Staten Island Parent - December 2024

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Happy Holidays

The holiday season has always been very special to me, so it’s no wonder our December issue is my favorite. When I was a kid, there were certainly nowhere near as many options for celebrating the most wonderful time of the year with your family as there are today. Then again, the holidays used to start AFTER the Thanksgiving turkey was eaten, not before. Some folks (ahem, hi Mom and Dad) now even put up their Christmas tree before Halloween! Regardless of when the holiday season officially starts for you, there are endless opportunities for festive fun here in New York City — and I take a lot of joy in sharing them so that you can plan the best season ever with your own lovely families. Flip to page 36 to peruse our Family Calendar for holiday events, and be sure to visit us online at newyorkfamily.com for tons more (it’s updated with new stuff daily). We’ve also rounded up some of the best light shows and illuminated experiences in our area (page 26) to add a little extra brightness to your family outings.

It doesn’t have to be December to go ice skating, but the holiday season certainly adds a little extra magic to your festive family excursions. We’re sharing some of our favorite spots for ice skating in New York City (page 24) this season.

With the year coming to a close, it’s important to reflect and set goals for the next one. Our team is sharing some of our top New Year’s resolutions (page 22) in the inaugural edition of a new column, Editor’s Picks. Be sure to look for it in upcoming issues where we’ll be revealing our favorite products, events, accounts, shows, books and more!

As hectic a time of year as it is, it’s important not to lose sight of things like schoolwork and education. My son is a junior

in high school currently, so I share this as a resource for you and a reminder for myself because the holiday season really has a way of putting things on the back burner. We’re offering tips for Helping Your Child with the College Application Process (page 16) for other parents like myself who want to ensure their child is making the right choices when it comes to higher education.

Lastly, as you begin to decorate your family’s home for the holiday season, you might be searching for some cozy but cute inspo that will last through the season. Cue our December cover mom, Kathy Kuo of Kathy Kuo Home, who is sharing some expert tips for making a house feel like a home any time of year — even when there are messy and destructive children living in it.

From all of us here at New York Family, we’d like to wish you a happy, healthy, and hopefully stress-free holiday season, and a wonderful New Year too. See you in 2025!

Jeannine

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Most Popular Baby Names for 2024

By Danielle Ramos

One of the most fun parts of having a new baby, now or in the future, is thinking of all the possible baby names you might want for your child. After 20 years of tracking popular baby names, BabyCenter is out with its new list of favorite names for the year ahead.

The new reports on baby names for 2025 give a glimpse at what’s hot right now. Whether you’re expecting a little one or just love thinking of names, this list is bound to inspire!

Here are some interesting findings and trends for 2025:

The “E”s Have it for Boys!

In a slightly unusual finding, boy names starting with “E” are getting more popular. Emrys just jumped into BabyCenter’s top 1,000 boys’ names, making a big move up the list.

Emir, Enrique, Edgar, Eliel, and Eliseo are also all on their way up, too. Plus, Easton

Top Names for 2024

Gir

LS

Olivia

Amelia

Emma

Sophia

Charlotte

Isabella

Ava

Mia

Ellie

Luna

BoyS

Noah

Liam

Oliver

Elijah

Mateo

Lucas

Levi

Ezra

Asher

Leo

and Everett are back in the top 100, showing they’re making a comeback.

Girls Lose Sarah but Gain Lyns and Lees

Did you know that Sarah has remained a popular name for over six decades? Yet, after

more than 60 years as one of the top 100 girls’ names, Sarah has slipped to No. 108.

On the flip side, some new names for girls have reached the top ten for the first time ever. Ellie has made a big move into the top 10 for girls, climbing from No. 15 to No. 9 and making its first appearance among the top names this year.

Several different variations of girl names ending in “-lyn” and “-lee” are also on the rise. The top 100 list is filled with popular picks like Evelyn, Brooklyn, and Madelyn.

In addition, names like Adalee, Avalynn, Lakelyn, Rosalee, and Maelynn are all making their debut in the top 1,000 girl names in the U.S. and climbing up the ranks.

Change in Popular Names

Interestingly, new poll data shows that about half of parents aren’t picking popular names, especially in the Northeast and Midwest. Meanwhile, parents in the South are more likely to go for those trendy baby names.

Kendrick is stealing the spotlight this year, jumping 32 spots to No. 402, while Drake is taking a nosedive, dropping 103 spots to No. 807—one of the fastest-falling names.

Likewise, Stanley is losing steam, slipping over 400 spots to No. 1,385.

Surprisingly, Justin is also on the way out, dropping 59 spots to No. 277, likely thanks to Justin Timberlake’s recent DWI arrest this summer.

France Makes the List

French names are adding some flair to U.S. families, with Raphael, Louis, and Louise climbing the charts.

Unique picks like Beaux, Remi, and Gustavo for boys, and Elodie, Arlette, and Jolie for girls are also getting popular.

Character and Sports Names

Parents are loving character-inspired names from Inside Out and The Bear: Riley is up 7 spots to No. 38, Ripley jumps 453 spots to No. 2,368, and Carmen rises 1,413 spots to No. 3,616 for boys.

WNBA-inspired names like Caitlin, Kamilla, and A’ja are seeing a big boost, too.

Holiday Hacks for Busy Parents

By Taryn MohrM an

The most wonderful time of the year is also the busiest time of year, especially for parents with tiny tots at home. There’s decorating, cooking, baking, gift buying and wrapping–and that’s on top of keeping up with already-packed kid schedules and household to-dos. So finding a shortcut or clever hack that’s good–and we mean really good–is a huge gift in and of itself.

To save you sleigh loads of sanity this busy season, we’re wrapping our favorite holiday hacks into a saveable, shareable list. Enjoy!

Cup delicate ornaments

There’s the crafted-at-school kind, the keepsake kind and the breakable ball kind, but all three types of ornaments need TLC when it’s time to trim the tree. To keep your decorations in one piece, give little ones a

wide-mouth plastic cup to hold under any breakable ornaments as they walk from storage bin to branch. If securing it in place is a two-hand job, kids can work together by having one child hold the cup underneath and the other fastening the hook in place. Even better, the cups can be used in the container or box to keep delicate ornaments from touching and potentially breaking.

Hot glue your gingerbread house

Gingerbread houses can take hours to set before they’re ready to be decked out in candy. If you’re not prepared to tackle this family tradition in two sessions (as in your kids are melting down because they simply can’t wait to add the gumdrops), you can pull out your hot-glue gun to speed up assembly. Apply a bead of hot glue to the inside corners, waiting for the glue to dry completely on each side before moving on. Once it’s good and sturdy, use the icing to cover up any visible

glue and attach the candies like normal.

Skip the gift tag step

Writing out gift tags can get tedious quickly, not to mention there’s never really enough space. Save yourself a step and frustration by giving each family member their own wrapping paper pattern (or colorway if you need to mix patterns) so you can skip gift tags all together.

Send Santa back with toys

The big guy’s known for delivering new toys to the good boys and girls, but (new) legend has it that he is in need of used toys back at the North Pole so he can recycle the parts in his workshop (wink, wink). When it’s time to make room in your child’s playroom or bedroom for big kid toys, share this story to make it easier to part with what they’ve outgrown.

Email wish list photos

The toy aisle is no place for kids, but

sometimes you’ve got no choice but to tow them along if the holiday shopping is ever going to get done. When your kid starts to whine and plead for you to buy them something ahead of the holiday gift exchange, let them use your phone to take a photo to email to Santa. Type Santa in the TO field (it will bounce back) and later on you can check your sent messages for the product info if you want to wrap it up yourself.

Send your elf on a mission

If your family has an elf on the shelf, chances are you could use a break from thinking of clever places to position it day after day. When this time comes, write out a note that explains to kids that Santa is sending their elf on a special holiday mission and he’ll be back just as soon as possible so you can enjoy having one less thing to do for a few days.

Stash a blanket the car

When the weather drops, it can’t hurt to have a warm blanket handy to put over kids before the car reaches a more comfortable temperature, but it’s also hugely helpful for

hiding gifts. Keep a large one in your trunk so if you need to do a store pickup on the way to school pickup, you can without spoiling any surprises. Just throw the blanket over the gifts and your kids will be none the wiser.

