and cross that school off your list.

Assess Your Commute.

If the event is being held in person, it’s a good chance to do a practice run on the commute. You can see how far the school is from your home, how long it takes to get there, and what the surrounding neighborhood is like. At the open house you will also learn which transportation options are available.

Learn About Programs Offered. This is often one of the most important deciding factors when selecting a school. At the high school open house event, you will be given an in-depth look at the programs and courses offered at the school. You can ask questions, meet the teachers heading up each program and learn about your child’s academic options.

Voice Safety Concerns.

Your child’s safety is crucial. At the high school open house, the school will address any questions or concerns you have about security measures, emergency procedures, possible crime statistics and more. This is your chance to express any health concerns you have and to learn the school’s Covid-19 regulations and preventive measures.

Learn About the School Day. At the open house, you will find out what time school starts and ends, when your child will be eating lunch, what her daily

schedule might look like, how the periods are structured and other information about the school day.

See Which Extracurricular Activities and Clubs Are Available.

Most schools offer after-school sports, academic clubs, and other programs your child might be interested in joining. A school that offers a wide variety of extracurricular activities might play a large role in his decision to apply.

Meet Current Students.

One of the best ways to learn about a school is from the students themselves. At the high school open house, students are often on hand to help describe the programs in which they are involved and what student life is like at the school.

Learn About The Application And Selection Process.

Some schools require tests or auditions, other schools screen applicants based on grades or other factors and some select students entirely at random. At the open house, you will learn what is required to apply to the school and estimate your child’s odds of receiving an offer. You can also ask questions or voice your concerns about the process to ensure you have all the information you need to help them apply for enrollment.

22 SIParent.com | October 2023
EDUCATION

Staten Island Academy

William Winter Scholarships will be awarded to exceptional rising 6th and 9th graders

each year, hundreds of Staten Island and New York City-area students compete for the Staten Island Academy William Winter Scholarships, which include admission to the 139-year old independent school and scholarship assistance.

Named for William Winter, a renowned 19th century historian and writer, as well as a Staten Island Academy parent and member of the Board of Trustees, the scholarship program is open to students who will be entering Grade 6 or Grade 9 the following September. Awards are based on an examination, school transcripts, teacher recommendations, and a personal interview.

Like the college admissions process, the scholarship selection is part art and part science. There are quantitative ways to measure whether a student will be successful at the Academy, which is why we ask all applicants to take an entrance exam, known as the ISEE, or Independent School Entrance Exam. There are also qualities that are far less tangible on paper -- the potential to fall in love with learning, the curiosity to keep asking questions, and the ability to be a respectful and contributing member of the school community. All applicants participate in a comprehensive interview process in an effort to better establish a personal relationship with them and their families.

The awards are based on academic merit, citizen leadership and the potential to positively contribute to the overall culture of our community. Head of Upper School, Frank S. Crane shares “The scholarship process gives me the opportunity to meet with high-achieving, innovative, and aspirational students

who will hopefully one day be scholars and leaders in our school and the world.” In a world which increasingly calls upon students who are adept in collaboration and critical thinking, self-expression and diplomacy, students at independent schools such as The Academy, are uniquely poised for the challenges ahead.

Head of School, Eileen F. Corigliano writes that “this scholarship practice embodies who we truly are as a school. We do not just seek out students who can achieve high test scores, we welcome students that can contribute to the

Academy community, academically, artistically, athletically and positively through service and partnership in a positive learning community.”

Open House for rising Grade 6 applicants: October 10 at 7pm.

Open House for rising Grade 9 applicants: October 17 at 7pm.

The William Winter Scholarship exam for students who will be entering Grade 6 or Grade 9 in September 2024 will be offered on Saturday, November 18, 2023.

October 2023 | Staten Island Parent 23 Staten I S land Parent Partner

The Community School

High School: 201862-1796 CHSoffice@ communityschool.k12.nj.us

1135 Teaneck Road, Teaneck, NJ 07666

Lower School: 201-837-8070

office@communityschool.us

11 W Forest Avenue, Teaneck, NJ 07666 www.communityschoolnj.org

Community School serves the bright child with learning and attentional disabilities. For 55 years the school’s primary goal has been to help children achieve a level of classroom performance that is fully commensurate with their abilities, intellects and talents. Community School welcomes students from New York and New Jersey, and is located just over the George Washington Bridge, in Teaneck, NJ.

Curtis High School

105 Hamilton Avenue 718-390-1800 x1340

curtishs.org

jfarley5@schools.nyc.gov

With Staten Island’s only accredited International Baccalaureate and Nursing CTE programs, state of the art building, athletic facilities, and Community Schools partnerships, Curtis is nationally and internationally recognized for both excellence and diversity. Come and find out how to make your family a part of the Curtis community at the Open House on November 6 at 6:00 pm.

St. Joseph by-the-Sea High School

5150 Hylan Blvd

718-984-6500

josephsea.org

St Joseph by-the-Sea High School strives to help students grow spiritually, academically, athletically, and socially. Join their Open House on October 15th for boys or October 22nd for girls between the hours of 1pm and 4pm. Appointments can be made online by visiting JosephSea.org today.

Staten Island Academy

715 Todt Hill Road

718-303-7803

statenislandacademy.org

ccrane65@ statenislandacademy.org

Programs include coed college prep school for pre-K3 to grade12. Free extended day 7am- 7pm. Full-day 3 or 5-days-a week program offered for pre-K3 students. Summer programs. College guidance program. Academic Resource Center staffed with Orton-Gillingham trained specialists. Needbased financial aid available beginning in kindergarten.

24 SIParent.com | October 2023 MIDDLE & HIGH SCHOOLS DIRECTORY | Special Advertising Supplement
Partner with Us Want to reach engaged parents across New York City? Collaborate with the New York Family Media team to spread the word about your launches, promotions and news. Reach us by emailing info@newyorkfamily.com or calling 718.260.4554 Your online resource for all things parenting SIParent.com provides a rich array of local resources, useful content, directories and interactive tools to help families meet and celebrate the challenges of parenting. Visit us online today ! si Parent.com Follow us @siparent on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter for even more advice, family fun, and news!

…that each and eve ry one of our stude nts can excel and that all dese rve the opportunity to reach their fullest pote ntial…

Monday, November 6th at 6:00 pm

Come see which of our Small Learning Communities suit your interest:

• International Baccalaureate Diploma Programme (IBDP)

• IB Career-related Programme (IBCP)

• Human & Legal Studies

• Media Studies @ The Journalism Institute

• Practical Nursing/Nursing Assistant

• Software Engineering Institute

• Visual & Performing Arts

• Navy JROTC

Please contact Linda Padula with any questions 718-390 -1800, email: LPadula2@schools.nyc.gov

The Lower School Program provides basic skill remediation in a challenging academic curriculum for Grades 2–8.

The High School Program provides a complete high school experience for the bright adolescent with learning disabilities, providing basic preparation for studies at the college level or within a post-secondary program.

The Community School was founded in 1968 to se rve the bright child with learning and atte ntional disabilities

Lower School

Open House October 11 & 26 at 10:00 AM

High School Open House October 21st Saturday 10:00 AM to 12:00 PM

High School: 201-862-1796 1135 Teaneck Road, Teaneck, NJ 07666

Lower School: 201-837-8070 11 W Forest Avenue, Teaneck, NJ 07666 CommunitySchoolnj.org

October 2023 | Staten Island Parent 25
The
Community School Serving students from New York and New Jersey
Empowering bright children who learn differently

The Benefits of Tutoring & Test Prep

Beth Silver Pilchik, a mom from Manhattan, knows the benefits of tutoring for her child. Her son Matthew has autism and is developmentally delayed. When he was just a toddler, Pilchik knew he would need some extra help with his learning skills.

“Matthew has had services since he was 18 months old, and it has always helped,” she said. “We have seen progress over the years, but real progress over the last two years.”

Matthew is now 12 years old.

Pilchik explained that the tutoring and related services she uses have allowed her son to thrive in school.

“My son has autism, so every provider—I don’t call them all tutors—provides skills that not only teach the subject matter but also regulation,” Pilchik explained. “For my son, this learning has enabled him to go to a school that is less restrictive and focuses more on academics. He is more independent as he now knows how to learn and wants to learn.”

Without these services, Matthew, who is verbal, would still need a teacher by his side, redirecting him.

“He is learning language, regulation tools to learn subject matter and tools themselves,” Pilchik said.

The Benefits of Tutoring and Test Prep for All Students

Many parents like Pilchik have children who can benefit from tutoring or test preparation. But whether a child has autism or not, is struggling in school, or is even doing well academically and just wants to keep up the good work, the benefits of tutoring and test prep are immeasurable for students of all ages and abilities.

The benefits of tutoring go beyond the classroom, too. Anastasiya Smith, a NYCbased private tutor for early childhood education students, explained how.

“I strongly feel—and I heard the same feedback from parents—that tutoring helps a child gain confidence and deepen love and interest in learning, where other organized or group learning may have failed or not be sufficient,” Smith said.

And like Pilchik’s son, tutoring can help a child make progress in school, which is likely the goal for most parents and students.

We spoke with several other experts in

the fields of education and child psychology, too, who provided insight on the benefits of tutoring and test prep for students. Here’s what they said.

Benefits of Tutoring in Elementary School

There’s no age that’s too young to receive tutoring, according to Erica Miller, a children’s therapist and founder of Connected Minds NYC. Although younger children are still developing their understanding of what it means to be a learner and to have a growth mentality, tutoring is still a great option— and it should be fun!

“If a young child is being tutored, I would want it to be fun and engaging, and that fosters a love of learning and focus on process over product,” Miller said. “As a parent myself, I find I am straddling the line of knowing that development can be uneven and different between children, and also wanting my child to be as prepared as possible.”

With tutoring, especially at this young age, there’s flexibility, too. Parents can choose the tutor they want for their child, and kids can work at their own pace.

“Parents get to choose exactly the tutor they are most comfortable with, versus group programming where teachers and instructors are assigned,” Smith said. “With tutoring, you also get the flexibility of going at the child’s learning pace.”

Christine Hernandez, an early childhood and parenting expert, and founder of Allo Saratoga, a community hub for families, shared a few more benefits of tutoring for younger kids:

Individualized attention. Both tutoring and test prep for elementary school students is really beneficial because of the one-onone attention the student receives, especially at this age level. Tutoring can provide personalized attention, allowing students to grasp concepts more effectively. As a result, their academic performance often improves, leading to better grades and a deeper understanding of the material.

Learning “How to Learn.” At the elementary level, many students are just looking to learn “how to learn,” and tutoring and testprep greatly increases their chances of success in learning these skills and strategies, as they are working outside the classroom, moving at a pace that works best for them.

Benefits of Tutoring in Middle School

As mentioned earlier, tutoring can be a big help in boosting self confidence, and this rings true for not only elementary school students but middle- and high-schoolers as well.

“Tutoring can be helpful to remediate weak skills, build confidence and increase independence,” Miller explained.

The privacy that tutoring offers students in any grade is another factor to consider, said

26 SIParent.com | October 2023
Education

Nhon Ma, founder and CEO of Numerade, an online platform that helps students study the STEM curriculum.

“The majority of students across all ages and grades deal with insecurity, and that can make it difficult for them to ask questions in class,” Ma explained. “Tutoring provides a private, judgment-free space where students can ask all the questions they want. This not only helps drive comprehension but also significantly improves student confidence.”

Hernandez highlighted two more hugely important ways tutoring can help middle schoolers both academically and socially:

Support when school gets a bit more challenging. As middle school work gets harder, as well as the social aspect of school, tutoring and private test prep can aid students outside the classroom. Middle school often introduces more challenging subjects and concepts, and tutoring provides personalized support, helping students grasp complex topics, improve their understanding, and achieve better grades and confidence overall.

