ALSO INSIDE: Pickleball Pros • Vision 2020 Picnic • Wellness In Action November 2019 Vol. 14 Issue 11
MISSION FIRST,
PEOPLE ALWAYS ARMY COLONEL LEADS BY EXAMPLE
O, give thanks unto the Lord, for He is good. –1 Chronicles 16:34
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The Thanksgiving holiday brings visions of family gathering around a traditional turkey feast, sharing appreciation for life’s lessons and precious gifts. At Shell Point, there’s something for which everyone can be truly grateful: the community of friends, neighbors and even employees who share their lives with one another.
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On page 8, you’ll meet a passionate group of residents who count Shell Point’s professional pickleball courts as a blessing. These sporty enthusiasts hone their game through weekly lessons and daily group play – and you’re invited to join them! Need some inspiration? On page 12, you’ll meet pickleball gold medalist Ed Gore (Cellana) and spunky walker Gus Ormrod (The Arbor), two more residents who love to stay active in the great outdoors.
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If you’re planning ahead for Thanksgiving dinner, you may want to review page 15 to get the scoop on dining at Shell Point, including a take-away feast that lets you celebrate in the comfort of your own home.
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the C over Retired Colonel Jim Stapleton has a motto for his life: Mission first, people always. This intrepid Army man trained and led men through the jungles of Vietnam on combat engagements for seven months without losing a single soul, despite overwhelming odds. And like a true leader, he attributes that success to his men. Find his story on page 38. 2
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Shell Point Life is published monthly for the residents of Shell Point Retirement Community. Director of Marketing & Communications Lynn Schneider Editor Sarah Nadal Creative Director Rich Cerrina Senior Designer Wendy Iverson Contributors Robyn Church, Beth Crenshaw, Sue Earnhardt, Claude Emler, Ann Erickson, Marilynn Fowler, Christina Grochowski, Kirk Gulledge, Janine Hammond, Craig Handel, Tom Irwin, Gabriella Kelly, Teri Kollath, Erica May, Ginny Miller-Plaza, Wendy Perera, Don Pullen, Ashley Robbin, Emily Rose, Laura Slack, Lilli Spolar, Adam Thompson, Monica Tison, Michelle Tompkins, Dottie Tronnes, Susan Uhleman Do you have story ideas or photos to share? Contact Editor Sarah Nadal by calling (239) 454-2055 or emailing sarahnadal@shellpoint.org Shell Point Life Available Online You can find the current issue as well as back issues of Shell Point Life magazine at www.shellpoint.org/shellpointlife.
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Don’t Miss the Vision 2020 Kickoff Picnic The future looks bright for healthcare at Shell Point! Head to Serenity Cove on Thursday, November 14th from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. as Shell Point kicks off the Vision 2020 Campaign for Waterside Health Center with an old-fashioned picnic, hosted by the Legacy Foundation. Join your Shell Point friends and neighbors for this FREE fun- Mountain Faith Band filled event in preparation for the These two-by-fours will then be saved to new Waterside Health Center. Residents will be served their choice of place into the walls of the future Waterside fried chicken or a spinach strawberry salad, Health Center during construction. Another exciting activity as well as potato salad, kale at this event will be the aerial coleslaw, corn muffins, fruit and camera fly-over where the a lemon bundt cake. Your meal SPTV team will be taking a will be topped off with iced tea, photo of the entire group below water or sparkling lemonade. giving a big thumbs up to the Festivities for the day will project! Residents will receive include entertainment provided special commemorative sunby Summer Brooke & The glasses to enjoy at the event and Mountain Faith Band. take home afterwards. Plus, to commemorate the This event is complilaunch of this exciting project mentary, however a ticket is we will have three stations set up with actual two-by-fours of wood, required. Please stop by any concierge desk which will be used in the construction to pick up your ticket. Be sure to tell the of the project, for residents to sign. In concierge whether you want the chicken or addition, please feel free to add a meaning- spinach strawberry salad. Your meal choice ful Bible verse or a personalized message. will be indicated on your ticket. Also,
please note that in order to provide excellent food and outstanding service at this event, The Crystal and Banyan Grille will be closed for the picnic so that staff may help cook and serve at the picnic. Island Café, Blend and Palm Grill will remain open for regular hours.
Parking and Transportation A big turnout is expected at this event, and there is no event parking available at Serenity Cove. All guests must travel on foot, by golf cart or by bus. (There is parking available for golf carts in a grassy area nearby.) Therefore, Shell Point will provide bus transportation. Please review the following bus schedule for the Vision 2020 Picnic. We encourage residents of the Garden Courts and Mid-rises to walk, if possible. Courtesy golf cart shuttles will be provided. The Island Court Pickup Times: 10:30 a.m., 11 a.m. 11:30 a.m., 12 p.m., 12:30 p.m. The Woodlands Court Pickup Times: 10 a.m., 10:15 a.m., 10:30 a.m., 10:45 a.m. 11 a.m., 11:15 a.m., 11:30 a.m., 11:45 a.m. Eagles Preserve Court Pickup Time: 10:30 a.m. The Estuary Court Pickup Time: 10:35 a.m. The Springs Court Pickup Time: 10:35 a.m. King’s Crown Court Pickup Time: 10:55 a.m.
Residents are welcome to stop by any concierge desk to pick up their FREE ticket to this event. For questions, call the Legacy Foundation at (239) 466-8484. Shell Point Life | November 2019
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Active Aging Week 2019 at Shell Point
Monday, September 30 - Friday, October 4 In 2003, the International Council on Active Aging dedicated this week to the positivity of aging. Active Aging Week demonstrates that regardless of age or health conditions, adults over 50 can live an active and full life. Shell Point celebrates this national observance each year, and Active Aging Week 2019 turned out to be a great success! Residents participated in a variety of events and programs geared around celebrating an active Shell Point lifestyle. During the week, residents could be spotted out and about in the community, participating in a Trail Walk. Residents also learned about the importance of keeping active, eating healthy and practicing self-care in addition to various health-related presentations from experts such as Shell Point’s own Dr. Kathy Thompson; Dr. Stuart Zola, an Alzheimer’s researcher from Atlanta; or special guest and wellness coach, Dr. Luann Fortune. Continued on next page
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Outdoor Workout!
A weeklong celebration focused on the positivity of aging and active living
Classes!
Movin’ & Groovin’ Trail Walk!
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Active Aging Week 2019
Cognitive Training!
Billiards!
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Fun & Games!
“Age is no barrier. It’s a limitation you put on your mind.” – Jackie Joyner-Kersee ACTIVE AGING WEEK Continued from page 5
Zumba!
Check out the Social Scene for more great photos!
Resident enthusiasm for the week of events came through loud and clear. Those who took part in the trip to Southern Fresh Farms and the Suzy Q Ecological Tour came back saying they wanted to do it again! Residents could be found excitedly yelling B-I-N-G-O at The Cove, getting physically active during the CT Maxx cognitive training fitness class, and learning about Vitamin C skincare from the Shell Point Salon & Spa. If you think this year was a blast, just wait until 2020!
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BALL’S IN YOUR COURT PICKLEBALL BACK IN SWING P
ickleball is one of the fastest growing sports in America. It has had a 650 percent increase in participation over the last six years, according to the United States Pickleball Association. More than 3.1 million play the sport, and there are more than 21,000 courts in the United States and overseas. What’s more, Southwest Florida is a favored destination for pickleball players. Last May, more than 12,000 pickleball fans and 2,100 players traveled from all over the country to Naples, Florida for the fourth annual national championships.
Pickleball also hits pretty close to home. That is because, thanks to the advocacy of many Shell Point residents and the strong support of the Shell Point administration, the retirement resort is home to five pickleball courts. Four are located at Center Court in The Woodlands and another is located on The Island near Serenity Cove. Shell Point residents play on the courts, seven days a week, with regular play beginning early in the morning on Tuesday, Thursday and Saturdays for beginners and intermediate players. Advanced interme-
diate and advanced players meet Monday, Wednesday and Friday.
PICKLEBALL CHAMPIONS
Jerry Ingalls (Eagles Preserve) became interested in the sport five years ago when he and a few others attended a pickleball demonstration planned by the Shell Point Wellness and Fitness teams. Today, he estimates that there are about 80 players on campus when seasonal Continued on next page Shell Point Life | November 2019
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residents are in town. “There are all kinds of skill levels and different frequencies of play. Some are very happy to play two to three times a week, and some play once or twice a month,” said Jerry, who earned a silver medal at the national competition with partner Bert Dias (Cameo). “We also have some 70- and 80-yearolds who are quite competitive. But everyone has fun! People are very generous about making ‘line calls,’ and we hold a friendly picnic every couple of months,” added Jerry. Resident Pat Divinnie (Eagles Preserve) has also turned into a big fan after learning the sport two years ago. “I never played tennis before, and pickleball was out of the ordinary,” Pat said. “I found it was good for my cardiovascular health as well as a good way to meet other people. No matter what your age, you are welcome, from beginner to advanced.” An assistant chaplain volunteer at King’s Crown, Pat admits she is surprised how competitive she’s become. “This gives me a whole different side,” she said. “One is spiritual. But God gave us bodies and asked us to use them as best we can.” 10
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PLAYING LIKE PROS
Pickleball pro Rick Colling coaches residents who want to improve their game As interest in pickleball began to swell, Jerry and others helped Shell Point recruit Rick Colling. Rick is currently a member of the International Pickleball Teaching Professional Association and a Lee County Senior Games Pickleball Tournament assistant. He also spends time in Lynchburg, Virginia, where he serves as the director of the Ivy Hill Pickleball Community. Rick has won gold, silver and bronze medals in 50 different competitions across the country – and he’s become a champion of the sport. “What other sport exists on planet earth where the cost to play is low, one can get great exercise, compete at whatever level they care to compete, be forever challenged mentally and physically by the game, laugh so hard it hurts at times, and also make tons of new lifelong friends?” asked Rick. For many Shell Point residents, it’s a great transition from tennis where the court is smaller. For others, the doubles aspect lends itself to camaraderie. “A game can go eight to 10 minutes,” Rick said. “A best-of-three can go 30 to 50 minutes.” The residents are happy with their part-time pickleball pro. “It was already a hard-hitting game at Shell Point, but Rick has brought this to a whole different level by teaching us the finer points of the rules,” said Jerry. “He’s also helped us prepare for tournaments.” A beginner’s lesson offers the necessary foundation for some residents, who are just testing the waters with pickleball. Both Rick and Jerry’s wife, Phyllis Ingalls (Eagles Preserve), give lessons for beginners. The sessions go over the fundamentals, like paddle positioning and shot making, plus setting up leagues and
Rick Colling, Pickleball Pro
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small-scale tournaments. Rick appreciates watching real growth happen when he coaches others in this rewarding sport. “It’s natural to want to improve. Pickleball is not just social and recreational fun, but it also stimulates the intellect. It’s a combination of a chess match and a dance with your partner. You really want to move together. It’s almost choreographed. Two mediocre players can play with excellence if they do it together.” He also stressed good sportsmanship. “When I talk to any people who are playing recreationally, I say, ‘We’re here as a community to take care of each other.’ We keep score and compete, but we also keep in mind the socialization of having fun and being together.” So don’t be surprised when you go to the courts over the holidays and see all sorts of ages playing. “It happens all the time,” said Rick. “When people come down to visit, the parents, grandparents and children all hit the courts. It’s not uncommon to see three generations on the court. And what a great family tradition to pass on!” Rick Colling likes to close his eyes and listen to residents play pickleball. Not just the pop-pop-pop of racquet hitting ball, but the laughter, giggling and shouting. “Everyone is having a good time,” said Rick. “Residents are getting great exercise, and it’s a wonderful social sport.”
READY TO START LEARNING?
It’s time to grab a paddle and head to the pickleball courts! This fall, Shell Point residents can receive a free introductory beginner’s lesson, as well as benefit from a program that will integrate them into regular play. For more information about this fantastic opportunity, call Jerry Ingalls at (239) 322-2014 or Joe Burkart (Eagles Preserve) at (757) 585-9263.
