Shell Point Life October 2019 by Shell Point Retirement Community

October 2019 Vol. 14 Issue 10

Fine and Performing Arts Series Announced

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Dear friend, I pray that you may enjoy good health and that all may go well with you, even as your soul is getting along well.

– 1 Chronicles 16:11

It’s October!

October is a wonderful time for new residents who move into the community. The weather is starting to cool off, many of the residents who travel during the summer are returning, and the community is buzzing with activity as special interest groups resume their regular programming.

Hustle and Bustle

Shell Point is preparing for another busy season and staff are working hard to make this the best season yet. From paddleboarding adventures planned offered by Wellness Connection (page 10) to a series of free outdoor concerts (page 29) and a lighthearted fashion show (page 15), there’s plenty to fill your social calendar. Music lovers won’t want to miss the new lineup for the Shell Point Fine and Performing Arts Series, which includes three distinct musical series and the best that Shell Point artists and artisans have to offer. Details are located on page 8.

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Beginning on page 31, Director of Spiritual Services Sunny Torres provides a look into the chaplaincy program at Shell Point, introducing its seven resident volunteer chaplains and explaining how these supportive individuals help lift the spirits of their fellow neighbors.

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There’s a song in the hearts of Neil and Mary Esther Fichthorn (Lucina), who met in college and bonded their shared love of music. Read about this harmonious couple’s musical journey together, which begins on page 4. 2

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Shell Point Life is published monthly for the residents of Shell Point Retirement Community. Director of Marketing & Communications Lynn Schneider Editor Sarah Nadal Creative Director Rich Cerrina Senior Designer Wendy Iverson Contributors Robyn Church, Beth Crenshaw, Sue Earnhardt, Claude Emler, Ann Erickson, Maria Festa, Marilynn Fowler, Christina Grochowski, Kirk Gulledge, Janine Hammond, Craig Handel, Lilli Honc, Gabriella Kelly, Teri Kollath, Erica May, Ginny Miller-Plaza, Dianne Morton, Steve Morton, Wendy Perera, Don Pullen, Ashley Robbin, Emily Rose, Laura Slack, Adam Thompson, Monica Tison, Michelle Tompkins, Sunny Torres, Dottie Tronnes, Susan Uhleman, Peggy Zimmerman Do you have story ideas or photos to share? Contact Editor Sarah Nadal by calling (239) 454-2055 or emailing sarahnadal@shellpoint.org Shell Point Life Available Online You can find the current issue as well as back issues of Shell Point Life magazine at www.shellpoint.org/shellpointlife.

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Don’t Miss the Vision 2020 Kickoff Picnic The future is bright for healthcare at Shell Point! Head to Serenity Cove on Thursday, November 14 from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. as Shell Point kicks off the Vision 2020 Campaign for Waterside Health Center with an old-fashioned picnic, hosted by the Legacy Foundation. Residents are welcome to enjoy the afternoon with neighbors and friends, while celebrating the launch of this exciting project! Mountain Faith Band A delicious meal of fried receive the correct meal, please bring your chicken, coleslaw, potato salad, corn muffins and fresh fruit will be pro- ticket to the picnic and show it to your vided by The Crystal staff. A vegan meal server. You’ll want to save room for a seaoption will also be available for those with sonal dessert that will be presented at the dietary restrictions. When signing up for end of the meal. Moving forward in faith, Shell Point this event, let your concierge know which meal option you prefer. To ensure that you will be celebrating this special occasion

with entertainment provided by Summer Brooke & The Mountain Faith Band. An exclusive invitation will arrive in your mailbox in mid-October. Pick up your free ticket at any concierge desk so that event staff can prepare for your attendance. Parking and Transportation

A big turnout is expected at this event, and parking at Serenity Cove will be limited. Therefore, residents are encouraged to use Shell Point bus transportation, which will circulate throughout the neighborhoods to shuttle residents to the picnic. Those who live in the nearby Garden and Midrise courts are encouraged to walk, if possible.

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A VISION OF EXCELLENCE FOR THE FUTURE OF HEALTHCARE AT SHELL POINT

Save the Dates! VISION 2020 INFORMATION SESSIONS Learn about the exciting vision for a new era of healthcare excellence. Wednesday, October 23 • 11 a.m. AND Thursday, November 7 • 10 a.m.

VISION 2020 CAMPAIGN LAUNCH PICNIC Thursday, November 14 • 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. Don’t Miss the Event of the Year!

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Making

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Music Together

More than 60 years ago, Mary Esther and Neil Fichthorn (Lucina) met in college. After their first date, Neil returned to his dorm where he quite accurately predicted to his roommate, “I just dated the girl that I’m going to marry.” As the lovebirds held hands and walked life’s journey together, Neil became a conductor and Mary Esther became his pianist. This marriage of their talents has led the duo to create a wonderful symphony of sound and word that has impacted hundreds of young musicians over the years. The couple has collaborated on countless concerts and church services, from small places of worship to auditoriums that seated thousands. Today, the couple’s melodies still ring loud and clear. Continued on next page

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Before their paths crossed to form a beautiful harmony, Neil and Mary Esther each developed strong foundations in music. Mary Esther started playing piano by ear at age 4. Her mother provided her with music lessons until Mary Esther accelerated so well that she started playing at her country church, Dairy Dale Baptist, in Cedar Rapids, Iowa, at the young age of 11. “I accompanied the morning and evening services, and at prayer meetings,” said Mary Esther. At age 15, Mary Esther played Grieg’s Concerto in A Minor for her recital with her teacher playing the orchestral part. This was done at Coe College in Cedar Rapids, Iowa. Shortly after, she attended Hampden DuBose Academy boarding school in Zellwood, Florida and for two years took lessons from the president’s wife. Neil’s musical introduction literally came by accident. “I fell off a wall and broke my arm at the elbow joint, which they put in a cast. I learned that I would never be able to fully extend that arm again,” recalled Neil. “The orthopedic surgeon told my mother one of the best things I could do to improve my range of motion was finger exercises and piano lessons would be good for this. I found it came easily. I seemed to have a sense for it.” A year later, Neil set his sights on the school band and decided to play the trumpet. “The band director said, ‘I have enough trumpets, but I need clarinets.’ So I bought a metal clarinet for $15 and joined the band.” Because Neil still wanted to play trumpet, he took on a paper route so that he could afford to buy one. He soon added to his collection with a trombone and tenor saxophone, all of which he learned to play on his own. 6

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Neil’s interest in music eventually led him to a Bible camp held at Pinebrook Bible Conference, located in the Pocono Mountains of Pennsylvania. There, he met Percy Crawford, an evangelist with an interest in television and radio. “Percy created ‘Youth on the March,’ a television program that was broadcast on two different networks between October 1949 and June 1953. It was the first coast-to-coast religious telecast,” said Neil. “WFIL in Philadelphia picked it up,” he added. “I didn’t play, but I sang first tenor on the program. We did several songs each week.” Choral music was produced differently in those days. “Back then, almost nothing was published, Neil explained. “A gentleman who did the arranging for the orchestra and male chorus was a friend of mine, so I would copy parts and hand them out to sing and play. We started rehearsals around 5 p.m. or so, and the program would be telecast at 9 p.m.”

Neil and Mary Esther worked handin-hand for more than 60 years to provide music for hundreds of concerts and church services.

Around this time, televisions were just beginning to gain popularity. “My family bought a television set so they could watch me,” remembered Neil. At Pinebrook, there was the opportunity to edit and arrange music for publication with the Pinebrook Music Book Series. “They were used as the standards in evangelical circles for a number of years,” he said.

When a friend was drafted into the armed services, Neil began choir directing – all before graduating from high school. He continued his association with Percy Crawford when he attended The King’s College in Delaware, which the evangelist had founded. In his fourth year at The King’s College, which had moved to New York, Neil met the woman who helped his musical career flourish. “Mary Esther became a major part of my life from our first date,” he said. “She accompanied me for my senior recital. She’s a special lady and it didn’t take long to know she’d be accompanying me for life.”

Crafting a Harmony

When Mary Esther’s parents moved their family from Iowa to Washington, D.C., the talented piano player applied to The King’s College. About a week after her arrival, she met Neil. “We freshmen girls came to audition for choir, and he was a senior,” recalled Mary Esther. “I was auditioning for choir and he was one of those assisting with the tryouts.” The two immediately hit it off, but didn’t date until about five months later. Then on January 15, 1956, which was Neil’s 21st birthday, the two went on their first date and Neil was struck with the revelation that this was the girl he would one day marry. Meanwhile, Mary Esther went to Oregon with her parents for their annual summer gathering. When her father took a job in Seattle, they encouraged her to live closer to family and attend Whitworth College in Spokane, Washington. Mary Esther and Neil wrote letters, but broke up after a few months and saw other people. “Once I knew I would be coming back East in June, I wrote a letter to Neil, saying I’d like to see him,” Mary Esther said. “About the same time, he wrote to me.” Neil added, “Our letters had crossed in the mail. What can I say? She always was on my mind.” That summer at Pinebrook, having airline tickets in hand to go back out West for college, Mary Esther decided to stay in the East to date Neil. The couple married nearly a year later, on May 31, 1958.

Building the Repertoire

Neil earned his master’s degree at Columbia University by playing an instrument from every family: piano, clarinet and sax for woodwinds, trumpet and trombone for the brass section, and bass for strings. Mary Esther kept playing the piano. Since she didn’t learn music theory early in her life, Neil had to help her find what note to start her music in. “Once she started playing from any given note, she would do fine,” he said. “And when Mary Esther learned proper music theory, she just took off. It’s like learning to read – very achievable when you already know the English language. She just had to learn to read.” Neil became a public-school music consultant in Levittown, Pennsylvania, and then earned an invitation to lead the choir at Calvary Baptist Church in Bristol, Pennsylvania as Mary Esther accompanied him on piano. This introduced them to composer John Peterson, who had a major influence on evangelical Christian music in the 1950s through the 1970s. John and Neil worked on 29 concerts together. “We invited area church choirs

to join our choir for the concerts,” he said. “We also worked in concert halls like Lyric Opera House in Baltimore, Heinz Hall in Pittsburgh and the Convention Hall and The Academy of Music in Philadelphia.” One of Mary Esther and Neil’s favorite memories is from the time they performed with a 200-voice choir dressed in red, white and blue at The Academy of Music in Philadelphia for the country’s bicentennial in 1976. But the two also thoroughly enjoyed their 25 years in music at Sandy Cove Bible Conference in Maryland. The musicians were college students selected for their musical abilities. There were approximately 30 vocalists, three trumpets, two French horns, two trombones, tuba, percussion and keyboard. Each Saturday evening for 10 weeks in the summer, a brand-new concert was presented by memory. Crowds were usually in the vicinity of 800 to 1,000. After 15 years at Sandy Cove, the music-making duo was called to Gull Lake Bible and Missionary Conference in Michigan for five years where they introduced a similar music program to the one at Sandy Cove. After this, they returned to Sandy Cove where Neil was CEO and director for 10 years. Music was always an integral part

of the ministry and a strong incentive for attendance. As a minister of music, Neil liked working with pastors. “When they told us what the topic of their Sunday message would be, I would use music that complemented their theme,” said Neil.

A Musical Retirement

Eventually, it became time to retire after a memorable and rewarding career, and years working and performing at churches in Delaware, Pennsylvania, New York, Michigan and Florida. While the couple has worked with nationally known composers, what’s most evident upon meeting them is the deep respect and appreciation they’ve cultivated for each other. From working so closely together, Neil said he could give his wife a glance during a song and she knew exactly what he wanted. After all those times looking over at Mary Esther while conducting concerts and church services, Neil has arrived at one inescapable conclusion, “The Lord matched us up to work together.” “With Mary Esther by my side, wherever that happens to be, life is perfect. And that’s what made it so fun.” Shell Point Life | October 2019

Fine and Performing Arts Series The 17th season of the Shell Point Fine and Performing Arts Series is f illed with an impressive array of talented artists and dynamic performances. Along with three distinct musical series, Shell Point will also showcase the creative work of resident artists and artisans. Thereâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s something for everyone! For pricing and additional information about each performance, please visit www.shellpoint. org/concerts, or contact the box office at (239) 454-2067. Shell Point residents may also purchase tickets at any concierge desk.