Make festive pancakes

Want to add some holiday cheer to your breakfast routine? When you’re not baking with them, metal cookie cutters are a quick way to make your pancakes more merry. Spray the cutters with non-stick cooking spray before placing them on the griddle, then pour in your pancake mix and remove the shapes when you’re ready to flip.

Pre-load the batteries

Given all the toys that spin, flash, and move, stocking up on batteries ahead of the holiday season is a must these days. Instead of just keeping them handy, consider putting them in the toy before you wrap it. Your kids will love that things work straight out of the box and you’ll save time fumbling with a tiny screwdriver when you really just want to be enjoying their smiling faces.

Schedule family traditions

This may sound like work, but really it’s a way to ensure you all enjoy the fun. Make your list of holiday season must-dos (think ice skating, gingerbread house building, cookie baking, and more), then decide on the best day and week for each activity and add it to your calendar. With a plan in place you’re less likely to be left with regrets on January 1st.

Track gifts year over year

Start a note in your phone that you can use to keep track of what you’re giving to each family member. Make a section for gift ideas then mark off when you’ve actually purchased something. Not only will this help you remember what you ordered bleary eyed at 12am last Sunday night, it also gives you a record that you can look back on each year.

While the kids probably aren’t thinking about what they unboxed last holiday, your MIL may appreciate not opening slippers from the kids for three years running. It’s also a way to come up with gift ideas. That custom blanket you gave your aunt two years ago could be the perfect gift for your nanny this year.

Find Yourself at Art Lab this Winter

Winter Classes Begin January 5

Art Lab offers weekly art classes for all ages (3 and up) Including Creations, Young People’s Art, Pre-K Art, Afterschool Art, Intro to Sculpture, and more!

Fine Arts, Applied Arts, & Photography classes available for adults too. Register online or call us for more info.

Winter Immersion: Feb 17 - 21, 9 AM - 5 PM

Looking for a fun activity for your child to do during Mid-Winter Recess? Send them to Winter Immersion at Art Lab! Full day & Half Day options available. Open to young artists ages 6 - 12. Your child will spend 5 days creating art and will try their hand at painting, drawing, sculpting, and more. Register online or call for more info.

Special Programs Available:

Gallery Events - No School Daze - Scholarships for classes Volunteer/Intern at Art Lab - Birthday Parties / Art for a Day

Upcoming Free Events:

Holiday Fair:

Snug Harbor’s Holiday Hop Saturday, Dec 7 11:00 AM - 4:00 PM

No School Daze: Sponsored by Con Edison Monday, Dec 30 AM: 10 AM - 11:30 AM PM: 12 PM - 1:30 PM

Art Workshops for ages 6 - 12

21st Annual Open Show Opening Reception: Saturday, Jan 11 2:00 PM - 4:00 PM

Mr. Patrick

Chatting with Staten Island’s favorite children’s musician

BY ALEXA LUTTER

If you live in Staten Island and have children, there is a very good possibility that you have seen a musical performance by Patrick Raftery, better known to his fans as Mr. Patrick or “Music with Patrick.” Together with his musical cohorts, The Rock-A-SillyBand, Mr. Patrick has performed at countless events in our borough -- everything from local fairs and festivals to birthday parties and school fundraisers. He even performed at our last Staten Island Parent Day!

We sat down with Raftery to chat about how he got started, what’s behind his clever and entertaining performances, and why music is such a valuable tool for today’s youth.

Let’s learn about you! What is Mr. Patrick’s backstory?

I’ve been playing guitar since 1985, a time that now seems medieval it’s so long ago, and like many guitarists back in the day, the first things I learned to play were the chords to Deep Purple’s “Smoke on the Water” and Ozzy’s “Crazy Train. Fast forward some years, through many a garage band and a stint in a local rock band in the mid-nineties called Joyous Noise, and one day I found myself in a kiddie music class called Music Together with my son, who’s now 22 but at the time was 3, so do the math. One of the teachers asked if I might be interested in training to teach a class every now and then. One thing led to another and people started to ask me to play at parties and events and, slowly, through much trial and error, Mr Patrick came into the world.

How would you describe “Music with Patrick”? What does an average performance look like?

“My performances are tailored to the people I’m performing for. I don’t do the same music and activities for say, two-yearolds as I do for third-graders, who are forever on guard against being subjected to “baby songs.” Puppets are a big part of the show, as they keep the kids’ attention and have an almost magical hold on them. Favorites include Sparkles the Unicorn, Mt. T the

T-Rex, and, inevitably, Sara the Shark. Any guess what song I’m required to play when she comes out? And I always throw in jokes that keep the adults entertained because, let’s face it, no one wants to sit through a boring kid show. So, yes, I make fun of politics, pop culture, celebrities: you name it. The kids don’t get the jokes, but the adults do, and in some way, it makes what I do a kid version of Tenacious D, where you’re in on the joke and kind of poking fun at the genre. One other thing that’s important to me is that I have no agenda: I am not interested in promoting causes or indoctrinating kids with ideas that I feel they “should” learn: that’s not my role. All I’m interested in is making people laugh and dance and sing.

What inspired “Music with Patrick?

“I’m inspired by many things. Some of my earliest memories are of watching Sesame Street as a child, and I still remember all of those songs by heart. Can’t say the same for high school chemistry: sorry Mr. Burke. Those songs were well-written and well-performed, and they still resonate. I still love the madcap humor of the pre-Disney Muppets. I also distinctly recall sitting in my grandma’s basement - where she spent most of her time because she was Italian - watching Stevie Wonder play “Superstition” on Sesame Street and having my young mind blown! What an amazing thing to see as a three-year-old!

What are some standout performances, memories, or shows you have had?

“I’m lucky to have had so many amazing experiences over the years. How many other people can say they’ve played in a Tibetan Museum surrounded by statues of great spiritual significance as well as at Woodlawn Cemetery, the resting place of many famous people, among them Miles Davis and Duke Ellington? Not even Bruce Springsteen has done that. Take that, Bruce! But really the things that have been most memorable have been the small moments where I’ve seen something and just been taken aback by how much music touches us human beings.

How do you think music benefits today’s youth?

I think music benefits everyone: the young, the old and the in-between. It’s so obvious that it barely needs pointing out: music is part of us, and we respond to it in a visceral way; it triggers memories; helps us relax; and opens our bodies up to its rhythms, but most of all it’s fun. And I’m all about the fun. I’m also about the importance of children experiencing music in person and not on a screen.

Read the full version of our interview with Mr. Patrick at siparent.com, where you can also link to his original music and find out how to book him for an upcoming event.

education Supporting Your Teen Through the College Application Process

By Kaitlyn Riggio

Applying to colleges is no small feat. For many high school students, it can be a stressful process and can feel like the most important thing in their young lives.

As a parent, it can be hard to watch your students under stress. Sometimes you may want to jump in and help them, but that can sometimes stress them out more.

There’s no one perfect way to support your high school student while they’re applying to colleges, but there are some general things to keep in mind as college application season kicks into high gear.

Help Them Discover the Schools That Are Right for Them

This is a process that starts long before applications open. When your student is a junior in high school, get them thinking about the application process by narrowing down what colleges they want to apply to. You can guide them in this process without dictating where they should apply.

Ask them questions about what they want to study (if they have an idea; there’s no shame in going into college undecided), how far away from home they want to go, whether they’re looking for a big school or a small school and more.

Help them think about which factors they want to prioritize and which ones are nonnegotiable. There are thousands of colleges in the United States alone, but thinking about these questions will narrow the field and make the process less daunting.

Help With Scheduling College Tours

Once your student has an idea of what

schools they want to apply to, have them look into college tours. While some colleges seem perfect on paper, visiting in person will give your student a better idea of whether it’s a good fit for them, and whether they want to go through with applying.

If schedules allow, it may be helpful to visit campuses during the school year to see what campus looks like in action. After your teen does research on what kind of tours their prospective schools offer, here’s where you come in: help coordinate schedules, transportation, and lodging, if applicable.

See if you can visit multiple colleges on one trip to save time and money.