High school preparation. The goal of middle school is to get students ready for high

school (and beyond), so tutoring is very important to help middle school students prepare for this huge life transition. Middle school is a critical period for preparing students academically and mentally for the transition to high school. Tutoring can help students build a strong foundation in key subjects, ensuring they are better prepared for the challenges ahead.

Benefits of Tutoring and Test Prep in High School

A common theme of tutoring—and something that is especially important to note—is that it’s not only for students who are failing or have poor grades. Students learn in a variety of ways, and each person’s brain functions differently.

It’s unrealistic for all students to process and retain information in the same way, explained Carrie Rose, a life coach who works with high school seniors and is the founder of SunUp Coaching, LLC.

“A tutor can be beneficial for any student who is having a hard time with how material is being taught, or even for a student who is not enjoying school,” Rose said. “A good

tutor will personalize the material and make it come to life for students of all ages. A solid tutor will first determine how the student learns, and then adjust how they teach the material. This can make learning fun for the student, and rewarding. Most students want to do well and understand what is being taught. It’s human nature to crave success. A tutor is one more adult who is on the student’s team and can offer support beyond what is possible in a typical classroom.”

Test preparation is very important at this age, too. And it’s no secret that high school can be very stressful, so another one of the huge benefits of tutoring and test prep is to help high school students manage their stress levels.

“With the pressure of exams, college applications and peer competition, tutoring and test prep can help students manage this stress by providing strategies and support to tackle challenges with one-on-one support and attention,” Hernandez explained.

Tutoring and test prep in high school can also help students prepare for their college applications and even learn educational strategies they can use in their college courses, too.

October 2023 | Staten Island Parent 27
Supports All Learners Learners Small Groups & 1:1 Tutoring Small 1:1 Orton-Gillingham Reading Writing & Math & Math Pre-K & Elementary Private Learning Center Center admin@therootslearningcenter.com 81 Woodvale Avenue Staten Island, NY 10309 www.therootslearningcenter.com @therootsny A private
center
in small group and one-to-one reading, writing and math instruction for preschool and elementary students. Tutoring Service Director Megan Scanlon 7995* STARTING AT 2 PAIRS PLUS A FREE EYE EXAM $ Visit americasbest.com to book your eye exam. *Ask associate for details.
learning
specializing

The New Postpartum Depression Drug

What to know about Zurzuvae

Postpartum depression (PPD) is a serious mental illness that can develop in approximately one in seven new mothers. But the recently approved drug, Zurzuvae, offers a chance at recovery—along with concerns—for many patients suffering with the condition. Here’s what women need to know about this new postpartum depression drug.

What is Zurzuvae?

Zurzuvae, which is the brand name of the drug, zuranolone, was approved on August 4th (expected to be commercially available in the fourth quarter of 2023) to treat PPD. It’s an oral medication, and until now, treatment for PPD was only available as an IV injection given by a health care provider in certain health care facilities, according to the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA). (Sage Therapeutics and Biogen branded the drug.)

Here’s how the medication works: Women take a 50mg pill daily. Per the FDA, it should be taken every day, for 14 days, in the evening with a fatty meal.

How fast do women see improvement after starting the drug regimen? Fast— according to Sage Therapeutics.

“Women were reporting rapid improvement in their depression as early as day three,” Dr. Kristina Deligiannidis, professor at the Institute of Behavioral Science at the Feinstein Institutes for Medical Research in New York, said in this CBS News article. According to CBS, Deligiannidis led the study of the drug in the past and has worked as a paid consultant for Sage and Biogen.

Concerns about the new postpartum depression drug

The FDA put a warning on Zurzuvae’s labeling that it can impact a person’s ability to drive and perform other potentially hazardous activities. Patients also may not be able to assess their degree of impairment. To reduce the risk of harm, patients should not drive or operate heavy machinery for at least 12 hours after taking Zurzuvae, the FDA said.

New mothers should be aware of the

drug’s side effects, too. The most common side effects include drowsiness, dizziness, diarrhea, fatigue, nasopharyngitis (the common cold), and urinary tract infection, the FDA said. Ironically, the use of Zurzuvae may cause suicidal thoughts and behavior, and may even cause fetal harm.

The government agency also said women should use effective contraception while taking it, and for one week after taking it.

About

postpartum depression

Postpartum depression is more than just a new mom having “baby blues.” PPD tends to last longer and severely affects a woman’s ability to return to normal function, according to the National Library of Medicine. It also affects the mother and her relationship with her baby.

As with other forms of depression, PPD is characterized by sadness and/or loss of interest in activities that one used to enjoy and a decreased ability to feel pleasure, according to the FDA. It can present with symptoms such as cognitive impairment, feelings of sadness or inadequacy, loss of energy or suicidal ideation.

“Postpartum depression is a serious and potentially life-threatening condition in which women experience sadness, guilt, worthlessness—even, in severe cases,

thoughts of harming themselves or their child. And, because postpartum depression can disrupt the maternal-infant bond, it can also have consequences for the child’s physical and emotional development,”

Tiffany R. Farchione, M.D., director of the Division of Psychiatry in the FDA’s Center for Drug Evaluation and Research, said.

“Having access to an oral medication will be a beneficial option for many of these women coping with extreme, and sometimes lifethreatening, feelings.”

What mental health experts say about the new postpartum drug

The drug’s approval comes as welcoming news for some mental health workers, including Wendy Davis, Ph.D., PMH-C, executive director at Postpartum Support International.

“Women with PPD desperately need prompt care and additional treatment options that can provide quick relief so they can be healthy and present during this momentous time in their lives,” she said.

But other experts expressed concerns about the drug, citing that it was originally tested mostly on women with severe PPD, not mild or moderate depression, and patients should still consider psychotherapy as an intervention for depression, as noted in this CNN article.

“There’s a concern that this medication will just get used for everybody,” Catherine Monk, professor and chief of the division of women’s mental health in obstetrics and gynecology at Columbia University Vagelos College of Physicians and Surgeons, said in the article. “Whereas for people with mild to moderate depression, the gold standard of care is to start with psychotherapy and other behavioral and lifestyle changes,” Monk said, adding that the pill should not be a first response for patients with mild to moderate postpartum depression.

Available Resources

As always, talk to your doctor if you think you might be suffering from PPD or another illness. You can read more about PPD, depression and mental health, and the new postpartum depression drug at these websites: fda.gov postpartum.net nami.org

28 SIParent.com | October 2023
HealtH
October 2023 | Staten Island Parent 29 STATEN ISLAND WALK OCTOBER 22, 2023 Register at autismspeakswalk.org Together, we’re making a world of difference. Meals & Snacks Included Daycare & Preschool 6 Wks-5 Yrs Before & Afterschool Drop Off / Pick Up at P.S. 54, P.S. 58, P.S. 60, P.S. 69 Trained in First Aid and CPR • Low Tuition (Breakfast and Lunch Included) UFT, 1199, ACD & HRA Vouchers Children in Diapers Accepted 9 Air-Conditioned Classrooms 4 Custom Built Play Grounds Licensed by NYC Bureau of Daycare Licensed Early Childhood Teachers & Staff www.bigbirdsplayhouse.com • 1859 Richmond Ave • 718-982-0550 PRE-SCHOOL Big Bird’s Playhouse Early Childhood Development Program Licensed Teachers & Staff • Lunch Included Camp Hours 9am-4pm • Extended Hours 6:30am-6:30pm UFT, 1199, HRA & ACD Vouchers Accepted COVID Clean And All NYS Mandates In Place In All Big Bird Locations STAFF ARE CPR & FIRST AID CERTIFIED We speak Spanish, Italian, Albanian & Arabic Family Owned & SinceOperated 1991 FREE REGISTRATION FOR PRE-SCHOOL & CAMP With Ad BIG BIRD’S CLUB HOUSE AGES 4-12 YEAR OLDS Register now for Free full Day Pre K for 3 & 4 year olds children born 2019 - 4 year old program, children born 2020 - 3 year old program Register now for FREE Full Day Pre-K For All for September 2023 for Children Born in 2019. Call for a Tour. Call for an Open House Register now for FREE FULL DAY PRE-K 3 FOR ALL for September 2023 for Children Born in 2020 Serving Staten Island since 1991 As low as $60/day • 9 Week Program

Fall Bucket List

It’s Fall in New York City, and it’s like a pumpkin spice latte for the soul! One of the biggest reasons to love fall is the beautiful weather! The just-right temperatures make for the perfect family day out – indoors or outdoors. We’ve got the ultimate fall bucket list ready and waiting for you, so get out there and make some unforgettable autumn memories!

1. Go for a whirl around one of New York’s many carousels before they close for the winter. Favorites include Jane’s Carousel, Central Park, Seaglass Carousel and Bryant Park.

2. Leaf peep in one of Staten Island’s many parks and check out the changing leaves (it happens later in the city than Upstate)

3. Take the older kids (or brave tweens) to one of NY’s many haunted houses for a scary good time. Some top-rated ones include Blood Manor and Long Island’s Bayville Scream Park.

4. Pick the perfect pumpkin from a nearby farm and carve it into a jack-lantern to display on your front porch

5. Hstoric Richmond Town is bustling in the fall! Enjoy the changing leaves and crisp fall air at Historic Richmond Town’s Pumpkin Picking at Decker Farm weekends and explore the haunted history of Staten Island with nighttime tours and special programs

7. Catch a ball game without sweating through your clothes. Fall marks the start of football, basketball, and hockey season

9. Pedal your way past colorful foliage on a scenic family bike hike

10. Geek out at NY Comic Con, coming to the Javits Center Oct. 12-15, and meet your favorite stars up close.

11. Pack the family in the car or head out on foot to explore the over-the-top spooky decorations and local haunted houses. They’re totally getting scarier every year!

12 . Leave the kids with a sitter and head to Long Island to tour its many beautiful wineries while you take in breathtaking autumnal views.

13. Take advantage of the Culture Pass and visit the amazing cultural institutions that participate.

14. Is it even fall if you don’t enjoy some cliche treats, like hot apple cider? Pick up a steaming cup (and a doughnut or two) at your local farmers’ market this season.

15. Take a fall road trip and explore all the beauty New York and our neighboring states have to offer.

16. Join a Fall Walk or 5k with your family in honor of a cause close to your heart; these events occur through both spring and fall.

17. Corn mazes are a fall staple, and there’s plenty nearby to choose from. The cream of the crop includes Von Thun’s, Hank’s Pumpkintown, and Harbes.

18. Take in a Broadway show -some favorites are The Lion King, Aladdin, Harry Potter, and The Cursed Child; these are kid-friendly and help support the theatre district.

19. Check out the Lego Store on Fifth Avenue (636 Fifth Avenue), where kids will have a fun experience at the brick lab, customizing a Minifigure at The LEGO Minifigure Factory or just doing the free stuff and enjoying the store.

20. Take your wizards to the Harry Potter Store, where they can visit three stories of 21,000 square feet of magic and have an instore experience via digital technologies that integrate with the Harry Potter Fan Club app.

21. Head to Summit One Vanderbilt and take in the beautiful city skyline from 1,000 feet in the air! This skyscraper lets visitors look over NYC in their all-glass enclosed elevator and transparent glass sky-boxes!

22 . Exploring the American Museum of Natural History never gets old. The best part is New York residents decide what they pay for general admission. Carve out time to check out its new addition, The Gilder Center (free with regular paid admission to the museum.)

23. Hop on a ferry and explore Governor’s Island before it closes for the winter.

24. If you have done this walk before, you know walking the Brooklyn Bridge is not only one of the most iconic things to do in New York; it is gorgeous.

25. Head to The Central Park Boathouse (Mid-park at 74th Street) and take a rowboat ride for up to four people. Note: Children must be at least 3 feet tall.

30 SIParent.com | October 2023
FAMILY DAY OUT

DoesyournonverbalAutisticchildcommunicate?