FINE ARTS SERIES Shell Point Artists and Artisans Holiday Bazaar

Friday & Saturday, November 1 & 2 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. The Village Church

2D Art Show and Sale

Friday & Saturday, March 20 & 21 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. Coastal Commons at Coastal Links

PERFORMING ARTS SERIES These concerts take place in The Village Church at 7 p.m.

The Four Italian Tenors Monday, November 25

Sail On: The Beach Boys Tribute Thursday, January 16

Embraceable You: The Music of George Gershwin Thursday, February 27

The Queenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Cartoonists Thursday, March 5

BONUS CONCERT Florida Gulf Coast University Wind Orchestra Thursday, March 19

FGCU Wind Orchestra

Penning and Langford

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Embraceable You

The Four Italian Tenors

Duo Beaux Arts

Anderson Jazz Trio

CONCERTS & CONVERSATIONS SERIES

SOUTHWEST FLORIDA SYMPHONY SERIES

These concerts take place in the Grand Cypress Room at 7 p.m.

These concerts take place in The Village Church at 7 p.m.

Chamber Music with a Twist

Holiday Pops Concert Christmas in Paradise

Tuesday, November 12

Friday, December 13

Duo Beaux Arts

Stradi-Various

Tuesday, December 3

Thursday, January 23

Peter & Will Anderson Jazz Trio Thursday, January 2

Chamber Music with a twist

Transfigured Night Thursday, April 2

Penning & Langford

Wednesday, February 12

Peter Bergin, Ragtime Pianist Wednesday, March 25

Peter Bergin

Sponsored in part by: Friends of the Arts at Shell Point and WGCU Public Media

The Queenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Cartoonists

Sail On: The Beach Boys Tribute

Holiday Pops

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Beach Bound Pack Your Beach Bag and Get Fit Outdoors BY M I C H E L L E TO M P K I N S , W E L L N E SS M A N AG E R

Pack your beach towel and sunglasses for two unique wellness programs in October, where you will have the opportunity to embrace nature and fitness together. If you’re looking for adventure, the beach on The Island is where you’ll want to go. On Friday, October 4, Shell Point will welcome local watersports professionals from ACE Performer for a morning of Stand-Up Paddleboarding (SUP). Learn the basics of paddleboarding in an introductory lesson before heading out on the water. This watersport has been around a long time in Hawaii, and over the past few years has increased in popularity here in Southwest Florida. Stand-up paddleboards, or SUPs as they are often referred to, prove great fun for all ages. Standing on the board in the water is sure to provide a challenging core workout while also testing both balance and coordination. ACE Performer, located on Old McGregor just minutes from Shell Point, will supply their paddleboards for use during this event. If you are a comfortable swimmer, love the water and might be looking for something new to try, sign up for this beginner-level lesson and hour of paddleboarding.

Save the Date!

On Wednesday, October 23, it’s Wellness on the Move: Suzy Q, Yoga, Pilates and lunch at Bongo’s at Pink Shell Resort on Fort Myers Beach.

Space is limited, and you won’t want to miss out on this exciting morning of watersports. If you are looking for a calm, relaxing day spent with friends and neighbors out on the water, the Fitness Team has just what you need. On Wednesday, October 23, it’s Wellness on the Move: Suzy Q, Yoga, Pilates and lunch at Bongo’s at Pink Shell Resort on Fort Myers Beach. Residents are invited to board the Suzy Q as it makes its way to Bowditch Point, the northernmost tip of Fort Myers Beach. After beach towels are spread on the powdery, white sand, Fitness Supervisor Anna Valle will lead an exhilarating combination yoga and Pilates session while listening to waves crash along the shore – the perfect way to start a fall morning. After

the session, those participating will be able to spend some time walking the beach and basking in the sun, followed by a healthy lunch at the lush, tropical beach café, Bongo’s. A short tour of the back bay of Fort Myers Beach will conclude this season’s Wellness on the Move trip. “Those who experienced this fitness excursion with us last fall have thoroughly enjoyed moving outside, experiencing the sounds of nature as they move and breathe. It’s really enlivening to the soul as well as the body,” said Fitness Supervisor Anna Valle. “Wellness on the Move is always a fantastic way to keep engaged in your wellness journey here at Shell Point. It’s also sure to please those looking for something fun to do that incorporates fitness and fellowship.” As season ramps up with wellness programming, be sure to visit www.shellpoint. net to find the new group fitness schedule, which will begin on October 1, as well as upcoming Wellness Connection programs. Stay well, Shell Point!

Shell Point Library

Book & Media Sale Wednesday, November 6

You’re invited to shop the Shell Point Library's Annual Book and Media Sale on Wednesday, November 6 from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. in the Island

Commons. Choose from hundreds of books, music CDs, DVDs and audiobooks. Check out the special sale section of classic books. Open to Shell Point residents and the public, this sale will last for one day only. Please bring cash or checks for purchases.

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Don Adams (Junonia) will share insider knowledge gleaned from a career with the Henry Ford Museum and Greenfield Village during The Other Henry Ford: Packrat, Antiquer, Museum Maker (FLL17). Shown here is pottery ready to be fired at the Pottery Shop at Greenfield Village.

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Music and More BY L AU R A S L AC K , D I R E C TO R O F R E S I D E N T L I F E

The Academy’s fall semester continues through October with a series of enriching, educational classes. Many courses are taught by Shell Point’s own resident experts; others are taught by subject matter experts from Southwest Florida and beyond. Pick a favorite, familiar topic or explore a completely new field of study – the choice is yours!

Coffee with a Neighbor

This month, Get To Know Jim Clark, Director of Employee Ministry (CWN02). Join Jim

on Friday, October 4, as he will tell the audience about the life experiences that led him here to his new position, and his exciting plans to further Shell Point’s mission to care for all of God’s people.

Get to Know Jim Clark, Director of Employee Ministry on October 4

For the Love of Learning The Academy will join the lineup for Active Aging Week on Thursday, October 3 with the Academy Shell Point Spelling Bee Contest (FLL13). Dotty Morrison

(Cellana) has organized the participants who signed up through The Academy, so that the contestants’ friends and neighbors will be able to come to The Village Church to cheer them on during the Spelling Bee. Professor Adrian Kerr wraps up his five-session look at The History of England with Session Five (FLL14) on Monday, October 7. England has moved east, and the class will begin exploring the Pacific, Australia and New Zealand, right through to the end of the empire at the close of World War II – as well as its lasting legacy today. Melissa Butler (Turban) will give The Academy a political science professor’s Continued on next page Shell Point Life | October 2019

Create Your Own: Fall Door Décor (FLL16) with Pat Bubb (Parkwood) on October 9.

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view of the “why and how” on Tuesday, October 8, with an Introduction To the Census (FLL15) to prepare the audience for next year’s 24th decennial census. She will explore what this country’s founding fathers were thinking when they introduced this requirement. Try your hand at making the world a more beautiful place with Create Your Own: Fall Door Décor (FLL16) on Wednesday, October 9. Pat Bubb (Parkwood) will once again share her talent with those who want a creative experience that culminates with a beautiful seasonal piece. Don Adams (Junonia) will share insider knowledge gleaned from a 23-year career with the Henry Ford Museum and Greenfield Village during his presentation The Other Henry Ford: Packrat, Antiquer, Museum Maker (FLL17). This class will take place on Friday, October 11 and will offer an entertaining, illustrated and revealing look behind-the-scenes at the museum that shares America’s largest and most visited indoor-outdoor history museum. Included will be some of Ford’s successes, failures, idiosyncrasies and a discussion of the fascinating collection. Seth Mendell (Tellidora) will offer a sweeping history of The First World War, or The “Great War,” 1914-1918 held on five Monday mornings, beginning Cheryl Black, an avid scuba diver and underwater photographer, will present Sharks! (FLL21) on October 18.

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on Monday, October 14. Session One (FLL18) will cover World War I’s prologue and outbreak, followed by Session Two (FLL22) on October 21, which will discuss the war’s opening phases, strategies and battles. Session Three (FLL27) will address the middle phases of the war on October 28, including major battles and events. Check back into class in November for the final sessions, including a special patriotic tribute on 11/11. Ancient Persia and Alexander: How the Young Macedonian King Conquered the Known World will be the focus of an upcoming, two-session history class presented by Professor Adrian Kerr. Session One (FLL19) will take students from the Indo-Europeans through the decline of

Greece and the rise of Philip of Macedon, held on Monday, October 14. The Academy series will conclude with Session Two (FLL23) on Monday, October 21, and will highlight the time period between Alexander the Great’s early childhood to the post-Alexander Hellenic world. Dr. Thomas Cimarusti, associate professor of musicology at the Bower School of Music at Florida Gulf Coast University (FGCU), will focus this month’s Masterpieces class on another beloved composer from the Baroque period with Masterpieces in Western Music, Session Two: Beethoven (FLL20) on Tuesday, October 15. On Friday, October 18, The Academy will visit some of the “sharkiest” places on the planet with Cheryl Black, an avid scuba diver, underwater photographer and retired professor of environmental science from Florida Southwestern State College (FSW). Join her for Sharks! (FLL21) and learn what observing and diving with these misunderstood creatures has revealed about their critically important role in keeping the world’s oceans healthy. Ray Boyce (Rosemont) will return to The Academy in October with another educational Shakespearean presentation about Troilus and Cressida (FLL24). Using

of Lifelong Learning At

Learn about the Apple Watch (T307) and how it could change your life. This cutting edge technology does so much more than tell time; presented by Bruce Findley (Sundial).

Geoffrey Chaucer’s work, entitled Troilus and Criseyde as his source, Shakespeare set this play in Troy and the Greek camp nearby, during the Trojan War, around 900 B.C. First, the film version of a theatrical presentation will be viewed on Tuesday, October 22. The lecture and discussion will follow on Wednesday, October 23. If you would like to be encouraged to tell your story, and you have written or are writing your memoirs, Sharing Your Memoirs (FLL25) may be just the series for you. Lucille Peterson (Lakewood) and Marian O’Grady (Rosemont) will be your guides on this journey, held on six Tuesdays, beginning October 22. During Story, Symbol and Song For All (FLL26), which will be held on Friday, October 25, Dr. Rick Sessoms, president of Freedom To Lead, will explain how his organization develops leaders in non-western countries by using story-centric methods. With 80 percent of the world’s people – including 70 percent of all Americans – functioning as story-centric communicators, this type of communication is of growing importance today. Ottoman Istanbul: Where East Meets West (FLL28), held on Monday, October 28, will offer a historical look at the foundations of this civilization, turning back time nearly 3,000 years to the Greek trading city-state of Byzantion, or Byzantium. It has become the largest city in Turkey, con-

stituting the country’s modern economic, cultural and historical heart. On Wednesday, October 30, Debby Topliff (Turban) will provide a feast for the eyes, as well as the spirit, with a 45-minute “bird’s eye view” video and discussion of the last book of the Bible during her presentation, Painting Revelation (FLL29).

Academy On The Go

C.R.O.W. Clinic For the Rehabilitation of Wildlife Tour (OTG03) will be The Academy’s first educational field trip of October. On Friday, October 11, students will cross the bridge to Sanibel and enter the world of a wildlife rehab clinic for this fascinating behind-the-scenes wildlife educational outing that includes touring an injured animal hospital. On Wednesday, October 16, the Academy On The Go’s educational focus will be on Lee County Recycling (OTG04), with a tour that shows how Lee County transforms and reuses many materials. Students will begin with the Material Recovery Facility, and will also visit the Waste To Energy plant, concluding with a behind-the-scenes look at the operation’s control room.

