Staten Island Parent - March 2025

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Jeannine Cintron

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When my son was very little, I remember pulling a magazine out of his backpack after picking him up from preschool one day. I had just moved to Staten Island not long before and didn’t recognize the publication, but I found myself thumbing through the pages with a smile, relieved I finally found a hyperlocal parenting resource to help me navigate the unfamiliar territory of raising a child here.

One page stood out to me at the beginning of the issue, where I first laid eyes on someone who I’ve since come to know very well, and to whom I owe much of my career success. On the page featuring the Editor’s Note was a picture of Roselle Farina-Hecht, the woman who founded Staten Island Parent in 1989 from her living room while raising a toddler, the original SIP Kid, Nicole. I recall looking at that picture and feeling so inspired by this total badass mom who had a vision and brought it to life.

I had been a stay-at-home mom for a few years by then, and I worried often about how to return to work someday. Even with a college degree and professional experience, mothers often have difficulty reentering the workforce after pausing while raising kids. And like any exhausted mom who was a postpartum shell of their former self, my confidence was nonexistent. If you told me then that my own picture would be on this page someday, I might have checked your head for a fever.

Fast forward a few years, though, and I found myself sitting in an office somewhere along South Avenue with the woman from the magazine, interviewing for a sales position. I BS’ed my way through it and was hired (sorry Rosie!), becoming the worst ad rep SIP had ever seen. But Roselle would not let me quit. Seriously. I tried at least three times, and she always refused. Soon a spot in the editorial department opened up and I found myself very comfortable in that seat. It was where I’d wanted to be all along, and is still the closest I have ever come to manifesting my own destiny.

And here I sit, still, 11 very eventful years later. But I won’t be for much longer, as this is my last issue of Staten Island Parent

Roselle’s toddler - now in her 30s - was the original SIP Kid. She paved the way for a whole generation of awesome SIP Kids. My children were toddlers when I started here; they grew up

with this magazine. Not only were their faces featured on the cover and inside many issues, but they inspired nearly every word I wrote on these pages for over a decade. The official SIP Kid Club is an exclusive one (they meet under Roselle’s desk the third Thursday of every month), but we’re all raising SIP kids of our own. And I am grateful to you for allowing me to help you raise yours for the last 11 years. Love it or hate it, Staten Island is a one-ofa-kind place. We’re not like the other boroughs, but we’re not exactly living the suburban life, either. There is truly nowhere else like all 60 square miles of this densely populated island. Similarly, there is nothing quite like Staten Island Parent. The community we have built here is as unique as Staten Island itself, filled with wonderful families and hardworking, intelligent. prosperous people, with far more diversity and sophistication than we get credit for.

I used up this whole page like it was a Grammy acceptance speech (I have won quite a few Parenting Media Awards over the years; does that count?) and now there’s not much room for introducing the issue, but the Table of Contents will point you to where you need to go. We like to do things our own way around here. See you around the Island!

With Love, Jeannine Benedicks-Cintron

P.S. Card-carrying members of the SIP Kid Club go to the children, stepchildren, future children and grandchildren of Gerri, Janine, Roselle, Linda, Michelle, Jodi, Cecilia, Ilene, and a select few who predate me; also to the lovely ladies who joined the team post-Roselle’s retirement; Desiree, Gwen, Suzanne, Barbara and Alexa. I love and miss you all!

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The Evolution of Summer Camps

Summer camps have long been a cherished tradition for children and teens, offering a unique blend of adventure, camaraderie, and personal growth. However, the concept of summer camp has evolved significantly since its inception, reflecting changes in society, technology, and cultural values. From their humble beginnings in the late 19th century to the diverse and innovative programs of today, summer camps have continually adapted to meet the needs and interests of new generations.

The Origins of Summer Camps

The first organized summer camps emerged in the United States in the late 1800s, during a time of rapid industrialization and urbanization. As families moved to cities, concerns grew about the impact of urban life on children’s health and well-being. Camps were initially designed as a way to reconnect kids with nature, promote physical activity, and instill values like selfreliance and teamwork.

One of the earliest camps, the Gunnery Camp, was founded in 1861 by Frederick W. Gunn in Connecticut. It was a simple, rugged experience focused on outdoor activities like hiking and fishing. By the early 20th century, the summer camp movement had gained momentum, with organizations like the YMCA and the Boy Scouts establishing camps across the country. These early camps were often rooted in military-style discipline and emphasized character-building through structured activities.

Mid-20th Century: The Golden Age of Camp

The mid-20th century is often considered the golden age of summer camps. During this time, camps became more accessible to middle-class families, and their popularity soared. Traditional camps offered a mix of outdoor adventures, sports, arts and crafts, and campfire rituals. Activities like canoeing, archery, and horseback riding became staples of the camp experience.

Camps also began to reflect broader societal trends. For example, the post-World War II era saw an emphasis on teamwork and patriotism, while the 1960s and 1970s brought a focus on individuality and self-expression. Specialty

camps, such as those focused on music, science, or sports, started to emerge, catering to specific interests and talents.

The Modern Era: Innovation and Inclusivity

In recent decades, summer camps have continued to evolve, driven by changes in technology, parenting styles, and cultural values. One of the most significant shifts has been the rise of specialty and themed camps. Today, campers can choose from a wide range of options, including coding camps, space exploration camps, and even culinary camps. These programs reflect the growing demand for experiences that align with children’s passions and future career aspirations.

Technology has also made its mark on the camp experience. While many camps still emphasize unplugging and connecting with nature, others have embraced technology as a tool for learning and creativity. For example, some camps now incorporate robotics, video game design, or digital storytelling into their programs.

Another important development is the increased focus on inclusivity and diversity. Modern camps strive to create welcoming environments for campers of all backgrounds, abilities, and identities. Many camps now offer scholarships, adaptive programs for children with disabilities, and culturally sensitive activities that celebrate diversity.

The Timeless Appeal of Camp

Despite these changes, the core essence of summer camp remains the same: it’s a place where kids can explore, grow, and create lasting memories. Whether it’s roasting marshmallows around a campfire, conquering a high ropes course, or simply making new friends, the magic of camp endures.

As we look to the future, summer camps will likely continue to evolve, incorporating new technologies and responding to societal shifts. Yet, one thing is certain: the spirit of camp—a place where kids can be themselves, try new things, and connect with others—will remain a timeless and cherished tradition.

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Top Tips for a Successful Parent-Teacher Conference

As the school year continues, many schools will hold one more parentteacher conference. As important as these meetings are, they’re sometimes unintentionally overlooked by parents. In fact, according to the National Center for Education Statistics, attendance for parent-teacher conferences falls dramatically through the grade levels—from 89 percent in K–2 to 57 percent in high school. Parents who don’t attend these meetings are missing out on pivotal information about their child’s school experience, experts say.