WECAN'TWAITTOHEARWHATTHEYHAVETOSAY!!!

FUN!

929-643-9101

Info@CrimsonRise.org

www.CrimsonRise.org

WhatisSpellingtoCommunicate(S2C)?

Itisamethodthatteachesthepurposefulmotortopointto lettersonaletterboardorkeyboardtoenablecommunication.

Whocanuseit?

Autistic,nonspeaking(formerlycallednonverbal)people,and peoplewhohavescriptedand/orunreliablespeech.

Howolddoesyourchildneedtobe?

Weworkwithallages.5yearsoldonwardstoadultsofanyage.

October 2023 | Staten Island Parent 31 INCLUDED WITH CHILD’S ADMISSION AGES 2 AND UP For hours, information, & ticketing: (609) 646-0103 www.StorybookLand.com Join us for Trick-or-Treat Weekends October 21, 22, 28, 29. Trick or Treat Bag included with admission. Collect Treats around the park and don't forget your costumes! HAYRIDES - HAY MAZE - PUMPKIN DECORATING FAMILY-FRIENDLY RIDES SNACK BARS
HALLOWEEN
SEPTEMBER 30OCTOBER 29
Saturdays, & Sundays
NOTHING SCARY, JUST HAPPY
Fridays,
Crimsonrise teachesthem tospellto communicate

Staten Island's Haunted Houses

Halloween is certainly the most chilling time of year. And on Staten Island, many homeowners take the spooky season to the next level. Here are just a few houses that are decorated, but you can find more at siparent.com/haunted-houses-staten-island where you’ll find an updated list of haunted houses throughout October.

And now…brace yourself, because some of these local haunts will make you think you’ve left your cozy hometown and entered a portal of pure terror. Complete with grizzly ghouls, killer clowns, zombies of all sizes and so much more, these houses will have you in goosebumps and jumping back in fear at every twist and turn!

Twisted Trails Part 3

8 Notus Ave., 10312

Take a spooky stroll through a horror

wonderland complete with corn stalks and live actors! But be very attentive, as you don’t know what lurks around each corner, as ghouls, goblins and witches brew up spells at every turn. The inside scoop: This is the third year the Imbemba family has gone all out for Halloween hauntings, and they even start decorating in July! This year there are almost 300 life-size pieces and hundreds of accent pieces that are part of the setup, too.

Sophia’s Psycho Circus and Michael’s Midway of Madness

74 1st St., 10306

Step right up to a horrifying good time as creepy clowns entertain you with three-ring thrills and boo-tacular big-top fun.

Smile, It’s Halloween

332 Seaview Ave., 10305

Check out this local haunt from the Demarest family, which stars skeletons of all kinds.

Bone-us: Neighbors Holly and Justin LaGrega have a decorated house, too, so you’re getting two of the best Halloween-decorated houses on Staten Island in one trip!

The Seaview Farm Colony

240 Lander Ave., 10314

Stop by this Bull’s Head haunt that’s a tribute to Staten Island’s Seaview Farm Colony. Designed by 22-year-old Joseph Kingston—who was actually born on Halloween Day—the scary scene features many of your favorite Halloween villains, including Michael Myers, the girl from The Exorcist, Pennywise and more. They’re all there just waiting for you to visit. (yikes!)

Haunted Pumpkins and More

257 Crown Ave., 10312

The Papaleo family loves Halloween, just like the others on our list, and they all worked together to build a frighteningly fun scene for their Staten Island neighbors.

32 SIParent.com | October 2023
FAMILY FUN

KIDS DEN ENNTAL AL KIDS DENTAL

Helping

BOARD

KIDS

October 2023 | Staten Island Parent 33
Kids One Smile at a Time! Your Child’s HAPPINESS & DENTAL HEALTH are our #1 priority!
CERTIFIED PEDIATRIC DENTISTRY
& PARENTS: Dental visits can be FUN & STRESS FREE! ��������������������������� 739 Woodrow Road, Staten Island, NY 10312 718-356-5437 Exceptional, State-of-the-Art Pediatric Dental Office www.sikidsdental.com Like us on Facebook @ Kids Dental of Staten Island Follow us on Instagram @kidsdentalofsi Major Insurances Accepted. Financing Available. S.I.'s Premier Pediatric Dental Office Providing Comprehensive, Personalized Care
Dr. Lisa Lazzara
NOW OFFERING LASER DENTISTRY (LIP & TONGUE TIE RELEASES)
in treating Infants, Toddlers, Children of all Ages, and those with Special Needs
Dr. Kathryn Pallonetti Dr. LIz Idelchik
Specializing
129 Exam. cleaning. fluoride and X-rays $99 - Exam.cleaning, fluoride $49 - Toddler Special New patients only. Must mention S.I. Parent coupon. $
Dr. Kirran Tiwari
$

Fall Leaves

Fall is here, which means it is time to soak in all the charms that Autumn brings; one beauty is gorgeous fall foliage. The first spot to hit for New Yorkers is the Hudson Valley area, which is just starting to show autumnal hues. So book the train ride, rent the car, and start planning!

Tip: Want to keep track of the leaves so you can plan your trips? Check out the ILOVENY Fall Foliage report and check out the best places to for leaf peeping Hudson’s Valley Fall Foliage.

Fall Foliage in Rockland County Bear Mountain State Park

Route 9W North, Bear Mountain 845-786-2701

Hours: daily, dawn to dusk, open Year-round

Price: $10 per vehicle weekends and holidays, 8am-5pm

Bear Mountain fall foliage is considered a “must-see” in autumn, especially the Perkins Memorial Tower. You can drive up to the 40-foot tall stone look-out tower and climb the steps to the observation windows, or, if you’re feeling ambitious, you can hike from a lower point to the top. Drive to the tower for a less strenuous walk and then follow the Bear Mountain Summit Loop hike. Then, once you’re done, head over to the Bear Mountain Zoo to visit the animals.

Rockland Lake State Park

299 Rockland Lake Road, Valley Cottage 845-268-3020

Hours: daily, daylight to dusk

Price: Through Oct. 24: $10 per vehicle SaturdaySunday 8am-5pm, holidays 8-4:00pm The park offers hiking trails with breathtaking views of the Hudson Valley and various activities like tennis, golf, grilling, playgrounds, and water features.

Haverstraw Bay Park

21 Gagan Road, West Haverstraw 845-364-2670

Hours: Park opened 8am to dusk , weather permitting Hike, participate in one of the many activities, or view many of the beautiful wildlife creatures like the Belted Kingfisher, Mallard, Canada Goose, Great Blue Heron, Northern Cardinal, American Crow, Blue Jay, Song Sparrow, Great Black-Backed Gull, and the Northern Mockingbird.

Fall Foliage in Orange County

Storm King Art Center

1 Museum Road, New Windsor 845-534-3115

Hours: Wednesday-Monday, 10am-5:30pm

Price: $23-$152, depending on the number of people in the vehicle and day you visit. Tickets

are released in two-week blocks and are available on Wednesdays starting at noon; we strongly recommend visiting the site to get your tickets now if you want to visit Storm King to leaf peep. This 500-acre outdoor museum offers stunning views of hills, meadows, and forests, and the surrounding landscape. The peak fall season runs from September 16 through November 12.

Bellvale Farms Creamery

1390 Route 17A, Warwick 845-988-1818

Hours: Through Oct. 30: Monday-Wednesday, 12-8pm; Thursday-Sunday, 12-9pm. This iconic ice cream creamery has stunning views of Warwick Valley and Greenwood Lake to enjoy while you eat your ice cream.

Trophy Point

United States Military Academy, West Point 845-938-4011

Hours: daily, dawn to dusk

One of the most visited places at the United States Military Academy, this scenic overlook of the Hudson River Valley has been the subject of many works of art.

34 SIParent.com | October 2023
FAMILY DAY OUT
Some of our favorite spots to check out fall foliage, from the Hudson Valley to NYC

Winding Hills Park

Old Route 17K, Montgomery

845-615-3830

Hours: Park: daily, dawn to dusk

Price: Vary by activity. See website. A picturesque landscape offers a variety of amenities for anyone that enjoys what nature and the outdoors have to offer, including campsites, a 40-acre Diamond Lake, 4-acre pond, fishing, boating (car-top boats only), playgrounds, horseshoe pits, volleyball court, picnic shelter, picnic tables, nature trails, grills, ice-skating, ice fishing, and snowmobile trails.

Fort Montgomery State Historic Site

690 Route 9W, Fort Montgomery 845-446-2134

Hours: Wednesday-Saturday, 9am-5pm and Sunday 1 pm to 5 m. Usually closes for the season the third week of October

Price: See website

Montgomery was the scene of a fierce Revolutionary War battle for control of the Hudson River. Visitors today can tour the remains of the 14-acre fortification, perched on a cliff overlooking the magnificent Hudson

Fall Foliage in Dutchess County

Vanderbilt Mansion

81 Vanderbilt Park Road, Hyde Park 845-229-7770

Hours: Through October: daily, 7am-7pm

Price: $10

Explore the grounds of the Vanderbilt Mansion high above the Hudson River with amazing views of the Catskills.

Staatsburg State Historic Site

75 Mills Mansion Drive, Road #1, Staatsburg 845-889-8851

Hours: check website

Price: $8 adults, $6 students and seniors, free for children ages 12 and younger

The property of the elegant country home of Ogden Mills and his wife Ruth Livingston Mills overlooks the Hudson River and the Catskills.

Tivoli Bays Wildlife Management

Area and Research Preserve

Cruger Island Road, Tivoli 845-889-4745

Hours: daily, dawn to dusk

Price: Free

Hike along the Hudson River with stunning views of the Catskills.

Ferncliff Forest

68 Mt. Rutsen Road, Rhinebeck

Hours: Park open year-round; tower open daily, dawn to dusk

Ferncliff Forest Game Refuge and Forest Preserve is a 200 acre forest known as the secondbest old growth forest in the Hudson Valley. The forest is available for hiking, camping, mountain biking, skiing, fishing, and picnics at no charge. Plus, there’s an observation tower you can climb for amazing views of the area.

Scenic Hudson’s Long Dock Park

23 Long Dock Road, Beacon 845-473-4440

Hours: daily, 6am-8pm

Kayak, picnic, stroll through wetlands or simply enjoy the river.

Fall Foliage in Ulster County

Walkway Over the Hudson

87 Haviland Road, Highland 845-834-2867

Hours: daily, 7am to sunset

This steel cantilever bridge spans the Hudson River between Highland on the west bank and Poughkeepsie on the east.

Fall Foliage Cruises on the Hudson Hudson River Adventures – Pride of the Hudson

4 Washington St., Newburgh 845-220-2120

Hours: See the website for cruise schedule

Price: $30; $28 seniors ages 65 and older; $20 children ages 4-11; free for children ages 3 and younger.

Drive to Newburgh to hop aboard the Pride of the Hudson. This two-hour narrated cruise will take you past Washington’s Headquarters, Mount Beacon, Bannerman Island, Breakneck Mountain, Cold Spring, World’s End, Constitution Island, and West Point.

Hudson River Recreation

914-682-5135

Hours: depends on which tour you select Price: $89-$178

If you prefer to take the river at a slower pace, Hudson River Recreation can put you in charge of your own boat. Your own really small boat, that is. It offers kayak tours on the Hudson departing from Sleepy Hollow, Croton-onHudson, and Rye. The tours generally run from mid-May to early October, depending on the weather. Call for the current schedule.

October 2023 | Staten Island Parent 35

Where to Leaf Peep on Staten Island

Known as the borough of parks, it’s no surprise that Staten Island has some great places to see beautiful fall foliage. Check out these locations around the borough that offer great views of autumn landscapes.

