Shell Point Life (Sep/Oct 2023)

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YOU'RE INVITED

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LOVING WHAT THEY DO AND MAKING A DIFFERENCE

Sep/Oct 2023 Vol. 18 Issue 5

Living Our Mission

This year, Shell Point’s mission was brought to life through a pair of summer traditions created to bless employees and their children: The Annual School Supply Fund Drive and Vacation Bible School. The common thread between both events? Our resident volunteers, who help make all the difference. See all the smiling faces starting on pages 4 and 8.

A Culture of Volunteerism

The Shell Point Healthcare Auxiliary hosted an open house showcasing the variety of ways volunteers help make a difference at the Larsen Health Center. See photos from the event and read about upcoming Auxiliary Volunteer Orientations on page 11.

Connecting and Community

Helen and Bill Donegan played off each other’s strengths as they built successful careers in Orlando— both in business as a couple and individually—while making a tremendous impact on the region through decades of work, leadership, and volunteerism. They share their experiences, the satisfaction they gain by giving back, and the importance of being an active member of your community starting on page 12.

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Director Rich Cerrina

Graphic Designer Brent Mayer Graphic Designer Vanessa Miranda Contributors Beth Albright, Patricia Armstrong, Jim Clark, Jeff Cory, Claude Emler, Kristen Gartz, Janine Hammond, Andrew Hawkins, Jon High, Joseph Pink, Don Pullen, Laura Slack, Jason Smith, Carol Sperlak, Susan Uhleman

Shell Point Life is available online. You can find this current issue, as well as back issues of Shell Point Life magazine, at www.shellpoint.org/shellpointlife.

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On the Cover Helen and Bill Donegan (Oakmont) have immersed themselves into life at Shell Point through clubs, activities, and volunteering. 12 8 11 In Every
Connections 11 Happenings Calendar 26 Support Groups 33 At The Tribby 34 Academy of Lifelong Learning 46 The Village Church 51 Out and About 54 Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. – Romans 12:12 2 Shell Point Life | September/October 2023
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Dining Events and Free Concerts Fall

This fall, Shell Point’s Dining and Resident Programming Teams have joined forces once again to bring you a pair unforgettable themed evenings. Enjoy culinary delights in The Crystal and the Palm Grill, followed by the magic of live music under the stars.

TUESDAY, OCTOBER 10

DISCO NIGHT AT THE CRYSTAL

4:30 – 6:30 p.m. • $28

Disco Days are back at The Crystal! Dust off those bell bottoms and come experience Chef Shaun’s classic dishes, complete with live action stations. This blast from the past night offers a costume contest and prizes! Reservations are required; call The Crystal at (239) 454-2199.

WATER'S EDGE CONCERT AT FRIENDSHIP POINT

Deb and the Dynamics

6:30 p.m. • FREE

This is a fun, toe-tapping evening of classic rock, seventies, and soul music you will not want to miss! The Resident Programming team will share a special treat during an evening filled with fellowship, fun, and great music. No sign-up is needed for the concert—all are welcome.

WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 25

OCTOBERFEST AT THE PALM GRILL

4:30 – 6:30 P.M. • $29

Join us for a delicious Palm Grill buffet including all your German favorites, from potato salad and pretzel bites, to potato pancakes and bratwurst—not to mention the schnitzel and spaetzle action station! Be sure to save room for Black Forest cake, apple strudel and more. Reserve your spot at the Palm Grill; call (239) 454-2059.

WATER'S EDGE CONCERT AT THE WOODLANDS BACK DECK

Tom Cimarusti & Select Artists

6:30 P.M. • FREE

All are invited to join us on the Woodlands Back Deck for a festive evening of music with Tom Cimarusti and a group of select artists. Light refreshments will be served. No sign-up is needed for the concert.

A RecordBreaking Year A RecordBreaking Year

18th Annual School Supply Fund Drive a Success

In July, employees with children or grandchildren entering kindergarten through fifth grade were invited to pass through The Village Church porte cochere to pick up bags filled with everything they need for a successful school year—from pencils and pens, to notebooks and glue sticks. But before the big day, there is a lot of work that goes into ensuring the event’s success.

Fundraising for the 18th Annual School Supply Fund Drive began in April under the leadership of Manus O’Donnell (Rosemont) and Jeanne Carguilo (Turban), now in their second year as School Supply Fund Drive chairs.

According to Jeanne, it was a record-breaking year for the Annual School Supply Fund Drive: Shell Point residents generously donated an all-time high of $21,900. Working together, the volunteer committee distributed a total of 956 bags!

The committee identified the items they wanted to include in this year’s bags after consulting the official school supply lists from local elementary schools. With help from the Shell Point Purchasing Department, they used the donations to place their

supply orders. Supplies bought with assistance from Shell Point’s Purchasing Department were delivered to The Village Church, where 55 volunteers worked assembly-line style to fill the bags. Co-chairs Jeanne Carguilo (Turban) and Manus O’Donnell (Rosemont).
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Carol McBee (Periwinkle), Joan Bell (Junonia), Lois Pedersen (Lakewood), Ginny Shannon (Nautilus), Betty Bullock (Springs), Carol Mann (Sundial), Deneele Walker (Junonia), Manus O’Donnell (Rosemont), Jeanne and Nick Carguilo (Turban), Karen Hall (Nautilus), Rob and Mary Ann Weyant (Junonia). Nadege Sylvestre Olner Homere and Bonita Wilkins (Macoma) Manus O’Donnell (Rosemont) and Deneele Walker (Junonia) Jim Fricker (Rosemont) Mauricio Morro
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Carol McBee (Periwinkle), Rowena and Beningo Santos

For more photos, visit ShellPointSocialScene.com

Drawing on their experience, Manus and Jeanne implemented some time-saving initiatives as they streamlined the packing and distribution processes.

Manus added that the School Supply Volunteers were exceptionally efficient.

“They arrived with enthusiasm and cut packing time compared with last year, even though they were asked to pack 20% more supplies,” he said. “Volunteers loved engaging and expressing appreciation to

employees and each other as they handed them the school supply bags. The smiling was contagious among everyone—even in the 100+ relative temperatures.”

There are a lot of expenses when it comes to getting ready for the new school year, and this event is a blessing from the community’s residents to Shell Point employees.

Marcia Kline (Periwinkle) Carol Mann (Sundial) and Matt Galbraith Ginny Shannon (Nautilus) and Joseph Polynice Jeanne Carguilo (Turban) Karen Hall (Nautilus), Deneele Walker (Junonia), and Mary Ann Weyant (Junonia)
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Alba Lago and Larisa Moran

Serenity

Garden

What do you get when you pair a master gardener with a couple of master woodworkers and task them with making gardening available to residents who thought it was a long past endeavor? The infrastructure for a beautiful raised bed garden, of course! A garden that will be an outlet for Assisted Living and Independent Living Carefree Connections residents who would welcome an opportunity to tend a garden or just sit in peace in the midst of a beautifully designed garden.

A labor of love was given to Arts as Healing this summer. Santa Lorch (Parkwood), a master gardener, designed plans for raised bed planters, trellises for vining plants, and a bench. But what she

got when Shell Point woodworkers George Waters (Palm Acres) and George Osteyee (Sundial) were enlisted to build the planters was so much more than she could have imagined.

The Georges went to work building and modifying the planters by adding donated plastic bins for liners to preserve the wood planters from the wear and tear of the Florida sun and rain. They saw a need for more than just raised planters for ease of planting and maintenance for residents who may no longer be able to garden at ground level. There is now also a wood railing to delineate and enclose the garden and, most important, a ramp to ease mobility into the garden area.

Needless to say, Santa is excited to get started with plans for the planting part of

the garden—Florida weather permitting, that is. She will be working with Lillian Natalzia, King’s Crown Activities Director, who is also an avid gardener, and Emily Reese, Coordinator of Carefree Connections, to offer this volunteer activity to the Assisted Living Facilities and Carefree Connections. Santa and Laurie Heaver (Parkwood) will manage the garden and are considering offering gardening classes.

As we move into the cooler planting season, please plan to stop by the Woodlands Resident Gardens to view the fruits of our labor at The Arts as Healing Serenity Garden. While there, you can say hello to the Arts as Healing volunteers working to make this beautiful garden possible.

Vacation Bible School 2023

An Expression of Shell Point's Mission

Every year, I’m humbled by the heartfelt desire and commitment of our Shell Point leadership to bless our employee’s kids and grandkids through our Vacation Bible School. They want the very best for the children and provide everything needed for an amazing week. It’s a beautiful expression of Shell Point’s mission!

This July, 52 children in second through fifth grade participated in the program that was led by volunteers both from Shell Point and from Envision Miami, a ministry outreach of the Christian and Missionary Alliance.

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Mornings began with fun excursions to Four Freedoms Park courtesy of the Suzy Q; Spinz Roller Rink; Sky Zone Trampoline Park; and the LifeQuest Aquatic Center on The Island. Afternoons were devoted to a traditional VBS program in The Village Church, led by Shell Point's Director of Employee Ministry Jim Clark. Shell Point staff and residents—including the Shell Point Illusionists—volunteered their time to VBS as well.

VBS was extra special this year in light of all we’ve been through. Everything was put on hold after the impact of Hurricane Ian, but to be able to host all these children just 10 months later is an extraordinary testament to God’s provision and the hard work of our employees. We don’t take this for granted!

The amazing week ended with a musical worship performance with an audience of family members and residents. This year’s theme of “Stellar” took the children on a cosmic quest, and they had a blast shining Jesus’ light to the world.

For more photos, visit ShellPointSocialScene.com

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Day Retreat Program Offerings

Socialization and engagement plays an important role in helping us to maintain physical and emotional health—and the same is true for someone with cognitive impairment. For people living with cognitive impairment, regularly scheduled opportunities to engage with peers in a meaningful way can provide a greater sense of belonging; stimulate a sense of personal worth; and strengthen the connection to time and place. Regular socialization has also shown benefits for individuals being able to maintain focus better in addition to improving one’s overall quality of life through experiencing joyful moments.

The Connections Day Retreat Program provides cognitive stimulation and socialization for residents experiencing memory impairment in a supportive, secure environment. Day Retreat is a complimentary program offered to residents in Independent and Assisted Living.

Recreational offerings include:

• Mindful activities such as reading, music, puzzles, board games, and card games. We exercise the brain through mindful activities to enhance the attendees focus, memory and creativity.

• Activities that promote positive motor skills. These will aim to strengthen gross motor skills and fine motor skills through our exercise program and art.

• Sensor y stimulation to support brain function by triggering positive emotions and memories with everyday objects.

To learn more or begin the registration process, please contact the Day Retreat Program Coordinator Emily Unkenholz at 225-2977.