Keep An Eye on Deadlines (But Don’t Badger About Them)

Regular decision, early action, financial aid, honors programs– there are a ton of deadlines that come with applying to college. It’s enough to make a young person’s head spin. Help your child keep track of deadlines by helping them set up an at-a-glance calendar so they can see everything due at once in an organized way.

But don’t overstep. Your student knows that that application is due next week. Breathing down their neck about it won’t do anything except stress them out. College is a step towards adulthood, and your student needs to take accountability for their deadlines.

You won’t be able to hound them about course deadlines once they’re in school, so this is a good time to practice loosening

the reins and letting your child manage themselves.

Provide Assistance With Financial Aid Forms

Financial aid forms are super important but can also be super confusing. If there’s one step in the college application process to do alongside your student, it’s this one. Sit down with your child to help them fill out FAFSA and other financial aid forms to ensure all information is accurate.

Know When To Call in Extra Help

Sometimes students need extra help in certain areas, and that’s okay. As a parent, it’s a good idea to keep an eye on what your student may be struggling with and call in extra help when it’s needed. Does your student have trouble with standardized tests? Find them an SAT or ACT tutor to set them up for success. Is your student having trouble with their Common Application essay? Look into a writing coach to help guide them. Is your child going to be a first-generation

college student, and the whole process is overwhelming for everyone? Consider talking to a college admissions counselor to help along the way.

Let Your Child Advocate For Themselves

Much of the college application process involves your child making steps toward being independent. Encourage them to take the lead on things like communication with their high school guidance counselor and officials from their prospective colleges.

Take Cues From Your Kid

Every student is different. Some students need more guidance than others, and it’s impossible to guess what kind of support your teen will need when they’re in the thick of the application process. Always try to communicate with them about what their needs are, but keep an eye out for nonverbal cues, too.

If you’ve been hands-off but your child seems to be drowning, ask them if there are areas where they need extra support. Maybe you’re a hands-on parent, but your reminders

about deadlines seem to be making your child irritable. Consider taking a step back and giving them some more autonomy.

There’s no one-size-fits-all approach, so keep the door of communication with your child open throughout the whole process.

Celebrate Small Victories

Applying to college can be daunting, especially if your student is applying to a dream school. Celebrate when they open that acceptance letter, but don’t forget to commemorate smaller milestones along the way, too.

Congratulate them on finishing all of their applications, take a ton of pictures during college visits, show an interest in what they’re writing about for their college essay, and make a huge deal when they decide on a school, no matter what school they end up choosing.

Not every student will get into their dream school, but celebrating small victories along the way will help remind your student about what the college application process is about: the journey.

Winter escape in the Lake GeorGe area

Looking for a winter escape? Why not experience the Lake George Area in the Adirondacks? Featuring three premier ski resorts – Gore, West, and Hickory - ‘Ski the 3’ should be on your winter list of must-dos! Gore Mountain, the largest ski resort in New York State, has seven mountains with a total of 14 lifts, 108 trails, and a 2537’ vertical. West Mountain is family owned and operated with 35 trails for skiing and boarding, as well as a tubing park. Hickory Ski Center offers a vintage ski experience with a vertical drop of 1,200 feet and challenging and expert-level trails.

The Lake George Area is a host to many winter events, festivals, and carnivals. Every weekend during the month of February, the Lake George Carnival features a chili cook-off, outhouse races, an ATV poker run, and the famous Lake George Polar Plunge. Another annual carnival is held at Brant Lake, where broomball tournaments, human foosball competitions, and hockey shoot-offs take place on the frozen ice.

Another frozen favorite is the annual Ice Bars happening in and around Lake George.

Sculpture-like ice creations accompany local events, like the Adirondack Pub & Brewery’s Funky Ice Fest. Attendees can also frequent hosted ice bar parties at venues like the Lagoon and the Sagamore. If watching sports is more your speed, then immerse yourself in puck-

passing, net-catching hockey at the Cool Insuring Arena. The Eastern Conference Hockey League and affiliate of the NHL’s New Jersey Devils, Adirondack Thunder, takes the ice to deliver hard-hitting thrills every game!

Learn more at visitlakegeorge.com .

For generations, families and friends have been drawn to this place, where fresh air is scented by autumn in the woods and time seems to waver between nostalgia and now.

Photo Credit: Kacey O’Brien | Historic photo courtesy of Chapman Museum genera been draw

RochesteR , NY: A WiNteR WoNdeRl ANd foR fAmilies

For NYC families seeking a memorable winter getaway, Rochester, NY offers a perfect blend of snowy adventures, cozy experiences, and indoor fun—just a few hours away. When the city is draped in a blanket of snow, Rochester transforms into an idyllic winter wonderland, providing the ideal escape from the hustle and bustle.

Winter Fun for All Ages

Families can immerse themselves in winter magic at Mendon Ponds Park, offering ice skating, sledding, and guided snowshoeing tours through serene, snow-covered landscapes.

For a thrilling day out, you’ll find a number of skiing and snowboarding runs suitable for every skill level nearby, or exhilarating snow tubing opportunities.

Step Back in Time

At the Genesee Country Village & Museum, families can explore the largest living history museum in New York State, where the winter months bring historical holiday celebrations, horse-drawn wagon rides, and 19th-century

winter traditions. It’s an interactive way for kids to learn about history while enjoying a charming winter atmosphere.

Indoor Escapes from the Cold Rochester’s renowned Strong National Museum of Play and Rochester Museum & Science Center keep kids entertained for hours, while the George Eastman Museum offers a cozy respite to explore photography’s rich history.

Seasonal Festivals and Warm Treats

Winter in Rochester is filled with family-friendly festivals, from Roc Holiday Village to the Sweet Creations Gingerbread display at George Eastman Museum. After exploring, families can enjoy hot cocoa at one of the many cozy cafes. With its mix of outdoor adventure, rich history, and family-friendly festivities, Rochester, NY offers the perfect winter escape, ensuring unforgettable memories for families of all. Go to visitrochester.com to learn more.

Come soar. Come smile. Come see what all the excitement is about. Rochester, NY is the perfect family getaway for unique and extraordinary adventures.

Did we mention the world’s largest collection of toys, dolls, and games? Pack your bags and hit the road for an unforgettable trip in a destination full of surprises. With fun for every family, every season of the year, playtime tends to last a little longer in our backyard. Learn more at visitrochester.com.

education What Is Unschooling and Is It Good or Bad for Kids?

Uncovering

the truth about this controversial education trend

By Danielle Ramos

Deciding what school your child will attend can be overwhelming, especially since the options in New York City are so vast. While the emphasis often focuses on the school with the best teachers, test scores, and programs in your area, some parents opt to skip school altogether and homeschool. Still, others decide they want to unschool their kids.

Unschooling is a hot topic as many parents and educators have been openly sharing their views on social media. TikTok has become a haven for both opposing sides of unschooling to assert their stance. While parents all over are weighing in, there are certain misconceptions about this controversial topic.

Homeschooling 101

Haven’t heard of unschooling? You’re not alone. To understand unschooling, you first have to learn how homeschooling works. According to the Empire Center for Public Policy, the number of students who are homeschooled in New York State has increased by 178 percent over the past ten years. Though the pandemic was responsible for a large increase, numbers remain higher post-pandemic. While Washington DC leads the country in having the most homeschooled students, New York ranks second. There are approximately 54,000 homeschooling students in the state and 14,000 in New York City alone.

In New York State, any parent can homeschool their child. However, there are several legal standards that must be instituted prior to beginning. For example, you must submit a letter of intent stating that you will educate your child at home. Then you have to send a detailed Individualized Home Instruction Plan (IHIP) outlining your instruction course.

Over the school year, you have to submit regular assessments and quarterly reports of your child’s progress in your chosen course of instruction. As a parent, you can teach your child yourself, even without having any

formal teaching education. You can also opt to hire a tutor to come into your home, join a homeschool group, or sign up your child for an online school where they learn from a teacher online. Some are choosing to unschool.