“These meetings help you understand what your child is learning at school, their academic and social-emotional progress and what you can do to support them,” the NYC Department of Education’s website states. “If your child is having particular difficulties, parent-teacher conferences also give you and the teacher time to plan how you can both help them best.”

Jamie Sandoval, project manager at AVID, a nonprofit that provides resources for schools and students, agrees. Parents who meet with their child’s teacher get a good understanding of their child’s progress in the classroom.

“Parent-teacher conferences allow us to immerse ourselves into a child’s whole school experience, while connecting with teachers, arguably some of the most influential people in a child’s life,” Sandoval said. “Too often both parents and teachers feel like they are working alone. These discussions not only help us as parents understand our child’s education, but also bond and build a strong relationship with their teachers. There is strong research that when both parents and teachers develop a strong relationship, the child is more likely to have improved academic achievement, social competencies and emotional well-being.”

The Parent-Teacher Conference: Elementary Vs High School Reports have shown that once a child reaches

high school, the number of parents going to open school nights drops. But Sandoval said parents shouldn’t discount the value of these conferences. If anything, these meetings get more important over time.

“Similar to conferences in elementary school, communicating with teachers can alert parents when their child is struggling, before the report cards hit home, or if they’re excelling in their class and need access to more rigorous content,” Sandoval said. “No matter what the situation is, parent-teacher conferences are a vital time of year that I encourage all parents to attend, from one dedicated parent to another.”

5 Tips For A Successful ParentTeacher Conference

The art of successfully navigating a parentteacher conference can be challenging. But there are many ways parents can achieve this. For starters, the DOE website includes a conversation guide parents can use during these meetings. Sandoval, who’s a mom herself, also shared a few tips for achieving a successful parent-teacher meeting:

1. Get Organized: Set Yourself And Your Child Up For Success

Have a notebook or binder for all things school related. This will turn into a treasure

chest of gems over time and allow you the opportunity to teach your child important organizational habits that will only make them more successful as students and future employees.

Include contact information, dates, who was present for meetings, learning outcomes and next steps. Bring the same notebook to every conference. It shows commitment to your child’s learning journey.

If a teacher, administrator or any other school staff promises something, reach out if you don’t get movement. Log the interaction and follow-up as you need to. This notebook will have meeting dates, important notes, discussion points, and decisions logged. If you need to follow-up, this resource will make it so easy to communicate every decision up to this point.

2. Be Intentional: Give Your

Child A Head Start

Work with your child before the new school year to set goals, expectations and what they hope to accomplish. Create goals for the year. They don’t need to only be academic. Include a goal for extracurricular activities or friendships. This is a fun thing to do with your child, especially as you move from year-to-year reflecting, refining and creating new goals.

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Elementary school students can begin with setting two or three goals a year. They can add to the number of goals as they progress to middle and high school. Collaborative goal setting allows the opportunity for meaningful and open conversations with your child about the things that matter most to them. Will it make the argument about homework disappear? Probably not. But it might make it an easier argument.

If there is something important to talk about with your child’s teacher, don’t wait for the school’s official parent-teacher conference dates to roll around. That schedule might not best meet the needs of your child. You can schedule a parent teacher conference anytime.

3. Language Matters: Choose Your Words Thoughtfully

Words matter because they convey emotions, ideas, and have different meanings for every person. Choose words that speak to collaboration and working as a team.

4. At Parent-Teacher Conferences, Sharing Is Caring

Take time to listen, really listen, to what this year’s teacher has to say. Their perspective is important because it is grounded in the present.

You have known your child longer and have a far better sense of who they are. Collaboration means sharing in the learning journey, learning what you can about your child from the perspective of their teacher is powerful. Take time to listen, really listen, to what this year’s teacher has to say. Their perspective is important because it is grounded in the present.

5. Trust Your Instincts: Be An Advocate For The Education Your Student Needs As parents and guardians, we have the opportunity to be the adult we needed

someone to be for us. If something feels off, it probably is. Don’t be afraid to push a little. It’s okay to ask questions and to ask follow-up questions.

You can also volunteer or visit the classroom if possible. Find out what resources are available on campus, in the district or community. Also, use your parent-teacher conference as a time to ask for the things you or your student need, like tutoring, testing accommodations, technology or language translation for the conference.

More importantly than any of these tips, Sandoval said, is the reminder that parentteacher conferences are an opportunity to collaborate with your child and teachers about where they are finding success and where they need support.

“The K-12 learning journey is a process that takes many years and the support of lots of adults to get every student ready for life after they graduate from high school,” Sandoval said. “Whether you are just beginning this journey or well on your way, using this time to partner with the educators in your child’s life is time well spent.”

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Books 16 Books to Celebrate Women’s History Month

While every day is a chance to celebrate the achievements of inspiring women, Women’s History Month and International Women’s Day on March 8th offer a special opportunity to reflect on the groundbreaking contributions women have made throughout history. We’ve shaped the world in countless ways and continue to do so every day.

Take some time with your kids this month to explore the incredible stories of women who’ve made a lasting impact. Here are some amazing books for all ages to celebrate, learn from, and be inspired by the women who have made history!

Think Big, Little One by Vashti Harrison

Ages baby to 3 years

This board book version of Little Dreamers: Visionary Women Around the World introduces young kids to eighteen inspiring women, from artist Mary Blair to activist Wangari Maathai. With colorful illustrations and simple text, it encourages little dreamers to think big and believe in their own potential.

Kamala Harris: Rooted in Justice by Nikki Grimes, Illustrated by Laura Freeman

Ages 3 to 10

to becoming the first woman, first Black person, and first South Asian American Vice President of the United States. It’s an inspiring story of perseverance and justice.

She Persisted: 13 American Women Who Changed the World by Chelsea Clinton and Illustrated by Alexandra Boiger

Ages 4 to 8

This picture book traces Kamala Harris’s journey from her childhood in Oakland

This book highlights thirteen American women who stood up for what was right, even when they were told to be quiet. Featuring figures like Harriet Tubman, Helen Keller, and Sonia Sotomayor, it’s a celebration of persistence and courage.

Hidden Figures: The True Story of Four Black Women and the Space Race

by Margot Lee Shetterly, Illustrated by Laura Freeman

Ages 4 to 8

This book tells the story of four Black women who overcame gender and racial barriers to contribute to NASA’s greatest achievements. It’s a powerful reminder of the impact of hard work and dedication.