Falls Prevention Health Fair

Friday, September 22 • 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. Grand Cypress Room in The Woodlands

According to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, more than one out of four Americans aged 65 and older fall each year. Step Smart—a non-profit committed to empowering older Southwest Florida adults to age well and reduce falls—is hosting an informative presentation at Shell Point in observance of Falls Prevention Awareness Week.

The event will include complimentary balance testing with a written report, demonstrations of physical activities that can prevent falls, a home safety checklist, and fall prevention tips. The health fair-style program will also include vision and hearing screenings, along with information from community partners, rehabilitation therapists from the Roulston Therapy Center in the Larsen Health Center, and Shell Point’s Wellness and Fitness teams.

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Shell Point Healthcare Auxiliary Open House

Volunteerism is a big part of Shell Point's culture—and that spirit extends to Larsen Health Center, where our Healthcare Auxiliary hosted a Volunteer Open House. Residents were invited to explore an array of ways to help make a difference, from manning the beverage cart and helping with activities to serving as the parking lot golf cart attendant. Each station was staffed by caring volunteers who were happy to share what makes volunteering at Larsen so satisfying. The event was a success, garnering 41 new volunteers. Join

For more information,

us at an upcoming Monthly Shell Point Healthcare Auxiliary Volunteer Orientation.
contact Ruth Boyd, Shell Point Healthcare Auxiliary
at RuthBoyd@ShellPoint.org or call (239) 415-5477.
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Jane Isebrand (Parkwood), Gene and Kim Cooprider (Eagles Preserve), and John Peterson (Coquina) Maria Parks (Lakewood), Mary Coddens (Oakmont) and Alice Wertz (Estuary) Christy Skinner, Kayla Lukesic and Rachael Zellers John Leiter (Lucina) and Bob Baur (Enclave)
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Jane Haines (Springs), Jeanne Carguilo (Turban), and Gail Garlinghouse (Enclave)

Loving

what they do! what they do!

Bill and Helen Donegan (Oakmont) both worked for the same retail corporation in Northern California. But they'd never crossed paths before they found themselves in the same elevator in a New York hotel in 1975.

“When I saw her in the elevator, the first thing I said to myself was, ‘How am I going to get this woman to marry me?’” recalls Bill.

Helen was a buyer for multiple branches of a San Francisco department store, and Bill was a merchandise manager who worked with buyers like Helen across the retail company. He knew of her strong retail stats before their elevator meet-up, but he set out to get to know her better while they were both in New York for business.

On their first date, she brought a friend. But after he delivered her chicken soup from Carnegie Deli when she wasn’t feeling well, then spent a day with her checking out various stores in New York, she agreed to a proper date when they got home to San Francisco.

The two had taken different paths to get to that point in their lives. Helen was born in Athens, Greece, and was baptized by the Ecumenical Patriarch of Eastern Orthodoxy, who happened to be her mother’s uncle and a friend of President Truman. Her family first immigrated to San Francisco but couldn’t stay due to immigration quotas, so they headed to Vancouver, Canada. When she was 14, the family moved back to San Francisco, where they opened a chain of restaurants.

Helen attended San Jose State University and originally intended to be a nutritionist. But during a trip to see family in Greece after she graduated from college, she spent time with a relative who owned a boutique. “I thought wow, this is really great; this is a lot of fun,” she says. “I came back and I said to my parents, ‘I’m going to go into retail.’”

Loving
Bill and Helen Donegan left a lasting mark on the Orlando area. Now they’re starting their next chapter of life at Shell Point.
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Bill was born and raised in New Orleans, served in the U.S. Army, and earned a business degree from Tulane University. He originally had thoughts of being a teacher, but his uncle convinced him to go into retail, where he quickly rose up the ranks.

Bill and Helen had been dating for about a year when he was transferred to Orlando. “The idea of going from San Francisco to Orlando was not thrilling to her,” says Bill.

“At that time, it was not really developed,” says Helen. “It was very quiet. I was a city girl who liked traveling to Europe.”

But love won out. The two were married on April 24, 1976, in San Francisco and flew out the next day for Orlando.

“We arrived in Orlando, and we drove to this new house that Bill had purchased for us,” says Helen. “They had no streetlights. The place was on a lake—it was lovely—but we went through this dirt road to get to the house, and I was freaking out.”

Helen had Bill ship her beloved Volkswagen Super Beetle from San Francisco, even though Bill suggested she get a new car since the Beatle didn’t have air conditioning.

“One July, she got caught in a traffic jam in that un-air-conditioned Volkswagen, and she came home with her mascara dripping, yelling, ‘I want a new car!’” he laughs.

Despite that inauspicious beginning,

the two would go on to spend decades in Orlando, developing a love for the growing region and leaving a major mark on the city. Soon after moving there, they walked into the Pappagallo store in Winter Park. Helen declared it the kind of store she’d want to buy, and when it became available in 1978, they did just that.

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Bill’s career included service as an Orange County Commissioner and the Orange County Property Appraiser, as well as serving on the Florida Commission on Ethics. Bill and Helen with United States Secretary of Housing and Urban Development Mel Martinez and Florida Governor Jeb Bush.
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A dedicated member of the Boy Scouts of America, Bill achieved the rank of Eagle Scout as a 13-year-old in 1953. In 1992, the Scout’s Central Florida Council honored his service with the Silver Beaver Award.

Two more stores followed. Helen handled the buying, sales, and marketing side of the business; Bill concentrated on the finances. For 10 years they helped dress some of the region’s most prominent residents.

“Arnold Palmer’s wife would come in at eight o’clock in the morning and shop,” recalls Bill. “And I would sit with him and chit chat.”

“We had a little bar area and a seating area,” says Helen. “Our colors were like Lilly Pulitzer colors—they were green and pink and yellow, and everything was white wicker. We had a bar, and the men would come in and sit. It was quite the place at

The couple’s community involvement led Bill into politics, and he was elected an Orange County Commissioner. But that meant he had less time to help with the stores, which proved challenging for Helen. The Donegans found themselves at a decision point, and they opted to sell the stores in 1989 so Bill could continue his political

He spent eight years as a county commissioner, then served on the Florida Commission on Ethics. In 2000, he was asked to serve as the Orange County Property Appraiser. He had been thinking about retirement, and they knew Sanibel well after spending holidays in their Sanibel Cottages condo for 20 years. Together, in 1999, they decided to purchase a home in Gulf Harbour in Fort Myers for their next chapter. Bill wound up staying in his role until 2013, putting retirement on hold.

As Bill made his impact on local politics, Helen branched beyond retail into a new career phase.

Through a stint working for the Winter Park Chamber of Commerce, first as a volunteer and then as a staff member, she got to know the new president of the University of Central Florida, who asked her to interview for the role of community relations director. That was the jumping off point for a 24-year-long career at the university, where she ultimately become one of the first female vice presidents.

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Helen will be honored once again this fall at the 10th Anniversary Event of the ATHENA International Leadership Award, which is presented to an individual who is recognized for professional excellence, for providing valuable service to their community, and for actively assisting women in their attainment of professional excellence and leadership skills.

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During her 24-year career at the University of Central Florida, Helen ascended to Vice President of the Division of Community Relations. She has been recognized by dozens of civic and professional organizations for her dedication and contributions to the region. Helen at a UCF commencement with Charles Gray and University President John C. Hitt Helen and Bill with President Ronald Reagan and First Lady Nancy Reagan at a fundraiser in the 1980s Helen with First Lady Barbara Bush. United Kingdom Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher with Helen at an Economics Club of Orlando event in 1992. Pictured here with Executive Director Frank Holt and Benefactor Michael Mennello, Helen twice served as chair of the annual gala for Orlando’s Mennello Museum of American Art.

“I loved my time at the university,” says Helen. “It was the best job…It was the most perfect job for me, because we knew everybody, and I was able to call community leaders and introduce my boss around the community.”

Over the years, Helen hosted many people of distinction, including Archbishop Desmond Tutu, Oscar Arias, and Pulitzer Prize-winning biographer Doris Kearns Goodwin, among others.

Both the University of Central Florida and the Orlando region itself grew significantly during Helen’s more than two decades there. “The neat thing about that job was that I was able to work with the companies and the people that shaped the future of the region,” she says. “The university was an economic generator, and so we were brought into discussions. Words couldn’t even express how fortunate I feel to have been there during that time.” Helen retired from UCF in 2018.

Through their various roles, the two had the opportunity to interact and dine with mayors, governors, senators, and presidents—Bill once shared a memorable limo ride with President George W. Bush— and meet a range of notable figures, from Sonny Bono to Margaret Thatcher. “I loved her,” Helen said of Thatcher. “She was absolutely incredible. She spoke for about an hour and a half with no notes at all.”

The couple’s support of the region extended well beyond their careers, and they have a long resume of volunteer service, board service, and awards and recognition. They were featured in Orlando Magazine as one of “Orlando’s Power Couples” and were listed among the 50 most powerful people in Orlando by Orlando Magazine for many years in a row. Among the organizations they’ve supported are the United Way, American Heart Association, American Cancer Society, Orlando Repertory Theatre, and Mennello Museum of American Art. Helen also chaired the opening of the Orlando Science Center.

“Helen and I, we always worked together that way,” says Bill. “If we were going after something, we’d do it together.”

“You know that Barbra Streisand song that says people who need people are the luckiest people in the world? That’s why I said community relations was the most perfect job for me,” says Helen. “I can sit down anywhere and start talking to anybody and learn all about them and just enjoy them, and Bill’s kind of the same way. We just love people.

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Bill and Helen with Jeb Bush and President George H. W. Bush in 1994. Bill with Congressman Sonny Bono. In 2012 Helen and Bill were named among Orlando Magazine's most powerful couples. Helen and Bill with Florida GovernorJebBushathis1999inauguration.

“It’s so cliche to say you like giving back, but I just feel that you can make such a difference when you connect with people, especially in a community,” she continues. “There’s a difference between being a resident of a community and being an active member of a community. You can make such a difference.”

Bill and Helen made the move from Gulf Harbour to Shell Point in 2022 after finding the ideal residence with the kind of space and storage

they desired. Living here provides peace of mind and an active schedule for the couple, who have a daughter and family in Jacksonville. They also enjoy convenient access to things like health care services. “Everything is easy to get to, between Larsen Health Center and the specialty doctors,” says Bill, who’s an active tennis player and cyclist both at Shell Point and Gulf Harbour. He is also a member of the Shell Point Veterans Group and the fishing club.

“I especially love the Academy of Lifelong Learning, being in education all those years,” says Helen. “I read all the time; I’m never without a book.” She also enjoys attending performances and exhibitions at the Tribby Arts Center, where she volunteers in the Serendipity gift shop.