Unschooling is a Type of Homeschooling

Although unschooling is also done outside of a formal school, almost everything else about it differs from typical homeschooling. The term unschooling was coined by John Holt, an educator in the 50s, who believed that children didn’t have to be forced to learn as they would naturally learn independently if given the chance. The idea is that children direct their own learning by seeking out what they are interested in without the limitations of tests, assessments, and rank.

Parents who choose unschooling often do so to help their children avoid the pressures of conformity in a classroom. They want their kids to think independently and explore the world in their own unique ways.

Consequently, unschooling doesn’t adhere to a fixed curriculum. Unlike homeschoolers who often follow a schoolbased curriculum, books and study materials are not a must for unschoolers. Instead, the focus is on everyday learning and allowing children to learn based on their interests. For example, if a grade-schooler expresses

curiosity about birds, flowers, or drawing, a parent might seize this moment to foster that interest. They could provide books, visit a botanical garden, attend an art show, or go to a museum, or they might simply share their own knowledge on the topic. The key is to encourage exploration and learning in a way that feels natural and engaging while following the child’s lead.

However, parents who want to unschool still need to find a way to fill out the necessary paperwork and outline what they will teach. Some unschooling websites provide tips and advise parents to simply consider what their child did during the summer and use that as a basis to formulate their upcoming course plans. There are also subreddits offering advice on how to produce the necessary paperwork without following a formal curriculum.

Possible Pitfalls of Unschooling

One problem that can arise in this free and open educational zone is that there is no set system for children to learn necessary skills like math or reading at age-appropriate levels. Parents may wonder what will happen if the child never shows an interest in adding, doing division, history, or reading. Consider how many things we had to learn in school that we initially had no interest in but grew to understand and appreciate, often lessons that

propelled us to the next grade level.

Some critics argue that unschooling is merely parenting disguised as teaching. The line of thinking is that when we are with our kids, they often ask questions about the world around them, and we strive to provide answers. But is that sufficient for an education?

Many unschooling families view everyday activities, like going to the doctor or grocery shopping, as opportunities for learning. They use the outing to teach their children about colors during a drive, explain what doctors do, or show them how to budget for groceries—essential life skills learned through regular experiences typically reserved for after-school or weekend activities.

Another possible pitfall is that children who do not follow a set curriculum may not be up to speed with their grade level, and parents may not know it. A child also won’t be assessed for learning disabilities, including dyslexia, language processing disorder, and visual or auditory processing issues which make learning math difficult. When caught

early, these learning disabilities can be promptly addressed with professional support and early intervention.

Some Educators Say Unschooling Works

That being said, there are many who believe that unschooling can produce positive outcomes. Gina Riley, Ph.D., an educational psychologist, Clinical Professor, and Program Leader of the Adolescent Special Education Program at Hunter College is a lifelong unschooling parent. In a podcast episode of “Honey, I’m Homeschooling The Kids,” Dr. Riley shares that her son’s first day of school was his first day of college.

Dr. Riley strongly believes in the power of intrinsic motivation and considers learning how to learn one of the most valuable skills a person can develop in life. She admits there are not a lot of studies on how unschoolers learn high-level subjects like math but says that math is a large part of life such as budgeting and shopping. When it comes to higher-level math she says there are unschoolers who show a marked interest and

teach themselves algebra and calculus simply because they love numbers. At the same time, Dr. Riley points out that there is also a good portion of traditional school students who are math anxious and struggle, despite being in a formal classroom setting.

As a mom, Dr. Riley says that she wasn’t always forthcoming about her son’s unschooling journey, especially considering her background in education. However, she found that this educational approach allowed her son to thrive. He explored geology as a young child and later developed a passion for both sports and guitar. Now, as an adult, he is an editor and founder of a music education business.

Ultimately, educating a child is a deeply personal decision. Some children will thrive, while others may face challenges, regardless of the educational approach. The key is to do your research on various learning methods and discover what resonates best for both you and your child. Of course, as your child grows, you can always pivot and make changes to ensure they have the best possible learning experience each year.

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Our 2025 New Year’s Resolutions

By New york Family

The editorial team here at New York Family dedicates all of our time to finding and sharing all of the resources, activities and information parents raising children in New York need. Not to sound like an 80’s love song, but everything we do, we do it for you!

We’ve gotten to know you – our audience –very well over the years, so now it’s time for you to get to know us. In the coming year, we will be sharing our favorite products, places, books, movies, shows, tips, adventures, experiences and more in our new Editor’s Pick’s column.

To kick off our inaugural column, I thought it would be fun to share our resolutions for the new year as a reminder to other parents to do the same – and stick to them!

Jeannine Cintron

Editorial Director

For 2025, I plan to focus on protecting my peace. I plan to do this by prioritizing what is most important and rejecting anything that is not. 2024 was a roller coaster of poor decisions leading to chaotic outcomes that negatively affected my children and wreaked havoc on my mental health. This year, I plan to protect my peace at all costs by putting both my kids and my health – mental as well as physical – first. This means less late nights working and more family outings; less anxiety over things I can’t control and more appreciation for the things I can.

Danielle Ramos Deputy Editor

This year, I’m working on something that will impact every part of my life: my mindset. I’m naturally a worrier and have a knack for jumping straight to the worst-case scenario. As a mom, it’s easy to fall into that pattern, but I’ve realized it doesn’t help me. In fact, it does the opposite – it keeps me stuck in the future instead of being present. After learning more about neuroplasticity and how we can actually change our brain’s response just by changing the way we think, I’ve made a resolution to stop going straight to the worst-case scenario and start thinking about the best. Because what if the best actually happens? And let’s be honest, the worst rarely does, so why keep letting my mind run there?

I want to show my kids that anything is possible, and that starts with shifting my

perspective. I’m keeping one of my favorite Wayne Dyer quotes in mind this year: “If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” I want to try to make this shift and see where it takes me.

Shara Levine Events Manager

When it comes to making New Year’s resolutions, I look back at the year that just passed and try to set realistic goals for the year to come. Emphasis on realistic. I’m definitely not going to start working out at the gym seven days a week, but I can resolve to go twice a week. I’m surely not going to ban all processed foods from my home, but I can resolve to start incorporating more vegetables in my family’s diet. I’m not going to organize my whole house, but I can resolve to finally clean out the game closet (I’ve been meaning to toss the Monopoly with the broken board missing Community Chest cards forever). Will I end up succeeding? I have no idea. But I’m going to try, and that’s more than I did last year!

Alexa Lutter

Editorial Assistant

This year my New Year resolution is to work on my overall health. Being constantly on the go has led to not always making the healthiest choices for my body and mind. I want to focus on creating a healthy routine that centers around choosing better habits when it comes to sleeping, eating, and exercise. I always find it helpful to achieve a goal when

you surround yourself with others who have similar intentions. This year I am excited to be sharing my resolution with my family, as we all resolved together to better our health by fixing some bad habits. I love sharing resolutions because it helps having someone to cheer you on, and vice versa.

Thalia Fernandez

Senior Digital Editor

My 2025 New Year’s resolution is to cut down on my screen time. It’s become a little too easy to sit back and scroll through the phone for most of the night, after which I often feel like I could have been doing something more productive with that time. So, I’m setting some boundaries in 2025. I plan to limit social media to certain times and set my phone on Do Not Disturb after 9 pm. I’m hoping that I can get more reading and walking done in my free time and be more present with friends and family. I want to feel more grounded this year and less “plugged in,” and I really think this will help.

Naosha Gregg

Digital Editor

My New Year’s resolution is to buckle down financially and focus on reaching my goals. I am currently saving for a new apartment and am working on decreasing my excessive spending. I also have the goal of traveling more next year, specifically to the West Coast, and building a healthy savings account so I can start reaching these goals.

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Dr. Kirran Tiwari

Ice Skating

BY NEW YORK FAMILY

It might be getting a little colder outside every day, but that’s no reason to stay home! Ice skating is one of the best wintertime family activities. Whether you’re a pro at skating or you’re stepping onto the ice for the first time, it’s sure to be an exciting experience for you and your crew. Here are some of NYC’s best ice skating rinks for cold weather fun!

STATEN ISLAND

Staten Island Skating Pavilion Ice Skating Rink

Indoor rink

3080 Arthur Kill Road

718-605-4800

Hours: Fridays, 8:10-11:10 pm; Saturdays, 2:304:30 pm and 7:30-9:30 pm; Sundays, 2-4 pm.