Like a Girl by Lori Degman, Illustrated by Mara Penny

Ages 4 to 8

This book celebrates 24 women who defied odds and succeeded in their fields, from Rosa Parks to Sally Ride. It’s a vibrant tribute to girl power and perseverance.

I Am Jazz by Jessica Herthel and Jazz Jennings, Illustrated by Shelagh

McNicholas

Ages 4 to 8

This picture book shares the real-life experiences of Jazz Jennings, a transgender child and advocate. It’s a heartfelt story about being true to oneself.

March On! by Lucy Lang, Illustrated by Grace Lang

Ages 4 to 8

Written by NYS Inspector General

Lucy Lang, This book celebrates the 100th anniversary of the 19th Amendment, using vibrant rhymes and diverse illustrations inspired by the 1915 New York City women’s march to teach young children about activism and the power of collective action.

Jovita Wore Pants: The Story of a Mexican Freedom Fighter by Aida Salazar, Illustrated by Molly Mendoza

Ages 6 to 9

This true story follows Jovita, who defied societal expectations by wearing pants and fighting for religious freedom during the Cristero War. It’s a tale of courage and self-discovery.

I Dissent: Ruth

Bader Ginsburg Makes Her Mark by Debbie Levy and Illustrated by Elizabeth Baddeley

Ages 6 to 10

This biographical picture book explores Ruth Bader Ginsburg’s lifelong commitment to justice and her famous dissents. It’s an inspiring look at how disagreement can lead to change.

Good Night Stories for Rebel Girls (New Edition)

by Elena Favilli & Francesca Cavallo

Ages 8-12

This updated edition features over 100 stories of inspiring women, from Cleopatra to Greta Thunberg. Written as real-world fairy tales, it encourages young readers to dream big.

Amina’s Voice

by Hena Khan

Ages 8 to 12

This novel follows Amina, a young Pakistani American navigating middle school while dealing with identity, friendship, and community challenges. It’s a heartfelt story about finding one’s voice.

Inside Out & Back

Again

by Thanhhà Lai

Ages 9 to 12

Told in verse, this book follows a young girl fleeing Vietnam after the fall of Saigon. It’s a poignant story of resilience, grief, and new beginnings.

I am Malala: How One Girl Stood Up for Education and Changed the World

by Malala Yousafzai and Christina Lamb

Ages 12 and up

Malala Yousafzai’s memoir recounts her fight for girls’ education in Pakistan and her survival after being shot by the Taliban. It’s a powerful story of courage and advocacy.

Becoming by Michelle Obama

Ages 14 and up

Michelle Obama’s memoir takes readers through her journey from the South Side of Chicago to the White House. It’s an inspiring story of resilience, authenticity, and empowerment.

We Should All Be Feminists by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

Ages 16 and up

Adapted from her TED Talk, this essay explores modern feminism through Adichie’s personal experiences. It’s a compelling call to action for gender equality.

The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks by Rebecca Skloot

Ages 17 and up

This book uncovers the story of Henrietta Lacks, whose cells were taken without her knowledge and became crucial to medical breakthroughs. It’s a profound exploration of ethics, race, and science.

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Located at Snug Harbor Cultural Center, Art Lab Camp Picasso offers a creative summer program for children ages 6-12. Led by professional teaching artists, campers explore drawing, painting, sculpture, and more, creating exciting take-home artwork. Campers also enjoy nature and playtime on Snug Harbor’s scenic grounds. Flexible 2-10 week sessions are available, with full and half-day options. Additional programs include Camp Kandinsky for ages 3-5, Winter Immersion, and Kid’s Week.

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Children will enjoy trips to parks, roller skating, aquarium, Liberty Science Center,

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Unlock your child’s creativity at DEA Music & Art Summer Camp! From rocking out in a band to exploring visual arts and hands-on crafts, kids dive into a world of music, painting, and creative expression. These engaging programs build confidence, teamwork, and artistic skills in a fun, supportive environment. Whether your child loves music, art, or both, activities are customized to make the best of their interests, ensuring a unique and enriching experience.

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Join Staten Island’s Fastest Growing Camp! FSDC has gone from 25 kids in 2012 to well over 300 last year. FSDC’s strength is its extensive trip schedule with trips 3-4x per week. Camp favorites are Nickelodeon Universe, Keansburg, Six Flags, Medieval Times, Slime Museum & more. Free Lunch, Free Bus & Free extended hours (7am to 6PM). The home facility has 70+ arcade games, rides, laser tag and two full sized basketball courts.

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High Hopes is now accepting Summer Camp registration for children ages 2 to 6 years old. In this state-of-the-art facility, children will experience an array of activities including a Disney Party, Pajama Parties, Space Exploration and more. They also have an outdoor play area for outdoor activities. High Hopes is now celebrating 28 years of caring for the children of Staten Island. Become a part of the High Hopes family this summer.

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Marvin’s Camp provides an inclusive, supportive, and enriching summer experience for campers with special needs, ages 6 to 21.

Marvin’s Camp programs are designed to meet the unique needs of kids with special needs in a safe, social, and

creative environment. With low camper-to-staff ratios and highly experienced staff in special education, social work, and school psychology, campers receive individualized attention. Interviews are required for all new Marvin’s campers.

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Since 1995, Richmond County Day Camp has provided memorable summers to thousands of Staten Island children by specializing in creating a nurturing environment where campers make friends and build self-esteem. At the rustic, private facility, campers enjoy an exciting program of activities like swimming, sports, arts and crafts, fishing, fencing, yoga, dance, STEM and drama, with daily trips, themes,

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Learn to Skate & Learn to Play Hockey Summer Camp is designed for children ages 4 to 7. The program focuses on building ice skating fundamentals, improving balance, and introducing hockey skills or figure skating skills in a fun and supportive environment. Certified coaches will

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Experience one of the Island’s most sought after summer camp programs at Tender Care Preschool located at Mount Loretto. Offering 4- and 8-week full-day sessions, Tender Care Camp has something for everyone including an on-site sprinkler park, and weekly themes including space exploration, dinosaurs, and Disney. Limited space still available. Call or visit today.

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The Lost Stuffy Project

Helping kids reunite with cherished items lost in LA fires

In January of 2025, wildfires attacked the Greater Los Angeles area causing devastating impacts for many families. The fires burned more than 40,000 acres, destroying more than 12,300 structures, which includes the homes and possessions of many families.

After learning of the tragic Los Angeles fires, New Jersey mom of two Randi Jaffe asked herself what she would grab if she were in the situation where she had to evacuate.

She instantly thought of her child’s three-inch cheetah, the one she always said could never be replaced because no one knew where it came from. Randi shared her thoughts, saying, “Not only have these kids lost everything and any sense of normalcy, they don’t even have a comfort item to hold onto.”