During the past year, the Donegans have immersed themselves in life around campus. It comes as no surprise how quickly they have become part of the fabric of the Shell Point community.

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There’s a difference between being a resident of a community and being an active member of a community. You can make such a difference.
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Excitement is building around campus as construction plans move ahead for Vista Cay, Shell Point’s new collection of 59 coastal view independent living residences.

“Vista Cay presents a truly unique opportunity within Shell Point,” said Jan Coay, Director of Sales. “The variety of 15 floor plans among the loft, midrise and penthouse homes is extremely appealing, especially combined with our renowned lifestyle amenities and the assurance of Shell Point’s world-class healthcare services.”

Rising to a new view at Vista Cay

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Along with Vista Cay, progress continues on the new Island Commons with beautiful renderings that give residents a glimpse of what’s to come within the amazing amenity building—including resident gathering spaces and an all-new Guest House.

“Seeing our new amenity spaces brought to life is amazing,” said Jason Smith, Senior Director of Amenities. “The addition of a market space will be a welcome convenience for residents, and the waterfront terrace will elevate the dining experience at The Crystal.”

Groundbreaking for Vista Cay and Island Commons is scheduled in the new year. Visit ShellPoint.org/VistaCay to view more renderings.

The New Island Commons

ACTIVE AGING WEEK

MONDAY, OCTOBER 9 THROUGH FRIDAY, OCTOBER 13

During Shell Point's Active Aging Week, we highlight ways to experience wellness and exercise activities in a safe, supportive environment. Join us for a selection of educational events and fun activities that promote the benefits of embracing a healthy lifestyle.

HOUR OF POWER

TUESDAY, OCTOBER 10 • 9:30 A.M. PERFORMANCE STUDIO/ TRIBBY ARTS CENTER

Come experience different instructors, a variety of teaching styles, and a new sampling of what Shell Point Fitness has to offer! The class will begin with a dynamic warm up and 20 minutes of pure cardio, followed by 20 minutes of strength and 20 minutes of active yoga. Leave with your spirits energized, endorphins flowing, and a general feeling of well-being and accomplishment!

ANTI-INFLAMMATORY AND CANCER FIGHTING FOODS

WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 11 • 10 A.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS

Join retired registered dietitian Diean Rovenstine for a look at foods that may help decrease inflammation and maybe even fight cancer! Diean will help outline why certain foods are beneficial and why to avoid other foods.

STAYING CONNECTED: MEANINGFUL ACTIVITIES AND DEMENTIA

THURSDAY, OCTOBER 12 • 9:30 A.M. TO NOON SOCIAL CENTER/IS

Interesting, purposeful, and enjoyable activities are important for well-being. When someone develops memory difficulties, it can be challenging to stay engaged as abilities change. This session will focus on understanding memory change and its impact on activities, along with keys to successful engagement with practical tools and resources for Care Partners.

POLING FOR FITNESS

THURSDAY, OCTOBER 12 • 9:30 A.M. THE VILLAGE CHURCH

Gather at the Village Church for a 45-minute walking experience. Bring your poles and join us for a variety of walking techniques and fine tune your ability to walk strong, walk tall, and make new friends. The work out will include warm up, strength, and walking.

PELVIC REHABILITATION

THURSDAY, OCTOBER 12 • 1 P.M. GRAND CYPRESS ROOM/WDL

This program will discuss the types of pelvic dysfunctions that males and females may experiences as well as treatment options that are available right here at Shell Point. The presentation will be given by Senior Director of Rehab Karen Wilhite and other specialty-trained Shell Point therapy staff.

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OPEN HOUSE

THURSDAY, OCTOBER 19 • 10:30 A.M.–1:30 P.M.

The future of wellness looks bright at Shell Point — and we are celebrating! Join us at an exciting Open House showcasing all the Wright Wellness Center’s offerings that are designed to encourage a vibrant, healthy lifestyle. Come explore our community’s newest resident amenity.

• Tour the Fitness Center

• Try New State-of-the-art Equipment

• Watch a Fun Group Fitness Class

• Learn about Personalized Wellness Programs and Healthcare Services

• Sample Delicious Menu Selections from the Vue

• Discover What’s New in Seagrape Salon & Spa

• Test Your Swing on the Golf Simulator

RAFFLES DEMONSTRATIONS MENU TASTINGS LIVE MUSIC

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September & October

Shell Point Happenings

CHECK THE WEEKLY REMINDER FOR UPDATES ON ANY CHANGES TO THE PROGRAMS LISTED IN THIS CALENDAR AS THINGS MAY CHANGE. For questions about upcoming events or activities, please contact either concierge desk. Unless otherwise noted, sign-up for each event will begin on the first business day of the month. If you are unable to attend a program that includes a fee, five business days’ notice is required to receive a refund

SEPTEMBER

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WALK WITH DOCS

FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 1, 8, 15, 22,29

7 A.M.

ISLAND CIRCLE

Lace up your walking shoes and join Shell Point’s physicians every Friday morning in an exhilarating morning walk around the beautiful Island neighborhood. You will have the opportunity to learn about the medical staff while also getting physically fit together. The Island walk is approximately 1.5 miles.

FOOD TRUCK FRIDAYS

FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 1, 8, 15, 22, 29

11 A.M. – 1:30 P.M.

THE VILLAGE CHURCH

Explore new lunch options each week!

• Sept. 1 – Horse Eyed Jakes

• Sept. 8 – Joey’s Hotdogs

• Sept. 15 – Monjaras Kitchen

• Sept. 22 – Mambo Sandwich Co

• Sept. 29 – Mama Marie's

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BINGO

FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 1

1 P.M.

THE CRYSTAL

Join the Resident Programming team as we play several games of BINGO!

Whether you’ve never played, or you are a seasoned player, this free event is a great opportunity to have fun and meet new people. All supplies provided; no experience necessary. No sign up required.

LEE COUNTY VOTE ELECTIONS

REGISTER TO VOTE

THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 7

WOODLANDS COMMONS 11:30 A.M. – 1:30 P.M.

Stop by the Island or Woodlands Commons and make sure your voter registration is up to date. Representatives from Lee Vote will be on campus to help with any questions or concerns for mail-in or in-person voting. No sign-up is required.

Physical • Emotional • Spiritual • Intellectual • Community & Social • Natural Environment • Creativity
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LEE COUNTY RECYCLING TOUR

MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 11

BUS PICK UP TIMES:

7:30/7:40/7:45/7:50/7:55 A.M.

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$5 (LUNCH ON YOUR OWN)

Learn how Lee County transforms and reuses trash on this fascinating up-close tour. We will begin at the Waste to Energy plant, where we will view an animated video about waste processing. Next, we will get an up-close-and-personal view of the “tipping floor” to learn how all the materials are sorted. We then will have a presentation and Q & A session at the Material Recovery Facility, overlooking the processing areas. We will have a great lunch (on your own) at Buckingham Farms, where the produce is fresh, the meals are delicious, and the farm is a sight to see! Sign-up is required. Please wear closed-toe walking shoes.

BLOOD MOBILE

TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 12

12:30 – 6 P.M.

CHURCH PARKING LOT

Make sure to stop by The Village Church parking lot and help save a life. The Blood Mobile will be parked all afternoon for your convenience. Giving blood is a huge gift that you can give to those in need. Statistics show that regular blood donation is linked to lower blood pressure and lower risk of heart attacks. Save a life while improving your quality of life.

“HEE HAW” SINGALONG

TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 12

2 P.M.

CONNIE BROWN HALL FREE!

Join Yvonne Schneff (Sundial) and some of your favorite Resident Programming Team members in the “Kornfield” displaying their musical talents on a scrub board, a wash tub, and a banjo. This special Nostalgia performance features a special appearance by Minnie Pearl, jokes, music, and much, much more. Come out to Connie Brown Hall to laugh and sing the afternoon away. No sign-up required for this free event.

ECHO FARM TOUR AND LUNCH AT CRACKER BARREL

WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 13

BUS PICK UP TIMES: 8:30/8:40/8:50/8:55/9 A.M.

IS / WDL / ES / EN / EP

COST: $16 (PLUS LUNCH ON YOUR OWN)

We will enjoy a morning tour at ECHO, a nonprofit that grows hope from the ground up by teaching small scale, sustainable community farming methods. All visitors should bring a refillable water bottle; sunglasses or a visor/hat, and sunscreen. You may want to purchase the insect repellent that is available at ECHO. This trip includes a lot of walking, so comfortable closed-toed shoes are a must. Afterwards, we will stop for lunch (on your own) at the Cracker Barrel and Country Store.

ISINGS TRAVEL PRESENTATIONS

FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 15

10 A.M. – SOCIAL CENTER

1:30 P.M. – THE RESERVE / ENCLAVE CLUBHOUSE

3:30 P.M. – THE GRAND CYPRESS ROOM/ WOODLANDS

Come hear the latest and win door prizes at an in-depth presentation of specially designed Shell Point trips for 2023/2024 through the Epic Journeys Collection! All the trips include transportation and airfare from Shell Point, plus a concierge private tour manager who takes care of all your travel needs. These private, small-group trips are designed at a moderate pace to enhance your overall experience and created with your interests in mind.

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Mask requested Walking required Stairs

SUZY Q ECO TOUR AND BREAKFAST

WEDNESDAY, SEPETERMBER 20

$10 (LUNCH ON YOUR OWN)

8:30 A.M. BOAT DOCK)

Steve Canton (Harbor Court) will be our guide as we tour the canals of Cape Coral, learn about local wildlife, and enjoy a beautiful morning out on the water. For breakfast, we will stop by the Boat House in Cape Coral, known for its wonderful food and views. Sign-up is required.

PIZZA SOCIAL AT THE CRYSTAL

THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 21

4 P.M.

$18 (INCLUDES DINNER)

Have you ever wondered how the pizza chef at The Crystal makes the perfect pie? Sign up for our Pizza Social and learn all the tricks of the trade. Make your own pizza, from tossing the dough to spreading the perfect number of toppings. Afterwards, dig in and enjoy your creation, along with a dessert pizza that will make your mouth water. Seats are limited; sign-up is required. Call The Crystal at (239) 454-2199.

FALL T-SHIRT SOCIALS

THE ISLAND ∙ TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 26

ISLAND COMMONS ∙ 2 – 3 P.M.

THE WOODLANDS ∙ WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 27

WOODLANDS COMMONS ∙ 2 – 3 P.M.

COASTAL LINKS ∙ THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 28

THE RESERVE (ENCLAVE CLUBHOUSE) ∙ 2 – 3 P.M.