Snug Harbor Cultural Center and Botanical Garden

1000 Richmond Terr.

Set on a sprawling 83-acre campus dotted with trees, gardens, museums, historic architecture and so much more, Snug Harbor provides a serene escape from the hustle and bustle of city life. Come fall, delight in seeing the changing leaves in many of the beautiful on-site gardens.

Blue Heron Park

Amboy Road, Barclay Avenue, Hylan Boulevard and Bertram Avenue

This gorgeous park is a hidden gem on

Staten Island. Nestled in the heart of the South Shore, it’s a great place to enjoy tranquility while taking in beautiful autumn scenes.

The Greenbelt Nature Center

700 Rockland Ave.

Fall into the autumn season at the Greenbelt, Staten Island’s 2,800-acre park system. This time of year is great for seeing fall foliage here. You might even see some majestic birds of prey soaring through the sky, including red-tailed hawks and even bald eagles!

Clove Lakes Park

Forest Avenue, Victory Boulevard, bet. Clove Road and Brookside Avenue, Royal Oak Road

Home to beautiful lakes and ponds, trees and more, Clove Lakes Park is a great place to see autumn landscapes. Walk through

Where to see Fall Foliage in New York City

Here in New York City, the leaves tend to change later, and there are fantastic spots to leaf peep so you can experience Fall Foliage’s beauty right in your neighborhood. From Central Park to gorgeous Wave Hill in the Bronx, visit one or more of these spots to take in all the charms of Autumn.

Brooklyn Bridge Park

334 Furman St, Brooklyn, NY

This is the perfect mix of nature and the city, offering superb views of Lower Manhattan and the Harbor. With various walkways throughout the park and alongside the river, you are able to pass by several piers with access to some serious fall foliage. This includes the Environmental Education Center, 99 Plymouth, and Jane’s Carousel.

Central Park

New York, NY

New York’s most famous spot has a handful of places to admire fantastic fall foliage during the season. Go to the 90-acre North Woods in Central Park’s northwest corner. According to many visitors, this area can be considered

the most natural portion of the entire park, making it a perfect escape from the hustle and bustle of the city. To capture some serious colors, walk along The Mall which is located in the middle of the park. It is lined with the most extensive collection of American Elms. Check out their Fall Foliage map.

New York Botanical Garden

2900 Southern Blvd, The Bronx, NY

If you missed leaf peeping upstate, don’t fret when NYC has one of the best woodsy spots at the New York Botanical Garden. Fall Foliage tours run until November 30, and are free with garden admission. Check the site, bbg. org, at seasonal highlights for the listed tours.

Prospect Park

Brooklyn, NY

A 585-acre park in Brooklyn serves as the ultimate spot for nature and admiration for some fall foliage. The amenities in the park, like ice skating at LeFrak Center at Lakeside( usually opens by mid-November, but always check the site to be safe), Prospect Park Zoo, and the playgrounds, are perfect for a full day

the park’s many pathways, enjoy the changing colors of the leaves and maybe even spot some amazing local wildlife along the way.

Allison Pond Park

Prospect Avenue, N. Randall Avenue and Brentwood Avenue

Stroll through the park and enjoy looking at the golden leaves of autumn along the way.

Silver Lake Park

Victory Boulevard, Clove Road, Forest Avenue

The centerpiece of this North Shore park is its beautiful lake, but there are also plenty of trees with leaves that change color come autumn. Walk through the park or relax on a bench to take in the views of red and golden leaves that are signature of the season.

of family fun. Whether you are looking for a stroll or a bike ride, the park offers everything you need to enjoy the fall season.

Randall’s Island Park

20 Randall’s Island Park, New York, NY

Randall’s Island Park has various ways to enjoy its recreational space. Approximately ten miles of biking trails and pedestrian pathways make it a getaway to admire nature while in the city. Over nine miles of waterfront pathways and all passive recreational activities are available; as of now, barbecuing and grilling areas are open, but there are specific areas; we suggest visiting the general information page on the randallsisland.org page if planning to grill.

Wave Hill

4900 Independence Ave, The Bronx, NY

A botanical garden surrounding the Wave Hill House which dates back to the mid-19th century. This spot in the Bronx offers views overlooking the Hudson River. If you’re looking to take a Fall walk, check out the tours at wavehill.org in the calendar section.

36 SIParent.com | October 2023
FAMILY DAY OUT
October 2023 | Staten Island Parent 37 SICommunityTennis Center 2800 Victory Blvd 718.982.3355 | statenislandtennis.com Offering Morning, Evening, & Weekend Classes for All Levels 6 Indoor Air-conditioned Courts 6 Outdoor Courts Limited Openings for Fall Classes Call about our adult leagues and drills. Call about our adult leagues and drills. Staten Island Community tennis center :sitenniscenter COMING SOON TinyTreasuresDaycare.com • (718) 273-5157 396 Van Duzer Street. Call or visit our website to learn more Private Pre-Kindergarten and Wellness Center Mommybites.com provides expertly curated resources for all parents in the New York area, including our most popular feature — our mom-generated nanny board — the best online source for parents to find vetted (by other parents), experienced nannies and childcare providers who want to work in New York City, Westchester, Long Island and Northern New Jersey. MommyBites.com We can’t wait to see you there! is now part of

Pumpkin Picking!

If there’s one thing we love about the fall, it’s pumpkin everything! Pick the perfect pumpkin and partake in festive fall activities at a farm in Staten Island or nearby New Jersey, then take your fresh gourds home to carve it into a jack-o’-lanterns or bake into a yummy pie! Just be sure to call or visit the farms’ websites before heading out to confirm pumpkin availability.

Alstede Farms

1 Alstede Farms Lane, Chester Township 908-879-7189

Approximate drive from Staten Island: 1 hour

Hours: Daily, 9am-6pm (last admission to pickyour-own is 4:30pm). Pumpkins anticipated to be available in October. Check website for updates. Alstede Farms offers orange and white pumpkins, munchkins, gourds, and assorted winter squash—all available in u-pick! Hayrides are accessible for all. A handicapped accessible hay wagon ride accommodates two wheelchairs with additional seating for family and friends. Plus, you can visit with and feed some of the farm’s animals. Hayrides are included with each pick-your-own ticket.

Battleview Orchards

91 Wemrock Road, Freehold 732-462-0756

Approximate drive from Staten Island: 1 hour

Hours: Picking hours vary with the season and availability. Call or check Facebook for updates.

Admission: No entrance fee. Cash only for pickyour-own produce. Senior citizens receive a 10 percent discount on Mondays and Thursdays. Battleview Orchards offers a variety of pickyour-own fall favorites, including pumpkins and apples. Hayrides are available in the fall, weekends only.

Decker Farm

435 Richmond Hill Road 718-351-1611

Hours: Sept. 30-Oct. 29 and Monday, Oct. 9, Saturdays and Sundays, 12-5pm Walk through the patch to find your perfect pumpkin and learn about 19th century farm life — without leaving Staten Island!

Giamarese Farm

155 Fresh Ponds Road, East Brunswick 732-821-9494

Approximate drive from Staten Island: 1 hour Hours: Pumpkins are expected to be available in September and October. Check the website or call for updates.

Go on a hayride tour, pick pumpkins and browse the farm market for produce, baked goods, decorations and more. Pony rides available for an extra fee on fall harvest weekends. There are other crops to pick throughout the year, including apples, which are available through early October.

Happy Day Farm

135 Iron Ore Rd., Manalapan 732-977-3607

Approximate drive from Staten Island: 1 hour Hours: Sept. 9-Oct. 29; 10am-5pm. Select dates. Tickets go on sale Sept. 1. This farm is packed with fall fun. Explore a corn maze, see pumpkin houses and enjoy so many more activities that are perfect for the season. The corn maze is impressive. Each year, over 10 acres of the farm is transformed into a maze with three miles of pathways and a lookout bridge.

Ort Farms

25 Bartley Rd. Long Valley

908-876-3351

Approximate drive from Staten Island: 1 hour Hours: Pumpkins available late September to late October. Call for hours. Choose from a variety of pumpkins. A five-acre corn maze is included with fall admission. Other

fall activities available during pumpkin season include monster truck rides and pony rides. The farm store offers a variety of products including eggs, local milk, ice cream, seasonal produce and baked goods including apple cider donuts—you can’t leave without getting one!

Stony Hill Farm Market

15 North Rd., Chester 908-879-2908

Approximate drive from Staten Island: 1 hour Hours: Daily, 10am-5pm. Pumpkins anticipated to be available late September to October.

Pumpkins available in all sizes. Other activities to enjoy include hayrides on weekends and more. The Maze Fun Park, which reopened on Sept. 2, features a giant corn maze, rides, games, a play area and more.

Terhune Orchards

330 Cold Soil Rd., Princeton 609-924-2310

Approximate drive from Staten Island: 1 hour

Hours: Daily, 9am-6pm; Friday open until 7pm. Pumpkins will be available September-October. Enjoy so many fun activities here. Meet barnyard animals and walk the farm trail, and kids can take a ride on the track with pedal tractors (for ages 6 and younger). The farm store has fresh baked goods, fresh-pressed apple cider and locally sourced specialty foods, including honey, apple butter, jams and more…yum!

Von Thun’s Country Farm Market

438 Route 57 West, Washington 519 Ridge Rd., Monmouth Junction, NJ 732-329-8656

Approximate drive from Staten Island: 1 hour Hours: Call for information.

Enjoy pumpkin picking, hayrides and more than 20 other family activities. Check out this year’s corn maze, which is a tribute to country music singer, Reba McEntire!

38 SIParent.com | October 2023
FAMILY DAY OUT

Providing Academic Growth and Success in a Catholic

FREE Parenting Webinars Sign up now!

e v a l u e s environment, ASD instills students with the values o f c o m m u n i t y , s e r v i c e , r e v e r e n c e a n d l e a d e r s h i p of community, service, reverence and leadership. A S D o f f e r s i n s t r u c t i o n , a c t i v i t i e s a n d s p o r t s o n i t s ASD offers instruction, activities and sports on its v a s t a n d e a s i l y a c c e s s i b l e 1 3 - a c r e c a m p u s vast and easily accessible 13-acre campus.

Fall Open House Fall Open House

Atypical Approaches: Unlock the Brilliance

Debbie Reber

Tuesday, Oct. 10, 2023, 4 p.m. ET

The Power of Relationships: Nurturing Compassion and Resilience in Children

Sam Goldstein, Ph.D., and Robert B. Brooks, Ph.D.

Tuesday, Oct. 24, 2023, 4 p.m. ET

PRESENTING SPONSOR

REGISTER:

VISIT US AND LEARN MORE!

VISIT US AND LEARN MORE!

NOVEMBER 4, 2023

10 A.M. - 12 P.M.

October 2023 | Staten Island Parent 39
Register for FREE at www.siparent.com/ParentEdTalks
Environment ACADEMY OF ST. DOROTHY STATEN ISLAND A c a d e m y o f S t . D o r o t h y ( A S D ) Academy of St. Dorothy (ASD) i s a p r i v a t e is a private e l e m e n t a r y s c h o o l w i t h a f o c u s o n a c a d e m i c elementary school with a focus on academic e x c e l l e n c e I n a n u r t u r i n g c o l l a b o r a t i v e l e a r n i n g excellence. In a nurturing collaborative learning e n v i r o n m e n t , A S D i n s t i l l s s t u d e n t s w i t h t h
ACADEMYOFSTDOROTHY.ORG ACADEMYOFSTDOROTHY.ORG- (718) 351-0939 (718) 351-0939
Christian

Discover Central Massachusetts

From fall foliage to beautiful vineyards and historic villages to botanical gardens, the crisp days of autumn are an excellent time to discover central Massachusetts. This itinerary makes for a great weekend trip! Start by exploring New England Botanic Garden at Tower Hill in Boylston, MA, with Myths, Magic & Monsters in October, then enjoy lunch in their charming café. (While there, buy tickets for their Nov/Dec Night Lights celebration, an experience not to be missed!) Afterward, drive around the reservoir to see the Old Stone Church, built in 1890, where fall foliage is a stunning backdrop for photos and a lovely stroll.