Randi, alongside her sister-in-law Jenny Jaffe, decided to take action, creating The Lost Stuffy Project to reunite children with their comfort items.

Pairing Kids with Stuffies, One Post at a Time

The Lost Stuffy Project is a project dedicated to reuniting children with their stuffed animals, blankets and comfort items. Through their Instagram, @loststuffyproject, Randi and Jenny work with their followers to reunite children with these sentimental items lost in the LA fires.

The way it works is simple: People submit photos of the stuffed animal, blanket, or toy that’s gone missing to their Instagram. From there, the two sisters-in-law create a “wanted” post, asking their followers to help track down the lost item. The response has been amazing—people from all over the country are getting involved, donating to the cause, sleuthing online to find toys, or simply reposting to spread the word.

Randi Jaffe shared one of the amazing stories that have emerged from this business with New York Family of a young woman in college who reached out on behalf of her 7-year-old sister after their family home was burned down.

Her little sister’s pink bunny was about

Summer

The cozy giraffe in the office at Woodbury v illage Preschool is already providing a familiar and safe place for these sweet kids.

20 years old and came from the GAP, making it very difficult to track down.

The Lost Stuffy Project went full force searching for this bunny, posting and even contacting the GAP to search their archives. People were scouring from all over to locate the missing bunny.

The search eventually reached Reddit, a popular open forum social network, where it eventually reached a woman who owned the exact pink bunny from the GAP.

Although this was this woman’s personal comfort animal her entire life, even stating that this bunny had been with her through the hardest moments of her life, she was more than happy to give it to a child who had lost it.

g rayson reunited with his favorite stuffy
and her cherished alpaca finally reunited

This is the kindness and generosity The Lost Stuffy Project is all about.

Helping Schools Restore Comfort Items

The founders of The Lost Stuffy Project visited Woodbury Village Preschool where every toy, book and stuffed animal had tragically been destroyed in the fires. Through their project, they are using their platform to replace these comfort items in schools that students rely on. Randi told us, “Getting these kids back to school is so important, but it is also getting them back into an emotionally safe and comfortable place.”

Mother of two, Randi Jaffe, works as a Child Life Specialist and is passionate about raising awareness of the vital role these professionals play. She often refers to them as the unsung heroes of healthcare. Randi explained, “We support pediatric patients and kids who have or are experiencing traumatic events.”

Randi also works directly with children herself in the hospital and sees firsthand how

“Not only have these kids lost everything and any sense of normalcy, they don’t even have a comfort item to hold onto.”

much stuffed animals serve as a comfort to children and help ease their anxieties. She often works in the OR where she brings the children into the operating room. While the parents are not allowed back in the OR, stuffed animals and comfort items are!

Once the child falls asleep, Randi carefully takes the comfort item, holding it like it’s pure gold, so she can return it to the parents. She shared how much relief these comfort items bring, not just to the children, but also to the parents waiting in the waiting room, as she explains the rest of the procedure.

The Lost Stuffy Project even made it to the big stage! This year during the 2025 Grammy Awards, local businesses and

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relief programs were highlighted during commercial breaks in support of those affected by the LA fires. The Lost Stuffy Project was showcased in the commercial as the project was explained as, “replacing the irreplaceable”. The Jonas Brothers were featured in the commercial stating, “As dads, we love what the Lost Stuffy Project is doing, so we are donating our personal stuffy collection.” This commercial brought tons of several followers to the project and allowed more people to get involved.

These two moms are truly an inspiration, creating a project that has helped so many children reunite with their beloved toys, stuffed animals, and blankets. We’re grateful to The Lost Stuffy Project for sharing their incredible story with us.

You can help The Lost Stuffy Project by following them on Instagram, @ loststuffyproject, and then help share posts looking for stuffies of all kinds.

Check out their bio to donate money that aids in the purchasing and restoring of stuffies as well as the Woodbury Village Preschool wishlist.

Find Yourself at Art Lab this Spring

Spring Classes Begin April 6

Art Lab offers weekly art classes for all ages (3 and up) Including Creations, Young People’s Art, Pre-K Art, Afterschool Art, Intro to Sculpture, and more!

Fine Arts, Applied Arts, & Photography classes available for adults too. Register online or call us for more info.

Kids’ Week: April 14 - 18, 9 AM - 5 PM

Looking for a fun activity for your child to do during Spring Break? Send them to Kids’ Week at Art Lab! Full day & Half Day options available. Open to young artists ages 6 - 12. Your child will spend 5 days creating art and will try their hand at painting, drawing, sculpting, and more. Register online or call for more info.

Special Programs Available:

Gallery Events - No School Daze - Scholarships for classes Volunteer/Intern at Art Lab - Birthday Parties / Art for a Day

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March 31 & June 19

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PM: 12 PM - 1:30 PM

Free Art Workshops for ages 6 - 12

“In Search of Poems” Opening Reception: Saturday, March 15 2:00 PM - 4:00 PM

Registration is open for Camp Picasso & Camp Kandinsky. Register now or call for more info

8 Reasons to Choose a Charter School

You don’t have to be a huge fan to know Kendrick Lamar’s Super Bowl Halftime Show made history last month. If you are a fan, however, you might be aware that the five-time Grammy winner is the only rap artist to win a Pulitzer prize. But did you know that the brilliant lyricist earned his education at a charter school? Lamar has often spoken about how his education and upbringing shaped his music, which addresses themes of social justice, inequality, and personal growth. Many see his success as a testament to the impact of charter schools in underserved communities.

If you’re trying to figure out the difference between charter schools and public schools in New York, you’re not alone. Both are free, open to all students, and funded by taxpayers, but they operate in pretty different ways.

Traditional public schools are run by local school districts and must follow strict state rules about everything from curriculum to teacher certifications. Charter schools, on the other hand, are independently run by private organizations or nonprofits. They have more freedom to experiment with teaching methods and curricula, but they’re held accountable for meeting specific academic goals.

What are some reasons more and more parents are choosing a charter school education for their children? We’re sharing the top reasons below.

Flexibility and Innovation

One of the biggest benefits of charter schools is their ability to innovate. Unlike traditional public schools, which must follow strict state and district regulations, charter schools have the freedom to design their own curricula and teaching methods. This allows them to

experiment with approaches like projectbased learning, STEM-focused programs, or bilingual education. For example, some charter schools integrate technology into every aspect of learning, while others emphasize the arts or hands-on experiences. This flexibility can create a more engaging and personalized learning environment for students.

Smaller Class Sizes

Many charter schools pride themselves on offering smaller class sizes compared to traditional public schools. With fewer students per teacher, educators can give more individualized attention to each child. This can be especially beneficial for students who need extra support or those who thrive in a more intimate setting. Smaller classes also foster stronger relationships between teachers, students, and families, creating a tight-knit community.