4 20 6

Fall reminds us of football, falling leaves, maybe even one last long weekend on the shore eating at your favorite restaurant. Do you have a T-shirt from one of your favorite sports teams, restaurant, or even a vacation spot? Wear it to the Fall Social! We will have prizes, games, and of course food to help us reconnect and meet new neighbors. No sign-up is required.

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OCTOBER

OVERNIGHT TRIP TO PALM BEACH

WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 4 – THURSDAY, OCTOBER 5

8 A.M. VILLAGE CHURCH

$399 (MEALS ON YOUR OWN)

Let’s explore the best Palm Beach has to offer! We will head over to the east coast and straight into a drive-through guided tour of Lion Country Safari, home to hundreds of wild animals in a 600-acre natural habitat. Next, we will cruise Lake Shannalee on the Safari Queen pontoon boat for an up-close look at the birds and primates. After exploring all day, we will retire to The Hilton at West Palm Beach for dinner and rest. The next morning, we will take a docent-led tour of the Morikami Museum and Japanese Gardens. After lunch, we will make one more stop at the Henry Morrison Flagler Museum—a “must-see” that National Geographic Traveler called “The Greatest Gilded Age Mansion in the world.”

WALK WITH DOCS

FRIDAY, OCTOBER 6, 13, 20, 27,

7 A.M.

ISLAND CIRCLE

Lace up your walking shoes and join Shell Point’s physicians every Friday morning in an exhilarating morning walk around the beautiful Island neighborhood. You will have the opportunity to learn about the medical staff while also getting physically fit together. The Island walk is approximately 1.5 miles. 26

FOOD TRUCK FRIDAYS

FRIDAY, OCTOBER 6, 13, 20, 27

11 A.M – 1:30 P.M.

THE VILLAGE CHURCH

Explore new lunch options each week!

• October 6 – Joey’s Hotdogs

• October 13 – Monjaras Kitchen on Wheels

• October 20 – Cajun Gringos

• October 27 – VietYum

BINGO

FRIDAY, OCTOBER 6

1 P.M.

THE CRYSTAL

Join the Resident Programming team as we play several games of BINGO! Whether you’ve never played, or you are a seasoned player, this free event is a great opportunity to have fun and meet new people. All supplies provided, no experience necessary. No sign up required.

DISCO 70S NIGHT AT THE CRYSTAL

TUESDAY, OCTOBER 10

4:30 – 6:30 P.M.

$28

Disco Days are back! Come get groovy with the Resident Programming Team as we transform The Crystal into a blast from the past, complete with prizes and a costume contest. Dust off those bell bottoms and come experience Chef Shaun’s classic dishes, complete with live action stations. Come dine with us before Deb and the Dynamics take the stage at Friendship Point. Reservations required; call The Crystal at (239) 454-2199.

WATER’S EDGE CONCERT DEB AND THE DYNAMICS

TUESDAY, OCTOBER 10

6:30 P.M.

FRIENDSHIP POINT FREE

Deb and The Dynamics are a seven-piece rock and soul band that has been entertaining Southwest Florida audiences for more than twenty years. This is a fun, toe-tapping evening of classic rock, seventies, and soul music you will not want to miss! Come out to Friendship Point and sing along to some of your favorite hits. The Resident Programming team will share a special treat during an evening filled with fellowship, fun, and great music.

BABCOCK RANCH SWAMP BUGGY TOUR AND LUNCH

WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 11

BUS PICK UP TIMES: 8:30/8:40/8:50/8:55/9 A.M.

IS / WDL / ES / EN / EP

COST: $32 (PLUS LUNCH ON YOUR OWN)

Hop on the Swamp Buggy and ride along this 90-minute eco tour through the natural wildlife of historic Babcock Ranch. From a working cattle ranch to local wildlife, this guided tour—all from inside a converted school bus—will be a wild and bumpy ride. After the tour, we will head over to the Lakehouse Kitchen for lunch. Sign-up is required.

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Mask requested Walking required Stairs

BROADWAY PALM THEATRE: HAIRSPRAY

WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 18

10:35/10:40/10:45/10:50/10:55 A.M.

IS / WDL / ES / EN / EP

$65 (INCLUDING LUNCH)

Hairspray is a classic musical set in 1960s Baltimore. A big girl with an even bigger heart wins a spot on the local TV dance program, and in an instant is transformed into a super teen sensation. This upbeat, heartwarming musical will have you laughing and singing the entire show. Enjoy a delicious three-course buffet lunch and a wonderful afternoon filled with great music and excellent performances.

BEACH DAY – SANIBEL LIGHTHOUSE

FRIDAY, OCTOBER 20

8:30/8:35/8:40/8:45/8:50 A.M.

IS / WDL / ES / EN / EP

$20 (INCLUDES LUNCH)

Let’s enjoy a relaxing day at the beach! Just a short trip away, the Sanibel Lighthouse Beach offers beautiful white sand and a multitude of seashells. We will enjoy a picnic-style lunch of fried chicken and sides. On the way home, we will make a stop for ice cream (on your own) at Love Boat. Remember to bring your own chair, beach accessories, and sunscreen.

DING DARLING “ART IN THE WILD” SHOW AND LUNCH

SATURDAY, OCTOBER 21

10:35/10:40/10:45/10:50/10:55 A.M.

IS / WDL / ES / EN / EP FREE (LUNCH ON YOUR OWN)

This afternoon will be filled with the best of wildlife and nature that Sanibel has to offer! Ding Darling is hosting an afternoon of pure fun with an “Art in the Wild” event to celebrate National Wildlife Refuge Week and Ding Darling’s 146th Birthday. The day features activities all around the campus, including the famous Hautman brothers known for winning the Federal Duck Stamp Contest, a photo contest, and a special exhibition of nature art. Current refuge Artist in Residence Jacqui Roch will also be on hand to lead nature-art demos and workshops. Before we head over to the celebration at Ding Darling, we will enjoy lunch (on your own) at Rosalita’s Cantina, which offers a delicious Tex Mex menu.

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Sign-up required; call a Concierge Desk: Island: 454-2282, Woodlands: 454-2054 Mask
requested Walking required Stairs

SHINE: THE COMMUNITY THRIFT STORE FASHION SHOW

MONDAY, OCTOBER 23

11:45 A.M.

$25

GRAND CYPRESS ROOM

Get ready for SHINE, the annual Thrift Store Fashion Show! You will learn some interesting ways residents and employees “Shine” as they model fashions from items donated to the Community Thrift Store. Chef Justin from the Palm Grill will be serving up a delicious lunch as you enjoy the Fashion Show with your fellow residents. Space is limited; sign-up is required.

OCTOBERFEST PALM GRILL BUFFET

WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 25

4:30 – 6:30 P.M.

PALM GRILL

$29

Join us for an Octoberfest like no other with a delicious buffet at the Palm Grill! The menu includes a wedge salad display and German favorites like potato salad, pretzel bites, Bratwurst with apple sauerkraut, roast chicken, and potato pancakes. Don’t miss the schnitzel and spaetzle action station! Be sure to save room for Black Forest Cake, German chocolate cake bars, ginger crumb cake, and more. Come dine with us before the Water’s Edge Concert! Reserve your spot at the Palm Grill; call (239) 454-2059.

OCTOBERFEST WATER’S EDGE CONCERT

WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 25

6:30 P.M.

WOODLANDS BACK DECK FREE

All are invited to join us on the Woodlands Back Deck for a festive evening of music with Tom Cimarusti and a group of select artists. You won’t want to miss out on this Oktoberfest-like event! Light refreshments will be served. No sign-up is needed for the concert.

NOSTALGIA

THURSDAY, OCTOBER 26

2 P.M.

CONNIE BROWN HALL FREE

Nostalgia is back to perform a FREE themed concert and comedy show. The program features Shell Point’s own Don Schneff of Sundial. Join your friends and neighbors for some good light-hearted laughter and fellowship. No sign up required.

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Save the Date

NOVEMBER

Water’s Edge Concert

with Dan Philgreen & Friends

WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 1

6:30 PM

FRIENDSHIP POINT FREE!

Join us for an evening of music and fun with talented Tribby staff member Dan Philgreen and friends performing your favorite “yacht rock” songs during a special Water’s Edge Concert at Friendship Point.

SEASON KICK-OFF SOCK H SOCKP

H P

WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 8

4 – 7 P.M.

BACK DECK OF THE WOODLANDS FREE!

Step back into the 50s with our Season Kick-off Sock Hop Party! Dress-up, put on those dancing shoes, and show up hungry we are going to have a dreamboat of a good time with Let’s Hang On: The Ultimate Frankie Valley Cover Band. A pair of free performances are scheduled for 4:30 p.m and 6 p.m., with the Palm Grill serving up some of your favorite 50s classic dishes. This evening will be filled with pure joy and nostalgia!

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Support Groups

CONNECTIONS CIRCLE: CAREGIVER SUPPORT

WEDNESDAYS, SEPTEMBER 20; OCTOBER 18

10 A.M. • SPRINGS COMMUNITY ROOM

This group offers support for residents or family members who are caregivers for someone with dementia. Participants will have the opportunity to connect with fellow caregivers, share ideas and discuss the stresses, challenges, and rewards of providing care for a loved one. If there is a need for respite, a coinciding group offering supervised activities for your loved one with dementia is available. Pre-registration is required. Contact Emily Reese, Connections Program Coordinator, at (239) 454-2134 or Connections@shellpoint.org to register your loved one for the supervised activity program or with questions about the group.

CONNECTIONS CIRCLE FOR MEN

TUESDAYS, SEPTEMBER 12; OCTOBER 10

10 A.M. • SABAL ROOM, WOODLANDS COMMONS

Connections Circle for Men is a support group which provides male caregivers a time to connect with other caregivers to obtain and provide support, information, reassurance, and encouragement. Contact Connections@shellpoint.org or Emily Reese, Connections Program Coordinator 454-2134 if you have questions about the group.

DIABETES SUPPORT

FRIDAY, OCTOBER 6

1 P.M. • THE RESERVE AT THE ENCLAVE

Anyone impacted by diabetes or looking to learn more, including spouses or family members, are invited to attend the Diabetes Support Group. Each monthly meeting covers a different topic and includes an open discussion and an opportunity to share. Call Healthy Living Manager Vivian Ciulla at (239) 225-2929 for more information.

HEARING ENRICHMENT

WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 25

1 P.M. • GRAND CYPRESS ROOM, WOODLANDS COMMONS

Poor hearing can affect many aspects of one’s life. This group seeks to help residents cope with hearing loss, share information, learn about services and products that may help and offer support to each other. This is a great opportunity to try out the assisted listening devices available in the Grand Cypress. For more information, call Healthy Living Coordinator Robert Torres at (239) 433-7975.