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Ready. Set. GOALS! Residents Stay Active Through Walking and Pickleball BY M I C H E L L E TO M P K I N S , W E L L N E SS M A N AG E R
Shell Point athletes have their eyes on the prize! When it comes to staying fit and active, residents have a variety of options to choose from. Whether it’s taking a morning walk along the river’s edge, building strength and stamina in a fitness class, swimming laps at the LifeQuest Aquatic Center or joining a game of croquet, all the bases are covered! In many cases, residents move in and try their hand at a new hobby for the very first time, like pottery, knitting, woodworking or a new sport. Sometimes a spark is ignited, and it becomes something more and a motivation to go further, like for residents Ed Gore (Cellana) and Gus Ormrod (The Arbor), who both have a goal of competing at the National Senior Games and bringing home a gold medal.
Medal Mania Ed has been playing pickleball for just one year and has already grown leaps and bounds with his success and proficiency in the sport. With a professional background in health and physical education, as well as nearly 20 years of coaching experience, Ed Gore is not a novice when it comes to the sports arena. He has been playing pickleball since May 2018 after meeting another resident who was eager to introduce him to the sport and invite him to join a game. Shortly after, Ed showed up at Center Court and that’s when his passion for pickleball began. “Pickleball provides a wonderful opportunity to remain active. It is also a great way to meet and get to know other pickleball enthusiasts. It has helped me make new friends,” shared Ed. “The facilities are incredible and the opportunity to play year-round is a player’s dream come true.” Ed enjoys teaching and coaching, and has a desire to see others enjoy the game of pickleball as much as he does. Ed can be found on the courts most days of the week, playing at Shell Point and practicing on his own through lessons and various picklePavement pounder Gus Ormrod (The Arbor) sets his course and gets his steps in while walking the scenic pathways around The Woodlands neighborhood.
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ball-specific drills in order to be successful at various tournaments. He played in his first tournament in July 2018 and most recently earned gold medals at both the Lucy Kitcher Sundial Resort Gamma Tournament on Sanibel this past April, and in June at the Tennessee Senior Olympic finals in Franklin, Tennessee. Ed competes in the 65-69 age group in both men’s doubles and mixed doubles. “My competition goal is to be the best player I can be at my age, and to continue to compete in tournaments including national events,” he said.
Wholehearted Walking You might run into Gus early in the morning, if you’re out walking around The Woodlands. Gus has been walking for fitness and entering races for what seems to be most of his life. He has walked in everything from 5Ks to his most memorable distance, the Sierra Club’s One Day Hike, which is a 100K route. This 62-mile hike, where hikers walk through a part of Harper’s Ferry National Historical Park, has been taking place annually since 1974. The route begins in Georgetown, Washington D.C. and ends in Bolivar, West Virginia. Gus entered the event for the third and final time when he was 75, and vividly remembers feeling shoulder pain around the 30-mile mark. “I mentioned to my wife the pain I was feeling in my shoulder, and she said ‘I’ve been hearing about this hike for months. You better get out there and finish it!’” recalled Gus. He started the trek before the sun rose at 3 a.m. and finished by 8 p.m. – a feat not many can say they’ve accomplished. In past years, Gus has won several gold medals at the Florida senior games in the 5K and 1,500-meter walk races. Last March, at the Polk County Senior Games in Bartow, Florida, he won and set records in the 5K and 1,500-meter walk races for the 90 to 95 age group. Gus made record times of 44:09 for the 5K and 12:39 for the 1,500 meter. “I walked faster at 75 than I did at 50,” said Gus. At Shell Point, Gus and his Decorated medalist Ed Gore has wife Jackie lived in Sand Dollar already achieved success during for 14 years before moving to his first year playing pickleball; The Arbor, where he continnow, it’s on to the National Senior Games! ues walking and takes his own advice of “keep at it and don’t stop.” Gus plans to continue to train and stay healthy so he can participate in the National Senior Games, along with Ed Gore. The first step will be for these residents to qualify at the regional level, followed by the state level, before national competition in 2021, which will take place in Fort Lauderdale. Let’s cheer them both on and follow their future success! Shell Point Life | November 2019
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SHOP AT THE ARTISTS & ARTISANS
HOLIDAY BAZAAR FRIDAY, NOV. 1 • SATURDAY, NOV. 2 9 A.M. TO 2 P.M. The Village Church on The Island Browse many one-of-a-kind gifts, created by more than 60 talented Shell Point residents—just in time for the holidays. This is your chance to find something special for everyone on your shopping list!
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Thanksgiving Day Dining Thanksgiving is a well-loved, traditional American holiday. Consider spending this warm, thankful occasion at one of the numerous dining venues at Shell Point. The Family Feast, a Shell Point tradition, will also be offered as an option to provide a complete home-cooked dinner to share with those you love, from the comfort of your own residence.
The Crystal
10:30 a.m. to 2 p.m. The traditional Thanksgiving Day buffet in The Crystal on The Island will feature carved citrus-herb roasted turkey with gravy, orange cranberry relish, baked ham, corn casserole, sausage-apple stuffing, roasted bacon Brussel sprouts, green bean casserole, sweet potato casserole and mashed potatoes. Starters include the salad bar, ambrosia, old fashioned carrot salad and maple-roasted pumpkin salad. Be sure to save room for something sweet, because you’ll find fall harvest desserts and pumpkin bread pudding waiting at the close of your meal. Reservations are recommended at (239) 454-2199 to ensure you don’t miss a single bite! Seating is based upon availability. The price of the buffet will be $30 for residents, plus gratuity; or $35 for the general public, plus gratuity.
Palm Grill
3 p.m. to 7 p.m. For full waited service in a more formal atmosphere, the Palm Grill aims to please! Manager Tom Irwin, Chef Todd Glaesmer and the rest of the Palm Grill staff will be serving Thanksgiving dinner from 3 p.m. until 7 p.m. The special Thanksgiving menu will include a traditional turkey din-
ner with all the trimmings, filet mignon, slow roasted ham or Florida grouper. Prices will range from $23 to $30, plus gratuity. Save room for a piece of pumpkin or pecan pie or choose from the Palm Grill’s dessert menu. Reservations are recommended by calling (239) 454-2059. Please note: Blend will be closed for the Thanksgiving holiday.
Banyan Grille 11 a.m. to 3 p.m.
On Thanksgiving Day at the Banyan Grille in Coastal Commons, Chef John Horner and his culinary team will feature an extravagant buffet. Start with cold water oysters on the half shell or an ice cold Gulf of Mexico shrimp cocktail, along with assorted salads, a fresh fruit display, imported and domestic cheeses, Danish pastries, colossal muffins, rolls and butter. Entree choices will include carved freerange turkey, carved Virginia ham, Scottish salmon and all the accompaniments: stuffing, whipped potatoes, sweet potatoes with candied pecans, green beans, roasted Brussel sprouts with baby carrots, spaghetti squash and cranberry relish. Save room for some house-made pumpkin pie or pecan pie, or one of Chef Amber’s special Thanksgiving desserts. Residents may dine for $35, plus gratuity; or $45 for the general public, plus gratuity and tax. Reservations are required by calling (239) 225-2953. Please note: Breezeway Café will be closed for the Thanksgiving holiday.
Order a Family Feast
If you prefer to dine in the comfort of your own home, let Shell Point chefs do the cooking for you! A complete Thanksgiving meal can be prepared for you in advance, ready for pick-up on Thanksgiving Day. Choose turkey or ham for your family feast. The turkey dinner features a wholecooked, 12 to 14-pound turkey with dressing, whipped potatoes, a vegetable medley, turkey gravy, cranberry sauce, freshly baked dinner rolls and a selection of apple or pumpkin pie. The ham dinner will include a six-pound baked, honey-glazed ham with raisin sauce, candied sweet potatoes, a vegetable medley, freshly baked rolls and a selection of apple or pumpkin pie. Designed to serve four to six people, these delicious dinners can be purchased for $70, plus 18 percent gratuity, by calling The Crystal at (239) 4542199. Orders must be placed by noon on Sunday, November 24. Each meal is fully cooked and ready to serve. Extra sides are also available for a small fee. Dinner rolls are available for $5 per dozen; you may add pumpkin or apple pie for $13, and purchase additional ham or turkey for $45. For an extra side of gravy, cranberry sauce or vegetables, pay $6 for a pint or $9 for a quart. Orders will be available for pickup on Thanksgiving Day, from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. in the Social Center on The Island. Don’t forget to call (239) 454-2199 by Sunday, November 24, to reserve your Family Feast.
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Boating, Birding and Brushing Up on History BY L AU R A S L AC K , D I R E C TO R O F R E S I D E N T L I F E
The Academy’s fall semester continues in November with a series of enriching, educational classes. Many courses are taught by Shell Point’s own resident experts; others are taught by subject matter experts from Southwest Florida and beyond. Pick a favorite, familiar topic or explore a completely new field of study – the choice is yours!
Point friends to other countries and even a cruise – which she won at Shell Point! How can anyone know that they’ve seen 1,000 different kinds of birds? How many birds are there in the world, anyway? How long does it take to see that many birds? Why would you want to? In this presentation, Dotty will answer these questions and more.
Coffee with a Neighbor
For the Love of Learning
On Friday, November 15, you will get to spend the afternoon with fellow resident Dotty Morrison (Cellana) for 1,000 Birds and Counting, The Shell Point Connection (CWN03). Dotty’s adventures began with learning to identify 24 species on her first visit to Shell Point in 1993, when her parents moved to Coquina. Frequent visits allowed her to meet many knowledgeable residents who taught her about Florida birds. Since moving to Shell Point in 2008, Dotty’s experiences and birding numbers have increased with the help of residents, contacts with local bird clubs, trips with Shell
On Monday, November 4, learn about the First World War or, the “Great War” of 1914-1918, during Session Four: US Entry – The Russian Revolution (FLL30). Resident Seth Mendell (Tellidora) continues his five-week series. Session Five: Collapse of Central Powers (FLL33) will conclude on Veterans Day, November 11, with a very special ceremony at 11 a.m., led by Retired Colonel Jim Stapleton (Harbor Court). Professor Adrian Kerr will teach Marathon and Thermopylae: Why Do They Matter (FLL31) on Monday, November 4. He will discuss when Cyrus
Resident Seth Mendell (Tellidora) continues his five-week series. Session Five: Collapse of Central Powers (FLL33) will conclude on Veterans Day, November 11, with a very special ceremony at 11 a.m., led by Retired Colonel Jim Stapleton (Harbor Court).
united the Persians and Medes in 550BC and conquered all the major powers of the Middle East.