High Academic Standards and Accountability

Charter schools are held to high academic standards and must meet specific performance goals outlined in their charter agreements. If they fail to deliver, they can be shut down. This accountability often drives charter schools to focus intensely on student achievement. Many charter schools, especially in urban areas, have been praised for helping underserved students achieve significant academic gains. For example, networks like Success Academy in New York have consistently outperformed traditional public schools on state tests.

Specialized Programs

Charter schools often cater to specific interests or needs, making them a great option for students with particular passions or goals. Whether it’s a focus on science and technology, performing arts, or college preparation, charter schools can offer programs that align with a student’s interests. This specialization can help students stay motivated and engaged in their education.

One of the biggest benefits of charter schools is their ability to innovate.

Parental Involvement

Charter schools often encourage strong parental involvement, which can be a huge benefit for families. Many charter schools require parents to sign agreements committing to participate in their child’s education, whether through volunteering, attending meetings, or supporting homework. This partnership between schools and families can create a more supportive and collaborative environment for students.

Serving Underserved Communities

Charter schools are often established in underserved areas where traditional public schools may struggle with resources or performance. By offering high-quality education in these communities, charter schools can provide opportunities for students who might otherwise be left behind.

Many charter schools also offer additional support services, such as tutoring, mentoring, and college counseling, to help students succeed.

Focus on College and Career Readiness

Many charter schools place a strong emphasis on preparing students for college and careers. They often offer rigorous academic programs, advanced placement courses, and partnerships with local businesses and colleges. Some charter schools even guarantee college acceptance for students who meet certain criteria, giving families peace of mind about their child’s future.

Choice for Families

Perhaps the most significant benefit of charter schools is the choice they provide. For families dissatisfied with their local public schools, charter schools offer an alternative that might better meet their child’s needs. This choice can be empowering, especially in areas where public schools are underperforming.

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Summer Rising 2025

Learn about this free summer program for NYC students

As the school year winds down, many NYC parents are already planning ahead for summer. One great option you may not have heard about is the free Summer Rising program. The program, a collaboration between New York City Public Schools (NYCPS) and the Department of Youth and Community Development (DYCD), is set to open its 2025 enrollment on March 4.

This program offers free summer enrichment for NYC students, including academic support and recreational activities. It’s designed to help students stay engaged and continue learning during the summer months.

It provides free educational opportunities that are accessible to all students, regardless of their academic standing or background, and is fine-tuned to support each child’s individual needs. It helps kids who need extra academic help, have special education needs or who would benefit from a fun and safe place to spend summer days.

What’s New in 2025?

Based on feedback from families, the 2025 Summer Rising program will include even more enrichment activities during the morning academic sessions. The hope is that students will have a more well-rounded day that not only supports their learning but also encourages creativity and curiosity in a fun and engaging way.

“Summer Rising is about creating an environment where students feel inspired, engaged, and supported,” Chancellor Melissa AvilesRamos of NYC Public Schools stated. “The program, emerging from the needs of students after the pandemic, is constantly evolving based on the feedback of our school communities. She continued, “That’s why this year, we’re enhancing the program by weaving in more enrichment activities during the academic day. We know that the learning experience extends beyond the classroom, and we’re committed to providing our students with a fun and educational summer that fosters curiosity, creativity, and a love of learning.”

Who Can Participate?

Any student attending school in New York City who is currently enrolled in Kindergarten through 8th grade for the 2024-2025 school year is eligible to apply and participate in the Summer Rising program if chosen. This includes students attending public schools, charter schools, and even those who are homeschooled. The program is designed to be accessible to all students within this age range, providing them with valuable summer enrichment opportunities to continue learning, grow, and have fun.

A Typical Day at Summer Rising

The program will be offered in all five boroughs at NYC public schools and will run from July 2 to August 15, 2025. For elementary school students (grades K-5), the program will run for seven weeks, while middle school students (grades 6-8) will participate for six weeks. The schedule will be Monday through Friday, from 8 am to 6 pm, with some programs having shorter days.

Each day at Summer Rising, students will experience a mix of academic support and enrichment activities. In the mornings, licensed teachers will lead academic sessions focused on English language arts and mathematics. For younger students (grades K-5), communitybased organizations (CBOs) will weave in enrichment activities, such as arts, sports, and outdoor play, alongside academics.

In the afternoon, students will continue with enrichment sessions led by CBO staff, giving them the opportunity to explore new interests, stay active, and enjoy a variety of creative activities.

Also, multilingual learners (MLs) and English language learners (ELLs) will get extra academic support to help with language and literacy skills. This support is designed to meet their specific needs and ensure they’re getting the help they need to succeed. Whether through small-group or one-on-one instruction, students will receive personalized, culturally responsive learning experiences that focus on their strengths and growth.

Parents can have peace in knowing that their children will be in a safe, supportive environment, with staff trained to meet their social, emotional, and academic needs. With free breakfast, lunch, and snacks provided, it’s a convenient option for families throughout the city.

How to Apply

Summer Rising 2025 will open for applications on March 4, and close on March 28. Parents can apply through the MySchools platform, and results will be released in April. Families will be given a deadline to either accept or decline their placement once offers are made.

For more details on how to apply, visit nyc.gov/SummerRising.

Crayon Comeback

Crayola announces temporary return of popular retired shades

Crayola has been a staple of childhood memories for over 120 years. For generations, children have carefully been selecting the perfect shades to express themselves when creating original art or filling out the pages of a coloring book. Hearts don’t always have to be red, clouds don’t always have to be white, and grass doesn’t always have to be green when armed with 148 colors in the Crayola spectrum ranging from classic Red to Jazzberry Jam.

Crayola has inspired creativity since their first box of crayons was released in 1903. Since then, the brand has grown to include numerous art tools, a variety of activity sets, and toys created to inspire children to take their ideas beyond paper.

Since the establishment of Crayola as the premiere tool for coloring, the company has produced hundreds of shades, with many being retired. But, due to popular demand, some very special colors are back for a limited time!

This is the first time in its 122-year history that Crayola has ever un-retired colors, welcoming back Dandelion (deep yellow), Blizzard Blue (frosty light blue), Magic Mint a soft light green), Mulberry

(pinkish purple), Orange Red (a deep orange with red overtones), Violet Blue (a deep shade of blue with shades of violet), Lemon Yellow (bright yellow) and Raw Umber (woodsy brown) to their rotation of magnificent colors. Some of these iconic shades haven’t been available since you were a kid, and now parents can share these nostalgic hues with their own little ones.