In the afternoon, journey through time at the Worcester Art Museum, whose 38,000 artworks include objects from ancient Antioch, European Old Masters, early American paintings, Japanese ukiyo-e prints, and more.

Are you craving a glass of local wine? Beautiful Agronomy Farm Vineyard in Oakham, MA offers flights, pours, and bottle sales, plus a delicious selection of snacks in their tasting room, including local cheeses, crackers, nuts, spreads, chips, and chocolate.

Later, check in to the Publick House Historic Inn in Sturbridge. Nestled on acres of beautiful countryside, you’ll be greeted with warm pecan sweet rolls at the Inn’s famous Bake Shoppe. Choose a room in the Historic Inn, dating from 1771, or the Chamberlain House, a more recent addition.

Spend your second day at Old Sturbridge Village exploring the 200+ acres and 40 historical buildings of this recreated 1830s rural

Fall RoadFamily Trips

Fall decor, pumpkin treats, and farm festivals are finally here!

If you want to make the most of the cozy season, have you considered planning a road trip with your family? Road trips are the perfect, quick escape from the city where you can dive into family-friendly fall and winter festivities. Whether it’s apple picking or nature hikes, tractor rides, or fudge tastings, your kiddos will have plenty of fun activities to do, all while exploring the history of unique towns. We’ve rounded up some of the best road trip destinations for your family this year. Get your train tickets or GPS ready, because these are fall vacays you do not want to miss!

New England town. Be sure to stay for Phantoms by Firelight from 4:30-9:00 pm on October weekends to enjoy “spooky delights” from carnivalesque performances and candy to storytelling by the bonfire. Or visit later in the season for Christmas by Candlelight, a unique look at the history of holiday traditions.

For information on these attractions, additional lodging options, restaurants, and more visit discovercentralma.org.

40 SIParent.com | October 2023
Ultimate fall family fU n G U ide in partnership with

THE OTHER THREE SEASONS ARE JUST THE OPENING ACTS.

Fall in Rhode Island is more than a season, it’s a state of mind. From pumpkin and apple picking to corn mazes, outdoor festivals and leaf peeping, there’s nothing quite like experiencing this famously beautiful state at its most stunning. Enjoy cool breezes and family-friendly fun all season long. VisitRhodeIsland.com

October 2023 | Staten Island Parent 41

Frederick County, Maryland

Are you in need of a peaceful, relaxing, and scenic getaway? Frederick County, Maryland, can provide just that! History lovers will enjoy learning about Frederick’s part during the American Civil War, including battlefields, Monocacy National Battlefield, and South Mountain State Battlefield. Families can take beautiful hikes through Chimney Rock in Catoctin Mountain Park or Cunningham Falls State Park.

You could even spend the day with animals at Catoctin Wildlife Preserve or ride a themed train on Walkersville Southern Railroad. And with 20 nationally-branded hotels and camping sites nearby, booking a stay is easy.

For families traveling this fall, plan to visit fall festivals on local farms. Conquer the twists and turns of the corn maze, bounce to new heights on the jumping pillows, get hands-on petting and feeding the farm animals, and pick out the perfect pumpkin.

Celebrate autumn by attending Colorfest in Thurmont, Maryland, October 14-15th. Colorfest is one of the largest outdoor craft shows on the East Coast. Explore amazing crafts, art, jewelry, clothing, and

various delicious foods. Or, look ahead to Sailing through the Winter Solstice event beginning on November 18th—experience over 25 lighted boats displayed in Carroll Creek Park in Downtown Frederick. More info at Visitfrederick.org

The Kartrite Resort

Want an all-in-one destination that will guarantee endless family adventures this Fall? The Kartrite Resort in the Catskill Mountains is home to NY’s biggest indoor waterpark and much more. Spend an entire day at the 11 waterpark attractions just a 90-minute drive from the city, then check into one of the new and modern resort suites to get some rest. All suites (available as 1, 2, or 3 bedroom and bunk bed suites) come with four passes for the waterpark for the day of check-in and check-out.

Beyond the water fun, enjoy The Kartrite’s seven eclectic eateries and bars, a full daily activities schedule, and soak in the fresh Catskills air with archery, goat yoga, or hiking on up to 6 miles of trails. Plus, head indoors to endless fun at Playopolis arcade, laser tag, ropes course, rock climbing, bowling, virtual reality, and more. You could even plan your trip around one of the themed weeks: October 2630: Halloween Hullabaloo, November 23-27: Friendsgiving Week, or December 21-27: Holly Jolly Holidays Week. Exciting promotions and packages await if you have a special occasion like a birthday or bar/bat mitzvah!

42 SIParent.com | October 2023
Ultimate fall family fU n G U ide in partnership with

The

resort & indoor waterpark

555 Resorts World Dr. Monticello, NY 12701 www.thekartrite.com

An easy 90-minute car ride from NYC lands you here, The Kartrite Resort.

New York’s newest and biggest indoor waterpark. Modern and stylish suites. Hi-Tech Adventure Zone. 8 eclectic eateries and bars. Daily activities schedule, bowling, a ropes course, and laser tag. Gorgeous hiking trails. 11,000 square feet of meeting space to accommodate large or small groups.

And much, much more. Just a short walk to the spectacular Resorts World Catskills Casino Resort!

Located in the heart of the beautiful Catskills.

Rhode Island

Embark on a captivating fall road trip through Rhode Island, where history, mystery, and autumnal beauty await. Here is your itinerary for an unforgettable journey!

• Providence Ghost Tour (Available throughout October): Begin your road trip in Providence, where the city’s rich haunted history comes to life. Join the Providence Ghost Tour, the city’s longestrunning haunted history tour, perfect for families. Wander through the eerie tales and ghostly legends that haunt the city’s streets. Learn more at visitrhodeisland.com/event/providence-ghost-tour/92438/.

• Jack-o-Lantern Spectacular (until October 31) : Continue your family journey to Roger Williams Park Zoo, where the Jack-O-Lantern Spectacular awaits. The kids will love immersing themselves in the enchanting ambiance of Halloween with this nationally acclaimed event. Marvel at thousands of intricately carved pumpkins, each telling a unique story. Check out visitrhodeisland.com/event/jack-olantern-spectacular/92071/ for all the details.

• Oktoberfest 2023: Head to Pawtucket to celebrate Oktoberfest at the German-American Cultural Society of RI. Experience the Bavarian tradition of the Wies’n with authentic German cuisine, lively music, and delicious beer for adults only (of course!). Join in the festive atmosphere! All the details can be found at visitrhodeisland. com/event/oktoberfest-2023/95191/.

• Fall Foliage: As you traverse Rhode Island, take advantage of the opportunity to witness the vibrant fall foliage. Explore numerous trails and parks, such as Lincoln Woods State Park, to soak in the breathtaking

Mercer Museum & Fonthill Castle

The Mercer Museum & Fonthill Castle, located 80 miles from New York City in Bucks County, PA, are two National Historical Landmark sites celebrating the legacy of Henry Chapman Mercer, American archaeologist, anthropologist, ceramicist, and scholar.

The Mercer Museum is a six-story concrete castle built between 1913 and 1916 that features both seasonal exhibitions and a core museum collection of over 17,000 preindustrial tools. This permanent collection offers visitors a unique window into preindustrial America through sixty different crafts and trades and is one of the most comprehensive portraits of pre-industrial America.

Fonthill Castle, built between 1908 and 1912, was the home of Henry Mercer and served as a showplace for his collection of tiles and prints, with the interior featuring Mercer’s renowned, hand-crafted ceramic tiles designed at the height of the Arts and Crafts movement.

autumn views. Experience the essence of the season in all of its colorful splendor!

• Rhode Island Lighthouses: Rhode Island is a haven for lighthouse enthusiasts. Take some time during your journey to explore the unique and historic lighthouses that dot the coastline. Each lighthouse has its own fascinating story and charm, making for memorable photo stops along the way.

With a blend of spooky tales, mesmerizing pumpkin displays, Bavarian festivities, fall foliage, and iconic lighthouses, your fall road trip through Rhode Island promises excitement and serenity, ensuring memories that will last a lifetime.

44 SIParent.com | October 2023
Ultimate fall family fU n G U ide in partnership with

Rockland County, NY

For a perfect family road trip, visit Rockland County – just 30 miles north of NYC.

Situated along the majestic Hudson River and nestled among thousands of acres of untouched parkland, you can expect lots of outdoor fun: hiking trails, mountain vistas, and plenty of fall foliage. Rockland County also offers exquisite waterfront villages with world-class restaurants, art galleries, theatres, shopping, historic sites, and more!

Fall is the perfect time to explore Rockland County. Visit one of the many farms and farmer’s markets where you’ll find fresh produce, pumpkin and apple picking, and more! Stop by Dr. Davies Farm, one of Rockland’s oldest working farms, where you can pick your own pumpkins and apples, enjoy hayrides, and shop for homemade pies, donuts, and cookies. You can also sample delicious hard ciders at the newly opened Red Barn Cidery at Dr. Davies Farm. Enjoy sweet ciders made from Dr. Davies’ apples, food trucks, and live music. With so much nature surrounding you, choosing just one hiking adventure can be tricky. For a fun family outing, visit Bear Mountain State Park – an outdoor lover’s paradise! The park features various outdoor recreational activities, including hiking, picnicking, boating, and fishing, as well as the park’s Trailside Museums and Zoo. Visitors

can also enjoy spectacular panoramic views from Perkins Memorial Tower, located at the summit of Bear Mountain.

To get to Bear Mountain, take the Palisades Interstate Parkway (PIP), a scenic 42-mile ride from the George Washington Bridge along the Hudson River Palisades that features vibrant foliage and breathtaking views of the Hudson River. After a day of exploration and before heading home, enjoy dinner at the 1915 Bar & Restaurant located at the historic Bear Mountain Inn.

Tour MetroWest Boston

From beer gardens to corn mazes, state parks to beautiful art, fall is an excellent time for a weekend trip to MetroWest Boston! Start your visit at Hopkinton State Park, enjoying outdoor activities highlighting gorgeous fall foliage, from kayaking on the lake to amazing trails for hiking, horseback riding, mountain biking, and more.

When you’ve had your fill of the outdoors, visit some indoor beauty at the Danforth Art Museum in Framingham, a jewel box housing 3,500+ pieces reflecting works of art from the 18th century to the present.

No visit to Framingham is complete without a stop at legendary Jack’s Abby Craft Lagers, one of 17 craft breweries in MetroWest. Jack’s autumnal limited-edition beers include Pumpkin Crop Lager and Copper Legend, brewed for Oktoberfest.

After the sun goes down, head to Hanson’s Farm for their Haunted Hayride or corn maze, followed by a delicious cider donut. Get a great night’s sleep at the Fairfield Inn in Sudbury or in one of the historic rooms at The Wayside Inn, the oldest inn in America.

In the morning, tour the Wayside’s 100-acre property, including the Old Barn’s antique coaches and farming tools, the Redstone Schoolhouse from the poem Mary Had a Little Lamb, the Grist Mill, Chapel, and beautiful grounds. Enjoy a gourmet lunch at the Inn before making the short drive to Hudson.

Spend the afternoon at the American Heritage Museum, where your tour starts in a WWI trench, listening to a nurse explain what it was like on the Front while bombs explode above you and the floor shakes. This

extraordinary museum features historic aircraft, tanks, cars, and rare relics from the Revolutionary War to today, including one-of-a-kind artifacts, immersive exhibits, and living history events. Afterward, wander the charming shops and boutiques of downtown Hudson.

For information on these attractions, additional lodging options, restaurants, and more, visit metrowestvisitors.org.