Technology

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semester to give you individual time for your own personal needs. Computer Clinics: Free Walk-In Clinics (TC01) will run weekday mornings from 10 a.m. to noon in the Woodlands Resident Computer Center at the Woodlands Commons. Google/Android: Free Walk-In Clinics (TC02) will run on Monday afternoons in the Resident Computer Center at the Woodlands Commons from 1 p.m. to 3 p.m. The Apple iPad, iPhone & Mac: Free Walk-In Clinics (TC03) will run every Saturday afternoon from 1:15 p.m. to 2:45 p.m. in the Community Room at King’s Crown on The Island. Bob Jakubiec (Lucina) will teach Apple iPad: iPad 4 (T305) for two Wednesdays, beginning October 16. This continuation of last month’s iPad 3 will focus on iCloud, backups, getting music, streaming movies and more! Apple iPhone & iPad Basics (T306) will be the place to start, if you have either of these devices. This five-session class will be held on five Mondays, beginning Monday, October 21. Bruce Findley (Sundial) will provide the foundation for your future learning. Bruce Findley (Sundial) presents the Apple Watch (T307) on three Tuesdays, beginning October 22. You will learn about its importance and how it could change your life to own this piece of technology that does so much more than tell time.

Stay Tuned

More information about each presentation, including any fees, will be found in your Academy brochure. You may register at any concierge desk. Please be sure to review the Weekly Reminder, www.shellpoint.net and the daily SPTV show to learn about any changes to scheduled classes. Shell Point Life | October 2019

2019-2020 Community Concerts & Transportation Make Your Plans for the Upcoming Season BY D I A N N E M O R TO N , T R A N S P O R TAT I O N M A N AG E R

It’s time to sign up for transportation service to the Southwest Florida Symphony and Community Concert Series at the Barbara B. Mann Performing Arts Hall in Fort Myers. The concerts begin at 7:30 p.m., and the bus fee is $11 per concert or $55 for the series. Please note this sign-up is for transportation only. You must purchase concerts tickets on your own by calling (239) 418-1500 for the Symphony Classical Masterwork Series and (239) 693-4849 for the Community Concert Series. Call the Island Concierge Desk at (239) 454-2282 or the Woodlands Concierge Desk at (239) 454-2054 to sign up for transportation

and have your bus passes issued. Please consider the following prior to signing up for transportation. • Walking is involved from the bus to the building. • There are stairs if your seats are located on the upper levels; an elevator is also available. • Barbara B. Mann Hall does not provide wheelchairs. A minimum of 10 passengers per concert is required in order to provide transportation. If you have any questions, please contact Transportation Manager Dianne Morton at (239) 454-2061.

Symphony Classical (Masterworks Series) Saturday, November 9, 2019 Saturday, January 11, 2020 Saturday, February 8, 2020 Saturday, March 21, 2020 Saturday, May 2, 2020

Community Concert Series Friday, January 10, 2020 Monday, January 27, 2020 Monday, February 3, 2020 Monday, February 10, 2020 Monday, March 2, 2020

Microneedling Extravaganza! BY R O BY N C H U R C H , S A LO N & S PA M A N AG E R

Microneedling, or collagen induction therapy, has been proven to increase the body’s natural production of collagen and other healing factors. This is accomplished by causing minor trauma to the skin with the use of needles – hence the name, microneedling. Collagen is an essential protein that helps keep skin looking youthful, with a firm, smooth texture. Aging causes the decline of collagen in the skin, which contributes to wrinkles and other signs of aging. Skin can also lose collagen due to injuries, such as acne scarring, stretch marks and other scars. Microneedling can be enhanced with the use of vitamin C or tretinoin by pushing medication deep into the skin, increasing its effectiveness and benefits. Also, it 14

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End of Summer Microneedling Special is important to realize that microneedling is not a quick fix, because the process involves the growth of new skin. It can take 30 to 90 days to see the full results of treatment. If you have always been a bit curious about microneedling and would like to see how this treatment can benefit your skin, October is the month to give it a try!

Purchase a single microneedling treatment for just $200 ($100 savings!) or save 15% off any package of microneedling treatments. Offer expires October 31, 2019

It’s a Fashionable Year!

Don’t Miss This Style Show & Luncheon Monday, October 21 at Coastal Commons Limited seating; sign up now! Take your wardrobe from summer to fall with a little help from the Community Thrift Store and Resort Services team. On Monday, October 21 at Coastal Commons, they will present a lively, lighthearted style show and luncheon, themed It’s a Fashionable Year! The show will feature dedicated thrift store volunteers and Shell Point staff, who will model outfits that are handpicked from the Community Thrift Store to take you on a journey through a year at Shell Point – and all the fun activities that happen year round. Each model will look their best after the Seagrape Salon & Spa team provides fresh hairstyles, makeup and finishing touches. The menu will feature tender grilled chicken served over a honeycrisp apple salad, along with assorted rolls and herb butter. A delicious carrot cake dessert will complete the meal. This fashion show and luncheon is a resident favorite, and typically fills up fast! A ticket is required to attend this popular event and costs $30 per person. Seating is limited, so be sure to sign up at any concierge desk. Registration will open on October 1.

FineMark National Bank & Trust

SHRED EVENT WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 23 • 9 A.M. TO 10:30 A.M.

Bring any confidential files you wish to discard to this bi-annual safe shredding event, sponsored by FineMark National Bank and Trust. Swing through The Village Church porte-cochere on Wednesday, October 23, between 9 a.m. and 10:30 a.m. to drop off your sensitive documents to be shredded.

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Out & About

Shell Point is a bustling community, and it’s common to see relatives, friends and firsttime visitors strolling around campus, dining in Shell Point’s six restaurants, and attending concerts and educational programs.

Aloe There With gardening shears in hand, Jane Burget (Lucina) spent a beautiful summer morning pruning petunias at the Shell Point Butterfly Habitat! The butterfly garden, along with its adjacent Butterfly Bed and Breakfast, offers a wonderful home for butterflies at every stage of their life cycle. It also provides residents with the wonderful opportunity to engage with the natural environment and put those “green thumbs” to good use.

Vitamin Sea Dr. Herschel and Molly Miller (Palm Acres) might not live on The Island, but they love visiting by way of their golf cart! Many mornings, after they enjoy a cup of coffee from the Island Café, the couple ventures to the Chickee hut on the Island Beach to experience the summer breeze and beautiful views of the Caloosahatchee.

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Fluid Motion A popular gathering place for rest and relaxation, the LifeQuest Aquatic Center is located near the heart of The Island. The shade sails that shelter portions of the pool also make it a great spot for a refreshing exercise class, such as this Splash Fit class.

Moving On Out

The time has officially come for Shell Point’s transportation hub to move to its new home. As Shell Point says goodbye to the fleet of vehicles located at the future site of The Enclave neighborhood, it’s time to say hello to the 35 old-Florida style homes that will be built to comprise Shell Point’s newest independent living neighborhood. Construction is already underway and the first home will be completed in 2020.

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www.shellpoint.net/events

October LifeQuest Happenings Six Dimensions: Physical • Emotional • Spiritual • Educational • Community & Social • Natural Environment For questions about upcoming events or activities, please contact any concierge desk. Unless otherwise noted in the event description, sign-up for each event will begin on the first of this month. If you are unable to attend a program that includes a fee, five business days’ notice is required to receive a refund.

Just like other systems, as one matures, cognitive functioning declines. However, research indicates that combining traditional exercise with specific brain exercises will benefit one’s cognitive abilities. CT Maxx uses elements of problem solving, decision making, spatial awareness and direct recall to develop stronger cognitive aptitudes. The Shell Point Fitness team will bring the CT Maxx experience to you!

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LET’S TALK ABOUT THE HEART! TUESDAY, OCTOBER 1 10:15 A.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS Representatives from the Lee County chapter of the American Heart Association (AHA) will share the AHA’s mission, research initiatives and how they positively impact the local community. Those attending will be educated about the signs and symptoms of a stroke and a heart attack, as well as how they differ between men and women. You will also learn how the AHA supports Lee County in living a healthy, active life.

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PHYSICAL ACTIVITY AND YOUR MIND, BODY AND SOUL

CT MAXX: IF YOU HAVE A BRAIN, YOU NEED TO TRAIN!

TUESDAY, OCTOBER 1 2 P.M. GRAND CYPRESS ROOM/WDL

TUESDAY, OCTOBER 1 1 P.M. FITNESS CENTER/IS

This presentation will provide insight into physical activity that benefits your mind, body and soul through the lens of Lee Health’s Wellness Wheel. The wheel has six spokes: physical activity, nutrition, sleep, stress management, mental health and wellbeing, and purpose-driven why. This presentation will cover how these influence

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Wellness Connection

Sign-up required; call a concierge desk: Island: 454-2282, Woodlands: 454-2054, Coastal Links: 225-2900

Walking required

your health and wellbeing. Gain knowledge, motivation and empowerment to set goals that will improve your mind, body and soul, led by Wellness Coach Sarah Mitchell of Lee Health.

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SUZY Q ECOLOGICAL CRUISE & LUNCH

understand how therapy can help. There will also be multiple handouts provided to help in different areas of concern, such as: getting up from a fall, a fall risk checklist, using a cane or walker, and many more.

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FALL PREVENTION EDUCATION WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 2 11:15 A.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS As people age, balance can decrease and their fear of falling can increase. Monica Raftopoulos, DPT, from the Shell Point physical therapy department, will review how to reduce falls and improve balance while helping you

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BINGO WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 2 2 P.M. THE COVE/EST

WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 2 8:25 A.M. THE ISLAND 8:40 A.M. THE WOODLANDS 8:50 A.M. COASTAL LINKS 3:15 P.M. APPROXIMATE RETURN COST: $10 PER PERSON (LUNCH ON YOUR OWN) Led by water quality expert Steve Canton (Harbor Court), this trip will examine parts of the river that many rarely see. Take a bus from Shell Point to the Boathouse Tiki Bar and Grill, then head upriver aboard the Suzy Q to discuss water quality, habitat, flora and fauna, and more. Return to the Boathouse for lunch before taking the bus home. If last year is any indication, you’ll want to sign up right away!

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Join Resort Services at The Cove in The Estuary for a good old-fashioned game of Bingo! Bingo is great for your health, from engaging the brain to using handeye coordination – not to mention that it is fun! Will you be the first to shout Bingo for a chance to spin the prize wheel?

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CARE OF SELF: A PRACTICAL MODEL FOR HEALTH AND WELLNESS THURSDAY, OCTOBER 3 10:30 A.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS Luann Fortune, PhD, LMT, a researcher and professor in the field of integrative healthcare and wellness, will present a self-care model that is based on the Seven Sources of Health. This original, integrative model is evidence-based to improve your individual self-care practices and outcomes. In addition to offering a practical approach based on recent research, she will connect self-care to spirituality and longer quality of life.

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comes from her biggest fan and unlikely friend, Louise Seger. From her earliest days performing in dusty Texas honkytonks to sold-out concerts at the Grand Ole Opry, Patsy’s music left an indelible mark on country music and American culture. This musical tribute features all of her most-beloved songs, including the No. 1 jukebox hit of all time, Crazy! Before attending the play, you’ll enjoy dinner at Izzy’s Fish and Oyster Bar in downtown Fort Myers. Entrées start at $12.

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OBAGI SKINCARE VITAMIN C TREATMENT BY THE SHELL POINT SALON AND SPA THURSDAY, OCTOBER 3 11 A.M. GRAND CYPRESS ROOM/WDL

Let your skin drink in Vitamin C with Obagi Skincare. Let yourself be pampered by Obagi’s professional micro-dermabrasion polish mask, followed by a skin-thirsty drink of vitamin C serum and Hydrate moisturizer. Your skin will feel smooth and energized by the time you’re done! Obagi representative Dyan Thompson will explain the benefits of the new Obagi medical line while the vitamin C mask does all the work. Vitamin C is essential in any anti-aging skin care routine.