Special Limited Edition Retired Colors 8-Count sets include colored crayons, pencils, markers, as well as activity kits, themed coloring books, and other special surprises that will be coming your way.

“As a first in the history of Crayola, we could not be more excited to bring back this beloved Limited Edition color collection that will give kids even more opportunities to colorfully put their imagination into action,” says Victoria Lozano, Crayola Chief Marketing Officer. “Color has such a personal connection for kids of all ages. It plays a pivotal role in inspiring creativity, which is an integral catalyst for educational, emotional and cognitive growth. At Crayola, we celebrate the enduring value of childhood creativity to help kids reach their full potential, and we look forward to seeing the Limited Edition colors inspire even more creative moments for our fans.”

Crayola’s color comeback won’t stop with special sets. Look out for Crayola collaborations with top clothing and lifestyle brands like denim legend Lee, colorful makeup carrying case Caboodles, famed eco-friendly container brand S’well and more during this year-long celebration.

As we all know, coloring isn’t just for kids; it’s for the whole family to enjoy. Remember the adult coloring book fad of 2015? Break them out because parents love to color, too! Grab a set of these spectacular colors and share some old favorites with the kids. It’s a wonderful opportunity to get the whole family to the table for some screen free-time to color, create, bond and imagine together.

There are many benefits to this type of family activity for young children. According to Color Psychology.org, this includes boosting fine motor skills, improving color recognition as they chose their shades, the development of patience and perseverance as children see their creations come to life on a page, as well as offering a calming outlet to relieve stress and anxiety (definitely a benefit for grown-ups too).

To learn more about this special collection and other Crayola products visit them on their website at crayola.com, on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, and YouTube.

Anne Frank The Exhibition

The Center for Jewish History unveils an immersive and deeply moving new view into the teenager’s short life

As the grandchild of four Holocaust survivors, I know how blessed I am to be here today knowing that I easily could not be. I don’t know why my grandparents weren’t one of the six million Jews who were killed, a fate which sadly befell their parents and most of their siblings, aunts, uncles and cousins, but I am forever grateful they were spared and that I am able to continue carrying on their legacy today.

Part of that legacy is never forgetting what happened to my ancestors, and to ensure that the world doesn’t forget either, so history does not repeat itself. The only way to prevent another Holocaust is by learning from the past, and the new Anne Frank The Exhibition at the Center for Jewish History in Manhattan teaches visitors powerful lessons that they’ll never forget.

Anne Frank The Exhibition opened to the public on January 27, 2025 in conjunction with International Holocaust Remembrance Day and to commemorate the 80th anniversary of the liberation of Auschwitz. This limited run is presented by the Anne Frank House in Amsterdam, which is housed in the actual annex where the Frank family hid. This is the first time that some of these artifacts have been seen outside of the Anne Frank House, and many have never been

viewed in public before.

The full-scale model of the Annex, where Anne Frank, her parents and sister, and four others spent two years hiding to evade Nazi capture, invites visitors to get to know Anne the person, and not just Anne the Holocaust victim.

The immersive experience takes visitors on a narrated timeline, via personal handheld devices, from when Anne’s parents were married all the way through their capture and deportation to the Auschwitz Concentration

Camp, then to the later publication and accolades Anne’s diary eventually received.

The exhibit features sound, pictures, animation, and more than 100 original collection items from the Anne Frank House, as well as some of the only video footage captured of the teen.

The recreated annex allows visitors a peek into the small living spaces, including bedrooms and a kitchen, that served as the main gathering area during the Frank family’s time hiding from the Nazis. All of the windows are covered in a dark fabric to keep from being seen, just as it was then. The room where Anne stayed is hauntingly similar to that of a typical teenage girl today, with a desk and pictures on the wall of her interests and celebrities.

Who was Anne Frank?

Annelies Marie Frank, born to parents Otto and Edith Frank, was a Jewish citizen of Germany until she and her family were forced to flee their home once Adolf Hitler and his Nazi party came to power in the 1930’s.

All photos by John Halpern

Anne’s father had moved his wife and two daughters to the Netherlands after Hitler enacted discriminatory laws preventing Jews from living freely in Germany. Eventually Hitler’s power spread across Europe and the

Netherlands was no longer safe, as Jews were rounded up and deported to Concentration Camps there too. After Anne’s 16-year-old sister was summoned to report to a Nazi work camp, the family went into hiding. Two years

later, Nazi officers were tipped off and the Frank family was sent to Auschwitz where Anne, along with her mother and sister, tragically perished. Her father was the only surviving member of the Frank family.

The Diary of Anne Frank

Anne spent a lot of her time reading and writing, and dreamed of becoming a published author. After the war ended, her father was gifted with the now-famous journal she had managed to save when the Nazi’s ransacked the hidden annex. Anne had received the red checkered autograph book from her father as a present on her 13th birthday. At the time, no one could have predicted this gift would be used to document her time in hiding. She had asked for it because of her aspirations to become a writer someday. And she did; just sadly not the way she imagined.

Otto Frank fulfilled his daughter’s wish and had her journal published as a nonfiction book titled The Diary of a Young Girl in 1948. He probably never imagined his daughter’s words would move millions around the globe. The book went on to become a bestseller, published in over 75 languages, and is still required reading in many classrooms today. You can read the diary in its entirety for free online at a website that publishes old books, like archive.org.

This tragic story of a brave young Jewish girl now serves as both a historical document and a reminder to never forget. With the recent rapid rise in antisemitism, it is now more important than ever to revisit this chapter in history to ensure an atrocity like the Holocaust isn’t even remotely close to repeating. I owe it to my ancestors - and to all of those lost - to do my part in sharing it.

Anne Frank The Exhibition was originally slated to run for just three months, but after tickets sold out within a week of opening, it was extended through October 31, 2025. The exhibition is recommended for ages 10 and older, although families are welcome to bring children of all ages. It takes approximately one hour to explore. Tickets start at $24 for adults and $17 for kids (17 and under) Monday through Friday; $31 for adults and $24 for kids on Sundays. Family tickets are also available. The Center for Jewish History is located at 15 West 16th Street (between 5th and 6th Avenues) in lower Manhattan.

Go to annefrankexhibit.org for more information and to book your tickets, which must be purchased in advance.

GettinG Real

Bronx mom Rosdaly Ramirez on becoming a SAHM, babywearing, career shifts and finding her village

Four years ago, Bronx mom of three Rosdaly Ramirez finished her last semester of graduate school with baby #2 in tow – during a pandemic. A month later, she made the tough choice to put her career on hold and become a stay-at-home mom. For three years, she navigated the grief of saying goodbye to something she never thought she could achieve, while at the same time embracing a new role in motherhood she never knew she needed.

