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FAQs about Domestic Violence What is domestic violence? A pattern of physical, emotional, or sexual abuse focused on exerting power and control over the victim. Abuse can take many forms such as: Physical violence Sexual coercion/force Controlling and possessive behaviors
Manipulation & threats Financial control Humiliation & degradation
What makes something a domestic relationship? A domestic relationship includes partners who are, or previously were: In a romantic or intimate relationship Married
Living in the same household Sharing a child together as parents/legal guardians
Are women the only victims of domestic violence? No. While women are statistically the primary victims, domestic violence can be experienced by any individual regardless of age, gender identity, sexual orientation, race, ethnicity, socioeconomic status, or ability level. Additionally, individuals within the LGBTQIA+ community experience higher rates of domestic violence than their heterosexual counterparts, and children of domestic violence victims are often considered secondary victims.
What causes domestic violence, and can abusers change? Domestic violence begins as a way to exert power and control over the victim and the relationship. These unhealthy behaviors may start off mild in the beginning and worsen over time, or may become apparent immediately. Often abusers will use different forms of abuse simultaneously to manipulate the victim into staying in the relationship. It is possible for abusers to change over time, but very unlikely. Once they have established control it is hard for them to let go. Victims of domestic violence should prioritize their own safety, and the safety of their children, over waiting for their partner to let go of abusive behaviors.