46 SIParent.com | October 2023
Ultimate fall family fU n G U ide in partnership with
October 2023 | Staten Island Parent 47 ® I LOVE NEW YORK is a registered trademark and service mark of the New York State Department of Economic Development; used with permission. Beyond a change of season. Croton Gorge Park Farm trails, pumpkin patches and apple orchards are yours to explore this fall in Westchester. Enjoy everything the season has to offer without going far. For curated seasonal itineraries and to start planning your stay, go to VisitWestchesterNY.com

Visit North Central Massachusetts

From fall foliage to harvest festivals, apple-picking to glorious hikes, the cooler days of autumn are a great time to visit north central Massachusetts. Start your weekend trip at the beautiful Fruitlands Museum in Harvard, housing historical collections of Shaker material, Hudson River and New England landscape paintings, folk portraits, and indigenous art and artifacts on a glorious 210-acre landscape with stunning views and miles of walking trails.

Check in to Great Wolf Lodge New England in Fitchburg in the afternoon for the ultimate adventure. Let the kids play in the massive 84-degree indoor waterpark, exclusive to guests. The fun continues throughout the resort: battle a dragon while playing MagiQuest, test your skills at the Northern Lights Arcade, challenge the indoor ropes course, and come together for nightly Story Time.

After dinner, head to Groton Hill Music Center for a fantastic folk, jazz, classical, or Broadway concert, then back to the Lodge for a great night’s sleep.

Start day two at Wachusett Mountain Ski Area or Wachusett Mountain State Reservation in Princeton, where there’s no shortage of seasonal festivals, from Oktoberfest to Apple Fest, or take in the stunning foliage by hiking to the mountain’s summit for a scenic 4-state view.

In the afternoon, explore Davis Farmland in Sterling, the ultimate hands-on discovery farm for kids. Pet, cuddle, feed, and groom North America’s largest sanctuary of heritage farm animals, or play in the Imagine Acres and Adventure Land. Everyone will love harvesting apples and pumpkins in the orchard.

For information on these attractions, other farms and orchards, additional lodging options, restaurants, and more, visit www. visitnorthcentral.com.

Visit Nyack

Festivals, fairs, fun! Just 25 miles north of NYC, Nyack packs the fall season with non-stop family-friendly activities. What’s unique is the unique blend of events and experiences the village offers visitors and residents alike.

Attractions this year include the Phoenix Festival: Live Arts in Nyack – 25 live theater, dance, and music performances presented by top NYC professionals on indoor and outdoor stages. Among the ten shows to choose from is a for-all-ages stage adaptation of Wind in the Willows.

Also on the docket is OctoberFest – beer, yes, but fun food and kid games, too. Nyack’s Famous Street Fair (now in its 50th year!) – inviting you to browse festive goods offered by 300+ vendors and scores of local businesses. Rockland County Fashion Week features models of all ages and sizes and some fashionable doggies!

What would Halloween be without Nyack? Festivities get underway with a village-wide ‘Spirit of Nyack’ kickoff event. Then comes the parade – the costumes, the crowd (10,000+), the marching bands, and the sheer exuberance make this celebration one of the biggest and zaniest in the US.

Your family will also love the weekly Farmer’s Markets, featuring live music, fresh goods from local farms and artisans, and plenty of kid-friendly activities.

The great thing about Nyack events is…Nyack! Possibilities for memorable experiences – such as adventurous shopping – abound. One-of-a-kind small businesses offer hard-to-find treasures – many

imported from sustainable sources in the U.S. and worldwide.

A draw for shoppers who like to marry a good deal with a good meal is Nyack’s tempting array of casual eateries and fine dining establishments. The village is a hub for culinary arts education, food enthusiasts, and the final product – the best food on the plate for the discerning diner.

The river is Nyack’s jewel in the crown – majestic Hudson vistas from the shore, hikes at the river’s edge or on Hook Mountain ridge, or fun on the river itself – sailing, kayaking, and water sports as summer stretches into fall. Combining events with a special blend of memorable experiences, Nyack is the perfect place to enjoy the Hudson Valley’s autumn glow! VisitNyack.org for details.

48 SIParent.com | October 2023
Ultimate fall family fU n G U ide in partnership with
Angie Gaul

COME SOAR. COME SMILE. COME SEE WHAT ALL THE EXCITEMENT IS ABOUT. ROCHESTER, NY IS THE PERFECT FAMILY GETAWAY FOR UNIQUE AND EXTRAORDINARY ADVENTURES.

COME SOAR. COME SMILE. COME SEE WHAT ALL THE EXCITEMENT IS ABOUT. ROCHESTER, NY IS THE PERFECT FAMILY GETAWAY FOR UNIQUE AND EXTRAORDINARY ADVENTURES.

Did we mention the world’s largest collection of toys, dolls, and games? Pack your bags and hit the road for an unforgettable trip in a destination full of surprises. With fun for every family, every season of the year, playtime tends to last a little longer in our backyard.

Did we mention the world’s largest collection of toys, dolls, and games? Pack your bags and hit the road for an unforgettable trip in a destination full of surprises. With fun for every family, every season of the year, playtime tends to last a little longer in our backyard.

October 2023 | Staten Island Parent 49
© Carol Cain/Brave World Media, George Eastman Museum, @sprungphotography, Jerome Davis/Wickham Farms © Carol Cain/Brave World Media, George Eastman Museum, @sprungphotography, Jerome Davis/Wickham Farms

Visit Rochester

Nestled on the shores of Lake Ontario, Rochester, NY, transforms into a fall oasis and a winter wonderland that promises a delightful escape for families seeking adventures and cozy memories. With various activities to suit all ages, this vibrant city within a day’s drive is the perfect destination for a memorable getaway.

One of the highlights is the Roc Holiday Village, where families can revel as the seasons change. You can find outdoor ice skating, explore artisanal vendors, and partake in family-friendly activities, all contributing to a magical atmosphere.

Meanwhile, the George Eastman Museum hosts the Sweet Creations exhibit, showcasing intricate gingerbread houses within the historic mansion of Kodak founder George Eastman. This provides a unique opportunity for families to marvel at edible artistry while soaking in the heritage of this national historic landmark.

For those seeking a step back in time, the Genesee Country Village and Museum transforms into a 19th-century wonderland during Yuletide in the Country. Here, families can enjoy horse-drawn wagon rides, carolers, and engaging hands-on activities, offering an immersive experience steeped in history. Check out: visitrochester.com/family-program

When the snow arrives - outdoor enthusiasts can explore Rochester’s snow-covered trails for snowshoeing amidst serene woodlands and frozen ponds. For skiing and snowboarding, Bristol Mountain, a short drive away, offers trails for all skill levels, making it suitable for beginners and experts alike.

There is more. The Strong National Museum of Play, a paradise for

Discover Westchester's Autumn Charm

Whether you’re interested in spooky historical tours, farmer’s markets or stunning nature walks, Westchester County is a mustvisit destination this fall. See how you can take advantage of seasonal offerings and start planning your itinerary today.

• The Great Jack O’Lantern Blaze : If you’ve never walked through rows of more than 7,000 illuminated jack o’lanterns, now’s your chance. This annual Van Cortlandt Manor spectacle runs from September 15 –November 19 and is great for all ages.

• Lyndhurst After Dark : See the mansion like never before on this spooky tour. Enjoy seasonal decorations throughout the property and hear about the slightly darker side of Lyndhurst’s history. Nightly tours run October 19 – 22 and October 26 – 29.

• Farmers Markets : Westchester County has a wonderful variety of farmer’s markets to explore. Stop by for locally grown produce, delicious desserts, craft sangria and so much more. Spend a fall morning outside and support local Westchester artisans.

• Jay Day at Jay Heritage Center : Jay Day has fun for the whole family—pony rides, apple coring, live music, balloon sculptors and

kids and families, transforms into a magical wonderland during winter. Special exhibits, interactive displays, and seasonal festivities provide hours of laughter and learning, enhanced by a recently opened 90,000 sq. ft. expansion. Additionally, the Rochester Museum & Science Center offers a wealth of interactive exhibits and engaging displays, allowing families to immerse themselves in the wonders of science.

After a day of adventure, families can seek refuge from the cold at charming spots with a cozy ambiance, including Neutral Grounds or Spot Coffee. With warm decor and inviting menus from hot cocoa to gourmet sandwiches, families can unwind and relive the day’s adventures.

more. Head to Jay Heritage Center on October 1 for this annual fall fair.

• Croton Gorge Park : Take advantage of peak leaf season with a two-mile hike through the Croton Gorge Park. Enjoy gorgeous vistas of the New Croton Dam and its vibrant autumn colors.

Start planning your fall trip to Westchester County today.

50 SIParent.com | October 2023
Ultimate fall family fU n G U ide in partnership with
y The Great Jack O'Lantern Blaze, courtesy of Historic Hudson Valley
October 2023 | Staten Island Parent 51 Make moments that matter in hip and historic Frederick County, Maryland. Wander historic downtowns with locally-owned specialty shops, galleries, and theaters. Venture outdoors in National and State Parks and experience our storied past at Civil War battlefields. Indulge in world-class restaurants and unwind at dozens of tasting rooms. visitfrederick.org • 800-999-3613 Heighten YOUR SENSES

FALL FAMILY FUN

Make the most of the season with our guide to the ultimate family experiences this autumn

The weather is getting crisp, and it’s time to get out those jackets and coats for it’s officially fall! This also means it’s time to enjoy all the seasonal offerings we are lucky to have in New York.

Whether you’re eager to go full Harvest mode with the family this season, like Halloween events, picking pumpkins to bake for pies (a fantastic stress reliever) or taking advantage of all the unique spots to visit for a day of adventure, our autumn experiences are ready for you and your family this fall, so enjoy!

Decker Farms

Richmond Town, SI

Pumpkin Picking at Historic Richmond Town’s Decker Farm returns with all of your favorite autumnal activities! Search the patch for the perfect pumpkin, enjoy a classic hayride with family and friends, indulge in delicious fall food favorites, and more, all without leaving Staten Island. Through Oct. 29 |12pm | Weekends and Oct. 9.

Ilumin Art

Snug Harbor, SI

Go on a seasonal journey of friendship with classic characters as IlluminArt Productions presents “A Year With Frog And Toad” through special arrangement with Music Theatre International (MTI). This heartwarming 60 minute musical will

delight the young and young at heart at the SI Playhouse at the Empire Outlets on November 4th, 5th, 11th, and 12th. For more info (including about the sensory friendly performance), visit illuminart.org.

Staten Island Skating Pavilion

Rossville, SI

Enjoy Halloween public ice skating sessions at the Staten Island Skating Pavilion from October 27 to October 29! They will be having a best costume contest, prizes and giveaways. Visit thepavilion.org to learn more.

American Dream Meadowlands, NJ

52 SIParent.com | October 2023
ULTIMATE FALL FAMILY FUN GUIDE

American Dream is a Premier entertainment, retail, and dining destination in the heart of the NJ Meadowlands. It’s home of Nickelodeon Universe, the largest indoor theme park in the western hemisphere and DreamWorks Water Park, the largest indoor water park in North America. Visit americandream.com to learn more.

Big Snow American Dream

East Rutherford, NJ

Big SNOW American Dream is North America’s first and only real-snow, yearround indoor ski and snowboard resort. It’s the perfect place for your kids to learn to ski in a safe and controlled environment. Visit www. bigsnowamericandream.com to learn more.

Caramoor Center for Music and the Arts

Katonah, NY

Mexico’s colorful traditions will be showcased during a free, family-friendly Día de Muertos event at the Caramoor Center for Music and the Arts on October 15 in

Katonah. Expect live music and incredible dance courtesy of Calpulli Mexican Dance Company. The Rivertowns Chamber of Commerce will host three special events this fall: a Halloween Trolley on October 18, a Taste Local event on November 4 and a Holiday Trolley on December 2. Visit caramoor.org to learn more.