On Friday, November 15, you will get to spend the afternoon with fellow resident Dotty Morrison (Cellana) for 1,000 Birds and Counting, The Shell Point Connection (CWN03). L-R: Magnificent frigatebird, Anna’s hummingbird and puffin
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Ray Boyce (Rosemont) will present a two-part class entitled Measure for Measure (FLL32). Set in Vienna, Austria, Measure for Measure, one of Shakespeare’s ten comedies, touches on several aspects of sexual issues which permeate modern news developments, including women’s rights and sexual violence. Part One: A Film Version will take place on November 5. Part Two: Lecture/Discussion will be held on Wednesday, November 6. On Wednesday, November 13, Wayne Swanson (Turban) and Jay Kelly Wright (The Estuary) will present Religious Symbols and the First Amendment: When Is a Symbol on Public Property an Unconstitutional Establishment of Religion? (FLL34). The first words of the First Amendment in the Bill of Rights state that the government “shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof…” As a country, the United States has struggled with how to apply this language to various public displays that have religious characteristics, such
The earth’s oceans hold nearly 97 percent of the planet’s water. On Monday, November 25, Professor Adrian Kerr will present Water for a Thirsty Planet (FLL38).
as Christmas nativity scenes, the Ten Commandments and monuments that include crosses. Professor Adrian Kerr will return for an Academy Lunch and Learn presentation on Saturday, November 16, with Portugal: The First Global Empire (FLL35). For over 100 years, Portugal commanded the world’s seas. This is the story of how these intrepid Portuguese explorers defied the odds and created a global empire. At its height, their great trading network stretched from Brazil to Angola, Goa, Malacca, China and Japan. Come to learn what ended this glorious period in world history. Jo i n P ro f esso r Adrian Kerr on Monday, November 18, as he presents The Story of the Buddha. (FLL36). Imagine you are living in the Axial Period, which is a time Ray Boyce (Rosemont) will present a two-part class when people across entitled Measure for Measure (FLL32). Part One: A Film Version will take place on November 5. Part Two: Lecture/ the world were seeking Discussion will be held on Wednesday, November 6. new religions, faiths
and philosophies to explain the meaning of their lives. Professor Kerr will explain the new religion that swept India and the Far East. Dr. Thomas Cimarusti, associate professor of musicology at Bower School of Music at Florida Gulf Coast University (FGCU) returns for session three of his series on Tuesday, Igor Stravinsky November 19: Masterpieces in Western Music, Session Three: Stravinsky – The Rite of Spring (FLL37). Dr. Cimarusti will examine the life and ideologies that defined the composer’s musical period. On Monday, November 25, Professor Adrian Kerr will present Water for a Thirsty Planet (FLL38). This thought-provoking talk will present some solutions for the issues, created by a number of changes on the planet in recent years, and it is guaranteed to generate a lot of comments and discussion. The San Carlos Bay Power Squadron Continued on next page Shell Point Life | November 2019
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will be The Academy’s guest on Tuesday, November 26. The Academy will join with America’s Boating Club to offer Partner in Command (FLL39), a two-hour seminar in which you will learn essential skills needed to aid the skipper in safely operating a recreational boat, including how to respond in an emergency.
Academy On The Go
On Wednesday, November 6, Academy On The Go will travel to the Sidney & Berne Davis Art Center and Lunch at the Lodge (OTG05). The exhibit entitled Turf Wars: Art Speaks for the Earth features the photography of Clyde Butcher. A castle in Florida? On Wednesday, November 20, experience the hidden treasure in Florida’s woodlands: Solomon’s Castle and Lunch at Magnolia Street and Seafood Grill (OTG06). 18
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The Academy will join with America’s Boating Club to offer Partner in Command (FLL39), a two-hour seminar in which you will learn essential skills needed to aid the skipper.
Technology Resident volunteers will continue to offer free walk-in clinics throughout November to give you individual times for your own personal needs. Computer Clinics: Free Walk-In Clinics (TC01) will run weekly mornings from 10 a.m. to noon in the Woodlands Resident Computer Center in the Woodlands Commons. Google/Android: Free Walk-in Clinics (TC02) will continue on Mondays from 1 p.m. to 3 p.m. in the Resident Computer Center in the Woodlands Commons. Apple iPad, iPhone and Mac: Free Walk-In Clinics (TC03) continue on Saturdays from 1:15 p.m. to 2:45 p.m. in the Community Room at King’s Crown on The Island. Google/Android: Free Walk-In Clinics (TC04) will take place for three Thursdays, November 7, 14 and 21, in the Resident Computer Center on The Island from 10 a.m. to noon. On Wednesday, November 6, Bob
Jakubiec (Lucina) will teach a class called Apple iPad: Fun and Games (T308) in the Island Teaching Center. On Fridays, November 8, 15 and 22, the three-session class called Intro to Android Smartphones and Tablets (T309) will be taught by Larry Brock (Eagles Preserve). Each session will be held from 9:45 a.m. to 11:30 a.m. in the Island Teaching Center. For two sessions, on November 12 and 19, there will be a workshop that teaches a new format for Apple devices, entitled Workshop for iPhone/iPad “Settings” (T310). This class will be taught by Bruce Findley (Sundial) in the Island Teaching Center.
Stay Tuned
More information about each presentation, including any fees, will be found in your Academy brochure. You may register at any concierge desk. Please be sure to review the Weekly Reminder, www.shellpoint.net and the daily SPTV show to learn about any changes to scheduled classes.
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CONCERTS & CONVERSATIONS SERIES
CHAMBER MUSIC WITH A TWIST Tuesday, November 12 at 7 p.m. • Grand Cypress Room/WDL
Chamber Music with a Twist is a premiere chamber group who performs user-friendly classical chamber pieces that are artistically woven in with popular and Broadway gems. Be delighted by unique arrangements of classical chamber music pieces, art songs and popular music such as Bachianas Brasileiras No. 5 by H. Villa-Lobos, Melodie by Tchaikovsky and more. Additionally, you’ll be entertained by new twists on popular pieces such as Broadway classics from the musical Kismet, Barbara Streisand songs and well known beloved operetta selections. World-renowned musicians Francisca Mendoza, violinist; Elaine Rinaldi, pianist and Anne Tormela, international opera/Broadway singer, will enchant you! INDIVIDUAL TICKETS: $25 RESIDENT | $30 GENERAL PUBLIC ADVANCED SERIES TICKETS ARE ALSO AVAILABLE.
PERFORMING ART SERIES
THE FOUR ITALIAN TENORS Monday, November 25 at 7 p.m. The Village Church/IS
Be transported to the land of Italy, and bathe in its rich culture with the sounds of The Four Italian Tenors, featuring Federico Parisi, Federico Serra, Alessandro D’Acrissa and Giovanni Maria Palmia. They will present an extraordinary program of the most famously beloved Italian opera arias and songs, fusing Italian wit and charm with romanticism, lyricism, dramatic flair and operatic style. This is the inaugural tour in the United States of this sensational young new Italian ensemble. Their performances are captivating, exhilarating, passionate, engaging and mesmerizing. You’ll love hearing this new generation of world-class tenors explore and present these classic works with panache, verve and vivacity, all in their own inimitable style. INDIVIDUAL TICKETS: $35 RESIDENT | $40 GENERAL PUBLIC ADVANCED SERIES TICKETS ARE ALSO AVAILABLE. Shell Point Life | November 2019
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Introducing Paul Fitzpatrick B Y E M I LY R O S E , P R C O O R D I N A T O R
The Shell Point Golf Club is pleased to introduce its new director of golf operations, certified PGA Professional Paul Fitzpatrick. With more than 20 years of experience, Paul brings an accomplished background in all aspects of the profession, including playing, teaching and managing. Paul was raised in Stoughton, Massachusetts where he began his career working for Blue Hill Country Club, which is predominantly known for hosting the
1956 PGA Championship. He has also worked for clubs such as River Country Club, Warwick Country Club, and Shelter Harbor Golf Club before relocating to Southwest Florida in 2009. One of Paul’s greatest career highlights came in 2006 when he was offered the opportunity to work The Masters Tournament at Augusta National Golf Club in Georgia. There, he oversaw an extensive merchandise opera-
tion in one of the three main golf shops. After working the tournament for six years, Paul was given the chance to play Augusta National Golf Club. As Shell Point’s director of golf, Paul oversees the entire golf operation and services offered, including the 18-hole championship golf course, pro shop, driving range and the golf operations staff – all while working to provide members with the highest level of service. If you would like to welcome Paul, please feel free to stop by the Pro Shop. He may also be reached by calling (239) 433-9790.
The Grass Is Always Greener Shell Point recently replaced all turf grass on the tees, fairways and roughs of Shell Point Golf Club’s front nine. When the golf maintenance and landscaping teams started the process, not even weeds remained. Before deciding on a specific turf grass, the landscape management team analyzed a variety of species, considered the pros and
cons of such a drastic change – including the closure of nine holes during the off-season – and planned for every contingency. Eventually, seashore paspalum was identified as the best choice for a number of reasons. The vibrant green grass is more salt-resistant than the previous Bermuda turf and combats the unavoidable salt intrusion found in the golf course’s wells. It’s a
hardy species, self-repairing and tolerant of the cold weather that comes during season. Since then, the golf course team has methodically worked step-by-step to plant and cultivate the new turf for the next golfing season. The results are in, and the seashore paspalum has taken root! Golfers are in for a treat. To schedule a tee time, call the Pro Shop at (239) 433-9790.
Fore! Members of the Shell Point Ladies’ Golf Association gathered on Tuesday, October 15 to commemorate the reopening of the course’s front nine – and to test out the new greens.
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This leafy seadragon lives at the Florida Aquarium.
Exploring Tampa’s Channelside Register Now For This January 2020 Trip! Join Resort Services and your Shell Point neighbors on an exciting overnight trip, taking place January 27-28, and discover the treasures of the Channelside District in Tampa, Florida – just like the pirates and conquistadors of the past! Get ready to explore a fun mix of the old and the new with an itinerary prepared just for you. Buses will pick up passengers beginning at 6 a.m. on Monday, January 27. Enjoy a hotel stay with a rooftop pool, museum tours and a special dinner in this bustling and eclectic urban area, just east of Downtown Tampa. A combination of guided educational experiences and plenty of time on your own to enjoy shops and restaurants, this trip has something for everyone. On the first day of this trip, you will depart Shell Point for the Florida Aquarium, home to 7,000 aquatic plants and animals from Florida and all over the world. An on-the-go breakfast will be waiting for you on the journey from Shell Point to Tampa in the comfort of a chartered bus. There will be a short comfort stop in Sarasota for snacks and to stretch before the final leg of the journey. Shell Point will arrive at the Florida Aquarium to enjoy a behind-thescenes tour, a guided gallery tour, enjoy a 4D film and possibly meet a penguin. After the aquarium, take a short walk to Channelside Bay Plaza to enjoy time on your own, exploring the shops and restau-
Tampa Bay History Center
Colombia Restaurant
rants for lunch located right next to the bay! In the afternoon, Shell Point residents will get back on the bus to go down the street to check into the hotel and enjoy some downtime before dinner. Next, Shell Point will head to the Ybor Historic District to have dinner at the Columbia Restaurant, the oldest restaurant in Florida and the largest Spanish restaurant in the world. This dinner and show will not be forgotten! Watch the restaurant come alive as entertainers perform the flamenco dance on stage and around your tables.
Day two includes a guided tour and two special film showings at the Tampa Bay History Center. This museum features 25,000 square feet of gallery space where you can explore the stories and personalities from Florida’s past, like the infamous pirate Jack Rackam and the hard-charging Teddy Roosevelt. This beautiful museum space is located on the Riverwalk and also features spectacular third-floor views of the Hillsborough River. Shell Point residents will follow this tour with lunch at the restaurant of their choosing in Channelside Bay Plaza, before boarding your charter bus back to Shell Point. It is anticipated that the buses will return to the community around 5:30 p.m. on Tuesday, January 28. For those who are interested or have already registered for this trip, there will be an informational meeting held on Monday, December 9 at 9:30 a.m. in the Sabal Room at The Woodlands. The cost of this trip varies depending on the room arrangements you prefer. For a double occupancy room, with breakfast included, the registration fee is $266 per person; a single-occupancy room, with breakfast included, costs $332 per person. Registration will begin on November 1, and it is anticipated that this trip will fill up quickly! Sign up today by calling Offsite Program Coordinator Ashley Robbin at (239) 454-2239. Shell Point Life | November 2019
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A Celebration of Vitamin C B Y R O B Y N C H U R C H , S A LO N & S PA M A N AG E R
On Thursday, October 3, residents headed to the Grand Cypress Room in The Woodlands for an educational presentation about Vitamin C and skincare, hosted by Shell Point Salon & Spa in honor of Active Aging Week. Salon aestheticians Barbara Shakespeare and Pat Charbonneau were joined by
Dyan Thompson, a representative for Obagi Skincare. Residents were pampered with a professional, microdermabrasion polish mask, followed by a fortifying, anti-aging serum and moisturizer. Residents left the class with skin that felt refreshed, smooth to the touch and glowing!