HEART HEALTHY

MONDAY, OCTOBER 2

10 A.M. • SABAL ROOM, WOODLANDS COMMONS

The Heart Healthy group aims to provide support and educational information to individuals living with heart disease. The goal of the group is to allow members to share their experience, fears, and solutions to help everyone from the newly diagnosed to those managing heart disease for many years. For more information, please contact Healthy Living Coordinator Lorena Nazario at (239) 454-2295.

PARKINSON’S ENRICHMENT

TUESDAY, OCTOBER 3

10:15 A.M. • SABAL ROOM, WOODLANDS COMMONS

The Parkinson’s Enrichment Group aims to provide support and educational opportunities to those affected by Parkinson’s disease as a patient, caregiver, family member, or friend. Meetings include speakers, group discussions, and emotional support. For more information, call Healthy Living Coordinator Christy Hayford at (239) 433-7939.

VISION ENRICHMENT

TUESDAY, OCTOBER 10

2:15 P.M. • THE COVE AT THE ESTUARY

This group provides educational opportunities and support for those individuals dealing with low vision. Discussions may include the emotional aspects of vision loss, investigating solutions, helpful tools, and sharing resources. At every session, you will learn a “quick eye exercise” that you can utilize at home and share with others. Please join us to share your story, your knowledge, as well as your experiences, with other residents. For additional information, contact Healthy Living Coordinator Miriam Mason at (239) 433-7976.

GRIEFSHARE

THURSDAYS, SEPTEMBER 14 – DECEMBER 14

Through this 13-week group, you’ll discover what to expect in the days ahead and what’s “normal” in grief. Since there are no neat, orderly stages of grief, you’ll learn helpful ways of coping with grief, in all its unpredictability—and gain solid support each step of the way. Led by resident Carol Johnston (717)368-6196.

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OCTOBER 3 – DECEMBER 23, 2023 In the Galleries

FLORA & FAUNA Artworks Inspired by Nature

The Shell Point Gallery

Executed in bronze, ceramic, glass, paint, and mixed media, the artworks in Flora & Fauna express the beauty of nature. Guest artist Martha Grattan of South Carolina joins four of Shell Point’s talented resident artists— painters Renée Chastant and Betsy Conrad, potter Augusta Crane, and glass artist/potter Annie Wainwright—to create a magical world of animals, insects, flowers, and foliage. In this exhibition, visitors will stroll through various “places” in nature to discover the artworks on display. A highlight of these spaces, The Pond will display spectacular ceramic lily pads, whimsical ceramic frogs and a beautiful heron, colorful glass birds and insects, and surrounding paintings depicting the flora and fauna typically found at a pond.

Artists, Get Ready to See Red!

April through June of 2024, the Tribby will host the all-resident, all-media exhibition SEEING RED: Works by Shell Point Artists & Writers. The juried and judged show will present the finest creative works by resident artists and writers. To give artists and writers plenty of time to create their submissions, the Criteria and Registration Form will be available at the Tribby Box Office and online at www.Tribbyartscenter/entries/ beginning September 1, 2023.

PAT MEREDITH

Art of the Quilt: A Legacy Exhibition

The Tribby Legacy and Overlook Galleries

From traditional designs to art quilts, each of Legacy Artist Pat Meredith’s creations demonstrate her meticulous craftsmanship. Former president of the Shell Point Quilters, Pat Meredith is a long-time weaver, spinner, quilter, and educator. This dazzling exhibition will present more than ten spectacular quilts, many on first-time public display. The exhibition also includes a nativity scene that Pat Meredith knitted, as well as a spinning wheel, antique miniature sewing machines, and other textile-related artifacts from the artist’s extensive collection.

Pat Meredith (Sundial) Green Frog, Martha Grattan Sea Change – Re-emerging Annie Wainwright
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SAVE THE DATE!

Who Am I? The Photo Club Gala 2023

Wednesday, November 8 • 1:30 p.m.

Connie Brown Hall

Photo Club members will reveal who they are in a series of three photographs that show their passion and how they have progressed in the art of photography. All are invited to experience the Photo Club Gala in person once again!

In the Studios

PAINTERS GUILD

Monday, October 9 • 10 a.m.

Connie Brown Hall

The October Painters Guild Meeting will feature prize-winning international watercolorist Cheryl Fausel. Cheryl will begin teaching at Shell Point at the end of October, starting with a beginner’s workshop. Take this opportunity to learn more about Cheryl’s artist journey. She conducts workshops and classes in her studio and with the Fort Myers Beach Art Association. Although she has worked in multiple mediums, watercolor has been her primary focus for over 30 years. Open to all residents.

IN THE TRIBBY ARTS LIBRARY

Recent library acquisitions include three beautiful books: a pair on contemporary artists and one that is the exhibition catalog of the Italian artists that were recently discussed in an Academy program. Stop by to see By Her Hand, Artemisia Gentileschi and Women Artists in Italy, 15001800; Joan Mitchell; and Philip Guston Now.

THE HAYRIDE

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Artful

Resident Performing Arts

Poets Inspiring Painters

Inspiring Poets

Friday, November 17

Time TBA

Grand Cypress Room

THE WRITERS GUILD

Open Mic Readings

Wednesday, October 4 • 3:30 p.m.

Literary Lounge

No sign-up is necessary. Bring a poem or short story to read, no longer than six minutes.

Short Story Readings

Wednesdays, September 13 and October 18 • 3:30 p.m.

Doug Cartwright (Lakewood) continues his Short Story readings, followed by group discussions. The September story is A&P by John Updike; the October story will be announced in the Weekly Reminder/News at the Point. No signup is necessary, and it is not required to have read the story.

Afternoon with the Shell Point Players

Friday, October 20 • 2 p.m.

Connie Brown Hall

Shell Point resident Phil Hilton (Springs), a talented actor, decided to try his hand at playwriting in his 90s and found that he was good at it! Since then, he has written several very well received plays. The Shell Point Players will perform his latest

work, The Hayride, as an Arts as Healing “Artful Afternoon.” The play is a comedic, nostalgic look at a 1950s high school hayride that leads to romance. All are invited to attend this complimentary event. Come for laughs and renewed memories!

Cheryl A. Fausel with Painting “The Royal Purse” The Milkmaid, c. 1660 Johannes Vermeer (1632–1675)
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Encore! 2023

SPRING, SUMMER AND FALL CONCERT SERIES

BRIAN SMALLEY

Tuesday, September 19 at 7 p.m.

Tickets: $20 Resident | $25 Public

Connie Brown Hall

BRANDON ROBERTSON QUARTET

Saturday, September 9 at 7 p.m.

Tickets: $20 Resident | $25 Public

Connie Brown Hall

Brandon Robertson and his prestige quartet will present a tribute concert to the bass and piano legends of jazz. The performance will feature music of Chick Corea, Herbie Hancock, Oscar Peterson, Ray Brown, Ron Carter, Paul Chambers, and many more!

Brian Smalley returns to Shell Point by popular demand. The virtuoso guitarist and singer/songwriter is the very definition of a live-wire entertainer. While occasionally he sits down at the mic, more frequently he’s careening around the stage and stomping out rhythm, never missing a note. He plays in multiple different tunings and genres: another musician calls him a “New Age Cracker.” Brian writes some wonderful songs, “My First Crazy Wife” and the hilarious “The Greasy Palm Marina” among them. His acoustic turn on “Norwegian Wood” involved him acting the lyrics to the song while playing and never missing a beat: he ended up laying flat on his back playing the song. This guy absolutely loves what he does, and it shows.

2PM BAND

Tuesday, October 17 at 7 p.m.

Tickets: $20 Resident | $25 Public

Connie Brown Hall

“2PM” is Pete Price, Pete Hennings, and Mike Jurgensen—a trio of talented musicians who blend their varied musical talents into an eclectic mix of material, from original songs, to obscure covers, to well-known standards. With Price on guitar and bass, Hennings on guitar, bass, mandolin, and violin, and Jurgensen on guitar and harmonica, these three performers combine tight instrumentation with pristine

vocal harmonies to delight audiences of all musical tastes. All three are talented songwriters and have performed solo as well as with other bands: Hennings and Price with Jon Semmes and the Florida Friends, and Jurgensen and Hennings with Myriad. The combination of Pete, Pete, and Mike as “2PM”, however, is a unique trio that has delighted audiences at acoustic venues and folk festivals around Florida.

DR. MICHAEL BARON AND DR. KRZYSZTOF BIERNACKI present Schubert’s Winterreise

Thursday, October 19 at 7 p.m.

Tickets: $20 Resident | $25 Public

Connie Brown Hall

One of the greatest song cycles ever written, Franz Schubert’s Winterreise, while almost 200 years old, has never felt more relevant than today.

Winterreise is set to poems by Wilhelm Müller and tells the story of a lonely traveler who ventures out into the snow on a journey to rid himself of his lost love. Along the way, he experiences a turmoil of different emotions, mostly ranging from despair to greater despair. Baritone Krzysztof Biernacki, Director of Florida Gulf Coast University’s Bower School of Music & the Arts and Michael Baron, Head of the Piano Area at FGCU, combine their talents to present this beautiful and moving work rarely heard in concert in a multi-media presentation.

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Music on Mondays

This series of world-class performances by renowned artists is presented on the big screen in Connie Brown Hall at the Tribby Arts Center on Mondays at 1 p.m., and broadcast on SPTV Channel 12 at 1 p.m. and 7 p.m.

MARTHA ARGERICH, DANIEL BARENBOIM AND RENAUD CAPUCON PERFORM BIZET AND BEETHOVEN

Monday, September 11

The third and final chapter of the wonderful 2021 edition of the Martha Argerich Festival! The legendary virtuoso once again teams up with superstars of the classical realm, and this time, an enchanting orchestra joins the fun.

Martha Argerich first performs Bizet’s Jeux d’enfants alongside longtime friend and fellow Argentine Daniel Barenboim. After this delightful suite for four hands come works by Beethoven: first, the lively and bubbly Violin Sonata No. 8, with French master Renaud Capuçon on the violin. The concert ends with an epic rendition of Piano Concerto No. 2, with the Symphoniker Hamburg, under Sylvain Cambreling’s direction, joining in to interpret this charming and lyrical work.

JANET BAKER In Her Own Words

Monday, September 25

In her first documentary for over 35 years, Dame Janet Baker talks more openly and emotionally than ever about her career and life today. With excerpts of her greatest stage roles (as Dido, Mary Stuart, Julius Caesar, and Orpheus), as well as of her appearances in the concert hall and recording studio (works by Beethoven, Handel, Berlioz, Schubert, Elgar, Britten, and Mahler), she looks back at the excitements and pitfalls of public performance.