CEC Entertainment Chuck E Cheese

For families with young kids looking for safe and affordable spooky fun this Halloween season, Chuck E. Cheese Halloween Bootacular is back from Oct 2-Oct 31 with free game play, daily dance parties, free candy giveaways, pumpkin-shaped pizzas, costume contests, slime desserts and much more! Also, kids can enjoy active play with the all-new Chuck E. Cheese Trampoline Zone at select fun centers in Brooklyn, the Bronx, Long Island City, Flushing and Paramus, NJ. chuckecheese.com.

Paradox Museum

East Rutherford, NJ

Paradox Museum New Jersey, where

you will challenge your perspective of reality. Charge your camera and get ready for mind bending exhibits. Visit www. paradoxmuseumnewjersey.com to learn more.

Von Thun Farms

Washington, NJ

Monmouth Junction, NJ

Every weekend is a Fall Festival Weekend at Von Thun’s! Visit for their Reba McEntire Country Music corn maze and stay for the hayrides, apple and pumpkin picking, corn cannons and apple blasters and 20+ all-ages activities & games. Visit vonthunfarms.com to learn more.

Wildlife Conservation Center

Bronx, NY

WCS Education programs inspire children and families to connect with the natural world around us through animal encounters, hands-on activities, and exhibit exploration. Make some wild weekend memories this fall with your family at our zoos and aquarium. Visit wcs.org to learn more.

54 SIParent.com | October 2023 ULTIMATE FALL FAMILY FUN GUIDE
TOURS VILLAGE GHOST HAUNTED Explore the
& Programs Pumpkin Picking at Decker Farm October Weekends & Oct. 9 | 12-5pm Visit the historical Museum and take a guided tour to explore some of Staten Island's oldest historic buildings! OPEN DAILY | FRI.-SUN. Oct. 2-Apr. 30 | 11AM-5PM www.historicrichmondtown.org/events| 441 Clarke Ave. | (718) 351-1611 Follow Us history of Historic Richmond Town Old Home Day Weekend Oct 14 & 15 | 10am-4pm Full schedule coming soon! Hearth & Harvest Festival Nov 18 | 10am-4pm Fall Tavern Concerts Select Oct & Nov Saturdays | 6 & 8pm Select October Saturdays
Fall Events
October 2023 | Staten Island Parent 55 Nov. 5th, 6th, 11th, and 12th at 2PM and Nov. 11th at 11AM (Sensory-Friendly Performance) When Staten Island Playhouse at the Empire Outlets 55 Richmond Terrace, SI, NY, 10301 Where Theatre Young Audiences is made possible by New York State Council on the Arts & Music Theater International 60 minutes ofFamilyFun! Presents

Family Magic with The Smiths

Our cover stars Jodenny Smith and kids share their favorite things to do in NYC

Growing up in a warm, sunny climate, I always wanted to experience seasons. I’m one of those people who actually can’t wait for the fall. But as a mother of a teenager and a special needs seven-year-old, I find challenges in what we can do. The teenager is, well, a teenager and doesn’t want to do little kid things, and any place we visit, even a park, with my Autistic child must be something I research before we arrive.

I have been following Jodenny Smith since we were part of an Instagram mom chat that our mutual friend Denise Nicole founded. This group introduced me to some pretty cool moms; some have even become covers on NYF! I love that Jodenny shares all of her and her two babes’, Yaya, 11, and Idris, age 7, adventures. The kids seem up for anything, and the trio hits the city with crazy energy to delve into their family experiences! Although I am an editor specializing in parenting in New York, it is often other parents’ tips and advice that I cherish and helps me navigate all the treasures the city (and beyond) offers.

This issue is full of what to do as we head into fall, but New York Family wanted to know the Smith’s favorite things to do; read on and follow them on their adventures at @ theyoungsmiths.

Are there any hidden gems you and your kids love in the city? Could you share a few with us?

I think not enough people visit Governors Island, and we LOVE IT there! It feels like you’re no longer in the city, and you can make a whole day out of it. You can rent bikes, relax in the hammocks, enjoy some delicious food from the vendors, or pack your own and have a nice picnic with beautiful views of the city. Another gem, which, if you follow me, you

know we love, is Industry City. We love going there, and there’s always something fun to do. We love all the colorful art installations as a creative; the whole place sparks my creativity. You can eat, shop, picnic, or catch one of the many free, family-friendly events they put on throughout the year.

What are some of your favorite playgrounds your kids enjoy?

We usually just hit local ones in our neighborhood, but outside of that, two come to mind when I think of places the kids have enjoyed. The first is the playground at Domino Park. It has something for both kids to enjoy, being that there is a five-year age difference, and they enjoy different things. A bonus is that we can follow the playground by cooling off at the splash pad, which I love! Another one we recently discovered is Battery Playscape. We stumbled upon it during an event at Battery Park, and the kids had such a blast. The slides were so much fun; the little rock climbing wall and all the different play structures kept them busy for quite a bit. A bonus when you visit this one is you can also stop by the sea glass carousel, which is also a favorite of ours.

You love to explore the city with the kids. Are there any neighborhoods you find exceptionally kid-friendly?

We really like Williamsburg. I feel like it has a lot of different things to see and do. It’s also easily accessible via the ferry if you don’t drive or simply want to avoid traffic, which; we love. I like that we can have a fun day at Domino Park, find a good lunch spot, and then go for some ice cream. And they have so many options for both of these, depending on what you’re in the mood for. And hey, if you’re feeling extra adventurous, you can even grab your groceries while there, Trader

Joes has parking!

You’re a single mom, and you mentioned that you often overcompensate when it comes to parenting and that you are learning to go a bit easier on yourself. Is this an evolution for you as a mom who seems to always be out and about and to do it all?

Yes, it truly is. I’ve come to understand that there is no need to add that pressure on myself to feel like I have to overcompensate. I feel like when I approach parenting with that mentality, I’m just making things harder on myself because then, if I don’t do all the things, I feel as though I’m falling short for them. For instance, this summer, we had lots of fun and did lots of cool things, but I often turned down plans to stay home and rest. I’ve gotten way better at saying no and not loading my days with a gazillion things to do. It isn’t fun when you do everything and you’re left feeling drained. I feel like it takes away from the experience. A big part of this has been working on communicating these things to the kids, too. I am super honest with them, and I tell them, “ok we are doing this and this, but not this and that, because if we do all of the above, Mami will be too tired.” And they get it! There were times lately when I wanted to do things, and they expressed just wanting to stay home, and I listened. It’s a really good balance for us all.

I love your IG handle (@theyoungsmiths) for your tips on finding balance and learning to give yourself some breathing space. With fall here and holidays approaching, do you have any suggestions on how parents can also take time for themselves?

Thank you!! Honestly, lately, I have been leaning on my tribe. I’m usually hesitant to ask for help with the kids, but lately, I’ve been turning to family and friends to take little breaks when possible. To just recharge and

56 SIParent.com | October 2023

regroup. As parents, we often think asking for help will burden others, but in reality, those people in your life who love you and your babies understand that sometimes we parents need little breaks. I understand that this is not always an option, though, so sometimes

simply carving out time at home works too. I sometimes explain to the kids that Mami needs a break, and I go into my room, play some soft music, and lie down for a bit. I don’t close the door all the way, so they know if they need me, I’m there. You’d be surprised

how even a quick 15-minute little escape in your own home, to allow your brain to enjoy a little silence or slow pace, can make a difference. Like a mami time out). I always feel when I do these things. I show up as a better version of myself for my babies.

October 2023 | Staten Island Parent 57
Photo by Yumi Matsuo

Staten Island Parent Day is a fun and educational day that brings together families of all backgrounds to learn, play, and grow together. With a variety of vendors, exhibitions, and activities, there is something for everyone to enjoy.

Meet the following vendors at S.I. Parent Day!

A Chance In Life

Amp’d Up Music Studios

A Very Special Place / Harvest Cafe

Beezy Beez Honey

Brooklyn Orthodontics in Staten Island

Boy Scouts of America, Greater New York Counsels

Crossroads Unlimited

Flash Security Integrators

JAG-ONE Physical Therapy

JCC

Music With Patrick

Mercy First

On Your Mark

Ortho Smiles of Staten Island

Person Centered Care Services

Reforma Dermatology

Richmond University Medical Center

Roots Learning Center

���������������������������� Institute

Staten Island Hebrew Public Charter

Staten Island Pediatric Cardiology

Staten Island University Hospital

The Boujie Mama (Danielle Cabral)

Tropical Smoothie Cafe

YMCA

And more to come!

special
event
Face Painting Pumpkin Decorating Costume Characters
MEET SUNDAY OCTOBER THE COLLEGE OF STATEN ISLAND SIPARENT.COM/ SIPARENTDAY 11:30AM–3:00PM 2800 VICTORY BOULEVARD 22FREE Danielle Cabral from The Real Housewives of New Jersey! Sponsored by: Music and Games Performance by Music With Patrick! Win 4 tickets to American Girl Doll Show at the St.George Theatre
Costume Characters

THINGS TO DO IN OCTOBER

Italian Festival at the Mount

Friday-Monday, Oct. 6, 6-11pm; Oct. 7, 12–11pm; Oct. 8, 12-9pm; Oct. 9, 12-6pm

Mount Loretto

6541 Hylan Blvd.

The popular Italian festival is back this Columbus Day Weekend with food, rides, games, vendors, live music, fireworks, a cannoli eating contest, a mozzarella eating contest, the island’s first porterhouse steak eating contest, beer and sangria gardens and more!

Spooky Snug Harbor Tour

Oct. 6, 7, 8, 13, 14, 15, 20, 21, 22, 28, 29. Tour times at 7:30, 8:30 and 9:30pm.

Snug Harbor Cultural Center and Botanical Garden

1000 Richmond Terr., Staten Island

Enjoy this series of nighttime walking tours aimed at shedding light on Snug Harbor’s darkest history. As night falls, attendees will enjoy flashlight tours of the Snug Harbor campus.

Pumpkin Picking at Decker Farm

Weekends in October and Monday, Oct. 9, 12-5pm Decker Farm

435 Richmond Hill Rd.

Go pumpkin picking at Historic Richmond Town’s Decker Farm. Learn about 19th century farm life and indulge in delicious fall food favorites.

International Lighthouse Point Fest

Sunday, Oct. 1, 12-6pm

National Lighthouse Museum

200 The Promenade at Lighthouse

Point

Celebrate maritime history at this fun event featuring children’s activities, entertainment, food and a lighthouse parade contest.

Nature Crafts

Sunday, Oct. 1, 11am-12pm The Big Park Continental Place and Grandview Avenue

Embrace your creativity as you use the park as inspiration to make a nature-based craft.

Build Your Own Terrarium

Sunday, Oct. 1, 1-2pm

Blue Heron Park

222 Poillon Ave.

Bring your own glass jar to create your own terrarium using succulent plants. Registration is required.

Harvestfest Craft Fair and Antique Corner

Sunday, Oct. 1, 10am-5pm

Veterans Memorial Park Corner of Broadway and Third Avenue, Westwood, NJ

Plan a fun day out to begin your holiday shopping. The show will feature more than 115 exhibitors showcasing a variety of items.

After School Manga Club

Thursdays, Oct. 5 and 12, 3:30-

4:30pm

Dongan Hills Library

1617 Richmond Rd.

Join the library for its After School Manga Club that meets on the first and second Thursday of every month. Discuss your favorite manga titles that you are currently reading and create your own artwork based on manga and anime.

Crazy Science: Liquid Nitrogen

Saturday, Oct. 7, 4-4:45pm

Staten Island Children’s Museum 1000 Richmond Terr.

See mind-blowing scientific demonstrations that introduce

60 SIParent.com | October 2023
calendar
Casa Belvedere hosts a Fall Festival and Car Show on October 14 and 15.

you to the incredible world of liquid nitrogen.