ALWAYS…PATSY CLINE AT THE FLORIDA REPERTORY THEATRE

THURSDAY, OCTOBER 3 3:40 P.M. THE ISLAND 3:55 P.M. THE WOODLANDS 4:05 P.M. COASTAL LINKS 10:15 P.M. APPROXIMATE RETURN COST: $40 PER PERSON (DINNER ON YOUR OWN) LOCATION: FORT MYERS Patsy Cline’s legendary voice and rise to stardom took America by storm, and in this loving tribute, her story

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WALK WITH A DOC FRIDAY, OCTOBER 4, 11, 18 & 25 7 A.M. MEDICAL CENTER BUS STOP/IS Lace up your walking shoes and join Shell Point’s physicians in an exhilarating morning walk around The Island. You will have the opportunity to learn more about the medical staff while getting physically fit together. Water will be provided.

FARMERS MARKET FRIDAY, OCTOBER 4, 11, 18 & 25 8:30 A.M. TO 1 P.M. ISLAND COMMONS COURTYARD/IS The Island Courtyard is your place to shop on Fridays for locally grown produce, homemade baked goods, honey and other great items. Stroll through the Island Courtyard this month to enjoy the beautiful outdoor setting, support local small businesses, and visit with your Shell Point friends and neighbors.

Wellness Connection

Sign-up required; call a concierge desk: Island: 454-2282, Woodlands: 454-2054, Coastal Links: 225-2900

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PADDLEBOARDING LESSON BY ACE PERFORMER

Walking required

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ZUMBA DANCE PARTY FRIDAY, OCTOBER 4 1 P.M. FITNESS CENTER/IS

FRIDAY, OCTOBER 4 8:30 A.M. ISLAND BEACH/IS COST: $20 PER PERSON Do you love watersports and have always wondered what it would be like to experience stand-up paddleboarding? ACE Performer will be on hand with a qualified instructor at the Island Beach for a special introductory session that will include a brief lesson, paddleboarding technique and safety, followed by thirty minutes of paddleboarding on your own. Space is limited. Please note that those registering must be proficient swimmers and be comfortable with their ability to balance on the paddleboard. Proper swimwear is encouraged as you will get wet.

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End the week with a fun Zumba Fitness Dance Party. Come on and move to the music in this high-energy fitness class. Do you enjoy group fitness, but never tried Zumba before? No problem! You’ll follow instructor Ingrid Oliver as she leads everyone in easy-to-follow steps that are set to various dance styles and rhythms. Be sure to wear fitness footwear and bring your water bottle.

COOKING CLASS AT KITCHENSOCIAL MONDAY, OCTOBER 7 9:05 A.M. THE ISLAND 9:20 A.M. THE WOODLANDS 9:30 A.M. COASTAL LINKS 1:45 P.M. APPROXIMATE RETURN COST: $44 PER PERSON LOCATION: FORT MYERS

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AGING ACTIVE AND HEALTHY! FRIDAY, OCTOBER 4 11:30 A.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS

Join one of KitchenSocial’s culinary instructors and create one of your very own “best of the best” dishes. Sit or stand while you prepare your own pasta and dessert from recipes you can duplicate at home. Appetizers, the main dish and dessert along with water, tea and coffee is included in this culinary adventure. KitchenSocial, has been featured in Naples Daily News and FOX4 as one of the most fun and easy cooking experiences.

Dr. Kathy Thompson of the Shell Point Medical Center will discuss ways to age healthfully. She will touch on the recommended preventative screenings and what you can do to keep your body active and healthy throughout your lifetime.

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MEET THE METEOROLOGIST ROB DUNS

for dessert. After dinner, The Martin Duo, a husband and wife ensemble, will perform hits from the Great White Way. From Rodgers and Hammerstein to the favorite musicals of Andrew Lloyd Webber, you’ll share in the joy of this performance.

TUESDAY, OCTOBER 8 7 P.M. GRAND CYPRESS ROOM/WDL Don’t miss this informative presentation! NBC-2 Meteorologist Rob Duns will share how meteorologists predict the weather and explain weather patterns. Join Resort Services for an educational, fun evening and have all your weather questions answered by this expert and local television favorite.

FRIDAY, OCTOBER 11, 18 & 25 11:15 A.M. GROUP EXERCISE STUDIO/CL During this introduction to social ballroom dancing taught by Nancy Damico (Parkwood), learn basic ballroom dance based upon the box step with variations in waltz and fox trot. Steps are based upon four basic movements configured into different step patterns. After attending this class, participants should feel comfortable and confident dancing at social events such as weddings, parties and Shell Point dances; both singles and couples are welcome. Please note that this class is for new students only.

TRIVIA: HERE, THERE, AND EVERYWHERE WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 9 2 P.M. THE COVE/CL Join the Resort Services team as you play traditional paper and pen trivia. Come with a team or come by yourself and test your knowledge of Shell Point, Florida and general geography. There will be prizes for the top team!

BEACH DAY THURSDAY, OCTOBER 10 8:30 A.M. THE ISLAND 8:45 A.M. THE WOODLANDS 8:55 A.M. COASTAL LINKS 3 P.M. APPROXIMATE RETURN COST: $18 (ICE CREAM ON YOUR OWN) LOCATION: DELNOR-WIGGINS PASS STATE PARK

THURSDAY, OCTOBER 10 5:15 P.M. DOORS OPEN 5:30 P.M. DINNER SERVED 6:30 P.M. SHOW BEGINS BANYAN GRILLE BANQUET ROOM/CL COST: $30 (ALL INCLUSIVE) Join the Resort Services team for an elegant ode to Broadway dinner and show. The Banyan Grille will serve prime rib with twice-baked potatoes, roasted asparagus and baby carrots, Caesar salad and triple chocolate cake

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BASIC SOCIAL BALLROOM DANCE CLASS INTERMEDIATE BEGINNER LEVEL II FRIDAY, OCTOBER 11, 18 & 25 10:15 A.M. GROUP EXERCISE STUDIO/CL Taught by Nancy Damico (Parkwood), continue to gain skills and confidence while dancing waltz and fox trot, and building upon knowledge acquired in the Level 1 class. More emphasis will be placed upon partnering skills by dancing choreographed combinations. Using this technique, students will practice smooth transitioning between steps, encouraging confidence in presentation. Completion of the Level I class or previous ballroom dance lessons is required; participants must be able to dance the box step in waltz and foxtrot.

Grab your personal supplies and beach chair, and join Resort Services for a day of fun and sun at Delnor-Wiggins Pass State Park in North Naples. Shell Point staff will serve beverages and a picnic lunch for you. On the way home, there will be a traditional stop for ice cream at the Royal Scoop!

BROADWAY NIGHT AT THE BANYAN GRILLE

BASIC SOCIAL BALLROOM DANCE CLASS BEGINNER LEVEL I

LIVING AN ACTIVE LIFE WITH MULTI-JOINT ARTHRITIS FRIDAY, OCTOBER 11 1:00 P.M. MANATEE ROOM/IS Liz Domino, MSN, FNP-C, from Gardner Orthopedic, will provide an informative presentation about osteoarthritis and how it impacts joints. Learn strategies to manage this degenerative joint disease, which occurs most often in the knees, hips, lower back and hands.

Wellness Connection

Sign-up required; call a concierge desk: Island: 454-2282, Woodlands: 454-2054, Coastal Links: 225-2900

SATURDAY AT THE MOVIES: WOMAN AT WAR (2018) (NR)

Walking required

SATURDAY, OCTOBER 12 2 P.M. & 7 P.M. GRAND CYPRESS ROOM/WDL

TUESDAY, OCTOBER 15 1 P.M. GRAND CYPRESS ROOM/WDL Conservation areas are important for many reasons, including protecting water quality, providing habitat for wildlife and maintaining green spaces and natural beaches for public recreation. Two presenters from the Lee County Conservation program will be here to share and answer questions about Lee County’s Conservation 20/20 program. Today, nearly 30,000 acres of natural areas are protected in Lee County through this program, which will highlight Bunche Beach Preserve, a coastal preserve located one mile from Shell Point.

DEROMO’S GOURMET MARKET AND RESTAURANT DINNER OUTING TUESDAY, OCTOBER 15 3:40 P.M. THE ISLAND 3:55 P.M. THE WOODLANDS 4:05 P.M. COASTAL LINKS 9:15 P.M. APPROXIMATE RETURN COST: $4 (DINNER ON YOUR OWN)

Halla (Halldóra Geirharðsdóttir), a choir conductor and eco-activist in the Icelandic highlands, secretly wages war on the local aluminum industry. One day, a long-forgotten application to adopt an orphan child from the Ukraine is approved. At the same time, the government ramps up police and propaganda efforts in order to catch and discredit her. The film revolves around Halla’s attempts to reconcile her dangerous and illegal activism with the upcoming adoption.

CONSERVATION IN YOUR COMMUNITY: CONSERVATION 20/20 & BUNCHE BEACH

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Located in Promenade at Bonita Bay, DeRomo’s is an excellent place to shop and dine! All of the menu items at DeRomo’s are prepared with fresh-cut meats, seafood, produce and other ingredients straight from their onsite gourmet market. After your meal, stroll through the market to purchase some fresh ingredients of your own to take home. Entrées start at $18.

OKTOBERFEST AT THE CRYSTAL TUESDAY, OCTOBER 15 4 P.M. TO 7 P.M. THE CRYSTAL/IS COST: $17 RESIDENTS; $20 NON-RESIDENTS Grab your lederhosen and celebrate Oktoberfest! Choose from beer and cheddar soup with kielbasa, schwein schnitzel, sauerbraten short ribs, bratwurst with apple sauerkraut, Bavarian chicken and kummel klops – or German meatballs. Traditional sides including carrots and turnips, braised red cabbage, and German potato salad – as well as a selection of desserts like apple strudel and Black Forest cake will be served. Reservations are not required; for questions, contact The Crystal directly at (239) 454-2199.

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LIVING WELL

COMPUTER CLUB THURSDAY, OCTOBER 17 2:15 P.M. MANATEE ROOM/IS

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ISLAND BEACH MIX AND MINGLE THURSDAY, OCTOBER 17 3 P.M. TO 5 P.M. ISLAND BEACH/IS Grab your flip flops and sunglasses, jump on a Shell Point bus and head over to the Island Beach for an afternoon of fun on the sand. Resort Services will have games, live music and a fruity beverage to savor with your friends, all while relishing in the beauty of the Shell Point Island Beach view. After the fun, join the staff of The Crystal, who will be hosting a “Beach Party After-Party” with a delicious beach themed buffet (see more details on page 38).

THURSDAY, OCTOBER 17 10:15 A.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS

Computer Medics is now an Apple Authorized Service Center, so this presentation will cover Apple Macintosh Computers and Macintosh Operating System (O/S) Basics. Hear one of Computer Medics’ Apple Authorized techni24

MEDICARE PART D UPDATE

The Medicare Modernization Act of 2003 (MMA) established a voluntary outpatient prescription drug benefit for people on Medicare, known as Part D, which went into effect in 2006. All 55 million people on Medicare have access to its drug benefit through private plans approved by the federal government. Shell Point Clinical Support and Compliance Pharmacist Joy Darnell will present an update about what’s new and the major changes taking place this year.

cians, Kris Rogeness, teach about Mac computers and Mac Operating system basics. He will focus on Apple computers such as the iMac, MacBook, MacBook Pro, MacBook Air, Mac Mini and Mac Pro. Come prepared with your Mac computer questions for Kris.

WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 16 1:15 P.M. OSPREY ROOM/IS Whether you’re a health and fitness enthusiast or just beginning your wellness journey, you are welcome to attend this class. The goal of Living Well is to encourage a discussion on topics such as exercise, healthy eating, unique recipes and general wellness. Residents share their own input and ideas to create an active discussion. Every month is different and everyone is sure to leave with a better understanding of how wellness plays a role in daily life.

ARCADIA RODEO SATURDAY, OCTOBER 19 10:55 A.M. THE ISLAND 11:10 A.M. THE WOODLANDS 11:20 A.M. COASTAL LINKS 7:15 P.M. APPROXIMATE RETURN COST: $47 (LUNCH ON YOUR OWN) LOCATION: ARCADIA Come out to the 6th annual Arcadia Fall Rodeo to see bucking broncos, bull riding, barrel racing and more. The action will take place indoors at the brand-new Arcadia Mosaic Arena. Be comfortable in premium plush seats, just rows away from the action and excitement! The concession stand will be full of finger-licking barbecue, burgers and more. Shell Point transportation will make a comfort stop on the way to Arcadia, as well as on the way home.