John Bridcut’s “sensitive, moving … [and] unmissable” documentary (The Observer) illuminates the personal and professional pressures of Dame Janet’s life as a musician and artist, highlighting both the grit and the tenderness that enabled her to navigate them, and treating broader themes of aging, energy, and loss. In filmed interviews, fellow artists like Joyce DiDonato, André Previn, Felicity Lott, Jane Glover, Raymond Leppard, Imogen Cooper, and John Copley marvel at Baker’s singing and pinpoint her moments of genius.

JANÁČEK

The Cunning Little Vixen

Monday, October 9

Exploring man’s relationship with nature, Janáček’s The Cunning Little Vixen moves through the contrasting worlds of the Vixen and the Forester, showing how one chance meeting can forever change the lives of both.

The opera tells the tale of a clever vixen named Sharp Ears. Captured by a local Forester when she is young, she later manages to escape his clutches, but her memory forever haunts him.

SCHUMANN SYMPHONY NO. 4

Monday, October 23

Three indispensable classics by Robert Schumann make up this stellar concert conducted by the marvelous Maxim Emelyanichev, live from Toulouse’s Halle aux Grains! The program starts with the musical fireworks of the Overture from Genoveva before piano virtuoso Adam Laloum joins the Orchestre national du Capitole de Toulouse and the young maestro in a memorable performance of the poignant Piano Concerto. The evening closes with the Fourth Symphony, which prominently features the recurrent “Clara theme,” a tribute to the composer’s beloved wife.

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Tribby Box Office • Monday through Thursday, 10 a.m.–3 p.m. • (239) 415-5667

MOVIES ON THE BIG SCREEN

SUNDAY CINEMA MATINEES

3 P.M. in Connie Brown Hall • Also on SPTV Channel 12

THE HUSTLER (1961)

Sunday, September 10

Fast Eddie (Paul Newman), a rather arrogant young pool hustler, believes he can beat the champion player, Minnesota Fats (Jackie Gleason). The film follows his ups and downs, the loss of his love, and his partnership with a ruthless manager. When he reaches rock bottom, he faces reality rather than his dreams. Shot in black and white, this film won an Oscar for cinematography and art direction.

THE MIRROR HAS TWO FACES (1996)

Sunday, September 24

Barbra Streisand stars and directs this romantic comedy about two middle-agers searching for love and companionship. Rose is a plain, plump English Lit professor, and Gregory (Jeff Bridges) is tired of being burned by dating beautiful women. After their marriage, both realized what they sought in their relationship. Lauren Bacall took home an Oscar for her role as Rose’s beautiful mother.

THE HORSE WHISPERER (1998)

Sunday, October 8

In this drama, Robert Redford directs and stars a young girl (Scarlett Johansson) and her horse, Pilgrim, who has been traumatized by a horrendous accident. Her mother, played by Kristen Scott Thomas, takes them to a Montana ranch where a supposed “horse whisperer” is the only hope of repairing the damaged pair. Please note: This film is almost three hours long.

KNIVES OUT (2019)

Sunday, October 22

This mystery will quickly ensnare you! A crime novelist (Christopher Plummer) is found dead just after his 85th birthday. The police investigator (Daniel Craig) arrives at the scene to find a completely dysfunctional family, any one of whom could be capable of the murder. Jamie Lee Curtis, Don Johnson, and Toni Colette are among the suspects, as is a foul-mouthed teenager. The film is written and directed by Rian Johnson in true Agatha Christie fashion.

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MONDAY NIGHT MUSICALS

7 P.M. in Connie Brown Hall • Also on SPTV Channel 12

MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 4, LABOR DAY • NO MOVIE

CHICAGO (2002)

Monday, September 18

The 1972 Broadway musical got the Hollywood treatment and received Oscar and Golden Globe wins and nominations. Renée Zellweger (Roxie) and Catherine-Zeta Jones (Velma) star as the vaudevillian entertainers jailed for murder, and Richard Gere plays their lawyer (Billy Flynn). Although these actors aren’t known as singers, they do an excellent job. Gere took three months of lessons to prepare for his tap dance. Queen Latifah didn’t need voice lessons for her role as the prison matron. Chicago is funny and exciting, with memorable musical numbers.

THE GREAT CARUSO (1951)

Monday, October 2

October is the usual season opening of the Metropolitan Opera, so it is the perfect time to show The Great Caruso, starring Mario Lanza. Enrico Caruso, considered the best tenor of his or perhaps all time, came to New York in 1903 and made the Met his home until 1920. Mario Lanza’s greatest desire was to be an opera star, but his movie career took its toll on his health. In this film, he gets to sing the greatest tenor roles before his early death at age 38. Ann Blyth costars as Dorothy Caruso.

THE COMPETITION (1980)

Monday, October 16

This is not our usual musical film—this film is about music and musicians. Richard Dreyfuss (Paul) is a former child prodigy now 30 years old. Amy Irving (Heidi) is a very young piano student. Both actors had to learn to finger-synch their piano playing, which was difficult. An enjoyable film with great acting, script, direction, and music.

HAIRSPRAY (2007)

Monday, October 30

Tracy Turnblad (Nikki Blonsky), a chubby teenager, dreams of dancing on a local TV show. Once chosen, she discovers the disturbing truth about discrimination in Baltimore. She decides to tackle the issue head-on when she becomes the most popular dancer on the show. In a 30-pound fat suit, John Travolta stars as her mother. Great 60s music! Don’t we all remember American Bandstand?

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Filled with an impressive array of talented artists and dynamic performances, the 2023-2024

Fine & Performing Arts Series

showcases the creative work of Shell Point resident artists and the annual concert series. We welcome, once again, FineMark National Bank & Trust as our Season Sponsor. Individual concert tickets are currently available exclusively for resident purchase. Stop by or mail your brochure order form to the Tribby Box Office. Ticket sales open to the public starting Friday, September 15. We’re looking forward to another great season at the Tribby Arts Center!

JUKEBOX SATURDAY NIGHT

Saturday, November 11, 2023 4 p.m. and 7 p.m.

Tickets: $45 Resident | $55 Public

SEASON OPENER!

This music review of America’s Swing Era is a fun-filled event for all ages! An energetic group of instrumentalists celebrates the melodies of the great Big Bands during the 1930s, 1940s and 1950s, including the greatest hits as recorded by Tommy and Jimmy Dorsey, Glenn Miller, Duke Ellington, Jimmy Lunceford, Harry James, Artie Shaw, Cab Calloway, Benny Goodman, Bunny Berigan and Count Basie. Talented vocalists bring to life favorites made famous by Frank Sinatra, Doris Day, Bob Eberly, Helen O’Connell, Rosemary Clooney, and other idols.

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SHELL POINT EMPLOYEE CHRISTMAS GIFT FUND 2023

uring the holiday season, the Shell Point Employee Christmas Gift Fund is a wonderful way to bring joy to the staff at Shell Point while expressing thanks for their service throughout the year. Our goal as chairs of the 2023 fundraising campaign is to increase the number of participants to an all-time high. Please remember that your gift—no matter the amount—is important to the campaign’s success.

The 2023 campaign begins Wednesday, October 4 and closes on Wednesday, November 22, but you can make a gift at any time:

— Write a check to Shell Point with “Employee Christmas Fund” on the memo line and send to the Finance Department.

— Give a one-time or recurring donation online at www.shellpoint.net/christmasfund.

— Call the Finance Office at 239-454-2075 to customize your arrangement to give.

Check your mailbox in early October for more information about the 2023 Employee Christmas Gift Fund. Together, let’s share a special holiday blessing for our employees who go “Above & Beyond” every day at Shell Point.

Questions? Visit www.shellpoint.net/christmasfund

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25 Documents You Need Preparing for the Unexpected

Planning for our own mortality can be an uncomfortable process, but it's one of the greatest gifts you can give your loved ones. Creating a plan and gathering all your important documents in one place can bring peace of mind and will ensure your wishes are carried out when you pass away.

The collection of the documents below is called a death dossier. It should include everything from your will and life

MARRIAGE & DIVORCE

• Marriage license

• Divorce decree

LIFE INSURANCE & RETIREMENT

• Life-insurance policies

• Individual retirement accounts and/or 407(k) account information

• Pension documents

• Annuity contracts

HEALTH-CARE CONFIDENTIAL

• Personal and family medical history

• Advance Health Care Directive

• HIPAA Authorization

• Living Will

• Do-not-resuscitate order

DIGITAL PLANNING

• Digital Estate plan to include how you want social media accounts managed

• List of usernames, passwords, email addresses and digital accounts

FineMark provides personal and business banking services, investment services, and trust and fiduciary services. Since opening our Shell Point office in 2009, we have come to know many of the residents, and we are honored to serve this great community.

insurance policies, to your social media passwords and funeral arrangements. Having a death dossier ready will help ease the burden on your loved ones during a challenging time when they're faced with tough decisions.

Here are the documents you should consider including to facilitate a smooth transition of assets and personal affairs.

BANK ACCOUNTS

• List of bank accounts, usernames, and passwords

• List of safe-deposit boxes and where keys are located

PROOF OF OWNERSHIP

• Housing, land, and cemetery deeds

• Escrow mortgage accounts

• Proof of existing loans and debts owed

• Stock certificates, savings, bonds, and brokerage accounts

• Partnership and corporation formation documents and meeting minutes

• Tax returns: six years from filing date

THE ESSENTIALS

• Last Will & Testament

• Letter of instructions

• Trust documents

• Durable P ower of Attorney

As always, call (239) 461-5999 or stop by the FineMark office on The Island if you have any financial needs, concerns, or questions. We are always happy to help.

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Checking in on your Emotional Wellness

How are you? It’s a question we ask and answer routinely, but when it comes to our emotional wellness, are we being honest? Understandably, we don’t want to bare our souls to the friendly cashier at Publix, but are we being honest with those close to us or even ourselves? It’s usually more comfortable to say, “My knees are so painful lately that I can no longer walk the steps,” than “I’m really struggling with how much my life has changed recently and it’s taking an emotional toll.” Both of these scenarios are legitimate concerns and warrant conversation with those close to us and professionals. There is growing research on the interconnectedness of physical and mental health showing that improvement or

decline in one can lead to improvement or decline in the other.

According to the National Center for Emotional Wellness, the term refers to “an awareness, understanding, and acceptance of your emotions, and your ability to manage effectively through challenges and change.” Emotional Wellness is an essential part of overall health and significantly impacts quality of life. It affects how we think, feel, and relate to others and therefore, impacts our ability to carry out everyday activities, relationships and our overall mental health. When we are emotionally well, we are better able to handle life’s stressors and adapt to changes.