Spooky Snug Harbor Tour

Oct. 6, 7, 8, 13, 14, 15, 20, 21, 22, 28, 29 and a special spooky tour on 31st. Tour times at 7:30, 8:30 and 9:30pm.

Snug Harbor Cultural Center and Botanical Garden

1000 Richmond Terr., Staten Island

Enjoy this series of nighttime walking tours aimed at shedding light on Snug Harbor’s darkest history. As night falls, attendees will enjoy flashlight tours of the Snug Harbor campus.

Halloween Pirates and Mermaids

Sunday, Oct. 8, 1-3pm

297 Cromwell Ave., Staten Island

Take your mateys and mermaids on this incredible adventure with crafts, creativity, sensory play and more.

Casa Belvedere’s Fall Festival and Italian Luxury Car Show

Saturday, Oct. 14, 12-6pm; Sunday, Oct. 15, 12-5pm

Casa Belvedere

79 Howard Ave.

Enjoy this fun-filled extravaganza for the entire family showcasing Italian classic and performance vehicles, and featuring live music, Italian food specialty vendors, a Kids Zone, merchandise vendors and more.

Sacred Heart’s Fall Festival and Car Show

Saturday, Oct. 14, 12-4pm

Sacred Heart School

301 North Burgher Ave., Staten Island

Enjoy band entertainment, browsing vendors, food and drink at this fun event.

Old Home Weekend

Saturday and Sunday, Oct. 14-15, 10am-4pm

Historic Richmond Town

441 Clarke Ave.

Experience Staten Island’s past and present with displays by historians and modern makers and cultural organizations.

Staten Island Zoo

Spooktacular

Friday-Sunday, Oct. 20-22, 5-8:30pm

Staten Island Zoo

705 Clove Rd., Staten Island Head to this wildly popular event to enjoy live music, games, costumed characters, scare zones, a pumpkin patch and more. Tickets must be purchased in advance - hurry, they sell out FAST!

Fall Festival at the Mount

Saturday-Sunday, Oct. 21 & 22, 12-6 pm

Mount Loretto

6541 Hylan Blvd.

This popular annual fall festival returns with rides, food, beer and sangria gardens, plus an enormous pumpkin patch and more!

Funfest Trunk or Treat

Saturday, Oct. 21, 2-5pm

St. Alban’s Episcopal Church

76 St. Alban’s Pl., Staten Island

Kids of all ages are invited to wear their costumes and enjoy trunk-or-treating in the church parking lot.

Cottage Row Curiosities

Saturday, Oct. 21, 11am-4pm

Snug Harbor Cultural Center and Botanical Garden

1000 Richmond Terr.

Go shopping at this community artisan market featuring over 50 Staten Island vendors.

Astronomy Observing

Saturday, Oct. 21, 8-11pm

Great Kills Park

Enter at Hylan Boulevard and Buffalo Street

The Amateur Astronomers Association hosts observing sessions, free and open to the public, at Great Kills Park. Note: The session will be canceled if it’s cloudy outside.

Halloween Trick or Treating and Bounce Houses

Oct. 28-29, 10am-5pm

Staten Island Children’s Museum

1000 Richmond Terr., Staten Island

Get ready for a ghoulishly good time with an abundance of Halloween candy, creative crafts, and an exciting bounce house.

Trick or Treat Street Family Day

Saturday, Oct. 28, 12-4pm

Great Kills Little League

245 Greaves Ave., Staten Island

Enjoy trick or treating, DJ music,

vendor tables, face painting and more.

Apple Cider Making

Sundays in October through Oct. 22, 2 and 3:30pm

Tenafly Nature Center

313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ

Learn about the history of apple cultivation and cider making and experience one of the original ways of making apple cider. Tenafly Nature Center will provide apples, but you can also bring a few of your own.

Halloween Light Show

Through Oct. 31; reservations required

Demarest Farms

244 Wierimus Rd., Hillsdale, NJ

Take your vehicle on a guided tour through 32 acres of brilliant Halloween light displays, and enjoy farm fresh goodies in the retail farm market.

Harvestfest Craft Fair and Antique Corner

Sunday, Oct. 1, 10am-5pm

Veterans Memorial Park Corner of Broadway and Third Avenue, Westwood, NJ

Plan a fun day out to begin your holiday shopping. The show will feature more than 115 exhibitors showcasing a variety of items.

October 2023 | Staten Island Parent 61 OCTOBER calendar
Learn about liquid nitrogen at the Staten Island Children's Museum on October 7.

JOIN STATEN ISLAND PARENT’S Birthday Club!

OCTOBER 1

Giada Ozone

Scott Sherman

Justin Volkes

Alexandra Coughlin

Jonathan Marchione

Maggie Hill

John Mattera

OCTOBER 2

Dominick Carti

Aneeq Rasheed

Angelina Ruffino

Ianthe Collins

Jacob Mayo

Lucas Joseph

OCTOBER 3

Daniel Gorbai

Giovanni Villalobos

Mason James Gore

Anthony Garzone

Sofia Cipriano

Octavius Pasag

Mason Gore

Octavius Pasag

Amaya Murray

OCTOBER 4

Mitchell Ducalo

Ariana Hastaba

Christian Lofters

Paul Foye

Christopher Gallo

Kyle Gallo

OCTOBER 5

Jordan Scitt

Nicole Avitto

Alfredo Jimenez

Adam Fici

Alexandra Gorini

GIada Olivieri

Henry Ruiz

OCTOBER 6

Jack Badalamenti

Gianna Jobe

Bradan McGlyn

Jack Badalamenti

Alexa Ripalda

Sanny Alfimov

Justin Morra

Milania Rose Tejeda

OCTOBER 7

Issac Tirado

Matthew Tirado

Leah Grayce Goldstein

Jaclyn Crockett

Isaac Donsky

Aiden Jiang

Ariana Mongo

Miranda Navarro

OCTOBER 8

Ella Savinon

Jaslene A. Uccello

Addison Testaverdi

Caroline Shevaha

Chelsea Dobson

LeAnn Chooi

Jaslene Uccello

Ella Savinon

Ayansh Passi

OCTOBER 9

Jessica Lamberti

Shane Kaminski

Scott Zipprich

Nicholas Monteleone

Gregory Ross Lemberg

Jacob Polakowski

Jaelyn Cappucci

OCTOBER 10

Christopher Monteleone

Ava Therese DeMuro

Liberty Thomas

Janie Owens

Ava Therese DeMuro

Joseph Saryian

Liberty Thomas

Joseph Saryian

OCTOBER 11

Chloe Katelin Williams

Fantasaia Nikia

McKenzie

Ashlee Basich

Alexis Ranieri

Dean Bonici

Benjamin Jimenez

Lucas Wong

Zachary Mendez

Matthew Kreyman

Asiya Modica

OCTOBER 12

Nicholas Diaz

Magdalena Martinez

Ashley Dannie Davis

Adriana Somma

Brooke Nicole

McCloskey

David Christopher

Martin

Liam Wong

Julianna Stoppini

OCTOBER 13

Jennifer Alyssa Levy

Adrianna Catanzaro

Alexandra Napoli

Francesco Vasquez

Veronica Wankowicz

Vincent Mercurio

Adam Fici

Carlos Sebastian Cabe

OCTOBER 14

Callie Quinn

Azaria Astwood

Victoria Van Drost

Ryan Mauer

Dylan Volkin

Davidson Saint Juste

OCTOBER 15

Rihana Lika

Kayla Krasnopolski

Jesse James Verner

Sienna Bryson

Rocco Wiener

Blaze Diaz

Antonia Karakis

OCTOBER 16

Tyler Nanetti

Logan Merrill

Zyaire Johnson

Franceso Domenico

Lanni

Lilah Mae Wilkerson

Jonathan Fennell

OCTOBER 17

Dominique Yancey

Steven Grey Wolt

Nirmeen Khass

Evann Duran

Joseph Seri

Siena Krasner

Noah Armstrong

Mario Chesner

Serena Joseph

OCTOBER 18

Anna Liantonio

Noel Ann Cataldo

Sebastian Bonilla

Jackson Nicholas

Akko Tolbert-Francis, Jr.

Toby Klein

Bryanna Santiago-Jack

OCTOBER 19

Christopher Contino

Jasiah Cole

Nadia Roseboro

Adrianna Rentas

Marta Barabash

Grace Massie

Michael Molinini

Chloe Breen

OCTOBER 20

Robert Murphy

Mercedez Green

Taylor Craven

Ryan Rodriguez

Gabriella Florio

Dorianna Griffin

ToniAnn Pena

Selah Noel

OCTOBER 21

Ian Roa

Justin Piccirillo

Nicholas Del Re

Justina Cole

Delilah Lopez

Chloe Malone

Dominic Rocco Ozone

Angelina Rose Ozone

Daniella Clement

Gianluca Maggiore

Hazel Leone

OCTOBER 22

Mariah Metzger

Giavanna Parrelli

Victoria Solodovnikov

Abraham AbrilJimenez

Chenoa Ebanks

Noah McDermott

Christian Maniscalco

Anna Rodgers

Christian Maniscalco

OCTOBER 23

Sara Elizabeth Walker

Allison Perchman

Raquel Shaul

Robert Shaul

Maya Burke

Michael Werring

OCTOBER 24

Thomas Powierski

Samantha Todaro

Lundyn Lombardo

Joel Washington

Nathaniel Pichardo

Rileigh Spangler

OCTOBER 25

Daniel Orotolano

Douglas Donnelly

Oliver Vendemio

Sophia Garzetta

Peter Buenaventura

Oliver Vendemio

Lianna Canfield

David Tobio Jr.

OCTOBER 26

Kyrah McFarlane

Joshua Benedetto

Edward Medina

Kayla Wepy

Peter Buenaventura

Morgan Pina

Vincenzo Rosa

Benny Sariah

OCTOBER 27

Lauren Elena Pacheco

Frank John Martucci

William Silva

Gianna Bova

George Cusick

Elijah Roman

Ian Smith

Isabella Soto

Yasien Moore

OCTOBER 28

Joseph Cashin

Carlo Milito

Please present this page. Good only for birthday club members on this list.

Offer valid for the month. Call before to check availabilty.

Lisa Foreman

Francis Baranello

Lisa Foreman

Leah Ostrov

Suzannah Coogan

OCTOBER 29

Melissa Aldorasi

Olivia Page Henriquez

Brody Lucci

Thomas Weisberg

Quindale Herrera II

John Keating

OCTOBER 30

Joel Rivera

Aurelie Henriquez

Jeremy Williams

Matthew Buricea

Lucas Carnabuci

Jasper Chan

Zin Freeman

OCTOBER 31

Michael Putney

Jenna Sannino

Devin Rodriguez

Jordan Vatter

Skylar Swain

Diego Bonilla

62 SIParent.com | October 2023
FUN STUFF
Sign up at siparent.com/birthday-club ENJOY THESE BIRTHDAY FREEBIES ON YOUR BIG DAY! FREE KIDS MEAL at WENDY’S (Staten Island only) 300 Bay St, 10301 | 1761 Forest Ave, 10303 1661 Hylan Blvd, 10305 | 6420 Amboy Rd, 10309 25 Putnam St, 10312 | 26 Richmond Hill Rd, 10314 FREE $5 BONUS PLAY & 250 TICKETS at iPLAY AMERICA 110 Schanck Road • Freehold, NJ 07728-2938 732-577-8200 Follow us on Social Media!
FAMILY FUN FOR EVERYONE ATTHEJCC! AquaticsSportsMusicArt AfterSchool&WeekendFun MyGrownup&Me &More! SIJCC.ORG

Turn static files into dynamic content formats.

Create a flipbook
Issuu converts static files into: digital portfolios, online yearbooks, online catalogs, digital photo albums and more. Sign up and create your flipbook.