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SUNDAY MATINEE: HOUSE CALLS (1978) (PG)

Sign-up required; call a concierge desk: Island: 454-2282, Woodlands: 454-2054, Coastal Links: 225-2900

SUNDAY, OCTOBER 20 2 P.M. GRAND CYPRESS ROOM/WDL Widower Dr. Charles Nichols (Walter Matthau) is trying to get back into the dating game, but every attempt at meeting women seems to end in disaster. It isn’t until he meets Ann (Glenda Jackson), a patient at the hospital, that he begins to believe he may find love once again. Charles and Ann both have to find a way to navigate their second chapters. Will they take the plunge into a lasting relationship?

SENIOR FITNESS TEST TUESDAY, OCTOBER 22 10 A.M. OAK ROOM/WDL

LIBRARY BOOK TALK TUESDAY, OCTOBER 22 2:15 P.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS Debby Topliff (Turban) will review her book, Trespassing. This story takes place in 1947 and chronicles a diverse trio of young people snowbound by a blizzard in an old, but elegant house. Their close confinement makes interesting contrasts and creates psychological tension. Discussion will follow the presentation and refreshments will be served.

MONDAY, OCTOBER 21 12 P.M. DOORS OPEN 1 P.M. SHOW BEGINS BANYAN GRILLE BANQUET ROOM/CL COST: $30 (ALL INCLUSIVE)

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Physical therapists from Shell Point’s Rehabilitation Center will be conducting Senior Fitness Tests this month for residents of The Woodlands. Would you like to know how your physical fitness compares to others your age? Those interested will be tested in strength, flexibility, cardiovascular endurance and agility. Sign up by calling (239) 454-2256.

IT’S A FASHIONABLE YEAR! Limited seats; sign up today!

Community Thrift Store and the Resort Services teams have paired up to present It’s a Fashionable Year! This fashion show will feature dedicated thrift store volunteers and Shell Point staff members, who will model outfits that are handpicked from the Community Thrift Store. Seagrape Salon & Spa will add the finishing touches with fresh hair styles and makeup. The featured outfits will take you on a journey through a year at Shell Point while you enjoy a delicious lunch featuring a honey crisp apple salad with grilled chicken, assorted rolls and herb butter, with carrot cake for dessert.

Walking required

WELLNESS ON THE MOVE: SUZY Q, YOGA, PILATES & THE BEACH! WEDNESDAY OCTOBER 23 9 A.M. DEPARTURE 3 P.M. APPROXIMATE RETURN COST: $10 (LUNCH ON YOUR OWN) LOCATION: BOWDITCH POINT Head to Fort Myers Beach aboard the Suzy Q for an invigorating outdoor yoga and Pilates combination class on the sand, geared toward those with advanced knowledge and experience in Pilates, yoga or both. Next, take a short walk over to Bongo’s at Pink Shell Resort to enjoy an alfresco lunch and free time before heading back to Shell Point. Please bring a water bottle and beach towel. Restrooms, a foot-wash station, and a rest area are onsite.

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TRADER JOE’S SHOPPING AND FIRST WATCH LUNCH WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 23 9:15 A.M. THE ISLAND 9:30 A.M. THE WOODLANDS 9:40 A.M. COASTAL LINKS 3:00 P.M. APPROXIMATE RETURN COST: $4 (LUNCH ON YOUR OWN) LOCATION: NAPLES Start your travels with a hearty, healthy lunch from First Watch, where entrées begin at just $8. Next, stock up on all your favorite grocery items at Trader Joe’s. Trader Joe’s is known for its affordable selections of gourmet, organic and vegetarian foods; unusual frozen foods and imported items. Trader Joe’s private-label products pride themselves on being free of artificial flavors, colors and genetically modified ingredients.

WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 23 2 P.M. THE COVE/CL

TWISTED LOBSTER LUNCHEON THURSDAY, OCTOBER 24 10:25 A.M. THE ISLAND 10:40 A.M. THE WOODLANDS 10:50 A.M. COASTAL LINKS 2:30 P.M. APPROXIMATE RETURN COST: $3 (LUNCH ON YOUR OWN) Craving some New England cuisine favorites? Hop aboard the Shell Point bus and travel to the Twisted Lobster in

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AVIATION CLUB: THE SPIRIT OF THE SPITFIRE THURSDAY, OCTOBER 24 1:15 P.M SOCIAL CENTER/IS The Spitfire was one of the two iconic fighter planes credited with winning the Battle of Britain during World War II in 1940. Hear the amazing story of how one man’s love of aviation led him to rebuild a Spitfire from the wreck of a fuselage and two wings found in the bush near Johannesburg, South Africa. That man was the father of speaker Ashleigh Barnett, a Shell Point project manager, who grew up watching her Dad rebuild the plane.

SOLO PARTY

You don’t want to miss the Premier Shell Point Solo Party! What is a solo party? You come as a party of one to meet new people, connect with other Shell Point residents and make new friends. Socialize and participate in planned activities in a comfortable setting. Beverages will be served in what else? A Solo cup!

Cape Coral for award-winning cuisine! Whether you’re in the mood for lobster bisque, creamy New England “chowda” or succulent Maine lobster tails, you will not be disappointed. Daily lunch specials begin at $8.

WALK TO END ALZHEIMER’S SATURDAY, OCTOBER 26 7:30 A.M. THE ISLAND 7:45 A.M. THE WOODLANDS 7:55 A.M. COASTAL LINKS 9 A.M. WALK BEGINS 12 P.M. APPROXIMATE RETURN Walk with Shell Point residents and employees for a great cause. Meet bright and early to travel to Centennial Park in downtown Fort Myers, and walk 2.5 miles to support the Alzheimer’s Association’s annual Walk to End Alzheimer’s. This is always a fun time as many come together as a community to show their support – and this is your opportunity to help show that Shell Point cares. The Community Thrift Store will cover the cost of registration for this event.

Wellness Connection

Sign-up required; call a concierge desk: Island: 454-2282, Woodlands: 454-2054, Coastal Links: 225-2900

Walking required

MONDAY CLASSIC MOVIE: THE SHOOTIST (PG) (1976)

MARK YOUR CALENDAR

WHAT IS A TRAUMA CENTER?

CASA LUPITA LUNCHEON MONDAY, NOVEMBER 4 10:25 A.M. THE ISLAND 10:40 A.M. THE WOODLANDS 10:50 A.M. COASTAL LINKS 2:30 P.M. APPROXIMATE RETURN COST: $3 (LUNCH ON YOUR OWN) LOCATION: FORT MYERS For over a decade, the Perez family has been dedicated to bringing the most authentic Mexican cuisine to Fort Myers in a welcoming atmosphere. Focusing on the best ingredients, prepared fresh each day, their extensive menu includes salads, soups, quesadillas, fajitas, enchiladas and more. Take advantage of their daily specials and leave room for dessert! Entrées start at $12.

TUESDAY, OCTOBER 29 1:15 P.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS Learn the difference between an emergency room and trauma center during this educational presentation by Lee County Injury Prevention Analyst, Mark Tesoro, MA. He will share why a trauma center is necessary, an overview of Lee County’s Trauma Center and educational outreach programs that are provided within the community.

enjoy miniature bratwurst, sauerkraut, soft pretzels with mustard sauce, and ice-cold root beer. You’ll find the fun of Oktoberfest on the beautiful Woodlands Boardwalk!

MONDAY, OCTOBER 28 6:45 P.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS Aging but notorious gunfighter J.B. Books – played by John Wayne, in his final film role – comes to Nevada in 1901 after a bleak prognosis. For his final days, he rents a room from a widower (Lauren Bacall) and her son Gillom (Ron Howard). Confronted by profiteers, young guns, old friends and enemies, J.B.’s pain worsens. Not wanting to die a quiet, painful death, he devises a plan to go out with a bang.

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WATER’S EDGE CONCERT SERIES: RANDY AND LORI THOMAS

SHELL POINT OKTOBERFEST

TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 5 • 6 P.M. TO 8 P.M. FRIENDSHIP POINT AMPHITHEATER/IS

WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 30 2 P.M. TO 4 P.M. WOODLANDS BOARDWALK/WDL

Grammy award-winning songwriter Randy Thomas leads this duo act with his wife, Lori. Randy’s original hit songs include Butterfly Kisses and Why’d You Come in Here Lookin’ Like That? At his former home in Nashville, Randy created countless hit songs, produced records and toured with international acts such as Shania Twain while Lori helped run the business and doubled as studio vocalist. This free outdoor concert series is co-sponsored by the Legacy Foundation.

Willkommen bei Oktoberfest! Mark your calendars for this fun day of entertainment and German-inspired food. Don’t miss the repeat performance of The Hafenkapelle Band, from the German American Social Club of Cape Coral, Florida. The traditionally costumed German band will play all of the classic German dance tunes. You will also

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Support Groups

DIABETES SUPPORT FRIDAY, OCTOBER 4 • 1 P.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS Both insulin- and noninsulin-dependent diabetics are encouraged to attend this meeting. Each monthly meeting covers a different topic and includes open discussion. For more information, contact Vivian Ciulla, healthy living coordinator, at (239) 225-2929.

GRIEFSHARE

ALCOHOLIC ANONYMOUS THURSDAYS, OCTOBER 3, 10, 17, 24 & 31 • 4:30 P.M. SABAL ROOM/WDL This is a fellowship of those who share their experience, strength and hope with each other to solve their common problem and help others recover from alcoholism. This “open” meeting of AA welcomes those who struggle with alcohol issues. For information, call the intergroup phone number at (239) 275-5111.

CAREFREE SUPPORT GROUP

WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 9 • 10 A.M. SUZY Q BOAT DOCK/IS Cost: $5 per person (Lunch on your own) This Connected Living group offers caregivers and care partners with dementia an opportunity to build authentic friendships while promoting a culture of wellness, community involvement and a positive life experience for couples. This month, head to the Suzy Q for a scenic, three-hour tour and lunch at Deep Lagoon Seafood and Oyster House! The boat will depart at 10:30 a.m. and return at 1:30 p.m. For details, contact Healthy Living Coordinator Alice DiFalco at (239) 433-7939.

CAREGIVER SUPPORT

TUESDAYS, OCTOBER 1 & 15 • 9:15 A.M. MEDICAL CENTER CONFERENCE ROOM/IS These therapeutic groups are aimed at helping residents deal with issues of being a caregiver for someone with a memory disorder, whether the resident is cared for in independent living, assisted living or skilled nursing. Sign-up is required. Dr. Nancy Spencer facilitates the groups and may be reached at (239) 454-2043.

COPD SUPPORT

MONDAY, OCTOBER 28, 2019 • 1:30 P.M. OAK ROOM/WDL Shell Point’s new director of the Shell Point Pharmacy, Qaysara Syne, PharmD., RPh., CPh., will discuss therapies for chronic obstructive pulmonary disease and how her department can address the needs of its patients. Call Ken Peterson for further information at (239) 482-3779. 28

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THURSDAY, OCTOBER 3, 10, 17, 24 & 31 • 1:30 P.M. SABAL ROOM/WDL This is a 13-week program providing help and encouragement after the death of a loved one. GriefShare is a special weekly seminar and support group designed to help you rebuild your life. We know it hurts, and we want to help! For additional information, contact group leaders Jim and Judy Mayer (Junonia) at (239) 454-3139.

HEARING ENRICHMENT WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 23 • 1:15 P.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS Poor hearing can affect many aspects of one’s life. This group seeks to help residents cope with hearing loss, share information, learn about services and products that may help, and offer support to each other. This is a great opportunity to try out assisted listening devices. For more information, call Robert Torres, healthy living coordinator, at (239) 433-7975.