Price: $15; $13 children. $8 skate rental. Enjoy public skating and take lessons at this indoor rink located on Staten Island’s South Shore.

MANHATTAN

Bank Of America Winter Village At Bryant Park

Outdoor rink

40th-42nd streets between Fifth and Sixth Avenues, Midtown

212-768-4242

Hours: Through March 2, 2025: Daily, 8 am-10 pm; Check website for holiday times

Price: Admission to the rink is free, but there is a charge to rent skates ($18-55)

This annual ice-skating event also features its famous Holiday shops. The holiday market hosts many merchants and dining options from New York City and around the world.

The Rink At Brookfield Place

Outdoor rink

230 Vesey St.

212-978-1673

Hours: Check the public schedule online.

Price: Weekdays: $15; $5 skate rental; Weekends and holidays: $17; $7 skate rental

Enjoy ice skating in NYC at this outdoor rink in Manhattan. The rink offers public skating, private lessons, and birthday parties.

The Rink At Rockefeller Center

Outdoor rink

Rockefeller Plaza, between 49th and 50th Streets 212-771-7200

Hours: Open daily, 9 am-12 am, for the 20242025 skate season

Price: Check the website for varying prices. Set in the world-famous Rockefeller Center, this rink is one of the most popular holiday attractions in New York City. Enjoy skating and take photos with the beautiful Rockefeller Center Christmas Tree as your backdrop.

Wollman

Rink

Outdoor rink

Central Park (Closest entrance is at 59th Street and Sixth Avenue)

Hours: Open through March 15, 2025. Monday-Tuesday, 10am-2:30pm; WednesdayThursday, 10am-9pm; Friday-Saturday, 10am10pm; Sunday, 10am-9pm

Price: Check the website for prices. Enjoy skating at this Central Park rink.

Sky Rink At Chelsea Piers

Indoor rink

61 Chelsea Piers, Chelsea 212-336-6100

Hours & Prices: Check website

A year-round, twin-rink skating facility. Offers general skating sessions, figure skating and ice hockey training, and more.

BROOKLYN

IC Ice Rink

Outdoor rink

Courtyard 5 / 6 in Industry City

332-268-0395

Hours: Season opening TBA.

Price: Check the website for information. After you’re done ice skating at this Brooklyn rink, Industry City offers a lot of additional

activities. Visit some of the many restaurants, shops, and other businesses located in this popular creative hub of Brooklyn.

Abe Stark Skating Rink

Indoor rink

Coney Island Boardwalk and West 19 Street 718-946-6536

Hours: Open Saturday, October 12, 2024, through Sunday, March 30, 2025. Saturday: 12:30 p.m.3:30 p.m. Sunday: 12:30 p.m. - 3:30 p.m.

Price: $13, Skate Renntal: $7

Quirky Coney Island is home to the beach, an amusement park and the New York Aquarium, there’s also an ice rink on the famous Coney Island Boardwalk!

NEW JERSEY

The Ice Rink At American Dream Indoor rink

1 American Dream Way, East Rutherford 833-263-7326

Hours: Check the schedule on the website.

Prices: Non-Peak Days: $25; Mid-Peak Days: $29; Peak Days: $35

American Dream’s NHL regulation-size indoor ice rink will add some icy fun to your family’s holiday shopping experience!

Roosevelt Park Family Ice Skating Rink

Outdoor rink

151 Parsonage Road, Edison 732-494-2980

Hours: November 20, through Sunday, March 30, 2025

Prices: Admission fees are $5 for children, $6 for adults & $5 for skate rental

This scenic skating rink in New Jersey overlooks the lake in Roosevelt Park.

HOLIDAY PUBLIC SESSION SCHEDULE

Celebrate your next birthday at the Pavilion

12/23 1-5 & 7:30-9:30pm 12/24 1-5, 12/26 1-5 & 7:30-9:30pm 12/27 - 12/30 1-5 & 7:30-9:30pm 12/31 1-5 & 11-6pm 1/1 1-6pm (no evening sessions on 12/24 & 12/31)

Skate with Santa Saturday, December 14, 2:30-4:30pm.

Holiday Lights

IN & AROUND NEW YORK CITY

BY ALEXA LUTTER

Celebrating the holidays in New York City is truly magical! The city comes alive with amazing sights and festivities that bring families together in memorable and thrilling ways, often set against the backdrop of dazzling, twinkling lights. NYC is home to some of the best light shows and displays in the world this time of year. Check out some of our favorite spots to see holiday lights this season in and near New York City!

NEW JERSEY

Winter Wonderland

655 Cranbury Rd., East Brunswick Through Jan. 5

Sundays-Thursdays, 5:30pm-10pm, FridaysSaturdays, 5:30pm-11pm

This dazzling drive-thru event features over 1.5 million animated lights. From stunning sparkling tunnels to captivating themed displays like snowflakes, candy canes, and winter wonderlands, each section of the show is designed to bring holiday cheer. Tickets start ay $30 per car.

Skylands Stadium Christmas Light Show & Village

Skylands Stadium

94 Championship Place

This fun drive-thru experience runs from November 22nd through December 30th. Take the entire family on a dazzling mile-long drive-thru with over two million lights! Shop from amazing holiday vendors and take pictures with Santa. Adults can enjoy the Winter Beer Garden! Open from 5:00 PM until close on event nights. Tickets start at $29 per carload.

Orchard of Lights

Demarest Farms

244 Wierimus Rd.

Fridays – Sundays, 5 – 9 pm, November 22 through December 29, December 11 & 12, 16 –19, 23, 26, 5 – 9 pm

Take your vehicle on a guided tour through 32 acres of brilliant holiday light displays, warm up by the fire pit, and enjoy hot

Plus, take pictures with Santa, make your own S’mores, and listen to Santa’s singing Reindeer. $35 per car.

“LET

IT GLOW!” A Holiday Lantern

Spectacular

Bergen County Zoo 216 Forest Avenue

Thursdays and Sundays, 4 – 8 pm, Fridays and Saturdays, 4 – 9 pm, through January 12, 2025

Enjoy a walk throughout the Zoo with largerthan-life lanterns of animals and nature. Each admission ticket comes with a train ticket. This evening event also has fire pits and s’mores kits! $20; $10. For ages 3-17 years old.

MANHATTAN

Luminaries

Brookfield Place

230 Vesey Street, Battery Park City Through Jan. 1

Make a wish, enjoy a light show, and be a part of the magic at Luminaries, where “every

Shine Bright at Hudson Yards

Presented by Wells Fargo

The Shops & Restaurants at Hudson Yards 20 Hudson Yards

Through Jan. 5

Featuring over two million twinkling lights, this dazzling display will light up the neighborhood with 115 miles of string lights, 725 evergreen trees, and 16-foot-tall, illuminated set pieces in the shape of hot air balloons arranged through the Public Square and Gardens.

Holiday Lights Tour with Santa & Elves

2 East 42nd Street, Midtown Through Jan. 5

Take a holiday journey with Santa on the North Pole Express! Enjoy the sights of New York while sipping on a delicious cup of hot chocolate and munching on scrumptious cookies. Meet the Express Conductor, one

cocoa and treats in our retail farm market.

twinkle tells a tale of holiday joy and giving.”

Bronx Zoo Holiday Lights

of Santa’s elves, and, of course, Santa while enjoying the bright and beautiful lights of the city that never sleeps.

BROOKLYN

Lightscape

Brooklyn Botanic Garden

1000 Washington Ave., Brooklyn Through Jan. 5

The after-dark, illuminated trail returns to Brooklyn Botanic Garden with brand new works of art, taking visitors on an otherworldly nighttime journey through light-splashed landscapes and luminous installations. Explore the Garden under moonlight while enjoying seasonal treats and festive music. Make plans to experience this contemporary classic that will enchant visitors of all ages.

Dyker Heights Christmas Lights

86th St. & 12th Ave., Dyker Heights, Brooklyn Through Jan. 5

Partake in THE most famous holiday tour in NYC – through the Dyker Heights neighborhood of Brooklyn to view blocks of elaborately decorated homes featuring

larger-than-life statues and installations – by real homeowners who take holiday decor to a whole new level.