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IT’S TIME TO THINK ABOUT HOLIDAY GIFTS! Receive one FREE Obagi travel-size cleanser, toner and Professional C Polish in this stylish travel bag, with the purchase of any Elastiderm cream or serum product. While supplies last.
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Full Steam Ahead!
The volunteers of the Shell Point Gulf Coast Model Railroad are proud to announce that the popular model train attraction will reopen for visitors on Monday, November 4. This 43’ by 41’ model railroad pike is shaped like the state of Florida and has delighted residents and guests to Shell Point for 46 years. Each year during the summer months, volunteers make improvements and additions to the display, in addition to routine cleaning and maintenance so that the well-loved attraction is ready for seasonal visitors. Groups of 10 or more are asked to call ahead for group tour reservations by contacting (239) 454-2290. New Volunteers Welcome!
This popular train display, shaped like the state of Florida, features well-known landmarks like the historic Fort Myers train depot.
New Shell Point resident volunteers are always needed and welcomed; previous experience is not needed. Whether you would enjoy greeting the train room’s many visitors, directing them to the display or working on the engineering side of the operation, all are welcome to join this group of dedicated train lovers. Please contact Shell Point Volunteer Coordinator Dottie Tronnes at dottietronnes@shellpoint.org or 454-2290 for more information.
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Christmas
Because They Care
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We Care!
BY JA N E T B E N DA L L (CO Q U I N A ) , E M P LOY E E C H R I S T M A S F U N D CO M M I T T E E M E M B E R
Every year, Shell Point residents have an opportunity to say thank you to the dedicated Shell Point staff who have worked so hard to “care for, serve and satisfy” us. We can do this by giving to the Employee Christmas Fund. There is a no tipping policy at Shell Point, but the Christmas Fund is the way we can show our appreciation for all the employees who helped us all year long – both the ones we may see each day and
those who work behind the scenes. The gift each employee receives is based on the number of hours the employee (those up to and including managers) has worked during 2019.The servers in the dining venues receive the gift, even though a tip is added at dining venues. The final day for giving this year is Friday, November 29. Please give; because they care, we care.
Ways To Give • Donate online by going to www.shellpoint.net/christmasfund to make a single or recurring gift which can be charged to your monthly account. • Send a check made payable to Shell Point through campus mail to the Finance office. • Contact the Shell Point Finance office about having donations put on your monthly account. Shell Point Life | November 2019
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www.shellpoint.net/events
November LifeQuest Happenings Six Dimensions: Physical • Emotional • Spiritual • Educational • Community & Social • Natural Environment For questions about upcoming events or activities, please contact any concierge desk. Unless otherwise noted in the event description, sign-up for each event will begin on the first of this month. If you are unable to attend a program that includes a fee, five business days’ notice is required to receive a refund.
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WALK WITH A DOC FRIDAYS, NOVEMBER 1, 8, 15, 22 & 29 7 A.M. MEDICAL CENTER BUS STOP/IS
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FRIDAY AND SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 1 AND 2 9 A.M. TO 2 P.M. THE VILLAGE CHURCH/IS
Lace up your walking shoes and join Shell Point’s physicians in an exhilarating morning walk around The Island. You will have the opportunity to learn more about the medical staff while getting physically fit together. Water will be provided.
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The talented residents of Shell Point have been working all year to create items for sale! Shop at the Annual Shell Point Artists and Artisans Holiday Bazaar, and you’ll find everything from textiles and paper to wood and ceramic, along with specialty Christmas decorations and holiday cards available to purchase with cash or check. After shopping at the Holiday Bazaar, grab a refreshing treat from Love Boat Ice Cream (cash only) under The Village Church porte-cochere!
FARMERS MARKET FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 1, 8, 15 & 22 8:30 A.M. UNTIL 1 P.M. ISLAND COMMONS COURTYARD/IS The Farmers Market is your place to shop on Fridays for locally grown produce, homemade baked goods, honey and other great items. Stroll through the Island Courtyard this month to enjoy the beautiful outdoor setting, support local small businesses and visit with your Shell Point friends and neighbors.
SHELL POINT ARTISTS AND ARTISANS HOLIDAY BAZAAR
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COMMUNITY THRIFT STORE NOVEMBER SALE FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 1 THROUGH WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 27 9 A.M. TO 4 P.M. 15501 OLD MCGREGOR BLVD., SUITE 2 You are invited to stop by Community Thrift Store to save 40 percent off all furniture, lamps and framed artwork. If you donate a canned good to benefit the
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Wellness Connection
Sign-up required; call a concierge desk: Island: 454-2282, Woodlands: 454-2054, Coastal Links: 225-2900
Walking required
Gladiolus Food Pantry, you will receive an additional 10 percent off one item of your choice! This discount is limited to one per day, although all donations are welcome. For more information, contact Community Thrift Store at (239) 225-6529.
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CASA LUPITA LUNCHEON MONDAY, NOVEMBER 4 10:30 A.M. THE ISLAND 10:40 A.M. THE WOODLANDS 10:50 A.M. COASTAL LINKS 2:30 P.M. APPROXIMATE RETURN COST: $3 PER PERSON (LUNCH ON YOUR OWN) LOCATION: FORT MYERS
duced records and toured with international acts such as Shania Twain, while Lori helped run the business and doubled as studio vocalist. Water’s Edge is a free, outdoor concert series, co-sponsored by the Legacy Foundation at Shell Point.
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TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 5 6 P.M. TO 8 P.M. FRIENDSHIP POINT AMPHITHEATER/IS Grammy award-winning songwriter Randy Thomas leads this duo act with his wife, Lori. Randy’s original hit songs include Butterfly Kisses and Why’d You Come in Here Lookin’ Like That? In a former home studio in Nashville, Tennessee, Randy racked up countless Christian, country and pop hit songs. He also pro-
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SHELL POINT LIBRARY BOOK & MEDIA SALE WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 6 9 A.M. TO 3 P.M. ISLAND COMMONS/IS You’re invited to shop the Shell Point Library’s Annual Book and Media Sale and choose from hundreds of books, music CDs, DVDs and audiobooks. Be sure to check out the special sale section of classic books. Open to Shell Point residents and the public, this sale will last for one day only. Please bring cash or checks for purchases.
For over a decade, the Perez family has been dedicated to bringing the most authentic Mexican cuisine to Fort Myers in a welcoming atmosphere. Focusing on the best ingredients prepared fresh daily, their extensive menu includes salads, soups, quesadillas, fajitas, enchiladas and more. Take advantage of their daily specials and leave room for dessert! Entrées start at $12.
WATER’S EDGE CONCERT SERIES: RANDY AND LORI THOMAS
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VISION 2020 INFORMATIONAL SESSION THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 7 10 A.M. THE VILLAGE CHURCH/IS You’re invited to attend an informational session about the exciting vision for the future of healthcare at Shell Point. To learn more about Waterside Health Center and the Vision 2020 Campaign, contact Jeff Cory or Maria Festa at (239) 466-8484, or visit the Legacy Foundation on The Island. There is no charge to attend this presentation, and reservations are not required.
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16TH ANNUAL SHELL POINT OPEN GOLF TOURNAMENT FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 8 7 A.M. REGISTRATION AND BREAKFAST SHELL POINT GOLF CLUB/CL Hosted by the Legacy Foundation, proceeds from this four-person scramble will benefit the Waterside Health Center at Shell Point. Players will begin with breakfast at Breezeway Café, followed by play on Shell Point’s course. Opportunities for fabulous hole-in-one prizes, individual swag bags, lunch and snacks are included. A portion of the tournament cost is tax-deductible. This popular event fills up quickly, so be sure to contact the Legacy Foundation at 466-8484 to reserve your spot!
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TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 12 10 A.M. TO NOON SOCIAL CENTER/IS
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 12 4:15 P.M. THE ISLAND 4:25 P.M. THE WOODLANDS 4:35 P.M. COASTAL LINKS 8 P.M. APPROXIMATE RETURN COST: $4 (DINNER ON YOUR OWN) LOCATION: FORT MYERS
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EXPLORING LAKES REGIONAL PARK WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 13 9:05 A.M. THE ISLAND 9:15 A.M. THE WOODLANDS 9:25 A.M. COASTAL LINKS 1:45 P.M. APPROXIMATE RETURN COST: $3 (LUNCH ON YOUR OWN) LOCATION: FORT MYERS Spend a morning enjoying the fresh air at this 300-acre county park. Take a walk on the many trails that overlook the lake, or ride the miniature train and visit the railroad museum. Bikes and watercraft are available for rental and food vendors will serve up snacks and lunch at the weekly market.
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LIVING WELL WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 13 1:15 P.M. OSPREY ROOM/IS Whether you’re a health and fitness enthusiast or just beginning your wellness journey, you are welcome to attend this class. The goal of Living Well is to encourage a discussion on topics such as exercise, healthy eating, unique recipes and general wellness. Every month is different and everyone is sure to leave with a better understanding of how wellness plays a role in daily life.
HOUSE OF PASTA DINNER
House of Pasta uses a Northern Italian flair in their homemade pasta and sauces. Their vision is to bring to your table a truly extraordinary experience where the last bite invites
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SENIOR FITNESS TEST
Physical therapists from the Shell Point’s Rehabilitation Center will conduct Senior Fitness Tests this month for residents of The Island. Would you like to know how your physical fitness compares to others your age? Those interested will be tested in strength, flexibility, cardiovascular endurance and agility. Sign up now by calling (239) 454-2256.
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your appetite to say, “I wish there was just one more bite!” Join other Shell Point residents and friends for an authentic Northern Italian-style dinner with entrées starting at $15.
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AUTUMN TRIVIA WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 13 2 P.M. THE COVE/CL Join the Resort Services team as you play traditional paper and pen trivia. Come with a team or come by yourself
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MONDAY, NOVEMBER 18 10:30 A.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS
FALL ASSISTED LIVING PRESENTATIONS AND TOURS
Adding variety to your exercise routine and changing things up can result in positive changes to your physical and emotional well-being. Learn the latest information and recommendations on the form and function of exercise in this active discussion with Fitness Supervisor Anna Valle. Topics will include: the effect of various types of exercise both physically and mentally, important considerations on functional exercise, forms and focus, practical application, safety factors to consider, stretching techniques and options for getting motivated!
NOVEMBER 13, 19 & 21 9 A.M. LOCATION VARIES, SEE PAGE 36 Whether or not you are thinking about a move to assisted living in the coming months or years, learning about the many services and levels of care provided is important. Join the assisted living directors for a presentation and tour of each building, including furnished apartments. King’s Crown will host its presentation and tour on November 13; The Arbor on November 19 and The Springs on November 21. Come for one, or attend all three; RSVPs are required at (239) 454-2299.
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BABCOCK RANCH ECO TOUR MONDAY, NOVEMBER 18 10:10 A.M. THE ISLAND 10:20 A.M. THE WOODLANDS 10:30 A.M. COASTAL LINKS 5:30 APPROXIMATE RETURN COST: $26 (LUNCH ON YOUR OWN) Take a step back in time as Shell Point travels 45 minutes to Babcock Ranch to discover old Florida. Your first stop will be to Table & Tap in Babcock Ranch, where their community garden is incorporated in every dish and their honey is harvested onsite. Entrées start at $12. Following your farm-to-table lunch, head out for a narrated 90-minute swamp buggy ecological tour to see nature and wildlife and travel through four Florida ecosystems.