MEMORY CARE TUESDAYS, OCTOBER 1 & 15 • 9:15 A.M. BEHAVIORAL HEALTH CONFERENCE ROOM/IS These groups are designed for those with some type of memory disorder, to identify practical strategies to better manage memory loss, address long-range planning and offer an environment that fosters a sense of purpose and heightened self-esteem. Individual assessment is required before joining a group; individual appointments are also available. Kathy Fratrick, LCSW, facilitates the group and may be reached at (239) 454-2073.

PARKINSON’S ENRICHMENT TUESDAY, OCTOBER 1 • 10:15 A.M. KING’S CROWN COMMUNITY ROOM/IS This group provides support and education to those affected by Parkinson’s disease, such as a patient, caregiver, family member or friend. Meetings include speakers, group discussions and emotional support. For more information, call Janine Hammond, director of healthy living coordination, at (239) 454-2186.

VISION ENRICHMENT TUESDAY, OCTOBER 8 • 2:15 P.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS This group provides educational opportunities and support for those individuals dealing with low vision. For additional information, contact Katy Quinones, healthy living coordinator at 454-2101.

You’re Invited!

2019-2020 Water’s Edge Concerts Announced The Resort Services team is pleased to announce the 2019-2020 lineup of the resident-favorite Water’s Edge concerts. All performances are held at Friendship Point on The Island from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. Sign-up is not required for these free concerts, which are co-sponsored by the Legacy Foundation. On cooler evenings, outdoor heaters will be provided. In the event of inclement weather, the concert will be relocated to the Social Center on The Island. Please stay tuned to SPTV for any announcements regarding inclement weather.

Randy & Lori Thomas Tuesday, November 5 Grammy award-winning songwriter Randy Thomas leads this duo act with his wife, Lori. Randy’s original hit songs include Butterfly Kisses, as recorded by Bob Carlisle, and Why’d You Come in Here Lookin’ Like That, which was recorded by Dolly Parton. In the couple’s former home studio in Nashville, Tennessee, Randy racked up countless Christian, coun-

try and pop hit songs. He also produced records and toured with international acts, such as Shania Twain, while Lori helped run the business and doubled as studio vocalist. Currently, Randy and Lori lead worship at Westminster Presbyterian Church in Fort Myers.

clapping and singing along with the group’s unique blend of traditional and new country hits, southern rock and old-time rock and roll.

Krossing Jordan Tuesday, January 7

The Blu-Tones are a professional group of musicians from Naples, Florida. They specialize in bringing a fresh sound and amazing harmonies to some of the greatest hits from the 50s, 60s and 70s, from Elvis to The Eagles. This group has it all: saxophone, guitar, keys and the harmonies of the Blu-Tones trio.

Krossing Jordan is a faith-based duo from Tampa, Florida. The group performs a wide variety of music that spans seven decades and are known for their tributes to Barry Manilow, Neil Diamond and Billy Joel – just to name a few. Prepare to be entertained by this charming duo!

Tru Kountry Thursday, February 6 Tru Kountry band is back for another Water’s Edge concert, which will be filled with classic country hits! Grab your hats and boots for an evening of toe-tapping country music. There will be plenty of

The Blu-Tones Tuesday, March 3

Chicago Heat Tuesday, April 7 Chicago Heat delivers the best of rock and doo wop, performing oldies and classic rock during this concert. Grammy award-winner Jim Freeman, of the original Five Satins, will perform their greatest hits, including In the Still of the Night and many of Chicago Heat’s best loved songs! Shell Point Life | October 2019

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Food and Entertainment Woodlands Boardwalk Wednesday, October 30 From 2 to 4 p.m.

Ready to don your dirndl and lace up your lederhosen? Don’t miss Shell Point Oktoberfest, which will take place on Wednesday, October 30 from 2 p.m to 4 p.m. The Woodlands Boardwalk will sound like the streets of Munich thanks to The Hafenkapelle Band, who hail from the German American Social Club of Cape Coral, Florida. The band will return to Shell Point in traditional costumes playing German favorites that will have you dancing and singing along! Enjoy mini bratwurst, soft pretzels and root beer during the show.

The Crystal and The Springs Earns Design Awards One of Shell Point’s business partners, Wegman Design Group, recently received two Silver Aurora Awards for the redesign of The Crystal restaurant and the renovation of The Springs at Shell Point. Wegman Design Group has provided Shell Point with creative and strategic interior design solutions for many on-campus renovations conducted in the past two years. “It has been a joy to help Shell Point achieve its vision for these two venues, which took careful planning, hard work and talent. Our team remains dedicated to delivering excellence in all that we do on behalf of our clients,” said Lori Wegman, ASID, principal of Wegman Design Group.

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The Crystal opened its doors after a complete remodel resulting in a crisp, contemporary and inviting dining venue. To complete this project, Shell Point partnered with Wright Construction Group, Wegman Design Group, RG Architects and Landscape Architect.

Shell Point staff and the principle building partners for Connected Living pose for a ribbon cutting to celebrate the 28-bedroom, 21,182-square-foot memory support center that opened earlier this year.

Brightening the Day Chaplaincy at Shell Point BY S U N N Y TO R R E S , D I R E C TO R O F S P I R I T UA L S E RV I C E S

here is a season of life that often comes as a surprise, like an “it happens to others, but not to me” mentality that causes many to move into new seasons of life unprepared. Like runners training for a sprint instead of a marathon, they lack the key elements that equip them to endure factors that could prevent from successfully getting to the finish line. To an observer on the sidelines, it can appear that the elderly population also seems to face some of the longest, most difficult challenges in life at the time when they feel the least capable to do so: at the end of

the race. A crucial, oftentimes missing factor is a functioning spiritual vitality. This is where chaplaincy is such a wonderful provision here at Shell Point. The Village Church has, since August 2002, offered interfaith, non-denominational spiritual care to the residents in the state licensed healthcare facilities, and as of late, to the independent community. During her previous employment at The Village Church, Dr. Sue Stranahan (Coquina) spearheaded this Spiritual Services program, writing the training manual to integrate volunteer participation from the community.

Rebecca Reynolds (Cellana), assistant chaplain at the Pavilion, loves taking residents outside for fresh air around the Island Lagoon and Serenity Cove to enjoy the beautiful surroundings. These mini outings and fellowship help lift someone’s spirits when they might be feeling down or unwell.

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volunteers to serve as part of the healthcare team. Confidentiality of all resident information is emphasized and followed in strict conformity to the HIPAA regulations. The chaplains must be approved by the governing board of elders at The Village Church and be certified by The Christian and Missionary Alliance denomination as Christian Workers. As the director of Spiritual Services since 2016, Sunny Torres has had the privilege of leading a team of seven dedicated chaplains who develop supportive relationships around campus, walking beside those who are facing the challenges of loss, pain, disease or loneliness. The consistent camaraderie and listening ear of a friend in the time of need adds spiritual undergirding to the “puzzling stages of aging.” Sometimes, apparent randomness of life’s events may simply require a different perspective. Participation in a life review with retirees convinced the chaplains that the gift of free time can yield fresh insight, wisdom and new meaning. The puzzle pieces, both pleasant and painful, often come together into an intelligible design with the help of an objective listener and friend. What a joy to have these resident volunteers, specifically gifted to sustain hurting people. Those who have enjoyed a vibrant faith find the Spiritual Services team invaluable during “fiery trials of faith,” when encouragement and prayer with another believer can serve as a connecting cord to the loving Creator who may seem distant at times. Hope for a brighter day may require added strength in numbers to cope with this side of heaven. Those attachments help to transcend present suffering, whether it be a relationship

ing challenges brought on by downsizing, the loss of spouse or changes in their health. Finding the “new normal” becomes a way of life for this aging population, and chaplains Pat Divinnie (Eagles Preserve), Bonnie Palmquist (Coquina) and Ron Wertz (The Estuary) are available to provide support. Each volunteer chaplain who covers a particular assisted living building feels more like family than acquaintances with these residents, after sharing their special gatherings, celebrations and sorrows with them. Ron paralleled this relationship-building to a set of the locked doors he initially encountered within the building. Over time, the doors slowly opened and he was welcomed, as eventually was his encouragement, into the lives of the residents. Any of the Spiritual Services team will agree that the greatest advantage they have as volunteer chaplains is the time to listen and understand each individual who is willing to open that door and share a lifetime of adventures, challenges or the spiritual journey that led to the present moment. With the recent addition of another

What a joy to have these resident volunteers, specifically gifted to sustain hurting people.

Vicky Kennedy (Parkwood) looks forward to visits when she can encourage those who have returned from the hospital, as well as those who may be grieving or experiencing loneliness.

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with God or others who offer love, and can serve as a lifeline to bring many up and out of isolation and loneliness.

Meet the Team Three of the chaplains are dedicated exclusively to serving in the assisted living residences where many may be experienc-

chaplain, the Spiritual Services program has now grown to include the independent living community. This newest chaplain, Vicky Kennedy (Parkwood), previously served as a nurse before her retirement to Shell Point and now she finds that providing spiritual care has rounded out her gifts of caring for the whole person: body, mind and spirit. Vicky follows up with those who have come home directly from the hospital, and visits those who are grieving, such as caregivers who need encouragement or those who are experiencing loneliness. The spiritual needs of these independent living residents are just as critical, where losses, loneliness and ongoing health issues begin to take their toll. Chaplains Rebecca Reynolds (Cellana) and Linda Schmierer (Eagles Preserve), along with Sunny, meet spiritual needs in the Larsen Pavilion where short-term rehabilitation patients and long-term skilled nursing residents reside. The patients in the rehab unit, though focused on multi-

Like his counterparts at The Arbor and King’s Crown, Ron Wertz (The Estuary) ministers to residents of The Springs by cultivating and investing personal relationships.

ple rehab sessions per day, often find added support as chaplains can connect them with their home church, encourage them through short visits and prayer (especially for patience!), and offer empathy as well. Some of the Pavilion chaplains have experienced lengthy rehabilitation stays themselves and can closely relate as a result of their own physical challenges. They also provide ongoing comfort and soul-care for any shadowed by pain, illness and dementia, paying special attention to personalize spiritual activities and care to meet the specific needs of those who welcome the company of a chaplain. Shell Point is unique in its concern

for the spiritual care of its residents and the significance it assigns to their individual health and wholeness. The Spiritual Services team of chaplains counts it a great privilege to be a part of a healthcare system that emphasizes spiritual soundness as a major contributor to quality of life. There’s no doubt about it: Longevity due to medical and technological advancement is wonderful, but the challenges that come with running the race of life require a stamina and strength that come from a spiritual source within. The Spiritual Services team is here to care, and here to help. They may be reached at (239) 415-5714.

Plan Ahead for

Holiday Shopping FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 1 AND SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 2 Come to The Village Church on Friday, November 1 and Saturday, November 2 for the Annual Shell Point Artists and Artisans Holiday Bazaar, which will take place from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. You will find woodworking, pottery, books, greeting cards, original art, unique jewelry, children’s clothing and toys, glass art, fashionable scarves and totes, needlecraft, fabric art, photography, holiday décor and so much more! With 60 creative resident vendors, this annual event is sure to have something for everyone. Love Boat Ice Cream will be serving up a special treat under The Village Church porte-cochere.

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LEGACYFOUNDATION AT S H E L L P O I N T

BACK TO SCHOOL:

Estate Planning 101 Who Can Be a Personal Representative and What Role Do They Play? B Y J E F F C O R Y, C F P , C H F C , A E P , E X E C U T I V E D I R E C T O R O F T H E L E G A C Y F O U N D A T I O N

Residents often have questions about who may serve as a personal representative, and what role that plays in settling affairs at death. The personal representative is the person, bank or trust company appointed by a judge to be in charge of the administration of the decedent’s probate estate. In Florida, the term “personal representative” is used instead of such terms as “executor” or “executrix.” The personal representative has a legal duty to administer the probate estate pursuant to Florida law. The personal representative must: • Identify, gather, value and safeguard the decedent’s probate assets. • Publish a Notice to Creditors in a local newspaper in order to give notice to potential claimants to file claims in the manner required by law. • Serve a Notice of Administration to provide information about the probate estate administration and notice of the procedures required 34

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to be followed by those having any objection to the administration of the decedent’s probate estate. Conduct a diligent search to locate “known or reasonably ascertainable” creditors, and notify these creditors of the time by which their claims must be filed. Object to improper claims, and defend suits brought on such claims. Pay valid claims. File tax returns and pay any taxes properly due. Employ professionals to assist in the administration of the probate estate; for example, attorneys, certified public accountants, appraisers and investment advisers. Pay expenses of administering the probate estate. Pay statutory amounts to the decedent’s surviving spouse or family. Distribute probate assets to beneficiaries. Close the probate estate.