QUEENS

Lektrik: A Festival of Lights

Queens Botanical Garden, 42-80 Crommelin Street

Dec. 20 to Dec. 22

Step into a world of enchantment as Lektrik comes to New York for the first time. This festival of lights is set to be larger and more awe-inspiring than ever. With over 40 stunning lamp scenes, meticulously crafted by 150 artisans using 120 tons of steel and 150,000 feet of silk, Lektrik will transform the Queens Botanical Garden into an immersive wonderland.

BRONX

Bronx Zoo Holiday Lights

Bronx Zoo

2300 Southern Blvd., Bronx Through Jan. 5

Celebrate wildlife with animal lantern trails, holiday decor, animated sculptures, holiday

trains, and much more. Millions of lights and hundreds of wildlife lanterns spread across seven lantern trails representing almost 100 animal and plant species will connect visitors to real wildlife!

LONG ISLAND

LuminoCity Holiday Lights

Eisenhower Park 1899 Park Blvd., East Meadow, Nassau Through Jan. 5

The largest immersive lights festival in the US with themes, culture, and family fun!

Magic of Lights

Jones Beach State Park

1 Ocean Pkwy, Wantagh, Nassau Through Jan. 4

Magic of Lights is a dazzling, drive-through holiday lights experience featuring favorite holiday scenes and characters of the season using the latest LED technology and digital animations. Experience the Magic of Lights from the comfort and safety of your own car as you wind through the sparkling path of Jones Beach’s new holiday tradition.

Holiday Fun!

The holidays are here, and it’s time to make magical memories with your family! From dazzling light displays and festive markets to heartwarming shows and visits with Santa, there’s so much to enjoy right here in or near Staten Iskand, NY. Whether you’re starting new traditions or celebrating old favorites, these familyfriendly events are sure to bring joy and cheer to everyone. Let’s make this the most festive and unforgettable holiday season yet!

Christmas in Richmondtown

Historic Richmondtown

441 Clarke Ave, Staten Island, NY

Saturday, Dec. 7 and Sunday, Dec. 8, 12-5pm

Tree Lighting: Friday, Dec. 6, 4pm Candlelight Tours: Saturday, Dec. 14 and Sunday, Dec. 15

historicrichmondtown.org

Celebrate the season at Historic Richmond Town’s Christmas festivities! Stroll through the charming village adorned with twinkling lights and festive decorations. With delightful activities, festive crafts, and seasonal cheer, Christmas in Historic Richmond Town (Dec. 7 & 8) is the perfect way to embrace the holiday season and create lasting memories with family and friends. Enjoy a cozy Candlelight Tour (Dec. 14 & 15), exploring historic houses aglow with holiday spirit and discovering 19th-century traditions and hear captivating stories of past Christmases. Join for a magical holiday experience!

Skate with Santa Staten Island Skating Pavilion

3080 Arthur Kill Rd, Staten Island, NY Saturday, Dec. 14, 2:30-4:30pm thepavilion.org

Experience the magic of skating with Santa himself at a special Skate with Santa session. Keep those skates laced up; The Pavilion is also hosting several public skating sessions throughout the month of December and throughout the holiday break! Go online for dates.

The Christmas Show

St. George Theatre

35 Hyatt St, Staten Island Fri, Dec 13, 2024 at 7pm

Sat, Dec 14, 2024 at 2pm & 6pm Sun, Dec 15, 2024 at 2pm & 6pm stgeorgetheatre.com/the-christmas-show-2024

This two-hour high-energy production features a rhinestone-studded array of songs and dances for the entire family. Set in grandmother’s house, the story takes the audience on a magical journey through various scenes, including visits from Santa Claus and Mrs. Claus at the North Pole, Times Square, Clove Lake Park, and the Rainbow Room, culminating in the acclaimed Living Nativity.

The Christmas Fantasy with Lights at Storybookland

6415 E Black Horse Pike, Egg Harbor Township, NJ Through Dec. 30

storybookland.com/christmas

Join in the most magical time of year at Storybookland’s Christmas Fantasy with Lights! Each operating night at dusk, Santa Claus will wave his magic wand and light up Storybook Land with over 1 millions lights for the Holiday Season. This South

Jersey spectacle has been a family tradition for over 35 years. Along with being featured on ABC’s Great Christmas Light Fight, Storybook Land was honored as #10 in USA Today’s Top Ten Theme Park Holiday Events in 2023.

The Holiday Wish Express

Stamford Town Center

100 Greyrock Place, Stamford, CT Nov. 23 - Dec. 24

theholidaywish.com

Discount Code: NYCFAMILY (15% off tickets)

The Holiday Wish Express is one of the Northeast’s largest indoor holiday experiences, bringing families together for a magical adventure. Step aboard the virtual train ride to the North Pole, explore dazzling lights at Santa’s Festival of Lights, and meet beloved characters like Mrs. Claus in her Gingerbread Kitchen and Phineas Flywheel, Santa’s Head Toy Maker, in his whimsical workshop. Write letters to Santa and immerse yourself in unforgettable holiday magic – all under one roof at the Stamford Town Center!

Gift GuideHoliday

Check out our top picks for kids of all ages on your holiday shopping list this year!

by Jeannine cintron

1 . Ms. Rachel Speak & Sing Doll

There’s just something about Ms. Rachel that little kids can’t get enough of!

This touch-activated doll plays words, phrases, and music from her hit videos to encourage early speech development – and fun! 6 months-3+ years; $29.99; Amazon, Target, Walmart

2 . Mindware Take-Along Piano Toy

Music is a universal language! Give your child the gift of an early music education with this Montessori-inspired piano, featuring color-coded keys and six classic tunes. 18 months+; $49.95; Amazon

3 . VTech Sort & Discover Activity Wagon

What is it about storage that little kids love? This activity-packed wagon has tons of space on the inside to fill with toys, snacks and more to take on the go or during playtime. 12-36 months; $29.99; Walmart

4 . Hot Wheels RacerVerse Barbie Spiral Race

For little girls who love cars as much as dolls, or little boys who know Barbie is every bit as cool as the movie, this set features Malibu Barbie and Brooklyn Barbie cars, plus five accessories on a five-level tower trackset for interactive racing. 5+; $34.99; Target

5 . Hot Wheels Ultra Shark Car Wash

This interactive play set from Hot Wheels features a fully-functioning car wash, a giant shark, and color-changing cars. Seriously, need we say more? 3+; $59.99; Walmart, Amazon, Target

6 . Disney Store Star Wars Gauntlet Communicators

This set of two radio-controlled wrist comms includes galactic light and sound effects so your little jedis can communicate with each other while fighting the Empire! 3+; $49.99; Disney Store

7. Delta Children Gourmet All-inOne Corner Play Kitchen

This fully-equipped, realistic play kitchen serves up hours of fun in a stylish and modern design that parents can put anywhere in the home – without it being an eye sore. 3+; $179.99; DeltaChildren.com

Gift Guide

1 . Joovy Bicycoo Balance Bike

The Joovy bike is the perfect first step in learning to ride a bike! Specially designed for toddlers, the lightweight, durable balance bike helps little ones develop their balance and coordination before transitioning to a pedal bike. 18 months+; $77.99; Amazon

2 . Fisher-Price Rockin’ Record Player

Young DJs can spin, scratch, and drop a sick beat with this record player, featuring five colorful “records” that play 20 unique songs. 3+; $39.99; Walmart, Amazon, Target

3 . National Geographic Circuit Maker Kit

This science kit is made for the most curious of kids to unlock the mysteries of electricity through more than 60 experiments and activities, featuring easy-to-follow instructions and vibrant illustrations to them through each experiment. 8+; $39.99; Amazon

4 . Govee Star Light Projector

This star projector night light takes ambiance to the next level, creating immersive aurora lighting to illuminate your teen or tween’s bedroom. Features include RGBW lamp beads, 16 million color options, smart sleep mode, 52+ scene modes and 18 white noise options. 10+; $79.99; Govee.com, Amazon