FITNESS: FORM AND FUNCTION
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BEYOND 911: EDUCATION AND TIPS TO ASSIST FIRST RESPONDERS TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 19 10:15 A.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS Lee County Injury Prevention Specialist Mark Tesoro will lead this educational session, where you will learn many different aspects of the inner workings of the local emergency response system. He will discuss the role of EMS, how you can be effective by staying calm, what is appropriate assistance and what is not, and more. Those attending will have a better understanding of how to positively support first responders in the case of an emergency situation. Shell Point Life | November 2019
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WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 20 2 P.M. THE COVE/CL
HOPE HEALTHCARE PROGRAMS AND INFORMATIONAL SESSION THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 21 11 A.M. GRAND CYPRESS ROOM/WDL Hope Healthcare is so much more than hospice care. While it’s their “heart,” Hope offers a wide range of ser-
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BEACH DAY FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 22 8:35 A.M. THE ISLAND 8:45 A.M. THE WOODLANDS 8:55 A.M. COASTAL LINKS 3:30 P.M. APPROXIMATE RETURN COST: $18 PER PERSON (ICE CREAM ON YOUR OWN) LOCATION: DELNOR-WIGGINS STATE PASS PARK Grab your personal beach and sun supplies and your chair, and join your fellow residents for a day at the beach! Shell Point staff will serve beverages and a picnic lunch for you. On the way home, there will be a traditional stop for ice cream at the Royal Scoop.
THANKSGIVING SOLO PARTY
You don’t want to miss the Thanksgiving Solo Party! What is a solo party? You come as a party of one to meet new people, connect with other Shell Point residents and make new friends. Socialize and participate in planned activities in a comfortable setting. Beverages will be served in what else? A Solo cup!
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vices that provide very specialized care to meet the needs and challenges that the community faces in this rapidly changing healthcare environment. Join Deb Angelicchio in this information presentation about what Hope Healthcare provides to the surrounding community.
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 19 5 P.M. DOORS OPEN 5:15 P.M. PRESENTATION BEGINS COASTAL COMMONS BANQUET ROOM/CL COST: $30 PER PERSON (ALL INCLUSIVE) This evening event is filled with delicious food and new tips for at-home cooking. The Holiday Chef’s Table will feature small plate appetizers and entrées – from sesameseared ahi tuna and chilled Maine lobster brioche puffs to Gravlax and caviar, Provençale rack of lamb lollipops, and rosemary-skewered shrimp wrapped in prosciutto – that you can bring to a party or serve at your own holiday event! Leave with a copy of the recipes to make for yourself at home.
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ARTISTS’ INFORMATION MEETING FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 22 1 P.M. TO 3 P.M. GRAND CYPRESS ROOM/WDL Learn details about SPARKLE!, the series of inaugural exhibitions that will be featured as part of the grand opening festivities for Tribby Arts Center. Volunteer exhibition organizer Marge Lee (Lucina) will explain the requirements of SPARKLE! and the online process to enter beginning December 1. Members of the Shell Point Photography Club also will explain how they will help residents photograph their submissions to apply online. All artists interested in this fun celebratory exhibition should attend.
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TURKEY BINGO! MONDAY, NOVEMBER 25 2 P.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS
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Essential oils have been around for centuries and have many different health benefits. Learn about a variety of essential oils and how they can help improve quality of life by addressing your wellness goals.
DIVE-IN MOVIE: YOU’VE GOT MAIL (PG) (1998) TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 26 6:45 P.M. WOODLANDS POOL DECK/WDL Join Resort Services at the Woodlands Pool Deck for a fun evening by the pool for a “dive-in” movie experience. Snacks and beverages will be provided as you watch the romantic comedy, You’ve Got Mail starring Tom Hanks
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TURKEY TROT WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 27 9 A.M. CENTER COURT/WDL Bring your family and friends to get your appetites up and hearts pumping at the first annual Shell Point Turkey Trot. Begin and end your fun walk at Center Court in The Woodlands, where you have the choice of walking the “thankful” one-mile lap or going full “feast mode” with two laps around The Woodlands. This fun walk will be sure to get you ready for a Thanksgiving feast!
ESSENTIAL OILS FOR HEALTH AND WELLNESS TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 26 10:15 A.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS
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and Meg Ryan, on the big inflatable screen. Watch the movie while floating in the pool, or comfortably from the pool deck. This is a family friendly event, so if you have visitors in town bring them along!
Gobble, gobble, it’s Bingo time in the Social Center! Will you be the first to shout B-I-N-G-O? Who will get to spin the wheel for exciting prizes? Join the Resort Services team for a great afternoon of gaming and fun. This is a family friendly event, so be sure to sign up any Thanksgiving visitors to join the fun.
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COMMUNITY THRIFT STORE BLACK FRIDAY & SUPER SATURDAY SALE FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 29 & SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 30 9 A.M. TO 4 P.M. 15501 OLD MCGREGOR BLVD., SUITE 2 Community Thrift Store invites you to celebrate Black Friday and Super Saturday with a special sale. Shop a wide selection of merchandise and take 60 percent off all items, storewide! The store is located at Miner’s Plaza in Fort Myers. For more information, contact Community Thrift Store at (239) 225-6529.
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Gift Shop and UPS Shipping Center Announce Holiday Hours Shell Point Gift Shop
UPS Shipping Center
Effective November 1 Monday through Friday: 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. Saturday: 10 a.m. to Noon
Effective December 2–6 and December 9–13 Monday through Friday: 10 a.m. to 11:30 a.m.
Shell Point artisans continue to stock the Gift Shop with unique handmade items, including artistically designed greeting cards. A selection of commercially sourced greeting cards are always stocked as well as boxed Christmas cards. Support your friends and neighbors by shopping at the Shell Point Gift Shop.
To help expedite your holiday shipping needs, the UPS Shipping Center in the Creativity Center on The Island will extend its hours for the first two weeks in December. When you’re ready to send your seasonal care packages and gifts, the UPS Shipping Center has you covered!
Grab the Trimming and Start Decorating!
Christmas Golf Cart Show on December 23 Join in the Christmas cheer at Shell Point and enter the 2019 Christmas Golf Cart Show, which will be held on Monday, December 23. Enter as an individual, group or court, or with the help of visiting family! First, second and third place trophies will be awarded. Show your Christmas cheer and have fun decorating your golf cart for display during this community event. Please note that all decorated carts must fit in one parking space with no overhang on the sidewalk or blocking of the main driveway. On the day of the show, carts must be in place no later than 9 a.m. The cart show will run from 9:30 a.m. to 11:30 a.m. at the Island Circle near Friendship Point. Pick up your registration form at any concierge desk, which will be made available beginning Monday, December 2. All forms must be returned by Wednesday, December 18.
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Wellness Connection
Sign-up required; call a concierge desk: Island: 454-2282, Woodlands: 454-2054, Coastal Links: 225-2900
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SHELL POINT GIFT SHOP HOLIDAY EXTRAVAGANZA
You come as a party of one to meet new people, connect with other Shell Point residents and to make new friends. Socialize and participate in holiday-themed activities in a comfortable setting. Spiced cider will be served in what else? A Solo cup!
MONDAY, DECEMBER 2 10 A.M. TO 2 P.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS The Shell Point Gift Shop presents its Christmas Extravaganza for your shopping pleasure. The artists and artisans that supply the unique selection of handmade and enhanced items for the Shell Point Gift Shop are looking forward to hosting this event again. Join them as the Social Center on The Island is transformed into a holiday shopper’s dream. You will receive free gift wrapping with every purchase.
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THURSDAY, DECEMBER 5 5:30 P.M. STRING QUARTET, PHOTO BOOTH AND REFRESHMENTS 6:30 P.M. TREE LIGHTING CEREMONY ISLAND COURTYARD AND FRIENDSHIP POINT/IS Don’t miss the annual Shell Point Christmas Tree Lighting ceremony. Enjoy a talented string quartet, festive treats and Christmas pictures at a photo booth. Then, sing-along with the Naples Carolers as you count down to lighting the Christmas tree with the help of the oldest Shell Point resident, and rejoice in the true meaning of Christmas.
ROCKING ‘ROUND THE CHRISTMAS TREE SHELL POINT SINGERS CHRISTMAS CONCERT MONDAY, DECEMBER 2 7 P.M. THE VILLAGE CHURCH/IS Join the Shell Point Singers as they perform old favorites and holiday standards with a twist! This free concert is presented with love from your fellow Shell Point neighbors.
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Join Shell Point for a night out for a concert at the Barbara B. Mann Performing Arts Hall to watch the students of Florida Southwestern perform as a duo between the orchestra and choir. The night will begin with dinner at Leopardi’s for Italian style cuisine with entrées starting at $12.
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SOLO CHRISTMAS PARTY WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 4 2 P.M. THE COVE/CL You don’t want to miss the Shell Point Solo Christmas Party during this season of giving! What is a solo party?
SOUTHWEST FLORIDA HAND BELL ENSEMBLE MONDAY, DECEMBER 9 3 P.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS
FLORIDA SOUTHWESTERN CONCERT AND DINNER AT LEOPARDI’S RESTAURANT TUESDAY, DECEMBER 3 4:30 P.M. THE ISLAND 4:40 P.M. THE WOODLANDS 4:50 P.M. COASTAL LINKS 9:45 P.M. APPROXIMATE RETURN COST: $9 PER PERSON (DINNER ON YOUR OWN) LOCATION: FORT MYERS
SHELL POINT CHRISTMAS TREE LIGHTING CEREMONY
The Southwest Florida Hand Bell Ensemble is dedicated to the excellence in ringing and promoting hand bell music to all audiences. Ring in the holiday with this seasonal concert, which will feature five octaves of hand bells and hand chimes.
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CAROLING ABOARD THE SUZY Q DECEMBER 10, 12, 16, 17 & 19 6 P.M. SUZY Q BOAT DOCK/IS COST: $5 PER PERSON Celebrate the sights and sounds of the season as you cruise Palm Acres and local waters and lift your voices in song. View beautifully decorated homes while spreading Christmas cheer on this 90-minute holiday cruise. Eggnog and cookies round out this Shell Point tradition. Please report to the dock no later than 5:40 p.m. on the day of your scheduled sailing. Space is limited, so reserve your seats today by contacting (239) 454-2136. Shell Point Life | November 2019
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Support Groups
DIABETES SUPPORT FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 1 1 P.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS Both insulin- and noninsulin-dependent diabetics are encouraged to attend this meeting. Each monthly meeting covers a different topic and includes open discussion. For more information, contact Vivian Ciulla, healthy living coordinator, at (239) 225-2929.
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ALCOHOLIC ANONYMOUS THURSDAYS, NOVEMBER 7, 14, 21 & 28 4:30 P.M. SABAL ROOM/WDL This is a fellowship of those who share their experience, strength and hope with each other to solve their common problem and help others recover from alcoholism. This “open” meeting of AA welcomes those who struggle with alcohol issues. For information, call the intergroup phone number at (239) 275-5111.
CAREFREE SUPPORT GROUP THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 21 10 A.M. OUTDOOR BOCCE BALL COURT/WDL This Connected Living group offers caregivers and care partners with dementia an opportunity to build authentic friendships, promoting a wellness, community involvement and a positive life experience for couples. Head courtside for a lively game of bocce at the outdoor bocce court at The Woodlands to enjoy friendship, fresh air and fun. Don’t forget your hat, sunscreen and water! There is no cost for this event. For additional information, contact Healthy Living Coordinator Alice DiFalco at (239) 433-7939.
CAREGIVER SUPPORT TUESDAYS, NOVEMBER 5 & 19 9:15 A.M. MEDICAL CENTER CONFERENCE ROOM/IS These therapeutic groups are aimed at helping residents deal with issues of being a caregiver for someone with a memory disorder, whether the resident is cared for in independent living, assisted living or skilled nursing. Dr. Nancy Spencer facilitates the groups and can be reached at (239) 454-2043. Sign-up is required.
COPD SUPPORT This group meets quarterly, and the next meeting will be held in January. The objective of this group is to provide information and discussions that will be relevant to individuals with a range of breathing problems, as well as those dependent on supplemental oxygen. Call Ken Peterson (Oakmont) for further information at (239) 482-3779. 32
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THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 7, 14 & 21 1:30 P.M. SABAL ROOM/WDL This is a 13-week program providing help and encouragement after the death of a loved one. GriefShare is a special weekly seminar and support group designed to help you rebuild your life. We know it hurts, and we want to help! For more information, call group leaders Jim and Judy Mayer (Junonia) at (239) 454-3139.