If the personal representative mismanages the decedent’s probate estate, the personal representative may be liable to the beneficiaries for any harm they may suffer. Who Can Serve As a Personal Representative?

The personal representative can be an individual, bank or trust company, subject to certain restrictions. To qualify to serve as a personal representative, an individual must be either a Florida resident or, regardless of residence, a spouse, sibling, parent, child or other close relative of the decedent. An individual who is not a legal resident of Florida, and who is not closely related to the decedent, cannot serve as a personal representative. To learn more about the estate administration and personal representative services offered by the Legacy Foundation for Shell Point residents, please give the office a call at (239) 466-8484 to schedule a complimentary appointment to learn more.

October Legacy Seminar

LEGACYFOUNDATION AT S H E L L P O I N T

Common Tax Questions from Seniors Medical Expenses, Medical Deductions, Gifts, Donations, Social Security Benefits and Required Minimum Distributions Thursday, October 17 • 10 to 11 a.m. Grand Cypress Room/WDL Tax law is constantly changing, but the most commonly asked questions remain the same. The presentation by Michele Hoover, CPA, will discuss the following frequently asked questions: Michele Hoover, CPA, of Solomon & Hoover CPAs PLLC

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What is new in 2019 for medical expenses? What medical deductions are you missing? What are the advantages of donating appreciated stock? What happens if you gift more than $15,000 to a family member or a friend? What counts as a gift? • How can you decrease the tax you pay on your required minimum distribution? • Why would your Social Security benefits decrease?

Hit the Links for a Great Cause Annual Tournament to Support Waterside Health Center Campaign Friday, November 8

Golfers are invited to participate in the 16th Annual Shell Point Open Golf Tournament, which will be held on Friday, November 8, from 7 a.m. to 2 p.m. at Shell Point Golf Club in Coastal Links. Players will begin with registration at 7 a.m., followed by play on Shell Point’s championship, 18-hole course. This tournament will provide many opportunities to win hole-in-one prizes. Giveaways, a catered luncheon at the Banyan Grille and individual gift bags are included in the $150 player fee. A portion of the tournament cost is tax-deductible. This popular event fills up quickly! Contact The Legacy Foundation at (239) 466-8484 to place an individual reservation, or to register a team. Sponsorship opportunities are also available.

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All Creatures Great and Small BY CHRISTINA GROCHOWSKI, ACTIVITIES LEADER

In August, Shell Point residents gathered in the Grand Cypress Room at The Woodlands to hear a presentation about the history, mission and future of the Naples Zoo. The zoo’s director of education, Stacy Graison, gave an informative talk that explained how the attraction has transformed over the years – especially in regards to conservation efforts and expansion plans. As a special treat for the animal lovers in the crowd, a few reptile “friends” also came along for the visit!

A Painting Party This summer, Shell Point residents headed to Cape Coral to learn how to paint a beach scene at Hands On Art Gallery. The art gallery’s owner Lourna showed everyone how to paint this beautiful scene with easy, step-by-step instructions. The budding artists mixed colors together to achieve the perfect shades of green and blue. Lourna even provided a lesson about which brush to use as residents progressed through each featured section of the painting. Residents found the environment at Hands On Art Gallery to be a great inspiration. The walls of the gallery are filled with paintings that show off many different techniques! The painters shared snacks and laughs while comparing paintings and noting how different, yet similar, all of the paintings turned out. In fact, Nan Sprague (King’s Crown) entered her work of art, created during this offsite trip, into the art show hosted by her court earlier this summer.

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Residents met the Naples Zoo’s friendly bearded dragon and ball python.

BY ASHLEY ROBBIN, O F F S I T E P R O G R A M C O O R D I N AT O R

Following Hands On Art Gallery, residents traveled to CRAVE, one of Fort Myers’ most talked about restaurants for classic comfort foods with fresh, local flair.

Overall, the trip was a fun and creative experience that residents are sure to look back on and smile. Keep an eye out for more fun outings to Hands On Art Gallery!

Transferring

Your Values BY ANNA SMITH, MANAGING EXECUTIVE OF FINEMARK N AT I O N A L B A N K & T R U S T

When confronted with how best to transfer your wealth to younger generations, most families invariably focus on preservation, taxation and governance. However, success in these areas does not ensure your heirs will maintain what you have earned. In fact, research shows 70 percent of wealth transitions fail and the wealth disappears after the first generation. Although there are many reasons why this happens, one commonality is the failure to communicate and transfer family values along with wealth. Most parents and grandparents know that at some point they need to talk with the next generations about the size of the family estate and how the assets will ultimately be transferred. However, how and when to have this conversation can be difficult. If communication is done too early, there is risk that some children will stop being productive members of society; knowing that an inheritance is awaiting them. If done too late, the children may not have time to learn the financial acumen neces-

sary to manage their inheritance. To help start the conversation, it’s a good idea to create a roadmap that will: • Establish Values and Mission • Identify Key Skills • Assemble Money Mentors Establishing a family’s values and mission should start with the family leaders but should eventually include other family members. Examples of values may include education, entrepreneurship, philanthropy, humility and service to others. Once your family has determined what values are most important, it’s time to craft a mission statement that will unite your family around a common sense of purpose. A family’s mis-

sion statement lays out your values, goals and standards. All family members should be included in this part of the process. After a family’s values and mission have been formalized, the next step is identifying the key skills the children will need to carry out the family’s mission. This may be as simple as budgeting or may involve more complicated skills like learning how to evaluate charities to receive distributions from the family’s foundation. Defining a set of skills gives structure to what is an otherwise daunting challenge – becoming financially literate. The next step is to establish trusted mentors to help the next generation hone their financial skills. Mentors can be family members, but they can also be friends and trusted advisors. The goal is to surround your family with financially savvy people who can help navigate the issues that may arise with wealth. Every family is unique and will make different decisions based on their goals for future generations, but the key is to have a plan. And if you start with these three elements, you will have a good start to ensuring your values are passed on, along with your wealth. Member FDIC. An Equal Housing Lender. Trust and investment services are not FDIC insured, are not guaranteed by the bank and may lose value. This material is in summary form, and should not be relied upon as complete.

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Christmas In October Sale

OCTOBER 15 –19 FROM TUESDAY, OCTOBER 15, THROUGH SATURDAY, OCTOBER 19, THE COMMUNITY THRIFT STORE WILL TRANSFORM INTO A WINTER WONDERLAND FOR THE STORE’S CHRISTMAS IN OCTOBER SALE. Stop by from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. to shop a myriad of Christmas items for sale. The store is located at Miner’s Plaza in Fort Myers at 15501 Old McGregor Blvd. For more information, contact Community Thrift Store Manager Erica May at (239) 225-6529.

Special Dining Events at The Crystal B Y A D A M T H O M P S O N , D I N I N G M A N A G E R , T H E C R Y S TA L

Celebrate Oktoberfest at The Crystal Tuesday, October 15 from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m.

Choose from beer and cheddar soup with kielbasa, schwein schnitzel, sauerbraten short ribs, bratwurst with apple sauerkraut, Bavarian chicken and kummel klops – or German meatballs. As always, a variety of delicious, traditional sides will accompany the entrées, including carrots and turnips, braised red cabbage and German potato salad – as well as a selection of desserts like apple strudel and Black Forest cake. The Oktoberfest meal costs $17 for residents, plus gratuity, while non-residents pay $20, plus gratuity. Reservations are encouraged.

Time for a Beach Party at The Crystal Thursday, October 17 from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m.

Additionally, The Crystal will host a special Beach Party After Party on Thursday, October 17 from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m. Mouthwatering entrees include orange mojo-roasted pig, grilled Scottish salmon with avocado-tomato relish, honey-ginger chicken breast with mango relish, teriyaki beef kebabs, Okinawa sweet potatoes and delectable desserts such as pineapple upsidedown cake. The meal costs $17 for residents, plus gratuity, while non-residents pay $20, plus gratuity. Reservations are encouraged. 38

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Dining Update

New Seasonal Hours and Menus Now Available

HOURS OF OPERATION Effective October 1

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The Crystal

Lunch • Monday through Friday • 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. Dinner • Monday through Friday • 4 p.m. to 7 p.m. Sunday Brunch • 10:30 a.m. to 2 p.m. Closed Saturday Carryout orders may be placed at (239) 454-2199.

Island Café (Reopens in October) Breakfast, Lunch and Dinner Open Daily • 7 a.m. to 7 p.m. (239) 454-2286

The Crystal’s new Lobster Roll

This summer, the Shell Point dining team has been hard at work preparing for season, which brings an increase in the number of residents who stay on campus, as well as traffic from the Southwest Florida community. In addition to expanding restaurant hours to accommodate increased seasonal traffic, each chef has prepared new menu items for diners to enjoy. Be sure to stop by the Banyan Grille, The Crystal, the Palm Grill, Breezeway Café, the Island Café and Blend to discover your new favorite fall dishes. Another favorite feature that residents enjoy at The Crystal is the themed dinner buffets, which have returned for season. Served from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m. on weekdays, the theme for each buffet varies, rotating based on the day of the week. On Monday, residents can enjoy traditional comfort foods, followed by Asian cuisine on Tuesday. Wednesday’s buffet lets diners choose from an array of pizza. On Thursday, a carving board buffet will tempt meat lovers while Friday celebrates Shell Point’s tropical setting with a seafood buffet. “While preparing our new menu items and reintroducing the popular themed buffets at The Crystal, the Dining team incorporated resident feedback and requests into the new menus,” said Director of Dining Paul Tison. “Hurry in! We can’t wait to hear what you think of our new recipes – from the Banyan Grille’s quinoa taco salad to The Crystal’s lobster roll and gruyere chicken sandwich.”

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Palm Grill

Lunch • Tuesday through Saturday • 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. Dinner • Tuesday through Saturday • 4 p.m. to 8 p.m. Closed Sunday and Monday Carryout orders may be placed at (239) 454-2059

Blend

Breakfast and Lunch Sunday through Friday • 8 a.m. to 2 p.m. Closed Saturday (239) 454-2060

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Banyan Grille

Lunch • Tuesday through Saturday • 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. Sunday Brunch • 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. Closed Monday Reservations are recommended at (239) 225-2900.

Breezeway Café

Breakfast and Lunch Monday • 7 a.m. to 2 p.m. Tuesday through Sunday • 7 a.m. to 11 a.m. (239) 225-2955 Shell Point Life | October 2019

Have You Noticed? BY HELEN MCDONALD (OA K M O N T ) , E M P LOY E E CHRISTMAS FUND COMMITTEE MEMBER

It is amazing to think of all the people it takes to make living at Shell Point so pleasant for the residents. Have you noticed… • How beautiful and clean Shell Point always is? • That when you need help with an issue, someone at the “One Call Does It All” Call Center will give your information to the right person who can assist you?

pastimes are clean and set up for your event?

• Bus drivers assisting residents on and off the buses?

• That upkeep on our property is an ongoing necessity?

• How the maintenance team helps with repairs and leaves your home neat?

• How many activities and classes are available?

• The amount of time that dining employees spend making meals? • The swimming pools are always clean for residents’ use?

• That fitness and health are important and encouraged for every level of participation? • Hurricane season brings out the best in everyone on campus?

• The number of linens needed for all of the restaurants and the Larsen Pavilion, as well as pool towels?

• There are people who can help with sorting out charges and questions about your Shell Point statements?

• You can wash your car in two places, enjoy walking your dog and playing in the dog park?

• How many church related activities are available?