Throughout her time as a SAHM, Rosdaly began creating content about motherhood and parenting life, and to the shock of no one, her videos resonated deeply with other moms. Authenticity surely played a major role when Rosdaly amassed a sizable social media following, a community of strong, like-minded, empathetic women to share highs and lows with. A visit to her Instagram page (@iamrosdalyramirez) reveals a colorful mishmosh of empowering thoughts on motherhood and married life, mixed in with more lighthearted content like apartment redecorating tips and exciting places to the kids in the city.

Rosdaly made another difficult decision recently, opting to return to work, starting a whole new career as a mental health therapist. I sat down with the Bronx native to chat about this big change in her life and the journey that led her there.

Looking back, what was the hardest part about making the decision to pause your career for motherhood?

The identity shift. For a long time, I prided myself on being a working mom. I was at the peak of my career—I had just graduated from grad school, my job offered me a raise that doubled my previous salary, and I finally felt like all the hard work I put into earning my Master’s was paying off. I remember the week I graduated, so many of my classmates were sharing their next steps, and I turned off my camera (we were in the

pandemic) and began to weep.

I felt so much shame admitting that I was going to transition to being a stay-at-home mom. I spent my last semester breastfeeding while writing papers, changing diapers, and showing up to class—and that was celebrated. But the moment I couldn’t or didn’t want to do both, it felt like the applause stopped. Suddenly, I was one of those moms people ask, “What do you do all day?” That first year, I grieved a lot, but I also bloomed into a mom I never knew I could be.

What do you wish more people understood about a career pause or the choice of going back to work as a mom?

We don’t talk enough about the sacrifices moms make. I’ve navigated both sides of this. People often assume that stay-at-home moms are privileged enough to make that choice or that working moms freely choose to return to their careers. But the truth is, many stay-athome moms choose to be home with their kids over their careers, even if it means cutting back financially—which, in a city like NYC, is incredibly hard. Many can’t afford childcare, and while there are low-cost or free early childhood programs, the requirements often mean you have to be living in poverty to qualify.

Many moms don’t have a village and can’t afford to pay for one. There’s no affordable preschool, after-school care, or babysitting money. And let’s not even get started on how trauma impacts the way you seek outside support. Many moms rely on government assistance (as they should), and they don’t live in brownstones or houses—they live in regular apartments, just like me. The same goes for moms who work outside the home but wish they could stay home with their kids. They often don’t have a choice; they need to work to support their families.

You’ve built a strong community both online and in person—how did that start, and what keeps you motivated to continue?

When I first became a mom, I had two

mom friends, but they were stay-at-home moms, and I was working. I was also experiencing a lot of anxiety and sadness that I couldn’t understand. It was the most beautiful season of my life, yet I was depressed. I started sharing online about motherhood and the thoughts I was having, hoping someone could relate. Slowly, moms began following me and messaging me about their own experiences. It’s crazy how often we think we’re the only ones struggling. I became friends with many of these moms, and my online community kept growing. What’s kept me sharing for so long is knowing that other people feel encouraged—but really, they’re the ones encouraging me. I don’t always know what I’m doing as a mom—ha! It’s been seven years, and it feels like I’m learning something new every day. What I do know is that moms need community, whether they find it online or in real life. It helps you feel seen. I’m working on launching an in-person community for moms this year, and I can’t wait to see the village that grows from it.

Motherhood can be overwhelming. What are some ways you take care of your own mental health while supporting others?

Motherhood is overwhelming—it’s a feeling I’m still trying to navigate, and I’m a therapist! Even therapists that are moms struggle. What really changed for me was pinpointing what parts of motherhood make me feel overwhelmed. Identifying those triggers made it easier to communicate what I needed.

Here’s the truth: you have to communicate what you need. In this season of life, it’s really hard for me to go outside with all three kids alone. The times I’ve tried, I’ve had the worst anxiety. I remember texting my husband and saying, “New rule: I either bring two kids outside, or it’s all three and I need help.” I wouldn’t have done that three years ago. Yes, pushing through is good, but knowing your limits is also healthy. Sometimes you have to be okay with not meeting other people’s expectations or doing

what you see other moms do, even if you’re drowning.

More practical ways I take care of myself include setting boundaries around my alone time. During postpartum, I also had a “shower every day” rule—sometimes

even the baby joined me. The goal was to feel refreshed and nurtured. Eating, drinking water, and staying connected to my community go a long way in supporting my mental health, so I make those things part of my routine.

How did baby-wearing help you through postpartum depression, and what do you wish more moms knew about it?

Oh man, it healed me so much. I had a NICU baby who was only four pounds, so I couldn’t wear him until he met the weight requirement for carriers. It wasn’t until he was two and a half months old that he finally fit into one. He had other health struggles, so I avoided it for a while. At four months, I started wearing him, and something clicked. It was the only time I wasn’t anxious, which encouraged me to leave the house more and have little city adventures with him. Bonding with him in that way allowed me to enjoy motherhood in a way I couldn’t before. I wish more NYC moms would baby-wear. The city is still trying to become more baby-friendly, and baby-wearing makes it so much easier to get around. I teach a free baby-wearing class through a Bronx organization, and I love teaching moms about why they should wear their babies and the history behind it.

What advice would you give to moms who are struggling with their identity while raising their children?

Learn to be grounded in the identity you give yourself, not the one others or society gives you. Some seasons, you’ll feel like “just a mom.” Other seasons, you’ll feel like “yourself again.”

It takes time to embrace the shift. The important thing is not to let what you’re doing define who you are. I really dislike terms like “working mom,” “stay-at-home mom,” or “crunchy mom.” There’s something about these labels that create division, which I think contributes to the struggles and judgment mothers often experience. We’re all moms, just mothering differently and in different seasons. When you compare yourself to other moms or feel like you’re not enough, you’ll struggle with your identity. There’s a lot of beauty in rediscovering who you are now as a parent— embrace it.

What’s a moment in your motherhood journey that makes you feel proud of YOU?

Anytime I do something I told myself I would never do, it gives me a sense of pride as a mom. It’s the small and big moments— whether it’s the first time I left the house alone with all the kids or earning my Master’s with a toddler and a baby.

Read the full version of this article at newyorkfamily.com. Follow Rosdaly Ramirez on Instagram @iamrosdalyramirez.

Photo by Yumi Matsuo

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Family Painting

Saturday, March 1, 10 am – 11 am Tottenville Library, 7430 Amboy Road

Ages 5 and up Free

What better way to connect with your family than by working together to create art? Spend the morning bonding and painting together.