HEARING ENRICHMENT WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 27 1:15 P.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS Poor hearing can affect many aspects of one’s life. This group seeks to help residents cope with hearing loss, share information, learn about services and products that may help, and offer support to each other. This is a great opportunity to try out the assisted listening devices available in the Social Center. For more information, call Robert Torres, healthy living coordinator, at (239) 433-7975.
HEART HEALTHY MONDAY, NOVEMBER 4 10 A.M. MANATEE ROOM/IS This group aims to provide support and education to individuals with heart disease. The goal of the group is to share their experience, fears and solutions in an effort to help everyone from the newly diagnosed to those managing heart disease for many years. The group’s format will include guest presenters, education, “heart healthy” exercise, discussions and more. For more information, call Nola Mokeyane, healthy living coordinator, at (239) 433-7976.
MEMORY CARE TUESDAYS, NOVEMBER 5 & 19 9:15 A.M. BEHAVIORAL HEALTH CONFERENCE ROOM/IS These groups are designed to provide support to residents who have some type of memory disorder. The objectives of the groups are to identify practical strategies to help residents better manage their memory loss, address long-range planning and offer an environment that fosters a sense of purpose and heightened self-esteem. Please note that individual assessment is required before joining a group; individual appointments are also available. Kathy Fratrick, LCSW, facilitates the group and can be reached at (239) 454-2073. Continued on next page
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PARKINSON’S ENRICHMENT TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 5 10:15 A.M. KING’S CROWN COMMUNITY ROOM/IS This objective of this group is to provide support and educational opportunities to those affected by Parkinson’s disease, such as a patient, caregiver, family member or friend. Meetings include speakers, group discussions and emotional support. For more information, call Janine Hammond, director of healthy living coordination, at (239) 454-2186.
SELF-CARE WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 13 2:30 P.M. OAK ROOM/WDL Stress is experienced by everyone, although it can get increasingly difficult to cope. This wellness-focused group aims to provide support for individuals experiencing stress, through educational oppor-
tunities and discussion with peers experiencing similar emotions and situations. Monthly meetings include discussion of various topics, such as recognizing the signs of stress or the effects of stress on an individual, and promoting effective ways to reduce and manage stress. For more information, call Channelle Bastardo, healthy living coordinator, at 433-7974.
VISION ENRICHMENT TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 12 2:15 P.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS This group provides educational opportunities and support for those individuals dealing with low vision. Monthly meetings may include learning new techniques, exploring low vision aids or finding out more about the conditions that cause low vision among mature adults. For additional information, contact Katy Quinones, healthy living coordinator, at (239) 454-2101.
NEW SUPPORT GROUPS START IN NOVEMBER BY JANINE HAMMOND, D I R E C T O R O F H E A LT H Y L I V I N G C O O R D I N AT I O N
The Healthy Living Coordination team is pleased to introduce two new support groups that will begin during the month of November: the Heart Healthy support group and the Self-Care support group. A new addition to the support groups offered at Shell Point, the Heart Healthy support group aims to provide support and educational information to individuals living with heart disease. The goal of the group is to allow members to share their experiences, concerns and solutions in an effort to help everyone from the newly diagnosed to those who have been managing heart disease for many years. The group’s format will include guest presenters, education, “heart healthy” exercise, group discussions and more.
The Heart Healthy support group will meet the first Monday of every month at 10 a.m. in the Manatee Room on The Island, beginning on November 4. For more information, call Nola Mokeyane, healthy living coordinator, at (239) 433-7976. Stress and anxiety can affect individuals in various ways. This wellnessfocused group aims to provide support for individuals experiencing stress or anxiety by offering educational opportunities and discussion with peers who are experiencing similar emotions and situations.
Monthly meetings will include discussion of various topics, such as recognizing the signs of stress, the effects that stress and anxiety have on the individual, and promoting effective ways to reduce stress and anxiety. The new Self-Care group will meet the second Wednesday of every month at 2:30 p.m. in the Oak Room at The Woodlands, beginning on November 13. For more information, call Channelle Bastardo, healthy living coordinator, at (239) 433-7974. Shell Point Life | November 2019
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Shell Point Artists: It’s Time to Sparkle! Exhibition Application to Open December 1 BY MARGE LEE (LUCINA)
Shell Point artists, it is almost time to enter the competition for SPARKLE! Our Time to Shine, the juried inaugural exhibition of Tribby Arts Center! SPARKLE! will be presented as a series of seven exhibitions, shown consecutively in Tribby Arts Center over the Grand Opening Year (November 2020 through December 2021). The first exhibition will open on November 5, 2020. Succeeding exhibitions will open in January, March, May, July, and September 2021. The seventh exhibition, The SPARKLE! Finale, will open on November 5, 2021, and display the award-winning artworks from the first six exhibitions. This ambitious plan allows the largest possible number of residents to join in the fun. Artworks in each exhibition will include painting, drawing, photography, ceramics, glass, quilts/textiles, sculpture, 34
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paper, woodworking, mixed media, digital art and wearable art, including jewelry. Shell Point artists will apply for inclusion in SPARKLE! via an online jurying website. Each resident may enter up to five works of art during the application period of December 1, 2019, to February 14, 2020. In addition, each artist may also participate in one collaborative artwork. A special “Young at Arts” category will allow artists who have been creating art for three years or less in a particular category. A jury of faculty and staff from the art department of Bower School of Music & the Arts at Florida Gulf Coast University will select all works to be included overall and select award-winners in each exhibition. A video slideshow in the final exhibition will present an image of one submission of every
artist who entered the competition. This will allow everyone who entered SPARKLE! to be part of its excitement, even if his or her art was not selected for actual display in one of the exhibitions. To learn more about SPARKLE! all Shell Point artists are invited to an information session from 1 p.m. until 3 p.m. on November 22 in the Grand Cypress Room of The Woodlands. Details about the exhibition will be provided at this time, and representatives from the Shell Point Photography Club will explain how they will help residents photograph their submissions to apply online. Handouts with details about SPARKLE! Our Time to Shine will be available at the meeting and beginning Monday, November 25, at the concierge desks in the Island and Woodlands Commons. So, get ready, artists; it is soon your time to shine, in SPARKLE!
TRIB NOTES
What’s New with Tribby Arts Center
Tribby Arts Center opens one year from now! So, it’s the perfect time to introduce this new monthly column. Future columns will share news about what’s ahead for our arts center. But first let’s reflect on what came before, to answer the question, how did all this begin? The answer may surprise you, for it was nearly three decades ago that residents first envisioned spaces in which to enjoy the arts at Shell Point. In 1991, their appeals resulted in the current art studios in the Island Tunnel. In 1999, construction on The Woodlands began. With the community rapidly growing and the tunnel studios unable to expand, the next wave of art-passionate residents stepped forward in 2013. This group – chaired by Sandy Ehlers (Eagles Preserve) and including Suzanne Bennett (Turban), June Lockhart (Harbor Court), Dotty Morrison
(Cellana), Herb Sklar (Eagles Preserve), and the late Mike Leinhardt – envisioned a free-standing arts center at Shell Point. Their concept is not the facility now being built, but it sowed important seeds for a free-standing arts center. Four years later, the exhibition Ageless Creativity: The Artists of Shell Point – in Sidney & Berne Davis Art Center of Fort Myers – nourished those seeds by demonstrating the artistic talent of Shell Point residents.
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On June 6, 2017, Shell Point unveiled its new plans for the arts center at Shell Point. When Junonia resident Maggie Tribby’s astonishing donation for the arts center was announced, many artists burst into joyous tears. Since then, those plans have changed many times as residents’ input was incorporated. Over this same time the plans were being refined, residents raised the funding to make the arts center possible. Thanks to the support of Shell Point President Martin Schappell, the Shell Point Board of Directors and the residents who worked hard and donated financial resources, Tribby Arts Center is soon to be. With programs in the visual, literary and performing arts, the arts center will nurture our creativities, engage our minds and enrich our lives, from the moment it opens its doors and for many years to come.
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It’s National Home Care and Hospice Month! BY S H A R O N D O B B I N S , D I R E C TO R O F H O M E C A R E S E RV I C E S
Home care, also referred to as domiciliary care, in-home care or social care, is supportive care provided in the home. Care may be provided by licensed healthcare professionals who provide medical treatment or by professional caregivers who provide daily assistance to ensure the activities of daily living are met. The largest segment of home care consists of licensed and unlicensed non-medical personnel, including caregivers who assist the care seeker. Care assistants may help the individual with daily tasks such as bathing, cleaning the home, preparing meals and offering sup-
port and companionship to the recipient. These services help the client to stay at home versus moving into a residential, assisted living care setting. Individuals typically desire to remain independent and use home care services to maintain their existing lifestyle. Non-medical home care has traditionally been privately funded as opposed to home health care, which is task-based and government- or insurance-funded. This means non-medical home care is paid for by the individual or family. The term “private-duty” refers to the private-pay nature of these relationships. Exactly 20 years ago, Shell Point Retirement Community, then known as
Shell Point Village, decided to provide the availability of an additional level of service to residents and Shell Point Home Care was developed. It was a tedious, intensive behind-the-scenes process to implement, but on November 2, 1999, Shell Point’s home care agency became a licensed entity through the Agency for Healthcare Administration. Join Shell Point in honoring the compassionate, tireless home care workers who play an invaluable role for their clients as caregivers, companions and friends. They make it possible for the healing to begin at home. As you prepare for Thanksgiving and recall your many gifts and blessings this year, please remember the home care professionals in your community who make a difference every day for your fellow residents.
November Assisted Living Presentations and Tours BY M C K E N Z I E M I L L I S , K I N G ’ S C R OW N ASS I ST E D L I V I N G D I R E C TO R
Everyone has questions about their future. In a world where there’s no way to see into the future, the best thing anyone can do is to stay well informed. Learning about the many services and levels of care that Shell Point provides is important, so that no matter what the future looks like, you will have the resources and information to be able to weather any storm. Planning is key and information is power. Join Shell Point’s assisted living directors for assisted living presentations and tours that will be held at each assisted living building at Shell Point. Do you have 36
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questions about what assisted living covers? How and when you would access that level of care? What does the moving process look like? These and many more questions will be answered during each presenta-
tion. Following each presentation, the healthy living coordinators will take you on a tour of the building, including a chance to see furnished apartments. Come for just one, or attend all three events - the choice is yours. King’s Crown will host its presentation and tour on November 13; The Arbor on November 19 and The Springs on November 21. All three presentations will begin at 9 a.m. Whether you are thinking about making a move to assisted living in the next couple months or in the next few years, this is a program you won’t want to miss. RSVPs are required. If you are interested in attending, please call (239) 4542299 to register today.
Anne Kimball Mail Delivery
Becky Anderson Library Books
Linda Seifert Greeter
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Thankful to Pay Blessings Forward B Y D O T T I E T R O N N E S , V O L U N T E E R C O O R D I N AT O R
Shell Point is a community of believers, people who know that their lives have been blessed and are thankful and ready to give testimony to that fact. Shell Point residents know where their blessings have come from, and they are ready to express their gratitude. One place where this concept of being blessed and thankful is most evident is seen at the Larsen Pavilion, in the loving ministry of Pavilion Auxiliary members. On any given day, evenings and weekends included, you can find thankful volunteers doing what they can for those less able: Paying their blessings forward. From the simple act of offering a book
or magazine from the library cart to the not-so-simple task of helping someone eat their meal, Christian love and kindness is on display in a very subtle manner. Never braggadocious, Auxiliary members work tirelessly for their friends and neighbors in Larsen Pavilion. Whatever duties a particular role encompasses, all volunteer members of the Auxiliary contribute to the organization’s success, fulfilling the Auxiliary’s mission by serving those residing at the Larsen Pavilion and enhancing their lives. So whether having direct contact with a resident by visiting in-room and lending a friendly ear with a smile, entertaining a
group of residents by playing a piano during a meal or indirectly assisting behind the scenes by making sure mail is directed to the correct room, the sum of all parts of the Auxiliary adds up to a wonderful group of Shell Point residents making a difference, no matter what the duties entail. The Larsen Pavilion is blessed to have a wonderful group of volunteers serving. Shell Point thanks each and every one – not only at this thankful time of year, but every day. New Auxiliary volunteers are always welcome. Would you like to join this group of dedicated residents? Please call the volunteer coordinator for more information at (239) 454-2290. Shell Point Life | November 2019
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MISSION FIRST, PEOPLE ALWAYS ARMY VETERAN LIVES TO SERVE
Anyone who has met him knows that retired Colonel Jim Stapleton (Harbor Court) is an Army man, through and through. It all started when Jim’s father, Army surgeon James “Buck” Stapleton, was assigned to West Point to command its hospital. Impressionable young Jim soon struck up friendships with several neighbors who attended the Military Academy ahead of Jim and with him. “I used to ride to high school with them, and they left a lingering impression,” said Jim. “They thrived at West Point. I wanted to be part of that; I just knew that I wanted to go to West Point.”