• Meeting rooms for your favorite

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• It is easier to look your best with the help of the salons?

WAYS TO GIVE Please consider making a contribution to the Employee Christmas Fund on a regular basis – it is so much easier than coming up with a gift when you are finalizing your family gifts. It is not too late to still do that and, of course, a one-time gift is acceptable. But however you choose to do it, please consider all the people who make our daily lives so much easier – and seeing the happiness on our employees’ faces makes Christmas a little more special for us. Donate online by going to www.shellpoint.net/christmasfund to make a single or recurring gift which can be charged to your monthly account. Send a check made payable to Shell Point through campus mail to the Finance office. Email or contact the Shell Point Finance office about having donations put on your monthly account.

This Holiday season, Choose Shell Point Catering! B Y K R I S S V E T L I A K , C AT E R I N G M A N A G E R

Remove all the stress of party and event planning from your life, and leave it to Shell Point’s catering department. With a goal to provide more events and services in areas where Shell Point residents gather most, activity leaders are providing custom experiences throughout Shell Point that will make memories that will last a lifetime. Working directly with Shell Point’s talented culinary team, these experiences are aimed to be as authentic as possible, featuring food and entertainment from around the globe. Shell Point offers full-service catering options in many of its meeting rooms throughout the campus. The Banquet and Private Dining Room at Coastal Commons, the Grand Cypress Room at The Woodlands and the Social Center on The Island can all be booked at no cost to Shell Point resi-

dents and reasonable pricing to the public. For court parties, birthdays, anniversaries or the celebration of a life well lived, the catering manager can assist with all aspects of the event planning, including booking, menu production, décor and billing, to name a few. The extraordinary culinary skills of Shell Point’s own team of expert chefs will bring creativity to each dish, delivering a winning combination of elegant, creative cuisine and uncompromising service for all types of meetings and functions, big or small. Breakfast, lunch and dinner packages are available at variable pricing and are yours to discover. In addition to the above services, the catering team can create delicious meals for private lunch or dinner parties at your residence. These meals can be arranged for pickup at one of Shell Point’s dining venues, or they can be delivered right to your front

door. Each meal comes fully equipped with warming instructions and anything else you may need to have an enjoyable meal with friends and family.

Shell Point Catering Services • Court parties and events • Birthdays and anniversaries • Celebration of life • Business meetings & conferences • Precooked and packaged meals, ready for delivery or pickup The calendar of special events is filling quickly, so place your reservation today! Please contact Catering Manager Kris Svetliak for your holiday catering needs by emailing catering@shellpoint.org or by calling (239) 225-2961. Shell Point Life | October 2019

Biblical Assisted Living R E V. A N D R E W H A W K I N S , P H . D. , S E N I O R PA S TO R , T H E V I L L AG E C H U R C H

We try not to think about it. We know the day will come. We see it around us in our very special community. We experience it with our spouses, friends, and neighbors. We may even be going through it right now, ourselves. It’s the day we need help. Serious help. Help with some of the basic issues of life. What we called, in my prior university work, “activities of daily living.” It’s the day we need help getting dressed and undressed. We pride ourselves on our independence. We believe we’ve pulled ourselves up by our own bootstraps. We think we are “self-made men” (and women, of course). But in reality, there will come a time when we need help and someone

else must take care of us. Sooner or later, we are all humbled in this way. I’ve been preaching my way through the Gospel of John. We’re up to the 11th chapter. That’s the wonderful chapter where Jesus raises Lazarus from the dead. Jesus declares himself to be the “resurrection and the life.” It’s an extraordinary story of the sovereign power of Christ, who with love and compassion for his friend, calls to Lazarus, who has been dead in the grave for four days, “Lazarus, come out!” And so, Lazarus comes out! He waddles himself out of the tomb where he’d been placed, responsive to the voice of the incarnate Son of God. I say “waddles” because he had trouble walking. That’s because in the Jewish burial

practices of the day they had bound him head-to-foot with linen grave wrappings laced with spices. Those symbols of death were still attached to him. He was alive, but looked like “dead man walking.” “Lazarus, come out!” was Jesus’ first command in that moment. It was directed to Lazarus. His second command was directed to his friends and family. He said, “Unbind him, and let him go.” Jesus was saying to his loved ones, “Help him get undressed!” Lazarus couldn’t remove the graveclothes by himself. He needed help. He needed assisted living! Sooner or later we all need help. But spiritually, in our case, it’s sooner. Lazarus is a picture of the redeemed person – born again, the way the Bible puts it. But redeemed people still bear the marks of death, still wear the grave clothes. And we can’t rid ourselves of the grave clothes by ourselves. We need the help of our friends. The way we do it in the Christian community is by getting together, studying the scriptures together, praying together and encouraging one another as we grow in Christ. It’s all part of “building a community of forgiveness, purpose and hope in Jesus Christ.” We can’t do it alone. Even Lazarus, raised from the dead, needed help. We do too!

The Show Must Go On! Hailing from the world-famous Flying Wallenda family, Tino Wallenda has brought the thrills of death-defying, artistic high wire performance to audiences across the nation and the world. You won’t want to miss Tino’s inspiring demonstration at The Village Church on The Island, which will take place Friday, November 15 at 10 a.m. Tino will share his story and his faith with the audience as he mounts a high wire apparatus inside the church. At the age of 12, Tino made his first crossing on the high wire, moving 35 feet

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above the ground. At 17, Tino became a full-fledged member of the Great Wallenda troupe. Today, Tino has accomplished many feats on the wire, walking over lions, tigers and man-eating sharks as well as between buildings, over rivers and across a waterfall. His highest walk to date took place over the Denver D&F Tower in Colorado at a height of 189 feet! As you make your plans to attend this free event, please note that parking at The Village Church will be very limited; using Shell Point bus transportation is highly recommended. Tickets are

The Flying Wallendas are a family of high wire act performers. Shell Point welcomes Tino Wallenda to the Village Church on November 15 for an inspiring demonstration.

not required and seating will be available on a first-come, first-served basis. For questions, contact the Village Church Office at (239) 454-2147.

Fall Missions Focus

at The Village Church October 25 – 27 B Y P E T E R N A N F E LT ( T E L L I D O R A )

This month, The Village Church will host a special event featuring a unique organization called Freedom to Lead. Under the direction of its president, Dr. Rick Sessoms, Freedom to Lead has seen remarkable success in the first ten years of its existence, having been responsible for training thousands of church leaders in 35 African and East Asian countries. With the realization that 80 percent of the world’s people are story-centric communicators, Freedom to Lead has developed an innovative training approach that focuses on stories, images, drama and music to teach leadership principles to aspiring leaders in many different cultural settings. Rick has a personal passion for leadership development due, in part, to his own ministry involvement. He has served as a missionary teacher at a theological school in Indonesia, pastored two church congregations in the United States, served as a professor and vice president of spiritual formation at Simpson University in California, and filled the role of leadership development officer with Trans World Radio, an international Christian radio ministry. Rick earned a doctor of ministry degree from Trinity International University, and

During this series of missionfocused events, you’ll meet Rick Sessoms and his daughter Michelle.

a Ph.D. in organizational leadership from Regent University. Working with Freedom to Lead as the communications director is Rick’s daughter, Michelle Sessoms, who has considerable ministry experience in her own right. She spent 10 years in China as an English teacher, eventually becoming an administrator with an organization called English Language Institute China. During this time, Michelle learned Mandarin and Uighur, a language spoken by a Muslim Turkish group. She also speaks some French and Swahili. Michelle has been on short-term missions trips in Mexico, spent a semester studying in Kenya and has traveled in

Nepal and India as part of her work with Freedom to Lead. All of this is quite remarkable in light of the fact that, at age 7, it was discovered that Michelle has an 80 percent hearing loss. Under her mother’s tutelage, she was taught to read lips, a skill that she has honed over the years. The weekend’s events will begin on Friday, October 25, with a 2 p.m. Academy class entitled Story, Symbol and Song for All. In the evening, beginning at 7:15 p.m. at The Village Church, Rick will use a round-table format to lead a discussion on the subject of leadership. At a Men’s Coffee, which will begin at 9:30 a.m. on Saturday morning, Rick will address an entirely different topic: Who Am I in Retirement? The Fall Missions Focus will conclude with Rick speaking at The Village Church on Sunday morning, and both he and Michelle will speak in the evening. For questions or more information, contact the Village Church Office at (239) 454-2147.

Let’s Catch A Movie Together The Pilgrim’s Progress You’re invited to join The Village Church for special viewing of The Pilgrim’s Progress (PG) (2019) during a movie night hosted on Monday, October 14, at 6:45 p.m. in the Social Center on The Island. Based on John Bunyan’s epic masterpiece, The Pilgrim’s Progress is one of the most popular books of all time, and an important story about the Christian faith.

Second to the Bible in total copies and translations, the story was written by John Bunyan, a pastor who was imprisoned for sharing his faith. This powerful allegory helps families understand that the spiritual journey is the most important journey in life, as well as the importance of sticking to the path, even when the journey gets difficult.

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Natu re’s Notebook BY ST E V E M O RTO N , D I R E C TO R O F L A N D S C A P E O P E R AT I O N S

Chariots of Fire

I placed my toe on the line and stood shoulder-to-shoulder with 100 men and women; all of approximate age and serious intent. The music booming from large speakers was completely obliterated by the 50,000 volts of adrenalin ripping through my veins. In my ears, I could hear each thump of my pulse as if the delicate membranes were a timpani drum in a John Philip Sousa march. There was a sharp sound that should have startled me, but nothing could overcome the hormonal amplitude. Like a multi-celled organism, a collective of humanity flowed forward in a single, fluid movement. The year was 1981, and I had read both Ken Cooper’s and Jim Fixx’s books. Reading actual books is what we did before the invention of the internet, and it is how we obtained the most current and relevant information. Convinced of the importance of exercise, I found myself engulfed in a mass of sweating strangers, surging together toward the completion of my first 10K run. I do not recall having an awareness how far 10K actually was, but within 50 yards my legs were screaming, “I hate running!” I am told that endurance athletes attempt to visualize a sense of serenity to overcome the pain of competition. All that I could conjure was a group of English men running almost effortlessly on a beach from a rather dramatic scene in a recent film. The soothing soundtrack by Vangelis played in the tape recorder of my mind as the kilometers began to roll by. To keep further occupied, I compulsively

repeated a stanza from the William Blake’ poem Jerusalem that inspired the movie.

Bring me my Bow of burning gold: Bring me my Arrows of desire: Bring me my Spear: O clouds unfold! Bring me my Chariot of fire!

I no longer attempt running unless I am fleeing a friendly rain shower or an unfriendly wasp, but I do enjoy a pleasant bicycle tour. Now, my thoughts of serenity during the ride often turn toward landscape plants and, although I still recite Blake’s

poem, my visual has changed. Odontonema cuspidatum fills my mind with fire. Like the spear of Prometheus, the footlong flower spike towers over the foliage in a terminal raceme. The blazing crimson flowers of the red firespike are three inches long and tubular in shape, offering a reservoir of nectar to passing butterflies. Growing over six feet tall, cuspidatum is a big, impressive herbaceous shrub. Red firespike is originally native to Mexico, however it has been naturalized in the Caribbean, Central and South America, and Florida as a unique landscape plant. Blooming in late summer and early fall, the firespike’s concentrated, carbohydrate nectar is one of the preferred sources of fuel for those little “chariots of fire” known as ruby throated hummingbirds, in preparation for their fall migration across 500 miles of open water to Mexico. There are only three plantings of firespike at Shell Point. But like the discovery of fire, the rewards for finding this special plant are great. Come Fire Walk With Me to locate the firespike planting on The Island. In the center of the Island Park is a circular planting of firespike. Go on a Quest for Fire in The Woodlands. At the Oakmont parking garage, pedestrian entrance, there is a small planting of firespike on the left side. Finally, complete your search at the largest planting on the property with a Towering Inferno of firespike, located at the sidewalk that is north of The Arbor, near the wall of the adjacent neighborhood of St Charles Harbour. I can feel the fire, can you?