5 . Kinetic Sand Squish Motion Playset

This playset is a squishy, sensory delight! Open the case to find six tools, a flat play space, a squish zone and a pound of mushy Kinetic Sand in yellow, blue, and pink. 5+; $19.99; Amazon, Target, Walmart

6 . Cool Maker GO Glam Nail Studio

Give your mini-me a spa day of their own, minus the trip to a pricey salon. Manicures are made easy as pop, paint and press with Cool Maker’s GO Glam Nail studio. 7+; $24.99; Amazon, Target, Walmart

7. Disney Store Once Upon a Story Mini Doll Set

These 5’’ dolls are the perfect size for imaginative play with your little prince or princess. The set includes eight poseable heroines wearing colorful costumes in a convenient carrying case for on-the-go fun. 3+; $69.99; Disney Store

1 . Stomp Rocket Dueling Rockets Double Launch Set

Whose rocket can fly the highest? Duel it out by simultaneously launching side-by-side Stomp Rockets up to 200 feet in the air to determine the winner! 5+; $19.99; Target

2 . American Girl 2025 Girl of the Year Summer Doll

A dog lover and baker, 2025 Girl of the Year Summer McKinny has turned her two passions into a business of her own. The 18-inch doll comes dressed in her signature outfit. 8+; $155; AmericanGirl.com

3 . Razor Black Label Ripster Light Up

This special edition caster board is made to attract attention. It features multi-color LED’s built into the deck that perform your choice of five stunning animated light shows as you ride. 8+; $69.99: Walmart

4 . Uno Elite

Everyone knows Uno is THE card game for families – but a little upgrade can’t hurt, right? Football fans will cheer for UNO Elite NFL 2024 Core Edition, which contains 56 NFL Player Cards and 4 Foil Cards in addition to 112 UNO cards. 7+; $14.99; Walmart

5 . Mindware 110 Piece Elevator Marble Run

This is one of the best STEM toys for kids looking for continuous marble action. Twistier turns, trickier tricks and taller towers create a hands-on physics lesson like no other! 4+; $43.95; Amazon

6 . Polly Pocket Unicorn Partyland Playset

Take a trip down memory lane with Polly Pocket, now celebrating its 35th anniversary! This playset features two micro dolls and 25+ accessories, including unicorn pets. 4+; $26.97; Amazon, Target, Walmart

7. Purpose Toys ICON Salon

The nation’s largest African Americanowned, internationally-distributed, cultural toymaker Purpose Toys recently won three major toy industry awards for this set, which includes doll, outfit, and salon accessories. 3+; $39.88; Walmart

8 . Warm Pals Plush

We love a weighted blanket, so just imagine how comforting an oversized, weighted and warmed-up plushie can be? Choose from dozens of characters. 3+; $26.95; Amazon

Kathy Kuo Home is Where the Heart Is

By Mia Sala S

After chatting with December’s cover mom Kathy Kuo, I couldn’t stop thinking about the things in my house that make it a home. The two sofa chairs my parents occupied to watch TV every night for the last 15 years, the cream-colored dresser in my bedroom that’s traveled with me from house to house, the decorated cardboard box my cat curls up in. You see, what I learned from Kathy, mom of two and founder of Kathy Kuo Home, is that a house is merely the physical walls and location. But a home is a feeling of comfort. It’s what you feel when you cozy up on your favorite couch, under your favorite, plush blanket, surrounded by other objects and furniture that carry special memories or meaning. Even if that couch has crayon scribbles on it from crafty kids, we still love it!

Kathy’s not only the founder of a fastgrowing, online home and design platform, but she’s a big advocate for female founders. With her incredible success as a woman in business, it was even more incredible to hear her open up about her fears, imposter syndrome struggles and the community she creates for other female entrepreneurs to feel supported.

Did I mention she founded her business while pregnant with her first child? Kathy’s children– Maya, now age 12 and William (nickname ‘Didi’, which means “little brother” in Chinese), age 8 — grew up with a mom, founder and CEO. Kathy recently opened a new Design Showroom at 161 Hudson Street in Tribeca for in-person homeowner, trade and interior design services. My question, that I’m sure other NYC moms are dying to know too — how does she do it all?

Read on to learn more about all-things home, female founders, motherhood and interior design pro tips for families!

Why did you found Kathy Kuo Home? What

about home and design interests you?

I founded Kathy Kuo Home in 2012 after working in the home industry as a product designer for many years, going through a layoff during the 2008 recession, and then discovering that entrepreneurship was really in my heart. I noticed a gap in the marketplace, at the time, for being able to buy luxury furniture online in a way that was accessible, easy, and trustworthy. I literally started the business by building my own site, before Shopify or any platforms, designing every module and button, taking client’s credit card numbers over the phone and placing orders for them manually with my favorite suppliers that only high end interior designers knew about; little by little, that grew into where we are today 12 years later with a robust e-commerce, trade, interior design, and retail business.

As a mom of two and founder of a super successful company, how do you balance motherhood with your career?

When I founded KKH, I was pregnant with my first child, my daughter Maya, so making sure that my business was one that allowed for a working parent to thrive has been top of mind from day 1, not just for me as a mom, founder, and CEO, but for all of the parents on my team. The ability to shape my working life around motherhood has been one of the biggest reasons that entrepreneurship has been the right fit for me.

That elusive idea of “balance” is different for every parent and for me it honestly looks different on a weekly and monthly basis. One constant for me as a mom is that I try to always carve out special fun time with my kids in the evenings when they’re done with all of their activities; it’s time for us to connect and be silly and relaxed. There might be days when I need to pause some quality time with my kids to deal with a work situation, and that can be tough, but I also love that they see me working, and that they know how passionate I am about what I do and how committed I am to my responsi-

bilities. I want them to someday have careers they’re truly fulfilled by and showing them that by example is very important.

It’s amazing how you feature other womenowned businesses on your blog to bring visibility to the incredible work female entrepreneurs are doing. What has your experience been as a female founder? Why is it important to you to build a community of support for other female entrepreneurs?

Pursuing entrepreneurship has truly been one of the best and scariest decisions I have made in my life and I am so proud of the KKH business and all of our team members. Of course, it’s not without challenges! In the beginning there were many moments when I felt major imposter syndrome (and BTW, that never goes away), and being a woman, there have also been many moments of feeling underestimated, and that can be frustrating. That’s why fostering community with other female entrepreneurs—and mentoring the next generation of girls—has been a major focus of mine.

A bit of a transition, but many New Yorkers are putting up all their holiday decor as the city transforms for the season. What’s your best home decor tip or idea for the holiday season?

When it comes to holiday decorating, my No. 1 tip is to remember that it’s supposed to be fun and joyful! If you really relish going over the top with lights and multiple trees and elaborate displays, go for it! But if your home decor naturally trends more minimalist, there’s no reason to pressure yourself into going all out for the holidays if that feels more stressful than fun. Make sure you bring your kids into the decor process and take time to enjoy it together while letting your holiday pieces complement your existing decor.

I myself prefer a little more of an understated and “pretty” tree—shades of silver and

champagne, and thin velvet bows and delicate bird ornaments from Paris—but my kids prefer our collection of souvenir ornaments from vacations past. We’re fortunate to have enough space that we can do two trees; a sophisticated French-inspired one me (and for all of my KKH content shoots we do at my apartment) and a super-fun, anything-goes tree that my kids and I can decorate together…with plenty of Pokemon, wacky souvenirs, soccer balls, and ornaments that they have made since they were in pre-school!

Maintaining a clean, spill-free home is difficult with kids. What design hacks or tips do you have for keeping a home mess-free?

Home design for families with children is one of the No. 1 requests we get on the Design Services side of the KKH business. The good news is that, these days, there is so much furniture on the market that is not only beautifully designed and crafted, but also made with performance fabrics that can stand up to lively, growing children!