When the time was right, Jim entered West Point and graduated as an Infantry officer in 1964. “Once I got to West Point, I realized that I wanted to make the Army my career. ‘The Vietnam War, how can we get there?’ everyone would ask,” Jim remembered. While he knew the risks – and lost friends to the war while still at West Point – Jim accepted the risks and pushed forward. Jim headed to Fort Lewis, Washington for his first assignment with the 4th Infantry Division to prepare for deployment to Vietnam. He spent nine months training in
“smizzle” – smog and drizzle – at Olympic National Park to get used to environmental conditions before deployment. “The entire Second Infantry Brigade that I trained with was sent to Vietnam. We left Tacoma and spent 16 days on the Navy troop ship USNS General Nelson M. Walker before we reached Vietnam,” said Jim. “We were close knit and well trained. Everyone knew everyone, confident and competent.”
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As a cadet, Jim joined the lacrosse team at West Point (front row, second from the left) and became accustomed to wearing a crisp uniform – both on and off the field.
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familiar with his new Vietnamese environment – Nha Trang, Pleiku, Cam Ranh Bay and the Central Highland. Unlike many servicemen who spent a year tour in Vietnam, Jim, who was not married, extended his tour and spent 28 months on the job without taking a break, spending his 25th birthday in the Highlands, and his 26th in Saigon. “I think my tours in Vietnam framed my career in the Army as an officer,” Jim said. “And, I think it framed me as a leader.” After a year of showing skills as a rifle company executive officer, Jim was promoted to captain and assigned as Charlie Company Rifle Company commander. “The assignment was sobering,” recalled Jim, “because my predecessor was killed in action. It motivated me to be all I could be for my soldiers and our combat operations.” Seven months of Rifle Company ground combat operations covered about 2,000 kilometers – or six miles a day. “In over 30 combat engagements with the enemy, not one soldier was
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Like father, like son! Inspired by his dad, Jim graduated from the military academy and headed overseas to serve in the U.S. Army.
lost. I am proud of the company’s force protection skills,” said Jim. Army veteran and publisher Bob Babcock met Jim in Vietnam during this time period. “Jim was a sharp guy, and very dedicated. He knew his business. This was a guy who understood – mission first, people always,” said Bob. As his soldiers traveled through jungles,
woods, mountains and highlands, Jim would establish a routine where they’d execute combat operations until about 2 p.m. before clearing an area. This included setting up a perimeter, putting up shelters and establishing listening posts. “The North Vietnamese had their soldiers on reconnaissance and had us under surveillance. They were watching to see if we showed any weaknesses. That’s why we did things like not putting the same people on night watch who had been cutting overhead cover all day. We also dug in every night in case we were mortared. We always planned on-call, regular artillery and Air Force support,” said Jim. During night missions, soldiers surrounded Vietnamese villages where they would capture Viet Cong who terrorized the villagers. As the weeks went by with no casualties, Jim continuously focused on battlefield proficiency. “You and your soldiers, squads and platoons all had to sustain combat skills. As a leader, you must have the mentality to sustain combat readiness,” said Jim. Jim gave careful thought to the leadership of his soldiers. “Good leadership means caring for your soldiers
with high standards, leading the company into combat and being battle ready.” Next, Jim was selected to be an aidede-camp to Lieutenant General William “Ray” Peers. Lt. Gen. Peers later led the investigation of the My Lai Massacre. “I recall being with Peers on high ground at Pleiku Airbase when we saw rockets flying in the air on January 31, 1968 – the second Tet Offensive,” said Jim. Tet ’68 was a coordinated series of North Vietnamese and Viet Cong attacks on more than 100 cities and outposts in South Vietnam. While American and South Vietnamese forces quickly subdued the attacks, 246 Americans were killed in action. News coverage of the massive Tet Offensive shocked the American public and started the erosion of support for the war effort. In the final six months of his tour, Jim joined the Vietnamese Airborne Division as a battalion advisor, defending the U.S. decision to go to Vietnam. “We went over for the right reasons, to keep communism out of that country and to keep it from coming here,” he said.
100 miles behind the Iron Curtain, facing the East Germans and Russians daily. After two tours in Italy with the U.S. Airborne Task Force, he headed to Turkey and Northern Iraq as part of Operation Provide Comfort, protecting the Kurdish people in Northern Iraq. Jim spent his final assignment at Fort McPherson in Atlanta with Forces
for all U.S. forces. “Each civilian assignment was a challenging steppingstone,” he said. “We did turnarounds and worked with start-ups.” Beyond this work, Jim volunteered for several organizations such as the Atlanta Food Bank, Atlanta Restaurant Council, Atlanta City Sales Club, Veterans Upward Bound, U.S. Army War College Foundation, Atlanta Vietnam Veterans Business Association and West Point Society of Atlanta. In August 2018, Jim and his wife, Carolyn, decided to move to Shell Point. Since arriving, Jim has jumped into yet another volunteer role, working with the Pavilion Auxiliary to deliver mail to residents of the Larsen Pavilion. “It’s fulfilling because you can brighten their day when you bring them their mail,” said Jim. Jim has also recently reinvigorated the Shell Point Veterans Club, volunteering to serve as its leader as it gets underway with regular meetings. Stay tuned for more news about this excellent resident group. From his Army days to his volunteer service at Shell Point, Jim continues to consistently embody the same guiding leadership principles that he put into action during his Vietnam days. “It’s all about being a good leader. At the end of the day, you must take care of people,” concluded Jim. “Mission first, people always!”
“It’s all about being a good leader. At the end of the day, you must take care of people.”
Beyond Vietnam While other men left the military after their tours in Vietnam, Jim remained on active duty in the Army in the 1970s, ‘80s and part of the ‘90s. One assignment in particular took Jim to Berlin where he found himself approximately
Command serving as the staff coordinator for General Colin Powell. Eventually, Jim retired in 1994, after 30 years on active duty. “I liked Georgia so much that I lived in the state for years after leaving the Army, entrenching myself in Atlanta,” said Jim. Upon his “retirement,” Jim first served as the director of village logistics for the 1994 Atlanta Olympic Committee. After a tour with National Linen Service, he went to Iraq for 16 months with Kellogg, Brown and Root to provide contingency logistics
Celebrating Veterans November 11 11 a.m. Village Church
A brief Veterans Day program is planned at The Village Church at 11 a.m. on Monday, November 11. The program will follow Tellidora resident Seth Mendell’s conclusion of his five-session series about World War I, or the Great War. Seth’s final lecture about the Great War will take place from 9:30 a.m. to 11 a.m. Those who arrive at 11 a.m. will be seated for just the Veterans Day portion of the program. Following the presentation, all are invited to enjoy a special Veterans Day buffet lunch at The Crystal. Veterans will receive a 20 percent discount on their meal.
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Shell Point Guest House Welcomes Snowbird Visitors! BY NINA MAILLAKAKIS, GUEST HOUSE SUPERVISOR
The weather’s cooling off up north, and what better place for your friends and family to travel this winter than to visit you at Shell Point and stay in the family-friendly Guest House on The Island at Shell Point? Its modern, well-appointed rooms provide guests with two double beds, in-room Keurig coffee makers, free Wi-Fi, HD televisions and walk-in showers. Beyond its great location within Southwest Florida, just a short drive from Sanibel and Captiva Islands, the Guest House also offers easy access to onsite dining in The Crystal and Island Café. The beautiful LifeQuest Aquatic Center on The
Island is a favorite gathering place to warm your toes and catch some Florida sunshine. Guests are also welcome to use the Island Fitness Center or to go kayaking in the gorgeous waterways around The Island. During the holiday season a number of families and friends enjoy the security
and beauty of Shell Point’s tropical paradise when they visit. From the beautiful wildlife of ospreys, egrets and manatees to the water softly lapping up onshore by the Caloosahatchee, your guest’s visit is sure to be a special memory for years to come. Remember to make plans early as reservations are received on a first-come, firstserved basis. Comfortable guest rooms and the tropical amenities of The Island, along with close proximity to Sanibel Island and Fort Myers Beach, are sure to provide a restful and recreational respite for all who visit the community. To place a reservation at the Guest House, call (239) 454-2123.
Need a Tune-Up for the Holidays? Scotty’s Automotive, located on The Island at Shell Point, offers residents more than just oil changes and tune-ups, tire balancing and alignment, replacement belts and hoses. Owner Scott Janson’s customized, customer-friendly services include road calls to fix flat tires and jump start dead batteries, and a tow if needed. In addition to its comprehensive 16-step process for annual golf cart maintenance, Scotty’s Automotive also recommends a monthly check-up for golf carts. This includes topping off the water levels in all the 42
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electric batteries and checking the air in the tires, which can help extend the life of the cart. Scotty’s Automotive sets up an account for each customer and maintains a record of service history. In addition, customers can drop off their cars at any time, complete a service request form and safely deposit it along with the keys in the office door slot. Garage hours for Scotty’s Automotive at Shell Point are Monday through Friday, from 8 a.m. to 6 p.m. and from 8 a.m. to 1 p.m. on Saturdays. The shop may be reached at (239) 454-0200.
This Christmas, Think “Inside” the Box! B Y D O N P U L L E N , A S S O C I AT E PA S T O R , T H E V I L L A G E C H U R C H
With the holiday season quickly approaching, it’s time to start thinking about how you can fill a shoebox for the Operation Christmas Child, hosted by The Village Church again this year. Each year, thanks to the support of Shell Point residents, The Village Church contributes hundreds of shoeboxes toward this effort. A ministry of international relief organization Samaritan’s Purse, Operation Christmas Child collects giftfilled shoeboxes that are delivered to children who have been
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affected by war, poverty, natural disasters and other crises in third-world countries. Each one – packed full of fun toys, school supplies and personal hygiene items by a
family or individual – is sent with prayer that the child who receives it will experience God’s love through their simple gifts. Are you ready to bless a child at Christmastime? Whether it’s a theme box or a collection of miscellaneous items, you can brighten the faces of countless little boys and girls across the world! Operation Christmas Child shoeboxes are available in The Village Church lobby and should be returned to the church no later than Sunday, November 17. If you have any questions, visit www. samaritanspurse.org/occ or call the church office at (239) 454-2147.