The National Institute of Health offers six strategies for improving your

emotional health: build resilience; reduce stress; get quality sleep; cope with loss; strengthen social connections; and be mindful. If your current habits in these areas need some work, commit to making a few changes today. If you’re feeling stuck and you’d like assistance, a counselor can help you get started and head in a positive direction to make meaningful changes. At Shell Point, we have clinical social workers in the medical clinic that are available to assist. Kathy Fratrick, LCSW has been with Shell Point for 24 years. Holly Orlasky, LCSW is a new addition to our team and has openings available. If you are interested in making an appointment, call the Shell Point Medical Center at (239) 454-2146.

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THE COMMUNITY THRIFT STORE FASHION SHOW

MONDAY, OCTOBER 23 • 11:45 a.m.

Grand Cypress Room

Get ready for SHINE, the annual Thrift Store Fashion Show! You will learn some interesting ways residents and employees “Shine” as they model fashions from items donated to the Community Thrift Store. Chef Justin from the Palm Grill will be serving up a delicious lunch as you enjoy the Fashion Show.

“The models will look amazing, the visual graphics will be stunning—plus you will have a wonderful afternoon visiting with your friends,” said Thrift Store Manager Erica May. “Get in on the fun by wearing something shiny to the luncheon!”

Space is limited; sign up at your Concierge Desk. Cost is $25.

The Menu

Ø Sparkling Lemon Ice Water and Peach Iced Tea

Ø Roma Tomato Stuffed with Artisan Greens, Golden Pea Shoots and Viola Flowers

Ø

Herb-Marinated Shrimp Skewer, Golden Beet Gastrique

Ø Lemon Tarte topped with a Glittered Meringue, Raspberry Coulis and Fresh Mint Sprigs

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$25 Shine

WHAT KEEPS YOU UP AT NIGHT? LET US HELP YOU GET YOUR ZZZZ'S

Navigating the New Worries That Can Come with Retirement

Wednesday, October 25 • 10 – 11 a.m. at the Grand Cypress Room/Woodlands

The next few years may bring a lot of change to the financial landscape. Let’s tackle those looming thoughts as we discuss options and plans for the expected and the unexpected. Join Jeff Muddell, CFP, Megan Marquardt, CTFA CFP, and Carolyn Rogers, CFRE of Sanibel Captiva Trust Company as they unpack the worries most people experience in retirement.

• What will really happen if I become incapacitated?

• What can I do now to protect my heirs and their inheritance?

• How can I leave a meaningful legacy?

• Who is going to look out and follow through on my expressed wishes in my estate?

• How will inflation affect my trusts for the kids? What about these rising interest rates?

• Am I prepared to handle volatility of the market?

• What can I do now to avoid Estate Taxes?

• How can I plan for rising healthcare costs?

• (Add your concern here.) We want this to be an open forum!

Come prepared with your questions—and instead of counting sheep, you will gain priceless peace of mind.

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ACADEMY OF LIFELONG LEARNING

Alzheimer’s and Nutrition

Retired Registered Dietitian Diean Rovenstine visited Shell Point to speak to residents about the connection between Alzheimer’s and nutrition. She shared since researchers have found that highly processed foods are detrimental to our brain health, we should instead focus on eating nutrient-dense, minimally processed whole foods. Diean suggested regularly consuming dark-colored fruits such as blueberries because of their high levels of protective antioxidants. She also reminded residents that it is never too late to make positive changes to our diet, which can have wonderfully positive effects on overall health and wellness.

Dennis Riggs—the “Honeybee Man”— is a registered Florida beekeeper and president of our local Beekeepers Association. Residents were treated to a “sweet” presentation and honey tasting about bee biology and honey creation. Dennis brought wonderful props, including a honey extruder, beekeeper outfit, and even a small hive of working bees. The tasting honey included one-of-a-kind Brazilian Pepper Honey and local wildflower honey. Everyone learned so much from this fascinating presentation and left the Grand Cypress room “buzzing.”

The mystery of the Bermuda Triangle has stumped sailors and shoremen alike as spooky occurrences seemingly happen more often in this spot in the Atlantic. Dr. Jack Thomas explored the area known as the “Bermuda Triangle” and helped us understand that this triangle is NOT a musical instrument; instead, it is an area between Bermuda, Miami, and Puerto Rico where there have been disappearances of both ships and planes. Theories currently suggest that the distinct circular currents that flow in this area may be the cause of the unusual happenings in this area of the ocean. Geologist and volcano expert Dr. Thomas will be back this fall for lectures on salvage diving, Christopher Columbus, Gemstones throughout the Ages, and the history of glaciers and deserts on Earth- you won’t want to miss this series! Keep your eyes on your Shell Point mailbox for the next great Academy brochure for more wonderful programs.

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The Bermuda Triangle

Looking Ahead

Register at your Concierge Desk for an exciting selection of Academy Events in Connie Brown Hall at the Tribby Arts Center.

ROLES OF THE RHYTHM SECTION

Thursday, September 7 at 11:30 a.m.

Connie Brown Hall/Tribby Arts Center

FGCU Professor Brandon Robertson will give an hourlong presentation on the roles of the Rhythm Section in a Jazz Ensemble, illustrated with musical examples.

THE 5 GREAT JAZZ RECORDS OF 1959

Thursday, September 21 at 11:30 a.m.

Connie Brown Hall/Tribby Arts Center

Professor Brandon Robertson’s presentation reviews the significance of the 1959 recordings and artists leading into the post-modern era of jazz.

THE GIFT THAT BECAME A NATIONAL SYMBOL: THE LIBERTY BELL

Friday, September 8 at 10 a.m.

Connie Brown Hall/Tribby Arts Center

The Liberty Bell, a gift to the people of Pennsylvania to celebrate the 50th anniversary of William Penn’s granting of the Charter of Liberties, was fractured three times and remelted twice during its initial 90+ year existence. FGCU Engineering Professor Dr. Richard Hertzberg will recount his visit to the bell’s 1570 London foundry and share how the iconic symbol for the abolitionist movement and the nation’s symbol of liberty has influenced his literary career.

RESOLVING THE MYSTERIES OF FAMOUS AND NOT SO FAMOUS FRACTURES

Friday, October 6 at 10 a.m.

Connie Brown Hall/Tribby Arts Center

Why do bridges collapse, ships break in two, planes fall from the sky, and bones break? Is it due to poor design, inferior materials, inadequate maintenance, aging, human error—or all the above? FGCU’S Dr. Richard Hertzberg will discuss some famous mechanical catastrophes along with everyday household fractures, illuminating their causes in the context of understandable certain scientific principles. The group will also participate in a discussion of an actual service failure that is bound to amaze and amuse.

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FGCU Professor Brandon Robertson

University of Florida College of Pharmacy & Shell Point

POWERFUL PARTNERSHIP

Shell Point’s emphasis on national, regional, and local partnerships stems from a commitment to enhancing care and bringing our residents the very best health and wellness resources. Through our University of Florida College of Pharmacy partnership, we introduced telehealth programs at the Larsen Health Center that empower residents with information about their prescriptions and improve the productivity of healthcare provider visits. Brian Sykes, Shell Point’s Director of Outpatient Services, hosted Dr. Janel Soucie, Dr. Casey Rowe, and Dr. Bradley Phillips as they visited our campus this week for in-person resident meetings and an educational presentation about the benefits of adding a pharmacist to your healthcare team. Call (239) 415-5432 for more information

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Brian Sykes, Shell Point's Director of Outpatient Services, hosted Dr. Janel Soucie, Dr. Casey Rowe, and Dr. Bradley Phillips

GRATITUDE THE CURE FOR NEGATIVITY

All of us are wired differently. Some people have a natural propensity to see things through the proverbial rose-colored glasses, while others view things with skepticism, looking for the negative in most situations. Interestingly, there’s actually something called “negativity bias.” Dr. Talib Kafaji in his book The Psychology behind Wellness and Illness wrote, “Our negative bias means that we spend too much time ruminating over the minor frustrations we experience in our daily lives, such as bad traffic, or a disagreement with a loved one, while ignoring the many chances we have to experience wonder, awe, blessings, and gratitude throughout the day.”

This explanation holds an emotional key for those who want to be positive thinkers but struggle with the constant battle of negativity.  The key is gratitude Positive thoughts written down or spoken aloud during bouts of negativity can become a lifelong habit that turns even the most negative person into someone who sees the brighter side of things.  Not all people are naturally positive, but they

are able to recognize negative thought patterns and take positive actions to flip their mindset.  Through deliberate practice and faithful persistence, we can master chronic negativity.

Here are a few practical things you can do to flip the switch on negativity:

• Ge t to the root of your emotions. Sometimes the surface issue that’s causing the negative reaction isn’t what is really bothering you. Get to the root cause so you can deal with the situation appropriately instead of negatively.

• Keep a g ratitude journal and write a list of things you are grateful for each day.  When tempted to wall in negativity, read through your journals as a reminder of the good things in your life.

• Ask yourself if there’s any lesson you can learn in the moment—something good you can take with you no matter how frustrating the situation is.

• Spend time w ith positive people. You are more likely to come away from a positive person feeling uplifted and ready to spread positivity yourself.

Often, negativity is a disguise for something deeper. Anger, regret, defeat, self-pity, or a lack of self-worth can be emotional strongholds that prevent a person from having a bright, positive outlook. When you recognize these deeper issues, you can deal with them through self-realization, spiritual awakening, and emotional counseling. Over time, you will replace your negative reactions with positive, thoughtful responses.

If you’ve let negativity rule your emotions, start today to introduce more gratitude into your life.  It’s one step toward emotional mastery that will make a tremendous difference in your attitude and frame of mind.

– ANN MARIE AGUILAR
When we pity ourselves all we see is ourselves. When we have problems, all we see are our problems….We don’t see the good things in our lives.”
BY JEFF CORY, LEGACY FOUNDATION

Tuesdays, October 3, 10, 17 and 24 10 a.m. • The Village Church Sanctuary

Each program will begin with talk on the topic, and then break into small groups for further discussion until 11:30 a.m.

Friendship with God – Janet Howard (Lucina)

Friendship with Family – Karen Schrader (Turban) and Dawn Herr (Turban)

Friendship with Others – Ruth Gray (Macoma) and Karen Hall (Nautilus)

Friendship with Self – Jan Barger (Junonia)

Sign up on Sunday, September 17 and 24 after the morning service at The Village Church, or by calling the office at 239-454-2147.

OPERATION

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Bless a Child This Christmas

With the holiday season quickly approaching, it’s time to start thinking about how you can fill a shoebox for Operation Christmas Child. Each year, thanks to the support of Shell Point residents, The Village Church contributes hundreds of shoeboxes toward this effort.