Lego Letterpress

Workshop with Old Town Press

Sunday, March 2, 1 pm – 3 pm

Historic Richmond Town, 441 Clarke Ave

All Ages

$10

Letterpress is a form of relief printmaking that uses a printing press and typesetting individual letters to create words and designs for printed media. Under the instruction of James Alcorn from Old Town Press, participants will be using Legos to create their own designs and print them on paper.

Huguenot Park Kidz Craft Club

Monday, March 3, 11 am – 11:30 am Huguenot Park Library, 830 Huguenot Avenue

All Ages

Free

Create a fun and easy Hungry Caterpillar craft!

Bird and Nature Walk: Silver Lake Park

Wednesday, March 5, 10 am – 12pm

Silver Lake Park, Forest Avenue and Silver Lake Park Road

All Ages

Admission (suggested): Adults: $8

Students and Seniors: $5 Children 2

– 12: $2 Museum Members: Free

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Join naturalists Ed Johnson and Ray Matarazzo with Director of Natural Science Colleen Evans on guided walks through the borough of parks, participants will check the reservoirs for late wintering waterfowl, as well as the plantings around the park for songbirds.

Women in Science

Spotlight: elizabeth Knight Britton

Saturday, March 8, 2 pm – 3 pm

Staten Island Museum, 1000 Richmond Terr.

All Ages

$5

During a time when women in science were rare, Elizabeth Knight Britton was an expert in bryology, the study of mosses. Learn about Elizabeth’s influence on science in Staten Island and New York City and what makes a moss, a moss! Join Col-

leen Evans, Director of Natural Science to learn more.

Bilingual Birdies Brings Music and Dance to the Museum

Saturday, March 8, 4 pm – 4:45 pm

Staten Island Children’s Museum, 1000 Richmond Terrace

Ages 3-9

Free with admission: $8 NYC’s best Latin musicians, puppeteers, and early educators create an intergenerational experience for little ones and the adults who love them. Get ready to celebrate diversity while you jump, clap, spin, and laugh in this super fun bilingual performance!

St. Patrick’s Day Crafting Hour

Thursday, March 13, 3:30 pm –4:30 pm

Tottenville Library, 7430 Amboy

Road

Ages 5-12

Free

A fun and festive St. Patrick’s day craft and story!

‘Neath the Celtic Moon

Saturday, March 15, 2 pm – 5 pm

The Noble Maritime Collection, 1000 Richmond Terrace

All Ages

Pay what you wish

Join programs highlighting the arts and culture of Ireland! Author and musician Bob Wright will entertain audiences of all ages with his guitar and passages from the book, and artist Keri Sheheen will discuss her creative process and the influences on her illustrations.

Sesame Street Live! Say

Hello

Saturday, March 15, 2 pm

St. George Theatre, 35 Hyatt St.

s esame street Live! s ay Hello visits the st. g eorge t heatre on March 15.

All Ages

$39 – $69

Elmo, Abby Cadabby, Cookie Monster, and their friends from Sesame Street will be coming to the neighborhood to say hello! In Sesame Street Live! Say Hello, attendees can sing, dance, and play alongside their favorite furry friends while following Elmo’s puppy, Tango, in a fun game of hide and seek. This allnew celebration on Sesame Street invites everyone to put on their dancing shoes and join the fun in a place where the air is sweet!

Irish Step Dancing with Dawn Daniels

Saturday, March 15, 4 pm – 4:50 pm

Staten Island Children’s Museum, 1000 Richmond Terrace

Included with admission: $8 Watch former North American Irish Dance Champion Dawn Daniels perform traditional reels and demonstrate musical instruments such as the pixie harp and bodhran, then jump to your feet for a jig lesson and finish with an Irish dance party!

Showtime at The Museum: Moving Pictures and Music!

Sunday, March 16, 11 am – 1:45 pm

Staten Island Children’s Museum, 1000 Richmond Terrace

11:00am – 11:45pm (2–4-year-olds) 1:00pm – 1:45pm (5–10-year-olds)

Free with admission: $8

Take a tour of the “Mainstages Museum of Moving Pictures and Music.” Museum participants will discover interesting videos and music while bringing history to life through movement, music, improv, and critical thinking activities inspired by global cultures.

Teen Drawing Workshop

Sunday, March 16, 2 pm – 4 pm

Staten Island Museum, 1000 Richmond Terr. Teens

Free admission for students with ID

Develop your skills or start from scratch in this hands-on drawing workshop. Participants will work from a dynamic still life installation including taxidermy, fungi, and other specimens from the museum’s natural science collection.

Signs of Spring Walk

Thursday, March 20, 1 pm – 2:30 pm

Snug Harbor Cultural Center & Botanical Garden, 1000 Richmond Terr.

All Ages

$10: Student/Senior: $9: Snug Harbor Members: $9

Discover the joy of new life and growth at Snug Harbor when spring is arriving! We will explore the forest, wetlands, and

gardens. Look for witch hazel, snow drops, crocus, and possibly skunk cabbage.

Button and Jewelry Making Workshop

Thursday, March 20, 4 pm – 5 pm

Dongan Hills Library, 1617

Richmond Road

Ages: 12-17

Free

Join on the third Wednesday of every month to create your own buttons or jewelry. You can create something different each time you come to show off your own personal style! Light refreshments will also be served.

She’s On Point

Saturday, March 22, 11 am – 2 pm

Greenbelt Recreation Center, 501 Brielle Ave.

All Ages

Free

Join Staten Island Recreation for a She’s on Point event in celebration of National Girls & Women in Sports Day. We’ll have sports clinics in flag football, basketball, pickleball, fitness hula hoops, and Double Dutch, as well as a fitness class. Plus, the NYC Parks Robotics team will perform a live demonstration.

Tree Mulching Workshop

Saturday, March 22, 12:30 pm – 1 pm

Snug Harbor Cultural Center & Botanical Garden, 1000 Richmond Terr.

All Ages

Free

Trees need your love and respect! Learn how to give them some TLC by mulching them appropriately at the Tree Mulching Workshop. While you’re here, pick up some compost to mulch your own trees!

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Ultimate Summer Program & activity expo

Sunday, March 30, 12pm – 3 pm

College Of Staten Island Sports And Recreation Center, 2800 Victory Boulevard

All Ages

Free

The Camp Fair and Activity Expo is a day of fun and experiential activities for the whole family. Kids can play and participate in fun activities and parents can meet many Camp exhibitors, such as day, sleepaway and specialty camps. Expect games, raffles, arts & crafts, face painting, balloon animals, music and much more. Reserve your tickets in advance.

t he staten island children’s Museum presents s howtime at t he Museum: Moving Pictures and Music on March 16.
Bilingual Birdies brings music and dance to the staten island children’s Museum on March 8.

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