Invitation to Participate in
Faith Exploration Series
The Village Church and The Academy of Lifelong Learning are happy to announce that the Alpha course will be offered at Shell Point in early 2020 for the 17th consecutive year. It will run every Tuesday evening from January 14 through March 17, presenting the basics of the Christian faith, an ideal contribution to the spiritual component of LifeQuest. Each session will begin with a complimentary dinner, catered by the Palm Grill and served in the Grand Cypress Room at The Woodlands. The meal will be followed by a video presentation and small-group conversations. The gatherings will begin at 4:30 p.m. and end at 6:45 p.m. sharp. The course is free to participants; the cost is underwritten by The Village Church. The recently produced Alpha videos are emotive and epic in scale and scope,
filmed in Canada, the United Kingdom, France, India, Hong Kong, Israel and the United States. Nicky Gumbel, an Anglican vicar in London, and two young presenters walk the group through the Alpha material in a way that is fresh and clear. These fast-moving presentations provide a natural lead-in to the small-group conversations which focus on discovery rather than dogma. There are no dumb
questions. As people share experiences and opinions, each person learns from each other and new friendships form. Over 27 million people in 169 countries and 112 languages have found answers to many of life’s big questions by taking the Alpha course, which is offered by every major U.S. church denomination in all 50 states. Alpha is of special appeal to those who may not attend church, but are seeking answers to life’s big questions. It also offers insights to churchgoers who are uncertain of their beliefs or want a refresher course in Christianity. More information can be found by Googling “The Alpha Course, U.S.” Call The Village Church office at (239) 454-2147 to sign up for the course any time after November 1. Space is limited to 50 participants, so it does fill up quickly. Registration ends January 8, 2020. Shell Point Life | November 2019
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Hook, Line & Sinker
Lucy Smyth and Phil Pruna
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On Friday, September 6, the Banyan Grille hosted a highly successful, traditional Friday Night Fish Fry. The room was decorated with a fishing theme and the Resort Services team looked as if they had caught the fish themselves! Tony O the Music Man was the “catch of the day� on keyboard and he gave everyone a reason to hit the dance floor after the buffet. The Banyan Grille provided a variety of offerings from both land and sea such as beer-battered cod, herb-grilled chicken, coleslaw, salads, French fries, hush puppies and fresh corn. Desserts included mouthwatering lemon meringue bars, coconut custard, chocolate cream pie and strawberry shortcake. With big expectations on the line, this certainly turned out to be a fun evening for diners to share; a Friday night tradition with a new twist.
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Jim and Geraldine Mockler
Diane and Robert Feik
Dean and Linda Nickerson
Betty Bainbridge, Director of Marketing Lynn Schneider, Barbara Milligan and Jeanne Allison
Gus and Jackie Ormrod
Joan Watson, Janice Peoples and Judith Warner
Karen and Terry Hall dance alongside Marian and Hoyt Hall.
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Set Free
A WOMEN’S CONNECTIONS PROGRAM
Have you ever been evacuated, leaving behind most of what you owned, over and over again? Some missionaries have to experience this situation, depending on what part of the world they’ve served in. Cheryl Phenicie and her husband Darrell spent most of their 36 years of ministry in the Middle East working among Muslim people. They started their ministry in Lebanon, living through many years of civil war and evacuating four times. They have also worked in Jordan, Northern Iraq,
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Tunisia and Germany. Their ministry has centered around leadership development, prenatal clinics, starting community centers, church planting and missions mobilization. Their ultimate goal has always been to see the church of Jesus Christ planted among a people with little or no access to the Gospel. Attend the Women’s Connections gathering at The Village Church on Sunday, November 10, at 6:15 p.m. where Cheryl will be speaking to hear more about her varying experiences. This will be an interesting and encouraging service that
Darrell and Cheryl Phenicie
will recount the Lord’s blessing on her life. Additionally, an annual, one-time offering will be taken in support of the Alliance Women’s Ministries new national project for 2019, called Set Free.
accommodations are provided for caregivers of campers, as needed. A nurse plus other volunteers are on site to assist. Come join the Women’s Connections to hear specifics about the camp, see some of the campers in video and in person, hear motivating stories and be encouraged by the joy you’ll see on everyone’s faces. Perhaps, Special Gifts at Christmas is after attending this event, you the Women’s Connections might be interested in visiting 2019 Christmas program, which or perhaps see yourself volunwill be held on December 11, at teering during the February 2:15 p.m. in the Village Church. 2020 camp! In addition, if you The event will showcase Trailways want a head start on seeing the Camps and will be presented for camp in action, consider a visit Shell Point residents – both men during the November 18-21 and women – and visitors. Sharon and Jerry Miller started Trailways Camp to give chilTrailways Camps was founded dren and adults with disabilities access to the joys of camp. camp session. Tickets for this program are and is run by Shell Point’s own $10. They are available from residents Sharon and Jerry Miller (Harbor Court) in honor of two of their needs are invited to a local campsite to par- November 17 to December 3 at The Village four children, Robert and Benjamin, who ticipate and experience the “usual” list of Church’s Sunday morning and evening sercamp activities. With special attention and vices, as well as during the week on Monday, both received special needs diagnoses. The slogan of Trailways Camps is “A assistance, campers can canoe, play basket- Wednesday or Friday from 9 a.m. to noon at Place Where You Are Something Special” ball, learn martial arts and fish, to name a the church. Proceeds from the ticket sales will be donated to Trailways Camp and used and beautifully states what happens during few of the many activities. Trailways Camps partners with Riverside for scholarships for campers. camp. Campers, age 18 and above, are indiFor more information, the camp viduals living with any mental, emotional Retreat to use their campsite near Alma and or physical issue(s) requiring special atten- with Goodwill for the “background” support. website is www.trailwayscamps.org. tion for daily activities. For each four-day These partnerships allow the Millers to focus To register as volunteer or camper, go to camp experience, 20 adults with special on running events during camp. Appropriate www.goodwillswfl.org/trailwayscamp.
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A Thanksgiving
of Peace
R E V. A N D R E W H A W K I N S , P H . D . , S E N I O R P A S T O R , T H E V I L L A G E C H U R C H
We’re not accustomed to a peaceful Thanksgiving. Please don’t misunderstand – I love Thanksgiving. It’s one of my favorite holidays. The quintessential American holiday, arguably the most Christian of the distinctively American holidays, it’s rooted in a religious people committed to the God of Providence, the Deity who sustained a struggling colony through a brutal winter. And, of course, there’s food! Abundant food – enough food to guarantee a carbohydrate-induced coma mid-afternoon between the main event and the turkey sandwich in the evening. No wonder I love Thanksgiving! But aside from the mid-afternoon nap, Thanksgiving was never peaceful at our house. We served dinner for our immediate family, as well as some of our extended family. By others’ Thanksgiving standards, our numbers were not large – maybe a dozen or so. But the problem was that it was up to my dear mother to prepare the meal in a very cramped, galley kitchen. Two people in the space was plenty. Three was a crowd. Any more was a convention. My mom was not used to preparing a meal with that level of complexity. The oven was too small. The stove top had to be pulled out from under the oven, and it then extended into the floor space in the galley, further restricting movement. There was no room for a microwave (Oh, wait – this was before there were microwaves!). Getting the meal together was a struggle. A peaceful Thanksgiving? Not for my mother. And “if Mama ain’t happy...” Of course, Thanksgiving today is not only known for food; it’s known for football. Three NFL games on TV every year.
Football is not a peaceful game; it’s a violent game. And this year, there are two divisional rivalry games: the Bears at the Lions, and the Saints at the Falcons. If you’re invested in either of those games, it’s not a peaceful holiday – unless you sleep through the game you’re watching. I grew up a Redskin fan. The Cowboys always had a Thanksgiving Day game, which they do this year as well. The Redskins played the Cowboys frequently on Thanksgiving. That is not peaceful for a Redskin fan. This year, it’s really hard to be a Redskin fan! But biblically, thanksgiving is the key to peace. Biblical peace is the opposite of anxiety. The Bible is opposed to anxiety. Philippians 4:6 says “Be anxious for nothing.” In other words, “Don’t be anxious.” That sounds great, but it’s impossible to do. You can’t tell someone to not do something. How do you not do something? Fortunately, the Bible is a very practical book. The instruction doesn’t stop
with telling you not to do something. It tells you what to do instead. “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God” (Philippians 4:6). Instead of being anxious, we are to pray. But how we are to pray is critical: “with thanksgiving.” We’re supposed to express thanksgiving even before our prayers and supplications are answered! That’s faith. Instead of our anxieties, we’re to pray, and we are to pray with thanksgiving. Our attitude of gratitude is everything. But then comes the coup de grace, the grand promise: “And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:7). Praying with thanksgiving produces peace. Abundant peace. Peace that surpasses our understanding. That’s when Thanksgiving is peaceful. This holiday, this Thanksgiving, in the midst of the normal chaos, between football games and naps, take the time to pray, with thanksgiving. Then enjoy the peace.
Thanksgiving Eve Service COME, YE THANKFUL PEOPLE, COME
The harvest season is a time of grace and bounty; a time to celebrate God’s provisions and to give thanks. The Village Church welcomes the community to its annual Thanksgiving Eve Service, which will be held in the Village Church Auditorium on Wednesday, November 27, at 7:15 p.m. Come, bringing your family and joining your friends and neighbors, and express thanksgiving to God for His many blessings.
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Cornucopia BY ST E V E M O RTO N , D I R E C TO R O F L A N D S C A P E O P E R AT I O N S
I scrutinized my mother as she set the dining room table. The oak table with ladder-back chairs was only reserved for special occasions. On top of the white linen tablecloth, she first placed a sparkling silver disk. Next, she positioned a designer porcelain plate directly on top of that silver charger. Without consulting a book, she expertly located the dinner knife, teaspoon and soup spoon to the right of the plate and both forks to the left. Finally, she precisely inserted the water glass and crystal wine glass above the knife and soup spoon, her movements accompanied by Mozart’s Marriage of Figaro. No one in our family knew much about wine or classical music, but there would be both at this dinner. Jacqueline Sue was raised by her maternal grandmother on a small subsistence farm in the lead mining region of Southeast Missouri during the Great Depression. She took me to her hometown once when I was a teen. We peered inside the ghostly, two-room schoolhouse representing the abandoned town of Gumbo, Missouri. She explained the school was closed before I was born and that she was the only child for miles around. She played alone with her farm dog on the hills of lead mine wastes that the locals called “chat.” As a city boy, I could only glimpse at the crushing isolation and poverty she must have endured. We never returned to Gumbo again. I could smell the overfed turkey roasting in the oven, and the kitchen countertops were swayback with the weight of mounded candied yams, a cauldron of ambrosia salad, and four pies cooling on a wire rack. There was more food than our small extended family could possibly eat. I slowly began to realize that something beyond a Thanksgiving meal was happening. I watched now with suspicion as she placed the old wicker cornucopia onto the buffet and began filling it with vegetables she bought at the supermarket. There were pumpkins, squash, corn and carrots. These garden vege-
tables were the vital sustenance of her youth, now relegated to decor. Like Caesar crossing the Rubicon with his legion, this meal was my mother’s ultimate defiance. The serving of dinner was as if in triumphal procession entering Rome; Jacqueline the first of her name, proclaiming victory over poverty with pomp and circumstance. As the citizens of her family were enthralled by her audacity, she aptly demonstrated that every single speck of provincial Gumbo dust had been scrubbed off the girl, and the woman had been reinvented into sophistication. I raised my glass and we toasted to the host of our feast. After a Thanksgiving meal, it was customary for my mother and me to walk in the garden while digesting our meal. We stopped and looked at each shrub, commenting upon how much it had grown or its profusion of flowers. I do the same at Shell Point today, and I realized that our community is a cornucopia of sorts, a horticultural horn of plenty. Although I have lived in several different regions of the country, I have never observed ornamental plant diversity greater than that of Shell Point. As I stroll upon the perimeter sidewalk at Serenity Cove, I reflect upon the serenity of that Thanksgiving Day with my mother in her garden. In just my first few steps, I discover hibiscus plants from tropical East Asia. As I look ahead, I can see plumbago from South Africa. At northern sidewalk junction, I stop to inspect our new bridalveil tree with a wish for it to show us the blooms that it is famous for in Venezuela. Across the lawn is our sole specimen of the Malabar chestnut tree that is a native neighbor of the bridalveil from northern South America. I am thankful for the bounty of Shell Point and I am thankful the time I had with my mother. This Thanksgiving, I invite you to walk the grounds of the community and reflect upon those whom you have loved – and the cornucopia of life.