A ministry of international relief organization Samaritan’s Purse, Operation Christmas Child collects gift-filled shoeboxes that are delivered to children who have been affected by war, poverty, natural disasters and other crises in third-world countries. Each box – packed full of fun toys, school supplies and personal hygiene items by a family or individual – is sent with prayer that the child who receives it will experience God’s love through their simple gifts.

Are you ready to bless a child at Christmastime? Whether it’s a theme box or a collection of miscellaneous items, you can brighten the faces of countless little boys and girls across the world! Operation Christmas Child shoeboxes will be available in The Village Church lobby beginning Sunday, October 15 and should be returned to the church the week of November 5 –12. If you have any questions, visit www.samaritanspurse.org/occ, or call the church office at (239) 454-2147.

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The Beauty of Redemption

I’m writing this article officially under protest.

I’m protesting because summer (if there is such a thing as summer down here –aren’t we in a perpetual summer?) – because summer is officially over. And I don’t know where it went. But here we are in September already.

And I’m protesting on behalf of school children everywhere. I remember the day when we started school after Labor Day. By the time you read this our local pedants will have been in school for a month! There’s something wrong with that!

But that reminds me of what we usually did in elementary school when we finally matriculated into the next grade. We usually told of what we all did on our summer vacations.

Jean and I did have a summer vacation. Remarkably enough, our whole family – kids and grandkids – were all there. An unusual occurrence to be sure. We all landed in the West Virginia mountains.

What if I told you that the place we went was a land raped by loggers supporting the coke and charcoal industries in the last century? A six-foot layer of peat was open to the elements, dried out, and caught on fire by sparks from the logging trains, and the hills

burned for years, leaving nothing but rocks that had exploded from the heat. And then the ridges were bombed by Army Air Corp planes prepping for the invasion of Europe. That doesn’t sound very inviting, does it?

The place was Canaan Valley. Now right away we have a problem. When you see the word “Canaan” you’re probably thinking of the land of Canaan, the “promised land” in the Bible. And biblically literate people would

So, Canaan Valley and its surrounding ridges were pretty well annihilated at one point in its history.

But Canaan Valley is one of my favorite places in all of these United States. It’s a place of great beauty, extraordinary vistas, and a bio-ecosystem typical of Canada, with Spruce and hardwood forests, cranberry bogs, and more deer than people. And did I mention bear? Yes, bear!

It’s a lesson in how God can redeem even the most damaged parts of His creation, and in that redemption, create unsurpassed beauty.

pronounce it “Cānaan,” with the accent on the first syllable with a long ā sound. Not in West Virginia. The locals call it “Canāān,” with the accent on the second syllable. And not only that, the idea of a valley is a bit misleading. The floor of the valley is about 3,400 feet in elevation, and it is surrounded by ridges upwards of 4,200 feet. It is one of the highest “valleys” in the eastern United States.

But then again, that’s what God does. He redeems the broken, the damaged, the filthy, and creates beauty out of the ashes. That’s what He does with the Church. The Church is made up of broken, damaged people. We are all broken, damaged. But the transforming power of Christ changes all of that. God does that “...so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish.”

(Ephesians

So, on our summer vacation I was reminded of what God can do with damaged goods. With me. And with you. To God be the glory!

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The earth is the LORD’s and the fullness thereof, the world and those who dwell therein...
(Psalm 24.1)
“But then again, that’s what God does. He redeems the broken, the damaged, the filthy, and creates beauty out of the ashes.”
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Fall Missions Focus:

Pan-African Academy of Christian Surgeons

Friday,

October 27–Sunday, October 29

AFRICA. What do you see in your mind’s eye, or imagine when you hear that word? Pictures of beautiful ladies with their bright colored gowns and breathtaking hairstyles? Or mothers smiling with eyes looking shyly at the camera with babies peeking out from behind backs? Unforgettable!

Or perhaps you picture a child or an adult you may have seen on television, suffering from severe malnutrition, leg deformities, cleft lips or palates, or untreated burns. These are also images you cannot forget.

In Africa, 56 million people need surgical attention and care but do not receive it. In some areas, there is only one surgeon for 250,000 people. In other areas, there is only one surgeon for 2.5 million people! Astounding, isn’t it? As I read these figures, I reflected upon my many years as a nurse in Mali and Burkina Faso, West Africa. Working alongside other African medical workers, as well as other missionary medical personnel, we saw individuals who waited to come to the maternity to deliver their baby. At times, it was too late for a healthy baby to be born. On occasion, a mother died due to post-delivery complications. We often transported patients to a local hospital,

praying that surgery could be done to save both mother and baby. Because of these difficult medical realities, PAACS came into being.

Dr. David Thompson, a surgeon, and his young wife Becky were sent to the country of Gabon, Central Africa in 1977. His mission was to use his skills to improve the health of those living in that region. It was a huge mission; the small hospital at Bongolo was not what he had expected. To begin understanding the needs of the people, he asked questions about illnesses in the area before beginning to tackle the issues with vaccination programs, a pharmacy and a nursing school.

As the only surgeon in a 500-mile radius, Dr. Thompson was on call all day, every day! When he began to wonder how he could keep going, he prayed asking God what he should do. He heard a response in his mind: “You teach them.” He knew then what God was telling him to do! He chose one nurse and began training him as a surgeon to help with the surgery load. When attending an African missionary medical conference in 1996, he learned most doctors were experiencing the same need. He told the others what he had started, and PAACS grew from one surgical student to many! Now, 26

years later, there are 141 surgeons and specialists in 21 countries who are PAACS program graduates.

At The Village Church, we will have the privilege of learning about and listening to Dr. David Thompson, founder of Pan-African Academy of Christian Surgeons, a five-year surgical and spiritual training program. He will be joined by Dr. Steve Doane, a general surgeon from the Los Angeles area who has worked internationally as a surgeon and is a member of the PAACS Board of Directors. Together, they will share about the amazing work that is being done by surgeons all over Africa who have been trained through this amazing organization!

“Countries that don’t have even basic surgical services have devastating health problems. So good surgeons are necessary and good surgery is necessary,” said Dr. Thompson. “My hope is that our residents would live the gospel and change the health of the whole Continent of Africa.”

Please mark these dates on your calendar for the Fall Missions Focus at The Village Church! We believe it will touch your hearts, as well as challenge each of us to be a part of this amazing organization that is changing the world, one resident at a time all over Africa.

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FEATURED SPEAKERS

Dr. Steve Doane is a general surgeon in the Los Angeles area. He grew up in a family that seeks to follow Jesus and is thankful for his wife and three school aged children. His undergraduate education at Stanford University and medical education at the UCLA School of Medicine were followed by surgery training at Temple University Hospital and Thomas Jefferson University Hospital in Philadelphia. He has volunteered at hospitals in multiple countries, most recently visiting Cameroon and Malawi as part of the PanAfrican Academy of Christian Surgeons. An interesting personal note is that Dr. Doane’s grandmother was a member of the Shell Point Community from 1987 to 1993.

Dr. David Thompson grew up in Cambodia, where his parents were missionaries sharing the love of Jesus with the Cambodian people. As a boy of 14, he recalls his parents stopping at the side of the road to help a sick man. Despite the help they gave him, the man died, and this fact impacted Dr. Thompson’s life. He completed his undergraduate studies at Geneva College in Beaver Falls, Pennsylvania, then did his medical training at the University of Pittsburgh. His surgical training took him to Loma Linda University, in Loma Linda, California. As a young surgeon, he and his wife dedicated many years developing a hospital in Gabon, Central Africa, from humble beginnings. The Bongolo Evangelical Hospital has served the Gabonese people for many years, and it still is reaching people with the Good News of Jesus as well as caring for their physical needs today.

SCHEDULE OF EVENTS AT THE VILLAGE CHURCH:

As we meet and learn from these amazing doctors, you will have opportunities to ask your questions of Dr. Steve Doane and Dr. David Thompson on Friday afternoon, Saturday morning, and Sunday. All events in The Village Church unless noted.

Friday, October 27

2 p.m. Academy Class: “Medical Breakthroughs: Surgical Access in Africa”*

6 p.m. “Introducing PAACS: The Pan-African Academy of Christian Surgeons”

Saturday, October 28

9 a.m. “The PAACS Story” with Dr. Steve Doane and Dr. David Thompson. Continental breakfast served.

Sunday, October 29

10 a.m. Morning Service: “In the Name of Christ” with Dr. David Thompson

6 p.m. Evening Service: “Multiplying Godly Surgeons” with Dr. Steve Doane & Dr. David Thompson. Refreshments following the service.

*Grand Cypress Room, Woodlands

Dr. Steve Doane Dr. David Thompson
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Out & About

July 4th

Shell Point residents embraced the spirit of Independence Day with favorite Shell Point traditions. Neighbors cheered on their friends as they paraded through the campus, displaying festively decorated golf carts, cars, and kayaks. After a delicious BBQ lunch at The Crystal, the celebration continued with an all-American concert at The Village Church with Steve DeLadurantey and friends.

Cookie Swendsen (Periwinkle) Robert Kent (Oakmont) Carol Sperlak, Don Schorr (Cameo), Skip and Ruth Gray (Macoma), Monica Tyson Eloise and Steve Hoke (Sundial)
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Jeanette and Bob Lindman (Enclave)

National Pickleball Day

On National Pickleball Day, Shell Point’s pickleballers celebrated the nation’s fastest-growing sport with a residentorganized tournament at the Woodlands Center Courts. It was an exciting morning full of fun, friendship, and just the right amount of competition!

Coffee Pairing at the Blend

Residents stopped by the Blend cafe in The Woodlands neighborhood to sample new coffee choices, paired with a delicious variety of pastries, of course! After some sipping and a few coffee-themed prizes, it was decided that two favorite flavors, Coffee Cake and Southern Pecan, would be added to the Blend's "Flavor of the Day" rotation.

Darlynne and Fred Patrignelli (Cellana) Sharalee Dias (Cameo), Sally Leimbach (Junonia), Barbara Maling (Lucina) Dennis Nied (Nautilus), Walt McCollum (Oakmont)
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Ellie Grady (Rosemont)

Out & About

Let’s Set Sail!

All aboard the Sweet Liberty! A group of Shell Point residents made their way to Naples Bay for a catamaran cruise through its local waterways, but not before enjoying a delicious meal at the award-winning Boathouse on Naples Bay. Afterwards, the group was ready to board Naples’ largest and longest running sailing catamaran. Not long after leaving the Naples City Dock, Shell Point’s seafarers were on their way to sail the Gulf of Mexico for an iconic Southwest Florida sunset, while taking in the beauty of the homes lining the Gordon River along the way. With informative captains and first mates, the trip made for a perfect evening at sea.

Thea Martin (Springs), Judy March (Springs)

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