My biggest piece of advice for child-friendly design is to invest in sofas and armchairs that are upholstered with performance fabrics (the new KKH custom upholstery range has you covered!); these are fabrics that will repel stains more reliably, be easier to clean, and stand up more durably to just general wear and tear. Performance rugs are also a great option for homes with young children. If you’re not sure where to start, try working with one of our interior designers! There’s a myth out there that interior designers are only something for the ultrawealthy to bring in when they’re buying new furniture for an entire home—and that is so not the case. Our KKH Design Team can work with a client on just about any size and scope of project; you can call us up today and say: “Help! My kids are human tornadoes and I still want my living room to look beautiful without having to buy a new sofa every other year.” I promise you that one of our great designers will help you navigate your options, work with your budget, and suggest solutions you may never have even considered.

You should give your kids their own space and work with them to make it special and make it theirs. Explain to them that it’s important to take care of their special space, and if they can commit to keeping it tidy and cared for, then they can be involved in the choices for how it looks. Wall art, bedding, and soft goods (like decorative pillows and beanbags) are all great categories to let your kids take the wheel a little bit in their own bedrooms or playrooms.

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Annadale Tree Lighting

Sunday, Dec. 1, 5 pm – 7 pm

Annadale Park, Annadale Road NY

All Ages

Free

This exciting tree-lighting event will take place in Annadale Park. Featuring a train ride for the kids, bouncy houses, a DJ, a live performance by Miss Caroline’s Dance Elite, and of course photos with Santa!

Christmas in Richmondtown

Saturday, Dec. 7 and Sunday, Dec. 8, 12-5pm

Tree Lighting Friday, December 6, 4pm

Guests can enjoy living history demonstrations, shopping for gifts, crafts, and commemorative items made by historic tradespeople, holiday performances, a visit from Santa and his helpers, an old-fashioned horse-drawn carriage, sweets, treats, and local eats, and much more!

Bee Forever Events: A Holiday Market

Saturday, Dec. 7, 11 am – 5 pm

Grand Colony Hall, 460 Brielle Avenue

All Ages

Free Admission

Discover unique gifts, enjoy festive cheer, and family-friendly activities while supporting local businesses this holiday season.

Music Production with Soundtrap featuring Community Word Project

Saturday, Dec. 7, 11:30 am – 12:30 pm

Dongan Hills Library, 1617 Richmond Road

Ages 12 and up

Free

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Participants will be given instruc tions on how to use music production software, how to create interactive exchanges with fellow participants as well as explore the opportunity to collaborate with others.

Sundog Theatre presents, “A Christmas Carol”

Saturday, Dec. 7, 1–2:30 pm

Staten Island Playhouse at Empire Outlets, 55 Richmond Terrace

All Ages

$15

See Scrooge, the Ghosts, and the Cratchits – and even more exciting, Tiny Tim (or Tina) is played by a member chosen from the audience!

Tappen Park Holiday Tree

Lighting

Saturday, Dec. 7, 3 pm – 6 pm

Tappen Park, Bay Street

All Ages

Free

Join Tappen Park for a festive evening filled with holiday cheer. Witness the magical moment when the holiday tree gets lit and spread

joy by giving away toys to children.

Holiday Tree Lighting

Saturday, Dec. 7, 6:30 pm

Empire Outlets, 55 Richmond Terr. All Ages Free

Hang out with Santa Claus and the Grinch! Enjoy a performance by the IS51 dance team & theater and a featured performance by Vinnie Medugno!

Breakfast with Santa

Sunday, Dec. 8, 9 am – 11 am

Dave and Buster’s, 2655 Richmond Ave.

All Ages

Ticket prices range from $27.91 to $32.62

Score a ho-ho-whole morning of family fun with exclusive early access to the store. Play games and take a photo with Santa!

Monsignor Farrell

Christmas Fair

Sunday, Dec. 8, 9:30 am – 4:30 pm

Monsignor Farrell High School, 2900 Amboy Rd

All Ages

$5 per family of 4 or $3 per person

Experience the Christmas spirit with raffles, shopping for delicious treats, crafts, and more.

Grand Illumination at the Conference House

Sunday, Dec. 8, 4:30 pm

Conference House Park, 298 Satterlee Street

All Ages Free

Join in the historic annual ceremonial lighting of the Conference House, a favorite for Staten Islanders!

Chanukah Family Party

Tuesday, Dec. 10, 10 am – 12 pm

Joan & Alan Bernikow JCC, 1466 Manor Rd.

All Ages

Children of Members: $8, Children of Non-members: $12, FREE for adults and children under 2 Chanukah Sing-a-long featuring, Music with Patrick, dreidel games with chocolate gelt, decorating donuts, inflatables, and more!

Menorah Lighting

Tuesday, Dec. 10, 4 pm – 5 pm

Staten Island Mall, 2655 Richmond Ave.

All Ages

Enjoy the coolest craft fair and Menorah lighting featuring hot latkes, donuts, live music, and more!

Cottage Row Holiday Market at Snug Harbor

Thursday, Dec. 12, 12 – 5 pm

Snug Harbor Cultural Center & Botanical Garden, 1000 Richmond Terr.

All Ages

$5 general admission, Under 18 years old are free

Enjoy artisanal crafts and one-ofa-kind gifts on sale from vendors

Grand Illumination at the Conference House will be held on Dec. 8.

all across Staten Island including, delicious snacks, sandwiches, warm drinks, edible gifts, festive tunes, a beautifully decorated Cottage Row, a glowing fully-lit Allee, and more!

The Christmas Show 2024

Friday, Dec. 13, 7 pm, Saturday, Dec. 14 & Sunday, Dec. 15, 2 pm – & 6 pm

St. George Theatre, 35 Hyatt St.

All Ages

Tickets: $15 – $55

Celebrating its 21st year, this two-hour high-energy production features a rhinestone-studded array of songs and dances for the entire family. The story takes the audience on a magical journey through various scenes, including visits from Santa Claus and Mrs. Claus at the North Pole, Times Square, Clove Lake Park, and the Rainbow Room, culminating in the acclaimed Living Nativity.

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4th Annual Holiday Tree

Lighting

Friday, Dec. 13, 7 pm

415 Port Richmond Avenue

All Ages

Free

See over 2,000 lights, food trucks, music, DJ, performances by PS 68, PRHS Band, NY Dance company, a Santa visit and more!

Clove Lakes Health Care and Rehabilitation Center

Holiday Market

Saturday, Dec. 14, 10 am – 3 pm

Clove Lakes Healthcare and Rehabilitation Center, 25 Fanning Street

All Ages

Free

15+ vendors offering unique gifts for everyone on your list! Open to the public so bring your friends, family, and neighbors.

De Matti Tiny Tot Cookies, Cocoa, and Crafts with Santa

Friday, Dec. 20, 10:30 am – 12pm

De Matti Park, 430, Tompkins Ave. Ages 3-12

Free

Decorate delicious sugar cookies with a variety of colorful toppings and sprinkles, get crafty and

create unique ornaments, enjoy a warm and comforting cup of hot cocoa, and take a photo with Santa!

Universal Temple of the Arts presents Staten Island JAZZ Festival 36

Friday, Dec. 20, 7 pm – 10 pm

St. George Theatre, 35 Hyatt St.

All Ages

$36

Universal Temple of the Arts (UTA) Staten Island JAZZ

Festival returns to the St. George Theatre for its 36th rendition of jazz excellence, featuring many talented performers. This festival promises a joyful, hip, eclectic night of jazz in a beautiful historic theatre.

Brunch with Santa at the Greenbelt Recreation Center

Saturday, Dec. 21, 11 am – 2 pm

Greenbelt Recreation Center, 501 Brielle Ave.

All Ages Free

Santa and friends are taking over Greenbelt Recreation Center for a magical day filled with holiday spirit. Bring a phone or camera to take a picture with Santa and participate in crafts and games in theme-based rooms.

3rd Annual Kwanzaa Celebration! Unity In The Community

Thursday, Dec. 26, 6:30 – 10:30 pm Central Family Life Center, 59 Wright St. All Ages Free Admission

Get involved and celebrate the importance of family, community, and culture.

The Polar Express

Saturday, Dec. 28, 3:15 pm

St. George Theatre, 35 Hyatt St.

All Ages

$20 general admission, $15 for SGT members

Experience the magic of The Polar Express at St. George Theatre! Part of the “Better on the Big Screen” movie series presented by Williams Eye Works and Richmond University Medical Center, this holiday classic brings joy to all ages.

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